If one of ur closest friend hurts ur sentiments, then how do u deal with it?
99361
If my friend did like that i will sack him/her.actually a person who hurts ur sentiments is not a friend at all.Then how can u call them as a close friend.
807232
Be mature, but also be fun. When you see she's sad, go ask her whats wrong. Always try to help her out. When she's being silly, be silly with her, when she's being serious, be serious with her. Make your moods follow hers so she see's you can be whatever u want her to be. Spend some time with her, and when you get to know her, treat her lyk you'd treat any other friend.
661468
You can't just forget your feelings you need to talk about them and get them out.  Talk to a freind and tell them how you feel aboout that person if you keep talking about it you will start to feel better.  If you try to forget them you will feel worse.
153010
There are two ways you can deal with this situation, your choice depending on your own view over your relanshionship with that person, or your personality.\n1. You can confront her in front of the other housemates (not speak bad things about her behind her back) but rather say how bad she's been treating you, in front of everyone so she'll feel ashamed and possibly not do that again. If you feel you haven't won the confrontation in the end just say (be sure your other friends are there) "You are such a b**ch, you know that!". This is only if you feel extreme pain at what she did to you, and want to get back at her. BUT, if you're willing to forgive her, and you care about her very much there is another way to handle the situation:\n2. Usually this things occur when one person feels frustrated with himself for one reason or another and then she takes it out by lashing at other, let's say more "timid" persons, in this case you. It is possible that, that person has love problems, or other problems. If you know of her having one such major problem, you should confront her in private and talk about her problem, try to listen to her and be suportive. Try to find out if she has a problem from her other friends, If no one knows about it, it doesn't mean she doesn't have one (it means only that she keeps it to herself and because of this she becomes incresingly frustrated). So, if no one knows about it you should confront her and ask: "What's wrong?". Her first answer will be "Nothing", but you have to continue "Oh come on, I know something's wrong" and give your reasons "You have been acting strange all the time(for example)".\nSo, you have two ways to deal with this. You either can be caring and gentle, or you can be agressive and stand up to yourself. From here, it's up to you, and how you feel in your heart you should act :). Good luck.
1033493
Talk to your friend and tell him how you feel
1112267
Go for it... if your best friend is really a friend, she will understand and get over it.
528514
The only way to really deal with it is in your own way. You have to let yourself feel the greif that comes with losing someone close to you. Remember that you are in no way to blame for your friend's death. Many people belive that they could have done something to prevent it but the sad truth is that you really have no control when a person wants death. It's going to be a hard process that will take time because you were close to this person but don't try to avoid the feelings. Pay your respects at the funeral to get some closure and maybe talk to their family. They are going through the same kind of emotions you are right now and you may be able to support eachother. If you find that you just can't function don't give up and seek some help from a psychologist. Anyone going through this kind of greif can use someone unbaised to talk to so don't feel bad talking to a counsellor of some sort. Above all just give it some time and try not to bottle up your feelings. It will get better and you don't need to feel guilty when you start to become happy again. Your friends would have wanted it that way.\n\nTake care.
97040
If it really bothers you, find you someone that you can be happy with and let him move on to someone else and let them deal with him. Find someone who makes you happy and cares about you and yyour feelings.
522020
Sorry, there's no way to do it without hurting their feelings.  Plus, you don't like them enough to continue the friendship, so why are you worried about their feelings?  I mean, I know that sounds harsh, but it's true, isn't it?  This person must have done or said something you don't like or that you found offensive.  Bottom line:  If that person has hurt your feelings in the past, why spare theirs?  Good luck.
325044
Leave him the hell alone. You already crossed the line by expressing your feelings about the situation. What you need to do is get you some from another friend and get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
280052
You have to stop worrying about how it will make them feel if you were straight forward and whether they bounce back or not they should be considering your feelings so bring it up again and lay the cards on the table.  If they are friends like u say they are they should listen to you
1045275
just kinda bring it up casually and tell them how u feel and that u just had to get it off your chest and aslo its ok if they dont feel the same but thats how you feel
57553
you dont. you shouldnt ruin a good thing. be grateful you even have a best friend.
424688
Well this is going to sound really cliche, but if they are hurting your feelings then they probably aren't true friends.  But I bet you they don't have many other friends either, and they don't want to lose you as a friend.  \n\nIt's hard to know exactly what to say without knowing specifically what the problem is, but you might try saying "could you please stop" then explain why what they are doing is making you upset.  Here comes another cliche: if they don't stop hurting your feelings then you need to find new friends.
147322
First understand that your life must and will go on.  It's natural to keep your friend in your thoughts all the time, even talk to him or her, it'll make you feel better.  Think about the good times you've had with your friend.
405178
Right now i'm in that same situation. You have to learn to let go of all the bad negativity. That doesn't help when you hold everything inside. You have to learn to express yourself better. If you have a best friend or a real close friend. Share almost everything with them. If things bother you that people do let them know. Don't stress over the little things. There is a way to be happier all the time even if it's not you, but it will take some work. You have to look deep inside of you and wthink to yourself why do I act the way I do??
63818
I know exactly how you feel.. You just need to tell the person that it's ok to be sad about it.. and if they ever need anyone to talk to, they can talk to you and you will always be there for them.