kindly help me... can i lead a good married life? because even in my 23rd age i didn't get a girl friend?
109905
Close your eyes for a moment and say this prayer: Lord, help me find the right love, with the right person, at the right time and at the right place. AMEN...\n\nThis was my prayer then before I found my 1st boyfriend who is now my husband for many happy years. You have nothing to loose in prayers.
670775
I'm sorry...that stinks.  Tell people up front, how things are and maybe that will help.  Hanging around more mature people will help with that some too...Don't lose hope--you will find a girl that loves and respects you and she will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated:  like a wonderful person who has a lot to offer.
743836
Not all women are like that. You just have to slow down and let God do his job and help you to find the right women. There is a women out there that is just right for you, you just have to quit rushing it to happen. I mean date all the women you want, just don't try to get committed to them right away. \nI've been married 9 yrs. I got married at 18 and I have 2 great kids. Now my sister is the same age and she still hasn't found Mr. right. I am telling you just like I tell her it will happen if you let God do his job. God Bless and Good Luck !!!!!
466504
Realize what went wrong.\nThere is no fixing this if the marriage ended but make sure it doesn't happen again by not repeating past mistakes no matter who was at fault.\nPick Yourself up.\nStart attending events that interest you.\nSince you must be older , possibly look for senior activities even at large senior centers where you can go have dinner in the dining hall and talk with people your age if you don't have a strong friend network.
1142624
Continue to be as wise and well centered as you clearly are. Celebrate that and just get on with it.  First loves does actually work out you know.  I am 40 and single so not for me...........but I have 2 close friends who met their husband/wife when they were 14yrs.............so who knows.  love is a mystery  and all the better for it!
1084808
Wifey poo may not be keen on you hanging out with a female you just met. Get out there and look for a job. After you get the job, find yourself a hobby! (That doesn't mean hurl yourself down a flight of stairs in a box ---*L*)\nSounds like you also need a confidence boost. Never forget how unique and amazing you are!
930074
I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
128749
No.You wont be alone forever girl your doing the right thing.If I would have listened to my parents when I was your age I would have not had sex before marraige.God says "wait" for a reason.He knows that the men out here will not allways help you if you get pregnant,but when you married most likly you have a soul-mate forever.Belive me you doing it right.I'm soo proud to hear that sombody out there still has morals an still obeys God word.He will bless you with the man of your dreams,trust me.all you have to do is be patient and the right man will come to you.It is worth waiting for and not rushing.-E.
117271
You definitely needs an older woman.  don't go looking for smoe young thing because she will only want you for your money.  Find someone that you can enjoy life with.  Because they say marry someone that loves to talk because when you get old that is all you are going to be able to do....go to cultural things....mature events.....I don't know where you are from but look in your area for activities going on.....Church is a good place to start....but your heart must be in it for true......Good Luck.....email me  seagull50@bermuda.com
705999
First of all i must say you have a good head on your shoulders. You are going about the career thing the right way. First ask yourself if you werea  good guy where would you go and hang out at on the weekend. Second you need to join some social groups, places where relationship minded or marriage minded people will be at: church, helping the poor, tennis club(you get the picture). Dont believe everyone who says to stop trying so hard , that love will find you when u arent looking. Thats a load of crap. You must put urself in a place that will increase your chances of finding mr right. Remember though it all starts with your heart, listen to it and listen to your mind also and u wont go wrong.
853461
Sweetie, if the guy was married than you had nothing at all an if yall shared such a deep connection why aren't you with him now?Maybe what you should do first is get to know yourself first. Trying being alone and seeing what its like for awhile. If you feel lost because you don't have a man that makes others think that your weak. You should be independent rather your with someone or not. All I'm trying to say is that, how can you be devoted to someone who's already married? What would you do if the tables were turned and you were his wife??? Just don't get lost in the midst of needing someone, and having to have someone-figure out who you are and see how far that gets you!
1048219
Nice guys tend to be in nice places. You won't catch a brook trout in a storm sewer. Join a church or the Young Democrats or the Young Republicans or the Sierra Club. Volunteer for a work day at Friends of the River. Join a gym. Look for single dads at your kids' activities. Stay clear of bars.\n\nTake it very, very slow. Assuming you are past 35, from the list of problems, you will probably have to settle for someone 10 - 15 years older than you. It is an ugly fact of life that there are about 2 nice women for every nice guy out there, so the guys can pick and choose.\n\nMy wife works in a large medical building with a lot of nurses. We belong to a large church, and I work for a meduim sized-corporation. The lack of reasonable men is astounding. I know just 2 single men I would not hesitate to introduce to anyone. I know a dozen women I wish I could pair up with nice guys.
167795
just keep on being single and wait for the right person 'cause u will meet that person even if you get 50.in the meanwhile,keep having fun and getting laid,otherwise u will end up with a wrong person in a bed everynight until u die.would u like that?
1139762
Yep, you sound like you'd be a really nice guy to get to know. I'm probably too old for you, or live too far away, & I think I've given up on relationships anyhow. But you sound as if you have an awful lot to offer the right woman. I hope you find her & I wish you every happiness & every success!!!
658330
I don't know how old you are, but if you're under 25, you shouldn't have a girlfriend anyway. Play the field, get laid as much as possible, make whatever sacrifices you need to make in order to realize your career dreams. Regardless, don't bother trying to get her back. Sounds like you were too much of a nice guy and she got board. Time to move on.
58557
wats the need to get married so early?\n\ngive some time to urself..  enjoy life after u've become independent.. dont start thinkng of mariage as soon as u get ur first salary.. or may be u're still in the job-hunt or while studying in the worst case!\n\nideal age for marriage is 26-29  to be precise.. 27-28 yrs si just excellent. \n\nits always dvisable to get settled b4 u cross 30... but a lot of people overlook that.
752519
Not only are there but I am here as proof.  My fiance will be fifty next April and we are marrying next May.  She is not only intelligent etc. but also my best friend and I hers.  We met on line three years ago and although we both swore previous to this that we'd never remarry we now find that we lied to ourselves. Ha!  Really though there are a lot of fella's out there who are looking for the type or woman you have described.  Thing is though you may have to go through some of the ones that give the rest of us a bad name before you find your knight in shining armour.  Best of luck to you and I truly do hope that you find a good guy who will accept you for who you are.