i have two friends that needed to be taken out same time same day to the same venue on val what do i do.?
99674
why not make one a lunch date, and the other an evening date\nwhy same venue? you are better off proposing a diferent venue for one
930962
Yes it should bother you.  Dont be so selfish, suck it up and go to the wedding.  I am sure you can show up to both\n\nYou dont have to stay all night at the wedding reception.  \n\nIf you miss their wedding dont expect them to show up for yours.
894161
Don't worry so much. You should appreciate the offer that they gave  you. Don't be so shy everything might go well. Stay calm and just have a nice conversation with them. It shows that you're good to be with and they might want to ask you to come with them to another play another time.
1033726
TAKE THEM BOTH TO THE MOVIES
872754
Just say you can't make it on such short notice; you have other plans.  It's obvious that you weren't on the initial guest list and she's just trying to fill the empty seats of people who declined.  SO I wouldn't worry about hurting her feelings.
406414
Take them to a nice supper and when you are done drive to a different town and do what you normally would do bowling drinks pool whatever just go to a different place and do it it is better if you have to drive at least an hour good talk time. Good Luck
270140
Spit it out dude. What's the worst that can happen? Pick a good time and place, in advance, and then go for it.
425675
tomorrow at 12 and sunday at same time
1046143
u can order pizza or something else that u guys wanna eat and then rent a movie and watch it together. good luck
174121
what's 7 hr. drive if this turns out to b something really special??? why get your buddy in the middle? give it a few days and then call her...send a cute card..just to say"HELLO"..if its meant to be then where ther's a will, there's a way..best of luck to ya!!!
543929
Try to hold off reacting until you get a chance to see them a little better.\n\nNever make a decision the same day.  Always sleep on it.
281037
The host should be told right away that you have to leave. If you can't speak to the host yourself ask someone reliable there to tell the host for you.
1147294
I think your friend is right, you should send the invitations off early. There's no telling how many of your friends might be under the influence of paying bills, rent, or etc and money situations may be alittle short for some reason.  Jus give em a extra week or 2 too save up for the big bash.       (HAPPY B-DAY)
424948
You did impose upon the hostess.  The best thing to do would have been to go to collect your daughter and mention the situation and why she must leave early.  This would have given the hostess an opportunity to offer an invitation to your friends daughter without feeling it was foisted upon her.  If she did not offer then collect your daughter with the promise of specially recognizing the birthday girl at a later date.  Since this has already past I would take the advice of the other answer of sending a gracious thank you and invite the hostess to a dinner, or perhaps even a night free of children (babysit for her) since she had so many plus one!
132114
flowers.com\nGo to as florist who does same day delivery. but since such last minute you are going to pay alot of money\nor they are not going to be able to do it for you\nGOOD LUCK
587992
Pack a suitcase with one outfit for tomorrow. Put it in the car. Make a reservation for a hotel room with a jacuzzi in it and send some flowers there. When she gets home blind fold her and take her to her ravishing spot. Its all you from there bud.
874760
My friend is going to go. me and my finance will go.  we will probably get there around 1 or 2.  we will take turns seeping, with one person awake.  this way we will know when people start showing up.  no matter what time.  when people start showing up. all 3 of us get in line. this way we will be one of the first people in line no matter what.