are guys only attracted to a girl's body?
111645
No, perosnality is at least fifty percent for me, of course a great body does'nt hurt ;) Of course if you've got a great body, most of the people who are atracted to you only care about looks.
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
488560
it all depends on the guy. \ndifferent guys have different preferences, fetishes, etc.\nbut for me, hair, eyes, then the body.
295401
Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!
1076808
come on, you actually like a guy who only likes your body?find a guy who loves you wholeheartly
303732
i think its yes and no. it depends on the girl. i mean some girls look at guys as much as guys look at girls but some don't. like for instance the type of girl whose nose is always in her books studying, probably hardly spend anytime checking out guys. Then their are the type that love to party and have fun and love checing out guys. u wanna know what girls love to check out, well, they love to check out the ASS and the MUSCLES.
1040485
I don't know what you look like . . . . but from your question quoting you "i'm 'cute and funny'".  And if that is true . . . guys don't find you attractive.  Guys are initially attracted to the physical . . . which means you have to be hot - guys are usually aroused (not necessarily physically) when they approach a girl, especially when they want to get to know a girl.\n\nLesbians, I have a few lesbian friends, and very very few dress like guys and they are attractive.  But lesbians are not initially attracted to a persons appearance (in most cases) . . . it is usually their attitude or how the girl holds herself . . . what is the word I am looking for . . . her personality . . . which girls look into first.\n\nYou see . . . without a picture and using your own word . . . it describes you to me . . . and unless you were nude and bent over in front of a guy . . . he probably would never noticed you.  Change your appearance . . . if you have short hair . . . grow it long.  If you are under 5' 6" you need to weigh no more than 105 lbs . . . but it also depends on your shape.
261753
Its all down to the individual,most of the lads i know like a girl with a GSH and a big pair of boobs which aren't normally found on skinny women,i don't know wot puts someone in the "fat category" but if you are happy within yourself then others will find you attractive!!!!!
656752
The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
402398
Guys are all about looks.  Some like breasts, bottoms, legs, etc.  If you don't have the feature the guy finds appealing, you have no chance.\n\nGuys generally do not have conversations with women they are interested in.  Guys see women they communicate with as friends.  The women they like they either try to impress or pretend they are listening to them.  That is the unfortunate truth about men.
224225
Hmm...I find that most girls are attracted to a guy's personality. If he has confidence in himself, girls would generally feel more comfortable around him.
442436
guys are attracted to girls that are confident in themselves. my husband didn't marry me because of the way i looked or dressed. he saw my heart and that's why he married me. THat's the truth, ask any guy
674196
I know it is hard to believe at times but men arent always shallow!!  They usually go for a package of things that appeals to them as an individual - that might include a certain bodytype, personality, intelligence, character etc and usually a balance of them all.  Looks are often what attracts you to say hello - personality what encourages you to continue the conversation!!\nPersonally I am initially attracted to both tall and short girls and girls who  have athletic or muscular builds, as well as curvy or plumpish (i prefer the term volupturous!) bodytypes.  I dont tend to be attracted on first look to thin girls but if it was a nice girl I dont think that would matter either- as attraction can grow.\n\nThe confidence you have in yourself is important in attraction - a strong athletic girl or a curvy volupturous girl who feels comfortable with her body qualities and displays them that way is the most sexy of all!
191654
Certain gestures and postures make it quite clear your attracted.  Unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't sure that you're transmitting the message that, somewhere inside, they know you are.  Without words, it might take some extra time around that guy with slightly exaggerated gestures, and a good level of confidence in yourself.
127909
Ok, First of all a guys taste in women is just as definitive as his finger print. Me and my friends all have different tastes. And then it gets even more distinct when it comes down to what turns a specific guy on.\n\nI am attracted to innocent and classy looking girls. Quite, shy, introspective girls that are not dumb and don’t have too many hang-ups. Also the have to be some what good looking to me. I like them shorter than me. And smart so I can have a conversation and she can see where I coming from. A flat stomach is a must have. I don’t like tan girls. I don’t like them so pale I can see through them. Every other guy I know doesn’t have this skin tone thing that I do. But I have been with girls from all races. I can’t stand if a girl has an accent any kind. Now when I’m talking about shy girls I don’t mean nuns. I mean girls that are just more reserved on the average. And I like it when they are in to me. If they are sexually aggressive that’s fine that’s a turn on but not domineering. For the most part I’m a very passive guy. The girls that get with me are the girls that seek me out. But sleeping with these girls doesn’t mean there is any kind of relationship. I have also stopped seeing girls that I don’t intend to be serious with, just because I am looking for a relationship right now.\n\nWhy am I attracted or turned off by certain things? I have no Idea. I guess it is in our DNA what we like and don’t like.\n\nMy point is that just because a guy sleeps with you doesn’t mean he likes you. So only sleep with a guy if you want to but don’t do it to start a relationship with the guy. A lot of girls have done this with me and didn’t tell me. So they ended up getting burned.\n\nFinding the right person is very hard. We all as people are so very different in our likes and dislikes in all areas of our lives.  But people know when they don’t like someone. So move on after that.\n\nIf you are having trouble with a guy and getting him to like you then I think there is something else missing.\n\nYou should never have to work to get a guy to like you. I think the main problem where people get all tangled up is with communication. People have to tell each other what they like and don’t like. You shouldn’t be guessing.\n\nBut as far as guys? A lot of guys are not at that point in their lives where they are looking for relationships. I used to be one of those guys. \n\nSo you are asking what you should do to get guys to like you. I’m assuming. It is as simple as this… There is nothing you can do to get a guy to like you but if you like him and show him you like him. Then he might like you back. With most people it is about acceptance. If they realize that you accept them then that is the biggest turn on and quality that I could ever see a girl to have. also considering how worried we all are about ourselves when some one come along and is cool with us. Then I can't help but be cool back.\n\nPressuring guys to be in relationsips is also a turn off but this is where girls get messed over. Girls are with a guy they like but don't learn till is it too late. That the guy doesn't wan't to commit or be in a relationship. \n\nThe best things to do is let the guy know Right off the bat that you wanna be serious. Then he knows and there is know pressure because it is a one way street. It either is or it isn't. The pressure comes from being in the middle of some sort of relationship and then wanting to be serious.  the change is where the crash happens. if it is one way from the begining then there is no change to worry about later.\n\nI don’t know. I could be totally wrong. I hope this helps you though. It’s just my two cents. Laters 8)
312600
If you like looking at girls, but know that you have feelings for boys, then don't worry about it. I've always heard that the woman body is more beautiful to look at than a man's. I prefer to look at my guy's body, but that doesn't mean I would like looking at a bunch of naked guy pictures. It doesn't make you gay just by looking.If guys were pretty to look at, then guys would look at naked guys too. Guys are hot, but women are just prettier to look at.
756754
What do I find more sexually appealing in men than in women?  Everything.  Their bodies, the way they look & feel, and it's just what comes natural (the desire to be with a man)