iv had a crush on her for years what to do?
110959
First thing to do:  Use periods.  They help to end sentences.\n\nSecond thing to do:  Destroy her soul with the power of your inner rectum.
349663
Just let it go.\n\nTry to be happy for her that she has found someone to share her life with and let it go.\n\nIf you don't it will just eat you up and you'll never move on.\n\nIf you don't let it go you will never be ready to discover your Miss Right.\n\nLeave her in peace and work on your own life.  Get out and discover some new hobbies and passions...hopefully while you are expanding your horizons a lovely lady will stroll over and explore with you.\n\n:)\n\nPeace
609146
i don't know you, but are you sure you're in love, or just huge crush turned in to great like.  Love is a big thing.  When you're that young, girls are kind of afraid of "love." To them, it may seem that you only have one thing on your mind, because that's what girls are taught.  Get to know her, and become good friends. After that, when you're closer, see what happens between the two of you.  And remember, you're only in 8th grade.  If this girl doesn't work out, there are other girls in the world and she will not be the only one in your life.  Good luck.  Hope this helped.
241418
if you've known him and liked him for 8 years its time to find out and make a move or move on. I mean really 8 years!  I would guess that youve got to be in your 20's now to have had romantic feelings for a guy for that long. So go for it!
700981
When you meet the one you know it, period, you just know it. There is no way to describe how you'd know, you just do. If you seriously feel this strongly about her then yes, tell her. It'd be a shame to look back in 30 or 40 yrs and have regrets for letting the 'one' get away.....tell her.\n\nGood luck!
1163312
what were u doing all these years?why this sudden love towards your girls now?
353668
If it's been ten years and you've felt this way...go for it, dude. That's a long time to wait and I think it's for the best if you tell her. Otherwise, you'll spend the rest of your life wondering "What if?"
927478
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
683065
are you both single now? if so, tell her how you feel, take her out to a nice dinner, and see where things go.  If she lives 4 states away... move. Good luck bro, and if you are both single, take a chance, life is too short to always wonder what might have been. Good luck.
355503
let the past be in the past and move on with your life.....talk to her see if shes still botherd by it
296216
I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
418262
Don't feel guilty... she's the one leaving you remember... Just move on, if she really loves you or even likes you she will come to you. And find someone else to love or to hang out with, not someone that goes in and out of your life like nothing.
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
1016422
Be urself ! n move on .. may be she'll turn up to u :)
822921
Ok, this is a sticky one.  Can you put your 'crush buzz' to the side and see the reality of 'what if it can work' set in? It will be national news, everything will blow up.  Can you honestly see her having feelings for you as well? Do you think moving in closer to her would work out for the both of you's or just you? remember she is married for a reason. Here's the good news, you have found someone that has shown you your 'ideal' partner.  What might have got you to have a crush on her is as a teacher it is their job to pay attention and help students reach there goals.  I know your not going to get that with a lot of girls at high school, hey they are young and still learning themselves, maybe you are more mature minded and that's great you have discovered your ideal partner which is a mature, funny, witty and with a great personality.  But as a teacher, not a good thing to do.  Just look at her and thank her in your mind for showing you an ideal partner =)
622302
Put your hand down below do you feel two balls? Good now use them go up to her and tell her how you feel. Girls like men who are sure of them selves. Good luck. Tell her Listen _____, I have this huge crush on you and I wanted to know if you would just have dinner with me. So we can talk.....If she agrees you got your self on the right track if she says no. then it was never meant to be. It has already been 2 years don't lose your chance.....
440394
You use indistinctly "like" and "love"\n\nYou say you have liked her for a period of time so I think you like her and you are in love with her and you think you could love her.\n\nThe flirting and "stuff like that" kinder ruined it... but don't worry, you can still repair this!  You'll see... when your mum bakes yerr favourite cake and you smell it and you see it and you even drivel... the only thing you want is to take at least a nibble... but once you eat that first nibble maybe you'll want to finish up the slice... at the end you don't find it as attractive as the begining... at that moment you are satisfied and you don't need more... but surely, since it is your favouirte... you'll want another slice some hours later or the next day... but what if your mum hides the cake?  You will be very keen to have another nibble again.  It is a weird example, I know, but could help... 'Hide' the cake (=you) but in a smart way... don't run away and let her look for the pie... just don't show yourself as so-much-interested but keep yourself around her... so that she can realise how much she misses you... In addition don't let the other guy to outwit you.  If you go on your intent and she does not go on you and rather goes on the other guy... then let her go... after all there are many other women out there...  Though I understand the way you feel!!!