why is it when guys say "I love you", they break up with you?
105171
I think he was just trying to dump you easily. Though it sounds mean for him doing it, he was trying to be nice and blame hisself and not you for him wanting to break up. As for why he wanted to break up, I wouldn't worry about it because atleast you know it's over and you can find someone now that wants your love.\n   Good Luck.
70024
Because they're just upset that they broke up with him.
621644
When a guy loves you as a friend he'll say it in a playful way or when he does something funny that annoys you and he might say it. \nWhen a guy comes up to you and looks at you dead in the eye and tells you seriously that he loves you than he does.
908273
well why did he break up with u is it because he found out about ur x-b-friend if it's cause of that then well he shouldn't tlak to you cause of what  u did but then again u want o make it up to him then ok but if it's cause u started to fall in love with him  then you should somehting big for him i dunno i need more information aobut what u wrote well good luck!
1089697
You will know a guy loves you when his actions line up with his words: if he says he loves you and does things to show you this (like treat you with respect, take care of you, etc.), then he loves you.
66962
Maybe,or they are not ready to say I love you back.If they have said it before maybe it just depends on if they are at work or around friends. All you can do is ask why they prefer to say "me too".
81591
From what it sounds like, you are either insecure with your relationship and your position in his life, or you, deep down, want out of the relationship, so you ask questions that will in effect cause him to break things off, so you don't have to.
550177
Guys aren't the only ones who do this.  I think the reasoning is that they want to feel wanted.  This way they kind of broke up but can still claim a relationship while they seek or commit more time to another relationship.\n\nI had an ex girlfriend tell me whs wanted to "take a break".  I gave her a break, I dumped her.  There are no "breaks" in relationships.  You are either in or out.  But that's me personally.  If you want your space, I'll give it to you, and I'll find someone that wants me in their space.  Not anymore though, I'm married.\n\nHope that helps.
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
857891
He was right for breaking up with you because he wasn't IN love with you.  You can definitely love someone and have fallen out of love with them.  This has happened to me, so I know.  The love can be gained back, but it has to be by their choice.  They have to want it to work.  I fell back in love, but I really wanted it to work.  Hope this helps.  Don't push them, just let them be.  You know the saying, if you love someone, set them free....if they come back to you, it's meant to be....if not, they were never yours in the first place.  Good luck!!
87557
If you love them... why are you trying to break up with them??
1006121
it's sad but i got a guy ive known and he loves me so u can find somebody else if u said u have to take a brak guys think it means it's over so he probaly won't come back sorry it;'s the truth email me shelly0758@yahoo.com
649452
My man didnt say "I love you" till we were dating for 16 months.\n\nThats how I knew that when he did say it, he meant it.\nOther than that. Ask Jesus\nGBU
329922
Well...if you are driving down the road with him and he says it for no apparent reason (other than to let you know) he probably means it. It is hard enough for most men to say "I love you".....However...the thing that should be of most interest is if his capacity to 'love" is equal to yours
881294
Pretty much, if he liked you, why break up in the 1st place?
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!