why is it so hard to tell someone you love them?
108193
actually, its not hard to say i love you...\nwhat is hard is to find to right time...\neverything happens on its right time is excellent...\n\nwait for that time.
8726
It's an awe. When you watch someone and love their mannerisms, their words, the way their mind clicks, their reactions, their little idiosyncracies.... you realize that you are just in awe. We fall in love because experiences have taught us how to appreciate those things we see in another. Usually we fall in love with someone that has the kind of traits that complement what you have in your life. Love isn't really complicated. It's honestly so simple. But it's rare.....very rare. So once we find it.....we tend to want to cling to that feeling and that person forever.  :)
63475
im in a position like that.\nits really hard\nspecially when you think (you can see) she (he) loves you too, but both of you cant talk about it at all!\n\ni think its on you, if you can eliminate the distance, then tell that person, what you feel,\nand tell her (him) what are you going to do!
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
79256
Just tell the guy. I am in total and complete love with someone. I told him. Flat out. I let him know. And he said he loves me too. You just need to tell this person. Try to piece it together as best you can. Your feelings and everything. It doesn't have to be perfect, everything you say, but make it mean something. Let him know.
565163
no, if you can't tell him to his face that you love him then you actually don't love him. Loving someone means you have to feel comfortable around him. If he can't take you seriously, then he don't have alot of trust in you. Just try it and see what happens. Whatever you do, please don't write it
577935
Intense attraction, caring for someone, fondness, someone you would give you life for, a union or bond...\n\nand some say it does not exist.\n\nWhy is it hard?  \nTo love someone completely is to give up "you" completely.  Meaning you must put your heart into it, your soul, your very being.  There are no "time outs", no breaks in love.  Any divisions cause cracks in the bonds of love that can be so painful in a loving relationship, for both parties.  \n\nBut love is the greatest thing a human being can know.  It can transcend time and distance.  It can give hope to the hopeless, it can make people do things more extraordinary than thought possible. IE the Taj Mahal.  \n\n“Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end.”
248299
No, that's not true at all. There are plenty of other ways to prove to someone that you love them! Try flowers, or writing them a poem, baking them cookies, holding their hand....
355215
it takes time to know that you love someone. some people believe in love at first sight; i just think thats lust
1107991
Love is different to EVERYONE.  So it's kind of a hard one, but I've always gone with this one \nLove is giving someone the power to destroy you completely, but trusting them not to.  Good luck
94389
If he cant tell you that he loves you then there's a huge problem. Coz he shd be able to tell u he wants to save the marriage coz he doesnt want to live without you!
264704
In this situation it is very normal. If you are having a hard time showing your emotions to a person and you wish for this person to know what you feel, then I suggest you write it down. Write what you feel and explain everything to detail then give it to the person that you like. You should tell the truth to everyone that are important to you =)
459040
Maybe he really loves you, and is afraid that he will upset you, so he takes his time coming up with the right words to explain how he is feeling. (I do that when I am in love) Maybe he even gets a little embarassed of his emotions sometimes, most of us are raised not to show what we are feeling.
281001
whoever is closest too you and mean the most to you tell them first......bear in mind go gentle when you tell them...as when you do they will never ever forget that time and day.......but you need to tell those you love at least first........it will be easier for you too. and you can also talk it over with loved ones too. \ngoodluck, \nmay god be with you,\njp
310490
I do believe each people has his own way of expressing his love , but generally when someone really love you, he will pay more attention to what you usually do, he will phone you or text everyday and he will prove to be very caring,and above all he will show respect. Not neccessarily he has to say "I Love you" everytime, and i do believe also that people who say "i love you" too often come to forget the true meaning of these words after a certain time.
146683
It is hard when you are not ready to accept a negative response. Afraid of being rejected. But it is in trying to find out the truth behind your question if he love you. But if you truly love him, just tell him that you love him. You might be surprised of his rewarding reply, than not telling the words and regret later on. Just say "I LOVE YOU".
193455
Love can't be explained. It has to be felt, and not just with your heart, you must feel it with your whole body and soul. There is no question about whether you love someone or not. You just know it. You can feel it. You want to go the extra mile just to tell them that you love them. Love comes when you least expect it. So don't think about, and you will find it.