Would you sleep w/ a married man that's a preacher?
113758
That's just wrong on so many levels. Absolutely not.
711391
sometimes. but then again, it would be kinda weird to be a pastors kid. u know what i mean. ur supposed to be pure and perfect. u cant do anything bad etc. but he is sooo good to his kids. it is depressing.
159958
That COULD happen, and probably would to an ordinary guy, but if the preacher felt like God was sending him to go preach there, then it would probably be MORE dangerous to stay in the US and ignore God!
29217
If neither one of you is willling to make an effort then you've already lost this one, 50% of your married life is spent in the marital bed, more than any part of the household. If you cannot find sanctuary, salvation and more importantly fullfilment in the bedroom, then what else is there to hope for?
602399
If you believe in him, then there is not problem. You never have to go to church or even pray, as long as he knows you believe in him and love him, then your safe. Don't worry. I don't go to church either. So if i'm full of BS then we will be chillin together. lol
576093
I would ask if they are now willing to accept Christ as their personal savior. I would pray for them and with them no matter how they answer. If it was my husband, I would tell him how much I love him and promise to take care of our daughter.
80727
Unable to sleep wth desired partner.
546670
No but goes back to the bible. It is written that only a husband should know his wife in that manner. Meaning that you should Waite for marriage to sleep with someone. If it is against the Lord, if you follow his teachings then it should something that you are against.
525847
No... he is dreaming.  You have no more control over your own dreams as you do your spouses.  For all you know, he could be talking about his 80 year old neighbor that used to terrorize him as a kid, so now she haunts his nightmares.\n\nJust let it go.  It means absolutely nothing.
662243
Oh my GOD who would sleep with a dead person
1157136
I think he, as a religious person, should become involved in church social activities. He'll likely meet his wife there..
1172056
About 2,000 years ago there was a persecuter of Christians who stoned Christians and received a conversion and became one of the most powerful Christian ministers. His name was Saul, but after his conversion, he became the Apostle named Paul.\n\nYour husband is truly blessed to have a wife that will support his decisions. If he does become a minister, that will be a great quality in a minister's wife.\n\nMy Dad was a WWII veteran who went to Bible Institute after WWII and became an ordained minister.\n\nGod forgives all faults and while he is doing this out of duty, God knows his heart and will bless him. God also can work on the lives of the people your husband might minister to. \n\nWhile some may not accept this, most others will, especially if your husband is a man of integrity.\n\nI'd suggest seeking God's will for both of your lives. If this is God's perfect (instead of permissive) will He will work this out for your husband to be in a powerful ministry.  Whether it is as a preacher or just in a ministry, God will make the path known.
668860
LMAO!! Is this on your wedding night? If so, uhmm.. you might be too tired...
501762
break off from the ritualistsic traditions.\nThe Lord Jesus cant be found there, and Jesus would have no problem marrying you outside and niether should your pastor.
220397
Definitely.  Just call me Job. It is ok to argue with God. He gave us good minds to use, and arguing with authority is not a sin. However, refusing to do what He says I think is sinful, and usually He won't let you sleep until you do what He says...   :~)
213920
Jesus talks about His yoke being light. And He also refers to being the Churches bridegroom. (metaphorically)lol. \nBut when your married, a husband and wife ought to both believe. Statistics show that a marriage does better when they are in accord with each other in the same faith and passion. I dont Jesus was lieing. I am believer myself, and understand that a couple would a major strain if they are not a team in not standing together on THE ROCK!
837381
Should they divorce and remarry their extramarital lovers?  I don't know.  It's not for me to judge another person's life or marriage.  I feel that the problem doesn't begin with the affair; the problem begins with whether or not they should've married one another or not.  It's a step "not to be taken lightly", and those aren't just pretty words that the preacher says at the wedding.  He really, really means just that.  Are they really ready for a lifetime of putting another person ahead of themselves?  I doubt it.  \n\nThe man and woman are both at fault...the other woman and her marriage are beside the point.  We're concerned mainly with this marriage between the husband and wife you speak of, right?  The woman, being Christian, shold be striving to find focus and balance in her own life, knowing herself and where she stands, knowing her own shortcomings, and bravely turning around to face her demons.  Unless you have a good foundation (one's self) anything you build outwardly will just crumble.  So she needs to take a long hard look in the mirror and see that she is not filling out her potential.\n\nThe man, regardless of his religious beliefs, still knows right from wrong.  His wife, haranguing nag though she may be, is still his wife and deserves his honesty and a measure of respect.  If for no other reason than to appease his own conscience that he has done all he can do.  She needs to be given the opportunity to change.  He needed to tell her that her behaviour is making him so unhappy and lonely that he wants to find another woman to take her place.  We all want and need the close companionship of another special person as we go through life.  It is unfair of her to deny this to him.  If she truly cannot offer that to him, it is her responsibility to let him go.  Same goes for her, if the husband had been maltreating her.\n\nPeople are imperfect.  If we base our marriages on the expectation that the other person will always behave honourably and kindly and selflessly, we're in for a shock.  Our spouses will screw up.  WE will screw up.  If you don't make allowances for the frailty of human nature, and prepare yourselves for the eventuality of needing to forgive them for their mistakes, you're stacking the deck against yourselves.