how do u get a guy to notice u?
106809
I think "cacy_marie" and "Den" are the only ones that took this question seriously.  \n\nIf you wanted me to notice you, don't pepper me with a million pointless questions.  But DO ask me thing's like "what's up" and "i saw you doing or at... yada yada yada."  Also, it doesn't hurt to wear something nice, don't do the indecent Janet Jackson things the others are telling you.\n\n(And an extra tip, personally I am REALLY attacted to the innocent and nice type.  Play that to your advantage on guys like me.)\n\nGood luck!
31253
Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
528002
You don't have to change yourself to get a guy to notice you. Find out if he's interested in anything you are. Then work up a conversation from there. This last school year my friends and I  were anything but popular. Then just days after school ended I was at my friends house (yes the ones that are unpopular)  when we invited a really popular guy to go to the park with us. We had tons of fun and stayed out till after cerfew. It was easy to talk to him when I just took the time to.
959422
I would just conveniently make yourself be around him and let him get to know you... if it's meant to be then you guys will get together.. if it's not .. well, there are alot of hott guys out there ;) i've learned one thing with relationships.. either the love is there or it's not!! Good Luck with him :D
437057
Depends upon the circumstances. If you haven't talk to him before, make sure he's looking at you and simply smile. That will get his attention. If you already talk to him, simply say, "I'm thirsty, how about we get a Coke at _____?(name the place). Easy does it...start small.
383845
I'm just quoting a wise woman...\n\n"Just enjoy the life that you have. I think that the key to getting guys to really notice you is to be happy with your life the way it is. Make sure that you are complete and happy with who you are without needing a guy in your life and you will have them lining up for you."\n\n,-)
620516
Stand up for yourself, and don't be passive. If you make your good qualities stand out (maybe you are a good dancer, or singer, or maybe you make a great spaghetti dinner...) then he will definitely notice you. \n\nIf he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, then move on. You don't want to be the nagging, clingy girl who just wouldn't let go. \n\nGood luck to you, and remember that the MOST attractive thing to a man is a woman who is confidant in herself!
90103
OMG!!! this is a common problem, just do it and get it over with before you make yourself look stupid, trust me\nhere i copy and pasted a response to someone else its the same thing\n\nahh a very common problem...... don't worry about it, find an excuse to talk to him, tell him he has cool shoes, hair, or you like his shirt or something like that. It will always work. Then ask him where he got it and he will say something. Then you have the opportunity to talk about where he got it from and eventually conversation will become natural. See its just so easy. You also seem to have approaching problems. If you want to approach him you could try to take a friend along but no more than one. Also you could try hanging out near him, but not too close, and look at him and look away... look at him again and look away again... every now and then and see if he looks at you. If he does he is interested in you. If he still ignores you, you could try accidently bumping into him or something. Find excuses they make it alot easier. If you can build up enough confidence walk up to him and just start talking about watever.
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
874845
Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
1061052
ok i hav the same prob too, except, ive been crushing on a guy for alot longer, the thing iz DONT IGNORE HIM!!!!! If it seems lik hes tryin to get your attention, then give him your ATTENTION!!! If u really want to show that your interested then invite him to a party or something, or if your to nervous to talk to him then write what u wanna say on a note.
1111044
BE YOURSELF AND THEY WILL COME TO YOU!!! dont try to act cool!! cuz girls notice that kind of stuff!!!
240524
Let him come to you. Flirt minimally and just let him notice you.
672129
you cant get him to like you but you can in a way tell him that you like him\ngive him some signals, you know what i mean\n\nlook at him whenever you can, but make sure that only he sees it,\nthen smile at him, look into his eyes\ngo past a group of your friends just to say hi, its just as simple as that, make small talk, for guys to gals and tother way around, all the guy really cares is talking about anything, small talk is good\n\niunno, thinka something...... hope this was helpful
430351
a guy can get a girl to notice him pretty easy by the way he looks at her... try not to look away too quickly once you guys make eye contact, and then look away. if she's intrested in you, she'll probably look at you more to see if you are looking at her again... when guys do that to me, it works.. but then again, for some girls it might freak them out? just see her reaction. \n\nand then once you guys start that, you should talk to her. make it in a casual way; something that seems like an accident that you even talked to her... pick up something she dropped or something like that.
187207
Just keep talking to him.  Bump up against him when your talking to him.  At some point you may even have to get bold once your comfortable with him and make the first serious move of asking him out or holding his hand, or just sending him a note.
648269
strike up a conversation with him and slip it in while your talking if he doesn't like you the same then he probably won't notice or pretend he didn't, if he does like you he'll notice. Good luck