Wat do you do if your boyfriend don't talk to you..hardly?????
114784
If you have only gone on one date, he is not your boyfriend.
283891
How you ever tried talking to your boyfriend about it, sit him down, talk to him and let him know that you feel less desired when he is not giving you the attention, that he shows to others.
261587
have you try to connect with him? sms & emails? if so maybe he's busy or maybe he thinking that your relationship have end...anyway you must have a conversation with him to know how he thinking
1031763
I think you should give him some time, he might be working and busy or might be in trouble. And if he doesn't reply you after a certain time then go and contact him in anyway possible, he might need your help. Don't you know anyone else who lives closer to him then you.
941925
If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
1087093
If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
980785
sure, try again and leave it at that. you could say something like, "do you want to talk?"...if he doesnt respond, maybe he just wants some time to himself (or possibly he could just not be paying attention to his msn)...he's probably experiencing a lot of difficult emotions right now, and people sometimes isolate themselves in times of difficulty. he may need someone like you to talk to though, so i'd so try once again.
889008
Don't call him. let him call you.  email maybe once or text but don't call. after he gets the note from you, he will call you back if he wants to talk to you.\n\nhmm... but why can't you still talk on the phone?\n\ni'm sorry but if he is so singleminded that he cannot conduct buisness and a relationship then i don't see you beng involved very long.\n\nsounds like he's trying to break up, but  just because that happened to someone i know doesn't mean it's happening to you.
1104709
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
481821
i think HE should take the initiative...you need to know that he needs you as much as you THINK you need him....if he doesnt call or get in contact with you you will realize that he isnt what you expected....and a complete jerk....do what you feel will be good for yourself...
308054
Talk to him first. If it still appears that he is too busy for you, you've gotten your answer.\n\nIf he can talk to you, express what you are feeling and take it from there.
107016
ask him about his day and see if he is reluctant to answer, if he does not answer his phone often it is a bad sign, if he cares less it's bad, and talk to his friends, not asking direct questions, check his mobile phone if you can and see if there are any sms from strangers that are suspicious...
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
608582
Two days. Big deal. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's had a couple of rough days and was extremely tired. Maybe he thinks talking to you every day is too often, and not for lack of loving you either. Just because he hasn't talked to you doesn't nessisarily mean he doesn't want to.\n\nWhatever the reason, be thankful you talk to him as much as you do. Some couples have terrible communication, and never talk. Some couples have long distance relationships. You don't need to talk to him every day, and if you feel you do, then it is for a co-dependent emotional need on your part, not for the good of the relationship. Don't smother him, or you may drive him away. \n\nIf after just two days of not talking to him you are thinking of giving up, then it sounds like you are insecure in your relationship, and need to talk to him to reaffirm that relationship and quench your insecurity. The problem is, insecurity cannot be quenched by outside things, it is something you have to deal with from within. It's a you problem, not a him problem.\n\nAlso, you don't always have to wait for him to call you. Try calling him first, he may feel like he is putting all the effort in. If you call him first, it might seem like a breath of fresh air to him, and he will likely feel encouraged to call you more.\n\nHowever, if you just had a fight or something, and you know this is the reason you two haven't talked, then you probably DO need to talk to him first. Don't even nessisarily call him, go see him. Tell him how you feel, and listen to how he feels patiently, and work things out. Be honest, and be a good listener. Don't jump on him for a dissagreement, and don't be demanding of him, or whiney, or accusing. Work it out, then let it go, for the sake of your relationship.\n\nDon't give up so easily! : )
517793
I hate to say this but be very careful he isn't cheating on you. It seems strange that he would just stop. Maybe he just needs some spicing things up, but DON'T tie the knot until you get him to talk about things. Communication is so key in successful relationships. If he won't talk to you, you may have to move on. I feel your pain girl, I've been there.
341209
GET RID OF HIM..how do you expect to be in a relationship if you can't even trust him...and he doesn't trust you..
165062
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.