women: why do you always search for perfect men?
114407
For some women, we think the perfect man is the answer to all our problems. Thats why we will never find him. He does not exsist. A perfect anything doesn't exsists. I'm not going to find a man that has EVERY single quality that I'm looking for in a man, he'll have maybe 2 out of 5, but if there is potential I need to run wit it.
1147314
Well, there is a thrill in the hunt. Some guys see a beautiful woman, and don't think they have any chance at all in her being interested in them. And then if she does show an interest, there is an accomplishment for them. But, I will tell you, No matter how beautiful a gal is, most guys will run if they think she is High Maintenance.
586670
It is hard in the world to find a good woman and if you have one hang on to her. Women can be foolish at times and have their bad days but so what we do also. That young stuff doesn't really want you. What they want is the quest of seeing if they can get you.............
567410
I AGREE WITH YOU IAM 25 AND A SINGLE MOTHER AND LOOKING FOR A MAN TO BE WITH ME THE REST OF MY LIFE BUT I TOO SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM I BELIEVE THE BEST THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
431537
Oh hun,... because it is a myth. You can find a sensitive person (he's got rashes all over), or simply caring (he bought his grandma a wheelchair) or good-looking (ahem..) but to find all 3 qualities in ONE man? I repeat- myth!\n\n:o)
143823
Maybe a lot of guys are like that but every single guy is.  It's always worth it in the end if you wait to find the one that's exactly the way you want\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
1040940
I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
314633
women unconcisly look for happiness in an man.I went four years found one was happy and then lots of women started hitting on me because i was happy.Have that shine of happiness in your eyes.
1111821
no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
1017570
It's perfectly natural to want to find the right person. It's part of growing up and becoming a MAN. \n\n\nBoys treat women like playthings, but men treat their partners as equals.\n\nBut you'll have to be patient; you won't find the right person overnight. But one thing's for certain: if you don't put yourself out there and you don't walk up to a woman you find attractive and start the first conversation... who knows, she may have just been your future wife. Honestly, there aren't any real consequence of just being yourself; worse comes to worse, she'll just forget you. Oh well.
1062815
I don't believe that there are perfect men out there but I am proud to say that I have found the best and I am married with him. As far as I am concerned, there is no perfect individual in this world because all have flaws in their personality. You couldn't find a perfect man BUT you could possibly find the BEST. There are some best men out there, I surely believe in that. There are BEST's among the REST's... =)
1027469
Because guys always have numerous women to choose from.\nYour not that great if he a list of replacements ready to go.
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
80970
i think that questios depends on what kind of men they is. If those who wants to have a family its 90~100% they want a women who is honest and loving over beauty. But if those who are just wan for fun... is to be 0~10% that they wan those kinds...cause they prefer look and beauty... :P
386900
very dificult to answer. Some people spend their whole lives searching and never find a perfect partner.
211509
That's why you spend a lifetime looking because are no perfect men
13444
you will never get an answer that completely solves that question.  All women look for something different. some prefer the bad boy, while others look for a guy who is gonna lavish them will gifts.  The best thing to do is be yourself and know that somewhere (a) girl(s) are looking for the qualities you have.  Baseline though women want a man with a sense of humor, someone they can share interests with, someone who listens to them and generally cares about them.