how can stop people critize me?
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when people critize you ask these question\n\nFirst Are they right?\n\n     If they are right take steps to change yourself if you like\n\nSecond are they wrong?\n\n      If they are wrong ignore them\n\nThird can I get anything good out of their criticism like knowing my negative points?\n\n      If yes, make the best out of it
196169
The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
969000
Be a good listener,  and let people talk about themselves.  They love to.  But the real important thing is to really pay attention to what they say and try to see their point of view.  Express yours only if you are really sure about it.
568402
Omg, my friends did the same thing, but they are just kidding around.  They always make fun of me because they think I'm a perfectionist, but I'm actually not one at all.  Just laugh it off and if it really starts bugging you, pull them aside and tell them you're not going to dumb yourself down just to get the same grades as them, but you'd be happy to help them if they need it!
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Better to think about it while you can do something about it.\n\nDon't be a hypocrite, you have criticized others for mundane questions and answers, yet you post things that could be interpreted as abuse. The answers team might be watching you. Spend some time thinking about that.
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Don't worry about what the other people think, they are not important for the decision.\n\nYou have to undertake something where you are interested and passionate enough to enjoy what you are doing and put in the work required. \n\nIf you continue with something you dislike it will simply grind you down and you will suffer as will your study results.
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1: Don`t think too much, specially not what the others think of you. Breathe free and calm and enjoy of being you!\n2: Don`t rush with the answers - and all above.
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try deacff, dear\n\nwhy worry what other people think?\nnext time they ask you whats wrong, say "I'm tired of people asking me whats wrong! Thats whats wrong"
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Just listen, don't say much unless you REALLY need to defend yourself. Wait till they cool down and THEN discuss your opinion. I've found this is the best way to handle this situation. Because after you let them cool down they are MUCH more likely to agree with you.
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worry about what other people think
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Maybe the people around you perceive you as silly, or like you don't take things too seriously.  Sometimes there is a time & a place for things.  for example, you might not want to be too silly or joke too much when you're at work, you need to put out a professional outlook.\n\nAlso, do you procrastinate much? treat others rudely?  There are a few reasons why someone would call you that.  Maybe you should be a little more considerate, learn how to listen, treat others with respect.\n\nSomething really important should be...that you don't have to change who you are for anybody.  If it's your nature to be silly, goofy, you know what, those are unique and wonderful qualities to have.  Definately think about how you treat others, and think about what kind of responsibilities you have, and if you meet the expectations of those who need you to get things done.\n\nNever change who you are, just upgrade to be the best version of yourself you can be!
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Don't let them get to you!  Be yourself and do whatever you want.  You should not let other's opinions keep you from doing the things you really want to do.  I know it's hard but with time it won't be a problem.  There are people out there who like you for who you are!
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I have the same problem as a writer.  I haven't totally gotten over it either, but here are a few suggestions:\n#1: If someone criticizes your work, remember that they're criticizing IT, not YOU.  Learning to distinguish yourself from what you do can really help.\n#2: If someone criticizes you, think about how much you really care about their opinion.  If they're just some random person, why do you care what they think?  If you care about them, but they're angry, they probably don't mean it.  \n#3: Take it in perspective.  Just because you can improve on something doesn't mean you're not a great person.\n#4: Tell the person how you feel.  Sometimes people don't mean to be as harsh as they are, or assume that you're not bothered.
618807
Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
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just ignore them, those people are trying to make ur self esteem down, have confidence in urself. and don't allow anyone to degrade you.\nIf you had to answer then tell them:  Yes I am mad because I allowed myself to talk to someone silly and  shallow like you.
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continue to act like you dont care, and soon you wont care, but it shall not be easy.\nshake'em haters off
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Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(: