What do i do to get attentiom from my crush?
102540
go strait up to him and ask if he likes u if he says no and is still being shy about it go out wit 1 of his friends that might get his attention i kno it would get my attention hope i helped
599484
you should try to become Friends with her once ya'll have be come Friends and she can tell you anything and not have to worry about weather you will tell someone else ya'll are close Friends. Get her phone number tell her you just want to be freinds with her and then when you have the strength tell her your true feelings. tell her your not like other boys you are not dating her for her looks its her personality aka funny, smart, creative, just being you that allows you to like her. If she looks directly in your eyes she likes you and may say no but keep trying she will come around. I do it every time. my email chinablucats@yahoo.com
242133
Be honest with him...if you really doubt about your crush feelings toward you,you should have the courage to ask him or else your feelings about him is useless!!! Theres nothing wrong in telling him that...its much better if you ask him straight than to leave that feeling to disappear into thin air.\n\nYou can do it!
649910
Do not self sabotage yourself! If he is talking to you, regardless, if its to get close to you or your friend, the ball is in your court, play it!!! Make sure he sees what a great person you are when your talking to one another. This is to your advantage. And as far as that friend goes, I think she is a secret admirer of yours (not in the gay way). Apparently, she probably thinks about you like you think about her. They say "coping is the highest form of flattery'!!! I know its annoying, but there is just one you and people are quick to pick up on who is the "copycat"! Now lets work on your self esteem. If you think your the things you wrote in your question, you will be that person. You have to believe in yourself. You have to promote self confidence. You are waaaay to hard on you! If there is something about yourself that needs changing, do it. There is so many tools a woman has access to in this day and time, not to achieve exactly what she needs and wants. So, start small and work up. Try to tell yourself during the day, "you are pretty, and interesting, and deserve as much or more than anyone you know." After awhile, you will look in the mirror and that person, you have been talking about will be there! I promise!!!
521698
try something simple telling from your avatar you seem very caring and nice guy so just act yourself go up to her and say "I'm sry to bother you I just couldn't stop staring at your smile and your eyes....."\nIf thats too complicated to say at first heres something easier " Omg I can't believe what happened today in class" if she has a class similar to you this will work great or even if you have to bring up something in general that everyone seen. for instince a fight..... you could say and then just keep a steady converstation and tell her that maybe she'd like to see a movie nothing to drastic at first and go from there ..... Good Luck
1172808
never fear,your answer is here.The answer you need is simple,It will not make you look bad,It will not hurt her and she will never have to know that you could ever be so sorry that you would stoop that low as to try to lie to her or try to get her to see ot think something that is actually false.All you have to do is know her.Know what she likes,where she hangs out at and what she likes to eat,wear,music she likes,etc.....Find little ways by using what you know about her to show her that you care.become a true friend to her and talk to her about things she likes,show interest in things that she likes but never let her know that you knw that she was interested in this.eventually she will realize and see that you can be a pretty nice person and you will eventually do something that really catches her heart.You just have to let her see for herself,Hey I would really like to be with him...
145400
tell her of course i would like to help u but 1st tell her how do u feel about her maybe she feel the same to you maybe she say that to make you feel jealous to see u how to react about that .if she dosn`t like you or she won`t to go out with you tell her that our friendship is the most important thing to you and i am glad to help you with that.write to me soon to find out what have u done my e-mail is nana_nona_nana2000@yahoo.com
270619
u should try using the direct approach start a simple conversation and during the conversation tell him u have a crush on him
63642
Tell him that you like him, and want to go out. I always used to tell my crushes that I had crushes on them. I'm shy, just try it. It'll be better than not saying anything at all. Trust me, you don't want to miss the opprotunity. This might be the one for you!
375362
If you like someone you should tell him what you think. i was once given something that may help here it is:\n10th Grade\nAs I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so-called "best friend". I stared at  her >long, silky hair. I wished she were mine, but  she didn't notice me like that. And I knew it. After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before, and I handed them  to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the  cheek. I wanted to tell her. I wanted her to know that I don't want  to be just >friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\n11th Grade:\nThe phone rang. It was her on the other end. She was in tears mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I  sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, a Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks," and  gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't  know why.\n12th Grade:\nThe day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick," she said. He's not going to go. Well, I didn't have a date and >in 7th grade we made a promise that if neither  of us had dates we would go together just as "best friends," so we did.  Prom night:&#92;\n after everything was over I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her. She smiled at me and stared at  me with her crystal eyes. I>want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said, "I had the best  time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why\nGraduation Day: A day passed. A week passed. A month passed. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. i wanted her to be  mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and she cried as I hugged her. Then, she lifted  her head from my shoulder and said, "You're my best friend, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\nFew years later:\nNow, i sit in the pews of the church. She is getting married, now. I watched her say, "I do" and drive off to her new life,married to another man. I wanted her to be mine but she didn't see me  like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me  and said, "You came!."She said, "thanks!" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why.\nFuneral:\nYears passed, and I looked down at the coffin of the girl who used to be my "best friend." At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he were mine. But he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him. I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love him, but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me .I wish I did too . . . I thought to myself, and Icried.
367557
dude an awfull story.well u can just do one think in that case that go to her and tell her that what she wants from u. r u not handsome .just tell her about ur feelings to her and then also she ignorrs u then just ignore her for a weak or a month.then sea the resalts
647378
Do u have her e-mail if u do tell her. and if u don't  give a letter to her about it and tell her it's very important. If u really like her don't hide ur feelings girls r very understanding about these things. So relax. I hate to b rude but if u truley love like u say u do confront her but sit down and start like I need to tell u something important. And from there I think you'll b good
837814
well swearing off love altogether probably isn't the best solution, as for the crush, I would tell him how you feel espeacially if you think he may feel the same way but doesn't think you do
397675
What you can do, is to go to their friends and ask them who she likes. A direct confrontation is not the best answer. She'll feel challenged and will be offended. First, you start with subtle things. Does she come to talk to you often? Look at you often? But these clues could be misleading as well. Use your judgement. Ask her friends.
233871
You act on it because Crushes are a lot like poison ivy or chicken pox. They'll drive you nuts until you attand to them. Go get him! Life's slipping away as we speak. Go!
1166647
lol sorry it's just i will do the same when i was in elementry. well she's acting like that cuz she's afraid to tell u that she has a crush on u. if u want her to stop w/ all this tell her in a nice way but some where were u both can be alone. cuz less embaressed ment for both of u.
248030
You really want to know how to piss him off or get him jealous...Are you sure? Okay next time your at a party..or at school..do not talk to him the whole time pretend you don;t even know he is there.. go up to the ugliest guy and start talking with him near by.. He is gonna wonder why in the heck are you talking to a dork... just drape yourslef over him.... that should piss him off..