Theres this girl in my gym class who tells me to work harder.....?
101537
tell her to work harder on minding her own business!
976534
Yes, you are wrong.  She is teaching a class and perfectly within her rights to outline classroom conduct expectations.\n\nYou are argumentative with your back talk and your refusal to do things the way she expects, which is distracting to the other students.\n\nAnd now you want to get "cute" and dissect the class syllabus for "contract infringement."  Give me a break.\n\nNot only is she fully within her rights to penalize your grade but she can expel you from the entire class.  \n\n \n\nYou say you are "grown up" but you are not, you have a lot of growing up to do.  I suggest you take responsibility for your own actions and obey the rules of the class.\n\nPeace.
1181800
Your friends encourage her to do it? Sounds to me like you need to get new friends.
47041
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.
338220
What she is saying is a mirror of her own behaviour projected onto you without any thought about the damage she is doing.  \n\nThis person needs to be treated with the same disregard that she shows you, if she does it again just remind your self that you do not have to defend or justify who you are to this girl.  This is typically girl bullying behaviour and as such you need to tackle it as you would with any other bully.  \nShe is defiantly jealous and scared that you might be better than her, so in a way its a compliment that she takes the time to nit pick your personality, almost bordering on an obsession perhaps that needs pointing out to her.  \nDon't let her take away your confidence you are the nicest person you know and you should not take her opinion on board after all she just passed judgement on a wonderful person who might one day be her boss....
165544
it sounds like you are doing really well, but what you need to do is worry less about impressing her and more about making yourself happy. if you are improving yourself for your own well-being, she will recognize that and in turn, will be impressed. don't try so hard, sweetie. be you.
806441
I know how you feel. When I was in college I was given a tonne of homework to do. I guess you should tell her that maybe she can lessen the load, but if your in high school don't expect any sympathy. They will just tell you to do it or get a zero.
90681
First, go to English class and learn to punctuate correctly so that it is easier to read your sentences, then KICK HER BUTT!
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
655302
Oh God, it seems we all have friends like this. Don't you just wanna punch her? Anyway, you can't act like it bothers you, 'cause she'll get some major satisfaction. Even if you feel like you wanna roundhouse kick her like Chuck Norris, stay calm. Remember, you've got more class than she does. \n\nHopefully, it'll work out where he guy won't pay attention to her. Be sugary-nice - eventually her fakeness will come out. Mean girls never win. =]
919824
Um.. Yes, this is weird, but maybe you should try and act nonchalant about it. Maybe she is trying to give you a hint that you are too clingy. Back off a bit bro. Don't be so over aggressive, like "OH MY CRAP WHERE DID YOU GO!!" Every 5 min.
1046071
If you're paying for a gym you should go, just go for a half hour, do some cardio, or get a class schedule and go for a class.  You're already paying for it so get going!  You'll feel better once you get back in there, go girl!
228362
chase them. they'll be impressed by your stamina and what not. or you could bench press her but she'd probably be all like "put me down! put me down!"
211695
She sounds immature.  This is called "playing games."  If you want to stoop to her level- tell her you're hanging out with a girl tonight.
637703
If she has a boyfriend then she's out of bounds, some people don't mind harmless flirting, but she's training you, so it would be like going out with the boss who has a boyfriend. Plus if your paying her as your fitness trainer then she doesn't want to tell you to leave her alone! Nope, steer clear of anything oother than trainer/learner!!
365505
What is the situation here? School, work, gym?\nIf it's the gym or school, then yes, probably she does like you. Work, maybe she does, but it could be friendliness or professional courtesy.\nA lot of times girls don't even know how beautiful they are, and so are very shy. Besides, maybe she thinks your hot, maybe you don't know how attractive you are. Everyone has their own idea of beauty, so don't assume she's out of your league. Smile back and see how she reacts. Then try talking to her. I know the last one is difficult, but try anyways. The worse that will happen is that she won't be interested. No biggie.\nIf this is a school situation and she's just being friendly, she doesn't sound likely to go tell her friends about you or make fun of you or anything. If she smiles at you, she's probably too nice for that petty crap.
987288
Sounds like she has a crush but isn't sure how to approach you...she is probably wanting you to make the next move...