I am not trying to be mean...?
103940
I agree with you I don't like much rap either. They all sing about the same things. Sex, women, and money.
430789
I agree. Some people are mean because they have low self esteem and they are trying to make themselves feel better by putting someone else down. I agree with you, it's not nice, but we can just be nice to them and they will have nothing to be mean to you about!
287757
Am I suppost to care???
804653
maybe your not making it stong enough for him.just tell him straight out,even if you got to be mean about it.i know you dont want to,but sometimes it takes that to get the point across.
676398
i don't think you can be too nice.... there's not enough nice people out here in the world as it is..... but you can't let people run over you either.... people tend to see niceness as a weakness.... but whatever.... continue being yourself.. and if that's nice.. then be it.... just don't take no crap from nobody
636673
No, you should never be offended. It just shows weakness and a lack of understanding on your part.
36259
Nope, and if you want to get a person back for being mean be nice to them.  And don't try to get the last word in.  It eats away at them, which is mean but no one can accuse you of being mean so you're not mean.
1093744
No, you did not mean to be rude and you were NOT>\n Psoriasis is a horrible looking skin complaint ,\n though not catching \n\nyours  re-action , was  understandable  and  natural .\n You did follow up, with a hand -shake, \n\n THIS  shows you had no intention of being rude .. But  were your usual friendly self .\n\n i am sure the guy with psoriasis ,understood your honest initial, reaction \n\n Your other friend, i believe is a bitch, for thinking you were being rude .
1051117
that is fine... you are not related, and many people wind up doing that, there may be people who don't think it is fine and will ridicule you, but as long as you are ready for that- Good Luck!!!
500119
i'm 43 and i'm not mean at all. i never ententionally hurt nobody so they wont do it to me. i am recently single and even though i met someone who i can tke full advantage of-money wise- i won't cause it's wrong. so take me out of your poll cause i'm one of the few good ones still out there.
535240
I don't think they are rude.
1007056
Sorry, I didn't mean to offend you. Again, my apologies.
599752
Sweetie, there is nothing wrong with being a nice person. Nothing at all. And you can still get what you need/want by being a nice person. Sometimes though, you have to assert yourself. That doesn't mean being a B*tch. That means the next time you go to check into work, and someone butts in front of you, or the person checking you in lets someone get ahead of you, you simply step up and say firmly and politely "So sorry, but I was here first". Being assertive and getting what you need is not being mean. Sounds like you almost have a case of being too nice. Don't let people push you around. Unfortunately some people percieve kindness as weakness...Prove them wrong.
927528
be assertive not aggresive\nthat is my way of handling this situation
372530
I am in the middle of the road on being politically correct.  There wouldn't be any comedians out there if they were politically correct. So, no, I'm not easily offended. =)
364259
I'm not mean to you. I see a lot of people on this site have been very mean. They are just ignorant and immature people if they have to be mean to someone, especially over the internet. Some people don't care if they hurt other people's feelings or not. I can see from some of your other questions that you are feeling sad and depressed and I know the last thing you need is for some idiots to add fuel to the fire. I hope things really get better for you soon.
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Why do you feel the need to call people out in such a way. I don't enjoy talking to ignorant people myself but we're on a public website and I wouldn't call anyone stupid. I'm not trying to be mean but that's rude not mention it makes it seem like you feel as though you're superior. \n\nMaybe people talk the way talk and spell the way spell and think the way think because they weren't given the proper tools as young-lings. Just maybe, you should try to know some of the people that you feel are stupid and you might see them in a  totally different light. I feel you on being annoyed by ignorance, but sometimes people need a break because of their upbringing/schooling or lack of. Feel me?