I have a guy friend that calls me all the time and wont give me space. he is so obsessed that he bought me an?
106243
I can tell you don't have enough space even to fit what he bought for you. I guess you need to get another guy friend that comes with more space.
505646
Well he is infatuated with you, in one way or a next, he may become very jealous if u get a new boyfriend, and may become a stalker of sorts, the best thing to do is get a new boyfriend thats a big guy and tell hiim to deal with your ex (intimadate him a little)
769898
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
896609
Honey, at the risk of sounding mean, you have to get a life! You both do! If you tell him that you need some space, he will think he did something wrong.You should probably back off slowly and encourage him to hang out with his friends or do other things, while you do your own thing . Good luck!
746265
Two words GET OUT. This guy is a looser. He wants to control you by making you think you need him to survive. Without him you will crumble. He is trying to make you dependent on him. Looser he is a leach and needs to go. Fast
615949
I think that you better leave him alone and give him the space that he needs right now or you may drive him even further away. If he cares for you at all he will come around in time. you need to try making other friends to get your mind off of him for a while. A lot of guys don't like it if a woman gets too agressive, it will scare him away.
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
186883
Id call him out, sounds like that guys a dick.  Hes blatently ditching you for a problem girl, but guys are guys about chicks. He'll come around when she screws him over again, till then cant tell you what to do other than wait and see. But if he ends up booting you get at least some of that money back.
165791
Your "possessive" ways pushed him away, and you "constantly calling" him when he says he doesn't want you to actually comes close to STALKING,..and stalking is aganist the law.\n  \nYou say you will change for him, but changing for someone \ndoesn't work, and he seems smart enough to know that.   \n\nIf he should call you talk to him, but I doubt that he will, so I wouldn't sit by the phone waiting for a call that's not going to come.\n\nGet on with your life.  There are plenty of "fish in the sea". But first you need to seriously work on overcoming your "possessive" ways, which comes from being "insecure".  Learn to "LOVE YOURSELF", because you have to love "you" before you can love someone else.
930211
it seems like your friend is not really appreciating the real you, only the money you have. when a friend is like this, it hurts, because i know from experience. this friend of yours is a definite user. she only gives you phone calls when she needs an extra 20.00$ for a pair of cool shoes, or a ride to the mall. does this sound familiar? than you've definitely got a friend who is a user on your hands. talk to your friend, heart-to-heart, and explain that she is using you and your feelings have been really hurt by it, but you may still want to be her friend, especially if things work out well between you two. if she understand sand stops the nonsense, than you'll probably stay friends. if not, don't deal with it. tell her that you can't really be good pals anymore until she changes her ways- for good. those kind of friends don't last anyway!
1167340
it's a two way street. any relationship, both partys have to do their part to keep it alive. In your case, doesn't sound like a friend to me. He just wants to use you as his little slave to go fetch things for him. Just imagine if it was a death matter, would he come to your aid? only you know the answer to this. so ask yourself if you want to be friends with him for the rest of your life or, move on. you'll find other frinds who treat you the way you should be treated without asking them. don't pay him any more attention. go your way and do your own thing. if he really has a brain and cares about your feelings, he'll apologize. if not, you'll understand, hes just plain SELFISH. good luck
196440
If you are not in a relationship, then the line has already been drawn.  He's overstepping his boundaries, and needs to be put in his place.  If he's possessive and you're not in a relationship already, please don't get into a relationship with him.
206506
Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
1069913
If this is the case, he is selfish and thinks of himself only. He should put you before his friends or himself. Of course, he should be allowed to have friends but not ignore you in the process.
179235
he's making u think ur his g-friend but in reality he's just using u for what ur giving him or for what ur going to give him. and he is prolly doing this because he figures u are young, nieve, vulnerable, and gullable. he's thrown u hints already - by him not labeling u as his g-friend and by avoiding a commitment with u. so u cant be completely mad at him since he's being slightly honest.
193688
Maybe he realized that he crossed the limitations...he has cross the off-limits zone..Judging from the way you reacted it seems that you kinda missed this guy,right??? If you still wants to be his friend call him and tell him directly that you're just Friend so that he won't cross again. If he will not talk to you, then fine the least you can do is to let him know that you want him to be your friend.
315188
NO! you need to find out why you can't let go! you sound like a stalker. move on with your life. if this person give a damn about u they will contact u when they're ready.