how do you feel if somebody is trying to control you?
109411
Guilty,angry,hurt emotionally,drained,depedent Helpless,worthless,alone Lonely,sometimes scared, and I could go on but I think you catch my drift.\n\nI think you should add more details to your question if you are referring to your landlord situation.  Most women are going to take this as a personal question. As did I.
673416
Because they seem to get this crazy idea in mind that just because they've had you they own you. Going through the same with mine at the moment. I feel your pain. lol
495859
Imagine someone having total control over you and beating you senseless if you asked questions.
338894
love /hate yes i deal with it every day... it suxs... but its a reflexing of the pass or how you are doing really.. No one can make you feel a certain way... you are your own person. kindness is the best thing to do.
695035
It means she's through with you and she's playing a power game.  She's trying to take control of her life and take what she feels is hers so that nothing of herself remains in your possession.  She is really angry with you and wants to make sure that you don't have "any" part of her.  It's not a good thing, unless of course your were less than nice to her?
1110887
its show that u r in control and a stronger person..\n\nits feel good rite
570470
Did you know all this before getting involved with that person? If so I can image he does feel that way. If not than maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought. You can only do what you feel you can................
235342
go with your gut feeling to be on the safe side. usually that feeling is right. if you feel that strongly about someone lying to you, definatly confront them and talk it out. yes that persons going to get upset and deffensive but you have the right to know if you suspect something going on behind your back.
665040
My abusive ex.  I won't go into details but the physical and mental damage done by this man is something I carry with me all the time.  Because of him I cannot have children and underwent 5 surgeries to fix the physical damage.  The paranoia I deal with on a daily basis because he has not been caught can be crippling at times, to the point I get afraid to go outside or go anywhere alone.  I cannot trust people like I used to nor do I let people close to me anymore, except a very select few.  It's left a feeling in me that seems to say people will suck you in by acting nice then they will turn on you like a rabid dog once you are sucked in and let your guard down.  I know, realistically, that isn't the case but it has left that feeling.  No, I'm not over this yet but I am working on it.  It just takes time to undo the damage done.  But it did take part of me and who I used to be away and I will never be able to get that back.
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they are both sad yes...none more so than the other.\n\nAlthough...if i HAD to pick...I'd say the PERSON doing the controlling as they are knowingly doing emotional harm to another human being...taking advantage if you will.\n\nA PERSON that controls another person thinks too highly of themselves and has major issues that need to be addressed and a false sense of self esteem.\n\nAnd the PERSON being controlled is often lacking any self-esteem and the ability to make choices that benefit themselves...and needs help to understand their true selfworth.\n\nYep...pretty even there, but I definitely think the controlling person is worse..\n\n(side note...your question is fair..but some of us find the words sissy and ''soft little pansies' used to describe people just a LITTLE offensive..... :)
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People tend to be controlling out of fear. Family members can be controlling because they are afraid you won't make what they consider to be the "right" choices. They try to keep things in their realm of understanding and reasoning. \n\nIf they are really being mean then they may be controlling because they are afraid of being inferior in some way. If they keep you under their control then it makes them feel like the superior person.
167627
Its the subconscious feeling that you will be judged by your question.
564958
well you should try explaining to him and the others how you feel before getting caught
928511
if you have a feeling you are being followed it may not be by who you think but watch your back. i had a "feeling" of being followed and i was, they had been in my house while i was away they followed me to stores untill i caught them took their picture called the police, then they stopped. listen to your inner person they know best...
482470
dont over react, people can feel wat they want to feel
656808
you think your thoughts and actions are controlled by someone else
592895
you shouldn't feel bad at all... and also let him know that you don't like his advances... he has to listen or he can get in trouble! in this situation, YOU'RE the boss!!!