My ex tells me that he still has feelings for me...what do I do?
112467
You're remarried, aren't you? You should be married to the person you love-- do you really want to separate from the new guy of your dreams?\nIf the circumstances are different, put it this way:\nIf he's saying all that and he's still remarried, forget the guy. The fact that he already has a woman and claims he wants another just proves he has not changed in THAT category... Who knows, maybe he's one of the cheater guys? I know this situation VERY well. My supposed best friend/ex is with someone else right now and I have been trying to get together with a certain guy.\nThe thing is-- this EX of mine, even though he already has a girlfriend, WILL NOT LET ANY HUMAN MALE COME WITHIN THREE FEET OF ME. He acts like he is my over protective father. If he is already with someone but pays attention to you, there's DEFINITELY something wrong with that. My EX hurt my feelings by separating from me FIRST to get with his new girl. Now he wants me back, but he wont even dump his girl.\nThe basic idea is LEAVE THE PAST AS IT IS and move on because I've been through this situation with my EX for the past seven or so years. It's very stressful and it tied me down because I couldn't let him go.
515633
He is still holding on to you in case something happens with current gf and he knows he can get you back. You need to break it totally off with him or he will continue to do this.
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
474285
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
235473
Why would you waste precious time trying to prove something to someone who is a ex? I would have to guess if your trying to do this you still have feelings for him...K
915098
1)  That's why he's your ex.\n2)  That how he caught you in the first place.\nLife has its moments.  Move on to the good stuff.
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
235396
I think he's hurt because of the past. now he wants u to feel the same way and he's playin hard 2 get. I had the same thing and you now what ?? our little chasing game lasted 2 years! You can understand if he likes u or not by the way he acts around you . if he try to play cool he totally likes you!
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
651995
It seems 2 me like he still wants u but he just don't know how 2 be with u right now. He may need a little time out.He's confused because he love u so much, he'll probably do just about anything for u.He's just scared that u may hurt him again & he may not know how 2 react if it ever happens again.U may have lost a little of his trust for u.He'll find out a way 2 fix this.Its just 2 much 4 him right now.Just give it some time. It'll all come out. Good luck!\n My situation is similar 2 urs.
424339
Your first mistake was saying yes. End it now. The longer you go, the more he's going to be hurt when time comes. Tell him it's a little akward being with him so youd like to go back to being friends. If he really likes you then he would rather keep you as a friend then lose you all together. it will be akward after the break up for a little while, but just keep seeing him and talking to him, then the akwardness will go away, and everything wil be back to normal the way you liked it before.\nGood luck
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
284472
tell him you still have feeling for him
451159
if you still like him, give it another try. If not, then don';t do or say anything to incourage his feelings. Eventually they and he will go away. Good luck.
240623
Just have a face-to-face talk with him, communicate your feelings (as gently as possible) and be up-front. There's no real easy way to go about it...my ex of 2-1/2 years broke up with me a little while back, she broke my heart, and I still think about her alot, but it would have been much better if she would have been more straight-forward. So tell him exactly where you're at, it might hurt at the time, but you'll both be better off that way!