why do people generally get discusted with gay men but excited w/ the thought of two women?
108444
About half of the guys I know are homophobic. One of my homophobic friends would say stuff like, “I don’t have a problem with gay guys. I just don’t want them … around me,” and “Gay guys just wanna plunder my a*s.” It’s so common for hetero guys to think that all gay guys wanna do is rape hetero guys. By definition, a phobia is an irrational fear. What’s to be afraid of? Their scathing humor aside, homosexual men are the most harmless things on Earth. Have you ever heard of a gay murderer? Or a gay thief? Maybe I haven’t been around long enough, but I’ve never heard of a criminally deviant homo dude (although I do know some pretty ghetto dyke hooligans). My point is I think most homophobic guys can’t explain why they’re scared of gay guys.\n\n\nWhat I think the reason is:\n\nThe penis is the intrusive genital. Men brandish their penii with a subconscious feeling of superiority over women. And the idea that a man will use that power against his own kind repulses hetero men. Hetero guys like an*l sex (with a female), not because it feels better, but because it shows ownership of the woman he’s sodomizing. The notion that they may be owned in the same way scares them.\n\nThis is not necessarily fact. Just my take on the matter. Hey, I’m not man-hating. I’m just homo-defending.\n\nGuys, you should take it up the a*s every once in a while. Your g-spot is located next to your prostate, accessible only through the butth*le. I’m not suggesting having your butt plugged by another guy. If you’re not down for that, let your girlfriend hit it with a d*ldo. Don’t knock it ‘til you try it. Or are you afraid you might like it? =P
781354
what are you talking about some women think its cool to out someone those women are jerks i wouldnt do that if your gay your gay who cares just dont tell me what you do in the bedroom
953276
No.  As long as they weren't being offensive in what they said when gossiping to others about what they believed my sexuality to be.  Most of my Friends are pretty straight shooters.  We try to not gossip over much about things concerning the group.  We tend to circle the wagons.  if she or he WERE malicious in their commentary, I would be offended by the way they talked.  Not by what they said.  And no...I'm not gay.  I'm Italian and Irish.  Very passionate people.  We do alot of hugging.  Way touchy feely races of people I come from.  Could be mis-construed.  I've had a number of gay woman come on to me.  lol   I take it as compliment, but don't take them up on the offer.  :)
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As a straight female, I have no shame in admitting I think two men kissing is absolutely sexy.  So sexy.  I love it.  I love gay porn.  Man on man is my bag.  Entirely.\n\nBut I understand that it isn't everyone's.  If homosexual acts gross you out, you shouldn't be forced to watch them and I don't think it makes you a bigot.  There are heterosexual acts that gross me the hell out and it certainly doesn't make me a heterosexual bigot.  I also feel queasy watching lesbians, but I have no prejudices against them.\n\nThat's the difference between just not being comfortable with watching gay sex scenes and being a bigot:  If you vote to restrict homosexual rights and discriminate against them, you're a bigot whether you can stomach watching homosexuals loving on each other or not.  You're not a bigot, just a guy who knows what he does and doesn't like.  No worries.
907691
unless the fact they have a penis is what excites you then no your not gay, in your mind you are attracted to what appears on the surface to be a beautiful woman
243806
because many people are scared of what they dont know and anything that isnt in the 'norm' they tend to become ignorant about. like if they go near a gay person they might become one or catch something. if only they could open their closed minds a bit and see that gay people are just like the rest of us they have hearts and they have feelings too. we can only pray that one day we all be treated as equals.
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Yes, women are by nature, very sensual beings, and much more emotionally motivated than men. Mind you, I'm bi, not gay. I love the feel and scent of a man, the power he exudes, the masculinity. But ...the touch of another woman.... that sensual touch is like a flame that ignites you from the ground up. If your'e ever so lucky as to have the touch of a man and a woman at the same time...it's a feeling you'll never forget. Men have to work at learning a womans body, women are observant enough of their own bodies to know what needs to be touched, and how firmly, and what needs moisture or heat, or  a lighter touch, and most importantly, they recognize the body language of the female close to orgasm, and know how to finesse their way through it without stopping too soon and know not to stop abruptly once it subsides, but to bring you back down slowly....and they know better than to roll over and put their backs to you when its all over with!
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why do some straight women like men who are considered, "a man's man" while yet other straight women like men with more effeminate traits? \n\nSuppose there are just as many stereotypes of heterosexuals as there are homosexuals.
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I'd say there are a number of diffeent reasons for people to be interested in this sort of thing.\n\nFor one, lesbians and gays have become more accepted than ever before in the past couple decades, which is something new to certain groups of older people, homosexual or not.  and it's something interesting to younger people too because there is really no History of Gay People and thus the big 'boom' is  sort of a compensation for years of keeping it behind the curtains.\n\nAlso, for many heterosexual people, the lives and ways of gays and lebians can feel so different, like a different culture or something like that.  They are a minority, you know.  So it's like learning about them to watch these films and read these books, just like watching a movie about Canadians or something (haha). Sure, it's a bit stupid, cinsidering they AREN'T a different ethnicity or somehting, but people will go to many lengths to learn about things they don't understand.\n\nAnd then, of course, the idea of two men together, or two women together, can be twice as arousing as heterosexual romance/sex.  I mean, instead of seeing someone of your own sex with the hottie, you get to see/imagine/read about two hotties!  Haha...\n\nBut for me, the reason I find myself intrigued, is bacause they are the people who are all around me each day.  More and more people, old and young are coming out, and when they are your friends and family, you sort of just come to see them as yor average Joe as much as heterosexual people are.  I mean, if there are so many movies and books about heterosexual people, why not homosexual people too, right?\n\nNot to mention, het romance is so much more dull for me these days.  I'm a writer and I read a lot, and homosexual fiction (female or male) just has so many more elements of drama and angst and all that jazz to it.\n\nAs far as the moral thing goes, I think it does go against a lot of people's morals, but they are learning to let their morals adapt to modern society or just accepting things as they are.  That's life after all.\n\nHope that answered your question!
1004169
I think it is partly the fact that the wome feel safe with them.  Thay know that the gay guy is not mentally undressing her as they talk.  Aslo there is a bit a a common ground they share (at least the straight girls and gay guys).  They can talk about the other guys they like.
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I've never said this statement, but I understand it from a woman's point of view. It has absolutely nothing to do with gay men and what they do or don't do in the bedroom. This statement is said in frustration when it seems like there is a shortage of quality, available men. The only relevance it really has to gay men is that they are not "on the market" for single, hetero women.
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It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
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I am honestly not believing some of these answers. lmao. Yes men are men and no not every does it. and don't believe for a minute that its because he finds you lacking and them not. what the heck ppl!! my honest belief. I think you have people that just simply enjoy people. I watch people all day long, men and women. It dont make me a bad person, nor a lesbian. I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I like how a woman can carry herself, and how she may or may not use her hands to talk. The way she tries to act like she dont realize she is being looked at. A smile. on either a woman or mans face, is a wonderous thing. Just so on how their lips lift slighty at the edges. Its either an amused smile, or a happy smile. Come on.. It does not have to be a bad thing. If you can't beat um join um. I point out women for my husband to look at. To show him, I too can recongnize a looker, but it also lets him know. I am aware of what and who he is looking at, without causing offense. Good luck hon:)
1115990
I have seen personal ads where both straight and gay people want to engage in this rape fantasy.\nPersonally, I simply don't understand it.
492935
Because it general we all want what we can't have. Oh and also, IN GENERAL gay people TEND to spend more time and effort on how they look and their personality where as the majority of straight guys don't. And no im not gay before anyone says this is why i have this opinion.
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Because, some people say it is unnatural to like the same sex and other say its just fine, as long as they love each other.\nIn my own opinion, it isnt natural.
705235
Not always. I think the reason alot of gay guys hang around women because they are generally more accepted by women. Men tend to be more homophobic.