I found out one of my friends is pregnant, who do i do?
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Hopefully you "do" no one...this isn't a competetion. Sorry, had to since you asked "who". ;)\n\nPray that she is not pregnant. Unfortunatly, that is the risks ones takes when they have sex. I hope that she is learning a GOOD lesson from this scare.\n\nUnless she has taken a HPT and confirmed pregnancy she needs to relax. Young women can upset their cycles by stressing out over things. There is no point geting upset or upsetting others over something that may not be. It can also ruin ones' reputation by playing the Drama Queen over every false alarm.\n\nIf she has taken a HPT and it is positive... she needs to go to a OB/Gyn and begin prenatal care. Early prenatal care is very important to her and the baby's health.\n\nEncouraging her to discuss this situation with her Mother is a good recourse. As a Mom myself, who was pg while living at home, there is NO better person to turn to for help. Her Mom probably already has a good idea something is up. Even if she gets upset and is disappointed when she hears the news... she is a MOM and will do everything she can for her child - that's what we Moms do.\n\nEncouraging her that she can still do the things she has dreamed of (job, education, etc) while being a Mom is good too. Leting her know that you will still be her friend and that she can talk when she needs to helps too.
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Shady Pink is right\nCheck out www.mediatakeout.com to get more information on her pregnancy
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go to local hospotal or hospotals you think he might mave gone if his other girl was having a kid, they should be able to help with a birth certificate
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It sounds like your friends have a new leader.  Take your adopted child and find some new friends.  You can explain to your old friends that you won't be hanging around with them any more because of this guy and then move on.  If any of your old friends are able to see the truth, then they will follow you.  Some of them will follow later.  You need to look out for yourself though and move on.\n\nI stress that you need to find new friends because that new guy might start doing more things that could get him busted.  And when he goes down, everyone that is around him will be busted too.  You and your friends will be guilty by association.  Pick you friends very carefully.
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This is really really tuff!!! I was once in a similar situation. The mom decided to raise baby on her own however the out come was a beautiful child who is being raised by her now independent mom. You are not God nor are you blood family. What if you help her and she later tells her mom are you willing to risk the friendship you have with the mother.  What if you help her and something goes wrong? Your Friend will never forgive you. Tell mom and be there for both of them if they need help. Honesty is always the best way to deal with things. Problems are always bigger until out in the open where you can deal with them.  A MOM Myself.
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If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
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Keep taking your meds.  What you have been through would make anyone be down.  If you have a therapist call them and talk.  You need someone that you can  talk to that is not going to betray you.  Say good bye to your friend and your boyfriend.  You do not need that extra drama in your life.  Dealing with a friendship like that is hard on any one. Stay strong and start thinking about the new baby that is going to come into your life..There is nothing like a grand baby to make the world a better place.  God bless you.
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First of all, the guy didn't do it TO you.  You both got pregnant.  Basically, you have 3 options.  You can live up to your responsibilities by finding a way to properly raise and support this baby, you can put this baby up for adoption by the many many couples who are unable to have a baby on their own, or you can terminate the pregnancy.\n\nI was in this situation and couldn't bear to terminate the potential life of my new baby, didn't want to give the baby up for adoption because I knew I would always wonder how the baby was and where he/she was.  So I kept the baby and to this day (14 years later), she is the love of my life and we are happy and healthy.  It can be done, you just need to find a way.  If you cannot find a way, there are SO many people out there who would love to raise your baby as their own.
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She isn't pregnant. That is just speculation. They always assume if there is a little bump that someone is pregnant and half of the time that's not the case.
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Well here is the thing, Your friend may be entitled to child support for the alleged baby but that’s going to take the State Attorney Generals office to follow up. Once that happens it will be impossible to keep that from his wife because of civil process and all. If that’s the route she goes it can be long and drawn out and she needs to make sure that is what she wants. Generally when a situation like this happens both parties are promiscuous so she better be sure it's his kid and not someone else's. Keep  in mind that even though the child may be his he still does not have to ever see it if he does not want to. Your friend made a bad choice dating a married man. Separated or not he was still married and she knew it.\n\nGood Luck to your friend she is gonna need it!!
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i had sex with my sisters husband, now im pregnant and dont know what to do
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The question is, how much you love her? What are you willing to do for her love?\n\nAnd the other thing that you should know, how much she loves you? What is the state of your marriage and relationship overall with her?\n\nLets take a logical approach.\n\nIf this cheating was done by you, and say your act had gotten someone else pregnant, what will she do, and how will you feel about it?\n\nThe fact that she is pregnant now has nothing to do with the act of cheating. If it was an inadvertant instant that led one thing to another or was it something that she wanted to do all along and then the result is loss of trust between the two of you.\n\nIs she likely to break the trust again, provided the same circumstance or will she remember not to hurt your feelings?\n\nLove does not chain you to something, it is just the fear of loosing someone or something that you cherish. You do not want to do anything that will rock the relationship between you and the person you love.\n\nAbortion or no abortion, that does not seem to be the solution. \n\nIt is all in you two, you will have to see how you want the family to progress in future. What are the priorities and what will be the understandings. You have to learn to respect each other more and share the responsibilities too.
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Tell your parents as soon as possible...do you want to keep the baby, give it up for adoption, terminate your pregnancy?\nThey will want to know who the father is.\nYou should have been spending more time learning to read and write...how did you get through grade school being illiterate?
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You really should tell someone. If your a true friend, you'd tell someone as soon as possible. Tell someone you can trust and they will help her.
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Just to be on the safe side and to make sure it is yours. Have the baby tested. If it is yours then step up to the plate and be a father. That would be the right thing to do. You may just be telling you that its yours, She may not even know whos it is.
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Well here is what it means.....the  preacher got your friend pregnant....thus you where crying because the preacher played you. Sooo then you went to pick up hubby in the morning and his friend told him Shhh...don't tell her....but what you didn't hear was "don't tell her that it was ME that got her friend pregnant!\nJust my take...I could be wrong LOL
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get a paternity test then you will know for sure. the situation seems like she just wants him back i would get the paterity test and if it came out that i wasnt the dad i would not take calls from her or talk to her ever again