Am I Falling for my best Friend?
108295
Yes I definitely think that u r falling for this guy.If we like the company of someone then it is the first sign of attraction.But if we recall those moments again and again and our heart fills with strange kind of happinaess then its nothing else but love.Now you evaluate yourself whether this happens to you or not.You just forget about the fact that you know this guy for a long time.Imagin as if its has just started and then you see how do you feel for him.If his presence still brings a smile to your face and his absence makes feel sad or lonely then its only love dear.
59299
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
867361
Wrong?  That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.\n\nShe needs your friendship.  If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect.  Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.\n\nIf the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.\n\nIf you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.\n\nJust something to consider.  Good luck!
601201
I currently have this problem... and know exactly how you feel. My best friend is in love with me and has been for about 10-11 years now. I tell him I don't see him that way and that I love him but not in those ways. But that doesn't stop him from trying... and he is moving down to my area with all the hopes that we would be together...
1023767
talk to your best friend about whether or not she would be comfortable with you dating either of them! on one hand, she probably still has feelings for her ex, no matter WHAT she says...on the other, she may feel like you are giving her younger brother more attention than her, and that may cause a rift in your relationship...my true advice, date someone that has no ties to your best friend, or you may risk losing her friendship forever. boys will forever come and go, crushes lose their potency...but a true friend is something to be valued more than a boy toy.
377165
most guys would prefer to have their best friend for life.\nand falling in love is the best way for that.\ntry suggesting it casually. and i hope he has not told u already abt his engagements. if yes also u still have a chance. after all. hes ur best friend. and he knows it. and guys dont usually let go their best friends.\nand dont be too late.\nBest of luck.
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
145118
I take it dat u dont dig d best frienhd.in an ideal world d best friend shud back off,n let her friend b happy.d girl dat u like wuld probably b feeling guilty if her going out with u wuld break her friend's heart.or she might just take u.\nu might want to wait n see how things work out for a while..until d bst frriend finds sumone else to like?den ask ur dream girl out.GUD LUCK..
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
224925
Yes*\nAnd he turned out to be the love of my life. AND I later found out that 'the friend' was not really a friend at all.  \nHowever, the rule of thumb is, if your best friend likes them, 'their off limits' until either they break up or she moves on. And even then, your supposed to ask your friend if its ok to make a play for that special hottie
659612
Its good to be in love with the best friend because they can understand our feelings emotions and thoughts.If I was experiencing the same,as he is my best friend and understands me very well I will dare to talk to him about this.If he is not interested also we will continue to be best friends forever.I would like to advise you to do the same.BEST OF LUCK!
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
1054303
falling in love with my best friend, and knowing that he loves me back
462245
Well how do you feel about her?  Do you like her a lot?\nDo you have fun together?  Do you confide in each other?  \nThese are some of the things that equal a best friend.  And if you want her to be your best friend, than you need to be her best friend as well. Then to be sure, you can just ask her...and she will tell you the truth!   :)
584498
hehe it's either that ur bestfriend is a blabber mouth and says everything u say to everyone.. or people can know that ur in love with this guy from ur reactions when he's around!
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.