Is it bad to think or say that someone on tv or in the movies is hot to your wife?
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I've had my wife express the same about men on tv and in movies. I think the difference might be this:\n\nMen are lustful creatures who can have sex for the sake of having sex and therefore are more likely to seek it out outside of a commited relationship, where as women supposedly tie the act of sex to the love of the comitted relationship so are not so likley to go find said person and  have sex with them.\n\nJust my 2c.\n\nAnd if you're banned from the TV, here you go:\nhttp://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?p=Stacy+Keibler&ei=UTF-8&x=wrt\nhaha
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its nice when my wife makes comments about my physique or the clothes i wear or my cologne.\nbut the one that really gets me is quiet simple, it's when she tells me how much she loves me. i live for her as she deos for me, and as sappy as it may seem, thats all that really matters. her love. what better way to let the one you love know how appreciated they are. \nthe words 'i love you'. is there really a better compliment?
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haha...its called aging...\nbut yea, she WAS hot
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Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
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I'm with you on this one - my husband is the same way. I had to take five years of CONSTANTly telling him how hot he is - make sure he KNOWS how attracted to him you are...jump him...frequently..let him know you only have eyes for him. I mean sadly repetitiveness is the key...it's just like, he can hear it 10000 times, but until HE believe it, it's not going to work.
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I think it depends on how the woman feels about this.  If she's freaked out by it, hopefully she would talk to her husband about it and not just run out of the room.  If she's turned on by it, she'd probably act very similar to your wife.\n\nIt sounds like your wife finds it a turn-on, and that you do as well.  Very cool that you have found a new fantasy together!
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no ... there is nothing wrong with that at all.... opposites attract.... \neven when your married you can still find people attractive. \nAs long as you don't act upon it then you shouldn't feel guilty.
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It is a negative connotation. Whether you are too hot or have too much attitude, either way, is not good for you. Your looks might be great but you are too proud of your looks and that will hurt you.\n\nPeople have more respect for humble people who do not think they are better than others. For example, my wife is gorgeous, but she says that she is not that attractive. Everyone loves her because she is so humble, yet every guy also has his eye on her.\n\nWhen you have too much attitude, you have a tendency to annoy or outright hurt other people. Therefor your attitude will put you in a bad situation. It might cause you to hurt a girl and then she will be angry with you. Now your physical and/or mental health may be in danger. That is what the saying refers to.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
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Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
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none\n\nbecause you would do this and then realize that they are not who you 'think' they are; meaning that we obviously see them in movies,ect but not in their private lives,\n\nas someone who you might think is a good person to be with/ect might just really be a jerk
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This is just something we do. It is the excitement we get trying to flirt with someone we know we can't have.  It is the adrliane rush we get.  Because maybe your wife will give a reaction.  Some women geed of of negative reactions in public.  Don't feel bad if you catch the bad end of it because it is easier to take her frustration out on you because the attention is at you.
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How many men present this morning have a neighbour or a friend with a wife who is more intelligent than your wife? She's a woman who has common interests with you, interests that your wife finds boring. She's talented, a classy dresser who cares for her body and carries herself in a noble fashion. You ask yourself, "Why doesn't my wife sparkle like that chick?"\n\nFriends, comparison is a deadly game. Don't do it! It leads to coveting, adultery and divorce. Coveting blinds you to your spouses positive character qualities. Coveting makes you despise your wife's humility, meekness and virtue. Coveting robs your spouse from the position of Top Dog in your life. She is no longer your most cherished possession, she is "The Wife." Coveting tears-up families like useless scrap paper. Don't do it!
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One thing you've got to understand about men.. We will always look.  Touch? that's another story that depends on the man.   But look we will.\n\nI cant' speak for your man, because I don't know him.  But I know in my own personal experiance, that I love my wife to death.  But I still look around.  It's not a form of dis-resepect in my (or her) eyes.  It's a natural thing. \nand it's just LOOKING.  Like walking though the mall and looking in the clothing stores for shoes.  Doesn't mean you're going to buy.. your just looking.\n\nTo me, it sounds like you're upset about him looking because you are hung up on your own looks.  Respect yourself.  You're choices make up who you are.  Not your looks.  He thinks your hot,  He respects you enough to, at least, try to hide the fact that he's looking.
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thats perverted. She is not for u don't be greedy face your wife not her sister. yur sis in law is for another man definetely not for you greedy man. Yu r too lusty
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No, why would it be bad. You're married. The only bad thing that can come from it is if you are naked around him a lot then it won't be a big deal when you take your clothes off wanting to make love.
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Depends on the person and their minds. Not to sound like an idiot but I look at who they are and what they are like, I sometimes don't care If they are hot or just o.k.
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You're a hetero man, that's what we do, it's in our nature.  You're not falling in love with who you're looking at right.  Nothing wrong with taking in a piece of little eye candy.\n\nNow the trick is not to get caught, not necessarily be sneaky about it, but you definately don't need to gauk, stair, be rude or disrespectful to your wife.\n\nI'm sure that you're wife checks out other guys when you go out albeit briefly, to where you don't notice or she does it in a way where it is not disrespectful to you.\n\nSo, if you'd like to avoid drama, keep the look time to a minimum (a glance or a scan of the landscape) just remember, that you are out with your wife not out with the guys or watching TV.  And if she starts talking to you, shut off the targeting device and pay attention to your wife.