Is it bad, to fall in love with ur best friend?
108946
answer to ur original question-no it's not bad n it doesn't make u abad person..UR HUMAN!!\nif i was u ....i wuld tel her,but also at the same time make sure that she understands that ur not trying to pressure her to fall in love with u too just cos she's ur bestfriend.u really shouldn't b expecting her to feel the same way if she doesn't...U SHUD JUST TELL HER FOR THE SIMPLE REASON THAT U CULD B CONTENT AFTERWARDS AS SHE WULD KNOW HOW U REALLY FEEL FOR HER...good luck!!
219109
Of course you aren't bad. If he is a friend, then you obviously have things in common to start with. Sometimes the relationship grows from there to a romantic one. It is tough though when the guy doesn't feel the same way. It can ruin the friendship.
657280
wow that's a tough one, i personally think she should b off limits, that's a real low thing 2 do your friend, especially your best friend, i think i would flip if that were 2 happen 2 me, i would never talk 2 either of u, but i guess if u both feel 4 eachother than u have 2 follw your heart, love is very powerful, think very hard b4 u make your decision, is she worth losing your best friend, there's a reason y u guys r best friends, that's because he can trust u, that's y he see's u as a brother, follow your heart man, it will lead u in the right direction.
851468
It is totally possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex with out falling in love with them.  Especially if both people involved are thinking with their heads and not what is down below.  I have had a few very good guy friends that I was never in love with.  I care alot about them because they are good friends, they are like brothers to me, so I guess you would say I love them in a family way but I'm not in love with them.  It's totally possible!
241581
best friends make best lovers..
1015581
Nothing is wrong with falling in love with anyone..........it is only wrong if you disrupt lives and hurt people.
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
151532
when you love your best friend, you can assume it's a true love, because you really know him. You know his best and you know his worst, yet you still love... if it continues to relationship, it will be a smooth journey.\nHowever, if he doesn't love you back as much as you love him, that's when you have to try hard to keep the friendship as good as now, and this is the hard part.
430092
friends can become lovers...and lovers can become friends...if you both like each other you should risk it...
242809
Yes, but trust me don't take it beyond friendship it can end in a disaster...Friendships are forever and are not worth the chance of ruining it if you are already this close with the person, just enjoy been friends.
613912
Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
1127957
Maybe it is not only the risk of being hurt, but the risk of losing her best friend. Sometimes it isn't worth the risk of losing your friend to see if a romantic relationship may or may not work. The best thing you can do is be 100% honest with her. In order to do that you first must be 100% honest with yourself. If the romantic relationship does not work out for whatever reason, are you sure you can go back to "just being friends"? In all honesty, that may be irrelevant because in your mind at least, the two of you are no longer just friends.
377281
If it's your best friend, then you owe it to them to do what is right.  An intimate relationship with someone close will change your relationship, maybe for the better, but maybe for the worse.  Are you willing to risk your friendship?
226532
No, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are confused about your feelings for her.  She is your best friend and it natural to feel drawn to her, but that doesn't mean you are attracted to her sexually.  You enjoy her company, as you should.  Don't act on your feelings for her until you are sure about yourself and how you feel.  In the meantime enjoy life and keep her as a friend.  She may not have the same kind of feelings you are having.
305500
Honey, it depends on who you love the most.\nif your young then just go for it with your best friend you will be drawn closer together, that is not to say that if you to break up he will still treat you like he doese now.
585666
I see nothing wrong with that. I think my best friend and I have something...but we don't act on it, but if we were to i think it might be one of the best relationships ever...cause we were friends first..and I believe that you should be friends first and continue to be friends when you have a relationship with someone.
237632
is it such a bad thing to live your life with someone you love?