How to overcome addiction to pornography?
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Did you try SA? If you don't want to do that, talk to your wife. Tell her to keep an eye on things for you.
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It's called sexual addiction.  It will continue to escalate as other additions do.  Before long it will take over your life.  You'll get addicted to porn, you'll start molesting others and will probably end up in jail.  There is medication that will help with the addiction, but a sex therapist should also be consulted.  You should try working out, jogging/walking or actually doing something constructive like helping your parents out.  It's really sad when a person get to the point where all they can think about is self gratification.  I pity you, and I also pity your Mother and Father who would really like you to mow the lawn instead of whack your pecker all day long.
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Pray about it and ask the Lord to help you through and He will. He has helped me with that exact same problem. Try to ask other brothers in Christ to hold you accountable. Stay away from places that are stumbling blocks that would cause the sexual urges, avoid internet pornography.
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Well Mr. "I can't get it up, and its all my wife's fault",  just imagine how disappointed she is in you!!! \n\nSeems to me, you have real sexual and marrital problems. \n\nI've heard of cases like yours in which the man has extreme difficulty performing with a real woman because he has spent so much time being aroused and ejeculating to pornography.  \n\nIn his mind now, women, who are nothing more than sex objects, have to have perfect bodies, like in the pictures to be sexually arousing.   \n\nPlus because he's had so much fake easy pornography sex, he's DISCONNECTED from bonding emotionally with a real woman-- sexually or otherwise.  \n\nThis creates all sorts of sexual problems in his relationships, that manifest themselves in different ways, like blaming lack of erection on the physical appearance of his wife's boobs.  \n\nWith the ease of access and increased use of pornography many psychiatrists, pastors/rabbis, and marriage counselors are reporting a huge spite in patients with your very problem. (check it out)\n\nYou have a couple of choices now.  \n\n1) You could go ahead and change your wife.  Have her get her boobs fixed so that it is pleasing to you, Have her wear sexy lingerie, and promise not to walk around naked in front of you.  \n\nBut what happens if her body changes again?  When she gets pregnant? older? gains weight? loses weight?  \n\nDo you just plan to stop loving her again?  \n\nSex in marriage is most fulfilling because it is an expression of love, dependence, and trust, as well as getting your physical needs met.  Qualities that are not based on physical appearance.  \n\nI'm not minimizing the importance of looking and smelling good for your mate, On the contrary, I believe it is important, I just think in your case its more serious than that.  \n\nSo since I doubt this is the heart of your real problem, getting your wife "fixed" is not going to keep it "up" for you.  \n\nEven with her body perfect, eventually you'll have another erection problem, begin fantasizing about other people and then justify having affairs.  \n\n2) Your second option and the recommended one, is that you  seek counseling to determine the real root of this problem and to resolve it within yourself.  \n\nThis will help save your marriage, and check to see if you are healthy enough to be fulfilling and fulfilled in an intimate relationship.  \n\nRight now you are feeling like you made a mistake getting married or got deceived somehow.  Not only is this most likely faulty thinking, these feelings you have will be detrimental to your marriage.\n\nGo talk to a specialist and get it checked out before you invest a few grand on a boob job.\n\nAlso, make sure you talk to your wife about this.  But a word of caution.  Be very careful about how you approach her with this. \n\nSticks and stones can break your bones, but your words can destroy.
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Temperance is the best way I can summarize it. I am very similar in nature when I do something I do it with everything I've got. My new addiction is Y!A  Find 2 or 3 things you like and divide your time equally among them.  You will have to use some restraint.  In behavior Modification there is this technique called interrupt and redirect.  For instance, if it is sexual thoughts that are bothering u today stop! think something different like I wonder if I h ave any new answers to my Yahoo questions?\nRe program your thought processes!\n\n:D Good Luck!
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Of course you are 18 years old or above, either way you should stay away from porn of all sorts. It only leads to corruption; however a good program is "Window Washer" to cover your tracks. Also you would want to put an "Hidden" attribute on your folder then go to tools, folder options, view then click on do not show hidden or system files and hope your family does not know anything about computers.\n\nFind Jesus my man.
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How about re"boot"ing your computer..\n\nOr letting your computer crash by throwing it out the window...!\n\nJust kidding...\n\nI know it's an addiction that's taken over your life, and you have realised that, just need to actually do it!\n\nIt's all about will piower and taking the next step...\n\nswitch it off, and don't return to it.\n\ngive yourself an hour / half an hour per day... put a timer on, and say THAT'S IT once it goes off...\n\nthere are better things in life you should be enjoying!\n\nGOODLUCK Buddy!
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There are several ways to control it. And if you don't control / stop it now you will loss your vigour, and you will loss your memory power, your nerve system will become weak, Finlay you will not be able to satisfy your wife. \nfirst the general ways. stop sleeping alone, stop seeing prone sights, pictures, if you are an alcoholism and masturbating it is still worst. \nthe things you see, and imagine are also main cause. i am sure you look at girls with lusty eyes. avoid. \nthen learn little mind control methods. contact me if you are near Chennai.\nThe only best way is to surrender to JESUS, ask HIM help you,\nwash your mind, soul, have a inner healing by the Precious Blood of JESUS.\nJESUS LOVES YOU.
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I once had this problem. What worked for me was I asked Jehovah to help me with it and I read the Bible and found something else to do when a temptation arose. Ask for a free home Bible study. Watching porn is like going to a restaurant and watching everyone eat but you are not eating.
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no, it is not okay to be addicted to anything. It makes your life miserable and the people who love you miserable and I have yet to meet a girl who was turned on by a porn addict.
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The best way to filter out porn is with some kind of parental control software... such as NetNanny, I think Norton makes one... or if you're looking for free software do a search on Yahoo! for "free web blocker" or something similar. \nHowever, the real issue is your husband's porn addiction.  Because even if it's blocked on the home computer, he'll get it elsewhere.  This is a terrible addiction, that has destroyed many families.  but it CAN be overcome. My personal suggestion would be to get him to see a counselor.  Preferrably go with him, couples therapy its sometimes called.  Possibly if he realizes the HUGE impact it has on everyone around him... he might be motivated enough to stop.  But at the end of the day, HE has to make the decision to quit, otherwise he won't.  No matter what you do, unless HE decides it's important to HIM to stop.  Good luck, if you need a good inspirational story on the subject I'll email you my own, just send me an email.\n-Duo
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Well all you have to do is to use a Built in utility of Internet Explorer called Content Advisor. Just click on Tools -> Internet Options -> Content -> Enable -> then select the level u want and then click ok. Then Enter a Password. Click Ok.\nAnd Voila. No more pornographic sites
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Dear el ....\n\nPorn is powerful stuff.\n\nIt is often addictive, sometimes when we have neglected certain areas of our lives.\n\nWhat in your life might you be neglecting ?\n\nlearning to become comfortable with being a male ?\nlearning to be connected to others "\nletting go of "boy ways" and adopting "man ways"\naccepting that "porn beauty" is mostly not real\nbecoming "ok" with the beauty that people DO have\n\nThese are some possibilities.\n\nThey are all hard work.\n\nLife as a grown man requires hard work and is often difficult.
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stay away from that stuff. It is degrading and addicting. If you can't stop -- you need professional help. It will destroy any relationships you have or hope to have.
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if you "used to be" a sex addict, then it doesn't matter anymore.  overcome it. \n\nbut yeah, it's bad to be addicted, no matter what you are addicted to.  too much of anything is bad.
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I had that problem with my ex-hubby I caught him constantly spanking the monkey online, calling 900 numbers It is an addiction just like drugs or alchol except they are addicted to the fantasy that the porn and other things gives to them. The problem lies with him not you. Blame him not you and if this is how he really is trust me you are better off by yourself.
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First go to "Tools" "Options" and "clear all" meaning all of your cookies, all of your cache, and all of your history.\n\nThen get some programs like "Lavasoft Ad Aware" and "Spybot Search and Destroy" and run those to get rid of any spyware from the porn sites.  Also delete any pictures or movies you may have downloaded.