y do people not satisfy in things on wat u can only give?wen u share/give a thing,they'll tke u 4grnted.2 bad!
99041
I guess its human nature to keep wanting for something more
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I've always been the type of person who loves to do the charity thing for those unfortunate people I see on streets(selling flowers, candies, newspapers for a living). I've always wanted to offer them help but I have nothing but my allowances. So this is the very thing I will do with my power. Make these people feel they belong to the society.
725151
You don't. If they give you a present that you don't like, give it away or sell it. You can't complain about someone giving you a present.
360418
Like the old saying goes...\n\n"Misery loves company" and some people hate that others can be happy and have earned that happiness.  Someone who is happy within themselves will not take gratification in anothers pain.
663474
I assume you meant "he likes giving or getting"... in which case, he is probably gay. The bigger issue is why is he going around giving/getting such things from random people in the first place? Who said that was ok?
1018557
Because people are never happy when they have something good, always looking out for something more exciting, ect... Instead of working on what they have. Good luck.
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there's nothing wrong with wanting to please people, as long as it's not at your own expense.  you don't want to be a doormat, right? don't worry, it will probably cure itself because when people know you'll do anything for them, they'll use it as long as they possibly can (opportunists) and one day you'll probably just get fed up and know that you deserve more.  i would work on your self-image and books that have to do with confidence because i think that a lack of confidence leads to trying to please people constantly.  hope this helps!
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Hi there,\nI am sure that God is displeased at our state of social disregard for one-another, especially when he has benevolently blessed this country with a bounty of plenty.\n\nI would like to suggest an observation that all of us may participate in...\nThe observation is this, look around you this holiday and make a mental note of things that are wasted and ask your selves....\nWho could I benefit by sharing my blessings....\n\nThe meaning of "Thanks Giving" is to have gratitude and to share.\nI myself really have few resources however, I plan to try and make some-ones day by offering of my caring...\n\nI look for no reward other than a smile...\nMay all of " Yahoo Answers " participants have a wonderful time and holiday...
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Err!\nU don't give much away do U?\n\nPlease add more details & I'll C if I can answer your question.
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Usually when you try to please everyone you are trying to "buy" affection and approval. You think that if you can make other people love you, you can feel good about yourself. You hope that if you do enough to please other people, they will do things for you that will make you feel happy. But in the end, you end up disappointed. Some people will take what you give but give nothing back. Some people may reciprocate, but they won't be able to fill your sense of emptiness. This is because real happiness cannot come from other people. You have to find it within yourself. Then you can do things for other people without consideration for what you may get back. When you try to make people love you, that is just manipulative behavior that ultimately turns others off. So stop trying to please other people and start working inside yourself to figure out what will make you a happier person. You are the best person to make yourself happy because you understand what you want better than anybody else does Take responsibility for your own happiness and then do for other people nice things that you want to do "just because" without any strings or expectations.
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Girl yeah they love it but let them know that if they don't lick it (yours) then you are not going to lick it (their's) or let them stick it. Cause you have to give to get! OK!
1069988
Did it ever occur  to you that people don't do everything to gain something for themselves but only out of love?\nPeople who are interested in helping you believe in God only want to share what they have found with you. \nYou are still free to reject it and they should respect your choice.
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Unfortunately some girls want what they can't have and once they have it, they don't want it. Otherwise, I would guess she might not feel deserving of you.. if you give her so much, and maybe she doesn't give you as much.. did she give you a reason?
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The easiest way I can explain this to you is the way my father taught me.\nHe taught all of his children there was NOTHING wrong with wanting something LIKE what someone else had, but we must NEVER want what they have.\nBy teaching it that way, we learned NOT to be jealous of other people or their possessions.\nSo, in answer to your question, I guess no one took the time or caring to teach them NOT to be jealous or envious.
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I don't think that's a mental disorder.In my  opinion you are a very nice person and a people pleaser.The gift of giving makes you happy and feel good.If you don't want to give your stuff away but do it subconsciously, maybe invite people over for dinner and /or a movie that should make you feel good too.I honestly think you are looking for friends and people will love you if you give them stuff or not.
995213
rather lose the one that can't commit. even if someone couldn't give me everything, that's okay.\n Sometimes wishes are worth something, especially when the wisher is sitting next to you.
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Unfortunately, some people just like that, and no matter how many times you tell them in one way or another that you don't appreciate it, they still going to do it. It's a personality, and you either have to accept it, or loose a friend...