Why have another kid plz see details?
104290
sounds to me like he's a messed up guy but there probably isn't much you can do about it other than stop being his friend so that you don't have to worry about his drama. if family services hasn't taken care of things i'm sure they will eventually or someone will be sure they do.
491280
child support because there is another life involved than just yours
766789
explain calmly 2 teacher, ask son/other kids side of story
307470
an explanation to the mother/child thing please.
849174
Baby girl, you are trying too hard to bring tigether two adulst that should have known better. Unfortunately, until these two people decide on their own what they want to do if you stay on their way you will keep gettung hurt. That is the bad news.\n\nThe good news is that you can develp a tough back and learn to talk to each of them, dont take their crap, you were not there when they started.\n\nTell them to put their show together, and do not be afraid to tell them that you cannot atek it anymore. They are the only parents you will ever have and whom you can talk to in this way and get away with it.\n\nDont carry a burden that is to hard to bear.\n\nWhen you get a chance, tell it to Jesus. I will remember you in my thoughts. \nYou must be strong and courageous, but do not cary their world no matter how pressing ti nay be.\n\ntry to have a happy thanks giving.
948495
Sounds like he already has it all.  I would hope you would knoew your own child well enough you would not ask complete strangers what to buy him,
592129
Firstly , a child is a responsibility for life , so your boyfriend will all ways be the father of this child and if this is something you are having trouble with now , imagine how hard it will be if you were to have a child with him and there were times when you and your child need him , but so does his other child, where would his priorities be then? Would you/your child be more important just because you are in a relationship, how will you handle having the other child come to visit, how will you feel about the fact that there will forever be a connection between him and the mother of his other child? these are all big questions you need to ask yourself before you bring a child into this world. If you are in doubt to any of these questions i would suggest that you break your ties and find someone who has "no baggage" to love/ share/create and raise a family with . Good luck and remember that lessons in life are often tough but if you learn from your mistakes the lesson is not lost.
642133
once your child gets to be about a year old, and you miss that "baby" stage then you are ready to have another. when you no longer miss being pregnant or having a newborn then you know you are done. I know this because I am struggling with the same thing, and I know how much I long to have another child. my daughter just turned 2.
454192
The time is right when you feel ready to have another child!  If you feel like you can deal with another one now, then go for it, if you don't think you can, then wait!
947655
The question I ask is who did he knock up this time?  Isn't that the pattern?  Have a couple kids, move to the next hottie, have a couple of kids, and now it's time to find a new main squeeze.
1112533
I imagine if it's been kept secret for this long, all parties involved want it that way.....I vaguely remember hearing about another daughter, but have no information for you...sorry....
1020801
It sounds like she "knows" what he is up too but would rather pretend otherwise.  She may be wanting to have another child to "fix" things which wont work.  Or maybe just because she is maternal.  Either way - I would suggest you just sit her down and talk to her and let her know that you are there for her but that you are concerned for her because of all the stress she is under already and that she may want to consider how much more stress she would have in her life with 4 children should he decide to leave her for one of the "other women".\n\nKathy
1020458
need more info. Do you have children or are you still living at home,etc.
424693
i also have twin sons and get asked if they are twins all the time. No idea why...Another thing that drives me nuts is when they say, "You really have your hands full, don't you..." No S**T Sherlock!
1135278
because a have 4 kids...
945765
I have a stepson in addition to my own two and, therefore, a blended family.  Unfortunately, abandonment at the hands of his biological mother has left him emotionally stunted, and he has had some trouble making appropriate attachments to the other members of the family.  However, through regular one-on-one and family interaction (slow and steady wins the race) he has really come around.  I won't lie; it can be difficult beyond belief to raise someone else's child.  But if you can learn to identify your kids' individual and collective needs and deal with them accordingly, you'll come to understand that having a blended family is really not all that different from having a regular nuclear family.  Extra parents (his mom, her dad) can pose extra trouble and can seem like they are running interference a lot of the time, but remember - this is YOUR family.  Love and patience, hon.  THAT'S the name of the game...ANY game.  G-d speed.
658814
Your kids are right now very vulnerable, and depending on you their mother, to feed them, nurture them,and love them a lot. I have seen parents mistreat their kids even in public places and it make me so mad to see them do that. Please have a little patience with them and ask God to give you, above all a lot of self control because it takes a lot to have it with two kids so near in age to each other. Good luck and may God be with you in the months and years ahead.