Why people's commentaries affect me like this?
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It may be you are not sure how wonderous you are...I mean here you are, an entity made from elements that resulted from the explosions of stars...the formation of our earth and solar system...the accidents of evolution and history...and though it is extremely unlikely - you are here!  You are here to create and find your purpose...pretty amazing...when you think of all this you may start to think that other people's opinions are not so important...
87297
Maybe you are trying to hard, just relax.  Talking as natural as it should be, isn't always easy for some to do in the company of others, but I think if you were to not put too much effort into it, it would just come normal.  I am sure you have got opinions about things, just pick your time, don't just talk for talking sake, because then you may babble and talk a whole lot of nonsense.  Speak up when you know you have something soound to contribute and after\nawhile you will be saying more than even you realize.  Baby steps, you'll be o.k   Talking is overated anyway :)
654173
You let people get to you because you have very little self-esteem, in other words, you have no faith in your OWN ideas and abilities. You have NO confidence in YOURSELF.\n\nTRY believeing in yourself and be CONFIDENT that you ARE right at least  about SOME things, so you CAN ignore comments from people that are nasty or provoking.
416684
hey samantha, they are rascits to others because they dont really care wat they say or wateve they might feel desprisions or something and had someone do that to them even though it is wrong but they wont care. thanks for the 2 points!!!!
847165
cause they're afraid 2 look/sound like some idiot! \nthis is going 2 sound weird, but im afraid that somtimes people can read my mind... i feel sorry for them if they can. my mind's a scary place
176784
I just wanted to say that I have read your questions and answers to several questions (including my own) and I find you to be very level-headed and well-spoken. I used to practice Christianity and then evolved into feeling differently - a lot of the reasons I did had to do with the way Christians around me looked at issues - it got under my skin. But your views that are influenced by your beliefs are not at all offensive, even to someone who may not believe in the same things as you. I am glad to read what you have to say, as I am more inclined to listen to someone who is rational, if nothing else.
997602
Yes!  Sometimes when I here people talking so superficious, I wonder if I was born on the wrong planet because it makes me wanna......\nI do not trust people who are too HAPPY or POLITE because they're hiding their true thoughts and feelings!  That cannot be healthy!
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It can be disappointing sometimes, but hey you don't really know them so don't worry about it..  For every sarcastic comment you will also find genuine helpful comments as well.  So it balances itself out in the end.  I think many of them are just trying to be funny, but it is not coming out that way..  Hope you feel better soon..
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I depends what made us think that we are going to enjoy and what pissed us off. Generally you will get off mooded more in case you hold someone else responsible for this situation for yours. 'Why does this happen to me ?' is the thought which makes us suffer more than the reality. Your moods are largly in your own hands and you whould seldom give that key to anyone else.
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I remember always thinking people thought i was sensitive and I thought i was moody because of it.  What i have learned and i don't know if this goes for you but it's a shot, is that it wasn't that i was sensitive it was that i wasn't effective with telling people how i really felt.  I wasn't assertive enough. My feelings would get hurt easily and then i would get moody. I use to think having sensitivity was a weakness but i realized it is more of a blessing in a world where there are people who can be very insensitive.  Communicating effectively with the people around you will give you the confidence to not misunderstand what they are saying to you. For example, say someone says something to you that you interpret as hurtful, it is o.k. to calmly ask this person, what did you mean by that?  If they say Oh, I'm only kidding, calmly say, with confidence, i didn't fine that funny. Every situation, of course, will be different. If you practice being more assertive you will find that it is o.k. to keep your sensitivity and the moods will fade away.  Being sensitive is not a bad thing sadness and stress is.
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I am a content, deep-thinking person who does some writing.  I believe in things most people can't see so I don't always appear to have my feet on the ground. I don't naturally like to impose my opinions, but when I am on here I feel I do it a little too much.  I prefer to genuinely help people, if at all possible.  I don't like spending too much time on here because it becomes hard to leave it, so I limit myself now.  This is just a little indulgence for me each day.  I look forward to reading some of the other answers to this question!
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Take a critical look at what makes you clam up. Is it speaking in front of other people? If so, try some public speaking clubs like Toastmasters. Is it that you think people are judging you and you're embarassed? Think about the things that you feel most induce your public panic attacks and deal with those issues. Without more information on why you get like that, I can only generalize, because there can be a lot of reasons for your public embarassment.
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Remarks and jusgments are part of the world we live in.\n\nIf its not about your color it will be your accent\nIf its not your nationality then it will be your religion\nIf its not your religion then it will be you ideological views\nIf its not .....\n\nIf the remark hits something that objectively penalize your work or creates prejudice against (and sometimes for) then you need to address it as an issue and not a personal comment.\n\nMy suggestion is take not of it, don't answer back or stay respectful by consuming it... Add the comments, if you here others living the same thing, than add those up, make sure your owm conduct is flawless...  \n\nThen always be prepared to present something with facts and how it affects your work or whatever environment you are in. Let him or her shout themselves in the foot. Be patient and be also ready to let go (forgive) I find that for many, ignorance is the fondation of such comments. Continue to act kindly (Not Gullibly) and learn about yourself, as when it hurt, who is hurt and why.\n\nSuccessful people are good communicators and they are able to discern and THEN discriminate what is important from what needs your attention.\n\nThe future of humanity will be in are capacity to communicate with each other. This is a great time to learn.\n\nGood luck !
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LOL! I think you need to give yourself more credit. I think some people, like myself, have a tendency to be very passionate about certain issues, like religion, etc. Sometimes when you have a strong feeling or conviction about something, and state it a certain way, it gets a lot of attention. Then, the more attention you get, the more likely you are to offend more people, thus making it more likely to be reported. I consider getting my questions deleted an honor. I have gotten a lot of attention.\n\nI think ronnysox got it right. Some people's questions are a threat to other's closed-minded thinking.
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Everyone makes mistakes.  I know what you mean about people making nasty comments on here...and in life.  I have a rule I try to live by (although it isn't always easy...because I am human and do make mistakes...) always say something positive or don't say anything at all.  It makes my life nicer.  I'm sorry you have had your feeling hurt.
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You nearly made me cry!! it makes me so mad to think of how nasty people are!  Forget those people they are worth the dirt on your shoes!! There are plenty of nice people out there who arent judgmental!  You do seem like a lovely person - keep you chin up, know its hard but you know the saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger
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I am sorry that that happened to you. YOu just need to understand that when you post your questions / comments on here we can't tell what form you are saying them in. So some people may read them as harrassment while others look at them as someone in alot of pain reaching out for help. If you do need help this is a place in which you can get some, but also remember that people are mean. And some of them may make comments that hurt your feelings just for the sake of being an a$$. That is really good that you are seeing a therapist and feeling and doing better with everything. If you ever need a friend to talk to you can email me at any time. I suffer from anxiety and I am on Lexapro for 6 weeks now. I love it and feel great. So I guess I kind of know where you are comming from.