should I persue a boyfriend Ihaven't seen in a month?
102169
Why would you want to?  You're obviously not a priority for him, so don't give him the ego-boost that would come from you crawling back to him.  Living well is the best revenge; go find yourself a better man who will put you first and foremost in his life.  He's moved on - it's time for you to do the same.
449160
I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
281203
hmm...the safe answer would be not to expect too much out of the situation..If the guy is thinking of you, he wouldn't be "too busy" to show it. He'll definitely make time for you. on the other side, its hard to instantly forget someone but you cant ignore the fact that he's not physically there. Long distance relationships are real, and i do mean real hard painstaking work.
474586
no u will find him soon ... just dont run after it ... one day in spcial moment ur heart will tell you ...thats man loves me ...
111723
Don't get engaged the minute he steps off the place, tell him that you want to be with him for one month after he arrives.  (He will be a little different than the man you know and love)  After two weeks, reevaluate whether or not he is the one for you.  This gives you two weeks before he pounces on you with his question so be ready.  As for the sister, ask for specifics, maybe she knows something about him that she hasn't told you for fear of hurting you and losing you.
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
886226
I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
321744
You should try talking to him when you can get him alone. See how he acts around you. See if he drops any hint of liking you. I am the one that made the first move in my relationship and after only a month of being with him he proposed to me. Now after only 3 months we are happy and talking about our future plans together. Happy endings can happen, but I wouldn't do it if your not sure if he even likes you a little bit. May God Bless You though.
247697
Don't rush into anything. If he wants more, that's up to you. If you're not ready, then he should respect that. You should keep track of your goals and not get distracted. But you could also have your guy. You could make a packed to be together and not see other people, but let him know that you have goals you need to get through them. So there may be times you can't focus on him, but you won't be seeing anyone else. He should understand :) Good luck
206087
A little time (a couple of days) never killed any relationship. Leave him wanting more by giving him some way to contact you, or get some info from him and call him later. Another tip: fun and chill group activities are a great way to get to know someone before pairing off alone. How about inviting him on a group thing (with your family or friends) before committing to a date? If he's not into getting to know you over time, you can gaurantee he's not the one your looking for.
320375
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
568747
They say love is blind, since you seem invisible to him despite your joyous nature, then he probably loves you. Try to stop annoying him for a month and see what happens. Sometimes you have to lose something to appreciate what was there. I'm sure he'll miss you and will try to seek you out.
957289
depends on how much you like him - it must be a lot though cos you did sleep with him in July.  if you have not seen him since then - only text messages - then how you think he expects you to drop everything to see him?\n\nif you are not interested in him then i think you should stop texting him cos by keeping in contact all the time then you are giving him false hope.\n\nhope it all works out well for you.
788565
I wouldn't sleep with him yet. 1 month isn't long enough to be able to judge what his true motives are. Make him sweat a bit longer. If he likes you, he'll wait. If he waits, you know he's with you because he likes you, not just because he wants to get it on.
1095434
If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
532680
Honey, no matter what fairy tale you think you live in, Love doesn't happen in a few weeks. You are probably infatuated at the moment; you sound too young to have a boyfriend. \nP.S. it's better to have a shy guy than a loud jerk.
783959
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing