Can someone tell me why younger guys want to be with an older woman?what's the attraction?
103405
for some men its a fantasy to be fullfilled, in other yes its a matter of maturity.. women now a day as men tend to loose the morals and maturity instilled in older generations. then again it could just plane fact that some ppl enjoy being with other ppl... as long as there is love why shoudl it matter.
278643
It doesn't mean anything.  A lot of people, especially guys like to date younger people.  You just have to decide if your interested in older people.
211779
# 1 show her you are mature for your age, an older woman  might indeed be interested in a younger guy if he seems mature enough, #2 most women are impressed with romantic gestures, flowers etc... and genuine flattery/ compliments .. key word is genuine !show her that you  are on her intellectual level, and share some of her interests/ hobbies etc..try being friends with her first and feel out weather she would be interested in a date... even a casual one to start with..   and move in from there, good luck !
481297
i dont know if thats a 100 percent true. i know many many many men in there 40s and 50s that will actually kill to be with a 20 year old rather than a 40 or 50 year old woman. you dont really ever see that because he dont have a chance because he is the "creepy old guy" UNLESS he is RICH. If that is not the case EVERYWHERE in the US then im shocked. 20 year old girls are tight and fit verses a 50 year old, not so tight.so there for older men dont have a chance with the young girls so that have to setttle for the older women. settle sounds bad but they have to take the older women becuase the younger women are unavailable to them.
250568
a younger female is not set in her ways, they been thru less (heartbreak) as suppose a more mature woman have their guard up and more cautious .Opinion - you can get away with a lot of crap with a younger chick than a older chick.
81043
seems like it's a fantasy u have. if u are looking for love i c no harm being with a woman 35-40. they are mature, knows what they want.
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
239333
I don't think there's anything wrong with it.I have younger men interested in me and I just go with the flow. Age doesn't matter as long as you are both adults.
626172
I think every man would choose a younger girl if they could, lol.  Why do you think all the women in the porno mags and that, models, actresses, etc.; are all within the 18-30 range; have all those 'barely legal' chicks in the mags? (I've never looked at a porno, lol; you can buy them at petrol stations here; or they have adds on TV or billboards for the mags, etc., Kind of hard to miss what it says when it's in like ten million font, lol.)  \nAs for your last comment; because they are closer age wise.  My veiw on age is that it's just a number, nothing more; but not everyone agrees with this.  My husband and I, we have 15 years different between us; we were friends first, then dated; then were together; it wasn't just because of age; we just clicked, could talk for ever, even the first night we met, talked for about seven hours;our record was 18 hours in one 24 hour period, lol (It was a weekend, we had a free day, both of us); we have an extremely strong bond, never fight, are always doing those little things for each other that matter so much; but even with the fact that we both feel that we were made for each other; some people still are shocked when they hear the age difference.  If you want them just for sex, and act on it, then that's a problem.  That's a problem for any age group.  But if it's someone you've truelly fallen for, and she has for you; then it shouldn't be anyone else's problem; it's yours, and her decision.  \nHowever, based on your second comment, sex is pretty high up on that list of yours.  If sex is what you want; I recommend you look closer to your age group, for a girl who more knows life; and is less likely to be coerced into things.  As I mentioned, I think it's normal for any guy to find a younger woman attractive.  What's not normal is using them.  Find someone you're intelectually, mentally, attracted to, someone you just find that click with; then go for it, regardless of the age.  Having any kind of relationship with someone you only find physically attractive is highly likely to end up bad for both you and the girl.  Find the personality, mental, etc, traits you're after; the things that would really denote that special someone to you; the physical is easy to find; it's the rest, the stuff that really matters; that's the hardest parts to find.  You may find you find a younger girl.  But don't rule out any age group.  You rule out a good portion of prospective partners then.
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I'm 56 and women your age want to date us guys cause the women your age say younger men are too immature! But it is your choice of what you want out of life? Myself, a women has no age limit for me as long as we are compatible.\nGo for it girl, all you need is self esteem!
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seems like older men are always willing to treat a younger woman like a princess in order to spend time with them.\n\nbut, tell me, wouldn't a cash transference be more honest?
641066
Older women are more comfortable with their sexuality,they know what they want and aren't afraid to go out and get it.\nSo if you want no-strings fun and excitement I suggest you take them up on their offer..if you feel you can handle it!
771588
guys like older girls so there is nothing wrong with it.....most girls become sexually active around this boyfriends age.  He is not going to say anything to anyone....he loves the fact that an older girl is attracted to him.  She's not "robbing the cradle" so to speak, he's old enough to make a decision about who he wishes to date.\n\nI say leave them be....if they are a good couple and are happy who cares!
496692
Well since a woman reaches her sexual peak when she is 30, and a guy when he is 18, theoretically you two should be the perfect match.
825111
IT WAS FOR ME.  MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WHEN I WAS 18 AND HE WAS 43.  YUMMY!!!    AND I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS 24 AND HE WAS 44.  I SAY GO FOR IT.\n\nMY ATTRACTION WAS IN THE FACT THAT AN OLDER MAN KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTED OUT OF LIFE, WAS WORKING TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL, AND I DIDN'T HAVE TO FINISH "RAISING" HIM.  I FOUND THEM TO BE MUCH MORE SELF-CONFIDENT, SETTLED, AND MATURE THAN THE YOUNGER MAN.  AND THE SEX WASN'T BAD EITHER---THEY WERE MUCH MORE INCLINED IN MAKING SURE THAT I WAS SATISFIED.....THEY WEREN'T SELFISH LIKE YOUNG FELLAS WERE.
990469
Women of ages 30+ usually would share their beds with 18y/o boys for a few reasons: They are trying to live that age again, they want to train a boy into a man, they want to cheat on their man with a younger man, they have a fetish with younger men. Although there are other reasons these are the most common. Usually in this sort of relationship the 18 y/o boy is the one who comes out hurt. Unlike her, they are not as mature and do not know how to handle the mix of emotions and sex. Basically a 30+ y/o woman has a mature sense of self. She is sure of what she wants, what she is looking for, what boundary to put up, and she knows it will end sooner or later. Basically an adult of that age really does not have the time for simple styled teen dating. They want to taken out in a respectable manner and if sex is on the list, (please take notes all 18 y/o) IT IS NOT THE MAIN DRIVE IN THE ADULT LIFE. Sex is great entertainment, but it is an option not a necessity.\nFYI: I am a 31 y/o Male. Giving the best advice I can give to any who ask for it. Luck to you!
637104
Immature men (of any age) prefer girls younger because they don't know how to deal with women their own age.  Plus, you may be flattered at the attentions of older boys, so maybe are sending out signals to them.