Ladies, do you prefer a real good man or a real bad boy?
111841
Ah...He has definetly got to be a good man...heart of gold..but at the same time he has a somewhat wild side...but the key is he knows when to unleash it!!!
888492
We like a hard working man.  We like someone who we think is going to be a great father.  We (if sincere) like to have a little extra money, but if since don't ask for too much.  We like a man that KEEPS HIMSELF CLEAN!  We like to be able to be around to take care of the kids.  We like a man who is open and honest but not anything hatred or hurtful.  We like patience and kindness,  We like softness and gentleness.  We like patients and understanding.  We like being pampered in general.  It takes love to give love.  The more she feels like you love her and doing for her, the more love you will get in return!!!!  Get the hint?!
365978
it really depends on the girl, some start appreciating a nice guy when they're in their teens and others never really do.\n \n I think its funny when some women say they want a "bad boy" because in their minds their thinking a handsome hot rodder who plays by his own rules but yet is still a hopeless romantic, GET REAL LADIES!\n \n  They also say they want somebody who is more interesting, well how about they date a pyromaniac? He'll defiantly keep em on their toes. Or how about a guy with multiple personality disorder? then shes not just dating one guy...shes dating a whole LOAD of guys and they all have something interesting in mind.\n\n  I'm sorry i seem to have rambled, fact is, like i said, it varies girl to girl, and not to be one sided, guys need to start appreciating a good girl when they see one too.\n\n So close your eyes, toss a coin into a fountain and make a wish that you'll find that special someone who you appreciate and who appreciates you.
896924
bad boys are exhilarating!!!    i like to be kept on my toes!!;-)\n\nreally though i like to find guys who are caring, etc. after you get to know them.  but in the beginning i'm into the a**holes.  its a rush to be overpowered and out of control once in a while!!\n\n;-)
454972
Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...
1123703
Yes I would.If u want a serious relationship or something thats going to last it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like as long as their a good person and their good to me thats all that matters.If I can look into someone's eyes and see he cares thats the best feeling u can get...Way more better than being with someone w/ a great body.Personaility comes first to me and if they got both even better!But if not 1 out of 2 is fine w/ me as long as the 1 is personality.Cuz whats the point of being w/ a good looking guy whose a jerk u know?
273154
Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
62830
That is all superficial to me! I prefer someone that can stimulate me intellectually and has a lot to offer the world. \n\nBut, since that was not one of the choices, I prefer a guy with a nice looking face but has an out of shape body.
173449
If you're a good girl and want to show that quality to a man, ask him what he wants from a good girl.\n\nIf you're a bad girl and want to show that quality to a man, show him what he's too afraid to ask for.
148733
I'd prefer sophisticated gentlemen. Physical appearance can only last so long but fine attitude and personality will definitely last much longer.
502093
"Bad guys" are more interesting to me because they are challenging, fun, and exciting.  They are mysterious and leave me wanting more.  "Good guys" are the ones that let women run all over them and give them everything they want.  That's no fun at all.  "Bad guys" assert themselves in relationships and look out for their own interests rather than giving women everything they want.  Women may complain about this, but it's what makes for a more exciting time with men and is ultimately what I prefer.  I think this can be true for "good girls" and "bad girls, " too.
1161170
No, i have found a man 100 times better than him in everyway. A man who actually treats me right and makes me feel beautiful!
111912
a man who is honest, loyal, fun-loving, affectionate, gentle, caring, loving, respectful..even in front of their home-boys and not scared to show their feminine side every now and again yet not a wimp....you notice that i did not mention a man with alot of money...most ladies these days are independent and as long as the man can hold his own..they can be working at mickie-dies for all i care..as long as they are not mooching off of me.
505707
Most importantly is how nice they are. If I am with a guy, I want him to appreciate my feelings and take care of me. I don't like someone who is mean or uses harsh language. I like men who are sensitive, considerate, and romantic. I also tend to go for men who have georgous eyes!:) My husband has nice blue ones that change colors with his emotions:). Also, trustworthiness is another big attractiveness....you need to be able to feel safe and secure around your guy.
303510
You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
509344
you know I'm not good looking but almost of my bf is bad and not good looking ones, because i felt in love with that man. based on my experience and from my friends usually bad boys are rely lovable or "chick boy", many girls love them because they are bad... :-)
669166
Girls always want the bad guys...Until they really get a bad guy! I just got out of a relationship and I can assure you I am no longer interested in any guys who are remotely close to bad guys. Be patient...You will find your true love (and she will never leave u for a bad guy)...My only advice is maybe evaluate how you act..are you clingy? do you need to much attention? too too nice? trying to control by being too nice? i found my bf would be like "just quit working i will pay any bills you have"...girls like their independence....well...WOMEN do anyway.