is it  right to try to love someone to forget another??
103635
If it has been a while and you've done some healing and your ready to move on, probably.  If it is right after the other relationship, then probably not, you are looking for a rebound which likely won't last very long, putting you back in the same situation.
1053994
Yes, it is nice to love someone but never put anyone over yourself...If you invest too much time and effort in a relationship but for some reason it ends, you have been put in a decificit, so don't do that....\n\nYou should be number 1 to yourself.\n\nGood luck and have fun!!!!
151427
you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
256683
Yes it's perfectly possible. I think that no one ever truly gets over someone that they've loved they've just learned to ignor it or suppress it or replace the vast majority of it with something else.
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
1138465
no... you dont have to do a physical browl for her like old historical days....\nthis is simply wrong.... if you are not alone in her mind, then it is high time you should talk to her about it....\nalso it depends on whether you came first in her life or the other guy...... \nif you came first.... then you can't do anything except talking out things with her... ask her as to what is the issue.??? finally ask her to decide between the two... \nlisten buddy, whatever is the case.... you cant force love on anyone... and i mean ANYONE..... \nAccept it buddy... she thinking about another guy , only shows that you are insufficient to satisfy her need for love.... \nnow, if you came second in her life, that means she is not able to forget her ex.... you have to love her so much and help her to forget that guy..... there is nothing much you can do, than just loving her....
1059652
Move on with life...that sounds easy but can be hard especially if you loved this person.  From every experience in life we can learn some valuable lesson.  Learn the lesson from this relationship and keeping living.
1055000
there is no guide or rule when u loving somebody,no right or wrong!!!just when the feeling are right,just go ahead!!!
744583
No.\n\nJust because you love someone doesn't guarantee that they'll ever feel the same way back.\n\nTake comfort in the love you feel for them because that's better than nothing. And it gives them a reason to keep going...
687941
you can move on. you don't have to forget all the good memories. those are yours to treasure. all the bad memories too. they are for you to learn from.\n\nsometimes people are in your life for a short time. and the purpose is for you to learn from them or to teach them something. and then they're just gone.\n\nit hurts to move on, but remember there are so many stars in the sky. and you will find someone new. sometimes relationships are just stepping stones to your future.
35684
i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
332549
I can tell you that time will lessen your pain, but you will never forget the person.  I still have a place in my heart for my first love, and while I don't cry over him or technically still "love" him, I will always remember him.  \n\nTime will make it better.  I promise. :)
108510
Accept the fact that it takes two people who both love eather other to have a relationship and as much as you wish that was with this person it isn't.  You deserve to let yourself move on and find someone who will want your love and give you their love back in return.
296315
No, you can love many many people over the course of a lifetime. You can even love more that one person at a time. So if you lose the "Love of your life" then it is posible to move on, you might just not want to.
335259
Be with the one you love! If you cant..try
466723
One can forgive, but they cannot always forget. It seems like it may is time to move on if you have attempted to address the issue to no avail. \nThere is someone better out there that will treat you as you deserve to be treated.