how long does the average teenage relationship between boys an dgirls last?
101789
as long as it takes for a person to dump the other! some last forever, some last for an hour!!!
167575
The boys age or the girls's age?
20000
Do you mean like in her entire life? I'm not sure about average. I can tell you from my experience, though. I've been with 2 guys & I'm only 14. There's bound to be more eventually.
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Deepthinker (I love your name!)\n\nFor starters - This is something to remember -- on one hand, it is a GOOD thing to examine your steps, and decisions.   Too many teens (and everyone in general) do things without considering the consequences.\n\nOn the other hand -- TOO much introspection can lead you to stay in neutral.  Don't get me wrong -- if I were to choose between a regrettable, impulsive act, vs waiting too much, I'd still choose the wait.\n\nBut there are OTHER issues in life where you will need to recognize the person in you that procrastinates.   And, sometimes, waiting for the perfect moment, has its drawbacks.\n\nOK -- NOW, ON TO YOUR QUESTION:\n\nLet's examine your statements, one by one.   ("Your thoughts in quotes").   "I just don't want it because I'm still young but I really like him".\n\nOnly you know when you're ready for a relationship.   Respect that intuition.   However, if it's the fear of the unknown that's stopping you, then you can set the guidelines.  And take it real slow.   Just friends learning about each other.   That way, if he's not "the one", there won't be any hurt feelings, or lingering emotions.\n\nThe fact that you like him is worth noting.   Only you know why, so maintain a balance -- enjoy the moment, and keep your emotions on check, you know.\n\n"NOW AFTER A YEAR HE STILL LIKES ME AND HE'S WAITING"\n\nI don't know if that's typical of teens these days.   When I was a teen, I'd wait for someone to show her I wasn't playing the field, or that she was the one.   But I was just too shy to open my mouth, too!   Waiting a year for someone is admirable if the guy has raging hormones (sorry, to use that term), but shouldn't be a big deal in the sense that anyone with character would have these qualities.   \n\nI guess it's a good thing -- not spectacular, but good.\n\n"MIGHT NOT WORK FOR BOTH OF US.  I FEEL WE HAVE A LOT OF DIFFERENCES."\n\nThat will be an issue if the relationship goes long-term.  And it's not a bad thing.  Differences are what makes couples stronger.  If your communication skills are good, and your emotional levels are mature, you can help one another realize something about themselves (e.g  A blind spot, or something you can make them stronger in ).\n\nIt doesn't work if neither of you is willing to overlook the differences.   It won't work if neither of you are able to yield on these differences.  \n\nI don't know exactly what these differences are.  If they're cultural -- that's significant, though NOT impossible to work out.   If these differences are something like hobbies, or interests -- well, if you like one another, you will learn to appreciate what that other person is into, and it will add to your life experience.  However, if it's something like he's into sports, and you're not -- well, again, you can work it out.  Couples need to give one another space on some issues.\n\n"I ALSO BELIEVE HE REALLY LOVES ME BECAUSE ... MORE OF A DECADE."\n\nThe decade part is more of a consideration.  There IS something valuable in knowing someone for 10 years, even if you never spent time with one another.  It's significant in that the time to observe and indirectly share in a timespan has its value.\n\nYou don't, and won't know if he really loves you, DT.  True love is more than a feeling, or needing companionship.  It's unconditional.  It's mutual respect.  It's about forgiveness and acceptance.\n\n"SHOULD I GIVE US A CHANCE?"\n\nFriendship is always a good thing.  Just take it slow.  Don't have any expectations.   Keep a watch on the doubts, and see if they evaporate with time, and what caused them to leave.   If they left because of physical contact (and it's WAY too early, for that, and can lead to shortcuts you might regret later).\n\nBut, if those doubts leave because o
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It's fine. My friend has been with her bf for 3.5 years, since she was 18 and he was 26. They're very happy together. But it all depends on the person.
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For a teenager, 6 months IS a long time! Continue to maintain your healthy relationship by keeping the lines of communication open, and being sure you can talk to eachother about important things. It sounds to me like you're right on track! Good luck!
351883
That's kind of iffy. There are a lot of differences between those ages that don't exist when you're, say, talking about a 25 year old and a 27 year old.\n\nThe big difference is experience, and if you were my younger sister, I'd tell you that the 17 year old boy just wants one thing.\n\nStick with other 14 year olds for now, guys who have other things in common with you than that "one thing".
165083
Don't worry about that. Most Jr. High relationships last for about a week so they are seriously pointless. They just date because they think it looks "cool" but it really doesn't. Just be a kid for now. When you get older you will have more time to worry about junk like that. hth
75614
They have to set a date somewhere. How much does that sort of thing affect you now? Seriously, so they're with a different group, and a year later. Big deal. It really means that they will be one of the more mature kids, that could be a great advantage, certainly better than being one of the least mature when you hit puberty!
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yes i agree with past answers that it depends on age. personally i think since you guys are so young, there shouldnt be a difference of more than 2-3 years. I mean junior high and high school are really different enviornments for you both. It'll be hard for you guys to relate on alot of things. So think hard about it before taking a step. goodluck :)
26378
doesnt matter...just so long as its somewhere you and her can bond and get close to one another..she is almost to that age where she will be hard to talk to..it will be good for you and her to have that relationship established
717840
It depends on the woman.  Personally, I've been with my bfriend for 5 years (it'll be 5 years on May 15th) and our sex lives are the same like it was when we first started dating.
1119853
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.
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depends how long you have been dating, how old, is there lots of sex, etc.  \nIf out of high school more often, if dating for awhile more often.  2-4 for first couple months 5-7 after a few months
906123
i guess it depends whether they are comfortable with the girl they are with or used to them being around i remember my 9th grade and 8th grade boyfriend wasnt dippy at all because he was comfortable with me being around and thats what helped us last until today lol but he can be goofy at times but i find it pretty funny so i dont think he is a moran for it i think every guy should have a little goof and no how to live a little and not be serious all the time
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Believe it or not, most lie about it.  The average age is 17 with males.  Shamefully 13 with females.
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There really isn't a point. I personally had my first boyfriend in the ninth grade and I still wasn't ready! You're just too young at that point. I hated being chained to one person. The girls that switch from one boyfriend to another are just looking for attention. They aren't secure enough in themselves so they find a guy that they think could make them feel better about themselves but it only leaves them emptier.