if your boyfriend would stop calling you and asked some space w/o any explanation,what should you do?
106645
NO THATS NOT FAIR .. YOU NEED TO ASK HIM IF YOU GET NO ANSWER YOU NEED TO GO OWN WITH YOUR LIFE FIND SOMEONE ELSE BC HE HAS..THATS WHY HE CANT TELL YOU ANYTHING IF IT DONT WORK OUT WITH HER HE HAS YOU WAITING....
454162
Sure, go ahead and call. ONCE. Just say something like, "listen, I really don't know why you're not talking to me, but it matters enough to me to find out. So, here I am, calling. If you are willing to talk about it, know that I would like to. If you're not, then I won't bug you."\n\nAnd, you have to leave it be at that. Otherwise, you'll be making BOTH of yourselves buggy...\n\nIt may be just the opening he's looking for, because it's possible that HE is afraid to call YOU. Maybe not. But you won't know if you don't try. Just ONCE though...
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
569316
Oh Jeeze...This is an obvious mis-communication in languages from man-speak to woman-speak.  You said,"What's wrong?" and he said "Nothing," but you already had it in your mind that there was something wrong, so you persisted.  YOU ARE NAGGING HIM.  Now he has something wrong - you.  Leave him alone, and let him have his space.  He'll call you later (it's been less than 1 day - you'll be fine).  Sorry to sound so rude, but I've had this too many times.  I would end up argueing because nothing is wrong, and I have to think of something to be wrong when she insists on an answer, when I'm really just tired/moody/blah.
964765
There's really nothing you can do. If you keep calling him, you'll just push him further away and appear desperate, which is an unattractive quality.\n\nNext time, don't "talk" a relationship to death in its early stages. Too much time on the phone is a surefire way to kill romantic sparks. Make a date, hang up the phone and meet in person to see if there is physical chemistry. \n\nIf you just give him some space and stop calling, he may decide to call you again. But that's beyond your control so don't sweat it. Move on, girlfriend!
593172
Have you talked to him about this?\nCommunication is important.  If he is unaware that he is being rude, then he will not know to stop.\n\n\n"If he truly loved you, he would give it up for you, or at least cut down on it alot."\nHow manipulative.  So if somebody loves you then they should give up things for you?"
737896
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
277418
he prolly just dont know how to break up with u in a nice way ......he doesn't want to be with u but then he doesn't want to hurt u ... its really bothering him ......... you might just wanna save him the trouble and tell him that ur just gonna give him his own space and to let u know when and if he's ever ready to come back around then all he has to do is call u.
227393
Don't break up, just say you need some breathing room and your feeling mentally claustrophobic, Agree not to see other people because that will send the wrong message, but just maybe for a week, limit calls to once a day, and spend more time doing what you want to do. I guarantee when your mini-break is over, your relationship will feel like new
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
372825
Uh, if he needed space, why was he in a position to be dumped by someone else. Sounds to me like he just wanted to be with someone else, since he can't be with her, you're better than being along. Don't waste your time with him.
687322
You're moving right? Well worst case- you bug him a little too much and then move away, he's gone. So take ur chances with him while u still can. Don't just call to call- it can get annoying. Call to invite him somewhere or out on a date.
1051872
Quit following the "RULES" who's the expert you or some handbook of rules that everyone goes by? If you like the guy call him if not then don't call him...If I were him and I gave you my number and you called me weeks or months later I wouldn't bother to pick up because if it took you that long to call that means you were not interested...Get what I'm saying....Make your own rules!!
1108314
just clal him back and apologize for accidently hanging up on him\n\nim sure hell understand\n\nwhy would you not pick up..\n\nits the friggin guy you like
180264
Well you would have to ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. Did you only break up with him because he moved away, and then he came back and you got back together? Or was it something that you didn’t like and couldn’t resolve? Is he the type of guy that you want to be with and is he worth the trouble. If he is, then good. Here’s what you do to resolve this issue. You tell him that you want him to do something about this other guy harassing you. Men are really easy to figure out. We're problem solvers. You just telling him about this other guy may not move him into action until you tell him it's a problem. With guys you have to be specific with what you want from us. We see a problem, we try to fix it. If we don't see a problem, we probably won't act on the situation unless we're told to do so. If you tell your boyfriend that this is a problem and you want him to do something about it, I guarantee you he will. Especially if he really cares for you.
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.