How do I know if we are in a serious relationship without explicitly asking?
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Dear Penny,\nBefore asking any questions, or even analysing the myriad of eye movements, hand gestures and pupil dilating which probably indicate commitment, think what YOU want from this relationship. \n\nThe previous respondent talked about friends with benefits, but in this instance I have the feeling it applies to you also. \n\nSo: how do you feel about him? Honestly? Do YOU want to commit? If the answer is yes, be brave, be honest, and let him know you're ready to take this relationship to the next level.\n\nGood luck!
730490
That's a hard one. There's no other way to find out so just ask or ignore it and live your life. The latter may really be the better option.
472275
just think about it and you will know!!\ncuzz it comes from your hart not by asking someone.
266673
A relationship is something that is a day by day thing. When the time is right you won't be having to ask that question. Good luck!!
523882
How can you not know if you are going out? And just ask him.
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
424759
Its better to ask him directly, you never know may be he loves you.
1035829
you can ask, but you either trust someone or you don't.  if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.  and if you do trust him, you have to know in your heart he wouldn't do that even if there are signs that might point that way.
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You'll just have a deep inner peace.  You won't have to second guess whether or not he is honest, sincere, and faithful.  If you have to guess at any of those then your internal/spirit man is telling you something isn't right.  Sometimes we have to take a big step back to really see someone.  Good luck to you!
169159
That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
56578
Listen very carefully...\n\nShow him what you just asked us...\n\nAnd then ask him what he would like...\n\nBut I have a pretty good feeling he already knows how much you love him and doesn't need a reminder...
531593
why don't you ask? You'll never know until you ask.  But you'll really know if he's interested in you by the conversations you have, tone of voice,how and where you met him, and if he is calling and texting you as much as you are.  = )
438165
OK JUST TELL THIS PERSON THAT YOUR ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP......WHY DO YOU NEED TO ASK WHAT SHOULD YOU DO ABOUT THAT ITS COMMON SENSE....
586196
honestly, just ask her if she has one...guys ask me if i have a boyfriend all the time and i dont care at all. it lets me know hes straight up and interested.
1093961
If you were in love you wouldn't have to ask.\nInfactuation is confusing, love is crystal clear.
233896
Go ask him. How should i know.
348642
Life is short. Just ask him, even a friend would not abandon you after that question.\nBring it up in a discussion.\nPlease do not mention that you love him. \nNot at first anyway.