What's the best way for a man to "go longer" during sex?
102638
Keep going until you're ALMOST ready to climax, then stop your movements until the sensation dies down a little, start back up again, and repeat. It'll also make your climax a lot more intense when you do let yourself go.
172312
There is a story I remember from my younger days about a man who had amazing staying power when he was having sex with a woman, this guy could go all night.\nWe got him drunk one night and asked him his secret, he told us that when he was going out and knew he was having sex he would self satisfy himself first then go out. he said it made him last longer.\nTake it as you will.
295001
You know how guys can  make their d*** move by flexing thier muscle down there? Have him practice moving it up and down like that, it will strengthen it and he will start to last longer.
1048001
This site has some great tips on technique and positioning: http://www.sexinfo101.com/\n\nNipple-licking/sucking seems to be the new 'in' thing to do to guys during intercourse. When giving head, don't forget to massage his balls (gently).
596893
get a pregnancy test, and next time have sex with someone who will last longer than a minute.  o and please use protection.
18796
30-40 min!!!!!!!!!!!!!1\nwho can do it??\nno ideal time but if you can ejaculation together this is the best way to injoy eatch other
363899
depends... what iam watching or doing.. best conditions about 3 minutes to reach climax
788978
whack off before your date.... then you'll last longer.\n\nwear a condom...
291615
There are a number of things you can do, dependong on what is so terrible. Is it terrible solely because you don't "finish"? Is it terrible because he doesn't last long? There are solutions to each of those problems. But to get the best answer, I'd need to know the specific problem. To help you finish, try making foreplay last longer, try different positions, different "activities". If the problem is that he doesn't last long enough you can actually buy creams that'll make him last longer. Just word of warning if you use those, wait like 10 minutes after he puts it on to actually start having sex. Otherwise the desensitizing in it will also work on you and that'll defeat the whole purpose. Look here www.pureromance.com to get some more ideas to simply spruce it up! Have fun!
137144
you can buy condoms that are thicker, or he could wear two. Also there are excercizes that he can try, like masturbating himself and then stopping before he comes, and then starting again etc.
1120186
There are a few things you can try.\n\n1) Masturbate beforehand. Then go into some foreplay and by the time you're ready again, you will be able to last much longer.\n\n2) Kegel exercises. These are exerises where you contract your pelvic floor muscles, which will give you better control over your wee-wee over time. Squeze like you're trying to stop yourself from peeing. Vary between contracting and holding (for 3 seconds, 5 seconds, 10 seconds and eventually as long as you can), and doing sets of 10 short bursts. Do them three times a day. Women know these a little better than men do, but they can benefit us as well. It'll take some time before you start to see any benefit from these and you'll have to keep them up.\n\n3) Buy a numbing cream like Durex Maintain. There are a few others out there. Be careful with this, though. Too much and you won't feel anything at all. Also, make sure you put this on yourself and then cover with a condom. If it isn't covered, it could easily be transferred to your partner, which means that she won't be able to feel much either and then the whole endeavour will be pointless.\n\n4) dareelinjury's answer is also good. Practice by yourself, building up to the point of no return, backing off, then building up and backing off and so on. When doing this during sex, back off and give her a good time in other ways for a minute or two before you go back at it again.\n\n5) You'll usually have more control over yourself if she's on top doing the thrusting. It's usually better for her as well.
196700
Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
723808
If you're normally more aggressive and he's more go with the flow...\nStart out by massaging his back, then work your way around his entire body.\nRoll him over and ride him. Very slowly at first and let him dictate the tempo.\n\nIf it's normally the other way around then talk him into reversing what I said above... Except when he rolls you over, you get up on your knees and let the chips fall where they may.\n\nAs far as being happier. One thing I always try to do is act clumsy now and then well before either of us gets too aroused. It eases the pressure on performance for both people. Be silly and laugh together (but not at each other.) Sliding off the edge of the bed is a huge trick that makes for some really good laughs. Then get in there and have your way with him.\n\nIf that doesn't work then corner him somewhere in your house and start undressing him.\n\nAs far as sexual activities, read up on how to do specific things you like, ask him what he likes or wants more, read up on that and go for it.\n\nGood luck!
525477
There are topical products available that desensitize you to some extent so that you last longer.  The suggestions above are excellent, as well, especially masturbating ahead of time.  Some men find that wearing a condom helps...er, slow things down a bit, too.  Relax, incorporate some toys into your foreplay to increase the pleasure for your girlfriend, and try to focus on the journey instead of the destination...\n\nGood luck!
395657
I think that it is up to you, if he is about finish. You will never be in more control than at this point, I say, Have a little fun!!! Don't quit altogether, that would be a little mean, but tease, flick, lick, squeeze, etc...\n\nThe longer you play, the more intense it will be for the guy, and when you do finally finish him off, he will be screaming in pleasure, and you will burn an image of yourself as a sex goddess in his mind for the rest of his life!!!!
215945
The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
423812
I like to start with slow kissing, long and passionate, then lots of caressing and licking while slowly undressing each other. Taking your time and a little teasing before actual sex is the best! It prolongs the whole experience and when you both finally org*sm then he should satisfy you more with or*l sex, and you do the same to him afterward!