why my parents don't let me take a decision on my own.?
113634
Most of the parents take their childerns as property. Do not worry.
59951
If you are a good student and dependable you're parents shouldn't stop you from looking for what you want for your future.  However if you feel you need to suck up to be allowed to do this chances are you don't fall into that category anyways so you're on your own to find a way to go out of state to party with friends
805300
i don't think its your parents decision. its up to you to decide if you want to join or not.
112143
well you should go were you want to,\nif you really want to go and and your parents wont let you go tell them you really want to go and that you know what you are doing...  thats what i would if i was in your place.
442763
Be careful, your parents CANNOT possibly decide what is best for you unless you are a child.  Please LIVE and LOVE your own way in life...there is sooo much to be lost otherwise!
56742
The freedom to choose your own path is important, but remember that your parents have traveled that path before however impossible that seems.  Some choices that you make will forever alter the direction of your life.  Choose wisely.
698524
believe it or not your parents know more than you do\n\nu dont pay your own way so u have to live by the rules that they put forth....... get a job..... show that u are responsible........ give your parents $20 a week........ act like an adult and u will be treated better........ but being grounded for not following their rules isnt having your rights taken away...... it is called growing up
677811
are you 18? if ur not they wont let you.
528458
You don't. While it is admirable that you wish to honor your parents by doing their wishes, you need to lead your own life.  There no sence in getting into a relationship where you know you won't be happy.  It's time to break the cycle and make your own decisions.  I understand your parents would be disappointed and possibly disown you,and I mean no disrespect towards them, but,in my opinion your child's happiness should come first even if it means not marrying the person you feel they should.
964031
Why don't you propose the rules and the consequences for breaking the rules that you will have in place for the slumber party then ask your parents. It will show them that you are responsible and that you have thought it out.
166352
Yes, God still loves you actions and he always will. You are very blessed that you have parents that have given you a foundation to stand on. When you become independent you too will make choices for you and your children. Even though you may not agree with them, they have your best interest at heart and that will give you the courage to make a stand one day.When you are ready, nothing will stop you from making your own choices & decision.
536602
they are your parents and parents don't always see things the way we want them to. But they almost always have our best interest at heart. Lot's of times they have been in similar situations and can draw from their own experiences when making decisions concerning their children. I would just be glad that they care enough to have a say in my life there are so many kids out in the world today that  have no one to care or direct them in  their life choices. They are to busy doin drugs or partying to care what their kids need or don't need. Show them that you are Trust worthy and dependable. You really have to work at these things. But when they know that they can depend on you to keep your word and do what needs to be done.......Then they will trust your decisions more. Good luck and God Bless.
158123
parents usually get mad when their kids fail to follow rules or do what is expected of them .Parents don't tell their kids to do things just for the heck of it. They want their children to learn some responsibilty so that they can make right choices in life. Your parents are only concerned about you and your well being. they want what is best for you. Try not to lie, if you are caught doing something wrong, admit to it. It is a very mature move, believe me, and after you admit to what you did wrong, apologize. You can also talk to your parents about your goals and let them know that you need them to help you fulfill your goals.Parents like to be needed by their children, I think that is the scariest part for parents when kids grow up, the thought that their kid doesn't need them anymore.
667083
At a certain point in everyone's life they must choose to do what is best for them which may not be what their parents wish. If your father is unwilling to pay college expenses explore other available financing offers. Going against parental wishes is difficult. You must decide which is more important - your desire for higher education or maintaining family harmony!
411858
You are controlling your life.  Deciding to go with the flow is your own decision. Even doing nothing about a situation is making a decision (to do nothing).  Don't be so hard with yourself.  I was well over 30 before I decided what I wanted to do.  Stick it out if you can.  At least with that subject you will learn alot about yourself (and therefore others).  If you can't stick it out then leave, and when you do learn what it is that makes your heart sing - go for it, get the qualification then - like I did.\nGood luck
302197
Belief is a very strong thing, I'm not sure that if you really thought about it you would be surprised that your decision upsets your parents. Although the freedom to choose is yours alone, I don't think you will easily get your dad to accept your faith. Just make sure you follow it because you believe it, not to make dad mad.
151545
Sounds a lot like my parents. I have shown in every way that I am a good girl, I get good grades, I fulfill my family responsibility, I stay out of trouble, and etc. And yet, they still are strict. Of course, this is unfair b/c I believe with my record, trust should be easily given. I talked to them about what I wanted (a boyfriend) and why I deserve it WHILE presenting the reasons why they should, how good of a person I am, and how happy it will make me if they let me, and how sad and upset I will be if they didn't. If they still say no to whatever they are strict with, ask them why. Ask for an explanation, why they do not trsut you, or why they shouldn't let you experience something that may be valuable to your life. \nWe're in America, we need a little more freedom.\n\nGood luck