when should a girl make the first move? should she kiss him first, or tell him "i love you" or just wait
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
391164
Wat u wanna know from us.........\n\nHE LIKES U OKAY JUST HE WANT U TO TELL HIM FIRST >>>>>>NOW GO N KISS HIM
143926
Body language speaks louder than words.  Show him you're into him.  Cross you're legs in his direction, lean in when he is speaking to you.  Watch his body language too...Does he look directly at you when you have a conversation or does his eyes wander?  When its right you both will know.  A first kiss is special, something you will alaways cherish and remember...Don't rush it, good things come to those who wait...Good luck!!
558211
i think he is like me!! i been on like 3 dates with this chick but i don't know when or how to kiss her. Well i am shy i guess. So if u relay like this guy just take the first step and kiss him.
68189
you just gotta kiss her when you feel the time is right!\nThat is when its the best time cause then you'll know she'll kiss you back ok!\n  But make sure you DONT ask her if you can kiss her ok its not the right thing to ask a girl ok!\n         GOOD LUCK!
936552
Go up to HIM and start flirting. If he's making eye contact, it may not be a bad idea to make the first move!\n\nGuys don't always move at the speed we want them to move.
212310
Don't worry if he doesn't make the first move.  He probably wants to but is just shy.  If you make the first move he'll really like it and it will reassure him.  Then he'll act more naturally.
887439
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
612326
Since it might be the first time for the both of you you have to be very careful and take it one step at the time. Kiss and touch each other until you are ready. Being a women it should not be difficult to initiate. Take his hand, kiss him softly and slowly touch his back. That should be it for starters. Take it easy form there and it will be a memorable experience.
484120
Do the honor and give him his very first kiss. Teach him how you want it done. If it's your first time too then better- you can experiment together.
62705
maybe he is a little scared to do the first move, why don't you try to kiss him and see what happens.  if he doesn't respond or backs off, then there maybe some serious problems.  and you could talk about it.  but don't let another month, week, day go by without trying to kiss him.  it is best to get it out in the open.  just think of the possibilies once you start kissing and he is into it, then you won't be able to get him to stop :P
137418
Go for the kiss when your heart feels right. I like it when a female leads into a kiss, just grab his hand, squeeze so he looks at you then kiss him... my first girlfriend did that and that is what made her my girlfriend
1185714
if the guy is shy and dsnt make a move...then......YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!! trust me! i did!! and i never regret any of it...well, his glad i did the first move too.(this is the 21st century,its the century where girls make the first move instead of guys)You deff should make the first move...\n\nIf a guy likes you, \n-he will read your sms over n over again\n-he calls just to say 'hey'\n-he calls just to say where he is and where r u.and how r u? hows ure day? etc etc....\n-pretend 2 go sick,(2 see if he really cares)n if he do...tht means he cares for u :)\n-when ure talking to him face to face,compliment him like 'i like your hair'...then see if he blushes! (if he does...scorre!!)\n-if you see a bunch of hot girls walking your way...purposely walk slightly 1cm behind him...n when you guys pass those hot girls,take a peek at his eyes..to see if his looking at those hot girls..if he didnt...then all he care is YOU.\n-surprise him with gifts..(doenst have to b expensive) n see if he blushes and smile...\n-if u want to know if a guy likes you....whenever u guys r going out...even tho to a nearby store..he will dress smartly...dress to impress...\n-Last but not least...if u want to know if a guy likes you, his tone of voice is different with you than to his homies..his laughter is different whenever his with you...
41801
The guy should make the first move.  That way, the girl knows that he is confident enough to go for it, and the guy doesn't have to sit around waiting for her to make a move.  Any confident guy will make a move on a girl he likes.
321700
keep it slow.. if you like her you now whens its the right time to kiss her and stuff just keep it slow so.. she knows ur respctful.  you can hold her hand girls love it when there comforted by their guy lol
673146
I've known this guy for about eight months and he hasn't kissed me either...usually when they don't kiss you right away that means he probably cares about you a lot, and is scared to make the first move.  Some guys are clueless about things unless you talk to them about how you feel about them.
981437
WHOOAAAA!!  Hold on, and give the guy a chance!\n\nLet HIM kiss you. Besides, if he finds you so sexually attractive, that should be enough initiative for him to kiss you. \n\nIn the mean time, eat plenty of mints and brush your teeth (as I'm sure you already do). ------That way, you'll be ready for the big moment. \n\nBUT BUT BUT!!!!----Here's the deal, you guys are DATING and haven't really outlined a RELATIONSHIP per se. There's a difference between the two.  \n\nMaybe he's not quite ready for a RELATIONSHIP now (which may be signified by you all's first kiss), and he doesnt want to lead you too far on beyond the usually flirtation.