why cant we all make Love and not war?
106822
We'd just end up fighting over lovers. It's human nature to be violent. We need to learn to love war on a smaller scale, like maybe with our neighbors. At least then we would know who we were fighting and what it was about. Globalization just promotes remote-control wars with people we don't know while we don't even talk to the people we live next to. We need to stop trying to get rich through growing exploitation of the weak or the weak-minded.\nBuy less, buy local, including weapons. Join the Pitchfork Party. We only do business with people we can reach with a pitchfork.
287646
sex is an animal instinct.... some people don't care how they get it as long as they get it. They block all emotion out of it. The people who have sex only for love just have to accept that not everyone out there is like them. People actually do have sex for the act of it alone, and not for love and commmitment.
384484
sex is only one part of love... and definitely can't carry the load all by itself.\n\nany love that you "make" a man feel will be outweighed ten times by his feelings of resentment for being "made" to feel it.\n\ndon't be manipulative.  : |
125337
The reason why men cannot live without sex is probably because we have a high sex drive. And maybe there are some guys out there who have a higher sex drives than others. Probably those are the men who just want to get into your pants.\n\nAnd no, sex does not make a relationship stronger. Who says that? That's gotta be like the lamest excuse ever...
232782
there is no love.\nhow old r u?\n\npeople always hurt other people, just because act in their own interests, forget about everything ang go get laid
279210
That mind set is exactly why we don't have peace. War should only be considered as a last resort peace win/win negotiations should be the stratergy
321539
Sex....and baseball????  Hmmmm....\n\nWell, to answer your question, I believe you can have love without sex.  Two people can have a deep attraction to one another and not have sex.  BUT, sex is a natural action for all animals really, so it should not be excluded from building love.  Sex can deepen love to new levels.  But if someone were to say "I can't love you until we have sex" I would say they are only after that and nothing else.\nIt's OK if that is really all you want, but you should tell the other person that so they know exactly who they are getting.\nWas that confusing enough???  lol
596454
Behind the publicly announced reasons for every war in the whole human history you ll find what else... interests of a few people or families and money! If people cannot understand this reality there will be always wars. If people undersand that every war is just a way that few people chose to be richer then maby there are no more wars. War is also part of the human civilization as very often without war there is no progress in science and discoveries. It could be heaven if there is no war at all but... we need time until we all realise how stupid is to become wors than the most disgusting animal...
987060
No, because we definitely wouldn't want peace because there would be no progress and nothing to struggle for. What we are really looking for is a world with non-violence where we solve our conflicts and disputes diplomatically without going to war. That is a world in which there is till conflict but it is never violent and the opposite of peace is not war it is creation! It is completely possible to be non-violent, but to always agree on everything that would make us all the same and that kills diversity. To address the question of human nature. Humans are not inherently hateful, violent, or mean that's what we have been taught in our culture, there have been cultures in which this was not the case it merely requires some thoughtful research into ancient societies. Human nature is not fixed we are not bron a certain way it is mutable and we are programmed by our culture to behave in certain ways deemed culturally appropriate. The argument that humans are by nature violent has no real grounds because it will always be biased by a cultural viewpoint that see's violence as inevitable (such as ours here in the U.S.) Therefore we will always assume all humans are violent even when presented with evidence to the contrary. Humans are very capable of loving one another we see it happen all the time if we dain to look beneath the surface of things. We have had political struggles that have challenged racism, homophobia, sexism and so on all of which stem from a consciousness of love. I fully assert that humans are extremely loving creatures and that we can develop that side of our "nature".
88899
I am answering you now.\nWhy do all people combine love and sex and sex and love today.\nLove is something independent of such physical needs or desires.\nIt is your mentality which makes you think like this, otherwise they both have no relation and that is all.
567948
not always.  Love and sex are nice combinations but that's not all there is to love.  Or sex.
781832
because if people stopped loving eachother, there is no hope for humanity. \n     humans are created out of love, so it is paradoxical if we do not love in return\n     loving people rather than hating them can make you live longer.\n     Maybe if serial killers and rapists were loved when they were younger, they wouldnt have become such evil people, who knows? Everyone deserves a chance\n     Humans were created in God's image, and God loves everyone, so we should too
1089942
There are two things that can never happen because of the nature of mankind, one of them is true peace. Even if we all did find some way to get along, there would always be some jerk to mess it up at a personal level.
584603
Because not everyone wants the same thing.  Many people want no war or poverty, but not as much as they want other things: like power or prestige or the world to be the way that they'd like it.  As long as these things are more important for some people, we will unfortunately be stuck with chaos.
318331
You've got to be able to discuss your differences and share your feelings, but that doesn't mean it has to be fighting.\n\nSometimes our communication styles just aren't compatible.
138162
We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
5897
yes we humans are designed to be territorial and against the ones that are not our own. We can evite other conflicts by making sure everybody feels part of the human family.