im a man hater when i seperated my husband,is there any possibility that i could love someone else?
114322
Like they say, it's not the end of the world. Try to think of things, anything could be possible. Find yourself, and when you know you're ready, try opening the door in your heart once again...
634527
WELL get over it, and think and ask yourself, did he do his best to get you back, and does he really deserve you,OF COURSE NOT OTHERWISE YOU WOULD NOT BE DIVORCED\nHE DOESNOT LOVE YOU, YOU BETTER FIND TO YOURSELF SOMEBODY ELSE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU;
193587
Something similar happened to me and I thought that the other man was the love of my life.I still love and care for him and can't get him out of my system, but I wonder if I would have felt that for anyone who was there for me at that moment,being that I was so needy emotionally.It is a tough thing to deal with and very unfair.I want to tell you go with your heart,but understand that isn't easy sometimes.\ngood luck and I will pray that the universe leads you in the right direction.Be open and honest with yourself and remember you deserve to be happy!
447223
Man you should love your wife. Why hate someone who you are married to. If you hate her then leave her.................................
470258
I will warn you now from being ther 'other woman'... you are setting yourself (and the prospecitve other woman) and your wife up for a LOT of heartache. I fell in love with a man that I can't have and it has destroyed my life (message me offline if you want to hear it). He calls his wife an ice cube and they have barely had any kind of intimate relationship in four years. I gave him love, affection and my soul only to have it destroyed. Could you honestly hurt anyone like this if it happened?? You have to think of all of the people that will become involved and it will more than likely turn into a big mess.\n\nThink seriously before you proceed.
373901
Look I went through the same thing with my ex wife ....I started to realize it wasn't any thing I could do.... Cause it wasn't just up to me it was up to her too.....You can only carry some one for so long before you end up being the same person....I know it will be hard but maybe it is time to move on ....Don't be anybodies fool... You need to start a life that gives you some comfort and happiness..Sounds like you need it....And I know you have a child ,but wouldn't you rather have you child have all the love he/she could get from you ? Rather than you being so worried about what your husband is doing late at night.When you woory about what your husband is doing you take away the focus your child needs .... Hope that helps a little\nEXPLAYA here
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Honestly, I'm not a marriage counselor or even close to it.  To me though, it sounds like maybe you and your husband aren't as connected on an emotional level if you ask me (which you did, haha).  Maybe the reason you feel this way for someone else is because you've lost those feelings for your husband.  I know it's hard, after marriage and two kids, but it's important to stay physically, emotionally, and mentally involved with each other.  Just try things like going on dates with your husband.  Try to reconnect with him and remember all of the reasons why you married him.  Maybe your husband has a great personality, wit, and a beautiful mind also.  Maybe you just need to remind yourself of it.
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I went through a similar situation....what I discoved was that it wasn't anything I had done, but the people he was housed with were either jealous we had a strong relationship and they didn't or just "got off" on seeing other people "hard time". They have a lot of time to think in there, and their own insecurities get the best of them sometimes. Hang in there! My husband has been out for 1 1/2 years, and everything has worked out. I wish the same for you.
489150
Good riddance to him. He is not a supportive husband. He is useless. Don't regret what you have done.
204744
Tried the swinger thing...husband ended up falling in love and going from fun to affair...on the flip side he loves me again but i can't forgive him for falling out of love with me.  And i've found someone else.
944662
You deserve someone better,of course you miss him,that's normal.Humans have feelings,you will get over it soon.Keep yourself busy so wont think of it,whenever you are free do something like spend more time with your children.Almost forget ask him for maintenance fee.
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If your marriage is mostly stable, consider the outcomes that are possible. What if the person you divorce your husband for doesn't return your feelings? If you know you'd be happier divorced, with or without this other man, then you should take the divorce. Otherwise, I'd try marriage counseling, because it doesn't sound like you're very happy with your marriage right now.
632933
yeh, it's possible. and you can try counseling. i fell out of love. and i don't think it's gonna work for me.
723161
No, it doesn't mean you don't really love him. Some of the things my husband does embarasses me. If I think he could be a 'better' person, then I suggest to him about changing. Sometimes I just live with it. :-)
722957
Be VERY sure that it is love and not lust. I made the mistake of thinking it was love and divorced. BIGGEST, BIGGEST, mistake of my life. Now I'm married to the jerk!
203932
You can love as many people as you know out there. Remember, love is a DESICION. The love that you promised to your husband should be UNIQUE, because the decision that you made to him is for just one person at a time.\n\nAny other type of love should be welcome.
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COME ON ! ! YOU CAN ALL WAYS GET ANOTHER MAN ONE EVEN BETTER THEN WHAT YOU'VE GOT NOW , BUT YOUR KIDS ARE ONE OF A KIND. THEY ARE THE ROOT OF YOUR LIFE ,THEY MAKE YOU WHOLE ( YES  OR  NO  ? ) THERE ARE TO , TOO  MANY MEN IN THIS WORLD JUST SO YOU'LL SETTLE FOR THE ONE BREAKING YOUR HEART EVERY TIME YOU SEE HIM , THINK HARD SWEETHEART .