What do you do when you like someone but you're already in a realtionship?
98499
breaking hearts is bad Karma. respect yourself and your mate by giving full attention. if you yearn someone else then you must make a honorable escape or dont be a future woman complaining why men are so whatever. if he finds out your boinking someone else and his heart is in love, like so many of young men (to tough to admit) then he'll probibly take it out on his future mates.
879273
well if you like him and u know that he likes u too then you should go ahead and tell him your feelings and see if it can work out
660542
First off, it makes more sense to like someone who likes you because liking someone who's never going to like you is not ever going to get you anywhere. If one of them likes you and the other one doesn't; just go ahead and like the one that likes you and forget the other one. If neither likes you, then, you shouldn't even think of either. If both of them like you, that's when you have a dilemma.\n\nSecondly, if they both like you, you should get to know them both as friends (if you're not the sort to date two guys at once). As long as you don't sleep with both, it's not at all cheating. Just getting to know them would be enough to decide which one you want if you want to make up your mind to have only one of them.\n\nThe sure way of finding out if someone likes you is to ask him bluntly. Or you can ask hypothetical questions. Either way, you've got to openly talk to that person. You also need to spend some time with him to pick up substantial evidence of whether he likes you.
1006048
Whenever u like someone just go ahead and the first thing u do is express ur feelings for him and show him that u LIke him and care for him. Bcause if u r late may be someone else will propose him and take him away from u. So dont bother even if he likes u or not and express ur feelings b4 anyone does it.
251251
Don't commit yourself to something that isn't there. . . yet.\n\nI understand the chemistry, but things are as you said "unsaid."  Keep him as a friend, and if time and distance allows you to pursue a relationship go for it. But in the meanwhile don't close yourself off to someone who may be closer and ready to take that step.
745200
if she likes someone else, you need to find someone intrested in yourself...otherwise you are wasting time..
338400
If you have to ask, then maybe.... Slow down a little. You're just dating, right? If your feelings start to become more serious, look closely. It's a lot to take on. Figure out if you really want that. It's a big decision. Don't take it lightly, but don't run away either. It doesn't have to be something you can't handle. YOU get to decide.
1102777
You only go around once in this life. If you like him and you think he likes you what else is there to think about.As for your mon the only person who needs to aprove of it is you.
919264
Don't make the same mistake twice.  There is a reason you have been friends for so long.  Do it and take the chance.  You have to think about it this way....You take chances with total strangers all the time without knowing them at all.  Why not give the same chance to someone you know you already LOVE!!!
1110975
That sucks! Believe it or not though, another guy will come around, probably someone you hadn't even noticed because you've been too infatuated with this guy. Are you sure he likes her though? It would suck for her too though if she really likes him and you and he started dating. I think you're supposed to be happy for her or she's supposed to be happy with him, but it hurts.
407139
Take the time to do the things you enjoy that you maybe didn't get a chance to do before.  Now you only have yourself to consider. Date.  Have fun.  Go out with your friends.  There is life after couplehood, and even another love.  With what you've learned from this relationship, probably a better one!
620041
Well, you have to remember you always take the risk of being rejected when you tell someone you like them. If he doesn't share your feelings, you should get over the rejection and look for someone else.
494526
If you really like this guy (maybe even love him), then give it a bit more time. You can't really force anyone to commit. However, you should try to find out why he won't commit to you. Maybe that incident before wherein you found someone else while you were "somewhat together" is hindering him from committing to you because you just might leave him for someone else.
901677
ask him if you two can talk and tell him its important. then tell him that you liked him forever, he probibly feels the same way about you. then see where things go from there.
507888
Well, if you really feel like you're not into him and the relationship isn't going anywhere, what's the point in staying with him? Go find someone that you acutally like and let him find someone that actually likes him. I wasn't very into my last boyfriend, so I let him go after a couple of months. Why drag things out for no reason?
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.