how do you know if you have a suiss bank account ecspecially if your husband is secretive?
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If you have to ask, then you don't have one. Even if your husband had one, you could not access it. Those account numbers are only told to the person with the account, and if you forget the account # or lose it, to bad for you.
494992
We don't have cell phones, but I check his mail. It is not to be nosy, I just take care of all things financial. Now.... once there was this letter in a chick's handwriting when we were first married, no return address... Oh yeah I opened it, I was so angry. Turned out to be a thank you card from his friend's wife for being the best man in their wedding, he never got that card. I didn't want him to know that I snooped that much. That being said personal should be just that, personal and private, but sometimes you just can't resist the urge.
272113
u don't. if it is right and real u will know. if you have second thoughts then why not wait a while until u r sure he is for u. why waste time money and feelings over a legal document?
972073
Since I don't know where you live I can only tell you what goes on here in the states.  First of all you should have made it a point to know all about the finances during your marraige.  YOU put yourself in the position of not knowing now and there really isn't much you can do about it since you don't know if he has any other accounts in his name or not.  All that you might be able to do is have your lawyer do a "discovery" on his finances (hopefully you know your estranged husband's social security number, if you don't then you're pretty much stuck).  Secondly most states no longer grant spousal support.  Of course they do grant child support but that is for the CHILDREN not for the ex spouse so your "allowance" will end, and you'll have to get a job.  If you live here in the states I suggest you stat looking for one.  Go to yur local county office and see what they can do for you.  If you don't live in the states I can't help you, because I can only give you advice based on U.S. divorce/custody laws.
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ONly you should know that answer.  How does your husband behave? Is he flirtatious? does he come home late at night saying he worked late? taking regular showers (heheh ..its true )?   If he is giving you reasons so be suspicious then  you are normal .\nIf not then its just you being erratic.  If you really want to know why don't u spy on him?
40490
are you asking this for yourself? It is in thrid person..\n\nanyway. here is a list\n\nunexplained charges on the credit card/ bank account\n\nphone numbers on the cell phone/ landline that you do not know and she seems to act odd when you ask her\n\nmissing underwear/clothing\n\ntakes a shower right when she comes in the door and doesnt want you to touch her\n\nphone card\n\nabsent time taken that is on her paystub that you didnt know about\n\nmore miles on the car that normal\n\nextra email account that you dont know that password to.\n\n\nAll these things were true when someone cheated on me.
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Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
138116
You cant know that without their password... although u can ask them and trust them that they'll tell the truth...
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I think you still need to be patient here.  It may be something traumatic, hurtful, or embarrassing that he just doesn't want to tell you right now. When he trusts you it'll come up.\n\nIf you really insist on knowing, you could probably find out from one of his friends. But be careful because he could easily (and rightfully) perceive that you are prying into his personal life. Men don't like that any more than women do.
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Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
457657
Out of courtesy, yes.  Just because you are his wife does not give you the right to look into all his personal things, unless he himself tells you it is ok.  I am married, and I open my husband's mail, and can look at anything I want to because he has told me I can look at anything he has.  Your husband may be different. As his wife, you should know how private a person he is. If you are not sure-ASK. Would you appreciate his going thru your purse without asking?
493866
Are you actually living together as man and wife?  They will even ask if you are having sex?  They will want to know what you purchased together as man and wife, what accounts you have together, which will make it hard as banking requirements make this difficult.
346399
Tough one. He could be leaving it open testing your trust. He could want you to find those emails because he wants you to find them to get a divorce. He could just be an idiot. Or the emails don't mean a damn thing to him so he is not worried if you find them because he isn't doing anything wrong. Lots of possibilities. It's your computer too, he left his sign on, you stumbled upon it. However, since you are married and don't trust him, you may have a problem just because of that.
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there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
293409
I'm no expert but, how about your passport? Or perhaps your husbands check stub?
225470
Intuition is a strong thing....\n\nCheck for 'changes' or excuses in his schedule.  \n\nPop in for lunch if that is a possibility, unannounced.\n\nCheck for missing money - not depositing as much in the bank as his checks are - or he's spending more but he's taking cash, or unusual credit card charges?\n\nCheck Cell Phone Records. \n\nAt the end of the day, you just need to ask... and believe your intuition because GENERALLY our guts don't lie about this.  Try to get one of the above facts verified, and then ask.  Good Luck, and some marriages can be saved, but through a lot of pain an forgiveness and DEDICATION on the hubby's part..  I wish you all the best during this painful time.
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The only way to access the account is by having the password. There are some keyloggers (software that store everything an user types into a computer) but I won't talk about them.\n\nI guess I can't tell you what is the best option for you, but I know for a thing that trust is something you earn over time. As far as I know, accessing someone's account without permission or knowledge is not something that generates trust.\n\nSure, you can always think "he/she won't let me access his/her account, so he/she MUST BE HIDING SOMETHING!". Well, I belive that is not always the case. I believe that things like privacy and "personal space" are extremely important in a relationship. So, if you do things like accessing one's account without knowledge, you might risk the future of the relationship.\n\nIf you really need peace of mind, talk to your fiance. Open your mind, be honest and talk about your worries (that you are worried that he is cheating on you). Also, talk to your and his friends. You might be surprised by the results.