iam a single female work take care of my 2 kids and go to school but i want a friend to i need advice?
99510
I just got out of a really bad four year realtionship and left all my friends behind because they were people I shouldnt be friends with anyways. I have no firends right now either. I have a three year old little girl and she keeps me company but I feel lonely at times too. I understand how you feel. You can email me if you want anytime. babypeaceful@yahoo.com
340368
Spend time with your family yeah you might need the money but i grew up without my dad and with only my mom taking care of me and it sucked cuz i bearly even saw her she was always at work or with her friends.Now she regrets it but still......... PLease take my word for it go with your kids.. They will be happy..... good luck hop you choose me.....
732002
You don't want your daughter around at times, so that gives you the perfect reason to be an acquaintance instead of friend.  Besides, is she refuses to support you in the way you need a friend to, she isn't a friend.  \n\nSince you know she isn't your best friend, let her be a friend in name only and cultivate new friendships.  Be kind and tolerant when around her to keep peace in the family.\n\nIt's really hard, but you must take care of yourself and your child.
82533
try to talk to your case worker,minster, school  just keep talking until someone listen to you    good luck
1167031
You  could try and get a job as a preschool assistant. While you would not be "lead qualified" you could help with the children, just not be left alone with any. Good luck!
789614
I suggest the school counciler or maybe someone in your church. The best thing that could happen would be if they did tell. What if this same person has moved on to another child now? And you can be the one to help that child. God Bless you and have mercy for what some jackass has put you through.
1099233
Ok, it is time to play the game "spy's are us".  You have worked with this company and made friends who will support you.\nUse that to your advantage.  She is going to be trained by someone you know, eat lunch with someone you know, take breaks with someone you know.\nComing from a female, all females talk and talk and more talk.  So give a person enough rope and they will hang themselves.  Let your friends be your eyes and ears for you.  \nYour husband might be right and they are only friends.  You won't know anything if you get her fired.  So hang in there and bite the bullet.  You learn a lot playing the I am a dummy game too.  \nBest of luck to you and hope all goes well.
80878
I like the way you are thinking.\n\nBut don't impose on them financial support as yet, She may want to be independant etc...\n\n...find out whether your son is OK in school - find out what he hopes to do etc. Ask him whether anything is holding him back...keeping it vague may pull in the answer you want to hear...\n\nIf you are on talking terms with your ex-wife you can discretely ask how she is managing...coz its unbelievable how she's managing having not worked for 4 years.\n\nBut again I'm impressed about you...have a nice day
1182961
I know what it is like.BEEN  THERE  FOR A  WHILE.I  am in school myself,you see?Anyway here is what you can do.Have a nice cool chat with your friend  Alexis  and ask her what is it that she hates about Amanda.Then  meet Amanda  and ask her to adjust  a bit.She seems to be an understanding person.I am sure that it will  go well.I  hope you four become the BEST of FRIENDS.\n                GOOD LUCK and  dont loose your heart if something gose wrong.THE  LIFE  IS LONG andTHE WORLD  IS A SMALL PLACE.Who knows  maybe we will  end up  making friends someday.......
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
867800
Your number one, and that should always come first!  Friendships can take a turn in either direction at any given time. Job opportunties aren't easily available and when opportunity knocks, open the door!
1184820
this may sound harsh but I do not mean it 2.get ur ass up stop worrying about the past n make a future 4 u n ur children.woman all over the world do it every day.dont look 4 others 2 do what u need 2 do 4 urself.if you have the will u will find the way.stop worrying about what busy bodies with no lives have 2 say n start getting ur act 2gether.if you cannot care 4 ur children by urself get state aid,councelors,training 2 become job ready.just take it one step at a time n by this time next year you will be suppirsed at how far u have come.do not give up hope,in our darkest hour,will come a great light.good luck
684530
wheter or not it is practical is for you n your spouse to determine, i am a single mother of two soon to be four, and a full time student, it is never wrong to try n better your self educationally in order to provide for our little ones later, it may b hard n the child may not understand why u cant spend the time w. them that u jus were but as long as you keep commucation open w. the child, let em know what u r doing n why n even involve them whenever possible it is so worth it.
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Is there a guidance counselor or a trusted teacher you can speak with?  You could also try to speak with the school nurse.\nAre there any clubs at your school you could get involved with after school, or maybe a sport you could play?  If would give you a chance to get out of the house a bit and maybe make some new friends and develop some new interests.\nI hope it works out for you.
1019442
You don't need a lot of friends.  In fact the more friends you have the moe you have to help move.  Concentrat on establinshing one or 2 reall good friends who accept you the way you are.
292242
I was once in that same situation.  First of all you must get your priorities in order (YOUR KIDS).  I wanted to date,so I got my kids on a good schedule.  I focused on them being asleep by 8:00 at night.  When I was successful, that is the time I accepted company.  Whoever you choose will probably be with you.  Don't put that on the kids because a good man will not care if you have kids. I found that if you start the kids' day early, let them outside for some real playtime, give them a good meal(come in from work and cook or start precooking meals), wash them up, then put them to bed (I let them think that they could watch cartoons in bed, it took 5-10 and they were sleep)....They will go to sleep. Be choosey!!! Because you don't want just anyone around your kids.  Working is good.  This means that you can take care of yourself. If the first man you choose is wrong....HOLLER "NEXT"....and keep going until you meet one that you can work with.  You'll be surprised.  (Meanwhile, try to network with another mother that's in the same situation or a smart teenage babysitter or a family member if you can.  Get out of the house sometimes....save a few dollars to pay if you can....BUT ALWAYS WORK ON THAT FIRST THING!!!
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Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.