i have been friends with this girl for a long time, she wants to take our relationship to a more serious level
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.
665071
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.
549107
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
281730
go for it..\n\n\nflirt and be friends with her get her alone then do it... tell her..how you feel she will finally realize that you have changed and maybe change her mind.\n\njust listen to me i kno this kind of stuff i am a pro at relationships. and i kno boiis.\nlisten to me and do it.
783868
...it sounds like another grrrl has made a very big impression with you?....hmmmmmm,...me thinks you may want to have a long conversation with "her",...just to explore each others true feelings for one another...if the two of you truely care for each other?, then you can decide if you want to take "it" to the next level...\n\n...whatever you decide, be honest with yourself, and her...best of luck,...*kiss*
694854
probably. just tell her she is such a good friend u want to keep it that way in all ways.
330956
She probably doesn't want to just cut you our of her life completely. I'm still friends with most of the girls I've dated although there is often a bit of an uncomfortable period.
874000
just tell her that you would like to be more than friends and see witch way it goes
430297
I think the best thing that you can do is continue to be a friend. Talk with her and let her know about the vibes that you are getting from her. Tell her that don't want anything to come in between the great friendship that you have. The best that you can offer her is your hand in friendship. She will respect and appreciate your honesty.
52976
Brake things off with her on good terms.  don't do it in the middle of a heated argument or fight cuz then you'll be mad at each other.  I would just sit her down and tell her  need to talk to her, and explain that you don't feel like you two are meant to be, but you think she is an awesome person and you want to be friends still.  I had to do it to a guy I was dating for four years and we are still friends. But if she gets all mad and pissy after.  Then she will be missing out.
369325
Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
1140799
Take it easy. Things are changing.\nIf you really treasure your friendship.You don't have to talk to her seriously. Just treat her sincerely.
921591
It sounds like she just wants to be friends with you right now. Maybe she was interested in you before, but now she seems to be more interested in your mate. If you like her a lot and you feel comfortable doing so - make a move....like bring her flowers or something to let her know you're interested in being more than friends.
1142820
wow 3 years ...sounds to me she just wants to be friends....i hope u have been dating others within this 3 years ....Good luck and just have fun!!!  :)
321601
Sounds like u 2 are friends, so approach it that way.  Feel free to tell her you are there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to - do this in a consoling way, so she sees sincerity.  Then be patient and don't get aggressive.  Time will tell.
443293
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
450087
show her that you have matured, talk to her in a adult manner. let her know that you can be serious and you that you be a differnt guy.  that and you could always send her roses and chocolates as either a secret admirier or just admitting it was you. whatever you do, just make sure that your serious about it.