if i like to be slave for a female,is that shame for me?
111864
There is nothing wrong with you- in fact, it is quite natural. Assuming you are speaking of some form of S&M. Most men in todays modern era are taught to supress these types of feelings, labelling them as too feminine - less of a man. I disagree as do many psychologists and those that study human behavior. Throughtout history, these feeling and desires have been accepted. There were even marriage manuals written to help men explore this part of themselves for emotional and spiritual growth(it is even explored in the Kama Sutra). Human exist on a level of power play in all aspects of life, there is no reason it would be excuded in this situation. you are fine, and incredibly normal. I'm more proud that you are being true to yourself and acknowledging this as opposed to denial and suppression. Be aware of the differance between power play and abuse, there is sometimes a thin line- but- I do incourage you to explore this more as I feel all men should (and women).
436806
i do it all that time.  nothing wrong with that.  more power to you.  some of these loosers on the internet dont have a girl who would open their legs up to them...
793534
All I have to say is that in today's world, most males think it is mandatory for the females to go down on them even if there's no returning the favour... This is a major misconception, and I usually steer clear of those types of abusive males.\n\nIn my life, I believe in doing only what you want and what makes you feel good. If someone wants to go down on you, then great; all the best! If you feel like going down on someone then great too! But I don't believe in giving in to pressure, either direct on inderect, simply in order to "fit in" or "be accepted" or by fear of being ignored or whatever. \n\nIf I want to go down on a man, I will and he'll know it.... But if he tries to convince me and starts to to hint at forcing me or that it's like "my duty" that f*ck him; he's a selfish pr!ck who doesn't even deserve I give him an oral treat! \n\nBut again, in today's world, I see alot of younger women who give in to this type of male abusive b*llsh!t, and it's very very sad that they do give in, because it's just another way of the males to exert control over females... \n\nWell that doesn't work with me!
1111203
I like to serve my husband but NOT because he tells me too.  It is great feel so needed but I would never consider myself submissive... why would you even describe your self that way?  The reason why people look down on submissive wives is becasue no one deserves to be bossed around and treated like a slave, so when you see someone doing that you have to wonder what the hell is wrong wit them?  Do nice things for your man becasue you love him..not becasue he makes you!
302147
Not all women are like that, but i agree like 80 percent seem like they just want to demand and not give anything back to the man.  I think its just an attention thing. If she spoils u back i dont think theres anything wrong with giving some things to women.   muawwwww  :)
956186
I don't think you should be ashamed of a part of your personnality, better understand where it could come from, why are you acting like that, in which purpose. Try to understand your scheme of thinking. All is a matter of harmony and to reequilibrate yourself you have to fight bad schemes of behaving by the opposite ones, but at first try to understand why you are behaving like that, when you'll find that finally this behaviour has no real justified roots you'll go easier.\nWas just a personal thinking, i'm not a pro, ask a psychiatrist maybe, no shame to ask pro.
153519
1st of all you have to know what is the relation between slave & mistress.\n2nd to be good slave you must make any thing your mistress order you to do even if you dont like & even if you fell some pain.\ni think this the best way
753603
OMG YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!!!UR NOT THE BOSS OF ANY1.....unless u have ur own bussiness.....but yeah u have to be sure that u show her as much love as u can(and not sexually) and maybe she'll do the same...being w/someone does not mean that the man or the woman is the boss...it should be an equal share of power.
271411
Not necessarily. According to Wikipedia "Sl ut is a pejorative term for a sexually promiscuous person (usually females), more than is deemed socially acceptable. The term has traditionally been applied to women and is generally used as an insult or offensive term of disparagement." \n\nSo perhaps you were just exceptionally lucky. And of course, she might even like being called a sl ut during sex, one never knows.\n\nPerhaps she is just a promiscuous as you are, one way or the other. I would ask myself why I even thought up this question. You might want to examine you views about women that are as open to sex as you are. Hopefully you will find that you aren't living the double standard.
803708
I f she really is your servant, let her understand that her job is gone if she doesn't please you.  \n\n\nalso, if you are 24 - what do you want with a tired old snatch like her?   surely you can do better than that.  ????\n\ndon't be lazy - go out and look around for a young pretty nympho.
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
167929
I call that a great situation for you to exploit.  Do whatever you want and have a little fun.  It probably doesn't get any better.\n\nRemember "women aren't people like us..."  - Family Guy
356436
Okay here we go, i totally agree with you on this one. If you arnt into the head games just go for what you want which is Sex! Thats awesome thats your not a bad guy and you will treat her with respect. Because Prostitution is a very stressful job, this i know! HeHe And remember always use protection if you have any thing more just IM me! Be Safe and Have Fun!
330809
If a person has a fetish for a particular disability then I guess this might be a stipulation. If not, it hopefully wouldn't make any difference either way.\n\nI'd really like to know more about where the asker is coming from here. Are they female or male? Are they disabled themselves?
188999
No, that is way to much brain damage for me.  I tend to leave the masochism to the females, they are much better at than me.\n\nJohn B.
664577
Not really.  Sadism requires suffering.  It's definitely part of the same thing, but it's not the same.   \n\nYoung women are arrogant, and men want to see them humiliated.  And for good reason.  It brings women in touch with their bodies and with reality, instead of focusing on their imaginary self-importance.  It causes them to realize that their purpose is to love a man and have his babies, and that there is nothing they can do that is more important than that.
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I never have tried it, but I can't imagine I would want to do it to someone i was serious with.  it's not really my thing.  but i think i could do it to a submissive as a favor.