my problen with my best friend never end....what can i do?and am i right?
105823
maybe she has had new intersts and she is changing so what she like doing 5 years ago it isn't what she like doing now. but the best thing you have to do is ask her why she don't give you her time like before.
728195
best friends make the best long time partners. they know all your faults and love you in spite of them or because of them. run with it.
957897
Leave it alone. NO guy is worth losing a best friend. None. It will probably all blow over eventually and you will later be glad that you didn't do anything.
57553
you dont. you shouldnt ruin a good thing. be grateful you even have a best friend.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
993327
You are her best friend too right?, Well then some of the best marriages started out as best friends.....You will never know unless you ask. Don't let someone else beat you too it for fear of the unknown. I know you are nervous, but if your feelings are this strong, you should ask. She will listen... Best wishes to you both.
659612
Its good to be in love with the best friend because they can understand our feelings emotions and thoughts.If I was experiencing the same,as he is my best friend and understands me very well I will dare to talk to him about this.If he is not interested also we will continue to be best friends forever.I would like to advise you to do the same.BEST OF LUCK!
986158
Well, that person obviously doesn't think that your their best friend. A best friend should be there for you always. And you should be able to talk to them about nearly anything and everything. \n\nIt sounds to me like your friend is just that...a friend, but you shouldn't be wasting your energy on someone who isn't going to respect you. Still, I would search out a new best friend. \n\nOr you could tell that person how you feel. Have a good long talk over coffee. It'll bring you two closer.
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
920844
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
1157124
If he truly is your best friend as you say then you will do the right thing.  Let her down easy and tell her that your friendship is more valuable than some girl.
1143630
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.
158831
First evaluate the relationship and see if is worth fighting for, then talk to your best friend and ask him/her why the fighting and the distance.  Try to spend time and be patient and hopefully you will be able to save your friendship. good luck
421889
You need to be upfront and honest with your Best Friend. Let her now how you feel.  But you are still calling her your best friend so maybe if the two of you talked about what makes you uncomfortable about still being friends, it can be worked out!  But make sure you are honest with her.  Just because you don't have the same beliefs as her doesn't mean you need to disrepect her and her disrepect you.  Good luck to you!
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
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STAY FRIENDS...I ruined the relationship I had with my best friend because I LOVED the way he made me feel. We started dating and we ended up realizing that we were already too close and could not connect romantically. The good thing is, is that we were able to save our friendship and things are good between us. But there is nothing better than having that closeness between you and a friend. Relationships change all of that!
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)