Is having a car on your first date with a new girl important?
116342
Depends on the girl, honestly I wouldn't care. Most people do have cars. don't date a girl who doesnt have one either cause then you will be walking to your dates. Just ask her if you think she'll have a problem with her and she will be honest. Offer to pay and take her somewhere nice and she won't care at all.
699388
I would prefer an arm around me at the movies. Because if you are holding hands, the guys usually start sweating. It makes a girl feel comfortable to lean on him (in your case, you) and it makes us girls feel safe and protected with her man holding her. Do you get what I mean??? Well good luck. I am so far guessing this is your first date. I hope everything goes well.
999382
I agree, for a guy, probably not that important. It can send a message though-- after all, if you dressin an outlandish way, or totally slob-like, then obviously you may be showing disinterest, or may draw attention to your clothes specifically, when the date should be about getting to know each other more (hopefully). Of course, if that's your style, then I say go for it, and see if the guy digs it.
431578
First dates for the young and innocent (assuming those still exist) usually work best at the movies. Depending on the movie (Comedy works best) you can laugh together, have something to talk about after the movie, and not be uncomfortable in silence (you are in a movie!)
413153
When you first meet her or on the first date.
713528
Honestly; given the circumstances I don't think you being unable to drive should be an issue for *most* women. Unfortunately you are correct; there are shallow women out there who see a man's ability to drive as a status symbol. You don't want to date any of these women anyway. \n\nFor any woman who truly cares about you for you, it won't be an issue. For any woman who is bothered by this, they aren't worth your time anyway.\n\nGood luck!
645278
Of course you are! So was I when I went on my first date with a girl (and then all over again with a boy).\n\nRelax, treat it like any other date.  If you're so wound up you'll be too preoccupied to enjoy the person you're with (for worrying about everyone else looking and talking about you OHMAGAWD!).  \n\nIf it helps, start out by thinking of her as an old schoolfriend, let her know you're a little anxious and ease yourself into flirt mode.\n\nHave a great night!
1177667
I have found that sex on the first date means you will most likely NOT have a second date with that person. Sometimes it happens that a relationship continues after sex on that first date, but that is a very rare occurrence indeed. It's better to wait.
485372
sure but meet in a public place and have your own transportation in case the person is not what you expected and you want to leave, and so no one gets hurt where there are alot of people around, but keep it simple the first time dont get in  car and car pool together till you have met a couple of times at least and feel comfortable, be carefulll please.
776968
I actaully got a date stuck in traffic.  I was in my usual traffic jam, there was a hot chick in a VW bug, we ended up being stuck next together for a while.  We made eyes, she gave me a smile, so I had a marker and a peice of paper and wrote my cell number down, and held it to the window.  She called me and we chatted throughout the traffic jam, and we ended up dating for a few months.  I definitely recommend traffic jam dating.
1065276
A simple " I had a great time, we should do this again, I'll call you " is very acceptable for a first date. However don't wait a week to call her, by then she thinks you probably weren't interested and just being nice. If you say your going to call her a 2-3 day window is not pushy yet still showing you are interested.
114584
first date on Valentines day... you must really like pressure or applying it. normally I would say no gifts on a first date, the date should be used to get to know each other. but since you are going out on "romantic holiday" here are a couple of suggestions. If you are both old enough maybe a nice bottle of wine. If you neither of you drink or you are under 21 a simple flower for the lapel would be nice. Try not to be too elaborate you may scare him off. What if he does not get you something, I think you could get him something but do not give it to him unless he presents you with a gift first (not to be childish) just so you do not make him feel uncomfortable  remember this is a first date. If he does not get you anything and you still feel compelled to give a gift, make it something like a small box of chocolate that you could both share. \nBeing a guy I have never expected a gift from a girl on a date, but have given them. The best returns for me was a genuine smile and comment of appreciation from the girl, making me feel like I had truly brought a little joy to her through my thoughtfulness.
850715
I BELIEVE THAT YOU DID RIGHT BY NOT KISSING HER ON FIRST DATE.THIS MAY OR MAY NOT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU'RE MORE INTERESTED IN HER,THAN WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF HER. GIVE HER A CALL THE NEXT DAY OR TWO,JUST SEE HOW THINGS ARE,IF SHE HASN'T CONTACTED YOU ALREADY. BY YOU RECIEVING RATHER GIVING THE HUG SHOWS THAT YOU,RE PATIENT AND A GENTLEMAN. TRY NOT TO BE TO PUSHY IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP,SOMETIMES IT THROWS UP RED FLAG TO THE OTHER. HANG OUT,GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER,AND JUST GO WITH FEELS RIGHT.  I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU !
283580
Ok, like I have an older brother and he loves cars. He talks about cars all the time. Girls don't like cars that much. Girls would rather do hair or make up, lol. So if you do find a girl who seems to be paying attention to your car discussions or what not, then she might not be really listening but doing what I do, which is smile and nod my head and go, "Oh..." but then again, havign an older brother who loves cars is good, lol, because he has a kool car and trust me, girls LOVE kool cars. hahaha
15500
Why not go where you went on your very first date?
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
640460
Neither are really that important. It's more important that you are sweet and fun to be with. If a girl is hot and smart but a b*tch, she's still a b*tch.