i tell a girl in my class i love her but she dont ever believe me she also tells me to give up on her whattodo
114865
If she tells you to give up, then do it!  We always speak our minds when it comes to men, don't waste your time on her cause if she liked you she would give you the time of day.
355855
Please listen to me carefully.... Talk to her about it because from experience it hurts when one thinks that you are interested and you blow them off with your disinterest. Just tell her how you feel.
153317
Listen this girl is clearly trying to break it off with you.  If she keeps saying it won't work why would you want to be with her?  She seems very negitive and dull.  Break up with her and go out and have a good time.  You will meet someone who wants to make it work no matter what.
501243
This is typical of high school and middle school. She isnt going to fight you, or even try. She is telling you she's going to fight you on the last day because everyone will forget about it by next year, and no one will be around after school. This girl is jelous of you, and if she does try to fight you(odds are she won't) stick up for yourself. No matter the consequenses, you always have to defend yourself.
1134373
i think you should talk to your girl friend about this and tell her you love her and you dont want any thing to happed to this relationship good luck
334863
Well, it seems you're a nice guy... not all relationsips are permanent... so i think its up to the girl if she'll dump her current one for you... meanwhile, you could just be there always for her, show her how much she means to you, for example, if the bf fails to pick her up after class you could present yourself to her and walk her home... this is a good time to catch up with each other and know each other better... build up your friendship with her... the best relationships i think originated from friendship... don't rush, there's time for everything...:) just be cool with her having a bf, who knows, one day she'll endup on yourarms instead of his...\n\nGOODLUCK TO YOU!!!
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
905642
You have to tell her to stop flirting with you because it confuses you. Try to find someone else who you might be interested in. If you seem less interested in her she may become more interested in you. Good luck
616597
Ehhh...\n\nDo you trust her?  \n\nIf the answer to that is no, then you should tell her your feelings, and if she loves and respects you, then she would stop.\n\nGood luck!
253353
Did you do it? If you didn't I wouldn't worry too much about it. I also take it she is saying that she saw you do it. This being the case since you didn't do it, she is lying. So tell the teachers or whoever is involved that this girl is LYING.And since she is saying she saw you then she must be able to give a time frame. See if you can come up with an alibi of where you were and who you were with.
379197
Well, I'm not a guy, but let me try to help U:\nU're an educated guy, U're so smart, but maybe she has seen in this other guy something she likes the most and maybe it's something U don't have, I don't blame her for that, but I do blame her for telling lies and trying to justify herself in that way.\nThere's another thing: If U're that kind of smart and polite, show to her that U can respect her decision, don't approach to her anymore, she's the one who has to make the balance, let her be happy, if she wants to be with this other guy, U'll have to focus on someone else, besides, sometimes we just judge for appearances, and maybe that's happening to U.\nNever judge a book for its cover!\n\nSee... as U added some new facts, let me tell U, about your image, don't care about it, I mean, the time will make the difference, let it to the time, and U'll see that she's the only one who is going to be judge by your classmates and friends, maybe they cannot realize what kind of girl she is, but, I'm pretty sure, if U're right, time will give that satisfaction to U.
462005
U NEED 2 TALK.FOLLOW DA CLOSURE THEORY.TELL HER HOW MUCHU LOVE HER.MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL.TELL HER U LOVE HER NOT BCOZ OF WAHAT SHE IS BUT WHO SHE IS.TRUST ME DUDE .ITS GONNA WORK.ALL DA BEST!
622816
let them go if they come back to you then they were always urs if not then u were living a lie...meaning u shouldnt break up with her but love her tell her u love her everytime it crosses ur mind...listen to her even if u can only understand every third word out of her mouth shes crying so much- NEVER lie to her...dont play her when ur debating stuff tell her about it...if ur thinking *holy c*** * she looks hot. say that. basically ~live.love.learn.~
821438
Maybe she believes in you and that one day you'll make her happy, you only ever find one true love, they do say that you don't know what you have lost till it's gone and this is very true, by letting her down time and time again you'll lose her forever.  Be honest with yourself and her, there are two questions you should ask yourself.  Are you IN-Love with her??? and Do you want to be with her??? If you have let her down countless times maybe it's time to stop before it's too late and you lose her forever, sort yourself out once and for all before it's too late.  Good luck in doing so, I wish you well.
480717
She is possibly scared she will lose you, this isn't your fault. She just doesn't think she is good enough to keep someone like you for just herself. I would suggest sitting down and talking to her about it, ask her why she thinks that, esspecially if you've never given her any reason to. Assure her you love her deeply, and that you would rather die than even look at someone else...
370610
First get a grip of yourself.\n\nSecond, if u do feel so strongly about her, go ahead tell her. what's the worst that could happen- she could like you said 'reject' you- then you do what you are doing right now- love her from a distance and keep trying to win her over. \n\nThird, point to consider. Maybe since you quit college, she thinks you are a loser. Don't prove her right by messing up your job situation. You are trying to win her over not shoo her away by proving to her that you are not worthy of her love.\n\nGood luck!
75423
Do you believe her?  If so, try to work things out.  If you don't believe her or trust her, then there is no way that you could work it out.