how do i get a boy friend?
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don't go looking, you usually find the right one when you least except it.
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It seems you need help finding a boy. Just be normal person, When he looks at you look at him back and smile
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Ask yourself the following questions and try to relax and answer them.  Your heart will not lead you wrong so go with your heart! Does she flirt with you?  Are you the ideal BF!\nHow you get a guy to like you! \n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones \n2. Smile a LOT \n3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him \n4. Be REALLY nice \n5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") \n6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) \n7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) \n8. Be yourself! \n9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) \n10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) \n12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? \n13. Say hi to him in the hallways \n14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! \n14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! \n15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) \n16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) \n17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* \n18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa \n19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \n-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------\nOK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ! \nLadies: this will make you tear up :)\nfellas: read it, all of it! :)\n1-touch their waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss them slowly\nare you remembering this?\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\nkeep reading\n11-smile with her\n12-take pictures with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back\n15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved\nare you thinking about someone?\n16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n20 u need to show her you mean it too\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\nare you still reading this u better be its important\n31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act
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you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
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ask your boyes friend not girl
532244
Be not desperate. Let him come to you.Be friendly towards him.
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no boy friend or girlfriend but want one
841300
theres someone out there for everybody just be patient. dont go w/ the first guy that has interest in u either. u want a boy who makes u feel good when ur around him...the perfect guy. theres someone out there for u!
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basically, all you have to do is talk to them as if they were one of your girlfriends, but a little lighter. just go up to a guy of your choice and introduce yourself and start talking and see how that goes. i really can't explain it any better than that. i have a lot of guy fiends; in fact most of them are guys! just be yourself around them, just not flirty too much. your just tryin to get a guy friend.
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I have the same problem only I am a girl  I think if you get a girl friend it might help I am looking for a boy friend so if you are single please e-mail me at caitlyncookiedough@yahoo.comor caitlynrocks93@yahoo.com I am not a stalker either I am being serious
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sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
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u gotta befriend him first! i mean r u even friends with him yet? be good friends and evetually as ya start to trust eachother go 4 it.if u dont know him get a friend to introduce you.
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start out by trying to build a friendship. try to get to know him and then it may become more obvious of whether or not he likes you too.
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Everyone took my answers. Darn!\n\n\nThe best way I believe to get a boyfriend is to make friends, meet people, or just ask guys that you like and tell them something sweet. Most men are the same so whatever a woman tells them is usually the right thing.\n\nJust be sure not to give yourself away too easily.\n\nLook for personality first. Then looks. Don't be too controlling. But don't be too easy either.\n\nOr, don't look...and they will come to you.\n\nI think the question should be, "What is the reason for wanting a boyfriend?"
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You should have friends that are boys.  I wouldn't think that you are ready for a one on one relationship with a boy yet.  That will come later when you are about 16 or so.
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your not too young.\n\nbut if you need to ask how to get one, there must not really be a guy that you have on your mind yet. \n\npretty much just be yourself. dont push yourself to be easy.  to try to get a guy, because then hell tell all his friends that your easy and youll just be used... you have to look for a nice guy who will respect you and youll be happy with. find a guy that shares some intrests with you.\n\nalso dont act like a ditz. youll just down grade yourself into looking like an idiot.\n\ngood luck.
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If your friend wants to have a boyfriend, here's my advice:\n\n1. Get involved. Other than school, what clubs and activities does your friend do? Tell your friend to join a club or two - she'll not only meet a bunch of new people, but she'll get to expand her own horizons at the same time. Good clubs for meeting guys? Try Habitat for Humanity (where you build homes for poor people), Greenpeace (save the environment), and any local food kitchen to help poor/homeless people in your neighborhood. Any guy involved in those kind of clubs is probably a guy with a good heart. Your friend could even form a study group for a class and study at the same time as getting to know her classmates better. Be creative!\n\n2. Make friends. When your friend is around new people, does she smile and introduce herself?  Does she start a conversation up, or does she tend to stay to herself? Tell your friend to make new friends - both guys *and* girls - and expand her social circle. The best way to meet a guy is to be introduced to him by someone you know.  That way, you know a little bit more about where he's coming from and what he's about. Every guy I've ever dated was first introduced to me as a friend of a friend - including my husband! So, don't be shy. Make some friends and expand your social network. Go to parties, or throw your own! You never know who you'll meet next.\n\n3. Live your life. Tell your friend not to make chasing guys her main focus - guys don't want a girl who seems boy-crazy or desperate. Your friend should pursue her own friends, hobbies, activities, and interests - she will be much more likely to meet a guy that could become her boyfriend if she puts herself out there then if she stays at home.