where do broken hearts go? :(?
114508
in the "Regret" file..
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You cant mend a broken heart. Go ahead and feel the pain, by not getting to angry and dont put to much blame in his direction.\nFeeling the hurt will make you much stronger...and make it go away much faster. \nYou feel like you want to die...but I promise, you wont. It is something we all go thru at some time in our life and it hurts real bad. but just hang in there....it will get better!!!
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When someone up and tells you it's over, here's the thing. It was over a long time before that. He just happened to take that moment to announce it. If he cheated on you and he has another girl, the best thing to do is the most painful thing...move on..don't see him and don't talk to him. He's not worth your time.\n\n I know it's so painful..I don't think there is any worse pain than a broken heart. Here's the best remedy I ever heard of for that kind of pain. The thing that can help is to "give it away."  You can replace it by helping someone, helping children, or volunteering for anything. Turn your pain into something positive like this and you'll see how quickly it goes away.\n\nNo kidding!\n\nBest Wishes!
937679
Nope. Life goes on. New loves will come into your life :)
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I suggest reading the book called "How to mend a broken heart, moving on and letting go" it's by Aleta Koman. I had and still have the same problem. It's goes away with time, then again there are times it comes back but not as bad. If you ever need someone to talk to look in my profile and contact me. I'm here if you need someone to talk to and try to help you the best way that I can.
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At least you`ll be more relieve to try solving your brokenheart. Altough your hart still aching, your mind will opened wider to find the answer. If not now, maybe time will heal you.
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I really know what you mean, and it is so hard. \nRemember that this is all from within you, thus you can fix it yourself too. \nYour broken heart will be whole again in the near future. \nTo speed this up you can do a few thing, and believe me they have helped me.\nDon't see the person if you can manage it at all, in a book they say about 2 months. I had to see my ex every day, and even make small talk with him on occasion. At the time I wanted to see him but looking back it has just made the whole process agonisingly harder. \n\nDon't wallow in self pity, go out, see your friends, excercise this will really help and when you see him in passing in the future you'll look great, but overall do this for yourself, because you must love you.\n\nIt always depends on you personnally, but I reckon that if you don't see him for a good amount of time, you will realise you can get along just fine by yourself. If you do see him or hear about how he is doing, this will make things ten times harder, so don't. \n\nHe missed out on you not the other way around, and you never do no what is around the corner, \n\nYou know you will eventually forget and move on\nI hope you don't suffer too much\ngood luck
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Unfortunately we don't usually get the choice. If it's headed to a bad place you can try and salvage at least a descant departure. However, if it's from someone you really loved you can't help but be hurt regardless who ends it. Sometimes it's just not meant to be!
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nothing. You are "broken up".
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Hi there again. Was thinking about writing direct but didn't want to bother you again.\nI had a break up last June after a 7+ yera relationship/engagement and it took a little (underexagerating) time to get through.\nThe fact that he didn't seem to be bothered by it at all made me even more upset. I couldn't figure out how he could just walk out and that be it. No contact, no explanation of why, no nothing. People need some kind of closure to move along the healing process and I didn't have that.\nWhen I finally started thinking a little more clearly (took about a couple months), I started to realize the reason he was able to walk away as cut and dry as he did. It was because he had already been done long before he'd walked out.\nI started being able to put myself on the outside, looking in instead of the inside, looking in (hope you understand that). Then I started allowing myself to realize all the things that weren't so great and hadn't been so great for a while.\nI went from a deep sadness and loss to realizing I was worth more than how I was treated by him, either directly or indirectly.\nToday I am glad he left and didn't ever try to contact me AND I'm also glad he left.\nMy belief (and I've seen it proved many times over) is the karma people like that earn will pay them back tenfold for what they uncaringly do to people.\nOnly you will be able to put this to rest within yourself and only in the time that is right for you.\nI wish you all the best in the world. And try to remember you are worth more than the sum of one cheating man.\nAlso, sorry this is so long.
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It can be the worse pain you'll ever feel, until you realize its not going to kill you and it ends up making you stronger...its just that first love gone wrong puts you in unfamiliar emotional territory..you know its not going to stay this bad but not knowing for how long makes it seem like there is no end to the pain it causes...any broken heart hurts...but that first one...ooouch!
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ya it hurts for a while, i know it feels like heart has been ripped from ur chest and just stomped on, but move on is what ive been told needs to happen...
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It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful
533807
I was in a similar situation one day and let me assure you... It will end in a heartbreak, and the broken heart will probably be yours, and you will only blame yourself because you were the one who decided to get in between a married couple. So get out of it while you can.
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After he has ended it with his girlfriend.\n\nHave a heart.
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in the long run, it makes you appreciate the good people that come into your life, although i am not going to lie...that heartbreak will always stay with you and you will find yourself reflecting back on the one who broke your heart...but you will move on and find someone else  =)
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As the saying goes " There's no easy way to break somebody's heart" There will always be heartaches and disagreements especially if one doesn't want to let go. What worked for me is remaining good friends with my EX. :-)