CAN ALOT OF PEOPLE PLEASE RESPOND...ANY advice would be greatly appreciated...?
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This is a very difficult situation you are in. While 4 years may or may not seem like a lot. At his age, and at yours, four years can be critical. People change a lot in four years (emotionally) at his and your age. He still has to go through highschool, you will soon be entering your young adult years. While now you two may seem to have a lot in common or can see the world through the same eyes, you can just as easily find that you are worlds a part in as little as a year. I would recommend you talk to an adult that you trust and has your best interests at heart. There guidance can help you decide what to do since they know you better than we do. I wish you well.
1058112
Please consult a doctor as soon as possible ... probably a psychologist will do the trick ... all the best ... :)
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Try your GP - or a counsellor.  School/college should have one available for you to make an appointment with.  It'll really help to talk to someone who's not involved in your life.
772804
Relax and take a deep breath....stop trying so hard and just be you_
996194
people are just mean sometimes, sweetie. ignore it. there are nice people out there. just seek them out. :) IM me or email me if you need to talk. take care and God bless.
847215
Please contact me though Yahoo - I will tell you what to do further and make it possible. Best of luck-
489212
Seek professional help...good luck!
311070
Good decision. I'm glad to hear that you are getting this resolved. The stress you are going through over this,is not good for you. Try to relax and go for a walk or get involved in something fun until your appt.
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I agree with the others, keep reminding yourself of that (great goal by the way), get moral support from family and/or friends.  Most importantly make it clear from the beginning with any prospective suitors that is the way it will be and don't put yourself in a position where you have to say no.......never even let it get to a point where it may be an issue......you can do it I have faith!!! :) Good luck!!!!
837772
Be honest ask for other options.  Be willing to try a multi facited approach to pain.  Meds are only part of the long term solution.  A second opinion might be uselful
555658
Please, just relax. Take a few days off, spend it with people who mean something to you...\nIt should help.
1166650
Girl I am so sorry and I completly understand what you are going through. I recently broke up with my FIANCE and it has been so hard not see or talking to him.  I am trying to focus more on improving myself like going to the gym and I am going to get some certifications in my job.  Basically I am tring to improve myself FOR MYSELF.  I suggest you do the same maybe join some clubs in your area to meet new people.  anyway, email me if you need someone to talk to.
740689
move on and meet some new people. good luck
356566
You are deffinatley showing signs of having and or developing a serious problem. I think you should go and talk to someone (a councellor, not a friend or anything cos they can be quick to condem). I went through something similar and found talking through my problems really good. You shouldnt drink to get drunk - thats simply binge drinking. Have you thought about why you want to be drunk? Is it to feel good, to block out pain, etc? Also, its troubling to think that you hide your behavour. I know that its hard to talk about it, but it is deffinatley worth it. Its amazing how good i felt after the first session, just to spill everything out to someone who was totally unbiased, knowing that its totally confidential and whoever your talking to isnt going to think your a nutcase is fantastic!!! I hope everything works out for you, and again, please go and talk to someone. Something that really woke me up was when i was told that you can actually die just from drinking too much - because its a depressant, it can actually relax your system so much that you stop breathing and just die in your sleep. Imagine your parents/siblings/friends/etc walking in to wake you up and not being able to - that thought freaked me out. So yeah, again, hope it all goes well, i would give you my email address if you wanted to talk but i dont really want to post it here! Take care
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im sorry to hear that, even though everyone does go through rough times, not many people really understand the times others go through, no matter how hard we try. i wish i could do more to help you, but all i can say is running doesnt solve it. if you run there is just as much of a chance that it will happen again. stay and fight, do everything you can to end it where it is. i know you have the strength to do that. may God bless you
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Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
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see a therapist...they help a lot!!!