i like a friend but don't kno how to say i like him in a email with out being obvious, i don't kno how he feel
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From a male point of view, it is conceivable that he is totally oblivious to how you actually feel for him. So lets get to the question... What to write in an email? You might try something like this...\n\n"Hello ????,\n\nI was sitting here thinking about our friendship, recently, it is something I seem to be doing more often. I feel we are good enough friends that I can be honest with you and you should feel equally safe to be honest in return. You see, I find myself at a crossroads. I am still at a stage where I can go either way and your response to this email is going to determine which direction I choose. Although it scares me a little, I'm going to just say it...\n\nI find myself imagining that our friendship has evolving into something deeper and I am so afraid that I might step over the line and lose your friendship by harboring these feelings. If you could take a moment and give me your thoughts, I would appreciate it. \n\nRemember, above all else, that you are talking to a friend and our friendship is my highest priority. If that is as far as we are meant to go, I will still feel like one of the luckiest women alive. \n\nSigned ???"\n\nI hope you will find something to use in what I wrote. Sometimes, all you need is a place to start. In whole or in part, do what you like with what I have offered and good luck.
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Hey man, I like you.  You are the best friend a person could have....\n\nIf you are saying in a romantic sense...\n\nI just wanted to say I like you like you, you know as in really like you and I was jsut wondering , well if you felt the same or if you don't it's ok.
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1.] You can't spell.\n2.] There's absolutely no flow. It's just like a note you'd pass in class.\n3.] If you want to impress this girl, don't say, "I still kind of like someone else" [meaning she's not your first choice; you still have an attraction to another girl], "nobody knows who you are" [you're saying she has no friends], "I like you, but I don't love you" [means "Let's just be friends; I don't feel that way about you."]\n4.] I don't find it romantic AT ALL. It seems like friend to friend. More like you're making her feel better.\n\nIt's sweet that you'd think of writing a poem for her, but before you give her that, try to USE what you learn in Language Arts for once.\n\nEDIT. You shouldn't even MENTION this McIntire girl. Maybe you should make it rhyme, use figurative language, and make her feel like she's the top of the world to you.
945382
He knows you like him,. You know how he feels right now. Soo just be friends with him for now! Good luck
405606
ok, coming from a guy, i say just tell him how u feel and if you are friends at all, he wopnt be uncomfortable with it, it will make him happy even if he does not show it
757846
Hmmm... Alot of people will say, then just HINT him! Drop obvious hints to tell him you like him.\n\nIn my point of view, you can like ask him, to the activities you are orgranising, get him to help out.. or you can ask him out for coffee. Basically small gestures, saying hey I want to know you more, I am interested. Doing all these actions, also need not mean that you like him as well. As many close friends of mine will do this kind of invites, to ensure the friendship between each other is not broken.\n\nThe best option in my point of view, is to invite him out for shopping, with your friends or alone. Do be sure to get some of his friends, if you are going out with yours. If not it will be very strange for him.\n\nI hope that helps! Do Message me, if you have any other questions. \n\nCheers!
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if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
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It can't be done.   People's feelings and forwarded emails go hand in hand, and there's no way out with crushing someone emotionally.   I know that sounds ridiculous, and it is!  It is not rude or ungrateful or anything to simply say something like, "My gosh, you sure do forward me a lot of those funny emails!  I hope you don't think I'm being rude or anything, but maybe you could cut them back a bit, maybe just pick out the one you think is best every once in a while, because I really don't have that much time to read them all anyway."   Good luck
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Well, I think a girl would probably like a guy to let her feel his love for her gradually than to just blatantly say out to her that he likes her. that'll just probably freak her (unless you're really handsome, or she likes you too). if he were to say it... he might like to say it in a jokingly way at first and maybe sometimes later...to say it in a more serious tone. for me, i'll prefer him to say it in a funny way and i can still remember a time when a guy asked me "what is aishiteru?" and i replied "i love you" and he said "ya..me too". i totatally fell in love for him cos he's just toooooo humourous and cheeky =D. well, just a simple "can i sms / email you sometime around?" will enable you to get her hp no. or email add without giving lame excuses and beating around the bush. and arh well..about the talking in private..i know how girls usually stick with their frens outside when guys who like them is around...you'd just have to find an opportunity when she's alone to talk to her..or you can just talk to her in a "i want to talk to you in private" way, by keep looking at her friends awkwardly so she'll know .
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Easy girl, it's soon...\nYou must be patient.\nIf he feel something like you, he will send you-don't worry!\nIf he don't, just forget it.\nOr mybe he's busy today and wait for some other day to send you e-mail.
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I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
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1st time he asks, say: "Love is /so/ overrrated!"\n2nd time he asks, say: "Well, I like you, but not in that way."\n3rd time: "I like you like a friend, but you're not what I'm looking for."\n...And so on.\n\nIf he gets mad, tell him like it is. If he becomes sad, say you will (can, don't HAVE TO) be friends. Good Luck! :)
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WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
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tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
954450
It's hard to say what the signs are, but here's a good tip: don't reveal anything until you're sure you want to tell him.  When you finally know you want to tell him, use an analogy to bring it up casually.  In other words, pretend your friend likes some guy and you need him to tell you advice on how to get them together.  He should practically give you the answer of what he wants.\n\nGood luck!
599118
He likes you, you should say something! It would help you a lot!!!!! He obviously fells for you, so don't be afraid to say how you feel. I'm in your situation, and I know how you feel, but you'll never know until you ask!
1095328
if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi