I have a question about being a virgin and self pleasure....?
118007
Do anything that feels good, whether a dildo, vibrator, finger or whatever.  Being a virgin is not having sex with a male. The revered hymen that is talked about seldom remains after 18 due to sports or other activities. Self pleasure does not mean you are no longer a virgin.
8885
Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...
251741
Yes it does... Depending on what your religious beliefs are and/or what nationality you are it can be essential.  But... the biggest to consider is you... Your age, your emotional status, and maturity.  Having sex is not just a physical act but it is also a emotional act...  Are you emotionally mature enough too be able to deal with all the emotions of the sexual act... That of love and passion, self esteem...Self esteem is a HUGE factor... \n If you have a low self esteem, having sex is not going to increase that self esteem. Rather having sex could make you feel so guilty that your self esteem would lower.    You should never, ever have sex just to please another idvidual or to hold to that individual because if your partner is pressuring you to do something that you do not feel that you are ready for then you are going to feel even worst about self and having sex them is not going to guarentee that they are going to stay.  A person that pressure you to do something that you are not ready for also does not respect you in the first place and still will not respect afterwards either..... no matter what they tell you.   Being a Virgin is a special person and once you have given that virginity away you can never ever be a virgin again... so make sure that person is someone that is very special too you and better yet you are as special to them as they are too you... because you are going to remember that first time the rest of your life
633413
was your hand a virgin????
251402
I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
616732
It is easier for a female to orgasm by herself than with a partener. With a partener is more fun though. Practice masturbation and you'll know what to do and how long you can make yourself last. I take you're a virgin still, by your question, so experiment on yourself and you'll understand. That's the safest way.
568184
sounds like your upset with yourself for throwing your virginity away. take it for the lesson it is. don't give it away because you're curious
164701
the only way to loose your virginity is to have sexual intercourse with a man.\neven if your hymen is torn from using a tampon, masterbating or anything else, you're still a virgin untill u have intercourse.
432945
I AM A VIRGIN FOR 16 YEARS
1182902
Nothing wrong with self-pleasure.  You do need to get out & be doing something ovccassionally, like go to church events.
945852
You can certainly be a virgin and still have desires. It's your hormones and soo natural to want sex. Obviously though, you've kept your virginity for a reason. Stand by that. There are other ways to satisfy that urge without losing your virginity.
865375
Haha. Encouraging answers you've gotten so far, eh? The truth is that virginity is a very flexible concept. Some consider a virgin is someone with no sexual experience whatsoever... some say intercourse is the step that ends virginity. Some even think it a physical thing, with unbreached hymens belonging to virgins and only virgins (when in fact you don't need to have sex to break your hymen OR break your hymen to have sex).\n\nMy point is.. just tell him what you've done. Period. There's no need to decide whether your technically a virgin or half-virgin or whatever-- skip that step and let him decide for himself.\n\nThe website I've given isn't  my source, but rather a female sexual health site that might be interesting to you. It should answer all the questions you need answering as well as some you don't even know to ask. ;)
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
110110
Hold on to your virginity. It's a real gift from God. You should be very thankful that He's preserved you. People nowadays brag and act as if fornication is the greatest thing and if you don't do it your considered wierd and unusual. \n\nRemember what St. Peter said about these type of people, "They think it's strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation, and they heap abuse on you. But they will have to give an account to Him (God) who is ready to judge the living and the dead." \n(1 Peter 4:4,5)\n\nStaying just the way that you are pleases God greatly. And who would you rather please? God or Man? The Lord will surely reward you for your patience. \n\nKEEP FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT AND ALWAYS PRAY!
501757
Losing your virginity is obviously not something that you can take back - once you do it, that's it.  If you are experiencing increased libido, which is perfectly normal, then try masterbating.  I'm not saying that to be funny - everyone does it.  Call me crazy, but I think that you should know your own body before you decide to give it to someone else.  Ultimately, only you can truly decide if and when to become sexually active.  Personally, I think that if you have doubts, then you are probably not ready.  Also, as you mentioned there can be serious consequences.  If you do decide to become sexually active, then PLEASE protect yourself.