what do u do if a dude likes ur best friend but sadly she does not like him back in the same way?
110208
Nothing really, They'll take care of it themselves in one way or another. The only reason for you to help, is if one or the other come to you to seek advice. :-)
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
1049628
Grrrrrrrrrrr....... tell ur best fren that u like that guy too  and that u dont like seeing  her hanging on to him !
13080
I have the same problem budd :-(  \nTell her you like her but say that if she dosen't feel the same way you feel about her then just say you'd still like to be her friend.
559854
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
501697
it is so possible girl. but if he is like that and u dont like him just tell him that u guys have to remain best friends and nothing more
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
868572
the best thing to do is be upfront with her about your feelings. she may just see you as a friend. and she may like you. but you'll never know if you don't ask her. tell her that you like her and ask her if she feels the same way? but i hope that you will not stop being her friend if she doesn't like you back. it's a horrible feeling as a girl to lose a great guy friend just because the romantic feelings are only one way.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
717980
If she likes the guy she is dating then she shouldn't feel guilty for liking him, unless she has lead the other guy that likes her on. \nIt's not her fault she doesn't like him, she can tell him nicely that she doesn't. It's the guy's choice on whether to be a man and not hold a grudge or to go off and sulk.\n\nBut it is hard if you like someone and that someone likes your best friend instead.\nEither way, we should all care about meeting the right one for us, so apparently if she doesn't like him, she's not the right one for him!