How can i get my mom to let me go on a date with my bf?
109717
Sometimes it's a good idea to let your Boyfriend meet your parents before you actually go on a date with them (just to assure them that you'll be fine with him)\n\nNext, make sure you tell her about what you guys did, it'll help your parents trust you more if they know what you've done in the past and will be a little better at not holding you back.\n\nNext, don't date people your parent's wouldn't approve of.\n\nAnd if it all fails and your parents don't approve of your date, have your date come over to your house and hang out for a while under your parent's supervision. Most parent's would rather you be under their supervision rather than out there with another guy.
858206
I WISH I COULD HAVE MY MOMS B-DAY AGAIN SHE DIED IN 98 SHE WAS 42 SO YOU NEED TO SHOW HER AS MUCH AS YOU CAN THAT YOU LOVE HER \n\nYOU CAN JUST SPEND TIME WITH HER AND GO OUT SOME WHERE LIKE THE ZOO OR THE PARK AND HAVE A PICNIC JUST SHOW HER A GOOD TIME MOMS WILL LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO BUT PLEASE TELL YOU MOM HAPPY B-DAY FOR ME \nYOU COULD ALSO TAKE HER TO THE MOVIES
518128
Your mother is only here for a week.  Dedicate your time with your family, unless you want her to meet him...\n\nThere is plenty of time to be with your boyfriend
398511
do you let your mom try out all of your boyfriends?
1156935
spell check please! lol your mom is not into you dating? ok # talk to her about that
719959
What is a little underage? Another thing is sometimes, mom knows best. If you are not allowed to date, then sweetie please wait. But if you must tell mom be ready to do it like "an adult". Be honest and frank and be ready to take her reaction. The best way is to take her aside and let her know.
243540
I understand . . . and you can go out with him if you want.\n\nTalk with the guy . . . first . . . and tell him what is going on . . . odds are he will listen . . . especially if your explain to him that you are LDS or mormon.\n\nThen talk with your mother . . . regarding this guy.  Tell her you like the guy and want to learn more about it.  He have already asked you out . . . and you agreed with one stipulation . . . that you will have a chaperon.  Someone who accompanies you on this date . . . to make sure everything is proper and decent . . . (make sure he will agree to it before telling your mother this . . . and make sure he knows that you have to get your mothers approval too.)
425968
because shes your mom, hello.. she cares about you and this is your whole life your talking about here. she raised you up and gave you everything of course she would be strict letting u go to a man right. understand a lil bit, look at it in her point of view ok.. goodluck to you!
39560
I'm 14 too,ask you parents if they would be alright with you and her hanging out in a larger group, so it would be a little less like a date, but more like hanging out with your friends. You can always hang out  more with her than the rest of the group. But whatever you do, don't lie to your parents about going out cause they probably will find out and then you will just have to wait longer to be able to date. hope this helps. =)
864748
like this- hey mom I got a boyfriend
161843
I wouldn't try to impress her.  I would be very polite, bring something for the event -- dinner, bring a dish -- movies, bring candy and lifesavers to share -- birthday party, bring a gift -- that sort of thing.  \n\nDon't arrive empty handed.  You heard that she loves to knit?  Bring her a book about making her own knitting patterns that you just happened to see at the mall.  She likes "Life is Good"?  Bring her a Jake mug.  A live plant, in season, small, and flowering, is very nice.\n\nSpend some time talking with her at the first meeting.  Ask her about herself, and tell her a little (!) bit about yourself.  Tell her about your hobbies and about a project that you are currently working on.  Listen if she shares her opinion.  \n\nTry not to "hang" on your bf.  It makes mothers nervous.  If you are still quite young, it is likely that she is looking at you to see if you will be a good influence on him.  \n\nAgain, be polite.  You aren't there to steal her son away.  You are his "friend" and want her to consider you the good guy.  Be yourself.  Relax.
192965
Ok- from experience. . .\n\n*Is this guy really worth it?\n  - do you like him\n  - is he even cute\n  - is he respectful\n\n*If your parents find out you're dating w/o their permission, you're dead.  So my advice is\n\n*ask your mom again\n\n*if she's says NO, she's got good reason.  parents aren't blind and they no what's best for you, even if you don't think so.
330259
You have already said it - you have informed her that you like her, and she let you know that you might have a chance.\nNow, until her mom is ready to let her date, you will just have to sit tight and hope that when her mom does say yes - that the girl will pick you to date.  If you don't know her mom, and if her mom does not know you, then it might help you to get to know her mom better and do some nice things for her mom.  If you win her mom's favor and trust, maybe in time her mom will let the two of you go out.  You could invite this girl to have dinner at your parents - with the permission of your parents - and she can invite you to her parents' place. \n\nJust bide your time - and if it is meant to be that you two can date, then the waiting will be well worth it.\n\nGood Luck!
273075
How old are you???? If your old enough you dont need an excuse just say your going out with your boyfriend
1027336
can't you see each other without the aid of anybody? there are lots of ways you know. but, just in case that there are no more options left, tell your mom, who knows, your mom and her bestfriend might even like the idea. :)
618894
ARE YOU AN ADULT... JUST BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR MOTHER, TELL HER ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE HER TO MEET HIM THAT HE IS A GOOD GUY.  HIDE HIM AND IT'S GOING TO MAKE IT LOOK AS IF YOU ARE ASHAMED OF HIM
946427
Play it down, some mothers push their daughters into relationships and maybe your mom thought because he was at your place for Thanksgiving that the relationship is more than what you both want it to be.  Next time you see him just tell him your mom does that to you all the time to pressure you into forming a long term relationship.  Bye the way I find it a bit odd that your guy would take it so seriously, so he must be leary of committment to a certain extent.  Play the whole situation down and for your own sake ease off on the guy for a while if he really likes you he'll come around.  I feel badly for you though, it must have been embarassing. One other thing I'd have a chat with your mom and ask her to please never to put you in that position again.  Just tell her that you'll let her know when she's allowed to tell someone your dating that she loves him, sounds as if she was inviting him to be the "SON IN LAW" and he probably freaked.  Good luck