What is the best way to meet REAL LESBIANS ....NOT BI'S NOT WOMYN WHO ARE DOWN FOR WHATEVER...LESBIANS?
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If you don't want to try the dating sites, I guess it depends on where you are, but maybe your local gay bar? In L.A. there's all kinds of places to meet people who are interested in same sex relationships.....So try that!
101758
try a different site like www.plentyoffish.com to meet people. im bi. crazed_fem19@yahoo.com
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It isn't easy.. even going to a lesbian bar isn't foolproof. You're likely to meet ppl to dance with or just talk to for the night, but most of the time that's it.  Try dating websites, or even looking for gay/lesbian restaurants around the town you live in.
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Yes there are. I am one of them. It's not like it was when we were younger, to where you can go to clubs and so on. The best way for me to meet other women are through friends and family.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, \nservices,volunteers, job openings, local events and \nclasses, and global discussion forums, ...\n\n\nThey have several personals sections to post free ads.  Try the w4w (women for women) section.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or ???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Yahoo groups is the best way that I know how. That's how I met with most of mine anyways. Name of the game is to stay actived with them in those groups so they get to know you.
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best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
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did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
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okay there are a few ways.....twins...best friends...roommates...or ure girlffriend for a long time who isnt satisfied enough by what u dish out and wants smething to spice it up in the sac,,then u get a really hott lesbian to get in thiss....
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I totally understand, Mad Scientist, but really, don't totally discredit the Internet.  For every fifty idiots, sex hounds, and people I cannot communicate with because they must not have been educated past second grade, there is one person who absolutely makes my day.\n\nI put up an ad to meet local FtM's on a Yahoo! group for such, and am currently talking to an awesome, mature, funny, interesting guy.  I've gotten a lot of requests from people who need to be ignored, but there are some who you really should meet and get to know (in real life), as friends or dating material.\n\nNow, I agree that the best place to meet people is in real life.  The only thing I can think of is to frequent places where they're going to be: school GLBT clubs (especially at a university), TG/TS support groups, etc.  I don't know where you live, but if you're really feeling high and dry in your community, a change of locale might be necessary.  I wish it were easier.\n\nJust know that there are a lot of people out there who are not only willing to date an FtM with all the 'girly bits', but very much want to (like me!).  You wouldn't happen to be in California, would you . . . .?\n\nAnyways, I wish you the best of luck!
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You need to meet more lesbians
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online chat/dating invitations are DANGEROUS\n\ntake the initiative to find a REAL woman - we're out there and enjoy meeting new people who treat us with respect.
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If you guys are really looking for a bi female to talk to, I would suggest message boards at your local adult bookstore, (if you have that available) or there are magazines and newspapers (i think one is called Night Shift) where you can browse personal ads or place one of your own. \n\nWhat you can also do is go to your local lesbian bar with your wife and make sure that you dress up, act respectful and have the husband sit at the bar and have the wife dance and meet people until she meets someone she likes. Be sure to find out (once she has chosen a woman she likes) if the lady is bi, and not a lesbian. A lot of lesbians might get inadvertanatly offended if you asked her to join a 3 some with a guy involved. \n\nYou know, make sure that you become friends with whomever you choose first. You never know if this woman is just into your wife, or if they would be willing to do more. Besides 3 somes are so much fun if everyone gets along and there is good communication. Everyone must be comfortable with eachother. \n\nIt is better to try and keep your search for a companion in the local field. It is much harder to weed out the crazies on the internet. Do your research, and be sure to be safe while you are having fun.
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check out planetout.com .  Also message boards.  I live in Seattle area for a little while and met lots of nice folks through the message boards on AOL.....  good luck!  Seattle is the BEST for glbt!
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try a glbt bar or local hangout... than agian if you not old enough maybe not... mine always found me so i guess maybe i really can't help you..
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Have the woman do it.  As every day goes by, the number of women wanting to have a "lesbian" experience increases.  Don't be intimidated or fear being rejected.  If you can pick up one woman, do the same to pick-up the second woman.  Having the first woman do it, however, increases the odds of finding someone drastically.  Remember. . . Women are not as freaky as men, they are more freaky!!  If guys knew what women talked about when they were alone, in regards to sex, it would make them blush.
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Hi hun, Just felt like i had to say i am so sorry for what someone said in one of your answers,people come in here as a safe place and some stranger talks to you (many teens) like you are nothing.I'm here to tell you that was a great and curious  question for new people to deal with in our community(lesbian,gay,bi,trans).It really isn't something that is taught but you will come into your own as you spend time around other lesbians maybe in some social events and just feel your way through what fits you best,some are femmes or more known as lipstick lesbians,some are just tomboys and some are soft butch and some are hard core butch,dress and act much like a man.so you see there are many personalities in our world as well as being in a straight world..I wish you the best and just hall er if you need to ok  Bye Deb