I have been in love with a women for the past 2 years...N i'm in the same spot as the day i met her..?
103588
She went back to him for money? I think that shows her character. I would MOVE ON. If you have told her your intentions and how you feel, yet she hasn't made any indication that she wants to be more than friends with you...you have to give up. Everyone will move on and It Will Be Okay.
695913
In this life you will meet many women and they will all be very different. \n\nYou will fall in love with a few and be hurt by a few and you may even hurt a few. All women are not the same and this one you are still in love with is not the one for you. \n\nYou will find a woman who will feel the same way as you and this woman will be forgotten. Take comfort in this and keep your eyes open for a better person.
373781
First: Sure, it doesn't matter how two of you got introduced each other - through net or social program or at a shopping centre; just couple decades ago freely dating around was same as today's net relation and soon it will become normal exercise in society. So don't worry about how you began. but sure you should consider little longer time to meet him to check his interest keep rising or dimming without having some fun, not in a rush.\n\nSecound: to find out about him - at least try to know and meet his family, friends that he associate with soon you can in a usual manner, before get attached deeply, - well, rest you will know as time pass by. there is no masic pill to be confirmed about any one instantly - so be slow, have control on self,concentrate to figure out he is honest minded or not, and ofcourse, be careful in the beginning. people get hurt / been cheatted - no matter from where they find partner if dive into "Cool" just as swimming pool. Another thing i believe: who ever begin with too charm/ impression - often appears as bitter in later part.\n\nFinally: Just let you know that i found my girl friend through net two and half year ago - we have wonderful relationship that we both proud of, and very happy. this year we are going to marry. personaly i appreciate myself that i never allowed myself to  any cosmetics bundles or showing around * thing * ; feel lucky to get a real lovely girl. you are welcome to look at my yahoo profile " ravinecord " ( although i blur the picture a bit).\n\nSo be confident and in the beginning sure be careful.\n__ best of luck.
37944
Do NOT let her know that you are alone and still waiting for her.  You can get in touch with her and catch up, and invite her here and there once in a while, but play it cool.  Wait for her to show genuine interest in who you are and what you're about these days.  \nDO NOT lay it on thick.  Be as nonchalant as you can.  Don't play the jealousy card, either, trying to talk about this or that love interest.  There's just you, your life, your job, whatever else it is that you do, and YOUR genuine interest in HER - not romantic, but on the whole.\nGot it?
435750
you could hope that and I sincerely hope that for you. 2 yrs is a long time to just let go. OR maybe she's just materialistic and wants to keep them to show off to her friends. Either way i hope you end up happy and she gets what she deserves.
535222
first of all dear You have out Your question in dWrong category but anyways As per your love life iwould say give yourself some time, ask your heart and decide about all the pros and cons (I mean, do you see her in your future) and then whatever your heart says just listen and follow the direction.\n\ngud luck
423711
Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.
1124135
once you feel it is closer, then it is closer! it is very much about your being ready!\nbut you should not be looking for her so that you won't be disappointed, wait for her to come... but you know what, look around you once first, perhaps Ms. Right is one of the nearet to you and you have not noticed that she is there!\n\nit will be great finding her... your whole life would change...\n\ngood luck!
497470
Get the same kind of music at your place and dance with her AGAIN and go for it.\n\nYou are burning with desire for her -- I think you're in love with her, actually.
508239
how long have you been talking to her  do you think you know her enogh ask your self first then do what you think is right peace out!!!!!
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
535989
you are probably just nervous. the wedding jitters?? everyone feels like that. if you really love her then go for it. youve been with this woman for 7 years already.
22125
There is nothing better than a long lasting and loving relationship with a woman, but from your question, I suspect that you are not looking for a lifetime partner at this time.  If you are willing to wait and see if the friendship develops into more it is well worth the effort.
1131090
im in the same way bro so i know how u feel id lay the cards on the table and lay everything out on how u feel and wat u want if she dont feel the same way bro then i guess it mite b time to move on !!!!!!!! good luck tho bro
484370
Sure love exists, just sometimes not both ways. You must admit office romances are pretty shaky to begin with. Also I think if you reread your query, you must admit, you sound a bit obsessed. You proposed before knowing about her family? This can be scary to a woman. Probably even more uncomfortable since she works with you. In the same light recognize your own goals and how they differ from hers. Do you really think it would work? Don't give up your dreams of film making, etc. Get on with your life. She is 22 and life still isn't all that serious sometimes. She still has alot going on and may not be ready.
643796
I think she loves your flamboyant personality and loves your honesty and the way your always there to listen and completely understands her. You are as real as they come and even though we havent met im sure we would get along. What do you mean you have a boyfriend?! I like you. I think you are sweet. Maybe your woman needs time to get to know you or meet you. Maybe you should send her a picture of you beautiful face.
546642
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.