If a friend wrote you a letter saying that the friendship is over. What will you do and say?
115244
id confront her, because it may have been from someone else, but if she confirmed, be like im sorry you feel that way, but ive got plenty of friends, we're going downtown, want to join us? \n\nforgiving is the best, crying on the scene is the worst.\ngod bless. <3
717578
Bow out gracefully, stop paying for anything and leave them to each other.  Then go find some new friends.
293712
I wrote a letter to my friend,\nit wasn't perfect, and i wrote that down.\nShe wrote a letter to me,\nShe didn't want me to be perfect, I wrote that down.\n\nI took my friend to the movies,\nthe movie wasn't perfect, I told her that i'd make it up\nMy friend hugged me gently,\nShe said that the night alone was enough\n\nI saw my friend at a party,\nI didn't look perfect, and i let her know,\nMy friend laughed at me at a party,\nShe didn't want me to be perfect. Although,\n\nI saw my friend while she was in the hospital,\nI brought her flowers that weren't perfect, I was sure.\nBefore my friend died in the hospital,\nShe said i was the perfect person for her.
391436
What do you all like to do together??? \n\nSay you both like to cook and you have all ways shared recipes...\n\nthen get her a new cook book and write this in a card or on the front cover and give it to her...\n\nForever Friends\nyour my friend and that is true,\nbut the gift was given from me to you.\nwe went thru moments that were good and bad,\neven moments that were happy and sad.\nyou supported me when i was in tears,\nwe stuck together when we were in fear,\n\nits really sad that it had to be this way,\nbut it has reached its very last day.\nmiles away cant keep us apart,\n'cause you'll always be in my heart.\n \nAnd let her know that you will all ways love her and that ya'll can still be best friends even though she is moving.
952189
Awwww, I feel so bad for you.  I think you send her a heartfelt email and tell her how you feel.  Although I'm pretty sure she knows this but tell her the same things you told us.  Tell her that you have no friends, you have no one to talk to, you confided in her and now she will not speak or respond to you, tell her you miss her and that she's like a big sister to you.  Tell her how much she has made a difference in your life.  I'm pretty sure this should get her attention.  Don't be rude to her, that's probably the reason why she's distanced herself from you in the first place.  My guess is that you've done it before.  Tell her that you are not giving up on her or the friendship and keep trying your best to reach her.  Be honest.  Tell her exactly how you feel.  Hopefully I was able to capture your feelings because it was obvious to me that you really care for her and really miss her.  And if that's the case, she needs to know.
525713
I would send one last email, stating you hope he is ok, and that you don't want to bug him, but you are just curious. At that point, I would delete his email, and remove him from your IM. If he hasn't talked to you since Christmas, he doesn't sound like a good friend.
106066
From a male point of view, it is conceivable that he is totally oblivious to how you actually feel for him. So lets get to the question... What to write in an email? You might try something like this...\n\n"Hello ????,\n\nI was sitting here thinking about our friendship, recently, it is something I seem to be doing more often. I feel we are good enough friends that I can be honest with you and you should feel equally safe to be honest in return. You see, I find myself at a crossroads. I am still at a stage where I can go either way and your response to this email is going to determine which direction I choose. Although it scares me a little, I'm going to just say it...\n\nI find myself imagining that our friendship has evolving into something deeper and I am so afraid that I might step over the line and lose your friendship by harboring these feelings. If you could take a moment and give me your thoughts, I would appreciate it. \n\nRemember, above all else, that you are talking to a friend and our friendship is my highest priority. If that is as far as we are meant to go, I will still feel like one of the luckiest women alive. \n\nSigned ???"\n\nI hope you will find something to use in what I wrote. Sometimes, all you need is a place to start. In whole or in part, do what you like with what I have offered and good luck.
706764
You don't.  You blew it with starting off as being friends -- you will never become anything more.
123191
Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.
282243
Be honest with him. If your friendship is ended just by asking, then it really wasn't worth having in the first place.
281466
god thats embarrassing.. tell the guy who recieved the note that your really sorry but it wasnt meant for him. then tell the guy the note was actually for what you need to say face to face.
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
1041875
my deepest condolences, it sounds like you lost a friend
22550
Wow, that's tough. If I were in that situation I would write her a letter. A REAL snail mail letter. :) (If you can get her address.) Tell her how you feel and that you miss her friendship and remind her of the good times that you two shared before this incident. Tell her about some things that are going on in your life and give her your telephone number and e-mail address (just in case she's not ready to "talk" just yet). I would also apologize to her and let her know that you weren't intending to hurt or berate her, you just believed that she could do better than him (which obviously she did because ~I'm assuming~ she married someone else). [That was good, feel free to use that in your letter, if, in fact, she did marry someone else.] :) After that, I would leave it alone. If she writes you back, that's great and if she doesn't, you've made your peace with the situation and you will have to let it go. I hope this helps!
398802
baby, you're now just a friend to him. kool to hang with but nothing else. give him up.
270232
Be honest.  Tell her you don't feel anything for her anymore and that you would rather not waste her time.
754047
Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.