IF u hav a b/f  and u only lik him a lil but u like his bro alot but he only liks u as a friend wht shoud u do
102140
Bcm a scrty n gt a gd jb...
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
1178260
go over to him a talk to him. then you guys can be friends. then you guys can be best friends. then you guys could be boyfriend and girlfriend.
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
203668
Date the dude you like still.  This will lead you into a new direction in your life.  You are young, experiencing all you can is what life is all about.  If the dude you love will be hanging out with you then leave it at that.  After all being just friends is achievable.  Maybe that is why you love the one away at college, you miss his friendship.
115058
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
598905
First ask your bff if it okay and if you don't like him talk to her. if you do like him decide which is more important, him or your bff.
614813
IN ORDER TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION, YOU MUST EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FRIENDS? ARE THE TWO OF YOU INVOLVED IN A SUPPORTIVE HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP?  IF THE ANSWER IS YES TO ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS, THEN BOTH \nYOU AND YOUR FRIEND NEED TO MAKE THIS GUY OFF LIMITS. \nNO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR LIKE THIS GUY, IF YOU CONTINUE SEEING HIM KNOWING BOTH YOU AND YOUR FRIEND BOTH LIKE HIM, YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE YOUR FRIEND. GUYS COME AND GO, BUT A TRUE BLUE GIRLFRIEND IS HARD TO FIND.
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
781793
You should not break their relationship being a friend.  Meet other boys. You will find some one of your liking.
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
600033
Honey, female to female: If YOU feel uncomfortable, then YOU ought to stop hanging with them.  God forbid something happen to you while your with them, and your brother is not there.  Stop while your ahead.  If its deep enough for you to be asking on here, then you need to stop hanging with your bro.  Get some girl friends. I don't recommend hanging with only guys under any circumstances, those are the kind of girls who end up getting taken advantage of, by people they've known and trusted for years.
849093
tell him u cant go out with him because your sister likes him and your bestfriend i know u like him too but he will not be the last boy that u will like. and plus your sister and bestfriend is more important then some boy u would like to be able to talk to your bestfriend and your sister then go out with some boy and neither of them would want to talk to u.
266295
go out with someone else like his best friend or better yet ask him out
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
699096
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.