Is it cool to be mean?
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It's totally uncool.\n\nDon't be a  d i c k....just be a good guy. We have enough of those kinds of people on this planet man.\n\nK?\n\nPlease? See....I even used the magic word.\n\n:)
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take it cool and no serious relation promises
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Yes. Sometimes I think I should apologies to a girl I used to go to school with. I left school yrs ago so their r no chances of seeing her to apologies. I am sorry for being mean we do stupid things when we're kids. Its weird coz she wasn't a nice person her self, seemed like she thought she was better than everyone else and she was really really weird used to touch people and do strange stuff and people including me were mean to her coz of that. But if I could go back. I would not have been nasty to her to her. Probably would have just ignored her. But I'm sorry I was un necessarily mean to her. Also I am rude to my Mum sometimes which is very wrong.
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no we dont have to say something bad to othe people if they being rude,why because in some cases somebody may not want to be rude bu tit all depends on the situation you meet the person ,maybe the person is in such a bad mood ,then the person would answer your rudely  but when such situation arise you need calm dwon and meet this peson later to let him or her know how how she behaved,as the saying goes two parrarele line can never meet,so when the other is rude you stay calm dont be rude too
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maybe your trying too hard to be funny. I know some people like that and its kind of annoying. Tell her you werent talking to her or you dont care what she thinks if shes being mean
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I think I'm generally nice. Maybe too non committal (to a fault). I can't tolerate malecious people. Nothing is to be gained from being rude or putting down others just to pump yourself up. \n\nLike I could so get upset with Jerry for stealing my answer on the "one hit wonder" question. But nooooooo, Jerry typed it first and I came in minutes later just happening to love Dexies Midnight Runners too so it would just be silly and rude for me to stick my tongue out at him over something this petty. So what do I do? I let it go......and choose another song. :)
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You are mean. It could be funny if it wouldn't be so sad.
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to be cool & do with other
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i don't think you can be too nice.... there's not enough nice people out here in the world as it is..... but you can't let people run over you either.... people tend to see niceness as a weakness.... but whatever.... continue being yourself.. and if that's nice.. then be it.... just don't take no crap from nobody
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NO WAY  That is sooo mean...talk about lowering self-esteem!
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Bother are good to me. As long as they have a nice personality then im cool.
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Be kind to your school\nThat's how to be cool.
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Sweetie, there is nothing wrong with being a nice person. Nothing at all. And you can still get what you need/want by being a nice person. Sometimes though, you have to assert yourself. That doesn't mean being a B*tch. That means the next time you go to check into work, and someone butts in front of you, or the person checking you in lets someone get ahead of you, you simply step up and say firmly and politely "So sorry, but I was here first". Being assertive and getting what you need is not being mean. Sounds like you almost have a case of being too nice. Don't let people push you around. Unfortunately some people percieve kindness as weakness...Prove them wrong.
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It doesn't matter if it's cool or not!\n\nIf you love it then do it. other peoples opinions don't mean much.
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By not being to mean. A lot of guys are (how do I put this);I guess just insensitive
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The good news: yeah we all feel this way.  The other good news: there's a way to get your way, get people to move their lazy asses, and not come off sounding rude, obnoxious, or like a psycho crank from hell.  All these answers have one thing in common: passive-aggressive hostility, bordering on actively aggressive hostility, with a more than a dash of sarcasm and verbal abuse thrown in as well. (Shoving a sausage up someone's vagina?  That's rape, and that's sick, sad and WRONG.)  \n\nI'd be surprised if anyone actually did what you wanted them to do if you address them so rudely and disrespectfully.  And there's a possibility you could get yourself beaten up or killed if you keep going the way you are going.  I suppose it all depends on whom you say this to as well.  Do you speak this way to a 300-lb leather-clad motorcycle dude, or an older man who's taller than you, or just to women and children and homeless guys down on their luck?  \n\nPeople since ancient times have been decrying "O tempora! O mores!" (O the times, o the behavior!)  We all want what we want when we want it, and not all of us are enlightened, sympathetic, empathetic or upstanding enough to think of ourselves and others at the same time.  Given that, it is up to the individual to uphold the social contract NO MATTER if other people do or not.  If you know to do good and don't do it, you are no better than the people you criticize.  In fact, by being rude, mean and obnoxious, you may be much worse than these people.  Everyone, after all, makes mistakes, has a bad day, forgets.  YOU make mistakes.  YOU have bad days.  YOU forget.  No one -- including you -- is perfect.\n\nI recommend The Paradoxical Commandments by Kent M. Keith.  The book is titled _Anyway_.  Some gems include: People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered.  Love them anyway.  If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.  Do good anyway.  If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.  Succeed anyway.  The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.  Do good anyway.  Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.  Be honest and frank anyway.  \n\nAnd by the way, "frank" here doesn't mean honesty and telling it like it without tact or discretion or feeling for others.  It means being honest with sensitivity, compassion and empathy.\n\nLike my momma always told me, you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.  Peace, K
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Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nDon't do that!!!!!\nyou will insult someone...............\ndon't you care??????????