how will i know the truth? if we had never been together but just once??
110096
Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
145723
Life is short and u only live once...He was part of ur life b4 and it didn't work out, what makes u think that this time is going to work? There's an old saying: "if u hurt me once is ur fault, but if u hurt me twice is my fault". Ur only falling in love with him because he came back in2 ur life...but think of ur current b/f as well...put urself in his shoes...how would u feel if he was 2 leave u 4 his x?? Ask urself the reason why ur x is back in urlife? What was it that 'caused him 2 come back? What happens if u go back with ur x and then u realize that ur current b/f is the one u were meant 2 b with...u would have lost everything...and u might end up alone...do not play with people's emotions because, what goes around comes around...
824138
You dont need a psychic to answer that question. You would know in your own heart and head if you had met the love of your life. If you have to resort to questions to a pyschic about it, then NO you havent. Keep trying! Your one true love is out there somewhere, and believe me, you'll know when youve found it.!
1158709
Just be honest and talk to him about the things you said and how you were feeling at the time. That way if she says anything, he has already heard it from you. Good luck.
179314
how the hell are we supposed to know
117789
This is sad.  Typically, people don't know until the very last minute that they've been betrayed.  But to find out really whether this person had been true to you as well as to him/herself, you'll need to be observant, ask questions (but not too much), listen to what others say and make investigations (not assumptions), last, but not least, be sensitive to your inner self (we all have it_intuition).  \n\nBeing used does not mean it's very bad it depends on your perspective of the whole situation.  At least you had something that the other person needed and could not get it any place else..etc.  Can you be specific of the second question?\n\nAs for how and why people use others, that's a good question.  Some people use others for personal gain or for the gain of others through manipulation.
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There is only one relationship that matters and that's the person you end up with (thru marriage or partnership or whatever)  That's your one "true love"\n\nEvery other relationship is the sound of one hand clapping and that's the saddest sound there is.  Everyone says I love you.  In some relationships you are the liar and in others it's the other person.  Don't worry about it - karma will sort it all out (if you were really crappy to someone - don't worry, someone will be crappy to you)\n\nIf it helps, asking sincere forgiveness from the person you hurt is a good idea but don't always assume they will grant it to you or you will ask in a sincere enough way.  Like I said, don't worry  - karma is for real and works.\n\nNOW - let me ask you a question.  Is all this coming up because of guilt or regret that this person may have been the one "true love"  If the latter, well you've got yourself a whole other thing ;)
1055638
You can drop the charges...but make sure that you are being honest with yourself...was this the first time?  will it be the last?  Don't let yourself believe you are in a good relationship if you are not.
501266
How would we know without details?
383588
Just ask him you never know the absolute truth unless you put it all out there
661706
:) forgiveness. it is not gonna be easy. but if you love him, it is possible. concentrate on your own life, live your life beautifully and earn back all the confidence, trust through yourself before you try work things out with him again. you definitely need time to make it happen. and if you were to always remind yourself about that lie, you'll never get over it because you have made it a part of your life. I've experienced unfaithfulness of my boyfriend, it happened about half a yr ago but everytime i think of it or when i see the girl, i can feel the hurt so fresh. it won't be healed fast but i believe that you have to start with forgiveness then only you can try forget. don't remind yourself about it, when the thought comes, push it aside. you don't need to familiarise it to help you to forget.
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Time is the only way to really know someone.  Each of us have a different persona we portray in the early days of a relationship.  That doesn't necessarily mean a person is fake; it may be their lives just aren't an open book.  There are some things better left out until a relationship blossoms.  As far as trusting someone who has cheated on you not once, but twice????  The trust has been broken there, babe, and I don't recommend you giving it back.  Move on and find someone who values loyalty the same way you do.  Good Luck!
370435
It really depends upon what he lied to you about and if he has always been someone that can't be truthful. How long have you known this man?  Everyone tells some type of lie, it is not just a man thing.
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you can only trust someone as well as you know them. some you can know in a little time, some take a lifetime. sorta depends on how much is shared, how much is hidden,how much is lied about & how much is in denial. \npay attention to your intuition & to what your eyes see. do not fool yourself with unreal expectations. not everyone lies, but a majority do. look for the exception, not the rule. quality in all things & experiences!
194992
The Answer to this question is... YES!!! In this day and age of AIDS and other ST D's it is vital to know the truth about your partner's past love lives. If a person is unable to take the truth, then it is possible that there is no genuine interest.
605855
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
25054
Back up the truck a bit. It may be useful when you first meet a girl to know what kind of past she has had. But at this stage of the game (you are already married to her!) it is immaterial and can only hurt you. Don't go there. Don't think about it. Don't ask her about it.