I love a girl and we are good friends but she say she wants 2 we remain just friends not lovers?what can I do?
116270
The good thing is that she likes you and that's why she didn't felt offended by your approach. My opinion is that she might be taking time out to think about it a little further or for her friendship is more important than love.\nFRIENDSHIP BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN IS A BRIDGE TO LOVE...\nSo just chill and don't rush things, who knows what destiny has in store for you.
365993
I suggest that you two should just be friends. If you really loved her you wouldn't have dumped her
149905
dont let her friends be any part of it, if she makes her friends part of it tell her its important to you that what happends between the 2 of you stays between the 2 of you and if she can't deal with that then you need to just let her go forever.
118605
Maybe her best friend is afraid that you will steal her friend from her and is feeling a bit jealous of your relationship.  You need to reasure her so how about  "I know you are a good friend to X(the name of the girl you like) and I hope you will condsider me as your friend too".  Incidentally do you have a friend  who might be interested in your girl's friend so she doesn't feel left out in the cold!?
698317
Tell her you want to remain single.  You are not the type who can settle with a marriage.  Tell her you may not be faithful to her so it is better to be friends.
394494
stay her friend and if she wants to come back to you then say ok as long as you dont go back to the other guy. if she still goes back to the other guy dont get back with her because she's using you to make the other guy jealous.
359452
you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
796068
i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.
961521
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!
347178
leave it alone, good friends are hard to come by. ignore your temptations and move on.if she happens to make a move politely tell her that you that you would not destroy your friendship for a night of passion
688132
Tell her you are confused and discuss what you perceive as mixed signal.  Discuss those things you mention in your question and ask her if she is having second thoughts about you two just being friends.  Tell her if she is having second thoughts you would be interested in giving your relationship a second try.\n\nThe worst she can do is tell you she isn't interested, which would answer your question and relieve your confusion.\n\nThe one thing I wouldn't do is let this drag on for too long.  You are entitled to a life and hanging around with her while she decides just doesn't qualify.
468807
friends grow apart...it happens. spend less and less time with her. Don't be cruel but if she asks why you 2 aren't seeing as much of each other, say you've each got different interests now.
648910
Don't lead her on.  Don't have sex with her or flirt with her or act as if you want anything more than a friendship.  Be open and honest with her and don't send mixed messages.  Tell her you only want friendship and if she wants more and can't handle being friends, then you have to end the communication between you because it will only result in someone getting hurt.
993431
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating.  She may be happy that you have spoken up!  When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed.  I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?\n\nGood luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
629408
Always a tough call.\n\nYou have to examine your feelings for her and respect that she told you that she cannot see you in that way.\n\nContinue to be pleasant and polite to her and just have her be a good friend.\n\nYou should find another who is willing to reciprocate the love you have to give. She will understand this decision that you have made and you can still be friends.
612856
It seems like she doesnt appreciate you in that level.  You should move on if there are no sparks. You deserve someone who you take you for who you are really. It has been two years and nothing much has happened between you two.. You're better off being good friends, there is always someone out there for you.
262931
You might have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you.  Telling her that you love her would even make it worse.  If you value your friendship, you have to give her some space, give her time to realize that your friendship is important.  It's probably a good idea NOT to mention that you love her, especially if she only wants to be friends.\nIf it's hard for you to be friends, then unfortunately you are going to have to move on.  Many good friendships have been ruined when one person falls in love with the other, but the other doesn't fall in love back.\nGood Luck, remember, this isn't the end of the world, maybe the end of the friendship...but you'll love someone else again.