Dating younger females, is ok for older guys right?
100970
story of my life.. 21 but am attracted to men anywhere from late 20's to even 50's.  And I have discovered there are alot of us May-December lovers out there... something about am older man just makes me feel more comfortable...
280656
As long as she is of legal age it is none of your business.  \n\nYou don't know what the girl needs sexually or if your uncle can do the job, and it does not matter.  Sometimes young women like old men because of the size of their wallet, not their penis.  Also, they might really like each other.\n\nIf his heart is broken, oh well. That is life regardless of age.
723579
Yes there are many women out there that would date a younger man.  Some older women would feel flattered that a younger man would find them attractive.  \n\nThe thing is if you want a mature woman you have to be a mature man.  Older women espically if they already have children and some that dont... Do Not Want A Child.  \n\nGo for it and Good Luck!!
885435
I don't think 10-12 years is a big deal.  You can look just as good or better then the woman his age, plus your smarter and wiser!  After that I would say time takes a toll!  If it's not the physical appearance your worried about, but maturity, well maturity comes in all ages.  I've seen 20 year olds more mature then 30 year olds and so on....just enjoy what you got!  Hardest part is finding someone you connect with, and you already accomplished that!  ps.It's the perfect age difference for a great sex life-so I heard! LOL
458030
I, personally, don't care about age.  I think it is all about compatibility and maturity levels of both people involved.  However, I think some older women may feel that their bodies are not what a younger guy might find attractive.  However, if it is true that a woman's sexual peak is in her 30's and a twentysomething was interested...it might be worth exploring.
994819
I am 20.Never dated anyone younger. I like them older. Just until I get into my late 30's early 40's. Then I'll start to like them young.
11157
I think you are just doing great. Keep this relationship.\nIt's better to relate to someone through culture and language than through age.\n\nBTW, I'm 24, and I've dated girls 6 years old younger than me and girls 5 years old older than me. Perfectly OK.
750058
I think that it is fine as long as you both come into the relationship comfortable with it. You just can't be intimidated by her, just cause she is two steps ahead in some areas doesn't mean that she is in every area. I'm sure you have things to teach her as well.\n\nWomen are like fine wine... they just get better with age
333381
Its not at all about the age. Its all about compatiability. You guys should be on the same wavelength and you should have trust. being able to communicate properly is also one of the major criteria.\nAge difference does not matter.
190038
I dont know about older women having problems with younger men.  Im 34 and my BF is 24 and I have to say so far (we have been together for a little over a year) it has been the best relationship i have ever been in
1091392
It depends on the 2 people dating and how mature they are
237620
I am telling you this from experience and from my heart. Go with an older man. I am 34 and dating a man who is 20 years my senior. I have never been happier in my life than I am right now. The maturity factor trumps everthing else. They know how to treat a woman like a woman and not a girl. There is respect present in their personalities that isn't there in younger men. And the sex is incredible. Trust me, I wouldn't tell you this if it were not true. If you have your eye on an older man, go for it.
133857
I'm attracted to older guys. I don't see a problem with it, honestly. Just make sure you both have similar goals for a relationship. If he is wanting to settle down and lead a nice, quiet life, and you want to go out on the town and party, it won't work. Make sure your priorities for the relationship parallel first.
666780
Thank you "Lady Wyn"...very good answer...I am 42 and my girlfirend just turned 21 and It has nothing at all to do with her age on why we are going out....its all about liking the same stuff....we love the same music, the same books, the same tv shows, the same places to eat....we both love to play pool and love the beach...and in general just enjoy each others company. I have dated women from 18-50 and had a great time with all of them and I don't keep looking for one certian age group....its whoever appeals to me and who I also appeal to...so stop being so shallow!
1047876
Billy, In my opinion I find that it depends on if you are really looking at dating as really trying to build a relationship or if it's more for just the company of having someone to do things with. At your age which is only 2 years older than this girl I find the aspect of dating okay as long as you sustain from doing things that truly might change your life and hers in ways that you two are far from ready for. So just have fun and don't get to serious just yet, there is still to much life you need to live before complicating it .
425371
That's a funny one.   It has always been okay for an older guy to date a younger girl,  but when the girl dates the younger guy, she is laughed at and jokes made.\nI wouldn't let it bother you.  I would proudly say, "And he's a year younger than me, hope I can still get a young one when I'm 80".  \nAge shouldn't matter, to answer your question.  All that matters is that you are right for each other for however long it lasts.  If you get along, then to heck with what your friends say or how loud they laugh.  if they are really your friends, they'll accept it and have compassion and understanding and not mock you or put you down.  To joke when you gals are alone, well jokes, alone, that's okay.  But to gossip or hurt your feelings, their not friends and never really were.\nGo with your heart and forget what others will say.  The true challenge is finding out in the long run if those friends you thought were friends really were to begin with.\nControl your own life, don't let others control you.\nMany a marriage has lasted eternally with a large age difference and that also includes dating relationships.  My girlfriend is married to a guy that is nearly 15 years younger than her.  They are and have been for over 17 years, a perfect coupld.\nGo for it.................
1077794
There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.