how long should you be with the same person who tell you that he hate you then he said iam sorry?
115167
once he tell you that, you should quit it then.
1174772
if he doesn't like you, well just forget him and find someone else.
959462
well, forget him. it's annoying you, i know. but we don't know what's the problem with him. we never met him anything. you better avoid him and let's see what happens. if you didn't do anything for him to hate you,  then let go. cheer up. don't think about him too much.
431174
After realizing your mistakes and apologizing sincerely to him, then give him space, don't drool on it as it will not give him the chance to reflect on what you've said that has hurt him or your words of being sorry. Time doesn't really heal whatever pain we've experienced, but it gives us the chance to take it, to carry it and to understand why things have happened. Its more difficult for a man just to forget, forgive and pretend nothing has been said that has hurt his ego or his total self. Just continue being you, the person he used to be a friend with, smile when you see him, though stop nagging or pushing yourself into him to put back everything that was. That's done and gone, start from scratch, that's the cause and effect of what you've done. Accept and WAIT, wait when he's ready to be friends again. Remember, wait and have patience.
375201
yes, i mean u know how he feels so just get thing out in the open and make it clear to him that u dont hate him=P
232839
You are honest enough to realise that you have done something wrong to someone, which itself shows u have taken responsibility of it. You cannot immediately confront him as iam sure he too is just recovering from whatever it is you have done to him. You have to wait, be patient. Once when the time is right, when things are a bit silent, you have to talk to him and get it over with. Meet him alone in person and in the first instance, start apologising  and then u owe him an explanation on why u had to do it. And last, tell him how awful you feel about what u did. And wait for him to react, listen to him, positive or negative...it doesnt matter..as much as you have admitted your mistake, give him a chance to let whats in his mind to come out. You have to take it from there, i guess. If that person has forgiven you, then great..but if he hasnt, and goes on abusing or accusing u and making u feel that you have sent him to hell, well...listen to it and simply walk away..you cannot force him to forgive you...\n\nYou did your  part and i'll bet u will feel a lot relieved. It wont irritate you in ur mind that you didnt clear it up, so well done, you have done ur part! pat urself for being brave!!
1187406
well give some detail like how is he no good? At least you figured it out in a quick amount of time you didn't waste years I would just tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore it's that's simple, you don't deserve to be treated badly... drop the jerk and find someone that will treat you right.
66218
No, he actually hates you now. \n\nHe told me so.
403429
you have told him you are going to leave and you haven't?! what is your MAJOR malfunction?  leave or stay with the poor guy.  you staying and hating him only puts both of you in a bad place.\n\nTHE DIRECT ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS NO COMMUNICATION IS WORSE IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE trying TO SALVAGE.  if you aren't trying to salvage the relationship than yelling is very annoying.
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
482923
go to him and say sorry .. what if later on he shows up the same way u did and does the same to ur wife ?
1080125
YES you should apologize to your ex!! But remember the facts that the both of you are either just friends or aquaintance now beside the facts that both of you went into a relationship before.\n\nIf you still like her, you should tell her. And even if she doesn't like you anymore, just move on.No use being sad, because you've hurt her too deeply in the past!! and i believe, if you hurt someone now, you will have retribution. meaning in future, you will be that one being hurt!! So now, you're having what is your retribution, which is getting dumped. Don't feel so agitated by my answer.  But life goes on.. move on!! take care!!
375854
girl don't bother about what they say.just go to his house and apologize about what happened and he may forgive you.and another note whatever that girl say just tell her that she's hating and that you wish that you had him and stop drinking that haterrade
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
487388
That is the price you pay sometimes for playing games.  The only thing you can do is tell him your sorry and move on.
831110
i think you need to get out as fast as you can.you deserve so much better, and he is just a waste of your time.
729625
It's okay to be polite to him, since it takes more effort to hold on to anger, but you don't have to be his friend.  It doesn't seem like he wants to be yours.\n\nIt sounds like he thinks this other guy is "cool", and he wants to be "cool" too, even if it means being mean to someone who hasn't done anything to hurt him.  If you still like him as a person, you could tell him you don't hate him, but what he did was really hurtful, and until he can see that he can't treat you like that and still expect you to be friends, you aren't friends.  Not enemies, but not friends either.