What to do when a husband is unfaithful with a prostitute?
107409
Have him checked for hiv and std's. Find out if it is a habit. Get yourself checked out for hiv and std's. Decide if this is something you can live with.
71680
Ultimately, the only person that can answer that is you and your spouse. If they continue to be unfaithful, there is an underlying reason to their actions. If in fact the two of you wish to salvage the relationship, talk to the other and find their real feelings. Perhaps the other is doing this because hey are addicted to sex. If this is the case, maybe you can consider stepping up the sex life. If the other simply enjoys the feeling of being with someone else, perhaps you can consider opening the relationship to allow a third part to join the relationship from time to time. Consider all options before you make a choice as in relationships when we make a move the piece is sometime difficult if not impossible to move back. I hope this helps….\n\n-Jerry
1186697
There's no need to hire a Private Dick, because you're 90% sure that your Dick is cheating.  No need to throw him out of the house, he will beg to come back, what has that gained? (nothing). If you feel it in your gut, and he has done it before, let him go, it will hurt but let it go!  The woman that he's seeing has no self respect for herself, let alone you.  And do not say that stupid slogan that a lot of people use,  (He comes home to me), Of course after his balls can't float they're empty, sure he's coming home to you.  If you keep taking his word, then he knows I can tell her anything and she'll believe me.  Be strong let that disease go!
26278
1. Tell your wife you love other people.\n2. Get a divorce.\n3. Move to Vegas and patrol the many viable whorehouses instead of potentially ruining your own family life and another family's as well.\nHow can you live with yourself in the knowledge you violated your vows to your wife?
259848
Stop getting any further, Love your wife and honor her. No good will come of an affair.
809772
I'm wondering if you are for real or not????\nIn any case If your wife is bed bound because of her weight how can she be prostituting, as most men who use prostitutes like to see what they are getting first.
418866
end it immediately! he's married and that means he loves the other woman and he's not faithful!
625089
First of all you need to be "snooping" this is your health and welfare too!  If he is having sex with another woman and not using protection then it can be devastating to you both.\n\nNow, if he isn't cheating then he's getting ready to.  Simply ask him what is making him NOT happy with your relationship.  Then LISTEN to the answer.  Don't jump down his throat, talk about it.  If he wants to leave he will leave, nothing you do or say will change that.  But make sure you have a good lawyer (if your married) to make sure you get whats coming to you in the divorce and make sure he takes care of the child you have together.\n\nGood Luck.
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I think he's going to end up cheating on you again.  He continues to lie, and obviously still has feelings for this other woman.  Knowing that you both have been unfaithful makes me think that there are some serious problems in your relationship that you just aren't willing to address or work out.  I know that being with someone for that long can make leaving them all that much harder, but you need to step away from the relationship.  Yes you were both wrong, but that doesn't mean he can't forgive you and stop holding your actions over you head.  Have you forgiven him?  There really is no trust in your relationship anymore and I just don't see a realtionship working out in the long run if the partners can't trust each other.  Hope this helps, good luck!
21348
If your husband kissed another woman what would you think.  You have already cheated yourself since you got to that point.  Now is the time to feel guilty.
744003
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
624117
get a lawyer and fast...you need one. A good lawyer will use the tarnished reputation of the girlfriend to prove that your husband didn't do it. don't say a word and let your lawyer talk\n\na good website for legal advice\n\nhttp://www.expertlaw.com/forums/index.php
834570
when men cheat they try and lay blame for the reason on the one who is hurt, the victim. they are just trying to get u to depressed and down and believing it was your falt so u won't lay blame where it really belongs. i would divorce him, and get some alimony out of it. he is not done with this woman yet, he doesn't want to divorce u because he might have to give u too much financially, or split the assetts fairly.
481949
Neither of you love each other since you both cheated, whether it was for plasure or revenge it doesnt matter. This is a mentally dangerous situation as that he has become a habit. Habits are hard to break especially the ones that last for years. You have been doing this for so long that you cant remember what life was like before him. You deserve better. Unfortunately you cant listen to your heart on this one. Leave. Does it feel good knowing he might have been inside another woman hours earlier without protection then inside you? Do you always want to have that feeling? Search your soul and find your courage to whats right for your emotional and mental future.
243001
forget it all together - you don't need the headaches. If he cheated and she cheated most likely they will cheat again. Unless you want to live a soap opera - move on to a different crowd of people.
575157
If the affair is over, forget her and forget about wanting to make her miserable.  Why not concentrate on making yourself happy by dwelling on positive things, such as what is right in your life?  If you want to keep your husband, the change in your attitude might even make him so happy that he won't stray again.\n\nHaven't you ever heard that living well is the best revenge?  Let it go, take the high road, and just forget about her.  Forgive your husband if you want to keep your marriage intact.\n\nAnd why is it that wives who have been cheated on always want to make the "other woman" miserable?  Unless she raped your husband for 3 years, he is just as culpable as she is.  \n\nLet it go.  Do NOT stoop so low as to publicize her personal information.  Unless, of course, you could handle losing a civil lawsuit for libel to her as well as facing criminal charges if you put her in danger, which that would certainly do.
738066
Trust me, the wife is fully aware that her husband is guilty...she also feels ashamed too, like it is somehow her fault.  But she has to live with him so is more willing to forgive him than the bimbo he is messing around with.  Your friend should run away from this situation before something bad happens to her.