Guys! Say you marry the woman of your dreams,and you've only slept with one other person, would u regret it?
105164
No, as long as I was in love, I wouldn’t feel as if I had missed out on anything - even if she was the ONLY one I had ever slept with. I think the thing that traps most guys is not the idea of having multiple sex partners (although it is for some), but mostly the different sex experiences they get from the various women. Typically what happens in a relationship is the guy, (and girl too) get bored of the same sex, the same way, the same style - it almost becomes routine and robotic - instead of exciting and fun. If a couple can try new things, and keep their sex life interesting, the guy will never feel like he’s missing out on anything! In fact, he may brag to his friends that their missing out on something, but she will be all to himself!
501470
well why get married and then be with someone else? but i mean if your husband doesnt care.. hell invite him in for a threesome.. that might land you on jerry springer one day.. but it'd be fun anyway ;) for you and him... and her!
834590
Wow just because you say another mans dream doesn't mean you are cheating. I dream of other men sometimes and there is no way in hell would I cheat on my husband. So just because you was sayen anothers mans name don't mean you are cheating. Have you ever thought maybe your husband was dreaming you sayen another mans name? Dreams are funny and some seen so real at times.
914905
If you feel the person your married to is the One, your attraction to other people will not steer you away from your love and faithfulness to your spouse. You will always be attracted to other people, your human. But you will feel it's not worth it to be with someone else because you already have what you found at home...that is, if the one your married to IS the One. If you have any doubt in your marriage, then you made a mistake when you got married to that person, and it will be easier for you to make the decision to be with this other person because you feel they have something incredibly important that your spouse doesn't.\n\nSometimes you may simply be confused about your marriage because of your sudden and shocking new found attraction to someone else. In that case, re-evaluate the importance of your spouse and figure out and re-learn if your spouse really does make you feel great, and is important to the max in your life.
943303
My first time was with my wife, but we weren't married yet.  She's the only one I've been with.
675959
I want a million dollars, but I'm not getting that either.  You are screwed.  If you wanted to have sex with two women so badly, why did you get married?
1009521
I would only date one person, my gf who im 100% in love with and yes i'd definatly wait 2 have sex.
1000430
if you are just dating that is fine but when you bring someone else in the relationship you find your self regreting it you will see. \ndont do it
765424
No not at all, I love my partner for who he is ...not what he was...and I married all of him...all of his past and baggage and goodtimes...
177182
i once told someone i totally hate that her partner is the best guy ever, go ahead and marry him, while he's actually full of rubbish (alcoholic, jobless, rude to women, liar, sexist, etc etc). i regret it though coz she has a miserable life now, but the advice not only coming from me.. so it wasnt totally my fault =)
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I will try to open my heart to your question.do I cheat now? No there is no one to cheat on,but if there was I wouldn't now.But I cheated onmy first 3 wives over a 15yr. period.Why? The thing I remember the most,she did nothing to cause it,and I always felt guilty afterwards.\n I guess as I look back on it now,it confirmed the idea that other women found me attractive or handsome.
11115
be honest! dont cheat, but especially not with her friend! how would you like it if she slept with one of your friends, right?
64783
i do..But now i'm married with someone else.Still i'm in love with the first.(checked married&divorced yesterday)
833932
Only if you decide to marry!
401560
Well, it started off being exciting on all parts, but after it was over, I , myself, was very unhappy seeing my hubby cuddling with me and another woman. He, of course, enjoyed all aspects of it to the point of developing feeling for other woman over me. She was married and bored, so she wanted something different, and my hubby was it.\n\nI wish it would have never happened, and strongly advise against it. I thought our marriage was strong enough and secure (In my eyes, and his I thought) to do something like that, but it wasn't even close. It took us 4 months of hard work to get our marriage back on track, including no contact with other female at all on both parts. Its a risk you have to decide to either take or not. Once you do it, if there's issues before, then it can and will destroy the strongest marriage. \n\nIt isn't worth the heartache and pain to have a few minutes of something new sexually.  That one time almost cost me my marriage and 4 of the hardest months of my life.
591108
well if you weren't in love with him. then why did you go out with him? why did you sleep with him? when you sleep with a guy before marriage they tend to leave.. i know this all too well. and if he cheated on you . then maybe he doesn't deserve you. you were in love with another guy while you were dating another guy that you didn't love .. did you go out with him because he was a charity case or to make the other guy jealous ? in the beginning?
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I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;