Whats the best way to deal with my jealousy issues and my bf. My Bf is completely inocent in my being jealous?
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Believe me, it is just you who feels so, i am pretty sure ur bf knows about ur jealousy problem but he chooses to ignore it either or it is just that he might b enjoying seeing u jealous! But if u wanna give him nail to nail , just start going with him, eg,. if he admires a certain girl, u just start praising the girl more and i wud suggest that u even praise some good looking guy who passes u both, just see the effect then! u"ll definitely enjoy this and it will take care of him and u as well, i.e. u "ll get rid of jealousy problem and he"ll stop being a complete innocent child!
139626
trust ur partner & u'l stop feeling jealous..
359413
Don't worry.  The jealousy are natural.\n\nWhen you stop having jealousy it will be a problem.  That could mean that you have no more interest in him.  \n\nAccept them with a smile and when in jealousy, give a kiss to your man.
229404
I dunno, I haven't been able to master that skill yet.  Everytime someone's been jealous of me I haven't wanted them to feel that way and by the time I want them to be jealous of me they generally don't care enough about me to be jealous let alone any other emotion.\n\nProbably better to just let it go and move on.  Who knows -- maybe losing your fixation on getting him to care about you will make him jealous...
449652
I am the same way that you are, the guy I am with is the one for me as well, and we also have a baby on the way. But my jealousy and Insecurity did kind of hurt us, because things are not the same right now, and we are both trying to get back to the way we were, because we both really love each other, and do not want to lose one another, plus we want to because of the baby. I had to learn the hard way to not be that way, because he would never do anything to hurt me. So the best advice I can give you, is just dont let your jealousy get in the way, I mean it isnt going to go away, just dont let it get the best of you, because he will either change (not for the good), or he will end up leaving you. I had a bad past too, and this guy I am with is PERFECT for me, so just try your hardest to let go of your past, and tell yourself that this is your present, and can also be your future if you just let all the bad stuff go. Trust me, I do not wanna be the jealous type anymore either, but it is just something that is hard to get rid of. If he has been able to handle it this long, then he is a great guy, my boyfriend put up with it for a LONG time, but theres only so much one guy can take, so please stop while you are ahead. I hope this helps some.
741688
Aww!  I'm sorry to hear about this...Sounds to me that he's trying to hurt your feelings and make you jealous.  I would try avoiding him and moving on.  I know it's hard for you to hear this, but don't let him manipulate your love life.  Move on.  He'll get what's coming to him...and it won't be nice, but remember you aren't the one who needs to worry about that.  Good luck!
721181
Tell him straight and dont frequent anywhere you know he will be and if he keeps appearing and harrassing you it would be wise to take out an AVO.  It is proven that jealouss boyfriends do become violent if they can't get what they want so don't muck around get rid of him today.
425191
It seems to me that ur BF is trying to make u jealous.  I dont think that u should have to try to get him back.  I think u should get with someone else and see how it goes.  Who knows- maybe u can love someone else.
945332
since you have not given him reason to be jealous.....tell him to relax and enjoy being with you. he is the one and tell him to know that and spend more time thinking  about you as a couple...other guys are not a factor.....insist on this....
1161441
feelings for someone close to you is possible.the main thing is the other person responding the same,as for your boyfriend you don't need to tell him that might make him to be jealous
1116661
my ex is also like that.. at first i thought it was cute of him being jealous... but as time passes by it really suffocates me.. its like you cant do anything without asking permission from him or him allowing you. He became very possesive and it really kills me... As if i cant live my life by myself... piece of advice girl... don't let your bf becum a monster you should talk to him...and tell him that its normal to be jealous but its also not normal if he's over reacting when he is jealous...
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Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
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Hey, I think I can appreciate your answer but try following what I have been doing and I guess most of the people are happy with me.\n1. Remember you can not make every one happy all the times, Moral: Make some people happy some times, just prioritize your selves and your time.\n2. Put all focus to the people with whom you are: dont think about ur BF when u r with friend and vice versa.
519725
Run Away Run Away!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nJust remember jealous boyfriend syndrome- side effects may include you getting your face smashed in or damage to vital organs.
1162485
It is normal to feel jealous at times when you are in love.It may be a passing phase.Are you making him feel jealous in any way?Make sure that you are not.Introduce him to your Ohio friend as well.That way he will feel secure and will not  think wrongly.Spend more time with your boyfriend to show that you love him.Go back in time and tell him all the things that made you fall for him.Let him know from time to time that he still  means the same to you as he was before.
219083
Well..We don't want your boyfriend to get jealous...Who ever you have feelings for the most, go for...But know that you will probably damage their friendship...And ask yourself is it worth it...
968500
All in one! Keep her out! And you try and keep a hold on your bf. You have to manipulate sometimes you know. Remember, everything is fair in love and war!