Why do boys want their wife- to -be virgin, if they love to sex with them even if their not yet married?
100977
No, I don't.\nI will wait till married.\n\nThey who think as your question, I think it's just sex for pleasure. They don't think about marry at the moment, even about love ( if they really love each other, they would thinking about marry).\n\nMy opinion, virgin will marry with virgin, and not virgin with not virgin.
1137763
because society has ingrained it into us to have the mentality that men can do whatever they please and that women have this precious virginity they are to guard against all except their husbands and they are to submit to them. a woman who sleeps around is synonymous of power and independance and belongs less to her future hubby than she would if he were the only one she ever "gave herself to" its all societal--you wont find that to be true in matriarcal societies...
202890
You mean, why don't they want to have sex? Maybe they are waiting till they are married, or waiting till they fall in love. Don't worry, love will come to you. Paietence is the keyl.
529492
BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT THEM TO BE PARENTS BEFORE THEIR TIME.  THEY KNOW THAT IN REAL LIFE IF SOMETHING LIKE THEIR DAUGHTERS BECOMING PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE THERE IS A STRONG POSSIBILITY THAT THEY WILL BE SINGLE PARENTS. AND NO ONE WANTS THAT FOR THEIR DAUGHTER. THEY MIGHT GIVE YOU OTHER REASONS BUT THAT IS DEFINITELY IN THE BACK OF THEIR MIND AT ALL TIMES.
334045
i think you're still a turn on. i think more women nowadays should stay virgins until marriage. i've kissed guys of course, just on the lips or cheek though, but ive never dated or made out with a guy or girl. and im planning on keeping my virginity until im married or have met the one i know im going to marry. go virgins! :P
892315
Sex before marriage is a total no-no for me. Virginity is the most prized possesion for a women and the most deserving man can get the most prized possesion.
826941
I agree with you. You get married because you love that person for that person, not because you love what they can do to you in the sack.\n\nPeople say sex is an expression of love, but I think lack of sex is a greater expression. If your boyfriend/girlfriend loves you enough to say "I don't need sex. I can wait." That's someone worth being with. It they're ready to hit the sack right away... well... maybe they don't completely love you for you.\n\nThat's why I'm a virgin and will remain so until marriage. If a guy says he can't wait that long, then he's not worth my time.\n\nSo, getting back on track now... Is viriginity important to guys? I guess it depends on the man. To me, (female), virginity is very important. I don't care if they have experience or not and I'd rather they didn't. I want to be the only person they've ever been with and I'd hope that my future spouse will feel the same way. =D
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
132357
nope....its the last thing i would see in a girl. Well all of us relate virginity to being pure in sexual life but why not relate it also to her heart. Even if I marry a prostitute but she has a gem of a charecter I would still call her a Virgin!!!Of course no guy is pure in this world to say that my wife should be a virgin. All men know what they really are.
28011
he probably wants you for the wrong reasons. hold off because, being a virgin makes you very desirable.
127658
if i never get married, i am going to die a virgin!\nI think its because people want to experience sex and dont want to go through their entire life without trying it out.
1035814
i will not have sex until i find the right one, and if i never get married then i will die a virgin, there is more to sharing love than just sex u noe. and this is coming from a 13 yr old.
592210
Your virginity is a wonder gift to give a husband. He knows you truly are committed to him and this is only for him. (guys love that) He will never have to wonder if you are comparing his performance to someone else.\n\nAnother good reason: Most relationships grow in intimacy and communication until the sex starts. Then everything stops or at best grows slowly. If you want to be married to your best friend for life, wait for sex until you marry him.\n\nThere are religious reasons as well, I'm sure others will cover that angle and you probably already know what they are going to say. So all I will say about that is you already know the answer, follow your convictions.
390024
I'm sure there are some people who want to stay virgins. I wish I could. But girl just because your friends are pregnant doesn't mean you have to be. Be smart and wait or else you really regret it when you are my age. Plus sex will alwayz be there and it will be more romantic and passionate if you wait til your wedding nite.
750973
being a virgin is great beth am glad to hear that am a virgin to and yes guys love them.  its good to be that way only give yourself to your husband and nobody else cause once you give it away thats it. far as scaring guys off i don't know but in my personal oppion being that way and you lose it to some radom guy is ver disturbing reason why is because you do fine somebody you love very much and he is a virgin and you know he is going to marry you when you both get married you can't give your first to your husband and i think that he really deserves to be your first keep up the good work beth
611028
Frankly, If I were a girl (Having reached the legal age), I would have sex with the boy7man I feel I love without feeling that I have lost my dignity. Dignity is how we present ourselves before the public and before ourselves. I have seen non virgins that a lot noble and I have seen virgins that are a lot bitchy.
378263
it's never wrong to be a virgin unless you are married. I was a virgin till I was 19. \nagain.. it's never wrong to be a virgin.