my bf hates my brother and speaks bad about him.... it hurts me?
104945
listen, tell this to ur bf and say tht u r hurt by his opinion and plz donot behaved rudely,just be kool and try to more attentive on him and when he will tell bad about ur bro just say if do this kind of things in future u will not able to continu this relationship,be strong and if he really love u then he will stop to say bad thing about ur bro,and if he donot care about ur feelings and understand tht he doesnot love u.i know this opinion is really harsh for u but it is true.
651182
he sounds More of a annyoing little brother then a real boyfriend!! break it up!! tell him you can't stand it anymore!! IF HE CAN'T BE MATURE THEN FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN BE!!! Good Luck!!
831371
It's time for you get some balls and stand up to your brother . . . if you really want to be with Frank then be with him, if your brother doesn't approve then tell him tough sh** . . . it's not his life, it's not his emotion or choice or even right to get in the way of your life because he has insecurity issues w/ himself . . . if he thinks frank will be bad for you, and if he's right, then that's a decision you're going to have to find out for yourself.\n\nStand up for yourself and put your foot down!!  Don't let other people, regardless of their role in your life, tell you what to do with your life.
811984
Oh sweetie im so srry for ur situation.....but if u re-read ur question out loud...ull find the answers already there....do u really think u deserve to have someone that is only with u when u can provide an outlet for tham but when the chips are down for u, he pleads the 5th? And the mortgage excuse he gave u is dumb....because that $$$ can go into a place w/u....besides the brother shouldve never gotten a home he wasnt going to be able to pay for on his own..... what did he think, that the brother wasnt ever going to eventually move out and get on with his life????? or did ur boyfriend assure him that no matter what woman ever comes along, he'll never leave?\n  It really a tough situation for u, lookin for a new place and dealing with this too, but deep down in ur soul, u know what to do, u just have to want and be brave enough to do it.\ngood luck
1109996
Yeah, he's a brother, if you want him to back off basically you'd have to stop dating her... otherwise he's just doing what brothers are supposed to do; protect his sister from other guys ;-)  doesn't matter if you're a good or bad influence, it's his brotherly duty to make it difficult for you...
988271
I think you should be honest with your brother first, out of respect for him. If he doesn't give you his blessing, you will be disrespecting him to continue. Whether or not you care about disrespecting him affects whether or not you should continue.
1159439
You should never put your friend's feelings over your family.  Friends will come and go, but your family will always be there for you through good and bad times. \n\nSo what if your brother is different.  We all have differences.  It is more embarrishing for your brother for you to be with him and be ashamed to be seen with him.  Think about his feelings first.  You can always walk away but he will always be that way.\n\nJust love and be proud of your brother no matter who sees you or who's around.
1117753
Yes, you need to apologize.  To start with, you had absolutely no right to strike another human being!  That is abuse.   Violence is never an answer to anger.  You showed a lot of emotional immaturity when you struck your brother.  Apologize but accept the fact that it might take him a while to forgive you.  He was hurt by your actions and he probably doesn't trust you right now.
1024809
no, it's not wrong...\nif the magic dissapered between you and him, you can't do anything... but if you broke up for no raison like, because his brother is cuter, then yes it's wrong!!!!\ni don't want to act like i was yur mother or anything, but don't yu think that it would break his heart 10x more??? \ntell him why and find a good raison why you like his brother!!!
706641
Yes my brother is annoying and now that we a grown, we never talk to each other...sad I know...but is for the best
911150
The more you show him that this word upsets you, the more he'll say it. He knows it pushes your buttons. Hey, he's a little brother. That's the way they are. It's their job to snitch on you, copy everything you say & do, and find words that annoy you. Unfortunately, if he's not listening to your good counsel about keeping his yap shut, someone will do it for him, relieving you of all responsibility. So, if you've told him, and you've told your parents, your job's done. Let the chips fall where they will. And don't allow him to see that it bothers you. This works well on all the other stuff that he's been annoying you with too. How do I know this? I'm a little sister, though grown up now. <*)))><
667629
Wow. Simliar to what I'm going through but except with cheating with the brother. I'm 20 and I noticed that since me and my ex bf had a age gap of nearly 12 years it was hard for us to work out our problems. He loves you and he doesn't want to lose you. Maybe your husband and his brother should talk this matter over. There might be rage but it's better then losing someone that you may never see again due to unforeseen future ahead of one. Before me and my ex ended our relationship I told him about how hurt I was that he treated me like "shit". He took the time to understand what he was doing to hurt me. You can try talking it over with him. If matters aren't resolve, I think it would be wise to end the relationship and move on. It's wrong for you to have to put up with his "shit". I'm truly sorry that you are going through this but we do learn from our mistakes. Good luck.
687975
Your girlfriend is dead wrong.  You were right to protect your little brother.  That's your job.  From your brother's reaction your instincts were right on the mark as well.\n\nYour girlfriend doesn't want to see the mean spirit behind your "friends" taunting of your brother.  The fact that they didn't respect your wishes further demonstrates their mean nature.\n\nFrankly, you need a better class of friends.\n\nGood job on standing up for your brother.
776898
It sounds like he is a closet gay guy. Your brother needs to sit down with a councler and talk.
1012201
tell me and we'll both know.  i'm 31 and my younger bro is 28 and we still don't see eye to eye on most things.  different personalities unfortunately.  if your bro is nasty and swearing than it sounds like you just need to walk away from him until he can speak to you nicely.  be strong when he bugs you for money, he's just using you as he knows you're an easy target.
921745
Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.
840048
I think it would be fine.  You might want to talk about it with your bro though and get his opinion.  The only potential prob I can see would be if you are hanging out with your bf's family and the ex starts asking questions about your brother or saying mean stuff about him.  But if that doesn't bother you, or if your bro and his ex had a relatively friendly breakup experience, then go ahead.