i am loved a girl how not love me but she is my friend what i do plz hlp e?
117302
Don't ever sacrifice the friendship especially that you know that she doesn't feel anything for you.\n\nI've done it before and based on experience, it's better that you'll just stay as friends.\n\nYou won't lose anything, in fact, you'll enjoy more!!!
918724
talk to her about it and tell her how you feel if she is a real friend she will understand
574471
MAY IT HURTS YOU BUT ITS TRUE.......\nTHAT SHE DOESNT LUVS U AT ALL NOR SHE CARES ABOUT U.......\n\n\ntry 2 forget her bcoz if she is saying after rejecting ur proposal to maintain a relation as a friend then she is lying,(as it is impossible for a girl to say a person like u,that she doesnt needs u.)\n\n\nif u will not forget her now then in future ur pain will increase.just forget her and try 2 make some more friends who really needs u.\n\n\nSORRY AGAIN,\nG O O D L U C K 4 U R F U T U R E.
316833
Ask her out. If she's not into you in that sort of way, maybe wait for a while and try again. Love can build up in friendships easily.
41131
This is a very sad situation.  It's hard to know what to do.  I guess the best you can do is to show your friend that you care about her.  This can be done in a number of ways, such as those suggested by the previous answerers, or just by hugging her, telling her you love her, and doing nice things for her.  I'm sure you'll figure out a way.
1012448
If she ain't your friend she can't be your girlfriend. Quit worrying about "what you think your missing" and try to develop good friendships with these girls... listen and learn. Everything takes time. \n\nGood Luck.
671395
Be a loving friend. You can't make someone love you, but you can make yourself more loveable.
133208
be a respectful man, and leave her alone if you will fall in love with her, if it is just friendship then take care of your and her feelings
999752
It is always okay to be firends with the one that u love, because eventually she will come back around and see that she does care for you.  U will be more than friends eventually u just have to give her time to find herself.\n\n\nGOD bless you.
349582
you can do nuthing if a girl has given her heart to someone else but wait for her to change her decision on her own. in teh mean time what you could do is to be nice to her, be a good friend and in your own way take care of her not infringing upon her space or privacy. be true to her, and for god's sake dont build up things to break her away from teh guy she loves or matter may get worse. be a good person that i believe you are, and all shall be good. even then if she does'nt turn around to you, trust me, someone far better than her is awaiting you in her life.\n\nP.S. just look around yourself and see to it that you are not treating someone as you are being treated by this girl?
982640
IDK, tell her u have other friends that you wanna hang out with, tell her she's NOT ur only friend. tell her how u really feel.
676158
I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
663811
I'm sorry that happen and I can tell u really feel this young lady. And I guess the upside is your still friends. But the reason u feel this way is because ur feelings were true and when u have deep feelings for someone it's hard to let go, she may only love u as a friend because of it was more you'd still be her boyfriend. But if u look at it from another point like the fact that she has a boyfriend and she's still telling you that she loves u, waht does that say about her? I'm sure her boyfriend doesn't know his girlfriend is telling her ec she still loves him.\n\nI have been dump( and I know it's not about me) but I know that it hurts, but I also know that it's no good to hurt too long over someone who dumps or end the relationship and they can move on so easily while the other mate is still hurting. She moved on to the next guy( it may not last) so it's time u move on too. U can continute to be a her friend but don't expect her to come back( even  if she does) be strong and just stay friends with her, because she hurt u once she could repeat it then you'll really feel bad. Move on to a girl who will love and care enough for u not to leave you  or hurt you, once u get out there and find the next girl who's waiting to meet u she will keep u so happy  you'll forget about your ex.. So get out there and meet someone else and get rid of anything that reminds u of her so u won't  stay idle on her.\n\nGood Luck
662321
I fetl your question quite confusing, but here is my understanding of your problem,"you no more want to be a friend to be her because you love her , i mean you want to be her lover" \n\nFirst thing you have to remember is whenever a beloved ones lies to you, try to be as +ve as possible, think that she/he lied because there is some strong reason, even if there is no strong reason thinking +ve will help you a lot increase your confidence on her and infact it even may change her mind and she might stop lieing to you. When you need something particulary the one who you love you need to have patience.\n\nSecond is tell her what is ur feeling for her, it should never happen that because of gap of communication you miss her or something goes wrong, try to be as open as possible as her.Let her also know what do you feel and let her also feel the same pain you are feeling,you have to mould the mud only when it is wet, you cant shape it after it becomes dry.
601404
You cannot force her to love you. Move on, find someone else who will love you too.
518599
Be her friend. That's the best advice I can give you. It's ok to let her know you are interested in more.. in a low key way, because sometimes to put it all on the line can affect the friendship.If she knows already that your feelings run deeper, then just keep on  being there for her and being her friend.. If it's meant to  be more, it will be. If it isn't, then at least you have your friendship, and that's worth ALOT.
418722
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.