whatsay to my love that he stay?
116651
i think that no words will do such thing i think dides will do so (try to show him more love and treet him as if he is a young baby and u r his mother)\nthis will do so
333479
Visit a local church.  You don't want to find him in a bar.  You want someone faithful and truly loving.
645044
be brutially honest with him.better to break his heart than to make yourself miserable by staying with him.
1070224
what he/she should do is to start to let others know about his feelings for them... coz it might be too late for him/her. He/she might lose someone who could love him eternally
1071660
You should love someone the best you can. Be faithful, support them...read 1Corinthians 13...it explains the love that we should strive for.\n\nI fell in love, and am still falling. I will love him for the rest of my life. Love is a choice, and I choose to love him everyday.
566423
no harm \nkeep loving him and marry him.\ncheers
170890
he kind of told you you'd be together? Baby no it  isn't worth it to hold on to a kind of promise. Live your life the way you want to like if he wasn't in it chances are he won't be in it much longer if he can only make kind of promises.
24449
My advice to you is MOVE ON! Because if he didn't stop you before you closed the door he meant every word he said. You can't keep a man that don't want to be kept. It's always hard to love someone who can't love you back, but life goes on. Yes you will hurt, you're probably cry everyday but in due time you will heal and will be able to find your soul mate. Never settle for anything, always believe that TOMMOROW IS ANOTHER DAY! Let go and Let God!
643675
Stay with him.  Give him  some time, if in 6 months, you still feel this way, then leave him.
282600
Hold the bus!!  "love him for who he is" sounds like a nice, feel good statement, but let's anylize what that is really saying.  It is saying to forget God's command not to be unequally yoked, that denouncing Jesus as the Son of God is ok, and that "human love" can overcome God's knowledge of what is best for us!!  \n\nAbout marrying someone who isn't Christian: you are not going to have an easy road.  What church are you going to go to?  Is your husband going to want to tithe to a Christian church?  What are you going to teach your kids?  Who is right, Mom or Dad?  Are you going to teach them that any religion is ok- and then they are going to read that Jesus is the ONLY way to Heaven???  How are you going to explain that?  \n\nYou are choosing to become one flesh with a man that has not asked Jesus to pay for his sins.  There are consequences for that- like not spending eternity with God.  Since God is also Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and this man has said no to Jesus, then God isn't going to make him sing praises to Himself for eternity, and this man will go to Hell.  You will be sleeping with a man that you know is going to Hell.  That might not sit well with you.  \n\nGod has a specific plan for you.  This guy might be a part of this plan- just not until he surrenders his life to Christ.  I know how it is to be in love here on earth.  It is probably not easy to hear that this man isn't your Mr. Forever right now.  What can you do??  Talk very openly with this man about your convictions.  Chat with God daily about your feelings- He understands!!!  He just might have a plan that is bigger than you can see right now.  Ask God to start convivting this man and opening his eyes to the love of Christ.  You can give reasons for why the Bible is the ultimate authority if your boyfriend asks, but living a Christlike lifestyle is the biggest way to show others that you have let the Holy Spirit run your life.  Have a daily quiet time reading your Bible and praying with God.  I can see how this is possibly one of the biggest temptations you will face- should you marry the man that you love right now, or should you follow God's command even if you don't understand it right now???  I have already been praying for you.
631268
if u love him then tell him so\nand he still loves u \nthen he'll come back\nbut if he has stopped loving you\nbecause you rejected him \nthen its just fate\n\nbut try telling him first\nas there's always still a chance that\nthere's a lingering feeling of love for u
943716
Way to go girl, well done.  I knew he loved you!  I hope you can both come to a compromise.  Nothing should really stand in the way of true love.
585515
IF U KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT U TRULY LOVE HIM,THEN U MUST FIND HIM....AND EXPLAIN!IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT..U HAVE NOT LOST NOTHING....BUT IF U FEEL THIS WAY AND NEVER DO NOTHING ABOUT,U WILL WONDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,IF THERE WAS REALLY SOMETHING THERE,AND THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE!ATLEAST THIS WAY,U DONE ALL U COULD! GOOD LUCK!
1025939
Just be patient, and show him your different that your always there and won't break his heart. Or follow your heart age doesn't matter love is.
468919
Try to spend more time with him and show him a side of you that no one else can see...\n\nbut as someone already mentioned, you can't force anyone to love you. all you can do is be your best and wait.\n\nbest wishes! =]
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
947971
Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.