my friend (guy -friend) is 5'11 and 200 pounds.. how bad is that?
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ya it all depends on whether it's muscles or fat. I am Five-Ten, 190lbs and I am in pretty good shape. And there are some light heavy weight boxers/mixed martial artists/Pro wrestlers on TV that's about that tall and even heavier but looks good.
709885
Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
930470
First off how good of shape is your boy friend? Because I can tell you from experience that I recently gained and lost 20 lbs. I was just on a fast food things and drinking lots of beer, and I started to notice that my penis was not performing well anymore. It would get hard and then it would just go limp with out me being able to control it. Well fast forward a month and a half later I have lost the 20 pounds my abs are looking great and now that more blood gets pushed down there via my stomach muscles, I stay hard all the way through. \n\nTell him to start working out his stomach\nkegal exercises are must.\nThis will help his problem.
778410
DUMP HIM!! a boyfriend that tells you things like that is a terrible one. you are not fat, especially if you hardly weigh 100 lbs. i think that be comfortable in your own skin, despite what other people think, especially if they say things just to bring you down. your boyfriend doesnt sound like a good one, im sorry that you have to hear that from him. a good boyfriend would incourage you to be yourself, despite your weight! leave him and get one that accepts you for being you. and no, i think that you are incredibly thin. think of it this way, your are 5 feet 3 inches, and you hardly weigh over 100 lbs, most fifth graders weigh over 120 lbs. so yes you are thin and deserve better then your cureent boyfriend!\n\n\nhoped i helped!
996779
I totally understand where you're coming from. I am not at all attracted to short men. I like my men tall. My b/f is 6'6" but he's not the greatest of boyfriends. However, if your boyfriend is a great guy, then don't dump him for superficial reasons. You did say boyfriend, not some nice guy that's interested in you. There is a reason you made him your boyfriend, think back to reasons and consider is it really worth losing a great guy because he's lacking a few inches. Looks come and go, but great chemistry is something that will make a relationship work. Hope this helps some.
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no. tell him to back off. he is obsessed with you and he needs to stop. tell him to leave you alone. if he doesn't, tell authorities. then if he doesn't, get a restraining order against him. \nWho cares how much you weigh? whoop de do- you're 135. i'm 142 and 5'7". who gives a crap??? why is being 95 lbs. so damn special??? she's just a stick- most likely anorexic or bulimic. i feel sorry for her... and if he likes you- he wont like your stupid friend if she's a cheater. just tell him to leave you alone and quit worrying about your weight. trust me, most guys with any brains at all dont give a shit about how much you weigh.
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WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT IT......16 YRS...5"7....HOW FAT ARE U????????????????\nAM I RUDE?????I AM,I CAN'T HELP IT....I AM 20 YRS...AND JUST 5 FOOT TALL.....MY BRO CALLS ME DER FOOT...THAT IDIOT IS YOUNGER TO ME ,YET 6"....."I AM JEALOUS OF ALL TALL PEOPLE ON EARTH"I HATE THEM,.......
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Answer to Question (1) \n5' 11'' --> appropriate height for a guy\n230lbs --> all steel muscles or just plain flab? work out a sweat yah, and you'll look nicely toned even if that heavy, but you don't have to be like Arnold Swarchnegger (damn, I can never spell his name right!)\n\nAnswer to Question (2)\nApart from a guy's facial features, I do tend to stare at a nicely rounded pair of 'cheeks'. \nSo shake those bon-bons baby!
579810
Too many people put emphasis on height and size. The only thing that size matters in is the amount of love two people have for each other. Body height doesn't mean anything, as long as the love is there. As the old saying goes, you don't have to stand tall, but you DO have to stand up! Stand up for what YOU want, what YOU feel, and what is important to YOU. Don't let the opinions and jealousy of others control you, or sway your decisions on how or what to do. You said you are single, and he is as well right? Then that is all that matters, if you have feelings for him. Go out, have a good time, and if all else fails, you will have had fun with somebody that you can call a friend!! Good luck, and have fun!!
916910
Yes it's more than OK. My girlfriend is about your height and I love her to bits.  I think it's very hot when someone is short and has a huge or strong personality.  It's the contrast that makes it so sexy. Be proud of your height.  If you don't mind it no one ells will!
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He is actually 5'10.  Check my source.
1141920
Tha is normal,you are not alone some of my friends and me are dishonest when it comes to heights and weights!Good for you,you hit your lies and now it is justified by your real weight!
595418
Being fat isn't about body WEIGHT...its more about the percentage of fat you have.  Back when I was fresh out of Marine Corps bootcamp I weighed in at 225 pounds and I'm 5'10" - not muscular, but tight.  I worked with a guy named Jeff who was also 5'10" and he weighed 225 pounds as well.  To see us standing side by side you would never guess we were the same weight because he had no muscle mass or definition, so he looked like a tub of crap compared to me. (Sorry if you are reading this Jeff).\n\nJust remember, 10 pounds of fat takes up the same volume of space as 20 pounds of muscle.\n\nSo if you can grab rolls of fat on your body then you are probably fat. If you can't, then you are probably well built.  Don't focus so much on the number your scale spits out.  Look in a mirror and be honest with yourself.
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i think he's a bit like me. if he is, he probably said that to hide the fact that maybe he likes you/thinks you're cute.\n\nif you know you dont weigh or look 200, dont worry about it.
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When I married my husband he only weighed 140 lbs. He is 6'1''. He was way too skinny, but I loved him anyway. \nWe have been married for almost 8 years now. He is 29 years old. Now that his metabolism has slowed down a bit, he has started to gain weight. He is a whopping 180 lbs now. He looks great. He has filled out and looks like a grown up instead of a teenager. He wouldn't have had to chase me quite so hard had he looked like that back then!  But now he has to make sure he doesn't sit on his butt too much because the love handles have threatened to show up.\nExercising is always a good idea. It doesn't matter if you are thin or not, being toned makes a big difference. Just don't expect to get big biceps and wash board abs over night. You'll only be disappointed. Eat right too. It really does help. I once knew a guy who wanted to gain weight so bad that he ate a jar of peanut butter and drank a gallon of milk a day plus his regular 3 big meals and a snack. It worked, but he felt wiped out all the time and didn't have the energy to do anything. \nWhat ever you do...do it right.
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My daughter is hot, 4'11'', 110 lbs. My sister is gorgeous, 4'11'', 115 lbs. When I was 12, I weighed 120lbs and I was 5'2'' ...... I was a bit overweight. I think the real problem with your friend's daughter is that she is female. There are very few 11 yr old females in the USA who do not think they are overweight.
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5'5" and I average between 125-130. I think I am a good weight. I have curves which I love. I actually don't think I can get down any lower. I have tried, but can't. And I do think that I am fat a lot of the time. When I lived in NYC I was a moose compared to some of the girls who lived there who were 'trying to be stars' I kept on telling myself that guys find me sexy at my weight and to stop comparing myself to other girls. I don't think guys like girls who are bone thin anyway.\nIt's hard not to compare yourself though. I agree.