Is it better to let things out and resolve the problem or pretend it never happend?
107075
it all depends on what the conflict was about.If it is something that realy bothers you then the best thing is to resolve it.If she is a good friend to you then she will be willing to resolve.But the best thing i can say is put in gods hands
375909
If you let time go by i blieve it does make things better. The only way it wont work is if you dwell on the problem.
114846
As with my boyfriend and I ...we like to keep the past in the past. There's no use in bringing up something that might make your partner mad/upset unless they ask about it or it is a serious issue that would concern them needing to know. For example: STD's, crimes...so forth.
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
764406
Stop thinking just about what you should have done or what should have happened and accept what has happened...everything has a meaning behind it. Use experiences to learn from. Basically you just need to see what you have done and accept it and just know that there is no other way it goes or will go. The past has happened and that is the way it will be.
742758
Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
406762
It doesn't matter how u tell him....as long as u tell him. Whether he's down wit' it or not you'll feel better that u let him know. It's better to try & fail than not to try at all. If u never let him know, not only will it never have a chance to go anywhere...but u may regret missing the opportunity.  Give it a chance.
821266
i am a huge fan of this theory.  just like the old saying "if you love something let it go.  if it never comes back it wasn't meant to be but if it does come back, love it forever".  go with your first instinct.  it's usually the correct course in action.
459753
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
253157
Yes, or you would've never had closure! You would have been miserable, and wondered, and wondered,... what could have been if you could have just told her. Now, you both know and its up to her do something about it. Good Luck! God Bless You!
129670
You had him for five years and now want to know if to get mad or not? Interesting. I think if it's really affecting you that the best thing to do is mention it to him and talk it out.  Getting mad wont solve the problem and staying passive when it's bugging you wont solve it either.
860370
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811759
We're all human, & stress & frustation can make you have periods of being a bit nasty. Letting it out maybe the healthiest thing in fact. Holding it in can be the wrong move. I don't mean it is okay to be abusive, physically or mentally. Still once in while it will come out verbally, & knowing enough to apologize for the slipup caan make the difference. Most people recognize human reaction when they see it & most often will forgive if you make amends.
1171123
Seriously, how do you think things will be fixed unless you TALK? That could be exactly the thing that's keeping you apart. Go ahead and say what's supposed to be said. If you don't do this you'll always look back and wonder how things would've worked out if you had spoken to each other. Go ahead and do it.\nGood luck! :)
984472
Just be honest and tell the truth, thats the only sure way to sort out your problem.
995789
i would try to reconcile but under your conditions. if you dont want to go to family get togethers and such then dont. explain that too them, if they cant accept it then at least you tried.
1095954
Make sure you are totally honest about everything that happened, above all, even if you were in the wrong.  Hopefully he will be understanding enough to get beyond the issue.  Make sure to keep all future communication between you him open and honest as well.