how do you know that ur boy friend really loves u?
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You cannot know for certain that he loves you but after all there is nothing in life you can be certain about so you just have to settle with trying to find out if he does trully care for you and if he wants to spent his whole life time with you.If he's by your side when u feel bad and he's there to wipe your tears,if he holds your hand,looks into your eyes and then..then you know he loves you...It's not a matter of saying he foes...it's about the bonds between you,the feeling and the emotions that never lie.
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
459521
I think you answered that one yourself.. If you think he is really the greatest boyfriend, he has obviously given you a reason to think so. Like the gURL said.. if you want to know.. ask him.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
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Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
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He can tell you he loves you when his friends are around.  He offers you the last bite of his favorite dish.  He calls you in the middle of the day for no apparent reason.  He laughs with you and not at you, for real.  He wants you in his bed, just to hold.  He accepts you for who you are.  He loves your imperfections.  He wants the best for you.  He makes it his job to make sure you are happy.  He holds your hand in public.  He holds your purse while you try on bathing suits.  He thinks you are perfect...just the way you are.
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A boy who likes you will do everything for you.\nHe will love your family, your favourite things,your favourite songs and books,even your pets..\n\nHe will wear the way you like..\nHe won t care about other people s what they are saying..\nHe loves you and is self-confident..He admires you and buy things that makes you crazy...\n\nHe never gets angry but he will be green envy with your friends...\n\nI hope I could help
144251
you know if your heart speaks to you.\nA man that really loves you would do anything for you, he will love you unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances were/are. He is a man that is honest, and makes you happy. Let your heart speak to you. Learn to Listen to your heart.
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Only you can determine that.  Does he take you out, call you often?  Does he remember days that are special to you? Does he compliment you? Does he give you lots of attention?  You can tell how he feels about you by how he treats you.  Pay attention.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
1163853
He likes you or even loves u
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little things can show it...like if a day pass by and u didn't call, he'll call and say i love u...want to be with you most of the time..hold your hand..such stuff. And when you need he's always there like a best Friend and a boyfriend at the same time..
692062
If your boyfriend really loves you, he should understand.  Don't let him possess you and dictate who your friends can be.
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When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
557242
if u love him really deep in ur heart u will know
866600
Wait until you really feel it and know for a fact that you love him.