how do I get my fiance' back?
100867
Ouch. Kudos to you on doing what you said you would, but for her it might be too little, too late. She needs to know that you will do what you say even when she isnt threatening you. Is there anything else about you that you know bugs her? Make an effort to change that too. She feels like you dont care enough about her to change, but you are doing the best you can now.\nLevel with her, tell her that you didnt change before but that now that you know how life is without her that you want to be just the man she needs.
900910
just tell her you made a mistake, apologize, and ask if she can come back. What's the worst that could happen.\n\ngood luck
364858
How sad!  But the decision is yours.  EVERYONE deserves a second chance, it's the third chance you have to watch out for.  And perhaps you can take this opportunity, while you can't really see each other, to talk a lot about who you both really are and where you see yourselves going.  Then go, if you want - your life is your decision, and people make mistakes.  I cheated once, and learned my lesson - I understood why I did it, and asked for forgiveness.  I have never done it again.  I know your family is worried, but you have to be honest with yourself - can you forget it and continue to love your fiancee?  If you can, then you have the right to be happy, and to be comfortable and safe.  Screw the rest of 'em.
559759
Ummmm #1 your fiance is unstable.... I advise recommending a counselor.... #2 your relationship might be slipping because you have forgotten why you love each other. #3 If you LOVE someone else than you can't marry your fiance.\n\nI know from experience, my sons dad left me a month before our wedding for his best friends ex. It was the best thing we ever did.. He's happily married, my son has a great step mom whom I can trust his safety with, and I know my sons happy. \n\nMy heart hurt for a while but I knew trying to make something work when it wasn't going to would have just made the situation worse in the end.
11123
If you want to get over your ex-fiance, you need to take affirmative action that will gradually take him out of your mind and allow you to start your life again. I recommend the following:\n\n1. Spend more time hanging out with your friends and less time alone. Friends, as well as family can be a great support when you are in pain.\n2. Get more deeply involved in your hobbies and interests.\n3. If your ex-fiance gave you an engagement ring, you do not need that reminder.....give it or throw it away. And do the same with any gifts he gave to you.\n4. Destroy or throw out any pictures you have of the two of you together.\n5. When you feel ready, start to date again.\n\nIn a nutshell, you need to start to purge your ex-fiance from your mind. It will be hard at first but, little by little, you will think about him less and less. Eventually, he will be a distant memory and you can have your own life back again.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
632593
Confront him and Break your engagement, his not worth it, you deserve better. Dont let him sweet talk you, he did it once, he'll probably try again if you give him a second chance
570699
try to help him with his papers and dont worry im in the same situation im dating my fiance and he also doesnt have any papers but im still going to marry him because i love him adn i would do anything to get him back if he got deported wouldnt you??????????????????/////
856248
Okay I no it is hard to do but you need to listen to me. I am going through the same thing so we can help each other... I just broke up with my girl and we where to be married in may,. Here is what you do it gets easy as the weeks go by. DO NOT TALK TO HIM AT ALL. no phone calls No text if he stops by do not answer the door let him know that he made a mistake but he gets to live with it the rest of his life you are the winner there are some many other guys that want to have someone that is honest loyal trusting and ready to really build a relationship. Your EX is trying to and is doing just what he wants CONTROL you and he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Do you want to share him with another women if you are saying No then move on he is a cheater . I have stop talking to mine and she is still trying and she wants to get married in may No talking. Let me know how this works for you I am here.....
104377
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
1166650
Girl I am so sorry and I completly understand what you are going through. I recently broke up with my FIANCE and it has been so hard not see or talking to him.  I am trying to focus more on improving myself like going to the gym and I am going to get some certifications in my job.  Basically I am tring to improve myself FOR MYSELF.  I suggest you do the same maybe join some clubs in your area to meet new people.  anyway, email me if you need someone to talk to.
542783
2 years?  Whoa.  Well, first make sure that you've done everything you can to get him back, otherwise you'll always wonder if there was something you could have done.  If he means that much to you, then nothing will stop you from getting him back.  But if it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be, and you can honestly say you tried your best.   But you HAVE to move on!  There are so many other people out there, and you have to believe that there will be someone else as good as or even better than this guy.
181428
Only HE can decide if he wants to get back together.  You cant MAKE him.  And if you do, it could be worse.  He needs to make the decision of WANTING to be with you.  If he is unable to forgive you for whatever you did. DO NOT force the issue.  Try very hard to move on.
224669
You can look for his phone or ask the government's help to find your husband's phone number, you can call him to come back and if he says no, you can tell him that you see him in the court. You can find a lawyer, tell him/her your problem and later on the court, you just have to tell the story again. Or another quicker way is that you can seek government's help. If you really can't reach him, the only thing that you can do is to really sit and wait for him.