my daughter des not want to be potty trained who can help me?
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she isn't ready. to make her would be a bad idea    have patience    she will do it in her own time when she is ready. also depends on how old she is  over 3 is to old to not be trained.
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http://www.autismtoilettraining.com \nI have not looked at the site myself, but it came up on an ad for something else I was looking at, hopefully it will help! I had my autistic son completely out of diapers by the time he was 27 months old, but your situation is more normal with autism. It just happened that Tim was oversensitive to sensory input, so he HATED wearing wet underwear. I don't know how much of this will apply to you, but I'll tell you what I did anyway. Everyone on here that said to be really consistent with a reward system is right on target, that's about the only way to get through an autistic brain, and the sillier you are, the better! Find a treat that he really likes and by a bag, and only use it for potty training, no other time. Skittles was what we used. He got three skittles for sitting on the toilet and I spaced them out so that he was sitting for about five minutes. NO pullups or diapers during the day at home, only underwear, and I ran water in the sink while he was sitting. If he actually did something, he got another skittle, and we made a huge deal out of it! Then, he got one sticker put on a chart for sitting and one for going. If he doesn't go,then he still gets SOMETHING just for cooperating with you. I took him as soon as he woke up and every hour after that, and I asked him all through the day if he had to go. That's all you can really do, unless the link I sent you to has other ideas. Hope this helps! I do my own therapy with him, he's never seen a professional, and he is doing WONDERFULLY. I will be homeschooling him, and we're officially starting pre-school next month. We spent last year just working out behavior problems so that we could focus on academics this year. Contact me if you just need to vent!
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No problem,she just needs deodorant,try secret or teen spirit.My 13 year old had that problem,I remember thinking "She's not supposed to be stinky at 7."But yes, deodorant is the solution.
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It’s time to start potty training when your child starts hiding and coming back with a dirty dipper. Also if you can ask you child if he/she is wet and they respond, it’s time. Some people start sooner but for your convenience no later then three, by four they should pretty close to potty pros.
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Maybe your daughter just didn't feel comfortable bathing in your home because it is a new situation to her. I'm not sure if you mean she showed up at your home smelling and that's why your concerned or it's just that she didn't bathe while she was there. It's also hard to say because I don't know what her living situation is right now does she live on her own or with a family. If you feel you must talk to her about it I would do it gently and let her know that she should feel comfortable in your home and take full advantage of the things you have there. Let her know if she's got washing to do to bring it with her and use your washing machine and dryer. Please don't tell her she smells or that you think she is a bad influence on your children she may take it the wrong way and not come to visit anymore.
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OK dose she wear diapers all the time or is this the first time she has ever put a diaper on to use it. I know by what you said that its the first time you have ever caught her in a diaper. Have you tryed talking to her about this and asking why she was doin this. It can be a range of thing from depression to ocd to a fetish or it can be that she has psychology infantilism. or she is having some kind of sideaffect from a drug. If its a fetish here are some things to look for.1 did she seem like she was in a real good mood when you seen her in that wet and messy diaper. 2 dose she usely go to the bathroom and not in a diaper 3 did she say i just wanted to see what it would feel like to pee and poop my diaper. If she did any of these then its more than likely a FETISH. If not she should be seen by a mental health Dr. If you would like to know more about this feel free to e-mail me and we can talk about this and maybe i can help you to understand what she it doin
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My daughter is six also and she is really trying to push buttons she seems manipulative and has fits when she dont get her way dont stop unless she gets her way. which i just leave the room. very sassy and think she should not have to do anything and i have no solutions because i have a hard time with her right now.
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Depends on how old she is.\n\nIf she is school aged, you need to talk to the doc. Sometimes there is a medical problem for it.  Sometimes it is has to due with their sleep patterns.  Sometimes it is a result of emotional or physical abuse by someone.\n\nIf she is is younger than school aged, it can be pretty normal.\n\nWhat I would do is set a cut off time for drinking, in our house until they can go through the night without wetting ... we stopped allowing drinks after 6pm.  This gave plenty time for them to empty their bladder completely before bed time.  No drinks at bed time.\n\nPlastic mattress protectors under her sheets will save you a lot of hassle.  Depending on her age, you can have her clean up her mess.  Make her take the sheets off, but them in the wash, clean off the matress, etc.\n\nIf she is a toddler, you can try putting a training potty in her bedroom with a night light next to it.  Maybe she gets disoriented and can't find her way to the bathroom or gets scared.
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i dont know why but he needs to learn to use the potty
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they will go when there ready. if they pee in there pull-ups and take them off as soon as they do it. put them in big kid under wear and if the pee there self make them wear them for like 15 mins. i did that with my daughter. i got a trash bag set it on the floor and made her set there. she never did it again. but they will go when there ready and dont force him!. my son just started to go like 2 months maybe 3 months ago and he will be 4 in sept. let them go on there own!
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Boys usally take longer to potty-train than girls.  My brother is 8 and still wets the bed at night, but I was completely trained by 2.  What really helped my brother for the daytime was a combination of rewards and reminders.  Give him a reward (something small like a sticker or a spoonful of honey should be fine) and rimind him a lot to "check and see."  Good luck.
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You know even though your son's level is 28 months he may just not be ready. some children with special needs have what is called splinter skills...meaning maybe your son is 28 months functioning level in some areas, but not in others. I work with a seven year old disabled little girl and we have been training the same way and the same amount of time you have...and nothing here either. Sometimes she just happens to go and we cheer and clap and stuff but sometimes I seriously doubt if she really knows why we are cheering for her and I think she mostly just likes the fact that we are paying positive attention to her. However her therapists and teachers all agree that it doesn't hurt to toilet her on a regular schedule at all times because hopefully sooner or later she will start to comprehend what is going on. We also use pecs, and switches that say stuff like "bathroom please" that we have her press everytime we take her to the bathroom. We also read Elmo uses the potty everytime we go to the bathroom with her. Good Luck!
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Just take care of her for awhile and make your daughter go to parenting classes. When she is ready, let her take care of her. You shouldn't ruin your dreams for your daughters mistakes, but at the same time, your grand baby will be a better person if you help her out. And she will definitely thank you later.
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show her you are mature by cleaning the house, not whinning when she tells you NO. help her out and dont fight with your siblings(if you have any). dont talk back.
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As far as the medicine goes, I would just let her drink a lot of juice, that usually loosens the stools.  Praise her for going potty in the toilet.  Make up a chart with a pic of a potty with like 5 boxes next to it.  When ever she goes potty in the toilet let her put a sticker in 1 of the boxes.  And when she gets all 5 boxes filled, let her pick out a prize.  You can buy dollar store prizes and put them in a box so she can see what she is 'working' for, or you can take her to the park or get icecream.  Whenever she doesn't use the toilet, put an 'x' thru 1 of her stickers and remind her what a big girl she will be when she goes potty and let her know when ever she gets a sticker she only needs __ more to get a prize!!  That should keep her motivated and focus on the positive outcome of being a 'big' girl.
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My grandson started pre-school 1 month before his 3rd birthday. He was not toilet trained, despite intensive efforts at home.\n When he saw the other boys all running in to use the toilet, he finally decided that was for him too!!\n I wouldn't worry too much if he has no other learning difficulties. Perhaps get him off to pre-school!!!
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If she starts complaining she is wet or dirty or tells you she has to go or went.\n\nYou can ask her if she wants to use the potty and if she says yes, try it, but she is way to young.  \n\nIf you wake her in the morning before she pees, put her on the potty, is she pees there, make a big deal about her being a big girl, if she doesn't oh well.\n\nDon't push her.