Update about my g/f at the dance?
103907
Yes you got upset over nothing. She must be pretty and if you are gonna date her then you have to accept that other men will be looking at her when you two are together. As long as the guy doesn't say anything disrespectful then don't worry about it.
533383
ok --- how's this ---> when your gu=irl starts acting wierd\n 1. hold her\n 2. tell her that you love her\n 3. make her feel special\n 4. never stop treating her like she is wonderful to you !\n 5. take her out dancing\n 6. bring her a rose , for no reason at all\n 7. always get as hard , and last as long as you did when you met---> we give as much as we get in bed--> so fuc-\nthe sh-t up--->please!!\n 8. actually listen to what she has to say , because her thoughts are actually important to you\n 9. if you decide to cheat -- it's over so, don't bother coming home! You should have just broken up with her before you went out whoring --> she would have alot more respect for you , if you would have.....But , if you really love her--> just be faithful\n  Now , you will be up for a hell of a wonderful relationship , if you follow these simple what to do rules\n  Atleast doing one of these things , will be the key--> to all of her insanity.. DO 1 by 1 to figure out which 1 will fix her problems , so you can both continue being happy!!!
74886
FINALLY MASTER P AND HIS PROFESSIONAL DANCER, \nIT WAS LONG OVER DUE!!\n\nI don't care what she says I felt sorry she got stuck with someone who really didn't care about trying to dance.
507487
yea...she's goin out w/ Jay Z...\n i doubt u stand a chance...but hey! nvr hurts to ask rite?
823018
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
279250
will you mail me courtney ....  b'coz the first time i saw a gal that crazy about dancing.... i wish have a move with you \ndo mail me plz\n\nsilicon16@gmail.com
448823
Whats not worth the pain? Let me see, I am guessing she has issues with men. Well wouldn't you! Whatever stories she has told you if any about what she went through when dancing isn't even half of what she really has been through. I don't know why she was a dancer but I will tell you it was a choice she DID NOT make in good concience. My guess is she needed the money and felt she had no other options. Im just glad to hear she is no longer in that hell of an industry. You have to understand she has probably NEVER been truly treated like a real human with real feelings. Again I don't know what her childhood was like but I have never known a dancer that had a GREAT one. So, I would like to think that you are the ONLY one she knows that has ever treated her like a lady and therefore she has put all she has left into you! If you have been with this woman for 2 years then you have feelings for her. If you really love her then what could not be worth the pain. She is going through a lengthy healing process, trust me, and she is going through allot more pain than you will ever comprehend. She needs you to be strong for her and hold her head in your hands when she needs to cry. She needs you to treat her and remind her how wonderful she is and that nomatter what she has done or how she has been treated in the past does NOT make-up who she is today or what her worth in this world is! She needs to know that if she needs to tell her stories to someone and your not strong enough to hear them (which is totally understandable) then you will find someone (professional) that she can talk to. She needs to know that if she doesn't want to talk at all and just needs to be alone or cry that your will let her be alone (while you are just one room away) and that you will hold her with no questions when she cries. So, I gues to answer your question, HELL NO you should not leave your EX stripper gf. You should show her that while every man she has ever known has seen her as an item for sell and to be used, YOU DO NOT see her that was and you see her for the heart inside her. The only reason I am so passionate about this is I am that ex dancer and my man has been put through it trying to be there for me, but you know what, he is STILL there for me and he is the only man I will EVER love for as long as I live. He is my best friend, my ultimate lover, my biggest fan, and my solid ROCK! I know it sucks to be on your side of it, but if you love this person, you have the strength to be her rock. The pay-off is worth it, trust me. Find something that you two can have that lets you know when she is having a hard time (dealing with some emotional baggage) so that you can be there for her. If my man can see me getting pissy or if he walks in and Im in tears for no reason he will ask if I need my hair brushed. This is our code for me needing him but not being able to tell him I need him. (It is so hard to reach out to someone when you barely trust anyone) So, he will sit behind me and brush my hair while I cry and he will rub my shoulders and kiss my neck and tell me how he loves me and he is sorry for anything I had to be put through and how he will NEVER let that happen to me again. Look, it doesn't matter who you date, EVERYONE comes with baggage! Some more severe than others but we all have baggage! If you love this girl, be her hero and she will worship you for life! Good luck!
928121
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick.  She's clearly using you, and you're letting her.  I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other.  Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you.  I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave.  Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
1170371
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
438924
Why don't you two try and rekindle the passion by going out one night. Get all dressed up, looking hot....GGo out dancing, see what happens...Maybe its not boredom at all, maybe its something else. Talk to him too!
677881
I think she is really enjoying your flirtations (is that a word?) I would keep it up and just try to spend more time with her. If she continues to respond positively, then she probably wants more. Just enjoy it! Don't stress it, it takes the fun out of it. :)
723103
Girlfriend, you are a doll.  If he's not interested he's nuts.  Try getting around him and being avaible for him to start up a conversation with, smile at him, look at his and when he looks at you, look embrassed and look away.  If you are pressed for time, just ask him who's he going to the dance with, that should more than enuff start the conversation, give him the chance to ask you who you are going with, and maybe yall hook up.  Good Luck.
636463
Adriana has given you excellent advice.  I agree.  Try talking to her in person.  You might bring her a rose on that meeting and tell her that you would be honored if she would be your date for the prom.  That should wow her.  Then talk to her about the fact that you believed she had a boyfriend.  Good luck!  (maybe you could let us all know if she accepted!)
410231
Awwwwww. That sounds so0o0o0o cute! I'ma little jealous of your gf now. (pouts)
938407
Really hard to say. A lot depends on what's up with his girlfriend. Was she at the Dance? Did they break up? Did they show up with separate dates? Did they Dance together? it really depends on all that. You probably missed a great opportunity, you should have asked him for a dance that nite.  You should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and go from there.
582003
She was a hot looking blonde who had once worked as a stripper and had just won a wet t-shirt contest.  We met in-person and talked for awhile.  We ended up going to see a movie and later hit a bar.  A few drinks later and I managed to steal a few kisses.\n\nI dropped her off at her doorstep and went home.  Before I left, she said that she would call me later that night.\n\nBy 3am, she hadn't called.  Thinking that I totally misread her, I chalked it up as a fun night, but nothing special.\n\nAbout a half hour later, she called me.  Her voice was all slurred.  She tells me that she got into a fight with her roommate shortly after I left.  She then asks what should a friend do who has overdosed on Xanax.  I asked her if it was her.  She denied it.  I asked if it was her roommate.  She denied it.  I asked again if she overdosed, and she said yes.  \n\nI had her put her roommate on and said that she needed to go to the nearest ER.  The roommate balked at first, but  I insisted.  I met them there to make sure she was okay.  \n\nShe ended up okay without any permanent damage.  She was transferred to a psych facility for a few days to make sure that she was okay mentally.  While there, she couldn't remember my phone number, but she did remember where I said I worked.  She ended up calling me at work several times.  Very awkward.  I finally managed to convince her that the time wasn't right to date each other.\n\nI saw her again about six months later.  She was engaged and pulled the same stunt again with her fiance.\n\nThat was my worst experience.
976698
If you're not sure if they already have a date, you could say "Are you going to the dance?" If they don't mention they have a date, then you ask if they'd like to go with you.\n\nMuster up that courage & ask. I'm still reminded of a Sadie Hawkins dance I failed to ask the boy I wanted to be my date. Who knows what may have happened. Good luck!