how do u deal with mens mood swings?
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Hey girl I had one of those mood swing men. I let hit the door.
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MY CHILD FATHER IS A ONE OF THOSE SLOW MOVERS AFTER HE GOT ME AND MOOD SWINGS ARE AWFUL. YOUR SITUATION LOOKS LIKE U NEED TO MOVE ON BUSY OR NOT HE COULD SET A TIME TO CONVERSATE WITH YOU EVEN IF YOU DONT SEE EACH OTHER UNTIL THE WEEKEND OR SET SPECIAL NIGHTS .. SORRY ABOUT ALL CAPS DIDNT NOTICE UNTIL I WAS ALMOST FINISH typing ... Good luck if you continue to continue your search
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Low testosterone has nothing to do with his gay website surfing. It's probably a result of age, or some other factor.\nThe best way to boost his testosterone naturally is by exercise and a healthy diet. If he's serious about boosting his testosterone, tell him to start lifing weights. \nThat will help with the moods and irritability, too. Sunlight and exercise, in combination with a healthy diet of natural foods, will change evertyhing. Some exposure to sunlight will help too.
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You gotta get his attention!\n\nDudes are dumb.  I am one, I know.  We do not pick up on hints, feelings, etc. as good as you would think or as good as we should.  Sometimes you can even talk to a dude about feelings and he will not grasp the level of pain it is causing you.  \n\nGet him in a place where he isn't concerned about work, the kids, household work, etc.  Make sure you are both in a good mood and not on the defensive...then tell him, and this is important, \n\nFirst:  How much you love him, want him, need him, want to spend the rest of your life with him.  (this is all good chit, but it will catch his attention)\n\nSecond:  Tell him what a great father he is, how proud you are of how hard he works.  Tell him you understand his stress level, etc. \n\n3rd:  Tell him that you cannot live without the kissing, hand holding, him holding your head at night, playing with your hair, whatever it is that he used to do and he really likes.  \n\nYou will want to keep the mood light so you might throw in that some humor like that you may just be a silly girl or that you are needy and what not, but then tell him that those things mean more to you than he will ever know, (because that is the truth, men are dumb, remember). \n\nNo matter what, this is going to hurt him.  He will hurt because: he will beat himself up for not being perfect, he will be upset that you didn't tell him earlier; he will be upset because he thought he was doing anything and everything to be the perfect husband and father; he will also be upset because no one wants to be told they are doing a bad job, especially at the job they care about the most.  Because he is hurt, he may become a bit defensive and point out all the great things he does.  This is normal.  You should probably agree with him, but then remind him that those things make him a great man and father, but these little things are what brings the sparkle to your eyes.  \n\nI think it is very important that this conversation happens in the middle of a date type situation and followed up with an evening of affection.\n\nAfter you have the talk, you need to set aside a certain amount of time a night for you two to spend alone.  Maybe it isn't every night, (I dont know the work situation), but it needs to happen. Even if it is just 20 minutes of holding your head while you watch the news, or maybe you rub his back, whatever it is, but that will set a routine of affection.  If he starts to slip, call him on it.  If he continues to slip, write him an email with your feelings without attacking him.  If he still doesn't get it, get back with me!
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We release feelings, emotions-verbally discuss with other women etc.and also find ways to lower stress-also cry when upset which also releases stress, negatives .In general men tend to bottle things up inside for required to act "manly'. Keeping things bottled up  esp. negative emotions, feelings increases stress levels which  can lead to Hyper tensions, heart disease, heart attacks, strokes etc.
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This is a difficult situation and I can just imagine your anguish.\n\nFirst of all, expect the best but prepare for the worse case scenario.\n\nFrom the hints you've given us about this man, it seems he has had it rough. Probably, at fault for having deceased, divorced or careless parents. I might be mistaken, but his behavior either way, is not normal. Something is defenitely going on.\n\nConsider also, the fact that many men tend to suffer from depression. From the way he is acting I feel tempted to deduct that he has a bout of manic or bipolar depression. You know, one day he is Mr. Perfect an the next day you wonder if its the same man you met the day before. \n\nSo while you figure this puzzle out, try to not depend on him too much, and try to find something else where you can rest your emotions. Having them take a ride with him on tha agressive roller coaster isn't healthy and might ruin your happiness if things do not work out in the end.\n\nLastly, you might want to consider the following ideas:\n\n-As him out on a date, perhaps coffee, and tell him how you fee.\n-Drop a note during lunch time, telling him you know he's had it rough and would like to take him somewhere special where ha can relax and just forget about everything for a day or two.\n-Buy him flowers (If he is this type) most men like it.\n-Give him a pucker up on the cheek next time you see him and tell him you hope all goes well.\n-Offer your shoulder to him when no one else is looking and invite him, or rather, make him cry. Men have a hard time doing this but if you help him confide in you and reassure him its ok to get teary, next time youll be grabbing for is the klenex box.\n\nIf despite your eager attempts to get a hold of this seemingly bipolar prince charming fails. Give it some rest and keep your options open. Perhaps then you might give him the chance to loose you and then see how muvh you truly are worth it, and at the same time, you give yourself a breather and an opportunity to meet a few others.\n\nBest wishes, and you too, cry a little now and then.
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It's not healthy, and you'll feel like shit but...\nCarb deplet your self two weeks out drink nothing but 1 gallon/day water. then three days out cut off the water. You will look like a dreams for about 2-3 days but you get it all back. And that's if your friends and Family don't kill you first because of the mood swings you're going to have.
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Mood swings could lead to problems, but he should be able to adapt if he loves u...
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All of us guys know how to handle it.  It is the way we are made.  Take it in stride and don't be concerned about it.  Anything in moderation is ok, as long as we are not hurting ourselves or others.\n\nConsider what you really want. Most of us guys want to be happy and we like it when others notice us. There are a couple of things you can do that are very simple. First, as for exercise, begin something that you can do most any time and any place without any special equipment. In other words, start walking. Walk to a store. Walk down the street or around the neighborhood. The point is to walk a little every day from now on. Somehow this gives us confidence in ourselves because we know we are doing something that we have control over to keep ourselves healthy.\n\nSecond, the real way to have others like us is to act and be nice. Stay happy. It is as simple as a smile. Be a happy person, and people will like to have you around.
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Mind control.  Try hypnosis, old nasty guys have been using it forever.
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PMT?  Do you mean PMS?  If so, go to GNC or other herbal remedy store and get VITEX or Chaste Berry.  It works wonders for cramps and mood swings!\n\nIf you don't mean PMS, then I have no idea what you mean and can't help you.
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Light some candles.  Get a glass...no, get a bottle.... of wine. Turn on some relaxing tunes.  Take a bubble bath.\n\nYes, men are allowed to do this too.\n\nIt refreshes the mind and body.
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Suggest he begin a regular exercise routine and eliminate processed, sugared foods from his diet. This is a good start. If this doesn't help suggest he look into medications so that these can help him control his mood swings, but have him do his homework on this very thoroughly and carefully, because the side effects of some drugs can be worse than the condition itself. Also, it would be good for him to get plenty of rest and see a mental health expert.
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Everyone goes through mood swings.  Guys aren't the only ones who are rude and mean - women do it too.  The key is communication between eachother so you know how eachother is feeling.  If your husband is just mean and grumpy for no good reason he might be dealing with some things inside of him that he isn't willing to share with you.  Either way, if it bothers you and you can't talk it out - there is nothing wrong with getting into marriage counseling.
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Me and my fiance have the same problem. It's not you honey. Medication does that to a lot of men especially pain medication. Maybe you could try sitting down with him and explain to him how you feel. I know it's weird to talk about, but it's a part of being in an open and honest relationship.
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I know it didn't occur to any of the men that replied....but why is it that when 'men ask' why do women get angry - we are irrational and you all could not POSSIBLY Have done anything wrong to have 'caused an irritation'?  Oh no...... it's PMS.. yeah that's it.\n\nOk when you want a real answer, ask a guy, because as I can see already - these are just stellar answers.\n\nIT TAKES 2 to have problems, and that's true even with PMS!!!  So get it straight gentlemen...... you have responsibility in this - EVERY SINGLE FIGHT!  \n\nWhen you wake up to that fact, perhaps you'll have better relationships.....until then..... keep on thinkin crap like PMS and we are irrational....it will solve everything - NOT!    GOOD LUCK MAN!
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3 times a day is quite normal and healthy! Not to worry my dear. But don't be too sad that your bf doesn't have the mood always. Talk to him about and ask him why he isn't in the mood most of the times. Maybe a little conversation helps to settle his moods too, you'll never know a small talk can actually turn into some dirty conversations & do wonders for you.