Have you ever considered or have used a skillet on your husband for being drunk or abusive?
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I think that is the typical "wife mad at husband" cliche'. I haven't, but you might want to ask Lorena Bobbit what SHE did to her hubby when she got mad at him. LOL!
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I have tryed to stab someone, but that doesn't count cuz I was drunk....Or I wait till they go to sleep and wrap them up in a sheet and beat them. \nOh by the way, the person I tryed to stab forgave me. hee hee   Sorry again Ryan....but you made me mad.  Friends Forever! :)
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I think your concerns are legitimate, and I think it's a good idea to consider carefully whether you want to let this abusive man back into your lives.  (I assume he abused you and the kids based on what you said.)  I think that people can change, but you should look for evidence that he is really serious about changing.  Enrolling himself in anger management classes or psychological counseling might be a good start.  Also, I think you have a right to be concerned about the timing of this "change of heart" and it sounds like you feel like he's using you, which sounds to me like a form of abuse.  I'd say, if you need help, get help from a battered women's shelter, an ecclesiastical leader, a counselor, or somebody else who can help you make a wise decision.  Remember to keep your kids in mind when you are making this decision -- think about what will be best for them.  God bless you.
308964
Bless your heart. It will take time after going through verbal abuse. Words hurt deeper than any slap, and the pain lasts far longer. Please seek marriage counselling.
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There is a man I work with who is terribly angry all of the time and an alcoholic.  I was curious about this same thing, so I seduced him.  His johnson was the size of my thumb.  I got up and left.  If he's angrier now, nobody can tell.  But I got my answer - and now you do too.
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made a guy cry from doing it when we were small kids - but think he just cried coz I hit him at all, didn't really matter where it was.\nLater in life, had a bad Bast$rd of a boyfriend who used me as a punching bag - returned the favour one day and booted him in the bollocks as if my life depended on it - he puked!!!
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This is why every woman should have a cast iron skillet. When you find him sleeping just smack him up side the head. He ll get the idea.
95476
i have never .. \nand my ex husband wasnt anything like you just described !!\npoor fella . i hope you find a good one next time
903401
Your questions don't pack the usual punch they have in the past. Are you running out of outrageous scenarios for us?  Based on your husband's faux past behavior I seriously doubt that he even allows you to use the microwave. I don't believe you even have a microwave. He's such a controlling old fashioned stifling phony spouse that he would never allow that appliance in the house. \n\nBut here's my advice: buy some of those flimsy paper plates and wear socks on your hands.
95484
No.....I use to be in an abusive relationship and now way no how....would I ever go back.
951004
I prayed to God to turn my abusive husband around three years ago. I begged God to do this.  It was never answered.  So, I'm divorcing him and giving up.
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I was in an abusive marriage for 32 stupid years. I was taught that you stick it out no matter what. So I did. I wasted my whole life. The only thing I did get out  of the marriage was 2 wonderful children. They never knew what was going on. My husband rarely abused me when they were around.\n\nBut by the time the kids were in there teens, they would ask why I was taking the verbal and mental abuse they heard. Then I got tired of apologizing for his attitude all the time to others.\n\nI watched every thing that I could on abuse and self improvement, on T.V.\n\nWhen my dad, (who was like my husband) passed away, I saw my mom actually be happy. Kind of like Whooppee!!!!! That for me, made me decide that I would rather spend at least one year of my life HAPPY than another forty years miserable. So went to women's resource centre and asked alot of questions.  Less than 6 months later, I left. I went to a women's transition home, to get some time  on my own with counsellors, and then got my own apartment. \n\nI have never looked back. That was just over 2 1/2 years ago. I have really never been happier. A year ago I refound an old friend and neighbour, that is divorced and we have been together since, enjoying life.
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Yes but he finally irritated me so much I had to end it.  Also he scared my foster children. But the free lunches were fun for a while.  \n\nI did not marry him.  Married someone else.
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Yes - my ex-husband hit me three times during our marriage.  I was raised in a peaceful houselhold, so the first time he did it it caught me completely by surprise.  However, I realised that I didn't want my young son to think this was the normal way men should treat women, so I divorced him.  He's on his fourth relationship now.\n\nI married again 23 years ago.  When you are a victim of domestic violence (and mine was pretty slight compared to some stories here) it toughens you up not to accept it again, so the first time we had a row and my then fairly new husband raised his hand to hit me, I told him ' if that connects, we disconnect.'  And I meant it - and he knew I did.  We're very happy together now!
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i would talk to him and explain your feelings. My husband and I used to play fight and when things gor out of hand I think he thought I was able to handle the come back, because I was willing to play. Men often forget how strong they are. Once I explained to my husband he was hurting me everything changed.
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My dad used to be an abusive alcohol....It was a very painful childhood growing up with all the verbal and mental abuse.....When I turned 22, he completely changed, became a Christian and quit drinking, cold turkey....It took time to heal our relationship, but now I LOVE MY DAD and he really is the best dad anyone could ever want.....We are very close and has been a lot of healing from the past.....He never really apologized, but with his radical change in behavior, I didn't need an apology because actions speak louder than words.....We never talk about the past, because I have forgiven him and I know he is a different person and I choose to let the past go, I can't change it, but only learn from it.....Just be patient and all things will come together.....Best of luck and what a wonderful gift  you have, the opportunity for healing your relationship with your dad, most people never get that chance....
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my husband of 10 years cheated on me and when I found out about it I couldn't even touch him much look at at him he was disgusting and she was a fat old gal with hair on her face sick sick I divorced him. I never could forgive him. still can't and he is dead.\n\n\nDoddie