is it normal  to have crush on sum1 even if u r having a bf or gf?
110425
its absolutely normal 2 admire other people..\n\nhaving a relation doesnt mean that u'll lose ur sight..\n\nso its ok 2 have a crush as long as it stays that way
181408
There should be some reason that you like both of them. Can you let me know what are the reason. For example, there could be a physical reason that you are weak to your ex or current bf. And also there should be a reason for your ex-bf to like you, reasons like sex or money or he isn't getting attention from other girls etc. Be aware of it. Thanks.
413058
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
7282
hi\n i'm a guy...n u r a gal havin' crush on a guy...he nevr feels bad if u express out ur crush on him...because u r expressing out ur feelings towards someone...you should never hide the feeling you have towars someone.well if it was a guy expressin' out his crush it would have been different...but almost same....because guys usually express out their crush...and if even gals start doin' that it will be gratest thing.Because there will be better understanding betweem guys and gals..
150230
Maybe you're not ready to be in a one-on-one relationship with just one guy. It could be because your bf is not everything u r looking 4 so u find urself attracted to other guys. Maybe u should try the single game 4 a while and see if u meet the guy that makes u forget about the others and what they have to offer.
236848
I think that people want bf's and gf's just cuz it makes them feel loved and it makes them feel like they are worth something. I am one of these people. People love the fact that they can be with someone and feel the love of another person outside their family. Companionship and happiness. That's the best way to put it.
1086398
i have tyhe same problem but my bf dimped me cos hge thorght i was gonna dump him then he asked me out agin and i still love him but her got a gf that is 5 yeasrs older then him...
823394
hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.\nthat b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.\nnow those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys  most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.\nlike glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.\ni think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.\nremember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.
1100010
of course it's not unusual.... I mean, for not having a bf, this means that yo havent meet a boy that your really like and love..... this isn't bad...\nThis just means that you haven't meet the right person yet!!\nNope, not bad/unusual at all....\nHave fun not and take advantage of the things you can do while you're not with someone (like shopping for hours with your friends....flirting in the mall, etc....!!)
86967
Yes I think you can, but I also feel it is a maturity level, as a teenager you can have a "crush" on more than one person, as an adult the interest and passion will seak different levels, one woman will meet some needs, the other will also meet needs. If you can have the two relationships without hurting anyone, so be it, but it is hard to have your cake and eat it to.....
554448
lol  The platonic girl crush.  We've all had them.  Chances are, you're feeling uncomfortable and unconfident in yourself.  You see yourself as someone who hasn't yet grown into everything you want yourself to be.  This girl is who you want to be.  You look up to her and idolize her.  It's normal.  Don't get too obsessive.  It freaks some people out, but rest assured, this is normal.  Eventually, it'll pass and you'll be okay.  You just need to grow out of it.  Good luck!
196396
i don't have a problem i have too many BF
393270
Just try to stay busy. It normal to feel an attraction to someone but if you really dont want anythin to happen try to stay away because if your close to him youll just think about him more. And if you really want somethin ask your friend how would she feel if somebody she knew went out with her ex...right there youll see if it bugs her or not...then you can know if you should go for him or not.
280265
Normal. This is a normal situation. You have liked "this guy" for a very long time, and only thought about him. Once you were asked out from the "other guy" then you were "exposed" to another person, which just so happens to be attractive and caught your heart. So therefore, you got over the guy that you "did" like, and now your heart is set for someone else!
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
766467
It is normal for both sexes to do this. You can love someone, but still check others out or wonder what it would be like to date them. If it never gets past that, then thats fine. If you love the person you are with and never cheat on them, the thoughts that cross your mind are meaningless and only makes you human. \n\nSometimes by thinking of other girls, you realize that you are happier with the person you are with and it enforces you current relationship.
384015
I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.