will anyone help me with being a NO ONE?
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There is certain confidence about a girl that goes out to have fun versus a girl that goes out to find a boy. You need to go out with your girlfriends and have a good time. When you are confident and not looking you will find someone. I looked forever and then one day I stopped 7yrs later we are still together.
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You've gotta psyche yourself out...don't give a damn about what anyone else around you is thinking.Learn how to accept rejection...invite it if you have to.Sometimes it pays to be an arrogant,conceited prick(only once in a great while to boost up your ego).No fear man!
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The fact that you're asking the question seems to point to your own realization that you don't want to be a bastard. But for some reason you've accepted the fact that at your core that is really who you are.\n\nWe need friends. We all need help along the way. Life is too hard and complicated for anyone to make it through by themselves. So I would say your first step is to search out your own heart. Why is it that you feel like your first reaction is to be cruel/mean/rude? Look for issues that are long past that you have never let go of--perhaps someone mistreated you or hurt you and you now react to the whole world as if everyone has hurt you. Let it go. Find your own peace. Then you can stop feeling like you're "acting" like a kind and helpful person. You can "be" a kind and helpful person.\n\nHope that helps.
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Yea..unfortunately i know exactly how you feel. I think most people feel this way at one point or another. It's a terribly easy slump to get into, but now that you are fed up with it start making some changes. Start practicing saying no to people sometimes and giving yourself a littlle time for yourself. It's hard to be a good friend or partner to anyone if your all used up. Unfortunately though it's easy to get into a pattern of just saying ok and going with everyone else's flow! Think of things you enjoy doing and set aside some time to do them... it will go a long way in helping you get back some energy and re-centering yourself. Good Luck and lotsa luv!
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Stay busy. Keep moving. Treat yourself to a pedicure. Just don't stop moving or your situation will consume you.\nFind ONE great friend and you will NEVER be alone. If depression is a factor, I suggest you seek counseling that would fit your personal beliefs. I have suffered from depression my whole life which makes you afraid of being alone and scared all the time. Counseling was the best step I ever took, but you have to implement what you learn into your life.
23871
Do not let someone else define your worth...that is a trap....I know nothing about you but it sounds like you are depressed and down on yourself.
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I think I would make a plan of my own since it sounds like you will need one anyway.  In the meantime, don't dwell on it.  Then when it comes up, there will be no need for you to fumble around, you will already have a plan and you can just tell them what it is.   Don't set yourself up to be out of a place to stay or to be humiliated.  I am an introvert as well and we have to look out for ourselves instead of following the crowd like extroverts do.  But it makes us more independant, huh?
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dont worry there is someone to help you all the time i didnt even know of your desease till i read about it , really you are so welcome in a world of unknown deseases i am happy to know about you and am really glad to know you are talking about it  hi im julie glad to meet you xx hey talk about it some more, your welcome in a world of people that dont know .im happy to be a friend this of all thing has touched me deeply and want people to realise how important it is to chat responibly about matters on here \n\nxx
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Celebrate life! Life is too precious to worry about people who don't care.......Go out with friends, volunteer somewhere, get a dog, join a club....... and the biggest thing is that you have to learn to be alone. If you are ok with yourself then you'll do better.  The right person is out there. It may take awhile, but she is there.......start looking!
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Join a dance class, sports club or anywhere you can meet new people.\nTry doing something that you have always been too scared to do, you never know, it may give you the buzz you are looking for.\nIf all else fails, book a week off work, pack a bag, go to the airport and get a cheap last minute flight to anywhere young and fun.\nLastly, try having a more positive attitude. If you act like your life is boring, people aren't going to be queueing up to be your friend - act like yours is a life worth being part of, and they will be flocking to your door.
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Yes, I may be able to help.\n\nGet in touch by private message in the first instance.
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Not to anyone I know.  Get a life.
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Don't worry about what others think of you. Be your self it is after all who you are.\n\nI do not worry about wether someone hates me or not. Face it we can not please everyone so quit trying so hard to do so. By trying to please everyone, people will see you as a push over and will in the end will take advantage of you.\n\nBe yourself and do what ever it is that makes you you. As long as you are not breaking laws or hurting people, be you.
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nothing....(I know it sux to be me)
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i'm a loser with no one to be with
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Tiffany I know it is difficult having to put up with that treatment every day.  Work on cultivating who you are inside and ignore them. It will not be easy but in the long run you will be better off for it. Believe in yourself and know that within yourself you are so much better than whatever "they" say.
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Try your GP - or a counsellor.  School/college should have one available for you to make an appointment with.  It'll really help to talk to someone who's not involved in your life.