My friend is like not playing with me.....?
102701
I think,sometimes maybe she didn't mean not playing with you,she just want to have her own space to think her own things.As friend , you must give her that freedom. But some friends do just don't like to play with us, we don't know the reasons, maybe we are a little dull? Who knows?!
1051200
You could call him or go to him and say hey do ya think we don't hang out as much? Then go on to ask why. It may bother him too. It sounds like he may be depressed or something is buggin' him. Hope it works out.
169321
Sounds like she feels left out and her feelings are hurt. Talk to her, let her know you value the friendshship and make plans to do something together. \nMany people will come and go in your life but a true friend will leave footprints in your heart.
280936
if u dont want a friend anymore thn plz tell her directly..... dont hurt her from ur any sort of rude behavior..... remember its always good whn any relationship ends peacefully....... u took her as ur frd once so just be direct n tell her wht u feel...
810436
if she makes you uncomfortable let her know. if you've done that and it still happens, maybe its time to walk away from the friendship. if she doesn't respect you enough to respect the fact that you aren't interested its prolly not worth saving in the first place.
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
340901
I would consider her no longer your friend.  Especially if she is running away from you.  I think she may be jealous of you and your boyfriend. If she can't talk to you and tell you what is going on than I think you need to leave her be and find a new friend.
826205
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
519969
Its not a bad thing it just means your normal, and no your not a bad friend. She sounds like a lousy person anyways for leading him on. Just give it time and things will come out then you will have your chance. Just hang in there.
457128
Make sure you tell her you deserve an explanation for her distance. This is important. You have the right to know why she no longer wishes to be a part of your life. Just pull her to the side nicely or if you can catch her alone even better and just be like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been distant lately, is there anything wrong...did I do something to upset you?" Then if she doesn't wanna talk or explain herself, tell her "I deserve an explanation and I'll only try this once if your gonna give me the cold shoulder. I care about you enough to address the situation, but if you don't wanna be my friend anymore, at least have the decency to inform me like a woman". After this. just do what's in your heart. Go your separate ways and look into other options in friends. Someone is out there in the same boat as you and you'll find a new BFF soon. Good Luck!
515883
Have you told him that you don't feel that way? If not, then you at least need to tell him, in a kind way.  If he still won't leave you alone you need to ignore him.  Don't answer his calls, don't say hi, don't hang out with him and your friends, avoid him if possible, zero contact.  He needs to know that you're not playing games with him and you mean it.  Hope it works out for you!
1002649
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
767108
I don't know why he dropped the friendship, but you are acting kind of needy--almost stalking like.  take a hint, for whatever reason, he does not want to associate with you.....let it go.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
588413
she is hurtful and resentful right now give her a little time 2 stew but keep trying 2 talk 2 her.try coming up with a new way 2 explain it 2 her maybe she is just mad because you did not ask her help 2 keep the play going.you willnot know unless you ask her.bug her a bit if you like her as a friend and she is usually a good friend then try repairing the relationship if not give her a lot of space and move on.
850481
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.
684203
I surely wouldn't go hang out with her. You don't need that stress, besides it sounds like a set up. brush her off your shoulders and find a new friend