My ex-boyfriend told me Happy Valentine's day for the first time in the years I've known him, I was shocked
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he's 'growing up' to learn that telling someone you love them doesn't make you a fag
876140
It makes sense to me.  He's basically saying he thinks your first kiss wasn't really heartfelt and true because your moods swing from one direction to the other so he doesn't know where you stand.  He thought the first kiss was 'magical' but you've gone back and forth so many times on him that now he questions whether you feel the same way about him.
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Thank him for his honesty. His being honest with you should help you to close that door and move on. If you feel you need to offer him some closure I would thank him for the good times, tell him you enjoyed the time you two had together, and wish him the best of luck in the future. In time you'll be fine. =)
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Love is like that, we tend to go to things that we are familiar with.  I'm not saying it's the ideal thing to do, but I don't think it's as bad as it seems to you right now.  You shared an intimate personal moment with someone that you had many with in the past.  I say not to make a big deal of it and take it for what it was.  If it was something that brings you guys together again, then congrats.  If it was a quickie from someone that you trust, then I still say congrats, we all are not so lucky.  Don't worry about just relish in the positives of it.
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Well this depends how he says hey is it a hey kind of quite and looks away, or a hey like he forces himself to say it. If it is a quite hello then he obviously wants you back as much as you and is NOT going to step up and say it! Most guys just will not go first. So take the plunge and just tell him Since the day we broke up you have been on my mind! I want to try to make this work again!!! And he will either say He has really missed you or be ignorant and say something stupid like "well I don't know" but don;t worry he will come around if he was truly in love with you! Guys actually have stronger emotions they we give them credit for but half the time they just don't say it b/c they may feel stupid or don't know if you feel the same way. So usually the girls have a make the leap! GOOD LUCK I hope I have helped!
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Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
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It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that you are definitely doing better now. Face it. The former boyfriend was using you for one thing only. And you know what that was. If..and that's a BIG  IF, the older guy is using you also, at least, he is making you feel good. He seems to know how to treat you, and, believe me, it's nice to have someone who knows how to treat you!
166508
the embrace of my  former boy friend ;-)
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Ya. It's horrible. And that guy broke up with me a few times. There was once on my birthday and once on valentine's day.
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reminds me of my first valentine date.
439760
No, that's lucky. In your 18 years not many bfs have made you cry, isn't that awesome? :)
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I am sooooooooo happy I can't stop smiling! I got away from my abusive ex husband last year and then met someone, fell in love, and we moved in together after my divorce was final. I have finally met someone that treats me with the love, kindness, respect, etc, that every person deserves. He does NOT believe in abuse of any sort (same as me) and doesn't believe in cheating either (me either). He treats me like a God and has me high on a pedestal, just like I do him. :)
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its probably because of his new girlfriend u should be more important then her and u need to remind him of all the good times yall had so he can relize hes being a jerk and u shouldnt be treated like dirt that wrong
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I did the same thing many years ago and we finally got back together after about a year apart and got married but ended up divorced before our 8th anniversary.   The problems that were there before were still always there, but I thought he would change and I was lonely and I hadn't gotten into another relationship.  He was my first love!   But 5 years after our divorce, I met a really wonderful man and we've been together now for 16 years and I can't even picture being with my ex anymore.  Sometimes a new relationship does the trick after you've had time to heal from the last.  I didn't think I could move on but I did and life has never been better!
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Well , i thought that i had met the one the first time . Of course , i was the only one of us that felt that way .I have been fool enough to let him break my heart over and over again since then. I think , that there might have been a time when he really cared about me. Maybe he still does care , but now i realize that we just are'nt meant to be together in that way. It's really sad though , because even now--> he's the only man that i would want to have been the 1!
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my ex would have said "chocolate!"
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Yes it special for me because I get to show my creativity. Even though I am not single right I never did feel sad when I was single because I always had my friend to back me up and we always showered each other with gifts and sometimes if it was during the middle of the week I would jump on the internet with a big box of cholocates (that my friend gave me) and look at single guys and maybe start up a chat with them and who knew sometimes I would end up with a midnight Valentine. :0)