fell in love...but don't know if he is married?
109103
I would just come clean and ask him..."Okay!  You are too perfect.  Tell me the truth...You're married, aren't you?"  Make sure that you are together when you ask it though, so that you can see his face and the way he reacts.  When you are, make it sound like, like you are joking around with him.  If he answers "No.", then ask, "Do you have kids then?"  Better question..."Do you WANT kids?"  Just keep it light, but gauge his reations.
1028011
ask him if he's ever been in love before....this will be a good way of getting him to open up about any feelings he may or may not have towards you.....if he only says yeah in the past or yeah once or twice and doesnt make any reference to being in love at the moment then he's not in love with you yet, or it could be that he is uncomfortable with sharing his feelings if he really loves you he will share it with you in time and when he feels ready....dont give up just trust your intuition...usually when a guy is in love he will want to share it with somebody.....you can always ask one of his friends, or a close buddy who he confides in to see if he has any hidden feelings for you if he is not opening up to tell you quite yet.....
155375
possible but you should aproach him on it.It's kind of childish for you to be pining for him and not say anything.Life is about risks ask him or you'll never know for sure.
1043616
I'm afraid you don't have any option here. If he's married then you should let him be married and find yourself someone else. You can't expect your MARRIED friend to return your feelings. If you consider yourself his friend, you wouldn't even think of breaking his marriage and even if you do, just remember the consequences and what goes around comes around. So if I were you, I'd save my feelings for someone who's not taken.
813256
you can't tell that you are in love or not but time will tell you. give some time to yourself and everything will be clear itself. so dont worry and let you feelings come out and express .\ngood luck
1104948
Bottom line.... do you love him? Does he love you? Then go for it. There is no secret formula to know if this is the man you were fated to be with or not. In this world, you get love, you cherish it, you don't know when it will come around again. So go for it and don't worry so much.
147852
How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.
196054
Ask his wife if in doubt....K
960553
You should treat everyone with respect. \n\nYou may not be ready for marriage yet, but he may be.  Have you considered whether he might be the right husband for you?\n\nIf you decide he is, don't let him get away.
201273
Give it some time. Love at first sight is just that, sight. Find out everything you can about this person and let them do the same with you. Once you have done that if that feeling is still there then think about the big Married thing. Whats the rush? If you love them today and it's real you will love them tomorrow.
645218
take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
462781
Go and ask him is the only way u can know abt his feelings. dnt just rush into situation be frenz with him first get to know his deepest secrets. Then go ahead for ur proposal.\nBest Of Luck
53447
What is described above is often also felt by people in a Romantic relationship.  The difference between this and know if He Is The One, is that both you and he will know it without needing to ask anyone.\nIf you are in doubt, then the answer is probably no, he is not.
474589
Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone without ever seeing them. I actually like to think of it as one of the purest forms of love. :)\n\nAs far as your secret goes, it really depends on the secret. If you're married, you probably shouldn't have been talking to him like a love interest in the first place. If you have a child or something, that's nothing to worry about. If you are both married and have a child, CEASE COMMUNICATION IMMEADIATELY! lol Anyway... \n\nI would have to say that you should tell him this secret. If you can't be completely open with him, then it really isn't meant to be. Trust me. Lies and secrets will ultimately destroy a relationship. Someone eventually finds out. Just tell him, otherwise you'll be stuck in this situation for a while. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, it really wasn't meant to be. If he still does want to talk to you, you two will be much better off for it. :) Either way, my point is that you cannot fight what will inevitably happen. If you don't tell him, he will find out eventually...\n\nSo go do the right thing. :)
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
233896
Go ask him. How should i know.
510426
I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.