to u ...what is the most difficult thing  in a relation?
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A relationship is not meant to be easy. If it was then we would all be married and happy for the rest of our life's by 18. Everything in a relationship is only as hard as you make it though. Compromising is the main problem for people. Trust being second. Then you get into the problem where your not seeing each other as much as you want to. Or one of you is getting serious and the other one isn't. Communication!
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Honesty and Communication......And trust exerises. \nBest of Luck
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Personally, I find the most difficult thing to say is "help me I'm choking".
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The key word is distance...distance of any kind in a relationship is hard.  When that distance is geographical it also asserts distance on every other part of the relationship.  We need to feel close to someone to really love them and for a relationship to grow.
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Relationships are always tough. I have found that the way to make them last is to not worry about the longevity. If all we did was focus on when something was going to end, why bother starting? At any rate if you have a good thing going cherish it. If something goes wrong with your mate, try and help them as best you can. Remember some of the best things about being in a relationship are not only sharing good times but having someone there for you in the bad. And if the relationship doesn't work, cherish that, you experienced something, which is better than nothing at all.
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A few more details would be nice.  Sexual love? Friendship love?  Long term?  I guess I can only tell you that only you can discover what the problem is then judge the effort needed to correct it and decide if it is indeed worth the effort.  True love is.  Anything else should be let go.
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A very bad relationship.  No relationship has a chance of working without trust and you can't trust somebody who is lying to you.
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Pain. When you always fight or you're far away from each other. Most people think that love conquers the pain no matter how hard it is but the truth is, Pain takes away the Love no matter how great it is.
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That's a tough one....\n\nUhhh...you??
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Chemistry.  Even with all the other criteria being met, chemistry can be a deal-breaker.
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I worked extremely hard at a relationship for 25 years.  I truely believed that was what it took for success.  Then true love came along in the form of an old flame and I realized how incredibly easy real love is.  I realized all the spiritual energy I used up over the years.  I was spiritually and emotionally exhausted.  A single meeting with my old girlfriend and it was all replenished and overfilled my soul.\n\nRelationships that require hard work can endure depending on the strength and will of both parties.  But you risk being very hurt if either finds their soulmate.
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trust , respect , love , devotion , commitment . to name a few ...\nnot nessarily in that order
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That's a hard one!!!!!
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It all depends on what subjects you're good at or not good at, which varies from student to student. For me, anything that had to do with science or math was the hardest.
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Love is difficult for the reason is that you might not understand clearly deep inside your heart. You have to understand by searching the answer deep inside your heart where you as the only person can only understand the whole circumstances. Love isn't difficult, but some part it is like forgive your enemy or other peoples and give loves not sex with great support. Love could be meant in many way that can or can't be fully express.
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Your mother.\n\nThat's the closest relationship.  She could also be your uncle's wife.
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In all truthfulness. It takes two to make it or break it. You can't blame the other without looking at yourself as well to see where you have went wrong. sometimes that doesn't happen till the relationship is done and over. At least you can look at it as a learning experience. At least you will be better prepared in a new relationship when that time comes. To know how to handle things. Not talking to each other is the main problem in most cases