IS IT OK if my boyfriend trys to be sly and sneak a look at a girl.. instead of fully turn his head at one?
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
556911
i wouldnt say all guys every one thinks or looks at some one wondering wat they look like w/o clothes on. just because im looking and thinking doesnt mean ima leave my partner to do it..its not worth it
718289
Oh, no! Don't let someone else find out! Just ask him to his face! Find him ALONE, so he is not put on the spot in front of friends, and You can say it like this..."if You had the lucky opportunity to date a girl as nice as I am, would you be interested?" This exercise has a risk! He could be low-down and negative and answer flippantly or meanly--which could hurt your feelings, if you are alone, then no one sees this behaviour--BUT! if he has a chance to see your sincerity, then he MIGHT say "Wow! That would be great! I WOULD be lucky!" and the rest could be HISTORY!!! Good Luck to you, honey, you have your whole life ahead of you and no matter what THIS one says, there are always going to be more nice fellas--hold out for a GOOD one!
1056430
Don't take it personally.  It is NOT against you or have anything to to with YOU.  It is just a natural reaction.\n\n Don't you look at other women too?  I mean, aren't you interested in what they are wearing, how their hair style is, etc.?\n\nIt is natural to look at beauty and (like it or not) women are beautiful.  So don't be so hard on him, if he is a open type of guy ask him what he finds attractive about the person.  Maybe you'll learn more about him.  I am sure he loves you and is thinking he is happy to be with you.
981705
as long as he's just looking at the menu and not ordering, i think you'll be okay.  if it's really bothering you, tell him.  if he cares about you he'll keep those kinds of comments to himself.  however, whether he tells you or not, all guys look at other women, just as all girls look at other guys, that's just life.
630326
Yes lawd! It's a natural and healthy feeling. Just think, if you were with your ideal man...would every other man in the world be unnattractive to you. I'm not completely sure what your exact question is, but maybe you're asking more along the lines is "Is it acceptable for my bf to find other women attractive?". The way he reacts to the presence of another woman would answer that. If he responds in a way that is derogatory to you...then it's highly unacceptable. But if he finds a feature on her that attracted him to you..for instance...nice eyes. Then he is checking out other women, but paying you a compliment as well...not being rude and not lying or covering up his actions. And the way you react plays a part in it too. If his reaction is a positive one and you show the same...then I think it's okay, but if you cut him a wicked look (not in fun and play) then he'll be scared to react with other women present bc of you. It goes both ways thougth miss lady...if you see some eyecandy you like, be a woman...let it be known but still be classy and respectful to your man.\n\nHope this helps in some form or fashion.\nFlirting can be so dangerous these days if taken too seriously.
936666
Yes, I think a boyfriend would feel more comfortable, except if their girlfriend likes girls as well as guys. But if she's faithful, then he shouldnt have to worry.  =]
891114
It sounds like he is interested...If you're interested in him or think that there might be something there, I would ask him.  If you don't like him, I would still approach him anyway because staring is just plain rude! :)
345697
If he doesn't tell his girlfriend, then it's being deceptive at least. Unless they are in an non-exclusive relationship, his girlfriend should know. And I think she'd probably want to. And I think she wouldn't like it if she knew. Which means he probably shouldn't flirt with people, online or off.
996148
In most cases, just looking. We mean no disrespect to the lady we're with, it's just that the female body is BEAUTIFUL, and we enjoy looking at it. Don't get upset, in fact, point them out to him. It will ease your tension, and might make him think a little. Good Luck!
690376
That doesn't mean he is cheating. He can loOK just not touch. Men DO like to look at females. It's their nature. It's how they are wired. it's OK as long as he's with you and wants only you. Don't you find other men attractive? I'm sure you do. It's ok too. The men you look at is of no threat to your man, right? So don't be so insecure. make a joke out of it. Let it go. Be a strong woman. Men don't want to constantly reassure their women they love and care for them.
428822
I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
744021
I would trust him until he gives you a reason not to.  A guy doesn't like it when he's with an insecure girl, so be secure with yourself and just give him a chance until he gives you a reason to think otherwise.
247438
All men look at other woman, it's ok as long as he stays faith full to you. You should start to worry if he doesn't look.
621206
Well if you guys say you are the perfect couple you wouldnt be paranoid and if you trust him enough than you know hes not cheating but if you wanna know so badly just ask him whats going on exactly between you and me cause im being serious about us how about you and go from there you wont feel paranoid and just tell him whats making you paranoid like the girl with the books never know he may be just being nice but hes still showing you two off as a couple to all the other girls and guys so what hes comfortable with them looking at you why not him and other girls it may be difficult but at times you have to get use to it and get over it
715072
"Eye-raping?"  This is a new one.\n\nIf you dress sexy you have to expect that men other than your boyfriend's going to look.
524169
he is probably with another girl.....trying to be sneaky...