Do women like it when a man gives them sex really rough, or do they like it slow and soft?
106000
I cannot speak for all women, but for me, we usually start soft and slow, and then get really rough.. grawwwwgrrr
1106450
Well, a girl should get it both ways.  They should have talked about what they want in bed in the first place, and not this namby pamby bs.  I think it's also because she doesn't want to think of the intimacy she shared with her lover, and she may even be trying to "erase" that cuddly, loving feeling.  \n\nThat being said, it may just be what the girl really likes in bed and she's too uptight or scared to tell her man what she feels.  That causes so many problems with lovers don't talk openly and honestly about what they want in their lovemaking.  I know my squishy likes romantic love making.  She will also enjoy just being bent over and worn out while she's gasping and whimpering, moaning with pleasure.  Sex is about pleasure, and intimacy, and closeness, even when it's rough and pounding.  It should be, but when it's cheating, it's often more about anger and "revenge" so the lady wants it rough because she is imagining that she is inflicting that physical pain on her lover emotionally.
266009
a woman who really responds to what the guy is doing, don't make too much noise but let him know what feels good by your reactions.  also shaving the pubic area is quite a turn on for me and my friends. Hope this helps.
57347
it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
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it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
433883
Oh yeah, there ain't nothing like riding my man and knowing that I am in full control of his pleasure..... its a total turn on. Don't get me wrong I still love for a man to take control and do all the work sometimes but I still love taking control and my man likes that. I really love it when he takes control and bend me over his knee and spanks my naughty asss.Now thats hot!
1150043
A guy does not need to be hard in order to experiance pleasure, or to have an orgasm.  A guy DOES need to be hard to penitrate a vagina, but I have gone down on several guys who were not able to get it up, and they were still able to orgasm, ejaculate, and all of them reported enjoying themselves - despite being flacid.\n\nAnd the seemen is just as much fun from a soft guy as from a hard one.\n\nin fact sucking a soft penis is a diffrent and really exciting experiance too.
61557
I think you're going to find that the most accurate answer to your question is that every woman is different.  Some women experience no pain whatsoever ( I personally didn't) and some women have found it very painful.  Your experience is going to be greatly affected by the man you decide to be with.  If he's caring and attentive and makes sure you're ready, chances are it will be far more enjoyable for you.  If he's in a big rush and a bit of a "pig" then chances are it would be more painful.
852178
variety is the spice of life!  I mean positions Not partners.  \nSometimes you like it slow and sometimes you just wanna ****
7708
You figure it out.  Does the size of your woman matter?  Do you want it to feel like dipping your pinky in a big wine glass, or do you want it to feel like a chinese finger trap, or maybe somewhere in between.  Can you get off the same if a girl is flat as an LCD or do you like a woman with large breasts.  If you ask me it's all relative, it's about personal prefrence.  Some girls are more about an emotional connection and size isn't so much of an issue, but for those that are a bit more into the physical rough and tumble aspect of sex, then they might want to feel something down there.  Some guys can compensate with good foreplay, and by then the deeds already done so size is no longer an issue. Usually if both people are into each other and into the act, the rest is just an after thought.  But just like men, us women do have our likes and dislikes, and certain needs.
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Both.\n\nSome women find the feel of rope against their skin, giving up control or just getting to be a little lazier now and then.\n\nSome women love to tie up their partner, taking over the bedroom scene and being in charge.\n\nSome women just aren't into it but try because their partner is and they don't mind doing it once in a while to make him happy, they're scared of losing him or myriad other reasons.\n\nIf you've been engaging in bondage with your partner and you're getting the feeling she isn't really into it, ask her. Say "Hey, I know I like this, but you haven't been too excited. What's up?" If she says she's lost interest or that you've been doing it too often, take it to heart. Stop for a while. Cut back. Sit down and set out some ground rules. Bondage is way better when everyone involved is enjoying themselves.\n\nIf you'd like to be engaging in bondage with your partner, but aren't, say "I was interested in trying something different. Would you mind if I held your arms down while we made love?" If she says no, ask her why. Really listen to what she's saying. Then give it a rest, wait a while and try again. Unless her objects are intensely serious, long-lasting ones (such as being a survivor of abuse), she might be up for some experimentation later.\n\nTake it slow. Start by pinning her arms with yours. Move on to tying her hands to each other, then eventually to the headboard. Of coure, if you're the one interested in being bound, a lot of this stuff gets reversed.\n\nAbove all, be sensitive to her feelings and know that there are a lot of women out there who love tying and being tied, but there are also a lot who don't.\n\nGood luck in finding the one for you!
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Only if your woman says you are. She might be sore after 2 hours, and not having any pleasure at all, or she might be loving it. \n\nWomen are a case by case basis, none is the same. I would say if a consensus of your lovers say you are good, then you are. Even without such physical traits and stamina a man can please a woman just by asking what she likes, and trying to make it happen. Not all women have an easy time getting to an orgasm, so don't let that be the sole factor that you base your performance on..
122857
Hard and at a medium pace. As he starts to climax I usually feel him get harder and stretch so then I want it to be hard and faster.
122234
Depends on the guy.  I love it, but I like to see her enjoy the experience FIRST.  I can feel that I have done my job well, if she has been pleasured first.  Oral stimulation is a great way to bring a womant to orgasm (but it takes training on both parties part to understand what she needs).  Guys usually are either selfish or scared.  I have done well because most guys don't do well!
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Rough sex is great and so is romantic sex. Try to get a ballance to keep it exciting.  Variety is the most important thing with sex, it should never be routine and if a woman feels it is routine she will get bored.  Make it so she never knows how you are going to be with her.x
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not really, maybe it was just a coincidence...i'm a woman, we are so moody when in comes to moments in making love.one minute we feel passionately sexy and would like to make love like we've never had it before, and then the next minute we'd feel like we're the fattest gal,unfit to make love.but a guy should also be sensitive enough to know how her sweatheart feels each moment.the body language speaks alot...goodluck!
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...