what do you do to a friend that starts ignoring you?
117664
Realize that he/she is a manipulative .... who is just doing this to feel powerful. What's more empowering than driving someone crazy by ignoring them? If you did something to hurt them, apoligize but don't beg for forgiveness afterwards. That just feeds their need for control. If you apoligize and they still are going to be a bratty ...., don't do anything more. You've apoligized. What the .... more do they want?
157528
1st let her cool down.then tell her your sorry and try to explain it to her.if that doesnt work,explain it to her friend,and get them to explain it to her.when that doesnt work,try and find someone else.
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
1013684
I think you should talk to her and tell her that she keeps ignoring you and it's been hurting you. You shouldn't end it if you haven't talked to her about it yet. Sometimes it may be because you talk about something, that offends, or it just gets "annoying" or sometimes it can be because you call her too much. If she doesn't respond, then she isn't really a good friend, and maybe you should let her go for a while.
300996
it sounds like she really needs help to get her life straightenend out, if you ignore her she will feel like you don't care and that you think she is worthless.  You need to help her get her life back on track before something worse happens to her.  Help her get counseling, get into rehab, even go to church.  If you avoid her and something really bad happens, like she ends up getting killed, then you will never forgive yourself for standing by and letting it happen when you could've done something.  Maybe what she really needs is a friend like you to help her.
504892
Hi\n\n   If he is your friend like you stated please do not ignore him because that is not what suppose it friends do. I would simply say just talk to him have a serious one on one chat and let him know you do not view him in a way which can lead to anything but pure friendship. Hopeful he will be mature enough to understand that friendship is all you desire out of this relationship. \n  \nNow on the other hand if he ends up being a DICK about it you can just simply cut him off and then ignore him. I hope I helped
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
720407
You really know what this situation calls for you are just waiting to here it from someone else.If she is intentionally ignoring you then I believe you should find someone that has more respect for friendship let alone being a couple.If she doesa`nt think you deserve a recognized sign that she cares about you there is a problem here that is far deeper than we can determine here.I would watch her closely and if you see signs that in groups of people she wants to appear single,get out now,she is stuck on herself.If that happened to me I would tell her to sniz my nizzle! Then leave,Good Luck!
898651
you have to do something to get his attention. But make sure your friend doesn't like him first!
274139
Maybe you should try to find a different friend, you can change or help somebody who doesn't want help.
137168
seems like she expects you to sit back and take whatever she throws at you. I would start by talking to her about it, and telling her that her behavior has made it very clear that she isnt interested in being a "friend" to you, and that that is fine with you. Tell her that you hope she has only good things coming her way, and just leave it at that. Ending things on a good note will probably surprise her. I would stop calling her your friend, as well.\nDont call her, if she talks to you respond politely but without details or extra words, if she sends you emails dont open them, etc. Make yourself unavailable to her.
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
962816
Don't ever ignore her, you need to speak with her face to face and tell her you are confused about the way you feel about her. Tell her you need time to sort out how you feel, and for the time being, you need to still remain friends. She should understand, the family thing about them ignoring you maybe you being paranoid, it happens. Be honest with her about everything and things should be fine.
389253
Well then the only thing to do is just be there for you friend even if she doesn't want to listen to you. She's going to get hurt, and she's going to regret not listening to you. Your already a good friend by worrying and trying to tell her to leave him, but be there for her anyway. Be there because she's going to need you, once she  opens her eyes. So just be there for her.
975324
well, if you have known him from 1 grade then my advice is why not go to him and ask, why he is ignoring you, ask him if he don't want to be friend anymore and do show some attitude. \nif he says i doesn't care forgetting him will be my advice. \nBut if he say something like "why are you behaving like that" then i say you need to understand that he is not even attracted to you.\n\nBut if he becomes nervious then those are the signs of love.
330484
ask them whats going on... if they ditch you again, get new friends!