If a guy loves getting around with girls and ask "do you have a boyfriend?", should I trust this person &
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You have to ask yourself why he cares if they have a boyfriend or not, really I can only see one reason why he would ask that - well if a guy asks me if I have a boyfriend I can only assume that he wants to find out if the coast is clear for him to make a move.  Sorry, I wish I was wrong
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You're friend may be jelouse so what I would do is believe your boyfriend. If he care about you then he wouldn't be lieing to you.
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Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
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It seems like you dont really trust him in my opinion. You say he goes on myspace and talks to girls 24/7, they could just be friends. Another reason he could be going on is to meet a new girl. Sorry to tell you this. You should just ask him why he goes on myspace on the time, he could say just to meet new people. But all girls, cooooome oooon lol. No boy who has a girlfriend would go on myspace just to talk to girls. It really seems like this guy is playing you girl, and you do not need that in your life. You should go talk to him and see what he has to say. When you do note how he reacts. If he reacts all calm hes probably just trying to make some friends. If he reacts all negative like 'why are you accusing me of cheatin, yea theyre girls, but theyre friends' ya boy is most likely two playing you. If you stil dont know what to do you should get a myspace account and talk to some guys 'just for fun and friends' the same time amount that he does, mabey that will fix him.
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You didn't state your age, but...\n\nSince your boyfriend has a girlfriend (you), he has been "tested and proven."  Meaning he has something going on and is dateable.  Plus, people often seem to want what they can't have.  If he hasn't shown signs of being unfaithful, then best to not worry too much about it.  It will only keep burning at you inside until you become angry and resentful.  Then your boyfriend might start taking a more serious look at these other girls.
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Well, if you feel like you may have something to worry about then confront him about it, otherwise give him the benefit of the doubt. Girls may flirt with him and try to get him to go out with them but if its YOU that he really likes then he wont cheat on you. Remember its important to go with your gut instinct and dont get mad until there is evidence that there is something definately to be mad about
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Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
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I would be really careful with this..you don't want to appear to be the 'over anxious' girlfriend, but neither do you want to be taken for a fool.  Keep an eye out for what is happening..and make sure that there are no obvious signs that he is 'cheating'..as in a lot of time spent places that he cannot or won't explain to you.\n\nChances are that if he is willingly talking to this girl in front of you there is nothing going on...\n\nThe best way to find out is to ask him..and if you don't like his answer do something about it...
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Just ask him if he has a girlfriend if he doesn't try and flirt with him a little.
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If you want him to trust you, dont do or say  things to give him reason to mistrust you. Some girls foolishly tease that way, and dont realize it.
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It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
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Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
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Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
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I wouldn't use friends to get the knowledge I want. It's not a good policy. Even if your friends are beyond suspicion, I think that won't show a lot of maturity, and some guys don't like that. I know I don't. Frankly, there are few things in life that I find sexier than an honest and corageous woman. Simply ask him.
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Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
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Trust me, it is. (Don't worry, I'm a girl!) I'd trust my boyfriend with my life, and I love him with everything I've got! You know, generally speaking, I trust boys more than girls, because most boys can be trusted to keep their mouths shut! (So can a lot of girls, of course!) Another thing I love about guys is the way they treat their Mums, and their friends- they really do love them, you know. Now, don't go round telling all the guys you know your deep dark secrets, but trust me, you WILL find a guy you can love, and trust, sooner or later! Good luck!
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only if he said yes.  give him the benefit of the doubt.  I'd text the chick back though and let her know you are his girlfriend. Maybe she didn't know about you.