On and off boyfriend?
103687
i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
625918
get a boyfriend/girlfriend who likes it too
702524
If You Really Like the Boy and He treats you like a Queen..Otherwise you are better off being a Self Supporting Strong Independent Lady Who can Take care of Things for Herself!(You Actualy Need to Be That Boyfriend Or Not!)
541435
What does your boyfriend think about this??
192153
depends.. Where does your boyfriend want you to go.. and if it isnt a good place or what you really want, don't do it. Take time to figure out what you want, and then make your decision
720143
I was in the same situation with my boyfriend, and we started dating 5 months ago.  It works well for us because we are sure to allow each other to spend time with other people, too.  \n\nWhether or not you start to date him, just remember that it is your choice and he can't force you to do anything.  Also, if you do start dating, the transition from casual friends to boyfriend and girlfriend can put stress on any relationship, so don't rush it.  And remember that just because your title may have changed, that does not mean that he has or you have any new physical obligations to each other, especially since you sound kind of young... then again, I'm only 15. =)\n\nIn summary, it's your choice which should not be based on looks alone; just be careful!
987988
Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.
991210
IT's difficult.  Being in a relationship with a workaholic has it's highs & lows.  It really depends on the type of person you are.  Do you like/enjoy alot of alone time?  If not, this type of mate probably isn't ideal for you.  I love my alone time...and I date someone who works alot, it's a sacrifice.  I guess if the person is worth it, you make it.  If not, you decide it's not exactly what you're looking for & move on in life.  Sometimes time away is exciting when you finally catch up...and sometimes it's just too few & far between to deal with.\n\nGood luck, T  :)
1033653
Well....it really depends on how you feel for him. If you actually LOVE him then yes but if you can go without him and not worry about him being around or not. No don't create bad relationships. \n\nSincerely-Fudge
127514
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
860781
I've been with my guy for 4 years.  We started dating in college and so saw each other almost every day.  We did speak every day.  When we became more serious we would stay at one person's room at night so we could say goodnight and goodmorning and be together.  However, I now live far away from him and so we at least try to say hi every day but we only see each other once every couple months.
357812
I live about an hour away from my boyfriend; it has its challenges, yeah, but it works out pretty good. I think as long as you continue to communicate throughout the week you should do great - spending weekends together is awesome.\nWe've been seeing each other for almost 2 years now. \nGood luck!!
143905
im not alowed 2 hav a bf and i've been w/him 4 almost 3 months. its really hard 2 avoid suspision. but we always usually sneek a kiss or something at scool. u guys dont hav 2 go out every weekend, u can just talk 2 each other on the phone or online. as long as ur communicating w/him
630428
definitely, in true love! & there's someone out there for everyone. you just have to believe. i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and everyday, my love for him keeps growing. this is my second boyfriend. my first boyfriend was a jerk.
959058
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
623773
If he thinks you're on the\ncomputer too much---Welcome to the club!\nMy boyfriend thinks I'm on the computer\ntoo much,but,it helps me relax.That way,\nI'm more fun to be with!\n Besides,if you let this guy dictate what\nyou can or can't do,then,he's a control freak!\n  Find someone who understands You!
593087
Personally? I'd go on the date, but no-no to staying over. Sensible may be boring - but is best for long term! If he wants more than a hook-up, he'll wait a little while!