Im in love with my Psychiarist, is that fatal?
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you're not in love with him your co-dependant upon him.yes it's fatal. if you give someone that kind of control over your life. change psyches. This person obviously isn't doing anything for your self esteem issues.
451252
Do you honestly feel that he could be violent? Was he ever threatening and violent with you?\nBi-Polar (manic depression) causes periods of extreme down moods followed by extreme highs. It won't cause him to be violent unless he already has it in him and you will know deep down whether or not he has got it in him.\nI know you are exremely worried. The only thing I can say is to try and keep an eye on the situation and maybe keep a record of the phone calls and any other abuse she may recieve. The more you have the more the police will help in these situations if it comes to that.   xx
555110
Just tell him how you feel and come clean about things. If you get butterflies in your stomache when your around him and if you can picture a life with him in the future then yes its true love!
663057
well that is why America is #1 country in the suicidal list :)) and no it is not hard having the person u love and he loves u back right by you, you'll be just fine!!!
473848
first of all,you have to be really careful theese days who you talk to ok,second,it seems he has real issues,and is playing mind games with you,if he were to kill himself there is nothing you can do ok,third,most people who talk suicide never do it,its the ones who dont say anything who do,fourth i love you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) it will be ok,just please be very careful ok.
785938
it is okay to love someone for that long.. but if they dont pay attention to you, dont pass up other realtionships that could turn out to be good just for him. best of luck and i hope it works out for you =)
244322
All of us who might answer this question would love to tell you yes your dream mate is around the next corner. Yes this could happen and might.  I am a man and will offer this advice.  Most ANY physical disability will not stop TRUE love.  Personally I would not care.  If I "fall in love" with a woman, the physical aspect of the relationship just doesn't matter. We're programed in America to gravitate towards "beautiful underwear models" and so many wonderful, "beautiful on the inside" people are missed. That special person is there.  Do YOUR part to be beautiful inside and out, be social and don't give up! That TRUE love will show up. Not knowing the disability I can't zero in on any specific advice, but believe me, there is someone out there wishing and waiting for a true love like YOU.
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What you are experiencing is called "transference". Some may be useful but your's is too much. You and your psychiatrist should talk about this so that it can be worked through and become less of a problem for you.\n\nIf your psychiatrist is unwilling or unable to do this, then you need to get another psychiatrist. It is unhealthy for you to keep this present level of "bonding".\n\nSometimes, transference takes the form of the patient feeling that they have fallen in love with their doctor. On the doctor's part there is something that can happen that is called "counter transference", where the doctor either feels like you are his daughter or that he is in love with you. If that happens, then you must find another psychiatrist unless your present one can get both you and him out of this.\n\nThe person who said that some doctors/therapists take sexual advantage of this is correct.
324387
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
793415
If u don't put that poem in a book , magazine.or something then u have a problem. I LOVE THAT POEM! It's like...... unexplainable. But i myself love it, i wish that i could find a intelligent,sweet, caring man like you. That is my wish. I wish you the best of Luck for who so ever you're with. She has no choice but to love!!!
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Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
721612
youre only 10.....get on with your education and stop screwing around. theres no way in hell you are in love. maybe get a dictionary and look up what the word means
452063
Definitely - I was lucky enough to find mine at a young age, (28, him 37) and we have shared a brain ever since the first time we started speaking to each other. . .and we are sooooo happy we make people sick!! My life is wonderful ever since I met him.\nKeep on believin it!!\nIt WILL happen
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Honey, bipolarity will KILL a relationship.  Trust me. \n\nNo matter what he does, or doesn't do, you have to focus on YOU right now.  Are you on meds?  If no, why not?  That is priority one right now.  You have to get stable in order to maintain any relationship.   I don't know what he does or says or doesn't say, but right now it's all about YOU.  YOU have to have a clear head and meds will do that almost instantaneously.  Don't let this ruin another relationship.  Holidays, stress, we all got it.  Manage yours and he will appreciate it.  Don't lay your stuff at his feet.  Get your act together.\n\nYou said he has a very physical job and is tired - don't put more stress into that.  Just fix you and see if everything else falls into place.\n\nYou can get meds from your family doctor, you don't need a psychiatrist.  Call your doctor tomorrow.
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
134939
u cant stop thinking about that person
575048
Well, I would say yes. If this is truly what you are into follow your heart. Don't be a stalker but let him know how you feel and hope he feels the same way also. Good luck!