Should I tell my wife?
109561
That's just... weird.\n\nShe must be FURIOUS at you for using up all the hot water all the time. Shame on you.
44876
I would suggest you don't hurt your wife that way and come between two sisters. Will you really be able to live with yourself knowing that you came between two sisters. Obviously if you love the sister or anyone else, you should be asking for a divorce, but DO NOT tell your wife you are in love with her sister, dude.................
1142192
If I were you I would tell her sometime when ur alone w/ her. Good Luck. You never know, she might feel the same way.
1132761
Just let her know that you are happy with the husband you have and it is necessary for her to tell you anything about him unless you ask.  Let her know that you don't believe that telling gossip about one anothers husbands is productive or strengthening for each others relationships with your husbands and is detrimental to establishing a friendship between each other.  If she is has morals she should be able to recognize this and hopefully refrain from those activities.
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
722170
I am a wife and to be honest I would say Heck Yeah!!! you should tell your wife but, let me say this the first thing I would say to you (as my husband) What the F@?K were you doing looking at her, changing clothes anyway!!! Now that's an honest answer as a wife, now just to be on the real. let me say, she knew you were there, believe it, and she did it as a show for you, so if you don't want to start no stuff in your marriage I would tell you to tell your wife that it's time for her friend to leave before she goes any further and you have to explain why you & the friend are so friendly now, follow me?\nI want you to realize something right now, women do not have respect for other women when it comes to things of human nature, it's their way, always, have you ever notice that two brothers can share a bedroom all the way up to highschool if they have to but, girls No Way!!! as soon as two sisters hit a certain age (normally around 7-8 yrs-olds.) They have to be separated, that is because they can't stand each other's smell, it's not a funk or anything, it's just (Our Nature) Dude get her out of your house before it's too late, that is if you honestly want your marriage to be okay.
605813
Only if you're comfortable with everyone knowing because she will spill the 'secret' to someone eventually.  If you're already 'out', then just tell her.
649775
Your wife is lucky that you're a man who has no secrets behind her back. Eh, I'd just bcc her just to appease her. You don't have anything to hide anyway, so I don't see a problem with alleviating whatever concerns she has with a simple bcc.
622384
NO dont tell your husband!!! It will only create an argument and make him even more irate and jealous!!! If you want to keep your marriage then i would recommend putting a halt to the steamy make out sessions with this co-worker. But if you are legally seperated and headed for divorce then what you do in your own time is your business.
914975
Yes she did and she should tell her husband. You, on the other hand, need to stay out of it.
824099
it doesnt hurt to tell her. she might feel the same way
398041
You didnt do this while with this girl did you? If not I can say this much: Never hide anything. If you really love this girl then dont be afraid to tell her. I know from experience and I can say that we have the best relationship even when we were separated half the world apart
1082332
First off, she is NOT your wifes best friend if she would make advances towards you. If I were the wife I would not want to know if it has all been stopped and I mean stopped. Do NOT ever be alone with this woman again. She (and your stupidness) could ruin your marriage. I've been in this situation with my spouse of 35 years. I was the stupid one and I too came to my senses. When he tried again I told him it never happened. He got the message. I vowed never to put myself in that situation again. I did NOT tell my husband and the other person eventually disappeared from our lives.  I am glad I did not tell.  There would have always been that doubt planted.  I know I have behaved ever since but he might wonder. Should the best friend decide to tell then you have your problem to deal with.  Avoid her unless wife is around. Some will say it was just a kiss but there is a seriousness here.  Good luck
868537
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
485117
Of course. But if I told you, they wouldn't be secrets. Sometimes small secrets are really for the partner's benefit, like keeping a gift from them until it's time to give it to them. Others are bigger secrets. I find that I have to have some of these, just as I know she keeps some things secret from me. I'd never have a secret that I thought would  harm my partner.
1127634
No...you shouldn't tell him, nor should you be involved or get involved with him. So long as he is married there is that chance no matter how slim that he could reconcile with his wife, and you shouldn't be there to make that impossible or harder for him to do. You are also only opening yourself up to hurt by being involved...best to stay away.