my friend said she left me cause i couldnt get over an ex.  should i try to get my friend 2 come back to me?
114734
get over your ex and then see if you still want your friend back....
456665
There had to be a reason that your friend ditched you. Try talking to your friend and see whats up!
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
859834
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
616801
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go
125010
Well the next step it seems to me, is to just come out and ask her.\n\nMy friend, if she is continuing to go out with you she may be feeling the same way or already know that you want her back. But you should still ask to be certain.\n\nWhat is the worst she can say? There can be only two answers to a question like that and one of them is the one you are longing to hear.\n\nSo suck in your pride and ask her.
286132
from experience my friend asked me could she go out with my ex.\n\ni told her i didnt care at all just remember why he and i are not together. and also told her when it dont work out i do not want to hear why. cuz i already been through it.
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
407350
If you are her true friend then you will tell her exactly what you told us.  You are not going to go back with her but want to remain friends.  Just be open and honest.  It is the best policy.  And honestly she may get hurt if she has that deep of feelings for you but at least you will not have the guilt of "leading her on".
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
120103
If your best friend left you then you don't have to be friends with her, however if she just left you to go hang out with someone else for awhile then I wouldn't ditch her just yet. Just ask her if she's still your friend and have a couple of your friends watch out for her behind your back in case she insn't what you think she is.
519969
Its not a bad thing it just means your normal, and no your not a bad friend. She sounds like a lousy person anyways for leading him on. Just give it time and things will come out then you will have your chance. Just hang in there.
932749
It depends on how serious they were...If she was really into him, and is still hurting from the relationship, then obviously, No. But if they have moved on and have remained friends, and can look back at their relationship and laugh, then Yes. I was in that situation and my friend actually suggested that I get with her ex, because it was so obvious that we had chemistry. Sometimes girls fall so hard for guys that we become blind to others feelings though, so make SURE your friend is okay with it. But even if she isn't, if it's meant to be with the guy, it will be.
361970
steer clear of your ex you've been there done that and you know it wont work out. Of course you want to be back with him because its easier to look back and remember the good stuff but once you get back together with him the bad stuff will come flooding back.\n\nAs for his friend if its a close friend of his might want to steer clear as could cause trouble both for you and his friend as well as heart ache that could be avoided.
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
192659
if she's betrayed you, she's not a true friend. Find someone who will stick with u through thick and thin. That's a true friend.( or he);)
892128
From experience....a friend "is" what she is looking for.\nShe obviously has not had enough time to get over, settle in, or even realize and let what has happened sink in. \nIf you get involved with her at this point...you are asking for a heartache. Sorry.  It will comfort her, but she will move on or go back.  You will be left in the cold.  I believe that you did the right thing and if and when she gets her head on straight, she will call the one who "let" her go.  Her friend.  If she doesn't; she was not worth having!