Why do already taken women always say "you would make such a good boyfriend." when they can't back that up?
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I agree with you. \n\nSome girls are so gullible. All a man has to do is give her some good d!ck, and talk sweet to her...and they're in a trance. Anything their man wants, they give it to him with no hesitation because they feel they are being good girlfriends. \n\nEven though the man is not doing anything beneficial for the relationship finacially, the woman still stays. The only time the girl would feel used or unappreciated is if the man ended up cheating or doing something to cause their relationship to end. I think those girls are either desperate, or afraid of being single.
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A lot of times it's because they WANT you to be with whom you really like. So it excites them. People like to feel needed and helpful. That's why a lot of times they will run and tell the person. It's not to embarrass you even though it does! The next time someone does that to you just know it's because they genuinely do care for you and they just want you to be happy!
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Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
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never think somebody is too good for you !!\nEVERYBODY has their strenghts and weaknesses..What do you mean : too good-looking for you or something ?\n\nIf you knew how many women are considered "too good" and are just ordinary like the rest.........\n\nMen too.........\n\nTry !! You do not know her do you ? so how do you know if she is "that" good in whatever field you think of : looks, personality, job ???\n\nEverybody is human..\n\nAmd if she behaves like a "snotty type" : ignore and move on..men are the same..
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I have found that they do, its just hard to find them sometimes.  Many girls, once they get past the "ewwwww" factor they like dating a guy who is considerate, thoughtful and mature.   The only problem i ever found was that sometimes their bimbo girlfriends would interfere and try to "save" them from dating an older guy.   You have to have a girl with some self confidence and who can tell other people to f*** off.
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To me, guys ask that question moreless to see if you would mess with so-and-so because if you said that you would then they can assume that you are easy and a hoe but if you say that you wouldn't mess with him that you are uptight. Sometimes a guy just ask the question to see how you respond to them. I know I have been in that predictiment plenty of times. So the best way to answer it is to say, "I don't know who or what you are referring to because I never went anywhere with so-and-so." Because that leads them to believe that so-and-so lied about alot of things and they will try to mend what they feel was inappropiate.
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When i Burp my BF says "good one" :) Real men dont care about either coming out of a woman after you are together for a few months +.
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That's way too honest.  People can't deal with the truth.  They're too afraid of their natures.\n\nI say "I want you" or things to that effect a lot more than the others you've mentioned.  I've gotten over being afraid to tell a woman that I want to use her for my pleasure regardless of emotional connection.\n\nThey're human too... they're looking for the same thing we are.
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Yeah, that gets annoying. I'm the type of argumentative a** that will always fire something back to make them realize how stupid of a statement they have just made. Try something like this:\n\nGirl: "All men are assholes"\nGuy: "Well I guess that means that all straight women are stupid, because why else would they be with or want to be with an asshole?"\nGirl: "We don't want to be with an asshole, we want to be with a nice guy"\nGuy: "Well then you have either just admitted that there are nice guys, making your previous statement false, or you have just admitted that you want to be with a guy that you know doesn't exist, which is ridiculous, and only suggests stupidity"\nGirl: "You're an asshole"\nGuy: "That may be true, but I'm right...and thats all that matters"\n\nWarning: This approach will certainly not get you laid....but it is funny, and it will point out the fact that she is wrong to make such a statement.
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Why is it that the men your refering to know they don't have to have a lasting relationship with you or why is it that your relationships are not lasting...I have found women think they can attract a man one way and think they can keep him another way...You sound intimidating and perhaps your a challenge, and once they realize your just like other women, they lose interest or consider the challenge over...there can be many reasons...just try and be the person you are and allow Mr. Right to recognize thats the person he wants..good luck.
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Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
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No No No mind your own business,\nthings were going great between us until she opened her big mouth. I had everything under control , she was just jealous she didn't have a man , with her fat ugly self......\n\nI can still be a good man sometimes...........
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yea it sounds real familiar, it's because a woman can't make up her mind. It feels good but were not suppose to do this, but I like it don't stop. But if you stop they can become bitches about it even though they say it. All it is, is another mystery of how a woman thinks and we men just get into trouble when we finish and they don't
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I dont think guys even realize the impact that those words can make. I think sometimes they use it to get what they want and be on their way and they think girls would be prefectly fine afterwards. Maybe they just dont know, or I am sure some just dont care. But I only let it happen to me once. After that, I just assumed they were all lying till I knew it was true. Even my husband admitted to me that after we first met the first time he said it to me, he wasnt telling the truth he just thought he needed to say it. I know it will be hard but just dont have take "I love you" to heart till the actions (over time) fit the words. Good luck!
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You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
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Yes, agreed. I wouldn't read too much into it. I've had strangers who are women say this to me and I always warm right up when they say it. I've heard somewhere that suggests superiority but I just don't see it. The women who usually say this to me are usually older and kind.\n\nI also say this to my husband sometimes as many couples do to each other.