I fail to trust My Boy friend. How do i do that?
112639
Get a new one.\n\n\nTrust is a fragile thing and onec it is lost or broken is almost impossible to repair.
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
624088
He can't be trusted you should move on Good Luck!!
341209
GET RID OF HIM..how do you expect to be in a relationship if you can't even trust him...and he doesn't trust you..
238274
I'm going to be honest.  You may never re-earn your boyfriend's trust.  If I were him, I would break up with you right away.  You were a jerk for cheating.
631473
start a new one with someone else.\n\nseriously!\n\nonce the trust is broken u can never fully regain it. u will always be wondering!
228633
I guess U can't trust on him at all, since U're here asking us about it. We have your doubts and that's perfectly normal, but the only thing that I can tell U is: try to trust on youself not only on him, because sometimes we don't trust on ourselves and that's the reason why we can't trust on other people.\nIt's also a matter of self esteem and self confidence, if U know what U have and U know what U're, just try to be secure, and in that way U'll feel better.
409090
Because he isn;t trust worthy.  Say this to him "_______ you told me if i couldn't trust you then we need to break up.  Well i can;t trust you because of the way you're acting and if you're not willing to help me to trust you by not acting that way then guess what, goodbye"  dump him before he cheats and really breaks ur heart.
240742
You need to show him that he can trust you! Don't do the things that his ex did.  Go above and beyond what you think you should be doing!  Show him that your CrAzY about him!
1043991
Don't let it mess up the relationship. He is with you.  If you trust that he wont stray, let it go.  But if you don't trust him you should let the relationship go.
752265
Turn it around and tell him he obviously doesn't trust you, which means he doesn't care (feel love) for you.\nNow have HIM prove it if he doesn't agree!  ;-)
721185
you won't know.. men are bunch of liars. they can pretend to be trustworthy until you find out that they are not. just be careful. i mean, trust your man but use your common sense.
302310
He's either going to trust you or he isn't.  There isn't anything you can do.  He's the one that has to do the doing.  He has to change.
324931
Watch the tape with him, and point out why it cannot be you.\nIf he doesn't have a tape he is a psycho. Or he's just bluffing to try to get you to "tell the truth". And that's just sick.\nIf he doesn't trust you over something someone else said, he is not worth your time, and will never trust you, because there is nothing you can say or do to prove your innocence. My ex boyfriend played little mind games with me all the time, and didn't trust me. People with trust issues like that have one of two things wrong with them 1. he was cheated on before and can't trust anyone anymore 2. He himself is not trustworthy. Take your pick. He's probably got more issues than a news stand. I'd dump him. I know it sounds tough, because you have some history, and you probably love him if you're going through the trouble of trying to make things right, but seriously, if he doesn't believe anything you say, do you think you can be happy with him?
1077725
It isn't always easy to trust. Especially if you've been burned more than once.\n\nGet to know a person well. Trust them little by little. Trust them in small things first, and that will show you if they can be trusted with bigger things. Eventually you'll have a close circle of friends you know you can trust. \n\nRemember, not everyone is out to betray you, and not everyone lies. Hang in there!
161269
Rather than looking for an Internet site, try this: call the number from a phone that your boyfriend can't link to you. For example, a payphone. \n\nAnd really, if you can't trust enough to let him have some privacy in his social life, you shouldn't be with him. All it's going to do is create havoc on your relationship. Watch the movie "Little Black Book." I speak from personal experience, jealousy can destroy a relationship.\n\n--\n\nAddition: I spent three years with someone who cheated on me in the first year. I could never fully trust him again, whether or not my fears were correct (and they never were after the first time - he never cheated on me again). I finally had to end it after freaking out when he left his phone at my house and I discovered several videos of another girl. After the break-up he broke the news that he wanted to marry me... but I knew I couldn't go through with such a big step in our relationship when every month or so I suspected him of cheating on me again.\n\nMy biggest suggestion to you is to think about what the impact of your suspiscions and fears will have on your relationship, and if you think it is strong enough to withstand it.
894244
you dont so if you dont trust him leave him save yourself the stress