A older woman dating a younger man right or wrong?
107789
Not at all, if you're both happy
694540
i'm 20 and with a 29 year old man. i think its ok to date who ever u want as long as its legal.
111015
I am 32, husband is 31.\n\nI don't think the age difference is that drastic, having dated a 38 yr old at 19. \n\nI think a lot of older guys like younger women.  Why??? (boy am I going to catch flack for this, ready....?)\n\nBECAUSE THEY'RE NICE.  Women your age (37) have been married & divorced, probably a couple of times by now.  They are overall jaded and in survival mode.  They have kids, probably (which is not that big of a deal but has a lot to do with their priorities in finding another partner, which is as it should be.)  I am not saying all women are like this, but I bet more than a few are, and I bet you dated them too, right?\n\nAt 22, most women are still open to being hurt, and just don't have as much baggage.  I married first at that age & had my daughter- was divorced a couple of years later and was a little bitter & wary.  2 wacko heartbreaking guys later, and I just decided to let go & see.  Enter fabulous now husband.  It's all OK. \n\nI think if you love her, she loves you, and you treat each other with respect and want the same things...\n\nGO FOR IT HONEY!  \n\nAge isn't much when it comes to love.
1027175
As long as both are consenting adults it's nobody's business but their own....   Age is only a number and state of mind-it's what's in the heart that counts...as long as u keep it real anything's possible
1080048
they started dating when she was 18 and he was 25
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
853501
Being married to some one a few months older is not wrong.\nOr years older it is who you love that matters ..\nPeople are narrow minded about women and younger men.\nguys like older women because they are more mature and know what they want out of life and know what they want in a relationship..\nThe only thing I am against is marrying a much younger woman , almost to being a pervert..and same for women..
370148
Yes it is wrong, cheating or adultry begins in the heart and the eyes are the door to the heart. Even if she is not upset, he shouldnt be looking.
261661
You make the rules, not them.  They are trying to force the situation, but if you just play it cool, you can continue to date anyone you please for as long as you like.  Trust me, if a 30 year old guy is getting it from a 20 year old chick, he's not dumping her just because.  They will both stick around, where you will have plenty of time to figure out what you may want in the long run.  Until then, tell them to relax and enjoy the gifts that life has to offer.  However, you may wish to keep the other guy to yourself.  That's your business, not a love triangle.  You are free not to choose.
553575
She's an adult. I say go for it. Your not that much older anyways. Just 11 years. My mother and my dad are 8 years apart.. and my mom has dated a guy that was 13 years younger than her. Now she is dating someone that is almost 20 years older than her. I say as long as it's legal, than age ain't nothing but a number!
200088
It depends in part on how old you are...if one or both of you are, say, under fifteen or so, that's a big difference in terms of maturity, etc.  \n\nWith that said, I'm a bit older than my bf (two years in school grades, one year and a couple months in age) and although I got a bit of teasing about "robbing the cradle" at first (and I'm willing to bet he got jokes about dating an "older woman") we've been together for quite a while now, with no age-related problems :)  So no, there's nothing wrong with that.  Good luck!
919553
I am 23 and just broke up with someone who was 52 why do you want someone younger? i think its fine as long as both people are okay with it you can email me if you want allison_buchanan2003@yahoo.com
1095058
I think it's fine. IN the tenn year,s it's pathetic because both people are growing up and they have no idea what they wanna do in life- they just date out of pure lust and "puppy" love. \nHowever, when you reach late 20's, early 30's it doesn't really matter. And considering the fact that if someone is 6 years older and you don't care about it- that makes the bond between the two even stronger.\nAnd anyway; many people fell that only anotherm more mature person can understand them- and if it takes a 6 year difference, let it be!\nSo technically, as long as the love is there- anything's possible!
293492
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
914002
no it is wrong, because maybe there was a chance he might return to his wife, maybe he is confused on what he wants to do, and the other woman will just pull him in her direction.  it is never a good idea because he has alot of unresolved things going on, and needs to think it all over. the other woman is taking a big chance in allowing this, it could always backfire on her.
653247
It means an older woman looking for a younger man.
411198
I think that this would depend on not how old or young someone is but how old they act. You could be a man dating a younger woman and the man could just be a young at heart fun loving adventurous person, like the younger girl.  It also really depends if you are both at the same maturity level.