My bestfriend, my boyfriend now?
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Quite honestly, you'll never kno until you try. Sometimes, best friends are great as boyfriends. He already knows you -- your likes and dislikes, your tastes, your past relationships, etc. -- and he didn't just become a best friend overnight (15 years of friendship is a *long* time). Then again, sometimes best friends aren't good boyfriends. He already knows you, but maybe he knows you too much -- how you will react in certain situations, how your pet peeves sometimes drive him crazy, etc. Truly, you have to follow your heart and your instincts on this one. I wish there were a "crystal ball" that I could point you to that would give you a definite answer... but I'm afraid the only way to find out is to actually be in a relationship with your best friend. God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
426449
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
903645
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
743755
No.  I am sure you are still his best friend.  He is just into his girlfriend.  Give him a call and try to schedule a time at least once a week.  Unfortunately, it does happen, when someone gets a boyfriend/girlfriend, they "forget" their friends for a little while.  You can let him know that it isn't healthy to spend all his time with her, that it is important to spend some time with his other friends too.  It isn't going to be the same though.  Try to get him to spend some time, like once a week as a guys night out, or once every week.  You haven't lost him.  He is just distracted at the moment.  \n\nDon't give up on him.  Best friends stay together and are there for each other when needed.
377703
Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
338190
I'm a guy but I think my rule of thumb in a relationship works for both sexes. You date.. then you break up.. and when you break up, there is a good reason why the break up happened, and now you need to move on to someone else.  Life is just way too short and precious to be lingering over what could/should/would happen...  If your best friend made you break up with your boyfriend.. is she really your best friend? Most guys have an unspoken code of conduct when it comes to friends' girlfriends/wives (unlike movies or TV shows) Move on....find you a new and better man.. and make your ex and your best friend realize what they lost when you walk in with your new beau!
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This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
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bf = best friend\n\nb/f = boyfriend
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had a conversation w/ his best friend where his best friend told me he luved me (i liked his best friend for 4 years) and that he (being the best friend) wanted to make out w/ me.\n\nmy bf still doesn't no
826500
Snagg him up before someone else does!! after i got married (to my best friend) two years later i met another guy that is now my best friend and if my husband and i ever parted, i would choose my new best friend as my new life long mate. It helps that you guys are already best friends, that's a good stable foundation. Good luck, and make sure to tell him how you feel. Even if you don't say, show it.
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
920844
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
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Follow your heart....who do you really want to ask? Does your guy friend like you back? Who do you think you would have a better time with? In my experience, sometimes becoming more than friends can be a mistake, but other times it can be the best thing ever....my boyfriend is my best friend...we have the best relationship, and we started out as friends.
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Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink
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Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
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If hes your boyfriend and best friend then sit down and tell him that your a person who likes to keep thing discreet.