Do you tell on some one just because your mad at them?
109748
No.  When you are angy at someone and tattle, it is more revenge than caring for the person you tattle to.  No one will appreciate you if you do this....and no one will trust you.  It is now none of your business, he is out of your life.  Your ex fella will doom himself in time and this will mean more than anything you could do or say.
498270
have you told her how you feel?
265840
Tell him/her how you feel and to stop.
1006580
I would tell her. The sooner the better. She probably won't get mad at you unless it's been a while but even then she'll eventually appreciate that you came to her and let her know what was going on.
781679
Tell someone! Your being abused!!
359787
Yes and no.  In my opinion if they don't know that you hate them the only person that gets hurt is you.  If they somehow find out, then they it may hurt them, especially if they care about you.
477924
no if i did someone would be getting hurt real bad and wouldn't make it to tell about it.\n\nI feel so awful when things like that happens.\nPeople are so sick out in this world.
660455
The only thing it depends on with me is if you are trying to come between me and my family in a harmful way..\n\nOtherwise.. I forgive easily .. unfortunately I am a softy and try to understand where everyone else is in their lives, I give them many more outs than the normal person would.. so if they have even half the friendship as I have with them, they'll find it easy to come and say.. "Ya know what?.. I over-reacted.. sorry.. wanna go get a beer?" and know that even though they were having a bad day.. week life..I wouldn't judge them as harshly as they did me when my feelings were hurt. \n\nAll people have faults.. friends have limits and breaking points, so do you.. if you're feelings were hurt, why were they hurt.. because this person acted so fouly, or did you take it too personal or hold this person in a higher regard than they should have been? \n\nTake the high road.. feels good every time.. even if you almost bite off you tongue sometimes..take the high road.
129670
You had him for five years and now want to know if to get mad or not? Interesting. I think if it's really affecting you that the best thing to do is mention it to him and talk it out.  Getting mad wont solve the problem and staying passive when it's bugging you wont solve it either.
1148324
no the person does not know this let them know this and hope u dont make them too mad
796997
I just say it and if someone gets upset then that is their problem.
546141
How should i know what makes you mad??
906417
yes, a lot of times. i have felt the need to mask my feelings a lot of times. specially when i know that someone might get hurt if he/she knows how i feel about it, and i don't want to hurt him/her. some people might say it's dishonest of me to do so. but  u have to look at both the sides of the coin.\nalso, i don't show the real side of me, except to a very few people who i think can know me. it's exciting this way. like making someone discover u layer by layer. \nfrankly, i don't know what i'm talking about now! \n\np.s. if i falsely claim that i am a hypocrite, does that make me a hypocrite??
214108
Tell him that it was just a joke to see if he would get mad at you.
347142
Well, if you tell him, I hope you will also honestly tell him that you genuinely feel bad about it.  What you did was hurtful and he's probably going to be hurt when you tell him.
519833
u need to tell ur friend thats gettin mad that there really isnt a reason to be mad...if there is a reason...its stupid...and juss tell them how u feel about it.
1028635
My best outcome for angry people is to just leave them alone until there feeling better ,then approach them with concern and kindness,they will be more open to you and apologize if they took their anger out on you...