If i go to dinner with some of my female friends while my gf is out of town does she have a right to get mad?
116646
Not unless you did something you shouldn't have while out. Let your girlfriend know that you are just friends with them and that's as far as it goes. She shouldn't be like that over friends. Does she still have guy friends she hangs with?
1128998
depends. if she's single and is doing it to just have fun, then i don't see a problem with that. but if she's in a relationship, then it's a different story. women can go out and have fun and sleep around just like guys, just as long as it doesn't happen like every weekend. that's my opinion anyway...
311173
hey dude, where are those girls, send me some addresses.!!!! i coudl use them...\n\nthe truth is that you aint mean dude!..you are just a nobody who thinks women are smiling at you...NO MAN, wisen up, that is how they snarl!!!....\n\nyou want them to hate you??? give them a kitchen and ask them to have dinner ready by 8 pm!!...ha!..
1147592
I think you hurt her. The thing about this situation, is you messed with a girl who cared for you and now that you showed her your bad temper, it made her realize that she doesnt need that in her life. Men dont understand that half the reason why women leave them is because they have said something that offends their girlfriends. Girls have mixed emotions that get hurt easily. It seems like you hurt her feelings. Just keep calling, she may or may not answer. But next time you need to listen to her side of the situation first, unstead of jumping to conclusions and yelling at her before you even know why she didnt call back. Good Luck
908997
No.  Just explain the situation to him in a similar manner as you have done here and he should be understanding.  My family lives out of town also, but when they come, we always spend more time with them because we only see them once a year.  If the roles were reversed, I'm sure he would expect the same from you.  \n\nTell his family that you will have them over for dinner at your place either before or after they go to the cabin, so it doesn't seem that you don't want to spend the holidays with them either.
513683
NO... dinner and a movie costs, what?  30 bucks?  Sweetie, are you worth more than 30 bucks?  Yes.  You are.  Hell no he has no right to ask for sexual inimacy, and he has no right to be angry if you say no if he DOES ask.  If he gets mad, his loss hun, NOT yours. ♥
254135
No! I would see that as a slap in face saying "I want presents, but I don't want to pay for your meal or trust you to behave like an adult on my special day." The only time i would do it is if the friend is really close to me but cannot make the wedding due to a major plan, like moving or taking a big vacation. Unless you want this to be the last time you see the person, it would be better to just have a little event, like seeing a movie or having dinner to celebrate, since such things don't oblige presents.
508672
They really should not get mad unless you are married. If you are married then leave the friend and stick by your wife. If you are dating and she is jealous that is a sign that she is not the girl for you. Move on!
632219
As far as your "good friend" DO NOT LET YOUR MAN GO TO HER HOUSE WITH OUT YOU.  That is your friend not his, I can see if it was his friend.  There have been to many instances when matters like that turn into infidelity.  Be careful with this one.  If I was you I wouldn't allow it, and if he puts up a fight, then he is sleeping with her or if he continues to go without you knowing, he is cheating.  After all she is your friend and he should have female friends of his own.  Another thing, is everything going good between you two?  If there is some fighting and bad vibes I wouldn't allow him to go run to her.  Me and my man had a dicussion the other day about this subject. Something happened between him and his best friends girl, before us.  She came on to him when he was visiting with out his friend.  He left when she tried and he told his friend about it.  His friend did not believe him of course, she called her man before he did.  They use to hang out together and go out so it thought it was okay to go over to her house and wait for his friend to get there.  So you see where this is going you just don't let things like this happen, and you don't put yourself in that kind of predictement.  Not to say that everybody is like that but you don't want to take that chance with your man and your friend.  What we both agreed on is when you are in a relationship and you make friends with with your partners best friend who happens to be the opposite sex neither one of you should be hanging out with that person without your mate around it is not cool, it's some what tachy, and disrespectful, even when you are married.  I mean you have to have a very legit reason to go to your man's male friend house alone, and the same goes for him.  We leave that for the for married people who have established strong trust in each other and their friends.  Couples who have been married for years and their friends play a big part in their life.  Other than that, giiirrrl you better stop that s*** quick!  But sorry to say love, it already sounds like your man is doing your friend so start preparing to kick both of there a***** and dump his loser a**.  Move on and take my advice don't allow your man to see your girlfriends without you.  Just keep your girlfriends at a distance until you find out what kind of man you are dealing with, PERIOD!  Good luck and much love.  If you need to chat later feel free to contact me.
231620
I think you have that right to go out and have a nice dinner somewhere.  Try dating a geek, they really appreciate women.  They will pay for dinner too.  It sounds like you are living with a sponger.
786301
What's the problem, I don't understand.  You could make a friend as well.  Do you not like your partner to have female friends.  Who cares if they have a past, it obviously is not an issue now.  Why are you hurt?\n\nEDIT - You said it yourself, you are insecure.  I'm afraid this is not his problem, it is yours and you are going to drive him away.  Would it honestly make you feel good if he gave up his life long friends because of your paranoia?  You need to stand tall and embrace his friends unless they give you good cause not to.  Like, I said, you may like them and you may get some close friends yourself out of it.  My partners ex girlfriend and I are tremendous friends.  I am thanful to have her in my life and not once have I felt that their past is an influence on me, nor do I compare myself to her in anyway.\n\nI think you may be a bit over sensitive - after all 3 days ago you were freaking because your boyfriend's family ate dinner without you.  Lighten up, girlfriend, it's not all about you.  \n\nPlease allow yourself to gain some self esteem for the sake of your relationship - good luck to you too, hopeit all works out 8-)
1053827
FIRST OF ALL YOU SHOULD NOT BE WRESTLING WITH YOUR GIRLFRIENDS SISTER OR ANY OTHER FEMALE IN FRONT OF YOUR GIRLFRIEND. YES SHE SHOULD GET MAD AND EVENTUALLY IT WILL CAUSE A PROBLEM BETWEEN THE TWO SISTERS. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR GF SISTER TO GET HER A MAN SO YOU AND YOUR GF CAN HAVE SOME PRIVACY.
225442
Yes of course you should. Ultimately it's up to her if she comes or not depending on her situation. Etiquette would dictate that she let you know in good time, say a week, beforehand of her intentions. Just think how offended and upset she would be if you didn't invite her and remember, pregnancy is not an illness.
8115
Ok, first of all, your bf/gf isn't your husband or wife, so he or she has no obligation to tell you something like that unless you guys live together. IF you a courtesy note would have being nice on his/her part to let you know where he when so you wouldn't be worried. \n\nAnd if he or she didn't tell you, well. Get over it, he/she has a life, and independent life. You are just part of that life. \n\nNow, the question is are you mad because he didn't tell you? or were you pisst because you didn't go? what ever your reason is. Get over it, something like that would be a good enough cause for a break up. \n\nThats just me, i like to be independent and have my space and time respected by anybody. You should respect his time alone or with his friends
639384
Drama!!! Let her be mad.  You know what you can do is flip the table on her; tell her that you are mad at her because she will not come out to see you.  Make it her issue!  Ahhh, young love! You guys have too much time on your hands. Enjoy this time!
1057675
well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
549107
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.