my ex is trying to talk to me and wants to meet up with me?
109686
when your heart feels right you mind and body will follow. if you like or love him go for it if your heart feels right dont second guess yourself go with first feeling and you wont go wrong. remember if he hurt you one time he will hurt you again and if your really into him and he gets you like that again then imagin the pain you fill when he breaks your heart for the second maybe third time. you can stay friend with him and make him suffer i would go but i would play a mind game like he did or will try to do. play his game gurl and remember to love your self more than you love others
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
92454
May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.
195992
Well now, I don't know. I mean he is your Ex, surely he would be in a position to know. Maybe you should ask yourself why you've reacted so strongly to something you should probably just laugh off.\n\nIs it possible he's hitting a little close to the bone?
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
269133
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
626372
Honey, I know what you're saying. My ex does the same to me. One day, he's the best thing you could ask for, the next he's unbearably mean. On a good day, I accept that we've had a good day. On the bad, I hope the next will be better. Don't call him for a few days and see the change in his attitude. He's gonna treat you like dirt as long as he knows you're waiting for him.
628796
She's looking for attention even if it's negative attention.  If she's your EX and YOU want to keep it that way--for whatever reason, then continue ignoring her and eventually she'll get the clue.  I think she's trying to either get you mad by talking to your friends, or get your attention just to keep you hooked.  Either way, it's not very mature, but there again, you and her are still in school--the both of you have alot of growing up to do, before you become mature.
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
930227
yes i know what you are thinking girl, and you are probably right, i know my ex would have said no way! unless it had some thing to do with the kids, he probably wanted to see you...
986542
either he has no feelings for you and is going to do what he wants, when he wants, and with whom he wants or you might be jumping the gun and trying to see something that isn't there. some ex's are friends and my GF has one that she talks to once or more times a week and its just because we have kids doing the same stuff at the same times. my trust is with her, she will always have friends that aren't mine and I the same. i will never tell her not to talk to him, she isn't with him anymore. this is a trust thing and if you can't trust him the best thing to do is get out while you can still see daylight. waiting will only cloud you sight and you'll never have the power of surprise. this power will get most to change anything. try it and if it doesn't work out for you, well your already moved out and all you need to do is get on with your new life.
869758
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
967887
she's your ex\ndeal with it\nyou cant demand anything from her at this point, as she doesn't play a vital role in your life anymore.\ngive her time, she may come around.\ngive her some space, about a week.\nthen try again with the calling.\ngood luck with hearing her voice
468494
he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to go persue this relationship with your friend and possibly chat on her with you, going back and forth between the two of you.\nget rid of him.
914934
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!