my boyfriend has an anger problem and sometimes he gets to the point where he is going to hit me,what can i do
103237
run away, leave him before it's too late, have a little self respect and don't let people treat you like a doormat, stop pissing him off... all of these are valid answers.  pick one
1116893
You need some anger management or some help. Why do you have to ask the general pubic, WHERE TO PUNCH SOMEONE??  You have a problem and hope you get some soon......
342122
All these suggestions are good-- I also suggest counseling or therapy. . . Whatever he's angry about, he needs to forgive himself for, or make amends if it's possible.  After that. . . this is what Homer Simpson says, and I don't even like the Simpsons!\n\n"You can't keep on blaming yourself. Blame yourself once and then move on. . ." pretty good advice, now that I think of it.  Finally, your boyfriend is lucky to have you care about him.  Convince him that you both deserve a hopeful future, and that he needs to get help and move on.  Take care. . .
114200
If love is true, then I would suggest counseling and possibly anger management classes or something.  You certainly don't want that to happen again and lose control for either of your sakes!  Good luck!!
485364
Kind words turns away wrath. Never argue back with someone. It adds more fuel to the fire. When he starts raising his voice just smile and say ok dear. This confuses them. Because he would expect you to argue with him but instead you did something positive. When he ignores you just start singing around the house. But not too loud. If you are not \ngoing to hug, kiss, or caress him then keep your hands to your self. Hitting is physical abuse. It hurts. When he insults you just laugh and brush it off. Once again you are confusing him. At this point he doesn't know what to think. \nYou keep doing this then he will stop the insults, the yelling, and the ignoring. You'll start to see a change in his behavior. A positive change. Someone has to start putting out the fire and it might as well be you.
788238
leave while you still can before he tries to sucker you in with i'm sorry ect, if he was mad enough to hit you once more than likely he will do it again...
1113938
Get outta there. It is obvious are some extreme issues. If he can not take charge and wipe out the problems, then there is more to this, get out now before you get too hurt or worst involved in an abusive relationship. You don't need the headaches.
604189
i'm also angry person!! Just do like my boyfriend does!! ANd it's work. Just sit still and dont' say anything. Your girlfriend will feel regret and feed bad in what she done just like me.
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Tell him where to go. I mean it.\n\nRead the fantastic book on the subject:\nThe Verbally Abusive Relationship\n\nYou are being verbally abused. It is all about power, his power over you, making you feel less than him.\n\nGo to http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1558505822/002-4628612-4610440?v=glance&n=283155\n Read the reviews for it.\nThen read it. It will explain what he is doing and why and what to do about it.\n\nYou don't have to let him sap the joy out of your life if you know what is going on and how to handle it.
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Think about it in reverse.  What if he were the one who slapped you and broke your braces?\n\nIf that happened, he would probably be in jail AND paying for new braces.\n\nI don't think physical violence can ever be appropriate.  If he was being a butt, then break up with him or leave.  Taking your hand and slapping him hard enough to brake his braces is totally crossing the line.\n\nMy advice to him is to immediately break up with you and don't look back.\n\nSorry, but that's my honest opinion.
567923
LEAVE...NOW. you never knoe wen he will become violent with weapons. unless he already does but you are putting your life in danger by being with him. why would he hit you if he loved you? he just wants you there so he has something to hit. get help now! its your life you are allowing to be abused. STOP TODAY
1158787
sell he's things on ebay... burn he's clothes... pay a bum 50 dollar to kick the shit ot of him... Then pt drugs in hes pocket and ring the police and say he hit you... Then break up with him because he is a looser... Take Care I wish you all the happiness in the world but get rid of him... It's only money... Good Luck... I will give you a hug if you need one... i feel sorry for you...
511355
It seems that he feels you have issues and you feel he has issues. Maybe there's a way for you both to compromise. Maybe you can promise to fix what it is that he thinks you ought to fix, and maybe he can attend some kind of anger management class and fix his problem too. If there is a child involved, you both have to be willing to do something to make the world better for the little one.
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I won't tell you to slap him, because that would be wrong. ;)\n\nMaybe yelling at him as loud as you can when he's bothering you?
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Leave him, chances are you will be next This is how alot of domestice violence begins. \n\nBut call a family member and plan it ahead of time.
231755
I think you are the one who is not in love with your boyfriend.  You should leave him.  And no man has any right to beat anyone, but you make it worst staying with him after he has beaten you
253128
Well if he hits you. you shouldn't even need to ask this question you should have respect for yourself and leave him, I know its hard for you but its not healthy for you. Once you get away you will be better off