what do you do when the only person can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
107485
YOU break the cycle.  Why would you want them if they made you cry?  Obviously they did something that made you cry and you want them to undo it to make you stop crying.  If they hurt your feeling, you want them to tell you they didn't mean it.  If they left you, you want them to come back.  I'm sorry to tell you this, but it doesn't work that way.  YOU need to make a decision about what has happened.  You can continue to cry or you can decide that the person and situation is just not worth it.  Find the things and people in your life that don't make you cry and leave the person who made you cry behind.
112562
you just kow. but the other person has to feel the same way! so ask them, or tell them how you feel
693399
Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.
782606
You should first stop crying and look out why you have to cry for this man. He might not be worth for you to cry for. If he likes somebody else, you could not really do a thing. You can't change his mind to like you. It's hurt , I know. However, while you are crying, there might be a suitable guy walking past you by. I don't want you to miss that new oppotunity of yourself. Think about it carefully. Life is yours. You'd better go on. What you did for him was enough, as a very good friend. Nothing left to be sorry for. Move on and take care of your own heart!
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
380415
disassociate yourself from the thing that is causing you to be angry with this person. you are not doing yourself any good by being angry, especially if the other person does not care with the emotion your having.
1176624
If feel the same galfriend.Bottling up sometimes destroys the person in turn destroying what the two of you have had.Letting flow of those drops sometimes heals the pain.Its ok to cry coz it gets rid of some toxic in your system.But i cant deal with someone who turns into a crybaby.
298800
i was in the same situation!!go with your heart.who will make you happier??
550527
Go for a walk and just have time on your own.  Talk to yourself about what got you so pissed off, what you should have said, what you are going to say, but without screaming or yelling so they could know that you really mean it and that you are not just talking because you are mad.....  I think that is the best as it will prevent you from getting physical with the person who caused you to get the way that you are and you will avoid saying something that you will or may regret....
348481
You need to tell them that you are sorry that you said that and you never really meaant that and you were just mad. You both just need to accept each other and make-up. Hope this helps. Follow your heart Love is Friendship on Fire.
612595
Tell the one whom u think u have hurt. First clear it up with him/her that whether u have hurt the person or not. Maybe the person has just the opposite response. And maybe u r wrong.
265840
Tell him/her how you feel and to stop.
286951
Leave him be. You can't make somebody love you, especially if they love somebody else. No matter how hard it is or how much it hurts, let him go. Nobody ever wants to hear that, but trying to force it or taking desperate measures (NOT saying you would do that) always leads to a bad ending. If anything, just be a good and sincere friend. I truly feel for you. Your heart will need plenty of time to heal and I wish you the best.
974954
To put yourself first and stop worry about the person that hurt you.  The only person that you have worry about is your feelings and making yourself whole again.  Everyone in life makes choices and you have to deal with them and realize that you can move on and be happy on your own.   And like momma always says LIFE is not fair. \n\nIt also take alot of time so don't think the pain will go away just stay focused on YOU! \nI wish you better days!
260135
IGNORE him or her. The only reason he/she keeps doing it is because it gets you upset. This gives the person a sense of control over you. If you ignore him/her then they loose that control.
92886
Stop being used by this person.  Make yourself unavailable and move on.
62663
You cry.  You scream and yell and throw your own pity party, if that is what you feel like doing.  But most importantly, you take time for you.  Heal, and then move on.  Take the knowledge that you have learned from them and make your life better with it.  Good luck.  I'm so sorry that this happened to you.  But things are not always going to feel this bad.