Why can't I get a boyfriend?
99598
Maybe you're trying to hard and coming across as pushy, needy, clingy, weird or desperate.
350235
Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
894366
you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
1038596
Rather than to put your concentration on boys make sure you're keeping up your grades and putting important things on your plate.  Boys will be around forever don't be in such a rush. Wait till you're a little older. U may find yourself in a not too good position and not ready for the situations boyfriends may put you in. And at your age you don't have to do ANYTHING to get a boyfriend.  They're on the prowl hun, just be careful!
74417
because you can't get a girl
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
1041038
HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,
43497
The fact that you're asking this question reveals that you are still quite young.  Don't worry so much about getting a "boyfriend" at this point.  There will be plenty of time for that later.
276593
If guys are telling you that you're hot all the time yet you can't seem to get a boyfriend maybe other guys are intimited by your looks. They may feel like they don't look good enough to be with you, or you wouldn't give them the time of day.\nOr consider how you present yourself. Even if you are hot, alot of guys don't want to be with a girl who may come off as too flirtatious, easy or sleezy. Not saying that you are, but some guys may get that vibe from you or assume that you are just because of the way you look.\nNo matter what, I wouldn't worry about it. Rushing to get a boyfriend is rushing to get your heart broken.
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
229506
first, desperate women don't care what a guy would look like, but I guess that's solved since you aren't a woman yet. second, you're too young to absolutely NEED a boyfriend. third, if you are searching online and exclaim you're desperate it's a bit redundant. and fourth, if you're such a cutie, why can't you find a guy in the real world?
859946
why is it so hard to find a bf... i feel the same way
130895
hey! i dont know why have a boyfriend! well i dont have a boy friend now! but maybe later i will have one. and it is fun to have a boyfriend so thats why!
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your not too young.\n\nbut if you need to ask how to get one, there must not really be a guy that you have on your mind yet. \n\npretty much just be yourself. dont push yourself to be easy.  to try to get a guy, because then hell tell all his friends that your easy and youll just be used... you have to look for a nice guy who will respect you and youll be happy with. find a guy that shares some intrests with you.\n\nalso dont act like a ditz. youll just down grade yourself into looking like an idiot.\n\ngood luck.
454135
You can feel alone even when you are with someone. More than likely you are more mature than the guys you have been running into and have more of an intellect. When the right guy comes along he will notice you. Besides you may find if you go out with some of these guys you mentioned, that they are very shallow and have no real personality. You don't really want to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. I would not let not having a boyfriend bother you. In fact, I would use the time you spend by yourself to allow you to become more independent. This may sound corny, but if you can be a friend to yourself and be happy being by yourself when the right guy comes along, he will see your self-confidence and that you know who you are on the inside, and your relationship with that special guy will last for a lifetime. When you run into that special guy on your journey through life, trust me, you will sparkle.
635068
im a girl so yea im anwsering as a friend lol but your really pretty or i mean your avatar i think you have a very good chance of getting a boyfriend if you already dont have one
271951
First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.