is it wrong when i ahve sex with a girl and then try to have sex with her best friend after?
114083
If you dont have any ties with either of these two girls, and arent worried about the wrath they will put on you, then I say go for it! But if you do have something going on with either of them, I dont suggests you do.
966410
Not wrong at all.  Two consenting adults that wish to engage in the act should be more than welcome to, regardless of sex.  If that's what you want to do, do it.  Who are we to judge?
548794
no as best friends you are supposed to be the support system for your friend when going through a divorce not jump in and be with your ex how would she have felt if heather had started sleeping with here ex no matter what else has happened as friends you should never cross that line and then why would you want to sleep with a man who used to sleep with your best friend i think it is disgusting immorral and wrong and i feel for heather she lost a husband and a friend i think celebrities have this notion that they can do whatever they want and sleep with whoever thwy want because they are famous if i was to sleep with my best friendsex husband my whole family would disown me\n\nwhile i agree that once you are seperated you cant control who your ex dates i still think it is wrong for your friend to cross that boundary because she is your friend and like your mommma always teaches you men will come and go but true friendship is forever which means as a friend you would not betray the trust by dating the ex
175612
There's nothing wrong. But it all depends on both of your age. If you are 20+ and planning to live together, then I think Sex increases your level of intimacy and you will become more closer than before.\n\nBut if you are still in school, then probably you both are doing the right thing and leave sex as something you will explore when you are "there"...\n\nHaving sex, for the sake of "i have done it too" is toooo childish.. \n\nAs someone said above, both of ya sit n have a talk about it.. Im sure u guys will work it out.\n\n.:Fishie:.
434929
If nobody is harmed and no self-respect is lost, then no, it's not wrong.\n\nBut of course, it's rarely that simple.  When a betrayed spouse or lover discovers the betrayal, then the simple one-night stand becomes much more complicated.  Even where there's no betrayal involved, many people find it difficult to reconcile the one-night stand with their image of themselves as decent and upright persons, because our society has attached so much guilt to sex that it's a wonder we can think about it at all.\n\nThis is turning into a long-winded answer.  What I mean is: Sex is not wrong, therefore one-night stands are not wrong in themselves.  The wrong part is all the other stuff that tends to go along with them.
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt
729967
if you have a desire to b with someone else, then you dont wanna b with her, YOU DONT LOVE HER, tough its not right to want to be with her best friend, youre playing with fire there, leave the girl and find yourself someone that is NOT her friend, there are plenty of girls out there for you to go after the one that you know will cause you trouble, sounds like youre young, the girl youre with now, or the one you meet tomorrow might not be the one for you, but still you have to go triugh the experience, just learn from it
216132
Why not tell your wife that you want to have sex with her best friend? heck you might get lucky and get a double pleasure for your effort.
516253
Of course it's ok!\nas long as you are comfortable with it and take protection.\nIf you both are consenting adults, why not?\n\nBe careful though... sometimes those one night stands can develop feelings for one of the participants.  \nThat can make things ackward.
1071528
I vote, forgive AND forget. Why else would you bother calling her your BEST friend rather than just a friend? Take a chance, a risk. I think she's worth it. We all make mistakes.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
363244
Its really her business who she had sex with, and you dont care anyway, so dont discuss it with her if she is uncomfortable with it.  Go after both at the same time, and see which one acts better and makes you feel good-dont try to go after one and try to keep the other one on a leash.
602264
I do feel that was right because you would want your friend to do the same thing if the roles were reversed. He obviously would of done something behind his girlfriend's back if you had given him the green light.\n\nShe is better off. Don't feel bad they broke up or guilty that you told her. You did good. Don't let nobody tell you different.
985839
if you are thinking about getting a woman drunk so she would be with you this is wrong. first of all if you were ro get her drunk first and then have sex with her this would be the same as raping her. if she doesnt have feelings for you when she is sober don't try and bring any out by getting her drunk'
20608
I agree, it's wrong. But if this person is really your best friend, then you should talk to them about it. If they have no good excuse, then obviously they aren't a very good friend, now are they?
1064582
First I want everyone to know that this was a long time ago and I changed myself drastically because of this screw up. I slept with my best friends crush the night of their first date. I regretted it instantly but decided to keep it to myself and no harm would have came from it, but someone found out and my best friend and I, well.....lets just say were not friends anymore.
555630
It's okay, as long as it's okay for your girl friend is out scoring with an old friend at the same time you are banging\nyour neighbor.  You'll never know about it, so what will it hurt?