Why does my boyfriend keep cheating? He says he loves me and I treat him like a king.?
100038
He keeps cheating because he can, because he KNOWS you will always go back no matter what he does. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It would be best to get away from him. Get rid of him, he's not worth your time and love.
1162463
I can relate-I am also in a long distance relationship, I'm in Hawaii,he's in Maryland...  The best thing for you to do is trust him..  Just because he asks "baby, do you still love me?" doesn't mean he's cheating on you.  One thing I've learned about most* men in relationships, is once they say they love you and they mean it...They feel very vulnerable and generally need reassurance that you feel the same-they are trying to avoid heartache themselves... You two need to talk more and communicate alot more than you already are, tell him your worries and if you seriously think he's cheating on you then you're probably right.  If your gut feeling tells you he's not, then he's probably not.... Go with your instincts.
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
924325
Maybe he was trying to be committed to your relationship and didn't want to cheat on you the way you cheated on him.  Pathetic!
392888
If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
1139451
I used to have the same problem. I told him exactly how I felt and broke up with him. 3months later he crawled back on his knees. From then on he has been the perfect boyfriend, even 3years later. \n\nIt really depends, but if he loves you he'll realize that he needs you and come back and treat you better. and if not f*k him, you don't need him if he doesn't need you.\n\nhere are some guidelines for the future:\n*Always put urself and ur happiness 1st\n*If a man wants you nothing can keep him away, if he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay\n*You can't change a mans behavior. Change comes from \nwithin\n*Dont ever make him feel he is more important than you are\n*Dont make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less\n*Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you \n*If you think he is cheating, he prob. is, and if you feel hes lying, let him go\n*Actions speak louder than words\n*NEVER let a man define who you are \n*Know you deserve to be the #1person in the life of the #1person in your life \n***LOVE is a verb.....
680515
sounds like you have trust issues and if you do then this relationship is over. even if he isnt' cheating on  you if you are convinced that he is he might as well be. first thing in any relationship to survive is trust and communication. there are no for sure ways to see if he is cheating the only thing you can do is keep an eye open and make him feel wanted and loved. make him feel like a man, if he feels like one then he'll act like one.
540159
If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.
446930
Well i will like to ask \n1)if he is a cheat? \n2)Does he steal? \n3)His he faithful to you? \n4)Does he keep to his promises? \n5)Does he fight you or get mad at you easily? \nwell if these answers are yes, then it worth you being worried. All you have to do is to kick his fucking ass hole out of your life and get on with your life. A lady with a nice heart like you, deserves being love and cherish by a nice man.
124148
He's not lying about what? Seeing other people? How much he really 'loves' you?\n\nAnd aren't you lying to yourself?  Do you _really_ love this guy?  You've cheated on him once already.\n\nSave yourself a lot of future heartache and worry.  Break it off now.  Invest some time in yourself, and find someone local that you can build a real relationship with.
645675
You just got played! No one made him do anything he didn't want to do. He cheated on you. Period. Can you live with that? Your answer to that question should tell you what to do.
603710
It's worth trying.If he's still with you that means that he's got strong feelings for you but he also can't get over the fact that you have cheated on him becouse he THINKKS you don't care for him as much as he does for you.\ndon't play games with him.if you love him too,try to get his trust again..
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.
631121
Leave him and find somebody else. If he cheats on you he doesn't love you and so he doesn't deserve you honey!
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.