Why do i like him so much? is it because i can't have him?
99356
It sounds to me like this guy has a great personality. Usually women fall for men that can make them laugh. I know I do. We also fall for men WHO HAVE GIRLFRIENDS. It is definitely a case of wanting what you can't have. He is a challenge because even though I'm sure you think you guys "click" nothing has happened between the two of you. But think of it this way...If he did hook up with you while he was still with his girlfriend, and later on he became your man, wouldn't you wonder if he would do the same thing to you that he did to her? \nTo get over him, just accept it for what it is, you like him because he's a challenge. So get over him, get over it and focus your attention on someone else...who doesn't have a girlfriend.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
495249
Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
769278
I know that you don't play to long!!!   Why play hard to get if you like  him?  Life is to precious to be wasting time...get together and enjoy each other!
683591
ok, i DO NOT have a bf, but i do REALLY like this guy at my church.... the reason i like him is because he is sweet, funny, kind, cute, dumb(in the funny way, like he's clumbsy around me) and he's just a sweetypie and i have no clue why he DOESN't have a gf yet
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
266441
DON'T STOP liking him!. Acknowledge and embrace the fact that he's a.) unavailable and b.) a great guy. Hang out with him, be best friends with him, whatever... Guy friends are one of the most wonderful relationships to have, seriously (All of my best friends are guys). You can appreciate him as a friend for a longer (not to mention less complicated) time anyway. You'll probably still like him for a while, but the sooner you re-categorize him as your buddy, the sooner your heart will be available to another great and AVAILABLE guy. There are plenty out there, but you are probably too preoccupied with this one to notice. Plus, the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you'll see factors that aren't what you want in YOUR guy in him.
67410
some people really only want what they cant have. i bet that u have alot of other good, quality guys that really like u ,but 4 some reason ur just not that attracted 2 them that way. he probly has some feelings 4 u but he knows that no matter what he does ur always gonna b there. so start thinking the same way. u should probly stay away from him as much as u can bear. try 2 ween ur self the best u can. but make sure that u really do have fun, though. if its really meant 2 be itll happen. but dont put ur fun and groth as a person on hold 4 a maybe.
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
1007538
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
266421
love him, dont always like him
1030002
it might not be him at all but rather the idea of him that is making your mind return to him.  You said you really liked the guy.  Well it could just be your brain returning to thought of settling down or whatever that meant in your mind....i.e. safe place, love, purpose.......But then again I am no dream expert.
209368
You won't accomplish anything by ingnoring him. In fact, if he wants to get back with you, this will worsen his condition, and will look for you even more. But if you are asking us what you should do, then for sure you still like him. Because otherwise you would just have disappeared from his life.
108295
Yes I definitely think that u r falling for this guy.If we like the company of someone then it is the first sign of attraction.But if we recall those moments again and again and our heart fills with strange kind of happinaess then its nothing else but love.Now you evaluate yourself whether this happens to you or not.You just forget about the fact that you know this guy for a long time.Imagin as if its has just started and then you see how do you feel for him.If his presence still brings a smile to your face and his absence makes feel sad or lonely then its only love dear.
613182
it is just one of those cases, that you don't want him, but you don't want any one else to have him either. I would say that he must have potential that you noticed, there for, it sounds too that you may be afraid that she will be getting the good part of him, or that he may change for her. Don't worry, we all go through it. We have all been jealous at some point or another. Just don't let it get to you, & move on to a better guy.
326046
Sounds like you really have a thing for him. Just relax and let everything come natural. Don't be blind to his negative ways. But if he is good to you just take it slow and everything will work out.
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.