Is it wrong for me to like girls?
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There's nothing wrong with experimenting.  If you wanna try something new go for it as long as you know that the decision of going for it is "safe".  \n\nWhy I mean by safe is try to make sure you don't hurt someone by the decision you reach.  Even though people can get hurt no matter what you do (or don't do) you should still be sensitive to them and try your best to minimize the damage.\n\nYou are young and as long as you are alive you have time to try out new things.  I believe that lovers (boyfriends or girlfriends) come and go in and out of your lives.  However good friends (let alone a best friend) are hard to find.\n\nSomeone advice you to talk things over with your best friend because for all you know she may be turned off and you could lose her.  I liked that advice, that's one way to be sensitive toward someone else.  \n\nHowever I would also add that if your friend is as close-minded as to "break-up" your friendship over something like that (you wanting to be with her), then YOU NEED TO FIND BETTER FRIENDS.\n\nI guess the same goes for your silly boyfriends.  Trust me there are thousands of guys that would love to have a bi-sexual girlfriend.  If this guy can't handle it, if he is trying to own you, you may be better off FINDing A NEW BOYFRIEND.  Perhaps find someone that will be more understanding of your needs.\n\nI hope you find this helpful!\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com\n\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
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I am a junior in High school, There are three girls that I really like, but whichever one, becomes my girlfriend(if any), then I will still like the other ones, but I won't do anything about those feelings.  It is OK to like another guy, just stay faithful to the one your with.  Be content with the guy you have, and if things don't work out, then try the other one.  but, just try to devote yourself to the one your with, and he should do the same, give it your all, and enjoy it.  then no matter what you are happy.  Best of luck!\n\nSavage
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honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
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I wish I could see a photo of you! Anyway, leave your bad moments and FOCUS ON GIRLS WHO REALLY CARE ABOUT YOU! Unfortunately, you haven't chosen the right girls! And I 'm really sorry about that. I don't say that it's only girls' fault. You may be a little bit responsible for that. DON'T BE TOO ''TEDDY BEAR'' NOR TOO ''DANGEROUS''! Be somewhere in the middle!
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It should be up to you, not your family.  IF you like a girl, you should go ahead and ask her out, or if you are already dating, dont worry about your family.  IF they are really your family, they will understand, and except her for who she is.  Goodluck
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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It is not wrong to like your friends girlfriend on any level. What would be wrong is for you to pursue her period no matter how much of a tease she is. That would be stabbin your boy in the back. No one wants to lose a friend over a chick. Girls come a dime a dozen, friendship can last a lifetime. Think about it!
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yup. been there, done that. Unfortunately my first girl-crush was Jessica Alba. lol\n\nI guess you could possibly be bi-curious. Is this girl into girls, or just guys? If she's just into guys, and really doesn't show any interest in you THAT way, then maybe you could just be friends. Hang out with her, and maybe down the road you could tell her you have feelings for her. She may search her feelings, and find that it'd be worth a shot to see what being with a girl is like.  If she shoots you down, so what? You have a great (cute!) friend anyway. \n\nIf she's into girls, make friends with her, and let her know how you feel. Even if the whole girl/girl thing doesnt strike your fancy, you may end up with an experience that will change the way you feel or think about yourself. It can give you a whole new outlook when it comes to future relationships. A little secret, a girl knows how to please a girl.... It can teach you so much more about yourself. \n\nI wish you luck. I hope everything turns out for the best.
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maybe you need to take a good hard look at your attitude!! you only like hot girls, mayb these so called hot girls are as superficial as you and only like hot boys\n\nlearn to get to know people and dont judge ppl by looks, and mybe they wont judge you
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If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
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First of all - you're welcome @ answering your "weird fact" question, lol.  Well, I guess it's alright if you are a girl and have all guy friends as long as it's alright that I am a guy and have all girl friends, which I do.  Nothing wrong with it...afterall, It's not like you will be marrying a girl, so why would you NEED girl friends in your life (unless you are a lesbian, in which case nothing changes).  I'm not predjudice, so it is alright if I use this word freely. :-p
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You should act normal when around girls. You probably have the nicest attitude and positive mind that girls should like you for what is inside of your heart not what heritage your from of what country or what colour. if a girl doesnt like you for what you are then you should look somewere else and find a real person that will.
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There's nothing wrong with liking both genders. Recent scientific studies have shown people are born with predispositions towards being straight, bisexual or homosexual. Its important for you to explore these feelings. Dont attempt to hide them inside, or lay lies on top to make it go away. A few years ago there was a study done in England's mental wards and they found a significant portion of patients had had bisexual tendencies that were suppressed. Dont do that to yourself.
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i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
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God Bless you for wanting to do the right thing.\n\nGod made men to think exactly the way they do.  it's not wrong for you to be attracted to attractive woman/girls. what is wrong is going further with those thought; until they become sinful.\n\ntry this:\nyou see a beautiful girl.  think to yourself;\n" Thank the Lord for putting beautiful people on this earth.  Thank the Lord that i have one for my wife!"\nif those thoughts continue, just try to think about something else.  sounds lame, though, right?.  hey, give it a try!
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You like what you like...and there is nothing wrong with that. Don't make it out to be a bad thing, as long as your happy who cares what other ppl think...best of luck