it was valentines day and im worried about losing my gf?
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CAN'T LOSE WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE, GO ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT REALLY APRECIATES YOU, SOMEONE THAT IS NOT EXCEPTING CRAP FROM OTHERS. DOESN'T SOUND LIKE SHE WANTS TO BE YOUR GF
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Don't feel guilty... she's the one leaving you remember... Just move on, if she really loves you or even likes you she will come to you. And find someone else to love or to hang out with, not someone that goes in and out of your life like nothing.
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If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
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Get counselling.\nThat is the best thing you will ever do for yourself at this point.\nYour girlfriend has done everything your controlling heart has asked,yet you were unable to do for her.So now that she is gone you want her back.\nIbelieve that right now you need to take care of yourself by going into counselling to help you find out why you are insecure.Did something happened in your childhood?\nWhy are you so controlling? Why are you afraid of losing control?\nUntil you are happy with who you are, you will not be able to complement her in that respect.She also will have to be happy in herself.\nWhen she sees that you are going to counselling it will help her to realise also that you truly love her,but do not do it for this reason. DO IT FOR YOURSELF.\nIf you don't you will end up right back where you were.\nNow that you know what you have to do, you do not have any excuse.\nHope I was able to help.
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Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
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Well you really just have to follow your hearts! Just askk your self which gilr is gonna give you just as much love as you put out? A girl that wont isn't worth it! Just because you dont get to see your girlfriend alot doesnt mean she doesn't love you.....
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talk to her...tell her that you love her but you really need to have time off together with your friends like she does...she's probably scared of what you might do if she's not around...so ensure her that you love her and you just want time with your friends because they need you too...tell her to think of this as time to miss each other so there's more "spark" when you are together again..
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we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
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I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
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i'm not trying to be mean or anything but if u rly love her and care about her, don't rush her into things. Maybe she is not ready for something like that. Give her some space. She most likely loves u for who u are. I am not saying that u think anything opposite of that. I am not trying to be mean or anything. u don't have to take this advice or anything if u don't want too.
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Well, i think this girl loves you very much and fears losing you and that you may cheat on her
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she outgrew you probably. u can either grow up or find another gf
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I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
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You're afraid of commitment. If you love her, or care deeply for her...just run with it. You need to trust this girl. Long term relationships can be very rewarding. You should give it a try.
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Everyone in our life has some kind of special feelings in our heart and a diff. place for everyone, so ur friends should understand ur concern to spend quality as well as quantity time with your gf but at the same time they are your friends and even they need some of your time and attention so my simple and sweet advice for you will be Spend quality(not quantity) of time with your friends and gf. Just coz you have a gf today doesnt mean that you forget ur friends and same goes visa versa so just remeber to be in touch with everyone at all times it can be just a cute hi
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What a good brother to worry about her!\n\n\nthis is not about you.\n\n\nshe is hurt hon ,\nand you are her string to life. If she loses you what will she do? She needs some reassurance that she is beautiful and amazing.That you are on her side and the person that hurt her is nuts.You would of course never hurt her and if you weren't related.... of course you would marry her. Then go with her to a support group or to therapy. she has just simply lost too much....this was the  straw that broke the camels back....everyone grieves differently.  you and your girlfriend need to spend lots of time with her good luck
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Maybe she believes in you and that one day you'll make her happy, you only ever find one true love, they do say that you don't know what you have lost till it's gone and this is very true, by letting her down time and time again you'll lose her forever.  Be honest with yourself and her, there are two questions you should ask yourself.  Are you IN-Love with her??? and Do you want to be with her??? If you have let her down countless times maybe it's time to stop before it's too late and you lose her forever, sort yourself out once and for all before it's too late.  Good luck in doing so, I wish you well.