how do i get to know a chic without making an idiot out of myself?
116205
Try one way, and another, and another; until you learn how to get to know a girl without making an idiot out of yourself. But certainly, you should first lose the fear of making a fool out of yourself, and that's 50% of the battle won. The rest is practice.
394771
Do it in a charming way . Eg. he says would you kiss me You : kiss him then say no and smile . Thats very attractive in a chic .
931412
Assume she is being a typical woman by saying the opposite of what she is thinking. Take her out, be a gentleman and then play it by ear. Chances are she will cave in if she really is interested.\n\nShe is after all, only wishing not to appear to be "easy".
420782
If you don't really know her, how do you know you want to impress her? Get to know her by being yourself and showing interest in who she is.
3843
OK, FIRST YOU GOTTA GET SOME GAME...YOU KNOW HOW IT IS, SWEET TALK OR LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT OF YOURSELF. DONT COME UP AND TALK ABOUT HOW HOT SHE LOOKS,JUST BE YOURSELF AND SAY HI AND HOW YOU JUST NOTICED HER AND WANTED TO GET TO KNOW HER AND MAYBE SEE A MOVIE SOMETIME OR SOMETHING. BUT DONT LAY IT ON TOO THICK CAUSE SHE'LL THINK YOUR COCKY!
78138
Focus on yourself, not her.\n\nGet to be good at the things you do, and learn more about the things you are interested in. If she is anywhere near you, she will notice that you are an interesting person who is interested in interesting things. I guarantee she will become interested in you.\n\nFor example, say you are interested in Architecture. So you start reading about construction techniques and advances in material science technology, and casually perouse Architectual Digest on the side. You make sketches of concepts you have for building interiors and ask questions of someone who's parents recently remodeled their home. \n\nSuch a person would be fascinating to any girl your age. She would absolutely want to be around a person who is actually thinking outside of the dumb bubbly gossip of the day. You don't even have to advertise that you are doing all this stuff, it will be very obvious.\n\nTrust me, girls dig interesting people.
289627
It depends on the person, what sex type do you want to respond to. If there is something about someone's outward appearance, then try to a casual chat. Then you can take it from there, cause you can find out what the personality is, the mentality and all of it. Just don't rush into things, take things a little slow. It's mainly your choice, your opinion, just don't set too high of standards, cause it never adds all up.
328512
You said it, "Good Listening" (and paying attention to what she enjoys and is involved in are essential.)  Forget about telling her she's beautiful.  She knows that and has heard it many, many times.  If she has repainted a room, tell her how talented she is; if she has Aced a test, lest her know how brilliant she is.  Go beyond her appearance, and start telling her how talented, kind, intelligent, creative she is.  Pay attention to her and you'll see what type of compliments would really mean a lot to her.  I always loved being told how smart I was (and quite frankly I'm usually a bit spacey.)
93095
tell her you think she's cool or something and that you'd like the chance to get to know her better
569623
first start with hi. Then, work up the courage to start a conversation like, "My, it's a beautiful day outside", or "That new brand of chocolate cake I had for dessert was sure good." Then she'd ask what kind of cake it was, and so on. Then, eventually you'll become friends and more. Just don't be afraid to act your own sweet self.
830660
Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
819523
first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
1170850
The easiest way would be online personals.  They allow you to get to know someone and actually think about what you're going to say to them, since the first conversations are usually text based.  My new personal favorite is www.mate1.com  It's FREE for women and it has tons of questions you can answer about yourself like your favorite movies, brands, tv shows, music, etc and you can place funny comments in there to show off your sense of humor.  Another good one is Yahoo Personals and www.match.com  Don't believe the hype about eHarmony.  I tried it and now call the site eTramp.
595132
well, you can always give her compliments! Find out what she likes to do, what are her hobbies! Try to find a connection that you two can talk about even deeper! You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you start talking!! \n\nGood luck to you!!
275737
ok one, movies, not a good place. you dont even get to know her that well then. Go to a resturaunt. Much better. NOW, best thing to do is have the guts, because girls really do respect guys that are WILLING and CONFIDENT in their selves. BUT, where there is a will there is a way. Go to one of your buddies, and if he is friends with her have him go up to her and say "hey, i think my friend here likes you, but im not sure, would you want me to hook you up with em?" somthing like that, that way he isnt saying you DO like her. but he isnt asking FOR you. he is just helping HER out kuz he wants to be "matchmaker" ect. so you are excluded from the shame of rejection. but having the guts is recomended. somtimes you just have to take risks for love. good luck dude.
408711
You should just be yourself...ask her questions like, what her favorite color is and her favorite music...stuff like that so then you get to know more about her and you can find out what you have in common.
530204
Go up to her and introduce yourself and then break the ice by complimenting her on something then take it from there.  Try to find something to talk about from what she's wearing or what she's holding, like if she's wearing a baseball hat, talk about baseball.  Don't be intimidated and just go with the flow.