If a girl orgasims b4 i do and she wants to stop and I'm not pleased, what shuld I do?
112911
u must be another girl cuz that really doesnt happen that often or if ur a guy maybe she got bored of u and its faking it becuz u just dont fullfill her if i was u i would make sure she really its getting whta she needs ur proudisness maybe blinding u.
424911
I don't think this will be a healthy relationship if your girlfriend behaves that way.  Tell her what you really feel & that you are not happy with what she is doing.  If she won't stop, then break-up with her. It hurts but that is really life.
1024441
Try letting her be on top more or control the pace. If she is in control, that shouldn't happen and when you want to be in control, just try to be receptive to her and not go in so far. I have this problem when I try to go hard and fast, but not so much when we use a position that isn't traditional and I can't get in so far. That way when I want to go hard and fast and can't get in so far because of the position. Anyway, there are ways you just have to be a little creative.
930092
If you both want it, do it.  You aren't hurting her if she cums for it.
231271
I didn't learn how to control this until I read a book called Sexual Solutions by Michael Castelman. He spends 30 pages on it.  Do Kegels, learn to control your breathing, move slower.\n\nAnd go. .d.o.w.n. .on her first, before you even start doing any penetrating.  Make sure she has lots of orgasms before you even start.
840709
Fingr her and eat her out, shell like that (dont stop untill she has an orgasm)
1041616
I AGREE WITH EVERY OTHER ANSWER, MAYBE YOU BETTER NOT APPROPACH THE SEX AS A SPORT ...\n\nMAYBE YOU BETTER UNDERSTAND THAT IF YOU ARE "WELL ENDOWED"\nyYOU MIGHT BE PROUD, AND NEED TO ACHIEVE YOUR OWN SATISFACTION,,  BUT FRANKLY WHEN ANY OF MY LOVERS WERE VERY]\nLARGE, IT WOULD BE  UNPLEASANT,, AND NOT EASY TO TAKE, AS YOU MAKE THEM  VERY SORE INSIDE, AND THE "THRILL I S GONE"\n\nWHETHER SHE FAINTED, OR SLEPT, GET THE HINT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH\nDONT USE HER LIKE A "CORPSE"  if she STOPPED, AND SAID NOTHING THAN THAT IS PRETTYY OBVIOUS SHE WAS TIRED, AND PROBABLY SORE,\nAND SHE IS NOT A PIN CUSHION,,\n\nHARD AND ROUGH SEX IS FINE IF BOTH PARTIES ARE UP TO IT, BUT IF ONE IS NOT ABLE TO KEEP THAT PACE, YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A REST,\n\nYOU WERE PROBABLY BORN WITH TEN FINGERS,  OR JUST LET IT GO AND BE GRATEFUL FOR THE CLOSENESS, AND THE PERSON LYING THERE] TRYING TO PLEASE YOU,,THAT WILLL TURN HER ON AGAIN\nIF YOU LET HER REST, CATCH UP TO YOUR ENERGY LEVEL,,\nHOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF SHE WAS AT A FAST PACE SHOVING SOMETHING INSIDE YOU....OUCH
338266
Damn, there's a toughy....Try talking about it, let her know that u want to try other things when u both have the time to prolong sex for u both...try oral sex after cuming to keep her in the mood...very gently though....Heck, ask her if she would ever consider bondage and role play, she might surprise you and when she's tied up, it's hard to say no to seconds...LOL
215213
Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
610497
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
378362
Lots of girls will do that.  Its just in some of our nature...the same as some guys.  If it bothers you let her know and she will probably try to cut back.  If she doesn't put in any effort she must not care. In which case I would recommend that you dump her.  But remember sometimes it just comes too natural.
277173
Ignore her. She will self-destruct sooner or later.  The more that she sees that you are bothered or vexed, the more she will continue to do it.  She's trying to get your attention and if she finally realizes that it's not working, she will stop.
62874
First you must have her trust, second you will probably need to communcate the following things to her:\n\nYou would stop at any time if it is too painful, and that would be okay. \nYou will go VERY slowly. \nIt gets better and easier over time.\nJust explain that you are curious, and it is something you want to try.\nYou will use copious amounts of lube.\n\nAlso do not push her to do it if she really does not want to.
395657
I think that it is up to you, if he is about finish. You will never be in more control than at this point, I say, Have a little fun!!! Don't quit altogether, that would be a little mean, but tease, flick, lick, squeeze, etc...\n\nThe longer you play, the more intense it will be for the guy, and when you do finally finish him off, he will be screaming in pleasure, and you will burn an image of yourself as a sex goddess in his mind for the rest of his life!!!!
1057675
well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
998479
Keep at it...actually, she is trying too hard and needs to relax.\nGet her to give you guidance...have her tell you things like "just like that"  when you're doing what she wants. \nIt's not unusual that she could take a long time ... but she enjoys it the whole time. So don't just concentrate on the climax ... it's ALL good.
908389
dude, she's break dancing, you don't find that even a little bit HOT??  encourage her. and if you really feel you don't want her doing it then send your yahoo question to her. she'll either say "ok" or "no way hosay". you can't change her mind dude, trust me, you don't wanna go and start controlling what she does, that just gives her ammunition later on in fights.