I don't want to be a heartbraker but...he's getting annoying! Please help!!!!!!!?
117466
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
340942
He sounds like he's acting like a spoiled brat to me! He needs a good butt whipping! He needs to act his age, not his IQ!! So what if you got a call from an old pal? So what?!? Its not like you were talking dirty or something. Sounds really controlling and jealous, so you better put an end to his mess now before it gets too bad. Put your foot down and MAKE him listen to you!! GL;)_
295656
nothing is more annoying then someone trying to force you to talk about something when you don't want to.  You dont have to do anything just be around. Don't try to cheer him up (theres nothing to be cheery about), don't feel sorry for him (he dosen't need pity) , don't try to get him to open up (its his problem and he will deal with it his way for better or worse). Don't act like you know how he feels (even if you do know, its not about your feelings).  Just go through it with him. its clear you care and thats all you can do. you can't fix this problem for him \nOne quote from bob dylan that always rings true during my tough times "It always means so much Even the softest touch" a gentle touch can convey more then a 1000 words
78477
Get rid of that loser immediately!!!*  And forget getting involved in anything further - it's not up to you to be the messenger for his sake.
674733
He's trying to get a reaction from you. When he says gross or disrespectful things, tell him, "I don't appreciate you talking to me like that~~you don't even know me" and then ignore him. If he likes you, and that's why, he'll change his tactics. If its just to be annoying, he'll go away.
721181
Tell him straight and dont frequent anywhere you know he will be and if he keeps appearing and harrassing you it would be wise to take out an AVO.  It is proven that jealouss boyfriends do become violent if they can't get what they want so don't muck around get rid of him today.
397561
just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
736779
Tell him you just dont like him. And cause hes annoying you.
182392
If it's really bothering you, Talk to him. If he doesn't listen, then write him a letter or 3. If that doesn't work, let him cool off and try him again in a few months.
200981
Tell him or her they're annoying, if that don;t help dump them as ur friend.
174392
ignore him. typical stupid middle/high school drama. let the guys grow up a bit and things will start to make more sense.
416334
Well, that guy definitely has a problem. Tell him to deflate his big head 'cause you never wanted to be his girlfriend anyway. You only wanted to be his friend (am I right about that? I hope I am) for crying out loud. You seem like you were just being friendly. He probably thought too much of himself and got an ego-boost when you started talking to him and everything. Ignore him and show him who's boss. He's a loser.
69291
Tell him in a direct way that focuses on how his behavior makes you feel rather than judging him or condemning the behavior. For example, don't say something like, "God, I'm sick of your bragging! It totally annoys him!"\n\nInstead, give him some concrete examples of things he's said that annoy you. Tell him specifically why that behavior is annoying to you. If you can keep the focus on neutral facts and your own feelings rather than accusing him, you lessen the chance that he will get upset.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
174892
Trust and believe he is not going to change if he's acting like this now he will be doing the same thing later. If you cant deal with it I suggest you get rid of him SOON!..... GOOD LUCK!
604211
just ignore him and move on\n\nthanks; i just reached 2000 points!
509213
Beat him up!!  No, just tell him that you don't like him like that.  If he keeps bothering you, just ignore him.  He'll move on eventually.
537079
Get rid of him!  It will just get worse!