What would you do if someone lied to your fiancee causing a breakup?
112453
well if your fiance believed the other person over you, then the relationship was troubled. don't you find it kind of odd that he's not believing you and trusting you?  i, personally, would just go on with my life, because if you two were to get back together, the trust would be gone, yes, it can be rebuilt, however, it doesn't seem to me that it was there in the first place. Just let him go on and do whatever it is that he is doing, and you do the same. There are plenty of other guys out there just waiting to be found. good luck to you!
282944
Most people lie because they don't think people will like them for who they are, so I would simply say "I'm sorry but I don't believe a word you say and until you stop lying to me and yourself I think it would be better if we put our relatioship on hold" If that's too bold try calling her on it everytime you know she's lying. But I think the 1st option is the better only because u tried confronting her and that didn't work. Propose therapy; that's why I love my horses--they don't lie and complain! It's sad to say but we can't change others the only thing we have control over is ourselves and our behavior other than that it's all in God's hands, baby! Good Luck...
1142942
OH BOY. THIS IS NOT GOOD. BUT WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? WOULD YOU CONSIDER TELLING HER THE TRUTH, OR SIT WITH IT? WOULD YOU BREAK IT OFF AND LEAVE THE SITUATION ALONE? IS THIS A LOVE THING? MY BEST ADVICE WOULD BE TO COME CLEAN ABOUT IT ALL. SORRY, I HATE GUILT.
742093
You were WRONG to start your relationship with a lie.  Now, you're having to face the consequences of your lies.\n\nIt might not matter to YOU, but it obviously DOES matter to HER.
1039303
so they would hurt her? because of you?\nwhy would you think of marrying her.?\njust tell her right now, that you cant. either lie or tell the truth!!!\nI would tell her truth and let her go.\njust tell her now!!!!
1177808
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
1080784
get new fiancee, he's not worth it
256282
If you don't trust her things aren't going to get any better between the two of you.  My ex lied to me about something HUGE and when he was caught he apologized and I took him back but I NEVER trusted him again and it led to me breaking up with him again.  You deserve to be with someone that you can trust and that respects you.  The best thing that you can do is end this now and stop dragging it out.  The longer that you drag this out the harder that it is going to be on both of you.
976341
Tell the truth. She shouldn't have lied in the first place
772792
just ignore it, cuz im sure she lied about other stuff too, once a liar always a liar, deal with it
32931
Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!
467379
That is WRONG!!! put him in his place QUICK because if you don't he will assume you are okay with it and continue to do it!! \n\nA MAN WILL DO WHAT YOU LET HIM DO!!!\nremember that\n\nIf you let him lie to you and do nothing about he will continue to lie to you!!\n\nCall him out on it let him know straight up that you will not stand for him lying to you!! and if he wants to lie tell him to get back with his ex and lie to her because you are much more of a woman to sit here and let yourself be lied to by someone you are supposed to trust!!!\n\nThere are too many men in this world who will do right by you!!!! you deserve a whole lot better than lies\n\n........TRUST.......
472755
I comepletely agree with " if you're going to cheat on someone don't be in the relationship." But if you do cheat, I think you should be completely honest with the person and then hand the reins over to them because now it's their decision if they still want to be with you. But some people truly believe in "What they don't know, wont hurt them" but the fact is that enventually they do know and you are a worse person for not only being a cheater but a liar.
387181
Just ditch him, you now know he's a liar.  YOu can't have a relationship with someone who doesn't know ow or want to communicate or be honest.
726771
Hey 'nanner'.\nIt's your best friend, you know, 'shayla'. Haha we're on the phone.\n\nWhat I think you should do....\nTalk to him and see what he says about the situation, and then try to decipher if hes lieing or not. Find out from someone you trust that's friends with him, and ask him what he's said. If you can't find anyone, maybe..... just maybe, you might have to move on. But for now, try to trust him to the best of your ability. We will get through this.
984899
I wouldn't believe him, men will tell you "anything" just for you to fall again for their lies. But...at the end is your decision if you want to continue the relationship and try again.