why  do  we feel full of confidence at times and least  confident at sometimes?
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i think it depends on how settled and content you are in yourself.  the more stable you are, the more confident you are.
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they say you want to feel confident be confident. Fake it till you make it. In other words pick yourself up by the shirtsleeves and put yourself out there. Get over your fears and go on with life.
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Its a feeling when a person feels that they accomplsihed something
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Confidence is not saying something until you are sure about it. It is knowing that you are answering in the best way possible. Confidence is self-knowledge. Confidence is the ability to feel relaxed in almost any situation. (Without being on drugs!)
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Confidence is a quality that makes your life a lot more better.\nTo be confident,you must think positive.You must not underestimate yourself.You must feel that you are different.Everyone has faults.Nobody is perfect.You must realise this and love yourself.\nWalking and standing erect,looking into the eyes of the person you are talking to, shaking hands firmly are some things that make you look confident.\nIf you feel you are very under confident,try this.\nEveryday,assign yourself some little tasks that you are sure you can do.Complete them positively.Make the next task a little difficult and make sure you complete it.This way,you surely will build great confidence.\n\nWARNING: stop when you are confident.I don't want you to be asking how to overcome over confidence.\n\nThankyou.
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You might just feel that way because your confidence level has gone up.\nThat's okay!\nRespect yourself enough to know that you deserve respect.
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some people feel if you talk to yourself in the mirror or read out loud, you get more comfortable with people. because your used to talking and listening.
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Yeah.  When you realize that high self-esteem (pride) and low self-esteem are two side of the same coin.  This lind of pride is thinking you are to great and the other think that you are not enough.  At the end of the day it is still all about you.  The best is having no self-esteem.  In which you consider yourself honestly and then move on and refocus on the One who really matter GOD.  So, yes I have had days like that.
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Because we feel safe and more secure whenever we are close with someone we know, trust and familiar with. That's why we always smile or feel happy, safe and secure whenever we see or with our family and friends.\n\n:) nyeh keep smiling
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Some nervousness is natural.  It keeps us on our toes!  As hard as it sounds to do, try to relax and be yourself.  Everything will work out fine.
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some time your brain is in charge of you but some time your body tends to take over because of the feelings you get.
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People get nervous during hard times because of the pressure they put on themselves. Like with a test, people put a lot of pressure on themselves to make sure they know everything they need to know.
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It's not self-confidence really. Mine is really just frustration. I eat a lot but for some reason I really don't gain any weight. I also workoutevery other day and play hockey once a week, but still eat a lot and really never see results. Sometimes I feel that people think I'm weak because I have muscle, but you really can't tell that I have muscle because I'm so thin. It's a little self-confidence, but overall, it's probably 94% frustration and 6% self-confidence problems.
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Sounds like deep seated feelings of inadequacy... this usually passes with time... we all go through a phase in our adolescence when we doubt ourselves, self confidence comes with age and experience for most people. I myself had an epiphany while reading a book by a man named Richard Feynman, entitled "So what do you care what other people think?" and I just 'got over it'. When you stop caring what others think about you it is a very liberating feeling, you should look forward to it. Best of luck.
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When you need to boost your self confidence or self esteem, find 3 things that make you feel good. These could be memories of good times, a piece of music, a holiday souvenir, or a person's face - use photos if it helps. Practise thinking about them and bringing them to mind. \n\nDeveloping self confidence that lasts - because of the way emotions 'attach' themselves to memories, you will quickly train yourself to feel good when you want - a great help.\n\nSelf consciousness is the No.1 enemy of self confidence. Learn how to keep your attention off yourself. You can do this easily by following these steps...\n\na) If you notice you have become self-conscious, (you can usually tell because you start to feel anxious), choose something 'everyday' you can see and study it in detail. For example: examine a door, look at the different textures and shades of colour, wonder about who made it and how and so on. The important thing is that you're learning how to keep your attention off yourself.\n\nb) If you feel self-conscious in a social situation, it's usually because you don't have enough to do! Focus on what your purpose in the situation is. Whether you're there to: \n\nfind out if you like the other people in the situation \nmake others feel comfortable \nfind out some information \nmake business contacts \nand so on...
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Jealousy is rooted in feelings of unworthiness for me. I feel jealous if I am insecure in a relationship, or in myself. I feel jealous if I believe that I need something outside myself to be OK, something that you may have. I feel jealous if you get a nice motorcycle and I feel that I need that in order to be OK. It is all rooted in how I feel about myself. Self esteem comes from doing esteem able acts. So if I am feeling low I do something to be of service to others or I find other ways to feed my spirit. I always feel better about myself when I am living a life with a little discipline, like working out on a regular basis or keeping my house clean. That is just what works for me, only you know what works for you.
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Confidence is a mental thing.  I had the opposite problem, I was insanely skinny, and had no muscle on my body.  Even after I got rip and cut, I still didn't have confidence.  What helped me, is that I took up interests the helped develop me as a person.  For example, I took on karate.  It was hard for me to pick up, but once I got into a rhythm I felt better about myself.  Also, I stopped putting myself down, and tried to look at everything in a positive light.  For example, when things didn't work out for me in anything, I just realized I needed to be proud of myself for at least giving it my best shot.  Finally, NEVER STOP LEARNING.  Try to learn something new every day if you can.  Read newspapers, magazines, keep up with current events, etc.  If you pick hobbies that will develop you, look at the positive, and constantly try to learn about the world around you, you will develop more confidence in who you are.  I wish you well!