If a person is having problems in their marriage,?
104781
Here's the answer that Life is great! gave:\nGet a life... and relax. They will soon catch up! \n---------\nI have a life.. You should grow up and put your childish ways behind you.. Men don't want anything to do with high maintenance shrews..
505349
Maybe you need couples counseling.
972783
Well  if you are tired of him... Let me tell you is not a good sign for this marriage because  you say you are tired  or either you talk to him about it and solve the problem.   Some people show love with actions no words but sometimes that is no enough   womes  like to hear that she is loved and beautiful... Talk to him
215697
They SHOULD go hand in hand... but it doesn;t always happen that way. Some people use marriage as a refuge against lonliness and are willing to make the necessary compromises for it.
177652
male/divorced \nIt is not abnormal but if it is causing problems and he still does it he has an issue.
865531
If you are not happy in your marriage then this should've told you to look at the reasons why you're not happy and attempt to fix the problem.  \n\nLooking for the fix outside of the marriage isn't going to fix your problems.  I suggest you and your husband see a marriage counselor.
200225
If you are considering another relationship with her then maybe marriage counselling would be a first step.  If you can get through that then I might consider trying again but obviously there were serious issues that warranted the divorce to begin with.
1048207
Hello,\nSeek counseling and help here and try to save it if at all... Talk to him and see if he is open to getting the help he needs with you. Seek marriage counseling too. If he continually cheats though and does not or refuses to change then you do have legal and biblical grounds for getting out and at least separating and even divorce if there is absolutley not resolving the marriage. If you need to talk i am here anytime for you.
524551
It seems when things get tense we always imagine the worst will happen to our marriage.  It doesn't have to just because someone else did it.  We can always get past a tough point.  Maybe you just need more time together.
1047323
(m)\n\nPoor communication\nFinancial problems \nA lack of commitment to the marriage \nA dramatic change in priorities \nInfidelity \n\nFailed expectations or unmet needs \nAddictions and substance abuse \nPhysical, sexual or emotional abuse \nLack of conflict resolution skills
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When the married man has discussed it with his wife and they both agree,\nor\nwhen the married mans wife is so ill that he no longer has any kind of relationship with her, ie she is in an irretrievble coma, has alzhiemers ....\nwhen the couple have been seperated physically or/and mentally for years and he is in love with another person.\n\nof course these are just my opinions and I respect that other people think very differently so I mean no offence to anyone.
923567
If you know your issues are the root of the problem I would say until you can make the changes within yourself.  If you are making changes just to suit him, then until H*** freezes over.  Good luck!
894953
Not sure.  I'd feel pretty heartbroken, and probably would be very near to ending the marriage.  It depends on whether or not my husband was sorry.  Haven't had this happen to me, so I don't know.
47655
Talk to the person, find out why things are going the way they are. Could be as simple as wanting to wait until marriage or could be very nervous about it.
147041
If your spouse is lying to you, there is obviouisly a problem. If the lies are taking this much of a toll on your marriage consider possibly getting marriage counsling. Is there a reason they feel they need to lie. Are they hiding somethin. Communicate, tell him or her this is unacceptable in your book,and you will not stand for it. If you do tell them that stand your ground. A liar is as bad as a cheater.
1178468
Don't worry about your friends marriage. All marriages are different & they all have their up & downs. You will experience hard times, if you keep your communication open & don't play the blame game, you'll be able to make it through. You can also try counseling at those times to. It sometimes helps to get a 3rd opinion.\nYou might want to give everyone's advice to your friend. Sounds like she's the one who needs the help.
160829
I would suggest a good marriage counselor- All marriages have their problems, but if it is to the point where it affects your everyday life and/or your children's lives, then yes, you should seek a counselor.  Many couples who fight daily about trivial things, have an underlying, much deeper problem (i.e. someone hasn't fogiven someone for something, etc.)  OFten times too, the problems lay in a communication breakdown- one member might think he/she is getting their point across, but the other member either might not be willing or truly might not be ABLE to REALLY HEAR what they are saying- Again, a good marraige counselor can give you the tools you need to get to the very root of the problem and begin to solve it