when does PORN BECOME TOO OBSESSIVE?
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Sounds like your husband has issues about his ex, not about porn.  You might want to question his wanting pictures of an ex when he's married to you.  Why doesn't he have naked pictures of you?  If you don't care that he looks at porn tell him to get rid of the pictures of his ex and take pictures of you.  No, you're not being sensitive about it.  If I had naked pictures of my ex, my wife would cut me off from sex, stop talking to me until I could explain it to her in terms that would make sense to her as to why I have them.  Oh, and he's not mad at you for not understanding he's mad at you because he got caught.
999145
Obsessed with watching or starring in porn?  Either way keep it to yourself and you will be fine.
996712
no not at all. i love porn my self.. what ever makes you happy and keeps you occupied.
673576
you're not a sex maniac. that's called exhibitionism. do you do it in real life too, or only on webcam? I seriously doubt it's a true addiction, because if it were, you'd be doing it in real life & exposing yourself to random people & probably would've had a run-in with the law at least a time or 2 as a result...for the record, "enjoy it very much" doesn't constitute an addiction. if that were the case, most people would have a clinical addiction to chocolate, sleep, and video  games!
208810
Don't you mean obsession?
1031098
Well, I've never heard of anyone being addicted to happy-unless happy is some sort of new slang for a drug-and I see nothing wrong with being addicted to porn. I'm a addicted to porn too!
797219
Fact:\n\nmen look at porn to escape from something they are running away from something they are not dealing with.  I am not suprised you feel unnattractive! - this is abusive behaviour and totally disrespectful to you.\n\nI don't think it has anything to do with the fact that he finds you either ugly or attractive. It is to do with him and the effect of what he is doing is making you feel like you are the one with the problem but you are not - he is the one with the problem and he needs to sort it out now.\n\nIt seems like he has a pretty serious addiction and is neglecting you in place of porn.  If he doesn't want to talk with you, then he will have to talk with someone about it if he wants to remain in a relationship with you.  This cannot go on and he is not accepting responsibility for his addiction and apologies aren't going to change this.\n\nI think you feel used and responsible for what I am pretty sure he has lured you into those things you now feel really guilty about. But  he is addicted to porn, has been even before you got together as an addiction doesn't start just because of what you two did together.  His behaviour has it's roots from an earlier time and has just grown over time.\n\nYou are not guilty for sharing what you thougt was some fun between you - that was seperate from any porn he engages in and doesn't make you responsible for what he has done and is still doing now.  The videoing will have nothing to do with what addicction he has, so please don't feel guilty for his problem.\n\nPorn is very destructive and any person who jusifies it in their answers have no real idea as to the damage it causes.  It is a real relationship killer and is abusive.  Give him the choice of either getting help for this problem or to pack your things and leave him to it.  He will continue to be like this the longer he chooses to be in denial about it.\n\nWhat you did with him wasn't wrong or bad and didn't cause the addiction he has. No amount of sexual adventer between two loving couples can create an addiction to porn - it already has to be there inside the person and he had this even before you got around to adventerous sex.  He made his own choices and you didn't help him just because you had some adventerous sex togther.\n\nHe crossed the line of love and intimacy with you in a way that is totally disrespectful to you.  What he did with you was a shared intimate thing but didn't give him permission to then jerk off with fictional women outside of the relationship he has with you.  This line has been crossed and he cannot allow his apologies to make up for what he is destroying with you.\n\nHe cannot love you nor respect you and so he has to change or be left to his addiction.  This is just awful and truly feel awful for you.  You do not deserve this and you are probabley better off ditching him however difficult this might be, it has to be done because he will continue to abuse you like this by not meeting your sexual or emotional needs - that is abuse.\n\nWhat you have done right is be committed to a serial porn addict and love him regardless and unconditionally and shared an intimate and loving relationship when it was one.  So how does this make you wrong in anyway? - You gave him all that a committed girlfriend could have done and more and he is the one doing the neglecting and abusing, so what is he doing wrong? - this is the question.\n\nHe is doing everything a dysfunctional person would and is abusing your trust and love for him, so he is the problem not you. He will be the one making you feel guilty for what he is doing, so now he either has to stop, ot you walk out on him.
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do you have an obsession?
964247
For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
437642
It CAN be.  Just like anything can be addictive to anyone.  Answering these yahoo questions can be addictive.  Porn can be addictive to old men, young girls, old ladies....anyone
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If he is looking at it every day and for hours I would say he has an addiction.  If you ask him if he could go on the rest of his life without looking at it and he says no then he has a problem.  Basically porn doesn't help anyone...they believe it does but it doesn't.  Research and see how many marriages or relationships it has broken off.  You just asking this questions raises a red flag.  Best wishes.
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Seems to be. But it is purely psychological and like any psychological addiction it can easily be replaced by something else. \n\nOn the net, there is a huge amount of free porn. When looking at the damages of this addiction, at least money problems should not be one of them. Nobody every robbed a liquor store to get free porn.\n\nBut people can obsess on it so that they fail to do things like go to work, take care of themselves, pay attention to the people around them and so on. Those have serious consequences.
607580
stop searching for porn...
287010
YOU CAN'T YA IDIOT AND STOP BEING A PERVERT!!!!! YOU ARE CREEPY AND YOU SHOULD NOT WANT TO LOOK AT PORNO!!!!!NASTY PERVERT!!!!!!!111111
428608
I'd say it's "too much" (meaning, to the level of an addiction) if it interferes with your life, the same way other addictions do or disorders like obsessive-compulsive disorder.  If you manage to live life "normally" and get things accomplished with no direct negative affects from masturbation, I wouldn't worry.
588773
Unless you are obsessed or ignoring other aspects of your life, don't worry about it. Your body (especially your penis!) will tell you when you are doing too much...and you just won't feel like doing it for a while. Once or twice a day is average for most young guys and is completely normal. Of course for some, once a week is okay while others might do it three or four times a day at times. It's all normal! Enjoy!
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everyone enjoys porn and girl on girl gets most going!! I'm bi so don't knock it till u try it,and most of all stay true to yourself!! if u enjoy something and it makes u tic don't worry.Remember u don't have to label yourself you are you.