i have a bf who is working abroad,and now i a guy is courting me who cares a lot..which one should i choose?
106836
choose the one that you can picture yourself with in the future. The one that you wont regret yourself with, wont be embarresed, and the one that your heart rips open to. The one that you miss right after he leaves your door step,etc.
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
866540
sticky situation but you should decide which one you have more feelings for and which one would be better in the long run \ngood luck and be true to yourself
828205
well i have a boyfriend i met off the internet and so far it has gone great! he is at training for the army and from that he is getting money and using some to come visit me on his Christmas break. I am so excited. You gotta find the right person though, someone you can make sure won't cheat on you.  I can tell my bf isn't cheating on me, I can just tell because we talk allllll the time on the phone and he's just really into me like i am into him.  and this guy knows my personality so well that i think even if he didnt like my looks in person, he'd like me for my personality, now i dont know that 4 sure but if it ends up he stops talking to me after we meet and all, i'm not going to take it all that bad because i know he's not the right guy then obviously and i can go on and find someone else. i mean, this guy lives far away anyways. but yeah anyways i think its a good thing if you can take distant relationships and you can trust as well as be trusted.  trust and faith is very important
1134298
girl u are lucky to have some one like him probably he is busy cause of his work i will say just trust him and see how things go
274104
Don't let this opportunity slip! If he's single and so are you confess your feelings for him already if he loves you dearly he will also confess his love for you. and if he is really interested in you he would ask you out by now! just let your love work with each other and if possible you will end up as bf&gf or marriage!unless if he is already married leave him you know very well that he has a spouse and children and if you dont you will only get into trouble or be stuck in a love triangle. So go with the flow.
238945
u should choose someone who loves u more , and u should check the character of both in my guess u should choose ur current bf ,
64854
if you really love your boyfriend that much, it shouldn't be an issue...do you want to ruin your relationship with him for this other guy who may not even want a relationship with you? He may just want something else, so you gotta really think if it's worth it. My boyfriend has been gone for 9 months and I'm still very much in love with him, and very faithful. I can't imagine losing him for some "crush"...I alwayz say if you want to cheat, you obviously don't want to be with the person you're with...cuz if you do, you wouldn't even think about cheating. Just tell that guy you have a boyfriend and you're not interested. if he keeps bothering you, don't hang around him anymore.
731558
the fact that you are looking at another suggests that you are not really with your man anymore and the best thing to do for both of you is end it.\n\nwhat happens with the other guy is irrelevant with regards to your situation with bf.\n\nif you should finish with bf and then get with other guy then cool but you must not think about this until you have sorted it out with bf.
907996
maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
853478
Sounds like both of you are going through withdraw.  That's too bad b/c most of time in long distance relationships, the other person eventually leans on someonelse and you become history.  If there is a will for you two to be together then you are going to have to find a way.  If this means giving up your job for her, then do it.  Do whatever it takes b/c you already know this isn't working, do you think it will get better?
220836
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
32377
Well, from experience all you can do is go with your heart...if it wasn't a bad break-up...and he treats you well then go for it. If the new guy really is amazing and your curious to get to know him..I say "Don't put all your eggs in one basket!!"
55996
Make a choice. Are you and guy #1 on a see each other only basis? If not no problem. If you are then you better decide or just leave it alone. You will lose what you have and might not like what you get!!
112001
Neither, keep dating! You're only 24, you've got time!\nYou don't have to settle... If one doesn't call you, check! he's out. If the other doesn't inspire you, check! He's out. Find someone who has what you want.
269294
If you can keep your love life and your job separate then it should be fine. When you are at work don't treat him as your boyfriend...just another co-worker.