How can I tell if my husband is still in love with me and if hes cheating on me?
114696
You can alway start buy asking.
524436
Listen to your heart and start looking for signs of cheating. I started to have the exact feeling about my ex from 9 years ago. The feeling was very strong and pretty positive. I confronted him, but he just laughed about it. Later he sort of let the cat out of the bag by telling me he was going to hang out with other women and that I should hang out with other men. \nHe wouldn't let me answer the phone, he would get mail from people in the area and hide it, I would come home and find jackets at the house that were not mine, if we went anywhere he would have me drive by the neighborhood floozy's house to see if she was home and things like that. Another thing is, he would sneak out in the middle of the night and think that I didn't know anything about it and one night I was home and this strange car pulled up, I opened the house door and they left in a hurry. \n\nIf he stays out late at night, if is on the internet a lot, if he doesn't let you answer the phone, if he prefers to go out by himself on a frequent basis. Those are some of the red flags. Listen to your heart and be on a look out!
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Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
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No offence, but don't their advice. You'll know when he doesn't show as much interest in you and when he starts acting different with you. If you think he's cheating, but he's acting the same, get advice from a friend or family member who know them a little.
1139301
Your insecure about your marriage. You and he need to work to make it stronger for your sake. It doesn't mean he is cheating, just you have some doubts...
73793
Sounds like lust honey.  Stay 100 miles away from this guy.  It's NOT worth breaking up a 20 year marriage over.
394138
Oh my.  Are you sure he's not cheating on you?
1007917
He hasn't married you, so technically he is not cheating. He is however acting in a very improper and im-moral way. If you was married, it would be considered cheating, and almost the same as adultry in your marriage. If he treats you the way that you say he does, imagine what it will be like 10 yrs or more down the road. He is never going to marry you at this point in his life, and you still have so much left of your life. Dump him, and find a real man that will cherish you and treat you properly.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
518400
five months is a very short time.  the marriage should still be fresh and new, and with only five months into it and this being new territory he should be more into you at this stage then he was when you were dating. if he has given doubt or reason to believe that it is no longer you for him and him for you, and its only been five months, then your probably right, he is cheating.  if he hasnt noticed that now sometimes you hesitant or confused or question everything, if he hasnt noticed the trust (the foundation of any realtionship or marriage) is starting waver, then he is not in tune with you or your feelings, doesnt really know you, or simply doenst care.  question:  do you know if he is happy?  if he was did something happen or was something done to change that happiness?  a simple difference in men and women is that women know when there happy and when there not will not hesitate to let you know and fix the problem.  men on the other hand know when there happy but when there not will never say a word. or pride and ego wont let us. were not suppose to be sensitive to feelings, or at least thats what society says.  we would rather push away until you leave before we just admit that happiness no longer exists.  solutions:  not many. you can gather up the courage and confront him.  if he loves you he will take time talk it out to solve the problem and strenthen that trust.  if he tells you your crazy and that he doesnt have time to talk about silly matters (or in other words you dumb feelings or suspicions) then youve got your answer.  another idea, get proof.  i know your not a private eye but there is and will never be a way to dispute the truth.  untimately the decision is yours now on whehter to stay or leave. just remember that you, your feelings,and your happiness is just as important now as they were then, and one thing you should never do is let someone steal your happiness, because after its gone, there isnt anything left.
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
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Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
885720
According to me u both shud go thru Counselling,and sort out the problem by talking to him.,Why is he doing such things. I think he really loves u ,but maybe due to some work pressure he might be able to see u, if u think he is cheating u,better u get rid of this marriage ,or else it will affect both of ur life.Dont marry anyone just for the sake of the marriage,u shud first know the guy with whom u r marrying.Anyways my gut feeling says ur problem will be solved and u will lead a good life with ur hubby.Dont take unneccessary tensions orelse it will affect ur child health.God Bless u
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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1.  If you trust him.  If he trusts you.\n\n2.  If he has made his goals and intentions known.  If you made yours known and they're in sync.\n\n3.  If you keep people out of your affairs.\n\n4.  If thier is passion and lots of sex.\n\n5.  If he keeps his word.  If you keep your word.\n\n6.  If the both of you can kiss and make up quickly, without bitterness afterwards.\n\n7.  If you don't keep slutty or very sexy women around you while you are with your partner.\n\nThe only way to truly know is if you see him cheat or he tells you he cheated.  \n\nIf you are doubting your relationship, you need question yourself as to why you are having these feelings.  Are you questioning due to your own insecurities as a woman?  Or, is thier tangible evidence to support your feelings?\n\nAnalyze the situation objectively, before reaching a conclusion.  You could simply tell him, "Honey, I've been  feeling a little insecure about our relationship...".   \n\nMake valid non-accusatory points with him as to your feelings.  See how he responds.  If he takes your feelings into consideration, without making you feel like a victim, then he respects and cares for you.  \n\nAs far as cheating goes, evidence first, accusations later.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
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TAKE HIM FOR HIS WORDS.\nThe only sign that a spouse is cheating is when he/she becomes cold and seems to be lying a lot.\n\nJUST BE A GOOD WIFE (sexy, presentable, decent, smart, skillful, etc.) and pray for your husband that God will protect him from being tempted by other ladies out their.\n\nI wish you a happy marriage.