What is the big deal with guys wanting threesomes???
105417
I think the guy thinks that the experience is going to be some sex filled orgy type fantasy thing, but in reality, it's not. If you are uncomfortable with any of it, it won't go over well, tell your husband to imagine how he would feel if he had to watch you with another guy, because that is what you are going to have to do, watch him with another woman being intimate. I saw a couple break up after they "experimented" with a threesome. He was all for it, she thought she was, but I don't think she could handle what I put up there. It just really depends on YOU, not your husband, just because he wants it, doesn't mean that you have to do it.
558719
If he doesn't want you to do it and you love him enough to sacrifice a 3some for him, then don't do it. If this guy is just a guy, then dump him and have your fun. He might be willing to come around later on. You never know.
623952
Well believe it or not, guys are into fantasies to and by telling us something like that you are helping us to create this mental image of you. It's not like women don't ask men 'Boxers or briefs?'.
508901
since most human beings like sex, alot of people think threesomes would be the ultimate. i know i would like to think so. i haven't participated in one yet, but i be the orgasms are awesome.
529730
Why are you trying to hook up with them and get a threesome going? I don't think any of them are intrested in you BUT hey you can keep up your hope.
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
105377
The fact that you're second guessing it means no.\n\nThreesomes are something that need to be well thoughout with serious parameters that both people are ready to adhere to.  \n\nI've met people who did it, and it really helped their sex life.  But I've met even MORE people where it ruined it. Most of those people aren't even together any longer.\n\nThe thing you just have to ask yourself is, are you doing this just for him?  If you are, then, it's a bad idea.  Secondly, ask yourself if your sex life is in trouble.  Most people who successfully have threesomes already have a good sex life.  If you're sex life has problems, then this is not the way to solve it!\n\nHowever, if you're both for it, then it's definitely something to give a big go!  Just make sure you make rules that you both MUST follow.
559348
Well, I son't think this applies to all girls- in fact, I bet quite a few have the fantasy of doing it, but maybe wouldnt' admit this to just anyone.\n\nI guess part of the reason they often aren't keen is that a girl wants to think that when you are with her, you are only thinking of her. Not someone else. And she will be comparing herslef to the other the girl- is my bum bigger than hers, is my tummy wobblier than hers, are my boobs droopier than hers!!\n\nI have had a threesome before, and my main issue with it was the fact that 3 can actually be a crowd- the girl that me and my boyfriend did it with at the time showed me far more attention than him and he got a bit pis*ed off.\n\nIt's just not girls- I have male friends who also aren't keen on the idea.
397180
the answer is quite simple. men are perverted pigs who know they can't be trusted with one woman. they want to be able 2 have an open relationship so they can do whatever they want with as many chicks as they want and not be introuble for it..hope that answered ur question  :)
529451
I agree with you...  And it's also cool if a guy is um, having anal sex with a woman, but it's "gross" when it's 2 guys.  What is up with that bullsh*t?  Nonetheless, if it's love, then any kind of sex can be beautiful!  I myself, would LOVE to have a three some with two other men, it'd be super hot!
1114365
Male Male Female, a threesome for all those that don't know...I'd say if it's something you aren't happy with then don't do it...if he insists then he is not the man for you. Simple as...
623458
I don't think it is all guys want, but I think the desire to have sex is a driving force in a male's life.  Therefore, even if they are in a committed relationship, the desire to have fun with someone else may surpass your wish to be faithful.
614023
we love it, it mean the posibility for a threesome is much better in our minds. other than that it doesn't make much difference and to be honest most guys don't care if you have sex with other girls while your with them we think it's hot and would mostly like to watch or even better join in.
968513
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
82041
Its normal.... Most guys want this.... I have tried it and have enjoyed it. You should pick somone you are comfortable with. I am straight also but have had a 3sum twice both with 2 of my best friends. Its just exploration and should be fun. It doesnt mean he isnt dedicated to you he is just curious. and its good he came to you about it and explained his fantasy. Just try and find someone you can both agree on that you dont find threatening. Ask him if he has any ideas but make sure you stay in control ;) its better that way
832141
As you can tell from the responses here, it is really a personal choice. Some answers feel strongly NO and some strongly YES. It comes down to you and your comfort level. For me personally i wouldn't ask or take part, my best buddy and his wife are darn near swingers. I would guess 80% of guys think of it and would love it but only 20% could actually get the nerve to walk the talk and 5% actually go through with it.
613216
Yes and I actually had 5 women at one time too, my girlfriend at the time was OK with it cause it was her friends.  It was nothing that I expected.  Some did things the others wouldn't do.  While two of them were totally all for everything and anything.  Some of my threesomes were disappointing cause once they got going they seemed to be a little shy about it.  But others were all that. Not that I am complaining but when you get into a three some let nothing be barred and enjoy yourself.