why I can't keep an eye contact with a girl for a long time?
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
736689
Just have a simple conversation with her. While talking make your eyes as compatonate as posible. After you're done, smile at her and just walk away. You're telling her that you like her but also telling her that you're not afraid to make a move.
581838
It can mean a lot of things they may be interested in you, maybe you remind them of someone.\n\nI don't think it is because they are creeped by you because if they were they would probably make a point of not being around you to look at you.\n\nI have found girls who have been staring at me were in interested me.\n\nBut then they have for the most part approached me, made a compliment, talked to me etc, (that is the ones I notice). \n\nA lot of girls have looked that I didn't notice because they didn't approach me, mostly though I have been with another girl (often a just a friend) at the time, who has told me after-wards, of course I ask who it was or the way they look at me and a girl can usually tell exactly when another girl likes you.\n\nThe girl could like you but be too shy to approach you, my advice you be to try get a women with you (someone you can trust), she will be able to tell you whether the girl fancies you or it is something else, don't rule asking a family member, if you have few female friends, ask a sister,a cousin whatever. \n\nEven my Mum was able to tell a girl fancied me before the girl revealed it to me, just by telling how she looked at me, not that my Mum was that happy about the fact because I worked with the girl and I happened to be engaged at the time :), my workmate wondered why my Mum didn't like her... \n\nIt wasn't long after that the girl told me her feelings, she said she felt she had to, and she knew my Mum had worked it out, so the moral of the story is ....\n\nalways trust another women, they will know.\n\nI hope this will help.
898408
It's probably over-familiarity. You know they say familiarity breeds contempt - well, it's quite likely they just see you so often they don't notice you in that way. If you like a specific one, you have to make her notice you, maybe by asking her out, or if that seems too scary just talking to her. After all, you can always ask her out later when you know her better. \n\nOn the other hand, if you're just suffering from lack of female attention, then there's not much you can do about it other than accept it. It sounds like you have no shortage of girls outside your school flirting... so just bask in that glow, man! And keep up your confidence. Girls like confident guys who don't come across as arrogant - a difficult balance, but a true girl-magnet if you can pull it off! Trust me. I know. \n\nTigerwolf x \n(speaking as one who has been taken in by the same trick more than once!)
1050770
Just keep your eyes open.\nIn that age, the girls around you will change very fast and your likes and dislikes will change drastically.\nYou didn't tell what's disturbing you but of course I can imagine.\nSo just stay calm, relax, be yourself, and things will develop naturally very soon...
134109
when you like them you tend to be shy and not be yourself. just relax and be flirty and nice and EYE CONTACT works ;)
1155835
That's totally normal to you long eye contact could be consider intimate or a sign of intimidation none aggressive people or shy people all ways have a hard time with long eye contact.
412954
Not meaning to be rude,but get a grip. I think it's a compliment when someone stares. I take it they like what they are looking at.Instead of starting so much,why don't you talk to her,that would be more logical than staring. If you continue to stare and not speak,she may think you have some sort of problem,now we wouldn't want her thinking that,now would we. Take a deep breath and start a conversation. Your question was:how do you girls feel when a guy you don't have an interest in keeps on looking? Well,if that person talked to me,I might like them better.And has she told you she is not interested or is that just what you are thinking. I had a situation kind of like this once and the man that was staring at me,I was very interested in,but he was so shy,I didn't find out he liked me until I was already dating someone else.BECAUSE:He just stared and never spoke up.
642008
i know u r thinking about ur girl !\ndont worry, this is quite natural ! i guess u r really into the girl ! talk to her .... n try to be her bst frnd ! dont feel lonely man ! this world is all yours ...... be kewl n be a sport ..... thats a quality girls lyk\ngood luck
349991
its a gift! but u can improve urs!\n\nsimple method!\n\nface the mirror and try to look at ur eyes! then try to talk as long as possible without breaking the eye contact!\n\ntis surely helped me!
1136176
You need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Maybe she feels the same way about you. Plus there's no reason to keep that feeling locked up. Just talk to her and tell her that you like her. At least let her know you care.\n\nIt's important to talk to her because it might be too late if you wait too long. \n\nGood luck. =]
547404
your describing the classic symptoms!!!\n1.she is giving you more attention than anyone else!\n2.she gives you compliments!\n3.she chooses you to have conversation!\n4.looking at you with a longing stare!\nit sounds as if she is trying very hard to get your attention, if your hearts in the right place with it, then you should return that attention to her, and don't wait too long to do this, if you wait too long it could be too late! and don't be deceived by appearances, get to know the person, not the beauty they project.
706974
ok heres what you do find one friend who has the same problem you do and hang out with him when he talks to a girl watch him and make a mental note of what he does wrong (watch the body language) but most of all if you find a girl that your into TELL HER the worst thing she can do is say that she isnt interested (and belive me thats gonna happen alot in life) but dont give up just move on to the next one and try again. its not hard all you have to do is strike up a conversation with her and after a few mins just say "ya know, i really like you" and then tell her why (so she doesnt think your full of @#$%) ie. your really funny or fun to be around and if shes cute tell her that just be honest. but dont get all upset if it doesnt work out THERE ARE MORE GIRLS OUT THERE. just take your time and relax when you talk to a girl they are ppl just like us. and they can smell bull@#$$% a mile away.
250512
Look at her straight in her eyes, not for too long, she may feel uncomfortable. Do it everytime you can for short periods of time. If you see she returns it, talk to her and ,ake her notice you are really interested on what she's saying. Always be sure she's feeling comfortable\nGood Luck!
1016222
Your smile - a lot of times when you first make eye contact she will scope out your face & if you've got a really great smile that will go a long way towards hooking your interest. Get your teeth whitened & keep them that way. Use chapstick so your lips will appear smooth & soft. Practice smiling in a mirror so you get it exactly right - you want it to go all the way to your eyes. Smile at her as if she's the only woman on the face of the planet . . . \nGood luck!
1136294
Confidence! Have confidence, man!  Don't slap her on the donkey or anything, just be assertive. ASK HER OUT! If she's making eye contact, she's likin' you too.
789023
Hiya,sounds like she has issues going on with her life that most likely have nothing to do with you, let it be and do NOT attempt to contact her, if she is interested or whatever has happened in her life has passed she will contact you,you sound like a nice and kind and caring person, you will not be absent from female company for long (smile) peace