how do you learn how to be a good kisser?
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Not just practice, but experimentation, too.  If you kiss alot, but never change your technique, you never get any better.  Next time your making out, try doing something different.  Doesn't matter what, just anything.  And pay attention to how your partner responds to it.  That's how you get better at anything.  You try new things.
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well you usually start out as a peck then for an invite to the other person touch their lips with your tongue, if they respond then open your mouth and hold it there together cos it might get a bit watery with all that saliva, massage your tongues lightly and when you feel like you have had enough push there tongue out with yours light and end with a soft peck, easy when you have practice... good luck
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yea just start kissing softly..open yours and she'll follow, i always try to spell her name with my tongue. its fun haha. theres no real way to do it tho bcuz everyone is diff..wen the time comes its kind of like instinct to know what to do. you'll do fine
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This is kissing: Kissing is a pleaseure you experience with someone you really, and I mean really, like! If he likes you and he kisses you back then you are in girl~!!!!\nHere is ~Kissing 101~ from the lips piont of view!!\n\n\nTalking about simple... where else to start than... The Lips! The most basic element of any kiss, in fact vital and inseparable from the act itself. There is no kissing without lips (ask your local chickens), so don't neglect them! On a physical level, take care of your lips. Chapped lips (while a great Custom E-kiss) are no fun at all to kiss. The same goes for rough, scabbed, or otherwise poor condition lips. Most of these conditions can be avoided through the use of a simple lip balm... find one that suits your preferences. Depending on what you like, you can get different flavors, varying degrees of healing and therapy, SPF (sunscreen) protection... the choices are endless.\n\n  Use your chosen balm regularly, not just when you are expecting some kissing... it's just a good idea to take care of yourself. Also, try to avoid applying balm directly before kissing... slimy lips can be a turn off. Just make sure it's all absorbed before getting down to business... and your lips will be soft, supple, and oh-so-kissable.\n\n  Once your lips are kissable, and you are in fact kissing... you still can't neglect them! The lips are the most basic and important element of kissing, and should be used to the best of their ability. Concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips, how your lips match up, and how you're moving them. This oft-overlooked element can add some real zing to your kissing. Just try to remember that the tongue is not the be-all and end-all of kissing... DON'T NEGLECT YOUR LIPS! \n\n  Lots of great kisses are, in fact, all lips. Ever since the French pulled a Microsoft on the kissing market, tongues have gotten all the attention. Many terrible kissing experiences are a direct result of this over-reliance (and unskilled use of) the tongue. Certainly the tongue is important to kissing... after all, what beats a really good deep french kiss? But tongue use is something best eased into... and can easily be overdone. Even really good tongue kisses can benefit from some variety... usually of the lip-centered kind. Take a break from tongue lashing to nibble, caress, lick, and gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good they feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better. Your lips the building blocks of great kissing... use them wisely (and often!)\n\n\nKissing Exercise: Spend part or all of a kissing session concentrating on just your lips... no tongues allowed. Slowly slide your lips together, enjoying the subtle feeling of each other's skin. Lick, nibble, kiss each other's mouths... go slow, and really enjoy the sensations. This exercise should make you more aware of your lips, and will add a new layer to your kissing experience.\n\n\nBut ou can use the tongue when ever you want!!!\n\n\nHere are the bases:\n\n1st base->going out\n2nd base->Heavy make out\n3rd base->Getting layed\nHome-> Married and ending up with a child.
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Kissing is always good and you can tell alot by the way a guy kisses if ya know what I mean.
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be a good girl \n\n(haha lol)\n\nim not even a good girl myself lol
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Oh No!!\nHow many times have we been set upon by the 'Bad' kisser! \nOk have you tried to adapt to him or is he all over the place?\n\nLooks like you are gonna have to teach him! \n\nI think you might like to say "Kiss me like this!" SOmething assertive that will make it look like you still want him but just want to try something out. If he goes with it, then he will kiss you like that all the time trust me... O you could blatantly tell him he's a terrible kisser. \nI mean how do you know you are so good?\n\nIts a bit of a predicament actually, I guess theres no easy way to tell him, but I think just forcing him to take note without actually spelling it out is a good move. \n\nGood Luck!
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Let him teach you.  You may learn a lot more than kissing, though . . .
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There is no training for making out. Experience is the key. Just wait until your time comes along. Just from personal experience I will tell you that it may seem uncomforatable at first and akward but things will get better. Advice for when you do it though: Close your eyes- nobody likes starring at someone kissing you! Try not to slobber! and don't just move your tounge around everywhere ! it's gross!!! Slow /passion is the key. Trust me you will do fine. just wait for your time. making out is something you can't just "learn" how you have to "experience" it
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Make sure that you and the girl are comfortable with each other you don't want to regret it. Also make sure you are both ready. Don't forget to have nice breath etc lol. Use mouthwash! You have to remember that a relationship isn't just about kissing, make sure you and your partner know each other properly.
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Well, take it from me, I've gotta lot of experience and when I started out, I asked that question and evryone told me that I should be natural, relax and it just happens...\nUhhhh...\nMISTAKE\nI've learnt that kissing is not an act, it's an art, and evry art is developed through lots and lots of practice.\nBut because I would have appreciated step by step guidance, I will give you the basics:\nFirstly, it works 50/50. What I mean by that is don't lean in too far to kiss him, he will think you were too eager...Retain eye-contact, you know, with that tiny naughty grin lean in 50% of the way, and belive me you have him intrigued already.\nSecondly, don't rush it.\nKiss him a few times gently on the lips , holding back just a lil' seeing his reaction. You see, you shouldn't give it to him all at once, taunt him and make him want to kiss you,\nThirdly, when you kiss him don't let your mouth lock over his and steal his oxygen\nFourthly, don't slobber all over him, there's nothing worse\nJust play around a bit\nMost importantly, let him take the lead, follow his pattern, let him take control and go with the flow, guys dig that.\nWhen you're into it you can take a bit of initiative and suck his bottom lip gently...quite nice\nAnd just remember to relax, feel his vibe and chill gurl, you'll get it right
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I've had bad kissing gals b4 (left one of them coz of it). Here are common mistakes: \n\nDont just stick your tounge in his mouth and leave it there. I personally prefer the tip of it dancing on mine.\n\nDont leave a cavity in your mouth, dont open too wide. \n\nBreathe\n\nDont suck too much
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Here's How:\n1.   Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.\n\n2.   Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.\n\n3.   Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.\n\n4.   Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.\n\n5.   In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.\n\n6.   Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.\n\n7.   Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.\n\n8.   If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.\n\n9.   As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.\n\n10.   Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.\n\nTips:\nDon't forget to breathe.\nSince French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.\nIf one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.\nIf both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.\nFrench Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
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The best thing to do is make yourself available for the kiss by being close enough to kiss, and by making subtle hints like eye contact, and \noccasionally staring briefly at his lips.  Also, being alone or in a private setting is important.\n\nIf you make the first move, make sure that you don't come on too strong.  If he likes you and wants to kiss you, he will kiss back by prolonging the kiss or using a little tongue.  If this happens, just respond by relaxing and don't being too agressive with your own tongue.  If you start slowly and carefully, you won't be making any mistakes.  Let him take the lead and if you like it, continue.  If not, pull away and smile.  Remember guys fear rejection as much (or more) than girls do.\n\nIf he doesn't want you to kiss him, he'll pull away.  Let him.  You don't want to waste valuable kissing time on someone who doesn't want you.\n\nAlways remember less is more.  You'll never regret having kissed too little, but you'll always regret coming on too strong.  Remember to remain confident, too.  Don't forget a breath mint!
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Use your upper lip to brush against the upper lips, gently. Use your nose btw, to rub against the nose also, slowly turn your head 45degree and use your tongue to lick the upper and lower lips, if the other party opens the mouth, put your tongue in.... ( this part i believe i don't need to teach you , you will know what to do, trust your tongue, just don't drool too much, very yucky.)
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Dont know but heres how\n\nThis is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques. \n\nThe basics \n\n1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck \n\n2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa. \n\n3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides. \n\n4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses. \n\n5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. \n\n6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else. \n\n7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips. \n\n8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion. \n\n9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing. \n\n10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that. \n\n11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue. \n\n12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite. \n\n13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through. \n\n14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose. \n\n15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain. \n\n16. Continue kissing.
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French Kissing tips\n\nThis is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques. \n\nThe basics \n\n1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck \n\n2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa. \n\n3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides. \n\n4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses. \n\n5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. \n\n6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else. \n\n7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips. \n\n8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion. \n\n9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing. \n\n10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that. \n\n11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue. \n\n12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite. \n\n13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through. \n\n14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose. \n\n15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain. \n\n16. Continue kissing.