I did something that was cold and Hurtful on Valentine's Day does God still love me??????
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God always loves you no matter what you do. He knows that we're all human and we make mistakes that is why Jesus died. He paid for our sins for us but we do have to ask God for forgiveness and if you can, apologize to this man and tell him that you were afraid. Ask his forgiveness as well but if he doesn't forgive you, then don't worry about it. That's his problem. Be very careful about meeting people in person from the internet. It could be very dangerous. You never know what a person might be like in person. It's very easy to lie on the internet, especially since you can't see their body language. Again, be careful. =)
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god gave his son jesus for ours sins not to heal our everyday pain i mean you can still turn to him and ask for help you know...plus you cant a rainbow without the rain girly...hang in there&stay strong...SMILE JESUS LOVES YOU!!!
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Take the time to talk to him.  God is always listening and he loves you very much even when you hurt or deny him he still loves you.  Read his word and ask him into your heart after you do its like a weight has been lifted.  But you must be sincere
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I really understand how you're feeling because I have been in similar situations.\nDon't ever let anyone push you into something. The Holy Spirit is not pushy and will not use pressure to get you to do something you're uncomfortable with.\nDo whatever feels right to you, not what people are expecting you to do.\nJust listen to your own heart and let the Holy Spirit guide you, not other people's behavior.\n\nIf you want God to give you the kind of joy, that you see others experiencing, you can ask Him for it. \nDoesn't mean your gonna be laughing or dancing. We're all different and act differently even in church. I'm not the jumping-around type myself and I never will be. I have experienced moments of indescribable joy though.\nGod's joy is available to you and if you want it, all you have to do is ask.
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Don't hurt him if you do not have too. It sounds like you have already turned your life around-you do not and have not cheated for a long time. You have already changed.  A past mistake (we all have regrets) is haunting you-it is ok to feel regrets. If you were still cheating-I would say you have a problem-but you have corrected that behavior. You are a different person now-enjoy this person and hopefully you will not revert back.\n Hindsight you have already paid for that mistake-years of guilt. And you already know the hurt it could bring. Now work on making your life the one you want to be. Do you want to be the cause of pain to someone now? Admitting this without cause will create much hurt-don't do it. Is there a reason for this?  Move on and be the person you really want to be, the past is the past nothing can change that-not a thing.\n Rather you believe in the Bible or not-there is a man named Paul(Saul was his given name-change to Paul)-who in the beginning killed many Christians-later he change and became a very strong Christian. Did he have regrets-many-but he worked on a better man-and continue on this way-few mention his past mistakes-but many remember his good works. He didn't boast or bring up his past sins-but continued on a fine course. And I bet it help him in his dealings with those who did error. \n Get busy(and stay busy) with proper actions and thoughts-there is plenty to do there. Best Wishes
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i suggest that u should not do that, b/c i thought the same as u did n now i just regret it, n it was just 1 month ago which i had tears afterwards!! Just plz think it through before u really make up ur mind ok! or else u would end up like me, mad, sad, n confused, plus i hate myself for doing such a thing!!
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*Shrugging my furry shoulders* Well I'd hope that I give special treatment to my mate on Feb 14th (if for no better reason than it makes her smile) than I do on other days.\n\nComing from a relationship that no matter what I did it was not appreciated (but doom and gloom if I actually dared to act the same way) and the effort was never returned. I can simply state...\n\nIt sucked!\n\nNow I'm with someone who appreciates little tokens. Even if it is just taking extra time to let them know you love and appreciate them and what they do, you will see it makes a big difference in their and your own happiness...
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Show him how much you truly cares no matter what happened. But if it didn't worked, talk to him seriously and let him choose ..whether he would stop doing it or you would let him go. Try to figure out whats wrong in your relationship. Try to encourage him to attend a mass. Pray together. At least at the end, its not your fault, you did all your best. If its not enough.Maybe, he didnt love you. Though it really hurts, accept it! Sorry dear.
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Im a Christian but i still agree with you.. When Im hurt i dont wanna here just pray or go read your bible. Even as someone who does believe in God, that jus doesnt help me be comforted. Thats the problem with a lot of christians, they jus give the "right" answer and move along instead of maybe actually trying to spend some time with the person or really listening. I know how it feels to have your heart broken and what got me thru wasnt reading my bible and praying, although i dont think those thingss are neccessarily bad, it was suport from my closest friends, who probably did pray for me. Anyway i think you should call those people out on it and see what they say, if they knew how you felt about their advice i think it would change their actions next time theyre put it that situation. Well i hope ive maybe helped a lil and that your heart isnt broken anymore. God Bless.
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"BEEL®" U R AN IDIOT! GOD FORGIVES EVERYONE. THATS WHY HE IS GOD!\n\nNow, and speaking from experience, it will be hard but it is not impossilbe and it will take TIME. For those who have never been tramatized sexually or any other way it is easy for them to say "Get over it". I would not say that they were being insensitive but that they are not able to deal with you on that level b/c truely unless you have been through IT, whatever the IT is then you can not really give any type of advice. \n\nI would suggest that you pray a whole whole lot and let God bring you to the place that you need to be. Also, try to look up a 12 step program for abused women in your area b/c talking to others that have been through it will help a great deal. \n\nAlso, if you ever get to this point, then confront him. Express yourself, whether it be anger, sadness, hurt  that you feel. be sure that he knows how you feel and let him know that an apology is necessary. \n\nNot that you can't go on w/o one but he needs to admit and acknowledge that he has wronged you.
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To be honest I don't think you are though no one can really tell you that for 100% as only God knows the answer. However, imagine a situation like that, you are a good kid for your parents and suddenly you go down your own path and you reject your parents and stop caring about them. Are you still a good kid? I doubt it...Do your parents still love you? Am sure they do even though you hurt them.\nSame is with God I presume. Am sure he loves you and is waiting for you to come back but he is also hurt by the fact that he is dismissed. \nPlus you have to remember that a person has many obligations to fulfil if he or she wants to be saved. This includes worshipping God, praying, going to church, doing good deeds etc. You can find  it all in your prayer book. Hope I helped you a little.\nTake care
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My sister, all fall short of the golry of God, you, me and everyone else! King David new the Commandments yet still he let his fleshly desires send his friend to be killed so David could have his friends wife! And David was called by God "A man after God's own heart.". Jesus miracle on the cross has covered you from these things, and you are right to grieve and be sorry because God loves the penitent(or humble) person! You've done wrong yet so did all the Apostles at one time or another so take heart my sister, for God hasn't abandoned you! I will pray for you and hope that you will do the same for me, and God bless you and have faith!
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Sad. The God I know is all about the love, baby. \nHave a great day!
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Dear One, Your pain must be almost unbearable at times.I am so sorry for your losses.God does not promise a life with out pain here on earth, he does promise his grace and his mercy, and peace.He does promise that someday all this will be made known to us, which for some as yourself is so hard to understand as you go through this. He has never stopped loving you, he has never left you, he has never stopped loving your wife...he was with her holding her hand as he took her home. Life is hard, painfull and confusing, please hold on to God he is Loving so so much,  he is waiting for you so he can take your pain. Call on him...... you are in my prayers...
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I can say you were not genuine and what you gave was not love. I don't understand how religion can be strong than the love you two had for 2 years. I can tell you be yourself and stop being spoon-fed.It's your life and make good of it and not pleasing other people.It's not fair even in the God eyes.
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This sounds more like a love poem to someone you love rather than to ask for forgiveness. Yes I have regrets. I regret my selfishness. I envy those who can feel love and acceptance from god. What have I got to believe in? Not believing in god is lonely, but I can't.
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God, Terry needs your love so much right now. He needs to know you care. Please show him that you see him in his desperation. Help him to know your peace.\n\nTerry, go to www.katgum.com and click on "Are You a Good Person" just to see how much God really loves you.