I need to know if i should leave my boyfriend for my ex???
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
107553
Yep..But that kind of LOVE is very heart breaking. I'd stay away from him because if he's not happy, he won't be with her long and then you could let him know how you feel. But if he leaves her for you, all of you will suffer from it. Let him have happiness if you love him,.... even if it's with someone else.   Good Luck*
1056299
I say you choose.  Either leave your boyfriend and be with the other man, or stop seeing the other man and be with your boyfriend.  It is not fair to either of you, especially him for you to go on having a sham of a relationship.\n   You have to grow up here and make a real choice.  You are treading in dangerous territory and you can only hurt yourself and your boyfriend continuing on the path you are on.\n   Ask yourself why you are cheating, and decide if it can be fixed so you no longer want to.  Or, is it just a selfish need to be with two different men?  Only you can decide, unless he finds out and dumps you because of your cheating ways.  \n   Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
274798
I would go for it if you dont have any ties to your ex.  If your completly over him, and your ex's bf understands what hes getting into, then go for it.\n\nYou shouldnt not be happy because your concerned about what your ex think.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
513112
You deserve to be in love, real love. If something like an ex has been bothering you so much WHILE you are with the other guy, then you should leave him. Its been a year. If you were going to fall in love any deeper you would know. Dont settle.\nHowever, just know that as I write this I understand that the advice i gave is easier said than done. not having to deal with the pain of breaking up with people can make you want to just stay with them.\nBut ultimately you are the one that has to be happy, and satisfied. Dont choose to live your life wanting more and feeling unfulfilled in your heart.
832633
Do you really want a bf who stalks you around, keeps you from other guys' company and is overly possessive? He might only be interested out of jealousy. Go with the new guy. Time will tell if your ex really cares.
1179415
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
633676
I know that I won't get 10 points for this answer but it's the one you need to read: \n\nYou need to stop seeing your Ex... The communication that you have with him keeps the spark alive and it's not really fair to your current BF. Frankly, on a level, you're cheating on him and the test of this is: If he knew you were still "friends" and talking, would he be cool with it? \n\nIf you still have a thing for your Ex, you should break up with your BF and go out with your Ex. Here's the thing though: If you have been off and on for so long, how do you think it will be if you marry him? On for how long then off when? Will you have kids when you decide to go off again? What impact will it have on them? This pattern will not end when you marry, trust me. \n\nMy final advice: Quit communicating with the EX and focus on your relationship with the BF. Probably not the answer you were looking for but the right one. \n\nGood luck.
656947
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
956722
dont play with your current boyfriend... and yes you are toying with him, break it off with him until you have either fallen out of love with your Ex or you are ready to move on from your Ex.... It sounds Harsh but trust me you'll thank me in the end :)\n\nboy that's mature Wolfchat
794658
I was with my last boyfriend for 3 and a half years when I met my current boyfriend. I knew very quickly that I wanted to be with my current boyfriend, so I had to break my ex's heart to make myself happy. (I've been with my boyfriend now for more than a year) It hurt my ex like hell and I felt terrible doing it, but I knew that I wanted to be with someone else. So I had to do it for myself even though I hurt someone I cared about in the process. Just be careful and tactful in the way you say things. Make sure you don't sound like it's all his fault.
338459
U broke up for a reason.... it wouldnt be fair on your current boyfriend to finish it with him just because he comes back on the scene. It isn't easy, but his lost you, urve gone onto better things. Do stay mates tho...you never know whats around the corner, so if something did happen between you and your current c/f, he will still be ther!
254168
Assess your emotions first, who do you love more? Who treats you better? Do you really think your ex still loves you or does he just want someone to help him with his baby? \n\nAnd before you do anything with your ex, talk with your current boyfriend.\n\nDon't just follow your heart, use your head as well.
501261
break up with your boyfriend cuz he clearly still likes his ex
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!