How can i improve my personality?
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Get really good at something you really enjoy, find new people who are really good at the same things and involve yourself. This will define "who" you are and give you confidence in being you.\n\nHonesty- Deception is a complex concept which the human mind is unable to resolve.\n\nHumility- One without humility is one without knowledge.\n\nSelflessness- The view from the center of your universe is the most extreme form of tunnel vision.\n\nGratitude- The secret to happiness.
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Exercise. Do not let people define who you are. Do not use words like a "pig" when referring to yourself, if you do you'll become that pig. Look in the mirror and say "I have beautiful eyes". Build your own self esteem, the world is not going to do it for you, especially when you do not fit in what is consider beautiful. So you have to build up yourself. Walk around with your head held high. Show confidence and believe.
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start writing a journal, reading it back will help you discover more about yourself.\nread a lot of books.\ntry and start overcoming your shyness, meet other people and realise that you are fun to be around.
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Try not to be phony.\n\nFind other people likeable, and if you don't find someone likeable find something about him or her that is.\n\nBe thoughtful, friendly and nice.  If you think of something a little funny say it, and make someone laugh once in a while.\n\nBeing likeable involves not being nasty, mean, crummy, selfish, cruel, etc.  It isn't so much adding something to someone's personality.  It is making sure the negative stuff isn't there - and if it happens to be then you have to hide it.  Even if you try to hide the nasty stuff, though, people sense it.\n\nGenerally, most people who have "decent hearts" are likeable.  People just need to be themselves and make a little extra effort once in a while.
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You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
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Just be friendly but dont get taken advantage of. Your personality will draw people to you.
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Create daily tasks to improve what you see and what you feel. Start with quick wins, then more difficult ones, etc. Have three different kind of goals: short term , medium and long term. Do not despair.\nMy question is if you cannot "like" yourself: how can you like someone else. I understand somehow that you feel lonely.\nGood luck, mate. Be a winner!
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write impowering things about yourself, make th person you are seem important to yourself....learn new crafts and abilities...make you care for yourself
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Start giving yourself Brownie points for every good choice you make. Confidence and self-esteem are earned, nobody is born just possessing them. Every time you make someone smile, remind yourself that you have that ability. Do your work honestly and well. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Give others sincere compliments and don't always expect others to set your standards of decency or to make you happy. Remember, you're not transparent. People can't tell how you're feeling. Eventually, feeling confident will become second nature. But above all, be kind to yourself and others. And just have fun!
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attitude and personality
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You can't. There is no cure for personality traits and its not a trait that is likely to change either.
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One of the best things I did to improve my assertiveness was to learn to look people in the eyes when we spoke.  It improves confidence and communication levels.  As far as asserting your feelings, be patient, listen alot and respond APPROPRIATELY.\nYou live and learn.
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become knowledgeable about a lot of subjects. I read on the bus on the way home. Always listen activley more than you speak. Being a good listener helps you inject more data into a conversation and be perceived as interesting. Smile lots. Learn to see when a person loses interest and move conversation.
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In what way? Read motivational books that talk about self improvement. If its physical....then treat yourself with complements to yourself. Have a positive and loving attitude. Be outgoing and enjoy each day....and associate around people that are successful as well as to those that you may respect. Its all about the mindset that you may have, and your attitude.
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A need to make yourself seem more interesting.
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Practice, practice, practice.   I would recommend talking to people you know who you think have good people skills, or simply observing what they do.   \n\nTypically people with good people skills do the following:\n\n1)  Listen\n2)  Keep a smile on their face.\n3)  Don't complain.\n4)  Remember names and faces\n5)  Speak first.\n\nIt's hard to become one if you aren't already, but I would practice and don't worry if you seem awkward.   You'll get better.
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That's rather vague...is there a situation that you're hoping to be charming in?\n\nI don't know...perhaps smiling a genuine smile a lot will help.  Being sweet.  Being involved in a conversation.  Genuinely caring about the people you are around.  Being genuinely interested in the people you are with...\n\nYou know, the recurring theme here seems to be "being genuine".  \n\nBe true to your self...be nice and courteous and you'll be 90% towards the "charming" goal you have.