why women  not that interest as man when asking about opposite sex appeal / body ?
109877
well maybe because men are more sexually active faster then the women and also at a young age.so they cant waste time you know.time is precious
967349
Well, I'm about as far from manly as it gets...and I've never had any trouble getting a man. I think (or I'd like to think) that men like women who are mostly feminine, but intelligent and strong also, with being manly. Right? ;-)
244170
contrary to what has been mostly said about us "men are men" or even jerks at times...most of the time? just like women...men are different from each other...we have our differences too. most of us like women, some like men. most of us like women for many different reasons, just like you  like different men for many different reasons as well.\nsome are better than others in a lot of unique ways and some are just as simple as they could be and still be a perfect catch! we usually find it sexier when a woman knows when and how to speak her mind, and shows initiative and respect to others rather than be conceited about herself, when she knows and shares a guys feelings and other preferences, she shows more of the understanding side and never is too selfish to disagree or even divert his thoughts to what she wants. all of which is totally different from nagging, which none of us really enjoy. ever seen or heard a guy nag? hehe...anyways, the bottom line is...its not always the hot bod or the sexy curves that makes any woman attractive or even sexy but the brains and personality still prevail...most specially in a real man's view.
1084542
YOU SHOULD BE INTERESTED IN THE PERSON NOT THE BODY.
595800
Some women just don't get aroused by certain things, ask her what she wants and what she likes. She might not like men at all (I'm speaking in general here.)
337498
Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
692733
No, not necessarily. It can be part of normal conversation, especially if the question is coming from a woman because women tend to talk like that. The clincher is, however, the manner in which she asks it. Has she been flirting with you already? When she asks it does she seem like she wants to know because she may be interested herself? does she lean in when she talks to you? all of the above could be signs she is interested in you and that is why she wants to know -- for herself. But if a woman just asks you it in an ordinary way between other regular conversation, I'm sorry but it means nothing and she is just trying to fill in conversation. Good luck.
1171692
Initially we all go for the looks as attraction however personality is the thing that maintains that attraction. A person can be as attractive as hell but if they have the intelligence of a fly and personallity of a dead piece of grass, obviously that is going to be a big turn off.\nAlso what is attractive looks wise is often different for everyone, some like stick thin women other like them to be a bit more womanly and curvy, some like blonds, some brunettes, some tall, short etc...
1023013
Because women are naturally attracted to men and vice versa. Lesbianism is a corruption of nature but they can only fight nature so much. As you said, in the end they end up looking for a substitute for a man.
106166
Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
338140
Some men don't find women attractive and would prefer the hard buttocks and chest of a man. They love their own body and lust after it too.
1016894
Well I never met a man who minded a woman looking at him as if he were a piece of meat. As a matter of fact, men enjoy it, and it boosts our all-important confidence and ego...then again, women enjoy being viewed as sexy too. Nothing wrong with it. Listen, as long as the woman is not standing in front of my TV while I'm trying to watch the matches, she can do whatever she wants!
1112627
Women aren't that mysterious. They just change their minds a lot and they like guys that can impress them without trying to impress them.
178529
I would say yes and they are lying if they say no...the female body is just more attractive than a man's although I love men and their bodies. Women are beautiful.
844726
Unfortunately, many decisions are made by one's first impression and often they are based on looks.  If a woman will not talk to a guy because she thinks he's "too good", it's because she lacks confidence in herself.  She is self conscious about her own looks and therefore chooses not to take a chance of being shunned by him.  Rejection is the worst possible hurt...especially for those of us who lack confidence in ourselves and take it to heart.  Believe me, if this same guy approached the woman instead, this lady would be on cloud 9!  But she won't take the initiative to put herself out there because the risk is too great and the consequences could be devastating.\n\nIt's a double standard, isn't it?  Guys are supposed to accept rejection without question and not be hurt by it.  Grown men don't cry and all they want to do by talking to us is to get into our pants.  God forbid they might actually want to have a conversation and get to know us...maybe forge even a friendship.  It just doesn't happen that way.  Besides, we're better than that!  We won't give them the chance.  Women can be quite cruel.
821212
I think part of it may be to keep others from questioning their sexuality--in other words, it's their own insecurity about how others perceive them. To me it seems that heterosexual men are very concerned that they not be seen as gay, even by accident. Because two women together is often more accepted by heterosexual society (a popular heterosexual male fantasy), I think you won't hear women say this as often. Also, I think women are generally more gay tolerant. Perhaps that's another reason they don't feel the need to separate themselves verbally by the "I'm not" tag.
344018
sure u can find a woman attractive, but no sexually driven to her, there's a difference.\ni dont i became gay,cuz i have never been str8, ever since i started to have curiosity in sex and stuff i have always been drawn to guys\nboth emotionally & physically