My boyfriend say that im very pretty but he acts very insecure why?
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Probably because you are pretty!  He is worried you'll find "something better." \n\nJust do your best to reassure him, but don't allow him to get all jealous and controlling on you, OK?
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the spelling's insecure and it means your boyfie is not so sure of himself...or lacks self-confidence. what does that mean? means he gets nervous or irritated becos of certain shortcomings that make him afraid...
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You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
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Dump him.  Boyfriend not trusting means he is insecure.  It is a sign of abuse.
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You have very low self esteem. If your boyfriend doesn't give you any means to react this way then YES it's all in your head. You have probably been hurt,lied,cheated or deceived in the past. Well that's the past. You have to look ahead to the present/futur now. Just because others have deceived you doesn't mean that your present boyfriend will. You have to take a chance in life and open your heart. It's better to have Loved and Lost to have never had Loved at all. Have a little faith and trust in him. But if he does deceive you then hunt him down and shoot him. hahaha !
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Jealousy is a form of insecurity.  You either don't feel like your pretty enough, deserving of him, or you have some other reason to feel insecure.  You need to deal with those issues in order become a less jealous person.
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yea..like wut georga sed..having a difficult time talking to ya. and maybe, having a hard time to look ya in the eye.\nfeeling insecure when he's with you. \nor, you could test him. try being alone and see if he'll come. or, talk to a guy and see if he shows signs of jealousy.\nyou could also see if he'd do anything for you..lolx
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People aren't beautiful/handsome because of how they look on the outside. That changes with the years. Its what they have inside that truly lasts. Maybe he's seen the inner you, which he sees as TRUE beauty. Think about this and don't stress over it so much.
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He thinks you're pretty. He would like to flirt with you and get to know you better.\nDon't worry a lot of women don't seem to get this common tactic that men use to get your attention.
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You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
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"Pretty" is giving a complement and being a nice guy, and I wouldn't worry.\n\nIf he says thinks like DAMN YOU'RE HOTT!! Or makes sexual suggestions, etc.... Then maybe you should confront him / be worried.
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He needs to get more comfortable with you. try talkin to him. Better yet, when you are together just kiss him or massage his ego a bit by telling him how sexy he is.
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Honestly? nothing, there is no reason why your boyfriend can't think your friend is cute.  This is not a statement about you or your relationship.  I personally am in love with the most amazing woman on earth, and I think that Elizabeth Hurley is cute, this doesn't make me a bad person or mean that  I love my girl any less.  Now if he is giving you reason to doubt if he is being faithful, then talk about your concerns but it is  VITAL that you don't start accusing him or her of anything without a reason.  Try and be more secure in yourself, after all your guy is with you isn't he?
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there are 2 things a person does not know about themselves... what they sound like and what they look like.  your own self-perceptions prevent you from knowing this.  If this guy likes the way you look, than perhaps he knows better what other people see when they look at you.  Your low self esteem will prevent you from seeing yourself as beautiful as long as you think you are not.
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You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
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Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
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I just answered your question about how to prove to your gf that you love her.  Sounds like you might be the one that could be insecure?  Don't worry man.. just chill.  Girls are more attracted to confidence than anything else including looks, smarts, ...