Why am I so hurt, and do you think he's telling the truth?
106235
because u grow to have feelings for him and your hut that he lie to you when he could have just told you the truth men do that so that they can have there cake and eat it to just let him be you dont need to be having sex with him let him stay as your friend or leave him along he could be telling the truth or he just don't want to have sex with you again
693399
Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.
394763
wondering\n_________\n\n\n\nSEE HIS LATEST QUESTION & SEE IF YOU DON'T AGREE....I FEEL VERY SORRY FOR HIS WIFE HE'S CALLING A B---H
347142
Well, if you tell him, I hope you will also honestly tell him that you genuinely feel bad about it.  What you did was hurtful and he's probably going to be hurt when you tell him.
466131
Honesty is the best policy. Tell him the truth as simply as you put it here.  Tell him quality rather then quanity. Too much hurts plain and simple. If he cares at all about you then this will take care of your problem. If he doesn't care then you shouldn't worry about hurting his feelings and tell him to just get off.
1171252
The truth will set you free. when you finally get in contact with him you make sure you tell him everything, Like how you didnt appreciate when he wasnt callin you and checking on you or nothing. Its alright to hear his side of the story but you give him a piece of your mind, and make him feel shity. you spending your time waiting on him to call, and he out doing other stuff. let'em know girl
347265
The "he's a liar" chick above me is an idiot. SHE'S not too judgemental, huh? Hehe. Of course everyone in jail is the DEVIL! (I'm being sarcastic). \n\nJail makes you think about things that you would normally take for granted: ie; your freedom, your hobbies, the people you love, and so on. I have a feeling he's never wanted to admit he loves you, because that usually overcomplicates things to an unnecessary extent. But now that he's incarcerated, he's had time to understand what life is like without you, and time to reflect on how important your relationship really is. As a result, he's finally come to the conclusion that he does love you, and he wants you to know it in case you two should ever be permanentley separated for some god-forsaken reason. I've been in his shoes before.\n\nOh yeah, and the guy who said "look to see if his pupils expand" is also on his own planet. Where the hell did THAT come from? Look, if his pupils expand, he's on acid. If they don't, he's not. And that's that.
579163
maybe, don't really know, he was hurt and you added to the hurt, but at least you wrote a letter of apology and an explanation, it all depends on if he reads it or not, he might be hurt and mad to the point that he just doesn't read it, if he doesn't reply in a timely manner then call him and keep calling him until he answers
605855
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
190736
Oh, this just SMACKS of "his feelings being hurt".\nSOMEBODY had to have said something to him such as :you said something bad about him.  OR, he has a crush on you and someone,(maybe even you),lead him to believe that you are attracted to another guy or had sex with another guy.\n\nHE IS EXIBITING ALL THE SIGNS OF BEING HURT!!!\n\nTRUST ME ON THIS ONE!  I've seen THIS movie so many times, I lost COUNT!\n\nAsk him what's bothering him and keep pursuing him for the answer.  He'll want you to, so he can keep saying "nothing 87 times.\n\nThen he will tell you.\n\nOH! the suspense is killing me.  You are going to be surprised.\n\nHe likes you more than you THOUGHT!
92605
I can't stand how he always asks me, What's wrong? when I tell him nothing, he thinks I'm lying even though nothing is wrong maybe I'm just tired of stressed out thinking about things that are going on at the moment or whatever. He always acts like I am mad at him or something and I won't tell him what he did wrong.
32931
Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!
53436
He's probably not lying... he may be having a period of remission, and that's why he seems healthy and blooming, but that would not aleays mean that he was not undergoing some sort of treatment. And you are right not to ask him for proof, that would be both rude and hurtful beyond measure.\nWhat you should do now is to continue to be his friend if you can...if it hurts too much to be around him and feeling more than friendship, distance yourself a little, but keep in touch.\nAll my best.
459040
Maybe he really loves you, and is afraid that he will upset you, so he takes his time coming up with the right words to explain how he is feeling. (I do that when I am in love) Maybe he even gets a little embarassed of his emotions sometimes, most of us are raised not to show what we are feeling.
804245
Obviously he's going through some hard times right now, especially  if this has scenario has never happened before.  I definitely think that he's hiding something or not telling you everything because when he got upset and gave your some BS, he was trying to shift the focus on getting angry at you instead of you finding out what was wrong with him.  Definitely give him some time and if you know him like you should, then he'll come around and tell you everything.  Tell him about your concerns and make sure to give him some space to work things out.\n\nGood luck!
435155
I fail to see why he should be upset.  It seems perfectly reasonable to "check him out".  \n\nThe only thing I can think of is that he was scared of being caught in a lie.  I'd say you're better off without him.
1064162
Believe it or not, this just happened to me last night.  My boyfriend was married for 11 years and they split up 9 months ago.  We have been going out for the last two months.  Last night, after about two beers, he looked me right in the eyes and said "I love you so much Ch*&^%)(*%$#."  I couldn't believe it.  He kept telling me he was so sorry and I know he felt terrible, but It is eating at me today too.  I know it was an accident and he didn't mean it, so I have decided to just force myself to stop thinking about it.  I know he loves me and I know he doesn't want to go back to her.  He is very loving and attentive in so many ways, so my advice to both of us is to stop being so sensitive and admit that our boyfriends are human.  They make mistakes, I wouldn't want him to crucify me if I were in his shoes.\n\nGood Luck.