why it too hard to find a true love?
100842
coz, the it is vary rare and only beacuse it is rare people think it is true
231669
Lower your superficial expectations.   Obviously, there is someone out there compatible for everyone.  It is just a game of statistics, lots of people, limited personalities/traits.\n\nAnyway, something you are holding as a prerequisite for dating is getting in the way of you finding your love.   Re-evaluate what you are looking for, and drop a few of your ideals.  I bet you will be suprised at who you find.
531472
why would you want someone that you have to try so hard to get anyway
12155
You can't make yourself find your soulmate. It just happens. Some people are supposed to meet theirs and some aren't. Can't force it either way. I wish you luck though.
242418
It happens when it is meant to be.  I am sure that you will find it, just be patient and it usually comes when you are least expected.  I am telling you all these from real life experience and I do have a true love in my life!
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
27953
By discovering who you are and pursuing what interest you. Before you can find true love you need to be a whole person well rounded and completely comfortable with who you are. Many people make the mistake of looking for someone to make them whole when another person can never make you whole. Keep your eye open for a person that compliments who you are that makes for a healthy long lasting relationship that will fair all the storms.
169922
Yeah, sadly in this world, at this era ... People cheat, being greedy, fake, calculate about money, benefit ...\n\nBut if you are lucky, you still find true love which is enjoyable. Be yourself first, and be honest, kind, passionate, devoted ... the best you can.\nDon't forget to keep your eyes open, though ...
987940
Because your trying to find a girl to "Love".  You need to take things a step at a time.  You need to find a girl you want as a friend.  Then maybe you want her as your gf.  Love is a patience process.  You cant just choose to love somebody.  It happens when you least expect it.
151704
I always keep an open mind.... true love is whatever you make it. If you want this to be your true love and he feels the same than it will work out that way. On the other hand if one of you is not as into the relationship than it won't work. Finding true love is not about finding perfect person but finding someone that you can compromise with and that is willing to work to have a happy relationship. If this is you than maybe you've found what your looking for.\n\nYou come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.-Sam Keen
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Short answer: Because life isn't fair.\n\nLong answer: Lots of things. It takes many people a long time to figure out what it is they want in a partner. For many, the traits that originally attract them to a person are those that bother them later. For instance, being spontaneous and fun becomes being unfocused and unreliable. Sometimes people are just unlucky in who they meet. Sometimes people just aren't ready for a real relationship. Sometime people have standards that are too high.\n\nJust keep trying.
415177
Because you're still looking! Love comes when you least expect it! Stop looking so hard and let love find you!!!
307219
because when we go into a relationship, we really put ourselves out there, and give it 110% expecting the same in return, as whole heartedly as we can be, its really hard to find sincere people these days, but don't dont worry you'll find someone that will care and love you the way you really deserve, and put all their effort into the relationship, the same as your doing.
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True love is not something that just happens. True Love is the result of two people who come together and are able to understand the needs they can and can not fulfil for the other person. Then, they work dilligently to meet those needs that they can.  (no one person can meet all of your needs) This creates the happiness that is associated with what we consider "True Love". I believe we can have "True Love" with many people in this world. Although there may be the *potential* for True Love with some, if they are unprepared and unwilling to do the work it takes to make a "forever relationship" actually be just that, *forever*, then they can never manifest that True Love WITH you. At that point you must know that there are others out there who may be capeable of creating this kind of love with you. But first and foremost, YOU must be "THE ONE" and then you should be able to attract YOUR ONE, to you. Never let the concept of True Love capture you in a bad relationship. I've always found a lot of freedom in the following quote "I love you, but it doesn't mean I have to live my life with you." Good luck in becoming and finding The One.
511537
Because it takes money to attract the possibility of love.
122044
ya know looking for a true love....u cant find it here but can find may friends......who can help u...
45258
It isn't hard you are probably looking in the wrong places. \n\nIncase you need some inspiration: http://www.newagey.com/dating-love/top-10-places-to-find-mr-right/