tha for boys..can you tell me why BORYS are shy give me a reasons why!!!?
109631
because theyare boys not men.  give them time to grow up. they arent intrested in girls yet.
902770
There are actually a lot of guys out there that are your brother's age who have never had a girlfriend either.\nDoesn't by any means signify that they're gay.\nIt just means he hasn't found the right girl yet.\nThe fact that he's really shy could be the factor as to why these other girls didn't return his calls.  Maybe he's still a little too hard to talk to?  Maybe he's just getting used to the idea of communicating with the females and just hasn't found his "niche" yet.\nThe fact that your mother babies him doesn't mean anything, either.  It just means that he's most likely to want to settle down with a girl who will treat him the same way, is all.\nThere really is no "recipe" for homosexuality.\nI wouldn't think too much about this.
391832
Because we're afraid of those 3 words. they are a sign of commitment and boys like to be free to play. give a guy freedom and if he's a good one, he will love you for sure.(don't be jelous, but know when he's abusing it)
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
243939
Its never bad to be shy, not to mention.. shy guys are attractive
973244
i sometimes feel this way. i don't feel like I am that shy of a person, but I guess other people think I am very shy. and then when boys I like tell me to be myself and say what I want, I get flustered and say things like "i don't know" even though I have a full journal of stuff I would love to tell them. I don't know why it is so hard for me to speak up in certain social situations. I have things to say, and sometimes I start talking, but then like you said, the more aggressive/louder person takes the conversation over. I guess you and I both just have to try harder to speak our minds and not think so much about what other people will think. Easier said than done though... I hate being shy and I don't know how to get rid of it. and it certainly causes problems in meeting men. so u aren't the only one out there with this issue
253699
He's shy.  It's easier to say when you aren't looking at someone.  If you love him, say it to him first, like when you are saying goodnight or whatever---he will probably say it back.
878782
Well, usually (but not always) if a friend asks it's either because the boy is shy himself, or the friend likes you. Ask Nickie if he really wanted your number, and that should settle the whole issue. Hope this helps!
588629
loss of confidence maybe,be a man and talk to them naturally as u would do with a boy,ok
298396
Because boys are gonna be boys. Its hard to find descent boys these days. I'm 16 and there are boys who try to talk to me or get my number but as girls, we all know what most of them want! Their minds are still not functioned right  so give them time an you'll see an improvement!
505973
He might be thinking about it.  Men and boys tend to think about whether they like us or not before they get too hooked into their feelings.  Give him a couple of weeks to think it through and don't let anyone pressure him for his feelings before he has had a chance to think about them.x
375115
This may be true. They(boys) may find you a bit intimidating because you are confident and probably because of your maturity they may think they don't stand a chance with you.  But don't change because they are too wimpy to approach you.  There are lots of guys that like a challenge and are not intimidated by talented, competitive, confident young ladies. They find this appealing.
227760
I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
622514
As hard as you may find this to believe, you may actually find that you are intimidating to them. Boys at that age are more nervous than you might believe. Being a well endowed, or self-aware girl makes you a confident person. There is NOTHING wrong with that, and your friends may even envy you for it. Don't change a thing girl, and let them catch up with YOU... you're doing fine!! Good luck!
383661
Hey! I understand how you must be feeling. It is better to talk to him openly with out pushing him at all. While talking to him make sure that you are giving him enough space to answer your questions. Dont ask him any close ended questions. Ask him only open end questions. I feel he must be very busy with his bussiness since it is new, he needs to pay more attension to his bussiness to grow. Generally boys are very less in talking and showing feelings. it doesnt mean that they are not sensitive. So dont jump in to conclusion and be open to him and dont try to control him or try not to doubt him too. give him time. I wish you good luck. God be with you.
796442
i would say either he is shy or just not comfortable tellling someone who is not in his circle of friends his feelings for you. you should comfront him about it or just ask one of his friends. maybe just ask him straight up when your friend is nearby and see what he says.
56927
Shy guys usually lack self confidence. Even the thought of going up to a girl and talking to her fires off all these negative thoughts into their heads\n"what will she think of me?!" "what if she doesnt like me?" "oh why did i wear this shirt today it doesnt make me look nice" "what will I say... what if we find nothing to talk about and she finds me totally lame and pathetic"\n\n*sigh*