how do i find out if this guy at work is gay besides the fact that he looks at me everyday?
109197
Well, it may sound cliche, but mannerisms are a hint.  I say hint because of all the "halfway" metros (no offence).  No, honestly, the best way is to actually talk to this person.  Be polite and professional, and after a while, you should know.  Best advice if you are interested.\nHowever, if you are not interested and just want to know if this person may have a thing for you, you really need to understand that it's all around, everywhere you turn.  Unattractive girls, homosexual men, if they end up having a thing for you, take it as a compliment, let them know your position, and that's that.  They should respect your decisions and lifestyle, and if not, the issue is not with you so you're in the clear.\nHope this helps.
829512
Ask him.  Maybe he'll tell ya!
387884
If he's really your friend than he wouldn't care after you tell him you're gay, but try to talk to him and tell him how you feel..... Just don't push it though, Just try to be more of a friend and don't show any sighns that you like him, I have the same problem that's why I'm telling you this, Is the first time that I felt atracted to a guy (even though he atracts me as a women would atract me) I been with alot of girls and still like them, but I have the same problem you do, he's my friend, at first I couldn't stop thinking of him and called him sometimes, I got nervous when around him, but never seem to get a reaction from him, so I stop calling, still talk to him at work and I try to be more sure of myself and be more confident, now he gets nervous arond me and ask me if I want to smoke outside with him....We have a really good comversation and he trusts me more, He invited me for his b-day party, and even though I work that day I was willing to work 18 hours straight on another day just to get that day of, what I mean is be a good friend and more confident about yourself, don't think too much of the situation and just go with flow... I don't even know if he's bi, bacause him and I use to go out with the same girl, I just found that out! But he's a nice person and a good friend, and I'm basically showing him that he has a strong firend by his side that is there for him and winning his trust, and when you like someone just think that is not always you, is more about that person really.... But good luck with him though!
314234
Well to be honest with you if a guy remotely seems liek he's hitting on you he probably is. As a general rule (99.9%) if he's straight and he's talking to you and or your friend chances are he's up for dating and I can promis you he's atleast thought about it. Out of curiosity you shoudl try asking them when you think they are.
1138681
You can tell if your friend is gay by asking him.  \n\nIf you are not gay, you may want to mention how his behavior is unpleasant to you.\n\nIf you are gay, and he freaks out when you ask, you can point out that you're not the one who has been making sex comments and running around naked, and perhaps he should think about his actions.
761016
If you flat out ask him, it could be awkward for both of you. Maybe you should be a little bit stronger in your hints and say something along the lines that, even though you are straight, you wouldn't mind having a gay friend and ask him if he has ever known anyone who is gay. Most gay people have the feeling that it is killing them inside before they come out, so even if he doesn't open up to you right away remain a close friend. If he is gay, your friendship will mean a lot to him.
736118
Ask him if theres anything he's not telling you......
53604
Well if hes always looking at you obviously he must be intersted in something....if you havent talked to him yet go ahead and make convo with him the next time you see him. as you guys are gettin to know eachother youll be able to tell the difference if he wants sumthing more....GOOD LUCK!
78751
If your HR manager realizes his strange behavior, you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him and find out what the problem is. Are you doing something wrong or is he just mad crushing on you!! Either way a second party has confirmed a noticable weird behavior by him so you do have some back up if thinigs don't go as planed.
1093822
No he is no gay he has a gf but thay say he is bi for mor info go to Channing -Tatum.com  and go to he myspace pag
54703
Your best bet is to simply ask . You can not tell just by looking at someone thats for sure .
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
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My psychic opinion is yes, he is gay...   but either isn't completely aware or hasn't completely accepted it yet.\n\nIf you enjoy the attention, tell him so.  If you do not, tell him to stop.  If you would like to take it further, next time he is rubbing your stomach, tell him he could do that a little further south and you wouldn't mind...  this should get you where you want to go.\n\nGood luck and have fun...   \n\nPS  don't forget the condoms.
600842
Approach him and find out if he's doing anything after work. You dont' need to be classy about it just don't be the opposite.
1103660
I think he totally likes you. I'm sort of going through the same thing right now...I totally have a crush on this guy at work but I have a boyfriend!! Just try to keep flirting down to a minimum so you don't lead him on but also to protect your relationship. And make sure you remain friends with him, it's always good to have a buddy at work  =)
785169
Hmmmm....well I suppose he could be gay. But trust me if you keep staring at him and stalking him, whether he's gay or not, he's gonna be creeped out by you.\n\nRelax and slow down. What's your hurry? He knows you're there...and if you quit bothering him (pretend like he's not there) that'll probably peek his interest and bring him to you.\n\nTake it nice & slow.
875448
i dont know the guy probably was gay