I dont know if he loves me or not he wrote love letters for me but he has a girlfriend and he is with her ?
115900
The fact that you are even asking yourself this question means that deep down you already know the answer to that. He doesn't love you. One because he's cheating on his girlfried by writing you love letters, and second, do you really want someone who is unfaithful?
776991
Um....so you are asking us this...you are attracted to this guy, who either has a girlfriend and just flirts with you, or is not honest with you.  I'm thinking that he is either considering cheating on his mysterious girlfriend with you and just hasn't the courage yet, or  he just wants to fool around a little without commitments...And he knows that he has you hooked..So if you really want to pursue this...be patient..ignore him and don't be so available....see what happens.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
1155504
If you "just" met him, are you really sure that you love him?\n\nAlso, if he has a girlfriend and isn't ready to break it off with her and be with you, then forget about him. If you tell him you love him, you will scare him off. Wait and see what happens. If he really likes you, he'll come to you.
372524
I think you should leave him before he does. he sounds like the typical guy that doesn't want to be with his girl or that is cheating on her. You deserve better. Find someone that makes you happy and that shows you that he LOVES you. Talk to him and ask him whats up with him and if he acts like he doesn't care, LEAVE HIM. \n\nGood Luck
643095
May be, he might have found his love with someother girl, when he was away. Firt find out this stuff. Then also you have your rights depends on how close youtwo are. Just talk to him first.
997995
If he has a gf, it's safe to assume that he is in love with her.  Unless you want to suffer the plight of unrequited love, then, just direct your attentions elsewhere.  It's hard but it's your choice to move on and live a more fulfilling life.  Good luck!  :)
592576
it sounds to me as if he is using you. He is keeping you on a string in case things don't work out with his ex. If there is nothing going on between them, than he wouldn't have a problem letting her know that he is in love with you. I think you need to move on and find someone who will treat you the way that you deserve. You don't deserve to be used. Good Luck\n\nk.m.
548429
Don't trust that kind of man, maybe your not the only one girlfriend that he had presently. Let him and go see for a true lovers.
130480
of course he loves u!!! he came down for the weekend didnt he? he's never cheated on u has he? u 2 have been together for TWO YEARS havent u? i think that that's ample proof that he loves u!
608197
If he's mentioning his girlfriend, it may mean a lot of things, but a couple are:\n\n1) He's pretty happy with her but wants to keep his options open (jerk)\n2) He's using the girlfriend thing as an excuse not to get more involved with you.\n3) He doesn't know what he wants and will say anything to avoid making a decision about who he's 'dating'\n\nYou can't make someone like you, but you can scare them off!  Don't be eager to get this guy...take some time to get to know him if you can...really casual.  If you get along and it's meant to be, things will change.  Also, you may realize that you don't like him as much afterall.\n\nOne sorta sneaky thing is to learn about him and his girlfriend - what bugs him about her?  If you're the opposite, make it known (subtle!)...that mixed with your good personality and easy-going ways might catch his attention.  Good luck!
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
539235
You will know with time. Any man will be happy to get such a note. But that does not mean he shares your feelings. See how he responds on his own without your prompting. Will he want to take the relationship further? Try not to act too desperate.
678037
well he has a gf first of all. second does he like u back. if not then im sorry but then he doesnt. if he does and he is willing to break up with her to go with u...realise that u would be the reason he would be breaking up with her...do u always want that on your mind and wonder if he will do it to you? probably not. so think about it. \njust let time do its thing, if they dont work out then make your move...until then i would say just friends!!!
904838
It could be a possibility...Why don't you talk to him more, find out what he likes then ask him if he has a girlfriend. At that point he will have the chance to ask you out
1010730
confront him.. depending on his reply.. take it from there.. personally love him or not i would never b in competition with anyone.. if he wants someone else them more power to him.. i'll find someone who wants me and only me. he will do the same to her someday. u deserve better. u have invested a year of ur life do u want to waste anymore on someone who cant b faithul? and yes he is being unfaithful by writing and fueling her intrest even if he hasent done the nasty yet..love isnt a one way street...
612419
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.