are me and my boyfriend really in love?
98982
If you have to ask, then no.
943431
YES, it is possible! I have been married for three years now and I am totally in love and, at the same time, completely infatuated.
995689
If in doubt, don't.  That's a good rule for every aspect of life. Sounds like you may be having some doubt, just by the way you asked if there's a "test."  The true test is the test of time.  If he and you are able to make it this far, then love will wait. Love doesn't just ...go away.   Let things take their course.  If you truely love him, and he loves you, then things will fall into place on their own.  Best of luck to you!
246870
i think that you sould ask him bout what he think and if he can't anwer you then you sould know if he in love with you.take your time in your relationship
246775
If its really love, its not about what you say or do to or for each Other. Thats material love and is unpure. Real love exists in the heart. When you are together in love you will feel completely at peace, like the whole world could get swallowed and you wouldn't care, cause you were happy. And also it's pain. when your boyfriend leaves, do you ache for his return.\n\nJoy + Pain = Real Love\n\nHope this helps...
514219
If you really love him and he really loves you, than u should trust what your heart tells u and give your best to make it work but if u doubt just doubt for one second u r meant for each other than forget this relationship and move on\nCuz I really think he is madly in love with u
1116850
I am in love with my boyfriend, Steve. Our best friend introduced us a year ago. We started dating a momth later (after I had left my ex-husband) and we moved in together in November. I have never been sooooooooooooo happy in my whole life!! He is kind of old fashioned and treats me like a princess, or better yet a queen, like I deserve to be treated (my ex treated me like a piece of property and believed it was his right to lie, cheat, use/abuse drugs, verbally/mentally/emotionally abuse me, etc). Steve does not believe it's ok to lie, cheat, or abuse in any way--same as me. We believe that we are soul mates. We are sooooooooooooo much alike. There are only a few things that we don't have in common, just enough to keep it fun and interesting. We do plan to get married, but not sure when yet. He is going to tell his whole family of our plans for getting married at the family reunion this summer. :)\n\nAnd what's even better is his family (what ones I have met so far) have totally embraced me into their family and consider me as a part of the family already!
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
605065
you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
1166479
You just have to believe what your heart tells you to.My fiance' tells me he loves me every 5 minutes when we are together or on the phone.I believe him with my heart and so I would have to say if you think deep down that he really loves you then he probably does.
198027
Well, I have had a feeling I was in love like you are describing ....It was all very fast...or was it just lust...Anyhow...it felt like time stood still when we were together...but time actually went by and it went by fast.  It's like the breeze stops blowing and your heart stops for those moments you are together.  You never want it to end..Kinda feels like one big dream.  I have been with "the one" who this happend with for 5 years.  Hope my description helps....oh and you both feel it...not just one of you
336038
I've been asking myself the same question for years, I thought I was in love but wasn't 100% sure.  People would say its the one you would do anything for or always want to be around them.  Well I did all those things and I loved the shawty but I wasn't in love with them.  When I actually fell in love with the right one I knew right away that I was in love and I didn't really need to confirm my feelings with anyone.  So if you are not sure than you are not in love with them, but just love them.  You heart will tell you if you are in love not your mind.\n\nGood luck luv
343198
i don't think you relationship is that intense if he hasn't, but i'm guessing "blindly", more of a "black and white", low passion standard thing. and if he doesn't feel it that's strange, i think. i mean, i think you "should" be in love with someone you've been seeing that long. but, you are in collage and this may just be an extended fling so keep that in mind. but i am strange so i don't know
442736
Well if you really love him. And yall are in a strong realatationship, you first of all shouldnt even be asking this question. But if yall are in love and you feel its important to be open and honest about things, then ask him. Dont drive yourself crazii wondering. And dont follow him around or spy on him. Just say what youre feeling... and if he is, then its time to move on. And if he's not, then just use the excuse that you knew he wasnt, youre just scared to loose the one you love :)  it always works ;) good luck
385148
I can say Yes.\nI am in love with him in the net for one and a half year and we plan to meet in 4 months, we are both excited about that. Though I have not met him yet, I do believe that I love with my true feelings and so does he. It doesnt matter you love someone in the net or off the net. I feel lucky to have such a nice guy thanks to the internet.
459521
I think you answered that one yourself.. If you think he is really the greatest boyfriend, he has obviously given you a reason to think so. Like the gURL said.. if you want to know.. ask him.
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.