Will be looked down upon if I overdress?
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In general, yes; you will appear arrogant and silly. Imagine wearing a three-piece suit to mow the lawn, or showing up at a wedding in top hat, white tie and tails when the groom has just a rented tux.\n\n"does it vary for different situations . . ."\nYes. You don't wear the same clothes to a beach party, ski party, camping trip, work, church and the opera.\n\nAsk first and shoot for the middle, basically. You want to be dressed like most of the other people. You can still be a sartorial star; if the crowd has on jeans and a sport shirt, you'll look great if you wear jeans that fit properly and a sport shirt you've had professionally washed and ironed. Your T-shirt can have a cleverer slogan than the rest of the crows, if it is a t-shirt and shorts affair. A solid wool Brooks Brother's suit is going to look better than a polyester suit with little pills on it, if the party is semi-formal.
653287
No, if you've got in flaunt it!!!! I am a woman and I think that there is nothing wrong with it. The people that say that if you work there you are a ho or you are trashy are just jealous because there big ol' butts won't fit into the uniforms.!!!
856152
this is you.  don''t try to cover it up or alter it.  if you did then you would look like a dork
939787
he has no right to tell you what you can wear! show as much skin as you want. it wont bother me
125224
don't be embarassed?? why are you emarrassed??? You should be PROUD of your big package!Do people stare at you like you're a freak of nature or something? If they do the only thing i can suggest is dark denim in relaxed fit.
1138068
I'm not entirely understanding your question, but if I bent over, people would see down my top, and yes, my bra.  Wa-hey.  If people find them that exciting they should go hang out in a lingerie shop.
380385
wear something revealing..low cut shirt with midriff showing, miniskirt, thong underwear.\n\nyum!
519257
This really depends where you are seated.  Lots of tourists watch West End plays and most of them are casually dressed.  Better stay on the safe side and wear something dressy but not too dressy.
287255
anything that you feel comfortable in, should make you be presentable. wear what you like-what you feel, and if he doesn't think you look presentable-then maybe he isn't the one for you.\n\ni'm also petite-and the only advice i can give is DON'T wear capris...and wear heels-makes one's legs look longer.
366607
The only way to really find out is to dive right in to it. And thinking too much about it will only make you feel akward doing it. After you're done make sure your clothes are on right.
433303
Doesn't bother me one bit. Just thought you were making a fashion statement, looks fine to me. Why would anybody think you are being disrespectful or whatever, to me you should be able to wear what you want and when you want to, that is what freedom is all about is it not?
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I think "cacy_marie" and "Den" are the only ones that took this question seriously.  \n\nIf you wanted me to notice you, don't pepper me with a million pointless questions.  But DO ask me thing's like "what's up" and "i saw you doing or at... yada yada yada."  Also, it doesn't hurt to wear something nice, don't do the indecent Janet Jackson things the others are telling you.\n\n(And an extra tip, personally I am REALLY attacted to the innocent and nice type.  Play that to your advantage on guys like me.)\n\nGood luck!
301704
If it is against the dress code at work, I don't recommend it, but if there is nothing in the dress code saying that  you cannot wear a short advertising alcoholic beverages or t shirts then that should be up to you
237872
wear really short skirts, just kidding. Just act normal and try try to be a good person. Good luck girl.
955518
I really don't care if people crossdress or not--it it's their thing, then I don't see that I should criticize.  That being said, there are societal norms.  I don't believe those societal norms are always fair, or right, but still they exist and it is expected that people conform to them.  However, crossdressing is pretty harmless, and I think it's a pity that more people aren't tolerant of it.
432822
ok im 17 and have never had a real job but from listening to people my guess is you should dress casually not totally dressed up but DONT show up in jeans and an old raggy shirt either. Be yourself and everything should be ok
142377
I think that the jeans and sweater would do just fine. You should be comfortable and be prepared to be on your feet!