i love a gurl who is my best fren but she is aware of this love what shall i do should i propose her or what?
99637
So she IS aware of this love or she isn't??  Have you tried just asking her on a date?  I mean, proposing would be rushing it a bit considering you haven't even tried romance yet.  If she's aware you love her and she's your best friend, the only reason she might say no is to keep from risking your friendship.  if the realtionship doesn;t work out, she looses a friend.  if you just stay friends, what does she loose?  just ask her if she might be interested in turning your friendship into something more.  if she says no,  just let her know that if she changes her mind, you're still game, but otherwise you want to remain the great friends you've always been.
88296
Well, unfortunately you really cant MAKE anyone love you. If she is your best friend, then thats a great start! She already likes you and is comfortable with you, now you just have to see if she feels that way about you too.\nIf you feel comfortable doing so, you might ask her if she has ever seen you as being more than a friend. This is a tough thing to do, so wait until you are more comfortable doing so.\nJust make sure and remember: don't be too pushy. Nothing will scare her away faster.
504360
If you've never spoken to her, then proposing marriage is going to make her run off. You need to start a bit more slowly than that - try saying "Hello" first. You can't proclaim your love for someone that soon or she'll get you busted for harassment or stalking. But if she doesn't "love" you in return, marriage is out of the question - right now, you have a crush. That's it.
536209
Yikes, dude.  You were really trying for shock factor on that one.  Maybe you should have phrased that "How does a girl propose to a boy if he is her best friend" so people wouldn't think you were gay.  Man, seriously!  Anyway, just ask.  Of course, hopefully she is dating this guy, so maybe he'll have some interest in her.  If they are just friends & she wants to get married, she'll most likely be shot down.  But, I'm assuming she is dating him, so I'll say just ask.  The worst he can say is no.  Tell her respect his decision, & not to make too much of it, as he may just not be ready yet, if he does say no.  If he says yes, tell her congratulations.
887629
How well do you know her? If she is a long time friend then love is possible. If you have just met her it is only infatuation and you dont know her well enough to love her. \n\nWhichever it is, start by asking her out on a date and work toward girlfriendom. If you just come out and say you love her before you WOO her - she might think your looney. You love her - take the TIME to spend time with her and SHOW her that you care and want to make her happy. You can tell her later when you both feel that way and you will know when that time is when you get there. Then it will be perfect. \np.s. If she wont go out with you after several offers, then it doesnt matter how you feel - she isnt interested. Dont become a stalker - leave her be and look elsewhere.
685284
If she only thouhgt of you as a friend then how could she break up with you??? That doesn't make any sense my friend.\n\nEither you put more into her than you should have, or she led you on. She may be confused in that you're suppose to BE best friends before you fall in love.\n\nYou need to talk to this peson and find out what's what, accept what she says as true and valid and base your very next move on her response. Either move on and forget about her period, or perhaps cultivate a relationship with her.\n\nI hope it works out for you one way or the other....that you be happy!
616527
The LAST thing you want to do is tell EITHER of them. You state you dont WANT to love her. Then stop it, she is with your FREIND. Show some character and dont interfere with THEIR relationship to satisfy something that you state yourself that you dont really want to begin with. Women DO come and go...but FREINDS can be forever if you treat them right.
37865
If you tell her you love her without making being absoulutely very positive that she may feel the same way, your relationship as friends will never be the same. WAIT and make sure the signs are there before you take that leap.
402735
Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
53050
There's no one right way.  You obviously know her better than anyone here.  Girls seem to like a surprise though, so try to be casual/normal that day, so she doesn't suspect something is going on.  Take her somewhere that's meaningful to her, or to you both.  It doesn't have to be anywhere fancy, just somewhere special to You guys.  Just have fun together.  When you are ready, find a quiet moment, make direct eye contact, and tell her how you feel about her... whatever it is that you love about her that makes you want to propose in the first place.  There's no wrong things to say if it all comes from the heart.  Then ask her :)    \nBest wishes!
917903
If she's with someone else now, don't do it.\n\nIf you're both available, just ask her what she thinks about it. Say something like, "We've been friends forever and we get along so well. Do you think we could ever date? Or would that just wreck things?"
104334
take he r somewhere out to a peaceful and lonely place and propose to her and then talk to her in a such an explaining way that the speech shud ensure her tat if she accepts ur luv she will be benifitted and it will last long.then it wont be a prob for her to accept ur luv.
880630
Spend more time with her, and if the chemsitry is right, then you'll both make the right moves!\n\n-Ryan
205508
stop thinking this ............you will loos eyour best friend as well as the girl friend .........keep your emotion for time being withing and wenever they broke off ......propose her
659456
You should not propose marriage to a girl that doesn't talk much to you.  The answer will be "NO".  You should learn to know her, go out with her and see if she likes you first.
1148333
First my friend as a christian I have to ask if you are truly accepting that God will wants you to do this? If you believe in your heart that it is what God wants and you want to be with her and you are that close to her then you do something SUPERSONIC! Blow her mind with the most romantic evening you can come up with. Take her to the place you first met, rose peddles all over the place...candles and you get on one knee and you tell her that she is the love of your life and you want to spend all eternity with her, that she is the meaning in your life, you produce a ring that she will cherish and you ask her..."will you make me the happiest man alive and spend eternity with me" but you have to mean it. A woman knows it you mean it. Good Luck my friend.
374820
You would propose to her like any other woman. Take her to a nice restaurant or walk in the park/beach. Then when you feel that the time is right, tell her how much you love her and wouldn't change one thing about her. You could then tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and so on, use feeling that come from the heart. Then ask, will you marry me? Whether in English or Spanish, it doesn't matter because it came from within and that's a language we all speak. Hope she says, yes!