should i stay with the woman i love even though she got me for dv?
114200
If love is true, then I would suggest counseling and possibly anger management classes or something.  You certainly don't want that to happen again and lose control for either of your sakes!  Good luck!!
251033
I think she is still in love with U coz she stayed with U.sure money may make women stays,but not with a people who has a serious proplems,She do love U.\ngood luck man\n:)
1175244
Why if she love and respects you whats the problem i would stick by my man whatever he wants to do. She should support you.\n\nMaybe she is scared that you will have to go to iraq or something you have to talk about it to her and you both have to be reasonable and she will have to give you good reasons. Good luck and fair play wanting to join up
979089
enjoy the time you have with her-but brace yourself that it may end.you dont want to regret the last few days you have with her because you were too busy protecting your heart.It will bounce back-I promise
787137
If youre still with her, You love them to death man, suffocate (metaphorically , of course) them with compassion.\nChances are she'll respect you for not giving in, or being to hard.  Im sure she's the type who has two faces, win them over and those girls usually turn out to be the most loyal at the end.\n\nIf youre not with her or care for her, run!!!! Run!!!! RUN!!!!!!
901429
You must have seen something good in her for you to have stayed with her as long as you did. Maybe you can acknowledge that she's a good person and that you value the positive part of your past relationship. Then be straightforward, but kind, and say what you said here. She might become emotional and dramatic, but you stay calm, affirm her where you can, but keep it short and then leave. \n\nGood luck!
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
62918
Stay the course...If you really love her..do what you have to do and keep your dignity..keep loving her and time well might be the answer...Have faith & good luck to you !!!
749248
thats awsome!  ofcourse its important, but if she really loves ya, she will stay with you.  explain to her that your not like the other guys who can't control themselves, and you have a brain that controls your body, not the other way around.  I have respect for you.
904014
All that info and non of it really maters. The question is whether or not you love her. If you do stay if not don't. Life is to short to spend it putting it off.
515623
I think you should stay loyal to your current girlfriend. If she is pregnant, she is going to need you by her side for support.
411892
Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
39714
It all boils down to the fact that you are the one who has to live with and sleep with her every night and wake up to her every day.  If this is the woman that makes you happy and makes your heart skip a beat, then I say go for it.
1063192
You may never regain the trust she had for you. You can suggest counselling and also don't try to rush it. You have a lot of bad marks against you and really need to prove yourself to her. Also have you thought about what will happen if you get back with her? What made you get into the affair in the same place? Will this reoccurring bad behavior surface again. I'm don't deny that she loves you but just doesn't want to go through the pain of betrayl again. Take some time and get your priorities straight. Good luck
575842
Your side of it is understandable, but she wronged you. That was immoral, wrong and inexcusable. Selfish, too! Love doesn't make it right. SO on the other hand, he's right. You should leave her for a while. Leaving doesn't mean you have to stop loving, even though you're not loved. Listen to your bf. Natrually a juvi should stay in parent's house, but under those cirucumstances, it wouldn't be right. She ssounds as bad as the evil step mother in that movie "Ever After", who was also an immoral lier.
1107888
I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
632910
If you are not so sure then you have to say No.  Tell her you are uncomfortable with it and that it will change the dynamic of your relationship, and not for the better.  Don't give in just to appease her,  you will not respect yourself or her.  If she loves you, she will respect your decision.