Does your first time having sex hurt?
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Yes, you have some pain; it's just like trying to break into something that has been closed, and yes it is pleasureable, but if you are not married, please wait.  You will be very grateful.  It will only be disappointing when you began to have sex, and it's not with your husband.  You will start having sex with any tom, charly, and harry that comes along.  If possible, stay a virgin until marriage.  It is only diseases and death when you take a chance.  You never know where someone's mouth has been.  Try to meet someone that has the same mind-set as you do.  Be ye equally yoked.  You will not regret it.  Your body is precious, don't let others abuse it.  It may be the popular thing to do, but it's not the safes thing to do.  Do not let your peers pressure you, and if the do, cut them aloose because they are not your friend!  Save your body for that special someone.
770303
It hurts really bad the first time (8/10), but then every time after that it gets a little better...if you are asking what I think you are asking, lol.
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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In the movies it is acting...but, YES, sex can hurt.\n\nIf you are going at it too hard, or if you do not have sufficient lubrication, it can be downright painful.
850871
I'm going to assume you mean first time intercourse between a male and female. What happens is that you have sex for the first time. For the woman, if her hymen hasn't been torn or whatever from anything else, it will rip or tear, and it might be a bit painful, and it might bleed a little, not a lot.\n\nI don't know what the previous answerer is talking about, the uterus widening? I think he needs a lesson in human anatomy.\n\nHere's a good site that gives accurate information. This page is for the first time for a woman, and on the left, you can click on "His first time" for information about a man.\nhttp://www.sexinfo101.com/ic_herfirst.shtml
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After you have sex for the first time or have a female problem.
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No. Apparently you've been watching too much bad porn. And by bad, I mean fake.\n\nOnce girls/young women have lost their virginity, sex is not painful unless she is forced to have intercourse without becoming properly lubricated first. In other words, as long as there is foreplay and the desire is mutual, sex is pleasant for women, not painful. However, there is a type of "pain" that is a "good pain" that is basically not much more than a bit of temporary pressure on excited nerve endings, and when a woman experiences this, she often responds with moans or screams of pleasure.\n\nIf a woman is screaming so loud it sounds like someone is killing her, there's either one of two problems: 1. She is in pain because she's either a virgin or her vagina isn't lubricated or expanded properly. 2. She's overacting. If it's the first case, by all means stop having sex immediately!!! If it's the second, you can either ask her to shut up or put a pillow over her mouth (but not so tightly as to smother her).
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ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
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OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
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I was really lucky. The first time I had sex it was with my best friend. We where both virgins and it was really bad for both of it. But it was fun to explore each other because we both knew each other really well and we are still really close friends today and can talk about anything. Many people don't have that in their life and so I can understand why you are asking this question. You will know, when you know. It can happen at anytime. You can plan a certain night for it to happen or it might just come as a surprise. You might want to wait a little longer. And after its all done. Even if it was planned you still might have regrets. But don't worry. Its a common thing among many teens and young adults. Don't be afraid to talk about with people.\n\nThis is a website full of first time sex stories:
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Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
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my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
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Yes it does hurt. You should never have sex
397246
you didn't lose your virginity to sports, but you could have broken or stretched your hymen (the tissue that break during first-time intercourse), so it didn't cause pain during sex
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ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
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that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.