why is it ok for women to be bi but not cool for guys to be bi?
100008
To me it's all the same.  I agree that if 2 girls is accepted in society, than 2 men should be accepted in society.  But to me I could care less regardless.
1162028
You can be Bisexual. It makes the decision a lot easier.
1096539
No, it's called bi-curoius! It's not wrong at all! If your really interested, try it out!
851361
There are certainly negative aspects of being bi, but you cannot change who you are.  You can be "straight" by dating a woman, just like you can be "gay by dating a man; sexuality is fluid and should be described on your own terms.  You should not feel bad that people call you a bisexual, because you must own who you are.  Live your own life how you want to and only surround yourself with people who respect that.
1110332
That is just ignorance, a simple lack of education on the issue. Bisexauls do not have a choice anymore then a lesbian/gay or straight person does. Bi people have feeling for both girls and guys, but they one stay with one (marry either a girl or guy.) But whoever that bi person ends up with she/he is still bisexaul. The girl that marries a man is still bi, she doesn't try straight. Or if the girl marries another woman she is still bi, not a lesbian!! Kicking people out of your "gay" club is just dumb. It's like nether side wants to own them because they are scared of them, people fear what they don't understand. It's sad really. Not only do many bi people have to "prove" themselves to the straight community but now to the gay/lesbian community too, and they should know the about the "your not real" lie. \n\nBialogue tells about the fight bisexauls must face just to love who they love. Link: http://www.bialogue.org/index.html\n\nEdit: I found a web-page your lesbian friend should look at giving many myths and realities about bisexuals, please have her read it. http://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out_as_Bi&Template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=32351 \n\nAlso please read the myths page too and tell me what you think now. Thanks.
1130959
I'm bi and its not from boredom.   I have a strong attraction to men just like most women, but I also have an equally strong attraction to women.   I see someone who turns me on and I react the same way you might with someone of the opposite sex, the difference is that for me the person can be but doesn't have to be of the opposite sex.   I hope that helps.
872579
People fear what they don't know, some people just cannot accept the fact that not everyone is like them nor should they have to be. We are all individuals with certain qualities that make us unique and who we are. Bisexuality is actually something that we all have in us however not everyone would accept that fact not would they act upon it. I beleive that being attracted to our own sex if normal . Some people can accept that and not experiment and some do experiment and find it gratifying. To each his own and no one should ever condem anyone for their preferences. I would say that you should do what you need to do\nif you are happy with it however you don't need to make it public.\nWhy not let that be something you explore discreeetly, not everyone needs to know.  So just remember this bisexuality thing is normal and do what you need to do.
703392
umm, lets see...well from experience, i just treat guys and girls the same. i dont think of them as a "male" or "female," just as someone who makes me happy & who i make happy. i really dont differentiate, which is probably why i'm bi. but i mean do what feels natural/right/whatever. it's a relationship just like any other. =] good luck!
144616
i support it when the bisexuals are girls .i find it discusting when the bisexuals are man u may find my answer bios but thats what i like
184584
Okay...\n\n(1)  The "girlish" or feminine side in every male psyche is probably unrelated to his sexual identity as a gay, straight, or bi man.  Certainly the sets of traits that get characterized as "feminine" (whatever that means) are present in different degrees in every man, just as the sets of traits that get characterized as "masculine" are present in different degrees in every woman.  Maybe the whole girlish and boyish thing is a ruse, anyway, to keep us all acting as our authority figures instruct.  \n\n(2)  That said, to the extent your question is about being "100% straight," you may be confusing sexual fluidity (that the categories aren't as fixed and intractable as we are conditioned to believe) with actually taking on a bisexual identity.  Certainly a lot more people are bi than are comfortable admitting it.\n\n(3)  Being bi, however, is not universal.  The fluidity of sexuality is fairly universal.  But actually being a bisexual man is a particular sexual identity, not a secret reality beneath the surface of straight or gay identity.  Bi men are their own thing, their own culture, their own life-way.  Sexual fluidity is a different phenonenon--living culturally as a straight man, and primarily relating sexually to women, but with a capacity for some homoerotic desire or experience--this happens all the time, and would happen much more were the social consequences of being branded gay so negative in a homophobic society.\n\nSome of us, though, really are bi.  That means we are not hiding ourselves inside someone else's identity.  We live openly as bi men all the time, even when sexually monogamous to one partner (whether male or female).
1024154
I think the whole bisexual man idea is really new to most people.  Society is more accepting of us bisexual girls.  I find you completely interesting, myself.  Keep posting and maybe you'll inspire some other guys to come out.
973734
It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
781897
Because its not natural, for the Femal to be attracted by the same sex. It can be quite disturing to see them making out in public...its just un-natural.
366743
Because lesbians are more accepted in society than gay men.I believe that's because of  male fantasy of having two women together.
679042
Bisexual females, like bisexual males, have to put up with biphobia from both the gay and straight communities. Some lesbians feel insecure around bisexual females, accusing them of "sleeping with the enemy" or "being confused". Thankfully, things are changing.\n\nBeing a bisexual, you will probably find a bisexual dating site such as bicupid.com a good place to meet bisexuals online. Most dating sites are exlusively for homosexuals and heterosexuals. Alternatively, there may be a bisexual female group near to you?
1125357
If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
520924
I have no problem with bisexuality per se. I do have a problem with sharing my man. I don't want to share him with anyone, male or female.