If someone cheated at the beginin of the relationship would you stay with that person?
99299
it depends. if u feel he really loves , really means really, then u should. men dont take relationships seriously at the begining, but no one can tell when u r in love. so, be genuine to yourself and do what your innerself tells you to do. but if u acvcept him, make sure to check, he is genuine to you.
336122
Honestly, if you truly had a deep love for her, I don't think you would have cheated.  If the bond is weak enough that you both felt the need to stray, I'd have serious doubts about giving it another go...unless you both were willing to work hard to discover what caused these problems to begin with and were willing to work to resolve them.
863255
Yes, but it takes time and a huge commitment on both sides to make it happen!\n\nIf the person who cheated is willing to rebuild the trust they destroyed and the one cheated on is willing to work on forgiveness, than it is possible.  Difficult, but possible!
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
844740
I would stay. Because if you knew that you made each other happy and that it would mean they leave this world happy. You cant ever give anyone the gift of happiness greater. Even thought it would be hard knowing that they could slip away at any moment, i would personally stay with them
787134
I would say it is a big sign that the relationship isn't all it should be.  I know sometimes people do make mistakes, but to me, I'd rather move on after being cheated on than risk being hurt that way again.  But that's me, once the trust is broken then I can't seem to get past it.  Lots of people's relationships married or not do survive infidelity though.  I guess it just depends on the who what and why's.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
211345
I would leave her...once a cheater always a cheater....Apparently she doesnt love u like u want her too. Say goodbye and find better
782958
If my boyfriend cheated on me, by sleeping with someone, I wouldn't forgive him at all.  No matter who they slept with.  I would actually, cut his d**k off, glue it to his forehead, and call him a d**khead.
1091730
I only read the first two sentences. Why are you with him? I would of left him after he cheated once!!
985819
say NO. Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat. If he cheated then, how do you know he wont cheat now? If he lied then, how do you know he wont lie now? If you DO go back out with him you'll have to walk on eggshells the whole time because you'll be wondering in the back of your head "was he really where he told me he was, with the people he told me he was with, or was he somewhere else with somewhere else" Which saying those thigns to him or asking him alot will just lead to fights. A relationship is nothing without trust and it takes a long time to re-build trust after someone cheated/lied to you. Find someone out there who WONT do that to you, this guy sounds like a loser, and there are millions of guys out there that arent losers, so go find one! good luck!
1159440
If he or she can cheat on their partner with you... they'll most certainly be able to cheat on you at some time in the future... You'll never be able to completely trust this person. Do you care?
259682
Dump him. I've been cheated on before. I'll never put up with it again.
1153134
Once a cheater always a cheater. If he loved you like he says then he would not cheat! End of story!
1146047
I would stay with the one I love now. I would dump my other boyfriend but i would not tell him i cheated on him, i would just say i want to date other people or something. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. If you tell him the truth, it would always haunt you and him and make it difficult to ever be friends if you want that. When the trust is gone, its hard to get it back.
723348
don't really know, never cheated on anyone, don't understand the need to cheat.  i figure if you feel like cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.  but maybe him being in a relationship with you is just a way of him boosting his own confidence up a little for personal braggin rights such as "yea, i got a girlfriend".  either way just dump him and move on
238274
I'm going to be honest.  You may never re-earn your boyfriend's trust.  If I were him, I would break up with you right away.  You were a jerk for cheating.