do you agree sex before marriage?
117754
Nope.  Save it for marriage.  There's too many risks nowadays.  Diseases, babies, broken hearts.  It's just not worth any pain you may put yourself through because of it.  It only takes one time to get pregnant, one time to catch something, and one time to scar your heart for life.  I wouldn't chance it.
236692
wait until marriage True love waits and looks out for the best. sex before then looks out for me.
598082
I do because there are more chances that a relationship will last a lot longer for sex to come after marriage than for marriage to come after sex. To build a relationship you have to know what the foundation is made out of. Some choose sex to be the foundation of a relationship and some choose love as their foundation. Sex and love are two separate things and should NEVER be looked upon as an equal. Some people are too stubborn to realize that sex is suppose to be something done out of love; (if any is envolved) not the other way around. Chances are very good that if a person views sex as a foundation to a relationship, he/she wasn't looking for one in the first place. People often forget what marriage is these days. In most traditional marriages there's a line that says "for better or for worse"; if someone is gonna treat the other like some kind of merchandise such as a car or whatever and they have this mentality that they have to "try" someone out before marriage, they don't have any business getting married. Basically if this happens what that person is saying is that they don't love you, they're just gonna use you as temporary usage and if he/she doesn't like what's been provided, that person is gonna be stashed away. That is what's gonna happen when sex becomes before marriage.
453041
I think anything has time and sex is good after marriage... it make you more secure and has more meaning into it.\nmarriage as a "fortress for well-being", the normal and healthy state for adults, where sexual feelings can be safely expressed in a spirit of love. ... are expected to be completely chaste before marriage and totally faithful within marriage
1104126
It's sex before marriage. Some people are for it, some against it. I believe you should try before you buy.
1028090
sex before marriage with anyone is considered to be a sin & possibly you don't want to be a sinner.if you are getting married than don't why you wait for sometime.the wait is really going to be worth it....\nGOOD LUCK!!!
131419
you should wait until you're married to have sex.  you were meant to have an intimate, emotioanl, and spiritual realtionship with people of the opposite sex.\n\nsex outside of marriage, is not only dangerous, by regretful.\n\nfor example:\nyou could wind up as a one night stand\nyou can get numerous STD's\nyou can become pregnant \nor contractind AID's \n\nplease consider waiting until marriage to have sex. \n\nthink about:\n\nif you marry as a virgin to a person who is also a virgin....having sex would be a blissful act. anything you would do to eachother would feel wonderful!\n\nplus, anytime you have sex with someone, you connect with them. even if it's just subconsciously. \n\nwhy do you think that sex complicates things o much?!\n\nrespect yourself, and your future...please wait until marriage to have sex!!
343078
dear mohammad i don't know where do you live,i guess you are in west,but your name says that you are muslim .i am muslim girl .in islam girl shouldn't have sex before marriage.of course we feel love and romance but our religion and traditions protects us from falling.it's a great protection for the girl and for her husband in the future who will be happy to be the first man touching her and will feel happy that this woman will bring up his children.and believe me this is not only in islam but also in christianity.the christ and the holy bible order people to stay away from sex without marriage but these morals have changed in the west due to ideas of liberity.liberity is very important for everybody but it doesn't mean making sins.God bless you daer friend and your future wife and protect your children from her.
293971
Personally I think it is wrong. It is something so personal that it should only be shared with your husband/wife. I think having sex before marriage only leads to complications and jealousy
437138
For more conservative catholics, they perceive that sex is made for procreation and not for recreation.  So its a no-no for them to engage in pre-marital sex.  They believe that sex is a union of two people whom God have put together. Sex is considered sacred and must be initiate when you have undergone the sacrament of marriage.\n\nBut for my personal opinion, i wouldn't consider it a sin as long as you do it with someone you love and who loves you back. I think you won't violate any rules as long as both person's who engage in this wonderful act has really true connections spiritually and emotionally.
505211
Well are you a christian couple that does not believe in sex before marriage? If so it will be hard. Many people say you should know a person very well before you get married. However studies have shown that people who shack up usually end up not getting married or divorcing when they do. DR. Laura has shacking up as one of the "ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives". But if you feel it need to be done do it. That feeling is coming from god.(or the devil)You should know.Let the relationship progress step by step. It's in the Bible, II Peter 1:6-7, TLB. "Next, learn to put aside your own desires so that you will become patient and godly, gladly letting God have his way with you. This will make possible the next step, which is for you to enjoy other people and to like them, and finally you will grow to love them deeply."
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
795909
well, I think everyone is definitely entitled to their own opinion, but let me ask you all this: Say you have been dating someone for a long, long time, know all about them, and think they are your perfect match, your soul mate.  I'm talking, that one person that is perfect for you in any and every way and you know you could never live without. Then, the first and only time you have sex is a horrible experience for one/both of you and you decide that because of that one time, the future between the two of you is doomed.....? To me, that sounds like a really stupid reason to not want to marry someone...if you really loved them, you would be able to "work" on it and look past it. Of course it would be diffcult to be with someone that cant please you the way you want them to, but with time and a continued strong relationship, it will happen.\nI, personally, am saving myself for marriage for both personal and religious reasons.  I'm not going to lie and say that it has been easy to remain a virgin, but I know that by doing so, I am saving a wonderful experience for my husband and I to share, as well as avoiding a number of problems that can come along with premarital sex.
1053407
Good one, but I think it all depends on both parties. If they agree to just stay friends then I think they will stay that way without thinking of that "one thing". And second of all, their upbringing. If they grew up in a society which values relationships over sex then there wouldn't be any problem. I'm talking about waiting til they get married.
558666
Did you sign a prenuptial agreement?  If not, than I think you do have to share it.
1038221
why is it when we buy a car we test drive it first? why is it when we buy fruit that we eat, we pick it up and sqeeze it to make sure it is good? we do this to make sure it is good right? so why cant we test drvie our relationships and sqeeze our future spouses? i think it should be ok t obe with this person fully before you get marreid, what if you marry a pervert, that wants sex all the time, or what if he like to watch porn all the time.or what if you married a guy who deosnt sleep at night and loves to be on the computer all the time,make sure you married what you want and not what you have to deal with. thats what i did.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,