Why does all the cute guys at my school hate me (my school is west wilkes middle school).?
104703
The cute guys hate everyone who they think isn't worthy of their time and that's the factual truth. Even guys get a little of their so-called "wrath". Don't worry, one day when you blossom into a beautiful girl, they'll come crawling back after you - but you'll be just walking past them; giving them the cold shoulder...\n\nTrust me, your time will come...
962407
I am indeed sorry to tell you but in seeing the level of maturity you are at you can expect it to be awhile before boys catch up.\n\nSome never do. But the ones worth your time will not truly be mature enough to handle you until well after high school.\n\nNow let me say this. You are only in the 8th grade. You have a long time ahead of you before this really should even be something you worry about. I know you have now discovered boys. And some have discovered girls at your age but there is so much to know about relationships that it will take time.\n\nNever ever jump into any relationship because your lonely. I know....easy to say hard to do.....but it is very true.\nThere is a saying that best describes what I am saying.\n\n"How bad do you want it....the worse you want it the worse you will get it."\n\nTruer words were never spoken.\nYou sound like a intelligent girl. You know what is right and what is wrong. \n\nOnce you are in high school you may find guys are almost reasonable. But you have to watch out. The jerks are a bit harder to spot until it's too late. \n\nJust hang in there. There will be dates in your future and you will be glad you are as smart as you are.
962225
Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
330560
I think not alot chances of you meeting someone here that goes to the same middle school are slim!! good luck men!!
125794
I think that they are ugly and weird and retarted.  I don't even know why there is such a thing.  You can't let yourself stand out, stand out from the crowd, you can't let the world know that you have a sense of style.  I'm glad my school duzn't.
425375
well my BF made a lot of rude comments about me especially because i'm asian but we ended up together and we really love eachother. so i guess that when someone is making fun of u then they may like u because all the guys i have gone out with always made fun of me but we always ended up getting together.
384177
well, it depends on a lot of other things.  Since I know so little about you it's hard to say. They may very well be teasing you because of how you dress, that's pretty common, but there could be other factors as well. Most people get teased at some point during school regardless of what click they are a part of, but if you are in a click that is considered deviant you are more likely to get picked on frequently.  It's part of human nature to an extent to attack anything different.  When I was in high school I remember the goths and other "counter culture" types would always bad mouth the jock, and cheerleader types, the so called "popular" kids and vice versa.  Once you get out of high school you will probably encounter being teased rarely if at all.  The best way to deal with getting teased is to just not take it seriously, but of course that's easier said than done.
484834
oh yes :D mostly beacouse of jealousy ... girls hate girls and probably boys hate boys aswell
24610
wow...and again im in highschool and i DONT hang around vary many girls(talk to much crap). i have mostly guy friends and trust me they know im there! guys like girls with self confidence, so if there talking about how ugly some girl is agree with them and say "oh i know im so prettier than that person" like that other person said wear parfume and makup too! show some clevage, skirts, and or some clothes you normally dont wear! trust me girly once they see you in a skirt withsome clevage showing they diff. well notice! or just ask them if they notice anything diff. about you!
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
856458
hunt for guys in middle school please!!! just be yourself a boy will find you
84825
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG,\ni know guys are freaking the biggest perveted pigs in high school, but believe me all girls schools suck, i went 4 gr.9 then left and loved my choice! you need to learn how to interact with them and not be separated!its all a religious thing i think.control.All girl gyms, now thats good,hahaha.
222547
you are good looking.  but you shouldn't care what random strangers online care what you look like!  if you were a teen at my school you'd easily be with the "popular" girls.
796181
Because you are simply the most gorgeous girl in the world.  How do those other girls even stand to go to the same school as you?\nThank God you have NO ego!
172922
Don't take it personally. Unfortunately, everyone gets teased in school in some way, shape or form. I myself don't have good memories of school. Just remember to hold your head up high, do your best in school, go to college and get a great career, so that one day, maybe you'll become a President or CEO of a company and those same kids that made fun of you will be coming to you for a job and you can make them clean toilets. All that teasing will be nothing once you leave high school. Just find yourself a friend or friends that like you for who you are. Again, keep your head up kiddo!
943194
First of all I would say that the guys are probable picking on you because they do like you. I would say that the one that is married is a messed up guy and I promise you that there is a possibility that that guy could try to cheat on his wife with you. Also another thing would be with all the guys messing with you is just because you are a girl and they are guys and it is easy to pick on girls. I would say that the ones that you do not like I would say that you need to let them know how you feel and if they will not stop and you feel very uncomfortable then you might want to report it to your manager.  The other guy that thinks that you are beautiful then I would say (keep it going girl) He sounds like a good one. Keep hold of him.\nCathy
416867
It sounds like you need to worry more about school. Guys come and go forever but school is only once. The fact that at least one of them have blown you off says you need to crush on guys that are more your speed,  also you sound like you are way too young to even be worried about immature little boys. If they haven't already seen how great you are then they never will, I'd leave them alone before they start rumorsanyway. And yes guys do start more rumors than you think. Let a guy find you for a change. you can take this advice from somebody who's been there, of course I graduated in '00, but most things never do.\nGood luck hon! And remember guys are never worth worrying about.\n\n-Brandy