What do I do when I want to date someone i'm not allowed to?
117872
look in the mirror and ask her... She knows why this person is not good for you... Next, go to "meyers briggs test" and take it... find out who you really are....then see what type of people match YOU best..  then seek out those type.\nbut don't go where you are not allowed...\nWhat reason does your dad and brother give you??
1129655
One of the hardest parts of growing up and dating is learning how to deal with things when you like someone more than that someone likes you.\n\nUnfortunately, you aren't going to be able to change her mind. You have to decide if you are okay with just being friends - or if it is time to move on and spend time with other people.\n\nIn time, it will hurt less but it does suck right now. It's okay though - you are going to be alright.
253322
There's no rule that says you can't go out as friends.  Funny, I was good friends with my husband before I found out he liked me and we started dating.  It was much easier because I could be myself around him, so he knew the "real" me.  But DO NOT plan a "romantic"-type date if you do not feel that way about her.  Don't string her along.  Do something buddies would do.  Who knows?  Maybe after you get to know her as a friend, you might want more.  Good Luck!  ;)
338029
he may have a reason you can't date his friend maybe he is a pervert trust me i can name some of my friends i would not let my sis near
841761
You don't say no. You tell them that you are flattered and that you like them to, but that you are not allowed to date anyone because you're parents still think you are too young. \n\nThe truth in this situation really is the best way to go because you don't want him to think that you don't like him.
863998
There are no rules.  When you feel comfortable, then you're ready to date.  Dating can actually be very healing because it will help you reaffirm that there are people out there with whom you can have a genuine relationship.  It helps to talk with other people who have been through the same thing.  There were two books that helped me: "Happily Even After" by Alan Cohen, and "Spiritual Divorce" by Debbie Ford.  My ex read them, too, it helped both of us and we have a good relationship now, which is important because we co-parent our kids.
89930
If you are not married and I will assume you are not then date other people...tonight....call a friend a woman or an aquantance and go out on a date. Talk to her and seewhat others are like.  Date 3 times a week.  Go date crazy and you will find a  kind generous woman who loves you for you.  She is out ther really she is.  The woman who cuts you down is not the right one. I am sure you love her and maybe you will always love her in your heart in a burning way that no one else will ever understand but she is not good for you. Love is natural and easy for both, love is generous and kind.  I tried for three years to love a man who did the same thing.  In the end I took it very hard but now that I look back I see how miserable it was.  Why did I stay...because I did not have the courage to leave.  Do not be like me.  Fight for yourself and start dating other people.
757934
Well,  the only  thing  you  SHOULD do  is  very kindly and  gently explain to that person that you really  aren't  interested in a "relationship" right  now.      But, not only that,  there is another person in your life who is rather  "special" to you, and  when  you have got certain plans for the future sorted out a little more,  you are intending to  ask  that  person to share them.    That  way, this unattractive person who is attracted to YOU,  will not be given any reason to think  that it is his or her looks that are  the  reason for your rejection.     Being  gracious should be  your primary concern,  and  a  little  kindness  far  outweighs  the  fact that you  would  have had to tell a  little  white lie.
467811
Spice a date up a little. Do something different. Show interest. The fact that he is farther away from other people makes it more difficult for you to talk to him and interact with him. But make a date for both of you to get together.
1127281
Your age right now makes all the difference.  You may not understand the reasoning behind the decision to not allow you to date him, but I promise there are good reasons behind it.  I've been there, and it was one of the big mistakes in my life.  Be young, enjoy it, embrace it.  You'll be older soon enough
947509
I don't think it is appropriate if they are not dating.
153642
Tell him I'm never going to date you ever, find another girl, I'll help you.  Then help him, for real. Talk him up wiht your friends and try to get him a date.  That's a very nice thing to do.  If you won't help him get a date, then you are not really friends with him and should never talk to him again.  Friendship means helping people.
1093437
well u really should stop dating people in diffrent states that u have not met cuz thatreally never results in anythng good
648757
just be honest and tell him u dont want to date anymore. then go out with your friends and have fun until someone u really like asks u out.
856764
why haven't you dated? because you didn't want to, or because you couldn't?
1099597
i dunno wanna date me??
876262
No because you and that person are not in a realtionship and you just like them so technically you are free to do whatever you want to