My ex-boyfriend slap me in front of my new love, he says he will not let me go because he still love me?
107848
Slapping or hitting another -- especially male versus female -- is completely wrong no matter what the circumstance!  Do not let him bully you -- that isn't love -- it's control!!!\n\nIf he loves you, why is he causing you pain?!  \n\nLet him go -- and leave him alone!
425017
you need to sit back down with daddy and let him know that although you may have put yourself in the relationship.. no one has the right to hit another. people always have the option to walk away.  tell daddy that even he has made mistakes in his life.. so it is unfair to judge you so harshly.  now you have to be more careful in choosing someone.. and you also have to make sure the ex.. is not around watching you.  you must stay safe. most importantly.. it is not your fault. now if you seek out the same type of man..again.. then i might blame you.  smile. look for the warning signs.. a man who wants to separate you from your family and friends.. a man who wants total control.. a man who is too  good to be true.  a man who calls you constantly and is jealous over everyone you come in contact with. a man who wants to question everything you have done in life. and remember there is mental .. physical and verbal abuse.  do not take it from anyone.  good luck
338834
This is classic of an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP!!!  Just because he is hitting himself instead of you, does mean that it is not an abusive relationship. If he is subjecting you to these emotional traumas, you are being emotionally abused, which is an abusive relationship.  If he is not hitting you already, HE WILL HIT YOU. He obviously has some deep issues that he needs to deal with, and you need to get away from him until he can work these things out.  THIS IS NOT NORMAL.  Get out of the relationship before something bad really happens.  If you are already to the point of crying about his personal physical abusiveness, you are in way too deep.  Find another boyfriend. THIS IS NOT WHAT LOVE IS, and this is NOT NORMAL.
1057637
You already know that you are not the things that this person has called you, you said so yourself. Now all you need to do is get that person out of your system and move on with your life. Meet new people, try new things. I think that when people are abusive to other people weather it's emotional, physical or verbal it's because that have low self esteem and they want to bring someone down with them. You do not deserve to be treated just anyway. Now that you are out of this relationship you can chooses how you want to be treated. DO NOT let anyone treat you any other way then you want to be. Good luck.
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
639216
just make sure that your new bf doesn't get hurt physically by your ex. there's nothing you can do, unless he tries to hurt him.
460078
so like, he will nick you and put a band aid on it? say hurtful things and apologize, he did not mean it? i think its abusive, its a mind game, and its all about control. i think you need to just get out and let this person/relationship go. find someone who DOESNT make you cry in the first place.
286081
I'm in the same boat, but I AM THE "SOMEONE ELSE. Please accept it. I am constantly being harrassed with phone calls and I had to get the police involved. Please don't let it get to you like that. It will only make you look foolish. There is someone for everyone out there and when yours comes along you will forget about the guy who is hurting you now. Trust me when I tell you that if he really loves this other girl, you don't stand a chance anymore. Let him go.
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
396190
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
92141
If he really loves you like you love him then he will respect the fact that your not ready to be physical with him.  If he pushes you to be physical then he isn't the right guy for you.
171333
You may love him, but obviously he doesn't love you the same way or he wouldn't hurt you and make you cry.  It sounds to me like you are in an abusive relationship.  It may not be physical abuse but at the very least it is emotional abuse and that is just as bad.  Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who treats you this way?  By staying with him you are simply telling him that what he is doing to you is ok.  Do yourself a favor and see this relationship for the fraud it is.  It takes two people to love each other to make a relationship and what your recieving isn't love.  You need to do the hard thing and let this relationship go and find someone who will truely love you and not abuse you.
1121997
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
525300
NO ARE YOU KIDDING, HE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HE HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. AND APPARENTLY GIVES YOU NO RESPECT, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU NEED TO BE TREATED.
916720
Sweetie, just because he isn't physically abusing you doesn't mean he's not still abusing you.  He's traded in the fists for emotional abuse.  That's what he's doing when he tells you he hates you and other hurtful things.  You need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can.  get yourself into some counseling so you understand why you chose to be with an abuser, and move on.  I understand completely where you're coming from, I've been there.  Since I've gone to counseling and stuff, I've come to understand myself so much better.  You will, too.  When you do, it will help you choose a different type of guy.....one that won't abuse you.  I've finally found my Mr. Right, and you will, too.  You just need to get out of this relationship.  Email me if you want to talk some more.  I'm a good listener :)
685462
I go back to what I was told along time ago.  That is, "Trust your first instincts"  If he kicked you to the curb, then to the curb with him.  He will play with your heart.  He knows you'll always be there when he needs you.  You're better than that.  Do you really need this drama.  You know, where was he for these past 2 - 3 yrs.  Undying love....my ass.  He knows how to play with your mind and you're falling for it.  I don't mean to sound harsh, and I totally am not like this.  I guess you just touched a nerve.\n\nGood luck