Why do guys grab your but when you dance with them??
100167
Do you like to look at chocolate, or taste it? Same principle.
1016343
Because you are double jointed in your shoulders. I had a boyfriend that could do that.
520510
*giggles* Sounds like someone is jealous! :D I fondle female strippers all the time... Gives my husband a thrill. ;D\n\nSeriously I know a lot of strippers and have been to many a club in my day. In my experience men are more aggressive towards the female dancers then women are to male dancers. I once watched a guy climb on stage, punch a girl out, and try to drag her off to rape her. She had to have steel plates put in her face. There was also a time I busted a beer bottle over some jerks head because he grabbed one of my friends and stuck his fingers up her *ya* and bit her shoulder. Have you ever heard of anything like that happening to male strippers? I think not! In an unspoken rule women are usually allowed a great deal of leeway when it comes to touching strippers because they pose less of a physical threat in the minds of the strippers and barstaff. Just my honest oppinion and person experience though.\n\nOh, and not all strippers are lez or even bi. Not even most of them are. I'm not a lez or bi but I've fondled other women. Why? Because there is something freeing and easy about it. When you are in a place where acting silly is ok you feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. That all this oppression from society is gone. It's a good feeling. It's nice to be free from the "personal bubble" aspect of our lives for a small while and to touch and experience closeness with strangers or friends that you wouldn't have in public.
394454
Well if I am dancing with him then obviosuly there is some interest there,and it happens from time to time, and with the right guy it can be an extreme turn on and a form of foreplay :)
892081
Grab his hand! Hah... no seriously, he probably doesn't want to invade your space. You have to let him know its okay in some way, whether by holding his hand, kissing him, or telling him its okay if he wants to hold your hand or whatever
381976
he probably does like you he just does not want to tell you. cause the same thing happened to me this guy kept asking me if i was to this dance we where having then he finally asked me to go it was really awesome.
563524
To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
564902
thats a guys way of showing off!\n   guys are always like that. expecily when they like u!
76812
If he asked you to the dance, chances are he likes you.  He probably didn't tell his parents because either A.) Talking about girls with mom and dad is embarrassing (it has nothing to do with you, in particular, just girls in general) and he doesn't want them to tease him over dating, or B.) Maybe his parents aren't allowing him to date, yet, and he's doing this in secret so as to not get into trouble.
496216
I think it is because he REALLY likes you. When a dude likes you, they act as if they want you to be mad. Act like it doesn't bother you and then he will probably stop.
144826
he gets flustered around you. or tries to be funny- maybe successfully, maybe not. guys stare if they like you. then they look away and pretend they didn't if you catch them.
1169504
well thats the reason why were grinding on  you in the first place cause we want to see how much you want it...gettin hard just shows you aint to proud to beg....its like teasing....If I wanna grind on somebody on the dancefloor it is gonna be a bf or someone i know and like more than a friend...and hell yeah i want him to show me he  like it....now if im getting crunk  and some guy comes up behind me i may push him back or kep grinding it depends on if hes sexy or how im feeling at the time or i already know he has a gurl.....but just b/c i grind on a boy at a club or dance doesnt mean im going home with him to grind and bump again...no no booboo....it was just a dance not a commitment
471454
some guys do like it when approched by a girl. It shows them that you are independant and are a strong person.  Also, if they flirt with you and you notice them staring at you all the time, they might like you.  Again also, i have found that you should just go with what you are feeling and do whatever you think.
642920
He is an asshole and was probably just trying to get some at the dance.  you can do better.  Try to move on
1078233
I think this guy want to flirt on you, but in a wrong way. Not like his action like grabbing your head, putting his smelly feet on you...A good flirt is like eye contact, smile, soft touch and etc. It should be happy and comfortable.\n\nI think he likes you, but he is not a suitable guy for you. So, you can just ignore him if he still show the bad move on you.\n\nJoyce
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
272740
Hes playing a little strategy trying to make you miss him, he is basically playing with you to get you, giving a little , taking a little  :)