What is important for u in a relationship, the inner or outer beauty?
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This is a tougher question to answer than it seems.  First, many studies have shown that men are more visually affected when it comes to romance than women.  However, without a doubt, physical attraction does play a role for both in the initial encounter.  However, if physical attraction is the only aspect of the relationship, it is doomed to failure.  As it takes awhile for persons to learn about the inner qualities of other persons, that aspect takes a deeper meaning only as the relationship developes.
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I don't think there's one trait that's more important than another.  If, for example, honesty is important and kindness or a good heart is important, how do you choose. It's never just one thing... it's the package you want when you choose a wife.
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Im sure you are an attractive girl, but looks arent everything as everyone knows.What is inside and where your heart is is more important to me.A beautiful girl could have many thorns,while an unattractive one could have a heart of gold.That is why we date and you try to get to know the person and see if you are compatible with eachother.
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It depends. Some guys like outer body meaning looks and all of that and other guys say personality and what is on the inside that counts. I am one of those guys that thinks it is what is on the inside that counts.
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Intellectual,emotional,and sexual compatibility.In that order. Beauty is a subjective idea based on each person,plus you will find that the more compatible you are,the more you love them,the more beautiful they become to you.
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Naturally, we have the media telling us how important it is.  We see it in magazines.  We get the peer pressure and prestige that seems to come from being with beautiful people.  It has been that way for quite awhile now, but the inner beauty is the one that lasts and the one that you really have to spend the time with.  I love my wife for her inner beauty not outer.
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The truth is that personality is the most important, but there has to be some level of attraction.  However, in my case, once I've gotten to know a guy he's become more and more attractive.
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Just what is says. Some people have to have things be pleasant and pretty to the eyes for something or someone to be beautiful. This means you're seeing something in a much deeper sense to see not only the outer beauty, but the inner beauty as well.
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Beauty - inward and outward. A good character is well complemented by a beautiful face and a lovely body structure.
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personality is sexiest. believe me, it's not a physical thing. trust in your inner beauty
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You should hope that the man you are with has chosen you for more than your looks, looks will eventually fade.  If that is all your relationship is about, try to cultivate something more for the long run.  Be beautiful inside not just outside.
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Beauty is to "be".  You can see...you can touch....but, the ultimate....is to be.
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Love is the more important thing because if someone truly loves you it can last forever.\n\nAffection is when you show your love by touching kissing, sex.\nWhich is important to bring couples closer.\n\nBut when you get old Love will only matter so that's why i say it the most important.
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I agree with the previous poster that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  And true beauty is internal, not external.
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Hasn't anyone told you beauty's only sking deep? Because it's true. If you really love her, she'll know and your looks won't matter to her. Personality, mind, and spirit are way better to have than a nice rear.
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Looks are very important in a relationship.  You have heard of “love at first sight”.  That doesn’t mean that the guy has to be great looking or the woman has to be sexy.  It just means that at the time those two people saw each other they were drawn together because of the way they looked and they connected with each other.
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Being yourself!! Being happy with who you are and what you do. Not sacrificing or changing to please someone else. Beauty comes from inside - not from what you wear, or what you slather on your face. When you are confidant in yourself and your abilities, everyone else has confidance in you.