I want to avoid thoses silent monets with a girl what should I do?
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tell a joke, ask if she has any pets, ask if she likes uncomfortable silences, ask about movies, just gaze into her eyes for a sec longer than feels comfortable, say the legend of the silence people were told that gabriel would signal the coming of god by a trumpet but as humans we forgot when he said he would do it 20 before or 20 after the hour so we stop every once in a while to listen for the trumpet, then check your watch and see how close you are to 20, or you can go to http://www.menshealth.com or yahoo personals for converasation starters.
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
103202
first of u should ignore all the girls in front of one girl whom u really like just show her that u re in  not intersted in them but the girls re intersted in u and u should welldressed  and show that u really care parents and respect them and never make first step realizing someone that u really love her or him they will think and they will not value u if u will vaule them more its true if love someone deeply and they will not love u as u do so try to show that u can live with or without internally u can love more but never show any one on face this is the key that she will come to automatically to you just wait for her call or her step she will do it first  and u will get her easily just love anyone inside ur heart but never let her know that u love him she will not value u an will think she can do anything and u will avaible for her anytime even if she hurts u then aslo she will confident that u will not loose her or him so please dont show your love to someone just be normal limted u will noticed that girl will be around u use this formula or method and let me know how much u succeed in that i guranteed u will soon if u aply these things but u ve wait a little its wait better fast speed makes u to do accident so slowly take steps thankssssssssss
196292
Be a man/woman about it and tell the girl face to face. No reason to sneak around. It will work out better in the end.\n\nListen to the song "What's So Different?" by Ginuwine.
105616
Don't tell her; get your mind off her and find another girl.
845930
Talk to her about it when you are not making out and get her feelings, then honor them.
458672
Allow her to ignore you and be jealous of you.  What harm can it do to you?  Just go about your daily routine as if she did not exist.  She just wanted to to bring her man to your flat so they could have some place to spend time together without fear of getting caught and when you ssaid no she found that you were of no use to her and that you had higher morals.  So she ignores you because she's a selfish B and you won't cater to her, and she's jelous because you're better than her.  Just use her as a daily reminder of the good person you are.
352039
Tell her you didnt mean to make things weird, and that you would rather be her friend than not be in her lfe at all. But dont be all sissy and romantic about it. Trust me.
660721
nothing... dont keep bothering her it will make u look bad.
742883
I will tell you what i usually do,may be it will help. Get time and meet her,find something to talk about,but dont tell her thet you are into her. spend some time chatting and trust me,if you are critical and observant,im sure u will find something about her that u dont like or irritates you,by the time you are through with that,your obssession will reduce slowly by slowly. That works for me,why not you! otherwise,goodluck.
370951
good for you! .. i think some quiet girls in class like me wants a good relationship and not sex\nif the girl you are with thinks that you want sex, them many you should please them more, with little simple things like noticing anything new like a haircut or an eyebrow trim, give little gifts for every holiday, invite her more to dinners or movies and take her home with a good bye kiss on the cheeck or forehead, etc.. \n\nand this doesn't mean that you are sentitive, it just that you dont like people looking at you the wrong way.\ntry to act more like a GENTLEMAN, and stop flirting with other girls
322509
Tell her that you are not interested in her and you already have a GF.
323709
"remind" her of something embarrassing in front of your guy, or even start making out with him in front of her or mid-conversation. that'll shut her up!
228351
hey just relax, first the girl must like you or she would keep walking away from you.  Talk about light stuff, the weather, movies, music, how you parents, siblings, other family members drive you crazy.  Remember to listen also, and don't cut her off in mid sentence, and don't say things to her that like, do you really think that, or that's stupid.
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I've gone through this too, and unfortunately I handled it the wrong way, by ignoring the person. Leave your pride behind and tell this girl that she is moving too fast and tell her that you want to keep it at a friend level for now. If she can't except that, oh well.
31094
step away and just leave her alone. She probably playing games. (Girls do that)
1079382
Well, just tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Don't be mean with it. And tell her y'all can be friends. If she can't accept that then pay no attention to her or her friends.