what activities can help a couple learn more about each othe?
107755
going through old photos together and telling stories about the interesting ones.\nwriting letters to each other just to let your mind ramble about the smallest little details about whatever you feel like talking about\nasking important ?'s about what they want out of life, kids, pets, marriage, etc.. \nasking ?'s about moral issues\n\nTaking dance classes, pottery classes, anything casual where you're either working together or side by side, it gives you the opportunity to see how open they are to new things, and gives you the chance for small talk which always leads to more serious things.  \nmeet their family if possible
1141562
Do something together like go to a concert, go into a hot air balloon, or travel with him and create some interesting ground for you to talk about because this could end up in a dead end relationship.
94533
Be creative and have fun... If you are together she probably enjoys some of the things you do... So set something up for her... Maybe even, if you live together, leave little clues around the house telling her to do certain things where there will be more clues leading her to her favorite restaurant where you have a new necklace for her or something that you're going to give her after the dinner... Or just take her to a movie... Pick her up from work or school and she'll ask you whats going on and just say "You'll see..." And go to dinner and a movie... Just have fun...
212684
first thing is to genuinely care. If you care about your partner then you will pay attention to what they like and don't like and you will learn to do what they enjoy. be patient, learning takes time and giving pleasure is its own reward.
897200
I'd suggest learning to cook yourself or even taking a cooking class together so that both of you can learn to share in the activity.
965750
Ask them questions about their parents, grandparents, their childhoods, and be very interested in everything they say.  Ask them for advice about a good place to buy tires or whatever.  If they have traveled, ask them about the places they visited, what they liked or didn't like, whether they would go back there again.  Ask them how they met.  DON'T talk about religion or politics or money. And don't criticize your spouse -- after all, they raised him/her and he/she is perfect.
60354
Find out what he is interested in and have fun with him.
1056886
sex...exercises....what else?
972398
Talk about fascinating and varied topics.  Discuss philosophy, history, religion, and other things of weight.  It depends on the man, but there are many dimensions to a healthy relationship besides sex.  If you have known him for a while then you should certainly know of things that interest both him and you.
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Buy him some hand cuffs for a start and ask him to use them on you. As he gets more excited by it encourage him. If he begins to get more excited and interested, let him know how much you enjoyed it when he (insert action here). Let him think he is the one coming up with the ideas, and make suggestions, "Would you like to .... " With my husband, it was a small bit at a time at first, but after a bit, he came round big time.
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Well the first thin is is that you both need to be able to:\ncommunicate\ncompromise\ntrust\nbe honest \ngive as well as receive\nbe able to be patient and understanding\nbe able to allow them to have a life away from you as well.\nto want to do things special for one another once in a while. like:\nplan a walk at the beach and have a pic nic\ncall them up on the phone jsut to say "i love you", "i miss you" and/or "I'm thinking aobut you"\nplan a candle light dinner at home\nhave a nice warm bath waiting for their return possibly with( candles, music, oil or bubbles and/or rose petals in tub)\nOn your partners day off, play hooky to spend time with them on cuddling on the couch watching movies and talking.\nIf you two can do this, seek a marriage counselor, counselor will be able to bring up some other importatnt things to thik about, that most people don't seem to think about.
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hugging\ncuddling\nsnuggling\nsleeping together\ncanoodling...\n------------\nstrip poker\nregular poker\nkissing games\nstrip chess\nstrip checkers (like checkers, but whenever you make a jump the other person has to remove one piece of clothing)\nthings like that are fun\ntaking a shower to gather\nswimming\nbathing together\nkissing naked\nsnuggling naked\nrunning outside in the buff...
631575
Absolutely! Thats an amazing way to connect, and learn more about each other. Excellent stuff.
1100921
chat about what your into ask what shes into i.e. thai boxing or something like that or music - it will go from there if you get on!!
27468
Well, the little things really do count...things like picking your socks up and putting the seat down (if you're a guy) and letting your hair down and putting your feet up (if you're a girl).  \n\nSlow dancing in the kitchen while waiting for dinner to cook is fun.  Writing notes and tucking them into a pocket or purse to be found the next day is fun!  Baking a cake and frosting it together is awesome...just buy two things of frosting and only use one on the cake!  \n\nRemember to say "I love you" every day.  Focus on the things your mate does right.  Nobody wakes up in the morning saying "How can I make my spouse miserable today?"  If your loved one screws up, give them the benefit of the doubt.\n\nOh...and if you make Jesus the core of your marriage, everything else is even better!  There is never a time when I love my husband more than when we kneel down beside the bed, hold hands and pray together.  \n\nHave a long and happy marriage
1163495
You can cultivate interests - but you need to make sure you do it together.  Not saying you have to like what eachother is interested in, but you have to be willing to compromise and be involved in eachother's interests.  You both need to keep the communication open and talk to eachother about whats going on with the both of you.  Just make sure that you both keep involved with eachother's interests and with what each of you are pursuing in your lives - remember that you don't have seperate lives, you share one life together and that should be true in all aspects of your life and marriage.
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get out and experience new things together, like inline skating, boating, biking. visit new areas and enjoy each others company, then if the feeling is right, find a nice secluded spot and make the trip really memorable..;)