if your girlfriend wants a child can you have her sign a legal document not to pay childsupport if you splitup
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if you're not willing to support this child through to adulthood no matter what, you shouldn't be having a child.
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No, not generally.\n\nYou can do it pro se in a probate court.\n\nWhy do you want to "sign over" your baby?\n\nIt is easier to write an affidavit giving your mother custody and control until you decide you want your child back. Make sure it is in front of a notary. That way, when you decide you are able to care for your child, you can get custody back without going to court. Of course,, this may cause a problem in your household. This manner is perfectly legal in any state that I know of and it protects you from charges from CPS that you haven't made plans to care for your child. Also, it has to be a relative.\n\nIf you go to a probate court, or whatever court your state uses, you have to file which costs money and any statement you use for the reason, is sworn under oath and can be used against you. CPS gets many of these, including DV petitions, sworn under oath, that they and their children are abused and how, or they are unable to care for your child. They can use these petitions against you as they are under oath, even if you drop the DV.\n\nWhen you decide you want your child back your mother could file a motion not to allow this to happen. The court could assign a Guardian ad litem, which you pay for, and order you to do other things, like gat a substance abuse eval, psych eval.\n\nGoing to court could also get the father involved. I don;t know how you stand on that issue, but he could ask for legal custody. You can open a big can of worms going to court.\nI wish you well, and hope the reason you feel you need to you can resolve.\n\nLegal rights and custody are 2 different things. You are giving custody to someone to do what you are unable to, legally. The only way you lose your rights is if someone Terminates your rights in Court. They need a pretty damn good reason for this to ever occur.
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no you cannot sue\nhence why co signing ANYTHING no matter what the relationship ( parent / childs husband / wife ) assumes you fully understand the risk and that you will be FULLY liable for the debt in case of the other party not be able to repy the debt..\nthis is why you NEVER co sing for anything\nNEVER\neven Suze Orman would tell you that.
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No. However, a court order is going to have more weight than a thousand answers here. You need a lawyer. Your welfare office may have one who works for free - they would rather get him to pay child support than for us taxpayers to pay for your child.\n\nHe could claim he didn't mean it, that he didn't love you, that he "isn't ready", that you lied about being on the pill, too, but if he didn't want to have a child he should have kept his pants buckled.
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No you cant when signing the release forms for your child to be kept there you are also taking responsiblility for other childrens actions upon yours.  also remember that whatever was stolen is probably easily replaceable or the child will forget about soon enough.
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No, the papers have to be finalized before you both can sign them.\nThey can't be signed before they get filed... that's putting the cart before the horse.
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Sorry, you have no recourse. Even if it was your tax preparers idea, you are responsible for checking the tax return before you sign it and mail it. The same child(ren) cannot be claimed on 2 different income tax returns and you knew your boyfriend was claiming the kids, so you should have told the tax preparer that they had already been claimed on anothers tax return.
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Normally parents can have joint custody and one parent be the primary caregiver.  This person can be awarded child support.  If the parents are splitting the care of the child with so many days between parents then you probably won't.  Normally you can check with your attorney or sometimes the state you reside in has an agency which helps to collect child support and can best advise you.  Normally parents have to resort to this when they can't mutually decide how to divide financial responsibilities for the child.
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check with your lawyer before going. i have family that are divorced and they have to sign forms allowing their kids to leave the state even for a short amount of time...be safe.
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YES.  As long as you are still married and not LEGALLY separated both debts and assets are divided equally between the parties.\n\nIf there are reasons you need to stay married, get a legal separation so you can LEGALLY be separate from each other's debts and obligations.\n\nHealth insurance is one reason may people do not divorce.  A legal separation can keep the benefits, but you won't be bound by the financial burdens of each other.
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It really depends on the situation at hand. Are you and the soon to be ex getting along? If so, perhaps you can work on all the paperwork together. If you can keep lawyers out of it, you save money and a lot of other crap that goes along with it b/c some lawyers really encourage playing games that just stir the proverbial pot.
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even though she sounds psychotic, she can get child support. however, if i were the man i think i would go for joint custody.
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Actually, marriage is a contract, that's why you have to sign the marriage papers. If you're not comfortable entering a contract with your boyfriend, you shouldn't be marrying him. Consider though, that both parties have to sign, so before you do, make sure you agree to everything that's in it, and make sure there are terms that work in your favor.\n\n\nI am not an attorney. This is not legal advice.
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Yes, I helped someone fill out these papers.  You basically have to fill them out and show who owns what assets, and how the two of you will agree to split everything up.\n\nYou should get treated just the same as anyone else that would have filed through the courts otherwise.  It is time consuming yes, but it could save you a lot of money.\n\nOf course, it's only that easy, if both of you agree to everything.  If either one of you contests to who gets what, you are going to have a problem on your hands and it will take much longer to try to get through all the paperwork.
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It won't cover the girlfriend or the daughter in most cases.  Here is a Q & A from Blue Cross:\n\nQuestion:  Can I cover my girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé or common-law spouse? \nAnswer:  No. \n\nRon @ InsureMe http://www.insureme.com/landing.aspx?Refby=614499&Type=health
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If you are legally married,you are entitled to half of his possessions, that is if you did not signed a Prenup. You can even get money for the time you have been separated, that is alimomy.Also the court will obligate the person to pay fully the amount owed for child sopport That is, The time that he never paid). It doesnt matter if you have not been together, legally you are his wife .
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If you two arguing is upsetting the child, which it clearly is, then you should split up.\n\nThe child will be upset at first but thats cos its all she knows, as soon as she sees that you both are happier by not being together, which makes her happy, she will come around to the idea.