Why do guys always talk about their past realtionship and about how they had sex?
111246
Guys are very competitive. They do it to see who is the "best". And one one guy has a better story than all the rest, all the other guys are trying to figure out how to 'top' him. \n\nWhat they don't seem to realize, is a lot of the stories are just that... stories. AND it isn't a contest.
299911
He might just have some respect for you and not want to rush into anything.  He might actually be romancing you, taking things slow, getting to know you, letting you get to know him, and developing an actual relationship before taking things to the next level.  You can't take sex back.  Sex changes things... you can't help it... it just does.  You could always ask him if there's any particular reason why he hasn't tried to go all the way in the bedroom and see what he says.  Also, since STD's are on the average 1 in every 5 people he could be a carrier and struggling with a way to tell you before enganging you in sex.  The best thing I can tell you to do is to just ask.  Wondering and guessing will drive you bonkers!
1058961
Well, young girls may do that but i don't think older women do that as much. We may share little things here and there, but not really deep intimate things. Sure we do talk about sex a lot, but we are more apt to generalize things and not give explicit details. We share more about exes then current partners because we do feel things need to private and initmate. I am sure there are exceptions but i believe most women would agree with me.
928603
To me, guys ask that question moreless to see if you would mess with so-and-so because if you said that you would then they can assume that you are easy and a hoe but if you say that you wouldn't mess with him that you are uptight. Sometimes a guy just ask the question to see how you respond to them. I know I have been in that predictiment plenty of times. So the best way to answer it is to say, "I don't know who or what you are referring to because I never went anywhere with so-and-so." Because that leads them to believe that so-and-so lied about alot of things and they will try to mend what they feel was inappropiate.
319397
Surprisingly, given the time that guys spend thinking about sex and boobs, most guys don't speak much about their sexual encounters. For example, most of my friends won't reveal any details besides what is self-evident to everyone who has seen the girl.\n\nTo be more precise, guys WILL brag about going with a girl, but they usually WON'T say what they did exactly, how many times, how long, describe her exact anatomy, her taste, smell etc. \n\nA typical description is something like "I did X and it was real good. We did it all night and she enjoyed it a lot".  \n\nYounger men (<18-20) may speak about the act in detail, but only to their few close friends.
581280
You don't state if these men are losing interest after you're involved with them or before you become involved with after telling them about your past.\n\nIn any case, if you tell men about your past before you become involved and they choose to not be involved with you then you're better off and they have the problem, not you.\nOn the other hand, for those men who knew and still chose to become involved and ultimately end up leaving the relationship then they're even worse and I would classify them as 'perverted users', thinking they would gain sexual advantage by playing on your weaknesses created from your past. Either way, you're better off without them too.\n\nBottom line is, as long as you're being honest with yourself and those you wish to become involved with then all you can do is to continue to be honest and wait for the man who will truly accept you as you are and all the baggage that may or may not come with you.\n\nPeople can be very cruel and without compassion in the world today and even finding true friends is often difficult. If you need a friend to talk to then feel free to make contact and keep your smile and hopes. It will get better for you I'm sure.\n\nBest Wishes
798237
Why are you embarrassed about it?  Is there something to be ashamed about?  So what if you had sexual relations...it's when he starts lying about the details of that sexual relationship then you have a problem.  But women can be pretty good at nipping men in the butt if they chose to reveal details.  Let him know that if he wants to remain civil friends that he should grow up, or else you might just have to let all of your female friends within the common circle of friends know just how pathetic a lover he really is.  He knows that you are bothered by your past sexual relationship and is trying to tease you.  He wants a reaction from you.  Just don't give him one.
120052
Sex is a subject like all other subject...People have tendencies to hide it and/or to shy to talk about it.\nIt is like relegion and politics...people hardly talk about these things....Talking about sex is natural and there is nothing wrong with it.
591348
Not all men are like that! \n\nWe all WANT that, but talking about it to a girl you just met means he just wants that and nothing else!
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
930879
you can't change the past, so you have got to think about ways to make the future work. try to see him again in a casual setting, one that will highlight what a "good" girl you are. don't mention what happened. he probably doesn't want to talk about it anymore than you do.
439613
Boyfriends and girlfriends always talk about sex. It's natural and normal.
377493
we don't all think about sex just some of the perverted guys.   look at me right now i am trying to pass all my classes so why would I always think about a thing like sex. girls just think that is all guys think about some guys talk about it because they think it makes them cooler to other guys.im a guy and this is the truth about me.
661917
Beacause lying is convenient for them. Guys are comfortable at lying because they are afraid of what the truth really is, and how someone else will interpret it.
592546
well for one you never want to bring up anything about an ex cause then they will think that you are still in love with them and it will put a dapper on things and you never tell a date on the first date that you love them and you should just talk about the things you two like to do to learn more about one another
829513
Most guys when they find out that their girlfriends want to talk about their relationship or feelings or whatever, they think that there's a problem or something. Guys are like that, they'd never examine or look into anything at all unless something is wrong with it. Not a lot of guys talk about their relationship with their girlfriend just because they should. It's usually only if there's a serious problem or something, otherwise they'll just think then what is there to talk about ? what is there to say about it ?