phone manners with girls?,how to be brave?
113277
talkin to girls is easy. you dont really talk just listen to what she will say. most girls now days are all about themselves anyway so they dotn care what you have to say
249543
Politely introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her, offer your number, that way she won't be worried about what kind of person  has her number.  If she accepts you will feel more confident in meeting other girls until or in case she doesn't call.
1056602
My best advice for you is to Practice, Practice and Practice.  Walk up to girls and ask them a question. ask them their opinion of something. (learn Palm reading) then ask them if they want their palm read.  it does not matter if you or she be lives in it its a fun thing to do and its an ex use and naturally way to start a conversation.
928467
Make sure to brush your teeth, wear a clean shirt, put on deodorant.  \n\nAfter that, I encourage you to ask her out when she is near her locker and not around all her friends.  Don't be scared.  Just be yourself.  Best way is to be confident.  Smile.  Get to the point.  Keep it simple.  \n\nAsk her to think about it.  Say "no pressure, but I'd like to see if you would go out with me on a date."\n\nThen just pause and listen to what she says.   \n\nIf she says no, then use this strategy on the next girl.  Eventually it will work.  Don't worry if she says no.  Its her loss.  There's plenty of other women out there.  \nGood luck.
242218
dont hang around girls alone, dont call them on the phone, and the biggest one is invite you girl along with you and the girls that she thinks are you girlfriends. other then that it is all up to her.
1166873
Just be yourself. Dont try to hard or you'll scare her away!!!!!
918049
First make eye-contact, throw a few friendly smiles.  This is to establish a non-threatening demeanor.  Don't overdo it-be subtle and give it few weeks. At this point she might even say something to you first so have a few conversational points in mind in case she does-(the teacher's funny quirks, how small the chairs are-nothing too personal yet-establish your common denominators).  \nIf she doesn't then you will have to "just happen" to be in her general area one day when everyone else is kind of on the move and drop an incidental line about the teacher's  toupee.  Notice her reactions in either of these situations-Is she making eye-contact and smiling?  Is she looking at the door?  If you choose number one, move in with the "Would it be cool if I gave you my number?"  The advantages with this approach rather than asking for her number are several.  Most importantly, if she's really interested in you she will call you.  It also seems a lot less aggressive.  It could also save some immediate embarrassment if she's not interested because she can still take the number if she has no intention to call.  Most important of course-be yourself, show a little confidence have fun with it and no matter what happens, it is a learning experience! Best of Luck-
296295
hi,  what you could do before you make that phone call, is to   sit down with a pen and paper and   make a few notes on what you would like to say and how best to say it..  she will never know you have a little cheat sheet in front of you  and it   will give  you a reference   if you get tongue tied ! ... you might want to     write down a few  notes such as   something about school  / mutual friends or interests  movies /TV shows  etc..    to start the conversation going..  example = " hi ______  this is _____   (if your in school and have the same class) =  I was wondering if you knew   what pages we were suppose to do for homework, I forget to jot it down "..etc... then branch out in to  any current event / TV show  movie etc... ask her if she saw it /liked it.. etc...    or  if she would like to see  a movie with you  or grab  a bite to  eat etc..  good luck !
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
949955
always be yourself and treat them with respect, and use your best manners.  never be afaride to go up to a pritty girl and say hi (unless her BoyFriends there) and smile alot girls like happy guys.
1177791
take the plunge, and maybe set it up by telling her before hand that there is something you want to ask her, or email or text her and say there is something you would like to ask her, that way, she will ask you and maybe you will get the courage to ask.\n\nbe strong
976431
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.\n\nYou need an opening line, small talk vs. fear, and close with getting her telephone number or a date.
954878
Be completely natural. Don't try to impress, but don't slack off either. Just be yourself. She's their to meet you, so show her that. A friendly hug is fine, but a wave is good too. Whatever you feel comfortable with.
737771
my suggestion, DONT PLAN AHEAD!!! if you plan ahead it just puts pressure. on you just go and do what you normally do and if you bump into her just say something that you would say to any other girl. like hey thats a neat shirt. or if she is into sports compliment something shes done well in sports. or whatever shes good at compliment her on it!!!!!!
322284
Let's put it this way - \n\nIf the girl you'd like to call is at all interested in having you call her, she'll be happy to give you her number. If you need to worry that she might not want to give you her number, then she probably isn't all that anxious to have you call.\n\nSure - it's a scary thing to ask someone a "personal" question - but geez - if you're not comfortable even asking her what her phone number is, how are you ever going to work  up the nerve to give her a call?\n\nRemember - you're not really asking the girl for her phone number, you're asking her if she'd like to hear from you outside of school. If you think she'd like to have more a chance to chat with you, go ahead and ask.\n\nAlso remember - different parents have different rules about phone use. Some parents have very strict rules about when they allow their daughters to receive calls. Make sure that if she does give you her number, that you find out when's a godo time to call - and don't become a pest!
784172
How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
18897
Don't ask a girl out in a message. No good. Talk to her. In fact... if at all possible, do it in person. Come of confident but not cocky. Make sure you see her face to face.\n\nThe thing about a message is that you can assume that she got it and just didn't call back, when maybe she never did. That's an unsure variable.\n\nI currently am dating a girl that never called me back. Come to find out that she liked me the whole time and was shy to call back. Plus I found out she just doesn't call people back very much anyway. She's got bad phone ettiquite. But, she's an awesome girl and I'm glad I made the effort beyond the phone call.