I need a booklet on what your family needs to know---where to find what I want done etc> after I die?
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How old are you?  If you don't mind me askin, why are you interested in this stuff?  Nothing is worth ending our life...Death comes to all of us...hopefully later rather than sooner.
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The Book of the Dead - it's also known as the "Book of Going Forth by Day", which is the book that prepared you for the afterlife.  It's full of spells, rituals, etc. to preapre you for death, and the trails just after death, in order to pass on to the next world.\n\nYou can usually find the illustrated Book of the Dead at Barnes & Nobles in their clearance books section - it's where I got mine. :P\n\nIf you're looking for something more modern for Neo-pagan or Wiccan practitioners who follow an Egyptian Pantheon, that's entirely different.  Let me know, I can throw a few titles at you for that as well :)
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ask from your parent !
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What about your family (parents, relatives, etc.)?\nFriends?
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http://www.family.org/
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I am not sure what you are needing, but it is very difficult to get that kind of info from anywhere unless you are close relative like mom, dad, sis, bro like that.
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I would spend as much time with my family and friends (in that order) as I could.  I would take a lot of day trips with my family.  Make sure my dog would be loved and cared for when I was gone.   Make sure all my death details (cremation, disposal of ashes, funeral, bills, etc) were taken care of so my family would not have to worry about it.  I would sell my car and give the money to St. Jude's Children's Hospital.  I would make sure I told everyone I love that I do love them.  I would draw a lot of pictures, do a lot of crafts and write a lot of poems for my family to remember me by.  I would make certain that my ashes were late for the funeral so I can say in the afterlife that I really was late for my own funeral (after being on time for everything else) (yes I really do intend to do that).  I would have a really big party with all of my friends and family.  When the day came, I would have my family (including the dog) around, remember the good times, and leave this life in comfortable familiar surroundings at home, surrounded by those I love most.
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Explain to the family what you would like to do and ask what their thoughts are on the idea. You can't go wrong getting the info "right from the horses mouth".
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ask your mom, or ask your church. duh!
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http://paganwiccan.about.com/od/astralplane/a/afterlife.htm
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Also try a card store - they have some lovely ones.  And here is a website that has poems about family.\n\nI hope this is helpful to you.  Best wishes.  I hope you and your family will be together again soon.
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Look in the obits until someone your age and gender dies. Contact social security and let them know you (dead person) lost your card and have one mailed to you. Use that to get your drivers licensed reissued. Obviously this is illegal...big brother is watching.
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Typically, the immediate family is responsible for the entire ceremony, disposition of the remains, etc.  Extended family, neighbors and church community play a role for the extra things that the family should not be burdened with (i.e., food arrangement for the "pass" or other things that they do not have time to deal with that could include informing others of the passing of the individual).  The family would be responsible for writing the obit (unless the funeral home includes it in their fee for service package), arrange the eulogy with a presiding officiant that knew the deceased, etc. \n\nThe link below has a lot of information and "etiquette" that should be observed during this time of grief.\n\nNote:  Whatever the family does not want to deal with, there is always a close neighbor or other family member that will take care of the details.
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http://www.familysearch.org/
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find out who grandparents on both sides are. go from there.  how much do you need to know. are you supposed to be getting help?
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You can draw your family tree and name all of your closest family, including siblings, parents and grandparents.  If someone has died, mark the age and cause of death.  Then just go through everyone on the tree and ask them what diseases they are suffering from.  Hope that helps!
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I'm sorry to hear that. Did he just pass away? I'll copy this from a book I have on checklists for everything:\n1) Call a close friend or family member to help you.\n2) Find out is he had already made final arrangements.\n3) Decide about the funeral. The body can remain as is for 72 hours, so you have time to decide on your choices.\n4) If you need to relocate the body before burial plans are finalized, you can ask for a temporary storage at a funeral home. Make sure you indicate the funeral director that you might have a different option of funeral home. You can do that.\n5) Inform friends and family about service after details are finalized.\n6) Keep careful track of the original death certificate. You'll need it. Make a ton of copies.\n7) Decide on an obituary and where it should appear.\nTake care.