what do you do when tou find your boyfriend is hitting on all you friends. he hasn't cheated yet? but is try'n
100622
Find a new one !!! Some day he will and thats not fun. Hopefully you see this before you have kids....Unlike me :( Good-Luck
139633
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
348985
it's time to move on.if your freinds let him flirt with them they aren't your real freinds anyway. i think you know the answer just by asking. good luck!!!
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
193498
no its not cheating, cheating is if you go out with both of them and they didnt know and all that stuff. wat u did was nothing. if ur boyfriend doesnt trust you,than he doesnt deserve you. dump him. go out w/ someone else (not his cus,only if u want to make him jelous)
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
702909
Just tell him that and stand your ground... If he insist that you are in a relationship say "NO WE ARE NOT!" sometimes you have to be blunt with people and not let them walk over you........ And from the begining just say hey so you understand we are just going out for a good fun time Nothing else no relationship and see if he is on the same playin ground as you.. if not walk away and find someone who is... Never settle for less then what you want...
204977
trust him to believe you. if your both friends with the guy then invite your boyfriend to hang out with the two of you more often so that he can see what the two of you are really up to.
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
272819
You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
830527
just because you are dating does not mean that you have to stop flirting. as long as your boyfriend knows that you are flirting and doesnt have a problem with it, then it is ok. If he doesnt, its not that its not okay, but maybe yo ushould tone it down when hes around. Dont stop being yourself because your friend wants you to.
202044
Sleep with all his friends?\n\nMight be worth a try.
654640
well that is simple DUMP THAT FOOL he isnt the right guy for you, if he is fooling around with your friends then you should dump that jerk move on and get some one who treat's you right! and if you stay with him your just hurting your self so move on 'cause you ant getting any younger so the best thing to to do is to get some one else who treat's you like your a queen also thats the oldest excuse in the book "i must have been trunk" or somthing like that it doesnt even matter because a real friend and boyfriend would never do that to you so my advice is dump those two losers get some new friends get a new boyfriend and call it a day!!!!!!
807244
If you think that he is cheating on you and he says that he wants to sleep with your friend, he probably is. From what you described, his behavior seems pretty shady. I would move on from the both of them. If he can't commit himself completely to you, the relationship is doomed. You should never have to doubt your significant other in a healthy relationship. Also, if your friend is sleeping with him or anything else, then she is not your friend. Find people that respect you and your relationship.
1168574
yes, you are the only one thats going to get hurt, and if he cheats on his girlfriend, he'll cheat on you. also, think of how you would feel if you were the girlfriend and found out, it would crush you. there are so many other boys in the world that you could date. be true to yourself, dont let someone elses guy take a kiss from you. once ok, its daring and taboo but youll find the consequences are far too great to put yourself in that situation. also, he said he loves you. does he even know you? love takes a lot of time, and usually if a boy who has a girlfriend is kissing another girl and professing love to her, he only wants one thing, or more. if you think nobody knows, think again, if you told anyone, or someone may have seen, and you may get a rep for stealing other girls guys you dont want that. show respect for yourself and others, and you will attract the type of guy thats right for you. you dont want to always be the other woman...they only get heartbreak. keep your chin up and leave that situation alone...
548429
Don't trust that kind of man, maybe your not the only one girlfriend that he had presently. Let him and go see for a true lovers.
837782
You didn't state your age, but...\n\nSince your boyfriend has a girlfriend (you), he has been "tested and proven."  Meaning he has something going on and is dateable.  Plus, people often seem to want what they can't have.  If he hasn't shown signs of being unfaithful, then best to not worry too much about it.  It will only keep burning at you inside until you become angry and resentful.  Then your boyfriend might start taking a more serious look at these other girls.