is't ok to have sex with my wife in back ?
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
354457
My wife freak out every time because she's scared that I'll hurt my back or, worse, drop her. To be honest it's a very individual thing. Some women don't like it because they find it silly, perhaps immature. Others like it for the same reasons.
215602
Yes it is,and I think that you know it is.However,it doesn`t seem to be as serious as if you had actually touched the other woman.But I think that even looking at someone else with dirty thoughts is a form of betrayal.Since there was no physical contact,and if you really are sorry for it,then I see no cause for you to tell your wife and hurt her.Just don`t do it any more,and don`t mentally abuse yourself over it.Learn from it,ask God to forgive you and go on.
44385
no,it's not ok.Although there is nothing wrong with it it will only lead you on and have you still wanting more while he will only see it as an easy way to get laid.The only person that will be hurt is you.Once it's over that's it,you're supposed to move forward,not take steps backwards
1044336
Dude don't wait until your wedding night you might have a heart attack go have sex right now with your future wife that way you'll see if this sex thing means a whole lot to her or not. By the rate you're going you'll be divorce within a week if you can't satisfy your wife.
390923
If it bothers the g/f then yes it's wrong. But if she is ok with it then go. You could try to bring her with! I enjoy going to them with my b/f.
416746
Hmmm , I don't think I could ask such a question online!! But in my opinion it sounds like she might have a VD or something similar! Is your wife heavy??? The darkness is usually due to heavy peoples legs rubbing together in the upper thigh area!
650927
The fact that you are asking this question should tell you something is not right in your relationship. Ive never done either with my wife.
786887
Your wife is in denial about her bear-like appearance. She is angry with herself for failing to live up to her number one responsibility: being sexually desireable to her husband. She would rather think it is the goat that has come between you than admit to herself that she has failed. My advice is: talk to your wife. Explain to her that you are still willing to support her and your children, but that you are no longer sexually attracted to her, and must fulfill your manly needs with your new goat. Maybe the shame of the whole situation will motivate her to jog in the mornings.
736164
Well......see it was when you said you were having sex last night that she became skeptical. Afterall... she knew you were with your wife. Sex with your wife? *smacks his head* Sheesh....what were you thinking! Of course your girlfriend isn't going to buy that. \n\nI suggest you write your wife a cute little note like we used to do in 6th grade and say:\n\n"Hey sweetie... I enjoyed making love to you last night. Did you? Check one:\n\n______ yes      _________ no\n\n(oh and will you sign your name at the bottom as well?)\n\n\n\n~~~~~ \nThen show this to your girlfriend. Surely it will be as good as an affadavit.
850842
It will come between you and it already has. Its good that she is being upfront but you need to tell her that its actually not ok with you and for those exact reasons that you stated, emotions and feelings become involved. From my perspective, its so hard to seperate sex from feelings and emotion and if she is married to you she cannot emotionally invest in another relationship, whether thats with another man or another woman.......unless you want to get divorced?\nYou need to be more honest with your feelings to her about this and let her know that you are uncomfortable with it.
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
266628
As long as they are both of age, then there is nothing legally wrong with it.  However, morally speaking... all affairs are wrong.  Sex should only be with your spouse.
557666
No. What she has done is very inappropriate and in my mind, VERY selfish. I imagine she wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of such a thing should you have done that; am I right? Bottom line is this - it is not right for her to spend an evening like that with a man who is not her husband. Period! The mere fact that she kept this from you is an indication that what she did wasn't right. Deep down, she knew this would upset you and rightfully so. But if it were so harmless, she wouldn't have kept it from you in the first place. I think to help resolve this situation you should ask her what makes it "okay" for a married woman to do such a thing? I'd also ask her what makes her think that you should be "okay" with it as well?!
453695
On top or from the back. Also if she is on her back, place a pillow under her lower back, it allows for deeper penetration. If she doesn't like cervical stimulation, from the side laying down or standing up.
931240
First off, its NOT a sexual position.... those people whom answered that, are idiots! \n\nSecondly, as the others have said... its a laying/ cuddling position in bed. Its when your woman is laying on her side, and you cuddle up close behind her.
829472
You are respecting her by discussin everything and moving slowly WITH her in mind.  There is no problem with anything you are doing.  The issue is what you were taught about sex.  Were you taught to be embarrassed about your body as a child?  To hide it, not to talk about it, not to touch it?  I think that is incredibly unfair. \nHow can we love and respect ourselves if we don't love and respect our bodies.\nWe are not just spirits and brains.  Our bodies exist.  It sounds like you are experiencing things in a wonderful setting - an intimate relationship with mutual respect.\nLeave the guilt at the door, but bring the respect to bed with you.