Why do almost all of my friends have a boyfriend except me?
116463
i totally understand. I'm an expert on coping with loneliness. heres some things i do. \ntip 1: learn to love yourself. be content, satisfied being you, learn to like what you see in the mirror. When you love yourself, everyone else will follow suit. and even if they dont, it doesnt matter bc all you need to be happy is you\ntip 2: straighten out your priorities. look at your life and learn how to live it. basically, make yourself desirable by living your life how it should be lived, with passion and contentment. \ntip 3: you will always have moments after a chick flick when you want someone to cuddle up to you and hold your hand, but leave those feelings for those times. dont let it consume you.\ntip 4: DONT blame yourself for being alone! it is not your fault. i want you to look at yourself in the mirror everymorning and smile, tell your reflection this, i am beautiful. i am happy and fun and all i need is a smile to make my life complete. next step-believe it. \nalot of times we think we dont have boyfriends bc we're not worth loving. that is NOT true. you just havent found a guy worthy of your daydreams. that may sound cliche, but truly, good guys are hard to find. dont settle for losers. \nok. im goanna stop before i REALLY ramble:)\nanyway-be happy with yourself. and know that youre loved.
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Chances are though that a lot of it is just in your head. I bet they're are boys out there that find you cute, if not maybe you haven't me the right people yet. sounds like maybe your suffering from depression. We all get that sometimes. \n\nIts common to sometimes feel left out of the world and alone. If you feel these feelings to often maybe you should talk to someone.
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I can relate to low levels of emotional attachment, but sounds to me that there are some inner issues that have nothing to do with just other women.  Maybe you don’t trust too well, or are a private person.  Some people need friends that understand when they need to be alone.. You should consider that being away from a plutonic friend for a while doesn’t mean the friendship has to end.  Spend less time, not no time.
786159
A lot of boys will only be interested in you if they think they can control you.  You don't want one like that. Being your own person is more important than having a boyfriend. Good luck !!!!!!!!!
940979
hunn why do you NEEED  a boyfriend? women can be single and survive !
632201
Friends come and go.They drift apart and come back together. If this friend does not understand you then maybe they never knew you You are and always will be your own bf You just have to enjoy being with yourself. And until you completley know yourself,how can you begin to really know someone else?Be careful of who you call friend.
70530
first off  be happy at your age not having a boyfriend . having boyfriend isnt the greatest thing in the world . Just enjoying the single life and when you are 16 you be ready for the guys and stuff. IF your friends are saying you should have  bf and stuff. They are not friends.. You have to belive in your self. For example   some of my classmates were all friends and they got all pregant sad to say your friends will make your life good or it can make  worse.Talk to god if you are lonely.you arent alone not having a boyfriend at 13 i can assure you. Im 23 and i didnt have boyfriend at age 13. just take your time.
638687
no u might just be more picky then her and waiting for the right guy. there is no reason to just accept who ever because u feel like u are lacking a boyfriend. wait for the right guy he will come along.
883826
You have the same problem that I had. That's not a bad thing, though. If you want to catch a specific guy's attention, just make the first move. I think they act that way because either they're afraid of loosing your friendship if you don't like them as boyfriends or you're not their girl I guess! Take a risk by flirting with the guy you like and see what happens. Maybe you'll be seeing yourself with a new boyfriend instead of another boy friend. Good luck!
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
1033065
Because girls also need friends....duh...why do guys have gal---friends??
1101910
Well it seems to me that you are an insecure person and you suround yourself with people who are equally insecure as yourself.  Because to you it's easy that way.  It's easy to live unchallenged and it's easier for you to just take what is offered.  When you don't like a situation that you are in you have to figure out how your gonna change it.  The first step is too stop taking advantage of other ppl especially if they let you because they are just as lost as you are and you will surely never find your way.  The next step is to work on being comfortable with yourself.  You have to be by yourself to do that. I would suggest that you stop dating or having any type of romantic relationship because nobody will ever be able to appreciate you if you don't even appreciate yourself. And then , after all that is worked out, you find a good secure, honest, independent woman, that isn't gonna let you fall back into your usual routine.  After that i can't say it will all be wonderful, but at least you know its something that you want instead of something that's just there. Godd luck!
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give yourself some time. most of the guys i knew didn't have a bf until they were 20. yes its lonely, but enjoy being single, enjoy what time you have left with no worries about relationships and bills and all the bs you're about to encounter with college and adult life. you'll be fine.\n\nPS: it is normal to be gay. it is not normal to be a hater and call yourself a christian. (that's for the guy who posted above)
276593
If guys are telling you that you're hot all the time yet you can't seem to get a boyfriend maybe other guys are intimited by your looks. They may feel like they don't look good enough to be with you, or you wouldn't give them the time of day.\nOr consider how you present yourself. Even if you are hot, alot of guys don't want to be with a girl who may come off as too flirtatious, easy or sleezy. Not saying that you are, but some guys may get that vibe from you or assume that you are just because of the way you look.\nNo matter what, I wouldn't worry about it. Rushing to get a boyfriend is rushing to get your heart broken.
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you are insecure with who you are and validate it by hooking up.  or you don't like dating a lot...\n\nhave you tried being alone and figuring out what you like in yourself and others?  try it...
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i do not think you should because it is possible that when you DO except them,those boys may think you are boyfriendless. thats just my thoughts though.