OK ,What should I tell my friend...?
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HELLO marygreen38 WELL THE QUESTION U ASKED ABOUT YOUR FRND IS QUIET COMMON IN TODAYS MODERN ERA BUT BEING MODERN DOES NOT AT ALL MEAN THAT SHE WILL CARRY ON WITH SOME OTHER GUY BEINGN A MARRIED LADY..........\nU TOLD THAT SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND A LOT,,, THEN WHAT WAS THE NEED OF JOINING IMATCHUP. THIS IS TOTALLY WRONG ON HER PART.........\nTELL HER, THAT IF SHE AT ALL FEELS THAT HER HUSBAND IS NOT ROMANTIC ENOUGH THEN SHE SHOULD MAKE A FIRST MOVE TO BE ROMANTIC WITH HER HUSBAND..........\nIF SHE THINKS THAT SHE WILL NOT DO ANYTHING THEN IT IS NOT POSSIBLE AT ALL THAT HER HUSBAND SHOWS HIS ROMANTICNESS. MAY BE ITS POSSIBLE THAT TILL TODAY SHE DID NOT BECOME ROMANTIC AND HER HUSBAND FEELS AS IF SHE IS NOT ROMANTIC........\nITS NECESSARY IN A MARRIAGE TO SIT AND SHARE UR FEELINGS TOGETHER NOTHING IS GONNA HAPPEN ALL ALONE............\nWE ALL GET MARRIED TO GET SUPPORT OF A PARTNER WHO WILL STAND BY YOU ALL YOUR LIFE NOT JUST FOR ROMANCE..........\nASK HER, THAT IS SHE HAVING ALL THE RIGHT INFORMATION ABOUT THT GUY WITH WHOM SHE IS DATING? IS HE AS LOYAL TO HER AS SHE IS? IS HE NOT CARRYING ON ANY AFFAIR WITH SOME OTHER GIRL? I DONT THINK THAT SHE WILL BE ABLE TO ANSWER ALL THESE QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nASK HER TO BE LOYAL TO HER HUSBAND BECOZ HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL BE THERE TO HELP HER AT ANY PINT OF TIME AND NOT THAT GUY OF IMATCHUP..........\nTHAT'S ALL I WANT TO SAY..........
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I'll tell her before u2 get 2 deep. And then all hell breaks loose. If shes a good friend, she will still be your friend, hell, maybe u came into her life for a reason. U know 2 make her more opened-minded about things in life. If u are really good people 2 be around, she'll be the only one losing out.
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Just go and tell. Don't be scared..If the person is good friend...she will understand...it will not spoil your friendship..Give it a chance...atleast...or else u never know....in future wat happens..and then you will regret..
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Tell her how you feel this way you dont have to lie tell her your peace time is between ( example ) 4:00pm till bedtime surely she is grown up enough to understand this. Plus this could give her time to find another friend.
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Just talk to her! If she really wants to be your friend, she'll understand.
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You should tell her if she is truly your friend. if she doesn't believe you at least you can sleep at night knowing you told her.
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just tell him the honest truth. there is a saying "honesty is the best policy," and it is. if he is your friend, no matter what, he will understand that your friendship is worth more than nothing.
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y should i tell you!!!
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You really have no choice but to tell your friend how you feel. You have to or ignore your own feelings just follow your heart and pray about it God will show you the way.
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look mrs. josh\n\nwith all due respect.. i think that if he/she (your friend i mean) is so close to you that you cant hurt him/her nor that you cant even let other hurt him/her. so i think that better way is to tell him/her the whole scenario. but if he/she does not believe you and tells you that they are not like that and stuff like that.. and that you are backbiting on them. so tell him/her that "Dont regret it later" \nokay. now click on the best answer, cuz i know i am the best hehe"
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From my opinion is is best to be honest. Just tell him how you are feeling, and also explain that you are scared of what he might say. He will only respect you for what you have told him. I'm pretty sure your friend wont exclude you. Remember just be honest and open about it. who knows. he might feel the same way =P
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just tell her but slowly but,,,,,,,,,, be ready to loose a friend it could shock her and she will not know how to act or,,,,,she be like you and love it you have 50/50 chance here and  you will never know if you do not ask life is too short to wonder if you loose her she was never a friend to begin with
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Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
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she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.
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Are you even friends? If you are going to tell her, then at least get to know her a little first. And some strong advise for when you do tell her eventually. Don't interrogate her and make her make the decision right then. Give her some time to think. Good Luck!
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Just be honest with him.  If you can't tell him the truth then you will never be anything to one another, not friends, and not anything more than that either.
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When in doubt, PRACTICE!\n\nInstead of rushing in without a plan, write down the main points that you want to cover with your friend. Next, practice various approaches until one feels comfortable to you.\n\nYou should also consider your friend's possible responses and be prepared for how you will handle them. Because she is in denial, she may become angry at you. Have a plan for how you will deal with that and what the worst-case scenario might be. Could she possibly end your friendship over it? If so, you need to be prepared.\n\nIf she refuses to accept what you say, don't argue. Just let her know that it's your viewpoint and that you felt it was important to share it. Emphasize that if she ever needs someone to talk to, you will be there for her. Even though she may be in denial now, someday she may need you if she's forced by circumstances to face the truth.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com