How hard should i spank her?  and if she is disrespectful?
115113
That is abuse and will get you thrown in jail, cut and dry.  Hitting is NOT ALLOWED!
680792
I did not at any time suggest that you fight her.  Evidently, you are intimidated by her for whatever reason.  Remaining passive will not eliminate the problem.  Sweetie, your age, status, or even education will not prevent you from dealing with difficult people.  In order to be successful, you have to be assertive in solving problems and further more dealing with life in general.\n\nYou don't have to gain her admiration, you just deserve her respect.
668485
Slap her up.\n\nIt's not a problem if you look at other laydeez.
907690
Bend her over your left thigh (assuming you're right-handed), and lock your right leg over both her legs.   If she tries to put her hand over her bottom, pinion that hand with your left hand while you spank her with your right.  Or try getting a firm grip on her hair - that'll hold most girls still.\n\nIf she's too strong and still manages to struggle free, you may need to use bondage.  Handcuffs and anklecuffs should keep her immobile for as long as you need.
666965
Slap the shit out of her
380573
That's hard to say! You should be respectful of her, and just be a kind and caring person.
62131
In the bible it says to not "drive the rod of correction" away from the child, Now, if you think about it in the exact context, most people would think that meant to spank them. I disagree, I believe that if she has seen that kind of behavior, it wouldn't be a good idea to tell her Not to do that, by doing it. Most likely, give her a system. Reward her for being good, Take something away that she likes if she's being bad... when I was younger my mom and I came up with a sticker game. For each good behavior, I recieved a sticker, after 10 stickers I would get something.. a treat. For each bad behavior, I would get a red sticker on my chart, which was a negative. Time outs can be helpful, if she is being loud, talk quietly, almost whisper, it will take patience, but it will work. I will pray that things work out with her. Give her attention, find a story book that promotes good moral and read it to her before she goes to bed at night. tell her you love her, and find some friends that are good influences for her to play with. And most of all, don't bend on time outs, or confiscation of items, or she will think it's okay, the younger years are the years where they learn morals, what's right, what's wrong. Choose wisely, and use your intuition as a mother. -- take care, I hope this helped.
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Make her a list of things she should do. Make a list for yourself of things to do too. Try to be fair with the amount of work. Post up the lists to remind her. Make sure she doesn't tear down the lists. Just do your lissted chores and leave her share of chores to her and don't do them. Be firm. Loving someone doesn't mean being weak, spoiling them or being a pushover. If you don't put down your foot on this matter, she will climb over your head on other matters too. Show her your leadership position and that you mean what you say. If she doesn't want to cooperate, use "tough love" , ie don't cooperate with her in things she wants you to do as a retaliation.  If she is really incorrigible, dump her.
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i suggest that you give her a ultimatium. if she doesn't take that seriously just give her the same respect in return.
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No, it is NOT appropriate to spank a 14 year old. go see a guidance counselor at school so that you and your family can get some help. Good Luck, sweetie.
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You can touch mine freaky_chick!\n\nAs to the poster...the only way you will know her reaction is to do it and find out.  I would guess most would give you the beat down though.
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she must like it. that's what i told my stepdaughters' mother when she kept crying about it (from her boyfriend, not my ex.).\n\nif she is beaten and stays, she likes it, so leave her alone in her own world.\n\ni can't get my husband to spank me in the bedroom even if i ask. he says he can't hit a woman.
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ja :) , that's funny you must be very handsome or something :P ; I'm also sort of jelous sometimes but I wouldn't beat someone because of that .\n\nI don't know, I think you should tell her what do you feel about it, just tell her that you really love her but the situation doesn't make you comfortable;  she will either understand you ...or beat you :), but at the end you'll feel more confident for doing it, you are nobody's possesion, it may feel good sometimes that she cares so much about you, but keep in mind that it also can hurt you at the end , believe me you don't want to end up being dependant ; is a good thing you realized it now, anyway....good luck :)
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you should get a good belt and invite her over and give her a good spanking.Enure no one can hear the trashing.\n\nEvery little girl needs discipline and that little brat is no different. \n\nI think first her father can not tolorate such behaviour not stopping her is effectively agreeing with her. Your boyfriend is a big part of this problem. Let him know you are very hurt by this and ask him to reprimand her when she cross the line.\n\nYou should try to build a good relationship with the brat,but don't become a friend you are an adult and you demand respect\n\nyou should also understand that the brat is jealous of you stealing her dad or replacing her mom, that hurts bad. I guess you should allow you to spend time with her talk to the brat and see how she feels, let the brat open up to you, you are not kissing ass but staking a mature and correct approach to the problem\n\nthis might tkae time so be paitent,however if you see that you are not making any progress and things are getting worst then you should allow her to spend time with her dad alone and have a miniture relationship wit the brat.\n\nyou should not be surprised by the use of the worrd "HOE" as she gets older into a teenage years you can expect bigger and nastier brawls right in your face.
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let her keep doin it!!\nsome day someone will kick her ass and she wont do it again\nexperience is the best way to learn things
914903
bite her!! sometimes you gotta break some nails to whip some tails! Tellher leave you alone before i get her. I dont know you but will throw bleach in her face!
959240
She's a player....do her and then diss her, so you don't get too attached.