i could not keep up relation with girls,what is wrong with me?
115382
Perhaps you are afraid to commit to someone. And you possibly keep passing these girls by cause you know deep down they arent right for you. When you find the right one, it'll all fall into place.
595657
nothing, from what youve said.  maybe you just havent met the right girl yet.
1012448
If she ain't your friend she can't be your girlfriend. Quit worrying about "what you think your missing" and try to develop good friendships with these girls... listen and learn. Everything takes time. \n\nGood Luck.
303187
I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
534950
why obsessed with girls and what a good girl should do/should be?  Honey, have some faith in yourself.
293381
what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
238387
that's a shame because I'm sure if you had the courage to speak to them you would find that they are just as normal as you and me and that you would have a lot of things in common  the best thing you can do is try and be around girls as much as possible and the more time you spend with them the easier it will be for to speak to them good luck!
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
360244
It could be many of things, no one knows for sure just her, it was immature of the way she handled the situation. If I was you I would pick up the broken pieces and go on about your life, because obvisouly she wasn't the right one for you. Let your heart heal and then go out there and find the women that is worthy of being with a nice guy like you. Good Luck Baby Boy
880979
Unfortunately, it just is that way sometimes.  You have had some bad luck with women, but I don't think it's anything you do, per se.  Maybe it's the type of women you tend to fall for.  Are you attracted to women who are super-confident and assertive, almost to the point of bitchiness?  Do the women you date expect you to do whatever they tell you to?  I think it's nice that you are a sensitive, kind, poetry-writing kind of guy, but if asserting yourself in a relationship isn't your strong suit, you'll probably keep getting your heart broken over and over again.  Try dating outside our usual "type," and maybe you'll find a woman who will really love you for who you are and be faithful to you.  Good luck!
118546
don't EVER get urself involved with dis kinda girls again.they're bad 4 you.not worth ur time.\nUR BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER.\n4GET BOUT HER.\nIGNORE HER.
772360
4. i'm kinda withdrawn because i'm not good around women.
845078
Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
902852
Some of the greatest pleasures in life take time, your still young and have much to learn in that area and being shy doesn't help.   In time you will feel more confident with your self, right now just observe, very useful task.  You are right for some reason alot of girls like the bad boys, but remember they usually don't last, you want something lasting so just hang in there and I'm sure you will find a beautiful girl, the one you were waiting patiently for..you sound like a great catch.  Don't worry.  ;-)
91715
Hi there! Frankly i think that day dreaming about girls is quite normal and to certain extent i think it should be done from time to time!!  Orelse how would you figure out what kinda woman you like? You need to do some serious thinking about it, dont you?? But hey,just dont overdo it! Think about girls when you have TIME to think about them!!! Simple!! When you find yourself constantly thinking about girls just tell yourself "wait till i finish my work or eat my dinner!! then i have time to think as long as i dont fall asleep!!" It can be very simple to stop any addiction if you just stop making a big deal out of it!! And oh yes! go ahead and find a girl friend!! I am sure then all your dreams will come true and i hope they dont turn nightmarish!! HA HA
501402
You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!