how come boys dont understand girls feelings?
99372
Why he does not understand what you want? Easy: because you did not say what you wanted. Even in your message, you only said what you DON'T want.\n\nA suggestion: tell him on odd days he'll get what he wants and on even days he should give you the kind of interaction you like. Simple deal.\n\nOr find another guy.
471726
I would love to take this one on. ..\nWomen assume that men are capable of understanding subtle signals. Like when you were in junior high...Girls could just mouth words to other girls across the room and the other girl would understand. Guys would be right next to each other and would whisper like they were in a helicopter because that is the only way men could understand what the other was saying. Men don't pick up on women's signals. So when you get fed up with this and blow up at the guy or do something drastic, the guys think you have gone completely insane and didn't ever see it coming. Meanwhile, you have been sending several signals to foreshadow this action that the man has just overlooked.
109631
because theyare boys not men.  give them time to grow up. they arent intrested in girls yet.
467176
Its not only with girls, it has nothing to do with gender of a person, instead its just mental, when you love someone you dont expect anything from him/her, even if he/she doesnt love you, its hard for oneself to convince their mind/heart that he/she doesnt love you any more and should move on.
323941
Think it's because boys have problems expressing themselves,to get a boy to tell you how their feeling or what they're thinking is quite hard really.If they just came out and said it straight away that would be better but they never do,they always seem to beat around the bush or brush it off...lads need to be more open and frank about how they truly feel...think that would help loads...
673984
no guys just dont really know how to show their feelings like gurls its hard for them and most of them are embarressed about wat their friends mite think if they knew they were in love
1082164
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.
290968
Well, guys are strange creatures.  Guys hide their feelings for some reason, too afraid of getting hurt, commitment, etc. You can usually tell when someone likes you. When they hide it, they will usually avoid any topic that pertains to relationships, dating, commitment, etc. Maybe he isn't sure how he feels about you yet, depending on age, maybe he's trying to find out what his friends think of you before he starts anything with you (young guys are guilty of this!). Avoiding eye contact, any serious subject, even running the other direction are signs to look for. Good luck!
421268
Girls are NOT "more" emotional than boys. We simply express our emotions differently and we are free to cry or giggle as we please. Women and children have "permission" in most societies to fully and freely express ourselves. Men are expected to control their emotions more. And most men control their emotions by supressing them. \n\nNow before you say "that isn't FAIR!" think about this: When a girl gets upset she cries. A GUY who is upset is much more likely to become violent than to just cry. So it is not only fair, but important in a civilized society that the physically stronger gender be expected to use greater control of his emotions.\n\nAnother important difference: Girls use WORDS to express emotion. Guys tend to use use ACTIONS to express emotions. Girls want to share FEELINGS. Guys want to FIX whatever is bothering them. So guys express their emotions in what they DO, and we girls express them in words and/or tears, smiles, etc.
276625
Because women are more understanding.Guys just want one thing.Girls actually listen.And besides, they say that only a woman knows exactly what a woman wants.
1177606
Guys are built differently than women...when a guy sees that something is wrong their first reaction is to try to "fix" whatever is wrong, when in reality sometimes all we are looking for is understanding or some comforting words. Try not to see it as a fault, it really isnt, us women are just more "emotionally intuned" than most men are.....I asked my father this same question many years ago, and he told me simply that most times guys really don't know what to say...like when we cry and they are just silent...it's because they dont know how to "fix" it...\n\nSo to answer your question, yes i believe it is common, and very normal : )
538501
Sometimes guys don't like to show girls how they feel about them.
68477
Different guys want different things, but the vast majority want a girl that's interested in them and expresses that interest on a regular basis.  For a guy, there's nothing more confusing than a girl that gets very emotional all the time, because this can read like she is just trying to be annoying.  Guys are very literal.  If you cry, you're sad, and if you yell, you're mad.  It's hard for a guy to separate the crying and yelling from the fact that the girl may still like him.
278938
there are a lot of different answers but girls can be really weird sometimes and throw alot of us guys on a spin of confused emotions and thoughts, but youd probably get a better answer from a girl.
326466
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. If women were a little more clear about their feelings, men would understand them better and it would make everyone's life a little easier. And sometimes men are just jerks.
502415
As a guy, I can tell you that he may never notice!  Some guys just aren't good at reading that kind of thing, even if you think its blatently obvious.\n\nWait if you think you must, but you are better off telling him straight out how you feel.
1157981
Don't Know, ask the guy himself. only him can really give the main reason for not showing his emotion. maybe his afraid you might break his heart or you might take him for a ride if he shows you how he really feels about you. he just scare, doesn't wanna get hurt