how do i know if he really loves me?
104757
Hi!\nIts better to ask him directly if he has any such feelings 4 u. Coz remember, it is easier for a boy to overcome such situations,but when it comes to emotional situations,girls are not that strong as to forget all this in a few days and carry on with a normal routine. U r close enough 2 him 2 put such a question directly to him. M saying this coz if he is interected then its ofcourse good 4 u,but if its otherwise then it would be too late 4 u to make it easier 4 urself 2 overcome what is yet 2 b. You seem to be interested in him,but just think,if without knowing the latter's feelings u continue liking him in that manner and then soon come to know that nothing of this kind had been going on in his mind, then what will be your reaction? Comeon,its your life,and you are its master,so I would suggest that u ask him directly rather than continuing this onesided liking.\ntake care!
1108225
u will know when he makes u laugh & makes u look at life in a positive & good manner.  he will never raise his hands on u, truly loves u, respects, values yr opinion & be there for u.  he will communicate with u even when u guys have had a quarrel. remember it works both ways. u have to do the same not only him.  relationship is a two way thing.  hope this helps & all the best =)
296801
Honestly...if he loves you he will do something for you even if he really doesn't want to.  And he'll stick with you through thick and thin.  If he loves you he will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings sometimes.
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
451772
go and meet him but you have to see carefully if he actually loves you or not.\nIf you actually feel that he loves you, marry again
471460
You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
736411
You will just know hun :) I promise!  You will be able to tell by the way he looks at you and by the little things he will do for you that he doesn't "have to" do.  He will maybe put you before himself and think of you when you aren't around.  Men act a little goofy when they first fall in love...but thats why we love them back right :).  Good luck!
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
625565
When he holds you and touches you, gentle and lovingly. When he does everything he can to make you feel comfort and joy. When he drops everything to make sure you are safe. Telling you he loves you is not enough, showing you is the best way that you can know for sure.
93682
Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
129399
You don't, not really.  You have to go on feeling.  How does he act?  Do you ever wonder if he's telling you the truth?  Does he show signs of keeping things from you?  Do you always feel frustrated with him?  These are all signs of disloyalty.\n\nBut does he hold your hand for no reason?  Does he have a sweet smile on his face when you catch him looking at you?  Does he do cute little things for you just because?  These are signs of romance.  It's your call.  If you are having some problems but it still feels right then you might have the real thing.\n\nGood luck!!!
296402
If he really loves you then your heart would instinctively know---at present you are doubtful----very natural---only time will reveal the truth----impatience is natural but worth to find true love---- best of luck
106161
There are a lot of ways you cant tell if he does love you. If he has toled you he loves you then it is probably true. Knowing that he still stands by you even if his family dislikes you is another good sign, but there are a lot of other things too. Someone you love should also be your best friend. Can you trust him? can you talk to him about anything? Does he come to you with his problems? Does he let you hangout with him in front of his friends? Do you suspect hes trying to hide anything from you? If he really loves you then he'll show it, and you'll know for sure. If you have any doubts or questions about his actions or love for you then you can also talk to him about it. If he loves you and you love him you should be able to talk to him aboout anything, even this.
195622
You can tell if a guy is in love with you if he\nnever leaves you alone.  Calling, writing notes,\nhaving very long talks about you, etc.  He'll \ndevote most of his free time to you. If not,\nhe'll complain about not being with you or not\nbeing able to talk to you enough. You can usually\nsee true love in his eyes when he looks at you.\nGood luck, theres a lot of liars and users out \nthere. Your best bet is to ask God to lead the\nright person to you.  You can't go wrong there.
1134471
u can tell if ur bf really loves u when hes willing to change bad habits that u dont like and if he goes out of his way to plan romantic things for u not just an ordinary date and most of all when he does simple things for u like fix u something to eat when ur hungry and u didnt ask him to do or just tell u that u look beautifil everyday and if he trys to cheer u up or make u feel better when ur not well....thats true love thats how u know because he will go through trouble just to keep a smile on ur face
288200
Ask him and trust him or ask him and let your heart guide your way. You'll know...
434663
ask him why he loves or what he loves about you... or say "I want a divorce", "I'm seeing someone else", or (my fav. since my "abduction") "I screwed a chicked", if he has a "sudden" and radical action... yeah he, more than likely, love you.