How can I get my wife to spice things up?
117254
Actually, if she did not come with the program included your out of luck.
408715
A nice dinner and a day at the spa.  Women love Spa's.  Take her to get a massage, a facial, the works and that is cheaper than 500.   Also take her to dinner or better yet, cook for her.  IF you do not know how to cook, get a simple cookbook and make something yourself.  Go to foodnetwork.com and see if you could find how to make her favorite food.  Clean the house for her while she is at the spa, that is free and roses, red ones  (they mean hot passion).  Write her a poem, that is also free or get her that spa with her best friend,  her best friend will love you for it too and will score points with the wife to have a night out with just the girls.  Hope that helps.
1111498
Well you can bring her to dinner. Then take her to a nice hotel room. Have candles because that lighens the mood. Rub her face and body. SO she gets happy if you know what I mean play soft muisc in the back round. These are just a few ideas. Good Luck!
878704
Are you looking for just role play or to try things you two have not done yet like anal sex, toys, movies, ect... To role play, I would ask her what turns her on, like a man in a uniform, a boss/secretary, exotic men, ect. Then surprise her with costume/decorated room to the theme. She may be too turned on to turn you down. On the toys/sexual items, you should ask her and NOT surprise her, you might get socked! She should feel comfortable with whatever new things you guys try. If she is a little reluctant, try to push the issue a little because most people are afraid to try new things, but once they do it, they like it. If she is not budging, leave it alone and maybe ask at another time. Good Luck
614484
A 35 years old woman is mature and fully experienced in love making. So be innovative give her something new. Start by licking whole of her body, lick her asshole, vagina, feet and just make her go crazy.\n\nMake love to her for at least more than 45 min while you are inside her. Believe me she will come back to u.
136567
actually all of these answers are correct, but not enterelly, if you dont acomplish to stimulate your woman the time you spend down there or with your fingers is going to be useles, now women arose quite slow, so i recomend a nice diner, and allways with a sexual conotation, second you know your wife and what she likes so i can only recomend to do what she might like, take your time, do it slow and please use your imagination, try to discover new ways or new parts of your beloved, if you read her reactions, talk to her during the act and really try to satisfy her theres no way you can miss, besidas you must like oral sex to perform it, if you dont that will be only ocuord and not sexy at all
227108
Well, depending on what parts of the relationship you would like to spice up, all call for different answers. Try new things that you never thought you would.  Surprise really helps to spice things up.  Try just doing something spontaneous. Heres a good one.  Make a little treasure hunt for them.  Put clues around the house or where ever you would like, you can even use a map and have it end  with you as the treasure.  Its just something different. Make it kind of sexy treasure hunt to really get them going. Hope this helps alittle bit.
95540
then perhaps you should go to the woman you love and tell her you'd like to spice things up\nor call me for some hot fun! haha
597730
be the man of her dreams.\n\nbe new and different every day.\n\nlearn what makes her tick, \nand push that button often.\n\n:-)
59533
My guess is that you're not talking about a day-to-day thing. What you want is for her to get dressed up and for you two to have crazy monkey sex. Awesome.\n\nIf you two talk about your sex life, bring it up during one of those conversations. Say "You know what might be fun to try one time?"\n\nDon't try to change the whole of your sex life in a day. A good guideline is that only 1 in 3 sexual encounters with your partner should be "enhanced" or "special". If you were to start asking her to dress up like a porn star every time you two made love, she would likely feel less than confident.\n\nIf you two are open enough, head on over to a strip club. Buy her a lapdance. I went to a club and got one and it was superfun. I left the club thinking it might be fun to dress up like a stripper sometimes. Your wife might get the same ideas.\n\nHowever, if you bring it up and she says something along the lines of "I'm not a tawdry whore", make it clear that you want her to be beautiful and classy, just like she already is. If she still says no, drop it. The more you pressure her, the more she'll feel like you don't like her for who she is.\n\nMost women will agree to do something that they're not entirely into every once in a while for the sake of their partner. Besides, if you respond enthusiastically, she's more likely to do it again.\n\nGood luck!
1029762
there are sooo many things to do to increase your sexual drive... if that's the question... \n\ngo to a sex shop. they have fun games (not necessarily vibrators), and lotions... and things that tast good, and warm up that you can put on her body... find out what her needs are, or what she wants that you dont do for some reason... try something new... and make her body feel like the sexiest and beautifullest body you have ever seen or touched.
1120453
If you know how to work it with your wife right it will work just fine. Spice it up for her and buy her some toys and things. Sometimes people cheat because the bedroom life becomes boring and routine.
503611
Go for all the old cliche's . Flowers, breakfast in bed, do the housework, and get a baby sitter and take her out to a nice restaurant.  Then when you get home, light some candles and run her a bubble bath.\n\nIf you want something really special, write her a poem or a letter telling her how wonderful she is and how much you appreciate all the wonderful things she does everyday.
88055
You work your way up to it. Sex begins in the kitchen. Serve her breakfast. Prepare her bath water to take her out on a date.  Buy her a pair of shoes. Always compliment before she asks.  Use the words, "I'd like to talk to you." Women love to talk.  After winding down from all the outside stuff youve done with her.....begin massaging her......caress her slowly.....then let her know....softly....how much you want her.
1155621
slow down, Take some time to explore her body as each women is different. Ask her what she like's and seduce her body with your touch lips hands and tongue tease her with gentle kisses.
1044656
you can pull out things like a lucky rabbits foot (so you can say it might better you chances of getting lucky that night), a stuffed crab (if your wife has a since of humor), sea weed (again only if you wife has a since of humor because that would suck to piss her off on your wedding day. Then you would not need the rabbits foot cuz you would probably be sleeping on the floor) Get some white sexy undies in her size and pull them out too. The remote to the TV. Tell everyone she had to hide it so you would not be late to your weeding. Good luck
995342
need new romantic things to do with her