do u think he loves me although his mother doesn't know i exist?
116926
If he's a good boy, he'd be taking you home to momma.  Why don't you ask him what's up if it's important to you?
511437
I would be careful, because if you dont like him, most likely your just falling in love with what you think he is.  What if he only seems shy and caring because you dont talk to him?  Perhaps hes just a sexist insensitive pig, and he just hasnt opened his mouth yet.  But you cant judge if you dont know him, so get to know him slow and find out what you too have in common.  If you dont have much experience with guys, which sounds like it due to your description of your mother, take it slow and get to know what hes really like.  Im sure your parents wouldnt be too terribly upset---kids date, your growing up.
367144
He never mentioned it to you even when you have been going out for five weeks with him. Did he tell you himself, or did you just had a chance to find out ? If he told you himself, probably he was scared that you would get to know or probably like you said he didnt want to lose you. If you found out by yourself, then he has other things he may not be telling you, like the baby's mother ? legal implications ? his commitments ? Either way, lets give him a benefit of doubt that....probably he does love u a lot and worried of losing you, but he cannot hide issues serious as this from you. It is better you confront him now and ask him all issues related to the baby, and any other facts that you should be knowing. I feel he would open up and tell you everything if he is sincere to you. And when he does that, I think he should be given a chance. Everyone goes through some issues in life or the other. Probably things didnt work out for him, and now he has you, so give him a chance..and accept him the way he is, ofcourse only after your heart tells you that once you know the issues yourself. But if he turns out to be a big bundle of lies..then you know what to do !!\n\ngood luck !
130629
I love my mama but she doesn't know everything.
959838
you mean to tell me that for 1 1/2 years he never complimented you?and your still with this guy? whatever! do ya know if he even likes himself? low self esteem? there definitly is a problem here and bound to become a major issue, do you know if this guy has any love for himself to begin with? because you can't expect him to show you love if he dont love himself, you can always assure him that you are not like those he had to grow up with, that you see something in him that no body in his family does, and that you wont blame him when things go wrong, and ask him to  drop his gaurd and let you in,  tell him you not going to hurt him that you just want to help begin the healing process, teach him that if he looks past all those previous negative judgements, he will find some one that he never knew existed, some one I'm sure he'd like, just understand that those who  not by shoice had to  grow up in that type of atmosphere, will  only know rejection and to feel like they could never be nothing. he should start by feeling lucky that he's got you!  Good luck to you both!
289549
Trust your mother on this one - she's only got your best interests at heart.  If you love this guy then the fact that your back home with Mum won't get in the way of your relationship.\n\nFrom a legal point of view your Mum's in the right.
421497
umm.. i don't really know the situation.. but i mean.. if he says he loves you.. do you have any reason NOT to believe him??
882276
Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
1071208
I don't know you or your mom but has she said this about any of your other boyfriends?  I didn't believe it and lived to regret not taking the advice of people who really did care for me.  Looking back now I see what I couldn't see then.  Controlling someone else is usually very subtle.  Be careful and always know that your mom will be there if needed.  No matter what he may tell you.  Good luck.
269919
You need to love and cherish you mother, she is not going to be with you forever. I am sure that your mother is a great person and she probably is not as embarrassing as you think. \n\nEnjoy every single moment that you can with your mother. She obviously loves you and wants the very best for you. Swallow your pride as hard as it may be and just let it go.
613201
My mother never liked my boyfriend and unfortunately I do not speak to her now and she doesn't know that I am married to that boyfriend. I'm not suggesting that this will happen to you but I think that you should be firm and stick by your husband because your mother has to stop dictating your life when you reach a certain age.\nMothers always believe that they know best but I am very happy - my mother was proved wrong so you should have faith in your own feelings.
1186250
i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
887655
I'm sure someone does, actually there is probably someone who loves you already, you just might not know it!!
1155278
I'm about your boyfriend's age, and I lost my mother last year.  If my experience has any relevance here, I felt somewhat sad on Mother's Day.  But more than that, I felt *strange*.  I would always call my mother, send her a card or gift, and so forth, and of course I couldn't do that.  I felt left out of all the Mother's Day talk.  After all these years, I was an outsider.\n\nOne thing you don't mention is whether your boyfriend has any chlldren of his own.  If he does, and if they make a fuss over him because he is their dad, that should help quite a bit.\n\nYou are a kind and supportive girlfriend to be thinking of your boyfriend's dad this weekend.  I think he is lucky to have you.
683862
If you love this man then by all means marry him. If you allow your mother to rule your love life you will be miserable for the rest of your life.\nMy mother hated my boyfriend. I met him when I was 13, we got married when I was 19 and have been married 10 years now and together 16! My mom still isn't too fond of him, but has learned that he isn't going anywhere and she just has to deal with it. \nGood Luck.. hopefully your mother will come around and see that he makes you happy.
1076010
If you don't think they love you back then maybe you should talk about your feelings to this person and listen to their response.  Hopefully, you'll get the answer you are looking for, but you will never know if you don't ask..
457962
If you love your mother you would tell her plain and simple.  She gave birth to you and brought you into this world at least give her respect and the curtesy of knowing the truth!