How do I ask a women for sex in a polite manner?
98570
you generally get there gradually , i.e. kissing 2nd base, 3d base etc. u don't just ask politely or otherwise.
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If this is a first date, what mood is desired if not sexual? Sensuality is just as important as sexuality.\nAsking general not personal questions of her on a first date is ok. Be a good listener and flirt. Watch your language as some women are offended by blunt none of your business questions on a first date\nNever talk about your ex's and braggarts are boring.\nHold hands, be a gentleman,compliment her sincerely and above all, pay attention to subtle little gestures she may make to show she's interested in more than just holding hands, but don't be pushy. Honesty is always the best policy, but you don't have to feel obligated to tell her your whole life story. Be a little mysterious. Women are attracted to men who have good manners too, so don't pick your nose when you think she's not looking (only kidding)
108813
i think the best way is not to ask her if she is ready for sex but to take her down and kiss her on the lips then you can continue with the other parts i dont think she will refuse you.try it now.
1042993
work your way up to it. See how far she is willing to go without having sex. Or you can use the super dooper easy method and just ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
176524
Well, first make sure you're not doing anything weird that might make her nervous in a not-good way.  Then just ask her out.  If she says yes, chances are she likes you.  Don't assume she's immediately going to want to have sex though.
677943
I've offered this suggestion many times, and it has a great success rate...OR it shows you exactly what you have in store...Set up a nice, romantic setting - THIS IS NOT FOR SEX..DON'T LET IT GO THERE THIS TIME...Tell her that ahead of time when she sees the atmosphere.  Tell her you want to learn more about her needs and wants.  Have a list of questions in mind or on paper...show her you've really thought this out...example of questions you should ask...\n\nWhat turns you on?  Does the idea of candlelight and roses OR handcuffs and rope get you more aroused.  Do women, multiple people, couples, or just one man excite you.  Is there anything you've wanted to experiment with that you may have felt embarassed about?  Does playing with food, role playing, dressing up, anything possibly out of the ordinary.\n\nFind out what turns her on NOW...it may be very different from what you once knew...people change...and women change fast!!!\n\nMany times women have cravings that they are afraid or embarassed to admit...and nothing else fulfills them so they just put off sex because it's not worth it to them.\n\nOTHERWISE....\n\nShe's just done ...and you should move on...the way she reponds to your questions should give you some great indicators.\n\nGood Luck
1099156
Be bold to take the initiative and invite her to her or your place (if you have any) she'll appreciate this. It should happen after you ply her with a few kisses and sweet-nothings first.
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Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you. \nListen and talk to her. Women love to talk! They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what you talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her. \nTake things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in. \nKiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there. \nIncrease the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes! Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow. \nTalk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act. \nTell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her (not in a cheesy way ['I want you baby'] but in a tender way). She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen. \nWhen it's the right time, always ask for permission ('Is this okay?') and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready. \nRespect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to 'get some,' then you are not seducing a woman. You are merely an animal in heat. \nFind a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start. \n\n\n\nTips \nAlways listen. \nTalk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around. \nKiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process. \nThis method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much. \nDon't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy). \nBuild a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends. \nThink before you speak. \nWarnings \nAlways use protection. \nNever, ever have sex if a woman does not want to. Don't pressure her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Never hit a woman. \n\n--------------------------
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Just ask her what she wants to be called and respect her for it. Am sure she would really appreciate you for it.
287377
The only way to know is to ask her. It's also the most polite way to go about it.
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be sweet, romantic, but not too mushy, be nice and caring and LISTEN dont be all "lets make out" or "lets have sex"\n\nthan, she will give you respect as well
923015
"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.
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Only in a place where she requests an escort ... like in a seedy bar, or the wrestling arena, etc.\n\nJust ask her if she wants you to!\n\nOtherwise, she might not appreciate the gesture.\n\nGood Luck!\nOC
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Take a walk anywhere "nice" women are walking (e.g., sidewalk in a nice part of your city). When you see someone really interesting, say, "Hello," introduce yourself, and take her with you. If she is busy at that very moment, get her phone number and make sure you call her. If she is married (also a possibility), apologise and move on; she will be too flattered to hold a grudge. Do this until you get someone. By the way, if you don't see anything that you like at any time, wait until you do. You will see someone you like soon enough.\n\nAnother place to pick up nice girls is at a grocery store. However, keep in mind that others will be near you there, so you won't get as much privacy to ask for her number; and it is good for the two of you to bond from the beginning -- just the two of you, even for a moment. If she has only a couple of items, insist on paying for them at the register, then walk her to her car. It will not cost much, but you will already be getting her attention that she can rely on you. (No, it is not a money thing, it is a security thing.) Again, if she is married or attached, apologise and move on. Soon enough you will wind up with someone you are happy with.
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When she is ready.  Wait too long and it becomes too tense. Make it casual and respectful dude!
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Carefully.\n\nEnter in to some general conversation. Be polite and a gentleman. Try to identify what the two of you may have in common.\n\nThen, with a deep breath...smiles....ask her to join you for lunch.\nLunch is very safe. It is not really a Date..more like having Lunch.\nWe all have to eat.\n\nShould she not accept, no real feelings are hurt...and you save face.\n\nHint: By the time you have approached her, she has already made some observations about you. Women are very observant.\n\nHave a great time at Lunch.
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Be yourself and relax.Good manners are a plus\nwith most women,as is a sense of humor.