what would you do if your bf told you he was bisexual?
98687
I would first throw up, then get depressed, get conceling, find another bf.
763182
Looks like ya got a lot of stupid answers. Well,let me be serious.\n   My girlfriend was being honest with me when she told me of her attraction to other female bodies and she has had sex with other women.Let me say this.It is the honesty that turned me on even more than her admitting she is bisexual.So what;she is bi. Since that admission when we go out in public, she'll say,"hey what do you think" when she notices an attractive woman.It seems we both have the same taste.\n   Understand, we have been together for four years and it wasn't until our third year that she told me because she wanted our relationship to be honest and well, she didn't know how I would take it.\n When she wants to have sex with another woman,well, that's okay with me.  I don't, can't and should not have any say in that matter.That's her.\nI'll be honest with you too. It is a turn on for me.\nI'm sorry this was so long.
456843
hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
346572
hell yeah bisexual guy are soo sexy maybe u can get lucky and have a 3sum.. (lol)
253709
You tell him to find some other girl if he can't accept you for who you are.  He is an idiot for even thinking that by him asking you could just suddenly decide to be bi.  You either are or you aren't and he can't choose.  Find your self a boyfriend who loves you for you and isn't out to change who you are.
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The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
1164761
My boyfriend says the same thing.  What he doesn't understand is that I am attracted to both sexes.  He thinks it's because I'm with him now that I am only attracted to men.  Doesn't work like that buddy
900414
I think you should just ask him. Does he know your bisexual? maybe he doesn't and feels the same way you do. Don't flirt with him all hardcore either, it will make you embarrased if he is not gay. So i think afterall you should just tell him "I like this guy ..."see what he says. or maybe if your brave just let him know you have a crush.
1081165
he's bi, its that simple, no shame in that\n\nbi is fun, that many more choices in who you date,
84266
He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
236311
talk to your bf, see his side of the story.....
520924
I have no problem with bisexuality per se. I do have a problem with sharing my man. I don't want to share him with anyone, male or female.
877787
you are likely bisexual or at least bi curious
913378
If you're attracted to both males an females then you're bi.  Just don't think if you get in a relationship with female it will be any better, some girls are just as bad as guys...\n\nOk now with that out of the way I am bi, I hate telling straight guys that I am because then all think can think about is "Yes! Threesome!" if you and your boyfriend are already shakey its not the best thing to tell him, all he'll do is make things worse by pressuring you try with a girl and to make sure he's involved.\n\nEither way you deserve to be in a good, healthy relationship and whether you decide you want to be alone for a while, try being with a woman or just sticking to guys, I think you need to lose the one your with now.  Everyone deserves the right to be happy.\n\nIf you ever need help on coming out and don't know who to talk to you can always email me if you need some advice or someone to talk to :)  good luck with everything...
443412
i had the same thing with my bezzie a few years ago, and for some reason out of our little gang he felt he couldn't tell me...he told everyone else.  don't ask him, just be a friend and make him feel comfortable in himself be open so he feels he can talk to u about it if he needs it.  He didn't tell me coz he thought i'd hate him and dissaprove!\n\nI love him, he's a mate!\n\nIt doesn't really matter whether he's straight or gay aslong as he's in your life!\n\ngive him time  \n\nxxx
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Okay, well obviously you shouldn't have snooped in his mail box, and he trusted you not to or he wouldn't have given you the password. But you feel bad about it and realize it was wrong, so I'm not going to reprimand you for it.\n\nIf you guys have been friends for three years, and you're good friends, I don't think it's out of line to ask him if he's gay. If your friend knows you're an accepting person, and he's also an accepting person (more on this later), it shouldn't be a problem to ask him as long as you don't do it in an accusatory way.\n\nThe reason why I ask if he's an accepting person is that it's possible that he might not have come out to himself yet. I have a friend that was obviously gay, everyone who knew him thought he was gay from the start, but even though he was accepting of gay people he'd never admit it. He wouldn't even admit to being bi. Well, after knowing this guy for four years he finally admitted that he was bi, and that he had actually been with more guys than girls. The thing is, at the time he didn't think that made him gay or even bi! He was convinced that because he was "just friends" with these guys, and just happened to have benefits with them, that he wasn't bi or gay. He still won't admit he's gay but now that he's come out as bi he never dates girls and says he's not interested in them. The moral of the story is that your friend might not have admitted to himself yet that he is gay. If you ask him about it, he might deny it. Clearly he IS gay or you wouldn't have found those messages, but he might not be willing to accept that yet. If he's a socially open-minded person he shouldn't be offended if you ask him, even if he denies it (my friend was never offended). But if not, that could be the reason why he's not coming out to you or possibly himself, and he could react badly if you ask. So just keep that in mind.\n\nThe final option is that perhaps you can hint that you have some suspicions about him, but not ask outright. Make it clear that you don't have a problem with gays, and let him know how good of a friend you consider him and that you'd never give him up for anything. Then just wait for him to become comfortable coming out to you, when he's ready.