how do i know if my bf is into my friend?
102231
Well was he cheated on you before? Because If not then your being too paranoid. The real sweet thing is that he actually emitted he use to had a crush with her. Just talk to the two at the same time and set the record straight.
150074
heres the big one....w...hen you are with mutual friends, see where he puts himself in the group in relation to you, not just once but after a day or two look for the simple obvious pattern,if hes constantly close then duh.
850435
peanut? it's actually kind of cute. i see your confusion, though. it's hard to tell if he just sees you as a friend or something more. if he's not giving you anything else to go on, you might just have to ask him about it. good luck!
287701
If you're bf and gf, you should know if he loves you.  Usually bf and gf love each other.  If you're having trouble communicating love to each other, you might need help.
818163
He obviously likes you, but he's more into your best friend - yes, even though she doesn't like him.  Guys love a challenge!  He's all intrigued now because he wants to find out WHY she doesn't like him, if he's playing hard to get, and to prove to himself that he can get her in the long run.  He flirts with you because you're fun and he feels comfortable with you, plus he's also trying to make her jealous.  Don't be concerned with his feelings for her right now, continue to be friends with him, but also be a little mysterious and not quite as flirtateous back.  At the least you will have a good friendship with him, and who knows, when he finally realizes that your friend isn't going to suddenly love him to bits, he'll see you in an entirely different light.  Good luck!
689026
Well first off, if she is just a friend, more or likely you would already know something about her. He would have mentioned her or you would have met her or something of that sort. You could ask him about her, but then he would know you've been checking his messages. If you don't care about him possibly getting upset, then ask. If you do care, then I would continue to check them every know and agian and just see what she says. You know how you talk to your guy friends, and you know how you talk to your boyfriend. Does she sound like just a friend or something more? You might be able to tell just by the messages she leaves.
311206
There's no sure indicator. Guys are all different. But if all of a sudden he acts different around you, then he's got a reason. Best way to find out would be to ask one of his friends.
255969
I would say he does like you.  When you two are around other people, I think he observes you because he wants to see you interacting with others.  Plus he's checking to see if you two "can be" something.\nBut a word of advice.  You two have been friends along time.  That is worth so much.  Don't go out on a limb here.  If you two are meant to be, it will happen.  And there will be nothing holding you back.  But if you pursue this PREMATURELY it will it will change your friendship relationship.
905069
Oh tough one. No wonder you are in a state of confusion.  If he is a close friend of yours anyway have you thought about suggesting outings and activities that are just for the 2 of you rather than with a group of friends. Spending more time alone with him should help you to gauge how he feels. He could be feeling exactly the same as you are and equally scared to say anything. Be patient. If you are meant to be together it will happen in the end but don't expect him to pick up on hints. In my experience men are remarkable dim in that department.\n\nGood luck.
185570
Usually you can tell by the way a guy treats you. If you talks to you alot and flirts with you, and you do alot together then I am sure he likes you. Just ask him to get together and hang out and do something you both like to do.Then if he agrees it can be a safe bet that he likes you.
118832
Your bf should ask then
214963
First go to the friend that you like and tell him how you feel without coming off as needy.   He may just appear to be nicer to your friend because, simply that, she's your friend.   He may feel he's being nice to you by treating your friend well.   You could see if he prefers to be with just her by bowing out the next time something is planned with the three of you.   Then, if he seems to enjoy that and doesn't put up a fuss, maybe you should start thinking that maybe there isn't too much between you two other than just friendship.    Much more goes into this such as the age of the parties and what you do when you're together, but basically I would just be open and honest and not make this a criticism.   Just a simple question such as, "Gosh, it looks like you and so-and-so are really hitting it off and I sure hope I am not becoming an undesireable third wheel here."
387068
yes i think somthin is going on...he think probably both of you guys are attractive..but you should ask both of them if you feel something is going on
219567
Why don't you make it easy on yourself instead of spending hours trying to figure it out.  Just ask him, if he does great, if he doesn't well then move on love there are plenty more where he came from.\n\nalso read on it may help\n\nHow to know when a guy likes you \n\nHere's how to know if some one likes you: 1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you. 2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot. 3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd. 4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends. 5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently. 6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond. 7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you. 8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique. \n\nThe easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense. \n\nOne of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes. \n\nHe seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive. \n\nBoys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you. \n\nYou will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt. \n\nI'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact \n\nI'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem. \n\nI'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you. \n\nHere are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he fee
608943
there are many different ways.  But I think that you shold ask one of ur frinds if he/she thinks that she likes you after they see how they act around you.  most of the time you can't tell yourself because ur in the picture.  Ask someone who sees how the both of you enteract with one another they will see it better than u can.
1053424
Ask how he feels about you. If he is a friend you will get a honest answer. If he doesn't plan on pursuing a relationship as bf/gf then you should start looking elsewhere.
391515
If it is complicated for you to tell your bf how you feel then you should keep things the way they are and not risk loosing a friendship..Time will only tell if she has these same feelings for you or not..