why do people use people to get what they want and leave them?
104804
Some people are of low character, and don't know how to get what they want without using people.  Some use people to fill a vacuum in their own life.  Without feeling much to give, they take, take, take.
682197
Not all people are like this. However, this goes down to basic instinct, protecting one's self at all costs. A person will sometimes seem to be your friend or such when they need something, but when that need is fufilled, the person moves on.\nMuch like a parasitic worm, the parasite feeds off of the host until the host is no longer of any use, and thent he parasite moves on. In life, you want to distance yourself from parasites. Symbiotic relationships are the best. Give and take, though no relationship lasts forever, and people are very malleable. Sometimes they will stand by your side, other times they will be gone when you need them, or they may be the ones who are putting you in harm's way.\nDon't dispair. Not all people are like this. Just find the right people.
505241
Natural human greed. You want what you want and when you cant get it you feel jealous to those who can get it easier than you can. Very simple. You're greedy like everyone else.
926489
Some people bring joy to us almost on a daily basis. Some people suck the energy out of you... The reason its hard to let go is that you know it will never be the same again. We get comfortable with people we can trust and count on.... It goes with my theory of people come into your life for a reason and always at a time of need....But the only thing that stays the same is change...
679092
They stay at whichever place gives them the best deal, or whichever one is closest to their destination.  Perhaps some people have had bad experiences with one or the other and just prefer the otherone as a result.
453070
Generally people can’t get satisfied with what they got...\nSo they feel what has gone was better than the present
585797
they like to not have something they want. they go crazy!!! but dont take it too far!
661136
Because stupid people go ahead and give to them. Prey on the weak. That's what it's all about.
431955
because everyone likes to feel desire the one there with. so if they start feeling that the person they are with doesn't desire them no more they will go out and find someone that will desire them they way they like. which breaks up couples
1085447
because they think that they're more valuable.....\nthey think that they can do anything that they want...... you have to show um once in a while (but not a mean wayyy)
427029
people want what they cant have...
895732
well some use power for good and they make the most out of it to help . others let power go to their head and become evil and do evil things and forget about decency. or they just had an evil heart before they had power . or a good heart.
290632
I know a person exactly as you describe and he/she drives me nuts....\nYou can't force people to turn to you no matter what you do...Leave them be and when they need you..they will come...maybe??
85649
People are afraid to lose things that they feel they need. The feeling of ownership comes with a dependancy on a person to define you as who you are. I believe that if you were truely secure with yourself you would not need someone else to do that. In so resulting in a comfort with a lovers' individuality.
1127178
I feel they take advantage of situations. And I honestly don't like...it... People like that tend to push until they cannot push anymore...
12034
Coz.. we dont like to lose anything.. we want it all.. and thats because humans are greedy. They want everything. They are never satisfied with one single thing...
543969
1. because nowadays the people r not satisfied with  whatever they get or they have. they r becoming really greedy day by day and when they r not able to get what they wanted, they become sad.\n\n2. because of the "bad things" happening around , like corruption, cheating, lies, hipocracy, double-think & double-speak.( they r not able to tolerate all that)