Do you think its ok to get back with a guy who has hit you before?
104035
No way, it isn't worth the risk.  Once a guy hits you he has crossed a line.  If you take him back you will just be telling him that it was ok for him to do that because you will eventually forgive him.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
473074
It's understandable you don't want to be hurt again. Nobody ever wants to be hurt. But you have to let someone new into your life. It will take a mental effort, but you have to do it! It's the only good way to move on. Figure out what you did wrong, g=to get hurt, and avoid doing it with the new guy that you find. Or maybe I should say, who finds you.
1152470
I'm not one of those people that just play them back. So I would go have a good time, but just remember what goes around comes back around. God said you shall forgive no matter how bad they treated you still forgive them and he will handle it.
198520
Unless you want to get hurt again. You already know what he did and he knows it too. So why go through it again? Are you sure he won't remember what he did and not do it again, and again? If you go back to him, you are the only one to blame.
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
1135703
That might not have been a good idea. Are you sure you want to meet him again? You don't seem to like him very much...
286975
It doesn't sound like you want him so it would be WRONG to go back to him.\n\nAlso it didn't work out the first time, so it probably wont work this time.
1125264
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
283105
wow i'm sort of in that situation now. not quite as far tho. well, didn't you two split for a reason? i think you should consider those reasons again and see how it might be different if you were to get back together again. another thing, he "bumped" into you. he didn't call you. could it be that he's trying to find an exit to his current unhappy relationship and he knows it's easy to get back with someone familiar? i would think hard before even allowing him back into your love life. to be on the safe side, it never hurts just to be friends. and don't ever seem too available. if he really wants you back, make him work for it! good luck.
1157526
Girl i know you must be hurting our first time is something speacial but sometimes we dont give it up to someone specieal.  Look just remember only you know what you should do look deep inside your heart for the answer see all of us will tell you to get on with your life and leave that loser but honestly we could be wrong just think about the past and was there more pleasure or more pain more smiles or more tears....  I'd say if he caused more hurt feelings then good then he does not deserve you also if he is involved in drugs or a gang then really you probley dont want someone who lives his life being a follower.
619098
oh you're not in an abusive relationship at all are you? he was you wrapped around his lil finger and you don't even realize it. wanna know where this is gonna go if you don't grow a back bone and leave him? you'll be dead in a ditch somewhere and it'll be his fault. if he loved you back he'd trust you enough to let you do your own s.hit without havin to make you call ever 5 f.uckin mins. you need to stop and pay attention to what your gut is tellin you bout this guy. i wouldn't be surprised if it's tellin you to leave and not look back
110448
you should go for it. Otherwise you may always regret not doing it. Sure, you may have changed, but if you explain to him it was an impulse that you had to follow or live with that regret, you'd be happy no matter what the outcome, because you had achieved your goal in at least seeing him again.
102169
Why would you want to?  You're obviously not a priority for him, so don't give him the ego-boost that would come from you crawling back to him.  Living well is the best revenge; go find yourself a better man who will put you first and foremost in his life.  He's moved on - it's time for you to do the same.
565996
That's the way love goes. But he is a man and a man is going to do man things. Although it was disrespectful as fuck. And u should have beat his ass. Not the girl. She probably didn't even know he had a baby mama or girl. Id say he learned his lesson. But wait for him to come back. Maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore. And if u ask for him back maybe u'll get your feelings hurt. I wouldn't try. I would start lookin for a new man. u'll get over him. occupy your time to keep your mind off of him.
204387
The abuse usually only gets worse. Why would you want to put yourself through that again. Hon, your in love with love and what might or could have been. Please think about it before getting back into that again....Nicky
273077
question for you why would you want to take the other guy back the other guy has showed his true colors he will leave you again good luck