Why we are so short temper???
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Expectations can be high. When they aren't met, we sometimes are less than tolerant. It is a matter of putting ourselves in the place of others in order to understand all circumstances. Then we can be more tolerant and less likely to lose our tempers. Awareness and understanding are key. Understand that we aren't all perfect..........we are fallable.
516336
Sounds to me like you need to talk it out with a therapist.  You have to figure out what it is that is causing your ATTITUDE, and how you can learn to have more PATIENCE.  I don't think you are as IN TUNE with yourself as you think, but with the help of a listening ear to work through whatever is eating at you under the surface...you hopefully will be able to figure out.  GL
360332
Because we are all capable of being selfish, insecure, and defensive.  We are also capable of better, but not consistently enough to achieve world peace.
349578
Lack of patience.\nI let out my temper without it staying in me more than 1 second.\n\nI missed out a lot of opportunities, I hurt a lot of people, I said a lot of things that I regretted, I loose a lot of stuffs, I wished I could change the past.
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Because they are conscious of it and probably feel very insecure because of their height. women tend to use their shortness to their advantage playing on the "short but cute" / "all good things come is small packages" angle! I work with a girl who is very short and she's always bragging about having to buy tiny clothes and tiny shoes always drawing attention to the fact that she is short. I think this is because she is insecure so tries desperately to turn it into a positive by playing on the fact she can wear smaller sized clothes! short men however tend to attempt to cover up their shortness. For example, they are probably always the jokers in the group. I've also noticed a lot of short men trying to make themselves look bigger by getting buffed up in the gym! ever heard of little man syndrome? The theory that short men drive big cars and compensate in other ways. I know a couple of short men who ar elike that. its a shame though becaus theres nothing wrong with being short.
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Anger occurs when our level of expectation exceeds our abilities or our level of control.\n\nWe really are in charge of so very little.  We don't like to think about that.  We think that if we try hard enough, bad things won't happen.\n\nThe guy who cuts you off in traffic is a reminder that other people's actions interfere with that theory.  We can't control what others do.  \n\nUnchecked that can lead to rage.  And the unpredictable, uncontrollable "others" become the targets.\n\nSometimes the only choice we have - the only amount of control we have in a situation - is how we are going to deal with what happens.  We can't control whether it happens or not, but we choose how we deal with it.\n\nTo the degree that we take responsibility for that, we are less easily angered.
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because we're little people, afraid the world will crack through our shell of self-rightousness and all-knowingness and discover the weak, frail creatures we really are.\n\n+ chicks digg people who give lots of smart-ass answers on yahoo answers ;)
199249
You are very right. a lot of us do waste or precious time. Some people even waste precious energy by being rude and mean.\n\nTwo thumbs and four paws up to you!!! :D
95205
People naturally have very powerful anger instincts. The patience attribute is against one's nature, a social correctness that fights against the need to satisfy one's self by moving on.
783849
well its sometimes difficult to keep our mouth shut when we have certain angers. We just pick on who we think is an easy target while the target should be the one who caused that anger. So no its not right. There's a lot of "social cowardness" going on and the easyest people are usually the victims. Granted its not always easy to address why we do it, but usually a feeling of not having something or a situation under control is the source.
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if you have bitter experiences with most people u meet,the problem is with ur own character and behaviour\nyou may be teasing someone.......not giving respect.....\ndo have patience to hear others words and after thier turn only answer them and answer in a pleasing way too\nFIRST CHECK IF YOU ARE GIVING OTHERS WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM THEM!!!!
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We all at times would like to get revenge so we feel better. The best thing to do is really wait and don't act while your angry , sit it out and let it go for awhile and see if that feeling doesn't just fade away..
756499
An angry temper is often associated with depressive symptoms. There is a supplement called; "5 HTP",... which you may find helpful for this. You can find it in most any vitamin/supplement store. You will need to give a week or so of daily intake to determine if it is helping or not.
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Because we are GRRRRRRRRRR
639970
well...i'm very picky...seriously...but I have a really soft heart..i feel bad for everyone and everything..i'm not kidding! I like to laugh and I like to make people laugh..my biggest flaw is my temper...i know not to get angry infront of certain people, but with my brother...i get really weird!
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B/C a lot of the time, if we actually verbalized what we really feel, we could probably end up either hurting people or hurting ourselves b/c they would kick our a$$
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Rubbermonkey - we are not living in the Stone Age any more. There are many civil and human ways of sorting out differences or getting your point forward. Develop good communication skills instead of fostering unhealthy and destructive ideas for expressing your disapproval or anger. It even works better coz violence and harshness only results in a similar rebound... and will work against your initial intention. With love and peace for you and your friends - God Bless - :)