How can u get rid of some1 who likes u so bad and their nonattractive,& slow but u dont want 2 hurt feelins??
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Well Lil' Shay,\n\nThat's a sticky one.  \n\nYou can't control how someone feels.  But you can tell them how you feel about their actions and behavior towards you.  \n\nBe firm and direct without being hurtful or disrespectful.   \n\nMinimize contact and avoid doing anything that could lead them on or encourage them.   \n\nIf all else fails, consider a restraining order. \n\nOh and one other thing, dont' think too highly of yourself either.  \n\nUnless their are seriously harassing you, its okay to be flattered by the admiration. It just means someone thinks you're pretty special.
417191
what u do is move on and dont waste time persuing someone who doesnt have any interest in you
239294
If you aren't interested, thank them and say you just aren't interested.  You don't have to bring up that they are ugly, be polite.  If they have a nice personality, give them a chance.  Too many people are stuck on superficial traits that will fade with age.  You will never know unless you give them a chance.
308993
You're no longer close?  Then just leave them in the past, darlin.  You're trying to live better and clean up your act, DO NOT be around them, I can say they will try their damndest to drag you back down to their level.  Completely write them off, take them off your cell phone, email, ims, MySpace, whatever and however you talk to them.  Leave them and that life in the past and you will feel a 1,000 times better.
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Tell them staright that your are friends. and do not want to take the next stepor you can tel them a lie that you are intrested in some1 else. tellthem as a friend do not try telling them straight they will then let the matter rest and do not try to get u to like them.\ntake cdare !
156891
Ignore them...I know its hard since you are in love...but just see the difference...dont pay him/her much attention for awhile and get out of your way to make him/her feel left out and ignored and just watch them crawl back to ya...Have fun!!!!
713297
my advice is be your self and if he doesnt notice you or shows no interest his not worth it you want someone to like you out of teir own free will not make them want you do  not flirt it gets you no where
224516
Sweet Dear\nSometimes they do not even know how you are feeling unless you learn to express yourself and let them know about your likes and dislikes---- dont hurt them but at the same time do not let them hurt you too---right??
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if you dont like him like that there isnt much u can do,\nive been in that situation and all you can do is wait for them to find someone else they like alot.\nits unfair to expect them to just deal with it
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You can either wait until they are ready or you can move on to someone who is ready. You might want to try and show them that you have no intentions of hurting them and that you are not like the others.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
570195
get over it, find someone who you know likes you.
1114758
by not letting him no how you feel it defeats your purpose. just be who you are, be friendly and make eye contact all the time. don't be scared even if he doesn't like you you've lost nor gained anything. invite him along with a group that way its not so personal and you can make out you were just being friendly and nothing more. good luck
925337
I'd tell the obnoxious one to seriously lay off. If he doesn't lay off and still gets too close, you can always tell a higher authority exactly what he's doing to you. They'll be able to scold him, and they may be able to do something a bit worse than a simple scolding, also.\n \nAnd to be attractive to anyone, you just have to be yourself. I believe "trying" to be attractive doesn't work out, because eventually you try to be someone who you're not. \n\nI advise you try to confront this shy guy and tell him how you feel in some way. If he really is shy, he won't make the first move if he likes you. Have courage, it'll be worth it.
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gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
966000
Be flattered that someone finds you attractive but explain to them that you aren't interested in them that way.  It's not a big deal.  If you really are a friend to that person, then you should be able to be honest with them.
367557
dude an awfull story.well u can just do one think in that case that go to her and tell her that what she wants from u. r u not handsome .just tell her about ur feelings to her and then also she ignorrs u then just ignore her for a weak or a month.then sea the resalts