Shy Boyfriend what do i do???
99719
first off im proud to hear a youngin like your self wants to wait u keep that up :) 2nd off tell him how you feel. tell him he doesnt have to be shy around you. you want him to be himself. give him time, maybe yall should hang round more often and get to know one another. i was shy then and still am, but not as bad. but maybe if you tell him a little more bout yourself than he already knows and maybe u ask him ?s u wanna know maybe he'll open up. just takes time
567701
Okay, okay, okay...\n\nHere's the thing. You said that he is shy. Why does that matter? If you get that feeling that he kind of likes you already then you just need to take the bull by the horns. Take him to a quiet place if you can and come out with it. Just tell him that you really like him. End with a kiss... and that's that. If he's really shy then he'll appreciate your being forward all the more.\n\nTake it from one who was once 'this really shy guy': he will be thankful for your honesty. Actually, when I was like that I had this girl stride up to me and start eating my face off. We were 'really good pals' after that, know what I mean?
193474
You don't sugar. You ask him. For the same reason that truly shy people will never get up in front of a crowd and give a spontaneous speach. Some times all it takes is for you to start the ball rolling. Say maybe you go up to him and say "Hey, I thought about going to see a movie tonight, would you like to go?" anything that will get him to respond to a YES or NO question. Don't give him too many options for answers, this will only cause him more stress and he may just clam up and not be able to exspress what he truly would like to say to you. If yo don't succeed at first, try again later, it may take him a while to warm up to you and accept the fact that you find him appealing. Good luck, and keep trying.
986722
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
1073644
Actually, you like his personality. If you like how he waits and where you stand in control issues.. isn't that part of one's personality. Just wondering. Since he is really shy, you're probably the one whose going to break him of his silence. Make him talk. If it doesn't work find other ways of communication. (Phone, letters, etc) Good Luck!!
148227
Maybe ask him to help you study or something. Maybe the 2 of you could go to the library. Then pass him a note with your feelings on them if you are too shy to actually come right out and say it.
349084
dont force him just talk to him alittle more and soon you will over come your shyness!!!!you are probaly a wonderful girl,so if he dosent feel the same way u will find someone new!!!
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
225298
If you can , just pay attention to his actions.  Make eye contact with him, and smile a lot.  If he likes you , he will do the same thing. \nThen, talk to him if he is too shy. \n\nAs a pernet myself, I don't recommend more than just talking!!  Have fun, and good luck!
458296
try a love note and flowers.  sorry; i don't know a cure for shyness.  I used to be, but it's been fading recently.  Just try diving in and doing it.  If you start hesitating, just do it without thinking (worked about 50% of the time for me)
73746
Hi there,\n\nHere are a couple of websites that give you some tips on how to overcome shyness: \n\nhttp://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/shyness/index.asp\nhttp://www.shakeyourshyness.com/
751414
Wow,okay first I'm going to start off saying this:Since he's the shy type dont make any conversation to personal or something you know  he can get embarrass or shy about,when you talk to him,compliment anything,his eyes,face,clothes,smile,etc. Anything you find attractive on him,you can be  extra nice,shy boys LOVE nice girls! Trust me,this will work! GoodLuck,hope this helps!!!! :)
302576
It can be a difficult situation especially if your shy like me. thankfully im dating another shy person who is understanding. I would highly reccommend a book called 'how to talk to anyone' its really good and i found it relly helpfull.\n\ni hope this helps, \nKindest regards,\n\nPaul...
273547
I've had the same problem of being shy for the longest time. I have the problem being shy too only not with my boyfriend, but with a guy I like. So I talked to him about it and you know what he said? "Shyness never got anyone anywhere." \n\nMy advice to you is the same advice I took and that advice I gave myself believe it or not. Do more things with him, chances are that you may not know as much about him as you might think. \nTherefore you're nervous because you really like him and you want him to like you back. You might be shy because you're afraid he doesn't really like you or will find something about you he doesn't like, then dump you. This was my fear for the longest time.\n\nIf he's really your boyfriend, you shouldn't be worried or shy. With me I went out with this guy I liked and did things with him as a friend, talked to him on the phone; he liked that. I got to know him better and now I'm not nearly as shy around him as I use to be. \n\nWe're closer as a result and it opened up the lines of communication. I trust him more, we talk about all sorts of things, and I feel like I could talk to him about almost anything! \n\nIf it's really just a shyness thing then that's my advice. However it sounds like you've grown apart from him. In which case there is no faking how you really feel. You need to think about moving on. Don't waste your or his time going out with a guy you don't really like. \n\nBreak up with him and move on.\n\nGood luck.
1012033
Look at it this way... you are going to lose him if you DON'T say anything!!\n\nThe only way to find out if he feels the same way is to tell him!   You might get a pleasant surprise!  He might be having the same shyness problem that you are having!\n\nTell him!!    Good luck!!
363227
You don't seem comfortable with your bf. If you are still shy with him, ask yourself why? Why can't you open up with him? Better know yourself before you proceed. \nCommunication will be a good way to let him know how you feel, if this is just your nature even with intimate partner. If he can understand your apprehension, he make try to change his conversation with you.\nBest for you two will be to be comfortable with each other, where there is no barrier too what you both can do. Remove any possible misunderstanding in your relation and talk.
16535
1st, you hafta be open with him.  if you want to move a little faster, mention it to him.  hes not a mind reader.  2nd, he might actually respect you, like most guys dont, and doesnt wanna ruin a good thing.  be patient and help him along.  3rd, he might be shy of public affection.\n\nthe only way to figure out anything is to talk to him.  relationships fizzle without communication.  \n\n7