why do i feel like i have to answer and solve everyone's problems?
109097
Because you have all of yours figured out and now you're bored.  If you don't, GET CRACKING!
231778
hey! your not alone. i feel the same way. the harder i try to make things better in every aspect of my life and believe me i am a good person who tries doing the right thing but twice as many bad things come back on me. i believe in curses and one has been put on me.
1027586
maybe because you feel your prayers are not answered,\n\nmaybe you feel like your will alone will set your mind in motion.\n\nnow you are on the right track
642391
I know what you are talking about. It seems so obvious to you that people should know what you need, because you can articulate every detail, except asking for help or whatever. You are always the first one there if someone you know needs help.\nTry this. You know how good it makes you feel inside to know you have helped someone do or achieve something important to them, try telling yourself you want your friends and family to experience the same feelings you do. Start with something small, and see what happens. It does become easier.\n\nIt has a lot to do with self esteem. After a while you learn people really do want to help and please you, if they truly know what it is you want.
308749
Yes, I am a perfectionist and although I have two children and a husband and a lot of people say that they envy me, I do still feel inadequate at times. It is because perfectionists try so hard to make everything perfect that they never relax. And when we try to relax the only thing that we can think about is all the stuff that we have to do.  It really is not a good way to be, but the problem is it is very hard to change.  I have been this way my whole life.
115346
When you feel like having one and everyone else is game.
1155589
most of my friends come to me for help, talkin things out and such, and when they leave they all so fine and happy. u see the funny thing is that I really feel the exact opposite whenever the conversation ends, sollowin it up and leave knowin that no one on this planet would ever know the way i feel, b&#92;c even if i did talk, im sure id make it sound very different frm the way i really feel. how irionic! :)
80184
If you had to ask the question. Then I think you already see or feel there is no solution to your problem. Go ahead do it--- go talk with someone. Can't hurt, everyone needs someone to listen sometime. Good luck and GOD BLESS.
391299
I feel EXACTLY the same way. Nobody is able to help but you.\nI am also killing time here. My books are waiting aside.
439025
It sounds like you lost yourself, and all your stress is stem from the responses from people around you, do something for yourself and do it in a way that you love it with a purpose and forget about how others would think.
220430
It pleases me to no end that you feel better after sharing your problems....and thank you for ignoring the ones who have nothing better to do than be cruel....good for you that you are so positive! WE ALL HAVE OUR SHARE OF PROBLEMS--but at least you and I find solutions!!! Thank you for being so kind!!!
491185
There are so many times when I worry and feel as if I can't solve the problems in my life on my own. These are often money problems, or trouble in relationships. I have learned that if I pray and give all of my problems to God, He will show me what to do. I am continuously amazed at how God works in my life even when I am most undeserving.
185658
that's an interesting question and it is one that i struggled with for a long time in my teen years.\n\nthe answer that i came up with for myself (you can see if it applys to you as well) was that i felt very disconnected to the people that i was with. i felt as though i did not really know them and they certainly did not know me. i felt like they didn't understand me, nor did they want to and therefore i was alone even though i was surrounded by people.
553515
Sounds like you are young and you think everyone is out there to get you.  It is not true, you are just paying more attention to the negatives than the positives.  To solve your problem, ask those why they always respond in a negative way.  They may not notice that they are doing it until you bring it to their attention.  Keep your head up, not everyone is ot there to make your life a living hell.
427594
Why are you making such generalizations?  That sure doesn't fit everyone on here from what I have seen.  Maybe you are trying to project feelings about yourself onto others?  I think you should spend some time reflecting on why you feel superior to everyone.  It may be normal to feel superior to some, but not to everyone.
696365
I do feel like that at times even at the present moment i am really having a very hard time and i often think why is it as if my life is crashing and there's none who understands what u feel inside and they feel u're just great.
75204
I guess the real question is, "Who am I?" If you have confidence in yourself, it doesn't matter what other people think about you. If you are happy being you, then you've got it made. But if you feel like your life is worthless, find out what you think will make you feel useful and then go and do it. For example, I feel useful when I help others in their lives from my personal experiences. If you feel no one understands you, it's either because you don't understand where other people are coming from or sometimes that's a form of self-pity... and it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means that you don't have confidence in yourself. Be proud and happy to be the person you are, because there is someone out there who will understand you. I promise. I have no idea if that helps... but hopefully it helps a little...