If a man called a woman and asked if he left something there, is it because he is trying to have s#x with her?
110795
In my experience, the man ususally made his attempts for sex while on the date or when ending the date.  No ever called back under the pretense of leaving something as a way of trying the have sex.
589886
A lady was interested in a young man  would leave her hanky or a rag on a bush outside of his home, if he recognized it he would know she was interested in him.  If he returned it to her then she knew he was not interested in her, but if he returned it to her father and ask if it belonged to his daughter, then it was permission for a courtship to begin.
1098676
I know that in past experience, its really tempting and persuading, if an ex calls you and asks you for a night of passion! ;) but... your relationship has ended, and it seems to me like she is trying to manipulate you in the process?\n\nShe is already with her partner, and so is not only abusing his trust and loosing respect for herself-but if you are the third spoke in her relationship (even if this is just "sex") then, surely this will make you no better than her?\n\nI split up with my ex over 9 months ago, and i have since been in a long term relationship with my current partner for the past 8 months. I was with my ex for 3 and half years, and all he did was cheat on me with various other women! We too had a great sex life-but, id much rather a realtionship that is based on trust and respect anyday (plus great sex is a bonus ;) ) My ex contacted me near enough every day for 6 months asking me for sex, but not once did i say yes, cos i love my partner and respect him. She doesnt have respect fro anyone??\n\nPerhaps, as your ex knows that you are single, that she is taking you for advantage! Its possible that she doesnt want you to be with anyone else-as she knows that you probabley wont be, if you are seeing her? She also  thinks that she can get away with two timing both of you (even with your consent!) what kind of person does this?\n\nI know its tempting but you have to ask her to stop calling you and asking for sex. Its low! And someone with such low morals, is obviousley someone to be wary off.... STI's spring to mind? You also have to ask yourself-are you the only one shes trying to cheat with?\n\nIn the end, what goes around comes around-my ex cheated on me with 5 other women, and ended up catching STI's!! So it serves him damn right lol!\n\nAnd why did your relationship end? Obviousley for a good reason! \n\nGood luck!! \n\nx
939215
not nessesarlly it just tells the guy what women do to get out of any comentment, all you did was inform him on what to look for when other women say the same thing then he may think back on this conversation and think to himself i must be wasting my time and cut his loses and move on...
808753
I don't see why she'd give him her phone number for getting a compliment on her shoes...... So, I'd say no.. this is a bad pick-up. I can't give advice on how to pick up someone because I'm a girl and I just don't do that kinda stuff. :P\n\nIf that was the case and I gave out numbers to everyone who complimented me, my number would be famous. LOL.
1072443
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.
889349
Tell him to prove it to you by any means necessary!  Tell him to give you her number so that you can call her and ask her yourself.  Tell him that it's his JOB to make you feel secure about the situation since he's the one who fucked up in the first place.  If he's really trying - then you should be ok.  If you have any doubt in your mind - you're probably right.
92291
That sounds very odd. Worst thing you can do is confront him over her (in my opinion), that would probably reinforce what she may have been saying to him. I would recommend trying to call him and talk to him about any unresolved issues he may have. If it becomes obvious that you two don't have any unresolved issues, he may see that she is manipulating the relationship. If he does bring up an issue, then you have an opportunity to deal with it with him. Good luck, I really do hope you are able to talk to him and find out what is going on.
626344
"Whatever" can have a couple of meanings, depending on the context.  If she says it nonchalantly at the suggestion of calling her or going on a date she could just be trying to play coy and is hiding her interest.  Be assertive and let her know that you want to contact her again and then follow through.  If she's not interested she'll let you know by not answering.  American women are great at that.
749415
Yeah, sounds a bit fishy. Being a guy I would say he is hiding something, maybe he has another bird on the go. look most guys, trust me, if not all guys want one thing and not necessarily from one place. do some investigating, surprise him and see if you can find anything. sorry if it seems harsh but I know the signs\nI tell you what, if you have any suspicions like he's said something that sounds odd let me know and I'll interpret it based on personal experience.
416084
Sounds like the type of guy who is never happy with just one woman. I would confront him and ask him what was going on with all the calls..K Hard to trust a liar..K
953380
his friends were probably just messing around.  i know my friends sometimes call my house and say weird stuff but if you are unsure its best to just go and ask him instead of letting it getr in the way of a relationship.
96181
It usually means that he doesn't what to give you his phone number for security reasons.\n\nIt can also mean that part of that security is keeping his wife from picking up the phone and hearing your voice. That would be a major security breech in my book.\n\nMy gut instinct tells me that you should fish from another pond. Usually I tell people to "work it out". This doesn't sound right for some reason. Sounds like lies. I would move on if I were you.
42086
I don't think you're over reacting at all. He should have no reason to call another woman. Even if it was once, you don't know that for sure and once is too much anyway.
872707
Well, yes....sounds like a booty call to me...check his cell phone for strange numbers....and sneak up on him after you tell him you have to go spend the night with your grandma or something...
692733
No, not necessarily. It can be part of normal conversation, especially if the question is coming from a woman because women tend to talk like that. The clincher is, however, the manner in which she asks it. Has she been flirting with you already? When she asks it does she seem like she wants to know because she may be interested herself? does she lean in when she talks to you? all of the above could be signs she is interested in you and that is why she wants to know -- for herself. But if a woman just asks you it in an ordinary way between other regular conversation, I'm sorry but it means nothing and she is just trying to fill in conversation. Good luck.
92454
May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.