I'm going to have my baby after three months and he is my first baby any one tell me what i have to do?
110422
Love him. Feed him. Burp him. Change his diaper. Read to him. Raise him to be a good person.
13104
#1.  Keep the baby.\n#2. Talk to your parents.\n#3. Stay in school.\n\nKeep in mind that if the father isn't around, that doesn't mean that the baby won't grow up properly.  If he doesn't stay, then just rely on your parents or other support groups to help you out.\n\nFocus on your baby, include your education, include your family life, and go from there :)\n\nI wish you would have waited till you were much older, but as you didn't, your responsibility is now to the baby :)
245864
YES IT IS OK YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM, AND YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A BABY FROM SOMEONE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO STAY WITH HIM. JUST MAKE SURE THAT THE PERSON WHOM DECIDE TO DATE IS LOVING AND CARING TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD.
991893
You already know what you need to do, but since you asked, I'll tell you. You need to take your 5 year old chiild, pack your things, and move on with your lives.  Do it before the baby comes, because it deserves stability in it's life, not chaos and confusion. Good Luck!!
511179
i am like that. and i have 3 children now. the first was born 3 years into our marriage.it's not really a big problem.also, after your first pregnancy, the uterus normally goes into the right position.\nsome practical advice:\n\n1. use a pillow when you make love and he's on top (missionary pos.)\n\n2. keep him inside long after ejaculation.\n\n3. delay getting up after you make love.\n\nhelpmeets\nhttp://mwfrc.blogspot.com\n\nwhy not vote in our poll :)\nhttp://mwfrc.blogspot.com/2006/05/people-survey-poll.html
1159799
Wait until you become an adult!  Enjoy those long extended three months while you can.
453679
there is no way anybody here can answer that for you, the fact that you feel the need to ask is not a good sign though.  make sure you can take care of yourself and your baby on your own in case it doesn't though, its the best way to protect yourself against the possibility that it won't and you are now responsible for another life.  why are you having a child with someone you have so many doubts about?
434507
You both can go visit friends and family, look for infant furniture and clothing.  Look up events that are going on in your community and you can go and see what is going on.  There are plenty of things to do.  \nAlso, after your baby is born, you will not be "clubbing" as you put it.  Your child will become first and foremost.  You will have to find other things to do after the baby is born.  You are going to be a parent now.  I'm not saying "NEVER", but you will have to decrease the time you both spend outside the home.  Your new family will have to find "family outings".  It will be quite a bit of fun.  Especially when he/she reaches an age when you can go to the park, put a bicycle seat on your bike and go out for bike rides when he/she gets older.  It goes by very fast!!  Enjoy when you have your child at home.  Both of mine are out of the house and it feels so empty.  But you can also go "clubbing" with your husband without the worry of your child all the time.
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
1147578
talk to him on the phone first, make sure he is not some weirdo.  If you decide to meet him, make sure it is at a public place and bring a friend with you.  Good luck.  I met my husband online and we have been together for 3 years and have a 18 month old daughter.  \nJust be cautious!
517908
He will not change.  He will not save you.  He will keep treating you like dirt.  You have a baby to worry about.  You can't depend on him.  Obviously.  He can get mad as much as he wants.  You need to start thinking about how to take responsibility for the baby.  Stop worrying about him.
203470
Hunnie things happen in life for a reason. It is up to you how you will deal with these things and move forward in your life. No one can tell you if you should keep your baby or not. That is you and the fathers decision. Just think of all that comes with the situation good and bad. Listen to your heart and make the best decision for you. If you would like to talk more you can IM me or email me. Take care and good luck sweetie
880094
I think that you should leave him and look for somebody who will love you in return  before you leave him tell him that he can see the baby anytime he wants.  Tell him you deserve to be loved and that you need somebody that you can trust not to hide anything if he really cares about you and the baby he'll try to work out things between the two of you.  If not then you might as well start looking for somebody else.
804172
hmmm... three months is a little early to be "in love".  i would wait and make sure what your feeling is really love and not infatuation.
354585
He is probably uncomfortable with u being 9 months pregnant.  Things will change.  Some men fear that they might hurt the baby.  Some men just feel that it is wrong to have sex with u when u are pregnant.  Just talk to him and ask him what the problem is.  Communication is the key without it u won't last.  So don't go assuming to many things and upset yourself for nothing just ask him o.k.
397225
you are a practicing doctor. You should know the answer yourself...\nGet your baby born first. Then, think of exercise.\nyour question doesnt relate to your explaination. Idont know which to answer. Does your pregnancy has something to do with "how long what kaind of sudies you have to do"?
342483
depends on how long you want to keep him around.  If less than 3 weeks sleep w/ him tonight.  If longer than that, set him up in the spare.