how many of you guys take girls back after they break up with you?...?
101584
some do some dont some are idiots and some refuse to on priciple
388626
Asking that question myself. In my opinion it is as simple as because they can. Now that all of my male friends know that I am broke up with my boyfriend for good, they are really coming on to me. I am strong though and I know it would only make me feel worse. I am not over my boyfriend and I also don't want to bring any left over residue from that relationship into a new one. He cheated on me. I've decided to be strong and resist the temptation. I am giving myself a year to heal and grow. I need to to focus in on what it really is I want out of life and what kind of man I really want and need.
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
460029
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
26448
Sure.  The girl I am with now broke up with me two years ago.  We are back together and getting married in October.
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
222185
Yeah, of course. When you have a relationship with them and have had a lot of you know what. Then break up and she doesnt have anyone at the moment. And she needs it really bad being ra.ndy like a mad mare, even if we were still together i was like doing it myself sometimes just to see how she reacts and she was going all crazy, asking about me to even buy her a di.ldo if i dont have time :) and thats about it. They can be just as crazy as we men are, hahaha. They also need to fart and go to toilet and burp and eat. Just the same thing. Nasty, nasty hahaha.
1026201
I don't know. But why would you take him back? It's only because it's recent. It's called a break-up because it's broken.
192004
That is usually about how long it takes for their rebound relationship to last.  They are just going back to what they had before to see if they still have a shot with you instead of moving forward with their lives.  They are hoping to find out that you are having problems and need them back too.
31588
i Think it all depends on how much you love the girl. I know if the girl i'm dating broke up with me i know i'd cry and i probably wouldn't get over it for months, maybe years.
225049
A lot of men who cheat believe you will take them back because there are a lot of women who do. They use a womans lack of self esteem against her and it doesn't take much after that.   One of the first thoughts is to think she is responsible for his cheating which only makes her try that much harder to please him...and at the same time making herself vulnerable.
821901
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
819111
It depends on the circumstances for their breakup, and how he is thinking of her. I wouldn't mind if he was thinking in terms of getting over their relationship to find closure. I would mind If he is still thinking of her in terms of getting her back.
961377
Why would you want to get back together? She accused you of cheating...If its not true stand up for yourself and begone of the wench. Don't be used. That will only lead to women thinking they can get away with it and then they will continue to totally ruin perfectly good guys. Then when those guys finally find a wonderful chick who doesn't want to sqrew them over they won't be able to do all of this stuff you are talking about that she deserves and that will in turn make her find some schmuck on the side she can use to get what she wants. Its a perpetuation of everything thats wrong with relationships and it could totally be avoided if people just said, "I got stuff going on and I can't let you walk all over me right now. Call back when you have some modicum of respect for other people and them maybe we can talk."
252427
sigh . . . you're better off with-out her. It may not look that way but she doesn't want a guy she can whip (wimp) around which is what she'll have if you get back with her. You'll be happy for awhile until you notice that she's lost respect for you and just keeps you as a toy. Essentially you're just putting off the inevitable.\n\nThe best thing you can do is move on, start dating other girls. Nothing will make a girl come back faster than noticing her ex is doing better with-out her AND women are wanting him (it doesn't matter if the girls are unattractive they still see them as competition).\n\nHopefully though, you just move on. Read the article below, I think you might be able to relate to it.