How would you know that I'm the guy for you?  What would you want to know about me first?
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Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
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Get to know him.....and you will soon find out. Most guys wont tell you they like, they tell you like any guy would tell you. He told you, that you were hot, so that means you struck his interest.
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my guy would be tall, handson, light-skinned, muscular, would have a fuuny personality and very serious at some times and really i want a man 2 be himself
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You are an "Alpha Male", a leader type. You don't care who knows this either.\n\nA deceint guy,
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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Toughie. \n1. The guy will be extremely nice to you.\n2. He will tell you that you did something good, even when \nyou did it horribly.\n3. He might make fun of you.\n4. He will want to be your best friend.\n5. He might complement you on something normal like, your \nhair, even if you wear it that way everyday.\n6. He will stick up for you.\n7. He will start hanging out with your friends.\n8. He will flirt with you.\n9. He will call you for no good reason.\n10. He will make eye contact with a serious look on his face.
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Let me guess ... you're a guy, right. Precisely who are you addressing? The question was addressed in the second person.
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I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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you say HEY YOU I'm interested in you
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I would like to be you friend Tell us more about you
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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I would say he's interested in you.
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He will try to get to know you inside and out and make sure he keeps you happy. His effort would be clearly visible. Ask yourself honestly does this really know me? does he even listens to what you have to say? does he know the small things about you, what you like or dislike? or does he not care or is it usually just about him? is he loving, open, honest, and calm with you? I think these are some of the important things to notice because if they don't exist now then they will probably not exist in future also.
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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thats a really hard question but i think my answer would be ither way their not the one for you\nthe one for you will attract you in every way shape and form. not only that but he will treat you like your the only one on this world.
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Make us work for it. Play hard to get.  make us let you know that we want to be with you.  don't be easy.  If a guy thinks you are easy for him, he will think you are easy for everyone.