I believe in sticking with love to the fullest, but how do you know when enough is enough? How will one feel?
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only you can say when enough is enough because it really depends on the kind of guy you're with... you should give up on love if: \n- you feel like he's only using you to get what he wants\n- he seems distant & cold & won't talk about it no matter how hard you're reaching out.\n- he's draining you emotionally, financially, physically & socially.\n\nit must not be love if:\n- you can't talk about anything \n- you resolve conflicts by kissing, making out or having sex only\n- you argue about everything & can't compromise\n- you're cheating
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Is it?\nIt is ironic that i am answering you question. but why "too much" and not "so much"? the "too much" express your negative feelings. is it perhaps because you don't want to live HIM but you do?\nNow you found yourself, no matter what loving him. there are many not very nice issues in between, but there is this magical feeling still exist that gives special meaning between you and him.\nis it wrong to have a feeling that gives you nice time, reminds you of good moments in past.
727158
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
232710
How do you know if you'll be accepted ? Put yourself out there....find out first hand if the person is going to accept you...If you love someone you just do....you cant just make that feeling go away....you might have to let it go if truly they don't share your feelings but why live the rest of your life wondering WHAT IF? If the feeling isn't mutual you'll at least know....and then you can move on. Even if you hold on to those feelins forever. Sometimes we love what we cant have or what is bad for us...The mere fact that its bad or off limits sometimes makes us feel stronger towards the subject. So I say GO FOR IT you might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome;)
676107
Benn there many times. Just hang in there. People who are kind and deserving of you will see through the outer shell and love you for who you are. Just keep being you. Good luck! :]
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Not if you feel that its right for you. Theres never enough love!
481440
No, you cannot love someone too much.  But you can suffocate someone with love.  Part of love of recognizing when the other person needs space, when the other person needs a shoulder to cry on, when the other person is ready to talk or ready to be with you.  Sure there's all the comfort, inspiration and words of wisdom - but too much of that everyday will wear anyone out.  Love someone enough to know when enough is enough.
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There are many reason or way that Love can last. 1. You must care if you love. Loving for sex will not last for more time. You must love from true heart. Matter of last longing love is only for being care and bother. Give more time, preserve it nicely, care kindly, give some gift to demonstrate the love. Simply saying I love you is not enough or simply loving without giving is not enough. You can give without Love, but you can't love without giving. Giving is most important in the field of Love Battle. So try it and have a nice day for Love.
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You should maintain a balance in love and sacrifices. Only sacrifice yourself as much as you can for the one you love. if you sacrifice too much of yourself then you wont be you anymore. So, what is there left for you partner to love. May i suggest offerings instead of sacrifices. Offer her opporitunities that together the two of you can build a stronger realtionship, instead of sacrificing a part of yourself or something that you may regret later.
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WOW!!  I can so relate and can feel and understand the confusion and not knowing how to walk away from what you truly love, and believed was everything you had been looking for...  I wish I could tell you what the "right" thing to do is, but I would be a hypicite.  I know from the outside looking in that the self respecting and having love for yourself firstmost, would be to cut your losses and see him for the person he really is and not the person you're in love w/ that you THOUGHT he was.  To even consider waiting around for a man to deciede if he rather have you or an x is INSANE!!!  I know this in my mind, yet I have allowed myself to give up all my self respect and dignity for 6 months waiting for my so called "fiance" to decied between me & his x wife of 20 years.  In the past 6 months he has went back and forth 5xs! I also describe my guy exactly how you did yours, but I was wrong that isnt who he is.  I allowed to waiy and let him struggle w/ his indiscion tuntil I had no self respect left for myself & became willing to settle for him any way I could.  That's not what love and foorever is supposed to feel like.  Don't allow yourself to dig yourself into that hole because its a hard 1 to climb out of.  If he is'nt 1000% sure that u r the only one he will ever want, he is'nt worthy of you!  Don't sell yourself short.The loneliest place in the world is laying next to somone who doesnt love you any more, & 1 sided love is hell you deserve heavenly bliss- settle for nothing less.  My man walked out w/o a word and back 2 her 2 days ago, we finally spoke on the phone today and as much as I love who i thought he was I finally decieded i cant stand who he is.  Doesnt stop the hurt or build back my self esteeme i got alot of work to do to get over it...But this time I really believe he does want her mor than me , but why the hell would i ever let a man make that kind of descion i should have given him no more choice in at the 1rst slightest sign of comparing or weighing me against somone else.  Live and learn.  I*t is the hardest most painful 1 i have had to go thru, and hearring your ? i had 2 respond and share my understanding and expierence in hopes you won't allow yours to go on as long or as deep as I did.  Good luck, and ultimatly only u know what's right for u and only u have 2 live w/ the decision.  If i could leave u w/ 1 bit of wisdom it would be the man has to live up to your dreams, dont never settle for less than u have always wanted and deserve.  mr right is out there for us but we gotta get our mr wrongs out of the way!!!
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I'm a guy, but I think that if someone does not want to make a commitment to you, it may be time to move on.  I would ask why he feels that way...is it indecision, fear, immaturity, wanting to play the field or does he not love you enough?
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First you always know when you are in love with someone. How you know that you should spend the rest of your wid them is a another story. Easy ways to tell how you act and feel around the person when you two are together. I guess my advice is to just follow your heart if it is there you will know. If it is not real love then, you just have to move on and take it a step at time from there. Their is no sure way to if all of this is right for you. Just have to take a chance and see what happens.
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Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
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When I've actually met a perfect human being, I'll be able to answer this question.\nTill then, hang in there, and just be the best person you can be.
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I don't have the answer to that. Wish I did. I'm in the same boat. I think there will just come a day when I can't take it anymore. He loves me dearly, and I don't know if anyone could ever love me that much again. That's part of what's holding me back. But then I think - "don't I deserve to love someone that much too?" I'm only 33, and the thought of not totally loving the person that I'm going to be with for the rest of my life seems like something that I couldn't endure. I guess you have to ask yourself what staying in your marriage is going to cost you in the long run, and whatever that is, is it something that you can live with for the rest of your life or not??
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You will know when you're both in love. There will be a feeling like you can't get enough of that person.  Like you belong together. You will feel completed and happy with your life.
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When you are truly happy, when you can not wait to get home to the person who is waiting for you, When you know that the person will defend you at all coast, When people can just look at you and tell that you are in love. there are so many things I can go on forever, but you will know when the right person is by your side because you will feel full.