What do you do when you cant argue any longer, but cant get away because you live with the person!!!?
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Sounds like you're at the point where you agree to disagree.
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Ok..this question needs bullet points! LOL\n1. Move out immediately..no wonder you still want this guy..you're staying with HIS FAMILY!\n2. Don't beg for anyone who doesn't want you...it's not flattering, it's just desperate.\n3. If you kissed another, you didn't want him.\n4. I'll say it again-MOVE OUT. You may be surprised, that after you move out, you'll feel differently. Change in environment could do you good. And..stop chatting once a week. \nI wish you the best! :)
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You don't HAVE to, but you shouldn't stay around for it. If you don't want to leave, get him counceling or anger-management or something.
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Just pack your bags, leave a note and get out! Then there is no confrontation. Let him have a few days to think about it and calm down after you leave before speaking to him.
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BUT NOTHING! There's no sense and no reason to go through life arguing and unhappy! Gurl, life is too short! You need to figure out WHY you two argue so much! Figure that out then find out how to eliminate it. Second, no one ever accomplished anything arguing. As women we know men know how to push buttons (and visa verse), but we make a mistake, by giving them what they want a retaliation against them, they win! Next, time you two get into it, if it person walk off on the phone say you know what I'm going to talk to you later and hang up. If you still continue to argue after taking this advice. I don't know what to say except maybe it's best to split. Some ppl just can't be together. Communication is essential and discovering out the root cause of the problem and eliminating it is key. Good Luck to you both!
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you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
434168
You two need to stay apart.  You're like gasoline and fire.  It happens.  If you were 5 year olds, your parents would separate you.  Now you're adults, so separate yourselves and move on.
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You need to move out immediately, stop talking to him, get an attorney or go to your town's general assistance to find legal aid if you cannot afford one, if you don't take anything but your clothes, he is going to keep everything, let him. Get on with your life! Start fresh, I know this works and is the quickest way because my sister did this, then my brother, they're both very happy without the poison in their lives. GOOD LUCK!!
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He lives in a different place and he won't let you spend the night there???\n\nWell, that's your first, last and only clue that you need.\n\nTime to call a divorce lawyer and take him for all he has.
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both. he is emotionally abusive, and you don't need to put up with it.  find a friend or someone to stay with while you save money to get your own place. then if he changes, then keep your own place, and allow yourself to Maybe hang out at his place with him.  that way if he acts bad in any way you can leave and show him it's not a permitable activity
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SET HIM FREE....\nthe hardest, hardest thing to do..but itz tru honey....
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Just because you love someone doesn't mean you can live with them.\n\nif something happends that causes fustration, the first thing to do is try to talk it though.  be open to one another and tell him/her 'hey!  what you are doing is pissing me off.. and here's why..'   \n\nbut you can't change a person.  A person changes because THEY want to, not because they are forced.
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When there is no way of working it out anymore. If one or the other is abusive or controlling and neither seem to be happy then it is time to think about getting out...K
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there isnt a thing you can do ... i am sorry.... i have a iffy relationship with my mother too... (and i also work with her)....\ni have tryed since i was young to get away from her but somehow it never works out ... although my brothers seemed to have managed it!...lol oh well... just as i get older i try to ignore her "ways"....sometimes its hard ... but at least i do live away from her with my children and husband... but its hard and i think it probably always will be.....just breathe..... and work hard to get your own place!...lol... where you can interact on your terms!... good luck!!!!
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Tell him to STAY out the next time he leaves...  that way you can have a more stable life for yourself & your kids.
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One of you will have to move...there is no way to get over someone you still have to share a home with.
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Go to him when you two have not been fighting and when he is relaxed and tell him exactly what you have asked here on Yahoo answers. Don't try to make it sound like it's nothing so that you two will not end up fighting. Let him know you are not sure how much more of this you can take. Also be ready to tell him exactly what you need from him, or ways that he can make this relastionship work. And lastly, be ready to do exactly what you say you are going to do if he can't give you what you need... Leave Him! When he realizes that he has lost a good thing he will come running back ready to do whatever it takes to make you stay. Or you will find someone else who will respect you and love you the way you need to be treated. Pray about this little sister and good luck.