how to be the perfect house guest?
115569
the easy answer is to not put them up, or not to spend much on them, if you're growing to resent the situation. Or you could think of the situation in terms of a give-and-take: if you visit them, you get a free ride for a few days. Or do you not visit them? If you still feel like it's too one-sided, then lay down the rules before the visit. Tell your future guests that you've been getting lots of guests lately and it's getting expensive, and anything they could do to help would be better than a dinner or gift.
106090
I would suggest working on the key theme and placing some of your own thoughts on the papers.  If you are using 20 keys, make a list of 20 things that has helped your marriage be a success.  An example:\n\nKey #1 to our success:  An open line of communication\nKey #2 to our marriage success:  A mutual respect for eachother\nKey #3 to our happiness:  Our ability to share the remote control!\n\nThis will allow your guests to have some insight to your lives and will provide reflection for the reason of the gathering.  They will also be curious to know what is on each of the tables so it could encourage your guests to mingle as well.
560898
The concept of having a housewarming party is to receive what you need for your new home. You throw your own party and you can even request what you are in need of{pots pans and dish clothes as well as glassware}, you might want to serve finger foods and play party games as well. You do not request large ticket items such as  television, stereo or microwave ovens.This is your first home be it ever so humble, it is a major achievement, so by all means throw a housewarming party.
1005163
I would mention everything "informally" as it happens, then hit them with a list. However, after you give them the list, you have to make sure they follow it, so mention everything afterwards, and make sure they do it. Remember, it's your apartment, and you're the one that can kick the others out if they don't follow your rules. Of course, you want to all try to reach an understanding of the rules if you're going to live together (maybe host a meeting?) If they don't like it, they'll leave. If they cooperate, everything will be fine.
966885
always be honest to a point, keep certain information hidden until asked. Hopefully you have good references from previous place. Dress down a bit, casual is always better, but well groomed with a pleasant attitude. Often times the place is being looked at by several people, the renter/apartments want good people in their place, don't be foolish, they are also looking if you fit. Don't be a dum-ass, your not worth the trouble, many others to choose from. I rent several houses(15 units) and I do take that to account. Hope you get good results in your search!
408566
Um, if they're living in the same household, then it's only courdial to invite everyone.  Yes, it is your day and it should be planned out to your specifications, but think about the "bad-blood" that could be created or spared based or your decision to just let someone show up and hey....maybe give you an extra gift.  It's worth it to me to suck it up.  Besides, there will be so many other people there, it isn't like you have to sit and hold hands with him/her the entire time and be like "look who I invited, right here, uh huh, see who came, blah blah blah."
674717
I would start by deciding how many people you're going to invite than decide where you will have it. Wether you rent a place or just have your party at home. You need to decide what kind of food you would like, you could have a caterer or decide to make all the food yourself. For my 16th birthday I had a party at my house. I did a lua theme we had coconuts, a pinata, we made all the food ourselves. We didn't spend alot of money but the party turned out great, it was alot of fun. As long as you have your friends there you will always have a good time. Good Luck!
120673
They are family so they should be treated like family. If they are from out of town just be patient for a while you might need their help one of these days. If they live in town then just tell them someone like your b-friend or someone close to you is coming over to spend a couple of days with you because something is wrong with their place then offer to rent them a hotel for a night so they can figure out where else to go because you will be too crowded. Renting them a hotel would probably be cheaper than keeping them with you.
561351
If you invite people over, you'll have time to do a little shopping.  Crackers and cheese, popcorn, are inexpensive and easy to keep on hand if someone stops in.  Not everyone drinks alcoholic beverages.  Keep some pop and bottled water too.\nHave your apt uncluttered; keep your stuff out of sight.
971323
I wouldn't allow him to stay in your home. Tell him you would love to have him over  for dinner but that you're not going to be opening your home to any houseguests. Be the bigger person - don't do the finger pointing thing. You know you're right, he knows you're right. Move on from this point. If he is civil during dinner then next time he comes into town invite him to stay in your home.
1187090
From an etiquette point of view, it is not allowed to ask for anything other than the presence of the invitee. If you can't afford the party, you should downsize it, maybe just rent a waterslide.\n\nYou can, of course, go through the guests' pockets which they will conveniently leave somewhere, but as Nixon once said, that would be wrong.
735517
How about trying this. We all know that everyone wishes to live in a house just like what the Hollywood celebrities have. Example, glass houses, rooms filled with metal furniture, stairs made out of granite, and so much more. You have to think what other people like. If you have a doll house try fooling around with it and imagine what suits it best. They say, that the best ideas go through our head for a split second and we don't realize it. That's why some people get blanks in their head while trying to answer a question in some TV Game Shows.
642642
I just went to a "surprise" housewarming party.  The couple with the new house were taken out for a few hours by other friends and we all met there in time for there return.  We all brought a gift-food dish and beverage all to share.  The couple was ecstatic--everything was great and with all of us chipping in there were plenty of food gifts and drinks.  The couples family set up a treasure hunt for them too--it was fun to watch.  Also if you can get into the house without your sister you can plan a trivia for the guest. Ask quesions like "how many  electrical outlets are in the house?" or " What brand refrigerator do they have?".  Maybe supply little gifts like candles and suchfo the winners.  Don't stress too much chances are pelple will enjoy being in eachothers company and making new memories in the new home.  (Note: Disposable cameras!!)
547182
Be polite and respectful. Note what time the household is up and be up when they are. Find out the first day which meals they eat together as a household, and if you arn't going to be there for a meal, tell your hostess first thing in the morning. \n\nDuring the first day or two, while talking with your relative find out what kind of hostess she is. Will she want to show you everything there is to see while you're there, or does she expect you to fend for yourself? Start by asking her what she recommends you do or see.\n\nDon't be rude. Don't insult her country or culture. Don't make a mess or leave your things laying around common areas. Be thankful for her hospitality, but don't flatter. And don't spend all your time talking about life back home.\n\nShow interest in your hostess and her interests (ie: if she spends the first two weeks talking about some tourist attraction that doesn't sound that great, when she does drag you to it, pay attention, don't rush the visit, and try to understand why she likes it so much.)\n\nAnd don't make a burden of yourself. A month is a long time to be at someone's home. Spend a lot of time away from the house during the day, and mabie a night or two on a little get-away in the middle of the trip.\n\nAnd ALWAYS bring a hostess gift - never show up empty-handed. Something from your home area. (Just mind customs laws - no plants, etc) It doesn't have to be expensive.
587006
You should invite people that you are comfortable with and your time will be smooth and not intense. You want to have a good time and don't want drama. You can invite the person you like for a movie, the pool, or bowling a different day! have fun is the key;)
910992
Clean, Clean, Clean like there is no tomorrow!  Make sure at the very least the kitchen and bathrooms are spotless. And ensure that the home doesn't have an odor.  But if I were you I'd cancel the appointment and reschedule.  You will get better offers if your house is clean and tidy.  Otherwise buyers will have the impression you didn't take good care of the property.  And that results in lower offers or no offers.  You should also de clutter and remove any excess personal items so people can imagine what it would be like if this were there home.
617584
Small snack food..\nMust have loud music...SPEAKERS\nPut plastic covering over the furniture.\nMust watch the bathroom buy extra soap and toilet tissue!!\nand make it a BYOB bring your own booze.. it makes it much cheaper on you.. i am the queen of house parties. trust me