what does a girl feel when some unknown boy come to here and tries to start a conversation ?
116007
it depends on situation,that boy himself and it depends a lot on the girl!i would probably be polite and response to his effort to start a communication.if he wants sth else,but that,that would depend on that talk...how it develops,do we have any topics in common...
194642
Just go to them and introduce yourself.  Tell them that you know they are new and simply want to say hi.  Don't push it too faar too soon because they will think you are creepy.
108415
Well, if he didn't normally talk to you much before.\nAnd he does now.\nThat could be a sign.\nSmiling.\nWaving.\nI don't really know.\nJust talk to them.\nAnd if you want to tell him you like him.\nAnd don't want to actually say it.\nDo it in person, not on the phone or internet.\nAnd.\nWell, I took a boys cell phone and wrote on his backround.\n"I like you"\nAnd he was planning on writing it on my wall.\nSo.\nMaybe just start a converstaion and start asking random questions.\nAnd let him ask some back.\nAnd maybe just quickly say it.\nAnd if he asks "what".\nJust tell him you heard me. \nAnd it'll turn into a funny non akward situtation.\nHope I helped.
770072
have you talked to him? Sounds like he likes you just say hi. whats the worst that could happen?
999161
I can see where your coming from, and you'reon the right track. You see it all depends on the women/girl. Some girls automatically expect for them to say hi, to where others find it odd because they have no idea who you are. I mean yeah, if you're standing right next to someone and there's dead silence between you two, the nice thing would be to say "Hello" orr a simple "Hi, my name's _______" \n       I recommend saying this. If the girl/women doesn't seem interested in talking, then obviously you drop the conversation. But if she continues by saying "Hey, I'm _______" then of course she's interested in talking with you.\n"Do you get upset if nothing is said and he leaves and acts like you're not even there" ... well, in a way yes. But on the other hand no. In my personal opinion I sometimes take it as "Well he thinks I'm not pretty, so he doesn't bother to say hi or anything." But on the other hand, I didn't start the conversation either. \n     It matters but "small talk" is always a nice thing. ust about all the time, I find it rude when someone's right next to me and not a word is said out of him, or another girl for that matter. \n    It all depends on the girl that's next to you. It can never hurt to start a conversation, wheather she puts in an effort to continue it or not,  then you know its alright to be quiet.
457832
I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
751718
So, are you in his school right now? If you are then why do you expect him to start talking to you, not you?\nHe could probably stop saying even "Hi" to you when you stopped doing it and he felt like he is getting on your nerves.\n\nJust say "Hi" to him when you see him. Do it a few times and if then he still will seem cold then just ask him some time, just stop him in the corridor and say"Hey, why don't you talk to me anymore?" \n\nThat should put him in situation where he must answer and go from there. He may start talking to you again or say why he stopped. If after that he will be cold to you then just leave him alone, he is gone and possibly just a type of a guy who goes after every pretty girl but loses interest fast if nothing happens.\n\nGood luck and don't feel embarassed to say "Hi" to him, its just a "hi" at the end of the day. How many times you say that to everyone else ;), 1 more won't hurt, he is not SO special or from another planet ;)\n\nIf you from another school then ask someone where he lives and just may be pass by there some time, and may be you will bump into him and there is situation 1 on 1 and he will be forced to talk to you, IF YOU  start talk to him, but don't let him run away. \n\nGl and Best of Luck, Wolfy.
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
346180
i know it hurts to get rejected but take a shot at it he may be going thru the same thing. he may like you and be afraid to say something. I am a guy and i have been afraid to talk to a couple of girls and i finally got up the courage to say something to one of them now that they have a boy friend and i  found out that at the time that i like them they like me but its to late i missed my chance don't miss yours
827841
I am making a few assumptions here. \n\n1. You are female\n2. You're a young teenager.\n3. There's a boy you like whose intentions are unclear.\n\nSo, in this case.. boys are confusing and hard to understand because they don't quite understand themselves yet. There's a lot happening -- parts getting bigger and doing new and sometimes exciting things, noticing girls, school getting harder and more brutal. \n\nOh yeah, and boys.. they say the same thing about girls too. It's part of the 'fun' of being young. To enjoy our differences :) Best of luck!
601613
I will be the first one to tell you, Guys won't approach a girl, We think that it's the woman's job to start a conversation(Most of us anyway). Just start a conversation, and make Eye contact! For Example: "How's it Going?" It's that easy, and if he doesn't like you, so what chances are is that he doesn't really see you for who you really are. If he responds, keep talking, don't let the conversation die. If you talk for just a couple minutes, or even a few seconds, he will remember, and it will be easier for you to talk to him next time. Well, I hope this advice helps. \nGOOD LUCK!!! :)\nTommy
515162
Yes, they're scared! Girls say yes or no and have that power. But, girls must wait to be asked. What suspense! That's scary, isn't it. Ther's a trick, if you can do it.  Why not (gulp) just quiet and confidently approach the guy when he's alone and tell him directly you'd like to go out sometime and it's OK if he isn't interested... and mean it. Just say that. No babeling. Courage is impressive, to me.
69532
This will be difficult, but trust me, it will help you out. Walk up to him and simply say Hi to him. Chances are that he is wondering the same thing.
1175121
you should go up to her and tell her how you feel. I would not want to be passed up just b/c a guy does not have enough ba*** to come up to me and talk
792109
for me u look like a boy using a girls name and trying to make some crazy work on boys not in other means.Sorry just said what i felt.
105452
Are you kidding me!Don't listen to them!If you look away then a girl is gonna think you have been staring at them and you just got busted-so that is why you looked away!Just kinda smile-or nod like saying hey- and then you can look away.It is friendly and could even be sweet!But don't do it to the same person all the time if you don't talk to them,that could be creepy!