Do you think getting married at the age of 18 or 19 to soon even if the couple is awesome together?
102093
I think you should wait, but you and your family/friends/fiance have to figure that out.  Not me.
678151
2-3yrs should be enough time to know whether or not you want to get married. But if you know you want to be together for the rest of your lives, then why wait. It could only take you a week to realise you want to marry each other. And it could be the best decision you ever make. It all depends on the individual.
487881
Its not the age but the person thats important. if you are hasty and pick the wrong person you might regret it all your life. wait till you are a bit mature to understand difference between a cool guy and a good guy. Marry the good guy, then indulge yourself.
575395
as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
128310
first of all how old are u? are you even old enough to be thinking marriage?. I hope that you are at least in your mid twenties?
390783
I understand that you're worry about if he isn't mature enough and ready to face a life time marriage. I would say it's something that you should consider about but not to judge a person through his/her age. If you two have already got to the step that which is going to marry then you should know your future husband better. I don't know how well you two know about each other but I wouldn't recommend a rush relationship, especially marriage. Age wouldn't be a matter in a relationship which is cause by love, you should take a closer look to this person, find out if he would be the one that can love you, accept you and willing to cooperate with you to operate a life time marriage. If the answer that he give to you is "yes" and he has already proved to you, you mustn't stop.
104893
There is a 15 year difference between my fiance and I. I dont think age really matters if you can get along and everything is copacetic go for it.
402807
i would marry an older man, but im only 24, and the thought of marrying someone who is 50 is a little weird. that might be a little too old. although the EXPERIENCE is intriguing....
900586
Personally I believe when you really love someone, I don't think age is a problem. It is more of whether both of you can communicate with each other and both have you must be able to accept each other.
278270
In my own personal opinion, yes. I believe that 17 is too young to get married. At this age you have barely experienced things--you've been pretty sheltered and gone to high school etc. But after high school and then going to college, it sure does change who you are and how you look at things.\n\nMy finaces sister in law is 19 and I look at her and think, she has no clue about anything in life. Almost all the people in her college classes will not talk to her because she is married. Plus, none of her high school friends will talk to her either now--but I also think this is for other reasons too.\n\nI think there is a lot more stuff you need to experience and discover before you get married--and at 17 most people have not experienced these kind of things. I went to college and I know that I have changed how I think, act and view things.\n\nTrust me, when you get married you will have to worry about things you never had to before--i.e. paying bills, buying groceries, bringing in an income, paying taxes etc. You're 17! Why should you have to worry about things like this at your age? I wouldn't want to--I'd still want to go out and have fun with my friends and raise hell like teenagers do. Ha ha. Rethink getting married--if you two are really meant to be together, then you will wait for each other and get married later. No need to rush into anything.
265652
I believe that the legal age in most states is 18.  I know that there are exceptions to this, like for example, if a parents signs a form to give them permission, you can marry younger.\nNow, there are few 18 year olds or younger that are actually ready for marriage.  The advice that I will give to my own children will be to wait until they have graduated from college, been at least dating for a year or longer, and have pre-marital counseling before hand.  I think that with all of those things, it will at least help the chances of having a better foundation when starting a marriage.\n\nThat said, I was 19 and my husband was 18 when we got married, we were not done with college, and we were dating for...oh...about a month before my husband asked me to marry him.  We did date for about a year before we were finally married though.  We have now been married for 12 years.  We are definitely the exception to the rule, and the first few years were really hard, because we were pretty immature.  It can be done, but the chances of it lasting aren't all that great if you just jump into it.
576817
Although 18 for girls and 21 for boys is the minimum recommended age for getting married, i think its better to spend as much time as you can with your partner to know them better before you get married. And whats the rush, you still have a long life ahead, enjoy life now, theres a lot of time left to take these decisions later. 18 is the age to do other things, not getting married.
1068038
yes its too young to consider getting married, most definitely, planning for your education and future however are wise moves. definitely wait until after college, you have so much left to experience and who knows what will happen? people grow and change alot at your age and i promise you that neither one of you is now who you will be at 30 or 25 even. if its going to work and you are going to stay together you will stay together through college and you can get married when you are in a position to make it work and support yourselves and your family.
1058830
I know from experience! 21 with 49! You may be happy now and enjoying each other but let's say you get serious or move in together. The movies, music, friends, conversation, style, and attitude will change eventually. An 18 year old has so much more to learn and experience and can do so with an older person, but believe me they will eventually get someone a little younger, closer to there own style or cheat on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
938983
So what! Age doesn't really matter when two people are in love with each other. At 18 you are already at a legal age with all the rights appurtenant to you as a woman...how much more at 19. A ten year gap is not really that much. There are some who got married to a person half or twice as much their age but they still live a happy and successful married life. There are also those who married a partner about their age but still a failure in their marriage...so...age differences really don't matter...what matters most is how you love, understand and respect each other as a person. Good luck!
616088
I dont think there is a good age to get married, just make sure its the right time for you.  Never rush into marriage even if you are determened to be with the same person for the rest of your life, plan your wedding the way you want it and start saving for the things you would like.  I get pressured alot from my boyf family to marry now.  But even thou ive been with him for over 8 yrs we know we want he full works at our wedding and we know that doing it now is easy but thatwould be a budgetted wedding and its not what we want.
54442
Well, it depends.  If you are 20 and he is 23, no.  If your 11 and he's 14, yes.  If your 11 and he's 23, there's something wrong with you.  You generally need to stay in your own age group from 11-17 years old.  Once your old enough to marry, it doesn't really have a limit.  Unless your 30 and he's 60. >.< The general reason is because 11 year olds and 17 year olds think and want different things.  It's also illegal for a 17 year old to embrace an 11 year old.  \n\n~*Jesus take the wheel*~