Is is okay to de hurt because of other peoples emotions ? My  crush likes my best friend .?
116303
yes. everybody has emotions, and you should express them. don't hold them in because it could affect you later in life. It kind of sucks that your crush likes your best friend. but over time, things will get better.
361519
not realy cause it migt hurt the other friends feelns or i might mak them jealous
961697
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
141868
Y'know a similar thing happened to me when I was still in high school between my best female friend and I.  One of us had feelings for the other but it wasn't reciprocated.  Years later, we're still great friends, and both of us have moved on to find our own special people.  In my experience, if you two are close enough and you don't dwell too much on it, it would be a good thing to tell him how you feel. It's nice not to have to hold anything back from them, and even if the feelings aren't reciprocated, you get a fresh start ^_^  You know your relationship best though, good luck! =D
788405
bcause u feel it will harm ur friendship
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
717320
if you are doing something that hurts a friend, then you should stop. the fact that you care enough to wonder means you probably aren't a bad person. but if you know you're hurting her, you should stop it and stick up for her. If she's a good sport about it and knows it's all in fun, then I'd say you're fine.
505101
WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
452444
You should be careful, did this friend show any type of feelings towards you. Don't mess up a good friendship be careful.
764890
If ur sure that u're over that person and u dont have any feelings for them anymore..then why not..but if you feel that this will effect ur relationship wth ur best friend, u should let him/her know
541339
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
263239
I know it hurts but there isn't anything you can do.  That is his choice and if you really care about him the best thing you can do is respect that choice and just be his friend.  I'm sure there is some wonderful guy out there that would feel more than lucky to me more than just your friend.
952941
You can't help the way you feel, it is being human.  I had a similar situation when I was 17.  I had been best friends with him for 2 years and gradually we got closer and closer.  For me it didn't work out but I am glad I gave it a go otherwise I would all ways wonder what if.  I think life is far too short to have regrets.
671847
Feelings are just that.. feelings.  They are neither right or wrong.  True love can't be made where it doesn't exist and can't hide where it does.  He is feeling that he somehow betrayed his friend.... He should discuss his feelings with him.
1131122
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
992840
what you say is that you dont feel for him the way he feels for you and that you think it would be better if you remained friends and nothing more as your not ready for anything serious right now. he will probably be upset but its best to tell him now then later on when he can be hurt more. good luck.
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.