I have a spoiled little sister and i want to know if you would think that she is annoying? Also what can I do?
108360
You didn't give any examples of her being annoying so I can't give you my opinion.  Talk to your parents.
615519
I think it is commendable that you care that your sister acts like she hates you.  That shows you care about her, and I don't know you guys, of course, but I truly believe that if you just hang on and stay out of her way as much as you can, she will come around.  It might take a few years, but my daughter acted like she hated me from the time she turned thirteen until seventeen and she suddenly matured and she is thirty one now and we are the best of friends!!  Try not to take it too personally, that age is just so hard for some adolescents, too much self-doubt and pressure to fit in that family sometimes take the fallout.  Good luck!
137753
Don't blame her, she feels responsible for you... unfortunately she will always look at you as a kid. I'm 26 and i still look at my 22 year old sister as a kid, cause she IS!!
761206
Shae, I am really sorry for your situation. I also read your profile and there is no reason that I can see for your sisters  attitude, and yes we do try to treat others how we would want to be treated. However we are not perfect, we make mistakes like everybody else.  I really feel that you need to let your sister know how you feel and how this is effecting you, and that you would like to have her in your life.  Sometimes writing a letter  is beneficial because it enables you to really reflect on your feelings  and express yourself more thoroughly.  Perhaps once everything is out on the table, then any differences can be resolved.
533611
When you get fed up enough, just tell them loud and clear, that you are NOT your sister! You have your own life, your own likes and dislikes and ways of doing things. If they have sibs, ask them if they're just like THEIR brothers or sisters. As long as you're doing well in school and not a trouble-maker, this should do it.
635240
well you probably get to complain about your older bro/sis and annoy her/him but my brother does the opposite.hes bigger than me.he pushes me off the couch.when im lying o the rug watching tv,he jumps on me.i cant even complain cause hes older and i have to listen to him.hes done alot more to me.but i guess atleast sometimes i have a good time and he looks out for me,and hes company. consider yourself lucky your brother/sister isn't a physco:)
263501
Regardless of who does more, be mature about this and don't tell everyone or tease her about it.  I'm sure she is already humiliated and you don't need to permanently damage your relationship with your sister over it.
1075472
you can't force her to connect back to you... she's at this age where she's having identity crisis and probably wants you to leave her alone. it is true that teenagers are a little self-centered as if the whole world revolves around them -- im not saying this to degrade anybody, i WAS in this phase too! when you gain more experience as you grow older, that's the time when you learn to be selfless and humble. you start to think about other people. there is no specific age for this... these things you learn through hardships no matter what. i've dealt with a lot of things, so i learned quicker, and i kinda grew up a little too fast. my life passed me by though -- i didn't get to enjoy hanging out with friends or having boyfriends, but i have learned to be selfless. what matters to me now are the people i love... they matter more to me than myself. \nanyhow... there will come a time when your sister will mature as well, and you'll probably be matured at that time too... and i bet you will be as closest as you can possibly be. i have friend who fought with her brother constantly when they were younger, but they became so close when they got older when she finally moved out.. she would always tell me how much she misses her brother. so give it time... this time will come. (as long as you don't change and forget all about her)
141818
I could never hate my sisters, sometimes I wanna beat them yes that is for sure... but the older we all get the more we appriciate eachother, and the more we appriciate our time together because now we all have our own lives and familys that we're not together as much anymore! I wish that when we all lived in the same house we didnt fight as much! so be nice to your siblings no matter how rough it is sometimes... enjoy your time together!
983224
Well she is a very immature person. Did she always get her way growing up by acting this way? When she got into trouble was she ever punished for it in a way that made her change? I don't think there is anything wrong with your sister except that she is very immature and very self centered. \n     You, as her sister need to just walk away from her and not even talk to her when she is being this way. You be the more mature person and don't even give that kind of stupid behavior the time of day. I mean literally refuse to deal with her when she is acting like this. Adults should not behave this way and you will notice that most of them do not.
350236
HA u muppet bro!!! just dump her she is an evil cow! you know all she does is p*ss u off and annoy u, she has u round her little finger coz ur such a softy......look bro u know your a lovely lad ur polite, kind and caring get with someone who is the same not someone who treats u like s*it. trust ur big sis alright!!!! and ill catch u later for a beer!
978853
what do you do that provokes this kind of reaction from her?  perhaps the fact that you say she is annoying is coloring your perception and how you treat her ... look into yourself and see why you choose to find her annoying.
82408
Hell yeah, I have a 7 yr old sister & she's such a runt! Were 8 yrs apart & she drives me crazy! lol But hey she's my sister I still love her...
15673
That is just what siblings do. It is a constant battle for sibling to compete for the favor of their parents. Be happy that you have siblings and ignore her behavior. If you do this she will get tired of it. Your parents will hopefully get tired of her telling on you and ignore her asw well. Be kind and do what is right and she won't have any ammunition against you. Eventually you will both grow up and learn to love eachother for who you are.
86474
Talk to parents.  I know it's hard but try to ignore her by not being around her.  Sounds like she is very unhappy and becoming a bully.  Try to talk to her about how you feel too, but definitely let parents know of her abuse.
131084
if you wanted something new and she knew it confront her nicly, instead of being on the defense try saying  mom, i feel left out because you gave my sister what she wanted but i got her old _______. I just want to be treated equally.    that works for me and im 13 so it might work for you   good luck!
714128
How old is she for starters?? If she is that desrespectful to you--please try to talk to her calmly and let her know. You can get a small tape recorder and secretly tape her when her when she does this to you, then play it back to her and let her listen to how she treats you. If that does not work--give her a choice--either to straighten up and be respectful you and your home or to please find another place to live that you have had enough of it. Don't feel guilty by doing what you have to do and making a good solid decision. You do not have to put up with that at all. Take care and blessings.