do most girls like guys who are good at talking? and how to become good at talking or talkative?
115690
well mostly girls do like guys who can talk ..and the way to make conversation long with a girl is "listenin"to every single word they say ,that way you can talk and reply back showin them you are interested in whatever they say and try to give a comment..
1025699
you should read a lot, especially current events and world news, know what you want in a girl so that you an ask questions, hobbies and movies, sports and places you've been or want to go to are great conversation grabbers...\n\nmusic..museums...parties...beaches and school topics.\n\nbut seriously, read it is sexy to be knowledgeable
510737
be more flirty, less open, less of a shoulder to cry on (but still a good guy) and be more mysterious, more touchy (but NOT disrespectful) and more spontanious. you sound like a great guy, and i'm sure even if you stay just how you are, that you will find a good girl. good things come to those who wait! good luck!
930880
To yourself, you may seem good looking and a nice guy. Maybe you are. But I know from personal experience and guy friends who talk to me that often, when a guy KNOWS or THINKS he's good looking and nice, he comes across arrogant. There is nothing a girl hates more than a boyfriend with a big head. Girls also look for attitude, brains, and humor---not just looks and kindess. Also, maybe you're not obvious enough! Don't go sleazy though. A girl will be repulsed. Also, quit the chatspeak, especially if the girl you're interested in talks to you online. It makes people seem unintelligent. \n\nI hope this isn't too harsh! Just trying to give you some advice...\n\nCheers and good luck\nKate
628208
You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
280106
Girls aren't a collective voice, all speaking the same language.  It all depends on what the girl is looking for and what you're looking for.  If you know a girl and like her, do things which she likes or that you think might make her happy.  Same applies to girls to guys.  \n\nThere are no hard and fast rules.  The fact is the best answers are found from experience and can provide some truely great memories and some absolutely horrible ones.
632404
I'm a guy and when I really like a girl I cant seem to be as cool or witty when I see some one I'm attracted to. So don't judge people to quickly because the slick talking ones are mostly there for non commitment. The stuttering ones could be a keeper. Take time to see the real person.
340637
Sorry but he must be physically appealing to me, nice eyes, clean white teeth are nice and to be fit, not over weight.\nNot all girls are like that though.\nNone of that is important to me though if it isn't teamed up with a genuine character, you know , not superficial and fake.  Most girls like a guy who is not afraid to talk about what he believes in and thinks and how he feels.  Nothing is more annoying than some one who can't communicate clearly with thoughtfulness and RESPECT.\n\nIt is good if they can dance and earn a good living ...very good. Ride horses, fix cars, build houses and cook the occasionally a la carte meal.  Ha ha ha ha. etc etc  I could go on but it would fill the whole page up.
1009868
TO GET A GIRL TALKING..YOU JUST BASICALLY HAVE TO MAKE HER LAUGH A LOT AND ASK HER QUESTIONS ABOUT HERSELF....\nWHEN A GIRL LIKES A GUY IT TAKES TIME FOR HER TO GET COMFORTABLE AND BE OPEN WITH HIM... JUST BE PATIENT AND IF SHE STILL DOESNT GET COMFORTABLE THEN LET HER KNOW, HOW ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO GET TO KNOW HER IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO TALK AND NOT WILLING TO OPEN UP FOR YOU. \nJUST GIVE THE GIRL A CHANCE AND MAYBE YOU WONT REGRET IT...
618712
A lot of things.  Most likely, your real question is, what does a GOOD teen guy look for in a girl.\n\nA respectful teen guy will look for a girl he can talk to.\nA girl that he thinks about all the time.\nA girl that laughs at his jokes even if they are stupid.\nA girl who is honest.\nA girl who does not try to control his life, but will confront him carefully if she thinks he is doing something wrong.\nA girl who will be a friend when he needs a friend, and will always listen to him if he needs someone.\nAnd above all, a teen guy will look for a girl whose smile lights up his day no matter how badly it is going.
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i agree with pancharito because that is how it normally works.  normally girls with good personalities are better than the good-looking ones.\n\nof course, maybe she is good  looking and nice.  if she is, then that is great.  there are good-looking girls out there who have great personalities, but most of them i'd say don't.\n\nas far as keeping conversations going...just be yourself, find out what she likes, and if you have anything in common, start talking about that.  maybe you have a class together or both like a band or sport.  you can find something.  talk about something that's happened to you recently.  tell her a story about yourself.  ask her how she is doing, if she had a good day at school, what she did the past weekend, etc.\n\nbut you need to realise that you can't make people like you.  they have to like you for who you are and sometimes that requires them to realise something in you that they like.
58911
It might help if we knew how old you are.\nAlso, anything said here is from a US perspective and may not work in other countries / cultures:\n\na.  learn to be comfortable talking with girls - this usually means being able to ask questions and listen.\nb.  you need to decide what personality you seek in a girl - then:\n   1.  learn where such girls "hang out"\n   2.  learn what they are interested in - intellectually, culturarlly and socially\n   3.  learn what they (in general) look for in men (athletes, artists, etc...)\n   4.  learn how to dance - most girls enjoy dancing\n   5.  save up money - women are expensive\n   6.  learn how to act confident - women want men to be confident - maybe they even want to feel like a man can take care of them or protect them (as well as entertain / amuse / please them)\n\nGood luck.  Most often, age and maturity conspire to help you with girls - unfortunately neither works at a speed you would like.
784172
How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
563536
oooooooo......k- well 1st off u talk about the place u are @ or somthin u like then gradually she wil start to pick up on the conversation and talk about what she likes so then u DEFINATLEY start talkin bout wut she likes then m/b ya'll will go out over time!!!!   follow these steps & u will have a girl as soon as u can read this!!!!!!!\n\n\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!
195849
why do girls talk about boys ?what do girls talk about boys ?
322546
well as a girl i like it wen guys approach me and come up to me decently and humbly.. more than a guy who is very proud of himself.. for us girls first impression is important.. most of the girls likes nice guys so if you are a nice guy just ask her or approach her decently and just be yourself..\n\ngoodluck hope im a great help to you..\ni.m. me for some more good advices!!!
163934
Talk about favorite foods, gossip of any kind, Ask him questions about himself that way he will notice you have some interest with him. Try to make the conversations equally, but if he's a shy guy then you will talk most of the time but say things that he could be interested in to. Be yourself and have a good time!