Why is it depressing when you find out someone you had a crush on...?
100088
Because it's taboo.\nIt's something you want that you can't have.\n\nTRUST ME... I feel ya!
351730
That's been an ongoing problem that I've struggled with, but in the last month, I've realized that I like guys that are already in relationships because I subconsciously know that I'm not ready for a serious relationship. I know that's not always the case, but you might want to think about that :)
547042
well one time i had a friend who begun crushing on me and what i did was i began to be distant from her and she was really sad i dont know sometimes its better to save the friendship rather than to take the risk of becoming less close with each other.
63818
I know exactly how you feel.. You just need to tell the person that it's ok to be sad about it.. and if they ever need anyone to talk to, they can talk to you and you will always be there for them.
534982
find another crush..!
149200
its because you feel bad for yourself. if u think about it humanity is a bit selfish. now that your alone you wish you still had a partner.
890861
Despair for a moment and then search for another lovable person!
1162183
cuz wen ur tryin to get that someone u feel like hungry for that person. but wen finally u get that person, u have no feelings or anything. bcuz u already have him, and that "hunger" is over
213658
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
535205
i dotn think you know. its just something you feel for a person youve never felt before. you have a different caring for that person. youll know when you know. remember theres a differnece in beng in love then crushing hard on someone to liking someone.
400248
it's always scary having really deep feelings for someone because it leaves you vulnerable to them. What if they reject you? What if they leave you? What if they don't feel the same way you do? It's all part of love, romance, and life. If you have found someone that you can connect with on such a deep level that you don't have to have a physical relationship, congratulations. you have found what everyone is looking for.
535568
It's not wrong but it sure is painful! You have to go through confusion and angst just to get yourself to admit your feelings and then when you have already passed that stage you have to go tell your friend. But you know, through all that pain - you'll find more joy with that person than with those you just met and decided to go out with. It's like - the more pain you experience, the more joy you gain after the whole thing. Why? Because you know this person and this person knows you. You trust each other coz you're already friends. You've already passed the 'getting to know you' stage of a relationship and the next thing you have to do is enjoy each other!!\nThings get complicated though, and much more painful, if your friend doesn't feel the same way. Some feel betrayed when they find out their friend's in love with them. They say you betrayed their trust and that sort of thing.\nBut you know, the key thing is patience and persistence.
609636
not as sad as being 33 and having been in love once...got your heart broke in so many pieces, only to feel you cant pick up the pieces anymore.  and you give up on love...it was only a dream, a beautiful dream that I couldnt be a part of.\n\nso honey, dont settle, coz perhaps like me, you'll only get one chance, so make it worth it.
728153
probably gotten to know you and not that its your fault but they don't see anything happening htere no feelings the same as how we feel sometimes you need a couple of dates to be sure and then bam you know this isn't going anywhere so why continue on .\n\nmaybe no chemistry , maybe yoru not a match in some ways there looking for . you just know it you feel it.
408194
ohh im really sorry.  thats horrible.  if you dont get sympathy from your crush, that person must be a cold-hearted bitch.  but trying to get a date is a little much.  trying to milk your injury for all you got huh?
373006
I don't feel there is anything really to be done.  The only thing I would be concerned about is the fact that if these two men are your best friends and you share everything together, then why didn't tell you in the first place instead of you finding out like you did.  \nI can understand the frustration and surprise at finding them in that situation.  As for the crush, only thing to do there is to get over it.  There isn't a chance there.  I would talk to them.  Be honest.  Why didn't they tell you?  Is there a trust issue that you were not aware of that they couldn't tell you up front?  That sort of thing.  I think it's the best advice I can give.  I hope it helps you out.
146487
Yes it special for me because I get to show my creativity. Even though I am not single right I never did feel sad when I was single because I always had my friend to back me up and we always showered each other with gifts and sometimes if it was during the middle of the week I would jump on the internet with a big box of cholocates (that my friend gave me) and look at single guys and maybe start up a chat with them and who knew sometimes I would end up with a midnight Valentine. :0)