which are the main reasons older women date young men?
103213
to get a little spice back in there lifeor just tired of guys there age or older
990469
Women of ages 30+ usually would share their beds with 18y/o boys for a few reasons: They are trying to live that age again, they want to train a boy into a man, they want to cheat on their man with a younger man, they have a fetish with younger men. Although there are other reasons these are the most common. Usually in this sort of relationship the 18 y/o boy is the one who comes out hurt. Unlike her, they are not as mature and do not know how to handle the mix of emotions and sex. Basically a 30+ y/o woman has a mature sense of self. She is sure of what she wants, what she is looking for, what boundary to put up, and she knows it will end sooner or later. Basically an adult of that age really does not have the time for simple styled teen dating. They want to taken out in a respectable manner and if sex is on the list, (please take notes all 18 y/o) IT IS NOT THE MAIN DRIVE IN THE ADULT LIFE. Sex is great entertainment, but it is an option not a necessity.\nFYI: I am a 31 y/o Male. Giving the best advice I can give to any who ask for it. Luck to you!
234167
older men like younger women bacause it makes them feel younger
465237
Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
1056371
Depending on what you want out of a relationship. Women mature intellectually faster than men. Most, not all, younger men like to play head games. They are still trying to find out who they are. To be fair more and more women these days are playing these games as well. Just be with the person before you decide to committ to a relationship. If he is right for you, you will know...
670189
What you say is true, but individuals want to fit into their society, and since young women are more desirable, then women tend to lie about their age.  Not all...
873299
Is he wealthy? What do you think the attraction is? At 20, she is old enough to be making decisions for herself.....you've given her guidance, but now she has to make that decision.\n\nWhat would worry me is WHY she is attracted to older men. Often it is because of a previous molestation by an older man. Is that a possibility? If so, I would suggest some serious counseling by a professional....NOT clergy type....they would just continue the problem.
1029116
I am 28,  seeing a man who is 49.  I have always dated older, several years older.  I have always been more "settled" than others my age,  never being into the whole party/drinking scene, etc, etc.  I find that older men have "been there,  done that" and are in turn more settled as well.  They better understand that pleasantness and value in just being able to sit next to someone and be content.  I don't really know how to explain it other than being more comfortable and laid back.
844553
I'm "only" 45... not that that is young to today's 20 and 30 somethings... but I've loved and been in love with older women ( 10 - 20+ years older) since I was 17...at least. To answer your question... this is not a fad, it's just that its "out" in the sense that younger men ( and older women) have no qualms about it anymore . Additionally, and more importantly, older women have a certain experience that younger ones don't... both intellectually and sexually. There is also no time for pretense... just learning and teaching and fun... The health question comes later, but if one really loves, one can handle that... such may be the price, but the joy before is well worth it.
514196
I dont know of any young women that fear older men. I personally love older men. And i always have. And that is because of stability in their lives. I find that older men are not as immature as younger ones.
1082435
Women 35 to 45 are very sexy. They are experienced, and usually are a lot of fun to be with.  If they enjoy the younger women, I say go for it.
41446
Are you talking about younger men or older men?\n\nDo you really want an answer . . . \n\nLet me explain . . . when young men try to date girls their age . . . the majority of the time . . . they get shot down.  It isn't because they have no game . . . it is because the girls are looking for more than an immature male (in their mind).  Plus you young girls are looking for older men or men with potential . . . who can be your sugar daddy.\n\nSo . . . these guy look at older women . . . for stress relief (trying to be clean). . . and these women usually give it up easier because they (in their minds) think "boy . . . I still have it . . . these young boys chatting me up, telling me I look beautiful like girls his age."  Meanwhile these guys spend little or no money on them and get all the action they need . . . in some cases these ladies become sugar mommas . . . (Like you young girls who have sugar daddies).\n\nMeanwhile, these young guys . . . go to college. . . get their degree . . . and make six figures when they reach their mid 30's (the guys you are currently dating - who will eventually dump you) . . . and they will start dating girls approx. 10-12 years younger than them.\n\nI've been there . . . done that.
129796
Attitude and personality attract women, not mere age.  Older guys tend to be more psychologically mature (but not always), and that helps attract women with mature minds.\n\nGuys living life to the fullest of their ability attract women of all ages.
1131445
I think there's some kind of attraction...and curiosity...but why is it socially acceptable that 80 year old males go with 20 year old females and the other way round is still totally unacceptable?
673181
If you believe good men are hard to find when you are in your twenties, the barrel is even drier as you get older.  Our society is more interested in immediate sexual gratification.  There are not many men who want to commit and work on having a healthy steady relationship.  There are some who desire a relationship---at least in theory--but they will not put forth the effort or time to have a mature relationship.  \n\nWhen you become older you should mature emotionally and childish behaviors and ideas die.  Change is a very frightening thing for many people and they would rather stay at the status quo then work to improve communication skills, their lifestyle or their backwards thinking about relationship.  If you want a relationship, I would tell you to know your needs and what it is you want from the relationship and do not compromise.\n\nThe picking is slim for a good woman.
831761
older women know exactly what they want, and how to get it, plus theres something very attractive about a confident women, and nothing more unattractive about a immature girl, plus theres this whole milf thing going on, but for me mature women are just more sexy and more stimulating.
211779
# 1 show her you are mature for your age, an older woman  might indeed be interested in a younger guy if he seems mature enough, #2 most women are impressed with romantic gestures, flowers etc... and genuine flattery/ compliments .. key word is genuine !show her that you  are on her intellectual level, and share some of her interests/ hobbies etc..try being friends with her first and feel out weather she would be interested in a date... even a casual one to start with..   and move in from there, good luck !