Will Kenny change his mind about marrying me?
115512
Instead of asking here, you should be asking him directly. If he says yes, then get a firm commitment (date, etc.). If he says no, you need to accept it and move on. If you try to change the mind of someone whose mind is set, it can be a bad outcome.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskils.com
1140008
He is just saying that to keep you, he knows thats something YOU want. He most likly doesnt want to get married and if he does not right now. Either you keep letting him ignore you or tell what you want  and follow through dont except anything less than what you deserve, but pressuring him would be the wrong thing to do. I think you should just let him know how you feel and then determine if he is worht waiting for, dont let him slip away if you know he is a good guy.!!!!
1089819
I understand your question and I know the answer to it. You WANT to marry this man, not live with him. You should tell him, we either get married, or I have to move on. Then do what you need to do(and we both know he won't marry you) so you need to move on. Pretty simple really. He is NEVER going to marry you, if he has not in ten years. Good Luck!!
1000417
if insists on marrying you...
1127334
He's  a jerk, accept it now and move on.  \n\nHE WILL NOT CHANGE ONCE YOU MARRY HIM.
315940
Well, seems to me you all need to spend some more time together!  IF you all are really serious about getting married then you all should be at that point in your relationship to communicate well with each other.    It's ALL about communication, trust and love.\n\nIt'll put your heart at ease to give him a call and meet up face to face to talk about everything you two are feeling right now.  It's a BIG step to take and everything should be out in the open with you two and comfortable with your decision.\n\nGL hun and hope all works out for you two!
260928
Hmmm.  This is a tough one.  I can only give you a little bit of personal advice...take it for what it's worth.  I dated a man (and I am not proud of this by ANY means) who was in prison (for fleeing the police.  I know, I know. Please don't judge...I was young and stupid!) I went into this relationship thinking that I would be able to change him. That was the biggest mistake I ever made.  I've learned that no matter how much you try, that person will never change unless THEY want to.  If he doesn't want to change, it's not worth your unhappiness to stay with him. Life is too short to put up with the bulls*it!\n\nOn the other hand, have you tried talking to your man about these issues?  Does he know how you feel?  He may be willing to listen.  Maybe you will need to compromise with him.  Maybe he will be willing to change his ways if you're willing to change a little too.  I'm getting married in November and have come to realize that the only way a relationship will survive is if both people give a little and take a little.  Just be honest to him, and to yourself.  Go with your gut feelings.  Afterall, it's YOU that really matters in the end.  Good luck!!
594771
I would sit down and take an objective analysis.  If he doesn't move you the way he once did, I wouldn't head down to the jewelers to try on that engagement ring immediately.  I am a complete romantic, and I believe that someone should move your heart completely, and the one that is for you, will.  Try and be fair though, while you're thinking of all the little things he did for you once and doesn't do much anymore, do you do the little things to please him still?  If you want to be with him as a wife, you should talk to him, very honestly and openly, about all the possibilities, including ya'll not getting married.  He should know what's going on instead of being put on trial without a defense.  I hope that everything works out for you both.
930342
Kenny's going to be the guy who goes places after Spirit Squad breaks up.  Trust me.
645218
take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
1176141
Obviously he doesn't want to marry you.  Most likely it has nothing to do with you.  He is probably not man enough to tell you how he feels so he just keeps delaying.  Ask him if he wants to rethink marriage for a while and see what he says.  If he jumps all over the idea, there is your answer.  If he still insists you get married ask him to set a date and keep it.
1048752
get over it, he's human.  try being a wonderful loving wife, and less of a nagging, please be more perfect for me wife.  your already married, accept him for who he is right now, and you will be surprised how fast he changes.  if you want to change something someone is doing, change yourself first.  they will have to change to fit into the new equation.  what if you did something he did not like, do you really want to brow beat each other your whole marriage, or do you want to enjoy him.. what if he died tomorrow, you really think he will be on his death bed thinkin of women he looked at, or his loving wife and child?
839462
Believe me he wont go away change your number i know tell him mirupafshim ( goodbye) and he would mention marriage its called passport . time he has finished you will need a box of parcetomol believe me.
961411
He will regret that for the rest of his life. If you really love him marry him and support his mission. Look at all the benefits you get and think positive. Why do  you want him to get out? Does he have a career lined up is he a college graduate? \nGetting out that way is not the answer. You want him to do that for you? What are you willing to sacrifice for him? Comon Think Straight!
492760
whether my boyfriend will ask me to marry him..?
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
356957
Well ask yourself do you think he loves you enough that you guys have a chance of getting married? Do you love him or do you love the whole idea of being married?? I believe that whatever happens later, will eventually happen. He can change his mind later on and so can you. I dont see why you guys should break up if you love him.