what do you do when you have a boyfreind & he talks to ohter girls on the phone or talks to them at school.?
108970
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
852001
well maybe something happened at boarding school that he is too embarressed to talk to you guys about. I would get him alone and ask him what hapened and tell him that your there for him and see if that works
613142
just talk to him... i felt the way u feel now, but i've gotten over it and now i talk to lots of cute boys...
399343
It seems like you dont really trust him in my opinion. You say he goes on myspace and talks to girls 24/7, they could just be friends. Another reason he could be going on is to meet a new girl. Sorry to tell you this. You should just ask him why he goes on myspace on the time, he could say just to meet new people. But all girls, cooooome oooon lol. No boy who has a girlfriend would go on myspace just to talk to girls. It really seems like this guy is playing you girl, and you do not need that in your life. You should go talk to him and see what he has to say. When you do note how he reacts. If he reacts all calm hes probably just trying to make some friends. If he reacts all negative like 'why are you accusing me of cheatin, yea theyre girls, but theyre friends' ya boy is most likely two playing you. If you stil dont know what to do you should get a myspace account and talk to some guys 'just for fun and friends' the same time amount that he does, mabey that will fix him.
211314
If you go to the same school....I know this sounds weird...But look at him as much as possible. I have this problem, but its not so bad anymore. I saw him talking to his friends and flirting with other girls and then I realized that he isnt worth my time. Maybe your guy SEEMS nice, but trust me, there's a jerk somewhere inside him...
1171233
Girl don't waste your time on that boy.  Either confront him or dump him or both.  Dont let him act like hes a playa.  Youll have the power when you DUMP HIM!!
223564
Boys are actually really simple creatures.  They're pretty much up front.  They don't have all the secret codes embedded in their hearts like we women do.  Just call, leave a message and tell how you feel.  Make it heartfelt and sincere.  Tell him that you're very sorry and you'll do whatever it takes to make it right again, but you can't start to fix it if he won't talk to you.  He'll come around.  Just don't bug him.  Make it clear that you care, just don't make him angry.  If he needs time, give him time but let him know you'll be there when he's ready to come around.
841472
you must be in your primary classes..\n\njust have a convo with the kid.. he must be exploring all these new changes in him.... like hormonal... lol.. when these kick in, boys do get a little clingy!
601341
follow what your heart tells you to. just dont lead all three of them on because thats a way to get nasty rumors started about you. especially since boys tend to talk more than us women do.
922942
first of all change your vibe! ok so heres wat u do.you guys should like go out u know just 4 fun ask him if he wants to come to the movie with u & some friends. when you are there  and you sitting at the movie try to sit next to him.whilyou are there and every one else is watching the movie tap on the shoulder and act like you are confused about what has just happend.when he "helps" you .let him watch the movie 2 seconds later tap him again smile and say thanks i'm glade you're here and play with his fingers at the same time.If you can't go to the movies do it at school in class when no one is looking!
174392
ignore him. typical stupid middle/high school drama. let the guys grow up a bit and things will start to make more sense.
1132254
concentrate on school and quit worrying about boys....
738977
Wait until you are out of school before you get serious with a boy.\nThey are not worth you loosing your self respect!\nYou are going to grow as a person and your understanding of life is going to change so much from the time you are 16 until you are 25 to 30 years of age.\nI wish my girls were on right now, they didn't believe me when I told them this, but now they are 27 and 30 and mom (me) becomes so much smarter every day.
839575
Just ignore him and keep hanging with your friends.  If he keeps it up then maybe you should go talk to the principal, even though it's his dad, he still has a responsibilty for other students in the school!
1143158
it is so sad... kids can be the worse ppl in the world\nyou have to talk with your son and let him know that those kids can not put him down and by trying so they will put themselves down.\nlet him know that those kids are very stupid and they have no brain in their big head to think with.\nand having a girl friend is not a big deal.... he has so much time and if he study hard and work to get a good education all girls will die to be with him\nsupport him but do not give him a hug and kiss in front of other kids at school...\nand may be you can talk with his teacher\nand one more thing try to make him a little football team out of school , may be they can play at weekends\nhe needs to be active\ngood luck
613301
well what i did i came and tested him by telling a girl that comes here to my school and she called him and said that he had gave her the number in a kick back but you should say that one of his homegurls said that he might need some one so now shes calling him if he fails you could either brake up after that conversation with your friend or keep the relationship knowing he is a complete cheater but if he passes give yourself a patt in the back cause im congradulating you cause you have a wonderful man ( mY man failed me :( but so what im over with him )
314172
You leave your boy friend right now and never return...\n\nHe got you and still talks about 16 year old and his own daughters girl friends..this guy is out of his mind and disgusting. \n\nIf you continue with him you will not only put your own future on stake but also, yours if any born daughters teenage life..Think seriously you are young you deserve much better than this leave him now before its too late.