Why does life have so many regrets and dissapointments?
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We are all living in the last days of this system of things and Jesus said that it would be difficult for everyone. But don't be angry with yourself; everyone makes bad choices at times. It's good that you realize that you have choices, though. God's word talks about "The Way" in which we can live happy lives, and you'll find that you have more choices than you thought possible. Contact any one of Jehovah's Witnesses that you meet, and they can show how to make better choices in your life.
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Because this world is not a happy one. Because life is not easy. because everyone fight with each other. because there is alot of tension at work, and how you get money to pay your rent, and how to maintain your relationships.\nBut I have hope that Heaven will be the substitute for this cruel world.\nsorry if i sounded pessimistic.
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Many people take life for granted because they have never seen the face of death.  They have no concept of their own mortality.  That is why the very young tend to be so daring in their behavior, often courting disaster because they believe it can't happen to them.  However, those who have lived some time and have had personal bereavements and near death experiences can appreciate life more because they know it is fragile, priceless and irreplaceable.
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everything cant go perfectly!! there has to be something different in your life, if everything goes right then there would be no excitment in your life.you have to have twist nd turns or you will get bored of life and you will get tired of everything going right, you will purposly do somthing back to make it go bad.
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Feelings can almost always be trusted to be true. People who have lived with hardship in their lives are wiser for the most part, because no one wants to go there again. Those who had comfortable,practically protected lives have no clue, and when their day comes, as it surely will, they will have no clue how to handle what is thrown their way. Those of us who have suffered hardships no how to appreciate life in a very special way.
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Thats a good question, life can sometimes be good. But other times it just sucks. LIfe isn't fair but it has its perks. I may seem like one of those sit in the corner hating life cutting her wrists girl to alot of people, but i really am not at least most of the time. I think life shouldn't be wasted trying to fit in. I do my best to stand out. I'm not popular and i'm perfectly happy with it. I have a group of freinds and i know that most of them are my real freinds because they accept me for who I am. Life doesn't suck unless you want it to suck. All those people who are doing drugs and drinking are wasting their lives away. Their future is nothing unless they focus on school. I am happy with the way i am, usually. I don't fit in, i don't do drugs, i do well in school, and i like to have good times with my friends. The best days of my life are the days where i just get to do something with my friends.....headbanging at a concert or just hanging out walking around outside. Those times are what makes life worth living.
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my answer to you is that with each step you take in life a lesson is learned, and with each mistake you make, you achieve growth.  Life is a wonderful adventure, so don't be afraid to explore it.  When you believe you can, you'll discover that even though the world is not easy, faith can lift you and give you wings you never knew you had....  so my dear don't ever EVER feel discouraged and ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and your DREAMS
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Well, we only have 1 life to live. Some people think they should live it to the fullest extent. \n\nUnless we are inside that persons head, we may never know why some people turn to drugs or alcohol, make stupid mistakes and/or ruin their lives. \n\nI don't think it because, as someone said, they didn't have God. Not everyone believes in God, and that's o.k. There are millions of people that don't believe in Him and they turned out to be successful, loving human beings. There are also millions of people who DO believe in Him and lived carelessly. \n\nEveryone knows that at some point death will find them. What we don't know is when. Why go to the grave regretting not doing something, even if that something had dire consiquences?
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I dont know why, but it's correct.... But when you realize how important and great that sth was, then you just can&#92;t stand the pain.....   \n\nIt is that people are never happy with what they have. They'll always ask for more coz they won't appreciate the beaty of what they have. In this way, we ruin beatuful relationships/friendships/and more, just  because we want sth better......
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NO!!! Those things are part of our self, who we really are- our "shadow" as some like to call it.  The things we most regret, are ashamed or wish never happened are just as important as those feelings/experiences of joy, love & true happiness.  You need to have balance.  You learn from these things, they have made you who you are today.  What dosen't kill us makes us stronger-it's cliche, but so true!!!  You are the sum of your parts, we are multi-faceted beings!!!
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Because we have so much. We never take the time to Thank God for it all. We never relize what something means to us until we loose it. Don't take Life For granted.
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people generally regret it and feel guilt
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If life wasn't this way we wouldn't apreciate it. And I mean imagine how boring life would be if everything was perfect. Remember that we come to this life to learn how to fix our mistakes. Thats a shame that you see life this way when life is a gift that we have borrowed remember that we have to live it the best we can't no matter how many rocks are on our way we have to still go thru them and move them out of our way to keep on going probably somehting happen to you who knows but hope but my advice will help you.
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Many times, in many areas of life, in just about anything.  It seems nowadays no one takes pride in anything they do, nor are they made accountable for mistakes.  Therefore, everything in general is not as good as it should be.
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Its funny how you can go through life so carefree and happy, until you fall in love..Then you feel what true happiness is like.  Then you lose that person and life can never go back to being the same, you're never complete, and life feels somewhat empty.\n\nI know it sucks now..but I want you to know that it gets better.  Life got much clearer one morning when I was late for work and I'm running around looking for my keys.  I searched everywhere...EVERYWHERE... eventually I just gave up.  I reached in my shirtpocket for gum and there are my keys.  Enlightenment reached.  Just lets it happen is the moral of the story, but remember chance favors a prepared mind.  Stay prepared cause life comes at you fast.
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I don't believe in regrets, most things happen for a reason or to teach a lesson.  I wouldn't change anything major.\n\nHowever there are a few times when I should've kept my mouth shut, and avoided hurting some of my friends.
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I don't regret anything.  I know that every decision I make is based on the information I had at the time and the way I was feeling.  Because of that, I know that every decision I made was the right one for the time.  Regret is a useless feeling that just wastes time and makes you feel sorry for yourself.  If you have things that you regret, just think of them as learning opportunities and try to make better decisions next time!