how do i ask out the lady i love when she is always with some one and i dont have the guts to talk to her?
104360
IF YOU HAVE A PHONE THAT HAS TEXT MESSAGEING ON IT SEND HER A REALLY SWEET TEXT MESSAGE OR EMAIL HER IF YOU GUYS TALK ONLINE TOGEATHER ALSO OR ASK HER OVER THE PHONE OR GET A CARD AND SOME FLOWERS AND ASK HER IN THE CARD......
401135
Ask her, not us, go on get and talk to her!!
883459
You could always ask her.\nOr ask him to ask her.\nOr not let it bother you - tough if she doesn't.
501018
Don't just call up to ask her out. Call to talk. Tell her that you miss her. See what she says. \n\nIf she agrees then great, ask her out! \n\nIf she says she is dating someone, then give her some time to deal with the current situation and if she wants to see you she can call. \n\nIf she says that she doesn't miss you, then you know the answer. \n\nYou can't just take her power away. It is her decision. Just tell her you miss her and want to see her. Then she can decide where and when. \n\nIf you have to decide, then think back. What is her favorite thing to do? That is what you should do. If you can't think of anything, then make her a kid again. Take her skating or for a picnic in the park. Be creative. I have no clue where you live to give you specific tips and there isn't a definite that I would know of anything specific. \n\nGood luck!
719951
Well asking someone out can be a very intimidating task. Just try to be yourself and keep it causual. Dont wait too long either cause if you do she might think you're not interested and move on. The best advice I could give you though is that you have nothing to loose and everything to gain, think about that.
491016
Walk up to her or call her and just ask.  And remember that she quite likely feels as awkward as you think you will.  You'll get over it and you really will survive- you probably will even have a good time on the date.
742282
just go up to her and say hey i think you're cool and i would like to get to know you better would you like to go out some time.\nthe worst she can do is say no and then at least you will know how she feels and you will be able to get over it.\n\nor if that doesn't work for you, then you can invite her out in a group situation that will take some of the preassure off of you.\ngood luck
372517
Talk to her about things you know you have in common. Try asking her out for pizza, let her know up front that it's a "just to get to know you better" type thing. Let the conversation lead itself. Ask her questions about what interests her.
1171840
well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
96272
be calm and think twice before you act\n don't take any desicion in hurry\n if you are dead sure then move on ask frankly to her itself about it
50198
possibly talk to her through the phone, notes or email so that her beauty can be avoided then when you feel more comfortable talk to her face to face
923015
"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.
329786
well she has to have some feelings for you or she wouldn't go out with you all I can say is ask her and talk to her maybe if you sit down and let her emotions out then she can move on and she might love you more for showing that you care and that you have a sensitive type as well.
1126604
man im in the same shit ..its crazy aint it ...but u just have to just ask her what she wanna do and jus let her know how u feel... and see where it goes
974529
Life seems terrible like that sometimes. I think you should face your fears & confront her. Tell he what you feel now & ask her if she feels the same or if there ever will be a chance of that happening. 1 of 2 things will happen if you do that.. yo might get lucky where she accepts your proposal or you may not be lucky where she will reject you. either way you will have a guaranteed answer without a loose end to haunt you for the rest of your life.\n\nIf you dont confront her, you wont know if there was ever a chance or if she simply didn't want to be with you. In this case you will forever be haunted by the questions beginning with 'what if..'.\nFurther more you would have created that pain all on your own from self-pity & disappointment in self pride as a man.\n\n\n...I've said my say now its time for you to do what you think is best for YOU.\n\nAnd finally.. if you do decide not to confront her & you find yourself losing her in time & space. Your only option will be to force yourself to forget her otherwise the pain will eat at you forever. How do you forget? Change your lifestyle & meet new people & create opportunities for yourself to fall in love with someone new.
228376
be yourself and just ask her thats not going to be that hard
1075725
just calm down...take a few breathers before you ask her. im in the same situation as you are. my friends are telling me to go for it and im just scared and im afraid that i will get toung tied too. just be yourself. act how you usually act around her. when you think its the right time, pull her over to the side, look her strait in the eyes and ask her. do NOT ramble on about how much you like her. that might creap her out alittle bit. just go for it and ask her strait forward if she wants to go out with you. good luck!!