why do inmates become gay after being in prison?
113505
A) You're describing situational homosexuality. Prisoners who otherwise identify as heterosexual engaging in homosexual acts while incarcerated will most often return to heterosexual relationships when released.\n\nB) Statistically, most child molesters are straight white men and most are known to their victim. Molestation is more a crime of opportunity than an indicator of sexual orientation. There have been many cases of outwardly heterosexual married men who have molested boys.
851296
Perhaps they were always gay and never came to terms with it until now.  (Some people don't come out until they are married, with children, etc. and they finally realize they are tired of lying.)\nPerhaps they have always been interested in trying homosexual relationships and only now do they feel confident enough to do so.\nPerhaps they aren't sure what they want and so are giving it a go.\n\nI think you have some pretty serious issues you need to work out with women.  I am a feminist, and I'm positive I've never "turned" a man gay.
357326
Probably under the Work Release Program, they allow inmates out to go to work, they have to go back and sleep at the prison. It would depends on allot of things I'm guessing, the prison he goes to, his behavior, ect. You could call around and ask, start with a lawyer, either yours or his.
108699
Sweetheart, I've been in the same boat except I was like 13 and he was 18. You're so very young, and i know you love him and he probably loves you too. But if they catch you even kissing him, he could be put away. Do you know what they do to guys like that in prison? Hopefully you don't. Listen honey, I know you want to be with him forever but trust me in that you're going to get older, your tastes are going to change, you have your whole life ahead of you, and it's not fair to him to make him wait. I had the same situation, and here I am, 7 years later, getting married to the most perfect guy in the world. It took me so long to realize what I wanted in a life partner, but I found it. And the guy I was in love with got married and had a beautiful family. So it all worked out and it can for you too. I'm sure he'll understand.\nBest of luck to you hon.
803282
What does that matter? They are being tried & convicted some to life in prison, some to death. Military prison is not like state prison either.
275633
In Antigua it was widely held that for females the act was let to happen solely for reproductive reasons and no feelings.  Then came Masters and Johnson and they concluded feeling and stuff transpired for both the male and the female, and aside from that I do not know.  Seems their are nerve ending which have sensation interpretations both ways.  Females in prison are forbidden whole bananas, hot dogs and the like.  One female climbed down through an air vent for spending time with two males in the cell below, what's that say?
424426
Your fiance was in prison and he still hasn't learned not to try to circumvent the law? sounds to me like he is lucky to be out in the first place.
1101004
what if the guy is in prison?
669106
Let me start by saying that Oz is not a good picture of what life really is like in prison... prisoners do not wander about all day long, kill eachother daily, get to decide who works in the kitchen,  etc.\n\nThat said, yes, people get anally raped in prison. The convicts outnumber the guards by sometimes as many as 75 to 1, so there's no way the guards can prevent every bad thing from happening, break up every fight, etc. Plus you are dealing with criminals who are surrounded by other criminals and have plenty of time to think about how to get away with more criminal acts without being caught. Prison life is very boring; one of the few ways the convicts have to entertain themselves is try to outsmart the guards. They find new ways to make weapons, smuggle things, hide things in their cells, and do harm to other inmates.\n\nIf the guards know about it, they stop it but it's hard for the guards to know about every single infraction.
1033637
Some people just don't care. And some people want to go to prison because they feel they get better treatment in jail than out in society.
42509
if your gay for can be sentenced to 10 yrs in jail with hard labor
581457
I hope when he gets out of prison yall are very happy with each other.  Course you will not be, because he's a pervert who gets off on young girls.  You are being used, don't be a victim, be the mature person you say you are.  This isn't rocket science.
42238
I would say it's a combination of genetic disposition (being born that way) and the environment one grows up in.  But as it is now, there has been minimal research done to prove whether one is born gay or not.  Of all the homosexuals I know personally, none have told me that they "chose" to be gay.
252054
A prisoner escapes from his prison where he had been kept for 15 years. As \nhe runs away, he finds a house and breaks into it. He finds a young couple \nin bed. He gets the guy out of bed, ties him up on a chair, ties up the \nwoman to the bed and while he gets on top of her, he kissed her on the neck, \nthen gets up, and goes to the bathroom. \n \nWhile he is there, the husband tells his wife: "Listen, this guy is a \nprisoner, look at his clothes! He probably spent a lot of time in prison, \nand has not seen a woman in years. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't \ncomplain, just do what he tells you, give him satisfaction. This guy must be \ndangerous, if he gets angry, he will kill both of us. Be strong, honey. I \nlove you" \n \n \n \nTo which the wife responds, "I am glad you think that way. Sure, he has not \nseen a woman in years, but he was not kissing my neck. He was whispering in \nmy ear. He told me that he found you very sexy, and asked if we kept any \nVaseline in the bathroom.
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Yes Homosexuals are discharged if it comes to light that they are gay serving in the military. "Don't ask don't tell policy", from the Clinton area. Historically speaking gays have been apart of every military action, in every civilization. There are some cases in which superior officers have put known gays in the US military on the front line or a very dangerous situation; knowing that they will be killed. Even worse they'll let them stay until peace time and then while on stateside have them discharged without honor.
229166
This is nothing I'm proud of,out of my life i've spent 11 years in prison.A prison cell is usually 8ft.x 8ft. That cell becomes your home.A bed,desk,sink,toilet,maybe a chair.Every decision you used to make in the world is gone.Now their made for you by the state.A person who is naturally a surviver,will adapt,one who isn't will have a rough way to go.It's not a life,it's excistence, one day at a time.You can make it easy, or you can make it hard on yourself.It no where, or way to live.
362009
I am not an expert, and not looking to do research right this minute, but my best guess is that you are referring to the problems people who have been released from placed like correctional institutions have re-entering society.\n\nAlthough most of us think of prison as a miserable place, as do the people in it, after being there for many years, it becomes home.  Prisoners develop a sense of security from the daily routine.  Much like with small children, they get comfort from knowing exactly what will happen when.  When to eat, what will be served, when to sleep, when to shower, etc.  There is no worry about jobs, bills, etc. either.\n\nSo even though it would seem like getting out of prison would be the BEST thing imaginable, for people who have been living that regimented lifestyle for many years, they often have a great deal of difficult adjusting to life on the outside.  Even though they were prisoners, which we think of as "hard" criminals, they often become very scared and depressed and overwhelmed by the demands of everyday life.  Where will I work, where will I LIVE, what will I eat, what will I drive, will I be able to handle all the responsibility.\n\nThe longer someone was institutionalized, the harder this change is.  Some need help from psychologists, and some, who have been in for the majority of their lives, never learn to cope.  That is often why they commit crimes and return.  Partly because they can't handle the freedom, and partly because the want to return to the "safety" of prison.\n\nThis may apply on different levels to different types of "institutions," but I have most commonly heard it discussed in reference to prison.