The best way to make female friends?
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I would set up an account online to make friends, put yourself into a local category so that you can make friends in your area fast. I have this same problem because a lot of the people my age (17) are not serious about college and usually do a lot of drugs and like to party a lot, where as i would rather watch a movie, go out shopping and dancing and stay clear of the things like drugs etc that get your mind of track. \nGood luck to you. Be a friend and you will make friends easily. You sound like a very nice person I am sure you will have no problems making friends.
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Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
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simple, you dont.\nyou just have to be yourself, be happy with who you are, be sociable and good mannered.  women will smell that.  and hunt you down soon enough.\n\nemphasis on being sociable. you cant be found if your home most of the time.
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How to make friends!\n\nBelieve it or not....... You can make more friends in a shorter time by becoming interested in other people \nrather than trying to get other people interested in you.\n\nSit back and think about it! Why should people be interested in you, unless you are first interested in them?\n\n \n\nMaking Friends\nMaking friends can be difficult, especially these days with so many peer pressures. You're the odd one out if your clothes are different, your hair is the wrong cut or colour, your shoes are bought on a budget and don't display the designer label, you happen to enjoy listening to the wrong kind of music, your folks are not as trendy as they should be, etc....etc...\n\nLet me tell you a secret!\nIf you want to develop a more pleasing personality and make friends.......... become genuinely interested in other people. Show kindness........ you may be wearing the latest designer label clothes, the hottest brand shoes and the coolest jewelry but if you display sourness and selfishness you'll have a battle ahead of you to make good friends.\n\nSmile\nSmile.....smile and continue to smile. It costs nothing, enriches those who receive it, happens in a flash but the memory lasts forever, it creates happiness in the home and classroom. A smile can not be bought, begged or borrowed, it comes from the heart. If you want other people to like you....... make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely!\n\nArguments\nSome people thrive on arguments, it gives them a sour disposition and creates a depressing atmosphere around them. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. If you are wrong admit it quickly and apologize. If the other person continues in an argumentative manner, excuse yourself and walk away. Don't bite..... as the saying goes.\n\nDoing the wrong thing!\nChoose your friends carefully. If others try to persuade you to smoke, take illicit drugs, steal, gamble, fight etc... dare to say NO. Doing the wrong thing is the quickest way to lose friends.... honest, good and upright friends. Stay on the right track and be a respected citizen with a sincere reputation. Remain on the right side of the law! Deep down in your heart you know what is right and good. You know when to say 'no' and you know when its time to walk away.\n\nBe Strong!\nBeing mentally strong is not always easy but let me assure you..... the more you practice it the easier it becomes. Soon those who thought they were trendy will want to dress like you, talk like you and be with you because you have a personality which is different. People like being different! Think about it.... if you dressed and acted like 10 million other people, are you different? NO........ So be yourself and don't give in to those horrifying peer pressures.\n\nDanger!\nIt is dangerous to follow a crowd. Crowds get lost in even bigger crowds. By being an individual with your own personality you can achieve the very best experiences in your life. You may not ever have many friends but let me tell you that it is better to have one good friend than ten dishonest friends who will stab you in the back at the very first opportunity that arises. You're treading on dangerous ground if you mix with the wrong type of 'friends'.\n\nGood luck
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Just be yourself. Get out there and mingle. Go out with a buddy and have them help you meet new people.
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try to make friends with people of the same gender.
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Smile and be yourself. Be friendly. If it's a specific girl, talk to her. Ask her how her weekend was or about a class. Or compliment her. Girls love compliments.
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Depending on our situation meeting people to become friends with can be very easy or extremely difficult. Clubs, local organizations activities, schools, church, libraries, book stores, gyms, jogging, parks, beach, lakes, malls, etc. can all be places to meet new people. Once you’ve met them talking and keeping the person interested is probably the most important thing.\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask simple friendly questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. \n\nFor other topics to talk about you can search the internet about things that you, or the people you will be talking with, are interested in. If you like games, perhaps search for the latest information about the x-box 360 games, pc games, ps3, revolution, etc. If you like tv-shows, movies, books, pets, etc. A few jokes from time to time can also be a great ice breaker. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful today as it was when it was written.
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First off, most girls do NOT like being referred to as Chicks.Other than that, meeting women involves risk and alot of trial and error. Get out more! Go to where girls/women are likely to be and always ask your friends if they know female friends who would like to meet someone.Saying Hi to a random girl is a good way to start a conversation. Avoid pickup lines, fancy outfits, and bar scenes and just be yourself. Being confident about yourself and curious about other people is very appealing to most women(at least in my experience). Don't see rejection for a date as failure, simply move on and accept advice from your rejector if she gives you any.
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
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making friends with guys can be simple..\n\njust be urself..hang out wit some guy friends u can go along with..speak up more, especially when ur wit ur guy friends..have genuine interest in what they talk about..listen to them talk, even if u dun understand a s**t..\n\ntalk about what they like - soccer, football, cars, bikes..u dun need to understand what thing they are saying, but just have genuine interest in what u ask or listen..\n\nask them questions about themselves - guys like talking about themselves..ask them questions about what they are talking about - it shows u got interest in wad they are saying.. u can always say u dun understand even after they explain and they'll just understand that..but if u do understand, that mIgHt impress them and they wun mind u hanging out wit them..\n\ndo whatever is being urself, even if ur cracking lame (not too lame!) jokes but not infront of guys u barely know..
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Depending on our situation meeting people to become friends with can be very easy or extremely difficult. Clubs, local organizations activities, schools, church, libraries, book stores, gyms, jogging, parks, beach, lakes, malls, etc. can all be places to meet new people. Once you’ve met them talking and keeping the person interested is probably the most important thing.\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask simple friendly questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice.\n\nFor other topics to talk about you can search the internet about things that you, or the people you will be talking with, are interested in. If you like games, perhaps search for the latest information about the x-box 360 games, pc games, ps3, revolution, etc. If you like tv-shows, movies, books, pets, etc. A few jokes from time to time can also be a great ice breaker.\n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguments they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguments. "The only way to get the berst of an argument is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerely.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful today as it was when it was written.\n\nI
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Try making friends with guys cause woman friends they talk alot crap about each other.
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1.  Decide who you'd like to be friends with (I.E. popular people, gothics, jocks, etc)\n2. At lunchtime, ask if you can sit at their table, in an empty seat. If there isn't an empty seat, or they say no, sit at another table near them.\n3. Some cliques cannot be infiltrated fast. Some can be infiltrated easily. Pick one!\n4. If this all fails, start to dress like them, and say hello in the hallway.\n5. If that fails, throw a party and invite everyone at your school. Then you'll have an exuse to talk to everybody you want to be friends with.\n6. If EVERYTHING fails, be friends with people who really want to be friends with you. They might be more fun than you thought. \n\n* Be nice. No one likes a complete snob. Until you get the ins with the group you want to be a member of, its important not to offend anyone.\n* Try making friends with people in one of your classes that are the member of your chosen clique first. It's a lot easier to ask someone for the math homework than to randomly strike up a conversation in the hallway. This could give you the access point you need to get in to the group. \n\n* This isn't TOTALLY foolproof. Deal.
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First you have to know her but make sure you don't become her "friend", get the point?  \n\nIf she thinks of you as just a "friend", it's game over....\nthere are plenty of tips around the internet\n\nbut one of the most common is to be funny\nyou don't necessarily have to be nice and don't be rude\nbe intriguing.
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Try volunteering for something in your community. Go to the library. Join a gym. Ask your friends to set you up on dates. Play a co-ed recreation sport like softball. Elections are on the way. Volunteer your time to a candidate that you like. You will meet many new people that way. Just think outside the norm. Do things that you enjoy and eventually you could meet a woman that enjoys the things you do.
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how to make friends on the internet. Its easy .talk to people on chat lines,or,send e mails. The most important rule is be your self.and your self only.Good luck with your new friends.