My best friend has been acting kind of weird lately. I'm worried. What should I do/say?
115201
I agree with sixseven. Sit down with her and ask her to tell you what the problem is, but do it nicely. If she doesn't want to talk about it then giver her her space and as sixseven said, be there for her and let her know that when she's ready to talk, you're ready to listen. Good luck.
205917
Girl u need to check your best friend. It may not be anything going on but just sit her down and ask her. My best friend is a boy and every girlfriend he get has a problem with our relationship. We hold hands and hug each other, we take each other out to eat all the time, i even spend a night or two at his house. But i don't mess around with him. So just ask your best friend  whats the deal. And if you trust your boyfriend and claims nothing is there then drop it.
378033
If she has been your best friend for a long time, I would encourage you to not make a hasty decision. You can find friends (and even boyfriends) anywhere, but best friends take years to grow. You should do your best to save this friendship before calling it quits.\n\nMy advice is talk to her before you take the final step of "de-friending" her. Explain to her that you've valued her friendship, but that her current behavior isn't excusable. Confront her about her rudeness, and don't be afraid to name specific times and places where she acted like a bee-yotch. She apparently USED to act nice, because otherwise you never would have been friends with her. Remind her of those days. Finally, tell her (in very clear terms) that if she doesn't start acting right, you want nothing to do with her.\n\nThis puts all of the pressure on her, see? If she changes her evil ways, then you've kept your best friend and are better off than before. If she doesn't, at least it isn't your fault that the friendship ended. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully your friend will see the light, but if not... at least the blame will be on her head, not yours.
624887
Just talk to him, tell him you noticed he's been distant lately and that you are concerned. IT could be many things, he might be having problems at home. Best of luck!
608289
If she considers you  her best friend, then she obviously cares deeply for you.  Tell her how much it hurts you, and how you feel about her.  Maybe she's thinking the same thing.  What can it hurt?  If she comes right out and says, " I don't feel that way about you," you are losing nothing.  And you will get over it.  Trust me.  I wanted to kill myself over one.  Now, I look back, and WHAT A LOSER!!  What in the WORLD did I see in that guy??  Good luck.  Tell her!
199717
I stopped talking to my best friend for the first 18 years of my life becaue her emotional problems were getting so bad I coulnd't deal with it anymore. She wasn't fun anymore. Yet I miss her sometimes terribly.\nI moved out of town and we stopped talking. When I went back to my hometown 20 years later and drove past her house there she was going inside and I just kept driving. We considered ourselves sisters.\nSometimes you just have to make the break.\nYou need to tell her you need some time to yourself.\nAnd not feel guilty.\nTell her you can't keep driving her around and if she won't get her license you can't help her anymore. You will be doing her a big favor. \nTell her she needs to be independent from you. Tell her your tired and worn out and can't help her any more. It won't stop until you tell her.\nEither that or just move to another town.
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
203264
Tell her how you feel! Let her know it's bothering you. If she truly is your best friend,and truly cares about you(like you do her) she will understand!\n\n             -hope it helps-\n                  lots of luv!
201104
You should talk to him and ask him what the problem is. If he is truely your friend he should acknowledge you anytime any place.
157029
Talk to him, let him know how you feel.  But also let him know that the friendship is very important to you.  So if he doesn't feel the same way (or is nervous/scared), then make sure he knows how much you value his friendship.
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
692452
4 all the idiots out there her question was:\n\nsometimes i worry about my best friend so much that he thinks im trying to protect him,?\nbut the truth is i am trying to protect him. i luv him to death. he tells me to chill out, he dosnt want me getting an olsar am i just too worried or what. does he think im crazy? \n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 hour ago\nhe just had surjery and i was nervous all of that day. for some reason i think something bad would happen and i wouldnt have him anymore. (ive been friends with him since he was 2)\n\nAnd i wil say that tell him that "i was just scared and worried if something bad hapened to u, and i m ur friend so i care about u, all my life i have been ur  friend, so doesnt that doesnt that mean anything to me?" he will understand, u r right, i mean u were just scared and worried about him , especialy wen he was havin a surgery and plus u have been wit him 4 a loooong time so u were scared 2 loose him. thats all, it happens...dont worry\ngood luck
686144
If she is really your best friend she will understand that you are just problably pmsing and you guys sholud just talk about it if she is really your best friend you guys should have no problem talking this over just relax and wait. things will work out for the best.
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
46150
You need to let this friendship go. Most likely she's going to do it again, but this time it'll be worst. Trust me. She'll loose your trust. People change as they grow older, and it's not always for the better. At least you've realized she's not the person you thought she was and if you continue to be her best friend then you're putting yourself in a situation where you'll probably get hurt in the end. Move on.