why cant i have good sex anymore?
112054
because sex is just sex. there's more to interaction than just thrusts. maybe you should seek out something more to an experience than just a primitive urge to spread yo sh*t. but i could be wrong.
804363
Sex is natural, sex is good. Only thang is, love takes work and most people nowadays don't have "time". They want what they want when they want it and they dont want last weeks model..Sadly it seems americans are becoming more and more shallow and materialistic in general terms..It's what MTV is teaching em..Have fun now, pay later...Me...Me...Me... The great news is, there are still a huge amount of loving, caring humans around..I meet them all the time. Wait for one, you'll catch em...In the meantime, have lots's of safe sex and enjoy your precious life!   Kevin
1160804
My sex drive has declined slightly over the years (I'm almost 52).  I've been married to the same incredibly beautiful woman for 31 years and we still go at it like teenagers.  No, strike that, no teenager ever had sex as good as we have.\n\nI have to say that the reason is probably looking at you in the mirror every morning.  From talking to my friends, the reason most men lost interest is because their women lost interest.  Keep it up and don't be afraid to experiment.  A recent experiment with my wife and I has had unbelievable benefits.
723725
i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
872921
Ohhhhhhh, well it is hard when others are around and u can't make much noise.  That could be a key factor.  Maybe try some new positions, change it up.  Lots of foreplay is also what most girls are looking for.
1163167
can be stress.\ncan be you need variety.\ncan be your diet.\ncan be you need more foreplay.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
1099406
Sheesh!\nYou need to abstain from sex if it is draining the life force out of you.\nYou've got to stop enjoying yourself so much and start navigating this hell we call our lives. \nSmarten up and get happy, damnit!
280335
Oh my goodness I had this same problem, This is what I did. I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I CLEAR MY MIND AND BE FOCUSED WHAT I'M DOING.HAVE TO BE TURNED ON! YOU HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO PLEASE YOU!!!  I was w/ my ex for 5 yrs. I though I had plenty of organisms until I met my fiance SO that goes back to ya man has to know what he's doing!
419490
I'm 43 and i found that i lasted longer because i'm more in tune with my body. It helps to be with the right partner someone you have feelings for. I can't just have proper sex with people i don't really know anymore. What i found that effected my performance where: alcohol, smoking, guilt, worries, nervousness and depresion. I had to clear the reckage of my past and get in touch with myself. The calmer and peaseful my life is, the better my sex life is. I hope this helps you and good luck.
118720
You probably need to find some sex books and try new things....BE VERY OPEN MINDED!!!!!!
559731
you are just getting old. nothing wrong with that. Get surgery to get it tightened up, or stop having sex for a week or so to let it go back to normal. the very last thing you could do is get a new partener - one with a larger member. That will solve everything.
128981
I am unsure why you do this. Is is not healthy for you. Maybe you are making love or doing floorplay with the wrong sex. Find yourself and see who you are. Maybe you are thinking you like men but really you don't Be honest to yourself and maybe good things will arrouse you sooner than later. You seem to have a lot of sexual problems. See a doctor or councler and they might beable to help you. For get about sex all together. Go without any for 6 months and then try again.
1036119
well try meditating or a cold shower or pick up a bible that should help if not go to a sex therapist.
111896
Love is good because God meant for it to be that way!  Sex is not always good. Sex was meant to be something that was enjoyed between a husband and his wife. We as humans are destroying what God made good!
1064467
I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
942947
it could be a sign of infection.  if you have been having unprotected sex, you should go to a clinic or your doctor and get tested.