I'm falling in love with a China man, we working at same company. How I should do??????
116908
Hi ... He isn't married is he? If not married, do you know if he feels the same way about you? If you don't know if he feels the same way, maybe you can invite him out to dinner, a movie or the park with you. \n\nI say this because as someone else said he might be shy, he might feel the same way about you but is afraid to ask you out or let you know how he feels. \n\nIf there is something you know you both have in common, strike up a conversation about it and see where it goes. If you find he does feel the same way about you and he doesn't ask, then I would say, just blurt it out and just ask him if he would like to go out with you sometime. (sometimes guys need a little nudge .. lol)\n\nDoes the company where you work have rules about co-workers dating one another? If so this might be a problem. If not let your hair down and go for it !!!\n\nI wish you all the best life has to offer ... take care, buh bye.
236767
It's going to be pretty tough!!!\n\nBut ask yourself a few questions.\n\n1> Do you to continue this relationship because it MAY have a chance to grow into LOVE... and thus marriage?\n- if you do not believe SHE is the woman you could marry... then cut it off.... you can't "date" someone so far away, and it's not fair to them, as they should be trying to find someone close to them that will care for them.\n\n2> Do you EVER intend to move to Korea?\n- if not... how likely is it that she will ever move to wherever you are? If these things aren't likely... cut it off.\n\nYou can have friends in another country... and I highly recommend that the two of you stay in touch.\n\nBUT.... think about the questions above.... don't cause yourself heartache.... and especially do not cause her heartache.
912080
You better be really sure he likes you too, or you could lose your job.  Most guys would be flattered regardless of how they felt and would probably not report you to your manager if you tried, but you have to decide if the risk is worth it.
899080
ask him about the company and how it is doing and what his job is about and how hard was it to get that job and education it took to acheive it. personally ask him about his family and where he lives and what his personal intersts are. also talk about any improvements that you would like to see happen with the company  and ask him what he would like to see for improvements. relax and realize he just wants to get to know you as a person and co worker and if he can depend on you to back him up in a bind. relax and be yourself
631705
Be blunt just come right out and tell him you are in love with him and if that dont work they are a lot of men out there. stop wasting you time you dont live forever. maybe when you are not around he may miss you. and come looking for you. you never know.
554786
Be yourself a fully as you can when you are around him.  If he is meant for you he will see you and fall in love.  Being someone else will never work even though it may seem more likely.
595803
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
972755
First of all, wow, what a lot of venom in these answers! I was in a very similar situation in Asia actually. Just control yourself. Take a deep breath and move on. The feelings will pass. Sounds like you don't want to fire her but want to remove the temptation  - if she is coming on to you, you'd better nip it in the bud now - don't let her get her hooks into you or you are dead ! I can't imagine the other posters have never been tempted by another - at least you are honest about it. I'd somehow make it clear to the interpreter that you have no interest in a relationship with her (regardless of your present urges) and see what happens. She'll likely move on.\nGood luck - don't do anything stupid - stay focused - you'll be OK
837116
Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
726762
well, if you are falling for him and he still has the feelings for you then go ahead. The nice thing about your relationship with him is that you two know each other very well due to the friendship you two have shared.
602974
Dont Wait. Continue On with Your Life. You seem to be a Sweet Person. You will Make a Man Honored and Happy to be with You.
733808
I had two workplace romances a long time ago.  Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up.  How long have you worked with him?  Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak?  If so, keep away.  If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
92743
I would say, don't make the first move.  You could friendly flirt and see where things go, but don't make this hugely bold move that could cost him his job.  On a professional level,  you do still have to take his career into consideration.  Furthermore, what if things go on between you two and you end up with a crappy grade anyway...that'd make things a wee bit odd between the two of you.  good luck with this one!
220836
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
529663
The very best decision is met him and get involved physically and emotionally. How it will work to you? Did you satisfies? or ask yourself did you like more? Is he makes you happy? If this question answer you YES, Then thats the time you will provide him everything being partner and give canadian migrant. Next step is get a lawyer to help you.  Be careful. But the only thing I can tell you. PILIPINO are nice people.
37462
First of all (no offense im also foreign) you have to learn english. For starters "I am a romantic and honest man. I work as an engineer." After that your pretty much set. I hope you can understand this.  : )
225521
Your first problem is that you work with him. Relationships at work never work out for the best. You would have to keep it on a professional level at work. Then if you guys broke up you would have to see that person everyday. Maybe he likes you but doesn't want to take the chance of going through all of this. Think this one through more and decide if it's really a good idea.