For the mothers in the world, would u allow your son to get away with this crap ?
115420
Goodness.. seems like you are an in-law in an outlaw situation.\n\nThat's sad that your brother-in-law is not supporting you and your wife with helping out with your mother-in-law in her difficult times with cancer, and on top of it, he's taking advantage of your mother-in-laws good nature with taking the car then not paying her for it properly as he promised.\n\nNo, I personally would not allow my son to treat me this way, or at least I would like to think I wouldn't, but my son is quite young, and has a diagnosis that may prevent him from being gainfully employed in the future...he's smart as a whip, but he has social skill challenges... so I can't say I wouldn't bend my own words when he is older.\n\nI have a simular situation with my grandmother-in-law, she has a family member that lives with her and doesn't keep a job, and does some unacceptable things, but it is her choice alone that allows for him to be there and to take advantage of her in this manner.  Even if he ends up putting her into bankruptcy, it is her choice to support him, and I really can't say or legally do anything about it.  \n\nIf your mother-in-law accepts this behavior from her son, that is her choice, it's not right, but still her choice. She is the only one with the power to change how he treats her, not you or your wife, but I'd love to see you get a second set of keys and repo this vehicle and then see how fast he comes to see your mother-in-law !!
1113427
I'd tell off my mother-in-law! \n\nI'd tell her it is NOT okay to hit me, it is not okay to put me down in front of my children, her son CHOSE me so she needs to forget aout his ex, she needs to stop saying she wants to fins him a new wife, she needs to stop lying, she needs to stop steeling my things, especially my underwear, and she needs to keep her nose in her own business. I know hoe to keep my man happy, while hers is walking out the door every month becuase he's fed up of her. If she's not careful, one of these time's he's not going to come back.
649826
no you are being foolish!  your boyfriend seems to care enough about your son to want to make him a better person by correcting his bad behavior.  If you ask your boyfriend to watch your son, then tell him not to correct him cause you are his mother, that is just wrong.  if you are letting your son get away with things, then you need your boyfriend to step in, cause it sounds like you are doing your son no favors, do you really think that he will be allowed to get away with the things that you let him get away with in school or society?  Incase you are unsure about the correct answer, it is NO.  And yes a lot of kids act up the way your son is, but that just means that they are being raised badly also, so dont base your judgemant on how other children are acting.
1100446
Give him whatever he desires behind your mom's back....
815715
If het dared to make a commotion at my son's funeral. My mates and I would put them in hospital before the police could get them.\nThen they could re-think their views in bed for a few weeks.
1120647
I would knock the hell outta my mans baby mama...she is always trying to hurt him with his son and fails to take proper care of the child---ohh and did I mention how she uses the money to pay cell phone bills?...watch out b*tch because we know what you been doing and soon he will be living with us!!!
533098
Yes...up until the time they are a legal adult.  Maybe parents should think about this before allowing so much permissiveness in their family. I am a strict Mother(no corporal punishment...but lots of consistency and time out and good choice/ bad choice options). I feel it is my duty, and moral responsibility to raise well mannered and caring people. I KNOW I am responsible for my children's actions.
1073833
The same thing here. My man's mother more than awful. She's one of those "christains" that quotes the bible and tell you that you're going to hell, but she does every evil thing there is to do. She stole from him, forged his income tax return, lied and manipulate every situation and she told me that if I was to concieve a child, she didn't want no parts of it. I'm writing a book about my experiences with her drama. I ignored her. I stopped playing nice with her after she attack him when he was in the ER. I told her exactly what I thought of her and I ignore her. Eventually, he cut her loose. It was his decision. It's been a year now since we last heard from her. Life has been great and less stressful without her.
96916
yes/my son is a policeman.one time he picked up the son a wealthy ,noted person in our town.the fellow cussed my son all the way on his ride to jail>when the arrived at the intake the fellow called him more names and said he would have my sons jod,my son still acted in a profenal way,then own the way upstairs he told my son that he would kill his mother(me)just when he said that my son triped him.the drugs he had hid came fallen out.this fellow is now serving time not just for drugs but for threats.
546803
IF I CAUGHT MY MOTHER HAVING SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND, I WOULD HAVE NOTHING 2 SAY 2 EITHER ONE...I WOULD DEFINITELY HATE THE GUY & HATE MY MOTHER 4 A WHILE BUT EVENTUALLY I WOULD 4GIVE MY MOTHER...BOYFRIENDS COME AND GO BUT MOTHERS ARE 4EVA NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION...4GIVE BUT NEVER 4GET...
466076
well i always said to myself if that is the only way i could make sure my kids had clothes on there back a roof over there head and food in there bellies yes i would do it. no questions ask if noone else is going to look after then it better be me and noone said the kids needed to know what the mother was doing. but i dont need to do that.
309469
I'm a mom and you just told me.. see how simple that was...\n\nOk when my son got a speeding ticket.. well Ya.. so like First have the ticket paid.. next ?\n\nMom, i made a really big mistake and i am so so sorry.. I know i am in the wrong.. and it was my fault.. i was in a rush to get?????????? and well i got a ticket.. But Wait... I have already paid for it and took the responisbility for it..  \n\nNow if you are on her insurance like my son.. here is what you can do.. Go to the driving class and take it.. it will then come off your record..and her insurance will not go up..\n\nwell good luck.. O bring gift to mom.. we love gifts it will ease the blow..  Walmart earings $2.99 are cheep and it will make us happy.. or get picked flowers.. or take her out to dinner.. or clean the entire house. or get a DVD and have a movie night.. But make sure you are in good turms with her..\n\nDid you know Honny attracts bees but crap attracts maggotts.  Get it.. sweet talk.. love moma Giggles.
809844
yes it is possible but i would not say u should do it if u cant be honest with them who can you be honest with take it from me i was sexually active behind me moms back and now i am 16 with a 6 month old baby im not saying i dont love my son i jus wish i would have told my mom then i would have known that this could have happend befor it did
409619
I would imagine that would be possible if you were to show that the parents are incapable or unwilling to care for the child and provide a safe environment.  It would probably be a long, slow process; however, if the child is in an abusive or drug oriented situation, it would be worth the effort to protect the child.  Unfortunately, it may depend on a judge and we have seen lately how they rule on a lot of cases against people who should be in prison.
1185826
Absolutely not. For one thing it is against the law. Not to mention he is a liar and cheat and he used you and your son. I for one don't want these kind of people in my country. But I don't mean people of his nationality, I mean  lying , cheating s.o.b.'s. Don't give him anything except a shove to get him headed back to his own country. Then, you won't have to acknowledge him as the father of your child. Don't get me wrong, your boy should absolutely know and understand his heritage. But he does not have to learn that it is a raciest one. I guess I don't understand these things clearly. Why do people who hate Americans so much go to such extremes to be one?
1052013
dude thats a horrible thing a parent could tell their child....id be pretty pissed, hurt, and confused...
345555
I'd be an outside mom and keep a close eye on my son and the others. If some kid spit on my son, they're parents would get a visit from me and be told I'm not putting up with it and they need to teach that kid of theirs some manners. I could care less what they thought of me...my kids come first and I fight their battles.