Should i make the first move?
117089
It's on your mind enough for you to post a question here. So if you want to so much then yes, you have our encouragement. That way you will know for sure if he's ready for you or not. If he kisses you back then booya, otherwise at least you will no longer be guessing and can move on to your next target. :)
717539
Just call him and ask if he'd like to grab a cup of coffee or something. You don't always have to wait for the guy to make the first move. A lot of guys like it when the girl makes a  move first. He is probably sitting at home and thinking the same thing. Besides, the  worst that could happen is he might say no. Although I have to say, if he exchanged phone numbers with you in the first place, its more than likely that he'll say yes. Call him! And if he does say no, then fuck it! There was life before him, there'll be life after him.\n\nOh and by the way, notice how almost ALL of the guys here said to call him? That might be a clue. Good Luck! :)
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
611691
Sometimes, men actually want women to make the first move.  take me for example: i have never really had a whole lot of relationships, but when i got together with my fiance, i made all of the moves, except the first kiss.  I was quite often uncomfortable making the first moves because i was unsure of how she would react.  On the night of our first kiss, i really liked how sweet and sincere the kiss ended up being.  And i know that i would not have made my move that night, because i was far too nervous.  She could see this, and decided to take initiative.  I personally liked it.  It also shows me that the woman knows what she wants, versus "needs" the guy to make decisions all the time.  By the way, it sounds like if he doesn't really look at you, he might be a little nervous around you, and is unsure of how you'd react if he asked you. Go for it!!  I think that most men don't mind if a woman takes initiative, unless that man is insecure about himself and needs to feel "macho" or something by being the decision maker.
61878
Usually a guy would make the first move if he's initially attracted to the girl.\n\nIn other cases, a guy would feel he's out of her league, and not even bother, unless she gives him buying signals (smiles, stares, etc).\n\nAlso, a guy wouldn't mind if the girl made the first move. If you're thinking about doing it, try it. The guy would be really flattered.
395255
If I see someone I like, then yes I will make the first move.
349732
u can make the first move. not sexually if u don't want to but jus walk up to him and tell him how u feel. but i do recommend that you prepare for the good and the bad. after you tell him how u feel wait for his reaction and if he says he likes you then it's good but if he says he only likes you as a friend don't get mad jus say "ok" and "well i guess i'll see you around" then leave.
299589
You can make the first move if you want to or fear you may lose the chance.  But hold out if you want.  Just because you haven't been with someone for a year shouldn't make you a desperate person.\nEnjoy your time off :)
32202
It sounds like he likes you, so if he is too shy to make the first move, it may be up to you to make it. Try asking him if he has seen, or wants to see  a certain movie that is playing. Then say you want to see it too, but have no one to go with... He might just get the hint, if not, then say, "Hey, why don't we go together!?" That way he will know you are not adverse to going out with him and from there, he SHOULD take it. Good Luck.
481415
if it is a new friend then go for her/him first. seconds suck ya kno. but if they r really close to u, talk to them about it.
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
452348
well, i guess you should make the first move.If she avoids you or rejects your proposal, then back off. There is surely someone more interesting around and who might be waiting for your proposal.
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
151170
One of the oldest questions in the world.... It really depends on age and maturity the guy... I guess you could ask or make the first move and ask him out..IF you are grown up enough to date..
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
697304
If I where you I would wait for the guy to make the first move.