i am sent back to my country without doing anything wrong. My air ticket wasted. my sister is more depress.?
117290
im very sorry, welcome to u.s.
883835
Ive got the same problem with my -- 'out-laws' But luckily for me they are going abroad this year so we are safe. Next year might be different though cos we've had some turbulent times and I dont think I will ever feel the same about them again.\n\nI would try and keep it nice for the children we have but if it weren't for them I wouldn't be bothering.
606279
Personally, I just lost my dad last month.  I'm still dealing.  It takes a while but the one thing you have to keep in mind is that she was here for a reason.  Whether or not there is an afterlife is irrelevent.  Each person that crosses your path, each person you interact with is there for a reason.  Whether its to teach you something or point you in the direction youre meant to go, there is a purpose.  You may miss her, but if you spend the rest of your life grieving you are not living.  You are lost in the past and moving forward because you have no alternative.  I can assure you, that is not what she would want.  I look at it this way, when you truly care for someone, you give them a piece of yourself.  You have given them your love, your support, your caring, whatever...its a part of you.  No matter where you go, they will always have that.  It is not something tangible that can be taken away or lost.  Your sister will be with you forever.  Nothing can change that..not even death.  'Sides, in my opinion death is just a speed bump in this thing called life, not an end.
650402
Be careful what you wish for. You might get it.  My little brother was killed in Iraq, and trust me, I would give just about anything to have him back--even for just a few minutes.  Be happy you have her.  As much as it may suck sometimes, the alternative is much worse.
582571
Oh thank you! Your pretty cool too little sis. Yeah thats right everyone were sisters. Thats why she compleimenting me. Also because she wants concert tickets to see shakira and i have money. Pam i'll think about it.
591850
I'm sorry to hear about your sister's accident, but am glad she's doing better!\n\nThere are two sides to this- One, I feel terrible that because of your sister's dreadful accident, you did not get to have the wedding you had planned. It seems like you should definitely be able to have a "do-over", and hold a full-fledged wedding if that's what you want to do!\n\nHowever, here's the etiquette for this situation: You could have postponed, but you chose to get married in a simple ceremony at the chapel. So, you've already had your wedding. Staging a fake one is not really appropriate. It would, however, be fine to hold a reception celebrating the marriage:\n\nMr. Brian Smith and Mrs. Mary Jones were married\nFriday, March 17th 2006\nSt. Joseph's Hospital Chapel\nNew York, NY \n\nPlease join us in celebrating\nat a reception in their honor\nSaturday, June 18th 2006\n3 o'clock in the afternoon\nNew York Radisson Ballroom\nNew York, NY\n\nMr. and Mrs. Bridesparents\n\nIf you wish to go ahead and stage a redo, I would definitely recommend having the renewal of vows:\n\nMr. and Mrs. James Smith\nrequest the honor of your presence\nas they renew their wedding vows\nSaturday, May 23rd 2006\n3 o'clock in the afternoon\nSt. Patrick's Cathedral\nNew York, NY\n\nReception following ceremony\n\nGood luck whichever you choose!
700108
Actually, you are both right.  She is right when she says that she feels hurt because you two are not close.  Who are you to deny her what she feels to be true?  Feelings are not based on facts and truths of historical circumstances.   They are feelings.  Don't look to deny others their feelings.  You are right, too, when you state that you have a different life or different lifestyle than your sister.  You are two different individuals so naturally you will do things differently, and with differences conflict is inevitable.  You can resolve whatever conflict exists between you and your sister by talking to her more often.  Communication doesn't by itself solve all the problems of the world but it certainly smooths out the bumps in the road.
560161
I am truly sorry for you and your sister, but sometimes the only thing that can be done is to wait for her to hit rock bottom, and ask or accept your help.  It may come soon or never, all you can do is be there for her, try to keep her fed, but do not give her money for drugs or a place to stay until you know she is clean.  I am also sorry to say but when you see her you need to make sure she is not holding any drugs, because if you get busted your life will become really crappy, real fast.  Good Luck, I know we never met, but I have strong shoulders so if you need to talk e-mail me, just click on the avatar and my e-mail is there.
608543
Bloody hell!!!!!!!!!!!!\n\nNOT WITH YOUR SISTER!!\nYou will regreted for the rest of your life, i can't believe she asked you something like that.\n\nStay at your Friends.  She's your sister thats wrong.
393399
I have never been on a plane, funny thing is my sister is a flight attendant and flys every day of her life. I am deathly afraid of heights and dont ever want to be on a plane, but since I am going to Chicago soon, want to adopt a baby from Japan and Want to go to Hawaii for my honeymoon I guess I will be getting on one before too long.
1156768
i know how you feel. i have some problems with my family also... i was fourteen when my parents sent me out from china to belize. my mom had my little brother when i was ten, and i couldn't accept the fact right away, and she usually scold me for everything. \nat the point of time, since they are coming and visit you, you should just act normal, and once you have a chance you call up your sister to a place where you guys can speak alone, and you need to tell her how much you are sorry about the past, and your feeling towards your whole family, and that no one can change what had happened, not even god. you need to tell her that you love her and that you are sisters, no matter what you will always be her sister and that no one can change it. people live people dies, and that you are sorry that your dad died, but nobody would want that to happened. you were just simply in love with someone that the family didn't wanted to accept and tell her that life is short, if she will continuing mad at you, then you couldn't do nothing more better to let her forgive you. Just remember don't yell at her or cry...\n\nwell, good luck, is just a suggestion that i am giving...\n\ngood luck again.
1054723
I spent like 3 months in grmany for doing an internship , i was feeling the same thing that you may be feeling . Kind of Lonely/depressed/confused.Discombobulated is the word if i may say. Actually this decision is for you to make.Are there other people from your country there ? Do you really like them ? do some introspection.Remember ,your mental health is more important than economic well being. Because ,if you do not ,things may go out of hand too.For me , I just cut short my trip & came back.
420226
You can accept her. Well she has done what she has done, but she is your sister. She has come back to you that means she requires you. Everyone commits mistake. And she hasn't killed anyone. Its time for everyone in society to get matured. Now here is a chance.
1072199
I'm sorry to hear about your uncle.  If you're planning to travel by plane, just call the airline you plan to use and ask if they offer bereavement rates.   I know they give pretty hefty discounts for those family members travelling to funerals.  Perhaps they do the same for those precisely in your situation.  \n\nGood luck, and God bless.
131232
If she is afraid to fly, she can't leave Hawaii.  Call the police station there to file.  Just to be safe, call the police station in Georgia also, but my guess is she's still in Hawaii.
943293
Hi there,\nRemember the old saying "you can't choose your family but you can choose your friends"\n\nBoth of you have chosen well. "I know that sounds lame" but it's true. Like all good relationships you are going to have your ups and downs.\n\nWhen I read both your emails you could tell this friendship is here to stay.\n\nThe last email sent to you was to lighten things up,  so tomorrow you can put it all behind you. When you see her give her a hug. Please do it, even if its not the sort of thing you do. \nYou will be amazed at how good that will make you both feel, then you can put it all behind you and continue to be friends. \n\nI know I am a stranger here in Australia but trust me on this one.\n\nkinds regards from Down Under
202024
Hi Muffin,\n\nTake it slowly. \n\nIt is perfectly normal to feel this way after having that type of experience. Reentry into a familiar culture can take as long as you were away or just a few hours.\n\nHowever, whatever you do, don't feel pressured to readjust. A giving journey is meant to challenge and change you.\n\nAgain, take your time... the path to your destiny could be hidden in your distress.