lost my newborn baby?
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I believe what you are referring to in your question is called a "Cerglage".  Yes, it does work, and I have seen many pregancies come to term with this method.
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Yes, I think everyone does at some point in their lives. I see you have posted this question several times so I know you are in a really bad place right now.\n\n  I'm very sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your daughter. I can relate to you so well because I have lost two of my own children, a daughter and son both. My daughter was stillborn in 2002 and my son was premature in 2003, he lived for 2 days with the help of machines but died in my arms after they convinced me to unhook the machines. For me, it's the guilt that is eating me alive. What if I had gone to a different doctor? Why didnt I take it easier during the pregnancies? Why in the h*ll did I let them convince me to unhook the machines??!....  I have not been the same since, nothing seems to matter or worth any effort on my part.  You arent really "living",  you're just "existing", right? \n\n  I have found that it helps to talk about it, even if that only means writing out your feelings where no one will ever see it unless you want them to. I have found several support groups for bereved parents online that allow you to post stories, picture, even chat with others about what you're going through; that has helped a lot.No one should have to endure losing their child, that just isnt the way its suppose to be. I wish you the best and if you ever need to talk please know that I am here! Take care of yourself and remember that your daughter is watching over you. I love you too.
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i know its going to be really hard, but you have to go to the doc, hes the only one that can really help you, but my heart does go out to you, i wish you the best of luck, and may it really be a baby, and not something worse, i really am sry for everything thats happened to you,but hey it could be worse, teehee
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First off, call an attorney!  Once you have everything documented, you're going to need to have surgery to take out whatever it was they left it.  It odesn't matter if it was an emergency or not, the surgeon should have noticed that there was something missing from his tray of tools.  That's just not acceptable.  I hope you and the baby are ok.  Let us know what happens...
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Yes NHS is crap, similar experience here and I lost my little girl, stillborn at 40 weeks, she had only been dead a week, cord wrapped around her neck. I'd visited my doctor and gynaecologist earlier in the week and they never picked up on it. I knew she'd stopped moving as much but stepmum said it was the calm before the storm. Took me in to start me off, did a scan and told me she was dead, and I'd have to give birth naturally. Sheer hell I'll never forget it. So get your husband to kick but as much as he has to till they take notice. Be careful and good luck. X
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I can tell you are already worried. Yes get him to a doctor. Babies are pretty resilient, but you don't want to mess around with this. He could have a blood clot or something if he ruptured any blood vessels when he fell. Better to be safe than sorry later. Nobody will fault you for taking him to the doctor, and little ones that age fall over often when trying to crawl or sit-up. Don't worry that anyone will think you were beating your baby. Just get him to a doctor.
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I wouldn't worry about it - as long as it functions at this point.  You can ask your doctor about it at his regular appointments.  But other than that, be happy you have a healthy baby!
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You lost everything.\nIt is over and out.\nStart a fresh beginning.
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First of all, let me say how sorry I am that this has happened to your family.  Losing a baby is one of the hardest things that can happen to a family that is looking forward to loving him or her.\n\nNothing I can say is going to make this alright for you.  Nothing.  The pain is too new.  It hurts too much.\n\nMake sure that your sister (or sister-in-law as the case may be) is seeking counseling or in a support group.  Grief and the hormones that assault a woman after labor can be overwhelming.  If you think post-partum is bad for the average mother, imagine how bad it can be when compounded by a loss.  Make sure she has great support and is taking really good care of herself.  This is a critical time for her.  It's hard for all of you, and I don't mean to discount that in any way, but it's harder on her because hormonally she has some things happening that the rest of you just don't have to deal with.\n\nI hope you'll save the rest of this for when you're ready for it.  \n\nI think this is one of the hardest questions to answer. This is what nearly cost me my faith and my sanity.\n\nI've lost three babies and have no living children. I have wanted children since I was very young. I always though I would be a mom.\n\nI believe in God and I don't believe that babies die because they are bad or because of any wrong they have done. I don't even think it is a judgement of their parents.\n\nIt's hard to know who to blame when it happens and you want to blame someone. And I did. Mostly I blamed myself, and I thought of a million things I should have done differently. It was those sinus pills I took or all that caffeine I had before I knew I was pregnant, or it was the time I slipped and fell in the grocery store.\n\nSome people will say Satan took your baby and some will say God took your baby. So let's answer that first. It's an answer that needs a little background.\n\nSatan brought sin into the world. Sin brought death. In that way, Satan is responsible for death. It is his domain, and God allows it - for now.\n\nJesus came to redeem us. He conquered death. So even though Satan takes us out of the world (through death), Jesus takes us to be with God through redemption. \n\nBabies are sinless. They go to heaven.\n\nOf course I would rather them be here with me. I miss them. But I know that they are safe and that God can keep them from ever feeling hurt or sadness. They have joy now that I cannot imagine. Even though I miss them terribly, I don't have to worry about how they are doing. I know they are safe.\n\nIt took me several years to process everything and really feel better. There were a couple of verses that helped me.\n\nBut Simon Peter answered Him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. Also we have come to believe and know that You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” John 6:68-69 \n\nNo matter how angry I was at God, I still believe in Him. Where else would I go?\n\n\n“Now My soul is troubled, and what shall I say? ‘Father, save Me from this hour’? But for this purpose I came to this hour. Father, glorify Your name.” John 1227-28\n\nWhat if it was for this purpose that I came to earth? Losing my babies was the single hardest thing I have ever dealt with. What if the purpose of my life is to deal with that well? How I come through shows my love and devotion to God in a similar way to how Jesus showed His love and obedience - by gracefully facing the trial before me.\n\nHe who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? Romans 8:32\n\nIt was hard to be mad at God for not sparing my children when I thought about how He didn't spare His own Son for my sake.\n\nGod was parted with Jesus for a human lifetime. I am parted with my children for a human lifetime. Because of the gift of salvation - God's sacrifice for me - I can live eternally with Him and
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Sorry about the loss of your child.  But I think you two have ran your course and you need to move on.  This guy was not there for you and more importantly your child.  Don't take him back again.  You'll only be setting yourself up for more hurt.
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First calm down. I understand why you are concerned. Losing a baby is very tragic. But just because it happened 10 years ago doesn't mean it is going to happen now. The symptoms you have described for yourself are normal. I didn't have sickness, cravings, sensitivity to smell with my pregnancy either. Count this as a blessing! Being tired and on/off breast tenderness is normal. Try reading "What to expect when expecting" "Girlfriends guide to pregnancy" etc... Stop obsessing about losing this baby and start enjoying him/her. I truly understand the concerns. Make an appt. with your doctor to help ease your mind. As far as having a miscarriage WITH OUT ANY symptoms I don't know about. That is a question for the professionals.
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take him/her to the doctor-- it could be extra painful for an infant to be going through that!
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Most likely the doctor isn't wrong.  JUst wait it out.  A precious baby can not be rushed.
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i have had 3 babies and with both of my last 2 they were engaged and unegaged all the time. there is more room now and the baby is able to move alittle bit freely. also my 3rd was large but he was late. good luck i hope it all goes well.
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dropped on my head as a baby
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my 2 sons were both born premature, not quite the same. yet i know what it feels like to be totally helpless. it is in no way your fault. buy a punching bag, cry, punch the dirt, talk to a priest. what ever you need to keep your head straight. your son is going to need your attention, after all he is too young to under stand all the attention. he will be stronger if he sees his dad is strong, remember you are his protector. so pay attention to the doctors and do your homework, ie reaserch all you can about this it will make it easier. the doctors cough up all this information and it can be overwhelming. dont get too excited with the doctors, work with them. together this will pass. remember your son needs you, not some guy all red faced screaming at doctors.\nhope everything goes well.
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When my son was born he became severely ill. He was taken to children's for surgery. I had just miscarried before I got pregnant with him and he was kind of my last hope. We felt awful when he didn't recover right away like they said he would. He lost a lot of weight before he started to come around, and we were there, in the hospital, for about a week and a half. Our biggest inspiration was the other parents we saw and talked too. Some had been there months waiting on transplants that probably wouldn't come. Some knew they would never take their children home, and some helped their children plan their own funerals. What was a week and a half to all that. The point is there is always someone worse off then you. You have your life and you should enjoy it. You never know when your time is up, so you better live now.