Howdo women feel about straight guys that like to cross dress? Wouldmost women date a guy if they knew he did?
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Not this woman.  But I'm sure there are several women that might date a man that cross dresses.  \n\nBring it up on a first date and see where it goes from there.  By bringing it up early you can eliminate the ones that would end up leaving you down the road.  Plus you get it out and overcome the worse thing. \n\nHopefully that is the worse thing.\n\nI almost forgot to answer your question "why".  I wouldn't date a cross dressing man, because I personally believe in traditional roles and values.  \n\nI want a man that is strong, grounded, and makes me feel good as a woman.  I don't want to compete with my man, (cross dressing or not) nor do I want to wear the pants in the family.  Plus I don't think its attractive in any way to see a man in lipstick and pantyhose.  Its a real turn off for me.  \n\nBut fortunately for you, we live in a society where every woman does not believe as I do. \n\nIf you are a hetersexual man who can treat a woman with kindness, respect, and love, I doubt very seriously that you will have a problem finding a good woman to love and support you.  \n\nBest wishes to you.\n\n:o)
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im assuming the conversation thing wouldnt be that much different between straight and gay relationships. \n\nnot sure if you already know them or not but if you dont i normally approach them with a little nonhurtful bust. \n\nex- (if a girl has high heels on) ill approach \nwow whats the deal with the shoes.\nwhat do you mean\nnothing.. they sharp\nohhh thank you.\nno.. that actually wasnt a complement ... i mean theyre sharp.. like could kill someone sharp.. so your like what 4'2 without those, right?\nthis sets you up as a challenge, original, starts a conversation and shows your confident. \n\nIf you already know them a couple of key points \nPeople are attracted to confidence. \nPeople are attracted to humor.\nPeople want what they cant have.\nPeople also love mystery.\nNot to mention talking about themselves\ni try to use these 5 concepts when trying to pick up someone\nwhether its your first approach or 5th date it doesnt matter really what you say nearly as much as the way you say it and the way you carry yourself when you do.\ntherefore.\nAct as your qualifing them rather than qualifing yourself to them. Unless they are stupid they will know you are interested when you come up or call back or set up another date (whatever stage you on) but dont be at their bekon call , make them work a bit to get you and give them gift of missing you. (obviously dont go overboard with this) \nadd a bit of confident humor in it. and give them some mystery by not talking about yourself much at all. if they ask tons of questions just answer them with what they would want to hear then funny it up \nex. so how many guys are you dating right now..\n- none..... my wife really gets jealous easily.\nor if they are really pushing this works great on women so i assume the opposite would be true.\n(insert nosy question here)\n"one thing youll find about me is i dont play 20 questions... i prefer truth or dare..... and im afraid you're just not that lucky"  see,... confident, sexual ref but not perverted, funny and sets you up as a challenge. \n\nuse these and he will probably ask you out. if not definetly shouldnt abject to a cup of coffee. good luck man. you'll do fine
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I think it so sexy to see a man express him self by getting dressed up all pretty in female clothing! All males should get in touch with their female side!
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If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
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Who said that dress is for women and pants is for men? I have friend straight man loves to wear woman's clothes. He thinks it is beautiful to wear.\n\n\nPeace!
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Well, I'm not straight (bisexual), but I have a strong preference for men, and I'm a virgin of each, so maybe that puts me pretty close to straight gals.\n\nI like gay girls.  They're fine; I don't have a problem with them.\n\nWhat do YOU think about them?
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The only way i would want to come back as a straight person is if i were to come back as a girl.Why? because i am a crossdresser who has wished i was a girl all my life,I would rather dress and act feminine ,and will be so much happier
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Well, I dated a guy for like 18 months who I didn't know at the time was a little bit of a cross dresser.  But he was all sorts of weird things!  The kinkiest it got when I was with him was that he liked a n a l and liked to fantasize about men...but then w/his next girlfriend he did a lot of crossdressing and planned to have a sex change.  But last I heard, he changed his mind about all that.   Guess it was just a phase?
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Wow.  Not all "gay ladies" (as you so eloquently put it) are attracted to the butch look.  I'm not a lesbian, I'm bisexual and I can at least speak for myself, I don't like butch girls.  I much prefer feminine women.  Honestly asking this question is like asking a straight woman why she is attracted to guys who dress all in Abercrombie as opposed to those who dress in Fubu.  Its a look, and there are an enormous variety of looks in the lesbian community, just as there are an enormous variety of looks in any group of people.  Attractions are different for everyone, of all sexual preferences.\n\nFor a wonderful example of a lesbian who is not at all butch, Portia DeRossi.  If all lesbians wanted their girlfriends to look like men she wouldn't be a very datable lesbian, now would she?  But Ellen likes her!\n\nSheesh.
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I am lesbian who likes both. My girlfriend is a fem but I also find k.d lang attractive. I do not call it butch I think it is handsome. If I walk down the street and I see a person who could be woman looking male my interest is lifted however when it turns out to be a man the feeling inside my stomach goes and im disappointed. I guess that is a chemical reaction and that is what makes me who I am. I think it is important that these women have a definite identity it shows that they are comfortable with themselves and there sexuality. I am a fem and comfortable with my sexuality but enjoy the feeling of dressing up. It is good to ask these questions because the more people who understand will in time (hopefully) get rid of the stereotypes and accept people for the human they are in whatever form they choose. A pure love in whatever form can never be wrong. I hope this all makes sense.
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Now that is what gives us a bad name.  No offense, but I would not want a guy to think he can change me to being straight, was never there and never want to be.  I would rather be with a lesbian anytime.  So, the answer to your question is no, I have never tried to convert a straight girl.  Too many lesbians out there, more than enough to go around.  Have a good night anyway.
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I have an adult male friend who likes to wear them--he claims he's straight. But, sometimes I wonder. ;0)
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I have tried and tried to stop dressing but its not just a matter of quiting like quiting smoking. I wish I had the clothes and shoes I have thrown away not to mention the makeup and such. anyway I assume you are straight so I suggest to find a woman that will accept your alter ego and live with it
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i think the answer going through most peoples heads when reading this, is they would CHOOSE to ignore their feelings!!!\n\nCould they be with a member of the own sex though, and CHOOSE to ignore they were straight????\n\nWalk a mile in my shoes..........
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Being gay I get along great with hott chix, complimenting their shoes, their outfits, their makeup, basically getting to know them as people and not as hott chix with big breasts and shapely legs. I have no sexual interest in them at all.\n\nTry seeing women as people rather than sex objects to be drooled over and you might get farther.
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Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?\n\nThe answers are the same for either orientation.
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I personally am attracted to how guys dress, their body spray, and How they treat a lady. ♥ A romantic guy is the biggest thing i m attracted to. ♥ I m attracted to guys, i m straight -Ria