what does it mean when a  married woman goes out to eat with a single male co worker?
101107
if it was during their lunch break, it could mean they were both hungry and didnt want to eat alone. They might also be work friends.
130085
Okay, as a woman myself, this is my opinion: I can understand and agree with your not wanting her to go to dinner with other guys. I wouldn't want my man going to dinner with other women! But some people think that there isn't anything wrong with it as long as they are just friends. She might not have meant any harm by it. Just talk with her, let her know how much it bothers you (but don't make it sound like you are accusing her of cheating) and ask if you two can come to a "neither one of us is ever alone with a member of the opposite sex" agreement. My parents had that agreement, and it worked great. Just a thought. If she is unwilling to agree to that, then it might be time to move on. Good luck.
849065
I believe men can't be friends with women.  Most situations, men just want more.  Women are the ones that stop or allow it.  It's just better that married men stay with their wives and ignore the single person.
172664
Here's the problem - you are co-workers, so getting intimate with you may be an ethics violation.  He probably got a vibe that the other women were friendly without being too serious, so he was OK with this mock flirting.  However, if you displayed a serious, shy work-type demeanor, he probably didn't want to 'provoke' you by being too familiar.  you may not understand this, but every time a guy goes to be with a girl, there is a question in the back of his head that is saying, 'will I be sued?'  An honorable guy will not try to get too intimate with a co-worker, so if you want him to flirt with you, you will have to act like you will be his friend and not mind the intimacy that a co-worker should avoid.  In today's work environment, it's very easy for a guy to be victimized, so you will have to go all out to show him that you will be OK with a little display of affecdtion without taking him to court or getting him fired.
974281
She's trying to be a good girlfriend and chew your food for you so that you won't have to. That's the kind of sweet things women do for men sometimes.
99674
why not make one a lunch date, and the other an evening date\nwhy same venue? you are better off proposing a diferent venue for one
788793
Some women desire men that aren't available to them for whatever reason.  It's silly actually, but there are many women and men that use the practice of only dating married people.
316211
As far as my personal experience goes....NO! Definately not!\nI have been married twice by so called men who have had affairs with co-workers.
106166
Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
121444
Yes...a woman can be a friend with a man and eat a meal with him and still have feelings for someone else.\n\nBut from what you wrote, it sounds like you're at a certain point and she's not there yet. \n\nIf she's not ready to commit, then she's not.\nShe'll get there when its time for her, if its time for her.\nBut its not something that you can make happen. \nEmotions are either there or they are not.
456416
Well, I think the best way is to just start up conversations with them.  Its the man's job to ask the woman out so if he's not asking you out he's not really a man, or has no interest in you.  You could always drop a hint and give him your number after having a good conversation.  As for dating co-workers...I work in an environment where TONS of people are happily married and met at work.  In fact, it's more like a family atmosphere where a lot of people have the same last names.  2 mature adults are able to have a relationship regardless of where they work if they are still able to treat eachother with respect after breaking up.
480502
By explaining it is inappropriate and if she does it again she will be sent away from the table to eat somewhere by herself. If she does, then she should be removed from the social situation and have to eat her dinner by herself somewhere. Most likely she is only doing it for the attention, so if she can't get it, she'll stop.
380466
Depends, are you the girlfriend or the wife?  There are many reasons that people get involved with others. The number one reason is because they are dissatisfied or unhappy with their relationship.  No matter if your the girlfriend or the wife, make a decision to move forward with your man or not.  And then talk to him about your decision.  It will work out better if your both completely honest.
598638
Leave her alone. If she is engaged already back off! First reason is called respect...don't try to steal a woman that is in a committed relationship. 2nd reason is that she loves this person she is going to marry and if you try to break that up you may make her upset or mad. This is not good if she is a coworker. You may cause relations between you to at work to be unpleasant and she may report you to hunman resources at the office. I am sure your employer would not like to hear that you are harrassing her (she could say) and trying to break up her potential marriage/engagement. 3rd reason is that you do not know what her fiance is really like. Her fiance may kick your A** if he finds out that you are trying to steal her away.
504941
trust your husband..but keep an eye on the co-worker ;)
947884
Why is it ewwwww. You people need to try things before you say ewwwwwwww. I'm married. Even before I was married I have been with women. It spices things up. Its far from ewww..
735195
It means she isn't interested, maybe not now, maybe not ever.  Keep on going until you ask out a girl that is excited and don't accept crumbs by going into her restaurant like you can't find a girl that is available and excited to be with you.  The best revenge is living well!