How do u say no 2 a guy that is a homeboy and he wants 2 get with u?!?
101589
He is your friend, if that is the case then you won't have any problems. Talk to him really nicely, about how nice he is and stuff then little by little tell him what you don't like about him, hmm let me think.. or you could make up a fib or something a white lie if your up to it. Don't go straight to the point since you don't want to hurt his feelings.
37250
just b urself if he doesn't want u then forget about him.  he is probably a player and not worth ur time anyway.
239561
Just say no. He'll respect you more, and poss. consider you more of a gfriend material later on, if thats your goal. girls who put out to easily aren't gfriend material, they're just somthin' on the side.
243408
The best thing you can do is ignore him.  The more you call the more power you are giving him over you.  Have some respect for yourself.  Most men want what they can't have.  If you are constantly calling then he knows he has you right where he wants you.  Pull yourself together and if he truly wants to be with you, he will come crawling back to you.
6119
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
147269
ask him out,e-mail, letter, post a sign in his yard..lol and if he pressures you to anything you don't want to do..forgettabouhim!..If he's really pushy slap his ar$e into next zipcode!
107337
Ask him if he knows any nice guys that he can introduce you to? If he introduces himself you,your home free.
391166
You are young and have not been with him that long; if he is going home with you for break you should let them get to know him before you break the news to them. If he is not going home with you maybe spend as much time as possible talking about him (within reason) so they feel they are getting to know him through you. After you've done this you could say something like "I really love XXXXX a lot. We have many things in common, he treats me well and I could not be happier. WE would like your blessing to get engaged".\n\nTHis makes them feel that you respect them enough to get their opinion on the matter and makes you come off as mature and reliable.
417599
comment some guy when ur with him.\ntrust me, ull know
132104
ask him out.. if he says no, then move on.. you can say, hey would you like to go for dinner sometime?
680924
I'm not going to call you a home wrecker, like someone did. You just know what you want, but you also know you can't have him. Just let him know the posit on your in. Tell him you like him, but he's got a gf, and you don't want things to be more difficult then it already is. Tell him, you guys can continue to talk as long as it wont go further until he's ready for it.
684428
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
712198
tell him you really value his friendship and that you don't want to lose it. but if he keeps pressuring you to date him when you don't feel that way it's going to make it harder to keep that friendship. \n\nalso if you have any girl friends that seem to meet his style, try hooking them up to really put home that you don't want him.
889921
just tell him "you aint getting any of my cooking yet."  sounds like fun flirting anyways.  have fun with it.
834551
If you really want this guy. You have to change.\nYou have to accept being silly or even dirty for him.\nAfter two years You should be able to do that.\nKeep it very creative and do stuf he thought you would NOWAY do.\nKeep him guessing.\n\nWe can only stand that other crap so long.\nHe is either important or not. Up to you.\nYou don't want to be the light of his life and what he wants to come home to.\nHe'll go elsewhere.
705884
You need to stop talking to this man unless you want to become a "Home Wrecker."  Just don't answer his messages anymore and he will get the hint.  The right guy is out there for you and this is not it.  Good Luck.
353677
just bring him over, tell him to be himself.  if u act comfortable with the situation, then he will feel more comfortable.   if he realy is sweet and all that, then they will realize that too once they get to know him.\n explain how ur parents are old fashioned, and just want to know who their daughter is hanging out wiht,  its normal.\n just be yourself, let him be himself, and i'm sure your parents will be theirselves.\n maybe if u bring another friend over that day it would make the situation a little easier on you guys.\n but u have to do it.  ur gonna have to start getting used to bringing guys home.