what do you do when your 17, over weight and have a hard time getting a girlfriend who looks good?
112394
first of all, if you're worried about looks, start with your own. If you want a girlfriend who will treat you well, look for personality.\n\nAnd hang in there, girls become much more approachable when you leave high school and all the drama is gone (or at least changed). Start excercising in the meantime, some girls like a little extra lovin around the middle, but not too much, as I'm sure you know since you want a girl that looks good.....
1046989
I'd get some help. You might need some confidence to actually go out with more attainable women.
815293
Yeah, you look fine. Don't get too anxious -- teenage girls can be fickle! Relax...there's plenty of time to find someone. And keep your good / nice attitude! It will serve you well in life, as well as in the romance department.
149571
God help us all. Now boys are becoming sickly over concerned about their looks. How old are you? Please don't do things to change yourself. \n\nDo these things: bathe and comb your hair. Wear clean clothes. Try to dress in something comfortable and in style. \n\nIf a girl is worth having, she'll want you for you.
456992
Its hard to say why girls are not attracted to you. It could be anything. Don't try so hard. Stop looking for a girlfriend. Try finding someone that has the same interests as you. Looking for women in bars and clubs doesn't always work. Try the internet, chats, clubs...etc.  Let them get a chance to know you as a person. Then see if can develop into something else.
402909
It's all about self-confidence, not what others tell you.  Don't think your hot because other people tell you, think it because you know it. (but not too much so, vanity is only good in small doses.)  work your way back into hitting on girls, go to a new bar and find girls that your not "really" interested in, and just try different approaches (don't go in looking for sex, but looking to find out how to be confident in your mannerisms), get comfortable talking to new girls, and then try on someone you actually like, and maybe good things will happen.  Eyes are the key, a woman's eyes will tell you everything.
585833
Check these guys out:\n\nhttp://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/databases.htm\n\nThey have some tools that will help you get a handle on it(no pun intended).\n\nWhy don't you feel pretty?  If you are, you are.  If you're not, well.... work on it!  I know a number of overweight women that are really quite attractive.\n\nMost of personal beauty is making the most of what God gave you.  Good personality, good grooming, good character.  Go for the gusto and be the best 'you' you can be!\n\n\nDad
388274
Be yourself, not everyone goes on good looks.  If you are yourself around someone they really appreciate it and they can also feel comfortable too.  No matter how someone looks it's what's inside that counts.  If that person doesn't like you because you're not as good looking as them then they are really shallow and you're better off without them.  Money doesn't always get good lookers ppl!
442979
You answered your own question.  Have you ever seen "Shallow Hal"?  I'm not saying get a 300 lb girlfriend, but some of the "hotties" out there (OK MOST of them) are shallow because they get anyone they want.  Try chatting - it's great for getting to know personalities before looks.  \nThat being said, when it comes to attracting females, there is only ONE way. CONFIDENCE.  It's the most attractive thing about a guy. Borderline cocky- don't take it too far, but nothing is more attractive than a guy who walks tall, talks easily, smiles a lot, and is totally at ease with himself.  Just do some people-watching - you'll see that the confident guys, even if they're not great looking, get the girl every time.
23067
Excellent question. The trick is to don't try too hard. Just be still and project confidence, and let people come to you. Being yourself is the most important even though it is hardest to do! You will find that being yourself goes way farther than anything. Thats when I finally started to actually attract chicks! \n I had a hard time with this and finally succeeded after a long time.
431805
first learn to love yourself you need to be able to feel good about you \ndress well and try tone up extra pounds look good if they are muscle but not too much muscle it looks bad \ngo to places where you will meet alot of people club , pub ect when a girl comes over to you be nice dont give tacky 1 liners and be your self good luck
395361
don't get caught up in looks some of the nicest people are just average looking. You need to stop being so wound up in a girls appearence and try to get to know a girl with a great personality and good looks, U don't need hot, they are so concetied
534196
The most important thing take care of your self. Most women love a guy who is fit. It will also give you better self confidence and that is always attractive. Be yourself if you have a friend who is a girl ask her to help you. A true friend will give advise on what you need to improve on. Also the more you put pressure on your self the longer it will seem to take. So, work on your body, self esteem, stay true to yourself and you will find her sooner then you think.
253040
It depends what your age is and by the looks of your spelling I will guess...high school, your best bet for that "good girl" is in highschool. If you are of drinking age, you should be in college, find a girl there...in your psych 101 class, but not in a bar...those relationships never seem to work. If you are older than that...well, maybe you should get a girl dog and she can be a "good girl" all the time...
820290
right there.. your attitude is going to screw you over.. be confident my friend... by being confident you are being more attractive.. just be your self because in the long run, even though it should be the first thing its not because of the world we live in, personality is going to be your greatest friend... if she doesnt like you for that then she isnt worth is.. but thats not what you want to hear and im sorry for that... you just want advice to get her so thats what i'll give you...be consistently around her.. she'll notice you... start talking to her and have group hang outs and make sure she is invited.. go bowling or the movies.. something where everyone is comfortable.. this way you get to talk to her more and get to know her and vise versa with you... then after you feel everything is good... ask her out... if you think you arent attractive enough then she wont.. also its more than just looks.... maybe she isnt as shallow as you might think\n\ngood luck\nnice guys dont always finish last... i wont let it happen
1098683
im 14. im from orange county. u sound cool. id date u if i knew you. there are never any good, true girls out there. and chances are, ur not chubby. everybody thinks they're fat. its hardly ever true. anyways, u sound great. im not into the whole internet dating thing though. ill email you if ud like. its up to you. im in all honors classes and am a very good guy. im kind of shy too and am good at basketball. i play guitar but am terrible at it. (not afraid to admit it) anyways, u sould like a great girl. u shouldn't have any problems getting a bf. u sould nice, sincere(how do u spell that). there are hardly any girls left like that. what ever you do, dont stop being the great person you sould like.
521994
i wish there were more guys like you. i can never get a date. i am pretty, but a little on the chubby side. i am 5'3 and weigh 185 lbs.