Do you think being bisexual in this day and time bad or good?
103851
It just IS. Why look for value judgements about a fact of life? It may be easier to be bisexual in some places now than in almost all places in the historical past. But one doesn't choose to be bisexual, or gay, or heterosexual, for that matter. The way you treat the ones you love - or even the ones you just have sex with - is what matters. Live your life the best way you know how. That'll be good enough.
1114904
I'm bi too, so of course I'm perfectly ok with it. LOL. Love is Love, whether between man and women or man and man or woman and woman. As long as they are of age and human and not related to you LOL go for it.
866536
it isnt bad at all . \ni think guys like both cute and sexy .\ncause theres a right time for both .\nso jus be both .\n=]
847896
maybe you have'nt come out yet. but seriously it's a fact of life that many people of both sexes are bi sexual. you'll have to decide for yourself what to do.
829572
Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
6241
HA! You word your question as if being queer were a bad thing.\n\nI think the worst is to be a closed-minded straight person.
1057374
I used to be bi, but then I realized I liked women so much more and being with guys just wasn't for me. Sometimes I still feel like I'm only 80% lesbian, though, lol.
202008
I'm bisexual and very happy that way. All you people in here saying "eww that's gross" need to grow up and understand what a person chooses to do in his/her own bedroom is none of you're concern. If you don't like it, don't do it and let us live our lives how we choose.
714127
Yes I probably would, but only because so many of the men I meet who say they are bi are really just guys who are married and want to cheat on their wives with a man.\n\nI know there are bisexual guys who are not jerks....I just don't seem to meet any of them.
624619
no, not at all.  it's perfectly normal and natural.  in fact, some studies show that most people are bisexual to some extent, and only very few are either entirely gay or entirely straight all their lives.  (this includes actions and fantasies.)
40455
It's neither bad or wrong, but like anything in life, there is a proper time and place.\n\nFor instance, it shouldn't take precedent over normal sexual relations with your partner.
628133
Hey, I respect your question. But there is no right or wrong answere here. I myself am Bi, ever since I was 13 I had thoughts of both sexes. The truth is, you might have switched.  However, seeing as you were atrracted to girls to start with chances are you might be homosexual.  But until you have found the prime area, Just go with bi. ;)\nPlus. I agree that it is not a choice, it kind of just happens, you know?  It pisses me off that they can just assume that from some bullshit study (pardon the language).\nAnyway, seeing as I do not know you, I can not give you a definitive answer.  But... I know that I swing back and forth from which ones I like more, i.e. for like a month or two i will be more attracted to guys, vis versa. Understand?\n\nGood luck to you. Don't worry too much, I had the same problem for a while but i came to realise I was bi when I came out a few years ago. I am turning eighteen in two days,\nand since I was thirteen i had gone back and forth asking myself.  If you have not yet come out, don't be afraid, not as bad as you think, nothing changed in my life.  I respect your courage here. I hope I could have been of some help.\n\n    Der Terror|risti
1107666
I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.
144616
i support it when the bisexuals are girls .i find it discusting when the bisexuals are man u may find my answer bios but thats what i like
157022
you dont wake up one day after a bad breakup and be bisexual.\nyou either are or your not\nif you think getting involved with a woman will prevent you from getting hurt 1 your wrong and 2 thats very unfair to the person you get involved with \ntake some time by yourself and see how you feel after healing from your last relationship\nas for your family-- if you really are bisexual i hope that they understand you are still you and accept you and whomever you are in a relationship with
2046
you are who you are...why would you want to change yourself? life is not about what others think of you..its what you think of yourself. if you're bi, you're bi. be true to yourself!
189457
I appreciate and admire the beauty of both the male and female bodies and though I have had intimate encounters with both genders, in all honesty, I do prefer men over women. Does this in turn make me bisexual or a man who is denying his true sexual orientation? Personally, I feel our need to categorize and pigeon-hole ourselves and each other is unnecessary and a complete waste of time. Just think of Bisexuality was a way of loving the best of both worlds.