Am I wasting my time with this guy?
105565
You cann't put your life on hold for anyone so try to go on and if he calls you just show him how it feels to be lied too...So go out and just have some fun but be safe...
665588
You can't make a person do something if they don't want to do it.  Maybe he is ready for a casual relationship, and not something serious. The not calling thing is probably his way of saying, I want to take it slower.  I would just ease up on calling him, and just leave a casual message every now and then, and see what happens from there.  If he doesn't change in an appropriate amount of time, I would move on.
654637
If you wait he may not.  Whats your relationship with this guy?  He may not even know ur interested.  Show a little interest and see what his reactions are.  Dont wait too late or you may be going stag
421430
Why not! but be aware he is not very quick on the uptake, do you want to be in control? because you will be.\nGive him one chance.
512680
Grrrl you Will find time ahaha shy or not he's a guy and your a grrl and you will find time it may just take awhile don't worry about rushing things steady steady it will still feel the same no matter how long it takes to get there....Hope that helps\n~Harley~
691209
What's the point in wanting him then? I wouldnt give him the time of day.\nMove on and find someone who cares.
1011943
Call him up and tell him you would like to have him over for dinner on Saturday evening at 6:00 p.m..   If he accepts, see if he's up for a movie after dinner.  Continue to make dates like this one and get to know each other.  If he's genuinely interested, he'll begin to find time for you.  If not then you will have to accept the fact that he's a busy guy.  Can you deal with this or not?\n\nGood luck!
651721
It would appear like you are trying too hard. You have already contacted him so the ball is in court. As hard as it is to wait, you have to if anything to see if he is interested! Just keep yourself busy with your life and carry on as usual because if you spend all your time thinking about this.. it will just eat  you up.  good luck!
450554
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
735135
Contemporary male wisdom is to "keep her wanting more". Hopefully, he is just trying to get you more interested in him by keeping his distance. Is it working?\n\nIf it is much longer than a week, I would probably try to contact him. If you get no response, you should probably move on.
138433
Yes, please know what your intentions are before you do this though. If he is a friend, then you do not want to ruin the relationship. Are you only interested in a one time fling and still be friends? Do you want a meaningful relationship with commitment? Figure this out first and then go in with a open mind and hear out your suitor. Do be afraid to find that he wants to only be friends. Friends have more fun and are more intimate when there atracted to one another but know it will never go beyond that point...
1093077
Never wait for a guy to "get his ducks in a line."  Relationships are supposed to be fluid and encompassing - waiting until "the time is right" is just another way of announcing that he is not ready - not for you at least, and maybe not for anybody.  Go out with #2 and see where it takes you.  If #1 "gets his ducks in a' row (sheesh) then maybe he will come back around and - if he does - THEN you will have to see where you stand in your own life.  You may be so "over" #1 that you'll wonder why you even considered waiting for him.
436993
We wait 3 standard days before calling so as not to appear despirate and possibly lse your respect. Remember, this note was outside. Anyone could have picked it up. Including the wind. You obviously know he's interested. After the 3 days have passed, walk up to him and ask him what he thinks. Are you two on or not?
345360
Then you should give each other time to cool and at the same time think about this guy whether is he worth you liking him.He doesn't seemed to appreciate it.Just give yourself some time and him too.
838491
Hey if he is not showing interest forget him dont waist your time on someone who does not deserve it........ keep yourself involved in think you like to do...... there are many people dont restrict yourself to him.......... life is just once enjoy it to the fullest
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
582533
hm, this is a toughy. I guess it depends on the guy. If you really liked him then he should understand and be cool. On the other hand if he was just some random pirate you picked up from a night club or something then there is prob no good time and you should just run