My girlfriend is mad at my wife, how do I make them both happy?
98426
is that your wife or gf in your picture? if you have a wife and girlfriend, obviously you don't love either one of them
364042
If you are arguing this badly, you need some help. Who is starting the arguments you or her? If its her maybe she is really insecure, or isn't happy. If its you, are you happy? If you really do love her, and want to make it work, i would get in touch with relate, and talk to someone. You can do this either on your own or together. If you do it on your own she may not be happy and see it as a betrayal. If you want to do it together, talk to her about it, cos she may feel uncomfortable about it. Good luck!
1014236
~~Talk to her about it, and tell her how it made you feel.  Communication is important in building a solid relationship. Sometimes out of anger people do things to make the other person angry as well.  That isn't an excuse for it to happen, that is just a fact that it happens.  Tell her how it made you feel, be honest with her, in a non-accusing manner, assuring her that you love her and want to make things right.~~
820970
Stop posting the same question over and over again.  I answered it already.  Leave your wife if you can't stand living with her.  If it's abusive, you'd pack your bags and find a better life.  Otherwise, stop sitting around in your undies at the computer trying to figure out how to get back at her!
286604
You don't say what you did to make her mad. If the perceived offense was 'bad' enough she may never forgive you.\n\nTry being as nice as you can to her. (but don't go overboard and be annoying) Try to make up for what you did. Eventually she'll forgive you or you'll get tired of trying.\n\nYou can't make anyone forgive you, unfortunately. You may just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. And don't repeat the mistake with someone else. Learn from it!
1132736
HOW TO KILL THE EVIL COLD HEARTED ,LIFE SUCKING BIT** X WIFE OF MINE \n\n\nYES I DO HAVE ISSUES
481187
You want to kill him? Hit him where it hurts. Take him to \ncourt for alienation of affection and hit him in the wallet! Then, give him your sleazy wife! They deserve each other, and you deserve better.
688602
Rather normal marriage I would say.  Did you ever understand that it takes two to fight.  Have you ever thought about just listening to her and keeping your mouth shut.  I don't mean leaving either I mean stay right there and listen and be quiet and when you do talk do not speak in anger.  Is your pride so big you can't let someone have their time of anger.  We all get angry at times.  She should do the same for you hut I am writing to you not her.  I live with a woman that really gets angry and stays that way sometimes days.  I could really have some knock down drag out fights in this house.  I don't and won't.  I keep my mouth shut nd keep some distance between us but don't leave the house.  Yes it angers me but I also know she is angry and out of anger many things are said that at the time are ment and later are regrettedd..Most of the time she gets over it in a couple of hours but once in a while it does last two to three days.  Now she has learned from me that it works and now when I get angry and i do she keeps quiet most of the time but still has to put in a coment here and there that is like knife bladws.  She is getting better as time goes by though.  One thing for sure is that I never get really angry at just her.  Most of the time it is due to someone olse interfeering in her life.  \n     Just try to keep your cool and try to listen to what she has to say.  An all day fight is dangerous to both of you.
494512
Don't confront her, it's not worth it she is obviously a very unhappy person and you should feel sad for her.  Try to just cut her out of your life, and always keep the lines of communication open between you and your spouse.
26393
Whoops! Dude, you're so skaaaaarrroooood.\nGet the girlfriend another present, tell her the Wal-Mart card was a gag.\nWhen your wife says "What the......?!?!?!?!?" Tell her you wanted to show her that you still see her as being THAT sexy, and go with her to use that gift card.... Then make a New Years Resolution to drop the girlfriend and make your marriage a priority.
58875
If your wife is not here your right, you've won, your the master.\nIt's when she returns that your wrong again and in trouble and your now the slave. So get that smile off your face and realize your a man and your never right when it comes to argueing with a wife.\nSo enjoy it while she's gone. She'll be back.
111628
You say you are "unhappy", what does that mean?  If there were no kids involved i'd say move on, but children are precious and deserve all you and your wife can do to resolve this.  But making your kids the reason for staying is weak, nobody wins.  Communication is the key, there had to have been a time when your wife was the best woman that happened to you right?  She still is and it's worth finding out together what changed.  And even if you still come to the same conclusion you can honestly say you tried, do THAT for the children.
249852
thats a hard situation, I doubt anyhting you can ever think of saying in the nicest way will ever make her not get mad. I guess you just need to understand that you tried your best trying to tell her in the nicest way possible and if she gets offended thats a shame, but you need to move out and start your life. Id prolly be like i have a surprise tonight for you, Im going to make you dinner, then after shes all fattened up tell her how much you love her and is going to miss her, good luck
508672
They really should not get mad unless you are married. If you are married then leave the friend and stick by your wife. If you are dating and she is jealous that is a sign that she is not the girl for you. Move on!
680573
Apologize and don't do something that would require an apology again.\n\nIf she's not mad at you - Take her out on a picnic with her favorite foods and some good music.
542658
Honestly, if you are concerned about who's right or wrong then your gonna always have problems. Your wife is not the enemy and neither are you. Be humble, take the responsibility, apologize about the situations (I'm sorry), make sure she feels her feelings are validated, then you can explain the facts. Recap: 1. Feelings\n       2. Facts\n       3. Opinions\nIf you respond in this order, you will hardly ever have long lasting fights and you relationship will flourish.\nHusbands gotta lead the way. Good Luck.
201876
You cant and you shouldnt have done that in the first place. Thats called adultry and your wife can devorce you for everything that your worth for that. So break it off now with her.