What would you do if your husband of 7 yrs. cheated on you and may have gotten someone else pregnant?
109680
Girlfriend you need to dump him. No man is worth that. If he cheated on you once he will do it again if you were to get back together. You dont need that.
772297
First of all I would make sure, your husband is really cheating on you, than if he is go to the doctors, do not say any thing to him and get your self checked out for std infetcions, HIV ect.\nIs there some women's community centre you can go to for support or ring up, where are you I am in Aussie.\nI would  lock the bastard out and stop crying because that take up energy and you are going to need that for you and your kids. Always remember there is a light at the end of the tunnel and there are better days to come
774577
Yes my Hubby cheated 3 years ago,We did seperate for about 3 months, anyhow we ended up working it out..We got way to comfy in the marriage and things started to go downhill,And then the unthinkable happened..My first thought was divorce when i found out..as i said i moved out..But until your put in this position you just never know ..I felt if i could LEARN to trust him again and of course forgive him for what he did knowing it would take ALOT of time and patience on his part for the damage he caused to me, Then i would be willing to try it again..Today we are very very happy, The best our marriage have ever been.. And its taken awhile but i believe it was worth it. We have been together 17 years now..But if it ever happens again, I will be divorced..And no LOOKING BACK!
627272
He may well have thought he had someone else then found out otherwise. He has some serious explaining to do before you take him back. just because you love him does not mean he can treat you like dirt.
751551
I agree with RaRa. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who needs to worry everytime you are not with him that he may be up to no good? Be with someone you can trust!
21348
If your husband kissed another woman what would you think.  You have already cheated yourself since you got to that point.  Now is the time to feel guilty.
859871
Well for one you cheated not him, does it even matter if he's cheating anymore, you already ruined the relationship, move on.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
316907
just trust your husband - if he cheats, there's no reason for staying with him...there's probably hotter guys out there, u know?
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
263500
You could have tried, but he may not have believed you.  Infidelity by a loved one usually is something that many people need to see for their own eyes to believe.  Especially, if the marriage seems fine to them on the outside.
721604
I'm sorry to hear that your husband is cheating on you because you're pregnant and this should be a happy moment. the easy answer would be to leave him but you have a child , perhaps a house and a commitment made before god through good and bad .\n\nSo you have to weigh your options\n\nmake a lis pros and cons, is he working? does he help with the kids? is he wiliing to consider counseling? will he do it again ? and if he lies when confronted thats a problem. if you chose to forgive your husband he has to be willing to work with you because trust has to be rebuilt ...rebuilding your marriage us goign to take alot of work are you willing to put the time and effort in having kids and being in love is not enough if your self image and ability to look yourself in the mirror is compromised
936642
Yes, and she could also get pregnant. Maybe he is testing her or maybe he is passing the blame onto her because he is guilty of cheating, Tell her to go get herself checked.
370021
I had one bf cheat, he got the girl pregnant.\nOne guy told me he loved me and chased me till I gave in and let myself fall in love with him (he has a kid with someone else) then BAM changed his mind and went back to the mother of his child.
350985
So Im assuming the baby is this other guys? If so, I would look at the situation. Is this guy going to be a father to this child? And can you accept that she cheated on you in the first place? If you know that hes not going to be around as a father and you are love her and are going to be with her long term, why not stay with her and raise this baby. But if you cant get over her cheating on you and she is wanting to be with this other guy, you should get out while you can. Its only going to get ugly.
213137
My husband cheated on me too.  It took a couple years to stop thinking about him with this other woman. It was very hard to stop feeling betrayed.  I don't think theres any certain methods.  Only it takes two.  He has to reasure you that he loves you, and he has to prove to you that he's not going to do this again.  But, you have to accept this, and learn to trust him again.  Youll never forget this, but, It'll only be a foggy memory.  it just takes time, and no one else can tell you how long, it's different for everyone.  Good luck. stay strong...
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.