if u really like a guy should u ask him out or will he think that u r desperate?
103686
OF COURSE you should ask him out! This is 2006. Don't let someone else's chauvinistic idea keep you from doing what you want. If you like someone, let him know. He'll be flattered - whether he likes you or not. And you'll be taking responsibility for your own life, instead of waiting for a man to take control of it for you.
125869
Yes sounds very desperate. Don't give him that. Never chase a man, as women we have so much power that we don't realize what we have sometimes. Try talking to the guy. Act like you didn't know what was said, then if he mentions it say oh yeah she was just kidding around with you. If he really likes you nobody can stop him from getting to you, keep that in mind.
1095535
I would say to ask him out. Don't wait for the opportunity to slip away.
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
114591
This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
376235
You will not become a lonely sppinster.  It does sometimes take some guts but once you take that step and ask him out its soo easy to ask again.  Just think if you dont ask he wont have to opportunity to say YES
31253
Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
887816
well , for starters , maybe he likes you too. But he doesn´t want to ask you out because he feels shy , or because he thinks there´s something going on with that friend of yours. Regarding the religious issue , well, it tends to be a little bit of a bump in the road if you want to have something serious with him , because it´s a little frowned upon by some people , either family , community or friends to tell you the truth , but if you´re lucky enough  to like each other a lot and you hit it off with this guy , then that shouldn´t be an issue you can´t work through . And if you want to ask him out , then why not?  you won´t loose anything by asking , because there isn´t really anything to loose there. and most likely , nothing will ever happen unless someone takes the first step . So if you don´t want to wait around to see if  he decides to do it , then you can go ahead and make your move. Remember , fortune favours the bold.
40989
I agree with everyone here, If you ask him out again you may seem a little desperate! Guys don't like that, and im guessing you dont want to get your feelings hurt again. I say find someone else to spend V-day with, Who knows maybe someone is dying to ask you! Don't go searching for someone though, When its right thell find you!!!
1001473
Well u can't really get him to like u. All u can do is stalk him & hope he panics & gives in ( JUST KIDDING) the best thing to do is be honest. Ask him out..the worst that cud happen is that he'll say no. At least you'll know he's not interested instead of clinging to false hope and maybe even saying no to someone who might've made u happy. Sorry about the joke.. i know how it is to have feelings for a guy and u have no idea what to do.
182742
If you've liked him forever than I definitely think you should ask him out. I know that it's cliche, but what's the worst thing that can happen, right? I know that "no" isn't the best thing to hear but at least then you can move on and have no doubts. And if he says yes then you might just have something and love is always an amazing thing to share with someone.
615378
Guess what? If he is shy and u haven't gone out with each other yet, then he is scared of asking u out as well! Go for it!
407007
Why don't you ask him out? Go ahead see what happens.
289421
I know I'm being a little traditional here, but no, I don't think you should ask him out. That's his job and all you have to do is give him some hints and maybe talk to his friends so he can get the courage to ask you out. Nobody likes rejection, but in life everyone has to learn to overcome it.
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
600861
You wouldn't have to ask him if you get one of your friends to ask for you. Let's put it this way, If a guy likes you he will let you know buy asking you out or he will show signs that he does. You don't ever ask them.
948517
Yes! He wants you. But not in a obssesed way like he wants you to be his girlfriend. If you like him too then you try to take a stand and ask him out.