Is it important tha a married couple should have a child born from their wedlock?
116179
No but it all is depending on how much you love your partner. The marriage is not all about babies but understanding and making others life (your partner) more comfortable,
860529
In my opinion it sounds like a good law. Its may be the womans body, but its the mans sperm. If the father wants to take care of his daughter/son then he should be able to. The woman and man created the baby, not just the woman.
1026258
I think it is. I think we are supposed to get married and have a family. We then find what true love is. When you have kids its something unlike anything else and to me the marriage comes before the kids so without that....you don't get the honor. You don't get to know what it feels like. I believe that there is someone for everyone and God will put this person in front of you when you least expect it and you will know this is the one.
1022286
The greatest important should be given to mother, the importance for the wife will be than obviously. The one cann't able to give importance to his mother cann't ever give real importance to his wife also
858085
Yes and no. \nNot necessarily but I can see how members of the same racial group would have a better understanding of that group's history, culture and traditions. But that isn't to say that any couple willing to adopt would be just as able to learn those traditions to make sure the child knows it's own history.
419627
It is not necessary.  In the traditional sence the two people would wait to have s e x untill after marriage.  Marriage is the ultimate commitment and s e x is theultimate form of physical love, so the two have just become a pair.
910841
What's so wrong with a child born out of wedlock?\n\nMy son is a year old.\n\nI am not married.\n\nF*ck off.
556767
JewJew, never mind the immature answers from some of the previous entries. \n\nLook, there are other alternatives to your situation.  It is wonderful that you and your husband have the love that you do for children and want to have more in your family.  Some families out there don't care enough for the children that they have been blessed with.  You can see that play right out on your answer list by those that probably were not brought up with a lot of morals.\n\nWhich brings us to the next point I am going to make.  There are a lot of children already out there that need loving families.  Such as yourselves.  Adoption would definitely be something to consider, without taking the medical risk that you are willing to.\n\nThis would be worth your time to look into, and as I already stated, don't be bothered by some of the other previous answers because they undoubtedly do not have a clue on what good parenting is all about, whether you have an entire house full of kids, or just one.\n\nGood luck to you and your husband's decision, Make it an act of faith!!   God Bless you and your family.....
968506
personally, i think it's irresponsible. It might lead to a couple of extra bucks in your pocket, but I would rather that men know which kids are theirs and which aren't. If you want to help an infertile couple or woman, hand select them. PLEASE!!!
521823
Yeah I'm with her. Get married first, but don't get married because you to want a baby together because that's not the way to go. The to of you should really love each other enough before you even consider marriage or a baby! Out of that love a child should be conceived, and not because one or the other of you just wants to have a baby. Seriously, think about it before you have the WHAT-IF'S ans WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN thoughts in you mind.
268561
No.  Some children have been born at 4 months and have lived.  Why not wait the pregnancy out and then put the child up for adoption.
620772
Yes. A man should honor and love his wife and children first.
1124831
The number of children a family has should be decided(for the most part) by the couple.  It should be a mutual thing to raise the children, so it should be a mutual thing to decide how many to have.  But they should take into account things like finances and emotional ability to handle children.  The only exception that I see to this is cases where the parents are incapible of caring for their children or are abusive to them.  In those cases, the government should protect potential children from the harm such an upbringing would cause(by not allowing them to be conceived in the first place).
414632
i'm still relatively newlywed (almost 2 years) and so far nothing has been difficult. but I think we both still make the other's needs a priority so that may be the part we actually have to remember to do later... or the part that will not come as naturally once we get lazy, bored, or have kids.
1031092
That's exactly what I think! They say that marriage is to procreate but what about the married couples who use birth control, can't have kids because of medical reasons or get fixed so they can't have any more kids! They shouldn't be allowed to get married either!\nAnd by the way a lot of gay couples do procreate (just not the conventional way)!!
308473
Marriage should be seen as the unification of two family along with the boy and the girl. After marriage Bridegroom gets good treatment in brides family. Bridegroom will be committed for the child's future. U can't do any thing in this world.\n\n If u mistake this world for paradise u have to face the anger of God in this world and doom's day.
455880
Legitimacy is no longer an issue. Children are treated the same, whether born in wedlock or not.