My wife wants me to "serve someone" for Valentines day as her present.  Ideas anyone?
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Volunteeer to read to kids at the library, donate a book to the library in her name, visit the infirmed (elderly in homes) and bring your pet to cheer them up, just about any volunteer work will do.  Run a marathon/fundraiser in her name.  Nice idea.  Best wishes.
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
1008943
You can never go wrong with flowers! Especially roses. Write (or copy, if you prefer) a cute (preferably funny) poem. Have them delivered to her door by you or somebody else. =) Here's an idea for a card..."If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live a day without you" ... Oh, and don't forget the chocolate! yumm
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give her a bracelet, a good one that she never has to take off.  Any gift is fine really, it's how you give it, what kind of love you put with it..and how much intuition you put into it that can decipher the quality and results of the gift.....but my only suggestion is a bracelet....i had to leave to kuwait, so i gave my fiance a bracelet, and told her to wear it around her ankle so she'll never lose it, (and it just looks sexy on her that way), and it only cost me bout 60 some odd dollars...It was something to remember me by while i'm gone...so....stuff like that.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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Well if she knows you like her and she likes you there are many things...candy, flowers, a book, treat her to lunch. If she does not know then maybe a Valentine's Day card asking her to be your Valentine. Good luck :)
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doing something little to let him/ her know that you love him/ her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your husband/ wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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Well the best thing to give her..\nwould be an apology! \nAnd some roses..\nand a puppy.\nand a car..lol.\nno just joking.\nBut being serious.\nAn Apology, and a little treat out to dinner would be nice. \nOr maybe spread rose petals on the floor to the bathtub and have a bubble bath with hot water and rose petals.\nBut an apology comes FIRST!.
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don't go by that. (the paper thing that is) The best gifts I've gotten from my husband are from his heart, something he takes the time to prepare himself, that is unique. Buy her a single rose, go with yellow because everyone gets red or pink, and write her a poem or letter telling you why you love her and what she means to you, actually write it yourself, don't do it on the pc!, then cook her her favorite meal. Give her the rose and your letter or poem at dinner. That will mean more to her than any store bought item, I guarantee it! Good luck, and happy anniversary!
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I am having the same problem...What i came up with is I am making him a coupon book on my computer.  The coupons say things like...1 hour massage at your request, another one says dinner of your choice just how you like it, and a 4 hour coupon to go out with buddies, and there are some other ones but they are kind of personal (if your know what I mean)...I think It will be a great personal fun gift to give him.  Good luck
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my husband is over there right now. you could send videos of all your buddies saying hey your man loves you! send her pics of you and the guys. where my husband is now, he has some access to more cultural type stuff. you could pick out some stuff as souvenirs to send to her. i really like mt. dew, so my husband sent me one of theirs as a souvenir. you could make a cd of songs that make you think of her, that say what you want to say. and when you write to her, tell her how you are feeling, tell her about your plans for the future. girls like that stuff.\nand thanks for your service and sacrifice!\noh, and the best gift of all in my opinion, put together a charm bracelet for her. include charms that symbolize times you spent together. such as a horse for the time you guys went horse back riding together, just as an example. i would love it if my man would think of something like that!
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Something little to let him/ her know that you love him/ her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your husband/ wife/ girlfriend/ boyfrined guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
698395
Thats a really neat idea in itself! What about making her a little gift basket with all of those girly things that we like...such as bath items, candles, and chocolate? Good Luck!
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Something little to let her know that you love her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your girlfriend back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your girlfriend guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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buy something that is reasonable, that shows you thought that she deserved it.  if you have kids, help them make a card from all of you just for a thank you.  if you don't have kids, maybe get a photo of the two of you together, go to the store to one of those photo machines, blow it up and crop it to the right size for a picture frame she would like.  if all else fails...you could get her flowers.  if you want something that lasts longer...a plant with flowers on it.  and a card..  or that idea for a massage is great also or a spa day\n\nthank you for doing something nice for her.  that is great.
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Do something nice that she wouldnt expect ( like giving her flowers or making dinner)
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Make her dinner... if you can't cook get take-out from her fave place and set out some candles.. (don't light the place on fire) play her rave song.. rent her fave movie.. and papmer her with a nice massage.. sounds good to me!