How to get the attention of a girl to love? Advise urgently?
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Do what Van Gogh did: cut off your ear and mail it to her.
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To be honest the best way to get a girl to know that you are interested in her is to tell her and act accordingly . Like we all know that tomorrow is Valentine's day so get her something special that will catch her attention then try to ask her out, but show lots of confidence because CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!!!!
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Be yourself! Be honest authentic with yourself and that will project to her, maybe she will appreciate honesty and most "girls" do like sense of humor, someone who makes them laugh but also someone who can protect her and know how to listen to her problems.\n\n   Its important to listen as to express yourself in creative ways, be rational because in relationships emotions seem to be above logic and reason.\n\n   The most simple is the most perfect, you want to be perfect, be simple !!!
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the best way to let others you are interested is to make eye contact and smile . You can also try dating sites and post a profile . Use the same skills you use to let a girl know your are interested .
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Be a "Secret Admirer" girl's wonder who they are you sure to get some attention she will tell her girl friends and family and everyone will be waiting one day to meet you...\n\nDo this by sending a card with a special home made poem \nyour after her heart so you have to do thing's that they like.\n\nFlowers die cards last forever and you and her will if you approach her in the right ways. Good luck!
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How well do you know her? If she is a long time friend then love is possible. If you have just met her it is only infatuation and you dont know her well enough to love her. \n\nWhichever it is, start by asking her out on a date and work toward girlfriendom. If you just come out and say you love her before you WOO her - she might think your looney. You love her - take the TIME to spend time with her and SHOW her that you care and want to make her happy. You can tell her later when you both feel that way and you will know when that time is when you get there. Then it will be perfect. \np.s. If she wont go out with you after several offers, then it doesnt matter how you feel - she isnt interested. Dont become a stalker - leave her be and look elsewhere.
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for starters of getting her attention just try to make eye contact with her.  if u go to catch her eye and she catches yours she may have been looking at u.  if not then just do it on a daily basis and soon she will wonder if u r looking at her and wen she starts to look at u smile back.  but if she doesnt pay any attention to u at all after a while then u may want to move on.  but after u have her attention then u can try talking to her.  say u like her shirt. ask her things about her life.  they may be random but she will probably enjoy the attention that u give her.  if u stop and play hard to get then she will come to u.  but it may be better to be open with her.  u need to start out small and become her frend.  try being a little flirty and ask her for her number or s/n.  just say that u enjoy talking to her.  she will most likely be flatered and asking her out on the phone or online is way easier than in person.  its way easy to bond with someone by not actually being with them. u just need to be patient.  be the nice guy that u r inside and she will love u for who u r.  always be yourself.  and if she ever needs help with any thing u should always be there for her.  she will be turned on by how nice u to her and she may not want to admit it but she will eventually fall for her as long as u dont act gay.  try to be a little mysterious.  all girls love that.
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Nobody can give you the correct answer for this question but the girl you are interested in. One thing is for sure. Many times the girls need to feel like they are desired by someone. A very constant look in her eyes once and then could possibly draw her attention. Just try to be confident of yourself....
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As a girl if you want to get attention from a guy, there are many efficient and fundamental ways to do so. Let's assume that you do not know very well the guy but would like to know him better or to date him. The most common ways to get his attention: \n\nSmiling politely at him; make sure that he sees it.\nSay "HI" to him whenever you see him in the hallway; a little hand wave is great as well.\nTry to share common interests. If he loves sports, perhaps join him in the same activity.\nTalk to one of his friend to learn more about him or to send the message.\nSend him a card on Valentine's Day. \n\n\nCommunication is very important. You might want to take the first step to talk to him; this can be as simple as "Hey, what's up." in the hallway. Don't forget to include a nice smile.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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Don't worry about meeting your special girl. She will come to you, it's all meant to be. If that girl is REALLY your special girl, she will love you back. FYI, you can't make anyone love you.
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women (as a demographic) aren't as complicated as some men paint them to be. a girl will tell you she loves you when she feels love for you. it's as simple as that. unfortunately for you, there is no generic equation that will give you a definite answer, in terms of time.\n\ndon't confuse interest with love. although getting someone interested in you is the right first step, there is a line that separates the two. when a girl is interested, she will allow herself to enjoy your company. issues on trusting you with her whole being or building a future together do not surface until she begins to love you.\n\nn.b. do not pray for a girl who will instantly (or at least easily) tell you that she loves you. love, for any girl is a  commitment of her heart, body and soul. a girl who will tell you she loves you within a few hours or days of meeting you is more likely to take it back than someone who's had some time to ascertain her true feelings for you.
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I'll probably tell you things you've already heard but here it goes: 1~Be Open and BE YOURSELF- Approach her with a smile to let her know that you are interested and MAKE EYE CONTACT! dont stare! 2~Be Spontaneous- meaning Don't think too hard about what you're going to say - just really LISTEN to what the other person is saying and let yourself respond naturally. 3~Ask Questions - Show you are interested in what the girl is saying by asking for more details.EX what movie/food they like. 4~ Use Innocent Touch - When talking to a girl, lightly touch her arm when you're making a point or laughing at something she has said. Don't overdo it, just a few times in a conversation is enough to send the message that you like her. 5~Be Confident -People are drawn to other people who have confidence. 6~Whispering- thats a good one COMING FROM A GIRLS PERSPECTIVE! If you don't know what to say, compliment her, make her feel good about herself. A few other things you can try is look at her up and down to let her know that you are pleased with what you are looking at. When you are talking with your friends glance at her and smile. Good Luck Guys!
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Tell the person you like them. That should get their attention.
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Dont talk too much about stupid boring boy stuff like football, cars etc.  Ask lots of questions & sound really interested in what ever she tells you, make sure you listen coz she'll test you to make sure & if you arent paying attention she will get upset.  Tell her that you love giving massages & if you get the chance to do it pretend as if you actually do like it.  Take notice of her, if she looks cold (is hugging herself) offer her your jacket.  Always ask if she would like a drink, or something to eat.  Make sure you find her a seat before yourself.  Open doors for her , a lot of girls will say they dont want you to do it but they secretly love it & tell all their friends how much of a gentleman you are if you do.  Give her compliments coz we LOVE them, we just might not show it.  Tell her what ever she is wearing that she looks beautiful in it .. or say she looks very glamorous.
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Just simply tell her, as easy as that. Write her a poem, maybe, expressing all your feelings and thoughts -- she'll like that, any girl loves poetry dedicated to her.
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You smother her or your to needy.. back off a little and give her the to much attention she wants. She loves it when she teases you and wants it more.... if you back off a little and try not showing you want her so bad she will mature up and get off her cloud of playing games of teasing. She loves the attention and it makes her feel good of being 'IT'. If you act a little less interested then she will come to you... just be a good boy and not stray on her by checking out other gals. She is on a role of testing your love of how far your willing to go cuz she wants you to.