knowledge about first night after marriage?
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If you are really in love it's gonna be the best night of your life (wether or not you get sex)\n\nIf you are not in love, it will be the start of a nightmare!!
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Yes, Yes, Yes!\n\nI waited until 20 years, 11 months.\nI know my husband wouldve never married me if he had gotten sex before the ceremony. Men are just like that.\n\nhopefully a husband will be gentle, considerate and loving during that onetime event. Mine lasted all night and finally at 8AM i was deflowered gently, lovingly \n\nA lover will be thinking of himself, take 5 minutes and leave you unsatisfied, wondering how to get it without being married and how fast he can dump you, so that he can go on to another.
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My fiance' and I are getting married in dec. and we are both still virgins and proud of it. We have saved ourselves until our wedding night. We did this to be honoring of each other and to be honoring of God.
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We waited till marriage\n\nWe havee now been married for nearly 14 years and are very happy together.\n\nI think being able to wait did encourage us to put our relationship into areas that we could build our friendship on - and that i find to be the most important part of marriage is being able to like and respect one another and being able to relate to one another.\n\nSex - great - but if that is all the relationship is based on then it wont last very long.  Also if you hav waited and the first night isn't the best then you still have commitment from each other to work on it rather than on relying on it to pull you through.\n\nResisting temptations - if that is really difficult then don't have a long engagement - bring the date forward if need be.  The marriage is more important than having a 'big' day after all.  But meanwhile - resisting temptations - try not to take long periods of time alone indoors (chaperones?) - that is when temptation can strike most often.  also avoid heavy petting - and bear in mind if you haven't got one then PAWZOFF until you are married (and NO i am NOT referring to not touching his car or her microwave!)\n\nI hope that some of the above helps\n\nand God bless your upcoming marriage\n\nwhen is the happy date?
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for men - when they can no longer get hard. \n\nyes most couples usually get down to business  when they marry on the first night.
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first night...definitely
1131342
You can look at it two ways.  Before you were married is before you made a commitment to each other or if he did it once he will do it again.  Not to make you feel worse than you already do, I have been where you are and thought it was before and dosn't count  believe me a leopard doesn't change his stripes and the first time is the hardest.  If it happened once it will happen again.  Learned it the hard way  D
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A few weeks before you do it (if possible), see a doctor to make sure your female parts are healthy. The doctor can tell you whether you are very tight, and if so, suggest what you can do to help. This could be even an operation, or just how to stretch you out. You may choose not to go all the way on your wedding night, until you are comfortable. By all means talk about this with your husband, what the doctor recommended for you, before you actually start to do anything together.
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My husband and I renewed our vows at our church, as we were originally married at the court house 5 yrs before and we too could not dance. Unfortunately that seems to be the norm for that.  All we could do was fellowship basically. You can always dance when you get home :-) Congrats on your upcoming nuptials
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My husband and I have established a "date night" (every other Saturday).  We take turns planning the night, but we keep it a secret.  We've also just started "bowling night" and "movie night" (we alternate these on Wednesdays).  It definitely gives us something to look forward to.\n\nThere's a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex" written by Laura Corn.   Once a month we each pick a sealed page, tear it out of the book, and keep it a secret.  We try to follow the scenario throughout the week and we surprise each other.  Some of them are kind of raunchy, but you don't have to follow them exactly (we don't).  Either way, we always fun!!!\n\nGive it a try!!!
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after u sleep and before ur partner wakes up
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First of all, it's not true that "you can't sleep the whole night" if you are sexually active.  ROFLMAO.  Somebody is playing with your head.\n\nSecondly, you should never feel OBLIGATED to do anything you don't want to do.  How do you know how you will feel on your wedding night?  You might be so excited and happy that it doesn't matter how tired you are.  But if you find that you ARE too tired, well then of all the people in the world, your husband should understand that, and it should be able to wait until the next day.\n\nHoney, honestly, you sound like you are a virginal bundle of nerves.  Relax.  Don't stress about it.  Let your body talk to you, and do it when you're ready, but if you are scared to be intimate with this man, then perhaps he is not the right one for you.
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I have no idea. Personally I don't have a problem with sex before marriage as I would want to know what I was getting before I got married to a man for life. Not that sex is all a relationship is but I think it's an important part. I don't think you should sleep around indiscrimately regardless of being married or not though.
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if u havent been intimate with ur wife before, then take it slowly the first night. hold her and kiss her. \n\nshe might not be ready to have sex the first night. and the last thing u should do is to insist on it as that will just lead to future problems in both ur sex lives!
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When I divorced my first husband I swore I'd never get married again. Well, a year and a half later I fell in love. Six months after that I remarried a terrific man who helped me raise my sons. That was 20 years ago and we're still together and very much in love.\n\nI agree with you about the bar scene. I was fortunate to meet my husband through my family. Many churches have singles groups for adults. \n\neharmony.com seems to be a great place to meet just the right guy: http://www.eharmony.com/\n\nIt is scary when you first start dating. Sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and say yes to that first date. You already know the things that you don't like from your first marriage. Use that knowledge as you get to know your dates. I'm not saying carry that baggage with you, but it can be a yardstick to measure by. Take your time and don't rush into anything.\n\nOnce you know that you're going to get married, then introduce him to your daughter. Talk to her ahead of time so she knows what to expect. Let their relationship develop at its own pace. \n\nMirror.co.uk has an article that may give you some guidance: http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealth/sexandrelationships/tm_objectid=16872368&method=full&siteid=94762&headline=will-a-new-man-upset-my-child--name_page.html\n\nI found my true love after a disastrous first marriage. You can too! God Bless!
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I think you'll be fine. You've just built it up in your mind a bit too much (which is only natural whatever your age).\n\nI also think that you have a lot of stress in your life right now. Even good things like buying a house and getting married cause stress because they are big, life-changing events. Look at the facts:\n\n1- getting married\n2- buying a house\n3- having sex for the first time\n4- Losing your religious faith\n\nAnd probably more things that you haven't mentioned. You have a lot going on right now and it's only natural to be nervous. you are not messed up you are just under pressure. \n\nNobody is forcing you to have sex on your wedding night. This is YOUR marriage, YOUR wedding, YOUR life and YOUR rules. You and your partner are the ones who make the rules and when you are ready for the next step it will come naturally. Just try not to put pressure on yourselves. Relax and go easy on yourselves. You two make the rules here.
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Go to the first link I've included and join Oprah's book club - it is free.  Follow the links and you will find a huge amount of information there about Night.  \n\nI have included several additional links to help you.  You should be able to find all you need  to write an excellent answer to your question.