Is it normal to not crave sex all that often?
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We can't all be aroused all of the time...we'd never get anything else done.
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It would actually depend on what what kind of relationship you have, with the person that you are with. If you are still very close , and still very in love with your wife---> then your sexual relationship is normal. The closer you are to someone , the more you want them physically!\n  I have heard of other couples being together not as long as you two have , that say they only have sex once a week. I know another couple that says they only have sex once a month. I thought this was crazy , one lady told me do you see how clean my house is ??? How do you think that it stays this clean---By not having to worry with that all of the time.I would rather live in a simi clean house and have great sex alot more often.Another though is , maybe these couples have never really had great sex before. I myself think that something is very wrong with couples that dont have sex atleast once a day. But , i also understand that not all of us have the same sex drive.\n  Me and my x-husband used to have sex atleast once a day.\nWe were together for 8 1/2 years. But, during the pregnancy of our second child---> i lost all interest in sex which was suddenly too painful to me. I am not saying that he stopped getting it , but pretty close to it. However i gave him blow jobs alot. Then when our son turned 3 months old , i found out he was cheating on me & kicked him out . I still wonder if my not wanting to have sex with him was partly coming from the fact that i knew that something was going on. My husband and i never really liked eachother , so i was wondering how often we would have had sex , if we were deeply in love. The point is, I promise that the strength of your feelings in your relationship, helps alot to determine how often you get it !
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yes sometimes twice a day and it is healthy. Also you can have a normal sex life
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The most important factor you need to consider is your age;  how old are you?\nAnother factor to remember is that not everybody peaks out at the same age.  I think your partner plays an important part as to what age a person peaks out.  During your peak, the desire for sex for most would be satisfied by having sex 2 or 3 times per day.   This however varies depending on factors such as how much free time partners have, if the relation is new,  if couples have been separated,  if the relationship is stable and couples are comfortable with each other, etc.\n\nIf you need sex more than 4 times a day everyday, then you are either a nymphomaniac or a sex  addict.  I believe that a nympho needs sex to satisfy a physical condition, and that addict is need for sex to satisfy a mental condition.
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Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
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There is nothing wrong with wanting sex all the time and it is hard when one person seems disinterested.  You have some idea if he is under stress or if he is tired all the time so I won't go that route with this answer.  I also won't go down the is he cheating path because if you had some concern about that you would have mentioned it in your question.  I would ask you to think about what was going on before you got married when the two of you were having sex regularly.  Were the two of you living together??  Were you the one who initiated it all the time??  Alot of times we have the answers to the question we pose you simply need to look into your history with your husband.  I asked you the questions above because a similar thing happened in my marriage.  I was distracted and very busy not to mention I was very tired all the time and I felt as if I didn't want to disappoint my wife by not having the energy that I normally had.  So she felt I had to be out there doing something with someone because I was not doing it enough with her.  Desire is what fuels sex so you have to "get back on your husband's mind".  How, well some times a little shock could be the key.  In your question you say you are thinking about getting it elsewhere, tell him that.  Yeah I said it, tell him that he is frustrating you and though you don't want to cheat, he makes you feel as if you want to cheat.  Now don't dare cheat because it is not worth it.  You wouldn't want  him to cheat on you.  Tell him that making love is very important to you and that you are not trying to be selfish but that you need and want to show affection.  From the wording of your question, you seem like you are willing to do what it takes to make him happy.  My other suggestion is to be patient.  You might have to accept a compromise where you might have to get it twice a week instead of everyday.  One thing is for sure, sex cannot be the defining issue in your marriage.  You have to find a way to communicate what you are feeling and act with the information that you receive.\n\nGood Luck
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Nothing to be ashamed of. Every individual has his own habits and appetite.  Some crave for sex all the time and some don't.  It's just that you have a bigger appetite for sex that makes you think more and more about it.  It is not wrong until it does not effect your work and other activities.
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Nothing wrong with it.  Enjoy it while it lasts cause you will have times like that and times you won't want it.  Me and my wife are that way.  Sometimes I am the horny one then her and sometimes both at same time then sex daily is awesome thing.  Maybe try spicing things up with sexy lingerie and stuff.  Nothign is wrong with you just your body tell you it is in heat and wants to have sex
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Your level of activity. Amount of liquid intake.  These are just a couple of possibilities. And how frequent is "frequent"? Do you have uncontrollable urges or accidents? If so, you had better see a doctor soon.
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I think its normal for a man to want sex at any age...i don't think you libido ever dies it might slow down but it doesn't leave...so yes its very normal...we are human and humans have urges...enjoy
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NORMALLY I PLEASE MYSELF EVERY 2 OR 3 DAYS.BUT WHEN I AM CLOSE TO MY MONTHLY I GET EXTREMELY HORNY AND CAN DO IT EVERYDAY.I CAN CLIMAX A GOOD 5 TO 10 TIMES A DAY.
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You might be thinking bout sex alot coz your not doing it enough and also coz you have a male hormone that increases sexdrive. Women actually have it too but not as much!
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yes ...it is a normal thing if u haven't got a partner or if the partner isn't satisfying u
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YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
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hell no you can have to much sex. but i am a veru sexual person and whenever i see my bf we have sex cause we only see each other on the weekend
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I've heard about 1-2 times per week is average.  That's my husband, usually.  I can get him every 2 days if I play my cards right...but my sex drive is MUCH greater than his...I would never cheat on him, and he would never cheat on me...but sometimes regardless of how um...satsfying it is for me...I want more.  So for some people it is stronger and for some people it is not strong at all...and that is normal.
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Relationships have various stages. You're probably in the comfortable stage now, and sex isn't the most important thing anymore. Also, one's sex drive has ups and downs (so to speak). I wouldn't worry unless it is causing stress on your relationship. \n\nYou could always do something to spice it up a bit. Sometimes it does get mundane. That doesn't mean it's bad ... just not mind-blowing sex like it is at the beginning.