What is the wife swapping?Have any one experience that?
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Never done it, but i'll bet its intense specially if the 4 of them are in the same room! Or knowing she's in another room enjoying herself. Either way its fine.
923049
You'll be surprise that there are actually housewife that live like that. It might not exactly the same, but a lot is similar. I love watching the show, just because it's funny in it's own way.
865369
I've been the bread winner with a not so attractive woman (and later on her personality got uglier than her looks) and I am now married to a gorgeous woman who makes more than I do. Either way it didn't matter to me. Right now we live as what ever money she makes, she spends and what ever I make, I spend. We split the common bills down the middle. Works great. \n\n(I'm still kind of old fashioned where I don't judge a woman by her looks/status/money, I still judge them by their personality) Works great.
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So, you got caught writing sexy letter to other women, and claiming in the letters to be single.  Now, you are hoping one of us can come up with some magic solution, one that convinces your wife that it great for her husband to be chasing after other women.  I have no magic solution, and doubt one exists.  Beg forgiveness.
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looks like you might have married the wrong woman.  maybe the sex will get better and i supppose there is a chance youll fall in love with her.  These things arent supposed to be left to chance... Was it an arranged marriage?
582257
no. i like to do that with my husband. it's us against the rest of the world....you're not doing anything wrong. you're wife needs to boost her own self esteem so she won't be so paranoid.
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yes ive been there and yes u can have fuk buddies in the long run it will eat at u that u cheated or she will find out belive me she will is this fuk buddie worth your marrige ??????
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My wife and I have an exceptionally happy marriage. We've been together for 15 years, and still love every moment we spend together.\n\nMy wife is bi-sexual, and I am straight, and for years she had fantasies about inviting other women, and other men and other couples into our bed, as did I.\n\nAt some point it became a part of our pillow talk, we talked to each other about our fantasies, and engaged in sharing fantasies as part of our lovemaking.\n\nAfter a few years of that we decided to invite a friend into our bed.\n\nIt was a disaster! We hadn't done any research at all on how to be successful, and foolishly thought all we had to do was enjoy ourselves.\n\nA few more years went by and we continued to share fantasies, and again the subject came up - needless to say we were more cautious this time, we actually found some swingers discussion boards, and became participants - asking questions, and learning how successful swingers did it.\n\nWe joined a couple of swingers match making sites and started to understand what we were looking for and how it matched with what others were looking for.\n\nWe found a great magazine about swinging (I'll put a link in the sources section), and read it cover to cover.\n\nWe looked online and found a swingers club in our area and decided to visit the club.\n\nWe went to the club and get so excited that we couldn't wait and ended up having semi-public sex with each other (which was one of her fantasies - she is very exhibitionistic).\n\nThen we went home and again had fantastic sex.\n\nWe went again the next weekend, and found a couple that looked fairly unthreatening and asked if we could sit down - they were very helpful in explaining all of the etiquette of the swingers lifestyle, and what the expectations were, so we sat with them all night and basically had them do a brain dump of everything they had learned in 25 years of being swingers.\n\nOne of the things we kept hearing was that we needed to set rules - which explained the disaster we experienced in our first attempt - no rules! We didn't know what was expected, there were guilt feelings and jealousy, and recriminations.\n\nWe sat down and developed a set of rules designed so that we would both know whet was okay, what made each of us uncomfortable, what was strictly off-limits, etc.\n\nWe discovered that getting ready to go to the club was so exciting that we almost didn't even need to go, the anticipation, the time we spent naked while bathing, grooming and getting ready, the conversations we had with each other while getting ready, watching her get her sexiest outfits on, and try things on for me, excited both of us so much we almost always had to make love before we even went to the club!\n\nAs we got more comfortable and confident (because of all the open conversation) our sex lives again improved, we couldn;t keep our hands off of each other, riding in the car became really hot, getting ready for work in the morning became really hot, getting ready for bed, going out to dinner, all of our daily activities became huge turn-ons because we were so hot for each other.\n\nWe would spend time talking about things we wanted to try, and watching attractive women walk past would cause secret smiles to cross our faces because we would both be wondering if that sexy soccer mom was really a closet, back scratching, climb-the-headboard s lut!\n\nOne night at the club, after months of playing with just one another, we met a married woman who followed us back to a room and joined us.\n\nIt was incredible! We both felt completely confident in our marriage and in our rules, and fulfilled a couple of our fantasies right then!\n\nWe met her and her husband for dinner a couple of nights later and immediately hit it off - the hardest part of swinging is finding a group of people that all like and respect each other, and find each other attractive!\n\nWe started having foursomes - extremely erotic and enjoyable, and became
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What women are you talking about, cause I'm certainly not one of those women.  And to answer your question:  What can you get from a husband that you can't get from friends?  How about commitment?
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How many men present this morning have a neighbour or a friend with a wife who is more intelligent than your wife? She's a woman who has common interests with you, interests that your wife finds boring. She's talented, a classy dresser who cares for her body and carries herself in a noble fashion. You ask yourself, "Why doesn't my wife sparkle like that chick?"\n\nFriends, comparison is a deadly game. Don't do it! It leads to coveting, adultery and divorce. Coveting blinds you to your spouses positive character qualities. Coveting makes you despise your wife's humility, meekness and virtue. Coveting robs your spouse from the position of Top Dog in your life. She is no longer your most cherished possession, she is "The Wife." Coveting tears-up families like useless scrap paper. Don't do it!
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Hi there,\nI can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did.  I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state).  Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting.  We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope.  Out of sight, out of mind.   The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again.  Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.\nBest wishes,
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never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
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You seem to be talking about two different things.  The original Swinger's started in the 1960's and usually involved a group of couples who were neighbors/work connected/belonged to a regular group such as a county club.  The idea was that happily married couples could enjoy each others spouses openly.  the original name was "Wife Swapping"  What you seem interested in is a type of polygamy.  I've often thought I would enjoy having a co-wife who could share the household work and my husband.  The sex part could be worked out to suit the individual.  I don't agree with these jerks that want to add a new younger wife every time he sees one he wants. Even Mohammad said a man cannot do justice to more than two wives.  \nI had some flower children friends (years ago) that jumped over a broom and declared themselves married every time they got the urge.  They didn't usually last too long and resulted in a lot of STD's and babies with weird first names.  \nFor it to work, you need to know the people you're jumping in bed with.  That is if you are planning a relationship that exists out side the bedroom also.  Be Very Careful!
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Lucky guy!!\n\nDon't worry,\nProceed slowly\nWhen I could convinced my most conservative Indian housewife for similar purpose, I am sure she will also get sexcited and join your team.
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No, dear.  See, what is happening is she is letting you think you are right just to make you feel good.  She is wise, your wife.  It is one of her many clever ways, to once in a while "admit" to being "wrong."  Of course, she is never wrong!
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Makes me wonder if the guys who are in favor of it would be in favor of sharing their Wives with other men as well.\n\nAfterall it should go both ways.\nSomehow I am doubting the guys would be in favor of that :)
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My hubby just got home in September!!! If you don't live on base and have military wives as friends, I suggest joining a Yahoo group for military wives... it's good to talk to others who've been there.. and are there for that matter!!!