what are key traits to being gay?
110711
there is only one: sexual attraction to the same sex.  Other than that homosexuals come in all shapes, sizes, colors, masulinities/femininities etc.
1120982
1.LOVE\n2.Self made man\n3.Heart of Gold\n4.Sense of Humor\n5.Lastly be a friend/confidante then husband
1102938
If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
1131512
nice teeth,nice shoes,being manly like never back down from a fight, high social status,dont ask their opinion all the time just make decisions,(don't be controlling)you should be better than them soccialy(like always have something to teach them)
269489
Become Gay.... Other Wise Get Used To It
960812
Sweet, thoughtful, attentive, faithful, sensitive, respectful, down-to-earth, humble and polite.  Preferably about 10-13 years older than me (hey, guys mature slower than women and I don't want to be taking care of boys in their mid-30's).\n\nAny physical attributes comes second.
1131244
1. Looks (eyes, ass, shoulders)\n2. Attitude (does he make me laugh?  Does he smile a lot?)\n3. Smarts (can he tie his shoes?  LOL)\n4. Simularities (What do we have in common?)\n5. Wealth (or any money at all?)
819801
The nature of homosexuality is... love.\n\nLove that transcends what your eyes see, what your ears hear, what your hands feel, what your tongue tastes & what your nose smells...\n\nIts about what's inside your heart... love.
827879
What makes you gay is enjoying a relationship of a sexual nature with the same sex.  What you have is called fetishism.  Maybe it will steer towards a gay lifestyle but alone it doesn't make you gay.
81429
it depends on what you like. what makes you happy about a guy when your around them. qualities could be: cute ( but the best guys arent the cutest), funni, sweet, romantic, playful, comforting, trusting, honest, smart, and someone who does not like to play games or waste your time.
1031985
It really depends on how you define being gay.\n\nFor some, being gay is simply something that happens once an act is fulfilled.  Personality, gender identification and intent are irrelevant.  So long as you had a homosexual experience, you are gay. End of story.\n\nFor others, the act is less important than the intent.  A guy, for example, might find himself having homosexual sex due to being in prison with other guys for so long.  But this does not necessarily make him gay.  Another guy, on the other hand, may find himself attracted to and willing to spend his life with another man in a sexual and passionate relationship.  He identifies himself as gay.\n\nFor others even, its more inherent in one's actions and personality than intent.  Being wishy-washy, talking with a particular accent to it, wearing certain clothes, all these are marks of being gay for some people.\n\nSo, I say decide first on what "Being Gay" means for you, then see if you apply to that definition.  That is, of course, assuming you prefer sticking yourself into a label.\n\nAfter all, why can't we all just be called sexual human beings?
16427
There is no such thing as perfection straight or gay, you just need to be happy with who you are and who you choose. Try gay dating websites, gay clubs and or if your tuned in enough you'll just know when somebody is that way inclined believe me. Be comfortable and proud about who you are and this will attract peeople always!
625820
it feels good.. a gay person is still a person!  they aren't any different except fo their sexual preference!  one of the things that i've learned about the ppl in the gay community is that they are the most open, caring, compassionate ppl out there!  they don't judge ppl because they know how it feels to be judged!
123683
I believe you are born with it.  My cousin is gay, and I swear by the time he was two years old you could tell he was going to be gay.  Before you say it was influence or whatever, let me tell you he was brought up in a perfectly average household, with a loving mom and dad, and a macho big brother.  We are born the way we are born.
1080148
Gay has 4 meanings. 1.Gay- very happy. 2.Gay- Attracted to the same sex like male and male or female and female. 3.Gay-  Bright and lively; colorful.   4.Gay- Given to social pleasures.
156876
integrity,a sense of humor, being an attentive listener and supportive\n\n\n:-)
268925
Exactly how do you measure "gayness?"\nEither you like having sex with other men or you don't. \nI don't think it is possible to measure levels of gayness.