Why can't men be honest in relationships? Why must they have more than one woman in their lives?
110058
Bad question.  Some men CAN be honest in relationships, and some men are faithful to only one woman.\n\nI think the question is why does your (ex?) man have more than one woman in his life?  Don't know.  : )
621017
i think that many men that cheat, don't cheat for the love, it is sex,or being bored with their current, g/f o. wife..ect, They don't do it like women. Women cheat for feelings, unless they are just horney, and are not getting what they want from their man/partner. Women seem to want the relationship and the feelings to be deeper than a man wants. Not that men do not have deep feelings....many men love very much, but it seems that many women cheat much more than men these days? women seem to be cheating quite a bit..the big stereotype of only men cheating has totally turned!
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
412393
maybe b/c men know women can be able to give another woman what men can't give.. don't you thing another woman who has had a bad relationship with a man would know how another woman feels..
667624
Because they make it that way. It never should be that hard to love someone, but for men and some women they need a lot of drama in their life. Also some want to blame the other sex for their problems. If a man thinks a woman did him wrong he will blame all women..............
1178094
Personally I think the main reason guys cheat is that they are looking for something they are not getting at the present.  It may not always be about sex but perhaps more along a more robust converstation or possibly just the personality altogether.  Many will not break up with the current gf until they have secured the next relationship.
1005062
Okay.  First and foremost, understand and accept this: Men are boneheads when it comes to the plain and obvious!  Got it? Good.  Let's move on.  Men do not have shades of complexity like women.  I don't know why nor will I try to pretend to be an expert at it.  Don't speculate why he's had four girlfriends in a 3 month period.  Maybe it was them.  How can you let him know how you feel without being so blunt and obvious?  You really can't.  Again, go back to the fact men lack the levels of complexity.  Women are like the deep blue sea with all it's beauty and secrets.  Men are puddles.  Plain and simple.  You need to virtually grab him by the face and pull him to yours and say, "Hey, dipshit!  I'm falling in love with you and don't know exactly why.  I want to be with you but I don't know why.  All I know is that I think of you all the time.  Got it?"\n\nThat pretty much should do it.
575062
i hate to say it but men are selfish...i think they will always continue to cheat because they just cant control themselves if another woman happens to show interest. if he cheated once yeah he prob will cheat again but its not ur fault he just doesnt respect himself how could he respect you?
75863
I want honesty and no games from a man. I care about what is inside of the person a whole lot more then what is on the outside. I recently got back on the dating scene since my husband died. It is different and the men I meet are definately carrying around a lot of baggage.
416084
Sounds like the type of guy who is never happy with just one woman. I would confront him and ask him what was going on with all the calls..K Hard to trust a liar..K
46851
Men know that a small thing for them, can be a huge thing for a woman.  So they are in fact lying to protect themselves from a big argument, or fight or whatever best suits you.  Some are actually sensitive and dont want to see you upset or crying over something that looks bad but is not (in their eyes).\nThe sad thing is they are not good liars and sooner or later we find out then the fight or argument will be even bigger than they thought.
1116818
First of all, it depends on age, and past experiences. If you're under the age of 25, then guys really don't want to make a commitment to one woman. I know, this sounds horrible, but guys like to believe they can get any woman any time. Also, if a guy has had his heart stomped on before, then he will have trouble making a commitment. When a guy makes a commitment in a relationship, he usually puts it all out on the line. He gives you his heart, he spoils you with whatever you want becasue he is so in love you. Then one woman can ruin it all by breaking his heart, because next time around he will try not to let a woman in close, because he is afraid of getting hurt. Men don't make commitments, because they are protecting themselves again the pain and anguish they have felt in the past. Kind of like when a kid touches a hot stove, he never touches a hot stove agian becuase it hurts!
26554
If you can not be open and honest in your communication with members of the opposite sex, then you are a Player.  To you, Life is a game.  Marriage is not.
1173056
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
102016
Honesty is the most important thing.  If your significan't other accidently got their face burned would that be a better reason to leave them than if they lied to you?  I guess it may depend on who you are, but to me, Id take an honest woman any day over a hottie.  At least you can trust the honest woman not to cheat.
14786
Many past lovers? My question for you unfortunately is have you been checked for AIDS etc? Sorry for that, but your saying many lovers made me think that as a first thing. What do you consider many? Some think more than one is many, others have had so many they don't even know a number.  I would be careful how this is approached. I do believe honesty is the best approach in a serious relationship, there is no way of ever knowing how he will feel with whatever you tell him. I do wish you the best in whatever you decide to do....
534801
Ok..then let me return to you this question:what do you call a man who sleeps with a lot of women?Why is it ok for men to do this,but women should stick to one man?That is so hypocrite!