if i tell my boyfriend i love him and he goes yah me too but does not say it back?
110210
If he tells you when you are alone take it as fact and be happy with it. He may feel shy to talk openly about it with his friends are around. Respect that.
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
383136
hey hun... i think saying i love you should be said when the person really loves u. ur friend gt her guy to say it in  6 weeeks.. i am sure he has said it loads of times after that.. but when ur boyfriend actually says it to u it would mean a whole lot more than it wld mean whenhe says it when u want him to. you need to do anything to make him say it. you just wait till hez comfortable enuf to say it. at least he is not mis-using the word love.
840457
Sometimes in life actions speak louder than words. I want you to ask yourself why is it you need to hear him say I love you, why do you want or need him to say that. surely you are aware of his feelings. Some guys cannot say that but they do feel it . It's not about him being the emotinal type or not. It's about your need to hear those words. We cannot make others do or say what we want them to.  love is not about  expecting things from our loved ones it's all about acceptance being aware of each others needs and healthy communication based on honesty etc. so maybe you two need to have a really open honest talk about what each others needs are and what you both can do for one another so that each of you feel loved and appreciated without feeling like you are being to pushy demading or emotional.\n\nBe honest with yourself about your feelings and when you both chat togehter do so without judging one another. enjoy the time you have together making the most of your time and energy and never for one minute take each other for granted. Good luck with everything in life.  Sometimes in life we need to allow ourselves to think differently to improve ourselves and our life in general.
118091
girl u must tell him ryt away............ you dont know maybe he loves you too,theres nothing wrong for telling your feeling about him.........we have freedom to tell.......good luck girl
288995
Whatever u say, don't tell him "i love him" - say "I love u"\n\nand probably he already knows\nits in ur eyes
953211
If he is caring and loving. This is the key in the relationship.\n\nThen do not leave him for that. \n\nIt is very cultural and very family oriented. It is a taboo to some but if you must need this particular assurance then, ask him what is the reason he does not acknowledge, at least by saying "me too" when you say to him "I love you".\n\nThen see if he acknowledges, in few days test him, if he does not say some thing close to it then you decide what is more important to you, him caring and loving or just the words.
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
879780
um, what? If he says he loves you, he's probably just shortening "I'm in love with you" down to "I love you." What are you worried about?
667857
wow, do you talk to this guy you love? get him talking and see if he is seeing somebody. then if he isn't tell him about your interest though you may want to tone it down a bit at the start so you don't scare him off. some men don't want to hear "i love you" on the first conversation. good luck :)
136461
It'll be obvious its not like something that is a secret if its true love, and if he says it with ease its probably because hes used to saying it but if he says it with hesitation and you know him to be the one taht holds back in relationships its straight up how hes feeling. Best of luck
1024972
Always be true to your feelings.  If you never tell him, he will never know.  You never gave it a chance because you never told him.  He may love you and be holding back.  Wouldn't you want to know?  I know I would.  Tell him and go from there.  Good Luck!
565163
no, if you can't tell him to his face that you love him then you actually don't love him. Loving someone means you have to feel comfortable around him. If he can't take you seriously, then he don't have alot of trust in you. Just try it and see what happens. Whatever you do, please don't write it
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
768453
Well for me it does not matter how long you have been in a relationship when you say i love you, i think you should ONLY say it when you mean it. I think all the teens and dont Think i am some adult thinking bad of teenagers actually i am in the 8th grade so i am basically talking about my friends they toss around '' i love you'' to anyone and everyone and i dint think that is right you should only say '' i love you'' when you truly do. If you love him then just say it but go with you hart if you think it is too early or he might not ''love'' you then dont, other wise say it.
96793
He might just start talking nonsense! That's what happened when my boyfriend first told me that he was in love with me. Just take your time to feel him out and see what his aim is, if you love him then go for it. But don't jump into anything, always think b4 you act!
511575
We say alot of things when angry and it is usually the way we feel. I would not tell someone that he probably doesn't love you, but I will say make sure to watch his actions and go by that. He will never change and it will only be useless to think he will. You can only change yourself. Keep your head held high and never compromise what you believe in..