Would this bother you? Girls, guys weigh in also if you want.?
101855
Well...yes, it would bug me, but I'd keep it to myself... If he's not doing anything wrong, it's not fair to make him pay for what he's not doing and being insecure is unattractive, and if she's not a nice girl, your insecurity may be what she wants... Grit your teeth and make like you could care less how she acts, if you're VERY, VERY polite to her, one of two things will happen....She'll get very uncomfortable just because you're so comfortable, or she's really just a slightly clumsy, overly friendly girl and not "up to" anything and you'll wind up friendly with her...either way, you win...trust me, I'm old, I know stuff.
96288
Yes I do and I'm happy to hear you say that you take measures to make sure that you look decent in public. Do you really want all that unwanted attention? I think your guy is being an a.s.s.**** to ask that of you, it only serves his purpose not yours. You keep doing what makes you feel comfortable, that's what matters.
873973
if i was a guy... prolly not... but being a girlk... sure. but thats tottaly weird. haha
652669
No, not at all...and if you do, then you are setting a double standard (if your a guy) and if you are a girl, don't worry about it...
53309
Your biggest problem is your self image. You need to learn that you have plenty of great qualities and boost your self esteem instead of reducing yourself to your own negative perception of your appearance. The guys you really want to know could care less that you are a little overweight. It's what's inside that counts. Smile ;0)
638833
If they have been already seeing you for a month, then being a small person is not the real issue.  Those that are bothered by size would be so from the first.\n\nBut yes many people place physcial looks, height, weight, hair color and all sorts of physcial issues as why they would or would not date someone.
411185
They're just feeling insecure because standing next to you it would be even more apparent THEY don't work out. Most men wouldn't want a woman who is stronger than them or earns more than them or has a better career. We've got to be very subtle about these things lest we offend their fragile ego!
874649
It shouldnt be down to the size, it should be what you feel about that person, You and many other males in this world bang on about big women, stating that they are easy lays and that they are up for anything that goes, but how many women do you hear making remarks about a blokes size, whether it be in their pants or just general body size, not many, so why not the male gender take a leaf out of the ladies book and stop being so cruel to women with uncalled for remarks and start being a bit more respectful,
206599
Unless the breasts were evil fanged monsters, I think I would not worry a lot about this. The girl is supposed to be more important to you than any of her parts.
434951
its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
719564
I think it's great that your turned on by bigger people.  To much emphasis is put on being skinny. I grew up thinking that if I weighted 125 pounds that I was chubby.  It's not weird.  It's okay to be turned on by it except when the fetish starts controlling you and makes a significant impact on you and others.  But I don't think this happens very much.
334422
Well it depends on the situation.When I am around guys bragging in front of females. I usually brag about how small mine is.That usually gets a laugh.Sometimes peeks there interest.Yes.Camping some time ago.Girls and guys.The girls talked us into pulling them out to see who was the biggest.Felt sorry for some.I won but not by much.Like I said .In the right situation.In front of just guys I don't think I would pull it out.That would be alittle to creepy for me.
23346
There are far more fetching problems present in day-to-day life...and that should not be one of them.  Unless however, the girls are stalking you, hiding out in your backyard, or physically attacking you when you go out.  It would be nice to see just what it is that is so attracting to these girls. However, being that we cannot, most of us especially the men would probably say, "Shut up and stop complaining”…or would you rather get attention of a different kind because you have a deformity or worse.
712908
In all honesty we are so use to guys doing it that we never knew that it would actually bother you if we did it. She might be doing it for the same reasons guys do it "she does not want to hurt your feelings".
270588
come on girls..be honest...it matters.  But only in the extremes, like extremely small or extremely large
841006
My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
683172
Yes it is. . . for starters.  There may be underlying causes.  The bottom line is guys don't like fat girls.  They are very visual.  Most girls wouldn't like a 250 lb boy.  Start walking and stop eating chips and drinking soda...you'll be amazed at the change.