Five Items you would tell a friend to take with them when leaving domestic violence?
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1) important legal documents - birth certificates, marriage/divorce papers, social security card, passports, etc.\n\n2) Photographs - they are not replaceable\n\n3) Keys - to the house in case you need to go back; all the keys to the car you're taking, so he doesn't have the spare set and can't come take it from you; to anything else like a PO box or safe deposit box or your workplace, etc.  \n\n4) sentimental items - hard to replace or irreplaceable\n\n5) Jewelry - may be sentimental, and may also be sold to help out financially
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be the best friend that you would want if you were in that situation. just do extra little things like opening the door and little hugs and you might turn a bombed day into a sunshiny bright day.
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From experience.. she should call the cops, go to court and get a restraining(protective) order and in many cases relocate and do not for any reason call or contact this person. Guys like this mess with the victims head and make them feel guilty for things that they shouldn't.Guys that abuse make the victim scared, depressed, and feel terrible about themselves.It is hard to get away and the person needs much ,much support. It is very complicated but she needs to do the above then talk to a councilor at a domestic violence org.
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Spa service (massage/facial)\nManicure/Pedicure\nMaid service\nRestaurant gift card\nCool handbag/purse\nEbay, QVC, or HSN Gift card\nHer favorite tv show in DVD collection (i.e.  Ally McBeal, Friends, A Different World, Cosby Show, Melrose Place, Frazier, etc.)\nA puppy or kitten\nDigital Camera & Printer\nFramed picture of the two of you together\nGym membership\nWeekend Getaway\nAirline gift card\nCertificate to get her hair professionally styled\nScented candles/bath products\nReally good chocolate\nCook her dinner and dessert\n\nIf you are a thorn in her side...\n \nMove out\nStop asking her for money\nGet a job\nGo to college\nDo somethng with your life
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gift basket w/ lotions, bath gel, chocolates, makings for hot chocolate or tea... throw in a dainty china cup and saucer.....\n\nWrite a handwritten note, encouraging friend to take the contents of this basket and sneak away from the cares of life to relax and reflect on love, life and happiness.\n\nBe Blessed!
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Leave him, chances are you will be next This is how alot of domestice violence begins. \n\nBut call a family member and plan it ahead of time.
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CARRY IN A SEPARATE  BAG   AND WHEN YOU GO THREW METAL DETECTOR TELL THEM WHAT YOU HAVE ..OK HAVE A FUN TRIP
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Good for you for making the very difficult decision to leave. I don't know if you have gone to counseling. That can be a good step in moving on. Some shelters for abused women have free counseling programs even for women who have not lived there. Also there are often non-profit counseling centres. If you are in North America call 211 or your local community information center for more details.\n\nI had a bad five year relationship that began to be physically abusive by the end. In my situation, I found that talking to an experienced counselor helped. I also got involved in activities that I had let slide when I was with my ex. I spent a lot of time reconnecting with old friends. It's a good time to explore new hobbies too. If you can't think of one, think of what you most loved doing as a child (painting, singing, writing...) and maybe take something like that up again. This is your time to find out more about you. I wish you all the best!
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A scrapbook...maybe you could collect some photos of you and her having fun, on your first day of schoool etc. It's just a way to show you care...Maybe a card with a poem or something nice she likes...I think a scrapbook is good because I did it to my friend who was moving away and she liked it so much she started bursting into tears (because she's happy! She's sensitive..) Good luck. Just show your friend how much you care about her. If you give her a scrapbook she'll know how much you care for her because you collected the photos...Good luck...
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Get company....where ever you go.....never be alone......get protective weapons if possible for self defense.......
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If there are kids involved it can be tricky, You can just make the choice to leave and then follow thru. if you need help you can find the number of a local domestice violence shelter, they should at keast be able to help you find resourses.
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A HAMMER NEAR HER HEAD\nLOL J/K\nJUST EXPLAIN TO HER IN FLOWERY TONES THAT YOU NEED TO GO TO EXPERIENCE NEW LIFE AND GET COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR FRIENDS IN COZY WARM CABIN AND THE DRINKING OF LIQUOR THAT WILL LOOSEN YALL UP AND HAVE YOU REMOVE SWEATERS TO EXPOSE MUSCULAR...\nANYWAY\nJUST TALK LIKE  A GIRL..AND WHINE...THE BIG OX WILL LISTEN! LOL!
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Get 2 friendship rings, necklaces or bracelets and have it in graved(ex:you will always be my friend. I love you and I'm going to missed you.)one for you and one for your friend so you're never be apart. Hope you like my suggestions!
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Magazines, books, cd's, snacks, wetwipes (loved them), socks, and etc...\n\nAlso, send extra for his or her friends as they may not be getting anything.  If you can...
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Here are a few things I suggest you bring:\n\nComfortable clothes and shoes (like Crocs)\nSunscreen and bug protection\nanti-perspirant\nExtra TP\nA flashlight (for dark trips to the bathroom)\nblanket to sit on\nextra car keys (a lot of people lose theirs)\na cheap camera (I wouldn't bring a digital unless you want to keep it on you the entire time)\nA container to hold water\n\nI wouldn't bring anything of real value with you because a lot of things are stolen. If you happen to forget anything, there is a general store where you can buy stuff.
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use a friend finger ask first thats polite or just say pardon and grab it also trim the nails you pick with and dont bleed on the rugs
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Here's a list... hope it helps,, I live by the beach so I'm an expert\n\n1. towels\n2 sunscreen\n3 ice chest with drinks\n4 chairs and umbrella if you have one\n5 meat tenderizer (in case of jellyfish sting)\n6 book\n7 water toys\n8 food if you are staying all day ( put this in ice chest)\n9 sunglasses\n10. extra changes of clothes.\n11 bring a couple of jugs of room temp. water to keep in the car so you can rinse off sandy or dirty feet before getting in the car,.