Can you find out that your parents are divorce but how??
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Public records in the courthouse
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I have a friend, her parents were married for years when she was a child, then got divorced. He remarried then when she was a teenager her father and his current wife got divorced, and he remarried her mother. Kinda neat story, They are so great together too.
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YES!!!  My parents met August 8, 1975 and married August 22,1975.  30 years!!!!!!!!!!!  They knew!  My Mom was already divorced after two years.  My Dad left a really bad life style and was trying to move forth.  They both, however, knew what they were looking for and when they found it....THEY KNEW AT FIRST SITE!  They have come a long way together and achieved many goals.  Love bounded them.  Today, they have love, peace and great things in their rich life.  \n\nIf you're looking for that spark of "love at first sight,"  know what you're looking for so that when you see it, you too will know at first sight!
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Try looking up their details on Friends Reunited or Genes Reunited?! Good luck x
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My parents got divorced when i was about 22... the way I handled it was to just look at their marriage the same as any relationship... people break up! - its not that big a deal & life goes on... \n\nObviously its sad, but at least, after years of not talking, they've finally managed to become friends again & that makes a big difference too!\n\nOf course it depends on your age... for younger children its a little more complicated...
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The relationship of ones parents has a lot to do with their adult relationships, whether or not the parents were divorced.  If you come from parents who fought all the time, you will unconsciously believe that fighting is the way to communicate in a relationship.  It's difficult to stand back and look at your parent's relationship and determine how to have a successful relationship.  You also need to look at the way the parent's relating to the children regarding the divorce.  It takes someone with a lot of insight to look at the whole picture and then form a loving relationship.  There are many books on successful marriages, communications and relationships.  Also, going for therapy can be very insightful and helpful that you won't repeat your parents mistakes.  Good Luck!
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yes....i would deffinately search for my birth parents...\ni am not adopted, but my biological father left my mum pregnant with twins (me and my sister) so i didnt even know him or anything about him...i grew up thinking that my stepdad was my real dad until i was about 7 and a half when they told us because we had to go to our real grandfathers funeral! i never realy wondered about my real father, but recently however, me and one of my good friends have been looking onto finding our birth fathers as her dad left when her mum was pregnant too!...i want to find him, but only to get like medical history and just to know a LITTLE bit about where i came from on his side and not just on mums side...so i think that if you DO want to know a bit about your birth mum then go ahead and go for it, because nothing is holding you back except yourself! and your fears of what she is really like, so dont hold back!
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We really do not have enough information to answer this question. Is there abuse, neglect, or are they hearing things from each parent about the other? Sometimes in divorce, children say what they think they want the parent to hear, because they love them and want to make them happy.\nYou need to look closely at why your children are saying this. If it is because they are truly in danger or are being emotionally harmed while with their dad then, you don't have to say anything...........go through the courts.\nIf it is because they are just angry with Dad right now, then you need to talk to all of them about the importance of not avoiding conflicts. They need to approach it by using effective communication and compromise. Work it out and see if it gets better. \nIf they are saying it because they love you and think it is what you want to hear so that you feel better, then again you need to talk to them about the consequences that will occur if they never see Dad again.
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No divorce is easy, but there needs to be the right kind of communication between the parents and children involved. They need to know it's not their fault and that they will still have a family even if it means the father and mother not living together. The worst is when the child hears the one parents  bad-mouth the other, so that should be avoided at all costs. It makes the chil pick sides in defense and confuses them on the matter.
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if you got to ask, you don't need to know yet.if you are that curious ask the folks that love you the most....YOUR PARENTS,please don't push the issue online.there really are some scary people out here that only seek to give you mis-information.
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If you live in the same jurisdiction as the one where the divorce was filed, you should be able to get that information from the court clerk.  There may even be a web site, which will show the current status of the case if it is open.  Once is it closed, however, the clerk's office is probably the only way.  Of course, if you see it listed and it says the next hearing is "post-settlement" in nature, you have a clue.\n\nIsn't it easier just to ask him?  Or is this because you do not trust him?  If so, are you sure you even want to know?  After all, if you fell you can't trust him, what is the relationship worth?
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That's easy enough to figure out.\n\nGo to court and request a paternity ruling alongside a judgment for custody and child support.
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Your parents have their reasons, I'm sure. But have you asked them to explain to you? They may not be able to, or they may not want to, but consider the possiblity that they did what was best, not only for them, but for you too. \n\nMy husband and I are seperated for reasons I hope I never have to tell my children.
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It's possible, but unlikely.  He is not divorced til those papers are signed, sealed and delivered.  He's been lazy in finding out.  If he has no paperwork, he doesn't care whether he's divorced or not.  Or, he's just lazy.  If he's truly serious about you, he should make sure his divorce is final.  If you have to drive him to the courthouse yourself.\nI was not in a hurry to get the paperwork done, until I knew I was ready to remarry.  Well, that time came and I went to the nearest paralegal and had them get it done in time.  To make sure, I filed them myself.\n\nI hope everything works out for you.
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Divorce papers will not give the specifics, they will only give a general description. \nThey will state who gets what of the property and who has to pay and how much. Also tell when the divorce was final. If you can't trust him then you don't need to be thinking about marriage. Just remember that there is always two sides to every story. Talk to his EX. if you dare and must know the truth. Just remember that he might take offense to that and be very upset with you.
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Obviously things weren't as perfect as you thought they were.  Your parent's divorce is between THEM.  Not you and them.  They have things they have to straighten out and you have nothing to do with the divorce itself.  When they get to the child custody/support phase then you will be able to have your say.  You don't get to make the choices concerning  your parent's marriage though.
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EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT.  It took me FIVE count them 5 years to get my divorce. If you know for a fact that the marriage is over (by meeting the ex or a child if they have one) AND you know the one you are seeing is living apart from their spouse then it is fine.  INVESTIGATE the person and make sure that they are telling you the truth.