Why do i use my looks to seek attention? i never get satisfied either.  WHY?
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you have a hole in you that you are trying to fill. Did you grow up with out one of your parents ?
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Here just is some bad/good consideration about:\n"...uses looks to get what they want, arrogant, self-absorbed, believes they can get what they want because of how they look, believes in success through appearances, cares about how they look to others, believes looking good is more important than comfort, feels best when others find them physically attractive, believes other people are envious of them, superficial, feels best when admired, attentive to appearance, spends a lot of time thinking about what is attractive, feels they are better looking than most people, competes for the spotlight, self promoting, feels both superior and defective, likes to manipulate others, seductive, likes to be popular, used to getting their way, reckless with money, wealth seeking, does things primarilly for the benefit of themself, does not like to be friends with people who are physically unattractive, tends to wear tight fitting clothing if female, desires more attention, assumes most people like them..."
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This obsession that you speak of is caused by people seeking happiness in all of the wrong places.\n\nNorth American culture seems to promote the idea that looks make you happier; studies show they do not.\n\nThe same thing occurs in studies about money making people happier.  Once again, studies show that it does not.\n\nSo you have a large scale "belief" perpetuated because all of the imagery we are shown leads us to believe that rich and attractive people are happier; once again studies show they are no more happier than a poor and average looking John Doe.\n\nSo why do we seek to be more attractive, more rich and have more things?  Because we're unwilling to dispell what we've come to believe with what is fact.  Happiness is a much simpler and personal formula.  It could be more time with the family, helping others or sitting around the house playing online poker.  Each person must learn to define it.
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Nope, just desparate.\n\nYou sound like my evil twin dude. Exact same situation except you seem to be stepping up your effort while I really couldn't give a lesser f***. Maybe I'm the evil side.\n\nTo me, the whole thing with women is they expect us to go to all this effort, driven on by our hormones, and all they do is stare at us and make eyes like we're supposed to use that as an excuse to approach them.\n\nRecently, I said *#&$ it. If all women can muster is to stare at me and flip their hair then they can all go to he**. I'll leave it up to circumstance whether I find a wife or not, otherwise I've got better things to do and I don't need to waste time satisfying hormones.\n\nYou don't gotta feel bad about doin' s#*% like this because that's what it comes down to if you want to get anywhere with females. You gotta put it all on the line while they sit there and decide if your doing enough for them, and if you're not; they throw you out like last year's shoes.\n\nI'm certain there's better things to life than females at this age like playing sports, developing skills, getting a solid education and finding a worthwhile career that can be totally satisfying. All I ever hear women talking about is their boyfriends and relationship crap like that. I have no interest in anyone that dependent or shallow. If I happen to come across an independent, self-motivated and self-confident female who has definite goals other than making suckers out of guys like me, then maybe I'll consider changing my tone.\n\nI wish you the best of luck dude.
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If you have a beautiful personality, and you feel beautiful, then you are.  I do feel I'm physically attractive, but who cares about the people that ONLY notice me for that.  I like to focus on those that notice my inner beauty, and I love meeting people who get more attractive to me by the day because I love who they are inside.
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You answered your own question. and the reason why you did this is because you want attention and gratitude n the sense of feeling important and empowering. I hope it worked.
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You~re right, looks is the first thing that attracts women to men, so I dont understand why they complain when we do it. Or maybe I do, try this -\n\nThe women who complain about men being shallow are the 90% of the poplulace who are ordinary, and they want to deter men from going after the 10% pretty girls. Effectively they are using harsh language to try and get more attention for themselves when their looks dont deserve that attention. Hahahahaha
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It is not that they are trying to get someone else's attention, it is because they feel empowered by dressing provacatively. This is usually because the person is on the look out for a particular person and is waiting to get noticed by that certain someone. However, if you don't fit the standard they are looking for, you just better not linger your gaze too long. It is about being available but only to a certain type.
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Just have confidence in yourself. If everyone says you are good looking then you are probably good looking. :) It is no fun to look down on yourself all the time so you just have to think good thoughts about yourself for a change instead. :)
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WTF? This question makes no sense. There aren't ways for someone to notice you, however there are ways to get someones attention. Tehy either notcie you or they dont.\n\nIf you want the hot gals, get to a gym, get buff, get a tan and an expensive car.\n\nIf you want the fat ugly gals, do f*uck all accept eat doughnuts
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your look is rough, hard and hha\nbut as everybody has its own personality so you are also having your own good presonality.
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People, by nature are never satisfied. No matter what you look like, God has a purpose for you and if you trust im Him you will never go wrong.\nIt's hard to swallow the " Be content with your natural looks" if you don't look beautiful. But what is beauty? It's only skin deep, it will change, it's inevitable but people will always remember you for being beautiful inside :-)
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it means you have very low self esteem. try to get couseling and try new ways to make yourself look better. try switching the type of clothes you wear, new makeup,hairstyles, arch your eyebrows, and/or develop social status with others.  try to be more lively.a good personality will definitely change the way people look at you, because looks are'nt everything. its whats inside that can also do the trick!
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I have the same problem with guys. I don't know why it happenes, but it really sucks. I know when i don't pay attention to some guys it's because i'm not attracted to them in that way. But when i am attracted to other guys, they just walk all over me and don't give me the time of day. I think the reason why the girls u dont want attention from is that you are really being yourself. I mean 110% urself. And the girls that u do want the attention from, ur not being urself. Maybe ur being shy or an a**. Idk... the only thing i can say is always be yourself...... no matter what.
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This is actually pretty common. A lot of people do this. It's not so much you're self-destructive, you're afraid of not meeting expectations. You need to be more in touch with yourself, see yourself as more than you do right now. Once you get that self-confidence up, you'll see you really do deserve a guy who worships you and adores you :)
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Must either not be sexy or be in love with yourself or you wouldn't have to come here to try to get people to look. Either way, it makes you less attractive.\n   Try Yahoo Singles, or have they all rejected you?
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Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.