what makes u think that u re beautiful, why do men takes young girls for granted?
103172
I am a woman, therefore I am beautiful :)  Men sometimes like the fact that younger woman are a bit more naive then life experienced woman.  Younger woman tend to believe everything they hear...with age comes wisdom!
624407
the only way u will feel pretty is by loving yourself and liking who u are, men love girls with a good heart and who show they understand
251715
Your inner self makes you beautiful.  If you don't have beautiful inside, you won't have a beautiful outside.  Popularity is what you make of it.
977106
it's about maturity.  when you are young sometimes you only see what is physically beautiful and don't take the time to get to know anything beyond that. girls who do this tend to make huge mistakes in picking a partner that is truly compatible for them. i'm 31 years old and i can tell you those girls would dying to meet a nice sincere guy after they've been played with and heartbroken by the more physically disireable guy.  most times it's the guy no one gives a chance who is the most respectful, honest and sincere who in turns becomes the more attractive person because of this-young girls don't get it until they've been burned.
663432
Well, one reason might be that you're attractive to begin with, whether you look younger or not.\n\nBut there's something else going on too.  There's this whole power thing going on.  A lot of guys as they get older start feeling that in order to feel good about themselves, they have to be able to attract girls like they were young.  So they look for younger women (there's more, but I don't have space).  Also, there's a power thing going on.  Older men will be attracted to younger women because the younger ones are less experienced, more trusting, and easier to manipulate.  Since you have to ask the question, you're probably naive and trusting, so be on your guard for someone who might want to take advantage of you.
947479
well you must be a very pretty girl, because I know that some of the girls I have dated, that no matter what they were wearing, or what time of day, they still looked beautiful to me, it is the inner beauty that some of us see, not what is on the outside, you women need to worry more about this than you do what style that is IN sometimes...
10820
Because women think alot of things that don't make sense.  And they think men care about every detail of their body when in fact they usually dont even notice much more than if they are generally good looking or not.
893713
hey, i love myself. i dont judge my beauty or worth by what some man says on tv or by those crack whores they call models. girls'll get more credit when they wake the hell up and stop being so damn naiive
582359
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Maybe they are just confident and would like to meet what they feel is a nice young lady. But maybe the cute girls arent really that nice if they think that the guy approaching them is ugly. You really need to judge people by their actions and words and not their looks.
869294
Take it as a compliment... Shows that not only men fancy you... HAHAAHA!!!
497132
I think when you're younger, looks are a much bigger part of it all.  The way they look themselves and how others look.\n\nAs you get older, and you learn in life, that LOOKS can change over time, and the one most important thing is about what is inside.\n\nI think in order to appreciate both, you must go thru the stages of thinking BOTH is important at one time or another.
571346
Thank you!  I agree.  It's because society is full of shallow little people who only care about themselves, and how they are perceived. They are so desperate for a compliment to boost their confidence that they'd even take them from strange wierdos in the internet.
1034400
Never put beauty above everything else...\n\nEveryone wants to look nice, beautiful, sexy, muscular (for men)!!\n\nI have beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous friends who are just so tired of shaking off men's advances. At least these girls arent shallow.\n\nthe shallow beauties are just beautiful shells, empty/filthy inside...you'll never enjoy a meaningful life with girls like these.\n\nI'll go for brains, if beauty comes in a package ...well that's a bonus.
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Low self esteem comes from exaggerating the importance of your weaknesses and minimizing the importance of your strengths.  The way to overcome it is to reverse this process.\n\nPeople have different skills, abilities, characteristics, and it is not uncommon for someone to consider the area in which they are most lacking to be the most important.  Thus, a pretty girl says looks are not important, but brains are; a smart girl says looks are more important.\n\nThe fact is, you must play to your strengths, and develop them.  Look around at the people you admire:  what are the reasons you admire them?  Don't you think other people can admire you for what you are, and not for those areas in which you are found wanting?\n\nAll my life, I have been told that it comes down to money, looks and brains; I failed to consider other factors, such as integrity, courage, good manners, good judgment.  I was below average in money and looks, and so discounted the extent to which I was above average in intelligence, as well as the importance of intelligence in other people's eyes.  This is especially a problem because envy cannot be recognized lest a person seem vain.  My beautiful friend cannot, with good manners, admit to others that she is very beautiful, so she does not see that she must admit it to herself.  \n\nLook for your strengths, develop them.  Look for situations where those strengths are most important, and pursue them.\n\nGood luck!
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I think the people that should build a girl's self-esteem fail her, from mother, father, siblings, etc.  They need the reassuring, and they are taught bay the media that it is to be expected.  How many times does a guy tell an attractive girl or woman that she is beautiful?  She knows it, but her self-esteem has not accepted it.  Those with self-esteem want more than flattery.
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I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
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probably mad cuz they're getting older and uglier, guys don't want them as much and they're jealous of your youth/beauty