I still would like answers as to how I should go about asking a  Christian girl out?
110352
You are right about hanging out with her in a group. Give yourself a chance to get to know her and her to know you. Then see where that leads. i think that it is best to start off as friends. After a while, if you decide that you would want to be more than just friends, ask her to go out on a date with you, Just don't take too long! We girls can't wait around forever for you guys to decide!
75454
Walk up to her, hand her some flowers, and ask her out. Keep ot simple. Don't freak yourself out. Make sure the date is amazing and you'll be fine! If she says no, stay cool and get over it. There will be more girls! Trust me!
776965
Heres how it sounds dumb but it works, If you already know her and you have somewhat of a neutral relationship just straight up ask her out say "Go out with me" she'll probaly say "what?' or "are you serious" or try to wriggle out of it, if that starts say "its the right thing to do" Dont be afraid, just do it! the worst she can say is no and if she does no biggie you guys can still be cool just dont put so much pressure on the situation.
724469
well, shop, train, bus station is a good as place as any. at the club, yeah... sometimes people are too desperate. either U come off desperate, or the girl does.\n\ntry joining some clubs or activities that will ensure that u have a common interest, and u will see them more than one time. for example, church, bible study group, exercise class, art class, etc etc. if u do ask for a girl's # , and she gives it to you, then call back in 2 days.  ask her out for coffee....and try to be confident, relaxed, and comfortable. ask her questions and show that u are interested.. buy her coffee, and if u have a good time, ask her out to dinner.  go out for like 3 dates, and if u want to get more serious, tell her u'd like to date her. if u don't like her, then either tell her u wanna be friends, or stop calling.... no more dates!\n\ngood luck~
1030418
best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
821451
Don't ask, "What should I consider myself to you?"  because that will just get turned around.  She'll ask you what you consider yourself toward her, and of course that's not what you are looking for.\n\nGo ahead and ask her what SHE considers herself toward you.  Your girlfriend?  Your lover?  Your soul mate?  Just a "very good friend?" (Sigh.)  "I'm not sure?" (Double sigh.)\n\nBottom line: If you are getting mixed signals and you need to get clarification, don't ask a question in a way that allows her to continue to give the mixed answers.  Good luck!!
723042
I think its nice that u really like this girl. Do u think she might like u? It might be best to ask a few people who know her to see what they think. The last thing u want to happen for the 1st time asking out a girl is the chance she may say no. That will hurt. A good way to ask her out is maybe to say "i wondered if your seeing anyone at the moment because if not id like to take you out for a drink". Make it casual, smile as you speak. If you dont try you will never know. Good luck!
65512
Wow. This one's hard to give a specific answer to. There is very little info on this, so I'll give a general answer to it.\n\nFirst off, you have to have 100% confidence in yourself because it will affect you as far as how you ask. Another thing is that you have to be indifferent to the outcome of the situation because this too will affect how you ask a girl out.\n\nNow the how to. When you ask a girl out, don't make it sound like you are asking her out. Make it sound more like you are going somewhere and ask her if she would like to join you.\n\nexample :\n"Hi, ________. Listen, I'm going to go ________. You can join me if you like."\n(first blank is the name)\n(second blank is the place you want to go)-starbucks is good.\n\nIf you do that, the girl will feel comfortable because you are not pressuring her to go with you. Instead, you are giving her the option to tag along with you.
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just ask her out\nif you are for real and you have a good personality you never know\nquit living in fear and what if's and just ask her out\nand if he rejects you so what\nask some other girl out, white or otherwise
1148333
First my friend as a christian I have to ask if you are truly accepting that God will wants you to do this? If you believe in your heart that it is what God wants and you want to be with her and you are that close to her then you do something SUPERSONIC! Blow her mind with the most romantic evening you can come up with. Take her to the place you first met, rose peddles all over the place...candles and you get on one knee and you tell her that she is the love of your life and you want to spend all eternity with her, that she is the meaning in your life, you produce a ring that she will cherish and you ask her..."will you make me the happiest man alive and spend eternity with me" but you have to mean it. A woman knows it you mean it. Good Luck my friend.
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Ok, I am looking at your history now.....\n1. "I agree with the first girl what have you got to lose besides time itself. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\n    this answer was in response to a girl looking for her godparents on line. I thought it was a good answer but you didn't have much to add to what had already been said. I like to do research on my answers and try to say something that hasn't been said if I can.\n\n2."Christian and a good person in general. Not what you wanted to hear right and I am 15 fyi. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\n    So that is what you look for in a girl. hmmm\n     If it is true great answer, but again, kinda short. I would explain what you mean by good person.\n\n3. "I never had a job on account of my age but try fry cook. Jesus Loves and Adores. "\nAgain a short answer but this time it was about something you knew nothing about. Why did you answer? I answered this one too but I have years of summer job experiences to draw from. That is what makes a good answer. \n\n4. "They are not true friends. If you hang out with them you will become like them and do you want to be like her. You should stop being friends with her and tell her why. Good Luck God Bless and Jesus Loves and Adores. \nI actually really liked your point on this one. If she hangs out with girls that can't be trusted then she evcentually will learn to lie too. Good answer!\n\n5."You already know your boyfriend very well stay with him and don't take the chance of going for this other guy and figure out the love he has for you is just temporary. If you take a chance like this you could end up with no one and be left alone with a broken heart now if your current boyfriend is abusing you physically, mentally, or in anyway dump him but don't overreact and make something actually pretty insignificant into something catastrophic so you could just be with the other guy or it will probably lead to a broken heart and most of all pray for guidance from Jesus Christ our Lord. Good Luck, God Bless, and Jesus Loves and Adores. \nSo this is an answer you can be proud of. Great explanation with advice that is true to life.\n\nI closing I would say try to answer stuff you can answer based on your life experiences. There are a lot of people on here that take this stuff seriously. If you go around giving advice just to get points you could hurt somebody. \nHope this helps, it was the toughest answer I have ever given. \nLOL
597907
Tell her she seems like a real nice girl and you would like to get to know her better then ask her if you could take her out some time.
651997
Ask in such a way that you will be happy with either answer. Find out what interests she has. You might say, "Would you rather go see The Da Vinci Code or would you rather go bowling?" (She might say both :-)
853056
Yeah, you do sound like a perfect match here.. (I'm listening to your friends here too.. they're all Christians, they know you 2 guys.. we're a load of strangers out here and do not.) I am glad you are Christians and it'll pay off.. I hope you do not get a lot of rude-comments in here.. (people are like that.. you sound like a really nice girl, er woman.) I was thinking back when I was in h.s./then college.. Back then it was a big age difference to have a high school and college 'kid' hook up.. (too much difference..) Now I don't know(?) (Guess I am too old!.. lol.. 53/f) I think if you've got these same morals (you don't sound in any HUGe hurry here, that's good) you should pray on it, wait some more. Can you talk to your minister? (I know.. it's embarassing.. how about talking to the minister's wife? other women in the church?) You'd be surprised (if it's like MY church) how helpful they can be! (might put in a good word for ya even.. wink) IF this guy is looking (and he will be) for a good CHRIStian wife, don't worry, he'll go straight back to his favorite church (and guess what?! YOU'll be there!) good luck.. I'll be praying for you two.. peace out
347883
the best thing to do is to raise her up as a good kid, and when she grows up, have her decide for herself. do not put pressure on yourself and on her. that way, when she so chooses, it will be true and sincere. also, if she doesnt, well, maybe christianity is not for her.
952888
1. get to know her first\n2. decide whether she is the best for u or not\n3. if yes, ask her out \n           hehehe helped?
249784
ok here ya go, ask her to hang out like maybe go grab a bite to eat beforwe work, ya know not like a date date but more of a friend. then start a conversation about how great she is. she will get the picture that you are interested. but hey girls get scared and they think the guy might not feel the same. so you might can just ask her if she likes you like that she will say yes, if not she will still be your friend because she is coming to your house anyway. I dunno I always called a girl and iasked, but the girl i got now my friend hooked us up.