If my guy fails to turn up on valentine day how should I react  or handle him?
110077
Is he your "guy" or just a friend? Ask him, he may see things differantly or have a logical explanation.
985242
Nothing. If you have to get him to show affection then leave him.  Stop making any moves. \nIf he wants you he will come for you. If he is too lazy you don't want him.\nDon't waste your time trying to win him. (he is not a prize!) Relationships tend to work when both people are trying and trying extra will not make up for his lack of effort.
282389
I GUESS YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION... IF THINGS DON'T LOOK LIKE HE IS, THEN LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND LEAVE IT OPEN FOR HIM TO RESPOND THEN AND THERE OR LATER. HE MIGHT NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. DON'T RUSH HIM TO RESPOND. JUST LET IT BE KNOWN. YOU'LL FIGURE IT OUT. \n\nGOOD LUCK
396190
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
444121
be happy for him and tell him he hopes it works out. Never act desperate. Let him go. Guys will always come back. Act as if you don't care. That's what you should do.
389718
Call them and ask if they are okay.  Tell them that you were worried when they didn't show up.  That will force them to give you a reason.  If they don't, just let it go.  Unfortunately, that type of thing is a risk a person has to take when having a party.
229516
Do something utterly romantic. Start by landing in front of him and patiently waiting for him to be free... \n\nIm sure he will melt and let you know whats wrong.\n\nOn the flipside, I think there is another girl in the picture... You better check it out before things go worse.. When I meant check-it-out, I meant find out discreetly..
886226
I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
614857
if i were you i would call the guy again and if he still doesn't call you, you should move on to the next.don't let anyone have the upper hand on you.most likely he's no just seeing you and that's why he hasn't called.on the other hand he could have something going on in his life right now that's consuming all of his time.if it's meant ot be it'll happen no matter what.in the meantime go out and enjoy life.
1048362
Their is no prepapatioon 4 that. What ever happens next is on him. But what u can do is make sure your their 4 him and, in the nicest way, correct his mistakes & reinform him on what he need 2 b doing.
89887
Send as many valentines or E-cards to others you know especially if they have been in your position. It will make them feel good. In return you will get many back too and that will make you feel good too. And who knows? There may be a secret admirer hidden in there you weren't aware of. Oh yes, if you realy feel the need to..send him one too. Do what ever your heart tells you. And have a happy Valentines Day!
302679
i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
627449
straight up tell him that it bothers you that much and you wont stand for it.........\nif he cant be on time, then have the decency and respect to call.......\nits all about respect
1037520
YES....make him wait!!! When he misses you he will call. WE tend to call more often and not give thema chance. Let him take the initiative every now and then. I'm not saying don't call at all, just don't call as much!
663183
wait..well u should've waited a bit also b4 getting involved but it's ok wait for a while now and if he doesn't call u do and dump him >:]
796179
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.  But you can try to woo him over by just being honest.  Tell him it was a bad day and that you'd like to wipe the slate and start over.  Bribe him with a homecooked meal-- most men jump at the chance for a chick to cook for them.  Have wine with dinner, candles, nice music, and dress nice.  At the end of the night,after you've been your usual charming self, tell him, "Aren't you glad you had the chance to meet the real me?"  I bet you he'll say yes.