I hate his "new bestfriend"... should I tell him?
104272
Some people make bad first impressions.  Then it turns out that they are one of your best friends.  So I think you should give him a second chance.\n\nHowever, Let your "man" know what that guy did to turn you off and have him to tell Chris to be more respectful of you in your own home.  If Chris isn't a different person on Friday, then tell your man that you would prefer that he didn't come around anymore.
840451
Three's a crowd. I would tell your bf that you are not happy with the email communication he's been having with your friend. Tell him you think it's inappropriate and you don't like it. Tell your best friend the same thing - that it's inappropriate. Tell her to back off and to stop emailing him, and remind her that he's your boyfriend not hers.
863256
JUST DELETE HIS NAME NOW AND FORGET ABOUT HIM.....AND IT SOUNDS LIKE THERE ARE DEEPER ISSUES HERE...ELSE YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IT AND FORGOT ABOUT HIM BY NOW
101589
He is your friend, if that is the case then you won't have any problems. Talk to him really nicely, about how nice he is and stuff then little by little tell him what you don't like about him, hmm let me think.. or you could make up a fib or something a white lie if your up to it. Don't go straight to the point since you don't want to hurt his feelings.
497101
I don't think you hate him.  \n\nIf you did, you wouldn't give a rats bum about his feelings.\n\nBut - you do want to break up with him, and so you do it honestly.  Tell him, "I don't want to date you anymore.  You are a nice and loving friend however I want different things....."\n\nOr something like that.\n\nI hope it goes well, good luck.
181594
You need to not be "best friends" with him. Time to move on.
291542
It sounds to me like you need a new best friend.\nIf he acts like that toward you then he is NOT a friend.\n\nI doubt if he will change back to how he used to be.  I've never heard of THAT happening.\n\nSince the two of you were freinds for SO long, that tells me that YOU are a great friend to have.\n\nIt should be VERY easy to replace him with someone who will appreciate having you as their friend.\n\nLeave the loser alone, move on and find new freinds so you can go back to being happy!
872709
Tell your friend right away that you donrt fancy his friend..do it next time you see him because he is probably heart broken.
660548
First, you ahould ask him when he plans on telling her. Perhaps he is trying to spare her feelings. Ask him! Don't get rude, loud or demanding, that could turn him off. Allow him some time to make the announcement. If he is a gentleman, he'll introduce you together.  I have known quite a few guys that were friends with thier Xs, and that shows that they are capable of not being nasty, and remaining friends is a good thing.  He is not making you feel insecure, you are doing that yourself. Relax, don't nag, pressure him, or give ultimatums.  Suggest a night out with all of you together.  She may become a friends of your's too!  No need to be jealous of his past since he has chosen to be with you now.  Accept that, and be patient, be happy, and supportive.
612419
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
493201
Girl, you snagged a rotten fish.  It was dead when you caught it.  He needs to get a life.  If he was that rude to say that to you you should break up with him.  He was totally wrong to say that to your best friend too.  He probably likes you, or he wouldn't go out with you.  You don't just go out with someone because they're moving.  But you need to break up with him.  I know it's hard.  BELIEVE me...I know it's hard.  But you have to.  You'll probably meet someone a lot sweeter in California anyway.  That's all I can say.  I hope it works out.
677067
U should not care about him anymore.Go ahead and forget him and try to make new friends.U have done your bit of clearing any kind of misunderstanding.\nDon't worry about it
848475
You need a new boy friend. This one is not a keeper. Sorry but you regret it if you stay with this guy.
879648
Come right out and tell him.....you know, you talk too much and it gets on my nerves....\n\nI have a friend like that two......it is annoying!!
701636
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
274492
i think he is your best friends boyfriend not yours so keep off lest you also face the wrath of your friend as well \nother than calling names or paintng him bad why dont you try to get to know him as a person \nthe long distance relationship may be kiling him which would be hard to understand coz u have never faced it \nand nobody likes to be told bad things so u are reaping what you sowed in him and therefore he is showing you what you really told him he was