is that necessary to marry only whom we love?
99556
of course. why do you have to marry whom you don't love? unless, you have to save the name of a child out of marraige
258102
I guess it depends on what the opinions are, and what basis there is for those opinions.  In general I would say yes, love is enough, but if there are legitimate concerns, you need to at least discuss them at length.
1026646
I think if you marry without love you are cheating yourself and your spouse. It is not fair to either of you. Marriage is not about who your parents think is best for you. Marriage is about love, trust, honesty, lust...all that good stuff. Sure you can marry someone you don't love, but you would never know how beautiful life can be when you have someone you love.
441845
When you love someone unconditionally, you take the good the bad and the ugly. You love them for who they are reguardless of what they do. I don't really think there is a huge difference in the two because either way if you REALLY love someone, a part of you always will even if you go seperate ways at some point and you guys marry other people
338016
Love is the chemical reaction that drives humans into reproduction which is vital for the continuation of the human species. So yes, it is necessary in life. \n\nOn a more spiritual note, it is nice to have love in your life, and many would say their life would be incomplete and meaningless without it,.
317435
if u guys realy love eachother than u should marry
855960
It sounds to me like a bit of reverse psychology....... just do what you feel is right in your heart. I would marry my partner to if it were legal,but I can't, and yet I still make love to my partner on a daily basis...... don't let your mom behind your closed doors. Those are decisions that you and your partner are going to have to make.
764307
Not really.  They probably have always gotten along with each other, and have always lived in a family unit. It is much  nicer to live with someone you love, than to live alone. It is less expensive, and they can help each other out. Love doesn't always mean lust, you know. If neither one of them never found the right person to marry, then it is better for them to remain single rather than marry just anyone because it "looks weird" to live with your sister. That's a really bad reason to marry someone, and a bad reason to go live alone. People are social, most of us are happier living with someone else. I think they are lucky they have one another.
898639
God says to "be fruitful & multiply." I honestly do not remember seeing  ANYWHERE in the Bible that you have to be married 1st. The only thing I recall is that we are supposed to be monogamous & commit ourselves to our mate until death. Does that mean that we have to be married in the conventional sense? I don't know. Maybe this whole formal marriage thing was put in place to deepen the commitment.
460654
I dont think there is a real explination for making a marriage work forever, unless you are an angel or something... Just love, and stay true to the other person and yourself.
820380
only to those in love ...
354663
I disagree, lifes a bit-h, then you MARRY ONE, haaa!!\n\nSeriously
139426
Yes you have to love this person.  Look far ahead in life....is this the person who you want to have there when you are old, gray, and this person is the only person you will have to depend on?  Make sure they are dependible, reliable and they really care about you.  Susan Surandon said it best when she said, "People get married because they want a witness to their life.  You will not go unnoticed because I will notice you."
623753
Tough question.  \nBut remember one thing, no matter how much this other person loves you if you truely love another you will always want to be with that person. \nSo it isn't fair to the person who loves you.\nIf you can't love a person who loves you then it it is time to allow that person the right to a good relationship.
1034004
No, I would still marry them, because each person can have their own beliefs, and not have it interrupt the marriage at all. Religion is something that brings people together, not takes them apart. Besides if the love is true then they respect each others religion, so it would not be a big deal
277714
if you mean sex, yes. But finding the right one is key. You dont want someone who will interfer with your marriage after the fact. Be careful who you chose, then have fun!!
955066
Actually there is more sense to the question as you continue to think about it.  Love and commitment are more important than 'law'.  So without love you are can still be legally married but maybe not in a 'marriage'.  If you are sufficiently unhappy then you probably shouldn't maintain the sham of a marriage.  Divorce isn't something to be taken lightly and all efforts should be made to preserve the marriage assuming you would like to preserve it.