what to do when your boyfriend is jealous?
99749
Sounds like the two of you don't trust each other and don't trust yourselves. When I was young, I was terribly jealous because my self-esteen was low. I didn't seem to believe that I was worth loving, so I would cling too tightly to boyfriends and friends. Thankfully, I matured and realized how foolish it is to be jealous.\n\nIf you love and trust your boyfriend and if you're not just hanging onto him because you don't believe that you are worth loving, then let him go with his friends, even if the ex is there. \n\nIf he does do anything to destroy your trust, then he's not worth being with anyway. Find someone else who is. The reverse is true for you as well. You aren't looking to cheat on your boyfriend, right? Then he needs to trust you, too. If you do cheat on him, then that's not fair to him. He is deserving of someone trustworthy, too.\n\nJealousy can destroy relationships. I've seen it happen. Lighten up on each other. See where your trust can take you.
283891
How you ever tried talking to your boyfriend about it, sit him down, talk to him and let him know that you feel less desired when he is not giving you the attention, that he shows to others.
943667
Sounds like he has big trust issues, you should talk to him about your concerns, if not I would walk away..... Jealously can lead to violence
28559
Don't stay with him if he is the jealous type. They are very dangerous.
1135921
Jealousy is usually a sign of insecurity, apparently you're boyfriend doesn't suffer from it. Be glad, because there's an old Chinese proverb that says; \n" Those who mistrust most, should be trusted least"
265756
Jealousy is a form of insecurity.  You either don't feel like your pretty enough, deserving of him, or you have some other reason to feel insecure.  You need to deal with those issues in order become a less jealous person.
394531
Girl, jealousy is an emotion everybody has just like anger or being happy.  Some people control it better or know how to not show their jealous feelings and others don't do so well.  You should communicate with him and make sure to let him know that you are feeling a little jealous and maybe insecure.  However, don't worry about it unless he is working past hours, or days when he should not be working.  Remember be happy, stay healthy and live life to the fullest.
473151
you need to be honest with him and with yourself, and that monster you are experiencing is called jealousy, don't let it get the best of you!
819338
Ok, start small by telling him how you feel and ask him why he feels so insecure. If you really want to be with him that is. Give him one shot, if he fucks it up then drop him- don't tell him that, just do it.\n\nput it back on him. Tell him that you feel insulted that he doubts your feelings for him by getting jealous everytime you talk to a guy friend. Tell him that if a guy friend steps out of line, you have no problem with him stepping in (you don't have to tell him, just humor him to make him feel good at this point).\n\nTell him you fear for your relationship with him because it really bothers you and you don't want to fight about it. Ask him if there is anything you can do to make him feel more comfortable (be realistic, if he says something ridiculous then tell him not to act like a child and be serious) while not infringing on your privacy and your rights.  Find out why he is doing it, if it is just because he is controlling he will not change, if it is because of baggage, he just may.\n\nIf he doesn't make a real effort to change after that then I would say to get rid of him. He may have baggage, where a girl has cheated on him before so he is paranoid, but he needs to see what it is doing to you and that it hurts you. If he is not willing to change or gives you attitude when you talk to him NOT SCREAM or threaten him or the relationship then you should simply tell him that it isn't working out and you can't be together.
993565
Why are you jealous?  You need to just find your own bf and start living your on life.  If you don't you will be left behind.
598148
well try to be polite with them and let compliment them or make them feel good about themselves...if they are jealous ...then it's THEIR self confidence..you shouldn't feel bad about that.
150224
I don't think you want to make a boy jealous into wanting you.  Your idea about making him jealous may sound good to you now, but I don't think this is  healthy nor is it an honest way to get someone to be with you.  Why don't you just do it the old fashioned way, and let him know how you feel without forcing him into action.  You may live to regret it if handled the wrong way.
972635
you can expect her to try to control your reloationship with your boyfriend. watch out she may be jealous
463447
learn fro this experience\n\nBe true to your self\n\n\nBrake it off with your boyfriend. \nStart anew Everyone deserves to be treated with honesty, you have broken respect  for your relationship.
89804
Jealousy is a heck of a demon to fight. Start maybe with trusting yourself and then your man. As trust is one of main cornerstones of a relationship. Sometimes jealousy is warranted, does he flirt alot when you are right there? That can be uncomfortable. Let him know what he is doing, if he does that and how it makes you feel like a piece of garbage, that he pays attention to another when you are right there. Then again some guys are born flirters and heck they don't even know they are doing it until they get in over their heads and someone takes them seriously.. Your self confidence, is by far the most important thing and has nothing to do with jealousy. It is believing in yourself, your dreams and ideals. It really isn't all that difficult and though so many will try to knock you down in life, you just have to get right back up and know that you are who you are and if they don't like it to friggin bad.\n To many are falling for this idea that there self confidence is no good, it is a way to get you into therapy. There are alot of great websites that will just give you a thought a day. It is thinking positive, yeah negative stuff is going to happen, but you know you can pull through it and that is what counts. Never let anyone tell you different
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
11120
get a better boyfriend. or call him.