are there any guy in which i can stil trust? Bcoz i seem to end up with wrong guys all the time!?
113746
yes, there are guys out there who are honest and are seriously looking for a lasting relationship.
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
529615
This is a reality "WAKE UP CALL" : You do not need a man to validate whom you are, because if you do, then you really do not know whom you are at all. This is a trying and difficult situation, to feel lonely, but this too shall pass. First thing is to be selective about the guy you are interested in, don't just go for the hard body with the great face and bad boy attitude{ these guys are good in the sack and little else}, try to find a guy you have a bit in common with, this will make you happier in the long run. The kindest thing you can for yourself is to not be so desperate, it is like blood in the water, you do not want to cause a feeding frenzy among the sharks and you my dear are the bait.
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That's a hard question to answer. It sounds to me that you've been involved with the wrong men. Don't accept 2nd best and you'll eventually find that there are decent, genuine warm hearted guys out there.\n\nAnd try not to generalise or Typecast, we're all different!
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Sounds like you're on the right track but the only thing you can do is to keep it up. Just keep being wonderful and eventually he will have to see that you are different than the rest. I am in a similar position, though I've only been with mine a matter of months and he is still not willing to let down his guard as much as I'd hope. But I know that it will take time and patience for me and it will for you too. Most importantly, don't betray him in any way. Just show him you are infinitely consistent, honest, and trustworthy.
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I agree with some of the other responses. You need to start with a clean slate. Stop thinking of the past because this unfortunately could harm some really awesome relationships you may encounter. Have you ever tried to seek help for your trust issues? Maybe you should seek counseling to work through your emotions. It is not easy to find a good guy, but as I say this to most women, there are warning signs/red flags to look out for when you are dating. If something seems off and your heart is telling you something, don't continue to date the guy. A lot of women choose to ignore the red flags and then get put through the wringer. Take your experiences and learn from them. As soon as your gut is telling you something is wrong, ditch the guy. Everyone has instincts, and they are  always right. But when you do get into that good relationship, do not blame what a horrible ex has done to you on a nice guy. That is awful when girls or guys do that. You need to try and get over it. Guys and Girls alike hate getting blamed for stuff that they did not do. Good luck!
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Just wait sweety it will happen. I was like you thought that all decent guys were taken or gay. They are not, I have the best bloke in the world and he is my best friend too. We started off as friends and it just went from there! Good luck and be patient. xx
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Trust is earned, never freely given.\n\nBeing burned a few times myself has made me very cautious about who I trust, but relationships are built on trust.  So, what does one do?\n\nWell, it is a kind of process, I have found.  One only metes out trust a little at a time, starting at "friendly."  From there on, it is a gradual process where one observes what they say and do to see if the two match.  After a while, one learns to trust the other when it is shown that they are trustworthy.\n\nBe friendly, mete out your trust a little at a time, and always be observant and pay attention to any "red flags" about the guys behavior.\n\nOne admonition: the road goes two ways.  Be a person who is fair, honest, and trustworthy yourself.  He'll probably be watching you as well!\n\nGood luck!
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we sure could use more of u around here.\na lot of girls go for the 'bad' guys, but as they \nget ready to settle down, the girls will find you.\nbut meanwhile, try to enjoy being single.\nmy motto for now- be smart stay single. best of luck!
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I don't think that all men are bad, I just have a way of choosing the real A//holes! Maybe there r a few good ones and if you r one of them, real women like me r still looking for you. Stay the way u r and u will find one real female. You just have to be patient with us because the ones who feel that way have been hurt way too many times by men and we just need reassurance. It takes alot of time 4 us to trust again.
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Maybe a lot of guys are like that but every single guy is.  It's always worth it in the end if you wait to find the one that's exactly the way you want\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
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Pray that you will find the right guy one day soon. Dont rush into anything just to fit in.
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I don't believe it is hard to trust men in general. You probaly have experience with untrustworthy men. Don't let your judgment of a few men include all men.
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I would consider not believing one or the other if I were you.  You probably didnt have the best of relationships and the ones that you did have you probably got hurt or belittled.  Maybe you just have had so many bad experiences its hard for you to respect guys.\n\nAlso consider the fact that if you have not had any good relationships that have worked for you, then why would you be attracted to the guys?
840243
Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
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Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
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try looking at the positive then negative traits of the guys, chances r you know non of them well enough when they fail to impress you initially. & if that doesn't help then look elsewhere, get involved in new activity to make new friends. Lower your expectation a little to give more space to possible chances.