Hi, I'm a man, single and looking. How do I get myself attracted by the opposite gender?
104030
As soon as you find out, let the rest of us know. I think the key is to act like an @sshole. I've always been polite and had lousy luck with women.
1067123
let me check...I'm male
418966
Here are some questions to ask yourself......Are you attracted to both girls and guys?Can you not stop yourself from looking at other girls?Do you look at guys the same way?Are you interesting in the same sex?.......These are all questions that need to be answer before you truly know if you are bi or straight......but for the time being lets call you bi-curious............that is my take on the question
284899
dont think of a person as male or female...look inside and you will see the real person, We as humans, are attracted to people for many different reasons and in many different ways.Sometimes the person we are attracted to are of the same sex...JUST BE HAPPY!
1157158
i quite agree with what everyones saying. it's rlly quite natural to take interest in the same sex... u'ave perhaps just realised how wonderful u as a FEMALE are n hence the inclination towards the same sex...it cud also b tht all the relationships uave had with men during ur lifetime, hav in smeway or the other been incomplete or upsetting and so, u may now subconsciously want to try ur luck with the same sex... we often also feel that a person of the same sex is usually more understanding and sensitive to the issues we ourselves r going thro..and so again,ur prolly just looking to be in a relationship with sme1 who can understand u better and  complete u... i dono if this cud relate to u, but it does for me, n i do hope it helps u in sme way or the other!..
320756
if you see a guy you like, strike up a conversation. i've been able to at least get one date using this method. if you are as you describe, then you got two advantages over me, 1. you're attractive and 2. as a woman it's so unusual that you are sure to have a good conversation that could lead to something more.\n\ngood luck.
851567
If your not attracted to either sex, don't worry about it.  I didn't even start dating until I was 30.  I wasn't gay, I just wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone.  One day I met the perfect woman for me.  You don't have to seek out your ideal mate.  Perhaps for you your ideal mate will be a guy, or a girl.  They will fall into your lap when you least expect it.  Perhaps you are just more suited to a solitary life.  Nothing wrong with that either.  You will figure things out.
421876
Just BE YOURSELF, and don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Act naturally and they will come to you. We like men who are confident in what they do. So be confident. You are probably very attractive to some women, you just don't know it yet. Come out of your shell and show them who you are!
603997
Hey, men and women both are attracted to physically good looks but personality works both ways, too, being a powerful attractor.\n\nSome men and women might even be judged as average looking by the world but never be alone because they make others feel great to be around them.\n\nI've heard women talk about this, and I've found myself attracted to girls who, at first glance, wouldn't normally be my type.\n\nBe smart, funny, kind, considerate,  a good listener, and fun, and see what happens.
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Wink three times with your right eye and if the girl in question stands on one foot then you'll you've found a bi female. \n   When it comes to the approach be very careful.  You must have something that either smells good or have something that sparkles ,in your hand, when you approach her or she WILL run away.  If she accepts your offering you're on the right track.  Good luck and happy hunting.\n\nNow you know the secret to finding the elusive bi female.  Use this info wisely, because I don't give it out to just anyone.
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Sure, I've been on both sides of the spectrum. Hid my true gay self for years, pretended to be straight in a small southern town. If you wanna chat, email me at jtb1999@hotmail.com and we can find a way to do it on MSN or YAHOO. Peace and good luck.
734234
When one is attracted to ones own gender.
920098
There is nothing wrong with you.  We can not help who we are attracted to - that just happens on it's own.  If you found yourself attracted to a man of another race I am sure you would (as you already have) given it a try to see where a relationship might lead.  You haven't had luck so far and maybe you never will - or maybe you will in the end.  There is no way of knowing - just be open to love and it will find you.\n\nxoxo!\nPeace!
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Use ice cubes, you can keep them in a flask\nwhen ever you want them errect you just create a circlating motion with ice cubes on the nipples.\n\nGood luck. dont really know why you want to\nunless you want to attract the opposite sex, or maybe not.  \n\n"cgalloway1973" is right, you should be a little cautious when asking such.
569998
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder - or so they say...\n\neveryone is attracted to something different. be proud of who you are and what you look like. there will always be someone who is right for you and love how you look
379133
well damn..thats not too hard to fugure out...Do you like women and women only or do you prefer men and men only, or do you prefer both?
845666
u are looking at the wrong guys. you are attracted to the guys that have tendencies to act this way. change what you are looking for, and your results will change!