How do you deal with some one who hates you ?
116115
just act friendly. I mean dont give in to their madness!!! Like just stand up for yourself and respect them as much as possible do not stoop to their level ya know. If they hate you let them hate. did u give them a good reason to hate you? If not its cool just dont mind the fact its not ur problem!!
17779
the best way to deal with a person is to figure out whether or not you actually like them, despite how they think.  are they a good person at heart?\n\na person sometimes cannot help their ignorances.  i grew up in a small, conservative, and nasT racist town.  therefore, after i moved to a nice mixed community, i sometimes come across as insensitive to those who aren't like me.  it's not that i harbor any resentment WHATSOEVER of anyone based on anything save for how they treat me!  it's just that i never learned when i was a child of the things that are appropriate to discuss.  if the person in question is open to new ideas, then you should remain around them, and not look down upon them.  help them see other points of view, if it's within your capacity.. and if not, direct them to those who can.  \n\nlooking down on a person just because you THINK they're of lower consciousness than you is borderline prejuduice.
509213
Beat him up!!  No, just tell him that you don't like him like that.  If he keeps bothering you, just ignore him.  He'll move on eventually.
839631
Just kinda do the whole sorry I don't like you that way speech.\n\nIt's better to break it to him then to avoid it.\n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd if he stalks you get a restraining order.
49360
you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
585296
don't let them get to you.. I got more enemy's than I care to count..life is too short to worry about this, if they hate you, their loss :)
367992
just say no.... end of story......\nyou hate him... and chances are a no isn't going to break his heart
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
497034
How old are you? That's your problem. Settle for less, and MOVE on. She hates you, there is NOTHING you can do.
150649
She hates you for a reason.
676673
Obviously u don't hate him, and so you should tell him that not everybnody hates him.\nTell him that he has to step up and be strong, and that u are behind him all the way. Anything to get his spirits up!\nAlso, try to convince ppl to not hate him. That should help. Tell them that he is a normal kid and hat he deserves respect just like everyone else.\nBest of luck!\nAnd tell him hello from me, please
256719
Ignoring him only solves half the problem. You need to surround yourself with people that will uplift and encourage you.\n\nYou might also want to go with the old fashioned approach of "be kind to those who persecute you." That doesn't have to be anything taxing or elaborate, but often returning kindness for painful comments gets dumbfounded looks if nothing else.
829792
avoid any confrontation, play the headache/not feeling well act until yo are ready to bounce then leave him a note letting him know why you chose to go.. maybe with a word of advice in the hopes that he'll be better to his next victim...\nthis is assuming of course that he is unbearable...\nMaybe you're the tough one to get along with?
388104
well, sorry to tell you this but it's all depends on your partner..but here's what yOu can do. First of all never starts anything with lies. no matter how hard it seems, no matter how bad they'll hate you after, dont lie. say anything you want to say, say everything you have to say, and never try to make things better with saying, "it's not you, it's just me..." and other self-blame-cliche-excuses...and let them know that you still want to have a good relationship with them cuz no matter what they still a part of you right? but then again, you have to respect their decision if they refuse you at first cuz it's really tough to accept the fact that you cannot be with someone that you really care...am i making a point? dont think bout it too much..time heals..
528792
Don't leave "it", leave. Until this person is able to control his anger and not project them onto you, stay away or you will send him the messege that it's okay for him to treat you like crap.
121223
Get mad and get over it.  Do not try to get even.\nThese things have a way of working out for the best if you do not escalate what has already taken place.\nYou would be better off doing your best to ignore her.  In the end, this will "put her in her place" far better than any retaliation that you could plan.
978853
what do you do that provokes this kind of reaction from her?  perhaps the fact that you say she is annoying is coloring your perception and how you treat her ... look into yourself and see why you choose to find her annoying.