Do nice guys always finish last?
105745
Yes nice guys finish last. It's all a matter of the nice guys waiting for the right moment, while the bad guys try anytime. Therefore the bad guys have more opportunities to finish first. Nice guys are always going to finish last. As a nice guy myself I know this to be true.
641850
Most guys will be nice to a babe because in the back of their mind they will think they have a chance to get into her Victoria's. Their niceness comes from the desire to have sex with her. The ore the desire, the nicer they are. Because they figure down the line she may like them, then go from like to almost love(at least great enough for a booty call.
643916
the nice theory which is nice guys finish last.
6176
If you are trying to say that girls/women are nice at the beginning and then not nice further into things...I would say guys can be the same way.\nIt takes time to truly get to know someone...and no one is perfect.
620614
I've asked myself that same question for the last fifty years and I have concluded that it is because we are taught this all of our lives. For example, " nice guys finish last", "the good die young", and " only the strong survive". But, we are also taught that blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth, and blessed are the pure of heart for they shall see God!!\nI'm not a preacher, just a " nice guy" who has lived a long time in a mean cruel world.\nHang in there girl and remember that the mean, cruel aggressive people may get to the top faster...but they always fall harder!!
362432
It's not hard, but it seems to me from my experiences that women say they want one thing then actually go after another....\nI'm yet to meet a woman who would go for a genuine nice guy over an asshole who treats them like crap, maybe they just need something to complain about to the nice guys they just want to be "friends" with...
908523
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
964495
they don't because the nice guys are usually to shy to make any romantic moves. It would be best in this case for the girl to make the romantic move, if the nice guy likes her he will be eager to let it happen. If you are the nice guy then at the end of the date or night just clam up and tell the girl sincerely your are not very good at being romantic, just the fact that you admit to this will open up a few possible scenarios, 1 either she dumps your ass for not being man enough or she will giggle and initiate a move of her own, if there's a silent awkwardness just lean into her with a kiss, her reaction will say it all
201799
Nothing's the matter with you. Don't rush it and don't lower your standards! He will come along, just be patient and don't give up looking. Have some fun in the meantime so you don't get bored, but never settle for second best.
1143958
Of course! People are usually on their best behavior until you really get to know them.  Sometimes they turn out to be really nice other times they can be really big jerks.
947731
First of all a nice guy will want to know a girl for who she really is  and he wont be so fast to date her really quick unless he really knows that she is a nice girl also. Second of all dont make him chase you. A nice guy with his own personality will see this as a game and he will quickly lose interest. See how he treats all people whether he needs anything from them or not, a nice guy will be nice even to a homless beggar. The most important thing to know if a guy is nice or not is if he really can communicate and share his heart with you. If he can and you wont also then he will leave u. Also dont expect to meet him at nightclubs as mostly scumbag men that are players and partiers are there.
612313
I've answered questions like this before and you girls just never seem to get it.  If you keep picking a$$holes, all your going to get are a$$hole so try goin out with someone you wouldn't normally date, broaden your horizens a little especially if you've ever turned down a guy because he's too "nice", why don't you call that guy up and give him a try.
160823
It probably means that you need more self-confidence.  It's really not a matter of nice, but guys who don't have the confidence to make the first move, etc., often come across as being "too nice."\n\nBottom line:  Don't be a jerk, but don't be afraid to make a move.
663552
Bad Boy Jerks are fun to play with, Courteous Nice guys are best to stay with.
29808
People tend to be passive aggressive at best.  SO, this is a comon reaction.\n\nHowever the comment that 'last guys finish last' is actually flawed.  Mainly because most nice guys may finish last in short term relationships and endevors, but, in the long run, they usualy tend to finish ahead of the pack, because they know how to properly play their cards, and learn from their's and others mistakes.\n\nAs to cheaters never prosper; in short term relationships, and endevors, this is actually false; those who tend to cheat, or bend the rules, usualy do very will in short term things; however, over the long run, cheating can lead to cut cornors, misplaced aggression, and usualy failed relationships.\n\nSo, as you can see, both comments are subjective to the type of context that they are used in.
351896
It sounds like you're afraid that the nice guy will be boring. I would make a list of all the bad characteristics of players and make a vow to yourself that when you're looking for someone and start to see these characteristics, you run the other way.
692434
That's a hard question to answer. It sounds to me that you've been involved with the wrong men. Don't accept 2nd best and you'll eventually find that there are decent, genuine warm hearted guys out there.\n\nAnd try not to generalise or Typecast, we're all different!