should i tell my parents?
104658
Tell the truth. You dont want to get caught in the middle of a lie. I know, I was in a situation like yours once and i was caught and lied and got into HUGE trouble. Trust me.
324397
Well, I know how it feels to have that happen to you and I can truely say that just talking to your parents and the same time would probably be the best way to tell them how you really feel about it. If they don't listen, just try to understand that everything happens for a reason and you may not like it. But God always has a plan. Trust me. I hope I helped you out!
1081369
go immediately to your parents and tell them, 2 years is too long and it needs to stop, if you can't go to your parents then tell a friend and hopefully your friend will tell her parents. (then they might be able to help you)\ni wish you lots of luck.
665260
If you're a true friend, you should tell her parents. You know why? A friend would just shrug her shoulder and think, "well, it's her life she can do whatever she wants" however if you're a true friend you are concern about her safety, her welfare too. Chances of getting sexual transmitted diseases are high to having many partners and of course pregnancy. Your friend may not talk to you or even be mad at you after she will know that you tell her parents but someday, as she learns more wisdom in life of what's right and wrong, she would even be grateful to you because you did the right thing for telling her parents.\nAlso, I hope her parents are a kind of loving and caring parents who care for their daughter's welfare because if not, then your friend would just need a lot of support from you in the future, emotionally especially.
1095113
This may be the hardest thing you have to do so far in your life and I wish you the best of luck!\n\nHopefully in 5 years you will look back and laugh at how scared you were to tell them. \n\nI don't know your family but if I were you, I would take my mother to a neutral location such as a park and go for a walk. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important to you. Then tell her in a way that's best for the both of you. Give her a few minutes to absorb this new information. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that it is nothing that she did or didn't do. Tell her that she is a great mother, and that you were born this way. Tell her that you are still her daughter, still the same loving girl you always were. Hopefully she will come to accept this in time. It may take a while. (She may already know) Either way she may be able to help you tell your father and the rest of your family. In time they will learn to accept you for who you really are, and love you just the same. Best wishes!!
1030698
hmmm well it might not be if since you are asking the question. Have you tried to sit down with mom or dad and tell them this or can you ? Cause you should feel comfortable to where you can at least tell one of them if both, then one of them will surely tell the other anyways. Wouldn't you rather tell them than not and have something more worse to happen like pregnancy . Hope that's not happened yet you are young still and there's a whole lota life for you yet before experiencing anything more than a kind kiss, which for you could've meant more for you than him.Here's something to ask yourself was kissing to tell you thanks for helping him do something and the kiss went from the cheek to the lips ?!!  Was it more intense than that ? If you can say yes  to that question and or others you should ask yourself about this boy like , how well do you really know him for him be kissing you and where was his thinking.? Was he just trying to be friendly to you and you thought it to be more or what? I wouldn't want my daughter kissing someone that much older but it does happen . It doesn't mean that it should continue happening though . I just believe it some things to think about and I SURE HOPE YOU DO AND OR WILL AND WILL ALSO CONSIDER TALKING WITH YOUR PARENTS AS WELL AT LEAST TO DO FOR YOURSELF IF NO ONE ELSE.
356944
dont say nothin its really none of there business you are who you are im sure they already know my mom said shes known for a while your mom knows shes just scared to say anything dont tell them separate if you wanna tell tell your mom first then  have her sit down with you and your dad
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
767631
Does it sound ok to you?\n\nNot to me it doesn't. Tell your parents
377922
Tell them now!!!!You had the courage to write this on the Internet ...go and confront them...!How old are you?I did a tragic mistake in my life and never told my parents....and then i was left without friends alone...i couldn't seek support from them cause they could have never trusted me again if i told them coz i lied for more than two years...tell them now!!!have courage..if you need to chat email me...,be strong this baby needs love
400752
U pray and ask God to give you the courage to tell your mom.  There`s nothing wrong with having a girlfrind.  It`s just so proper to tell your mom.  A mother will always understand his son/daughter.  She will always be there....try it, don`t be afraid, I know your mom will understand you!  God bless and Good Luck to you!
583495
If you're younger than 18, then you should probably tell them.  As a parent of daughters, it would be very important for me to know who my child is involved with.  This day and age it is the safe thing to do.  If you care that much about him, then your parents should understand .. they really do know a little about being in love! ;-)
702600
Since you say that mom would probably kick you out of the house, do you really need to tell her? Coming out does not have to be something that is done in a single week. You told your boyfriend, and that is what is important. You should tell people about your sexuality that you are sexually involved with. For your family, it is only when you are comfortable telling them and aren't in a position of being dependent on them. If you think your friends won't accept it, are they really your friends? If they don't accept you, find better friends who are more supportive.
825680
Coming Out is an individual choice for each and every person that comes out and depends on why you want to come out, what that person means to you, and lots of other factors.\n\nDecide why you're telling her... for you or for her?\n\nIf she's asking about your personal life... such as who you're dating or interested in, then that may be a reason to tell her.\n\nBut in the end, it's totally up to you. Some of us feel better not having any secrets in our lives, especially about who we love.\n\nCheck out some of the Coming Out resources listed below. And you may want to purchase "Now That You Know," a great resource for parents and friends of GLBT folks.\n\nThe best of luck to you!
838566
Wait until it gets serious. And when you do tell your parents, make sure you tell them BEFORE he shows up for dinner.\n\nJust call you parents and arrange to have lunch with them. Tell them you have something important to share with them.
1031927
Find the Matchmaker and tell them who you love,  the Parents usually respect the town matchmaker in arraigned marriages.  If not then I'd say tell your parents, If they don't like it you will have to make a clean break for it  because the Idea of Marring for love will be too radical, or they may suprize you who knows.
137693
Your parents have their reasons, I'm sure. But have you asked them to explain to you? They may not be able to, or they may not want to, but consider the possiblity that they did what was best, not only for them, but for you too. \n\nMy husband and I are seperated for reasons I hope I never have to tell my children.