how do you know a guys not playin with your heart and really likes or loves you ??
117819
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
307637
dont be naive! he wanted to tease you or play with you. a guy will show interest if he is persistent, not when he feels like it. trust me. i did couple.i just telling the guy side of story. worst case scenario, you lose him. so what! theres a lot of guys out there that are sincere. think about it.
466557
He puts your needs before his.  He respects you.  He doesn't tries his (absolute) hardest not lie to you.  He cares more about your feelings than your body.  He hates it when you cry, he laughs everytime he sees you smile.  His heart explodes everytime he hears you laugh.  He would take a bullet for you.  He would never doubt where you've been, who you've been with (if you give him no reason to doubt in return; however), he trusts you.  Last but not least, he wants to be there for you in your time(s) of need...he wants to be the guy you call immediately when something in your life goes sour.  Hope this helped.
349660
u decide what he is like. don't get majorly attached and stay out of bed with him. if he is really so sweet to u, then maybe he really likes u. find a couple of his x's and find out what he was acting like to them and how long the relationships lasted. after the average amount of time is over, you will be able to tell.   playa or not
622364
sweetheart if he really likes you deep down you will know it. You can feel it in your heart. You have to trust him and care for him and show him that you really like him and see how he acts but be carfull don't show him to much affecton cause you could scare him and run him off. Honey trust and honesty is the best thing to have in a relationship.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
736411
You will just know hun :) I promise!  You will be able to tell by the way he looks at you and by the little things he will do for you that he doesn't "have to" do.  He will maybe put you before himself and think of you when you aren't around.  Men act a little goofy when they first fall in love...but thats why we love them back right :).  Good luck!
667899
If he is flirty he is not shy..\nAsk him.
193331
be honest with him . love him with actions not with words .give him time to trust you like he never did before  and make him feel you need him even if dont
89796
Well..of course the obvious things such as sending you flowers or planning picnics or romantic dinners.\n\nBut also theres other ways that they can show they care for you. Like when your with a group of people you both seem to making a lot of eye contact and can't stop looking at each other. or when together he wants to stand close to you, trying his hardest to get right next to you and maybe even come behind you and put his arms around your waist, gently kiss your neck or whisper in your ear. \n\nOr just hints little things...like biting his lip in a sexy way after you make eye contact or when your with a few friends he always seems to end up right next to your or right where he can look into your eyes. When you have little changes he notices like a hair cut. If he agrees to doing anything together..like watching a chick flick or going shopping. If he truly listens to you when you had a bad day and sincerly feels bad for you. Or if he can tell when you are sad and he holds you in his arms when you are crying for as long as you need to cry. Or when he kisses you he puts his hand on the back of your head and gently bites your bottom lip. Or if he makes special trips just to see you and to be with you as long as he can. If he shows up at your job just to say hello, or if he calls you just to say good morning or good night. Or if he makes up silly excuses to be together. If he knows exactly when to tell you your beautiful. Just little things like that show you that he cares about you.
296541
Well, how long you've been in the relationship has a big factor in telling if he loves you. Also, go on our feelings, but don't let them take over. I myself have an extremely active imagination...\n\nBut sweetie, you also have to trust him. If he hasn't done anything in the past to betray your trust, that you know of anyway, then chances are he won't and is a genuinely good guy. And also, does he tell you he loves you a lot? Is he affectionate to you? How much time do you spend together, etc. If he rarely sees you, it would make a little more sense if you get a little worried, not that it has to mean anything. Just talk to him. If he does really love you, and respect you and your feelings, tell him you love him so much you don't want to be hurt by him, and want to really know his feelings for you. If he really loves you you will know it. Just don't ask him too many times because if he is true in his intentions, it will upset him to be questioned so much. Good luck!
77597
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
471460
You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
845204
By flirting, by trying to be around you as much as possible. He shows he likes you when he plays, I mean u must be a teenager, but thats how teens do, cuz im one and I know how us guys act
693709
he treats you like a queen...\nhe never disagrees...\n\nso...\nhe must be in love with you to act like that...\nhe is on the same page with you but he has a weird way to show it....
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
143643
Doesn't mean anything. He may not like you, and not want to hurt your feelings. He may be crazy about you, and not want to be hurt. The male ego is pretty fragile, sometimes we figure it's better to not act, than risk being rejected.