Should you tell your best friend your in love with them? I don't know what to do...?
98667
Well are you also a female if so I have got the t-shirt for it....  DON'T DO IT!!!!!!  B/c if she don't swing that way than when ya'll get together it will be a very strang feeling in the room.  And more than likely ya'll stop being friends but the again it you still feel very strong about it after a long time the take one hell of a deep breath and go for....Good luck!!!
998213
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
327203
tell her how you feel. i made the mistake of not telling her. i lost one of my best friends ever. dont let that happen, keep your friend and tell her how you feel.
70660
I think you should confide in a diary or journal or something like some previous answer told you to do. It really lifts the weight off your shoulders once you've written your feelings down. I mean, unless you dont keep your memories written down, then you should tell your 2nd best friend/a close friend who doesnt have any idea who your best friend is, so that the person you tell doesnt tell your best friend and screw up your friendship. Just like what some other person said. Or, if you do have a trusting friendship that'll be sure to last for a kachillion years (again, an idea from another answer), then you might just be able to tell your friend. That's why they call them best friends forever right? Nothing'll come between them
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
416679
Why not. If you are open with your communications right now, she may be shy about telling you how she feels about you too. And let her know that no matter how she feels about you, you still want to be her friend. Some of my best friends are guys who love me, but they are more like brothers or close friends to me.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
136716
Pros & Cons:  List the good things about being with him and the negative things.  Which list is longer?  If the bad list is longer, then you've answered your own question: you need to move on.  If the good list is longer, you guys need to have a long, serious, open & honest convo soon.  See where he is and why its not you he loves.  You deserve to be loved honey.  Maybe youre not meant to be with him.  I know its easier said than done, but you need to take a step back from this situation and take a deeper look.  Imagine if your best friend were in this same situation:  What advice would you give her?
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
225355
Are you Gay and in love with your best friend? If not, what's "brokeback" about it? Being that this is your bestfriend you are speaking of, ask if they are gay.  Then ask yourself if it would matter.
116175
Girl, you HVE TO TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND! Friends will always be friends, it will offend her more if you keep it as a secret. Are you not aware of what they call "Girl's Instinct"? For sure, she feels something and is just not sure about it or is just waiting for you to tell, so go, tell her. You'll see how relieved you will be.
592460
i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....