what do you do if your girlfriend pays more attention to her friends then she does to you?
113628
Talk to her and tell her how you feel if it really bothers you. Communicate!!!
1142165
No, never break up with someone because you think they are too good for you, if that were the case theyd telly ou, thats unfair to them. And it isnt fair to her for you to let her friends push you away, just tell her how her friends are making you feel.
1022757
The mature thing to do is to stop trying to impress her. Right now she sees you like a little puppy begging for treats, not as an independent man. Tell her sorry you didn't have a nice time, maybe we can still be friends and then move on. 7 out of 10 times a girl will start to drop her guard down after that and look at you as more then a puppy and start looking at you as boyfriend material, and even if she doesn't the other girls around you will see that and pick up on it too.
919657
Are you crazy? If you both like each other why are you listening to your friends? Sure your friends mean well but they cant control you.
673025
just because your boyfriend doesnt talk much to your friends thats no big deal and i wouldnt talk to him about this friend of yours either if he has this type of problem with social situations its not his fault if hes smiling at people  then hes trying to be friendly in his own way and that seems to enough for most people,right, and what the other person said up the list aways if your boyfriend talks to other girls it doesnt mean hes gonna leave you for one of the other girls sounds like that girl has some jealousy problems or insecure.
588166
try going out with your friends more. be more social. I know..easier said than done. But if you want to be less paranoid of your gf, go out. And with her regularly.
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
860997
Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do.  What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..\n\nI feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago.  Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such.  The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well\n\nGoodluck
894619
Ignore her for a few days and stop doing all the stuff you usually do i.e. picking her up after work or call her every 2 times a day, go to parties without her. Send the message hey if you can live without me so can I. \n\nIts harsh BUT that is one of the way to get attention.  If she enjoys all the things you do to ignore her, then my freind something is wrong with your relationship, she might be seeing someone else
1168819
you need to sit your girlfriend down and talk to her and see where the relationship is going and go from there
184690
From everything you said it sounds like you resisted her fairly well. What I don't understand is why you wanted to hang out with her in the first place. Did you want something to happen between the two of you? And if she is a so-called friend she wouldn't have been making the moves on you knowing you have a girlfriend. I would not tell your girlfriend about any of this, unless you are intending on breaking up with her. If in the future someone mentions it to her and she asks you, then you need to be honest with her about everything.
856018
From what you have wrote I think that she what to be more than friends.  If she didn't want to be more than friends, she wouldn't be telling other people that you are her boyfriend.  If you only want to be friend with her than you need to talk to her and let her know that here actions are making you uncomfortable and that she needs to stop telling people that you are her boyfriend.
672245
I think it is dependent. My boyfriend is still good friends with his ex's and a couple of them I have to admit are better looking than me. At first I was suspicious of being just the flavor of the month for a while, but the key thing is to talk to them. Tell her that if bothers her that she does this on her own. If she is going out with an ex that you would like to go with her for your own peace of mind. I did that and I can tell that there is nothing left of that previous relationship, and have moved on. Now he'll spend hours studying with them sometimes and I don't care...then again we've almost been together for two years.
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
281321
go out with them and bring her along, show her more attention than u would show ur friends on purpose to make her feel important, this would give her security and assurance that she's in ur heart... =]
513589
if she asks u anything jus ignore her & make her jealous by doing something. After few days she will rush to u\n\n\n                                                 i hope my \n                                                advice works!\n\n\nif not sorry  :-/
702445
Be honest with the girl that you are dating (before you end it)! She will have so much more respect for you if you tell her straight up whats going on. She may be upset at first, but in the end, she may not be as heartbroken, as she would be if you just break up with her, and date her friend without her knowing. Besides, if your girl and her friend remain friends, then you will still have contact with her, so end it right! She'll understand.