how will i get somebody to spend my life with?
117110
find agood friend you can feel with him/here happy & like ur sister/brother
182171
I'm sure u will someday. Go to parties and clubs and maybe u'll met someone u'll really like. Who knows? U have to do things yourself to get what you want (if that makes any sense)
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
735004
Welcome to what we call LIFE!  Im sorry to be so rough here but...Get Used to it!  Things arent always what they seem most of the time anyways.  On the rare ocassion two people are lucky enough to discover each other it comes with No Guarantee's!\nAnd as such....there are no guarantee's that someone else is going to like you as much...or the same way...you like them.\nIts a Crap shoot.....or its a numbers game....depending on who you are.  If you sit at home and dont go out and meet people very often....its a crap shoot.  If your someone who is always meeting new people, and out and about all the time....then its a numbers game, and its only a matter of time before you hook up with someone else who is equally (?) as interested in you... as you are in them.  Remember...there are No Guarantee's!  But one thing I have found, is the universe has a tendacy to unfold just the way it was meant to.
556477
Because your looking in the wrong places. Stop looking for the right person and start looking at yourself. Live by the rules of the heart. Love thy self first before you can offer to others. Once you feel comfortable about yourself and stop looking to fill that void...the right person will come into your life. Sometimes if not more often its the person in front of you that is right.
211513
You should just give it some time. If you stay true to yourself love will find you eventually. It might not be right when you want it to happen, but it will come. Don't go out there and start looking for somebody to call your own out of desperation because that could mean disaster. Just take care of you and be patient.
243311
I know this will sound totally typical. Honestly, though it's true and it works. Once you stop looking, you'll get one. Focus on yourself, go out and ENJOY your life, spend time with friends and family...make YOURSELF a better person. Live your life...it's short. And while you're living, becomming a great person...someone will walk into your life :)
595124
Yes you will find someone of your expectations. Do not be disenchanted about love, for it is as perenial as the grass.
286634
You cannot make anyone love you, or get them to love you. You have to take a risk and care about them first. You have to get to know them first, otherwise its not love, its something else.\n\nMaybe you could think about how you might like someone to get you to love them. What would you want them to say? What would you want them to do for you? What would this "love" be like?\n\nEveryone needs to be loved. Consider the girl. Maybe she wants to be loved by you, or maybe she is waiting for someone else. Find out. Talk to her. Get information.\n\nYou may hear some things you don't want to hear, but at least you will know where you stand.
25910
Be very straight forward with them from the beginning.  Tell them that you want a relationship with no strings attatched.  Maybe someday you will want a relationship but not right now.
5502
first, stop being mad. no one wants to be with an angry person. second, i know its hard (cause i'm single too) be PATIENT!!! when we are in a rush, we get what we asked for....someone to fill the time but not the one for our spirit!! remember that one you want to love should feed your soul, not starve it. it is very hard when you want results now, but if want patiently we will be rewarded greatly. use this time that you are waiting for that special someone to really get to know yourself and where you are trying to be in life. the person you want should be equally yoked as you! this means you want someone who is equal to who you are, you don't want anyone who is less than you or who doesn't aspire to live the life that you will. so please, please be patient. =}
231587
Just be urself, the right person is out there somewhere for you, never give up on finding true love!\nWhen you find that special person you will know and every thing that you dreamed for will come true
212439
NEVER SETTLE!!!  Take your time, find the right person!  She will come along.  Out of the blue and knock you off your feet!
34659
what u need to do is stop searching so desperetly. if u set ur mind on finding somebody then no matter who u end up with, u wont have a good relationship because the only reason u are with that someone is so that u wont be alone. u gotto have more fun with urself and be happy to be with urself and then the perfect someone will come along... thats what happened to me.
220686
Dont do anything jus continue being you, if you do things out of the ordinary then your getting the girl for being what your not and you gottah constantly live up to that and be who you arent everyday to keep that girl. Plus when we go out and try to find people you will always end up with the wrong ones, the best thing to do is to let them come to you, i am in a relationship now going on a year we've been together, took me a while to find him, but truthfully he found me, and comforted me. You will get a girl jus stop waiting and looking the girl thats for you is the one you least expect to be and wasnt evern thinking about trust me. I been there done that.
930793
You just don't need to rush this type of thing.  Love usually happens when you least expect it and when you aren't looking for it. Just concentrate on yourself, living well, and having fun and don't stress over finding someone, and you may just find the person you are looking for.
538712
find you someone who will be compatible and in love with you\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!