what do i do if i want to break up with my boyfriend but im scared?
109758
Are you scared, because he might harm you? If that is the case, you should bring someone with you, like an older brother, or a friend..You don't want someone, who is going to make you scared all the time..Best thing to do, is call him on the phone, and explain to him, that you are going to break up with him..If he is going to hurt you, tell your mom or dad, they will know how to handle it..Good Luck, to you, I hope everything works out for you..
1119496
If you want to break up with your boyfriend, then you should.  However, the question would be why do you want to break up with your boyfriend?  It's really your choice and up to you as to what you should or shouldn't do, but whether it is a good idea or not, without more information, I would have to say you know what you are doing and why more than I do.
706426
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!
227768
How you break up with your boyfriend is entirely upto you.  You must realize that it has to be done.  Now, when you do should be done ASAP.  The longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt.
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
527787
Its simple, just BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND before you really hurt him.  As you can probably tell, something like this happened to me.  My ex cheated on me then broke up with me(on the same day that one of my friends died) and I felt like shit for a really long time.  So if you care about your boyfriend you'll let him go and just dont tell him about the other guy.
463447
learn fro this experience\n\nBe true to your self\n\n\nBrake it off with your boyfriend. \nStart anew Everyone deserves to be treated with honesty, you have broken respect  for your relationship.
756545
the fact that ur just thinking bout breaking up with your boyfriend should b a sign....
161573
hey thans for the advice on my boyfriend i just really am scared! oh and mine is trapped in the closet all parts its just drama i love to hear it but not be in it
497101
I don't think you hate him.  \n\nIf you did, you wouldn't give a rats bum about his feelings.\n\nBut - you do want to break up with him, and so you do it honestly.  Tell him, "I don't want to date you anymore.  You are a nice and loving friend however I want different things....."\n\nOr something like that.\n\nI hope it goes well, good luck.
220502
You should be asking yourself that question and not us.\n\nBut for your sake, I'll try and answer it.\n\nThe most basic answer I can come up with is fear or something. What exactly you are afraid of--I have no idea. You could be afraid of failing in a relationship (meaning you can't have a relationship that goes right--even if it isn't your fault). You could be afraid of being alone too. Or any other various reasons.\n\nYou just need to find what you are afraid of and overcome it--or realize that what you are worrying over is just plain silly, or something you will need to work on.\n\nYou will get through this. The most important thing you need to do is realize that you don't need to be with someone to survive or be happy--even though it may seem that way at times.\n\nYou need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Best wishes!
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
473799
leave him.  That would freak me out
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.
293689
Try getting some couple's counseling.  Staying together or breaking up is a decision that you need to make for yourself, but there are things you can take into consideration.  \nFirst, what is he saying?  If he is just yelling for the sake of getting his anger out, that's probably okay.  But, if he is insulting you or threatening you, that's not okay.  That's verbal abuse and it can be really hard on you in the long run.\nSecondly, do you feel threatened?  You can trust your instincts here.  If you are scared of him, get out.  If you aren't really all that scared when he yells, things will probably be okay with counseling or just talking to him about it.\nAnd finally, does he have a history of violent behavior?  If he is more violent, say, with brothers or friends, or if he condones violence he is more apt to become violent with you in the future, even if he has never touched you before.  Physical abuse can come about so gradually that you may not even realize that's what's happening to you.