I don't get second erection faster enough. Why? and WHat should I do?
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After you ejaculate, your not as "horny" as you were pre-ejaculation. So it's harder to attain a second erection. \n\nYour going to love the solution. Masterbate more. That's right. It increases the amount of semen you produce so you don't lose all of it in one ejaculation, thus it's easier to attain a second.
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Probably because you're not really ready for internal stimulation. Personally, I much prefer external mastur-bation anyway, try sticking to that for a while, focus on the clitoris. When you're going onto fingering, make sure you're well lubricated and relaxed, and try just inserting one finger - if that's ok, try two. Just take things slowly and gently.
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I already answered about this question.\nI guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of the women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our times (short or long) with our partner’s ones!\nAbout your question, you know that during the sexual act our mind has a relevant duty.\nThus, we have to fight against it mainly.\nSome therapist or psychologist has put some different method to follow, and about them, you should buy some books.\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (you know) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stop many times the penetration during the act (continuing to excite our partner anyway).\nThen if we are able to see out two acts consecutively, the most is already done!\nBy the way, Viagra is only good to give a stiff erection and not to reach longer time…..\nthen it can help us to see out another act, ONLY if there still is lust and wish
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From my experience, after each orgasm it becomes harder and longer before you can have another one. I would suggest you mas-tur-bate once before you have sex. This should be done 10-15 minutes before sex if possible so you can have time to "recover".\n\nMost over the counter drugs do not help you keep erections longer especially not those bought at convenience stores.
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not getting an erection "that night"!!!!
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Invest in a visit to a urologist or at leat talk to your regular doctor about it, and ask him to check your testosterone levels. I had similar problem and after a few weekly injections of testosterone I've been ok. If you have any emotional stresses going on, it can be just as much a cause. If you want some quick help while waiting for those things, look for a product at health food dtore which has a high content of Yohibine. Not only will it help erection, it increases general overal sensation and mood. It comes in a pure RX form also. Google Yocon and yohimbine. I think its sold under another rx name mow too. Its a hell of a lot cheaper than the new viagra, etc. The low testosterone was  my problem, the yohibine just added pleasure.
915191
Try Keigal exercises.  Resources which might be helpful can also be found when researching impotence and stamina with regard to sex.
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a lot matters on your partner, your own mental state at that time. There are times when even two and three times a night is not enough to satisfy me, and I am 47. At other times, if my or my partners mood is just not there, then keeping erect even for a few minutes is a big thing. It's all in the mind. Don't think about wanting to keep erect for a n hour when you are doing it, just consider the task at hand-pleasuring your partner and getting pleasure from your partner. You are young and over a period of time will definitely develop the art of keeping your self on the edge but not letting go while your partner's has orgasms.\n\nBe happy as you are!
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I terms of length the average erection is just a hair or two under 6 inches.\n\nIn terms of how long you can keep it up, well, that can vary ever so much from one person to another. For instance, if you reach orgasm in 2 minutes or less then the erection is gone almost as quickly as it came up. But if you draw out th epleasure you might be able to sustain it for hours or until it gets too sore to continue whichever comes first. And some days it might last for an hour or more while other days it might fall off in a few minutes depending on yoru state of health and mind.\n\nI would say that as long as you can achieve orgasm and bring your partner to that point within your 25 minutes then all is well. If neither of you get there, maybe you need to practice better techniques to ensure you both achieve success before the falling of the erection precludes a good climax. Like the old saying says "Practice makes perfect".\n\nSo don;t worry; instead concentrate on being the best lover you can be in the time allotted.
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It sounds like your man has low testosterone. This is very common for a guy his age. He can get a blood test by his doctor to see if he suffers from low test. This can be caused by lack of exercise, bad diet, overweight, lazy, and just age. He could try over the counter natural formulas to get him back in the saddle again like enzyte. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Many young people in their upper 20s are going through the same thing now days. I would get him started with finding out what is causing the lack of wanting sex before trying to get new positions established.
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you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck
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Weak erections may be from lack of Vit B 12. Go to health food store and purchase a bottle of B100 AND a bottle of B12. Take one a day and see if things don't change within 2 weeks. IF not, go to urologist...there are plenty of meds out there to solve the problem. AS for premature ejac....that just takes practice...don't get so carried away. There are techniques you can use to slow the process down. When you get to point to poppin', withdraw and pinch just under the bottom of the head...apply lots of pressure, that will stop the process...do this often enough and you will be much longer winded. Good luck
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dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
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You have erectile dysfunction. I'm not a doctor, but I don't think its due to masturbationn. Even if you never have masturbated in your life, if you have erectile dysfunction, it would of happened sooner or later anyway. Go talk to your doctor, it could be any number of medical reasons why you can't keep an erection. This shouldn't stand in your way of having a healthly sex life, there is meds you can take like Viagra to help.\nGood Luck! :)
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think about something else during sex..usually u can prolong your erection longer than usual....normal people have sex 3times a week..but if u competence enough, u can do it 6 times in a day;-)
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This is a case where it's a good thing for a guy to be pig-headed. Don't let yourself accept that you're going to blow first...insist SHE gets to orgasm first and mean it. (You've got to be stubborn though or she'll take you out!)Make yourself believe that you're not going out like that.Here's some practical tips that will probably help, too. First..oxygenate your body thoroughly before you even think about having sex, for example, earlier in the day go for a good run, shoot some hoops or do a bunch of pushups...anything to get the heart pumping oxygen-rich blood to the main vein! That's the principle key to your erection and good staying power. Next, get rid of that first nut privately, and pretty close to the time you're going to get with your lady. ( In the shower before you get with her is a good, discreet time and no one is any the wiser.) That first nut is mostly mechanical anyway; getting rid of it will calm you down to do some good, inspired thrusting and grinding. Lastly, don't do a whole lot of drinking...it weakens you more than you might think. And, if you know she's going to wipe you out when you take her from behind (for example) for God's sake don't start out like that; start in a position where you can maintain a good holding pattern without getting overstimulated. It's all in the planning, DAWG! Good luck.
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You are a bit too young to get multiple orgasm and it is not that common either... you have to rest a few minutes... and I must agree with some other people... ky jelly will help a bit...