I need to have positive thinking? Any advice????
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Find some Zig Ziglar tapes.  That, or maybe you just have to find Jesus.
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That is so true!\nSome people always seem to have good things happen to them and  they always seem happy.  Try this, start your day on a great note and when something negative happens, put it aside and worry about it later, bad things ALWAYS wait.  Just keep track of the good things each day and soon your list will get longer and longer.  Your bad vibes will soon get smothered and you won't need to even think about them!  Maybe that is how some people seem to be happy all the time.  I think I'm gonna take my own advice, starting today.
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The more you think negative thoughts, the stronger you make the conditioning. Start by thinking positive thoughts about yourself, the more positive thoughts you have the more chance you have of changing the negative conditioning. Not all people have to like you, the same as you don't have to like all people. Everyone is different and everyone should respect this fact. We are all individuals. Start liking yourself, because if you do not like yourself, how can anyone else like you. Start right now, tell yourself I AM A GOOD PERSON, AND I TRULY LOVE AND RESPECT MYSELF. Good Luck
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Pray and also pay attention to the things that lead you to think that way.  Like, maybe when you're with certain people or if you watch a certain TV program or if you start thinking about one thing it leads you to another.  It's all part of self-discipline.  \n\nTheoretically, some people think we should be able to do anything and still have control over our thoughts, but if that were the case we'd be perfect.  The most important thing is knowing what leads you to loftiness or to abasement.  If you know that, you can take much better care of yourself in every way.  \n\nAlso, relax and take time for yourself doing things just for fun and for no other reason.  Go to the lake or the park or go see a play with some friends.  Sometimes we get so tired of life because we let it run us ragged.  Take a break and enjoy it! :o) Good luck!
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POSITIVE THINKING ALWAYS EXES OUT NEGATIVITY.EXAMPLE>WHEN YOU GO TO PARK SOMEWHERE AND YOU WANT TO PARK CLOSE TO THE BUILDING INSTED OF SAYING I JUST KNOW I WONT FIND A PLACE CLOSE ENOUGH SAY>LETS GO THIS WAY SO I CAN PARK CLOSER.
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Repeat affirmations to your self: Like the one up there. Or " I am a positive person" seriously it works. or if you start to get negative just go somewhere and take deep breaths counting backwards from 10, you'll feel like a new person! Love Tapes are marvelous!! You listen to them when you're going to asleep or driving, they really work!! and Lastly meditation to calm your soul... Have fun!!
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You should psych yourself by relaxing, giving yourself a "confidence boosting talk", you know, you can do this, you KNOW this, etc. and just walk into it with assurance. Good luck!
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Explore your negative thoughts.  They are there for a reason.  They are probably just a reflection of your fears and your programming all throughout your life.  The truth is, a lot of our thinking is irrational and untrue.  There is no point in entertaining the thoughts that are negative if they are irrational and untrue!  If you do, they will cause you unnessary pain, but most of us continue thinking them anyway, because we haven't really taken a good LOOK at them.  When you have a negative thought, write it down.  Ask yourself, Is this thought really true and valid?  And then, write down all the reasons it is irrational.  Writing it down solidifes it more in your brain.  This is all a matter of re-training your brain.  Once you've written all of this down, then, replace it with a similar, but more accurate and positive description of what's really going on.  EXAMPLE:  Neg. thought:  No one likes me at work.  Is this true?  Well, I have no way of knowing this for sure.  There is no evidence supporting this thought.  Infact, someone did smile at me the other day, and we had a nice chat.  THIS would be evidence to the contrary.  NEW pos. thought:  I will try to put more effort into developing positive friendships at work.  If you need to, you can make this new statement a daily affirmation for yourself, to further solidify this in your brain.\n\nKeep cleaning out your subconscious garbage can!  Its good for you...:)
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start beleiving more in urself thn u would be able to think in one direction
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"Wishfull thinking" may make you feel better, but based \non falsehoods. Try to be a realist or you may hurt yourself\nor others in the long run.\n\n                    Uncle Johnny
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Put everyone or everything that is stressing you out to the test.  How much of a positive energy do you get from that particular person?  And how much of negative energy do you get from that person?  Which weighs more?  \n\nMight be time to re-prioritize who and what you spend time with.\n\nAlso a gratitude journal is a good way to help put perspective on your life.  Just list anything you can think of as to who or what you're thankful for.  Like any other good thing, this can take practice.  But it's well worth it.
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Enjoy your life and live according to your own values and worldy views. The thought of the future can prob. drive you up the wall. Live each day well individually and the world will heal eventually. Sometimes I like to think of things unfolding as they should and all you and I can do is love the time we have.
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Stupid... Get an education and prove to yourself you are not\nUnloved... Share love with someone else\nWeird... A little bit of weird is cool\nAnnoying... Find people that are like you and you won't annoy them\n\nHere is the main thing though.  You said advice for a person (yourself) who THINKS that they are all of those things.  The thoughts that you put in your head were just that, put there by you.  You can change them to be positive thoughts.  Everyone has bad days but if you can't change those thoughts on your own maybe you can find a therapist or someone who can.
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Anything is possible. Don't sell yourself short by thinking pessimisticly. Your mentality will evolve as you learn  and develop in life.. Sometimes , some people do need help in this department. If this is the case , don't think less of yourself...just ask and seek for help...Do everything possible to get the help you need. It takes great courage and dedication. Don't worry about what others think. That doesn't matter and shouldn't matter. The important thing here is getting the help you need to be the BEST YOU can BE. I wish you the best!
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If you can practice  as below you can get rid of negative feelings .\n\n1. Create the habit of " LISTEN TO YOURSELF" several times a day. This means just listen what is going on in your mind .\n\n2. If it is a negative  , stop there . Either switch immediately to a positive thinking or modify the same negative thinking into positive thinking .\n\nExample :- My parents didn't care me much in my childhood(negative) ----change to-----> My parents given me an opportunity to become independent and self-sufficient in the childhood itself(positive) . --or change to --> I have received best student award in my school(positive,happiness) ..\n\nWith practice you can become more positive day by day. Please tell me if this works for you .
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I will give you a good motivation cyber tablet for nothing forget over the counter rubbish.......\n\nIt's called being POSITIVE with what you do no matter how trivial from cooking, cleaning, taking out rubbish, gardening, walking,whatever you do for a Job, just say to yourself No Negativity for this person...IT WORKS just takes a little time to adjust, ITS AMAZING HOW QUICKLY YOU BECOME MOTIVATED,\nOK i hear you say this guy is a nutter, BUT I have turned my life around from being like yourself un motivated feeling down and tired all the time...\n\nNow I walk with purpose, talk with confidence,and love the feeling I am getting from being Motivated like this....Not to mention how others around you lift cos you won't accept negativity..\nI always try to no matter what find the positives from any situation and not being bombastic either by the way about it , so lording it over those who want nothing better than to find the negatives..\n\nIt has improved my relationship no end and believe it or not my health as my diet has changed also thus losing weight.\n\nSo all I can say it comes down to ATTITUDE my friend change that then all good will follow CHEERS hope this was of some help,,,
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It is very common to have these feelings of insecurity about yourself. Almost everyone thinks like this at some point in their lives.\n\nThe only solution is to try and think positively all the time, anytime you start to feel bad about something just tell yourself to stop... and remind yourself that you are a good person, you look great and you can do anything you put your mind too.\n\nAfter a while you won't have to keep reminding yourself, you will just know that you are ok. Think positive and believe in yourself!!\n\nGood Luck, you can change they way you think and act if you really want to, being positive is the key.