i want few tips on effective communication?
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Toastmasters - http://www.toastmasters.org/\n\nI heard about them for years, and often would people reccommend them to me. I had lots of excuses: \n"I'm an instructor! I talk in front of people all day!" \n"I am too tired when I get off work to add something else" \n"I took Speech class in school"\n\nWhen I finally got around to going I was amazed - it worked! A few tips -\n* Try different clubs as a visitor until you find one that fits. Each club is run by the members - which means that each club is a little different.\n* Once you join, make a committment to stay at least long enough to finish the first book. It will help you work through the rough spots. Because Toasmasters is ongoing, there is no "end" like there would be with a class.\n* Toastmasters really helps you work through your specific issues whatever they are. The variety in my club is not unusual: IT guys, non-native speakers, trainer/instructors, retired, unemployed, FT employed, student...etc. Everyone starts from thier own place.\n\nGood luck!
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PRACTICE.\n\nI recommend doing a mock presentation and making sure you have everything down exactly as you want it, including timing, eye contact, etc.\n\nAlso if you want a long term improvement, you should join ToastMasters, an organization that will help you in this department. Try: http://www.toastmasters.org/
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Any search of "public relations", "business communicaton", or similar will yield you a lot of literature.  Since you're in school, you should ask your reference librarian for help.\n\nThe current trend in research in this area indicates that proper capitalization and cprrect use of pronouns and verbs are integral to effective communication.
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Make friends and talk to them.  Ask them to correct mistakes you make instead of just ignoring them out of politeness.  And be happy when they do.  Listen to the radio, to movies, to cartoons, children's programs, be with people as much as you can.  Also, read.  Read children's books to start with, but reading really helps you learn spoken English.  You see words in sentences and context and can look at them for awhile and see how they are used.  Go to the library and ask a librarian to suggest a simple, but intersting children's book with a few chapters that you could read.
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Talking is probably the largest factor I can think of.\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Becoming genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nA somewhat easy way to get a conversation started is to make a short complaint about something that you know the other person doesn't like. Generally the other person will complain too and you'll have you're conversation. You have to be Very careful not to do this often because you don't want the other person to think you're a whiner.\n\nThere are lots of other ways to start a conversation as well and college is a great place for it. Keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful today as it was when it was written.\n\nFission
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TRY NOT TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE DOING ALL THE TALKING. GIVE OTHER PEOPLE A CHANCE TO SAY SOMETHING. LISTEN TO WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO SOMETHING, CAREFULLY THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU R GOING TO SAY BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING THAT COULD REALLY HURT SOMEONE'S FEELINGS, OR CAUSE AN HONEST MISUNDERSTANDING. BUT THE KEY TO GOOD COMMUNICATION IS GOOD UNDERSTANDING. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS NEW PIECE OF ADVICE.
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Urs is a typical problem. If u dont mind, Il suggest u 1 thing. Consult a Psychiartist and get solution to ur problem. It will definitely help u. If u dont like the above suggestion, then I can suggest u a few things. First of all observe all types of conversations around u and get an idea how the people are talking (If they are ur friends or relatives, its better). Just start interacting with people by saying hi, how r u? How is ur work going on? For the people whom u dont have any conversation, just smile and say how r u? It forms a good impression to that person on u. At the same time dont talk unnecessary matters and dont make kidding. Just ask abt their future plans and a best one is u can adopt flattery also, but in a decent way. Be positive & appear positive in every word u speak. Ur postures and gestures should be good while ur speaking and u should be bold and confident enough. I think this would definitely help out u.\n\nIf u also think like that vote me as best. All the Best.
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well, for starters...open your mouth and practice the art of communication! What you said here is perfect for letting him know!\n\nGood luck!
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i need more details..\nWhat messages?
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Effective communication is key to imparting logical and cogent tips regardless of the branch of learning. Thusly, I give you tips for improving your english. Use a grammar and spell-checker. \n\nOh and please don't dangle something as tantalizing as 10 points in front of me... I could answer four stupid questions in addition to this one and get 10 points. How's that for math improvement?
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Communication and be spontaneous!!
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Speak speak speak a lot.........\nThats all
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Read every night.\n\n(This is MOST important!) Speak more english to people especially those who speak proper english, not those who always speak in slang. \n\nListen to audio tapes.\n\nEmail online.
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listen more,  develope your listening skills,  people don't usually want ideas or solutions... all they want is too be heard and know that someone heard them... which builds trust and support and you didn't even have to give any input... just listen... \n\nfollow up with something like... so you would like to improve your relationships skill?    How would a good relationship look to you?\n\nbasic stuff...
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i've been speaking in front of groups for 25 years.  What works best for me are:\n\n  - Practice speech ahead of time\n  - Always use questions in talks (brings audience into presentation)\n\nIf this is not a formal presentation, and you're just meeting some people for networking, I always practice ahead of time points of discussion.  I usually avoid politics and religion.\n  Fair game are sports, what do you do for a living?, do you have children?  I use a little mnemonic\n\n  F - family (have kids?  what does spouse do?)\n  O - occupation (what do u do for living?)\n  R - recreation (what do u do for fun?  tennis?...)\n  M - motivation (what excites you?  movies? ...)\n\ngood luck\nted
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Have some humor in your voice and attitude.\nCommunication isnt a forced thing.  If it is, than move on.\nThat person's not worth your time.\nummmmmmm, how doya 'physically' force communication???
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Read. Read as much as you can about anything and everything and it will manifest in your communicational skills, and it will also give you a broader range of knowledge.\n(I'm nowhere near excellent, but reading has improved me quite a bit).