how can i get my ex boyfriend to love me again?
108808
You can't have both boys. (well, I suppose you could, but it wouldn't work) \n\nI'd say, since you're with his best friend, your chances are slim to none in getting him back.
501125
Love is hard, but the best to do for yourself is forget about him, and move on. This is easier said than done, but take up some hobbies and go out with your friends. You cannot allow a guy to rule over you. So stop scheeming on how to get him back. The only person you need to get, is the confident and sassy YOU.
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
447588
try to get him back dear
173844
I know you want him back, its VERY hard to let go of the one you love, i still need to learn that leasson. But you cant force him to go out with you. Just be yourself, and just be his friend, the rest is up to him.
133365
There is not much you can do.  From experience it is best to keep your distance. It will make it easier for your ex in the long run trust me.  Cut your losses and move on before you worry about something that just takes time to heal the wounds. If you keep hanging around and continue to permit yourself to be subjected to him you could possible make it harder on yourself and get hurt in the long run.
1018192
yeah the first answer is correct. let time heal and if yuo still love each other i guess it's worth a try once more.\nbe honest and tell him you still love him and dont want to let go.\nwhatever his answers is. respect it. atleast you did your best and you tried lowering your pride. you wont lose anything for doing that. a more respect  for your self.
568152
First of all you need to tell your ex to get over himself! Hes the one that messed up therefore he shouldnt be trying to get back at you! And even if lets say you were the one to cheat first then oh well lifes tough and he needs to move on! You and the "new" guy shouldnt even pay attention to your ex. I mean he is your EX hence the word EX as in he doesnt matter anymore! You guys should just ignore him and be happy!!
43839
Say "Good-bye", give a great "Sponge Bob" wave.  \n\nDon't waver from this...unless you want to look foolish.  If your ex wants you back, they'll let you know.  So, you can hold your dignaty and bow out, or you can beg and beg and beg only to be rejected more and more and more.\n\nIt hurts, all I can recomend is find something that makes you happy...Go find happiness.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
409177
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
696650
It's hard for you to let go because you still love him. Give it time, you will get over it eventually.\nI just told someone else this... You can't Make anyone love you or MAKE anyone love you more.\n\nGood luck.
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
895234
This is a very fragile thing your flirting with here. You can get a spell and make him come back to you, but do you really want him back on those terms? You love him-set him free. If he returns he's yours-if he doesn't he never was. Spell casting to strenghthen your love is OK, but to get him to love you back is dangerous and would not recommend this practice. Please rethink what you want, and take a different approach.
426623
You might consider getting right back on the horse as they say.  Find another boyfriend, (hopefully one with some fidelity and honor).  I don't think revenge is the answer, and I don't think that you could get revenge anyway.  Just dump him and move on (which is hard i know) but honestly sweetie, there is sombody out there who will love you for you.  Just hang in there.
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;