If you can belly dance, should you not show it off at the club?
104421
As long as you can do it to the beat of the music.  Not all music can you belly-dance to.  But, I'm sure your dance partner will think it's hot, so go for it.
157734
I always thought that one of the most private places you can be is in a group of strangers. This is true of dancing in a club. If you can't dance, who cares? If people are talking about you, you can't hear it over the music and they will be to drunk to remember you anyway. If you go without a date, there will always be someone else to dance with (hopefully, they can dance). Best of all, you can flirt on the dance floor with a perfect stranger, no string attached, who you will probably never see again.
407426
Well its not cheating but it does fuel lust.\nI'm not saying its right , but its what men do..LIKE TO LOOK. \nStrippers are usually about the money and an ACT. \nMost strippers and I'm not saying all are lesbian and talk really bad about the men backstage of course. Especially when they tip bad. \nNot all clubs are actually allowing touching it depends on the state and area laws.\nIt obviously makes you feel uncomfortable.\nAsk if you can go with him to see what the club(s) are aboutt hat he goes to.\nIt may ease your mind or you will know if this is going to be a potential problem.\nKeep in mind when the money runs out usually so does the interest.\nTry stripping for him. \nYou can get more personal than strippers can.
1148809
Yeah! Poodle skirts babe!! I completely understand. Whatever happened to sharing a milkshake after a great carnival? The problem is, some of us are too tall or too old to ride the rides. lol. But I understand. Clubbing, walking on the beach, etc. It's a lost art. I write poetry and I consider myself a decent singer, but I wouldn't be very happy about singing in an open bar. lol. If it was for the one I loved, deffinately. ^_~ Love is an embarrassing sport, play it to the fullest. Best of luck finding the guy that wants to give you a piggy-back outside the sheets.
812430
Find a dance class to go to if you like dancing, or go clubbing... then you can shake it without getting in trouble
998921
I think its up to her to decide, but ask her why she would want to degrade herself like that.  The money isn't worth losing dignity and self respect.  I see most exotic dancers as having self esteem issues.
809334
Sadly yes.\n\n\nBut if you want to meet the ladies and impress them, go to the clubs.  If you can't dance and that is a hazard for many guys, learn.\n\nTake a few dance lessons.  Dance in front of a mirror.  Get some tapes of people dancing.  Go to a club and watch others dance.  When you feel like you can, just dance.  Hint, no alcohol as it makes you feel better about dancing, you look even more foolish than if you were to do the jock 2 step.\n\nA good time to dance is when there are a lot of people on the floor and you really can't do much more than shuffle in any case.
1077813
for me dancing is like a medium of expressing my mood and i not a person who would openly show my mood.. I normally dance in my room when no ones watching... and if i ever ever happen to dance in a party then i care a dam for the crowd and dancing steps.. its just swinging in my own mood for me.
926838
I was a go go dancer at a nightblub....no stripping....basically, i had a stage that was elevated above the rest of the dance floor and I jsut danced...that's it.  You're not there to pick up on people, serve people, serve food or drinks....just dance!  it's pretty fun!  Esp if you hit the club scene alot.  Depending on the blub, that determines what you wear....I was at a hip hop club....basically I usually wore cargo pants and a tube top with adidas...  :)
1017265
I wouldn't do it, not even for a laugh. Why degrade yourself so much just to impress your friends. That would just make me want to ditch them as there are so many other ways of having fun and not being on CCTV for bearing your boobs in public as you can also get arrested for it.
586283
Sadie,\n\nI agree w/ blackcorgie.  It is fine to be a dancer, but you will regret performing for friends.  Why don't you consider getting one of your colleagues to do it instead?
15529
No, but if you are the only one not dancing, your colleagues may think you are not a fun person.  Just don't get drunk and dance.
1143844
Absolutely, it's safe!  Things are much the same as in a really friendly pub.  If you're not interested, just say "No thank you."\n\nDon't do anything you're not comfortable with and pleasuredome is supposed to be the pants!  I wish I were going.
868948
LoL! HEHEHE:) You're funny, I might dance if my husband wasn't in the room. Noone deserves the torture of watching me dance.
41169
Part of why you don't like it is because you haven't learned how. It probably wasn't somthing done very often in your household when you were growing up. But this practice has been around for centuries. Back ages past it was a way to get close to a woman you were interested in, and if you could move at all and still smile sweetly as you gazed adoringly upon her, then you were the object of all woman's affections.\nLearn some older steps first in a classroom setting. It will give you a good foundation for learning more moves and modern dances. Once you've got the hang of moving your feet to the beat, and not being stiff kneed or staring at your toes... then you can learn some dances in a more social environment like a country bar and pick up some of those fun line dances.\nBelieve me a man who knows how to move on the floor will have more successful moves off the floor if you take my meaning. Plus it's a great excuse to hold a woman close, even strange women!\nEnjoy!
479658
answer the Question.... if you like one of the clubs.... and if you go there. \nNot command some dumb stuff no one wants to know. You aint answered the Question so you are no help to this person.\nCome one People be serious people need help here not someone to joke around.
963348
I like to go out with a bunch of friends for the dancing and the music. \n\nBut yes, a lot of people go there to meet people. I guess its not totally a bad idea, but you never know what kind of person you could be meeting there. Most guys expect girls at clubs to go home with them that night. \n\nI go either with a bunch of girl friends just to dance and drink and have fun or I go with my fiance just to dance and have some fun time away from the house.