I'm confused, i have discovered something just right now that quite hurts my feelings. What i must do?
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Sounds like this Japanese man plays the field, conning innocent women like you.  If he loved his previous girlfriend and allowed his parents to interfere in his marriage choice, then HE IS NOT A MAN.  Drop this guy!  He's a loser, also there won't be any conflict between your coworker. You both can drink a beer a say what a momma's boy he is.
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Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
1055283
now I feel dumb - I have no idea what you're asking...
676055
You need to ask her about this.  Gently, not accusingly.  <---VERY important. No one here can tell you because no one knows what's going through her head right now.  Everyone's different.
959697
My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER
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I'm sorry that you were treated so badly. I recognise the anger you feel. I've had the same experience myself and I know how much it hurt me. \nBest advice I suggest is do nothing. \nThis person has probably long forgotton about you. Getting your vengence on this person more than likely will not make you feel any better. If anything, you may even end up feeling a little guilt. \nThe things that happened to you were wrong, but its happened and you can't change that. It might help to find a way of dealing the anger you feel in another way that could maybe help others. \nI guess this may not be what you are looking for. All I can say is, its helped me.
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you may be upset...but at least you know. Don't even ask why it has happened,you know why. you have all your questions answered, hey It probably hurt....a lot but live sweetie,be happy,prosper.
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
235342
go with your gut feeling to be on the safe side. usually that feeling is right. if you feel that strongly about someone lying to you, definatly confront them and talk it out. yes that persons going to get upset and deffensive but you have the right to know if you suspect something going on behind your back.
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I'm guessing that you're young, and I can tell you that what you think and feel right now is not at all what you will be thinking and feeling 5, 10, 20 years from now. Life changes without our even realizing it. Hold on for now, and just have faith that things will change and someday you'll look back and thank God that you didn't make a rash decision based on what really is just a fleeting moment in time.And for goodness sakes, talk it out with someone! You're not alone!
235759
Suck up your gut and be glad you found out about their true character before you invested one second more.\n\nDon't think there is anything else you can do, unless you want to repay their filth with gold.
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What to do?  That is between you and he.  But it sounds like he has already made up his mind.\nYou will get over a broken heart.  They do mend.  Do not let his behavior cloud your mind or heart to other men.  Take this one day at a time.  Learn not to speak badly about what he did.  If you are confused, express this.  If you are angry, get it out and get over it as fast as possibly.\nBreathe deeply.  Cry if you need to.  Join others as soon as you can.  You do not have to be alone.
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You should tell him the truth about how you feel even if it hurts you don't want him to find out from someone other then you because it might make things worse but when and if you deside to do the right thing let him down easy and tell the you would like to remin friends good luck I hope this help's you.
347143
what feels badly?\nlet me know then maybe i can help
225715
whatever is bothering me
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I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
637856
Nothing is wrong persay....You are like me in a way....maybe your trust has been broken to the point where it is very difficult to feel like trusting....trust me (lol) I know where your coming from. Remember to take your time with a possible solistice mate.....Trust will be there.  You do have to take a risk and not run away once in a while...Risk is what the "Game of Looooooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeee" is all about.