Somebody likes me and he likes me but he also likes another girl should I dump him.?
101244
I don’t mean to sound cynical, but honestly, you’re 12 years old… you have an enormous life ahead of you! You’re going to have plenty of time for boyfriends and relationships, perhaps even with better guys that only want YOU, and don’t have another lady waiting around. \n\nWhen I was in middle school (I’m now in high school), I was in a situation all familiar with yours. I, too, had a guy who also had the “feelings” towards me… but, of course, he had another girl (and hell, maybe others!) whom he liked - oh, I’m sorry, “loved.” And as much as my infatuation grew and grew, I knew he was not the type of guy for me. \n\nBesides, let’s get realistic: most high school loves don’t even make it out alive. You’re in middle school, and I don’t know about you, but I don’t like to waste my time on instabilities. Not to mention, you’ll most likely get hurt by this boy, too. \n\nI, personally, don’t think it’s something you should gamble. It’s your feelings on the line for some hardly established guy to play on…\n\nP.S. I realize I might sound a little impertinent and perhaps even nagging, but all girls in the world deserve a guy who only has eyes for her without leading anyone on.
1090990
go for the guy who likes you now!\n\nwhat does this idiot think--"i'm not into you now... BUT if this other girl i like says no maybe i'll come to you next..." whatever!!!! that idiot isn't worth your time or love!
205235
if he knows u like him and he likes u back then he'll choose between u or his gf. give him time it must be hard to pick between two woman. if he likes u as much as it sounds he'll leave his gf and be with u. just dont push him and give him some time to think it thru. \n*Good Luck!* =)
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
1088134
if that guy likes you too then whats the problem but if he likes one of them then you better step behind .
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
317655
I think you should probably forget him. Chances are if he's with another girl all the time he's not interested in a relationship and if you do get into one with him he'll probably cheat on you. Try to find someone that's after you for who you are, not what you have to offer.
440421
If he does dump his girlfriend for you, than you deserve each other! Just remember he could dump you for someone else just as easily! You would deserve it! You don't go after someone who is already in a relationship! You might want to get counseling to find out why you would want to go after someone who isn't really available and why your morals are so low. \n\nA.H.
984887
he is trying to tell u that he likes this other girl instead of u in a non hateful way. that's all there is 2 it. ur rite he should have told u some thing, but he should be the one to make the move, but if he's too lazy 2, then u have to ask him "whats going on with us?" or something like that, \n\ngood luck!\n\n~heather~
764362
If he likes someone else move on.()
342106
you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
999828
tell him no cuz he already has a girl and when you become his girl what happens when he finds someone else he likes? he will do the same thing to you.\nhe will respect you more if you turn him down.
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
329163
Tell him that you only see him as a friend.  End of story.\n\nAbout him dating someone else, if you see him doing that and he likes you, tell him it's not your cup of tea.  If he wants a fling, he could search elsewhere... there's none of that bs about he'll break up with her soon or whatever.