how much appearance is important in love ?
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I would agree that appearance has nothing to do with love if we lived on Perfect Island where the birds bring you Mai Tai's on the beach and the skies are not cloudy all day... truth is, most of what we, as a society, consider love... is actually fleeting lust (reference: 2004 divorce rates) which has everything to do with appearance.  LOVE?  No, appearance doesn't affect it... just, and I mean this sincerely, good luck finding it.
485623
honesty and sincerity. looks are not the most important thing in any relationship
656772
The truth is that personality is the most important, but there has to be some level of attraction.  However, in my case, once I've gotten to know a guy he's become more and more attractive.
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As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
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Deffinetly personality. Looks aren't really important to me. I mean, yeah, clearly if he's got a great personality and he looks hot, I mean, yeah, that'd be a great bonus, but as long as he's got a great personality, I'm set.
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Very necessary??\n\nThe people should be basically attractive to each other at least (everyone's view of good looking is different)\n\nPersonality is much more important...  Gorgeous people with bad personalities aren't worth dating at all IMO.
580019
Looks are very important in a relationship.  You have heard of “love at first sight”.  That doesn’t mean that the guy has to be great looking or the woman has to be sexy.  It just means that at the time those two people saw each other they were drawn together because of the way they looked and they connected with each other.
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This is a tougher question to answer than it seems.  First, many studies have shown that men are more visually affected when it comes to romance than women.  However, without a doubt, physical attraction does play a role for both in the initial encounter.  However, if physical attraction is the only aspect of the relationship, it is doomed to failure.  As it takes awhile for persons to learn about the inner qualities of other persons, that aspect takes a deeper meaning only as the relationship developes.
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personality and good looks
209707
You should love a person for who they are,not what they look like. If you have alot in common with a person and get along with them that should be all that matters
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Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and every guy has a slightly different opinion of what beauty is in a woman.  However, once you get pass the initial physical attraction, I really think that whether or not a woman's personality is attractive is what keeps the guy interested.  I guess the same thing can be said for what defines a good looking man.
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Hasn't anyone told you beauty's only sking deep? Because it's true. If you really love her, she'll know and your looks won't matter to her. Personality, mind, and spirit are way better to have than a nice rear.
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People like to say that looks dont matter and its whats on the inside that truely counts. While this is true in theory is is most often not very true in practice.\n\nMost people given the choice between an average looking person who has a great personallity and an attractive person with a bad personality will go with the attractive person. I think the reason is that people think of their boyfriends/girlfriends a fashion items. "Nice coat!" "Cute shoes!" "Oh nice boyfriend! You got the whole set."\n\nI had a big time crush on a friend of mine who is in a wheelchair. She is awesome to be with, kick ass, and a beatiful person. Our lives went to very different paths so we never dated but I sure as hell wanted to.\n\nIf the person cares for you as a person, none of that shit should matter.
650754
Innitally - Height and hair.  True attraction is based on personality.
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Yeah, obviously you HAVE to notice appearance before you can notice personality. However, my husband is not my type "appearance wise"--but I got to know him and I know he's my soulmate. I couldn't love him more. So, while looks may initially draw you in, the personality is what keeps you there. Hope that helps!
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The human response of love and of attraction is partly based on a persons appearance and health.  Most of what is considered attractive or beautiful is also biologically an advantage.\n\nCheck out this page for more:\nhttp://www.healthandage.com/default.cfm?curr_navi=02&curr_content=02&spr=en&framedef=1&curr_paramlist=healthandage;2617;2;haa_online_from;2;1;3;-;dsp_tooldetail
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Appearance\nAttitude\nHumour\nLove & Care\nPersonality