Been supporting a single man in iraq 4 9 months we finally met but didn't do anything do he like me?
116312
He is using you. Many U.S. soldiers did that in Vietnam and left the women with children. Break up that seudo friendship and forget it!
455275
It's always painful to be rejected by a guy, especially one you've been interested in for awhile.  However, unless he is just very broken up over his girlfriend and that's why he's uninterested in dating, he's probably just not interested.  He sees you as a friend, but nothing more than that.  \nAs for his deal, I don't know.  He probably really liked her and it's upsetting when someone you really like doesn't like you back.  As for what you can do, simply be his friend or move on.  Don't expect him to change his mind and stick around waiting for him.  He probably won't.  Simply find someone else you like and start talking to him.  I bet that you meet someone else just as great in a short amount of time and THIS time he won't have a girlfriend.
192739
i really hope and wish you good luck... although rarely does it work.... it is definitely different if you met each other & then he started living abroad.. but abroad from point Zero is hard............ still good luck
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
481078
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
187852
well it sounds like to me you are stuck in a hard place and a rock, you should do nothing. If he likes you then he will tell you or on the flip side he is shy and does not know how to approach you. So just give him time to think and build the courage.
650427
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
230105
Is he in service. You need to wait till he gets home and set down and have a long talk and see if you can work it out. You got a 9 month old that you need to be thinking about right now, not a long distance relationship.
1127690
Hi Kerry \n\nI've been in Iraq myself and spent half the year there and i know first hand what it feels like and what goes on in your mind when you are over there.\n\nYour desired man works in security in Iraq where he is faced with  real danger,im sure you av seen from the news and everthing else,the rest isn't for me to say.I met someone when i came back on leave and it was the best thing ever to happen to me but in my head i had this feeling what will happen to her in case  i dont make it back or if something happened to me will everything still be be same with us.I survived all that and my days were hard to get by.\n\nIn your case im sure this guy is thinking along the same lines and probably feels that he should not make you wait in case he never makes it back or if something happens to him will it still be the same between you guys,more like a state of mind to get you through that time,but im sure deep down he hopes you will wait for him and as long as you have the will power to wait for that long and expect anything to happen afterwards, i think you will have given yourself the best chance with him and who knows were it will take you.
669951
Possibly .. I mean, here we have a solider who is going into a battle front and he may/may not be wounded, shot down, captured, all of the above, I personally want to thank him for defending our freedom's but as you can see this might have a "unfortunate" outcome. It is nice that you found someone that admires you and you him, just keep in mind of the possibilities that await you and all of the other families that have loved ones in Iraq right now. I don't want to tell you this is wrong or try to "throw salt" on the game in any way. BY ALL MEANS keep in touch with him he will need the correspondence, and if you "solider boy" make it back home, take some time to thank him properly.
289337
well its hard to tell.. maybe he was driven away, maybe he was just an arrse!. What went on between them has nothing to do with you. If you have any interest or maybe just curious. Go ahead..Go for it.. you may find a worthles piece of s#ite you and mama are better of without.. at least you'll know Be cautious, be cool and let things work themselves out.
1165057
You probably really like the guy. In this case nothing you say would seem to be good enough. This is however normal and once you get more comfortable with the person this would go away.
633795
MOVE ON if he really liked you he would of found a way too stay in touch. Better yet, still do what you do and wait to see if he will come around.That way you do not look crazy or desperate.
915687
Sounds like you regret breaking up, but if he's leaving in an hour, there's really nothing else to do, except answer his letters if he should write to you. If he's going to Iraq, he'll probably need to keep his mind on staying alive.
436665
They always say if at first you don't succeed try again so basically I think you should. Hopefully after so many tries he'll give you a chance. On the other hand, if he told you he's not interest than maybe you should try friendship as an option. It's best to be there for him somehow even if it's not the way you want. I am sure the right man will come along soon or he will come to it don't sweat it!
1117500
If he hasn't responded to a dish like you, he's gay, dead or just plain stupid.\nOne good thing, there are thousands of men, on here, and elsewhere, who would be over the moon, to correspond or chat with you.\nSo don't waste your time on  him, it seems he hasn't.\nJust move on, and open yourself up to all the other chances you have.\nAfter seeing your pic, I would suggest you buy a baseball bat, to beat off some of those suitors,. who will be sitting on your doorstep waiting for you.\nLife's  too short to worry about losers, just move on and have fun.\nI'd wish you good luck, but I don't think you need it. :)
650666
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.