When in love with \ntwo how do you know \nwhich one to choose? \npeople?
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you already chose!! Keep hubby
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The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric feeling for someone. \n\nLove is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.\n\nThis love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes because that's how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.\n\nIt's when they're the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when you're thinking about them and miss them.\n\nLove can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you're in love. If you find it, don't let it go.
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I love this question,.. \n\nOK,.. so there is \n1. 'loving' someone \n2. being 'in love' with someone.\n\nRemember this, you can LOVE anything, anyone at any given time,.. love is nothing more than the desire to have a feeling, it can be a feeling for material things, for a certain hair cut, for clothes, anything. the 'love' will usually disappear after the desire has been for-filled, kinda of like an affair, a summer fling...\n\nBut being in love is deep. There are no words that can describe that, that's something that you just know! Its something that you feel so deep inside it makes even your bones shake. Its pure, not artificial. Its not demanding, not destructive or misleading,.. its like being at peace all the time in your heart. Its forgiveness. Happiness, compromise, understanding and communication. It just fits!\n\nHope that helped
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i would pick Love and Romance-people seem to be so confused with this stuff that they tend to ask really silly questions
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i can tell you how you know you're infatuated. you think about that person all the time and wanna be with them all the time. you feel like you'd do anything for them!\n\nafter the infatuation wears out in a few months, if you still wanna be with them, that's love. after your love has been tried (fight or something) and you work together to get through it and compromise, etc. AND you still wanna be together... that's love!
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I wouldn't get confused and I wouldn't confuse them either. Simply put, I will choose the one who loves me the most. I will choose the one who doesn't love me for my money. Because money can bring you a million lovers.
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Your heart will tell you whether or not your truly in love with someone.  But consider this, whenever you have to ask yourself a question, the truth is already there before you get an answer.  Homegirl, you already know whether or not your in love, the real question is, are you ready for it and do you want to be in love with this person.
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Maybe you fall in love with the idea of love.  You're probably an optimist (like me) and can recognize something lovable in a person in a short period of time. However, what time and experience will give you is the discernment to determine what kind of love it is or to what degree you love the person... whether it's an infatuation, a crush, a sexual attraction, a deep commitment.  My advise is to find out what you want out of a romantic love relationship first. Be clear on this and when the right person/right kind of love stares you in the face, you will recognize it.
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loving someone is when you keep on thinking about him or her and cant stop talking about him or her, he or she is always someone you want to be with and share things with. When you cry you want him or her to cheer you up, when you laugh you want to be laughing with him or her. \n\ni dont think its the same, love and in love is different. but i'm not sure whether i'm right or not, i guess in love it means you are having the strong feelings the chemistry going on and the next thing you know maybe making out and sex. while just "do you love me?" its opposite, not 100% sure though.
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When you are in love:\n1- You spend most of the time walking in the air, and the person you would want to walk with...is That Particular One\n2- Your heart beats so hard when you think of him/her, and it even seems to jump out of your breast when you see them around.\n3- You dare not stare into his/her eyes, but you want to see them more and more often\n4- You begin to wonder how come they could so often cross or spin round your mind\n5- Kisses, hugs, warm embraces and sharing are what you do fantasize\n6- A noisy minute with other means nothing, a silent moment with them means the whole world\n7- Your heart aches a lil bit cuz of missin, and at the same time you feel so happy deep inside thinkin of them that it makes you smile to yourself\n8- ...
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Love:  I'm more interested in what's best for you.\n\nLike:  I'm more interested in what's best for me.
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It is better to have someone who loves you than the one you love.\nHe'll look after you in the best possible way.\nHowever, it is you who have to decide finally. Take the best decision.
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When he's the first thought when you wake up and the last when you sleep...\n\nWhen you daydream about him...\n\nWhen you write his name on every thing...LOL...\n\nWhen you can't wait for him to call...\n\nWhen you can't wait to smell his scent...\n\n*Sigh*\n\nDon't you just love love?
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Their are a lot of ways to know when you are but ther is no 100% formula to know if you are...\n\nIt's different for everyone, and at first you can confuse crushes with love, but eventually you'll have it worked out...\n\nIf you think you are in love then take sometime off with whoever you think you are in love with... Then after a while and you feel you still needs him then im guessing you either really like him a lot or you really are in love...
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When you are in love all you can do is think about that person. They are on your mind first thing in the morning. They are on your mind when you go to sleep. You want to be with that person as much as possible. You want to do all you can to make that person happy.
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i wish all these people who claim it is a choice would tell me how to chose the kind of person i want to love or be attracted to. i thought it was widely known by now that you just can't decide to like or dislike something. you do or you don't.\nif love/attraction was a choice, there never would have been a romeo and juliet, a phantom of the opera, a hunchback of notre-damme, an affair to remember. if anyone could chose the person they want to love, there would be no great love songs, no big intensity of feeling, not much worth living for. so to those who say homosexuality is a choice, i ask... did you never have a crush for the wrong person? did you never feel attracted to someone you couldn't have? doesn't that tell you that you feel what you feel and there isn't much you can do about it?\n\nat this point homophobes usually jump in and say - sure, i was attracted to someone i couldn't have, but i CHOSE to not pursue it. that's great. homosexuals are certainly endowed with that choice. they can chose not to have a relationship with someone they love and who loves them back. they can chose to be good friends with someone they'd rather be married to. they can sit back and chose to deny themselves forever the right to love and be loved in every way. but why should they? it is one thing to tell yourself that you shouldn't indulge your puppy love for your best friend's girl, but it's quite another to tell yourself, if you can't love a girl, you can't love at all.\n\nand you know what else? even if they did make that choice, even if they did settle into that kind of existence (because it sure as heck wouldn't be a life), they'd still be gay. not acting on it doesn't change the fact that they are who they are. they can't chose to be straight any more than i can chose to be blonde. i can die or discolor my hair, but those roots are gonna keep coming up brown. i can move into the hairdresser's and have my color touched up every other hour, but i'll still be a brunette under all the chemicals.\n\nexpecting homosexuals to live a whole life deprived of love and yes, sex too, is petty, it's evil, and it's cruel. homosexuality is not a choice. anyone who thinks it is has never known one second of true love in their lives.
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You are in love when you see the person at their absolute worst and you aren't turned off in the least bit. \n\nYou are in love when you know you would do anything to make them happy for life.