next question i broke up wit my b/f and now i already have a b/f is that a good thing or no?
113726
I knew a few girls like that. It can vary from case to case. Obviously what i say could be completly wrong, however it could be completely right. The things that i began to notice with those girls is that they refused to focus on themselves. they always used  a relationship to validate their lives. Often doing this they would put so much "weight" on it so quickly that they would be moving way to fast for the other person, or they would not think that the relationship was going anywhere prematurely.
3891
Well you did'nt really ask a question, but if you are meaning if thats ok or your asking people's view points on the topic then i'll share mine. I did the same thing. Its not nessciarly wrong (Sp?), but i guess it all depends on what specific reasons and if its against your morals or not. It does'nt really matter what other people think only you. Your the one thats dating him. If you liked your last ex alot and had fun then maybe your ex was your "type" of guy. And people tend to have a type. So just go with the flow and follow your heart.
609266
as long as ure bf is nice to you and love you so much, no harm for you to do the same thing to him. when u happy to do anything for him.. it doesnt matter what other ppl say abt u two..
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
1108438
Break up w/ your b/f. It's not fair to him if you are having doubts to string him along. How would you feel if he had feelings for his ex?\nOr if you really love your b/f stop daydreaming about your ex and start daydreaming about your b/f.
525609
The answer to this question depends on the reason for the break-up. Your break-up sounds like it was nasty.
103635
If it has been a while and you've done some healing and your ready to move on, probably.  If it is right after the other relationship, then probably not, you are looking for a rebound which likely won't last very long, putting you back in the same situation.
1172068
No one can answer that question for you.  Only you know whether you are emotionally ready to commit to someone else yet.  I would be suspicious, however, if it was less than six months or a year after a relationship as important as the one you describe.  But people vary, and maybe you just lucked out and found the right guy.\n\nHowever, ask youself these questions:  \n1) Are you sure that you are not just looking for *anyone* to love you, after the hurt and rejection of your breakup?  Would you love the new guy if you had met him first?  IIn other words, be sure you are not grabbing for validation.rather truly in love.\n2) Is there any chance that you are attracted to the new guy because he is the opposite of the old one?  This is trickier, because you certainly don't want to end up with another guy who is just like the one you broke up with.  But some people swing too far in the other direction when they are on the rebound, and you need to watch out for that.  Obviously, there were *some* things about the ex that you found good, or you would not have been together for so long.  So decide whether the new guy is a real improvement over the old one, or just very different.\n\nGood luck!
201320
Don't be a bad person. Let him go... \n\nYou had your chance, if he is happy with the other person you should not destroy his relationship.
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!
635342
2 weeks isn't a long time to really say you were in a relationship so it wouldn't be that bad if you talked to the other guy. Especially if he broke up with you. Now if you broke up with him,then you would be considered a whore for breaking up with him for his friend. Not in my opinion but society's opinion. If it were me though girl, I would leave both of them alone because you might reck their friendship.\n\nGood luck
355697
Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
940816
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
731558
the fact that you are looking at another suggests that you are not really with your man anymore and the best thing to do for both of you is end it.\n\nwhat happens with the other guy is irrelevant with regards to your situation with bf.\n\nif you should finish with bf and then get with other guy then cool but you must not think about this until you have sorted it out with bf.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
1101234
What happened that he's an "ex" and not a current boyfriend?\nDid you break it off or did he?\nDid the relationship end on a good note or did it end in a bad way?\nDid either of you cheat on the other?\nThere's not enough information to give you a reasonable answer.