how do i let someone know i care without being in their way?
101126
by doing so much and saying little
1070003
*Shivering*  I'm getting the willies...\n\nAll it takes is a casual, "you kids have fun, then."\nIf he wants to push the envelope, tell him flatly, "I really don't care."\n\nYou have to voice your opinion.  Speak up and let him know in a firm, polite tone of voice that you really don't care and you don't want to know.  If others around you hear you say that, so what?  One moment of discomfort will save you a long time of enduring this unwelcome data overload about your sister's sex life.
738291
Ask if there is anything you can do for them. Usually, there is. At least let them know you're there. \n\n.
993793
I don't know if you can do this subtly but sometimes for the good of the relationship you have to voice your concerns. Be respectful of course and gentle. Not aggressive, but make them know you only mention it because you value the relationship and you want it to grow. I think you may be surprised, hopefully pleasantly.
181806
Don't seem desperate, but gradually show interest. If they don't seem to care, just back away, and move on.
691007
try to not respond-most of them are looking for attention-it just encourages them-no sense in lowering yourself-keep the peace old hippie
926204
Wow, if life came down to a numbered list wouldn't it be easy?\n\nIt depends on the situation.  If the person wants to talk, then you should be there to listen, because sometimes knowing someone is actually listening (not hearing, and there is a big difference) is the best way to help.\n\nIf they want advice, then you should give it, or refer them to someone who can.\n\nIf they want to forget what is happening for a little while, distract them.\n\nIf they need your empathy, you to be sad with/for them, then discover why, and show geniune emotion.\n\nNot caring is the worst thing, because if they have confided in you how unhappy they are, then they are ultimately asking for help.\n\nRemember happiness is NOT a state of mind, it is moments to be enjoyed, just the same as other emotions, and the unhappy moments are there to remind us not to take the happy ones for granted.
398305
Why do you care?  Just leave them alone and they won't bother you.
114475
Don't be silly. They could care less. They just want to make sure no person is being harassed.
984347
Why be scared to speak openly to someone you say you care about.\n\nIf you want certains things done and done correctly, you need to ask or tell him. He will either do it or he won't. When it is all said and done you know where ya stand.
236222
if you are tellign this person this because you care about them, start like that. tell them "i care about you, i love you, (etc.) and this is why i have to tell you this..."\ni think that it is better to talk t the perosn face to face and not by email, phone.. etc. it will just make the person feel like it is real and they will be able to see the concern you have for them.
528744
If they are doing that you dont need them. Tell them how they make you feel. Stand up for yourself dont be walked on. Learn to stand on your own two feet or this will happen to you throughout your life. Good Luck!
333581
Smile and don't let them know that they're getting to you.  Usually they're miserable and want everyone else to be that way too.
809793
YOu need to find a way to show your friend that you are there for them and that you actually care. First of all, you could tell them that but that doesn't mean they will believe you, so you have to look for any oppurtunity to show them that you are a "true friend" that can be trusted.
205905
get a friend to tell\n him
1076396
a simple hello would be in order. Ignoring the person would be rude, since you do obviously have some history with them. No need to act like dear old friends, but a hi, how are you? never hurt anybody.
478654
Make him feel comfortable, because if he isn't, he won't admit anything.  Tell him it's okay to share his feelings, and that you're there for him.  Be sure to tell him that you just want to help, and you're not asking to poke fun at him.