i'm not being myself what should i do?
112898
If you can not be who you really are then he has not fallen for the real you. Wouldn't be better to be with someone who likes you for who you really are then having to try to live up to what he thinks you are? If you are not true to yourself then no one can be true to you.
856813
In this case you should think about who really you are.. I mean to say try to understand that you are not a body and you are a soul , and that way start concerntrating on your intelligency and stop thinking emotionally.. gradually you will be able to overcome your feelings and ll be able to controll  your feelings and to squash your feelings.too . n i think you will be rarely hurt person.. best of luck
452668
just be who u are. Stop trying to change yourself.
1109601
Be yourself. Don't try to be someone that your not. Someone will love you for you!!
498774
No.  \n\nJust grow into one, and then you won't have to pretend being someone you're not.
302104
Be yourself.  It will come naturally.
680996
Just be yourself! People are not going to love you if you are being someone you're not. You will find the right people just being you. Don't act a certain way, because you can't act forever and people will most likely be disappointed later on.
201272
be yourself! never change your true inner self to make some one like you because then you will only be lying to your self. no relationship will ever last that way. be patient some one will come along you likes you for you
1071157
Who are these people that don't want you to be yourself?  If they are people you call friends, I would find myself new friends.  If they are colleagues, so what, they are just the people you work with.  If it is your family, you need to sit down and talk to them about how you view yourself and how it makes you feel when they try to change you.  \n\nBe yourself, always!!  Love thyself, and most everyone will follow.
649076
Be your self. If he doesn't notice you for who you are maybe it wasn't meant to be.
720011
You don't.  All you can do is be yourself, do not pretend, do not try to be something else. be honest with yourself and people will either like you or not.  You can't please everybody.\n\nBe yourself and things will work out.  People prefer genuine, honest people to wannabes and false people.\n\nLike yourself first as you are, then others will like you too.
117565
Don't try and be something you're not.  Just be yourself and be happy with it.
425777
Time with him will help.  Take baby steps.  Try something new that wouldn't embarass you totally.  That may help you realize that you can be yourself and he doesn't mind a bit.
33867
Make it a point to be more interested, genuinely interested in the people around you!  Focus on who they are, what they are saying, with no background noice or thoughts from your head.  Stop worrying about what they think, because as long as they're talking about themselves, they wont be thinking about you!  And once they've invested things about themselves into you, they'll naturally feel closer to you, and like you!  Then, hopefully you will feel comfortable enough to share something relevant as well, otherwise, they we'll feel foolish for opening up to you and withdrawl!  This is how intimacy is formed.  Since you are shy, take the receptive role first, and then the giving role.  Try it!  Remember, Ask and open ended question, such as, "Where are you from?"  ..." oh, how is it there, I've never been?"  keep them talking about themselves until you feel comfortable enough to enterject something about yourself!  Remember to listen to what they are saying, not your self concious voice in your head!! Focus!  Good luck! ;)
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Be yourself. Think and become independent of mind. In particular, be your moral self. It's strength of character that makes you strong, so it's best to go to work on that. Your masculinity is already there, even if dormant, and will follow your character. You will be and act more "manly."
576229
Just relax and be yourself
1067747
Be confident and don't try to be someone you're not.  And don't try too hard.  You'll usually meet them when you're not trying.