Do you feel better when you have more than one boy/girlfriends,why?
104744
no..it feels horrible...coz once u realize the one of them loves you with all thier life...its shameful to think that you're treating him/her wrong and they could be the one person in this world that would love you more than anything...
116543
I felt the same after I left a relationship that wasn't making me happy.  Sometimes you miss being single if you're with someone who isn't right for you.  Glad to hear you didn't stay in the relationship just to be with somebody.  Too many people would rather be unfulfilled in a relationship rather than be happy being single.  And when you're happy being single, you'll attract other happy people.  Then who knows what could happen?  Good going.  You'll do well in life, my friend.
507537
Oh sure you can. I think that if you are a really friendly and easy going type of person with lots of love and happiness inside of you, then you can easily have 2 or 3 best friends. It just means that you are a really great person to know! Good for you!
716842
Well, I can sympathize... because I have been "walked over" by many friends.  I'm smart, academically speaking, and have made many friends who feel it is my duty to tutor and provide them the answers and help on all their papers.  Or friends who only call when they need something.  This is why I only have 1 real friend, and my husband.  It took a while to realize that people are shadey, and you can't always trust them.  Hard lesson learned.  Now I evaluate every relationship, asking "Am I getting out of this relationship what I am putting in?" and if I am putting in too much energy... and not recieving any of that energy back, then you really have to evaluate if it's worth it..
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
126835
I'm a girl. I have a few wonderful guy friends. I wouldn't know what to do without them in my life. They are my support system. They are much more sincere than some girls I know.
459134
I used to feel this way. Just knowing that all my friends around me were getting boyfriends made me feel like I was getting behind. They would always talk about their experiences and gush about how happy they were...which now that I look back on it, isn't so important (because you don't need a guy to be truely happy...at least not when you still have time to find one) Wanting a guy, I thought, would make me feel complete. I wanted to know what love really was, or how it really felt (because as they say, you can't really know until you've experienced it) Girls want to feel special and maybe they want a little more excitement in their lives. Guys...you can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em :)
833853
i am a mother of 4 all boys . i try not to treat the youngest any different but i do and it is because he is the last one there is not going to be any more baby steps in our house it will be the last of the last . the other reason is i am tired i have said it all 3 time before by the time the 4th one goes to do it i am just tired . so he does have more freedom and he mother away with stuff .
734196
im 23 and i have a son in 1st grade. im in college, work, and me and my son live on our own. i get lonely. i have almost no friends because im so picky about who i share my personal info and feelings with and who my son is around and the people that i associate with. but when ever i think about being in a relationship i look at the entire picture and i see myself alone with another child and debt or something like my husband cheating or just negative stuff, i call that my birth control since im not doing anything.\n\nim stopping there before i fill up the entire page and i would like to say i would really enjoy being yahoo buddies and chatting about all types of things, because i know those lonely feelings.
460823
I think it is GREAT! U should never allow yourself to be subjected to subpar treatment. and chances are, if u are all in love and the other person isn't, u will end up feeling alot of hurt and disappointment. if you have feelings for someone and the feelings are not mutual, u should move on and find someone who feels the same as u.
933733
first off, my wife is preggo with twins and I can vouch for the psyco mood swings, so stop.....breath, relax and take a step back.  Next I don't know what kind of man you got but I was a player of sorts but when I found out we were having twins all my female friends were booted from my life, so were most of my male buddies....if they are friends they will be there after things settle down.  If his friends are upsetting you, they need to get lost!  Boyhood -B-Gone it's MAN time.
793307
yes, me...have two sons, both grown, both great guys and am very close to both of them (both straight, but it is not their fault, they were born that way). Ex wife and I are still very good friends to this day. She is happily remarried long ago, I am happy. Win-win situation after the turmoil settled down. Good luck
346115
of course it is!!! All MY friends are blokes and it doesn't bother me (or them) that i don't have any girl-buddies (except one, which i met just a few days ago). there is nothing wrong with boys. they can be just as good, or even BETTER friends than girls! they r sooo much more fun and easy to be with that once u get to know how cool they r, you might not want to spend ur free time with girls any more! of course that depends on the type of person u r. i myself never felt too comfortable around girls, and even as a kid i only hung out with boys. \n\nso take it from me, girl: if u enjoy their company, don't let anyone tell u that it's wrong! and if that fella u call ur best friend TRULY sees u as a friend and NOT as a g/f, then u should be proud to have him! he could be the best thing that happened to u! do u have any idea how much he can teach u that a girl would NEVER be able to????
136751
Of course you can knowing you faithful to dat one girl makes you feel good and you would be actually proud of yourself my man is faithful and if you not faithful trust your girl will hav a feeling about it so be smart and jus go wit one girl
1019617
Wow, that is a tough thing you are going through! It is always hard to go through relationships. People are not perfect and we all have our issues and quirks. If you are really unhappy with your living arrangements, then try to find something that better suits you. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with having lots of friends. If there is jealousy involved it could really be an issue of feeling insecure. It is best to not put "all your eggs in one basket" in relationships. The more positive people you have in your life, the better.
268450
No but you should share them with each other.  its not fair for you to be the only one having all of the good fun.  Besides that way you dont have to split your time between the two and you can all have more time together.
345228
tell her how you feel. sounds like you don't have to worry about just boys but girls too.