why do women u ask to dance tell u no and then dances with someone else rite after you ask them first?
109515
they are not interested and feel uncomfortable. or perhaps they want to get away from you and make it more obvious that they are not interested.\nfind someone else. the right person is out there.
301897
Some women like to tease and they want you to keep hunting them. So if youjust levae and get someone else they get all angry. I think some just think you will keep chasing them and when you quit they get mad that you just gave up. They have no claim over you because they said no so just ignore them and find the one that makes you happy and cares for you. Not all womean are like this though. Some just let you go
309375
They are playing hard to get. I don't understand why they do it but they do. They want the girl to "sweat" it out. The guy thinks that they really got it going on. If he sees you with another guy, its competition and they will call you back.
54941
Actually these days,guys HAVE to dance in order to complete the whole "club interaction" thing that goes on. I personally like to dance and have begun taking swing out dance lessons. Do guys like to dance? only if theres something in it for them :)
807390
I've wondered the same thing. People are a strange species. I guess they want to be polite by offering you, but they hope you'll say no (and people usually say no under certain circumstances) and get kind of shocked that you did the unexpected (you can see them go "damn!" in their mind, don't you?).
963690
"Then why don't you ask me out?"
192033
First off, if she wants you to ask him to the dance for her, then she doesnt even need a man... She cant ask him herself, a guy likes it soo much better when the girl ask him personaly.... Tell him that you like him and that youd like to take him to the dance... You ask him out.. Then tell your girl that if she wanted to ask him to the dance she should havve done it herself.. And that you and him are going together.. Tell her that you like him and that she only likes him cause she knows you do... But to tell you the truth, a guy doesnt like to see girls fighting over them... It isnt nice, and causes trouble with the 3 of you. Causing no one to have him, and be alone..
206863
I assume you're speaking of the Sadie Hawkins Dance.  Anyhow, the simple solution is to just go up to a guy and ask, "Would you go to the Sadie Hawkins Dance with me?"
470384
I do not like to dance either.  I just do not find it fun at all.  \n\nWhat I hate the most is when (usually at a wedding or something like that) people feel the need to grab my arm, twist it, and pull me from my seat and drag me to the dance area, even though they see that I am not laughing, not even smiling when I am saying "NO!" over and over.  Then they call me "rude" when I walk back to my seat after they finally let go of my arm.
423919
lol even tho ive never witnessed this i think its mostly because women r shy to talk with other men so they stick with their friends and hope that one of their friends will make the first move to talk to some other people. also like they probably talk to each other because that culd have been the plan go out and have fun whereever they r and talking to their friends. if u want to talk to one then go up to them and chat ;-)
41169
Part of why you don't like it is because you haven't learned how. It probably wasn't somthing done very often in your household when you were growing up. But this practice has been around for centuries. Back ages past it was a way to get close to a woman you were interested in, and if you could move at all and still smile sweetly as you gazed adoringly upon her, then you were the object of all woman's affections.\nLearn some older steps first in a classroom setting. It will give you a good foundation for learning more moves and modern dances. Once you've got the hang of moving your feet to the beat, and not being stiff kneed or staring at your toes... then you can learn some dances in a more social environment like a country bar and pick up some of those fun line dances.\nBelieve me a man who knows how to move on the floor will have more successful moves off the floor if you take my meaning. Plus it's a great excuse to hold a woman close, even strange women!\nEnjoy!
42187
because they are afraid of getting hurt-----specially if they have been hurt already..---but if you like her have the courage to tell her b-4 someone sweeps her off her feet and u loose ur chance
74374
These people are right if you really like dance tip a little than a dollar.  The bigger the tip more she will direct the dance towards you and the better the show will be for.  Strippers aren't like other services you tip they don't treat you good till they get the good tips.
360977
Maybe your not the easiest person to say no to.  Maybe when they try to say they're busy you insist on talking.  Or maybe they secretly have a problem with you.  Try asking them about it and see what they say, it can't hurt.
1132569
The person sees that you are busy and asks in order to be polite, offering you the opportunity to decline having to spend time on yet something else.  Just say "No" if you do not have time - no need to be rude.
480422
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.
809160
When I was dating, the guys usually asked at the end of the first date.  If he didn't, I would ask.  I would say something like, "I had a nice time and I was wondering if we could get together again".  I always got a good response of yes, but there were a few no's.\nThese days a guy doesn't mind if a girl asks him out.\n\nHere's a tip:\nIf the guy says he'll call you and acts fidgety, take it with a grain of salt because he won't.\nTry to ask him first as I said above to ease your mind.