Ladies, have you ever taken the cheater back and he did even worse. explain and what was the results?
100453
Of COURSE the cheater is going to be worse; the person has learned that he or she can get away with it.
244110
Really why does it matter to her now. If she broke up with him for cheating then she got back with him knowing he was a cheater. Ok she got back with him after he cheated because she loves him, and now she thinks he is cheating again. Well she loves him so she should over look it again (which is what she did by taking him back in the first place). Or she can get smart and leave him, obviously he isn't going to change. What reason does he have to she accepted it by taking him back.
1024572
Babe, \n\ni must say as a woman myself i am surprised you took her back. If i ever cheated on my boyfriend i would expect him 2 finish with me. \n\nIf she cheated on you once there is a reason for it and alcohol's  not an excuse. And do you honestly think her mates would not lie for her?? come on you have pals you know how it works. They always say when someone cheats once they will most definitely do it again.\n\nMake a break, stop driving yourself mad the trust is obviously gone.
535341
Didn't work.........I was willing........he decided to cheat again.
378446
'he got caught up in some bullshit and ended up having sex with one of my friends................just read that back and see if it makes any sense!!!!!!\n\nNOBODY gets 'caught'up in something that makes them commit the ultimate no-no.  WIse up - people do things because they want to and they think that they can get away with it.  The reason he has called you again out of the blue is a slight mystery but trust me if he had realised what a mistake he'd made and wanted to get you back he would have done that 24 hours after the event.  He's just bored and is seeing how far he can go with you.  This whole episode is probably to hype his ego that he could get you back again no matter how badly he has behaved.\n\nDo yourself a favour and show him the door with a very large size 9 up his backside as he leaves.\n\nEveryone is worth more than this.  You have to toughen up and not let people rule your future.  If they bring you love and happiness let them in - if not get rid of them....for good!!!!!\n\nHard but true.\n\nGood Luck!!
135792
Cheaters do not deserve another chance.  Leave him for someone you can trust.\n\n"He's a very good guy,"?  Wrong.  Good guys don't cheat, honey.
988463
Did you ever think maybe he was cheating on her with you and not the other way around?
408553
Yep. It's worse that he still sees her...how did you find out that he cheated? Did he admit it to you or did you find out yourself? It's awfully hard to trust someone even if it was someone before you that they cheated on. Often the cheater expects and awaits being cheated on and the cycle continues.
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
1099161
Forgiving my ex girlfriend for cheating. She then thought well, if he forgave me for that time he will forgive all the times to come. I will never forgive a cheater again!!!!
395246
it is hard to say until your really put in that situation, but im goin to have to say i wouldnt want to go back to a cheater specially, you have no ties such as marriage, kids, run while you can and find some one that loves you for you!! plus she probably just thinks she can do it again. it was so easy to the last time!!
766409
Negative on that roger. Once a cheater, always a cheater. For men or women.
237510
A woman cheating is not worse than a man.When a man cheats on a woman it hurts just as much and I don't know if you can ever really trust again. But I do know don't let it show to much because the constant harassment can chase her back to the arms of another man. " If I am going to be accused why not do it" type of thing.
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
655184
hi! so sorry to hear that.r u sure this is what happened?this has happened to me just last year.my(now ex)boyfriend of 9yrs.eas sleeping with a friend of mine.for the 1st. time in our relationship i suspected he was cheating i would call my friend to talk to her (crying)she kept telling me as far as she knows he wasnt seeing nobody.well one day he came by after being gone for 3 days he told me he was seeing someone well i was very hurt but loved him enough to listen to him what he had to say.as he went to go get something out of his car'i called my "friend"@told her he was back at home @told her what he said she asked me if he was there(my house) i told her yes! he was comming in so  i hung the phone up, well we talked 4-a while he was going to the store @said he would be right well when he came back he was very upset(sad)he then told me who he was seeing i screamed NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!! she's my friend he held me i cryed for about 10min.then he told me that it dont matter causeshe didnt know i came over here earlier and when u called her and told her i was here she said she dont wanna see me anymore!i saw the saddness in his eyes i then told him "look,baby,I love you enough to fix this for you" so there i went calling her back i told her look i know its you that hes been sleepping with,but i'm not mad i'm more hurt than anything and i can see how much he wants to be with you and i can respect that but both of you have to stop lieing to me and he has to stop negelcting the kids.
190293
the person who i loved with all my heart cheated on me after 2 years of relationship. it crushed me but i couldn't imagine my life without him and i tried to make things work. there were many promises from him, explanations, excuses, anything you can just think about. so i tried. all i got was another 3 years of misery, tears and broken heart. he did cheat again... and again... and again... so i just wasted years from my life and it ended in a break up anyway. it took me long time even after that to get over him but now i'm married and am the happiest woman on earth. i beg you girl, DON'T BELIEVE A CHEATER!!!!
664824
Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!