how do i talk to my kids grandparents after 7 long years?
101986
ask the Lord to be with you.\n:-)\nHes better at that stuff than we are.
489657
Ask you mom and your grandmother!
1127666
I'm pretty sure Grandparents have rights.  Contact a lawyer and see what they are.  Good luck.
1141666
what you need to do is talk to your Lowery and see what you can do to keep in touch whit Ur children as much as passable so it says that you have regular visits with them you should contact my mom because she is try to get her kids back to and i was the first one to come back and she has 6 more she wants back.bttrflynow@hotmail.com plz it will help you a lot
188536
i know exactely how that feels like!!!\n...still haven't been able to find my grandpa, and to tell the truth--don't think he's still alive..\n\nif u want to talk to someone, leave me ur mail/ mess adress and i'll get back to u.  what do u say?..
40680
Start with the birth of all 4 grandparents,  State what year and where.  Give date of their marriages. Give birth date and place of both your parents and all of their siblings.\n\nGive date of your birth and all your siblings and place of birth.\n\nPage2, oral traditiobn of your family stories passed down to you by your parents and grandparents,\n\nPage 3  FAmily tradions,  Family religion.  Vacation, \n\nif you still have room fit in the education of granparents parents and siblings
614659
I honestly you and you're ex should sit down and talk about it.  I mean, obviously you have a past and if you are both reasonable people you should be able to come to some sort of cconclusion.  You're kids are smart, they will understand at  a later age, but now you have to treat them like kids and let the adults figure out what is best.
145398
r u 18 yr. old or older? if so why dont u just leave town and let them adults deal with each other? u can get urself a career change in a new town and everything. if ur under-age u need to be open and honest with them both about how this makes u feel. if nothing else you can say you wanna live with ur grandparents or something.
917760
Believe me, there will come a day that he will contact you. Sadly, he will be grown probably before that happens. What goes around, comes around..this will come back and bite her in the butt!\nAnd yes, I miss my grandma terribly...wish she was still here.
565693
Used to,they are gone now.I lived near them by choice.As they got older,they  started needing my help.It was only fair to help my parents as they aged and hope that someone will help me if I live to be old.Not all parents are good to their children,but mine were good to me and I paid them back as they aged and was with both of them when they died. I have no regrets.Just didn't want to live next door to them,sometimes one of them would get into my personal business.Had to move 20 miles away.Close,but not too close.I would tell you that living close ,especially how dangerous things are getting in this world.As they age, they will need your help in more ways than one.Live as close as you can,but try to keep your life to yourself.My parents always cared for my well being,sometimes too much.Had to have that little bit of distance so I could live my life my way.
384562
Wow...you're definately in a hard spot!!  I guess as long as they are being good to your son and not trying to sabotage your relationship with him, it's probably ok to let them pick him up once a week.  \nAs far as their treatment of you goes...well, it's sort of expected that they would take their son's side in this isn't it?  Try and take it for it's worth..which is nothing. I know it may be hard to ignore, but if you can for your son's sake, give it a go.  If they start bad-mouthing you to your son though that's a different story. Then it goes from being a good thing to being not so good for your son...it would be very tough on him to listen to grandma and grandpa talk sh.. about you.  Confusing and detritmental.\nGood luck with this one, sweetie.
1015091
ask them if they want to have a 3way, remember to send your son to grandma's
386216
Don't include all of those cousins and aunts and uncles that are very distant.. Keep it simple plain and short.. just start with the 2 grandma's and the 2 grandpa's..
1104918
Your kids will grow up and eventually get a life of their own, and if they don't understand now they will then.  I am talking from experience when I say to go go go.  Believe me, the kids feel the tension, and some take it personal.\nJust make sure u let them know that you both love them, just not each other and things have to change for the better.  You don't say how old they are but u can make it age appropriate on how to tell them.  The younger they are, the more simple u say it.  Good Luck.
91522
In most states, grandparents have a legal right to see their grandchildren. You should talk to a lawyer.
1029933
You are not alone. There is help for grandparents raising their grandchildren. \n\nContact Child & Family Services in your area. They have programs geared towards this very issue.\n\nAlso, FIA/DSS/DHS - For Medicaid, Food Stamps & other assistance.
547717
I don't think anything much, really. Your love is the best thing you can give them. Just make sure that you make them feel accepted; sometimes, older people are afraid that younger people consider them as inferior and therefore tend to take everything more personally. So treat them like the normal people they are. Remember that they were once babies, once kids, once teenagers, once young adults... So don't try being all "what can I do for you? Don't do that, you'll hurt yourself" and stuff like many people tend to do. I know that comes from a good intention, but the truth is, a lot of times, grandparents don't want that from their grandchildren. Sometimes, they just want to be treated as friends, to feel young again... And yes there is a grandparent day. It's september 11, I think.