What would you do if a guy gets you pregnant but you didn't want to?
104693
First of all, the guy didn't do it TO you.  You both got pregnant.  Basically, you have 3 options.  You can live up to your responsibilities by finding a way to properly raise and support this baby, you can put this baby up for adoption by the many many couples who are unable to have a baby on their own, or you can terminate the pregnancy.\n\nI was in this situation and couldn't bear to terminate the potential life of my new baby, didn't want to give the baby up for adoption because I knew I would always wonder how the baby was and where he/she was.  So I kept the baby and to this day (14 years later), she is the love of my life and we are happy and healthy.  It can be done, you just need to find a way.  If you cannot find a way, there are SO many people out there who would love to raise your baby as their own.
603608
You do not need Guy advice, you need life advice!\n\nYou are Catholic so you can't have an abortion, but you can sex your boyfriend?\n\nRaise the kid as best you can with your parents and families help.\n\nDump that guy for good.  and probably don't ever see him again, he is abusive and dangerous. \n\nQuit haveing sex, and getting preggers when you can't support yourself.\n\nGet a education and&#92;or a decent job.\n\nHave some respect for yourself when looking for a boyfriend.  He should care for you and treat you with respect.  In the loving relationship above all else actions speak louder than words.
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
77409
Why the F*** did you do that?  Odds are you are too young to know what love is. . . . and shouldn't really get involved with anyone if you are fooling around.\n\nLet me get this straight . . . \n\nYou are in love (supposedly) with Guy 1\nBut you are pregnant with Guy 2 baby.\n\nOdds are you were playing both guys until Guy 1 turned your head about it . . . (thus you are a cheater).  Because Guy 1 cared for you . . . really cared.\n\nNow you are pregnant and you don't want to tell Guy 1 anything about it, because you are afraid in losing him.  (In my opinion, you should lose him . . . but I will still try to help)\n\nQuestion #1: Do you want to keep the baby?\n\nAnswer 1a: If the answer is no . . . tell guy 2 that you are pregnant and ask what are we going to do about it . . . the answer you want is to have an abortion.  Both of you are to go to the abortion clinic . . . he pays. . . if he doesn't say or do anything within a week then you go by yourself to the abortion clinic.  After the abortion dump guy 2 and never tell guy 1 anything.\n\nAnswer 1b: If your answer is yes, I want to keep the baby . . . may I ask why (and please don't say religious or moral reason . . . because it is a major sin to have pre-maritial sex and it is also morally reprehensible in today's society)  But if you do decide to keep the baby . . . do what any other girl does . . . \n\na) don't tell the guy 1 . . . have sex with him and say . . . "oops I'm pregnant, you are going to be a daddy."  And hope that he will marry you . . . (and he would be a dumb a** if he did).\n\nb) dump guy 1 and force guy 2 to marry you.\n\nc) tell guy 1 . . . and risk the chance of him dumping you . . . if you had sex with guy 1 prior to you getting pregnant - plan a may work still.\n\nd) if both guy 1 and guy 2 . . . dump you . . . sue for child support . . . but make sure one of them are the father . . . . DNA test at child birth\n\ne) give the baby up for adoption . . . which I high doubt will happen . . . because if it goes full term . . . the mother will decide to keep the baby at the last minute.\n\n- - - \n\nThis should give you a lot of options . . . \n\nBut in my opinion . . . you should have an abortion . . . go to college . . . and make something of yourself . . . you can still have a social life . . . enjoy yourself . . . you are still young.\n\nIf you don't . . . take my advice (opinion) . . . hope you like poverty . . . because those boys are young . . . and haven't reached their potential . . . and with a wife or kid . . . odds are they never will (because you have held them back).
708305
Some guys just lose it when they hear you're pregnant.If he was willing to do the deed,he should at least lend his ear to listen to what you have to say.You should take a pregnancy test,just to confirm it.If positive,you will need to decide what goes on from there.It's not all on you.Everyone knows it takes 2 to tango and so on.So try your best to MAKE him listen.You will need his support and advice.I'm guessing you 2 are the only ones that know.If I'm right then you will defintitely need each other.Regardless of the outcome,you should maintain a friendship level of some kind.Best friends are supposed to stick together no matter what!!Best of luck to both of you..
59297
Some guys are jerks this way.  It could be he thinks you got pregnant on purpose, just to trap him into staying with you.  It could be he's unsure if he'll make a good Dad, or is he can handle the responsibility of fatherhood.\n\nBut really, guys put themselves into this situation as much as the woman does.  Guys need to use condoms more and not rely on the woman to be the only responsible party in a sexual relationship.
1110195
he'll pull his dick out before ejaculation. it doesnt work you can still get pregnant
121919
If I had took a break, yeah, that kinda signifies you weren't too serious about each other just like the girl he made pregnant and swung back to get a little more from you. He's nothing I'd be wasting more time with because it kinda tells me he's a 'player' and unrelible if I ended up in the other girls situation, pregnant, I couldn't count on him.
1165732
Okay, how about you stop worrying about what he wants?  What about what you want?  How old are you?  Have you even had a chance to experience life?  It really sounds like he doesn't know if he wants to be with you or not but is going to continue stringing you along until he can make up his mind.  What are you going to do if he comes home, gets you pregnant and then decides he's not ready to be a husband and father?  Where does that leave you?  Can you be absolutely sure that he will not do that?  If the answer is no, then maybe you need to tell him that you need things to slow down. You don't have to let him call all the shots.  You are a person as well.  You have a right to decide, for yourself, what you want out of this life. There is much more to experience in life than being someones girlfriend/wife/mother.  Don't get me wrong, I am married and have a beautiful little boy, but I experienced life for myself before I did so. And we were married 7 years before I got pregnant so we could experience life together.  I wish you luck and hope you make the right decision for you!
164943
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
777950
LoL!! sounds like a guy being funny!! well, if you don't know how a woman gets pregnant by now, then you are not supposed to have sex. so no.. you won't get pregnant.. but swalloing too many c** of too many men will make a famous c**k sucker out of you! seems like you will enjoy this!
135807
Leave him, go have a pregnancy test done and be checked out for STDS. He is obviously not trustworthy to have done something so sneaky. It is your choice if you want to have a baby not his. If he wants a child and you are not willing or ready to have one, he should either accept it or find someone that wants a family. Not try to force one on you.\n\n************************************************************\nAs for the abortion and adoption issue brought up in previous answers, Think it through well and make an educated decision. Even though you were tricked into a pregnancy it doesn't change the fact that it would be your baby growing inside of you and you would have to live with your choice for the rest of your life. There is no taking it back...once you abort the baby is dead a nd gone forever, and once you give your child to someone else it is their child. You could also consider giving the child to the father, since he obviously wanted a baby so badly, but only do so if he is secure and stable enough to raise and love the baby.
220922
I heard about this on the news this morning. IMO, he had a choice whether or not to perform the act that resulted in the baby. Even if she says she is on birth control, or he uses a condom, it does not matter. The only 100% safe birth control is not to do it. So if he went ahead with the act and she accidently got pregnant, he is just as responsible as she is.\n\nOn the other hand, if she intentionally got pregnant, and knew he had no desire to have a child, then he may have a case. But that will probably be hard to prove. I also agree that the child should not be punished or suffer because of this, but neither should the father.\n\nBut this is just my opinion.
1020141
It's got to be psychological response I'd say.  Apparently you don't like it or there's something about it that bothers you.  Perhaps your conscience or a fear of getting pregnant.  Ever hear the phrase "psyching yourself out".  Perhaps it's a clue that you shouldn't be having sex with him.
557753
Well, a tough situation for you, but you should tell him that you are pregnant with his child only because it's fair for him to know. If he chooses to be there in support of the child that's great!!! If he is not, then you have to decide for the child what's going to be best for him/her and if that means getting money from this guy then that is what it will take. Good Luck!!!!!
260222
No that does not mean that you won't EVER get pregnant it just means you were very lucky this time. Please see your doctor and make certain that when you do have sex again that you use protection. Having a child is serious business and not just a means to get out of the house. Think this through, you can not be as uninformed as you are making yourself sound. Seek out some counseling, this is a dangerous game you are playing right now. Wait until you are older, you don't want to spend your growing up time growing up with YOUR child. Responsibilities come on much quicker and soon enough, don't push the issue yet. Enjoy your life, but enjoy it responsibly. Think about it, if you have a daughter would you want her to have a child at a young age?
391217
I am 5 months pregnant.. My wife and I chose a childhood friend that we knew would respect our wishes.. Plus how many men (being honest now) would turn down a chance to have 2 women for a week with all for his needs cartered to.. NOT MANY!! I know three other couples at this time that are either pregnent or trying to conceive.