what should i do with about my baby while i'm in jail?
115294
Yes, a family member, or a close friend. And make sure that it is someone who will let you stay in contact.
818033
If he's in Federal prison, you can check the BOP site.  It will tell you his release date.   However, that date can change, depending on his good time, other charges since his original charge, and when BOP quits screwing around with the paperwork and actually lets him go.  He may also have to go to camp first, or have other requirements.   With BOP, don't count on anything if you are trying to make plans.   Most of the families are in limbo 90% of the time.
540576
If your unhappy get out... Make sure you have enough money saved up to live on for 6 months because you need to have a new place to live and take care of your child... YOu then file for child support and set the visitation limits... everyother weekend should be enough... Best of Luck to you
400055
She can't do without your permmision, you have the  controlling vote in this matter. She could do some major psychological damage to your child, which is abuse,  which makes her a perpetrator against minors. Get her some counselling, get some legal advice for yourself, or ask her to leave. All in all think of this baby boy who is innocent in this and looks upon you both as his life support. good luck and God bless you both, we'll be praying for you.
18159
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nSomeone there can probably help.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
1085551
get a lawyer and as soon as the baby is born get a paternity test and then visitation... don't talk to her at all though! Good luck.
146972
PUTTING CRIMINALS BEHIND BARS, SETTING INNOCENT PEOPLE FREE. AND FINDING OUT IF THE BABY BELONGS TO YOU.
658581
i dont think its your problem man. i know he's your kid and you're concerned for him, but if he's 30 and cant get his crap straight, i dont know what you can really do for him. he's going to need to be willing to start at the bottom. like, rock bottom, working at wendy's or something. but, thats better than going back to jail.
1017051
If you can't afford a lawyer, you can call & get the 1st consulation free. Stay on the cops butts & pester the D.A. until the do their jobs & put him in jail. Then you should get full custody again. Good luck!
169615
You should give to stay at free ur child
442546
Agreeing with the girl above.  Esp. about the journal.  Keep track of EVERYTHING.\n\nMy guess is also that it is a scare tactic.  Instability??? Please, is PRISON stable??? \n\nIf he has not supported the child, seen him, etc., you have nothing to worry about. Forget the joint custody the girl above mentioned, I would fight for supervised visitation if he gets to see the child at all.\n\nI am wondering where he got the $$ for any atty.\n\nHere is where you can also find a little comfort in the fact that courts like to keep kids with their mothers.\n\nYou do need to get a lawyer.  If you cannot afford one contact your local bar assocaition or pro bono program.  If you cannot get a lawyer fast enough, go to the court and file for a continuance.  DO NOT GO TO COURT ALONE!!\n\nBut as far as having any concerns about losing your child, I certainly wouldn't sweat it.  I know its hard not to worry, but if you are telling the whole story, he doesn't have a chance...
689611
Depends where you are. If you're in prison, don't drop the soap and if you do, don't pick it up. Maybe invest in soap on a rope, assuming they don't have you on suicide wash.\n\nIf you're not in prison, feel free to drop and retrieve the soap as much as you want. It's a pleasure us law abiding citizens can enjoy to our harse's content.
1002206
1 Get yourself a adoption lawyer and tell him everything and take it from there. God bless you for looking out for the little man
105767
When I first found out I was getting out of jail I felt like I could never be the same person again but when your in jail you have alot of time to think just give him a chance and if doesn't work than tell him or try to talk to him and if that doesn't work than get rid of him.
1152340
set yourself up so that for the period your in prizon your making more money than when you were free with clever use of investments. recreate the kind of conditions at home that your likely to experience in prison, so the shock factor of going in is minimised, and get commitments from as many people as you can that they will visit you while your in, and get lots of phone numbers memorised so you can call them from the yard, and start using a vibrator so your able to sleep on your first night inside after some fun with your celly. The idea of all this is to prepare for the painful experience of being there, the whole purpose of which is to crack you mentally and instill a deep fear of going back in once you get out. This advice is not gonna make it any easier, but atleast you'll get used to the life inside at record speed.
805365
yes he should see the baby but no not take him on his own, meet him somewhere public just the 2 of you and not her ... as for her i would look into a restraining order
311194
Sure the hell is .do you have a court order? let his P.O know if he is not living up to it get help from family services ,he should be getting"hits"which should sent his ass to jail or prison which is where he belongs if he wouldn't take care of his kids.