why does my boyfriend deny ever glancing at girls?
112465
Your language implies that you are highly critical of him appreciating other women. Perhaps if you relax and join him in acknowledging and appreciating other women he too will relax and not feel that he has to sneak looks. Your tension indicates a lack of self confidence. As long as his appreciation is mature and he looks at these women as one who looks at a beautiful painting or sculpture then what is there to be concerned about? If he doesn't, then perhaps you can help by directing him and upgrading his level of maturity. My wife often points beautiful women out to me...
162957
He may just like to look. While it's really disrespectful , if it really doesn't matter to you, don't worry about it. Try looking a few guys up and down, give him a taste of his own med ;-)
878055
If a guy is flirting and talking to you for whatever reason and doesnt mention he has a woman then no he really doesnt care for her. And if i were you i wouldnt be the next one to go out with him because im sure he will do the same to you. Its obvious he has no quam about cheating on his girlfriends if he has to hide the fact that he has a girl in the first place. Hes no good.
275461
First ask yourself a few questions. Does he flirt a lot with these girls? Does he dump you a lot to go out with these girls? Does he talk about them all the time? If you answered a honest no to these questions you might just need to turn off the jealously and realize your boyfriend loves you. If you answered yes then confront your boyfriend because you have a right to know if anything is going on.
856388
You lucky gal what else you are looking for there is guy admiring you all the time ask those ladies no one looks them or admire them...!!!!
620078
I don't think its all wrong for you to give your all when your in love, but that has to be both of you doing that.  I wonder why you are having these feelings of him looking at other girls, and stuff because if you were truly happy there wouldn't be thought like this!  I will tell you that its normal for a guy to look at other girls.  Its in a guys nature to do that, but cheating isn't.  Looking is one thing cheating is another.  I would just watch how much of yourself your putting forth and how much of himself he is putting forth.  I would hate to see you get hurt because you put to much of yourself into him!
429761
This is strange. People are allowed to make their own choices about who they want to talk to or not. If he can't see that, you might want to show him that. Then again, perhaps when he talks to other girls, he is playing the field - meaning dangling the carrot in front of the donkey.\n\nYou're only his girlfriend, not his slave. So you have the right amount of freedom to talk to other guys too. Perhaps he could be insecure that he won't 'allow' you to speak to other guys. He needs to gain more confident in himself and learn to trust you. When you two do that, there is no need for resentment and all will be happy. Hope that helps, cheers.
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It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
122807
I don't see how you can really expect your bf/gf to not look at other people, isn't that just human nature. Besides, does it really mean anything?
980432
Tell him you're feeling like he could be interested in someone else.  He'll either 'fess up, or do everything under the sun to reassure you that he would never even dream of glancing at another woman.  Either way, trust your instincts.
745325
maybe he's not looking because he feels exactly the way you do. stop the staring contest and talk to him. guys do like personality
552447
Be sensible. She's your girlfriend, not your possession. Do you have a reason not to trust her? Can you talk to her about it? If not, and it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Does she have good reason you'll beat a male friend for looking at her? If so, maybe she isn't the one with the problem!\n\nPossessiveness makes an intelligent gal want to cheat. Girls like showing off their bodies- it's what we do. If you have a faithful loving relationship with this girl, then talk to her about your insecurity! There's a good chance it is founded in nothing. If you do not have a good relationship then what are you staying in it for?\n\nThe issue here sounds like a lot more than her going swimming with her friends! Ask yourself what it really is, and then deal with it.
80768
what do u want him? to look at monsters in perverted shows? or to look only at u. it could be boring, it's normal if he notices beauty, it means that he appreciates ur beauty as well.
588708
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
414930
First off, you are allowing him to look through your stuff, big mistake!  Obviously he was gifted with the jealousy gene and you with the "let him do whatever he wants" gene.  So my first piece of advice, stop letting him do whatever he wants.  Trust is a two way street.  If he wants to see what you have in your junk, then he should be showing you what's in his.  However, it's very common for an unfaithful person to try and hide their guilt by trying to find something to blame it on with their signif.  So what should you do?  I'd dump him and get someone who's got self confidence, maybe it will help you get some too.
448122
umm.. your  a les too? is what is in his mind, i think he might be scared to know.. i mean what if one day you were cheating on him with a girl? ohh not a good thing. are you sure you are a bi? your lying! please tell me your lying!!\n\nwell it hard to know what he is thinking when he could have different points of view.. depending if he has experienced this and how open-minded he is
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i don't know, but you're not wrong to be jealous, just don't go psycho on him! guys will always look at what catches their attention, just like women. i know i check guys out all the time but that doesn't mean i don't find my man attractive! it's natural to look, just don't stare. don't make it obvious that you're looking. same with him, if he's staring and drooling all over the place call him on it, if not let him look.