Have you ever been with someone just because they gave you money or presents?
113157
No because I not do fool money can't buy be love. If man buys be gifts or give me a gift that is on them. Money can' t buy affection.
172581
well other than what you have all ready as a gift, the funest thing I ever did to my wife was I got all these party favors ...all the bells horns and hats...\nI hid them in my truck in a box marked dog food....\n\nwe went to a perkins on mourning and after a couple of cup of coffie she excused her self...\n\nI ran out to the truck got the box and ran around to everybody in the resterant and just said "make allot of nosie on the word "dear"\n\nwell she came back to our table....and I got her gift which was under the table....brought it out  and said honey it been so wounderfully being with you....DEAR\n\nthe employes even help the whole resterant went nuts...\n\nafterwords we went home got our camping tub's and the canue and went up river for a week in the woods. "alone"
402054
When i was in Washington D.C. I gave a homeless man my $100 dollars spending money. Instead of spending it on something that would probably rot my teeth or brain. I gave it to him, because i knew he was much worse off, and needed it more then i did. and if he was lying, well who am I to judge, God will do that in the end. I was just doing my part and being nice.
914
i like the receiving presents part =D
778746
i gave my boyfriend a jar i decorated myself filled with dozens of little pieces of paper..on each paper was a reason why i love him and i gave him flowers i bought and arranged myself instead of just buying a bouquet..he still says it was the best present ever and that was over two years ago!
938299
No, go ahead and give her your gift. That was really sweet and thoughtful of you. I'm sure she'll think the same and appreciate your gift. Some guys are not into buying gifts, your boyfriend may be one of those guys. My husband doesn;t buy his Mom gifts. I usually take the money from him and do stuff like that and then it's from the both of us!!
609137
We do, but only if its a "big" aniversary, such as the 5 year, 10 year, 20th year.. 50th year. Its an occasion, though, but still i dont send presents.
1107604
Did you leave money for a wake and they had a great time?
488212
A few years ago, I won 500 in the lottery and after cashing in my ticket, I needed to find some place to sit and get warm while waiting for my bus to go home, (it was winter). Looking around i saw a small diner, went inside and ordered a cup of coffee. While sitting there, I over heard a conversation between two women where one said tomorrow she was going to have her gas turned off because she didn't have the money to pay the bill and she was crying quietly where no one could hear her. She said she tried all of the organizations, friends and reletives but no one could help her and her friend said she wished she could help but couldn't. Well, I sat there taking all this in and trying to decide what to do, knowing my bus was coming in about 5 minuts, I jumped up, paid for my coffee, then ran up to that woman and asked how much did she need to save her gas, with a startteled look she said 90 dollars, and asked how did I know about her gas? I noticed my bus was coming down the street and didn't want her to know I was easedropping, so I just said, I am Santa Clause, Merry Christmas and handed her two 100 dollar bills and ran out the door to catch my bus that was starting to leave. I made the bus and when I looked back, that woman was looking out the window at me waving with a big smile on her face! Christmas was only two weeks away and I felt I did the right thing, It gave me a good feeling deep down in my heart!
732153
would u like it if a girl was only with u 4 ur money?
809288
Unless you can prove that you gave it to him as a loan, it would be looked at in court as a gift. \n\n"Neither a borowwer nor a lender be". Ben Franklin\n\nWhen I give money to my girlfriend, and hear her response that she will pay me back, I just smile. I give the money as a gift thinking it is gone forever. That way I don't have to sit around thinking/worrying if she can pay me back.
832274
There are so many !! One of my fondest memories was when i was 8 years old. mama and daddy recorded me and my 2 little sisters as we opened our gifts. Boy were we loud !!! screaming and yelling  "thank you mama thank you daddy". that year i got a Chrissy doll. i'm showing my age LOL. she was like a giant red haired barbie and you could make her hair long or short by turning a button in the middle of her back. my cousin and i are the same age , so we both got one. But what i love most is hearing we little girls and hearing mama and daddy's voices. sadly , i lost them both in 1991. six months apart. the other favorite holiday was last year. my sisters didn't give me anything of my dad's when he left us. i don't blame them because i went off the deep end after losing my parents. when i finally got my life together i asked them for something of my dad's. one of my sisters had my dad's wedding ring. it's beautiful, wide gold band with 3 1/4 carat diamonds. i always wanted that ring. when daddy didn't have it on i would get it and wear it while i was at their house. it was funny, mama and daddy joked about having to frisk me before i went home to make sure i didn't leave with one of their rings.LOL. anyway, i asked my sister if i could have daddy's ring. she adamently said "NO". it just broke my heart. my sisters were not fair when it came to splitting what my parents had 3 ways. i asked her for that ring for 5 years. last year my birthday fell on thanksgiving day. we were all at my sisters house having our family dinner when out came a beautiful cake with far too many candles on it LOL. i was surprised. i read all of the b-day cards and opened the gifts everyone had given me. i noticed everyone moving to one side of the room and my nieces all had cameras and video camears pointed at me when i opened the last gift. IT WAS MY DADDY'S RING !!!!!!!! I started bawlin' and ran to my lil sister to hug and thank her. my sis is an itty bitty thing and i'm NOT...she told everyone to protect her so i wouldn't sqeeze her to death !!LOL i have that ring on my finger right now and that is where it will stay until one of my nephews is old enough and getting married. that is when i will pass it down. so, that's just 2 of many wonderful holidays. as a matter of fact my b-day is on sat. and we are having thanksgiving then. everyone has to work on fri. so we decided to do it on sat. so everyone can be there. we're having it at my sisters house and she lives an hour 1/2 away. well , there's my answer.  OH !!! and you are soo right about time screaming by. That is sad.  Have a great Thanksgiving. God Bless.\n                                                                   Deanne
737929
Well,Well After 8 yrs.Two nights ago my boyfriend came home from work after stoping at a pawn shop.He bought me a 1/4 caret ring from that pawn shop.Its not 3 carets but, in my eyes its beautiful.I never thought I would see a ring.So the tears started rolling.He gave me that ring because he loves me.I wouldn't want a big expensive ring from the mall.My ex husband once bought me a $3,000 dollar ring .It didn't mean as much as this one does now.So if you have a woman who wants you to make payments forever.Shes not thinking with her hart.Or its an awful little hart.
1104055
he probably already knows that you appreciate him, or he wouldn't have gotten all that nice stuff for you, just thank him, and show off what he gave you, (my boyfriend got me this, or my boyfriend did this for me) i think that just you enjoying what he did for you is enough
626111
I haven't personally, but I know a few people who have. I think it is okay as long as you are being honest and up front with the person. One of my friends met this guy who wanted to buy her tons of things and take her out to fancy dinners all of the time. She didn't want to be intimate with him and she told him that. He was okay with it. He just enjoyed having someone to spend his money on.\n\nMy other friend was being dishonest however. She was seeing a guy who bought her a car and let her move into his apartment. He told her that he loved her and that he wanted to marry her. She told me that she didn't love him and that she couldn't see herself marrying him but that she hadn't told him that. I think that is completely unacceptable and I don't know how anyone in good conscience could do that.\n\nThat's just my opinion of course.
337532
I have.\nHe had the money and the looks was great but never had time for me.\n So i dated a guy that was great in showing me a good time out and giving me the attention i needed.
53465
yea i think its a day to show someone u love them anyone a friend a boyfriend girlfriend.  and both should get gifts or think of something but it's not all about the guy giving gifts i think it should be both ways.  now if the guy doesn't want u to get him something still get something.  i say it's wrong when girls just expect gifts and don't wanna give..  thats just a real bitch.