is going with ur bestfriend ex boyfriend nasty?
106369
It matters if you're going out because you love him, or for revenge. If for revenge, please dump him LIGHTLY. "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready" should do the trick. If because you love him, try to exaplain that to your best friend. But if you even once find yourself doing something with him for revenge to her, I suggest you let him go.\n\nGood luck!!! ^^
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
126618
I don't wanna be too judgemental, but I'd never do something like that. However, it all depends on you and on the person you wanna date. And, of course, it also depends on your friends feelings, but, in any case it can be extremely difficult for all people involved. So, in my opinion, it is much easier to stay away from ur bestfriend's ex and not complicate ur life.
269330
Best friends, hmm, I am 34 yrs old and still have the same best friend since I was 12. We shared everything except the guys we dated or liked, til this day. No matter how handsome he was, or how much we were over them, etc. We just weren't into sharing 'sloppy seconds'. We just felt the same way about  dating or liking a guy the other use to date or like, we chose to not go there. At 12 yrs old we thought it was gross to like each others has beens, something we agreed we'd never do that to each other. We seen how that destroyed friendships, it almost always does. \n\nAnd even if your best friend encourages you and gives you the okay, until she sees you two together, things will more than likely be different. Remember what and who is important before you choose to like your best friends has been. \n\nThere is no guy worth jeopardizing my relationship with my best friend. Guys will come and go, you can only have 1 best friend. I am glad we chose hold our friendship above that issue.
485748
yes, you can. my ex-boyfriend has done some crap and i hate him but i like him still cuz he's a good friend. then, my other ex moved but i still like him. then, the third one, just made rumors and i still like him.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
1032209
I think its wrong. but if your bestfriend know about the issue and if she's fine with it, then go for it. but if she doesn't know please don't keep it a secret from her. It'll hurt like H3ll when she fines outs
717031
No, there are rules to dating your best friends ex you know. That would just be wrong.
398127
I would recommend you not to do it. Although your best friend's relationship is over with that girl, he might have the feeling that he had something special with her.\n\nAnd when he sees that you are having the same/similar relationship with her, he will feel bad about it. And yet, he might get paranoiac that you had this thought always in your mind even when they were together. Besides, the idea that you are having sex with someone he once loved is disturbing. Men can easily forget a girl when they don't see what she is doing but this way, he will often see you and his ex and this will be disturbing for both of you. So at the end, you will see each other less and he won't be your best friend anymore. \n\nBut on the other hand, if he is not much devoted to her and tells you to go on, then it is OK.
827445
You shouldn't be considering dating your friend's ex. Your asking for drama in a bad way.
911219
Listen girl...\n\nthe majority of relationships that happen.. the majority are brought together because people are best friends...\ni mean, best friends do get together in some cases.. right? you agree with me... so you know..\n\nmaybe your man is best friends with his Ex.. and they still feel that brotherly - sisterly connection... then there's nothing you can do about it... \n\nbut just.. don't worry about it... all you can do is just trust him.. and besides... since he goes out with his ex... why not take advantage of that.. and go out with some of your guy friends... use it as a sort of an excuse.. "You go out with your ex... why not i go out with my guy-friends"\nI know it's childish, but hey! you can have fun that way...\n\nand i'm sure your b/f has fun with his ex...\nno girl.. not that kind of fun.. lol...\n\ntake care
775638
Yes, unless you are hot and then your ex should be understanding that he is hooking up his buddy.  Bros before hoes.
680546
he just wants to do something with you, and you know what it is!... so its up to you... dont trust your exbf's friends... ever...
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
1181920
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
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A couple that I know lived like this for years and it worked out good for them and they remain friends to this day.  I doubt that I could personally live that way but if people are capable of it then more power to them.  If you can't discuss it with the ex, then try and discuss it with your boyfriend and be honest and open about how you feel.  Hopefully he will be able to ease your inferiority and make you feel like a queen in his life at present.  Good luck to you.  We all have pasts and that is why it's called that because it is all gone.