My boyfriend Mother past away recently what will happen next?
111634
Condolences.\n\nJust continue doing what you're doing right now. Just be there for him. If he gets mad, try to understand him because you know what he's going through right now. And don't forget to pray for him.
418995
I think if you are good friends with the mom you should ask her or if you and your bf are close and you don't think he would lie to you ask him. Look forward to hearing from you.
534073
i think that you should maybe try to talk to his mom and explain the reason why that you ended the relationship and explain to her the reason and tell her that you done it for a reason and that you want to try and get along with her explain that she shouldn't hold grudges and all you are asking for is for another chance that's all and if she doesn't under stand The reasons then don't worry about it at least you tried and hopefully things will work out for the best with whatever choice she decides remember that you tried.
69166
Alright, I believe that's 2 questions. Pretty smart way to conserve on points. Well as for the 1st, I'd say that's it's probably time to find a new boyfriend. As for the other, Maybe mom would be happier if she did'nt see you waiting around the house for a week wondering what up with the boyfriend.
968017
You didn't say how long you have been involved with him. His mom may think you two don't know each other very well, and doesn't want to see either of you get hurt. Be sure you tell mom that you are grateful to her for giving you a place to stay during the rough times, and you feel it is time for you to move out and get your life back on track. Tell her you are sorry that she doesn't agree with you guys moving in together, but that you guys care deeply for one another...maybe she just needs to hear it from you.
827405
First off, are your parents living in the dark ages...\nGo and do what you want [Not what they want] go see your boyfriend and his family..\nTell your mom in a nice way NO I am going to visit with my boyfriend and his family and that is final. \nYou are 20, you tell them what your plans are and go for it..They have no hold on you anymore...\nSome parents just don't want to let go, but now is a good time to stand up for yourself....
1096840
Hmmm..... It is really hard to say. Everyone's situation is unique. You should ask your girlfriend her views on relationships and marriage. Just because her mother has been divorced twice doesn't mean she is incapable of maintaining a successful relationship. Always remember that the key to any lasting relationship is good communication. Good luck and God bless.
1036860
Why are you living with your boyfriend?How old are you?No baby she might not get over it sometimes when we are young our parent's can see things that we can't see.It's not until later on in life we see or understand why that comment was made.You and your boyfriend are very young and she probably don't want to see you struggle that's all.Mom knows how hard it's going to be that's all.Who is working you or your boyfriend work?How are you guys going to support the baby?By your ages I would hope that both of ya'll are still in school.I'm not on mom side because it's going to be your decision when it's all said and done.You take care of yourself,and know it's not going to be easy.You have a lot of sleepless night's ahead of you.I'll be praying for you and your boyfriend.Take care.
1163687
She sounds like a mother tiger - no one is going to get near her baby boy. Angelbaby - whether or not this is going to be a serious boyfriend, he needs to talk with his mother and let her know he's old enough to decide with whom he wants to spend his time (if he isn't a minor). If he is a minor, I'd let him go. Why isn't he calling you and why is he putting up with her calling you nasty names.\n\nYou're too good for him, and he AND his mother both need to grow up.
880381
Your poor mum...5 years is a long time. I hope she gets rid of him as its a real cheek if he says he can't stop seeing the other woman !!!
384040
One thing is because your mother allows this man to treat her this way. Really there isn't a thing you can do except love your mom. She needs you more now than before. She will come to terms that he is doing something that is harmful to her and hopefully before it is to late...N
322541
Some Dude has a great idea - - move your mother if you can.  If not, definitely go stay with her at least until she gets adjusted to losing her sight.  Your boyfriend and daughter are young enough to learn to adjust - - your mother would have a harder time.  Also, you refer to her as "elderly".  She won't be around forever, and you can now really take the time to get to know her even better.  If your boyfriend really loves you, he will understand and be there for you when you get back.  If your daughter has a problem with it, just tell her to imagine that she and her new baby were you and your mother's ages, and what would she herself expect her daughter to do??  Good luck - I know it is a difficult situation for you.
899696
I would say that there is an attachment issue here.  I think you need to discuss with him that it is ok to help and care for his mother, but he is overly excentric about it.  You need to tell him that you are really having a hard time dealing with this and you are going to have to let him go.  It is not heathly for either of you.
467217
You have every right ot be upset with him.  You are under a lot of stress right now, with your Mom being ill and having to travel back and forth, that is a pretty good strain on anyone.  Then to have to deal with this on top of that.  He has betrayed your trust and if you can't see it in you to let it go, then I would suggest ending the relationship.  I don't think I personally could let it go.  If he can't keep it in his pants for the short time you are gone then he's the one with the problem.  He would have a bigger problem if he were mine.
165735
Start by not making an assumption about your boyfriends mom.  She may just simply not be the type to get close to anyone that isn't yet family.  She is also going to be naturally worried that you might eventually hurt her little boy.  Just relax and be yourself, over time you will prove to her that you are worthy of her boys heart.  In the mean time try to talk to her and find out her interests.  If you show an interest in her as a person and not just his mom it will help.  Sometimes it just takes a comment about how you hope that some day you can get to know her better to get her to open up.
598211
bring your boyfriend to your home one time, and have your mom talk with him, I'm sure that your mom would let you go out with him if she has met him and thinks he is a nice guy. (of course let your mom know you're doing this, or she'll be even more furious)
982002
Hey, get a grip if you are thirty-two then you are old enough to know that when the time comes she'll tell you. But, be an adult, not a spoiled kid obviously she's lived with it all this time and there may or may not be something she doesn't want you to know just now. It doesn't change anything between you and your grandfather, apparently it didn't make any difference to him! Give your mom time and get on with your life, don't let it define you life!