how to deal with threats?
107903
You don't accept threats. You take action against them. Be a strong person. You are stronger than you know.
504920
Say "how interesting! I'll keep that in mind." Or "thank you for sharing that." Then say no more. \n\nBe polite, be non-agressive, and be sure to keep a smile on your face. \n\nIf they can't get a rise out of you, if you act as though you really aren't bothered, they'll go find someone else to bother. \n\nVerbal bullies need to see their 'victims' reacte. Don't give them the satisfaction.
921896
OK-you asked. Confuse them. Smile. Behave,be sweet\nactually listen to what they are saying. This is what you call "killing with kindness". If you are not like that normally, they be put off-guard. You created no trouble, but they will feel slight anxious without knowing why!
636892
Shoot them. And noone should give them any crap for it either. A threat is a threat no matter what the age.
1098303
Go to the police station and file a report. That will put him on their records. Although he probably needs to have done something to you or someone you know in order for them to accept it. But threats count as "doing something" so you can say he verbally threatened you or someone you know and you are afraid that his actions will go farther and you want to just make the report so the cops will know if anything does happen. Talk to them and they'll help you go about it the right way.
1097812
Adress the demands by priority. State that is how you will be handling their issues in order to "serve them best".\n\nI suggest writing down the demands and speak with them about each until the order in which they will be handled is agreed upon. This lets them know you are focusing on their issues and not leaving anything out which in turn will make them calmer clients.
1118144
NEVER stop fighting! Take a form of defence like Karate for a class cuz it teaches u all types of defence moves. Bite. Kick punch YELLLLL as loud as u can. Don't walk where there aren't any people or houses alone at night.
381734
Turn it around.  Just be humble or straight forward...which is a strength.  Know who you are dealing with.  Take it in stride.  What is the worst thing that can happen?\n\nI was embarrassed once by another who was threatening me to death in front of a room full of people.  Actually, it became a nervous laugh, almost hysterical.  I ended up being beaten unmercifully.  Laughing is like waving a red flag in front of a bull.\n\nRise above it.
646460
In case of anti-terrorist caution... well firstly they must tightened their borders. Then Caution the local law enforcement agencies on such threats...And mainly educate the public on how to respond in case of terrorist threat. In case of threat coming from outside the country...then strict message should be given that such inhumane activities will not be taken lightly... And use necessary force next time there is such a threat.\nIn case the threat is coming from within the country...then the govt. should use force and tactics to subdue the threat and most importantly educate the people on terrorism.
1051428
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Don't let them run over you, but I promise it you start being assertive and treat them with love and kindness, they will stop.
392988
Be aware of your surroundings, and whats going on, be prepared to defend your self at all times. It is hard to protect your self from terrorist, as they are the only ones who really know when and where they will strike next.
963126
have you tryed threatening it?
37264
Walk out of the situation before the anger takes control of you. Like 'babygirl' said, it will give you time to cool down & think through the situation sensibly instead of causing harm, whether physically or verbally, to the other in a fit of rage.\n\nThat's what I do, just walk out on the person or just don't talk. I am known for a vicious temper & that's how I deal with it. :)
1083404
If she's threatening you, I think you should go to the police as firstly she has no right to do this and can't be allowed to get away with it, and secondly you have the right to live without being threatened or harassed.  Get a lawyer onto her.  Try your citizen's advice office too.  She sounds one unhappy woman.
456679
SPEAK UP for yourself.  Stay away from those who put you down as much as possible.  If they confront you,  look them straight in the eyes, tell them to LAY OFF and walk away.  Mean people usually pick on those who they perceive as vulnerable. Keep you chin UP no matter how you feel.  Your air of confidence will make you FEEL more confident and also deter some of the bubble-bursters.   If you are being harrassed,  speak to your supervisor.  If your supervisor harrasses you and/or is unconcerned,  speak to his/her superior.   If you get no positive results,  start looking for a new job.   You deserve a friendlier work environment. (It's a possibility that you can file a "hostile environment" complaint against your present employer).  I suggest counselling to help you figure out why you are shy and nervous.   Focus on your accomplishments at work.  Build your self-confidence outside of work.  Find new friends. Seek outside activities and hobbies that give you a sense of accomplishment.  Read self-help books.   And,  yes,  an anti-depressant/anti-anxiety medication might help you cope with the stress until YOU change your circumstances.  (Noone else will do it for you).  Talk to your doctor.
562609
Stand up to them and refuse to be bossed over. Most of the times these bossy goons get scared as soon as you confront them.\nThe worst scenerio is that you may loose the job and u r contemplating that anyway. So if you hae to go out , go with a bang and not with a whimper.\nIt might help to do a bit of lobbying beforehand to make sure you have support from your colleagues.\n\nAs Votaire said, "Of course u can kill a flock of sheep by chanting incantations, but there won't be any doubt if you feed a bit of poison beforehand."
755382
if u keep showing them the ways to hurt u - like dont let them know how they can hurt u -lesson 1.  lesson-2 is offensive is the best form of defense. by keeping away or mum, will only embolden them to hurt u even more.  hit back at them proactively.  there is no family which does not have something to hide - as soon as u spot someone who could hurt u - start talking about their blackspot in a loud voice but in a friendly tone - like u are sympathesing. this will keep everyone away from u. lesson 3 - jobs are always available for asking - or for that matter you can always earn rs 100 a day - ui better start concentrating on ur livelihood and become self supporting. the fear of insult should keep ur relatives off ur back.  meanwhile, there must be something u must have done to earn their anger - if u know the source of your trouble, try to solve the problem by apologising, giving it away if u dont need it......i dont think people have time to hunt out an innocent person that u make urself to be.