what are my rights in a home with my ex-fiancee that is in his name but i have lived in ( with my 5 yr old)?
99303
You might talk to a lawyer, but unless you can prove you paid for some of it you are probably going to lose everything. "Cleaning and decorating" can range from a bimbo he picked up in a bar one night doing his dishes to someone who was his wife in everything but name being a full partner in his life.
177870
If they want the household income and he lived with you and his name is on the bills too then yes. If there is no way to prove he is part of your household then no.
1099753
What state do you live in? I am a seven year veteran law officer and i have never heard of such. Everything revolves around the title and registration. There is such a thing as community property between people in a relationship in some states and this may be what the officer is baseing his opinion on. In the state i am from ( since he is an ex and the vehicle is registered to you) you have the right to file this as a stolen vehicle or at least an unauthorized use of a motor vehicle. Go talk to an attorney girl.
250901
No. Legally, you are responsible for him/her. Your only real course of actions would be to try and get relief of custody from the state.
861602
Not unless he adopted your son & that would require your permission. Check with your attorney or Social Security Office, take copy of divorce papers to prove you have joint custody.\nShe hasd no legal right to block your contact from his # & broke the law if collecting double payments.
496256
Unfortunately, he can file bankruptcy, which just makes it harder for you to collect. You did mention for "us" to qualify  for a loan on our new house... I'm assuming this means you both own this house together (BOTH of your names are on the title)? If this is the case, you can go to court, and sue him for your half of the equity in the house (and the original downpayment plus attorney's fees) - this may require him to sell the house (which he can't legally do without your signature if your name is also on the title also). While the money you used to pay off your ex's vehicle and travel trailer might be gone (but not necessarily), at least you might be able to recover your loss suffered in the mortgage loan. Good luck!
145280
Just go. Let him be the one to do the legal thing. My husband's ex-wife did it (new husband in military) and they moved to Hawaii (we live in Louisiana). We have not seen my husband's daughter in almost 3 years because they transferred again and we've no idea where they are.
861667
I'm sure she could go to her attorney and file  a motion to change the terms of their agreement.  However, I would urge her to be cautious when it comes to the issue of having someone (a b/f) move in with her.  It's not healthy for the kids to get use to someone who may not always be around.  Have her make sure the relationship is going to last - marriage would be better.
20303
NO! YOU CAN'T .THE HOUSE HAS BEEN COUNTED AS PROPERTY THAT BELONGS TO BOOTH OF YOU (RIGHT!)THEN IF YOU SELL THE HOUSE YOU HAVE TO GIVE HALF OF THAT MONEY TO YOUR  EX HUSBAND AND YOU WILL GET STUCK WITH ANY MONEY YOU SPENT TO SELL THE HOUSE. SORRY!
57290
If you are legally married,you are entitled to half of his possessions, that is if you did not signed a Prenup. You can even get money for the time you have been separated, that is alimomy.Also the court will obligate the person to pay fully the amount owed for child sopport That is, The time that he never paid). It doesnt matter if you have not been together, legally you are his wife .
754568
If his name is not on the birth certificate then he has no rights at all and you can do what you please.\n\nIf it is then he would have to take you to court, he def won't get legal aid earning 60k.  So yeah, you do not have to let him see the child untill the courts force you.  If he is abusive then I hope everything goes in your favour.
1120849
read your contract, since you are obviously renting the space where your home sits then there must be a contract you signed, and if it states that no additional people are permitted to live in the domicile then that is how it is, you can't just go against something you have signed. However, if it is not mentioned, then they have no right to do anything to you. It's time to do some reading.
900467
I'm divorced, with 2 kids of my own, that live with me, and I'll tell ya, until HE is right with himself, there is NOTHING you can do.  He has to figure out what the deal is himself.  And you may need to find an alternative.
863577
Now how would WE know who is using?\n\nWhy don't you ask him.  You have a right since your daughter spends time over there.  If he refuses to tell you, then get a court date and get his visitation suspended.
810962
Problem #1 - You argued so much about buying a home that you stopped talking about it.  This tells me you should not be buying a home together and perhaps shouldn't even be married unless you plan to get into some heavy-duty counseling.\n\nProblem #2 - You told him to go ahead and buy the house he likes.  That was childish because you did not mean it.  Never say something you do not mean.\n\nProblem #3 - He did it.  That was even more childish.  He should never have made such a decision without you, no matter how upset you were when you told him to do it.  Suppose you'd told him to "Go ahead and have an affair....?"\n\nProblem #4 - The house is in his name.  Of course it is.  He couldn't have put your name on the house without you signing anything.  Of course this means the mortgage is also in his name... and actually since the home was purchased during the course of your marriage, if you move into it, it's marital property considered to be the primary residence where you will cohabit, so you could divorce him and get half of that house in settlement no matter whose name it's in in most states so maybe that's not a problem.  If he dies, it should go to you, but I'd check that out too.\n\nProblem #5 - The biggest problem... is that this is no way for a married couple to behave.  This was a controlling and obnoxious thing for him to do and it sounds to me like you're married to a total jerk (no offense intended) and I rather doubt this is the ONLY controlling thing he's ever done.\n\nYou can always tell him "I said buy the house you like.  I never said I would live there with you" and leave.  Or, if you jointly own a house now, you can refuse to sign off on the sale of that home so he probably won't be ABLE to purchase this one and you'll still have the home in which you currently reside.\n\nIf you currently rent or whatever, then that won't work obviously... but I think you just need to seriously re-evaluate your selection of a mate or at minimum the way you interact together.  Sorry    :(
46261
The problem here is that he lives in your place. It dont matter if it is in your name or not he lives there. When i was served with a warrant at my sisters house it did not matter that i wasnt on the lease what mattered was what was in the house. All 4 of us went to jail even tho my sister and brother in law knew nothing about what was there. Im not sure if this helps you but I thought I would share my experiance. I think you gave yourself the best advice, "get an attorney A.S.A.P."
5168
NO...the US Supreme Court ruled several years ago that the prior assets and current income of a parent's spouse (In this case, you) cannot be presumed to be available for the purposes of child support or spousal support, even in states where all income is otherwise considered to be community property and all debts considered to be joint obligations...that means you are not legally on the hook for his kids and his ex wife can't try to get your house...in a nutshell.\nIf you two marry and he stops working or something, they can haul his tail to prison if they have cause to believe that he's willfully avoiding his obligation, but your paycheck cannot be considered in deciding or fulfilling his support order.\nYou will want to consult an attorney specialising in family law about specifics such as whether you should file your taxes jointly or seperately, how a jointly purchased home should be deeded and to draw up a prenuptual agreement about any inheritance you may recieve in the future and MAKE OUT A WILL....Both of you.\n(the Supreme Court ruling left some confusion about the distribution of assets aquired by one party but within the marriage)