Every time I see this guy I run from him - like I get extremely nervous in the butt ?
103925
well first of all calm yourself tell yourself that he is only a person with flaws like the rest of us and if yur always seeing him with all these other girls maybe its not the best idea to be all after him you know?
242240
Na, move on and have fun, he'll soon comin running if he thinks hes going to lose you!
59284
Ok, so, the biggest thing is that every guy is, even if he seems really macho and cool, terrified. He, like me, is scared that if he moves too fast, then you might get scared off, and then he'll be left flying solo again. Just get him in some sort of romantic situation and put your head on his shoulder and say I love you. If he is still scared, he ain't worth it.
387486
I don't think you are paranoid, I think you are a fool for even talking to him anymore.  You must have low self esteem to let someone treat you like that.   If you're smart tell him to take a hike,..a long one!  Find someone deserving of you not some jerk that treats you like a fool.\nMove on, and good luck in finding someone honest and nice too.\nGod Bless!
1168277
Yeah...I would say he was nervous. If you like him, you should be the "outgoing" one and talk to him. Ask him questions so he doesn't have to be nervous and think of what to talk about....(When he gets back.)
664514
This guy sounds like he might have some issues.  He sounds like he is very possesive and he also sound like he is a cold person as he just walks away when you are crying.  Maybe he doesn't know how to handle emotions and he gets angry instead of being able to talk to you...and it sounds creepy that he is staring at you like he does..if I were you...I would beat feet girl!! Get out before he really has the chance to screw with you.
13327
Maybe you should give tiny hints and get to know him a little better and get comfortable around him so that you don't lose your breath. I've been in that situation many times.
309154
try arranging to 'run into him" kinda. find out someplace you know he might be and try to show up at the same time. " oh, hey. what are you up to, i know it's been a minute since i said what's up, but, um, what's up ?" just try to be confident, don't be too nervous or you'l fer sure slip on the dufus rag. good luck, man-and remeber this-no one is out of anyone's league. I don't know what you look like, and it doesn't even matter. if YOU believe in you, most everyone else will, too. If YOU do evrything you can to FEEL attractive, most people will think that you are, too.i hope you rope yer cowboy, hun. good luck.
451401
you'll get nervous when you are close to him...
953473
It sounds like you have a guy who loves you dearly and is naturally scared of hurting you. I honestly don't think he would feel like you are afraid of him - if you have talked about what happened, and he is being there for you the way you say he is, then he is simply trying to be there for you in the best way he can, and worries when he's not sure how he can help more.\n\nYou've picked well - don't let this one go :)
243091
Yes, he feels like you are "chasing" him...\nAnd generally speaking, men don't like to be chased, they want to do the chasing...
758752
hmm.. \nprobably just try to tok to him more.. get more comfortable around him.\nif he senses that you feel uncomfortable around him he might think you don't like him or don't want him around and avoid you or sumthing..\njust try your best to get more comfortable around him
838154
you must get out of that shyness thing. it will get you no where in this world we live in.  "grow balls" so to speak.  good luck\nbesides the worst he could say is no.....right?
1954
If your gut out of nowhere has all of a sudden been sending you vibes and they just stick with you! most likely your insticts are right! ask him, and observe his behavior when you do. If you do not feel hat he is telling you the truth and I know its hard to make a rash decision when you havent found the smoking gun! But trust your inner voice and do what you feel you have to!
388324
Well, well, well.  I think the man is embarrassed by getting off so fast the 1st time.  Don't give him anything until he can tell u why he ain't upping the goods.  If both of u aren't getting off then how fair is that.  He has problems within himself that he needs to work out.  I think that it was just to good to him and he is afraid that u didn't want anymore because he came so fast.  Poor baby,  If u like him talk to him if not move on because it isn't u that is the problem its his $perm that is his problem it just doesn't have any patience. Give him a hug and tell him it's o.k.
960888
i got the same problem \nit gets on my nerves to have to reasure him all the time
778743
If you still like him, open up to him completely.  Tell him all that you feel about him, and it may take him some time to absorb all that, but he will find that under all that he was feeling during those past 7 months, he still likes you the way that you liked him.\n\nThe reason that he thought that you were a little scary is because he was intimidated by you.  If you told him how you truly felt and that it was okay for him to act completely like himself around you, then he would fine.  Tell him that the reason that you liked him is because he was awesome, and that he didn't really change, and since he didn't, you would always like him.  Good luck!