what is so attractive about people that they fall in love?
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I think everyone has their thing that makes them attracted to someone, in order to fall in love. For me, it sounds funny but after looks, it becomes about conversation, but mainly smell. If the guy smells good, man it just flips my switch.
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Their personality... and how they treat other people. It's never about the looks. Even the ugliest people.. have the sweetest souls.. and the "prettier "ones.. are evil. Not all.. but some.
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Friendliness and kindness.  The person I am attracted to is nice to everyone.  He is always willing to go out of his way for people.  Plus...and this isn't perverted...he is pretty hot!
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I think this holds true for men and women alike...\n\nthe sad part of the answer is our physical appearance is what gets the attention of a person to start with upon first notice...at least in MOST cases.  BUT...the inner you, your soul and whole being...that is where we really fall in love.\n\nThink about a pretty girl...that has a really BAD personality --- a stuck up B!+C# is something she is often called.  A buff guy that pushes others around, acts super macho and stuck on himself --- a big dumb jerk.\n\nThe average looking guy/girl ...strong in character and personality.  The more you know them, the more they shine.  A description of someone that is probably liked by most they come in contact with.  Their qualities are enhancements or upgrades to their OUTER being from within.  In theory, that part of them should be there forever.  Looks fade...the inner beauty will always be there.\n\nThose with less than super models have to find a way to be NOTICED first... so the beauty inside can close the deal.\n\nHonest feelings from the average guy...with the romantic...soul searching heart.
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Than that would be lust.. not love. To fall in love usually you at least need to speak with the person, unless they are a deaf-mute.
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It's not a set thing ... some people just have a sparkle about them.  \n\nThough the following don't hurt: \n\nathletic phsyique\ntwinkle in their eye\ncertain level of intelect\ngood sense of humour\ncomfortable in their surroundings
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There isn't one "thing" that I find most attractive in men because different men have "that thing" that makes you attractive to you in the first place.\n\nI can honestly say I have a hand fetish. But I also like men who are musically inclined, politically driven, nice eyes, accents - especially southern and french, and well a lot of things.\n\nBut I couldn't be of much use to you because I love men in general.\n\nOh, and super generous in bed and can hold their liquor.
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Because there a perfect match for love and looks
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Beauty and Personality.
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Fools do fall in love because love is emmotional.
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Honesty.  Trust.  Self assuredness and confidence.  Good looks of course.  Funny.  Smart.  Good sense of style.  Turnoffs would be jealousy, clinginess, poor personal hygiene.
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Good question. I'd say, confidence, intelligence, great character, lips, nice teeth, good smell...accents, foreign languages. A lot of things could be sexy.
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Well, this is just my opinion:\n\nThere are different forms of love - both the love you have for your family and the initmate love you share with a significant other.  When it comes to the love of the significant other there must be some attraction, but not necessarily beauty.\n\nIf a person is really beautiful and you lust after them because of it, that's not really love, although of course you can truly love someone that is a true beauty, just it usually always starts with lust and desire.\n\nTrue love makes a person you love more beautiful.  They can be overweight, have a funky nose, or body part, and they look truly beautiful anyway.  That's what makes love so beautiful.  You overlook the persons physical and personality short comings to see their beauty - inside and out.
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Love grows at its own pace, sometimes in a sudden "love at first sight" way and sometimes in a slow realization of how wonderful another person is.  We learn from our experiences and perhaps a person isn't ready to appreciate someone who is not beautiful or superficially charming until after they reflect on the person's more worthwhile qualities.\n\nThis isn't a coincidental question, is it?  Good luck to you.
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Let them know you are attracted to them.
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Well, *I* can't. I gotta be around them and smell their smells and  see their body language. Love for me is a thing that happens after a few weeks of getting to know who they REALLY are.. live and in person. You can certainly like someone a lot and form an attachment. I just met too many strange people online and over the phone.. to "fall in love" based on a good conversation.
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Attraction starts out on the physical plane, but it will fly away quickly if there isn't more. I like attitude, intelligence, integrity, vulerability, competance, character and earthiness.\n\nWow, I'm getting excited just talking about it.\n\nage - 45