what to do when your partner could not occupy your sexual needs?
107734
There are 2 things that can be done.  You must first ask yourself a question.  How important are my sexual needs?  Can I live without them?  If you are looking at getting your sexual needs fulfilled and your partner isn't satisfying them, then you need to talk to him/her about them.  If you have been patient and your partner still isn't willing to satisfy them and it's very important to you.  Then break up with him/her.  If you love him/her too much and are willing to sacrifice your satisfying your sexual needs then stay together.
21056
Actually - there are many ways to have a great sex life. Spice things up. Never get in a routine. If you do the same things time after time - it becomes dull. Try new places - new postions - go out and buy gels;creams;masks;whips; just things in general that you think would turn your partner on. if you have any further questions pretaning to this - please let me know. I have been with my boyfriend (fiance) for 8 years now - we have a wonderful sex life!
556261
try eating fruits for a few days and see what happens. Eating canaloupe is good for the sex drive. SO find out what fruit she likes the best and have fun. Oh avacado has something to do with sex drive too. Good luck
425138
chocolates, seafood and all sorts of things can be recomended to you, but what i recomend the most is your partner himself! I would suggest you do more kissing and more fooling around! light touches everywhere , try not to use your hands , only your mouth and tongue. tell him to do the same to you, let him know your body more! let him explore it again like when u got married, maybe you dont feel that sex drive cause things might have gotten a  little repetitive! do something new! go out of the house if you have kids or teens or whatever and go to another place and make love ther, or use sweet things like cream or chocolate, try to get some scented candles for your room and rose petals, or in the bathtub! \nANY PLACE IS GOOD FOR LOVING WHEN YOU LOVE!!!!!\ndont be afraid to explore new things! kiss his nick and then blow over it ... its nice lol \nand senses tend to react more to light touch! let him kiss you everywhere and do the same give eachother a  massage before making love and dont rush to have sex... its a  gradual thing! \nhope that helps\n\nAlinne
152137
Well my best suggestion to you is to cut back on the sex and definitly cuddle more and be more romantic. If you get the urge too bad go to the restroom and masterbat to relieve yourself. Being a woman myself, I know how it feels to think that all a man wants from me is sex but the longer you two are together then she will eventually realize you love her(if you do) and sex isn't ALL you want
499758
Ouch!  sorry, but that's not very often.  All couples are different, but compatibility extends to the bedroom too.  when I'm in a relationship, I like to at least three times a week.  I think that you should talk to him, and find out either why he doesn't want to have sex more often, or if he's willing to step it up a bit...
1006769
I think you should go out and buy a sexy nighty and jump in front of the television so he won't want to watch it so much...That's just one thing, for starters. You need to be spontaneous and go out and do things. Find a hobby to do you both enjoy! Go out with other couples! As far as sex goes, do things with him you don't normally do, you know? But things you feel comfortable doing. Communication is the big thing. Find out from him what he wants, too. Good luck and have some fun!
180580
Try a cock ring or when you are a feeling that sinsation stop for a minute and start fourplay again.  Once the feeling slows down start again.  Also, exercise and eat right.  When your healthy so is your sex life.
181233
You can't. And I would imagine he's not very much fun in bed either. Tell him to go see a doctor.
585923
when you two do have sex...do you orgasm...\nif the answere is NO...that explaines the LOW drive...why do something if there is NO pleasure in it for you...\n\njust a thought....\n\nmaybe toys can help..\nthe thought of sex with NO toy is a turn off for me...means i go without and he gets pleasured...sucks big time...
1116539
Sounds like you feel he doesn't love you and just using you for sex.  You may have that feeling because he is.  If you feel that way you can't be enjoying your time with him , so do something that you can get into with him. Just spend some time together going out to diner or movies you may need some quality time together and rekindle your relationship.
112509
Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
516648
Not really.But don't be too dependent on him.Having sex almost everyday is great but he needs to rest.
582628
It's common, but it doesn't have to be.  I've been with my husband for over 2 years and we aren't bored with sex, but we do sometimes just have "routine" sex, lol.  If you've been dating for over 2 years, you should know each other well enough to be able to try things you know you'd both like.  Maybe some new positions would help, or some role-playing.  Sometimes even just having sex somewhere besides your bedroom can shake things up a bit.
1098760
Maybe she is having a low sex drive right now and do you spice things up in the bedroom and make things exciting for her???? Talk to her and see why she feels this way and also suggest to her maybe seeing a doctor or sex therapist. She could be having affairs too!
509776
Before you blame the pill, look a little more into the problem.  Most sexual issues are mental, not physical.  Maybe you were using the balding thing as a crutch to explain why you were having problems with relationships and now that it's not longer a concern, you're hunting for a new problem.  The best solution is a caring and understanding partner that is willing to go through some low-drive periods to see if the problem corrects itself.  Everyone's sex drive waxes and wanes.  Be patient.
558311
How about seeing a doctor together and maybe getting a referral to a sex therapist.  There may be some medical solutions.  Even if there isn't, there are a whole host of things that a sex therapist can open up your mind to, that could help bring the spice back into your sex life.  \n\nYou are a very honest person and obviously love your husband.  So, try reaching out with the same question to a professional physician or psychologist who can get you back on the same path together.