how do you deal with people who have so much pride??
107840
Just leave them alone. People like these,dont have many friends becos of their ego. They will realise that it is not wise being proud when they need help and noone cares as the saying goes,' Pride comes before a fall'.So be humble is a better policy and do adopt it.
586693
Don't look at it like that...there are mean people in and out the church.  You just strive to be the best person you need to be.  Don't let ANYONE keep you from your blessings.
1002812
You nearly made me cry!! it makes me so mad to think of how nasty people are!  Forget those people they are worth the dirt on your shoes!! There are plenty of nice people out there who arent judgmental!  You do seem like a lovely person - keep you chin up, know its hard but you know the saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger
453088
just ignore them, those people are trying to make ur self esteem down, have confidence in urself. and don't allow anyone to degrade you.\nIf you had to answer then tell them:  Yes I am mad because I allowed myself to talk to someone silly and  shallow like you.
938985
There is jealousy everywhere.  I think everyone deals with it at one point or another.  It's pretty immature, and people who threaten or do harm of any sort have very low self esteem and have to bring others down so it will make them feel better.  It's very sad what someone will do to shift any attention to them.  Just stay away from those types of people.  Do not react at all, because thats what keeps them going.  Do not give them the satisfaction of seeing you scared or angry at what they are doing.  That is exactly the reaction they are screaming for because thats the only attention they can get.  LOSERS!!!!
147241
The best thing to do is to ignore them because they are usually wanting to get attention by saying these things anyway. If it is someone you know well, perhaps you could sit them down and try to get them to look at other races in a different light by explaining that we're all God's children and God loves wonderous variety. I would tell them to educate themselves about the cultures they are putting down and tell them that they only look ignorant and arrogant when they do this and realize that these people have feelings just as we do. :)
559143
Get the "I don't give a fuck attitude", and just know that you're better than everyone else... and believe in yourself. I hated speeches, but this has helped me... haha... It's ok if it's a bit conceited.
614726
respect is cheap, just deal with them and watch your back, dont burn your bridges but feel free to do unto them before they do it unto you.
1122937
Remember that they raised you, fed you, gave you a place to live, clothed you, and supported you...I think you can be patient with the way they speak.  I'm sure you have traits that bother them, as well, but they love you and do not want to hurt you.  Give them the respect they deserve!!
117820
Well Lil' Shay,\n\nThat's a sticky one.  \n\nYou can't control how someone feels.  But you can tell them how you feel about their actions and behavior towards you.  \n\nBe firm and direct without being hurtful or disrespectful.   \n\nMinimize contact and avoid doing anything that could lead them on or encourage them.   \n\nIf all else fails, consider a restraining order. \n\nOh and one other thing, dont' think too highly of yourself either.  \n\nUnless their are seriously harassing you, its okay to be flattered by the admiration. It just means someone thinks you're pretty special.
563332
Be bold. You really have nothing to lose but your pride which is excess baggage anyway.
1155676
Dont be offended they dont mean anything by it except that  they are worthy of being a Goddess.  Take a deep breath and chill.  Blessed be.
656033
dont let them win. try your best and forget them. dont talk to them.and dont worry about what they say. good luck
1017900
ACT FRIENDLY.  Don't remind them of their visciousness.\n\nBut don't trust them about anything.
552944
be proud of where you are from the land of the free.......if they cant accept that then they are not your friends ....its not like you can change where you are from........
1112935
UNFORTUNATELY,IF YOU ARE AMONG SUCH PEOPLE YOU CANNOT HAVE A GREAT DAY..TRY TO IGNORE THEM..NOT ALLOW THEM TO INTERFERE INTO YOUR PRIVATE SPACE..CHEER UP...
420670
You put up with it because they have done it so much you think you deserve it, but YOU DON'T. Get yourself a very small recorder and record them when they are speaking to you in this way. Let THEM hear how they sound and then ask them, how would YOU like to be spoken to this way!! They may hear each other speaking to you this way, but they don't "hear" themselves.