At 29 years of age, is asking for a virgin wife too much to ask for? She will not be the only one sharing.?
105851
In marriage we men are supposed to be like Christ to his people.  That means we are to be forgiving and willing to lay down our life for our spouse.  I don't see where it gives us the right to demand perfection of their past before they even met us.  What if Christ had said, "I will save only those who have been perfect, afterall I'm going to the cross for them, is that too much to ask?"  You are only going to the altar, so I would suggest you spend more time focusing on what kind of a husband you can be to her, rather than what has she saved for you?  She hasn't even met you, so how can you judge her?
634812
I'm 17. Still virgin & proud.\nLet's wait for our hubbies :]
492972
I think maybe you are being very general in saying that it seems that way......I know alot of young women who take great pride in being virgins (my 19 year old daughter being one), and I wish I would have stayed a virgin for a bit longer (my first sexual experience was at a very young age). I'm very proud to know that young women are staying virgins until they are old enough to decide what is truly best for them. Take care dear, and does it matter what others think??????
1094292
Hallelujah, God does work in mysterious ways. I say that this guy is a God send and should keep his virginity until he is married. God will provide with the right woman in God's time.
86318
I stopped counting a long time ago, I'd say at least 40.  Now I'm married and I wish I would have waited.  I wish I could have been a virgin when I got married, cause now it sometimes causes problems in my marriage.  Yes my wife uses it against me.
243225
Odd statement, men brag about how many girls they've been with yet when the find the right girl to have a relationship with they want a virgin. If all these guys had so much sex, who did you think they were having sex with? 15 Guys isn't alot for a 26 year old woman. Another thing, men are revered for having all this sex while women become sluts. If you like this girl why do you even care about how many guys she's been with, why are you even talking about it with her. Now I know how guys think and I understand. Trust me when I say this, grow up and deal with it. If not it sounds like it would be your loss.
514971
No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
708504
I am 38 and I have had an experience meeting a woman that was a virgin still at 24.  She was apologetic and very shy.  I don't think you should feel bad for being a virgin.  Everyone has a first time - some sooner some later.\n\nAt least being older he would hopefully find your honesty appreciative.  Tell him as a matter-of-fact when an intimate conversation comes up.  Don't sound as though you are making a big deal of it.\n\nAnd if he is hesitant or steps back, just respect it and move on.  There's absolutely nothing to be ashamed about who you are darling :-)  Good luck.
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.
1020360
I'd rather the man for me would be a virgin, if I ever find him, but I don't expect him to be. Virginity just doesn't seem to be important to very many people anymore.
1181103
omg ...sorry love ..sounds like your the one that is slightly abnormal here...most men would appreciate that aspect of their wives.\n\nnow what if the shoe was on the other foot?  would you be complaining or cheating on her cuz she dont WANT to give it up?\n\nlmao ...this is soooo RARE to find a man complaining that his wife wants sex!!!
1178001
Many times a day - I am 35 and I sure do.  Why is your 30+ gf not giving you any??????
1020513
Sounds like to me that shes doesn't get into it much.  Maybe she feels it is an obligation to have sex.  If you are a needy man and have to have sex all the time, she may feel like it is a chore.  Maybe you need wine and dine her.
1161371
15 years isn't that big a difference when you get older.  My wife is 11 years younger than me and we are a perfect match.  I'm sure the man would be happy about being liked by the woman provided the woman wasn't immature, which a 29 year old presumably would not be.
446461
I know people older than you that never got laid. Why rush. There can only be a first time once. What you have is priceless and you can never go back. Don't throw your treasure away, it's so much better to share it with someone special.
1065139
It's up to you. Lots of girls like it. If you have no moral objections then why not? I'd do almost anything for my wife if it wasn't imoral. She wouldn't ask for that but there's lots of things she does ask for.
134497
Neither are worth too much the effort. While you can say the virgin will not stray, she may not enjoy it with you and leave, or she may enjoy it too much and want it more than you can provide.\n\nChances are whichever way you go, they are going to leave