how would i go about asking girls out?
103826
Just ask them.\n\nDo you want to go to a movie?\nDo you want to go to the beach?\nHow about a trip to the arcade?
26423
Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
41557
the best way to get a girl.. be orginal, be funny, and most important of all be confident. if she says no just like it doesn't bother you.
299300
Do you think she would be surprised to know you like her?  If you know her well enough to strike up a conversation with her, start one.  Then swing it around to asking her out.  If you don't know her well enough to just talk to her, get started getting to know her.  Ask her out later.
952888
1. get to know her first\n2. decide whether she is the best for u or not\n3. if yes, ask her out \n           hehehe helped?
1185952
Ask.\nWorse they can say is 'no'. So, take that as an answer. \nMost will be flattered and you picked her to ask.  \n\nNot for any particular reason - for sex for example - if it happens that's OK, but don't push it. Just be gentle with them, converse, be yourself (they like that). \n\nYou are afraid of rejection. Be prepared for rejection but you will be surprised how 8 times out of 10 you will get a positive response.
691864
find the right girl, who doesn't think you're a loser. ask her out. should work fine.
402105
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
503845
ask her out, and see what happens
723042
I think its nice that u really like this girl. Do u think she might like u? It might be best to ask a few people who know her to see what they think. The last thing u want to happen for the 1st time asking out a girl is the chance she may say no. That will hurt. A good way to ask her out is maybe to say "i wondered if your seeing anyone at the moment because if not id like to take you out for a drink". Make it casual, smile as you speak. If you dont try you will never know. Good luck!
696121
ok dude..u can just ask her out while u and her do ur usual banters and what not..initially just joke around and stuff..then at one point, after u say stuff like where u gonna take me or whatever or she say she's gonna take u somewhere, u just look at her in the eye and say, 'no, i'm serious'..of course u need that serious look when u do that..it's just a matter of timing..might or might not work, but it's worth a try..\n\ngo get her, boy!
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well, shop, train, bus station is a good as place as any. at the club, yeah... sometimes people are too desperate. either U come off desperate, or the girl does.\n\ntry joining some clubs or activities that will ensure that u have a common interest, and u will see them more than one time. for example, church, bible study group, exercise class, art class, etc etc. if u do ask for a girl's # , and she gives it to you, then call back in 2 days.  ask her out for coffee....and try to be confident, relaxed, and comfortable. ask her questions and show that u are interested.. buy her coffee, and if u have a good time, ask her out to dinner.  go out for like 3 dates, and if u want to get more serious, tell her u'd like to date her. if u don't like her, then either tell her u wanna be friends, or stop calling.... no more dates!\n\ngood luck~
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If you are a girl looking for advice: Walk up to him and say 'would you like to go out with me?'\n\nIf you are a guy wanting to know if a girl likes him: Walk up to her and say 'would you like to go out with me?'\n\nIf you are neither, and am only trying to see what kind of crazy responses you get: Hire someone to kidnap her and throw her in a lake, once in you should jump in and save her, while sitting on the beach heaving and sweating and cuddling together so you don't freeze, look her in the eyes and say 'let's have sex'
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
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Girls love being asked out so just say excuse me um would you like to go out sometime if she says no then just say ok and remember that it was good you asked her because if you hadnt you would have never known what she would have said also if she says no just know that she isnt right for you and mabey try again later if she says yes then good for you
715407
haha, doesn't look like you're getting the answers you're looking for. Bottom line, don't be afraid of asking girls out, no matter what your occupation is, she might say no... but she might say yes. If you don't ask, that's a definite 'no' so take your chances. be brave, you ARE in the national guard.
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Depends on the girl. Seriously though, don't try to impress them. Normally end up making a fool out of your self, just be yourself and let her notice you that way. If that doesn't work, just walk up to the girl and ask her out.