when having sex,how to make vargin female will feel not so painful?
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A vargin?\n\nIf you don't know how to spell/say the word "virgin" then I suggest you NEVER have sex ever.
103048
the best way is to have her start off giving you oral sex until you cum  then start on her spend a lot of time kissing, fondling, just making her feel good  you'll be back up in no time and it will take longer for you to cum.  if she's not up to the oral sex, masterbate first   it gets the first one out of the way and you won't be as sensitive
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CONDOM!! lots of lubricant, very very slowly...and bottle of hard liquer!\n\nas a follow up, I'm a girl and I love it...but it does take some getting used to (and alcohol eases the pain the first few times) Oh, and don't get carried away...remember that it DOES hurt-badly and if you mess up and get too into it it may be your first and last time.
559021
use lots of lubricant like baby oil and dont ever 4get 2 wear condom. If its very tight use rubber dildos small size 4 some time . Pain occurs 4 newcomers.enjoy!
549189
When you are on top, you are in control. \nFeel yourself with your fingers and then as you straddle him take his penis and ease just the tip inside you, then gently go down on it. A womans vagina doesn't go straight up, so as he enters you, lean forward slightly so his penis is pointing towards your back. If it feels uncomfortable at first just move your hips slightly and it will ease in nicely.\n\nIf this doesn't help, try rolling over with him inside you. it is a bit tricky at first but can be mastered with practice.
168130
Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
745356
I assume you're having trouble inserting it properly.  I had similar problems when I was young.  I'm not entirely sure if it was my hymen (it's possible) or the position I was using when I was inserting it.  The position for insertion that finally worked was squatting.  I had been sitting down, and found that kind of squashed things down a bit.  Try squatting and relaxing your muscles by breathing into your lower back.  If you're using a plastic applicator tampon (probably the best for beginners, but terrible for the environment) wet the end to get things started, or use some KY jelly.  No vaseline, that's bad stuff.
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Only if you are doing it wrong. Sex is supposed to feel good!\n\nUse plenty of lube, take your time and don't do anything that doesn't feel right.\n\nIf you are the guy, pay attention to her signals and ask her how she is doing.\n\nHaving said all that, some people do have painful intercourse, but this is a medical problem that should be seen by a doctor.
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Sorry, but size DOES matter.  Whoever said otherwise lied while trying to make himself feel better.\n\nFortunately, for you, though.  A woman is most sensitive on the clitoris, which is outside, so you don't really need a penis to satisfy a woman.  As a matter of fact, the best lover I ever had was impontent and could rarely get an erection.  No dildo was ever required.  He was beautifully talented with his hands and lips.  If you open up and explore your girl and ask her what she likes, she won't really care about the 4 inches.\n\nAs for tecniquest to make it better, try moving your hips in a slow, circular motion.  Slide up a little higher as you thrust in and out so that her clitoris is stimulated as you slide in and out. Suckling her breasts while you do this will produce an incredible sensation.  Also suggest that she practice her kegals excersises so that her vaginal muscles are strenghened for her increased enjoyment and yours... Go to any book store and pick up some sexual manuals.  The joy of sex is a classic.\n\nHappy loving.\n\nPS.  Your email is bouncing back, so I've resorted to editing... You missed my point.  Your penis won't make you a good lover, so stop obsessing on it.  If it works for you, concentrate on pleasuring her (which you'd need to do at any size), and then let her take care of you.  She won't be unsatisfied.  Plus, you must know that you're probably hurting her by rejecting her.  Be honest and creative.  Manhood is more than a penis.  Your greatest sexual tool is found between your ears, NOT between your legs.
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are you pressing too hard on it?? \nit shouldn't hurt...most women like to have their clitoris touched.
590525
In my experience it is possible to prevent the first time being painful at all if you have played around plenty with your hands and mouth on other occasions.\n\nFingers can be a bit rough, but if you're gentle they can be great. Definitely eases the way for something larger. Also helps the girl learn what she likes and what feels good as many girls don't masterbate with penetration when they are virgins.\n\nPositions... definitely missionary the first time.
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OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
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Ok lets give a lession in size. There are women I REPEAT that can not handle a well endowed guy. It does hurt them if they never had a well endowed guy before. I can only imgine how much pain it must be for a virgin to take on a well endowed guy. I know from experance and I will explain this. I myself have had the women I have been with say they where glad they where not virgins because the pain would have been way too much. Women that have had children before are usally more able to handle a well endowed guy. For the women that I have been with they say they felt like they where being ripped apart after I had sex with them. But this goes away over time as the women adjusts to your size. I say this from experance.\n\nOk I am going to give you some tips to make this transition easier.\n\nI have had this problem once before with women who was used to a normal size guy. but was not used to my size. She will normaly experance pain the first few times till she gets used to your size. This is normal to experance pain at first. But you have to be very slow, extremly gental and extremly patient. This is the important part. Let her direct you, let her say when to go in alittle more, litte bit at a time and stop. I mean ALITTLE BIT! Don't go in without her direction. LISTEN that is the key. This will give her time to get used to it. Don't be suprised if in the process her eyes get as big as half dallors. If you see she is having pain stop. Let her direct you more when to go in further. Also once you are full in don't start going at it immedilty give her time to adjust to your size. This is a slow process of adjustment to your size. This is also a good time to be further intmate with her while she is getting used to your size. Do things like kissing, hugging and talk to each other. Remember it's not a mataton. This will also make her feel more confortable while giving her more time to adjust. Let her be your guilde. She will tell ya when ya can start. Ya can't rush things. It's about taking it SLOW and EASY at first. If it takes a 15, or 30 mins thats ok. Let her take her time.\n\nI not saying this just say it too to  brag, But I'm say it I am saying it from EXPERANCE I know I have been there. And just because a women is build to deliver a baby doesn't be mean she is build to handle any size. Like I said before Women that have giving viginal birth are more able to handle it. Like I said I know from my own experances with women. Because the last thing you want too is cause the woman ya love pain. Sex sould be a enjoyble expernace for both of you.
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First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
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Try not to push her into it but do what me and my BF did, go very slow and get her used to it.  Slowly go in and out with out going all the way it so she can see its not as big as she fears.  Plus less bleeding this way if she's a "V".  Go at her pace not yours. weather you like it or not you might get excited and want to speed up, just keep looking at her eyes and remember that it's for her too.
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DON'T GET TOO EXCITED. START SLOW AND FASTER SLOW THEN FASTER. WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR COMMING  THEN SLOW IT DOWN AND TAKE YOUR TIME ENJOY.PROLONG IT `ONCE IN A WYLE TAKE YOUR MEMBER AND MASSAGE HER SWEET BUTTON WITH YOUR DI*K. THEN AGAIN IN AND OUT AND SO ON.
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Having sex releases endorphins (pleasure/happy hormones) this would help to a certain point I would imagine any pain that you are experiencing.\n\nThis article also says that "Sex increases women's estrogen levels, keeping vaginal tissues more supple and also protecting against heart disease." Estrogen is one of the main hormones that the female body stops producing enough of.\n\nIf this is true then, yes; it most deffinately would help.\n\nhttp://www.abbys-sexual-health.com/articles/health_benefits_of_sex.php