what should i do if my boyfriend treats me like he doesn't care for me or is just VERY rude to me,but .....
106531
okay...lemme get this straight. he is VERY  rude to you, and his attitude sucks, but other than that he is EVERTHING that you look for in a guy?  so, he has a penis?  there are plenty of those walking around that wouldn't be a jackass to you.  wake up and ditch the loser.
103237
run away, leave him before it's too late, have a little self respect and don't let people treat you like a doormat, stop pissing him off... all of these are valid answers.  pick one
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
37598
You might want to talk to him about it and let him know that it bothers you.  You and he can make an agreement about what he will do in future similar situations.  If he's not willing to do what you want, you'll have to decide how you feel about that.
592926
Leave him. Pure and simple. If he is not treating you right then leave him before things get worse for you. There are plenty of guys out there that will treat you right.
666004
If he's telling people he doesnt have a girlfriend and ignoring you he doesnt care about you.  And when you let him treat you like that he will never respect you again.  Nobody likes anyone they can walk all over.  You must have self respect and demand to be treated in a certain way.  Why would you waste your time with someone who ignores you ????????????????????????
182392
If it's really bothering you, Talk to him. If he doesn't listen, then write him a letter or 3. If that doesn't work, let him cool off and try him again in a few months.
828004
This sounds a little weird, so I definitely think that you should talk to your guy. Tell him that this is really bothering you and that you don't mean to go crazy on him. If he really cares about your feelings, then he won't just blow you off.
697916
im going thru the same sort of thing. my relationship is way longer than yours and my guy is 24 and he is also working on a degree for computer science and forensics....i thought that was normal until i would go to his place and he would ignore me...i would just walk away and ignore him back! most of the times i fell asleep listening to music on my MP3 player which is sad! now my bf sort of passed that phase where videogames were his world but he still plays them and  the only thing i can do is to do my homework or read a book or be on my cell or cook or something. ...your bf is going thru some weird videogame stage where he wants to beat a level and he cannot therefore he gets frustrated therefore he curses and uses bad words because he is mad...! keep yourself preoccupied while he plays for lets say 2 hours tops and that is it! have a talk with him and tell him that if you are over you would appreciate it if he would nor curse and to pay attention to you and not the videogames! if he gets mad which he will tell him that he can play his game for an hour and then you two can watch a DVD and he cannot comment or make excuses!if he keeps it up just get  out of the relationship honestly since if he is willing to pay more attention to some stupid game and not the time he has with you he is taking you for granted! as for you putting up with his tantrums well, just get out of the relationship because you never know what can trigger him to go at your throat or call you names or curse you! he seems to have anger management problems and just because he has a bad day does not give him the right to take it out on you!!!!!! wha next, he will become physically abusive but by "accident" since he cannot control his temper?think of all the worst case scenarios and then think if you want to be with a guy who is obsessed with video games, does not spend quality time with you, treats you poorly, takes out his stress or bad day on you and gets aggrivated with you? even if you love him please leave him and i am giving you this advice as a friend since i am 22 also and in college, because he is pushing you away and throwing away the good relationship he has or by his actions he seems not to care for you anymore.. he takes you for granted and you are his outlet to release his stress and anger and bad day and nothing more... if he actually loved you he would spend time with you and would not treat you so poorly or take out his bad day on you but rather act nice, sweet, would not curse if he knew you hated it !\n\n\ningrid
159086
I think you should have some self-respect and dump him, because he's clearly treating you poorly and taking you for granted.  You're better off solo than with someone who isn't treating you the way you deserve to be.
706426
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
279278
My opinion would be is to try and talk to him and express to him how you feel. Maybe he doesnt even know you feel this way?\nTalk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he is not willing to fix the problem then its obvious your in a bad relationship but atleast try to approach the problem before breaking up with him.
1010642
Talk to him and let him know how you feel about his double standards. Let him know that you don't appreciate being disrespected and if he won't change, you can always leave and find a better guy that will show and give you the respect you deserve.
875355
he is insecure and wants you to chase him. DONT! let him come to you. if you chase him it just makes him think that your a punching bag who will take a mans crap and its ok to be rude....
850123
this reminds me of my relationship.. it's hectic. give him some time.. you already apologized to him. Tell him to call you whenever he feels like talking to you. GIve him some time you already said sorry so that's good that you've accepted your error.. but yea goodluck... try not to disrespect each other.. once you disrespect each other then it's really hard to work things out... and remember everyone has arguments... just be straight foward with him and tell him that you already apologized to him and to please not be in a bad mood... communication is the key! goodluck hopefully he's not moody anymore... and ask him why he's moody maybe something else was making him moody :P