How can i forget my ex gal friend. I also have a kid with her. the kid is 3 months old now?
112689
well i dont think u can forget about her cuz u got a kid wit her. but just let her know u dont want a relationship with her and that ur just gonna be there for the baby and that is it watever relationship yall had is gone. but just because u dont want her no more dont miss out on your babys life. stay for the baby cause the baby does not deserve it.
1024873
try to talk to her/him as much as possible keep in touch with her/him\nlet them know you miss 'em
859558
You have to remember "there's a reason why exes are exes". I'm sure you remember why you broke up and what went wrong with the relationship. Remind yourself.\n\nKeep contact with her to a minimum - be polite but don't get involved in long conversations.\n\nOf course, if you're going to run into her socially, you could bring along a female friend (it doesn't have to be someone you're dating). That way she gets the idea that you've moved on and are taken, which kind eliminates the situation...
399221
You are hurt, and feel betrayed by a person that said she was your friend. To you, when she said she was your friend, it meant for the rest of your life, through thick and thin. Her interests have changed, along with her address. She now lives an hour away. Unfortunately, people, and circumstances change. Life goes on, and my advice is, find other young mothers like yourself, near where you live, and develop friendships with them. You will always care about your friend, but you must find new ones. Good luck. I wish the best for you.
1181508
forget her and find another one
1118428
baby girl, those are harsh words to say. i'm sure you wish to take it back and have a do-over. but you're right. any friends of mine that treat me like dirt; i would simply ignore that person. it's for the best baby girl. just deal with the sorrow for a while. it will pass.
163197
forget aboutit... forget maria.. \n\nyou can wait . til your friend & maria ia over
138991
Well, I just left the guy that I was with.  At first I had a really hard time dealing with him.  He made my life miserable and he f'd up a lot of opportunities that I had.  I hated him so much, but I practiced a lot of restraint and didn't let my anger take over the situation because we had a child together.\nIt sucks that she is being so hateful toward you, especially since you have a child together and you'll always have to deal with each other.\nI do not know what happened between the two of you, but here is what I would suggest if you really want to help things smooth out between the two of you so that you can sucessfully co-parent together.  I would say:\nI am sorry for the things that happened between us, that things did not work out, and I respect that you have hard feelings and that you are angry with me.  I want to give you the space that you need to work through this and I will be willing to talk if you need to.\n\nThen from there, you really have to be willing to hear her out and don't interupt her when she tells you how she feels about you or what happened, don't try to justify anything, just let her vent.  It will help her to move on.  You guys are obviously not going to be friends anytime soon, but that's not the point, just make sure there is ample opportunity to discuss anything child related and leave it at that\n\nMost likely she is so mean because she is hurt that the relationship is ended. She resents you and with time it will hopefully get better, but unfortunatly there are women out there who never let it go and the best thing to do is to let them think they are right.  Remember, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned...\nJust be the best father you could be, your kid is all that really counts anymore.\nDon't let her drag you into arguements about anything because if things get nasty, anything you say could later be brought up against your nature if you go to court over custody.\nBe the better person.
994239
damn son!! you can write. that's the problem about love from 1 side only. nothing good could come out from it. i guess you'd heard about time will heal all wounds. in your case it will take longer than usual. keep yourself busy. join an activity. trow away any things that reminds you of her. have a good cry. and try not to stay @ the same place as you both once shared. and why do you still consider her as a saint. she's a ho. face it and call her that. you'll feel better.
344525
This sound so familiar, just stop your self from being alone and don't look or touch anything that is connected with her, and do things you like ( sports, games, hanging out with friends ) You will not forget her but at least you will not think as much on her, trust me I've been there.
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!
449071
well....if u've been goin wit him 4 3weeks then just break it with him......tell him that u can't c him nemore....u just wanna be friends.....if he doesn't kno about ur 4yr. old tell him that u want ur ex-boy friend back because he's the father and u think ur child should be able to kno his/her own father and get 2 c him.....i kno this because my mom and dad split when i was lil and i never knew wat my real father was like because i stayed wit my mom all the time.....so i hope i helped u out....best of luck
177622
The game playing has to STOP!! The two of you need to sit down together and talk without yelling just talk about everything and then try and decide what is the best for the both of you! It a serious matter you have a child involved and need to figure it out but please don't get back together just because you have a daughter because if you and your ex wife aren't happy its going to cause alot of problems and its going to be a real bad environment for everyone! My closet friend is going through this right now I have so many friends that are in the same situation, You have to remember that you as a person deserves to be happy! You and your ex need to work it out so you can see your daughter more no matter what happens because she is the most important person RIGHT NOW!!! You can always try counseling maybe you and your ex could go work together not against each other! GOOD LUCK i hope that i helped
785250
......get over it for a start - in the nicest way possible of course - stop dwelling on stuff you'll only upset yourself more!\n\nIf she wants to be petty then just leave her to it, once the novelty of her has worn off then your old friend will probably come back, but keep in touch and just be normal. But mabye look for some new friends.
287063
Um, you can keep in touch with her like a friend, think of any of your friends , how do you keep in contact with them? Do the same thing.\n\nBut if yor feelings are still fresh and strong, try not to talk to her in a long time, keep busy, after a few months, you will begin to cool down. Everytime you want to talk to her, think of how she feels and remind yourself that she does not want to come back to you.\n\nHave you imagined how it would be like if she came back? Trust me it will be never be the same  knowing that she once wanted to leave you. You will never be sure about her or her feelings again.\n\nSo let the healing begin. I have been there , so I know what am talking about. And what helps is that you two can still talk.\n\nSo do not speak to her like for a month, then may be call her after and then do the same after a month. But keep busy during this time, do the things you love the most. Hang out with your friends more.\n\nBut if you keep talking to her, your healing will be delayed.\n\nHope that helps. I know what you are going through but you will come through. Good luck.
519015
How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
202926
OUCH. \nWow that sucks. Yeah if she is dating someone else already then she should have had enough time to put some things together for your child to have. I would go about it gently so as not to pi** her off, where then your child may not get anything, but I would really try to maybe talk to her and say, you know, *insert child's name here* really misses their dad and it would really mean a lot to them if they could have some things to hold on to to remember them with. That's a tough one, sorry I don't have any brilliant advice.