i broke up with my gf and am now dating other girl shes now pg is it wrong to still have feelings 4 my x gf?
105956
First off, if you still had feelings for an ex you should have never broke it off with her in the first place. Second having a child is no piece of cake for anyone and is a big responsibility, but if you both stick together it will seem less scarier for the both of you and will make you both better people in the end.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
757632
YES  YOU ARE WRONG. LET THIS GIRL STAY IN THE PAST\nWHERE SHE BELONG. YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THEN\nHER. AND YOU SHOULD LET IT GO. AND MOVE ON. OTHER\n'WISE SHE WILL HURT YOU AGAIN.
964660
What I would do,  -and what I think you should do-, is take it very slow with the new girl involved. Honestly, it probably wasn't the best idea for you to get involved with her, but I wouldn't say to completely break it off now - that isn't realistic, and it would just hurt her because she would get your feelings twisted. \nYou have baggage. You can't make genuine transitions from person to person while carrying baggage; it'll hinder you. You'll always carry what was left from the old relationship into the new one, so forth, and so forth, and it isn't fair to the present person involved that your own issues are unsolved. It isn't a problem that you still think of your ex; it's actually very normal. You've completed an important step by acknowledging that your last relationship couldn't work, so now just prove to yourself why you deserve to move on. \nEver heard the song 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu?......that one goes out to you, lol.... Good Luck and God Bless.
73370
gooo...im a girl so i can relate my feelings to theirs...it would hurt if you'll tell your gf that you love somebody else...but if you'll let girl b wait for you,she might look fo another guy to be wiht her... so you have to choose one....if i were you,i would choose the girl who loves me most..
88350
just say u still have feelings for her even if u try to hide them by being cool or showing off. and say that you cant believe you everlet a girl like her break up with you (or that you cant beliieve you broke up with a girl like her!) good luck man! im proud of u for trying to get back with her! y cant all men be like u?!!
1005379
No, neither. You're just holding onto the past. Obviously, you still have feelings for your ex. Time to let go, push her and any feelings away. Be with your sweetie, show her how much you love her. Because if you hold onto those feelings, they will get in the way of the relationship down the road. Set the past free.
944919
Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
1001469
If you love your ex and have strong feelings for her ,Then tell your present gf how you feel and go with the girl you want to be with the most.
314485
To be honest if you had any feelings for any of them then you wouldn't of put yourself if this situation to start off with. I think you should break up with all of them and find someone out there who you'd never cheat on!
1165491
Jealousy is a character flaw, I personally think that you are a mature person , whom has moved past  the initial bad feelings, this is a good thing. Your new girlfriend needs an attitude adjustment and a reality check, she is your current love interest. The only reason she told you to break off your relationships with your Exes, was to try to control you.
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
670954
Because your boyfriend spent the day with another girl is not grounds for breaking up. Dont jump to conclusions before you have had an opportunity to talk to your boyfriend.  Communication is the key.  It may turn out that this girl is a friend and there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends who are girls, by the same token there is nothing wrong with you having friends that are boys.
1021323
"It didn't go over well", huh ?  You mean that SHE broke up with you and you dabbled around with someone else, then you two got back together and she is ticked off ?  if that's what you are saying, then she is merely not in control of the Green-Eyed Monster.  You see, what she meant by breaking up with you was "See ?  See how much you will miss me ?  See how empty your life is without me ?" ....she didn't mean that you two were really "broken up" - it was just a test for you to see how important SHE was to you and when you went on to someone else,  - WELL - that wasn't exactly in her plans.  And she is hurt and she is angry.\n\nWell, you are not responsible for either emotion that she is feeling, although it would not hurt if you understood them.  She did this to herself.  You can empathize that she feels bad that you were able to so quickly "replace" her (because that is what she feels....and, to tell the truth....that is what happend.)  We human beings don't like to think that we are easily replaceable.  But, indeed, we are.  (Ah yes, for all our talk about "soulmates" the truth of the matter is that many people can be our "soulmate" and that means it is not quite so much destiny as timing.)  She may well have expected you to pine away after her and when you did not, she is angry.\n\nLife is all about growing up - all the way until we die.  You both have gone through an episode that should have taught you both some lessons - different lessons than the other could have learned.  Now you are back together and going forward, hopefully not backward.  (She is looking backward, by the way.)\n\nAnd, as a side note, this idea of full disclosure - telling new girlfriends or boyfriends about your past - not a good idea.  Not particularly respectful of the people in the relationships in your past.  The same holds true for interim relationships - you weren't "with" your current girlfriend during the time you were broken up, you should not share details about whatever you did in your interim relationship.  It is not her business and it is disrespectful to the other girl.  (None of this "oh, if you loved me you would share with me" - see what it got you ?  She's pissed.)\n\nAnd no, it wasn't cheating.
663307
You can't worry about hurt feelings.  Mine were hurt when my girlfriend broke up with me, but she played it straight, I knew where I stood, she was in the right and it was the best for her.  Just be truthful as to why you are breaking it off.
470139
u should stop doing wht ur doing w/that new girll.. if u still wanna be with ur gf.. cuz its just not right!!imagine ur gf doing the same thing to u.. how would u feel??
507594
Haha, good question. I did that for quite a while with an exgirlfriend. It was awkward sometimes, but it was worth it at the end of the day. I think bottom line, if you still have the benefits she is still into you anyway. Pretend like you are dating, not in a relationship. That way you shouldnt get jealous and you should be in a situation that will leave things less likely to become awkward. If there are no benefits left and you feel like she is trying to make things awkward then move on and find new people to hang with, she is probably just trying to make you jealous in this case.