How can i get over my inferiority complexed status of mind..?? Please help..!!?
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status and self-image is ALL SELF APPOINTED-\n\n*STOP caring about what other people think\n\n*ALWAYS think highly of yourself\n\n*NEVER accept second class behavior from YOURSELF OR ANYONE ELSE\n\n*NEVER feel the need to explain or make excuses for ANYTHING IN LIFE,take full responsability for your choices and actions\n\n*ALWAYS do the HIGH CLASS/STATUS thing-ALWAYS!\n\n*make MORE DECISIONS and make them OFTEN\n\n*ALWAYS CARRY yourself like $1,000,000-people cue in on the VALUE you give to yourself and treat you accordingly,do the SAME to others\n\n*ELIMINATE ALL second class and poor behaviors and thoughts\n\n*NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR ISSUES OR INSECURITIES,people are way too self-absorbed and worried about themselves to care or pay attention you.It may seem like everyone is judging you and that your insecurities ares shinning through..but in reality..nobody cares! you are your biggest critic and worst enemy,it's best to accept things the way they are and yourself the way you are-and if you don't like something about yourself..improve it!\n\nin order to change the way you feel, you must first change the way you think,it helps to change the way you think by changing what you do! \nGood luck!
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Weakness is all in your head. Become more self confident, and you will be a stronger person.
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Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
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you should get over it. if youre the sort of person to seek personal advice somewhere like this then you probably are inferior and their attitude is justified
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be confident in who you are.dnt let the b@stards get you down.always try to be better than the next person.if you cant be better then be the same as them.
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Re-evaluate your self-esteem for starters. \n\nWhat do you mean by too big? If they are within normal limits, as in...not elephantitis or something...then you really need to focus on your ego.
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well freind , the first thing u must do is believing ur self, if u dont have self confidence then nothing can help u,well i have a good idea for u ,if u can afford a book written by harry lorren ,titled memory techniques u will really be benifitted. well my suggestion is that\n"practice makes man perfect" and this will take u to the top of the world
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stop thinkin tht u r same as she, u r unique...so jst built up yur own qualities so tht world cant match with it n be confident......ok frnd.\nBEST OF LUCK.
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be a good listener first.\nthink positively and act accordingly.
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Think BEFORE you react.  When you feel that twinge of jealousy creeping upon you, breathe in deeply and try to clear your mind.  Try to take your thoughts to another place, or another time in your life where you felt happiness and satisfaction like never before, i.e. maybe as a kid at an amusement park.  This is a little trick called thought transference, you take your mind away from the situation at hand and think about something else to remove the thoughts you don't wish to think of from your mind.  Good Luck!!!
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oh i feel so sorry for you.\nFirst, blinking your eye once is a while is good but can be annoying.Try and tell your close friends about this and ask them to talk to you about life and the near future.That should keep you busy.You should get over it.Troy and build up a will power where slowly you'll see resluts.Talk to people.Be heard.Express Yourslef!\nI hope my theory works! That is all i can do to help!
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I encourage YOU to get to know the real you.  Find something you are passionate about and great at.  Begin doing that thing.  Are you a good singer?  Consider joining a choir.  Are  you great at math?  Join the math club, or sign up to be a tutor.  When you begin pursuing whatever it is that really drives you, you will meet people who are interested in the same things.  Most likely, they'll notice the real you first, and then your personality will shine through.  I also encourage you to laugh at yourself.  So what you are "ditzy".  You can't change your personality!  You sound like a fun girl.  Don't harp on yourself...  I do stupid things all the time, but I have so many friends because I know how to laugh at myself.  Good luck!!
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If you try not to compare yourself with others, then you will fins the goodness in yourself. When you evaluate your life, do not evaluate it by the means of material things. When you refelct on your life... do just that. Reflect on YOUR life, not your life compared with the CEO next door who has 2 yachts, perfect children, and a beach house in Cabo. If you also do charity work for those who are less fortunate, you will feel better about yourself and your life.\n\nTo aviod being dissasified, again, do not compare! \n\nAnd, by the way, I'm sure you have a wonderful life with many things to be happy for. As long as you have food in your cupboard, a roof over your head and clothes on your back, you're doing better than most of the world. \n\nDid you know that if you have spare change some where (ie: cup, drawer, car change thingy holder, beside.... etc etc) then you are in the top 10% of the worlds wealthiest people!??!!?\n\nYea.. thats what I thought.
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This will be hard but if you put your mind to it you can...just think of yourself as higher than the situations you come across...try to not get so upset over things that won't significantly effect your life...view yourself as a treasure that if people don't like you (or are snobs around you) than they are missing out...\n\nRemember though that being sensitive is O.K.  The real problem is if you are over dramaticly sensitive.  Good luck and remember this will take a little time so don't give up!!!
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Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(:
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ask urself: why do i feel inferior? did someone from my past or some kind of event made me react so and let me to come to the conclusion that i wasn't worthy?\nYou define your life, no one else. If someone or something kind of made you think that you were inferior, it does not mean that you are; that sounds right, right? Because that's the truth, you just have to believe, and you can believe that by challenging your current thoughts, what you tell yourself during the day, by pushing pause and looking at the facts instead of your personal beliefs, which usually are not true. You only think you are inferior because a tape has been playing in ur head for so long; u've been telling urself that u r inferior, which has led to a clouded perception b/c you think that that lie is the truth, but it's not. Since u have a habit of thinking negative thoughts, you can get into the habit of positive, factual thinking. A habit usually takes about 21-30 days to incorporate (according to what i've read). Yeah. And I guess that's all really. It probably sounds hard for you right now, but if u believe and get into that habit, u can change. It's really up to you. You can look inside for the answer; when you do, don't think about what other people think of u, instead, think about what U think of u. "Do I really think I am inferior, regardless of what others think"? You can look at it this way, that u are not ur mind (that's what i tell myself), b/c the mind has its way of doing things with electrical impulses and messages and all that stuff, so if you just change your negative-thinking habits, you can change your views and perceptions and you will start to pull urself out of the hole u fell into it urself. Hoped this has helped. Peace bro
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I know I do not have all the answers that you need. But I hope that somehow my ideas would help.\n\nLoneliness is all in the mind. We can choose to be lonely or otherwise. Instead of sulking in a corner thinking of life's myseries and heartaches, why not boost your self esteem by thinking about the good things that happened to you  (and around you) and the good things that you expect to happen.\n\nGo out with friends and amuse yourself. Talk to people whom you trust and tell them about what's bothering you. Or get away for a while, alone - commune with nature, meditate, talk to God (or whoever you believe is the highest being). You'll realize that there are still beautiful things to be thankful for. Afterall, problems are there to be faced head on. \n\nDo not live with loneliness. Deal with it. Instead of living with it, come out a winner over your problems/frustrations or whatever causes this feeling of loneliness. You should not allow problems/negative ideas influence your life and take away the happiness that you deserve. You should take control.