How to find a wife in her thirties or so, who believes in reason and logic?
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Start looking for widowed or divorced college professors?
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screw american law.  You don't need a peice of paper from anyone to prove to you YOU are married and want a lifetime commiment from the person you love the most, just tell her she's your wife and hold a ceremony somewhere the both of you find attractive and and share your thoughts on the future and express your love for one another.  And don't forget to continue this thinking in every day for the rest of your life.  Cause thats what it is all about.
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Check Yahoo Personals and Match.com as well as many other websites for singles.  They offer you search options such as interests and also location.\n\nThe rich ones are in the stages of bankruptcy now as they thought they ended up with real women who then went on to spend their money and never gave a dime.
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Finding a decent guy isn't that easy. I'm speaking from experience here. I'm 25 and in less than a year will finally be finished with my Ph.D., and have found that most guys are untrustworthy. But I do know that there are a very few decent ones out there. Maybe try looking in different places, like museums, church, the theater, etc. If you ever want to chat about this or anything else feel free to drop me a line
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dont want wife pg in her 40.s
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The best age is mid twenties to mid thirties.  I feel women are more mature and may have college out of the way. They may be married and have a more secure financial future.
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First, & I don't want this to sound mean in the least, this is not the type of forum to find a mate. If you want to find someone via the Internet, you'll have much better luck with a dating service.\n\nSecond, again, not being mean, if you are looking for a quick fling, then your question (or lack thereof) will probably get you just that but you will also run the risk of a lot of borrowed problems as well. After all, how do you know that the person on the other end of the keyboard is who or what they say they are? True, in time you can find out but how are you going to handle it if you find that the person you've been talking to is one of the "old" people you mention?\n\nMy best suggestion for you is to get out there & get involved in some hobbies, whatever they might be. This will put you in an arena with like-minded people with whom you will already have something in common.\n\nStill, it sounds to me from your details that what you are really interested in is nothing more than a cute, young thing; sorry, but this is the way your details have come off to me. If this is the case, just hit the bars & you'll find someone to warm your bed. If you are looking for something more, however, you are severely limiting yourself by talking so much about younger ladies & calling those of or about your age "old". It would make me wonder why your marriage of 25 years ended...maybe you found her too old for you suddenly? If this happened to be the case, how do you think women will react to learning this?\n\nI'm not trying to be hurtful in any way; I'm trying to honestly explain to you how your above approach might look to women. Me? I'm very taken & you wouldn't be interested anyway since I'm 40 :)\n\nGood luck, whichever route you end up taking...
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no free websites that i'm aware of. If your wife is suspicious of someone for a good reason, you maybe able to go down to your local police station and have them check. If she's just being nosey (which all of like to do) then you may have to throw down a few bucks.
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It really depends on who you want to convince...if it's someone you love/relative...usually the way to convince is to back off and show that you are not demanding but taking their wants into consideration (it really works in reverse).  However, if it's a professional or academic person that you want to convince, logic works best in your arguments. See to it that your logic has no flaws.  In business, you can convince people to your point of view if you let them see how the proposal/arrangement works to benefit their interest.\n\nWhen it comes to personal beliefs though, it becomes much harder to convince other people to adopt the same so you have to check on how committed they are to their beliefs or religion first.  As they say, you cannot seduce a happy man.
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The maze of logic my Fiance employs during an arguement.
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That's not a question.  Even with a question mark.\n\nGood luck finding a wife. If I happen to come across any likely candidates in the next few days, I'll be sure to give them your CV, which I have printed multiple copies of.
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Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
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Please read the classic Cinderella Complex.  It helps explain  a lot of the urges women have regarding marriage including the irrational ones.  Your plan sounds sensible in that you want to do a few things, experience your own life, develop your own line of work (very important that a woman has her own source of income as this also means emotional freedom and independence and self worth)...and there IS plenty of time to make a decision that does affect decades of your life.  Err on the side of hesitation always especially on emotinal issues.
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I learned long ago, you can never win an argument with the woman you love, period. Even if you end up proving you are right, you will pay dearly for it in the long run. Learn to say, "yes dear" or "you know what, I agree" and you will be a much happier man.
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Don't know what a troll is, don't really care.  My husband and I started dating 27 years ago at these exact ages.  We've been married 20 of those 27 years.  There were the obvious problems of interests, experiences, goals and family.  However, if one is serious about a future, remember that the age difference does not grow chronologically, but exponentially.  You are both very young now but as she grows older (say to your current age), the gaps will grow larger.  The differences will be marked, not only in those mentioned above, but in emotional and physical health.  Something to ponder.  In the meantime, have a good time, respect and take care of each other and keep your business very private around the workplace.
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Do you believe in cats? Because when you're 50 or 60, a cat in your lap is going to be the only warm cuddly thing you're going to come home to after all the men in your life move on because they're tired of waiting for you to commit to them. A marriage is only as good as the two people who are in it. If they're not willing to be faithful, then they are idiots. You ask if someone in this whole vast planet can profess that he/she has been truthful to his/ her lover? YES! I CAN! And so can thousands of couples who live and love their spouses every day. Who don't go out and screw around, because they know how special their marriage relationship is. How could I prove it? You know what? On this one you're right! I can't; other than daring any woman, other than my wife, to prove that I have been intimate with her. It'll never happen, and consequently there is no proof because there has never been a time when I have messed up on my wife. So there's no proof, because there's nothing TO prove.\n  Who hurt you so bad that you lost faith in mankind? Or what rotten example of a failed marriage are you using to justify your position? Loose these losers, and come into the light of love and committment. Go visit a nursing home, or a church, or somewhere else where you can see elder couples who have been married for 40,50, or more years. Talk to them, and ask them how they stayed married so long? To a couple, I'll bet they say things like Trust, and trustworthyness, love, companionship. and all those boaring old words you don't seem to believe in. Then reconsider your position.\n Depending on your religious views, if any, swearing to God really is optional. Marriage is making a committment to another person. A lot of people like the idea of their God sanctioning their marriage. But after all is said and done, it's your spouse you have to wake up to every morning, and it's he/ she you need to swear your allegiance to.
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Well, I'm not going to lie and say it's easy, but when I was 31 I was just getting divorced from my first wife, and dating a girl I met in a Burger King (of allplaces) for a while. That relationship ended kind of mutually.\n\nThen I met my current wife online. And here I am. By the way, did I mention that this marriage involved emigrating from England?\n\nAnyway, I didn't rest on my laurels for one minute. As soon as I was free and clear from wife #1 I was out every weekend going to my favorite club and meeting people all the time. I  just relaxed and had fun. It's true that when you try too hard it kind of shows and I guess it's offputting to some extent. In both cases, the girl and my wife, I wasn't trying at all. It just came to me.\n\nI suggest finding a few night spots that you like. Go with friends or go alone, it's all the same. Just enjoy yourself and someone will just show up and change your life.