What would your say about sex and love? which one lasts and which doesnt?
111148
Love is a beautiful fairy tale. I know I fell for the fantasy. Once you grow up and realize how bad it can hurt you, Love fades. Sex on the other hand is good every single time I know from experience. I hate my husband but we still have sex. Hey I got needs too besides the bed is the only place we never had problems, why ruin it because I don't love him anymore. Besides I am pretty sure that during sex I am loving something about him.So for that short hour and a half we can call it making love,whatever by morning the love will be gone. I garantee that. But I'll still have a smile on my face for the rest of the day especially if I know I can so call "love" him again later ha ha ha ha that's just my oppinion.
927039
Love will last when you realise it is not a static thing. Love is dynamic - it changes and grows and evolves. Generally, "Love" fails because people expect it to stay exactly the same as it was on Day One. At the risk of being cliche, you need to work at 'love' if you want it to last...
830785
Love is a much deeper, stronger emotion than just sex. Now sex with the person you love is a different story...thyere's nothing better.
1176847
some may say yes..other will say go lower...me just hearing the words i love you works for me...plus i can cook, and heck a relationship based on sex last for how long  5sec.....
461528
Love is truly CARING about a person, you think of them before yourself, and it comes over a longer period of time. After establishing a close and solid relasionship/friendship with a person, and reveals itslef slowly as you get to know each other. Love tends to find you in unexpected ways, sometimes its there all along but you cant see it. you wont find it by going out looking for it. It has nothing to do with sex, and it could (if it had to) survive without it. although to really fancy them madly is of course neccessary to make a success of a relasionship! Lust is great too! its when you feel like you are in love but you could have absolutely nothing in common with the person, or not even know them at all! It is animal attraction and is awesome but it takes over your powers of reason. Dangerous stuff. Love is reasonable and caring and makes you feel really calm and happy rather than excited and hot! Of course if you can find love with someone you also lust after that is perfect!!
996476
same could be said why sex is so important to you people after marriage...whats the difference? ok, obviously no one wants to be with a "whore" but then again i think that people would want to be with someone that is experienced, i know i would. Cause lets face it, peoples sex lives play a very important role in marriage today, 73% of marriages fail due to this and/or they are deeply troubled because spouses are not faithful and loyal to their signifficant other due to inexperience or unfullfillment in that department. I for one, would like to know that my souse can not only satisfy me spiritually, emotionally but also physically. now, with that said, there are those that feel this way, and then there are those who are extremely active. to each his own but thats where i stand. Hopefully my answer has shed some light on the opposite side of you acusations.
514194
People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
857422
They confuse lust with love.  Lust only lasts a year or two.  Sex can still be awesome (VERY), but it's not the same chemical rush that you have in a new relationship.\n\nSeems like most of the time someone says they "fell out of love", they fell into someone else's bed first.
206804
love is the mos important and beautiful feeling and sex is just a outcome, So without love, sex is nothing
685045
It is a lot smaller part than you might think.  You should never hang love on just one thing, what happens if that one thing has a problem, do you throw the love out?  Sex is just one small thing that determines love or not.  And sex is the one thing that actually gets better once you are in love.
788848
hmm... there's no real answer. it depends on both partners--their sexual appetite, their idea of a relationship (serious, long-term, short-term, fun, etc.).
86802
for me. love is sacrifice, understanding, and caring. if couple have these kind of characteristics, their love will last for ever.
195599
okay like i know im only 14 but i think SEX is just like there is no relationship between the two people and there just doing it to be doing it but Love is like youve been with that person for a LONG TIME and you really care about them and have feelings for them !
208528
That is easy...Love and Romance...Sex and Romance...Romance Your Your Lover With Feeling and Thoughts From Your Heart...Use Words Like Love...Use HallMark Cards...Use Flowers...Use Sex...And There All Kinds Of Differant Ways To Have Sex...Styles and Positions...Oral Seems To Be A Favorate For Most Men and Women...Set The Mood With Candles,Dinner,Bath,Low Lights...And Do All These Sugjestions Regularie Not Routinely...
609815
When two people are in love and want to express that love physically is making love.  Sex is just the physical aspect of it. There are ways of being intimate without even having sex.  So to put it plainly...making love involves intimate emotions while sex is just physical contact between 2 people.
1153450
oh, love but definitely... I detest sex... I know, I'm the only freak around, right? Every time I have sex (married, unmarried..) I get shafted (eh, not how that sounds.) But love?! I'm in love with love! I desire it above anything else on the planet.. I dwell on it.. I dream it.. I desire it.. I want someone to WANT me.. to be wanted?! the epitome.. (sigh) Sex is for animals.. love? love is for man.
395815
love is sharing,caring and understanding each other and yes sex is an extension of love if the poeple involed are in love...otherwise itz juz a way to fulfill ur physical needs