How do I get a boyfriend at school?
100616
start w/ a crush and find out who he likes.
949840
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
874845
Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
433935
Hi! Though there are plenty of people to socialize in school, you have to remember that you go there for a purpose...and that is to learn! You don't want to be a dumb-dumb when you get older right? Not to be mean or anything, but life right now may seem easy to you (that's why you're concentrating your energy on getting a boyfriend--it's normal I know, but there are better things in life to worry about...trust me!) When you get older you realize that life is hard...you need to really take advantage of the opportunities you have, while you have them...As you get older you learn the burden of being on your own, of having to compete with others who want to step all over you! Man, I can't stress this enough! Learn to love school, get acquainted with your books...fall in love with each and every subject that you study because that knowledge is going to make the difference when you need it!!!
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
852626
Well, if you know someone thats a senior in your school, tell him/her about this guy, and let this senior that you know ask him to get an ice cream or something or eat with him for lunch, sit with them talk to them , just be yourself and believe in yourself, trust me it will work.
714421
i'm a tom boy and i always seem to get a lot of guys, be a little flirty but subtle and not obvious, be a really nice and respectful person, be their friend and flirt so they know there's room for more than friendship, i love having guy friends so work on that first.  You've got to be confident cause that what attracts them, if you act like all you want is a bf then you're not going to find the right one.
649558
First off your not a looser.  All you can do is be a good friend to him.  You'll see....when school is out things change.  He may not be as popular the next year.  Your friendship however can only grow and maybe develop into something more.  Good luck.  And....don't talk bad /down about yourself.  You must think possitive.  You have alot to offer some guy and they will be lucky to have you.  DO YOU HEAR ME!
614042
Everyone took my answers. Darn!\n\n\nThe best way I believe to get a boyfriend is to make friends, meet people, or just ask guys that you like and tell them something sweet. Most men are the same so whatever a woman tells them is usually the right thing.\n\nJust be sure not to give yourself away too easily.\n\nLook for personality first. Then looks. Don't be too controlling. But don't be too easy either.\n\nOr, don't look...and they will come to you.\n\nI think the question should be, "What is the reason for wanting a boyfriend?"
531513
go to a water park and flirt, go to a regular park for a picnic in the picnic area and see if any one is there that catches your eye, go to school functions may be single guys looking for love, go to a concert and mingle!
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
573120
Just wait, concentrate on school, and have fun with your friends. Soon enough you'll find a good bf. :)
63719
Get his attention.  You cannot force anyone to like you.  However, if you are not visible he will not know you exist.\n\nSit in the front, be showered and well groomed, and get good grades.  The GOOD ones will notice!
749399
my answer to everything....get close to his friends...his friends will know if you can talk to them they will tell you....and don't be shy if he's in some of your classes ask him for help w/ homework or something so that you have to spend time together (alone) casually but it could evolve...
67162
Make sure that you don'r just go for looks. If you do then you will be disapointed. Sometimes people are just that looks. You should usually look for a close guy friend they are usually really wanting to be closer than a friend, but they are to afraid to ask. The most popular boy is usually the worst choice. Remember that popularity means absolutely dick after school is over. Try to find someone who is smart and fun....