Is it wrong to have fantasies?
111590
All good answers here, Episode 1497's answer is what I wanted to say. I think you can have them, but if married you should never act on them, unless with spouse.
64414
For some, it can improve it, but that's very rare. The fantasies, however, can provide lots of stimulating adventures of your own, without having to get other people involved.
105454
Stop blameing bad things that happen on your fantasies and imagination.  When are you going to take responsibility for your own life?
1187136
there is really no "normal" when it comes to sex everyone has different fantasies and desires.\n\nAs long as you enjoy it who cares, it's your fantasy it's not other peoples business.
111864
There is nothing wrong with you- in fact, it is quite natural. Assuming you are speaking of some form of S&M. Most men in todays modern era are taught to supress these types of feelings, labelling them as too feminine - less of a man. I disagree as do many psychologists and those that study human behavior. Throughtout history, these feeling and desires have been accepted. There were even marriage manuals written to help men explore this part of themselves for emotional and spiritual growth(it is even explored in the Kama Sutra). Human exist on a level of power play in all aspects of life, there is no reason it would be excuded in this situation. you are fine, and incredibly normal. I'm more proud that you are being true to yourself and acknowledging this as opposed to denial and suppression. Be aware of the differance between power play and abuse, there is sometimes a thin line- but- I do incourage you to explore this more as I feel all men should (and women).
501995
Yes I have too. There is nothing wrong with it. It's just a fantasy and there is nothing wrong with thinking about it while with your partner. As long as its just thinking about it. Some ppl may not like it - if you ACT on them thoughts. But just as long as you keep it to yourself, then enjoy it. Just be careful.....don't go screaming the other person's name. That may not go over very well.  So just relax and have fun :D
934961
Not at all! Human beings pass through stages that are obviously not in our true sexual nature...It is only that:  fantasies and please do not act them out...that's when regrets and emotional problems start setting in...After all, if we acted out every fantasy that occurr during our lifetime, we would probably be in jail, right? We are curious by nature and it's natural to wonder what this fantasy would be like. However, keep yourself wondering. Do not pretend that you can resolve your fantasies through real- life situations. It will end up only hurting you. Good Luck.
570208
You can be your own partner (you know, the word starting with M!!). Or you can imagine that you have a partner. Fantasy is a powerful tool. Or you can get out there and find yourself a real partner.
802411
It isn't necessarily wrong, but you should definately consider what you have done as an example for future occurences. You shouldn't feel wrong about it unless you are still very young, but to feel guilty about is a possible feeling if you feel that it was not the right time to do it.
403682
It is a daddy complex. I have it too, not hairy men but what ever floats your boat. there is absolutly nothing wrong with this, after all it is a fantasy.
3116
You very well could be - and there is nothing wrong with that.  Just do what feels right as long as it does not harm anyone else (human or animal.)  You'll figure it out yourself over time and go with whatever feels good to you.
666187
That is far too little info posted to make that determination...but if you feel the fantasies are interfering with your everyday life or are keeping you from pursuing healthy realities, speak with a professional. They will help you work out your doubts.
996676
fantasys are just that. dont worry over something like that.  at some point go over both your fantasys and hers see where it gets you.
524173
hey take a chill pill.... its absolutely normal to fantasize bout another girl.... dont feel bad about it. be aware of your sexuality and preferences. live the way u wanna live.... n dream wat u want.... u live only once... so live life to the fullest.
1066771
I believe that it is cheating when one fantasies about others. If one lust in their mind for some one other than their spouse, it's adultry.
890342
Are you crazy, I'm married and I think I'm having a fantasy about you right now! It's only natural to think about other things, or other people. That's the great thing about imagination.
46721
If you are sure its not too serious And you dont plan on taking action on the situation(like breaking up with your boyfreind over him)Fantasizing is A healthy thing~within limits.Some things though are better left unsaid~If you tell your boyfreind it would probably hurt him~whether he would show it or not!