How do I tell a  friend he's being a baby without hurting his feelings?
101220
When he is acting like a baby, just tell him that he needs to be more mature. Don't mention the baby part.
334607
tell him its not his baby
1023840
First of all, 19!? Ur still young and you've already had a baby. Yikes!!! Slow down. I say just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't respect that then...whatever.
557753
Well, a tough situation for you, but you should tell him that you are pregnant with his child only because it's fair for him to know. If he chooses to be there in support of the child that's great!!! If he is not, then you have to decide for the child what's going to be best for him/her and if that means getting money from this guy then that is what it will take. Good Luck!!!!!
238870
First of all, winning his heart has nothing to do with having that baby.  To do with winning his heart.  I am assuming that you know him well enough to know what his feelings for you are.  If not just talk to him about it.  As for the baby I sure hope that the decision you made to keep it was for the right reasons and that you are prepared to raise it without this lad.  Don't mix the two together and start telling the truth and to hell with both of your mates or so called mates.
205905
get a friend to tell\n him
749311
one night you should tell him to take it easy, and you should cook like your favorite meal, and then pop the question.....make it a speech tell him "He's my homemaker, housewife and my everything when I get home from a long day of work. I manage a large portion of a company and have just recently been too sick to function. He has nursed me and been by my side the entire time, never leaving me for more than a few minutes at a time (he has to shower and go to the bathroom afterall.) We're a solid foundation together, and now that I'm feeling better (and I have a ring).. I want to do it." its very much from the heart i can tell, good luck sweety with everything and congrats on the baby!!
653283
I hope you know your friend well.  Some of us appreciate a friend who is there without being asked.  Some of us prefer to be left alone.\n\nDon't give me that pap about his being in a better place or that he is an angel now.  That doesn't help.  (Been there...)\n\nIt would be nice if three months down the road someone called just to talk.  Don't ask how am I doing...just talk.  Ask if I want to go out for a bite to eat.  Don't bring up the loss unless I start talking about it.  Don't tell me, "You'll feel better if you talk about it."  You don't have a clue.\n\nNo one can know how a mother feels when she loses a child, so don't act like a TV educated psychologist.  Just be there.
1127662
It's a colleague, not a friend, so I would just keep it very simple.......\n\n"Congratulations on your new beginning"
162303
You can tell him you don't want to hurt your relationship as friends.
1053637
you don't!! you lie and say it is the PRETTIEST baby you have ever seen!!! DO IT!!!  or say your sorry if you have already said their baby was ugly...you are kinda not smart for doing that.
124932
men take care of women all the time so as long as he is helpin around the house and that kinda stuff it's no biggy...as for the how do u tell him ur pregnant...well the bst way is to just tell him...or you can have dinner say "I'm pregnant, pass the potato's"
919963
You have a couple options.\n\n1.) You can continue to feel sad and bad and mad about it.\n2.) You can point out some of his short commings when he makes those comments.\n3.) You can accept the truth, If you are gaining a few pounds, you can say, yip, i'm gaining some weight, thats what happend when your prego. If your not gaining weight you can say. Sorry, but your mistaken, i'm not gaining, then move on.\n\nSticks and Stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. If someone calls me Stupid, or fat, etc... even if its someone that i love, it doesnt bother me. Because I KNOW its not true. If my wife calls me smelly when i get back from the gym or if i just smell, I still dont get offended if i do smell because its the truth. Truth is Truth. no point of feeling bad about it.\nThe bad part is that i am Male and you are Female, and we are wired differently. but i hope this helps!
238135
This decision is yours and yours alone. Yes, he can be there for the baby without witnessing the whole birth.I think I would feel the same way.its your decision, not, his.
133264
tell him as soon as possible tell him you didn't want to dissapoint him at a bad time, get it out in the open nice and quick you know like a band-aid (correction adhesive medical strip)
306813
The most important thing is to be honest. Tell him that you just don't feel the same way he does and you only see him as a friend. Don't be mean or rude about it, just tell him the truth. If you lie or try to say stuff like "it's not you, it's me" it'll just make him mad that you couldn't just tell him the truth. \n\nIf you're good enough friends, he should be able to accept that. Rejecting someone is never easy and you have to take their feelings into account. Just tell him the truth and be sincere.
670958
tell him...be honest with him...that is the best way!