how can i make my wife understand that i need to work here in japan so that we have a better future?
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Tough one.......if your wife hates Japan....what is more important at the end ? money or quality of living ?\nDon't know.....try to pinpoint the best in that culture.
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You did not say if your wife was there on a visa, nor the type of visa she was on if any.\n\nBy your question I have came to the conclussion that she is not a citizen of the UK, so to answer your question each  foreign person residing in the UK and desiring to work  there must have their own work permit.\n\nShe can not piggy back off your status.
688048
Your easiest entre to Japan would be to take an opportunity teaching English.  (Perhaps your breadth of language skills would allow you to teach other languages as well, but English is still in highest demand).  Check into some of the websites below.
847357
Give her a break, will you?  What does it matter to you anyway?  Maybe instead of concentrating on how to get her out of this country, you could help her get a visa to stay here.  We've got plenty of room...
928010
I hate to say this... but there's not much we can do. If the people you trust for every aspect of your well being tell you something, you'll believe it. Those kids don't have a chance until they become enlightened (which for many never happens). I'd just advice your wife to change her place of work because no amount of money or love for humankind should be enough to justify their behavior.
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Yes! Long distance relationships CAN work out! It is A LOT of hard work. I don't know what country you are from and what the customs are there, so I don't know how relevant or plausible my advice will be.\n\nAlways tell her your true feelings. Let her know your worries. Don't forget to tell her how much she means to you, OFTEN!\n\nAlways treat each other with honesty, trust, understanding, respect, and be willing to compromise and to communicate thoughts and feelings openly. This is the basic foundation of a relationship that both people need to work on to make it work, especially for a long distance relationship.\n\nIf you've both been waiting for each other six years, I don't think there's much to worry about. Once you have earned the money, go back and see her. Tell her and show her how much she means to you. Talk about both of your futures.\n\nFight for your relationship, but also be realistic. Sometimes no matter how much both of you care about each other, there are other things that get in the way, such as time and physical distance. Long distance relationships can work, depending on how willing both people are to put hard work into the relationship.
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be patient and let her work coz true love wait or if u cannot maintain a distant relashion ship organise how u are going to get a transfer and reunit with her.
519176
Rent a romantic foreign film in her language with subtitles so you can follow along. cook a popular (not too difficult) meal from her country yourself. borrow a cool romantic cd from her friends to play while you eat dinner(in her native tongue of course!) be with her immersed in her culture and she will make a great effort to communicate with you, even if her English is not that good because you will have shown a willingness to be with her on her terms.\nShe'll more than appreciate the effort on your part, and eventually, she will communicate that appreciation to you via the universal language of LUUUUUVE! good luck!
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My husband is from india and his friend's wife came over about a year ago. She doesn't like it bc she has to work here and she didn't there. I suppose it would be hard to start to work if your not used to it and then you suddenly have to do household chores like cooking that you didn't have to do in India. I think it would hard.
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Dear Jeff D,\nI think you haven't gotten any answers as of yet because maybe sending a nice email to Yahoo would lead you to the answer to this question.  Your question is really not for us to answer.  But if you don't have a way to see the weather where your wife is located just pray for an alternative means of feeling closer to your wife.
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We cannot. This country's wage scale must be turned around. Bush has worked for 6 years to make this country into a 2 tie wage system. You either make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year or less than 50k. This is their plan. We must increase the minimum wage and massively increase the taxes/tariffs on imports. The import car companies must be made to pay for making their products here if they are sending the money back overseas. WE WILL NOT SURVIVE THIS IF WE DON'T STAND NOW. You will be working for a Japanese owned company in the near future if things are not changed.
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I"m from Australia.  However if your wife is still in Lybia and unwell, your chances of gaining residency here are limited.  She wouldn't be allowed here permanently if she was going to be a burden on the welfare system.\nHowever, if she's already here in Australia, it's a different matter.  If you have a trade qualification, you need to find a job here before you reach our shores, as unemployment benefits will not apply to you.  Try contacting the Australian Immigration Dept and seeing how you go.\nQuite frankly, your chances of finding a sponsor to financially back you to come here, are zero.\nTry the links below-
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yes as long as the job you will be doing is a job that is in demand in that country.\ntry calling the embassy, they will be able to send you information on the current jobs situation.\nhaving family in that country also helps.
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Why don't you just go to wherever she is and get married there?  If she's married to you, I would think it would be easier to get her Visa.\n\nThen, when you get her back to whatever Country you're from (You didn't specify...), have a "real" wedding.
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You have an interesting issue concerning third country national visa processing. \n\nAs Japanese citizens, your husband and daughter do not need visas to enter the U.S. as visitors. If you have not obtained Japanese citizenship, but are nonetheless living in Japan with your family, you will need to apply for a visitor's visa through the U.S. Consualte having jurisdiction over your residency. I don't imagine they will give you much of a problem with processing as a third country national since your family is Japanese, so you will only need to show you have substantial ties to Japan. \n\nYou need to fill out the appropriate visa application forms and supplement them with documents showing your ties to Japan (i.e. recent bank statements, copy of a mortgage/lease, job letter if you're working, etc.) The more you can show the consulate that you have substantial ties to Japan, the more likely you will get approved. Oh, and don't forget to give them copies of your round-trip air reservations (that's a big one to some consular officers).\n\nGood luck!
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Well, OF COURSE there is hope.  There is also a huge amount of work and effort ahead of the two of you.  Did you move to Germany with the military by any chance ?  \n\nIn any case, he is working and you are in a foreign country which - unless you ARE on a military base  - pretty much precludes you from working too.,  (If you are on a base, go to the Civilian Personnel Office and sign up for the spouse sprefernce jobs.)  Now you need to find some things to fill your time while he works.  That would serve two pruposes: 1) you would be more fulfilled in your own right and 2) there would be less pressure on him to "be" the whole of your life.  Right now it seems, with what little information you have provided, that you are relying on him to make you happy because you have nothing else to take up your time - he, on the other hand, is working and cannot be everything to you.\n\n(By the way, no husband should have to be "everything" to his wife, nor should any wife have to be everything to the husband.  You need to have a life of your own - something that interests you and expands you as a person - something that you bring to the marriage to improve the relationship yo have there.)\n\nIf you are a military spouse - and you can see that I strongly suspect that you are - then you are going to have to get used to the absences.  Check in with the Enlisted Spouses Club and find some other spouses like yourself - some who have been in the service for awhile and get the lowdown from them.  The military is a different life than a civilian one back in the states.\n\nEven without a job, there are many things you can do in Germany!  Oh, you lucky dukling, you!   There is SO MUCH to see over there - it is a beautiful country.  Look into the MWR activities - there should be some inexpensive day trips that are being arranged. Go see things so that you have things to share wiht him.  Make sure the house is kept up - because you are, after all, the housewife at this time.  (Also because the military expects it and it is HE who will be dinged if it is not done.)  That way, when you two DO have time together, it can be relaxing and not filled with "Honey Do" lists.\n\nOnce you build your life there in a way to keep youself busy, and release the pressure on him to take care of your entertainment and social needs, then you can begin to talk to him about spending the time he does have available for you in a quality way.\n\nGood luck!
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You are rushing things.  Your marriage to a US citizen doesn't automatically get you anything.  If your wife wants you to join her, she must petition for you.  If the petition is approved, you must then apply for an immigrant visa.  If the visa is granted, you can finally go to the US and receive a green card, which will entitle you to live and work in the US.\n\nHere is the process:\nhttp://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_2991.html