Can a nerdy guy like me get a girlfriend?
101962
There is someone for everyone.  I was Ultra-Nerd in high school; got beat up, picked on, and mercilessly mocked every day.  But now I have an excellent job, a secure future, and a great life with my partner.  Don't ever give up on yourself - that's the one sure way to ruin.\n"Living well is the best revenge."
854208
As a guy I know myself: Guys like girls who are creative. You can start by being a friend and showing intrest in him. You can subtley hint to him indicating your attraction to him. Give him a girly look that cant be mistaken. You have let him know somehow but be creative and be smart. Avoid silly games involving your friends; you alone have to win him over by yourself and without the involvement of his friends or yours. Please do not try too hard or be too aggressive; he'll run awayfrom you. Best Wishes
697394
All guys have different taste.  Being yourself is the most important thing.  Don't ever change.  You have to like who you are to be likeable.  I'm sure you are a wonderful person, and who wouldn't like that?  Always present yourself in the most honest way, and the right guy will notice you.  Don't be in a hurry.  Enjoy life.  If you are not dating right now, focus on God, your friends, and your hobbies.
1139762
Yep, you sound like you'd be a really nice guy to get to know. I'm probably too old for you, or live too far away, & I think I've given up on relationships anyhow. But you sound as if you have an awful lot to offer the right woman. I hope you find her & I wish you every happiness & every success!!!
779121
I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
162274
You are probably aiming too high.  Go after women with less physical beauty than you would usually consider (e.g. overweight).  Drink a lot between now and then. And, buy target women lots of drinks.  You will be more attractive when she is drunk. \n\nHave confidence in yourself, and brag that you plan on spending a lot of money on your target woman.\n\nWomen love guys to drop a lot of cash.  You should be dating by tonight.\n\nNot being a nerd is not an advantage always... get over yourself.
1029794
Hey, I'm a nerd too (at least in high school I was LOL) but I think I've learned a thing or two since then so here goes...\n\nFirst of all, unless you want to be a laughingstock, I wouldn't recommend springing yourself on a group of people in public- they will all be together and you might end up the butt of the joke.\n\nProbably the best thing to do is figure out what it is about that group of kids that attracts you to them-- is it just because they are popular, or do you have an interest in common with them?  If you really have something in common, then try getting close to one or two of them by sharing your common interest... if you make friends with one, chances are the group will pull you in.\n\nBut if you're just wanting to be with them because they are popular and they look like they're having more fun than you are, maybe you should join a club or group where you can meet people you can really relate to.  It's the difference between having "friends" and "acquaintances."\n\nGood luck!
91024
Yes!!!  A nerd is just a smart guy who needs a good haircut, a new outfit, and maybe a bottle or two of Proactiv.
913290
You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
1091397
You sound like a very charming person; I'm sure that you will find someone soon. With a personality as upbeat as yours, I think you will find that plenty of guys would love to be around you. Good luck!
26582
Dont' worry girlfriend!I was in the same boat as you before.I did the bar scene, all my friends were in relationships, and that's what i wanted desperately.So, i would settle, and i got losers.Alot of guys would hit on me, but i just wanted to date, than i would call them back after, and they had a girl.Too late.So, in that time, I just felt out who i was, what i wanted, and focased on my career. That's when i thought, hay, i can just weed out these guys who just wanted a good time.Well, it worked.I wasn't looking for a guy.My true love had found me.When you are least expecting it, it will hit you in the ass.What i am saying is, relax, and it will come.Do not be desperate, and settle. He will find you! Get out there and do stuff that you like, and he will be there waiting for you.Good luck!
597901
be yourself.....don't be fake , don't try to be someone your not.. find a guy  that likes doing the same stuff you like...what ever your hobbies are try to find a guy that would like the same stuff..
632404
I'm a guy and when I really like a girl I cant seem to be as cool or witty when I see some one I'm attracted to. So don't judge people to quickly because the slick talking ones are mostly there for non commitment. The stuttering ones could be a keeper. Take time to see the real person.
988438
You sound like an intelligent person and fun to be with... but it would be wise if you get to know someone in person first BEFORE you open up an invitation to have a date with you, don't you agree??\n\nGuess it just goes to show that I'm from the 'old' school... Good luck in your search though!
239337
yo!r u a f/m? jus curious. cool. now, i guess u r ready for a girlfriend. n' i think that maibe u should jus go w/ the flow. maibe volunteer. i've heard that u can meet ppl of ur interests wen u volunteer. but remember- if u do- i hope u volunteer for the right reasons. if there's anything else, email me. but otherwise, good luck, n' i'm sure that ur soulmate is out there (if u believe).cool. ciao!
520665
If she says yes and  doesn't like him, he will only be more hurt later. She shouldn't go out with him. However, even if he's a geek, he may be a really nice guy. Who knows. Give him a chance, with a friendship, and see if anything goes from there.
190918
Be nice to him because that nerd will probably be a millionaire someday! Seriously, don't be so shallow, he may be a great person who will make you happy.