My boyfriend's away and I really miss him whats the best distraction, so I dont annoy him with texts or calls?
103642
This is when it is important to maintain your friendships while dating.  Call your girls and hang out.  Go to places and give them advise on dating.  Have fun, that usually is a good distraction from going crazy and missing him.
538314
you should give him the time he needs but that doesn't mean sitting at home waiting for him forever. Use this time away to hang out with your friends and do the things only single girls can do, once he sees that you can move on then he will think a little bit harder on what he wants in your relationship. I'm not saying go get a new man, but harmless flirting while you are out will make you feel alot better about his insecurities
367360
Mast ur bate; explore you body and enjoy yourself.  Tell you boyfriend about it only when he comes home from the job and not over the phone.  Then you can show him just what you have learnt about your body while he has been away
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
630321
Focus on yourself; get a new hairdo, get in better shape, read a book,or go out with girlfriends. Do take his number out of your phone (in case you are a drunk dialer), don't call him. If you see him out, say hello and leave it at that.
459868
take some time out for yourself doing things you enjoy like shopping, enjoying nature, doing a hobby, go to a spa or just hang out with the girls. try not to think about school and let your fiance know how you feel about the phone problems because you need to work things out, no matter how small they might seem. good luck hun!
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
448007
don't stress about it.  You should never sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Go out and do something for yourself.  Go shopping or to a movie and get your mind of this.  Interact with people you haven't hung out with in awhile because of him.  When he's ready to talk he'll call.  Don't let your whole world be around him.  If he needs to find himself, let him.  Be there for him when he's ready to talk.  Take this time yourself to think about your relationship, have things ready to talk about when he's ready.
497345
plan to see him!!! then he'll have something more to base his love on, rather than jsut memories or msn conversations/phone calls.
521739
Let him email you and start a conversation. That would be a good way to find out if he really misses you. And if he does email you first then do not act desperate and reply to the email immediately. Wait for a couple of days before you reply. Let him sweat for a while.
366058
i miss my boyfriend!!!
308082
Try calling him and asking him what's up with the two of you. If he continues to ignore you, just break up with him and move on. He can't be so busy that he can't even talk to you for a month.\n\nIf he really loved you, he'd make some time for you.
638988
Show him how much you missed him. Don't think about it so much. Just do what comes natural. He'll love you no matter what you do.
969930
i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.
1152285
Give him his dog tags and P charm back and break contact. His efforts to keep in touch with you behind his back will ultimately only look bad on you and not him.
959350
Although it may have been the ADD, also guys just want to spend time with they're guy friends. I just went through this I know EXACTLY how you feel. My guy hadn't seen his friend in over a year, i got a couple of text messages and he as well forgot to call. I was heart broken. My uncle explained to me that its not that he was ignoring me or avoiding me, it was that he hadn't seen his friend in a long time and he wanted to do "guy stuff" with his best friend. Because I spend a lot of time with my guy it was hard for me to understand that he could spend time with someone else. Anyways, I forgave him and things are back to normal, always tell him how things make you feel. keep a journal or something every time something happens write it down, you don't have to address it but if it becomes persistent then talk to him about it. It helps and he will listen. Life's too short. Love and learn. good luck.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.