When i was fat every one complained abt that.Now i was lean and they comlain now also that i was so leen?
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Nothing. If you are happy about the way you are (and you are healthy) then don't listen to them.
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Hi! This is Sandra,  Im sorry you are having such a tough time  But I have to tell ya straight up and out STOP IT  can u imagine what u are going to turn into?  Now its only 70lbs think about the future, the way you feel when its time to get dressed for a function or heck just to go to the store  Large people have a hard time dressing not to mention all the health issues that are gonna appear  I believe if when your thinking about food you need to distract yourself  "PRAY" do something  nobody can do it for you  but I do know that there are many people that feel your pain  The only way I can lose weight is to starve my self and I dont recommend it, its very bad for your body  You have to kick that bad "HABIT"  to the curb "YOU" must change your ways or be a fatso  that is the cold hard truth  Get some friends or loved ones to promote you and make a commitment to yourself and your health   k  GOOD LUCK
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It sounds like they want a response from you or maybe they want to make you feel bad about your weight. \nYou should try to talk to them about this and let them know how you feel. If they don't try to change, I'd work on finding some new friends. Friends should never upset you and hurt your feelings on purpose!
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if you feel good about the way you look then to hell with "everybody"  if you think you really are thin...have a snack!  good luck
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same goes with me its very difficult to gain.. i hv done every possible method to gain weight.but faild dont worry lean and thin look is in fasion people spend thousnds of rupees,time energy in gym.we are god gifted many ladies are jealous of me and they ask me how do i manage to be to fit and sexy the best part is thin people can wear all kinds of dresses
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i don't think anyone is 100% happy with themselves. I think i'm fat, even though i'm really not. don't worry, i'm sure everyone thinks they have at least 1 imperfection.
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It's hard to put together your statement that you are a little chubby with your friends claim that you are anorexic. If you are really the right weight for your body type and you are not losing weight, anorexia seems an unlikely diagnosis. However, I am troubled by your statement that "the minute I eat I feel bloated and fat." If you are eating healthy foods, you should not be feeling that way every time you eat. So your friends may be onto something. Many anorexics keep insisting they are overweight even when they are dying of starvation. Best solution is to go to a medical professional to verify that you are indeed at the right weight and that you are eating a reasonable diet for someone of your age and build.
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She started crying because when YOU called her fat you REINFORCED her distorted view that she IS fat. Apologize to her right away and let her know that you truly DID NOT mean it.\nOtherwise, your comment may be the one that pushes her over the edge and results in her death. Think about the consequences next time!
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I think everyone is different in this situation, but I lost the weight I gained when I was on the pill.
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I think you just needed to vent a little! You should be proud of how you look no matter what size you are. As long as you're healthy and happy, that is all that matters. Don't worry about what other people think.
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you sound bitter and upset at fat people. Why? PEople are people. Dont get mad at them, if you dont like them, dont be aorund them. And its the same reason when you might tell a friend that BC makes your mustache grow, or you ate some beans, and thats why you have gas. People do things when they dont want to be looked at like a bacterium in a petrie dish. Its not that big of a deal. Peronsally, I say- I wouldnt be fat if I didnt love food. I'm a size 14 AND PROUD OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dear Darcee,\n\nYou are a very fat woman. You are also old. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are acting like a hypochondriac and need serious help. I hope you can get the help you need. Your mental illness is getting in the way of you having a productive life. Change yourself. Lose your big belly and the poor attitude.\n\nLove Me
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i was soooo fat when i was a baby then i was a little underweigt in my intermidet school, and is now a little on the skinny side, but average.
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i had anorexia for five years, im not saying that you are but a lot of it sounds the same as me. when people are trying to help me i wouldnt let them in i didnt want them to take away the one thing that i had control of (My weight)  its only after i let people in to help me and it was hard that i realised how badly i have damaged myself. i have a lot of problems now from my skin and hair to my digestion and liver.... im sure you have a lot of people arouind you that love you a lot please please please ask them for help. its been 2 years now and im so much better!\ngood luck
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Maybe they see you as a way to get fat, kinda like a meal ticket. The fat ones are full, so they just hang out and pass (bee) gas!
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I used to be anorexic, Im miss it to, but my parents put me in a rehab for 6 months. That sucked. Everyone says I look heathier now and that im still thin. I think we convince ourselves that thin is never thin enough and that we are fat. Its all about convincing your mind. I miss it but will never go back. I was sick, and still fight it. Stay strong! Heidi
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Dear, I used to have low self-esteem over my weight too. I ballooned like a hot air balloon when I was a little younger.\nIt mattered so much to me because I was worried what others might think of me, that others would laugh at me and looked badly at me.\nIt mattered that I had a crush on one of my classmates once - I never told him nor took it any further than just treating him like eye candy and a good way to get motivated for school and my studies, but I was so self-conscious whenever I was around him I tried to basically time and 'control' every move I made, everything I said according to how I'd be perceived by others.\n\nAs a result of that, I became like a clown. Do you know why? Because instead of letting my inner beauty and personality shine (which many of my friends have complimented me about - isn't it a suggestive hint?), I made myself like a sideshow freak, doing whatever I thought would gain the approval of the people around me, to gain their acceptance. I even tried to go on a diet, not because I wanted to lead a healthy lifestyle, but because I thought he'd prefer a slimmer girl!\nLater, a year or two later, I became frustrated with what I was doing. Before this crush, I had been self-conscious of myself, but I was also a loner and an extreme introvert who went everywhere alone and did everything alone. Because of that, I never had to 'pretend' to anything or anyone as there was nothing to pull a facade to!\nThat freedom was very fulfilling in a sense. But I wanted to have a small network of friends I could rely on too, and as I matured I realised that keeping completely to myself and shutting myself out from the rest of the world wasn't going to do me any good in the future.\nSorry for digressing, as I was saying, I felt so frustrated, what was I doing? It was so exhausting to just go around pretending to be something I didn't want to be! Hell, if I wanted to say 'screw you' to someone I didn't like what should be stopping me? Because I don't want to look 'bad' in front of others, or because it's impolite?\nInstead of focusing on what others think, try to focus on yourself.\nWhen I became less self-conscious, and slowly, (don't have to rush it, do what's comfortable for you), added more of my own personality, myself, to show everyone, did you know what happened?\nI realised that others thought I was "cool" despite being a little chubbier, because I was nice, but I had my own attitude, my own 'thing' going. That people admired, because that's the same shackles (being self-conscious and having low self-esteem) many of them are stuck in!\nI made more friends. I knew who were the good ones and the bad - usually they're the ones who stick by you in times of need and not hang around hoping that being around you would earn them brownie points with others.\n\nMy crush never confessed that he liked me, but close sources to him (I had lots of guy friends.. they help to infiltrate the 'guy world'. Most of the time, the guy world is men only. Even if they'd like to admit me in it'd break the rules cuz I'm a girl, haha :P) and myself leaked to me and it turned out he HAD developed a crush on me, but he was too shy.\nHe was a popular guy in the school.\nLater, he kept giving me glances, kept 'bumping' onto me during the strangest times (I was a weird kid. I hung around after school hours just 'haunting' the corridors, taking in the scenery from the balcony, thinking of new ideas to write a story or draw something, sat in the classroom after school to draw/study/write, etc. Very reclusive. But I enjoyed it.) because normally, after school hours, there'd be a stampede to get out of the school. AND he was never known to actually stay back for anything.\nHe found a zillion ways to talk to me and joke with me, and we became friends. He's still a friend, but of course, the old crush is gone