Could someone describe a simple method in tantric sex that is mind-blowing - not boring or frustrating?
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Try tantric mastur bation first, when you master that, sex is only a small leap.
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Sure. It's pretty easy...just stroke it till it erupts! Here lemme show you.....;)
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Natural Ejaculation Control Technique is a process where breathing techniques are combined with meditative efforts to stop premature ejaculation. \n\nHow to practice:\n\n[1] Relax and control your breathing - inhaling and exhaling normally. Keep your eyes loosely closed. Put your tongue against the palate. Focus your mind between your eyebrows at the center of your forehead.\n\n[2] Inhale through your nose deeply at intervals of 2-5 seconds until you can feel your abdomen expand, maximizing the capacity of your lungs. Now, focus your mind to the center of your body, directly towards your navel. \n\n[3] Hold your breath and move your expanded abdomen downward by contracting your upper abdomen. As pressure gradually builds up against the bladder and the prostate gland, shift your mental focus to the prostate area. * Step 3 is the most important step during intercourse – it requires that you hold your breath for as long as possible while applying pressure to the bladder and prostate area. This will partially block sensitivity to the penis, allowing you to last longer and control ejaculation. \n\n[4] Contract your anus by clenching. Then exhale air slowly out of the mouth, shifting concentration once again towards the center of your forehead. \n* You should feel hot energy rising from the prostate area along the spinal cord to your head.\n\nRepeat this cycle several times. But remember, when using the anal clenching method during intercourse, your inhalations and contractions of the abdomen should coincide with your sexual thrusting motions.\n\nAlthough, this might seem difficult at first, with just a little practice (alone or with a partner), you’ll soon master it.
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i know this'll sound a little weird but try a few yoga classes. if you don't belong to a gym or prefer to work out alone there are yoga videos and books especially for generating blood flow and increasing sensitivity to the sexual organs. you can try amazon or your local book store.
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This first enlargement technique is highly effective for lengthening the penis. The premise is simple enough and performing this technique is even easier. All you have to do is gently grasp your Glans (penis head) and pull, without letting up (except as noted below), for 5 full minutes. Here's the technique:\n\nPull straight out from your body and hold for 60 seconds. Now let go for 5 seconds and shake your penis around to get the blood flowing back into your Glans. \nPull straight towards the floor for 60 full seconds then shake your penis around to get the blood flowing back into your Glans. \nPull straight towards your chin for 60 full seconds then shake your penis around to get the blood flowing back into your Glans. \nPull to the right for 60 full seconds then shake your penis around to get the blood flowing back into your Glans. \nPull to the left for 60 full seconds then shake your penis around to get the blood flowing back into your Glans. \nThe additional benefits of this exercise is your penis is now well warmed up and prepared for the Massive Girth Technique!\n\nThis exercise requires a bit more instruction but it's easy to perform once you know the nuts and bolts of the technique. We're going to spend some extra time here because there are some caveats (warnings) about this technique:\n\nThis technique is to be performed in a partially erect state. If you become too aroused during this technique injury to your blood vessels may occur! You will need to stop and allow yourself to "come down" prior to continuing. \nThis technique should alwaysfollow the lengthening technique. Blood spotting, bruising and mild lumpiness (all temporary conditions) may occur without being properly warmed up for this technique. \nYou'll be gripping your penis firmly for this technique, but again, too firm a grip may cause damage to your blood vessels. You'll have to find a firm yet gentle grip for this technique. \nYou're going to need a good lubricant for this exercise and maintain the viscosity for the duration of the exercise. We recommend Baby Oil or K-Y Jelly.\nHere's how to perform this exercise that will both greatly thicken as well as lengthen your penis:\n\nThe first thing to do for this exercise is to attain a partial erection. The purpose of this is to get some blood into the penis - for it's the movement of the blood throughout the penis during this exercise which will expand Your erectile tissue. \nUsing your index finger and thumb, wrap your penis at the base, way down as close to your testicles as possible. \nGently squeeze your penis with your thumb and forefinger to trap the blood inside your erectile tissue. \nNow, slide your thumb and forefinger "ring" down the shaft of your penis towards the glans (penis head). \nAt the moment your first hand reaches the glans, take your other hand and begin the same process. You'll be alternating hands - right, left, right, left, etc. A single repetition should last a full second before starting with your other hand.
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Kundalini Yoga, at least, is supposed to have poses/exercises you can do to "redirect sexual energy upward towards your higher chakras" - in a way take the surplus of energy from one place and redistribute it to other areas.\n\nAlso, any hard physical labor or intense exercise will use up your energy temporarily...
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I think it is...i read somewhere that by tantra you reach a superior level of pleasure...it's even said that by this kind of sex you connect with spirits...i don't know if that's true...
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Yes, I've done it, and its cool.\n\nAnother one:\n1.  Lie down on the ground.  Arms and legs straight forward.\n2.  Close your eyes for the entire time. (very important)\n2.  Have someone lift your arms either 45 degrees or 30 degrees above the ground.  For 2 minutes.\n3.  After 2 minutes, continue keeping your eyes closed and have your partner slowly lower your arms.  It will feel like they your arms are going to go through the ground.\n\nThere is another one with a clenched fist, but I forget how it is done.
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Play with the clit.  Works every time.
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Take a bubble bath together, then take turns reading a book aloud to each other. It is fun, and since there is no pressure, the spontaneous sex can be fantastic! (If it happens) Oh, a good bottle of wine never hurts, either!
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errmm masturbation - well the best type is EXTERNAL (strangely enough !) no big phallic shaped objects needed - it's all about the intense and constant vibration of an electric sex toy, hand jobs are ok for you boys but we need alot more intense vibes that can only be recreated by a powerful machine lol
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Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.\n\nHowever, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.\n\nYou will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons.  Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly.  When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them.  Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience.  Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.\n\nOnce you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips.  You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina.  You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is.  If you have done the tease right, she will be.  While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris.  Be through.\n\nYou will want to focus your attention on her clitoris.  Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it.   You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream.  If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.  \n\nPay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like.  Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like.  Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.  \n\nOnce the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her.  Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing.  Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.\n\nOnce she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit.  Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.\n\nThat is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.\n\nSome additional things to keep in mind:\n\nGirls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something.  If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”\n\nGirls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked.  An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town.  This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
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something that would bring both pain & pleasure though I can't specify what method
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Yoga is great it tones your body and helps with your overall stamina. Give it a try.\nIf that fails then definately sex.
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You do realize that Mistress and "an older mature woman who does tantra massage" are not necessarily the same, right?  They are two different things though you might happen to find a Mistress who does tantric massage, it is not necessarily so.  \n\nThere are several ways to go about this.  \n\nI would recommend getting involved in local Queer/BDSM groups.  That's where you might find any potential Mistresses.  It will also give you a good look at the scene and chances are these people will also know who does trantric massage in your area.  \n\nAnother idea would be to check out local alternative/queer publications in your area.  This is where tantric masseuses might advertise their services.  Or perhaps you might place an advertisement regarding what you're seeking.\n\nGet onto BDSM/Queer websites and try networking with others in your area.  If nothing else, you should meet some great people this way.\n\nHowever, most importantly, remember to be safe.  If you do find a Mistress you're thinking about playing with, remember Safe, Sane, and Consensual.  Get together with Her in a very public place first to get to know eachother.  The same might go for any tantric massages you receive, make sure that it's either somewhere relatively public or that a close friend knows where you are and who you're with.  \n\nHope this helps.  Be safe and have fun!\n\nFR
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you have a few options if you are doing this alone\n1. miss fingers - yep! its exactly what it shounds like! get to know your own "ta-ta"\n2. miss pointy - or its known as a vibrator..... it helps a lot with the movement. for days when you feel lazy but need to "relieve" your frustrations.... ;)\n3. miss GF - yep! its always fun-ner to get your loved ones to do "it" for you.... it means so much more\n\ni hope this helps ;)
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I go for the all over effect for the full accomplishment of relaxing. A whole body massage. You can't beat that.  Try it sometime.