My boyfriend is using me. How do I get back at him.?
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
1149284
have your boyfriend get treated.  \n\n(make sure he's not dipping his wic somewhere else and bringing it back to you)
564523
Your 'creature' is controlling you! This is NOT a good relationship, nor is it healthy for either one of you. Draw the line now! Speak to whomever you want. If he gets mad, tell him, "Goodbye." Short, swift, and mean what you say. Don't wishy wash on this, or you will be in for some serious problems from now on. It will escalate to beating, abuse, you name it. You are in a bad relationship that is not going to get better.
130930
Stop being so nasty to him.  Ask him.  That man works his butt off day and night to feed you and this is how you treat him.
997337
You basically be as cruel and as cold as you seem to be. If you're trying to figure out how to torture him for that long, I don't know why he's dating you in the first place. Show him you respect him in even the smallest measure, crack your ice block and tell him you're sorry it's not working. I'm sure even you could fake it.
556836
Move on ; he's using you .
960406
He used you. Dump him!
313934
I had that problem with my ex boyfriend. I love him more than he love me and he end up using me. I am not saying that your boyfriend is using you I just want you to be careful and don't put more in the relationship than him. When a boy see that you love him and know that you are willing to do whatever for him. They got you where they want you and then they will tend to use you. I promise you this being use by someone you love so much hurts like hell. I been there. Just slow down and don't call him as much as u was and let him do the calling. \n\nI wish you the best of Luck with your relationship!\nMs.T~baby:)
510785
It sounds like he may be trying to push you away in the hopes that *you* break up with *him.*  He may be too chicken to do it himself.  The problem is, is that it's affecting your self-esteem.  You don't deserve to be treated that way- being used is no fun, so don't allow it!  Think about where you see yourself in 5 years.... still in the same place???.... .don't waste any time.  Believe me, there are guys who will treat you right.  We teach people how to treat us- don't allow it anymore!!
100568
He was using you.  He told you it was your fault to make you feel back and take the blame off of himself.  He's not worth your time.  Especially if he is abusive.
247318
Ignore him. He's feeding off your frustration. Just look the other way and pretend he's invisible. Good luck.
852451
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
1152285
Give him his dog tags and P charm back and break contact. His efforts to keep in touch with you behind his back will ultimately only look bad on you and not him.
183797
try to pull yourself back.and dont show yourself as you need him and dont push him to do something.if he really need you ofcourse he will want to see you.if not so there is no relation as you want.be cool and hide yourself.this is my experience..
65405
BOOOOYAAAAH... Something to wake you up...\n\n**Slap**\n\nGirl 1st of all why would you like to get back with him? Don't you smell a rat when it's near you? Imagine your story as a film... Would you advice a girl to get back with the man who wanted nothing but "SEX"? This may sound harsh and everything but good but if try and stay away from him then you might learn something... It wont be easy to stay away from someone you think you love... You want him back bcoz he got the best of you but if you look at the other side of this story it would be a blessing in disguise why coz you were able to learn as early as now that this guy is nothing but "1 bam thank you mam" type of guy... \n\nAlways remember this "ALL GUYS WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET THOSE PANTIES OFF YOU" the only one who can control things is you...\n\nMy advice give it time and do something else than think of him as the "ONE"... \n\nIm sorry if I offended you in any manner... I have no intentions of doing so...\n\nHope I was able to help you out...