Is oral sex still considered cheating?
108975
If you're just thinking about doing it... maybe.\n\nIf you've actually done it, yes.
729395
It is theoretically possible, yes.  However, there have been *NO* confirmed cases of HIV transmission through oral sex and the risk of this type of transmission is very, very low.
561829
any kind of sex is cheating
295098
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
666383
That depends on wht u think as cheating. drinking one extra drink without your spouse is also cheating and picking up a sl** on your tour is also cheating so strictly speaking everyone cheats
1082334
Actually, according to a large amount of men, oral sex is not sex.\n\nI honestly am not sure about the answer to your question. I know in my state, oral sex is considered sex because it is actually illegal here. (Friend got a ticket once for doing that in her car with her bf) The charge was for 'performing an unnatural sex act'.
108219
Oh you betcha she is! and don't believe that oral sex isn't sex, it is! But you would still be a virgin.
462614
You have to keep in mind that "cheating" is defined by the people involved. A better question would be "does she consider it cheating?" or "Based on what I have told her regarding the status of our relationship (whether or not we are exclusive, or exclusive to the sex of the person - no more than 1 gf or 1 bf, or whatever you all have discussed) would she consider it cheating?" She may or may not. She is who you should be asking, only she can decide. By definition monogamy is one person, not one person - per sex. So if she feels you are in a monogamous relationship, you may need to redefine what your relationship is. Your relationship, both of you could decide, is really where you all do whatever you want with guys however are faithful to each other. It is, what you both can agree that it is. Honesty is always the best policy.
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No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
817726
For some people flirting is just in their personality. Now if it's flirting with the intent to cheat, or they are being very suggestive, then I don't think it's acceptable. Still, while it may be innapprorpriate, I wouldn't call it cheating.
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OH MOST DEFINITELY!! if he didnt want to cheat, he wouldnt have drunk. and he would not have put himself in that situation. the only way having sex with someone is not cheating is if it was rape.
8924
Although I kind of agree with Tom up there, I have to say that the last statement was a bit harsh. Anyway, I'll say that "No!” you didn’t cheat but you’re skating mighty close. The fact that you didn't go into it with the exact intentions of doing anything wrong, you did stay into it after it became rather steamy. You should ask yourself that if your "live-in boyfriend" were to be in a similar incident what would you say and if you do something that you feel that you can't share with him ask yourself why. I'm sure you'll get the answer you’re looking for. So from now on leave the massages to little Korean women in small boutiques.
851043
If all parties involved consent, then no, I wouldn't call it cheating, but ask yourself this: how would you feel if your wife had another man? Would that be okay with you? It works both ways.
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.
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It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
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Yup and pleasuring one's self isn't a biggie as long as it's not interfering with your own sex life between the two of you!  It's natural and healthy :)\n\nNo, because I was honest about it with my spouse that I felt it was natural so no big.  \n\nAnd yep, I have been 'caught', and it was all fine with me.
862734
Absolutely no! Its cheating! bec. if your being use to it. i'll tell you!you will hook to it untill it will your lifestyle already you will not be contended with one 1 girl anymore.