How could a man cheat on his women they have two kids, he leaves and move in with the other woman?
101656
Once he left his kids,he proved to everyone,that not only does he not want to be a father,and take on his responsibilities,but he "Moved in" with someone,who is paying the bills,and not him!. Free room and board,is right up his alley!. Having someone's children,does'nt mean committment to the mother,but It does mean he is responsible for the welfare of his children. Don't be foolish enough to let him back into YOUR personal life,because you'll end up with baby No.3,and he'll be shacking up,with his next victim.
553913
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
1033318
Cheaters can usually find someone who has no sense of moral obligation and little enough self esteem that they will debase themselves by settling for 'second best'. However, that doesn't make it right. After all, to me the old "I can't leave my wife, but she's mean to me all the time so please feel sorry for me" line is nothing but the whining cop-out of an immature man who is unwilling to step up and take responsibility for his own life. Oh, and the guy who says he's 'staying for the kids' is even worse because he's using his children as an excuse for his own lack of testicular fortitude. \n\nSeriously, time and again studies have shown that children are much happier and much more well adjusted if their parents are happily divorced rather than unhappily married. So, the mature and responsible thing to do would be to end the marriage first before beginning another relationship.
556381
the honest truth is that he could be cheating on you...there is always that possibility. that's why i say that. and of course he says he wants you to have his kids. what do you expect him to say if he is cheating? "hey honey, I'm out here sleeping with random chicks and i don't care what happens with us" that's not gonna happen. if he does happen to be cheating, then he is gonna say whatever it takes to make you think he still cares if he doesn't want you to go anywhere, but at the same time, there is a chance that he isn't cheating to. so at this time, just keep your eyes open, do some research and if he is cheating, leave him alone.
415717
I would leave him. I would leave him and file for child support if we had kids, I would leave him and take half of his stuff if we didn't have kids. Let someone else deal with his cheating behind. Especially with a baby involved, he will have to deal with the woman he cheated on me with on a regular basis. I could not trust him to do that.
287679
You can't.  He is married.  Leave him and his family alone.  You need to work on your own marriage. If your spouse is abusive, then you need to leave him, but going with a married man is not a solution.  Besides, if your married guy is cheating on his wife, what makes you think he will not cheat on you too if you got together with him?
306828
Look, do you really want to be with a man who cheats? Look at the way he treats his wife & unborn child. That's the way he'll treat you. Do you want to be with someone who will leave you down the road or cheat on you when you most need the one you love to be there for you?
1166815
dump his azz....he IS cheating
818888
I agree, it's very crazy that so many men cheat when their wives are pregnant. If they didn't want us in that condition, they should have kept a wrapper on it. \n\nSeek counseling. Passive aggressive behavior can be a real problem for some people, and in extreme cases, they turn violent during their "aggressive" phases. You don't ever want things to go that far where he might take out his insecurities on you, your son, or your new baby. In addition, his infidelity isn't something you are going to get over easily. It will take a long time, and a lot of work on his part, to re-build what he so carelessly threw away. A professional can help you both work through these issues, whether it's a clergy member, a psychiatrist, a licensed therapist, or whatever you choose. It doesn't really matter as long as you both are open and honest, the person can help you to find a way to get back what you two are missing.
914002
no it is wrong, because maybe there was a chance he might return to his wife, maybe he is confused on what he wants to do, and the other woman will just pull him in her direction.  it is never a good idea because he has alot of unresolved things going on, and needs to think it all over. the other woman is taking a big chance in allowing this, it could always backfire on her.
1100883
because they arent really in love.\nIf they actually loved the woman they were with and she fulfilled him he wouldnt cheat.
852990
Your wife cheats on you a lot, doesn't she? Get rid of that skank.
691898
One (or both) of them may be leaving the door open for a future reconciliation. The person doing this may not even know that this is the case. When I left my first husband, he said he wasn't going to file since I left him, I was the one with the problem, and there were financial issues as well. This went on for several years. At one stage, I did go back to him, and he dumped his girlfriend like garbage. I am not proud of this, she was a nice girl, but I think I did her a favor since he went on to drugs & crime. After going back & finding out for sure he was wrong for me, I did file for divorce.\n\nThis is NOT to say that this is the case with you. But it could be possible. Maybe she thinks in the back of her mind that he will come back. Financial complications are easily resolved by lawyers, ask him to see one. A married man is a married man, whether he lives with her or not. Neither the law nor time is on your side. Good luck.
165592
Obviously if he is cheating you and your baby aren't that important.  If you really can't leave him...tell him that "you can't live without him but you'll have to if cheats again." because by cheating he shows he can live without you...\ndon't subject your child to a unfaithful man...
978282
Understand that he will never trust you.  I was home with two kids and pregnant and being accused of having an affair.  Pleeeeaaaassssseeeee!  He probably doesn't trust you because he is guilty or because someone before you ruined him.  Personally, If this was me, I would take the out he has given me.  I wonder if he trusted you to begin with.\n\nI would leave, get pro-active, pilates, buy a new dress and get a new man!  One who isnt' abusive and a cheater!
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
621665
It is possible if the person she cheated with is some one the court would consider a danger to the kids.  For the most part any more cheating is looked upon as a reason for divorce but not a reason for separating parents from their kids.