I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. What should i do? How can i find out for sure?
116472
Get your girls together and follow him. Remain discreet when following him or you can hire a private investigator for a week.
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
451442
why do you think he's cheating?
540159
If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.
923075
Ask him upfront and openly. If he gets mad and leaves you for asking that question, he was cheating, so you saved yourself.
1040042
What makes you think he is cheating?  If you can't trust him, how can you have a good relationship?  A relationship that lasts has a lot of trust and honesty between the two people.  You have to ask yourself why do you think that he would be cheating?  Though, past experiences could cause you to think that way.  You should always give them the benefit of the doubt.  Plus, an hour away isn't too far. =)
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
127139
talk to him and tell him about the situation..if he really is cheating (which guys normally says "im not cheating!")..caught him in the act..and just think that its not your loss but his!
219843
if u didnt see him doing sumthing wrong..like being closer than justa  friend..ask him...and if he IS Cheating on you...( he ovbiously wont tell you that )then theres something better for you out there.. good luck=)
83556
If you are that concerned, you should just call even if his Dad is scary.  You aren't going to be satisfied until you find out whats going on...so just do it...or have a friend call.  If you truly believe he is cheating, than you should probably just count your blessings and move forward.  Sometimes people ask questions but, they really don't want to hear the answer. DON'T LOOK FOR ANSWERS YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR...SAVE YOURSELF THE HEARTACHE AND BE THANKFUL HE JUST MOVED ON.  GOOD LUCK AND ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST, THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DETERMINE WHAT AFFECTS YOU AND WHAT DOESN'T.
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#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
169159
That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
1003263
he's cheating.  and he's lying to your face about it.  dump him.
43089
Why would you break up with him if you didn't think it was true then? If you can trust him, then just ask him. Listen to your gut! *It knows!* You don't need anyone to make your decisions for you - listen to your gut. Good luck!!
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.