when a woman cheats on her boyfriend,  does that mean she is done with him in the shor or long run?
111479
Maybe...maybe not.  It could be neither.  We are all human beings attracted to the opposite sex whether in a relationship or not.  I think alot of times it has nothing to do with what her boyfriend has or hasn't done but everything to do with her lack of what a commitment really means.  Temptation is something we all are confronted with.  Don't be so quick to judge.
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
21244
If he was cheating then you need to dump him or her because they say once a cheater allways a chetter.
839745
Nope.\n\nOnce a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater..............
533261
She's bored with you and everything else. \n\nShe's wearing new clothes, new makeup. \n\nShe's more independent. \n\nShe's giving excuses for why shes late. She's all of a sudden busy.\n\nYour sex life has changed. \n\nAll these are "indirect" signs that she's cheating on you. \nDon't be too alarmed if its only one or two of these.
846691
a cheating bastard or a cheating whore
854863
lol you actually think she's gonna come on here and answer you question lol yeah right and they broke up a long time ago for some unknown reason, but it was reported that he cheated on her with a stripper
811949
It seems to happen more and more. Women are lacking self respect and any type of morals. I agree with you, and I would never venture onto another womans territory. Why would you even want a man that you know is cheating? I think these women actually think that they are better than the woman he is in the relationship with and think they are taking him away. Which we all know, seldom happens. Welcome to the 20th century, where morals and respect no longer exist. Sad.
61479
Any repectful man or woman does not cheat. If you need to cheat, then you need to break up with the person you want to cheat on. Makes sense, huh?
213459
This romance will die out on its own and does not need your help.  If she cheated on him then she doesn't really care all that much for him.
1160686
fu*k both of them. if hes cheating he needs to be booted and if she is messing with your man then she was never really your friend to begin with.
30802
It's not proper to be in such situation and its not easy for her too, she was in love at first then you came, you got closer and now you are both in love but at the same time she is with her boyfriend, may she likes something in you and another in her boyfriend, but soon one of you will win, so to be honest with yourself and to avoid doubting that she might do it with another person if she left her boyfreind for you, give her enough time to decide but you have to be away from her she must choose only one person in order not to be hurt or to hurt her boyfriend if he discovered that she is cheating on him
904340
yea!but this is a real hard thing to decide because how does your gf or bf no that this will never happen again but it also depends on how long you 2 have been in relationship So it has to do with how much trust was in the relationnshp if you are the person who cheated you should not let your bf or gf find out from another person that only makes things worse so if you like/love this person as much as you think you do then you will have enough respect for them to come to them and tell them that you know you were wrong and you promise it wont happen again and long as you are faithful from that day on you are guaranteed a good relationship.
1168870
Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
1132529
Well, how does she feel about that? What makes this situation tough is how does she feel about him as a boyfriend? If she really doesn't love him then yes move on but if she loves him and stays with him then she is selling herself short of happiness and no one should do that to oneself. She is just a piece of meat to him.
401028
Nope.  Never would either.  It's just immature and silly. Really there's no excuse EVER for it.  If things aren't going well you work on them, and if it's not gonna work out, the mature thing to do is end the relationship first, then move on.  Another thing - when you're committed to someone you don't even get into situations where cheating "just happened".  That's just b.s.