What would you do if you cared about someone, but  that they was talking to another person and lied to you?
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talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
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BEING LIED\nBACKBITTEN
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It would depend to me based on who was accusing me, if they weer spreading rumors, and what their relationship meant to me.  \n\nIf it's someone you don't care for, I'd say ignore and cut ties, since they can't be trusted.  If it's a group of people, you're better off not socializing with people that spread false rumors.\n\nIf it's someone closer, and it could be a misunderstanding, I would confront them, one on one.  If they ddeny, just walk away.  But if they apologize, give an explanation, you could probably still have a friendship, but I'd say keep your guard up, don't trust too quickly.\n\nLike I said, it really depends on how close you are to a person.  If they're not that close, cut ties, but if they are close, and least ask for an explanation, the rest is up to you.
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ask them why they lied - and then.......do what you feel is right.
89757
do u know to whom they lie they lie at them selfs \nyes thats true, they are not lieing at us.\n\nand how to deal with them will u cant deal with them no matter what u do they will always lie lie cz all of there life is a big lie.\n\ndont care about them just leave them cz trust me u wont get anywhere with these people
206735
You just said he's taken, but you're talking to him and he's talking to you. You two have already done it.  If the other person cares about the person they are with then he/she should either break up with their significant other or leave you alone.
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If there was absolute proof he was lying, i would confront him about it.... If there is one thing in a relationship I cannot stand is someone who is not honest...  No one deserves to be lied to.
1126690
Well Fari just call and tell her that they lied to her about tell her all the truth and if she doesn't want to answer your call just keep insisting until she belives that you are saying the true. Wish a lot of luck and hopefully she'll understand your situation.
976341
Tell the truth. She shouldn't have lied in the first place
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it all depends on who they;re talking to. like if talking to a stranger u might or might not tell the truth. n if ur talking to a friend or a family member, then ur problee gonna be telling the truth unless u realy have to lie.
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I'd say she's lying, because she wanted to let you down easy. My guess would be she's interested in another guy.
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i would ask him what he is afaid of -- if he tells you the truth?- tell him if its nothing to worry about he should tell you everything -- the only reason for a person to lie, is usually because they have something that they don;t want you to find out, for lots of reasons, to protect you, to make sure you don't get mad, for fear of you getting so mad that you would leave   i say confront him and if he cant tell you the truth-- he dosn;t trust you-- thats my personal opinion  i have dealt with this before and ultimatly i left him-- I never got the truth out of him unless we faught then he told me and as allways it was never anything big- tis jsut the fact that he never respected me enough to confide in me--- i think its  a power trip- so they feel like they have some sort of control
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You should ask him directly something you know he will lie about and you have proofs about the lie. I dont think you necessarily should do it in front someone else, but tell the liar next time you catch him lying there you will tell relatives and friends about his behavour and spread all around that he is not reliable.
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Honey dealing with a liar is hard. You need to be very strong to deal with someone you love knowing he lies and that you can't trust a word out of his mouth. Talk with him in a calm manner and ask why he does this, Good Luck
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feel bad for you ,they have made your life a lie. and thats no fair i would be very upset.
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hey you could get a friend of yours that he doesn't know is your friend to "stalk him sotaspeak" and find out if he is lying or not. . .