What do you do if During sex your partner feels extreme pleasure and you can't feel Anything? kinda terrible.
107776
If you haven't been to a Dr about this problem I would start there. It might just be a medical problem.
50962
talk to her what you can you do to make her feel good while doing love making.make sure its making love not sex . I hope you do know the differents
601035
teiamaria115 has answered the question perfectly however I would just like to add that lubricant may help. Sometimes a woman doesn't produce enough and it can become sore and feel very tight.\n\nAsk your man to be gentle with you and instead of just going at it like a pair of animals, ask him to take his time. Easing himself in and out of you a little at a time allowing your body to produce it's own moisture. Make it fun for both of you because sex should be fun and you shouldn't have to worry about it either before or after.\nSomething else to try could be a vibrator. Try practising with it yourself with and without lubricant and if you feel comfortable with it, your partner can join in too.\n\nEnjoy x
1157635
Tell him how you feel about the pressure.Then, you both need to make an argreement that that's NOT the reason you are having sex.You are having sex to feel closer to each other, to show your love, and enjoy each other.Don't concentrate on the orgasm.If it happens, it happens, if it dosent it dosent.Take your time.Maybe have one nite of just cuddling.One night just oral.ETC,ETC.Enjoy each other, not what you get out of it, then it will come.Also, you need to let the past stay in the past.If you dont, your ex is getting even more satisfication that it is messing up your new relationship.Most people do NOt have orgasms through sex.That's a proven fact.But the fact you had it many times before during sex, is a problem now.Let yourself relax and get rid of the past!!
623505
try caressing in general...you have 2 get her 'worked' up..some people orgasm on penetration,what u say whn making love, oral sex...you need to ask this question to ur gf shes b best suited 2 tell u how she C*** :) best luck!
564901
Honestly it's going to be painful no matter how much you play.  You should definatly be relaxed if that's possible, and tell your lover to be slow and gentle and caring of your needs.  Hopefully he will be and you'll be fine.  Good luck!
33695
You probably aren't able to have vaginal orgasms, so the best thing to do is have clitoral stimulation as you have intercourse. Other than that, you probably aren't comfortable with having sex with him, ask yourself...  does he force you? Do you really want to have sex? Maybe you're just not in the mood, or maybe he's too big for you.
572124
My wife and I had a similar issue and what we did was we came up with a code word that we could use while having sex.\nIn our case the word was "purple"! Why? This allowed us to have fun and if one of us was going to far we could and still keep going with the code word. We just knew to immediatly back off a bit but not lose the mood.\nTry this with the guy and see if it works for you.\nGood luck!
641553
You may have lacked the best part of lovemaking, which is foreplay. It becomes mechanical because you don't observe the 1st commandment. Try doing it a little bit slower from the bottom up. Plenty of VCO/ virgin coconut oil will help. Lather your partner's body from the toes to the thigh up to the up and try massaging, But be careful with it because massage may led her to sleep. Gentle and exploratory manner will do the trick. But again the bottom line is the mind. Control your mind and start undressing her in the mind.
540936
Suffer?\n\nThat certainly makes it sound painful.\n\nSome women do not achieve orgasm through intercourse and may need direct clitoral stimulation as well.
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Foreplay: Keep at it untill you are wet (Not getting wet could be you have a condition, see tyour doctor, or you are too young for sex, stop immediately)\n\nSex should be enjoyable for both partners, but if your partner rushes too fast you can get hurt. Also see your gynocologist. my wife found that I can't get her off in a certain postion due to an inverted unterus, but certain positions work in seconds for her. \n\nBe patient tlak to a doctor, and just take it easy next time.
806852
Sex has no emotion or feeling behind it....making love does.
1120825
Try to do workouts and more kegals..... Also talk with your doctor and see what they suggest. He also needs to make sure you are really lubed up and ready for him. He should try oral on you and let you climax and then use ky jelly and be gentle and slow and take his time so he does not hurt you. Have you tried being on top so that you can control things? Try buying a couples toy so that during intercourse you both are stimulated.... I hope this helps you some and i wish you the best.
1065301
Talk more about that TOGETHER and try to get a solution TOGETHER.  A possible idea is trying to give as much possible pleasure to your partner before inserting it, and then proceed as usual.
1095509
Anatomically speaking (boring but true)...an orgasm is your cervix dipping downward (and it's a good thing to have if you're trying to conceive) - so you'll feel it alright. And then there's that wonderful sense of release, I guess you can say intense euphoria. If you don't already know this, most women do not have orgasms during sex anyway. You may want to get there on your own then show him how it's done!
34580
only solution is  ... if yuo are   good in satisfying sexual pleasure to your partner
1010350
WOW! great question, we will probably never really have an answer to that, but man I can relate.\nI am going through a situation now, where I feel as though all I am is sex, the cleaning lady and here for his amusement.\nBut, just hang in there, someday you will have true love and find a man who really loves you and sees you as much more.\nGood luck!