tell me how to forget it & jump to a happy future?
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ya gotta get under One to get over Another.
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Try to think before you do anything. Another words, try to think before leaping. But don't feel too bad we all go through stages like that.
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Learn a trade, like yard maintenance and hire yourself out. At night take some classes to better educate yourself and finally, stay out of trouble. You can't erase the past, but you can change the future.
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Be happy be proud. Cause it wont last forever.Think about something else. Say the alphabet backwards
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i like 2 suggest u dat do dat what u like\nu can easily do infuture dat make ur future bright and dont see this which give u more money u have 2 see dat in which subjects u take easy 2 read and can do ur willpower in dat subject dont worry and be relax and think in loneliness carefully.coz its ur future its ur future ok dear take care
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Try the life ride. It's free, it's inescapable, and it certainly only ends with your death.\n\nBut hang on for the time being you're just going up. The fall itself will be spectacular.Make sure you release the bar, so that you can wave your hands up in the air, and wave them just like you don't care.\n\nThis can not be stressed enough: "the future is uncertain but the end is always clear."
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Get excited about some worthwhile goal.  You have problems.. pick one and commit to solving it.  Stay busy and you'll soon forget about the stagnation.
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Live it to the fullest. Life is meant to live not to eliminate! \n\nMax, your fun and Min your worries. (To be short!)\n\nWork on things that would be productive. You could even do really big things, or even really simple things. Its all upto you. \n\nMeet friends, spend time with them, exchange views and emotions. Be with them when they need you, they'll be with you when you need them!.\n\nGood Luck!
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Think well, live long, try to start your life again and don't be afraid of starting.  There is always a new way and a new start.  The past is gone, the present is here and the future... you never now.  So live each day as it is the last one of your life.  Live 100% and laugh until you cry. Good luck and God Bless!
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this may sound harsh but I do not mean it 2.get ur ass up stop worrying about the past n make a future 4 u n ur children.woman all over the world do it every day.dont look 4 others 2 do what u need 2 do 4 urself.if you have the will u will find the way.stop worrying about what busy bodies with no lives have 2 say n start getting ur act 2gether.if you cannot care 4 ur children by urself get state aid,councelors,training 2 become job ready.just take it one step at a time n by this time next year you will be suppirsed at how far u have come.do not give up hope,in our darkest hour,will come a great light.good luck
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Take a walk in the sunshine. The sunlight increases serotonin levels. Focus on good things either in your past or things you want to happen in the future.  Also drink a couple of glasses of water it seems to help pep you up.\n\nWhen I feel this way, I tell myself I can have a one day pity party and tomorrow when I wake up I am going to start the day with a brand new attitude.\n\n\nGood Luck:)
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Well this is actually an easy one.\nWho wants to live in the present..  and who DOES their best to live in today? - Happy People.\n\nWhen you are happy...  you want it to last and last.  If your happiest times were as a kid - you'd look back to those times and spending your time in remembrance... if you are a teenager/kid not that thrilled about 'now' - but looking forward to all the opportunities of the future - then of course the future is where your head is - and in a way that's healthy for that age - what a teenager is almost by definition - part child still (past) - and part adult (future) and in some sense, since now's the time you're planning what college to attend, apps to fill out, your major in college, etc... teenagers should be keeping one foot in the future and one in today... to plan for their future while still enjoying these days.\n\nSo plan for tomorrow - but work on these plans in the present.\nYa, that sounds right.  \n\nBut regardless of age... when you've found that love of your life... or have a lot of great friends around you, a great job you just leap out of bed for - then i'm guessing you're most likely to be living in today. The present. For these are good days... and you don't want to miss a moment of it. \n\nAnd when time starts to go by - these are the days you shall miss - but hopefully you won't keep BOTH feet in the past. maybe just one eye on the past to be sure you learn from it - \n\nAnd be grateful that you even woke up today (alot of people didn't you know) - and always remember today, the present day, is the day to get things done... not the time to remember or try to forget or simply to look forward to better days.\n\nToday is when you MAKE those better days happen.\nToday is when you put in the work.\nRight? - like getting your dreams to be reality, becoming a better human being, etc.  Those things can only be done in the present. Today is for doing my friend.\n\nAnd of course the old: wanting what you don't have theory comes into play as well. Wanting what you don't have, well that will make you look ahead - or back to the past at what you never had or had and lost.\n\nGREAT Question by the way. A big thing we all have to keep in mind. For yesterday is gone. Tomorrow is not a garauntee. But today. Today is all ours to do with it as we wish.
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The hardest thing in the whole wide world, is being 2 and then ending up 1. There is no set rule how to be happy during this separation time. But there are steps to making it easier. First off, don't ever give up hope! Go out with your friends and do things that make you feel good. Never isolate yourself, always have a game plan for tomorrow. Keep you mind busy and when you catch yourself thinking and feeling lonely, tell yourself you have control over this part of your life. Then do something. Call someone, go to the mall, visit a friend, just don't set idol. In time this will become a routine, and before you know you are moving a head in your life and good things are happening. And you have yourself to "thank" for this!
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Challenge yourself with new things and couple them with the familiar. Meditatation is good, try it in the woods next time or by a waterfall. Also, think, study and live! Always new experiences.
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Be very kind to yourself.  Let yourself be sad about how things didn't work out, but after a reasonable amount of time, start to distract yourself from your sad feelings.  Be around friends that make you laugh, do nice things for yourself, take time getting to know yourself again and what you want out of life besides what you don't have, then start taking steps to make all of your dreams come true.  With time your heart will heal.
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How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
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keep busy.. busy.. busy.. you will be too tired to think.. too busy to think.. keep moving forward.. then stop one day and buy yourself a bannana split, sit down and eat it, and look at all the beautiful things around you.. the sky.. flowers..etc.  get up and dust your self off, go home and call your friends and make a date to go dancing.