i have a friend whos parents are strict at her like with boys and blogs and other stuff. (continued..)?
112960
Her parents should be strict. You should mind your own business. :)
706573
It sounds to me she is not your friend at all.  Just because your parents are friends doesn't mean you have to be friends with her. Tell your parents what she has been doing.  Don't carpool with them anymore, distance your way from her.  You don't deserve that.
992071
Be the biggest and go and apoligize to her.  No matter who started it....Never fight over a boy, they come and go but a friend will stay with you for life...from now on when she needs you to email someone, just tell her you would rather not be involved
158779
It all depends on weather your going to be uncomfortable or peer pressured when your there. And if ypur mom is very strict. So think about the situation and if you know it's not a good thing. Let your mom know, that's if your close to her. If not just have fun with it but don't let your guard down.
442490
people say tell her how u r consirned about her, blah blah blah, but that never works, she wont listen 2 u. go right to her parents or a counsler about it u can tell them u want to remain anomimous. it is hard to confront your friends like that, and you might end up loosing the friendship
1073092
Respect her and her privacy - she needs to know that you trust her to make good decisions. If you're going to be paranoid, pretty soon you won't want her going to school, either. Besides that, she'll start rebelling against you and start screwing up intentionally just to irritate you and draw her line in the sand.\n\nEven if she messes up someday, you can't make her feel guilty for each and every mistake she makes - just help her learn from them. In the meatime, have a talk with her about Internet predators and help her see your concern. If you present it to her as an ADULT and not a paranoid, overbearing parent, she'll respect your concerns (even if she gets whiny about having to "listen to that stuff").
774532
As a mother, I certainly think you're on the right track with all the efforts you've been making. Does she have a lot of adults in her life? It may sound strange, but kids expect their mothers to like and accept them, but an adult friend of the family or another adult role model may be able to give her praise and encouragement if she helps him/her with something (gardening, for instance). Once she realizes that not all "strangers" are going to criticize or bully her, she may begin to open up and have more confidence. Poor thing. I hope this is resolved soon. She's at a critical age where not only is she surrounded by peers who are judging her, but she is probably very hard on herself, as well. Good luck to you.
1088865
just do it behind their back. ur parents sound prettty strict. when you go out just meet up with guys. simple.
1124599
maybe terorists  parents
981680
I would talk to both of my parents about the things this woman is saying.  It really sounds as if she is trying to get rid of you as a student by saying all these terrible things to you.  I'm not sure why your parents are willing to subject you to these ugly comments about them.  And I sure wouldn't pay someone who says those things to my child!  I hate to say it, but if you have to, you may have to tell your parents you would rather quit playing violin than have to deal with this woman.  I wish you luck.  You don't deserve to be treated like this!
216540
Are you kidding? Your title is Mother, your entitlement, is to raise her with respect for herself, honesty, you don't ask her for it, you tell her you want it & it will be monitored, or you will take it away from her!!! That's part of whats wrong with some of the teens now adays, thier parents ask them, they don't tell them, your the parent, she's not an adult yet & she's living under your roof. She'll be mad as hell, but she'll get over it.
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
1178927
You gotta suck it up for a while. Do what she says for like..maybe a month. Bring home good grades, and show her that you are responsible. Eventually, she'll losen up as long as you stop pissing her off. However, if her pissyness persists, then just be a rebel becasue if she is perpetually strict, there is no hope.
7749
Because they care about you. There is no benefit for them to be strict. They're trying to help you avoid making many of the mistakes that kids make. You may not understand it right now but they're being strict because they're looking out for you.
922367
Sounds like you're doing all you can. Taking away her things is a good punishment, and not letting her use the phone or watch t.v. or use the computer. There's plenty you can do as punishment that aren't abuse it's called discipline. Just make sure her mom and her dad are on board to back you up. It won't take long for her to realize she's not going to win this one and start behaving, for the most part. \nGood luck.
151545
Sounds a lot like my parents. I have shown in every way that I am a good girl, I get good grades, I fulfill my family responsibility, I stay out of trouble, and etc. And yet, they still are strict. Of course, this is unfair b/c I believe with my record, trust should be easily given. I talked to them about what I wanted (a boyfriend) and why I deserve it WHILE presenting the reasons why they should, how good of a person I am, and how happy it will make me if they let me, and how sad and upset I will be if they didn't. If they still say no to whatever they are strict with, ask them why. Ask for an explanation, why they do not trsut you, or why they shouldn't let you experience something that may be valuable to your life. \nWe're in America, we need a little more freedom.\n\nGood luck
589737
I guess mothers (over their sons) are really nosy...and in terms of the opposite...protective behavior aside...maybe she's looking into how to make herself feel young again? Not too sure...but either way...my gut tells me you should confront the issue and find out what she's really getting out of it...