Don't have a date 4 V-day!  Feel so LEFT OUT!?
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think about how much you love your family!!! who says valentine's day has to be just for couples!!!
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It depends on the day of the week, the time of month or if your close to valentines or christmas etc.\nBeing single is ok, I am completely independant, am not answerable to anyone and very rarely disappointed.\nBut that doesn't stop me feeling lonely when I'm sat in on my own, sadly answering question after question on here... \nI think it would be nice to find companionship, but then I meet someone and before it develops into a relationship it gets all heavy or complicated and think I can do without the hassle.. \nI have plenty of friends and will keep it that way until someone totally special comes my way.\nNot getting into something on the premise I am lonely, if I did that, I could let any kind of scumbag into my life, and they would probably leave it just as quickly having stripped me of my confidence. I am not prepared to let that happen.
669665
Looking back at all my school dances, I recall the funnest dances I've went to were the ones in which I didn't have a date...I had a blast dancing with my girlfriends...dancing with other guys...sometimes its fun not being tied down...if you don't have a date by next Saturday don't worry about it..put on your beautiful dress, get your hair and nails done, and go strut your stuff...make all the guys wish they would have asked you...I hope you have a good time!
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go chill with some of your friends, and the hell with the rest. if they dont feel the same, move on. when they get to looking for you, tell them you will make time for them like they made time for you. this is a special holiday for those u care most for.evn though u should all the time. ur a big girl now. so, go out and do your own thing. from me to u, HAVE A VERY BLESSED AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!
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I'm single and I had a great V day. I even bought myself a DQ ice cream cake and cooked a good dinner. But it does help that i still have single friends to share it with.\nThere was an article today about how japan women resent V day because they have to buy men candy and the men don't return the favor.
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I agree with everyone here, If you ask him out again you may seem a little desperate! Guys don't like that, and im guessing you dont want to get your feelings hurt again. I say find someone else to spend V-day with, Who knows maybe someone is dying to ask you! Don't go searching for someone though, When its right thell find you!!!
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Quickie:\nAdd some romance to your day by taking yourself out on a date. Splurge a little!\n\nOverview:\nWhile current circumstances may not paint you in the most flattering light, you know that you'll be vindicated in the end. Let that foreknowledge influence your behavior now. Be compassionate and forgiving.
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Dateless.  Have some confidence in yourself, you might meet someone special.  If you only have to put in an appearance, go glam, breeze in the front and exit out the back, let everyone think you had another rendezvous you just had to go to...
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Frizzle has it - If you want to do well - your social life has to be put on hold.  Give yourself the occasional day off, but don't expect to keep your partying weekends and make sure your friends understand you will be out of circulation for a while!  Sad advice but true!
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ofcors its impt.. how can u get 2 know someone if u dont date & spend tym w/d person???
744213
lol..in the same boat as you...however...the only time not having a boyfriend borthers me...is when I hang out with my friends...(who are all couples) and I am the fifth wheel...than I start to feel it...or when they talk about their boyfriends....than I am like....thanks just keep talking about your relationship...and let me listen to it...while I start crying because I am lonely.,...never said any of this to any one...it hurts...mind you I am not depressed or anything..I just want to experience the whole relationship thing..I want the holding of the hands...I want to go to the movies..with my boyfriend..I want someone to cuddle with...when watching t.v...I want someone to kiss....\nHowever...I have been told...that love will come when I am not looking for it...But who knows if that is really true....\nI hope that one day I will find someone...
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Don't be upset. You live and work with the guy and he tells you he cares about you and I'm sure he tells you that he loves you. V-day is a day for telling people you love them , not materialistic things that is hyped up to be. I'm sure he does things for you that make you happy, those moments count. He said that he will get you something on Friday. It is a work week and he just happens to be busy. It happens to all of us .Since you live together, do something romantic together, such as cook together or cuddle. I wouldn't worry.
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Two weeks is a short time.   I have been separated for two years now and my divorce should be finalized in two weeks.  LOL... it is always two weeks.  I still don't feel ready to date yet, but I am.  What ya gonna do?  Turn down people when they ask you?  Where have I met people, lets see... at the grocery store check out lane, at the car dealer waiting for my Van to be repaired, at Johnny's New York Style Pizza parlor, my neighbor, on yahoo... gosh, everywhere.  Only go out tho when you are ready.  I worried for the longest time that I just wanted to go out with guys to prove that guys would still find me attractive.
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Spending time with the ones that matter most (family, boyfriend, best friends, etc) is what V-day is to me... I prefer to get creative with gifts. Its better than going broke trying to purchase things that will eventually be forgotten... not to mention leave higher expectations for the next gift.
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Take it easy! A date is just a date. I know it can be nerve-wrecking sometimes...but just chill! Keep in mind that you are very interesting, very nice, very polite and give yourself all kinds of props! It will help you feel better! Then when you are actually on the date, just be casual, be funny--don't let your nerves get the best of you--women don't like nervous men, because that shows insecurity! So if you feel nervous just smile, think of a joke in your head...you know, keep yourself thinking positive! If you want to know more....visit Payton Kane's website...I leave the link below
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If you truly couldn't wait, you would have gone out and done it :)\nIn your heart of hearts, you obviously want to wait until there is someone special in your life, and that is a good thing!\nCelebrate the fact that when you make love, it will be that - making love.  And not some cheap one night of sex which would leave you feeling worse.\nI know it must be very frustrating, but I think you are craving having someone special to spend time with more than you are craving 'sex'.\nThere are many people, male and female, who make the desicion to wait until they meet someone special until they have sex.  I didn't wait, and I do regret it.  Meaningless sex leaves alot of people unfulfilled - it left me feeling worse than I felt before.  This might happen to you too - often you can feel worthless and you self confidence drops after a one night stand.\nDo you really want your first time to be with 'just some random girl'?  Would it not be more special to wait until you find someone you truly care for who cares for you?\nI hope its not coming across like I'm telling you that you have to wait - if you really want to just have sex then you can do that - I just want to let you know that some of who did that wish we had waited.\nI don't know if you would actually be able to change how you feel - you are 24 so you are a grown man who knows his own mind, and it is likely that deep down you know you would be happier waiting.  I hope you don't feel presuriesed in to having sex - I've known a lot of people who has presuriesed mates 'jokingly' only for it to come out later that they themselves hadn't had sex and weren't comfortable with that fact, and were just trying to shift attention.  Mates have a way of making us feel small for taking the sensible route sometimes.\nYou made a positive descion to wait, and I think it would be best for you to stick to that descision.\nIf you've yet to meet anyone special - get out and meet more people.  Make new friends - the more people you know, the more chance you have of meeting someone who you click with.\nGood luck, I hope you can make the right descision for YOU!\n\nEditted to add:\nThe only way you can 'control' yourself is to think things through and look deep inside yourself so you know what is the right descision to make.  Only you can decide wether or not to wait, so if you find yourself feeling like you might be tempted to just go out and get laid, take a step back for a couple of minutes, and ask yourself if that is what you really want.  Listen to your heart and your mind, and remember that purely physical urges will pass, but the negative feelings you may have if you have an unfulfuilling sexual encouter can last a lot longer.\nHope this helps.
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why not,? unless u don't want him? or u don't trust him even a little. or do u want to spend the day without any date! hurry up. say yes!