What do you think about a lady paying for the first date?
114664
If the lady ask the man out.. then its ok..  but if he is a gentleman.. he should offer to pay.. the lady can then choose to accept or not...
790236
because if you dont the woman will make you pay
280263
I am not that way myself, but I have friends who are.\nI always wondered how they decided who paid for the first few dates. \nMaybe the one who initiated the date is the one who pays?\nI would think that other than that, they would date maybe like heterosexual people do by spending lots of time together and going thru a phase of being really super duper in love.
1024071
On a date, I go for the rule of whoever asked the person out should pay.  So if I do the asking I treat.  If he does the asking he treats.  \n\nI think many couples planning on getting married share the expenses of the wedding, although traditionally I think it's the bride's parents who pay.\n\nSome men like to pay for women, it makes them feel gallant or gentlemanly, which is fine sometimes, but I have to say I like to pay, at least for myself if not also for him sometimes, because I don't want to get too dependent on him!
1049873
I'd still call but I would be up front and tell her that is was going to be a cheap date. LOL
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
1176334
This is not about payment is it?  Wow, I thought that it was about so much more.\n\nI figure it like this, don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed if she doesn't and you'll be pleasantly surprised if she does.  Just because you take it upon yourself to do that deed doesn't mean that it's "automatic" for her to return the favor...  If you want it done, ask for it... \n\nPayment?  Naaaah!
1049221
why would you?  just to have someone pay for your food and entertainment?  yes, that would be wrong. \n\nbut if you are trying to see, by going out, that maybe you could like that person, and you are doing so with an honestly open mind on the issue, then that's okay...even if you end up deciding that you are not interested in them...at least you gave them the opportunity to show you who they were so you could see if you'd like to continue dating.
832949
I am old fashion...He pays for the date, always.  I refuse to accept his role in the relationship.  I think the problem with most men is that we as working, independent women feel the need to display our equality.  I don't.  I am equal but you will open my door.  I am equal, but you will pay for the date.  I am equal but if you see me carrying heavy bags or see something in my house that needs repair, you will offer your services.  And in return, I cook my butt off, never say no and make each intimate moment an adventure.  Also, leave that tired clown alone, he's not a real man and will never make you happy.
1177450
sounds good to me - better if she chips in for gas and beer, too.  Hell, it's usually the guy paying for everything long before any commitment is made, why is it wrong for the girl to do so?
205697
You need to start dating a better class of men! Most men do not think that sex is the only important thing in the relationship. If the men you are dating expect you to have sex with them just because they paid the bill for a date, then you need to be sure you pay your own way. There is nothing wrong with the woman also paying for a date. Sex is an important part of a loving relationship to both males and females, but it shouldn't be expected as payment because a man has paid the bill for the date. Let men know up front what you want from the relationship in regards to sex. If they can't accept that and don't wish to date you, then they are jerks and only wanted one thing from you. Just be honest with them, it has always worked for me. =-)
923766
ok...see the reason is that i'm sure that most of the girls you date are not used to having lots of money to spend.  it's not that girls don't like to be pampered, we just don't want to seem like gold diggers.
197589
Make her pay for the next date.
425749
Do you pay?  I'm not saying she a golddigger but she ain't messin wit no broke nigger!  LMAO\n\nSerious though... maybe she needs some more time... if she a shy girl she might want to take things really slow...\n\nAlternatively maybe she thinks you are 'friends' and doesn't know that they are 'dates'...\n\nOr she just might think that you are who she should go out with so she's trying but she is just not into you physically...\n\nMore information of the girl herself necessary to answer this babe...
2099
If you are the one to invite her then she would expect you to pay! If she invites you hopefully she will pick up the tab to say thanks for all the times you have taken her out. If she doesnt, then most likely she is selfish and inconsiderate! if it bothers you perhaps you should communicate with her more on whats bothering you rather than let it build up to the point to where you will blow up! she will respect you more if you step up and communicate with her, if not then it may be time to put yourself back on the market so that a appreciative woman can have her shot with a good guy such as yourself. Goodluck bro.
1045954
Wow, that is not alright. If a guy wants to take you on a date he should finance the whole date. I am not saying that you should not continue to date him, but you may want to be wary of him. If he is this thrifty so early in the relationship, just imagine how he'd be down the road. Personally, I probably would not continue to see him romantically. Mr.Cheapy McCheapskate can just be your friend if he wants to do things that way.
478038
No.....because all your doing is escorting an individual, so it is not considered prostitution. So they are paying for a date, not sex.