how do u have an orgasm with a bf who has a?
117399
Teach him how to use it right.  It's not that hard, no pun intended.
575080
Try new things... \n\nBut one thing that I have learned over the years is that if you play with yourself you will know what turns you on... That way you can give him little hints on what to do to get you off. \n\nAnother tip is that when you do reach an orgasm think to yourself what is going on??? are you breathing less or more? Are you taking long slow breaths or quick and fast? are you playing with your clitorus??? (some women that is the only way they can orgasm.) If the last is the case you can train yourself to orgasm without as much clitoral stimulation.... When your having sex with your man. get into the doggy style possition and let him play with your clitorus... After a while your body will associate the other stimulation with orgasm also.
691156
Beleve me...you'll know.  And if you doubt whether you did, you probably didn't. Get in touch with yourself!  What it feels like is something that can only be experienced. Even more amazing when you really love and appreciate your partner. There are no words on this planet for it...in fact an orgasm almost takes you to a different one.
61250
orgasm..thats the key..evidently you have the wrong mate ..if your not getting anything out of it,then dont do it...if your a woman leave them little boys alone and if your a man get an older woman thats efficeint...lol
265287
there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm...all orgasm is stimulated by the clitoris.....find a position that either stimulates the clitoris or do it yourself during sex...that will do it.
253365
Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!
780871
Maybe its because you just aren't relaxed enough when your with your bf.  You're body isn't ready to respond because you're mind is concerned that it won't happen.  Try just closing your eyes and relaxing and tell your boyfriend to give you lots of foreplay before he goes after your sweet spot.
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the best orgasm ever was from anal sex.  you should do it int he spooning position with a lot of lube and make sure that you go in very slowly.  an inch at a time  good luck she should be fine  but make sure that you clean your self right after to prevent infection as well as do not enter her vagina until you are clean
439371
I have to disagree with some of the others. Every different way I've had orgasms rate differently for me. The shower head is a good one, but none have been so intense as the ones delivered by my boyfriend's tongue. He is the first to ever succeed this way and succeed he does...every time.
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Is your bf trying to make you climax through vaginal intercourse alone, or is there some clitoral stimulation going on?  Many women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax, it's surprisingly rare that a woman can get there with vaginal penetration alone.\nDo you even try to make yourself climax?  Maybe if you get some nice sexy stories and explore your own body you can get yourself off.  It might be a nice place to start, for me it was so much easier to climax with a partner once I had figured out how to do it myself.\nIf neither of these things works for you, you might try getting an adult toy that vibrates to help you along, if THAT doesn't work, then you might want to see a doctor.  There might indeed be something wrong with you, but be patient and work with your body and you will probably not need an MD!
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...When I was with my boyfriend I'd play with my clit while we were in action. It took me 4 years to cum with him. Get totally immersed in what your doing. Body, mind, soul, with an environment to match your deepest fantacies. Maybe do a little yoga to get your mind off of every day life. Watch a porn before you go at it. Have a little chocolate or, better yet all three! If you're having sex just to get an orgasm, it won't come. A little trick I've learned... when he's on top of you, move your hips up and in towards him so he's totally inside you. Keep moving your hips wherever feels best, play with your clit while your at it, stare at his body and into his eyes and keep telling yourself how sexy he is and how much you want him. Use a vibrator while your at it. If all else fails, get a book to better educate yourself or even call a sex therapist. Life is too short to have limited O's.
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Ignoring the PRUDES AND ICE BYTCHES ON THE SITE.  Listen, the hot and cold sensation is great.  Licking him between his *ss  and balls is great.  But if he lets you and that's a big IF while you are giving him his bj gently insert your finger in his a n u s.   (think of a proctology exam)  It tickles his prostate. This sensation will intensify his orgasm. If you swallow (and don't be ashamed if you do) Just remember to breathe before he ejaculates it WILL BE INTENSE.
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You need to establish an orgasm road-map in your brain. If you can get there through m_asturbation, then you are already half-way there.\n\nYou need to have him get you as close as possible, then finish up with m_asturbation. Next time, he'll get a little closer. Keep it up, and before you know it he'll get you there without your needing to m_asturbate at all!
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well positions most women would say you on top is best for orgasm, because gravity helps the blood flow south. but me personally I like the different variations of missionary it helps when you put some pillows under your ass to tilt your pelvis upward.\n It sounds kind of weird but you have to stop concentrating on pleasing him and think about yourself for a min. I mean honestly you really can't climax if the only thing your thinken about is how he is feeling.concentrate on how good he feels to you if he gets you excited but just can't push you over the edge don't hesitate to reach your hand down there and help him out. I can almost guarantee that he will luv the result.
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watch the teeth.  Get as much of him in as you can.  Use your whole tongue, using just the tip can tickle and he wants to be pleasured, not tickled.  Get good suction cuz if u just let him have sex with your lips it's kinda boring.  Dont pull it out of your mouth and ask if he's almost there, just keep going till he finishes.  If ur good it wont be long anywayz
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This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.