Why is it women say they want a good,honest,and good looking man,but yet they always go for the bad guys.?
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dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
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Hi girl , a girl who's attractiveas you should not worry and get involve with bad men. first of all you need to re think of what sort of man you want. i know some great guys because i knowwhat i want and go for it.#\nWhy not do that and not waste your time. Men just leave coz most of them have no ideawhat they want when they get to know you all they remember is how you look and act not how you feel or felt thats why.
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Want an honest, truthful, experience answer?  Nope, they don't.  Good looking men can pick and choose who they want and they're going after the model types.
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I like bad guys, my last bf was a good guy and I just couldn't stand it! He was soo careful about everything, like I was made out of class, I'm a strong woman, I need a guy who can keep up with me! Plus, I think bad ones ar hotter ;)
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WOMEN WANT A MAN WHO WILL NEVER CHEAT ON THEM . ALWAYS BE COMMITTED TO THEM. NEVER LIE TO THEM. TO CHERISH THEM AND LOVE THEM FOREVER. THEY WANT A MAN WHO WOULD DIE FOR THEM. SOMEONE WHO WILL BE BY THEIR SIDE NO MATTER WHAT. IT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN BUY HER OR WHAT SHE CAN BUY YOU. IF YOU CAN PROVIDE A GOOD HOME AND A GOOD LIFE THAT'S GREAT. JUST DON'T BASE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON MONEY OR MATERIAL THINGS. THEY WANT A LIFE PARTNER-SOMEONE TO SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIVES WITH. AT LEAST THAT IS WHAT I WANT FOR ME. I AM NOT THE MATERIALISTIC TYPE. THEY ALSO NEED SOMEONE WHO THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO-WHETHER IT BE PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY AND SOMEONE WHO MAKES LOVE TO THEM-NOT JUST FUCKS THEM. SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE, NOT CRITISIZE THEIR LOOKS OR ANYTHING ELSE. JUST LOVE THEM THE WAY THEY ARE.
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Some guys never figure out what they really want & others think that the sole aim in life is to have someone that will sleep with them on a regular basis. There are, however, good men out there...it just normally takes them awhile to gain the maturity needed to be a partner in a relationship.\n\nWhy do they lose you & then want you back? Simple; some are incapable of seeing how good a thing they had until it is gone & immature enough to think that a little "I love you" will make everything better. They don't understand that, if a man really loves a woman, he doesn't intentionally hurt her...whether physically or emotionally.\n\nGood luck & keep trying! You'll find a good guy. I know they aren't all taken :)
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Nice guy's only seem to finish last, when all is said and done, nice guy's finish first with the best women. It's a sorting out process, you don't want the women who like bad guy's anyway.
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Do you really want me to tell you the truth?  The whole answer?\n\nHere's the deal...  I am one of those sweet women who seems very innocent.  I've historically always gone for the bad boy...  Here's the secret...  Good girls want to "save" the bad boys.  Bad boys want to corrupt the good girls.  They also want to be saved... And believe it or not, good girls often want to be corrupted, even if it's just a little bit...\n\nWe eventually (hopefully) realize what's going on... We have an unhealthy cycle of picking the wrong types of people.  \n\nFor me, it took a lot of things happening to get me to be honest with myself about the bad choices I was making.\n\nI made a conscious change and started having higher standards.  I stopped dating the bad ones and started picking people who were better suited to me.\n\nFor those good guys out there:  Be patient and don't lose hope.  There are good girls out there that will see the light, sooner or later.  Keep your standards high and keep a smile on your face.  Above all, try to keep from becoming cynical and bitter.  You'll be happier and healthier for it...\n\nJust a little clue... Although I'm currently in a wonderful marriage, maybe it'll give you a little hope to know that I had two previous marriages (although one of them was so short that it hardly counts)... Perhaps your future wife is married right now, but is acquiring the knowledge that will help her to appreciate you more fully when she finally finds you. :)  Chin up, my friend!  Be optimistic!
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I'm sure most women likes a man who's honest from the very beginning. Being yourself all the time is much better for your conscience too than try to be impressive in her eyes and after awhile, your "true" self comes out, so she'll end up being disappointed in you. \n\nWomen likes men who are responsible in most things in life especially in their actions and of course.
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The honest answer is that some never grow up to want a stable and rewarding drama free relationship. Those of us that do it all depends on the maturity of the particular woman. Some of us want a drama free, loving, respectful relationship to enjoy the rest of our lives and keep running into knuckle heads. I have enjoyed some great good guys and most of them are married with children now and we all keep in touch. Be patient and don't just settle for anybody get to know their heart first not just their looks.
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i think that questios depends on what kind of men they is. If those who wants to have a family its 90~100% they want a women who is honest and loving over beauty. But if those who are just wan for fun... is to be 0~10% that they wan those kinds...cause they prefer look and beauty... :P
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No it's very common amongst girls and women. Bad boys are usually lots of fun, and unlike good boys, have the confidence to go after you, which is ultra-flattering. Also, not all bad boys treat women badly, as that article suggested - some of them can also be tender, gentle, considerate and passionate. It's the old "he's a different person when he's with me" syndrome.\n\nI don't know if there's a set answer as to why women are attracted to bad boys. I'm not completely convinced by the "low self-esteem" theory, because I've always rejected the bad boys, not because I have high self-esteem but simply out of fear - in other words, I didn't trust myself to handle the outcome.
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Women really want a good man that will love them , respect them, treat them as their equal, and be a MAN! They want to feel appreciated, not used and abused. Women want the kind of love that they have seen in movies, where the man "adores" her, and cherishes her. They want a small token of man's appreciation, like flowers, or candy once in a while.
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there is lots of women that like nice guys. the bad guys usually get the attention because they make a move first. go ahead and be nice, but not shy.
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Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.
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Because women are typical.\n\nThey know they will marry the good guy, the sweet guy, who will have a good IT job, always provide for them and never cheat or leave em.  Knowing that's their fate they fight against it.\n\nThey hook up no matter how briefly with a loser or a creep who rides motorcycles or leather or whatever they perceive as a bad boy.\n\nPlus women tend to be quite delusional when it comes to their men.  They will never accept what their friends and family are saying and why she needs to leave that creep.  Women are great at lying to themselves about seeing something in him that all of us have missed, that he really is changing or even just glossing over the bad parts and cherishing the good times (as scant as they are).\n\nIt takes more courage for a woman to fight and want and be patient for a guy who will treat her like the queen she truly is then to be typical and idiotic and waste time with any guy who will treat her badly just because she's lonely or feeling insecure or desperately wants to be in a relationship.\n\nOurs is a world in desperate need of strong beautiful women.
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You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.