I am a motivational speaker.I need explnations on,Fear,Modesty,Doubt,Diligence,Controling Emotions,Service,?
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Though its good question, I feel that you might have asked one question after another to make it simple to understand....\n\nI will talk about emotion. emotion is a state of mind. What controls human emotions are not the surroundings or the people who surround you, but ones response to those people and surroundings. So ones state of mind decides the outcome - emotion.\n\nI feel if one touches the heart of others, if they tell from ones experience and  its the charisma of the speaker that counts a lot. Then one a can be a successful motivational speaker.\n\nI just read your response to my question reagrding religious leaders, thanks for the info....
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I came back and found you added specifics! thank you. (sorry for the length--but I was having fun with this!)\n\nshaking/shivering:\nunstable, rattled, vibrating, quivering, quaking, quaver, tottering, wobbly, swaying, trembling, shuddering, fluttering, flickering, jiggling, jostling, agitating, waving, jarring, jolting, disquieting, ruffling, stunned, startling, staggering, unsteady, teetering, tremulous, precarious, uncertain, dubious, vacillating, faltering, half-hearted and hesitantly!\n\nlooks like:\nscrutinized, appears, contemplate, studied, surveyed, has the appearance of, glaring, presence, expression, on the suface, ostensibly, demeanor, seemingly, materialized, manifested, aspect of, pretense, impression, aspect, emotional implications, felt by the beholder, misleading appearance, comparable, equivilant of, in the throes of passion, gives the impression of being, obvious, seemingly, gives the impression that may be superficial or illusory or presumed. \n\nThe following are words that may help describing objectives in your paper.  This was written first before you posted a description!\n\nKnowledge:  \nanswer - choose - complete - define - follow - identify - indicate - investigative - label - list - match - name - provide - record.\n\nComprehension:\nassemble - balance - classify - conduct - describe - estimate - expand - explain - explore - express - factor - illustrate - improve -interpret - locate - measure - recognize - set-up - summarize - trace.\n\nApplication:\napply - assess - construct - collect - establish - draw - demonstrate - discuss - facilitate - find - illustrate - individualize - operate - participate - perform - plan - predict - prepare - present - schedule.\n\nAnalysis:\nanalyze - calculate - categorize - debate - deduce - determine - distinguish - examine - experiment - inspect - improve - infer - relate - test.\n\nSynthesis:\narrange - change - combine - compose - construct - create - design - develop - formulate - implement - organize - produce - plan - revise - set-up - write - compose - report.\n\nEvaluation:\nappraise - choose - compare - contrast - decide - estimate - evaluate - rate - reorganize - revise - select - solve.
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Marriage\nBoose\nSmoking\nSex\nSilly questions
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PRE-PLAN your speech.\nDecide which aspect(s) of character are most important. (Honesty, courage, responsibility, leadership, loyalty, duty, respect, attitude, perseverance, my personal favorite... integrity...?) Using the trait(s) you selected, come up with a thesis statement. Your speech should center around this idea. Brainstorm at least three to five specific examples to support your statement. These may include any of the following:\nexamples from history, literature, or current events\nthe information you are given on the test\nexamples from your own personal experience\nDecide on your three strongest examples. These should be the ones you can explain in the most specific detail. In general, examples from your personal experience are easier to write about, but they are weaker in the eyes of the reader.\n\nWRITE your speech.\nStart with an introduction. Your introduction should explain what you're going to talk about in your speech, but DON'T say something like, "This speech is about..." or, "I'm going to tell you about..." Assume your audience is smart enough to figure this out. Your introduction should include some kind of HOOK--something to catch the reader's attention. There are many types of hooks. Try a question, a quotation, a definition, a statistic, a single word, an action, a description, or an unusual statement. The goal is to get your audience interested and to get them thinking.\nNext is the body of your speech. This is where you take those three strongest examples you brainstormed during your planning. Start with one you can explain very clearly.\nUse transitions in each of these paragraphs. Develop these paragraphs thoroughly. Keep the writing focused. Don't ever lose sight of your thesis statement! Everything in a paragraph should be connected, and it should all make sense together.\nGive lots of details. Poor example: "Integrity is a good quality for a person to have because it makes you a good person." Good example: "Integrity is a vital quality which allows a person to make decisions based on his or her understanding of what is 'right' and what is 'wrong.'" Poor example: "Martin Luther King, Jr., had lots of integrity because he was a good guy." Good example: "Martin Luther King, Jr., is a paradigm of integrity because he understood the importance of equality. He took it so seriously that he fought for equality, traveling around the country and speaking to innumerable people."\nUse strong words. Try to use words that will not make you sound intelligent, not supercilious.\nWrap up your speech with a competent conclusion. Watch out for these common mistakes:\nDON'T say the exact same thing you've said already.\nDON'T say something like, "Now you know about..." or, "I have just told you about..." And NEVER say "I hope you enjoyed listening to my speech!"\nUse a simple form in your conclusion. Restate your main thesis (in different words). You may want to generalize a little bit. Look for a common theme in all your examples which you can apply. You can end with another hook, if it seems appropriate.\nRemember, your conclusion is the LAST thing your audience will hear. It doesn't have to be pure genius, but it should leave a good last impression.\n\nREVIEW your speech.\nMake sure it makes sense. Check for grammatical errors; in particular, watch for sentence fragments and run-on sentences. Have a friend, family member, or teacher read it. Practice it several times by yourself and in front of a few people. Get some good feedback.\n\nGood luck! Feel free to contact me with specific questions.
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take a seat\nthank you\nenjoy\nwork experence\nqualities\ncertainly\nimportant thing\njust one thing\ngetting in touch
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parents need perseverance\nendurance\nenduringness\ngameness\nhardiness\npatience\npersistance, persistency\nstamina, stayer, doggedness, insistance, insistancy, pertinacity,\nsedulity\n\nenough ?  - Hope you have all of them, we all need all of it
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Public speaking is a common source of stress for everyone. BELIEVE ME!!!!!  Many of us would like to avoid this problem entirely, but this is hard to do. Whether we work alone or with large numbers of people, eventually we will need to speak in public to get certain tasks accomplished. And if we want to be leaders or achieve anything meaningful in our lives, we will often need to speak to groups, large and small, to be successful.\n\nThe truth about public speaking, however, is IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE STRESSFUL! If you correctly understand the hidden causes of public speaking stress, and if you keep just a few key principles in mind, speaking in public will soon become an invigorating and satisfying experience for you.\n\nPurpose Of This Report\nThe purpose of this Special Report is to help you overcome the fear of public speaking. It begins by discussing ten key principles to always keep in mind. If you approach any problem in life with the right starting principles, everything else will fall into place. On the other hand, if you start with the wrong guiding principles, you can try all you want, but there is little chance you'll improve.\n\nThis Report also reveals eleven "hidden" causes of public speaking stress. I have summarized these eleven causes, along with the ten key principles, at the end of this Report, so you can easily review them.\n\nKey Principles\nPrinciple #1--Speaking in Public is NOT Inherently Stressful\n\nMost of us believe parts of life are inherently stressful. In fact, most of us have been taught to believe that life as a whole is very stressful!\n\nTo deal with any type of stress effectively, you first must understand that life itself, including public speaking, is NOT inherently stressful. Thousands of human beings have learned to speak in front of groups with little or no stress at all. Many of these people were initially terrified to speak in public. Their knees would shake, their voices would tremble, their thoughts would become jumbled . . . you know the rest. Yet they learned to eliminate their fear of public speaking completely.\n\nYou are no more or less human than they are. If they can conquer the fear of public speaking, so can you! It just takes the right guiding principles, the right understanding, and the right plan of action to make this goal a reality.\n\nBelieve me, it's not difficult. I'm a good example of someone who conquered the fear of public speaking. And while I didn't do it overnight, it wasn't difficult. All it took was approaching the problem in the right way.\n\nPrinciple #2--You Don't have to be Brilliant or Perfect to Succeed\n\nMany of us have observed public speakers and thought to ourselves "Wow, I could never be that smart, calm, witty, entertaining, polished . . . or whatever." Well, I've got news for you-- you don't have to be brilliant, witty, or perfect to succeed. That is not what public speaking is all about. I know it may look that way, but it's not. You can be average. You can be below average. You can make mistakes, get tongue-tied, or forget whole segments of your talk. You can even tell no jokes at all and still be successful.\n\nIt all depends on how you, and your audience, define "success." Believe me, your audience doesn't expect perfection. I used to think most audiences did, but I was wrong! Before I discovered this, I used to put incredible pressure on myself to deliver a perfect performance. I worked for days to prepare a talk. I stayed up nights worrying about making mistakes. I spent hours and hours rehearsing what I was going to say. And you know what? All this did was make me even more anxious! The more perfect I tried to be, the worse I did! It was all very disheartening (not to mention unnecessary).\n\nThe essence of public speaking is this: give your audience something of value. That's all there is to it. If people in your audience walk away with something (anything) of val
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My main problem is i feel that when i talk, others will laugh on me so i mostly keep my mouth shut. How can i overcome my fear?\nWell the first thing you need to do to get over this fear is to proof it to be false. You see fear can be a strong motivater, but also an even stronger demotivater. We know for a fact that the "fear of getting burnt", keeps us from touching a red hot element. The reason is because one way or another we have tested it to be true.\nFear as a demotivater raises its head by what I refer to as false truths, which is simple truths that we believe but have never really tested.\nIf I would be coaching you personally I would encourage two activities to help you test out your fear. First what might at first feel stupid but works well, is simply speaking to yourself in the mirror. Look at your reflection and consider what would be considered a good conversation with the other person. Talk about what is important to that person in the mirror or what is really the other person.\nSecondly, I would reccommend that you have at least 3 conversations with complete stranges. Strangers are further from your comfort level of acquaintances and therefore have little regard to you personally if the conversation was effective or not. Simple start talking about the weather and go from there, but be precient, the payoff is awesome and you will soon realize your fear was no more than a false truth.\nTo understand effective communicating, please check out my blog. It will help you on your way to success.
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honesty\nopen-mindedness\nwillingness
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Online Speech Bank\nIndex to and growing database of 5000+ full text, audio and video (streaming) versions of public speeches, sermons, legal proceedings, lectures, debates, interviews, other recorded media events, and a declaration or two.\n\nhttp://www.americanrhetoric.com/\n\nhttp://www.americanrhetoric.com/speechbank.htm\n\nhttp://www.speech-topics-help.com/good-persuasive-speech-topics.html\n\nhttp://www.historyplace.com/speeches/previous.htm\n\nhttp://library.albany.edu/usered/dr/speech.html\n\nhttp://www.history.com/media.do\n\nhttp://yahooligans.yahoo.com/school_bell/social_studies/history/speeches/\n\n\nSpeechTips\n\nLooking for Good Persuasive Speech Topics?\n\nhttp://www.top101persuasivespeechtopics.com/\n\nhttp://www.speech-topics-help.com/index.html\n\nhttp://www.goodpersuasivespeechtopics.com/persuasive.htm\n\nhttp://www.leeogle.org/byron/bhs/library/persuasion.htm\n\nThis is a very good site with very easy to follow step by step instructions.\n\nSpeechTips.com Your free guide to speech writing and public speaking for eulogies, graduations, best man, father of the bride and any other public speaking engagement.\n\nhttp://www.speechtips.com/index.html\n\nhttp://www.speechtips.com/preparation.html\n\nFREE Articles on Public Speaking\n\nThis site has so many tips that I was unable to pick any, you will need to see for yourself and see which, if any are useful to you.\n\nhttp://www.public-speaking.org/public-speaking-articles.htm\n\nThis site seems OK but once again see what is useful.\n\nhttp://members.shaw.ca/toasted/services.htm\n\nI liked this one.\n\nThe fear of speaking to a group of people is one of the most common forms of social phobia. Here are several suggestions for working with this fear.\n\nhttp://www.rpeurifoy.com/anxiety/pubspeak.htm\n\nPublic speaking do's and don't's\n\nhttp://www.lifehacker.com/software/feature/public-speaking-dos-and-donts-161531.php\n\nGood luck.\n\nKevin, Liverpool, UK.
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Originality\n\nSincerity\n\nStructure\n\nGrammar\n\nSpelling\n\nVoice\n\nPunctuation\n\nProse\n\nConclusion\n\nThe Unexpected
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Online Speech Bank\n\nIndex to and growing database of 5000+ full text, audio and video (streaming) versions of public speeches, sermons, legal proceedings, lectures, debates, interviews, other recorded media events, and a declaration or two.\n\nhttp://www.americanrhetoric.com/\n\nhttp://www.americanrhetoric.com/speechbank.htm\n\nhttp://www.speech-topics-help.com/good-persuasive-speech-topics.html\n\nhttp://www.historyplace.com/speeches/previous.htm\n\nhttp://library.albany.edu/usered/dr/speech.html\n\nhttp://www.history.com/media.do\n\nhttp://yahooligans.yahoo.com/school_bell/social_studies/history/speeches/\n\nSpeechTips\n\nLooking for Good Persuasive Speech Topics?\n\nhttp://www.top101persuasivespeechtopics.com/\n\nhttp://www.speech-topics-help.com/index.html\n\nhttp://www.goodpersuasivespeechtopics.com/persuasive.htm\n\nhttp://www.leeogle.org/byron/bhs/library/persuasion.htm\n\nThis is a very good site with very easy to follow step by step instructions.\n\nSpeechTips.com Your free guide to speech writing and public speaking for eulogies, graduations, best man, father of the bride and any other public speaking engagement.\n\nhttp://www.speechtips.com/index.html\n\nhttp://www.speechtips.com/preparation.html\n\nFREE Articles on Public Speaking\n\nThis site has so many tips that I was unable to pick any, you will need to see for yourself and see which, if any are useful to you.\n\nhttp://www.public-speaking.org/public-speaking-articles.htm\n\nThis site seems OK but once again see what is useful.\n\nhttp://members.shaw.ca/toasted/services.htm\n\nI liked this one.\n\nThe fear of speaking to a group of people is one of the most common forms of social phobia. Here are several suggestions for working with this fear.\n\nhttp://www.rpeurifoy.com/anxiety/pubspeak.htm\n\nPublic speaking do's and don't's\n\nhttp://www.lifehacker.com/software/feature/public-speaking-dos-and-donts-161531.php\n\nGood luck.\n\nKevin, Liverpool, UK.
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apathy, contentment, laziness, satisfaction, sloth\nhttp://thesaurus.reference.com/search?q=ambition
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Not bad. I like these\nRESPECT : no dirty talk, be a nice boy.\nTRUTH FULLNESS :once you start lying, it's all over\nPOLITENESS : say thank you, or may I please.\nCOURTESY : Be courteous to others. \nI am no saint, but found all that goes for the workplace as well as social life.
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There are some great books to read... go to borders or amazon and search for motivational books... or books on public speaking... also classes are great too - b/c they give you experience speaking in front of others.\n\nAlso, you can work with a speaker, as an assistant... or attend speaker's sessions to see how they do it...
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Try:\n\nConfess\nAcknowledge\nOwn\nConcede
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don t worry and be happy\nlive and let live\nbelive in god