How do i know that my husband is chatting other girls on the internet?
114119
Trust is foundation of any relationship. If you cannot trust him, you do not have any relationship.
1020942
I'd tell him I like him then ask how his wife is.  Seriously though, ask him why he's lying about himself on the internet.  Saying he is married and looking is not going to get him anywhere.  Or hey it could have been a mistake!
194326
The usual signs: avoiding you, acting suspicious, being secretive, lieing.  Ask your mte about it.  He will probably want to come claen with you.  My husband always does.  He is relieved after i find out.
833458
He's flat out plain using you. And don't expect him to tell you when hes sleeping with other women. You need to be tested for HIV by the way.\n\n\nJeez women are dumb.
291637
-sigh- talk to him about it!\n\ni am a teenager girl, sixteen.  in all of my pictures i do wear clothing.  it seems that your husband is either only friends with sex bots or whores on myspace.  tell him how it makes you feel.  don't just vent it here.  explain to him what hurts the most:  the comments on myspace.  tell him that you do not think that is right. explain that he needs to stop flirting with the girls on there beseverelyit hurts your feelings severly.  and if he doesn't care if that hurts your feelings, thecounselingtake major action.  cousneling.\n\nmyspace is not just a place to flirt.  i use it to keep in contact with friends.
1084182
I feel it is wrong to keep your husband out of the loop.  I am truly in love with my husband, and anything I do includes him, and vice versa.  We do not keep secrets from each other and we can talk about anything.  We both have chat friends.  We talk to each other about them and about our conversations.  It's one thing to have secrets one shares with a friend; it's something completely different to have a secret friend.  Keeping that type of secret can lead to problems even if that was not the initial intent.  If he found out about the chat friend through means other than hearing it from you, it could be a problem.  The partner who has been left out of the loop feels he/she cannot trust the other, and the partner with the secret can easily be led astray.  The intrigue can be exciting and too much to ignore.  If you are experiencing guilt, then you may have other intentions in mind, even if you haven't acted on them...yet.  And so might your chat buddy.  Your husband should be included in your friendship with the person you are chatting with, or at least made aware of the friend.  If you cannot tell him about your chat friend, and/or if he could not accept it, perhaps you should take a real good look at your relationship.  I feel you are putting your relationship with your husband second, and this can only create problems.  I believe honesty and fidelity are the most important elements of a successful, marital relationship.
366610
Maybe he is for real...not everyone is a liar and a cheat or has a hidden agenda.Just dont rush into anything.\n\nI met my a guy almost 7 years ago in an internet chatroom.\n\nWe are still best pals and.....happily married :)
841551
You're right, there may be something going on.  You will have to play detective.  If you get a chance try to see if he has received any texts from her and read them. Ask him why he runs your sister down.  You need to follow him if you can (without being seen) to see where he goes.  I wish you luck.
147374
Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
796323
Someone on the Internet can tell you anything and a lot they do tell you is just what you want to hear. Enjoy it has something to kill time but dont take it as a relationship you will only get hurt. There are plenty of married men out there that use girls like you as a toy yet still have loving and normal relationships with their wife's and children. Get away from the key board go out and meet someone in the flesh its much safer and real
845249
Texting another girl does not sound like cheating. The text he is sending would determine if he is cheating.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
421217
What do u mean "Is that ok?" of course it's not ok. Girl what you need to do is stop being naive and ask your husband what is going on. If he's sending her text messages saying he misses this other woman then he is definitly cheating--and I know u don't want to have a relationship like that. Even if he is open with you about seeing this other woman, that is not right for any husband to do. What you need to do is confront this woman and ask her how long this thing has been going on and then confront your husband about it. And if he is cheating then kick him to the curb and find someone new. It's no use trying to work it out because once a cheater always a cheater.
745222
He might have just wanted to tell you that there were girls there incase you hear it from someone else. If that happens you'd start to question why didn't he tell you about it and wonder if he's hidding something. He's just trying to play it safe and be honest with you by keeping you updated about all the things that are happening.
1146453
There's a program called KeyLogger or something that is supposed to track conversations. I don't know how to use it though.\n\nBest bet is to confront her about it though! Don't try and be sneaky because if she HASN'T been cheating and you make it look like you don't believe her, she's going to be really hurt.
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable