i love a girl but she is not going be clear with me and make so many mistakes to make me trouble?
113988
YOU make so many mistakes-its ok for you but not her? Maybe you dont see clear.
211913
Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
255366
It's a tough road buddy, unfortuantely, it doesn't sound like she's mature enough to deal with the situation. DO you really wont to be with someone that you 1) Can't Trust 2) Can't honestly expect the truth from. Fortuantely for you , you've found this out before you were married, it doesn't make the hurt stop but it does make it easier to deal with. Keep reminding yourself you are worth more, that you tried your best, but don't ever settle. You deserve more, you seem like a rare good guy. There are good and bad people in the world, but we have to weed through alot of bad people to find the one good person. Good Luck.
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
553677
new to relationships... you have alot to learn about girls if u think there is any foolproof plan!! We're complicated.. learn to deal with it and oh.. its the little things that always count the most!
261032
You've blown it man. She won't trust you now. Let this be a learning curve.\nBelieve me, you have more fun keeping your mouth shut.
770043
She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
478413
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
506120
dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
313953
Well my first advise is to quit playing games. No girl wants a guy that wont be honest from the beginning. Now you have to work to earn her trust back. When maybe in the first place maybe she would have said yes if you werent playing these dumb games with her
1003037
you need to talk to her and try to make an effort to spend more time together. find out why she doesn't trust you and try to change. If you really love someone you will be able to talk and work it out..
937461
In my oppionion, there's something she's not, or doesn't want to tell you. She may be avioding you because when that awful "thing/event" occures, it won't hurt you as much as it would if you were together. She might have to leave that town someday something worse. She may not know she's hurting you thins much. Another possibility is that she might want a break up, but is hurting you so you could be the one to break the realtionship, but the only way to fin out is to tell her how you feel other than simply asking, "What's wrong"
1187507
She is confused, she has feelings for you but doesnt want you to be too close, meaning she doesnt want to get involve with you. And sends you sms or stuff just when she is in worry or has no one else. and when she finds someone else you are no more there for her, Also since she is more qualified and getting more paid, so you two are bound to have clashes, she will show her authority. And when you will not obey she will simply move out without any feelings. I have heard it happen like this. Unless she is in love with you and you know her for sure, and she doesnt change color so quickly, than go for her or i would prefer just forget her. There will be some girl who really loves you and is just not telling you, so find that girl, and when you will get your mind away from this girl the other girl you will easily see. Trying to get your attention but you ignoring her. Rest you have a mind can see things more clearly, evaluate. Its a waste to love someone who doesnt love you.
576436
relationships r tricky n they would neva b the same from the moment they start n as time goes by .. so if u asked her n she told u dat she hasnt lost love 4 u then dont worry , but u cant expect a person dats under lots of stress 2 b all lovy dubby wit u r any 1, dat u need 2 understand ... but if she doesnt call as much as b 4 dats just cause dats how relationships work , not every 1 can stay the same from day 1 dat everythin starts... but u can call her instead n let her know u still there n anythin she needs she can come 2 u .. but with out u tellin her how u feel then she wont have any idea of wats goin through ur head .. good luck hope it works out 4 the best
186884
Focus more on your feelings for her than how you think she will respond.  It is best when it's all over that you can look back and say "I was honest with my own heart" no matter how it turns out instead of "I wonder what would have happened if.." and never know.  It is more about you doing what you know you want to do to express your feelings that stressing over how she will respond.. keep that focus and go for it.  If she says no, pat yourself on the back for trying and live to love another day.
940287
well, maybe you should talk to her and see what she is mad about.. and see what she dont like about you.. no one can be perfect.... but maybe if you guys can communicate on the phone or in person it would be better