I have feelings for a dear friend, should I tell him?
106635
of course first of all you must talk to your husband. tell him all that you know about his computer "games" and tell him how he makes you feel and how he has been treating you. give him time to talk. be open honest and blunt. if you are blunt to him he will be to you. don't spare andy feelings this is your life if things don't work out with your husband then take it from there but don't betray him even if things turn for the worse (divorce) my advise is spend less time with the friend ( i know it will be hard) and more time with the family. Try to salvage your mariage before you indulge your short term desires. Be patient and have will power. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS
801003
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.
169741
If you don't know you love them, don't tell him that. He would probably feel the insencerity in your voice anyway.\nBut, you are a long enough time to know that you at least like him a lot. If that is true, just tell him that, he should be happy with that expression, for a while, because he will see you are honest about it. The occasion should probably be the very next outing you are going to have.\nAfter that, you will buy yourself some time to think of whether or not you return his feelings.\nThat is my view, hope it helps.
491162
you should definately tell him . it happened to me too. its great if he's your friend because you already know a lot about eachother and your comfortable with eachother already so definately go for it! dont worry about it.
681693
well first of all u need to be honest with him. tell him that ur friendship means a lot and u do not wish to ruin it or put him in a compromiseing situation but u have to let him know how u feel and ask how he feels, assure him that u'll respect his decission and if things work out in ur favour work to make it last and if it don't move on be happy for him and try to find ur own happiness.\nhope u get what ur heart desires
961390
I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him. \n\nFishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.\n\nIf a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.\n\nGoodluck!
620749
yea just tell him straight up how u feel, and tell him what ur best friend thinks about him too
989739
Well consider the amount of time that you've gotten to know him. Have you been friends long enough to see his true colors?  All that matters is how comfortable you are with him and how much you trust him. If you have a connection that feels like its something special and just cant hold your feelings back then I say go for it!
198919
The same thing I told another friend.\n\n\nif he's nice to you\nif he treats you right\nif both of your like to hang out togeather.\n\nif your answer is yes, then i think you should go for it.
386682
Then tell him exactly that.  Tell him that you really love him as a friend, but you appreciate him as a friend so much that you wouldn't want things to become screwed up between you.
642834
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.
101198
U should tell him. He probably feels the same way about you but is afraid to say so. So maybe you should break the ice by telling him first. Even if he dosn't say it back, it still holds true with you. There is no use in denying it. It is much better that he tells you because he means it, rather than jus say it in order to make you happy.
788376
Did you tell him about your feelings for him?if not,then tell him.Who knows he might just ashame to tell you that he loves you too.
946608
look at it this way, u never had to work up the courage to tell him how u felt, it really waznt ur friend's right, but atleast he knos now and u can see where u stand with him, im sure everything will go great, good luck! hope it all goes just great
407817
It really depends on you and him... If you guys are really good friends and you guys understand eachother then, why not just tell him how you feel about him?? You know him better than anyone else and if you feel that he's going to act differently towards you b/c you told him how you felt then I would suggest that you keep at a friendship level... You never know though he could poossibly be feeling the same way.. To be honest if he was really a good friend reguardless of whether he feels the same or not he will be able to continue being your friend afterwards.. I would take that chance, you'll never really know unless you try. But in the end that's just my opinion, the decision is really yours to make in the end.... Good Luck!!!!!
1037427
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
584698
u need to tell him or otherwise u will dwell on it 4 2 long and the right person 4 u wont be there at all....my best friend told me that he liked me when he knew that i was in love w/ my husband (he wasnt my husband then tho)...he knew it was never gonna happen but he did it neway...we're still best friends...if ur friend is the kind of friend u say he is, then he shouldnt mind u tellin him at all