love is nothing,simply time waste and the source of get more pain but why people loves anyone??
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Love is everything kiddo, it makes the world go round and round. And people love because it is a natural tendency of one to connect with another. It is not a waste of time but yes, love hurts but with the pain it brings, there also comes growth, wisdom and more love.
489879
Well, Life is about chances and so is love...  Some people hurt us intentionally, but some don't..\n\nI think that the people we love hurt us, because they don't know how to appreciate it.  Take it for granted and take it as a vulnerability. (So they take advantage of us)\n\nBut don't give up on it..  We have to go through a few bad seeds, before we finally find the right one..  : )
1084954
its giving of yourself to someone else, love can be romantic or motherly love or paternal.  Friendship love.  just loving everyone in general without wanting to harm them but to help them who ever you meet
55778
There are many levels of suffering when loving. For instance, when parents loose a childe, when a spouse looses his or her partner to accident or decease. And while it's been said that you cannot experience love if you don't experience suffering, or experience the night without a day, etc., it's really just a matter of  embracing everything life throws at you. Problems are nothing but bumps on the road that tell you, "avoid me in the future". To me real suffering has nothing to do with love per say. It has to do with circumstances like poverty, decease, injustice and so on, and even then, there is always the possibility of getting out of that.
1096268
Because love = Insanity. Love is the one emotion that a person can have that can make you go crazy.  It can make you do some strange things. Its just as bad as Drugs. When Love is over you cant eat, you cant sleep, you cant think. And the sad part about it is there is nothing you can do to stop the hurt.  They say time heals all wounds. But one thing they dont tell you is it cant remove the scars.
718165
It can be love or lust or some other reason. Human intentions and feelings are so divergant that its difficult to point one reason. The thumb rule is - if its love- its okay
1136914
love is selfless doing for others.  it is an action - the way you treat a person.\n\nlust is thinking about what that person can do for you and how they can make you feel
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Bonny, some people are just mean. Love yourself first of all, then you will not be left feeling so empty; regardless of their actions (or lack of action). This world and the people in it will bleed every drop of love right out of you and hate you while they do it. Shield yourself from these emotional vampires; live for the joy of loving regardless of the payback. Pity those that are so ignorant and empty, dry and mean.
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because if people stopped loving eachother, there is no hope for humanity. \n     humans are created out of love, so it is paradoxical if we do not love in return\n     loving people rather than hating them can make you live longer.\n     Maybe if serial killers and rapists were loved when they were younger, they wouldnt have become such evil people, who knows? Everyone deserves a chance\n     Humans were created in God's image, and God loves everyone, so we should too
1109616
There is no love in this world but only exploitation. You want somebody for your own pleasure. That's called lust and not love. You live in illusion...wake up.
1186623
it is jsut how it goes you can love the person one minute then that person does something really stupid and you ask why your with them but then it just goes back to love again, thats how some people thing of me just the personality
160025
If you are talking about real love then its not feeling and it not thought to. Real love come from heart which you cant control. If you love someone you think its feelin or that you think about it but it not that? Love is a secret which no one knows about and what is it. !!!
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Love is a choice you make.  It's not just those mushy feelings and butterflies in your stomach. It's a conscious decision to love that person in spite of their faults and quirks.  It is unconditional and doesn't change over time.
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
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I think that when you feel love for a person, you want that person to be happy no matter what. Meaning, if that person isn't happy with the relationship, you will give up the one thing that means everything to you, THEM. Just so they can be happy - even if it's with someone else.\n\nLove is not selfish, love is not material or demanding. It's just there. No one can control it and no one knows when or where it will strike.
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Well, to be honest, neither one of them sounds convencing. Having many people love you seems a bit selfish and never loving anyone shouldn't be an option. One way you can find a happy medium with this is to actually love people; and this doesn't mean having sex either because love and sex are two different things. If you love people you won't have to scale from people loving you to never loving anyone. But your question seems like you're saying that people should give you love or else you're not gonna give it. It shouldn't be like that because then it wasn't love to began with.
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Simple. Love does not hurt...you may be attracted to a person you think you like but it hurts sometime..then it isnt love..he are some thing to consider:Love \n1.Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love. \n\n2.Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.\n\n3.Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring. \n\n4.Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself. \nIf somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love. \n\n5.It is very easy to confuse lust for love. \n\n6.The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction. \n\n7.It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.\n \n8.Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory. \n\n9.Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability. \n\n10.Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated