i m looking for some good time but they always want to be my girl friend or end up just being frind only?
109697
Why not be totally honest and tell them you want friendship only?  No sex.
906352
that happend all the time to me when i was single.\nguys love flirting with girls even if they have a gf.\nsome of them even pretend to be single.\n\nit's an attention game after all.  you were just tricked by him.\nignore those players and find a good honest one.
917883
They always want what they can't have.....human nature. You are more attractive to them once you have left their sorry butts in the dust. Keep moving until you find the one that appreciates you right here and right now.
91918
nothing, it's the others who have the problem. Just let them warm up to you, you seem like a nice person. Give them a sign that you want to be their friend, and they will want to be yours too. good luck!
912621
WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
649620
Actually it is the other way round. When a girl simply acts nice.. the men fall in love with them.. Also they are in doubt whether you girls like him or not..\n\nIt is as simple as that..\n\nIf you just wanna be friends, be yourself..no sweettalk and no killer expressions. Rest will work out fine..:)
601907
aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
220686
Dont do anything jus continue being you, if you do things out of the ordinary then your getting the girl for being what your not and you gottah constantly live up to that and be who you arent everyday to keep that girl. Plus when we go out and try to find people you will always end up with the wrong ones, the best thing to do is to let them come to you, i am in a relationship now going on a year we've been together, took me a while to find him, but truthfully he found me, and comforted me. You will get a girl jus stop waiting and looking the girl thats for you is the one you least expect to be and wasnt evern thinking about trust me. I been there done that.
1025832
They are probably not if they introduce you to their friends and family, show an interest in meeting and spending time with your friends and family, regularly call you and take you out in public, show affection in front of others, communicate that they want to and enjoy being with you, very open with you about everything\n\nThey are probably playing you if they rarely call you or return your phone calls, always saying that they are just so busy, rarely take you out, never introduce you to close friends and family, doesn't spontaneously want to see you, very secretive
38752
Well not all ladies are the same and you need to clarify that . Can I ask a question? Men, why do you opt for $*X instead of more than that? Does this mean you base your preference by how a girl is hot and not how intelligent she really is?Because we all know how guys yearn for $*X! Anyways you just have to find that special girl but it will take time all you have to do is be patient.\n\nLol I like that question! Maybe you might consider the fact that girls may actually just want to be just friends instead of being in a relationship. I know I told plenty of guys that but I meant it. I didn't want him as my boyfriend but I didn't want to stop talking to him, so I told him we can be just friends. He was a nice guy! Some girls just play hard to get because they know how weak you guys can get. The reason why some might play games with you or send wrong messages is because she wants to be wanted and craving the attention. But those are only SOME girls! lol\n           lovely_smiley_face@yahoo.com
56916
A lot of girls like that have bad relationships with their dads so they are looking for love, whether consciously or unconsciously. If you know a girl like that, don't try to push her romantically. Really do be "just friends" show her you care by your actions, and be their for her.
448768
its hard just trying to be friends with the opposite sex\nwhen you say u are just trying to be friends they are thinking yeah i no i am going to have sex with her because we are going to be very close and do things together so they think sex is part of the deal
204292
Everyone in our life has some kind of special feelings in our heart and a diff. place for everyone, so ur friends should understand ur concern to spend quality as well as quantity time with your gf but at the same time they are your friends and even they need some of your time and attention so my simple and sweet advice for you will be Spend quality(not quantity) of time with your friends and gf. Just coz you have a gf today doesnt mean that you forget ur friends and same goes visa versa so just remeber to be in touch with everyone at all times it can be just a cute hi
966653
First you need to figure out why no female seems to be interested in going out with you? Are you only asking a certain type of female, are you being open minded? Friends with benefits can be good but you have to be careful occassionally, one of you starts to let the heart take over and the other still just wants to be friends with benefits.
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
912943
sometimes people are just better off as friends,relationships sometimes ruin a good friendship.she may be jealous of the fact if you find someone else then your friendship wont be as strong because you will have someone else in your life,doesnt mean she wants you as a partner herself.im in a similar situation myself,my boyfriend has a female best friend,she is in love with him.its difficult.but only time will tell what will happen.
335486
if you have had your friends for years then i would choose your friends. dates, bf/gf... they come and go, but good friends stick with your through the good and bad... they are the family YOU chose, and most of the time they look out for you best interest... when they aren't playing pranks on you that is.