Is he being insensitive, or am I overreacting?
107424
This isn't nagging and you have every right to be concerned and force him to make a change.  First of all, he is putting your children at risk and no parent should tolerate that from another.  At best they will grow up thinking it is ok to not wear a seat belt and possibly end up like your friends.  Also he needs to realize that this issue is about love.  By wearing a seat belt and being more catious when he drives he is respecting your relationship and the love that you and your kids have for him.  Does he really want to leave you and the kids alone simply because he didn't bother to wear a seat belt and some idiot ran in to him.  It isn't just about him, it is about your entire family that supposedly he is the head of and responsible for.  He may be able to control the car and be a great driver but no one can control what some other driver is doing and so all you can do is be as safe as possible.  Loving some one enough to want them to live a long life is not nagging so keep it up.
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
103187
Have you looked at it from his standpoint? Possibly he truly does not feel that he was wrong.  There are two sides to every issue try and look at the situation from his perspective. Possibly the next time a situation arises he will make an effort to look at it from yours.
936614
im sorry but honestly i would not care too much about it because he may get offended so make sure if you talk to him about it your careful about what you say
701087
Chances are that he is just joking with you. Because you never said that him saying that you were stupid offended you, he thinks it is okay to say it. If in fact you do get offended by him saying this then you need to tell him or in the long run you will feel animosity for him repeatably saying it. Just be up front but not overly dramatic about it. The next time he says it just be like,''Hey, stop saying that it hurts my feelings, babe.'' If you say it in a cute way it will make him melt. On the other hand, when you say these things to him maybe he doesn't want you to tell you that it really hurts his feelings because he doesn't know how you will react. All together I would just stop saying those things to him. If it doesn't bother either of you then that's fine too. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
186781
If your man makes comments like that in front of you, not only is he rude and inconsiderate but a jerk too!! Seems to me that he is trying to get a "rise" out of you, either way he's a jerk and you should move on to someone who will treat you with more respect! Good luck.
569316
Oh Jeeze...This is an obvious mis-communication in languages from man-speak to woman-speak.  You said,"What's wrong?" and he said "Nothing," but you already had it in your mind that there was something wrong, so you persisted.  YOU ARE NAGGING HIM.  Now he has something wrong - you.  Leave him alone, and let him have his space.  He'll call you later (it's been less than 1 day - you'll be fine).  Sorry to sound so rude, but I've had this too many times.  I would end up argueing because nothing is wrong, and I have to think of something to be wrong when she insists on an answer, when I'm really just tired/moody/blah.
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
612250
Give him time. Do you know his work schedule and what it is like. He may have checked the email and just not had time to respond to it. Maybe he is gathering his thoughts of what he may want to say to you. Sometimes it is harder for men to express their feelings because they don't want to seem like a pushover, or move to fast. I would wait and give him another day or so. I know that it can be hard when you are filled with anticipation. In the end, follow your heart for you are the only one who knows what makes you truly happy.......Best of luck to you
688016
I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
310277
the question is what do u want to do...\ni think his behaviour is not sensitive..\nmaybe u should start thinking of a life without him
465967
Let me get this straight - he damages some furniture, something that could catch on fire, and he thinks you're the one who's freaking out? Gimme a break.\n\nWithhold sex until he apologizes. Then keep withholding it until he apologized for making you withhold it.\n\nYou're right, he's wrong.
209712
Do you want a relationship with an insensitive person?  If he doesn't want to put the effort into your relationship at this time what you makes you think he is going to be an acceptable partner for you in the future?\n\nYou need to look deep inside your heart and give a lot more thought to what you are doing here.  If this man is depressing you get the heck out of the realtionship and find someone who wants to make you happy and share in your life goals dear.  Hold onto your respect and your dignity...might be best to let this one swim in the lake with the other fish!\n\nNo one has the right to make another feel worthless dear!
629986
If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
1133650
If it is bothering you then that means he hurt your feelings. You need to say something to him. It doesn't have to mean or hurtful in return just let him know that what he said to you really hurt your feelings. then find out why he needed to do that. If he can't answer you then maybe you should find a new best guyfriend. Who needs a friend to "cuss" them out and be little them. You are better than that. Any person is. Good luck.
1114313
Sounds like he doesnt respect you if he will not listen to your concerns and tells you to leave! What a jerk. I am not against flirting in itself, but when it hurts your feelings then it should be discussed at the very least.
32347
they might not know they are being insensitive. girls can be hypersensitive, and boys don't understand why. maybe he's saying things that sound good in his head, but come out wrong. maybe he's doing it to look macho in front of his friends. there are a multitude of reasons. unless they are emo or gay (or dr. phil) there is no way a guy will be able to know exactly how you want him to respond to anything...therefore he doesn't respond right, and you label him as insensitve.