How can I find the perfect boyfriend for valentine's day?
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I don't think you can.  It's already February, and the "perfect" romance takes longer than that to develop.  But if by "perfect" you mean "the best I can do," then I think the main thing is to be genuinely nice to all the men you know, all those who might possibly develop into your golden soul-mate, and let their reactions to you make the choice.\n\nIf you just mean, "How do I decide which man to spend St. Valentine's Day with," then it is more like New Year's Eve: traditionally, you spend these special holidays with the one who means most to you.  Or rather, the intersection of the one who means most to you and the one you mean the most to.  And so the answer is to be honest with yourself and with the men around you.  What do you really want out of a love relationship, and what are you prepared to offer?
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u mean MR RIGHT (THE PERFECT GUY)???\nif so u cant look 4 him u will find him when u dont expect when or whom its nice u will shocked
56843
Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
670874
how to find a good boy friend?I've always wondered
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)
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you just have to wait for the right guy there is someone out there for you you just have to wait and be pationt and when you meet him then just ask him out and he will be happy to go out with you.
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Sorry dude, the perfect girlfriend doesn't exist.  Girls are people and will never be perfect.  If this is what you are looking for, you are in for a life of being let down.  \n\nThink about it.  Are you perfect?  If there was some girl out there looking for the perfect boyfriend, would you be it?  I don't think so.  \n\nMy sister-in-law just went through a very painful divorce because she married a guy, thinking he was perfect.  When she realized that he wasn't perfect, all they did was fight.  She kept getting mad at him for not living up to her expectations.  Don't do this to yourself.  Instead, look at yourself.  Figure out how you can be the best person you can be.  Focus on your hobbies, interests, etc.  One day a girl will emerge and she will make all your dreams come true.  You will be best friends.  She'll change your life.  \n\nGood luck to you...
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
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If you desperatly want a guy, then let him come to you, dont let ur self go to him. your time will come when you will find"mr. Right"
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Well as long as you have some expectaions like my personal ones:\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nand you find yourself doing some of the following: How you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nThen mabye you should give it a try.  I don't think it's in your head, it's in your heart.  LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WON'T FAIL YOU. Good luck to you!~Alison~
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depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
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Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
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Nobody is perfect. They're only human. If you look for the perfect one you will always be frustrated. However, there is someone who wont cheat,rob or use you. Start looking for her.
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it depends on wat is ur definiton of a perfect boy....\nmay be wat ur looking for does not exist or u r not upto thhe standards of ur mr perfect....\nif the standard set by u is too high u need to lower it down..\nbest of luck...
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just be yourself u will find the right person
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"when i do find that guy that has all those qualities it either scares me or i dont believe the guy"\n\nYou HAVE to go for it when you meet someone like you just described!  He may be the wrong one.....  BUT!  He might be the right guy!  You HAVE to give him a try or you'll never find the perfect guy. \n\n...and don't be scared.  Just be yourself.  Then you'll know if he IS the guy, and he will know if you're the right girl.
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i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.