Would you rather get the chance to live at university (without a car), or live at home (and have ur own car)?
118000
I would go away with out a doubt. Actually I had a similiar opportunity when I graduated. I went away and it is now one of the best decisions I have ever made! I graduated and I learned so much more about myself and life than I would have had I lived at home. It does take a bit more dicipline to get up and go to class than if you know that your parents are gonna notice if you don't go to class, but you have to learn that sometime. You don't want your parents to have to call you for the rest of your life and make sure you go to work? \n\nI think going away to college is an invaluable experience. I lived on campus and didn't miss the car at all, I just got rides from my friends when I needed to go somewhere.\n\nIf your parents really have the money you'll probably end up with both if you choose to go away, they may just be offering you a car as an effort to get you to do what they want. (Not that that happened to me... I didn't have a car)\n\nRemember to enjoy whatever you choose!!!!
1015299
if you're ready you won't be scared. it's a good move, it builds character... regardless of your situation, I'd say moving out is always a step in the right direction, just remember to be responsible and careful, and don't let people use your home as a crash over all the time lol yeah, watch out for people you want to take advantage of staying over! They come in swarms, believe me... Make sure you get your mum and dad to give you a few points... i hope you can cook ;-)
1165078
Its a tremendous responsibility, but well worth it.  You learn how to get yourself up in the mornings, pay your bills each month, meet lots of new people, etc.  You don't want to live with your parents forever, and going to college is a great place to "test your wings."  You can always transfer to a smaller college closer to home if you find you took on too much too soon.\n\nGood luck!
1065384
I think you should just talk to your parents about moving to the dorms. Maybe they will understand. Just tell them how you feel and that you want to be on your own and more responsible. Personally, I don't think college is the same if you live at home. You need to take care of yourself, experience more freedom, have more responsibility, and find out who you are for yourself!
526257
I would make sure my college education was paid for, and I would buy my parents a nice house because they have done so much for me so far.  Then my boyfriend and I would move to Scotland and I would put the rest in the bank and collect interest.
973404
The thing I want the most is to stay at home with my children and raise them (which I do). Financially my hubby and I had to sacrifice not having the newest or best gadgets or clothes or car so that we can give more to our family. It is very much worth the sacrifice.
219271
get your own place!\n\nI discovered early on that I don't like sharing space with other people and so I lived on my own through college. Life was much easier - a little more expensive, but worth every penny.
578132
college was the greatest experience I have ever had.  It is hard to leave the comfort of home and family but it is a wonderful feeling knowing that you are providing for yourself and you no longer need to rely on anyone else
123741
definitely live in the dorms. choosing an apartment your first year is a sure-fire way to be sad and lonely. dorm life provides a new family with whom you can eat, study, hang out, or whatever.
459751
I think that you are forgetting that moving out is a lot harder than just moving out.  There is work, bills, insurance (since you will be out on your own, your parents cant cover you any more) if you want to go to school add that on.  There is so much to moving out alone!  Never mind the rest.  I dont think people realize just how much, they are in too much of a hurry.  I moved out when I was 18,.  wasnt the easiest thing to do but I did it.  My brother is still at my fathers house and hes 22.  There shouldnt be any hurry.  its a hell of a lot harder out side the parents house.
595287
if u go to the street and have an accident ...after that will u go again out or u will keep urself at home forever????
41876
i think u must. altho it depends upon u and ur circumstances. college life is a great part of lfe. i guess its the most enjoyable and memorable one. a place for teens to hang out . but if u think u wanna work or do somthing else which seems fun to u u must. ovrall it depends how u r. still cording to me u must.
375206
Withouth a family, you wouldn't be here. Without friends, you wouldn't pass university. Withouth money, you couldn't go to uni in the first place. But you could do without a career.\nBesides lots of millionaires didn't go to uni\nSo appreciate them in that order!
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im in high school, so i would say high school because you are still at home with your parents and you can still depend on them to do things for you, but in college you have freedom, maybe to much freedom that you may not even want to be exposed to! also i choose high school cause thats were most of your memories are made and there is so much fun you get to have in high school cause its your last years of being a real kid and your first taste into going into the real world!
884476
Move out!!!! Moving out of home is one of the best things you could ever do!!!!
31954
Take advantage of your parents while they will let you.  Live at home for the first couple of years then go off if that's what you think you want to do.  It  may not be what your friends are doing, but it's the best thing for you.
484379
I can understand your problem.  Is it possible for you to move closer to a city and get your own vehicle?  That way you could have the best of both worlds where you live 10 minutes from the city and yet don't lose the country life your husband loves.  I find living out in the country to be the best thing because I don't have to deal with the city except when I want to.  At the very least make your husband get you your own vehicle so you can do stuff.