My friend comes over and then doesn't know when to leave.  How do I get her to leave at a reasonable time?
111861
The way to know when you have a real friend is when you can be completely honest with them and still be friends. Just tell your friend at a certain time, she has to leave. If she takes to9 heart and stops talking to you, she wasn't that good of a friend in the first place.
1105800
this is an excellent question.  the nicest way to tell her to leave is like so, "So listen baby, you're cool and all but I have an appointment at the bank, I gotta deposit a  big wad of money i made in the stock market."  Once you say this she wont want to go because she will want to do the thing that you want to do.  She is a woman, so talk about what turns her on . . . money and possessions!!
1162300
I dont think she will leave you..just give her time and space.
338284
Tell her next time "I'm sorry but, it is difficult for me to here you in the other room." When she says "I don't mean for you to get up" Say " You can try buzzing me on the phone" In other words state the problem offer a solution. Instead of getting frustrated.
815903
well, you wanna give her time to relax and maybe forget a lil bit of what happened..so dont do anything right away....right before she leaves call and say bye, have a good time blah blah...ok, then she leaves with you on her mind...then after maybe another few weeks or so if you can, send her a text to say, i just wanted to say hi hope all is awesome....then when she gets back, dont get all over her nuts, wait a lil while and then call to say hey! welcome back!..sorry i didnt get a hold of you sooner, been really busy....this way she knows your "over it" weather you are or not....then say hey, there is a few of us that or gonna go and do ....i dont know what you do for fun...and invite her....this way its a group so its real chilled out...this will get you back in to a friend situation...and yer on your own from there.
328448
Tell her how you feel this way you dont have to lie tell her your peace time is between ( example ) 4:00pm till bedtime surely she is grown up enough to understand this. Plus this could give her time to find another friend.
3962
Follow her around and repeat every word she says for 10 to 12 hours.\nTrust me, she will be really annoyed.
644872
I would suggest you ask straight up would you like to... go for a drink, movie, dinner, hang out and pick a time and place no room for negoaition.  if she backs out then forget
423410
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
923095
Screen your phone calls and answer when it conveniences you.  I wouldn't completely ignore her, but also set a time when you won't answer the phone anymore (example after 9:30pm).  You and your husband having time alone without being interupted is very important.
622096
Tell her she's going down a path as a friend you can't follow.  She needs to stop, you know the reasons why, and when she refuses, and she will.  Find another friends before she drags you into trouble too.
266976
She can't enter without reasonable notice.  Unless your lease has a clause in it requiring that you keep the place clean when she's showing the house there's nothing she can do to require it.  \n\nShe also must give reasonable notice when she goes to show the house, she can't just "show" up.  If she does call the police if she refuses to leave.  Since you are leasing it's "your" house until the lease is ended.  If she's harassing you that needs to be reported to the police, they'll give her a chance to cease the harassment and then if she does anything again they can arrest and charge her.  Any act including demanding you clean a room or be billed (if not allowed in lease) could be considered harassment.\n\nAlso if she trys to say I'm your roommates mother and she's given me permission you can say NO.  Both parties must agree to allow someone on the property or they can't enter.  One person can't "trump" the other's right to not allow someone to enter the property.
480694
well, try to chill with her a couple more times and tell her you have something really special planned (do something nice for her) and try to make it at a time when she doesn't have to work, maybe in the morning or something. then you can see if she'll still blow you off. let her know that you feel like that and see what she says. good luck with this.
668873
well it might be that she think`s you are not going to have time for her no more or she really was not your true friend in the first place. true friend`s dont just walk out like that
154110
Hire an eviction service.  It can be tricky to boost someone, even if it is just a friend of your roommates who will not leave after visiting for three weeks.
690454
There is nothing you can do to convince her. If you say something she doesnt want to hear she may fall out with you. All you can do is be there for her and be her friend and be there if the worst happens without all the "i told you so's" she will get from others.
684086
Yep!  I wouldn't invite her.  Just be prepared to answer her when she asks why.  I think it is VERY INCONSIDERATE when friends cancel plans with friends for a better deal or for other non-emergency reasons.