why isit women give up sex  when U R dating and all the way till the day you say i do and then cutoff after M?
109508
Funny, you should ask that. . .my husband and I are having this problem now.. . .it is not women don't want to have sex. . . being married adds alot of stress its self. .. there are alot factors that add stress such as ex's(jealous ones who are plotting);finances and etc.  These things had me so stress after getting married, all I wanted is a good night of sleep. .. If you are in a marriage and there are no problems, there is a bigger one simmering. .. .remember pratice makes perfect. . .eventually, things change and stress was lifted. .. my husband can have it when ever he wants it, and I appreciate him more for understanding. . .Ask her why and then you will know where to go from there. .
702236
you see.. Women HAVE to play hard to get whether we want to or not, because we get labeled as sluts, hoes, whores, etc. Men have the ability to be easy and sleep around and not get labeled. If men do get labeled its always meant in a good for you sense, unlike for women it means we're slutty and need to learn to keep our legs closed...\nIt's just the way human nature has stuck itself into peoples lives.. the old days do live on.....\n\nSo now do you understand why women have to play hard to get whether we really want to jump you right then and there?
1131921
it's probably very normal at the beginning of a relationship, but I think after a time you need to do other things.  Every relationship needs stimulation, you have to have things to talk about, outings and events, activites outside of the bedroom to build a foundation for a varied and interesting relationship because sooner or later the sex will become less and less and then what are you left with?
430948
Maybe you are afraid of commitment or maybe you just don't know yourself.  I suggest you take a break from dating and do some soul searching---how do I know because I am doing it right now--I have been so dependent on having someone there for me.  You need to start making yourself happy first (I am on a quest to do so as we speak).
414193
If your boyfriend is used to having sex with you, and you stop giving him sex, he will probably leave.  Maybe you should try asking him out on dates since he isn't doing it, or just breakup since you don't seem very happy.  Maybe the 3rd time will be the charm.  (It took me 5 tries to find the right one)
205697
You need to start dating a better class of men! Most men do not think that sex is the only important thing in the relationship. If the men you are dating expect you to have sex with them just because they paid the bill for a date, then you need to be sure you pay your own way. There is nothing wrong with the woman also paying for a date. Sex is an important part of a loving relationship to both males and females, but it shouldn't be expected as payment because a man has paid the bill for the date. Let men know up front what you want from the relationship in regards to sex. If they can't accept that and don't wish to date you, then they are jerks and only wanted one thing from you. Just be honest with them, it has always worked for me. =-)
617
Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
9260
no you should not give up on a woman! If you give up on a woman, you are giving up on what that particular woman can teach you what it is about being a man.
349857
Unlike us guys, women can actually function without having to think sex every 10 seconds. lol They act like they don't want it cause they are waiting for the right guy to give it all to.
828660
I think that too.  I mean, it just seems that people will sleep with someone on the first date and it's no big deal.  Then they wonder why they get hurt in the relationship.  Men and women seem to be sleeping around serially.  I don't understand.  I think that women have a natural tendency to bond with men they sleep with, so why would they do it knowing that the guy is going to play them and move on?  Is there no self-respect?
261453
We'd rather err on the side of conservativeness.... \nToo often, when a chick lets her "bad girl" side out too quickly, the dude quits respecting her or doesn't think of her as "relationship" material. \n...Maybe it's the whole virgin/whore double standard.
320777
Women are attracted to your bad boy style till after marriage.  Then they want you to quit being immature.
549754
I am not meaning to be rude, but maybe you are having withdrawls from sex and they need some release?  I am not a doctor but just a thought?!
584625
that is very sad... I have a rule of thumb when it comes to dating... IF at any point you evaluate your relationship and you know it's never going to work THEN don't waste anymore of your time or hers.
1157497
when i was 20 i dated a woman who was 32. well we didnt really date all she wanted to do was hook up with no commitment. im not really that kind of guy but it was the best sex id haver had. we were both free to try whatever we wanted with eachother. we called it quits about 4 months in because we started have feelings for eachother.
568683
i just read you asking about not wanting sex and now this\n\nyes leave her why prolong the agony that is why so many ppl end up bitter
366591
i like talking about sex. of course there are times that just aren't appropriate and if you catch me in those times i'm gonna dis you bad. it's all about timing and getting her to open up. and guys don't ever start a pm with a sexual line unless you are married to the female cause you are gonna get iggied or played for a fool at best.