Do you feel uncomfortable and/or annoyed when a homosexual hits on you?
116453
No,I just take it as a compliment-then let them know I'm straight,but thanks anyway.
518071
well If I was you I would wait till a good time(you'll know) then tell them that you are curious and you would feel uncomfortable with anyone else and since I am already gay,there will be no strings or emotional ties after wards. I would just break it down like its an uncomfortable issue but you couldn't think of a more comfortable friend to experiment with. "Use Protection"!
297126
damn girl,u better tell to get the heck of u i mean doesn't it make u feel uncomfortable
606370
In case there's any dispute, I'm heterosexual.  However, I very strongly believe in equality for ALL people, regardless of gender, nationality or sexual preference.  I suspect I feel so strongly because I understand descrimination (being a female in a male dominated work place, and because of my religious beliefs) and I hate to listen to narrow-minded, egocentric verbal diarrea that some individuals feel they have a right to inflict upon the world.\n\nI also feel the need to confront and challenge people when they shoot their mouths off in my presence, because so long as people deem it acceptable to spread hatred, they will continue to do so.\n\nIt's okay to disagree, but it's not okay to demoralize a person or a group of people over something they have no control over.\n\nMy advice to anyone who feels as strongly about this as I do, is to never let an oportunity pass to publically embarass somebody (I'm not suggesting a physical altercation) who goes out of their way to hurt people.  Let everyone around see how stupid discriminatory behavior is.  Show these people that this behavior is not acceptable.
746688
Well, the sex disgusts you and you don't feel an emotional connection. Relax, you're straight; lots of people experiment.
1068971
Have you already talked to the person about it?  Simply take that person aside and say something like, "Hey, <insert name here>, I noticed that earlier when we were talking you touched me.  I appreciate your friendly attitude, but I am uncomfortable with being touched like that.  I also feel that you stand too close to me.  I would feel more comfortable if you didn't come within 2 feet of me and if you wouldn't touch me at work.  Would you please stop?"  It's entirely possible that this behavior is simply the way that the person is expressing collegiality towards you, and he/she may not realize that it makes you uncomfortable.  Being direct and stating exactly what behavior you don't like, as well as what behavior you would prefer, will leave nothing up in the air.\n\nAssuming that you have already talked to the person about it and directly asked him/her to stop, and you feel that your discomfort is affecting your work performance, mention it to a supervisor or HR.
929301
It all depends how they act towards you now... feel around it before you do...
365769
Sounds like abuse to me, how do you feel?
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
669804
i'm bi, and i have a close male friend at school who is also bi, and the amount of abuse he gets from people who hardly know him is sickening.He doesn't mind his friends ribbing him good naturely occasionally, he takes that in good humour, but i think it's really disgusting that people who know nothing about him treat him like that. I mean you wouldn't make fun of someone who was disabled, or black, or Jewish, would you? I think people should be proud of who they are, and that they shouldn't let other peoples prejudices stop them from that.
146891
I would feel completely depleated, depressed, utterly unwanted. Over all, it wouldn't be a great feeling. If you consider homosexual people and homophobics, you can see an example of that, how some people shun them from society. If I myself were shunned from society, I believe my behavior would include depression and thoughts of suicide... yes, that far, because I myself am a very social person.
825121
I would be offended.I admit I find it funny,and sometimes I cringe.We shouldn't support it.If it was my race I would feel like everyone was laughing at me.It would feel the same as being bullied.
243593
Friends aren't suppose to make you feel uneasy or uncomfortable. Don't get me wrong, guy friends are awesome, but there's a line between being friendly-friends-like to harassing. I've had a number of "guy friends" just like that, and so, I would know what I'm talking about. \n\nYou shouldn't let a guy touch or talk to you in that manner. It's not justified, and should NOT be put up with. Remember when I said I use to know a couple or so guys like that? Well, I told on my school administration... they took care of it discreetly... and I was never bothered again.\n\nGood luck! Hope it works out for you! :D
57636
Homophobic has alway gotten me ... Fear of man? And when you tell a gay what it translates too, they get po'd.
524310
I can understand why you wouldnt like this specific person, great, and its great that you dont hold that against gay people. Feeling wierded out is totally natural, am i right in suggesting that youve never really come across it before? literally, there is hardley a difference between you and me. We are both human beings, only i prefer having relationships with guys. Dont let that be what gets to you. you shouldnt judge people on who they are, based on gender, sexuality, race or class, but instead as who they are as a person. its best to get to know the person before you judge them for being gay. Just remember, that single person who did something to a family member of yours is an individual, dont judge everybody else based on their actions (it wouldnt be fair!)\n\njust get to know them before you judge them :D and its great to know that there is somebody out there who doesnt "HATE" the gay crowd!
795358
i think that it depends on the guy in question. I know alot of gay guys and some of them are very respectful, they understand that guys are straight and they are just normal with them. However some other guys I know take great pleasure in winding straight guys up and making them feel uncomfortbale. Although I am very comfortable with gay guys and gals I do find it very intimidating when they are in your face flaunting their sexuality. \n\nI guess the people in question should really know who they are and change their behaviour! x
158403
As long as they are supportive of one another great. I feel confortable arround them . Just like anybody else if your fussing and fighting I don't want to be arround you. Gay or otherwise.