how do i get her in the mood??
114859
here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
484838
Are there guys that need to get in the mood?  If my woman is in the mood I will be in the mood.  If my woman is not in the mood I will try to get her in the mood.\nA woman trying to get a man in the mood just sounds wrong.
575990
Comfortably get her to watch porn movies that are for newbies.  Then you try new things with her and get her to feel comfortable with her body enough to try new things with you. You know her background, so be patient and slowly introduce to the life she has never known. She needs to feel sexy enough about herself to let out the kinky in her.  Buy her lingerie, sexy massage fruit oils.  Tell her you want to try new things and experiment with her in the heat of the moment.  Sometime a little loss of inhibition does a woman well.  Don't get her drunk..just where she feels sexy enough to try what you want.
95746
hey buddy u r confused , be cool make her happy make her laugh and start talking about sexd hey but dont go fast keep ur temperment cool if she likes she will also start thats it its very easy
529202
Sorry but you cant increase her sex drive.   What you can do is, encourage her to want you more often.   Heres a few suggestions.\n1) Set the mood.  Maybe cook her a meal, light some candles etc\n2) Give her a sensual massage (massage everything)\n3) Let her know how beautiful you think she is.\n4) Be sensitive to her needs, as well as your own. \n5) Surprize her.   May a picnic, a movie,etc.   Just something you know she will love, and you wouldnt normally do.\n\nI hope these help.   Good luck
1082363
Be romantic without being sexual throughout the day. Compliment her looks, tell her how good she makes you feel (emotionally), write little love notes and leave them throughout the house. Seduce her and be consistent.
351088
Get used to kissing her more and rubbing your hand up her leg when rubbing her feet. When playing with her hair, kiss her neck and fondle her a little.  It will all start to come naturally.  Sounds like you got the hands going now get the mouth going...and give her some hugging.
92199
do more foreplay to her and try not to touch your penis to anything.  you could use your tongue to make her so arouse and if she is almost there, then put it in so the two of you could come together.  nothing is better that coming together/shouting together.\n\nif you come earlier than her, then continue with tongue playing till she comes.  good luck!
1042993
work your way up to it. See how far she is willing to go without having sex. Or you can use the super dooper easy method and just ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
88055
You work your way up to it. Sex begins in the kitchen. Serve her breakfast. Prepare her bath water to take her out on a date.  Buy her a pair of shoes. Always compliment before she asks.  Use the words, "I'd like to talk to you." Women love to talk.  After winding down from all the outside stuff youve done with her.....begin massaging her......caress her slowly.....then let her know....softly....how much you want her.
746829
You smother her or your to needy.. back off a little and give her the to much attention she wants. She loves it when she teases you and wants it more.... if you back off a little and try not showing you want her so bad she will mature up and get off her cloud of playing games of teasing. She loves the attention and it makes her feel good of being 'IT'. If you act a little less interested then she will come to you... just be a good boy and not stray on her by checking out other gals. She is on a role of testing your love of how far your willing to go cuz she wants you to.
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Dont talk too much about stupid boring boy stuff like football, cars etc.  Ask lots of questions & sound really interested in what ever she tells you, make sure you listen coz she'll test you to make sure & if you arent paying attention she will get upset.  Tell her that you love giving massages & if you get the chance to do it pretend as if you actually do like it.  Take notice of her, if she looks cold (is hugging herself) offer her your jacket.  Always ask if she would like a drink, or something to eat.  Make sure you find her a seat before yourself.  Open doors for her , a lot of girls will say they dont want you to do it but they secretly love it & tell all their friends how much of a gentleman you are if you do.  Give her compliments coz we LOVE them, we just might not show it.  Tell her what ever she is wearing that she looks beautiful in it .. or say she looks very glamorous.
471075
Heres a great one. I'm a girl, so you know this wont offened her. Just say-\n"hey I was getting really wound up today, I kept thinking about us doing ------ And picturing you while we were doing that  really turned me on.."\nThat way, you are introducing it with a positive spin. And remember, Let her know Its about her too. The thought of her being hot in your opinion, will probably make her more willing and alot more into it.
1132838
Good grief, doesn't anyone have a REAL answer for her?\n\nTo enjoy it more yourself start by finding out what touches you like best; develop fantasies that arouse you; if you're of age, check out some story sites like literotica.com and find things that make you hot & bothered, use those things when playing with yourself; find toys you like.  Vibrators are good.  There are all kinds.  If you're self-concious about going into an adult toy store, go to Wal Mart or some place and buy an electric personal massager.\n\nMost importantly, make sure you have time and privacy to do it.  Nothing is a mood killer like wondering if someone is going to walk in on you.
197400
make sure there is a lot of foreplay to make her really aroused and ready.  also, she should be relax about it.
55973
a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
507592
Buy her something expensive, take her out to dinner, let her talk about herself and act genuinely interested. Laugh at her jokes. Make her feel good about herself. Tell her how gorgeous she is. Don't talk about youself unless she asks. These are the best aphrodisiacs for women that you could ever have.