Guys: Since the ladies had no opinion, do you feel there is any difference between erotica and pornography?
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Yes, there is a difference.  Porn is visual and in your face and very simple whereas erotica has more to do with engaging your mind with the possibilities.
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I would have to say it doesn't really matter at all.  Its all about how you use it.  Every woman is different, remember that.
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I think it is very degrading to women.  I do not know why they do this and it is a question that enters my mind when I talk to a friend of mine who is into porn.  He is obsessed with this and it actually is running his entire life.  Has affairs with numerous women and has porn all over his computer.  Of course I do not respect him or the fact that he doesn't respect women, nor himself.  I feel there needs to be laws on this.  What a person does in private is his/her personal business.  But what satisfaction does a man get looking at magazines, internet, porn flicks, etc?  I honestly feel it is his real sense of inadequacy and definitely does not feel good about himself.\nWhen it comes to the sick-o man who preys on children is another sickening story which makes me ill thinking about it.  \nIf a man reads this...let us know why you need these degrading things.  You cannot be fully satisfied, otherwise you wouldn't be looking at these things.
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i think most women think about sex as much as us men , if they were honest about it they would enjoy it as much also. tell your man what makes you moan , he will do it to keep you happy , and he can get what he want's , but be fair give if you recive!
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Well, mens basic nature is sex.  We like to look, we like to look at women and we are always wondering if they are going to do something new that we don't know or something that we would like to do.  It's the thrill of everyone throwing their inhibitions to the wind.  Porn stimulates and arouses some men to hear a woman being pleased and watching her being pleased.  We are always hoping that the women that we have would be more freer and willing to do these things.  Men are very visual where women are not.  From what I have been told by women is that many enjoy porn as much as the man.
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OK so you can't put all men in a box or women but there is a common thread most men would take sexy and or elegant over a slut any day i think your right !\n\nand i have  a question for you did you post this just to see how many people you could piss off ? ♠
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You know, I was just thinking about this today while watching some porn.\nIt really depends on your flavor. Sexual attraction happens to be the most subjective issue. Thank god for the evolution of the "me" generation, because of them, we have alot more choices out there. And having more choice in the bedroom...what a revolution!!!\nAs an advocate of Safer Sex, I love porn. Its cheap and promotes that people take their sexuality into their own hands-lol! There is so much out there as well, anything to fit your fetish/desires, giving us more control over our libido and hopefully making us more aware of our bodies. Smut is in baby!!
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Frued seemed to think that there was little difference beyond what life experience and personal picture people brought with them.  My wife seems to think that I dream more imaginative and action dreams and hers are more mundane things of common life.  That fits in with an example or two that Freud had given, sorry I don't have the book available now.\n\nMy wife was quiet and moody one morning because of a dream she had.  When I finally got her to tell it, she went to work and did normal things, but she was totally naked and nobody noticed anything different.  I said I know, for reasons more than she realized at the moment.  Some short time before I dreamed I was her and went to her work naked and nobody noticed anything different.  In talking dreams with her, I get the idea she's been in my shoes a time or two in her dreams as well, but she doesn't spill the details directly as often as I do.\n\nContext is the key.  Who you are and who your subconscious, if there is such, wants to be from time to time.  It works that way with both genders in remarkably similar ways.\n\nFrued did have some distinct predices about women, but it was more a "hysteria" thing, which was emotional control issues that supposedly were influenced with certain organs unique to women.  Try Jonathan Lear's Freud to see some of that and how Freud was often, uncharacteristically for him, gender neutral (Routledge, 2005).  Also check out Kevin Dettmar's Rereading the New (U of Michigan Press, 1992) at how Freud worked in analysis.  Erick Acroyd seems to have similar neutrality between genders except for the context (A Dictionary of Dream Symbols, Blandford, 1993).
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Nothing, it's what society has taught us, the whole double standard thing, if a guy talks about sex he's a stud, if a girl talks about sex...let alone likes or likes porn...she's a slut, this is not true, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
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Hey!  Women like porn too, ya know!  \n\nYes!  I am one of them!
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I love both, but wouldn't care to be clubbed over my head and dragged to her cave.\nBut a lady that knows who she is, and can take care of herself, is good, as an equal partner.\nA submissive girl, also has it's share of pleasures, so it's all good.
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I have no response to this other than it sounds like you're assuming that women don't masturbate too.
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I think they are great.  My boyfriend and I actually watch them together... it's a turn on.  And there is pornography for every preference... watch the ones you like and don't watch the ones that gross you out (like pissing or throwing up... what the f**k?)
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Oh, I don't know...let's see...the Constitution, The Bill of Rights, Freedom of Speech maybe? Come on, we are NOT living in Nazi Germany here.As for the "Noble girls of America" I know more grown self respecting women that are into pornography than I do men. Just because you don't like something doesn't give you the right to judge or to censer what someone Else watches or does.
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Fashion and sex. My boyfriend recently started to get Playboy. One day I decided to look at it. They have alot more in it than naked chicks. It was very educational and interesting. I'm sure alot of guys don't notice the writing though.
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Yeah, me and my guy found a stash of erotic stories from the 60s, we started reading them.  I don't know exactly what we liked about them, but we read a variety, even torture stories.  I like a lot of sex, not cheesy romance novel suspense erotica crap.
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Well first off yes I have and it also depends .....for example I hate Paris Hilton with a fucking passion and one day I came home early and the porno was in our dvd player I flipped out because the night before he said I'm probaly jealous of her and he said it was cause he wanted to have sex with me but couldnt cause I was not home....haha well another time he had this magazine and I  wasn't as mad because the girl kinda resembled me oppesed to being my complete opposite which makes it a little better in my opinion.....BUT YES I UNDERSTAND WHY DO YOU NEED A PORNO IF YOU LOVE ME AND THINK I AM SO SEXY????SO YES I DO GET PISSED OFF JUST HAD TO SHARE MY STORIES SO YOU WOULD KNOW I UNDERSTAND....TELL HIM YOU THINK IT'S DISRESPECTFUL...\n\nGOOD LUCK\n\nAND MEN SUCK....:)