Why is the sound of his voice enough to make me long for him when I know he isn’t‘ right?
111300
we always want the ones we cant have or the ones we shouldnot have. his voice makes you miss what you want him to be and long for him to be but when your with him you cant ignore the fact that he just isnt what you need. you need to quit talking to him or overlook what ever it is that makes you think he isnt right for you.
841209
He may be thinking just like you, worried about saying it and not hearing it back. Why not just end the doubt by saying what you feel? Odds are you'll find out you're both feeling the same way. If not, better to know now.
43310
he just loves you so much that he's afraid he might say something that would hurt you or something...he's just taking his time to find the right words and maybe finding the right time to do that
610007
He doesn't sound right for you. Too indecisive. Having your emotions played like a yoyo is real bad for your health & mental health in the long run. It is irresponsible for someone to put you throught that. Just cos a man has many good qualities doesn't mean that he is right for you. What are you really afraid of? Losing him as a comfort zone that you've gotten used to? I may be wrong but when you say he is so important, what do you mean? That you really really love him? \n\nYou may want to try this. Talk to him & agree to make a clean break for a period of time, 6 months or 3 months. Don't get in touch, don't talk, write etc. Then see how both of you feel. Consider it a trial separation in a way. Things may become clearer for both of you.
398598
i think he is shy and maybe afraid he won't say the right thing
956959
i think he would tell you or get annoyed with you but by the sounds of u2 seem happy so i wouldnt worry if i were u, just go with the flow, but if it still bothers u in a weeks time then ask him, its good to talk and be open with each other from the start as this builds the basis for a happy, loving relationship, so then you could talk to each other about anything, dont be frightened to tell him how you feel cuz he may be feelin the same,\ni hope this helps x
105045
he may be sensitive or just waiting on mrs. right!\nor too small in that department
1150413
Girl i know what your talking about i feel that way sometimes too. Maybe you need to just talk to him about it.
529122
How will you know that he is that right one if you keep on searching? \n\nWaiting for Mr. Right is waiting for that someone to be the right one for you... its a matter of accepting each others differences
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
1172070
yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
261694
it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.
357623
If you have to question it that many times, you don't like him. It sounds like you're playing with him a bit. You'll find someone else that you'll like for awhile..and won't have to go through an on and off thing.
934637
well you need to look at what the bad feelings are about...is it a fear of rejection, commitment, etc on your part, or is it more that he might physically hurt you or that there is a different type of situation that isn't good for you that may result....\n\nif you think that you are in harms way, then definitely get out of it. that little voice inside your head is usually right unless it is the fear of rejection or commitment... that one is a little more complicated.
1173556
yes, in his mind he does NO WRONG. I'm just wondering how you could stand him for 6 yrs. lol Get over it girl and find someone to treat you right. Good luck.
601759
IF he knows You, he should know your not always right in the head..but if it would make you feel better...it's best to tell him...come to think of it, you should tell him..he has a right to know..if he doesn't already...
750985
If he is that easily swayed one way or the other, then he's a flake to begin with...now or later, he'd a bailed on you-obviously he's too lazy to make up his own mind or look into what's true or not. Wouldn't you rather wait for a REAL man?