is living alone a desirable experience?
112969
Yes, escpecially if you had to share a room with like 5 people (siblings) young and old. Look at Michael Jackson, he was rooming with his brothers who always had sex with lots of girls, with him in the room watching. DOn't you think he was SOO glad to get out of there and build his own amusement park house thingy. "Weeeeeeee!" says Michael Jackson. lol
429125
If your a successful entrepenuer, sure, why not. It can be stressful and running a small business alone can be alot of work. As long as you don't overwork yourself and don't take it all too seriously. It's great to be responsible for your own destiny and not have a boss.
986704
well if you don,t have a friend to go with,I would go by yourself.I enjoy having someone but  you can also have fun by yourself
768035
Yeah, sure. Nice and peaceful little home, but kind of expensive for my taste...\nhttp://laffey.com/listings.cfm?fuseaction=view&id=1893648
325637
no not really\ni mean if you rather live alone then thats totally fine.\nmabey if you guys did live together you might get into arguments more or something i dont know.\ni think youll be fine\nbut i must say awe how cute! 6 years? wow i hope you guys last=]
903448
reliable i would say yes but, safe I don't think anyone is real safe in a place alone with someone u don't know .It's going to be a risk you'll have to decide to do or not.
207163
There's absolutely nothing pathetic about getting up and doing anything by yourself. And you're not the only one. \nWhen people are stareing at you, could it be that they envy you and your self assuredness
441615
Yes if I had reasons and opportunities there.\n\nIf this was someone I had known for a while, I could find a job there and had a reason to live there I definitely would.  But I would never move just for them.  It puts all sorts of extra stresses on the relationship, if the person coming doesn't have a job waiting, or living arrangements, or a real reason to be there other than that person.\n\nI can understand wanting to make a relationship work, and it won't while there's such a distance. However, just one sacrificing everything for the other, doesn't work.
1091956
When my boyfriend (now my husband) and I first moved out of our parents houses we did have a room mate.  We had a baby and so did she.  It seemed like a good solution to share an apartment.  That lasted for 3 months and we kicked her skanky butt out.  Looking back it wasn't the nicest thing to do but we were so young and just didn't care.  We had our own apartment for several years and I thought we would never get our own house.  Then I got pregnant with our second child and after she was born we moved in with my husbands dad and step mom.  Yuck.  But we saved enough $ to buy our own first little house.  We lived there for 5 years sold it and then moved in with my mom while our new house was being built.  She was great to live with and what an experience.  A dog, two cats, and the five of us including my mom in her little 2 bedroom 1 bath condo.  We have been in our home for 4 years now.  Doing things the way we did taught me alot.  I'll never forget thinking "I will never own a home"  and here we are...it is quite remarkable.  One thing is for sure we were just as happy poor as we are well off and we have got some good poor stories.   :)   \nHope I didn't bore you with too many details...that was fun to reminisce though...thanks!!!
938847
Yes many times .And its great.I still am but im happy about it.I remember when i first when i went to the theatre on my own.i felt really awkward and uneasy,and i was sure that the other theatre-goers were looking at me and wondering why i was so unpopular that i couldnt find anyone to accompany me.but as the evening wore on,i began to really enjoy it.first of all,ihad the whole interval to myself to read all the interesting notes and articles in the programme,which i could never usually get around to befor.Then i began to realise that i didnt have to worry whether any companion was as entranced with the production as i was ,chich meant that i could relax,as i only had me to please.\n\nThe point of mentioning all this is to encourage you to try some solo activitiesyourself.All too oftens we dont do the things we want to do because we keep waiting for some friend or other to agree to come along on a trip with us.and it never happens.there are choices now and there is no longer any stigma to being single\nso  enjoy some of your leisure time alone.but dont get too solitary.you need to strike a balance-
6095
Experience is a strict taskmaster, but it's more effective than any other method.  Yes, I think that you mature more quickly without a support system, but you also make a lot more mistakes.  All in all, it's better to have family and support than have to re-invent the wheel of life by yourself.
758669
no...it isn't bad at all....alot of people like to have there space, and still enjoy a dedicated trusting relationship. I have two cousins who have long term girlfriends , and haven't moved in either! With them it is something about having there own, belongings and able to go where ever they want to, with out feeling bad by leaving someone at home.
412557
I think its about escapism. You can dissapear for 2 hours and enter another realty. When your home you might be able to sit on your own couch and smoke but you also have the phones, the kids, the neighbors, the pets, the spouse and all of the demands that go along with them!\nGive me the movie theater anytime! As the starfish on Finding Nemo said, "Go to the Happy Place...Go to the Happy Place" None of my worries or stressors can find me for those couple of hours!
1022816
You are the only one who can decide if your own life is fulfilling.  It you are happy with the way you are living, then don't worry about it.  If, on the other hand, you are unhappy or lonely, then force yourself to join groups, volunteer, or go out by yourself.  If you do something you are interested in, you'll find new friends and new hobbies that will interest you even more. Good luck!
1105729
I'm not sure if you could live on it alone. But, I think you could use it as a supplement and I disagree with the other reply that says "Its nasty" to feed on that...I Love the taste of a woman that is excited and would even try to feed on her as a diet plan! hehehehe\nSound very delish to me! Mmmmmmmm
651981
I'm a pretty solitary person. \n\nAlthough I have a family, I grew up isolated in a very dysfunctional household and spent much of my time alone simply because it was the easiest and safest place to be.\n\nI love to do many of my favorite things alone -- hiking, watching movies, reading, artistic pursuits, thinking, writing, and so on.\n\nThe universe is meant to be explored, there are things to discover, and sometimes it would be nice to not be hindered by the restraints that relationships can bring with them.\n\nBut to live forever, alone? Forever? Never being able to communicate with anyone ever again, or share your knowledge, or help someone who needs it, or just know there's at least one person out there who cares and understands you? What's the point of living?\n\nThat would be hell.
101269
im living alone. soon tho. but prolly