Whats really going on. A complaint about a guy lasting to long. I need everyone's input. How long is too long?
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I've been there.  My ex boyfriend lasted at least an hour.  By that time I was done and bored, and getting pretty raw with pain.  \n\nIt differs with different people what they like and don't like, and how long is too long.
187909
Is your sex better than usual? Is he doing new things to you that he didnt learn from cable TV? Are his everyday habits any differently than before? Is his hair different? Is he really open to change? Does he accuse you of things, over react to and blow little things out of proportion. Does he create reasons to fight and be mad so he can go lengths of time without talking to you or answering his phone? If he is then I'd assess my situation........if he's not doing these things...back off and enjoy your man.
1114503
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
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Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
1149150
Listen to yourself. You answered your own question. However it seems you are ready to throw away all the wisdom you have accumulated up until now. This guys a kid still; forget it.  If you get stupid and take up with this guy, how long do you suppose "cute" will last?
447799
what are you complaining about?  he sounds absolutely fine to me.  And as for your wandering bowel and him getting angry, he's probably more concerned about it wandering off completely and getting lost,  Try to be a little more understanding
384159
Are you CRAZY???? This guy just said all the right things, just what you wanted to hear. You Made out with him so quick don't you think he is working you so he can go further? If you don't listen to me I guaranty that when he gets what he wants he is soooo out of there and you well be left alone...
480937
Maybe you're too worried about the fact that he's not getting you off, which is detering you from getting off...know what I mean?  Whether he lasts a long time or not has little to do with a woman getting off....personally, after a while I just get bored....
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My answer is a question.  Are you so insecure and lonely that you can't recognize when you are being used?  Dump the guy.  The fact that you drove 300 miles to see him and then he blew you off should tell you everything you need to know about him.  Regardless of what he said, his actions speak for him.  He got all of you he wanted the first night, and was finished with you until the next time he needs an ego boost.  This guy is either married, seeing someone else, or just a loser.
366708
He isn't worth your time. It sounds like he is too immature for you. And I am sure you can replace him. You go girl.
695042
it's good you know that these thhings are now too much to take. DOn't tolerate each thng that he does. If you think you're being violated at this, yu shouldn't give much time for him. You'd rather have a breakup if he can't get better after explanations. After all, he is proving how immature he is with all that he does...
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I don't know the answer to your question, but there sure is some interesting advice here. I just wanted to tell you that my husband has had real hang-ups about how he feels he can't last long enough because he is always worried it will bother me, and I always assure him that it honestly doesn't bother me at all. I have to tell you - totally honestly since I am anonymous here - that it really doesn't matter to me AT ALL how long he lasts. I can't speak for your wife, but I just wanted you to hear that from another random woman in case your wife tells you that also - that it doesn't bother her how long you last. If she tells you that, she's being honest. I'm not sure if it was even a concern to you whether it bothered her or not, but I at least wanted you to know my perspective.\n\nWhat matters most to me is the emotional feeling of closeness. What matters most to me after that (physically) is us just being totally free together. Sometimes he stops moving just so he can lost longer, but I would rather he just stay in the moment and be wild and free, even if that means he will last a short time.  I think when he keeps stopping like that, he is going through all this psychology of trying to make it last, and it bothers me to know that his brain is going through that. I would rather he just have a great time. \n\nI have found that he does last longer when there is little foreplay first. The more foreplay, the more he gets turned on, so he can't last as long. So, sometimes if we just go straight to it, he can enjoy it longer. Then, afterwards he can focus his attention on me. \n\nBest wishes!
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Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
515699
Sounds like a game, call him back if you like playing them.  Don't call him back if you don't like playing games.  Sounds like he needs to grow up some.
718558
Sadly about 20 minutes.  I envy your hour and a half but i can see where that would get tiring.  Have you tried having a quickie somewhere where you could get caught?  That should speed him up.
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IS IT CONSENSUAL? are you enjoying it and keeping quiet or are you complaining? it makes a HUGE difference...\n\nif you are complaining and it is uninviting..then ask him to look up the sexual harrasment section or inappropriate action at work..he'll leave you alone QUICK..and if he doesn't report him..
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Sounds like this jerk needs to be reported.  Simply because this seems to be a continual offence.\nAlso he sounds like he has a problem that may need some professional help.