is it possible to love someone you've never seen or been with, just know him from his emails?
101975
Getting to know each other is one way to find out a lot about each other. I believe from that you can fall in love. It's best to be friends at first anyway, to truely know that person.
214910
It's a tough one.  Anybody can say that they love someone over a phone or in an email but you can't really know unless you're with the person.  When you two do get together, see how he is around you and you'll know.  It's a lot harder to lie about your feelings in person than over the phone/email/etc.
489428
Anything is possible! However what we perceive as love is just a Hollywood created fantasy, what we think is love and what we see as Romantic is just a fantasy in it self, you can fall in love with a Toaster if it sweet talks you right, its easier to be manipulated via email because with text people can express their feelings in more detail and you have direct access to someone’s brain, but remember you will fall more in love with the idea of being in love than you actually will with the person, you will pick out key things that you are looking for (needing, dreaming about) in the email and ignore the rest (possible warning signs)\n\nit doesn’t matter how you fall in love, the important thing is to be careful and have hope, that’s all we can do.
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unless one of you will be moving in the future to either the usa or uk then no.\n\nwhat would be the point in even starting as you would have to visit each other regularly for this to work\n\nnot to mention the calls / emails etc etc\n\nthink long and hard over this as i would say you may fall for him and the distance comes between you as neither of you wants to move.\n\n\nits a long way to move only to find out he lives like a pig or is a neat freak or goes to bed really early or not at all etc etc....\n\nyou may think you know them from the visits but to a certain extent you will only see 'best behaviour'\n\ngood luck
1083106
Can you even have true love over email?
789744
Just to meet him could serve to be a very nice experience that could land you a friend or the love of a lifetime. I think maybe you are afraid to be honest with your feelings. You have nothing to lose here. Love is blind. And you need to acknowledge the fears you have that you so do not want other people to see. You need to face them and either accept or dismiss them. All they serve to you now is a hindrance. Dont let nothing get in your way. No external circumstances should hinder your life. I know is difficult. But regret is not a nice feeling. I hope this helps.
1165414
Yes.  You can fall in love with someone over the internet.  It is like meeting a guy from a bar.  You really don't know what their intentions are or if they are who they claim to be.  Love is a risk.  You have to be willing to take that chance.  Don't live the rest of your life what if.  If you get your heart brok- so what, move on with life.  I did.  I used to talk to someone that I never met.  I was falling hard.  We talked about everything.  Then...poof kramarillo_1 was no more.  He disappeared.  I did not even have closure.  But I got over it.  I dust myself off and gave it another shot.  I started talking to this other dude.  He sounded mean when we spoke on the phone.  It sounded like he had no emotion in his voice.  He came by plane to see me.  After that...game over.  Soon after that, I was selling all I owned and traveling with only what could fit in my car to start a new life with him.  I truly feel like Cinderella.  I have never been more in love.  I remember when we started talking.......we would have 5 hour conversations and talk periodically throughout the day.  We could not get enough of each other.  Even though we were different in many ways.......we completed each other.  I am so glad I took that chance.  Just imagine if I listened to my friends and family.  I would probably be single and lonely once again.  I found my other half.  But you do have to be careful.  There are many crazy people out there.  By talking to this person on a regular basis the true side will reveal itself sooner or later.  I have experienced the most mannerable person turning into a complete stalker.  You will feel it.  You know what's good.  Good Luck.
517276
weel look,i donm't know about u and that guy,but if he loved u that he must have tried to contact u.may be coz of something he may not be able to contact u
607252
You need to look at the thousands of answers to this question that already exist on this site. \n\nIt is impossible to know whether someone is sincere whom you only know through an online and/or telephone relationship. Also, there is no way to be sure that you'll really like each other unless you meet. Even if everything looks great on paper (or on screen), you would need a lot of time together before any pronouncements you guys make to each other would mean anything real.\n\nI'm not saying it can't work out; only that there are too many variables for anyone to know for sure. Life online is so much simpler than day-to-day, person-to-person contact.
781845
I never have but I wouldn't expect too much out of a online affair. You really don't know anything about the person. Everything could be a lie.
409182
Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
739661
i think it is possible,  but  someone should be a little wary...as u dont really know the person....esp long distance ones...i guess if there's a chance that they will see each other....and still feel the same...yes it is very  possible...falling in love  is really knowing the other person,  having the same interests...etc...
450845
I am married to a man that I met online.  I thought that I loved him while we were only communicating online.  But once we actually met in person and starting dating things were very different...in a good way.  And I then when I ACTUALLY fell in love with him, I realized that what I felt for him before wasn't love at all...but more of an infatuation.  \n\nI think it's very easy to get feelings for another person via the internet.  But I do honestly believe it is VERY different in person.\nI don't think you can love someone until you know them completely, and you just can't do "at first sight" or over the internet.
529903
You are most likely in for some terrible disappointment if you approach him about this. Do not do it. Erotic love is not love if it is not a mutual. Your imagination has run wild, and you have nothing more than a sweet, old-fashioned, one-sided infatuation with this person.\n\nClearly you do not know him as well as you think you do. If you did, then you would already know how to bridge the subject with him -- OR you would realize that it is not wise. The fact that you do not know how to approach him means that you do not know him well enough and that you have only been fantasizing about him. So the best thing you can do is simply settle the issue in your mind, which is what you will inevitably have to do the minute you open your mouth and realize that you have just made an irreversible mistake.
530282
Ummm, not possible I believe.\n\nIf you want someone to know you like them then you are already emotionally attached, there is no escaping it.\nSometimes a risk has to be taken. Expect it to sometimes fail, love can be hard... trust me, i been there.\n\nI recommend just try your best and hope as much as you can... that is all you can do, I know it sounds harsh but there is little else that can be done.
47800
Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about
229989
ya , this is possible if yr feeling is intense upto highest loving level.\ni was also involved in this for quite a long time appox. 4 years\ni fell in love with a girl i met & talked with her only a day then i never met her in 4 years.\ni loved her too much that i can't define u\ni only talked with on phone for 4 years & my love increased virgously for her.\ni don't know that she loved me or not\nthe love feeling was too intense that when i heard of her marriage, i got furious so much that i have done my paper badly.\nso, i want to give u a friendly advice u that if u love him & u don't have any physical attraction,then that doesn't mean that he/her will know itself \nu have to tell him about ur feelings abut him from ur side.\nbye....take care.\nif u want any other advice then mail me at shobsworld@gmail.com