he is caring,dashing,with a lot of attitude,smart,intelligent , my friend and i love him. how do i tell him???
113905
tell him up front and honest about it
56578
Listen very carefully...\n\nShow him what you just asked us...\n\nAnd then ask him what he would like...\n\nBut I have a pretty good feeling he already knows how much you love him and doesn't need a reminder...
685547
What would make him warm up to you is if he saw that you're slowly getting to be like him.\nMeaning:\nHe considers himself to be an outsider from everyone else (when relationships are involved). He doesn't let himself get close to other people in fear of getting hurt in the long run.\nThe ideal relationship for him would be with another outsider just like him. Someone who would spend nearly all her time with him, understand and be understood by him. Someone who would feel the same way about commitment as he does.\nIf you love him enough to be willing to sacrifise your social life for him, then go for it. Think long and hard about it.\nIf you're willing, then you should start cutting yourself off from the excessive attention of people, and you should limit your displays of affection (even to him).\nGet to know his character first, his hobbies, his familly, his positive side and his little quirks, and leave the physical stuff for later (think of them as the ultimate goal, but don't let him know that, otherwise your cover will be blown to pieces).\nLet him know you, tell him everything (or nearly...) about yourself, so you can get him to trust you.\nBut remember, it might take months before there can be a breakthrough. It's like trying to get a wild animal to trust you. You take it slowly, and you have to make absolutely no mistakes. If you take one step forward, a tiny mistake will take you two steps back.\nGood luck!
989973
Awwww If he has a girl who is a sweet as you sound he already is my hero....hey just keep being yourself hes gotta feel special.
912159
Just tell him you love him! Make sure to let him know that you understand he has some anxiety about moving quickly and that you respect going slow. He might not say it back which can prove an akward situation but he'll know that he's deeply cared for. =-)
45348
try to become his great friend then finally tell him how you feel then he will probley tell you how he feels then it might happen to work out.
414074
He's one of the most deeply and truly loving people I've ever met; \nhe's intelligent and genuinely thoughtful, and I like the challenge; \nhe's mature and self-confident enough to admit when he's wrong; \nhe's fantastic in bed and wants it all the time; \nhe's fun to spend time with, and i don't tire of being with him.
613087
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
954450
It's hard to say what the signs are, but here's a good tip: don't reveal anything until you're sure you want to tell him.  When you finally know you want to tell him, use an analogy to bring it up casually.  In other words, pretend your friend likes some guy and you need him to tell you advice on how to get them together.  He should practically give you the answer of what he wants.\n\nGood luck!
644372
Lexie( cute name)\n\nLexie u said that u  really LOVE him, but he LIKES u\n\nand that u he's an amazing, trustworthy all around  great guy( I can understand why u love if he's all that) but since u and he have been friends forever then u can say it in a friendly way 1st to see how he reacts. If he says it back in return, then theres ur opening.\n\nAsk him how he really feels about u after all these yrs ask him if he loves u in a friendly friendship way or in a girlfriend way? \n\nAnd base it on that.
511155
Were you just talking, or was it more than that?\n\nIf you were just talking tell him you are just freinds. tell him how much you love him and that you want to spend the rest of your life with him. (only if it's true. Don't lie to him.)
651634
tell him, you are cute!! \nbelieve me there's nothing like honesty
38732
just be yourself and let him know by action that you love him because he would feel it if you are sincere with your feelings for him.
978644
Because you have been friends for so long, he probably loved you before you started dating.\n\nIf you don't want to tell him you could say:  "I feel really strongly about you and I am so happy right now,  I just don't want to say I love you quite yet."\n\nI was in love with my husband before we ever kissed.  It worked out.
407817
It really depends on you and him... If you guys are really good friends and you guys understand eachother then, why not just tell him how you feel about him?? You know him better than anyone else and if you feel that he's going to act differently towards you b/c you told him how you felt then I would suggest that you keep at a friendship level... You never know though he could poossibly be feeling the same way.. To be honest if he was really a good friend reguardless of whether he feels the same or not he will be able to continue being your friend afterwards.. I would take that chance, you'll never really know unless you try. But in the end that's just my opinion, the decision is really yours to make in the end.... Good Luck!!!!!
741166
tell him this way you liked and be friendly  with him.
802387
just go to him and tell him how u feel, and im positive he feels the same way, if your close friends then he must know u and he would like u for who u r