how do you get someone to stop being mad at you?
105927
Time heals all wounds.
1094510
I'm afraid the only way you are going to stop this is to just be brutally blunt with her. It sounds cruel, but people like her usually don't the get the message if you beat around the bush.  She obviously wants ALL your attention. She throws a tantrum when you say something to her to put a guilt trip on you. She obviously lost a lot of friends because she acts this way. She is suffocating and I give you credit for dealing with it, but I see you are at a breaking point and before this goes further, put a complete stop to it. \n\nI would air out all of your feelings to her emphasizing that you can no longer tolerate her behavior. Tell her unless she backs off and gives you some space you want nothing to do with her at all. She will be upset of course, throw her tantrum, but eventually she will get over it. It might prompt her to take a look at herself, the way  she acts and why she can't make friends and she might even thank you one day.\n\nI do emphasize be brutally blunt, if you aren't this problem will persist.
326041
just talk to him about what makes you mad...my boyfriend does the same things, and when i tell him something i don't like, he stops, or if he does it by accident, he's really sweet about it and makes up for it...also, if he's pissing you off, make sure he knows it at that time, cuz if he doesn't, he'll keep doing whatever he is doing wrong...make sure he knows you really want it to work, and you'll do whatever you can
550527
Go for a walk and just have time on your own.  Talk to yourself about what got you so pissed off, what you should have said, what you are going to say, but without screaming or yelling so they could know that you really mean it and that you are not just talking because you are mad.....  I think that is the best as it will prevent you from getting physical with the person who caused you to get the way that you are and you will avoid saying something that you will or may regret....
679575
your idea is totally genius! I always say... kill them with kindness! It will annoy her that you are being really nice to her, and when she realizes that you aren't upset when she's rude to you, she'll get bored and start to ignore you. Most likely she'll entirely move on to someone else (to annoy) good luck! This method has worked for me MANY MAnY times!
292761
You need to confront them in a straight forward manner after you've gotten past the really angry stage.  You need to let them know how what they have done has affected you and what your reaction is to this, if it is leaving or what ever.  Just don't let your anger and pain control the discussion, you need to be clear headed so you can make good choices about what you want to happen for your future.
69989
When someone gets mad at me I can tell because they stop talking to me. I usually let them chill for awhile and then I say something really silly to them. Sometimes it helps just to give them a hug. Being mad at someone you really like is silly.
447134
no do not leave her\ndo an intervention\nmake her get help in a professional place even if she does not want it.\nthen after she is all clean ( and stopped being mad at you )\nsit down and talk calmly with her..\nGood Luck
618807
Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
782578
Long hot showers, meditation, exercise, screaming into my pillow, just about anything. I have a lot of trouble with patience too. If there are certain people that drive you crazy the first thing is to remember your being upset doesn't do anything to them. Sometimes you just have to let go of things. (Easier said than done!!)\n\nI also find it helpful to talk with someone. Let someone else know how you are feeling. Talk about what is stressing you out. Chances are someone else has gone through a similar event. While they may not be able to help you now, knowing that they survived will help relieve some of your stress.
1059203
ok everytime ure angry just  close ur eyes real yight sing a song in your mind or maybe count!!!\n\nor try this talk to a person u really love but is veryirritating u wont shout at the person u love and eventually u'llstop freakin out about little things\nor better yet just talk to yourself in your mind when you are angry try to know  why ure angry and just analyse urself
1076492
just try to remain calm and stay away from it as much as possible, if certain people are doing things that you find frustrating tell them about it, they may not know and it may do some good to get how you feel about it out in the open so that they can correct what is frustrating you so much...
1151356
I use to have to take an anger management class and what i did was write the things down and throw them away. Go out side and yell at the top of my lungs, Punch a pillow, take a walk. But finally the last thing you must do is talk to the person or persons who made you angery. You need to resolve the problem letting it just be there isn't making it any better. If you can resolve your problem by using tatics you may need to seek professional help.
528792
Don't leave "it", leave. Until this person is able to control his anger and not project them onto you, stay away or you will send him the messege that it's okay for him to treat you like crap.
899352
Agree with first answer..But...here is a different idea.  Have you thought about doing a really mature thing...stop this  behavior on both sides now.  Go to the person wth a sincere attitude and ask to sit down and discuss your differences without hostility?   Might be a real shocker to him/her.  I understand your desire for revenge...we all feel that way at times...but...be the BETTER person and make an effort to make peace.  Honestly, it works.  Someone did this for me a few years ago. Good Luck.
286604
You don't say what you did to make her mad. If the perceived offense was 'bad' enough she may never forgive you.\n\nTry being as nice as you can to her. (but don't go overboard and be annoying) Try to make up for what you did. Eventually she'll forgive you or you'll get tired of trying.\n\nYou can't make anyone forgive you, unfortunately. You may just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. And don't repeat the mistake with someone else. Learn from it!
558615
don't get mad, get even!\ntreat him how ever u want! sure, u should find a way to punish him ! use u're imagination.\n\nP.S. if u ask this question without being mad already, tells me that he doesn't mean that much to u.