cant a boy and girl be friends and not have no further relation? why does the sex word always comes in between
112127
Actually it doesnt always-my best friend was a male and we set boundaries-sadly he was killed last year in a motorcycle accident-loved him dearly,havent been able to find a friendship like that since...
897927
guys always think that its impossible to be friends w. out sex..i mean hello..women are able to just be friends
399879
you're not talking about gaysh*t, aren't you? cuz with that (boy) word right there? you could've used buddy or something..\n\nbut if not, yeah sure why not.. it depends.. if you just wanna flirt, then go ahead, but that still depends too if your buddy knows about it.. and if everybody's fine with it including the girl.. go!!
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It is not safe both for the boy and the girl. They are exposed to sexually transmitted diseases. It is happy and pleasureable for both the guy and the girl, perhaps, just perhaps. \n\nBut in the end, the girl will become the bitch of the town. She will be the sextoy of every guy in town. \n\nDo you think there is anything left for that kind of girl?
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Good one, but I think it all depends on both parties. If they agree to just stay friends then I think they will stay that way without thinking of that "one thing". And second of all, their upbringing. If they grew up in a society which values relationships over sex then there wouldn't be any problem. I'm talking about waiting til they get married.
680688
its either lovers or friends..dont kid urself
142118
Because boys are less complicated than girls.  Girls use words to try to settle matters, not brute strength, and since words genuinely hurt, resentments and grudges build up.  With boys, a bruise will heal after, and they have an understanding that once they slug it out, the matter is settled.
699133
silly question my friend. Its common that girls dont want to share their information for unknown persons while boys want to share information because to attract girls and also they dont need to fear of any threat by that information.
860521
Trust me, i ahve had that expierience.  I have a boy cousin that does that to me and my friend.  I think if they are really young, they just don't know better.  They had to get to know a girls body, so they know what to touch and what not to.  He will probably stop because he will learn not to.
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Because without sex, the relationship is nothing more than a close friendship! My partner and I class ourselves as "best friends" in all aspects of life, where we spend special occassions together and can talk through everything... however, when we make love we become "lovers". So, the best friends + lovers = relationship!\n\nI don't sex is the MOST  important factor, but rather that it is equal with other aspects, such as trust, honesty, friendship and equals!
75561
i got a friend w/ a similar problem. exept that the boys are also both perfect, sexy, and SOOOO nice to her! i hope people can help u and my friend also.
72819
is this the new English?  If so, we are doomed as a society.\n\n2 answer ur question - go 4 it, but keep in mind, dat boy likes ur cuzin mor, an ur at a disadvantage, an u might loose ur cuzin as a friend.\n\nDid dat mak sens?  OMG I hop so.
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I have many friends that are either/or.  They are still good people but have a difference on their sexual outlook.  If they are your friends that is all they have to be nothing more.  I had a male friend who I did not know was gay and when he told me after 5 years of friendship I was only upset because he didn't tell me.  I told him I still loved him the same and we were best friends for many more years after that.  Some people are very mean when it comes to that.
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I think friendship of the oposite sex is sometimes the best as long as both partys understand that it is friendship only and dont complicate things by trying to have a relationship.
1089592
Only young boys or men who have yet learn to grow up, do this little game that is why you learn not to get too serious until they grow out of it. \n\nIt is a fact that males and females behave differently pending on who is around. when a female is around the guy she likes and other guys are around a greater chance the guy will act like a jerk and when a guy is around a female and other females are around she will act like she is snotty. when males and females mature they improve and many act the same with or without their friends and some don't. \n\nThere is only one way that I know of that you can see how a young person truly is and that is how they behave around their mother.
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guys dont have sleepovers, they crash at each others house. they do talk about girls, just in a very very different way than you prob talk about boys
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of course it is!!! All MY friends are blokes and it doesn't bother me (or them) that i don't have any girl-buddies (except one, which i met just a few days ago). there is nothing wrong with boys. they can be just as good, or even BETTER friends than girls! they r sooo much more fun and easy to be with that once u get to know how cool they r, you might not want to spend ur free time with girls any more! of course that depends on the type of person u r. i myself never felt too comfortable around girls, and even as a kid i only hung out with boys. \n\nso take it from me, girl: if u enjoy their company, don't let anyone tell u that it's wrong! and if that fella u call ur best friend TRULY sees u as a friend and NOT as a g/f, then u should be proud to have him! he could be the best thing that happened to u! do u have any idea how much he can teach u that a girl would NEVER be able to????