if a boy says he loves you and dosent act like it what do you do?
103679
I think the first thing is to tell him. Boys or men, we can really be funny and unexplainable. Sometimes we, as men need to know from you how you want to be loved. Is it holding hands while walking, is it flowers weekly, tell you how beautiful you are. \nFor some of us, we really do love you, we just don't know what loving you is to you.
706217
dont worry becuase all guys go through this its probly just puppy love or if they has strong emotions talk to him tell him that "I dont want to hurt your feelings but you  like me and i dont like you Im sorry but I hope you can understand that you cannot make someone love you and some day you'll realize that and I hope none of this will break your heart I just want you to move on and not get stuck on this forever" I hope you tell them that and maybe they will understand
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
181697
Because he will act like it.  Love is an action, not just a feeling.\nIf he is telling you that he loves you, but is treating you like crap, he doesn't.
452726
Tell him that you're not ready to say it and put that sort of label on your feelings. But that you feel for him. That you care about him. When my man first told me, I din't say it back. I told him That I feel for him. It made me really nervous. I told him never to say it unless he means it, because I would never say anything empty.
201663
move in and love him back.  he's not saying all that to B.S. you!
700182
Learn to accept and love him as he is, not try and bend him to be what you want.  Two choices, acceptance or risk losing him forever.
671764
If you love him and he loves you then don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and if he doesn't love you for you then don't worry about loosing him!!
627061
i would tell him to grow up and grow some balls. but if that is too blunt for you, just tell him that if he really trusted you and loved you then he would realize that there is nothing to throw fits about because your are faithful and he needs to be satisfied with your word. also tell him you need a man that can be secure in himself and the relationship  enough to let you be who you are and what you dont need is a boy who throws fits when he doesnt like something. but hun, if he throws fits about this he doesnt really trust you and imagine spending your life with a man who takes it out on you anytime he doesn like something.
707507
The question is... How would you react if you knew that a boy loves you?\n\n            I will tell you a secret... I am a boy (well, a man actually). And we always have this feeling of uneasiness everytime that we are     in-love. There are far too many questions like: Uh! What would I do if I see her by the school grounds??; How will I react if she glance my way??;  And the worst question is: What will I do if she won't care about my feelings?\n\n       Some of the girls I knew told me that they tend to pretend that they don't like a boy when the time comes that they knew that they like her. And that is a very grave mistake. The best thing that you can do is at first tell him that he is so sweet or kind telling you that... Then, be his friend.. And then observe...\n\nThe best way to know if a guy is in-love with you is when...\n1. He remembers the most peculiar thing about your conversation... It means that he is listening and very interested in you.\n2. He does not hesitate to do cheesy things for you in front of other people. Example: He gives you love letters publicly.\n3. He is not afraid to talk to your parents about you... It means that he has good intentions.\n4. He gives you a simple gifts that probably he made himself.\nExample: A compilation CD\n\nThere are a lot more things for me to say... But i guess this is enough for you to figure out if that boy loves you... If you still need more answers just email me... Have a nice day..\n\n                                                                 ayskyubx@yahoo.com
775261
id say just act normal. like what he did didnt hurt or make things complicated. just act like nothing happened. :)
263191
In a situation like this, you can't go by what your friend says. You have to go by his actions. Ask him how he feels about you. If he doesn't love you don't waste your time. If he says he does, tell him he needs to start acting like it. Actions speak louder than words! Life is too short to waste your time on being in love with someone that's not in love with you. Don't stick around thinking you can change thier mind. You will only get hurt in the long run. Trust me, I know because I've tried.
1089697
You will know a guy loves you when his actions line up with his words: if he says he loves you and does things to show you this (like treat you with respect, take care of you, etc.), then he loves you.
191512
Ultimately a guy just wants to be loved.  Each guy is different and expects different things from different girls.  Remember, he wants you to be his girl friend so that means he like who you are.  Just be you and if you are concerned about something talk to your boy and find out what he is thinking.
462237
if the boy doesn't enitiate it then just lean in  or even say can i just stop you there for a minute, there something that have got to do? then stand up, walk aroud the back of him and return to the front with a slow seductious long kiss....
570701
call im out on it....what im sayingis tell him what ur noticing about him; what u see thats different in him, and ask him why hes acting this way..
752265
Turn it around and tell him he obviously doesn't trust you, which means he doesn't care (feel love) for you.\nNow have HIM prove it if he doesn't agree!  ;-)