LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM .. IF YOU CAUGHT HIM CHEATINg?
99415
You weren't worth the risk of getting caught.Find someone who will treat you like a queen.
82772
Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.
176460
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
775325
i think u should consider it again....think about it carefully...ur fate will depend on ur decision...give him the last chance... if he do it again, dont hesitate to leave him...im sure there's someone better than him..good luck!
507078
If you help him cheat you're just making it worse in the future.  You have to know that stuff; it doesn't go away.  The best thing you can do is help him study.  If you can't teach him, find someone else who can.  Plus, if you get caught cheating you could face some very negative consequences.
211345
I would leave her...once a cheater always a cheater....Apparently she doesnt love u like u want her too. Say goodbye and find better
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
584443
It sounds like you loved him alot more than he loved you. its a shame that it took 3.5 years for all this to surface because each day you probably loved him more and more. After the 1st time he cheated his love decreased every day. Thats why he continued cheating on you. Yes you did the right thing. The right thing is always hard to do because it is right thing. Now we dont know his side of the story but cheating is cheating.
1153134
Once a cheater always a cheater. If he loved you like he says then he would not cheat! End of story!
270867
Did you just find out that he was cheating?  You know what you have to do already!  If he has cheated on you the whole time he will not stop now.  It is up to you to get out of this relationship.  I know it is hard to leave someone that you have become so familiar with, but you are in an unhealthy situation in more ways than one.  You need to consider the fact that he is playing with your heart, emotions and also risking your life.  STD are real and some can kill you or make you barren.  Get out now.  Good luck!
75868
Confront him first. If he blames you for his cheating and shows no remorse then give him the boot!
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
415717
I would leave him. I would leave him and file for child support if we had kids, I would leave him and take half of his stuff if we didn't have kids. Let someone else deal with his cheating behind. Especially with a baby involved, he will have to deal with the woman he cheated on me with on a regular basis. I could not trust him to do that.
259682
Dump him. I've been cheated on before. I'll never put up with it again.
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
577027
If I was you if he messed up one more time i would just leave him cause you want a guy that will always loves you not just off and on.. And if he really did cheat on you either he doesnt care or he was just rebounding from something else.. hope that answers your question
836082
You really DO have to decide for yourself and what anyone on here says cant change that but if he was cheating on me i would break up with him, and plus if you never see him, than what is the point? I think you should find somebody better than that because you dont derserve that!\n\nGood Luck And Take Care!