what can i do when i meet any girls at the first time?and what i should talking with here?
116621
Just talk to them and come up with topics talk about how pretty their eyes r or their hair and that kinda stuff! Just be yourself dont try to be something your not!
1102684
ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
423923
Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
652843
You're going to need to practice your "game" with girls.\n\nIf you can pretty much meet any girl you want, then you can meet lots of girls and talk to them to find out what they are like. After awhile you'll be able to determine pretty quickly if she's the type of girl you're looking for.\n\nTry: dancing, yoga, bookstores, coffee shops, college campus, etc.
280512
yeah, just say hi, and be yourself. just have a normal conversation. be calm.
236189
First of all, check out the girl--what is the mood at her moment.  If you can handle her mood, go and talk to her in the way that suits her.  There is no definite method as to how to talk to one; it all depends upon the person, the place and the time.
163296
Try something new.  And make sure there is plenty of time to talk.  A first date should be exciting.  You don't have to go all out, just be yourself and show her a good time.  Pay attention to her!:)
326551
Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
489671
Honestly I am a female and i will give u advice. The thing tthat u should do is relax, take a deep breath and think over.Just by looking her u feel good but also u have words that wont come out the right way. when u see her face again u should stop her and get to know her first. find out what she likes to do and you'll find your way in, meaning your time will come so u can express your feeling or any special thing u feek for her. just give it a try but one thing never rush a female.take nice and slow and easy. if u need advice talk to me i will help u cuz i am a girl that been through experience like that and i didnt know what to do until i found my way. try!!
347260
Do things to occupy your time .. Hobbies, sports, things you enjoy and have fun .. Hang out your your friends and enjoy your life!  You'll meet another girl soon ..
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
511380
Just be yourself. And where exactly are you? Look into some pen pal profiles or something if you are looking, and if you already have someone, then just ask her. Hope things work out for you. Have a wonderful day :)
595657
nothing, from what youve said.  maybe you just havent met the right girl yet.
420425
I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
33514
Make yourself more presentible for the ladies. First thing a girl looks at is your appearance. Buy yourself a nice pair of shoes and keep them clean. Keep your skin clean, smell nice, clean cut hair cut. Get some nice clothes and having a watch is always a good thing, makes you appear more in control of your life. Keep some breath mints or chewing gum so you have that fresh breath and learn how to talk to the girls. Be nice to them and try to be a gentleman. Confidence takes a huge part in this, and you cant fake it either because they will know. Sometimes it's just best to do what feels natural to you. Dont present yourself as someone your not because that is just false advertisement, come as you are. She will either like you for the person you are, or she doesnt and there is nothing you can do bout that. Give it a shot. - Tokyo
578960
Get to know her first and start off conversation something simple and interested in her or you. Just be yourself and relax she might like you who are.
1029663
The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.