How do  ij Know if he's cheating on me?
107016
ask him about his day and see if he is reluctant to answer, if he does not answer his phone often it is a bad sign, if he cares less it's bad, and talk to his friends, not asking direct questions, check his mobile phone if you can and see if there are any sms from strangers that are suspicious...
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
28357
First I would validate that s/he indeed is cheating.\n\nS/he might have other issues that you are not aware of.\n\nConfront the person if possible, in a non-hostile manner.
5651
just because u have been seeing him for 7 months and 11 days doesnt mean he is cheating \nis he not calling when he says he will, not showing up or blowing you off?\nnext time ask a whole question and u will get better answers
540159
If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
363826
I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
74346
no i dont think so,cuz if i know or find out he cheats on me that means i cant give him what he need..so aint no need for me 2 b with him anymore..he wanna cheat on me he should make sure im not gonna find out,but men always get busted somehow..and as a female u know when he cheats,u can feel it.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
1133824
He's probably cheating on you. Or he maybe gay. Or worse yet, both.
252749
maybe ur reading to much into it maybe he just hasn't had a chance to call or maybe he is playing u if u see him confront him and find out.
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.