Why is it that girls always fall for dumb looking guys? Is it true that nice guys always finish last?
106497
no...in the end the nice guys will find the best girls because the best girls know who the nice guys are and they realize that looks dont last but being nice and respectful will last forever!
695120
A lot of woman say this all the time, yet they end up with wrong kind of men all the time.  I don't think it's a coincidence.  \n\nBasically here's the deal, and I'm basing this on what I have learned from my 25 years on earth.  The nice decent guy is not noticed.  Yeah, nice guys finish last a lot of times.  It sucks but it's the truth and the truth hurts. \n\nAlot of woman see the nice guy out of the corner of their eye, he's going about his business, working his 9 to 5, trying to be a productive member of society, but he tends to blend in so he doesn't get noticed, so again and again women like you fall for the a-holes.  It's a vicious cycle.  Good luck, though.
901578
I think they say that nice girls finish last, but they are wrong! I know some nice girls who are at the top of their game!
222061
I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
1123359
i believe we both have the same problem guys  seem to always go for the stupid girls, the ones that aren't going to last in a relationship. just give it some times. im sure miss right will walk right into your life soon. be ambitious find her. find a girl who you have fun with, someone you can talk to about anything, and most of all a girl you love and a girl who loves you.\nGOOD LUCK!\nhope you find the right girl for you.
399693
all teen girls share some of the same issues....but differently......i knoe it doesn't make sense. but all girls want a good guy, a nice guy, who has money, isn't going to mistreat her, likes her for who she is, doesn't just want her for sex and really wants to be in a relationship with her, not gonna cheat on her and is just an all around good guy.  Now obviously we can't expect guys to change nor should we try to change them, but at least ya'll can try harder at being the best man ya'll can be. hope this help
802353
As a guy, I'd like to apologize for posting here, but I have to call BS about looks not being all that important.  See that gorgeous girl in the mall?  Who's she with?  An average guy? Nope.  She's with a muscular macho guy.  I'm not generalizing here.  Sit in the mall and count the attractive women.  Attractive women only because beauty is what men choose.  Desirable women really do get desirable looking men.\n\nFrom my experience girls want\n#1 Fun\n#2 Personality\n#3 Looks\n#4 And a bunch of other superficial things. (Yes, anything that isn't necessary for survival is superficial)\nAnd finally security.\n\nAnd to answer the guy above me, girls want a guy who deserves her.  Of course no guy deserves any woman, but she doesn't want to short change herself by being with a loser.  A guy who eats, sleeps, and dreams about this girl gives the impression that he doesn't deserve her.  She feels like she's with a loser.  Later on in the relationship, that's when you shower her with affection and love.  But don't get too clingy too soon.
957808
nice guys dont finish last, but guys with low self-esteem do.. if you dont like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to like you.  challenge yourself and you will learn to like yourself more.  the opposite sex will notice you when you like yourself...
1079911
The "good ones" as usually too nice to us. \n\nIts the thrill of the chase that most like - playing hard to get.  \n\nTry being a bit meaner towards a girl and they'll love ya.  That's what I've noticed about my friends.  They like that guys that are mean to them. Don't know why though.
601298
because girls think that they can change a bad boy into a good boy. Bullshit. It never works. GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!!
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
930880
To yourself, you may seem good looking and a nice guy. Maybe you are. But I know from personal experience and guy friends who talk to me that often, when a guy KNOWS or THINKS he's good looking and nice, he comes across arrogant. There is nothing a girl hates more than a boyfriend with a big head. Girls also look for attitude, brains, and humor---not just looks and kindess. Also, maybe you're not obvious enough! Don't go sleazy though. A girl will be repulsed. Also, quit the chatspeak, especially if the girl you're interested in talks to you online. It makes people seem unintelligent. \n\nI hope this isn't too harsh! Just trying to give you some advice...\n\nCheers and good luck\nKate
496005
I am a girl of 22 years old and have had a lot of experience with guys. I am not shy and will ask a guy face to face what he looks for in a gal... from what i have been told guys look for "normal" girls. most hate it when a girl cakes her face in makeup and trys too hard to look "nice" what guys want is for a girl to have personallity rather than looks. thats the honest truth. They dont want a really ugly girl when theyre young coz they dont wana lose in front of their mate.... so be yourself and be confident and whatever you don DONT change the way you look or act to impress anybody be proud of you and be confident with yourself and youll have the guys flooding at you...promise. xx
896991
"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"\n\n'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?\n\nIf so, does that make you just as shallow?\n\nYou need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends").  Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.\n\nMake sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.\n\nMight take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.
1064653
It depends how you define win and what it is you are winning. \n\nBeing nice makes us feel like a loser because we're taken advantage of.  Maybe you're missing the point, we may have lost, but we won in some other way. \n\nI don't think the good girls out there would go for bad guys. I don't think cheating gets you anywhere in the end. \n\nGood guys win the real battles. Good nice guys win the girl. Nice guys win in life.\n\nUnless you're nice guy, you're winning the wrong battle. In short, only nice guys win the right battle.
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
70295
well...it depends what kind of girl you're talking to but no matter what do not do stupid immature guy stuff it just makes you look stupid. also, do not just come up to us and tell us that we're beautiful we don't like that it makes you look shallow...just talk about little stuff and dont try to find out all kinds of personal stuff...they feel too much presure that way, and also, i think that you are very smart because you are asking for advice, which is better than a lot of guys i know!!