Should I move on from the man that I love so that he will realize that I am serious this time?
100150
from a voice of exprience. i would move. maybe the time apart will be a wake up call for him.
1095976
You should probably cut it off. If you know you are the only one with serious feelings then you also know that you are going to be the only one hurt in the end. If you are hell bent on staying with him, then try to use him for something as well. Then you'll both be okay in the end, because you acknowledged early that it was meaningless.
951483
get out as soon as you can. HE WILL NOT CHANGE., even if he says he will. i know nobodys advice will chnage what your mid is set on, but if you plan on staying in this relationship, it is your fear of him talking, not your love. get away from him and stick to your story about the slap. anything to stay away from him...
110096
Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
996082
Don't move out there unless you already are serious, sure that you love him, sure that there are no hidden problems that you can't deal with, and sure that you will either marry him or be able and happy to build a new life there if marriage plans fall through.\nIt sounds like he is not the one for you.  If that's so, don't try to fit him into that position.  Wait for the man you feel good about.
785597
Okay, you are old enough to know that everyone is a rebound. If he is actually serious about you, then take him at his word. Otherwise, you are just ruining your relationship by second guessing your beau. If you were doing this to me, I would definitely end it. Everyone is a rebound, its called experience. The question should be, do you feel the same about him? If not then don't waste his time. Life is too short to analyze things that should not be analyzed. Stop calculating his steps and place in order yours. If you are steadying him during this crisis he is having, wouldn't that mean that you love him? If you stick and if he's the type of guy you portray him to be, then you should know that this will only solidify you all's relationship. Enjoy what you have with this man, if you spend your waking moments diffusing what you have, you will end up with nothing.
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
1161814
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
405366
If you know it is over and you want to move on, it really is very easy.  Your forgivness is NOT for his sake, but for yours.  By forgiving, you will leave the burden behind and open your heart for true love.  Not forgiving will be harder and hurt only you!  Forgive and move on!
812
Let him go.  If it's meant to be, he'll realize what an idiot he is and come back.  In the meantime, why should you sacrifice what you really want (a relationship) for someone else?  You deserve to be happy.  \n\nWhy are we women always so ready to sacrifice the possibility of loving, committed relationships with other people, just to stay with someone who is 'not sure' about us?  It's silly.  Go out and get what you want.
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
260315
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
537901
from what i do is i spit the days from your last relationship last. And whatever those days are equal to i think its time to move on. but if you really really like this guy i say just go for it, you only live once and just live life to the fullest. :)
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
1067341
you leave him and move on. if you continue he will destroy your self esteem and it will be harder for you to leave him in the future.
1080453
I know it's really hard to let go! When you beg a guy to stay, and try to work things out, it will never work out. He will just keep you on the side in case things don't work out else where. I'm speaking from experience. You need to tell yourself that you deserve someone who wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with them. Why would you want to be with this guy, he has already given up. He can't possibly care as much as you do, about this relationship. Move on, there is some one out there for you. It takes time and patience. Don't just settle, set high standards for yourself. Keep your head up. :)
1173061
he will go back to the same old stuff once you agree to stay, unless you resolve the underlying problem and if the problem is a behavior thing of his you arent going to change it. sounds like you are done and when that happens there is no going back. look if the guy really cared about the marriage he would've changed things when you said you were unhappy instead of waiting until you said i'm leaving. do you really want to spend your life with your bags packed because thats the only thing that gets through to him? yes you said better or worse, but sometimes it just isn't worth it. only you can decide that, to me it sounds as if you already have. if you've already given him 100 chances to step up to the plate he obviously isn't going to and 100 more won't be enough either. good luck to you, things will work out!