why do older guys like me and guys my age have never spoke to me?
104319
happy u r. mature and attractive enough. older gyus better for more serious relations. for 14 years old girl  exactly fits 16 and older boys.\nprhaps boys of ur age think that u r to good for them, as far as they are very insecure in the teen age.\ngood luck and take care
387667
It has to be an ego thing. I have noticed that most guys dont show how they feel, ever. They hide most everything about themselves. Its got to be a derivitave from the "boys dont cry " way of thinking.
390459
Maybe you have beautiful eyes ;)\nJust maybe they see genuine kindness which you don't see in most guys(or peoples) eyes.
1110404
So some guy you've never met says he's interested in you, and you sound like you could perhaps be interested in him.  How do you know he is who he says he is?  He could be some 55 year old, slovenly pervert and not the teenage hot guy he purports to be.  \n\nBe very, very careful about people you chat with on the internet.  Don't give them personal information.  Don't tell them your last name, what city you live in, what school you go to, the names of your friends, or anything else that could identify you.  There is a whole subculture of internet sexual predators out there.  Don't let yourself become a statistic.
281121
don't rush it sweetheart your pretty and it takes boys awhile to see that at your age,  because your at the age of developement and growing up faster then they are and becoming grown up faces a new world of what boys notice when they get older too., if they seem cruel it's because they don't know what to say but it will come to them when they grow up too. enjoy being the little sweetheart that you are, and time will make them all crazy about you too. and you'll have them calling you and wanting to be around you so much you'll be asking ways to get rid of them here.
989820
Maybe you just look younger then your age, and guys your age think your too young to go out. You should feel proud of your self that at least you dont look old. Oh and one more thing you should remember that as long as you always dress up nice, and take care of you self, any guy will always ask you out, of course if you happen to be too pretty then maybe guys are just shy, and feel your going to reject them, because your to good for them.
1169656
Those random guys might been your best bet. why? maybe there shy and wouldn't say anything .If you broke the ice they both might be flattered. try breaking the ice.
588629
loss of confidence maybe,be a man and talk to them naturally as u would do with a boy,ok
1081460
i do like older guys and most of the girls i know\nlike them.\nim 21 and my man is 35.\nwomen want to be with someone more mature than them
464181
Yes i've always been exactly the same.  I've really no interest in guys my own age, and i've always been like this even since when i was at school.  Don't really know why though but it's not a problem at all.  Plus as the saying goes, there's many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle.....  I'm 29 and seeing a guy of 51 who is the sexiest guy i've ever met in my life and is well fit (and looks about 35).  Good Luck!
663432
Well, one reason might be that you're attractive to begin with, whether you look younger or not.\n\nBut there's something else going on too.  There's this whole power thing going on.  A lot of guys as they get older start feeling that in order to feel good about themselves, they have to be able to attract girls like they were young.  So they look for younger women (there's more, but I don't have space).  Also, there's a power thing going on.  Older men will be attracted to younger women because the younger ones are less experienced, more trusting, and easier to manipulate.  Since you have to ask the question, you're probably naive and trusting, so be on your guard for someone who might want to take advantage of you.
1136432
Age can play a part in it.\nBoys sometimes don't know how to act.\nMeaning, they may not even know how to express attraction.\n\nSome guys are full of themselves and don't really express interest in anything.\n\nSome dudes are gay and so in the closet that they think they need to have a girlfriend, but really want her brother.\n\nSome men only want you sexually, so they say they want you, but don't care what you have to say.\n\nSome guys think it's the right thing to do to tell someone they are attractive.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
286152
been there. sucks. confidence all low and crap cause we're not 20 anymore! fortunately for you, these Young girls think older guys are hot! guys get more distinguished looking. women just get older. i'm sure you'll find some one new to rock your world. just be careful. it's not the same world you dated in 20 years ago! best of luck!
761581
When it comes to relationships we should not look at other people as being on the same level that we are - below us or above us. The way you talk about yourself -you seem to be an attractive person.  You talk about your breast size as being less  then an A size cup.. As far as the older guy that you mentioned goes he may just find you attractive and like you as well. He may notice your great personality.  If he is single flirt with him more. Maybe the younger guys turn you off because they lack maturity. They can sense that you are too grown up for their silly games. Get out and enjoy your life. There are men outside of the work place.
487113
u know this happens to be a bigger problem than i had expected... i thought i was one of the only people in my age range that had never kissed someone before...but after being on here i have seen MANY people like me...Im 19 and im a male and i am super hot but i have never kissed anyone before either... i think it is because people are intimidated to approach us maybe...oh im not just saying im hot either i really am...a local modeling agency wants me to sign on with them so i know im not ugly!!! ANYWAYS... i dont know how to help you but when you get a good answer just hit me up at jwilliams@inbox.com...im extremely interested
672652
it is not easy to tell if a guy likes you take it from me i have been there done that deal... all guys are different and they all react to things differently... i guess the way i always knew if a guy liked me or had any kind of interest in me would be if he went out of his way to see me or call me...IE: if he is busy and you call him and he call back that's a good sign.... no it is not bad to have a boy friend at 15 my first real boyfriend was when i was 13 and him and i are still friends and keep in contact (10 years later)...