How can i explian  / tell to my girlfriend that i wanna have sex with her?
108813
i think the best way is not to ask her if she is ready for sex but to take her down and kiss her on the lips then you can continue with the other parts i dont think she will refuse you.try it now.
1127540
do not have sex with her \nlet her have it with you
164724
I don't think you want to tell a girl you love her and want to have sex with her all at the same time.  One step at a time. Tell her how you feel, and invite her out to dinner, maybe buy her some flowers, or choclates and know that Rome wasn't built in a day. Just slow it down a little.
431608
You just gotta tell her.  If she does it then let her know you enjoy it.  If she is shy about it then just let her move at her own pace.
787073
tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
944334
if she is uncomfortable or not ready yet then as an understanding boyfriend you should hear her out on this one. dont let the wanting and needing to be physical with your girlfriend be the only reason why you want to be with her. if the only reason why you wanna be with her is to touch her and not acually be with her, then that shouldnt be. you should wanna spend time with her no matter what goes on. day or night. and if she says no physical anything then you should respect it. if you wanna be loving and show her that you really do care about her then you can try writting her a love letter. decorate it with prettey designs and mail it to her or send it to her on the computer. buy her a neckalace or a bracelet if she likes wearing them. maybe some prettey earrings. give her some of her favorite flowers if she has any. if she doesnt have a favorite flower then get her some pink and red roses. be gentle with it and make sure its coming from your heart and not just because you want to gain back enoguh trust to be physical again. good luck. im a poet, so if you want me to write you a poem to give to her then i will use one of my own.
172241
Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
409123
Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.
984176
The major way to please a gilr is to be totally honest  with her.  If  you are honest then that shows your dedication to her. The second way to please her is to treat her like you would want to be treated. If want r the type that likes to be wined and dined then your ahould wine and dine her. To show her that u lovbe her, u should tell her. You dont have to always say that u love her verbally, you could show her. You could send her "just thinking about you" gifts. This lets her see that u actually take the time to think about her in your busy day. If u want to please her sexually, then u must be in tune with what she likes and what she doesnt like. This may mean that you have to ask her what she wants and make sure that you give it to her. If she is satisfied then trust me, she will make sure that you r satisfied. Relationships only work with effort, love, and sacrifice.
736164
Well......see it was when you said you were having sex last night that she became skeptical. Afterall... she knew you were with your wife. Sex with your wife? *smacks his head* Sheesh....what were you thinking! Of course your girlfriend isn't going to buy that. \n\nI suggest you write your wife a cute little note like we used to do in 6th grade and say:\n\n"Hey sweetie... I enjoyed making love to you last night. Did you? Check one:\n\n______ yes      _________ no\n\n(oh and will you sign your name at the bottom as well?)\n\n\n\n~~~~~ \nThen show this to your girlfriend. Surely it will be as good as an affadavit.
838282
There's so many things to talk with your girlfriend,,starts with the basic,,what does she like? movies,music,books and everything you could think of,,find out what interest her,,what makes her mouth dry,,what makes her mind blow,,and if your comfortable enough,take the conversation to the next level,,talk about sex,what position does she like best,,what makes her reached orgasm,,what did she like you doing to her,,what are her sexual fantasy,,if you cant think of anything to talk about with your girlfriend,,you must be a very boring person...keep the faith
668022
Ok If you really like this girl,and want to continue dating her when the moment comes up that you want to have sex,go take a shower and invite her in with you,then you will know  she is clean but if all else fails,if you are truly in to her and she is into you,just tell her in a polite way,She is not going to know what you like and dis-like unless you tell her we are not Mind readers.
688809
If she is your girlfriend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is your friend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is someone you care about, you have to tell her.\nIf you don't give a damn about her, then play with her.
1177494
You can ask her a general question, like what does she think of the idea, without suggesting you want to do it.  You can also ask her first if she's ever thought about sex with a chick.  Her answers will tell you whether or not you should ask her.   \n\nI will say though, if you really love her, don't do it.  Introducing a third party into a relationship is asking for trouble.  Most open relationships don't last.  \n\nNow what are you going to do if she likes the idea but wants to do it with two guys instead of two girls?  You open the can of worms, you may get an answer you're not expecting!   And fair's fair...if you get your wish, she's entitled to hers!
1101534
if you are secure in your relationship give her a chance to explore her sexuality an ask her if you may be present at time an go from there.i wish u best.
441994
"wanna have sex with me?"
1124786
she's your girlfriend right? just tell her. if you can't tell her this, then the relationship is doomed for destruction.