If your boyfriends friend came over who was not attracted to you in anyway to hang out how would you feel?
109065
Of course your man shouldn't be angry. It's your sister that he likes, not you. And being a good sibling, you should try getting them hooked up. I have tons of guy friends myself, and am not dating, but I like helping out my sister. She needs all the help she can get...
306632
I agree with loving_father.\nPut yourself in your friends shoes. How would you feel?\nI was in this situation once. My friends knew my GF was seeing someone else and didn't say anything. Needless to say, they are no longer my friends. Do the right thing.
672245
I think it is dependent. My boyfriend is still good friends with his ex's and a couple of them I have to admit are better looking than me. At first I was suspicious of being just the flavor of the month for a while, but the key thing is to talk to them. Tell her that if bothers her that she does this on her own. If she is going out with an ex that you would like to go with her for your own peace of mind. I did that and I can tell that there is nothing left of that previous relationship, and have moved on. Now he'll spend hours studying with them sometimes and I don't care...then again we've almost been together for two years.
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
450100
well if he cant get along wit ya friends he aint ya type plus u got mixed feeling,if u just had 1 feelin it would be better
219758
No. But I'm not really attracted to my best friend's wife. If she was a supreme hottie, then maybe. If she was hotter than my fiancee, the probably. But that's on the opposite side of possibility.
145691
assume that your friend is not interested and look elsewhere
905135
i felt the same way but i kind di not get over it be cause we said we would not go with some boby that person like too. she was a great friend but, she kiss him in the hall wall. she  was going with him .i can"t belive i was like how in the hell she do that. so at that time i know we would not be friend or best friend at all.
695152
Simply put, would you tolerate any of your girlfriends hitting on your boyfriend?  Treat this "friend" the same way.  Just because he is gay, does that give him special privileges?
1032996
hmm lol i wouldnt tie him up i would be cool about it but on the inside i would be doin my lil I LOVE ED DANCE ^.^ id just ask him to hang out with me and whatever happened, happened lol ^.^
1156837
just imagine how you'd feel if he flirted with any and everyone he met. i bet you'd be pretty pissed off and if not then maybe you don't really like him as much as you thought.
107059
No. My boyfriend have friends who are girls. I have male friends. We're cool like that.
1002434
you have a boyfriend and you want your so called friends approval? sorry i don't get it, if he's your boyfriend and there your mates how come they don't know him and have only seen a pic. my advise get new friends. i could never in a million years tell my friends that their  boyfriends weren't good looking even if that's what i thought, and i would never tell them that they could do better unless he was been horrible to her. true friends accept each others partners and even if your not that keen you pretend for their sakes. Also your the one who is with him not them and like i've said before looks are'nt everything.
791309
I had a boyfriend that I never invited over because he would make fun of wood paneling, and my house had wood paneling. I was silly, and thought that he would think it was lame. Maybe, just maybe...he is embarrassed about something? If not, maybe he something that he doens't want you to know about.\n\nBy the way, we dated for 4 years and I never invited him over!
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
831638
You think your friend is going to leave you for the guy.\nb
358081
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...