What is the best way to ask a guy foe marriage?
107680
you dont.\nits his job.\nu just dont give sex until u get ur ring
864674
Guys he has to be married because the guy asking the question is married. You just need to go out there and keep lookign they are out there but you just have to take the time to find them. I am in NC and was looking for the same thing. Just keep posting personal adds you will find him soon.
536012
Its simple, just go and ask him. Its the best way cause otherwise you'll never know and all you'll be left doing is wondering.. Does he? ,  doesnt he?
303142
go for it.\nthats a great idea.\ninfact i respect your decision.\n\nokey. as said , its the tradition \nof a man to ask a lady to marry him.\nbut i guess culture is changing as we grow. \nas of this days, you wont be suprised to see a lady proposing to a man. that will depend on the love they \nshare both. infact i like it when a lady is the one to propose. \nwhen there is love, nothing will befall in between.\nthere is nothing wrong a woman proposing to a guy.\n\nbe inspired and go for it.
440556
Why dont you try talking to him about marriage first, when he talks about the future and growing old and dieing with you just say, dont you think we should talk about getting married before we talk about the house with the white picked fence? Just bring it up, there might be a reason why hes timid on getting married or maybe hes talking about the future fishing around for a good way to ask you about marriage and hes worried that you might say no or something, you never know hun, just ask him if hes thought about it or if in his plans on the future if hes planning on getting married, just bring it up you might just make his day ;)
135100
This one is a challenge. First I think you might be asking How do you get your boyfriend to propose to you.  The answer, Take a reasonable amount of time to get this answer and allow him the same. Its an excellent idea to find out where his heart is, in the matter. Perhaps without him even knowing  So here.\n\nStep one:\nStart journaling, write down things that he says about love and family try to find out when does he think its an ideal time in life for a man to get married. What you're after here is will he marry you. \n\nIf he does not have lots of money does he think he can get married before making a lot of money.\n\nDoes he love little children? See how he behaves around them does he play with them or avoid them.  This is an obstacle it reveals his level of comfort with getting married now.  My best friend avoided little children - he's still not married.\n\nWould he die for you? spend all his money on you. Sleep out in the rain if you say that how it ought to be - does he love you?\n\nStep two:\nThe journaling and questions that you ask should reveal the answer to will he marry you.  Be sure not to blast him with all these questions at once. its best to recall situations you have previously encountered and be alert to others that occure.\n\nStep Three: \nBe aware of obstacles Which could be,\na) he does not want to get married \nb) not at this time in his life\nc) he requires education\nd) he does not love you \ne) he does not know what he wants\nf) he requires adequate income\ng) he's scared\nh) Other (well, you did not expect I would think of all of them)\n\nStep four:\nDevelope a plan to overcome all the objections that might arise. If he requires education then let him or persuade him it will be ok to marry first however you must overcome his objections.\n\nOnce you know what his answer is on the question (what a place to be in a relatinship)  be sure no obstacle/objections remains. You can suggest that you both get married. At this point there is only one anwer and you already know it.\n\nyou can ofcourse skip all the above and just suggest that you both get married.  Good luck
747914
Tell it you want to get married.
1158900
just ask because if his honest he should  not lie  to you because everything has a reason why so just ask but in mature way no fight or abusing each other just with respect?and remember to be a lady.
673045
It's all about tradition.  Not only is the man traditionally the one who initiates the engagement, but men don't usually wear engagement rings, so unless he wants to wear a ring (and you don't), you won't have the traditional "token" to offer him when you ask for his hand.  Just some things to think about!\n\nIf you are more progressive and want to propose, Congratulations... have  at it.  Marriage is a wonderful thing and I hope that it all works out for you.
1109627
just ask him simple as that
640550
I think its perfectly fine for a girl to ask a guy to marry her. In fact its exactly what I did and its good to know other ladies are considering it. \n\nI have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time and on our 5 year anniversary I asked him to marry me. It was probably the most nerve racked time of my life. I bought him a nice manly ring and set out our living room in candles and poured some wine. He was quite surprised and actually said he was supposed to do it. But he said yes - and like you I was so worried he wouldn't.\n\nThe biggest thing is to recall conversations you have had about marriage in the past and see if he had a positive outlook. What I found is they just need a little prodding and thats the best way. Now we have ordered my ring and he wants to have his chance to ask me too - even though we are technically already engaged. But I definitely don't mind a little extra romance in my life.\n\nI say take the chance I found it well worth the effort.
1023450
good to know you take marriage seriously, guy.  asking a woman to marry you should be nerve racking as all get out!  \n\nkeep in mind, "marriage" is only sacred if a person makes good on his/her lifetime vow "to love, honor, and cherish" their spouse ...the commitment is renewed and lived each and every day.
230073
dude, you can't ask advice about how to propose!!  if you know the girl well enough to marry her, you need to figure it out on your own.  make it creative.  you don't want her to ask you how you thought up your proposal and have to say 'oh i asked on yahoo answers'  \nbest of luck man\nhope she says yes
429898
ask him just casually
109103
I would just come clean and ask him..."Okay!  You are too perfect.  Tell me the truth...You're married, aren't you?"  Make sure that you are together when you ask it though, so that you can see his face and the way he reacts.  When you are, make it sound like, like you are joking around with him.  If he answers "No.", then ask, "Do you have kids then?"  Better question..."Do you WANT kids?"  Just keep it light, but gauge his reations.
462781
Go and ask him is the only way u can know abt his feelings. dnt just rush into situation be frenz with him first get to know his deepest secrets. Then go ahead for ur proposal.\nBest Of Luck
386214
Ask in a subtle way. Get it straight from him/.Sometimes you cannot believe half what you see or hear.