How come my bf's sister can get away with anything with him, and I can't?
113115
I think you need to dump him. There is something 'wrong' going on there...
798704
From the look of things, your sister is a pretty vain and self-centred person (unlike you).\n\nYou should really appreciate that this guy in your life is a genuine one who loves the 'Real You'. Very few people are as lucky as you are to get such true love. DON'T LET HIM GO AT ANY COST.  \n\nAs far as your sister is concerned, try to develop a relationship with her that is more than just 'skin-deep and cosmetic'. Tell her that your fiancee is really special for you and just because he doesn't whim your sister's fancies -- that doesn't make him a lesser guy.\n\nDon't pay too much attention to your sister's comments about this guy --- Remember you can't and don't need to please everybody.\n\nJust let her be and I'm sure with time she'll accept this quite easily because psychology of such people says that superfluous people are poor at holding on to grudges for too long. \n\n\nBEST OF LUCK with this man...
368394
They need to find out. You don't want to know that your sister is being cheated on and you could have possibly done something to stop it. I wouldn't even consider not telling my sister.
1021757
That's just sick.  No matter how respectful and nice this guy may seem he's really a total creep.  I'm 24 and there's no way in hell I would hang out with a 13 year old unless I was related to them.  It's obvious he's going to mess up your sister so badly.  Tell your parents about what this guy is doing.  Your sister may hate you for telling on her, but when she's older and more mature she'll be very thankful.  This guy can screw her over for the rest of her life, or cause her years of therapy.
921745
Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.
192123
answer this: could you marry into a family like that? do you want to call the man who raped your sister your brother? I wouldnt. Nor would i want to call a woman who knew about it and didnt care "mom". who says the same thing couldnt happen to you?\nDo yourself a favor and get out. Your bf might be different from them, but he still has them in his life and i know i wouldnt want to deal with that.
547507
yeah dude thats totally wrong. u will get in trouble if either of them knows the truth than u r a goner man. so try to stop the attraction towards ur girlfriend's sister.
819050
You're sister's a piece of shit . there is no reason to break into someone's house.  she should have gone to the hospital. if your bf wanted to give her access to the house she would have a key.  He has every right to protect himself.  To say that he's wrong because she needed to be in the house  is Monday morning quarterbacking.  She shouldn't have been in the house period.  You must be very young to think your bf is not allowed to protect himself. he didn't know it was your ghetto sister he just knew someone broke into his home.  And last it's his house if he wants to come home he has every right to.
96534
I need to know more to be able to answer this question like how much do you like the guy and what does he feel towards you and your sister? I have a younger sister and most of the time i have to make sacrifices just to make things easier for everybody. It's better to step back than fight with her over something that's simply not worth fighting for.
786870
She received the voice message or saw the text msg.  Your Sis might want to confront you and her boyfriend during the party.\n\nEven worse humiliate you during the party.
810433
No your not being to drastic, if he would  make a pass at your sister then he will make a pass at anyone. once a cheater always a cheater. and even if he promises to change how can you ever trust him.
19900
First of all, she can only control what he allows her to.  I understand that he does not want to disrespect her but she has too obviously butted in before.  Don't involve her in personal business and decisions. As a matter of fact, keep discussions with her on subjects about HER.  Try putting distance between him and her. It's really sad to say, but if he doesn't put an end to this, it won't end.
656451
I can understand your situation. The first thing to do is relax. What I would suggest is this:\n\nC.H. more than likely did something that he is not proud of.  That is probably why he is reluctant to tell you what he did.  You say that you want to drag it out of him but I think that is not the thing to do.  This is not something for you to get out of him...it is something that is his to give.  If you force him, he will only feel negatively toward you.  \nBasically, I would say to just give him some time and if he wants to, he will tell you.  If not, just remember that it is between him, his sister and his parents. \n\nHope this helps, \n\nNiels
128092
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
1005350
it takes two to tango...I think your sister is defiantely at fault too. You need to ask your sister why she would make out with him, especially if she knew you like him. Did he know you liked him and wanted to be in a relationship with him?
444272
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.
274439
Husband? Wife? Both the sibling and the mate are equally guilty, you can't just blame one and not the other. It would take a long time to forgive my sibling, but I would probally never forgive the mate.