My fiance is 45 yrs old.  Before me he had never been faithful.  He has been for  ayear now.  Will it last?
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the first year is always the best in a relationship,its still new, but after that...he'll get tired of it like he did his last relationships and want something new again. now there is that chance that we're wrong, he could be really truely in love for good. but i dont know if you want to take that chance!
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If after 6 years he won't man up. He isn't going to do it. Unless you are really young (less that 25) then you may have to pray he matures without growing apart from you. I rarely see these things work out. In fact, my wife came from that situation and she is still bothered she didn't walk away sooner.
585956
I think it is time to Chirp or get off the branch.  My wife and I had been dating for a while, I really loved her but did not ask her to get married.  She finally gave me a date by which to chirp or to get off the branch.  I chirped and it has been the best thing I ever did.  We have been married for many years and are more in love today then ever.  I would openly discuss your concerns with him and then let him know that you need commitment by say June 30.  If he doesn't make the commitment, move on to someone that truly loves you and someone that will make that commitment.  Too often, we stick with someone that we know is not right for us and then the years go by.  After it is too late, we realize that life is passing us by and we are in a relationship that is going nowhere.  I think people need to list the things that they want in a relationship/mate and then if after a few months they do stack up, they need to move on.  People really don't change much with time--if it doesnt feel right at first it probably wont get any better with time.   Good Luck!
1022791
it generally is..."attraction" but everyone has a different thing that attracts them to each other. When you marry the attraction is said to only last for 3 years then it fades. leaving a togetherness that should last
268599
58 years old and been married 37 years to the same woman.  We were infatuated with each other and decided to get married three days after we met.  Love hasn't changed, still infatuated!
565859
It depends on who the person is and if they are ready to settle down, I am 35 and I am ready to settle when I was younger no way not ready, but now I feel I am ready for that long term commitment. my reason for waiting so long i didnt want to marry and than 1yr end up in divorce, when i marry I want it to last.like the vows dill death do us part...
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
193371
If you have married the man or woman that is right for you and who truly is in love with you, then you will not have to worry about them being faithful. Someone who is in love with you is not going to be unfaithful because nobody else will compare to you in their eyes. The problem is that so many people are in such a hurry to get married, that they settle for someone and try to make it be true love. That is why we have so many failed marriages today. =-)
572530
Yes, it is possible to survive. I had to learn a new lesson in the true meaning of forgiveness and he had to learn the true meaning of faithfulness. The problem is both of you have to be willing to make the steps to overcome it. The hardest thing is rebuilding trust.
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i am with my current partner of 6 years, he was 16 i was 17.  last September we married!! the love you feel can only grow, at that age i knew i loved him and as each year passed i knew a different kind of love, a stronger more passionate kind.\nyou know whats in your heart!\ngood luck
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My boyfriend is 43 and I am 25.  We have been together for 3 years now and it is the best relationship I have been in.  I couldn't imagine ever dating somebody my own age again.  They are so immature and in this relationship I feel like there is stability.  I think he will definitely stay with you because men like younger women and if you are good to him and he is good to you, it will work.
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you say "become" so that tells me he either hasn't been faithful, or isn't your partner yet. there's no reason anyone at any age can't be faithful; the question is whether his heart is being fulfilled with you.\n\nOF COURSE, all this said, lemme offer you two alternative theories. (1) a recent friend i met seems to think that monogamy is overrated and even quite possibly unnatural. he's pretty convinced that our natural way is to follow whatever sexual urges we have (sex is a gift, basically). (2) my own partner prefers to see people as falling into one of two categories. either they're cheaters or they're not, and cheaters cheat.\n\ntalk to him about your concerns, hon. and best of luck!
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Is he mature for being 22?  Most probably not.  I think you and him need to have a serious talk.  He needs to decide what he is gonna do.  Is he willing to commit to you for the long haul?  Is he working.....going to college?  It all boils down to you also.  Do you think at this time, he will be a good husband?  Is he faithful now and has he been faithful in the past?  Dreaming (or lusting) at other girls doesn't sound like a commitment to me.  Guard your heart, and I wish you the best of luck.
50206
My husband and I have been married for 29 and one half years.  Some years were great some not so great.  But we hung in there and are more in love today than when we married.  Best wishes.
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I know several cases were people were married for 60/70 years and their spouse passed on and they never cheated.  If you love your spouse and respect the sanctity of marriage then it's very possible.  My husband was in Iraq and I had MANY chances to cheat.  (the female to male ratio in this town is about 250:1 so even if you're 200lbs overweight, if you have boobs, you can get some).  Anyway, I love my husband and I refuse to risk what we share for a night or two with some jerk who doesn't care about anything.  I love my husband and I stayed faithful.  I'll continue doing so now that he's home and for the rest of our lives.  I have no doubt in my mind he will do the same.
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Unfortunately most people have the morals of a alley cat, and to be faithful to only one is inconceivable in this \nuse-it-toss-it-away society. Sad isn't it? I have always\nbeen faithful..I believe you play, you pay. These days with\nHiv, Std's ect...now you may end up paying with your life\nfor your partner's infidelity and immaturity.
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Yes I meant it. 12 years of a not so great marriage, but now it is better than ever. I am glad I have the commitment and morals that helped me hang on for 12 years to where things are better. You are a great guy don't sell yourself short for anyone. Keep your morals and you commitment, you may not know it, but, they mean so much to you and always will.\nCongratulations and keep up what you have.