How do you get a guy to like to like you even if he has a girlfriend?
101872
the best way to do it, is to be yourself around him, dont be shy or nervous. and dont try to be like his girlfriend or better than her. guys dont like that. trust me on this one. if he likes you for you. you've got it in the bag. also it depends on the type of person he is. if hes more humble or calm. be kind of like that around him. if he's wild and crazy then be like that a little but dont over do it. so if he has a girlfriend, and if he finds you more appealing he will try to be more close to you and talk to you more. if you see this occuring then he likes you. if he calls you "jus becuase hes bored" its not becuase hes bored its because he likes you. if he talks to you more than his guy friends its beccause he likes you. if he tells you something hes never told anyone it means he really likes you and trusts you. i hope this helped you. good luck.
262809
Sit the guy down, explain to him that you're dating him because you like him.  So he doesn't have to be shy or try to make you like him... because... you already like him.\n\nGuys don't always realize this for some reason.
1140019
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
680924
I'm not going to call you a home wrecker, like someone did. You just know what you want, but you also know you can't have him. Just let him know the posit on your in. Tell him you like him, but he's got a gf, and you don't want things to be more difficult then it already is. Tell him, you guys can continue to talk as long as it wont go further until he's ready for it.
700301
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
594690
wat could of happened is that he may like u\nhe probably does like his girlfriend but he is scared b/c he is starting to like u\nwat u should do is try to get a hold of him\nask him y is he running away \nand if he as loyal as he says he is then he will tell u\nu never no wat could happen when u ask\nalso know that if he is a good friend then he will stik by u
135695
first, u should'nt be upfront and tell him u like him, i usually like a girl that is playful, but not in a sense where u seem to be to agressive. Play it smoothly, and bump into him once in a while. If all possible try to get him alone with u and talk to him, but not so much as to make u seem desparate for him (meaning make him laugh, show him u have a great personality.)
159401
First of all, you need to find out if you really WANT him to keep liking you! Do you know him that well? Do you know his personality and/or how he treats a girl... or ANYONE for that matter? LOOKS are not everything! You have to get to KNOW someone... it may end up that YOU don't like HIM. The one thing you definitly DON'T want to do to make him keep liking you is to have SEX with him! If a guy really likes a girl, he'll like her and RESPECT her even more for respecting HERSELF. I PROMISE!!! Don't bow down to peer pressure... a good name and good reputation is worth more than anything... it's something that will stay with you for the rest of your life so don't trash yourself in order to make a guy like you. If it's meant to be, it will happen, without trying too hard. Be yourself and have fun at the dance!
352675
just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
307031
Uh, are you looking for a soap opera script? He has a girlfriend so who cares if he likes you. Pay attention to who is available. Trust me, in the long run, you win if you chose those who are available.
7053
They are right. Something is making him remain with his girlfriend. If you truly like this guy then be his friend. Do things for him; ask about his day....his life.....take interest in the things he does. Be a true sincere friend. If things start to go down hill with his girlfriend, he might just need someone to turn to to talk with. If you have been a sincere supportive friend this could be you. The most loving relationships begin as friends....friends that know each other inside and out. Be that for him and you'll be amazed at what could possible bloom and grow when the time is right.
817063
Explain to him that you are flattered by the attention he is showing you and you are pleased that he likes you so much because you feel the same way, but you know he has a girlfriend, and until that changes and he's "single" again, the flirting has to stop.  He'll respect the fact that you don't want to break up a relationship or get him into trouble with his girlfriend, and you aren't putting any pressure on him - you're merely being honest.  Always take the high road.  If he is being honest with you, and he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he will move on from his current relationship.  If he doesn't, you'll know that his flirting was just that and nothing more.  Good luck!
904838
It could be a possibility...Why don't you talk to him more, find out what he likes then ask him if he has a girlfriend. At that point he will have the chance to ask you out
854208
As a guy I know myself: Guys like girls who are creative. You can start by being a friend and showing intrest in him. You can subtley hint to him indicating your attraction to him. Give him a girly look that cant be mistaken. You have let him know somehow but be creative and be smart. Avoid silly games involving your friends; you alone have to win him over by yourself and without the involvement of his friends or yours. Please do not try too hard or be too aggressive; he'll run awayfrom you. Best Wishes
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
691838
try to get his attention toward u instead of his 'girlfriend'. Make it easier 4 u 2 talk w/ eachother. its good that u r friends already. That makes it easier. \n\nit obvious that u love him though...\n\nyeah- u need to let him know more about u, but play ur strengths. :)
277005
A lot of ways. If he looks at you a lot and you catch him looking but he looks away, then there might be something there. If he talks to you a lot in a way different than he talks to other women, or he asks about you and other people say he likes you, then he does. Ask him a simple question like why doesn't he have a girlfriend or does he like someone you might know. I'm betting just by those you can get an idea if he likes you or not.