my boyfriend wont take no when i told him i didnt want to strip?
106948
Get rid of him, he doesn't respect you!
465121
Oh my gosh girl, if you have to stop being good to be with him then leave his sorry butt and don't look back.  School is more important than any guys and the sex part, please wait until you are married!  I wish I had.  Sounds like he thinks you make him look bad by being good, don't ever stop!
707794
If you dont want to do it then tell him "NO"...;
861994
Perhaps it's in his nature to be obstinate. Tell him if he doesn't stop this behaviour, you're going to dump him. If he appreciates you enough, he'll stop.
748370
Because now that you're together, he thinks your his 'property' and he can do anything sexual, no matter where you are! If you don't like it, tell him to stop. If that doesn't work set ground rules, if he's still ignoring you, dump him! You want a boyfriend not pervert!
133007
Something is telling you not to trust this man. Why are you hesitating? Trust your gut feeling. There is nothing wrong with telling him no. You will find someone who you trust. Besides sex should be without love.
695159
you got to understand he point of view!!! poor git!!!\n\ngranted he shouldnt be telling everyone as its your own relationship! but\nif you dont get in the mood he might end up leaving you! it really aint fair on him!!!
245613
as the saying goes...."bros before hoes"!!  Just tell him that the tramp isn't worth it.  If it wouldn't have been with you it would have been with someone else.  Some girls just can't keep their legs closed.  Once they become that way they rarely change.......like grandma used to say "you can't turn a ho into a housewife"
332828
I think it's great that he wants you to do that and it's not "weird" at all.  To me it seems that he is still really attracted to ya!  I mean, it's not like he asked to start borrowing your underwear!!  I mean, just say what comes naturally.  Be sexy!  I am sure you know what to say deep down...practice saying it alone before you leave it on his phone.  And the one answer was cool...start with text messages :)   Good luck, and don't feel silly...he wants ya, girl!
902249
Maybe your missing key points in your argument like the TRUTH? Maybe your man really doesn't like you sleeping around with no panties on when he's not around. Hey, but what do I know?
626236
If you have to ask us then the answer is no. You obviously are not comfortable with it. Tell him you don't like
214550
I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.
137497
I HATE TO SAY IT BUT YOU SHOULDN'T GO OUT OF RESPECT OF YOUR GIRLFRIEND.IF SHE IS OF AGE YOU COULD TALK TO HER ABOUT GOING WITH YA'LL OR SEE IF ITS COOL TO GO PLAY SOME POOL WITH HIM INSTEAD. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SHE WENT TO A MALE STRIP CLUB WITH HER FRIEND AFTER SHE KNEW YOU DIDN'T LIKE IT
821312
Not all people, male or female, are comfortable with oral sex, and nobody should pressure another person into doing it. \n\nThe comments about your hair, smell, etc are just excuses. For some reason he doesn't want to come out and tell you that he doesn't want to do it, so he just comes up with silliness to "explain" why he doesn't want to. He may even have talked himself into believing these excuses, but that is all they are.\n\nIf you're otherwise okay with the relationship, then stop asking him to go down on you. But if this is a relationship breaker, then so be it. If you shave, he'll complain about the rash/zits/whatever.  Either you go along with his squeamishness or you break up. Shaving is not going to solve anything. \n\nAnd if you enjoy going down on him but don't really care about his doing the same for you, that's okay - there does not have to be a linkage between giving and getting oral. That is up to the two of you.  But don't pressure him or let him pressure you into doing anything that makes the other person uncomfortable.
1137633
Actually, my dear, there is nothing that "you" should do...he is the one with the "issue". Sex is supposed to be fun, sex is supposed to be caring, sex is supposed to be sacred(and I mean doing things together that bring you closer, not thinking like this). I am frankly outraged that your boyfriend is acting...aherm...like such a jerk. \nNow don't get me wrong, I love getting "kinky"...but my husband, not so much; not because he is prudish, or because he doesn't want to please me, but because he is not comfortable. You are 18, you should be having a good time, not worring about whether or not you're getting enough "kink" into your relationship with your apparently very immature boyfriend. \nAnd he is demanding that you do things...BAH...that is loathsome to me...it is one thing to request or suggest...maybe even "dabble" in the kinky to see if you both enjoy it...but if you don't enjoy it; that's it, game over...if you wish to try it again, it will be on your terms, not his...and watching a lot of porn is not an excuse.\nLet me give you the perfect example, and hopefully you'll see my point...I am very into bondage, my husband is more than happy to "dish it" but not much for taking it...so okay, I can work with that. I let my inner dominatrix out in other ways; but anyway, one nite he felt like exploring, so I tied him up. He did not like it, not one bit and kinky things usually had to deal with trust...so I let it go. A couple of nites later, he was willing to try it again, and so on and so forth. \nSo from my example hopefully you can see that what your boyfriend is doing is not "adult"; it is the utmost in immaturity and a complete lack of understanding. Talk to him, frankly tell him I said so, a kinky woman that understands the rules in the adult playground...and if he doesn't get it; dump him. There are more fish in the sea than him...and probably better ones (if you know what I mean) than him as well. If you don't play by the rules, you're going to get flown off of the merry-go-round, and it's just that simple honey...so put on your big girl boots and lay down the rules for his little games...and if he breaks 'em; he's out...and somebody new can play "red-rover" with you.
23545
tell your b/f your fantasy, If he is not up for it, then tell him you need to experience that and let him know you plan to do just that! If he is up for it, then explain he is not invited, that there is something in the idea that you want to experience for yourself and go do it! Talk to him afterwards and see what comes out of it from there. Do not tell him the details, for it is none of his business, Just ponder the fun within yourself and find out if he is the one......or if she is the one. Good luck!
403352
Trust me... he'll appreciate knowing.  He probably doesn't want to feel embarassed or waste his time if you're not going to give in.\n\nJust be nice...  Tell him you're not interested.