i love that girl very much i have tried 4months to forget her but i cannot?
104696
its not easy to forget the loved one!It will take time...ok...
709226
you never forget your first love.  that doesn't mean it would work now, she's different, you're different.  why wouldn't she talk to you? you're not stalking her are you?  if she isn't talking to you give it up you can't make her talk to you or anything else for that matter.
84125
What are you doing wrong?\n\nYou're not letting her go, that's what :)\n\nLet her go, move on with your life. You will end up much happier than if you keep beating your head against the wall with this girl. It may not seem like it now, however it's truth.
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
974040
Keep yourself as busy as possible.  Try to go out with friends.  Dont go places or do things that will remind you of her until you are ready to deal with it.  Another thing you could try is planning a trip or an event that will keep your mind occupied and you will have something to look forward to.  I also believe that there is nothing wrong with "rebound dates" just as long as you dont hurt anyone emotionally.  Good luck you you.
507321
I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
1062235
forgett her..try another..best of luck.
619377
almost a year since we broke up, but i still think of her every day since then. i cant seem to get her off my mind. may be becasue i am still single. i had the best time ever with her in my life, but i moved away (over seas). over all, i remember good memoreis. she always wishes that i would come back to her, but it wont happen which sucks so bad.
103685
well first of all find your weekness. and work on that and become strong.., good things come to those who wait. I was in a 2 yr relashionship.. and i healed. time does heal all things. Life does get better. tell you the truth.. you'll go with other relashionships.. you just wont last long.. because when that happens.., you start to not want long relashionships since.. the last one failed. Just find things that occupy your time.. and Think about someone that would actually be with you., and Not walk away.. without any feelings at all. you two just werent meant to be.. think of it that way.. that way got me.. keep searching for that one.. even if you dont right away.. I promice you all the same. youll find her. alot of times. if you dont look, she will find you. and i sense that she dumped you.., if she had any heart at all.. She wouldnt have done that. think about that Too. one day you will get over it. i did.
404756
STOP THINKING ABOUT HER AND HONESTLY SPEAKING U MAY NOT BE READY TO SEE SOMEONE AT THE MOMENT BUT SINCE ITS BEEN 5 MONTHS I WOULD RECOMMEND YOU ATLEAST START TALKING TO SOMEONE THAT REALLY HELPS.GO OUT MORE OFTEN DO THING YOU LIKE TO DO.I KNOW ITS NOT EASY TO GET OVER SOMEONE THAT FAST BUT TIME HEELZ EVERY WOUND.
989546
well, from the sound of it, this is your first time falling in love with somebody.i suggest you spend more time with your pals - hang out, or do stuffs that will take your mind off of her.play some basketball, go to the bowling alley, you know, stuffs.you can't live without her, but you can't live without your grades too.whatever you do,remember that falling in love is not wrong,but failing in exams because of it is not worth it.trust me.i hope things will work out for you man
369621
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
155559
thats hard i know im in the same situation! remind him why he loves you! dont let him forget!
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
677951
Time heals all wounds, friend. Do what you have to in the meantime. If you need to cry, cry a little. If you need to drink, drink a little (a little is the key word; don't need a booze problem on top of this)\n\nEventually you will find that your life goes just fine without her. There is no easy answer that's gonna make you forget her tomorrow. Love is tough; I've been there..\n\n\n***EDIT\n\nThe above posters are right. You will NEVER forget her completely, but you will be able to avoid the pain; that's important..
1077441
Dude, it's only been 6 months.  Either you got too close or she did and you both of you are retarded for letting that happen.  Leave her alone and move on.  Quit calling, delete her Myspace info from yours (MySpace is stupid anyways and will be shut down this December), and let her be.  She'll forget about you faster than you can her, but you'll be back to normal in a week or 2.