Why life can be so unfair sometimes?
107547
Life has never been fair. Who told you that it was? It is about ups and downs. It is like the wheel of fortune. You have to wait for the wheel to turn. It is also a bit of what you make it tied in. The bads are really gifts to make us appreciate what the goods are. Hang in there, the wheel will eventually turn and this is a good learning experience to know what to do the next time the wheel turns from your favor.
738343
Sounds very unfair. Hmm my best answer is try living with what you can and make the bes of it.
604876
you aren't selfish. Sometimes when we see the troubles other people have it puts things in perspective for us, suddenly our own life doesn't seem as bad as we thought it was.
735436
It is called life, chances go around.
628462
Life has  so many issues, from our childhood and into adulthood. Our environment, suroundings,create attitudes that are self defeating, while others somehow can achieve goals, for me it is and has been difficult,I also know by walking through the fear we have in life allows a person to form a better attitude, one of acommplishing things thought never to be able to accomplish, of course not everyone who appears to have a good life really does. Depends on so many facors! I do know if one is not happy or content with self, life can be very hard, no matter who thinks you are great. Well, I guess I did not give a short answer, or give a direct yes or no, for some it seems easy, but is it?
684155
life can be tough. push harder
692560
For one thing, the reason bad things sometimes happen to good people is because of free will. We can't control the actions of other people, and they may do us harm- or, they may do something kind towards us. It's a matter of selection. \n\nBut I respect and honor your question. It's hard to deal with life sometimes. It's like, "Where is justice"?\n\nIn the Bible, it does say that sometimes, the good people reap the bad things deserved by the wicked- and sometimes, evil men live long and happy lives. It's sad, but it's also true. I don't know why this happens- it's not fair. Life is not fair. However, I do believe that God is not cruel.\n\nSometimes, accidents happen, too. That is one way that innocent people can be hurt.\n\nYour question is very legitimate. I will be thinking about this for the rest of the day. Good job, mate!
856422
doesnt sound like a curse...life just sucks some times you know.  and we have to make our own paths to make it better it doesnt get better just wainting for it too.
83924
Life is neither fair or unfair. It is amoral. Things just happen, many of which can be good and many of which can also be bad. The good part is that we, as sentient beings, can exert a great deal of control over our life situations but in the end there will always be a wide array of variables over which we have no control that can enhance or be detrimental to our well-being (i.e. genetic makeup, natural disasters, chance encounters etc...). Basically, Sh*t happens and there ain't much you or anyone else can do about it. Just enjoy what is there and always be prepared for change.
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this does seem 2 be a sad occurence in life.\n\nhowever, something to ease the pain of some1 going thru this may be that being in such situations demand that we kno who we are and that we stick to being who we are.\n\ni think once the individuals u talk of that are stuck in such situations can be confident and celebrate 2 themselves who they are things can be easier.\n\nthere are "injustices" in the world, but if we can focus on the positivity in the Universe, we have the power 2 transform our reality in2 the Utopias we always wanted.
64168
Because, unfortunately, life isn't fair.
486494
life is definetely not fair but you can work to make it change.
913567
Because life is misery with the occasional flash of pleasure. Just make sure you enjoy the temporary flashes of pleasure.
211924
maybe because we have lack of knowledge to encounter some hardships and trials. but not all the time a life goes like that. as it is said, life is full of instances, sometimes you're up...sometimes you're down. enjoy your life and valued every failure and success you may encounter
319591
Life is a evolutionary process. Hard times are to teach us to be better people. If you dont learn the lessons life offers, you end up thinking life sucks.
714178
Sometimes in life you just have to make the hard choices. If you excel in school and then work you will have more time for life in the long run. There is a sacrifice upfront for this out come.
988028
welcome to life.  Not all people are equal and life isn't fair.