If a girl is 19yrs old and the guy is 35 ,is the age difference too great for a relationship?
111174
I know someone with greater distance apart, and not too much older, and it's fine.
198830
that question is up to you and your girlfriend. if you care and love each other then it should. age ain't nothing but a number. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, he's 25 and i'm 19.
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
900586
Personally I believe when you really love someone, I don't think age is a problem. It is more of whether both of you can communicate with each other and both have you must be able to accept each other.
821294
when i was 21 i dated a guy who was 43. it was nice and ironically we did have lots in common as far as interests and goals in life.\nwe had alot to talk about so it's not like it was all physical. he was there when i was sad to rub my back and tell me i'd be alright and vise versa. so like everyone else has been saying. as long as you are of legal age you should be fine. as long as you guys actually like eachother, enjoy eachothers company and have much in common then there is nothing wrong at all. that doesnt mean your a gold digger or a player it just means you've found a refined man instead of a childish boy. ;)
750543
A 2-year difference is no big deal....look at it down the road...your 36 and he is 34...not a big deal at all.  If your attracted to him, go for it and see how it works out...guys that are 18 are usually flattered when an older woman (yeah...I know 20 is not old) expresses an interest in them. .
1171551
If she's ok with the age difference then why not?
480692
it depends on the age difference.\n\nI'm 18, I wouldn't date a guy younger than 17.
183333
It's not good, it's not bad.  Age doesn't really matter so long as you two like eachother.  Another way to think about it is that it's better that the girl be older than the guy than vise versa because if the guy is older it can look like he's rocking the cradle.  While if a girl's older then nothing outta hand is gonna happen. (Can't deny the double standard)
719675
age should never be a problem in a relationship. if you really love the person, then their age shouldnt matter to you or anyone else. my friend's parents have a 20 year age difference and they're perfectly happy. just be happy and dont care about what other people say
559821
I guess that really depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. Quite honestly, if I am looking at buying my first house when she's checking up on her social security benefits, or for quality nursing homes.. the age gap is too big.\n\nOtherwise, it's not at all bad to date a woman who's older than you. Your personalities and interests should play a bigger part than age alone. Though, the age factor can SOMETIMES be a deterant but only you can really decide if/how much that bugs you.
627894
Hey Gal,\nFirst en foremost u need tyme to think this over en over again coz it's a tricky kinda situation u got.. u must get to knu what this guys want which one is for real and ready to settle down en make you happy.. at 26 i would advice you to try en get to knu this 34 year old because age difference here is an issue as u knu women tend to mature faster than men so i guess this 34 year old may be gud for you.. the 20 year old is still young and he needs to mature in a relationship en u might find you two don't have the common kind of interests. \nHope this will help ya...gal
1117798
Age should not matter in my opinion...Just as long as you truly love each other,you should push everything aside and know that you're meant to be.
874228
There's always the possibility of problems in ANY long-term relationship.  But in this case, age difference shouldn't be a problem unless they choose to LET it be one.
122823
Age is just a number,as long as u both like/love each other.Go ahead with it.
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
1134969
im a 23 yr old woman n my ex was a 19yr old his was mature for his age. it was great y it lasted but we had to go different ways, we r still great mates but cud neva b in a long term thing. at the end of day you sudnt b lookin for a relationship u sud let it find u. hav fun in the mean time but b safe