why can't I find love?
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)
466740
because love cannot be born out of nothing. how can they love you when they don't know you?
71173
You just haven't met the right person yet.  When you meet someone you truly love, you won't be afraid anymore.
74417
because you can't get a girl
153938
because love is hard to find when you're looking for but when you aren't it won't leave you alone. Yes it is true, as strange as it is. But just have fun, enjoy life and trust me love will find you, you will meet someone special when you least expect it.
146425
sounds to me you might have choosen/attracted the wrong lovers. maybe it's not you after all... just be yourself, strong and independent. one day, you'll meet your soul mate.
1084232
It really isn't. As long as you're open to it, love is right in front of you. It's harder to find everything you want in a person. And I think that's more of the question you're asking.
260806
hey in fact love is not there for anyone its just attraction . u think u r in love eith she or he but when u gett better than the one u have then u will realise that i love next so its only the attraction not a love and acc to me love = attraction
753216
Oh Gosh, yes! Don't worry too much about finding someone. Love is like a butterfly, when you chase it constantly it always seems to fly away from you. And as soon as you just stop chasing it, it comes and lands on your shoulder.\n\nGood luck!
619197
John Lennon said it best: "All you need is love!"\n\nLove is like nothing else. When you are really looking for it, you can't find it, but stop trying to find love and it will find you. The key is to love who the person you are today, and send loving thoughts to all those around you. Make it easy for love to find you and it will.\n\nAnd remember, no matter what, you are loved!!
661141
These are all signs of you trying a little to hard to find it, one cannot truely search for love to find it, it must find them. Do things to boost up your confidence, if you look down and feel down inside can you imagine what you appear to everyone else on the outside? Try and do things that you like to do when people see the happy you and playful you it will allow them to really see the true beauty inside and that will attract them to you. Nothing is wrong with you, work on your self esteem a little. Surround yourself with happy people and this might help out.
1115422
I've never been in a relation either and I'm 19. And I don't date, I'm not looking for love but rather letting love find me. As of yet no such luck, you just can't rush these things. Being patient is the key. For every man there is a woman and vice versa.
456992
Its hard to say why girls are not attracted to you. It could be anything. Don't try so hard. Stop looking for a girlfriend. Try finding someone that has the same interests as you. Looking for women in bars and clubs doesn't always work. Try the internet, chats, clubs...etc.  Let them get a chance to know you as a person. Then see if can develop into something else.
122946
The sure thing is that true love exists! \nbut the reason that makes us doubt about it and ask such a question is that not everyone is lucky enough to find it and some of us are not smart enough to keep it.\nJust never give up, and dont waste your time looking for it.\nYou can never find true love, he will always find you and you'll never know where and when!
232132
hey sweetie keep ur head up. u just might be look'n in the wrong place, don't look for love let it find you. its not just you,
331991
You won't find them. They'll find you. It will happen eventually. It takes time though. Remember that good things happen to those who wait. If you're meant to find that one true love you will, other wise. It wasn't in the cards for you. But just keep waiting. Love is grand. and will come to you eventually. Hope you find what you're looking for someday. Best of luck to you in life and with your girl. Peace be with you my friend. \nJJJ
145245
you can't find true love, it finds you. you'll know one day . and yes you probably could fall in love with a stranger. love works in mysterious ways.