why are men  so hard to understand?
105062
men are not hard to understand and if u sleeping with them before u can answer your own question some thing mite be wrong with u im not at all talking u down but its some thing u need to ask your self - am i hard to get long with and as for as them treating u bad after bed room well maybe u should not took him there in the frist place yes sex plays bigger part in a mans life than wemen i think  u mite be trying to hard too i find that wemen are hard to understand too so your not alone here but dont give up u will find one u can understand or one that u can live with with out understanding him
303768
1) Men are NOT mind readers.  Don't give us clues or hints, we just don't get it.\n\n2) Men have a different set of priorities than women.  We believe that it is important to check the oil in a car.\n\n3) Men have three emotions.  We are either hungry, horny, or sleepy.  If he's awake and Not grabbing your butt, then fix your man a sandwich.  :-D
944325
They don't "think too much", rather they "think differently than we men do".  Because they think so much differently than we do, men sometimes can't understand why they feel the way they do.  Their thoughts seem unnecessarily complicated, and we feel like they're spending too much time on issues and putting too much energy into thinking about it.
625555
BECAUSE MEN HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING SO WE SAY IT TWICE THE SECOND TIME SLOWER
298176
Most guys tend to think in terms of logic and act on instinct. Men are problem solvers by nature.
850485
Because Men are stupid!
219382
Well you shouldnt generalize all men in one box,There are some men who have issues,with depression,low self esteem,stress,and etc.Some have bad attitudes for a variety of reasons,its no different then when women are miserable and have bad attiudes.
176286
I think that I didn't understand your question but I know that women in many situtians doesn't understand men' love or may be he loved U in a good way but he couldn't make U feel it right or believe it.Happened with me me b4 that a girl I love so much & try to do any thing to make her haby never apperetiate it or at least estimated well.She kept on sayin' that I didn't love her & I don't.\nHe & his son is another thing.even he loved U or not his relation with his son is another thing.He always try to make him better even better than he himself & try to advice him & guide him to the right way,may be if U gave any explanations it would be easier.\nGood luck\n:)
675076
Many men do not have social skills enough to open up in conversation.  They keep a lot of things inside and women talk too much....)(
830982
I believe men have let society confuse them..and ofcourse whatever all they have been thru with whomever it was they went thru whatever they went thru with.
344779
i think its bcz women dont really often show their feelings, they dont say what they feel, they can play with themselves e.g. to get someone else's attention, could be a man, but what they really feel is hidden deeply in their mind or soul.\nmen arent like that. it is easy to 'read' most of the men, i guess. \nmen tend to think or say things the way there are or the way they think. that makes it easy to understand them.\nwomen wont talk about things straight.\n\nmy math's teacher told us one day: when a woman says yes - that means no, when she says no - that means yes.\n\ni believe its true, though not always.\nthats why it might be difficult to understand women, what they need, what they think off.\n\nthough there are men who can do that...\n\nbut, on the other hand, i believe, and only if u want to, u can try to learn understand woman.\nits gonna take time & effort but it is possible.
399971
Well women use emotions to confuse men, so men stop listening to what they feel. Usually the first woman to confuse them was their mother; by not being honest about what she really feels and distorting everything.  Mothers try to prove that they love their male child when all the actions say other-wise. So men withhold their emotions because they don't want to express their anger at their mother. Instead they pile it up on the women in their lives, and stay immature men forcing them to become their mother.\n\nWhile women listen to their emotions, but distort them when they are sexual because their father cannot accept that they are sexual beings of their own and so they stay daddy's girls and are unable to be honest with a man and prevent themselves from connecting to men on a honest level and prefer to be their mother away from their mother instead of being a woman when in fact they are angry towards their father and so they become their emotionally unstable mothers.\n\nThere that sums up a lot of neuroses.
903721
Shouldn't a man also appear to be "hard to get"\nThis shows either you are a "Thinker" or there is a girl in your life who is making you feel weak for her. Well men and women are the same, both have feelings.. there is no need to make it difficult to get but it apprears so because females don wanna be friendly with all males. They think about their security. Men feel safe so they take the first step in a relation
963772
Men are just stupid. You have to grab their face and make them look into your eyes, if you dont then it is all over. If you grab their face then you will know they are listening.
1082164
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.
664418
its because they DONT UNDERSTAND...
618062
No matter how hard you try or think you've come close, men and women will never truly understand each other completely.