do you think a quiet and reserved person can be a motivational speaker?
99917
Yes. A motivational speech is a performance. Many actors and actresses are quiet and reserved in their private life. The content has to be true for a motivational speech to be meaningful, but the delivery is a performance.
489962
DEFINITELY!!\n\nWho doesn't want to be wanted, and at least THE MESSAGE IS CLEAR... NO GUESS-WORK!
130708
I think i am a good listener because i myself have been through alot in my life. I use what i have been throught to help others int he sma esituation. I think the best advice is advice from someone who has experiencd the same thing rather than someone who reads it from a book.
440808
I try to wait for my turn to speak. I was brought up to be patient and polite. But when I was in my late teens I realized that sometimes if I don't butt in no one would listen to me at all. Even if your polite and quiet you deserve to have your opinion heard.
205147
Yes. One must take note of the fact an individual behaves in different ways in different groups - in different social circles. It is in these different groups that one develops his or her personality. Isolated, one runs the risk of impairing the normal developments and interactions with others and create problems in future.
498687
ONE'S THAT DO WHAT THEY SAY AND DON'T TALK TOO MUCH!
873687
Probably with drive, focus and self-motivation.
62378
That all depends on the person, like me i dont like loud obnozious people but some do, and it kind of goes with someones interest.
43742
No, probably not.  I would guess that his good looks and pleasant demeanor would draw him into advertising or public speaking, making those more attractive alternatives.
186097
would of been more out spoken and talkative..i was always the shy one..now i have a big mouth...
29775
moderately talkative and moderately humble...if i had one choice though, i would say talkative!!!
800482
Well being the quiet type myself I don't tend to like the party animals.  I prefer a guy who has friends but isn't loud, smiles and has a laugh but isn't arrogant, and eventually focuses his attention on me.  In an ideal world anyway!
170302
being shy and passive...I think things would be totally different for me if I wasn't so shy. I'm starting to grow out of the passive thing.
1061951
What helped me was someone telling me that shyness is really a form of self-centeredness. If you think about it, people you encounter don't really care even a fraction as much as you do about how you come across. They have their own problems, concerns, etc. to think about. In fact, many of them are probably shy themselves but may be a little bit better at hiding it. \n\nIn group situations, shyness is a form of selfishness. You've got a lot to offer (your unique outlook, life experiences, advice, etc.) and to withhold it from others is selfish. So resolve to share more of what you have instead of keeping it to yourself...thats one way of overcoming it.\n\nOne of my friends joined Toastmasters International. Its an organization with social events in which people take turns giving toasts--its good practice for public speaking, especially when you realize how many people are also nervous and shy about expressing themselves! Similarly, you can sign up for acting/improvisation workshops. You can learn techniques there to get over your self-imposed inhibitions as well as how to be and project an image of being open and outgoing (one tip: learning to listen to others and respond accordingly.)\n\nGood luck!
190596
To answer this question in a correct manner is impossible, by this I mean to each his own.  but in my eyes, I like the more talkative and outgoing...but I also want them to listen when I talk.  Looks aren't that important.
820120
If someone has the right mental attitude, it sure helps. There are characteristics that help a lot, like- motivation, persistance and confidence. In many cases that kind of person will achieve his goal, but there is no guarantee for every case. It is a general statement. If he is a terrorist or criminal, law enforcement can stop him.
681854
In every situation in life, from parties, to classrooms, to the workplace, there is one person to whom everyone gravitates. I think that what that person has is charisma, and if I could bottle it, I would be rich. \n\nI think that the main thing that charismatic people have is the ability to make those around them feel special. They make eye contact, they really listen when someone speaks, they are outgoing, and they do their best to make everyone comfortable. They don't sit in a corner and talk to one small group of people, they get out and mingle. They don't make fun of someone, they make an effort to draw them out. They don't have to resort to outlandish behavior to get noticed, they are comfortable in their own skin, and that confidence shines through. \n\nThere will always be someone with a funky hairdo, a crazy shirt, a cool ringtone, or really witty remarks. They may draw a lot of attention, but they won't keep it for long. Develop good people skills, and people will come to you; make them feel special, and they will stay.