wat is it dat a girl looks for in a guy she wants to go out with?How do i get d girls attention n confidence?
102879
be good looking be attractive and dont be unattracive nor ugly. be like me! or better yet, just be yourself. if she doesnt like you for who u are, shes not for u.
366104
Pay attention, talk and LISTEN!  Girls love guys who are actually interested in what a girl is saying.  Look them in the eyes and hold a real conversation with them.  Tell them they are beautiful, hold their hands, brush their hair out of their eyes.  Simple things make lasting impressions.
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Most guys like breast.  If you notice A guy will not look in a good looking girls face.  Its there breast.  But Some guys is the but.  For me I like both.  Not just the T&A  I like the personality.  My advist is to be yourself.  Ask questions don't be too shy.  Be shy in a cute way.  When I am in a relationship is to be honest.  I don't have nothing to hide.  But be real.  I am a nice guy so I try to be unque.  I don't want a girl I am the same like the rest.  I will look in a girls eyes and listen.  Unlike most guys they'er eyes are wondering.  Guys are easy to figure out.   I like to be honest a gentleman. I try to write a poem.  Make sure its a happy one.  Something that tell them that I love them.  For the other guys the all about the breast and buts.  Nothing but sex about most guys.  Just a few good guys out there.  If you do find one don't let him go.  Because we are hard to find.  Learn how to relaxed medatated.  Medatation is a good way to focuse on a date.
732135
I've seen this question so many times on Yahoo Answers. It always surprises me that girls don't realize the influence they have on men. You girls have these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested in us without necessarily coming on like a cheap whore. Things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, a quick glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of the hand (especially on my bicep, chest or abs) these things send all the right signals to a guy while still allowing a girl to maintaining her lady like dignity. But the bottom line is, a girl that has the confidence to know what she likes and how to get it can be especially alluring!!! \n\nTry it. I am sure you will be pleased with the results.\n\nBest of luck!
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Well, it really depends on her confidence level.  I'm not very self-confident, so if I see a guy that I think is super-hot, I really don't think I have a chance with him, so I'll act pretty shy and aloof, and you know, check him out when he's not looking.  Secretly, I want to go up to him and start a conversation, but I'm afraid of getting shot down.  Of course, each girl really is different.
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There is certain confidence about a girl that goes out to have fun versus a girl that goes out to find a boy. You need to go out with your girlfriends and have a good time. When you are confident and not looking you will find someone. I looked forever and then one day I stopped 7yrs later we are still together.
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Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
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Girls are attracted to guys not by how well they dress. Firstly, it is how you carry yourself, your personality and mannerisms. Check whether you are a likeable person? You may be the best looking guy but if your behaviour sucks..no girl would want to date you.
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Girls notice many things about a guy, but if you approach her and talk with her you will see were it will go from there. Everyone is different, but you will never know until you talk and go out with her.
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It's going to sound cheesy, but I don't look for anything specific in a girl. When I meet a girl I like, I'll know it. I'll enjoy spending time with her, I'll feel comfortable around her, and I'll think about her when she's not around. So I never really know what to look for in a girl. I think most guys are the same way deep down, but they'll only even start the relationship to begin with if the girl is pretty. Beauty makes a first impression, personality seals the deal.
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well if you are trying to see if you like him...then be flirty.  talk to him a lot, wear something cute, smile at him, and most of all make eye contact.  Confidence is always sexy.  Guys sometimes like a girl but are too nervous to ask her out b/c they are worried she doesnt like them back!  Good luck getting the guy! ;)
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one of the first things a rl notices about a guy is his smile! so the next time someone catches your eye give her a smile when shes looking your way but dont make it a cheesy grin just a little smile it will make you look very approachable and freindlly and will proabably intrgue her. then wait a couple of minuites and go and talk to her if she hasnt alredy approached you :) ask her, her name fisrt DONT introduce youself first it makes guys look way too cocky :) good luck
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Dont look.......Let her find you. In the end, the best one's always find you because girl's really know what they are looking 4. We(men) on the other hand are lost.
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It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
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Girls like confidence, a sense of humor and attentiveness. If she talks, listen. Compliment her (be honest though). Maybe you don't feel confident, but if you pretend you are, you'll convince yourself. We ALL get nervous around "the one"- even in our 20's. There's more to being attractive then just whats physical about you.
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To get a guy's attention you just have to be yourself...If the guy can't see how great a person you are then he is just a loser. Also it's his loss if he can't see it. Plus the guy should be so lucky to know a girl like you. I think the more mature guys look for other qualities other then looks, but I'm thinking that teenage guys are normally for the looks. Good Luck!
900557
girls need to look at a guy and immediately feel safe with him. He needs to have that quality,. he should be genuine and should be a good listener.