is it bad that i let my man finger me? i gave him a hand* job is that bad 2?am i going 2 far im 13? HELP!!?
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just dont go any further until you get alittle older. dont let him force you to go further.
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No\nJust do what your comfortable with. Don't let other people pressure you into stuff. IT wont be long until holding hands turns into being pressured into other things.(worse things)\nI wont go into detail because i thing your about 12 years old and you don't need to be on this website because there are too many child molesters about.\n\nMay god bless you in all that you do.
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should I report you as a sexual preditor?  This question, if you are 13 as well might be ok..but I'm not sure you are and this is just not right....
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You don't mention your age, or his. Age is really just a number, the level of maturity is what matters. As long as you have stuff in common, get along, and like each other  - that's what's important. Also, don't let him influence you to do anything that you wouldn't do on your own - he may be sexually active, and you may not be ready.
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Can u *** when u masturbade? Cuz if u can it just sounds like u are either nervous or the girl wasn't doin it for u. You gotta think about what happened when u were 18 that started this.
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no,it's not ok.Although there is nothing wrong with it it will only lead you on and have you still wanting more while he will only see it as an easy way to get laid.The only person that will be hurt is you.Once it's over that's it,you're supposed to move forward,not take steps backwards
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Well, to put it bluntly: nope.  Especially if you're a guy between 13 and 25.  Sex feels good and it's natural to want more of a good thing.
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Yes I have been sexually abused as well as robbed of my virginity when I was at the ages of 8-14. I was scared and confused as to why it was happening to me. There were times I thought I liked it, but I really didn't. Of all people to do this to me was a very dear and close friend of my family and a father figure in a way. I feel as though you are a victim and are still in the abusive situation because you like it and it feels good to you, if so I urge you to get out and report him. Men will take advantage of a little girl whenever and wherever they can, that's Men! I found your question to be inappropriate as well as a cry for help.
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Boyfriend's hand on girl's backside?\nIs your boyfriend German, Austrian or from such a family? Customs are different in different countries. In Bavaria (Southern Germany), waitresses are traditionally treated that way as a praise. They may feel old if they miss out on it.\n\nWe know that Maximilian Schell, an actor from Austria, had problems in the US and was sued for sexual misconduct. I guess that he had just treated girls like he had in Austria with no complaint.\n\nYour boyfriend may want to show his friends that he is very close to you. However, if you do not like it, you should have a private talk with him (not before his friends). Not blaming him, but stating, "When you do this I feel like ... Please do not do it any more. It would make me feel so much better." Something like this. If he really loves you, he will understand and stop doing it.\n\nBe treated as you like to be treated.\nCordially, India.Magica
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No, it is NOT appropriate to spank a 14 year old. go see a guidance counselor at school so that you and your family can get some help. Good Luck, sweetie.
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Honestly i feel funny answering, but, i will. At first hell yeah it hurts! It hurts worse than when I lost my virginity...but if the guy really lubes up, and doesn't put "it" completley in than it can be pleasurable...u cant just ram it in an out w/that position..be easy and gentle and she just may enjoy it.
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look babe talk to ur MOM honey really talk to ur MOM...dont eb scared and u do so know what it is because u was just talking about doing it with ur friend babe...fingering is the same thing..but ur just usein water
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Again, my answer is dont waste your time and energy on such things at this age.  How old is he?  It could be illegal for sure.  However, this is an act of intimacy, nothing generic as a kiss.  Too many horrible diseases out there and no touching below the belt is a good advice in my book.  Girls today are "too easy" and this act is not something that should be a common or given thing to do.    Worry about graduating and focus on things in your life that will advance you as a person.  Experimentation is all well and good but at your age, these things are a DONT.
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I use to be sooo afraid to kiss a guy bc I had never done it before but that's normal at your age.  Soon you'll get over that, if he tries something sexual and that's not what you want as soon as things go to far tell him to stop and that you don't want to participate any longer.  If he's a good guy he will respect your decision, if he doesn't then get rid of him.
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No, that could be very dangerous. How old are you? I would definetly not have some over you never met and mess around.\nThis is joke right? You got to know how dumb that is. I hope you figure this out.
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From what I have read from your previous questions, you are 13? If so I do not think someone of your age should be on here asking these kind of questions. And if you are of a decent age, the fun part of sex is finding out with your partner new sexual positions, by experimenting. I think by asking to describe sexual positions you are inviting explicit answers for another reason other than sex tonight w/ your partner.
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Not all girls are good at it, but if it is intimate then it is enjoyable. At least for my case.\n\nI'd say, at first start softly by sucking the lips and then eventually get it harder. But also let him to make it strong before you do. While you are doing it hold him close and hard showing the intimation. And show the shyness to stop him to take his hands around, trust me that's a turn on. Its better if you are not using any lipsticks while you are doing it and keep everything clean. And to make it seem like it is intimate, you should keep your eyes closed.\n\nAlso the facts that should be taken care of, that you should be aware of the physical problems that can be transfered and caused by kissing. And you should make sure that he is clean too. If you have the special feeling for him inside you then I'm sure that it would be special. Good luck.