is this a right time to have new baby since my first baby only 2 years old and i'm working mother.?
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right time to grow together.  many factors in your life may answer that better.  do you have $ saved? family supports? another income? then perhaps is the right time.
399243
Because your time has not come yet. Just because everyone around you is having babies and may be married does not mean that you must be too.  Do not base your life on everyone elses nor try to copy what they do. Life your own live and do your own things, when the time is right the rest will all fall into place. There is a plan for each one of us, and when the time is right, that plan will take affect, for now live life loud and cheerfully...
999286
that's OK  family  OK   dad OK  grandparents  OK  they luv you .....only 23  still young   you still babe  ...just go with the flow  ... wish  I had  sunshine 24 hrs   ...good luck...
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Having my first baby.
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You both can go visit friends and family, look for infant furniture and clothing.  Look up events that are going on in your community and you can go and see what is going on.  There are plenty of things to do.  \nAlso, after your baby is born, you will not be "clubbing" as you put it.  Your child will become first and foremost.  You will have to find other things to do after the baby is born.  You are going to be a parent now.  I'm not saying "NEVER", but you will have to decrease the time you both spend outside the home.  Your new family will have to find "family outings".  It will be quite a bit of fun.  Especially when he/she reaches an age when you can go to the park, put a bicycle seat on your bike and go out for bike rides when he/she gets older.  It goes by very fast!!  Enjoy when you have your child at home.  Both of mine are out of the house and it feels so empty.  But you can also go "clubbing" with your husband without the worry of your child all the time.
454192
The time is right when you feel ready to have another child!  If you feel like you can deal with another one now, then go for it, if you don't think you can, then wait!
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If you cannot see yourself achieving thiese goals, then why stress yourself out to do so? Life has no timelines. No rush to do things before a certain point. Why not plan a few years in advance? Try graduating first. Now, as far as buying a home, thats not a bad idea, my boyfriend and I are still in college and bought a duplex (home as well as investment). Get married after graduating is not a bad idea, depending on how old you are, it might be better to wait. I would wait until working for at least a year or so for the baby so you can have sick leave and vacation built up,  as well as money saved hopefully. Why rush? Why not make it a happy experience? I want a baby badly too, but why make myself miserable and poor by having it now?
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the earth's population is increasing every minute i do not see the reasons for having a big family these days. Everything is expensive too, so having just the one is ok to me, plus carrying a pregnancy for nine months isn't always easy and the birth effects people in different ways. One to me is plenty to be getting on with.
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I have a six month old and an 8 year old and being a mother is the hardest job you will ever have but its also the most rewarding. Take a bath with your child only a few inches of water please,they are slippery. Sing to him or her. Walk with your baby out in the air if possible. Also and very important take time out for you. Your body and mind have just been through a category 4 hurricane and hormones are nuts so breathe,smile,relax kiss your baby they are precious.
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compromise, do the career first. because it is definately harder when you have kids. personal experience. i don't get to spend much time with mine and it makes me feel guilty. but if i didn't work and do my career, i feel like i haven't fulfilled my destiny. i went at this backwards and now im paying for it. if i could i would do the job first that way i wouldn't regret it later. then you would have all the time in the world to be a mom.
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it depends on the relationship. if your happy and have done all your fun things and want to settle down than i think one is good for now. so you can get the feeling of how fatherhood is like and you must have a good job that's paying kind of allot. because babies don't come cheap! there is so much to learn when your a father. and is she the right one? do you want to spend the rest of you life with her and no other person? do you and her have a good relationship understanding each other?
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You can have the baby, and let me adopt it.  I am a mother of three.  I would welcome your child.
76356
Throughout history, women have had a deep understanding of when it is time to bring life into the world and when it isn't time.  It's a deeply personal decision and not open to speculation by the right wing or the left.  It is your choice.  Consider your situation.  The bringing of life should never be based on what a man is or isn't to you and your child.  The decision should be made on whether or not you want a child, period.  What kind of boyfriend do you have that you would consider abortion before you consider discussing the options with him?  The hardest decisions are never about the quickest solution but are instead about the right one.  I stand by this and for the record, I've had an abortion, I've given a child up for adoption and now, at 38, I'm in a good place and am raising a 7 yr. old daughter.  Having done all three, I am STILL not qualified to tell you what to do.  Your soul, your heart, your intellect will need to speak for you.  Good luck!
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My aunt got pregnant at 43 and 45 with my cousins. As long as you are healthy and aware of the risks involved, I see nothing wrong with it! Why not? 40s women typically are going to be better prepared for a child than a 20something. Your career is established, your home is established and you've outgrown the need to be out partying every weekend! Of course thats an overgeneralization, but I've found it to be true. Not to mention 40s are more laid back than 20s. Im half way there and can see myself as a far better mother than I would have been 10 years ago and can only imagine it would improve in another 10 and I pretty much thought I was the $h1t 10 years ago!! LOL\n\nI say go for it!
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There is no reason to think that you are a bad mom just for getting pregnant. You just need to take special care of yourself and your babies(both of them!!) Talk to your doctor about what special considerations you might need to think about since it has not been a full year since you gave birth. \nGood luck. I hope everything goes well with your pregnancy. I'm sure that they will both be fine, just asking this question shows that you are a caring mother who will take care of them always. God bless you
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yes its ok, in most family's both parents work. I bet there is some time when you don't need to be in the house and you could get a job. do it if you need the money or if its something you want to do. your happiness should be one of his highest priorities.
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First and foremost, congratulations on your pregnancy.\n\nWow this is truly not right and it happens quite often.\n\nYou must know your rights. As far as your maternity leave you are covered by federal law with the FMLA to receive 12 weeks paid and you are entitled to Family Leave (only if this is offered in the state you live in) to receive an additional  weeks unpaid to bond with you new baby.\n\nI strongly suggest you do your homework and research these topics. You may be surprised how so many HR Manager do know or care to follow federal and state employment laws! \n\nIf you are not satisfied with the answers you receive or how she is treating you, file a grievance. Most HR departments have a formal process to follow. Find out what your company offers. There should be an escalation process in place that will allow you to file claims without risking your job. If you have an Employee Relations Department seek advice from them as well.\n\nIt you are covered under a bargaining unit make sue that you follow through on what assistance they are providing you.\n\nMabye you should also contact the Department of Labor in your state to ask specific questions as well.\n\nAnd lastly, it is unethical for HR Manager to bully, make their employee's work environment hostile, or break laws. If I were you I would find a way to file an EEO Claim. I am not claiming that she is discriminating you, but from what you are saying in your question it could very well be.\n\nCheck out the links below for your research:\n\nhttp://www.dol.gov/compliance/laws/comp-fmla.htm\n\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_and_Medical_Leave_Act_of_1993\n\nhttp://www.lni.wa.gov/WorkplaceRights/default.asp\n\nhttp://www.lni.wa.gov/WorkplaceRights/LeaveBenefits/FamilyCare/Maternity/\n\nIf you need any other assistance please feel free to email me at yedwards06@yahoo.com.\n\nBelieve me I understand what you are going through because I have 2 children and have experienced this by two different employers.\n\nDon't get stressed out about. Focus on your health for your new baby.\n\nGod Bless you and I hope this info was helpful.