What is the best way to deal with your man not wanting to be to be with u anymore?
98357
Go your way, be strong and keep your chin up - both he and yourself will know you are fine on your own, that's he's not the only one in the world. \nAnd you will find another man that you deserve.\n\nIf he won't die for not being without you, you won't die for not being with him
920213
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.\n\nIf he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.\n\nStop making excuses for a man and his behavior.\n\nAllow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.\n\nStop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.\n\nSlower is better.\n\nNever live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.\n\nIf a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.\n\nDon't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.\n\nDon't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.\n\nThe only person you can control in a relationship is you.\n\nAvoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?\n\nAlways have your own set of friends separate from his.\n\nMaintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.\n\nIf something bothers you, speak up.\n\nNever let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.\n\nYou cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.\n\nDon't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.\n\nNever let a man define who you are.\n\nNever borrow someone else's man.\n\nOh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.\n\nA man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.\n\nAll men are NOT dogs.\n\nYou should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.\n\nYou need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship\n\nYou should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.\n\nDating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.\n\nMake him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.\n\nDon't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.\n\nKeep him in your radar but get to know others.
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
146533
Well, if you don't want to break up the only suggestion I have is talk to him about it. If he is in love or even if he just cares about you he'll understand what your needs are and be more considerate of you.
492792
Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same, then tell him you need to walk away from the situation because you're too emotionally invested for it to continue the way it currently is.
360781
The best thing you should do at this point is to give him some breathing space. TAI (Temporary Avoid and Ignore) technique works most of the time because you will get him thinking what exactly is going on. Just stay away for a week or so. He will, just like all men, sense the lack of attention and regardless of how he feels about you, will feel compelled to get back to you sooner rather than later.
838709
Oh dear, u guys must have been together for a while now. Listen, there is no permanent cure for this problem, love does not fade away but passion sure does.\n\nTry looking good, lose weight if u r over weight\nbuy some new sexy lingerie\nSHAVE, SHAVE & SHAVE\nTry and get him out of the house, go out more often to get rid of the daily routine, a weekend getaway would be great
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
247691
Be sure that you want to be with HIM, not with SOMEONE. Nothing has changed about whatever the situation was that broke you up.\n\nAside from that, just think of any excuse to call then see him. It will go from there.
670273
i think you need to have a heart 2 heart talk. lay you cards out and be open with him. just because you dont spend time together like you used to dose not mean it should be over. in relationships things change and the only way to keep the rship alive is to adapt to the change. maybe he thinks you are the one who is changing. you will never know if you dont find out. if you care about him you wont let him go. good luck
211089
He has to want to get back with you.  His reasons for not wanting to be with you may not be in your control.  The best thing you can do is to make your life something wonderful and hope that he realizes what he has lost and wants to be a part of it.
142003
Don't take it any more.  You need to leave and get out of this relationship as fast as you can.  No one deserves to be treated like that.  You deserve to be in a real relationship where someone loves you and treats you with respect.
796036
Stop trying to *change* your man! If he does something that you do not like you either have to accept him, or let him go, but you CANNOT change him!
64570
Leave him alone. He isn't interested in you any longer. You are doing hima favor.
848540
Just tell him how you feel and that he has to deal with it.  Otherwise, if you don't want to rock the boat, then YOU deal with it.  That's really your only choice.
735900
Sounds like he is going through a phase.  My man jsut went through that and I kow, it hurts.  He'll come out off it soon, and he will some running back to you.  What hurts them the most is when they hear you are going out and having fun without him, try it girl.  Good Luck!
33312
Leave him alone. Take a break from him - at least temporarily -