how can i get a gut that doesnt notice me to like me or notice me?
115689
Talk to him. You will never know until you try. Don't think of it as being forward, just being honest!
869450
Hm... it might be best to trust your gut, here.  I've told people, even best friends, that I'm not interested in people I'm actually interested in.
937551
I disagree. Treat your gut feeling like a first impression. Listen to it but be prepared to change your opinion quickly.
923479
well go with ur gut 2 begin with and if u don't have cofindence in urself and don't ask any1 out how will u ever get experience.
494493
Whoa!!  Slow down!  You're still growing.  You still need that fat.  Or at least your body does.  That's why it's not gone.  If you just have a gut, then really don't worry about it.  Do exercise!  Run, swim, bike or walk.  Be active and don't worry about losing the weight.
688456
hunny, always have confidence in yourself coz its the first thing we girls can notice about a guy. and anyway, how can someone like you if you dont like yourself?
294547
Hate to break it to ya, but sometimes two people just aren't gonna feel the same about each other, even if they love each other.  But, just to get them to like you is easy enough...try being yourself.  If you have something in common with the "dude" then you should try having conversations about it...but nothing lame where you agree to everything.  I mean have a deep conversation about it.  Once last thing, treat him as you'd like to be treated, that goes the same for every living being.  That should at least get your foot in the door.
323421
just tell them that your flattered but your just not into them...........sorry
836577
You can't make anyone like you. Just be yourself and if they don't like you move on. You will find someone who loves you for you.
875953
Be yourself.  Act confidently and like a lady and they will certainly notice you.  If you act like a little tart they will notice you then too but for the wrong reasons.
648269
strike up a conversation with him and slip it in while your talking if he doesn't like you the same then he probably won't notice or pretend he didn't, if he does like you he'll notice. Good luck
697760
She might be jealous of you, and that is why she doesn't like you! Just ignore her! If you don't give her the reaction she is looking for, she eventually stop being rude, and move onto the next person!
1138808
Well, i had a friend with your very deliema. Basically, you relize something, and thats the guys who are going to notice you for your personality aren't going to notice your body nearly as much. More or less, you have to speak up more, seem smart, get involved in common little debates that make you seem smart, and get the word around you exist. Sooner or later someone will come along, but remember, theres going to be more body lovers than personilty
638214
Sounds to me like you suffer from low self esteem.  You don't think you're good enough for other people to like you, so you are worried that they won't.  You are so obsessed with what they think of you, that you aren't even paying attention to them.  So, they probably won't like you...no one likes to be ignored when they are talking, which will only make your problem worse.\n\nIf you want to get comfortable with someone, you have to get to know them.  The best way to do this is to get them talking about themselves.   Listen to what they say.  Respond to them.\n\nNerves can be bad, but there is no magic pill that will fix what your problem is.  Only practice can help.  Don't worry about what the other person thinks about you. The worse that can happen is they won't be interested and you move on.  Try not to pressure yourself and try to relax and be yourself.  Girls aren't looking for un-nervous guys, we're looking for guys that pay attention to us.
220126
Ignore them.  Instead, concentrate on yourself.  Emphasize your strengths and strive to improve where you have room for it.  Don't base your opinion of yourself on idiots flaunting themselves.
713297
my advice is be your self and if he doesnt notice you or shows no interest his not worth it you want someone to like you out of teir own free will not make them want you do  not flirt it gets you no where
205732
Those things you've stated don't explain the type of person you are on the inside, your personilty, or how you treat others.  Take a moment and try to see yourself as others may see you.  Is there something intimidating about your character, the way you carry yourself, etc.?  I'm not sure what type of significant other you are trying to attract but it could have something to do with who you approach as well.  If you are drawn to people who have low self esteem and no motivation, you could naturally seem intimidating b/c of your status and success.  From the surface alone, you seem like a good catch.  Good Luck!