With a 2 year relationship would kissing someone else be enought to break off an engagement?
101519
For me it would be. I've been betrayed before.
52102
The first 2 years of marriage is the hardest. You are now trying to meld your living styles and marriage expectations to meet each other preferences. You both need to be honest, and talk, like 2 best friends, who are there to help each other (not change each other). Make deals on who will do what, and take turns doing what neither of you wants to do.
1161917
i think if its an abbusive relationship then they  should leave, but if u just leaving 2 b with some 1 else then u r wasting your time cuz the new person could always leave u and then u will regret it and it  will b 2 late 2 go back to your spouse u left.
273750
"I won't let you leave"? That sounds a rather possessive. You should watch out for this guy. It doesn't sound like you got to know one another very well so I doubt if he came back in 2 years you two would suddenly know all about one another. Perhaps you should move on and look for someone you can get to know better before making lifelong decisions.
816640
I would have to think so very long and hard about doing this.  You have to wonder about the real motivation.  If the relationship is in jeopardy then this isn't the answer, it will only cause more problems.   You will always be wondering if the only reason this was suggested was because your partner knew that they wanted to be with someone else and this was a way to do that without dealing with the real problem.\n\nI hope things work out for you.
1021946
As long as you don't pick it apart on how they can really talk t each other when they are living 2 yrs apart, its really good. You have to like romance though otherwise forget about it!
977968
well the kissing grl is telling the other one non verbally that you are all hers and not to make a move unless she wants a fight. YOU have to make a choice either go for the kissing grl or the non kissing one, b/c right now the non-kissing one is thinking your off limits and might move on.....your choice...
994417
Yes go for it.\nAnyway, regardless of any moral consideration (I personally don't care much about that kind of moral), it seems to me that it's not gonna be a satisfactory situation for you. The fact you ask the question here shows you're not comfortable in cheating.\nReading how you describe where the relationships stands now, it would be preferable to seriously consider splitting apart. Actually there's not much of a relationship anymore.
171693
My first thought is, thank goodness he is honest about this. Secondly there have surely been signs that he has not been as serious as you have been. After 2 years it should have got past liking you into something much deeper. Sounds like he has led you on. Take off your rose colored glasses and see what is really there. Why did you stay? Did you set yourself up for a no win situation because you don't think your worthy of anything else? You are, but you need to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. A good relationship has good communication so there would be no surprises after 2 years. Let him go, work on yourself and then and only then will you be ready for more. You will also be more picky, more accurate in your choices.
323659
You can't tell..it just your opinion, but you have to have had a few kisses to know..\n\nIt how you like the kiss to be..i guess\n\nLearn off the other makeoutee! Do what the other person does and you'll be fine
145638
That would depend on if the relationship that I was currently in was going sour. I wouldn't cheat on them if it was I'd just break it off.
1103151
i don't think there is a time limit. if you love the person you will stay with them no matter if you have a ring on your finger or a peice of paper saying you are together.\nmy cousin has been with her partner for bout 20-25 years and they arn't married i don't think they are even engaged and they are happy.
826910
It really depends on the type of kiss, and what he means by not kissing back.  Try not to overreact or go all paranoid.
798610
I think people kiss either as a friendly gesture or as a sign that you love that person.  If it is the former, it is just touching lightly on the cheek (cheek to cheek) because the other person might not like the idea of your lips touching her cheek.  If it is the latter, it is better for you to wait until you know the other person well enough and that you are sure she has similar feelings for you.  Love doesn't have to be reciprocal but it is a lot more satisfying if it is mutual.  If the other person has no feeling for you, she might find being kissed a bit disgusting.  As for how long it takes to identify whether it is someone worth loving and getting serious about, it depends on your emotional intelligence and the other's personality.  If you both feel a deep connection with each other emotionally and spiritually, then it is a good sign.  Don't let lust rule your head and your heart.  It is demeaning to get physically too close to someone with whom you don't really connect.
199522
If your asking this question, you need to break off the relationship and move on.
891086
absolutly not... you should be comfortable enought to say or do anything with that special someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with!
843646
did you mean to say break up with some one ? If you two are not seeing eye to eye on things, then you should go ahead and break up with the person because you don't want to get married to this person and then regret it later than the line.