Why do I always fall head over heels with any guy that pays attention to me?
112317
because you are starved of it. but thats not a good thing because some guys might try and use you. \n\nyour also probably watching all the romantic movies and you probably never dated untill now, and your parents might have this amazing relationship, and plan and simple you want it all and so does every one else but you got to take one thing at a time.\n1. come up with dating standards and keep to them,example,  hair color, age , eye color, must drive, christian.....\n2. get to know the guy before you give him a chance  find out what he likes build a relationship.\n3. have fun with you friends and don't look for love it will find you i garentee!\n\ni could use the pionts for best answer so if you think it is don't forget to select it. thanks GOOD LUCK
151314
I have the same problem with guys. I don't know why it happenes, but it really sucks. I know when i don't pay attention to some guys it's because i'm not attracted to them in that way. But when i am attracted to other guys, they just walk all over me and don't give me the time of day. I think the reason why the girls u dont want attention from is that you are really being yourself. I mean 110% urself. And the girls that u do want the attention from, ur not being urself. Maybe ur being shy or an a**. Idk... the only thing i can say is always be yourself...... no matter what.
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
818008
It all boils down to you wanting attention. You want this guy to pay attention to you even though you have no feelings for him. Your jealous because the attention is not on you. You can't expect it to be about you anymore. It doesn't work like that.
6404
could be:\na. Trying to hard\nb.  Standards too high\nc.  oblivious to your surroundings ( i.e. dont notice the guy who likes you)\n\nChances are there are plenty of potential prospects, but you are making it difficult on yourself by comitting one of the above...\ntake a look around..
428822
I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
506076
My best guess (and it is just that, a guess) is you have alot of active hormones, and you are aware of it. Your awareness makes you concerned that you may make the wrong choice of who is good to get involved with, and who is not.\nRarely do relationships begin with a first glance, but lust is extremely impulsive. How many people think some movie star is a great person, then they actually read about their personal life, sometimes years later, and think, what did I see in him? \nI personally think your dream is telling you get to know someone well, but how? Maybe you want to know where to go to find a good person to date. Then again, maybe you want to keep yourself safe. If you are afraid of meeting the wrong guy at the Bates motel, and more at your local library! There are books on self defense and the best places and situations to avoid. To me it is important to know what type of person you want to get to know. Make a list, and leave off any physical attributes. Honestly, this will help to know Mr. or Mrs. Right.I mean, who goes out to buy a pair of shoes, and just any pair will do? When you socialize, you will know if someone might fit the place beside you! Look at the list every year.Things which I felt were not important now are, and some of the things I once had on my list didn't fit anyone on Earth. \nI think with a little preparation, you will not need to feel your friends must protect you. You'll have a special someone of your own.
159536
That is exactly how I feel. I love men with little confidence, believe it or not. I actually get turned off right from the start when the guys are too confident. I actually had to go up to my fiance and make the first move! Now, I know we are ment for each other, and yes he is the most sensitive, romantic sweetheart in the world!!
426879
To me it sounds like he is falling for you as well. He probably makes fun of the other guys you like because he is jealous. If you really like him as much as you say, then he probably feels the same for you since he treats you so well. You should just tell him how you feel. And if his feelings are not the same then just remain friends. But honestly it sounds like he digs you!!
696187
I don't know you or your history so I am going to take a blind crack at this. \n\nIt seems like it is so important that you hook up with someone that even a guy coming up and asking you stupid questions can catch your interest. I can see where that could be fun and even a bit funny, but I think the fact that you were overjoyed is telling about how you value yourself. I believe you are putting too much stock in having a boyfriend (most likely to boost how you feel about yourself) and that is making you come off as desperate. Relax and let things unfold in normal time. Don't rush it just because your insecurity HAS TO KNOW RIGHT NOW! That will blow it for sure.\n\nBecause it is so important to you, I am sure that when you tell them that you "like them" it comes off more like this: \n"I like you and want to marry you and have your children and be close to you as my only one forever even before I know what your favorite color or your middle name is". I'll bet that is a big turn off.\n\nYou are definitely moving too fast, pushing too hard and sending the wrong message (that you are desperate and high maintenance) Your standards are too low and you are worth much more than any guy that is willing to say hi to you. \n\nSo, take a deep breath and see if this guy is really good enough FOR YOU instead of the other way around. Remember that anyone that ever rejects you is doing you a big favor in the end by eliminating themselves from your consideration and not waisting any more of your time with a relationship that would eventually fail.\n\nI wish you well and good luck.
113581
He is crazy about you.  He thinks you are the hottest chick he has ever seen and if you catch him checking you out he will go dive off the roof.  serious\n\nBe bold.  Stop him or something.  Dis him, "accidentally" touch him.  Ask him to change your lightbulb.  Maybe he just needs a little encouragement from you.
856511
I have the same problem, when I'm trying not to flirt, the guy (usually a wierdo) thinks I am, and when I am trying to express interest in a guy, he's oblivious.
740775
3 guys hovering over me at the same time (all wanting to know more about me or something) and they still don't - makes me feel wicked and in control
539764
you'll just know! haha..its kinda weird but trust me--you'll know. like everytime u see that special someone, ur heart skips another beat, your legs feel weak when they smile at you, its crazy...
390831
you could jump up and down and wave your arms.  He would notice you very quickly.  But that might not be the kind of attention that you want.  Be friendly and show interest.  A professor of mine in college said "If you want people to love you, smile, remember their name, and remember things that they have said".  If he's in a class with you, remember a good answer he had to a question, and when you see him tell him you thought it was a good answer.  Compliment him on something about him, such as his sense of humor or his style.  And if he still doesn't seem to notice you, don't let it get you down.  He might like women that are taller or shorter, more thin or more heavy.  You never know.  Just be yourself and if something is supposed to happen between you it will.
1183210
There must be  some guys out ther eint he world like that, I mean i'm stronger than my boyfriend and as afr as I know and I hope lol he loves me and a few of his friends have crushes on me, i don't think it matters what yewr both interested in aslong a syew rintrested in each but some guys may see yewr strength as a threat to their egos but don't let it get in the way :)
856388
You lucky gal what else you are looking for there is guy admiring you all the time ask those ladies no one looks them or admire them...!!!!