Did i come on too strong with this girl?
107252
Maybe a little strong, but it seems like you did not scare her away.  Do you see her other than when she is working?  That would probably be the best time to approach her again.\n\nIf you have to approach her at work, try to find a time when the restraunt is not busy.  Also I would recommend something low-key as a get-to-know you rather than a date.  Also try to give her an easy out.  Something like stopping by one afternoon and asking if she would like to get coffee or something like that after work.
797026
I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
602117
Well you should support her as much as you can and talk to her about this,ask her if she wants to feel like this and if she says yes then she might have large feelings for this girl if not then she is just going through a stage wanting things like that or maybe she really thinks this girl is cool!
184690
From everything you said it sounds like you resisted her fairly well. What I don't understand is why you wanted to hang out with her in the first place. Did you want something to happen between the two of you? And if she is a so-called friend she wouldn't have been making the moves on you knowing you have a girlfriend. I would not tell your girlfriend about any of this, unless you are intending on breaking up with her. If in the future someone mentions it to her and she asks you, then you need to be honest with her about everything.
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
966054
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
556276
She could have been in a relationship or just getting over one without lying.  If she was even close to him any she might need a breather before making an attempt to another one.  However, from what you're saying, she's definitely interested in you.  I would hang in there and keep on trying if you're really interested in her.
248765
You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
1129185
how long have you known this person?  i'm assuming you're not in any sort of relationship with her.  i would wait until the both of you have established some sort of relationship.  but i think it's really very sweet if you told her that after some time, just not immediately or she may think you're being very desperate or stalkerish.  most all girls want to hear that sort of commitment though!
276827
She is totally wacked and needs serious professional help, more than you can give her.  If I were you, I'd run like the wind and don't look back!  I've lost my virginity too, but what's that got to do with anything?  Forget about that BS.  The new chick, let's hope you've improved your selection, but she's bound to be an improvement.  Get a grip man.  This is an obvious...get out while the going's good before she decides to cut her name on your leg or worse, pulls a Bobick on your balls when she thinks you somehow crossed her.
371151
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
926112
If she's shy then I'd say it was the right way to go. Coming on too strong may clash with her personality.  Not doing anything, though, that would've been a mistake too.  I think the peck was a perfect compromise... and now you can move on from there!
1175407
I think you did her a favour!! Hope when you grow up a bit you learn to treat your next girlfriend with a bit of respect.
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
185871
No, You're too good for her actually. She probably flirted with both of you at the same time, but waited for her preferred option. She just lost you!
744765
Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.