Can you love-love more then one person?
99707
Yes you can.  I've always believed that love is infinite.  That's just like loving your 2 siblings so much and then what if your parents introduce a newborn into the family? Does that mean that you don't have any more love to give to the 3rd sibling?  Love is not inhibited by volume.  But when you're talking about commitment, that's a different matter and it's commitment that is finite.  You cannot commit your whole heart to more than one person.
807695
it is possible to be in love with more than one person. i am guessing you love your spouse and are comfortable with them. and the other one is more exciting now since it is new.that excitement will wan. try and picture yourself with out your husband and examine how it really makes you feel. you have to weigh the pros and cons. good luck i have been there
971490
that depends of a person,sometimes we can love just once in our life,but if we recive enough we can love many times.every person is diffrent in a matter to understeand what love is exactly
1184158
if you are truley in love with eachother, i dont think u can, because love grows stronger when u are with the right one, thats alot of the problem with marriages today, people think they love eachother when they really dont
384144
I guess you can - but deep down - you would know that they are different types of love.\n\nOne may be more convenient for you - or easier - gets along with your peers better etc.\n\nYou at some point will have to choose - so go with you heart.
707719
I personally believe you can love two people at the same time.  We are complex beings and it is somewhat naive to think one person can meet all of our emotional, psychological, and physical needs.  It is however, very complicated and most people will not tolerate this kind of a relationship.  This presents a dilema for the person who has two loves - do you tell them both or do you hide this from both of them and try to have a relationship with both.  And if you do, how complicated will it get before you are found out?  You risk loosing both lovers....
1181543
I don't think that a person can be in love with two people at the same time.  Being in love and just loving someone are two completely different things.  I think that we talk ourselves into believing that we are in love with both people because we find qualities in both people that makes us want to be with them.  That is just love.  When you are in love with someone, there is no other person for you-no matter what qualities that other person has.
255239
no...........u must learn to love urself before u can love anyone or anything else. it u dont love urself how can u love another? u cant.
1126564
I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
460787
yes it is possible to like someone and even lust after someone if you are in love with someone else. the problem comes in how you deal with the lust.
186021
yes they can anybody can love even if there with someone else
95053
Yes it is possible.\n\nHappiness is not something you need to recieve from someone else..true happiness comes from within ourselves.\n\nSharing that happiness and much more with  another person is a choice but not a necessity.
271598
Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
763424
Yes. You can love another person in a non-physical manner.
652074
I know there is--I married my high school sweetheart, and two kids and twenty years later, we're still crazy about each other.  We were unusually fortunate, though, in finding someone we were so compatible with at such a young age, and both of us being open-minded enough to allow the other to grow and change as we grew up together.  That doesn't mean, though, that I believe there is only one person who each of us could achieve relationship nirvana with, though.  I think it's a matter of finding someone you can really connect with, and then building a strong foundation rooted in trust, honesty, tolerance, and open communication.
481440
No, you cannot love someone too much.  But you can suffocate someone with love.  Part of love of recognizing when the other person needs space, when the other person needs a shoulder to cry on, when the other person is ready to talk or ready to be with you.  Sure there's all the comfort, inspiration and words of wisdom - but too much of that everyday will wear anyone out.  Love someone enough to know when enough is enough.
735228
Why not? Of course love can happen. People are people, we all have things in common wether you guys are in different circles. Anyway, we need to look at people as people, as individuals and not define them by groups or cliques or circles.