why do married or divorced white women love black guys so much?
108421
Usually their stretched out from childbirth and need a bigger weiner.
1176605
I like black women, but I think alot of white guys are intimidated.
157297
I don't think it's a matter of American white men being less into us. It's more a matter of "historical time" consideration. Europe has much more of that commodity than the U.S. I've spent time in Europe, and received a lot of attention from the men (granted, I am racially-mixed - Native American, African American and Caucasian - but my African heritage is apparent). Here in the U.S., I get that attention a little less frequently, even though I wish that weren't the case. \n\nI love men of all colors, cultures amd ethnicities - but especially white men. I just wish that white man/black woman love matches were as frequent as those of black man/white woman here in this country.\n\nSooo, back to the last part of your question...you can find them where ever you are. Just look harder and stop waiting for them to come to you. They might just need You to go to Them...
75280
my husband is black and im white and we have 2 kids....very loving family. weve been married for 3yrs almost 4 and havee not yet ran into a problem. we get loooks if were in a town thats not used to seeing it but when they see how loving we are towards one another they look away or smile. i make it known. i dont think its as bad as what it was when whites and blacks werent "supposed" to mix. i feel so what who cares its your life and if you love him, forget everyone else.
782799
I happen to love women of all nationalities.\n\nBut you can tell the difference between black americans and other nationalities.  Especially those from Africa (born in Africa, as opposed to those of us who are descended from Africans). \n\nThe "blank stares" you are getting are probably looks where they recognize that there is something a little different but they probably could not tell what it was.
349567
I see absolutely nothing wrong with it...i am a white woman and i am very open-minded. i have dated black, white, whatever. it all depends on the type of person u r looking for. i'd rather be with a black man that loves me than a white man that beats me, or vise versa.....
840438
Seems like you have met some good women, and from the way you phrase your question, have not met "many black men". There are plenty of black men that are building, if not already on, a successful career path and place family values at the same level that the "dignified" women you have met do.  You might want to expand your associations to include some of these men.
1096025
I know whatcha mean but it's just an illusion. It's a minority from each race that's attracted to us plus our own beautiful black women makes it seam a lot. Every time I've had a "first time with a black man" they had the expectation of passionate long lasting sex.
526268
As for me,I am white and married my black man.  I did not associate with my family for three years, yet they called me and they just don't talk about him.  When they start talking trash I let them know, "conversation over"!  I guess, they do love me or they would have nothing to do with me.  I know they are prejudiced, but I KNOW HATE does NOT exist in heaven!  I have to control myself, also because HATE creates HATE!  I love my husband more than anyone or anything I know.  I was never really ME until I met a man who loves me and will do anything for me.  He is first a MAN, and then a BLACK man.  God loves us all.  Where does it ever say in the ten commandments, "thou shall not marry one of another race!"? Where in the new testament does is say such a thing? It DOES not!!
1069814
Personally, I have married an educated sister. I had to have someone who has something going for herself. We both have degrees, and we are building our own legacy. It's true that not all relationships are perfect, but a relationship with an educated woman, in my opinion will go a lot smoother than with a hoochie.\n\nI believe the main reason a lot of Black men go for the hoochies is simply because it's an easy chase. Flash a lil' money or bling, and the booty falls in their hands. Spit a few sweet nothings at 'em, and they got it in a few nights, if not the first night. Sorry to sound judgmental, but it's reality. A lot of the time, it's no-strings-attached. And a lot of brothers love the idea of hit & run with no problems.
432442
because black women come in many different shades of color and sizes. So someone is always downing some one because of what they got, how they look, where they come from. Instead of giving props we like people to feel below us instead of giving it up to actually see that person excel in life.
578754
Best Answer!\n\nWhen considering this topic I believe black woman are not concerned about her career or status, but focused on her pride when making a statement concerning "our black men being w/other races".  \nMost people are not aware that many of blackwomen are hurting. Have been for sometime. \nFirst scenerio:\nBlkwomen who are raising kids alone / divorced, yet still working - no time for a social life, but they try.  \nSecond scenerio:\nBlkwomen raising husbands (he doesn't work)or she is single good career, but she cannot get a "specific type of goodman"  \nBoth type of women have been hurting for years and both feel they have not been respected or honored publicly. \n \nThat inferior/insecure feeling/emotion is passed off as anger. Many of blackmen have been blamed for this or that as to why blkwomen life, lifestyle has not been better. That blaming likened to that of blackmales who blame white people as to why their life is not better. \n\nWe all have to take care and love each other and I do believe many of black women feel like no one is taking care of them. Many feel blackmen have desserted them long before dating/marrying other races was popular. So now to see blackmen with other races w/o regards to what blackwomen have contributed within the american black culture for some is a smack in the face. Its like being at work and its a team effort to finish a job, but when being honored the boss speaks of only one of the members. \nThe rest of the people feel like they got overlooked, but they all know everyone worked hard. Blkwomen feel overlooked by many of blackmen and society, yet black women make up the families/ neighborhoods/ etc..  \n\nPeople have to learn that when a man and a woman come together they are not representing their entire race/culture country as in the olympics, but instead they are representing love. Love for one another - period. \n\nHope this answers your question!
441654
When you discover the answer to this question, let me know..lol I don't know what the attraction is, but you're right, you do see more black and __________ (fill in the blank with any nationality) than you ever have. Maybe because racial boundaries are becoming a little less stringent and people are acutally becoming more socially tolerant to mixed relationships. I personally have never dated outside of my own race, but feel that if you want that option you should not be judged for it. I mean. you can't really help WHO you fall in love with. Peace.
320025
People are still prefer their own race. A documentary was on TV recently that showed how black women preferred black men over white and hispanic. The men had to earn an average salary higher than the black man to even be considered.\n\nYou theory about black guys pertains to black women only. Hispanic and white women both preferred their own races in this study. Search CNN for more information.
302874
just my experience but i once kissed a white guy...(shivers)\ncant imagine doing that often...\n most of the guys i know that date white gurls do so because they let them get away with so much more ..white women give them money..lots of money...white women =black mans trophy that hes "in"..slave mentality, but there are some couples that really may be in love so....depends on the person
274182
Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.
56538
Some do, but it is mostly black men wanting white women. The reason vary. It is a conquest for some. For others it is pay back for societies mis-treatment of the black man by sticking it to the white man and for othes it is just to show off their white ware.Some believe in the mongolization of the races. In a thousand years we will all be the same tint, if the world suvives that long.