i dated a guy for a long time and he always said he cared about me but when i told him the words i love u?
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Don't look back, look forward. You should forget him and concentrate on making new friends. Long distance relationships seldom if ever last, and you'll just have alot of frustration and heart ache to show for it. Find someone you can spend time with when and where you want instead of sticking with a guy that by all indications doesn't love you anyway. I know that is harsh, but he hasn't called, and wouldn't say so according to you. You can do better. The guy for you is right under your nose, you just have to look!. Hope this has encouraged you and given you hope.
408007
AWW HE STILL LOVES YOU!\nHe wants you to get jealous and for you to run after him because he has to big of an ego to ask you.
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
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uh oh i have been in this exact situation before and it didnt turn out to good because i didnt take action. i just let it go, and he eneded up dumping me. you have to ask him whats going on between us or something will happen, because my last bf only wanted me, and not me(like my personality) he just wanted to make out and it was badddddd ACT FAST. NO JOKE!!!!1\nor mabey you should listen to everyone else, i mean, if he barley talks to you, does that mean he bareley says i love you or he wont TALK to you? mabey he doesnt want to say i love u around his friends or something. mabey he's past the stage of the everyday i love you, youre beautiful thing.
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I think you always loved him,,,but probably you could not understand and you could not even express.\n\nLaughter and tears go hand in hand.\nU have already wasted precious years...if you think you love each other get back.\n\nHappy Living.
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i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
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Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
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My man didnt say "I love you" till we were dating for 16 months.\n\nThats how I knew that when he did say it, he meant it.\nOther than that. Ask Jesus\nGBU
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Hard to say without knowing your boyfriend.\nThere is a book called "The Five Languages."  In that book it talks about everyone having a different love language.  Some people express love by doing things for people, some by touch, some by spending time, for some they show love by buying things for ones they love.\nIf that is his love language it would mean that he is trying to tell you that he loves you, however without knowing any other information about your relationship than that, I can't say for sure.
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If he doesnt say it all on his own then maybe you should stop saying it for a couple of days just to see if he does say it to see if he even misses you saying it at all. Or you could just ask him if he really does love you and if he says yes then you should be able to ask him if he was just saying it back b/c you said it to him. Don't argue it out of him just tell him that it hurt you and that the whole time you had to sit back and literally question if he really loved you or not. Your in a relationship talk to him.\nGOOD LUCK MA MA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
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he has found someone close and is enjoying the physical contact. most guys only tell you they love you so you will give them something. \nyou obviously didn't give him what he wanted even after he said he loved you so he found it with someone else
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I believe that he really loves u. men are funny people I believe he said all the mean things that he said to u so that u would not sit at home and be sad over him leaving that u would just pick up and move on.
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sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
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Don't stress...some guys just assume now you should know, so they don't say it as often.  He still means it, but is probably hoping you are secure enough in the relationship to know that without him saying it as often.
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If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
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If he truly would of cared about you, then he would of understood, that is a brave and completely honest thing to say to him and for that I applaud you. Just focus on you and learn to love yourself and then find someone who is worthy of you and your love. that person will be in your life when you are truly ready, take your time. til then explore life within yourself. good luck