How can a vary large woman wear a bikini in public?
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Because they have high self esteem and don't care what other people think about them.\n\nAlthough it's not my ideal conception of beauty, I admire those women and think they should keep up the confidence.
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bikini -- going to the beach!
507336
if you're comfortable wearing that bikini , then you shouldn't care what other people think.  wear it and have fun!
728668
It is not the weight that matters, but rather how the woman wears it. I know a girl who's obviously overweight but she accepts it and dresses herself up to accentuate the curves and try to hide what she doesn't like, but she never shies away from it. This makes her very attractive. In another case, there's this old 50+ fat evil manipulative b!tch at work who thinks she isn't fat at all but she's obviously got a few dozen pounds too many, which she wears really badly and makes her look like  someone who tries way too hard to show off...\n\nSo it all depends on how the lady accepts and wears the weight she was designed with / given in her genes.\n\nCheers!
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When you go to the beach, just try to stay in the shallow parts of the water. If you're afraid that your bikini will fall off, try wearing a one piece suit...i know those kinds of suits don't really show off sexiness or whatever but it will make sure your suit won't fall off.
430959
There are some girls that have a good body but still think that they are fat. That is why some girls don't wear thongs. Also, not ALL  girls are ho's
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This is what almost all of the women in my family do, (we are all pretty busty) and my aunts have stayed remarkably perky into their 50’s\n\nFIRST – wear a properly fitting, well sized, supportive bra.  This should be something that holds the girls up, and keeps them supported.  Your everyday bras should be under wire, full coverage, and comfy.  If your bras lack any of those characteristics – they are the wrong size / wrong bra for you.  If your under wires poke you, you are wearing the wrong size.  Go and have a bra fitting done for you.  If you go to a Leggs Hanes Bali store the sales girls (and guys) are trained to fit your bra properly.  I like Bali bras – but sometimes they are a bit lack luster in the fashion department, so I also wear a lot of VS Second Skin Satin bras – they fit me well, provide sufficient support for me (though more would be fine) and come in a huge variety of colors.  I HATE Playtex bras.  They are ugly, and they SMELL.  Avoid them at all costs.\n\nNever wear a soft cup bra for regular daily wear.  There is simply not enough support to risk it.  Besides, with a properly fit under wire bra, a good supportive under wire is at least as comfy as any soft cup.\n\nSpecial occasions are special occasions, and require special bras – avoid going braless however – unless that is the occasion.\n\nSecond – When doing ANY type of exercise – including things like gardening – or anything else that may cause extra bouncing, wear a good, strong sports bra, something that is capable of holding the girls in and controlling all of the bounce.  One of my aunts has been known to wear two sports bras on occasion.  An even better solution is to not do any sort of bounce inducing exercise and confine your work-out to the pool.  The water prevents you from doing any damage to your breasts (or joints) and provides excellent all over toning and cardio work out all in one.\n\nThird – and this is the real secret – and it is the critical step.  Wear a bra to bed.  Sleep in a bra every night.  This does not need to be a firm support under wire contraption, and it does not need to be uncomfortable at all.  In fact – it should be comfortable.  No one does a lot of bouncing when they sleep, so all this bra is doing is keeping the girls in place – it does not need to be firm support.  These bras are a bit harder to find, but they are worth the effort, and worth what you have to pay.  Try to find “leisure” bras, or “sleeping” bras.  If you google them you will find something.  They are a MUST if you want to remain perky for as long as possible – and well worth any trouble you may have to go through to find them.
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What a hum dinger. both people beat them selves up about how they look, but ultimately it goes back to wehter you can get in a bikini or underware or your bathroom. Fat people have not much, so they should be alowed to. Their lives are hell i don't think it should be an issue.
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Must be a thong that is two sized too small.  There must be something up her butt for her to act the way she does.
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Bust, Waist, and Hips
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Accentuate your waist (which is probably relatively tiny). \nFor instance, you could wear wrap around tops with a longer tunic of flowy material underneath.\nYou can use every colour you want on the upper part of you body, but refrain from wearing light colours around your hip-area.\nOf course, you don't have to listen to a word I say. Wear what you want you, if you feel good in it, than it is the right clothing for you!
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Most floridians wear just any swinsuit. There isn't a set trend. It differs from place to place and group of people to group of people. Wear what you prefer or it you're really self concious, go by what is hot in stores for people your age. The board shorts are really popular in Florida too, though.
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haha you can't.....\ntry putting make up on it..or wear a turtle neck
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Wear one.  Women & girls wear tiny bikinis.
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American women, like you said, don't generally take their tops off because off all the body images issues thrown in our faces as young girls.  I've done it in Mexico where you have rather large European me (no offense) walking around in itsy-bitsy speedos!!  Kind of helps the self-esteem to see that!
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Wear a bathing suit that's flattering to your figure.  If you don't feel confident in a skimpy bikini, try a tankini, boardshorts, or other less revealing suits.  \n\nAnd if your friend doesn't let you come to the party 'cause you don't meet the dress code, she's no friend. Lose her!
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wear it like a pantie, and tuck so that it is between your legs, also push your testies back up inside, the gaff will hold it all in place and make it look smooth giving the appearance of a woman below the waist ( minus the camel toe )