is it wrong to chat with friends on the net when you have a bf?
113486
why should it be wrong. Unless your chatting for something other than just to chat.
247912
Of course it is ok.  After all, it would be ok if you met face to face and it deepened into a closer relationship.  The only thing about meeting online is that you take it slow and careful at the beginning..ie. meeting first in public places, etc.  I have made some of the best friends over the net.. and have met the man of my dreams!!
11655
If you think that what you're doing may be wrong, then it is. If you feel that the relationship is completely harmless and serves no purpose other than a casual friendship then maybe not.\n\nThe test is if you told your significant other, would they be upset?
17620
I think its a form of cheating and the other person does have a right to get highly pissed..cuz if you are willing to cyber then what are you really doing behind their back that you aint telling them...Just do them a favor and either break it off with your b/f or g/f or unplug your puter!
784121
[1] you can't control what others think/said [2] Yahoo answer is not the right place to look for bf\n\nfriends that you can see are difficult to judge n know what their intention, why not try those around your community, school, church where you can have real contact with them, get to know their background n family as well. i am not saying those from Internet are the one to avoid but just casual friendship wouldn't hurt, you may learn more or different things from them as they may come from just any where around the world ! Just be careful, love yourself first before looking for others to loves you !
1081773
Depends on if  you already have a bf.\n\nIf not, then spend whatever time amuses you.\n\nIf you already have a bf then just keep it to school, work... group get togethers etc.\n\nNo one on one "fun".  That is just disrespectful to your bf.\n\nSame as it would be if your bf wanted to go  out in private all the time with some other girl.
721253
bad idea sorry u are asking for trouble when you get into a on-line relationship even if u just want a friend it never ends that way
630232
No!, I don't think it is weird to have a bf and gf at the same time. I am in the exact situation right this very minute. I love my gf and I love my bf both the same amount. I live with my gf 24/7 but I spend as much time with my bf as I can. I am never too tired for either one of them. The both know about the other so I am not cheating on either one of them. So just enjoy your new world of bf & gf world!!!!!! Good Luck to you!!!!
413683
I think friendships and relationships have as much chance of surving if started online as any other!  They will only last though, if both parties are actually honest, and true to themselves!  If you are being a different person online to who you really are, then expect to be found out.  It's legitimate if kept online, it's just different when you meet in person.
1049222
no, its not ok!! you make it known you have a problem and ask him how he wud feel if u stayed up talking to guys on the phone!
402165
My husband and I both think it is.  We feel that if you are seeking ANY form of intimacy outside of the relationship, things need to be evaluated...even if it is something as impersonal as the internet.
748664
I think what you're feeling is just normal. Maybe you should stop chatting with your boyfriend's older brother because it isn't going too well between you two plus it's making your hubby jealous. Plus I think chatting online is not a very good way of getting to know your lover's relative especially when it's the same gender as him/her. There are other ways to get to know his brother but maybe just stop chatting him online and see what happens next. If the brother doesn't stop to be hurtful even when outline, just mind your relationship more with your boyfriend than with the brother.
576261
In my opinion, so long as it's okay with the other person he's "cybering" with, it's fine. No harm, no foul.\n\nIn this day and age, consentual dirty talk via IM or e-mail is a harmless, anonymous way for sex-craved people to get a psychological fix, even if it's just fantasy.\n\nThis concept has been around for a while. Take sex-talk phone services ("900" numbers), or erotic penpals. For both of these, women (or men) will have erotic conversations with you for a fee. Heck, he's probably getting his "action" for free, but in a medium where it's infinitely easier to hook up desparate women with desparate men.\n\nAnd both benefit from not needing to actually see each other.
1021532
No, it isn't.\nHe's not got the priorities right.\nAlthough it is o.k. to hang out with friends when in a relationship, the focus clearly should be to be with your loved one first, then friends.\nSo if he hangs out with his friends occasionally, it's ok. But not in the way you describe it.\nI'd definitely talk to him to get clarity. Maybe he believes it's fine for you and not a problem at all.\nMen can be very strange at times and neglect their loved ones unknowingly and unintentionally. So make it clear to him and see whether he changes his behavior or not.\nIf he has any feelings for you, he will reduce the time with his friends and spend more time with you..
1151459
Of course it's possible, I have a few friends on the net that I never talk to other than email, but we can talk about anything.  It takes the pressure and judgment off that you might get from someone you know for real.
201958
Agreed it is when you are comfortable with it.  But even though he has communicated with family please make sure to meet in a public place and have the standard safety nets in place.  There have been too many people who have met someone on the internet that have run in to trouble because of trusting someone who has charmed the family only to be someone else completely after you spend time with him  ok
642765
Wrong!!!! Real life.. think about it,, the word "REAL" says it all. I am sure that having friends on line is fun, but there is nothing like having a friend to hang out with, to hear their voice, to share clothes, grow up together, have sleep overs, there is NO comparison. You need to get out of the house and meet some people....GOOD LUCK!