DO you think you should marry someone if you get pregnant by them.?
114002
Pregnancy should not be the only reason for marriage.  Parenthood is very difficult and challenges even couples whose relationship evolved traditionally.  Marriage is a whole separate issue, and can also be a stressful transition in life -- so to combine the two can be very difficult.  You can't always plan a pregnancy, but you CAN and SHOULD plan for marriage.
1099160
SHOULD?????\nDo u think there is any should for proposing even if u are together for 2 yrs?!?!?!?!\nI have another idea if u are ready for proposing why u dont propose him?????\nAnd always know there is no should for marriage ...and if he is not ready for that never want him to do that .....people get married by a mistake and rouine their both lives ..\njust do it when both are ready for
761838
I personally think that it's better to live with someone before you marry.  Many will disagree with my belief, but it is my own personal preference.  The reason that I believe that is because you never really know someone until you live with them.  You may discover things that you will not be able to tolerate for the rest of your life.
336750
I grew up believing in "no sex before marriage" granted, I know most people these days dont go for that. You should at least wait til you are in a committed relationship with ONE person. I have been in 2 serious relationships. One I was married to, and the other one (who I am with now), I am engaged to. Before I was with either of them physically, I made them go to the doctor and be tested for all STD's. And waited til the tests came back before we did anything. Make sure you see the test results, dont just take their word for it. Then, of course, you still want to be protected, to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
425571
marrying the chick with the baby, probably isn't a good idea, sounds like she wants you to be the baby's daddy, and for the other chick, you should go out with her and see what happens. good luck. :)
1116587
if i were you i would adopt. if you believe all things happen for a reason then maybe your suppose to adopt a child. and something good will come from adopting a child. you could be saving a childs life. and i dont think blood relation will really matter if you love the child.
449349
As long as it isn't putting your child in a bad place, e.g. bad schools, worse chance at life, I don't see why not.  Why not get married first?  Will your parents let you back if you decide it isn't right?
580354
What!?!? Don't you KNOW?? I thought you said that you are going to marry!! Normally people wait until AFTER they've found a suitable mate before making that decision...!
639962
if u didn't want to get married before u got preg. then u shouldn't bc u r preg.  i don't think it's fair to the child to have to live with married parents that can't get along and r only together bc of the child.  i didn't marry my son's father bc i got preg. and he's happy with the way things r.  he has a new step dad and his stepdad is better then his real dad.
25276
If you just met him, first you have to pray and ask God if He is the right one and you have to get married then you can let him move with you since you are more established. remember you are not a cat or a dog you can't just move in with a man and start having babies. come on you can do better than that.
1094047
have the baby. you should have waited till marraige.  shame on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
438767
of course it does! it just means that you're really up for love and not for lust... though sometimes your decision depends on your morals, but in my opinion, it's very much ok to marry a man first before having sex with him. since you're both legal to do it and if ever pregnancy issues come alaong you wouldn't be scared since marriage already took place. =)
977627
no i wont marry you! but yes i most certainly believe in it!  the fact that people dont think they need to marry has led to the breakdown of the family and the problems we see now are the results of selfish people who have kids and then think they are under no obligation to stay around! i can say this cus i have done the same in the past myself. if we would have been marryd and committed to each other we would have work on our relationship instead of parting!
241719
Whenever you feel that you are prepared enough to deal with everything that comes with a baby..... As long as you know in your heart that yo u can take care of him /her financially and as long as you can give that baby love unconditionally, then I feel that your ready. I would advise anyone to make sure that they don't have to depend on nobody for anything b4 they decide to have a child. There are alot of resonsibilities that come along with it...
427360
When she is your wife. You ready to be a daddy? Instead of thinking of all the good things that come from sex with an unwed partner think of the bad things. She gets prgnant now your getting married and haveing to support a family? ready for that? I got pregnant 2 times using 99% proven birthcontrol. That 1%  is there for a reason.
548644
Step up and look after her. If you got her pregnant then you've got to be responsible. Talk to her, decide what you want to do with her and support her. Children need parents.
117754
Nope.  Save it for marriage.  There's too many risks nowadays.  Diseases, babies, broken hearts.  It's just not worth any pain you may put yourself through because of it.  It only takes one time to get pregnant, one time to catch something, and one time to scar your heart for life.  I wouldn't chance it.