is it ok to play off of people weakness when you know them and mess with heads?
106064
Yes, it is a perfectly acceptable thing to do. Even better if you don't know them well.
343874
Depend on what you mean by bad. If you go out of your way to break the rules, that's not easy at all. But if you just use every opportunity you get to rub people the wrong way, that's just entertaining.
435922
ALL HELLL will break loose. i would kick that person in the face, no matter who it is.  if your worried about your bopyfriend being too sissy or tickelish, (as im guessing, and your trying to figure out if it is a common thing) dont be worried. its all in the mind. Being tickelish means you a playful and happy person, and that you arnt stuckup and serious all the time. but im warning you, dont go to far, cuz when being tickled things can get crazy. AND REMEMBER! No means no (tickling).
959697
My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER
804952
harmful to your esteem if someone catches you in the act
797649
I've read lots of responses of that kind.  They're a dime a dozen.  You mustn't let vicious people upset you or cause you to have hard feelings toward others.  Be a lighthouse and show others how reasonable and imperturbable you can be.
403241
You are going to have to practice and get better that's the only way.  If you win by flirting with them you won't really feel like you accomplished anything.  Beating them because you played a better game is the only way.
86868
well they already spread around. so it is good if you hold your head up high. as long as you know that it is not true. then you shouldn't even buy in to all of that. if somebody asks you is it true, then tell them no. if they start all these questions like well she/he said that you did this or you did that then just ignore them. just try to lift your head above the clouds. but, not too high as if you are conceited. before you know it you will no longer be in their conversation. there would be no more rumors about you and you will be able to go on. then you will be able to go on in life and not have to worry about them anymore. just be patient it will happen and you will be ok!!!!!!!!!
109748
No.  When you are angy at someone and tattle, it is more revenge than caring for the person you tattle to.  No one will appreciate you if you do this....and no one will trust you.  It is now none of your business, he is out of your life.  Your ex fella will doom himself in time and this will mean more than anything you could do or say.
935736
If someone has done something to hurt me,I let them know but am still able to be civil towards them in future encounters.But I believe strongly in communication.If I just don't care for their personality,I am very civil to them because it is my problem why I don't like them,not theirs.Theirs no need to act ugly if they didn't do anything wrong to me.
743323
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh go slap the crap outta them!!!  No not really remember sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me, or turn the other cheek,  it shows you are a better person to ignore them as you know what and whom you are and evidently this person has some issues with themself prob such as insecurity and jealousy.  There ya go girlfriend.
1028637
Is it wrong to do a smaller bad-thing, when others are doing what in your mind is the worst bad-thing?\n\nDo you want an answer that says it is less wrong to poke holes in your body to make yourself feel beatiful and to verbally abuse people, than to take anothers life?\n\nAre you trying to draw lines between far-away things in order to blur your perception of reality?
170023
I have done these types of things often- its kinda a regular thing with me. So- Stand up, smile deliberatly, take a bow, wave to everyone- then run like hell. You may feel dumb, but everyone else will think the way you played it off was pretty good. Just remember that everyone does these thing at one point or another, what is important is not what the embarrassing thing was, but how you handled it.
627408
You are not in isolation, as it ia general problem, especially if you are in competitve life.  Your sucess could be your biggest weakpoint, as it fuels their hatred and that is why it is better to keep discrete distance from all such characters and not to reveal your pesonal matters/plans.
36259
Nope, and if you want to get a person back for being mean be nice to them.  And don't try to get the last word in.  It eats away at them, which is mean but no one can accuse you of being mean so you're not mean.
89235
okay, so play him up a bit maybe ignor him a little bit until he thinks he screwed up something good then see if HE wants to go hang out at the movie or something when you resloved the "fake mad at you scheme"
655980
I think it would be funny if you did something completely outlandish...like say you're going to buy some expensive car or go somewhere exotic that you know she can't afford.  Then watch as they do those things and they see that you don't. You can then just sit and shake your head on the sidelines.  If you do it enough times maybe she'll get the hint and stop trying to be you.  \nHowever, I do have to say it sounds like she really looks up to you.  You must be a strong, creative person with a good head on your shoulders and she is looking to you almost as a role model...which is sad and sweet all at the same time.  If it continues maybe some subtle hints from you and others that have seen her "copy" you might do the trick.  Like saying "Wow, are you going to do EVERYTHING I do...ha, ha, ha?" or "Well, you end up doing all the things I'm going to do anyway" in front of others (not in a mean way) would get her mind rolling and hopfully open her eyes to what she is doing.  Man, if those things don't work you may need to move...then agian she might follow...UGH!!!  Good luck :)