How can a woman with high sex drive lower it?
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I'm not sure why you'd want to lower it.  You should enjoy it while you have it!!
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There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
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The best thing for your wife to do is to go to her gynocologist and ask him or her. The pill is nothing but extra hormones for women and have different effects on every woman. A gynocologist can answer your question and hopefully get your wife's sex drive back. This is a very common thing in most women, and sometimes getting back on the pill will help, but again, every woman is different and reacts to these hormones differently. I know that this isn't exactly the answer you were looking for, but I hoped I helped a little!
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there are sooo many things to do to increase your sexual drive... if that's the question... \n\ngo to a sex shop. they have fun games (not necessarily vibrators), and lotions... and things that tast good, and warm up that you can put on her body... find out what her needs are, or what she wants that you dont do for some reason... try something new... and make her body feel like the sexiest and beautifullest body you have ever seen or touched.
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You shouldn't.  Sex is a natural process.  Abstaining is unnatural.  The human sex-drive is second only to the hunger-drive.  Just use protection and don't knock her up!
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try eating fruits for a few days and see what happens. Eating canaloupe is good for the sex drive. SO find out what fruit she likes the best and have fun. Oh avacado has something to do with sex drive too. Good luck
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Sex Rx for Women\n\nIf you're a woman with a low sex drive, you're probably asking, "Where's my pill?" The short answer is, don't hold your breath—but don't give up hope, either. The most promising treatments:\n\n>Viagra The Viagra-for-women idea isn't new: Irwin Goldstein, M.D., director of the Institute for Sexual Medicine at Boston University School of Medicine, found it enhanced clitoral blood flow in rabbits way back in 1998. More recently, a study in the European Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology found that women treated with Viagra for four weeks reported marked improvement in arousal, orgasm, and sexual enjoyment (side effects were similar to those reported in men). So why aren't women hoarding their partners' pills?\n\n"Drugs for erectile dysfunction work well for many men because they typically want to have sex but can't," Goldstein explains. "For women there's often a different problem: In many cases what's missing is the desire." A woman's sexuality is more complicated than a man's—big surprise there—which means that boosting desire may require something other than improving circulation. For women, Viagra will likely have a better success rate for lubrication problems than libido problems, since these are less about blood flow and more about hormones and psychology.\n\n>Estrogen Therapy It's well known that estrogen shortages can lower libido and trigger such problems as vaginal dryness. Events such as childbirth, hysterectomy, and menopause can all cause imbalances, but so can drugs like antidepressants and, ironically, birth control pills. If eliminating problematic prescriptions doesn't correct estrogen imbalances, a woman may need estrogen replacement. For women who've been rattled by the recent controversy over estrogen pills and patches, alternatives include locally applied creams like Premarin and Estrace, and vaginally inserted drugs like Estring and Vagifem.\n\n>Androgen Therapy Estrogen imbalance isn't even half the problem, explains Goldstein. "There are 10 sex steroids in all, and only three are estrogens; the other seven are androgens, which most people think of as the male sex hormones. We're finding that three out of four women who see us for lack of desire have serious androgen shortages."\n\nTherapy typically focuses on upping female levels of testosterone. For women, topical formulations are the most common delivery method. Creams have been marketed for men for years, but gels such as Testim and AndroGel get top marks from Goldstein. The big reason: They're more effective and much easier to use. Androgens are also available in pill form—one product, Estratest, combines a type of testosterone with estrogen—but the most exciting news may be the buzz about dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEA), a chemical cousin of estrogen and testosterone. Goldstein's research has found that women who take DHEA show substantial improvements in their self-evaluated sexual performance—though he's quick to warn that women shouldn't take it on their own. "It's sold as a supplement, but DHEA is a drug, and we don't totally understand it yet," explains Goldstein. While side effects of topical and oral testosterone therapy can include weight gain, clitoral enlargement, and unwanted hair growth, DHEA use has been linked to even scarier problems including birth defects and cancer.\n\n>Talking Cure A wide range of psychological factors, including depression, anxiety, a history of physical and emotional abuse, and an array of interpersonal relationship problems, can drain a woman's interest in sex. "While we never want to say that problems with sex are all in someone's head, the psychological factors are undeniable and may even be more profound in women than they are in men," says Goldstein. That's the reason all of his patients consult with
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You need to talk to your wife about this and see what you can do to get her on your level! I know excercise always seems to bring on more energy, especially sexual energy! Maybe she could try this! Keep things exciting and stirred up to keep her interested!
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This is a good question.  My husband would love to know the same thing.  Currently my sex drive is low because of menapause.  I'm going through it very early.  Usually a bottle of wine and somd actual romance will help.  You do know what I mean when I say romance.  Dinner without the kids, rose pettels on the bed,going out on a date with eachother, slow dancing in the livingroom.  These little things open opportunity for flirting.  Thus increasing the want for sex.  b4 menopause I worked sooo much.  My joib made us do a mandatory 15 hrs overtime per week and it took me 2 hours each way to get there.  Then once home still had to check homework cook dinner make sure the house was in order.  I was constantly going and you have the nerve to want what?  Switch roles for a day. see how you feel..  or. start helping around the house if that is the ccase.  but remember  flirting.
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There's a testosterone patch (Intrinsa) that's under evaluation for women to boost the sex drive. I don't know when it's supposed to come out or what the status of it is right now. Check with your GYN. He/she should know.\n\nI got divorced after 17 years. That worked for me lol (actually that's not even a joke)
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depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her.  if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great.  if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea.  you need to stimulate her mind first.  try watching a movie with a romantic love scene.  also telling her what you like about her works wonders.  not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on?  that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job."  it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something.  lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other.  but you shouldn't make the next move.  get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her.  :)\n\na side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle.  some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time.  don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.\n\nif you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in.  young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on.  for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon.  explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her.  say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send.  always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her.  she will feel more comfortable with you as a result.  some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time.  if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.\n\nin any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that).  be polite and respectful.  also keep the lines of communication open.  tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
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Living Out the Top 3 Female Fantasies\nSex life feeling a bit stale? Well, there's one sexual organ most people neglect: the brain. And it's your passport back to Sexual Nirvana. Literally millions of us secretly use fantasies during masturbation, and some of us use them to achieve orgasm during sex. So why not own up to your favorites and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years? Just follow this step-by-step guide.\nFantasy #1: He's a virgin  - and you're Mrs. Robinson\nWhy it appeals to you: It's a power game and "forbidden" sex for both parties, which is always a guaranteed libido-lifter.\nWhat you'll need: A "sexy secretary"-type outfit works for this one: a long pencil skirt, shirt unbuttoned to show off a push-up bra, stockings and high heels.\nThe action plan:\nThe trick to this one is to move very slowly at first. You're seducing him, and he's struggling  - torn between ripping off your clothes and worrying about the consequences. (What will his mom say if she finds out? Is she really seducing him or is he reading too much into it?) Say you're going to fix a drink for each of you, then lead him into the lounge room with your drinks. He sits on the couch, you sit on a chair opposite, crossing your legs and hiking your skirt high. He's not sure where to look. Make general chit-chat (the sort of stuff you'd ask your son's friend, if you have/had a teenager), then take the conversation to another  - saucier  - level. Tell him you don't think your husband finds you attractive anymore. Ask him, Does he think you're attractive? What bits? Why? Let him squirm with embarrassment as he tries to be diplomatic  - and tries to hide his erection.\nAt that point you say, You seem a little uncomfortable and move from the chair to sit beside him on the couch. Loosen the first two buttons of his shirt and rub the back of your hand against his exposed chest saying, Such soft skin. So unlike my husband's. As he squirms, undo the top few buttons of your shirt, take his hand and place it on your breast. Ask him if he likes that.\nIn between your lurid requests and actions, keep making small talk. Ask him if he's ever made love to a woman before. He'll squeak out a no. Ask him if he'd like to make love to you, and tell him it's okay  - you won't tell. Ask him to take off your top and your bra. Tell him to touch your breasts and instruct him on how you like to be touched. Moan and sigh, but remember: You're still the grown-up  - so not too out of control. Ask him to stand up in front of you and unzip his pants. Admire his body, compliment it, say how hard it is, then give him exquisitely tortuous oral sex  - stopping just short of orgasm.\nUndress yourself theatrically while maintaining eye contact. Let his eyes caress your body, but don't let him touch you. Leave on your high heels and stockings. Pose provocatively and caress your curves. Ask him if he likes what he sees and if he wants to touch you. Then undress him, kissing each bit of his flesh as it becomes exposed. When you're both naked, lead him to the bed, then explain exactly how to make a woman scream in ecstasy. Each touch, kiss, fondle and thrust is his very first, remember. The fantasy ends when he completely loses control  - which should happen within about, ohhh, three minutes if you've played your part properly!\n\nFantasy #2: He's your sex slave\nWhy it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.\nWhy he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?\nWhat you'll need
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You need to ask your ob/gyn. What about condoms? That won't decrease your sex drive!
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if you are asking if a woman can have a lower sex drive after having sex, yes, i can't seem to come more than once, and i'm done, but give it a couple hours, ready to go again. \nif you are asking if a woman can have a low sex drive at all, well, yes, so can men. some medicines can make it lower. other times it's mental. but usually, it's just the person.
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Are you more interested in becoming a sex machine or a lover?  If you want wham ban thank you mame, keep doing what your doing.  If you want hours of intensely satisfying sex, get physically healthy, meditate to relax your stressed mind and learn how to please your partner.  That's a good starting point, from there it's all downhill.
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There's nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of women complain about less sex drive after having kids and being settled.\n\nI suggest that you make your husband horny for you. I'm guessing that sex has become somewhat of a routine for both of you. I think it will turn you on when you see that he's hot for you and can't wait till he's with you. Write him a dirty message. Rent some porn. You have to make sure that you really, really want to have sex, then it'll be easier getting an orgasm. I don't know what kind of stuff you're up for. Dirty talk is always good. Have your husband tell you how bad he wants you. \n\nBy the way, your clitoris can NOT be overstimulized by a vibrator. The nerve endings there will be intact unless you have some disease or accident that affects your nervous system.
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I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)