how do i make the first move?
100425
you can do it,lady. men easily succumb to . . .
452348
well, i guess you should make the first move.If she avoids you or rejects your proposal, then back off. There is surely someone more interesting around and who might be waiting for your proposal.
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
714864
someone has to make the first move if you still want to be her friend.  Send a card to her or something....or make a new friend.
704825
guys are not likley to make the first move they have this big fear f rejection, so if you want somehting to happen then you need to make it happen
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
1128315
Tell him you love him. Make the first move.
703466
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
423923
Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
923177
yeah it's true... guy should make the first move though...girls will look so desperate if her make the first move..
362897
try and be the 1st 1 to ask him out
194409
Time and tide wait for none .So don't wait to see what happens next,make the first move.
555934
try and read the situation, if u think there is a mutual attraction then make a move as he might me too shy to make the first move! if he pulls away then its obvious u have read the situation wrong! you never know until you give it a go! it could turn out the be the best move u ever made!!
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
97689
i say make the first move,and those feelings you have will go,ask the right question.goodluck.ps.ask the ones that's in your heart and is going to make you happy.
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.