how do you tell your boyfriend you love them?
116520
say it when the time feels right
287168
First of all, try to indentify your problem. Why can you not tell him your feeling? What can you or he do to change it? Is it because you are so shy or he has something that makes you afraid to express yourself?\nThen you have to fix it.\nA guy can feel special in many ways. Sports, clothes, movies... find out what he likes and talk about it. Maybe you and him can go out and do stuff that he likes (of course you enjoy it, too).\nIt is very much up to you to make your boyfriend feel special. If you call him "boyfriend", then you should know him well enough, shouldn't you?
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.
703077
you should tell him in private all you need to say is "I Love You"
581111
there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
627411
To truly love someone, you need to support them, and respect their decision.  If you want to tell someone you love them, do it, write a letter, or whatever.  To show that you REALLY love them, respect their feelings and decisions.  Don't push them into a relationship, if they want to remain just friends, do so, because you care about them and will work hard and do what it takes to stay close to them, even if it means remaining friends.  Be honest, and sincere - that is another way to show someone you truly love them.  When you talk to them, look them in the eye, really listen to what they say, show sincere concern when things are going poorly, and sincere happiness for them when something good happens to them.  What you need to do is show them that you care about them as a person, not as a person to be won, or an object, or a sex toy, but an individual person.  That will get them for sure - no matter how you express your feelings.\n\nGood luck!
89360
It's very simple. You can go direct to him and kiss him and tell that u love him.The life is very short and u don't have time to live it at all. Don't forget it. Sonja from Albania
1177635
i tell my boyfriend i love him as much as a possibly can and it still don't feel like i say it enough i love him more than i can say.
898030
show your partner that you love him/her. show care. show affection. show humility. cheer up. ;) be happy.
1166881
Girl, just show him u love him all ur heart, cook for a romantic dinner for him surprise him in a really sexy dress sat down and talk to him about it softly saying u really love him and u wouldnt do anything that comes close to ruining u guys' relationship. And give him time.
103679
I think the first thing is to tell him. Boys or men, we can really be funny and unexplainable. Sometimes we, as men need to know from you how you want to be loved. Is it holding hands while walking, is it flowers weekly, tell you how beautiful you are. \nFor some of us, we really do love you, we just don't know what loving you is to you.
946704
Give him a big hug and tell him that you love him and nothing can ever change that.\n\nDepending on the kind of relationship you have, you could also add jokingly, "But you have to let me meet all your potential boyfriends first - so I can tell them embarrassing stories about you!"\n\nBe loving, but add some humor so it doesn't turn into one of those awkward "I love you, I love you too, what now?" moments.\n\nYou say that nothing about your relationship will change (or that you don't want it to), so why hang out or do things different from before you were assured that he was gay? Do the things you've always enjoyed doing together - that will help ensure that nothing will truly change. Make sure that he knows you're interested in new ideas, just in case there are other things he would like to do now that he knows that you know.
73476
If you are in a relationship with the person you want to tell, then tell that person straight up, "I love you." If not in relationship, then try, "I love you, ya know that?" It tells the person how ya feel but makes it lighthearted and non-commital. (also gives the other person an opportunity to tell you how they feel.)
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
233152
Tell HIM/HER I love you.
90174
Hard to say without knowing your boyfriend.\nThere is a book called "The Five Languages."  In that book it talks about everyone having a different love language.  Some people express love by doing things for people, some by touch, some by spending time, for some they show love by buying things for ones they love.\nIf that is his love language it would mean that he is trying to tell you that he loves you, however without knowing any other information about your relationship than that, I can't say for sure.
350576
There are thousands of ways to say it!  I say it a lot to my boyfriend and show it through small ways, just by perhaps buying him a small present occassionally or cooking him his favourite food (the food one works particularly well).  Affectionate things like rubbing your hand over a guy's chest or licking a guy's ear never goes a miss either!