Do you believe that sex is pushed on us?  Why?
101567
Its a matter of culture on the first place.  Its everywhere- the environment and all the factors combined.  Its the society and how the society thinks. the mindsets of people, the influences, the method of upbringing a child, family social status (both parents have to work), etc.  I think the media is a factor but not as much as the social culture.  Religion- you have a point for the social behavior of americans requires them to work and work - and in many cases time for those things that truly matter are neglected to earn money.  I think understanding and controlling these things must begin at home for the foundation of one's personality (as I believe) begins in the basic unit of the society - the family and how they incorporate God in their lives.
563591
Both women and men want sex. Some more than others. For myself, I love sex obviously but only when it is with someone i am comfortable with and love. IE I want the relationship aspect and the sex will then come. I;m not just out for sex.
596899
I don't agree with the whole theory, you shouldn't generalize the fact: I do enjoy penetration as much as the oral caresses, my man gives me and sleeping together. I think it really depends on how you developed your sexuality.\nOn the other hand, I agree on the fact that some girls think that there is a "normal" type of sexuality, they should have to be eligible for relationships! And then, they don't enjoy sex as much because it's not really their desire expressing itself!
517947
I think noone of those who answered noticed that the key question is not WHY DO WE ADORE SEX?! it's why do we discard the partner after getting our fix of it.\n\nI would say it's coz most people take the easy way, they want to eat the cake but not help bake it!\n\nSad...
904912
Some do.  I don't know how often this happens.  I think it is inflated somewhat by TV and movies.  But, I know several women who were little more than 'conquests' by insensitive men.\n\nI personally do not think I have every USED a woman for sex.  I have had 'casual' sexual relationships, before I was married, though they were mutual.  \n\nAnd, don't think this is a one way street.  I know of many instances of women using men for sex.  Yes, it is less common, but more common than you might think.
92379
it's because some people think that sex is good in our body? and to release the heat and pleasures of our minds...
313213
I think sex is something we think of while in the body. When the souls leave the body and are hanging around in paradise I don't think sex is an issue.
1092473
Never. Unless they are married. God gave us sex as an intimate expression of love between husband and wife and for procreation. Sex solidifies the bond between husband and wife. It's not supposed to be a casual thing between unmarried people.
331989
Each of us does what is natural, the way we are made.  So, for example, we eat food.  Every part of our body is good.  Moderation is the key.  We are not made for sex.  Sex is made for us.  So we let the head on our shoulders do our thinking.  Some things we influence indirectly.  When you take up an interest, something physical like running (which is what I do), we mature naturally in the realm of sexuality.  When we are young, we first try most anything we want to especially if it feels nice to us.\n\nSo listen to whatever anyone may say.  In the end, think for yourself and make up your own mind about what is right for you.  And you cannot go wrong.
342375
Natural instinct. Humans need to realize that sex is just to reproduce, and we should not focus on it much. There are better  things to do: increase our knowledge, revolutionize technology, stop environmental problems are just a few.
369944
shouldn't it just happpen? me and my partner never really "initiate" things...they just seem to happen. it shows real sexual chemistry when no one person feels the pressure to "initiate" things
1149073
I believe that casual sex is definitely on the rise.  I'm sure myspace and other networking sites have contributed(how much, I can't say).  I would say that television and movies have had a greater effect on it than anything.  The fact that movies and TV shows glorify having "casual sex" would lend me to believe that it is definitely leading our society in that direction.
138488
Absolutely Not, but the retailers sure like to play the sex card, don't they?  Love is love, sex is sex.  Sex is better with love, but Love doesn't need sex.\n\n;)
334541
I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
385236
I don't think that sex influences love it produces  infatuation; which one might perceive as love. Of course when a person engages in such an intimate act they might confuse the two. That's why I think it is important not to engage in this level of intimacy until you know its right. Because it will only result in hurt feelings and confusion.
384484
sex is only one part of love... and definitely can't carry the load all by itself.\n\nany love that you "make" a man feel will be outweighed ten times by his feelings of resentment for being "made" to feel it.\n\ndon't be manipulative.  : |
800241
I think that it's time to realize that our babies ARE having sex and could have babies themselves. Instead of denying it, we need to accept and move on from there.\n\nI had premaritial sex with my husband when I was 20. I had a baby before marriage. You know what the worst part was? My church shunned me. \n\nI should mention that I was against premaritial sex until then. I didn't even kiss a guy until I was 17. I was a prude! I'll even admit it. Now that I've grown older, I'm not upset that I lost my virginity at 20. \n\nI think at this point it's not about reinstalling value in the teens. It's about realizing that they are having sex and saying, "okay. If you have sex then you need to be safe." I would rather have my children learn about STDs, condoms and birth control and come to ME to ask for birth control then to hear a few months later that I'm going to be a grandmother or hear that my child has AIDS.