my friend ****** like her cousin what does she do??
112007
i really don't know what they should do but that is nasty
520979
thin just explain what happen that night andthat you still love him but there were some miner promblems and yall \nlove life and just because of what she said doesnt mean \nthat you would go and cheat with one of your friend cousin \nand tell him that is just nasty and why wiuld you give \nof that love just because of some body cousin friend \nthat if you would dont' beleave you then kiss him and walk\nawawy give him time to thinkif you want to talk more e-mail
519096
If you want to mess around with her and hurt your cousin, then go do it. But you 2 broke up for a reason (hence, she is your EX) so tell her that she's not yours anymore, and she needs to get it from her new B/F.\n\nIf your cousin lies to you everyday, you can go messing with the ex for a one night stand then walk away... that way you get revenge on both.
702354
i came through this situation too.. i have a cousin and we like so close together even tell each other secrets... but now we are no longer talk to each other maybe just greet and say Hi!!..it is sad because we act like we didn't know each other... we fell apart because my father and her father had a fight a couple years ago... my father didn't allowed me to be close to her and their siblings.. but now after my father get over the problem with my uncle... we kind of afraid to talk to each other... sometimes i cry because when i came back to hometown and we had a gathering i have no one to talk to.. now i always try to be close back to them.. i think it will takes sometimes to refresh our relationship back..just be patient and you'll see the results..
878821
Take your cousin. Its not your fault if he/she is annoying. Your friends won't blame you for her problems.
784721
Yes. girls play the jealousy game that is quite a possibly. But ............. she has been involved with another guy ........ 5 monthes or so!??? the jealously game doesn't go on that long trust me!!!!!  It is possible for girls to like more than one person though.... so she could like her boyfriend but still have feelings for you... But if you guys are too shy to have a relationship is it worth going after anyways??? My suggestion.... well she could very possibly like you and even if you wanted things to work...  you would have to wait until her and her current boyfriend broke up.....  Then you'll have to rethink things and try to have such a shy relationship. maybe things will get better from there. But don't steal a girl from your best friend.. you will lose a friendship! but also! he did steal her from you first!!! but ........... it all depends on how serious their relationship is... plus you don't want to stoop down that low and if she likes you .. she will come back to you! don't sweat it! your cousin's little cousin could be a small hint.. but then again kids blabber random stuff all the time for no reason... Alright good luck!
261217
what?? ur cousin?? is she saying bad things about u?? man... she should be on ur side.. she should be lying for u...\nmaybe this cousin likes ur bf and wants to steal him from u...\nwhat to do... talk to both ur cousin and boyfriend...find out why ur cuz's doing it and tell ur boyfriend she's lying...ur boyfriend should believe u more than ur cousin...if not, maybe he's brainwashed and has gotten a liking to ur cuz or that he simply doesn't trust u..either way, it shouldn't be...\n\ndon't worry... long as you hold the truth u'll never be in despair
921496
ha ha ha. she is in your yahoo family right?\nhey what was i?\naunt, cousin, sister?\nLOL. thanks for the best answers!\nTHANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU I LOVE YOU FORVER!!!!!! (in a friendly way lol!)\nhugs and kisses\n-KIZZ
838870
Tell her but pick a good time and find a soft way. My cousin actually married a gay man and it took her years to recover, but they are still friends. She'll probably never be fully over you, so be respectful of her when dating men, if you remain friends. Rent a movie like "Clueless" or "Saved!" or  "Brokeback Mountain" and watch it with her, you might be able to gage her reaction and put out a conversation opener. But most of all, remember, you can still love her and be gay.
409961
tell her that you don't want to have sex with her because it's weird and ugly because you're cousins. if she still insists, leave and tell someone close to you about the situation. tell your sister or your friend. \nalso, try to video the scenario. just in case anyone wants evidence,, or something to laugh about later
328483
You have to talk to her and let her know how you feel in a positive way. And just because she is your cousin doesn't mean you have to be around her all the time.
88421
Tell her how you feel about what she's doing. Tell her first, then if she doesn't change, tell your aunt. If she STILL doesn't change, you shd have nothing more to do with her.
316408
Well first of all. Talk to her, make it so your friends first or something. Try not be so weird around her, save that for your friends. But don't change completely who you are for her. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth your time
1112217
OK...call your cousin back and tell her you don't appreciate her calling you names and if she does it again, you will hang up again.  Then ask if she wants to go to the mall or something....it's not that big of a deal, honey.  It's family that's important, but she also needs to respect you.  Also tell her that kind of talk makes her sound like trash.  So...forgive her and get back to being friends and family.  Good luck.
166059
There's really not much you can do.  Your cousin is trying to find her own way, and will suffer the consequences of wrong choices.  Just be there for her, and when she asks for your advice or your opinion, give it to her honestly.  Try telling her what you are observing.
437572
If you really care about your cousin, love her unconditionally. When you start putting conditions on love, it is not love. It would be great if you could concentrate on yourself : you are worried about what people will think about you. People will judge you by your actions, not the actions of your cousin. You have BOUNDARY problems. Try to accept all people as individuals.
53552
Tell her you like her, and see how she responds. Take it from there.