He picked another girl to talk to on valentines day, should I be mad?
115888
It is such a weird stinking night, I think you should let it go.  Talk to him in an hour and forget it happened.  Why chance a blow up?  There is something in the air tonight, and I wouldn't take a chance.  Deal with it tomorrow.
739216
it's not wrong with u let go this guy.......do not pin down two guys at once as u'll hurt both of them........tell him the truth.......sometimes, love is unpredictable n' hopefully, he'll understand...good luck
685905
If the other girl is not his girlfriend, just hang out with him and see what happens.  If you hit it off, the other girl won't matter to him.  Don't waste your time worrying about her, just hang with him and go with the flow.
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
346069
Maybe you wernt a good partner and she doesent want to talk to you, or possibly she still likes you but is mad. Maybe she likes you and someone else and is confused. You should be the go to guy in this case and go to the girl and tell her how you feel. Be prepared to either break up or be drawn closer when you talk to her, but dont get your hopes up....
46638
Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink
662179
This is just my opinion but I don't think a true friend would be mean to me just to impress another girl. And I think you are focusing too much on the fact that he was with another girl and not so much on the way you were treated.  You deserve respect and I think you need to surround yourself with people who will treat you right and will be true friends. Good luck hun!
640877
if he did talk to another girl, then your stupid..because that only leads to the bedroom.\n\nif he got caught trying to talk to another girl, then i guess it isnt too big of an offense, but punish him and make him remember what he could loose if he does go that way....\n\nbut if you really cant forget and trust him...its over... there is no relationship without trust
202821
Your friends are right.  You need to break this cycle and stop living your life waiting for something that may never happen.  You deserve a man who will choose you first over all other girls and not one that can't make up his mind and picks you only when it is convenient.  This guy is just playing you and keeping you around for when his other relationship has problems.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
452682
Yes, he should be upset.  Of course he should also take time to ask you first why you were hugging that guy.  I mean he would look like a total idiot if it turned out this other guy had just told you he lost a family member or something and you were just hugging him to console him.
207174
This is usually a test that goes against your interests but you will know for sure.  Try to push him towards another female whom he may be interested in... when he shows interest, check out if the green monster appears.  If you get jealous, you can be pretty sure that it's more than platonic feelings that you feel for him.\n\nDISCLAIMER:  If he does fall for the other girl and leave you heartbroken, that's the risk you take in this test ok?
749541
Honestly....If it was me I wouldn't waste my time. If he's really interested in you then you getting with another guy might make him see what he's been missing. But in all seriousness though. If he shows no sighns of leaving the other girl then you HAVE to move on. Finding a new guy might make you think twice about your first choice. Lifes too short to stay stuck on one guy. Especially in your teen years...if your a teen.
722882
ask him what the hell is his problem, he ask you a favor then this is what you get from it. one more thing , the girl says yes so what is he cramming about. i think he is making a way to make you jealous. maybe ur the one he likes
416215
So you like girl one.  you are wasting you're time with the other girl.  Be nice when you tell her you just want to be friends and make sure you make it clear it wasn't anything she did that made you break up with her.  That way even though she will be heart broken, niether of you will be in a relationship that is a lie and isn't going anywhere.
967103
If he shows off, than be very careful. He may start to make fun of your feelings when/if he realises them. How much does he like this other girl? Does she like him back? If you two are friends, then you have it very easy to tell him you like him more than a friend. Tell him that ou do not know what it is happening. You are feeling for him something more. Tell him you realised you liked him when he told you about the other girl. If you are not so close friends, than tell him the same thing as above. Tell him what you felt when he talked to you about the other girl.
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.