Why do I feel he doesn't love me if he doesn't ask me to marry  him?
104009
Maybe you think that marriage is the highest expression of love between two people and maybe you want to experience that kind of once-in-a-lifetime love so badly that you think he doesn't love you as much as you would want him to if he didn't ask for your hand in marriage.\n\nWord of advice: he loves you and he might love you more than you could possibly know and comprehend. Give him a chance to show it in other ways than waiting for you at the altar while you walk up the aisle in a white gown.
74696
I am the same way, cant get the courage to ask because he probably doesnt want to be turned down or worse you say yes and somepoint in time you breakup with him and over that time he has begun to love you and doesnt want to breakup
609917
Depending for what reason you feel they dont love you, you can only be yourself and give it time.Maybe they are just scared.At the end of the day you want someone to love you for who you are and not what they want you to be,dont let these worrys ruin the happines you feel cus in the end, what will be will be.
881767
He does not love you,nothing indeed.Find a a man, who will love you indeed.
545839
according to wat u have written i feel he doesnt love u but he is in the stage where he is now feeling dat u like him and he is getting attracted towards u. Its just that he maybe shy dat he is not letting u know
252463
If me made this claim about marriage just prior to getting you in bed, then nope, he probably doesn't love you.  If he came up with the marriage idea on his own and without any benefits attached to it, then he probably does love you.  Tell him that you love him (I guess you have already done this) and see what kind of response you receive.  If you get something like "you too" or "uh huh" that's not a good sign.  If he responds by looking you in the eyes and sincerely says "I love you too" then he probably loves you.  Communication is the key here, if you can't tell if he loves you or not then you don't want to get married any time soon anyway.
909173
Maybe in your heart you hoped that marriage would settle him down a little or you would feel more secure within the relationship.  Do you trust him?  Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him?  Maybe you just need to communicate your concerns with him so he can reassure you of where he stands in the marriage.  Almost any woman would feel the same way in your shoes, and you did marry pretty fast.  Before you married, did you know each others beliefs on marriage, vows, family, careers, finances?  These are some major issues that both of you should be on the same page with - if not, seek some support and guidence.
494110
If he is wanting a certainty that you will be together forever, there isn't any and there never is certaintly, especially in relationships, sometimes things work out great and sometimes they don't, its just how it works. \n\nSo, if he doesn't take the chance then he will never know.  He can't go through life fearing what might or might not happen...that isn't living. If he is unwilling to make the commitment or to take the chance, there may be other things going on that you aren't aware of. Communicate with him, try and find out what other feelings or fears he has around marriage.\n\nHope this helps
246552
I feel for you, thats a tough spot to be in. However any man who doesn't want to get close to your kids isn't worth your time no matter how great he treats you. It might be a sign that he doesn't want to commit as much as you want.... any man who truely loves you would want to be part of your life in everyway, and your kids are a big part.
92141
If he really loves you like you love him then he will respect the fact that your not ready to be physical with him.  If he pushes you to be physical then he isn't the right guy for you.
167585
sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
1087963
nope, it's lust not love. Quit worrying, but sorry sweets ur not gonna marry him and stay* together forever.
376258
He is selfish, and doesnt care about your feelings, because you have strong feelings for him, you cant realize this.\n\nSo unless you can get a hold of your emotions, and your feelings you will be destined to re-live this scenario in future relationships...
187584
if you want to get married you need to make it very clear to him. If he does not want to get married but insists that he loves you - you will have to make the very hard decision to either stay and wait- and waiting could mean waiting forever - he may never ask... Or you can choose to walk away from the relationship with the knowledge that it is always better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all...  I made that choice years ago - to walk away from someone I loved and who loved me. He was not ready. I was. I decided to let him go free and in so doing I set myself free.  I have never once regretted that. I am a better person for that relationship and I have been married to my best friend and lover for 5 years now -AND we have twin boys who are 9 months old!  Do what your heart leads you to do and it will all turn out right.
144734
you can't make somebody love you, maybe you should revalute why you are still married?? If he does not love you , why stay with him. You have to make your own happiness.
553408
apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
1038933
maybe he does he just doesnt like to show it. give it time, things take time, maybe you'll even find you dont love him as much as you think, or maybe he loves you more than you know.\njust remember: you cant force love.