How do I know my relationship with my gf will last?
99600
It depends on a lot of things.  Age is a biggie.  People under the age of 25 (statistically, not by fa, every person) tend  to stray at some point.  This is not true for everyone.  Living together is stressful.  When I moved in with my fiance`, it was a fight a day.  You have to get used to living with that person.  It is different than the two of you doing sleep overs and being around each other.  My mam told me this and I thought she was a liar.  But I will be darned, she was RIGHT.  It is a good step to take before you take "the plunge".  It helps you to see if the two of you can live together.  Good luck to you!  Happy valentine's day!  It worked for me and I hope it works for you too!
801313
we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
1051202
Relationships are always tough. I have found that the way to make them last is to not worry about the longevity. If all we did was focus on when something was going to end, why bother starting? At any rate if you have a good thing going cherish it. If something goes wrong with your mate, try and help them as best you can. Remember some of the best things about being in a relationship are not only sharing good times but having someone there for you in the bad. And if the relationship doesn't work, cherish that, you experienced something, which is better than nothing at all.
205054
If you love each other very much and are willing to put in all the hours need, then you two will last.\n\nI just know you two have it in you to make it work.\n\nI believe in love.\n\nI believe in you.
183122
it will last if you love eachother enough to wait till your together again...
439358
Honey, relationships are all about dealing with each other's problems and yeah...getting into fights.  I have dated my current boyfriend for 14 months, and we are just now starting to talk through our problems without getting all upset at each other.  If you really love her, you need to just work through stuff because it will all work out if it is really meant to be.
576436
relationships r tricky n they would neva b the same from the moment they start n as time goes by .. so if u asked her n she told u dat she hasnt lost love 4 u then dont worry , but u cant expect a person dats under lots of stress 2 b all lovy dubby wit u r any 1, dat u need 2 understand ... but if she doesnt call as much as b 4 dats just cause dats how relationships work , not every 1 can stay the same from day 1 dat everythin starts... but u can call her instead n let her know u still there n anythin she needs she can come 2 u .. but with out u tellin her how u feel then she wont have any idea of wats goin through ur head .. good luck hope it works out 4 the best
296746
you  can't ever know if it will or will not last... love is a leap of faith... its a risk...but a worthwhile risk!it takes two people to make it last... both have to   have  trust,  honesty, loyalty, and a deep  friendship and affection for each other..
864251
depends on how serious you are and how long you2 have been together and where does the relationship stand and all that good stuff
180310
I don't think you could ever MAKE love last, but you could do things to help keep a relationship strong. You always should be 100% honest and truthful, no matter how hard that is. You should respect the other person and get respect back. Listen to one another and give advice. Don't ever try to control a person. If you feel like you have to control them to keep them from cheating on you or something, then you don't trust that person and without trust, you have nothing. Make that person smile as much as you can. Laugh with eachother and don't take little things too seriously. Just have fun and love eachother the best you can.
331895
That's a tough question to answer. In fact I wish I could give you a concrete answer. As a matter of fact I am in such a relationship with my girlfriend. She is the one I want to spend the rest of my life. And what's crazy is that she is nothing like the girl I thought I would love to end up with. Well she treats me nice first of all and is not afraid to have her opinon on things and be firm about it. So basically what I am saying I love her because she has a mind of her own and also at the same time cares about my own opinion. Also knows when to back out of a dispute when she realizes that I am too strong on a thing and I also learned to do the same thing. I think it all stands in the art of compromize and never being too selfish while preserving your individuality. Another thing is you could never make one love you no matter what you do or do not. If your guy does not think of you everyday and that's what you want of him then say goodbye no matter how hard it may seem. Go look for another who is more romantic and affectionate and also looks for only one girl to end up with for the rest of his life. Well good luck with it because it is not easy.
651987
communication is a very powerful tool to keep a relationship alive...keep your communication open & going on no matter what...don't let a day passed w/o saying anything to each other...thru this she can feel more secured and thus will have more faith in the relationship...
688334
Well, shes not across the world (im in california shes in florida) its hard because theres alot of times where we would wanna b close and hold eachother kiss and all that good stuff, we havent seen eachother too (july im goin to visit u bet ur sweet ass im happy bout that lol) we've been together for about 5 months now and i love her more then anything else...communication and trust are big if your planning on having a long distant relationship, if you cant do that then it will just fall apart.. if you are happy with who your with and get over all the bump that WILL happen you'll find out it was all worth it....... but thats how i feel :-)
445764
only you can tell for certain if you really love her. but if you think you're capable of giving up everything you know and believe in just to be with this chick, i think she got you.  \n\nshould you ask her to stay? it's worth a try. better do it than waste a lot of time regretting it.
254020
a relationship this long should not end with a break up . Just communicate with her .. see what and how  she feels and what went wrong and try find solutions for it 2gether.
223002
long enough to be sure that you are absolutely compatible, it's not a matter of time... and a breakup on the way is not important as long as it helped you to get  to know and understand each other better. Take your time, it's a life-long commitment...good luck
695536
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?