does love become habit after time?
102058
yep. soon enough, you become emotionally needy and habitually get into relationships.
1109696
You can. those cute little habits might get annoying and your friends might wonder if you are ever coming back from MIA status.  But if the relationship is new and you still talk to your friend than it is not uncommon to be with your new love all the time.  Just make sure that you don’t spend so much time together that you get to the point were you can not stand each other.
737370
It's not love.... it's LUST at first sight.\n\nLove is a lot more mature than that and develops over time.\nIt doesn't just appear in the sudden presence of someone.\n\nMy boyfriend has told me he loved me since he first saw me (which was in a picture). This was 2 years ago. I thought it was sweet... but it was lust... which turned into love over time.
157233
Absolutely fantastic once you have the person you really want to be with and who feels the same way about you. To love someone and to be in love with someone especially for many many years takes a lot of work. There will be problems it is inevitable, but true love can work through anything and everything.
529786
Personally, I think love is still around but not like it used to be. Over the years society has changed and people ( not all people) have become self-centered and it's always what about ME. People also have become very materialistic and always want the big houses, expensive cars, designer clothing. They think they fall in love and for the most part they probably do, but when things get tough and they hit bumpy roads, they want out and find someone else. It used to be you met someone, dated, married, had children and stayed together through the hard times. A relationship is give and take.You have to work at keeping your love alive and well over the years. You can't always take and you can't always give either. Some people don't like to compromise. It's either my way or nothing. That's a sure way for relationships to end.\nI am not saying it's impossible to fall out of love with someone and then go on your way, but I think today people find it too easy to give up on a relationship and don't want to put the effort into making something work. It's easier to just say goodbye and move on to someone else.
7356
Love isn't something that is consistant.  It doesnt happen in a set amount of time, every time.  love is something both people have to agree on, and we all know not everyone agrees on something right away.
19136
you need to make sure you recognize falling out of love, and just moving into a different kind of love.  After being with the same person for a while, the sparks/puppy love/lust goes away and you have a deeper friendship sort of love and companionship (if its the right person, if its not, you will just fall out of love I guess)\nI would suggest checking out books by Dr. Helen Fisher.  She is a sexual anthropologist that writes about types of love and the biology behind love.  Really fascinating book.
138162
We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
801545
After 4 weeks? No. Lust yes, love no. Love takes a long time to fully develop.
32545
PART 1  TRUE SOME TYPE OF FEELING HAS TO THERE IN ORDER TO GO FARTHER\n\nPART 2 DEVELOPE FEELINGS ONCE YOU ARE IN LOVE IF IT IS TRU LOVE YOU WILL NEVER FORGET THIS PERSON OR LOOSE ALL FEELINGS SOMETHING ALWAYS COMES UP THAT REMINDS YOU OF THAT PERSON AND HOW YOU ONCE FELT AND TO SO EXTENT STILL DO.
870844
I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
830339
Must be your first love? It's going to happen more in your life so get used to it. Everything passes in time.>
937679
Nope. Life goes on. New loves will come into your life :)
297190
No  ... First love is not always the true everlasting love .. sometimes is mere illusion. i had and it ended years ago.. Now i love my husband .. Forget about it .. Never leave it obsess ur mind .. Wish u good life
971490
that depends of a person,sometimes we can love just once in our life,but if we recive enough we can love many times.every person is diffrent in a matter to understeand what love is exactly
507889
What won't we humans do for love?  Think about this, love can be transitory sometimes and when we find love we want to hold onto it with both hands and never let go...because what if it went away?  \n\nI'm sure most of us have known "love" in one form or another and I think I'm correct in assuming that a lot of us have had that love taken away.  Whether a relationship ends, we loose a friend, family member or even a pet.  Sometimes love  just goes away.  So when we find it we don't want to loose it and because these feelings are so strong within us it can bring out the best and worst in our behavior.\n\nSo love in any shape or form is a glorious thing but without it in our lives it's truly a great tragedy.