How do you cheer up a friend who is very depressed?
105871
She/he may have a disorder... Just be careful and give them praise as well as Complements. Have them do a fun activity with you and perhaps even invite them over to do someting they like and that is fun. Ask them what is wrong and try it out too! Best wishes
89646
you can always talk to your doctor about anti-depressants, or if you know you or someone you know is depressed then find what makes him/her depressed and keep them away form it and lead them towards things of a fun and loving nature. If it is you yourself then find friends of a positive attitude to keep you mind off the thing that dpresses you and try to look on life with a positive attitude. Depression is like a major sadness that leaves you stripped of all desire to do anything, so the best way to cope with it is to stay active and deny your brain the though of the act that depresses you.
1154309
Sometimes friends just need some space. Nothing is meant by it. You could try calling her or writing saying lets make plans for this Saturday to ......& think of something fun for you 2 to do. Have a positive attitude about things. Sometimes if you're down & depressed all the time that could affect friends coming around. It just gets them depressed & that's not fun so work on being positive not just for her but for you. Make yourself think positive, happy thoughts. God bless.
162722
be a good friend of him, share his sorrow and joy
926204
Wow, if life came down to a numbered list wouldn't it be easy?\n\nIt depends on the situation.  If the person wants to talk, then you should be there to listen, because sometimes knowing someone is actually listening (not hearing, and there is a big difference) is the best way to help.\n\nIf they want advice, then you should give it, or refer them to someone who can.\n\nIf they want to forget what is happening for a little while, distract them.\n\nIf they need your empathy, you to be sad with/for them, then discover why, and show geniune emotion.\n\nNot caring is the worst thing, because if they have confided in you how unhappy they are, then they are ultimately asking for help.\n\nRemember happiness is NOT a state of mind, it is moments to be enjoyed, just the same as other emotions, and the unhappy moments are there to remind us not to take the happy ones for granted.
496247
be the best friend that you would want if you were in that situation. just do extra little things like opening the door and little hugs and you might turn a bombed day into a sunshiny bright day.
959486
be happy for your friend. if she seriously thought he was a loser she would dump him.
689780
I would try to let my family and loved ones know that I love them. And tell them not to be sad for too long, because it is bad for you. Maybe try to think of something funny, to lighten things up. Like, "Hey Mom, cheer up, at least I won't be borrowing money from ya all the time!" Then maybe eat a sandwich. And hug someone......... hopefully someone I know............ and like............ and who is not very stinky.
398159
Awww, poor guy! I hope he gets well soon! As for how to cheer him up, I'd say just be yourself, and don't wear him out too much! Talk to him (unless he has a headache), maybe rent a movie to watch, take him something good to eat (don't worry- you can have a bite as well), if he likes reading, then take out some good books from the library... Be cheerful, and don't keep asking him if it really hurts, and telling him how sorry you are! I'm sure he'll really appreciate you going to see him!
526814
Just be there for her.  She is going to feel guilty and sad and angry all at the same time and really there is nothing you can say to help but just being there as a shoulder to cry on when she wants will be a help.  Don't try and cheer her up but at some point it will be good for her to talk to some professional counselor.  Don't push it be if she brings it up then encourage her gently.
748766
you can't! They are the only one who can make that decision, and its one of the hardest things to see a friend falling to pieces...but there is one thing you can do....when he need you...be there for him/her....10 percent...first they have to hit rock bottom, and then when there finally come around....there will need lots of good friend and support....so be there!!!!
194477
I am sure that they will "be funny" again.  Your personality sticks...the depression might alter it a little but they will spring back to normal.  Support them, be there for them.  If this person you are talking about is you, confide in a friend.  It's okay to cry and be depressed for a while.  It might be almost embarrassing to let that vulnerable side show since you/they were always the "funny and happy" one.  Trust me, you will seem even more real and likable when people see your human and have bad days...even if these days last for awhile.  Also, no one is too good to seek professional advice.  I'm not saying run out there and get put on medication, but you might need an extra boost to get back and going..whether it's just medical advice or whatever.  Good Luck.
959384
Be there for them when they need to talk about their issues and when you have had all you can take - do something for yourself like a bubble bath, gardening or go for a walk. Something YOU enjoy - to take your mind off their problems.\nBTW. Do not feel bad if you have to tell them you can not take any more right now.
535748
Send her a "thinking of you" card and let her know she's in your thoughts and prayers. Let her know if she needs anything, do not hesitate to call you. Just to know someone cares about her will touch her deeply and let her know not all people in the world are bad.
920550
If she brings it up than yeah! ask her questions.  this is probably the best time to support your friend, and she needs your help right now to be there for her if she needs someone to talk to.  Don't be over the top with it, just say how happy you are that she's seeking help and that you're there for her every step of the way.
1098739
It is helpful. As with alot of mental disablities depression can come and go easy. So you may be able to take someone and 'cheer them up.' and than as soon as your drop them off they are meloncholy again.
573610
Be there for him, show him that you care. Show him what a good friend you can be, just show that you always have his back.