am I crazy to give my boyfriend a second chance after having cheated on me for 2 weeks, we have a baby togethe
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
1100054
I am married and pregnant with another man's baby.  I was separated from my husband for 5 months before I got pregnant with my boyfriends baby.  My ex (soon to be ex-husband) still wants me sometimes too.  He said that if he got the chance to have his family back, he would in a heartbeat, even if he had to help raise another man's baby.  BUT......I don't feel right about that.  I should have never married my hubby because I didn't love him enough, and we were pressured because we already had one little girl together a year before we got married, so we went a head and did it.  Now, I have two little girls, already, and one more little girl on the way.  Yeah, i messed up, maybe if i would've given it a little more time after the separation, me and the ex could've worked things out, but I wanted to move on with my life with this other man.  But, anyways, the point is,,,,,,,, i am currently in this situation, and I choose to not go back to my ex husband because I have ruined everything that we could have had together.  I am still in love with my new baby's daddy, but he couldn't handle the situation, either, so we broke up.  So, make the decision that's right for you.  You are the only one that knows your whole situation. Good luck!     Praying a lot helps too!
350985
So Im assuming the baby is this other guys? If so, I would look at the situation. Is this guy going to be a father to this child? And can you accept that she cheated on you in the first place? If you know that hes not going to be around as a father and you are love her and are going to be with her long term, why not stay with her and raise this baby. But if you cant get over her cheating on you and she is wanting to be with this other guy, you should get out while you can. Its only going to get ugly.
244799
like a fool i took mine back and we were married a week later, but i still find it hard to trust him. even tho hes the one who told me he was cheating. we have been married for 2 years now and together 6 and so far he hasnt done it again ( that im a ware of) if i had it to do over i would have left him.
426931
no!!! he made his choice to give you up. no offense. but he went off and got another girl pregent. if you take him back you are creating difficulties for yourself, him, the mom, and the baby and both families. he made his choice. he is missing out on life while you are enjoying it. plus being single ROXS!!!!
580918
I think the real question is do you really want him back?  You obviously showed that you care for him but apparently that (by what you said) really didn't seem to matter.  The fact that he had a kid with someone else is another thing.  Being as if you could trust him even after that.  You supported the hell out of him multiple times.  If I were him I'd be all for you, weather he sees that or not.  If you really love him, I'd give him one more chance.  He might see how important you are, but likewise he might not.\n\nThis matter is really more dependent on how you feel about busting your butt for him and him just leaving you hanging.  If you truly love him and think it could work, got for it and give him one more shot.  If you feel doubtful in any way I'd just say forget it.  You seem like a kindhearted person, love should naturally find its way to you.
1169280
I would say it all depends on the situation. Since you all have so much history and two beautiful daughters, I would think it'd be better to get back together, but that may just be me. Don't do what people on here say, just take the advice and build off of it. Maybe he got scared for some reason and pulled out of the relationship because he didn't know what to do. If you love him and you know he loves you, then I would give it a second chance. If it was meant to be, it will be. I know that's probably the worst advice line I could give you, but I've found out that it is pretty true. No matter what happens, I promise you both will be okay. Good luck and follow your heart.\n~Grace
22490
what a flimsy excuse! of course it is cheating. and no,you wouldn't be in the WRONG for still liking him and wanting him back. but you WOULD be setting yourself up for a lot of heartbreak in the future.
831100
I've been there done that and i wouldn't make it easy for him if i did take him back. You need to make sure that your the one that he wants and he's threw messing around on you and if he feels the need to cheat on you again he needs to be man enough to tell you that he wants to see someone else. Tell him he has to earn your trust back.
592243
Since you denied it for so long, you've established a pattern of lying on top of the cheating.  So, it probably won't matter how you tell him; he may feel too angry and used to give you another chance.\n\nJust try to communicate how foolish you were and how much you regret it and that you understand how this must make him feel.  Explain that you realize that he may not want to give you another chance, but you care about him too much to continue the deception.\n\nAnd BEG, BEG, BEG for his forgiveness.\n\nI sense that you truly realize and regret the mistake you made.  I'm sorry that it may cost you a relationship that you came to value a little too late.  Hopefully, you won't make either of those mistakes again (cheating, lying about it.)\n\nGood luck.
572900
First off, you know that he's had "UNPROTECTED" sex with at least one other woman besides yourself. . .  Think about that for a minute . . . take a few if necessary.\n \nYou do not have to justify what you are feeling.  People come into our lives for reasons, seasons or lifetimes, where does he fit into the picture...what have you learned from the situation(s) you two have shared besides two wrongs don't make anything right, it's still just TWO WRONGS (I'm talking about the cheating).  \n\nAre you willing to live with the fact that he has a child with another woman that he will have to communicate with frequently because of the child.  History between you and your 'baby's daddy' is just what it is, HISTORY.\n\nIf you're willing to chance that risk of what could happen, then by all means do what you want to do.
219384
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
415789
No.\nAny man who has an ex girlfriend who is currently pregnant and has started dating again after only 3 short months is not exactly the most dependable person.\nI would leave NOW, before you become the next girl on his "My baby's mother" list
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
165592
Obviously if he is cheating you and your baby aren't that important.  If you really can't leave him...tell him that "you can't live without him but you'll have to if cheats again." because by cheating he shows he can live without you...\ndon't subject your child to a unfaithful man...
1000386
baby girl, let me explain something to you if this boy cheated on you then he'll do the same thing again!I don't care if he's your last boyfriend...now if your the one who broke up with him then that's a whole different story!Don't go back to the same thing. Look forward.Life gets better!Just got to follow your heart!
1001036
I say there should never have been a 2nd time.  ever heard the saying. "Fool me once-shame on you, fool me twice-shame on me"  Stand your ground and don't let it happen another time. Because it's getting easier and easier for him to do it knowing that he has done it this many times already and your still there to go through it.  Let him know what he's lost and don't budge. If you stay in this relationship your pretty much begging him to do it again. Sorry but thats a true answer.  Good luck in the choices you make.