Am i being taken advantage of , or am i just mad over nothing ?
117304
Tell him if he wants you to watch his little darling it will set him back 20 bucks an hour. Or if you aren't inclined to supervise tell him you are not going to watch his kid, he can watch him his self.
930211
it seems like your friend is not really appreciating the real you, only the money you have. when a friend is like this, it hurts, because i know from experience. this friend of yours is a definite user. she only gives you phone calls when she needs an extra 20.00$ for a pair of cool shoes, or a ride to the mall. does this sound familiar? than you've definitely got a friend who is a user on your hands. talk to your friend, heart-to-heart, and explain that she is using you and your feelings have been really hurt by it, but you may still want to be her friend, especially if things work out well between you two. if she understand sand stops the nonsense, than you'll probably stay friends. if not, don't deal with it. tell her that you can't really be good pals anymore until she changes her ways- for good. those kind of friends don't last anyway!
133367
I don't see anything wrong with it. I went to the store with my Mom or my Aunt until I moved out.(and when I visit I still like going with my mom) I liked helping and besides sometimes you can ask for stuff you like and they get it. Plus you get brownie points with them for helping out and that's always good. I wouldn't let what others say get to you they might be jealous that you are not worried what other people think and are more interested in helping out your mom and getting something for being helpful. It's a win-win if you ask me! ^.^
11833
I can understand how you might feel a little used. However, if your all having a good time, and its a good deal to you, then just go with it. Maybe you could make the call next time to a new place if it really starts to bother you. Do you HAVE to partake in the $40 deal? Or can you just buy yourself one drink and still have a good time?
1004590
if it is a friend with benefits then it really is not neccesary to go into any detail.  he would just as well be truthful if it is a mutual agreement that it is ok.  you sound like you have more feelings than what you thought you had?
647669
You are a minnow in a big pond, an inconsequential thing that he might consider if it is convenient.  He perceives your offer is right on the edge of inconsequential.  Now if it looked like you could be very valuable to him, you would have a higher priority.  Right now, he's got piles and piles of things to juggle space and time for, almost all being more valuable than you.  Figure out an advantage (to him) or blow it off.  He's not lying, he's just busy and your value isn't perceived as high enough to merit nailing down the time and effort.  Sorry.  It's like dating a gorgeous woman who can have almost anyman she wants, why would she want you?  You've got to be worth it to her somehow.  This is different from desperate plain Jane's--right now you are behaving like the deseparate plain Jane who is mad that some guy who smiled at you hasn't called.
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If it's a really nice person, I may feel a tinge of guilt.  But many times things are really overpriced.  Actually at a festival I went to last week, I asked for a ridiculous discount, and the guy ended up giving me the discount plus a free pair of earrings (since I mentioned my birthday).  So it paid to ask.  \n\nBy the way, me and that same guy are hooking up this weekend.  He was too nice to pass up!\n\nOn another note:  You mentioned in another thread that you can find records online.  How can I find public criminal records and other info online?  Thank uuu!  rock_gypsy5@yahoo.com
634854
Sounds fishy if you ask me. What are you trying to do?
1052077
Sweetie, if you feel like you are being used... then it means you aren't happy. Therefore, talk to him about it. Say, why don't you pay this time.. or when he wants to do something say ok, well you pay because I had XXX bills this month so money is tight. Talk to him about making you leave after sex. If you don't bring it up, it will eat away at you.\n\nHere is a hint- if he gets angry/ defensive after you tell him any of this, then yes he is most likely a user and your instincts were probably right. If he says, sorry hun didn't mean to make you feel that way, or something to that extent, then he seems like a good guy.\n\nAnd girl, cmon now, real estate agent, successful woman, you've got it goin on- if it does turn out that he's using you move on! You're a catch and can do better!
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Wait, did I read this correctly? Did you state that she is your EX girlfriend? As in, you two are not a couple anymore? If that is the case, shame on her for even asking--that's ridiculous.\n\nIt sounds to me like she grew accustomed during your time together to asking you for things, and it's very nice that you are the type of person who provides money for clothes, etc, but the fact is that you don't have to give her anything. If you want to tell her to stuff it, please go right ahead. The fact that she is even asking puts my teeth on edge.\n\nIf she is spending $3000 for a vacation, she should have given some thought to the clothing issue before. She should have either saved $3300, or planned to only spend $2700 for the vacation, leaving the rest for clothes.\n\nYou don't owe her anything at all. If she wants to go play and have fun, she can take care of that on her own.
715277
Whatever is going on. Your not being fair to yourself. You deserve better than some guy who may be into you.
793801
Yes, you have a right to be upset. Your fiance is a mama's boy. Poor baby?\n\nAnd I wonder, how much do they accuse you of stealing? I would consider it beneath my dignity to be accused of stealing anything less than $10000!!!\n\nIf more than that has been lost, he should ask you ( that's some serious cash, but if they are accusing you of stealing $50, they are really cheap. I mean, if I lost 10 grand, I would get my dog x-rayed to make sure he hasn't swallowed it. Let alone asking my fiancee.) .  But even if he does ask you, it should not imply assumed misdeedson your part.\n\nHow did he phrase it? Did he ask if you "SAW" the money? Or did he ask if you "TOOK" it? In any case, if he said his parents accused you of stealing, they really suck. Chances are that they stole it themselves to put the blame on you. Check your bags and luggage carefully, you don't want to be caught with "planted evidence". \n\nI hope,if you guys are marrying, you are going to stay far far away from them.
928030
what exactly do you want me to do..Is this a scam?
823491
awww... you're making the rest of us jealous!\n\ni love to be held.\nthere's this sense of security and you just feel like you could burst out of all that love..
694936
i think you did the right thing- but i feel you may be letting people take advantage of you- should he be mad?  whats that about? why worry about that? he should be reported to the manager, when EVERYONE works together as a team things get done alot faster and they are alot more happier and people would really enjoy and love going to their jobs.  really life is to short, people now days need to love each other just as they would want to be loved and treated.
136116
Aren't many people taking advantage of this one.  What's the matter with them?  Usually they are all over things like this.  Oh, well, thanks for the 2
695416
You are being toyed with, from the way it sounds at least. I wouldn't put up with that. It is never fun to be at the butt end of someone else's game, whether it is a malicious one or not.