my boyfriend hasnt bought me any thing for valentines day but i got him somthing should i give it to him?
112129
yeh give to recieve like me l got a Valentine's card n present n l'm gonna give the person who gave me one their card
906347
well...why not u make something by ur own with all ur heart and give him that as a christmast present...it is cost saving as u are only 14..and it is specially from ur heart...it is meaningful..
730264
Well let me say that the jersey thing was a great idea.  But maybe if he's such a big baseball fan, you could get him stuff from the college that he is going to play baseball at.  Or if you guys feel like you've known each other forever, get something that is relevant to your relationship.  Like for instance, something that reminds you of your first kiss, or the song that you guys had your first slow dance to.  But since his christmas gift was such a big deal and was more of a materialistic gift, his birthday prensent (since its like a week after!) should be something meaningful.\n\nGood Luck!
945286
Give him a new gift, but something small.  Maybe about $5 worth from the dollar store, but make it the good stuff.  Don't stoop to his level, at least he got you a gift.  It's not that big of a deal.
39887
get something nice, we dont care.honestly, you could probably get him a candy bar and he would be happy.maybe something thats kind of an inside joke between the 2 of you.ya know?guys dont really care.if he is nice, he will care much more about what he gets you.
1005871
You could buy him something that you KNOW he loves, like think: what sports does he play?  Put creativity into it, and guys always love something you put your heart into.  You could get him something that you know he will use and love... Or you could buy him tickets to some concert, or chocolate... The possibilities are endless!
745469
If you are going to give a gift card - make it a game for him to find it so that the gift IS personal.\n\nI made up computer generated "coupons" for all sorts of services (including adult content things) and left post-it notes all over the house telling him where to go next like a scavenger hunt...sometimes he got "favors", sometimes there were silly things like a Snickers bar or a bottle of wine...when he finally got to the end of the trip, he found the card inside a pair of underwear (that I was wearing) that said "both of these are for you"...\n\nIt was fun and he has asked me for a gift card again!!!
942486
Yes.  A little gift wouldn't hurt.  Nothing too big though, just in case he doesnt get anything for you, you don't want him to feel bad.  I reccomend a funny little gift that relates to a little joke or funny event that the two of you have shared in the past month.  If you can't think of anything, always go to something that will make him laugh a little.
20457
Have you thought of maybe getting him a video game? He might be the kind of person who doesn't care what he get's as long as it comes from the heart, in that case, get him what you thing he would like.
926618
He doesn't have everything.  He just has more than what you have and has acheived that through diligence and hard work.\n\nThe best way to get him a gift is to ask him what he'd like that he doesn't have.
911312
Well, it sounds like maybe he needs a little prodding...maybe you should get him a gift that signifies something meaningful to the two of u, and then plan a night that he wont soon forget.
40807
Guys dont really like Much for valentines i say get him a small card or somthing and not go over board and give him a teddy bear and stuff .... last thing i would want is to carry one around work/school
1092590
Girl, come on!!!  Even though you havent been together for long...accept the gift.  If it is sweet and thoughtful and you truely like it, say thank you with a kiss. And maybe in a couple of weeks get him a little something like a card or something he has talked about for a while... if its within your budget!!  Its been my experience also that guys like it when a girl offers to pay for dinner sometimes...NOT ALL THE TIME... so dont spoil him!!!  But if he says thanks for dinner, say thanks for the gift!!  But...wait to see if he really did get you something, and dont ask him! Friends can start rumors...
899578
Your explanation is very poorly explained & spelled.  Maybe he doesn't want you to have those things, & that is okay.  Digital cameras are very expensive.  Why do you think that he has to give you something?  I do hope that he at least acknowledged your day.  I suggest that you just get over it.  Tell him how you feel, & do it nicely.
876560
u should get him something that says alot, like if he metioned liking something (and it didn't seem important at the time...) get that. or get him something of his fave group, music, animal, etc...\n\nthat is what i'm doing for my bf. he likes snakes, so i'm getting him a beanie baby of a snake, and spraying it with my vanilla body spritz, cuz he likes the smell of it.\n\nit is little things like that, that says alot!\ngood luck
827414
Be honest witn your boyfriend. It was very sweet of him to get you a promise ring, but accidents to happen. If he loves you, then he may be a little disappointed but it will be ok.\n\nMention to him that you found one just like it online and that you would like to get it. If he offers to get it for you, then let him. You can do something special for him in return. And if he's ok with the idea but doesn't offer to buy it for you, then go ahead and get it. \n\nHopefully it will eventually turn up somewhere. But if you try to secretly replace it and it turns up after that, you would have some explaining to do. - Just tell him what's going on.\n\nDo the two of you live together and use the same car? Could it have gotten lost at his place or in his car where you wouldn't have found it?
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I think it depends on the relationship you have.  If you think he would like that, I think it would be nice.  Besides, remember that the point in giving a gift is not the gift by itself, but the act of giving it, the gift is a means by which you say "I care about you, I think of you and I want you to remember me".\n\nGood luck!