How can an overweight  13 year old girl find a boyfriend?
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I've met a lot of beautiful ladies that have packed on a few extra pounds - but the part that made them beautiful was their confident attitudes and cheery/open disposition.  \n\nIf you can lose the weight - GREAT!  If you can't, that's OK too.  Just remember - confident attitude and high self-esteem so that guys that you choose to date aren't out for just one thing and then try to brag about it to their friends.\n\nGood luck!\n\nP.S. 13 isn't too young to date, but it is too young for 'intimate' activities - just a personal opinion.
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i would suggest trying to find someone your same age, of similar weight and who has some similar interests.  from experience, it really helps.\n\ni've struggled with my weight all of my life so i really wish you luck.
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Make daily exercise an activity you do with your boyfriend.  Go on a long, brisk walk, or even a jog.  Maybe head to your local gym and have a joint work-out session.\n\nAsk him to help remind you not to eat quite so much (if you really are eating more than you need to be).  I'm sure he'd be willing to help out.\n\nAbout being afraid that he'll leave you... you shouldn't even worry about it!  If he's a decent guy and really likes you, he won't care what you look like and he CERTAINLY won't be embarrassed to be with you in public.  If he leaves you, he wasn't worth having.  I know this sounds cliche, but it's cliche because it's so true.\n\nDon't get all gung-ho about this losing weight thing before checking out what your ideal healthy weight for your height is.  Once you find out, set that as a limit and DON'T go under that weight.  You don't want to start a neverending chain... sadly that happens to way too many people.\n\nGood luck!
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My Sweetie Pai!!\n\nDo not let anybody change you not for ANY reason, if u are happy with your body then stay that way,\n\n you know what!! GOD knew what he was doing when he created different people with different shape so that we can pick and choose, if he is looking for a thin girl he must go and find himself one.\n\nJust remember that in life we will always meet people who will try to change us just because we love them and we must learn to take a stand on those people cause they will end up destroying us and we end-up with a low confidence and probably low self esteem.\n\ni cannot tell u what to do BUT i can suggest that talk to your boyfriend and try to stand up to him and explain that u are unable to meet his expectations due to the fact that u are very much happy with the way u look and u are not ready for a new change!!\n\ni hope this little advice will be of help to u.\nMay God help u to make the right decision.
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Just be yourself. Guys your age just see sex all around them, so be careful. Don't try to change for anyone, but be more sociable. 13 is quite a small age to have a boyfriend in the true sense of the word.
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Ask yourself if you really want to date someone who doesn't like you the way you are.  Better to find someone who loves you even if you think you are overweight.\n\nOr you can lose weight, but do it because you want to feel better for yourself, not because some dumb guy expects it.
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There will be many boys in your future.  13 years old is to young to date.  Most relationships don't last in the teenage years.  Do you want to become a statistic?
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I agree with the first post. Your only 13 yrs old. You have plenty of time to get boyfriends. Trust me you will be glad you waited.
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You should report the previous answer as abuse. It's clearly advertising for another website. \n\nAs for having meat on your bones, any mature guy likes a girl with a little bit of an ass.  However, if you're overweight in an unhealthy manner, that's unattractive.  You're 13, and guys your age don't know WHAT they want.  They're all still trying to figure everything out.  Half of them probably aren't sure of their sexual orientation yet.  At your age, pretty much all guys are incredibly awkward in every way possible.  They need some time to grow up.\n\nI know I'm not in the age group you're meaning to ask, but I'm a 20 year old guy who's been through that age, and remembers exactly what it was like.
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Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
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Just be your sweet self and you will find a guy who will like you for you. Don't ever try to be what he wants you to be... be who you are. If he cannot like you for you, then you don't need him. That's great that you have lost the weight, now you just need to find your self esteem. Join clubs, go out with your friends, volunteer - just get out there and meet new people and don't worry about finding The One. It always happens when you don't look.
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Goodness!!!  NO!!  I'm 36, I used to weigh 140 (down to 132) and even though I wasn't comfortable (weighing 110 all my life), I hardly felt I was fat!  And plus, you have an inch in height on me!\n\nSweety, you are ONLY 13.  A lot of girls seem to put on a little weight around that age, and then blossom when they get to be about 15-16.  \n\nIf you are uncomfortable, speak to your doctor about losing weight, but do not try to deal with it by yourself!  Take up some gymnastics or dance.  It will make you feel better.
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that is a PERFECT weight. Keep swimming or playing soccer or whatever. and also eating right. Keep yourself fit over the next 5 or 6 years and you will turn ALOT of heads. Some girls would KILL to have your height. (In fact, at 13 alot of guys might be jealous of that height too!)\n\nKeep it up, you're doing it right!
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hedzzzindahouse is right to an extent, I'm almost underweight and healthy but I think (most of the time) fat or overweight girls are more nice than skinny so most of the time I look for overweight people to date, most really skinny people think there "all-that", so I go for the other people, not necessarily "fat" girls, but not really skinny either (im not talking bad about skinny people , since, i am one, but alot of them ARE stuck-up, that Ive seen) but, just for the record, im not one of the ones who stuck-up.
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Your local police station will have a booklet on how to propose to 13 year old girls. Go and ask for it, it's free!
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Get another one!, I am also 13 lol, Ok, seriously, try choosing the one you like the most and break up with the others, otherwise, you'll end up with no girlfriends
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I don't judge people by the way they look. A person being overweight would not make me not be attracted to him. If he is still able to get around and is active than it wouldn't be a problem for me. He would need to have a good personality, be kind, funny and nice. He would also have to have self respect and be respectful to others. Those are the things that are the most important.\n\n@--->---