there is this guy in my flat who is ok with everyone else but pretends he cant see me what could be wrong?
113581
He is crazy about you.  He thinks you are the hottest chick he has ever seen and if you catch him checking you out he will go dive off the roof.  serious\n\nBe bold.  Stop him or something.  Dis him, "accidentally" touch him.  Ask him to change your lightbulb.  Maybe he just needs a little encouragement from you.
539487
all you can do is talk to him. If you don't know why he is moody then you obviously havent talked to him. Noone but him can tell you what the problem is.
921984
Maybe he's trying to make you jealous.\nIn that case, go out, have fun, and act single. Start thinking of you, what you would like to do--hobbies, clubbing, exc. If he is really trying to make you feel jealous it'll bug him, espeically if you \nare seeing someone else too. From his reaction at least you can find out what he really feels. If he really cares or if he's just playing around.
354797
Don't confront him,he might be dangerous.You need to call the police,keep your doors locked all the time and don't go out after dark unless your w/ someone.
745325
maybe he's not looking because he feels exactly the way you do. stop the staring contest and talk to him. guys do like personality
664514
This guy sounds like he might have some issues.  He sounds like he is very possesive and he also sound like he is a cold person as he just walks away when you are crying.  Maybe he doesn't know how to handle emotions and he gets angry instead of being able to talk to you...and it sounds creepy that he is staring at you like he does..if I were you...I would beat feet girl!! Get out before he really has the chance to screw with you.
479236
Confront him! Try to get him in front of as many people as possible and ask him why he's lying about you. Say you know he must be a very insecure person that's why he always puts other people down to make himself feel better about himself. Then just walk away. He'll look a right idiot. Good luck!
218182
Sounds like he want to play around. Tell him he can have his space, but you're not going to be in it!
477103
sounds like this guy's bad news from what you've said sounds like your doing the right thing, I'd say he's jealous, he's probably thinking if he cant have you no body else can. good luck & keep up the good work as i wouldnt have any thing to do with this guy eather
515744
It all depends on the circumstances. If he is avoiding you and thats why you don't see him, then leave him...but if you don't see him due to work or school related issues, just try to work it out. You can't be mad at someone who's trying to better themselves. I think that the only way you should leave someone is if they abuse you, or if you guys no longer have feelings for each other.
788856
I would be careful with this guy. He sounds weird like he has a big secret or something. Is there a big age difference between you to? He should be telling you what to do, you are not married. Even if you were, everyone deserves some personal space. He should not be hitting you, he defiantly has a problem. Trust me it won't get better. I mean do you want to live in his secretive life forever?
266190
I think he might like you..... But he sounds like he is keeping his options open. Be up front. Say if you don't want to let me go. Then you have to be with just me. Cuz if you want to be with other people  then u must not want to be with me. Ask him how he would feel if you wanted to see or like other people.
1016565
Sounds like he's trying to push you away. Maybe he's trying to manipulate you in to kicking him out. Since he can't bring himself to do it on his own. Sorry ,but I can't see ANY reason to stay in a unsatisfying(emotional and physical) relationship.Then again maybe he has a a physical problem but the locked up laptop kinda blows that one away. Try consuling, if he's just interested in messing with your head drop him. It's not worth being unhappy year after year...
401907
i think u should be honest..tell him exactly wat u've told us..if u want even mail him this question..show him how much u care for him..that u want others help in order not to hurt him..don't accuse him just ask him if he's happy where he's staying..no one reacts well wen being accused or screamed at..try to remember that..hope he opens his eyes to wats happening..take care
695119
Sounds like he may be very unconfident in himself, making sure your not sneaking around behind his back, some men are just naturally like that, may not be obbsession could just be jealousy, and hes worried about losing you.
474435
possibly he is too shy to look at you?
425960
he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.