fight hard or fight silently?
101957
You can't change the kind of person you are.  Clearly your beliefs are strong to you, and it matters to you that others see things your way.  If you fee bad about blowing up at people, then try to talk slower, take deep breaths, and count to 10 when you start to feel it coming.  Sometimes you can catch more flies with honey you know.
448431
I really think u shouldn't be so hard on yourself,you win some and you lose some haven't you heard that saying!I'm pretty sure that tyson,ali and all of them have been down before,sometimes things like this are going to happen but it's what you do after the storm...do you keep fighting to become the best? Or do you back out and quit forever?so what if it was the begining of the first round!fight him again,and again or someone eles untill they get the goddam point!!I know it feels bad to lose but you shouldn't throw away something thats given you so many opportunites,don't be afraid to go back into that gym,even if you know the people there saw what happened "who cares"everyone goes through that sometimes,but like i said its what you do after the storm.good luck
747240
Only if you are attacked, attack back. Do not start it.\nBut if you are...\nDont be predictable. Be shifty, quick and when you strike, do it with everything, do not hold back. Aim for the throat, Eyes, or solar-plexes. \nAlso...be ready to take hits...expect them and they will hurt less.\n\nBut...if you can avoid the fight...it would help.\n\nI am not trying to preach, but the bible says it right when it says "it is better to be a live dog then a dead lion". Meaning, it may be better to run and live then fight and die.\n\nThink about it...
745818
Why, trying to socialize yourself into feelings? If you don't feel anything - then don't, easier to breathe. I remember once I had a Canadian opening in taekwondo... Couldn't sleep almost all night before it, could barely stand in the ring. So, if you can, forget about what you're suppose to feel and get distracted or something, take your mind off of it if you think you're ready. Or practice if you're not. But it'd suggest the first one either way.
1185701
Just because we are part of the universe doesn't mean we don't sometimes have to choose to fight.  Although, when the option to avoid a fight is available, it's often the best option.  But the universe is filled with both good and bad, and sometimes you have to fight the bad.
199732
it is up to you.  the question is, Do You care?  sounds like you do care, but really don't want to.  it is a natural drive in humans to over come obstacles and compete with others.
706844
lean to the left,\nlean to the right\nstand up sitdown\nfight fight fight
718076
Yes, you did the right thing. You may not feel very proud of yourself right now, but be assured, that many people ARE! It takes a bigger, smarter, more mature person to not fight when someone is taunting you, than to fight. YOU RULE!!!!
108132
I would probably want myself to be a lot less quiet. I have probably missed out on countless friendships, relationships, etc. just because I can't summon up the strength to do so. Plus, I don't usually feel very compelled to speak. I have been getting better at making conversation with people lately, but I'm still very quiet in general...
140451
After a fight it is so hard to start talking again. { the stupid who gives in first ). The most important part is admitting guilt! Whichever party it is - be honest and open but talk..talk...talk.  Solving problems together creates the strongest unity.
861997
fight back with everything i have......i wouldnt last long in jail cuz i have too much pride......id be fighting every day....never would be a b*tch.........fight fight fight til the death....if i die, then i die......at least id die as a man.....
344204
you have to love your self and have a piece of mind. verbal and or physical abuse is not good at all. Many people can tell you to leave but I feel that it is up to you when your really, really tired, you'll go with no hesitation. If not, you will suffer the consequences.
124471
no,but media has military scared to fight a war the only true way,without rules.just like a street fight if you fall,i will kick you,not let you get up,and give you a second chance to get in a lucky hit. will not stop until i am sure you are done with any thoughts of continuing the fight.sorry but thats how you win a street fight.
262339
I just jump a bit. I don't generally scream at all. (Don't hold me to that in case something really really bad happens though!) I have friends that were in Viet Nam and Iraq and they are definitely Combat Ready....even when it has been a long time. I think that is very normal!
1027608
only the weak would take the easy way out. don't  give up to the night, don't  give up without a fight.
647733
No. Fighting never really solves anything. The only reason to fight is for self defense.
979499
Pick and choose your battles wisely.  Stand up for yourself if it is something you really believe in.  Otherwise, if it's something he really believes in, listen, be understanding, and just let it be.  It's not worth the aggravation to always argue or that you always have to win.  I think its really important to only argue when absolutely necessary.  If you are not wanting to get into a fight; let him know, and stop the conversation.  Sometimes, later I'll even get an apology for it.  I just don't make a big deal out of it.  They appreciate that.