what is real love? how can define that?
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Love is an effervescent feeling that seems to escape definition. You'll never be able to define love by looking it up in a dictionary, so here are some better ways to articulate what love is. \n\nSteps \nBe aware during those moments when you feel love towards anyone or anything. \nCapture that feeling with metaphors, and string them all together into a poem. \nPut your description of love to a melody and write a song. \nFind objects that symbolize your love (rings and roses are classic examples) and give them to whomever you love. \n\n\n\nTips \nFor inspiration, read Elizabeth Barrett Browning's famous poem, "How Do I Love Thee," which you can read here. \nIf you feel the flutter of butterflies in your stomach, Cupid has probably shot you with his arrow.
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Wow, this is a hard one! Love is putting that persons needs ahead of yours! Love is feeling something so deep in your heart, that you are about to burst! Love is missing a smell, a look , a touch and never being able to replace it. Love is holding your grandchild for the first time. Love is crying when your child goes to school the first day and leaves you.Love is your cat sitting on your lap and purring so contently. Love is opening your heart to all the possibilities of another human being touching your life in even the smallest way. Love is giving with no expectations. Love is painful and lonely. Love is full of laughter and joy! Love is life and without it, nothing is worth living!
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True love? As opposed to false love? It's just love sugar...there are many kinds but if you feel it, then it's true so no need to call it anything other than love...\n\nBeing in love is romantic love toward someone...love, is what you feel for your family or your friends...\n\nI've absolutely experienced it...and hope to do so again!
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I don't think that is true love. True love is mutial between you and him. How do you feel about him? True love really is a very very deep emotion and usually very complicated. How do you feel about him? That's the question.
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I agree with you there is nothing call True Love or False Love! The only thing is we are in Love are we are not in Love.\nBut still we find lot of people taking in terms of True and False love. Generally what they mean by True Love is they are in Love. and Fase Love to be cheating some one.\nFalse Love is suppose to be a sugar coated sweet way of saying Iam Cheating.\nHope this answers your Question.
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REAL TRUE LOVE. THAT OF A PARENT FOR THEIR CHILDREN. THE KIND GOD HAS FOR YOU.
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There is no such thing as real love. Because love is there if you work on it. If you love with pure heart thats real love for you.
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love is an inner soul feeling about a person,whom u feel is best n with whom u can spend ur life,yes there r love at first site coz a person is always thinking of a partner who is best in all n any person whom we interact first time acts same as we thought in our minds then we fall in love with him/her the very first time.n true love never fails thats my challenge!
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Yes, love is real.The fact is its hard to find and those who search of it never find it...
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Love is what you make of it.  The definition you've given about having a higher concern for another without regards to oneself, to me that is love.  Actually there's more to it than that, but then again not everything can be expressed verbally now can it?
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True Love, is perfect love.  It's what the Greeks defined as Agape and the Italians as 'sincere Amore.'  It is Love that does one never has to question.  Love that will sacrifice for another's happiness.  True Love is pure, kind, honest, and everlasting.  It retains hopes and can endure all things.  \n\nIt does exist; yes it seems to be rare. And being able to have this Love for another is a gift, but it can also be very difficult. The self sacrificing nature of Love can lead one to feeling foolish from time to time, especially when there is no love (True Love or otherwise) received in return. Still it's an amazing feeling to have.
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Those aren't all the same thing.\n\nTruth and love stand alone, together, as part of the absolute.  They are real.\n\nPeace and bliss are states of being, and/or states of mind. They are relative, and are thus not real.\n\nBrahman is an aspect of Truth and of Love, together with it's complement.  It is an expression of that which is real.\n\nAnd reality is pure perception, so it really doesn't exist, because it's relative.\n\nWe seek these types of things because our essence is the same as their essence.  Our thoughts and perceptions move us in tangents away from our source, but our innate connection to that source always brings us back.
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True love? or a lustful kind of love?  There is a difference.\n\nTrue love?  The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love.  No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person.  And you can feel it in thier eyes.  As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, "I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire  you".  True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return.  It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you.  You will know it.\n\nLustful kind of love is much different.  Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them.  Its a false true love.
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When you find true love.Hmm love is something really unexplainable.its a feeling that we feel when we want t love another person. its beyond all our control we cannot explain it. its what makes us human.When you meet ther person for youj then you will realise what love is really about.\n\n\nTrue love? or a lustful kind of love? There is a difference.\n\nTrue love? The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love. No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person. And you can feel it in thier eyes. As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, "I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire you". True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return. It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you. You will know it.\n\nLustful kind of love is much different. Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them. Its a false true love.\n\nYou will feel love for him in time.\nThat love is connection.,YOu can tell him by passing him notes.or leaving him a message.! take it slowly my friend.do that if you are shy.talk to him ,call him,,,relate your feelings towards him.he will start to understand and like you.\n\nremember\n\nBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder
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Based on what I think love is ... I think it's a connection between both.\n\nTrue Love ....\n\nIt's as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. It is everything it's hyped about to be. It's worth taking every risk, it's worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don't risk all then you risk even more. Love is kind of an elixir that lures us out of reality and into the realm of fantasy. It's like a drug creating an altered state of consciousness.\n\nLove is the moment when an unfavorable act becomes favorable, when you make excuses for some one else's mistakes, when you learn to tolerate, when you learn acceptance, when sacrificing becomes the beauty of life. \n\nIt's the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe its unspeakable.\n\nIt's the time when seeing some one, being seen by some one and thinking about some one feels good, when you learn to find happiness in the smallest of moments.\n\nThat's love--when you learn to put down your ego and love some one more than that.\n\nLove is forgetting your self and remembering some one else. \n\nLove is choosing your partner exactly as he is, and supporting him in his choices. It's honoring your partner's truth and wanting best for him.\n\nIt's not controlling or possessing but rather respecting and trusting.\n\nIt does not mean owning some one, getting some one, rather it means being happy in your loved one's happiness.\n\nLove means living without judgments. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking him for granted. \n\nLove means being able to forgive and learning to give more then you get. It means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions.\n\nIt means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the hurts and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. \n\nFalling in love is like being enveloped in a magical cloud. The air feels fresher, the flowers smell sweeter, food tastes more delectable, and the stars shine more brightly at night. You feel light and lofty as though you are floating through life, and your problems and challenges suddenly seem insignificant and easily surmountable. Your body feels alive, your skin tingles and you awaken in the morning with a smile on your face. You are suspended in a state of supreme delight.\n\nLove is a feeling and an action that arises from the most primal place within us. Making a relationship however, is a process that is learned. A relationship is the vessel that carries the precious cargo of love through time.\n\nRelationships are like a precious antique lamp; it takes a little polish and some effort to restore it to its valuable condition. A relationships love and luster will only improve with age if you continually give it the care that keeps it beautiful. But once you uncover its essential beauty it will bring you joy for years to come.\n\nAfter having said all this I want to say that you have to make the decision on your own, on one hand love is magic, on the other it's time tested relationship worked hard and furiously at.
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Love is hard to define. \nBut it would have to be you willing to do anything for that person.\nYou would die for them.\nThey contain soo much of your heart.\nTheir on your mind 24/7\nWhen your with them you already miss them, and when their gone, you wanna be right next to him/her forever.\n&& you catch yourself smiling for know reason when your with them.\nOr when you sitting next to him/her, && he/she looks you in the eyes, and just stares into them...Thats when you know. It's real. He's/she's real.\nLove goes in deep.\nLove can also kill a person.
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This is the defination I found out from the dictionary.\nHope this helps!\n\n\nLove\nFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia\n(Redirected from True love)\nJump to: navigation, search\nThis article is about emotions of attraction. For other uses, see Love (disambiguation). \n \nThe Chinese character for love (愛) —its parts indicating (top to bottom): That which gives breath (ie. "spirit") to the heart, with a graceful motion.\n(Rose Quong - Chinese Characters:Their Wit and Wisdom)Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.\n\nThe concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love, calling it a recently invented abstraction. Moreover, approximately 13 percent of cultures reportedly have no word for love.[1] Others maintain that love exists but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Love is one of the most common themes in art. An unfinished debate about the authenticity of love as other-regard began with Friedrich Nietzsche's charge that love is merely an ideology constructed by the weak to mask "resentment" about their lack of power. Critics of Nietzsche's view find gratuitous his assumptions that self-interest and the "will to power" overshadow all other concerns.