Why does my boyfriend make me jealous of his ex-girlfriends?
112736
He's probably very insecure and by making you jealous he's assuring himself that you care-it really sucks doesnt it? My question is: Why be jealous of his EX girlfriends-they are EXS for a reason!!
661618
Probably not.  Maybe they see the way you and your girlfriend get along (fighting all the time, verbal abuse, or maybe you have a one sided relationship).  Maybe they see how your girlfriend treats you, like you do everything for her and she has you wrapped around your finger, so they feel like she's using you.  If they were jealous then I would think that you spend a lot more time with your girlfriend and not with your friends and your relationship with your girlfriend is something they want because they see perfection.  Is this relationship something where the two of you feel inseparable and love spending time with one another?  Then maybe they could be just a little jealous, but for some reason, I feel that this may not be the case if you are asking.  They probably know more of what you don't see or notice. Others usually can observe and pick up on the wrong things when you yourself, cannot.  Usually that is the way it goes.  It's called being "Naive" to the relationship.
1162006
yeah. Its understandable though. When you feel jealous, just think that those girls were once a part of his life, you are the one who got him!!! He can't censor his life for you; when you married him you married all of him. that includes his past!
839783
Most of the are jealous and feel this is the only way they will look good in the eyes of the boy they want, to make you look bad in the eyes of your boyfriend.\n\nBut sense you tuned the dude down and you told your boyfriend he will trust you more in the future. You did the right thing there.\n\nIgnore her she is a trouble maker...
505646
Well he is infatuated with you, in one way or a next, he may become very jealous if u get a new boyfriend, and may become a stalker of sorts, the best thing to do is get a new boyfriend thats a big guy and tell hiim to deal with your ex (intimadate him a little)
284594
Its their ego being hurt when they see that their ex can be happy with another man!\n\nI won't allow my ex to have anything to do with my newfound love. I won't accept the reasoning that he is JUST CONCERNED because if he is concerned at all, our relationship should still be intact. Whatever I do with my life after him is none of his business anymore.\n\nJust the same if I see him happy with another woman, I will respect that. PERIOD.
493403
Yes, I think she is or at least was. Any girl would be jealous of her ex dating someone right after a break up. You always thought they could only love you. A sad & cruel joke....
108970
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
1118733
jealousy is a sign of insecurity.....work on yourself first............
1096043
Stop accepting gifts from your ex-boyfriend and apologize to your boyfriend.  Because your ex-boyfriend is an ex, it's best if you don't remain friends with him.  He's buying you stuff, so he probably still has feelings for you.  However, you're with a new boyfriend now, and you should value him more than your ex.  Your boyfriend has a right to be jealous and angry that behind his back, your ex is trying to get with you again.  Tell your ex that you don't want to have a relationship with him if you want your current relationship to last.
842167
I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!
827663
I would also feel very insecure about this situation. the only thing you can do is be aware of it.  The fact that they dated could either be a good or bad thing.  He could still be holding a torch for her, or it could be that it just didn't work out romantically for them.  I wouldn't quiz him too much on it just keep an eye on what he is doing and when and what he is telling you.  If it makes you feel unstable in your relationship then I think you should tell him how you feel without making it sound like you are jealous.  Tell him how it is - its your ex, but you don't tell me that you are seeng her.  I feel like you are hiding something, even though i know aren't.  if he is hiding something there's no guarantee you will find out, but if that's the case and you can't trust him, there's no relationship.
471856
I get it, you found out that your boyfriend actually has other girlfriends other than you, am I right?  Listen, this man doesn't appreciate the feelings of women, especially yours.  You are a special woman who just wants to find your true love, and if he is playing with other girls along with being with you- he's not the one you want.  Believe me, it's not about being his number one in a relationship, but his ONLY one. Suggestion to you: get rid of him and tell his other girls about his ten-timing.  It will be painful and though it's hard to believe, there are actually men beside him who don't act like disloyal jerks.
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
335384
Sometimes I get that way with my boyfriend too but what helps me is that every time I am with him he will out of no where tell me that he is so happy to be with me and that he wouldn't know what do to with out me. You should start doing that, she might still get jealous (cause that's what women do) but she will trust you more
338585
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
1054581
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry