I want to kiss my girlfriend but afraid we might transmit disease etc. what can you rekon?
108524
Thats good that you are being careful but if you are worried you are going to catch a disease just by kissing your girlfriend....then i think you need a new girlfriend.
1068242
Check with your doctor on this matter. I think that as long as you don't exhibit outer symptoms, it is safe to have sex. This is only an opinion from a layman's viewpoint.
547565
Yes you can. Make sure that you don't touch your b/f if you have one or anywhere around his area. I get cold sores all the time. My doctor told me not to do any oral sex with my b/f because he may catch herpies. be careful they are contagious and other people can catch it ( drinking from the same cup, kissing, touching it)
352394
As you are the girl its easier, wait for him to make the move. Get close to him and get warm, and the when its the time he will do it. And for you its not necessary to use the tongues, he will get his one in yours all you have to do is to respond properly.\n\nAnother thing that I should mention here, that there are a lots of medical problems that can be transfered by kissing. Let your parents know about what you are going to do and with whom.
467787
yeah why not. go to a g/f & get a sexually transmitted disease from her. Then go home & pass it on to your wife.\nPerfect life innit?\n\nget a life a@@hole.
572483
Just do it. Kissing is such a innocent gesture. So sweet and gentle..just get some guts.
717680
she's your girlfriend and she wont kiss you? umm ok thats a new one.. in any event you can't make her kiss you.. you could be the pope.. if she dosen't want to kiss you you can't make her so just accept it
265691
yes!!any bodily fluids or skin contact can cause you to be infected especially if your partner is
112160
Never say never when it comes to diseases, but you shouldn't have to worry about most STDs if neither one of you is currently infected.  STD stands for 'sexually TRANSMITTED disease'.  This means the virus or bacteria depends on the conditions present during sex to spread.\n\nIn a case like herpes simplex 2, the partner with the infection would have days when contact would be more dangerous.  The open sores on a penis would come into contact with the lining of the vagina and the virus would eventually work its way to her bloodstream.  No sexual contact, no problem.\n\nAll you can do is stay hygienic and know where your partner has been.  If in doubt, insist on condoms.
973674
You can easily get an STD from oral sex--like herpes, AIDS/HIV... Use flavored condoms or if you are in a monogamous relationship you should both be tested before going without.
796316
Maybe tell him you have to forgo kissing for awhile until the infection in your gums heal.  You're only thinking of him; you'd hate to see him get this disease also!  Tell him you'll let him know when it is safe to kiss again.\n\nGood luck!
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
584147
It won't hurt your organs. It may be painful for her, but if you are tender and careful, this will be minimized. Choose a moment where you are both relaxed, and you have no worries, or other things to do. Remember to be careful and cautious always use a condom, unless you have both been tested for diseases and want to have a baby.
744606
you can kiss your girlfriend...but there are kisses and then there are kisses....if its a peck thats fine....but anything more than that i would too would wonder if you dont share more feelings for each other, other than friendship
189742
Enjoy life while I am still alive. Pray that I didn't infect the girl that I love or any other girl I have ever been with.
533164
Yes there is a possibility but it is very small becuase you can not tranmit hiv through saliva so the first thing that wouldneed to happen for you to get infected is that she would have to have an open wound infection or cut of any kind in her mouth there are however several other stds that are easy to transmit through oral sex so it is allways a good idea to use a condom
1039132
You sound so scared so lets see if we cant help you a little, first dont panic i know but please this makes you ill and your sytoms worse which may well be the case right now.The truth is the risk of aids  is low and the only way to know is a test. Yes scary but it will put an end to all of this. In your phone book there will be a number of a clinic the nhs is your in the uk has private test centres within the hospital they have councilors who can talk to you can tell you of the risks. And help you deal with what is happening and how you feel, it will help. While at the clinic they will also run other test at the same time so then you will know for sure. At this point i will tell you that if you have std it can and will be treated it is not the end of the world, just a huge learning curve for you. Also remember having a cold or flu does not mean that you are ill with anything else, it may of just knocked you side ways and took alittle longer to run its course and you were travelling as well, so your body have of slowed down. There is only one thing to do and that is call your hospital, no one has to know and you dont even have to be called your real name when you get there and no one has to know, but you need to go and get checked out. Remember it may be nothing, it does not sound like hiv or aids, the chances are so so remote and if its std you can be treated. Take care and good luck.