why is it bad for a14 years old to have a boyfriends or girlfriends?
114486
It isn't. The important thing is not to get too wrapped up in any one thing, whether that's a boyfriend or a hobby or anything else.
311686
Mad props to you!!!!  You're more mature than most girls your age.  Teenage girls are notoriously insecure and petty, so many of them feel they need a boyfriend.  Pathetic, really.  You can have fun (sometimes more fun) without a boyfriend!  So they way you feel isn't a big deal.  And I've met a lot of girls who didn't really date until they were in their 20's.  A lot of them wanted to focus on their school work and their friendships in high school.  So hey, if you're happy without a boyfriend, you're better off than most girls your age.  You're happy with yourself.  Celebrate it and be proud of it.  And some day, a guy will love you for that.
199311
I think that, that is too young. Yes you could of had one in kindergarden, but that meant nothing. You should at least wait until your in 10th grade to start worring about a boyfriend.
137229
having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
167549
It stinks if you don't have a boyfriend! Go find one, girlie! Good luck!
49966
Same here I personally didn't but I have friends who started dating at 14 and we are all 32 now and they have been together since then.  They are now married and have one daughter and two years ago they lost a 2-year-old boy to a terrible accident.  They have been through a lot and have stayed together all this time.
707567
is english your second language? and why are you asking this in the gay/lesbian section? do you mean those type of boy/girl- friends?\n\nmost people don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend because they are losers and are socially inept.
496699
i totally get you, i'm 19 and i've never had a boyfriend but my brother who is 17 has had a girlfriend and i'm pretty sure my younger sister will have her first bf before me. it sucks being the oldest.
348262
Ummmmm.......If I am 18 and don't have a girlfriend, do I worry? No. You are still young and I think there is a lot of singles out there waiting to be your boyfriend.
989469
not at all, i didn't have my first bf until i was 16, and i thought i was completely weird because of that.  but, in reality, it made me closer to my friends, and i had a great time.  you can have fun with or without a bf, and you definitely don't need one to make you happy.  so just go out and have fun with your friends, don't worry about guys yet.
384015
I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
720411
Nothing wrong with that at all. People start dating at all different kinds of times. You shouldn't just wnat a boyfriend for the sake of having one, you should wnat to be with someone you love and loves you in return. Not everybody ahs a boyfriend, and there is no rush to get one if you aren't quite ready. Just do what feels right. Good luck! :]
976335
I wish my parents would let me have a boyfriend. Im almost 15 and they wont let me. It's not like i'd be stupid and have sex with him or anything like that. I've already had a "boyfriend" but we could never go anywhere because I had to keep it a secret from my parents or they'd practically shoot me. Ughh, this bugs me so much. >:(
891444
i'm not a guy but i'm 14 years old and i can tell you that i have seen many relationships of kids my age go bad becuase the guy wasn't getting any.  its pretty pathetic.
1153713
my boyfriend is 6 years younger than me, my granny was 11 years older than my grandfather, nothing wrong with that.\n\nAs your friend's g/F's are all under the legal age of consent, as long as they are not having sexual relations with them as that is illegal and they could be charged with statutory rape and be put on the nation sex register of paedophiles
263354
It depends on your age.  Teenaged boys or very young men are not usually looking for their life partner, they are looking for experience.  I had a lot of this problem as a teenager/young woman also.  It is not your fault that young men do not know how to behave, especially when they already have a girlfriend.  You just have to tell them, "Just because you don't have any loyalty to SoandSo, doesn't mean I walk all over my friends."  And if they are nasty, you could add, "Besides even if I didn't care, you would be the last man I'd consider."  Some young women exude a confidence and a sexiness that just cannot be helped.  It isn't your fault that these boys don't know how to control their mouths or libidos.