Is the guy who wants a wife and a girlfriend retarded? Does he feel any shame?
107726
Retarded no, unfair yes. What goes around comes back around three times fold, thats the saying. If someone still wants to have a girlfriend then don't marry. Why make the lives of three people miserable? If he doesn't feel shame then he feels guilt and then that turns into anger which then works out to being a womans fault. The choices we make don't just effect us now but, will effect us in future choices.
107810
Are you noticing a pattern here? All the people answering this question are women!\n\nI especially like the one who says…”Why do you care? If you love your wife and enjoy her pants area, don’t worry about it.”\n\nThe reason he cares is because he didn’t sign up to be married to some bovine beast in a sack dress. Do you really think he is “enjoying her pants area” if she has eaten her self to the size of the Goodyear blimp? \n\nWhy shouldn’t this hag make the effort to be at the same weight she was when she got married? Why do women think that once they snag some poor slob they can just start pounding ice cream down their gullet, slathering their meals with gravy, and dress in nothing but moo-moos? There is a reason that hideous sack is called a moo-moo ya know….it’s because it’s the same sound a cow makes!\n\nA couple of people pointed out that black has a “slimming effect". NONSENSE! The only thing that has a slimming effect is pushing your self away from the dinner table before you’ve stuffed your gut to the breaking point.\n\nBottom line here pal, if your wife is asking you if she looks fat, THEN SHE IS FAT!  And the next time she asks you if something she is wearing makes her look fat, tell her to shut her festering pie hole and get on the treadmill!
892559
Wow!    A man that is funny gets the girl? \nThanks for this little secrete..  I shall cancel my sex change operation and rip off my rainbow bumper sticker..\nDo you suggest renting allot of Tom Hank movies and taking notes?
516220
yeah, if he's married then it's probably because he values his wife and doesn't want to jeapardize the marriage.\n\nhe may be one of the good ones, but sorry hun - he's taken.
1011817
I AM THE DECIDER does not give an informed opinion, how would a virgin (at least with a female) know anything about this!\n\nHe thinks he has a girl friend, but actually since she is repulsed by him, she is not giving it up, so he is used to being in a sexless relationship!
863353
He is a normal guy.....just girl crazy
877915
No he doesn't want a girlfriend sorry to be honest, but he is \nnot acting normal..at all.
405197
in my eyes a bloke that does this to his woman is showing he doesnt have much respect for her and is degrading her
217184
western men are so wierd (you are definitely one)....how can a man accept the fact that his wife cheats on him ? accept, feels sad and even tries to get her back...this is way beyond me !!!!! God.....
845256
Ask yourself - do you really want be with such a wimp of a man?? Someone who is so shallow that he'd give up his girlfriend because his dad said he can't date you??? And what sort of a father makes a guy choose between his girl and a love of football ?? Sounds like a disfunctional family to me and you are so much better than that - don't pine for him love, feel sorry for him !!!!!!!!!!!!! Be lucky xx
942682
I dont feel bad. They probably make their wives mad on purpose so they get divorced and like half of their money. Jerks, smart, but still jerks.
656276
If he is the one who thinks it's wrong. He's an idiot. Sorry,but any man who cannot show affection to the woman he's supposed to be in love with is either insecure, selfish,or an idiot. You will have to decide which of these choices he is, but he's one of them I guarantee it.
471463
If you get with this guy, I'm afraid he will disappoint you. How can you feel comfortable with someone who obviously has lied to you, do not respect his vows, turning his back on his kids, and deny or acknowledge his children's existence to you? What he is doing to wife, he is going to do to you once he gets bored. People show us who they truly are and sometimes we dismiss it because of the false picture of them or we depend too much for a guy to make us happy instead of making ourselves happy. You need to work on your self esteem if you think this is and will lead to a good relationship. You are worth more than being deceived and second choice.
781668
what's it like being retarded?\n\ni mean, do you know you are retarded and think "oh man this sucks, i wish i was normal so i could get chicks and stuff" or are you blissfully unaware?\n\njust wonderin'
415807
There is no such thing as a stupid question. But, I feel like laughing a some of the ignorance shown in this room.\n"cheated on my wife how do I make her love me again?" that one brings the smart elik out in me every time.
836148
sounds to me he is a retard and let his friends tell him what to do. he should of been happy as hell and don't worry what other people think.
538679
He's full of himself. He figures why bother shaving if he can go outside and probably get 500 girls to sleep with him if he wanted.\nI think he's dorky and a dumbass.