how do older men get back in to dating ?
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You definitely needs an older woman.  don't go looking for smoe young thing because she will only want you for your money.  Find someone that you can enjoy life with.  Because they say marry someone that loves to talk because when you get old that is all you are going to be able to do....go to cultural things....mature events.....I don't know where you are from but look in your area for activities going on.....Church is a good place to start....but your heart must be in it for true......Good Luck.....email me  seagull50@bermuda.com
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
718094
find a new BF when he becomes old you can easily find him
608998
well, as you get older, you'll find more guys that are mature. Unlike this jerk. You'll find someone better. Guys just love to flirt. same with girls. just try not to get emotionally attached everytime you spend a lot of time with guys.
1099464
well I know I am always attracted to older men. Its kinda like a he can take care of me kinda thing. Like all the guys my age are not into wanting to have a relationship but the older men are wanting to settle down and everything. so I think it might be bc they like the older men thing. but if they are still into playing games and stuff then they don't even need to be trying to date anyone but their own age.....
50755
I wish i could tap you with a magic wand and make your discouragement go away.  All of us singles experiance this frustration from time to time.  Take a mini break from the dating pool, and go for a boys night out.  When you come back refreshed, consider using a dating service, that can help you select the type of lady you're looking for.
939632
Just be yourself everywhere you go. Don't be shy...say hello to everyone. Smile! If someone smiles back or talks to you, don't be afraid to strike up a conversation.\n\nYou can do this at church or at the store...anywhere at all!\n\nAnd just because your 65 doesn't mean you have to limit yourself to women in their 60s. There are women as young as 40 willing to date a man your age...for the maturity, freindship and security as well...\n\nGood Luck
930299
If he's been divorced for 13yrs, he might be a little rusty, if he asks you out again he's interested
915432
I'm 44 and tend to date men in their late 20's to early 30's.\n\nI find that the energy of a younger man makes me feel younger and more energetic. We can also learn a lot from each other.\n\nI have encountered some narrow minds in the gay community....but that's the only issue.\n\n\nDate whomever you like. Be honest and sincere and demand the same from those around you.
211779
# 1 show her you are mature for your age, an older woman  might indeed be interested in a younger guy if he seems mature enough, #2 most women are impressed with romantic gestures, flowers etc... and genuine flattery/ compliments .. key word is genuine !show her that you  are on her intellectual level, and share some of her interests/ hobbies etc..try being friends with her first and feel out weather she would be interested in a date... even a casual one to start with..   and move in from there, good luck !
564015
is this a prom?  get another date if you can or go with a brother or cousin or your sister's boyfriend's brother.  you only get one go around so be sure you have a happy life.  \n\ndo not get stuck with a 'stick-in-the-mud' loser like i married.  there is a book that i read long ago after my divorce.  treat a man like you would a dog sometimes, and do not let him know where you are, however innocent, ALL the time. be a woman of mystery. keep him guessing what you'll do next. if he's smart he'll take notice.if not, someone else better will.\n\nmen thrive on the thrill of the chase! get you some really feminine clothes, get a manicure and a new hair-do and let him see you having fun with the girls somewhere.\n\ni don't care if im 70, men are men and they always notice girls that are knock-outs!  when he sees a big change in you, he'll be afraid he is losing you. and maybe he will if he continues to be a bore!
892098
By being straightforward.  Men in general and older men in particular are no nonsense, straightforward people.  If you want him, the way to get him is to look him straight in the eye and tell him in no uncertain terms that you like him as more than a friend, and you intend for your relationship to change to reflect that.
1042803
I was 46 when I divorced.  The first woman I dated was just being grateful for my helping her get a job.  She was 30.  I found a vast cultural gulf between us and we were unable to bridge it.  For example, the most significant even in my life was the U.S. war in Vietnam.  She was nearly as far removed from Vietnam as I was from WWII.   The war, and the war protests, were significant in forming many of my lasting attitudes about all sorts of subjects but that influence was foreign to her.  So, it is not the age difference, but the cultural difference that killed our relationship.  Little things like whether a man would wear a ball cap while sitting at a restaurant table.  Many men of my age find that incredibly rude while younger men do not.  Some feel those type of things can be overcome.  Perhaps so.  Good luck
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The first thing you need to do is feel good about yourself. Get out do some mild to moderate exercising, get your hair and nails done, etc. Pamper yourself. Men like a clean, confident, healthy looking woman. \n\nNext find a place to meet a guy...I don't suggest bars. Oddly enough my wife and I met online. (There are some real freaks online so this can be discouraging.) Get a puppy and take it to the park. Dogs are good conversation starters and you would rather meet a guy thats doing outdoors stuff than one that sits around the house all day. \n\nWhatever you do don't act desperate. Just do your thing. If you see a guy that does something for you give him the confident "hey baby" look. See if he goes for it. \n\nGood luck!!
216440
I was in love for 10 years and I'm 39 years old. I found love again but it took me awile. you will find love again if you do the following. first and the hardest you must let go of your former lover. I understand you are a widow but try not to think, talk and dream about him all the time. he's gone and he is in a better place and I'm sure he want's to see you happy again. do not compare,be open minded.take your time do not rush into anything.do not judge the person on the first date or two you may not be able to find out who that person really is. people tend to ack and be not them selfs when trying to impressed.and never ever sleep with him to soon, make him respect you first.
1185101
they only do that while they are young..but once they hit about 30 and they have had their hearts ripped out by some hot looking chic..all of a sudden they realize its not about looks anymore..its about whats on the inside..older men are more grounded unless they got married young or something and their wife got old and fat and then they hit 40 then all of a sudden they cheat on their wife with a 20 yr old...men are all very complicated...study psychology,it will help u understand the basics of human nature and why we do what we do...we are all trying to compensate for what we feel is an emptiness..whether its sex,religion,food,cars,clothes or whatever...basically it boils down to we are more intelligent now and have more time on our hands and we dont have to hunt and gather anymore and run from wild animals while wearing furs or skins of animals...weve evolved and do not know how to handle all the glamour of it....but a good psychology book will help out on the boy situation...
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Definately older. As a woman ,my rule is that if they're young enough to come out of me, they aren't going in!\nI respond well, and heed advice better from an older man. if a man is my age, I feel that our levels of life experience may be the same, where an older gentleman has "Been there, done that" and has something to offer