My boyfriend of  5 years doesn't take me out. He's forgotten my birthday four times which is feb 14  stay  go
101327
he apparently dont thinkk much of you or he'd remember!!
329104
its a really tough situation. i have the same problem. If its been going on for  long time you need to meet up and put him on the spot, ask him if he loves you. he may say yes or he may say no but at least your clear on where you stand so you can get on with things. if he does say no don't do the friends thing. the ony way he'll realise he loves you is to see what his life would be like without you.
150331
Ok, it's only been a weekend and your upset? Just wait. Maybe he's playing the waiting game to see who will give up first. If a weekend turns into a month...then u know to let it go.
177650
Well, first of all he is the one who put you out.  Why should he care how you got there?  Sounds like you are on your own now.  I am so sorry you are going through someting like this.  Stay safe and keep in touch, okay?
841238
stay cool man . nothin is goin to happen with your date of birth. makin your life beautiful is in your own hands ! i wish u "ALL THE BEST"
1128178
You're passive to the point of being submissive. Stop letting him make you feel bad by his actions. If his heart isn't in the relationship by being there for you in ways that will bring you happiness then my suggestion is for you to make sure he understand exactly what you need from him in order for the relationship to work. If you can't find common ground that creates an equal and mutual happiness then what's the true point of the relationship? To not make the effort to make you special day something to remember is about as selfish and self centered as I can imagine. You deserve better and I think you know this so make changes for you own happiness. If he won't take you out for your birthday then go out with friends and celebrate without him. If you don't have anyone to go out and celebrate with then let me know and I'll go party with you and I don't even know you but it's your birthday and that's reason enough.
978478
you should congratulate yourself on your decision, and realize that it was the RIGHT one.  If he is so immature as to treat you poorly just because you didn't go out with him, then it's obvious that he would have been a bad choice for you.  He needs to grow up.
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Hi Lvy,\n    i think still ur not  accepting tht its over now , u 've some hope , m i rite ? if not , temme wats reason to remember ur past . it will effect ur coming life if ur goin to continue remembering tht person ...ya if u 've some hope and still want to continue wid him , wat ur waiting for go and tell him tht u can not live without him and ask him not to leave u ....\n   Luy u sud not love them who dun care for ur feelings and u . try to keep in mind tht its all over now and tht was ur past nuthing else .. i think ur young ....and some1 has to some in ur coming life ...think for him atleast start preparing for ur coming "SOME-ONE" . lol ...hahahah i said preparing ...i was saying tht washout ur mind and dun go after ur past .......every1 have some past and we have to forget tht ...\n   one more thing Keep Smiling .........:)\n     sorry if any of my word hurttttss
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why don't u go out with him and apologize then spend some nice romantic time with him he'll forget everything he loves isn't it.
79209
Well first offif he dont take ya to a nice place every once in a while Shame on him. But if its maybe say inbetween the days you usually go, just ask him :)
1129418
HE will not change with you. Cut the strings, you have wasted enough precious time that you will never get back. He is feeding you a line about being afraid...get going and get on with your life. Good grief, I cannot believe you hung around this long!
609109
i don't think you are being a jerk. it sounds like you need to "ease in" with the dad thing, starting with dinners and whatnot. a weekend would not be a good idea. you don't have to tell your boyfriend this, just say you can't make it this time but make plans for the next time you can see eachother.
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Be thankful that you have someone who loves you unconditionally. Stick with him and make sure you keep him happy. There is not alot like him, and it was a blessing to get him. You Go Girl after 5 years of hell you got a good man, a real one at that.
574136
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
1093303
Why can't he come and pick you up on his way home.\nOr You go to his house and wait till he gets off work so y'all can spend some time together!\n\nNot to mention there is no excuse. When my boyfriend forgets to call me when he says he will he a least calls me at night when he gets in bed and says! I forgot to call you, but I'm calling you now to tell you good-night sweet pea!\n\nHe can do better than that!\nAnd if you feel like telling him to stop telling you he's gonna call you, next time he says that say "YEAH SURE, WHAT EVER, I WON'T HOLD MY BREATH!"\n\nYour to young to be some guy walking mat already!
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Well, like any young relationship, it grows old.  You are so young.  This is not the first guy you will ever love, and you will remember him always.  \n\nIf you really want to keep this relationship alive, try talking to him.  Find out what he wants in a relationship. Tell him what you are looking for, and what your needs are. \nYou may find that your wants and needs are different than what they were when you first started going out, it may just be time to let go.\n\nYou have SO much ahead of you. If this relationship is going south, then cut if off before it goes really bad.  Just ask him simply "Do you still want to go out with me?"  Don't be confrontational, just straightforward and kind. And ask yourself the same question... do you still want to be with him?  Or are you just staying with him out of habit?\n\nGood Luck!
295955
It sounds like he's not sure if he wants to be with you, and doesn't want you to be with anyone else. I would try talking to him and say, hey, you didn't want be with me so your part in my life is over. If you're so concerned about me and who I'm dating, then maybe you shouldn't have left. It is none of his business who you are dating anymore. If you can't get him to leave you alone, tell him that if he doesn't leave you and your new man alone, that you're going to call the cops and get a restraining order. Sorry you're going through this!