some people think i am weird because i go out with alot of guys! should i take that personally?
111456
I don't think you should take that personally.\nFirst of all, it doesn't matter about what they think.\nSecond of all, maybe they are just saying that becasue they are jealous of you for being able to go out with all those guys.
402894
It's best to think they're just being friendly rather than think that everyone is flirting with you.  That way you will always act natural and be yourself and guys will love that, I think.
658314
hey.\nthis is coming from the girl side and i dont kno if this is wat ur looking for but i mean grls r private when they want to be and public when they want to b.\ni mean im lik the kinda of grl thats just lik ill go with watever, but i mean some grls just lik to flirt in public so ppl see that they r flirting with somebody and not just anybody.\ni mean i sometimes flirt but not a lot but i mean grls r just supprisingly difficult sometimes, and i mean i hav friends that r guys cuz they understand me better than grls do but i mean grls hav their oppinons and u kinda gotta let them flirt whenever where ever. its kinda a grl thing but yeah! hope u understand wat im sayin!
800346
some people are just not that interested and they don't what to hurt your feelings. We don't know the real intentions of strangers and we don't know their reasons either for their weird behavior, but I can definately relate to what you're saying. Good luck and I hope you don't let people get you down. It's not worth it! Takes too much out of you and you get nothing in return. Keep your hopes up and reach for the stars!
792823
Yes, because I'm shy too and I get it.  Alot of people don't get it and think that you have to be controlling or something if you dont have many friends or blah blah blah whatever.  Ignore all that crap and just respect and understand that whoever you go out with is probably gonna have friends that they want to hang out with as long as its people of the same sex then let her do her thing.  As for her having guy friends well people can't say you're jealous or controlling about that because most people that may criticize it feel the same way and wouldn't want there other half to be hanging out with someone of the oppisite sex... some are okay with it but honestly most aren't.  Just don't try to force them to make you the only person(friend)  in their life just because thats what they might be to you.
988093
Well if you want a date i suggest you one thing. Go and look for some other guy and go for a date with him. Let the guys in your group get jealous of you and realise that you're a gal and you've your feelings too. If they realise its well and good, if not at least you're with some other guy. Even if you're not dating anyother guy just pretend it for a while to them and be excited. Praise this imaginary guy b4 them. Create jealosy. Show some attitude. Be hard to get. Trust me you'll date anyone soon.
552787
maybe you should.  Try be a little more open to people, accepting them for who they are.  Maybe it is you - try to calm down a little?
150123
I would never do something like that. Call me strange, but I prefer to keep my modesty and dignity. I want people to respect me, not think of me as the person who exposed myself to a crowd of people.\n\n A few additional thoughts: Do you actually think your guy friends respect you because you streaked at the game? Trust me, you are the butt of jokes when they are together. You probably now have a reputation of being "easy."
632662
It's probably that the guys you hang out with consider you "one of the lads" You've been freinds with them so you're more like a sister to them than girlfriend material. \n\nYou should get to know some guys that you're not already friends with and be flirty and maybe a little bit girly too. Some guy will ask you on a date I'm sure.
631910
Thats not a bad thing. You have the right to make an informed decision on who you want to date. BUT, be honest with the guys. And try not to make them feel like  they're being played.
1013184
sure, why not. Let's put it this way.  "would you go out with a guy if he had a horrible heart but a really normal personality?"\n\nbeing 'weird' means he doesn't care what anyone else thinks about him.  He's confident with himself.  These are GOOD things!!
243629
Because you are hanging around the wrong crowds if they are that blatant... first off ask yourself where this usually happens... is it clubs and bars? why are you REALLY insistant on still going to them... if it is just to have fun... take along some friends to do the blocking for you just in case you are tempted... or simply to weed out the punks.  Simple answer... you are hanging around some real pricks if they casually ask you that... tough love answer: you are contributing to this quite possibly by putting yourself out there in some way by chance.  I can not say for sure because I do not know for sure.... but that is the most common pathology in that scenario
940055
No matter how good-looking  you are....your a friend and part of the gang so they won't pay special attention to you. The downside of hanging with an all guy crew is having to deal with their gawking. Remind yourself that you no longer count when hanging out with these guys and look for attention elsewhere.
464636
I started my job in November and was in exactly the same situation as you.  I was sort of laid back and quiet and everyone there knew each other and had like you said established camaraderie, it took about two weeks before people generally remembered my name and even would include me in conversation.  But before I knew it I was the one people centered around and was invited to go out with the "guys" afterwards only because I didn't try to throw myself on them, I let them warm up to me.  If you're not the most outgoing person then work that casual, cool and confident angle with people.  Do NOT bring doughnuts in or be cheezy about the ordeal then you're just crying for social interaction.  In a nutshell I hate to use the "cliche" be yourself...but there is much truth to that...Be yourself but do it with confidence.
1137462
You are a freak...start a trend...maybe the rest will come out of the closet...and don't be too picky-sometimes the freakiest ones aren't the finest ones!!!
1170103
lol, agree!!  I'm 15, and I dont have a bf yet, and everyone thinks there's something wrong with me!  I dress the way I want, act the way I want, and dont really "fit in" anywhere.  Good luck, dont feel like your alone, cause I know EXACTLY what you're going through.
891153
Uhh...nope...but it depends if your into girly guys..evidently you are because your dating him. stop worrying about what other people think and just have fun. your not marrying him so don't fret.