i feel he love someone else but when i stay away he always come back begging. what do i do.?
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sounds like someone that wants to have his own way. sometimes you just need to follow a gut feeling. you dont say how old you are,that makes a lot of differance.if in school then you have your whole life in front of you.if you are older like me (40) be careful/this person sounds like a user goodluck.       skulnick
583480
cos the feelings are too strong.... all u have to do is feel the person is horror himself.or think him in a bad way and u will hate him.... but i will suggest that if there is any means having that person u just have to try cos  ... its good to follow the heart he may be the one 4 u and don't just give up. but if u insist on giving up it OK.. cos if u don't give up u are only killing ur self a given passion or emotion that can never be re_given by the other.there is not determinate answer cos, he May be the one, and he may not be the one. if u can bear it wait for a time and see if things will change. but if u cannot wait then forget him and believe that, if he is for u he will come back sooner or later alone.
498995
I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
581916
Talk to him abt this . Get him help from some shrink and if he does not listen to u , it means he does not love u.\nLeave him if he does not listen to u.
588833
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby
870129
trust is hard to get back but if you just give him time clam down and chill out he will come around if he really love you ....
974410
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
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It seems that you two don't see your relationship on the same level. You're looking for some sort of attachment, or commitment maybe, and he's just looking for...fun. \nMy advice is to talk to him and try to get him on the same level, or at least let him know that you aren't on the same levels.\nBecause as of now, it seems to me that he's using you when he doesn't feel like going to other girls. \nUnless you really want to take that, I suggest you talk to him and tell him how you feel about him for one, and tell him how you feel about him going to other girls when you love him and he loves you.\nBest of luck.\nCommunication is the key.
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there is nothing wrong with you.Love is meant to be like that.Perhaps,possessiveness is the reason.it is normal and it happens with everyone, even i have suffered that and have been suffering.i call such category of people as "emotional fools", ofcourse, including myself......Now that you feel you are suffocating him and that you dont trust him at all, but cannot break it off, ONLY God can help you...so keep begging and praying to God.....you have to decide it by yourself -- to take him as your partner, although you don't trust him (which is dangerous;no doubt it will make ur life miserable)? or to let him go?...if you are sure that he is atleast partially interested in you and if he is single, you can make him urs, by constantly begging for his love..may be for 1yr more....never discourage urself in that case. If u think you want him still, contact me over email...i will to try help you.
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
755910
Have you tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Just try holding his hand when walking either by yourselves or when his mates are around, tell him you enjoy it and maybe with time he will start to enjoy it too. Does he tell you he loves you ? Maybe he is just a little immature  or shy. He should always treat you with  respect  whether people are around or not. I suggest you try talking to him and tell him it upsets you that he treats you badly when others are around. Best of luck.
435166
You sound like a girl with a lot of love to give. I suggest you give it to someone who deserves you! If you think being with someone when you're not around will make him happy, then he doesn't love you enough, sweetheart. \n\nYou need to take care of yourself and don't let him make you feel like you're not enough woman to make him happy!\nAnd if you decide to let him date another girl, I hope it's on equal grounds where you can have someone else, too.
364047
Maybe now that he has you he doesn't feel like he has to keep trying as much. You should tell him it bugs you, that you like talking to him. You could call him at night to talk, but definatly tell him that you'd like for you two to talk more.
814506
Get as far away from him as possible.  He needs to get help and is too controlling.  You deserve to have someone that makes you happy and you deserve to have a life outside of him as well.  If he cannot accept that and trust you, then there really is no relationship.
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Well, he keeps coming around because ur allowing him to, he sounds like he wants to have his cake& eat it too, I mean he's living someone who he has a child with and comes to u, tells u that he still loves and wants u.\n\nAnd I have a feeling u still want him ( even thought he has a family) with another woman.\n\nU ask if he could be in something that he can not get out of( WHAT?) he can't get out of being a father,\n\n\nOk think about this if u would\n\nUr the girl  he's living with u have a child with him, and whule ur home with the child and loving him thinking that things are good but he keeps going over to his ex telling her he stil loves her and wants to be with her and that he may have gotten into something he can't get out of.\n\n then he comes to u and tell u this( wouldn't u feel betrayed) that while u didn't know that the whole time u and ur baby was who he didn't want to be with and he rather be with his ex?\n\nIt would hurt wouldn't it? \n\nSee sometimes u have do think deep about things like tis, u have to sometimes put urself in the other persons shoes.\n\nDo u really want to be with a guy who's ready to leave his family? May be he will do the same toy u because he see something he looks at as better then he will leave u \n\nSo think about it  b 4 u make room for him to come back.
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Sounds like he is just coming back for some action because he hasn't got anything better going on at the time.\n\nThe thing about most men is that they will take it wherever they can get it.  And the more you forgive them and keep taking them back, the more they will think they can get away with.\n\nThe more often you let him come back, the more strongly he will believe that you will always be around whenever he feels like coming back to you.  If he really felt anything for you, he would stay.  You need to tell him no, or he will continue to use you like a yo-yo.\n\nForget about him and find someone who will be there for you all the time, not just when it is convenient for him.