How do I tell the boy I like that I love him without scaring him?
99653
Awwww, this is soooo cute (sorry, got carried away there).\n\nYeah, have to agree with another answerer. Get him alone, it doesn't work if his friends are there, then he has to act all tuff and cool. Get him alone, and tell him in a quiet way that you really, really like him, a lot. Ask him how he feels about you. Things have a tendency to work out fine after that.\n\nThe best of luck to you :-)
78103
Dont keep it secret anymore. Just go straight to him/her and say out that u like him/her. Nobody would feel irritated by it if you say it decently. Any girl/boy would consider it to be a pride, when somebody proposes them.
258018
hey there! i've passed through this stage too! well, it really depends on the boy. if u and the boy are just mere acquaintances, try getting to know him better by coming up or stopping by his house to chat, or maybe invite him to parties, beach and mall hang-outs...you know, things that can bring u closer.\nnow, if u are already close to each other, then maybe try at first showing sweet gestures--in short, flirting, then if he responses sweetly too, then u can go to the next move: written flirting..,, then maybe when u think it is about time and u cannot keep it any longer, u should tell him, and u might get the same response... :) gud luck!
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
108415
Well, if he didn't normally talk to you much before.\nAnd he does now.\nThat could be a sign.\nSmiling.\nWaving.\nI don't really know.\nJust talk to them.\nAnd if you want to tell him you like him.\nAnd don't want to actually say it.\nDo it in person, not on the phone or internet.\nAnd.\nWell, I took a boys cell phone and wrote on his backround.\n"I like you"\nAnd he was planning on writing it on my wall.\nSo.\nMaybe just start a converstaion and start asking random questions.\nAnd let him ask some back.\nAnd maybe just quickly say it.\nAnd if he asks "what".\nJust tell him you heard me. \nAnd it'll turn into a funny non akward situtation.\nHope I helped.
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It's not that hard, and yes it maybe obvious, but just come out and say, "Hey, you know, I really like you a lot" \nThats it, nothing complicated, just a few words.\nIt will all be in your manner of speech. Light and airy does it.
586309
Try to tell him without freaking him out.
13189
Tell him.  That is the best way.  If you are nice and don't tell him, it could be misinterpreted that you like them and are shy.
912349
first you want to tell him you love him dont kiss him yet just go in to it slow you dont want to scare him off then when you slow dance you put your hands on his sholders and expect this but he'll put his hands on you hips and then about half way say i love you but dont say it to quick just say it nice slow and sweet and then see how he reactes to it e mail me and tell me what happned
943586
Just say "I like you (insert guy's name here), and I was just wondering if you like me too?" Don't try to be fancy or anything. Just say it straight out. If you can't say it to his face, then write him a note.
941951
well i say u tell him && find out if he likes u back. it may b a little scary but at least u will kno!
522470
If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
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wow i'm in a very similar situation right now and its tough.  if you are having a conversation with him, try to touch his arm as your making a point.  it also wouldnt be a bad idea to simply say "you're really cute".  its better to let them know that you like them than to never try at all.  good luck, e-mail me if you have any more questions
276386
you can write him a note saying," im open" or " Im not taken...yet".  Those notes would sum up what you want to say to him. You are saying, i like you, do you like me, if so ask me out. Good luck
961390
I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him. \n\nFishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.\n\nIf a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.\n\nGoodluck!
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well itz ok to feel like that, i do that all the time and weird myself out sometimes. Itz going to be over soon. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't try to impress the boy. Don't act different when you are around him. You probably aren't in love, because if you were you would feel comforatble with him. You should get to know him better so you can be more comfortable around him. I'm sure everyone goes through this, it'll pass. DON'T WORRY. Don't avoid him, maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. But don't say, you think you love him. Just say you like him, and you'll know the rest. but know when to stop talking about your feelings,ok.
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Here's the easy part:  Tell him how you feel.\n\nHere's the hard part:  You HAVE to accept his answer.  \n\nIf you have fear of rejection, it's only part of the process of relationships (and yes, that means a personal relationship with yourself).\n\nTell him direct.  Guys like that.\n\nGood luck.