does my boyfriend love me?
109120
let him go noone should treat u that way if he loves u he would only want to be with you and noone else and though he doesnt have to spend every moment with you he could at least take two seconds to call and say hi i went through something like this i had a bf that was at college and he rarely called and was always partying i hated to break up with him but i knew it was really the best thing to do bc i knew that i wanted to be with someone who wanted to be with me
287701
If you're bf and gf, you should know if he loves you.  Usually bf and gf love each other.  If you're having trouble communicating love to each other, you might need help.
210047
He is the only one who can say if he loves you or not, and right now he probably doesn't know.  He clearly still cares for you, but relationships are complex.  Caring for someone and loving them are not always the same thing.  He has told you that he can't be in a relationship right now, so for now that is the truth that you have to accept.  If you really care about him, it is okay to wait and see what happens with him, but no one can tell what that will be...
921045
Well, honey, I would say that actions speak louder than words - does he act like he loves you?
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
90174
Hard to say without knowing your boyfriend.\nThere is a book called "The Five Languages."  In that book it talks about everyone having a different love language.  Some people express love by doing things for people, some by touch, some by spending time, for some they show love by buying things for ones they love.\nIf that is his love language it would mean that he is trying to tell you that he loves you, however without knowing any other information about your relationship than that, I can't say for sure.
59416
If your boyfriend really loves U he will get U something.But if U half 2 tell him he does not really,really,really love U.
1162463
I can relate-I am also in a long distance relationship, I'm in Hawaii,he's in Maryland...  The best thing for you to do is trust him..  Just because he asks "baby, do you still love me?" doesn't mean he's cheating on you.  One thing I've learned about most* men in relationships, is once they say they love you and they mean it...They feel very vulnerable and generally need reassurance that you feel the same-they are trying to avoid heartache themselves... You two need to talk more and communicate alot more than you already are, tell him your worries and if you seriously think he's cheating on you then you're probably right.  If your gut feeling tells you he's not, then he's probably not.... Go with your instincts.
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
570794
AWWWwWWWWWWwwwWWW!! Ur cute. HAHAH. I love my boyfriend a lot too. He makes me laugh all the time and can take me seriously too when we need to be.  We work through our arguments and learn from them.  He always knows how to make a bad day better for me.. the other day when i found out I had to put my kitty to sleep he brought me my favorite flowers home and made me smile.  To cut this off, cuz i could go on forever, he is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with and be the father of my children.  I LOVE HIM!!!! :)
188495
Love isnt something that is expressed verbally, love is something that is shown. If he buys you flowers, sticks up for you infront of his friends, goes out of his way to do something just to make your day go a little bit smoother, then yes he loves you :) If he shows you things like this then you know, he could say he loves you a billion times but untill he shows you, you wont really know, keep in mind that all guys show love in a differnt way, some buy you flowers and give you money, others call you just to tell you that your beautiful and take you out on picnics at the park, so dont rate his love on what you expect from him but on how much he tries to show you :)
1134915
If a guy really loves you, you won't have to ask, you will feel his love. He will put you first,look after you,tell you he loves you often,and want to express his feelings to you. You won't have to chase after him and worry where he is when hes not with you. He will want to spend time with you and do things with you.It happens without any effort.
1121626
You are a good couple..Some problems can be but you are very happy, especially your boyfriend is very happy with u I think..
122088
He probably means it if he treats you right and looks into your eyes when he says he loves you. If you have to say it first thats not really a big deal, he might just have a hard time showing his emotions.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
102064
if you dont know if he loves you....then he dont. Love can not be mistaken