how do it fell the first time you have sex > Phycially?
99221
Depends on the circumstances. I'd imagine that if you were a guy and your first time was being gang-raped in prison it wouldn't feel all that good.
466798
It really sucked, actually.  Don't have sex just for the sake of losing your virginity or because all your friends are.  Find someone who you really love and most importantly TRUST, because sex won't feel good the first time and establishing a bond based on love and trust is what is most important your first time, not getting your rocks off.
570812
Well, there are a number of things to know before having sex with a virgin female. First of all, most women are born with a thin layer of tissue called a hymen that partially covers the opening to the vagina. The hymen is usually broken when a women first engages in sexual intercourse, although other actions can break the hymen as well, such as inserting a tampon, horseback riding, masturbation, etc. For many women, the first time having sex can be quite painful if the male does not take his time getting the woman aroused (and well lubricated). Depending on how old your girlfriend is, she may or may not have a hymen. When she is ready to sleep with you, my best piece of advice to you would be to engage in lots of foreplay (especially on her, so that she will be physically "ready" for you) and to take things slowly once you try penetration. Don't be surprised if it takes a while for her to get completely comfortable. And listen to her verbal and physical cues--she will let you know what feels good and what doesn't.\n\nI hope that this will be helpful to you. Good luck and use condoms!
1125831
Like others have said, it's not going to be comfortable at all the first time.  TV and the media have made things out to be that your first time is going to be this magical time and you'll orgasm.  The truth is that most girls don't orgasm during sex for the first few times.  Don't be discouraged though, because as you get to know each others bodies and what feels good to both of you, you will get better at it.  I admire what you guys did.  Good luck!!!
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
596263
Your first time should probably be on the bottom if you still have your hymen. After that, be on top, it allows you to control the action and frees his (or her) hands up to roam around your body.
421555
It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
459614
Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
36180
Yes you can use that term refering to a male. Virgin is defined as happening for the first time. In this case it would be intercourse for the first time.
180114
letting your nerves take over is your worst mistake. just be yourself, explain to him that it's your first time and let the mood take you from there. dont forget the protection!!!!!!
270181
it is not uncommon for girls to bleed a little the first time thay have sex. just remember to be gential and make sure the girl is comfortable and willing to try what you want to do. BE READY TO STOP AND ANY TIME FOR ANY REASON. SHE MAY HAVE SAID SHE IS READY AND MAY NOT BE. REMEMBER STOP MEANS STOP AND NO MEANS NO
277384
No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
141220
My advice to you is...first and formost...don't let anyone do anything to your body unless you are absolutely ready. \n\nYes. The first time can be painful if not done with care, patience and tenderness. \n\nIf you are ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that you want to lose your virginity, you MUST set the ground rules. Make sure your partner knows that if it becomes too uncomfortable that he is to stop what he is doing IMMEDIATELY. A condom is essential. You never know where someone else has been. Another essential is a lubricant such as KY Jelly or Astrolube.\n\nBefore you just let some guy ram his bone up inside you, make sure he opens you up GENTLY with a lubricated finger. Have him work it in and out, gently at first... then faster and deeper as your body permits. Then when this is comfortable, try a second one. You must relax if you want it to be less painful. Then when YOU feel that you are ready for something more, you decide wheather or not to go further.
519640
Yes. Partly it's physical, partly it's fear and not knowing what to expect. Partly it can also be if your first time is your guy's first time, him not knowing what he's doing and rushing things can hurt. \nIt gets better the next time.
186710
Of course your first love is the first person you ever dated and or perhaps had sex. its special because its always remembered, because the first is never like the second nor last.
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
1185067
mine first time sex in life is 19th October 2005