The building we are living in want's my family to move out but no rules were broken !!!?
115332
Eviction rules and laws vary from state to state.  The landlord must abide by the rules of the lease (if you have one) and the laws of the state in which the building is located.\n\nCheck the Family Court / eviction rules from the department of state site for your state and contact the authorities if you wish to contest the eviction.
1005163
I would mention everything "informally" as it happens, then hit them with a list. However, after you give them the list, you have to make sure they follow it, so mention everything afterwards, and make sure they do it. Remember, it's your apartment, and you're the one that can kick the others out if they don't follow your rules. Of course, you want to all try to reach an understanding of the rules if you're going to live together (maybe host a meeting?) If they don't like it, they'll leave. If they cooperate, everything will be fine.
487600
You're very brave.\n\nI have three tenants and the only time that I had kids staying with me, their parents were the hassle.\n\nFor all tenants\n\nSpecify what's included in the rent. \nEmergency numbers must be available\nYour guests - is your tenant and children invited to any function you have, or is it going to be on an event basis\nIf your tenant has guests what are the rules  \nIf your tenant has cash flow problems increase the rent to cover a meal a day, otherwise food can be an issue.\nMarking food in need so that it isn't eaten by someone else.\nBreakage and spoilage rules.\nRules of communal areas you will share. \nCleaning up rules and sharing stuff - the lousy tenants I had threw away cutlery rather than wash it.\nPrivacy - if a door is closed knock before entering\nShared bathrooms rules and standards - no videocams\nIf there are pets how must they be treated.\n\n\nFor the kids\nDiscipline issues - make sure that all the adults agree on the kids limits. All kids try and push the boundries. The deal won't work unless the adults unite against the kids. Any discussions about the raising of the children and any rule changes must happen way from the kids. When the adults have agreed on any deal then all three adults must tell the kids the changed rule.    \nWhat are acceptable punishments and who will apply them. Can you or your husband send a kid to their room until their mother comes home? \n\n\nGeneral points\nTalk often and always. Be lenient and flexible but when you aren't impressed let everyone know it. Apologise if you have done something wrong. Stress politeness, get into the habit of greeting and letting everyone know where you are going. Praise and thank when something is done according to the rules. If someone is grumpy or sulking find out why and have it out. If possible have a daily adult talk session in the first week and then reduce it to once a week or once a month, just to iron out friction.  \n\nIt's a big adaptation for some people to share. I find that mature adults can live together profitably. It is laziness, taking advantage, dishonesty and manipulation that causes hassles.
585762
Well, they can pretty much do whatever they want.  They aren't allowed to enter your home unannouced unless there is an emergency, but I've never heard that a "friendly visit" was against the law.  I would be so annoyed if my landlord did what yours does.  It's obnoxious and rude and some people just don't get it.  The only thing you can do is be straight forward and honest about it.  Start with a polite, "thanks for stopping by, we will call you if we need anything" and if they don't get the hint be more direct.
1155591
wow it looks like some people really know how to copy and paste\n\nhey look if you rent and want out put ur qualms in writing!!! send three times. after that you can pretty much get what you want. its called the 'right to quiet enjoyment'. everyone hears nagging from phone calls but doesn't really listen!!!\n\nafter 30 days no answer write another letter of non compliance to landlord responsibilities, stating breach of contracted lease. in the letter state next option is for them to let you out of your lease!!!  your free hooray!!\n\nif they don't let you out.....(their just stupid and stubborn)\n\nonce you've established the written portion, forward it on to your local code enforcement dept. either done by housing authority or dept of children and families. after that sit back it becomes a state issue.. all you have to do is answer some questions if they call you to testify..
584228
a landlord can do pretty much as the please if they put it in the lease and you sign it. did you lie on the application?? that would be grounds for you getting kicked out...
616926
If I were renting from a stranger, and they said I could only rent under those conditions as you described, I would walk away from the deal. Here you are family, and aren't even getting as good a treatment as a stranger would. Get out from under their thumb. They want to see the grand kids, then they will have to travel to see them, nothing wrong with that. Find another place for rent, and move there, otherwise you will never grow-up. You won't have the privacy a stranger would get renting. They will have access with a key to waltz in there any time they wish and unannounced. You will constantly have to explain yourself or feel like you do to them all the time because its their place you would be renting. Don't do this! Tell them, thanks for the kind offer (*cough*), but you prefer to find your own place to rent.
550044
I have no idea about the laws of India, but if that area is anything like America, you will be given no rights to a house you do not pay for. If you do pay for it, tell your husband you are going to leave him if his parents don't get out of your life. If you don't pay for it, get a new place and if your husband follows, then hooray for all.
1034541
check with your local state who determines tenant rights. there are federall guidelines that most states follow. Good Luck
285978
I am not sure how N.C. law works exactly...but I can tell you how this would be resolved in Pa.  They probably aren;t that different regardless.  In Pa. a land lord is required to give 24 hours notice unless there is an emergency situation.  I do not see how a pet constitutes an emergency.  I'd also check your contract/lease, although I am sure that this is probably not listed.  As for the pet....your land lord has NO RIGHT to remove a pet of yours from the building.  None.  That is completely outrageous.  He can evict you for violating the lease.  He can ask you to remove the pet.  But he has absolutely no right at all to remove a pet from an apartment.  I'd sue.
607247
address the people/company you are renting from. i am sure they could work something suitable out for you with your being able to move. they are reasonable people or should be. things happen beyond our control sometimes and i know they know that too. next time you get room mates have them added onto the lease with your leaser. that way you are not totally responsible for everything.
854522
Check with your housing office.  Don't try to get away with anything, some spouse with nothing better to do will rat you out.
704479
if they are insisting that you will just be in the way, then leave it like that. as exciting as it was before and probably will be for the rest of your life, you have to take into consideration in what your parents say. you should work on improving your behavior and prove to them that you are r-e-s-p-o-n-s-i-b-l-e and that you can act civilized when doing grown up things with them. \n\ni understand as a child that they dont have much of say when it comes to adult decisions, but you can mention that you want to feel comfy in your new home too and that you would like to see what houses they're looking at. buying a house is a big thing and all family members should be a part of agreeing with the house, but if youre going to act wild and run around an empty house- youre not going to get anywhere.
847584
If you signed a lease you are bound to it.  It is not the complexes fault that someone said something to you that you do not like.  Make the manager aware of  the threat.  If she/he is a good manager she will address the problem and take care of it for you.  If one of my residents get threatened, I have no problem evicting the bad guys...good luck
812822
Write down your house rules with consequences and have a serious sit down family meeting.  This is your house YOUR haven.  Set the rules, make your room your quiet space.  They have got to take their spats and immature behavior outside your home.
833322
Absolutely you can leave.  In fact, you have a legal precedent for leaving.....your safety.  If a person feels unsafe in an apartment then by law they must have the opportunity to leave said premises.  Look in the government/help pages for your city and find Landlord/Tenant and call them.   Just try and give them 30 days notice and site unsafe environment for your reasoning....that you've been harrassed and even followed and found people hanging around your door.  Are there camera's in your hallway, outside of the building?  Are there security systems...if there are not these are all things you can use against them.  And by the way, NO, your credit won't be damaged a wit because if you put forth a legal precedent they won't go after you because they  know you're smart enough to sue them back. Besides, when people are under 28 or so they think things like this will hurt them just because a management company or landlord said so....rarely true.   Email me wi/any other questions.  Be strong, be smart... good luck.
611497
You should first try to talk to the parents.  If they give you an attitude themselves, then talk to the apartment manager.\nLast resort, the police.\n\nWhen talking to the parents, just let them know that there is a problem.  Don't be threatening.