My fiance of two years got a girl preg. when we were split he wants to sign his rights away wil he have to pay
99312
He cannot "sign away his rights", because he has no rights in the situation; he only has a responsibility.  Specifically, he has a responsibility to support the child he fathered.  Whether he wants to have anything to do with the child is irrelevant.  Not to put to fine a point on it, but your fiance sounds like an a**hole.
743437
is this just a temporary thing???\nyou have a responsibility - you ex - partner still needs to make ends meet??   More details please x
797790
I am confused. Do you really want the boy to get help or are you more concerned about your boyfriend paying money for HIS child? He should pay half of everything. Perhaps you were not perpared to be in a relationship with someone with a child. Also, what exactly would he be taking her to court for? Unless you want custody (and you have already said you do NOT want the child moving in with you) you should let that part go. The court cannot make her take the child to therapy unless he commits a violent act. He is old enough to stay alone. You really have nothing to stand on.
518005
I think I understand you correctly, but I'm not sure.  You knocked her up, & now you want to make her miscarry?  If that's the case, I don't know what to tell you.  If a woman doesn't want to carry the kid, she can abort it.  If she doesn't want to abort it, but neither of you want to be saddled with that responsibility, she can put it up for adoption.  However, if you don't want to be stuck with it, you're essentially screwed.  You have no legal recourse to make her get rid of a baby.  Don't feel obligated to get married because she might be pregnant, though.  Oldest trick in the book.  You should stop having sex with her now, & insist on a paternity test.  Then, if she has the kid, & proves it is yours, the courts will make you take responsibility for the kid & pay child support without having to marry her.  Then, if you want visitation, you could go to court & set up a schedule, but otherwise, you can let her raise the child as she sees fit, & fulfill your financial obligation.  But first, make sure she is pregnant, & make sure it is your kid.  Never marry some girl because she says she's pregnant.  This may come as a shock, but she could be lying to you.  People do lie, & women have lied about being pregnant to get a husband for a long time.  Don't allow yourself to be forced into something you aren't ready for & don't want to do.  Pay for your mistake, if you truly made it, but don't put the kid through having a dad at home who resents the hell out of its mom for trapping him in a marriage he didn't want.  Just send the checks.  If you marry her without the paternity test, or send payments without proof it is yours, the law where you are may say you're screwed anyway because you took responsibility for the kid.  Tread carefully, & good luck.
474911
You need a better lawyer. Get a female lawyer, they are meaner than heck and can do a lot better than a male. Might cost you more in the short term but should pay off in the long run.\n\nI hope that things work out better the second time around\n\nGod bless you and be with you in your time of need
932416
The support he pays to her or the court is not payable to you as a minor. She decides how and when to use it. You have the legal right to file a suit as an individual but I think it would be hard to find an attorney to represent you because for one if you loose he can't come against you for payment since you are a minor. Your best bet is to think this out and perhaps in time things will get better. You should talk to social services legal office in your area for advice, this gives all notice of your thoughts and perhaps they may intervene for you.
831779
First of all, she needs to pay the child support to stay out of jail.\n\nSecond, if he is asking for a higher amount (has too be considerable) than is due for child support, it could be considered extortion. Other factors need to be taken into consideration. \n\nMy best answer to all this is too talk to an attorney, keep the emails and try your best to decide if this woman is the person for you.
1187063
Man, I just went through this! If her bio. father pays child support, then yes he must be contacted to sign away his rights even if she has NEVER laid her eyes on him. If he doesn't pay or contribute in any way, when your child has gone without ANY paternal support for 5 consecutive years, then all you have to do is run it in the classified ads in your town for 4 weeks. The newspaper will give you an affidavit and you will have to sign one stating that you have not received any support from her bio. father. After that point, it is pretty smooth sailing. Hopefully you won't get an A-hole for a judge like I did... the same judge that ordered my son's father to only pay $96 a month for support <--- Please try to hold your laughter until the end of the paragraph. Thank you.
861384
restaing order and she needs to think about getting a lawyer and a new court case to have him pay chidl support. but if he is only paying 13 bucks a month its not worth the trouble.  and besides if he doesnt pay child support he can't see the child. (at least thats the law in oklahoma) so restaing order and move on with life.
517222
lol, maybe i'm wrong, but i agree w/ you. my fiance has 3 support cases, (n pays w/out complaint.) n no, its not a measly lil 200.00 like someone said. its 530.00, 240.00, (which is for children niether mom or dad have, she pays 240, he pays 240) and 165.00! we have 2 of our own plus i have 1 from a previous, that he is sole provider for. now, he's also getting sued for support of 2 kids that are his exs by someone else n hes never even met these kids! plus his ex went to court fri. and was told that since shes recieving tanf for these two new kids, she doesnt have to pay for the two that they have together??? so wheres the justice in it all? i think men do get the shaft and if women want to moan and cry about how hard it is to take care of thier kids alone, they can always give them to thier dad to raise. some of the dads would be more than happy to get a chance!!
506805
i hope only one month you greedy son of a bitch.  that is just selfish, they are your children and you need to care for them, i don't care what your ex did to you, they are your children. *** however if your trying to find out for your ex who is not paying then i am sorry he/she is not helping you out***
505191
I have been in almost the same situation. my bf got his ex gf pregnant while we were on a short break. I went back to him and now the child is almost 3. The ex is CRAZY, wont leave us alone. We have to pay 127 a WEEK in child support, which we cant afford and havent been able to pay the whole 127 a week so my now husband will be going to jail fairly soon. To make matters worse the ex had another son 6 months ago, 10 days before my daughter was born. and is now claiming it is my husbands. SO all I can say IS LEAVE HIM. It will never end. You will be alot more happier without him. ' YOU DONT WANT DRAMA WITH HIS BABIES MAMA'.
181663
Contact a lawyer!!! It's not that difficult of a process, and they don't charge much for the legal paper. They type it up, and both parties sign it and have it notarized. You can state how long or short the custody will be for in the agreement.
99779
Not a good idea, Karen. He is setting it up so he won't be paying anything after you sign it.\n\nSuch a letter - notarized or not - would probably not stand up in court, anyway. If you sign that letter and it can be shown he had ill intentions in the first place, the letter will probably be thrown out.\n\nAnd why would you want that anyway? If he becomes a bum and takes advantage of you like that, why would you want a boy like that (I say boy because a MAN always makes sure he takes care of business). For him to even suggest that means he is planning to sponge off of you if he can.
1009364
I most cases this depends on a few things ( the state you live in, your judge, age of your child, date of when he filed for vists) I know in Michigan the father is responable for all of this. My ex has to pay for everything when our son was born.
361809
He is still their father.  Payment of child support is not a condition of visitation.  The odds are good that he won't do anything, but he could drag your g/f into family cort and ahve her compelled to bring them over.  If she refuses she could be held in contempt until complies.  She is looking at fines and possible jail time.  Rather than just stopping she should speak to him and ask if he has any objections.
548882
It hardly seems fair. One would have the right to expect the bio father to be chased up or tracked down for payments. That's very strange. In Australia I think that would only happen if he had legally adopted them. My ex brought my son up for 12yrs before we separated but never legally adopted him and even though we did have the first step of adoption done, ie a legal name change, he didn't have to pay a cent toward him because he denied him, and the proposed adoption. My son was devastated. In your situation I'd be seeking legal advice and see perhaps if there is or has been a legal precedence in relation to the situation. I hope your man is done havn kids...I know five is enough for me...lol