Can you be in love with more than one guy? and what if one your child's father and the other hs love?
100406
Without knowing how long you have been out of touch with your hs (high school?) love, it appears you are having trouble choosing because it sounds like you wanted things to work out with your hs love.\n\nOne attribute of true love is monogamy. If you love your child's father, then fight for your family by fighting the vibes from those memories of your hs love.\n\nSave yourself from the drama while you have a chance.
8422
I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
1061755
yes its def possible. you dont have to share the same blood to love each other unconditionally. people who can accept other's children and love and care for them like their very own are few in this world! good for you!
1181543
I don't think that a person can be in love with two people at the same time.  Being in love and just loving someone are two completely different things.  I think that we talk ourselves into believing that we are in love with both people because we find qualities in both people that makes us want to be with them.  That is just love.  When you are in love with someone, there is no other person for you-no matter what qualities that other person has.
367233
ya, u might b in confusion...coz i hav some frds who r attracted to more then two guyz so u can handle it. so be careful coz u really hav to look well to both of them and ask urself which one is made foryou or wait till who propose u first...have fun
226598
I suppose you can't help who you have a crush on. I don't think it's "wrong". Just don't act on the crush. Not with the father at least. Then it will be wrong.
267613
my father has two other children outside of marriage.\nboth younger than my brother and I. and both from the same woman.\n(it most be said that i love my three brothers and i that i have a pretty good relationship with all of them).\nthe sad thing is that my mother is still with him.\ni love my father too, but would never have stayed with him.\nneedless to say, i come from a hispanic family.
181702
It is possible to be in love with 2 people, however, the degree to which you love each person will be different.  True that some may consider it a little selfish because you may subconsciously want to have both of them for yourself...however it is also considered to be selfless to give of ones self to those you love.
182067
JA ja if you dont know who the father is, just choose the one you like, or the one you are in love
269549
Please do not have a second child for the sake of your 1st child at the expense of your marriage.  With all you just said about your husband not really "being around" and your life dull with you questioning if he even loves you or if you even love him for that matter, you need to figure out your marriage first and either work it out (if that's what you both want) or dont.  You don't want to go having a child when you are questioning whether you even love the father or whether he loves you.  And having a child for the sake of your other child not being alone, is not the answer.  Your focus needs to start on your marriage b/c having a child should be a joyous occasion, one blessed by both parents and wanted by both parents, b/c otherwise resentment & bitterness with build up and then you will have a real mess.  Seriously, nurture your marriage, discuss both your feelings about the marriage & whether you want it to work out and if you both do, then discuss having another child & see if you both agree b/c you BOTH need to be on the same page on both issues.  Good luck!
506303
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
162794
Are you really in love with him or the fact that you can talk to him?  Remember, what exists online is a unique enviroment where we all feel protected to some degree.  In the real world the level of comunication between you and this other person will probably not be the same.  Plus there is so much more to being in love with someone and having a relationship.  If your married still then do you really want to risk what you have for something that may not exists?  If your not married, then go slow and get to know this person gradually outside of just chatting because its not just your life but your kids life that you have to be concerned about.
851468
It is totally possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex with out falling in love with them.  Especially if both people involved are thinking with their heads and not what is down below.  I have had a few very good guy friends that I was never in love with.  I care alot about them because they are good friends, they are like brothers to me, so I guess you would say I love them in a family way but I'm not in love with them.  It's totally possible!
181327
depends on who you are talking about. You have never held your children before they are born, but when they get here, there is so much love in your heart. I think that it is possible to love a person you have never held. The heart is a wonderfull thing. When you do hold that person, you better watch out, you might explode. LOL
1175810
Buddy, first you need to ask yourself whether you are really loving him or you are just attracted to the physical or behavior qualities of him. You need to take an appropriate decision taking care of the future of your child.\n\nIn many of the children whose parents are seperated, there is about 60%+ chance of having acute behavioral problems and if not cured in the childhood itself then the problems could be serious. So act accordingly..
159661
If you are comfortable with doing that then do it, but I would get a lawyer involved to make sure that you can see your children and get it in writing. They will always know you as their dad and im sure you love them alot, and they are just lucky enough to have another man that loves them just as much as you do.
863972
if they were both active in the childs life and love the kid then that kid gets 2 moms and 2 dads without the drama at family get togethers. what's the problem? one could say my parents only got together to produce a child and they're both str8. but they didn't stay together so i didn't get the benefit of dual involvement. babies are made from sex not love. well rounded kids are made from love and not necessarily the love between 2 people but the love of that baby by those people.