Do you believe in sex on the first date? If you do, then what are you doing about 8pm tonight???
112776
letting people know your gender would be helpful
168490
My first date.... Well i was something like 14. We went for a walk in the park, then for a nice let's say bar and had a nice coke. I "escorted" her home ... and ... goodnight kiss
606815
Yes and yes! I love to wake up on the weekend mornings and have sex! My hubby is much more of a night owl but he always rises to the occasion. LOL   \nHave fun!
677091
I kiss on the first date.\nBut I don't go farther than that.\nUnless I just want a hook-up.
382975
Hmmmm, depends on what you do tonight. : )
468052
if its a first date, dinner is first, then another activity (i.e. movies, bowling, or even just hanging out)  OH!!! as a plus, if you take a girl bowling, even if you're somewhat good, be sure to let her win.  Witnessed a guy slaughter a girl one time at the alley, and she was pissed off.
652004
I would say have real sex.  To me that includes all types of foreplay including oral sex if one wishes...Don't stress out the first night you have the rest of your lives!  Congrats on your engagement!
526732
Sex on the 1st, is instant booty call. No sex on the 1st is a gf prospect.
490597
This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
708095
umm. for alot of girls. unless there skany little tramps, they don;t just go and have sex on the first date. usually not evne the second or third. It takes some time. Most girls don't really have a specific time, like okay i month time to have sex" its just when it happens it happens. When you are really in love, a girl feels that when she is in love wiht her boyfreind, she will have sex wiht him. And after that first time, you could be having sex everry night. Unles you suck. Then that time will be your last. \n\nor. if your gf is waiting till shes married, then your screwed.
422450
I think that im the right person to talk to you.\nI have always belived in complete abstenance, you know, no kissing,and defenatly no sex.\nMy 1st date was when I was 25, i actually waited that long, i met this great gentleman at church, i knew he was the man for me. he actually invited me to go out at this nice restaurant, and i accepted the invitation.\nthis s my fist date, im 25 and not really know what exacly im doing in this restaurant with this guy, He stars telling me about his life, we really had a great time that night, the next day he calls me at work and he sais that he really wants to see me again, i agree to go out again, he told me that he knew that i was the woman he has been waiting for, He actually ask me if He could kiss me, I told him that i had didnt know how to kiss. He got so quiet, he touched my face, then he kissed my forehead, then my nose then my chik, i could not breathe i felt like i was inside a cloud, and then he kissed me, there was i giving my fist kiss, and when i kiss him i always remember how sweet and delicate he was to me. I married him, and we are happily married our anniversary its comming up 3 years already, and we are praying for a baby. there is so much happiness, when you save your self for the right person, the key is not to worrie about it, God will send you the right person, just like he did to me.
1089506
first night...definitely
239397
Did you have sex with your first girlfriend...\n\nI was like "WHAT?!"
887056
no, if i want to leave a blind date half way through then i just do it.  no need to play games.  he must have been a real loser.  for a hottie like you, i would just enjoy your company and wait until you were ready for sex...anticipation is half the fun;-)
1015074
My husband and I have established a "date night" (every other Saturday).  We take turns planning the night, but we keep it a secret.  We've also just started "bowling night" and "movie night" (we alternate these on Wednesdays).  It definitely gives us something to look forward to.\n\nThere's a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex" written by Laura Corn.   Once a month we each pick a sealed page, tear it out of the book, and keep it a secret.  We try to follow the scenario throughout the week and we surprise each other.  Some of them are kind of raunchy, but you don't have to follow them exactly (we don't).  Either way, we always fun!!!\n\nGive it a try!!!
763505
I went on dates feeling like you do and to my surprise wound up falling hard?????????????????  What is the problem here?  You are getting out of the house!  Make the most of it.  If you go tomorrow thinking you won't have a good time, for sure you won't.  Why not go into this looking at it as having a night out and making the best of it.  How do YOU know you won't have a good time? You might just be surprised.  Also consider this.......when you are out there, you might just run into your real soulmate.  They can turn up in any place at any time, and when you least expect it.
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...