Well see i thimk i loved a guy but i blew w/him so i broke up w/him What should i do?
102300
Get past him and look for a nice guy. The past is the past.\nThere are many good nice respectful guys out there\nfor you.\n           \n                    doctorkersey@Yahoo.com
741399
He didnt seem to treat you very well hun, you obviously had problems within the relationship, did you try telling him how you felt or did you just split up with him without discussing how he made you feel?\nIf you want him back then you need to talk to him but this time make sure that you tell him how you feel, take control a little.\nIf he only wants you back on the same terms as you had before then it's obvious that he is just using you hun.\nTry talking , but it does sound like he was using you a little.\nDont let him rule when you do things, be brave , ask for what you want when you want it, if he says no then cut your losses and find someone who truely appreciates you.\nGood luck, hope all works out ok for you.
1167716
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.
1088052
I realize that it may be really hard right now but I hope you realize how valuable you are yourself and that you will take care of you during this time. You may or may not\nget the full answer as to why he broke up with you.  I had\na boyfriend in high school that everyone swore or thought\nwe would surely get married and we ended breaking up and we had been dating over a two year period.  Give him his space and see what happens.  Be good to yourself in the meantime.  If you were good to him and know that in your heart  of hearts you gave your best thats all that anyone can ask.  He may have some things he needs to work out.
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
163002
You broke it off 6 months ago.  You did the right thing.  Here's the deal - it's one thing if it were the other way around.  You should be asking why if he dumped you.  Since you dumped him, it's the other way around.  You left him on your terms, he still has things unresolved.  Don't waste your time trying, you might hurt yourself.
384845
Escape only if you truly love him.I was affraid to do that with my ex and I regret it.
188979
Did he actually meet the other person? If so, what did they do? The severity of his actions should give you a good indication of what you should do. If you feel that his actions were not severe enough to break off the relationship, then don't.  If you feel otherwise, then sever ties. It all depends on how you feel, because we (the answerer's) don't really know the situation you're in and the things you're thinking/feeling. \n\nWorst case scenario? You dump him, realize he was your soul mate, never get back together, get depressed, never date, and die alone.\n\nBest case scenario? You don't dump him, he is eternally grateful, both of you work things out, and you live long and fulfilling lives.\n\nAs you can see, there is quite a bit of swing in the spectrum. If you feel that he deserves a second chance (i.e. he's been faithful [until now], treats you well, is respectful, and didn't go through with the deed, then you might want to give him a second chance.  After all, it seems like he realized his mistake before anything *bad* happened, and both of you can learn and grow stronger from this experience.
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I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
1086187
Girl let him go as he did to u and move on. Call the guy u went out with already. Hell do your thing let him be you can still love him from a distance.
344046
You were hurt, and you pushed him away. That can happen to anyone in your situation, but I agree that you should tell him how you feel. Don't drag it out. You should know where you stand and let him know where he stand with you. If it doesn't work out, you will have closer and the ability to love someone else. That may not necessarily be what you want to hear, but YES sweetie you can love again.
1027662
you need to file yourself and get this over with...do not wait on him...and let him go, you may still love him but why? why would you want someone back who has left you and treated you this way...get this over with, the sooner you do the sooner you can move on
140113
my advice. Keep it broken off. dont just forget what happened and why you broke up...it happened for a reason. FInd someone else that you want to be with. Please dont get into the make up/break up cycle. It really sucks!!!
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
930477
Tell him that a break up is not what you wanted and you realise how much you really love him and it has taken this break up for you to really see how much you want the relationship to work ...... Good luck
827012
First what is the reason(s) that he broke up with you? It all depends on the reason. Give him some space as he won't listen to you now. Don't rush him. For starters, you can be his friend without being too pushy. But it depends on his reason for leaving you because if he really wants to move on, then you just have to do the same.\n\nAs for you telling him that you love him, did he reply? If no, then he wants to be alone.
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.