I really really love this guy and I know that he knows but he says that he wants me to hate him????
105643
I would ask him why he wants you to hate him. If he changes the subject again tell him not to because you want to know why. If he doesn't tell you, he probably doesn't like you anymore or something is very wrong. I'm just wondering if he used to live here and moved to london because ou said that you have been friends forever. If he really is your friend then he will tell you whats wrong because you guys tell each other everything. I think that you should ask him one more time and tell him not to change the subject and tell you why he wants you to hate him. I've had this done to me before. He wouldn't tell me either and he always changed the subject when I asked about it. We are still friends because I finally got it out of him. So, all that I can say is to keep on keepin on and if he deosn't tell you then do what you think is best!
984887
he is trying to tell u that he likes this other girl instead of u in a non hateful way. that's all there is 2 it. ur rite he should have told u some thing, but he should be the one to make the move, but if he's too lazy 2, then u have to ask him "whats going on with us?" or something like that, \n\ngood luck!\n\n~heather~
961097
His true intentions have been revealed.  Why do you want to be friends with such an immature person?  \n\nCut contact with him.
959462
well, forget him. it's annoying you, i know. but we don't know what's the problem with him. we never met him anything. you better avoid him and let's see what happens. if you didn't do anything for him to hate you,  then let go. cheer up. don't think about him too much.
641062
well i think he wants his cake and eat it too and he is a jerk and he knows he has you in his control but you need to get rid of him i know you love him but he needs to grow up and you need to have respect for yourself and do things for yourself and if you know he is a lyer then why would you want to be with him yeah they say they care but actions speak louder than words and you need to get angry at him and i do believe in what goes around comes around so make yourself happy and he will see and that is the best revenge you can get and it will show him that you wont let him hurt you anymore and that you deserve better and good will eventually come to you but probabaly not with him good luck sweetheart stand up you are a woman
527527
do you really like a guy who would do that do you? he abvisally has what so ever NO RESPECT FOR YOU! i know its hard not to like him...maybe playing hard to get and let him no that your better then him will make him want you more..
324387
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
315584
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
361459
Honey, I hate to burst your bubble, but it sounds like he's trying to avoid you. When guys do that, that's usually bad news.  Maybe he's not the right one for you.  If he really loves you, it will all work itself out. If not, let him go and move on, it's for your best. Can't force love.
117466
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
46880
just talk to him about everything and get it off your chest, but also explain to him that none of you guys want him in a relationship,, i just know that hating someone without fixing it will just bother you until you do something about it....
218286
Dont be so stupid no offence but one is enouugth and to let him get away with it twice is really dumb , i guess your letting him off because your probably attracted to him alot but try to be logical .
507020
this is the same probs with me also.\ni dont love the guy who loves me soo much!!\ngirls are like that,.. tooo choosy and stuff. they always want something thats out of reach.\nso my advice is.... be with the guy who like u , than the one whom u love,\nhard to follow, but easy to advice
445324
He's probibly just feeling very insecure and wants to make sure that you know that he values your opinion. \nIt may seem annoying, but it'd be even more annoying if he just went off and did something and you had no idea where he was, or you had something planned.\nAt least he's keeping you in mind when he's going to do something, instead of not.
1144441
pls try to leave him coz the things u have written clealry says dat he is not in love wid ya but only attracted towards you...he just wanna use ya and nothing else he does not love ya at all ....he will make ur life worse pls try to forget him or talk to him clearly dat u dont want to have such relations......only this is true i am dam sur eand i know this too that u would not like to stay wid such a guy....may u understand what i wanna tell u.....
68055
it sounds like he is realy immature,or playing games, or looking for the best of both worlds... either way don't let yourself be treated like a basketball. have the self worth to say "i deserve better" and let him know. IF he really does love you he will follow his heart. all you have to do is tell him your not going to be some second place when he says he loves you and only likes her. \ni know this doesn't really answer your question, but sometimes the best answer is to a different question, that you havn't asked... good luck
307466
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.