what is orgasm n when does it occur?
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assuming you are a male,\n With increasing intensity of the sexual stimulus, the reflex centers of the spinal cord begin to emit impulses that leave the cord to the genitals and initiate emission, which is the forerunner of ejaculation. Fluid from the vas deferens, the prostate, the ampulla, and the seminal vesicles (and even more tiny glands) are propelled into the internal urethra by contractions of the groin muscles*. The filling of the internal urethra elicits signals that are transmitted through the pudendal nerves from the spinal cord. Increases in pressure in the urethra cause the semen to be propelled to the exterior, resulting in ejaculation! The period of emission and ejaculation is termed male orgasm. After ejaculation erection ceases within 1 to 2 minutes in most males.\n  female\n An orgasm is an emotional and physical experience that occurs during a “sexual response cycle”. Before an orgasm, your body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure increases. The pupils of the eyes dilate; the lips of the mouth darken, the nipples become erect, the clitoris swells, becomes hard and exposed, (much like the aroused penis). With increased excitement, the skin becomes flushed and it begins to sweat. In women, the labia, clitoris, vagina and pelvic organs enlarge in very much the same way as the aroused penis enlarges. Sometimes there is a plateau of excitement which is held for several minutes before you are about to orgasm.
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For me, I tense up at climax..looks like a grimace on my face, but I' not in pain, it'sjust very intense.nce the orgasm begins, I relax.
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Some women also ejaculate when they have an orgasm.  It's not semen, of course, just vaginal fluid.
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when they orgasm! obviously!
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Have an Orgasm...seriously, it works.
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I THINK ORGASM CAN BE DIFFERENT B/C SOMETIMES I DON'T NOTICE EVEN THOUGH I AM PLEASURED I DON'T FEEL MYSELF *COMING* BUT  SOMETIMES I DO AND ITS LIKE THE WORLD TURNS UPSIDE DOWN, AND I HAVE HAD ONE DURING SCHOOL OUT OF NO WHERE, WELL I WAS THINKING OF WHEN I GOT MY BOYFRIEND ALONE NEXT, BUT I WAS JUST THINKING.
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ejaculation is generally a term for what males do.  women take longer to orgasm, if you cant wait for her before you blow your load, work her up with lots of foreplay.
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You will definitely know when it happens. It's not a metaphor to say it's like an explosion. That's exactly what it feels like, an explosion of pleasure. There is no mistaking it.\n\nI know it's irritating to hear people say that, but it's like asking "what does a sneeze feel like." How else would you describe that than saying "you'll know when it happens, it's like an explosion." Actually, sneezes ARE very similar to orgasms.\n\nAs for biological signs: your vagina will contract and spasm, you'll feel a sudden release and you may get goose bumps.\n\nTry more self-exploration. The water stream from a detachable shower head, or from the facet on your bath are good places to start.
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Lol what kind of orgasms are YOU getting?
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mas·tur·ba·tion    ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (mstr-bshn)\nn. \nExcitation of one's own or another's genital organs, usually to orgasm, by manual contact or means other than sexual intercourse.\n\nmas·tur·ba·tion (mstr-bshn)\nn. \n\nExcitation of one's own or another's genital organs, usually to orgasm, by manual contact or means other than sexual intercourse.\n\n\nSource: The American Heritage® Stedman's Medical Dictionary\nCopyright © 2002, 2001, 1995 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. \n\n\nMain Entry: mas·tur·ba·tion\nPronunciation: "mas-t&r-'bA-sh&n\nFunction: noun\n: erotic stimulation especially of one's own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm and achieved by manual or other bodily contact exclusive of sexual intercourse, by instrumental manipulation, occasionally by sexual fantasies, or by various combinations of these agencies called also onanism, self-abuse \n\n\nSource: Merriam-Webster's Medical Dictionary, © 2002 Merriam-Webster, Inc. \n\n\nmasturbation\n\nn : manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure [syn: onanism, self-abuse]\n\n\nSource: WordNet ® 2.0, © 2003 Princeton University
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When you have an orgasm, the brain releases endorphins that uplift your mood and make  you happier. It almost releases something that hikes up your immune system.
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You have your internal and your external orgasms.  Internal orgasms are reached through penetration while external ones are reached by playing with the clitoris.
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male orgasm= 20 seconds of feeling like a God.\nfemale orgasm = earth moving, body shaking, summit climbing, intense pleasure.
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its a wonderful feeling you and all people have when having sex, it happens when the correct (places) are well stimulated for example, in a girl, her g-spot and her clitoris, and on the man, while he eyaculates....\nis like the climax in sex, taking you to the stars :)
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When you orgasm, all your muscles tense up.  So depending on how hard your orgasm is, you might tense your muscles up even more.  The shaking comes from releasing the tension in your muscles and them finally relaxing.
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Female sexual arousal and orgasm is a complex process involving the entire woman, mind and body. The human mind receives in sexual stimuli from the body, processes it, and based on past learning and experience causes the body to respond to it. The brain may start the sexual arousal process in response to thought (sexual fantasy), visual stimuli (seeing a partner nude), audible stimulation (hearing a partner's voice), olfactory stimuli (the smell of a partner's body), and taste (the taste of a partner's body). The body may start the arousal process as the result of a woman, or her partner, touching her genitals or breasts, the feel of air flowing across her exposed skin, or her cloths stimulating her breasts or genitals. The mind and body while able to experience sexual arousal separately, cannot experience orgasm separately. Orgasm requires both the mind and body to work together. Mental thought alone may result in orgasm, but you still feel the orgasm in your body. All the sexual stimulation and arousal may originate in one or the other, but orgasm takes place in both.
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Anatomically speaking (boring but true)...an orgasm is your cervix dipping downward (and it's a good thing to have if you're trying to conceive) - so you'll feel it alright. And then there's that wonderful sense of release, I guess you can say intense euphoria. If you don't already know this, most women do not have orgasms during sex anyway. You may want to get there on your own then show him how it's done!