is love a reality or falacy found in the retarded brains.?
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I'd go with the retarded brains answer. Love is'nt real at least romantic love isn't, but unconditional love like the love a parent feels for their child is real. Romantic love is just an easy cover up for sex
436549
Fools do fall in love because love is emmotional.
593472
Thats simple sir, if your wife was actually retarded, she would sit, rock back and forth, drool, have accidents in her pants, not be able to talk and would have no conception of what it meant to be married to some one.. also another way to know, is just plain look it up in the dictionary or check it out in the dsmr book.. they have excellent deffinitions..
470956
becus everything in life is pumped to be more than is really is. take for instance commercials, they make you believe that if you eat a certain chocolate bar, your true love will appear. if you eat mentos you will become this person with super powers somehow. soap operas have people coming down to dinner in tuxedos. The movies have the person always getting their love in the end. No one portrays life as it really is and so we feel disappointed with reality.
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love is an emotion that you have, and that you share, and if you find another who is feeling the same emotion for you then you have found it, and only then when you are both truly immersed with in those feelings for each other can you do love.\n\nif this is not the scenario, then it is only make believe, although one person can play make believe while the other is loving pure and true, and this is where heart ache often comes into play with respect to break ups, because those who play make believe either never do it well, or never do it for long.\n\nalso this is why they have the saying that love is blind, because often one person involved in a relationship is only playing make believe with the other person out of selfishness for there desires to use them for love making, however the person loving pure and true is often blind to that fact because of wishful thinking, and there desire to be loved pure and true.\n\nalso sometimes both people play make believe, and this is called using each other, and that cannot be compared to love at all, because that is merely going through the motions.\n\nand I will describe it this way.  If you could imagine having a special rubber balloon device which would cover your tongue, and then you place it over your tongue, it would not matter what you ate for dinner, weather you eat dog dung, or chicken cordon blue and you would never know what it tasted like, and with respect to that rubber device like loved, if you have never loved pure and true with another who has loved you pure and true, then you have never known love at all.\n\nTrue Love comes from with in the heart.
1109616
There is no love in this world but only exploitation. You want somebody for your own pleasure. That's called lust and not love. You live in illusion...wake up.
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I dont get the question. Are u askin if love takes place at a psycological level or a scientific level?\nif u r i think its psycological because u decide if you really love that person or not
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its obviously wayyyyyy more complicated than that...  but here is what i found.\n\n\n  The Neurobiology of Love.\n\n        * Esch T,\n        * Stefano GB.\n\n    Charite-University Medicine Berlin, Institute for General Practice and Family Medicine, Schumannstrasse 20/21, 10117 Berlin, Germany.\n\n    Love is a complex neurobiological phenomenon, relying on trust, belief, pleasure and reward activities within the brain, i.e., limbic processes. These processes critically involve oxytocin, vasopressin, dopamine, and serotonergic signaling. Moreover, endorphin and endogenous morphinergic mechanisms, coupled to nitric oxide autoregulatory pathways, play a role. Naturally rewarding or pleasurable activities are necessary for survival and appetitive motivation, usually governing beneficial biological behaviors like eating, sex, and reproduction. Yet, a broad basis of common signaling and beneficial neurobiological features exists with connection to the love concept, thereby combining physiological aspects related to maternal, romantic or sexual love and attachment with other healthy activities or neurobiological states. Medical practice can make use of this concept, i.e., mind/body or integrative medicine. Thus, love, pleasure, and lust have a stress-reducing and health-promoting potential, since they carry the ability to heal or facilitate beneficial motivation and behavior. In addition, love and pleasure ensure the survival of individuals and their species. After all, love is a joyful and useful activity that encompasses wellness and feelings of well-being.\n\n    PMID: 15990719 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]\n\nalso see:\nhttp://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?db=pubmed&cmd=Retrieve&dopt=AbstractPlus&list_uids=17118931&query_hl=13&itool=pubmed_docsum\n\nthis information was from\n http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/\n\nwhen you search, it lists all the different databases that have results.. i clicked on "pubmed" and got this summary..  full papers are viewable at "pubmed cenrtal"
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No. Yet, there was an occasion when I came to realize that what I thought was love was not true love ... but I won't go into that here.\n\nI have very deep feelings about love, for love is the highest grace we mortals may ever know in this world and perhaps any other that may come. Thus, it is not permissible to be so cavalier as to bandy around those three words as if they were some mere convenient phrase, some shallow sentiment or-- perish the notion --- usurping that most wonderful expression for some self-serving gain.
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If your focus is on the physical, the advantaged, the successful in this life..you will always find someone who is esteemed him/her self higher than others. It is the heirarchy of mankind. A 15 year old girl/guy cannot make adult choices to determine if you are the right person for them. I know when I was 15 I had no idea what was good for me and what love was and commitment. Often times we mistake desire (outward appearance) to be love when it is not. If my husband were to become disabled and unable to desire me or be desired by me..I would indeed love him. That love is there even when desire is not present. We covet what others have because we think it will bring us "happiness" when in fact we are equipped at birth with all that we need, even those that are disabled. I see people all the time that have little or next to nothing, can be burdened with physical ailments, poverty and sickness and still they will find joy and are determined to do it, while others who are privaledged with looks, talent and riches..throw it all away in an empty hotel room with a needle stuck in their arm. Most people are never happy with what they have or who they are. Nothing is ever good enough. We are all given choices in this life and those choices either make us..or we make them. Usually both. If you choose to see only the "rotten", mean, unfair, unjust or out of balance but the truth is...there is much to be thankful for..beauty, thought, sound, food, music, ideas, art, nature...love..real love..all of this can be obtained to some degree by everyone. Look at the Diary of Anne Frank or the story of Job in the Bible. Its all about your eyes and your heart..what do you see and how do you define it? Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
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To me, love is a figment of the imagination and not real at all...People are just hopeful that they will find someone to fill the void in their lives, nothing more.  When they do meet someone, they think that it is love.
315394
true...when you are in love, you are blind to the other person's faults.
823731
The brain is convoluted. As are we all?
972082
I think that love is real...but it is proven that there are chemical reactions within the brain that wane down after a couple of years...so the one you love becomes more of a trusted companion as opposed to a lover...but i think that love is real, and that there is someone meant for everyone(...i just wish i could find that someone...)
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Once there was a boy who was assigned a homework assignment of such great Amplitude he decided to cheat! So he rode on the crest of a sound wave to yahoo answers where he asked someone to do his homework for them. But hid Diffracted brain caused this little boy to be so retarded he wanted to cheat, despite everyone telling  him not to. Then he looked on the electomagnetic spectrum and realized he was retarded.\n"Uhh... I like Hertz." said the newly-enlightened retard. Then a huge INCIDENT WAVE came and made him even more retarded. He would never be normal again. As he drooled, empty thoughts sounded in resonance throughout his empty head. His photon-sized brain sure was workin, crankin out 14 thoughts an hour! Then he saw he looked retarded in his reflection, but shrugged it off as he was too retarded to comprehend it. The refraction of light burned his eyes out of their sockets. Then a giant TRANSVERSE WAVE came and made him still more retarded. Boobs. If this kid doesn't read this and turns it in I'll laugh. Then, the trough of the wave hit him square in the nose. "Durr", said the retard, "I'm retarded." Then the vibration of his vibrator in his rectal opening caused him to scream, with such short wavelength he broke car windows. But then old McDonald came. The interference was just too much, and his node sized brain caused him to burst out in a hissyfit. He was too retarded to be constructive about it. But then an antinode came and eliminated his brain, making him literally brain dead. Then he decided he couldnt spell the following words:\n\nWave pulse\nFrequency\nStationary wave\nLongitudinal wave\nTimbre\nWave
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yes..  Love is a funny thing.. it's not always something we can control..  and also.. love has many different forms..
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I don't think so, maybe attraction is, you can be attracted to more people than you end up loving.  Love is different than attraction but it can certainly include attraction and usually starts off as attraction.