What do you do when your friend wants to get attention from the person you get attention from?
108217
If you prepared to sacrifried a friend(the person you get attention) then you should stay away from that person to let your friend have a chance, if you are not prepared then just introduce them to each other and try to get the 3 of you to be friend.
91918
nothing, it's the others who have the problem. Just let them warm up to you, you seem like a nice person. Give them a sign that you want to be their friend, and they will want to be yours too. good luck!
434637
you should pay close attention of how they are acting around you and try to get one of his or hers friend to tell you how he or she likes you or not and if the person you asks if you like him or her then tell him dude youre joking
303923
Yes, make the first approach.   If it's something that really is no big deal, then just apologize for it and get on with the friendship.
466554
just ask people you like if they want to be your friend
797768
Just be cool for now, if there is something there, let your friend come to YOU, ya know?
192910
Well some peolpe are and dont know it, If she is a good friend then take a step back and look at yourself, like when you make a comment on someone or someones clothes and such, example: I seen that shirt at Walmart, no way would I where that.
551343
A good friend should be able to tell her friend anything.  If you really feel that she is making herself look bad, then it might be a good idea to let her know that you care about her and voice your concerns in a tactful manner.  She might not react well as it sounds like she gets validation through her actions.  But it might get her to start thinking about why she feels the need to advertise her personal life.
355803
No i don't do that because people have done this to me before. Its like they lost interest in you because that person is new to them and think that new is better than old but when they realize that they have nothing in common with them they snub them as well for somebody else. It doesn't seem right anyway.  The person you prefer might not really prefer you.  You always know that your friend will always be there, and you know nothing about this person who just walked in. If you snub a friend your being selfish and want all the attention to you. You can loose a real friend by snubbing them. ANd you wouldn't like it if your friend snubbed you.
714864
someone has to make the first move if you still want to be her friend.  Send a card to her or something....or make a new friend.
398248
dude just let one of your friends but them from you
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
729520
Start by ignoring him.  He likely wants the attention.  If that doesn't work, you might wish to lose your identities that he knows and carry on.
150684
just tell her, "My friend thinks your cute and his name is .....whatever. Do you know who he is? (wait for response) Do you think he is cute?" Like that but don't come off as a jerk. Cuz then you messed it all up. But don't come off flirty either cuz then she'll think the "friend" is you.
161264
i have that same problem all you do is try to stay as far away as possible from thet person soon they will get the pic!! if not lay it out tell them to leave you alone nicely though or you could lose a friend maybe
607689
Go ahead and have the self confidence that someone wants to be your friend.  You won't be annoying if you see her a couple times a week for an hour or whatever.
705992
If your both nervous about it then you should have a friend scope out the situastion or drop the hint to him for you. This way you both don't have to really worry and you could just act like you didn't know that your friend was going to do that to you.