How am i suppose to stop feeling Jelous when SHE talk to other GUYS ??
110390
She is aloud to have friends just chill out how would you feel if she was in your spot?
677639
I agree with her friends. If u act as if your not into her anymore she may start to like you because now u don't show any interest. Act as if you have another girl you like and whenever your around her, just say " oh hi, how ya doing"  if u have a cell phone act like your calling another girl or when she around act like you have somewhere to go like to meet someone. Then she'll see that you may have someone esle and that would make her want you more.\n\nIf you kmow someone who would act like she's your lady friend she may really start to get jealous
104398
You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
101505
try to treat her right ... with all the jerks guys in this planets ; I started to sympathise the women .... make her feel good about being with you
508255
My question to you is this...Why do you do that? Are you trying to impress her or make her jealous? Do you have a low self esteem problem? Doing things "just for fun" is so BULLCRAP...we all do things for one reason or another..you know urself why you do this to her...I truly believe that a "real man...or gentleman" would not do that to his "lady" ..a real man..would focus on him and her...
649910
Do not self sabotage yourself! If he is talking to you, regardless, if its to get close to you or your friend, the ball is in your court, play it!!! Make sure he sees what a great person you are when your talking to one another. This is to your advantage. And as far as that friend goes, I think she is a secret admirer of yours (not in the gay way). Apparently, she probably thinks about you like you think about her. They say "coping is the highest form of flattery'!!! I know its annoying, but there is just one you and people are quick to pick up on who is the "copycat"! Now lets work on your self esteem. If you think your the things you wrote in your question, you will be that person. You have to believe in yourself. You have to promote self confidence. You are waaaay to hard on you! If there is something about yourself that needs changing, do it. There is so many tools a woman has access to in this day and time, not to achieve exactly what she needs and wants. So, start small and work up. Try to tell yourself during the day, "you are pretty, and interesting, and deserve as much or more than anyone you know." After awhile, you will look in the mirror and that person, you have been talking about will be there! I promise!!!
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mostly at the point where it doesn't matter anymore. \n\nwomen very easily become complacent about guys in their lives, especially the ones who are good to them. \n\nthe solution would be to make her realise that she's taking you for granted and that you don't like it.\n\nseeing u respect urself will make her want to respect u more and the rest will neatly fall in place.
739270
Stop worrying about the "other" girl..get your "game on".
302447
She'll probably use another guy to make you jealous. and if you've had previous experience with this stuff than it's probably a given that she likes you but she doesn't want to tell you her dirty little secret. Maybe she thinks that you will hate her if she says something. You should probably just needs sometime to get the courage to tell u. BE PATIENT!!!
284076
Keep her company, go shopping at the mall so you can guy look too.  Whatever you do don't talk about him bad or good and when she brings him up try to change the subject, gotta get her mind off him.
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
655302
Oh God, it seems we all have friends like this. Don't you just wanna punch her? Anyway, you can't act like it bothers you, 'cause she'll get some major satisfaction. Even if you feel like you wanna roundhouse kick her like Chuck Norris, stay calm. Remember, you've got more class than she does. \n\nHopefully, it'll work out where he guy won't pay attention to her. Be sugary-nice - eventually her fakeness will come out. Mean girls never win. =]
139606
dont worry about it hun ,,,,i am sure some other hot guy is making her very happy right now as we speak.....
966059
Well for starters you cannot tell her what to do..if she really wants to do this she will do it regardless of what you think.  I don't believe that this situation would make me happy either..if my husband was hanging out with a bunch of women, only, no guys..it would make me more than a little nervous.\n\nTry giving her a little more attention, take her bowling, to the movies..do the things that she is doing with those guys..and if it doesn't help..and you have good reason to believe that there is more than just a 'friendship' thing going on between any of them...perhaps it's time to seek a few girl-friends of you own..after all..apparently it's acceptable to do so in your relationship.
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Hi,U know I used 2 have the same problem... first of all... DO NOT FEEL LESS than other people,second: if someone comes by N U start blushing or gettin nervious, just imagine that person stading in an empty space with NOTHING but the opposite sex's underwear on,THIRD: let GO,hang loose,B confortabe,if U pretend everything's under control everything WIIL B under control,N lay back  relaxed,keep in mind YOU ARE WAAAAY better than the rest and if U DO say something stupid DON'T GIVE A FUCKIN' SHIT ABOU WUT THEY SAY OR MIGHT THINK ABOUT U,\n\nN fInally,whe U put all these on practice N B-come a more confident guy,find a girl who's a bit shy N THAT will B the perfect girl 2 start a conversation with,N hopefully date.... well this is wut I did N now I have a much better life,I realy hope it works 4 U .\n\nFeel free 2 E-mail me @ : debbie_free2nite@yahoo.com
737771
my suggestion, DONT PLAN AHEAD!!! if you plan ahead it just puts pressure. on you just go and do what you normally do and if you bump into her just say something that you would say to any other girl. like hey thats a neat shirt. or if she is into sports compliment something shes done well in sports. or whatever shes good at compliment her on it!!!!!!
1041307
Okay, she has the princess syndrome.  Women who are immature or insecure play this kind of game, where you are but one of many suitors who she can call whenever she's in the mood.  Doing this to you makes her feel in control, that she has the ultimate veto power.\n\nShe likes to flirt and it's possible that she has many other guys on the line, just in case she needs someone beside her whenever she feels lonely.  Keep in mind that it doesn't have to be you.  I'm sure she knows how you feel about her and she's just playing the "What's wrong with you" to manipulate you into feeling confused and guilty for acting like a stranger without provocation.\n\nYou were going in the right direction.  Keep your feelings to yourself and maybe explain briefly that you don't like to wait for her to make up her mind.  That single sentence will be a good reason enough because she acts like she doesn't know what she's doing, when in reality, she knows and enjoys acting like an innocent dove.  Keep away from her.  \n\nThe weird thing is, when you stick to your resolve, she will think about you more than she used to.  Human emotions are all wired in a strange way so that when you withdrawl your attention away from her, she will now be the one who makes the move to pursue you.  Chances are good that she will call you more often and come around.  \n\nNow it will be you who will control the relationship.  Be a man and either send her off on her merry way, or accept her and be the sweet boyfriend you always have been.