What exactly is sex? Normally after I have sex, my vagina starts getting red and itchy. I need hel[!?
112051
If you don't know exactly what sex is you shouldn't be having it.\n\nOh yeah and one word,\nDoctor\n\ngo see one.
93860
this is normal during sex thess are just the first places that show red when your blood pressure rises. your face will also be red when these start turning red
92246
Sex is the act we use to procreate. It is triggered by chemichals in our body that comepletely change our physical makeup. Beyond that, sex is what you make of it, for example, sex can be a trancending experience with the right person, but can be a horrible nightmare with the wrong one.
646487
No- this is not normal at all and should be checked out by your doctor. Bleeding after sex can be due to many reasons including cervical dysplasia, chlamydia, gonorrhea, vaginitis or cervicitis, cervical polyps, trichomoniasis, yeast infection, endometriosis or adenomyosis, uterine polyps, and fibroids. Please do get checked out to determine what the exact cause may be.
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
968263
It takes awhile for the blood to exit the penis and go soft again. Don't think you're wonderwoman it happens in every guy. Takes about 5 minutes sometimes longer if she cuddles with you and your tall tommy is rubbing her hips. I need to go jerk off
1178722
Hmmm you might have an infection of some sort, especially if you have slept with someone without protection. Make an appointment with your doctor ASAP.
834526
that used to happen to me sometimes, the inside of our vaginas are very fragile and can easily be slightly torn... no biggie as long as you are not gushing blood!! if its mainly when you wipe and a little on him after sex i wouldnt worry to much its most likely from sex that is a little rougher than normal
703174
Dont worry it's just your period starting. It's not always red at first but give it a few hours and it will be. Good luck.
49992
If it is your first time, then it was perfectly normal. After first sex, bleading cause of the tear of hymen, that protect your virginia. But if it isn't ur first time, then may be that time you are not relaxed. If not, then I advice please contact to the doctor. No, you are not pregnant if you took any precaution, like condom, pills etc.
888090
Sex is sex.  No matter what you call.  You can not only contract that but every other sexual transmitted disease out there.  Watch who you sleep with and preform these acts with.  Remember that oral, anal, and vaginal it is still sex.
846347
Healthy women enjoy sex as much as men. It is more stimulating than making out. That should be obvious. After the first few times sex should not be painful. If you or your partner is experiencing pain during sex, they need to see a doctor. Pain during intercourse can be caused by a number of things including sexually transmitted infections.
437085
Side effects of what?  Sex itself?  Well, it's exercise so you might feel some muscular soreness or something.  Or are you talking about pregnancy?  In that case, no you won't feel side effects one day after having sex.
1146902
Bleeding after sex is not normal and she should be checked out by her doctor. Bleeding after sex can be due to many reasons including cervical dysplasia, chlamydia, gonorrhea, vaginitis or cervicitis, cervical polyps, trichomoniasis, yeast infection, endometriosis or adenomyosis, uterine polyps, and fibroids. Please have her see her doctor asap for an exam and testing, to determine what the exact cause may be.
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I can't blame her if she is experiencing discomfort, they can be damn bothersome.  Sometimes when you have sex it is like itching a chicken pox or mosquito bite, it only makes it more irritating.  I will say this, yeast infections can be passed back and forth unknown to the guy.  the best advise I ever got, strange as it is going to sound, is for the women to use the vaginal cream and after inserted then proceed to have sex with her partner (thus medicating him).
816772
I am like yeast infection prone. Usually you will get an increase in discharge and you might feel a little raw down there. Then the discharge will get really thick and sorta look like cottage cheese. Yeah I know its gross! It will itch soooo bad that you just wanna take a brush down there and go at it. I wouldnt recomend doing that though. There are many reasons woman get yeast infections. Some antibiotics can cause them. You can also get them from too much sex and not rinsing soap off very well. The best thing you can do is go to the drug store and get Monistat one day. Its more expensive than the 7 or 3 day one but it will clear it up a lot faster. Also, for the itching you could use Vagisil. Personally, I am allergic to it but it is suppose to help with the itch. If it feels like it burns when you put it on dont use it. Keep everything clean and dont itch because it will cause infection to get worse and you can cause a skin infection as well. If all of this doesnt work for you, you can call your dr and he will perscribe you a nasty tasting pill. I hope I could help.
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It could be you were over stimulated.For instance you were in escence rubbed the wrong way.If you still continue to itch after a few days you may want to see a gyno.