How can a man prevent climaxing too quickly during intercourse?
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try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
63485
Wear thick condom. Don't think of cumming. Practice holding orgasm.
1010294
Its because the guy cums to fast.  Women need more time.
563728
To start with, make the foreplay last as long as possible. Keep your partner on the brink as long as you can before going in for full sex.\n\nWhen you're having sex, there are two options:\n1. Take your time, and pull out if you feel the moment approaching. Take a few moments to lose the urge to spurt, and use your fingers, or mouth or whatever until you go back in for more. Do this time and time again, and eventually your body will get used to taking longer.\n2. Think about your grandad's sweaty feet and bunions.\n\nEither way, you'll last a lot longer.
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Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
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M--- usually causes the opposite problem.\n\nFirst step: Get married or stay out of his bed.\nSecond step: You on top probably enables him to go longer. Try different positions.
304214
Try a cock ring or masturbate about eight hours before sex.\n Failing that, go for it, ejaculate give it a couple of hours and go again you'll last way longer second time round. Make a virtue out of your problem.
1092986
Practice not ejaculating. There are books you can read to help you not ejaculate too fast. Leave your foreskin alone! Read some sex books. Foreskin is very sexy! No you will not last longer if you get your wang hacked.!\nOnly with practice and lots of it will you last longer! Also talk to your doctor to make sure nothings wrong!
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There are topical products available that desensitize you to some extent so that you last longer.  The suggestions above are excellent, as well, especially masturbating ahead of time.  Some men find that wearing a condom helps...er, slow things down a bit, too.  Relax, incorporate some toys into your foreplay to increase the pleasure for your girlfriend, and try to focus on the journey instead of the destination...\n\nGood luck!
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If your talking about not ejaculating too soon or sooner then you'd like here's what I've found...  Start with practicing the "edging" technique when your pleasuring yourself.  Work yourself up until you reach the point of cuming then back off.  Do this over and over each time until you absolutely feel like you have to go or bust.  Enough practice at this... and you should be the master between the sheets with your significant other.\n\nRod.
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
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Hi,\nPremature ejaculation is can be cured,The treatment for premature ejeaculation is as under.\n\nThe following techniques will be  beneficial in delaying ejaculation:\nThe "stop and start" method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the 'Masters and Johnson method', is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.\n\nThe squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby "cancelling" the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.\n\nDesensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.\n\nThe couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.\n\nFeel free to contact\n\nEnjoy Life.\n\nDr.Mojo
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This is called premature ejaculation, and is a very common problem for guys under 40. If you can last at least five minutes, then some of the techniques and advise in the first two articles linked should be able to help you. \n\nHere are links to articles about this topic. The last article, from emedicine, is rather technical.
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I have already readed it, it's very usefull.\n"\nA Bigger Better Orgasm \n\nBoth men and woman can use the following techniques to make orgasms longer, stronger, more intense and, ultimately, more healthful. \n\n1. GAIN PELVIC MUSCLE CONTROL The pubococcygeal (PC) muscle group, which supports the pelvic floor, is the one that spasms when you have an orgasm. If it's in good shape, more blood will flow to the pelvic area during arousal and the PC will contract more strongly, making orgasms last longer and feel more intense. To paraphrase a statement about scientific discovery, "Orgasm favors the prepared body." Kegel exercises are a simple way to strengthen PC muscles. To do them, squeeze the muscle you use to voluntarily hold back your urine. Hold for two seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day. \n\n2. CONTROL VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS IN SEX You may already realize that some of the phenomena happening to your body during sex are under your control. While you cannot voluntarily increase and decrease your heart rate, you can take charge of various voluntary activities and thereby improve your sexual sensations. \n\nAs you approach orgasm, try speeding up your breathing and alternately tensing and relaxing your arm or leg muscles. During another session of lovemaking, practice squeezing or fluttering your PC muscle. The main behavioral principle is to choose one physical aspect of orgasm that you can control and overpractice it. Soon you will have trained your body so that all of these responses will work together effortlessly and occur spontaneously during future orgasms. \n\n3. MONITOR YOUR AROUSAL LEVELS As you make love, note your arousal levels on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm. As you reach each level, briefly stop and allow your arousal to subside so that rather than shooting straight for the moon, your arousal rises in a wave-like pattern. This technique, known as peaking, results in intense orgasms, possibly because it optimizes endorphin release. \n\nIn a related exercise, plateauing, squeeze your PC muscle, change your breathing, change your focus or change your speed in order to stay at high arousal levels for a long time prior to orgasm. Learning peaking and plateauing with a partner helps you develop a shared language of arousal and orgasm. "
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This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!
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What the heck is this premature idea anyway.  Whenever a guy cums, he does, period.  Instead of fighting what is natural and normal, think of some little variations in how you handle it and it will work just fine.  It is not all or nothing.  Some times, we have quick good feelings and other times it lasts much longer.  All kinds of factors influence us guys.  Our thoughts are likely the most important.\n\nWe usually get what we expect.  If you expect a fast experience, that is what you will get.  If you expect more, that is what you will get.
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It's only a problem if you feel it's a problem, or if you feel unsatisfied all or most of the time. A old sex study by Kinsey reported that 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.   Many take longer, and a few ejaculate right away (called premature ejaculation). \n  \nTry to slow down, don't stroke so fast, and take long slow strokes with pauses between the strokes.  \n\nThere is a technique that might help you.  It's called the start-and-stop technique.  When you feel yourself starting to get close to orgasm, completely stop stroking until the feeling dies down enough that you no longer feel like you are going to pop right away.  Then you can start up again.  Do this start-and-stop method for a while until you can't stand it, then let the orgasm happen.  \n\nIt may not work right away, as you are used to climaxing quickly, but keep practicing, and keep trying to slow down.  Eventually you should be able to make the masturbation session last longer. When you hold off for a while, the orgasm often feels stronger and much better.\n\nPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for young men, so don't be worried. In fact, some men would love to be able to orgasm faster, since as you get older, it sometimes takes longer to climax.  Also, try different masturbation techiques, as some may work better for you.  Check out JackinWorld (the "Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource.")  The bottom line is: slow down, make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to yourself, and take the time to really enjoy your masturbation session.\n\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com