How I can keep myself and others happy?
106627
you are so right to look for the beauty underneath, and do not worry what anyone says, if you think she is beautiful, she is! and, if she is the right one for you, she will not stop looking into your eyes for any reason. she will not even have to speak to you, just give you that look, as if there is no one else in the room.
1036040
Before you roll out of bed in the morning, count your blessings, and tell yourself your are going to have a good day.  Give gratitude in all things. Rejoice in your health. Volunteer for a good cause.  Do at least one thing, anonymously every day that makes someone else happy.  Practice a hobby you love.  Love what you do. Meditate. Pray.  Watch some good comedys.  Read some upbeat or self help books.  Take a class.  Take a walk.  Take it easy.
456534
Go and help someone who really need ur help.\nKeep smile on ur face every second of every minutes of every hourse of every days of every years of ur whole life.\n\n\nSo, trying to keep smile on ur face. Bye with lovely smile.
679155
Responsibility shouldn't keep you from being happy. Depending on your native custom, I think you should pursue your own happiness. Do what will make you happy, and keep your family close.
752381
Be generous.\n\nMake someone feel happy.\n\nShare things with people.
457577
lift weights, jog, get a massage from a licenced masseuse.  Do  something to make yourself happy again.   You have to make yourself happy before you spread happiness to other people. A doctor or pill ain't going to do it for you.  Exercise at least releases endorphins into the bloodstream and helps regulate mood.
121335
you should be a happy person yourself. But make sure that you know the limitations of having fun and being a good discipler. You can never be successfull and not a boring if you think that there is always a good and bad. there can only be limitations and not wrong and right.
284298
be strong in who you are and thank God for everything hes given you.\nlove yourself for who you are, and know God loves you even more.\nIf you live your life worrying about what other people think, you will never find happiness.\n\n be happy & love yourself!\nI think your great just the way you are, but when you love yourself first, people will see you differently.
405178
Right now i'm in that same situation. You have to learn to let go of all the bad negativity. That doesn't help when you hold everything inside. You have to learn to express yourself better. If you have a best friend or a real close friend. Share almost everything with them. If things bother you that people do let them know. Don't stress over the little things. There is a way to be happier all the time even if it's not you, but it will take some work. You have to look deep inside of you and wthink to yourself why do I act the way I do??
487945
Here is the answer but your not going to like it. The only thing or person that can make you truly happy is you! You have to be happy all by your self.  If you can't do that you will never be truly happy.  Things and people can give you certen gratification but your happyness lies with in you.  You are the only one that can let people upset you, you are the only one that can let cercumstances upset you.
561682
Your only responsiblity is to be happy yourself and in being happy that may have an effect on those around you. Happiness comes from within and it is the responsibilty of those around you to make themselves happy. If you are a good and kind person, you will always find friends as most people can sense that and will be drawn to you as you will shine with an inner light. Trying to make others happy tends to be frustrating as happiness and unhappiness is a conscious decison by the individual depending how evolved they are as a person. Follow your path of being a happy and well adjusted person, but don't carry their burden if they have decided not to be. If someone has suffered a tragedy then they have a right to be unhappy and you should validate their right to be that way and allow them to go through a grieving period. Also you could become a Comedian and make people laugh so they forget about their problems. Smile at least 5 minutes a day even if you don't feel like it and be a good person and live and let live.
572651
Find beauty in the tiniest things - the wood grain on your old desk, the flowers you walk by every day, the pretty displays in store windows. Do some community service - just trust me on this one. Spend a little more time with people who make you feel valued. Watch your favorite movie over and over and over again. Laugh at something, or at nothing. Smile more often - I think smiling is supposed to do something great like release endorphins and make you feel good. Good Luck!
194871
To tell you the truth I don't know if you can be happy every day of your life. Certainly not every moment. \n Keeping a positive attitude, knowing that things will be better when they are bad, knowing things could be so much worse. Having a special someone in your life that you love and loves you back. Well those are the things that keep me happy most days. But I am not perfect and the world isn't perfect so I take what I can get and make the best of it.
318601
WOW! you sure what a lot don't you? There is no way that a human being can always be happy, just like there is no way that you can always be sad. You can have a general good outlook on life and try to be happy with the situation that you are in. If you live a honest, decent life where you try your best you will find happiness.  If you help your fellow humans by volunteering of your time, talents and/ or money you will find happiness. Thinking of and helping others lets you know that your situation could be a lot worse.  In turn this makes you thankful for what you have.  If you try to always find happiness through materialistic things that you own, you are doomed to always be unhappy for the most part.  There is always something new and better around the corner. If you spend  some of your free time with family and friends ,you will find happiness.  You sound very young and unsure of yourself.  Be proud of what and who you are.  God bless you and Good luck!
927269
Manage anger by being happy.  Be happy you are alive.  Be thankful for your blessings.  Bless others!  Forgive, forgive, forgive the shortcoming of others.  Sing great songs!  Play!  Do something for someone less fortunate.  Get others to join you. You will be a person without anger toward yourself and others if you follow the above suggestions.
744815
If you want to be happy in life, don't try to collect treasures, toys, things. Instead, stop focusing on what you want and think about how you can contribute to making things better for someone else.\n\nSomething you learn when you volunteer is that once you focus on helping someone else, your own problems, needs, concerns, issues, etc. sort of become less important or troublesome and you begin to appreciate what you have rather than what you don't.\n\nGood luck!
201367
Be happy, and make others happy. I think that is what life is all about.