is it better to wait for losing your virginity?
107046
I didin't wait. Every now and then I think about what it would be like if I had chosen to wait and how special that would be to the girl I marry. I believe that most people don't wait cause of rebellion, or cause of the need for immediate pleasure (which is not as good as long term plesure for sure) or because someone forced them or made them feel guilty. I would imagine it would be better to wait, going on the fact that I fell guilty about the previous girls. You can never feel guilty about waiting if you are true to yourself and don't listen to anyone who tries to pressure you into it. It's got to be worth it to lose a friend/boyfriend/girlfriend because they are telling you they want you to have sex with them and you don't want to. It's YOUR life and no one else's. Don't give in against your own will!!!
146027
Hi As a guy I was glad my gf { now my wife} was a virgin. Dont let a guy pressure you into losing your Virginity. You only have one first time and it should be saved for your future husband. If a guy can not handle that, I would find a new guy.
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
110110
Hold on to your virginity. It's a real gift from God. You should be very thankful that He's preserved you. People nowadays brag and act as if fornication is the greatest thing and if you don't do it your considered wierd and unusual. \n\nRemember what St. Peter said about these type of people, "They think it's strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation, and they heap abuse on you. But they will have to give an account to Him (God) who is ready to judge the living and the dead." \n(1 Peter 4:4,5)\n\nStaying just the way that you are pleases God greatly. And who would you rather please? God or Man? The Lord will surely reward you for your patience. \n\nKEEP FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT AND ALWAYS PRAY!
467643
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 20.....my advise??? Wait till you've found the right person for you.Somewhere out there is someone for you...find this person first, it is worth the wait, believe me.
1127697
no it is not right to lose your virginity before marriage because the bible tells you so.  another reason  is nowadays young people want to experience to much to fast and they end up with diseases and other things you can't cure.  like i tell my daughter its not what all your friends tell you is about its about making love you should never want to have sex just to be having sex.
854309
HELLO?!  If you lost your virginity to him, then he should rightfully be yours.  Losing one's virginity is a mark that you belong to him, and vice versa.  If she knows that you two have already "marked" each other, then she should know to stay away.
430470
Why are you in a hurry to have sex? You have something that you can only give away once, so why not save it for someone who has also thought enough of themselves to save their first time for you? There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin...ever! Waiting for that special someone it the ultimate sacrifice. Think of how great a wedding present you could both give each other. One that could never be bought with any amount of money. You would also not have to wonder how many partners you are now sharing with the one you love. I'm sure you'll get many suggestions about appropriate ages. But you are putting your future into the hands of strangers, many of whom don't have your best interests at heart. Many will tell you to follow your heart & do whatever feels right. But feelings come and go. What you have can only be given once, then it's gone. Once you give it away, something seems to happen, deep inside your soul. It doesn't seem as important any more. You end up giving it up to your feelings, using it to get what you want. That's not what you were made for. Yes, I know I sound old fashioned. But, I was once where you are, even though I'm a gal. I wish that I had never made that first decision to give away what was supposed to be saved for the one I would eventually give my heart to. Please consider what you're doing before committing yourself to giving this special gift away. Be careful with your heart. <*)))><
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
1107856
It is completely up to you because if you think  you are mature enoughto take responsibility to use poretection and be safe then go for it. Be careful the person you chose to give your virginity to because it is sacred and it can never be given away again. If you want to let your parents opinions be a factor in your decision then its up to you.
694149
Virginity IS important and its something that has to be thought about before given away. It might not be that important to the girl who's losing it but, think about the people around her and society.\nDespite the rise in teen sex, its still not OK in society for a teenager to be sexual and to have sex. With guys its a little different because guys see it as a status thing. With girls, you either come off looking like a slut or you're seen as easy or "used". \nWhen giving it up, its got to be something you want to do and its got to be something you've thought about. If you're unsure, dont do it. Its not something you can get back.
592210
Your virginity is a wonder gift to give a husband. He knows you truly are committed to him and this is only for him. (guys love that) He will never have to wonder if you are comparing his performance to someone else.\n\nAnother good reason: Most relationships grow in intimacy and communication until the sex starts. Then everything stops or at best grows slowly. If you want to be married to your best friend for life, wait for sex until you marry him.\n\nThere are religious reasons as well, I'm sure others will cover that angle and you probably already know what they are going to say. So all I will say about that is you already know the answer, follow your convictions.
100977
No, I don't.\nI will wait till married.\n\nThey who think as your question, I think it's just sex for pleasure. They don't think about marry at the moment, even about love ( if they really love each other, they would thinking about marry).\n\nMy opinion, virgin will marry with virgin, and not virgin with not virgin.
360628
I lost my virginity at the young age of 14...If I had the choice, I would take it back...There's no REAL love in just sex...& yes, I agree w/ you, losing a virginity at a young age is wrong...So I have to say, that, whatever I say or anybody else here, won't matter to you if you want to do what you want right?? Here's my opinion, if I were you, I would wait until you're married...I didn't & I wish I would have waited for my husband...I took that away from not only me, but my husband too..
850731
.....well, to state the obvious, losing your virginity involves a giving and receiving between two people, not a person and their appendage. Also, once you do lose your virginity, you will see that using your hand and being with a partner are more different than you think..trust, it doesn't count.
188960
NO!  I lost my virginity just before I turned 14.  Please don't do it, I wish I would have waited.  You have your whole life to have sex and you should share it with someone that truely deserves you.  Don't give yourself to someone who is not worthy of such a beautiful gift.  If you do decide to do it, please, please use a condom and get on birth control.  There are some nasty people out there.