I would date  a girl overweight , why worry about PEOPLES physical appearance?
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the reason why people do is on the level of acceptance, which is not right. people feel that if they are with someone good looking then it will help boost them in some way. my opinion you have to be true to yourself and not put up a front in order to feel accepted. if your not true to u, u are lying to yourself and that's not good.
1148152
beauty is in the eye of the beholder.i personally think some over weight chicks carry their weight well some dont.just because your fat or skinny dont mean your going to look good or bad.
93785
because there is alot of pressure to look good, and if thier not a size 2 or smaller, they think they are fat. \nIt could also be that most guys only date the skinny girl over the girl that has some padding. So it only proves to the girl that you have to be skiny to get a guy.
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You don't need to "be less fat." If this guy is dating you, then he probably doesn't have a problem with your weight.  If he thinks you're too blah looking, then he isn't the right guy for you.  The right guy will like you for who you are and not for the clothes you wear.  I know it sounds cheesy, but it's the truth.  If you're changing your style because you (not him) want to make a change, there are lots of cute clothes at places like TJ Maxx that aren't that expensive. I hope this helps!
295095
it shuoldn't matter about appereances but in today's society magazines are aimed at showing that thin girls are beuatiful and guys with abs are hot.if you don't want to lose weight because of society's peer pressure than lose weight for health reasons.but i am really sorry to say that it is hard for an overweight guy to get girls. try internet dating.
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I love to go out with a bigger girl, simple fact is that they are more( no pun) open to building a lasting relationship. You take your average skinny girl, it's all about her, and you are just there to hold her stuff and buy her stuff. Larger girls still need there stuff held too - but they are more open to your opinion. Now begs the question - how big is too big? If the girl has an ounce of self-esteem then it's not a question of size of the body, but more of heart. How much love, kindness, and compassion does she have!
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I wouldn't any more, I am married.  But, If you are caring and have a great sence of humor, your size and beauty are trivial to the topic.\n\nIt sounds like you are concerned about your shape.  If I were not married, I would not hesitate to ask you on a date.  Other than being a little self conscious, (and who isn't) you need to like yourself first.  Others will respond to you as you project a positive or negative image.  Don't be phony, but don't just settle for anyone.  You deserve better than that.
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Yes.  The chubby means that the girl isn't afraid of her body like some people.  It also means that they will most likely appreciate the attention more.
125166
Alright.  It actually is about what's inside.  Unfortunately, the first impression is based on physical appearance, unless you are blind, because that's the first thing you are able to see about the person.  Then you can move on to the other parts about a woman.  A guy isn't going to stay with a girl if she's drop dead gorgeous but dumb as a brick.  And if he tries, it will fail miserably.  I'd rather have a cute girl that has a head on her shoulders than a hot girl with an empty head.
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we like normal girls.. lol\nwe dont want someone thin, we dont want someone fat..\n( well, most..)\nalthough, to be honest, i would rather have a larger girl, then a much skinnier one..\nbut i just want a normal built, girl :)
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Hi.\n\nThis is basically a cultural thing.  It really is not healthy for anyone.\n\nIn some cultures, however, being overweight, especially for women is desired.  It shows that they can tolerate stressful times (excess energy is stored up), so if there is a challenge in getting food - she'll survive.  (That is one reason)\n\nThe other reason a more robust woman may be desired is that she is direclty correlated with pregancy and motherhood, which are very desirable attributes in most cultures around the world.  In fact, in several areas sexy drawings or sculptures have been and are made of preganant women, or just large women for this reasons. - health, progenity, and fertility.\n\nLastly, in the West (the U.S.) being more and more slender has become a trend due to the fashion industry.  One era where it really started was in the 1960's with "Twiggy".  After that models began to become more slender.\n\nYou might remember from history, TV, or documentaries that they looked at Sophia Loren and Raquel Welch and Jane Russel (or Mansfield) as full-figure - GORGEGEOUS, Sexy Women.  (They were at least 20percent heavier than today's models. (go ahead and verify my percentage here - I'm going on memory) \n\nYou know - without any weight, it's pretty hard to have much of a figure: where are the breasts or hips?  You need some stored energy to have a really nice figure - at least for most women - maybe not all of them.  Some look feminine and great quite slender, others don't.\n\nUnfortunately, the more we read those fashion magazines we think we have to measure up, and that their standard is "it".  Not so.  Also, unfortunate: guys are starting to "buy into this philosphy" - for women.  That is not healthy - women/girls Don't need more pressure to fit some mold.\n\nLastly, did you know it's white women who have more of an issue with body image than black women?  It's the training, it's the sex typing, it's the culture, and it's what you expose your brain to and accept.  (I'm not making this up - this was part of my Gender Psychology class).\n\nWell, hope this adds good stuff to your answers.\n\nTake care.\ntiny feet
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If your already that serious about her she shouldnt care what you look like. She will love what ever you do.
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Every one prefers different people...most don't really mind too much I don't think. I wouldnt like a too slim girl tho!
842095
It depends on what's she's like. I would not date a girl just because she's skinny. I have girls at my school that are skinny and sleep around alot. They also are the worst to talk to. So it would depend on here personality.
1085119
I think that you should tell her not to worry about her appearance.People will fall in love with her because of her personality.Besides men like their women in different shapes and sizes.Men that are drop dead gorgeous go out with big girls.Everybody has their own taste.Just try to talk to her and convince her that there is someone out there fir her and it doesn't matter how she looks..There is a man out there that will like all her thickness.
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Well my girlfriend who is truly my soul mate is chubby, but is really beautiful and has a great personality. I wouldn't say that I'm dating her because she's chubby, but I'm dating her because I lover her eyes, her smile, and both her inner and outer beauty.\n\nTo me she could have been skinny --- fat and I would still date her because of who she is.
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i do not date by looks.what good is a curvy girl if she is not a good person? what good is a skinny girl if she is not a good person? it all depend on what kind of person you are dealing with. i would like the one with the bast overall personality. it is not all about looks.