how to be a good husband?
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Always listen to what she has to say and be there for her no matter what. Never say anything you can't take back later. Words do hurt. Never abuse her in any way. Love her and tell her that all the time.\n\nK
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First of all you have to love each other...Honesty should be there..  VEry important is open communication, . Trust and respect one another.Accept him as what he is and vice versa, yet if there is something to be changed for the good of relationship is very willing to do it. Put God between you or making the Creator the center of relationship. There are lot os important things to do but so far thats the most.
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expect a lot of adjustments...stop thinking about yourself anymore....and remember...communication is a must!! in your lifetime together not just at the beginning...\n\nfrom what you said..you're lucky enough to know that you are marrying a wonderful man..\n\nbest wishes...cheers!!
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Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
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Happy wife=happy life.\nKeep her happy and you'll do just fine.
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Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
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Do what he wants and make him to think of you first, slowly he will be understanding what u r, what u like, What u expect from him.\nThe normal man always want to provide all the things to his wife but forgets to understand her which creates problems....\nDon't Worry, Cheer UP, Every thing will be fine. Be BOLD For your thoughts in matters of Mutual Understanding.
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start each day with the thought you are alive and have a day to do whatever you want to do\n\nif your husband leaves to work before him, give him a sloppy kiss\n\ndo some quiet meditation before you sleep\n\nbe a minimalist and try not to accumulate, be more conscious about the beauty of nature\n\nread an interesting book, have a fun conversation, and meet someone you always wanted to meet, if you do this regularly you wuld have a happy life\n\noh yeah - don't read the newspapers and don't watch TV - they only have ads - of things you should have which you don't have or miserable stories around the world about bombs and killings
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1) Get a good education so you can find a good job that you like.\n\n2)  Find a good spouse and marry for life.\n\n3)  Learn to live within your means.\n\n4)  Learn to manage and invest money without being enslaved by money.
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Before you take advice from people you don't know.  You need to first listen to you.  If you love him and think you can make this marriage work, then try to work things out.  \n\nYou are right, the 1st year (and a few more) are hard, but that doesn't mean give up! I read your other question, and I don't think you got the "best" advice.  Consider the sources... (and here I'm talking and you don't know me from the rest of them!) \n\nBut I will say, go to someone who knows the two of you, someone who can be a voice of reason. And have that person mediate the issues you are having with your husband.  A good councilor will be able to help you there.  Find one. \n\nMy marriage ended over stupid stuff.  Things that could have easily been handled in an adult way, and fixed.  If you love your husband, go the hard road and try to forgive and get to the bottom of your issues.\n\nFor the fourth time tonight, I will suggest a few books that I believe could have saved my marriage if I had them before it was over...\n\n1. The Five Love Languages- Probably my favorite... it talks about the different "languages" of love we can offer to each other. Everyone has one or two that are their main love language, and if you are not communication to you spouse in THEIR love language, then they probably won't feel loved... great book.\n\n2. Love and Respect- it talks about the different needs of a husband and a wife. It relates to each of you. It's split in certain areas to directly talk to you and to your husband. It talks about how women see things thru "pink glasses" and men see things thru "blue glasses". It's eye opening...It's wonderful.\n\n3. Friendship Factor- This one is SO basic. It was like a light going off in my head each time I turned a page. It helps you realte to others better as WELL as your husband.\n\nI would read them in that order...together with your husband. You can find them in the Christian/ Religious section of most bookstores. And don't worry, they aren't overly "holy" if you are weirded out by Christian books. It's just that God designed man and woman for each other, and boy oh boy does HE have some good principles to build on. The books are very relatable and easy to read quickly.\n\nGo get advice from a source that you can trust. Know that my heart is with you as you are suffering.  And I hope that you can see past this incident, and try to make some sort of sense of the issues you are having.
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Hi, Hope your feeling a little better about yourself when you receive this answer.  Understand the god has made men to be physical, and we are emotional, we need to teach men how to love us.  But you can't no man love you or even more for that matter. first start by loving yourself, and understand if he don't want to be kept, you can't keep him.  Ask yourself does he want to be with me TRUTHFULLY!!  I don't know how your living you life, but if you will find yourself you can truly know real love.  Try getting to know the Lord, and He'll help you find yourself, your true self.  I hope this has helped you start anew.  Have your relationship with the lord(Jesus) First, and He'll send the one for you.  When a man findeth a wife, he finds a good thing.  Proverbs 18:22
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Just remember that you always have control over your own situation.  If you are in a bad marriage don't be afraid to leave.  Get out of that comfort zone and don't let fear of the unknown stop you.
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Commitment, respect, and honor. Always keep these things in mind and you'll have your husband at your side for ever and he'll be the happiest man on Earth.
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Being a parent, but that takes being a good spouse first.
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1. Support him as he chases his dream (if you kill his dreams, he'll never forgive you)\n2. Encourage him and tell him how great he is (even if he isn't, he might just live up to your words)\n3. Be sexually easy and don't play mind games\n4. Never talk to your parents about problems in your marriage.\n5. Agree to communicate about money so that it never comes between you.
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Get yourself into a good Christian church, get saved, start reading the Bible, and ask for guidance from its elders.  The best thing you can do for your husband is pray for him.\nThe book "The Power of the Praying Wife" would help you a great deal.
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show your partner that you love him/her. show care. show affection. show humility. cheer up. ;) be happy.