only for guys. if you know that a girl love you and you donot .what shall you do if she tell you that?
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hi lady. am really had saffered the same thing . there was a relative for me . she was sending for me love messages and love emails and on my mobile. but the problem that i don't love here . not because she is ugly girl but because i don't feel love in my heart when i see here. and which makes it more complicated that i loved a girl and she was christian and i had so many problems for this reason. and in my living place which it's jordan christians in general don't give girls for marrieg for non christians people . and she was loving me too. but for that reason nothing was good for me and her . so we were so confused about that and every thing collapsed . so i was in a very complicated situation from both sides. and am really right now searching for love but i can't find a girl that i will love her from same exact time i see her on or later even. but the problem i am right now in egypt studying medicin and i felt in in strange feelings like i want to get back to my family and feel the love of my family at least. and this girl was sending for me while am in egypt after three months and for a moment i felt that i haven't be rude with her and have to be alot more better with here  i felt sorry for her so i told her that i love u nad i will be with . and this thing continued for one month i call her and send for her and promised her but am was trying to make my self love her and tell my self that is good to have someone love u that much. but infact i don't love her . so it was a mistake to feel sorry . because u have to be ohnest with your self and with her . so i returned to collapse every thing and her love turned to hate and every thing was bad and i was so deppresd. until she forgived me before one month. so any guy if he dosenot feel in love for a girl and he said that he love her u have to know that it's for  two reasons :1-he feels sorry for the girl and that is wrong. and 2-he want to use her for something like he want her money or whatever is the prophet for him and that is so ugly and so bad. so u have to know if he loves u . maybe u ask how?. it's simple dose he look at u a respectful look just to your eyes. or he try always to defend u from anyone and want u always to be happy. and he dosent want u to be harmed and osen't want to harm your feelings always. because so many guys in our days just look for _and am sorry for this world _sex. so u have to be very clever in this theng.and u have to know from him in a indirect way if he love u or not. am sorry if my answer was a branched one but i want to give a true story which had been with me to take lessons from it and  to avoid being in this situation. and if u want friends i can be the first friend for u lady. and we can chat in YAHOO. MESSENGER. MY EMAIL ON IT AND ON YAHOO IS NABIH_ZAID@YAHOO.COM ( and on hi5.com my profile is nabih_amleh@hotmail.com). hope to be friends lady. bye.
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you just do and if you love her tell her and when u do if she is scared shes not sure if she says she loves you to (for the 1st time) fast and uncaring she doesnt but if she says it slow and loveingly she does
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You didnt do this while with this girl did you? If not I can say this much: Never hide anything. If you really love this girl then dont be afraid to tell her. I know from experience and I can say that we have the best relationship even when we were separated half the world apart
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Seriously, why not just tell her the truth?  Just say something like 'lucky for you I don't have a girlfriend.... yet.  Maybe you can help me out *wink*'  Im the type of girl that likes to flirt but if I know a guy has a girlfriend I won't even think about dating him.  If I know he's single maybe I'll get lucky...
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tell her your ready but i want to do the basics first and after your down and your ready tell her i think its time to try if your not good its OK that always happens don't worry about cant find it or is it OK for you just do it girls like guys for beaning them tell her straight out that you want it but need to learn
429337
look in your girl's eyes and ask her if she loves you.  You woould know if the answer is sincere by looking at her eyes.
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Are you going out?  If you are, watch what she does for you?  Does she help you get your coat when you leave her place?  Does she do little things for you?  Call to say she misses you?\n\nSome girls are sensitive to a guy telling her he is in love with her.  Find out if she is in love first, if not work to get there.  If you say, that you are in love with her and she is not, then she might get scared and end the relationship.\n\nGood luck.  Peace.
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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women always like to hear how beautiful they are so tell her.  You have to ask yourself if you can handle what happens if you never tell her, because some other guy might be braver than you.
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get a girl you love and marry her and stop this nonsense if you dont love her dont use her.
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I would just say - tell her straight at her face.. but not everyone has the gut to do it. Not even me. \nSo, if you are bold enough, let her know.\nIf you are not, show her your affection for her. If she loves you, she can feel it. If she doesn't.. then you should know what to do.
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if the guy ur with is very close to you and you know he is quite concerned about pleasing you (and he wouldn't find out) i guess it's ok.\n\ncoz guys can actually get hurt if they don't please you, (i'm talking about guys who are really in love with their girls.)\n\nbut if you lie and he finds out, it will be all the more hurtful for him. \n\nso you gotta use your discretion!!
544204
communication. you need to talk to her. see where her feelings are at. she probably doesn't know you love her.  the best thing to do is talk and find out what she is thinking.
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I DONT KNOW BUT GUYS WILL TELL YOU THIS AND MUCH MORE SO YOU WILL LET THEM
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Well, I think a girl would probably like a guy to let her feel his love for her gradually than to just blatantly say out to her that he likes her. that'll just probably freak her (unless you're really handsome, or she likes you too). if he were to say it... he might like to say it in a jokingly way at first and maybe sometimes later...to say it in a more serious tone. for me, i'll prefer him to say it in a funny way and i can still remember a time when a guy asked me "what is aishiteru?" and i replied "i love you" and he said "ya..me too". i totatally fell in love for him cos he's just toooooo humourous and cheeky =D. well, just a simple "can i sms / email you sometime around?" will enable you to get her hp no. or email add without giving lame excuses and beating around the bush. and arh well..about the talking in private..i know how girls usually stick with their frens outside when guys who like them is around...you'd just have to find an opportunity when she's alone to talk to her..or you can just talk to her in a "i want to talk to you in private" way, by keep looking at her friends awkwardly so she'll know .
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tell her how you feel then see what she does.
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if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi