He claims he never went into Yahoo Personals Profiles or AOL Personals but his computer says otherwise.  Help!
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Seems like you don't trust him already, or you wouldn't be checking out his web history. You either have reason not to trust him, or you are unable to trust other poeple because of your own problems.\n\nThat said, there is no way those sites could just appear in his history without someone visiting them using his computer. Make absolutely sure nobody else used it before accusing him. Maybe you should both go to couples' counseling if you are having major trust issues.
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Most people don't fill in their profiles on yahoo, so theres every likelihood that even if you do get to his profile, there won't be anything in it.\n\nThat said, below is a link to the Yahoo Member Directory where you can search using names, yahoo IDs and interests.
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I am sad to say "Just ask him" is not going to resolve this question, if indeed your husband IS putting up profiles in dating sites. If your relationship has come to a place where you suspect this type of behavior, then you probably are aware of actual episodes of him cheating on you. The adult dating sites are where many cheating spouses go to find partners to cheat with. I know because I was using the sites to date eligable men, and I saw many sad things going on at many of these sites. There is one site which encourages the individuals to say exactly what they were looking for and what type of sex they were into. There were many men and women who said they were looking to have an affair with no strings attached! I was terriably saddend to see this. I really feel for you if you believe your husband is behaving in this manner. What would you do if you found out he was doing this? It sounds like you have a strong reason to think he is doing this, so what would you do if you found out? I think this is an important question you need to ask yourself. You can not change anybody's behavior, only your own. You need to decide what you can tolerate and what you can not tolerate. It is about self respect. Yeah, you can go and check all the history and find out what he is doing on line. However, he may know how to erase those traces too. Men who cheat regularly and use the computer to do so, often know how to erase those history tracks left inside the browsers. There are other ways to find out. He probably likes to keep his letters. He may be "hiding" them in hidden files and folders. To look through out the entire computer for all hidden files and folders do this:\n1. Open any explorer window. Any window you open on the computer is an explorer window. Or go to "all programs" then to "accessaries" then to "windows explorer".\n2. Click open the Tools option.\n3. click folder options. A new window will open which is \n   the folder option window.\n4. Click on the "view" tab.\n5. Scroll down to the Hidden file and folders, which has \n   two radio buttons regarding files and folders.\n6. There is probably a green color showing in the button of\n   "Do not show hidden files and folders. While there is \n    no green color in "show hidden files and folders"\n7. To change to show hidden files and folders, just click\n   the button "show hidden files and folders"\n8. Click "apply" or just click "ok" and for a moment \n   your computer will blink and your icons will disapear \n   and quickly reappear, kinda like they jumped. This is\n   normal as hidden files and folders are now becoming \n   "Unhidden. \nTIP: Hidden files and folders will have a "ghostly" appearance. Kinda faded looking. These are the folders and files that were hidden from view. Some files inside the hidden folder or file will not have the ghostly look. These are still "hidden" inside the hidden folder but not really hidden. As long as they are within a hidden folder they are in effect "hidden". The folder used to contain the illicit letters, if in fact they exist, may be a regular file "hidden" inside a hidden file. Or he may actually have hidden them, and so they will have the ghostly look.\n\nNow you need to search you computer for all folders and files. You do this by using the search feature. \n1. click "start"\n2. click "search" On the start menu. A window will open,\n   this is the search program.\n3. click on "search all files and folders"\n4. On where to search click on the arrow which opens a menu \n   for you to chose from. \n5. click on C drive, if C drive is the drive you use for the\n   major apps, has your OS on it, and all your files and\n   folders. \nTip: If you are not sure, just click on both C and D drives for this search. Perhaps you should do this anyway, as he may be clev
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If you know his last name you can go online to one of the search places. I included a typical site below for you in case you want to try. Word of warning tho, they will charge you for this service. If this doesn't work, call a private investigator, if you think it warrants that.\n\nDon't you know where he works?\n\nCan you go back to the bar and ask if he's a regular?\n\nJust a couple thoughts there for you.\n\nUnfortunately tho....he probably figures you have blown him off, as women seem to be famous for doing this, and he may have moved past this already.\n\nDo cell phone companies upload your info to their servers? I don't know if they do this or not....I don't have a cell.\n\nTo actually answer your question tho....if you were careless enough to lose something as important as your cell phone, I'd say that you and he were probably not meant to hook up, but perhaps if you go back to the bar now and then you may run into him again.\n\nI wish you well and luck.\n\n\n\nI second that.....what sara said.
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first question is, is she computer savvy?  if not, then just delete your history, temporary internet files, and your messenger history.  if she is, then you're going to have to up one on her.  good luck!
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Either your security for the profile folder is wrong or profile files are missing.  See Microsoft's description below.
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dont you know that living well is the best revenge?\n\nhow about this... take comfort in the fact that when that idiot downloaded that booter he also downloaded about 16 tons of adware. meaning his computer is total crap. ...he might get a little power trip satisfaction from being a dickwad in chatrooms but his computer is running like crap because he doesnt know what he is doing. dont be like him... dont let idiots like that get to you, youre better than that.
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Tough one. He could be leaving it open testing your trust. He could want you to find those emails because he wants you to find them to get a divorce. He could just be an idiot. Or the emails don't mean a damn thing to him so he is not worried if you find them because he isn't doing anything wrong. Lots of possibilities. It's your computer too, he left his sign on, you stumbled upon it. However, since you are married and don't trust him, you may have a problem just because of that.
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there was once this situation rite,\n\nsomeone emaild me asking for a change of his email username, so like from 123@abc.com to 456@abc.com - ok so i did that.\n\nThen again after a few weeks he emails me from 456@abc.com asking "why on earth i havent changed his username!"\n\nim like whoaaa... he shud b some computer crook or something...
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cant give you specific profile,\n but if he doesnt, \nbye bye
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Absolutely not. How did you not kick him as hard as you could? You have more self control than I do. Whenever he is not home go and put your own profile on that same website and start sending him messages and just mess with him a while. Set up a meeting (if he goes for it) and bust him there. Then after he knows you know, talk about why he did it and see if its something he did out of boredom or for another reason. Good Luck!!
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Confront him.  You removed your profile, challenge him to make the same committment and remove his.  There are lots of ither fun sites on the Internet that are not dating related.
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Is getting rid of the computer an option? Also, do you think that the computer is the ONLY place he flirts? Most likely not I'd say. You deserve better. Maybe try a trial separation - do you have family that you can live with? Make him realize what he has in you.
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WHAT?! I've never heard of such.. Maybe AOL is lying.
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If he closed his DSL account, it should have converted to a free Yahoo account.  \nHave him go to a public terminal (like at the library) and have him sign in to the Yahoo mainpage with his Yahoo screenname (not his email) and password.  That should give him access to adjust his settings.
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If the person actually took time to fill up their bio on their Yahoo you can.  If not... there really isn't anyway...
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Marc C spot on - I have tried it - met this nice guy spent time together - lots of it still do! he sends of body language that every-one picks up - he's met my kids and guess what he still chats on Personals. Don't get taken in you will get hurt!!!\nYou guys out there please explain why you do that!! why you give of false vibes!!!