I want to move back to my native country but my parents said No.Should I listen to them or do what I want?
112143
well you should go were you want to,\nif you really want to go and and your parents wont let you go tell them you really want to go and that you know what you are doing...  thats what i would if i was in your place.
24639
CALMLY talk to your parents. LISTEN to what their concerns are. I am a son, parent, and soon to be grand parent ... Although I rarely took my parents' advice and changed my life because of it, when I did LISTEN, it made my life easier. My parents realize (and I realize as a parent) that kids will NOT do what they want them to do, but if the parents are HEARD, it makes life easier for you, your parents, and the "mate" you are talking about. Think about what they are saying to you, DON'T ARGUE or MAKE THEM THINK like you think - that ain't happening - You allready know your opinion, now PLEASE take 10 minutes and hear the opinion of your parents.
302580
you follow your mind what you think is right for you not your family. if you feel its worng then its worng. if you feel it right its right. trust in God  he will drict your path. he want lead you down the wrong road. you have to think who's going to take care of you when you become an adult. think of you goals for your future and do what it take to achive them. but you only in the 10th you also have next year to study if you haven't seen you parent i really belive you should go see them.you can take if information with you to study for sat's that a good idea.
840971
Move to america or change your country
761717
You really have to face it and explain to your parents why do you want to move to a new school and is it reasonable to move? and what is the reason your parents wouldn't want you to move.
680240
One day, you will miss your old country.  Try to return for 2 weeks with a good attitude - take a lot of digital pictures to remember what the old place was like.  Maybe one day you will share them with your children in USA.\n\nGood luck\nSafe travels.
630771
Even though this isn't what you probably want to hear, but unless your parents are completely crazy, which is possible, but they are only doing what they think is best.  You have to think about things from their point of view.  Is there anything that you could try comprising on?!  Or have you tried talking to them?!  Talking goes a long way.  I was young once and now that I'm older I see what my parents were talking about.  Just don't tell them that.  But they are probably also thinking about things from when they were your age and what you need to do is sit them down and explain to them that you aren't like them you are trying to do your thing.  Just keep your head up, things will get better
250757
I was in the same situation. I didnt know how to tell my parents i wanted to move out.. I started buying things i would need and starting saving money. I also would tell everyone else yet not them...then one day someone brought it up in front of my mom and she was like...what you want to move out. Then I came out and told her....Its not that i dont want to live with you anymore..its just it is time for me to leave and begin my life as an adult. They were sad at first but you know what... my parents told me after that they understand and as long as i am happy in my decision they are happy too, even though they miss me.\n\nThis is my story maybe it can help you.
926288
That's a hard one!  I don't think either that they should go back either.  Children need a stable environment.  It's not good on them to be transfered around.  Even back to parents that don't care about them anyways.  Im so sorry that you have to go through this.  If I were you,  I would fight this as hard as you can.  Good Luck!
442763
Be careful, your parents CANNOT possibly decide what is best for you unless you are a child.  Please LIVE and LOVE your own way in life...there is sooo much to be lost otherwise!
124334
i would be willing to move to a distant country for someone that i was IN LOVE WITH; not just someone i loved. also, i have been to asia and europe and realize that the world isn't as big as i thought it was. i don't think that moving to a foreign country would necessarily mean that you wouldn't be able to see your friends and family again. you just may not be able to see them as frequently.
704479
if they are insisting that you will just be in the way, then leave it like that. as exciting as it was before and probably will be for the rest of your life, you have to take into consideration in what your parents say. you should work on improving your behavior and prove to them that you are r-e-s-p-o-n-s-i-b-l-e and that you can act civilized when doing grown up things with them. \n\ni understand as a child that they dont have much of say when it comes to adult decisions, but you can mention that you want to feel comfy in your new home too and that you would like to see what houses they're looking at. buying a house is a big thing and all family members should be a part of agreeing with the house, but if youre going to act wild and run around an empty house- youre not going to get anywhere.
176977
You don't have to do anything.  Just being home with your family will be enough.  As much as you want to be back with them and get back to life at home, they want the same.  Just get home and love them like never before:)  Welcome home!
1120627
Ramesh you would not like this piece of advice i am sure...but why to you wanna go to abroad when you are not payed well...i feel you should stay whereever you are and try to work for your country rather than working for some foreign country...hope you like this advice...cheers!!!
682957
I did have to make that choice, either stay living with my boyfriend or come home to live with my parents that are in bad health and failing fast. I choice to be with my parents and can only hope now that I don't loose my boyfriend in the process of all this. So far so good as I have been here with my parents for over 2 months now, him and I are still going strong.I either go see him or he comes to see me and talk every day on the phone.
141131
I think a lot of people go through not being able to tell their parents about how they want to live. especially when their parents are really religious. I had a hard time telling them that I was dating my boyfriend, now husband. I can't even imagine how hard it would be for you.\nbut if you really want to live the way you want to live, than you have to tell them. if they love you, they will learn to understand and respect your lifestyle.\nit took my family about 6 months to talk to me again when they found out that I moved in with my boyfriend and I didn't want to belong to their church.\nhang in there, and your parents will come around.\ngood luck!
110613
They are asking if you are willing to fight for your country.\n\nIf you are not, then you are welcome to relocate.