How do I ask her to marry me without being straight forward?
104616
if you are truly in love with this woman why would you even be worried about being straight forward...wouldn't you be screaming it from the top of a building... women want the moment they have been proposted to, to be a moment that they can tell there children and grandchildren...no matter what you do make it your own...this is for you too...this is a memory that will last a lifetime...\nCONGRATS!!! and good luck....
625472
I'm not certain what you mean when you say "rude girl", but if you are not romantically involved with her, why would you want to propose to her? Do you mean propose marriage?\n\nHow do you know that she never thinks about love?\n\nYou don't say how long you know her so if you know her for just a short time, you could change the relationship if you propose to her - and maybe that change would not be good.\n\nYou don't say why you want to propose to her - if you were to provide more information, then maybe we could help you more.\n\nGood Luck!
270871
Ask her! If she is worth marrying you should be able to trust her? Right?!
188279
show her that u love her and willing to work on marriage show her that u care talk to her in a way that she answer u honestly whats bothering her and she can open up .. and don't give up if really want this marriage to work it will if u just make her understand that u love her
975916
Seems like you two really hit it off quickly, so why not. \nIf your comfortable asking and she accepts, there shouldn't be a problem. Of course run it by your family first to see what they think.
406319
Be straight forward and tell her the truth
350765
You could always tell her-" You are very attractive, funny etc..but in the same time I don't feel like marrying you, I "don't see there being a marriage future" and i feel responsible because i care. What do you think we should do? Is it OK with you or you wanna split and waste no more time..?"\n\nIf you want to get married and you're looking for the One and you are sure she is not, being with her no matter how fine it is is waisting her and your time.\nBut if you really enjoy being with her, miss her and she feels the same way too, don't loose her for these are very sweet nice emotions and life is unpredictably short.
337455
well, you should respect her wishes..that's what make great partner..and if you could meet her half way...just ask her..
96771
1st - DO NOT MAKE THIS DECISION WHILE HEAD OVER HEAL IN LUV!\n\n2nd - What is marriage to you?  What have you defined marriage to be?\n\nWhat will happen 1 year after you're married.  Do you want to be the provider and have her stay home? Do you want both of you to work so you'll have a great home? Do you want kids right away?\nWhat do you want in 5 years into the marriage? \nWhat do you want in 10 years into the marriage?\nWhat do you want in 20 years into the marriage? \nSit with yourself and ask these tough questions.  Then re-ask these questions in a week.  If you feel confident that you're honest with yourself, then approach your girl. If you're not quite satisfied with your internal question, keep asking and answering yourself untill your confident.\n\n3rd - When you're confident in what you want ... Ask these same questions to your girl friend.  BEWARE ... She'll freak and probably start crying thinking you're asking her out!!! Make it clear that this is a discusion only, and you're trying to figure out the "Next Step".  Then ask her several times after the first questions <Just like you did with you>. \n\nIf you've evaluated the situation and feel that for the two of you to form a union, you can then you can pre-pair that special occation with the ring, and the right setting to ask for her hand in marriage.\n\nBest wishes.
206374
Ok first it sounds like you are too young to be proposing.  How old are you?  It sounds like you need to date before trying to get married... which is what a proposal is.  Just take it easy and talk to her.  If she wont talk to you then find someone else... but dont propose right away!  get to know them really good first.  Just date and have fun.  You will know when you have found the right person.
110887
Maybe you should express courage by telling her how you feel and asking her how she feels.  Try this before you propose to her.
795852
Just be yourself, don't try to be someone you are not.  If she loves you she will be with you.  You can't get her to change her mind you can just live your life and if she wants to live her life with you she will.
892852
Have guts and tell her you love her and if she ask you why you denied it before tell her you were shy so was unable to convey your feeling for her. I tell you she will smile and accept your answer & you although you are native of different place/culture/language/caste & onething more dont forget me to invite for your marriage!
1177791
take the plunge, and maybe set it up by telling her before hand that there is something you want to ask her, or email or text her and say there is something you would like to ask her, that way, she will ask you and maybe you will get the courage to ask.\n\nbe strong
237198
ask her about it and ask her what she wants out the relationship
486300
ASK HER BY HERSELF SO IF SHE DOESN'T YOU WON;T BE HUMILIATED.... IF SHE DOES GOOD LUCK....
1151143
3 mos and marriage has been discussed???  You don't even know each other yet!  How do you tell her.....try "Honi, I just can't marry you"