what do you do when your boyfriend still loves you but wants to be with somebody else?
98528
I hate to say this, but if he really loved you then he wouldn't want to be with someone else.\n\nJust let him go.  If he comes back, then you know he's yours.
344096
You aren't sure because he doesn't have the same affection for you ....as you have for him....well if you love each other the same way....you'r not sure because of his temperament.....or something that's not right with him...\nIf you want more them ever to be with him....you should go to him and tell him that if he wants to remain with you he should fix the problem....(no matter what the problem is)otherwise your waisting you years with him. It's really sad
147927
stay with the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Maybe he is saying that he loves you to win you over, but who knows. It is up to you. What feels right? Who treats you better? Who do you LOVE?
617397
its such a bad thing to move on and get into another relationship=said who? dont listen to that idea, if you please all, you please none. follow your heart and mind, it has always the right answer then believe what you have decided and choose to be happy :)
1056981
Send him packing, you said your self he's not ready for a relationship, this is the biggest excuse guys have to keep you hanging around, and not get serious, then when they meet someone else they make you look stupid, by saying " Hey , I told you I didn't want anything serious" so like it your fault you got attached. Go back to the other guy if you think you still have feeling for him, its obviously not true love with this guy if you miss another too.
327257
if you guys feel the same way then he should break up with her but if he doesn't you should move on cuz he is just an asshole!! you need to talk to him about how you feel and don't be the other gurl! and you also shouldn't wait cuz if he loves you he won't leave you waiting when he is with someone else that just isn't love.
513112
You deserve to be in love, real love. If something like an ex has been bothering you so much WHILE you are with the other guy, then you should leave him. Its been a year. If you were going to fall in love any deeper you would know. Dont settle.\nHowever, just know that as I write this I understand that the advice i gave is easier said than done. not having to deal with the pain of breaking up with people can make you want to just stay with them.\nBut ultimately you are the one that has to be happy, and satisfied. Dont choose to live your life wanting more and feeling unfulfilled in your heart.
193711
you should look for someone else unless you know for sure that you still love him
583417
He still has feelings for you and it hurts him to see you with someone else, he is jealous and trying to run this guy off because he wants to be with you.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1055229
take a hint... if he is dating someone else while dating you... he is just after some action. Move on, find someone that is right for you, that makes u feel good, that treats you right. good-luck
376027
well i think that the one u are with has priority, not only that but if you leave him for someone else 4 what ever reason, it may not say much about ur layalty to people and its something that may bite you in the butt later on. if this person u talk about is back in ur life that means he is not sure of what he wants, what garanties u he wont leave u for someone else. be firm in ur descision and dont betray no one in order to aquire what u need, it doesnt say much about u. over all the things you save save ur heart its special dont brake ur promise to ur current boyfriend. if you waited i think he could wait too n if he waits, n ur relationship with ur current boyfriend doesnt work out n you brake it up justifiably than go for it. but dont brake up out of inpulse u might make the mistake of ur life. remember its never good to live off of memories they will always hurt you weather good or bad. k take care
108037
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
1031971
I was the some as you and it took me years to completely trust someone again and even then I still gave this guy a hard time. One day it dawned on me that he wanted to be with me and had suffered thru all that I had given him and was still there. He is now my partner of 3 years. He understood how I had been hurt and was prepared to work thru it with me. If the guy really wants to be with you and the feeling is mutual, he will stick with you. Tell him how you feel and why you feel like that. If he is worth his salt, he'll stick with you. You also need to realise that if you don't learn to trust again, you'll always be alone.
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
77552
u should explain to your boyfriend that the relationship isn't working because you have feelings for another guy. be kind and patient with him. tell him you think you two should move on and see other people. your relationship will fail if you are always thinking about someone else.
10725
If you really want to be with him give him some time to sort things out.  If he wants to be with you he will come around and end his other relationship but time is key since breaking up is not an easy thing to do wether you want to be with the person or not.