how do I know if the man Im with, will marry me and have a lasting relationship?
99272
There is no gaurantees in relationships, just commitment and good communication. Women tend to need a lot of reassurance. Where as men are more simple and easy going. So make sure theres a good medium ground after you communicate to him your concerns. Finally, make sure he is the man YOU want to be with not the one you may feel you should be with. If marrige is what you really want and feel seriously about, try talking to him about it in a light conversation.  He will take it from there.
341951
If it's true love it'll be there tomorrow or 5 years from now.  \nWhy rush to marry.  \nIt's only an expensive piece of paper to tell you something you already know.....you love the guy. \n\nIf it's meant to be...it'll be and it'll be there in years.  If then you feel the urge to marry then do so.  \n\nFor now enjoy each other and your relationship.
319768
Wait until you meet him face to face then make that decision!\nI knew my husband for many years, many of our younger years\nwere apart! In some ways it made us stronger but also mad us weaker! He communicates better through the computer. I strife\nfor face to face and that's the way it should be.\nIf you want to marry this man? Be sure to know him face to face first for awhile. Communicating is so important!
60222
Does he love you? Are you compatible? Do you have some of the same interests? Do you agree on how to spend and save money? Is he kind to you? If you answered yes to these questions then you'll probably have a great live together.
423127
if you both really love each other and trust each other than stay with him, i like someone in mexico and she hasn't cheated on me or anything we promised we'll see each other again. soo if you really like him you'll stay with him stay updated with him till one day you'll be able to marry and stay with each other!
212939
Thats good,marry with him and dont leave him
149270
Life is what you make of it & no one can predict how it will end. If you love him & want to commit the rest of your life to him, then Congratulations! Happily Ever After to you from me.
181872
Time will tell.. if he respects you and seems to have a decent history with relationships then hopefully he's sincere.
1104948
Bottom line.... do you love him? Does he love you? Then go for it. There is no secret formula to know if this is the man you were fated to be with or not. In this world, you get love, you cherish it, you don't know when it will come around again. So go for it and don't worry so much.
137585
The only way to tell is time. Through talking and getting to know the other person is how you find out. If you share basic common values and goals, such as relatuonship goals, or future plans, then it probably is a good sign that he could be for you, otherwise if you don't share these, it could be rocky. Such as he never wants kids and you do. That is something that can never be overcome. Other than that, you just have to take the chance. That is what makes love fun and heartbreaking at the same time.
773573
no you are not going to marry him cause you both will do an unforgiveable thing in the very near future and then break up\n\nhe'll be forgotten about in a years time
1133766
there's no set time, but you both should be sure that you want to spend the rest of your lives together. it's a huge commitment and takes a lot of work to keep a marriage strong. the best thing is to go slow and get to know each other. it would suck if you got married and found out the guy annoyed the s*** out of you! or that he was a total freak..
201050
Love happens regardless of age, ethnic background, religion, status.........It just happens and that's the way it is.\nIf he loves you even after knowing this then no need to wait just get married to him. Also do consider the consequences and if you are ready to go through all the lifes trials together with him then say yes to him. A word of caution though....if you are insecured about his loosing interest in you as you age then there are some issues that you need to resolve beforehand.
118932
I don't believe in soulmates, so I don't believe that you can know that. On the other hand, I believe that some people are meant to be together for this life. That's determined by God, so I don't think there are any predictable signs that you can look for.\n\nSince you are already married to him, the question should be moot to you. Both of you work to make it better every day, and no soulmate could make you happier.
720216
See if it seems mutual and if there is chemistry. this is not an unusual circumstance. many folks link up this way and get married, who knows
439547
marry him and see how long that remains, LOL.
806046
If he cares about you then nothing will seem that strong.  Usually though if guys want to make a commitment, they will be the one to tell you.  Your happiness is on the line.  If he is ready to commit, then he will. If he isn't ready then he won't and then you can make your decision as what to do, whether to move on or stick it out.