in a broken relationship,what advise can you give your friend for her to regain her self esteem ?
115161
This is a hard one, and trust is a hard thing to get back once its been broken. if she begins a new relationship she should definately tell her new guy how shes been hurt and that she needs him to show her hes honest. Not all guys out there are going to be so bad and you should try to give them the benefit of the doubt. If a guy hurts you and the relationship ends, try thinking of it this way: he lost more then you did. Tell her shes qa great catch just waiting for the right guy to come and see that. Good luck, and tell her i wish her the best in love.
846784
your girlfriend could see how your self esteem is on how you react to her. but then again only you can fix your self esteem.
991510
That's a tough one, maybe you two can hang out and try to avoid conversations that will stir up feelings from the previous relationship, but then it will seem like they are avoiding the situation, so maybe the best policy is to talk about whatever has happened and ask the person how do they think they can move forward. Maybe they may say they need sometime to themselves or something, or maybe you can suggest to them that they take up a hobby, like exercising, or jogging or something like that. Hope this helps!!!
666959
I think your friend has self esteem issues. She's probably just looking for attention, so try talking to her and trying to get to the root of the problem of why she feels like she's helpless or 'pathetic'. If you take an interest in her it's better than one sharp line to make her feel better once. You can't always keep milking that catch phrase if you will, to make her feel better every time, after a while it will go stale and you'll need something else.
804595
Its hard to be put in that spot but happiness has to come from within. You might be able to help her through whatever is really hurting her. Just ask her what she is struggling with and talk to her.
1094354
try to build the friendship again... by doing that you will give yourself time to asses about your true feeling with her...
512868
get to know the root cause of her havin' a low- self esteem.try to figure out the thing which is makin' her think in that manner. well, when u get a chance just appreciate her hobbies , or her way of talkin' or the way of socializin with ppl. praise her if she's beautiful (not necessary, infact), they say outer beauty is sometimes a boost to fill some 1 with confidence. just try to help the person develop her personality and get to know themselves better, their +ve points and the -ve 1s . instead of cribbin' over like a baby that ,"i can't do this", "i'm not worth havin'this" "i'm worthless or useless" , try to make the person realize her capabilities.every body's got immense potential. tell her good words like" life is full of hopes, filled with ambitions to b fullfilled , lots of love to b showered onto the loved ones, & u wouldn't want to die as a person havin' low-self esteem , would u?"(just ask her this )and there's lotta things to do !! !when 1's stuck with all the gloom in the world , 1 can't enjoy life, no matter how much ever the others try to cheer up.at the moment try to roam around places if u boh aren't busy , tell the person her true potentials(which u had noticed earlier and this should b done in a soothin' way) .instill confidence within her, by improvin' her skills/ hobbies/ talents and academically too.so good luck! ! !
91691
Just be a friend to her for the meantime. Women are vulnerable at those times, and usually just needs a friend, not another boyfriend. Just let her know that you are willing to wait whenever she's ready to date again.
656073
U have to help her build her confidence. Like, always bring her along whenever u went with ur other friends and involve her in any activities that u do. When there's a group of u talking, always involve her and encourage her to talk about herself or something. Eventhough just a simple thing. Ask her opinion and make her feel like she's important just like your other friend. \n\nMaybe it'll take quite some time for her to get used to it, but be patient and keep trying. Tell her to keep trying and convince her that she can do it. Do not laugh if she make mistakes. Every one makes mistakes. It's how we handle it that's important. Help her with that ok?\n\nIf it doesn't work, try ask for someone else to help u. Like a professional help or, ask an adult that u trust to help her. What's important is, she have to build her confidence. Once she feel confidence, she'll automatically overcome her shyness.
268036
Lot's of experiences like that one... well, one thing that would really help your friend is to constantly praise his/her work. commend everything that was done right. if there are things that must be corrected, do it in a constructive way, and a suggestion will do. In this way, you are building up confidence without making your friend dependent on your opinions or praises. Remember, it's just a balance of praises and constructive criticisms. In the end, your friend will learn how to judge things about her all by herself. Best of all, SMILE! Your smile could actually mean everything.
276002
Be the friend that you are and tell her. Just remind her that you care about her and her feelings and would never to anything to break her trust or see her unhappy, you just care for her. It would work for me.
243797
Only your friend can make a decision for herself... Offer a sympathetic ear & offer support when the time comes for them to split up.\nYou can only be there for her....\nIf she listened to you now & then felt it was a mistake she would blame you.\nBe the best a friend can be......offer friendship...she will need you badly when it all goes wrong
764248
How about a makeover for the friend? Or suggest a less-shallow guy?  Either would be a nice thing to do.
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
655377
I think such a caring and sweet friend like you being beisde her is the only thing u can do righ now..and see what she likes to do most..some places she prefers to go..she like skitting..she likes movies..ect  and take her there..try to full her time with things she likes to do and dont let her stay alone so much..so she will not be thinking about them .\nand MISS (The user who call her self MISS) IAm sorry but I think you are worng that kind of person (her boyfriend) i mean she cant trust him anymore..he didnt stay beside her when she really needed him so he doeasnt deserve her love or her caring and even if she they came back together she will not be able to forget that h eleft her when she needed him
997241
If you've been friends with her, then just talk to her, and if she's unhappy or having a problem in her couple, she'll talk it out or give you signs to it by herself. Believe only what she tells you. Just tell her you'll be here if she needs you. she might want to solve her own problems, and knowing yuo'll be right here will help her morally if she really has probs in her couple.\nAll the best!
192225
You guys need to tell her how you feel.  If she does not shape up, then stop being friends with her.