My Husband is 29.  When we have sex he has got off with in a couple of minutes.  This is every time we havesex
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This is all too common, unfortunately.  There are several "exercises" and techniques that you can use.  One would be to have your partner pull out (taking a break) when he feels he is too close to climax.  Other techniques involve having him do the same kind of thing during self-pleasuring sessions.  This may serve to help lengthen his time with you.  If this does not work, you can suggest that he see a physician (it may not be a simple stamina problem).\n\nOther techniques (that may be less effective) include:\nUsing condoms during sex \nDe-sensitizing gel (that can be bought at most adult stores)
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Lasting 5 minutes when you are in your 40's doesn't seem to be a problem, but more of the natural way life goes.  I am 42 years old and I know what you mean here!
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Not normal to me and I've been with my husband for almost 20 years. To each their own though. I have a friend that only has sex when she wants to have a baby and thinks that this is the only time they need to have any intimate contact. Funny world sometimes.
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i am 24 and my husband is 30 and that is a good age difference, b/c guys mature slower than girls and guys around my age annoy me still to this day
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My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
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well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
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mid to late 30's a woman usually starts her sexual peak.Not sure how long it lasts,I am 40 and still peaking.
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I have to kids and one on the way. Let me let you ladies know that my husband complains about my sex drive being too high..I'm 23 and he's 26 and I always want sex. So when I get it usually its good if not I tell him that he sucked in the bed and i'm sleeping downstairs. To answer the question.. every chance I can get it, but usually every 3 days.
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Hmmm, just be careful. I can tell you one thing, he is probably in his 2nd sexual prime at about 40. He might not be as active as you either... LOL. I am 45... Hmmm, where are the rest of the 27 year olds? (Todd)
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If you can lube it off with lubricant.Maybe some ky or vasline/baby oil.If that dosent work, or if you get it off and his sac is hurt or discolored,take him to the er.I know it may be embarrassing for all of you(especially him), you want to have grandkids when he's old enough and married, right?It is funny though...poor thing.Take it easy on him.we all experimented, in some way, when we were young.Also, sit down and talk to him about all of the sex stuff, including this.So next time he knows NOt to use a vacuum..lol
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Reaching orgasm in 3-10 seconds happens occasionally, but shouldn't be tolerated as normal in a husband/wife relationship. Your husband needs help. There are many books on this topic and, generally speaking, they teach the man to slow down the climax tendencies by learning ways to respond and back down. One easy thing to try is by having him wear a condom, which will cut down on the sensitivity. This whole process takes time, but your husband really should be willing to work on this with you and, possibly, a medical professional.
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It usually ends at 19, but can be longer.\n\nIts sporadic before that.  It can happen at anytime.  \n\nFemales usually experience it earlier than males.
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Maybe he is having problems preforming and he is insecure about it. I am 20 and my husband is 34 and we have been together for 2 years. Sometimes you still love each other and you still find one another attractive, but you just need a break from the sexual part of the relationship. Are you feeling pressure from the idea of marriage? Are you both stressed out in any way more than usual, maybe from planning a wedding? It all factors in, as long as you still love each other, it's OK. Sex isn't everything.
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get a pregnancy test, and next time have sex with someone who will last longer than a minute.  o and please use protection.
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LOL! I was going to post an answer here elle but there are already a lot of good answers. While I was reading them I noticed Frank whos "baby daddy" run off posted an answer to you. Funny stuff ;)\n\nBTW theres nothing wrong with what youre doing, just be honest with him. One caveat, there are sexy 33 year old guys too :P
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I'm 23, been married for close to 5 years, and in this whole time that i've been married, i've only been able to keep on going after ejaculating maybe 3 or 4 times. It's normal to go down after ''release'', but i'm confused about the not feeling it part. i've personally never had a problem with not being able to feel anything, sometimes i feel it too much and cum too fast (cries quietly to self). anyway the answer to both of your questions are, it's all in your mind, it all has to do with how turned on you are, how comfortable you are with the person, etc. hope this helped
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You need a lot of foreplay, then when it's time for actual sex, it won't take you long to get off.  You could also get on top when he gets tired, then he can just lay back and enjoy.