any suggestions on approaching women?
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Just walk towards them, then introduce yourself. Be yourself!
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Find other women in personals possibly or try pheromones that will attract women. Good luck! And have fun!
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maybe you should start out by ASKING HER
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youd probably get a few tips out of them but id say try and follow your heart..if you like the look of a girl just be nice toward her,be charming and sweep her off her feet...lol...
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Just be you.  There's no need for you to enhance your manliness in going there through whatever things you think you should wear .  The simple and natural you is more than enough to open a conversation with that woman.  Approach her (if she's alone) naturally with a friendly smile and ask her if you can join her.  If she agrees, keep the conversation going smoothly about any topic which may interest her.  There's nothing wrong if you will ask her about her status but that should come in at the latter part of your conversation.   Or even at another day.  Make her feel important through your ability to listen.  Make her like you even for just a friend at that moment.  Romance may come your way more likely if you will succeed  in making her your friend as your initial step and then gradually, in letting her know that you like her a lot.  Good luck..
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Your smile - a lot of times when you first make eye contact she will scope out your face & if you've got a really great smile that will go a long way towards hooking your interest. Get your teeth whitened & keep them that way. Use chapstick so your lips will appear smooth & soft. Practice smiling in a mirror so you get it exactly right - you want it to go all the way to your eyes. Smile at her as if she's the only woman on the face of the planet . . . \nGood luck!
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Be yourself and relax.Good manners are a plus\nwith most women,as is a sense of humor.
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Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
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Okay here's what you I suggest you do.  Watch her for a little while.  Find something she's looking at or pick something on her clothes that you can comment about.  Basically you have to find some commonality to touch on with her.  And what EVER you do, don't over do it.  Seriously so many guys do this and it just turns a girl off.  Just be yourself and if you are going to date it'll happen.  And if you use a cheesy line I guarantee that's a no hitter for you.  Just act natural for awhile and observe her.  Women are ALL about a guy noticing the small things.  So if you've been watching her for a while, say a week or so then when she's wearing something you haven't seen before and it looks cute on her tell her so.  Or if you you're at a bar/club whatever and you want to "pick her up" there, I suggest starting up the conversation about something that is in the club/bar.  Music, lighting, drinks, people, whatever.  Just pick something and go with it.  And honestly if you crash and burn, don't give up.  Either keep trying with her if you think you got a chance or give up and move on.  Oh and once you got her....learn to be sensitive.  To the point of you wanting to gag.  Most women will eat it up, not all mind you, but most.  Yes I know it's tough to not be "manly" all the time but if you know when to be sensitive you got a leg up on the rest of the dawgs out there.
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
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Try this: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and invite her there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Invite her to parties for singles.\n5. Ask her friends what her favorite food is and invite her to YOUR house for dinner.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl , this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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Hi Nil!\n\nTo be nervous when wanting to approach a women is normal but there are some things you can do, which will instantly tell you if she want's that you approach her.\n\nFirst, try smiling at her. Smile when she look at you. I know that it is hard to do at work, but try it. Then, if she smiles back, try saying her "Hi". If she say "Hi", too, she wants you to approach her. Approach now!\n\nYou will see that smiling is not hard thing to do, and when somebody smiles back, we feel more relaxed and after the "Hi" thing you will be ready to talk with her with no problem.\n\nLet me tell you one little secret. The "Hi" thing is the opening for approaching, so you are approaching her the most easiest and secured way.\n\nIf she doesn't smile back when you smile at her first time, smile again when you see her. Don't approach before you and she say "Hi" to each other, because it is not good. She maybe don't want to talk with you at work because it is not good for her position, or she is in some deep taughts and she doesn't saw you the first time when you smile. If you keep smiling at her when you saw her, she will or smile back or won't see you at all. If the other thing happens, don't feel sad. You will find somebody else. You can use the smile thing to any women you want to approach. With the smile test you are seeing right away which women wants you and which doesn't.\n\nWhy wasting your energy on girls who doesn't even give you a smile back?\n\n\nHappy approach!
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I used to have your same problem.  First get in shape so that you are confident about your appearance.  Then go out to bars and clubs and talk to as many girls as you can.  At first you might have to pump yourself full of drinks to get the courage to approach the ladies.  But believe me, like anything else, the more you practice the better you will get.  Once you start taling to a lot of girls, by trial and error you'll know what and what not to say, and how to act.  Eventually it will become second nature to you and you will have the courage to just ask girls out.
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those are probably the easiest places to approach someone. possibly strike up a conversation with what they're reading or drinking. you'll be amazed =]
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go up to her and say 'hi, are you single?'
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wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)
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Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.