He loves me, he loves me not???
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Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
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Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
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My man didnt say "I love you" till we were dating for 16 months.\n\nThats how I knew that when he did say it, he meant it.\nOther than that. Ask Jesus\nGBU
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2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
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You don't love him and he doesn't love you.\n\nIf you loved him, you wouldn't be frightened by the thought of him being away.\n\nIf he loved you he wouldn't lie to you.
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If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
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If you are saying that it is a lie that God does not love you, right on girl! He hates the sin but loves the person to know end! thank god.\n:)
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to love someone means to let him happy, but not possess him...
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Love is about respect.  If he truly loves you, regardless his feelings on the matter, he will RESPECT yours!  The truth is, an individual who has the audacity to say "if you don't have sex with me, you don't love me" is suspect; I'd have to say that in saying so, they are showing that, in all likelihood, they don't love you!  Tell him: If YOU LOVED ME, you would respect my desire to wait until marriage-and if you don't have that level of respect for me, WE DON'T BELONG TOGETHER!.
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hahahaha!! we got exactly the same problem... well, i guess he really loves you but just can't express it the right way. Talk it to him.. tell him what you feel. I guess i have no doubt for his love but maybe he just don't know how to take care of you. so talk it to him so that he will know what you feel. I did that and my fiance is making progress.. i can see that he is doing his best to show his love to me and to attend also to my needs.. just give him a time don't pressure him..
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well u have 2 ask urself y u love sum 1 who can say they dont love you!! and then say 2 urself is he really worth the pain!! this is my opinion!! nobody says its easy 2 get over sum 1 u love but hun ur gunna have 2 sum day!!!
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I love him, but I think no.
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sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
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perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
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Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
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he loves you do... when he f***s you!
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hey\n\nwell you know my intake on that! definately not love. he  wants the power over you to control you .  and you dont want to be with a guy who just uses you.