Do most guys let their partner climax first, or do they even think about such things?
109651
definitely try to bring her to her orgasm first,u go afterwards...that good in lot of ways--thats a good way to preserve your stamina,and thats a good sign that you care about her and you are The Giving Kind.
803793
Hey I take sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths... When it comes down to dirty old sex, being the first one doesn't matter, really.\n\nI myself never took part in such a train; I usually go for the orgies and gangbangs... \n\nWhat kind of girl agrees to trains anyway? Itsn't that a bit like being sexually open without admitting it? "Oh sure I'll take all you guys on, but only one at a time, OK?". Sounds like BullSh!t to me!\n\nCheers!
384644
For me, I tense up at climax..looks like a grimace on my face, but I' not in pain, it'sjust very intense.nce the orgasm begins, I relax.
554971
Come on all guys do and if they say they don't then there lairs or have someone else jacking them off. But it's normal to do so... Stroke it buddy!
223844
I guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our time (short or long) with our partner’s one!\nAbout your question, excluding functional diseases, you know that during the sexual act our mind has a relevant duty. Thus, we have to fight against it mainly.\nSome therapist or psychologist put some different methods to follow, and about them, you should buy some specific book.\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (FOREPLAY) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stopping many times the penetration during the act (continuing to excite the partner anyway).\nThen, if we are able to have two acts consecutively, the most will already be done!
513387
it ussually takes me about 20 minutes or so... and for females I call it Mystra... not masterbation.  But usually i have a whole skit in mind of a mixture of things i experianced it the past. Its more based on the details like the mans breathing or the light touches during sex. I finally cum whith one particular memory in replay with my mind. For the most part i think about the entry or the guy cuming.\n\nIts always a fantasy to cum at the same time and i think thats why, cause i mystra to it.\n\nhope that wasnt to detailed but info enough :)
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I'm not a female, and never have been, but I do understand them well. Guys have sex on the mind because they think it is neccessary to get off as often as the body demands biochemically. Females do not have the same biochemical demands from their body, so they don't feel desparate to copulate, therefore they appreciate the experience more when they do. The guy is so focused on getting off that he forgets to enjoy the act as much as he could have, and the girl is free from such needs so feels the moment is enjoyable.
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having an orgasm before you actually want or come to it.
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I hear this statement all the time. I think what happens is that when women are young, they don't understand their own bodies themselves, so they don't know what to ask for or how to direct their partners to help them reach climax. Therefore, it's not uncommon that a girl never reach orgasm with her first boyfriend or so. As she gains a little more confidence in her sexuality and a little more knowledge about how to direct her boyfriend/lover to help her, her chances are reaching climax with him improve.\n\nOf course, the best way to ensure that you're able to tell your boyfriend how to get you off is to learn how to get yourself off without him! If female masturbation were as commonly accepted as male masturbation is, this wouldn't be a problem!!
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No.  Mostly, it's a matter of finding what stimulation gives you an orgasm.  Explore yourself, and then let your partner know what pleases you.  If you have a caring partner, he will do whatever it takes to make you have an orgasm.  If not, get a new partner girlfriend!!  My partner makes sure I have mulitple orgasms before he ever lets himself have one.  Also, if you are young, don't worry; the older you get the better you know yourself and the more orgasms you will have.  I think that I was too self-conscious when I was younger to let myself go and have an orgasm.
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He needs to concentrate more on you.  It's not all about him finishing it's more about the intimacy between the two of you.  Be sure your needs are met before it's his turn.  Concentration is the key...
707194
It's different for many guys. Not to be gross but it depends on how tight the girl is and how fast you're going. That's some ideas. If it's his first time ever then it might be a short time.
172011
'the answer to achieving orgasms with a partner is this:\n\nIt depends on the sensitivity of your partner towards your erogenous\n\nzones - if you share sexual intimacy with an experienced, inept or\n\ngreedy lover, you are always pretty much left out in the cold.\n\n\n\nOne of the most difficult things, it seems, for women to do during\n\nintimacy is to clue in their partners to what they want.  For some\n\nreason, men seem to have no problem asking for particulars during\n\nintimacy but women seem to be shyer about it.  The first thing I would\n\nsuggest you do is to be verbal with your lover and communicate to them\n\nwhat you enjoy.  The best way to open a conversation about this is to\n\ninquire the same of your lover.  Thay way, you open the door to be\n\nable to communicate what pleases you.  Tell your lover "Do this" or\n\n"Linger there" or "Slow down!" so that he will know what he is doing\n\nthat makes you feel warm and relaxed.  Don't be shy about saying what\n\nis pleasing to you during sexual intimacy (or what is not) - contrary\n\nto popular belief, men can't read minds. Lol\n\n\n\nUnfortunately, many men (especially younger men) seem to operate under\n\nthe assumption that penetration during sexual intercourse is the most\n\nfulfilling thing they can do for a woman when, actually, the act of\n\npenetration is usually the ultimate goal of the male's satisfaction.\n\n\n\nAlso, men may sometimes rush to fulfill their desire for penetration\n\nand not think to be sensuous with a woman.  There is an old saying\n\n"Men give foreplay to get sex and women give sex to get foreplay." \n\nThis is certainly not true across the board but, by far, many women\n\nseem to enjoy the sensuous intimacy that precedes sexual intercourse\n\nwhile men seem to be running for the penetration goal line.  Lol \n\nPlus, foreplay is what enables a woman to relax and be able to achieve\n\norgasm.\n\n\n\nI don't want you to think anything is "wrong" with you, either,\n\nbecause you don't experience orgasms everytime you have sexual\n\nintercourse.  There are other factors to consider regarding this such\n\nas fatigue, emotional stress, etc.  If you happen to be in an\n\nout-of-the-bedroom situation such as stress on the job or having had a\n\ntiff with a friend, these experiences can affect your ability to relax\n\nduring sexual intimacy - even the thought "I should have washed those\n\ndishes first…" removes your mind from the intimate situation. \n\nConsider these factors and others as being the reasons you sometimes\n\ndon't experience orgasms.  Relaxation is a big key to this.  Sometimes\n\na small glass of wine might do the trick, too, to relax you.\n\n\n\nAs far as tips on experiencing more or frequent orgasms, here are some\n\nlinks that may be of interest to you:\n\n\n\nImtimate Fitness - The Kegel Method\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/sex.html\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/orgasms.html\n\n\n\nTantra and Tantric Sex \n\nhttp://www.oztantra.com/whatistantra.html\n\nhttp://www.tantra.com/\n\n\n\nA book is available here for $14.95 titled "Pathways to Pleasure - A\n\nWoman's Guide to Orgasm"\n\nhttp://female-orgasms.com/pleasure_4_women.htm\n\n\n\nWomen's Sex Health - An online pay site with intimate secrects for\n\nwomen regarding orgasm - $9.95 for one month accesss\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/orgasms_learn_more.htm\n\n\n\nGo Ask Alice - regarding women having more orgasms\n\nhttp://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0117.html\n\n\n\nMyths About Female Sexuality\n\nhttp://www.ualberta.ca/HEALTHINFO/Decisions/mythsf.htm
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No it's because he's not doing it right or maybe he's ejaculating before she orgasms', it usually take a woman 20-30 minute to get an orgasm. if you think your not doing it good ask her what's her favorite positions and try to pleasure in every way possible, try to go down on her then make love to her.
479258
Who cares?  Maybe he's just thinking about getting off.  That's what I think about when I masterbate.  As long as he has sex with me and is faithful, I don't care what my hubby thinks about when he jerks off.
405214
It's not bad, it's natural. Your orgasm depends largely on your state of mind and the feelings in your heart. Of course, with practice, it becomes easier to climax, but if your heart isn't in it, or if you are stressing, it's not likely to happen. So relax, enjoy the sex, and try not to worry about whether or not you're climaxing - that way you're much more likely to reach orgasm!\n\np.s. a good technique is to be on top, and to have you or your partner rub your clitoris as you have sex. have fun!
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Experience and practice. Usually young men who are in their early 20's dont last long (personal experience w/ex).. therefore the only solution is to experience sex more often and learn how to not over-excite yourself. Usually by thinking of something else, not so sexual. Trying to think w/your head, and taking a break for al ittle bit when you know you're ready to come. It takes practice. Sooner or later, you will learn how to control yourself. Its normal,and usually happens to young men who are just starting to have sexual intercourse. Goodluck!