My guy cant keep it up..for too long? why?
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Don't worry honey. I know it's not a nice prob2 have but it's not serious. Sometimes it could be stress or distractions.\nDon't let him drink or at least limit it b4 sex as that makes it hard 2 keep it up. encourage him,never let him feel pressured but seek for ways to enjoy yourselves in foreplay and sex. It may take time and patience but this is temporary. as for his age, it doesn't affect it. Some suggest having sex in different surroundings.\nWhen my boyfriend had that problem  i asked a friend of mine(male) to advise me but he said it was stress and so my boyfriend and i switched to early morning sex b4 he would be thinking about problems at work or other things. after a month, he was fine.\nGuys most of all need to know that you think they are the best and sexy. When their confidence is up, they are more likely to stay up. \nso just keep at it, build his faith, don't pressure and have fun. Also try new things.\na practical tip is after or b4 the bj, put his hand on top of urs and let him guide u in how he likes a hand job. This is a real turn on and he will know how to do that.
295001
You know how guys can  make their d*** move by flexing thier muscle down there? Have him practice moving it up and down like that, it will strengthen it and he will start to last longer.
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Its because the guy cums to fast.  Women need more time.
172312
There is a story I remember from my younger days about a man who had amazing staying power when he was having sex with a woman, this guy could go all night.\nWe got him drunk one night and asked him his secret, he told us that when he was going out and knew he was having sex he would self satisfy himself first then go out. he said it made him last longer.\nTake it as you will.
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get a better bit! it seems like he's just running through it, if you get a better one, he should stop that.  and when you pull back do it with every other hand instead of both, that should help some too./ good luck!
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Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
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i dont think any man can last that long duh!!
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on and offs are NEVER good, but keep trying to make it work anyway for a few more days.  if he just cant commit and cooperate, then you dont have to either.
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I don't think I'd say he finds you less attractive, maybe he is putting more pressure on himself to please you and so is slightly distracted. When under pressure I know I last longer, but as long as my partner enjoys herself the whole experience is amazing. I know that not a lot of men find satisfying their partner the main priority, but if yours is putting in the effort I'd say take it for what it is! He must think a lot of your relationship to put in such effort.
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So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
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Maybe he has erectile dysfunction and doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it.  Maybe it is a similar issue, why do Women always jump the gun, unless you want it to be over and in that case why would you ask us (Yahoo people).  If you are ready to move then don't try and find every little 'bad' thing about your man, just do it.
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He needs to concentrate more on you.  It's not all about him finishing it's more about the intimacy between the two of you.  Be sure your needs are met before it's his turn.  Concentration is the key...
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The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
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Could also be that your man has an abnormally large unit that was forcefully rammed into your uterous "harder & faster" as you requested while in different possitions - try changing positions and have him slow down or not be so rough you can still get the big "O" but it won't hurt as much then....
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play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
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Ask him wtf is wrong with him.. then tell him to go for the gold whenever he feels like he needs to.. he might be masturbating too much and doesn't feel like going down on you because of it.. you should talk to him about it.\n\n~Man~
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sounds like he has got a hyper tension dude..... may be it's coz of the relationship too. better speak to him and let him know and get him prepared to meet a counsellor and then arrange it.