Hey guys say you have a best friend and you had got her hooked up with a boy, and the boy want you what to do?
102574
don't take him away from her it makes you the bad guy.\n\nbest friend's friendships shattered over me
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
283096
Will and Grace much?  \n\n: )\n\nAnyway, there is not much you can do.  If your friend likes boys and you are not one.......the best thing to do is just be his friend and don't try to make it anything else.
333422
I would tell him that its either you or her.  He is playing games with your head.  Then I would kick her ass for messing with another girls man.
69156
were you actually with the guy? did your friend know you liked him? has your friend also known him for a while? these are important things to think about. if your best friend steals your boyfriend, neither are exactly worth your time, sorry, it hurts. If your friend knew you liked him, did she at least warn you she liked him? if she warned you, the punishment inflicted should be less severe, she still cares about you. If you were totally unaware, but she knew, then you probably want to yell scream and hit, once that is out of your system if you can trust her again, then try to keep the friend. If she didn't know then you really can't blame her for anything, but you would fit the first scenario if you tried to steal him from her...
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
182509
oh my God... Girl.. why did U do such a thing?? Well, now that U did it and there's no way to fix the past, I just think that U should tell your friend the truth.  But anyways.. a boy can't be really forced (in my opinion) to go out with a girl against his own will, so.. if he went out with her maybe he is a little interested on her.\nHave U considered the possibility of talking seriously with him and tell him about the whole situation, that U don't want your friend to suffer because of this.\nWell, good luck, and next time... DON'T INTERFERE IN YOUR FRIEND'S BUSINESS..!
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
1120269
You need to face your fear, or else your friend's going to get him. Where a skirt with a cute shirt. Look HOT and flirt with the boy. GO FOR IT!!! YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!
714246
Pull out the knife and move on.  Best friends don't stab you in the back..... so perhaps the friendship was one-sided.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
65544
hey girl if ur are her best friend she don't want this from u it dosn't matter if she has boy and u don't the thing is try give more time to ur friend ship talk to ur girl hang with her like always and try to find some thing u can do not to be lonly when she is not around i been there honey and i think the problem start when they don't have time for ur frindship so try to make time for each other
592308
Girl - I grew up with a friend like this and yes I called her a "best friend" too.  Looking back - girls will be girls but she can't be to into your friendship if she is trying to scope out the guy you like.  Does she know you like him - if so then that is just sad - let her know you you feel.  If the guy doesn't know how you feel then you need to step up your flirting a bit - let him know you are interested.  Two can play - one will win - girl let it be you.
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
377632
oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you