Over 40, unmarried, got master's late, had several moves, not had right job yet.  Stay put a year or move?
115551
Things dont always happen right away, so I would stay put and try to make things happen in the city you're in... Depending on your field, you're more likely to find a job in a big city rather than a small one..  \n\nAttitude is key.. Have a good outlook and eventually good things will happen...
687048
depends on how long you've been in your new area. if it hasnt been that long i suggest seeing if things pan out. but if you stay for a long time and find that you're miserable and still cant call the place "home" then i'd get out.
1039711
I'd say stay home set the example and save money. The life style change can make you or break you. Try it if not move out the second semester.
791806
First, see if you can't do something to get unstuck - individual or joint counseling, church, communicating more, etc.\n\nIf it is hopeless, then you must decide if staying has more benefits for all concerned than leaving. \n\nChange what you can, and accept what you can't change.
523812
YES!!!  I'm sure it sucks, but you are more than half way there.  Might as well get a retirement out of all your hard work.  If you've made it 11 years, you've got enough rank it doesn't suck as much as it did when you first started out.  Stick it through.  You've given enough of your life, the army owes you something.  9 more years is a long time, but you've seen 11 already.  Do it.
1175112
Congratulations! I was in the same position when I was 22. I am now 28 and we are expecting our 2nd child in December as well.  Going to college with a family is hard, period. I had a crappy job and decided to continue college, I was able to take out some loans to make up the loss of income of my wife not working for 4months.\n It was HARD, to say the least, to keep up with a class schedule, a new baby, a new wife, and the pressure of running a household at a young age.But I was able to step up to the plate and work it thru, and trust me it was well worth it. \n\nMy wife and I graduated the same year and we never looked back.\nNo more crappy job, bright future, and a rewarding career.
434877
Check out the cost of living for the city you are thinking of moving to first against where you are living now. That will help you decide. It could be just a break even proposition.
814053
Don't worry about how you got there.  Just figure out how to get out.  First step is to get a job - any job, you are not making a lifetime commitment to the job so you can always change jobs when you find something better.  First concern is getting a paycheck and second is getting medical benefits.  Once you have a source of income. find a cheap place to live.  Get a small apartment, and keep expenses down.  You can eat cheaply by getting nothing ready-made.  Save whatever you can to give yourself some breathing space.  (The one luxury I recommend is pets, possibly two cats.  If you get two they can keep each other company and if you go to a rescue place you can get an older animal so you don't have to train a puppy or kitten.)  Improve your skills one at time so you can get better jobs or move up where you are. Sign up a community college and take one class at a time, or more if you can manage it.  (Besides improving yourself, that takes up time so you won't spend as much money doing other stuff.)  You are young, you don't need to have it all together at this point.  Just work on moving forward!
504436
just take a stand and ask yourself if this is how you want to live the rest of your life? cause chances are, within a couple of years, you'll probably leave anyway...so look at all the extra time you wasted....good luck.
1117382
I knew it was time to settle down when everything in my life stabilized. I could be relied upon to be a good provider, and I was stable enough to be the rock others in my life could depend on. \n\nWhen you're changing jobs, addresses, income levels, etc., how can you be reliable to someone besides yourself? You can't. \n\nSo, once your career is good, you're making good money, you've got a nice, safe place to live and things don't look like they're going to change for awhile, it could finally be time to settle in with someone and be dependable enough for them to rely upon. \n\nOnce kids come into the picture, you definiately don't want things like your job to be variable. You should be well established to be a good provider to your family. \n\nIf all these things are in place and stable, you can consider settling down...
408245
if you are happy where you are..stay.  Change is always good as long as you are able to supoprt yourself and your child.  Give it a chance...plus there are more jobs in your related field where you are now.  New people, new job, this can be scary but not bad.  I admire you for having the strength to do it in the first place.  Stay where you are for at least 2 years and then decide if you think things where you are could work to your advantage.  Good Luck!
507477
Honestly, I would stay put if your current job does offer health benefits. The extra pay doesn't seem to justify the move, in my opinion. The additional commute will also cost you in money and time. Both of these jobs sounds about the same in terms of prestige. Good Luck.
923447
You should start looking now and just continue to look until you move and when you get there.  The job market changes constantly.  Feel free to send in your resume too but mention in your cover letter that you won't be there for another six months.  I believe it would make you look motivated/
647856
Is there any family that you can live with in Co until you finish school? This is really rough on you. I would talk to your parents and see if there is someway you could stay to finish school there. Moving before your senior year is really hard on a young person. ( I say young cause I'm 51) Tell them how you feel, maybe something can be worked out so at least you can graduate from the school you have been going to. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
867475
Depends on your financial situation.  Many people stay w/ the job they have until they have another secured- happy or unhappy.
761872
Give it at least 6 months to a year.  Make some new friends and find another job.  Don't give up just yet.  Make an honest effort though, don't just "wait it out."  If after all that you still are unhappy and want to move back, then talk it over with your husband.  Even though larger places have more to do, smaller towns have advantages too.  You aren't as invisible, your family can always help with the child(ren), crime rates are usually lower, cost of living is usually less, to mention a few.  You already know the advantages of a larger city since you lived there.  Hope this helps!
237036
Not a very easy question.  Unfortunately, I don't know what his reasons are for now wanting to move.  Obviously having a job could be a big deal.  Moving is a huge thing and it isn't just as easy as saying that is where I want to be.  There is a lot to consider.  I think he should care enough to talk to you about it and let you know his feelings and reasons.  As for advice, well you have to decide if you want to move or if you want a divorce if he won't listen to you.