am i responsible for my husbands medical bills?
109706
if your husband cannot pay the bill, his medical bill cannot be charge in your name that is why they are approaching your conjugal responsibilities conjugal properties/possession/assets
1007910
Unless he steps in to pay them for you he does run some risk in losing it.  At the very least, any mortgages must be kept current and the property taxes must be paid.\n\nYou might consider deeding it over to him now, with an agreement that you will pay all bills while you are able do do so, and can live there for the rest of your natural life.  You might need to structure it so that you pay "rent" equal to the mortgage and tax payments.  That way if you should become destitiute, any creditors won't be able to attach the house, again as long as the mortgage and taxes are paid.\n\nConsult with an estate planning attorney for guidance on what options you may have.  There are complex rules that come in to play with medicaid should you become seriously ill and not be able to pay the medical bills.  An attorney is aware of these and can structure a solution for you that will protect your estate and your son's investment in the property.
372394
start paying the stuff you owe on yet. and you cant declare bankruptcy unless you are so much in debt, i believe you have to be close to 10 grand in debt to do so. and i dont think it will hurt your husbands credit.
657533
certainly defer marriage until he gets his finances in order.  You don't want/need his credit card debt.  He may have to file bankruptcy in the future if he is actually out of control.  No sense fighting over it though, just don't get stuck with his bills.
715027
Total up all your costs on paper and divide it by 2. Highlight the amount an leave it for him so that he can see what you are talking about. You are not the only person who lives in your home - you both do. You both are responsible for the household. If you feel strongly about it, let him know that if he doesn't pull his share, he can do it all on his own - as a single man.
751339
Are you responsible for this family member's bills?  If so, then you are responsible for this one.  If the name of the emergency facility was "Emergency Medical Associates," then the emergency facility gets the money.  If "Emergency Medical Associates" is a medical group which runs the emergency room, then the medical group gets the money; and doctors' salaries, equipment upkeep, etc. are paid out of this income.\n\nIf you don't pay the EMA bill, it probably will be sent to collections; and you will be hearing from a bill-collecting company.\n\nYou may be able to call the emergency facility, explain your financial situation, and work out terms of payment.  The only financial assistance of which I know with respect to medical bills is Medicaid; and I believe you have to be on Medicaid at the time of medical service in order to be able to claim Medicaid as the insurer responsible for the bill.
1131235
I would suggest getting an attorney or getting in contact with the state AMA or State Board of Medical Quality Assurance. This doctor seems like he needs to be put in place.
1186940
My husband.... it's one of his husbandly duties.
775421
The minute you used the card after your husband passed away you, in essence, affirmed that you would be responsible for the debt.\n\nAs your husband's survivor and probably the only person to benefit from his estate, either the estate or you personally would be responsible for this debt.\n\nSo no matter which way you look at it, you need to pay it, or make the determination to file bankruptcy.  There is no in between
939765
I guess I might start by both of us setting down and take a look at what is going out in bill's 1st for the month.\n Then look at what is left over after bill's food gas for work --Then add up your pay coming into the home each week then add that up to see what you have now deducted the over all bill's from that ---That is what you have left to play with or save.Now this is where each of you need to see what each of you may spend with whats left over.And if there is not enough to shop that week or every 2 weeks just don't do it !\nIt takes a lot of disciplined as you know since you are the Strict Budget one.\nBut yes I would set down in a loving way and talk it out.\nYou sound like a sweet husband.trying to fix something before it gets out of hand.
107517
If your new spouse has medical insurance it will cover the bills as primary coverage, medicare will cover any in hospital expenses left over. The two sources of income will be added together at the end of the year for the IRS to determine how much of your disability payments will be taxed> That is it. I hope your new spouse will mean more to you than your monthly check, if not give him or her a break and stay single any
1109182
they should pay your medical bills
1170817
He should not worry about paying for treatemtns at this time and get what ever treatements he needs. I am a cancer survivor and had no money to pay any of my medical bills, but I got all my treatememts I needed and today I am cancer free. I know at my hospital they had a "wrtie off program" where they white so much of the bill that cannot be paid if you are going though something like your boyfirend is going though, ALso there is ACS, CancerCare, and the Patient Addvociate Foundation, and Lance Armstrong Foundtation that is out there to help people like your boyfriend, they helped me and they can help him. Most of these organizations can be ffound on the intrenet. Take Care and god bless!\n\n*)
637973
Give me her number and I'll try to talk some sense into her. Seriously if my husband is injured I will think of his welfare first before I go to a dentist a get a bill of $655. What kind of a wife is this, she should learn budgeting and handling money. Tell her to be patient and that you are still not well to earn all that money. Be patient (oh well, you already are).
474697
I wouldn't want to get involved either.  If they live beyond their means, then any money they lend you will be spent the same way.  Any help you offer should not be monetary, but maybe a helping hand some other way.  Don't let your husband be manipulated into helping them when it when nothing will be resolved.
765511
I have been involved with this in past months, and the best that i can recall the wife can show, or give proof that she will not be a financial charge on the public, i think that's all it comes down to, they want to make sure you nor your husband will be in a state sponsored soup line or anything like that you know what I'm saying, i think they will understand the facts and that is what they want the facts, add any information about how he pays his bills at this time, and credit records and that will  help, also what he has gone to school for a doctor or what if it will really pay well later on i think they will feel he must be responsible to have stayed with the training this long, just be honest and that will help more than anything i think, good luck
931251
Any bill that was gotten during the marriage you are at least 1/2 responsible for....any thing from before no....anything from after the seperation...no....at least that is the way it works in the states....