why are some guys so picky and want there girl to be perfect?
110675
You didn't say in what ways. I think its partly so other guys will think he's cool enough to have a great woman.
177981
You don't have to be perfect! Evaluate your good points and your bad points, then try to improve on whatever bad points that you think you can. \n\nIf you want to know what many females look for in a man, then my answer would be............most women look for a man that is honest. loving, fun, respectful,faithful, good morals and values, ambitious, caring, good sense of humor and has respect for themselves. =-)
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
437232
actually girls want it more than guys its just that most guys arent picky about it and girls are
381028
For me there has to be a mix of chemistry and personality the two need to go hand in hand together.  I suppose what ever attracts a girl to a guy is similar to what attracts a guy to a girl.
407384
girls like a guy who is funny, will protect them has a little money well.... thats me basically different girls look for different hings and im sure what you have to offer ... someone likes.
934697
I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
392688
I am a guy and they try too hard to impress the girl is that he wants to date her but the only way that he could try to date he is by trying hard. They want to be with that girl. Instead of asking her out he would just try hard and if that did not work then he would try even harder. I know this from experience. I have been there and done that. Good Luck. Heres a good question. Why do girls try to hard to get the man of her dreams or want to date him?
1103066
A guy that is too perfect is just that - too perfect.  We don't want to be treated like crap, but we don't want to have a perfect guy because nothing is perfect and if your relationship is perfect than something is being hidden from you.  It is hard to explain, but I did the best that I could!
1036231
Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
961794
Sounds great tbh. Did you know that sometimes being too perfect will put guys off. They might just assume you are already taken or simply 'out of their league'. This happens to a friend of mine who is beautiful, smart etc.\n\nBy the way I'm 18
74951
i think it's whatever parts of their own personality they find kind of lacking.  sort of the opposites attract theory.\nbut then again, there has to be a certain amount of similarities, such as taste in movies perhaps so you can both enjoy doing something together.  i think in the end, most girls just want a guy who they think is nice.
88972
That's a tricky question, cuz not all men are the same.Like me, I look for nice personality, honesty,and someone to love me for me, not for what I have.Most importantly, she has to have high self esteem.All the physical things come in a little later.
1091480
Be patient, a lot of girls take time to warm up to good looking guys because most of them are cocky, also a lot of girls don't use looks as a basic must have in a boyfriend. It's all about compatibility.
47514
Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
379467
Some guys only what one thing, SEX.  But, the good guys are looking for a girl who has the same interests as he does in some areas, able to tolerate his interests in hobbies they do not enjoy such as duck-hunting, and willing to let the reins loosen alittle.  They like a girl who is sure of herself, but not cocky and one that has good morals and isn't afraid to say no to sex.  They really want to just get to know the girl and her family, enviroment and interests without complications like sex and babies involved.
698633
I don't care about that sort of thing, to me a relationship is based almost completely on personality. it doesn't matter to any man who actually likes you for who you are if you don't have something popular culture thinks is 'hot'. in reality the guys who are picky about that sort of thing are only after one thing.