i m confused about him?was he flirt? was he sincere?
100568
He was using you.  He told you it was your fault to make you feel back and take the blame off of himself.  He's not worth your time.  Especially if he is abusive.
761762
he may be interested in you, or maybe he just likes to flirt. does he flirt with you in other ways? talk to him, see how he acts when you're interacting with him. if you're not sure, then maybe you should casually ask him if he would like to hang out sometime.
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
925612
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
58199
To tell the truth, I really just think that he is judt flirting with you. Is he really likes you he should be more open with you.
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
137322
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex
842283
Is he touching her? Is it physical? \nDid you flirt in frount of him previously with another guy? \nIs he just joking around and having fun do you think or is he serious with these women?
245202
i serously doubt it....i met him a few years ago...he is one of the biggest flirts on the planet...i had fun flirting back....after that it is a bit of a blur.....lol
307637
dont be naive! he wanted to tease you or play with you. a guy will show interest if he is persistent, not when he feels like it. trust me. i did couple.i just telling the guy side of story. worst case scenario, you lose him. so what! theres a lot of guys out there that are sincere. think about it.
402630
You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...
871519
he changed for you, didn't he? i think he likes you, but he's just too shy to say it. make a move before he looses his interest in you. i really think it's sweet that he changed for you. i wish someone did that for me...anyway, make a move, before someone else does.
478778
You need to meet this guy and see if he's really what you think he is!\nIf this is an internet friend, remember to be safe- meet him somewhere public, like a restaurant or coffee shop, and have a friend with you!
632766
Does he make eye contact with you when you interact?\n\nDo you catch him looking at you when your not interacting (remember people, especially guys, like to look at people and objects they find attractive)?\n\nDoes he caress things like his hands or stuff he picks up while interacting with you? \n\nDo you feel like hes attentive when he listens to you?\n\nDoes he position his body towards you when you talk?\n\nHow often does he smile?\n\nDoes he appear comfortable when you touch him and/or does he use oppurtunities to touch you?\n\nDoes he lean forward when he interacts with you (personally I conciously hold back on this so as not to show intrest to early when dating or approaching someone so maybe he knows this)?\n\nDoes he remain calm, and even welcome you, when you violate his privacy bubble (24 inch radius minimum around a person)? \n\nHeres a fun one that doesn't always work but: occasionaly do something very simple like look at your watch, if he does likewise it could be a good sign.  People subconciously mimic (sometimes) others their intrested in.\n(you can also mimic his body language to make him feel more comfortable with you, just don't make it to obvious)\n\nCongrads you've just completed into to body language\n\nBest of luck....
799263
no offense, but what kind of guy would ask you if you loved him on the first date?\n\n...sounds like a player...imho\n\n...and why would you ASK him if he was playing you?  You think he would say "yes" if he was?  \n\nAnyways, if he isn't asking for anything "physical", then he's probably truly interested in you...but he might just consider it a challenge, too...beware!
437459
wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!