signs of husband having an affair?
116075
nervous around you, dissapears, tells you he's somewhere but when you ask his friends they say he wasn't there, mysterious calls from women, looks frazzled... the list goes on and on
126917
My issue with his affair is not so much that he's having one but that he's been indescrete enough to let it become known at the office.The reason I would give is this " Several people have told me that it's inappropriate to have a supervisor so closely involved in so personal a thing and I'd hate to have this cause any appearance of wrondoing or favoritism for you later on." or simply that you've learned that only two people sign as witnesses and that you asked the other couple first.
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
668756
Why are you continuing to put up with this? You asked him to do something to save your marriage, and he can't even do that?! Your marriage needs help. You need a counselor to talk about this, because obviously your husband has no concern for your feelings, by flirting and lying to you. He may even be cheating. Don't put up with this another minute! He's treating you like dirt. You deserve so much better.
311193
It does sound like he is losing interest.\n\nI know this, becuase I'm acting the same way with my girlfriend of 8 years. I'm bored with our relationship, and can't find the energy to talk to her anymore.\n\nGo ahead with your affair if it makes you feel better, but I honestly think it would be better to all it a day with your Husband first.
572623
Yeah, just sit back and watch your spouse have an affair, have one yourself, or try doing porn, see how fast an outsider dissolves your marriage.\nIf the two hearts aren't married, then be on alert, anyone with 1/2 a reason can do it.
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
621506
Sharing intimacy with anyone other than your spouse is cheating. May it be physical or emotional. It's deception either way. You should leave if you are missing something at home.
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Key indicators...\n\nMood swings, goes from happy to sad, feelin bad to feelin really good.\nMissing items, or missing money\nstays in the bathroom for a while, and if it is your spouse, you know usually when it is odd.\nIf he is snorting, then blowing their nose, before coming out of restroom, and wiping their nose..\nlack of sex drive, depending on what they are on.\nsleeping for very long periods.\nin a hurry to go somewhere..... \nI hope for you this is not the case, it is miserable. My husband has been on painkillers for years, and i had no idea, until after i married him, so it is hard to live with and accept...
247016
It is one sign. Throughout history there's been sex crimes, etc. That people think cheating on a spouse is okay, that's newer.
945135
He may or may not be cheating.  But whatever he is doing, he is AT RISK for at least cheating EMOTIONALLY.  love2utam has it right.  If it's an affair of the heart (even without sex) it's still an affair.\n\nEven if he has lots of friends, and they are genuine friends with absolutely no romantic/emotional attachment, if he still spends a good deal of time with them, he has difficulty prioritizing his time.  He spreads himself too thin.\n\nYOU should be the FIRST person he comes to for fulfilling his needs.  ALL of his needs.
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Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
147374
Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
761057
ONly you should know that answer.  How does your husband behave? Is he flirtatious? does he come home late at night saying he worked late? taking regular showers (heheh ..its true )?   If he is giving you reasons so be suspicious then  you are normal .\nIf not then its just you being erratic.  If you really want to know why don't u spy on him?
1139301
Your insecure about your marriage. You and he need to work to make it stronger for your sake. It doesn't mean he is cheating, just you have some doubts...
217623
You have given all the signs of cheating, especially the part about showing anger for no reason.  These signs will appear in both men or women who are having an affair.  If you don't want separation, try not to confront him with your fears,,, in his state of mind, it'll just give him somthing else to show anger about.  \n\nWhen you are fed up, don't threaten him with divorce,, just disappear,, and let him come looking for you,, don't beg him to quit what he's doing, just let him know you won't tolerate it.  He's free to do what he wants,, but he can't have you around while he's doing it.. . make sense?