ok can you give me ideas on how to have sex om my own?
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I believe masturb'ation is very good
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try being naked!!!\n\nit works believe me
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practice on self first, find out what works for you, then teach to lover. You'll know it when you have 1
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
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Get experimental and try new things.  Rent a few tapes and see what they do and see if you want to try it.\nHave the guy or girl go down on you and concentrate on your clit.  pull the skin back and start by rubbing it slow and then tell him how and where it feels good.  Remember, if you are trying for the orgasm or the cool climax, there are no boundaries or limits.  Try sex sometimes with no holes or holds barred.  Be open and exploratory.  Can't do it when  you are dead so might as well try it when you are living.
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try something new. be open to more stuff. maybe a little oral... a little anal... a little s&m... a little roleplay... a few 3-ways... and trust me, he'll be happy, dont be afraid to be a freak.
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this is strange but i happen to come across this in a book not too long ago, \n1.) take a ziplock bag fill with lotion and put in between you matress or couch cushion.\n2.) take a toilet paper roll line with suran wrap and toilet paper to fill it in and add lube.\nthere is alot online too. \ncheck out http://www.homemade-sex-toys.com\nhope this helps
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Put on some great music and dance, go jogging, go walking, get an exercise DVD you like and do it in the comfort of your own home, and have lots of sex!
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My best advice would be that you should try having an orgasm on your own first. When you are with a man, you might become so concerned about the orgasm-matter, that you will not be able to relax and give in to the pleasurable feelings.\nIn order to enjoy masturbating, and getting an orgasm, it is first and foremost important that you think it is OK to masturbate! There is noting wrong or sinful about getting to know one's body - and thereby becoming a better sex-partner.\nMake sure, you have all the time, you'll need without disturbances. Pay attention to the setting; perhaps you'll enjoy a long bath first, put on your favourite lotion, your favourite underwear or maybe light a few candles.\nSpend some time finding a good place to be at - the bed would be an obvious choice. Try touching yourself in different ways, what feels good, what doesn't? Take it slow and enjoy your time with yourself, getting to know yourself. Perhaps you won't achieve an orgasm the first time, you try; but you'll definitely learn something about how you like to be touched.\nRemember, the main goal is to become comfortable with your own body and your own sexuality, this will heighten your chances of achieving an orgasm. On the same note, I'd hold back on porn, dildos etc. until you are certain what you like, until then they might only serve as distracters.\nBest of luck!
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Well, practice is good.  But yeah, there are videos, sex help books.  If you're too embarrassed to go and buy them outright you can buy them online.
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go crazy and have sex with any and evry body
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After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
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I have no idea how to have "sefe" sex, but it has been rumored that abstinence is the best way to practice "safe" sex.  I prefer the condom method.
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You probably need to find some sex books and try new things....BE VERY OPEN MINDED!!!!!!
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Try looking in a sex manual...
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how about trying masturbations?