Is it cheating if I hit on a woman with intention of taking her home but...?
115487
for a gurls point of view yes i would kill my boyfriend but i would want him to tell me something has to be going on between you and your g/f to be intrested in another woman.
522118
You are asking for trouble. You will betray your wife, and even if she doesn't find out (which she probably will) your relationship will never be the same. A lot of girls flirt with married men (sometimes because it is easy because they are unavailable), so if she is just flirting you may also lose a nice friendship with your neighbor. Either way, she doesn't have anything to lose, and you have everything to lose. You could end up having both women throwing you out on your ear - and you would deserve it. You would be a lot better off not flirting back and not spending time alone with her.
123366
What a question! Being an older guy myself, I'd say yeah, but you need to show him how serious you are. You wouldn't believe the number of younger women who are after me. Go for it.
767861
First, does it seem like something she would consider?  If so, then go for it man.... otherwise you'll just be wondering what could have happened, and maybe be hurt if she finds someone else.
1165044
I think it is great to explore your options and see who is out there. If you feel like flirting...go ahead and explore...my feeling is if you don't want to get attatched...don't sleep with anyone one the trip...you may find the love of your life! Hope you have a great time! MayMay
576514
no its not okay. she is already taken and if she is unhappy or if she wants to be with you let her come to you on her own, it is not your place to break up a marriage. how would you feel if you were married and some guy was trying to steal your wife away? its a matter of respect. think about your pride and your character.
859934
if she's flirting to the point of making you uncomfortable then you have to say something.  if she's really your friend she'll respect that and keep it friendly.  another issue is do you trust your man?  if so then don't even trip because you know exactly who he's going home with at the end of the night.  it's all about trust but you shouldn't tolerate disrespect especially from your friends.
417375
ummmm....im a guy so its best that i say that if I was cheating (unfortunately i have), i would probly do just the opposite. Id call all the time to make you seem less suspicious, and id give you excuses as to why i had to go, like, "my mom wants me to help her cook, so i guess ill talk to you l8r", and in reality, some other chick is calling and i dont want to miss the call. But some guys make it obvious, so if you feel that he is, you shouldnt have to feel that way so its probly best that you move on anyways......... you should be able to trust the guy, cuz after all, thats what a relationship is based on....TRUST. hope i could be of assistance even though im like 17 lol.
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
266511
I would seriously evaluate the love of my life idea. Then take a good look at how good of a friend you have.  Most friends are gonna stick wit ya for a long time.  Men see one thing wrong and hit the door.
817726
For some people flirting is just in their personality. Now if it's flirting with the intent to cheat, or they are being very suggestive, then I don't think it's acceptable. Still, while it may be innapprorpriate, I wouldn't call it cheating.
336122
Honestly, if you truly had a deep love for her, I don't think you would have cheated.  If the bond is weak enough that you both felt the need to stray, I'd have serious doubts about giving it another go...unless you both were willing to work hard to discover what caused these problems to begin with and were willing to work to resolve them.
173485
depends on what kind of honesty we are talking about. if you tell a woman that you have fantacy's she will trust you and your being honest; however, if you tell a woman you have fantacy's that you would like to pursue. then you have just been too honest.  women don't like to feel threatened. so it might just be, that you say way to much, and have her thinking there might be a close threat.  Example, I always go play cards with my buddies on thurs., accepted... I go play cards with my buddies on thurs and you can't come., not accepted.  you just posted a threat that your friends are more important. and then we wonder what you might be hiding if we aren't allowed to be around. you must be hiding something... guys don't think into things like women do, but you could come home with ice cream on your shirt, and you might have just stopped off for a cone.  a woman can go from he had ice cream, to,, where was mine, to,, who else had ice cream, to,, that jacka-- is cheating on me how dare him.  and then you're screwed. it's that idea of he didn't think of me. why not, whats he hiding. when in reality your just being you, and have nothing to hide.  always be considerate of her feelings and never say too much it will save you a lot of clean up time.
30910
as long as you're not cheating (and you have to be honest with yourself about that), I wouldn't capitulate to her demands, unless you're the type of guy who enjoys being on a a short leash.  There are a lot of men like that out there these days, and apparently, there are a even more women who want to hold that leash.\n\nTwo possible solutions:\n\n1)  If she won't listen to reason, and if she doesn't trust you, I would tell her, as you're walking out the door for a night with the boys (or whatever) to "get over it," because nothing's happening.\n\nOr \n\n2)  Dump her.  She's a jerk.  She doesn't deserve you. You can do better.
466948
I don't think so because you don't know what, or who that person is doing while he's out of town. If you want him to be faithful, i think u should stick with someone close by.
55414
Why are you with her? Get out of that relationship. No one deserves to be cheated on. You deserve someone who will come home to you and only you. Please don't keep hurting yourself. They aren't worth losing your self-esteem and self respect. There is someone out there who can make you so much happier than the person you are with who insists on cheating on you. The only way to help you stop hurting is to get together with a bunch of friends after kicking her to the curb and keep the good times flowing. I am so sorry you have to go through this but once you're done with this relationship you are going to be so much happier. If you feel like she is remorseful about her cheating and says she can change give her one more chance. Lay down the law and say this is the last time you are putting up with it and if it happens again send her packing.
722567
I think it must be done with CAUTION. If either party is in a relationship, NEITHER should be in a flirtatious situation.  It should be ok if both are single AND they are not some kind of mental case or stalker. You gotta be careful!!  I've seen women get stalked (even on the road!!) because she flirted with a guy she met somewhere. NOT EVERYONE CAN HANDLE the game, so why play it?