Why do ugly, fat, dumb, smelly guys have the nerve to be picky about women?
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They simply don't see themselves as having any flaws and don't want to find any in their women, either. \n\nWhen asked about looks, check out the online personal sites. Most men will claim they are athletic or average frame when the picture clearly does not fit that range. Do they see it? Probably not because men are taught as children to have high self esteem and just deal with it. Girls are allowed to express what is wrong with them and in turn, continue to struggle with self-image. Maybe if guys were brought up in the same regard, they would start to think like women... \n\nI have always seen gorgeous women that men still find something to pick at... it baffles me!
884385
Most like the assertive type,,, a take control kinda guy,,,,,,,, but they are the first to trash guys because guys are just ass holes,,,,,\n\nnow if they dated more quiet reserved guys they would see a whole other side,,, but the "nice guy is usually left in the dust,,,
411185
They're just feeling insecure because standing next to you it would be even more apparent THEY don't work out. Most men wouldn't want a woman who is stronger than them or earns more than them or has a better career. We've got to be very subtle about these things lest we offend their fragile ego!
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Of course the saying goes to each cat their own rat. Not everyone loves the bad boys and most nice guys eventually do win in one form or another. The most interesting thing ive heard as to why this occurs is that its some kind of evolutionary kick in type of thing. When looking for someone to mate with, pass on you genes, stop the biological clocks ticking, whatever you want to call it, women (conciously or not) look for a dominant, assertive, more evolutionarily "fit" man. These type of guys are typically the ones you describe, though they arent all abusive and unfaithful as much as they are assertive and aggressive. If you believe women decide what role a man is going to play very shortly after they meet them, then it stands to reason that a more assertive approach = more response from women, as a boring or too nice approach takes a little longer to cultivate.
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Girls are picky.  But they're simple too.\nOther than a guy who at least LOOKS like he treats himself with respect (dresses well, keeps fit), 99% of women do NOT want anything from a guy physically.  That's right.\nEmotionally and personality-wise, that's where the work comes in.  Self-confidence, leadership, decisiveness, someone in control of their emotions, someone who knows how to handle himself and other people... this is where girls get picky, and guys get lost.\nThere's a lot I've heard that can sum up what girls want in a guy.  I'll go with this today: "Girls feed off other people's emotions.  If YOU'RE feeling good, so is she."  Feel good about yourself, and she won't be able to help but feel good around you.  And THAT'S attractive.
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The only thing good about those guys is they have self confidence. If your confident about yourself, girls find that attractive.
582359
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Maybe they are just confident and would like to meet what they feel is a nice young lady. But maybe the cute girls arent really that nice if they think that the guy approaching them is ugly. You really need to judge people by their actions and words and not their looks.
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the first thing is body, natural male habit.  But after that it's the personality.  No matter how good looking the girl, nobody likes a lousy human being
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I like long stumbles on the beach, watching peelers, fight'n and talking about the fabulous noises and smells that emanate from my body. My pet peeve, women who cannot put down their crack pipes long enough to service my unnatural sexual needs. My ideal mate should have low self-esteem, a killer body and an isatiable appetite for sex with balding middle-aged alcoholics. Your ideal mate, should be morbidly obese, alcholic and intellectually challenged with questionable morals, bad acne and breath that would make you cry.
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Everyone has there different levels of attraction to others. The only reason why anyone would think it is unnatural to like someone bigger than a stick is because society makes it an issue. If you like a girl with a lil meat then hey why does it matter what anyone else thinks. You know thicker women used to be reveered and of importance to men because it showed that she was healthy( i am not talking about the morbidly obese) Skinny women used to be thought of differently than they are today. All in All the way a person looks on the outside isn't really important. The most beautiful slender girl in the world can become the ugliest if she is a b***h with a horrible attitude and is ethically and morally challenged. I've dated  a couple of guys that weren't considered hot because they were good people and treated me well. I did marry a hotty though but not for his looks, for his heart. He is the greatest person I have ever known with the biggest heart and best attitude. Awesome sense of humor too. If hew didnn't have all that I wouldn't have married him. I mean think about it, if a person only has their looks to go by what do you fall back on when it's gone?
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They are harder to get as well as very picky. So men tend to stay away from them.
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An ugly, well-talking woman is not going to impress any man who is looking for a girlfriend.   And a dishevelled guy who looks like an alcoholic is not going to impress any woman by talking well to her either.\n\nPeople's physical looks are very important in whether they like each other or not.  And of course, you don't need a lot of time to judge whether a person looks attractive or not.  A few seconds is all you need to make this kind of judgement.\n\nGood character can offset some of the dislike people have for an ugly person.   But usually, it's not enough to eliminate the dislike entirely.
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men have always judge women by how they look instead of how they are as a person. No one should be judge by their looks, you can be the ugliest person in the world and be the nicest person going or be the most beautifulest person and be the biggest a**hole.
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Those kinds of guys are usually the dumbed-down jocks who tend to view life as a pie-eating contest, and view all women as nothing more than somekind of dessert. It's people like that who cause everyone else to be stereotyped, because all they are interested in is constantly working to outdo and outperform each other in every way they can, and prove they are somehow better or more macho or other really dumb and ridiculous bullSh like that.
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My guess is probably the same reason girls want to be with a nice looking guy that has a nice body. Ever see a group of girls out at night in search of ugly, overweight men?
768282
men think that because there are certain types of girls that are into that thing and those are the kinds of girls they hope to attract. also guys that are like that are often lacking in personality or other things and are trying to compensate for their inadequacies
382014
There are many reasons. You can have really bad body odor, you are insecure, you are too jealous, you don't love yourself, you don't respect yourself or him, you cheated on him, you are a lousy lay, if he fell in love with your looks, you let yourself go, he is not mateur, he wants to play the field, peer pressure, you have a bad temper, you don't get along with his family, you are too clingy, he only wanted you for sex, you gave him sex to quickly, he feels that you are not smart enough, you like to tell y'all business, you make scenes in public,you are a pathetic liar,  you are insensitive, you are abusive, and you are lazy and don't want to do anything with your life. I know because this is some of the same reasons girls have when dumping guys.