So, I broke up with my boyfriend about 7 months ago, but I find myself thinking about the bad situation w.sido
107591
im on your situation and the thing that i could share and say is you still love him...are u realy thinking bout the bad situation or the times youve been with each other....u know 7 months is too long for recovery but i think you havent really forget him yet...
364248
It's gonna be WAY too HARD!! i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months and 15 days, and i still can't get over it! But i think you should try to take some time for yourself.. Try going to parties, hangouts, gatherings with more friends around or try to go to the gym.. What i'm trying to say is that you should keep busy! that's the only way that you might forget..\n\nGood Luck!!
182130
If you are breaking up with them because you are absolutely, positively, 100% sure that there is no way to work things out then...you are exiting a bad situation and that is a good thing.  It's not a fun thing and it hurts like hell but if it's the right thing to do then unfortunately you just have to do it.  Then you just have to pick up the pieces and move forward.  They forgot to give some of us the manuals on Life is not going to be perfect.
795878
WOW... you are a PIG!!!!!!!  I think that when you started thinking of doing something with this other girl you should have broken it off with you girlfriend..\n\nSome advice from you..  I was in a relaitonship for 6 years.. we were highschool sweethearts... he cheated on me and then told me that he jsut wasn't sure what he  wanted.. he hadn't experienced anything other than me so that is why it happened.. he said he loved me but didn't know if he was in love with me so he wanted some time apart to think... well that time apart turned into a few months and then you know what happened.. the jerk realized what he had and came back but it was too late.  \n\nso sometimes when you are in a relationship for so long you tend to overlook a lot things, you tend to take things for granted.. you tend to think do I really want this what if there is something else out there.. and then you follow your doubts and find out everything you wanted you had but its too late... don't let it be too late for you.. figure out what you want.. and you need to talk to your girl you can't hide that! Also I hope you used protection if not you also need to tell your girl and you both should get checked there are a lot of diseases out there!\n\nHope this helped.. \nanything else just email me!
411363
I was 16 and I am not with him.  Part of me regrets it and wishes that I could take it back, but it is also part of what defines me as I am.\nIf I may ask, how long has it been that you have been with him?
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
921522
I don't mean to say this to get you upset or angry or anything, but it seems to me that your dissatisfaction stems more from yourself than from her actions, I think. It sounds like you weren't truly sure you were done with the relationship when you ended it, and as a result you couldn't fully own your decision to break up with her. Perhaps you were afraid of something, like her breaking up with you first, or jealousy issues, or something similar, and that is why you ended it?Or maybe you were trying to prove a point, or you thought she'd come back?\nAll in all, the above types of reasons for ending a relationship ultimately do not stem from dissatisfaction with the other person, so much as they stem from personal dissatisfaction, in one form or another, if that makes sense? Jealousy issues are your insecurities acting up... proving a point or thinking she'd come back are manipulative moves which might indicate a lack of trust in the relationship, yet also an inability to let go of something which is making you upset...\nIt really sucks to feel this way, and I'm sure that anyone who has broken up with a few people has probably experienced this at one point or another. Just feel the pain for now - it will pass, and feeling pain is ok. Then, once the pain dies down a bit, examine what is going on with yourself... take care of yourself first. You probably knew what you were doing when you ended the relationship, even if not for the reasons you thought you had ended it for. Personal development is a great way to turn a crappy situation into a good experience.\nGood luck!
1113969
i was still in love with my ex when i left him, it was the hardest thing Ive ever had to do, but he put me through hell and back , so i wasn't going to live like that. I figured i loved myself more than him. When i started to think I would take him back I would remember the hell he put me through and that kept my head clear, follow you head in this case , not your heart
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
440782
sometimes you forget the bad things in a relationship and always hold onto the good memories, that's why even if you break up with someone, down the line you'll think about how good it was and have regrets.  \n\nIt's up to you, if you still care about her then go for it, but be 110% sure this time, after all there is a kid involved and it wouldn't be fair for him to have his parents on and off like a hand dryer in a public bathroom.
1002028
Well, take some time out alone or with an Adult whom you trust and decide the pros and cons of living with him.\nThats important, because at the moment, you are still reeling from the vacuum.\nIf you broke up with him because of what you said, it sounds bad, and looks like you didnt have a stable view of what a relationship is about.\nMen always have a 'roving eye'. Cannot stop a man from looking. But if you do, then let us know. Its just like telling women not to look at a new shoe or at the next shirtless hunk!!\nYou should have broken up for a better reason. But then now that you have broken up with haste, dont go back to him. He would be feeling as bad you are. Just take the time that you have now, to think about what you have done. \nBut eventually, you will need to wake up and smell the truth. Men always look around. Believe it or not. Finding a guy that would look and speak only to you, would be like finding that elusive pot of gold at the end of the Rainbow.
284920
I felt the same way about my bf, we would argue constantly about things that he would do, and I got fed up one day and I dumped him, then six hours later I took him back, because I realized, I was so sad and I realized that I would argue any day with him, then not have him in my life at all. I love him very much.
341582
As time goes on you will heal, don't let the thought of a man bring you down, remember this to shall pass. You had a decision to make and you made it, good for you, you left before it got any worse. Give yourself enough time to realize what you really want out of life, when the time comes and the right person comes along you will just know that you did the right thing. Right now your just looking for a rebound b/c your not used to being alone anymore, try it you just might find out that you like it that way.Good Luck.
646450
I'm sorry that your going through this I know how you feel believe me I have been through this myself. I saw once on Oprah's show that you must let him go in order for something better to come into your life. How you can you let something better come into your life? when your still thinking about the ex boyfriend! May God Bless You and bring someone new into your life!
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i thought my world ended when i broke with my boyfriend. but  i stood up, got a haircut, bought nice clothes, went into graduate school, met other people. its been six years after the breakup and here i am, living witness that there is still life after  a failed relationship.  it only takes a good outlook in life friend.
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.