What to do if you feel that your girlfriend is not affectionate enough?
105576
I wonder why your gf feels that affection should wait until after marriage. Innocent touching like hand holding, shoulder massages and playing footsie are normal parts of a dating relationship.  if she really feels that it is part of her personality, don't expect it to change.  You will either have to compromise with affection she feels is acceptable (and enough of it to satisfy you) or to move on.  Something as basic as affection in a relationship should have a common ground, otherwise, someone will end up angry, disappointed or rejected.
854060
Always always always be honest, don't try to change who she is or what she is, how she dresses. Tell her that she is beautiful and treat her like u have never treated anyone like she's just something u have to have every day. Make her feel safe and secure when she is with u. And when she doesn't feel like having sex don't get mad at her cause sometimes a woman just likes to be held and caressed. It's not always about sex. But when it is please her. Make her feel like she's the only woman on the face of the earth. We like this kind of stuff. Hope this helped.
783395
Here's what I'd do:\n\nSit down with her and take her hand in yours.  Make and keep eye contact, even if you have to announce it like, "I have something to say."  Remind her that you really care about her, more and more every day.\n\nTouch her cheek, or tuck her hair behind her ear: the more physical, non-threatening contact you can establish the better.  She'll become more comfortable with you in a physical way, and that will help her comfort level with the emotional aspect of your relationship.\n\nTell her that you don't want to do or say anything to make her feel uncomfortable but you really feel that she deserves to know that she's important to you, you care about her, and that you love her.  Let her know that you don't expect anything in return, you just want her to know how you feel.\n\nShe probably freaks out/hyperventilates because she feels that either she doesn't deserve love or that saying "I love you" comes with expectations.  Tell her that you are just letting her know, and you don't need anything back: you love her for who she is, right now, just the way she is.\n\nThen what you need to do is let her know you'll be there when she's ready to talk about this or anything else, and just walk away.  She'll need time alone to process what you've said.
264753
tell her that u have strong feelings for her and that u really want to be with her and u dont want to pretend anymore. tell her that u need to know how she feels about u..and i would put a stop to all the touching and kissing until then. u never know u could be getting strung along.
1043187
Start dating someone else and than see how she feels when you are not there at her every becking call.
22869
If when the relationship started you wanted to please her (for what ever reason). But now you are together you don't make the effort to show her how you feel, in a way she understands.  \n\nYou can't take affection on trust, it has to be demonstrated.  It might be you are not demonstrating it anymore.
494459
Do what feels good.  Do what your partner responds to favourbaly and dont do what they respond to badly.
488010
It's good that you seem like a good man if you are showing all the signs that you love and care for her. However, your girl seems to have had enough of you for whatever reason. I think she may feel overwhelmed by the living arrangement you guys have chosen and she finally figured out that she needs her space. Maybe living together put a strain on the relationship and she feels smothered. You can't make her stay if she so desperately wants to go.
950335
She obviously feels a little awkward about being "touchy-feely" with you.  Maybe she thinks you will view it as a sexual overture, when she really does not want to have sex.  Maybe she thinks it is too forward for a woman to be touchy feely. Whatever the reason, why dopn't you try to TELL her what you would like in this situation.
464976
It seems that you do not love your girlfriend and should break up with her.\n\nFirst for someone to be intimate with you, you have to make it comfortable for them.  If she is doing nothing, it means that you have not done your job properly.\n\nObviously you are not for her, since you are planning to leave her because she is not having enough sex with you.  Do her a favor and leave.  She is not comfortable with you and you don't love her.
660594
everything is fare in love n war.so dnt feel miserable .just go and hug her,kiss her,liove her d way she wants.
1159703
I can understand why she's feeling distant,I know I would feel overwhelmed...it's a tough call.I would say wait it out,try to get her talk about about what she's feeling,have some patience...it's gotta be a scary time for her and mabe she's afraid to show that?I would at least be there for her and not pressure untill all this is done and behind you both...if you really care about her and she truely wants  this relationship,why riun a good thing?Give her some space.Mabe that's all she needs,to know that you care and are willing to stick by her.
487805
Just show more emotions and love and caress and be truthful at all times.  Continue to do the things that had you guys to fall in love.  Reach out to her even when she is in her lowest state and be humble, that is a good quality of being a true man.  Be patient and keep no record of the bad things and do not get easily provoked.
102872
You can't exactly MAKE somebody love you more. The heart feels what the heart wants to feel. All you can do is show her that you're a great guy to be with, and hopefully she will feel that there is nobody else for her.\n\nTreating her kind, complimenting her, respecting her, and remaining faithful to her, are only some of the things that you can do ( or continue to do ) to show her that you're that guy. Be spontaneous, live a little, take her out and have fun. It is your job to prove to her that you're what she needs, and you can do that by keeping her happy, making her laugh, and helping her to feel safe and secure. Nothing in a healthy relationship is ever materialistic. Sure, it is nice to get and give presents, but the key lies in the emotional support.\n\nUltimately, even she can't control her own heart when it comes to love, so whatever the outcome, it is one you must learn to accept. Either way, find comfort in knowing that you gave it your best.\n\nGood luck.
494448
not much you can do if she has no feelings for you. let it go dude , let it go.
899521
Spend time together and don't worry about how you look around each other, how you talk and sound around each other or whether you feel stupid when you're with each other.  And just because you don't show public display of affection doesn't mean you don't love each other.  You just feel like being nice to the rest of the world and saving us from a disgusting scene.  I save my stuff for when I'm not in public. (wink, wink)
717523
i'm not trying to be mean or anything but if u rly love her and care about her, don't rush her into things. Maybe she is not ready for something like that. Give her some space. She most likely loves u for who u are. I am not saying that u think anything opposite of that. I am not trying to be mean or anything. u don't have to take this advice or anything if u don't want too.