I have met a girl who had a very bad husband and she is still in love with him, how can she feel that way?
116667
May be that bad husband had some good things too, and now she misses those things, or may be although he was not a ood husband but she would not feel lonly with him and now she is very lonely.\nalso she might miss old time, and she get confused with missing her husband.
182785
It will never get better that is for sure. You have to ask yourself are you wanting a life with someone who has no respect for you. This child is going through a lot with her parents going through a divorce and than in steps another woman..no wonder the child acts the way she does and no it is not normal for most but remember what she is going through....Cejay
853076
I'm sorry to hear this. Your daughter should not treat you this way. I believe she is blinded by her feelings for her husband that's why she is one sided. \n\nShe knows deep inside her where she stands and how her husband feels and she knows it is wrong ! but she would rather defend her husband rather than her own mother because of her "blind one sided love". \n\nYour daughter loves you but she sucks... ( I'm sorry ) she doesn't know how hurt a mother feels when feeling abandoned by her own child.. don't worry because your dauther will feel it if her own dauther will do it to her. \n\nI'll pray that God will give you enough courage to hold on to love your daugther despite what she had done and i hope she will realised that what is she doing is wrong.
286057
Love hurts and you will get over her. Time heals all wounds. Everyone who has loved has felt what you are feeling, you are not alone. It is just how it is. It sucks, but just remember:  It is better to have loved, than to have not loved at all!
787384
You said she was in a bad relationship prior to yours. He may have been the  jealous aggressive type and she may not be used to someone who's mature and not insecure. Unfortunately for you, she may be insecure and she may think that the only way for good things to happen is if bad things happen first. Maybe she just needs time to adjust to a good loving relationship. Explain to her how you show your love in a positive way maybe she's a little blind to it because of her rough past. If you love her enough, guide her through it and be patient. It'll pay off.
293081
I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
959299
I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
643013
Maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you feel about her. Back off a little, and give her some space. As the old saying goes..."If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours. If they don't, they never were." Besides, do you really WANT to be involved with someone that is incapable of displaying emotion? Marriage is a life-long commitment that should never be taken lightly. Good luck.....
480801
Eight years is a long time to let go of. maybe she just needs some space. Try separating for a while. It seems that you both still have feelings for one another. Seems like she feels lost. I know, I'm going thru the same thing with my husband. I feel like I've lost myself. I'm not the same person I was when we first met. Give her some time. I'm sure she'll re-evaluate your relationship.
695913
In this life you will meet many women and they will all be very different. \n\nYou will fall in love with a few and be hurt by a few and you may even hurt a few. All women are not the same and this one you are still in love with is not the one for you. \n\nYou will find a woman who will feel the same way as you and this woman will be forgotten. Take comfort in this and keep your eyes open for a better person.
52292
Because a part of you feels like she still has a piece of something that is now yours.\n\nDon't worry, he's with YOU now. So obviously she just wasn't good enough for him and you are.
173300
i have sort of had this experience.i fell in love with this guy.our relation was going on steadily when another woman came in his life and he ditched me.i did not ask for explaination and just walked out of his life.i was so heartbroken.i lost faith in everybody and am afraid to love once more.whenever i see that guy i get very angry but pretend as if nothing has happened and try to enjoy but actually inside i feel sick.i think u should move on.it is hard but tyr and slowly u will forget.
632148
the question is how you feel about that part of her, because nothing you say or do will undo her past.  if you can handle that part of her and any trouble it may cause between you, good luck to you.  if you know right now that you hate it and that it will cause trouble (and the fact that you're asking this implies you're not quite ok with it) then i would really think twice.\n\nbut in either case, talk this out with her; both your feelings about her past and her feelings.
888068
Unfortunatley, she will be sad no matter how you do it.  What I would suggest is to first tell her the things you like about her to soften the blow, and then let her know that she deserves to be with someone who feels as strongly about her and she does about him.  I hope this helps, and good luck.
13268
Can you be a bit more specific about the situation? How does SHE feel? Is she separated? Unhappy? You definitely aren't nuts though. Many have been there before and will be in this situation again.
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
1045415
I feel sorry for you. I think that she still loves and cares for you, but she has been emotionally drained from the marriage.\n\nWhen a woman is fed up she is fed up. Especially when she in truly in love and her partner is not returning the emotions. She can only keep trying for so long before she has to stop and think about if it is really worth it.\n\nI don't want to say but here it is" You should have treated her like a queen when you had her". It may be to little to late, but try and remain on good terms with her. She may just give you another chance. Just remember, if she does come back, don't fall into the routine of neglecting her feelings. If she leaves again, she may never come back.\n\nGood Luck!