Relationship Breakup?
108369
She sounds like she is very young and confused... just give her some time but don't pass up an opportunity if someone else comes along while she tries to figure out what she wants in life.
840692
It's over.   Pick up your pride, move on, find someone else.  He's breaking up with you but playing the coward by not coming right out and saying it.
526306
break it off and find someone new
338566
It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
80981
did you talk and explain to her why you broke up with her. communication is very important. you should talk to her. stay come and try to step into her shoes. if that dont help well than its something she has to get through but atleast you know you made an effort. its like what is that saying you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
400257
get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.
474511
Why not be friends and see how things develop?  If you two agreed to break up, why are you asking the question now?  Sit down and talk.
64486
The main thing I would do is get my mind aff that subject. If you r always thinking about the break-up, then you will always be moping around. I recommend doing something physical like swimming or jogging etc. You could also paint or hang out with friends. Do you know someone who usually always makes you laugh? Hang out with that person. Try to be as happy as possible. Good luck!
206759
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
164852
if you really love each other no it isnt time to end it. Me and My gf are going through a simuliar phase. Fights are expected in a realtionship. There are two people involved and two different views. SO you can expect fights. Me and My gf usually have at least one fight everyday. Manly this is my fault because I am under a lot of stress due to being so far in debt and working so many hours. I take a lot of it out on her although I dont mean to. My gf is going through the stage of life where she is making a lot of deciesions ( whatever that means I am not sure just what some mutual friends have told me) Therefore she gets upset at me alot. LOL But before the night is over we make sure everything is fine between us.   Good Luck I hop everything works out/
613908
It is time to let go and move on at this point. Once the trust in a relationship is broken it does not return and anger replaces the most basic elements to maintain interaction. Good luck!
631266
Hi\n\n   I would say it totally depends on the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.......
549208
while breaking up with him wasn't the best thing to do, most of us whould have done the exact same thing.  Have a talk with him. Ask him if he's intrested in giving you a secind shot and explain why you broke up in the first place.  If he isn't all you wanted-he's out of your system and you might cry a little.  the decision is yours but i know what it's like to like someone that much.  give it a shot. who knows- maybe he was dumping them because they wern't like you.  Only he and his friends know. Carpe Diem. Seize the day and take a chance-sorry if this is corny. I'm watching a walk to remember
73669
I'm so sorry that u had a bad breakup. I'm physic so i no. Well they break up because they have minor differences and disagreements and have no intention of compromise. But what u can do is try to get over him. If he is not coming back, then let him go. They say wen u love someone, there comes a time wen u must let them go, so try to get over him. Start seeing new people and pretty soon, it'll be a thing in the past.
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.