I seem to only attract married women...maybe someone can explain why that is and WTF is wrong with me.?
102027
It is a commitment issue . . . since they are already committed (supposedly) to someone else . . . you are not afraid of them getting too attached to you . . . or you hope not.
205732
Those things you've stated don't explain the type of person you are on the inside, your personilty, or how you treat others.  Take a moment and try to see yourself as others may see you.  Is there something intimidating about your character, the way you carry yourself, etc.?  I'm not sure what type of significant other you are trying to attract but it could have something to do with who you approach as well.  If you are drawn to people who have low self esteem and no motivation, you could naturally seem intimidating b/c of your status and success.  From the surface alone, you seem like a good catch.  Good Luck!
412793
well I don't, but unfortunately these are the only types I seem to meet.  it's not that I do anything purposely to attract them, or that I have some urge to 'change them'. It's that old adage, the ones I like don't seem interested in me, the ones I don't want anything to do with seem to be all over me.
391276
You need to look within your self and find out why YOU choose this type of woman. Your the common denominator in all these situations. Right?  Your obviously getting something you like out of being involved with this type of woman and you certainly don't seem capable of learning from your own mistakes. Your a repeat offender.  Not attractive!\n\nYou also have high standards for the type of woman you claim to be looking for. Do you have those same qualities to offer a woman with good character, education, her own money, no kids, and a sense of morals? Or  are you like a lot of men who think that having a di**ck is enough?\n\nI don't know if you've heard the saying " Birds of a feather, flock together."  Based on your description of the women you've encountered I wouldn't be surprised if you were just like them. No educated woman with morals wants a psycho, crazy, sleazy, easy  and STD infested man.
958900
First of all, I'm not trying to be rude, but are you really like this or are you just putting on a front to try and meet women on this site? I only ask that cause all guys say this stuff at first and then you find out how they really are. Again, I'm not trying to be rude cause I don't know how you really feel in your heart. Just follow your heart and be yourself and the right girl will come along. I only hope that you are sincere in the things that you are saying. If so, you will make a really great husband one day.
832167
you are coming from a bad place right now....I suggest you sit back, get rid of the negative energy you have filled your life with and .... clean up your head. You are blaming all women for one woman's actions...not very fair. You are bitter towards all women because of some past experiences with a few women...perhaps it is what you are doing that gets you what you get. My advice to you would be to STOP making bad choices in women and use some sense, start picking women that are compatable with your life and your head. Stop picking women based solely on what they look like, and start picking women who are kind, nice, ...and yes, these qualities do come in the same package as looks. I cannot imagine your finding any kind of happiness acting as "trade" to gay men.....it may get you off, but where does that lead to anything that is lasting as far as happiness goes? Trust me, all those women you are trying to punish will not give a rat's butt about what you are doing...you hurt no one but yourself when you seal yourself off as you are suggesting. AND, you will not be doing any gay guy a favor either. Your life is your own, your mistakes are your own...stop blaming all women for your mistakes and that is the first road back to sanity. Good luck
483985
It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
222913
A lot of the time, if you are not being approached it is because you are giving off the impression that you are not approachable.  Most times without even knowing it! If you get nervouse maybe you don't smile enough or make eye contact.  What type of women are you trying to attract, or have you put much thought into it?  Consider the people that you might want in your life, what qualities they need to have to make you happy. Then get involved in an activity that you are really interested in, get to know the people involved, then persue someone you find interesting that may posses those qualities you enjoy.  You already know you have something in common, maybe that would put you more at ease knowing that right off the bat. It's about something you are doing. You didn't really elaborate much or give people much to go on, but I hope this helps you some.
791332
Hey, i see this problem as a problem inside YOU. You don't need to please every women. So, stop being too needy. Evict the need that you need "your soul-mate" and feel that "she's the one." In my experience, I just LIVE my OWN LIFE. I date women and if a certain woman doesn't like me, no sweat! I have a plenty of choices. Ironically, more women will be attracted to me.
207002
If you are married, why are you trying to pick up women you low-life????
463927
The same thing happened to my second wife.  We did it like rabbits when we were dating but once married, the activity dropped off quite a bit.  I am sure the rigors of married life has something to do with it and the comfort in being in a long term relationship.  I am sure it doesn't happen to all women nor men for that matter.  Could be that you just need to try something different every now and then.  Location, clothing, time of day, etc.  Variety is the spice of life.
985729
And you look exactly like a Greek God, yeah.  If you are a married man, you should realize there is competition out there. If you are a married man, you should be in the top 10% of the most handsome men where ever you live. If you are not, you won't be able to keep your wife. This is not a fairy tale world we live in....just keepin it real...  nuff said!
374187
Consider that most people find two or three people in their lives that could be a "soul mate". In other words, once you are married, you will be tempted at least once or twice by a viable alternative. However, that's only once or twice in your life, which, should take about 90 or so years. So, don't expect to find that person in 7 months. Learn to live on your own, and that person will come to you. Furthermore, women generally are not attracted to men who are looking. For some odd reason, they are only attracted to guys that are perfectly happy being single. So, either become that, or learn to give off the impression that you aren't looking. Btw, I wrote a book on the subject. Shoot me an email and I'll send you an old draft of the manuscript.
805630
yes that is normal for you not to be attracted to your wife she has now become a fat cow and that isn't what you married, just try and deal with the next two months, the 18 year old will get you into trouble because by the sounds of it you are a lot older and that normally spell trouble
215557
For some reason you are drawn to women who are:\n1. Already needy, and seeking a partner to accept that and feed it.\n\n2. You are allowing them to dump too many personal problems on you.\n\nI want and need a friend and companion in my partner, but by no means do I feel that I can use them as a personal therapist! I know that women like to have a man who will listen and offer a shoulder to cry on when they need it, but in your case I would have to say you may need to toughen up a bit. Don't let yourself be used in this way, it is manipulation plain and simple. You may want to rethink what type of women you are dating. Seriously. Your partners needs and yours should be similar, so if you are leaving yourself open for this kind of behavior you need to step back and form a new game plan. Good Luck.
513643
sounds like you better invest in some good running shoes & figure out which way is the quickest way out of the house. You sound very young to me, but just know that this woman is married and isnt likely to give that part of her life up the way she gave you other parts of her. I know it feels like love but it really isnt. What it is is lust, learn from these encounters with this middle aged woman and it will make you more worldly when you find a girl your own age to date or to marry..............
1088074
Oh! Dear, mh!. You are suffering from a so-called “blindness of nature and reality”. The background of friendship lines and marriages, are far-far apart. You cannot feel the hotness of a liquid without a media. \n\nThe very same mistakes, many of us committed before we got married which result to an endless selectiveness efforts. You know why, many of us lied standardizes lines, that Our lovely ones must contains,  and get stuck if one least line misses. Hopeless thought.\n\nListen now, I assure you, that is a best husband for you. The inner of you confess it but surroundings doubts. Those surroundings disappear as the momentum of marriage life set to operate.  I suppose you close some tool monitoring your standards, co’se your mind-knowledge filled with blank entities you don’t fully defines them.\n\nI Evidently assured you that, People who are living together without an authorized marriage (no matter how long they are or how many kids they produce) , people who share a “hidden love”(day-night see you..bye.), and all the “fonicas” committers, all such groups knows nothing within authorized marriage. They define marriage as a fucking game. That is all.\n\nMarriage is a decree, principled from God, from there now, definitely you can get the divinity; 1+1=1\n\nContact me via  Bihagaze@yahoo.co.uk    for more