i hurt someone and i believe i broke her heart, i love her dearly with all my heart, how do i get her back?
112072
Ask yourself if why you want her back.  Ask yourself why you left.  Is it because you feel guilty?  Did you desire someone else and now that it is over you want her back?  Examine your love for this person.  If you truly love her then you will be concerned about hurting her again.  Maybe it is best that you don't go back.
465576
She must have been hurt beofore. Ask her and if yes take it easy with her. If you love her that much you will wait.
979611
Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
283260
Let her go. Have a talk with her and if she does'nt give just say: I'm hurt by what your doing to me but if you really feel that way and really don't care, that's fine with me! Bye!
865947
Ok you kinda screwed up but you have to let this go. She obviously cares for you and trusts you she is back with you. Don't take this wrong but maybe you should just talk to a professional about this. You need to let it go because it will eat at you and eventually becaome an obsatcle to you being together. Find someone you can trut to talk this out, forgive yourself and enjoy your time with your special lady! life is too short my friend to do anything else!
274165
Broken heart is not easy to heal.\nBut life doesnot stop, ask her to move on in life. I know it will not be easy for her; but to live in past memories will not heal her wounds.\nSo ask her to keep her self busy in other works like... New Hobby, develop New work interest, New part time job, Cooking etc. Being a good friend of her be with her, go out for movies, hang out here and there. Just try to make her a bit happy.\nI know it is not easy but atleast try to get out of that i m sure with time she not even forget him but also find a true love.
558503
Keep doing what you are doing. (I have been there too)\nThe truth is, time heals all wounds. It takes a long time to heal from loving someone. You may never truly forget her. You will love again. It wont be the same, BUT IT WONT BE ANY LESS.\nIt will keep hirting you if you keep taling to her, seeing her. You need to give youreslf time and space, away from her. \nIf she calls you again, tell her that. She should be willing to respect that.\nI'm sorry. I know you are hurting. Good luck.
325859
Tell him how you feel. Ask him what you think may have gone wrong. Try and make it up to him in small steps. Make it look like you'll do absolutely ANYTHING to get him back. That way, he will know that you love him and he might just get back with ya.
997451
i do not think you are stupid at all, you must really love her I mean real, true, deep love to forgive her for that. since she cried so hard and begged your forgiveness, and since you are the only person she opens up to, it means that she does love you. don't think because she cheated she dosn't love you, it has to do with something that you weren't giving her thus she had to look elsewhere. This could be sex, attention, love, support, a million different things to be real. if you really want to work this out then you have to be willing to forgive and forget. you also need to have a serious talk with her about why she cheaated. Just simply ask her why, what was her reasoning. if you want to ensure that she dosn't cheat again then you have to make sure that you are giving her what she needs and fulfilling your part of the relationship deal, but if she cheats again, its over, and there is no hope. I just went through the same thing except im the one who cheated and he said he would forgive me but then he didnt act right read my last question for what happened cuz now he wants me back that im gone. he is B in my question if you want to take a look. Good Luck to you. Hope I helped.
682511
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
220110
Trust has to be earned back.  Believe me, it's not easy when someone you love loses trust in you.  She was hurt that you kept a secret, and I'm sure it hurt you to hurt her.  Just be careful in all you do, be good to her.  If it's the real deal, she'll learn to forgive and all will be well again.
1028307
Take her to the park or a quiet serene place and say: \n\nI'm sorry I hurt you - it has been on my mind since I did.  Please accept my deepest apology. I will never deliberately hurt you again.  Tell me how can I make it up to you?'.  \n\nSay this with all the sincerity you can muster and she would reconsider.
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
248398
Let her go.  If she comes back to you -- then give it a go.\n\nFear is a strong emotion.  You can't find it dude.
779211
Earning trust back is hard; it takes time.  But start of small, show her that you care and that you are indeed there for her.  Try to take her out, even if it's just as friends.  Don't try to get ANYTHING from her.  Make sure you don't hurt her again and make sure she knows that you won't.  Get her something special that will show that you are putting thought into her and how you really feel.  Take the time to call her daily, talk to her.  Even if it's just texting her to say "Hey, I just wanted to make sure you were okay."  It's okay to still tell her that you love her [if you do] But don't try to move onto her too fast.  Give her some time and let her realize what she wants.  But just make sure that she knows you care.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.