why after women have been married for a while do they stop having sex when before she would do it 2 or 3 times
105891
Because most of them find out that sex isn't all its cracked up to be.  Nobody likes bump and run!
129976
That is when you ejaculate before you are in the women.  it can happen if you are nervous or inexperienced.
406904
You say stop before you get the woman pregnant.
527844
Sadly, a lot of women have been duped into thinking that you must experiment with sex with your partner prior to marriage.  Of course this is false--sex follows love, not the other way around.  They then end up giving up their bodies to dozens in hoopes of finding the "right" guy when all they do is cheapen their own value thus limiting the quality of guy that they will be able to ultimately marry.
1170815
Marry her, then she'll lose her sex drive. ( Ask any man that has been married for over three years ).
1050615
Me nor my husband never go more than 3days w/out having sex. So on a weekly average let's say 2 or 3, But on a good week honey we can go evey night and maybe twice a night on some night's. We have a good sex life and that's great, exp. when ur married
923866
Well, so far, I've tried it 5 times. Yeh, really. I am married for the fifth time. I still haven't realized that marriage is not for me, because it is. With the right person it's great.\n\nUsually the divorce is both people's fault. It lies on both people because they should have been discussing things. That involves 2 people. But if one doesn't want to talk, or thinks that there's nothing wrong, it's usually this person who is at fault.\n\nIn my last marriage, my ex wife was no sexual in the least. She was gorgeous but was not sexual nor sensual. Within the first 6 months of our marriage, I turned over one night to get amorous and she turned away. I stopped right there and told her that if I didn't get it at home, I'd get it elsewhere. She said "Do what you gotta do". So, end of discussion. Our marriage lasted 11 years and I did not have sex with her 11 times during that time. it ended up with me running around and having sex with another girl. So you could call this both people's fault, but I just got tired of masturbating to take care of my needs, because she wouldn't. I wanted a live person, a warm body, real sex instead of my hand. So after many years of frustration, you could say it was my fault for leaving.\n\nOK, it's usually both people who are at fault but in this case, I do blame my ex wife.
42098
I'm married and have not had sex in a year! (Idiot for a husband) Actually, it varies from person to person due to psychology and hormones.
947884
Why is it ewwwww. You people need to try things before you say ewwwwwwww. I'm married. Even before I was married I have been with women. It spices things up. Its far from ewww..
109508
Funny, you should ask that. . .my husband and I are having this problem now.. . .it is not women don't want to have sex. . . being married adds alot of stress its self. .. there are alot factors that add stress such as ex's(jealous ones who are plotting);finances and etc.  These things had me so stress after getting married, all I wanted is a good night of sleep. .. If you are in a marriage and there are no problems, there is a bigger one simmering. .. .remember pratice makes perfect. . .eventually, things change and stress was lifted. .. my husband can have it when ever he wants it, and I appreciate him more for understanding. . .Ask her why and then you will know where to go from there. .
356072
Good for you.  If the guy doesn't respect that get away from him. Many a girl would make a different choice if she had  chance at that "first time" one more time.  You can make a much better choice in a husband when sex is not a part of the equation. Sex is sex but a husband is for life and you cannot stay in the bed all the time.
574424
Assuming that you are not having sex because she wants to wait until marriage(but maybe I am wrong in this assumption): I think even for someone who is planning on abstaining before marriage sexual desire is there.  Abstinence is not an easy thing because the person still has the desire.  If she does not have the desire maybe she is repressing herself or just isn't attracted to you.\n\nI'm sorry.  :(
506623
just think your wife has had sex before she marries you, and then she has sex with you - and she chooses to stay with you.  She is saying that you are the best and that she never wants to be with another man again, she has tried others but you are what she picked - she knows about life and still decided to pick you. \n\nJust think that your wife is a virgin, you take her to bed only after you marry her, you are her first and only SO FAR.\n2,3,5,10 years down the line, she is talking to her female freinds they are all discussing sex, and she wonders if she has missed out because she has only ever been with you, this eats aways at her, she wants to know what it is like with other men, so she tries another man ..........................
307358
some women don't like to kiss when having sex they just like to have sex. i mean you can kiss any other time besides sex my husband likes to kiss during sex too but he doesn't just like to kiss anyother time.. weird huh.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
183508
When you know a person without sex first, and you really want to be with each other all the time, the sex will come naturally and be mindblowing.  Courting use to be the way it was done years ago.  I believe that's why older couples have remained married for so long, because they got to know each other first and decided to committ the rest of their lives to each other before they had sex.
722508
I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and had multiple partners throughout the years.  I am now married and I regret not sharing this special intimate moment with him first.  I admire couples who had waited til marriage.  But when you're young, you don't always think of those things.