why do boys have to look for another girl when he actually has a gf?
99422
This is actually something I'm struggling with right now.  I totally love my girlfriend with my whole heart, but it's just my rebellious nature to look for "excitement" outside of her.  I catch myself trying to impress other girls, and sometimes lusting after them.  Realistically, though, there's nothing more exciting than being in a totally committed, loving relationship, and we guys don't know what we're really blessed with when looking elsewhere.
543109
Because you women want to know whether or not he is available.  If he says yes, then you women put him in your POSSIBILE category.  If he says no, then you put hime in the NO category or ask yourselves what does this other girl have to offer this guy that I don't have.  Women have low selfrespect and low self esteem in their lives, leading to asking this question.  If they had high self esteem, than these women would not ask this question because they would not care one way or the other.  Bottom line--Women are jealous of other women and usually want what the other woman wants.  Women may deny this statement, but when they sit down and think about it, this statement is totally correct.
1009781
because guys are jerks and they always have choices. gals do have choices but we dont keep changing our bfs as we are happy with one.
29820
not really, because if they have girlfriends, then they must have something that's attractive and obiously, u see it. u just got to be a little faster. u know what i mean, right?
415675
well for starters u ain't the gals so u cant see what they see. the guys mite be a totally different person to what u think. and if they aren't than the girls are gonna come round sum time.
174494
He's probably just a desperate pervert who probably just wants any girl and it wouldn't matter who or what type of girl she is... He's just some bored creep who looking for some girl who has low self-esteem... Though if you've seen a picture of him and he's seen one of you, then that's just a different story
221918
It seems you have just landed from another planet, is it that difficult to " have a gf "??????? anyways, what are your particulars for a girl-friend for you, maybe hunt one for you.
130859
The way I look at it is.... When someone I am with looks at other girls, it is me that he is going home with and I would be worried if he wasn't looking at other girls, cuz that would mean that he may be cheating.
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
15411
It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
536251
Because the guy is thinking he might want to screw around on his girl, and he KNOWS that won't happen if the other girl knows he's not single.
115382
Perhaps you are afraid to commit to someone. And you possibly keep passing these girls by cause you know deep down they arent right for you. When you find the right one, it'll all fall into place.
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.
1044400
The kids shouldn't meet dad's new gf until hes sure that shes going to be sticking around for a long time.  Its not good to introduce kids to a bunch of gf because if they end up liking one then they break up then the kids have to deal with not being able to see that girl anymore.
1027469
Because guys always have numerous women to choose from.\nYour not that great if he a list of replacements ready to go.
101118
There is certain confidence about a girl that goes out to have fun versus a girl that goes out to find a boy. You need to go out with your girlfriends and have a good time. When you are confident and not looking you will find someone. I looked forever and then one day I stopped 7yrs later we are still together.
555123
same problem. i think that every girl is just looking for the same kind of guy, and there are only so many of them, so most of us just get stuck with the left overs. and alot of the times, left overs suck