should i court the guy i want?
114582
My grandmother always told me that jealousy is the colour green, stay away from it 'cause it will wreck any relationship. You can show a tiny bit of jealousy, but if you are that jealous maybe you are too controlling and men don't like that at all. Work on not being jealous when he talks to others, he will be talking to others for the rest of his life.
707523
I say that you should never wait for a guy. Whether it is to call you or  for him to ask you out. Take the chance and learn from it, whether the results turn out the way you do or don't want it. Life is about taking chances and living it to the fullest
495378
Depends on the guy. Some guys do not care. But there are other guys who are old fashioned and want to be the ones to do the courting. Also in some guys mind if you chase them you are desperate and they do not want to have anything to do with girls that seem desperate.
668461
why not. go for him, hon! anythings possible :)
505536
ask yourself this question?? Do you want attraction or someone treating you right. I would go for treating you right. They don't make them like that anymore
161709
To court my guy friend just to find out if he's realy gay.
793548
if you like him and you think he's worth the wait, then yes.\n\nyou might also want to let him know that you like him!
493235
First of all what i suggest is be clear, is he is one you are looking for?. Be clear what is that you are looking for in a guy. And hey don`t me a serious thinker. Go ahead with some boundries of you own and do not be very open very soon first try and understand what he is and what he is looking for in you. Chill.
996141
You have said very little about the guy in question. It sounds to me like you may have a LOT of thinking to do before you take any action at all.\n\nFirst of all, why exactly do you want his attention? The reason I ask is that this will have a very big effect on the strategy you adopt. If you are just looking to spend some time in nice company, it would be wise not to get emotionally or physically involved. It will only lead to heartbreak for one or both of you.\n\nYou could ask him out, but it has to be very clear to both of you what your intentions are and aren't, in order to avoid any possibly tragic misunderstandings (e.g. date rape) - again, a good reason to think about all this beforehand.\n\nIndeed, it would be wise to delay emotional involvement until a moment when you feel ready for a permanent relationship, and until you know enough about what you are looking for in a potential permanent partner/husband to be able to measure him against your standard, and find that he fits.\n\nAnd there is much to be said for delaying all physical involvement until after you are actually in that permanent relationship (some, perhaps even most people call it marriage). The reasoning here is to ensure that when you do get emotionally or physically involved, it will have the right meaning, because once you've done those things, in a very real way, there is no turning back.\n\nIndeed, let me point out: the relationship where people leave their parents, commit to each other permanently, and become physically one is one in which God joins people together. This is why Jesus said 'What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder' - telling us why we should not break up once we have taken this step.(1)\n\nThe reason I mention this is that it therefore makes very good sense for you to above all take care of your relationship with God (and make sure the man you have your eye on is doing that too).\n\nOK, now let's say you feel you might want something more serious. Take an inventory of what you want in a potential permanent partner. Think 'the type of guy I would want to live with for the rest of my life'. Talk to people you know and trust who are already married to find out what sorts of general characteristics 'work'.\n\nObserve many different people and relationships - not just ones that are attractive, but also ones that aren't. Ask yourself 'Why does this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?' or 'Why doesn't this person or relationship appeal to or seem good to me?'\n\nThink about what is involved in a relationship, ask yourself, 'Do I really want this? Is this something I can do? If not, what do I have to do to correct that? Is *that* something I can do?' etc., until you are sure that you really want to be in a relationship at all. If you come to a point where you realize you don't want to be in a relationship right now, don't move forward.\n\nBut let's say you've decided this is what you want, that this is something you really can do. Now, and only now, are you ready to make a start. Before you take any action to attract the guy's attention, try to find out what he's interested in. What groups does he belong to? Is any of this stuff you would find interesting? If not, take that as a warning and don't go any further unless you find something later that you do have in common.\n\nIf there is some evidence of common interests, figure out how you can get involved in some kind of activity in these areas, a group situation where you can discreetly observe him and figure out in what measure he fits the profile you came up with earlier. Again, if he significantly falls short, does not have some really important characteristic(s), don't go any further.\n\nBut let's say, for the sake of argument, that he turns out to be a really nice, good, honorable guy, with more enduring values than just appearances, possessions,
463666
Go for it.  I've always wanted to be in one to but I'm still thinking about it.  Anywayz, just always use protection no matter what and make sure the guy is fuckin hot.
286437
If he's married, then he's not so sweet if he's pursuing someone other than his wife.  So, what's your question?  Should you be his mistress or not?  Well, that depends ... do you want to always be second best?  Do you want to have a guy who only uses you so that he can feel better about himself and who puts your feelings last?  A man who goes outside of his marriage is selfish and insecure.  Are those qualities that you really want in a mate?  \n\nDoes he have children?  If so, you're not only destroying his marriage, but you'll be destroying his family.  Do you want that on your shoulders as well?\n\nGood looking, sexy, attractive .. so what - there's a lot of ugliness hiding inside of this guy.  Don't YOU believe that you deserve someone who can give his whole heart to you, and who will treat you with dignity and respect, and who will make you FIRST in his life?
754023
go for it.. don't let pride or unknown or jumping to conclusions Blind you from seeing something great Right before ur eyes!\n\neven if it doesn't work out, at least u will NEVER regret your decisions..... for better or worse, all of us are out there looking for someone to "take care of us".. it's not about finding a sugar daddy. it's about having expectations for what kind of man you want in ur life...if he fits the mold, that's awesome.  try it out, see where it goes. if he doesn't, don't be upset.. just keep chugging. ur kids are most important, of course.  good luck!
743671
first off you dont seem like you are of legal age. second, if you are over 18 it is alright to pursue him but be careful about setting up meetings. Go to public places and you could also invite people you know to come with you
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
107757
If you are asking what I think you are you would be better off moving on to the next guy. go find one thats good for you and treats you right. you deserve it.
764106
Some guys want to tap the town ho but they don't want to be seen with someone every other guy may have had, too. Not saying this is what you are, but it's the mentality of some guys if something comes easy. It seems like he is already on his next conquest. He may contact you for a booty call down the road, but you need to decide if that's all you want from him. Move on dear, you are calling the shots with guys, remember. You have what they want.
1050957
YES it's normal!! It's better to wait for the right guy, than rush things with the wrong guy. \n\nKissing/relationships will feel 100 times better with a guy you really like than just some random dude.