why there are people who love to hurt other's feelings?
115185
Because it is fun.  Nothing gives a person a better feeling than to do that.
416684
hey samantha, they are rascits to others because they dont really care wat they say or wateve they might feel desprisions or something and had someone do that to them even though it is wrong but they wont care. thanks for the 2 points!!!!
820430
Yes. And it is amazing that anyone can say that they have because it shows that they care about someone else. I hate to see someone in pain and those close to me, can share the pain with me.
91791
Some can be extremely sensitive and try to inflict their pain on other people.Some might have been mistreated,but that is no excuse  for some of their ways.There is someone I know of who goes around and tell people they are going to hell,calling them names,and demanding how they should behave.I don't feel sorry for these type of people.\n\nI used to stay in a rooming house when I was a 18.There was a mean bitter lady named Elaine.She said the most cruel things to me.I responded by saying"You're just mad because I have a girlfriend while you're sitting in your house deteriorating.No man will ever want you.You have no breast,you're ugly,you have no teeth and you have one leg.What man in their right mind would want you".She was shocked that I said that,but she got just what she deserved.After I said that,I went about my business while she sat there all alone deteriorating.I had no regrets about what I said.If you judge someone,you better be ready to be judged.\n\nSome cope with their pain by believing in heaven.People like Elaine will not go to heaven if they continue to act this way.
1172426
I'm there with ya. Its because we are good to people and they want to use you. You should be me cause I have one person I am coming close to hating and its a family member by marriage. It is also because some people drive others to that conclusion and it is a natural emotion.
359888
because people feel bad about themselves so they treat others worse so they can feel better. It is terrible and mean, but poeple feel like they always gotta come out on top.
24271
because they're afraid of judgement.  they judge others because they feel judged themselves.  i hate people that don't like me, but i don't try to, it just occurs that way.  we can supress or express our hate, but it's still there.  people hate as often as they love.  the end... i suppose.
1184034
Many of those people like to feel others pain. Because they have a shitty life, or, because ,they are either too lazy or too stupid to fix it. So they feel better about themselves when they act like they care, and many of them do care, its just that they don't know why they care, and after a very short period of time they change their definition of "caring"  from, actively finding a solution and implementing it, to something like pointing the finger and blaming others. The great thing about most of those people (for them) is that when they point the finger at the "problem"  (i.e. America is the Devil) it looks (to them) like they are pointing the finger at them selves (thus they can appear to be truly selfless) and can act like they are fighting for a solution, when really they are just trying to make themselves feel better for being incompetent in creating a solution -and in their lives for that matter-. Unfortunately Failure and self loathing are considered greatness for many.\nThat is why (at least why I think) American  wanna-be-do-gooders\nalways find the fault in America, it is too painful to find the fault in them selves, and, it is too hard to "fix" the injustice they see.\n  I, fortunately, do not suffer from this malady.\n"I do not want to feel others pain, but, I would like to cure it"....If I don't already have something better to do....
797385
cause others arent as compassionate
450788
they think it makes them stronger.\nsome do it just to make fun of peolpe.\nsome do it bc somebody did it to them before\nand some do it just bc there idiots!!!!
310991
Because we have a lot of people out there who aren't really as mature on the inside as they behave on the outside, and enjoy planting strife or get a laugh at doing or saying something truly rude.\n\nLot of truly deadbeat people out there. Some you can't love, because not everybody really wants to be loved.
519700
Because the person who hurt us does it on purpose, or has no idea he caused pain.  Some who hurt don't want to change, and we get frustrated, and hurt turns to anger.
366371
THE REASON LOVE HURTS IS BECAUSE THE PERSON YOU ARE LOVING, YOU HAVE PUT ALL YOUR TRUST AND CONFINDENCE IN.  YOU THINK SINCE THEY KNOW YOU LOVE THEM, THEY SHOULDN'T DISAPPONT YOU AND WHEN THEY DO, IT HURTS. IT'S A SAYING "NO ONE CAN HURT YOU LIKE THE ONE YOU LOVE" REASON BEING IF YOU DON'T LOVE THE PERSON, YOU CAN BRUSH OFF WHAT THEY DO, BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXPECT MUCH OUT OF THEM.
360418
Like the old saying goes...\n\n"Misery loves company" and some people hate that others can be happy and have earned that happiness.  Someone who is happy within themselves will not take gratification in anothers pain.
1075443
Because people are judgemental and stereotypical and I don't know the entire answer.  People just like to poke fun at others for their own amusement or because they have insecurities in their lives.
494953
I think a lot of people use it as either a defense mechanism to prevent themselves from being hurt again, while others are really just insecure jerks who love nothing more than to try and bring you down to their level of hell.  Either way...they all really wanna hug, they just don't know how to ask for it and would probably fall over dead if someone tried to give 'em one.  (either way...you win)  :-)
652489
Because they don't love theirself. They carry around the angry because they feel they have failed in life.Sometimes people do things wrong to you, and never make it right. That can make you bitter.  you seem to think you are a failure, and that can make you very unhappy,or just being stressed out, can bring it upon yourself.