I have a lot of friends, why don't I have a boyfriend then?
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
1146847
Become a whole and complete person.\n\nGet a hobby or two, or six. Learn new things, travel to new places, spend time meeting and hanging out with new people. Do all of this for you, not to get a boyfriend.\n\nInevitably, one of the many new people you meet will be a boy whom you find attractive, and who finds you attractive. Since you'll have these hobbies, and you will have been travelling, you'll be a very interesting person as well. This will interest him, and he will ask you out.\n\nOr, you'll learn how to be bold enough to ask him out. Either way.\n\nOh, one more thing: for the love of all that is holy, stop using the word "like" in the middle of sentences. I guarantee that at least a couple of boys who would have asked you out decided not to do so because of that annoying habit, just like if they saw you biting your nails.\n\n"I want a boyfriend, because my friends are going away. What do I do?" is the proper way to say it, and that'll attract a far better class of boy.
313023
i'm a loner myself. i dont have close friends to hang out with. i only talk with my bf and my sisters. sometimes i'm bored and hoping that i have few friends to talk and out with. its not that i'm unfriendly, i just did'nt find someone that really understand me as a friend. when i found ur question,i felt that i'm not the only one who had this kind of problem. maybe it's normal.
837513
I'm like that. I don't have any real friends, just guys i hang around with. I could never count on them. Probably because it's hard to trust ppl these days
707781
yes. why? don't you have friends?
453392
you should be happy that you're single cos you'll get to do more things with your life.you should just start hanging out with your friends and just forget about getting a boyfriend now.give yourself more time and you'll have more space since you're single.
1037112
There is no rush for a boyfriend...enjoy your friendships first and you will know when you are ready for one!
1046664
yes. i have a lot of just friends. because it SUCKS when friendships get ruined. \ndid you get this question from when harry met sally? lol
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
8638
People are weird, when you have a boyfriend they are jealous, and pick and pride into your relationship.  When you don't have a boyfriend they make you feel bad about it: "You must be so lonely!",or "It's couples night, sorry!"  And then more dreadfully, they try to fix you up, yuck.  Some people, want to see you happy, while others could care less....
1091397
You sound like a very charming person; I'm sure that you will find someone soon. With a personality as upbeat as yours, I think you will find that plenty of guys would love to be around you. Good luck!
242065
It sounds like you might be afraid of losing out altogether.  Probably both boys have some appeal to you, but probably neither one is everything you are looking for.  Perhaps if you step back and really look at yourself and look at yourself in relation to your boyfriend(s), you would find that you are afraid of being alone.\n\nDate whomever makes you feel happy, but don't be too involved yet because you aren't emotionally ready.  Spend some time doing things with other friends and get to know yourself better.  Even spend time by yourself doing things you like.  The better you know yourself, the better you will understand yourself in relation to others.
353576
o.k I'm confused! i thought you said you had a boyfriend! how can you be lonely?? whats the real story!!!
1098168
Well, I'm 32 and I don't have a steady boyfriend. I like my freedom. But I do like my guy friend to spend some time with me. But I also love my quite time alone. So yes some people are meant to be alone.
43497
The fact that you're asking this question reveals that you are still quite young.  Don't worry so much about getting a "boyfriend" at this point.  There will be plenty of time for that later.
559406
I am not like that and I am a girl.  Friends are the most important for me after my family of course.  Boys come and go, but real friendship never.  I know it is hard to find a friend. I came here 5 years ago and in the beginning I though that in New York no one cares about anyone but themselves.  However, with time I was able to find couple of special people:)) It just takes time and I guess luck. So, good luck!
134538
i think it is not necessary to know a lot of people..in the end,we all are alone..but if u just want a lot of ppl around u,just take a deep breath,pick a large smile,and behave as u are the best-self confidence-\nand be sure u have things to talk about..it might be a gender of music,some books or movies,some jokes..\ngood luck!!!