what should I do if my best friend likes a boy and I've liked him first now she likes him !?
108526
Well, if you like someone it doesn't give you ownership of him. If you are involved in a relationship with him however, then she should back off.
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
234313
Talk to this boy & let him know that keeping this from your best friend is making you feel bad about the whole situation. In a way you're lying to your best friend & talking to this boy will help you figure out what the both of you want to do. I'm sure he's afraid of letting it all out in the open as well is just making sure that both of you are truly into one another. Talk to her about & see if she's okay with it. If she's truly your best friend she will be happy for you & her brother.
638302
Go for it.Your friend didnt want him.She is just jealous.Go have fun and tell your friend that you like the guy if she cant accept it tell to back off its your life.
726750
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
190513
talk to your friend.  If she knew that you liked him before she did it, she either is playing a game with you or really does not respect you.  Either way, you cannot trust her and therefore she is not really your friend.  If she did not know, let it go and in the future tell her when you like someone.
665503
If you really like him..than explain the situation to your bestfriend..she might be upset..but its better than lieing to her and than finding out..
283096
Will and Grace much?  \n\n: )\n\nAnyway, there is not much you can do.  If your friend likes boys and you are not one.......the best thing to do is just be his friend and don't try to make it anything else.
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
752906
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
62579
well i was in your shoes once before but see what you do is that you go to a best friend who you know who want tell the whole shool and laugh at you and have her go to him and ask him if he likes you if so you go and ask him out.\nNow if know his friend have his friend ask him if he likes you and tell him to tell the boy you like to ask you out first then you can save your guts hope i gave you a good advace email me @sexysexycarmel and tell how did it go
1172135
Do you have a crush on this best guy friend that's kind of like your brother, even in the slightest? If not then I suggest you relax about it a little. You might want to let them know if they start going out that you love them both, and wish them the best but the second they start having issues you don't want to get involved. Maybe you should also go in to a little more depth with this with your best friend too so she understands. I understand your discomfort with this because when people break up they both seem like jerks and you probably won't want to hear it.
192592
ask your friend about how much she likes him and tell her that you like each other and if she gets mad at you then she is not a true friend so after that ask him whitch one of you guys does he like more if he likes you then go with him if he likes her more then go what you thick is right
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first