why do i always get tierd of a girl after about oh 6 months  and find a new one?
110950
Typical guy!!! Seriously though maybe you just havent found the right girl yet. You need to find someone who can hold and keep your interest.
610372
That is a problem when it comes to age gaps. If I were you I would just leave her alone, dont ignore her if you see her be nice but kinda short.  It will let her know you are trying to move on, give it some time if she comes back to you it may just be to see if you are still into her.  I would just let her go, and soon she will realize she will never have it that good again. Try and find someone how is as good to you as you are to them.
756083
Ask her out bro if you like her. I can understand your hesitation though. I had a relationship that we broke up like 30 times within the six months we went out. So play hard to get a little so that you can have the uper hand
857547
There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
543190
you know, I asked myself a similar question, never been able to find a woman who was the same person when I met her as she was 6 months later, I think there are a lot of us "both men and women" want to be with someone so badly, want to fit so badly, that when it isn't a match, the partner can just see right through it, even though we may sincerely be trying.  But what you have to find, is someone who is into YOU as a person, not necessarily like EVERYTHING about you, but as you said, someone who knows without even questioning, that whatever step you take, he takes the same step right beside you.  They are out there, its just hard to find, because as a womnderful individual as you may be, that person has to be of a certain unique quality that fits you.
979701
the old girl liked u a lil bit from the start but got jealous at finding out you liked a new girl so now she likes you alot. all girls are like that she was just playing hard to get at first and now she got what she deserves for not going to you haha!
592071
Could be they smell desperation.  I've been shot down numerous times cuz I tipped my hand too early.  I guess you have to display the right balance of aloofness and genuine interest.  Girls are fickle creatures.  It can be frustrating as hell, and it's hard to turn off your feelings for a girl like a faucet, so you'll have to struggle to keep from showing TOO much interest at the start of a relationship.  Definitely have to work your way up from friends, to good friends, to close friends, then finally to relationship city, without skipping a step.  That's all I can suggest, cuz I'm still single and not enjoying it either, so I'm doing something wrong somewhere.  Good luck, mang.  There IS a girl out there who's gonna appreciate you just as much as you will her.  And be sure to always buckle up and drink milk for strong healthy bones! (that's probably the only valid advice I provided in this answer ... *sigh*)\n\nPS You'll also notice that when you finally ARE in a relationship, that girls will come out of the woodwork and show plenty of interest in you when you're spoken for already.  Girls, in my experience, often only show interest when you're NOT looking for a girlfriend.
413324
That depends on why you cannot get her.  Do you not know how to find her or is she taken by someone else?  If you know her name, and any other piece of distinguishing information, you could try looking her up online.  If you already know how to find her (but cannot get her due to circumstance) you could always just tell her how you feel (like: "Girl, your boyfriend sure is lucky; I should have spoken up when I had the chance") and maybe start a friendship, because new relationships do sometimes end and you could still have a shot if you're around.  If you still can't get her after all that though, maybe you should just hit a club and find a new girl to crush on; that'll usually help you forget the one you're already crushing on.
592860
I, like you, was hurt by rejection or having to go separate ways from a relationship that would have been more taxing for myself and the girl to keep going with.  This caused me to be reclusive and not wanting to meet new girls.  I had a wall of sorts up for quite some time that kept me secretive and guarded -- with no entertainment at all of the notion of sharing myself with another.  In time, somehow, you will have the confidence to take the chance and try again with someone that encourages you to let out all your good qualities to show what a good person you can be.  Somehow, you will know when you meet that person.  I can't tell you how you will know when that happens -- that's the stuff no one can easily explain, I'm afraid.
69998
You want to. You have a classic case of being physically attracted to one person while being emotionally attached to another. \n\nHard to say what to do. I say stick with the current girl and see if the physical attraction comes back. It's a lot harder to find someone that you're a good emotional fit with as opposed to physical.
234952
we sure could use more of u around here.\na lot of girls go for the 'bad' guys, but as they \nget ready to settle down, the girls will find you.\nbut meanwhile, try to enjoy being single.\nmy motto for now- be smart stay single. best of luck!
110849
yu dunt wanna stay single 2 long bcuz trust me ur self esteem goes down and yu wunt have as fun as yu do wen ur with sum1...bcuz rite now im single buht i had a girl a couple of weeks ago and its more funn
349883
i know how u feel...it sux putting in that much time and winding up where u were before u met her....my best advice is to go out and meet new people...go to the mall, bar, library, or even a grocery store...but whatever u do dont jump into another relationship just to fill the void u have now...
457642
maybe because you are picking the wrong guys...they get with you, then see someone else they like, dump you and go after the other girl...
974808
Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
890841
Maybe because you are a likable person? I can understand that you have a dilemma, but it's a workable one. If more than one girl likes you, spend time with both of them, then choose which one you like best.