When you start dating someone, you often think that they are "the one." ?
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No, i always observed... how he moves, how he feels & talk .... his attitude towards other.\nIn short studying him then when im through i tell my self "He's not the one." lol
1154136
Its the person you spend your life with knowing that he is the one, a person you share your feeling, fears, joys......everything with. Basically, a person who completes you.
78622
if I want to date somebody, I depend on personallity, but she should be a good looking person too in order to give me a good impression about her.\n\nface it, if I met a girl for the first time, I can't judge her personality, but I can judge her from what she wears or what she looks like..etc
816257
a lot of people would say if you've been dating for 2 months you have a relationship, so maybe you need to define what in your mind a "relationship" is exactly.
35405
If you have to wait for "the one" you must ask yourself if he/she believes you too are "the one."\nThere are always always circumstances worth waiting for, but if your "the one" continues to not alter circumstances to desperately be with you in the same way you wish to be with them, you might need to re-evaluate your decision. If the person I knew was my one and only and was miles away.........and needed to find a way to financially or circumstancially find a way to make it to me.......yes I'd wait. If you are talking about waiting until your "the one" left his wife or her husband...........I'm so afraid you might wait and wait without ever gaining the results you hope for. Take a look at the whole picture first. Good luck!
572999
Yes!! I have a perfect example for you in this.\n\nI'm...let's say...scholastic. I have a bachelor's degree and I am heading to Law School next. My "type" has always, from the first time I dated, been a book-smart guy. In fact, I was so picky that I would not touch a "blue collar worker" with a 10 foot pole (as far as dating goes - not in general). I was just into dating someone with whom I could sit down and discuss books and theories, ect. (yes, I am a dork) and one of my requirements is that he had to be either working on a degree or already holding a degree.\n\nThen I met my current boyfriend. I didn't give him a chance at first - no degree, ect. ect. blah blah I'm an idiot. He's a firefighter for a living and that just wasn't my thing. However, the more I talked to him, the more I fell madly in love with him. He's perfect and treats me 10 times better than any book-smart guy I have ever known. I wouldn't trade him in for anything or anyone in the world. \n\nIf nothing else, he has opened my eyes to see that "types" are ridiculous. My new "type" thanks to him? The type that treats me well and makes me happy. Thank God for him for that!
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There comes a time in every dating relationship when someone needs stability.\n\nIt seems you've been very flexible, very commited, and very patient...yet...you only get quality time...6 times a year.\n\nHopefully, no one has asked you to see yourself dating anyone else...however if you're not getting what you want from the relationship....don't you think you deserve something more than intermitten companionship
774186
No I wouldn't say shallow, naive perhaps, spontaneous,childlike,and oh, um~~~RISKY!!!~What if you found out the person you are dating, only asked you out only because of your looks?
168878
you know when you are want to be with the person and you have interest in them besides looks
235784
I think I read somewhere that she said her first time was with Justin and it was about a year into their relationship.\nShe said she thought he was "the one".
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That's been an ongoing problem that I've struggled with, but in the last month, I've realized that I like guys that are already in relationships because I subconsciously know that I'm not ready for a serious relationship. I know that's not always the case, but you might want to think about that :)
137650
start dating someone new, you'll forget about him.
1175213
Yes I know what you mean. Its like the guy you are with now is not the person you fell in love with. Like WOW where did he go. If you met him the way he is now you would not even be interested in him!
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wasting your time....when a relationship starts..people put up fronts....after a few months or even years, the person's real self starts to show itself....that means that he has always been like this and was different in the beginning but will never go back to that way
70933
You know he is "The One" when God tells you so.\n\nYou know he is "The One" when the love you have for each other is not built on worldy standards of "falling into and out of love" but is based on a agape, sacrificial love that endures challenges and "seasons".\n\nYou know he is "The One" when you can trust, honor, and obey him knowing that he will help you fulfill whatever purpose God has designed for you.\n\nYou know he is "The One" when you can see the Christlike nature in him (that is, he is not consistently seeking selfish advantage and not willfully and knowingly hurting others to achieve some goal).\n\nYou know he is "The One" when he has character, integrity, and redeeming values.\n\nDon't trust your heart either.  Trust your inner spirit instead.  Your heart will lead you to so many poor choices about love.  Listen to your inner spirit and stop fighting it.\n\nAnd finally, just remember, what FEELS good to you isn't NECESSARILY good for you.\n\nGood luck.
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Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
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if it needs to be defined, the person isn't ready for a relationship.  as previously stated, it's the same thing.  now, you can introduce someone you just started dating as a friend.  however, when you throw the "boyfriend/girlfriend" title on there, you two are now a couple, which means you are exclusively dating.