Why would a man keep telling you that you're special but not ask you out?
99688
Why don't you ask him out yourself?  Women always think that men should always make the first move, don't wait till you get past fifty!
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
580029
He probably is just trying to strike conversation. What his goals are aren't very clear. It seems to me that he's not really interested in you, but in st else, if you know what I mean.\n\nBut it really depends on the person. If he starts asking questions about your personality and hobbies and such it would be much clearer what his interests are.
631933
Bull crap he is leading you on. He wants to keep you hanging just in case he can't find someone else, don't be his doormat..............
1017668
May be he is waiting for you to approach him first or acting damn expensive, or he is too shy
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
114240
It could be he is too shy about it or he has a gf that he never told you about. I know it sounds cruel but a lot of people have done it. You should sit down and talk with him and just ask him why he doesn't ask you out.
588978
Maybe youre a hottie.  But dont let a guy disrespect you.  Im not down with that.  But if he is approaching you like that, he doesnt care about you.  He just wants some.  You can definetly do better than that and wait until the guy cares for you truly.
128119
Maybe He is trying to tell you in a somewhat rude way that he is not interested  but my mom always told me not to take the first guy I see and it sounds like to me that just maybe you should let him alone and just kind of hang in there these things like relationships fall into place alotta times when we stop looking
449898
It sounds to me like he doesn't want you as a girlfriend, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.  By leading you on the way he is, he knows that you will stay by him and not date anyone else because of the chance he will say you are a couple again.  I went through it for 6 years.
858982
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
993587
Because he is not into you!  Dump him before he dumps you! He is using you and doesn't want you to make waves about it.
26613
he teases you, but has those random moments of kindness\n\nhe does this because he doesn't know how to show you that he likes you, and is afraid that you don't like him back.
866209
Because genetically women GENERALLY are looking fora good provider - - so years and years of training has caused men to attempt to prove they can be a good provider, and to do this they brag on the possessions they have acquired.\n\nWhat you might consider is peeling the onion.  Rather than dismissing a man simply because he took the wrong route to get your attention attempt to redirect his focus.  Don't be so callous as to dismiss him but ask him questions about things that interest you.  \n\nI promise being understanding and nice and kind doesn't hurt at all.  You might find it to be useful, unless you plan to live the rest of your life alone and angry.
478906
I do not know what you are talking about. If a man tries to talk to you and you tell them that you are involved or not interested, you become a snob. Sometimes womwn are just not interested!!
900822
Why keep trying to pursue somebody who is unwilling to reciprocate your love when I am sure there are others who would be honored to be your boyfriend?
871010
sounds like he does like you. usually if someone is asking that and they are not your friend yet then that means they are interested...\n\nor they are finding out for someone else but that rarely happens with guys