when I go out with my friends and we dance , guys are always trying to grab my butt and boobs. why is that?
103504
there is a law against that. Its call assault and Battery. You won't have to use it but one time to get your message across.
480574
because if u r as hot as you say they must think you chill with older guys, so they think you r going shut them down so they think the will look like fools when you dump them lol try flirting with them, and asking them out or to han gout with them, if u like a certain guy try the thing from varsity blues lol let me no how it goes lol
1149721
Well, if you act slutty, you risk gaining a reputation of being slutty.  Maybe you need to cut back on the drinking... it could clear your mind enough to know that yes that is beyond how things should go.  They are fighting over you as they figure if you are willing to do what you did, they will all have it easy to get all they want from you otherwise without worrying about commitments.  And that is slutty behavior.
504876
Take a look at what you are wearing. Dressing sexy usually results in that kind of attention from guys. Either that or you are around some seriously sex craved dudes.
212261
Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
538511
SOME sad losers are so insecure. They need to watch you all the time cos they KNOW they don't deserve you and other guys will hit on you. They can't stand the competiton cos they know they can't compete.
348377
Ummmmm no idea! I always wondered that myself!  I hold my body as something special for the man I love and care about- not to be showing it to everyone in the world!  I think its part because they r drunk and stupid.  Other part is they r insecure and need constant approval of how good they are.
247886
I've done this to both of the boyfriends I have had as well as numerous male friends. My strategy is to stand back to back with him, link arms and then bend at the waist. It's the easiest way. I've always done it as a joke - just something funny to do to show them that I am strong too!
309375
They are playing hard to get. I don't understand why they do it but they do. They want the girl to "sweat" it out. The guy thinks that they really got it going on. If he sees you with another guy, its competition and they will call you back.
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
601138
I was in the same situation not long ago.  I went out with friends or sometimes by myself to the local Lounge to listen to the band.  Men will usually buy you drinks and ask you to dance.  Don't try and look for someone, just go out to have fun.  Love will find you
355144
well, my craneal concusioned friend, i believe it may be true according to ur cultural background for once, but also it just might say that the guys who are telling u they dot like being chase my opinion is that they are having some self confidence issues.  The whole " UGA UGA me man strong, u woman stay in cave" deal still lingers in many men these days, they got problems coping with the fact that we are equals, even if they deny it, they just can`t help it, so understanding is in order,  maybe toning down the stalking... er i mean chasing just a bit.\nP.S.  just for the record, i really enjoy it when a woman is trying to hook up with me in a very funny but strong way.
740245
Unfortunatly that happens quite frequently.At first men do everything in their power to attract you and to make sure you notice them. They treat you like a queen etc. Then as soon as they know that you are theirs and ain't goin' nowhere, they stop trying. What to do in this situation, is to show him, that you are still desirable to others and if you wished you could have any man you want, and you won't hesitate to trade you b/f! Perhaps that will scare him into showing you more attention, and make him work to keep you!
117072
Boys are wrestling with identity.  Sex is a way of establishing their "coolness" with peers so it becomes very important.  They don't mean to hurt you.  Some are just like drowning victims.  They are crazy to stay afloat and clutch and claw at anyone or thing that might save them.  But they're just kids and don't realize how much harm they do.  They still want to play games and be kids but the pressure to grow up is unrelenting.  Stick with group dates and make sure you establish what you will and won't do from the start.  Don't hedge.  If you say no then change your mind later it will be held against you and you won't have much by way of self defence.  Or you might want to wait until your old enough to go out with men who have better control.  PS you do not want to date a grown man when you are under 17.  There are worse things in the world than horny immature boys.
466123
They're not hitting on you because you are forty. It is because you have an air/confidence about you that is attractive to them. It could your approach, the way you walk, talk. Many, many reasons. You go girl!!!!
1115741
Because all the guys like big bootys and all black girls have BIG bootys .. i am lucky .. i am white with a black booty ... lol
833683
If you ahve a boyfriend, then why are you trying to show off to get other guys' attention?? unless your boyfriends are on the track with you guys, then i wouldn't do it. it'll just appear slutty and make you look like someone who wants to get all the guys in the world. trust me, its happened to me before.....it's sad, unfair, but true.