Why are boys so mean and all what they want from a girl is sex, WHY?
117072
Boys are wrestling with identity.  Sex is a way of establishing their "coolness" with peers so it becomes very important.  They don't mean to hurt you.  Some are just like drowning victims.  They are crazy to stay afloat and clutch and claw at anyone or thing that might save them.  But they're just kids and don't realize how much harm they do.  They still want to play games and be kids but the pressure to grow up is unrelenting.  Stick with group dates and make sure you establish what you will and won't do from the start.  Don't hedge.  If you say no then change your mind later it will be held against you and you won't have much by way of self defence.  Or you might want to wait until your old enough to go out with men who have better control.  PS you do not want to date a grown man when you are under 17.  There are worse things in the world than horny immature boys.
566716
why do girls have sex with boys like this in the first place?  Girls should have a little more self respect and not jump into bed with someone they know for a month.
97411
cause your playing little girl games wit a boy that is obviously equally immature to even put up with your self dramatizing childish games. do you know why i say this?
437609
different guys want different things.  Some want relationships and all the things associated with it and some guys want to hit it and quit it.  But what they all want is to have fun and are geared more towards sex.
782574
because guys are normally sexually based \nand girls are normally emotionally based \n\nguy normally screw a lot more \nif that sex seems to die or the passion is not there then a guy seems to not enjoy there partner ship and they split up\n\nwith the girls sex comes second in there relationship and therefore love last a lot longer \n\ni am stereotyping every one in saying this of coarse ever one is different but this has some since to it
228691
I think it has a lot to do with the culture.  I see this in teenage boys a lot - they are taught that to be men, they need to have sex with as many different women as possible.  A lot of music videos consist of the male band members surrounded by a bunch of scantily clad models dancing suggestively.  Hugh Hefner is a status symbol.  Boys are told they need to "sow their wild oats."  There's this attitude that women are there to be used sexually.  \n\nBoys are brought up to be "tough," because, of course, as everyone knows, men are logical and women are emotional (this is totally flawed because both sexes have the capacity to be emotional and logical).  From early age, boys are expected to surpress their emotions, not to cry, not to want to cuddle with stuffed animals, not to show anything to deep.  This leads to a disconnect of sex and love - sex is just a biological impulse, something that feels good and has no other purpose.  Anyone who tries to teach that women need to be repected as human beings, and that boys need to learn that it is okay to be sensitive, are accused of being "politically correct," "feminazis," or "yogurt-eaters."  So nothing much changes.\n\nIt's a shame, because it does both men and women a disservice and a lot of hurt.  Thankfully, it seems a lot of men do grow past this "screw anything that moves" stage and learn that having a lasting connection with someone is more valuable than a series of one-night stands.
601298
because girls think that they can change a bad boy into a good boy. Bullshit. It never works. GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!!
188985
boy and girls are two totally different creatures.. I don't think they all always mean to hurt girls but they don't know how to express their feelings and communicate and sometimes that results in pain for us ladies.... its okay if you are young there will be plenty of nice guys, good guys and painful guys that you will meet and date!
723009
I think by using the words "boys" with the punctuation, you are meaning men here who act like boys.  If so, I agree.  Men who are insecure build themselves up by put downs against others, sometimes women.  Perhaps they had fathers that modeled the behavior for them.  Or perhaps they hate women b/c they were mistreated and/or abused by their mothers.  Who knows?  I know one thing...many of them go home to their wives/girlfriends after a day of acting "macho" and cry like helpless little babies they are...believe me its true.
1165366
That'd be the same as saying, girls are all an emotional basket-case.  We both know that neither of these statements can apply to every member of a sex/gender...\n\nbut to answer your question, Guys just don't value the same parts of a relationship as much as girls.  Males and females are just wired differently and that equals a guy's innattention to some aspects causing a girl to think the guy insensitive.  A guy isn't purposefully trying to be "insensitive", and probably isn't aware that he's being that way. \n\nIt would be stereo-typical to label all guys as being insensitive to women's needs...maybe you just haven't found the winner yet...
22478
Guys, and also girls, can be mean sometimes. However, You are responsible of the way those guys are treating you. If you project a personality of zero tolerance for disrespect of your person, your time, or your property, those guys are going to react and start treating you well.
142118
Because boys are less complicated than girls.  Girls use words to try to settle matters, not brute strength, and since words genuinely hurt, resentments and grudges build up.  With boys, a bruise will heal after, and they have an understanding that once they slug it out, the matter is settled.
1134245
Remember, there a girls who can be very mean also. It's not a gender thing. It's an individual thing. Keep in mind too that it can be very confusing for men. Women like men to be strong, confident, funny, vulnerable, emotionally available, sensitive, "bad boy", "good guy", etc.. etc.. etc..  Many men just don't know what to be anymore, or how to act.
129986
It is a gang wanna be thing. Too bad the boys don't realize it comes from prision behavior where the good looking boys are made to be girls.
196699
Sadly, there are a lot of jerks out there.  Guy's play at love to get sex.  Girls play at sex to get love.  That's the way of the world I'm afraid.
399693
all teen girls share some of the same issues....but differently......i knoe it doesn't make sense. but all girls want a good guy, a nice guy, who has money, isn't going to mistreat her, likes her for who she is, doesn't just want her for sex and really wants to be in a relationship with her, not gonna cheat on her and is just an all around good guy.  Now obviously we can't expect guys to change nor should we try to change them, but at least ya'll can try harder at being the best man ya'll can be. hope this help
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.