If Your vagina is starting to stretch how do you make it tight??
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If you want to tighten up, do kegel exercises.  I have provided a link below that explains.
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Fetal position...curl up in it and dont come out of it...keep your virginity girl!
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First thing you need to do is relax...if you are all tensed up or anxious, you will be to tight to enter!  The best thing to do is have you partner lightly caress your anal area with a lubricated finger...you can even help with your own fingers by sliding your finger into your pus$y to extract some natural juices to use around your anal area!  This will also excite you to the point of opening up more and making it easier to enter.  But if you still feel tense, have your partner, gently, try to insert one finger in and slowly move his finger back and forth than up and down.  This will loosen up your muscles to make it possible to enter freely!  I hope my suggestions will help you enjoy a VERY enjoyable sex act!  My wife and I have been enjoying this for many years!
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Use cocoa powder.  To stretch it mix it with your talcum powder.
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just stretch hard n it'll go i hv it everytime
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Leaving out the "r" might make it hurt less.  And maybe add "t" to your stretching; that will help a little.
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Wel being a woman, I can tell you that masturbating is a normal and healthy thing to do and unless you are masturbating with mellons you will NOT make 'the hole' larger. The vagina is very elastical and will get back to it's normal shape. It might become more easy but don't worry that you will have a cave-like body part... \n\nIf you give birth it does become less tight. \nAnd slowly by age. It's a matter of using your muscles or not. If the muscles are streched out too much they can loose their elasticity. \n\nYou can train yourself by 'squeezing' the musles of your vagina a couple of times a day. Like you do when you really have to go to the bathroom but have to wait. \n \nBelieve me, I have experimented quite a lot and everything is fine. ;-)
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nope, masturbation and kegel exercises and breaks in between sessions make it tighter. When i say breaks, means not being loose or daily sex...give it time to recover and heal (from those mind blowin times)
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Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
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try flexing your inner vagina muscles, the more you do this the stronger they'll get and when your having sex you flex them and your feel as tight as you were the first time.  if you don't know how to work out those muscles...when your peeing try and stop the urination it you can those are the muscles...just flex them all throughout the day and you should be good!
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I get those too. Hold a warm towel on it, whatever you do DO NOT pop it. I learned that from experience. It will get bigger. Also If you are female' (sorry I didn't look before I started to answer) and it is under where your bra sits try putting on powder before you put on the bra.
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I just read (I think in Maxim) that you can put some tissue paper in the end of a condom before putting it on.  It will add a couple inches.   You'll probably have to remove it for your own pleasure, but it might help her.
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Let her direct your finger into her vagina if you don't know where it is situated. Go back and forth gently repeatedly.Start with a finger then slowly try inserting two fingers.If it hurts, she'll say so.Or else keep doing it, lickin around the area would arouse her more. Make sure you have clean and trimmed nails.Good luck.
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Everyone has their own comfortable position, but try standing by the toilet, put one foot up on the toilet and slowly ease the tampon in. It's important that you relax, or your body will just push it out. If all else fails, read the instruction booklet in the box for suggestions.
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exercise your arms. Try wieght lifting to build muscle to fill out and stop the jiggles. and then try a firming cream.
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try man on top and tell him to go slow! when it hurts, speak up. \n\ndo you use tampons? probably not. they hurt first couple times. Try using tampons on your next period. \ni know this is different but they are related. in the shower you may want to practice "that" feeling and insert your index finger as far in your tunnel as you can. it hurts but it will help you prepare better. \n\nrelax and go with the flow. when you tense up every muscle tenses up include down-there muscles. Always remember to speak up b/c good communication is essencial!!! :)\n\nI'm still a virgin but know alot about sex, wierd? dont worry- waiting until marriage.....
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go to a sex store and buy tighten up cream, find a girl with good PC muscles. . .ask her to tighten them.