Should I go out with a guy that my parent hate?
99405
Sure,go out with him. You have to like him first. If your parents don't like him,you can't bring him home. It all depends on you. If you respect your parents (and you should) find out why they don't like him. Then work on correcting that feeling. You will do this if the guy means enough to you. If he doesn,t,then move on. Good Luck!
264601
If you want to go out with him tell him yes, if you don't than just tell him no.  It is really that easy, unless you are too young to date, or your parents wouldn't approve.
801338
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
683425
dont forgive him.  If guys drop you like that then they are not interested in you.  Truthfully, if he did not say goodbye, then he is not the proper gentleman, therefore not someone you want to bring home to your parents
923489
My parents were the same way when I dated outside my race and I didn't understand it, I was happy and they were ruining everything.  I think if you are happy with him then be with him regardless of what your parents say (I did).  They will try everything to prevent you from seeing him but in this situation they are kinda being selfish and racist at the same time.  There's nothing wrong with interracial dating (now-a-days).  Good luck with your parents accepting your happiness.
664931
He sounds like an upstanding guy. Why would your parents be mad? Is it just the age difference? I say tell your parents everything. The may like him they may not. But you are now 18 so you can make your own decisions on who you date.
1131817
Ok, my girlfriend and I are going through the exact same thing. Just keep seeing the guy. Talk to your mom about it. Make her understand that while you understand her and respect her opinion, that this is the guy you love, and then ask her if her parents had told her to stop seeing your father if she would have... That worked when I talked to MY gf parents. \n\nBest of Luck
235778
being a brother and a muslim i know how you feel. you helped me with my situation and i will try to help you with yours parents are key and are most important (you think my parents know i like this girl, no probably not) but sooner or later they will find out whether i tell them or not so now you must weigh your options how much is this guy worth if alot then you must be able to tell your father that his rath is miniscule to the amount of love you have towards this person. walking a tight rope is not fun i know how you feel i have been doing it all my life. and the whole paki indian thing doesn't make your situation worse the girl i am trying to ask out is puerto rican my parents are going to rage but sooner or later they will understand as your parents will that keeping a child is more important than who they be with good luck.
975716
I think you should do it. If you trust him and really like him why not. There are a lot of things we can get scared of doing but when we do it, we never regret doing it. Try it for a while and see what happens. Your parents should support you.
203399
How old are you? If you're old enough to make decisions about your life, then this one has to be your decision, too.\n\nParents have a habit of not thinking anyone is good enough for their little girl, and there's a good chance you'll never meet anyone that meets up to their expectations - or if you do, he won't be right for you and you are the one that has to put up with him, right?\n\nAs long as a guy is good to you and not abusive or doing anything illegal, then your parents - as difficult as it may be - will just simply have to accept whoever you decide to love because it is your life, not theirs.
417580
depends on your age and why your mum said you werent allowed to go out with him. can you post these 2 things in your detail in your question?
1135218
I truly feel bad for you,but you need to see or search the reasons on why your parents feel the way they do towards him,i mean i would take some heed to their actions,remember they have more wisdom from age and experience.However,if they really don't have the facts to back their actions,this is something you will have to face with your parents.Always be honest with them no matter if they are not going to approve.You are an adult,and you need to let them know that you are not trying to hurt them by your choices of life,that you are trying to find your way and if it is a mistake,then you need to find that out as well.This is how wisdom comes,with experiences in our daily lives.One thing to remember is your parents have an unconditional love no matter what,just like you do for them.I just hope your boyfriend proves them wrong and doesn't make you regret any decision that you might make.Without family,we have nothing! I hope the best for you,Good Luck!
117821
Tell your parents that you think they should get to know him. \n\nIs he willing to go through some uncomfortable meetings for you?  If he loves you, he should. \n\nOnce your parents realize that he loves you and is good to you and is not going to be a negative influence in your life (gosh, do they think he is some gangbanger or all black people are criminals- come on!) they should work toward accepting him.  Try to find out why they feel this way.  \n\nTry to do this the right way- by being honest with your parents.  I can't imagine what you're going through, and you need to understand that they may NEVER come around.  \n\nGood luck, honey!
1030390
he is playing you for a fool and why does it even matter if your parents dont want you to date then it hsouldnt be a problem , right?\ngo with them, they really do know best and im sure that they have your best interests at heart\nnow if you are like 20 and still living at home or something then this choice really should be yours, and still he sounds like an immature player to me\njust keep it as friends
334247
Let them see what he does for you.  Set down physical boundaries when you're around your parents i.e., no touching except hand-holding,no kissing, groping, making out, pinching, sneaking off, etc. let them see what a gentleman he is. In turn, show them you REALLY love him, and nothing will stand in the way of that.  But since you do want their blessing R-E-S-P-E-C-T.  You respect them (even if they say quit seeing him, respect their wishes, they'll see you're sad, if it came to that.  Just remember you can't hope for them to like him. He has to be a good guy, and work at it.  It may also just take time.
976060
1st of all don't worry about the first answer...he hates everything. Why not just ask him out to a gay place for a fun time and tell him that you are not coming onto him...The truth usually works.
621053
Just wait a while.  Is there any harm being friends for now.  If you do something now you will only cause a rift between you and your father.  Fathers you only get one of and are very important to you.  Boyfriends, well they come and go.  You may not think that your father knows best but he does.  I remember when a guy liked me at school and he came to see me at home.  My father met him with a shot gun at the door.  That was years ago and no harm was done.  The thing is, if I'd started dating that boy I would of got into so much trouble as he is currently in jail for serious assalt on his girlfriend.