is it bad for a girl to start the first move?
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
1004092
No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.
57347
it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
1148573
NO it is not wrong to make a move.  Even if she has a boyfriend.  You should be honest with her and let her know how you feel about her.  It really wouldn't be a move, but letting her know that you have feelings.  If she doesn't like you the same way, she will let you know and you won't have to wonder anymore if it will ever happen.
465401
Some guys like to be the first to make the move. But some guys like to have you kiss them. Either way you shouldn't ask. It makes it seem to planned. Just be spontaneous and kiss him. I don't know how your guy is but most guys are turned on by girls who make the first move because chances are they want to kiss you but don't want you to freak out.\n\n<3\nPhoenix
980103
You can always make the first move by approaching him and just introducing yourself. I know this might sound cheesy, but how else are you going to know if he's interested in you unless one of you makes the first move? Hope this helps and good luck :)
1001120
Step up and be more aggressive.  Kiss him.  There's no rule that says the girl can't make the first move.  Go for it.  Good luck.
491470
You will have to see how the date goes. If she shows interest, then maybe. Date 3 is the earliest for me. It might tick her off if she gets the impression that you are waiting for her to make the first move. Just keep that in mind.
769245
Girls usually wait for guys to make the first move.
60637
YES!\n\nSome guys are shy, and the location, such as at work, might also stop him from making the first move.
1019798
i would like the guy to make the first move.  i tend to go traditional in that sense.  i don't like the idea of making the first move b/c i don't want to come off as easy.  i think it's more acceptable for the guy to do it and if he does, i feel more confident and want to please him.
642101
i love it, personally, but a guys technique has to be good, otherwise i get turned off...\nnow, all girls are different- so what you should do is ask her what she likes the most. maybe she likes u to change movements, or maybe she prefers one constant movement- the only way to find out is to ask!!!\nofcourse there are always signs - listen to sounds she makes, and pay attention to her movements because they can be subtle ways of telling u to do something more or to stop doing something... \ngood luck
1141083
You want her to chase you?!?!   If you want the woman, stop wasting time and step to her, tell her whats really good and get it started again.    If you don't do it soon someone else just might step in.....  It may be 2006, but women still like guys to make the first move....
694472
why don't you ask him about it? ask him if he's okay, then ask if you've done anything wrong.  it doesn't mean that you have, done anything wrong that it, it's just a way to get him to open up.  you can even ask if he has a probm with agressive girls or if he minds if a girl made the first move. once you know where you stand with him, then don't be afraid to make the first move.  guys are sometimes intimidated by girls, to sometimes you have to make the first move.  when you're comfortablem give im a warm hug and a light kiss.  it's okay for a guy to by shy and the girl to be a little agressive.  and by agressive, i'm not telling you to throw yourself at him is simply mean to initiate the first move.  only you can know how far you want to go.  lots of luck
449742
if she jumps you then you will know. otherwise let her make the first move but make sure to drop hints that you are interested if you are interested so that she doesn't get herself confused
76950
Sometimes it's good for the girl to make the first move.  My boyfriend charmed me into making the first move, and I'm not sorry.  (Actually I'm really really happy!)  And I'm an old-fashioned kind of a girl, too!