How Do you earn Parents Trust back really quick?
113617
really quick?... none, sorry. Not only to your parents but even other people, \nhow would you trust someone? its that simple.
24639
CALMLY talk to your parents. LISTEN to what their concerns are. I am a son, parent, and soon to be grand parent ... Although I rarely took my parents' advice and changed my life because of it, when I did LISTEN, it made my life easier. My parents realize (and I realize as a parent) that kids will NOT do what they want them to do, but if the parents are HEARD, it makes life easier for you, your parents, and the "mate" you are talking about. Think about what they are saying to you, DON'T ARGUE or MAKE THEM THINK like you think - that ain't happening - You allready know your opinion, now PLEASE take 10 minutes and hear the opinion of your parents.
77161
Find your own success, and don't rely on thier success to carry you for anything, the best thing you can do for yourself is be independant.  Never rely on someone else to give you your happiness in whatever form that might be, and don't ever allow someone elses presense in your life be so controlling that you depend on them for your well being, not even your rich parents.
999994
You will need to have a break completly. Do you have parents or are the father's parents willing to take them for a weekend or so?
726723
listen to your parents....they actually know what they are doing. its for your own good. you'll thank him one day. trust me. i was your age only a few years ago...and sometimes i wish that i had obeyed my parents more...i would be a lot better off i think.
822558
Honey, I have been there.  I had a 7 pm curfew on weekends when I was 17 years old.  Tell your parents to trust you and if you do anything wrong, then they can take all rights away again.  You can't do no wrong until you try something.  Tell them that you are a levelheaded  responsible 16 year old and that you would like to win their trust, but you won't be able to if they keep you hidden and secluded.  Tell them you will grow up and move away.  Tell them that you will live a sheltered life and it is not good for your health.  Tell them your true feelings and make them listen.  I feel so bad for you because I was there.  Then I turned 17 and moved away from home, had my own apartment while I was a senior.  I had a full time job, gymnastics practice and school.  I did just fine and it taught me how to be mature.  I am not telling you to take off, but I am telling you to talk to  your parents because they may not understand your TRUE feelings and how you want to hurt yourself.  Just think, you will be 18 in a little bit and you will be able to begin your life the way you want and be your own boss.  Don't hurt yourself, because in all honest, it is not worth it.  Talk to the parent you are closer too!  I feel for you, I have been there.  Then I moved to FL.  I moved away so my family would realize what I meant to them and that they didn't have a hold on me.  It doesn't work for anyone, so don't runaway or anything.  I did this all as an adult okay? Let us know how it goes because I am genuinely worried about you!  Good luck!
292727
Ask you parents to do it.
1049224
parents have their own reasons for doing so, just trust them and love them, be glad that u still have parents, you wouldnt know how it feels when they're gone.....
1065161
Be open and honest it is better to talk with them and for them to know what's going on.  Parents may be disappointed YES, but that doesn't mean that they are going to stop loving you.  It's like I'm trying to teach my kids, I may not always like everything you tell me, in fact somethings I might even get upset over, but that has NO impact on just how much I LOVE YOU!  It's hard to believe but most times when we get upset over something it's because we've been there and done that, we know the mistakes you are making and how painful the pitfalls can be, and we hope to prevent you from making some of the same ones. But you also have to grow and learn and even though we would like to lock you up and never let you out you have to learn to make wise choices and that doesn't happen with out screwing up occasionaly.  We also like to think that our little girls are never going to grow up. It's tough for us to see you making grown up choices. Honestly though, parents know more than their kids think, and sometimes it's easier to turn a blind eye.  It's killer to think of your kids doing those things, one day you will understand.  I have eaten my words of "I'll never be like you when I'm a mom" "I'll be understanding"  Yeah right, as a teen you can't  fully understand parents because that's God's gift to us. We on the other hand have the experence and knowledge of our youth, and the smarts from learning from our screw-ups.  and you can learn alot from sitting down and just talking about this with your parents.  It can also bring you closer.  Parents like it when their kids do take the time to confide and trust in them.  Just tell them that you want to sit down and talk. Decide on a time, make an invitation and give it to them, saying the date and time.  Then plan out how you want to tell them. You could always write a poem and stick it in the poem.  Or you could write it in your journal and leave it out in a open place for them to read.  Of coarse I'm sure they already know where you keep it and could already be informed and are just waiting for you to come out with it.  Just remember that know matter how upset they may seem at first, they really do LOVE YOU!!!! I guarantee it. \nAnytime you want to talk feel free.........Your parents are not the enemy!  Learn to trust in their love for you. In closing I really hope that this isn't my daughters friend Becca, I might just have to whop you myself when you get back. So much for the pleasantries sounded nice though lol...........but really it is true. Just alittle humor there, who knows maybe my daughter put you up to the question. OH that would be really bad!!!!! OK, don't let my thoughts get the better of me.  It's tough being a parent, and really we don't get paid nearly enough. Take care and stick with the game of softball and those bases, it's much safer.
434859
You have to show them that you trust them, and believe them when they tell you something. They in turn will believe you are honest, and trust and have faith in you. It's a delicate thing that is hard to get back once it is broken with a lie or infidelity. Good Luck
1096323
Sit down and talk to him. Ask him what you can do to show him you're responsible and build up some trust. See what he says. Maybe it's something you're doing/wearing/how he percieved your friends that is causing him to feel this way. Maybe it's not. Maybe it is really your mom's behavior. Whatever he tells you, if he feels you need to make changes to (re)gain his trust, follow his advice. Do you babysit/do odd jobs/have a more conventional job for extra money? If so, bring that up. If not, think about maybe doing that this summer to prove you do have a sense of responsibilty. Do you have younger siblings? If so, how do you treat them? I'm just throwing stuff on the table. I have no idea of who you are or how you behave. I'm just someone who's probably about your dad's age trying to get you thinking from an adult's point of view about reasons that I might not trust my almost 15 year old. Good luck...and I hope you can use something that I wrote!
616776
Be genuine to them! Don't over show about anything.Be down to earth..Show your belief in the family institution before them.And one more imp thing......try to make them laugh!
1149834
Take help of Parents like a good Kid...
255753
stand on your head and talk to your friends on the phone.\ngo through your parents stuff
435124
You trust quickly and give in to the moment.  Think matters through.  Don't be to trusting from now on.  Put your guard up.
485233
get a new best friend,see what you can do to earn your parents trust again,lose the fake boyfriend,find the real you
298723
well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.