Have you ever done something and your spouse never found out it was you?
112766
I've been married for 26 years, so I guess I have at one point or another.  But I usually 'fess up so we can both have a good laugh!
244799
like a fool i took mine back and we were married a week later, but i still find it hard to trust him. even tho hes the one who told me he was cheating. we have been married for 2 years now and together 6 and so far he hasnt done it again ( that im a ware of) if i had it to do over i would have left him.
214647
If you hadn't said you haven't married for a long I would have probably known. I think you don't "know" your husband yet. I personally don't agree with such kind of behaviours but I think this unusual thing you see stems from somewhere else. This can be a "sign" to you which shows your husband has some sort of psycological problem which should be cured. You can eventually find the root of this if you continue your marrage. Time will show this to you and it cannot be hidden of course if you don't get divorced. Its your decision. If you continue your marrage and live with him you might as well be able to help him. If you just tell him not to do this action and even if he doesn't, you haven't solved anything, you have just covered the problem. But of course don't go up to him and say ' you have psycological problem' he might get upset !
514916
Unfortunately...yes.  Somethings are better left undisturbed and kept private.  Granted doing so might tear things a part but in situations like unto that letting out the secret would probably have done the same anyway.  In reality everyone has secrets.  You can only hope that you can develop a deep enough relationship with your spouse to where the content of them matters less then the keeping and thereby renders secrets moot.
546825
He could be cheating.  I had the same suspecting with my wife and I was correct. You or someone (Privet Investigator) need to follow him to see where he is going.  You can't confront him if you don't have proof. With that proof you can move things forward either as a married couple or ending the marriage.  I hope you are wrong. I never wish divorce on anyone
777348
Your husband took personal time right?  If he did then the XO really can't say anything.  As long as all the paperwork for his request for personal time was put in and he still had some personal time left to take then he should be fine.  Sounds to me like the XO just like trying to throw his weight around.  No, just because you took it up there is not going to get your husband in trouble, because honestly you shouldn't have had to take anything up there.
809822
Many Many years ago I did just that. I was unsure about my relationship at the time and just wanted to get away from my life and responsibilities and got with someone whom I had no history with. It was an escape which is all it was designed to be. I returned to my life and have been married 21 years and never looked back and can't imagine being with anyone else ever again.
427729
If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won't get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they'll think you're on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don't give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.
446494
I was the other woman, but didn't know it at the time. When I found out, I immediately ended the relationship as not to destroy a family. I didn't tell his wife, but told him that he should. Of course, he didn't. \n\nI just wouldn't want that thought on my mind, that I had been the cause of ending a marriage if it ever came to be  and I definately wouldn't have wanted it to happen to me if I were married.  No person deserves that kind of hurt.
575041
My husband does this(the half truths) but I honestly don't believe it's to hide anything.I get the impression he doesn't need complete details to function and can't understand why I do.
451651
Married for 15 years and we still tell each other where we are and what we do and No they shouldn't get mad but they always will but they will get over it and they still love ya . It's good that you let your spouse know what you are doing just in case something bad happens or what if your spouse wins a million dollars wouldn't you want to know right away? There's always a what if and it's better to know and to be prepared than to wonder what the hell happened.Just in case it's your last chance to say I love you.
530566
Perhaps, but if your partner knows what he's doing, you might not even notice.
80325
Did you ask your wife or husband about this?  How does he/she feel about it? what ever you think they would say is your answer.
1041947
not so good, my husband did something stupid when he was 16 (he didn't kill or hurt anyone) and the first apartment that we moved into did a background check and his was clean then we moved into another apartment and his record had what he had done on it, then when he applied for his current job they did a check and he has a clean background again. He's now 35 and says that he was just stupid when he was younger, he hasn't been in trouble since, thank god!
725616
Yes I've cheated.\n\nIts often a difficult question for most people to answer.  Why did I do it?  I felt very betrayed, unworthy, and just plain not good enough after my husband cheated twice.  I needed to know I was still beautiful and worthy of a man's love and attention.\n\nNot once did I feel I was betraying his trust.  It felt more appealing, like vengeance.  \n\nNo, I've been accused of cheating in other relationships.  I strived more to prove that I wasn't.  The thought of actually doing it never crossed my mind.
1156498
Happened to me. We have been married now for almost 4 yrs and we have 2 kids.
31162
They dont really until someone brings attention to it. If you have lied it is void... but they dont really care enough to double check... but if you die and your real (first) hubby/wife fights it for insurance lets say your now hubby/wife will loose because you really are not marreid... and on some legal docs they can go after you for breaking state/fed laws...