does the man im with now really love me?
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it's easy girl, since m a man, so i can understand most men's mind.\nwell, just try to observe his action. does he care about things relates to your not? if he loves you, he'd care even it's just a petty things. \n\nIf he loves you, he will remember all what you said. what u want, what u like, when your birthday is, ...\n\nalso you can try to blurt out something, for instance, say this MY birthday is  on XX/xx/XXXX. and a few days later try remind about it again, and wait to see his reaction. if he confirm the right birthday, m pretty sure he loves you\n:p. since i used to be like this.
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
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the amazing man that i am with
699445
the truth is guys always(some) think the grass is greener on the other side ..they will investigate..if it gets them laid then bonus to them..just assume he's lying ..then its not going to hurt as much..I would move on.. a real man who says he loves you means it..and is true only to you, his love(girl)..your job is to keep your man interested in you.pay more attention to his needs...love and be loved..
337477
It sounds like he likes you a lot more than you care for him. Go ahead and tell him how you feel, but in a gentle way. Tell him how you really feel now, before it goes any further and he feels he's been mislead.
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.
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I don't think that we can ever be too sure but I do think that the way the guy treats you means alot. There are many things that a man wont tell you because he doesn't want you to know his true feelings inside. If you feel comfortable enough around him just ask hinm how he feels about you. And let him take it from there. That should be the answer to your question. Just be prepared to be asked that same question in return. Just keep some of what you feel to yourself, you don't always tell them exactly what's in your heart that's when they learn how to munipulate. Just make sure that you two are close enough to share everything together..... GOOD LUCK with your relationship MAMA!!!!!!
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Well you love him but he obviously doesn't love you enough to respect the fact that you are a woman and you have feelings instead he had to go behind your back and cheat because he couldnt be man enough to say "I need sometime for myself, my feeling about this relationship have changed.." You have to love yourself more than that. You will find someone that really cares about your feelings and necessities.. it will be rough forgetting about Mr, Cheater but you'll see how fast you will forget about him when Mr. Wonderful brings your flowers and actually cares about your needs a woman.
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Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
232155
How do you feel.  Do you want to be with him if so tell him.  Obviously he could be in love with you again, if not and you are not in love with him, tell him that you don't want him to tell you that he loves you because that [art of your lives are over.  Just because things were comfortable then dose not mean they should be comfortable now in this new found relationship.
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Im not quite sure what your first question is asking\nbut we all say i love you when you mean it\nin my past expieriences in relationships when the man says i love you, you feel obligated to say it back, even if you dont relly love them\nand toher times you really do love the person
1167130
Well for me and this may sound crazy..but i knew when I see the man I am with now..well the first time we went out I knew that he would be the man i would marry..and now we are engaged..so just take what ur heart is telling you..it knows what is right for you..and by the way..he act's like he really likes you alot...hope all work's out for ya
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With the man I love, and alive.
611836
well it was probably just a dream & didnt mean anything.but i would be worried too if i was in ur situation. if he actually said "i love u ____" then maybe u should talk to him about it.
233439
It sounds like he has feelings for you.  Go for it!
1162463
I can relate-I am also in a long distance relationship, I'm in Hawaii,he's in Maryland...  The best thing for you to do is trust him..  Just because he asks "baby, do you still love me?" doesn't mean he's cheating on you.  One thing I've learned about most* men in relationships, is once they say they love you and they mean it...They feel very vulnerable and generally need reassurance that you feel the same-they are trying to avoid heartache themselves... You two need to talk more and communicate alot more than you already are, tell him your worries and if you seriously think he's cheating on you then you're probably right.  If your gut feeling tells you he's not, then he's probably not.... Go with your instincts.
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hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.