How could someone get rid of there past lover whom they still have feeling for.?
110261
cut off all communication
1015455
Wow, your situation sounds like mine!! My ex was older than me and he got over me way too soon. I wasn't ready to see him with his new girlfriend and i got upset. After being in a situation like yours, i think you should move on. It will be hard and the feeling of love with still be there, but i would forget him and just move on. You never know what is out there unless you go for it and forget about your past!! It sounds hard and you may not want to do it.. but seriously get over him and give yourself some time to heal before finding someone else. Don't just jump into a new relationship either. Really deal with the situation and make sure you're feelings are gone before getting with someone else!! Good luck :)
64320
Well first off, why do you need to forget them? If they are just an impossible goal, let them go by KNOWING that it wasn't meant to be, and that you WILL find that special someone for you. Destiny....that's what it'll be, and you'll know it when it happens.
56807
Keep thinking about something else.  Keep occupied.  Keep busy.  These feelings will go away with time.  Pray that these wanting to get revenge feelings will go away even faster.  I know it is hard but we are all human & had to go thru this.  Reflect to yourself remembering your good qualities and then compare them to what you don't want to be like in this other person.
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
33088
bigskullfan doesn't know what he's talking about. Consider yourself lucky to have gotten rid of those who've done you wrong and look some more. Remember love happens when you don't expect it b/c you're not trying too hard. Or try forgiving those who've done you wrong. Good luck!
576087
sell them..you'll never be free from that bond..nor is fair to leave laying around for say a new boyfriend to find..once the divorce is over..do your best to erase the past and move forward
368031
The best advice to give to you is just keep seeing him then you will eventually tire of him and you will stop having feelings for him coz if you stop seeing him now it will just torment you..the same thing happened to me and I got the courage to walk away once I couldnt take anymore.
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
141470
convince him to go for the other then when the one you like feels bad lift her up and make her feel good and go from there. and as for the ex forget her.
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
152257
Why bother to lower yourself to his level?  I would think that you would want to forget the bad times and start making good times.  Use your energy to find another partner/mate/pal or whatever you call him and develop some great new memories to blot out the sour of the old.  Remember this, ugly harbors ugly.
863256
JUST DELETE HIS NAME NOW AND FORGET ABOUT HIM.....AND IT SOUNDS LIKE THERE ARE DEEPER ISSUES HERE...ELSE YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IT AND FORGOT ABOUT HIM BY NOW
1006946
The best way to get over one is find another. That's what my momma always told me & it's true. Lifes too short to pine away over someone who doesn't return your feelings. Move on sweety! You can do it! Have a positive attitude & find you another! Have a great day & God bless.
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!