how do i tell my boy friend i'm a virgin?why did i bleed so much?should i be scared to see a gynocoligist?
116728
Just tell him, and NO WAY should u ever be scare to c ur gyno, if ur gonna have sex and u don't have any fears y should u fear your gynocoligist?
254545
If he truly loves you he will not care one bit if you tell him the truth- it is too risky to be in this situation. Please stay a virgin!! I got pregnant when I was only 16 and if I woukd have been a smart girl like you and thought things over my life would be much better right now.If you decide to go through with this just be sure you have condoms and talk to your mother!! it is much more embarrassing to tell about that have not yet happened than when something does happen.
452645
I had the same problem for a long while.You need to see your doctor.My problem was that my hymen was still intact.That's the piece of skin that makes you a virgin.Mine was still intact after having two children!!It was a simple in office procedure to take care of it.
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
981551
Same girl,.... bleeding each time - somethin's wrong - go see a doctor.  Some girls bleed their first time, but every time? \n\n If you are suggesting that you are sleeping with multiple girls and they all bleed every time,..... I fear for you!   You may be too large, and will blow-up and it will fall off!   LOL (which would serve you right, for not being monogamous.)
97644
I am 24, and a virgin.  I told my bf early on in the relationship.  I think the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be.  If you are waiting to have sex, it's definitly important to tell him.  He will know not to pressure you.  If you just haven't had sex yet and are willing, tell him that too.  Either way, it is best to just tell him.  It can be scary, but if he's a great guy, he won't care.
981113
well there could be many factors.\nfirst off, he could have popped your cherry (wether ur a virgin or not because mine wasnt popped till i got with my fiance)\nor he could have just been to rough and tore some tissue in there and the pain above ur hip bone could be from him being to rough or maybe u just havent had sex in a while because i still have that pain from time to time when my husband is too rough. you shouldve told him to stop when u were having the pain. becuase if ur not able to talk to him and let him know how you feel and when somethings hurting then ur not ready to have sex yet (atleast with him that is) now if it was unprotected sex u could have gotten pregnant and ur having implantation bleeding (which is when the sperm implants, but that depends on how much your bleeding) and last factor could be that maybe you started your period today. but to be sure maybe you should ask you doctor.\ngood luck with everything.
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
872575
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
439776
if you didnt have sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin. No doctor needed thats the answer :) xx
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.
126199
Yes, it does hurt, but it is totally bearable and worth it, if you are ready and want it. Just make sure you are ready and there has been lots of foreplay and you are relaxed as possible (although you will be understandably nervous). Your body will tell you when you are ready. Make sure you care about the guy and he cares about you. Not trying to preach just want to make sure its is a happy memorable moment.  Oh and dont expect it to be perfect. Sex has awkward moments, especally if he is a virgin too. So good luck and be safe and have fun.
589573
Your vagina is screaming out "save me for the right one"\nI wish mine screamed that.\nIt's happening because you're still a virgin, and the muscules are so tight. \nI suggest waiting until you find a guy who will love you and not pressure you for sex, then have him go easy on you, use a condom and lubricant. Have him go really slow. It'll be easy once you relax, and i think you're not relaxed because you maybe thinking to yourself that "it's not the right guy".
1180337
ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
46274
I defintely think that you should be truthful with your new boyfriend, that way he will trust you more and you two can be open about your past sex life. If you've been w/ a lot of people and he has to and might be a good decision to get tested for a STD or STI now as there called. Theres nothing to be ashamed of about having sex w/ more than one person so don't lie about it. In the end things will come out your way and if they don't your new boyfriend wasn't worth it anywayz
876395
Here's the honest scoop...I have a 15 year old daughter and I found a note of her promising a boy her virginity...so as her mom I freaked out. Well, I took her to get on birth control just in case and in the meantime I scared the heck out of her, hoping that if she did have sex she would just tell me so I would know and could offer her protection and help her deal with any problems that may come from it. Truth be told, when I took her to the gynocologist, the doctor asked me to leave the room when they examined her and also explained to me that anything she discussed with her or learned was strictly doctor patient confidentiality. I even tried to scare her after the exam by telling her the doctor told me something and she was in big trouble. I tried scaring her needlessly...I think. Bottom line, no the doctor keeps all of that confidential by a law known as HIPPA now and from the doctor patient confidentiality oaths they take. Even if your mom says the doctor told her something, she's only going on suspicion and trying  to scare the truth out of you. If you do decide to have sex, just make sure that you are protected, please. I had to add that....as a mom :o)