yesterday i saw my mom doing it in the kitchen with my best friend what should i do?
103736
They really didn't hurt anyone, so why the drama?\n\nDisinfect the whole kitchen, when your mom sees you, she'll faint.
1068033
hi, i am so sorry that you are hurt, but i understand.  hurting your mom is the worst feeling in the world.  the worst.  but the best medicine is free.  don't do any of that writing notes crap, that is really chicken shit.  you hurt her, and you are old enough to own up to your mistakes.  you just march yourself up to her and say mama, i can never tell you how sorry i am, i love you, i need you, and i'm not too proud to say it.  then tell her that you know that your time is coming.  you'll have a mini me someday, and it will come back around.  it's called the circle of life.  lol.  the easiest answers are always the toughest.  god bless
729873
That sounds like a lot of WORK and responsibility for your parents. Maybe there is a good reason why your friend's parents won't allow it either. The only thing I can say is to remove as much of the burden from your parents. YOU clean the house, YOU prepare the food, YOU police your friends and make sure they follow your parents' rules and YOU clean up afterwords -- if you demonstrate to your parents that you can do all that and follow through you might have a chance.
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
42053
Obey your mom...she has a good reason for the rules she imposes on you. Find something else to do instead of going to the party.
238877
then restart, that should do the trick. otherwise call your mom for help.
1154444
talk to both of them, not at the same time.  first try to work things out with the friend thats like a brother.  fix things there before its too late.  then go bacl to your so- called Best friend and talk to her. ask her why she betrayed you. try to work on it. you can still be friends. i just wouldnt trust her as much as you used to
890753
Take your friend to dinner. Do something nice. Your friend did something nice for you, so it only makes sense. :)
438988
Do what your mom says for now. =)
913742
When I first started dating my boyfriend, I baked a tray of cookies for Thanksgiving and brought it over for dinner.  The tray was GONE by the end of the day and now it's become tradition for my cookies around the holidays.  But it's not always about buying things or doing things for someone.  Obviously do what your mom would tell you, be respectful, polite.  Engage in conversation, dress appropriately, and be yourself!  :)  Oh and ask if they'd like help in the kitchen, mothers really seem to like that.
53173
Sorry to hear your friend walked into such a situation. There is nothing your friend can do. Her mother is an adult and it is her mom's house. Her mother can do what she wants. Her mother should be ashamed of herself for letting her daughter walk in on such a shocking situation. I hope her mother is a single parent and doesn't live with your friend's father, that would be even more troubling. I just don't get it, that adult's these days have no self control.
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wow... i guess try to tell her you have things under control. but it sounds like there is more to it if she is that worried about it. so either she knows every minute of your day or you are going to have more contact with the detectives. hard to tell you what you should do. sounds like  you have a major issue in your life going and then a complication to add to it. but good luck... i guess always remember... your day is always just seconds away from getting worse... so be happy with what you have. at least your mom loves you.... like i said... it could always be worse
864179
Take a couple of dishes because you are so thoughtful.  And complement her on everything because you are such a gracious guest.  Get up and clear the table and wash the dishes because you know what trouble she has gone to.  Kiss her cheek and tell her thank-you for everything and tell her that, next year, you would like to relieve her of the duty...if she doesn't mind...but make her promise to tell you how she made EVERYTHING - so you can do as good a job.  One day you will mean it, once you get to know and understand why she is the way she is, you will be glad you were not antagonistic.  And your husband might not seem to notice as he is sleeping to the game while you are earning your angel wings - but in the end, it will be worth it.  Oh, and tell her you are thankful that she was such a good mother to your husband.
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I am going to assume that you are a teen still living with your mom.  \n\nThe sooner you tell her, the better!  Be sure that you go in to this conversation without an attitude, and do NOT fight with her.  Apologize for dissapointing her and tell her that you will do your best to make it as right as possible!  \n\nI wish you the best!
1016895
You should take cooking classes. Learn something new and socialize at the same time.
78169
This is a family issue. You know you are innocent so, I would allow your mom to know whats going on. Yes even your father. They can be your greatest allies here. Sometimes parrents can be a true blessing and in this case, maybe MOM has a few tips up her sleeve that can really help. After all she was once your age and had her best friend too. I would goto them with everything and let them in on it. That way your relationship to your folks is greatly inhanced and they may even have the solution you need. Its worth a shot.
997305
get a girly mag and go knock one out.\nmake ya mum a cup of tea\ndo the dishes\ntidy your room\nask some more questions