is it dangerous to sleep in the same bed with my dad?
101628
my dad feels like that with my stepdad and family freind. As long as he doesn't do anything, you can still do it, just dont tell your mom. If u dont want to lie to her, here's what i suggest:\nTry to reassure ur mom that u would never lay with him if he did anything to u, and if he did, u would let her know. \nU know, things like that... Just always reassure her....\nIf u dont feel like doing that, don't do it for a while then just lay with him anyways...\nUr not lying if she doesnt ask. The waiting and saying no would make her think that your alright....
1097608
If this is a serious question, you should talk to someone other than your father regarding his request.  It's a very inappropriate suggestion.  You deserve to be protected from this type of behavior.  Don't be afraid, tell your mom, a counselor or any adult that you can trust.
793820
well i know wat ur going threw my dad was the same way i was always scared....but wat i did was just leave! if u have a car....but leaving isnt always the answer in my case it was but maby in urs its diffrent.... i just needed my own space and time and i didnt have that at my dads soo i always left i would eather go shopping or just driving arond.... but u have a b/f that prolly cares a lot for u soo he is always good..... u can talk to him or jsut leave ur house and go w/ him well i hoped  i helped a lil..  =)\nLuV AlWaYs \nBrItTaNy
622205
I am so sorry you lost your mother and that your father is sick.\n\nStatistics are usually on an overall basis, however if it's the same cancer, maybe they were both exposed to something? \n\nWhen one spouse dies the other often becomes overwhelmingly stressed. Disease comes into people's lives through stress and a set of behaviors that are contrary to health. \n\nLove your father and make certain that he takes care of his basic needs. He needs plenty of rest, to eat properly and to get some kind of emotional support to cope with losing his spouse.
363635
A bit of separation is probably required, but if you need to stay in close contact, make sure your dad is regulating his condition with proper medication (Lithium, etc.) Try to avoid your father when he is in a depressive state and try to prevent him from making poor decisions when he is manic.
848312
my dad does its awlsome
1136865
YEAH SORTA.. CUZ U BOTH COME OUT FRM THE SAME DAD..
616373
It is very likely that your dad is with you. Do you feel him near? If so, talk to him.
597098
You could be experiencing grief and depression from your father's passing.  Talk to someone about the way you felt about him and what has happened now to get things off your mind and heart, and then your sleep patterns will return to normal eventually.  Just try not to worry.
578680
Ah, i remember you.  How did your board exams go?  \nLong distance is one problem, because no matter how much you talk online/phone, you still don't know this person till you move in with them, and they get used to you and drop their guard.  Second thing, unless I miss my guess, he's twice your age yes?  Your interest are going to be very very different, trust me, after a while you are going to feel like you are out with your dad and he's going to feel like he's out with a child.  What happens when say, he's sixty, and wants to think about retirement and taking it easy and you are 36 and wanting to have fun and alot of sex, (that's about the age my ex's sex drive went nuts, lol) he's not going to be able to keep up with ya, and most likely not going to want to try.  Say he dies at the average of 72, there you will be, 48, still young but with the very same problem he has right now, it's like pulling teeth to find a good person to spend the rest of your life with.  You want kids I assume, how does he feel about it?  Theys alot that can go very wrong with it, but some do pull it off.  Very few.  Good Luck with this and your exams.
1040223
No, it wouldn't cause any problems for you.  I'm a biologist, so I do know.  You and she are only third cousins, not second.  Your father and her father are first cousins, which means her father is your second cousin, and she is your third cousin.  You aren't closely related enough for it to make any difference, genetically speaking.  It's acceptable on moral and legal grounds, also.  If that's what you both want to do, I see no reason why you shouldn't.
300826
ask your dad if he will play with you so he doesnt have to worry about you
1180752
You need to take him to have a sleep study done, this pattern could become dangerous.
406011
Tell your mom you want to live with your dad, her b/f smokes, you have asthma plus you're breathing in 2nd hand smoke. She may not mind being exposed to this and putting herself at risk for lung cancer and dying from it but you care alot more about your health than that.
614962
No it isn`t weird that you are uncomfortable with sharing your bed.  Think about it, you spend a lot of time in your bed alone.  So you get used to having the whole bed to yourself.  I still get uncomfortable sharing my bed.  It feels as if my personal bubble is being invaded.  So don`t worry, you`re not alone.
1112857
I have my bed against the wall and I the only way I can sleep is against the wall, unless my boyfriend is in bed with me. I think I have security issues. lol.
748988
oh well I wouldnt worry about it just invite him over for dinner or something..... or a football game let your dad and your boyfriend bond so that your dads not viewing him as a horny bastard.... all will go well trust me....