my sister boyfriend lives in va and she lives in boston. do you think he is cheating on her.?
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"Well, there are these rules that guys have, an understanding as to what exactly constitutes cheating. Take your situation for example: it's not cheating. It's never cheating when you're in a different area code, not to mention a different state." [E.L., Road Trip 2005]\n\nSeriously though!  I think there is no reason to draw conclusions simply because of location.  Without more information I'd have to say that premise doesn't support an argument that he is cheating.\n\n[Edit:  In other words, there is no reason to think he is now than otherwise.  In any event, it is your sister's relationship.]
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You have to figure there is a travel day involved and then the first day they probably ran all ober the place.  Also, if there is a time difference, or the cell phone doesn't work in that place, that could be a reason too.  You are probably making up worse things than what is really going on.  If your bf or gf hasn't done anything in the past to make you doubt them, then don't let your mind play tricks on you now.
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There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
981481
Oh my gosh. That cheating little....!!! is how most people would react but be above that. Sit and talk with him and if he truly loves you then he will let HER  go to be with you. You are probably better than her anyway but keep level headed and you will most likely steer clear of trouble. Good luck and I wish you the best.
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Sorry sister we need more info -why do you think hes cheating?  Hard to help you if we dont have any info or background.  hope you post another question with more info next time!
1154752
Thats a tough one.  Does he cheat on her with you?  That might break them up
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I can relate-I am also in a long distance relationship, I'm in Hawaii,he's in Maryland...  The best thing for you to do is trust him..  Just because he asks "baby, do you still love me?" doesn't mean he's cheating on you.  One thing I've learned about most* men in relationships, is once they say they love you and they mean it...They feel very vulnerable and generally need reassurance that you feel the same-they are trying to avoid heartache themselves... You two need to talk more and communicate alot more than you already are, tell him your worries and if you seriously think he's cheating on you then you're probably right.  If your gut feeling tells you he's not, then he's probably not.... Go with your instincts.
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If it were me (which it's not) I would keep my mouth shut.  But you just have to think about what you would do if you were in her shoes.  Would you want someone to tell you or what?  Women generally have a "gut feeling" when their man has been cheating, so it's possible that she already knows and just doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Talking to him is definantly a good idea.  But why would he cheat and then ask her to move with him.  Maybe you can plant a guilt trip on him and he'll tell her.  But I think it's his place to spill the beans!  Good Luck!
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Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
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If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
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I don't think so because you don't know what, or who that person is doing while he's out of town. If you want him to be faithful, i think u should stick with someone close by.
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It seems to me that.. and not to be mean but if your worried about your boyfriend cheating on you. It doesnt matter how far apart you are....you have a problem bigger than 30 minutes apart.
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Yes, he is cheating.\nIf he carries condoms everywhere then he is ready for sex everytime with every girl he meet.
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Nah, it sounds like he isn't being honest with you, and that is a major component in a distance relationship.  If he's lying to you now then it will only get worse as time goes by and he gets away with more.  Also, once a cheater always a cheater.  It sounds like you need to find someone a bit closer.
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You are jealous of their relationship and you have no reason to she is his sister, you are his girlfriend. He loves his sister and hopefully he loves you(I can't really say for sure, I don't know you all) but if you force a division between them in any way he will resent you for it.
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Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
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This guy sounds like a typical control freak. However, your sister is getting something she needs out of this relationship. If she wasn't...she would have left. The bad news is she sounds like she likes to be controlled...even just a little. It must be hard for your family to sit on the sidelines, and watch your sister go on this crazy roller coaster ride. The decision is hers to make. The only thing you and your family can do is wait for the outcome. \n\n*Do you want me to send Vinny over and take care of him?