why do guys fall in love so fast?
115683
I dont think we fall in "love" and it's not just getting laid either it's just that we are insecure about ourselves sometimes and are afraid of getting closer to someone without letting them go if we need to....
777574
Duh...because they want sex. \n\nJust make them wait...if they "love" you now, they will "love" you in a few months.\n\nGiving them sex right away just lets them know that they can get that anywhere, and doesn't make them really look for the right person.  Don't be one of "those" girls.
218355
I think we are in love with both.  You fall in love with a person because he has the potential to make you happy and loved.  You will never be sure if he can pull it off though and that's where the leap of faith enters the picture.
852785
"Love" after 2 weeks?  No way can love develop that quick.  \n\nWhen he tells you that, you can reply "thank you" or "I have feelings for you too".
668784
It could mean that he like u a lot as a person and a friend but doesnt see any specific qualities he wants for him to fall in love with you..\nIt doesnt necessarily have to be shortcomings in you so dont be dissappointed and be his friend..\nWhat he wants maybe not in you but million great guys might be looking a girl just like you..
784065
well buddy i was ther about 1 month ago i met my love and my heart beat faster i think personally its because of the attraction that you have your nervous but at the same time you happy and you brain is sending mixed emotions but there all goo and its just making moe blood flow. But hey buddy i hope your loved one keeps talking to you just be you and it will never be weird just be yourself\n      Peace\n         Dave King
279882
Why do fools fall in love.
1065066
Just because you think someone has all the qualities you are looking for doesn't mean they do.  When first getting to know someone, people usually see all the good things and then are often blindsided by the bad.  Taking things slow allows people the chance to become friends first which is a good base for something deeper.  \n\nAnother thing to consider is that in the long run it pays to love smart than to love fast.  By taking your time, you may find that the qualities you thought were great are actually not so wonderful. It is better to find that out when you are friends than when you are a couple.  Besides the things you think you want in someone are not always the things you need.\n\nMick Jagger sang it best:\n\n"You can't always get what you want,\nBut if you try sometimes,\nYou just might find\nThat you get what you need."
204982
3 months isn't that long enough for someone to fall in love (real and true). when it comes to professing LOVE, men are controlled by their egos thus, making it a very difficult action for him. since he said the word "friend," then take it as so. both of you may understand each other more than anybody else taking your relationship to a higher level but please don't confuse this with love. physical attraction is a primary excuse to fall in love with someone, so is infatuation. draw a line where he stays on the other side as a friend. if he chooses to cross it, he's got to do more than prove his love. if you go and talk to his buds this'll make you look interested in having a relationship with him. keep a safe distance to protect your heart but be professional about it. word of caution: if someone says he loves you, he's also saying 'be prepared to be hurt." good luck!
744169
men seem better at moving forward than us girls, someone once told me that women love from the heart and men with their ******, that when we fall in love its with all our emotions and self being that we give our selves(girls) to a guy and fall in love fully and more deeply I guess that's why we tend to hurt longer.\nbut guys can just switch off, but maybe there are guys out there that do also love deeply one women.
452547
Maybe it shows your true feelings for him. It is very common to fall for a close male friend. It's easy and convenient, seeing as how you are friends, you already know a great deal about each other. \n\nThat would be my best guess anyways. I would say you may be realizing that there are feelings there that didn't exist before.
868214
It could be one of many things, one he is not into you , two he dose have a medical problem, or three this one happens to a lot of guys even though they don't admit to it, he is more then likely thinking about the ups and downs about sex which is taking the emotional feeling away, which makes him go down way to fast. just don't take it to heart, he is more frustrated about this then you!
561224
Too often the "falling in love" happens way-too quick, and leads to disillusionment and terrible let downs about the one you thought was a love at first sight.  Well, it usually happens that too quick a judgement about an involvement ends up that way.  Be patient in affairs of the heart for your own good in the future
706937
That's such a wierd generalization.\n\nI think that men are perfectly capable at falling as deeply in love as a woman can.\n\nThere's no limit to love on account of gender or anything superficial like that.\n\nLove is love...
1017406
Hate to break it to ya sweetheart but girls love just as much and just as hard as guys do..i actually think that girls fall in love faster than guys do. not that guys don't fall in love it is just that most seem to have a harder time showing it
586804
some people dont fall in love straight away. the feelings you seem to have are feeling of more then just friendship or soulmates. i think your falling in love with her. dont be afraid to tell her how you feel, unless you dont think she is ready or doesnt feel the same way about you. take things slowly and see what happens.
128354
You can get really, really close to someone on the Internet very quickly. That is because both of you have your guard down and reveal things more quickly than you would in person. Also, there are no distractions, such as physical attributes. That is fine, you can fall in love with inner qualities rather than outer, but there is a problem. You do not know if the person you are talking to online is telling the truth or is just giving you the answers/information you want. Also, is it just that since you have to talk one at a time it makes that person a good listener. You do have to be careful, there are strange people out there. However, if you are careful then meet in public and have someone close by, money and a phone in case you need to exit.