im falling deeply inluv with my guy bestfriend?
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i dated one of my really good friends and it only lasted for a couple months and we realized we were much better friends than a couple. we then just became just friends again and we got the questions about dating out of the way. if you are good enough friends its worth a try because something great could come out of it. if it doesnt work out, you need to try and stay friends afterwards which isnt too hard if you are really bestfriends. just respect each others opinios during and possibly after the relationship.
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the guy i am dating now i have been best friends with for 6 years. when we first met we started to flirt nothing serious, then he told me that he wanted to persue this other girl very seriously. so we became really good friends. after four years we were finally both single, he was getting ready to move across the country and he told me how he felt. we've been dating for 2 years now. it is with out a doubt the best relationship i have ever been in. i'm glad we waited, because if not we might not be together right now. if he loves you and you love him. you will end up together. i hope this helps your situation.
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Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
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If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
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It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
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tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.
1137505
stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
225355
Are you Gay and in love with your best friend? If not, what's "brokeback" about it? Being that this is your bestfriend you are speaking of, ask if they are gay.  Then ask yourself if it would matter.
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hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
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yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
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He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
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i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....
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Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
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I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
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If you value and want to continue your relationship with your girlfriend, you better shift your focus on another guy.  I hope that you can grasp that the notion of "falling in love" comes from the things we say to ourselves about another person and what we perceive about someone else (either imagined or real).  You are really in control of it.  If you have focused on this guy and you have, at present, no other in your life, it is easy to understand how it can happen, especially if you are a person who begins an intimate relationship from a friendship (It is the best situation.).  Trust in the fact that for every person there is more than one individual who is potentially suited for you.\n\nYour feelings of guilt is an internal sign to you that you should not pursue taking this relationship to a different level.  Each of us lives within our own skin; I would advise you to take a path of behavior that you will feel comfortable with yourself.  \n\nUltimately, the bottom line is that if the relationship develops and becomes so powerful between the two of you, no one or nothing will be able to stop the two of you getting together.  If not now, then later down the road.
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just tell him straight up that u think about him all the time that u cant stop thinking about him.....theres nothing wrong with thinking about your bf all the time
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It actually won't matter what you get for him if you guys love each other as best friends. As long as it comes from the bottom of your heart, he will like it no matter what it is. You should make it if you want it to be the best! ^ ___ ^