Is it wrong to say 'no' to an*l sex to your lover, even when he or she wants it?
116475
It is always your right to say no to anything you don't want to do sexually.  If your partner loves and respects you then they will understand that there are certain boundries to what your willing to try.  If they keep pushing or try to force you to do this or get mad when you set boundries and say no then you should consider finding someone who will treat you better.
16101
Its always been my experience that all guys want you.  I don't know any man that would say, "no" to a girl.  Not unless they are gay. ...  and then they would still think about it for a moment before they said 'no'.  Lol
52124
If you don't want to, then don't. you have as much say in it as he does. There is no "magic age" when you should have sex.
1103068
If a girl has no inclination towards sex, make a suggestion about it. Then is she resists and says no, just respect her wishes and drop the subject.
640781
Yes.  I don't want anyone to tell me I cannot enjoy my kinky sexual activities with someone I love in my BEDROOM.  If they do that to me, then they are giving me the same right to do the same thing to THEM!
343558
Bad things???...Wrong things??\n\nBoth of those are subjective, depending on the person experiencing/doing those things...\n\nRule of thumb: if the THOUGHT of any action makes you uncomfortable, it is probably wrong for YOU...Don't do it...\nOn the other hand if the 'thing' excites or tittilates you, and it will be carried out with a CONSENTING adult, then go for it and enjoy...
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
294669
Maybe I am confused but isn't it supposed to be the opposite of soft to have sex???
40455
It's neither bad or wrong, but like anything in life, there is a proper time and place.\n\nFor instance, it shouldn't take precedent over normal sexual relations with your partner.
434929
If nobody is harmed and no self-respect is lost, then no, it's not wrong.\n\nBut of course, it's rarely that simple.  When a betrayed spouse or lover discovers the betrayal, then the simple one-night stand becomes much more complicated.  Even where there's no betrayal involved, many people find it difficult to reconcile the one-night stand with their image of themselves as decent and upright persons, because our society has attached so much guilt to sex that it's a wonder we can think about it at all.\n\nThis is turning into a long-winded answer.  What I mean is: Sex is not wrong, therefore one-night stands are not wrong in themselves.  The wrong part is all the other stuff that tends to go along with them.
637604
Saying no is never bad if you say it nicely. If you think he was hert by it try talking to him. Explane why you said no. If he dosn't exept the fact that you said no, then it's a good ting you did.
888540
NO.  IF A MAN DOESN'T PLEASE ME, I ABSOLUTELY REFUSE TO BOOST HIS EGO WITH LETTING HIM BELIEVE HE SATISFIED ME WHEN HE DIDN'T.\n\nI WOULD BE CHEATING MYSELF IN THE LONG RUN, BECAUSE HE WOULD BE THINKING HE IS SATISFYING ME WHEN HE REALLY ISN'T.\n\nI WOULD BE DOING MYSELF A GRAVE INJUSTICE.
92013
In a guys point of view. Just relax, tell him No. I guy wouldn't force you to do it if you tell him NO. Don't be sad, guys are just like that, its a biological thing. Even guys in a seminary are having a hard time controlling themselves. Honestly speaking I went thru the same problem, I had a girlfriend who did not want to have sex. And that's fine with me. She said no and I respected her. But I still tried. Boys will always try, and you should only say No. If he doesn't agree then dump him, he doesn't love you or care for you if he forces you to do it with him.
342193
no it is not wrong it is a turn on. SAM U should go do it right now. come on u know you want to.\n\n\n\nyou know you want to!!\n\n\nyou know you want to!!\n\n\n\nHA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
1131896
Are you willing to have sex with some one else if a chance is presented right now or you feel indifferent toward the idea?\nIf you answer yes then it is psychological (some thing turns you off about him), but if your answer is no then it could be physiological (hormones),drug side effect (antidepressants),or mechanical ( the actual act of sex is painful).
90198
Yes, I think it's very wrong. If you really love someone and they love you, they want to please you in every way possible. If they are doing something that doesn't satisfy you, you need to have enough love and respect to tell them. I promise, they'll appreciate it in the end (and so will you). ;-)
541668
if you feel you need to let your partner have this option then do so as long as the door swings back your way as well....but in doing this you do find that unless you are in a very strong and trusting relationship it just won't work\nYour going about it wrong...what if someone says no to him.......  what then lower than before.s Sex isn't the answer. Allowing others to come into ones life will always create added problems. This i do know..having you tell him he is all that he is should be the best starting point. Then you move on with him .  i think you might be heading in the wrong direction. My sisters husband did the same thing and it took 5 years of a long hard road to get back on track but she walked with him every step of the way... Things are as good as they use to be . Good luck re think things.