My boyfriend changed my name to a guys name on his IM list, why would he do this?
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looks like you've gotten some good advice already.  \nlooks like ya done made your move too.\n\ni'm sure you done right by getting rid of him, especially if he became rebelious or defensive or even if he acted like you were the nut.\n\ni'm gonna assume that ya (now x-) bf was at least within 10 years of your age.  now with that info, i ask you to think for a minute... has he been stand-offish, less attentive, communication getting (well,) different maybe even less, then it was best to jump out now.  after all ya not kids any more in high school playing with teenage emotions.\nbut.....\n\nif things haven't changed to the worest or haven't been getting boreing, then maybe this guy is telling the truth or maybe he does like the name andrew or maybe he does have a gay attraction, that maybe he, himself hasn't realalized.\n\n\nnaaah...  stick with the breack-up and find you a real man that doesn't want to play headgames, because that is exactly what he's doing to you.  i'm sorry if it hurts your heart/feelings, but it's better now than a few months or years down the road.
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You cant find out their name unless it is in their profile. Make sure yours and your boyfriends names arent in your profile. Never share personal information online. Dont trust anyone! This person might know you from some other conversation or from your daily life if you have told other friends what your screen name is. Please be careful there are many bad types out there.
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this happened to me also. I lost all my old yahoo messenger names. So write them down some where. * Laugh out loud* had the right answer.
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Not if you also changed your name.\n\nYou can't do it.  Try it.\n\nHolly, we've been telling him this.  I think he is giving Y the old flip-off.
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i met my boyfriend online...
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If he im'd you he already has your name/id. But you can look in your messenger archives for his message, and reply to it from there.
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Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
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wow...You found a huge hole in the Privacy Act concerning Credit reports.\n\nFirstly, how did your BF have access to your SS number, date and place of Birth, etc.\n\nWhat really happened is that your BF is guilty of Identity thief. He pretended to be You and had all of the required data to convince the Credit Agency to give him private and personal information.\n\nThe Laws in my state specifically state that only the owner of an account can get private information on finances....Power of attorney is a different subject.\n\nYou never gave permission to the agency nor did you give your BF permission to try to get the information. A huge damaging hole in our privacy system.\n\nGood Luck and handle your BF accordingly.  Chow.
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he calling you a wrong name to get your attention more. he likes you i think. read tips on flirting and dating to help you more on this site
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you should not take him seriously he is obviously still sexually intersted in his ex and your isecurity has led you to snoop into his his personal email account because you do not trust him relationships do not grow and flourish on mistrust and insecurity and if you aren't dating others you need to start and move on or stay where you are and continue playing sneaky games
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messenger >> my contact details >> remove your last name. >> save.\n\ntrust me. i know.
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You mean someone took my "name?"
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Because you got to change your nickname and/or hide your email in the profile settings.
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Maybe he just grew tired of the name, or he thinks maybe you don't like it? It's possible.\n\nHowever, instinct can often be right (or misguided). Maybe something is wrong, but maybe it's not cheating. Ask him if everything's okay (sounds better than "is anything wrong") and then if he evades the question do some detective work. Check caller IDs, phone records, and ask your mutual friends. \n\nGood luck, hope i helped!\n\n~the Wise One
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If he/she is afriend why would you want to remove your real name
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A lot of people have aliases when u add them to messenger there original name appears instead of aliases name I think. It happens to me on my messenger. If u were to add me my name would change to coz I have 2 aliases and my original name.
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Privacy does not go out the door when you become a partner with another person.  (Although I question how you two became fiances to each other and are just now running into this problem...)  You should not have asked him for his password; he is entitled to his privacy - that is where trust comes into play.  If you don't trust him, then you have no reason to be engaged to him.  And if you do trust him, then you have no need for his password.   \n\nI am not surprised that he didn't apologize.  He had nothing for which to apologize.  I am not surprised he didn't send your little "good morning" greeting --- not only is that a trival "courting" gesture that should simply pass as you two evolve into a deeper relationship, but if he HAD sent it after you had stomped off because he denied you something to which you had no right, it would have been a meaningless gesture.  (You want meaningless gestures in your relationship ?)  \n\nThe person rude and insensitve was you.  Insensitive because you thought nothing about attempting to invade his privacy and rude because you stormed off in a huff because he refused you that access. \n\nIf you have reason not to trust him, then you need to deal with the genesis of those reasons - directly, calmly, honestly, openly and be willing to accept the good, bad and ugly of human relationships.  That kind of maturity makes a relationship (not stomping off because you don't get what you want.)  If you are the one who is insecure without real reason (other than the spectre of the green-eyed monster), then you need to adddress that.\n\nThis incident is not the problem, only a symptom of something else the two of you need to work on.