my parents lost everything in a fire, i want to have a new home shower for them what is the proper way to do i
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I would first try to remember some of the stuff that they had their old home and ask guests to buy those things. If it is not a surprise new home shower, get your parents input on what they would want for thier new home. Sometimes when tragic things like this happens, it can be a great financial setback and monetary gifts would be an understandable and wise choice. May God bless you all and I wish the best for you and your family.
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Keep a selection of canned goods, Bottled water, candles, Flashlights, a basic first aid kit, dry clothing and blankets. Allow enough for 5 days for the whole family and add enough for an extra person so as you wont go short. Also some cash as teller machines could be out for a while. Other than that Things are specific for each type of disaster. (you need other things for a earthquake than for a tidal wave or volcanic explosion.
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try writing them a letter.  you know, ones that the post office delivers.  they might have forwarded their mail if their house got destroyed
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every thing you would need for food and water for three days per person in your home, at least.\n\n-Bandaids/bandages\n-canned foods\n-canned milk (for baby, or your instant coffee!)\n-instant coffee(if you like)\n-a propane or gas grill, preferably one that is safe to use indoors\n-can opener\n-personal hygene stuffs\n-pills/medications\n-personal property proof of ownership/titles/insurance coverages\n-extra bateries\n-books/games for you or kids to do when power is out for days\n-a raft if you live in a flood zone!\n-shot records/birth cert/and the like \n-a list of emergency procedures to follow in case of natural or man made disasters hit your area, or a neighboring area. \n-plenty on safe drinking water\n-a container/sanitaion device to use for toilet purposes, because in case of disasters, the water probably wont be working-this includes the sewars!
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Go to your local Babies "R" Us store...there should be a free Baby Shower Guide full of fun shower games and ideas... ask for the store promotional coordinator... she/he should be able to give you one... Good Luck!
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Anything that you know will make your mother happy. If you can't afford a whole lot get you a jar with a lid and paint it than place slips of paper in it with little things she can request you do. Like one free hug,freedishwashing,freeday out,anevening to her self with a hot tub waiting
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The last time I did was when I was a junior in high school. Some friends had tp'd the house and my dad made me go out immediately to clean it up because rain was in forecast. We have massive trees in the front and the guy friends had a good arm. I couldn't get all of it down. My dad came outside, stood on a ladder, made a make-shift torch and was burning the toilet paper. Bear in mind that it was around 1 am. The neighbor across the street was looking out her window as my dad stood on the ladder with the torch. His pants then fell down as did the rag of the torch. There he stood on the ladder with his pants down to his ankles, the hair on his hand singed off, and the neighbor lady looking out her window. I lost it -- laughed so hard I wet my pants.
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Go to the local homeless shelter and they will set you up with all the info you need. Not to mention some food, clothing, and probably a hot shower.
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Get help.  If you are in an unsafe situation contact the police immediately.  \n\nPlease understand that you are not the only person that this is happening to.  \n\nYou should speak to someone you can trust.  I would start with your mom and then move on to your grandparents, teachers, pastor.\n\n\nPlease comment and let us know if you are okay.
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Pray as ahrd as you can for them to go then in te morning get your house blessed by a priest. if that doesn't work get your house exorcised, many people wil tell you t's your imagination etc, but from what you describe I think a blessing woul help alot.
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get a stirle jar and have a crap in the bathtub and wash the rest down the drain. and wash yourself clean after as well and clean any mess up so no one else has to deal with it
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Sit down with your parents  and tell them you love and respect them.Then show them in writing that you have a concrete plan for your future.For example the program you want to take, where you will live, budget, if you must work,etc. Also try to show you have prepared for emergencies and have alternate plans and options. Your parents will be more receptive to your wishes if you can show them you have given this plan a lot of thought and consideration.
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practice as to what they should do when there will be a fire
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During your shower or bath time might prove uncomfortable, but I'd assume your parents arent' in the habit of monitoring you during those moments. \n\nThe best method would probably be to take care of things at night, when your parents aren't likely to barge in to your room. Are they not allowing you much privacy? \n\nFemales will not produce any sort of discharge that would give them away (if you're worried about your laundry or bedsheets) except in the rarest of rare cases. \n\nIf your parents do not allow you to sleep with the door shut, they are clearly not affording you a sane degree of privacy.
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I always live by the rule " IF I HAVENT USED IT IN THE LAST YEAR- I THROW IT OUT OR DONATE TO CHARITY"  I agree with u- keeping so much from the past is ridiculous!  Just keep a few things that really mean something to u.  Or you could always get her to box them up in water proof totes and have them stored in the atic, garage, or even a storage  facility!  Try to reach a compromise like that .  Tell them how u feel and see if they would be willing to do that.  Otherwise u may be stuck in a house full of crap and will never even be able to find the kids again!  lol
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Tell your parents when they are both home.\n.Tell them when they are not busy\nOnce you start keep on going with it no matter what they so or how they react while telling them.\nBe understandable with their feelings....\n\n\n,
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Get your facts and information straight and well- organized- include names and dates whenever possible.\n\nPresent the information to the nearest TV station with an investigative or consumer help program. Even if they don't give it air time, they can still offer advice.\n\nLook in the community services section of your phone book- contact...\n- free legal aid\n- handicapped services\n- elderly services\n- United Way First Call For Help\n- Habitat for Humanity\n- anyone else that looks good\n- low-income housing programs\n\nIf either is a regular in a church, social or fraternal organization, or even a bar, let them know about the problems and see if they can help somehow.\n\nHOWEVER... let's be realistic here and face a couple uncomfortable points. \n- Low income. With that income it is unlikely that anyone will loan them any money.\n- It sounds like they were living 'off the grid' to some extent (wind/solar, apparently no insurance, etc.) This always makes it harder to get help when it becomes necessary.\n- Living in their own home may not be the best option for two disabled older people. For example, I don't think they would be at the front of the list for a donated home.\n- The father's age alone will work against him in getting some forms of help. Few programs will provide lots of money for rebuilding a house that he might not be able to stay in for a very long time.\n\nAsk for the dream, but be realistic and thoughtfully consider the options and any offers for help.\n\nGood luck!