Why do men have such a hard time with Valentines day??
110207
sometimes its hard for a man to find out what she might like and not make a mistake, but they usualy come around, if you want you can buy him something give it to him these day, so he feels bad about not getting you something, try it, lets see what happens
132906
because men are like animals cant seem to control themselves..... even if you dress a tree in a red mini skirt a man would make a pass on the tree............there is a chemical imbalance in their brain that is also in animals
218936
BC men are warriors and built for battle, our bodies are not made to be cuddled and spoiled w/ affection... instead we are built to withstand physical abuse.\n\nWhereas women are softer and need reassurance that they are protected by the man.
566125
If you are a guy your emotions are more intense, they wear them out and the effect lasts longer i.e. they don't recover as fast as women. That is why some men stay away from potentially emotional situations. I think we, the women should have respect for that, and sometimes just back off.
995957
It's because women are so much more emotional than men and for some reason we sometimes like to know if our man is thinking something good (or bad) about us. I know it probably gets annoying to men, but just have patience. Women are just wired differently than men, emotionally. And we feel the need to do things sometimes that feel perfectly normal to us but seem silly to men.
136634
I think that there should be a day of the year made for men.  I mean it's rather unfair for us to have to deal with Valentine's without any day set aside for us.  I say we get "Steak & BJ day" put onto every calendar in the U.S.  Trust me, the men would finally be grateful, and we may even be a little more enthusiastic when Valentine's rolls around.
138397
MEn forget these things, as much as it hurts some of us. Tell him how important this is to you. Thne leave hints as to when a special day is coming a few days before.
139447
Everyone want something they can have . . . it is part of human nature . . . \n\nThat is why women play hard to get with men . . . and men play the unavailable card (busy) with women.\n\nMakes us more desireable.
52434
It is believed to date back to when the Romans decided single men made better soldiers and forbade young men to marry.  Valentine arranged secret weddings and was thrown in jail to be executed.  While there he supposedly fell in love with a woman and wrote her a letter signed from your Valentine.  Yes it can be depressing for any of us single LOL
216096
men dont like the whole relationship thing simply because they get a tied down feeling....i think its alot like getting old,.... we dont want to do it mainly because we know there are things we have to give up.   maybe because we are not able to do them....
274018
Being a women, I understand how difficult men can be, but honestly, i think us women are the harder ones to understand. We say one thing, but feel another way.... We are just soo totally confusing at times!!!!! LOL
536989
It does take a while for men to get up and running again, and 6 months are not unusual.\nI suppose men are just that much more attachable and have a hard time letting go of things, I've seen cases where a simple crush gone bad had them down for several months...Just give us some time, thats all we ask ;)
376891
some guys have a hard time expressing their feelings, its not the manly thing to do, which is a shame because its what us girls want to hear. all you can do is tell him how you feel, either by talking to him or writing to him. some men are able to write there feeling down rather then talking about them. when he feels more at ease im sure he will be able to tell you his feelings.
137073
Most guys try and hide thier feelings from someone they love because they don't want to feel/ make them selves look vulnerable. They are afraid of rejection just like some of us. Sometimes they are just playing hard to get and want to make you work for it. That and the whole "boys don't cry" thing that has been ingrained by society. Society had screwed up many men...
515083
Men have been succeeding in relationships for centuries. The ones that don't get all the bad press.  When it does happen it is most likely because they have not had a good example of a long term lasting relationship to pattern them selves on. Why the good ones go unnoticed is a question too.\ntake care ~A~
159932
We don't HAVE to celebrate Valentine's Day. There is NO law that says you Have to but it is a day inwhich one can express their feelings towards their loved ones. Too bad, we don't express these feelings each and every day, isn't it?
150194
For women it is the super bowl of love.  If a guy fails to provide flowers, chocolate, a card, and some other present, he is toast.  \nFor guys, it's a day that we are expected to buy all these things that we really don't want to buy.  However, we do it without complaints because it make the woman happy and keeps us out of trouble.  \nIf you do nothing for him, then he may feel he is off the hook and can relax.  That is the nicest present you can give him.