Is it normal tobe a virgin at 13?
107379
Are you bragging or complaining? I read your other question and I think Braging. Nothing to be proud of though!
1012837
Well, the dictionary version of the word "virgin" is a person who has not had sexual intercourse.  \n\nBut I think in this case, considering that it happened to a child, the child should be reassured that they didn't do anything wrong and that even though someone touched them inappropriately, it doesn't mean that they aren't a virgin anymore. They can decide when they are no longer a virgin (when they get older and are ready to have a meaningful relationship).  Molestation is a VERY difficult situation and should be treated with concern and compassion for the child.  \n\nThere are some good healing websites out there on this subject and I would highly encourage you to seek professional counseling if you have personally experienced this or you are close to someone who has.
820946
For a 13 year old in the midst of puberty almost anything is normal.  So, enjoy it; you are a little ahead of many your age and you will come out fine as puberty finishes it's work and you become an adult. Just remember to keep yourself clean, stay in shape and always play safe.
290624
there's nothing wrong with never having been on a date or never having been kissed at the age of 13. i'm 17 now and i still haven't been on a real date or gone out with anyone for more than a month. i didn't get my first boyfriend or my first kiss until last october when i was 16. don't rush into going out with someone just because other people think that you should. your first kiss should be with someone that you really care about so that you'll be able to have pleasant memories of your first kiss for the rest of your life. you don't want to regret kissing the first person that you kiss. don't listen to what other people tell you to do. you still have plenty more years to find someone special that you want to share your first kiss with. good luck!:)
88357
sometimes. if the s e x was very rough this can happen, if it was what you could call normal, or slow, then no, go get it checked out.- oh, & it's not true if you were a virgin either, that never happend to me.
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
564175
Technically you are still a virgin since you haven't had sex yet, but some pople consider that you are no longer a virgin if you have cut off the 'maidenhead". So it depends on what you believe. But in this modern day society, you are still a virgin
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
685212
Yes I've had sex and it's great once you loose your fear of it.  If u masturbate, then think of sex being 10 times more satisfying even if u don't orhgasm...Nothing better than to have a guy in you...How old are u?  U might want to wait till u r older though...I started at 13 and maybe that was to young but I was always to curious for my own good...
185013
i think 13 is the age
546119
Im glad to hear that there r  some more smart girls in the  world than i thought!!! i live in europe and rare who loose virginity being 16 or earlier there. I know in US there is different.  Congradulations!!!  Dont be affraid...U know when i lost mine? Last  year, being 21. And im very glad about that. Cause  i found that guy who i want to be with all my life...  And  i am so proud i could had that  moment with him only.  im not sorry   i have been waiting till this moment so long. I remember the minute, wheh i told him i am still a virgin. He was. liek "wow...  im proud.."  trust me, he adores me now, cause  nowadays it is so  hard to find virgin girls..  We r going to get marriage in the future...  And i am so happy :))))))\n\nSo dont   be affraid..If u feel  this is a man u wanna be with,  of course tell him, he is going to be first. I odnt see anything u should be shame of... What going on with the world today...   Why we r trying to get adults so fast..  There r so many pure things, which we r forced to be shame of...\n\nI am with you!!!!\n\nSo wish u luck  on sharing that special moment with a guy u love and wnat to be with.   U will always rememebr that moemnt :))))))))\n\nps. sorry, if my english is not as perfect as i wish it to be :))))))))))
1008099
You should not be ashamed of being a virgin.  If you choose to be, then no one else has a right to put you down for it.  You are making the best decision in saving yourself for the right person.  You may of had chances back then, but you realize that maybe you aren't ready.  People should respect that.  If that is your choice, then don't be ashamed.  Be proud!
430743
No she is not a Virgin. Technically we refer to Virginity as not having been 'penetrated'. However, in the modern sense, Being a Virgin implies that you have never engaged in sex with a partner. If you have had oral sex with another, then you have had sex...therefore you are no longer a Virgin. Point being, if you are asking this type of question, you are too young and your partner is WAY too young to be engaging in this type of activity. Wait a few years...it will be worth it...And when you are older you will understand that I am correct.
1080232
No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
967207
at 13 if you are having the urge to masturbate then do it. just don't have sex.. you are way too young.. if you are really that interested in sex at your age you should start thinking about birth control, and other forms of protection against sexually transmitted disease's.
667931
OOPs I am still a virgin.