how can i make my husband more sexually aroused?
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Wear something skimpy. Jump on top of him and do anything that he would like. Tease him. Maybe something kinky?
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just be creatively sexy, lingerie & camisoles with matching panties and try to match them with some high heeled shoes these are jut some ideas to think of. Mind you, you want to look your sexiest! How to move...just thrust your hips and pelvis turning around from front to back and make sure you get all in his face but don't let him touch you at all! and you can choose any good music that has a great beat, if you know how to dance then you could pretty much move seductivly to any type...Good Luck, this will bring extra spice to your marriage. This lets your husband know that you still are in love with him and will do what ever you think it takes to please him and to go the extra mile for him....
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Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!! \nGo in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off? \nSneak in the shower with him...\nGo dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...\nBe laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...\nWear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...\nWhile the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!\nTurn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...\nStart getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...\nAlso do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..\nLet him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...\nput on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)\nGet a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"\nOnce he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...\nPut on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...\n\nI have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...\n\nWhen my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....\n\nRember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.\n\nGood luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!
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There's nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of women complain about less sex drive after having kids and being settled.\n\nI suggest that you make your husband horny for you. I'm guessing that sex has become somewhat of a routine for both of you. I think it will turn you on when you see that he's hot for you and can't wait till he's with you. Write him a dirty message. Rent some porn. You have to make sure that you really, really want to have sex, then it'll be easier getting an orgasm. I don't know what kind of stuff you're up for. Dirty talk is always good. Have your husband tell you how bad he wants you. \n\nBy the way, your clitoris can NOT be overstimulized by a vibrator. The nerve endings there will be intact unless you have some disease or accident that affects your nervous system.
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Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
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Hello, send your hubby an e-mail or call him and tell him that the two of you are going out one evening on a sexy date!\nSet it up in advance so that the two of you both know when it will be and can look forward to it. Pick a restaurant you both enjoy.\nWear something you know he finds sexy on you. At dinner talk about the things the two of you have done sexually that he enjoys and that you enjoy. Get him to talk about it and stay positive.\nAfter dinner, at each stop sign or stop light, kiss him and touch him! Once home, you can remove all of his clothes and tell him to lay on the bed. He can now watch you slowly remove your clothing while you tell him what your going to do to each other once you lay in bed next to him. \nYou can take it from here! \nPlan date nights together! They can be at home making a romantic meal together. You don't always have to go out.\nLight some candles, play romantic music. There are a number of things you can do. \nGood luck and have fun!
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just by being in bed with him is an amazing start. Listen...its not hard. Please him! You know? i mean...come on.  Please him is simple. There a so many thing you cna do to please him. Here is your hint : His Penis\n\n\nThats all you need to know. \n\n\n\nWhat something that will really get him happy and horny as all hell. Lay in bed with him and wisper in his ear. "tell me what you want me to do to you...."  he'll get a hard on right there and then, just those words. Most guys anyway. Good luck.
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play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
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chocolates, seafood and all sorts of things can be recomended to you, but what i recomend the most is your partner himself! I would suggest you do more kissing and more fooling around! light touches everywhere , try not to use your hands , only your mouth and tongue. tell him to do the same to you, let him know your body more! let him explore it again like when u got married, maybe you dont feel that sex drive cause things might have gotten a  little repetitive! do something new! go out of the house if you have kids or teens or whatever and go to another place and make love ther, or use sweet things like cream or chocolate, try to get some scented candles for your room and rose petals, or in the bathtub! \nANY PLACE IS GOOD FOR LOVING WHEN YOU LOVE!!!!!\ndont be afraid to explore new things! kiss his nick and then blow over it ... its nice lol \nand senses tend to react more to light touch! let him kiss you everywhere and do the same give eachother a  massage before making love and dont rush to have sex... its a  gradual thing! \nhope that helps\n\nAlinne
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If he is your husband-then you two should sit down and talk it out! If he loves you then you can find away to work this out! Even if you have to go to a marriage counselor- depending on how long you two have been married, you could just be bored with what is going on in the bedroom-just remember that men are visually aroused, for women it is more mentally aroused-if you are having a lot of stress, then your urges may just not be there at this time! You should really talk it over with him-if you love him, then this is something you need to work out-and a counselor could be something that is best for the two of you!! Good Luck!! Have a great day! :)
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For a minute there I thought I wrote this.Or maybe we've married the same man.lol.Why do they expect us to get all....excuse the saying...hot and horny from boob groping.I really cant answer u but please let me know what people suggest.The only suggestion i have is grab him roughly (u know where) when he least expects it.Let's see his arousement then!!!! lol.
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its actually a pretty common problem, he probably has ED (erectile dysfunction). There are meds that REALLY work, i think cialis is best. he probably will be pretty sensitive to talking about it, so bring it up gently. you don't want to be plagued with this your whole marriage. also, you need to be able to communicate about EVERYTHING, even sensitive topics like this. good luck!
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You could try a few things, some of which you might find awful, but I'll list a few.  Others can add to the list:\n\nMake sure he finds YOU to be good in bed.\n\nGet sex ed books, tapes, DVDs.  Read & watch with him.\n\nTry using porn.  Show him what you like on the movie.\n\nGo to sex therapy.\n\nGo to regular old marriage counseling.\n\nI wish you all the best.  I'm sorry if some of my answers sound crude, but sometimes, crude works.
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Stay. There is sooo much you can do to improve sex. Maybe just talk to him, give him gentle hints. Maybe add some toys or videos. Maybe you both can learn alternate ways to please each other. Go on line, maybe Dr. Ruth has a website that can be helpful.
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you might need to have more foreplay before the actual intercourse.  get your husband to play with you and spend more time turning you on so that your vagina losens up and gets more lubricated.  or you can just use some KY or some other lubricant and tell him to go slowly.
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ask him wat would really turn him on in bed something use have never done b4\nmake it excieting\nplan a night where hes out make sure the kids(if u have any) r sound asleep in bed  dress up in sexy underwear\nlight a few candles and wait for him to come home\nhell be well surprised\n\ngood luck
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I think you should go see a sex theripest and they can help you with your sex drive and lustful feelings. I also think you should speak to your husband befre you get married about this he needs to know that you want to please him but don't want him upset if he can't please you. Do not fake orgasms it is just insulting to them if they ever find out.