How to you tell your boyfriend that you love with all your heart that u r moving ,without hurting him ?
115750
tell him a good reason why your moving and if he doesn"t understand then honey your wasting you time with him tell him if you love me you will understand me!
4075
Just tell him how you feel, call him up and tell him that you still love him and need him, if he feels the same(which is a 99% chance) then he will come running back to your arms.
457372
you were right. you shouldnt lead him on if you dont feel the same way. the same thing happened to me with my boyfriend and he respected that those feelings hadnt developed for me. eventually i knew for sure that i love him, so when i told him he knew it was real and not a cop out. honesty and trust are the most important things in a realtionship, so never lie.
547965
Tell him you love him and that you woudn't cheat on him and that it hurts you. Tell him that if he won't stop, he would lose you 'casue you can't have a realtionship without trust!
355934
just show him that you care... just remember to be yourself .See if there is a reaction from him, if he loves you back, little by litle he would stop playing. Without saying any words you should make him feel the way you feel!
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
985859
I think Love is a choice, and as for the telling him you Love him . the best thing to do is say i LOVE the way you...(fill in the blanks) or I Love it when you.... and one way to get him to feel it for you is to copy cat him. not outright bu if he laughs ,laugh back. if he is at dinner and gets a sip of tea, pick your glass up, non chalantly. DO NOT BE OBVIOUS.  when u do this it sends a subliminal message to him that you two really click. he wont know why he feels like that but he will for sure feel it. when he talks be "intrigued " never look away when he is talking. and take an opportunity to touch his hand or pat him on the shoulder or the famous gentle brush against him on the way to the car or in the house. men dont remember what u wore or what the conversation was about they remember the touch and the feeling of connection.the scent you wore and the size of your butt and boobs...COME ON GUYS ...AM I TELLING A LIE?
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Hi,\nhen I wanted to tell my bf the first time how I felt, It has to be the right moment, my moment was walking through a fair holding hands and then I just looked at him and it came clear this was the time to tell him, so all I said was, 'you know what...I love you'\nand then it was just fine after that, he picked me up in his arms and twirled me and then said I love you too.\nIt was great, but like I said it has to be the right time.\njust say it like you mean it, ok?\nGood luck! (^_^)\n\nCowgirl In Need~
995967
I think that maybe you scared to say it. You don't want to let your guard down and get hurt. Whatever the case may be if you do love him you should tell him no matter how hard it is for you. Love is not something you want to let slip through your fingers because you couldn't tell him how you really feel. How badly would you be hurt if he left you? Not showing him the proper love he deserves may push him away or make him want more out of the relationship that you aren't will to give to him. I f you love him don't let him go, it will be way harder to let him go that to tell him how you really feel.
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If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
888364
Let's back up one step.\n\nI suspect that there is a good reason you have recently begun "telling him how passionately and deeply you love him".  You feel insecure about his love, and are hoping he will affirm his devotion to you.\n\nYou should feel insecure!  After all you've given your heart and body to him for six years yet he hasn't shown you a committed kind of love - by asking you to marry him.   You just keep giving yourself and giving yourself hoping to keep him, hoping to coax him into loving you more, hoping that his devotion to you is equal to your (desperate) feelings for love-security.\n\nForget wanting his words of affirmation.  Words are cheap - used car salesmen and politicians use lots of nice words.\n\nGet a commitment or tell him to get lost.\n\nThen you will know.
717472
the best way to deal with love is to lay it on the line.  your heart is broken without him, you cant lose much more by telling him how you really feel.  i say honesty is the best policy and if he loves you too, hell take you back especially since its not because you did somethign stupid.  you just told him no, but realize your mistakes now.  tell him you love him - im sure he will be incredibly happy!
917313
I'm not gonna be a jerk and say go up to him and say I love you so I can get my 2 points. Anyways, a nice way to do it is to kiss him and tell you you love him... but if your shy (like me) you could do it on the phone when your saying bye... you dont gotta sound all serious you can be like LOVE YA!\ngood luck!!!
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Tell HIM/HER I love you.
763362
ok... i dont know you or your man, so i can only tell you what i do know. i have been with my man. i met him online and we became friends. after 1 month of chatting, he left to South America for a month. when he got back , we met up and started our relationship that same day. after 2 weeks, i knew that i loved him. but i held it in, and didnt say anything. 3weeks... i thought that he felt the same and we were doing as you are- telling each other how we felt about each other and all that jazz... anyway, after the fourth week had past, i was lying in his arms morning after valentines day, and i was thinking how wonderful everything was and how much i love him.. and i couldnt not tell him any more. so i told him. and he just smiled. he said thank you and that he just needed a little time to decide how he feels, but that the fact that i told him that i love him wont scare him away. anyway... 3days later, i get home and he is in my bed (he lives an hour and a half away, so that was a big deal) and he had a single red rose. he told me that he loved me and that he doesnt want to lose me. Its been 10 months now and i have no intention f leaving this man. he feels the same. We told each other a month into the relationship and everything was fine. My point, after that rather long winded saga, is that, if you are meant for each other, then telling him, should be the least of your worries and you should be secure in your relationship enough to have the confidence to tell him. dont wait for him to tell you first. chances are that he is confused and trying to sort his head out too. men arent complicated creatures. just silly ones. lol. if you love him, tell him. everything will be fine hun. trust in yourself and your relationship. \nDont wait on men. lol. You're a woman. Be a strong one.\ngoodluck to you hun\nxxx
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Sometimes you can't make a clean break with love. The emotion is just too intense. If you are like me...once you love, you always love. It never really goes away. Personally, I would drive to his house and be sitting on his porch step when he arrives home from work. I would stand there and wait for him to walk up to me and I would simply say......"I love you." He'll know you mean it......nothing else will need to be said. The gesture will say it all. But the point is......you need to tell him!! Good luck!