What do you think about dating in the workplace?
101863
You really need to be careful on this one. If it's a career and not just a job, I suggest NO. If it's a job, and not your career...it's probably okay.\n\nIf it's a professional career, you really could lose your entire career. You never know what will happen if you take that chance. People can get very crazy sometimes...worst case scenario: Someone who seemed reasonable at first can turn into someone who actually files a lawsuit against you and/or your company. Chances are these days, they could win the suit, and you could lose everything you own, plus your company could have to fork out a big settlement.\n\nThese things really do happen, so be careful. If you're in a "career job", if you fall deeply in love, one of you probably should quit and get another similar position elsewhere...then nothing is holding you back.
990329
In this day and age I would say no but it really depends on what this person means by it.  I've had female co-workers call me that and I wasn't offended because I know they aren't flirting with me. I think of it as sort of a term of endearment.  But if a this guy is trying to get a date or just in your pants then I'd have to say no.
817805
go for it, young lady!\n\nnothing wrong at all with keeping your options open.\n\nIn fact, until you are finished with your education and have your career going, normally around the age of 25, you shouldn't even be in a committed relationship, but should be dating different guys... ideally as many as you can manage, and as many as are dumb enough to buy you expensive gifts, vacations, and dinner dates at expensive restaurants.\n\nmore power to you!
707120
Open communication is usually best. Don't date people from work. You're at work to work; be professional, not personal. Why poison the well you drink from?
1147258
Once you are out of school, work becomes where you spend most of you time. Most people meet friends and mates through work. It's a great place to meet people. If you want to date, then date. Who cares what others think?
733808
I had two workplace romances a long time ago.  Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up.  How long have you worked with him?  Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak?  If so, keep away.  If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
892726
Work relationships are bad news.\n\nFocus on someone that is not in your business world.
700932
Dating and working. Working & playing. Sounds contradictory, right? \n\nWrong.\n\nYou can no more control your heart than you can stop breathing. \nBut ask yourself if what you are feeling is LOVE or LUST.\n\nDating a co-worker (to your EMPLOYER) means you have been slacking off on his time-clock; something that may cause problems between you and the co-worker in the future. By merely posing the question, you indicate your fear of on-the-job-involvement. You are attracted to him/her, but you are afraid to commit.\n\nThink about what that means. You are not SURE about this co-worker, are not prepared for a failed relationship among your peers, and are reluctant to completely give of yourself before you know answers.\n\nI have learned that "when in doubt, DON'T." \n\nYou have made a valid point. If things don't work out between you, more than likely, EVERYONE at the job will know about it. \n\nBesides being "awkward," you risk losing your job, your reputation and your appeal to perhaps, a more suitable partner.\n\nBUT - on the other hand...\n\nLove (true love, that is) has NO Address. This means it is entirely possible for you to meet your soulmate while dating a co-worker. \n\nTherefore, my advice is for you to: \n1. GO SLOW (don't rush into anything)\n2. GO PUBLIC (get to know him/her initally in the company of other co-workers at a restaurant, snack bar, etc.)\n3. GO AWARE (learn about his/her past relationships. You just may be another conquest or victim #___ on their playa's list)\n\nEnjoy the attention but always be aware of the RISKS. And if true love prevails, welcome it. \n\nI wish you well, my friend. Thanks for posting your question.
456416
Well, I think the best way is to just start up conversations with them.  Its the man's job to ask the woman out so if he's not asking you out he's not really a man, or has no interest in you.  You could always drop a hint and give him your number after having a good conversation.  As for dating co-workers...I work in an environment where TONS of people are happily married and met at work.  In fact, it's more like a family atmosphere where a lot of people have the same last names.  2 mature adults are able to have a relationship regardless of where they work if they are still able to treat eachother with respect after breaking up.
202915
Not recommended.  What if you two break up?  Harassment in the work space.  If you or he were willing to transfer to another department or company, I'd say go for it.
1095798
Yes! If it works out...you can spend the afternoon getting to know one another...if it doesn't...well, perhaps you have other plans. \n\nIt's a "safe" date. \n\nGrace to you and God bless!
761551
If he was hardworking and not planning to bum around, definitely. I can think of a few men I'd consider dating even if they lost their jobs today. But to job search for 3 months and not do anything in the meantime isn't good.. especially if they are stingy with money and welcome me to pay for things.\n\nCome to think of it, I did date a guy who was out of work 2 years ago. He didn't really have a life goal/interest careerwise and it took him months to even get a job teaching snowboarding part time. I don't care if you work at freakin McDonald's, just be a man!! This was a turn-off.
985892
Well, it is not advisable, but it is not wrong. Work is a place where you interact with others, get to know them well, see sides that u would not normally see. I personally met my wife while working together in the same company. We dated for 3 years and got engaged while we both worked together. Managment was cool, we did not have any problems, but fortunatly I was able to find another job a few months before our wedding. I do not have any regrets, neither does she.
852432
I have read that most long term couples meet at work.  That's where I met the man I am with.
394293
It depends on the role you would be playing out...\nIf you are playing out the employee you rather don't.  It is never good to get job and personal relationship mixed.\n\nIf you get on well beyond the ties of work... you could find the way.  \n\n'A crush'= well, it seems you really like her but since you describe it precisely as 'a crush' it seem this wouldn't last at all.\n\nI wouldn't like my ex to be my boss... neither my employee to by my ex... If you think it worths the pain go on... but if this won't last you might set off your worker role as the prior...
946790
she is definitely into you however workplace romance is almost never a good idea she could be trying to get promoted or even set you up for a lawsuit
207695
It's nobody else's business who you go out with,you shouldn't be concerned about your collegues' opinion of\nyour personal life. However,gossip is one of the biggest\nproblems with office relationships. If you don't want to deal with it,then you better not date him.\n Be aware of your company's position on this kind of thing.\nIn some places it can get you fired,so that's something else\nto consider.