what do I do, when I feel that my girlfreind is always 'fooling around' on me, and we even live together?
107017
Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.
1109267
I am sure your GF is smart and sensitive enough to know when someone is trying to manipulate her into doing something she is not comfortable with. As long as you give her the feeling you are forcing or manipulating her, she will feel you don't care much about her or her feelings and comfort level. She may eventually come to resent you for this.\n\nGet in a space first that you love her and are happy with her with out her "putting out" during this time. Use this time for other kinds of closeness. Belive me, she will love you for this. She knows your wishes, if and when she feel ready, she will let you know.
552447
Be sensible. She's your girlfriend, not your possession. Do you have a reason not to trust her? Can you talk to her about it? If not, and it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Does she have good reason you'll beat a male friend for looking at her? If so, maybe she isn't the one with the problem!\n\nPossessiveness makes an intelligent gal want to cheat. Girls like showing off their bodies- it's what we do. If you have a faithful loving relationship with this girl, then talk to her about your insecurity! There's a good chance it is founded in nothing. If you do not have a good relationship then what are you staying in it for?\n\nThe issue here sounds like a lot more than her going swimming with her friends! Ask yourself what it really is, and then deal with it.
466374
Confront her. If she really is cheating, dump her. I'm sure you deserve someone much better than her. She's not worth your time. You deserve someone who will support you when you're away and not be talking to other guys. \n\nP.S. Thank You for serving our country. :)
1063167
just walk away when she acts that way \nbecause of her hormones she loves you too they all act that way sometimes so be patient with her and, give a little space.
637856
Nothing is wrong persay....You are like me in a way....maybe your trust has been broken to the point where it is very difficult to feel like trusting....trust me (lol) I know where your coming from. Remember to take your time with a possible solistice mate.....Trust will be there.  You do have to take a risk and not run away once in a while...Risk is what the "Game of Looooooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeee" is all about.
532318
Talk to her and let her know how you feel.  It sounds like she's starting to weigh you down.  It's obvious you care about her but, this might not be the right person for you.  You have to ask yourself if you are getting anything positive out of this relationship and if they are the things you want in life.  If you're not, then it's time to move on.
468408
I would talk to her about this first, maybe she does not realize she does that and it depends on what your doing, also.  If you love her, be open and honest with her on how this makes you feel and then if she continues doing this, I would find someone that makes me happy.  Good Luck
235554
If you do not know who your girlfriend is, then you have some serious issues. GO check yourself into a psychiatric ward.... YOU NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!
488010
It's good that you seem like a good man if you are showing all the signs that you love and care for her. However, your girl seems to have had enough of you for whatever reason. I think she may feel overwhelmed by the living arrangement you guys have chosen and she finally figured out that she needs her space. Maybe living together put a strain on the relationship and she feels smothered. You can't make her stay if she so desperately wants to go.
703748
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455662
You feel that you cheated on her,even though she gave you permision.\nYour a lucky guy to have such permision,treat her to full body massage.
156100
Lol this is difucult situation.Maybe that girl is not grown up enough to be with you or with someone normal who is not tolerating that "b i t c h" kinda behaviour.\nU should try someone else or if u inlove with her very much try to make thingz like she does.Go and hang with other girls and maybe she will think twice for the thingz she does!\nIf u cannot do that then try to talk with her and force her to explain to you what is happening between both of you!Tell her to be honest and not to lie
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
955010
She's playing you like a fool. She is nothing but trouble and heartache. The only future with her is more misery. Run like hell and do not look back. Don't let her back into your life for ANY reason.
560212
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
258030
she a flirt & she is feeling you... So when you catch her alone you know what to do make her want you more if she trys to pull you back... and obviously she aint care bout her man so that aint your promblem... good luck!!!!