Are there medications that can help women that have trouble orgasming?
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Yes there may be talk to your obgyn about it.
521945
Yes.  I have a female friend who was prescribed Viagra for a low libido. She has had great success with it.
372049
In many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation. Your health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation. Medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor medications (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medications are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use. Please see your doctor to determine what method works for you.
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Most women who have trouble with orgasming have problems with the strength of the muscles of the vaginal wall.  Even when they do orgasm, it isn't very intense and it's hard to tell.\n\nA healthy woman though will have strong muscles.  When she orgasms, these muscles squeeze down on you hard.\n\nIf your woman doesn't do this, get her one of these and have her strengthen her muscles.  You'll be very glad you did:\n\nhttp://www.kegelmaster2000.com/
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by chance are you on any sort of medications, such as anti depresents or anything else of that nature?  heart meds?  those can often affect peoples abilty to orgasim properly or normally. also some people never have internal orgasims from intercourse only... its a really high % of women that are wired that way.  so try what works and learn what works through trial.
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You really don't need medicine! Just learn to control your pace. You can practice with masturbation. You just go until you are close to cumming...but stop short and take a break until that feeling subsides...and then continue again. You can really learn to go as long as you want...and oh that ejaculation will feel good when it finally happens (which is whenever you and/or your partner want it to!). Of course when you are f---ing, you need your partner's co-operation in stopping the friction (her moving too!) when you tell her you are getting close. It takes some practice but it works! As a short term solution I would suggest jacking off a couple of hours before you have sex with your partner. The second ejaculation should definitely take longer.
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orgasms release endomorphins which are like our bodies own morphine. That is what causes anxiety.  Endomorphins also decrease headaches, so your wife has no excuse anymore.  Good luck.
808709
Drugs that are being used to treat PE are selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors.  Paxil, Lexapro, Prozac etc.  Delay in orgasm or the inability to have an orgasm while taking these drugs is a VERY common side effect.  There are other side effects too. Talk to your Doctor about dosage and whether or this is right for you....
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1) A desentizing cream or lotion, but be advised that it can transfer over to the woman and cut her pleasure as well.\n\n2) Change of position. One that does not offer as much stimulation as another.\n\n3) Understanding the signals tha tyour body gives, so you can slow down, back off or stop altogether.\n\n4) There is a book out there called the Squeeze Technique witch helps in delaying orgasm, but I may not have the title right.
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Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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My husband takes Effexor XR. He is on 300 mg. We have seen a somewhat decreased sexual desire from him, but not much else. At first, he had problems havig an orgasm (it took a lot longer than usual) but that was when he was on 375 mg. \n\nEveryone is different though, and the effects depend on the dose.
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i might be able to help if you want it. there are some herbs that can help with your problems. contact me and i will give you a list of them. herbs do cost but not as much as rx meds. but my information is free.
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Women and men? I can see how it might help some women I've known achieve orgasm more easily. One in particular had a hard time getting there because she couldn't relax enough; she couldn't breathe (Either that or I wasn't up to par...) We tried breathing exercises, which didn't really work. I wonder if staring at something, particularily something smooth and soothingly blue, might serve as a sort of meditative object, a way to focus attention and thus relax. To turn off the mind, so to speak. The mind can get in the way when you're trying to let yourself go orgasmically.\n\nAs for men, I don't know. Can men experience different levels of intensity in orgasm? I think I'll ask this question....
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Welburtin as someone else said is the only really effective one that has no sexual side effects. Zoloft, Prozac, other SSRIs and Effexor  and Cymbalta can cause this in some and not in others, It is a crap shoot. Some doctors have done some trials where they told their patients to stop taking the meds on a Thursday so they could get it on over the weekend and start again Sunday morning and had some success. I am sorry I do not have a reference for you but you could talk to your doctor about it. I personally would rather be depressed than have a limp noodle, but that is just me.\n\nOh, and I forgot to add that the drug companies are scrambling to make an ssri that doesn't cause sexual side effects because it is going to be a huge money maker, so give that some time.
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I have already readed it, it's very usefull.\n"\nA Bigger Better Orgasm \n\nBoth men and woman can use the following techniques to make orgasms longer, stronger, more intense and, ultimately, more healthful. \n\n1. GAIN PELVIC MUSCLE CONTROL The pubococcygeal (PC) muscle group, which supports the pelvic floor, is the one that spasms when you have an orgasm. If it's in good shape, more blood will flow to the pelvic area during arousal and the PC will contract more strongly, making orgasms last longer and feel more intense. To paraphrase a statement about scientific discovery, "Orgasm favors the prepared body." Kegel exercises are a simple way to strengthen PC muscles. To do them, squeeze the muscle you use to voluntarily hold back your urine. Hold for two seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day. \n\n2. CONTROL VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS IN SEX You may already realize that some of the phenomena happening to your body during sex are under your control. While you cannot voluntarily increase and decrease your heart rate, you can take charge of various voluntary activities and thereby improve your sexual sensations. \n\nAs you approach orgasm, try speeding up your breathing and alternately tensing and relaxing your arm or leg muscles. During another session of lovemaking, practice squeezing or fluttering your PC muscle. The main behavioral principle is to choose one physical aspect of orgasm that you can control and overpractice it. Soon you will have trained your body so that all of these responses will work together effortlessly and occur spontaneously during future orgasms. \n\n3. MONITOR YOUR AROUSAL LEVELS As you make love, note your arousal levels on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm. As you reach each level, briefly stop and allow your arousal to subside so that rather than shooting straight for the moon, your arousal rises in a wave-like pattern. This technique, known as peaking, results in intense orgasms, possibly because it optimizes endorphin release. \n\nIn a related exercise, plateauing, squeeze your PC muscle, change your breathing, change your focus or change your speed in order to stay at high arousal levels for a long time prior to orgasm. Learning peaking and plateauing with a partner helps you develop a shared language of arousal and orgasm. "
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THERE ARE PILLS YOU CAN TAKE, BUT I'M NOT 100% SURE IF THEY ACTUALLY WORK. YOU USUALLY HAVE THE MOST CUM IF YOU DON'T JACK-OFF FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS.
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I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)