Asking a girl out that is your best friend and she is straight?
107572
if she is your BEST FRIEND, tell her how you feel. tell you don't want to put her in an awkward situation, but that you need to let her know, for your own sanity at the very least. being your best friend, she may be able to accept you even if you like her, but she may also turn away from you. remember that whatever you do, you risk your friendship with her. if she does decide that she likes you back, then great! on one last note, DO NOT TELL HER IF SHE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP.
206688
If you have been friends with her for that long, you should be comfortable enough to ask her flat out, "why are you feelin' my butt?" I'm not into that. "  Ask her flat out if she's gay. And if she is, remember she is still the same girl you knew, just with a different sexual orientation than you.  Tell her to lay off the comments and the touching! Good luck!
215500
Friends look out for friends. Ask her because she knows if her close friend is good for you. My bestfriends never hook me up with close friends unless they prove that they can be in a relationship.
272425
Simple! Just be straight, don't wait around, just say 'Do you want to go out with me?' and tell her how you feel about her and why you like her. Good luck (I hope she says YES)!
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
1019198
tell her you dont want to lose her as a friend but your 100% straight and only into males - also tell her your flattered by her interest - but you would rather forget it ever happened and just carry on as before hope this helps :-)
376224
Do you two spend any time alone? Like studying or just hanging out? DOn't just ask him just because all of your friends have a boyfriend. If he is your best friend, then you should have no problem asking him if he has a girlfrir=end. If he ask you why are you asking? Just tell him that you are curious that's all. Leave it at that no matter what his answer is. If it is a no then wait a few days or weeks and if you are comfortable then ask him the big question. Try this:"I was wondering, I know we are best friends and I am glad that we are. But how do you feel if we take it a step further? But I also don't want our friendship to mess up if you say no or we break up. I feel really comfortable around you and I like you alot. What do you think" After this just pt=ray he says yes. Also talk to your parents first and ask them what you think. Because they are your parents and they will be driving you two around if you hook up. Because if you don't have the ok it will mess up your relationship big time with him or anyone else. Good luck.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
931529
well is your friend ok with you flirting with him?well then just ask him out he'll say yes to you
411076
DO YOU REALLY NEED TO ASK?OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT THE BEST IDEA.IT MIGHT BE FUN AT FIRST BUT I GUARANTEE THERE WILL BE COMPLICATIONS.FOR EXAMPLE DO YOU WANNA MAYBE END UP WITH HER?WHAT IF YOU DO END UP TOGETHER AND SHE DOES THE SAME TO YOU?AND EVEN IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH HER SOMEONE ELSE DOES AND THATS JUST MEAN TO DO TO HIM.
1140595
Just tell her how you feel.  If she's a friend she'll understand.  And if she's not BI, there are plenty of other girls that are BI, so finding another shouldn't be hard.  Also your friend might just not want to face the fact that she is BI.  Or she just doesn't want to wreck your friendship because as we all know, once friends start getting intimate, their friendship is at risk.  Hope this helped.
771992
Ask her out.  If she says no, just tell her, "Oh, (insert buddy's name here) wanted to see if you wanted to go on a date."  If she likes you, good.  If not, date her best friend.  Be sweet and kind and generous and make that girl jealous.  She'll be jealous and want you or be so tired of hearing of you and her best friend, she'll kill you. One of the two.\nAnd a good prezzie... jewelry... candy... rose... stuffed animal... something corny and stereotypical.
691521
depends, if you are helping ur friend out i will do it... but if u like the girl also, u must think what's better, friendship or some girl!
1118790
I don't think it makes you bi at all. You don't want to do anything sexual with her you just want to be the best friends ever. If you start feeling like you want to do sexual things with her and other girls then maybe you would be considered bi but you don't. You are just a girl who loves her best friend.
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.
509792
You are a guy, and he is a guy, right?  Makin sure I understand the question.  True friends are the BOMB, but if you are a guy and not gay, then just tell him like it is - you like women, you love him as a friend, but ya just don't go that way ... if he's a true friend, he'll understand and won't hold it against you.  You've been brave and strong enough to be his friend - even though he's gay and you're not ... if I'm getting this right - you've gotta be true to yourself just as he is true to himself.  Just put it out on the table the way it is ... the truth is always the best policy.  You might tell him if you were gay, he would be the first one you'd come to, but you're not.  He'll appreciate your honesty I think, and you will be closer friends for it.  And if I'm wrong and you're a female with a gay best friend - they are good friends, and I've found, real, honest, down-to-earth people, so....same advice.
917903
If she's with someone else now, don't do it.\n\nIf you're both available, just ask her what she thinks about it. Say something like, "We've been friends forever and we get along so well. Do you think we could ever date? Or would that just wreck things?"