how do you know if his love is real or fake?
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Judge his love by his actions,not so much by his words. Does he kiss you tenderly and tell you he loves you often?\nDoes he introduce you to others with great zeal?Does he ask you often if there is anything he can do to make you happy?\nDoes he bring you little gifts often to show that you are constantly on his mind and heart? Do you have great communications between your and your mate? Does he ask you if there is anything you need? Use what I have said as a guideline. Good luck.
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That is what called real love. He is really loving you and don't want to make disturb you by inviting you in his life.  If you could more happiness than he can deliver, he is more satisfier than anybody.\n\nHe is really loving you.  Don't think negatively.  Be positive.
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You'll just have a deep inner peace.  You won't have to second guess whether or not he is honest, sincere, and faithful.  If you have to guess at any of those then your internal/spirit man is telling you something isn't right.  Sometimes we have to take a big step back to really see someone.  Good luck to you!
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If in doubt, don't.  That's a good rule for every aspect of life. Sounds like you may be having some doubt, just by the way you asked if there's a "test."  The true test is the test of time.  If he and you are able to make it this far, then love will wait. Love doesn't just ...go away.   Let things take their course.  If you truely love him, and he loves you, then things will fall into place on their own.  Best of luck to you!
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Assure him you love him. He will communicate if he believes in you.
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Follow your instincts,they are usually right. If you don't feel comfortable and are asking this question here there is probably some playing going on.\n\nWhen real love,true love comes into your life,there are no doubts,no fears. There is trust and endless happiness.
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You can't. Unfortunately, you've heard it before, there are no guarantees. If you really love him, then you take the risk - that's what makes true, successful love so precious. \nIf you are unsure of his intentions then take it slow - there is no law that for magical passion you have to jump right in. You can gain that same magic by enjoying your relationship and letting it progress at a omfortable, secure pace.
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First thing I ask myself... Is he fake? There are a lot of people who put on acts, trying to be someone that this particular person expects of them. Then they lose who they really are. So being real, and always yourself, is most important. That takes care of honesty too.\nAlso I do like a person with a sense of humor. Someone who likes to share thoughts, and be a best friend to their partner. Of course there has to be attraction. :)
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Does he make you feel truly loved, do you feel a real connection when making love, and does he also meet your needs? If the answer is yes then he loves you.
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You will know....its not like you will sit around and be like....i wonder if this is love. If your love is b/c the other person makes you feel good...its not real love. Real love is self sacrificing and takes a long time to develop. Months, years even, and you have to genuinely know the person. Its not an emotion.
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His actions will tell you.  Love is a verb and requires action.  Does he keep his word and promises. Have you met his parents, friends, co-workers.  Do you spend quality time with you and does he call you frequently.   \n\nWhat are his actions like outside the bed room.  This is how you can tell if he loves you.  If he is only attentive during sex....don't count on it being love.
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he looks at you calmly. they say love is a calming feeling. when he says anything, you feel he is not lying about anything.
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Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
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you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
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It's a tough one.  Anybody can say that they love someone over a phone or in an email but you can't really know unless you're with the person.  When you two do get together, see how he is around you and you'll know.  It's a lot harder to lie about your feelings in person than over the phone/email/etc.
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Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
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well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you