How can I make my dream life become my real life after 35 years old?
111766
Get into either greed (materialism) or spirituality as soon as possible and give it everything you’ve got.  You should know from your dreams which is your path.
887868
Hey Tasha, you are in the best time of your life. Just ask me I am 68 and still poor. Remeber a man or woman who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination
916885
,  you are not off to a late start-your timing is great .with modern medicine advanced the way it is ,women can start families in their 40's .please wait!-at least until you are in your thirties. establish your career -your own identity. Make sure you have yourself financially established -great credit , etc. . invest your own money in   property (houses). pay off student loans, then enjoy being a couple ,take trips and really build on your friendship with your boyfriend.
45520
It depends on what makes you happy. I went back to school at age 38 and finished both a bachelors and masters degree. It is a little tougher getting an entry level job as an older worker, but your extra life experience will always give you advantages over the younger competition. I say start out easy, perhaps at a junior college, build your confidence and then go for it at a full four-year institution. I was inspired by a female friend who became a new lawyer at age 48. It's never too late to do what you want.
550407
If you aren’t happy with what you are doing, change because eventually you will become bitter with thoughts of lost opportunity.  Let your interests be your guide.  Don’t let the “can’t do” get in the way.  Think about why you like your interests and what about them would make others pay money for some element of them.  Then how could you supply such to them.\n\nBy the way, forget about age, 35 is so young.  I’m 65 and working on four different ideas for what will be my third business.  Remember, the worse that can happen is that you fail.  If so, just take a night off, celebrate, and the next morning begin a new idea.
522647
Country!!!! I am 30 years old
1119898
It's a really good thing that you are conscious of  why you feel that and even better is that you have the will change it. Everything that I could say is theoretically because only you will be who will have to be brave to take the next step. \nYou have to realize that past it's past, we can't live there, there are more because there is always tomorrow.\nYou have to think about what are your motivations, think that it's never late to get your dreams or to make things better for you and your beautiful children.\nAnd one more important thing, there is no reason to believe that you can't be happy, Why not? happiness is there, get it! \nyou're special cause you are a survivor of your tragedies now it's time to be happy and give the best of you to your children.\nGood luck, God bless you.
803442
your married not dead .\n\nyou can dream all you want .as long as you don't act it out in real life .\nso dream on no worries
321753
I ask the same question all the time.  I'm 29 going to be 30 in September.  Just remember, the time schedule we made out for ourselves in our minds isn't what life follows.  It will happen when it's time to happen.  Just remember to get out there and go to new places and be seen.  Someone will notice. Who cares if it happens this year or 4 years from now.  Just remember you are great and it will happen.
751862
You can be thirty and a doctor, or thirty and not a doctor.  If you're lucky, you will eventually be thirty anyway, and you might as well have achieved a dream like becoming the physician you want to be by that time.  And lots of physicians have children, so one doesn't rule out the possibility of the other.  Life will be stressful, but stress isn't always a bad thing.  In fact, the stress of achieving is often less than the stress of not being in control of your own life, so you can be stressed and happy too.  I'm assuming that you are still young, and if I were you, I would go for it.  You can always change your mind later on if you realize this is not really the life you wanted for yourself, but don't sell yourself short by giving up now.
315363
You need to stop this fantasy ASAP. All you are doing is creating drama - You are either bored in your marriage, or are having problems that you'd rather avoid. Maybe you're thinking he can get you out of a situation, or "rescue" you in a sense.....Maybe you're not happy with where you are at in life at 34, and are trying to relive certain aspects of your younger life, before you made the choice to become a married woman...? Whatever the case, please recognize this for what it is......An unrealistic diversion from your REAL life. You can't possibly fix whatever is going on with your marriage until you devote to it 100% - And the preoccupation with this young (kid) will interfere with that. My advice would be to come back to reality, before you take this attraction to some other level, and come back asking what you should do then........
789461
wait...whats the rush? I'm 30 and i wish i was still one
926322
Easy one for me, most of it is over and done with.\n\nDon't worry, adulthood comes in plenty good time, no hurry.\n\nBetter to build up a lot of good memories than start to worry about the future that much, unless you are one of those soulless individuals fixated on money.
974297
Just sit and visualise...ur to-be wife as a working woman. Also try and visualise her as a home maker..which dream you like better? thats the answer to ur confusion.
263037
I LOVE your questions!! Now that that's out of the way: YES!!! I want to do SO MUCH and i'm already 36. I feel like time is running out, and I've got 2 kids, who need me, and when and how am I going to fit in all these things??
302106
My wife is now 33, and she's more beautiful now than when she was 23. Your question somehow gets me. Are you wanting to be wanted by a bunch of young dumb skirt-chasers? Did you let yourself go over the last 15 yrs? I'm not feeling that about you, it's just the wording of your question. Kinda hints your a little lost in direction is all. So what, you're 35. If you were attractive at 20, I'm sure you are now. You need to focus on where you are at now, not where you were before and what happened.\nYou don't make up for lost time, because you can't go back in time. You can only learn from experience and try to not make repeat mistakes. Just try to make improvements a day at a time.\nRemember that your state of mind reflects on your appearance. So, if you are depressed, down in the dumps angry, you won't get as much attention or looks as when you are happy and vibrant. Be content with who you are now, and enjoy your life on this planet.......it's short ya know. GBWY
1057132
you must have a high level of brain disorder if you think you can retire at 35