how do i get back this guy who weve been writing to each other for months but has suddenly stopped writing?
117675
Embrace the Zen that is the internet and realize that you are far bigger than that and if you really waste your time on negative energy pursuing him, he has in fact won.  Let go of pursuit and start talking to other guys-its not as if the internet is short on them.
211875
Been there. He may just be lonely. Be Kind. Give him a chance. If not,be friends and write back.
825527
Dont contact him or your "FIRED" :P\n\nHe is a nice guy in reality.
338261
You should just write a sincere but businesslike letter.  Of course, it depends why you missed this person, but writing a letter is a good instinct.\n\nHope it works out!
916730
First thing you do is stop talking to him. Next, you get yourself enrolled in a good english program where they teach you how to write and spell. :)
616620
Just write him and explain that while you think he is a very nice person and that you've enjoyed your interactions; you've realized that a relationship isn't going to work out because of the distance factor (which is totally valid by the way) and that you've decided you need to end the communication.  His reaction is NOT your issue to deal with.  If you are polite and honest you've behaved honorably.
127652
The question is, are you absolutely sure he knows who sent it? He might be in the dark here, looking for a mysterious admirer. Did you tell hiom where should he leave his reply message so that you could get it? I would assume not, that would entail the risk of being recognized. So, I would try to find out his feelings by anonymously contacting him through an email.
87969
wait maybe he can't get to a computer, is too busy, ect.. Keep writing him so he knows that you care.
661915
don't call him anymore.. but if you reallyyyyy wanna talk to him (which you prob should just to clear things up) you could try sending a text or IM and seeing if he responds..
594809
i am in this situation. i have not seen this guy in 3 years. we talk online and message on the phone but i saw him two weeks ago and i had no idea what to say.  what i did was ask how hid day went and get talking on stupid things and the ice is broken. Just relax and it will come to you especially if you really like this person. Life is about screw ups. If all comes to fail say something really stupid and the both of you willl laugh about it later.
749079
if i got a love letter, then i would think about it all the time, but i would try to hide it. send him another one but this time give some random clues about who it is, but make it mysterious. by the way, i think wat u guys r doin is hilarious.
763130
Email him and say... Hey just thinking about you. I have not heard from you lately and just wanted to know  if you wanted to go out again some time, and then give him an easy way out. Then at least you will know.
157311
Move on.. grow up. If you parted ways on a positive note, keep it that way. So when you "accidentally" meet them elsewhere someday, you can still say "HI" with both your heads up.\n\nStop keeping in touch... this will give them false hopes - unless you intend to get back together. Just move on with your respective lives with no hurt feelings.
276217
I don't really know..but how long have u been in contact with the person? it could be love.. there have been situations like this and people ended up being together forever!  I think you need to meet with the guy more..i mean I mean, the guy can say all the right words in a letter and by e-mail...
495656
i think maybe hes changed his mind ,if he comes back on and your online let him make the 1st move ,then you will know but if he dosnt contact you again ,dont worry about it ,people have all sorts of issues of their own to deal with ,sometimes you make great friends via the internet other times its a case of fly by night and you never hear from them again ,but which ever please dont end up harrassing him
89137
I strongly recommend writing him a letter. Make sure that when you apologize, if that's what you want to do, to do it for all the things that you said, and none of the things that he might have said at that time. Do not bring his part of the conversation into it; it's about you and your self-defense mechanism of being hurtful, not about anything he may have said (it's important to keep that in mind). Let him know why you lashed out, and that it's something that you do from time to time, and how it's something you wish you could avoid but can't right now, and that you're working on it (then you can make yourself work on it, right?). Then tell him that you value his friendship and hope that you can be friends once again. But remember that when you apologize you must do it from what went wrong on your side, not his. You can't change him, only yourself. And give it time. Guys have a warped view of time; we can let months pass without realizing it. Be nice, be honest, and be yourself, and he'll be your friend again.
521739
Let him email you and start a conversation. That would be a good way to find out if he really misses you. And if he does email you first then do not act desperate and reply to the email immediately. Wait for a couple of days before you reply. Let him sweat for a while.