My best friend will not speak to me what does it mean???
115260
It means you need to find another best friend. DOn't be a doormat for there surely will be plenty of people to wipe their feet on you.
576351
well, if he/she doesn't notice your efforts, chances are, he/she doesn't consider having you for his/her best friend. don't push it. just be there for him/her when he/she needs you. just always be a friend to him/her.\n\ngood luck...  = )
186484
I am so very sorry for your lose. But as the saying goes, Time heals all wounds. And No, I am not trying to be funny. It will take time and as that time passes, keep in mind that your bestfirend is in a far better place and holding a seat for you when your time comes. When you can sit down and have a conversation with your friend. You'd be amazed at how well this works at times. I truly believe that your conversation will be heard. It will also help if you sit down with another friend who also knew this bestfriend. Maybe not as well or as close as you were, but someone who knew your bestfriend. It does help to bring closer.
384959
if she doesn't wanna hurt you then she is your best friend but ask her to be more honest with you next time ask her to give you her real opinion next time .you she she didn't say because she didn't wanna hurt you because she wants what is best for you .cause if she did tell you might get upset with her
533182
Well, it is hard to talk past those butterflies and the lump in your throat.  Calm down and take a breath....relax dude.  When you talk to her next time, try not to get all bent up about who you are talking to.  Pretend you are talking to your best friend, it will get easier from there.
149097
Don't be too afraid about that.  If he/she is your best friend, you won't be able to say almost anything to offend him/her.
839897
Well, it could mean one of two things.  One she likes him herself and doesn't want to you so she can pursue something with him later.  Or two, she knows him in one way or another and knows it won't work.  Either way, she is not being a very good friend towards you right now  and if you want to talk to him then you should just do it.  You don't need her approval to talk to somebody else.
1072990
This could mean either she likes you or she doesn't.  She might be trying to make you jealous and want you to come and talk to her but she could also be trying to send you clues to back off.  Wish I could help you more. SORRY! GOOD LUCK!
503028
just wanted to let you now that if you clam this person is your best friend,  if he or she was truly your best friend then you would still be talking because a best friend never stops talking they get over any problem they might have. good luck because if your friend is truly a friend what ever happened should never stop a friendship.
400822
NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! He doesn't like you for you. He just feels he needs a girl friend. He couldn't get you best friend so he's going to try to get back at her by going after you. He's a playa and so not worth the trouble. Besides, there is a reason your best friend turned him down.
518690
Well, have you tried talking to her? you must tell her how much she means to you... and how she's hurting you now. you care for your best friend , but that doesn't mean she can control you around and being a pain in the neck. So tell her that you want to still be best friends with her (because you care and love her) but SHE has to change.\n\nOr, could there be a problem that she hasn't told you yet? Maybe she's acting differently becoz she's under peer pressure (or other problems) and subconsciously doesn't realize what she's doing to you.. and also not recognizing it as a problem. Talk to her and figure it out together.\n\nAnother thing, i think that you can't expect somebody to be the same forever. I have a best friend of 8 years, and now she's changed and become more hostile. I dun like much of her new self, but i accepted it. If she offends me then i'll tell her straight. There'll be a quarrel or so.. but we'll always make up the next day. And though we're not as close as before, we are still best friends and can come up to each other with problems.\n\nGood luck with your best friend! Sometimes, we have to let go to gain something.. It could be a little space between you both, or something else. I think it's best not to break the friendship.
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
686144
If she is really your best friend she will understand that you are just problably pmsing and you guys sholud just talk about it if she is really your best friend you guys should have no problem talking this over just relax and wait. things will work out for the best.
499254
possible the best friend liked you and didnt tell and now hes not wanting anything to do with you and maybe even he dont like the b/f because he knows who he is and what he is like behind closed doors... lots of different possiblities but dont close the door with your best friend... loves come and go but best friends (if they are) are VERY hard to come by!!!
820950
Give it a little more time. Maybe he needs time to adjust, or he's afraid you're attracted to him. If you're not, you need to tell him. If you are and he's distancing himself because of that, well that's too bad but it happens all the time with heterosexuals too. If the friendship is supposed to be platonic and he keeps ignoring you, I guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
850481
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.