How do you prepare ur self 4 sex when u don't even want to?
107110
You don't!!\n\nAND for all those answers that have given you the advice that you SHOULD anyway, they are OBVIOUSLY in the wrong forum to give advice!!\n\nYou don't want sex....DON"T HAVE IT!\n\nLet the person you'd be involved with pleasure themselves...watch them do it even, that could be a turn on for both of you.  Maybe then you'd like to.  Voyeurism is really erotic.  Watch and see what turns them on, maybe turn yourself on...but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.  Don't have it unless YOU want to.  IT"S 2006 FOR God's SAKE!! \n\nRESPECT YOURSELF!!
988843
Don't have sex if you are not 100% ready
799016
Just tell them you don't want to have sex till you are married. If they get mad or break up with you over that, then that means they are not the right one for you. The right man for you will understand and appreciate you wanting to save yourself for him or whoever you marry.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
1023232
I need sex what can i do cricket i am so desperate. Please help me.
379676
Use your hands and your mouth to give your partner pleasure. Lots of hugs. Massage. If you don't want penetration, try watching each other m**turbate. Libido is in your head. Eat properly, cut out junk. Lots of soy products. No sugar or sodas. Cut out wheat. Reduce salt and meat. Get fit. Read sexy books, watch sexy movies. Have fun.
752945
hmm by next level what do u mean? like more touching or sex and dont do anything until your 100% your doing what you feel comfortable with not being shy about
162883
use a condom so that she doesn't see that you didn't come, and simulate you are spasming throsting your pelvis ina quick uncontrolled fashion...
692553
whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
908112
If you're not completely sure, you're not ready.  wait until you are, despite what many a person would have you believe, sex is very special , especially your first time and you want to be able to remember it fondly, not regret it.
387465
if youre going to argue...do it while having sex. \n\n(shrugs)
690042
Sure, why so not?\n\nInstead of having sex... why not.\nJust remember, try to discipline yourself.\nYou don't want something *swelly* down there, or change your sheet a hundred times a day, or loose your v*rgin*y at an early age!\n\nHave self control all the time...
311904
Stick to being picky because it is better to respect yourself than to have sex and then regret it.  For now just take things into your own hands and have fun.
817977
Sex.\nIf you want sex, go do it, if not tell him to poke it somewhere else - we like honesty because it's simple, like us.
267583
Why not just relax...forget about the  sexual side of it and just enjoy the people your hanging out with? Wait for your transition into adulthood is finalized before you start experimenting!
940156
Just be yourself, and it sounds to me like you are trying to go somewhere that you are not ready to go! Any guy that makes you worry that you will be called an inexperienced  "anything" you should just stay away from. There is something to be said about a young woman who is brave enough not to have casual sex just to be what you call "cool"  You have your whole life ahead of you I hope you think about what you "should do" rather than you "have to do"   My motto in life is if you are unsure of what to do ....dont do anything!
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Wait until you are positive you have fully matured mentally and have made every effort to think through it, then wait a few months and seriously think about it again.  Then make up your mind if you are ready.\n\nSome things to consider:\nMake up your mind about what you do and do not want to allow to happen before being with someone.  Set a line and don't cross it just because it feels good.  You set the line for a reason.  Maybe set another line for if you get really passionate and want to go further.\nAre you thinking this through while calm and not horny or around the other person?\nDo you want to marry a virgin?  If so, you might think about being one too.\nDo you want to risk STDs, some being incurable or causing death?\nDo you want to risk pregnancy?\nDo you want to risk sex becoming a big issue when deciding your emotions toward a person or whether you should stay together?\nHow will you feel if you break up with this person after having sex?\n\nI'm not saying sex is bad or wrong (it can be a great thing), but it is a serious issue that must be thought about appropriately.  Don't think that you have to have sex as soon as possible, it will still be around when you get older.  You can only have your first time once.\n\nAlso, discuss any boundaries with your partner so that he or she is able to respect them and help you keep them.