Ladies, have you ever stayed with him for years, yet during the act, you faked , while imagining the other?f?
117916
Yes I have. I believe imagination is what helps keep a marriage a float, and hepls me stay faithful. My marriage is still struggling for other issues, so my imagination helps getting through the act sometimes. Good luck with your relationship!
96262
Sounds like your boyfriend has less imagination than he thought he did. Or, he took it slow since it was your first time together. I would hope for the latter.
1020563
are you for real  or just having an illusion....lover boy?  \nbwahahahaha!
451550
Well, thankfully I dont have to fake. But as for myself, I actually will have a small amount of "fluid"  much like a man....no denying what it is! Sadly if a woman fakes how will her man ever know what to do to truly please her? Open and honest is best.
1179701
I have a few times.  I would have only called one a "relationship."  I don't think you could really maintain a long relationship like that.  It's more for fun.
682569
Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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I was in the same position about 2 1/2 years ago. My boyfriend of 3 years was a CONSTANT liar. It finally got so bad I had to just let him go. Wow am I glad I did! I have grown so much, and feel so much better. It was almost like I forgot how happy I could be. It was really hard at first, but worth it.\n\nYou just have to get the strength!
469853
I've had the same experience....with a woman....we met and it just wasn't the same.  I believe there is no reason it cant be though.  Meet the guy in a safe place and see if you still have the magic in person.  Dont worry or get uptight.  good luck
391529
WHY ,,,would you even think... of faking an orgasm!
649917
i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.
298503
YES,for once..Because all i thought he would be mind and until i still ask my self why did i do that?Do i look bitch?!\nif were to choose one night stand or relationship witn a guy..I would absolutely choose the best. The relationship with a guy..because it s more intersting to have a relationship than without.
631210
Yes I did unexpectadly I wasn't even looking to tell the truth. He is a wonderful sweet guy we just recently met in January although its long distance he is worth it. We talk every day that we can. We are talking marriage. Its not for everyone sometimes I feel like I am a different person online I'm more bold and can say things I never would in person.
293793
No, Never did I cheat or even think about it. It is wrong to think that way with your spouse. If your going to do that than leave...K
1064533
LMAO LMAO i never thought about it that way and i said it ATLEAST 5 times to my guy after I kept having to resign into yahoo messenger....I wonder if he was getting jealous ;)
210629
Yes, I had a "relationship" with two men for about a year.  That was something very erotic that we all enjoyed.  Ahhhh memories!
1052764
I have fantasized about being with another woman. Yes, my husband was the first to know. And it was more than one occasion, however, I have never been with a woman, physically. Not the one friend I have fantasized about or the celebrity/entertainer in our area.
634847
I have mine. We've been together for 8+ years, and are completely in tune with each other. I have never had anyone even come close to this before. We think alike, finish sentences for each other, say something that the other one was thinking - things like that. If it wasn't so cool, it would be spooky (it kinda is!). Have a good night!