i'm so nervous when i'm with my girlfriend. i would make out but i'm too shy to ask?
115891
why not tell her "I want to kiss you but I'm too shy to ask"? not only is it honest, it is wonderfully charming.
736507
thats normal for me maybe your just in the mood my advice is to go party have a good time and make out with a new person it should calm you down for a while
847346
Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
129699
talk with her...she might just feel shy about initiating it...
434858
You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
777887
It's perfectly okay to be nervous. Sometimes we worry "Oh god, what will he say or think of me? What if he doesn't want to talk?!" Just breathe, relax, and tell yourself that if he didn't want to talk to you then you wouldn't be dating. He's interested in you, so go ahead and chat it up!
109446
Well, you said you're shy.Open up a little, make more friends that are girls.And maybe you might get to know each other a little more.Don't rush it or expect love at first sight.That's how I found my boyfriend; three years.So all I'm trying to say is hang out with the oppisite sex a little more.AND DON'T RUSH IT!
891177
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
1156025
Well if you are both shy, then someone has to break the ice! Once the ice is broken and you like each other, then it will be history from there.  But sounds like your are going to have to get the nerve and go talk to him!  Just go up adn say Hi how ya doin or whatca up to?  Or find something that you need help with and ask him to help you.  That always makes a guy feel good when you NEED them!  But you have to break that ice or it will go no where!  But it sounds like you have a date coming on if you get the nerve!!!  Good luck and don't get cold feet!  Just do it!!  Or you might miss out and someone else is gonna sneak in and steal him away!
1168433
I know just how you feel.  Before my first kiss, I was completely freaked out because I didn't have a clue what to do.  And all the "how to kiss" articles in the teen magazines never gave any specific examples of what to actually do.  I would say just be sure and wait till are you are totally comfortable and ready (but remember that the butterflies won't completely go away) and just make sure your boyfriend knows that you want to, but you're nervous, and ask him to go slow.\n\nThat being said, I'll try my hand at a couple tips.  Like someone else said, it's basically like exploring the other person's mouth.  Start with normal kisses, gradually open your mouth as you go (not like you're yelling or anything, but just like you're breathing with your mouth open), and just put your tongue in his mouth (do it relatively gently tho) and just kinda run your tongue in circles around his tongue.  Once you do it a few times, you'll just kinda pick it up.\n\nAnd also, if you're serious about not having sex before marriage (which I think is great) be sure and set well-defined rules and boundaries because once you start making out, it's incredibly easy to want to go father and you probably won't think of anything but that.  Don't trust that you'll know what's too far when you get to it, because it definitely doesn't work that way.  Some rules you might wanna try are limiting where hands and kisses are allowed, not being alone for prolonged periods of time, always keeping the door open, etc.\n\nBelieve me, I know it's scary as crap, but it really is not that big of a deal, I promise.
1067983
i honestly do not think that you can. just cause you are so nerves around him. you make sure that each and everything that you do when he is near is done correctly. my ? is dose he know that you like him? if not that's a reason way you get that way you do. what i suggest you to do is when you are w/ him act like you are not into him. it might help a lil w/ the shyness. act like you have known him for sometime. get close but let him show you something befor you open up.
606612
if you need to ask, you need to work on that relationship.  conversation should be easy with your girlfriend.
1025672
Well how long have you guys been dating?  He may want to kiss you too, but is too shy to ask.  I'm shy, and it took 3 months after he asked me out to actually kiss him.  I was too scared.  He had to make all the moves. Just ask him. You won't sound funny.
997741
Let me tell you from someone who suffers from shyness.  It gets you nothing face up to it and just tell him next time you are alone with him and he will tell you his feelings. (I know it's easy to say, but all you have to do is get it started and the rest is easy)  Tell him you have something to say and just say it let him know your nervous and he will understand if he's a decent person.
614625
you dont need to ask me, but actions speak louder than words and a kiss comes automatically.  just be romantic and everything will fall in place. If you ask it will show that you are scared of me and dont have the confidence in yourself.
367771
I am not sure if the shyness comes from you thinking your dick is small or whatever, but it sounds like your g/f is wanting to maybe see it with lights on? sounds kinda kinky to me but maybe she IS kinky. I say pee away dude. It may just lead to a real good experience for you.
608713
well it kinda depends on you because im like that sometimes, im very shy but the thing is when i IM him.. im myself cause ur not actually infront of him. but when u talk to him or call him, ders a difference cause u'd actually hear him and ull get really nervous. so yea its up to u. but if i were u, id start IMing him then once u get to know him more and more. i suggest ud talk to him later on since u know him more...