What are reasons why a young lady would suddenly cut off all communication if you told them you love them?
107649
She doesn't love you back. You can't tell a woman that you love her the first week you start talking to each other.
331020
IT DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN,T LOVE YOU. SOMETIME WOMEN JUST LOOSE INTEREST, IT COULD BE A  HORMONAL THING. WHICH HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN GO THROUGH MENOPAUSAL. I HAVE BEEN IN THOSE SHOES. SOMETIMES PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AN EXPIATION JUST A FAZE IN THERE LIFE. JUST HANG ON..  GOOD LUCK..
34094
Because one or both of you are immature.  \nYou need to work on your communication with each other.
235994
she may feel that this relationship is going to fast for her and she isnt ready for any commitments, so its easier to just end it then keep pretending that it will work out. she may have met another person and again cant tell you. try talking to her even writing to her if you really want to know  the reasons why she did this.
258916
You set boundaries, and you let them know when their behavior isn't acceptable.  Some people go over board and act obsessed because they think that is how you show how much in love you are with someone.
639492
It could be that she has an overprotective agenda, not a romantic one. Friends are there to look after you. However, if there's just something rather eccentric about her behavior (like she would freak out if she saw you speaking with a stranger), then - yeah - maybe something is up. \n\nHowever, it does help if you ask her. Honesty and communication works wonder, I heard.
714541
I think it's good that you have emotions and show them, but now maybe it is time to be a little more in touch with them so they don't sneak up on you and overwhelm you.  She means a lot to you and it's triggering some feelings of possible abandonment it sounds like--probably tapping into old baggage from childhood.  \n\nI find when my reaction doesn't match the situation it is usually because of something in my past, not the issue at hand.
515700
It means that she still loves you. Just cause her parents disapprove of you and her, doesn't mean that her feelings are gone. I think you should talk to her.
366651
She's freaked out that it's getting serious. She may be in the habit of keeping emotionally distant. Good at being intimate sexually, but when there's the possibility  to add a relationship into the mix, she may freak out and be distant. Her attempt to push you away to make sure doesn't get too serious.
1060128
It sounds like you guys need to talk. People show their affection in different ways, and maybe her style isn't your style. That doesn't necessarily mean she loves you any less.\n\nOn the other hand, maybe she is having second thoughts and is preparing to break up with you. Often, people distance themselves emotionally before dumping someone so that the pain is not as bad-- they've broken up mentally long before they say the words.\n\nMy suggestion is to sit down and tell her how you feel and be open to what she has to say. But don't stay in the relationship if the feelings aren't mutual. That would be a waste of time.
678194
How would a marriage with this lady work, if everytime she hears about something she does'nt like she shuts you out?Every relationships NEEDS communication whether its about something good or bad. Try finding a way to talk to her and let her know your sentiments - e-mail her or write her a  letter or something. Hopefully she will come around and you can sit down and discuss your future, what it will be like and what you want out of each other. If she does'nt, save yourselve any further heartache now and forget it. If she shuts you out for something so small - marriage with her would just be torture. You deserve to be happy!!!!
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
875731
She sounds like she is a looney tune,I think you made the right choice to distance yourself from her. You probably have saved yourself a lot of grief.
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
1017776
No for the following reasons :-\n1) she's totally undecided about you & some about herself\n2) she wouldn't know what love really is at her age from what she said. If she does love you, she wouldn't be 'making out' with another guy. \n3) like you said, she's acting like she doesn't want to go out now.\n4) her age\n5) she said she's afraid to be attached. This will haunt her until she resolves her real issues and demons in her. She'll walk again cos of her phobia (yup). And she doesn't sound like she's anywhere near resolving it.\n\nShe sounds pretty screwed up. Think about what you really want - a chance with someone who's flitting from person to person (you're definitely going to get hurt). She's not showing any signs that she wants to go out with you or take a chance with you or is ready for anything long term (remember her phobia). Leave it as it is and move on.
103287
I think its maybe. Maybe It s a reaction to love. First reaction. Or maybe she dont want u understand her emotions and hide them with this actin...cause she shys...\n\nI think this answer is to optimistical..
595627
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!