My man has it good I'll admit, frequent, fun sex, hot wife, great mom to his kids etc. He also acts very disinterested in other women, isn't into porn and stuff like that, can't keep his hands off me, dotes on me, in other words ACTS like he is all into me.  The cynic in me says men are weak creatures and are suckers for a pretty girl, any pretty girl, married or not so I always have to be on my guard against other women.   I need more input on the subject.  What do you think guys....can you be THIS into a girl, for real?  Am I really that lucky or is it simply NOT possible for a guy to be so exclusive in his desires.
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That's how I am to my fiance! When you find that right chemistry between 2 people it's a wonderful thing! Why would anybody mess that up! It's what people ssek out their whole lives, to find that special someone to love, cherish, and spoil!!!!!
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Honestly we are attracted to bad boys. I think that they make us feel a sense of security, however false. Although most women who are with a "bad boy" say that their guy is "different" with them, they are probably lying. Believe me it is easy to keep up appearances if you really love someone. Also if they keep up with the charade long enough they will convince themselves that what their man is doing is okay, and its not.
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honey, this is an easy one. Guys want to feel wanted. when they know a woman really wants them, it makes them feel good and then it's time to move on. Guys like this will never be faithful and stay true to one woman. I honestly know this being a guy myself. My advice to you, is to find a guy that likes to do what you like to do and not want you to do everything him and his friends want to do. good luck and take care.
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I'm not the married man, but I am his wife who's bi....I know with total certainty that there's no woman who will take me from my hubby. I like girls, but not to the point of destroying my husband and marriage. If it came down to it, I'd walk away from women all together for him. In my case, it would just be sex, nothing more. And yes, I can say that with 100% certainty!!! Hope this helps, from a woman's perspective.....Good Luck!
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I have asked myself the same thing!! So i asked my guy why is this, i said is it because you have a beautiful confident woman at home and what you need is someone not so pretty who looks at you and says wow! I cant beleive I am lucky enough to have this hot guy, you know..like they need to feel worshiped so to say..and he also stated that he knew they wanted him and it was easy to get
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He might, or maybe he just appreciates a good looking woman.  I know plenty of women that I think are sexy, but I have no interest in.  You may be reading a little too much into it.  Possibly on purpose.  Something tells me a part of you wants to get back with him, so you're looking for any little thing as a sign that you two should reunite.
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not that i have done it but based on your own experience i'm sure they still love their partner.\ni guess you were just weak and easily manipulated by a man. i think most women are like that and it makes me pissed off.\n\nthe problem with most women is that they want the fantasy. of course you get the fantasy when your flirting or having dinner at a nice restaurant etc. will this last forever? NO\nthe man will do anything and say anything to get you. you think he treats you like a princess, he's thinking of your @ss only! you'll get used by the man and dumped.\n \nall the poor men out there who have their hearts ripped out.\n\nshame on you evil women!!!!!
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
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Alright man, I know exactly what you are going through, my now girlfriend was exactly like what you are describing. First off you need to remember one thing, women are differnet then men, and 99/100 times they do this shit to test you and get a reaction.\n\nWhen a man looks at a women the first thing that goes through his head is sex or her looks, not for women, women look at thing through a much different light. It's like this.... when one day shes all happy and is talking to you and you feel a connection, she notices.. trust me. But she knows this and the next day she is shy and all the good stuff, its like one day its hot the next day it is cold. It's a game, that's it and she is holding all of the cards, but you my friend need to steal the cards.\n\nBut you like her being hard to get, we all love challenges and women do more then you would think.\n\nDo what she is doing to you, chances are all you do is give her attention and she loves it... take that attention away and shes going to want it back, that is when you hold the cards.... i guarntee that this will work, ANY guy can be with ANY girl.... you just need to play the same game as women
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you are constant flattery for him.  who wouldn't want the amazing, sexy, beautiful, married to someone else, girl i had a past relationship with, still thinks i'm the coolest guy, around?\n\nis adultery ever OK?  well i guess it depends on who you ask.  there are a lot of married people who are of the philosophy "i have the boy parts, you have the girl parts.....so what was the problem again?"  is this a right or wrong philosophy, not for me to decide.\n\ni think the most important thing in any relationship is that everyone knows what is going on.  adultery doesn't kill a relationship, its sneaking around and lying to a spouse.  no one wants to play the fool.
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wow thats alot. every guy is attracted to different girls. i like petit girls, like you mentioned. but some guys gor for the chubbier girls. now with the other issue. thats pretty heavy and i dont think a guy would abandon a girl on that situation. he needs to be there for her and help her. but also it is not his responsiblity to repair the damage.
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Your man suffers from very low self-esteem.  He’s telling you these things to let you know that other women desire him.  The only problem is that more than likely, these women don’t exist.  Give this exercise a try, wait a couple of weeks and tell him a guy tried to hit on you when you were out.  He will become jealousy.  If so, my theory holds true.  \n\nUltimately, you really want to eliminate this problem as soon as possible.  Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him not to tell you these types of things.  Personally, I’m not into game but it sounds like he needs a dose of his own medicine.  Good luck and God bless.
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I'm not a guy, but I can guarantee you - he prefers YOU doing the chase!  There are just some men who are laid back and the 'turn on' to them is the female chase. There is nothing wrong with that, but based on the information you provided, it seems he is most comfortable with YOU taking this lead. You are not 'hearing him"...you say he ADMITS he is shy about taking the lead. Listen to him. He 'ain't gonna change that much'. You guys really need to talk about this openly and honestly.
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I'm guessing you mean she finds him attractive, but only physically. If this is the case you have nothing to worry about because she told you. If she lusted for him in secret then it would cause you worry. Since she told you about it then it's not any different than you commenting on a pretty lady when the two of you are watching a movie. there are lots of attractive people out there man and women. That's why we have models. It doesn't mean she wants to be with them emotionally. Sounds like she is reserving that for you. Just be proud that your the one shes with and wants to be with.
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you know, i think every guy is different.  i prefer to look into eachothers eyes when we are laying together, or making out, or whatever.  i feel a real sense of closeness and honesty.  here is the deal...when im in a relationship where i am crazy about a girl, i want to be with her all of the time.  i have had women say "i would just like some time apart" and i have also said that.  every relationship where that was said, either she wasnt into me or i wasnt into her.  i guess the key is...if he says something like he just wants to spend his time with you...but his actions dont show that...he is probably just trying not to hurt your feelings.
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Girl are you blind? He is not in love with you and he has never been. If i were you, i would have already packed my bags and gone. Dont you have a little respect for yourself? Besides, there is some nice young man out there who will worship the ground you walk so fucken move out of that rat hole. You have been used for 4 years but you can still start anew. Married men that want girldriends are all stupid. They are forgeting that they made a commitment and must stick to it. If i had my way, i would want all such men to be locked up in prison. You aint a prostitute to offer sex at anytime he wants. Keep your degnity as a woman. Do it for all the women. i know and believe you can.
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Dear heart,\n\nIt is more normal than most men would be able to admit.\n\nYour bf is an honest and fairly courageous guy to confide in you about this.  This is unusual and might be a good reason for you to invest more time in him.\n\nWomen check out other women constantly and this is not regarded as "abnormal".\n\nMen are also human, usually more human than they are able to admit.  \n\nAnd times are different now.  The older generation of men could not possibly own up to what your bf is saying.  He is actually with the times pretty well.\n\nAnd even if he is sexually attracted to certain other males, it does not mean he is not a good partner for you.  \n\nTruth be told, a LOT of males are sexually attracted to certain other males at times.  Most do not admit this to themselves, and it festers and screws up their relationships.\n\nSo I think you do have a bf who is honest with you about important things.  And that is a good thing.\n\nHope this helps.