Why is it that your boyfriend will act a complete fool treat you like crap and then make it out like it was all your fault? Why is it that they cant just apologize for their mistakes? Even worse why cant they just talk it out instead of blowing up?
131536
Egotistical and immature, If this is the case you need to talk to him about it and set the boundaries if that is not acceptable then you don't need to continue to carry the load. A real man will admit when he has made a mistake and will become a bigger more respectable  man in the process.
447669
I went through something similiar to this and I put my foot down and told my boyfriend to either stop talking with her or I was history.  He stopped immediately and things are great now.  Sometimes you just have to lay down the law or they will keep doing stupid things because you allow them to get away with it.  Good Luck.
181325
Because he isn;t trust worthy.  Say this to him "_______ you told me if i couldn't trust you then we need to break up.  Well i can;t trust you because of the way you're acting and if you're not willing to help me to trust you by not acting that way then guess what, goodbye"  dump him before he cheats and really breaks ur heart.
470774
he is basicly blaming u for all his mistakes, not once does he say "i am sorry for what i did" with out blaming u for his actions. this dude is messed up. he is still holding alot of resentment toward u.\nis he bi-polar because he is all over the place.
399780
Your boyfriend is picky.\nHe's upset when you bother him with your problems.\nHe doesn't acknowledge your improvements\nHe makes excuses to leave.\nHe gets annoyed if you question him.\nHe does nothing to reassure you\nHe says you ask for too much.\n\nGo. This sounds like it's over to me.
487087
If a guy is trying to brake up with his girlfriend because he is seeing another woman.He is trying to turn the whole thing around so he isn't the bad one here.Another reason could be he thinks he is better then you and deserve better.
136291
Guys that frequently accuse their girlfriend's of cheating suffer from one of two things.  Either A. They are guilty themselves, or B. They are just insecure.  Regardless of the reason, they should be avoided.
608478
A liar makes a horrible boyfriend. You might want to consider trading up. But if you want some information, I'm putting in a Website that might help. Hope this helps.
461284
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.
267197
Then he is ONE of the HYPOCRITE CLUB members.\n\nAll this while he WAS lying to you. Sweet promises from your boyfriend.\n\nNow, he is gone. But please don't label ALL BOYS are like that, okay? There are a lot of boys out there who is SINCERE (like me :) ) in Love and all. \n\nIt wasn't your fault sweet heart. I'm so sorry :-( But cheer up, okay? We are here, to help you.\n\nYour situation is hard. I'm sorry to say that I don't think he is SINCERE relationship with you. One day, I believe God will PUNISH him. Don't worry sister, he will SUFFER.
520309
There is no excuse for a guy to treat you badly...you dont need to be in that situation ( I was in that situation for 3 years and even though we arent together i still get treated bad) If you are getting treated badly leave him and never turn back
352764
I think people say things for a reason....\n\nWhen somebody says harsh stuff to you, they'll say afterwards "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't mean it"... They probably *do* feel sorry and regret saying hurtful things to you, but I think they *do* mean those things but they just never meant to say them out loud... Anger is just about letting the truth out, good or bad... \n\nI think you should wait for her to call you (and if she doesn't, you know what you gotta do) and make sure things are clear and there's no misunderstanding between the two of you... She'll come around when she realizes that you truly care about her, believe me.
470376
Bummer!  That is a shitty one!  \n\nOK so, it does actually happen.  Kinda like a slip of the tongue.  I did the same thing to my b/f once.  It really was NOT intentional!  Just kinda happened.  It feels terrible to be on the receiving end I know, but as long as you have made your feelings known to him, and he doesn't do it again - no harm, no foul.  However, if he does it again  -  find a new boyfriend because this means he has NOT got over his X, and it was NOT a slip of the tongue.  Give him the benefit of the doubt THIS time!\n\nMaybe you should also think about mentioning to your b/f that you are uncomfortable with the fact that he still sees his X (if he does) and that this is the reason you may have over-reacted (I am not saying you did - it's just a bit of reverse psychology that will make him feel better about himself)  to his blunder.  As long as you are open and honest about how you feel, he can't turn around at a later date and say he wasn't aware of your feelings.
465631
I READ YOUR PROFILE.  ONE OF YOUR QUESTION WAS ASKING ADVICE ON HOW CAN YOU DEAL WITH LOSING YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF YOUR BOYFRIEND!  YOU NEED TO SEEK HELP AND FIND OUT WHY YOU SEEK OUT BEING TREATED SO POORLY.  YOU HAVE TO WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM.  GOOD LUCK, PLEASE HEED THE ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING, IT SEEMS TO BE SOUND.
143412
Why would you want to date someone that already has shown a tendency to cheat?\n\nWhat if her boyfriend is some who can beat the **** out of you (and maybe even her)?\n\nMore trouble than it's worth...\n\nThat's just dumb.
421700
Sounds like you both are trying to work through this. Unfortunately sometimes arguments do occur, the only thing is when the dusts settles what then? I believe that by him not telling you right away that this or that was not exactly what he expected seems he is trying to be tolerant. Where he is trying maybe not to impose on you all the time what he think or how he thinks things should be. But if he bottles it up and then waits to explode letting you have it all at once, you are right he really should tell you then and there. Not bottle it up and make him resent or get so angry.  He has to realize you fess up to things you tell him "Oh I had no idea I was coming across that way" so he has to know you are not intentionally doing things to  irritate him. Keep talking, keep telling him to tell you.  Tell him "Hey let post this or that and have people who don't know you and don't know me, tell us what they think is going on. People who have nothing to gain"  People who do this just because we've all been there and think Hey maybe someone else can benefit from past mistakes.   Good Luck to you and him I really hope it works out for you two.
142686
Come on!!!!, Can't your boyfriend invent anything better??? that an old excuse... He obviously has no interest in respecting you, let him go and then get rid of him.