if u where, or are in a relationship with someone that was or is, one of the best persons that u ever dated or married and u love that person 2 death, but the sex is very bad what do u do stay or leave?
127207
If both people are truly in love with each other and are able to effectively communicate with each other, then addressing this issue shouldn't cause any permanent hurt and could lead to a fun time of mutual exploration. Be honest with him and tell him what you like and let him know how much you like it when he does.
653277
I am a woman and have done the same thing all my life.  If i have sex with them once and it's not good the relationship is over.  Why would i stay?
629641
Do what's best for yourself.  People will come and go all your life, but you'll always have you.  If you think the relationship is stronger with the one who is leaving, that's who you should stay with.
655471
well, i really dont understand how people can break off from person whom they loved once madly...If you feel guilty and if he is right guy for you and if you still love him and he loves you too then just go to him and stay happily....dont regrete..
505846
I'm never going to marry again.  It is better to stay with someone because you want to than to stay because divorce is expensive, or there are children, or you don't want to go through the whole ordeal or some other reason.
168750
Escape only if you truly love him.I was affraid to do that with my ex and I regret it.
671036
i think it depends on age and what you want from a relationship.has this person got no interest in sex or is that just sex with you.by you asking this question you have doubts about being with this person, if nothings going  to change and you want it to, maybe you should think about splitting with this person and remaining good friends with them.\nas for me, coz im not the norm and if i really loved them,i would stay with them.
230560
WHY?  Only you can answer that... is he better is he worse?  Why do you keep going back to him?  \n\nMy only guess is that maybe since it's supposedly so bad and not allowed the "danger" is what's attracting you (may not even be the sex itself).  Did you think about that?
660929
If you feel like you REALLY should leave, I say go. Unless you want to go through the hassle of counseling and such (which some men will not even consider). I dont know how I would just do whatever is in your best interest.
600937
If he is the love of your life why would you even have the thought of leaving him. He is sick and is in time of need. Stay with him and support him 100%. That's what a relationship is.
669295
if u enjoy the sex but not so much getting hurt then try to let him go! hard as it will be this kinda thing makes u stronger! hes got a gf then that's just 2 bad 4 now! don't hang about 4 him or be easy access for him! don't regret what u have done u were only looking out 4 number 1 and that's who's important carry on your life and if he comes looking in the future tell him u ain't gonna do nothing till he leaves his Mrs/s will show u what he really wants u or just an easy lay! not being nasty in any way just know users when i c them!
319876
If it has become more than you can handle, then the choice is made.  Yeah, I know everyone wants you to do the noble thing and suffer a lifetime of misery, plus if you leave, you'll be the bad guy.  Hey, it's your life.  Just be true about your feelings and do what you've got to do.  Life is short for us all, so find your way to happiness either in this relationship or out, but don't just keep on keep'n on for no purpose.
36530
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
314226
IM BISEXUAL AND LOVE A MARRIED MAN. STRANGE RIGHT? I KNOW. NO SEX INVOLVED. THIS IS A STICKY SITUATION AND ONE THAT SHOULD NOT INVOLVE YOU. IM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HIM. HE NEEDS SPACE AND HE MADE THIS PART OF THE MESS AND PROBABLY DOESN'T WANT TO SUBJECT YOU TO THE FUCKING DRAMA.MY ADVISE IS TO LEAVE AND MOVE OUT. HE NEEDS TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS AND YOU LET HIM. IF HE LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE HIM THINGS WILL WORK THEMSELVES OUT. IF NOT, THEN YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE. EVER HEARD "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR"? I GUESS IT IS.YOU WALK OUT AND SAY GIVE IT A YEAR, CAUSE DIVORCE IS MESSY.AND IN THIS CASE IT DEFINITELY IS. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE LET THEM GO. IF THEY COME BACK TO YOU THEN....THEY ARE YOURS..{SMILE I KNOW YOU ARE SAD} . BE STRONG GIRL,LOL HOPE THIS HELPS.LOL MEXXXI
390284
depends how much i like her, but probably not, thats just wrong, its good they have a conscience in the end, but its not a good reason to leave someone, find someone nice that will treat u well
161689
a relationship which is weak cannot last. Move ahead in life if he has already decided to breakup
330850
Leave him. All he cares about is sex. He's not worth it.