my boyfriend wants me to move out he says he cant live with me because really he miss doing what he wants if you no what i mean he always tells he loves me but he ant in love me,he youst to be so good to me.but now all he does is talk about other girls and what he youst to do.he tells me he lost everything whene he got with me,but all he lost was an ex girlfriend ,but i lost my to kids because he didnt want them around he said he wasin ready for them.and now i have nothin or no one and thats how he likes that.
125223
Well one thing is certain - you are going to have to get the hell out of there for your sake and the sake of your kids.  This guy sounds like he has the maturity of a seven year old, he is pure selfishness.  Sure he wants to go with other girls, but I bet he'll sit around drinking beer, playing with himself and watching TV.  You're better off without him.  You obviously have a lot of love to give, and you want love in return - you're NOT going to get where you are - so you have to face up to that and move on.
455440
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
135990
First of all to give him a chance, discuss this matter with him directly. Tell him that you won't be the way he wants you to be, but you love him a lot and wanna be with him. If he agrees and changes his attitude to you then it might become alright for a while, but if not then just dump him and tell him that you can easily live without him. I can assure you that when you'll dump him he will come after you, cause probably as you've said he can do it so well, he wouldn't expect this from you. And when he comes after you then you make him to do things you want, but don't push it as he has been pushing.
629348
Wow, sounds like you have a lot going on in your life. Maybe you need to take some time and be by yourself in order to figure out what you want to do with your life. You have a heavy burden with your boyfriend and worrying about him falling apart once you leave.You shouldn't have to be responsible for keeping him emotionally stable, he does.  Everyone is afraid of being alone in life, but your fear is causing you to not take risks in your life. Don't be afraid to just dive into something new, be it with your boyfriend, by yourself or with someone else.
335671
Sounds like your boyfriend is using YOU as his excuse for anything and everything!!\n\nMy opinion and advice?  Get rid of the boyfriend, find someone else who will value you more, and treat you like you're a human being, and not someone to use and abuse as an excuse because they're no good!
542645
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
348233
You'r boyfriend is a crummy boyfriend.  He's taking advantage of your kindness and wanting to further step on your toes.  You need to kick him to the curb..... you've done more than your share of reaching out offering help to him and he's being very greedy.  \n\nThis is YOUR home and YOU set the rules and you are right that you have the final say in YOUR home.  If he wants all those things he can get his own place.  If he does not have the money for his own place, he needs to be happy just to have a roof over his head and a great woman by his side, which apparently isn't enough for him.  \n\nBesides... yous ay he moved in with you to save money until he gets back on his feet.  If he cannot pay $700 in rent, how can be buy dogs (food and vet bills can get VERY expensive), afford gym equipment, and purchase recording studio items?  These things will run well into many thousands of dollars.  Sounds like he's taking you for a ride.
420303
Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Have you talked to him about it if so and he won't change then sounds as though you are not happy and who could be with someone so clingy. A good relationship you need some time away from each other as well as together time. So if it doesn't look like things are going to get any better cute your losses and run.
398025
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
273091
I've been there too. thing is they dont want to work on the relationship. if u have some one that acts like he dont care or that will jes walk off after an arguement, do the same to him. treat him like he treats u. if he stays then he wants to try to make it work, but if he leaves then good. u deserve to be loved as much as u love others! dont settle for less.
294902
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
672464
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
461169
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
640806
Well, he keeps coming around because ur allowing him to, he sounds like he wants to have his cake& eat it too, I mean he's living someone who he has a child with and comes to u, tells u that he still loves and wants u.\n\nAnd I have a feeling u still want him ( even thought he has a family) with another woman.\n\nU ask if he could be in something that he can not get out of( WHAT?) he can't get out of being a father,\n\n\nOk think about this if u would\n\nUr the girl  he's living with u have a child with him, and whule ur home with the child and loving him thinking that things are good but he keeps going over to his ex telling her he stil loves her and wants to be with her and that he may have gotten into something he can't get out of.\n\n then he comes to u and tell u this( wouldn't u feel betrayed) that while u didn't know that the whole time u and ur baby was who he didn't want to be with and he rather be with his ex?\n\nIt would hurt wouldn't it? \n\nSee sometimes u have do think deep about things like tis, u have to sometimes put urself in the other persons shoes.\n\nDo u really want to be with a guy who's ready to leave his family? May be he will do the same toy u because he see something he looks at as better then he will leave u \n\nSo think about it  b 4 u make room for him to come back.
232940
It sounds like he has another girl. If he is your EX-Boyfriend, I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are lots of other guys out there, who would treat you right. If you really can't live without him, then when you see him, ask him in all honesty what is going on. Tell him to be up front & honest with you, you deserve it. Long distance realtionships are very hard. But all in all I would dump him, & take a break from guys. The right one will come along, just give it time.
627478
the word I love you is powerful only backed up by action. (caring, spending time, being there when you need that person, etc) You were right leaving him because he's just another faker. He knows nothing but to play people's mind. Everybody falls into traps of love nowadays, I can even convince a girl to go out with me without even trying. It works you know. The reason you keep falling into these "traps" is because you do not fully understand what is love and the meaning of it. Not everybody is on the same level. I have fallen into these kind of trap plenty of times, but this is the process of growing up and maturing your mind. It is okay to fall into these trap because you can always learn from your mistakes. Now in order to grow, you have to understand why he left you, what were the signs, what did he do and all that stuff. A common perspective of your situation. He has not showed that he cared for you, he really been there when you needed him, he spent time with you, comfort and hold you. These are the actions to keep his words true. Now if he keeps saying it, it is pointless, he is nothing but a talker. He's the type you should not trust and love completely. If he does back himself up with actions like those things I have mentioned a little bit back, then yea, that is the man of his words. This is just the process of learning and maturing, don't worry. good luck on recovering.
107912
it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.