Ok, men say that the woman they want to marry is kind, forgiving, easy to understand and talk to, does not get angry, cooks and does not complain, and yet pick a grump and a nag? Nice women have rights too. Don't we?
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v men always want the thing which v do not possess. so its the urge to be ahead & unique , nake us go for a sxy & bold women.
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Good Question!\n\nWell…Over the course of my thirty-nine years of living, I’ve noticed this time and time again. And the thing that I find interesting about this is, most women that I’ve known over the years say that they want a good man, yet, they choose the opposite. It basically ties into the example of the male in their lives as they grew up. Most of the ladies, didn’t have a true example of a man or father figure that displayed how a woman was suppose to be treated, therefore, when it came time for them to choose their mate they had a tendency to choose the wrong one. Have you ever noticed how a certain lady can continue to choose the same type of man (abusive, etc.)? Well, if you would sit down and have a conversation with her then you will find out why she does so. Somewhere within herself she feels that she deserves it and she’s not worthy to receive love, which is not true at all. My sister was one of them, but now she’s learned how to love herself and the man that’s in her life knows how to treat a lady.\n\nBe blessed.
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Finally a man who appreciates the hard working woman.  It's just in our nature to get things done.  Women are the complement of men and the backbone of families and that means not resting until everything is in its place.
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I'm assuming that you are getting these comments from older relatives? Our society is currently in flux and it no longer behooves women to marry young like it once did. Women are more and more often to be the ones to put off getting married because many women see marriage at a young age as a trap into domesticality.\n\nI mean, who really wants to have to hold down a job, do the majority of the household chores, do the majority of the child care, and then have to deal with the husband acting like his wife is really his mother? I mean even the most responsible men don't seem to know how to eat a healthy meal (pizza is NOT a food group!), how to scrub a toilet or wash a load of laundry (or how often such tasks need to be done), or how to write a grocery shopping list or a menu for a weeks worth of meals. \n\nI say, you go girl! Marriage is a raw deal for women. Men definately got the better end of the marriage agreement!
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Men like a girl to be themselves. No lies, no drama, no bullshit.  They like a woman that can stand up for themselves, and also compramise.  They like someone whoe's nice and sweet, and also with a little attitude.  Someone who gives without asking anything in return.  They just like someone they can have fun with, and also be seriouse with.
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Generally ladies are peace loving, accurate, hardworking, determination and concentration on their work...... and godgifted motherly behavioiur.  Therefore, I do support the idea of a woman president.
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Many men, not boys, like shy women. To think that a women is reserved is a trait men look for when looking for marriage, and in the USA, marriage is the last thing on all boys' minds, and the last thing on many men's minds. \n     I THINK shy is sexy and wonderful. Stay as you are, and you will find the MAN who appreciates it.
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I admire men who have good control over their impulses and demonstrate good charactert their strength is an attractive and admirable thing.  I think very little of women who have to resort to offering sexual favors to get what they want. Being smart, clever and respected is far more effective. (unless you are bribing your husband to take you to the ballet..that is an altogether different matter and great fun.)
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Don't haggle with it dear...we want what women want-sometimes not in the same order...that is all.The majority of us do/will settle down when the timing seems fit.For the meantime we cannot deny what nature has designed us to do...we must indulge in it or be at constant war with our inner being.If women could just understand that and feel what we feel for just one day...the majority of them would not post all the "Why are all men/Why do all men" questions anymore!We know that we can't live without women...but when will you women admit that?\nNothing personal miss..just food for thought,thank you & have a goodnight.
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Well, I have to say that I am sorry that you have run into a woman who could not appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer, but I have to say that all women do not blame all of our problems on men.\n\nI am a firm believer in the fact that it is fairly unlikely for any problems involving more than one person to be the fault of any one person. I do believe that woman are very capable of contributing to the problems and successes of their relationships. \n\nTo me, the issue really becomes are we both able to acknowledge and accept are our role in the storyline of our relationships. Just as I think it is unfair for all men to be categorized, I believe that it is unfair for all women to be categorized.\n\nBoth men and women are capable of doing some low down things and of being disrespectful to their mate, neither sex is immune. The whole thing comes down to having the ability to recognize right from wrong, having the ability to treat one at least as well as we hope to be treated, and the ability to refrain from participating in behaviors that are hurtful....and finally, having the ability to tell our mates that if they are not giving us what we need that the relationship has to end. (And I don't mean that just from the prospective of a woman...we are all guilty of it)\n\nSo in essence, it comes down to being able to effectively dialogue one with another to maintain a good, working relationship.
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it doesnt matter what state you are from women all want the same thing in a guy but the qualifications may vary by person to person....but to start out with the top ones are honesty, respect, good listener, has a good work ethic, takes care of his responsibilities, has a good sense of humor, is intelligent, is friendly and is not scared of commitment and doesnt play games....
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Very caring, respectful of women, nice looking, funny, never down, makes me laugh, loves to hug and kiss me, show me off to friends and public, honors me, adores me, makes a living (not a bumb), always says what he means and means what he says, never lies!  Hmmmm, wonder if there is someone out there like this?
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True country boys, are honest, and are not afraid of a little hard work. They are polite, and know how to treat other people. There is something about men that can fend for themselves that attracts women. I think it's the security. I've been married to mine for 16 yrs. Grab you one before they are all gone!!!
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THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
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WOW you some up all women in just a few sentence. I think most women look to find that someone that makes them happy physically and emotionally. Most will find just what they are looking for, and other may not but will not settle. You will find women that are perfectly fine with out this so called perfect mate or soul mate but would never settle they are just fine. It is so easy to put people in catigorys whether they fit or not.
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'Men are mostly a convenience as they haven't the capacity to listen and respond, are not compelled to communicate as women are. I really dont think they view them as stupid, or ignorant for the most part, though geography has much to do that. No role playing, be the strong women you are. I am , have paid a fair price for it...and so it goes...I have lost nothing I never had and I have had a LOT. I will NOT be bored or play handmaiden to an armchair quarterback...Listen up men, learn your lady's favourite everything. Take a hint....this really works!!!! Please her and you will be pleased in reciprocity. I know. Women may be more petite and therefore seem like bait or the underneeded or we have been treated as convenience stores. Well we are NOT THAT ! All For Now......
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Well, being a young woman waiting on the husband that God has for me, I can see precisely what you are saying. I am a confident young lady and yes I have had the upper hand with most of the men that I have dated. But I do not believe that it is because I am pushy. I believe that men have lost their rightful place in the household, men need to grow some backbone and stop letting women run all over them. I am not saying that a man should be violent to hold his place. He shold be firm yet gentle. Women also need to stop jumping into marriages that God didn't have favor over so then they would not have to show thier witts so much because the man that God has for them will respect them for what God has made them to be (by then, they woman will have already found herself). I am tired of my female friends who always have the same man problem when they need to find God and find who he made them to be. No man wants an annoying woman andthat is stated in the Bible because Solomen said it is is better to live on the corner of a rooftop than in a house with a quarrelsome wife.