so i like this guy at my school. well i think he knows that i like him. but he likes this girl named hallie and she's "popular". im not sure if he knows i like him but the thing is we never talk in person. the only time we ever talk is online and he hardly ever talks to me. I'M usually the one who starts the conversation. so what do i do? i need help/advice!!!!
136060
You need to find something in common, some common ground. If you can spark his interest conversationally then your feminine charms will be that much stronger. \n\nThen again, if you two have nothing to talk about other than the weather or what was on television, then realize that your attraction to him is purely physical and not enough to warrant bending over backwards for him. If it isn't supposed to work out then it won't. \n\nI wouldn't worry so much about it, when you get older you will realize that its not always about the physicality. Think about it, if you two dated what would you do? if you can't talk then you won't have fun dates and it won't last.
490875
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.
558339
He probably feels the same way towards you.\n\nJust try and zoom in on what he and you both like...For example, movies, computers, chat rooms, music, board games, certain books, or something you're both working on in class that you both find interesting...Don't try and tell him you like him in the first conversation...Get to know him really well to see if you actually have feelings for him...If he says he doesn't like you, then you don't have to worry about it anymore and it'll be his loss if that happens, but a lot of people are shy, including guys...It's way easier to talk over the internet, Yahoo Messenger, AOL Messenger, MSN Messenger...Once you get to know him pretty well, y'all can exchange screen names...If you don't already have one, I suggest getting Yahoo Messenger...It's way easier to work with than the others and most people, if they have any mess., they'll have Yahoo, but just to be safe, you should probably get AOL Messenger too.  It's way easier to express your feelings or talk to another person online when you don't have to talk to them face-to-face.  You should try this.  I bet it'll help!  Most importantly, be yourself...Being yourself makes for a stronger relationship where you'll be able to share things, ideas, thoughts, etc. with one another easier.
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
554559
i hate beeing in that situation lol all you can do is hang out with him talk and be your self!! if he likes you in time hell ask you out you could also try asking him out boys love girls who make the first move and its worked for loas of my friends b4 goo luck :) x
472319
Well if your communicating online just tell him how you feel about him. ALso ask him how he feels about you, too. You might be surprised by him telling you the only reason he stares at you is because he likes you. Well for talking why don't both of you'll make a date to go to a cafe or store for a drink or to eat amd talk to each other. There is always a way to get around school rules because they don't apply when the day of school is out.
555320
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
497565
Go talk to him. I'm shy too,so I know how that feels, but nothing's gonna happen if you don't talk to him. Maybe try to eat lunch with him or something, and build it from there. If he likes you it's not like he'll be mean or anything.
245749
Well I think he does like you hes just to shy to admit it,but I also think hes not over that other girl.Just go and ask him,it never hurts to ask.I think you should cause if he doesn't you won't c him much anyways but if he does you can make time to c him
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you said that you still like him but you didn't mention if he still likes you and i think he would not get involve with someone else if he is still interested in you.i can suggest that you focus on other things, instead of constantly thinking of him in class why not focus more on your studies, enroll in music or art classes. keep yourself busy until you heal and ready to get into another relationship. good luck:)
432396
He seems very nice. I think you should talk to him in person all you need to say is hi to him then eventually you gonna start talking more and you should hurry because if you like him and he's a senior you don't have that long until the end of the year since time pass by fast you well probley regret not talking to him or do something about it in the end if you don't try. If you want to talk to him on myspace all you need to do say is"hey whats up" then when he reply just ask him what ever like what he's doing over the weekend or how was his weekend. Hope it goes well!
516648
Well he has a girl friend so the only two things you can do is tell him you have a crush on him. If he blushes then he probably liked you to but maybe thought you didn't fell the same.\n\nOr you could just secreatly like him and wait for the future. Hope for the best. Maybe he'll ask you, out you never know. \n\nGood Luck
440394
well i was once in a situation like this.. maybe call him and tell him your feelings( thats how i did) or ask him to talk to you after school about something without his friends.. \nthen if he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt... \n\ndon't listen to that first guy or the one that said 'flirt flirt flirt' ,,... im still very close friends with the guy /best friend i went out with.  we went out like... 2 years ago.. and im still best friends with him, talk to him all the time, his friends and my friends sit at the same table for lunch... went trick or treating with him and his friends and mine..and i didn't flirt with him either..  so don't listen to 'dat wangsta soundin' guy ' (aka the first guy dat talkedid like diss) or the big flirt one   \n(sorry you two if i offended you)
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What are the benefits of having this guy as your "boyfriend"?\n\nIt's possible that your guy is shy, or maybe afraid of getting too involved with a girl, because maybe his friends will harass him. Maybe he feels awkward, and just doesn't know what to do or say. Let him know that you'd like to hang out with him a little more at school, and think of conversation starters. Make a list (for your reference only) of all of the things you'd like to know about him, and the things you want him to know about you. Then, don't deluge or assault him with 2000 questions in one day, but every time you get together with him, try to get a conversation- a dialogue- going. \n\nIf he's still not interested, or is distant, cold, etc, I would suggest that you let this one go, and find a boyfriend who's interested in being half of a couple. You can't expect a school-age boyfriend to dote on you every minute of every day, but you should be able to expect some conversation, and some company. Life's too short to devote it all to someone who's not going to meet you somewhere in the middle. Good luck to ya.
431025
I think you both like each other. However this guy is not sure of how you feel about him so, he's sort of "covering his bases", meaning he's looking for other girls who may also like him. I suggest that you try to get more of his time, (in a non clingy, weird way) like invite him for ice cream or lunch...I think you should keep going and give him that tiny push he needs, to ask you out.
159005
Yes he likes you, stick with him, he should be a good one.  Sounds like he is a bit shy and unsure of himself.  Help him out a bit.
558890
I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.