have some very negative attitude, but she is not over weight.
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Garlic is amazing for lowering cholesterol. You can eat fair amounts of fresh garlic and also capsulated form (odorless). Lecithin granules added to the diet can help with removing arterial fat. Omega 3 fatty acids from flax or fish is beneficial too. (for anyone) These are some natural remedies but I would still consult with your physician.
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not all "fat chicks" are useless... i would consider myself overweight & i am a happy person :) although i do agree, some "fat chicks" are very negative...
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You have no way of knowing whether what she is saying is the truth, you'll just have to trust her.Need to realize in life, no matter how close you are to someone, you'll never really know what they're thinking, that's just the way life is. I don't think any of her "excess skin" ,as you put it, is from too much physical recreation. It's probably something genetic, and if it doesn't bother her{like in a painful, medical way} it shouldn't bother you. A couple things women pick up on quick is  jealousy and insecurity, and it's generally not perceived by them as positive traits. It sounds to me like you should have ONE long talk about this with her, and then drop it,'cause if you keep bringing it up, she's going to drop you.
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Is she very thin?  Underweight women can stop having their periods.
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No, I agree with you.  Your neice is a large girl and I am sure she gets teased.  I think a much better solution would be to help her find out why she has such a weight problem, whether its medical in nature or she needs to learn better eating and exercise habits (take her to the gym if you can..think of the value to her of your love, care and time).  See if there is a clothing place nearby that caters to younger large sized girls and can help her learn to dress to best flatter her.  Make the difference in her life, do not let them hide her from it.
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well you could her by encourging her that she isnt fat but that wont do much,the only thing that will really help is when she believes that she isnt fat.Good Luck
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i think its none of our business, its her life and we shouldn't be worrying about it nor be so nosey about it! i think people shouldn't criticize her, and just worry about their own life!
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Shes probally sad or u're not giving her enough attention. So in return she won't do anything with u. And/or shes going through a change with her body or something wrong with her.
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She's obviously very insecure about her looks. I doubt anything you could say would make her change. She may be fishing for compliments. I would think that she may be a very shallow individual. Tell her one more time your opinion and state that that's the last time you ever will listen to her put herself down. Maybe if she thinks you've had enough of it she'll quiet down. You do tell her you think she's beautiful without her saying something first don't you?
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Tell her not to beef up on you because you are concerned for her health.
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sounds anorexic...... try looking at her insides...... they can all get fat or ugly.....otherwise no its fine, you prefer the the skinny reeds, others prefer blondes, i like to be spanked. its all a matter of preference......dont miss that special one though because shes 5'5 and 115....youll be sorry
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I think she may still be self-conscious even though she's lost weight.  She had been a thick girl for awhile, and even though she's lost weight, her self image may still be a little low. Or, it could be just that she likes doing something different. Who knows...
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There's a difference from being sexy rather than trashy; which you make her come off as.
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I agree. I remember a Dear Abby once that really struck me as being great advice. Someone wrote in this long letter about someone who was a real embarrasment because she was so thin skined when it came to insults and things about her weight and the person that wrote in asked how she could get her to not be so sensitive about things. Dear Abby wrote back that she didn't think the sensitive one was the problem , she thought it was the insensitive people who had the problem and she should be more supportive of the person who was being hassled. I almost applauded right there in the restaurant.
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Change it. Help her to have a better attitude and manners.
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shes part neurotic b*tch.
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She might be being nonchalant?