I got drunk at my girlfriends house and there was two other girls and one more guy. I accidently made out and did some other shit with one of my girlfriends best friends and I really didnt mean to, so now she rubs on me and shit when my girlfreinds not around, and me and my girlfriend have been going out for two years and have some problems going right now so I dont think she'd beleive me if I told her it was an accident, and I already told her freind to chill out and that I dont want to do shit any more but she wont take the hint. Please give advice.
138789
Just tell her that you are still in love with your girlfriend and dont want to cheat on her...
450155
Hey, I'm sorry about this incident, but everything happens for a reason, and maybe this is it: reappreciating everything that you are and all that you have, giving you a different perspective of life.  I don't think its too much of you to ask your friend to be with you. But all that depends on what level and to what extent. For example she may not be comfortable with intimacy, since you are supposed to be 'friends' for now, cause I think she may think that you'd be using the accident as an excuse to have your way or gain sympathy and all that. You need to state clearly your terms for needing her, and let her know what you need her for. And if you need her for keeps and all that, then maybe you could ask her that too, but not too soon after this accident.  Take your time and see if she'd still keep coming and things may kick off from there. Glad to know you're alive and well... dudes in my town haven't been so lucky with accidents this year...
10961
It would help some to know how old you are first.  I will assume that all parties of of legal age (21)since it is not otherwise stated.\nDoes your girl have a drinking problem?  If not it is pretty unreasonable for you to ask her not to drink.  What right do you have?   If she does have a drinking problem, asking her not to drink will not make her not drink.  \n\nAlso, asking anyone not to hang out with their friends is not reasonable what right do you have to tell her who she can and cannot hang out with?  \n\nYou are correct though, she shouldn't have agreed to what you asked, as you are overstepping your bounds as a boyfriend.  \n\nYou ask her to do things that are not reasonable, then you get mad when she doesn't do them.  You don't trust her to start with, then you ask her to keep promises that you know she won't and you then in turn trust her even less.  You are making yourself miserable, you either need to learn what you limits are as a boyfriend (what you can ask another person to do/not do) or you need to get out of this relationship.   \n\nHow would you feel if she asked you to do the same things that you ask of her?  Would you feel it was fair?  You might feel that you are trying to look out for her best interest, but it sounds like it might be coming across as overbearing.\n\n*UPDATED*  I can't solve your problem.  Relationships are hard and yet simple, either you and the other person are happy, or you aren't.  If you both aren't happy, and you've tried to make it better and you still aren't happy, then what's the point of continuing?  You can not change a persons behavior and although, you may want to look out for her and vice versa you can not make her do something she doesn't want to.  Just like she can't make you do something you don't want to do.  You only do it because you want to, you want to please her and make her happy.  It's a two way street, you can give her your opinion and your advice, but you can't make her do anything. If you are happy with her behavior then stay, if not leave; she is going to be who she is, if you don't like that then maybe you don't really like her, but you like who you can turn her into; which again isn't really her.  Regardless, you either stay or leave it is your choice, but know who she is as a person and know that you can only advise and nothing more then that.  *********************\n2-1-06\nIt's sad, she needs to learn to love herself.  She has to learn to do that on her own, sadly; you cannot teach her that.  That's all I have to say about this, and I mean it this time.
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I think that as she is your friend you should make up, you were both drunk and she is your mate.\n\nI reckon that the two should meet up and talk about this tell her that she is your mate an nothing will ever come between the two of you, but you also have other friends as well, and while you accept the fact that she doesn't like the guy you were chatting with. You are not going to stop talking to him, and as she is a friend she shouldn't expect you to.\n\nMake up with her as good friends are hard to find, and maybe the two of you should consider going into your local and apologising
424156
Your exploiting them like they are a f***ing freak show. Your second to last sentence states that very clearly. Your girlfriend has very right to be pissed if they are sleeping with her and she doesn't want them to. They don't have beds? Give me a break they are small not helpless. Why do you feel the need to do this? Is it a need or a want? It seems like your just fulfilling your owns wants and not caring about her at all.That would make you the dirty w****. Oh, and an a** for making her have to put up with them for three extra months, without asking her first. Do you always talk about your friends like they are a novelty; like a bad-ass posse, or say it's "great" when we go to the bar. And what does sponsor mean? Are you providing food/ housing to them? Is your gf living with you too? Will this be effecting her lifestyle? If so, she has every right to kick you and your little friends to the curb. Unless your gonna let her sponsor a "gaggle" of her kind of people when the time may arise, and not say a word about it.
485715
Your big mistake was telling your gf  that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''
19457
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
314321
She has already apologized and personally I don't feel an apology was necessary.  Her friend didn't date the other guy, or make out with him, in fact, she turned him down so there was no friendship rule broken.  The friend should have spoken up to your daughter and let her know she was just toying with the guy.  Hopefully the friend learned her lesson not to play games with people cus it could blow up in your face; as it did.  Also, your daughter shouldn't be soo quick to make out with anyone. This friend doesn't seem or sound like a friend to me anyway.  Tell your daughter to move on.
656424
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
19360
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
675752
It sounds like the two of you are really well paired with each other. Even though you tease and pick at each other, you seem to stay together anyways. Maybe the way to go is for you to not tease her as much. Try not to call her names, either. If she asks you not to call her a name or pick at her about something, try to stop doing so. Also, if drinking makes you fight and hurt her, try to not drink as much. Nobody is perfect, so when you know that you are wrong, say that you're sorry , and when she is wrong, try to forgive her. It looks like a good relationship otherwise. Don't hurt her! Good luck!
370953
Hey there, I can understand this situation.  Been there and done that.  You did a good job at telling him everything you can possibly remember.  Try not to feel guilty just talk to about it and hope he can understand.  Tell him about how you feel that you need some time together that is important in a relationship. Tell him you want to spend more time together and your true feelings that led you to maybe drinking too much.  If he is a nice guy he will understand.  You know if could be a fun thing to hang out with him and his friends.  Getting to know his friends and be liked by them is a serious plus for him to get closer to him. Beleive me!!!  Been there and done that!!!
546339
i assume you werent interested. \n\ni think you are still friends...\njust make sure that you dont bring it up...if she brings it up, just tell her that you were really drunk and cant remember what happened. \n\nforget about it...totally...and dont talk to anyone else about it.
170371
This will probably haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't come clean with your friend. Take her to a quiet place and just be honest with her. Remember friends should be able to tell friends everything! Of course you must expect her to be upset at first but if she is truly your best friend she should forgive you. Be honest. Tell her why it happened and why you are telling her the truth. This will also let her know what type of guy she is dating. \n\nI hope it works out for you.
238006
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
125139
well you see i know where your coming from on this one. i went thruogh the same thing. i told my friend and she denied it and she was pissed at me for awhile but then she caught him in the act, and she realized that she should have trusted her friend and now we are cool again.
455759
WHAT!!!\nHow can she tell u off for dancing with her best friends if shes getting a$s slapped by random guys!! easy or what!! she doesnt deserve you mate. DUMP HER. you deserve waaaay better.