I had this candy in my room and i was about to eat it after i go take a shower when i was done my dad took it from my room and gave it to my little brother i was mad I wasnt mad that the candy was gone I was mad that no one in my family respect my personal space I just wish they all go to hell! what can i do to get them to leave me alone?
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hey hoteve i wish the same thing my family is crazy . sometimes i feel like they dont even know i am here . i also feel like my two older sister get the most of my mom and dad's attention . but i a little bit learned that my parents cant help it they r  just being parents .wishing they would go to hell is not a very good thing . they do do some things for us though . if u ever need to talk just im me it should be listed
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No need to save me, the devil only wanted advice on decorating tips for his dinning room. He's throwing a party for his friends and wants it to the biggest thing since Jesus rose from the dead. Which he is going to be there.. But you didn't hear that from me....Anyway i think there is a little more then just rearranging furniture and painting. He might have a crush on, I think. I'm going to stay in hell for a while longer and see what happens. Oh I got you an invite, so lose those wet noodles and coffee grounds, but bring those fabulous shoes cause we'll be raising hell. But what will I wear? I don't want to ask the devil, i want to impress him, after all, it's not every day the dark lord ask for advice.
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I know it hurts real bad...I know this from experience. I caught my brother with my g/f after he lost his job, and place to live so I moved him in with us..BAD MISTAKE!!! I left her at that moment when I caught them without turning and looking back...I just said we are through got my stuff and left...My brother ran after me and I told him to "go F*** off you made my bed now lay in it all you want" Two weeks later I went back to my house with a Sheriff and handed them both a piece of paper saying that the court has ordered them to vacate the premises. that following weekend I had a yard sale and sold all my brothers stuff and hers and they couldn't do anything because they had no reciepts so I said everything was mine. 7 years later they are happily living in a homeless shelter with 2 kids and I haven't spoken to either of them since the day they tried to get me for selling their *oopps* MY STUFF..lol...Just don't threaten or say anything you will regret as a person...You don't have to go to their level....You will be in my prayers and turn to friends they will help out alot...
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Tell him you are sorry and that you didn't mean the cruel things that you said, but that you were angry and just wanting to strike back any way you could!  (Even if you meant every word-he will think about what you said so the message got across anyway).\n\nAfter all, one day your parents will be gone and your brothers and sisters - if there are any - will be the family that you have left and I assure you that you will need them, if only as a shoulder to lean or cry on!\n\nFriends are Friends, but Family is Forever!  Don't let those bridges get burned as they are almost impossible to rebuild!\n\nGet him a present to give to him when you apologize--nothing fancy--a key chain, or better yet get him a silver dollar or other coin from a coin store.  Get you one of the same year and tell him you want both of you to always carry them so next time you start to argue one of you can pull it out and show it to the other.  That way you will stop to think of the love you have for each other and how important you are to each other...the argument will go away quickly....It's all a matter of perspective and treating the important things-like each other--with the respect that they deserve.  You'll win his heart back and his respect forever!
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I think that was really rude of them to mess around right next to you.That must be so uncomfortable.Don't fight with them about it,it's not that serious.Just tell them that if you are going to hang out again to keep that kind of stuff private!!
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I totally believe you, the same thing happened to me and my dad when we were in a small thrift store. It was just me and him, NOBODY else was up there, (you pay downstairs), and someone right behind me, (my dad is about a foot in front of me) said "Don't go there", and it was weird sounding, like someone said it through a kazoo.  We both looked at each other at the same time, it was sooooooooo freaky!! It's the kind of thing, were when you tell other people about it, they are like.."yeah OK". I'm glad my dad wad with me to hear it, cause I might have thought I was nuts!!
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You seriously need to make some serious changes. You have to create boundaries. It sounds like the requests you have made are falling on deaf hears. It seems to me you are trying to make everyone happy except yourself. Tell them if you are going to live in my house these are the rules if they don't like them they can leave. When your mom came back you could of asked her why are you here? When she said why do i have to tell them to pay the electric bill, it was because she is the one who invited them to stay. The things you are going to have to do will be uncomfortable. Your family will not like the new assertive you. Your mom is dependent on you and you are her co dependent. When she threatened you by saying she was going to leave and you said fine go ahead she was testing you. She did leave but she came back and you let her stay. So now what you say and what she says and your actions don't match. It's like when a parent tells his child no but then lets them have what they want. You have to back up what you say with actions and stick to them. You have fallen into the role of parent. You are not the parent you are the child but now your mom is acting like the child and now you are her parent. I think she should help you more. Do you want your brothers there? You did nothing wrong what i think you possibly feel is guilt because it is your mother and you feel obligated but your not obligated. No one should be taken advantage of.
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when I was very small I ate a whole bottle of junior aspirin, and gave a couple to my younger brother. When my parents found out I said that he'd eaten them all, and he went to hopital and had his stomach pumped! I survived but have felt guilty to this day, especially as he tells the story at family gatherings etc- he doesn't remember that I lied and sent him to hospital for nothing!!\nWill I go to hell? I was about five years old!
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Did you try telling them..If not just don't be anywhere near them alone. Tell your parents and take appropriate action.
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They are not going to be very happy with you taking thier candy. I wouldn't take it all away from them--but maybe tell them to pick out their favorites (twenty or so each), so they can have one piece a day...and tell them they can trade the rest for whatever you think they would like most from what you listed (you probably know that better than we do)
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Hmmmm, let`s see, Do your friends buy your groceries? Do your friends buy your clothes? Do your Friends take care of you when you are sick? Will your Friends be there when you are in trouble? I think not..\n\nONLY YOUR FAMILY WILL DO THESE THINGS. Your family should be the most important thing in life, next to GOD.. Your friends will come and go, but your Mom and Dad will ALWAYS be your parents.. \n\nTell them to live their own life and you will live yours.. Where do they get off talking to you like that? They are bad mouthing not only you, but your family as well. They need to grow up... \n\nWhy should you try to adjust your life according to what your friends think??. You need to go your own way. You are an adult. Stand up for your self and tell them to kiss off.. \n\nGood luck and God Bless\n\n{:-)\n\n<><
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First suggestion is to read what you posted, it sounds like a incest post, U might want to reword it.
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Don't worry, about sin. God isn't one to get offended and throw you in to hell because it doesn't exist.  So just try to work on the communication thing. Sometimes family can be irritating, but you have an obligation to at least try to be nice to them.
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Im wondering how old you are since your family is so against it, maybe they think it was too quick.\nYou have to go with your own feelings but listen to what the family has to say and maybe you can help them understan your point.
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I'm guessing that you're a young 20something male, so you're not exactly mature, compassionate, or considerate.  I'll bet you wouldn't like it if your sister took your stuff without asking, posted it online and sold it, and you got confirmations in your email that your dirty drawers (complete with skid-marks) got sold to some panty-sniffing perverted male.  Huh, how does it feel when the shoe is on the other foot?  Not so good, huh?\n\nI think you need to grow up and become a real man, and have some consideration for your sister, and for other people as well. Yes this is only a prank, but it's not funny if it's at the expense of someone else.  In fact, it sounds like you mean to humiliate her and make her angry, and that's a sign of stupidity and immaturity.\n\nI feel sorry for your sister, that she has a brother like you.  I remember that when I was a very small kid, my brother, when he was 20something, tried to bait me and make me angry like that.  One day, I hauled off at eight or nine years old and hit him HARD in the balls, and he never bothered me again.  That's what insensitivity and stupidity get you: a good, hard kick in the balls, because you're not thinking about what other people feel; you're just looking to get a reaction.\n\nTime to grow up and be a real man and put away childish crap like this.  A real man who cares about other people would never do something childish like this.\n\nGood luck with your life.  Hope you grow up and become a real, compassionate, considerate man who has feelings for other people.\n\nCheers, K
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Dude i couldnt agree with you more.  No offence but for their own good put them in a looney bin and do it fast.  Thisnk about all the things peopl will say about you and your family when they see them.  Is that in itself worth it?
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Hell no, tell them to eat it themselves with their other orifice!!!! I'd rather starve ( And I have too!!) than take a crumb from some hostile even if it was my own dear Mother, God rest Her Soul easy! Stick up for Yourself Kiddo, lifes too freaking short!