why  most of the guys are so ditching ?
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er, your question is not really clear. what do you mean by ditching? thats why im the first to even look at your question and answer it, i dont think anybody understands it too.
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Some guys don't and there are ways to ensure that they don't
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Because sometimes they do not want the guy, but they don't want anyone else to have him either.  Some are interested in him and do not want to admit it.
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Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
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Most men don't like rejection, so to avoid "losing face" they will just keep their distance instead of showing their true personality.
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Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.
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It's not all that much different up here in the northeast.  Nice men do land women, don't get me wrong....but the majority of men who land the women are the careless type.  I think it's a universal reality no matter where you go.....why do you think so many men try to be careless, bad, look mean, etc.....it's all to win the ladies affection because we all know it works.  Modern feminists try to tell us to treat a woman good, but we aren't affectionately or sexually rewarded in return......I think they need to re-evaluate their thinking.
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These guys seem to be in busy
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I think most guys are, but not all of them.
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Some guys act exactly like that, some don't. \n\nIt's impossible to generalise.
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It is because they do not want to sound like a romantic in front of there big tough buddies. It all boils down to peer pressure.  Just think about it.  Someone does something embarrasing and you feel sorry for them but everybody else is laughing, you know you gonna laugh too...to be in the crowd.  That is the way guys are.  They got to be tough.  They cannot let that guard down.
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Not everyone is out for sex. Some guys actually have honorable intentions. Sounds like you may have run across one. My advice as a guy is HOLD ON TO HIM. The sex fiends are a dime a dozen.
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Well, most guys feel they are threatened by someone smarter than them. Plus when they try to get some, they feel they might not be able too, because you aren't some stupid chick willing to do anything.
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It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
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I bet that its because the men dont have cars so they find a chick to take advantage of
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because its a big money maker // its for lazy people that dont want to get of the house to find someone special.going out is to much work so they rather stay home and meet people the lazy way.
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I am guilty of that, the reason I give myself is that when I feel like they are going to leave me I'd rather cut it off to save myself the humiliation of being dumped. Perhaps its the biological chasing game...men seem to be a bit more okay with being rejected than a woman is since men are the ones chasing. I would never want to feel like the fool who needs to be told in her face that she isn't wanted, perhaps women know there are other options readily avaliable and she wouldn't have to start all over cos there'll always be some other man wanting to get in her panties.