Hey i am 15/f/sc and i sometimes feel as if i am the ugliest person in the world i dont kno why people tell me i am real pretty and i favor brandy but i dont think so because i very low selfesteem can i get some advice on feelin good bout my self.
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You just have to like yourself for who you are then for how you look,, you hear it all the time but its true, am pretty sure you are a beautiful person!
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boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
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hey there is no such thing like "im ugly" why are you buying what those silly pple who dont want to be friends with you think of you?? there is no ugly person in this world, " Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" so pls stop that you are pretty and you should from now onwards see yourself as the most beautiful person in this world. dont let evil pple bad behaviour get you. we can all look the same, so be proud of yourself and raise your head high, just coz you have acne doesnt mean you are ugly, go see a dermatologist you will get treatment for that, it no big deal. be happy, smile and the world will smile with you!!!
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try to look at your self like every one else does. Do something U like to make yourself happier and think your pretty.
577708
What cracks me up is that we are all lumped together.  Not all men or women or fake.  And not all of us are stuckup.  I admit some are.  Usally the really pretty ones or real handsome men will be that way, but they are the ones I feel sorry for, I dont envy them at all.  I look deeper to your heart and that is where I find the beauty.  So please dont lump us all together.
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You look fine for your age to me.  \n\nHaving said that, don't rely on what I or anyone else thinks...looks aren't everything and even those who are physically "perfect" (which is very subjective) need to have more than that to back it up.  \n\nWorry about becoming a person of substance with a good education who treats other people as well as she would like to be treated.  Be kind, generous and compassionate.  Be independant and strong.  Have opinions, but respect those of others as well.  Be your own unique, special, wonderful self and don't take what anybody else says at face value.  Question everything and always search for your own truth.
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Dare anyone answer you! LOL When I saw your question it took me back to Jr. High..and I will not say how long ago that was. There was this georgous girl in 8th grade. She walked like she was a princess and her face was like an angel. ( no I am not a guy, go with me here) Everyone was speechless around her because her beauty was unreal. I can see her face like it was yesterday. Well, as this beauties personality came to bloom in front of us over time she became very ugly. She had a cold heart, was completely self-centered, had a foul mouth and very unpleasant to be around. Sure she had boyfriends but they were for very short terms and they never went back. I felt sad for her, it was as if her beauty was.... deceiving.... her. In conlusion, I will say that, as for myself I do not think I am ugly, I FEEL beautiful at times, but my body will become very wrinkled and probably arthritic someday with those age spots too, the only beauty worth noting comes from inside. I know it sounds cliche or idealistic but I think it is so true. The personality, character, and SOUL is what makes someone beautiful.
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don't feel bad about yourself..you mad have adult ADD..i have it...look at ADD.com...its where you get bored easily.can't focus....even if it's not that..you are not a bad person you just can't make up your mind..you wanna explore everything god has offered in this world that doens't mean theres something wrong with you..don't be so hard on yourself..im 27 have'nt had many jobs..a stay at home mom now and im always down on myself..feel like im not doing anything that contributes to the world...but i read the bible and everythings all better...start going to church and read the bible..jesus will change your views about yourself..no one is perfect...if  you feel you need to see a phyc. go...maybe it will help maybe not..if  you feel in your heart your a good person then just keep going and someday you'll find your way..if  you are unhappy about  yourself change it...you can do anything you put your mind to but no matter what happens or what you decide every one is beautiful in there own way and no one should down themselves...
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I spend a lot of time looking in the mirrow when I'm all alone pep talking myself into liking myself. I'm 5'9", 135, blond, blue eyes, and the one everyone says is pretty but we're all insecure. I have faults like everyone else and tend to pick on them (as well as other people of course :))\nso don't knock yourself too hard. Diaries are good, just hide them because some people have no respect and that really sucks for your self-esteem (that happened to me).
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well in my opinion there are no unattractive girls out there, everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. but i do get what you mean and its perfectly normal, everyone has their own taste and beauty is on the inside and not on the outside, its skin deep. a lot of people forget that now a days but whats in your heart is the most essential part of beauty. God Bless.
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Your face expresses what is inside whether you are "pretty" or not.  I've known some ugly "pretty" people.  Just do the best you can with what you've got and be kind.  It will show in your face!
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i can't do that. i don't know how i measure up or how others see me. sometimes i feel like i look like a billion dollars, other days i feel as i could pass as a hobo. sometimes i feel like the nicest person in the world and have great self confidence, other days i feel like a complete a**hole. so, i guess looks are a 1 and a 10. personality is a -1 and a 8. i feel like sh!t a lot so it comes out in my personality when its really my own bull i'm caught up in
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You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
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These "people" are probably just trying to get a rise out of you! Don't let those empty headed fools bring you down! you are beautiful! Superficial beauty doesn't matter in the end, it's just the surface. I know it can be hard, when your Friends hurt you, but you can't leave them just yet! One day, you will find people who love you 24/7 for who you ARE, not what you wear. If the dress makes you feel that uncomfortable, then don't wear it. if you like it though, i would keep Showing it off!!
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Dearie a person does not derive self esteem from what other people think, that's why its called SELF esteem.  Love yourself for more than your looks, whether its your sense of humor or kind heart these are the things that really count.  And as cliche as it might sound how will anyone ever love you if you don't love yourself!
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It took me 35 years to learn this one.  One's own perception of self is very powerful and it's hard to understand when others don't see you the same way.  The reality is that 99.99% of people don't know what's in your head whether you feel good or bad about yourself.  You need to learn to see what others see in you.  Yeah, they could be yankin' your chain hoping to pull you out of your funk, or they could be genuinely honest about what they see.  It won't matter until you get over yourself, until your own perception goes beyond "fat and ugly".
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i know what u mean! well, kinda, you see, i was like that...ok, i lie, i am like that...and i dont know what it is. counsleing, and crap is trying to help me figure the source, but i dont think it is for beauty, i think it goes far beyaond that by being called fat by my father when i was only 6 years old..then by my sibblings. although i was never fat. i am under my weight now, too far, and it hasnt made me beautiful, and it never will. annorexia only gets you a lot of teasing and embarrassment, and into a deep puddle of mud. i wish i could get help, but all i can get help from is my mom and a youth pastor. i feel lonly and lost, and it is a troubling disease to have. it scares me and makes me sad.