he doesnt watch porn or ja*k off because he doesnt really have the chance to and he says he doesnt want to or need to cuz he has me.  but it makes me wonder... cuz hes always looking at women... any females that are around.. hes gotta glance at .   is he thinking of them sexually insead of watching porn?
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It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
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Men are very visual creatures. If they see something they like, they look. Hell, women, look, too! There is no shame in that. The most important point of the matter is that even if he is looking at other women, he's going home with you!
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no.... it's just fantasy and not reality... that's all porn is, is he with you or them??? who does he lay down by every night and have sex with??? If you answered you to both questions- then stop thinking the porn is anything other then fantasy and yes all guys do it and yes it's normal... Instead of worry, join in it and tap into some of them fantasies he has....
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well, i would be asking myself a few questions....\ndo you not like it b/c it's porn or do you not like it b/c you feel that he is fantasizing about something that you can never be???\n\ni don't think that you're necessarily wrong....our feelings aren't ever wrong, but you may be overeacting a bit.\n\ntalk to him about it.  explain how it makes you feel...whether it's him just watching porn or if it's the asian factor....talk to him.\nmaybe he can only watch it alone since it bothers you.  or, maybe if you both like to watch the porn you can get some that you both like.\n\nusually women's and men's tastes in porn are different...so, try to work it out instead of just getting mad about it and demanding he stop.\n\ntake care and i hope things work out.
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I can tell that this issue is really bothering you and hunny, you are tooooooo young for this. You actually sound mad, it was like you were on the phone with me venting while I was reading.\nWell, I am a strong believer in the word and I have read that where the mind is the body follows. Meaning your boyfriend wants to sleep with other women if he hasn't already done so. When he is looking and admiring all thoose other women he is lusting for them.  He shouldn't disrespect you like that and you need to leave.
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Yes, it is too much to ask.  I don't see what having kids, him being on call, how often you have sex, or who you live with having anything to do with it.  You state these things but you don't say how they are relevant to your wish.  You haven't stated any reasons why he should not watch porn.  Now if you're saying that he watches it in front of your kids, masturbates to it as your in-laws walk through, leaves it on when he goes out on a call where just anyone could see it, and doesn't have sex with you more often *because* of porn, then you might have a complaint.  However, you say none of those things.
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I am not sure i understand you, but if i do the problem was him looking at porn...r u not good enough. It depends on who he is. Soe men just like porn. I am not saying weather it is right or not. But if you make it a forbidden fruit it can only get worse. Try praying about it....\n\nI have been overweight before and I would help you if you needed tips to loose weight in a healthy way. :)
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The question to ask is whether your or his sex lives are unfulfilling.  Does he return to this online porn/webcams because he feels the sex with you just isn't that phenomenal?  If he enjoys your sex but just likes doing these other things, I don't see the problem, unless it affects YOU- i.e. you feel your sex life suffering because of his pornographic predilections.\n\nSome people do, indeed, become addicted to pornography, and it becomes a problem when it interferes with their lives or they can only be sexually aroused when using these materials.  Otherwise, it's just something he likes to do.  Still, it seems to be upsetting you, so the thing to do- the best thing, always- is to talk to him about it.  Don't set down an ultimatum or forbid him from doing it, just try to find out why he does it, express your feelings about it to him, and go from there.
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Sounds like he has intimacy issues. Most guys would jump at the chance to have real sex with a real woman. Obviously, this guy is in love with his fantasy life, the idea of exploring his needs through detached means.
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yes, my husband looks at other women, sometimes when I'm there with him. I think it's disrespectful but he doesn't see it that way. I can't be bothered with this all the time so I just look the other way. If he wants to cheat with someone else, I'll give him his laundry and tell him to have her do it and tell him to $@%# off.
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He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.
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Very often looking at porn is an escape from reality. Assuming that your available its being selfish - basically saying Id rather do it myself.  \n\nNot all guys do it - it has something to do with you, because its affecting you - and you should be offended!
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You answered this question yourself lady....he really likes porn...in all hetrosexual porn the man is 'serviced' by the woman, who is the 'receptacle' for his sex. You have been servicing him, once you have done that he is done with you, in fact he makes you initiate the contact to emphasise the fact that you are servicing him. What you have is a USER, not a LOVER. \n\nSorry.....
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Woah this is a big one.  1st of all i'm female and don't agree with men treating women like meat. (I'm sure if a girl told her father she was a porn star he wouldn't be too proud.) Now, if this girl's bf cares about her the same way she cares about him, he would stop looking at porn out of respect for her reasons.  Maybe she needs to find someone a little more caring to her opinions.
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Your language implies that you are highly critical of him appreciating other women. Perhaps if you relax and join him in acknowledging and appreciating other women he too will relax and not feel that he has to sneak looks. Your tension indicates a lack of self confidence. As long as his appreciation is mature and he looks at these women as one who looks at a beautiful painting or sculpture then what is there to be concerned about? If he doesn't, then perhaps you can help by directing him and upgrading his level of maturity. My wife often points beautiful women out to me...
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Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
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Just because he watches porn doesn't mean you can't trust him. Would you feel the same if he was watching horror movies, or cartoons?