How would you feel when ur guy goes off early b4 you reach orgasm, would help him have another eraction or do u just get angry or feel bad. Just wanna know
121282
well i will not get angry nor get mad if he got off first he just had more pressure on him that he had to let go and then it will give him time again to get her off or they just get off at the same time.
280773
i've never left a guy in a position like that. but i do stop grinding on him. though i do enjoy gettin yall hard...something to laugh about later.
231704
I feel you, playa!\n\nSamething happen to me, my girl came on me while 69in' and a flood of white ish poured out on me... I was like WTF, but then she explained and let me nut on her face like in a porno movie!!! Best night of my life!\n\n(Update: I like it now, when she squirts on my face!)
555314
I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
373196
I THINK ORGASM CAN BE DIFFERENT B/C SOMETIMES I DON'T NOTICE EVEN THOUGH I AM PLEASURED I DON'T FEEL MYSELF *COMING* BUT  SOMETIMES I DO AND ITS LIKE THE WORLD TURNS UPSIDE DOWN, AND I HAVE HAD ONE DURING SCHOOL OUT OF NO WHERE, WELL I WAS THINKING OF WHEN I GOT MY BOYFRIEND ALONE NEXT, BUT I WAS JUST THINKING.
627300
I use to think i was sick and asked my Dr. if i was normal to have such a strong drive that it drove me crazy and i seemed  to want more all the time. He said, it is a natural and normal feeling and some people have stronger drive than others. I started experimenting to try and learn how to control it better so not to drive me so batty. Don't be so concerned this is natural and your blessed to have orgasm's and a good strong healthy drive and desire for love. It's called life. Some people wish they could do what your able to accomplish. Masturbating is healthy and normal. The fact that you can help yourself while he's away keeps you out of trouble and satisfied. Learn to teach yourself and him how to turn you on more. Foreplay is a very wonderful way to teach and learn from each other. It will turn you both on to do this to one another and share idea's and curiosity's and fulfill each others fantasies and make some up as you go. I have personal experience and can tell you honestly that this really works as long as you are both willing and able to open up and share with each other. Good luck hope i helped
257520
Who do you find yourself thinking about as you orgasm after j**king *ff, males or females?  Is it a male or a female?  Who arouses you if you let them (not if you force it and not if you try to prevent it -- if you just let it happen) males or females?  The person who makes butterflies appear in your stomach even though you don't want them to -- is it a male or a female?  \n\nIf you are a boi as I believe you are, and you answered "females" to all those questions you are straight.  If you are a boi and you (in your honest heart, not saying what you want, but what is true) said "males" then you are gay.  If you can honestly say "both" then you are bi.\n\nYou tell or don't tell as you want, its up to you.  \n\nPeace,\n\nReyn\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
526987
Maybe it turns him on more if the girl is the aggressor and if he is passive. sort of like unconscious role playing. It's like... if I'm laying in bed and my girlfriend jumps on me and starts kissing me all over, say. Personally i like that better than if I have to be the one to reach out. Especially, i think, if he's had any harsh rejections from female figures in his life in the past--it might be reassuring to him, on some unconscious level (not just sexually) if you are the one seeking him in those encounters. It's weird.. that's part of how it works with me though. you should probably talk more about it with him and try to figure it out together. And maybe talking will lead to other things. :-)
416544
He may feel rejected but if you have talked about how you feel them i'm sure he won't.  Sometimes he may get frustrated with you...trust me I was in the same situation.  And each time he gets upset just remember that he is in a different situation.  Men tend to think of sex as a was of expressing their love.  One thing I did was to find other ways to express my love for him. I wrote tons of love notes and made cookies with his name on them.  This made my ex-boyfriend feel like I truly loved him.  You just need to have good communication and I am sure he will not be upset in any way. Good luck and if you need any advice just send me an email
241188
I get it and then it goes away quickly and suddenly I'm not as in the mood to do **things** as much!??  But it feels great building up, your clitoris gets wet, and you almost pee yourself...you get alll tingly.. it feels great right before you get to it cuz it's like the climax and  it seems like nothing else in the world could go wrong!!  If you really wanna make a woman feel good just massage her clitoris((or her vagina//around it!!)--just thinking about this makes me feel good!!.....she will absolutely LOVE IT!!!  GOOD LUCK!
483510
I've won and lost fights, but i've never felt pride in victory, and the pain of defeat is only short term.  Screw what people think and do what you feel is right.  Does this guy deserve to get his ass kicked?like if he hit you first for no reason, then do it.  If you are positive you can whoop him and its no big deal then let it slide.  If you are doing the right thing and your friends give you sh it  than get new friends.
128646
For me, I don't get an orgasm from self pleasure.  I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I almost always have an orgasm.  The deeper the better, for me at least.  That's why I like top.  I've also heard of putting your hands on her lower abdomen and pushing all the way up her body.  Hmm, sounds good off I go! LOL J/K
29878
m....bation is healthy and natural. It releases hormones that make you feel good and after orgasm make you feel relaxed...right? when you ejaculate you release millions of sperm but as soon as you are able to again you will still release millions.  As long as you take care of yourself by eating right, drinking lots of water, sleeping enough and getting at least some exercise your sperm will be just fine.\nby the way anyone who tells you that they dont masurbate is lying to you and they wouldnt do it if they didnt feel pleasure
223359
I sometimes feel the same way that you feel...and I hate it. I'm so sorry that you feel that way and no I dont think that it should be normal but everybody had bad days so what I try to do is find something to do so I want think about whatever got me down. I love you, so put a smile on your face! :)
548721
i love how guys are so strong, its sexy to know that they can "take advantage" is a playful way!!!!  i love when a guy takes control, or teases me by holding me down and not letting me move while going south. its feels fantastic and i get more out of the orgasms.
248222
Thats a funny way of handling it...Heehee.. I've had it happen and although revenge would be sweet..it wouldn't take away what happened.  Just don't let the jerk make you feel like your anything less than beautiful.  And no matter what..when he realizes he screwed up..make him choke on his own mistake.
360284
Have you tried master- bating to orgasm a couple of hours prior to your activities?  By the way, good for you for looking after your womans needs!