i F YOUR PARENTS WERE IN A LIFE AND DEATH SITUATION AND THE ONLY WAY YOU COULD SAVE THEM WAS BY HAVING SEX WITH SOME ONE OF YOUR SAME SEX, WITH WHO WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
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Screw the parental units.  They've had their time.
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You are a good hearted person and an example to all the kids struggling with their own sexuality.  I was amazed to read your post, and quite impressed.\n\nI don't know what may hurt parents, I've never understood why parents were hurt by what their children were.  I raised two boys, adopted, whom I loved very much.  They were both straight.  They were both good boys.  The only thing that ever hurt me was when one of them smoked briefly (he stopped).  I never told him it hurt me, but he saw me cry about it once, although I didn't mean for him to -- and he just stopped and never smoked again.  One of my two died in a car accident nearly two years ago, but my relationship with him prior to his death and my relationship with my remaining one is/are very tight.  Closer than nearly any straight blood father I know.  That was partially because I was always there for my kids -- not to judge them, not to use them as an extension of me -- but for them.\n\nI can imagine that the fears I would have, if I were a straight parent would be:  Disease.  Lack of a loving family later in his life. Violence directed against my child by homophobes (fear for his safety).  And, last but not least, if I were a selfish bastard, a fear that I wouldn't have grandkids.\n\nI suspect that the parents that you can't reach are those who worry about their own status, what "other" people think of them (because of you) and think that God really came from the bronze age and throws gay kids into hell.\n\nMy parents were not concerned about me being gay, my father's only comment (I came out at 14) was "be sure you love the person you are with and never hurt anyone."  Well, I've lived up to that, or at least I've tried very hard to.\n\nIf there is anything whatsoever I can do to help you with your project (I've given you as much insight as I'm likely to, but you can bounce ideas off me) then email me at the address below.\n\nWarm thoughts,\n\nReyn\n\nhttp://www.rebuff.org \nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
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No one can save you except Jesus and only if you ask Him.\n I see your point if they were open minded they could see you are just asking a question.
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My step father had left for work early one morning. My mom had gone back to bed when she heard a knocking on the front door. He had come back to tell her he wanted her to know how happy he had been with her and kissed her again, and that he loved her very much. He died in a car accident about 1 hour later. I honestly think if they have lived a good life, they will know when they are going to die.
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Ask your father how your mother managed to end up pregnant with you!
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My mom! she saved my life awhole lot of times.
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everyone should have the same rights to adopt whether you are gay or straight or single parent, just the same as straight people/couples
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I would live as long as I can.\n\nMy dad had cancer he lived for 5 months.\n\nHe was in pain but wanted to live to be with the family.
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You played adult when you had sex, do the adult thing and give the child up for adoption.  Ask for you parents forgiveness, go to school, get an education, grow up, and then worry about relationships.\n\nUntil then get smart, don't have unprotected sex and find yourself in the same situation all over again.
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Vacation with parents.  No question.  My father is dead.  My mother has alzhiemers.  After my father had died I would take my mother with us on vacation for a number of years.  She loved it.  I miss them both very much.  I feel sorry for people who don't get along well with their parents.  When they are gone, they are gone forever.
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death is an easy way out for that.  they need to be put in a room with real parents and let use take care of them.  they would wish for death when i got done with them.
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I say let'er rip all at once, like a bandaid, quick!  My ex-girlfriend didn't come out to her parents till she was 33 and told her about the girlfriend at the same time.  Worked out ok for her.  Good Luck!
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both. who would realy want to walk in on their parents. and then what would you say to  your kids if they walked in on you. you don't want to image your parents having sex, so imagine how your kids will feel if they walked in on you. no matter at what age they are. it is still confusing and just not pretty!
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have sex if you want to ruin your life \ni am waiting 4 the perfect guy\nwhich god will send to me!!!!!!!!!
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Your mother was an easy lay for your father, and the condom broke.
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I AM A VERY YOUNG LADY WHO IS MARRYED TO A MAN WITH DOWN SYNDROME, WHO I HAD TO FIGHT TO BE WITH HIM BECASUE MY FAMILY THOUGHT THAT WE WOULD END UP GETTING HURT, BY GETTING MARRYED .SO ONE DAY I CALLED UP MY HUSBAND NOW BACK THEN AND TALKED TO HIS MOM AND I TOLD HER THAT I LOVE YOUR  SON AND THAT I WANTED TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM, AND SHE SAID WHAT ANOUT YOUR PARENTS? I SAID" WHAT ABOUT MY PARENTS", I WOULD TELL THEM IN A COUNCELING MEETING I HAD. PEOPLE THOUGH I WAS GETTING MARRYED TO MY HUSBAND TO GET CLOSE TO HIS MOM AND I WAS ONLY MARRYING HIM BECASUE I LOVED HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND MY SOUL. WE ARE NOW GOING TO BE MARRYED THIS AUGUEST FOR 12 YEARS. WE HAVE ALOT OF STUFF IN LIFE YET WE WANT TO HAVE ONE BABBY AND THEN TO US WOULD MAKE OUR FAMILY COMPLETE TO US. BOTH MY HUSBAND AND I LOVE TO BE AROUND CHILDREN AND THEY LOVE US ALSO.
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I think parents try to scare us as children to keep us safe but , then make us wonder even more . No sex isnt dirty but  , i feel sex should be between 2 consenting adults and not used to have a one night thing . Makeing love is specail giving apart of yourself to some one is the most over whelming thing I can think of .