is this just a cultural fad among young hotties..?
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I think your wife if still trying to grow up.  I don't think she understands the MAGNITUDE of her decision to become married.  This may be cause for concern because it's not a good idea to make out with your wife and her friends, and still think you'll keep the same relationship.  You may need to sit her down and let her know that this behavior makes u uncomfortable.
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I agree with you, but as long as some creepy hip hop or rap star is wearing baggy pants or any other trendy mode of dress, our children are going to try and look and act like them....Back in the 50's  a lot of the boys wanted to look like James Dean or Elvis Presley,  Girls wanted to look like  the female stars of the era..But I am as sick of being in public places and looking at some kid's underwear as you are,  but fads come and go.  hopefully this one will go soon...
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Perhaps it's the idea of submissiveness, the stereotype of sweet and young Asian girls with "unique" looks.  I don't know perhaps I myself am stereotyping...but then again I am an Asian girl.  \n\nThere's always the notion that Asian girls in turn would want to marry a foreigner.
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Eh....the world of celebrities is such a fickle and fleeting thing with so little substance. One day, the ideal of beauty is one thing, and next year, it is something else. Thus I never follow the dictates of fashion or anyone else's' rules.\n\nIt is a shame to think that there are enough young girls around who'd sacrifice themselves on the "alter of ideal beauty" when it is so empty and superficial. If you must worship a worldly god, make sure he isn't so capricious and cruel, one who would abandon you at the turn of fortune.
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It is a trend but you have to decide what you want in a relationship and if they younger men are really capable of giving you what you are looking for.  If your just wanting to date and have a good time then as long as their over 21 go out and have some fun.  If however your looking for a serious relationship with someone who is stable and mature then you probably don't want to date anyone much younger than yourself.  The key is to do what is right for you and what your seeking in your life.
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No. If everyone else is into it, I'm normally not.\nDoing what everyone else is doing just because it's popular or "in" is pretty ridiculous. \nI stay out of the mainstream hype and buy or do what I like and want, not what everybody thinks is cool.\nFollowing trends is for boring people.
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Margo, they are young and their brains do not function the same way someone with life experience does.\nThere is a lot of truth to the saying: Older and Wiser.\n\nI hate to say this, but television and the media have influenced our young people into thinking they "need" to be with someone or they are a loser. Just like they influence young women that if they are not thin to the point of emanciation that they are ugly. \n\nTelevision and the media have also influence the "I want it, and I want it now" attitudes, which of course lend to the idea that they need a man NOW, instead of waiting for a young man who will be worth the time and effort.\n\nI realize that some folks will not appreciate my argument that television and the media influence our young people's perspective about relationships and themselves, but further investigation would support my view.
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some dont really. not always. you'll always catch oput the goths and neds/chavs though, there are ones in every hs almost. \n\ngoth: luvs black, wheres it alot, baggy clothes and loves rock, sometime eyeliner and white face\nchav -hiphop, rap, gold chunky jewellerytrackies, hoops, burberry, attitude some ppl think playboy but not really to me, coz i like it and im so not a chav (think vicky pollard)\npunk- bright coloured hair, studs, almost similar to goth\nskater - dont kno how to define these, bagy clothes and spiky hair? not sure on these but i know these exist, maybe caps too\ngeek - glasses, swotty etc.\n\nsure there is more but i cant think of them are just stereo types and wot ppl see in shows and tht, the only ones tht reli do exist these days are chavs and goths\nto be honest
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most of these teenagers are monkey see monkey do every one wants to dress alike where there hair alike too much tv,video, no one want's to be different. So maybe this is what one must do to fit in or be accept it. Or do they think this is coollllllllllllllllllll
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Today’s parents were youngsters a few years back and today’s youngsters would become parents of another generation. Eventually, parents are responsible for the on going trends in the current generation.\n\nI still remember one of our family friends asking his son ‘betaa aankh maar ke dikhao’ (son, show how to blink an eye) this is a real incident… I am not able to believe even after a couple of years since it happened in my presence.\n\nNow most of these parents are joining the most popular mission ‘sex education’ to children… it is just going over my head… I feel lost in the mad crowd… where, after all, they are rushing… \n\nYou may even find parents discussing romantic sequences of films and affairs between youngsters with their sons and daughters\n\nI do not want to make comment on the modern dresses that the young girls and women wear while moving around with their parents and other male members of their family… \n\nYou may even find people of fifty plus age trying to do all the indecent things in crowd… youngsters are observing every thing and whatever they observe or find approved by their parents… they would do it fearlessly\n\nTherefore, it is all the culture the current generation is inheriting from the previous one.\n\nOn this issue I am with you and I think many more would join… all the best
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maybe. people just have different tastes. \n\nor probably coz you haven't seen the hottest iraqi's, sudanese or nepalese before.
367375
I have a theory that western society is presenting the ideal female as essentially a feminine looking boy with large breasts and fat lips. The top models have figures that look like a skinny 14 year old boy who has had breast and lip implants. It's sexist in a sense -- or maybe I should say bisexist? Younger men seem to be becoming more comfortable with the "effeminate boy" sex object than with real women.
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Yeah, most of them do! \nMost of the old rich men find young girls and get them as girlfriends mostly to show off with them and to try to feel young and cool again!\nLike: "Look at me, I am rich and I have a sexy girl"!Jurks...
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I'm "only" 45... not that that is young to today's 20 and 30 somethings... but I've loved and been in love with older women ( 10 - 20+ years older) since I was 17...at least. To answer your question... this is not a fad, it's just that its "out" in the sense that younger men ( and older women) have no qualms about it anymore . Additionally, and more importantly, older women have a certain experience that younger ones don't... both intellectually and sexually. There is also no time for pretense... just learning and teaching and fun... The health question comes later, but if one really loves, one can handle that... such may be the price, but the joy before is well worth it.
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Frankly because we know longer know the art of the English Language...most of us stumble about our day looking for the right words, but some have been lost to antiquity. \nAlso because we, and I mean both men and women, are visual creatures...I myself think my husband is very handsome...but there are some buns that are just HOT! lol, and my husband thinks I'm walking sex...but yet Jessica Alba looks pretty tastey too...it's just human nature for all of the homosapien species, not just our male counterparts.
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YES!!! I LOVE younger men....I am in my early thirties and only like younger guys......they are HOT!
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You are probably right.  A celebrity fad.  You know one can't take a fart without the other one wanting to outstink the other.