If you are a man, do you think that girl is way too wild if she has sex with a man on a second date? What do you feel about her then? Would that scare you from having a long term relationship?
122047
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
550990
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
427914
I know how you feel. I dated my first girlfriend for a year. Now I am married and my husband and I both check out the cute women walking down the street. He thinks its hot. We have even thought of bringing other women into bed with us. Though so far we haven't.
78490
well if she just met him and had sex with him, chances are hes not looking for a relationship, usually that makes a guy think youre easy what ever goes through their heads, also if he was willing to have sex (especially that much) after just meeting, he probably does that with other women, sorry to say. Men like a chase, so if she really wants him, she should not be 'available' all the time, and definately not have anymore sex with him (if she wants a relationship). if he decides not to try anymore, he was just in it for sex and hes no good anyway
57748
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
355157
I've been there, and I've found that waiting for at least date 3 to have sex seems to work a lot better than hooking up on date 1!! I've never had a serious relationship develop out of a one-night stand. I'm not saying this will be the case with you, but maybe it's time to move on and save yourself the confusion. Clean slate and all.
635998
its the only way we know to share intimance. besides if he seems to be only after sex, then two things 1. either you are boring or he is boring and there is nothing else he can think to do with you other than sex. 2. or he is a wolf on the prowel and unless you are looking for the same you should probably let him be.\n\none more thing, when two girls date eachother isn't one always driving the sexuall bus. i mean i know some gay chicks and they can shame any man with their sexual exploits. so maybe its not jus the sex of the person (male or female) but the role in the relationship both parties choose for one another. if you were more sexually driven than your partner would they start acting like what it seems your acting now?? just a thought.
49251
It's up to you, but Let me tell you a little story."there once was this girl that kept getting played by all the guys she ever been with, so she began to think it was something wrong with her and she didn't go out with guys anymore, for about a year or so, then one day she decided to go out with a guy and they had been talking for about three months, kinda like you, and then the guy asked her if she would like to date on a permanate basis, she played hard to get for about a month after that in fear of getting her heart broken, now this guy though was different from the rest, he, treated her well, told her the truth about EVERYTHIMG, NEVER KEPT A Secret from her, unless it was for a surprise or something like that, but the Guy got tired of waiting for her so one day he asked one of her friends, "Am I wasting my time, becuase I really like your friend but she's not talking to me" The girl knew then that she was about to loose this guy, one who finally was different from her usual guys, so she went out on a limb and went with him, and you know what?.................................................................................................................................Now there happily married and the girl is very happy she chose to give it one more shot"  So dont give up we as women have to hold our heads high and kept it up and never let a man, keep us from reaching our goals or dreams and Never let on idot keep you from missing out on Prince Charming. And if later on the down the line, if this guy you with doesn't work out, wipe the dust off your feet and keep steppin.
664180
in my opinion any woman who wanted sex on the first date with me, regardless the age or reason. I would never sleep with nor date again. For the simple fact if she would want that and know so little about me. Would tell me she would sleep with anyone and I rather be with a woman who respected herself more and would get to know me before giving herself to me.
601936
I'm an older girl.....34....but am VERY curious about how teens deal with being gay/lesbian. I didn't come out until 2 yrs ago and didn't have to go through all the hard stuff as a kid/teen. How do you handle the dating scene? I can't imagine it. I'd have been scared to death to ask someone out for fear they'd 1) reject me and then 2) cause me no end of hell in school for it. Would love to know your thoughts on this! Send me a message if you'd like to share!     :- )
75800
If this second guy was only after her but they never got together, whats the big deal. She obviously didnt like him then or they would have gotten together so i cant see anything stopping you from bein with him or tryin it on with him. Your not goin to hurt her...You didnt say if she's with this guy you fancied first but if she is, you've def nothing to worry bout!
187967
younger or older it doesn't matter it alll depends on the person. You can't let your two bad experiences ruin your whole perspection of younger men. Some are actual okay. I say you talk to that ice piece of eye candy and see how that goes. Remember Stella had to take a chance to get her groove back.
260054
it might not make her a slut, but guys view that as being easy. Most guys I know wouldn't take a girl seriously after that. Its fine if you just wanted to have a little fun, but you weren't expecting anything to come of it. But if you are all of the sudden in love with this guy, it was probably a bad move.
526879
Would you sleep with this guy ? If so, why are you troubled about sharing draws ?\nBut also...I would take almost any dare.....that's why people are scared to dare me, because I just might, then it's there turn HEHEHE !!!!!!!!
335477
I call it damned weird.  I would also say that this guy is being played.  He should leave the situation because she's not ready to make up her mind about what she wants.
300966
The first two people being idiotic and just plain rude (respectively), I'm not sure what to do exactly here.  You must consider the fact that you had sex on the first date, however, also consider how much of a "good guy" he is (exclusive of the sex, although that is a bonus).
122082
According to her stiffing you on the date, and her reaction to asking about it, I say it's a no-win situation.  It could definitely happen with someone half your age, but I don't see it happening any time soon.  Girls at 18 are still just girls, regardless of how grown they think they are.  Younger guys are more apt to deal with this sort of behavior, because it's a younger people-type problem.  \nI won't shame you for going after a young woman, as you seem to at least have your head on straight, which I have come to find is STILL somewhat rare in men, even up to age 60 (I could be wrong, but you made it sound good)!  But I think you'd be better off to deal with someone closer to your age, even mid-twenties.  Why?  I'm 24, and I'm gaining a preference for men in their mid-thirties, though I do find people who impress me at younger ages, and older men who still disgust me with their antics.  \nI think it's probably best that you let her deal with her peer pressure and peer group mingling, and move on to greener pastures, lest you drive yourself crazy and find out I was right several months later  ;-)\n\nGood luck to you  :-)