I think I'm going to go crazy. My friends are all getting boyfriends, and I'm starting to get really annoyed with them. It's causing me to want one really badly. Although I don't want to experience a bad relationship again...
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umm... i don't think that's a good reason for wanting a boyfriend.. so what if all your friends have boyfriends? and what good will it do if you find one in a rush and just end up in a bad relationship?\ni think you should just take it slow. you can't rush love. you'll find someone when the time comes ^_^\ngood luck.
214466
When you figure that out, let me know!  My friends always come to me for advice on life and love, but I'm always making mistakes when it comes to my own love life!  :)
54308
having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
366276
Sweet heart, I do not think you should have a boyfriend, you do not need one. You are very very young and you should be having lot's of fun with your friends. Why would you want to have a boyfriend who is only going to give you headaches???! There is enough time for everything in life, when you get a little older you will have a boy friend! When you decide to have one then you will probably stop hanging out with your friends and you will not even get the chance to meet other guy's and become their friends until you actually find the one that is "Perfect" for you!!! HAVE FUN, DO NOT COPY EVERY ONE ELSE, DO NOT GET A BOYFRIEND, BELIEVE ME!!! Good Luck!!!!!
170769
Asking that question myself. In my opinion it is as simple as because they can. Now that all of my male friends know that I am broke up with my boyfriend for good, they are really coming on to me. I am strong though and I know it would only make me feel worse. I am not over my boyfriend and I also don't want to bring any left over residue from that relationship into a new one. He cheated on me. I've decided to be strong and resist the temptation. I am giving myself a year to heal and grow. I need to to focus in on what it really is I want out of life and what kind of man I really want and need.
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I have been there...not exactly in the same circumstances but at 19 My relationship finished and i know the pain you are going through, i really do..it hurts so so much and you feel that there is nothing left for you...i am now ten years older and since my split up with that boyfriend, when i was 19, i have done so much with my life..much more than i would ever have done if i had stayed with him...i have more friends now...have had lots more boyfriend...have had an excellent time... going on girly holidays...travelling...meeting new people...i sometimes wish i could go back in time and tell my 19 year old self how wonderful my life was going to be...I can't do that but i can guarentee that your life will get better and better... you will get to know yourself better, you'll do different things, you'll get excited when you have a crush on some one new...believe me, it will happen i never thought it would when we first split up but i then went on to fancying someone different nearly every month...it was great fun. I am all settled down living with a boyfriend now, all grown up..but i look back on that time and smile..it was great...it will be hard for you but look to the future...don't let him string you along... get yourself dressed and go out with some friends...be with people you like. Life is great, you can make it great with out him. Hope this helps xxx
278393
well...recently...I ended up cheating on my last boyfriend because he disappeared for two weeks then came back and ignored me for a week and I didn't know what was going on so when an old friend of mine put the moves on me about 50 times within one sitting...saying "no" got to be to hard. I should have just left, but I was so upset...I don't know what I was thinking.
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It sounds like you might be afraid of losing out altogether.  Probably both boys have some appeal to you, but probably neither one is everything you are looking for.  Perhaps if you step back and really look at yourself and look at yourself in relation to your boyfriend(s), you would find that you are afraid of being alone.\n\nDate whomever makes you feel happy, but don't be too involved yet because you aren't emotionally ready.  Spend some time doing things with other friends and get to know yourself better.  Even spend time by yourself doing things you like.  The better you know yourself, the better you will understand yourself in relation to others.
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yeah I dont think getting sick of dating is easy. Same thing with me. I date, we break up, I feel either relieved or sad depending on the reltinoship, I celebrate (whoo im single again lets party!!!), I start feeling like dating again, I date again. Rinse and repeat, Its a never ending cycle of hurt and annoyance.
160283
IDKY But it seems i have the same problem right now. I can't get my boy friend out of my mind, and he too lives in a different state...LOL...Hmmm. imagine that. weird.
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well, i honestly am going through the same sitch right now..i think it more of being jealous that your friend doesn't have time for you anymore & is more likely to be with the guy she is dating..
374956
lol..in the same boat as you...however...the only time not having a boyfriend borthers me...is when I hang out with my friends...(who are all couples) and I am the fifth wheel...than I start to feel it...or when they talk about their boyfriends....than I am like....thanks just keep talking about your relationship...and let me listen to it...while I start crying because I am lonely.,...never said any of this to any one...it hurts...mind you I am not depressed or anything..I just want to experience the whole relationship thing..I want the holding of the hands...I want to go to the movies..with my boyfriend..I want someone to cuddle with...when watching t.v...I want someone to kiss....\nHowever...I have been told...that love will come when I am not looking for it...But who knows if that is really true....\nI hope that one day I will find someone...
567803
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
570428
I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
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Well I am kinda jealous of my friend becuz she's prettier and the guys like her more. i'm different and ppl don't really like that and it hurts my feelings cuz she can get guys' phone numbers and i can't because i'm afriad that i'll get rejected.
206366
First, break up with your abusive boyfriend.  Then also realize that your other 'friend' just was just totally drunk and trying to get laid.  There are lots of guys out there.  Go out with one of them but not the two you've mentioned.
367615
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.