Be it for job, love, or otherwise.  And if so, do you regret it now, if it didn't work out, or are you still happy that you made that decision?\n:)
124713
yes i always take big opportunities
400306
Hey, I've been there.  That was how  I got my wife to marry me. I didn't think I was good enough for her either,but I spoke from the heart and told her how I felt. She could have laughed at me or made fun of me in front of her friends,but instead,she was shocked at how I expressed myself.\n The next seven years were the best time of my life till the day she died and I don't regret  for one minute that I spoke up  to tell her how I felt. Yes,it is worth it. The worst she can do is say no or "get lost loser!". Take a chance.
45880
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
118424
No, don't do it.   You need to wait.  Think how bad you will feel if you end up regretting it?!
44347
I spent the summer working on a yacht in the South of France years ago. I was going out with a girl on the next yacht. We had a great summer.\nAt the end of the season I went to visit her in the UK & found out that her family were loaded.\nWe lasted another couple of weeks. Maybe I felt out of my depth, dunno. Just didn't want to stay with her.\nWhen you find true love it will punch you in the stomach & squirt Mace in your eyes. It will not matter whether they're rich or poor. I wish my wife was rich, but she's not. I still would not swap her for the most beautiful, rich woman in the world.
382509
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
638570
No regrets what-so-ever.  I did 20 years and would do it all over again.\n\nI got to see the world, met my wife (married for 18 years), partied with some GREAT people, learned new cultures, and have brothers and sisters no matter where I go in the world.  It taught me discipline, gave me focus, allowed me to get a degree.
226700
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
569703
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
451840
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR OPINIONS YOU MUST HAVE RESERVATIONS.  I WAS IN A 2 MO. RELATIONSHIP AND WE MOVED IN TOGETHER, IT WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE, BUT WE WERE READY.  WE ARE BOTH DIVORCED WITH NO CHILDREN.  I HAD MOVED FROM NY AND HE LIVED ON MY BLOCK, WE BEFRIENDED EACH OTHER AND CLICKED, FRIENDS FIRST SEEMS TO WORK.  YES, I KNEW IT WAS SO FAST, BUT I CONSIDERED HOW I CARE ABOUT HIM AND FIGURED THAT WHEN AN OPPORTUNITY ARISES GO FOR IT, THAT IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.  IF IT DOES NOT WORK, I KNOW THAT I MADE AN ATTEMPT.  I FIGURED LIFE IS SHORT, IF I DONT DO IT, I WOULD ALWAYS WONDER WHAT IF.  GOOD LUCK!
435476
when i was 17 i started seeing this boy that i had really liked for about 2 years. He eventually wanted to make things more serious and for some reason i said no and finished with him. I now know that i shouldnt have done that cos i did and still do really like him. My life took a different path and even now 10 years later i wonder what might have been if id said yes instead of no. i still see him now and still feel the same way about him but ive never had the courage to ask him out or anything. So the answer is yes i have yes i still do feel that way about him.
201243
i think that if it is ur thing than go for it..only you have to live with urself and the choices you make..i personally enjoy it..
286179
yes i would. i'm also 26 and i would never judge a person just because something didn't work out in his life. it doesnt mean he's a failure, it just means that a certain situation didnt work out at that time in his life. \n\nBTW-------u asking me out???
354537
Be your self, the them you realised thats what you felt was right for you and you can do it better than your current job or you've been dying to do that very job but your chances have been minimal. hope this helps.
472435
I regret that I had too trusting of a soul and too soft of a heart when I decided to take 41,000 dollars that fell into my lap (a lucky employee buyout stock break!) and used it to help coworkers and friends with their debts and bad luck. I even helped one lady with a down payment on a new house.\nNobody paid one damned dime back to me, and now that we've all been laid off.... I'm stuck paying the thousands of dollars in penalties back to the IRS all on my own. \nI regret the day I decided to touch that money instead of pretending it wasn't there and just let it grow for my retirement. \nGGGRRRRRRRR!!!! NEVER again!!
359858
I'm not truly happy, I guess I'm pretty happy though when I put it into perspective.. But I don't want things to stay the same as they are now. Since I'm very young and have lots of time to change things, I hope to be truly happy in the future and find everything I am looking for. I hope that for everyone else too.
640297
it's a choice.  now that you've made it, the best thing to do is get on with you life, don't waste time wondering if you did the right thing.