Why do guys watch porn and dumb stuff like that. It is to sexual
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You know the wrong men.  OR you are very young, & you need to worry about making yourself right while the guys your age grow up.\n\nMy husband desires my companionship & my love first, my body last.  If you want to attract men who will love you for YOU, first of all, dress the part.  If you value yourself for who you are & not what you look like, and you'll attract men who do, too.  If you are one of those young girls who flaunts her body because she thinks she has nothing else to offer -- you will only meet men who want your body.\n\nIf you dislike your body & you are shy because of this, you won't be attractive to anyone.  Work on yourself, love yourself, work on your confidence -- and you'll find a guy who values YOU.  Men love confidence!\n\nPut down those fashion mags & make yourself the best you can be.
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Because their crazy and think we are always up to something. And if its not finding women it must be looking at porn then. "at least thats what they think"\n\nThey don't realize we're in yahoo answers all day!! LOL
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It gives people a carnal thrill or a high - almost like a drug-enduced high. They are the center of attention, it feels good, it's exciting, it's sexy, and it takes up time where they may otherwise be bored. But in the end, it's stupid and silly and embarrassing and addictive and sometimes dangerous.They may even end up all over the Internet, naked for all to see - without their knowledge or approval. Internet sex lowers a decent human to the stage of self-entertaining porno star. How can that be satisfying?
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Cuz the best porn is made at home brutha :)
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Porn isn't one of those things that everybody is ok with. It could be that he's embarrassed of his interest in them - that might be why he lied about them. I'd say that you did great. Let him know that you're open to watching one with him sometime...that let him know that you don't think less of him for watching them, right?
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All men are visual creatures.  Most men like to look at the female body, we find it attractive.  We do not have sex with a woman based on the way we "feel" about her, it's about the way she looks.  Just because your husband is getting the visual stimulation from watching porn, it doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.  He propbaly lied to you about the porn because you admitted to watching it "to make him feel okay" and he believes that you dissaprove of it and he doesn't want to offend you.  So, if you are truly okay with it, let it ride.  If not, he'll keep hiding it.  Nevertheless, boys will be boys, don't let it get to you.
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Usually when a man is looking at porn it's because he has certain fantasies that he is interested in but for what ever reason he is fearful of telling his wife or significant other. Many times men when they are married put their wives on a higher plane so to speak. They wouldn't want them to do the things they see on these porn sites. Try to talk to him and tell him what you would be interested in trying. Men don't realize that if they ask, many times their lady would be more than willing to try things with them.\nIt keeps things spicy and helps to keep the two of you out of a sexual rut.\nGood luck
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What ever you do dont show him porn...
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no.... it's just fantasy and not reality... that's all porn is, is he with you or them??? who does he lay down by every night and have sex with??? If you answered you to both questions- then stop thinking the porn is anything other then fantasy and yes all guys do it and yes it's normal... Instead of worry, join in it and tap into some of them fantasies he has....
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what are you trying to hide??? hey, its ok to watch porn, we all do it :)
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I personally do not like porn just for the fact that I think it's gross and unrealistic. Too many people really believe that women should not only look like that, but they think that what is happening on the screen should happen in their bedroom. Unfortunately, too many men think that they got a raw deal when their woman doesn't look or act like those trashy women they see in the movies. Thumbs down!!
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Excuse me if I sound a little impolite but I think you have a control issue here! YOU thought it was time to share fantasies; YOU told him you should watch porn together; YOU have a higher sex drive; what can YOU do?\n\nFor goodness sake, give the guy a break.  Not everyone enjoys fantasies and porn and some people are a little uneasy with that level of intimacy.  Listen to him and his needs.  He doesn't want that right now.  Stop pushing or you will lose him.
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Highlights are kinda like glossy lips. Women only do it because men like it. Men only like it because most of them beat off to porn on the internet, and that's how porn stars do themselves up.
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Oh my gosh...I do and I am straight. To be honest, I would rather watch porn movies because of the female and not the male. It just looks more kinky.
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Some women like porn, and are turned on by it...then others are repulsed and disgusted by it. And there are some in the middle...the closet porn watchers...those are the ones who watch it and kind of enjoy it, but would never admit it!!!
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I can tell you that he is cheating. If he is looking at porn, when you two are having sex he is not thinking of you. When you look at those images, you are in total control over everything that happens. You also have no commitment to them and you are not exposed to being vulnerable. But , when you are with a real women you have to take the time to understand them and what they desire, you have to emotionally connect with another person, and after that they are still there you don't just turn them off. I think there are probably other underlying factors about his emotional state that he chooses to look at porn to medicate. You need to decide if this is how you want to spend the rest of your life or not.
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What is the big damn deal? It's just porn, it's not like he's sleeping with some other girl or cheating on you.