My husband always GRABS my breasts and then expects me to turned on. I have told him several times it does NOT turn me on, just the oppisite. I cant even sleep at night without him grabbing me. Its disgusting. YES i have told him this. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND ME?
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For a minute there I thought I wrote this.Or maybe we've married the same man.lol.Why do they expect us to get all....excuse the saying...hot and horny from boob groping.I really cant answer u but please let me know what people suggest.The only suggestion i have is grab him roughly (u know where) when he least expects it.Let's see his arousement then!!!! lol.
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has he tried any foreplay? i have learned that foreplay is important for my wife to have a pleasurable experience. \n\nalso, distractions could definately be an issue because i am in a similar situation as you are. my wife has mentioned that she was uncomfortable with the living situation so its hard for her to "be herself" at times...i have learned that the atmosphere has to be just right  for a woman.
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Like me, he's a MAN.  We like to touch women, it's built in like breathing.  Tell him you like it and rub his back next time.  Sheesh!
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Frankly, I don't see what the issue is.  My question to him would be:  "Do you NEVER masterbate?"  to which I doubt he could say that he never does.  It's the same thing.  he should be glad that he has someone who enjoys the aspects of being a sexual woman.  He shouldn't feel threatened by it.  Maybe you could introduce other toys (ones that get used on him) and make your sex life with him more adventuresome.  It's meant to be fun.  Why is he so insecure about it?  It's definitely not as if you were screwing another man.  Good luck, and enjoy your sexuality.
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This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
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WOW I am so sorry....never heard of a woman not liking her breasts touched...Did something happen to her when she was younger???_
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lets see if you just wanna make your husband adore you, you could try changing your look, or giving him a surprise, like a sexy evening! \nI draped some black sheets over our couch and over the TV set and lit a bunch of candles i also put out some champagne and and strawberry's on our coffee table, and i bought some very sexy lingerie! its a bold move but he seemed to really like it and from that day on he just looked at me differently! you should try it!!
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Well dear first clearly tell him your feelings. Then show him some part of your boobs in a sexy manner when you two are alone. Let him feel that you wanna ride his cock.
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Absolutely normal! It seems that you are the only one that turns him on. And besides he maybe preoccupied with other more important things.\n\nGood Luck!
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I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...
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With all honesty, he sounds like a perv. But this question isn't about that, so in my opinion is sit him down and ask him if he respects you. His answer is key to your relationship, cause if he doesn't then it should end it right then and there. After asking him that ask him why when you take his hand away for your boob, that it somehow finds its way back again and again. Make sure you have a serious look on your face and have a serious tone, so that he knows that you dislike that stuff happening. Tell him that you are a lady and if he respects you then he will not let it happen ever again. But here is another key part, if you let it happen again, then you do not respect yourself, and don't expect him to either. But I give you my best wishes and thoughts.
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He probably just doesn't want to say what he'd like, or hasn't thought about it that much, but there is probably something.  Let him know what you would like to try and it will most likely turn him on.  I had a girl tell me she wanted me to titty-f her and I liked it because she wanted it.  Cheerleader outfits are great.  Anyways, he'll get more comfortable if you are and he'll probably tell you something he'd like to try.
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He's probably just really tired. Not that I can quite compare with my boyfriend to a husband, but I kinda, well, "bullied" him into it (ok maybe bullied isn't the right word... persuaded?) after awhile things started to go downhill. It caused a tear in our relationship, a big tear. (which is now fixed...) My suggestion would be to maybe go to an adult store for some purchases to relieve the itch. And maybe set up for a romantic night with your husband with warming aromatic oils to give him a body massage, make him a nice dinner beforehand, fix his favorite meal, romance him up and maybe he'll open up a little more. Also consider sitting down to a chat later on. Good luck and I hope all goes well for you!
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I wish I knew.  I've never had this problem.  It doesn't take much to encourage me at all!  I actually have the exact OPPOSITE problem that your husband does.
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He sounds like a young guy who hasn't acquired the knowledge and experience to know or even care what a woman needs from the love making experience.\n\nCommunicate your needs to him. If he doesn't start taking them into consideration soon, kick him to the curb and go get one of those battery operated boyfriends.
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why do men with BO turn me on?\nMy Daddy ate the remote and he keeps changing his mind.\nwhy won't my cousin billybob sleep with me his sister?(the rest of the family has)
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Sounds like he was not held enough or breast-fed enough as an infant. Missing mother love. Well, you can make an issue of it, but I doubt that he will change. He was like that before he met you. You have to decide how bad it bugs you. If it is too much, then guess you have to find another boyfriend who is a bit more considerate. \n\nAll men look at women. They seem to be judging whether or not the woman is attractive, worthy of more of their attention. Hormones, mating urge, I don't know. Men look. We are visual creatures. Women look too. Maybe they are more discreet. \n\nAgain, your decision on how much it bothers you.