I dont want to look like a nerd doing it
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Talk. If you just smile and stare people will wonder about you. In your mind, make talking an art form. Eventually, you will speak beautifully.
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I don't have a problem with it. It just looks silly, especially on adults. You can still look presentable and still be "cool".
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Do what you feel is comfortable, don't worry about them, you dont' have to empress them....if it makes you feel better just keep a t shirt on...or just wear the two piece and who cares what they say or think, be confident, you can fake it...God bless
659072
dont assume ..............and i am not being assertive
499181
then dont do it.\ninstead of wrying about it just learn to love yourself.\n<3
405776
No, I don't normally care what people think of the way I dress. The only time I dress to impress is for a job or something important.
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Just be who you are and not what other people think you should be. Appreciate who you are and enjoy being you.
417213
A need to make yourself seem more interesting.
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I would never do something like that. Call me strange, but I prefer to keep my modesty and dignity. I want people to respect me, not think of me as the person who exposed myself to a crowd of people.\n\n A few additional thoughts: Do you actually think your guy friends respect you because you streaked at the game? Trust me, you are the butt of jokes when they are together. You probably now have a reputation of being "easy."
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Will power. Make up  your mind. YOU are in charge of you. You are worth the effort to NOT do what you don't like. GO for it dude, I did it with sodas, and I was a soda-aholic. You can do it. People respect you when you respect yourself. Decide who you are, stick with it, and don't give in to peer pressure.
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If youre worried about it then trim yourself up a bit. Theres no sense in being a Wookie if it bothers you.
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Ok however you see yourself that is exactly what everyone else will see. You think that you are a dork then you are a dork it's up to you how you want people to see you. If you need to make some changes don't be afraid of self improvement it is only to better yourself you don't have to change your morals or standard think how you want to be recieved by people then and take a look at your best qualities about yourself and use them listen to or read a lot of self help books because their are people just like you had the same problems and now they are either popular or they are movie stars you name it people change what they feel they don't like about themselves usually they start with negativity stop being hard on yourself and give your own self a chance! Start beleiving in yourself and start with a positive mind don't hang out with people that don't except you and always have something negative to say about you or treat you not so nice the real friends will come eventually
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I say go for modesty. I don't want to look at people dressed that way and I wouldn't want my kids to either.
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The best advice I can offer is to be yourself. Everyone can spot a fake. Then, find something you enjoy, perhaps a talent and build on that.  You could possibly impress someone with your hobby. Be sure to ask  questions and seem generally interested. Most importantly remember to smile.
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Show youre better (or dress like a tramp around him)
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thats something that isn't cool you shouldn't have to find out what's in and then try to be it. Just be yourself, look the way you want, act the way you want, and then you'll find someone that likes you for who you are not who your not.
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Try to not imitating others style. Do your own style. Just enjoy it.