my boyfriend is so jealous when i talk to another guy he accuses me of cheating on him with that guy and when i ask him anything he will lie about it...! im so fed up! should i leave him alone or confront him?
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Yes, you had no right calling him.  Just because it was a guy that she was talking to doesn't mean she was cheating on you.  I can relate to this because I broke a 5 year relationship because of something like this.  My ex was accusing me to cheating on him with someone that was over 300 miles away because I talked to this person everyday.  I asked him to leave over 3 months ago it was hard to break it off with him but I couldn't live with him always looking through my stuff.  Now he says that he shouldn't have gotten into my stuff and acted like he did...but he did it himself over nothing. SUCKS THAT MEN ONLY THINK THEIR GIRLS CAN ONLY HAVE OTHER GIRLS TO VENT AND TALK TO!!!!
64417
I think you should go ahead and tell your boyfriend about your feelings for the other guy.  If he really cares about you and wants to save the relationship, he would want to know the truth. Besides, it would be worse if your boyfriend found out you were having feelings for another guy from someone else.
659317
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
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I'm sort of confused on this question.  Who are you talking about?  Is your boyfriend for the past 12 yrs the 19 year old.  I hope not!  Who gets jealous?  The boyfriend or the 19 y/o?  You are looking for an answer to something I can't decipher.  You need to try again.
161409
He sounds jealous and that is his problem and not yours. This can wreck a relationship. Just tell him you are with him and to cut out making problems where none exist.
54917
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
123624
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
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Nah, it sounds like he isn't being honest with you, and that is a major component in a distance relationship.  If he's lying to you now then it will only get worse as time goes by and he gets away with more.  Also, once a cheater always a cheater.  It sounds like you need to find someone a bit closer.
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you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
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He's not lying about what? Seeing other people? How much he really 'loves' you?\n\nAnd aren't you lying to yourself?  Do you _really_ love this guy?  You've cheated on him once already.\n\nSave yourself a lot of future heartache and worry.  Break it off now.  Invest some time in yourself, and find someone local that you can build a real relationship with.
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i think he still wants to be with you. he just seems to be a little over protective and gets jealous when u look at another guy. u should talk to him about that
360799
You definitely need to find something else to do, I would call it obsessed. Why do you bother to put yourself through this, if he is your boyfriend and openly cheating on your? What is your malfunction? Grow a self esteem and move on with your life stop wasting time with a looser, who is willing with out remorse to disrespect you. Good luck and God bless
207252
no, it doesn't mean that he is cheating on you or that he wants to. but it does mean that he's a a$$hole. if he's your boyfriend he should never tell you that someone else, especially your sister, is hotter than you. get rid of him. the guy screams loser.
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Confront him! Try to get him in front of as many people as possible and ask him why he's lying about you. Say you know he must be a very insecure person that's why he always puts other people down to make himself feel better about himself. Then just walk away. He'll look a right idiot. Good luck!
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If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
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I went through this, but the guy cheated on me. I still have anger for him, which happened a little over 3 years ago, my current boyfriend though the same way your girlfriend is think about the anger. You need to tell your girlfriend that you have anger built up towards her because what she did was wrong and you can't forgive her for that. But one thing I do suggest is that when your around your girlfriend don't mention anything about your ex cheating on you, pretend you don't even know who she is now. It is hard but trust me it pays off in the long run. I know don't even think about my ex cheating on me, because I love my boyfriend now and I'm happy with him. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her exactly how you feel about the whole situation.