He lies to me constantly and I think he is kicking it with someone at his job
126076
possibility that he is. do you have more than just his lies to back up your question? Did he say anything, not say anything, or lie about something big? Ask him what is going on. he might just b honest with you. good luck!
552562
Thats funny!  I am in the same exact boat.  A co-worker who is engaged but flirts with me constantly even sexually explicit flirting.\n\nMy instinct is telling me maybe she is unhappy with this dude so maybe I just need to take the next step to press the issue.
8122
totally ignore him. pay him no attention. he'll eventually get tired of everything he is doing right now.this ex bf of yours might be an egoistic one that's why he is telling other people lies about you but if you know yourself that you're not the person he is talking about, i mean you know that what he says is not true you should not get affected. good luck.
190395
Come clean girl.  The longer you live a lie, the worse the situation becomes.....and the deeper the hurt.  Put yourself in his shoes. I know, now you're too scared to fess up.  But you owe him that much.  I know you'll make the best decision....
456366
you need to change your number straight away yes this guy is mentally ill and a lazy good for nothing bum you sound way to good for him dont let him put you down all this crap in 8 weeks i dont know how you put up with him stay clear of him sounds like jealousy is a big factor here......
395967
The guy is a control freak. I have been in similar situations myself. good for you for trying to break free get councelling but please realise it may take years to undo all the psychological damage he has caused you.\n\nYou can only truly break free with professional councelling so please do that for me because i know what it's like.\n\nGood luck, you deserve happiness. :-)
79535
Count yourself lucky.  You don't want to be with someone who lies.  It will just take time to move on.
433295
think he has a drug problem, and honestly lucky u kept your job and didn't put too much credibility into the move. u may love him but staying with him will only bring u down also  where he is. he won't talk to u because he don't want to be accountable, and he doesn't want help, or changes. he will keep doing the same things, and he is putting your credit in jeprody.this kind of man will always blame others and never take responsibility for any of his actions. there is nothing u can do to make it any different, if u stay with him your hurting yourself, and your son. get out now before it gets even worse. he can't be trusted or helped until he is willing to come clean with whatever it is that's causing this. it is a pattern of behavior with him, loosing job's, not being responsible with money, he will destroy you. u still have your son and your job, be happy for what u do have. odviously his marriage and job's are not really a priority.
160252
could it be that you have another problem that leads to your distrust of him? Guess we need more details and facts to determines if he's cheating. I mean just talking on the phone doesn't prove anything. you should look for unaccounted time (working late, times he can't tell you about things he's done) before fighting with him about it. \n\nif you're going to ask questions. be smart about it and make it casual. don't push.
257489
Talk to the friend.  Ask him what is going on with him, and let hm know that you have observed a change.  Maybe he is under some severe personal stress, or dealing with depression or some other mood altering condition.  Depending on the response that you get, you may either find a way to work out the solution with the cranky friend, or go to management to seek a solution.  \n\nNo matter what the friend says or does, make certain that your behavior is professional.  If you do decide after trying to work out the problem with both the friend and the management, that you will no longer choose to work there, then give proper notice, do your work, get a good reference and go find another job, preferably while you are still working.
339293
i think you did the right thing- but i feel you may be letting people take advantage of you- should he be mad?  whats that about? why worry about that? he should be reported to the manager, when EVERYONE works together as a team things get done alot faster and they are alot more happier and people would really enjoy and love going to their jobs.  really life is to short, people now days need to love each other just as they would want to be loved and treated.
394216
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
520369
call and report him to the police.  let them know how often he is calling and how scared you are.  im sure unless youve done something to really piss someone off its just someone getting their sick thrills but definitely keep your doors locked and try not to be alone
18092
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.
186511
I'm not sure he is lying or not , but if he is good friend he must know month is enough to make you hard feeling with him , no one can help him all time but he must help him self , tell him direct now you have problem with your family hope he understand and go way from you . \ngood luck
544555
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
228996
i was just thinkin about something like this today at work because one of my co-workers  cant help but exaggerate everything  and lies about anything and tells this stuff to my boss. so yea i hate that.