Need help, have never had sex. i dunno what to do, where to do it and what it feels like, give me some tips.
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The question tells me you're not ready.  The 'how & where' question is not as important as why? and with whom?  Are you ready to deal with issues of pregnancy/contraception, STD protection, and emotional effect that becoming sexually active.  \n\nTalk with a trusted relative or family friend befor eyou take this next step
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If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
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Yes I have and nothing happened. I was nervous for a while. I will probably never do it again because it wasn't worth the nervousness that followed. Someone told me this once and maybe it'll help answer the question of whether you should or not, " Before you have sex with someone, ask yourself if you would be willing to have a kid with them and have them as a part of the rest of your life". If you can answer yes to that, then don;t worry about it....
99992
listen , its normal to feel this way at our age, i am 20 , i am a virgin but i know i wanna wait for the right person, sex just for the heck of it is not satisfying abd sometimes bad, very bad, u might feel sorry u did it just out of lust, so fall in love and then have sex, it will b great i am sure, dont have any experience but i know it is only great with the right person. I am sure u wont want to spoil ur FIRST time, its always special,wait for the rt person.
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First we need girth\n\nAlso either she's figured out you are a virgin, or she wonders why you haven't tried to sleep with her yet\n\nPlease make sure you you find a way to let her know before you have sex that you are a virgin - it really sucks (pardon the pun) to be getting down to it and figure out that he is scared to death - she needs to know that she needs to take the lead - and please please listen to what she is telling you  - you can learn a lot from a girl if you just do what she says - she's not going to ask you for something in bed if she doesn't really want it -  and don't forget the protection\n\nlet her know \nrelax\nlisten\nprotection\n\nAnd the other girls are right about don't believe the 9" stuff - not in the real world ans also smaller is better a lot of the time - I personally don't prefer pain
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whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
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No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
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You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
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when you are having sex ,just imagine your past foreplay.if it doesn't work then, meet sex therapist b/cos you may have organismic dysfunction.
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Well, how old are you? If you've never had sex and you're still young, it's probably just your period starting up slowly.\n\nIf you're an adult and are sexually active, that's just gross.
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Hold on to your virginity. It's a real gift from God. You should be very thankful that He's preserved you. People nowadays brag and act as if fornication is the greatest thing and if you don't do it your considered wierd and unusual. \n\nRemember what St. Peter said about these type of people, "They think it's strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation, and they heap abuse on you. But they will have to give an account to Him (God) who is ready to judge the living and the dead." \n(1 Peter 4:4,5)\n\nStaying just the way that you are pleases God greatly. And who would you rather please? God or Man? The Lord will surely reward you for your patience. \n\nKEEP FIGHTING THE GOOD FIGHT AND ALWAYS PRAY!
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After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
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Dude you've got it made. I just hope if you guys do go seroius, that you don't run out of sick and twisted things to do to eachother later on in life. You have got to keep that sense of sexual excitement or else, you know, the magic is gone. Go on now, get naked and get nasty. I think it's friggin awesome.
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No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
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well, if you are a virgin n wanna stay like dat i suggest u juz stimulate ur clitorus.(i hope u know where it iz)...u can do this by frantically stimulating ur clitorus n fantasizing bout u know.....stuff.that shud b enuff......lol wat mo d u want.
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Its not really that bad. If you dont feel comfortable with it than that is just fine! \n\nThere should be no reason that you should force yourself into feeling comfortable just because society, or anyone on Yahoo! Q & A tells you you should. \n\nIf you have tried it before and you dont like it, than dont do it if you dont want to. Dont let anyone forec you to do differently. \n\nIf you have never done it, than why not give it a shot? There may be a chance that you do like it. I used to be completely pertrified by the though of any kind of oral sex. \n\nIt took me a few times but now I love it. Both giving and recieving.\n\nStick to your feelings
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First of all, you are normal for not having sex at your age. And I want to tell you, Just because your friends are doing it does not mean that you should do it too. I want to commend you for having a great head on your shoulders. By no means should you have sex because "its the cool thing to do" Ask these same girls in a couple of years and I bet that they will tell you that they wish that they had waited.\n You are not ready for sex by any means, and I will tell you why. First of all if you were ready, you would not ask this question. I also think that you are young, but I am aware that most sex does take place at a young age...I am 10years older than you. My first time was after highschool at 19 years old. And you will ask me..Do you wish you had waited? Yes I do wish that I waited. The guy I did it with was a horrible person.\n  Your best friends are highly insecure. They are teasing you because they are jealous. They are jealous because they wish they would have waited. And you will regret it if you have sex because your girlfriends pressured you. My personal feelings is that if these girls were really your friends, they would not tease you like that.\n  When you decide to have sex, there really should not be pressure. Not to sound like an old fart or old school, but sex is loads better when its with someone you LOVE completely and Trust!! You do not love and trust your boyfriend at all. And trust me, having sex because you think your fat and ugly will not make things better for you. In fact if you have sex because of that, it will get worse. It will add up a hefty number of sexual partners, believe me.\n  At your age, you should be starting your life and not worrying about when you are going to have sex. Believe me, the time will come for that, and if you only knew how true that statement is you would understand. I had "friends" once that teased me because I would not have sex with this guy...and this was right after highschool. They were not my friends at all. \n  Sex can be overrated. You will not like your first time, I won't lie to you. So you might as well wait until its someone you love and care about. Trust takes time. I bet you are a beautiful snazzy gal and I doubt very much that you are fat and ugly. You are soo young, and its unfortunate you are feeling this way about yourself. Please don't have sex because your friends are doing it.\nIts not worth the aggravation.\nYou seem like you have a terrific head on your shoulders. Please be concerned about the diseases because they are out there. And if you want a guy to be tested before you sleep with him they should respect that. If not, that is when it is time to say goodbye.\n\nGood luck sweetie, and follow your heart.