when i go to see if he is cheating or have someone to call him he isn't doing anything. and i told me that he had cheated on me was i wrong for taking him back?
129688
huh?  sounds like u r a booty call ms. wildnewbooty.
406265
Hello u should not even ask what do we think!! i think u KNOW he has cheated on U! theres no way a guy would wear a girls ring and take off out of town with her if there was nothing going on!  looks like u need to divorce this loser!
439614
I've been there done that and i wouldn't make it easy for him if i did take him back. You need to make sure that your the one that he wants and he's threw messing around on you and if he feels the need to cheat on you again he needs to be man enough to tell you that he wants to see someone else. Tell him he has to earn your trust back.
119162
It doesn't sound like you want him so it would be WRONG to go back to him.\n\nAlso it didn't work out the first time, so it probably wont work this time.
114719
No, he isn't.  I think it would be in your best interest to look into getting a divorce.  He has basically abandoned you for someone else.  You deserve better than a guy who walks out on you.
274675
I think the real question is do you really want him back?  You obviously showed that you care for him but apparently that (by what you said) really didn't seem to matter.  The fact that he had a kid with someone else is another thing.  Being as if you could trust him even after that.  You supported the hell out of him multiple times.  If I were him I'd be all for you, weather he sees that or not.  If you really love him, I'd give him one more chance.  He might see how important you are, but likewise he might not.\n\nThis matter is really more dependent on how you feel about busting your butt for him and him just leaving you hanging.  If you truly love him and think it could work, got for it and give him one more shot.  If you feel doubtful in any way I'd just say forget it.  You seem like a kindhearted person, love should naturally find its way to you.
89092
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
150934
Sorry to hear about this, I am sure it is tearing you apart inside.  Unfortunately, I think it is over.  By what you are saying, it would appear that he has someone else.  The signs look like they are all there, sadly.  Whether he is cheating on you or not, it seems clear that he has moved on and you aren't packed up in his moving van!  I suggest that you cut your losses before you lose more of yourself.  It is always tough when this kind of situation comes up.  You have invested your time, life and deep emotions into something that you thought would last and for no known reason, you are abandoned and alone when you need it the most.  It is just going to hurt you more if you carry on with this non-relationship that is going on.  Just leave him alone and try to move on, if he decides to contact you, YOU be the one who is busy or something.   If he wants to get serious with you, tell him that he will need to tell you why you should pay attention to him and to tell you what all the secrecy was about, why he was too busy for you and why he left you, basically, all alone?  Good luck, I'm sure there are many much better guys out there who will appreciate you and the love you have to offer!
265019
he cheated on you and now he's accusing you of cheating on him because you won't sleep with him?!! no offense to you, but somethings really wrong with him. you have to talk to him.
207068
If you think he's cheating drop him, as for him saying he will not beg you...if he really loves you, he will miss you and he will beg you to come back.  Most of all, don't answer for awhile, let him wonder what you're up too!!!
373038
I wouldn't be his back up. That is what it sounds like. He keeps her incase you 2 dont work. I duno whats wrong with him. He sounds like a catch. Not. I feel bad for you. What an ass.
174684
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
206973
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
73990
y did u do it? u don't trust him? if u don't trust him... y b together in the first place? a relationship would not last if both parties do not trust each other... talk it over with him. COMMUNICATION is the word! :)
80888
I gave one guy a second chance and he did it again.  Proceed with caution.  If you're faithful you absolutely have the right to expect the same from return. He's accusing you because he'll feel better if you both did it.
108867
Two wrongs don't make a right!!!! However, if he was to think you had cheated on him and you got his reaction then maybe it would knock him down a notch or two. Unfortunately 90% of the time once a cheater always a cheater....not always but most of the time...One thing is for sure you may forgive but you will never forget and it will always be in the back of your mind!! Good Luck!
373581
maybe he had a change of heart? or he is seriously wondering if your the right one for him. don't contact him. he has your number if he never calls again then your better off. do you want someone to be with you if they don't want to? if, he calls then continue your relationship. in the meantime don't sit around waiting on this man. get out and mingle with friends who knows maybe he is not the one. sorry but i don't want to lie and make you think he will call.