I am really shy, and I really like this girl. I just don't know what to say when I talk to girls, and I don't want to screw anything up because I want to go out with this girl. Please help me.
123240
hi,  what you could do before you make that phone call, is to   sit down with a pen and paper and   make a few notes on what you would like to say and how best to say it..  she will never know you have a little cheat sheet in front of you  and it   will give  you a reference   if you get tongue tied ! ... you might want to     write down a few  notes such as   something about school  / mutual friends or interests  movies /TV shows  etc..    to start the conversation going..  example = " hi ______  this is _____   (if your in school and have the same class) =  I was wondering if you knew   what pages we were suppose to do for homework, I forget to jot it down "..etc... then branch out in to  any current event / TV show  movie etc... ask her if she saw it /liked it.. etc...    or  if she would like to see  a movie with you  or grab  a bite to  eat etc..  good luck !
143719
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
165998
here`s the thing. you probably are a young person or fairly young. there is no reason not to talk to her. i was like you and felt nervous around girls i liked and not around other girls. i have found out as i get older that you should go talk to any girl that intersts you. the only thing they can say is that they are not interested and then you move on to the next one. its not the end of the world and knowing they are not interested is better than not knowing forever... good luck i hope this helped...
233989
i like all girls. You can be shy, but that shouldn't stop you from showing your interest to a guy. You don't really need to talk...just flash a smile. most of the time thats all you need to do.
316285
I'm a shy guy too--it's hard to ask a girl out, even harder to approach a girl you like. How do you know this girl likes you? I mean if you you or are pretty sure she likes you, that should make the asking easier, right? Just ask if she wants to do coffee or a drink. If you can't do in person, then do it on the phone, or pass a note. LOL I wish I had a girl I knew liked me--it would be easy (easier) to ask her out. You're lucky in some respect. Go and do it already!
468430
If you said it as you wrote she would probably not freak out but be in a little shocked? Especially since you don't know if she likes you. I would edit what you say and tone it down just a little. Try something like this:\nWhen you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tingly inside. You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. I think you're such a sweet, kind, and caring person.\n\nThen see what she says. If she is receptive, ask her out on a date. Have something in mind already in case she asks where you plan to take her.\n\nI just re arranged some of your wording and cut out the beginning. The beginning is a little too much at this stage imo.\nWith regards to whether it is love or a crush, well I guess right now it's a crush until you get to know her a little better...
181522
Yes!!!! Look Being shy is alright.. but not being tooo shy.. because then a girl would get confused.. she wouldn;'t know  how you feel around her.. you need more confidence in yourself so you can talk to girls.. ask ur self these questions.. Why am i scared to talk to girls??? And you will get ur answer.. \nAnd remember.. Girl's wont go for tooo shyy guys.. so be aware.. good luck.. it will take time.. but u can IMPROVE!!! be Bold n go talk to girls!! datz all  ican say...
199754
The best thing that you can do is to be yourself. Talk about things that you know a lot about (ie. music, movies, a sport/hobby). Also be sure to ask the girl about herself, her interests, who she hangs out with. This will show the girl you are interested in getting to know who she is inside and it will help you figure out what you have in common to talk about.\nGirls can tell when someone is being genuine and down-to-earth, and when they are not. Any girl worth being around is going to want someone genuine and will like you for who you really are not who you pretend to be.
237257
Sounds like you're a real ladies man! I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you like a girl just approach her. Don't be cheesy with stupid pick-up lines or anything. Just general conversation. A genuine compliment never hurts either, just don't gush. As far as you exuding confidence, smile and stand up straight. Be comfortable in your own skin and just be yourself. Don't put on an act just to impress a girl. She needs to like you for who you are. If you try to put up a front to impress her it will come back to haunt you eventually.
523398
Just ask! Most girls like a guy who can just ask even if they are shy. You being shy and asking just shows how much you like her.\nThis is just my opinion. Maybe if you can't get the words out try-a a letter?!
87480
Women like men who are up front and confident.  Just go up to her and ask her if you could talk privately with her. She'll most likely say Ok. Then just tell her you find her attractive or just say you like her and would she be interested in going out on a date.  She'll either say no thanks, sure I would love to, or I'll think about it. If she says no, then forget it. If she says yes, then you got it made. If she says I'll think about it, it usually means she's interested in you and will go out with you. But don't be timid, be up-front. It won't kill you if she says no. Just count it as practice, and ask another girl out.
451061
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
372014
Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
374399
Communication is the foundation of any relationship.  You have to break free from your shyness and start talking to these girls that you are interested in.  Do your best to have idle chit chat and you should be able to overcome it pretty easily.  Good Luck!
147777
Tell here straight away that you are shy, but you've seen here around. That you don't want to try any lame lines on her but you would like to get to know her. Just be sincere don't worry about being rejected, you haven't gotten to that point yet and if she is the type of person that wont give another the time to get to know her then is she even worth the trouble?
546322
The first step, smile. see if you get a smile back. If she holds your gaze that is an invitation to approach her. You could say a variety of things, compliment her clothing/hair/eyes ettc, talk about the weather, the band, anything at all. Something as simple as "Do you go to alot of concerts' can be the beginning of a wonderful conversation. Don't be intimidated it it takes a few tries before you find a girl that wants to talk. We have been raised to be vary. You are in a casual environment though so just go for it. What do you have to lose?
171263
wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)