I'm hot, kind and smart, but guys never notice. How do I get them to without looking like a slut? (GUYS ONLY!!)
133055
I got my guy to notice me by being MYSELF. If you have to change the way for a guy to like you than hes not worth it.
502636
The question is, do you think you're hot?  Only your opinion of yourself matters.  How you feel about yourself is actually projected to others in how you carry yourself and your personality.  I'm not talking about being snobby or stuck up but confident.  You'd be suprised in how attractive a confident person can be to the opposite sex.
551119
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
460107
BE YOUR CONSIDERATE SELF. YOU SEEM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS. I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS. DON'T BE ALL TO SUAVE & OVER SEXY. SOME GUYS WILL LOOK AT THIS APPROACH, AS A ONE NIGHT GET DOWN
665138
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
124666
depends on the girl, obvoiously. if you want a girl who's hot, then you have to be hot (sterotypically speaking). if you want a more..deep thinker type, be a bit more smart/sophisticated. be a gentleman. girls like compliments, but be careful not to mix them up with pick up lines. "nice a$$" just doesnt work. try not to give them attitude, and if youre annoyed by something they do, talk to them about it instead of dumping them. thats about all i can tell you.. oh and be yourself (its cliche, yes, but true)
366520
you are likely very beautiful.  if guys say it, they think you are hot.  if women say it, they might be jealous and are trying to make you feel bad or slutty.  ignore the girls!!
608174
if you are not gay then why do you want HOT MEN to notice you???  sounds gay to me, & this is very weird!! I really think your gay and are affraid to admit to youself!! no straight men I know are looking for HOT MEN!! if your just looking for men to hang with then why did you specify HOT MEN!! WEIRD!!  well you must have male friends so that is one place to start, or the gym, on line, school, work, there are many places you can meet friends!!  the possibilities are endless!!
482978
Well I think you should show up looking your best and talk to him or try to get him to notice you if he comes. Just make sure you dont over do it; like trying to be too obvious or all up in his face. Some boys dont find that very attractive. And don't get embarrassed if you fall in front of him or something, you might score by falling because he could come help you up and then maybe something can get started.LOL. But just look your best and be the regular you.
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Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves.  If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u.  I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
495571
girl you gotta break outta that shell your in. you gotta be more out going,loud,noticeable!you gotta make him WANT to know who you are.hook an outfit up,fitten you just right,get with a group of loud friends and make sure he sees YOU.and neva say your not pretty,there is not one ugly female on gods green earth,he made every female unique,you just need to bring your uniqueness to full blast for this guy.make HIM drop to his knees,I'm sure you can do it.just remember one thing:he likes you and he just don't know it so show it to him.\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
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You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
518666
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
229145
Honestly, I just get tickled with the way they talk.  The more open gays don't give a damn what anyone says, and they are more honest about how you look.  Plus I luv knowing that I can get a guy's opinion and not get hit on, Ok, so I'm not hot.  However there are lots of desperate guys that don't care what's inside a skirt as long as there's a skirt over it.
24897
It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
647669
Well, i had a friend with your very deliema. Basically, you relize something, and thats the guys who are going to notice you for your personality aren't going to notice your body nearly as much. More or less, you have to speak up more, seem smart, get involved in common little debates that make you seem smart, and get the word around you exist. Sooner or later someone will come along, but remember, theres going to be more body lovers than personilty
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Be yourself and hope he notices you. guys shouldnt care bout looks nither should girls. You cant help that your fat. unless you go on a diet but that could be dangerous in some ways. If your a shy person wait until he talks to you but dont act dumbfounded. Have fun at the dance!! And theres plenty of other guys out there that wont care if your fat or if you have a pimple or WHATEVER. it might not be the rightt guy. ♥hayhay♥