What do you do when you fail something you really wanted for yourself?  What if there is no Plan B?  Where do you go from here?
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take a breath and create a Plan B. This happened the day before my WEDDING!!!! My outdoor wedding was forecast to rain, and I mean dump rain, all day long. There was no Plan B. So I got all the people I could find eager to help me for the wedding, and we came up with 2 additional places to have the wedding at! \n\nAnother example is I was supposed to go to my employer sponsered school that wouldve givin me a license and a raise. It was a dream. For some reason, another person was chosen over me, despite my qualifications, and I was seriously bummed. A whole year of planning down the drain. That very same day, someone called and said I won a contract to open my own store. It was meant to be. I had applied for this contract the same day my boss was supposed to be signing me up for the school.\n\nSo, be quiet, and think alone. Then if you are not successful, ask certain friends and family to help you brainstorm. Just relax and let fate take its course. Sometimes Plan B is what was meant to be in the first place, and it will feel right.
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Whats done is done. You know better now.  So go and do better. Dont beat yourself up as long as you take the steps to do whats right. You know yourself and just know people make mistakes. You will be fine.
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GIRL IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE PREGNANT THAN SPEND THE MONEY FOR THE PLAN B PILL IT ONLY TAKES ONCE AND IT DOESN'T MATER WHAT TIME OF THE MONTH IT IS. AND IT IS A LITTLE TOO LATE TO WORRY WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF WHAT YOU DID OR WHAT YOUR ARE DOING.
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Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
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That has happened to me before. With my ex-boyfriend. And boy did i learn from that mistake. Sometimes we can't ask others for advice on these things. We just have to live it through and learn from it. If you've got some friends who will help you pick you up when you fall down then you'll probably recover eventually. I know i did.
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Yes, my past comes and bites me in the ass all the time...some days I wish I could have a "do over"..so I could make better choices...I know youre not feeling sorry for yourself, it's just so frustrating sometimes...like you want to scream"I'm Sorry, I'm trying my best, I'm not the same person !" Hang in there and keep making good choices and doing the right thing now...
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You may feel that way today, but what about tomorrow, or next week.  It would be tragic if you took your life and spectacular thing were supposed to happen that you missed.  And what about your family and friend.  That would be a horrible heartbreak to give them.  Don't do it.  This too shall pass.
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let me tell you something hun.  i went for most of my life thinking like you do and it got me nowhere.  you will never find happiness until you learn to love yourself.  be happy with who and what you are.  find what you are good at and do it, forget about not being good enough for anyone else.
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Make a move! Life is about taking risks!\nJust ask your self, whats the worst that could happen?\nWould you be able to get over it?\nWhats the best that can happen?\nWould that make you happy?\n\nGo for it!
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i think that too many people hesitate when it comes to doing what they really want to. they fear failure. but i think you should take the chance.if you dont,your just prolonging the agony and will question your decision not too for the rest of your life. do it.
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keep your 10 points, I lost the will to live :(
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NEVER be afraid of failing.  If something doesn't work out the way you planned, you just learned something new.\n\nBe more afraid of fast and easy success.
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dude, been there, done that. if you're on here talkin bout it, you aren't gonna do it. i tried, and failed, twice. once with asprin and paracetamol, the other time with ecstacy and ketamine. both times i was found and had my stomach pumped before it worked. i always wonder why i tried it, wether it was work, family, friends, drugs or some other factor that made me want to kill myself. sometimes i wish they had just let me die, other times i am glad they didnt.only you can make the choice kid, are things really as bad as they seem? are u doing drugs? do you need this girl to live? or is it just teenage angst against the world, like everybody goes through? think about it.
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Oh my goodness im not sure what u should do....do what your heart says hope this was a lesson was to you and dont try it again for your own good good luck with your decision
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Save yourself\n\n\nFollow your conscience
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These ladies are giving ya good advice. Not every case is a worst case scenario. Work up the nerve to do it soon! You'll feel better. \nLibra sun, I like the fortune cookie message.
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What you think might not happen today might happen down the road. Life takes funny turns and worksout for the best. What you think you want today might not be what you want in the future. In the long run what you end up with could be much better then what you thought you wanted before. Be patient and obtain that life you want.