She is really ruff what should I do?
128386
You have no reason to stay on the team if you dont want to. No one has the right to MAKE you stay on. You say that your friend will start saying rumors about you. You need to be asking yourself. Is she really a good friend? From my point of view she isnt. Friends wouldnt make someone go on a team and when they try to quit, be like 'quit and im gonna spread some nasty rumors about you'. Thats kiddie stuff and friends dont do that to each other. You should have respect for yourself and let NO ONE push you around girl. If you want to quit the team QUIT. If your friend goes on starting rumors about you, no matter how harsh, brush your shoulders off. She is obviously not a friend and is childish. Im 17 and i know who my true friends are, true friends will not spread rumors nor push you around like a object. If she goes up to you and say 'if you gonna quit im gonna start saying rumors', you seriously need to be like 'go ahead, i dont need your negatively because i have more respect for myself and i know who my REAL friends are'.
196747
You don't need to know what's on her mind .You need to get out of this situation as fast as you can. She is married w/a kid and you are in a no-win deal. Her husband is going to have to deal with her and her issues and you don't really have a dog in this fight.The sex might be good,but this woman has more baggage than a cargo terminal.Recipe for disaster,my friend.
37482
WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS CARE FOR HER TREAT HER AS HUMAN JUST LIKE YOU. IF YOU WIN A GIRL YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS BE THEIR FOR HER AND MUCH MORE NOT ONLY BE ABOUT YOU. MOSTLY DO WHAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO DO BUT DONT GO FAST GO AS YOU THINK SHE WANTS TO GO AND DONT SCARE HER. TRUST ME I TELL YOU THIS BECAUSE I AM A GIRL.
336870
"get her"?? What, is she like a mouse running around your house or something???\nYou don't "get" someone.....\n\nJust leave her alone...
124626
She probably is fat.  Tell her to lose weight.
362124
I would call the police... she could end up hurting you , lots of weirdos in this world!
61914
Stop following her around and just talk to her let her know you think she is hot stuff. I don't no why you would want someone who constantly insults people to like you anyway, but hey who am I to judge.
46937
talk to her about it and see if she changes, then if she doesn't you have warned her , tell her you can't take it any longer and that you think you should hang around less
300410
Unless you deliberately did something to deserve this treatment, you don't need to do anything. Give her some time and space to cool off.  Some people have passionate personalities, and the worst thing you can do is smother or corner them when they are agitated.  Just let her be herself and if she has any sense whatsoever, she will appreciate you all the more for it.
158748
let things cool down and if it is supposed to happen it will.  She has to get her mind back to normal and loose the fear of being a black widow. Do not rush to conclusions and just take it easy.
358091
This is a biggie:First of all pull your girl up and really talk to her, ask her if you haven;t always had her back in the past? Then tell her what makes this different, then calmly state your case, tell her what she needs to know,if she still doesn't want to listen, then you have done all you can for the time being.When the fit hits the shan , just be there to catch her without the I told you SOs.
303301
Why not get creative and enjoy her. How a woamn looks does not determine the level of her sexual being. Stop boring her and man up pup.
295993
dont hound her, give her space, let her think, jus tell her your feelings and bide your time
171949
Get rid of her and get a new chick that it fits in. Im game. *wink wink*.
339239
If she is not your direct report, tell her to stick it in her butt.  If she is, kill her with kindness and play every dirty trick you can on her behind her back.
327022
beat her ass\nmake her understand
572780
Tell your friend. Save her from him. He is a dog!