What happened...circumstances? Why do you think you "got it"?
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When he was too drunk to pick me up at the airport after I'd been gone a week and had to call my daughter, who was at work, to go get me.\n\nI'd gone to visit my parents in part to take a week and think about the relationship and his drinking and whether this was a relationship that could be fixed.  He wasn't aware that this was the reason for the trip, he just figured I wanted to see my parents. I'd decided I was going to talk to him candidly about his drinking, which had gone from a couple nights a week, going out and having fun when we first started dating, to getting falling down, slobbering drunk in the bar with his friends every single night a mere year and a half later.  When he couldn't stay sober enough to come get me, though, I decided not to even bother having the conversation.  I just said "you've become a predictable disappointment and I don't ever want to see you again" (I had my daughter on standby because I was afraid I wouldn't be able to count on him to be there, but I hadn't told him that). That was the last time I ever saw him.  That was in October.  He has now met someone new and moved halfway across the country to be with her.  I guess if you're a drunk, it's a good idea to have someone in your life who can look after you.
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Be honest n explain your situation. Still he didn't understand means it is not your fault.Give him time to think.
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Why  are  you  running ?    Did  you  do  it ?
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Why don't you give a specific incident. I'll bet you that if you did there would be somewhere in the story where you did or didn't do something which lead to the results, not God!
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What sort of time frame did you have in mind?  I'd like to know because I'd better be moving to higher ground.  \n\nUsually I don't bother with this sort of thing, but the recent hurricane season has got me thinking that something is up.  \n\nThanks for the warning! \n\nCheers!
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Sorry, you loose the game.\nYou got caught cheating.
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THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME!!\n\nBACK OFF---HE'S NOT WHAT YOU NEED
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Jump for joy??  lol\n\nI don't know what to tell you... I'm sure there's someone taking over for him or who knew what was owed and by whom.\n\nGood luck!
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Could be any, all, or none. Question is why did you do that? Did you wait until the last minute? Is someone other then yourself exerting the pressure that makes you do that? Let's hope you are able to plan better next time and be kinder to yourself.
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I didnt really get what you want exactly?
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I know many people would be delighted to answer your question, but we need you to be more specific. What is your personal experience with whatever is troubling you, and what exactly are you talking about?
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YES! What happened to you anyways?
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Apart from the death of my father, I can't remember an occasion when things have gone downhill and I wasn't in some way responsible for it, either directly or through inaction.\n\nSo I agree, we have a lot to do with our own life situations.
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I believe that some do. Like the other answerer-take it next time. But I also believe that things happen for a reason and maybe there's a reason why you missed out...
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i always tell myself it just wasn't meant to be.  it works much better than "why me??"  try it.  ;)
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yeah i broke it\n\nI figured out in my mind that it was simply a preconceived event played out in your mind like a dream you had already had.  So that if the event were to occur you feel as though you have already experienced it, so I took up a challenge and told myself the next time it happened i would make sure to do not as i remembered.\n\nIndeed I did, in spring 2004, while at work I had deja vu and behold i was preparing to talk to someone, so i said i just own't, and walked on, the feeling went away in an instant and i have not had deja vu since.\n\nIf i do, i'll do the same thing.  If you wonder then why you don't constantly have it, it is because it is a specific event, not generic like saying hello to someone, but like all the pieces of a chess set have to be laid out in a perfect way, that your mind can see ahead the next few moves.
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I dont think your crazy, things happen for a reason, and maybe the reason to your situation is to let you and him know that it was meant to be after all.