if you teel your girlfriend that you love her and she says it back to you. how do you tell if she really means it?
135392
You really can't, it's the actions that comes after it being said. Anybody can tell you that they love you, even when they hate your guts, to know that she really loves you is how she treats you and what she does to make the relaionship pure and simple.
429786
Their isn't an appropriate time length on love. If you feel it then you feel it, and that all their is to it. Although if you do say it, you have to be ready for whatever she is going to say. Remember their isn't a time length so she might not be ready. So don't get hurt or anything like that if she doesn't say it back. You also don't want to scare her off, so make sure you know what your doing. Good luck!
223307
She is just insecure about love...If she sees that you trully love her and your not going anywhere....She will know that it is TRUE love....Good Luck!!
556286
If she truly loves you-she won't.  You stated that you love her alot and as long as she feels that and you have been honest with her who cares.  Life is too short and when you find someone you love-let go of judgement and hold on tight to love.  People that are secure and confident might actually find your past adventure a turn on.
45595
You could start by saying, you know was thinking about how to accurately evaluate my feelings for you and I think I could love you.....If you were to evaluate your feelings how would you say you feel about me?....\n\nDon't be surprised to hear I don't know....Means he's probably scared to say he loves you.....If that occurs, don't be disappointed continue to try to convince him that he loves you.\n\nGood luck
333926
Aside from I LOVE YOU what else does she say; have you been watching her actions. If she can show you she loves you your in there if she only says it w/ no action she's full of it and you can do better.
167844
hey hun... i think saying i love you should be said when the person really loves u. ur friend gt her guy to say it in  6 weeeks.. i am sure he has said it loads of times after that.. but when ur boyfriend actually says it to u it would mean a whole lot more than it wld mean whenhe says it when u want him to. you need to do anything to make him say it. you just wait till hez comfortable enuf to say it. at least he is not mis-using the word love.
315303
we cant really explain feelings,,, just do not force her feelings give her time to realize if she really loves you..maybe you just need to miss each other.and if it turns out that she doesnt love you then give her freedom but if you really love her do your very best to win her hearts back... show your love to her and prove her your worth loving
69863
if shes hiding things from you, then maybe she doesn't trust you enough to tell you. trust is the bridge of a relationship, so if thats the case, then she dont love you. 2 maybe she cheated and shes scared to lose you so she figures its best not to tell. From my point of view, you seem to be the one calling the shots here. trust your judgement
191825
look in your girl's eyes and ask her if she loves you.  You woould know if the answer is sincere by looking at her eyes.
676458
You have to know what love means first.If you are both teens then set out to know and understand what love is.Then you will know if the girl loves you or if you love her or not.Good luck as you search!!!!!
14965
this are things that you can get confused all the time, because you might see things where there are not, but a good way to find out is to ask your friends what does she do when they ask her about you, what are you for her? if she call you and say nice things to you, its clear she likes you, if she cares at where you are or what you do, but one thing, dont let time go by without telling her, you may regret it later if you never find out, for me ist better to know that somebody doesnt love me than spending my whole life thinking what would had been if i told her.
72914
If you were really in love with your girlfriend then you wouldn't be asking that question. Based on your statement, it seems like you're trying to find out if she's really into you. The only way to find out what's going on in her head is if you ask her. I say you need to know now before it's too late. Don't spend the time agonizing over whether she cares or not; just ask her. Be open about how you feel and what you see.  You may just find out that she has some sort of problem that can be fixed or you may just find out that she's really not for you. If that's the case just be a man and move on. I'm sure there are plenty of women who want a sweet and sincere man like you to be with. Good Luck.
538585
Don't worry! To me it's normal. Just tell her once in a while that you love her! Believe me, girls love that! Do you think she loves you? Maybe you should give her flowers when the time is appropriate. I'm trying not to make this sound like you guys are about to break up, as best as I can! PEACE.
296632
tell her just that. if she still loves you she'll take you back.
274617
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
96428
tis is what you say.."hie,i really like you and i`ve been wondering if you`d like to go out with mie."if she doesn` like it then you tell her that you love her andyou`d really like it if she gave you a chance.if she doesn` like it then maybe she`s  taken or she `s juss not what you`re looking for.