Let's say you go out on a date, and your date has big hooter pies, is it OK to stare at them?  If not, what do you do?  Should you tell her that her enormous milk duds are making you feel uncomfortable, look away from her during the entire date, or try to focus on her eyes?  Let's say you focus on her eyes, but your eyes shift to those pair of massive mammories, what do you do?
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If your date has huge sweater cows, she is probably already aware of it.  She is more likely to be flattered than offended, so as long as you keep up a stimulating conversation, and make it clear that you are just as interested in her personality, she probably won't be too upset if your eyes wander down to her funbags from time to time.
499920
who knows?? maybe she thought you were cute but was taken, and was just enjoying the view...maybe she was flattered but didnt want to jump into anything right then.  maybe she was looking past you and thought the whole thing was funny.  take it as flattery...if you see her again, approach! if not...hey, enjoy the flattering moment... its over now, move on!
187401
nothing wrong with a glance. If he is drooling then there's a prob. Why do women not say anything when he glances at a guy? There is a fine line between glancing and staring. It is also a natural tendency to be aware of your surroundings. Hey, that chick might have a gun! Only insecure women get upset with this. If you are secure with your man then you will only smile and be happy he is with you.
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Actually,, sorry to sound vague, but it all depends. "Hot" women come in all shapes and all forms. Skinny? Nicole Richie is not attractive to me. Give me Kirstie Alley (sorry the only one who comes to mind) anytime.  Larger (probably not the proper term) like Rosie O'Donnell, who obviuously loves food, is not attractive at all to me. Much depends on how the woman carries herself. I've dated skinny women who ate alot, medium sized women who didn't eat anything, and larger women who ate the same portions that I did. Obviously I don't know them, but I'd love to date someone like Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Aniston simply because they have a classy side as well as a side that looks like that they just want to have fun and get dirty. BTW, I'm 34.
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That all depends on what kind of stare.  I have always said that if its just an honest look(with no whistling, smiling, eyebrow lifting, obsessive staring, etc.) then its ok.  But if it gets to the point where he goes out of his way to sneak a peek, or trys to initiate sly eye contact or conversation, then its not ok.  So, my advice is to watch what type of stare he has.  Guys by nature like to look at a pretty female.  I think its more of an instinctual behaviour, you know...checking out a female to see if she is equipped to procreate with.  But if you are with a guy and his body language completely shifts to a flirty type while he's staring, then you got a problem.\n\n=)
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Anything is a good date food, unless it's something she is allergic to or doesn't like.  Girls have the best eating habits on first dates, we act so cute like we are not hungry or like we actually chew our food 32x's before we swallow and have the best manners.  But when we get comfortable with a guy, eating together is like eating with the guys!
82924
Let me tell you what I did when I was rejected by a female for basically being fat. I asked her out on a date of sort. She laughed and pretty much called me fat in front of a few people. I stood there kinda heartbroke. But then looked back at her and said ' I might be fat, But your ugly and I can diet". Needless to say, I saved my pride. \nThe moral of the story is that no one is perfect. And don't worry about what others think. Or put yourself down like I did.
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Depends on whether the guy / girl looks only at the body for their definition of a date. If that's the case, then no. If not, then it's possible, though your "personality" thing has got me in a bind. It just takes a lot of appreciation, respect, and oh yeah, maybe a different date helps. ^_^
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Apart from confessing my attraction for and want to be with you for everyone to see on Yahoo Answers? Probably it was this-when i was 3 i was sitting up on my Dads's chest and he was really tired. He kept drifting off to sleep but i wanted to play, so i had a biscuit in my hand. So, to wake him up and get his attention i said "Daddy, eat this" and with that plunged the half eaten jegged edge of the bisbuit DEEP into his eye, half blinding him. He did recover but i think the point is-i got his attention.\nWhose attention you after-an alien's, a leprechaun's. MMm?
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how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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Yes you got upset over nothing. She must be pretty and if you are gonna date her then you have to accept that other men will be looking at her when you two are together. As long as the guy doesn't say anything disrespectful then don't worry about it.
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I can only speak for myself on this one, as all dogs, ah, I mean, men are different.\n\nWomen are beautiful, and most of the time, a look is just a recognition of that fact. It doesn't mean you wish to sleep with her. You haven't even given it that much thought. It's just a look. \n\nNow if your guy STARES at her and won't let the look go, well, not cool. \n\nAnd not...\n\nSMART.\n\nDoghouse behavior.\n\nJust a momentary admiration. You might not like this, but it really is no different to a man than seeing a great car, you simply notice.
636766
i would go for cow pie eating! being a girl i know how bad a tampon could be, all clotted and everything, so i would much rather eat $hit. I love your questions twinkie dont let the losers slow you down!
452944
my partner stares at other woman too. i always hit him when he does lol it depends whether your just checking them out, even i look at a womans breasts if they are showing. but there is a line and it is disgusting if i see a man fully staring at me up and down thats perverted. if its just a check out thing, you have nothing to worry about, if its more just get magazines or something and look at that. its all about self control too, im sure you can stop perving if you really wanted to.
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don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
499975
Yes, it is perfectly normal.  He should not be roving his eye when he's with you...that's just disrespectful.  Of course we all know men love to look....they just don't have to do it when they're with their woman....rude!!
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Give it a try. If they ur "buddy" they should know what you like and they wouldn't be talking to you about this "perfect" chick if she ain't worth it. Your friend is telling you she "perfect" for a reason. It don't matter. If you like her, you keep seeing her. If you don't like her, f*ck it then-you dnt need to be with her. I know how it could be and how you feel. I never been in something like that, but I can relate and kinda put myself in your position. cuz NO, I haven't been on one and I don't really know what it's like, but I'm not dumb-I would go ahead and do have the damn blind date. I mean, if my friend tells me things I like about this person, then yeah, why not? Find out about her first, though. You wouldn't wanna waste your precious time when you can find out about her now. If you like what you hear, then... do it. It would be nice if u had a pic, but that's the point of a blind date (i think)... watever.\n\nSo, yeah... go ahead and do it. And if you feel "apprehensive"... i dnt kno what dat means. lol. sry :(