IS NOT A  GOOD BEHAVIOUR FOR CHILDREN UNDER 18 YEARS TO WATCH PORNO/BLUE FILM BECAUSE   AS THEY WATCH, IT URGES THEM TO ALSO PRATICE WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN SEEING  BETWEEN THE  MAN AND THE WOMAN DOING.\nTHIS WILL DEFINETLY LEAD THEM WAYWARD AS TO HOW THEIR PARENTS EXPECT THEM TO LIVE AS FAR AS ETIQUETTE IS CONCERN.\nIN THE SECOND PLACE THEY ARE CHILDREN AND DO NOT HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE AS TO HOW TO HAVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, THEY COULD SUSTAIN SORES AT THE ENTRANCE OF THEIR PRIVATE PARTS, OR SORES/BRUSES ON THE PENIS.\nBECAUSE THEY HAVE NO IDEAL AS TO HOW TO HAVE SEXUAL INTER COURSE THEY MIGHT NOT USE CONDOM AND TEENAGE-PREGNANCY WILL OCCURE, THEY MIGHT BOTH CONTRACT SEXUAL TRASMITTED DISEASES, LIKE HIVAIDS ETC.\nTHERE IS NO DOUBT  WHEN THE ABOVE MENTIONED  OCCURE, THEIR GOLDEN FUTURE IS DESTROYED AND THEY NOW HAVE TO WORK TO EITHER TAKE CARE OF THEIR UNBORN BABY OR RECEIVE ALL THAT THEIR FAMILIES HAVE, FOR THEIR OWN TREATMENT OF SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES.IT IS GOOD YOU LOOK INTO THIS ISS
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ya brother.. i m also searching somethin like that for my lil bro.. but i have not find any thing like that yet.. so plz somebody answer that one... i'll also be in touch with this question.. n once again good question bro.. thanx for asking.... :)
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I would like to preface everything I say with that I am a twenty year old college student and I am a Christian.  With that said, it is not the thong itself that most parents worry about.  I think that most Christian parents are concerned that owning thongs will make you view yourself differently and that can be bad or good but they fear it will be bad.  For instance, if you tell any male at school or hanging out or such, they will react generally in a way that your parents do not want young men reacting to you and you probably shouldn't want young men to react that way either.  There is nothing wrong with wearing thongs especially if it is simply to get rid of panty lines.  I am sure your parents are more concerned that it will affect the health of your relationships with young men of your age.  Having recently been 15, things that seem small and insigificant can end up being a catlyst for bigger issues.  This is something that I am sure your parents understand and want to protect you from. Remember, as well, that you are called to follow your parents instruction unless it interferes with your relationship with Christ.  Feel free to discuss the issue with them though.  What you also don't realize at fifteen is that three years to become eighteen is a VERY short time period.  You sound blessed to have parents that obviously love you enough to be involved in your life and want you develop healthy relationships.
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You could do like everyone else and have them log on here.  We'll tell them for you.\n\nBut if you insist on doing it yourself, I suggest you wait until they start asking questions like "Where do babies come from?" and "Why does my little sister have a vagina and I have a penis?"  \n\nYou should handle them individually and not at the same time because they are not the same age or gender and can't process the information identically.\n\nAnswer all questions honestly and leave the stork to parents that lie to their kids.  And whatever you do, don't villianize sex, but simply say that there is a time and a place for everything.\n\nNOTE: Your goal is to make them as comfortable as possible when discussing sex with you.  Don't overload them, and never scold them for stuff that is only natural.  If you do, you can be assured of being left out of the loop when it comes time to discussing whether or not to have sex with their BF or GF.
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REVISED\nThey say 90% to justify their own behaviour. The more commonplace, healthy, and 'natural' a thing is considered to be in society, the more acceptable it becomes.\nIt is interesting, how 'angry' people become when they are faced with any hint of restrictions. Of course is it a dirty habit.  People change with the times. \nSoon those of 'the world' will be offended if you innocently mention that child pornography is wrong.  Then they will be accusing you of being a repugnant human for not believing your husband should be watching 'that!' Gradualism, and moral decay in action and living colour.  Just give it about 20 years, and beastiality will be an acceptable stress reliever too - healthy, and doctor prescribed....  \nREVISED
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I think it's very important, and a good idea.  Not just "how to do it" but it's important for young people to learn the biology of the human body.  A lot of kids don't learn about this stuff at home.  They need to know what to expect when their bodies change so it's not a shock.  Puberty can be awkward, embarrassing and emotional- why not give them a heads up?\n\nI also think it's important to teach safe sex.  I'm not condoning teenage sex, but it happens.  What makes people think that once teens become adults they will automatically know how to use a condom, or how important it is if they never heard about it?  Of course parents want their kids to wait to have sex, but the surge of hormones that a teen goes through is powerful.  They need to learn how to control themselves, and what the consequences are if they have unsafe sex.  Keeping it all a big secret is dangerous. \n\nMy 16 yr old half-brother is home schooled and has never been told the facts of life.  I think it's sad.  \n\nKnowledge is power.
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No .. I think parents should be able to offer a butt whoopen if they are stupid enough to do something like that. But parents should be making their children more aware of sexual preditors on the internet.
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This is an interesting article, though i would agree it really didn't get into the issue as much as it could have.Life has changed for our young people, but ultimately, parents allow the t.v shows that children watch, if you don't like a show turn it off. My children are not allowed to watch t.v after 8.30 pm when all the shows that are unsuitable for their age start.Parents allow the clothes that are in a pre teens wardrobe, don't buy something if you think it is age unsuitable. parents also allow the music they listen to, offer other choices, if you do not like the choices they want to make.Parents have to be responsible for what is going on in a pre teens life, if you don't like the influences of their school , change schools, encourage them to go to activities they are good at, and make friends with similar interests away from their school friends. To influence your children's life is a full time and often repetitive job, but well worth all the effort in the end, when they become responsible, like able, mature adults. I home school, but whether you home school or not, you have the choice to influence your children positively.
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Because most people still consider it natural for boys, and they think that girls shouldn't. It's an old and outdated idea, but that's still how alot of people think. Alot of people still think that enjoying it is a sin. It's natural for kids to explore, and both boys and girls should just be taught that there is a time and a place for it.
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It was something informative to watch. It shows us that anyone can be a sexual predator. And its sad to see that these men would actually drive for miles just to have sex with a underaged person. Its also shows how easily anyone can get into contact with children. SO that's why parents need to be involved with wat their children are doing online.
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I am from Australia and find it the same over here. I personally think it is wrong. As long as the nudity and sexual behaviour isn't trashy I don't mind it. I'd far prefer my kids see a naked person (after all it's only natural) than see someone be violent to another. I don't know how our society came to the conclusion that violence is OK. Sad.
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aha! the preacher's in town. sir, with due respect it is no one's prerogative to classify sin or non-sin like this. how about sex without consent with your 'legal' partner of the opposite sex (if you strictly follow the 'natural order')? is that all right to do so? and to mention the countries you are talking about, i think people there are as much randy as anywhere else in the world. maybe a little more repressed too. but all that is changing with the societies opening up to the idea of discussion on sex and sexual health of a society. the last thing we want is a pseudo pundit trying to make matters worse for those who feel there is no release.
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I personally think it's a good thing that people are asking questions. Reguardless of age. You dont know who is asking these questions. Not many families talk to their children about sex. Kids go out there and try and learn from the tv or whatever. Its people that aren't educated about sex that are out there spreading diseases. The more knowledge someone has on a topic the better off they are. Knowledge is power folks. Whatever questions you have, if I have something to offer I will give my best and honest answer I can. I think that's the reason for a site of this nature.
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I don't think I agree with you here.  What does wearing a condom have to do with having premarital sex.  Has alot to do with not getting pregnant but nothing to do with not having premarital sex.  I believe Christian adults are doing a very poor job with our children in teaching them the holiness of sex within marriage -- of teaching them how to be set apart from this world -- of teaching them very early in life about sex and how it is intended to be a blessing to two people within the marriage covenant.  \n\nThe selling of sex in our culture around us permeates the thoughts and minds of our Christian young people because we have not taught them how to separate themselves from this world.  We let them view sexually stimulating movies and then are surprised when they act out the immoral sexual activity they have viewed on the movie screen.\n\nChristians are called to no longer conform to this world.  I see much more conforming of young Christians to the world than I see the world being transformed by young Christians.  And sadly that is because many adult Christians interact with the world in the same way.
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I feel sex education is very important to prevent STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc which have not just a physical but also a psychological impact on young minds.\nHowever sex education has to be introduced much earlier like when kids are 5-10 yrs old, they must be taught how to avoid being exploited by paedophiles and prevent child sex abuse.\n\nAs they grow up they must be taught what is healthy and safe and at the same time not just physical aspects of sex but also how it is important to respect others' feelings.\nIt is important to teach them when to say  'no' and to back off if the other person says no.\nAlso it is important that children have an environment at home where they can freely discuss anything that they want to know with their parents because they can be their best guides.
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I think its because parents are so embarrassed about sex. I think the boy probably was cool with it until everybody started telling him it was bad. How would you like to tell everybody every little detail about your sex life?
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I still dont understand where are the parents of those underage children. \n\n   Nudity at that age should be private and should deserve respect and dignity not publicity. Sadly it becomes a business , I dont think is a moral or ethical business dealing with children that do have rights. Who is helping them fighting for their rights?\n\n    For other´s is art...thats the excuse or justification.
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First of all......if your not ready for careing for another human being or mentally ready you should NOT be having sex at all OR use alot of conterceptives. Teenagers and young adults have NO idea what kind of responsability children intale. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up you'll get there.