i'm searching for a descent job now on finance but the above mentioned question make me feel down
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First I wouls say that is not way you really left your first job.  Did not understand its product ?\nDepending on your job, you don't even have to know what its product is to do a specific job.\n\nBut if you don't understand you ask and research and find out.
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I've been in this situation many times. I think what gets me through is knowing that these times pass and I do get through them. I force myself to just accept that this is the way I'll feel sometimes and then I usually feel less anxious about being depressed. Regarding your job situation, maybe just focus on sending a few applications to places you are really interested in and then, let it go - don't drive yourself crazy wondering if you are going to get a call for an interview. Start on some more applications and refocus again. Eventually a door will open, often when you least expect it. Also, take some community classes in something you are really interested in, like art, music, etc. You never know what that can do for you. Re: your marriage - well, sometimes things improve when you feel better about yourself, sometimes you need to look at marriage counseling and sometimes you need to move on. \nHope this helps and best of luck to you!
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Listen to me, you got to do what's best for you and you're family. i have been in similar situation and have felt the same way. But to be honest with you: If you're boss was that nice, he/she would not have promised you a raise then turn around and gave it to somebody else. He/she is probably using you, because they know you need the job. \nWhat i would do if  i was you, is keep the job for now, while you look for another one, because you don't want to quit before you have a back up. that would be worse.  Like i always say: Cheap pay is better than no pay at all. Go to monster.com and put your resume online and, you don't have to do any foot work except for when they call you for an enterview, and somebody will call if you keep applying. I got a lot of calls for different jobs using monster.com. Also got my job in less than 5 days. \nI don't know how you're boss is i don't want to put them down, they should have never promised you something that they know they were not gonna fall through on and that's wrong nomatter how you look at it.\n\nsorry it was so long. But i know how you feel.\n\nGet crackin' and post that resume.
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Be your self, the them you realised thats what you felt was right for you and you can do it better than your current job or you've been dying to do that very job but your chances have been minimal. hope this helps.
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I really feel for you.\nI recently gave up my teaching job.it was a very hard decision but for me the only choice left.-\nCould you ask to be given a part-time timetable?Even temporarily?\nCould you discuss these feelings with your line-manager?\nI dont know anyone who hasnt felt this way as a teacher at some time.\nIt sounds almost as though you are feeling depressed and also trapped.\nYou are not !\nYou have a job and a home and it sounds like you are very committed to it, if you didnt care you wouldnt feel this way.\nIt sounds like you need love and belonging-going back to maslows hierarchy;-)\nThe worst aspect in teaching is the responsibility to your colleagues and also pupils.You cant just drop people in it.\nBUT eventually you realise that you have no quality of life and that is when to make changes.\nYou can meet  a partner on-line if you are careful.\nyou may only have a couple of hours a week to spare but join a club ,choir anything or go to the pub and join the darts or quiz team.church group?love is where you least expect it.\nYou need to look after you ,have some fun,ask someone at work for dinner?or a film ?a female colleague who will hopefully invite you into her social circle.\nIts worth sticking with what you have but realise that you have chosen to do it You can give it up if you want to.give yourself the opportunity to dream about what life would be like if you left your job. Maybe give it til july? and re-assess then.\nAlso a career change to business could be fantastic for you.\nI know someone with no degree who earns £100 thousand plus.\nLots of lunches,dinners ,hotels in fantastic places and huge bonuses.mmm, why did we bother ?\n Leave your job if its making you ill- it was with me ,I couldnt sleep for stress,having no child care and a husband who works and lives in the middle east.I couldnt get home for my 8 yr old who was dropped off by the school bus and it worried me sick.\nNothing is worth that.\nYou have lots going for you and sound like you will make someone a lovely partner.\nGood luck with whatever you decide .teaching is desperate at times.\nI understand.\nGadriel
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If your dream job is CFO or any other finance/accounting related position you may have a problem. I've also seen companies screen FICO ratings if the position includes an expense account or company card.
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Not right now but I SOOOO know how you feel. You need to pursue something you're interested in. That's what keeps me from being down, I just make sure I always have something to work towards.
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It's OK to worry sometimes, specially when it's about your future. But you are just starting, so go on with your plans and eventually you'll find your way, by that I mean your own way. It's a great career and opportunities will get to you, don't worry. Good luck
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I'm sorry that you feel persecuted because somebody had the temerity to ask you to pay back the money that you spent, did you think that Christmas had come early or what?  You spent it, you pay it back!  No wonder the banks interest rates are so high.----I cannot understand why so many answers encourage you to dodge your responsibility.
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This job wasn't meant to be...Don't dwell on it.  Move on to the next one.  If that doesn't work take a number two pencil and stick it to your left eye.  That would be less painful than thinking about your rejection.
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Sorry to hear that, but I'm sure you can bounce back.\n\nYou asked why. The new economy is pretty much like an Olympic economy, where companies hire the very best (which they call the "talent"), even if the best can be found in other countries like India.\n\n4,000 people have recently been laid off by Bell Canada, and I expect the same to continue. People don't have to feel down or depressed, it's just business. \n\nI'm sure you do have core skills that you can redeploy in another job since, after all, you held a management job. \n\nI give career workshops and I always tell participants: never rely on the employer for lifetime employment. Instead, rely 100% on yourself to remain employable. That is, invest as much as you can in reading books, attending seminars, etc.\n\nCompanies are like machines, they are extremely predictable. If you are the best at a function they need, they will hire you, at a high salary and in the best working conditions.
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If you are willing to start at a lower level you may have to "dumb down" your resume, meaning lower your experience and responsibilities. When I switched jobs I had to do that so they would stop telling me I was overqualified for everything.
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No, you are dealing with the government, go and fill out their darn form. during the interview, explain to the person how you have been looking for work as well as the job , date and time you sent an application, it would help if you had had an interview and was turned down.
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so shy,\nI really feel bad for people in your situation.  But fear not, there are a few things you can do.\n1.  Being that you asked this on a religious board, I'm assuming you belong to a church.  The first thing you need to do is talk to your church leader about this.  They can take up a collection for you to get you out of some immediate debt.  \n2.  You need to really decide what is luxury and need and cut out the luxury for now.  For example, if you subscribe to cable, cancel it.  Unless you need the internet for work, cancel it.  There's an extra $50 a month right there.  \n3.  You can see if you qualify for welfare.  Your local welfare office can help you with this.\n\nI hope this helps and God bless you with your finances.
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You should be looking for a job rather then be on the computer looking for people to just hand you down money.  I understand that your in a bad situation...but there are things that you could/should be doing.  \n\nTry this site post something there and see if you get anything given to you.\n\nwww.craigslist.org\n\nJust find your city and you can post there.
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I will pray for your job search and your anxiety.  Sometimes, as I'm sure you're aware, you have to job hop until you find something fulfilling.  That really takes it's toll on you emotionally, but don't stay at a dead end boring job.  Life it too short.  Good Luck!.....)(
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if you really need the mney that bad...sick it up and deal with it....but if youc an afford o miss a few days then maybe you should try to find antoher job!