I am a single guy that really just wants to find a cute as hell girl that's just outgoing and nice.  In the last month I've gone on a date with a girl who lied about her age (nothing illegal was done, by the way), a girl who got posessive after the first date, a girl that basically just wanted to screw all the time (which she never got...), a nice girl that just had way to many psychological problems for me to handle (hung up on ex BF's, depression, bi-polar, etc.), and on top of all of that, I dumped a girl in the fall that had all of these problems, and she doesn't seem to go away... where on a college campus can I just find a nice girl?  I realize that not everyone is perfect and flawless, but just one...?
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Try getting involved in different clubs and organizations on the campus.  That is a great way to meet people.
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there are plenty of nice single girls out ther lil_soldier, why look for complications!!
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meeting a good quality guy usually doesn't happen as fast as meeting a guy who is one night stand material.  The good quality guys I have met have all been through my friends, or friends of friends.  There is really no one place you can go to meet a quality girl/guy. Get your friends to introduce you to their friends and friends of friends and you'll probably meet someone who you'll want to give a second thought to.\n\nGood luck!
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Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
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i do not date by looks.what good is a curvy girl if she is not a good person? what good is a skinny girl if she is not a good person? it all depend on what kind of person you are dealing with. i would like the one with the bast overall personality. it is not all about looks.
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Maybe your not looking in the right places, are you open to trying maybe a personal dating service??? you might want to look into that, there are great women who are genuine and looking for more in a relationship. They wouldn't be paying for the service if they didn't want something out of it. try it you might find that someone special.
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what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
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UR JUST NOT LOOKIG FOR THE RIGHT GIRLSSSS.... TRY HARDER..THAT ONE GIRL FOR U IS SOMEWHERE OUT THERE..AND IM SORRY THAT U HAVE TO MEET SL***!!!!
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It sometimes gets discouraging doesn't it?I completely understand what you are saying.\nFor me it has taken realizing that the right person for me is not in my town and most likely not in my state.Opening up to the possibility of the right person being in another state widened the potential matches.\nI guess that is not for everyone,but I did not want to miss out on the right person just because I was stuck on thinking they are near by.\nI wish I had the answers but I don't all I know is sometimes we do need a break to just "be" as the search can be exhausting on soo many levels.\nI know many people will tell you to stop looking and the right person will find you,but what if everyone just sits back and stops looking??LOL I am not sure how that would work then lol\nBottomline you have to do what feels right for you :)
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I met my good guy while in school.  He lived in my residence hall, and while in school we never hung out too much.  Just nights out at the bar with mutual friends.  Then after we had both graduated, we got into contact again.  It's been an amazing time.\nDon't worry about being at the right place at the right time.  He will find you when you least expect it!
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I had the same problem when I first moved here (Texas).  I came from Upstate New York, where guys are way more foreward---  people are more reserved here in that way, it seems.  Put yourself out there---  ask someone out for coffee, ask to meet for lunch, you know, little "safe" dates.  After a few of these, you should know yourself if this is a person you really want to date.  Don't do the bar scene dating---  you meet so many crazy, wild people who don't really want a relationship.  Another idea:  ask close friends or relatives to "set you up".  Or, you may try Yahoo! personals.  It sounds risky, and may be, but I met the most awesome man online 14 months ago and we have an incredible relatioship!
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DO NOT quit being a nice guy!! There are not enough of you around now.  Take a year 12 mos. off from getting involved with anyone and reevaluate what you want and are looking for.  Compare what the girls you have dated have in common.  Then after 12 mos. run when you see a girl that fits the profile of the girls you use to date.  ( does not mean no sex) just not committed partner. use a condom
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You know, there IS a dating section.\n\nYup there are single, attractive women from NYC.  They're all at the dating section...catch my drift?
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speaking as a single male, i might ask the same thing about single or divorced women....i would like to take the time to get to know someone (bf/gf sort of thing), then see if it works into a relationship.....yeah, i think that it could be done....the decent guys are out there...they may not simply advertise the fact that they are decent guys...maybe they have been screwed over too many times....have patience....keep looking....they are out there....good luck to you
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hey Lalo,  Check out Yahoo Chat!! There are lots of nice girls there looking for a guy.
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What, finding a good date isn't worth paying for? :-) Just kidding...hey, don't get desperate, just meet a girl the good old-fashioned way.
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