Why is it that when things appear to be going well... the one thing you were most happy about turns out to be the thing that hurts the most? It is when you think you are in love that you don't see the reason why you shouldn't be.They always told you that love was great, but did they not tell you it came with a whole lot of pain? Maybe love isn't enough?
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It's that Murphy's Law thing. You know, we really need to impeach that Murphy guy for writing those stupid laws!
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Sometimes the love you gave is thrown out like a bag of garbage. Sometimes they never know you loved them so much. Sometimes when they do something that hurts u deep and cause such untold pain in your heart...\n\nWell the list goes on... A Broken heart is hard to mend, but still time is a great healer of many things, even a broken heart...\n\n.:Fishie:.
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Life is not a fairy tale. Just because you love someone doesnt meant you should stay with them. If one is not happy in a relationship it needs to end before it gets worse. My heart broke to break up with my ex girlfriend but it just WASN'T going to work out. Love is NOT enough. \n\nLove from the soul? Yes.
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sometimes in life we commit mistakes,, it isn't your fault if you fell in love with him,but the thing is if you let that feeling ruin somebody's relationship as well as the feelings of the persons around you,,ofcourse you deserve to be happy but then you still have to weigh the right against wrong,,there's a lot of things we should sacrificed,if you think you should deprived what you feel for the sake of your family then do it,, but if you think it's worth fighting for and you believed that your family would understand you then go for it,, we're all human,,not perfect,,no one can judge you,, only God,so whatever action you take always asked for his guidance,, may he guided you fairly,, god bless
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The pain of rejection is temporary. You feel it now because the wound is fresh. But wounds always get better with time. However bad it has been losing this guy for you, you will surely get over it. Because, pain is always temporary.\nWhereas, the joy of true love, when you do find it, is permanent. It is an eternal paradise. You have already had a glimpse of it. Just imagine how wonderful it would be if such a joy lasted forever. So dont think the pain is not worth bearing. It is. Not just once or twice but as many times it takes. Never lose faith in true love. Just because one person struck hollow, doesnt mean every other guy will. The only way to be happy is to believe that there is good and happiness and it is attainable.\nThere is no way you can protect yourself from this sort of pain. It is a part of life. But so is the happiness. Someday it will be yours. All you have to do is hang in there, especially during the delicates moments like the ones you're going through now. Dont lose hope.. the world is a beautiful garden with many wonderful flowers.\nYou'll find your rose. Time is all it takes.
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It is better to have loved and lost.. then to have never loved at all.They say this because Love builds relationship after relationship..Love Never really Dies..hard to understand but its true ...cherish what u had..write it down and burn it..dont listen to sad songs..and just try to not think of him..I know its difficult.  you will cry alot.. Pray...I say one for u 2... keep your chin up..
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If it's meant to be it will be, but you can't make it happen.  Sometimes timing keeps us from making a bad choice based on emotions in that moment.  There is a saying that goes..."if you love something let it go..if it comes back to you, it is yours...if it does not then it never was"
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It is just a part of giving your heart, it my come back broken. Maybe it might help you to know the pain will not last forever, when you find that person that treasures your heart above all other things then you will no longer remember the pain it took to find that person. \n  We are supposed to meet a few that aren't the right noe so that when we find that right one we know it and how to treasure it!
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I personally think when you fall OUT of love, you were never really IN LOVE.  There are men I thought I loved and in a year it wore off and I couldn't get away fast enough.  These, I think, are infatuations.  Every time you date someone it seems better than the last one.  It is just new and sometimes we mistake those feelings for love.  When you are truly in love, you don't fall out.  You may not be with that person for whatever reason, but you will always love them with all your heart.  It took me half my life to find the man I married and love.  Now I know what it feels like.  I hope you find true love in your lifetime, it's fantastic.
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Both. Love does cause pain, and sometimes good pain is love.
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I dont know why, but it's correct.... But when you realize how important and great that sth was, then you just can&#92;t stand the pain.....   \n\nIt is that people are never happy with what they have. They'll always ask for more coz they won't appreciate the beaty of what they have. In this way, we ruin beatuful relationships/friendships/and more, just  because we want sth better......
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It'll always hurt. You cant love someone without leaving yourself wide open for hurt. Believe me you dont even know the pain of love until two guys love you and you love them both. That really sucks. It hurts though cause you wanna care about someone so much and you want them to care about you and feel as strongly as you feel about them but usually it doesnt happen, one person cares more then the other and it hurts if your the one who cares more. But chin up, one day that person who does love you just as much comes along and you get married and make babies. That feeling of caring just as much as each other doesnt always stay around forever but you get beautiful children out of it and they become the love(s) of your life that you've always wanted and they love you just as much as you love them which is what you want all along.
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Get over it, deal with the pain, and move on! I was married to a woman for 25 years, and one day when I came home from work, she had moved out and moved in with another man, just like that. It hurt  like crazy, but I dealt with the pain, and moved on. Never been happier in my entire life!!!
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in the long run love dosnt last if it is a feeling. a long way down the road you will be disaponted if you expect that feeling to stay but it will pop up from time to make you feel good. i think love should be a commitiment to treat some one well. a feeling can become selfish some times and make you do dumb things but it is still lot of fun.
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Most people who have been hurt in the past have a hard time opening up with someone new as to letting their defenses down and to be hurt again. Some just fear any type of commitment in general.\n\nThis life is full of chances. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But life is alot better when you have someone to share it with, even if it is for a short while.
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That's an awesome question and I wish I had a certain answer for it, but the best I can think of is because nice people are the only ones who can endure the suffering they receive. But knowing the pain is there shouldn't stop any person from learning as it only leaves you richer for the next experience. We learn more from our failures than any amount of successes can teach us. So maybe all the bad stuff that comes your way is there to help you better be the person you're meant to be. I know because I have often been the one cheated on, that I'd never cheat on anyone else because I don't wish anybody else to feel the same way I did. So perhaps things that like help mold what it is you look for, the things you want to be like; the things you don't want to be like and before long when you're no longer concerned about finding somebody, that somebody will be there.
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Love is a very hard thing to let go of. Dont beat yourself up over it. Time heals all :)