there is this boy that i`m toalking to and we just started talk like like him but the problem is that he lives in calfroina what shoould i do?
136715
You can continue to be friends but don't saddle yourself down to him as he is long distance. If you still feel the same about him when you are older then save some cash to meet him. But take someone with you as you don't know who you are really chatting with he could be an old perv!
455396
stay away, and don't look at him if you happen to be near him. try to act as if he did not exist, if he come talk to you treat him with indifference
565289
Just do it!!  LOL It can be hard. But you need to give your self a little more value.  Obviously, he does not live with you, so you don't need him to survive.  Find yourself another friend.  Go out and do what you like best in the whole world, even if it means taking a walk all by yourself or hiding under your bed.  There are so many men out there, and you will never meet them if you don't go out there to play.  Not everyone you will meet will be nice and you are always going to have expectations but remember treat every individual as an individual don't go looking for a clone.  If you do you just might end up in the same situation.  Think about it, just not too long......life is short enjoy it before it is too late.  Good luck
44524
I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
417131
Aww, just go out with the boy you like.  Either wait until he breaks up with blackhead girl, which he will I promise, or get together alone with him and put the moves on him.\n\nIt's not very fair of your parents to impose dating restrictions on you.  When you bring him home, just tell your parents that you are - bestest friends, forever and ever! -.  Hang out with him in groups of people who are also couples, like group dating.  Then you can split off from the group after a while and go make out or engage in some heavy petting, or whatever fun thing teenagers' libidos drive them to do.
469270
Can I suggest something?\n\nHow about the next time you meet him, use your sense of humour to have a good chat with him first. See how he responds and then base on his behaviour toward you, you then decide the next move.
316573
take the first step and talk to him. if he is always where you are and always looking at you, jump to the opportunity. he might just feel the same about you.
260214
He may live 5-10 miles away, but with summer coming up and everyone being out and about shopping, etc, I dare say that the two of you will be more than capable of finding MANY ways to have time together! If you don't ask him, you will be kicking yourself all summer, wondering the what if's. ASK HIM, instead of presuming the worst. Ask him for his phone number, or give him yours, and let him know that you want him to call. Give him your e-mail addy, and he can write you from the library if nothing else. There is ALWAYS a way to get together and find time to talk or hang out. Start with a good friendship and let it grow from there, or just ask him out and jump in with both feet. It's only too late when you pause, and another girl takes him away from you.....  Good luck!
134558
You have to come out of your shell somewhat kid. Do it in small ways that are comfortable for you, maybe talk to him when there aren't a whole bunch of people around. I'm sure he'll think you're great!
204952
Ask him what are his likes and dislikes for future reference. If you cant get your conversational skills fired up with him before too long it probably isnt a good idea to stay dating him. I mean one of the key things in a good relationship is communication but if you just met him too there wouldnt be a whole lot to talk about so i would at least give it a little time. Try asking about siblings or if there are any nicknames he has or tell him a joke. Maybe try loosening him up a little so he will not hold back and feel comfortable. You could even try telling him something outrageously stupid you've done we've all had our moments maybe then he wont feel silly about telling you his that might spark a really interesting conversation. Hope this helps
274069
Um... I had the same problem. Don't hurt your friend. He may be cute, but there are plenty of cute boys. I know from experience that your friendship is better. If they break up wait a little while, and then hang out with him. Maybe you'll quit liking him. If not, stay away, about 50 YARDS AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM HIM!!!! LISTEN TO MY ADVICE. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT.
526343
Sorry wish I could help you out but I live in Nebraska.  See if you can hook him up with some of your friends if you are comfortable with that.
222715
ok. i 've got a plan. try to participate in a lot of activities at his school. although you are a 7th grader, there may be activities at his school still. you can become more easily known. like that, some time sooner or later, the boy will come up to you and say, "Hey, you are in the ...*whatever you participated in*" and you will say, "Yeah, I am." ANd then you can began a short introduction there. it won't take too many guts, because he approached you. If he doesn't approach you, then just appraoch him. With things like, "Hi! Do you want to join this club too?" Pretend to be advertising a club. ANd you can say,"This club is really cool becasue of *blank* if you ever want to join contact me I am *say ur name*." It's not that hard.
367640
Where?\nA movie? Bus? School? restaurant?\n\nIf you like him, talk to him. At least say hello.
181502
this isn't the end of the world. \n\nrealize that talking to him isn't a big deal! you're a big girl! you can do it! take a deep breath, and talk to him. start out slowly with hi.\n\nyou'll never know what he wants until you talk to him!\n\ngood luck, and best wishes!
571570
What you need to do is set the records straight. Everybody "talks" and you need to get to the bottom of it. Come up to him and ask him if he likes you. Be honest with him and tell him the truth. Make sure that you are clear on that and hopefully, he will accept it. Don't believe rumors. Your best source is to talk to the boy yourself.
80740
I've been there and what i did was just start talking to him that way you don't feel so weird to be around him. we both are dating other people and we just talk as normal people b-cuz we realized we cant be as close Friends as we were before but we still hang out with the same people and its better to be talkin to each other than not talkin at all.