Who's the one who's always the more controlling one?
119223
My husband is the sweetest, most kind person I know, male or female, so by default I am.....though I think I am nice too.  Someone has to discipline the kids.
342898
Because you are the one in control
422142
It is not who has a bigger temper. change the question to Who is the most powerful? GOD hahhaha
110190
go for the one that is more respectful
578280
My step father because he does nothing but cause pain to my family...he has complete control over my mom, is abusive to both her and my younger sister..but there is not much i can do becaue my mom choses to be with him.
621640
Refuse to get caught up in a drama that is not yours.  Your responsibility in the situation is to remain in the relationship with both that you can manage.  You do not have to tell each of them where you stand...and you don't have to share when one is with you or not.  Do not expect that you can change their status...that, too, is not your responsibility.  You can neither separate them, nor bring them together, they have to accomplish this for themselves.
334806
No, I like to be in control in the bedroom.  Out of the bedroom we are equal but in the bedroom I want her to believe she is my love slave.  Woooo hooooo!
397035
I have seen friends create weaker men/husbands not by being too nice, but by taking over everything, doing everything, and controlling everything.  The men get used to them doing everything and they become lazy, weak, and don't feel needed.
127519
Christina. I think she is tougher than the others.
65777
- Any one\n- Who prefers to sell you\n- lol\n----------
578708
well obviously something had happened between them, all you can do is never favor one over the other. maybe you can try to talk to them and come up with a way to resolve the situation.
218232
Nobody. There's the irony. People don't feel comfortable with the notion of the anarchistic functions of the world, so they greatly inflate the powers of Skull & Bones, Masons, Brandenburg Gate and other secret societies. It's more comfortable to think that somebody else is in control of the world, even if they have avaricious intentions, than no one.\n\nConversely, you could think that everyone controls our world. Stuff gets done by people and we're all part of the same planet.
663774
Some men need to feel like they have control over EVERYTHING.  Believe me-been there done that.  I dated a guy who was extremely controlling, manipulative, and verbally abusive.  Took a year before I gave him the boot.  He needed to be in control of everyone and everything around him.  I think it's a sickness.
615773
well, that is a problem I can very well relate to.. I have this boyfriend who is as over possessive as you.. he would even go to the extent of knowing what clothes I wear on a daily basis.. who I talk to at work.. and crazy things like that..he more than once threatened to kill me with his bare hands just because I sometimes failed to answer his calls, he loves me I know and I love him as much, but really.. this is a problem we have between us.. well, am lucky he's so far away and could not get his hands on me, otherwise, am sure I'd be dead by now.. hi hi hi
252268
Optimally, neither.  But if I were forced to choose, I'd pick the one who loved me.  I'd be less likely to be taken advantage of.
606462
I don't know you or your mom but has she said this about any of your other boyfriends?  I didn't believe it and lived to regret not taking the advice of people who really did care for me.  Looking back now I see what I couldn't see then.  Controlling someone else is usually very subtle.  Be careful and always know that your mom will be there if needed.  No matter what he may tell you.  Good luck.
593104
I say Yuki. I think he's definatly a lot more calm and collected than Kyo. Also, he's really trying to change and get over his weaknesses, and he even starts to TRY to understand his brother.\n\nKyo... doesn't.