I think I am different from others.\nI'm diffrent from my friends.I'm diffrent from other people and...\nThis is making me very sad all the time and Im getting mad.\nIs it really hard to be different? or it is not?\nWhat should I do?
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sometimes being different is a sign of strength and character, because it takes more guts to be an individual than a carbon copy.  If you look in history, all the greats were individuals, not carbon copies. they stood out because of their differences... if you look at the differences this way, you will see, greatness comes with being different.  stand your ground, don't be a carbon copy, you are destined for greatness.
404167
My friends are as different as can possibly be.  We're quite a diverse group, but somehow that works for us.  ♥
158941
it could be that its not other people, the problem could be you... if you have a positive attitude, then you will get a positive responds from other people..always be able to back up what you say... the old saying is you must like yourself before others can like you...
170237
How can you normalize something that is normal.  Just because someone is different than you, does not make them abnormal.
564653
This is a problem that I have been battling with all my life. I believe you have to feel confident in who you are. You need to believe in yourself. It is hard I know but you need to start looking people in the eye. People will look away. Most people are like you, so I would say that you are normal. I know you feel bad, but believe me other people are just as timid as you are. You will get more respect when you look others in the eye.
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It took me 35 years to learn this one.  One's own perception of self is very powerful and it's hard to understand when others don't see you the same way.  The reality is that 99.99% of people don't know what's in your head whether you feel good or bad about yourself.  You need to learn to see what others see in you.  Yeah, they could be yankin' your chain hoping to pull you out of your funk, or they could be genuinely honest about what they see.  It won't matter until you get over yourself, until your own perception goes beyond "fat and ugly".
658893
Just be who you are and not what other people think you should be. Appreciate who you are and enjoy being you.
219221
I am happy with the person I am, I'm just not happy with where my life is at this point in time. It will be better once I get my feet back under me and can stand on my own again. I have never pretended to be something I'm not. If they don't like me for who and what I am they can move on. I have no room for people like that in my life.
91994
know that everyone feels the same way that you do. We all have expectations of what others think of us. Realize that noone is perfect. It is nothighschool anymore, people have matured. Just have a good time, catch up with people.
304665
I think it goes alot deeper than you just getting bored with different people....Have you ever thought maybe its your problem???  People always want to blame others for whats really going on within themselves...Take a good look in the mirror, you'll figure it out eventually....
291196
There is nothing wrong with you. Maybe you just did not discover yourself yet. Just be patient with yourself and love yourself, because you are a wonderful person. As much as I am sure that there are people, who love you for who you are. If you spend more time with those people, you will feel much better!
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. Maybe it is time to consider finding a new friend Friends accept us for what we are the best of and the worst. If you feel strange there problem is something going on. Are sure they are friends and can you really be yourself around them. If so how can you be thinking you can mess things up? Life is to short to be up happy either ask them straight out or accept the way thing are.
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Relax, a lot of us have been in the same situation.  I was never one to have many friends and because I was one of the smallest in my class a lot of people often tried to pick on me.  I learned that the best thing to do is simply not care about what other people think or say.  I learned to accept who I was and the fact that a lot of people are just mean or idiots.  In the end I had a few good friends and people left me alone because they found out they didn't matter to me and the things they said and did didn't bother me.  If they know what they do affects you then they keep doing it just because they get a reaction out of you.
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Talk about what you talked about to other people, why should he be any different?  Say what comes to mind and don't worry about if its good enough.  Not everything has to be perfect.\n\nAnd I don't know if this applies, but it goes two ways, he needs to ask you questions too and let you do the talking!
58342
Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
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Dear Friend if everyone started thinking like you and me about we humans live in harmony with each other then this world will not be going around. Be happy as you are my friend and forget them. Long as you are happy why bother about them losers.\n\nHumans are like that.
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It's a personal journey , everyone is different.  My best advice would be to NOT be afraid of what people think of you.  Remember always your life has to be for you, not anyone else.  Nobody can tell you how to "find" yourself, figuring that out is part of the whole process!  Look, hon, I'm 30, and I still haven't figured out who I am....  Good Luck!!