I am suffering from uncontrolable temper and anger. When I am angry I can't control my self and become so cruel and furious. I want to know is there any medicine out there which I can use to reduce my temper when I am furious. Is there something called Mercy Pills? Please give me some links if you know. I am totally helpless
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No idea sorry. My suggestion is, why not use your explosive energies for something more positive, such as sports (ex: boxing) or business?\n\nAddition: I hear ya. I know it's tough. Many people will suggest you to take medicine or talk to psychiatrist. Well, that will work somehow. IMHO, I was thinking about sports or business because sometimes people need to relieve their hyper energies, which could be because of stress or subconscious urge or something else. I don't know if you hurt that guy during the fighting round or outside of the gym but if it's during the official game, that's simply mean you are utterly much stronger than he is. =)\nAgain, try to talk to people and socialize a lot. Seek for a professional if needed. Try boxing or any more combatant sports. Find an aggressive jobs like sales marketing (it will drain your energy a lot when you try to find customers). Or simply join the army! Good luck and GBU.
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We all at times would like to get revenge so we feel better. The best thing to do is really wait and don't act while your angry , sit it out and let it go for awhile and see if that feeling doesn't just fade away..
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I've tried zoloft but I can't take that because I stay in bed all day and I naturally have a temper but have learned to control it. But when I take zoloft I stay grouchy and on the edge. I've also tried Wellbutrin-XL. And the Wellbutrin works for me. It doesn't make me sleep all day or grouchy. I'm always in a good mood and can deal with everyday life and problems. I'm not as stressed for no reason. I'm more sociable. One of my friends was taking paxil for years. And the last year he took the paxil it didn't help out any so his doctor switched him to Cymbalta. And I tell you what he's like a whole new person. Cymbalta is a antidepressant and pain killer combined. He says it works he's not depressed lately or grouchy he's more open minded to things again and it also got rid of his pain from being depressed. You might have to try 1 antidepressant or you might have to try 3 or 4 different kinds until you find the one that's rite for you.
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Go to a friend (I can think of one right now) and let your steam out at that person.  That will help you straighten things out in your head and prevent you from unleashing yourself in such a violent manner.  Personally I think what you are doing is better than bottling it up inside; for then that could lead to hidden rage and then finally you could snap and just kill someone or something! Still though I highly hope you take my advice, it doesn't even have to be to the person I'm thinking of.  Just know that the person will not judge you and will give you his/ her input.  Don't worry it isn't a counselor, doesn't even want to have that as a career option.  That person just wants you to be happy.  There is no hidden agenda. Don't all friends want their special friend to be happy?
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no- because if I lost it- I wouldn't be able to control it at all- and I wouldn't be able to be calm or angry or hyper. It would be very bad to lose my temper. "Cool your temper"... might be a better phrase to use.
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I am bipolar and am taking the mood stabilizer Sroequel 100mg to help my mood and help me sleep.  I am also taking 20mg of Paxil (generic) for the depression. Everything is fine now. Before the treatment I was depressed a lot, and had a whole bunch of anger in me. It almost cost me my job again. \n\nYou must remember that what has worked for me may not work for you. Everyone is different and will respond differently to each medication.  Some bipolar's spend several years just finding the right medication.\n\nI am including some links that may help you out. I sure hope I have helped.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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There are so many different pills, if this one is no longer working for you, ask your doctor if you can try another one. I've changed pills for the same reasons as one that seemed to agree with me suddenly stopped and I was an emotional wreck. I'm now on a low dose pill and I'm much better......and my kids aren't afraid to speak anymore lol.
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I write a lot when I am angry.  It helps me to get everything down on paper so I can really see what is going on.\nAsk yourself WHY are you angry and if the anger is worth the emotional energy you are putting into it.  Be honest with yourself, which is hard to do.\nDo you talk to whomever made you angry or are you just keeping it a secret?  Talking with them may help you.  They may not know they did anything to upset you.  But don't be confrontational about it.  That puts them on the defensive and makes them harder to talk to.\n\nRemember these three things:\n\n1)  S**t happens, life goes on.  EVERYONE on the planet has had bad stuff happen, and life still goes on.\n\n2)  Don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small stuff.\n\n3)  Will it really matter 100 years from now?
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First take a deep breath and count to 10 when you feel anger coming on, secondly try and be positive in your outlook on life....it works wonders.also wear a smile more often as a smile is very infectious . good luck hope you make it.
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You MUST figure out why your REALLY angry and fix it. You probably have a pattern of doing this in relationships. I know I did. Something underneath has truly hurt your feelings. You must Learn to be 100% honest. You have to tell him when you are mad and work it out on an adult level.  I was able to pinpoint mine to abandonment issues. I was cold towards people. I pushed them away. You have to realize that one day he will be fed up with your crying wolf and let you leave. Love is such a great thing. Appreciate what the two of you have.
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Often times, anger is hard to get rid of because it stays there until it comes out in some kind of physical way. At least that works for me. Here's something you really might want to do. Don't take an anger management course just yet, but find ways to relax. Stress usually eats at you until you get angry at the world. Relax and enjoy life because you only get to live it once. If that doesn't work, go vent your anger in a way so that you can get stronger too, like swimming or tennis. Just don't use your awesome skills on someone else, just your own stuff. :)
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Seek consulting with a therapist that specializes in anger management.  And I think that it is wonderful that you are trying to make your life better by getting a handle on things.
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first, stop complaining ( idont mean this disrespectfully) start claiming your healing! Positive words from your mouth only! Thank God for healing you and believe. Break all strongholds the enemy thinks he has on you, and stop reinforcing them.  he can not hear your thoughts, but he can hear you speak. Speak only with a knowing that you will be healed, and stay positive in that way as well. Fibromyalgia and depression go hand in hand almost all the time, your physical pain is your internalized anger. find out why the anger is there and deal with it. God will help.\nStop feeding any and all negativity into yourself, by your own thoughts and mouth. This is something that grows so big inside of you it may take a while to cleanse.\nRefresh your mind and your soul and start feeding it love and healing. "With God ALL things are possible" Know this.\nGod bless you.\nSorry if this sounds a bit extreme, but ive seen this grip on others, and i know that God heals. Ive been a nurse for 20 yrs. and my mom suffered terribly from fibromyalgia.\nFYI sweethart please know this has not been caused by sin. when the enemy is trying to suck you down, its because he is extremely threatened by you or Gods plan for you.
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I guess you need to talk to.....YOURSELF!\nAsk yourself a few questions like:\nWhy do I want to be with someone who brings out my anger?\nWhat makes me hold onto a failed relationship?\nWhere is my anger coming from and who is it really directed at?\nWho else makes me feel so angry?\nDo I want to keep this pattern going or am I ready for change?\nIts really hard to change choices in men, and it takes a great deal of personal insight, so get to work!
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I've had great luck taking Vitex (Chastetree Berry). You can get it at GNC or even your local store might carry it. I like Nature's Way brand. You have to take it every day, and it will not kick in for a couple of months, but once it does you'll be amazed at the difference.  \n\nFor me, the irritability started about 2 weeks after my period ended - maybe 10 days before my next period started. It's like someone fliped a switch and I turned into B*tch Queen of the Universe.\n\nAs far as being mean during a pregnancy, you won't be PMSing then - the hormones will be different.
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How about journaling ? To help get out frustrations, irritability and anger or resentment. If not journaling how about walking, punching a punching bag, talking with a counselor at school, trusting a friend or religious leader, reading a self help book ?
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Well, it's hard to say -- I'm a Anger/Rage Councelor and grew up with Anger/Rage issues and in a home with the same issues so I completely understand -- So it depends on the degree of the anger -- Is it anger or is it a rage? -- People always tell you that anger is wrong -- First of all it's not wrong, it's self defense -- Anger is not evil and it's alright to be angry -- It's what you do with the anger that creates the problems -- When a person is in full blown rage that rage has to be directed somewhere to begin with until it's learned response to control, which will come in time and with age -- I used to go and beat the heak out of pine trees (I hate pine trees) until I come down off the rage high -- And anger/rage does produce and give a high -- And those harmones have to be directed and dealt with -- Just having someone telling you to get over it only makes it worse (always made me worse because I had every right feeling the way I did) -- Then I learned how to identify the factors that would uncontiously lead me to those fits of anger -- I didn't know it at the time, and would have sworn nothing was causing it, but there was -- Frustration from other areas of my life caused it -- Not feeling in control of other areas of my life or things happening to me or to my family or in my family -- Things I couldn't control and things I'd never be able to control -- All I could control was my actions and reactions to things around me -- I could go on and on -- But I would suggest to get a book called "The Anger Workbook" and it will help you start identifing your anger stressers -- And if you would like to talk further you can contact me for free at theangelknight.com -- I have 25 years of counceling experience and a Bachelors Degree plus I'm a State approved Therapeutic Foster Parent -- Helping those with Anger/Rage issues is what I do -- Hope this helps -- Good Luck and Take Care --