this girl in our group in our class likes me.. one of the other girls in the group (college class) came upto me before class and was like "she thinks your cute and wants you to ask her out"\n\num but she she's fat/ugly, has nasty yellow teeth, and a big red blotch on one side of her face\nwth do i do?
120677
Just be nice. Tell her you have a girlfriend or think she is really nice, but this isnt a good time for you to go out with people right now.\n\nDont be mean to her!!
313080
Jeez, it could mean a lot of things.  What part of you was she looking at?  \n\nYour face?  \n\nMaybe she does think you're hot.  Maybe you look just like somebody she knows, or she was trying to decide if she knew you from the past.  Maybe you had something smudged on your face or stuck in your teeth.\n\nLower?\n\nMaybe she couldn't believe you were wearing that shirt/jacket/harness/whatever with those pants, or that your fly was down.\n\nWhat were the two of you doing when it happened?  Did you just let a door slam in her face, or bump into her and not apologize?\n\nAs you can see, even if you did give more detail, there's no way to tell for sure what the girl was thinking except to ask the girl in question.  If it ever happens again (with that girl or any other in whom you might have potential interest), simply ask her, "Is there something I can help you with?"  That's a very polite, unassuming and yet effective way to handle it.  You don't really want to assume that she thinks you're hot if, say, she's only debating whether to tell you that you have spinach in your teeth.  ; )
194753
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
56583
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
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Wow. A question that actuially fits my situation. Ok, im going to tell you what happened then im going to tell you what you should do. I really liked this girl. I've known her for four years and liked her for two of them. She liked me, then she didn't, she liked me then  she didn't, etc. She basicially led me on some times. I tried to ask her out and she said somthing like "I like you too, just not like you like me, bla bla bla no". It sucked. I was crushed. I tried to forget about her twice and it just ended up me looking like an ass and getting farther away from my goal. I would do anything for this girl, if she was sad id do whatever i could to cheer her up. if she was mad id listen and talk to her about it. if she was feeling down i told her exactly how i felt about her. Then she went out with this guy. Of course I was pissed off. I got in so many verbal fights with him because, by that time, the whole school knew I liked her by the way word gets around. I really don't know why nothing happened, everything was there, she thought I was hot I thought she was beautiful, We got along really well, liked the same music, everything fit. I'd give anything for a second chance at that first time I asked her out. Nothing will happen. I now know that. as much as i dont want to accept that, its true. and i need to.\n\nBut anyways, my story doesn't help you, but it gives you a realization of what can happen.\n\nYou have two options.\n1. Tell him you don't like him like that and expect him to be sad.\n2. If theres any attraction on your part, you can go out with him, if it works out great if it doesn't, oh well. because i bet hed do anything for that one chance.\n\nthe choice is up to you though. of course im going to lean towards the second option but the right choice is probably the first one. good luck.
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she might think that you are not exactly her type, it doesn't mean that you are ugly. Maybe she saw you and thought I could never can that guy. Another possibility is that she saw you and while she was looking at you you were looking at her so that might have casued her to turn around because she was shy. If you like her make conversation with her, walk up to her. If she is shallow it isn't worth it.
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Tell her she's not fat, make sure she knows that you think she looks good, healthy, pretty, that you don't like it when girls are too skinnny and unhealthy looking.  If you suspect a serious problem, anorexia or bulemia, please seek professional help with her.  Good luck!
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yes call her.. but you do well know in the first place she told she didnt like you.. just tell her that you wanted to be friends but dont expect her to accommodate you all the time.. there are still many fishes in the ocean so, u can also go and look and search for other girls.. you may not know she's there round the corner waiting for you ....Ü goodluck
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Dude,girls like it when your straight forward with them. Just ask her...the worst that could happen is that she says she doesn't like you. Believe you me its better to know than to wonder. Just go up and ask...I promise you, you won't die.
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She likes you! She's just too shy to say so. Make the first move or she'll assume you don't like her.\n\nNow get off the computer and go see her!
341169
Move on. She doesn't like you for sure. If you really like this girl, maybe you should stop annoying her.
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It sounds like your friend had anorexia.  I would suggest that you contact either her parents or a school counselor.  This is a very serious problem that can cause loss of all of her teeth and eventually even shut down all of her organs.  She may be angry with you at first, but you could be the one that can save her life.  Please take my advice and get her some help ASAP.  Good luck and I will keep her in my prayers.  If you need to talk, feel free to e-mail me.
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Ok. I'm a student and I'm seeing a lecturer, and have been for the past two years, so we aren't all after good grades. I would say that she really likes you,and trust me, it is harder for her to ask you out than vice versa, as she would be scared of you laughing, or being shocked, and that her grades might suffer (although we all know that its impossible to get away with something so petty). I would ask her for coffee, somewhere nutral, like on campus, and see how it goes then. If she likes you, you will know then.
470415
just go up to her and ask her...make it seem like a joke so if she doesn't like you, no hard feelings...
306072
She is two-faced. Ask yourself why do she want to talk to you if you know (and she knows that you know) that she talks about you and your friends? Is she trying to find out "dirt" about you and your friends so that she can act friendly with you, then, for no reason, not talk to you and tell her friends and your friends what you've said about them. Whether it was taking out of context or not. This girl is up to something. The next time you see her, just ignore her. Hi and by. If she ask you for something or anything not related to homework or some type of social, you don't know. Walk away. You have things to do and really need to get going. Try everything not to make time for her. See if this works.
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if you are embarassed of asking somebody out, the best answer is try to be friends first.  the geeky way out of this situation would be to sent her a note of compliment and asking nicely if she would like to go out sometime.  hopefully no one will see it and make u a laughing stock of the class
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She's flirting with you, is interested in you.  If you're in class together, go talk with her normally.  Don't worry about asking her out yet, but find out what kind of person she is (do you have a friend in common?) and if she's still OK, then ask her out.\n\nDon't play around too much.  Find out whether she's a possible match, and if so, tell her and ask her out.  If not, tell her and move on.