i can ask a girl easily if she wants to dance with me or not, if she does dance, i just dont know how to keep her entertain with me. I am bit shy at first but open up as i feel comfortable. \nSame thing in my classes. \n\nI just think that the girls whome i am hitting on might feel something about me?  They might look at me with evil eyes the next time i meet them or how would i face them? was just curious in knowing from you girls or guys , how would u feel in this situation or what would u feel if a guys tries to hit on u? in the situation described above, waiting for some professional advice from u, especially girls!
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well thats an easy question, most girls give you signals that they like, for example the way they look at you or if they hey in a special way. most women give lots of signals dude you just have to open your eyes to them and dont be shy just play to your strenghts, another thing that works with girls is just be cocky and funny trust me it always work and don't let them know that your interested in them, so anyway good luck bro if you do the right thing you wont be able to get them of you. good luck.
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Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
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First face that fact that you might get burned again and when you have someone in mind (I'm guessing you all ready do), that you think is worth the risk of shedding some tears over if it doesn't work out, then you're ready to make your move.  Be where that person is when you can, not stalky, but if he's in some sport or club, go to the games or go to a club meeting, etc.  Give him an opportunity to notice you.  Ask for help with some topic if you share a class, that sort of thing.
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Now what I say depends on what you think she feels.  If you feel as if she wants to be just friends I wouldn't recommend being too upfront with her right now, even if she knows you like her.  You really want to be with her romantically, right?  Is explaining to her that you like her going to make her swoon?  I don't think so.  Sure a girl  FRIEND would appreciate the honesty, because she can put a stop to it.  Do you actually want to give her an out?  A chance to turn you down before you have a chance to win her heart?\n\nTo make her your GIRLFRIEND, you've got to win her.  Spend time with her.  Ask lots of questions. Get to know her intimately.  You say you are best friends.  Great!  You have an advantage!  Really put on the charm.  I don't know you, but just in case... don't worry if you don't have the looks.  Personality and a good sense of humor is most important to a girl.  Oh and security.  She has to feel totally secure with you, which means don't be a creep.  Be a gentleman.  Make her feel like a girl/woman.  Seriously on that last one.  Know how to dance? Take her dancing.  Go to dance classes.  Trust me on that.  Dancing is such a great way to woo a girl.\n\nHey! What if she is interested?  Maybe she is!  Look on this website and find someone who's asked about the physiological clues about someone liking someone else.  But for starters, look at her eyes when she looks at you.  Do her pupils get smaller? She doesn't like you.  They get bigger?  She likes you!\n\nAs you get even closer hopefully she will start to draw towards you.  A girl who is interested should make it easy for you.  If you don't feel as if she's making it easy for you, and especially if she's making it hard, now is not the time.  Win her first.  Be patient.\n\nThen again, I do know for a fact that persistence counts.  I know a fantastic girl who was won over by her now boyfriend because he kept asking her out for like 6 months.  They are madly in love now.
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Go to the dance...see how that goes.  He may have asked you becuase he likes you as more than a friend.  Look for signals, and if they're good, let him know how you feel.
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Play it safe. If girls keep doing that to you, why not ask a few of them what they're up to? That will either get them to blurt out the truth right then and there, or turn around in alarm and walk right away...probably never planning to bother you again. Depending on the girls, these ladies may either be after some guy to throw themselves on, or you might just be really popular. You just need to know how to deal with it...and maybe keep your eyes open for the one girl that might look like she is truly interested in you and not just going all flirty and crazy. Do you already have a girlfriend? If you do, tell the girls! They're bound to back-off if they realize you're already taken. You may get tired of saying this after a while, but if you say it for long enough, you might just start to notice that the swarm of girls has decreased to just a few random, hopeful wanderers. \n\nTruthfully, in all other respects I would just say run for the hills whenever they're coming toward you, and hide yourself whenver they're chasing you...but I'm betting you think that probably wouldn't work just as much I do. You have to deal with them. Stand up and ask them what they're doing, or tell them straight out that you're not interested. Or maybe you are? It all depends on what you want, and what they're really after. Think it over, and watch them carefully. Maybe you'll be able to pick up on why they're chasing you just from getting to know some of them a little bit better...\n\nI wish you luck. <:)
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It means you will never find out by dancing around the question. Tell her how you feel (with out going overboard) and ask her if she has feelings for you. She may or may not be waiting for you to make the first move, without hearing from her. \n\nYou could say something like "I like you and would like to take you to a movie (or dinner, or whatever). Would you like to go?
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This is a tough one because most girls want a male that is confident, w/ a good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh, you've taken the first step.\nTry to approach her w/ something you have in common ... then introduce yourself. You'll know if she warms up to you. The right girls have a way to make getting acquainted feel natural.\nBear in mind it's "hit or miss" w/ ANY guy that tries to 'explore' a girl striking his fancy. Rejection happens, but don't blame yourself ... it's her loss.
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:) I'm not sure I'm like most women, but personally I do love when a guy asks me out... as long as it's in a nice way. If you don't know her, a look at her eyes and a smile when she notices should make her smile back. If she does, then you can come closer and introduce yourself, then start chatting a bit and ask her to have a coffee (if she can't but is interested she will probably offer to exchange numbers). About numbers, here are my "rules": if I'm really interested I will take his number and give him mine -no risk to miss an opportunity-, if I'm not too interested I will just take his -I decide-, if I want to see if he really is interested (and if I am) I will give him mine -let's see if he wil call-.\nNow if you know her already (classmate, for example) you can try to chat with her from time to time and see if you have something in common that could be used: like if you talk about cinema, maybe she will mention a movie she wanted to see. If you want to be direct with a girl I would go for the "I was wondering if you would have time to have a coffee with me one day?". It's still casual, she can decline easily (important!), and again if she really can't but is interested she will offer another solution. Don't do too much, she has to feel she can refuse.\nOn a more general basis, if I see a guy I like I will do the smile-and-bat-my-eyes trick, this is usually enough to encourage the guy to move ahead. If he smiles backs and seems interested but won't move, I will probably offer a coffee myself if there is a possibility  won't see him again (subaway etc.) :)\nAnd about the bf... you're not supposed to know! If she say she has one, just don't say you're not jealous... please! ;) And don't worry, if you act nicely I don't think a girl will reject you roughly. She will probably be flattered: what girls have everyday it's guys making kiss sounds or saying comments about their body, not an actual sentence. That's not that common... ;)
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it could mean many things, why not choose an explanation for it that makes you still feel good about her and about yourself, and leave it out there for a while.  Maybe she will get interested, maybe she won't, but carry yourself with a balance of confidence and compassion and know that you had the courage to ask in the first place.  Regardless, your interest in her is flattering.  \n\nI suggest that you leave her alone for a while, and if she comes to you at all then that is a sign that she wants you to pursue her.  Listen to yourself, do you feel welcome in her presence?  What does her body language tell you?  Does she avoid you?  Does she smile at you?\n\nOne way or another, you will know the answer eventually, so have some patience, and be open...good luck!
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It's great when a guy has the confidence to just go right up and ask a girl out without playing games. However, a lot of times I don't know if I like someone or wanna go out with them unless I have thought about it first, so I might have a discouraging answer or reaction which is not representative of how I actually feel. So my advice is: throw in a few subtle hints first, just to get her thinking about it. Wait a little bit, and then just ask her out. You don't need any overrated romantic gestures either. Don't forget, confidence is the key. \n\nGood Luck :)
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i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
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dear, i am sure that you know the answer too, i feel that she likes you, but do u like her? if you like her than give her some hints too..... or why not just being apprachable for while and then ask her out, but dont just jump and say tht you like her/she likes you?/wana go out? coz she wll b surprised and while a girl is surprised or confused her answers sometimes vary....\nso be nice,be yourself and be loveable(doesnt have anything to do with bein gud looks)
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Never, ever, ever hit on girls at the gym.  They're going there to work out, just like you (hopefully).  Let them do what they're there for.  If she approaches you, neato, but if she's not your type you'll probably be annoyed too.
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The dance is the perfect time to find out.  if he asks you to dance then he likes you and if not, ask him.  whatever happens is meant to be so just act yourself and have fun.
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Well, you just gotta act out how you feel. Just be what you want to be. It's not exactly that big of a deal if someone likes you; unless, they have intentions towards you. I think that you should just look at the whole situation as a blessing. You are gifted with good looks and nice attitude, so, rejoice! Be merry! And enjoy every part of it. I wish you the best.
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I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.