Is it wrong to have strong feeling for your b-friend but, not want to be in a relationship with that person.  But, still want them to be living with you and as friend?
130184
No it is not wrong to feel that way.  Sometimes it is better to do the whole friends with benefits type of thing.  One of my ex's and I did the friends with benefits bit and when we moved on to other relationships we were able to keep the friendship.  It is nice having a guy to talk to about anything, that you know will understand b/c he is your best friend.  I think it is more important to have a best friend than a boyfriend.  It sounds like this guy is your best friend and sometimes when you move from friends to lovers you lose the friend.  So doing the friend thing would be safer but if your feelings are really strong then go for it and if it does not work out hopefully you can still be friends.
589564
You can always develop feelings for others, it doesnt mean you act on them.  If your in a committed relationship and have a crush on someone at work, are you suppose to leave your relationship?  HELL NO!  If you have no self control you shouldnt be in any relationships.  If your mate is disrespecting you or shows he or she doesnt care then you bounce.  If you are in an affair and want to leave your relationship...leave but you dont leave because you have FEELINGS for another.
197668
My fiance's best friend.  When we all go out together I feel butterflies in my stomach just because of him.  I can't have a relationship with him because I'm with someone and so is he, but we have talked and the feelings are mutual.  I think it's more of a sexual thing.
326018
Feelings are just that.. feelings.  They are neither right or wrong.  True love can't be made where it doesn't exist and can't hide where it does.  He is feeling that he somehow betrayed his friend.... He should discuss his feelings with him.
47173
It's not wrong. It's all about how you feel for your relationship. If you feel it's not going for you then it aint mistakening you for wanting a better relationship. If you feel something for your relationship but you chat to someone else online, then you're in denyal. Besides, look on the bright side. You know there's a good side. Always remember that each situation has two sides so follow the bright one than the negetive. Look for what makes you happy. G'luck
158143
You know, sometimes you just have to understand the difference between a good friend and someone you feel romantic and passionate about.  The worst thing you could do to him and yourself is to be with him when you have no feelings for him.  There's nothing more painful than being with someone who does not love you in return.  It is bad for you too because in the end, you're more likely to feel boxed in a relationship.  Your values will be different than his and you won't be able to connect on a emotional/intimate level.  This will eventually cause problems in the future.\n\nI wish you the best...
550967
I would call that infatuation. I rather say that you are in 'like' with the guy. Love is too strong a feeling for what you described there. You probably just like him and have no problem being around him.
566157
if it is a friend with benefits then it really is not neccesary to go into any detail.  he would just as well be truthful if it is a mutual agreement that it is ok.  you sound like you have more feelings than what you thought you had?
614911
Well love is a very strong word and i have been in that situation so i no exactly how u feel.....ofcourse it can be love but i feel that it is more of an emotional attachment rather than a physical one...things can change wen u meet the person in real...It depends on how comfortable u are with the other person and if something is meant to be it is...no denying dat!
505363
i think the only reason y u feel guilty, which you shouldn't, is because she said no.  i and i do see her point.  it is really hard to go from friend to anything more.  you are in the friend zone.  but dont phase her out, that's just not cool, still be there for her and maybe she'll start seeing you in another light. and truthfully, i dont thing the friendship will ever be the same. it wont be totally weird but it wont be exactly the same, there's a happy medium in there but remember,  dont change at all. just be the same great friend that you seem to be! good luck!
552100
Well, this seems to be a tricky situation. I have been in a similar, yet not so intimate situation, with another friend. Now let me tell you what I did to solve the situation. This answer may give you an idea as to what your next step should be. \nI didn't feel the same way because I thought it was forced. I love my friend in lots of ways but when it feels forced then it is hard to get past the idea that we are not friends. At that time I felt uncomfortable. He likes me still. But I told him that we could just be friends. Now we are still friends and we're glad for it. Sometimes the timing may not be right or she feels it is forced. At this moment cherish the fact that you guys are friends. When the time feels right she will automatically open up to you. At that time, it will not feel forced and you will not have lost a good friend. Remember people feel uncomfortable and forced in many different ways.\nSee, differences between individuals are evident in any relationship, but it is how one handles those differences within the relationship that matters. Are you willing to lose a good friend over your desire for it to be more than that? Decision is up to you.
461821
you two have been developed a mutual understanding which more likely you both feels the feeling of a couple or bf&gf. becuase you've been start as a very good friend and probably a best friend but you didn't realise that you have developed a relationship already through mutual understanding. but you both will feel awkward of your real feelings as you still thought that you are just friend and nothing else but behind there's already a special feeling that been developed. There's a possibility as well that one of you scared to feel this special feeling otherwise your relation as a friend will be broken, but i'm pretty sure there's a LOVE hanging in the air already between the 2 of you. sometimes denying of the real feeling make things confused and weird..wish you luck!
144557
Yes, I think it is normal for you to care for a friend. Friends are there to comfort one another. That's what friends are for.
176376
I would say those are natural feelings.  We all need fulfillment to some degree, and from what you descirbed, I wouldn't say that it sounds like you're thinking about enging in any type of experimentation that would be more harmful physically or emotionally.  Unlike other types of fantasies, since you had a previous relationship with him, you have more of a frame of reference to work from.  In time you may meet someone else, and these feelings might shift accordingly as you move on from him.  For now, it shouldn't pose any significant problems.
536536
I understand how you feel, but why would you want to be with someone who is not worthy of all the love you would be lavishing them with. Sometimes you have to let your head rule over your heart. You have to be able to look at the situation and go, this is going to hurt but maybe fate is changing in my favor. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we thought it was after we find better.
119003
if u want to remain friend wit this person u should chill on ur feelings becuz a relationship could tear yall apart but if u really want to take the chance go for it tell that person how u feel and they might just feel the same way about u
282488
Don't do anything that you will regret later.  Something does not seem right here.  If the guy you are living with is so great, you would not be thinking of another guy.