my best friend is fooling around with this guy she works with they have known each other two years and just started fooling around...they hang out do everything together but,he keeps introducing her as his friend.Recently he invited her to meet his mom,but so far he told his family they were just friends..why is he doing that?she asked me but I don't have an answer really other than hes been hurt real bad before and does not want to put a label on things...
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they need to sit down & have a serious talk about their relationship, where it is going etc.... then they both will know if they want the same thing or if they are wasting each others time.... if one gets serious & the other doesn't feelings are going to get hurt & no one wants that...hope it works out for your friend.
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tell me Jonat, did you ever see that movie, "Must Love Dogs"? She didn't create the profiles herself, her sister or best friend did. But she played along, and met a few men. She did eventually come to like the one she saw the most. Rent it, it might give you an idea.  wanted a simpler idea? How about braggin about her, to every guy you meet, who has a brother or even who has a friend, who wants a girl friend?  Where exactly do you live? And how old are you and your best friend? I might know a guy, she might like. Just maybe.
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I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
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Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
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No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
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ouch. sorry but it sound slike you have been lied to and played. that boy is having his cake and eating it too. he is screwing both of you over and probably making up different stories to tell both of you. you should find a way to call her and ask her. but i would definitely confront him, but he will probably tell you more lies. it sure sounds like he is with both of you, why else would he have made something up to tell her instead of just telling her it was over? and why does he spend time with her and go places with her and call her??? that is just crap!
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We all have these feelings about friends of the same sex as we go through life and whether we act on them or not is different to each individual.If she is willing for you to touch her and talk about these things then it is fine,the only thing is that she is probably keeping it from her boyfriend and that is betrayal.
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He may really be 'just friends' with Jen.  However, if his relationship with Jen is coming between him and your mother, there is a problem with your parents' relationship.  Maybe he has grown apart from your mother.  Maybe he's just a jerk.  It's hard to tell.  It will work itself out over time.  I hope you don't get hurt in the process.
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possible the best friend liked you and didnt tell and now hes not wanting anything to do with you and maybe even he dont like the b/f because he knows who he is and what he is like behind closed doors... lots of different possiblities but dont close the door with your best friend... loves come and go but best friends (if they are) are VERY hard to come by!!!
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If you have to work to make them happy then you shouldn't be calling them your best friend. I've had the same best friend for 13 years (Since we were about 8 or 9) and all I've done was be there for her when she needed me. If they want something more from the friendship then maybe they're asking too much. Just do what you can and what you can't do, if they're your best friend they'll understand.
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It's hard to say why she's doing this.  She obviously has some problems, but so does the guy.  If he has been told about her, and refuses to believe it you should just wash your hands of both of them.  There's nothing you can do.
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Well if I liked him and she knew I liked him i'd really see no problem in going to prom with him. Its just prom right? Nothing official? Anyways I think my Best friend would understand. I don't know what type of relationship you guys have, but is he the risk? I mean are you willing to lose a friend over him? Do you want a friend who would stop being your friend because of a guy? How would you feel if she went out with him? Does she even have a chance? I mean its difficult. I would probably go out with him, but that's me and my best friend would never stop being meing my friend because of a guy. Unless you know he cheated on her with me but that's understandable. So yeah I really think you should evaluate your relationships. I mean if she truly is your friend she wouldn't dump you because he chose you. Then again if you are truly her friend you wouldn't go out with him. ....at least not with out telling her....or giving her some heads up of what's going on. You could always say no and not tell her...but if she found out...well ...there might be a dilema.
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I am not for sure on what you are trying to find out,like if they are best friends with you,even though they hang out with others?If this is the case,yes,they can be your best of Best's,and still have other best friends as well.It sounds like you are having issues about the loyalty about your friends being true friends with you.If they haven't back stabbed you or caused any harm to you,i wouldn't see what there would be to question.As long as you enjoy hanging with them and when you do everything is as should be in friends,then just relax,and it wouldn't hurt for you to have other group of friends besides them either.About the twin's kissing up to you,isn't cool,for some reason they must feel some uneasiness in order to feel like they have to win you over.Maybe you should tell them that you are their friend and they did nothing wrong by socializing with others,its a big world and there is plenty of people for everyone.Try to make them feel at ease and not threatened in this friendship.Good Luck!
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If he's doing this behind your best friend's back what make you think he won't do the exact same thing to you IF you 2 were to hook up? When you say "stop" are you really saying it like you mean it--Or are you being playful with it?\n\nI think if you really express to her how much it bothers you & withdraw being around her soo much she'll get the picture. Why be around something that you know isn't right? I'm pretty sure after she sees how much this irks your nerves she'll stop being so foolish. Just watch your back.
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Is it right? Well, in my opinion it isn't necessarily wrong, but your friend should be weary.  Had she met this person in, well, person.. then maybe I could see them meeting somewhere and starting something, then having to go home so they carry on their relationship.  But to meet someone on the internet.. some people can be real creeps and unless your friend is going with someone when she meets this guy, I don't think it would be smart to go.  She may think she knows this guy.. but you never really know.  Be weary, and its good to know you care so much for your friend.  She's lucky to have you.
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So why can't you see your best friend?? If this person is your best friend then they should let nothing stand in the way of your spending time together.  Don't place too much emphasis in your life on groups and exclusivity, because in the real world it just doesn't matter.
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I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.