in the last two years my life keeps on sucking first my dad died then i went to go to his funeral and the car broke down and i missed it. then my g/f of 4 years cheats on me and leaves w everything all my money my car so i lose my house then i go back to school so i can better myself i fall for this girl shes kinda not that good looking then my lung colapses so i quit smoking and everything else just need someone to talk to oh she left me
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Well, life has it's tough roads. But the man upstairs will always guide you. You may feel lost and all alone, BUT YOU ARE NOT! As for the girl, GOOD RIDDENS! Remember, IT IS HER LOSS!!! NOT YOURS! Contact your lung associtionabout support groups in your area. As for the funeral, there was a reason you were kept from attending Only god knows the reason. If it really bothers you, write a nice letter to your dad telling him how you feel about missing the funeral. Then fold it up, Place it in an envelope and put away for safe keeping. Everytime you feel bad about dad, Pull out the letter and read it! DON'T GIVE UP!! keep going with school... Everything else will fall into place.
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will am sorry to here what ur going through is realy hard \n\nu must call ur dad and tell him about everything and am sure he will get u out of the house. \n\ncz in my opinion u need someone to help u out u must not stay without talking. u must find help go to police social advicer any one can help to improve ur life cz if u stay like this ur life will be affected in futuer.\n\ni dont know talk to ur mom tell her the truth be honest with her tell her whats bothering u maybe she will lisnt she must lisnt. and remmeber god with u pray to him and he will clear ur path.\n\ni hope every thing will fine.
594623
Oh geeze im sorry about that thats really sad :( I hope things get better for you im not sure why your feelings changed maybe it was because you were so in love with her and it might of been scaring  you that is was so real
318417
not advised. you may want to talk to someone you trust like a friend, family member or counselor about how to move on with your life and find someone local who can love you back.
69037
You need to do something you havne't done for maybe 4 years take sometime out for youself enjoy being single catchup with your girlfriendsjust surround yourself with friends and enjoy yourself time heals all wounds
607528
sweetie u need some councling, sorry u had to go through something like that
617748
I agree with you, I also know how you feel. I used to be a cutter because of my depression but i have found better ways of dealing with the pain and sorrow. Write poetry or listen to music, try to go hang out with your friends and have a good time with them. Just keep moving on and remember that its his loss and your a strong woman/girl/lady ( i don't know how only you are so yeah.) I hope this helped.
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Sounds like you are having a tough time dealing with stuff.Try to keep busy. Enjoy  life with your family.My mum died a year agoand I still feel very sad but you just have to get on with life.I am undergoing grief counselling  so maybe you could dothe same. Your doctor might be able to put you in touch with someone that can help you resolve  issues dealing with death and also learning to overcome your fears about death. Take care.
411173
a few times in life i felt at the end of my rope but when that happens I just tie a knot and hang on until it gets better. Now when my daughter was killed last year i really though i was going to die that day not kill myself as i have other kids and grand kids to be here for but just felt i was going to die right then and there my heart was so broke and it is just now starting to mend a little it will be 1 year on the 8th of Dec. but i am still standing please hang on when it gets rough tie that knot and grab hold it will get better God bless you
50670
I know how you feel, I broke up with my boyfriend out of fear of him hurting me also. I don't go to school anymore but my life has went to hell because he cheated on me and I can't trust him anymore. But I miss him and I wish I hadn't ended it. But I know it's for the best. We just need time. Time heals all wounds they say. If you think you can't live without him and you know he'll take you back then go for it. I can't concentrate either and my house is messier than ever but I know with time the sun will shine again and I will be happy for my decision. And if I have faith, maybe God will send the right one my way.
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ive been down alot and i kept going   alcoholic and drug addict 16 years  homeless  2years  poor and  begging to eat  even stealing food a few times and now me and my wife are working and our daughter is in a good college ive also burried all my relative on both side of the marriage and  almost all my personal friends  but  i find that if i help others i dont have time to pity party  i work on habitat houses and for the older people in my  hood
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first off pray,an then remember this life is no joke but it is something that you only have one of,try to always keep your head held high an your mind open that hey things are bad but they could be worse,an if things are worse you have to be strong you just have to put your self around positive things,loved ones an have someone you can talk to.If there is family members,a friend or someone you can talk.Have something or someone that is positive around.No matter what life throws at you a break up with someone special,death,drugs,or whatever always remember there is always life ahead of you an you can make it.Be strong an remember that you are in control an you can do this.Remember put all the negative things behind you are to the side even an put positive things in your life.Because there is always tomorrow,an there is love out there do not ever give up.because you are a strong person do not ever forget that,no matter what has happen or will happen. no matter what you have an will always be strong. because it takes strength to do what you did [ask for help]it takes a lot for someone to reach out to someone for advise.
535109
This is the hardest thing in the world, and so difficult for someone your age. Spend some time grieving and maybe do more to express your feelings like talking to your friends/parents, a counselor or other people you feel close to. Even writing down your feelings can help you get them out. But stay focused on school and on your life because unfortunately the world can't stop even in difficult times. Good luck.
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I'm sorry you have to go through this. Thats a hard desition. I would probably pray. Thats all I can tell you
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that was a very terrible problem...\ni'm sorry for what had happened to your daughter.\n\nsometimes life is unquestionable, even... it's unanswerable.\nwhatever you are going through in this life, god knows. he knows the best for your life, eventhough what had happened to you seemed so unfair. god said, god works in all things for your goodness. can you see the positive side from the problem you have?  if you havent, you will.\n\ni did something bad a few years ago i blame it on god, why did he let me do it. but... today, i know he let me experience it for my own good...\n\nhow can you bring your faith back? it cant leave you, it is inside you, you just have to awake it... ask for gods grace...
570428
I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
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God wont give u anything u cant handle i know it seems bad now but this too shall pass, it will work out pray for strength