should I stay with her or what?
132165
Something that you need to consider are... do you like were you right now? do you have anyone you know there? how is the job outlook there? these are things i would use to decide what i am going to do if i were you!
518961
LET GO.  She is never going to leave him.  Why leave if she can have you both?  There's obviously something in you that she is missing from the other man (and vice versa) which is why she keeps you both around.  Aside from this, if she does leave him, how can you ever trust that she won't cheat on you when she gets "bored" with you?  I think you deserve much more than this.  Get out now and find a quality woman with more respect for herself (and for you) than to sleep with 2 men and deceive them both.  If you thought more of yourself, you would certainly not put up with this for another day.  You should demand more than to be "the number 2 choice" to anyone.
216339
You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?
532347
she is not worth it\nhow can she expect that from you
320041
Well, chances are that she will get custody of your daughter.  If you believe what Dr. Phis says, children would rather be from a broken home than live in one.  You never made a commitment to the girl, which I believe is wrong anyway, but I don't think using one another just for sex is a reason to stay in a relationship.  It has to be built on more than that.  Nobody can tell you what you should do, nor should they, but I think that you need to find love and commit yourself to a woman for life.  Good luck.
112001
Ask her! If she is worth marrying you should be able to trust her? Right?!
648642
Yes, and even if she's not you should get out. It will be hard at first, but there is no point in holding on to something just because ya'll have been together for so long. Sometimes you should just know when to call it quits.
361847
Hi, i think you should do what your heart desires. In other words if you want to stay with your girlfriends stay but if you want to meet guyfriends go for it too. but , honestly i think you should talk to your girlfriends and tell them how you feel.
15204
you have asked this question three times. i know you kind of want a yes, you should. but listen to us. think first. talk to her about it. there can be complications. can you live with her? would your parents be happy? could you guys marry, and still have money to live on? think first.
437530
u should stick with her if it is her culture RESPECT it u may never know she might be THE ONE and only one who u may ever LOVE as the sayn goes FOR BETTER OR FOR WORST love's COMPLICATED deal with it or look at it this way when she gets her masters she's out of their and u can be together in PEACE AND QUITE.she CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM AND CAN'T WITHOUT THEM..................
504538
well you could talk to your family and explain that you really love her. if they still don't like her and if you are dead sure that she loves you and that she can break her engagement without any problem, then i guess you should stay with her. because it is YOU who will love her and  not your family. and if you can persuade them that you will be happy with her then they should be tolerant and accept the situation. i could also tell you to face your family and fight for your love like they do in movies but this is unrealistic. i have faced a more or less similar situation some years back. i was in love with a boy. he is hindou and i am christian and my parents disliked him. i love my parents very much and i didn't want to hurt them and see them sad. so i broke up. but this was my choice. today i'm still alive and waiting for the perfect guy if ever he exist at all. i dn't know if i have regrets. what i mean is that the choice is yours and no one else's!
234142
Man if u let her stay with him alone for 2 weeks, then u are asking for trouble. If she's already been with an older guy, then she knows the deal. He sounds like a smooth talking guy anyway and what's he got to loose? nothing. So if she does stay there with him that long, u might as well get ready to find a new girl, cause ur relationship prolly wont last after that. She would prolly just deny that that anything happened with him, and then find some reason to break up anyway.
661984
I dont think she will leave you..just give her time and space.
622647
yea...if you like her stay with her..btu just dont have sex
435393
well.. if you like the stress, drama, and heartache of this relationship, open your door to her. but if you want any chance of stability, don't answer her calls anymore. This is not a mature or stable relationship. All i can say is.. the sex must be good!!
390284
depends how much i like her, but probably not, thats just wrong, its good they have a conscience in the end, but its not a good reason to leave someone, find someone nice that will treat u well
152699
i moved in with my boyfriend when we were together for about 2 years as well...and were still living together...and we've been together for 5 years now...it brought us closer together...with out a doubt....you just learn a lil more about that person...theres always going to be something that you dont like that they do and they dont like that you do ...but you work around it and work together...i think its a beautiful thing...i enjoy being with him so much...if you love her and enjoy being with her and spending time with her then i say go for it...your not making the wrong decision...it will be an adjustment...but have fun with her...good luck