i cheated on this guy that i am still in love with.we where so in love but i mest it up. what should i say or do to get us back together?
128118
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....
605193
Well I will tell you this much, Your heart and brain are probably telling you two different things, and most people would probably tell you to not go back to Danny because he cheated on you..... and allot of people always say " If my man ever cheated on me I would leave him" well unless they have ever been in that kind of situation, than they can not say that, I have been with my man for 5 years and he cheated on me when we first got together, and then we split up for a  while, and got back together, I believe in forgiveness.. So my advice to you would be that if your heart is telling you to be with Danny and you Love him, and this is what you truly want, than go for it, but let him know that you wont be used or walked on, you need to make sure that he knows that you WANT him you don't NEED him... good luck and god bless
77341
it is hard to leave someone, especially if u love them in return. but as he has cheated, it is likely he will do it again. saying "i love you" might be just his way of making you forget what happened. you should move on. you need to think of yourself, not him, because he obviously was not thinking of you when he cheated. this is just my opinion, so dont take it to heart. if you want to talk more contact me by going to my profile.
632213
Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
351909
I would believe her but like if he ever called you. dont bring it up at first let him know you still love him then when the conversation is cool like yall talkin alot stuff. then just ask him question about cheating not towards him but just to see how he reacts. now if he still dont answer your call then he is embrassed to talk to you and know that you know he cheated on you.
588441
wake up,he cheated on you so why have him back.chances are you will never fully trust him ever again.time to move on girl
640943
do what you did with every other guy in the past..or just pretend you are cheating on him
94360
Have you told him you want him back? Also, I think it would be a good idea if you told him you can't stop thinking about him. Make sure to say your sorry and that you were confused. Tell him that you will not hurt him if he gives you a second chance.\nGood Luck Girl!
370091
Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.\n\nif he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.\n\nif you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
203814
Find outif he really loves you back. He might've been cheatin' ans saved you the agony of telling the truth. But if you love him tell him that you don't want it to be over, tell him thatit can be worked out if both of you are willing to commit.
99136
You should talk to him and see if things can be worked out.  From what you said, you did what you needed to at the time and it was probably best for both of you.  He even sounds like he handled it the way a guy who loves you should have.  What you have to realize though is that you are now starting over again so don't compare anything between the two of you to what it was before.  Things will be different and you both will have to adjust.
287549
It's worth trying.If he's still with you that means that he's got strong feelings for you but he also can't get over the fact that you have cheated on him becouse he THINKKS you don't care for him as much as he does for you.\ndon't play games with him.if you love him too,try to get his trust again..
162402
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
8316
what a flimsy excuse! of course it is cheating. and no,you wouldn't be in the WRONG for still liking him and wanting him back. but you WOULD be setting yourself up for a lot of heartbreak in the future.
647267
I dont understand if he didnt really want to be with you why would he have stayed with you for a year after you cheated. Just jot down on some paper everything you want to say to him, anything that you might forget. Some times a break up is temporary but sometimes they just tell you that to let you down easy. Thats what my ex did to me (neither of us cheated he just said we should have some time apart and we havent gotten back together yet and that was a year ago)You need to figure out why you cheated on him, it was obviously for some reason. Good Luck
247948
Just tell the new guy the truth.  That your sorry, but you and your ex expectantly got back together and that you hope he understands.  If he is a really nice guy he will wish you the best and everything will be cool.  These things happen sometimes.
266017
This is something that will always be on his mind in one form or another.  You can't change that. What you can do is say your sorry, that you love him, it was a mistake, it'll never happen again and deal with the consequence of your actions. If he chooses to stay with you.. Never cheat on him again. That's about the only thing you can do.