I can't stand to see him with this problem,it's hard for him to deal with and I don't know how to help him cope.
136732
I suppose that your friend is seeing a psychiatrist.\n\nIf you really care about that friend, ask his doctor in what way youcould be helpful !! Who else can tell you better what to do.
656522
By this point it sound pathalogical, he lies without even thinking about it and if it goes on much longer he could even beging to believe his lies. It will take time to correct this problem but with the right help you and him should be able to make it through it.
12265
He may need a different type of medication and intensive therapy. Be supportive even when you want to throw in the towel. He needs you even when he's screaming at you.
41230
sounds to me like he's a messed up guy but there probably isn't much you can do about it other than stop being his friend so that you don't have to worry about his drama. if family services hasn't taken care of things i'm sure they will eventually or someone will be sure they do.
32637
If he does not think that he has a problem there is nothing you can do.\nYou're only hope is to make him see that he has a problem.
118281
If he wants to find you he will. It must be very difficult to deal with this right now! I can only imagine how awful you must feel. I recently lost contact with someone myself, and I just stay focused on work and family and try to let time pass. Each day gets better. Talking really helps too, so maybe counseling would help (I have not done this yet, but want to.)
69365
Trust and believe he is not going to change if he's acting like this now he will be doing the same thing later. If you cant deal with it I suggest you get rid of him SOON!..... GOOD LUCK!
302036
im soo sorry to hear that. im kinda in the same boat here but im not married and hes never put his hands on me or he knows he will get it back twice as much. but he says really nasty things to me and i no i cant take it ne more and i have a 6 month old son with him as well and i wanna leave to i understand its hard cuz i cant get myself up and get my stuff packed either i no how u feel i dont wanna take my son away from his father but i no in my heart what needs to b done but its hard to do it but ill let u no one thing if he HITS U THAN hunnie u need to leave right away if ure afraid of him find a place and do things slowly soo he doesnt find out what is goin on than when hes at work u can finally leave but call the police to have extra help. if u need sumone to talk to u can message me ne time and i can help u
311532
Just as everyone has said, this is not because of you. This is a way for him to deal with his pain and of course can be very harmful. The best thing you could do is to talk to him about this, and see if he will discuss it with you or get help professionally.
407081
Thats tough.tell him what you think and tell him that he can't leave his responsabilities behind and that he has to change or else you have no choise.
107912
it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.
130178
you need to leave. whether you stay gone or not, he needs to understand it's you or the drugs. it's hard, but hold your head & just know that you will get through this.
649190
pay his fine and do his time.serouisly you need to et him take care of this himself.You wont always be around to bale him out of him mistakes.He has to learn to stand on his own two feet.
301283
Leave him alone if he cant handle it he's not your friend.
158121
i do have this experience...it is not a good one... the only thing i  know to tell you is that you should try to talk to him about how you really feel. it worked for me...
601364
It's going to be tough to convince him...you might have to let him go down this path so he can learn from his mistakes
220369
Time is up for him. If he can't explain why she's visiting, then that's it. I'm sorry this is happening to you.