he comes home drunk sometimes and sometimes i get in his way
131263
you just think you are in the way.you seriously nedd to get out of this relationship,do you wanna die?this is abuse and it is so wrong,im sorry you are going through this.plz leave before it gets worse,he thinks he can scare you into staying cuz he can beat you up.saying you are in the way is a copout.plz leave.it will only get worse.ok,once they start hitting,they dont stop,next your family will be planning your funeral.plz plz leave  best of luck
557271
you need to sit down together and find out why he get home so late as you find iy disrespectful. if he can't give you a straight answer he may be cheating on you. i would'nt make him choose between his freinds and you though because it just another argument that i don't think you'd win.\nask yourself if you can trust him because if you can't then the relationship is doomed to a dumping.
239886
Don't confront drunks.  It gets you no where.  Wait until they are sobber.  Also, don't throw a drunk out of your house unless you know they have a ride.\nAs far as the bf/gf goes, maybe their trying to send you a message.  Still, wait until they are sobber before asking.
179026
because they are drunk most of the time
377167
Who says you can't do what you want? He does.\nJust do it. IF he gets out of sorts, leave again.\nIF he stays home, yoiu still go to the things you go to.\n\nThey are not bad or bad for you or him.\nHe is childish. Make him grow up.
408210
okay i know this might suck to hear, but he prob is on drugs...now im not saying that he gets high everynight...but theres a good chance he at least does it sometimes. guys like that sometimes arent worth your time...but if you really love him, give it a chance. just don't let him peer pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do.\n\nhope it works out, jamie
636263
that's just the way drunks are. don't worry about all the people saying that he thinks this about you and he want's to do that. he was drunk, and if someone is drunk, they are not in their usual state of mind. only worry about such things if that is how they are sober.
170502
Sounds like he's way jealous that you're not a fat drugged out alcoholic.  I really wouldn't suggest stooping to his level to insult him, you sound like you're better than that. He's just bitter and insecure.
316228
First of all remind him that he told you this stuff when he was drunk. He will either apologize to you or tell you that's how he really feels. If you confront him about it by asking him what he was trying to prove by telling you this when he was drunk; he will be in a position to either deny it or confirm it. If he does tell you that he remembers and meant it, then you can tell him how you feel. Good Luck!
570797
the same kinda thing has happened to me and i found that just trying to forget about him is best hard but u have to do it u need to keep your pride girl u have given him the option to call u and he hasn't as yet.. so next time u go out with your girls just make sure your looking good! so if u do bump into him or any of his mates c u they can tell him! he'll start thinking about what he's passed up on over some stupid texts that u sent when u were hammered!
501019
Just wait for him to call you, if he doesnt call you within the next three days then he doesnt remember any of it. Then when you go out, tell him you want to go to dinner, then make not of his behavior, is he drinking a lot? Excessive? Is he just a natural slurrer? He was probably nervous about meeting you and probably kept drinking.  \n     I say give him a shot if/when he calls, there is no harm in that. Enjoy, you might have found a great guy that will make you laugh. If he doesnt call then just write it off to the fact that he was drunk.
41810
sure sounds like a drinking problem's probably the 'real' problem. He sounds inhibited, and the drinking at least for a time lowers his fears, nervousness, insecurity, inhibition, guilt or whatever levels ... addictive behavior...do you honestly believe that your honest feelings are at fault? Sounds difficult, complicated...and, perhaps, getting worse. Whether he's having 'commitment phobias' or just expecting you to do as he says, or whatever he's perhaps not discussing, he sounds 'out of control', but he wants to 'be in charge'...something in him might be feeling ashamed, low self-esteem/image, and, he's demanding that you follow his routine, with implied not much room for spontaneity, let alone you feeling love(-d), safe (at peace, unperturbed) and valued -- but, how can he value you, if he's troubled about who he is -- or, why else drink/escape, and then try to use sex with such timing, like drunk clockwork. It sounds like your feelings are good, clear, trying to communicate...your feelings are innocent, your true companions/guides...BEST WISHES...in finding (out) your way(-s)
340506
I'm honest when I'm drunk, I say things I can't or wouldn't say in a normal situation. It's gotten me into trouble a few times.
633429
you where right all the way. you shouldnt use being drunk as an excuse because its you cant blame anyone else for being drunk.  if he didnt deserve the punch in the face from u about trying to kiss ur gal then he deserved it for being drunk. u shouldnt feel bad and if it still haunts u try to let the past go..
669944
I'd have to say he's being protective in this case. If everyone happened to be really drunk as you said and you and your BF were not. He was doing the only thing he knew how to prevent a situation from escalating into something potentially dangerous to you. Just give him a hug and a kiss and tell him thank you for looking out for you. I could only say he was over reacting if Sam were sober and joking around with you and your BF heard the conversation and went off even after knowing Sam was just jesting then it would be over reaction on the BF's part.
295958
neither one of you should be drinking.Being drunk is just an excuse for acting stupid.You need to work out your feelings about what happened or you may explode one of these days.
317262
sounds to me like he still wants you ,,   but can you trust him ,, and the drinkings gotta go,,