What is the safe way to get a date for prom, if do not already have a prom date?
119720
hire someone, or call your distant cousin.
69868
I once heard of some kids that wanted to do the same thing. They ended up "tailgating" the prom. You know how people tailgate at a football game? Alot of people can't get tickets, so they go to the games just to tailgate and party. It's more fun than the games sometime! Dress casual, and tailgate outside the prom!!!
218025
Better start getting to know her now. Going up to a girl a few days before the prom probably won't work. First, she has to get her dress and all that shyt ready. Second, you make her feel like a loser asking her only a few days before and she may not want to go. Third, somebody else could beat you to it. ask her out on a regular date first. Don't make "the most important night of high school" (it's not, but that's what they say) be you're very first date. Break the freakin' ice NOW, for crying out loud.
311642
don't go to prom with her friend because it would be leading her on. ask your family friend if she would like to go to prom with you and see what she says. if it doesn't turn out romantic, i think you'd still be close enough for it to be meaningful!
148018
how about"\n"let go to the prom together as friends only. nothing more."
161962
Go to the prom with him and let him know you care.Spend the whole dance with him.Laugh with him,talk to him.Do everything you can think of.And make sure towards the end of the end,do a slow dance with him.Then walk out holding hands with him.And of course,give him a kiss on the cheek to let him know you really like him.
110034
just see if anyone is going but dont have a date and see if there intrested in going with u
193321
be front about it, if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet.
75493
Open a calendar or diary and presto there's a date (it's all yours). LOL\n\nSeriously tho... just talk to people, if things are friendly between you and the talkee then sugest going somewhere (try just talking a few times before suggesting)
393296
Keep it casual or cute...\n\nCASUAL:\nHey (after school), ya doing anything cool this weekend? (if the answer is no, say something like...) me neither. Wanna go see a movie? (afterwards, she might kiss you or vice versa, usually thats what happens)\n\nCUTE:\nThis is what girls usually do, but guys can do it too I guess... write a note saying 'want to go out this weekend?' and put to check boxes saying yes or no. Write your number on the back or something, locker number or I dunno... whatever!\n\nOr burn her a CD with some nice songs that she hasn't heard of named something like ' I really like you' , 'can you feel the love tonight' etc. and make sure you write down these songs on the back of the cd case. When she reads it, she'll get the message.\n\nWHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT FORGET TO SAY 'ITS A DATE!' AS SOON AS YOU RUSH OFF TO TELL YOUR FRIENDS OR WHATEVER GUYS DO AFTER THEY GET A DATE WITH THE GIRL THEY LIKE
183888
let me put it this way....\n\ny would you want to take a borrowed car to the prom while you could get a brand new one???? think about it....\nat the end you'll return it right??? while a brand new one if you think its not for you after the test drive then you could exchange it....
398650
i would, and did =D so i had my prom date
297441
Wait until the day before the date. thet way you can just say you wanted to make sure you were still on for your date.
227732
be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow his daily schedule.
254464
Well yea, I would definitely invite him to the prom and make out with him in front of everyone.  In high school you seem to get more respect when you date older men.  Especially since he has a nice car, I would give him a real special treat when we went for a drive afterwards.  I hope you have a "ball".  Good Luck at the prom.
138812
Okay may i just say I disagree with a couple of previous responses here for the following reasons:\n\ngalaxy500: A prom is NOT for two people who "have something going". I've never heard anything about Prom beign exclusively for couples, otherwise you'd might as well say "Fellas, single ladies, now's your last chance to get a gf/bf otherwise you might as well not turn up, yer loser!"\n\nmrs.iv: Why oh why would you emotionally blackmail a guy into going to the prom "cause its a tough time for the girl". Its a tough time for the guy also - he has to pay for the thing, getthe car/transport, pick HER up at a decent time, make sure they get in okay, see that she enjoys herself (if you've gone with her THEN you HAVE to be hospitable!), AND get her home safely! (As much as most guys wanna "get a room", lets be gentlemanly and remember most girls have dads who want them home by midnight!)\n\nHowever, in answer to the question: DON'T go with her. Other realistic options are:\n1) Go with someone else (another girl maybe?)\n2) Go with a a friend or few\n3) Don't go at all and give the tickets to someone else (selling them is an option).\n\nYou are in NO WAY obligated to go with her - thats emotional blackmail.  And NEVER for once think "oh its a couple thing" otherwise you'll just end up feeling sorry for myself then next banging your head thinking "Why don't I hve a gf".  I've been there - it ain't a nice place to be.
132678
Don't go... You have great music taste. Share your musical taste with others and check out new bands while everyone is having a miserable time at the prom!