She has been through a hysterectomy and I never seem 2 b able 2 rile her up. We "might" have sex once ever 2-3 months and it drives me CRAZY.
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Having hysterectomy shouldn't make a difference she should still be able to enjoy sex - it's seems quite a while ago that she had the op!!\nJust be gentle with her as she will be sore for quite a while, try doing something different.\nHysterectomy never stopped me I still enjoy a full sex life, so I don't understand why you can't get her to climax - presumably that is what you are saying?\nJust an idea she may need HRT - (hormone replacement therapy) maybe her hormones have gone haywire. She should really have them checked, especially if she gets mood swings. Maybe you should encourage her to see the doctor and get the hormone level checked, if she isn't on the HRT or maybe if she is then it could be the wrong one for her. - Good Luck
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you are just getting old. nothing wrong with that. Get surgery to get it tightened up, or stop having sex for a week or so to let it go back to normal. the very last thing you could do is get a new partener - one with a larger member. That will solve everything.
570876
my girlfriend has the same thing... we tried to have sex more often, and her cycle became regular.
90203
No, it is not crazy. Hysterectomy means that the uterus was removed. Your ovaries are intact and they are the ones that excrete the hormones responsible for your monthly symptoms. With a hysterectomy the only thing that should change is not having your period.\n\nOut side of medications you are going have to wait for menopause to hit.
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Dont feel bad my friend. I am 35 and aunt Flo stays with me on a constant time period. I may stop a day or so then flood over and over. I think I may have fibroids or hardening of the ovaries, but who knows. I dont have children, nor do I plan to. I want a partial historectomy becuase i am sick of this mess. So dont feel bad, all we band of women understand...the gulf is with me also.
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You are respecting her by discussin everything and moving slowly WITH her in mind.  There is no problem with anything you are doing.  The issue is what you were taught about sex.  Were you taught to be embarrassed about your body as a child?  To hide it, not to talk about it, not to touch it?  I think that is incredibly unfair. \nHow can we love and respect ourselves if we don't love and respect our bodies.\nWe are not just spirits and brains.  Our bodies exist.  It sounds like you are experiencing things in a wonderful setting - an intimate relationship with mutual respect.\nLeave the guilt at the door, but bring the respect to bed with you.
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Maybe you are just not attracted to her. It takes more than good looks to be attractive, you know.\n\nIf you're still interested in trying, perhaps you could gently explain to her that you feel like you're doing all the work and would prefer if she looked alive. Some girls don't think they have to do anything in bed... just lay there and be a passive sperm receptacle. You need to encourage her to get into it. (Then again, maybe she's not into it at all and you're just not turning her on?)\n\nIf that doesn't work, just face it and accept that you two are just not sexually compatible.
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It's probally just a phase, maybe she's overwhelmed with other things right now.  Try going back to the basics and romance her like you did in the beginning I bet she'll go crazy! Oh my situation is kinda similar....try with holding sex from her for awhile but you have to act completly uninterested and I bet you will see a tiger come out possible more so than when you first met!! Good Luck
656225
You can't. She feels comfortable in the bed, let her be where she wants to be or just don't have sex with her. xD
138923
Shes getting bored with it! Women, after a while going out w/ the same guy, get tired, just like men!! Plus, we dont like sex alllllll the time like men do!!
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Sounds like to me that shes doesn't get into it much.  Maybe she feels it is an obligation to have sex.  If you are a needy man and have to have sex all the time, she may feel like it is a chore.  Maybe you need wine and dine her.
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1-3 times.... it keeps me sane.\n\ni think i have an overly active sex drive...\n\n im 20yrs
203231
Listen up, the sooner you learn this the better.  When to have sex has and will always be her choice.  The best you can hope for is that she feels the same way about you.
644212
you know what ?im going through the exact same thing only were not married but still. some women are just plain physcho honestly they just wont give it up its been almost 2 years shes still on his back. they are probably unstable and are unable to move on. just dont give her the satisfaction  of giving up on your husband because of her trying to ruin your relationship with him
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It isn't significant how many times they had sex, neither is his size... this is information that will not help you in any manner. What is important is that you don't believe her, that you obviously don't trust her. She sought out an emotional release that she couldn't get from anyone else, that she was unable to ask of you. If you want to forgive her, seek counseling, individually and together, and don't be impatient, it took time for it to graduate to the point you are now, it will take time to heal.
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it is normal if she hasnt had sex much yet, but as time goes on each time should hurt less and less, but if this is not the case then she should see her doctor incase she has some kind of problem in her reproductive are that could be causing this pain.
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Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!