OK, so its finally happened, I've met Mr. Right, its wonderful. i just dont want him to ever doubt that hes one of the treasures in my life and how special he is to me. so tell me guys....what could the woman you love most do to keep you remembering how wonderful and special you are to her?
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Well first off let me say a HUGE congratulations to you, I do not know you, but I do wish you the very best and hope that he turns out to be a majority of what you want and all of what you need. As far as the most wonderful thing a woman can do, well I have been married twice now, so, first and most important, never hold your true feelings from him, if he doesw something wonderful and surprising in your eyes, then tell him so. If you have a moment when out with him, let him share in it as well. Always communicate, that was the biggest mistake in my first, she stopped talking, then caring, then everything else stopped. Dont get in the mindset of " he knows I love him, or he knows how much he means to me".. TELL HIM. Second, and this is also VERY important and it goes for him as well as you, yet is so simplistic many forget it... If you SAY it, then SHOW it.. nuff said. Dont wait for big days, birthdays, anniversary, christmas, whatever, to show or do something special or spontaneous. BTW, this pretty goes for him as well, not just you, you know him, his likes, dislikes, dreams, etc, so you know how to surprise him, you know how to make his heart skip a beat, KEEP DOING IT. If you have an argument, or god forbid a fight, dont wait till the next morning, or next evening to try to bridge the gap, think about what the fight or argument was about, then talk to him and him to her about what was meant, and be upfront and apologize for any misunderstanding, harsh words,and such. WORDS are the cruelest cut, they not only hurt on the surface, but they go so much deeper, down to the pysche and the soul. Final thing, dont wantt o sound like I am writing a book..LOL, the most special thing about loving someone, is that you arent tied down with specific things for specific events or times. Love is all encompassing, it involves all the senses, and causes an enormous reaction in the brain, and the body and every system in the body, so how do you use that to your advantage?? easy.. IMAGINATION, use it, think up anything you want, do anything you want, or try anything you want, love, true love is endless, it has no boundaries, just like your ability to imagine. Like I said, you know abit about him now, and you are constantly learning more and more, so as you learn, your ability to utilize your imagination into special times, events, or things are just as boundless. Finally, be YOURSELF, or more importantly, STAY yourself. Many, many people are fooled later on in a relationship, or marriage when they realize that they do not really know the person they are with, and that is a cruel thing to find out. If you are being your true self now, then KEEP BEING that way, and him as well. It is WAY to easy to be a different person, to fool somebody in the early goings of a relationship, but if the person is presenting a different persona then they really are, it will eventually come out. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, AND TO HIM, AND ACCEPT NOTHING LESS FROM HIM. Every day, every moment, every second in the right relationship is special, and memorable, share the time, excitement and feelings with him, and you both will go far and deeper into your love of yourself, and each other.\n\nGood luck and I wish you nothing but the very best
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I know I answered the other one and thank you for the above.  And you are very welcome. Was nice "sharing" with you.  I gave a thumbs up on that one.  I really think the sentiment that Dr. Evil (what a name) gave was one I know would melt me and really seems to apply to you. "Dude! Write down this question on a blank card and then write that there were no answers good enough to say how you feel about her. She would SO DIG THAT!" That really sums it up. Good luck again to you and her.  But with that kind of love you are already luckier than most.  Alda
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Cook a nice romantic meal and tell him you love him. Look him in the eye when you tell him. Tell him the things about him that you love so much. Share a good bottle of wine with him. Finish off by giving him a nice gentle foot massage. We men don't need much to feel appreciated. It's the simple things that mean most to us. It's more important to us to see the smile on your face and the love in your eyes than any grand gesture. Like women, we want to be loved and you wanting to spend time with us is more than enough to please us! Have a wonderful evening!
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Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
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I can honestly say that I have done several things and am always trying to come up with more to keep things exciting and interesting. Cooked dinner when she is tired from a hard day at work even if I had a hard too. Came home during lunch one time while she was at work and left rose petals on the bed and little love notes from the door leading to the bed. Just grabbed a hold of her and kissed her passionately when she did not expect it. Read poetry to her while a warm fire was going. I have called her at work to just say hi and to let her know I'm thinking of her. I have sent her romantic e-cards just because. No special occasion needed. As I am currently deployed to Iraq, I also take time to write letters. Email is convenient, but a hand written letter is so much more personal. I have also copied down songs to her to help me relay how I feel about her when words escape me. I order flowers online and have them delivered to her at work. Give her words of encouragement, support and appreciation for all that she does. I compliment her on her looks when I get a picture from her or she tells me of a new outfit she got as I picture her in my mind in her outfit. I ask her how she has been doing, how she is feeling, for her thoughts and concerns. There are so many things one can do. Just takes a heartfelt thought, some imagination and love.
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Hi, I met my husband at my place of employment. I only thought of him as a nice person, possibly a friend. He came in one day and asked me to go to a band job with him(he is a drummer). I said I wanted to go and he was a perfect gentleman in every way. When I got home he said goodnight and patted my hand. I really knew he was a good guy and I would date him many times after that. After two years of dating we had a beautiful wedding. I still love him so much I could not tell you.
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How could someone as sweet and smart and loving, be so in love with a man the way some of you describe our President? She wouldn't care so deeply for an idiot such as you rank. Laura Bush is a wonderful person who loves a good strong  man.
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yeah, show her what you've posted!! Or rephrase it in a letter. Maybe a poem if you're creative? You could arrange to have a bouquet sent to her, or think of other things you could do. An easy one is to send her an e-card. Aw, nice to hear that there are some men out there who are all loved up and adore their women!
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Listen... I think she's got one hell of a guy!!! L0L, wine, roses, and a star named after her... it's only right to blush!! She obviously LOVES you so POP the friggin question!! *-*L0L*-*
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I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
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I've been married for 14 years and have continuously thought of my first true love.  Just about 2 months ago I came across his email address and contacted him through email.  Yea, he's married but is so glad that I contacted him.  I'm still his true love although he's now married as well as myself.  We email and occassionally he calls me.  It was such a relief to finally be able to talk with him.  He lives hours away, but we email each other daily.  So, I'm telling you, contact her.  You'll be glad you did.
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I'm in the beginning of a relationship with a celebrity that I'm sure you all know. She said she has taken a chance on dating someone not famous so I have to be absolutely quite about it until we see where it goes. I'm starting to calm about it but I'm still super excited to just tell someone. I can't mention it to my friends, family, nobody-you are the first to know! We both like each other very much. It's been 5 months. I spend about 3 days a week with her-I wish it was more, but I don't think I can take the anonymity forever. If we get serious and go longer than a year I think it will be time to let the cat out of the bag by then. I'm always excited about this happening. It will be so crazy for my friends and family to find out on TV. You will know to. Keep an eye out because you will remember that I answered this question!
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i had the sweetest day of my life...\n\nmy boyf and i didnt plan anything for V-day because we both had work and we had conflicting schedules...(i go home 6am he goes to work 7am, i leave for work 8pm he arrives from work 6pm) so I wasn't really expecting anything...\n\nBut when it's time for me to go home from work (6am feb.14), some of my officemates were already teasing that a guy is waiting for someone outside and i said "no he's not my boyf" because I wasn't really expecting him but when I went outside there he was waiting for me with a big smile and as I was walking towards him...guess what?!! I didn't see this one coming...he handed me a bouquet of pink roses (a really nice one) and my officemates were like, "oh my gawd! he's so sweet"...\n\nI was very surprised and very touched. I felt very special that moment. Then we just had breakfast at his house then off we went to our different destinations...\n\nI love my man!! :)
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Ok... \nDear Matthew,\nYou are my hero. Even though I'm left for months and years at a time I couldn't be happier or more proud to be your wife. I love you so much. \nXOXO, \nNicole
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How about writing him a long surprise email...telling him how u felt from the first time u laid eyes on him till this very day...how the 2 of u have grown together and how important he is to u. Attach a song to the email...a song that reflects how u feel....a song that will hit them right in the heart :)
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I think you are really sweet! Jeez, I wish my guy was that sensitive. I am betting she loves you the way you are, and I wouldn't really change anything. Just tell her what you told us about what is in your heart!!
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My partner died of (breast) cancer at the age of 34 - ten years ago. I still have a deep love for her...her memory and the time we spent together. I started dating after about three years and eventually married after five years. I occasionally talk about her to my wife who knows that I loved her  agreat deal. It was a very powerful time in my life going through the whole process, both painfull and very special - magical at times and a deeply spiritual expereince. I would never want to forget it as a monumental time. However, life moves forwards in every way. It was funny that my partners mother was in Aushwitz and I went to see her about a month after the funeral. She asked me if I had found a new girlfreind yet! I told her that not enought time had passed. She told me to get on with life. She, if anyone, should know such things. It took me some time to integrate what had happened then I did move on. And now I have a great wife and i am in the next chapter of the story. Turn the page when you are ready and remember that the previous chapter will always be there...dont' wait longer than you need to and let it unfold naturally. Good luck.