I've been visiting my daughter every Sunday since she was 4 years old, but now that she's a teenager I've run out of ideas on what we can do together.  Lately we've just been having lunch together or maybe a movie.  It's cold here in the northeast this time of year (Boston area) so outdoor activities are out for now.  I'd just like to do something fun and original once in a while.  Any ideas?
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I used to be that teenager. Even though it sometimes gets awkward between the two of you the thing she loves is just being with you. Deep down your love and time is sufficient enough. Sometimes she just wants you and not what you can buy or where u can take her. Simple is good.
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I like the party idea and the skating idea.  Going to a concert might be too pricey for 13 year olds.  But if you like museums, that's a great way to spend an afternoon.  I suggest doing somehting you both like, doesn't cost a lot of money, and gives lots of opportunities to laugh, converse and have a great time.  How about taking a walk to a local park to play tennis or basketball?
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Friday night is game night......board games and such.\nWe prepare together....popcorn, snacks....I let each of the kids alternate weekly on picking the snack theme.\n\nWe decorate cookies every year....bake the basic sugar cookies...however the frosting as such go into detail...green,white red, and sprinkles, red hots...to decorate the little guys.....every year the kids enjoy this the most...\nI also bake  a variety and we mixed them and take a plate to the neighbors with one cookie from each of the children mixed with Moms....\n\nI like this one the best. For a wedding gift I received a traditional German gift....You are Special plate.....every night a different child gets the plate. I state why the child got the plate....Thank you for getting ready this morning with a smile....or Mr. Teacher called today and you are doing really well....so this child is the special child and its a get out of helping with dishes card...lol(my oldest is 17 and still appreciates this and really likes the get out of dishes factor)\n\nAlso during dinner every night we start with day...name one good thing that happened today...goes around all 5 and then name one bad thing that happened today....nice way to keep open communication with your children...(my favorite time of the day)\n\nthere are more....just listed a few....fingers cant keep up with the mind......\nWe even make food baskets together for the elder community.\n\nBest wishes
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Happy birthday!!!! Maybe you could go to dinner with your family. that's what my husband and our 2 kids do on our b-days. then we give eachother cash to go get something nice for ourselves.
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things that she likes to do.  If she likes ice skating go ice skating.  Take her on a picnic in the local park.  take her on a moonlit stroll.  There are alot of things that are free that you can do.  Go to her house at nght and sing to her cheezy iknow but these things so work.
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boy or girl, and what age?\n\nFor younger kids: hang up a white sheet, fill spray bottles with water and paint and let them spray the sheet a million colors.  Or just hang up butcher paper and let them paint a mural.  Have a treasure hunt: make up clues and have them work as a group to find the treasure.  Relay races, tag, and other outdoor games can be fun.  I might do better if you have a theme in mind.  What does your child like?  \n\nCheck familyfun.com and birthdaypartyideas.com for more ideas.
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I wish you had indicated where you are on the planet.  Certainly your daughter has interests and your son may also have preferences.  Start with what they like to do.\n\nIMHO if you are initially willing to spend time doing what they like to do with them, I believe you'll meet the people who will become their peers and teammates in local-based activities.
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What about taking her to a dinner theater?  That's a neat alternative.  And you get dinner!  You don't want to have to worry about weather and stuff.  \n\nI don't know where you live, but search for dinner theater online in your locality.  I have a link for you below to one I went to when I was visiting friends down south, and it was quite memorable.  (Of course, the show was different then, but you'll get the idea.)\n\nGood luck!!!
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I have lots of hobbies. Here's my list: reading the Bible, singing, playing guitar, drawing, painting, stenciling, rubber stamping, reading, writing songs, crocheting, knitting, decorating, walking, riding a motorcycle, camping, fishing, lettering, creating greeting cards, going to rummage sales, and photography. I also like to travel, though we can't afford to go very far. We have a pop-up camper and go camping. We also have a Sheltie and I like to teach her new tricks. I also enjoy helping people, whether it's with a move to a new home or just because they're sad. There's lots to pick from, and there's so much you can do to fill your time. I always suggest getting involved in volunteer work. I volunteer for Habitat For Humanity, helping them with fundraisers, making signs, creating artsy things, and even helping paint the house, among other things. It's fun and very rewarding to see it all come together. Hope this helps you find something. <*)))><
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What a great opportunity for you to become more connected with your daughter. It sounds like she is really thinking and understands a lot. Great job on raising her well!!!\nSome Saturday afternoon, take her to a christian book store and rent a movie or get a children's Bible about Adam and Eve.  Remember, as parents we worry a lot and sometimes read more into things than we should. However, this will be a great learning experience for her.\nTell her the story of Adam and Eve and how God created them through the use of the children's Bible or video that you get with her.\nExplain that babies are created from God....they are the most precious gift he gives to a mom and dad. And that he wants the mom, dad, grandmas, and grandpas to love the babies with all their hearts. And others too. Take her to a hospital and show her the new babies in the childrens ward and let her see all the people who take care of babies.\nPoint out the things that they do, through God's love to make the babies lives better.\nThen go out and buy her a baby doll. Talk about all the special things we do, through God's love to take care of the babies...taking them to church, loving them, meeting their needs, modelling how to be a good christian, etc.\nDon't make it long and in depth...........make it a good learning lesson. She would probably be okay with just the story of Adam and Eve..however, doing the rest may help her to learn more about the special bond between a parent and child and can be the stepping stones for future learning.
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We ALWAYS eat dinner ate the table-discuss our day and the things we came acrossed through out the day! My daughter gets the chance to tell us all the wonderful things she learned in school, and her new friends, ect... I think everyone should have dinner at the table-it is the one time of the day that you can make sure everyone will show up for! It is very important-the rest of our days are so busy, everyone is to preoccupied, we miss out on the Little things, this is a sure way to still keep in contact with yourself, your spouse and most importantly your children!! Keep Smiling!! :)
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well like you said you only meet like once a week, why don't you cook him something special this sunday (feb.12) and if you can surpise him after school on Valentines Day.  that is what i am planning to do.
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I'd turned 17 a couple of weeks ago and it'd been a good birthday bash for me. I had invited a group of close friends over to this cool Mediterreanean/Egyptian restaurant for lunch while my parents invited some close family members. But what was great was that the restaurant had a private room so that was where us teenagers hung out, watching DVDs while pigging out on the great food. \n\nFind a great, affordable place to have a lunch party at and remember that the important ingredient is to have great company with you ((((;
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Just a few ideas... board games, make cookies or other simple baking and food, jewelry making with $5 worth of beads, roller blading, movies, the local swimming pool, bike riding, go for short walks if the parents allow it. \nA ten year old likes a friend, and will tell momma and daddy to hire back the one who plays best... \nThe dancing answer is good, so is dressing up, she might want to be a star!\nThe best move of all is to ASK HER! \nShe will let you know if something is dumb to her or fun for her. 10 year olds are good at that. \nMuch luck and blessings.
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Why don't you help her to make a centre-piece so you can put it on the table while you eat Christmas dinner? I used to make them with my mum - get a piece of oasis (that spongey stuff you can stick things in), collect some pine cones and spray them gold or silver, and arrange Christmasey things on it like holly sprigs, then stand a candle in the middle. It's really simple, looks good and I'm sure your daughter would be really proud to see it on the table on Christmas day.
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Usually we eat out! This time however I'm thinking of doing something I came across in LHG.com, and Oprah! Get some printed coupons for her from all of us! She could redeem it during the entire weekend! Fun things like, getting breakfast in bed, us doing the chores, getting to see her favorite movie, a special time for hugs, flowers, and so on!
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I have a toddler myself, so I know going out can be hard.  Weather permitting a beneath-the-stars picnic in you backyard could be fun and romantic after the rest of the house goes to sleep.  Think cold chicken salad in whole wheat pitas that are easy to eat with you hands and for desert: chocolate covered strawberries!