And when she at home whatever you say she'll say good for you her attitude is getting bad what should I do?
119695
Change it. Help her to have a better attitude and manners.
546962
Bite your tongue.  It may hurt for a little while but the pain will be worth it rather than saying or doing something that will only make matters much more difficult with not only her but at your home also.  Discuss issue with your mate also and see what he can suggest.
325224
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
282024
STOP THE ATTITUDE REMEMBER SHE LOVES YOU AND YOU WILL CHANGE FOR THE BETTER AS TIME GOES ON AND IF YOU LISTEN TO HER IT WILL BE EASIER
48829
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.
515968
It will only get worse once the relationship is legal.  Talk to her about it, and either she changes or you leave. plain and simple
272919
It probably will offend her.  I would suggest saying something like.....Wow, If I didn't know any better I would think I was in my own home.  We are gonna have to go shopping together so we quit buying the same things.
259923
When she behaves like that ask her how she would feel if you treated her the way she treats you.  \n\nYou are not her mother so there is very little you can do.  You have to let things go because she is not your child.  Unfortunately, her mother is raising a child that will turn into an uphappy adult.
335994
1. Listen; she's not always asking for advice when she tells you about a problem\n2. Tell her that you love her\n3. Do little things just to say you care (i.e. flowers for no reason)\n4. If you live in the same house, clean it up for her (I LOVE LOVE LOVE this.... so much better than flowers) If I come home to a clean house, I'm ready to party!\n5. Ask her if she wants or needs anything.... that your life is soo much better with her in it, and you want to know if there is anything that you can do to make her life better. THEN FOLLOW THROUGH (much more important than just asking the question)\n\nIf you do these things, I guarantee you that your relationship will improve.
538782
Uhm sorry to have to tell you this but as long as you are living in here house, she can say and act anyway she wants.  You and your husband need to move out asap if you want to keep your sanity.  Good luck
479906
Next time, get up off your lazy a_s and get your own bowl.\nShe's not your servant.\nWith an attitude like yours, I'm sure she's looking forward to the day you leave also.\nThank God mine are grown.  You just reminded me of what I DON'T miss.
272082
I'm wondering if it's not you in this situation?  Maybe you should check yourself. None the less, if she's mouthing off to you, ball your fist up and knock at least two of her front teeth out, and say, "Hey bitch who do you think your talking shit to?"  Bet she won't talk mess to you again.\n"HUMIIATION", is not good.
517793
punish her if she is going 2 back talk u or something like that.you will not stand for that and u are in controol.
95922
Listen to Sassy.Also you can look on your own.\nIn the meantime try to control yourself,don't lash out at her when she makes one of her digs. It sounds like you are\nboth decent people stuck in a tough situation. Don't let\nwords be spoken that can't be taken back-suck it up,take a deep breath,leave the room if you have to.When you have your\nown place it'll be easier to get along and repair the damage.Good luck and remember you're both human.
166691
I think you shouldn't lower yourself far enough to worry about what someone who is so obviously ignorant thinks.  Does it really matter to you what she thinks of you?  Does it change who you really are?  I would try to see that the things she says come from her own issues and that they have nothing to do with who i am.  Think about it...if she does this and you have no reaction to it how much fun will it be for her to continue doing it? If her goal is to hurt or bother you and you respond to that you are simply feeding hre monsters and giving her what she wants, also you could be proving that what she says about you is true by allowing her to provoke negative behavior from you.  She is disturbed, stay away from her, but don't waste your energy on her or let her rob you of peace of mind she isn't worth it.
193492
it's the bad that's bothering her. talk to her about that aspect.
111990
That's a tough situation.  Just tell her "Look there's something I need to tell you that you aren't going to like, but I think you need to know."  I hope she handles it well and doesn't blame you.  Just be honest, talk to her, and be supportive with whatever she decides to do with the information.