How do you tell your man you just aren't in the mood?  Mine gets mad, but I only say "no" when I'm PMSing.  I mean, come on lighten up!
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tell him very sexy yet very nice "Baby its that time of the month and I don't feel to good right now but I promise the wait will be worth it" Then give him a little smile. It always works for me.
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Oh Jeeze...This is an obvious mis-communication in languages from man-speak to woman-speak.  You said,"What's wrong?" and he said "Nothing," but you already had it in your mind that there was something wrong, so you persisted.  YOU ARE NAGGING HIM.  Now he has something wrong - you.  Leave him alone, and let him have his space.  He'll call you later (it's been less than 1 day - you'll be fine).  Sorry to sound so rude, but I've had this too many times.  I would end up argueing because nothing is wrong, and I have to think of something to be wrong when she insists on an answer, when I'm really just tired/moody/blah.
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Er... are you really sure you're not undergoing PMS now????
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What gets you excited, what makes you hot? Do other guys turn you on more than he does, or is it just a matter of nobody turns you on? Do you enjoy sex, does it cause you discomfort, do you feel wrong doing it, do you feel healthy otherwise?  Been in a bad mood lately, if so, why? Lots of reasons for low libido, if it's been going on for a while, and you can't figure out a reason why, might be time to stop by the doctor's office...
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Don't over-analyze this. If she's normally in a good mood, she has a right to have a day when she's not feeling so hot. Maybe it has nothing to do with you. Give her some space and allow her to be moody. If she's not being nasty to you, then maybe it isn't about you at all. Just say, "Honey, I hope you're okay. If you want to talk, I'm here. If not, then you don't have to." And then leave it at that.
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How many women on PMS does it take to change a lightbulb? ... ONE DAMIT!!! NOW JUST GIMME THE D@MB LIGHTBULB!!! IT'S LIKE PULLING TEETH TO GET ANY OF YOU TO GET UP OFF YOUR LAZY @&&ES TO DO ANYTHING!!! YOU WOULD HAVE JUST SAT IN THE DARK UNTIL HE11 FROZE OVER WOULDN'T YOU??? YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK!!! I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU CAN BE SO LAZY!!! AND DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED ABOUT THE TOILET SEAT BEING UP AGAIN!!!
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3 times a day is quite normal and healthy! Not to worry my dear. But don't be too sad that your bf doesn't have the mood always. Talk to him about and ask him why he isn't in the mood most of the times. Maybe a little conversation helps to settle his moods too, you'll never know a small talk can actually turn into some dirty conversations & do wonders for you.
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Tell him you love him, but don't want to have sex with him every single solitary day.  tell him if you are nothing more than sex to him then you'll just be moving on the a better man that knows how to treat you like you are more than a piece a of tail\n\n\nsorry to be so blunt and mean but I am dealing with a similar issue.
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Um...this is WAY too long and I'm tired. Good night.\n...\nFine! Don't TRY. Let it flow naturally. Otherwise, it just makes you seem desparate. I don't think guys like that...
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This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
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So there are just no fireworks in the bedroom? Try discovering what turns each of you on and go off of that, communication in the bedroom is very important.  If you can't turn each other on than thats a big problem and an important part of a relationship. It could also be medical on your parts as far as hormones go, have you tried talking to a doctor? Good Luck
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Try this test.\n\nThe next time he asks for sex, decline, saying that you are just not in the mood.\n\nIf he presses on, it's jsut the sex he's inetersted in. If he accepts your request, it is something deeper
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You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
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Oooh thats a toughy.  You don't want to offend him.  Maybe try suggesting new things...Or you could just flat out tell him out of the blue (not during sex)
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Tell him that you're not ready to say it and put that sort of label on your feelings. But that you feel for him. That you care about him. When my man first told me, I din't say it back. I told him That I feel for him. It made me really nervous. I told him never to say it unless he means it, because I would never say anything empty.
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If he's anything like my husband, he thinks he does initiate. Men are of the mistaken impression that simply saying things like "don't you owe me tonight?" or "why did you wear your nightie to bed?" is initiating.  He needs help to understand what your idea of initiating is.  there are some great books out there but is he really going to read it if you get it for him? \n\nTalk to him again, but make sure it is NOT in the bedroom.  Give him specific ideas of how you expect him to initiate. Light candles; stroke my hair; kiss me passionately, etc....But say it in terms that are not accusing like "I really like it when you do this" or "this really turns me on"  \n\nIs he on medication that affects his sex drive. Most men can perform when the woman initiates but a med may not allow him to think about it enough to initiate---blood pressure meds, etc. \n\nGood luck with this.
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Ahh yes, welcome to the game.\n\nHere it is, we act like we don't give a sh*t and it drives you women wild.  You get a little pissed that we would rather do almost anything other than beg you for some attention, so you come busting in and make us notice you.\n\nShow a little interest and then let them stew for awhile.\nNo more than 1 call a week.\nNever make set plans, but occasionally suggest that you meet up with us somewhere. (we might not be there)\nAlways seem too busy for you, but sometimes give in and change our 'plans' to accommodate you.\n\nSound familiar?  Then you are playing the game.