what is an orgasm? im 17 yrs old.... i know what it is...but like how does it happen? i see it when they talk about it on mtv and stuf like that.
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It's a state of euphoria. It is not actually the act of having sex.
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Its possible she doesnt even know if shes had one, i dont know her age or experience. Its hard to tell with some people but the muscles of the vagina should clench and let go a few times and she should release some fluid, though it may only be about a quarter of a teaspoon full. So many women never experience an actual orgasm and its largely because its harder for us to do so and no one teaches us, its not like a guy whacking off and getting off every time. so find someone to teach you how to really make a woman climax  then lay one on her that she will never forget.
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I'm going to start by assuming you're genuinely curious and not a pervert. :-)\n\nMasturbation is perfectly normal whether you're a boy or a girl. It's safe, pleasant, and cheap - what's not to love?\n\nAs for achieving orgasm, there are lots of different techniques and toys you can use, but it all really boils down to touching and stimulating your clitoris and vagina. Start by sticking your hands down there and touching/rubbing until you find what feels good, then keep doing it.
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An orgasm is a physiological event that occurs at the highest point in sexual excitement and is usually associated with a wave of intense pleasure. During orgasm, both males and females experience involuntary muscle contractions. In males, contractions of the muscles of the prostate, vas deferens and seminal vesicles induce emission (movement of semen into the urethra) and ejaculation. Females experience rhythmic contractions of the vagina and uterus, thought to facilitate the transportation of sperm. Also called climax .
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Just part of the deal. I'm 57 now, and it slowed down when I turned 50. Until then I got one about every half hour. And it had nothing to do with thinking about sex. It just happened. I just lived with it.
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Well, let me tell U that I was in your shoes for many time, I had sex and it always felt good, I had orgasms but not during sex, I was so desperate, and frustrated, but one time I had sex with my bf and nothing happened that time, still he didn't give up, and continue doing things to make me get the orgasm.  After three months of having sex with him, and we had tryed almost everything, he told me that I needed to focus on the point, I mean, when I was doing it, I always was thinking in something else, and that didn't make me feel good.\nI found that the way to get the orgasm was being on top, so I did it, in the beginning it was really difficult, but at the end it happened.\nSo, my advice is: focus on the point that U're gonna get it, think that U can get it, no matter your past experiences, if U trust on yourself U'll be able to experience it.\nI'm telling U this, because now I can enjoy it, I have an orgasm during sex and in other situations, like o.r.a.l. sex, been m*stur*b*ated by my bf or myself. and it feels really great.
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all men have different sex drives.I am now a married man, but when i was single it was sometimes up to 3 times.of course when you are a very young man and you first discover the orgasm,then you want it over and over again .when this first happened to me, i can remember i just kept on going untill i was so sore i had to stop.
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Your question isn't very clear because you don't say some important factors.\nIs there excitement?\nIs there erection?\nIs the act lasting long until the end?\nIf you referred to the ejaculation only, it's called “aspermia” and is the absence of any ejaculate (semen) and is much rarer.\nIn fact, you know that The male orgasm is not just about ejaculation. It is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. \n•  Pre adolescent boys can often experience an orgasm without ejaculation.\n•  Some men do not have an ejaculation until several seconds after orgasm.\n•  Other men who are incapable of ejaculation are still capable of orgasm.\n•  Adult males may experience several ejaculations and go on to have further orgasms without ejaculation.\nIt seems that the way men experience ejaculation and orgasm differs from person to person.\n\nAnyway, about possible causes (symptom) of "Lack of orgasm", I can write in general:\nImpotence - see erectile dysfunction \nFailure to maintain an erection \nSexual headache \nFailure to ejaculate.\nOKAY?
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All of the above sound good.\nThen there's the fun stress-buster....a good orgasm.
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Most definitely it is true.  \n\nThe gals should know that one very well.  Just like us guys a Sweet talking voice and turn one on and even to the point of orgasm.  \n\nJust the touch of someone can excite and if continued even if it is just smoothing the hair can result in orgasm.  \n\nIt is much more prevalent in gals over thirty than the young ones.  For men it is when they are young.  Young men have sex on the mind constantly and never seem to get enough of it in any way they can.  Just the sight of a very enticing gal can cause ejaculation for the young man.  \n\nIt sure is true.
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not sure what you are talking about not all girls have a liquid come out when they O. everyone is different, just take some time to learn about your own body and dont put to much stock in what your friends say. i am assuming that you are a teenager by your question and guess what, teenagers lie especially about sexual exploits.
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I'm definitely not an expert on the subject, but from the sounds of things, you may have experienced female ejaculation. It's totally normal and something that some women even strive for. :)
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Yes, you have experienced having an orgasm sweetie!  Isn't it a beautiful thing?! : )  Next time, just try to enjoy yourself and don't concentrate on just having an orgasm because sometimes it happens and sometimes it won't, but don't be dissappointed, because it will happen again as long as your boyfriend is handling his business!
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No, you're not alone -- although I was over 30 years old before I even had one with a partner.  I average about 10 orgasms for every one my partner has -- and I'm only counting the really good ones -- not just the little ripples.  Count your blessings, it took me a long time to find a man who could get me there each and every time.  ENJOY IT.  For me, it took a great deal of love, affection, trust and communication but it's the best sex I've ever had.
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You will definitely know when it happens. It's not a metaphor to say it's like an explosion. That's exactly what it feels like, an explosion of pleasure. There is no mistaking it.\n\nI know it's irritating to hear people say that, but it's like asking "what does a sneeze feel like." How else would you describe that than saying "you'll know when it happens, it's like an explosion." Actually, sneezes ARE very similar to orgasms.\n\nAs for biological signs: your vagina will contract and spasm, you'll feel a sudden release and you may get goose bumps.\n\nTry more self-exploration. The water stream from a detachable shower head, or from the facet on your bath are good places to start.
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If a girl is going down on a guy; they have things that you the girl can put in her mouth.. like pop rocks and it crackles in her mouth while she is giving you head. I've heard from the guy that it feels GREAT.
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Can u *** when u masturbade? Cuz if u can it just sounds like u are either nervous or the girl wasn't doin it for u. You gotta think about what happened when u were 18 that started this.