i always wanted to know why is it a big deal when attually a player/pimp is a man whore right?
132400
It's really simple. Society has taught us that men are supposed to spread their seed, and women are supposed to keep themselves chaste. \n In reality, what determines if you are a hoe or s lut, regardless of your gender, is whether you are comfortable with your own sexual exploits. In my opinion, if a man or woman has slept with 100 people and are ok with it, then fine. If they have had sex with 2 or 3, but are riddled with guilt or regret, then they seriously need to rethink their lifestyle.
608922
My question exactly.\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av.oiBv4Qa.Cf7C.xVsUIe7sy6IX?qid=20060606132919AAmGtPL\n\nAmerican women are noted to have twice the number of sex partners as the men.\n\nWhen I bring this up I get the old "double standards" nonsense which dodges the issue.  Why are you opening your legs up so much!?  \n\nA couple of friends of mine think its because women usually do the selecting of their mate and they are simply selecting the same guys ....in their youth its typically the guy who is a player jerk because he is "hot" or "cute".  Some get played, some knocked up..etc. \nIts only after they get older and no longer in their physical prime that they look for a good guy to help pay the bills and raise the kids.\n\nI also think that Radio and T.V.  removes natural shame and common sense and makes it look cool to be promiscuous.\n\nP.S.  if she is 21 or 22 and slept with 4 or 5 guys I would say she is quite the slu.t.  And only a slu.t would get mad at that.
25583
Players are a dime a dozen on the street corner. You deserve way better than that. Why give them the time of day when they don't respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated?
610087
Poor thing. Have you been burned recently? I feel your pain. Ok. Mind games. Men have egos, huge egos. When a woman he thinks is his (and 'only' his) is seen with another man, even a friend or anything similar, ego says "Hey, if other egos sees my lady with someone else, I am less of a man. This is unallowable. I should make her jealous to make her focus on me." \nThis is a broad generalization of course, but it seems that this is the case a lot of the times, and guys hate to admit that they are not in control of the situation. Everyone judges us by the kind of mate we can find. If you have a chunky girlfriend, you are a chubby chaser and cant hack a fine chick. If you have a fine chick, guys envy you but also try to ruin what you got. Its a bit of a juggling act, and mind games are just one way to juggle so many balls in the air at once. On behalf of the thinking man, sorry for the mind games, its a defense mechanism.
183210
oh girl...hes a player...and hes not into settling down..he LOVES women..just be one of them...
90157
Not all women are like that.  I think it is a poor stereotype.  Yes, women have gotten men into all kinds of trouble, but it has worked both ways too.  Men often let themselves be drawn into trouble due to immaturity, ego or infatuation.  The responsibility is shared...maybe more on the man's side since he is ultimately responsible for his own life and decisions.
10036
Most guys prefer being screwed or blown over being hooked.  That just sounds too painful.
337763
right on my sister!! you told it like it is ! me and my girls have talked about this too.i do however have some really cool guy friends who"BRUSH MY SHOULDERS OFF" and tell me "HEY LADIES IS PIMPS TOO!"thing is we are SO much better at it!
356010
a whore is someone who sells her stuff, a sl*t gives it away, why all the labels, I must be a sl*t, I give my stuff away. to just about anyone that I like that wants it. and it do feel good. gurls have the right to satisfy their desires as much as guys do. quit living in the 50's
24192
This is not true of all men.  These guys just can't get anything better than that.  There's nothing wrong with a hot woman accentuating her attributes, but nothing to the extent that you described.
580189
You amswered your own question, in most cases its not an issue, these guys are probably used people having an issue with it so they get it out there right up front.
116038
Nah. Many athletes, not just women, tend to get an attitude. Especially when they're good, they act tough, or superior in some way. It's not cuz they're women, it's just that their mentality often takes a different form than male athletes.\n\nI mean, look at some arrogant male athletes out there...particularly in baseball and basketball. They're out there getting in fights and yelling at referees, and they get away with it just cause they make big bucks.
220458
Because they have no consideration for women. Women are displays of sex and domestic workers. Some men are highly selfish and don/t consider the feelings of the other person. I don't think that  you can completely trust a man, because hey, he is a man, but you can get to a point where you can accept him for who he is as long as he doesn't jeopardize your relationship. Think though, the guy who cheated on me is now being cheated on  with a woman that he is absolutely in love with. Karma is a bitch with highheels and a miniskirt....:)
70045
Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.
522842
maybe it's because of the double standard men show us??? how about the fact that you degrade us by calling us whores? we can't even act like we have a bit of feeling between our thighs without being called a whore or a s1ut,& maybe if you men could please us teh way we want it we wouldn't be out with other men....what you should be asking yourself is why men don't accept a woman with a strong sexual appitite maybe if you did you'd get F***ed the way you wanted to and the cheating would stop on both sides .
375938
It's not really a new stereotype. People have always said that girls that wanna have fun must be dirty and bad. It has nothing to do with clubs, it's just people have issues with girls who don't fit into the oldschool gender role. I don't know if we'll ever get rid of that, but oh well.
420583
Because men like to hook up with bad girls, but date good girls.  He does not want to think of you as a "bad girl" and by putting the quote on myspace you are ruining the image he sees of you.