he has mood changes he makes me feel like hes keeping things from me
123001
You really need to give him the benefit of the doubt on this until something comes up that gives you a solid reason for questioning his love.\n\nIt sounds like you guys need a session or two with a good couples' counselor...it sometimes doesn't take long to figure out why the trust issue has become a major thing for someone. I highly encourage that, for your own peace of mind...and for the longevity and health of your marriage. Best of luck.
462817
I think that he is probably under a lot of stress and pressure right now and that you should back off....give him the space he needs and if it is meant to be, he will be contacting you when things settle down.....good luck
120187
probably he is used to these stuff that you ask him to do for you. make him miss you ;) by keeping away from him for the meantime..
152274
Sounds totally normal to me, embarassing as it is.  I've found the only way to stop losing the plot every time you talk to him is to actually spend more time with him, a kind of practice thing.  It'll also give him time to get his stuff sorted out while you're doing the same
636943
it is too much when u are worried that he is dreading it. If not, the feeling should be encouraging.
299182
you should go talk to him directly and tell him how you feel. maybe he interpreted your note differently than you intended.
264487
I THINK THAT HE MAY BE FEELING THE SAME WAY AND BECUZ HES NOT SURE HOW U FEEL  HE DOESNT WANT TO FEEL STUPID BECUZ ITS BEEN SO LONG I WULD SUGGEST THAT U ASK FOR HIS # NEXT TIME AND GIVE HIM A CALL MEN ARE STUPID AND THEY THINK LIKE THAT SO DONT FRET HE FEELS THE SAME THATS WHY HES TRYIN TO AVOID LOKIN AT U
63872
he's just insecure by the circumstances around him. according to me the most appropriate way to solve this problem to go on a weekend holiday or u people shud go on a holiday and spend time wid him. make him feel that u r always there for him. i m sure he'll start feeling better after this
34315
He's drastically insecure. when you move away, he thinks it means you're becoming uninterested. When you get to close he gets nervous. There's no cure, he just has to get his head on straight.
39206
It sounds like you are.  But to prevent hard feelings and too unload unpleasant thoughts just bring the situation up and tell him how you feel. It probably will be no big deal and you will be relieved to have the situation finally resolved.
345188
hi love listen dear just ignore what he says wen u r irritated he feels good and he continues but when u will act as if u dont care doesnt bring any difference to u he will stop as he will b irritated why u dont react tc
12994
Make sure to tell him some of your feelings too, so he knows u trust him with yours, if that doesn't work, then try getting it from him by not asking him directly, make sure he knows that u trust him enough and that ur worth knowing
382928
I've been in the postion before and not telling him made things weird between me and him it would better if you talked to him just tell him how you feel about him but dont come on to strong
532835
Well, it sounds like he is just being a protective guy.Sounds like a normal problem to me.
73415
Hun i think he's trying to make you feel guilty in a way so he has a chance to run out on you and not have to be a part of any of what you going through either that or he's just plain cheating on you it that thing we call reverse psychology. when their doing something wrong and try to take it out the innocent.
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it doesn't sound like u'r happy to me! i think that he wants to control every thing u do, i say NO don't stay with someone who treats u as a pet.. you have your own thought and use that brain of yours u really know that u don't want to be treated this way.. god gave u two feet for a reason.. stand on them, and walk away.. there is someone else out there that will treat u better. And will want u to be who you are.....
597440
The fact that you have these feelings is 'normal'.  The abscence of them would not be.  Your working hard, on different shifts, tired, together but alone most of the time.  Just remember, communication is important.  Good luck and stop to have fun!!!  He'll thank you!