We love eachother as much as we can but we keep it a secret because we`re affraid what woul others say....We know we shouldn`t care, but it would be hard ....
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babydoll dont b afraid to show your feelings.. im dating a guy thats 8 years older.. dont worry what others think.. your only as old as u feel.. and others dont have to b around u if they dont like it.. if youre happy with your decision then everyone else should b just as happy for u as u r.. otherwise who needs them?
226745
This clearly shows that women and men, find each other fascinating, but don't usually tell! It may be fear of rejection or whatever, but this tells you that all we want is someone to love us!
288673
A secret is always a secret. Untold, that's why it is a secret. This can be shared with someone special in one's life, not with everyone.
334146
My g/f and I are madly in love with each other but due to the job market we only get to see each other on weekends.\nWe try to make the best of it and yes, at times its hard but the weekends we get together we are able to over look any problems that has come up over the week and spend every moment we can in each others arms.\nI truely believe that being apart has reenforced our love for each other.
166156
it's just one of those things...don't over think it or you will convince your self that you don't love him when you do. if you really feel uncomfortable saying it then maybe your not, but if sometimes you just feel moved to tell him all sorts of warm mushy things, then you probably are.
636166
becoz we are guys!! if we lov something very deeply then we become over protective towards that! we want to protect that from everything!
413172
Hard to say. And the "why" doesn't matter. We do support each other because we care in more than a political way -it's in a human way. We don't just keep each other around for a little extra party strength. It's very much a friendship; one that you're welcome into if you choose. (I hope you do.)
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Its upto every individual whether they wanna keep their life like an open book or not. Some people dont like to come off with their secrets soon, coz they have to find their comfort zone first and then will slowly open up. Dont push... it will look like ur invading someones privacy. If u love him and believe in ur instincts... just relax and always stay open to watever he has to say. If u Shut down when he is saying something he finds important listen to it... he doesnt need ur opinions... just listen. This way he will be more comfortable talking about all those craziest things he finds important to him. DONT PUSH.... it takes time.
102488
because us women are no secure about ourself that is why we go making up stuf about other people
319154
Have You ever though that we are trained from birth to hide some of the things that we feel. If our other half is sick and dieing we keep as much inside to keep from hurting the children or the ones that we love or if if we are in pain and our child needs something done we do for them. It was what I was taught to be strong that The female has to hold it together no matter what she feels. Even if it fell like you are dieing inside.
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Yes, that we can do provided we want to. It takes effort as well as a willingness not to give into passionate emotions when our specific ideas are bashed. It takes self-control, self discipline, a true mastery of ones self as well as a willingness to take the time to love one another. I do not mean this in the Biblical sense by any means. But we need a willingness to take time to listen to one another and reason with one another. And if we can't reason together, we need the wisdom to peacefully walk away.
656623
We live in two different worlds and it is virtually impossible at times to find that common ground. As much as we share in life's experiences, we also are different. I'm not sure we'll ever be together as a nation or worldwide community.
40263
It is a commitment issue . . . since they are already committed (supposedly) to someone else . . . you are not afraid of them getting too attached to you . . . or you hope not.
167496
it doesnt matter at all as some1 has just said if your in love your in love me and my partner had 10 years between us and we were fine its just other people who see wrong in it people who dont understand mainly
131098
I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
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Some people, believe that a white lie to avoid hurting the people they love is OK. So how serious was the lie. If he is hiding something he may find its to hard to talk to you about. Maybe worried that you would think less of him, or you would loose respect. You need a heart to heart and tell him the way you feel and you can't afford to lose trust.
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Me and my partner are quite open about who we are, we don't advertise we just act as naturally as possible, if someone asks, we tell, if they don't obviously it's not that important. Just be yourself