Ok I am single looking for a nice guy who is white me not rasit but a few guys online want to meet me. What should I do? Should I go for it or try someone where else meet a nice caring sweet guy? Give me a good reason why? Thanks.
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There are strange, dangerous people everywhere..   it's not any worse online.  If you want to find someone, you have to be willing to step out of your comfort shell and give them a chance.  Certainly a public place for the first meet, talking on the phone for a while before hand is a help to see if there's any chemistry worthy of a meet.\n\nIt takes a lot of courage for a guy to show interest enough to send even an email ..  and you ought to be extremely flattered someone found something they like in you.  Whether or not you're willing to trust is up to you , but most guys are just normal, ordinary and want the same as you - to find some to love and be loved.
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first, desperate women don't care what a guy would look like, but I guess that's solved since you aren't a woman yet. second, you're too young to absolutely NEED a boyfriend. third, if you are searching online and exclaim you're desperate it's a bit redundant. and fourth, if you're such a cutie, why can't you find a guy in the real world?
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Honestly, females are everywhere you go.  I would say not to worry about where to find them as much as the approach you use when you do spot one that catches your eye.  I've been picked up at a grocery store (of all places), the guy used a very tactful flattering way of hitting on me.  So just be careful with your approach so that you do not in fact come off as a womanizer.  Be clear that this isn't something you normally do but you couldn't leave with out saying......(fill your line in here).  Hope this helps :)
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join a singles group online or offline and when you fill out your profile, you will be matched with suitable men. good luck.
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.
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You really should be more careful, there are hundreds of other ways to meet guys......you are young, go out and enjoy life, stop wasting it looking for guys on here.
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When its come to dating someone you met online always let someone know where you are going.  I really don't know what kind of suggestions you are looking for but good luck.
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Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
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Well did you boink the guy or what? I mean I need more details how can I live vicariously through others if your not more specific.\n\nI believe thats suffienct time. Your going to have to put out if you expect to keep some of the obviously rare online guys out their lol.\n\nHope this helps! If it doesn't work out their is also icecream remember that.
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if you wamt to find a guy to date and love...\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\ntry any pop-up that appears on your screen.\n\nOr just call me anytime any day :)
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I think that number one, the internet is a stupid place for dating someone or finding someone. You have to be patient and the right one will just come along. Dont expect to find the one on the net, Trust me.. I dated a guy that I met over yahoo msnger for like 3 years and he was a total ass and a mistake, NOT GOOD! There was things I didnt even know about him that he could hide from me for a long time and I probably wouldnt have ever found out! You dont really get to know the person when you meet them on the net.. they can be fake really easy! Id say that half the ppl that answer these questions on here are fake just to get points but you can only trust a selected few. But anyways dont net date... K!? Later and GOOD LUCK
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I don't think there is a diffrence. I liked talking to guys on here first so i could get to know them first and then meet them. I know people would probably think i am crazy but i met my husband on the internet. If i had never been in that chatroom i wouldn't have the good man i have today. Most people say that only ugly people online date but i think that is f**king crazy. Don't worry about what people think its your life and you may meet the man of your dreams...
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No need to feel bad just make a stagedy for meeting a guy. First make a list of qualities you like and don't like. Then qualities not so important. Next make up ground rules for these guys. If they break the rules dump him. That way you don't loose your perspctive over bad qualities.You also can go to a singles site like plentyoffish.com try that its free. You can check out profiles.\nCan I get 10 points?
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Sorry, but this secion is for questions and answers about dating, not hooking up.  Per Yahoo! Answers Community Guidelines: You may not use Yahoo! Answers [...] to post personal ads.  Try Yahoo! Groups http://groups.yahoo.com/ if you're looking for guys to chat with. :)
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do not go to dating service. take your time and patients. i did and found someone unexpectally. i found him at my friends husband's dance party. you find your dream woman when u least expected. i found my x husband at school and he was abusive and a womanizer. I guess it really doesn't matter where u look for one, but not on the net, or dating service.
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my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)