ok my boyfriend rather hangs out with his best friend who is a girl and it is geting on my nerves and and at 1 point i was thinking about breaking^ with him. And i am realy mad! and he noes that i HATE her. and he still hangs out with her more than me wat should i do?
121603
ok\nif you are his original GF\nthen you shoulnt freak\nPRETEND you are about to break up and then your BF will come comfort you \nand not that other girl
510171
Wow, ok first thing is the boyfriend probably has a right to be jealous...if you and your best friend are as close as it sounds, I'd be jealous too. You need to step back a little bit, they are in a relationship and you should keep the friendship boundaries in tack. Dont over step them. Also, if you feel your best friend looks at you a little differently then he should...talk to him about it, honestly, if he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything. Keep in mind, he is taken and you have to watch it when your hanging around him....best friends last forever, but when someone else is involved things get messy and the best thing for you to do is stay his best friend....emphasize on Friend. If he wants to pursue more with you then he will do the right thing, if not...then let him and his boyfriend be in a relationship. Good Luck, I hope this helped a little
674239
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
347796
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!
260331
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
242180
I can understand that you are upset.  What you must ask yourself is if you trust your boyfriend.  If you do, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, even if she wants him, he wants you.  You are not being stupid; your fears or anger is a perfectly normal human emotion, and leaving it alone is completely up to you; that all depends on what you think is going on.  Also, it is not necessarily wrong of him to defend her, depending on the specifics of the defense.  He might just still respect her and he may not like his old tastes being insulted/brought up.  Remember, at one point he really liked her, so if you say anything negative about her, he may take it that you are saying something negative about him.  All aside, do you trust him?  if you do, don't worry.  Things will pan out in the end, and if it's love, you'll be happy.  He probably only wants you to meet her so that you will trust him more by seeing that he has no interest in her romantically.  hope this helps!
301668
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.
43088
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
368179
Some guys get into this mode that they "forget" their friends for a while when they meet a girl they really like. He may grow out of it. However I think you should talk to him and tell him you still want to be friends, and if possible talk to her alone and see if she really "hates" you, or is possibly jealous of your history with her boyfriend. If she isn't, have her suggest to your friend that they and you and your boyfriend go out together some time.
522130
What a totally bogus kick in the teeth. Of all the low down rotten disrespect. It's not a question of who to be mad at as the anger and resentment  seething inside you is plenty for the both of them. You have every right to be mad at both of those two miscreants. Your first reaction would be that you probably would like to ring both of their necks and I don't blame you. This is all so terribly sad.\n  Anger aside you should reevaluate your relationship with with this so called "boyfriend". He seems very controlled by that idiot rat-friend of his. Him you can write off as a bad influence, a clot headed loser who doesn't even deserve the right time of day.  \nBut your boyfriend. Because of the money spent on the booze pay special attention to his use of alcohol. This should serve as a warning to any future interaction with him. You will never have any positive relationship with a drunk. Take some time for yourself and get your feelings sorted out even if it means not seeing him for a while. You may need a break from him. He really needs to make some kind of a decision as to how he feels about being with you. Guilt or no guilt this little escapade of his may illustrate his true feelings.
124094
Your boyfriend is extremely insecure and when he gets around "cool guys" he disrespects you, and you want to know what to do? Break up with his phoney a**. If you allow him to treat you this way he will and after awhile it will not be just when he's with his friends, it will be all the time. Never, and I repeat never let a guy disrespect you, you deserve better!
312342
i dont really know that one but i have the same problem with my boyfriend he is always with his friends and never with me but then during like spring break and summer vacation he will always be hanging all over me so maybe you should just talk to him about it and he may start to hang out with you more. i am fine with my relationship with my boyfriend thoguh because we are always on the phone together. maybe you should talk to him on the phone more and that may help. i hope i helped!
387157
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
326691
just because your boyfriend doesnt talk much to your friends thats no big deal and i wouldnt talk to him about this friend of yours either if he has this type of problem with social situations its not his fault if hes smiling at people  then hes trying to be friendly in his own way and that seems to enough for most people,right, and what the other person said up the list aways if your boyfriend talks to other girls it doesnt mean hes gonna leave you for one of the other girls sounds like that girl has some jealousy problems or insecure.
83107
Girl u need to check your best friend. It may not be anything going on but just sit her down and ask her. My best friend is a boy and every girlfriend he get has a problem with our relationship. We hold hands and hug each other, we take each other out to eat all the time, i even spend a night or two at his house. But i don't mess around with him. So just ask your best friend  whats the deal. And if you trust your boyfriend and claims nothing is there then drop it.
534627
You should have known it was bound to happen. Don't be jealous! Do you have a boyfriend?, because if you did, you would know what he is doing. He probably really likes this girl and wants to spend all his time with her. You chose the roll of best friend, so now you have to act like one. Just know, that when they break up, he will run to you. Best friends don't have to spend every minute together, or talk to each other everyday! Don’t act clingy like a girlfriend, just be there for him. If you get all possessive over him, he’s not going to want to hang around you anymore. He needs you as a friend, not a girlfriend.
159240
Uhm ogviously he likes  you...or he mihgt be mad because he doesnt want you to like have a boyfriend cuz then you wont hang out wit him that mcuh as you will with u boyfriend.