This guy I like was telling me him and his girlfriend were having problems and thought it was okay to stay at my house. I didn't let him, but now they are broken up. Should I let him know how I really feel about him, and how would I go about this?
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I think it'll be ok to let him know of how you feel about him. It all depends what kind of a person he really is. You might wanna be cautious about getting out all your feelings. He is either in shock because of the break up or he's in relief. Sometimes when guys break up, they dont wanna go into another relationship too fast (it doesn mean they dont like to date!). \n\nThe fact that he wanted to stay at your house tells me he is attracted to you and wanted to get closer or simply was hoping to have sex. So, let him come closer but dont let him find out you like him too much or his EGO might rise up dramatically (just had a broke up and already a girl's asking him out.... so he might think "oh im so awesome, I'm sure I can find more offers..") \n\nSo act cool but make it apparent to him that you're open to finding out more about him. and meanwhile ask him why he doesnt go back to his girlfriend and solve their problems, see if he starts to think or he has already made his mind on that issue.\n\nGood Luck !!
18207
At this point, your options are limited. You won't be able to get this guy you care about to drop his girl without repercussions. If you make a move on him, it will make you seem easy.\nMy suggestion is to just let him know that you think he's a sweel guy and should he ever be free in the future, you'd like to go out to dinner.
406742
Why would you think he would hurt her? You must have some evidence based on the relationship the 2 of you had. But keep in mind that, unless he was awful, their relationship could have a completely dynamic than yours did. Tell her your concerns and then let her make up her own mind.
223639
I Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years, we argue all the time. if this happen to us i would be pissed like you. if you guys do not live together i would not call him, let him call you. he is the one who needs to say sorry for leaving you. but if you live together then you should go home and do not talk to him for a little bit and then sit down and talk about what happen. i would not forgive him, it was wrong for him to leave you. but if you want it to last you have to tell him how you feel.
204502
Well he is taken already so yeah you can't go up to him and ask him how he feels for you. But still talk to him and keep an eye on him. Who knows him might break up with his gf to be with you if he really likes you.
413936
I wouldn't freak out about it. Trust what he told you. That he wasn't interested in anyone but YOU. That is how trouble and hurt feelings get started, people talking smack. However, your so called *friend* never should have went to his house, knowing this is your *love* interest. I would casually mention to him that you were told she was there and then ask if everything is OK? If he acts normal to you, and smiles and says yes, perhaps even gives a small run down of why she was there, then your cool. If he offers nothing and is not acting his usual self towards you, then you know something is up. If that is the case, drop your friend, she will do it to you again with someone else. If he is normal with you and nothing has changed and all goes well. I would call my friend, let her know how *uncool* it is she did that, and then I would keep her at a distance and not be *as close* as you once were. I hope this helped some. Blessed be
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WELL IF YOU REALLY LIKE HM THEM YOU BETTER LET HIM NOW HOW YOU FEEL CAUSE I MEAN HE ALREADY DID ENOUGH BY ASKING YOU HOW YOU FEEL. TELL HIM BEFORE YOU LOOSE HIM.
493687
Don't put up with it.  If he really liked you, he wouldn't want you to feel like you do right now, and he wouldn't be dumping you.  I realize you like this guy, and this isn't the advice you wanted, but it's true.  If you let him act like this, and then you two get back together, he'll just break your heart.
221237
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
668739
Sounds like he likes you. So go for it. Maybe he had feelings for you which is why he had broke up with his girlfriend. He wants you and now he wants to see how you feel about him. Let him know by flirting back, hang out more, talk more and see how things work out.
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Bad place to go ESPECIALLY so soon after he broke up with her. One - she's your best friends ex. There is a reason he broke up with her and you probably don't want to subject yourself to the same just for a little sex.\n\nAlso think about if you did start dating her - do you really think your friend is going to want her hanging out with the both of you or with you guys as a couple? \n\nI understand he's not so broken up about it, but they are still an ex-couple -\n\nMy vote is don't do it.\n\nMiss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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i would tell you boyfriend how you feel about his ex wife. tell him that you really don't feel right her staying there. she is worried that you are taking what she had first but how i see it she was the one that let go of him and she thinks that he is going to wait around for her to come back around a crap. i would tell him everything that you don't like about her, what you think about her. just tell it how it is girl. because that is just going to hurt you guys in the long run because she might try to say something to him or something that will mess everything up. or try to start crap.
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stop all communication because its not fair to you or to his GF. he should have told you in the beginning so that you could have decided if you wanted to be involved with him considering his circumstances. but he was a liar for getting your feelings involved then telling you about his GF.
522793
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
76713
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
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girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.
128297
First off I do not know the Circumstances. Why did they break up? How is the relationship going for the roommate? How long was he together with the girl. Unless he is positive that she is still trying to figure out what she wants. On thing is this is the nice way to not hurt him. Kind of like the answer I love you but there is no future for us. There seems to be two answers to this question. First answer: If he can stand the heartache of being hurt everytime she is with the roommate and there is no scene and he is not ready to move on then he should wait until he is ready.\nSecond answer: If he can't stand the pain then move on. Maybe then she will see that he is away and make her choice. Don't go running right back though. You might hurt the other person you are with at the time. Choices of the heart are different for everyone and every situation.