You date them....then all they do is talk about marriage...you finally give in, and then they turn into this grumpy, controlling byatch after you do everything that they wanted in the 1st place. Why do they try to separate you from your friends and family? Why do they constantly complain? Will they ever find hapiness? Why are they so materialistic (the ring, the house, ETC)? Why do they use sex as a bartering tool? And why if they are so strong do they constantly cry like little babies?
132906
wow- you're angry.  Sounds like you picked a wrong partner.  But I bet you're no picnic to live with either, especially if ANY of this hostility comes through.  Hopefully you just had a bad day and needed to vent, if not- call a lawyer before there's children involved!
172005
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
356781
They feel they need someone else's advice to weigh their love life. It shows your really not ready for a serious relationship if your depending on complete strangers to fix your love life. You have to go with how you feel, it's YOUR relationship, and it needs to be YOUR UNBIASED decisions. But hey...more points for me!
371113
because they want what they cant have .compotison/the ones that love them are no compation .easy so they go after what they cant get
372875
I dont know why peolpe want to change others to fit their definition of how they should be. I agree that when you decide to be in a relationship with an individual that you decided to be with them and all of them. Their bad habits good, habits language, extra issues before you came alone, and any other thing that they have going on in their lives. The more you try to chance a man or anyone the more they will be pushed away from you. You have to except people for who they are and not for what you expect for them to be.
203030
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
326912
Because they seem to get this crazy idea in mind that just because they've had you they own you. Going through the same with mine at the moment. I feel your pain. lol
233347
It's a power struggle with people like that...they really want to drag you down to their level. I just never let them.....it pisses them off, you can tell. Gotta love it!
437676
just because they are beautiful,talented,rich.dose not mean they are happy,most of them do suffer from low self esteem,depression,just like us,they are just like us,they are depending on someone else to make them happy just like us that does not work.we have to make our self happy.it would also help if they knew each other before a serious commandment.my god they marry so easy and divorce so fast.
153353
because they are stuck with that guy already and are unable to move on, cause they already have low self esteem and think that no one else will take them... so they just conform
184362
yeah it used to make me so angry!\nthe way i've learned to deal with it is make it very apparent that there is certain stuff I won't put up with. for the past 3 years i have taken no nonsense from guys i've dated. if someone lies to me, or i can tell is using me, i call him on it. i let him know it's unacceptable and i don't keep those types of ppl around. i am not a mean person; i will do almost anything for people in need and i don't look for fights but when i have someone close to me i do not want them to be treating me badly and i won't stand for it. because of this, everyone who knows me now knows i won't be used (a few years ago this guy used me 'til the cows came home.. thank goodness i will never go through that hell again!)\n\ni would be angry at myself and at them for using me. i've turned that frustration into motivation to keep my life and relationships cleaner and healthier and always think "do i really want this (how the person's treating me) in my life? is this good?"
651390
They don't sound like very good friends.  Your free to do what you want with our without them.  But also,  If you start doing stuff exclusively without them all the time they could think that you don't want to be friends anymore and be angry.  I lost a friend once because I wanted to spend time with my family and didn't stop by her house when I was in town.  But I figure we must not have been that good of friends if she would ditch me over something like that.
669227
Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
131768
most girls who stay in those kind of relationship have bad self esteem. they think that no one else will love them or that they earned being treated that way.
84341
yeah I dont think getting sick of dating is easy. Same thing with me. I date, we break up, I feel either relieved or sad depending on the reltinoship, I celebrate (whoo im single again lets party!!!), I start feeling like dating again, I date again. Rinse and repeat, Its a never ending cycle of hurt and annoyance.
552063
Because they like to think they can get whatever they want .. like everything comes to them either easy or eventually ...\nAnd they like to be treated like dirt ... love to be teased ... i think they really hate believeing that they are not worth having a specific gurl or that a gurl can be special ...\ntwisted creatures >>> Tell me about it!! ;)
598606
That is a tough one.  They are so self-absorbed and take everything they can get from everybody, and do not care at all about what the ruins will be.  Just be nice when your with her and thats it.  If your not living with her you should be strong enough to deal with it.  My bf had that OMG it is horrible to live with, unbearable.  They suck the life out of you and it is not enough, they want more.