I still find my ex as the most appropriate for me even I got many other girls but she was my first serious situation so I acted wussy & weired sometimes cuz she was out with me 10 days after she broke with some guy &so untill we broke up with each other & we returned to just friends that has been about a year. SO how can I get her back specially I noticed that she's starting over these days wiz some guy that I think for some reason they cannot get along but right now she likes him ???!!!\nP.S; shes a very religious girl.
124052
You lost her, just let her go.  Don't obsess about her, because she has obviously moved on from you.  It may look romantic in the movies, but in real life obsessing can lead to her filing restraining orders to keep you away or her calling you a stalker.  \n\nI've been there, she won't take you back.  Trust me.
414643
You broke up with Her.  Now that She has Someone else You find You still have feelings for Her.  If You want to be a stand up guy You should back off.  If they break up, on their own, and You still feel the same way then talk to Her.  Don't do anything that You wouldn't want done to You, just a good rule to live by.
120363
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
403324
I think you should let her think about who she really wants. if she wants the ex who is an asshole then let her. Let her miss out on your good quality and you can find someone else that wants to be in a relationship. Don't still around with someone who is going to make a decision that is half hearted a girl like that is just pulling your stings. It seems like that two months was nothing to her. i think she already knew that she loved her ex and the she wanted someone to just keep her mind off of him.
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Well, firstly, you need to write down why exactly he's an EX.  I'm sure there's a reason for it.  Then you need to figure out if those reasons are still there.  You broke up with him for a reason, don't get back together with him if those reasons haven't been removed.\n\nSecondly, we always have a soft spot for some of our exes.  They're comfortable.  You know them well, and sometimes, you need the attention that they can give you.  Doesn't mean that you'll make a good couple, just that you'll make good friends.\n\nIf you're interested, spend some time being his friend and see if anything develops.
647334
hey I'm 16 and i used to have the same problem, i mean I'm single now but my advice worked on my ex. : Just Be Yourself. any girl would be stupid to not go out with someone just because they don't want to give them a chance. I give everyone a chance and the way i see it is if they don't like me for me then i need to move on to someone who will. Just try talking to her about things she and you have in common. It will work just give it time.
89138
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
629975
I've been there and tried to do that. Except it was ex bf. I only realized that giving him time was the right thing. He came back to me with his own self. Taking him back is the only thing that bothers me now. But that's not the point. Knowing what you want from your relationship is! You, both, have to be open like a book. If both of you feel like you want a relationship than accept her when she comes back to you. But still give her time. (If she doesn't, than that only means that she's not right for you.) Usually it's much easier to get along if you are understanding your needs and wants. But if she is depressed, like she is saying, that must be the relationship she had at the moment when she was with you. Though finding another guy - is not the answer either. I say get yourself busy, and let her live. If she wants you, she will come back, and will appriciate you for being there.
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Man, I just got out of a relationship with a girl I didn't think I felt much for, and you know that saying 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'? Well, I realized how much I truly loved her. Maybe it will hit your ex just like it hit me. Maybe with some time she'll miss you, especially if it was as good of a relationship as you say. And especially if you were her first. You don't forget something special like that. Even if she downplays it, it should be something that will be with her always. Just give it time I say.
265716
Wow... you sound like me. I have this guy that I still love, but we weren't really together. Try sitting down with this girl and tell her how you feel and all. Let your feelings out and all. Remember, you might or may not get her back. But, anything is possiable. Good Luck!
296660
u sound totally nice to me, even tho you're not my type much. maybe she prefers other kinds of guys, (like i do, i like bad boys/lost souls, who're mysterious but can be reachable)  Or maybe she just wants to be friends, because that's what she thinks of you as. just wait a while, ask her why she broke up w/ u, or as her if she wants to go out w/ u again. good luck
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Sorry to say it, but she's gone and you need to let her go.  No girl would ever get with a guy's best friend if she has ANY intention of ever getting back together with that guy.  Plus, why would you want her back after she did that to you?  You'd never be able to put it out of you head.
134953
Dude I just went through this same exact thing.  Your only missing her cause she was there for you and now theres no one.  I took her back after she tried the new guy, and two weeks later, she dumps me for other guy she just broke up with.  I wasnt hurt cause I knew it could happen so I didnt let myself get too involved.  But my advice, just move on, find someone new to love, there more fun, and you dont have to worry about her going back for the other guy.  She already left you once, dont let her walk all over you.  Hope this helps.
291463
I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
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Give her plenty of space, shes obviously not emotionally ready for a very serious relationship.  \n\nBest advice is to put things on hold, and both of you see other people.  Doubts like this cannot be wiped clean without other experiences.\n\nIf, after you both have some new experiences, you both get back together, then thats great, and if not, you don;t wind up in a relationship either of you regret\n\nEdit .... Ok, I read a little more, and this girl is finished with you.  Make ZERO attempts to contact her for the next couple of months, go out, date other women, have fun, DONT TRY TO GER HER BACK.  It will only push her further away from you.  \n\nIf you move on, and life your life for yourself, then good things will happen
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I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
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This guy would be mad to even consider getting back together with this girl. She doesn't deserve a second chance. To be honest I don't even know why you want a " friend " like her - you sound like a nice person !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk to the guy and give him your opinion - does he really want to go through that kind of sh*t again ?