should boyfriend say anything to girlfriend or just dump her.
128974
as long as she's going home with the b.f. what's the problem?\n\ntalk about it when she's sober and decide together how many drinks each will have. \nwho knows, maybe there is an underlaying problem she might discover. he needs to be supportive and not walk away if this is the case.(what comes around goes around)
207635
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
66251
Tell her, I can tell by your tone that you pretty much want to anyway.  Just put it out there- maybe she'll dump the boyfriend.  She might just be with thar guy cause she doesn't think you like her.
451346
If he did this on purpose, dump him
360910
If you and your boyfriend know what you want out of your relationship it shouldnt matter. Make sure what happend in their relationship dosent affect yours and as long as you keep your distance from her its ok.
625715
Dump him, like everyone else suggest!
103072
you are entitled to your emotions....you have the right to feel hurt, pissed off, upset, betrayed....after you tell your boyfriend how you feel, let it go and watch and see if he does it again.  If he does, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings...then dump him.  You want someone who cares about YOU.  You can do better.
559007
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
140300
Talking dirty to someone over the internet does not constitute being boyfriend/girlfriend.  Maybe she grew tired of it, perhaps you should grow out of it too.
336352
well, at this time in her life, seeing that an older guy is not perfect can be hard, so get backup.  i would try to sit her down with a few friends and not attack her.  try not to use phrases like "you need to dump him now" or "this guy is terrible."  if you say those things, she will not hear you.  i would say things like, "i really care about you and i want you to be so happy, but are you?" or maybe "what do you think a boyfriend should act like or how should he treat you?" and maybe she will figure out for herself that he isn't good.  you, unfortunately, can make someone see that someone may not be good for them, they have to see it for themselves.  good luck!
287300
You say you care about your girlfriend. Cheating is not the action of a caring man. If you want something/someone else then first split with your girlfriend.\nTell her that you want something different ... Honesty is the best (and kindest) policy.
435844
well trying telling your sisteer whyyou think he is a asshole then let her think if this is what she wants in a boyfriend or tell your b/f to setthem up but thn if you don,t say anything she might get mad at ou if i was you i would just give it up and let her do it herself all the best
650249
I agree with Annabannana. Dump him. Most guys will love it.
192975
If you are about to dump your boyfriend, then make sure before you do it you work out WHY you are doing it.\nMake sure you pick the right time to do it - if his favourite pet dog has just died, give it a couple of days!\nTry to be tactful and to the point - the key here is to do it in private - never, ever dump someone in front of their friends or family.\nTake some quiet time, be sympathetic, and explain gently your reasoning.\nMake sure that you aren't talked out of it though - stay firm to your point of view, but in a delicate way.
523045
First of all, Happy Birthday!!! I say talk to your boyfriend before wrecking your relationship. Mabe something bad happened to him and he didn't feel like talking about it. Or mabe he's being a giant jerk. But find out before moving on to the new guy. Good luck and no matter what have fun today!!!
330560
Your boyfriend doesn't even know what love is.  Dump him.
86945
I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.