I have tried several times to put a tampon in but it just wouldn't go up! please help because pads are driving me up the wall and i want to go swimming when im on!!
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If you have NEVER successfully used a tampon, then you need to see an ob-gyn before you try to do so. You may have a common condition to virginal women where the hymen has a "septum" or a piece of skin growing across it like a bridge across a ravine. This septum usually has a blood vessel in it and if you inadvertently tear it there will be a lot of blood and a lot of pain.\n\nIf, however, you have worn them successfully before, just not today, then you are probably trying to rush this and have tensed your muscles up. You could try some mild lubricant on the end of the tampon like KY Jelly or even baby oil.
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I've heard of that, but never used it. I think tampons would be easier to deal with. Except you have to change tampons more often....
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hey. okay. i was 16 when i first tried a tampon and it didnt hurt just because i really really didnt want it to. i have to say that i wasnt a virgin when i used it for the first time. if you are a virgin, then putting in the tampon will rip your tissue ( cherry) so it might hurt a little bit. i really recommend the pearl in the Jr. or light size. they are very thin so it will be easier to get in. heres an easy position for you to try. put one leg on top of the toilet seat and then spread your legs ( bend your knees) this will open up that area so it wont be too tight and might help the tampon go in easier. good luck, its not an easy thing to do at first, so bring a few tampons in the bathroom with you, in case you dont get it on the first or second try.
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you may need to start off using plastic applicators so they go in easier, Kotex is a great brand (I wouldn't use cardboard), you just insert the applicator till it is all the way up/in, THEN you push the tampon in. If it is hard to get a super in, you might want to start with a regular or light until you get used to it.\n\nthis is the best method, \nand sometimes if it feels like it isn't going in right, you can lift one leg up (preferrably on the toilet seat) for leverage while you are inserting the applicator.\n\n--also, it should never hurt going in either, so you have to insert it at a slant, because the cervix has slants on either side (right or left), and if you push it straight up, you will push into the tip of the cervix, so if you ever feel pressure or pain, try inserting at more of a slant\n\n\nhope this helps :)\ngood luck!\n\n\n---\nno, there is 2 pieces: the applicator is the plastic outside rounded thing and the actual tampon is inside of the applicator, once you push the plastic applicator in, you then push the other end of the applicator to push the tampon inside the applicator in and up\n\n\n--\nthere is one brand, it is called OB and it is just a little piece of white hard absorbent material that you have to somehow stick inside with your finger (i guess?) -I DO NOT recommend these. The best is the plastic applicator tampons by Kotex, or Pearls by Tampax\n\n\nEDIT: YOU have the OB brand don't you?? I doubt you will ever get it in and it feel comfortable, go buy a new brand, like the ones I have listed.
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oh dear....no it wont "de-virginize" you...:)  you wont bleed any more when you put it in, as you are when you NEED to put it in.  Any girl can wear a tampon, just make sure you put it in all the way, or else it wont be at all comfortable...anymore ?s about it you can email me or add on to your question above.
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Right, lock urslef in the bathroom with no interuptions and plenty of time. Not a time to be rushing. Now, use one of the applicator tampons as it's easier. Put on foot up on the side of the bath and one foot on the floor. Reach down and put the tampon applicator in the vagina about one inch. Then use the applicator to push it in. \n\nBest to start with the smallest ones and keep it in for a shorter time. If at first u don't succeed try try again. No'one is judging u and they wont know if u get it forst tiem or not.
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If you put it in wrong, you will feel it.  When a tampon is in correctly, you cannot feel it - so you will know if you have done it incorrectly.\n\n\nTampons are the ideal solution for active girls who play sports and especially swim, and even for other girls they are MUCH more comfortable than pads, they are cleaner than pads, and much more environmentally friendly than pads. \n\nTampons do not hurt, and they are not at all uncomfortable, though sometimes girls are a little bit uncomfortable with the idea of inserting them at first.\n\nOne way to get past your fear of using a tampon, is to become better acquainted with yourself.  Some time when you are not on your period, but before your next period, and when you have some time to be alone, take a few minutes to explore and see what the whole area is about.  This is something that is essential for any girl.  \n\nGet comfortable, use a hand mirror, and with your other hand spread yourself open and look around.  It is not dirty, or ugly, or wrong in any way, it is your body, you should know what it is about and how it works.  When you are comfortable, slip a finger inside a few inches.\n\nNext time you have a period, you will be ready to give a tampon a try, and will have a good idea what sort of experience to expect.  It is different, but it is not bad.  Honestly a tampon is WAY better than a pad ever was.  Don’t feel bad if you don’t get it quite right the first few times you try it – it can take a bit of practice.  Just keep trying until you get it right.  When it is right you won’t be able to feel it at all.\n\nUsing a tampon with an applicator is easier at first, but I think the OB without the applicator is easier, more comfy to put in, and much better for the environment.  You will have to pick for yourself.\n\nWhich ever one you get, follow the instructions on the box, and do not leave it in for longer than the instructions say is safe.
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I would go ahead and introduce her to it and at least present the option.  Tampons are bad for the environment, bad for your wallet and I believe, bad for your health!  It does not make sense to me to put a paper product in your body that absorbs not only your period, but the necessary moisture as well!  (not to mention the bleach issue...)  I wish that I had found the Diva when I was that age.
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Don't worry i swam all summer with or without period.  Nothing will leak out unless it's really heavy and you had your tampon in too long like 8 hours lol.  So best bet put fresh one on at least 1 hour before you swim you will be fine don't worry sweetie!
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The body doesn't work that way, sorry. Just wear a tampon--you'll be okay!
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That is not a weird question at all.  \n\nTampons are the ideal solution for active girls who play sports and especially swim.  \n\nTampons do not hurt, and they are not at all uncomfortable, though sometimes girls are a little bit uncomfortable with the idea of inserting them at first.\n\nOne way to get past your fear of using a tampon, is to become better acquainted with yourself.  Some time when you are not on your period, but before your next period, and when you have some time to be alone, take a few minutes to explore and see what the whole area is about.  This is something that is essential for any girl.  \n\nGet comfortable, use a hand mirror, and with your other hand spread yourself open and look around.  It is not dirty, or ugly, or wrong in any way, it is your body, you should know what it is about and how it works.  When you are comfortable, slip a finger inside a few inches.\n\nNext time you have a period, you will be ready to give a tampon a try, and will have a good idea what sort of experience to expect.  It is different, but it is not bad.  Honestly a tampon is WAY better than a pad ever was.  Don’t feel bad if you don’t get it quite right the first few times you try it.  Just keep trying until you get it right.  When it is right you won’t be able to feel it at all.\n\nUsing a tampon with an applicator is easier at first, but I think the OB without the applicator is easier, more comfy to put in, and much better for the environment.  You will have to pick for yourself.\n\nWhich ever one you get, follow the instructions on the box, and do not leave it in for longer than the instructions say is safe.
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yeah i know me too, but im trying them next time it comes. umm it's kinda hard to explain but its something you get from wearing a tampon  for too long like over 8 hours at a time. just make sure to insert properly and don't go over 6 hours. i know your not supposed to wear them over 8 but i would be safe and go with 6. good luck :] \nwhat you get from TSS is nausea, vomiting, fever, etc. and you can possibly die from it . just use precautions and don't be afraid of using them, look at all the women across the world who wear tampons and are still ok! my bff yesterday just started using tampons and was afraid to use it and wasnt sure how to insert it but she got it in within 5 minutes since it was her first time and said she said she didn't feel it at all she just felt like she had to pee. don't worry, it takes time getting used to. you'll get the hang of it. jeez, i like went off topic there :P bahaha
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My suggestion would require you visiting a gynocologist and have he/she give you proper directions in using a tampon.  Millions of women use it and say they don't feel it, so I think it's anxiety getting the best of you.\n\nGood luck!!!!
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You may be worried and nervous about using your first tampon. Talk to your mom or a friend who has used tampons. It is important to first learn how to use a tampon and then, just relax! The more you relax, the easier the insertion will be. When you are nervous, your muscles tense up, making insertion even harder. For your first time, you may want to try using a tampon when your menstrual flow is heavy; this should allow the tampon to glide in more easily. Choose the smallest size tampon for the first time. By following these simple guidelines, and those that come with your package of tampons, your first experience with tampons should be easy.\n\nSit or stand in a comfortable position. Some women prefer to place one leg on the toilet seat or tub, while others prefer to squat down. After you find a position that is most comfortable for you, hold the tampon with the fingers that you write with. Hold the middle of the tampon, at the spot where the smaller, inner tube inserts into the larger, outer tube. Make sure the string is visible and pointing away from your body.\n\n\nWith your other hand, open the labia (the folds of skin around the vaginal opening) and position the tampon in the vaginal opening.\n\n\nGently push the tampon into the opening, aiming for the small of your back. Stop when your fingers touch your body and the applicator, or outer tube, is completely inside the vagina.\n\n\nOnce the applicator or outer tube is inside of you, use your index finger to push the inner tube (the tube where the removal string is connected) through the outer tube.\n\n\nOnce the inner tube is all the way in, use your thumb and middle finger to remove the applicator or outer tube. Make sure that the string hangs outside of the vaginal opening. Later, when you are ready to remove the tampon, hold the string and gently pull it downward until the entire tampon is out. \nIf the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted the tampon incorrectly or the tampon may not be placed far enough into the vagina. If this happens, just remove the tampon and start again with a new tampon. Remember that practice makes perfect. If you don't get it on the first try, your second try will most likely be successful. Instead of getting frustrated and giving up, relax and try again!
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um, well, i've seen water bras coming back into stores...if you really want to increase your bust, invest in 1 or 2 of those...other than that, i can't really help you.  i have always had the exact opposite of your problem.  if it were possible, i'd send some of mine to ya :-)
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I had the same problem when I first used tampon. I used to apply pads before that.First 2/3 times of using Tampons were quite uncomfortable for me. The trick is you have to insert the 1st part of the tampon into your vagina until the wavy part of the stick. Then you hold the wavy part of the tampon with one hand and press the 2nd part ( which remains outside the vagina ). You may find that its not being inserted , you then press it with left-right and upward pressure. Once it has reached to the first part, you pull out both the parts. one string will be hanging from your vagina which is to pull out the tampon when you need to change.\n\nYou don't have to change the tampon  when you go to toilet. The tampon remains inside your vagina. So you can loo without changing it. You have to change tampon in every 4 hours. \n\nIts great for working girls. You can wear tight cloths, swim with tampon. Its comfortable once you get used to it.
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after you put it in use ducktape to secure the tampon in place...works for me hope it works for you