im in middle school and i really really really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and shes really strict on him but he still loves her any way to get them apart and get the guy plus me and this guy are really good friends anyway
128766
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.
3450
Yeah, good friends don't make good boyfriends/girlfriends. Because the ralationship changes. But try reverting your relationship back to a friends state but still keep the benefits of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship going.
136359
Yeah... it could be love and it might not be. But my advice to you (trust me), since you're still a teenager, just be his friend. Don't talk about love with him. Forget he has a girlfriend and just talk to him like you are talking to one of your girlfriends. No teenage guy is ready for a big commitment so even if you are currently his girlfriend, it won't last... but if you are just friends, you have a much better chance of still keeping in touch 10 years from now and him winning your trust than his current girlfriend. And this might get him to finally realize you have always been there for him. I hope you get my point ( and I hope you take my advice)
256917
You should go ahead and tell him how you really feel. Who knows? He might like you as well. You could give him some breathing space for a while because him and his girlfriend recently broke up. Make your move and tell him. If all doesn't go well, there are plenty of guys out there. It can give both of you an opportunity to tell each other how you really feel and get your feelings out in the open.
164959
Tell only your true friend that you know wont get you in trouble by telling them. if you already dont trust them then you shouldnt tell those friends. if you plan on continueing the relationship with this boy then you are going to need there help in this situation but if you dont have a chance of breaking him up with his girlfriend then you need to keep it to yourself so no one finds out and you get a bad name.
116844
call him and tell him how u feel. if "kk" was in your shoes (if shes a good enough friend) then she would let you have him. when two friends like the same guy, whoever gets to him first gets him. so good luck.
54620
Im having the same problem... and im in the 8th grade too....(check out my ?) well ne ways i called his older sister and she told me how he felt about me and gave me advise, i was sooo glad she did. If he doesnt have an older sibling that you can talk to, then ask one of his friends....they will tell.. trust me.... ok check out my question.... thanx
430472
well, this is gonna be mean. but say yes to the seventh grader. and see how the guy that you like reacts. if he gets jealous make him jealous for couple of days then break up with the seventh grader. and see if he will ask you out. but if he doesn't get jealous just see how your relationship turns out and you never know you might end up liking him.
411921
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
548334
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
168609
tell him how you feel. his relationship with the other girl must not be strong enough because he wouldn't be telling you he loved you if he really loved her. you guys have a history, and there's a good chance that he will come back to you.
26622
yes u have 2 move on i spent all of last year in that same situation and it doesnt workout,find another guy ur interested in.he probably isnt gonna leave his g/f 4 u and if he does then he would do that 2 u too.i pretty much had 2 erase him from my mind,it was hard but i did it and im fine now.(if u find a sweetie then go 4 him instead)
507421
I am a junior in High school, There are three girls that I really like, but whichever one, becomes my girlfriend(if any), then I will still like the other ones, but I won't do anything about those feelings.  It is OK to like another guy, just stay faithful to the one your with.  Be content with the guy you have, and if things don't work out, then try the other one.  but, just try to devote yourself to the one your with, and he should do the same, give it your all, and enjoy it.  then no matter what you are happy.  Best of luck!\n\nSavage
270766
You should get over with it. A guy who is not honest to his love, is not the perfect one you are looking for. So keep your friendship. If he wants to get close to you like the other girl(not the girlfriend, he is in love with), you can get a clear conversation & then you can decide what to do ... for now be a friend. Cause things are not always good when they are fast. Give it time, then decide.
153488
WHO DO YOU LIKE MORE, YOUR BOYFRIEND OR THIS NEW GUY?? MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE NEW OR SOMEONE ELSE. IT HAPPENS! AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. TRUST YOUR HEART, BELIEVE IN YOUR MIND. SIXTH GRADER LIKING A NINTH GRADER!!!! NOT SO SHOCKING!! IF YOU LIKE HIM JUST BECAUSE HE IS OLDER, THEN THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST REASON. DO YOU WHAT YOU FEEL??
457730
wow hun you have sooooo many years ahead of you to worry about that. I know you like her and you just wanna be with her.. but chances are it wouldnt work out anyway.. not because you arent a great guy.. but because relationships that young really never work out. you will find someone much better further along in your years. for right now concentrate on school and your friends. there will be plenty of time for dating later :)
333992
If the other girl is not his girlfriend, just hang out with him and see what happens.  If you hit it off, the other girl won't matter to him.  Don't waste your time worrying about her, just hang with him and go with the flow.