k so theres this guy i really like him and he knows but we have already gone out, but he never got to see me be myself so he dumped me...... now its really akward what do i do!oh by the way his sister is one of my best friends!
131525
Guys are really hard to understand.  Maybe he just want some one on one time with you or maybe he just want sex.  My parents were really strict and when I was in college I had my first boyfriend.  His name was Kenneth.  He was my age but he was a senior in high school and I was a college freshman.  We both lived with our  parents.  Throughout our entire year of dating, we never were alone.  I swear to God, we were never alone anywhere together.  There was always my parents, my cousins, my sister, his family, or his friends.  We lived within walking distance of each other.  Niether one of us had a car or could drive.  It was frustating to him because he wanted to have sex but I didn't care because we were both virgins and I wasn't going there.  After a year of dating he ended up breaking up with me for that very frustrating reason.  We are still friends 12 years later.  When I ask him why we broke up then, he always tells me he was a horny little teenager and I wasn't trying to hear it.  So I'm sure that might have something to do with it.  If so, leave him alone.  You're probably about 16 anyways and don't need to be around a guy alone.  I appreciate my parents strict rules.  Remember, your parents always want the best for you.
115101
Slip..., I sure love your avatar!! lol...\n\n Just tell him, you want him too! But you want to take it kind of slow this time. So things don't end up like before!\n\nPlus, it'll serve him right for dumping you the first time!\n\nGood Luck and Best Wishes, Girl.
549297
you should congratulate yourself on your decision, and realize that it was the RIGHT one.  If he is so immature as to treat you poorly just because you didn't go out with him, then it's obvious that he would have been a bad choice for you.  He needs to grow up.
62295
Bide your time.  If he is the guy for you, time will reveal all.  Be his friend, but nothing more.  If he's right for you, he will realize what an awesome chick you are and that he wants to be with you.  It sounds to me that he may have got tired of waiting for you and that's why is with someone now.  But as long you stay friends, the better your chances of his realizing how right you are for him.
462728
dont go out with him. its only a crush, plus if he does go out with you. better chance is he would only to make your sister jelouse.
110304
Girl, you dumped him for a reason, right? Guys usually don't change, lol. Probably something going on where you are feeling lonely, bored, etc. Go out with your gfs, make some new gfs, get a puppy...anything. Don't look back, lov ya!
191359
hey hows it goin first of all i no a couple exactly like u and theyve broken up like 8-9 times  question though: does he treat u rite wen u go out? if he does then ur situation is completely understandable. if not, try ur hardest to find another man. it will be hard at first but perhaps u will be happier. besides that how many other men are there in this world that u could get to no? sure hes a one of a kind guy, but maybe youll find somebody u like evenmore than him? maybe u cant give him up, but ur going to have to face it sometime. why let urself go now and make ur life he** wen u could possibly get over him and be happy? \ngood luck in watever ur choice may be, no matter wat u decide! :-)
48164
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
156374
I would say that you have unresovled feeligs for him. Either talk to him about it or try to move on, maybe a girls night out?
379922
I think you should go out with him and get to know him before you decide to pursue a relationship. You should let him know that you are not ready to jump into a relationship, after all you have been through stress. I hope he doesn't think that you are gullible and try to use you, but you cant just judge someone and not give them a chance. Proceed with caution.
25775
i say hes not worth your time and he doesnt know what he wants so let him be the one that got dumped. dont let him hurt you
128037
Forget about her!!! I've had the same situation with this guy, until I finally said to myself, Hey! What am I doing here? He doesn't deserve me and I'm not going to wait forever! I shoudn't be running after him he should be running after me! And if he's gonna want me back, it's too late for that! And guess what? He wantd me back. And I didn't. That's what you should do. Have some dignity MAN!
99825
If it was me, I wouldn't bother with him if he broke up with me before, but on the other hand, he may have matured enough to be serious.  If you like him, just tell him! If he can't appreciate the honesty, then you don't need him! <3
588582
MY BEST FRIEND HAD BROKE UP WITH THIS GUY AND AS YOU,HE LIKED ME AND I LIKED HIM.WE STARTED DATING AND MY BEST FRIEND HATED ME FOR IT ONLY BECAUSE I DID NOT GO TO HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT MY FEELINGS TOWARD THE GUY.I RECOMMEND TALKING TO HER AND LETTING HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IT BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM,THEN ITS YOUR DECISON RATHER YOU WANT TO DATE HIM OR NOT.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK..
516847
i've often been in this situation! the best thing i have done is just kind of flirt around, if he feels threatened, stop, and either move on, or wait til they (prolly sometime) breakup, \n\nif he flirts alot back just tell him "listen i know you have a girlfriend, and i don't want to get between you 2, but i just waned you to know that i do like you"   then see what happens from there, if he's for it (to date you) don't do anything til he breaks up with his girl, you don't want to be that kind of 'girl' if he's not for it, MOVE ON!\n\n\n\n\n\n---if you need any more advice on this situation or any other one you have DON NOT hesitate to message me!!!----
564504
You are absolutely not crazy. You can start dating at your own discretion, after all, you're going to be the one chossing the guy, definitely not your sister. Tell your sister to worry about her own problems. Sometimes us women want that time to be independent, and then we find our soulmate.
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he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(