just curious how to get the above and keep it i keep losing it although i can motivate others
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Are you sure you can motivate others?\n\nIf you believe this, then perhaps you could find someone who can do the same for you.\n\nBut I am sceptical that someone who cannot motivate themselves could really motivate others.\n\nPerhaps you could ask yourself what is your motivation for attempting to motivate yourself. Furthermore you could ask yourself what is your motivation for "losing motivation", once you have it.
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hey... its good that ur calling out like that, it only shows u truly do have ambition despite the people/circumstances around u that hold you back. why dont u write to me, jammiecon@yahoo... i'm going through the same problem but my reasons are different, i've had a bad life and it seems like when i really want to do something, sh1t gets in the way and just beats me down. i need to talk too and like really get some motivation boosts. we should email, seriously, we'll set our goals together n challenge each other n stuff.\n\ntheres too many lecture-therapeutic-type things to stay to you i cant just post it here... generally, good luck, and remember its a v good thing u asked. i hope this, and everybody else's answers, helps.
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another thing to do is to say it, blog about it, tell everyone what you are doing, your accomplishments and your failures (which in the long run there are non)\n\nRemember it's a long journey.\n\nAnother thing that has helped me is finding a motivational buddy. Someone I can relate and talk to, and someone that can kick my ass when I'm not doing good.\nTry finding one, if not I can help you out.
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went through the same thing...I tried using that to my advantage...make that your main motivation....you have not failed unless you have decided not to get back up and try again...try and think of it as..."failure is not an option" and will never be...\n  you will over come your obsticals trust me...you can and will be someone
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have self-gratification.\ni have 13,000+ points and i'm still waiting for my prize!!!...lol
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Have you ever heard the phrase "What you put out you bring about?" Don't keep going with a bad attitude all the time, it will continue to find it's way back to you.  I learned how to read cards 20 years ago but it should be used for entertainment purposes and in my opinion to try and do it over Yahoo wouldn't work anyway. \nGood luck  :-)
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yea man i would need help with this too. hope you get some help from others, good luck
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Here's the first one.... if you don't fix it now, it will probably continue throughout your entire life, causing poor relationships, in the home, work, with friends, and more. \nYou can do it, just hang in there, and keep doing the next right thing, like putting forth the effort on a DAILY basis.\nConcentrate on concentrating! Work on it now, you will be glad that you did. Some people are so naturally organized, that they will never understand this behavior, but it can be self-taught, and the only difference between those who succeed and those who don't, are that some give up. \n\nTips...... Get yourself a notepad and carry it on you at all times. Continue to write down things as you remember them, and even if its not in order, you will at least have a guideline and know what needs to be done that day.\nAlso, start organizing your surroundings more. Like in your bedroom. Or getting up a half an hour earlier than you really need to, to get your day organized. Start taking control in the ways that seem small at first, but it will pay off in the end.\nPs. And don't forget to reward yourself for improvements, it will help you stay motivated!
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Just think about how awesome your going to feel when you reach your goal... buy yourself a new pair of jeans!!! \n\nDon't make it a chore, it's just modifing your routine a bit... do you have a buddy that will do it with you?
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Be bold. You really have nothing to lose but your pride which is excess baggage anyway.
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Humble yourself under the mighty hand of God.  If you just go about the day saying good things about people and not getting caught up in gossip as others, you will turn things around.  Let your light shine that they may see your good deeds and works and soon others will follow.
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You answered your own question. and the reason why you did this is because you want attention and gratitude n the sense of feeling important and empowering. I hope it worked.
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first of all you shouldnt need to impress anyone else and so what if others give you no support look out for number one yourself wake up and be positive hop in a cold shower and tell yourself your worth it and then tell yourself out loud 10 good attributes about yourself that dont include what others say about you if your at a loss for some things then make some up for instance what u wish you could be repeat these 10 things 5 times a day out loud for 6 months and then make up more and do the same for another 6 months theyre called daily affirmations and they do work
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There are several reasonable suggestions.  First, begin right away to do some exercise every day, something simple like a walk.  Just go for a walk, and make sure this is something you really want to do.  Keep it short, and make it a little longer when you want to do this.\n\nSecond, this is a lot more difficult, but you can do it.  Instead of thinking of yourself, begin to think of how you can help someone else.  Actually this can be simple too.  For example, when you shop, think about your smile and whatever you might do to keep the other person happy.  It is fun and smiles are contageous.\n\nWe are made to be happy.  So stay nice.  And stay happy.
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dont stress over it or you will stop the great thing u r doing for yourself try to make a game out of it good luck and keep it up
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There is no one key.  You must constantly learn, constantly not settle for where you are, and always keep going toward your goals.  \n\nAlso, more people who actually write down goals tend to make them happen.
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It's really important that you find something you LIKE doing, or you won't stick to it.  If you don't like exercising in front of people, for example, then you won't like a gym.  If you like walking, then ramp up your walking speed, and go for regular walks. \n\nIt can be motivation if you pay for something, like if you sign up for a dance class, then you feel compelled to attend all the classes because you paid for them.  \n\nIt really helps if you have someone else to be accountable to, like a walking or swimming buddy, because then you can encourage each other not to quit.