well i am wondering if my b/f is treating me wrong or if i am. ok i moved into my apt with my dad in the middle of 2nd quarter of high and meet this good looking guy his name is Miguel and i mean he is sweet but when he is mad he is mad well on our 1 and 2 and 3 month it was kinda hard i kept breaking up with him and stuff well he use to crya nd stuff now he doesn't cuz he is use to it but he hates it when i bring up his ex that cheated on him and then he got with me on our 4th month me and him had a big fight and he called his ex and i was so pissed and he got mad w/ me, well after the middle of our relationship he met these guys and their like 20 21 and shit and i am worried he will cheat cuz there is a girl their but u know how drunk ppl get and ididn't like it. he got mad at that too then my ex that i saw he treated me mean and my b/f didn't like him so much so he stop skatin w/ him then after like 2 months aftr he skating with him then i broke up w/ him and beg him bck together
136651
My dear girl, I could not follow your explanation, but as far as treating you wrong, does it feel wrong?  If the answer is yes, then you already know the answer.  Don't let him push you around.
538642
Ive been with my b&#92;f for 7years now.I'm 23 now,he's 7yrs older than me.For the first 4 years our family's had issues with us being together.we moved in together only 3months into it while i was living with a girl friend.its had its up and downs but has been a great life.my advice to you would have to be,that you continue strong in the relationship that you have,don't worry to much about the negativity that continues to linger around you and your man.If he makes you happy and you know that he is all good for you,then you have nothing to worry about.wish you all the best....
654469
Sounds like he's doing drugs.\nIf he has been physically abusive it is time to get out no matter how much you think you love the guy.\nThere is someone else that will treat you better.
622901
I understand where ur coming from during ya'll first relationship he treated u like s**t and u feel like u should treat him the same way.Gurl give him another chance.Sit down and talk to him let him no how u fill.And let him no wat ur going 2 try 2 do 2make everything right.\n\nSincerely,Ya Gurl Smilee
309691
You are so young.  If he treats you badly now, it will only get worse.  How can you think that you're afraid to be alone for the rest of your life? Get some self respect and you decide if he's good enough for you.  Good Luck with that, eh?
138688
babe you are on the right track - you only deserve the best trust me mr right is out there for you and he cant wait to meet you so just tell this guy its just not working out the way you want it to be and that you wanna see other people cos you want something serious - plus he treats you like shit you said so he really doesnt deserve an explanation if you wanna hurt him just say that you want some fun in the sack hehehe but trust me the man of your dreams is comming and he will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated goodluck
218905
It sounds like your bf is somekinda trouble at home. Try to dig deeper. It does seem suspicious but you don't know all the details yet. Ask yourself if he really is worth the trouble. And if one day you do bump into him, he better have a good explanation for not trying to contact you.
239604
leave him. no one should treat you like that. there is some one out there better for you. your worth more than he is. it seems like hes trying to not lesson to your problem and thats wrong. any one that cares for another person will here them out and be there for them, and at less try to understand and help them. plus i know what your going through, every girl needs afection or how ever you spell it. so go out there and find some one thats worth having you as a girlfreind!
394216
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
593309
You are being used sweetie!  He is not ready for a serious relationship, and he is making sure he has you to fall back on all the time.  He is immature and selfish!  He is a cheater and cheaters very rarely stop cheating.  Get out of this  lost relationship.  He doesn't love you, he loves himself!  Toss the trash in the garbage where it belongs.  Don't waste another minute of your life with him.  There are many guys out there who will treat you with love and respect.  Your self-esteem should be rock bottom by now and this jerk is going to keep knocking you down and hurting you inside.  Get on with your life and I know there is someone out there who will love you for the beautiful, loving person you are.  Good luck!
213165
no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
117146
Sounds like you hooked up with the wrong guy.  A loving relationship is 50/50.  Not 90/10.  You need to find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
668473
this guy sounds like a lot of trouble, you have only been seeing him for four months and all these problems have problems have been hapening, you should be on your honeymoon stage but instead you have problems, maybe you should leave this guy and leave all thses problems. why stick with him whne he accuses you of drama, you dont need that , you need a guy to be there for you when you need him not when he needs you to bail him out of his problems.
62993
I think you should have some self-respect and dump him, because he's clearly treating you poorly and taking you for granted.  You're better off solo than with someone who isn't treating you the way you deserve to be.
523429
Sounds like he has big trust issues, you should talk to him about your concerns, if not I would walk away..... Jealously can lead to violence
447388
Yes, it's wrong and if you continue in this relationship, you are a homewrecker. I'm sure you're a nice person but you need to find someone who has no baggage and can commit solely to you. You won't be happy in the long run otherwise. You deserve better.
177264
I definitely understand your problem girl...I know it hurts, but are you willing to undergo in a relationship where the guy isn't happy?! You gonna prefer to see him happy in others hand while seeing him totally sad. IT REALLY HURTS...but look at the bright side!You're hot...there are a lot of guys out there...I'm not sounding to offend you...wake up! God Bless...