my girlfriend is coming back from the states after visiting her family there, i do everything romantic for her already, but i am stuck for ideas to surprise her when she gets back, what can i do??
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greet her at the airport with her favourite snack and make sure she comes home to a clean house.  she'll be hungry and tired after such a long flight.  might not be romantic but be assured it will definitely be appreciated. that's what i'm hoping my hubby will do for me when i return from seeing my family in the us too.\n\n\ni have no real good suggestions but want to say she sounds like a lucky lass :)
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Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
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Pack a suitcase with one outfit for tomorrow. Put it in the car. Make a reservation for a hotel room with a jacuzzi in it and send some flowers there. When she gets home blind fold her and take her to her ravishing spot. Its all you from there bud.
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Ok, then let's change it a little bit. Do something entirely different with her. Do something that is not your normal mode. Treat her with a nice romantic dinner somewhere, it dosen't have to be expensive or elaborate, just a nice different place with good food maybe a nice glass of wine and a single rose would be nice too. Find a place that you could dance with her a couple of slow, romantic songs sure could not hurt a thing.  There is so very much that you can do and to go without spending a vast amount, parks, attractions, museums, gallaries, etc. I would be bored too if all we did was make supper, watch tv and sometimes go shopping, none of that is spontaneous nor romantic.
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How bout trying candle light?  She will think you are being romantic and you will get some reprieve.  And how about offering to work out w/ her?  Take some long walks or join the gym, maybe it will strengthen your relationship in more ways than you know!  You'll get a shapely wife, and maybe your relationship will get stronger for the time to spent together!
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- Visited a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband back for a personal tour.\n\nHave fun!
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Tell her to go hang out with her friends! Tell her to go out and do stuff so that she has a lot to talk about when you get back!
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Do it romantically. Take her on a hotair balloon ride or to the beach and watch the sunsert, or even to the mountains. Take her somewhere you know she will enjoy! DON'T take her to a restaurant!
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How funny -- my husband has done all of the things you listed (the song is still top of the list).  \n\nHe gave me an awesome b-day present of a hot air balloon trip for my 30th b-day (don't know if I could stomach it now) and another great gift was a surprise gondola ride (wine and chocolate covered strawberries as we cruised Coronado bay as the sun set..)  Horsebackriding was also a fun gift -- the trick is that these were all surprises and the fun part was in guessing where we were headed and then the fun of getting there to see what we were in for!\n\nSo try a neat "experience" like these.  Another cool thing (but you have to really know your wife) is a big household project that you could care less about but you know your wife would love (a fancy new front door that you install -- or have a professional insall -- a cool new chandelier or modern light to replace the old one above the dining room table - just be sur eto get advice from her mom or friend on the taste / appearance of what you select).\n\nGood luck -- you sound like a great husband and I know that takes hard work and dedication  :)
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Take her out and make a big todo about it. Tell her how awesome she is.\n\nSay you have a suprise and take her somewhere special...like for a glass of wine at a park at night. Watch the stars and surroundings and tell then pop the question. It is quite and private and you just have yourselves together. Plus, she will be all happy abou it. Also, if you can, get a very sexy blanket and some throws for you to sit on with her. Have some candles as well...if you can have a buddy set this up for you with petals leading to the spot. Have him do this within a few minutes of your planned arrival and have him/her watching in the woods until you come...then he scoot out...just to make sure someone doesn't stop the rendezvous. \n\nThen, kiss her like you mean it, take her home and have petals everywhere leading to the bed. Have a bath drawn and the lights perfect. Have some Senatra playing in the background and start your engagement off right. \n\n\nGood luck.
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my husband is over there right now. you could send videos of all your buddies saying hey your man loves you! send her pics of you and the guys. where my husband is now, he has some access to more cultural type stuff. you could pick out some stuff as souvenirs to send to her. i really like mt. dew, so my husband sent me one of theirs as a souvenir. you could make a cd of songs that make you think of her, that say what you want to say. and when you write to her, tell her how you are feeling, tell her about your plans for the future. girls like that stuff.\nand thanks for your service and sacrifice!\noh, and the best gift of all in my opinion, put together a charm bracelet for her. include charms that symbolize times you spent together. such as a horse for the time you guys went horse back riding together, just as an example. i would love it if my man would think of something like that!
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oh and so right you are! I think you should pack up a lunch in a picnic basket and blanket. Go somewhere out in the country where it's nice and quiet and beautiful! I have always wanted that but still haven't found him yet. Do that! I bet she will just love it! And if you want to make it a little romantic then take a dinner time candle to! Even if it's daylight that would still be romantic to! Good luck!
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u should always surprise her...like when she walks in her room have like a little gift or something...nothing fancy just something to let her know u love...leave cute little notes around her place too...hope it works
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Fill her house/apartment with helium or just normal red balloons. Leave her alot of flowers on her bed. Cook for her! Clean her house/apartment. Organize a candle lit dinner for u guys. I think she will appreciate all those sweet romantic things.
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great question, seeing guys ask something like this makes me feel like theres hope for this country and the men in it. There are some great ideas from other people already , but I would like to stress again a few - for sure try all the small cute things like putting a note for her to find about how much  you love her, sending her something to work so that evryone can see is also romantic and she will feel very special even if she says shes embarrased - trust me she still loves that kind of thing. Make her that bubble bath from time to time - after she gets home from work and just always LISTEN and take care of her. Thats all a girl really needs.  =)   As long as you share yourself and your life with her she will be happy
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a romatic sun setting dinner on the beach or boat!!!\ngive her 11 real red or pink roses and 1 fake rose and say i will LOVE YOU UNTIL EVERY LAST ROSE DIES. don't tell her one will be fake but remember one will always be there.  I know I would love that. Also get her a teddy bear to hug when she misses you.(build a bear is what i reccomend) \n\nI hope I helped
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Just don't let her know what day the surprise is on ... and tell her that things didnt work out well for ur surprise & that it'll have to be planned out better, but when its planned out completely you'll tell her. Well .. the night of the concert (or whatever) just out of no where .. ask her to go to the store w/ u or something & just drive there or drive to the store & ask her to get in the glovebox for ur wallet or something ... have the tickets in there w/ a bow around them ... & tell her whats up!