sometimes in life one has to make certain dicission in family,friends,workplace etc...but wife always go against it.
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it's because girlfriends don't worry about you as much.. they aren't necessarily going to be with you for the rest of your life.. what you do has not much affect to them.. and so it does not matter as much what they think. At that time.. it's what you think that matters most. Once you marry.. the wife plays a very important part in your life.. every decision will affect her.. she worries about you and about the family.. she's trying to seek the best in everything.. trying to make things right.. trying to see what the best choices are for you, her and the family.. She's not neccessarily critiscing.. you have to look at it from her point of view as well as your own.. vice versa.
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They need to save up enough money to get their own place. \nI had a mother-in-law that did the same. But she changed when she realized i really wasn't the person she wanted me to be. \nYour friend should not get upset with his wife because she doesn't eat for goodness sake if she can't eat pepper. And her husband needs to start taking up for her. I know you are supposed to honor thy mother & they father...but you are also supposed to due unto others as you have them do unto you.
374570
If you are friends maybe you should just agree to disagree and forget the whole thing. This may be her way of doing that
471178
get a divorce  why does either woman put up with it
211087
This happens alot in my house, mainly becaise my husband is from India and I am American. He says things and it set's me off fairly fast then I make every one mad. To avoid this, dont say things you know she dont want to talk about, it it is sticking in your mind, then write it in ajernol, but stop talking on topics that are touchy for her. It's not always easy, infact it will feel like you give more effort then she and latter in life it will come back to hurt you, so learn now to let things go, because you will have other issues to deal with that are far more important. Choose your words wisely, and learn to live as one or not at all.
535708
I try to keep my mother in law out of my relationship as much as possible,
655015
Try to compromise with ur wife to make up sometimes for sex as u need it.
305487
Marriage takes a lot of work and commitment.  Your friend is either immature or refusing to work her peoblems out with her husband.  A major key to a good marriage is communication.  I hope this helps.
590444
That sounds very rude and inconsiderate to me.  If she asked your sister then she asked her so she should stay.  She can just let her friend know that the spot has been filled because she declined.  I dunno man, but to me she is already setting a bad example for married life if she can't even stay true to her word and cant even show respect for your family.  Looks like you got some thinking to do.  Good luck.
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They have to admit there is a problem to change. From my experience I think most are not going to do that. My husband just keeps telling me he is not that bad why do I despise him so much? He doesn't see what he has done to me inside.
20023
especially when they refuse to get checked out for diagnosis- when they wont acknowledge that they have a problem.  They will tell you it is you thats got issues, instead of them.\n\nUmm are you married?  Maybe you are just in her face too much!?  Most likely she aint Bi-polar, shes just over you!
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Because usually they are closer to their mother than the wife..plain and simple. They act like they can't do anything without her permission. When you marry it is good to still be close to her, but you also have to know who comes first and more important she has to know that...K
153396
My husband has that problem too sometimes, but not all of the time.
63959
Some people don't want to be the bad guy and break the relationship, so they make you do it for them.
333849
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
14868
This is absolutely wrong. He for one should respect his wife and her feelings, so he should either find a nice way to tell her of his friendship with other ladies and introduce them to his wife and try to find a way to convince her to accept him having female friends or just love her and respect her wishes and not have friends she does not approve of.
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I experienced a similar situation in my marriage: I have a very demanding career and it often requires long hours.  My ex-wife couldn't understand why I was working so hard: I explained it to her but she would provide her own explanations: for example, I was not interested in staying home with her and the kids.  Even today she called me a sperm donor!  Well, marriage is tough.  On one hand I understand a woman expecting to have her husband around and when he is not regardless what the reason, I can understand how she would be unhappy about that.  But a woman who is giving and flexible would understand that although it may not be the ideal situation, her relationship with her husband is the most important in her life and that marriage is supposed to be till death do us part!   Nowadays there are more options for women and more temptation so women are less inclined to work through the difficult times as was once the case.  Even though you still care for her and miss you child, if this is the kind of person she is, then she probably did you a favor.  If you guys get back together, then I wish you the best of luck.  But if you don't I hope that you meet someone who will love and support you come hell or high water - because that is what any good man deserves!