I'm not even sure if I want to call this guy, but, if he's married, I don't even want to bother. He's an old friend who I can't find...
131893
Not that I know of.  I used People Search and they didn't notify the person.  But it didn't say if the the person was married or not.
478726
Well, you should not call and see him gradually. Do it little by little and finally do not contact him anymore.
256197
I say take a chance and look him up. There's no point in always wondering what if. If you find him and he's not interested then you can move on because at least you'll know one way or the other. Of course if he wants to be involved then maybe you'll get a happily ever after! Good Luck!
639931
I understand why you're thinking about him, but for the sake of your relationship now, do yourself a favor and just write the ex off.  If he's great or if he's dead, nothing good can come of tracking him down.  How would you feel knowing your husband went looking for one of his past sweethearts?  \nExes should remain where they are.... in your memory.  \nLooking for him will be also looking for trouble.  Trust me, best to just let it go.
303629
Yes call him he may have been wondering the same thing!\ndont wait for the reunion and be surprised to find you still have feelings for him!\ncall him! now!\ngo on get off of here and get on the phone! dont be afraid whats the worse that can happen?\nHe will be married with 6 kids!\ncheckit out you never know!
337884
From your description of your man, i find that he is an idle man who calls you ten times in a day. He can be OK for your friend but not worthy of being your husband. He will not be able to support you as his wife. Forget about him , my dear child, find some other desrving person.for marriage. Your well wisher.
315359
This happen to me many years ago and I kick myself in the butt sometimes for NOT calling him.  It was 12 years ago and today I still think about him. So if I was you I would call
190913
I am so sorry.  This man has made his choice and you cannot do anything about it, unfortunately.\nBe with friends, keep yourself busy, and do not feed into his ego by contacting him.\nIt will only hurt you more.\nAvoid him at all costs...because to contact him will cost you your sanity!!\nGood luck and better wishes for a great future relationship.
396151
Probably uncomfortable too, I would not make a point to see him, but should I run into them somewhere I'd greet him with a hello! and congratulations. I wouldn't stick around to chat.
37474
umm you said hes getting married. now unless the person hes marrying is you, then im gonna have to say he doesnt relaly like, maybe as a friend, but nothing less n nothin more. im sorry to break it to you. find another guy theres PLENTY of guys, plenty of SINGLE guys.
496153
Meet someone else.  You will find someone great who will sweep you off your feet, and the old guy will be out of your mind forever.  Believe me, been there done that!
162732
if u dont even know him, say flat out no. He could be some kind of pervert trying to get to you.
275790
You don't say how long you know this guy, nor do you say how long has it been since you've heard from him.\n\nWhen one calls regularly, and that stops, we tend to think the worst.  There could be a reason why he hasn't called, but there is no law to say that you cannot try calling him.\n\nSee what sort of reception you get - is he warm and friendly, or is he cold and distant?  That in itself will tell you where the relationship could be headed.\n\nBetter to know now, so you can mourn - if you need to mourn - the relationship, then move on to find someone who will truly call you back.\n\nGood Luck!
91684
No you shouldn't fight for him because its a pretty good chance his wife doesn't know about you. Especially if he's hidden this all this time. And I don't think getting out there and screwing the 1st dude you see is the answer either. Just focus on getting him outta ya system. You deserve better
160412
nope and I'd further let him know that you value your time and are willing to include him in your plans but only if he shows up.  I'd make it clear and rock solid that if he does it again, the friendship is terminated out of a lack of respect for you on his part.  You don't have to be a doormat for this so-called friend.  The reason you may be the only friend he's got is because he chased off the other people who wanted to be his friend.  So.....you may be a friend to HIM but I don't see any parts of his being a friend to YOU.  Get ready to ditch this sadsack and meet nicer people.
61291
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
472985
You are not dating his friends I wouldn't worry about it