I recently started speaking to my family, however I still live 1000 miles away from them and given our recent separation I am still looking for some kind of connection and understanding. Possibly a family that would like to just be friends. How do you find these types of ppl?
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there are websites for people who are seeking new friends, not sure if thats what you meant. try doing a search.
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Our family is very close .. we have a huge family here .. lots of cousins, aunts, uncles - granny's grandpas - you name it we've got it !\n\nMy daughter has 2 great great grandparents .. \n\nIt's so much fun growing up with a big family.  You never get bored, you always have some one to talk to .. and a place to stay if you're in trouble !\n\nWe're all so close me, both brothers & 3 other cousins have the same tattoos to show our family pride ... haha ... !
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i came through this situation too.. i have a cousin and we like so close together even tell each other secrets... but now we are no longer talk to each other maybe just greet and say Hi!!..it is sad because we act like we didn't know each other... we fell apart because my father and her father had a fight a couple years ago... my father didn't allowed me to be close to her and their siblings.. but now after my father get over the problem with my uncle... we kind of afraid to talk to each other... sometimes i cry because when i came back to hometown and we had a gathering i have no one to talk to.. now i always try to be close back to them.. i think it will takes sometimes to refresh our relationship back..just be patient and you'll see the results..
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I was 9 when I lost my mom. Not an important event goes by without me thinking of her and missing her. Im 28 and sometimes I get mad at HER for not being here for things like her grandchildren or to give me advice. It DOES get easier. I say this because the pain only goes on for so long then you adjust to it. Pain will be there it just won't be as horrible as it seemed in the beginning. I just hope to see her someday when its my time. It sucks more than anything in the world to lose a parent. My advice is n to see a counsler or better yet find others who have lost parents and share stories and tears if need be. Your on a good start here finding others. Maybe there is a loss support group in your area. I didn't like the counslers when I was younger due to the fact we had no connection. They didn't lose their mom but wanted to talk to me about my loss. Good-luck and keep your head up. Remember God doesn't give us more then we can handle (sometimes it feels like it)
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there are TONS of stories of people meeting on the net, its been going on for longer than many realise. a friend of mine just celebrated her 5th wedding anniversary with the man she met on the internet. they also have two kids, she is a teacher, he is a chiropractor. dont sound like crazy people to me lol. i also know another woman who has been married the same amount of time and her husband moved from overseas to be with her, they have a daughter turning 4 next month. \n\nto me, its not really that different than how many relationships do or dont work out in 'real life'. if i count how many bfs i have had since i was 15, its over 30! so that means i have had 30 failed relationships so far and only one of them was met on the internet (but it still lasted 4 years and we had a daughter). out of the couples i know so far that met on the net and got married, not one of them is divorced. NOT ONE. yeah there is still time i suppose but other couples i know that met in person first have been married and divorced already, over half of them if i sit and count. so whats that say about the odds?
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I can totally relate to you! I have a few cousins that I don't see often. When I do see them, we don't talk much. I don't really think it's because they were ignoring us. Maybe it's because we just haven't seen each other in a very long time, so we don't really know where to start talking again.
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This is a group for straight males and females who are seeking companionship, love, and possibly a permanent relationship. If you are into anything other than straight relationships, this is not the place for you. Note: Due to the fact that we may have members in the group that don't understand the preceding, all messages will be closely monitored.\n\nThe reason I am starting this new group for other's to possibly meet\nnew people.\n\nThis group is meant for you if people:\n\n1)IF you are facing problems in relationship\n2)If you are seeking your soul mate\n3)If you think you can advice others\n4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf\n\nThis group will be moderated and I assure you that it will\nbe one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each\nother without any kind of hindrance..\n\nPLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO\nSHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE & TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.\n\nSO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship\nwith you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.\n\nSuggestions are most welcome.\n\nWe also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love. \n\nNow in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group. \n\nhttp://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone
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I don't have a problem finding love over the internet. After all, I met my husband on the net.\n\nWhat I have a problem with is people who actively go looking on the internet. It's like putting your name in the personals in the newspaper. A sign of desperation. And last I looked desperation isn't a good thing.\n\nThe internet is also dangerous because people don't think when they meet someone on the net. They rush into it talking about how they met only a month ago and have talked for only a week over the phone and want to get married to this person. For some reason, if it's over the net, they don't want to wait until they actually get to know someone.\n\nMy husband and I have known each other for almost 9 years. We knew each other for over three years as friends over the net. Then we spent 5 and a half years "dating" going back and forth between our countries and talking on the phone for hours and hours every night for YEARS. \n\nWe've been married since June.\n\nMost people aren't willing to take the time it takes. It's not like meeting someone face to face. It's alot more dangerous and you don't have the ability to look at each other so you can rely on your own personal perception. \n\nPeople also aren't willing to wait until they're over that "honeymoon" phase of the relationship and work at the communication part. It's why most internet relationships fail. They can't handle the distance and work on the communication.\n\nEven my family, the people who were so sceptical in the beginning and advising me against getting involved with my husband. Even they have admitted that this is probably the healthiest relationship they've ever seen due to the level of communication he and I have. We can even finish each others sentences and yet we will find each other absolutely fascinating. Even after all this time.\n\nIf people would learn to be patient and take it slowly, I wouldn't say anything. But most people seem convinced they want to marry this person after speak to them for only a month or so over the internet. It's ridiculous.
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Sometimes we just need time alone  to find out what it is that we are missing. Sure family is great and a good distraction from everyday things but when you want to find out things like this is better to be alone go to the beach take a walk this will help.Also it helps to talk to an outsider they might hava a different opinion than those who know both of you. I offer myself if you want to talk I am a really good listener and maybe I can give you some advise. Make sure you let me know how everything went. My email is Junior_03yes@yahoo.com
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It sounds like you are better off without your family. I agree with one who suggested counseling. It is usually a good and helpful experience. Also, it is very lonely not to have a family. I always made family out of my friends. Having close friends can feel the same as being with your family.  Do you have any extended family(aunts, uncles, cousins) that would help you feel connected and loved? If you think there's any way I can help, feel free to contact me. :^)
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You really need to meet them before you make a decision. I've met a couple of people from online that ended up being completely different than the way they presented themselves. I've also met a few that we just didn't click in person. \n\nRegardless of when or how you decide to meet them, please play it safe and meet in a public place! There are a lot of psychos out there so better safe than sorry!\n\nGood luck to you!
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Yes I have.  I was sitting on ICQ program and had a message from a man over 2000 miles away.  We had a nice conversation that night and though neither of us was looking for a love relationship, we kept talking from time to time at night during the following weeks.  We later found out that his Mother lives about 2 hours from me and when he came home to visit her we decided to have dinner togehter to say hello in person.  Up to that time it was just a nice friendship but when we made it face to face it turned into love.  That was 4 years ago and we plan to make our relationship permanent this fall.
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i wished i could help i am in Australia . i  know how you feel i am searching for a old school mate i cannot find her . she is obv married and her parents have moved it is so hard \n . so i hope you find your friends and good luck to you.
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There is nothing wrong with that. I have one close friend that lives in my area. Other friends from school have since moved out of the area. I prefer keeping to myself a lot and I dont think anything is wrong with that. My ex was a loner too. We spent all of free time together and it didnt bother us. I think we had strong connect and just preferred just to be with one another. If you guys enjoy each others company and have no need for others I personally think that is normal. Most ppl think you need a bunch of friends and have to hang out every night of the week but that just isnt so. Be the way you are and dont try to change your b/f.
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Greek are you? I believe everyone, Christians included have become more and more of this world instead of trying to keep themselves in touch with God or their loved ones. How many of us only see our families (extended) once or twice a year. When I was a child my father and my uncle spent a great deal of time together and his 3 boys and I and my 2 sisters would play and have a great time. Today I live 30 miles from 1 sister and only see her a couple of times a year. I think God intended us to spend more time cultivating our relationship with Him and with our family and instead we cultivate our wallets. When do we take our families back and leave the worldly things to the world to handle?
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hey, the same as you, we all have the same problems love, they always hurt the ones who do all the running etc, the ones that move away get star treatment. I have been like you, still am, I stopped trying with my lot, the phone line goes both ways I think, my lot only use it when they want something!! choose not to let them hurt you, find friends you can choose. don't expect anything from your family and then you can't be hurt.
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Yes, I have met someone that has so much in common with me.  It's as if we have known each other for years.  We have the same beliefs, values, and morals.  Our family life is similiar.  I think that you can meet a friend almost any where.  It's not some hard to fathom idea!  I believe everything is orchestrated by God, and if it's meant for your paths to cross; then you'll meet.  Even if it's miles away, and a unseen face!