if a friend of your's calls your girlfriend a b itch and was serious and mean about it what would you do?
130579
Look him in the eye and say something like, "Don't be like that, man."
594140
The best thing you can do is approach your friend and tell him how you feel. You don't want to ruin the whole trip because of one person. If he understands then you can ask him to possibly go with her another time. Either that or you could tell him that you aren't fond of seeing hm all over his girlfriend and that you would like it if he stopped. I have been in this position before and what I did was tell her that it bothered me that they did that because it was disrespectful to me and my other friends. Perhaps you could try something similar to that. But what you really need to do is approach him and tell him how you are feeling. Don't bottle the feelings up. That's not good for your mental health.
247605
Tell her face to face that as her friend you feel it is important that she listen to you, then tell her exactly how you are interpreting the situation and warn her that you are worried that all he is out to do it take advantage of her.
672414
If she's not acting exactly warm and fuzzy towards you when she's with her friends, then that almost definitely means she feels pressure from them. Maybe they don't like -your- friends/reputation, myabe they feel you aren't good enough for her or maybe they're just plain jealous.\n\nThe fact that she's touchy-feely when alone with you means she probly does dig you... but the fact that she doesn't 'own' you in front of her friends is troubling.\n\nYou need to ask her point-blank how she feels about you, if she's serious. If she says she is, but then goes on with this mixed-messages crap, I say lose her and lose her quick.\n\nHowever... there is a difference between a couple of close girl friends venting to eachother in a serious round of private girl talk, and the queen witch grilling you in front of a live audience. It sounds like it's safe to say she's crossed that line, though.
194799
Friends are gold boyfriends are silver! If it was her flirting with him then be upset. On experience men are the unreliable ones! Speak to your friend make her understand how you feel she'll be aware in future that it upsets you and if you have a strong enough relationship with your boyfriend then speak to him and tell him how it made you feel because maybe just maybe it was a bit of fun and innocent, but if you don't discuss it you will never know and you will get more and more paranoid! Good luck!
159921
I've had a few platonic female friends.  I've given some hugs and some backrubs.  I've never kissed them.  Your girlfriend crossed the line.  Why would she tell you that "his little thingy got hard"?!?  Definitely past the line.\n\nIt sounds like she is playing games and is at the least trying to make you feel jealous.  At the worst, she is shopping for another boyfriend and just wants to keep you on the line.\n\nIt's hard to convey all the intricacies of a relationship on these little questions.  But from the little you've revealed, I would dump her and cut off all contact.  Until she grows up, she is not worthy to date seriously.
374017
I would be offended because I know for a fact that what I said was not true. But even if I was lying, I wouldn't be offended. This girl sounds like bad news and she doesn't deserve a friend like you. Don't waste your time being friends with someone who puts words in your mouth and tries to spoil your reputation. Continue to make new friends who won't talk a lot of mess and will always be there for you and support you. I hope this helps. Good luck.
659968
sloppy seconds!!!\n\nJust say no.  She's been around and\nall your friends and the guy around the block know how she kisses, etc.  Yuck.
314262
Yes, I agree with the fact that it's his responsiblity to tell her himself, that is was inappropriate, late at night, and disrespectful to you. He needs to confront her, tell her these things, and also, he should actually agree with how you feel about it, because it should just be you that's upset. He should feel discusted with her, as well. That chick needs her own damn boyfriend or husband, and needs to stop messing with yours!
56522
Honestly, do you really believe that she is your friend? If I were you, I would tell her how inconsiderate she is for actually dating someone she *KNEW* I had the hots for. I could see if she *didn't* kno, but she *DID*! That's so foul and disrespectful, and truly, I would re-evaluate this friendship with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me! If you allow your "friends" to continue to disregard your feelings, you're going to have a hard life ahead. Friends *DON'T* do things such as that. Guard your heart, hon. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
450219
No i dont think that your being cheated on. Your friend was just joking around.If he starts to get to close to your girlfriend then be watchful.But it sounded like a joke.
336069
Imagine how you would feel if some guy was going after your girlfriend.  Then find someone new.\n\nOr be a weirdo and wait around until they break up.
526269
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
69135
I would tell him exactly how I feel in front of his girlfriend. If they breakup, it's his fault for bieng such a low life. You deserve better! Move on. A real friend would not put you in that type of situation.
19457
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
621553
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
294989
She's obviously a desperate dog, who has nothing better to do with her life than try to harrass you. Whatever you do, if you love him, DO NOT badger him and DO NOT start feeling insecure, that is what she wants, you have to trust your man, make this experiance bring you closer together. He will respect you more for being totally honest with him and standing by his side.  The next time she calls you laugh at her and let her know how stupid she is being, make her realise that is why he is with you and not with her