I am bi but I am afraid that ppl wont want ot be friends with me .because of who I am
127849
Sexuality doesn't come into it... it's "you" people like, not whoever you fancy!
269480
I have several female friends and I am married..there is nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite sex,in fact it helps you to get their views on things..specially relationships..ignore the people that make the gay remarks they are shallow..just remember you can never have enough friends..and I am sure she is more of a friend than the ones calling you names
571315
don't worry - everything you want to be is ok. its your decision - even though sometimes it get hard if you have people around you who would not accept your lifestyle....
359216
u need to trust of yourself and trust of other
152976
i had the same problem,and it wasn't good hey. maybe someone you trusted hurt you in someway(just an example) and now you find it hard to open up to others and let them in. well you have to learn to accept the fact that you are an amazing person who deserves friendship and love. you deserve good people around you,you deserve the pleasure of being yourself around others and forming relationships with people you care for, because you are your own person,you owe it to yourself to form relationships with people you feel for.
495428
you should hangout with your friends\nand not try to be something youre not
326065
I agree! If your friends are making fun of you then they aren't true friends! I have had sexual identity issues myself in the past. It took me years to become comfortable with the fact that I like women as well as men and also become open about it. I try to surround myself with positive influences; people who will love me for me. People who will accept and support me no matter what! If they don't like my lifestyle they can f*** off. Why would I want to put myself in a situation that is harmful to my emotional health? Neither should you! Talk to your friends and tell them how their words make you feel! If they still make fun of you then you should find new friends ASAP. Try going to your local university and see if they have any trans-sexual support groups. Also try searching on-line for websites that support alternative lifestyles. I know what it's like and I know how important it is to surround yourself with good friends! You might also want to becareful who you choose to come out to. I don't necessarily blast out to the world about my sexual identity (although i just did ;=) ) but if I think someone is going to become my friend they should also know the truth. \n\nYou might want to try these sites to start:\n\nhttp://thelovelinks.com/8_Alternative_dating_sites.shtml\n\nhttp://www.mygaypartner.com/\n\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/tgusarights/
623024
Be who you are. You will not expect to be accepted by the society easily. People will see you as queer, that is definite, but don't force yourself to change in order for the society to accept you. I would say take things as it comes. I too, lives in a country where gays are not accepted in society. I told myself, I will show them that we are no different from anyone because we both loved. I have a few friends know that I'm a bisexual. Well, I do not tell them myself, as in initate the topic, they started it first. They would ask me: " You have not got any gf yet....as you gay?" I would smile at them and say I'm a bi. You would be surprise of teir reaction. They are all my good friends now. They have known me long enough to know what my character is. Time tells all. You need not need the whole world to accept you, most impt, you accept yourself. As time goes, your friends who treasure you will accept you too. \nI think the hardest part is how to break this news to your family. I would not forget the nevousness I had that time when i confess tis to my parent. I knew this would break their heart, but the last person I wouldn't want to keep in the dark is my parent. They have accept it....I guess. Though I believe they still pinned on the hope that i would get a gf instead (haha).\nBottom line is: Don't brood over it. If you know what you want to be, then be the one whom you want to be. Be true to yourself, and gradually you will find friends who will be true to you. I shared your woes, and I hope to share my joy with you.
591631
I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
531527
Dont worry about it....let the little things in your life go...because your going to have plenty.\n\nDont let them, make you who and what you are....and most of all dont let your parents choice of having sex with people of different races [which produced you] get to your head.....sure bi people do look good, but dont let your insides ruin what your ourside have going for it.....be modest and humble.
201234
NO ITS NOT WRONG I DONT BLAME YOU BUT YOU MIGHT WANT TO LET THE PEOPLE THAT HANG OUT WITH YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARENT THE PERSON THEY THINK YOU ARE AND MAYBE YOU COULD FIND NEW PEOPLE TO HANG OUT WITH THAT ARE MORE LIKE YOU.
28222
Don't worry about it. Keep active in what interests you. Volunteer if you can. You will find someone who likes you for who you are. Besides, freindship is a valuable treasure.
378755
u say it how it is\n\nand if they dont accept your for ur sexuality then they aren't ur eal friends
58342
Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
192273
A piece of advice from me to you, and I swear by this!!!\n\nIf people don't like you for who you are, they can go jump off a bridge!!!\n\nBe cute, have fun, and don't let other people make you feel bad.  You are you, and they should accept that, and you should accept yourself for who you are too.
649282
Gon into chat rooms and start talking to other bi females, as you get more comfortable with it, ask if there is any living in your area, you could maybe meet them in a club, and go from there.
211236
In my opinion do what makes you happy.If your gay your gay if your bi your bi your sexuality has nothing to do with who you are as a human being,people will either understand or they won't but at least you'll know who your true friends are.If your family can't except you as you are then do they trully love you????