we just got something started and it happen that i need to come to the UK,so how can i tell her or convince her that we belong together. she likes me alot and its the same from my side
133844
Send her a return ticket ,like that when she comes over you can do your best to convince her and if it doesn't work she can always fly back.Its a risk but its worth it.
513234
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
485408
Have guts and tell her you love her and if she ask you why you denied it before tell her you were shy so was unable to convey your feeling for her. I tell you she will smile and accept your answer & you although you are native of different place/culture/language/caste & onething more dont forget me to invite for your marriage!
603520
if u have girl friend in u.s.a , u have a big opportunity to go in u.s.a than UK\nu can get UK or u.s.a by scholarship,applying..\nu can get also by marriage,visiting....\nyea! search the job in u.s.a, u can get  in u.s.a  much opportunity than UK \ndon't worry  much about it.\ngood luck
324914
Tell her you love and respect her, and ask if she will marry you. She should feel very pleased.
617747
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
475415
tell her that you will listen to anything she needs to talk about. and that you are there for her no matter what. tell her that she should go to therepy and if she wants you to you will go with her.
476331
Spend more time with her, and if the chemsitry is right, then you'll both make the right moves!\n\n-Ryan
434697
Well by just arrived, does that mean you are here on a temp Visa? \n\nMy husband is from London, he came here on a temp Visa and then we got married. Your best bet is to contact an immigration lawyer. \n\nPlease, do it legally.
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heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
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i understand your pain and frustration i just wish my ex saw how much i cared for him then maybe he wouldnt be in the uk, i waited a long time for a guy like him, and i hate it but know one i meet is like him, you do your part you tell her its up to her to listen.\ni really hope it works out well for you and she opens up more to you and understands the way you feel for her.\ngood luck and take care
159817
First share your feelings, ideas, thoughts, lifestyle with her...try to be a good friend of her and then tell her that You Love Her very much
58902
don'T propose, don't tell her you love her show it - have fun together > then she will totally fall in LOVE with YOU!\n\nALL THE BEST!
105338
Apply for a visit.  Study our way of life.  Be sponsor by someone from here.  Marry someone from here.Apply for citizenship when you get here.  Study here.  Apply to one of our colleges.\nYes, you can have dual citizenship.  I have a lot of English friends, some live here in USA and some still live in England.
602071
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
362117
Woah, you've asked a lot there.  Since you (a) are an alien in the UK, (b) your bride is not from the UK at all and (c) you want to get married on foreign soil, you've set up a very sophisticated, difficult immigration problem.  Consult a barrister in the U.K. first.
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First off ... how old are you? your spelling and and grammar is awful. \n\nI think he sees you as a easy way in get into this country (basically you are his passport).  \n\nDon't let him fool you, he will be acting that he loves you, and he will properly ask you to marry him!!  Sorry to sound so down about it all hun, but the truth hurts! \n\nI am sure you could find a decent English man over here, who will want to date you for being you, not as an easy target to get into the country.