Suppose you are a lender and asked for a loan by him - would you refuse the loan on the basis of general impressions of people associated with him that he is not a good recovery prospect ?
131712
trust your spidy sence. I have found that in all my dealings with people that you have to trust your gut instinct. call it esp or whatever but the human mind can read things in people on a subconcious level. However if a gang of hoods and thugs ask's to borrow money id think twice!
2719
Credit is nothing more than an agreement, a promise.  If you failed to pay in the past, and you want to get someone to loan to you again, you have to repay what you borrowed.  If you are going to instead see how little you can pay to eliminate your past debt, your new lender has got to think that you will treat him the same way.\n\nPay your debt...or suffer the consequences.  As you said, you made some bad previous choices.  Either own up to them (and pay) or work through the various options of being a renter until your bankruptcy is discharged, etc.\n\nIt's hard to get a new lender to believe you are credit-worthy (aka, "trustworthy") if your primary goal is to *NOT* pay your debt in full.
307404
Don't worry they will figure it out and demand it back right away.That happened to me with a student loan one time but I didn't take the money I called them and told them about it because I knew they would figure it out and I would have to pay it back right away, best to not touch it and let them know.
411835
You can't be serious, you want to sue someone for trying to help you communicate with the world?  I know it can be frustrating, but sheesh, nobody is perfect.  So, they misunderstood...that is okay, just clarify.  And, I don't think it is such a bad thing that they try to treat you nicely...hell, I wish people went out of their way to treat me w/ kid gloves.  If you have a problem w/ a particular person's attitude, just let them know...like anyone would.  They are just trying to be helpful.  What's is so bad about somebody feeling good about helping you and other people with disablities....geez, is that such a bad thing?  How would you prefer them to feel and how would you prefer to be treated?  With a cold shoulder?  I don't know if you have a case, but with the way the world works, you probably would--thanks for driving up my tuition/medical bills, etc b/c of your frivolous lawsuit.
323305
DOES YOUR EX WANT TO REFIN?IF HE DOES HAVE HIM EMAIL ME I DO MORTGAGE FOR PEOPLE WITH BAD CREDIT JOHNG@OLDMERCHANTS.COM
92000
As far as I know if one of your credit rating is good, then it wont matter if the other's is bad - I think its like some loans.  Co-signer w/ good credit = :D
394567
I agree...because what if they call later down the road to verify again your work habits or ethics, it's not gonna look good if your friend is like 'huh?'.  Ask him if you can substitute a different type of reference.  But honesty is usually the best policy.
582139
Yes I agree, check their feedback and their rating. If the comments are negative it's best not to take the chance. But If no one else has had a problem with them then you're not likely to either.
120589
I had been placed in a similar situation before...I did not take my (former) friend to court...\n\nWhen I loan an amount to a friend, I prepare myself to accept the eventuality of not getting paid. It will really hurt a lot if you will expect something to be paid and it will not come at all...\n\nBut let it serve as a lesson for future decisions. Anyway, you said that "it was only 500 bucks"...\n\nSince the amount is not much, don't let it devastate you...\nI am sure that any small misfortune that you may have experienced will be easily replaced by having a positive attitude.
129991
I know it would be easy for you to give in and take him back, it could benefit you so much, but I think you know deep down that it'd be wrong. How would he react if you told him the truth that you would really appreciate him back to help but at this stage you can't promise him anything else.
497245
Lender is obligated to tell you. Did you ask?
37488
To purchase a rehab home, yes, in order to resell and make a good profit?  Yes.  However I would not want to deal with someone about to be foreclosed upon, because I think, in my opinion, that you would be preying upon someone in a desperate situation where they might not be making rational choices because they feel they have no other options.  \n\nThere usually are other options, and if I was in that position then I would contact a local mortgage broker, explain my situation and see if they could help in any way before I "sold" my house for cash to get caught up on bills that are behind.
630043
since he was in contempt of court by not abiding by the judgment, and you lack of spousal support was based on him paying the loan, i would think that you should be able to re-visit the order now and have it amended.
413368
Yes.  Never trust someone who calls you up and says "you're approved/you won/you're hired -- but only if you send us money." \n\nResearch the life out of any loan you get off the net.  Your bank or local credit union is a much better source.
45323
No... when someone calls in reference to their employment you can't "slander" them. But if they ask, would you rehire them you can say NO! Or if they ask if they were on time... if they weren't you can say no to that also.
317515
It means they not only accept but encourage people with bad credit ratings to apply.  The reason they do this is because they like to charge outrageous interest rates to those with bad credit, knowing those people have little choice but to accept the outrageous interest rates because they can't get approved by regular banks & loan companies.  It is a good risk for them because they make so much money from desperate people who have nowhere else to go.
413777
think how you would feel if the situation were reversed? but i know how you feel, i take numbers even though i have no interest in calling that person, i mean some guys cant take no for an answer. all you can do is tell the truth.