And I don't mean in a romantic way, we got that down thanks. I'm looking for something that he can really appreciate and respect intellectually etc.
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past experience would say that, I woke up in the morning and went out to the garage just tinkering around.  Then all of a sudden I heard back up signals I went to the garage door opened it and behold there was a flatbed towing truck!!  On top of it was a 1937 dodge business coupe (a wreck!) as far as my wife was concerned one of the best memories I will ever have!! I had driving by this car in that field for 3 years and she took it upon herself without me knowing purchased it. So if  you really do listen to this person you will really know what to do! PS that was eight years ago it is on the road and we have completed 4 more good luck!!
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Think about what he talks about most of the time and find a gift that relates to that. if you want to make it personal, find something he's really passionate about or something that he really cares and values alot, that can relate or be similar. Most importantly, its the thought that counts.
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Being gracious never hurts. "Congratulations on attaining adulthood" could be considered appropriate.
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cologne. \n\nyou can visit the akademiks.com website and check out the style of clothes they have and just buy similarly styled stuff at local department stores if you can't find an akademiks store near where you live.\n\nyou can also get him a book, for example, "organizing from the inside out" by julie morgenstern (one of my favorite books).\n\nthe dvd boxed-set of "the godfather 1, 2 and 3" (all men love this movie).\n\nmake personalized coupons like "one free back rub from me" or "one hug with no questions asked" or "one load of laundry - done" and put them in a box and give it to him.
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Before he comes over, sprinkle red and white rose petals trailing from your front door, to the living room. Watch your-guyses fave movie together, and after that, go out to eat to a fancy resteraunt. I know it doesn't seem like a present to you, but it'll mean a whole lot to him <3 hope it works out!
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If he likes to travel get him something travel related.  It doesn't have to be expensieve, just something to show you care about him and konw what he likes.
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Maybe a few new movies? A nice warm sweater? Books? Does he like cologne, I have 2 new favorites, Ralph Lauren Polo Double Black and Carolina Hererra for Men, smell so good! Maybe you could put together a Scrapbook of pictures of your years together? I hope you find something!! Good Luck and Happy Holidays!!
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my bf loves it when i cook him dinner and rent a movie i know he likes. something romantic doesn't have to be really extravagant. anything you do he will probably like. good luck!
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I want to be surprised with anything sentimental or romantic.Nothing expensive maybe something handmade so I know it was more thoughtful.
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if i were the guy i would want something from the heart. you know? somthing that will make me realy remember this valentines day. it doesnt have to be something that costs a lot, just something that lets him know, u luv him.
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How about a card and take him to his favorite restraunt.\nor even a gift card anything will lighten up his day trust me
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If you don't care too much about being sentimental, I'd say it's always safe to go for a Best Buy giftcard or something along those lines, then he can pick out whatever he wants and you won't have to worry if he really likes it or not.
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get him a good blackberry
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You will probably get a bunch of sexual recommendations here, and if that's appropriate to your relationship, go ahead and show your appreciation that way if you want.\n\nBut I am going to suggest something completely different.  I think you should just accept his remarkable gift quietly.  You have told him "again and again," so he understands your gratitude.  Now, I think you show more by leaving it alone.  This is the kind of thing you can never really make up to him, unless, god forbid, he faces something similar.  \n\nSo, don't try, and more importantly, don't even pretend that there is a way. Just accept it as the loving gift that it was.  Go on with the knowledge that this guy really cares for you.  Hold that close, and let it permeate through your heart in a way that will show in a thousand little ways over the coming months and years.  That will ultimately mean a lot more than any attempt to "pay him back."  Let it just be part of the glue that binds together the rest of your relationship and helps get you over the tough spots in the future.\n\nGood luck!!
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he probably already knows that you appreciate him, or he wouldn't have gotten all that nice stuff for you, just thank him, and show off what he gave you, (my boyfriend got me this, or my boyfriend did this for me) i think that just you enjoying what he did for you is enough
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You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
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Flowers are nice. Depends on how secure he is and if he actually likes flowers. I like the thought behind the gift much more than the gift. If someone remebered that I said I liked something once. Or paid attention to things I like and got some (like Zero brand candy bars) Stuff like that. But that's just me.