Not that I dont want to go to heaven, but what if others in my family are not there are not going to be there.......
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:}\nIt's important you make sure they are.\nwhy would you want to get out of a burning building if you were not sure your whole family would.
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If I loved them my family could go screw themselves because its my life not theirs. Unless you cant tell ive been thru it
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Gosh, how do you get such a depressing reasoning out of the religions?  We're being tested here on earth, and it gets tough, but life isn't just all about pain and suffering, hopefully.  Maybe yours is though??  There are still so many wonderful things in life to celebrate, and having a baby is one of them.  I have a little 11 months old, and he is the light of my life, and I will never regret bringing him into this world.  Life in this world is not the perfect state, but we are all going toward that perfect state - the afterlife - but what we do in this life will reflect our next one.  If you are so sad, and have such a bad outlook on your life, I hope you get some relief in family and friends.  Children are the most wonderful thing in this world, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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offcourse why not  u may  see them in heaven
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Yes, my uncle is in the hospital dying of cancer and we have some family members already arguing over who gets what, that is so wrong, I don't want anything, but him to stay here or to be with God so he's no longer in pain, he served time in the army for many years, but has no life insurance and we have no clue how we are going to pay for his funeral when he pass's....this is to much stress ...pray for us...
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I can see that you are not having all the fun that you can stand.\nWhen or if you decide to recieve Christ as your Saviour then life will take on some meaning and you will begin to understand what is going on here on planet earth.  When you die, it either gets very very good or very very bad.
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It's not death that I fear, it's the hole my death will leave in the lives of my fanily and friends. Because even though we, as Christians, look forward to being with our Lord in Heaven, we know our loved ones will miss us and we are caught in a quandry. We look forward to Heaven, but we don't want to cause pain to our loved ones.
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This may not be much comfort, but most people have screwed up families.   However there are only a few like you and I that will admit it.    My family is the same, sometimes it gets so bad I have to stay away from some of them for months on end.    I have learned that they may be my family, but sometimes you have to put some distance between you and  them for survival..
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If you think that you'r family would understand tell them, if not don't. But it is not good to live in lie. They wont probably understand you, but if they love you they must understand you. and you must understand that it may be hard for them. Remember one simple thing : YOU CAN NOT DENY WHO OR WHAT YOU ARE ! And the fact that you are a normal human being, loved and wanted by God (even if you are an atheist)
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I don't think they all do that, but maybe coz some of them r scared of what will happen after death.
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Try to spend as much time with my family and tell them how much I love them and will miss them. All other things don't matter to me.
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I believe God gives us the desire to live, or wouldn't we all be committing suicide just to get to Heaven? I am not afraid of death, although I do enjoy my family and want to stay here as long as the Lord will let me.  I have faith in Jesus as my Savior. He paid for my sins with His blood and my faith in what He did for me at Calvary gets me to Heaven. Nothing that I can do - could do that.
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Do you have family?  I would stay close to your family, and your husband's family, and lean on them as much as possible to help you through this, at least initially....
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sorry to hear that, my parents are still alive, i dont want to think about them dying yet. Just pray for them that their souls may rest in peace.
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I plan on spending eternity in Heaven with my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ!\n\nYou are right that the Bible says that Money is the root of all Evil and you cant take it with you!\n\nPeople shouldnt take for granted that they are going to be here tomorrow..b/c NONE of us are Promised tomorrow or even the next minute or second.  Take the time to Thank GOD when you open your eyes and you can put your feet on the floor!\n\nAnd for those ppl who are lost and dont have Jesus Christ, Don't keep putting it off to accept him into your life, b/c like I said NONE OF US are PROMISED the next sec, minute or tomorrow! And I'm sure you don't want to burn for eternity!\n\nGOD BLESS all of YOU! \nWith love in the LORD, ME!
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I'm not afraid of death, but i don't want to die now because i know if i did i would go to hell.  Believing in God kinda makes it hard to accepting death if you have not turned your life over to him. After i get baptized i can die, but right now being alive is looking good.
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WELL I'M A CHRISTIAN SO I KNOW WHERE I'M GOING. SOMEDAY WHEN THESE PEOPLE DIE AND ARE STANDING BEFORE GOD THEY WILL SEE. GOD STILL LOVES EVERYONE, EVEN THE NON BELIEVERS, HE GIVES EVERYONE A CHANCE TO ACCEPT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AS THEIR LORD AND SAVIOR, IF THEY DON'T IT BREAKS HIS HEART. WE ARE ALL GIVEN A CHANCE AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIVES, SOME WILL MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE AND SOME WILL MAKE THE WRONG CHOICE.\nWHEN MY GRANDMA WAS LAYING IN THE HOSPITAL SHE SAID SHE COULD SEE JESUS AND SHE POINTED TO THE CORNER IN THE ROOM, SHE SAID HE HAS COME TO TAKE HER HOME, THEN SHE PEACEFULLY PASSED AWAY. SHE WENT TO BE W/ THE LORD! PEOPLE ARE FOOLS IF THEY DON'T BELIEVE THERE IS A GOD, I MEAN LOOK AROUND YOU AT THIS BIG WORLD, LOOK INTO YOUR CHILDREN'S EYES, HOW CAN ANYONE SAY THEIR IS NO GOD?