there is this slutty girl that comes to town in the summer and on holidays(HER PARENTS OWN AHOUSE HERE)LAST SUMMER I FOUND OUT HE WENT TO SEE HER BECAUSE SHE CALLED OUR HOUSE LOOKING FOR HIM AND TOLD ME NOW EVERYTIME HE LEAVES THE HOUSE I WONDER IF HES SEEING HER.iF i ASKED HE DENIES IT.aND I FEEL LIKE LATELY HE HASNT BEEN PAYING MUCH ATTENTION TO ME AND WHEN HE GOES SOMEWHERE HE TAKES LONGER THAN HE SHOULD.bUT HE SWEARS THAT HE WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON ME OR DO ANYTHING TO BREAK US UP.WE ALSO JUST HAD A BABY TOGETHER AND I KNOW HE WOULDNT WANT ME TO LEAVE AND TAKE HER SO I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK,AM I JUST BEING OVERLY JELOUS?
138224
You can tell a guy has cheated by feeling his balls. I know that sounds crazy but the longer he has not had sex then the fuller they will be but after he has ejaculated they will be smaller as they have been emptied. Hope this helps and all men cheat but they can't help it. My boyfriend of 6 years swore he would never cheat on me but I found out that he lied and he has cheated on me several times. Good luck!.x
632274
o  hell nawll gurl forget that sucka....he sounds like an arrogant playa if he would say some sh@t like that straight out...like your lucky to have him and should just be happy that he still talks to you...gurl you can find somebody thatll treat you good even after the chase is over, because if he treats you like a trophy after he done claimed you as his girl then what you think he gone do afta yall done had sex or spend the money up hell be gone out the door faster than you can blink....the truth is when you first meet he lied and tricked you...probably made you think that he was romantic and sensitive when really hes been taking notes form the playas handbook....most of my guy friends say they do stuff like that to make the girl feel secure so then they can get her to trust them then they hit it and leave....and you only been dating for 3 weeks i can understand his actions afta a couple om months but weeks gurl you can do much betta..trust me i hang with a lot of guys and this guy is looking out for himself an only hisself
564660
Get your money back, then drop him. It honestly just doesn't seem like he's trying to spend time with you at all or even try and figure out his "true intentions". To be honest with you, I think he already knows his true intentions, he just doesn't want to tell you. If he really didn't know, he'd be talking to you still even if he was trying to figure it all out. As for that afternoon that he didn't show up, it doesn't take much to call or e-mail, he could have at the least done one of those things. Heck, I call my girlfriend if I'm going to be a few minutes late for getting to her place to see her. I consider it a requirement.
136492
Sounds kinda fishy, i'd think he already did something with this chick and even more so if you said he said she was a slut and all this crap and now all of a sudden he is friends with her and hasn't told you when they went out ??  They go to lunch once in a while and he claimed she used to wear slutty outfits ?  Sounds like they have the flirting down and maybe something more.  Do some investigating, you can never be too sure, these women know how to get what they want and they.  If I were you I would talk to my husband about your insecurities and tell her he would not like it if it was the other way around and to pls quit the friendship with her, because believe me if it hasn't happened yet it is well on its way.
595898
If he says he doesn't want to break up with you. Then he doesn't. It's summer. He has a right to also rest and go on vacation withhis family or whatever. He still wants you. Don't break up such a beautiful thing for that. He didn't cheat on you or degrade you, he just is going on vacation. That doesn't deserve a break up. Be individual and do your own thing to. Good luck ;) and I hope you stay with him ;)!
236449
No. He's basically hiding things from you. You feel like he should be able to tell you anything. But because he's keeping things from you, its like he doing something behind your back, like cheating. You may be feeling a little insecure but its only because he's making you feel that way.
430700
To be honest with you, it sounds like he is just trying to get money out of you, but not truly wanting to commit to you or be to with you. \nHang on to your hard-earned money... & tell him that you feel it's best to save the money for your trip to see him... then see if he wants to continue being in the relationship.\nBy doing it that way, then you'll know for sure if he was truly wanting you... or just wanting your money... don't let him take advantage of you.
231163
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
32427
Ouch this a hurtfull situation. But first you need to confront him and find out whats going on and dont let him play you for stupid. You next person to confront is her! She needs to know what she is dealing and find out what she is doing. He may think its harmless but you guys have 2 kids together and it sounds like he is pretty seriously committed to you. He should have no reason to call her and break up a happy home. You seriously might want to rethink the whole relationship. Maybe even give him a scare and say you are leaving him because you found out he was talking to "that girl" if he loves you he will stop and wont ever do it again. And seriously think about it he has already cheated on your with this girl and she is obbviously still on his mind. You should have cut it off when he first cheated.
191180
don't trust him too easily, people can change, but most only pretend too. i'd give him a chance but don't get to attached to fast girl, he might just be telling you one thing and doing another
124392
If he wont leave her, and claims to like you still, he either just wants to be friends with you, he has the delusional thoery he can date both you and her, and/or he wants you to be his cheating partner. Go on to someone else, but don't be closed to letting your new relationship progress.
207114
My first impression is yes. However, it is not cool to jump to conclusions. You might want to confront him about it and ask him why he limits his times with you. During the talk you could tell him that you expect more. Tell him what you expect and if he is not willing to meet your expectation you might want to consider moving on. You deserve someone who cares about you for who you are and not for the good time you can show them. There is so much more to you than sex, and if a guy can't see that and acknowledge it, later for him.
316747
Don't worry about what you did so much.  He flaked on you when he bailed on the road trip.  His phone had to be working, so He was blowing you off.  He hasn't been returning your calls until he finds out you slept with someone.  Being a guy and see this happen many times, I am almost certain that he has another girl on the side.  If a guy is into you, he can't wait for you to call.  he tries to figure out excuses to call you.  When his phone rings and he knows its you, he will immediately answer.  If he misses the call, he will call you back just as soon as possible.  It doesn't sound like your man does this, so you don't owe him anything.  If anything, he still owes you.  I wouldn't worry if he trusts you, you shouldn't be trusting him.  He isn't acting like a boyfriend, he is acting like he uses you for sex and when he ain't getting it elsewhere, he comes calling on you.  This all smells fishy to me.
334327
Reading some of the replies you got here today you got a lot of good advice.  How is your relationship ? That should be the first thing you think about. Does he feel obligated or quilted by you to stay around because of your daughter? Do you say things to him like if you don;t stay here you won't see your kid?  Does the only time he pays attention to you is when & if you can get him alone in the bedroom ? Girlfriend, if your answer is yes to one or more of hese above questions you don't have a good relationship.   Its just an obligation thing..\n\nJust because you think you want to have sex all the time does not qualify you as a sex accident or even a nympho.  Darling if he ain't intrested in anything your trying then you better move on.. Be careful out there & use protection at 21 you don't need another kid or any dieseases. \n\nPutting your child in front of the tv for entertainment ain't to healthy either.  Maybe thats what he is uncomfortable with.. Why not ask him . Plan a date night, get someone to watch your child for a couple of hours, go out so something fun together, you never know he just may want to stay home & have sex.. Some people can't relax when they know their kid is up , maybe doesn't like to get interupted during sex or have the kid walk in on you or start crying.  Nothing like a good crying to ruin a good hard on.
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It is a good idea that he doesn't meet her till you are both sure where your relationship is headed. You don't want to confuse your daughter. Your daughter could also become attached to him and if you both decide to end the relationship it's one less thing you have to worry about.
669993
you've been seeing my husband??? Just kidding! Personally I think I would want to know if it were my husband. Mine is away at work alot, and because I am at home with out 3 small children and he is far enough away i can't just get up and go check on him everyday even if I wanted to. \nThere are way too many STD's floating around out there and if he's been moonlighting with you then he probably has others too, and because of my children I would like to be assured that he isn't bringing something home to me, I have this strong desire to watch them grow up for some reason:)\n Call her, don't be rude, just simply say you know her husband and she might want to ask him what he's been up to, then tell the bas@#$ to hit the road, but mention on his way out that when he gets home he will have some explaining to do!
65368
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires