From what I understand, women don't really care about looks when it comes to sex. As long as the guy isn't sick or deformed they don't care if he's ugly, a complete jerk or a loser. Is this true? I'm talking about sex only whether or not there's a relationship before or after.
138710
depends what the women is like if she's an easy women she will just want to have sex and enjoy it
109771
i would be lying if i said looks do not matter. how a guy looks and carries himself is what draws your eyes to him in the first place. but after the initial attraction, there has to be substance in him. his personality, his values and beliefs, his attitude. what's a good-looking guy with a bad-as  attitude or personality? zero.\nhe has to be one who values his family and cares for them. he has to have a sense of humor and be easy-going but at the same time be as steady as a rock. in what way? he has to be a constant fixture in your life. not just in bed, but in all ways... even when you drag him shopping!:)
93763
looks without character is not enough. character without looks is much better. but unfortunately the 1st thing guys looks at is the girl's looks n then see if their characters suit them. it's sad but true.. and also logical coz the 1st thing they see is the looks. they can't know the character right away, and knowing that guys are impatient, good luck for the not that pretty girls!
166525
What I look for in a man is for him to be honest, ready to have a serious relationship, a great personality, ability to communicate, basically all the necessary stuff. As far as looks or how he is at sex, I would have to say looks. There has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex to even happen. I am lucky enough to have a man that has it all. Great personality, easy to be with, extremely good looking, and incredible at sex. Usually, if the relationship is good, then the sex sucks...or, if the sex is great, the relationship sucks, but lucky for be both the sex and relationship are great!
583633
It works both ways. When I was young & thin I had plenty of big women accusing me of being a slut & everything else bad when I did not even date! At one time I was dating someone & they quit seeing me to go out with some big girl just because she would sleep around & I wouldn't!   \nAnd what size you are has nothing to do with how loving you are toward your partner. Jerks come in all sizes, big & small.  And face it: Some peopel are not going to like you no matter how you look.\n\nThe majority of people that have weight problems do not have have them BECAUSE of medical problems---they have medical problems because of weight problems. I am not near as thin as I would like to be & I never will be but this does not mean that I sit on my butt all day making the problem worse. At least I try!   \n\nIt seems like you need to try to work on that & your self-esteem!
136144
Well looks are only part of it.  I know that one thing I find sexy about models is their confidence level.  I've met some women that wouldn't be considered very attractive physically by society standards that really shine because of confidence.  Of course there are guys that are so superficial that all they care about are looks but those guys are typically losers.
488758
Men like you give the good men a bad name. Why not try the old standard "Beauty before brains" or "brains before beauty" question?\n\nWould you want a woman to choose you based on your small penis, but ability to make her laugh? Or would you want a woman who loved your huge penis but your mop-water sense of humor?\n\nShallow is never good!
320759
After they find their "mate for life", many men don't care about their looks any more, and consequently, they gain weight, get out of shape, and become "couch potatoes"! What a pity..........and to the very women they used to try to look good for, and impress.
253371
Hasn't anyone told you beauty's only sking deep? Because it's true. If you really love her, she'll know and your looks won't matter to her. Personality, mind, and spirit are way better to have than a nice rear.
135683
I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
251541
Sadly, looks matter. We are biologically created to desire certain looks.\n\nPersonally, I like girls on the chubby side. They look healthier, and are sexier.\nI don't see how twigs are sexy, they look sick.
59550
"Looks" as a whole dont matter but there has to be something to attract someone. I dated a guy that wasnt that attractive BUT he had a beautiful smile and that was all it took.
69386
For me (and a lot of guys) it's all about proportions.\nThat said , there are a lot of men out there that say the fatter the better, these guys aside most (including myself) think like this:\n\nFor example, if a "fat gurl" as you put it, has no or small breasts then we probably not that interested.  In other words if her gut sticks out further than her breasts it's not good!\n\nIf however she has big breasts (ie curves in all the right places) then yeah we're probably interested.  I'm talking about real curvy women here, not huge women
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~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
322380
you know what, guys are really shalow (trust me, i am one) and pretty much all guys look at external beauty before internal beauty. how far they go at first sight, the naked image does pop in, and sometimes we cant even help it. yeah, we think about sex a lot too. its like in our genes or something
141315
i think i am recalling this from Nip tuck session 3....ugly people will be better lovers and satisfy their partners better to make for what they lack. i don't know to what degree it is true...
160039
It's hard to explain in my personal preference.  You could have a supermodel and an "average" woman, and I may choose the latter.  Looks aren't everything, but they are somewhat involved, I'm not going to lie.  Other than that, I look for a fun personality, capability to have a good conversation (serious or otherwise), attitude, and a sense of humility.  But some other guys are just in it for the looks...sad, as it may be less fulfilling.