hey ppl im very depressed and i want help ... my gf break up wid me ... and i don knw wat 2 do .. she sadi shez leavin me coz its difficult 4 me 2 understand her ... and i knw its my mistake but i want jus one more chance 2 make my mistakes correct ... plzz help me wat shud i do plzz...
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I'm very sorry to hear of this struggle you are going through. You are not the first to go through this, and are probably not alone either.\n\nWhen I go through tough times, I try one or both of two coping mechanisms that I have picked up in life:\n\n(1) Indulge yourself in something you enjoy doing (swimming, reading, running/jogging, surfing the web, watching porn, etc);\n\n(2) Talk about it with a good listener.\n\nBe well.
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you can't stop her being depressed, but you can be there for her.  be patient.  its possible she will always be like this but without you she could be worse.  try and encourage her to have fun with you but if she doesn't want to go out suggest you go round to hers. she needs people like you in her life that care about her.  good luck :)
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Oh my GOD!!! That has to be the saddest story that I have ever read on here. You poor poor fella. This is for you *A great big hug* If it helps I have some nice boobs. I hope the best for you, and you have to remember that Tomorrow WILL BE BETTER!!! It has to be. You should think about dumping that skank of a ho girlfriend You deserve a lot better and you know that you do, and you should think about going to the doctor and if you need a little help there is no shame in it, I too have been cheated on and it is the worse and most horrible feeling, I had to go on Zoloft, but the good thing is that it helps and once you can come out of the fog of depression you can see more clearly. You deserve better! Get you a plan of action and figure out what you need to do, Evalute every aspect of your life... is it time for a lifestyle change... change of job, if at all possible kick her out because adding a move on top of everything is going to be more stressful, and what a B*tch to laugh at you after what you went through, find a safer jogging route... and did you ever think that maybe that guy punched you because she is banging him? I kinda wondered that when I read, because that is just too strange that a guy would punch you for NO reason, and then she laughed on top of it... Go out with some friends or family, if you don't have any... make some, you need to surround yourself with loving and caring people. Best of luck to you, and I hope that your nose isn't broken a nice guy like you doesn't deserve that. *Another big hug and maybe a  little kiss on the cheek*
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I think you should take a break explore a little bit nothing can go wrong if your on a break your not together but your not completely broken up either so just tell her you need a little break and if you find someone else break it off
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Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser.  What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school?   C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?
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hmmmm, i thought that your gf did suicide when you left her, or am i wrong??
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If she breaks up with you again, let her go, you aren't a yo yo and deserve to be treated better(it hurts,I know when it happens, but you can't keep doing it, each time it happens, you lose some of the way you use to feel, and one day, you might just become"jaded" to things around you, so its better to start clean, than to keep playing this "game" and it seems thats what it is.)
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you've gotta understand that girls are up and down all the time, it's hormones, and seriously, there is NOTHING that we can do about it. Try to have compassion, I once had to break up with a guy, even though I still loved him, because of ... circumstances. Anyway, try to keep a level head (difficult I know) and not to wallow (even more difficult!). I just want to give you a hug and tell you that it's gonna be ok, just hang in there and most importantly: pray, most people think that today God never answers, he does. I'm living proof. He's helped me get through so much, he'll help you too.
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she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..
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HI AGAIN!..(i answered your other question..sorry it was really really long\n\nMs. Butturfly...how old are you? \n\nif u don't want medicine..go out more..have fun..talk online..to strangers like me who can help you..(NOT by meeting up somewhere) lol just u kno..talk and hopefully make u laugh..and tell u fun things to do like get some friends and go to school...don't FEEL despressed anymore..once u understand the fact that your depressed..change ur self..its like saying "once you know what your doing wrong, do it right" u understand?\ni hope this helps..\nfeel free to email me stranger person..lol i just want this world happy
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i think you should try and get out of this depression.\ndepression is not an excuse to cheat in your homework.\nif you don't feel like learning, dont learn.\nbut don't expect some one to do the thinking for you.\neducation is for your own good and noone else's.\ngoodluck and get help
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withdraw yourself for some time. don't make it worse than it already is! she is 10 years older than you. even if she loves you, she might also be totally confused now.\n\ntime will solve it.\nin any case, you did enough because you told her about your feelings. don't go crazy if she is quiet. get yourself busy with your own things for a while. maybe you can make peace some time later.\n\nlook. I also did like this with my closest male friend two weeks ago! (what a coincidence). but here the reason was different: I fell in love with HIM. and we also had a fight before that.\nof course we had, cause everybody was expecting something else from the whole relationship than he/she got!\nso it is the same: we don't talk and also don't write now.\nI told him not to!\ncause I can't take it any more, cause it hurts, cause... blahblahblah!\n\nbut the truth is that now after two weeks I calmed down and I would really want to make peace - if I only knew how!!!\n\nI think it is best you give her and yourself TIME.\n"and time can do so much...\noh myyyy love.. my darling, I hunger for\nyour touch\nalone"\n:-)\n\ncomm'on, put some good music and cheer up.\nyou are not the only one on this planet who messes up friendship for love!\nhere is another one, hellooo there!\nbut this one, over here.. ye she is female.\n \n((maybe you want a younger woman than 31? can we exchange ur ex-friends? instead of writing them poems? well, I haven't started writing poems yet, but I must tell, I am not far from it!!!\nI already sent him songs! hm.\nit is only the world cup keeping me mentally busy now, otherwise I would be writing poems and crying all day!\n\nI am OLNY 25, by the way! don't despair, the sea if full of good fresh fish!!!))
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baby girl. you are depressed. you need help.\n\nyou are a GOOD girl. you are a GOOD person.\n\nyou need your parents, family, friends -- to show you care and love you.\n\nyou need a psychologist.\n\nbut remember you are an AMAZING person. you are SWEET, you are GOOD.\n\nyour self-esteem needs uplifting through love and care of ....whoever you can get ---\n\nparents, friends, family, psychologist etc
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Girl I am so sorry and I completly understand what you are going through. I recently broke up with my FIANCE and it has been so hard not see or talking to him.  I am trying to focus more on improving myself like going to the gym and I am going to get some certifications in my job.  Basically I am tring to improve myself FOR MYSELF.  I suggest you do the same maybe join some clubs in your area to meet new people.  anyway, email me if you need someone to talk to.
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"It didn't go over well", huh ?  You mean that SHE broke up with you and you dabbled around with someone else, then you two got back together and she is ticked off ?  if that's what you are saying, then she is merely not in control of the Green-Eyed Monster.  You see, what she meant by breaking up with you was "See ?  See how much you will miss me ?  See how empty your life is without me ?" ....she didn't mean that you two were really "broken up" - it was just a test for you to see how important SHE was to you and when you went on to someone else,  - WELL - that wasn't exactly in her plans.  And she is hurt and she is angry.\n\nWell, you are not responsible for either emotion that she is feeling, although it would not hurt if you understood them.  She did this to herself.  You can empathize that she feels bad that you were able to so quickly "replace" her (because that is what she feels....and, to tell the truth....that is what happend.)  We human beings don't like to think that we are easily replaceable.  But, indeed, we are.  (Ah yes, for all our talk about "soulmates" the truth of the matter is that many people can be our "soulmate" and that means it is not quite so much destiny as timing.)  She may well have expected you to pine away after her and when you did not, she is angry.\n\nLife is all about growing up - all the way until we die.  You both have gone through an episode that should have taught you both some lessons - different lessons than the other could have learned.  Now you are back together and going forward, hopefully not backward.  (She is looking backward, by the way.)\n\nAnd, as a side note, this idea of full disclosure - telling new girlfriends or boyfriends about your past - not a good idea.  Not particularly respectful of the people in the relationships in your past.  The same holds true for interim relationships - you weren't "with" your current girlfriend during the time you were broken up, you should not share details about whatever you did in your interim relationship.  It is not her business and it is disrespectful to the other girl.  (None of this "oh, if you loved me you would share with me" - see what it got you ?  She's pissed.)\n\nAnd no, it wasn't cheating.
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YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
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IT sounds like this girl broke up with you and may be regreetting it, but due to peer pressure she cant talk to you. I know it may be hard but either say hello to her or just ignore her completly make sure she knows that you are still into her. \n\nGood luck