i have a girl friend and she told me she was a bi girl and she has dated a lot of girl before what would you do?
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Bi women are great. Definitely go for three-some. No such thing as a bi-man. Andrew Dice Clay said it best "Either you suck d--- or you do not suck d---"!
637807
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
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ask them if they would ever threesome in general, if they like the idea then mention you and your girl want to try one but need a thrid person.
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I think what she meant by ,'...and then realize I'm really straight' is that since she is confused right now, then she comes out and goes through all that, then she understands that she really was straight the whole time and it was just the girl in the three way.  But I do have to say to you suntan that if you have been having feelings about girls, other than the one you were with, how far off can you be?  I do have a suggestion.  A couple of people have eluded to this suggestion, but none have said it.  Why don't you date a girl for a while and not tell anyone.   Then if things get serious you can bring her around to a few people you can trust to feel out your friends.  You don't even have to tell them that you have always felt this way.  You can say you met her and something happened, you had to be with her.  Something like that, in your words of course!  Then maybe they will accept it easier and if your first relationship doesn't work out the door will already be open for another girl if you choose.  That's what I'd do anyway.  Good luck!  It looks like you are getting some great answers and support on here.  I really hope it all works out for you, truly.  I wish I could hug you!\n\nOh and remember, there is no shame in being bisexual.  I am not saying you are, but if that is what you end up feeling do not fight it, it's ok.
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Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
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You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
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CHICKS BEFORE DICKS!!!\n\nHave you never heard of that saying...well it is so true...ur friend will always be there but your boyfriend might now...do a big girls night out and tell her that u are sorry for taking advantage of her relationship
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You tell him to find some other girl if he can't accept you for who you are.  He is an idiot for even thinking that by him asking you could just suddenly decide to be bi.  You either are or you aren't and he can't choose.  Find your self a boyfriend who loves you for you and isn't out to change who you are.
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there was probably a good reason why she is now an ex, go for the new girl. you don't know if the new girl will be a better choice unless you try, besides, she already has a man so why should you wait? did she wait for you?
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Be honest with the girl that you are dating (before you end it)! She will have so much more respect for you if you tell her straight up whats going on. She may be upset at first, but in the end, she may not be as heartbroken, as she would be if you just break up with her, and date her friend without her knowing. Besides, if your girl and her friend remain friends, then you will still have contact with her, so end it right! She'll understand.
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If she is bi-sexual . . . she perfers both.\n\nAs for cheating . . . depends on your point of view.  If they are into 3-somes (which you shouldn't have if you are in a committed relationship) . . . this could happen . . . \n\nSince they had 3-somes . . . they are familiar with the third wheel . . . and as most 3-somes start . . . if it 2 women and 1 man . . . the 2 girls start off and the man joins them.  In woman's mind . . . since she already done it . . he wouldn't mind if she continues without him.  This will cause jealously in the relationship because the man is left out.  Thing is this could happen the other way around.\n\nThere have been cases where the woman slept with the 3rd wheel without her mate and visa versa where the man slept with the 3rd wheel without his mate.  In most cases, with friends who done that . . . they end up breaking up or divorced.
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It doesn't matter what she did with how many people, what matters is how you feel about it.\n\nYou aren't a virgin anymore. If you break up with her what is going to happen when the next girl you date finds out you did whatever you did with your current girlfriend and decides to break up with you over it.\n\nAre you any less of a boyfriend/partner/husband because you have now had sex with a girl?\n\nShe is who she is no matter what she has done in the past.  This is not her problem it is yours, so you need to find a way to get past it or you need to tell her that it is a problem and move on. But at the end of the day you are responsible.
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ok, this is tricky! It sounds like either she's bi, doesn't understand what healthy friendships entail, or she's just a fantastic friend who had her heart broken. \n   Try flipping the switch on her. For example, next time you're out and a pretty girl walks by, say something about the pretty girl like 'wow, that girl has a fantastic figure.' see how she reacts. don't say anything about a man when saying good things about women.\n\nKeep us posted, and good luck!
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She needs to decide if she's gonna cheat on her love because someone else is cute. She also needs to decide if she's gonna continue to go out with men she doesn't really have feelings for. Since it's not the first time, it sounds like she isn't really in love.
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Advice from a bisexual woman, don't ever make "girlfriends" with your girlfriends if you are interested in have a relationship (physical) with them.  Meet some women who are bi like yourself and make that your bi circle of friends.  Straight women do indeed get nervous around us because they aren't sure if we are checking them out or trying to have a 3 some with them.\n\nTry these sites\n\nhttp://bicupid.com\nhttp://adultfriendfinder.com\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/NYBiSexualWomen/\nhttp://plentyoffish.com\n\nGood Luck
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Lesbianism or bisexuality can't be recognized nor does it have any identifying marks ,,,, You either are or you aren't ,,,,  Personally if I were you I'd feel flattered ,,,, I would tell her this too if that's the case ,,,,  I mean how many people do you have tell you that they really like you for what ever reason ,,,, If you don't have the same tendency's or your mind isn't open to such a thing as that then be honest and frank with her about it ,,,, I don't think it's something to be upset or insulted about at all ,,,, You have here a person that has opened herself up to you ,,,, It probably took all the courage she could muster plus some to admit this to you ,,,,, She has made herself vulnerable to you by admitting this because of her obvious strong feelings for you ,,,, She probably feels wounded now and scared because of your reaction as she doesn't understand what your reaction meant ,,, You said she told you she wanted to talk to you alone ,,,, That tells me she wanted what she was going to tell you to remain a secret between just the two of you ,,,, She might feel down and bleeding now ,,,, Are you going to betrey her by revealing her secret ?? ,,,, Will you walk all over her and pour salt in the wound now and hurt her just that much more because of this  ,,,,?? You said she is one of your closest friends ,,,, has anything changed your feelings now where she's concerned ,,,, If you like this girl or are worried about her feelings at all then try to let her down as easily as can ,,,, Don't let her linger or be worried and scared about what happens next ,,,, Do this as quickly as possible ,,,, Don't let her agonize over this ,,,, speak openly to her and let her know what you truly feel ,,,, There's no reason to ruin a perfectly good friendship because of this kind of admission ,,,,  Try to put yourself in her place ,,,, Try to imagine how you would feel and conduct yourself accordingly when dealing with this ,,,, Above all ,,,, just try to be kind and understanding ,,,, If you feel it then let her know that everything is alright and that there's no problem ,,,, Do this in a face to face meeting with just the two of you like it was when she told you about this in the first place ,,,,   Don't let her run away until you've explained yourself ,,,, She was honest with you in revealing her feelings for you  ,,,, So if your friendship with her means or has meant anything to you at all then be honest and understanding with her ,,,, You'll feel better for it and the friendship between the two of you will be just that much stronger because the two of you now share a secret ,,,,
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Well, as a bisexual, I can tell you that it all depends on her and her idea of commitment. I love chicks, but I would never leave a man for a woman if he was someone I truly loved. But something I'd like to know is why did she just tell you this? I believe it's the type of thing you shoud tell someone from the very beginning, especially if it's someone you're serious with. I would just talk to her openly about it and ask her if she's willing to give herself and her heart only to you.