She has had a boyfriend of which I came to know about it a little late nearly like 3 mths., but the best part is they broke up nearly 3 mths. ago. hahahah...\nWe've been good freinds. And she is my language tutor too. But, the problem with me is I really don't talk to her elsewhere except in the tutorial class. I am preety within myself. I don't have anything to talk about. That is what is keeing me.\nNow it's been about 7 mths since we've known each other. \nI kinda have a vague idea that she will go out with me, but another problem is, is she ready for another realtion? because from what I heard is they were ready to get engaged but never did which is best for me.
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You need the book on the link below, no I don't get paid for showing it to you. It's just one I have read, it's great for dating info.\n1.The key here is to just go up say hi...\n2.intro. name, I have seen you here a lot. I would like to take you out tonight...remain silent then....Until she says!\nYes/no\n3.If, no, ask if she's married, she is not. Tell her you are interested in her. Ask for her number and the best time to call her, would be?\n4.If she says she does not have time to get involved, it may be....With you or she thinks med school and theirs no time for any long term involvement. You can work thru this issue unless, she's just not into you.\n5.Watch her body language and look for non verbal clues.\nRent the movie (Hitch) it's really got two or three true clues on body language if you pay attention you will learn them.\n\nGood Luck \nSource(s):\nhttp://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0881846...
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Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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wow...that's an age difference.  none the less, sounds like she may be afraid of commitment.  But from the sounds of it, you guys never truly split up.  She calls you all the time, you guys do things, that doesn't sound like a normal broke up couple.  Normally they're at each other's throats or just totally avoiding each other.  From the sounds of it, you guys are going to be just fine. Good Luck and hang in there...it'll get better
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Based on what you wrote, it seems like you don't want to miss out on her. So take a risk..tell her how you feel. If she is as beautiful inside as she is on the outside, she will not be mean to you. Just ask her if things are getting serious with her current boyfriend and take it from there. Get her talking about it and that will clue you in to what you should say next.
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Well, it seems you're a nice guy... not all relationsips are permanent... so i think its up to the girl if she'll dump her current one for you... meanwhile, you could just be there always for her, show her how much she means to you, for example, if the bf fails to pick her up after class you could present yourself to her and walk her home... this is a good time to catch up with each other and know each other better... build up your friendship with her... the best relationships i think originated from friendship... don't rush, there's time for everything...:) just be cool with her having a bf, who knows, one day she'll endup on yourarms instead of his...\n\nGOODLUCK TO YOU!!!
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If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
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Possibly, she may be afraid that she can't make it on her own so she stays..it sucks being alone! Much easier to run from one guy to the next but not always the wisest step to take. She will need time to get over her relationsip with her boyfriend and come to terms with any issues she may have had there. \n\nLet time do what it will, just be there for her. Keep flirting if it's all innocent, don't let it go too far. If she was not mean't to be with this guy, time will tell. If she was meant to be with you time will tell that also..\n\nIt could all just be innocent flirting on her part..maybe that is just the kind of person she is. If she lets it go too far and she has a boyfriend, would you want to date a girl like that anyway?
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Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
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She is moving waaaaay too fast!!  (My own opinion, of course!)\n\nYou are going in the right direction.  Distance can be a wonderful asset to building a relationship.  If forces the two to go beyond that initial "lust" and "infatuation" stuff and build a truly lasting friendship as well as deep relationship.  But, if one of the members is pushing for drastic change, well, I would be a little leery and wonder why?\nIf this is something you both want and think is going to last a lifetime, why go storming into it before you really get a chance to build that solid foundation?\nBut talk to her, keep building the way you are.  I believe in slow and lasting rather than wham bam, and gone!\nGood luck!
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I understand what your going thru. My best friend is doing the same thing to me. I called her in November to ask her if she wanted to go out for her b-day and she hasn't called me since. I did find out that she is getting married(through a mutual friend) I have no idea what's going on w/her either. Like an earlier answer said, I'm sure she is probably dealing with something in her life right now that she doesn't feel so great about. Maybe she feels too bad to talk to you about it? Maybe she thinks you'll judge her. I would just do what I did. I called my best friend a couple of weeks back and left her a message on her cell. I told her that I didn't know what was going on but I still loved her and cared about her very much. We've been friends for 13 years and I have never judged her for anything she has done in the past and she can come to me with anything. After you've done that, all you can do as back off and give her some space. If she's truly the friend that you think she is(and like I think my best friend is) she'll come around. Just let her know that you are worried about her and want to make sure she's ok. If she continues to be this way, maybe you're better off without her. That's what I've decided.
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she needs a friend right now, i think you should wait for the right time.. good luck!!!
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This is tough. Everyone is in a difficult situation when a guy likes a girl in a relationship, no matter the status of the relationship. I'd say be a friend to her. Hang out with her in moderation so as to not arouse suspicion from the current boyfriend. Give her moral support if she needs it during a possibly impending breakup, but do NOT encourage her to break up with him for you, in any way/shape/form. This could cause gossip, this could cause her to see you as a housebreaker, this could cause boyfriend of the day to kick your ass. And right after she breaks up with him, if this happens, it is not the right time to ask her out. You don't want to be the rebound. And you don't want her when she's just getting over that. It's not the right start to a healthy relationship. Be that good friend for a week, two, as long as you can wait after the breakup, and if you're sure she likes you, ask her out... or maybe sparks will fly before then... anyways... good luck in this hella conundrum
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WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
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Warn her, if you think that your friendship will bear the load. It will make her skeptical of you though. She maight think that you want to be with this guy ultimately. She is only blinded by his money at this point, and is on the rebound. Best advise to give her is that she should give herself a little time to heal from the feelings of loss from the last relationship.
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Hi Eugene T, My question is..."Do you really want a girl who is rebounding from a relationship"? And, it sounds like your rebounding too. Please take this "SLOWLY". I know, I sound like a parent...that's because I am! LOL! Focus on your friends/classmates/sports etc. There is plenty of time. Wouldn't you rather take it slow and learn more about "her" break-up[both sides of the story?], while "reflecting" on what went wrong with your relationship? OK OK, I've lectured you enough! XOXO Moonpie P.S. And go with those words of wisdom from diagofald..."HIT IT"!
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Not totally good. She either hasn't seen it yet or she is not interested. If you still have the same class together, ask her. What's the worse she could say.....You'll never know until you do.
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mitr says.... don't leave everything on fate... you have to go out and say her boldly... if you don't say it now, it might be too late for you to say something... she at present doesn't have a bf and also she has been cheated.. it will nto be easy for her to rely on a guy so soon.... but since she knows you from  a long time back, she is definitely going to consider you...\ndon't make her feel that you are coming to her just because of sympathy to what has happened to her... tell her that you had and always will love only a single girl in your life and that is her...\nmake her feel special... give her importance... give her priority.... \ndo something that will make her feel strongly for you... do something so that she actually remembers you 24X7.... it should be a real good one buddy, no matter how crazy it is... \nmitr says... lovers comeout witj some crazy ideas to make their beloved happy... use your imagination and get her.... ... no gains without pain.. you have to tell her about your feelings for her and that too fast.........\ngood lock....