I don't understand. If i have a guy friend, and he cheats on his gurlfriend and sleeps with a lot of women, then he becomes a playa. And they look at it as a cool and good thing. Like he'll get props from his friends. But when a gurl does the same thing. Then it is frowned upon and she gets called hoe, sl*t, and so on. Even by her own friends. How come when a guy does this it's cool, but when a gurl does it, it's gross and nasty? Does any 1 see anything wrong with this?
120712
Yes i see soemthing wrong.Women are still not getting treated theit fair rights.Women shouldn't have to take mess like this.Guys think it is cool but it is not it is pathetic and stupid.They think it is right.Through many generations and years girls slept around just like guys but we have worse names.I agree with you
425345
It seems to happen more and more. Women are lacking self respect and any type of morals. I agree with you, and I would never venture onto another womans territory. Why would you even want a man that you know is cheating? I think these women actually think that they are better than the woman he is in the relationship with and think they are taking him away. Which we all know, seldom happens. Welcome to the 20th century, where morals and respect no longer exist. Sad.
462086
sigh, alas tis the truth with many of the females...because i hear that all the time too, the whole 'i want a good man, i ain't settlin for no scrub, he has to respect me, blah blah blah" and right after that they can't let go of some alchoholic that beats them, or some playa that cheats on them constantly but "oh i still love him, if he does it again he's GONE"... when he shoudl've been gone in the first place.\nYou know what's even worse?  LOOK AT THE YAHOO QUESTIONS!  A LOT of women are askin "what should i do, i love him but he's cheating on me what do i do?" \nor "i like him, he's a great guy, but he watches porn and flirts with other women..what should i do?" I mean you see a hell of a lot of questions like that...so that's a good question, what ARE women's defense to that? Cause i'm one of the good guys, and THANKFULLY i've found a sensible woman who actually KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS!  But i've dealt with the gullible and confused girls that dissed me for the a*shole, and then had the nerve to say they're just stronger now after gettin over it, when in essence they shouldn't have been in it in the first place!  \nWhat is up wit dat?
30967
People accept 2 girls easier because it's apparently sexy...I think people get disgusted by men having intercourse together because they stick their doda's in their poopers....It's funny too because when I was a hetero-sexual, men loved the idea of sticking their doda's in my pooper(I didn't let them), but were all like *ewwwww when male to male pooper pumping was mentioned....I'm sure I am going to get a violation for my answer to this question...altho I don't think I said anything profane at all!!!!!!!!!
136291
Guys that frequently accuse their girlfriend's of cheating suffer from one of two things.  Either A. They are guilty themselves, or B. They are just insecure.  Regardless of the reason, they should be avoided.
174535
Guys like that make me want to separate myself from the rest of the male gender. While I can see what they find attractive about her, it's purely physical. In the meantime girls that look just like her are walking the streets all around them.\nHer looks are nothing special.\nThe only time "slutty" is attractive to guys, is if it's directed towards us, and we think there's a chance (IE our girlfriends/wives acting slutty).
501214
It is not OK. Men deem themselves the masters of the universe and thereby set this standard of  hypocrisy. In my opinion, all men who sleep around with pride...but at the same time condemn women for exercising their individual sexuality, are only fooling themselves. They are exercising in the same smuttiness ...both in body and mind.\nWhen I was single I immersed myself in as much sex as I could just like every other (sex crazed)full bloody male. However, I have never believed it this double standard. I firmly believe that each person (men and women) has a right to their own individual happiness...so long as it does not infringe on the rights of others.
190986
That's better than the opposite...\ni think that women should be encouraged to have sex, instead of looked at as whores when they do..\nand seriously, if a girl is in a monogamous relationship for over a year and never cheats, how is she a whore?\n::sorry a bit off subject..lol::
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i think it is pretty close to even as far as men vs. women. however reasons are very different. women, assuming they aren't sluts for no reason, usually cheat cuz they dont' feel loved anymore or don't get enough attention/affection. men cheat cuz they either aren't getting any with the girlfriend/wife, or they cheat cuz they have to prove that they can still get hot chicks.
543347
If it's a women..its a Nymphomaniac.. if it's a guy it's called just another guy. If they're very sexual then they probably do fuck around a lot, or just do it a lot.. they probably are lying about the 5year thing but it's possible.
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Its kind of out of the locker room with men.  Alot of people think its a competition to get as many girls as they can.  Get alittle deeper on the topic and what it is, is ALOT of men dont want to commit.  They "bounce" because they want to keep living in the past so to speak.  They also tend to use women as confidence boosts for themselves.  When their feeling alittle down about themselves they will go out and flirt with women who they think are desperate, or just women in general.  But remember not all men are like this.\n\nIve tried to answer this for along time and this is the best I can do.  I see it from a males side aswell, why do so many women accept this aswell? (but not as many as men)\n\nBut personally I would prefer quality over quantity.  Kind of hard to make love to someone you just met that night.  Sex without love just dosnt rank all to high with me.  And anyone who says it does, really hasnt done much with their lives :(
414497
not to sound mean,  but the guy sounds like a loser. He just had sex with her, he prob loves her, my best advice, stay away. There are probably so many other guys that r intrested in u.
398308
Players do not come off as players until they hook a girl.  Then the girl sees his true colors.  No woman wants to be called a 'ho.  No woman would knowingly get involved with a creep who is banging everything with a pulse.
297649
I totally disagree with redneck_cowgirl. Most guys i know; DO; in fact do this! Doesnt matter if they are with someone or not. Note* I said most guys that i KNOW.Not *most guys*. How would u know; that MOST guys dont do that? Well; it is human nature, and woman do it too; when in a relationship.
545767
It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
576659
well i have never cheated on a girl but i have been cheated on by a lot of girls so yall do it to. now the reason for these things is either they get board with the sex life, just dont have the self control to say no in that position, they feel that you aren't giving them the same love and respect that you once did. or they just dont like the idea of one girl for the rest of their life. any case a good strong close relationship should stop these things (exept the idea of one girl) but if you stay faithfull and loving and give your man the respect he needs with some sex to then you should be able to stop him from cheating.
107888
Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!