I've told him countless times that I don't talk to strangers and that my profile is set to private. Why is he still concerened about it?
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Give him your password & tell him to check on you... The media is giving it a bad name... But I (36yo) have one so does my 11yr old & 13yo...    Make him one :)
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There's a setting that you can change.. Go to Edit preferences, and click the privacy.  There there's a list of things you can check or not, one of them being whether friends see me go idle. that should do it
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you on my space with this dude it don't matter he could be a pervert people lie all the time on chat rooms my advice don't go with anybody on chat rooms in case you already know him personally
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I think everyone has untold secrets. I wouldn't tell him unless he specifically asked.  Then I would not lie to him.  I am sure he has secrets and they should be kept that way.  Your shrink is right in saying the past is the past and has nothing to do with him.
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I have read the variety of answers to your question, and in my opinion, that it's better to be safe than sorry. If he is doing it for kicks, well then let's get him banned. If he is truly a sexual predator, than let's find a way to get him reported. I have read some of the answers where people say that he wouldn't do it, and then talk about it. I disagree. I've been studying sexual predator's actions for quite some time. You can reach me at brew40fw@msn.com, and let me know what I can do to help. It bothers me a great deal that he's talking like this, and even if all he is doing is talking, he's still mentally disturbed and needs to be dealt with accordingly. Bottom line, what could it possibly hurt to get this guy dealt with?  To get rid of him, it may take a few minutes of your time, and since none of us know if it's real or not, isn't it worth the effort, just in case he's for real? If there's even the slightest chance that he's a danger to children, why debate it. Let's figure out how to stop him if possible. If it were your child he was talking about, looking at, or molesting would you want others to just do nothing? Take a look at the statistics of online predators, and stalkers who use the internet to find children to use and abuse.
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tell him that u need privacy
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Some people are just weird, maybe he needed some time away from people. If he doesn't seem to be the reclusive type then I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Friends shouldn't be like that and if it happens again casually bring it up. Another thing is how close are you guys? New friends, old friends, etc...\nThe talking like normal might be a cover b/c ppl don't like fessing up to screwing up
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this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.
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I know him. I like him. You should just ignore questions or answers you don't like. Really. It doesn't stop us from creating a dozen more profiles. Duh.
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Michelle, talk to him honestly about it!!!  Ask him if he thinks theres a kink or two in you'll relationship, if there is talk it out!!!  Also ask him about that myspace post b/c if he is talking about you he needs to tell you before he goes on myspace and everyone adn their mama knows about your business before you...tell him kindly not to do that naymore and really really sit down and have a talk with him!!!
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Privacy does not go out the door when you become a partner with another person.  (Although I question how you two became fiances to each other and are just now running into this problem...)  You should not have asked him for his password; he is entitled to his privacy - that is where trust comes into play.  If you don't trust him, then you have no reason to be engaged to him.  And if you do trust him, then you have no need for his password.   \n\nI am not surprised that he didn't apologize.  He had nothing for which to apologize.  I am not surprised he didn't send your little "good morning" greeting --- not only is that a trival "courting" gesture that should simply pass as you two evolve into a deeper relationship, but if he HAD sent it after you had stomped off because he denied you something to which you had no right, it would have been a meaningless gesture.  (You want meaningless gestures in your relationship ?)  \n\nThe person rude and insensitve was you.  Insensitive because you thought nothing about attempting to invade his privacy and rude because you stormed off in a huff because he refused you that access. \n\nIf you have reason not to trust him, then you need to deal with the genesis of those reasons - directly, calmly, honestly, openly and be willing to accept the good, bad and ugly of human relationships.  That kind of maturity makes a relationship (not stomping off because you don't get what you want.)  If you are the one who is insecure without real reason (other than the spectre of the green-eyed monster), then you need to adddress that.\n\nThis incident is not the problem, only a symptom of something else the two of you need to work on.
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well first, is there any way you can tell if he's been active on this account or not? maybe he had it on there and forgot about it? just mention to him that you found it and was wondering about it...this might bring questions as to why you were there also, he might think that you were looking on match.com, or don't trust him. neither are what you would want him to think if it's not true. \nso simply ask him about it, if he isn't straight up with you about it, then odds are that he's always keeping another door open. men do this for many reasons, like fear of being hurt, finding something better, or that's just thier lifestyle. i wouldn't put up with it if he says he wants to marry me, because marriage is permanent. if he's talking about something permanent then he needs to be sure about it before he mentions it.
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He's not a pervert - he's a jerk. You should not tolerate disrespectful behavior like that. By denying the obvious when you confronted him showed that he does not respect your intelligence either! Give him the heave-ho!
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I think he is afraid of the reaction other people would have if he told you that. Some people really do talk when they hear about relationships. Summing it all up; can it be fear?
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That is just totally disgusting.. but anyways maybe he tells you he isn't gay cause he doesn't want you to judge him. Maybe he is afraid he is going to scare you off. I mean if you go away.. who's face will he rub his d!ck on?
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I can't tell you how many times I've answered this question.  The fact is that no one really knows and I respect Gerard's privacy to keep it a secret, because it is his life.  He has the right to keep some things private, you know.
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Well, I had this problem except I found a website that contained ideas that should not be public. I reported it to myspace but like you said, they did nothing about you. You need to personally message Tom and tell him the problem. Give him the myspace link and ask him to please atleast speak with them about the matter.\n\nhope I helped.