i was out walking and saw by brothers wife he was at work i saw his wife well making out with a .17. year old boy. they have been married about .22. years now how can  i tell my brother this i felt like beating the hell out of him there older son is 19. and by brothers wife was going all the way with him i love my brother and there kids how can a person tell his own brother this i know in time he will find out as well there son as well how can you tell your brother what you saw she is in her late.40.s he is also that age as well when he finds this out i dont want to be around him
122352
from what i have read , you need to tell him this is your, brother and i have brothers, as well ,as far as this woman she is a mother of a.19, year old boys are closer to there fathers, and if i read this right, a,17, year old is still by law a juvinile, at her age that is well in my opion, peverted, on her get your brother away, as others, here have told, you tell him , in my honest opion , that is craddle robbing, she is old enought to be this,17, year, old boys, mother in my opion again get him away, like others, here have told you , not worth doing something, stupd over my best goes out to your brothers, family, as for her, no commet, on , cradle robbing, ?
399067
At 18 she should be mature enough to understand the issues between her brother and mother. My advice, forget you have a sister-in-law and go on with your life. There will come a time when she will ask for your help. Then you will have to decide what path to take.
546671
Your mother is setting your brother up to fail as a man. It is NOT normal for an 11 year old boy to sleep in his mom's bed. The whole cleaning up thing is just a part of being the oldest. We always have to be the "example" for the younger ones. I feel you. Just know that you are totally cool and are a great son. Keep doing as you are told. It will pay off in the long run. Ask your mom if she knows that what she says to you hurts. Let her know you love her. Try to get your brother out of her bed!
187176
Nah stay out of it. Your brother is a grown man and he is in charge of where he dips his own wick even if it is with friends of yours. Maybe this will help you with your next question which is how long should i Mourn. How about doing one of your brothers friends. I am sure he would approve of it seeing that he is trying to get your approval for his dirty endeavored. Never get mad about things you can't control. It is a waste of time and puts wrinkles in between your eyes.
78548
Dating brothers was a big mistake.  I'm not real sure you can fix this.  Your best bet is if the two brothers talk and can be ok with it.  If they can be ok then eventually everyone else will follow suit.
357270
I am sure it is hard for him, but after 10 years he should be able to move forward. Find out why he is still feeling this way. I hate to say this but if he is truely in love he should be ablo to get pass this. I know my brother's wife died and he married to soon and wasn't really in love more like lonely and in love with love....................Nicky
401876
u're right, at ur age u should be able to go straight to him and ask him if he feels the same way...u have to do that, there's nothing to loose especially if u say u have very strong feelings for him.\npull urself together and tell him how much u like and appreciate him and if he feels the same ask for his phone number.\nas for ur friend if her brother likes u , well then too bad for her...she'll just have to accept it.\nmuch courage to u !
161005
The first thing is to talk with your brother, is he HONESTLY OK with it? if so then make sure his friend likes you and not only get into your pants because this would really complicate things with their friendship. Now if your brother isn't OK with it don´t even try it because it would complicate things not only with their friendship but also with your relationship with your brother. Summarizing talk to your brother, talk to his friend and if in both cases things are OK the go ahead if there is one no then don´t try it
613354
I think it is very difficult to witness to your own brothers or sisters. \n\nBecause your life is under constant watch by them. \n\nHaving said that, now I have a proposed solution for you. \n\nOne, pray and ask God to make your brother's heart tender. \n\nSecond, let go and let God deal with them. Sometimes, that means God will use other people, such as your uncle or your pastor, or even circumstances in order to draw your brother closer to Him. The result is what you would expect, and God will get all the glory. \n\nThird, be more concern about pleasing the Lord in other area, that my friend, will become your testimony to your brother. Sometimes, words which are spoken with action have more impact than the ones which are spoken without action.
650053
These girls dont know what there talking about. Ive been exactly where you are. I was 18 and I fell inlove with some 42. It sounds so bad. I know its not "normal" but its not wrong either. I dont feel like you should cheat on your husband even if you've asked for a divorce. I feel that you should wait until its completely over. If the older man trully has feelings for you then he will wait. I wish you the very best!
307506
If you and your hubby are young, like 18 or 19, his parents are still seeing him as a child.  But if he is older his parents need to stop.  I have similar situation.  I am 35 now.  I want to move to another city but can't yet.  I've learned not to tell my parents much about my personal life or my family's doings.  That why they can't meddle and "give advice".  I had to learn to distance myself.  It took about a year before my parents realized that I can live my own live well without but I that I still love them.  I suggest that you forget how they treat his brother, because that's their (the parents) problem.  Just focus on youselves and put a safe distance between yourself, don't talk as often or at least don't give out much personal info that will make them respond in a meddling way.  Good luck!
314675
well dont tell your bro. Have the person come in ur room alone for a min. Tell him you need help or sumthin. then tell him. ask him if he feels the same. Finaly make  him promise not to tell ur bro and dont be public.
321450
Best bet is to tell them before they find out.  Then discuss a way to pay your brother back...do chores for him.  Works for all situations, innocence or no, it's taking responsibility for yourself.  Good luck, hon.
128875
Your late husband will ALWAYS know what is going on with you and his boys.  He still loves you, and wants you all to be happy.  If (and when) you meet another man, know that he understands.  He is gone, but you still have a life to continue with.  I can not say I know how you feel.  If I lost my husband, I would have a VERY hard time going on without him.  You have 2 sons to live for and help thru this awful time.  God love you all.
12311
Oh wow! This is a difficult situation to be in. First, try to be in the shoes of your boyfriend and see how it feels like. Second, try to weigh your feelings towards the two men and although the response you get might seem hurtful for somebody  involved with you, it will make you happier in the end. If you're close to your brother, then it would be nice to talk to him about it, he knows his friend that much anyway... Good Luck and I hope that you feel happy in love! :-)
340869
what is done is done but u can make ammends now !\nyou had become verry gud frnds with teh younger one soo it was rong to rat about your frnd to his brother !\nwould you hav stopped liking the elder if all those things the younger one told u abt him were true?? if yes then you wanted him to b the way u wanted him to b and not what he really was !\naccept tat everyoen is not picture perfect !! and they can make mistakes in life !\napologise to the younger and to the elder one !\ntell the younger tat you like the elder and accept him inspite of all his flaws (tat is if u do like him)\ntalk to the elder one too !! and if he likes u then you both shud sit the younger one down and talk to him about it !\nask him y he is not ok with it and all !!\ntc \nall the best
538526
You shouldn't wait another second to tell him about it. Know is the time and you should tell him exactly how you feel, cause you brother want care and will make sure he dosen't cheat on you are mess over you. S o your brother can look out for you.