this whole liking my best friend thing is really throwing me off.. i feel like i'm getting mixed signals from him, like one minute he returns my feelings and the next he talks about how he can't get this other girl off of his mind .. sometimes i just really have the urge to kiss him and see what happens but i'm afraid that it may not be such a great idea.. we talk all the time, sometimes he will act all flirty with me, and sometimes he wants advice on this other girl .. we've in a round about way talked about being together in the past, but never did anything about it .. should i try to kiss him and see what happens or just let it be?
124097
go a head................\nyou can try\nbut on the cheek.........first\nthen wait for the signal
413561
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
156422
well, i guess it's normal, happened to me too. But u should listen to your heart. And I think u already know the answer: he seems a player, so he's not good for u. Besides, u're friend likes him and u don't want to hurt her. If u feel like it u can play hard to get with him for a while because it's soooo nice to have someone et u're feet, isn't it? But don't get involved if u don't feel like it.
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I think you have some feelings for him your self. I mean it's obvious that you like him, cause if you didn't you wouldn't be asking. You'd deny it now, but sooner or later, you'll stop living in denial and accept that you like him as well. \n\nWell the odds to this is most likely a yes. But he could only want you as a friend. I mean no one will really know the truth. Only he will know. But for now, if I were you just keep this friend ship between him and yourself close. Cause if you do like him as well, you'll know that he will always be there for you. So don't ruin this relationship. You might not know what you really have, when you have it, and when you don't have it, you'll want it back. Trust me, I've been in this same situation. You might not approve, but it'll happen.
643004
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
292867
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
181828
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
609852
I would say it's just like kissing a boy, but if you are a tradionalist who wants the "guy" to make the first move (like me) I know how confusing it can be.  Just wait 'til the moment's right, when y'all are alone.  You can compliment her or do something to get a little closer (the dumbest thing I ever did was take off my glasses and say, "look, they're broken," and as soon as she looked up, puzzled, I kissed her) and then just let things take their course!  Of course, all that is assuming you know she's be ok with that, because, not to burst your bubble, but it's one thing to be ok with your best friend being attracted to you, and another for her to feel something back.  If everything is go, just don't force anything, and have fun!  ; )
600228
hes probably feeling the same way as you, confused.  thats why he was trying to beat around the bush, figure out if you were interested in someone else.  but when it comes to figuring out things like this, guys dont sometimes pick up on things so you probably have to be straigtforward with him.  before i starting dating my now hubby, i think we always sorta had a crush on eachother, but were friends for about 5 years.  anyway he had asked me questions like this, and even tips on how to get a girl to like her.  and i just wanted to scream at him that i already did, bc i knew he was meaning me, he was just trying to get it out of me, cause guys actually do seem to be shy on the subject.  i wouldnt think of your situation as good or bad.  you should try going out again, if your still interested. but this time let him know
430816
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
342436
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
444857
uhhh...girl if you really like this guy why dont you really get at him!!and if this "alicen" do exist then why dont you proove it wit your own eyes, and then if you see them lovey lovey wit each other then gurl my advice to you is that to move on cuz a bestfriend like that would not just "kiss" you a goodnight kiss and just forget about you like that and i mean, asking another gurl out after what happened!!!wow!whatta abestfriend dont cha think???
430009
He obviously likes you, but he's more into your best friend - yes, even though she doesn't like him.  Guys love a challenge!  He's all intrigued now because he wants to find out WHY she doesn't like him, if he's playing hard to get, and to prove to himself that he can get her in the long run.  He flirts with you because you're fun and he feels comfortable with you, plus he's also trying to make her jealous.  Don't be concerned with his feelings for her right now, continue to be friends with him, but also be a little mysterious and not quite as flirtateous back.  At the least you will have a good friendship with him, and who knows, when he finally realizes that your friend isn't going to suddenly love him to bits, he'll see you in an entirely different light.  Good luck!
235713
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
336643
that's good you told him, you had to let your feelings out, now ,if he only likes you as a friend let him know it's still OK with you if you'll are still friends.also, if he doesn't show that he likes you back don't feel bad sometimes it is better to have a friendship relationship instead of no relationship at all.but also give him time maybe he likes you too, but has not had a chance to tell you yet.
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Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
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For starters, why were you laying on the couch with your boyfriend's best friend??\n\nDon't hurt your boyfriend. You own this situation, not him. I would ask his friend WHY he tried to kiss you? Were you sending him mixed signals by laying on the couch? You should have confronted him with it when it happened. \n\nDon't put yourself in that position again. Sorry, I can't get over the fact you were laying on the couch with him?!