I am having a tough time getting a date.
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Yes, chicks dig burly rides, and it will make you appear to be a stud-muffin.  After you pay for the freaking gas in that thing, though, you'll be too damn poor to take anyone out on a date.  So you may want to rely on your personality to get dates instead.
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That's really difficult.  It's not good to be alone, and there's nothing pathetic about that.  It's hard to meet quality people. Loneliness is very tough -- it's true for everyone.  Just people don't like to admit it.  And the best people can end up single for a long time.  If you are over 18, I suggest you explore online dating.  It really has lost all its stigma.  Many "non-loser" people use online dating as a way to meet matches that share their interests, faith, goals, etc.  This is better than what you'll get limiting yourself to people at work or trying to pick someone up in a bar.  Don't be scared to try online dating -- just make the first date very casual, and in a public space.  Also, have a friend call you 30 minutes into the date so that you can claim an emergency if you know right off the bat that this person is too creepy for you or just not a good fit.
328782
People are looking for a light at the end of the tunnel with the hopes of meeting the right one.  Even if the dating site is a joke, people have to start somewhere.
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try asking her out (don't say date but maybe a couple of your friends and a couple of her friends go bowling or something like that) if she tells you to back off, then give up, but don't take it as a no, but don't try to push it, just try to talk to her frequently, not just a hello, but an actuall conversation, that might help
40411
Really?\nTry me.\n\n\nI am terribly sorry for bugging you. I do not mean to.\nSorry.\n\nIt seems that you have not found the answer to your question.\nDo not be upset if you have not found a date. It is not worth it. \nTrust me.\n\n\nBy the way, the easiest way to make someone notice you is by making you noticing someone else or notice yourself through your interest or activity.
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my best advice would be to just go out on a date...it doesn't have to be with someone you're attracted to if that's easier...maybe a male friend...someone you know will me nice to you...so you can see how it should be.  Maybe meeting someone someplace like church would help...or a group in your area for people who've had abuse in their lives.
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TRY UGLY AS HELL CAN`T GET A DATE .COM
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Practically in the same situation as you.\nIt is my personal belief that the reason why it is hard to date people is because most people have unrealistic standards, are shallow and judgemental.\n\nI'm 32 going on 33 in two weeks, barely 5'6" lost 85% of my hair(which I do not care) a bit heavy, I work the night shift from 11pm to 7am and unable to meet someone.\n\nIt has been my experience that LOOKS do matter and the type of job one has.\nI hear personality but yet I have gotten the cold shoulder even before I say anything, which has lead me to be convinced it was based on looks.\nThen when I do get a chance I am judged on the type of job I have and had and the hours I work. \n\nListen from one guy to another, do not be overlly concerned with dating, live and enjoy your life and if you do meet someone great but please do not act like it is the end of the world if you do not meet someone
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Stuff has been shipped late.\n\nOnline dating sucks. I've only met weirdos with social problems.
200140
lol  sorry can't help ya there but hang in there sounds like you have a good sense of humor and you will find someone .  Good Luck
597232
Well the first thing you have to do is stop being afraid!  A date will never happen until you get the nerve up to talk to her and ask her out.  Even then she may reject you due to peer pressure since her friends don't like you but if she does then she isn't worth pursuing anyway.  Good luck!
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if you see a guy you like, strike up a conversation. i've been able to at least get one date using this method. if you are as you describe, then you got two advantages over me, 1. you're attractive and 2. as a woman it's so unusual that you are sure to have a good conversation that could lead to something more.\n\ngood luck.
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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Hey guy.  Don't beat yourself up so much.  Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places.  There are people out there for everyone.  You will see that the Abercrombie types tend to be attracted to the Abercrombie types.  The bears are usually with other bears.  If people told you that you are cute, you probably are.  I know you have a lot to offer and the right guy will come along.  Just remember the attraction has to be reciprocal.  That's what makes the dating scene hard some times.  But it goes beyond the physical.  Find a group where you have common interests and mingle with that group.  Someone probably has a 'friend' who is gay that you might like.  Don't give up.  You need to be more upbeat and not sound so depressing.  Life is what you make of it.  I am single right now and am actually kind of enjoying the break.  Good luck.
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WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
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Just give it time, you'll meet someone eventually. Until then, go out and have fun. Go to places where you can meet people and just open to anything. Maybe have one of your friend's boyfriends set you up on a blind date.
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You can take some of the pressure and feelings away by giving yourself a break. Realize that no one is the ultimate dream date for everyone , this helps. Good relationships seem to appear most often when your not trying so hard to find them . You'll instinctively know when the right girl comes along just be out in the field where you may encounter them and don't stay home for fear of rejection and feel so bad that you have these feelings they are not so unusual and it seems you are pressuring yourself to have an instant relationship and it just doesn't happen that way. Lighten up and enjoy yourself and try to forget about these feelings and your chances will improve. Be confident in yourself and like I said there is no perfect person desired by all . There will be a girl who will come along when you stop looking and dwelling on it so much. Good luck to you , she's out there you can believe in that.