im in love\nseriously\nnow, i know thats not something a 14 year old usaully says buts its true\nim a boy\nshes a girl\nshe laughs\ni laugh\nwe both like the same bands\nwe "fight"(step on each others feet as a joke)\nwe see each other in school a couple times a day\n1, does she like me?\n2, how do i tell her i like her\n3, how do i aske her out?(with out being to mushy)\nplease help, look at other questions for refrence
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Your 14, the chances of you being in love are slim to none.  No offence,  while it can happen, your hormones (both of you) are kicking in and your most likely infatuated.  You CANNOT tell you love someone until you truly experience them alot.  No I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about being there through thick and thin, good and bad.  There is a chance for love to bloom, but just because you think about someone alot, want to be with them, have a burning desire in your heart (to be cliched) does not signify love.  Go straight up to her and explain that you like her and you want to know if her feelings are the same.  If she says yes, tell her that you want to try dating.  If she says no, (breath a sigh of relife) and tell her that you feel better getting an answer from her (give a goofy grin) and tell her that you hope that asking her this isn't going to change things between you, and you still really enjoy being her friend.  The best time to do this is during your "fights" since after its done you can just start it back up, perfect tension breaker either way! ^-^
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1.] You can't spell.\n2.] There's absolutely no flow. It's just like a note you'd pass in class.\n3.] If you want to impress this girl, don't say, "I still kind of like someone else" [meaning she's not your first choice; you still have an attraction to another girl], "nobody knows who you are" [you're saying she has no friends], "I like you, but I don't love you" [means "Let's just be friends; I don't feel that way about you."]\n4.] I don't find it romantic AT ALL. It seems like friend to friend. More like you're making her feel better.\n\nIt's sweet that you'd think of writing a poem for her, but before you give her that, try to USE what you learn in Language Arts for once.\n\nEDIT. You shouldn't even MENTION this McIntire girl. Maybe you should make it rhyme, use figurative language, and make her feel like she's the top of the world to you.
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i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)
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GIGGLE< GIGGLE :)  I think you both like each other. But just remember you need to see each other and learn more about each other b4 jumping into something unknown. Sounds like puppy love :) but thats ok.. I remember when  I did this.. Its exciting and fun. Sounds like you both are kinda shy.. slip him a note in class or in school and give him your phone number and write on the note call me sometime.. If he does, then thats a great start!! good luck  honey... ;0)
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Just ask her.  Girls aren't a mystery unless you let them be.  Trust me, if I'd known that when I was about 14, I'd have gotten laid a lot more in highschool.  Try finding out something she likes, talk to her about it for a little bit, then ask her to go out somewhere/time.  If it doesn't work, try it with another girl, and another, and another until it does.  You'll get nowhere if you don't try.
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just sit down with him and tell him if he does like u ..then he willtell u how he feels i mean yea it is hard to tell some 1 that u like dem but its all worth the trouble if you end up bein 2 gether!!!!! hey i like this boy when i was 8 and he was10 and when i was 11 he finally started likeing me now we are together i am 12 he is 15!!!!!
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soo cute! hmm well being a 15 yr old girl myself i can understand how u feel.  honestly if u like her i think u should go for it! if she didnt like you then she wouldnt still be talking to you. and as for the matter how she didnt reply, it cud b that she ran out of credit, or maybe because u do it to her a lot of the time she didnt think that u would care. you hav to be careful, because wen u dont reply it may seem to her that you dont care, so she doesnt want to seem like she cares. For her to tell you about her problems means that she really trusts you and let me just say, that means a lot. be yourself and if u want to be with her, ask. Good Luck! :)
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Just tell her what u feel toward her.Don't say someone else's words,just be urself with no pretend,tell her funny things u been through,there is many things to say to atract her to u,show some tenderness and love and care ,and she'll feel u,all these things in case she likes u.......Good luck
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Gurl I'm in tha 7th grade 2! So take advice 4m sum-1 yo own age! Don't do thingz just cuz yo boy likez 2 do them ! If he likez u then he wouldn't care if u sk8ed w/ him! I don't do thingz my boy duz he duz thingz I like 2 do butt I tell him that he don't have 2 it! About yo boyz friendz u souldn't give a flip if they like u or not as long as yo man likez and yo real friendz like u then u r doin' ok!!!!
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being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
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okay well 1st off ask her for her number. and talk 2 her on the phone other then at school and then after about 3 days of talking on the phone and gettin 2 know her better ask her if she ever wants 2 hang out outta school and if she says no shes not into u if she says yes thats great take her bowling or skatein or mini golfin something fun so yall can talk and hang out instead of something like a movie where yall really cant have a confo and she how it goes and if the moods right and u feel the times right ask her out! i hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!
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just say...hey (fill in his name here)....i think ur cute...you wanna go see a movie with me this weekend?...lol.....im sorry....i think thats what i would have done if i was a 14 yr old girl ......\n\nedit\n\ndang....now i remember ...it happened to me when i was a 14 yr old boy and this girl approached me saying i was cute and wanting to go to the movies with me....my response....i ran....lol
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WOW girl u gotta pretty smile...( pause)(tell her) I cant afford to forget the smile...girl(or her name)i like you n I... LIke the wAY YOU WALK THE WAY YOU SMILE THE WAY YOU REACH YOUR ARM TO GET THE CEREAL)... BOY... BE CREATIVE AND NOTICE EVERYTHING SHE DOES AND ADD A LITTLE TO YOUR GA ME
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walking with her down the hall to her locker is a good idea.  i'd just suggest not waiting by her locker as she puts her stuff away because that might be weird for her...just talk with her on the way to her locker (even if it's out of your way).  ummm...when you walk together, walk close to her.  as close as she feels comfortable with.  she'll move away a bit when you're too close for too long.  maybe bump up against her, not in a real bump but just where you softly run into her shoulder;  kind of like it was accidental.  BUT....skip all of that if you don't know what i mean.  the last thing you want to do is make her feel weird being there so don't bump into her or walk close if you aren't comfortable with that!\n\nyou probably shouldn't ask her to eat with you at lunch.  if it's like my school, people sit with their friends, and she probably sits with her friends and you with yours...that might make it awkward asking her to do that (and it'll start rumors immediately).  but if you both sit at the same table, there's nothing wrong with sitting next to her and talking to her.\n\nthis depends on your relationship previous to now (old friends, new friends, classmates, etc.), but if you know that she likes you, you can be nice and say something nice like "you look nice today" or something like that.  just say something nice.\n\nthis depends somewhat on your age, but i agree that asking her to do something with you is a good idea.  you want it to be something that you both enjoy.  there was one person who liked playing tennis for fun, so i asked her if she would like to do that sometime after school.  asking her to do something gives you both a chance to be around each other and learn more about each other.  just as a note, this does not have to be a date.  it can be just hanging out and doing something.  (it might seem like a date, but there are differences.)\n\nif you go to a game or other sporting event and you see her, you can go up to her and say hi and how are you.  then talk to her.  most likely, she'll be more interested in talking to you, so just keep talking.  by going out of your way to talk to her, it should be obvious that you want to be around her.\n\nevery time you see her, whether in class or in the hallway, make sure that you say hi.  don't ignore her and just pass by.  that can ruin everything that you've done before.  if she likes you, she'll want you to say hi and she'll always look forward to those times that you do.\n\nthose are some ideas, hopefully they help!
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If you like someone you should tell him what you think. i was once given something that may help here it is:\n10th Grade\nAs I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so-called "best friend". I stared at  her >long, silky hair. I wished she were mine, but  she didn't notice me like that. And I knew it. After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before, and I handed them  to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the  cheek. I wanted to tell her. I wanted her to know that I don't want  to be just >friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\n11th Grade:\nThe phone rang. It was her on the other end. She was in tears mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I  sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, a Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks," and  gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't  know why.\n12th Grade:\nThe day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick," she said. He's not going to go. Well, I didn't have a date and >in 7th grade we made a promise that if neither  of us had dates we would go together just as "best friends," so we did.  Prom night:&#92;\n after everything was over I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her. She smiled at me and stared at  me with her crystal eyes. I>want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said, "I had the best  time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why\nGraduation Day: A day passed. A week passed. A month passed. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. i wanted her to be  mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and she cried as I hugged her. Then, she lifted  her head from my shoulder and said, "You're my best friend, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\nFew years later:\nNow, i sit in the pews of the church. She is getting married, now. I watched her say, "I do" and drive off to her new life,married to another man. I wanted her to be mine but she didn't see me  like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me  and said, "You came!."She said, "thanks!" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why.\nFuneral:\nYears passed, and I looked down at the coffin of the girl who used to be my "best friend." At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he were mine. But he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him. I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends. I love him, but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me .I wish I did too . . . I thought to myself, and Icried.
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hey i am 15 and know what its like.  the best thing that you can do is to just go up to him and say hi.  you never know what might happen.  i know that it might seem scary but trust me it really isn't.  he is a human being too.  try to find out different things that you two might have in common: music, movies, things like that.  it might help to be an ice breaker.  but my best advice is just to take the chance and say hi to him.  if you don't then you'll never know what might have happened.  i hoped i helped :)
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Coming from a girl dont b so quick saying it. the worst things to say are:\n1. How long hav we known each other it is almost our friend anniversery. Girls hate it.\nU:Say this. It may b coming quick but, well, can i tell u somthin-Her:sure-U:Well i think i sorta like u. More than a friend. And...well i think i wanna go out with u-Her:(hopefully)sure, il giv it a try\n                           I HOPE I HELPED