if she is angry,or some other sad feelings,then how do i get her back?she wouldnt answer my emails or calls or messeges...how?????help...i sent her an ecard but no reply...iam sad...wish could turn time around..so can make it up 2 her..but no reply
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i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
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give her time and tell her your sorry. that the best you can do until she finds it in her heart to talk to you.
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you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
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Dear Chery:\n\nI am sad that we have not spoken in such a long time.  I miss your company and your wit. \n\nI was hurt when you lied to me, and I may have over-reacted.  Whatever hard feeling we have, I wish we could put behind us because I value yur friendhsip too much to lose it.\n\nPleae let me know if you can overlook our differences and get back to being the friends we once were.\n\nIf you cannot forgive me, then at least stop sending me e-mails, because it just makes me hurt more.  \n\nAnd if that doesn't work, write to her and tell her she sucks. And the only reason you wanted to make up is that you wanted to put her in your will, but too late now.
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Have you emailed him to ask him what's going on? Text and email him both and ask. Tell him that if he's ok and simply doesnt want anything to do with you, to please tell you so you can stop wondering if he's ok. If he is ok, and just couldnt contact you for a while, ask him from now on, to tell you if he's going to be out of touch for a while and/or if he's mad or wants nothing to do with you to say so........the silence is confusing and scary. Explain that.I am sure he is just involved in something and cant get back to you. I'm sure it bothers him too...wondering what you must think!  Good luck!
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All you can do is give her a hug and tell her that you are there for here.I have been in that situation where I have something wrong with me and my ex used to ask me what was wrong, I never told him, he would just get up and go into the other room. Dont do that. I know from experience even if she doesnt want to talk, she might still like you to be with her and hold her so she knows that she is not alone
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Sounds like she's mad at you for some reason.  Now she doesn't have the decency to tell you what happened.  Don't worry about it.  Write her off.  Move on.  You'll be okay.
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Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
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hey chill yaar....don't b upset....realx\nthe first thing u gotta do is "talk to her"...if she doesn't answers ur call...go to house and meet her its better to make things clear....u shud have done that long back....but hey its never  tooo late...u sau that sh din not called u back it cud be that she must have waited for her call but since u did not call...even she didn't alled u.....when in friendship u shouldn't let pride and ego interfere...neither u shud wait 4 ur friend to come to  an apologise or ta clear misundertanding....theres nothing wrong if u r the first one to do so if its going to do good to ur relationship....so just don't think bout anything go and talk to her.....ask her wat went wrong...clear he doubts if any....ask her to listen to u just once....and relax theres dfinately something good in "everything"\n\ngod bless\nkeep smiling\nle gran\n...sne...
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ok you dnt ask her again. u know maybe she just doesnt have the same feeling for you that u do to her. send her the flowers and see what she sayd. pamper her and do everhting you can for her and see what she does. let her know that u care by being there for her. be a friend first and then see what she sayd by sayin hey i have to tell you something and let her know how you fill in person not over the internet. thats kinda chessey sorry but it is.
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That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
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Let me start by saying I am truly sorry about your loss. I have never gone through anything that horrible, and I don't know how you can even talk about it this openly. It takes true courage to come out and ask for help. Hopefully you will find it. This is my advice, don't think about it as your fault. If you sent her a letter that said how much you loved her, then clearly she didn't do what she did because of something hateful that you said, because by no means is that at all hateful. If she was an alcoholic and a drug abuser, then that is probably the reason. She might have been drunk, she might have been high, you can never really know for sure, but I know for a fact that she did NOT commit suicide because of you! Now, all you can do is remember all of the good times that you had with her, and forget the bad things. Ask her for your forgiveness. Yes, I know that she's not here anymore, but she will always be with you. So talk to her and make sure that she knows that you love her and miss her with all of your heart. And again, I am deeply sorry for your loss, you have my most deepest sympathy.
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She sounds like a good friend and the best ex..because she has feelings for you and her innocent nice heart told her to send this letter for sharing common sense with you.\n\nMaybe she felt sorry for breaking your heart and leaving you alone..and my suggestion to you is that give her another chance,reply her e-mail very gently and friendly, \nmaybe if you two follow your heart,then you will get back to one another..\n\ngood luck
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the only was is to get her to listen to you and it seems that she is not ready for it. you might forgive her but may be she did not forgive herself. \nyou have to do anything you can to find her address and phone # she might not even check her emails....
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Tell her that until she apologizes you don't feel like talking to her.  Watch her reaction if she is sorry about what she did. If she is - give  her a second chance ... if she is not really apologetic and doesn't think she did something wrong I would NOT talk to her again.
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I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
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whatever it was he said to upset her, if she really cares for him she probably just needs a while to calm down and eventually she will talk. but most women know how to hold a grudge for a long time. but i don't think there is much that u can do at this point. or maybe, since you guys are in to writing letters, he could write her a letter apologizing for whatever he said and telling her how he feels lost without her. or maybe he can try the more bold approach and go talk to her face to face. it dosen't hurt to try, if he wants her then he should go and get her. good luck.