(A) Would You Rather Live the Rest of Your Life Unhappy- to make a man and a child SEEMINGLY happy\n\nOr\n\n(B) Would You want to work together (you and the man) to make the child happy, while presusing happines else where?\n\n\nA or B and Why Do You Say That?
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(C) None of the above.\n\nYou get into a relationship for the reason of making you and your man happy, not the child. Children are a result of man and women. \n\nDon't ever put the child first in a relationship, it never works out well for anyone. \nPut your husband first and you work with your mate and the child becomes happy through this.\n\nHappiness attracts happy children.\n\nLink, shows what I am talking about.
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You can't have everything.  If you don't have children, you are free to do other things.  And there were many things I wanted to do but couldn't because I had decided to have a baby.\n\nDo I wish I didn't have him, absolutely not. He is a big part of my life and so many things that I could have done, would have been long forgotten by now.  For me, it was the right decision, but it would not be for everyone.
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Lasermouse:  Sorry, I'm with you but I HAVE to answer this question.\n\nMy son will be born in August...and he is my son.  I don't care if he's straight or gay.  I don't care if he wants to wear pants or dresses.  I don't care if he wants to be a doctor or a clown.\n\nI love my son.  I want him to be happy.  THAT'S my objective.  Not for him to live the life that I prefer...I want him to life the life that HE prefers, and I'll back him up 100%
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Why not looks with money or money with looks....\nOK.\nIf I have to choose, I will choose the one I love, \nbut if he is with money or not, if he is a good looking people or not, this doesn't matter at all.\nThere's nothing more important than love.\nBut imagine your self in bed with a ugly man, uuuuh this is terrible despite his money
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I would choose.. Love., because no matter what. Money to me doesnt mean everything. I grew up with very little money and love takes care of it all.. and money in my family is only a bunch of head aches. For real\n\nI would never marry for th e money my husband makes.. He is my world i could care less as long as we were together. and full of love.
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1to be happy\n2to be healthy\n3to have 3 more wishes
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At times a good conversation about hopes and dreams is in order. What do both parties want out of the relationship. Are both parties happy? A younger child can bring added pressures and it affected me also for awhile. I found myself doing many of the same things for a few months. I was in a total culture shock and didn't know how to handle the situation. I am now still there for my wife and its lasted 5 good years and counting. I am now myself again and love the family life. I guess at times it takes som getting used to and others it doesnt work out for people. The situation needs to be addresses because it is unhealthy for both parties. You have needs and so does he. You all need to work things out or split apart and find happiness.
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to stay together for life.we have 4 sons and 9 grandchildren.we did have a daughter[32]who passed on in jan and will always have a part of her with us.if i didn't have my husband these last 41 years i don't know what i would do.we have our problems but we work through them and solve them the best we can.we still disagree sometimes but thats ok.we cherish the time we have together and pray to god that continues for as long as god sees fit.nobody is perfect.i tell my husband i love him several times a day.all these years haven't been easy but we managed to get through those times.god bless you.
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1. I would make everything right in my and my loved ones' lives.\n\n2. World Peace (too much for the asking, isn't it?)\n\n3. Spending my whole life thinking "What should be my third wish?"
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I would save my wife first  (probably over her objections to save the child first).  Then I would sacrifice myself to save the child.\n\nI do not currently have a child and may feel differently if I ever do.\n\nI would choose my wife first because we are supposed to be one and what can one do living as half a person.
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It depends on what the situation is.\n\nA.  A man who is not happy and basically means what are you gonna do, bring it on.\n\nB.  A man who is happy means he did something good and is like "there in ya face!!"\n\nC. Or it can just mean what???\n\nIt really depend on the person who says it.  Son is like he is ur teacher, he is the man, u r the son, the younger minded one.  Women say it to someone who is a friend in a debate usually.  ex:  Like son (friend) you are trippin, thats just wrong!!
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both are good choices\n\n:> peace\n.
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Making peace with myself.  Money is nice, relationship is nice.....but rather have peace with myself above all.  If have inner peace, then happiness usually follows. :-)
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d, e, g.    I want to be in a relationship and eventually get married.  I very much want a partner in my life.   (although right now  do not have one)
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There is  a difference between being paid well/benefitting from and job and being happy and fulfilled.  The question isn't what would I do, the question is whether or not you are willing to possibly sacrifice the good parts of the job you have for something that gives you the chance to do something you feel is more worthwhile.
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1. That my kids grow up safely, happily and wisely.\n\n2. That I could live long enough to meet my grandchildren. (if the first wish takes effect and said children have grown up happily and found a good man to marry in order to give me said grandchildren)\n\n3. That my cat eventually learns to use his litterbox and not my shower.
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Getting married changed my life. Now I have someone who loves me when before I was lonely and sad. I can deal with people on a much higher level than I could before because living with another person makes you more aware of how other people think. I'd like to pass on how to love to my children.