My boyfriend doesn't like the fact that I like girls! But my problem is I love him but I want him to like the fact that I like to get it on with girls....Any advice???
134212
she is, and of course!  its kinda surprising actually that he wouldn't want to be around you while you're having fun with girlfriends.  most likely, it is a problem with his self esteem, he is probably jealous of you\n\nif he doesn't like that aspect about you, but you feel it is an important aspect in your life, you need to seriously weigh whether staying with him is worth giving that up.
88207
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and half years, and I have never once caught him looking at another female. Girls come onto him all the time. He used to work at a restaurant and all the waitresses would hit on him and ask him out and he would tell them about me and how much he loves me. All his friends ever say to me is how he is so committed to me and is so in love with me. If you catch your boyfriend looking at women, talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and tell him that it hurts you when you see him looking at other girls.
489412
you need to tell him how you feel. if he still does it and sees no problem with it, then break up with him. he's obviously not into you if he can't stop talking about other girls...especially right in front of you! and above all- don't pretend like it's ok with you when he does that!!! maybe that's why he still does it- you're not letting him know that it bothers you...
499648
If I don't like a girl, I don't pick on her at all. I'm always telling sexual jokes, and that is not necessarily a clue, but it definitely means he likes you to a certain extent. Flirt back a bit and see what happens.
641543
i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
500820
If you're attracted to both males an females then you're bi.  Just don't think if you get in a relationship with female it will be any better, some girls are just as bad as guys...\n\nOk now with that out of the way I am bi, I hate telling straight guys that I am because then all think can think about is "Yes! Threesome!" if you and your boyfriend are already shakey its not the best thing to tell him, all he'll do is make things worse by pressuring you try with a girl and to make sure he's involved.\n\nEither way you deserve to be in a good, healthy relationship and whether you decide you want to be alone for a while, try being with a woman or just sticking to guys, I think you need to lose the one your with now.  Everyone deserves the right to be happy.\n\nIf you ever need help on coming out and don't know who to talk to you can always email me if you need some advice or someone to talk to :)  good luck with everything...
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A relationship, regardless of gender, is a commitment between TWO people. If your commitment is not with your b/f, then you may have to look at the fact that it may not last. If he isn't giving you the attention he used to, before that threesome, is that attention going elsewhere? You may find that your hiding in the closet has left you blinded to other things that may very well be going on right in front of you. If you are wanting to be bi-sexual, or pursue the female-female relationship angle, you may find that the closet is more to your preference. Not saying that you are a lesbian, but an emotional tie has the same impact, regardless of gender. You can love somebody, and still not be IN love with them. Have your feelings towards your b/f changed since the threesome? Do you find yourself wanting to investigate that aspect of sex more now? Being confused is not always a bad thing, as you tend to grow up as you figure the different aspects out for yourself. The main question you really need to answer is, what is it that YOU want most..... and how hard are you willing to fight for it? If it's the b/f, talk to him openly, and let him know that you are wanting more physical contact with him, and that you miss the intimacy that you once had. See what happens. Good luck!!
560793
I'm a guy and I feel the same thing (with a girl). I can't tell you to tell him because I don't have the guts to do that myself. Maybe you should just wait for a while, although if there's no sign from him of liking you and especially if he seems into someone else, maybe you should let the matter drop. But if you truly feel love and can't let him go, then you should probably tell him how you feel. Perhaps he feels the same way about you too. I'm telling you, there are many other guys in your situation, too, so girls aren't the only ones. Maybe he doesn't know what do to either, although there's always the possibility that he really doesn't like, but not because you're not an extraordinary girl, but because he likes someone else or he just doesn't know you enough. I hope I didn't bore you with my answer too much.
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There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to watch you with another,he just want to maybe fullfil a fantisy and he wants you to be a part of it.and i think that is very good of him because most man will do that behind there girl back.and how do u go about finding a girl to do that, if you have a best friend that u trust and she is willing to do that with no strings attach with yr boyfriend whatsoever u don't have a problem.
560479
Your boyfriend should not want to be in a realtionship if this is the kind of behavior he likes to do with his female friends. There is no way you will ever feel better about what he is doing. Sound like he doesn't have to much respect for you or your feeling.
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
596672
He sounds like a great boyfriend.  Make sure he wants be more than friends. The only guys that I know are that nice to girls are gay.
373094
Making a makeout session amazing is different for everyone, talk to your boyfriend and ask what he likes and if you don't like what hes doing tell him and suggest something else or just experiment one day do different movements, speeds, angles, and even environments
453583
... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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I would hope that if he's your boyfriend that he already knows that you like him. \n\nTo answer your question regarding how your boyfriend chooses and interacts with his friends, I have a few thoughts that I'd love to share. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, however, he needs to be guarded with how he interacts with you, and if he's serious about you, he needs to make sure that you're ok with his actions.\n\nThis next comment may be a little bit extreme, but it's good food for thought. One way to gauge one's actions is to consider everyone else as someone else's husband or wife. So a question he needs to ask himself could be 'Would I act this way with a married woman'. \n\nThe part that is most difficult with this is that you can't change how he acts. You should definately talk to him about it, and if it bothers you, then he needs to know that it does. If he's serious about his relationship with you, then his actions should change if he knows it bothers you.
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I would find some else because this person is not loyal to his own girlfriend,and he sounds like what we call "a two timer" which means he likes to see more than one girl, and if you do see him, a big chance he'll do the same behind your back, so don't fool yourself and get hurt later on....so find someone else who is himself not someone who wants to flirt and show off in front of other people to get your attention....thats being childish on his behalf....seek a guy who likes who you are as an person not what you are....the relationship will go a long way.....
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You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.