Obviously you can give them oral pleasure until they scream but thats no fun because theres no balance, no conflict. etc. What do you think?
123411
so you are looking for balance ....\n\nplay games that require both to participate. \n\nAlso, when you get her almost to the point of orgasm, stop and let it calm down, then do it again, stop and let it calm, finally the third time let it go all the way.\n\nI have also been told that spontanious is a HUGE turn on.\n\nTry anything that sounds good, but remember they won't have fun if you aren't having fun too.
431437
Sounds fun to me, as long as its two consenting adults. Why fight it, your not hurting anyone, right?
320493
I do enjoy it when my wife is vocal. When she is having an orgasm sometimes she just can't help it! I enjoy that, other times she is a bit more restrained. Some times when I am about to orgasm she can talk very dirty and I must admit, this is incredible!\nNext time DH makes a comment, tell him how lucky he is!
411635
All I have to say is that in today's world, most males think it is mandatory for the females to go down on them even if there's no returning the favour... This is a major misconception, and I usually steer clear of those types of abusive males.\n\nIn my life, I believe in doing only what you want and what makes you feel good. If someone wants to go down on you, then great; all the best! If you feel like going down on someone then great too! But I don't believe in giving in to pressure, either direct on inderect, simply in order to "fit in" or "be accepted" or by fear of being ignored or whatever. \n\nIf I want to go down on a man, I will and he'll know it.... But if he tries to convince me and starts to to hint at forcing me or that it's like "my duty" that f*ck him; he's a selfish pr!ck who doesn't even deserve I give him an oral treat! \n\nBut again, in today's world, I see alot of younger women who give in to this type of male abusive b*llsh!t, and it's very very sad that they do give in, because it's just another way of the males to exert control over females... \n\nWell that doesn't work with me!
676201
personally I think that they are just listening to us enjoy ourselves. according to my husband, its because they are trying to get off and need to concentrate on doing just that!
33207
Some scream, some moan, etc. but it doesn't matter, as long as you're enjoying it then he's enjoying giving you it.
651861
They might be testing your limits and realizing that they can dominate you with their behavior and they are winning.\n\nInstead of telling them what to do (in which case they can say NO and just be stubborn) don't give them a chance to say no - give them options.\n\n"Ok, do you want to get into your pajamas or brush your teeth?"  Not "put on your pajamas" in which case they could say NO. They obviously don't care about time-out. Give them choices so they feel in charge of what happens to them next - instead of feeling like they need to lash out at you.
12654
Yes but you have to be mentaly ready for this. They are done with the heat of the moment. I personally liked it a lot. I did it with protection of course.. I wanted it as much as he wanted it... and i had fun.
543855
LOL,..I have been there.... she was abused as a kid.... if not outright sexually then by the culture's judgments and shaming of sex. Anyway it feels like she wants you to read her mind, right........ well, it does not matter what you do, you wont get it right,,,,,,it is how she wins.....if you force her she will be very angry, if you do not she will grow bored of you and treat you like you are weak.......but her fantasy is to be taken by force.......she does not want to feel responsible for the guilt invoked by her own pleasure. .. Her desire to be abused is probably driving her mad.
467601
I wont let my wife kill them only because why should she have all the fun!\n\nReally though, we take turns
155134
If it's not taking any fun out of your sex life, why is this a problem for you?
439071
You can take it seriously but I do think everybody needs a release or some form of enjoyment that allows them to get away from the day to day BS that you do have to take seriously.   I think a majority of people in the USA are miserable because they never have fun anymore.  When road rage shootings and fights at Pee-Wee sporting events are common something is wrong in the culture.....
120036
YES very. NO one can BEAT You, spanking on the bottom when needed is Sometimes acceptable, BUT Beating NO . next time this is said say : 'anyone ever beats me I am calling the police'. and MEAN it. best wishes for no beatings. there is already enough of us survivors out here, trust me we need no more.
662933
I think this reaction is a lot more common than you may think.  I won't spank and tell, but I've known several women who are confirmed spankophiles and one who could reach orgasm through spanking alone.  (I'm talking about 'pleasure' spankings, not disciplinary ones.)
666553
it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
261307
I absolutely agree on that one 100%..anyone who disagrees doesn't get out often.\nAnd that "treat those as you wish to be treated" is bullshit.\nI say "treat those the way they APPEAR to want to be treated!"
515303
No such thing. We can give them lots of things to put them to sleep, but there is nothing to give them that will keep them from pinching our butts if we get too close to a "wild" one.