ok the thing is im with some one how is very nice and sweet but i am starting to fall in love with my ex-boyfriend and he is nice but he is a cheating dog what should i do????
137760
Girl I hear ya! I am in the same boat, my ex did me very wrong, but yet I still find myself drawn to him like he is some kinda evil magnet. But you know what I do to keep myself from not getting too attached again..remember how bad he made me hurt amnd then I listen to one of the many song I listened to when we broke up and then I realize he's not good enough for me, either is ur ex!
1683
Why do you want to be with someone who plays games with your heart and your head?  He woos you behind his girlfriend's back.  He's a cheating creep.  Just because you have feelings for him and miss him doesn't mean he's worth your while.  Sometimes it's really hard, when you've loved someone, to realize you never should have invested in them in the first place.  I mean, if you knew he would treat you this way BEFORE you fell inlove with him, would you have allowed yourself to get attached to him?  And sometimes, it's hard to face ANOTHER disappointment, and so we try to see good that isn't there.\n\nMy opinion, stay away.  I know it's hard, but stay away.
433859
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
89092
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
120084
If you cheat your hurting everyone involved including yourself. Be good, also if you are considering cheating then maybe you should just break it off. Find someone that makes you forget about everyone else around! That's when you will find love.
367119
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
39387
Sounds like the two of you don't trust each other and don't trust yourselves. When I was young, I was terribly jealous because my self-esteen was low. I didn't seem to believe that I was worth loving, so I would cling too tightly to boyfriends and friends. Thankfully, I matured and realized how foolish it is to be jealous.\n\nIf you love and trust your boyfriend and if you're not just hanging onto him because you don't believe that you are worth loving, then let him go with his friends, even if the ex is there. \n\nIf he does do anything to destroy your trust, then he's not worth being with anyway. Find someone else who is. The reverse is true for you as well. You aren't looking to cheat on your boyfriend, right? Then he needs to trust you, too. If you do cheat on him, then that's not fair to him. He is deserving of someone trustworthy, too.\n\nJealousy can destroy relationships. I've seen it happen. Lighten up on each other. See where your trust can take you.
214733
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
571140
I think you shouldn't wait for him and don't rush into a relationship when your not even over your ex. Don't cheat someone out of all of you. Don't go into a relationship half-ass in other words it's not fair to either of you. You can't take his hints as a sign that he might possibly want to get with you. You moved, things changed and they may never go back to what they used to be. Don't assume that you'll never love anyone as you did you EX because even if he was your first love you'll always have a place in your heart for him. But life moves on as did he and when you heart heals then you'll be able to fully commit yourself to someone else. Just give it time it will get better. Good luck gurly!
673263
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
403798
you might still be in love with him,but it will take you time to move on.here is an example:i broke up with my ex-fiance  1month and almost 3 weeks ago.about 1 week ago i still felt those feeling until i met chris from germany on a chat and realized that i loved him.i also realized that the feelings i had about my ex were feelings of being scared to be alone and single. i didn't miss him(but that is what i thought), i miss the times i spend doing fun stuff with not only my boyfriend at that time but because he was a friend.please get out there and enjoy your life go out with friends and do something fun and you'll find someone.good luck.
519790
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
234273
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
484028
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
141479
If you truly love the one your with then stay away from Ben before something happens you will regret. When you find yourself over analyzing the bad bits of your relationship find at least one good bit to put beside each bad one you think of. I bet the good out way the bad. When you find yourself daydreaming of Ben put your boyfriend in his place. Reprogram your brain to think of your man and the good times you have. This other boy is only infatuation. It will pass once your boyfriend gets home.
625788
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you can't be 100% into your current bf.  You need to figure out if you want to go back with your ex and try to make the relationship work - or if you want to start fresh with your new bf.  \nKeep in mind that the problems you had with your ex are still going to be there.  Whatever the reason was why you broke up with him will still be there - you will basically be going back into your old relationship and be faced with a lot of the same problems and issue.  If you think you can work things out and it will work this time then you should give it a shot.  However, if you know you can't work things out, then you should give your current relationship a try and stay with your new bf.
425523
I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.