Every time she says this but this time it sound pretty serious pleaze Help me! What should I do?
137500
Well, I know how it feels to have that happen to you and I can truely say that just talking to your parents and the same time would probably be the best way to tell them how you really feel about it. If they don't listen, just try to understand that everything happens for a reason and you may not like it. But God always has a plan. Trust me. I hope I helped you out!
531822
She's playing you like a fool. She is nothing but trouble and heartache. The only future with her is more misery. Run like hell and do not look back. Don't let her back into your life for ANY reason.
207182
Just ignore it. She sounds like she's really not moved on. If she had she wouldn't be thinking about you and making silly calls.
325224
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
675005
Do you live together?  If not, there's still hope... when ever she says something hurtful or rude, just change the subject and act as if she said nothing, don't humor her and keep it up... and she probably doesn't take you seriously.  When you have brought it up, do you sugar coat your conversation?  Just be firm and say you don't appreciate the comments she makes and you would like for them to stop,... let her know that it could cause some tension between your family and her and you are trying to avoid that situation.  She is probably disregarding your feelings because she feels you're over-reacting and is unaware of how badly she is making you feel.  I was in a VERY similar situation before, and there is no easy way around it.
188014
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
69285
yikes.  what did she say that was so awful?\nmaybe it's okay to move and take some time.  she's family; you can always reconnect later.\nhaving an open conversation about what's going on, though, is far better than her just moving quickly and no one talkign about it.  try to stay friends!
378668
I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.
171896
She is still in the past,and she is playing mind games with you,hence you asking this question here now.\nShake it off as if you didnt hear her.
145558
Stop you are waisting your time and you sound like a caring person,END IT AND STAY AWAY!!!!! Good Luck!
529822
tell her that you are really sworry and didnt mean what you said\n\n\n\nbasicly what you just told 3230957 people
207981
I think that you should believe her and give her a second chance. \n\nBut I would just kinda play it cool until you know weather or not she is lying. If she keeps on acting better over the next couple months then she probably is clean.\n\nBut dont put your self in the situation where you can get hurt. Dont get you hopes high just to have them stomped on. If she is clean great, but if she is not then just dont let it get to you. Just keep going on with your own life.
551207
You know its not true ignore her. I've been there and he told her that as long as she lived she could never walk in my shoes. Just be calm. Ignore her . Her mouth will be her undoing eventually. You get agitated and she wins.
120933
That is rough. I have been there myself. If she continues to push herself on you even after you have told her no then she doesn't respect you or your feelings. She is being self centered. You make it very clear to her how it makes you feel.Tell her that if she keeps it up you will no longer be friends and you will be forced into pressing charges against her with the police for harassment.Your best bet after that is to avoid her best you can.Keep busy with other things.
639280
well i think that you should perhaps next time she calls answer and ask her what thye f***k do you want? Then when she explains answer or or whatever but then make it clear that she is an EX GIRLFRIEND and that she has to move on as you have and that she must not have any sort life etc if she keeps pranking you. I no thats mean of me to say but its true.  Plus you need to be honest even if it hurts her as she is being crazy obsessed and stuff.\n\nIf that does not work DONT answer her calls at all and if you see her in the street walk the other way or make no contact with her, in the end she will get the point, hopefully!\n\ngood luck
675214
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
246094
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.