believe me i have had a couple different partners, and i love sex some time i have sex 9 times a day with my b/f but i never orgasm, i dont even know what one feels like when your haveing sex, i have had some with forplay but not sex.
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when you are having sex ,just imagine your past foreplay.if it doesn't work then, meet sex therapist b/cos you may have organismic dysfunction.
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No. They most likely don't know what an orgasm is. I did not know what an orgasm was until 10 years of having sex. But i did do a lot of screaming and carrying on.
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Yes sex is spectacular. but not with every partner every time.  If you aren't feeling ready I would wait.  If you are close with your partner you can have as much fun doing things without penetration.  Anything sexual is exploration.  Every partner will be different and every encounter with the same partner different.  Sex will only be spectacular if you are comfortable with the person you are with and only gets better with time.
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There's certain pleasure in pain. Like for me scratching my back and smacking my booty, and pulling my hair is a turn on. During sex when two become one it become amazing to as what can be turned into pleasure that normally wouldn't be. You have to learn your woman to know what pleases her and what causes pain.  As you embark on your intimate journey w/ your partner you will both learn about each other each other's likes and dislikes. It's a trial and error, but worth it in the end.
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I'm 23, been married for close to 5 years, and in this whole time that i've been married, i've only been able to keep on going after ejaculating maybe 3 or 4 times. It's normal to go down after ''release'', but i'm confused about the not feeling it part. i've personally never had a problem with not being able to feel anything, sometimes i feel it too much and cum too fast (cries quietly to self). anyway the answer to both of your questions are, it's all in your mind, it all has to do with how turned on you are, how comfortable you are with the person, etc. hope this helped
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i was like that and still am but its just a phase you will get over it eventually. I never did but hey its just you. Sex is a beautiful thing and its a great workout!!!
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Orgasms with sex didn't happen for me until I got a little older, more comfortable with my own body, in tune with my own sexuality, and finding what worked for me and going after it, and practice of course.\n\nRead this, good advice:\n\nhttp://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html\n\nAlso, just my opinion, but stop faking it.  You don't do you or your partner any favors by faking it.
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I am 33 years old and I have only had one vaginal orgasm. This is very common and you are not alone. It takes a lot to get there. A lot of passion and romance. Then again a lot of women never get to experience that..My hubby and I use toys and we can still orgasm together. This is a great thing....I hope this helps, Good Luck..
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Some do, some don't. \n\nYou asked why the do no like to have sex as much as you do, but you did not say how much you liked sex, so it cannot be answered. How often for you? Once a year, or do you just dream about it and then take matters into your own hands?
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I didn't have an orgasm through intercourse for about a year after I lost my virginity to my fiance.  I was anxious and nervous and I saw it all as a really big deal which stopped me coming even though oral and masturbation made me come.  When he asked me to marry him, it was like someone switched on a tap and I now orgasm every single time that we have intercourse.\n\nYou could try having your boyfriend stimulate you until you are almost at orgasm before stopping to have sex for a while, then continuing the manual stimulation etc until you orgasm whilst he is inside you.  Different positions might work, try missionary with your legs up over his shoulders or a cushion under your bum, doggy style with him reaching round to stimulate your clitoris, you on top stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you.\n\nGood luck!
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well it could be because you are nervous, some women may have the sooner than others some only require physical touch others require mental stimulation.\nif you are with your partner experiment or don't be afraid to tell him or her (if that's your case) what to do what feels good  or where to go. there are many reasons, if you cant with your partner try exploring with your self first then make suggestions  based on the things you tried while alone.\n\nthe main thing is be comfortable and relaxed.\nI dont want to go to deep into it here, if you like to hear more e-mail me \nmy e-mail addres is \n\ndj-roland808@hotmail.com\n\nif you have messenger aol msn or yahooo also let me know can add you and speak live
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well to be honest it could be one of two things, i am not to judge and dont know u 1: ur not well endowed,sorry  but thats my problem and i have had this happend to me b 4 ur not the only one and 2: not enogh foreplay or to much, just got to take ur time talk to them and tell them how good they are, and remember oral does a great job for orgasms for women, also toys which i have never used might help some,
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I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
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multiple =more than one\nI think most guys can if enough time it put into making love\n\nI think most woman experiance this regularly\nand speaking from that perspective as a woman each orgasm is differant but all are great
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I squirt every time my husband and I have sex. I do it multiple times. He said there has been times to where it almost shot off the edge of the bed. Incredable feeling if you've never experienced it!
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My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
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there are definately some exorsizes that work try time alone playing and stop when you know its getting there..... try to keep practising this trick untill you can go for about 15 mins then when you are ready with a partner take control so you can take a break whenevef you want to also my best advise is this ... make sure your partner is pleasured before intercourse and then theres no hard feelings good luck with that one sweet heart ps its not very comman to find a guy that can last too long so dont think its just you sweety