if u need to control your thoughts in action to control your mind or how is it to be followed
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This is what we spend all that time in school for... were you paying attention and doing the work? lol!\n\nIt is not the first impulse or first fleeting idea that we control, but what we do with it. If you let go of negative impulses and thoughts, and grab hold of positive impulses and thoughts, you will condition your mind to only produce the ones you want to have.
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That's a tough one...\n\nI don't think you can actually stop thoughts from crossing your mind if it is something you desire. BUT, what you can do is go to a therapist/counselor and try to learn how to get the thoughts off your mind when they do occur. And how to not act on those thoughts if that is something you don't want to be doing.
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sometimes it's all in your mind, focus. goodluck
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if you dont want to read the whole thing ive tried to make it as simple as possible at the very bottom... after the edit....\n\nwe follow our instinct autonomously until we are made self aware... then we start to learn better control of ourselves by making sense of things through language and also consequently obtaining a better sense of reality...\n\nwhen guided by instinct you just go with the flow and there really is no ,consciousce or guided, thought on your part... it does the thinking for you and your just part of the ride...\n\nits a self guided program your immersed in...where your mind automatically picks out things which stand out... then automatically your body contemplates this thing and your subconscious reflex guides you either to it or to react to it, and/or investigate it further if it sees that need to...  otherwise it moves on until it you notice something else to react upon....\n\nthrough this animal thinking everything you think is mostly like a picture... but its not a picture.... its a memory of exactly what senses where stimulated in that moment... which also makes it seem like you see something... its hard to describe how this works... but using this you have an exact memory for that moment.. and an exact way to react when in that moment...this is your thoughts...  the more you learn the more is programmed into your autonomacy...\n\n\nalso sometimes you can see this program in action... with dreams... automatically you know what to do in them...and its more like a movie playing out... \n\nthis explains why dogs twitch their legs sometimes.. or cry, whine, yelp or bark while sleeping... their dreams are everyday acts inputed into the autonomacy program... then while their asleep it randomly creates stimulations one would find in the real world... its still unkown what purpose this serves though... while sleeping i mean...\n\nalso without thoughts we tend to dwell on doing the things that feel good... and conveniently enough instinct has it so the things which feel good are the right things to do (mostly)...\n\nit isnt until later in life that our consciousceness of the world can realize that to gain some things you want ... you must sacrifice some things or do things not feeling good to get what you want.\n\nanyway, for what you asked the same thing mentioned above applies for deaf and blind people... whatever stimulations stand out more than others is what they think about... and through their own program of autonomacy... they know what to do and what not to do... we still have our insctinct to rely on... and they have the same feelings of hunger and pain... etc as we do.... and this is what they focus on... the feelings and/or the pictures that guide them.... \n\na blind person dreams about what they felt or heard... making sense of it in their own way that works for them to survive and be happy....\n\na deaf person dreams about what they saw and felt and tends to dwell on these senses in reality as well toward a sytem that works for them...\n\n-sorry if this is choppy and random... but i hope it helps...\n\n----------*edit*-----------\nill clarify this a little... i realize its not very eloquent an answer...\n\nbasically like somone had said above before we associate things with words.... we associate things with our senses (stimulations).... and it is the good and bad things which guide us... as children we have a memory of the exact stimulations we had at that specific moment... which also forms a picture in our mind with certain "feelings" associated with them...\n\n randomly things relavant to the current situation flash in our mind...like pictures with feelings... and we then decide( mostly subconsciously)  which to act upon... its more like falling into preset actions...\n\nchoosing one of these preset actions most relevent... means going into the same stimulations we had before that would work in this situation... i really hope this makes sense... its so hard to explain...\n__________
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I don't think you control intuition, I think choose to ignore intuition or act on intuition.  Start by asking yourself about:\n\nthe source:\n "how do I know that?"  \n"am I picking up on clues?"  \n"am I remembering something that I heard in the background but I wasn't concentrating on?  (I am ADD and that happens a lot.)  \n\nthe impact of the intuition if you change your normal response:\n"how does knowing this information change things?"  \n"if I use this information to . . . the results would be . . . --is this a good or poor outcome?"  \n"what's best for me in this situation?"  \n" what's best for others in this situation?"  \n"if I am wrong, what would the consequence be & does it come at a price?"\n\nHonestly, I don't think you ever want to totally block your intuition.  It can warn you of dangers.
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It takes control... and to achieve that, it takes practice. All humans feel these emotions. Especially starting at the onset of puberty for guys, and in the late teens for gals. Self-control is important. But you have to want to control yourself in order to achieve. Ask yourself what it is that you really want from life... what you need from life. What do you need now, and what can wait for? Yes, my friend, you are completely normal.\nGood luck to you.
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I started to realize the difference between things I could control, and things I can't control.  This helped me sort out my negative feelings towards some things because I can't help it and neither can anyone else help it if someting just is.  Then I realized that your whole day could be considered great if you think positively through it and accomplish things for you. A situation that you are feeling negatively about or that ruins your day could be simply a 5 minute downer instead of something that lasts the whole day, or continuous negative thoughts.  The key is to realize you are thinking negative thoughts when they appear.  Anytime you are feeling down, take a step back and think... 'wait.  i just told myself something negative'  acknowledge that you were thinking something negative.  this gives the little voice inside your head validation that something seems unjust, angers you, or depresses you.  Then you need to divert your attention immediately to anything you can think of.  It coudl be a pre-planned positive thought that may take your mind off of it, or it could be anthing that will distract you.  start a crossword, watch tv, surf the internet, do anything that will distract you from that thought and move on in the day.  any time a negative thought appears to you you need to remember to acknowledge it for a moment and then distract yourself to think positively.  pretty soon you will be thinking positively more often and a negative thought will come by less often and be tons easier to pick out.  at first you may go for a long time before you remember to stop your thoughts, but thats because you are used to negative tendancies.  just keep trying and you will improve
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www.mindyourownbuisness.com
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god is you, and you are god.  control wat u can, and juss go with the flow.\n\nif ur thinking god is like that guy up there watching over us.. think again.  u really think there is a guy up there watching all our actions?
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You have to know when your doing it and try to be in control of it. Try something that is not as obvious as what your doing. Wear a ring and spin it on your finger or something. Sometimes people outgrow nervous tics.
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START TO MENTALING YOUR SELF
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Happy and Sad are controlled by chemicals in the brain, just like any other emotion.  The chemicals may be triggered by our actions and thoughts, meaning we control the mind.
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ONLY YOU KNOW YOU OWN TO DO, IN ANY ORDER YOSHIS....TRY STREAMING IN YOU OWN THOUGHT OF IT NOW AND CREATE THAT AS A FORMALA
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Make sure that you are sitting comfortably, with no constricting clothing. If you have problems holding your mind still with your eyes closed, start off by staring at a point in the room - just to bring your mind present. You may also find it helpful to repeat a mantra - be careful to choose a soundword that holds no meaning for you (as a word with meaning may cause your mind to wander).
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a person can't control his/her actions because when someone is extremely angry or anxious signals from the lymbic system(area which controls emotions) can't reach the prefrontal lobes (front portions of the brain which control memory/emotions) that's one reason why when someone is angry "they can't think straight" because there's too much neural static which interferes with normal brain functioning, because of this they can't control their actions
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I think they are saying that You are thinking about this too much.  You are putting added stress on yourself because you think this way.  Basically that Phrase means you are thinking about the situation differently than most others would.  Therefore those bad thoughts are "In your Head" alone, and not in most others.
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just keep ur mind in place . all the same try to see his point too.