I'm in love with a guy.the uy also loves me a lot.but the problem is that his ex girlfriend is not ready to move out of our lives.wat do i do to get rid of her.he also is fed up of his ex girlfriend but is helpless.please help us solve our problem.
127999
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
573499
Sweetheart, that is why they call it a crush... sometimes you just have to acknowledge that the truth is out and move on... think of it this way... would you want him to get rid of her just to date you? Cuz I believe that karma comes back around and do unto others as you would have them do unto you... the best advice I can give is to just be friends with him and if she has a problem of you showing him attention then become friends with her as well... you get to spend time getting to know the real him and how he treats her and you get a new friend... if a no go on her and u hitting it off then its best to keep your distance... It will be hard, but it will be benefitial in the long run... I hope this helps...
507773
It sounds like you need to make the decision for him and break it off.  If he is still talking with his ex, then he is not over her and will not be able to fully commit to you or anyone else until he is.  It sounds like he needs to be taking care of his issues with his ex and not getting involved with anyone else until he has that figured out.  You sound more like his safety net than anything and if she was to call him back and tell him to come back to her, you would be dumped and he would be gone.
613882
hey, \nOnce a man has made up his mind it's over. Also, it sounds like he is getting what he wants and more from this other girlfriend of his. Besides he left you before you went to the hospital! Doesn't that say something! You deserve someone so much better. She may not even love him. but when something happens like; she doesn't give him everything he wants. He will leave and come crawling back. There really isn't anything you can do. I have had this same experience. Not as bad, but I know how you are feeling. AS soon as you come to accept it, it gets better.
489949
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
130950
Please what were you doing with him in the first place if you love someone else. that doesn't seem very mature or fair to the other guy. stop playing games with peoples hearts and grow up.stress??? caused by guilt or maybe wanting something that belongs to another!
559909
A guy who won't meet with a person he's been in a relationship with to end it with her is a coward.  He knows he's not doing the right thing and is embarassed to be honest about it.\n\nAs hard as it might feel, she needs to just let him go.  He's heart is not with her anymore and she'd be better off picking up the pieces and moving on.  It will be a long road to recovery but better to start now than to linger and mope cause he's long gone and he's not coming back.  She deserves better.
509099
You let him be free,And the best way is to let him go,He is the one missing out on someone special,He is such a loser,i pity him.He lost someone who truely loves and cares about him,True love which is mightier than power,You lost someone who's a jerk.Cheer up girl.You deserve someone better who can give you all that love.
212970
I don't think it's fair to the new guy that you're still in love with your ex boyfriend. Serious or not, he deserves your full attention and care. If you can't provide that, you should let him go so that he can find someone that can give him her undivided attention. You need time to heal and to get over your ex boyfriend and staying with another guy is not the way to do that.
447948
I agree with the other posts. you are doing the right thing. The sooner you forget about him and move on, the better for you. You dont need his issues. His ex is most welcome to him. He sounds like a true loser. And I dont mean to insult on your taste in men. Hopefully this experience will make you stronger and wiser. Find a guy with morals and ethics. He deserves to be with you.
642038
I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
311396
Don't date the other guy yet, it will make him worse. He sounds very insecure, like he needs therapy. Keep going out with your friends. Ask his friends to help you and keep him busy, so he has less time to think about you. Try not to talk to other guys when he's around if it gives him amunition. IT's not love he feels for you, it's obcession! Tell him you're sorry it didn't work out for the 2 of you, but he needs to get over you, and you both need to get on with your own lives. Ask his friends to talk to him and tell him he needs to get over you. In time he'll get the message. If he is violent, or you are scared maybe you need to get the authorities involved. Good luck.
403324
I think you should let her think about who she really wants. if she wants the ex who is an asshole then let her. Let her miss out on your good quality and you can find someone else that wants to be in a relationship. Don't still around with someone who is going to make a decision that is half hearted a girl like that is just pulling your stings. It seems like that two months was nothing to her. i think she already knew that she loved her ex and the she wanted someone to just keep her mind off of him.
31667
Just let him go. You just waste you time waiting for something not available. You deserve the best. Explore your enviroment and you will find your next better perfect match. Move on !!!
120403
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
217057
just try to forget he is in your life and move on, it is hard but it can be done. I did it. I found someone else to replace my g/f and bingo I was free to start a new life. good luck
43041
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.