my BF is always busy... he only finds time to for me mostly by the phone, by borrowing off some time or sneaking in and out of work... I know its... sweet, BUT ITS WRONG! I feel so bad spending some time with him because its just borrowed time... we haven't really spend time together... the last time we went on a date... he suddenly left me because of some emergency at work! I don't get it... I found out that he often plays/walks his dog or visit his sister (yeah HIS SISTER!) why does he has so much time for them and not for me?! when he was just dating me he seems to have all the time in the world... but now that Im his GF he rarely spends some time with me! sometimes I wait until morning just to talk to him... I feel neglected... and I think I should dump him... he should've think of the responsibilities that came with having a GF before he asked me to be his
133715
why do u look like a cat?
644191
you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
404582
I don't know about anyone else... and this was new to me... but when I got with my BF that I am with now, he told me he does it a LOT, like 8 times a day a lot! LOL.... I think it's hott, as long as I'm not around to give him any... hehe! He slowed down now cuz he has me around all the time! Maybe you just need to find a grilfriend to take out all that frustration on LOL! If your 'thangs' no raw... than wack on! LOL
354384
Give him the time with his friends. Sometimes I need time away and just want to go out with my girls. But he should answer his phone when you call. Or at least check in with you.
431261
Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
121452
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
268867
being at work doesn't mean he's really working on your relationship with you.\n\nIf he doesn't take time for you now, he won't later.  Drop him and let him come to you if that's what he really wants.  It sounds like he's looking for an excuse to leave the relationship.\n\nWhy waste your life while he tries to decide if he wants to spend time with you or not?
492445
Sounds like he's blowing you off. Even if he doesn't think anything is wrong, just the fact that you feel that way should be enough for him to try and make the situation better. If he's not attentive to your feelings and needs, he's being selfish. Give it a little while, and if he's not making an effort, you should start looking for some new endeavors.
374084
I don't think that sounds like cheating at all; however, I can totally see why you would feel jealous because I'd feel that way if I had a gf like that! I think that they just happen to have very similar schedules, so they tend to be around each other a lot. Unless he constantly talks about how amazing she is all the time, or goes completely out of his way to make plans with her instead of being around you, then I'd start to worry and ask him what's going on. Until then, I don't think you need to feel threatened.
526536
Nothing serious, unless she was into barely seeing you. Im a really busy person too and I think that a full time boyfriend just wouldn't work for me. \n\nKeep in mind that you need a day of rest too, sometimes its nice to just relax and do nothing for a change one your one day of freedom from your hectic schedual.
362546
Well if he's not calling you back then I would stop calling him. Just keep up the emails if you feel like it. Maybe if you stop calling him he will start to wonder why and he will think to call you. But I doubt he thinks your needy...he probably is just busy and since you are out of sight you are out of mind. Ya know? No biggie though. Just find a man in your area, because most people aren't into long distance relationships. gooooood luck.
214046
Don't pressure him to dump his g/f for you, if it was meant for you and him to be together... you and him will be together. Only time will tell. If he dumps his g/f for you and another girl comes along while you and him are in a relationship don't you think he just might dump you for her. So I'm not saying sit around and wait for him to come around, there are plenty of fish in the sea- explore your options. If he wants to be with you it will happen!!
560583
TRY ASKING HIM...BABY YESTERDAY I WANTED TO GO TO YOUR WORK TO SURPRISE YOU AND I DIDN'T FIND YOU THERE? I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT LAST MINUTE THAT YOU WEREN'T GOING TO WORK BUT I FELT CONFUSED BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T AT LEAST CALL ME TO LET ME KNOW. I JUST REALLY MISS YOU BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WEEK I HAVE TO AT LEAST KNOW YOU ARE OK BECAUSE I GET WORRIED THAT YOU WORK TWO JOBS. LET HIM KNOW MAYBE HE WAS A LITTLE TIRED FROM THE TWO JOBS AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE TIME TO REST. BUT TELL HIM COMMUNICATION IS SUPER IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
273654
Two hours is nothing for him to drive and take you out or spend the day with you.  I would, if I liked someone and they equally liked me!  There is always the telephone in between times when you can't see each other.  Doesn't sound like a problem to me.
608782
I takes some getting use to when schedule changes make your relationship change.  My bf and I use to see each other for a couple of hours a day, everyday.  Now, because of work and his other obligations after work, I'm lucky if I see him during the week.\n\nSpending time apart is just as important as spending time together.  Get a new hobby or spend more time with your friends.  Just because you have a full time job doesn't mean that you can't go out and party with them once on a week night.\n\nBeing apart during the week will make your time together more special.  It just takes time to get use to it.
113786
Calling you in a regular basis is not everything. He is a busy person. So, it is possible to be tired after he finish his job. That is not a perfect time to call you and he might feel that if he starts talking to you at that time, you will be dipressed at his condition. So, he likes to avoid this situation. Is it wrong? I don't think so!\n\nRemember one thing, keeping you in his heart always is far better than paying attention to so many girls - no matter how much time he is being able to give you!
375575
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)