I have liked this boy for a long time and i REALLY want to say yes to him but... i dont want to hurt my friend. she is really sweet and a good friend but she could probably never forgive me if i go out with "her man" but he doesnt even like her and she knows that. i just want to be happy but my friends wantto be happy to so thats why i really cant decide what to do!!! PLZ help me i need all the advice i can get.
129667
Open the lines of communication with your friend so there are no hard feelings if you choose to go out with him.
306584
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
473264
I was in the same situation once. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you want him.Or you can flirt around him, but don't do it all of a sudden.Take it day by day,get a little flirtyer every day and you may have a chance.....If she threatens you she probably isn't your real friend.Talk to her to and tell her.
37586
Don't stab your friend in the back. Knowing how she feels should give you an idea of how to handle this. Nothing is worth ruining your friendship. Not even a boy who will probably not be there long anyway.
124505
Be mad at the boy.  He lied to you straight out while on the other hand you told your friend it was ok for her to like him and she probably didn't expect him to ask her.  You should also be mad at yourself.  If you like someone you got to grab on and not wait till later or they will inevitably move on.
356750
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
604972
my dear your heart only have one place and you say who in it thats only.\nand about your friend you can tell him that you have agood boy friend and you happy with him and you will happy more if your friend be your brother.\nbut donnt leave the boy you love him if he realy good and love you
24417
well i was in your shoes once before but see what you do is that you go to a best friend who you know who want tell the whole shool and laugh at you and have her go to him and ask him if he likes you if so you go and ask him out.\nNow if know his friend have his friend ask him if he likes you and tell him to tell the boy you like to ask you out first then you can save your guts hope i gave you a good advace email me @sexysexycarmel and tell how did it go
251846
ow, that hurts. I'm sorry, well did he know you liked this girl? If he did that was really mean. Your right that punching him won't make anything better and it might affect how the girl you like thinks of you. What did the girl say? If she said yes just hang out around your best friend and her so you know what shes like to boys, if she said no you still have a chance.
95724
Talk to this boy & let him know that keeping this from your best friend is making you feel bad about the whole situation. In a way you're lying to your best friend & talking to this boy will help you figure out what the both of you want to do. I'm sure he's afraid of letting it all out in the open as well is just making sure that both of you are truly into one another. Talk to her about & see if she's okay with it. If she's truly your best friend she will be happy for you & her brother.
636435
talk to your friend about it. personally, i feel that she shouldnt be mad at you since you like this boy and he likes you back. theres nothing she could do to have him like her when he likes you. dont do anything till you've talked.
216292
OKay do what u want and if u like him u should deff go out with him and ur friends shouldnt get mad either way u go and if they do then thats their problem and they should be happy for u if u do go out wiht him and if u dont they need to understand ur reasoning that u just dont like him and if they get mad their just being dumb and they will eventually get over it and if they dont then u dont want them as a friend cause Friends dont get mad over guys that u like or dont!! well whatever u do Good luck and i hope for the best=)
267982
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
31991
Well if you really think this boy you like is really cool and you can trust him I suggest you go for it, but still try and change your borhters opinion. Try and convince about you and his friend.
450694
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
197194
You have to be true to your heart.  If that leads you to this boy, then you should sit down and talk to your best friend and explain how you feel.  If she is any kind of friend, then she should only want your happiness.  After all, we can't control who we fall in love with.  If we could this world would be a very boring place to live!
247521
Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!