I have a friend whose boyfriend plays games with other women online.In these types of games they go into a private chat,just where the two of them chat.He also chats about certain things with the other lady.One day she sat next to him and watch them playing the game and the chatting that was going on between the two of them.It was ok until she read that one of them had said they wish they were closer to each other,of course she got upset about it.The two of them have never met and my friend does not believe in giving out real address over the internet.What advice can you give this lady?
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The advice that i would give is that her husband should respect her and love her enough that he would not be communicating with females he would play the games against males.I am a female and if my man was chatting like that with another woman I would feel disrespected Its not that I don't trust him because I do,but it is a respect issue. I myself chat but if I find out that it is a male I do not chat with that person anymore because I have respect for my man. I guess what im saying is she needs to ask her husband not to chat with females out of respect for her. \n\n                  Good luck I  hope this helps
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Of course you're right.  I wouldn't want to meet anyone I didn't feel comfortable with.  I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to have a good online relationship with a person before I met her.
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approach as a friend... do not push or back her into a corner.... a simple phone call to ask how she has been... and then leave it alone....... let her decide........ if she is playing games and teasing you, well your choice, but I would not want a g/f or b/f that was into that.......... God bless
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Normal for her to have male friends.\nNot normal to keep them "secret".\nIs she keeping their identities or just the phone #s a secret?\nHas she introduced you to them? If you've all hung out then it's probably fine and she just thinks you're weird to ask for the numbers.
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Personally I would leave that one alone. Who knows what kind of person she is to be sending pictures like that over the internet to people she doesnt know. who knows how many she is talking to and sending those pics to as well as you. This might not be a girl you would want to get to know. If you have morals and values and self respect you would walk away and leave her to those kind of guys who have no respect for woman in general.
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Leave it alone. Nothing is more uncomfortable then having to face that person at work during a relationship period.  She need to grow up and do something about her life and you should just be her friend and quit sharing her business on the internet
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Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
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Anything that has to do with sexual stimulation with another person that is not your significant other is cheating. Also, don't do unto others what you wouldnt want done to you. If your bf had cybersex , you wouldn't like it. \n\nRules of Thumb to consider: \n- Are you doing something you wouldn't want your partner to know about?\n- Are you keeping your cyber lover a secret?\n- Are you engaging in an activity you would hesitate to do in front of your real-life beloved? \nGenerally speaking, if any of these apply, the action could either be considered cheating or at the very least, damaging to your relationship. If you don't want your partner to know about your online attractions, then you should rethink your actions. \nIn effect, your real-life mate is the deciding factor. Ask yourself, “What perspective does my partner have about cyber sex?” If he or she feels betrayed, then there's the answer. \n\nSeveral red flags to consider:\n- Is there an emotional attachment to your cyber "friend?" \n- Do you look forward to "speaking" with this person?\n- Is your online relationship taking time away from your beloved? \nIf any of these apply, you may want to analyze your true intentions. Ask yourself, “Is this cyber communication a replacement for what I feel I am missing from my real partner?” Many cyber sex participants have admitted to participating in this activity because their sex life has fallen short of their expectations. If your cyber relationship is taking time away from your beloved, it’s time to decide, who is your priority.
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They probably won't answer hun, their girlfriends are online.\nlol!
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Would you turn someone in real life down for this cyber friend? If so then I suppose it would work, but I couldn't be do that. Find a real date close to you and have a blast together!
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i have the same question. i doubt it.. i don't think there is one.. everyone nowadays come to the net to do nasty things... maybe the 2 of us can create a room and invite friends huh?
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I think it is possible to have friends of opposite sex, but what concernes me about your story is that he  is not open with you about this friendship. He should have no problem with you being present during his conversations with her. Another thing is after you get married, friends fade away a little and your spouse becomes a focus of your life, so it is unnatural to spend that much time even with your closest friend. If you have concerns about her, tell him about it, and if I was in this situation, I would insist that he only talks to her when I am around at least for a while so you could see for yourself that there is nothing more to the story. If she is just a friend as he claims she is, he won't have a problem with you being around while he is talking to her. But make sure you keep track of all the conversations you are aware of and see if those are the only ones that appear on the phone bill, but do it without him knowing that you are keeping track for two reasons: you won't come across as insecure and controlling and if he is doing something wrong it will be easier to catch him. I hope I'm making sense. Try not to accuse him of anything right away, just tell him that his relationship with that woman makes you unconfortable and you want to work out a situation that will work for both of you.
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Most people that are online conversing have someone they have exclusivly at home. They are just looking for what they what and then when they get bored they mive on. The trick is when that happens, ignore them too. Don't try to change it. If they don't wanna talk or ignore you sometimes than ignore them to, you have better things to do.
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Have your boyfriend forward that forwarded message back to the girl friend. A few people may grow up a bit.
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I don't cyber anymore after my computer caught me with the tv.\n\n1. I'm in a long distance relationship (but we know eachoter in real life) and it would be cheating, by heart and mind. I'm sure we both would agree.\n\n2. a very good friend of mine, he has an internet girlfriend who he has never met before, and to him, I think it would be cheating even if he cyber kissed someone else. \n\n3. I met a psycho (in real life) who asked me to have sex with him when he had a girlfriend, and he didnt consider that cheating since I said no. I think it was cheating.\n\nand no, it's not real sex.
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Keep them to yourself.  Never share personal info. out of a sense of obligation or turnabout.  They like you for who you are and what they already know about you.  You won't win them over any more than you already have by divulging info that can compromise you.  Sensitive info doesn't put you further in the circle and can sometimes backfire.  Trust your girls to watch your back, but you watch your own first.
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Honestly, cheaters are cheaters.  Even if these things did not mean anything, which they likely didn't sicne they are in cyber world, he would probably mess with  them if he had the chance.  If they live nearby, it is probably just a matter of time before he gets with them.> Sounds to me like he likes flirting with danger, and unfortunately, most times people get swept away by the games they play.