what are the ways you can tell if your boyfriend is really into you. sometimes they act nice just to get something from you and leave, what signs can i look for to detect that. thank you
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Just give him sometime, see if he cares about you or not, if he shows it or not and it wouldnt be hard to see if he loves you or he is looking for something else. Just give him time.
464743
Ways a guy can tell if a girl/woman is desparate...she is overly aggressive and never says no to anything, she calls too much...she emotionally pours out all her feelings toward you before the two of you are considering even dating....those are signs....I dont want to make this sound primative but guys usually prefer to be the predator we like the chase it gives us a feeling of conquest...(we are weird like that..).....and to your 2nd question....For us it's a competition (sometimes within ourselves)...so we can blow up our ego...unfortunately it may not always be about you....(we men suck like that sometimes...sorry)
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Has he been pursuing you regularly for sex? Does he spend most of his time at home with you or doing activities with you when he isn't at work? Has he started going to the gym more often and doesn't want you joining him? Does he get strange phone calls at odd times? Is he secretive? When you ask questions does he bite your head off in an attempt to thwart your conversation? Is he going out to clubs with the guys routinely?\nHave there been drastic changes in his demeanor and appearance?
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Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
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You have to ask yourself why he cares if they have a boyfriend or not, really I can only see one reason why he would ask that - well if a guy asks me if I have a boyfriend I can only assume that he wants to find out if the coast is clear for him to make a move.  Sorry, I wish I was wrong
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This is a cute question:) I like it. Okay....so, you like him alot i presume..well i think that some signs that he may  be interested in you are:\n1. He goes out of his way to talk with you or to just be near you\n2. He looks you right in the eye when he does talk to you\n3. He brings up personal subjects( family issues....etc)\n4. He askes of your oppinion on things(hes interested in your thoughts)\n5. Is he nervouse around you at times?\n6. Does he introduce you to his friends(hes proud to have a girl like you around him)\n7. Does he touch you randomly(Nooo..i dont mean THAT way...dirty...no..lol, i mean like does he touch your hands,hair..etc,he wants to be close to you)\n8. Does he compliment you?\n9. Does he smile at you when hes talking?\n10. And the biggest give away..does he fiddle with things when hes talking with you( does he put his hands in his pockets and  out again? or move his feet around alot?or touch his head ..liek russle his hair or somthing?)\nHope this helps youuu!:)
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There's probably not going to be a specific moment when a guy says "I really like you and I would like to go out with you" You gotta feel him out. Does he call you more than you call him. Does he ask about you when you're not around. Ask your girlfriends to find out some info. Alot of times guys don't make a move because they don't know your interested.
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hey girl ok here is the low down does this guy flirt and makes sure you notice he's there and that you exist. if so then he is totally into you but you never know until you try something.
513534
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
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Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.
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Talk to him just about anything on the phone. Me and my boyfriend play the questions game, he asks a question, then I ask a question. It may be something that he wants to know, like "what do you do when I'm not around" kind of thing. Guys like a lot of information, but it doesn't have to be perverted. The nickname I use is cutie pie. Ask him if you can call him anything that comes to mind, like baby cakes!! Sounds kinda cheesy, but it helps and it makes him feel connected to you. But don't say things like that in public because guys think that their friends would make fun of him. When your around him in public, hold is hand or give him a little kiss on the cheek. If he sees you as a warm person, then he will do the same thing back. I hope I helped. Let me know if my answer was the one that you were looking for!!!
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Delete the entry.  See if he notices.  Lol, why don't you talk to him and see what's up?  Worse comes to worse, he's the wrong man for you and you need to let him go.  Better you find out when he's just a boyfriend, not a husband.
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Look for signs like if he flirts wit you and asks for your phone no and stuff. Answer my question plz plz.
538148
Same with guys.A guy I worked with flirted like hell with me,then I asked him if you would like to go out with me sometime and he didn't even answer me,after that he wouldn't say one word to me or even look at me.But I am very glad he didn't say yes because I might be with that p*ssy,instead of with my boyfriend that I love.So things work out for a reason.
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Dear Penny,\nBefore asking any questions, or even analysing the myriad of eye movements, hand gestures and pupil dilating which probably indicate commitment, think what YOU want from this relationship. \n\nThe previous respondent talked about friends with benefits, but in this instance I have the feeling it applies to you also. \n\nSo: how do you feel about him? Honestly? Do YOU want to commit? If the answer is yes, be brave, be honest, and let him know you're ready to take this relationship to the next level.\n\nGood luck!
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2 answers:\n\neither he really really is into you\n\nOR\n\nits a fetish with him\n\nOR\n\nno wait 3 answers\n\nOR he hasnt had sex in a while and just wanted some or\n\nno wait 4\n\nOR he didnt notice til after\n\n\nTheres like a million things it could be, porolly he likes you more than just sex
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i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.