I know highly educated people that are fat, and they discrimnate against fat people and flock to thin people.\nTalk about gut check!\n\nI admit i am overweight but i like a little junk in the trunk, you can keep the models and fashion mag women.\n\nSigned: Sir Mix A Lot
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I felt a little guilty reading this. You are right. We say that we just want a good man, but we look at the abs too. I am short and have a lot of boobs and junk in the trunk, but no junk anywhere else, so thank you for giving me and other women like me respect. I am not fat (fab abs.. gotta brag a little work hard at them) but educated, but I do see your point. (@blonde coley) For all the trash that you just talked, honey you better be a perfect dime peice. To talk that much trash, you need to make at least 100,000 a year, have a PhD. and be the most desireable thing that ever walked the earth. My guess is that you probally are not. I wonder how many heads that you turn at the beach..What makes me sick is when an inadequate person tries to find fault in others. You have to be lacking to be so angry. Before you say that I must be heavy, no baby, I have DD with a 25" waist and booty, but I am confident enough in myself to not have to put someone down to feel better about myself. I have a feeling that you are the skinny, pale guy at the beach that have his shorts pulled up really high in the front, with the swim flippers on.(or the girl that looks like the skinny pale guy)
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i got these websites just by running a quick yahoo search.  obesity is a devasting disease.  you might just try interviewing a few overweight people  for your project as well.  They will have some things to tell you about being overweight and the problems they face.  not just the discrimination, the name calling, the looks we get, but also the problems with shopping, the problems at restraunts, public transportation, health issues, there are so many things out there that the general public does not understand.  they just say well why dont you just lose the weight?  it is not that simple.  Just sit down and talk to a few besides doing the "normal" book work.  You might just get enlightened and have a whole new appreciation for people of another size.
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Most cultures seem to be attracted to what is rare. It is a recent thing in modern civilization to have so many full-figured and even obese people. It also implies status. Busy people don't have time to work out and have great bodies. Wealthier people can afford gyms, trainers, and have enough leisure time to do sports activities. So, thin=wealthy, and thin=beautiful.
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I am a woman, but I have conducted a similar survey myself on the men I know, and just wanted to let you know that they felt that the best figure a woman could have was largish breasts, a nice round bum and long legs. They weren't overly bothered about any tummy, they seemed to like both rounded bellies and flat ones! But definitely, in the same way that no man finds obesity a sexy look, they equally find the sight of loads of bones sticking out a total turn off.
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No, it's not funny what-so-ever. Who are they to judge who's heavy and not? Saying hurtful rude comments about someone's appearance, personal opinions, or lifestyles are the things that increase anorexia, bulemia, and suicidal attempts. Reading this you may think i'm being hypocritical, and I probably am because I have made fun of all different kinds of people. However, I am not proud of it, I regret it, and I believe that is another serious problem within our communities. Why is it that fat women are hideous and disgusting, but heavy men are perfectly acceptable? Look at these comedians...I don't even consider it a real job. Going to school to learn better ways to tease and make fun of other's.....that's sure something to write home about. The thing is heavy women need to realize that you need to try your absolute hardest to ignore it, and live the life you are in for who you are. Each person in this world gets made fun of whether they know it or not, nobody is perfect. But you are the only one who has control over who you chose to listen to and ignore. I think it takes a lot of determination to lose all of that weight, and personally I think you should lose weight for the longer lasting life, not the appearance. Obviously you're going to feel self concious, but it's your choice whether you want to pretend it doesn't bother you or take action and try and lose the weight. I support so many people in doing that, talk to a doctor for help, join a support group....but don't let other's comments bring you down.
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i think it is o.k  do you have pictures of it , ? don't let people that are to fat or , worry about your rep, if no one got hurt , and you are both adults, , i love woman that put out,your not wearing your juicey parts out! and that stuff has no calories , and how happy was he? emai me! aND DON'T LISTEN TO THE PIGS WHO THINK THEY ARE "GODDESS " WHO MIGHT THINK ABOUT DOING SOME "PUSH AWAYS"  THAT'S WHEN YOU PUSH AWAY FROM THE TABLE!
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A woman is sexy because she chooses to be, not because she is a specific size.  The media says we have to be bone thin to be beautiful and until we stand up and say 'no, thank you, I'm not buying into that crap', the idiots of society (like piversonex, Scotty & hairyhairychinchin) will feel free to continue their name calling.\n\nEver notice that even fat men want skinny women?
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Heck no....\n\nDon't buy into the stereotype that you have to be as thin as a sheet of paper,  If you're relatively healthy and happy don't worry about it.  If people judge you over a couple of pounds one way or the other you shouldn't really care about their opinion anyway.\n\nWhen you look down and you can't see your feet, you may be overweight.\n\nWhen you have to butter up your sides to fit through doors you may be overweight.
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Truthfully speaking, I believe most men are attracted to women with curves, but they are afraid to admit it, as if it were illegal to do so. You see society predicates what is beautiful, and honey we aint it!, and that's a shame, because the average woman is a size 14.\n\nSociety needs to reconfigure its idea of beauty, and realize that "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES" not every man wants a twiggy. Society views a woman with curves to be overweight, and she may not be, there is nothing wrong with being healthy and having some junk in your trunk too. Most men dont want a bone, most men want meat on their bones, you know what I mean!\n\nI wish that us thick girls could get some love too, just like our thinner counterparts. I guess guys are afraid of what others will think, as a matter of fact I have a male friend that is attracted to thick women, and all his friends tell him he's a chubby chaser, now that is just not fair, but he doesnt care, he tells them they dont know what their missing, but you can see where I'm going with this, his friends are the equivilent of how society views us thick girls, and that is just so sad, because we are the majority not the minority!\n\nHowever I am feeling confident that slowly but surely societies ideals of us is changing, thanks to people like Mo'Nique and Toccara, they are starting to break down some barriers.\n\nI hope my answer, as long as it is, was helpful to you. Keep your head up sistah, we gonna get in there....\n\nI hope I was able to help you out!!!
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not all "fat chicks" are useless... i would consider myself overweight & i am a happy person :) although i do agree, some "fat chicks" are very negative...
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I hate stickly celebs. Heck I don't like anyone who has an unhealthy weight (skinny or fat). If your thin despite a well-balanced diet and exercise, then that's alright. Your Metabo is just fast. If your big and the same thing, then your Metabo is just slow. But if your force food down your mouth or eat fast food all the time or if your anorexic and stuff, you need help! Me and my fiancee' may not look like models (at least our stomachs don't) but we are happy with ourselves and don't fall into the whole thin/thick problems.
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I'm not in denial about how fat I am as a person or how fat we are as a culture. I have a whole blog about it.\n\nStandards are changing, the minority of fat people has become the majority.  I'm not saying it's healthy. It's just reality.
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I don't judge people by the way they look. A person being overweight would not make me not be attracted to him. If he is still able to get around and is active than it wouldn't be a problem for me. He would need to have a good personality, be kind, funny and nice. He would also have to have self respect and be respectful to others. Those are the things that are the most important.\n\n@--->---
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Like he considers that a pressure!  :P  It's more like a relief.  (Iceman is my husband.)  \n\nFor me, it's bills and my weight.  I am constantly worrying that we won't be able to stay on top of things financially (even though he has the 2 jobs - I'd get another if we had a second car).  \n\nI hate the pressures of society to be thin.  In order to be beautiful, you must have a perfect body.  It's quite disgusting.  I was looking for a nice dress to wear for our wedding and all I could find in a plus size was something I think my mother would wear!  Why don't they understand that us fat girls wanna be pretty too?  It's not just middle-aged/old women that aren't skinny anymore...hell, I'm only 25 and I had to settle for a sweater and skirt (it looked nice, but was NOT what I originally wanted).  \n\nI know there are some places that do sell pretty fat clothes...but they didn't have any dresses or just weren't available to me around the time of the wedding.  It's a damn shame.
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Hun I modeled for years and lemme tell ya, it does not matter who you are.  You have to hear negative things to succeed.  Even the most successful models are constantly told they are too fat etc.  You need thick skin and if you really want to succeed you should want to hear the negative feedback as well as the positive.
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The kicker is my mirror and my favourite pair of jeans, seeing old school friends who have become fat and neglected their appearance, also I want my kids to be proud of their mum and my husband to continue to be attracted by me! I'm a determined person and I won't give up on something until I've reached my goal. You just have to know what's good for you and take it as a challenge.
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I'm a BIG GUY!\n\nAnd I Bullsh*t you not, but I've never had a compliant from any woman I have gave the business tooo....\n\nAlso, I am upset that ppl think Fat guys go small d*cks!\n\n(My is thick and long)