k i asked this boy out 3 time but he never answered. but muiltiple people have told me that he likes me, and once he had a friend  kind of asked me out but i said he had to ask me for himself. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
126058
dont't worry he will..hes just a little shy..
148723
i know it hurts to get rejected but take a shot at it he may be going thru the same thing. he may like you and be afraid to say something. I am a guy and i have been afraid to talk to a couple of girls and i finally got up the courage to say something to one of them now that they have a boy friend and i  found out that at the time that i like them they like me but its to late i missed my chance don't miss yours
653355
You've asked him out a gilllion times this year?  I'm not sure how many a gilllion is, but it sounds like a lot.  And he hasn't gone out with you?  You don't know if he likes you back?  Hmmm, how many times being turned down does it take before you get the idea that he doesn't like you that way?  Face it, he just isn't into you.\n\nWhat you should do is stop asking boys out.  Find things to do that are useful and interesting and make yourself a more interesting and useful person.  The right boy will then ask you out.
478139
maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
498224
Dont ask your friend to ask him. Ask him YOURSELF. Guys might get a little bit more pressured when they see somebody asking him something for somebody else. Once you ask him yourself, he will know that you actually DO like him.\n\nHope I helped. ^_^
304063
Has he had his 13th birthday yet? If he won't admit he likes you, how will you ever get him to ask you out? he sounds kind of immature to me....do you really want someone like that????? \nPS age and maturity only go hand in hand sometimes.
664053
just wait - if he likes you he'll ask you out!\n\ndo you like him?
466031
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?
348063
HE WANTS YOU:) go for him if you like him because he REALLY wants you. he might be abit shy to ask you out coz he may think you might say no.
433557
let him know you like him and see how he reacts to this then say maybe we can go out some time. that way he can be able to ask you out instead. then you don't have to worry about it.
604735
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
447859
OMG, your so cute!  You sound so adorable, I sometimes get vibes off of what people write and your vibe is very refreshing.  I just had to say that.  Anyways, I think you have already been noticed, especialyl if he's playing around with you.  Why don't you ask him his name, then he'll ask yours.  While he's playing drums on your head just turn around and be like...your playing drums on my head and I dont even know your name..make it a joke and see how quickly he will ask for yours.   best advice, continue to be yourself and Im sure he'll be asking you out and if you get impatient jsut ask him out...hey it's 2006, women are aloud to do the asking.
495138
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
445115
what is the question here? you liked him, you had your friend ask him out, he said no. Seems pretty open and shut. Move on
460325
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
650520
you shouldnt ask people out all of the sudden. you might freak him out. first get to know him and become friends. then if he seems to like you and you still like him, go ahead and ask him out.
305889
yes, ask him out!! if he says no, then you go on with ur life.. why get other boyfriends when he might like you too??\n\nwhat do you have to lose? nothing... what do you have to gain? hopefully the guy =)\n\ngood luck