like they love you at first, but its just a bluff.
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Each situation is unique.  But having been guilty of this myself, I confess to having done this.  Sometimes it is because I was never really interested in her.  It boosts my ego when I get a girl to give me her number, whether I plan on calling or not.  Sometimes we do it because we don't know how to say no thanks.  It's easier to say I'll call and not, because it postpones the inevitable "I'm not interested" rather than having to do it face to face.  We can be cowards.
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Some people don't want to be the bad guy and break the relationship, so they make you do it for them.
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they are probably afraid of rejection.
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He doesn't really love you, he wants to own you.
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It probaby seems like that now, but it won't always be that way.  The men that you are comming across just aren't the right ones for you right now.  But eventually you will run into the right one who won't leave as soon as you start to love them.
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Maybe they are afraid that YOU might THINK they still have feelings for you. They could be totally over you and just want to be friends.
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It means that whatever they do you will still love them.
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If we like you, then WE LOVE IT. If we don't like you, then we'll pull away.
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Yes.  But as time grows, you will become more comfortable with each other and their imperfections.
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did you ever think that's it's force of habit... maybe you guys flirt because you are used to it or maybe you flirt because there are still emotions there.... it's natural just don't jump to conclusions...
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Some men and women have been hurt by someone else so they figure they will do into you before you do them . As adults games or and should be left behind. They will never change.......
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I recently told a guy I was attracted.  It seems like it becomes "game over" for them once they know for sure.  I don't know why.  I guess they like games.
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coz you feel attraction...then you get interested...
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u actually expect anyone to say he doesn't like u after u say he's hugged u & hanging with u?.whatever.
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Sometimes. Most of the time, I would just tell them I was already in a relationship.
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In order to truly love someone, you have to let them get close enough to hurt you.
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I dont think guys even realize the impact that those words can make. I think sometimes they use it to get what they want and be on their way and they think girls would be prefectly fine afterwards. Maybe they just dont know, or I am sure some just dont care. But I only let it happen to me once. After that, I just assumed they were all lying till I knew it was true. Even my husband admitted to me that after we first met the first time he said it to me, he wasnt telling the truth he just thought he needed to say it. I know it will be hard but just dont have take "I love you" to heart till the actions (over time) fit the words. Good luck!