Now, they are having problems with their "marriage." Are they legally married? Would they have to get a divorce? An annullment? Just leave it alone? How would they handle this situation?
121197
She is a bigamist.  The marriage is not legal, he should wise up and walk away...
277721
no, I don't think you should. If they are unable to remarry at this time, they are not dating material. Just my opinion. You could be setting yourself up for a disaster.
289569
Ok, but so what, what do did the marriage do to them as a difference??\nBabies?\nIsn't living together OK nowadays? \nOr they just want to wear the wedding tuxidos and/or dresses??
59563
probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
583481
Terrible!!!\nI would file a civil suit against them for their terrible conduct.\nIt's a big let down when these things happen...and yet you're supposed to show them respect!!!! Grrrrrrrr.
356672
I think they both need to end it with any other partners and just be with each other.  It is not right to continue the way they are.
278141
If she's been living with this guy for more than 7 years than by state law, he is her husband although they are not legally married.  He would get everything unless a will is drafted.  But even wills can be contested, she needs a "living trust" which is undisputable.
536797
Was it done legally?  NOTHING.  They just complain for the rest of their lives.  Why do they care anyway unless you are using it to stalk them.  If the marriage was real then the citizenship is VALID!!!!!
642729
they should live togethr if marriage is not possible...marriage is not the ultimate thing in life.....if the love is true thats what matters....they can live togethr, thats not a problem.....
544474
I think your relationship is already messed up.\nIt is not to late for an annulment!
366679
They are not ready. It would be a scandal.\nI married a black woman and we still face angry looks and remarks.
318528
they need to step back and re evaluate the situation. I applaud her for not wanting to have sex before marriage and hope she sticks to that. but if he doesnt want to marry the he really isn't in love with her. He needs to respect her wishes to marry, that is the only way in which she can truly feel he loves her enough to respect her. If he is that dead set against marriage then he may not be the one for her. yes she also need to think about what he wants and is she is willing to put her hole belief system on the line. is she willing to give up her beliefs and trash everything she wants to be with him? He's not going to why should she
164026
Yes they did but did they have a prenup???? Well, I wonder how the divorce settlement is gonna work out.
642511
Marriage?  You mean the living together with your baby daddy's exes b/f g/f daddy's mommy's baby's daddy's daddy?  That thing?  Oh that thing they use to do years ago when they exchanged vows because they meant it and would do anything to preserve and protect it, and stood in front of an alter with only family and close friends and not the neighbor?  Oh yeah, huh....what ever happened to that?
640155
You have to now figure out if this is good for you.  She apparently doesn't know what she wants.  Either she's fearful of the life that could include being with the same person until death, or she can't handle being faithful.  She's hurting you, but does she realize it?  Have you ever just sat down with her to figure out what the deal is?  I'm sorry to say that I think a divorce would be the best thing.  She obviously has some issues, and no one can get through to her.
489875
They should be.  Plus a zillion more.  We are so caught up in the romance of marriage, we forget that it is s-e-r-i-o-u-s.  We don't want to talk about these things.\nAnd we can always get a divorce, right?  Even when both parties agree it isn't working out it still causes immeasurably emotional damage.\n\nHere are a few from my arsenal:\nWhat will you do when you find you cannot agree?\n\nWho will be responsibile for paying the bills and keeping the checkbook?\n\nWhat is your attitude toward children?\nWhat would you do if you cannot conceive children of your own?\n\nHow often do you want to invite people to your home?\n\nWhere will you spend Christmas, Thanksgiving and Easter? How will you decide?
325184
Well, it's too bad that they didn't discuss this before they got married, but under the circumstances splitting up does seem like the right thing to do.\n\nKids aren't the sort of thing you can accept half-heartedly.