My mom is kicking me out by Friday. I don't know what to do, besides go get an apartment. If anyone has any ideas to make this transition smooth, please let me know.
132974
If your mom is kicking you out it must be for a reason.  You can either choose to work things out with her or find a new place.  If your looking for a new place the best thing for starters is to look into newer places and maybe just a studio apartment.  That way the rent is usually cheaper plus you get a place that you don't have to share and worry about falling apart.
587578
if you are 16 you can take it to court and either move for termination of parental rights or you can do something easier and just file with the courts for emancipation. or you could just disobey and move in with him anyhow if his parents will let you. how old is he by the way. actually here is my husbands email address just email him before 5pm and he can respond before then. he is a paralegal with family court just tell him lisa sent you to ask him that question. nblutreich@jmdlaw.com or call 1-800-247-9870  and ask for nathan and tell him lisa sent you
303681
YOU ARE NOT WRONG FOR KICKING HER OUT HUNNIE, YOU TOLD HER STRICTLY THAT NO DRINKING WAS ALLOWED, AND SHE DISRESPECTED YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY. YOU ROCK BECAUSE YOU PUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FIRST. IT DOES NOT MATTER THAT YOU HAVE KNOWWN HER SCINSE 4TH GRADE...SHE WAS A BAD FRIEND...YOU OFFERED HER A HOME AND SHE DIDN'T TAKE THE MATTER WISELY! IT IS HER FAULT AND SHE SHOULD BE THE ONE COMING BACK TO YOU SAYING SORRY. I HOPE THIS WORKS OUT AND PLEASE KEEP ON BEING SUCH A GOOD MOTHER!
565390
Hon, you need to talk to a lawyer or a judge.  Do some investigation on the forms you need to fill out and where to file them.  Tell the judge your story and have your ducks in a row, a job, a place to live, show you are responsible for yourself and you  can make it on your own.  Then you may be able to emancipate yourself.  Know that being an adult stinks make sure its what you want to do.  May I suggest making sure you finish school and apply for financial aid to get you into a college dorm.  You'll love it.  I promise.
108570
Hmm. I'm in a similar situation, however I'm not legally allowed to move out for a few more months, or at least not without going to court, which I'd prefer not to do. I simply (a) avoid them as much as possible. I go out and do fun things, and then both sides are happy--or at least not fighting--and (b) if something comes up, I take the easist route out. I'll defend myself for a little while, but right before it gets ugly, I let them think they're right. Now, never ADMIT that they're right, but just kinda pretend that you do. This will end the argument much sooner, because usually all people want is to know they're right. Even if you think this is cowardly, it shows you're actually much stronger and more mature than your parents. However, this can build up a lot of aggression, so remember to do something that will help take it out, like going to the gym or something. I clean and rearrange the furniture in my room. It helps, but I'm weird. *lol* But yea, best of luck!
262287
i guess u shld to speak to ur mom abt y u want to move n assure her dat u will b finen wont break her trust... u hav become quite responsible to take care of urself......\nalso tell her dat u will come to meet her regularly itz not  dat u r going somewhere forever.....\ni guess u shld sit down wid ur mom n speak n expalin her in ur best ways u can......\nAnd also asks her whts the reason she forbidding u from moving out.....then u can explain her on da basis of wht she is worried abt....
320683
She's asking if we could get someone kicked out. \n\nKeep reporting them
151654
I am a police officer and helping to get your stuff back is our job... You must have had one slacker as a police officer. If you don't care about your mom, threaten to call the cops on her. There are plenty of homeless shelters downtown.. You better check those out.
79612
i've been there done that..how old are u??..my mom done the same thing..u have to earn ur trust back..its hard tho' but i move out of my mom house when i was 17 in  a half..i was out of school..
591997
Move in with a friend or family for the summer. The fall will be here in no time and you metioned you will be going away to school. If you have younger brothers/ sisters you need to report it to the police or a family memeber that you know will be willing to take them in. Than you mother needs to seek help. Her violence is a sickness and she needs alot of help!! Stay stronge!!! An you too need to seek help. Stop the chain of violence. Make it your business not to become like her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
85228
nothing much. just let her know that while you understand that she's the adult and is probably making the decision she thinks is best for everyone, you would appreciate it if she would listen to why you want to stay where you are and that you are really upset about this move. \nyou just have to be respectful or she won't listen at all. and if it doesn't work, i've heard colorado is really nice and moving is kinda fun and u can completly start over and be a diff. person if u want to. \ngood luck, and im sure ur mum is only trying to do the best thing.
620224
Man, I know what you mean. Sometimes family can be so annoying cauz you didn't pick them :(\nI think you should try to move out as soon as possible if you're unhappy. And I don't believe it's fair for her to not allow your friend to come over. I mean yeah, it's her house, but she could be much nicer about it. Just because it's her house I don't think that gives her the right to control who your friends are.
603226
Well the eviction notice was intended for his mother(person on the lease). Since her 16 year old son is living there, though she is evicted. doesn't mean that being kicked out of their place doesn't apply to him.  It doesn't matter how old you are you can get kicked out of anywhere. If you're a friend help him to find somewhere to live wether it be with other family or a helpful friend. Since he's under age I wouldn't be surprised if the police step in and send cps to pick him up and put him in foster care.
319694
I'm sorry to hear of your predicament.  One good thing is that your landlord cannot immediately evict you.  Contact different assistance providers in your area, including the government.  Good luck to you.
92640
Well, sorry to say but I think an option is to let him go. You can do it before the move and say look you've gotta get a job and help out or you need to move. Or, move, get the lease in your name only, and then say, you've got X amount of time to get a job or you need to go. I can't be the one that has to deal with everything all the time for the both of us.
664676
If I were in your shoes I would just get to July 1 and then tell him in writting that you will be moving Aug 1.  Lease or not in most areas you must be give a thirty day eviction notice if he intends to kick you out.  So with 45 days to go just get to July 1 then you are in a thiry day window.
612289
Oh MY GOSH!! That really makes my skin crawl, a son gives his mother his paycheck to pay her bills and SHE ACTUALLY TOOK IT!!! You need to be mad at both of them!!! And you need to remind him that HE has a family to provide for and that even though it is important for him to be there for his mom---THE KIDS AND YOU COME FIRST!! Whats NEXT?? Is he gonna let her come and live with you or will you be moving in with her because you got evicted because of this? Message me if you want to vent...I feel your pain.