I have been going out for about two months. I have kissed before, hell I've made out. But the fact of the matter is, she hasn't. This will be her first kiss. I don't know if she likes me enough, and I don't want to ruin it for her as I know how great it is. Should I kiss her??
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Ask her if she would mind and if she says no then do it! I REALLY want my bf to kiss me because I don't want to make the first move so I'm waiting for him to doo it, he knows I wouldn't mind he's asked me before. *sigh* I wish he would.
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I BELIEVE THAT YOU DID RIGHT BY NOT KISSING HER ON FIRST DATE.THIS MAY OR MAY NOT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU'RE MORE INTERESTED IN HER,THAN WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF HER. GIVE HER A CALL THE NEXT DAY OR TWO,JUST SEE HOW THINGS ARE,IF SHE HASN'T CONTACTED YOU ALREADY. BY YOU RECIEVING RATHER GIVING THE HUG SHOWS THAT YOU,RE PATIENT AND A GENTLEMAN. TRY NOT TO BE TO PUSHY IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP,SOMETIMES IT THROWS UP RED FLAG TO THE OTHER. HANG OUT,GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER,AND JUST GO WITH FEELS RIGHT.  I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU !
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if you havent had your first kiss yet, make sure it is with someone you like and then you will treasure it forever.\nmine wasnt great but it was jus awkward more than anythin and i was forced into it. wait until your ready and the times right.
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If she's your girlfriend,  it means that she likes you.  I bet she wants to kiss you.   Just go for it next time the two of you are alone.
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Well maybe you could go for a walk to a nice place after coffee it will be romantic and you can maybe seat down somewhere where it is not too busy. You will feel less nervous  if they arent a lot of people surounding you and your darling for the first kiss.\nBut anyway don't think too hard about it, if you really like her you will know when the right moment is because you will feel an urge too kiss her.\nPersonally I like when guys kiss me when I'm less expecting it. For instance if she is is looking at something and then turn round to talk to you and  you kiss her.\nGoodluck anyway! I m sure that girl is very lucky that a nice guy like you wants to kiss her
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what are you stupid or what?she's already told you that she wants you,you better act and act fast go kiss her right now
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First you have to ask yourself, "Do you like him enough to kiss him?" if the answer is yes, then what is the problem?\nMaybe you're just scared? Talk to him about it.\n\nKissing will come naturally to you, so don't worry and good luck!
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8 months? How sweet! For so young, so long, and still so innocent. It does me good to read that in our day and age. I'm proud of you.\n\nWell, I'm the lady in my relationships. For all my sweethearts, I didn't really think about doing it. When he said something really kind or sweet or that tugged at my heartstrings, I couldn't hold back. Yes, I usually was the first to kiss. And there is nothing wrong with reversals in society's ideas of what roles the sexes should play. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I think you're probably safe in the game at this time, you'll be fine if you do kiss her. She shouldn't be grossed out or anything.\nI would start out with an elongated peck on the lips. Just like you peck your mother on the cheek at night, but on the lips. All the same, but for a little longer. And that'll be kind of like a hug. You/she will pull away at the appropriate time, out of instinct, so it's not uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do anymore, until you can pull away and see her reaction. \nOr, if you've already pecked and want to move on. Start slow. Think of an open mouthed kiss as such; a fish. You know how fish make that 'blub blub' noise, and their lips just simply open and close? Well, if you do, press yours on hers, and sloooowly blub. Don't make the noise. That's not very attractive. \nALWAYS check with the lady. Do it, then after a little bit, ask her, "Did you enjoy that kiss? Are you ready for that?" But don't grill her. It'll only hurt her if you do. \nIf you're beyond fish, then I suppose it's the tounge now. Again, slowly, to see if she's comfortable with someone else's tounge in her mouth. Just stick it straight out, at first. Don't point it; that's irritating to us. Well, me anyways. Just a soft, subtle push. Then wait for her reaction. If she does it back, then you, as a couple, are ready. If she pulls away, that's ok. Don't feel too bad about it, I don't imagine. 8 months, and it'll be ok, I think. But, please, don't take my word for it. I am not in this relationship. LOL! From then on, anymore with the tounge is all up to you two. Talk about it. Try new things. I just myself tried a new way to kiss my love; and we've been together for three years. \n\nBut, about why can't you do it. Maybe you just haven't stumbled upon that "right moment". Be a sweetheart, don't worry too much over it, and keep your innocence. Nice job, and good luck!
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have you ever told her that you liked her?than yeah i think that you should. start by asking her if she does.if so,then ask if she would be comfortable to go out with you some time.if she doesnt like you as more than a friend than say''lets hang out together,just you and me as friends if you are not to busy.''
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Take her to a scary movie and when it gets to a scary part let her cuddle up to you, and put your arm around her, it's good for a first date because it shows her your protective and trustworthy, and she will love that. Also if you go out to dinner, you need to let her choose, and you pay for it. It shows that you care. Hope it helps you...
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4 months? wow...  I kissed my first girlfreind before we started dating... and my most recent girlfreind about 5 days into our relationship... and let me tell you both times I was nervous...  my most recent girlfreind I kissed her nose...  how embarassing...  the first kiss isn't really that special in my opinion... it is always ackward, and never really all that special... the first time you kiss a girl and she takes your breath away that is the special kiss...
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Lip nibbling is a sure pleassure and show some tounge love if you have kissed before but if you havent maybe wait till' next time unless she does then dont back away cause she might take it as a sign of rejection! run your hands throught her hair and get lower and lower :) with 1 hand (2 might give you to much power) press her face closer to yours
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dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
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hi, first if she gives you signals go for it. If you like her and you feel shes interested yes. of course you can't force yourself on her so, do the safe thing and ask her for .the 1st kiss, then a night cap at your place or hers. take slow steps and she'll give you the yes or no signal for each
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Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
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I've been there and I know the confusion. My advice is don't worry about whether it is a date or not, just have a good time. Don't sweat any details that you might worry about if it was supposed to be a date. For example, if there is a third person there, that's cool. If you're interested in her, the best thing you can do is show that you can have a good time without stressing about things. \n\nGood luck & have fun!
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I think if you truly respect her and like her then you should probably keep the touching to a minimum or she will think you have other intentions.  If you have known her for a while or were maybe friends first, then the flirty touching should be fine, and at the end of the night you could kiss..but I think that'd only be appropriate if you were good friends first.  I suggest getting to know each other first and then a hug at the end of the night.  If things go well hopefully you will get a yes to a second date!  However, do what you feel best, just let all of your physical touching be mutual and recieved well by her and make sure that nobody's comfort zone is crossed! Have fun and good luck! :)