My galfriend works as a stripper and she asked me to join her, since I need the dough for uni and she said its actually a fun, safe, and easy money.\nI know the club owner is a nice guy and I like dancing anyway, yet my mother will kill me if she finds out.  Should I do it ?
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it sounds to me like you want to try it. Sorry and not to go against the grain here, but anyone who says it's degrading to women is wrong. \nUm, guys go in clubs and pay women that have no intention of ever sleeping with them, money to do just about nothing but walk around naked or even partially naked, and then watch them walk away and go to someone else and also get paid to do exactly the same thing for the next guy.Who's the one being degraded there? \nAnyhoo, go do a wet t shirt contest, or a hot body, or bikini contest at a regular bar. If you can go do that, and are comfortable,more than likely, you can dance nude, topless,whatever.\n\nAs for your mum, obviously if you are planning on dancing at a nudie bar, you are at the age of consent. If you live relatively close to mom, tell mom, don't try to hide it, because more than likely, one of mom's friends or someone she knows will eventually see you and then not only were you dancing nude, you were lying about it. You are an adult and unless mom wants to pay your tuition or help you out financially, this is a good way to make money. Explain that you are safe, an adult who has made a decision and why you are doing it.\n\nIf she lives far away, just tell her you are waitressing, at a nightclub. It'll save you the argument.\n\nONE LAST THING\nI have seen many a college girl get into the lifestyle and have to choose between school and work. A LOT of them chose the work. Don't fall into that trap. If it starts to make your grades go down, find a job that won't give you the temptation to quit school. Dancing is sneaky like that-always remember it is a temporary means to an end, you cannot do it for the rest of your life. 35-40 year old (sometimes even 30 yr olds depending on thier upkeep) dancers are just, pathetic.
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I find something very wrong with it.  My husband actually DEMANDED that no strippers be at his bachelor party, without me even having to voice an opinion.  He's never been to a strip club either, no desire to do so.  He treats me like a queen, and I just love him to death.  That's the kind of man I married, one who respects women, and doesn't look at them as "objects" for him to drool over (whether it be for a night out or in daily life).  I would not have married a man who likes strippers any how.  They are out there, believe me.  One of my male friends is the same way -- no strippers for him.  It really boils down to the type of man you are marrying.  I was lucky enough to find a man who has no interest in strippers.  We're not religious or anything like that, we just want nothing to do with that part of society.  If you marry someone who shares the same values as you, than this shouldn't be an issue to you.
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I wouldn't do it, not even for a laugh. Why degrade yourself so much just to impress your friends. That would just make me want to ditch them as there are so many other ways of having fun and not being on CCTV for bearing your boobs in public as you can also get arrested for it.
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it as normal a syou want it to be ! if you enjoy it then go for it you are not hurting anyone else just have fun, and play safe!!
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You'd better ask her before anyone else does there, Mr. Cool.\nWhat have you got to lose?  I asked gals to dances before, and have been accepted & rejected.  \nDon't take the rejections personally, as there's plenty of gals who do like to dance.\nThe fact she asked you is a big plus.
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I don't know how you feel about 12 step programs, but someone very close and dear to me did Gambler's Annonymous and it REALLY helped him. At first he was skeptical, especially because they talked about a "higher power" and he's not the religious type and didnt want to join some cult - but he found an idea of a higher power just as a better life that is meant for him that he can have if he gives himself over to it and there were all types of people there. I'm not sure exactly how it works, but I can tell you that he has not only stopped gambling but he has a better relationship with his family, is dating and working, is a more open and honest person and just generally happier.\n\nIf anything it wouldn't hurt - you are not forced to stay if you dont want and you are not forced to pay money for it, so worth a try. \n\nI wish you the best!
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i know what you mean.\ni used to go out with a stripper (if you don't mind me saying so)\nit lasted 3 months.\nit was the best 3 month of my life, to watch all the girls, bi's and gays drool all over him was great but knowing he was mine at the end was even better.\ni know it's a good job that brings in good money but like you say, if you can do your job and seperate work from home not only does that make you a pro, it make you a man!!
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i think working and earning money is a good way to learn the value of money and how to be responsible with it.....16 is probably a good time to start.....but really your never too young if you have the desire and the right type of job...i would suggest at 15 that you can start as a check out chick at a supermarket....but if mum says no help her around the house to earn a little pocket money.....that way she will be able to see that you are responsible enough...and who knows maybe she will change her mind.....
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No.  Would you stay in a 'lover' relationship you don't like?  Participate in a club whose values you don't care for?  A job is no different.  You said you lost respect for the company but need the job.  You need the money...not the job.  Either quit and look for another job or discreetly look for another job while still employed with them.
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Prostitution is legal in Nevada. It sounds perfect for you. You won't have to be on that bad ankle of yours. You could use your age as an angle. You can call yourself a GILF.
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Uhh she was a stripper. Is that a good and respectable profession in your eyes? Is that what you want your kids to emulate? Get a great woman who has respect for herself. Don't let your dick rule./
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Sounds like you need to have a career as a stripper. That way you know it does something for the ladies.
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Totally man - do both. Blackmail her into giving you cash and her body, lets face it she is of low morale fibre anyway. Nevermind your friend he would thank you for it. These little ladies that are replying don't realise you are dong it for his own good as a favour to him. Imprgnate her and tell him it's his - you'll make him so happy.
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Hi! Well first, are you sure you want to be a stripper? Look, a man that loves a girl will respect her, just because he loves her. If he wants you to strip for him, he just wants to have whatever he can out of you, all the "fun" in life. You don't even know if you are going to be with him afterwards, so save yourself for someone that appreciates you for who you are, not for what they can get out of you. Remember that all women are beatiful, and we don't have to surrender unto men that are pigs, and I'm not insulting your boyfriend, I'm just trying to make you realize what you are getting into. If you really want to be a stripper for him, watch out...remember God is watching....
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hi, if it woking from home & they dont have your direct phone numbers, then go for it, but choose the hours, as you dont be on when your friends call around. forget what the others say, they the ones who use these numbers.....if they want to pay you stupid money, then go for it....you can always have a glass of wine & a laugh afterwoods. if you dont like then so what....go for it.....hope you make the right choice.......good luck
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Intriguing...you know I have to ask now what you do for a living! :)\n\nBut in truth, I can't imagine what profession would mean that you can't have friends...Let's contemplate...\n\nOkay, exotic dancer?  Who cares?  It's just a job.  As long as you're not dancing in my living room, why would I care?\n\nProstitute?  Meh!  I can't say that hanging out with hookers is a goal in my life, but it's not like you're gonna come after my man...And it's not like my man needs to look anywhere else!\n\nUmmm, Garbage collector?  Might be a little smelly, but I assume you shower regularly.\n\nBeer taste-tester?  Yeah, I see how that might mean you're not allowed to talk to my guy...you might get an employee discount that would make it hard for me to compete for his attention, but as long as you include me in the discount, I'm okay with it!\n\nPostal worker?  I get how some folks would be a little wary, but it shouldn't have any gender association.\n\nAuto mechanic?  Seems to me I'd like to have you on my side...especially considering how poorly women are treated at the average auto shop.\n\nLawyer?  Well, I guess that's self explanatory!\n\n;)\n\nOh, look, I guessed one right!  You just need to find more open minded friends...who cares about the stupid ones?\n\nAnd don't listen to Sword...he doesn't get that you're just there because men are pigs.
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I know for a fact that not all guys in a bar are scum. I was a stripper for 4 years. I recently quit due to back problems, but I still keep in touch with alot of my regulars because we became real good friends. I am married, so nothing nasty. \nYou just have to be careful because there are some scumbags out there.