When you first met him he told you that he was divorced, and you all have a child together.
136280
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
314473
I've been on both sides of this. I lost my mom when I was only 4 years old. My dad remarried almost right away. I was too young at the time to say anything. But later he divorced her and started dating again when I was like 12 years old. None of my siblings were happy about it. We wanted our dad to ourselves.  Well, they got married. We haven't always liked her or got along. But, my dad is happy and that's all that mattera. I've been on the other side too. I dated a man who had two teenage kids. Him and his wife had divorced recently. The kids did not want their dad to date. They made life very difficult and caused me a lot of heart ache. I really liked them and just wanted to get to know them. In the end I simply couldn't do it anymore and I left. He's dating again but I think he's talked to his kids since then and they are a lot more accepting. Moral of the story: If they make your dad happy try to be happy for him. I'm sorry for your loss.
234647
MAYBE HE IS JUST OPEN MINDED AND WANTED TO SHARE EVERY THING WITH YOU.STIL THINK HE WENT TO FAR WITH THE BABY THING.
456934
You probably raised him wrong
86976
So why would you do that...he probably owes you a lot of child support.
50039
you expect him to foret this as well you have kids what you did was break the bond of marrage as well commit [adultry] there is a saying what goes around comes around . you messed up big time
532055
honey to let you know i am basically going threw the same thing but i am the divorced one w/a child. and there is this wonderful guy.. put just give it time. if he really likes you he will let you know or just come out and ask him where you stand in his life. or you can ask him what he really want in life.. but don't push the issue. remember he does have a child and he doesn't want some body that is going to come and go in there life.. :)
77920
he is talking shit they were bought in his name and you agreed in good faith(as you were in a relationship) it is just one of those things he will have to deal with and get over.
493980
Tell him you met someone else.
561114
You get everything set up .An apartment,for you and your son.pack up all your things. Or know what you want to take, tell him your leaving. Come back with at least 2 friends one a male. Pack up and go tell him you tried but it's over. File the divorce papers, be safe you never know what a heart broken individual is capable of.
441724
There's no way to know that.\n\nI was separated from my daughter when she was a month old.\n\nShe's 16 now and we have just been reunited. \n\nAs painful as it was not being part of her life it is joyous to be getting to know her now and shocking how much our personalities match.
319247
good for you for getting out of something like that. I'm a single mother though, and the father in my case walked out on us. i have no intentions of tricking anyone into raising my kid. if i meet someone, i tell them immediately that i have child and if they don't like it hey too bad.
341730
he's acting like that because you are going to be divorced soon and I bet he is married.... just from the way he is reacting, so move on dear - and give yourself time to heal completely before trying to get into another relationship. (you have to resolve all the issues that lead to your failed marriage - if you don't you'll drag that old baggage into another relationship.) If there was anything there you two would of met in person.... you talked for a long time without meeting and that should of told you something about him. (I've only met one man online who wasn't married and he was honest with me about his personal life and that's the man I'm married to! We talked for about 2 months and then we met in person - he helped me with coming to Canada to meet him.... and we "clicked" - and got married 3 months later! We have been married for 4 yrs. as of Sept.28th).... While I was single and chatting with men online for years --- they all turned out to be married or living with someone(with whom they had kids with).
61170
first stop buying things for a child who you owe nothing to and second did he have the baby while the two of you were together because if that is true then he might think he loves you but does he respect you
659857
Because you're a child and he's a grown man.
587989
Uh I would say if you're meeting the parents that it is more than just friendship.  Talk to him about it.
654348
your son have to understand that he brought her in your life,and just because they broke up doesn't mean you can't be friends with her tell him to grow up and get over it