Saving for real commitment type (love) and not just a casual thing.  Would you stick around if you aren't getting any?  You find her attractive and nice.
121339
Personally I wouldn't. I mean a relationship needs intimacy, and sex is the pinnacle.\n\nI know if my girlfriend didn't have sex with me... well she would be an ex girlfriend pretty quickly.
271107
Personally, I first find the looks attractive. I know its kinda shallow, but after that i make a decision based on who she hangs out with, how she acts, her personality and her sense of humor. I think her personality is the biggest factor after I get to know her more. But, first impressions are looks.
88834
Nah, I like the way I am. I'm like your question. Happy and stress free. I'd take the million dollars though, but no surgery. Might get too beautiful and get a girl who's more truoble than she's worth.
180084
Of course.  it sounds like you two have all the ingredients for relationship stew.  great sex, great communication, and great personality.  you'd be a fool to just let the opportunity slide by when some people never get the chance at all.
266714
If that's what you believe is right, you should follow your convictions.  Remember that the only thing that you can give to a guy that no other girl can give is *you*.  If you think that's important enough to save for the man you'll spend the rest of your life with, then follow your beliefs.
398568
Well, it depends on why you're saving it. I recently saved it for 7 months because I really like a guy that lives out of town. I've had a crush on this guy forever. He came here a few times and for various reasons it just didn't happen. The last time he visited, we did it and it was lovely. I don't regret it at all. Are you waiting because you're not attracted to anyone in particular? Are you looking for something special? I think you should do whatever feels right inside. Definitely go with your gut. If you meet someone and you think you wouldn't beat yourself up after giving it up to them, then do it. If there is someone special that you have your eye on, I say wait. The passion that will be unleashed in that one night will be worth it for you both. Best of luck...
236736
yeah asking her to do something is a good idea. if she hesitates, back off, but if not then maybe you'll have the chance to discuss if she is staying with her man or what. beaware, though. would you really want to date someone who will stay with a man if they are currently looking for a new fish? sounds like a bad idea to me, she also may be one of those needy ppl that can't be alone and will have whoever they can have, as long as they have someone. \n\ngood luck.
382876
Dont ask it would be a passion killer, but at the same time dont go right for it - if she's not into it that would be very nasty! Go slowly and you gauge her responses.
366088
If she were older i'd consider it..but you might as well leave out the rich part. It's mainly women who are attracted to money.
63036
It seems as you wasting your time ,4 years and you donot know if you are going to love her or not???Do you think that she have no bf now as you didnot date her for the last 6 months? Realy i doesnot think so....sorry for you
545997
I'd say "No" to something and stick to it.  That should trow her for a loop!  Be careful that you're not just going along with everything to keep her.  That will not keep her.  Girls want guys with balls, who will stick up for what they want and what they believe in...
26720
I honor honesty above all. It's your decision want to be involved with her modern life or not. Whatever decision you take, be responsible. I am not that modern and don't believe in pure sex without love, but I don't judge. I respect people with different life style and realize their lives could be much more interesting than mine. You sounded eager to give a modern life a try. If you are prepared, why not? Wish you all the best!
57754
As long as you truly love the girl, then I honestly don't think those other characteristics are a key priority in a relationship. She's out there somewhere for you :) but just remember, don't rush into marriage.
160094
If she was attractive and confident.......definitely yes
292435
Go with love. Money can be found or lost.
277819
i think that's the best kind of guy as long as you don't plan on setting her up.  i think that shows you have balls and your not looking for a one night stand and shows that your at least half way mature. well good luck i'd respect you if that was me you were talking about. any guy that does that deserves props. well good luck with the lucky girl.
20005
If you are keeping score its not a relationship worth having. You do what you can with what you have to work with. In some areas my significant other is much needier than I am. In other areas I am much needier than she is. We don't hold back, but give what we have to give and accept what we are offered believing that if there was more to give it would have been given and that what has been given in love should be accepted. I hope that's not confusing.