I'm separated with my husband but i live outside in USA and he lives and work in UK. We have a child, and he abandoned us when he started dating someone.
122416
Yes there is but it is notorious for it's problems with it's computing system.  Major overhall in the near future and talk of the Inland Revenue or another such department taking over.
71939
My husband lives in metro-Manila while I live in metro-Atlanta.  How many miles is that?  I dunno, but I know there's a 12 hour time difference, so it must on the very opposite side of the planet.\n\nWell, we work with that and make it part of the romance.  We work hard when we're separated.  Our time together is our reward.  We actually kinda like that moment when we meet at the airport.  True, we cry at the same airport when we must separate.  \n\nIt's the way it is right now.  God, I love him!  God, he loves me!  We're proud to prove it everyday.
218270
I think you are stuck.  Your rights as a mother are no stronger than his rights as a father.  You both have rights as parents, and that means that neither of you can pick up the child and move out of state without the permission of the other.  Would you like it if he decided to move to California with your son but not you?
159204
Are you married to the deadbeat? My ex husband was in the military and I recieved a card (pass) to shop on base that had his social security number on it. I kept it after we divorced just in case I needed it in the future..Sure enough he tried to run away from his responsibilities of paying child support. I took his social security with me to the Department Of Human Resources and they helped me collect child support from him.That has been many years ago. Things may have changed since then.
69080
you sound just like me. i'm trying to work things out but i know the end result will be me leaving. i just want to be able to say that i gave it my all and totally mean it. sometimes we just outgrow them. have you ever tried to start some sort of hobbie with each other or do a date night? maybe that will get something going for you. i tried that. my husband didnt even care to go through with any of it. he just agreed to it and never did it. i'm writing a book on my horrible marriage. as soon as i get enough crap for my book i'm out. its not worth it to stay.
461989
Legal separation is not the same as divorce.  If you want to remarry you need to get a divorce.
609912
yes. talk to him...and then let it go...\nif he has seen someone while you were separated, you need to know where your marriage stands. good-luck
5153
I met my husband via the internet several years ago.\n\nWe were chat buddies at first.  Later, we met in person.  Our bond grew.  Later, we married ourselves to each other.\n\nHe gives me a wake up call every morning.  We talk on the phone often.  We do Yahoo chat together nearly everyday of the week.  \n\nThis is OUR marriage, and we're really quite proud of it.  He lives in the Philippines.  I work and live in the USA, but I consider the Philippines my true home.  In a heartbeat, I would sponsor him to come to the USA, but neither of our countries legally affords Gays any immigration benefits.  So, we do what we have to do.  I'm fortunate that my job gives me June, July, and a few weeks in December off, so that I can be with him.  When I am finished with my career, I will retire to be with him there.
175453
I married a guy from another state while I was going to college there. We decided it tio be best to move back to my state due to the opportunities and family activities. However it is a small issue because he gets resentful sometimes when he isn't there for his mom and it is an extra expense to travel back and forth occasionally. If it can be avoided, marry a local or choose a neutral spot together...but we can't help who we fall for.
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Hmmm.  The last time I really thought of this was when I found out that Ex-Boy has the boy-and-girl baby twins he always wanted, but with another woman.  Had I been able to keep babies as well as make them, my life would be *very* different.  I'd still be living in Florida, for one thing.  I wouldn't know how to yell at the cats in Russian the way my wife does.  I'd be helping my mate detangle his long, curly hair instead of shaving her head.  And then I'd be typing bitchy questions about how he takes everything to the taxidermist and how he thinks duct tape can fix everything, including velvet chairs (I'm NOT kidding!), and I'd be bitching all the time instead of just occasionally.
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I'm in Australia, so there isn't much I can help you with in regards to the laws of your country, assuming you live somewhere else. But congratulations for being a great man and father and seeing your kids as people you love not just a responsibility. Whatever happens, your children will grow up knowing they are in an environment of love and support and that will be a huge benefit and source of comfort for them. I'm separated, with five kids and their father has moved on with his life and that life doesn't involve them. Its had a ravaging effect on them emotionally. There should be more men like you. I know things are really hard and I can see how you would be feeling down and frustrated. Just remember a close family will survive anything. Good Luck. You have lucky children.
285141
I also met my husband over the internet. I am Mexican and he is from India. We have been married for 2 years now and we are currently living in Mexico.
299950
You're done?  Then be done and don't linger in the relationship. It sounds like he's willing to do what ever it takes to get back into your lives, but he won't continue.  Once he is comfortable you will revisit why you separated. Give yourself time to heal and keep moving in the direction you know will be better for you and your child.  There's nothing to celebrate except your freedom!
575782
need more info. Do you have children or are you still living at home,etc.
491087
I'm divorced, with 2 kids of my own, that live with me, and I'll tell ya, until HE is right with himself, there is NOTHING you can do.  He has to figure out what the deal is himself.  And you may need to find an alternative.
283495
GET ANOTHER LAWYER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE WHILE YOUR HUSBAND IS STILL AROUND.IT WILL BE HARDER TO GET HIM BACK WHILE HE IS OUT OF THE COUNTRY.HAVE YOUR DOCUMENTS AT HAND......WHO IS YOUR LOCAL MP?HERE IN THE UK IT PAYS TO LET YOUR MP KNOW BECAUSE USUALLY THEY ASSIST YOU AND LET YOU KNOW WHICH OTHER CHANNELS YOU CAN TAKE.GOOD LUCK AND BE STRONG.
518248
Getting married changed my life. Now I have someone who loves me when before I was lonely and sad. I can deal with people on a much higher level than I could before because living with another person makes you more aware of how other people think. I'd like to pass on how to love to my children.