I feel deppressed.I can't do my work properly.I am worried when some people in some close relationship are not honest.I think that what can I do now.How can I deal with them.I just want to know if other people also have such worries and how do they deal with them?
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i understand u.. i hate it when people dont tell me the truth or hide everything behind a lie.. but u know what? it's no me the one lying.. it's not me being dishonest.. i know i deserve something better.. i know i wont change ... it hurts.. like it always does in any type of situation.. but things only happen for the bettter... we have to learn to deal with that cause it's going to happen a lot of times... we have to keep on going with what we have.. with what we care for... i'm listening to some cool songs and laughing at my assistant here... he's listening to blues and sings like he's the best but he sucks ass!!... :P
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I think it is great... don't listen to all of us wannabes.. maybe we are just jealous because we can't think or feel that deep... especially when I should be sleeping... which is where I am headed right now... I have 15 kids sleeping here tonight and finally they are all asleep.. so goodnite... wish I had a poem to describe the relief I feel right now that they are all out.... maybe you could write one for me hehe.. take care and be yourself
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Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
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I was in that situation when I was a kid . I was treated as if I was unimportant ,I was belittled , and humiliated . Now that I'm a adult I feel that most people think its still their duty to disrespect me and are inconsiderate towards me and my feelings . So I spend a lot of time along ,I guard my words in fear of being insulted and sometimes I don't think much of myself . So I do sympathize with the oppressed and the despised . But if there is something you can say to me , MAKE MY DAY .
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i'm in a slightly similar situation...so i know exactly how u feel.\ni just feel so alone most the time, even thought here are lots of people around who i know crae and stuff, but i still feel alone.\njust thought i'd say that to let you know ure not alone in feeling alone...
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You need to ask him becuz i dealt with this same issue with my bf.  At first, i just got on here and asked the same question.  then, I said, you know what i am going to ask my man.  I asked him that same night and he told me that he was depressed and had too much stuff on his mind in regards to his life.  Read my blogs and see how that is going....he may be worried about something that is going on at the job or something, but guys wont tell you unless you ask
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I was in a relationship and I was by myself many nights b/c my then bf was a long distance truck driver.  Those nights I would cry so hard b/c even when we were together I felt so alone.  If I had a bad day at work, I couldn't talk to him.  He didn't wanna hear about it.  And aren't your significant others supposed to make it all better?  Or at least care?
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good thankyou, i like listening to other peoples problems cause it makes my problems look small, thankyou for taking an interested in how other people are feeling so im going to ask how you are
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YES!\nI always find myself being my own harshest critic. I always find that I doubt myself more than others do me. I always find that I don't believe in myself as much as I should because I sometimes get low self-esteem from the endless parade of problems we ALL get!\nSometimes, I find that having faith in myself works. Being overly pessimistic (but inside being extremely positive) helps because when the results come you literally leap with joy!\nSometimes I find that talking to someone helps. I also find that writing a blog or a diary gets rid of unwanted "burden" feelings just hitching a ride on you and making you feel heavier and heavier into depression.\n\nBut remember, the most important thing is no matter what gets you down, you MUST find the courage to pick yourself up and face the problem head to head. Be strong! Everyone has problems - it's how you deal with your that makes the big difference!\nKnow that no matter how bad a situation you're facing, there is always many people dying to take your place because they don't even have the luxury we have to ponder our problems! :) That's how I keep myself motivated!\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
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I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how  you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless
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i am suffering from depression. i feel happy when i am occupied but it having the energy to get and do it in the first place. i dont always look on life as a downer just it feels some days hard to cope with. i feel i need alot more hours in my day as there is so much to do but yet i seem to get nothing done.\non a really bad i just hide away under a cover and dont speak as i just dont know why i am feeling so lonely and scared.\ni hope this has helped you to understand depression a little more and dont forget there is help and there if you need it. you should see your doctor they have heard it all before and wont laugh at you. they are there to listen and give you the right help you need.
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Dont listen to people's sarcastic answers to this.  You could do a ton of different things.  If you dont have any friends that you feel comfortable enough with to confide in, you could always look in places like this!  I'm sure people would love to reach out to someone like you.  If you have reasons why you are feeling sad then you could look into the root of those to see how you can change them.  There are a ton of things.  When I was younger, in high school, I went through some depressing times and it really wasnt good to hold it in.  You should talk it out, even if it is with a stranger.  If you are ever feeling really down you can email me, I'm a stranger but I care about others.  Sometime in the next couple of years I will be a teacher and run into things like this all of the time.  I could use some practice.  If you ever feel like you really should talk to someone my email is mobz585@yahoo.com.  I will talk about anything!  Even if its nothing, anything to help!  Remember to keep your head up!
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People are too scared to tell you how they feel to your face.  I get talked about behind my back but I also have a problem with saying things about others.  I always thought it was human nature, though not okay to do so.  I don't like doing it, and I am trying to stop, but I just find that I am a cynic and I just have trouble telling people what I really think of them to avoid confrontation.  So, I say it to someone else.  I definitely don't think it's okay, I never have, but old habits are hard to break.  I know that it is wrong...judge not lest thee be judged, but it is hard to change, right?
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I am sorry that that happened to you. YOu just need to understand that when you post your questions / comments on here we can't tell what form you are saying them in. So some people may read them as harrassment while others look at them as someone in alot of pain reaching out for help. If you do need help this is a place in which you can get some, but also remember that people are mean. And some of them may make comments that hurt your feelings just for the sake of being an a$$. That is really good that you are seeing a therapist and feeling and doing better with everything. If you ever need a friend to talk to you can email me at any time. I suffer from anxiety and I am on Lexapro for 6 weeks now. I love it and feel great. So I guess I kind of know where you are comming from.
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...wish to share, am a returner favourer kinda person.\n\n1.26 11:51p est Stupendous Man, silly of me to confuse you with that little guy Calvin, guess I thought he looked a little like you.\nFor me it would depend what those differences were. If we're talking about weaknesses in character, then have to say I have seen that used as a weapon, friend on friend, sibling on sibling, and of course spouse on spouse. \nI had a realization once that I turned into a caution motto, "There is no one in this world who loves you so much as to not say a negative thing about you behind your back." (yes, very familiar with feeling betrayed, but let's leave that) And I guess a similar expression would be, "There isn't likely to be anyone in this world who loves you enough, never to hold your weaknesses against you." Whether that weakness is being too emotional or not emotional enough, or having to much to say or not being able to verbalize worth a poo, ya know the contrast between one personality and it's opposite.\n\nI guess what I am getting to, is that it's possible to love someone and know they have this difference about them, and SOMETHING ELSE gets in between you, and in the course of having it out one spouse retaliates with pointed references to this "difference". IT ISN'T because they were always really bothered by it and just never brought it up before, it's more that they were running out of arguments about the actual issue at hand, and needed some grounds to prove their "right"geousness in the fallout.\nFeeling misunderstood on both sides is where the real problem is. It's not necessarily a communication breakdown, it could be the gradually ending of sympathy, feeling unequal in a relationship, feeling undervalued. Then it's "who cares if you're sensitive about this difference, I want to right no matter the cost, I want to be heard whatever might fly from my lips"\nIt's sad and unnecessary, but it comes from people's focus on theirselves. If more people tried to see it from the opposing perspective this world would be a much more peacful place.
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Hay, your far too good looking to do something like that!\nfind someone to talk to, mayb your hanging out with the wrong people. i don't kno what say cos i don't kno you, but i'm depressed too and sometimes you feel like that.\n\ndon't people keep telling you it'll be alright? i you just think "shut up, you don't kno wut yor talking about", \nthe only advice i can give is to try take things a step at a time,take a break from your stressful life, see a professional, it will be better with abit of time,
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I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. I would try to avoid them as much as you can, so you don't have to hide your feelings often. When you are with them, try to be polite, but I know it's hard. you might want to vent in a diary after you see them or to a really trusted friend. \n\nIf you can, try to get involved with other hobbies and interests, and if you feel up to it, go out more often with other friends. I know from experience that this is hard, but you may meet more great people and really get into your other interests. I really hope things go well for you.