I'm a pretty boy, but i have two problems. 1.i'm shy 2.I'm alittle fat. Because of them I never had a girlfriend. please help me to find my girl.
123632
just b ur self & don't let ppl get 2 by calling u fat & if u r shy just try to talk to ppl that u don't kno so u can get over
306291
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
54997
A guy like you shouldn't be looking for a girl. Girls should be looking for someone like you!! (Too bad you are not into guys)
62075
first thing, quit talking badly about yourself. the thing that is least attractive to me in a girl is when she has no confidence in herselfif you are more confident, the easier it will be for you to get what you want.if this guy is shy like you, and has a hard time talking to the opposite sex like you, you are already showing some signs of things in common. just build up some courage, walk up to him and speak to him......about anything, it doesnt matter. when i was your age, i would have killed to have a girl come up and talk to me. i was very shy  and had a hard time chatting up the girls. after a while, i started gaining confidence and it made my whole high school years that more enjoyable, cause i figured out if you were confident, there was always someone to talk to, and if i talked to more girls, the better chance i had to get me one, or two. anyway, suck it up and talk to him, and the next guy and the next. it will always get easier as you do it more.
388058
Sure you are pretty and even though you don’t want to hear about the inside pretty the boys don’t only look at the outside they look at the inside too. How could people on this site tell you that you are not pretty, as you do not have a picture of yourself up? And even if you did it might not be a good one and some people do not photograph as well as others but that does not mean they are just as pretty as the other. As the saying goes - God made you the way you are and he don’t make no junk. There are plenty of girls that are not pretty that get lots of boyfriends and don’t you settle for someone beneath your standards. It’s really nothing to worry about, you are what you are and make the most of it.♫
50304
hey...\n      it's d girl in search for an online boyf.\num...i'm 18  but i don't mind older men .\ni like older men :)\nSOLUTION TO UR QUESTION:1.take a chance.rejection is sumthg u just hav to face as a possibility in luv..\n2.occupy d time between now,n when u do get a girlf with ME-on the net.n i wont mind helping u out with ur actual girl.
279320
WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
499984
if your wondering how to get a girlfriend then be more open and not as shy, don't be stereotypical because no girl likes knowing that all guys want is her boobs! I can't help you make a girlfriend because thats not possible. But don't be shy be open but not obnoxious! Just look for the right girl!
565238
I don't think anything is wrong with you, you just haven't met the right girl yet. So what if you're not very tall and you are not very small, you just have to keep trying. That's what the dating game is all about. Are you in school? You could look around campus for different events that are sure to attract many decent young ladies. Just keep trying, it is rough trying to find a mate but it won't get you anywhere if you give up.
232174
Listen..you sound like a wonderful person. You seem very respectful unlike many guys out there. I love the way you think, we need more guys out there like you. Your doing everything right dont worry, your time will come that you meet that special someone. Good Luck!
231583
You need more confidence; just remember that while looks get the first glance, for selecting a partner most women are much less visually oriented than most men are. Stereotype, but I think true. So, think about that to boost your confidence.\n\nThen, just start getting yourself in situations where you will interact with women.  Book clubs, Toastmasters (that will also help your shyness bigtime) Church groups if you are religious, parties, etc.  In this day and age, just approaching random people you meet in public has a low probabilty of success since people tend to be more guarded (but it can work, and might be good practice; ain't like you will ever see them again!)\n\nSkinny?  I was very skinny for a long time. Always teased in HS. during college I lifted weights.  After college I took up martial arts.  Stayed thin, but I was ripped. . . now, at my HS reunions, I am reasonably well filled out now but still thin. (I will never be a muscle monster; just don't have the genetics) and most of my HS compatriots are FAT!  HAHAHAHA! \n\nAnyway, it is more attitude than anything.  By the end of high school I didn't care I was skinny anymore.  That made a big difference.\n\nAs for you being attracted to almost every girl you see, I am guessing you are in late JHS, HS or college.  That is normal. Don't worry.  By the time you are about 25, you will be able to interact with women without **constantly** thinking of them sexually, and by 35 you can do it half the time you are talking to them. Sometimes being a man sucks.
634993
I would have to know you to say exactly. My sister was a beautiful girl in high school and never got asked out. Then at graduation, a lot of guys said they thought she was already taken. If you walk with confidence, some dudes are intimidated. If you don't show much skin, you send a signal that you're not easy. Just believe in yourself, spend time by yourself, be good to yourself, get to know yourself, and be glad you don't have to deal with all the b.s. that comes with relationships. I can tell you this, a guy that is special to you will come along when you're not expecting it at all. That's always the way it works.
232387
Im sure you will find a girl who like you the way you are. Have tried dating sites? There are plenty of girls looking that might be interested. Good luck!!!
348640
is english your second language? and why are you asking this in the gay/lesbian section? do you mean those type of boy/girl- friends?\n\nmost people don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend because they are losers and are socially inept.
194297
Dude,i had been in ur place a 1000 times before.But then i thought to myself,why not try something different.I noticed what my mistakes were...and found that i was doing the same thing what most boys do.So start acting differently.Like let them not predict what u r gonna say.Well,i ll give u a line for talking to a girl.U can even get her number.\nWHen she passes by,call her " hey,what r u doing" or "where r u going"..Then she replies something like "iam doing this ..." then u say " U lousy liar,I knew that u wanted to have a look at my face."\nI think u get me.\nDont ever give respect to girls.\nThink that she is like ur little brat sister and talk to her.\nBe confident about urself,obesity doesnt matter.MAke fun of the gals.They love it.Believe me,THEY WIL NEVER  SLAP U OR SAY SOMETHING HARSH.
35893
Don't give up, I have had the same problem wit girls. MR RIGHT will appear when you least expect it, mayb even this sec? ;)
529861
Hey guy.  Don't beat yourself up so much.  Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places.  There are people out there for everyone.  You will see that the Abercrombie types tend to be attracted to the Abercrombie types.  The bears are usually with other bears.  If people told you that you are cute, you probably are.  I know you have a lot to offer and the right guy will come along.  Just remember the attraction has to be reciprocal.  That's what makes the dating scene hard some times.  But it goes beyond the physical.  Find a group where you have common interests and mingle with that group.  Someone probably has a 'friend' who is gay that you might like.  Don't give up.  You need to be more upbeat and not sound so depressing.  Life is what you make of it.  I am single right now and am actually kind of enjoying the break.  Good luck.