lets say that you met this new guy at your work and he sewemed pretty cool and stuff and u guys were talking and everything was cool and then u both got off work at the same time and then he waited with u until ur ride came to get u\n\nwould that be weird or not and u just met him
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Not at all. I would think him a very nice, polite, friendly, gentlemanly person. I wouldn't feel weird at all. I would appreciate the gesture. Even if it's his way of showing interest that's sweet and flattering too.
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SNAP!!!!!!\n\ndid the same thing with a guy i met on her too. stayed up all hours just chatting about stuff and listing old songs! \n\nok, here's what i think. when you meet someone you just 'click' with, it is easy to get carried away with yourself and be consumed with it all. thats not to say that there is not anything serious there. all i am saying is reality is often different to fantasy.\n\nme and the guy i'm still chatting too met a couple of weeks ago. he is a great guy but i think we both felt that reality was a little different. we still chat and i am due to see him again shortly.\n\nwhat we decided was to take things slowly, get to know eachother better as friends as see what develops from that. it's the most sensible option i think.
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i've done it before.... and dont recommend it... i mean, everyone at your job will find out sooner or later, thats wat happened to me... :(\nthen our relationship was not going good... so we ended it... sucked 'cause i had to c him almost everyday.... it was just bothering so much.... i quit my job... :)
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I'm the nicest guy I know (and I'm very humble about it), and if you asked me if you should go and meet me after a few years chatting on the net and talking on the phone, I'd still say you were crazy!\n\nBe extremely careful, and dont expect worlds from first meet of a stranger who has no connection with you or anyone you know who is promising you ANYTHING, especially from a different state.
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Since he's your "new" boss, I'd say take the high road and try to grin and bear it.\n\nGood luck!
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Assuming that I am single and he is single I'd be flattered. I'd think it was sweet and I'd consider seeing more of this guy who made me feel special.\nGood luck.
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hey,...i m kinda in such a situation too. just joined this new company, and there's this guy who always look at me whenever I pass by. He even looked at me admiringly when there was once we were in lift, and he was with another girl, whom I heard later that the girl is his girlfriend. Mmm....but then, I have bf too. But, I kinda like the attention, and think that he's cool. Never talked to him, but I have fantasy about doing it with him. Am i bad?
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ah thanks  i feel very welcomed...but yea it's strange..i live like an hour or so by car to where u live..so i bet u we met and didn't even know it....if u were wearing the blue shirt yesterday with a guy with an armani suit....then whoops!
501797
Explain to him that you're flattered, but you don't date your coworkers.  If it doesn't work out, it could be rough...and if it does it could be even worse....
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Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
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I think he is just being friendly.  I would just leave it alone.  Be friendly in return, but nothing more.  Anything else will create a messy or awkward situation at work.
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Yes, my current man. I felt real weird at first since I had never dated online. But there was just something about him. We had a connection.\n\nWe met in the middle of our towns to go to the movies. When he got out of his car he ran up and gave me a huge bear hug! All the nervousness and tension was gone and from there on out we were super close.
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I'd be very flattered, however he would have to talk to me for a bit first, it would be freaky if some dude just walked up out of nowhere and asked for my number right away.
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Idk it depends. She might. Is the guy that reminds her of you nice. Does she act weird around you? If so I would say yes.
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Sometimes, it depends... \n\nI know if I knew where the girl I have a crush on worked at, I would probably start visiting that place and dropping by to say Hi
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well, i knew the guy, but we weren't close friends. it just happend and where still friends today. we decided not to be awkward about it, becoz it was our choice.
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Yeah darling, he is just trying to get enough information on you to get you in trouble at work since it did not work the first time. The only way he knows how to do that is to get you to like him again. So now the playful bit, by opening doors, and jokes and shit. He couldn't tell you he wasn't interested in you because he really is. Take my advice, don't fall into the niceness. It's all a joke, it's not sincere.