When will I stop thinking about finding a girl\nwhen will i stop thinking about sex as much as i do now\nwhen will i stop needing to know\nwhat is the difference between not needing to know and not caring\nwhy am i selfish\nhow do i serve others\nwhy ask these questions?
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1. Yes, when you are no longer in motion.\n2. When you've found one.\n3. When you're dead (everyone thinks about sex all the time)\n4. When you lose the need.\n5. There are lots of things you don't need to know (such as what happened on this date in 1549.)  There are also lots of things you don't need to care about (see above).  If you don't need to know and also don't care, why worry?\n6. We are all self serving.  Think of it as a survival mechanism to make sure our own needs are met.\n7. In any position you choose.\n8. Maybe you have a thirst for knowledge.  Maybe you were bored.  Maybe you wanted to see which of us idiots would bother to answer such redundant and pointless questions.
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I think you need to take time out to get a hobby. If you're worried about having sex with this girl when you know you really shouldn't, perhaps being involved in something else, like your church, will help you out greatly. They can be an incredible help with dealing with problems like these, and if you find a younger church with more teen members you could start a good discussion on the subject of sex and avoiding sin, form a support group. \n\nIf you don't want to do that, get into something physical like a baseball, soccer, football team, it will help you take out the agression usually associated with the need for sex. \n\nLike I said above, just get a hobby that is seperate from your girlfriend. If you truely do not want to 'sin' anymore, then you have to find activities away from your temptations, whatever they all are.
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Have you ever been in love? (that shows maturity level), How many one night stands have you had?, what are your goals in life?  If a woman asked me those 3 things, she would know a heckuva lot of things about me.
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You could do like everyone else and have them log on here.  We'll tell them for you.\n\nBut if you insist on doing it yourself, I suggest you wait until they start asking questions like "Where do babies come from?" and "Why does my little sister have a vagina and I have a penis?"  \n\nYou should handle them individually and not at the same time because they are not the same age or gender and can't process the information identically.\n\nAnswer all questions honestly and leave the stork to parents that lie to their kids.  And whatever you do, don't villianize sex, but simply say that there is a time and a place for everything.\n\nNOTE: Your goal is to make them as comfortable as possible when discussing sex with you.  Don't overload them, and never scold them for stuff that is only natural.  If you do, you can be assured of being left out of the loop when it comes time to discussing whether or not to have sex with their BF or GF.
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Everyone makes such a big deal about sex, because it such a big deal.  Don't let anyone talk you into sex just for show.  Girls think to little of themselves these days. Your better than that. You don't have to do what everyone Else is doing. It's no good if not with the right one or the right time. Sex is so casual these days. Make a big deal of it and don't rush into it. You can ruin your life that way. You do have plenty of time. Tell people that try to pressure you into having sex that your not having it because it's your choice what you do with your body. Not theirs. Think about what happens if you end up pregnant, or worse you get aids. That is a life sentence either way. Sex should be a commitment for both partners. Lots of men forget that. They just get it and go. So make the right choices while your young, so you don't regret them later. Good Luck.  PS. sins are not big or little in God's eye's. There all sin.
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I'd rather look for counseling in my cat, in an encyclopedia or even in a bottle of vodka before I trust my life decisions to a person I only know through the internet, and that I can see has poor spelling and a misconception of the importance of "relationship experience" to determine life-altering decisions.\n\nAlso, you might want to deflate your ego a bit. You might choke with all that arrogance.\nWe are all here to ask and answer questions. If you really want to help people, just answer the questions, or even better, devote yourself to really helping people by joining a charity or a similar project, but don't come here to rub how great (you think) you are in our faces. That will only get you negative and agressive responses. (such as mine)
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People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. Ask questions about her. For an example of talking to a girl you didn't know, rather than say to her "what do you do?" ask "what do you like to do?" Its amazing how much more of a response you will get from these types of questions, these apply also to your girlfriend. Then most importantly make sure you "listen", when its time to talk then talk. With your girlfriend you just need to relax dude and It will flow. Try it.
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Your going through a stage right now where thinking about sex is good! If you have the chance, take advantage of your thoughts with someone you care for. Have some fun and experiment, try different things. This is the best time to do that.\nHave fun!
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1.how did you spend Easter? On the beach\n2.have you flown on an airplane since 911? Yes, to New York the day war broke out\n3.do you exercise everyday or at least 3 times a week? I move off the chair, if that's what you mean\n4.what is your age? Some beans\n5.how much time do you spend on yahoo answers? In and out, here and there\n6.why do some people call others names when asking a question they really need an answer to? I have no idea\n7.what are your plans this weekend? Go to a gig, get shit done\n8.are you in high school,college,work full time or full time parent? Student and parent\n9.are you closer to your mom or your dad?or closer to someone not even your blood? Disowned one, trying to disown the other. Would rather have my sister\n10.have you ever met someone in person whom you met online? Lotsa times, all good :-)\nthanks and be careful if you do meet someone online in person!
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Wait...I never understood this concept.  I guess if I'm busy enough, I won't think about it.  Wait, I go to bed thinking about it and wake up thinking about it.  Is there a psychological difference between not having that and self....satisfaction during a month's time?  I doubt it.  Isn't getting it one of the best stress relievers?  Plus, if Posh wants some....is Becks going to deny her?  I WOULDN'T!!!!!
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I think I might have an answer to part of your question, if I may. Of course, I can only speak from my own experience, but here goes. Maybe the reason we don't post questions about our relationships with our spouses, friends, family & other such issues is that we get our help from the Lord. We have His big book of answers, that helps guide us along our way. We also have each other, being connected by the same Spirit. We pray, asking God for guidance. We go to our Pastor's, asking for deeper answers from parts of the Scriptures that we're not acquainted quite so well with. You see, some issues need to be given into God's hands. You've seen some of the dating & relationship posts here...would you trust your relationship issue with most of the people that post on those sites? It's not intriguing when you think about it. But, one of the reasons I come to this site is to use my years of various experiences to help people. I don't always use Scripture, because it's not always required, especially when someone wants to know how to get wine stains out of their carpeting. Or how to get their two year old to talk. Things like that are practical, everyday experiences. Being that I've been married for over 28 years, raised two kids to adulthood, and have a mess of other experiences, I can help people...and I do. And yes, I am a "devout" Christian. I treat everyone with respect and answer every question carefully, even the ones that are nasty or just plain goofy. It's part of my nature to treat everyone as I would hope they treat me. For the most part, if you give respect, you get it back. This forum is a wonderful, yet scary thing. Through this site, I'm getting a different view of the world than the evening news ever could give me. There are just so many hurting young people out there, and I want to reach out to them. It's more than just the "mom" in me, it's the Lord Who is in me. Everything that gets to me has to go through Him first. I hope this helped answer your intrigues. <*)))><
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Here's a test that isn't guaranteed or fool-proof by any means, but can help:\n\nImagine your life in the future, both near and distant- and take out all romance, relationships, and sex.  Drop the girlfriend, forget it- pretend that you're celibate and abstaining for the rest of your life (don't worry, though, that's not going to be required of you!).  You're above such disdainful thoughts of sex in this hypothetical situation.  Now- in such a state, what gender/sex are you, or would you want to be, if sexuality had no bearing on it?\n\nIt's not an answer, but a starting point.  If you still would want to be a man, even without having a girlfriend and hence becoming a straight male, then I'd definitely say you were trans.  If otherwise, you're going to have to do some introspection to figure things out. \n\nGood luck.
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best answers to give from a female point of view\n1. What are you thinking about? \nyou\n2. Do you love me? \nof course\n3. Do I look fat in this? \nabsolutly not (be careful this could be a trick question tho)\n4. Do you think she is prettier than me? \nof course I was just comparing her to you honey and you come out on top every time\n5. What would you do if I died? \nI would never come out of the depression that that event would put me in.\n\ngood luck guys lol.
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You have alot of questions and alot of feelings.  Yes, there are people who care. Not everyone is a jerk. We can find answers if we thoughtfully seek them out and ask God for help.  It sounds like you need to find someone to help you find the answers, and someone to talk to and share your life.  Be patient, things will be OK , and the answers will come.....and so will the best companion for you...
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Sex and life - too complicated. I am now running out of answers.  Can we ever stand on judgement? Many of us have cheated, in our minds at least, some carry it through  a bit more. You know what, let it be. Que sara sara, it is not your conscience, it is hers.  Things happen and life is so weird
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I'm more sick of ...\n\n1. What is love?\n\nand\n\n2.Am I pregnant?
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What's wrong with coming out and asking for it?\n\nAnd no, that's not entirely a rhetorical question.  I ask because for years, I used to think that if my wife REALLY loved me, she'd just KNOW when I wanted sex.  (Which, let's face it, is pretty easy to figure out -- if I'm breathing, I want sex. :-)  A lot of this is because when we were first married, we were at each other all the time.  (In our past relationships, we had both been the one who wanted it "too much," so it was such a joy to find each other and explore our own upper limits instead of hearing from our partners, "Jeez, we did it yesterday, how many times a week do you WANT it?")  When the frequency dropped after we had children (it's more difficult to throw your partner to the livingroom floor and have wild, loud sex at 3 PM on a Saturday afternoon if your kids have friends over playing Nintendo), this bothered me for a while.  I thought it meant she didn't love me as much, I thought it was Something I Did, I thought it was -- you get the picture.  \n\nThings have really improved in the past couple of years, since I learned the simple act of saying "You know, I'd really like some kind of sexual activity tonight.  What are you up for?"\n\nSo the answer is, go ahead and ask her!  \n\nAs another Wicked Sex Tip: In my experience, one's chances of getting lucky increase exponentially after a really good backrub.  Find out where she's always sore, learn what relaxes her, and be generous.  Besides, if nothing else, you're running your hands over the naked body of the woman you love, and that's on my top three list of favorite activities in and of itself.