I kind of like this girl in my class, or at least want to get to know this girl, I think she is absolutely gorgeous, but I don't know how to break the ice, I mean she knows who I am and all, but thats it. So I was thinking about messaging her randomly on facebook or myspace or something, if it was you would you be freaked out by it? I definitely dont want to make my class awkward, or make her feel awkward, and if I should write a message what should I say? Guys if you have anything to add, like an experience or something..help a brother out...any input greatly appreciated...
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Bro technically she already knows you right? So you arent a stranger to her, it wouldnt be weird. Just play it cool, dont try to be witty. Just be confident....and PAY ATTENTION to her. Most times girls will tell you what you need to know, you just need to watch for it. Confidence, honesty, and patience is all you need my friend. If she doesnt notice you then....she aint WORTH it. =) Be yourself.
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I had a hard time talking to guys when I was younger. I would get so nervous that the thought of talking to him about anything but maybe a basketball game seemed impossible. I understand that the direct approach is a no, this doesnt come easy for all of us. The spreading of the word is an okay idea but just because you hear someone likes you doesnt mean you will believe it. I would suggest letting a mutual friend know that you like him and having them see what he thinks of you. It may seem like a not so great choice of action but it can prove to be successful. If you are not up to that get a friend to go on messenger or something with you (presuming your guy friend has it also) and let them type for you and ask him what he thinks of you. I used to use that one all the time to make me seem bold while I was biting my nails in the background. Good Luck!!!
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If they're friendly and your age group...Mingle with some of them.  Hopefully in a class or two, or just meet up with them in the hall.  Ask if they're a closed club, or can you be a part of the group.  Otherwise, befriend one, and just kinda blend in.  My question to you is what's make this group one you'd like to belong to???
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First go up to the girl, and introduce yourself. Nothing fancy, i.e. Hi, I'm Rick. Then say: You are the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. And I was just wondering if you would be interested in having a cup of coffee with me? TRY IT, IT WORKS ALMOST ALL THE TIME.
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It seems a little tacky to me.  If I were you, I'd make contact with her and ask her out in person.  If you don't have much contact with her she may not have a good idea about who you are and an email may seem strange to her.  The personal touch is always better.  Don't be so shy.  The worst thing she can do is say "no" and the world won't end if she does.
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Yep, it did to me when I was in High School.  I found out the hard way... just say hi for a couple time for two days.  Stage two, introduce yourself and wait for her reaction.  So, from than on be yourself like with other friends.  Good luck!
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One of the things that u can do is just simply start up a conversation with  her, you really do not have nothing to loose! If you say you sit by her in one of your classes, then just mention something about the class, borrow a pen, ask for notes, start up something, make a joke, or else you will always be asking yourself what if>
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I would say that was no friend to start out with. This person wants to be popular and will do whatever it takes. I would confront her and tell her your true feelings then go from there.
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If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
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help yourself and go talk to her. who cares if she's from a different group. group dynamics eventually change, ppl from different 'classes' are always pairing up. stop wasting your time and go for it. and good luck!
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Not totally good. She either hasn't seen it yet or she is not interested. If you still have the same class together, ask her. What's the worse she could say.....You'll never know until you do.
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wow i'm in a very similar situation right now and its tough.  if you are having a conversation with him, try to touch his arm as your making a point.  it also wouldnt be a bad idea to simply say "you're really cute".  its better to let them know that you like them than to never try at all.  good luck, e-mail me if you have any more questions
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Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.
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hey, my names john, im 16, i used to be exactly like you, until last year i had never even held a girls hand i was so shy, but some things have helped me get over it, send me an email at sox5d@yahoo.com and ill help you out, right now you are being offered one of the greatest gifts i've ever received, you'll be with so many more girls, reply if you're interested...\n(this isnt just about girls but about being the best possible person you can be)
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Hmm, it actually depends on what type of girl she is. Ok, but in general, you should send her a note in her locker saying to meet you afterschool somewhere. girls like these types if notes, I should know, I am one, =P. Ok, don't bring anything, they'll think you're overdoing it. Just tell her you like her, maybe like this, "hey, I just asked you to come today, to say that, ... I like you..." Then you should maybe just wait for a while, then go, let her give you an answer on another day, girls need time to think. lol, ^_^
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Help!!!!!!!!!!!! I need help to decode your message! \n\nBut if you're writing in this strange way to hide from your friend, then well what sort of a friend is she?! A good friend will not pass threats to steal a guy you like! This guy likes you too??? Do you'll just hang-out as friends, or have you ever gone out with him? If he likes you both then ask him to make a choice!\nPlease choose better friends in the future!
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Go introduce yourself. Comment on the class, or make witty remarks. Smile, listen to what she has to say. Talk about classes common interests, news updates, anything you find to be interesting or unusual. See if you have any friends in common. Collaborate on projects. If you make the effort, she'll talk back. Don't rush the dating thing, wait until you become friends, it might take a bit, and you might find that it's not worthwhile after you get to know her.