OK so theres this guy and I really like him, but  He ever talks to me at school. But every night we talk on the computer for hours. Hes always talkin about his best friend(thats a girl) and I'm not sure what to do. I really wnat him to be happy, but what should I do??? Plz answer truthfully....
137361
he is probably shy and the computer is able to give him the ability to be himself ask him out instead don't wait for him.
458260
yes!  he likes you, you already know this so stop acting like a five year old and go talk to him tomorrow at church.  it is ridiculous to send your best friend to go talk to him... i remember doing stuff like that when i was around your age, but i look back on it now -- i am 27--- like it was very immature and ridiculous.  don't make excuses for yourself that you are a wimp or too shy, just stand up for your own, and go talk to the kid, i promise that he will want to hang with you, it is pretty obvious.
36735
r u 11? if so i have advice for u. (im 11) we have a dance at the end of the school year and i had a best friend named michael. everyone had dates already and i decided 2 ask him. after discussing it w/my friend, i went up 2 him at recess and said, "can i talk 2 u for a minute?" we walked and i beat around the bush for awhile (good tactic) and then i said, "im just gonna come right out and say it. will u come 2 the dance w/me?" he replied (after thinking about it), "ok. but this conversation never happened." u can imagine how happy i was!? but basicly, ask 2 talk, beat around the bush, and then say a sentance that describes what u want (e.g., will you go out w/me? can i be ur girlfriend?). hope it works! and about the other girl, just leave her alone. if she gives u trouble, take it 2 the teacher. just dont mention your boyfriend!
200942
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
466962
ok well i am in 10th grade so hopefully i have some good advice.  the guy thinks he is a big shot because he is in high school. he also prob thinks hes cute or something and knows you think hes cute since you smiled and glared at him. he prob noticed it then when he was with his friends he wanted to act like a big shot because a girl smiled and glared at him. so he wanted to seem popular around his buds. and you are right he was just trying to get a reaction out of you. guys are just like that, as you get older you'll learn that all they want is a girls attention and when they do get her attention they feel like they are all that so they will obiously brag about it. think if some hott guy glared at you and smiled at you, wouldnt you go and tell your best friends? thats exactly what he did. hope it all works out for you, good luck in school!
324378
Apparently you have very strong feelings for this person. I know the feeling. I went to high school with this guy and i left but i always kept bucking in to him, and i knew he like me back but we never said anyting, and even now i still have a feeling to find him to talk to him. Go search for that person. Cause most people only get this feeling once.
546984
omg ive liked the same guy for 3 years i thot i was the only person that liked anyone for that long!! but anyways i think you should talk to your bffl and tell her that this is really upsetting you.. if shes really your friend she should listen.. and if that doesnt work just talk to your crush before she does or ask him out or something. i think he would be more likely to go out with you anyways because your a lot better friends with him and you have a good personality. hope this helps!!
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
76487
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
447443
Hey....how old are you?Dont worry there are a lot of fishes in the ocean...you might not know this guy will date another girls but in the end he'll bump at you and soon he will realize that you are most prettiest gal in the campus....\nWhat does your friend told you about that guy?who knows that guy wants to get close with that friend of your because he wants to know about you...not that really wants to be your friend's partner....do you get me?dont worry...
213340
gurl, i have the same problem. but the guy is my best friend. to tell u the truth, i think he does like u. guys just dont go around making conversation. just keep an eye on him. maybe he really does like u.
353484
ok. so. i'm 14, and i've been in that situation. just forget about him. if he's acting like a jerk, then he's not worth your time. don't make it look like your chasing this guy around. he'll think you're pathetic and just want to mess with you. forget about him. but hey, that's my opinion. oh...and. 13. remember. it's not as if he's actually changed your life in a major way or anything...right? so, yeah. i suggest you ignore him since he only talks about his girlfriend with you, and hang out with your own friends more. i guess it's safe to befriend him again when you're completely over him, but if he still acts like a jerk [even as a friend], then i suggest you just stay away.
197322
I was in that exact situation a few years ago!! Totally clicked with my best friend, and when I pursued something we decided to date, and we never EVER went back to being good friends again. We talk a few times a week online but that is it. Ultimately it's up to you! You make the decision! If it's worth it... go for it!! Over all i think for me it was worth it. I would have always wondered "what if"...
475269
I noticed a lot of "everybody" in your question. Do what YOU want to- regardless of what everyone thinks. You can't live your life worrying about being popular or not if you make a decision.  If you really like him-go for it.  If it's just a game and you'll hurt someone else's feelings when people turn their backs on you-then forget it, he doesn't deserve that.  If people think you're weird for being with someone that makes you happy, then they're not friends at all!
311587
go for a common friend who could help u out.\nif u dont have one reliable enough give him oppurtuinty to talk with u.\nanyway it seems that it is still just a teenage infatuation but you never know which turns out to be great. \nlisten to your heart .....
245085
Ok this is from personal experience I had with a girl. The thing I'm gonna put my money on is that he's trying to make you jelous because he believes he's run outta options. I hate to be blunt but if your considered a really attractive girl in your school it doesn't matter how goodlooking he is but he may be scared of you, espically of approaching you directly. You also have to think of the way you treated him, you cheated on him, and also you pushed him away when he wanted to talk to him...well now its time to put youself to the test.\nI'm not sure of your age so i'm not sure if you can drive or not, but since your able to still monitor him IE knowing how he acts arond other girls I'm 100% sure he knows this information about his flirting and girl handeling is getting back to you. So you need to choose a night, time, and place and track him down randomly. Talk to him about it, I know the girl I went through with this I did the exact same thing and it would have ment the world to me if she had just tracked me down and come to me to talk about it. You've got to put yourself in his shoes and realize just how much you hurt him, its also possible he wants you to hurt some too since you seem to have been completly unaffected (from his point of view) from the break up. Once you've sat down for awhile and thought this over and you actually understand his pain and the hell you put him through (I know i'm being harsh but it'll help you in the long run) only then will you be ready to talk to him about it and salvage something.\n\nAnd if your not trying to salvage something or you know you'd never be able to handle a serious realtionship with him without cheating its best to just leave this be and go through the pain of losing someone.\n\nHowever from what you've told me about him and how i'm guessing how you feel I think its for the best that you two try and salvage a relationship. At the very least try and follow my advice about trying to put yourself in his shoes and feeling his pain, it'll give you a better perspective on things. \n\nGood luck to the both of you!\n\nFeel free to e-mail me if you need more help
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If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!