well. ive been with over 15 girls and each havebrokenup with me in like 2 days and its a bummer and i think its how i aproach them i just hope someone could give me some dating tips
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Your problem is not getting a date.  It's what you do during the 2 days they are giving you a chance.  It's something about how you act or how you treat them once they are with you.\nThink carefully about what each one said to you when they broke up with you.  Make a list of things they said.  Usually they will give you hints before they actually break up.  When you have the list, try to find trends or commonalities.  If you can post of list of what the different ones have said or done, that would help a lot.  I could look and see if there's something there that's causing them to dump you.  They will usually indicate it if you listen.  If you can't remember what they said then start there.  You need to listen to the girls.
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Face it and get on with your life. Have some dates even if they are not the perfect ones. You need to put this way in the past.\n\nAt the same time, be happy with yourself. Your new relationships will want an upbeat person and will have little room for the other person that was in your life.\n\nHave fun and remember the bad times you had with her. This is no time for sentimentality. She dumped you hard and on purpose. Good luck to you, my friend.
191977
UR JUST NOT LOOKIG FOR THE RIGHT GIRLSSSS.... TRY HARDER..THAT ONE GIRL FOR U IS SOMEWHERE OUT THERE..AND IM SORRY THAT U HAVE TO MEET SL***!!!!
405589
I feel your pain!!!  Keep busy and hang with close friends. Honestly the best way to get her out of your head is to find another. Plenty of us females out here that would love to be on there guys mind 24/7. Just keep looking.
450025
Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
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Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
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it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
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Well if you want a date i suggest you one thing. Go and look for some other guy and go for a date with him. Let the guys in your group get jealous of you and realise that you're a gal and you've your feelings too. If they realise its well and good, if not at least you're with some other guy. Even if you're not dating anyother guy just pretend it for a while to them and be excited. Praise this imaginary guy b4 them. Create jealosy. Show some attitude. Be hard to get. Trust me you'll date anyone soon.
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Blind dates can be effective or not. Depending on you.\nIf someone introduce me someone that I liked from the begining and the feeling was mutual, WELL Praise for BlindDates. if the people you are introduced in the date is making you feel wort, then dont. \nMy suggestion is consider meeting the girl you like by your own means.  Never underestimate the Rush that comes from stainding up to introduce yourself to whomever you like.\n\nyou can suffer rejection that´s for sure, but you just need one person, not every body has to like you, and eventually we all find the one we need.\n\nOther sugestion, dont LOOK! just let it happen, have fun, be yourself and relax. \nyou atract more when you are ok withyourself.
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u r looking for the wrong girls...\nand just be yourself rather than trying to be someone else\nand remember that all girls are different, but that doesn't mean you change for them..\ni found this somewhere, i didnt write it but i can highly relate to it, and so can many of the girls you are looking for....\n\nTo the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and time again fake up and make up and screw up the guys in their lives without saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from "there are plenty of fish in the sea," to "time heals all wounds." This is to honor those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they are, who know that they deserve better, who are seeking to find it.\n\nThis is for the girls who have never been in love, but know that it's an experience that they don't want to miss out on. For the girls who have sought a night with friends and been greeted by a night of catcalling, rude comments and explicit invitations that they'd rather not have experienced. This is for the girls who have spent their weekends sitting on the sidelines of a beer pong tournament or a case race, or playing Florence Nightingale for a vomiting guy friend or a comatose crush, who have received a drunk phone call just before dawn from someone who doesn't care enough to invite them over but is still willing to pass out in their bed. This is for the girls who have left sad song lyrics in their away messages, who have tried to make someone understand through a subliminally appealing profile, who have time and time again dropped their male friend hint after hint after hint only to watch him chase after the first blonde girl in a skirt. This is for the girls who have been told that they're too good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given compliments as a way of breaking off a relationship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.\n\nThis one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across th
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Its really fun....I'm going through the same thing myself...my girlfriend of 2 yrs called it off 3 days ago and I'm suck in the same predicament. I absolutely can relate to you because I'm afraid that I won't ever find someone that I care and love. Not to mention she was my first girlfriend. To make it worse she tells me that she doesn't really see a future with me even though she tells me she loves me. Anyways I just want to tell you that its ok and hopefully both of us will be ok in the future. I wish you luck and I feel your pain. Oh, and the Dr. Steve answer is not fair... I'm not a teenager and I'm going through this so to say that "its a meaningless relationship" is cruel.
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yup, that sucks, wont be the last time.  best way to get past it is distract yourself.  go do something hard, you'll feel better about yourself.  after having accomplished it. remember, you are doing it for you, not for her.  try not to get to hooked on one girl.  approach each one realizing that if she rejects you, it will hurt, but its ( at my age) three bears and a good boxing match, then you move on.  no worries.
236608
I am in the same situation as you... i feel the pain... try to move on and show her that you are not into her anymore... you are dating other girls and talk to her about it just like you are talking to your other friends. give her the impression that she is losing you. a little bit of competition can do wonders... make her chase you.
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I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
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Unfortunately, your situation is normal.  I know that sucks.  I've been there too.  But as I got older, I had PLENTY of relationships (some I shouldn't have been so willing to rush into.)  Endure and have fun.  This soon shall pass for you.
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Go ahead and cry. I don't think you really like these girls otherwise you would have waited for just one. Trust me, you are not alone. I know this guy who wrote his school report on how he got turned down my 12 different girls in one day. Yes, 12. Good luck with the girls!
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There is a possiblity that the fact you don't feel the same way with new girls is simply because the first girl was just that--your first girl.  I dated four girls in my life, and didn't find the right one until a couple years ago.  At first, all the girls I dated gave me the same feeling, but it went away, and that was ultimately why the first three relationships didn't work out.  Every time we broke up, I was worried that I wouldn't find a girl like them again, because they were all very wonderful people.  I would go a few months before I found someone else that made me feel the way they did.  But it may take a few tries, like in my case, where it took four tries to find the right girl.  The reason you may feel different about your first girl is just because she was the first one you knew, so that is what you are used to.  The best thing I can say is wait it out, until you find the person that you realize you could spend a lot of time (i.e. a lifetime) with.  It just takes time and a lot of different people until you find the one.  Hope this helps somewhat!