i have been dating a lady from Russia for seven months now over the www, is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have never met in person?? we do know each other very well, love is there with both of us,, tell me your thoughts please, no smart as* answers please this is a seriuos question
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I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?
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Believe me you are normal. I'm your age and I never dated and never had a boyfriend until a few months ago!!! I met him online in a chatroom and we started chatting from there. He was living in Ukraine and I was in the U.S. but now we just cant live without each other!! I am now living in Ukraine with him. We love each other so much!! trust me hun just be patient. Dont try to be like everybody else cuz it wont make you happy. take your time, they have a saying here "if you rush things you ruin them". Good luck hun.
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my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
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I met my fiancee online over six years ago.  I loved him long before I kissed him for the first time.  I believe that the lack of physical contact forces people over the internet to get to know each other better than if they were dating traditionally.  We still had a few wrinkles to smooth out once we moved closer to one another but we had already fallen in love.
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I first met my wife on the internet. And she is from another country too!\nI didn't really know if I loved her till I met her in real life (after about 3 months of chatting on the net and some phonecalls). I still didn't think we had a future together, but she really wanted to go on, and I was willing to. And.. here we are now :)\n\nMy advice is to try to get to know him more, find out his concepts and values, and pray about it. If you feel peaceful, try meeting him. Be careful, but not paranoid.\n\nGood luck :)
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'I would agree with everything Mindy said. For I too am in an identical situation to her. There's nothing wrong with meeting people thro' the internet, and if you then fall in love, distance becomes just a hurdle to overcome. In fact, meeting and falling in love thro the internet may be more real because the natural male/female urges that can sometimes get in the way, initially are not there. And so, you build up a strong friendship first. And that is the foundation of a strong relationship.So, definately, go for it
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I personally do think it works at the moment I'm in a relationship which started over the Internet, although i have not met him yet, we have such a connection and i really love him. we have been going out around 7months now and its been 7 of the best months of my life.
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Chalk it up as a life experience, and move on. Long distant relationships seldom work, especially, it would seem to me, ones between two different countries. It is possible, I suppose, but brothers and sisters seldom hold hands in America, that would be more of a European thing. Really, you two live so far apart, how is it going to work out anyway?
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I kinda have been in your situation and I think you can really fall in love ...but you know ,in my case I was really in love with the guy ...I don't know how it could happen but he really changed my life ...cause I loved him so much ...and I learned alot from it ..really ..so I think that's really the point of it !everything happens for a reason and you have met each other so don't lose it try to get the best out of it you know try to make somehing from it ..learn why you have met her ...believe me you will find out alot of things about yourself and your life ...I still haven't seen him yet but if I could go back and live it all over again I would difinetely do the same thing cause I'm really changed now in a very better way ...hope I could help u :DGOOD LUCK
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I met my spouse on line - dating service.\nWe met about 2 months later, I felt this was the person for me from the first glance as we met at a local restaurant.\nWe were married 6 months later.\nWe've been together (married) now for 4 years.\nWe have our good and bad times, but we are still very much in love and are continuing to plan our futures together.\n\nHope this helps.
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Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone without ever seeing them. I actually like to think of it as one of the purest forms of love. :)\n\nAs far as your secret goes, it really depends on the secret. If you're married, you probably shouldn't have been talking to him like a love interest in the first place. If you have a child or something, that's nothing to worry about. If you are both married and have a child, CEASE COMMUNICATION IMMEADIATELY! lol Anyway... \n\nI would have to say that you should tell him this secret. If you can't be completely open with him, then it really isn't meant to be. Trust me. Lies and secrets will ultimately destroy a relationship. Someone eventually finds out. Just tell him, otherwise you'll be stuck in this situation for a while. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, it really wasn't meant to be. If he still does want to talk to you, you two will be much better off for it. :) Either way, my point is that you cannot fight what will inevitably happen. If you don't tell him, he will find out eventually...\n\nSo go do the right thing. :)
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It is possible to find your soulmate on the internet, but be VERY CAREFUL. Some people are very deceitful and will prey upon those who will give them what they want... (like money or attention or sex). There are tons of stories online of people posing to be Russian women (and other nationalities) who do it just for the money and they disappear. \n\nFor the record, my wife and I are from different continents and we had to spend a great deal of time online years ago because we wouldn't have known each otherwise. But relationships take time and patience. We've been married five years and it's awesome how we got together. But I know not everyone is so lucky. \n\nJust know what you're getting into before you send any money or make travel arrangements. People can be who ever they want to be on the internet.
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I would meet them in a  heartbeat, why would you hesitate? In teh end it is all up to you what can happen.... Have fun!!!
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Hey buddy you better think twice the same girl wants to marry me. Seems a little sacm going on. Here is a part of a msg that was sent to me also have some nice pic of this young lady. Contact me if you have any questions. Anyone does any interdating they better check that person out good before going on and thinking something is there.Hey my email address vince3987@yahoo.com contact me if you think I am full of it.\n\nMy dear Vinny, I often think about you and about our relations.\nIt\nseems to me that every day we become closer. We know more about\neach\nother and I like all that you wrote me. So, I will go home now to\nthink about this all. I hope I did not confused you with my\ndream.\nWhat do you think about this all?\n\nYes, maybe we can have post address of each other here is my and I wait\nyours.\n433210 Russia,\nCity: Karsun\nStreet: Lenina\nHouse: 29\nShahurina Irina\n\nHug you, Irina
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Well how long have you known him before you started to date him? He must be a real nice guy for you to fall for him so quickly. I fell in love with my girlfriend when I first met her it wasn't a crush either the feelings I had were something I never felt before. But to answer your question yes I do feel that its possible.
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SNAP!!!!!!\n\ndid the same thing with a guy i met on her too. stayed up all hours just chatting about stuff and listing old songs! \n\nok, here's what i think. when you meet someone you just 'click' with, it is easy to get carried away with yourself and be consumed with it all. thats not to say that there is not anything serious there. all i am saying is reality is often different to fantasy.\n\nme and the guy i'm still chatting too met a couple of weeks ago. he is a great guy but i think we both felt that reality was a little different. we still chat and i am due to see him again shortly.\n\nwhat we decided was to take things slowly, get to know eachother better as friends as see what develops from that. it's the most sensible option i think.
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Be careful when bringing someone into your life from a different country or for that matter who you have met off the internet. I am not saying this one will turn out that way, but don't lose all your money trying to get a guy here you have never met. Us women need to start thinking with our head instead of our hearts......................