I'm talking about jobs,airlines,resturants,people men against larger women and women against big men. Why do people think so cruel and unkind.
138644
Ive wondered that my self.. im not a size 0. Ive been trying to figure that out my whole life. Im me.Im still American. Im still a girl. Im still a mom. Im still a friend. Im still a sister. Im still a PERSON!! And i dont know why people think im so diffrent from them. I have a job, just like they do. I have a family, just like they do. I am happy, just like they are. Still not really sure why. And really, i dont care! Because Im happy! and thats all that matters!
542818
it is demeaning for a woman.  Men lose respect for women that do that.
302117
This may not be universal truth. However, history shows that women have been the biggest enemies of women! whether socially, financially or otherwise. So you can imagine that if one gender does not respect itself, what could be the consequences. I think women very well understand this yet....?!
421790
No, it's not funny what-so-ever. Who are they to judge who's heavy and not? Saying hurtful rude comments about someone's appearance, personal opinions, or lifestyles are the things that increase anorexia, bulemia, and suicidal attempts. Reading this you may think i'm being hypocritical, and I probably am because I have made fun of all different kinds of people. However, I am not proud of it, I regret it, and I believe that is another serious problem within our communities. Why is it that fat women are hideous and disgusting, but heavy men are perfectly acceptable? Look at these comedians...I don't even consider it a real job. Going to school to learn better ways to tease and make fun of other's.....that's sure something to write home about. The thing is heavy women need to realize that you need to try your absolute hardest to ignore it, and live the life you are in for who you are. Each person in this world gets made fun of whether they know it or not, nobody is perfect. But you are the only one who has control over who you chose to listen to and ignore. I think it takes a lot of determination to lose all of that weight, and personally I think you should lose weight for the longer lasting life, not the appearance. Obviously you're going to feel self concious, but it's your choice whether you want to pretend it doesn't bother you or take action and try and lose the weight. I support so many people in doing that, talk to a doctor for help, join a support group....but don't let other's comments bring you down.
603930
Wow!  When compassion was  handed out, you sure didn't get any!\n\nPeople with a weight problem will get upset because:\n1. they know about their weight and aren't happy\n2. they don't want to be overweight but maybe due to health issues can't control it\n3. the older you get, the harder it is to lose weight...especially if you are female\n4. the comment is rude, obnoxious and cruel\n\nNever judge someone until you have walked in their shoes.  You  might be a thin thing now but just wait...your day will come and then see how you feel when someone is callous enough to call you fat.
211560
People have always used 'God' as a reason to be cruel.  It's just a way of making others small so you can feel big.  You have to make someone else so wrong in order to feel that you actually exist, or at least so you don't feel totally insignificant.  I don't know if you can give an answer to why.  It just is that way, people are hurt and angry and who knows what experiences they have had with so called 'religion'.  Why take it personally?  It's not about you.
194824
Because women have ruin it for other women . . . \n\nThese good men became dishearten because of how women treat them.
179040
I think there's just way too many women--strike that--men and women who are just looking out for themselves.  Because there is so many of them, many other people are getting bitter about it.  Maybe I've just had bad luck or something or I'm just running with the wrong crowd.
585666
Because they don't care about anyone except themselves. That's what's wrong with the world today...it's each man for himself, rather than mankind helping one another out. The world would be too perfect and easy that way. Plus, people ridicule and make fun because they fear the unknown. It's easier to pass judgement than to get to know someone. It's called ignorance. Hopefully they'll grow up someday and start treating folks the way they want to be treated.
605313
I think women are the main oppressors of other women in almost every society. Some women might think that those who prefer having anonymous sex are free to do as they wish, and might be jealous of that. On the other hand, some women might judge those only on the basis of their moral values. Some might think that those who do so are simply "low".\nYou know, human mind is so complicated. Why dont we all let others mind their own personal lives, which is impossible yeah
144355
I know exactly where your coming from, where I work some of the women (well one in particular) is a right bimbo, but because she wears short skirts, low cut tops and licks b*m she seems to get away with everything, but... when things go wrong she really does get it in the neck because its a shock to the system as shes used to having it easy.  I think the reason some people are like this is because they are unhappy in their home life this particular person gets beaten by her husband, people just lack attention and like to source it from other places.\n\nDon't feel sorry for yourself just rise above and at the end of the day you have a better home life then her and you are a much better person without exposing yourself and being nasty xx
177523
I think it's because people are basically egocentric.  Also self-preservation is rather high on the list of the instincts.
640033
because people are cruel and want to target someone that is different then them. I wish everyone would just leave gay people alone. They are also human beings with feelings!!
13562
If I would have treated someone who weighs more differently then it would have definitely been nicer but never in a mean manner. Maybe this statement would in itself be a stereotype or generalization but I always find such people are very kind-hearted and have a keen sense of humor. The only thing I am always cautious about is when talking about dieting and weight, etc. infront of them so as not to hurt their feelings but other than that then treatment is normal and actually it never even occurred to me that other people would be prejudiced against someone because of their weight!
123091
That was rather nasty.Some people are just plain ignorant about other's misfortunes.They are selfish and self-centered.
181551
It is because they are too full of themselves that they judge others. I have also noted at times that they fear those who are different in appearance and thinking. I judge people by how they treat others and not how they look.
258786
I would agree, dont worry about these ignorant people that just want to think that they are superior, for instance sweet seduction, like Italy is any less poor than Mexico! Being poor does not make you a bad person, and being of a certain nationality does not make you automatically ugly or fat. People need to get over themselves, they have no reason to feel superior.