we know each other for about a year and well he asked me out but i got kind of shy i wanted to say yes but i was scared so i said no
120988
just be brave and have a talk w/ himm and tell him wat happend
563922
Don't be afraid to make the first move.  Some guys are more nervous than you are.  Great if he says yes, and if he says no, who cares he's not good enough for you if he can't realize a good thing when it's staring him smack in the face asking him out.  I did, and now I'm married to a great guy. Good luck.
62359
Well, the worse that could happen is he won't want to take that step.  Maybe he won't be ready and will want more time, maybe he is afraid he might not do things right and that he'll disappoint you, maybe he has been rejected before and is hesitant to make a move becuase he thinks it will happen again..........The point here is, you'll never know what really is going on until you try!
191948
no coz time change and some people aslo change maybe that time he thought that u dnt even want to go out with him so no u were not used plus i think u even did not went out so how com u be used
567949
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
513523
cause you were shy first, then you got jealous, not your embarassed. Its normal. You like the guy but were shy and just didn't have enough courage to talk to him.  Listen don't feel akward, lift your head up high and tell how you feel and ask him what he thinks about you.  You broke the ice already now you can continue.
459063
Sounds like he wants you two to get back together again but is too shy or too ashamed to ask, may be that he is afraid you will turn him down.  Hang loose awhile and see what the outcome will be.  If he still likes you, you will hear from him before very long.  Good luck kid.
54472
He might have said no because you didn't ask him yourself. I turned down a guy while i was in high school, cause he got his friend to ask me.\n\nWhat you need to ask yourself is what is the worst scenario that could happen.  And could you live with that.\n\nWorst scenario is that he says no. alright, not the end of the world, better than wondering "what if?" for the rest of your life. \n\nBasically if you can handle that, then yeah you will be nervous, but any answer you will be okay with.\n\nJust do it, before you lose your nerve.
141912
There are two poeple answering this so\n\nNate- Ok so i feel that maybe just maybe he is scared and he feels like he has lost the connection that you guys once had because it sound like you were always hand and hand but now that you are seperated your not as close as you once were. So finally to my point, Talk to him and spark up some of the old conversations that you use to have and bring up something that only you two can laugh about because it makes it personal and he'll know that it was ment for just you and him.\n\n\n\n\n\nTweety- i saw this the other way i liked the girl but she paid no mind to me even thought we used to walk arm and arm down the Lowell High hallwayz but she has a friend who always told her not to go out with me and those are the ones you have to pay attention to the most. You know what girl u go up to him and say what up! cuz he probably scared of you.
400689
If you still like him, open up to him completely.  Tell him all that you feel about him, and it may take him some time to absorb all that, but he will find that under all that he was feeling during those past 7 months, he still likes you the way that you liked him.\n\nThe reason that he thought that you were a little scary is because he was intimidated by you.  If you told him how you truly felt and that it was okay for him to act completely like himself around you, then he would fine.  Tell him that the reason that you liked him is because he was awesome, and that he didn't really change, and since he didn't, you would always like him.  Good luck!
286591
It means he wants to ask you out but is afraid of rejection. If you say that you would say yes, then he will ask you out. If you say you would not go out with him, then he knows not to ask you. Basically he's asking you out, without asking you out first.
640194
the situation you're in is kinda confusing but if you already told him about how you feel (and i think that was really brave) and he juz smiled at you and didnt tell you what you expected to hear than i guess he's not as into you as you are with him. he smiled at you coz he doesnt want to be rude. it'll be tough coz you really like him (love him even) but you gotta move on i think. you deserve better. tc
539699
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
435476
when i was 17 i started seeing this boy that i had really liked for about 2 years. He eventually wanted to make things more serious and for some reason i said no and finished with him. I now know that i shouldnt have done that cos i did and still do really like him. My life took a different path and even now 10 years later i wonder what might have been if id said yes instead of no. i still see him now and still feel the same way about him but ive never had the courage to ask him out or anything. So the answer is yes i have yes i still do feel that way about him.
551063
because secretly you might be afraid he does not like you the same way as you like him and this makes you nervous when you try to get the courage to tell him your feelings . when you have  a change to talk to him and tell him, just take a deep breath and say something like you know theres something i want to tell you and then take another deep breath ....lol and  say i really really like you alot . and you can go from there.
277946
maybe since he considers you a friend and he is too nervous to ask you act and fear rejection (like with all the other girls) If you like ask him out. You never know what he might say!
227501
You know we all didnt want to do something Stupid in life. I guess you shouldn`t have told him like I told a kid that I like him he is weird around me. He just doesnt run away cause we go to the same school. Anyways Good luck