im very uncomterble about me and my gf when i grench kiss her she seems upset but if she likes it and i stop she might be sad i dont honestly know help shes heheimpretty5 i think
127367
y would she look upset if she likes it?? i think ur da only one hu likes it!!
440678
when she is doing that touch her lip with your tongue and rub really soft see her reaction you can go further or you can just pull back you might even ask her if she likes to french kiss and if never start out gentle if she is willing to try mostly go slow with the relationship the more you talk the more you will know
529447
been there done that. I no excactly how you feel, I had the same thing happen to me with this dude. we kissed and every thing. its a weird situation. since she doesn't talk that much then ask her if you're offically going out. then latter tell her that you don't want her to call you so often. stick with her, once shes gone you'll feel realy bad like I did when I let him go. enjoy every phyisical action she does, it gets better and better. I used to not think about the dude that was with me and we went for a long time. you'll realy miss her if you leave her. I did.
363180
congrads... \n\njust make sure that u act like ur self... we hate when guys act different around their friends and then us... don't worry about the kissing thing (who said you have to kiss if you have a girlfriend lol jk) just make sure that u are always ur self and try never ever to yell at her.. she will dump you w/out a doubt. :) remember if you want things to work you must build a relationship and that takes time. be ready to talk things out and BE HONEST! if you tell her a little lie you will be more likely to tell a bigger lie. don't rush into anything physical because that will hurts your changes of working things out by talking. so remember be yourself, talk, and be honest.
536353
yes, u wanna b with her because ur so used to it that its hard to stop, its like a routine that u have going and without it u feel lost and confused, so u should try to find another girl that makes u more happy and maybe then ull b ok to break up with the old gf bc u can then start a new routine, one u actually enjoy :)
238680
You need to sit with your girlfriend and talk to her openly abt how you feel.Sometimes girls just want to be there and be nice to their friends. She might not know that all this is making you uncomfortable. If she tells you there is nothing to worry abt and everything is fine, you need to tell her to be more considerate of your feelings and try to behave in a manner that would not put a strain on your relationship. But if she admits to liking the guy, there is no point in you hanging around there. You just need to let go and tell yourself that somethings r just not meant to be. Sometimes you need to be strong and take decisions with your head and not your heart.
217326
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
467670
She doesn't really know you well enough to feel comfortable with you. That is why she like says one word to you and walks away. You should make her feel comfortable with you and then maybe she will stay with you. Awkwardness is one thing i really do hate and runaway from because i feel really insecure(crying and hurting inside of me). After that event i would really go to bed and sleep/rest because i felt really sick.
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Maybe she just thinks that if yous start making out it'll lead to sex and maybe she just doesnt feel like having sex. Just let her know all you wanna do is kiss "causse it makes you feel more connected to her". Or maybe your just a bad kisser, i'd try the first and if its a no-go then i'd consider the second. Goodluck.
561747
aawww u sound so sweet but i think u did the right thing, may be she is not ready for a relationship right now.
451285
your girlfriend could see how your self esteem is on how you react to her. but then again only you can fix your self esteem.
414235
I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
250890
kissing means different things to different people, perhaps your gf doesnt view it the same as you.\ndont let it bug you. havent you ever heard the saying "you have to kiss alot of frogs..."
602107
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
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Ooooh, touchy subject.\n\nThis is how you do it. I can't guarantee it will work because she maybe very sensitive. \n\nSounds like you have a needy GF. Best way to do it is in person. Preferably, do something nice for her first, take her out on a nice date, a nice ralaxing one. Tell her how much you care about her. Ask her if she knows this? Pay attention to her reactions now! If she looks like she's not sure, you Re-Assure her. Then tell her you want her to do things on her own, things to better herself with. Say she should spend more time with her friends and family because you think it's important that she does that. Tell her you want an independent girl. Tell her you want her to be happy on her own and with herself. And you want to be there for her to add to her happiness. Because between you and me and whom ever is reading this, we are responsible for our own happiness, no one else. You can tell her that too in a nice way. \n\nYou basically make it sound possitive so she doesn't take it the wrong way....Then you tell her that you love to spend time with her but you also need time for yourself too and this is why you want her to do things on her own more. Then tell her again that you are not going anywhere, that you are there when she needs you. \n\nMake sure you give her a hugs and kisses afterwards...."Affection"  - - - i don't know any woman who doesn't go gaga for it.\n\nGood luck!
247113
Wow!!! Are you for real!! Seriously, you're a nice perfect guy and now you want your girlfriend to be nice and perfect too. If this girl is so important to you and vice versa, then maybe she can make a little effort to change herself and you can try to be a bit more tolerant. A little compromise from both of you can take this relationship places but dont expect perfection. Good luck!!
541643
How long have you been with her? And why don't you ask her, you should, if it's been a while, she may not be feeling the same way about you and doesn't know what to say or, she is insecure about the relationship. Let her know your feelings on this, communication is the key!