he was my classmate before and known that you im kinda serious in my studies...knows my philosophy about love,"its the brain u must use not your heart"...and people dont believe that im that ignorant/wholesome with a bf/gf relationship..
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He flirts with you, brushes his arm against you or touches you lightly on the arm, blushes, finds ways to run into you, you feel "tension" between you when he's around, you catch him staring at you, he strikes up conversations with you.  Check out his body language.  Does his face light up when you're near?  Does he try to get close/sit close to you?  Is he wearing cologne more often?  Some shy guys you'll never know if they like you because they're that shy.  Just approach him.  Start spending more time together.  Do fun activities together....not an official date, but just hanging out.  Start flirting with him and see what happens.  You may have to make the first move if he's too shy.  Good luck!
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In high school!  He has to be nice.  Kind of good looking, but not so much so that he thinks he is hot.  I have a lot of guys approach me who think they are Mr. Kool.\nSomeone with good grades, don't want to hook up to a looser.\nSomeone who knows computers.  All the girls go for football players, not me.  When you get out of school you will be supporting yourself.  A guy with direction, going to college.  Have his own car.Someone who makes me laugh.\nDoesn't have to beat up people to prove he is a man.\nI guess my bf now was a really good friend that is starting to be something more.  He doesn't have a car.  But he is nice, so that's OK.  Isn't afraid to laugh and have fun.\nSome guys are serious, tough guys.  Pick on people to show off.  My folks say those are the ones who beat you up later.
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hey sorry to hear that,id like to say becareful,sounds like you still young,well im 22 years old girl,if i really love a guy and do care about him,i would never say that bullshit to my bf,i think she just fool around you,or she got somebody else,the most imporant thing is u havent found out the truth now
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I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.
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hi,\n\nyou mentioned family&personal problems. from what you have stated it is more of your own college problem nothing more. if this is your problem, if he is not close to you how do you say he is your friend and it also looks he may not be interested. and are you by anyway infatuated with this guy. this will not help. talk to him, if you want. but this is a phase. you feel the sunrises and sets in this guy. just come out of it, you have to concentrate on you education,future. without proper education even if the guy is interested it is not goign to help. First list out your priorities. If you have any other problem, try to think over, talk it over and write it and tear it. really writing/venting it on paper really helps you clear out.\n\nWell all the best, we can only give suggestions.
130308
i don't know but i'm in love wit this dude at school and i think he likes me a little bit but he has a gf.
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i know how you feel b/c i can never stay with the same person for a long time. the guys talk about what ever and dont care about me or what i think. if your were a nice guy who did care, i probably could get attached
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my roommate just got dumped by her boyfriend, and he told her that he wanted to be good friends, and nothing would change but their title, and all this crap. now he wont even look at her when he passes her on the way to class. basically, boys are stupid. they go through times when they are in a relationship with an AWESOME girl and they realize how much they care about that girl, and they start to freak out. thats when they dump the girl. it makes no sense to me why a guy would dump a girl that he really cares about. that could be what your boyfriend is doing, trying to protect himself from getting hurt because he really cares about you. thats what it sounds like to me, especially since he told your bff that he didnt want to get hurt.
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I think you should get to know the guy and not worry about your friends.  Your friends will learn to like him, and besides, think about this, ok:  The only reason your friends would act that way is if they are very insecure, and need everyone to fit a certain mold to be accepted.  People like that don't do well once school is over, because all molds are broken then.  It's good to get to know interesting people who aren't the way some think everyone should be.  I bet that weird guy is really going to do something awesome with his life when he grows up.  That's the way, I think life is!
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hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.\nthat b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.\nnow those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys  most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.\nlike glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.\ni think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.\nremember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.
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you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(
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When you figure that out, let me know!  My friends always come to me for advice on life and love, but I'm always making mistakes when it comes to my own love life!  :)
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I don't know him, but once he was in my city, and a friend of mine met him: he says he is very kind and caring, imagine that, but not so calm, of course.\nHe did have one girlfriend for, like a hundred years, she was actually older than him, which is so OK, and they've known each other since they were kids and when he became famous, he stayed with her and all his old friends (not so long ago, they broke up, and now he is with another girl, but that's beside the point). He is not a jerk, definitely, and he's pretty smart. \nBut you already know that stupid people can be funny, but only the intelligent ones can have a sense of humor.\n\nYou should check out Wikipedia, if you didn't already...
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to many wholes in this like swiss cheese. think about this for a minute here's a guy that you say is soooooo sweet  and smart. and yet he is with his girlfriend and trys to flirt and pick you up by saying lets hang out only you and me. whats wrong with this picture?\n\nSome sweet guy you have on your hands there. Can't you see he's not so nice of a guy if he's doing this right under his girlfriend nose. what makes you any thing special once he gets bored of you he'll do the same to some other poor sap. Tell him your not interested in being another notch on his belt. The guy has no class.
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i think you should break up and concentrate on your studies. i know that its easy for me to say and its hard when you have a lot of emotions, but this guy really doesn't sound like a winner.\nits hard when you're dating someone cos there are a lot of feelings involved, but you should try and keep one eye on your future.  try and think what will happen if you choose this guy and sacrifice your grades..will you be happy with yourself? is there any guarantee that you will stay with this guy forever? will you be happier with better grades/better future? is this the only guy in the world?\n\ni think you should break up with him, if you really can't do that then have a little time off from each other and give yourself the space and freedom to think straight. it sounds to me like this guy is more concerned with impressing his friends than with your feelings. you should find someone who supports and encourages you.
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nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.
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Most likely you'll never know unless you know how to get to the bottom of his secrets.With the guys I know, because I know alot, it usually means he don't wanna be wit you or he's cheatin, but usually when they're cheatin they still wanna act as cool as possible, or maybe there's alot of family or friend problems.And in that case just give him time to situate things because guys dont talk to people about their "hommies" or their "Fam".