I was in Barnes and Noble listening to music in the music section of thge store and a cute plump asian guy came to the section and walked right next to me without appearing to be checking out any Cd's.He looked my way for like 3 seconds then he walked out back to the book sections.It looked like he wanted to talk to me.I thought I heard him say hello,but I wasn't sure because I had ear phones on.I later walked back to the book section and passed by him.It looked like he was following me without making it look obvious.I walked to the poetry section near the restroom.He came my way and then turned to the restroom.He was only there for 3 seconds.What was that all about?Could he have thought I was going to the restroom?\n\nI have a huge fetish for smooth,thick asian me and he was like a dream.I actually pictured a guy that looks like him while doing creative visualization.\n\n\nWas he into me or am I just delusional?
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He was eyeing you out and wanted to introduce himself but was a bit scared
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Sounds to me like this guy at work was only after one thing ... and was maybe also a little turned on with the "thrill of the hunt" ...\nIt could also be that while you had a BF and were in a relationship he felt comfortable flirting and now he can "have you" he isn't all that interested?\nIt could also be that since you were prepared to "fool around" a little with him whilke your BF was out of town ... he might think that the same thing will happen if he has to spend time away???
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I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
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Yeah darling, he is just trying to get enough information on you to get you in trouble at work since it did not work the first time. The only way he knows how to do that is to get you to like him again. So now the playful bit, by opening doors, and jokes and shit. He couldn't tell you he wasn't interested in you because he really is. Take my advice, don't fall into the niceness. It's all a joke, it's not sincere.
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i've only been out looking once.. \nstumbled upon it twice..and well, here's the thing..as a woman, i'm kind of looking for a guy who is sexual..and is going to give me what i want that night.. \nmindless, mindnumbing, meaningless sex.. but still a good time.. \n\nseriously, the last one night stand (not intentionally) i had was great.. we ended up back at my place around 2..and we uhmm ya know for a while.. and then had to take a break about 4.. we laughed, joked and had a good time before ya know.. uhmming some more..and then another break.. basically the morning ended with a lot of fun..and a lot more of uhmm..\n\nit's like i don't want to feel trashy after a one night stand, but i still want great sex.. \n\ni go into my regular bar..we get a lot of drifters in and out..i went one night with the intention of hooking up with someone..edned up leaving with someone else, and then hooking up with a completely different person.. odd i iknow..but serioiusly, i was determined to have sex that night.. and for some reason it seems guys decide to have a conscience now.. "i don't want to use you as a one night stand.. but can i get your phone number and we can hang out tomorrow?" wtf??\n\nthe next time.. i was just hanging out with people..and it just happend..and it was mindblowing good time.. \n\nso if you're going into a bar with the intention of a one night stand.. i would recommend going to somewhere you don't want to necessarily return to as the regulars will know the story..or go to wher eyo know you're going to get what you are looking for..
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luckily its only been 2 months....   but this sure is a glimpse into any future with this guy....I noticed  a couple in a restaurant   that were married.... the whole time they were there the guy was  talking on the cell phone.. with a break of only a few minutes in between calls .... I never even saw him speak to his wife!...  I felt so bad for her.... you might want to think about   if you really want to continue on .. personally  I would   get out NOW! lol..... good luck!
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Well, I was walking down by the creek one night, watching the moon disappear, cause it wasn't quite new but it was becoming smaller and smaller. The sky was a really dark purple, and it was raining somewhere in the distance cause the sky was a brownish color a bit of distance away. \n\nAny-who, I was walking and it got really windy, so I stopped to feel it, cause cold makes me sleepy and I already couldn't sleep that night. There was this guy who walked out in front of me, and scared the Bejesus out of me, cause he had a like, big hooded jacket or whatever, and his eyes were a really bright hazel, like gold.\n\nWell, he stared at me for a long while, and then he came at me, and I didn't run for it, cause I wasn't really responding so well after we first made eye-contact. I got this dropping feeling in my stomach, he reached out for me and caught me by the throat. I passed out, and woke up on the couch in my apartment with a silver chain on that I didn't remember owning...\n\nI been possessed by an angry vampyre ever since, and weird stuff has been happening since that night, so there you go. A tad cliche, and I'm not sure if an over-sized black jacket counts as a cloak, but it's the closest I've got.\n\nThink I'm crazy now? If not, then you are obviously an interesting judge of mentality...
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im a women but your question intrested me . of course not unless there were tell tell signs in your underware . god he was a jerk ! just his parinoid nature eh??
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One like this:  'Do you shower in the nude?'  I thought that was dumb because obviously we all do that!! Does he expect us to put on as many clothes as possible and shower with them all on! Come on!!! (i hope the guy doesn't read this!!) It actually made me laugh in a way so that's why i answered it!
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Yeah, sounds a bit fishy. Being a guy I would say he is hiding something, maybe he has another bird on the go. look most guys, trust me, if not all guys want one thing and not necessarily from one place. do some investigating, surprise him and see if you can find anything. sorry if it seems harsh but I know the signs\nI tell you what, if you have any suspicions like he's said something that sounds odd let me know and I'll interpret it based on personal experience.
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Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
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I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
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exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
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I had a friend of mine that we played that game for years. Nothing ever came out of it because we were too good of friends and I did not want to lose her friendship.  There were times she would flirt and even one time where she told me if she likes a guy they are paying at the movies and she had me pay the next day.You need to talk through it with him, it sounds like he is really unsure of himself and just as confused as you are.  I think he is waiting for the green light from you that says where you stand.
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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Being a guy, most likely he did have a secret crush on you.  Hope he's not like your former bf, in the physical assault sense.\n\nI would ask him about this, if you're unsure.  I saw the Simpsons yesterday (not to  bring too strong of a parrellel to your situation) and Marge's sister, in this episode, is seduced by a has-been actor.  Apparently, though, he was just using her affection so the media could see that he was a normal guy (previously, there was suspicion that he had a freaky animal fetish).  He would make sure the paparazzi was around when he took Marge's sister out.