What is the point of all of this?Should I just give up?
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Don't quit!!!!!  Just lol at them like me and my husband are doing when we read they dumb answers lol of you know who I meant lol
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Hi, I answered your other question you posted about your boyfriend.  I was glad that I was able to help you out a little bit.  I was troubled to see you spoke of killing yourself if something should happen to him.  First, Try to get that thought out of your head!  Suicide is never the answer for anything.  You cant just give up like that.  Now is the time you need to be strong, for your boyfriend, and more importantly yourself.  If you need to chat with somebody, You can always email me jam961@yahoo.com  Things may appear rough for you right now.... But they can get better.  Instead of worrying about the "what if's" of life, you should focus on what is going on right now.  Enjoy being with your boyfriend now.  Build some memories to last a lifetime, and try to be happy.  If you really love this guy, you should be happy that he has been....and still is a very important part of your life.  Once he has a place in your heart, even if God forbid, he does take a turn for the worst, he will always be right there with you... In your memories, and deep down in your heart.  But don't even think about that now, just enjoy being there for each other.
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killing yourself is never the answer. . .it wont solve anything. . .\nthink about more than just yourself, think about the people you'll affect if you harm yourself\n\nY do u want to end your life? Im sure there's things in your life that are worth living for. . .youre just focusing on the negative. . . \nthings WILL GET BETTER. . .they always do . . .\nI myself have considered suicide and almost went thru with it, but someone made me realize that i was put here for a reason and every life has a purpose, even tho u may not realize it. . .there's ppl that care about you, and  things that you were destined for. . .i think you just need someone to talk to. . .feel free to pm me if you want to talk \ns/n - cutew1thoutda_e
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this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
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Hi Raiden,  well..you are going to get alot different ways to look at your situation.  You sound like an honest, straight-forward kind of guy that has had to deal with alot in 18 years.  My heart goes out to you and if I had the answers I would tell you..but if I told you they would only be the "answers" for myself.  You are the only one that holds all the answers for what is right for you.  As frustrating as that may sound to you it is actually good news.  You don't have to follow any one elses path.  This life is your journey and you are not asking too much out of it.  Sometimes the only thing that holds us back is our own fears...fear of getting hurt, fear of rejection, fear of judgment, fear of failure... I want you to try something for me.  ask yourself what you would do today if you weren't afraid.  Don't push yourself into anything just think about it.  When you are ready you will know it.  There is nothing wrong with you.  You weren't put on this earth to suffer you were put here to discover.  And if you believe nothing else...please believe me that how you feel about yourself and life today will be different with each passing day.
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I hate to be the one to break the news to you but, I have no choice. I have felt exactly what you're talking about. There will come a breaking point where you decide whether you want to live in the present or die in the past. I'm sure you've had your share of sleepless nights and anxiety attacks. But you have the power if you take it back to pick up the pieces and move on. You may never be the same, but why would you want to be anyway? Hasn't this guy wasted enough of your life and taken enough of it away? I promise if you just get up and put your feet on the floor and walk out into your life it won't be long before all this just feels like a dream you had long ago. Get out, be seen, find better, move on.
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giving up is not the solution.. what happened to you should serve as a lesson and a challenge as well, but not as a reason for giving up.. d problem with u is that you're committing the same mistake coz it seems like you're not learning from it.. if u're starting to like a person, just tell them right away.. don't hesitate.. just do it, okay?
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I don't believe that anyone is here for any specific reason..if you have been afforded the element of choice in your life (you live in a first world country where you are not starving to death) then you are the one that decides in what direction your life goes...you and only you.  Make the best of it..if you have goals then follow them..don't get caught up in this whole idea of eternal life because if you do..and you end up being wrong..you're far worse off than if you don't believe in at all. \n\nIf your life seems to be slipping away from you..you need to catch it as soon as you can..and do something about it..if it seems that it might be the start of depression go see a doctor...if it's mere frustration with the world today..do something to change it.  If it's a more personal matter then sort it out.  The thing is not to waste your life, any part of it sitting around doing nothing because you are frustrated..you only get one life so make the best of it. Change things..go further your education...take up some hobbies..live life to the fullest..be all you can be..literally.  Then..you will not be frustrated.
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You don't know what to do?\n\nThat's painfully obvious if you're asking for advice here.\n\nDo the opposite of what most people here recommend and you might get out alive.
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Whatever your reason is , it's not worth it. You will get caught in a lie and things will be worse. Tell the truth!
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In time things will get better, but before then try and let go.  And if he comes back to you let him know that he has given up a real good thing.  Its going to hurt for now, but try and make this into a good experience and know that there is someone else out there for you.
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The point of this post is?
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No.  Let things be and move on.  Find yourself a better man.
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Oh sweetie there are so many reasons to live . For one thing there is no changing your mind once it's done . You never know what is just around\nthe next corner in your life , it could be something wonderful . I've been where you are . Please if you want help get in touch with me by way of my 360 page . Let me help .
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By all means, please don't kill yourself. Life is what you make it. I know this world can be a cruel place, but you can find solace in God. It sounds like you are a good person with a good heart. Don't despair. Pray for your life to be filled with happiness and love. I will pray for you and keep reminding yourself that your life will only get better. I have been a victim of all those things that you have mentioned, but it only made me stronger as a person. Go out more, spend time with your favorite family members, learn a new hobby, go for the job you always wanted,and find a place of worship where you can confess your heartaches to. Also, keep telling yourself that you are lovable, loving, and you are loved. It helped me and I hope it helps you. Feel better.
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There is no point.\n\nI just happen to get a lot of points because I discovered Yahoo Answers and I do exactly what I do in Real Life. I help people with computer related questions that I think might be useful.
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Move on and live life to the fullest.  If he says no there isn't much more you can do.