I really like this guy and we are now dating but i am to scared to face him or even hug him and when i do i go really shy and i dont want to but i cant help it so can you give me some advice on how to get over this stage it would be great cya:)
130364
Just take it slow and easy, you will be ready when you're ready. =)
578991
Well how long have you guys been dating?  He may want to kiss you too, but is too shy to ask.  I'm shy, and it took 3 months after he asked me out to actually kiss him.  I was too scared.  He had to make all the moves. Just ask him. You won't sound funny.
271301
The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
218728
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
216592
First of all be true to yourself and always be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  When u r talking to him and laughing together reach out tough him gently on the arm or shoulder or even leg.  Touch can be a powerful thing!  This will also give him a clue what u r feeling!  You can always kiddingly say " gosh I wish I could find a guy as great as you"  and see how he responds to that.  Talk to him about what interests him.  Guys love to think we r interested in them and their hobbies.  Invite him to a movie.  Say you really wanna see a certain movie-scary one preferrably- and your friends r busy and cant go and ask him if he would go with you cuz You hate going by yourself.  If its a scary movie then you can always PRETEND to be more scared than you really are and be sure to grab ahold of him and hang on out of love....oops I mean out of fear!  ha ha!  Or you can go the direct route and just tell him how u feel.  He may be feeling the same way but afraid to say anything for fear of rejection.  If you dont you will always wonder what might have been!!!!  Good luck to u!
156527
its sad that you have a fear of talkin to him. if you want to be in a relationship you have to talk to. just open up and tell him whatever you want to. that is part of having a good heathly relationship.
567949
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
157582
You don't seem comfortable with your bf. If you are still shy with him, ask yourself why? Why can't you open up with him? Better know yourself before you proceed. \nCommunication will be a good way to let him know how you feel, if this is just your nature even with intimate partner. If he can understand your apprehension, he make try to change his conversation with you.\nBest for you two will be to be comfortable with each other, where there is no barrier too what you both can do. Remove any possible misunderstanding in your relation and talk.
180114
You should really try. I mean, you both are together now. You shouldn't be afraid. Love each other, don't aviod one another.
519855
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
379922
I think you should go out with him and get to know him before you decide to pursue a relationship. You should let him know that you are not ready to jump into a relationship, after all you have been through stress. I hope he doesn't think that you are gullible and try to use you, but you cant just judge someone and not give them a chance. Proceed with caution.
167955
wow i'm in a very similar situation right now and its tough.  if you are having a conversation with him, try to touch his arm as your making a point.  it also wouldnt be a bad idea to simply say "you're really cute".  its better to let them know that you like them than to never try at all.  good luck, e-mail me if you have any more questions
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dear \nu have answered ur question urself\nu r afraid of  facing it its just that\n\nYES U LIKE HIM U R IN LOVE WITH HIM\njust go out there take a deeeep breath and say it to him\nbefore u just regret that u didnt \nbest of luck
417061
For starters maybe you can say...."hey I know we just met but I really like you"!!\nThink about it....neither one of you would have agreed to have another date if you didn't like each other....\nIt's little things you can do to let him know you are interested without coming off too strong...but make sure you feel natural when doing these things!!  Maybe like brush your hand against his...be sure to make eye contact  this always helps ...remember to be natural...you know be yourself!
22950
I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
529179
i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
66610
Looks don't matter as much as everyone thinks they do.  People generally like others that are confident (whether it be a romantic relationship or friendship).  Be confident in who you are.  Learn to love yourself, sweetie!  Talk to him first.  Take it slow if you're nervous and shy.  But, be confident.  Don't let him see that you're afraid or nervous.  Instead, just smile!