I know i'm in love with him and i can tell he still has feeling for me. he says he with another girl to get over me cuz he dosent want any drama from the other guy (i have kids w/ both)  but my other ex wont stay out of my face long enough to let me talk to him and let him know i still want him....he dosen't belive i want him back b-cuz my other ex is still around. I'm not w/ my ex but where i go he shows up like he has some radar on me and i guess it gets back to him and he takes it the wrong way....What should i do
136495
I know what you are feeling.  He is only dating that other girl for a rebound.  He follows you everywhere because he he wants to make it a quinky-dink and make sure you aren't around your other ex.  I think you should just tell the ex off and run after your true love.
410045
I think that everyone still has lingering feelings for their exs. Personally, if I were you I wouldn't care too much. Just be cautious for warning signs, like....him hiding his cel phone from you, canceling on you? small stuff like that. But if he really does love you then his ex doesn't matter that much. And really if she is dating again.. She's moved on.  I have a boyfriend of 6 months and I have feelings for my ex and my feelings are stronger for him so they don't  interfere.  I'm sure he has feelings for his ex's so we are even. It's probably difficult to have feelings for one person forever, As long as your love is stronger and you guys are honest. \n<3
212970
I don't think it's fair to the new guy that you're still in love with your ex boyfriend. Serious or not, he deserves your full attention and care. If you can't provide that, you should let him go so that he can find someone that can give him her undivided attention. You need time to heal and to get over your ex boyfriend and staying with another guy is not the way to do that.
210604
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
181383
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
370484
Let me get this straight...you have been seeing a guy for 2 weeks...but he wants to go out with someone else, who he knows it won't work with, so that when it's over he can go out with you.....He starts seeing the other girl, then, the next day can't keep his hands off of you...... What should you do?....Get some self respect and tell him to sling his hook.....you would  be setting the tone for your whole relationship with him if you accept this situation......walk now ...it will save you a lot of heartache in the end
540733
If he was telling you how much he liked you and then so quickly showed up dating another girl it is very likely that he was telling her the same things he was telling you.  Move on honey, he's not worth it.  How do you move on?  You stay busy by spending time with the people that are worth it.  Hang out with your friends and family and ignore him.  You're too good for him.
657306
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
196898
I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.
274675
I think the real question is do you really want him back?  You obviously showed that you care for him but apparently that (by what you said) really didn't seem to matter.  The fact that he had a kid with someone else is another thing.  Being as if you could trust him even after that.  You supported the hell out of him multiple times.  If I were him I'd be all for you, weather he sees that or not.  If you really love him, I'd give him one more chance.  He might see how important you are, but likewise he might not.\n\nThis matter is really more dependent on how you feel about busting your butt for him and him just leaving you hanging.  If you truly love him and think it could work, got for it and give him one more shot.  If you feel doubtful in any way I'd just say forget it.  You seem like a kindhearted person, love should naturally find its way to you.
309353
Okay so i can understand that he's freaked by the fact he knows your ex. But if he really likes you then he's gotta get over it!! I for one say never wait for the other person to make the move. You like him. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.\n\nAnd since you caught your ex cheating on you then well, the other guy shouldn't really care what your ex thinks. Meaning your ex shouldn't be a part of this picture.\n\nThe best way to find out what he's thinking is to ask him yourself!!
116810
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
232108
Ok, look....it seems to me like your ex is just playing around...I mean he knows you have a boyfriend, a good guy would respect that....and if he cared about you he wouldn't be doing this to you, I mean he's confusing you everytime he tries to kiss you and when he tells you he wants you to be friends with benefits? If he cared about you, he would just try to see you as a friend, and try to move on! If you don't love the guy you're with, then talk to him, I don't think it's fair to the other guy, if you think you're slowly falling in love with the other guy, and if he's a good guy, then stay with him....you and your ex broke up for a reason right? then why bother going back? if your relationship with him didn't last you think is gonna last the second time? You're just going to get hurt that way, and in the long run you'll realize that you lost an amazin guy, and trust me once you do something, you can't really go back, only if you're lucky! But if you think you'll never love your new boyfriend, then just be honest with him, and maybe tell him to give you some time or just tell him you want to be just friends! But trust me I think you should move on and forget about your ex! I hope that helped you, just follow your heart, if your heart tells you to go back with your ex then be honest to the other guy, but my advice would be not to cheat on him, I don't think anyone deserves that!
610749
I am glad that u say he is your EX. Why then do u care what he thinks about u? Still, you need 2 get him out of your life altogether. When u do get another boyfriend your ex will think that he was right about u that u are a s---. He may even cause conflict with u & your guy. You are being subjected 2 mental abuse that will lower your self-esteem & u need 2 totally reject this guy from your life.
70248
Dear girl,\nI am suspecting that you are quite young if you're still not backing up since your Ex told you to. I would recommend, please give it a time. I know how you feel inside. I've been there, and it felt horrible at the time. But, trust me! After a while, maybe 3 weeks, maybe 3 months, but you'll feel much better. You will get over him! And you'll wonder why you were suffering as you are right now! The possible reason for your Ex acting this way is maybe that he have found his true love. And now he doesn't want to ruin it. Probably, his new girlfriend doesn't want you guys hanging out. So, please have some dignity and let him go. Don't be surprised though, if you get a call in few years from your Ex. So, I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
455694
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
266807
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!