So i decided to txt the guy i like and his gf ended up calling me and telling me to not speak to him anymore , but why would he have said he thinks im cute ? what should i do now .. things are so awkward
122225
leave a guy that has a girlfriend ALONE!!
362623
There are a couple of reasons for this A. He is shy or timid with girls or B. He has someone else and is using you for the back up babe....So stop calling him for a while and if he REALLY is into you then you should be hearing your phone ring, if not well....HIS LOSS AND SOMEONE ELSE'S GAIN!!!!
468636
your choice.\ndepends on how much you like this guy.\nare you willing to fight with his gf over him?\nthat's your choice.\nbut besides that\nyou should keep in contact, I see no reason not to\nhe may be single some time in the near future. never know.
275697
A week straight? And he's already said he loves you? But he hasn't taken his ex-girlfriend's voice off his voicemail? This guy is playing you. Dump him fast. He's a jerk and is stringing you along. He still has a girlfriend and is just looking for a little action. You deserve better.
36303
yes ytou messed up, but it's not your fault, it's guy #1, if he could not tell you he really wanted you or wanted you like a GF, then he is a coward and a meek man, someone you really do not want when it counts, not it sounds like he is showing the hurt poor pity me side to see if he can leverage that into something, you are better off looking for guy #3 and forgetting the other 2 losers
602269
if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
49692
Yes sounds very desperate. Don't give him that. Never chase a man, as women we have so much power that we don't realize what we have sometimes. Try talking to the guy. Act like you didn't know what was said, then if he mentions it say oh yeah she was just kidding around with you. If he really likes you nobody can stop him from getting to you, keep that in mind.
19063
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
425626
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
629134
just clal him back and apologize for accidently hanging up on him\n\nim sure hell understand\n\nwhy would you not pick up..\n\nits the friggin guy you like
375575
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
320402
don't call him anymore.. but if you reallyyyyy wanna talk to him (which you prob should just to clear things up) you could try sending a text or IM and seeing if he responds..
255124
Have you ever heard of faking flattery?  I had a similiar situation, and I simply hung around the guy, tried to ignore the girl as much as possible, but whenever I had to talk to her, I used some fake flattery on her, so that it looked like, to the guy, that I was really nice and innocent.  Even if the girl thinks its a bunch of crap, what do you care about what she thinks anyway?  Just think about the guy here, and everything else should fall into place.  This girl cant keep you away from him, and if you stay away from him, thats like letting her win.\nGood luck!
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
236128
You are seeking that guy's approval in some way.  You want him to say you're cute too. It doesn't matter who the guy is - BTW - you need him to say something nice about you.  If I were you, I'd assess why you may feel the need to get the man's approval of your looks and why it feels not so good if a guy says another girl/woman is cute. Don't worry about it....just take a step back and look at yourself and how you feel.
569915
Sorry to say this, but do not contact him again.  He's probably freaked out and isn't that into you so he doesn't really want to tell you that.  If he wants to be with you or he likes you back, trust me, he will MAKE SURE to get in touch with you.  And if you contact him again, it will freak him out even more and he'll probably never want to take a chance.  Just be patient and wait to see if he contacts you, and if not, move on.  There are plenty of other guys out there who would love to be your man.
411333
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.