I was at my girlfriends parents house for dinner Sat night and they were all watching T.V i was helping prepare dinner. Then i heard her mother gasp. and when I came back into the room they were all looking at me wierd.They had been watching "Americas Most Wanted" and they said they saw my picture on it. I told them it must be a mistake and that i would straighten things out with the network.But they didnt belive me. So out of regard for thier own safety i overpowerd them and locked them in thier own basement where i have been feeding them. I am worried about tommorow becasue he(father) has to go to work..what is my next move?\nshould i go down to Mexico?\nFYI-it was me on A-mericas most wanted-
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Get a lawyer,free the family, and turn yourself in.Give any weapons that you may have to your lawyer first and let her/him handle the media.
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Looks like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Hmmm....should you turn him in thereby ruining his family's life or keep your trap shut so you can exploit their situation? Maybe you should try to do something morally correct and help them out? You could see if there were a way for you to sponsor their citizenship.\n I lived in Mexico for a while. They are wonderful, helpful, hardworking people that want the same for their families as you do for yours...a good life, freedom from oppression and an education for their children. And I think it is the same in all countries.  I don't think we should open our borders but I do think that we should do something about the illegals in our country right now. If they are contributing to the economy and are not involved in criminal activities then we should keep'em. The rest go home and others stay home.
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Call the police.  If he put his filthy hands on you, that is assualt.  He might be on probation, so I would look into that.  He couldn't so drunk one of these days and no telling what he might do.  And your daughter is witnessing this behavior?  She might think it's okay for a strange, drunk man to be treating you this way.  Do something immediately.  I worked in  a prison for 8 years, I know how those offenders act and I would not want any of them living next door to me.  I'm not saying all of them are the same but he haven't seemed to change.
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Ya! You are such a creep! That is like me promising you an entire life of no questions asked on any of you actions and then ripping it out from you! You should be so ashamed! Don't sleep with them, just send them back. Ever wonder how many children you could possibly have running around in Mexico?
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All I can say is, leave that chick alone. That's not good at all, no matter what may be going on.\n\nMaybe her parents did have dinner with her, earlier. And maybe she went back and met up with him. Who knows? I hesitate to call her parents liars, but I've known parents who would lie for their children.\n\nEither way, bounce.
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Im sorry to hear about that too.  Im about to lose everything too.  My dad doesn't have much money, or his drivers license, or anyone to watch my lil brothers.  My mom just left for another man, and she pays most of the bills in the house.  So i guess im about to experience what you've been experiencing. But anyways, homegurlz right.  Dr.Phil or Oprah aint going to help you any.  They are way to buissy with their television and stuff.  But never give up hope gurl. So here is the number to Dr. Phil if you want to know, (323.461.PHIL ).  You have to leave your name and your number and a message.  Sorry about your dad too.  I hope he really gets to see his Grandchildren.  If you live around your aunts, uncles, cousins or anybody, ask them to take you and your boys to your dads house.  They might be willing to help out, you never know.
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Well let me ask you, do you still live at home??? If so it IS their rules still. Sure you may be 18 now but like I would tell my children, "As long as you live in my house, it's MY rules". now as far as being able to do what you want and you not thinking that they let you do a lot let me say this to you, Try bringing this up at dinner, explain to them that you feel like they aren't giving you enough "distance" to do some of the things you would like to do. And ask them if they will slowly give you a chance to prove to them that you are responsible and you CAN make your own decisions on things. And explain to them that if you do anything to lose their trust then you will go back to how the situation is right now... Hope this has helped out some... let me know what happens ok... take care!!!
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Forget it. You are dealing with Mexico, Mexicans, drug lords, crooked police, crooked lawyers, crooked judges. You will definetly not get any belongings back. The police took them and are either wearing the clothes or someone in the family is, all the other stuff has been shifted around. I lived there for years, and there is no justice system except what happens with a gun. The Federales and 'police' are criminals with a badge and a gun - they make the equivalent of $4 usd a day. You think anyone there cares about getting justice or helping an American? No way.  Don't forget, you and your wife are the bad guys, the rich Americans who treat Mexicans badly ( we know that is not true but they think that way ).  Sorry about your problem, but Mexico really is the wild west.
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Do I no how you feel!! Welcome to the Black sheep of the family club :0)\n\nMove out of the house. You are the strong hold of the family. This is how I rationalized my situation. Now that I have been out for quite a while I get phone calls for help from my family. What should I do, or this is what mom is doing how can I....\nAs far as not being able to release the same way they do to you what I did is find others outside of the family....Parents are supposed to be there for there kids but in todays world this is not always the case.\nGood luck it will not be long before you are out on your own...
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First of all you don't mention your age but one must assume that you are over 18 at least. Is this child from him or from another man? Don't bother with a restraining order because they are only as good a the law enforcement in your town. There have been a number of women killed by boyfriends after they have a restraining order placed. Take No. 2's advise. Get the heck out of Dodge or where ever you live and do it quick. Don't let anyone know where you are that can tell HIM! It is for your safty as well as that of your daughter. The man is a psyciopath and you should make a report to the local police before you leave. It is a crime to threaten someone else with bodily injury. Not to mention that he has said that he will will have your daughter KILLED. At least the law enforcement will be on the look out. Once you have moved away use your mothers maiden name because you can do that legaly. Don't list your phone number either. Just initials and no address. If it were me I'd move to a different state. I would put as much distence between him and me as I could. It may be hard at first but you will be alive and well. If you stay it may take him months to do what he says he is going to do but trust me he will eventually do it and then it will be too late. Men that talk that way usually do so to intimidate, but then they need more power over you and they start to do things physicaly to the people they say they will hurt. Talk to the law or the DA in your town and they may be able to give you more advise. No matter weather you take my advise or theirs PLEASE take your own advise and get out of there. Hope this helps and may God watch over you and your daughter. Be Safe If you need to talk to someone email me at Whilemom47@yahoo.com
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I've done so many outrageous things, that I can't pick one that is the most outlandish!  I'm not sure my current boyfriend knows about all of them, and I certainly do not want to start anything tonight!! I would say, to be on the safe side... that the craziest thing I've done to date was when I flew to Boston from St. Louis to visit an online friend.  Turns out he had a one room basement apartment with only one bed.  Keep in mind that I had never met this person until I visited him. I chose to stay with him in his dinky apartment and sleep next to him for however long I was there.  (I think it was like 4 days or so.)  I told my boyfriend at the time that it was an old friend from school that I was visiting.  I was very young, and the guy I was visiting was a VERY big guy! I must have weighed 105 lbs., and he about 300.   I was outrageously stupid to do what I did.  Nobody knew exactly where I was. I didn't own a cell phone at the time.  I had no money. I could have been killed.. seriously!  But fortune smiled on me and I had the most wonderful time.  The guy was a complete gentleman who truly wanted to show me the sights and introduce me to new foods and people.  I do not recommend ANYONE doing what I did.
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Most of the time I would not answer this question.\nBut I thought I would write you and tell you that you should be more carefull. And not just hand out your e-mail address.\nTry ro find people in chat room or other places and even then they are not that safe. I could have mabe a new account and told you I was 14 and find some pic on the net and lead you to belive that I was someone else.\nI know this sounds like something your mom and dad would say and I know you wont like what I just said.\nBut the Only reason Im even saying this is because. A friend of mine. His daughter always got online. and met people and was letting everyone know her e-mail address. She talk to this (KID) for 5 to 6 weeks and somehow he tracked her ip down and other info. And he showed up at her house and tryed to rape her. He was 39 and from Florida she was from New York. This just goes to prove Jerks/Perverts will do anything to get what they want. \nEven though I dont know you I dont want anything bad to happen to you. So I thought I would put my 2cent's in\nGoodluck and be Carefull
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is Did this really happen.Someone needs to read the papers and just see what  is and has happening in our country. tell them to read about 911 and other security breaches.I do believe that home Land security is following up. they sure as hell wouldn't just let this pass as if it were nothing, or would they
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this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.
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yes, i know how you feel. my mom is way overprotective. she won't even let me go to the mall with my frieds and not her. like, i just got invited to go to a hockey game with one of my best friends and she said no, cause she won't be there even though my friends parents will. and last year, i went to a bowling for soup concert and my parents think that if someone says one swear word that they're completely innapropriate, and i asked if i could go and she asked if they were appropriate and i said yes... even though the yare not (according to my mom.) she still doesn't know...\n   and about staying at your friends house with her dad... just because he is divorced doesn't mean he will rape you, or anything. i would still trust him as long as he doesn't have a criminal record for raping someone or something... then i would be a little scared...
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my daddy once set a trap for a neighborhood burglar (who turned out to be an illegal immigrant, but thats another subject), caught him, tied him up, and held him captive until the police came. mom and I helped him do it. there was no violence involved whatsoever. it was a citizens arrest and none of us got into any trouble.
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i was in your almost same situattion i was 17 (pregnant) he was 31. I lived in Nh i ran away to NYC. He got very possesive than that turned to abuse. Go back to your family, you dont knpw what you are putting them through. Atleast let them knoe that you are ok to let them know you are alive. I did see my mom for year & half & she wasnt mad please let them know you are ok. Do you know what its like to have the FBI contact your family saying they have a teenage girl that matches their daughters description. well thats what happened to my mom & i regret the hell i put her through. If i could only do it over. I now have a daughter & hope she never puts me through what i put my mom through.\nremember family is forever. please go back & if you need anyone to talk to email me.