i have a crush on a girl.she is in my college.i have many times noticed her staring me.plz tell me how should i talk to her.i am afraid that she will reject my proposal
125433
here's wat u do man. when u r in same area, look at her, have a little of eye-contact. from far away. then move ur face, n ignore her for a while. then aproach her n say hi. ask her name, etc....dont go too fast on information though. ask her u wld like to go to study with her. since its college, b4 dating, u shld mayb try something like that.
474494
paul i am sorry to say this but this doesn't really sound like much of a problem. I think you should stop worrying about whether she likes you and do something about it. Take control of your life. By now if she hasn't given you any signals, then don't bother, it ain't going to happen anytime soon. You got to come out straight and face her. Its now or never. Be a man!
655047
Tell her you actually have a crush on her.\nThat might shut her up.
475035
just ask her out!! the worst thing she can say is no. and if she says no then just ask someone else out. oh and if she already knows you like her.... ask her out. before she moves on!! =]
57057
If you don't know this girl you could always tell her that you want to get to know her better because...you find her interesting...you think she is pretty...you like her...you think she is funny... Whatever the reason is. \n\nWhen you get to know her or if you already know her - tell her how you feel! \n\nIf she happens to reject you - yes its gonna hurt a little and may even be a little embarrassing but you will survive, millions of people have. Don't fear rejection - you'll never get anywhere if you don't try. Besides it builds character.
522190
She might not give you any signs...she might want you to come to her...Just tell her how you feel, don't seem like a stalker, don't act like a prick. Just tell her you like her if she likes you back great! If she doesn't then she doesn't see the best of you that someone someday will! It's no biggy...life goes on if she rejects you, trust me....best wishes~
299719
hey firstly gals  are always unpredictible n show her  that u care  for her n do  it  in  every possible way flatter her a lil and  suddenly stop all thus  make  her  realise  tht  u have  started  avoidin her  n u know  wat i mean.when  she  will  find  u changing she  will b more thn eager to know the reason.if  u both go to college together thn tell her  someday  tht  u will not b  comin tommorow  but when  she will find  tht u came to the   college  next wothout companing her  she  will thnk  about it n  repeat it for two or  three days start callin her but do hang up on her after a  lil conversation n try this man  it really works ..........gud luk .....peace
171281
Ask her questions about the class. This is a simple excuse for you to start talking. But don't be to forward it might seem creepy. Just go slow with it and increase your conversations day by day.
640497
dont be impatient, as it could cause disaster. First step i'd suggest u is to talk to her, like hi! my name is( ur name here), if she responds to it and introduces herself then my dear friend ur ready to go to the second step. compliment her on whatever u see in her, as in  her eyes, her smile etc. try 2 find out if she has any bf or is she going around wid some1. if everything is just fine then look for a special day, like her b'day or the day u see  her mood is quite pleasant. just propose her, and tell her what exactly u feel for her. and im sure it'll work.\n\nAs u said u never talked 2 her so i'd be quite risky to propose her on ur first meeting. 'coz she doesn't know u . Make ur first impression quite impressive one. \n\nHope it works, but touch wood if it doesn't then mail me 2 vineet2seide@yahoo.co.in\n\ni'll be there 4 u.
530111
Call her and tell her you were thinking about her and you wanted to hang out or go to dinner or something.  (Meet up for Coffee?)\n\nAre you similar majors?  You could always ask her questions in that direction and let it go from there.  (Meet up to study)\n\nGood Luck!
632168
Well..as much as it hurts, rejection is part of our life. Anyway, did she show you ANY signs that she might like you? Like staring, trying to get close to you, being super nice to you, smiles at you, laughs at your jokes (even at the not-so-funny ones), and things like that. But even if she doesn't show those signs, you should tell her that you like her. Maybe she'll start to get more interesting in you. Believe me, every girl likes it when a guy tells her that he likes her. I started to develop a crush on a guy that i initially didn't really like when his friends told me that he likes me. So, really, you should tell her. She might say "no," in that case, offer to be her friend, and who knows, maybe little by little, she start to like you. Hopefully she'll say "yes". Good luck! =)
24439
Simple. Why do you want to approach her? Go up to her and tell her that. But what if she likes what you said, what next? What do you want from her? Tell her that next. Be honest. It's the best policy.
107818
Is she flirty? Does she look at you a lot? Does she play with her hair when she talks to you? Does she smile at you? These are things I remember doing when I had a crush on a boy. Slip her a note in her locker or backpack. At this age it is really hard because I'm sure she is always with her friends. Try to get her alone for a sec with out everyone watching just to ask her if she wants to go for a walk or something. Don't think you are going to jump her bones though. Just get the courage to at least say hi and smile at her. If she is not into you, move on. Don't get clingy. Girls don't like that. They like that balance of mystery. Like don't talk too much about stuff. Ask her questions with sincerity. She'll fall for it. I would love to know how this turns out. Good luck! If you have any other questions email me at yahoo using my name.
221418
You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!
29240
How old is she? You sound kind of young, and if she's young it might be that her parents don't like guys calling her. So that could be why she didn't give you her number. Other than that, do you see her and are you able to talk to her on a regular basis? (at school, etc. ?) If so, you might ask her if she'd be interested in going out again sometime.  Sorry to say it, but it sounds like you are just another guy hitting on her, but that's not a bad thing. Don't let that discourage you. Just keep trying unless she straight up says she doesn't want to talk to you. In the meantime, you still have plenty of time to impress her and let her get to know you. Just be yourself and don't put on an act or a show for her. BTW, you do get points for not looking down while talking to her. Every girl notices taht (weather you do or not) so you're already ahead of the game. Best of luck ;)
203767
well, i guess you should make the first move.If she avoids you or rejects your proposal, then back off. There is surely someone more interesting around and who might be waiting for your proposal.
204754
Just go tell her you like her because she obviously knows already by your staring.  Tell her you want to go out with her to a movie or something and start trying to hang out with her more if she is into you, everything will go smoothly if not then get over her n move on to your next crush.