please i need an answer oh hey and also what if like every one at your school thinks that you are talking about them behind there back and that your not even talking about them at all but no one beleives you then what should you do??????????????????????
119249
suicidal friend:its a phase, talk to her, show her youre there and maybe she'll realize taht shes important enough to live. are her parents causing trouble in her life? thats probably it believe it or not.\n\nANd about the talking behind the back thing, its so immature, are you in middle school because come on seriously, dont even care what the hell other people think\njust ignore them\ntheyre stupid\nthey will be losers when they grow up\nyou will be a better person because you never cared
591106
Just know that their might be some juniors and seniors that want to talk you, but be careful because most likely they just want u for that one thing. (sex) Don't make a mistake, just be aware because there will be lies. And don't get yourself into anything where people are like "Oh that's the girl that.....".(somethin negative) Because you don't want people to know and remember you as a person that you're really not.
258225
Well, definitely don't say anything to them in front of the heavy girl, that will just embarass her more.  I think I'd call both of them individually at home (or go see them) and say something like, "What you all are doing is really mean to _______ and it probably hurts her feelings.  It's going to stop and if you can't stop it, then you need to find another team to play for."  I'd definitely speak to them individually so they don't start acting stupid in that "group mentality" sort of thing.
334680
omg, you have a big problem my dear.. just don't talk to anybody in school anymore so they won't hate you. don't open your mouth either.\n\nnope, seriously, don't even try to force yourself on people who doesn't seem to like you. it's just a waste of time trying to impress them, 'coz they're losers
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Damn, stop being so scared. Who cares what your roomates think? Just come out. If they are stupid enough to think you are always checking them out then screw them. Get a different roommate. Im sure there are campus counsellors or professors you can talk to if they do start bothering you because that's not allowed and it will stop if enough action is taken. But I dont think you should worry about that. You have to be who you are. Why hide? You will feel so much better.\nCome out of that closet!
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Deff tell a teacher. I know you dont want any other conflict, but if you tell the teacher you dont want them to know cause they might bully you somemore, im sure they would be able to help. Or take the bus home? I donno good luck! I would deff tell someone.
359431
Good luck.\n\nIt's what they do, they talk about all the stuff that you thought was personal and private to all of their friends for no good reason.
160003
I would just mind your own business. Why would you want them both to get kicked out of school??? If it bothers you soooo much, talk to your friend. You're not involved so I woundn't get involved in the issue.
265434
You need to tell your parents or the counselor at school. This is sexual harassment and can lead to more dangerous situation if you don't tell someone and get their help stopping him. As long as you do nothing he thinks its OK. Don't let this keep happening to you. Put a stop to it now while you still can.
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Oh, honey, it seems like the end of the world, but seriously, these people will totally forget you in just a couple of months.  In the mean time, find a teacher you can trust or a guidance counselor and tell them about it.  There's alot of pressure to shut up, but there's nothing noble about being a victim.  Physical abuse is not acceptable, and you shouldn't be forced to go somewhere that that happens.  And remember, highschool is the worst part of most peoples lives, but mercifully it has an end.
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You need to tell your friend! It is going to hurt her more knowing that everyone a school knew the truth and you all feel sorry for her and didn't tell her! If you are a true friend to her please don't let her get hurt anymore!
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Your school counselor is the person to talk to.  The counselor should be able to keep your name out of it.  Tell the person you want to maintain your confidentiality--schools are big on that.\n\nYou're a good friend to have--willing to help those girls out!
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Definitely do tell people about it! My daughter was bullied at school, and hated life until she was moved. Talk to the school, BUT if they do nothing, then go right to the state teaching board (not 100% sure how things work in the US) but if the school does nothing, go right over their heads. My daughter had proof that this other student had stolen her wallet, yet the school didn't want to know about it, or the many other ocassions.
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Just dont say anything just look at them and say NO, I dont feel like playing your silly little game. Cya later. Then get up and walk(dont run) out of the room. If unable to leave the room just pick up a book and start reading. They have no control over you and connot "make" you do this. They are not teachers and you dont "have" to answer them. Stand up for yourself, If you won't no one else will either.
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I think the main reason why "friends" talk about you behind your back is because they either don't like you or there's something about you that they don't like. There are other reasons as well why they talk about you behind your back. Those so-called people whom you called "friends" talk about you behind your back, they are not your friends. Friends do not bad mouth each other and they're there for one another. People talk about other people regardless, and it is up to us to not be so concerned of what they think. I learned in life to pick and choose your friends carefully. If they want to be a part of your life, be a positive influence, picks you up when you're down, and they're there for you, that is a friend. Don't worry about the fact that those people talk about you. Be who you are and stay that way. DO NOT change yourself for nobody.
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yes. of course, everybody talks about everybody. so u don't expect they won't talk about u. but not the extent they will step on ur dignity or anything. Just trust them if they backstab u. they are not ur true friends. do u backstab them? so u r kinda suspicious? just asking. if u want them to treat u good, then treat them better!
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I would talk to another teacher in your school, the principle or vice principle.  They should not be talking to you like that_