Last night my girlfriend and I argued and at first I mentioned that maybe we should take time off for a week.  It all started because she gave a guy a ride from work to his house for the 2nd time.  I told her it bother me and told her that why can't he just find his own ride somewhere else.  I ask her not to give him rides no more and she said if he ask him for a ride again she would still give him a ride.  After i cooled down i forgot about the lets give ourselves time off.  Later on that same night I told her how i felt trying to do the communication thing and she said then lets take time off.  I left as soon as she said that.  Drove to my sisters house and on the way she text me 3 times and called me.  I didn't answer her calls and she called me in the morning to see what i was doing knowing that i go to work.  She text me again with "why cant u talk to me?  I dont want to break up.  I love you so much.  I know i said that i needed a break but i didn't think that u would really go.
137684
You both need to stop playing the games. Either break up and move on or trust her. It really is that simple.\n\nWhy would you have a problem with her helping out a friend? If your relationship is solid you should trust her and she you. \nIt would be different if instead of coming straight home she stopped and a drink with the guy. Or if it normally takes 20 min extra to take him home and she was three hours late.\n\nIf it is her nature to be friendly and giving and someone asks for a ride, 9 out of 10 times she will do it. If I had to guess that is probably one of the things you were attracted to in the first place. \nFrom first hand experience - take my word. Do not try and change the qualities of a woman especially the ones that attracted you to her in the first place.\n\nGive her a chance you might be surprised and find out she really is faithful and in love with you. \nIf not your not out anything and you move on.\nBut playing games is not the answer.
548654
if u guys need a break u need a break. but why go on one if both u guys don't exactly want to. if ur thinking of taking a break make it for a good reason. do u guys have good reason? and if u do go on a break then u have to fight those urges to want to see him. u have to remember that ur going on a break to give ur selves some alone time. \n\nand wen u see him during ur break then its not gonna do any good for either of u. don't go on a break just becasue u guys have been going out for ages. go on one coz u really need it.  wow i noe i'v said the word break a lot in this. but seriously think about it. talk to each other about where u both are in the realationship and see if a break is really wat u need.
191624
you just kissed her off! You told her you didn't have time to develop a relationship, but when it was convenient for you, you'd let her know. I wouldn't waste time on you either. She's probably out finding someone who has time for her right now, and I don't blame her. You scr*wed yourself on that one.
75365
i definately think you guys should take some time apart try and start over again like you didnt even know each other dont think that just because you guys are not together means that you are going to loose you closeness from what it sounds like you will loose it the longer you are together i say take a break still see each other and get to know each other but dont live right on top of each other trust me it will not help the situation at all.
490996
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
106539
Thing is talk with her . . . not to chat . . but the next time she called . . . asked her . . . \n\nYou broke up with me . . . telling me that you want to be left alone . . . and not to bug you . . . yet you call me periodically on the way home.  What the f*** is going on?  Until you are able to tell me the truth . . . don't call me again.\n\nDon't worry she will call . . . because you called her out.  But now she will have to explain herself.\n\nDo not give in to her . . . and tell her how it felt when she did all what she did to you.  Odds are she will probably respect you more . . . because you stood up for yourself . . . instead of acting like a p***y . . . you have been.\n\nIn my opinion, take control of the situation . . . and don't let her boss you around . . .
619791
If I read that correctly, it sounds like you said "I love you" to her and she did not immediately reply. You called her on it and she said that she says it all the time but did not say it just then. Is that correct? If so, then your apology should probably be that you were forcing a conversation when she already expressed that she was very tired and you are aware that she loves you too.
355696
Go on and propose... Things should be fine. It just sounds like she needed some time apart to see if she really wanted to be with you. Lots of people go through this and may be with other people in the mean time. She found her way back to you and that's what matters.
50356
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
37960
though you didn't grab her to hurt her, that's your opinion.did it occur to you;you may have hurt her emotionally.it only takes one time and though you didn't hurt her it was all she needed. i cant say whether she would return or not.its a ticklish situation.but i wish u the best and hope you guys work out your differences.
666783
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
28404
I think you need to let her down easy.  Tell her you appreciate the time you've had together, but this is just not what you want right now.  You have things on your mind and need to be alone.  Once you break it off, stick to it and don't give her any false hope.  Once you break it off, YOU CANNOT SLEEP WITH HER...if she's crazy, you'll regret it big time.
292473
It seems to me that this girl have an attitude problems or she don't know how to express herself. I'm a female myself and I get mad quick but as I gotten older I can control it more. But this gurl want you to kiss her butt, that's why she get mad when she hangs up in you and don't call her back Good FOR HER, because she needs to learn how to COMMUNICATE that's the key if something is bothering her. I think that it is good that y'all are friends. If you really like this gurl than tell her that whatever is bothering her just to talk to you about the situation. relationships are going to work overnight it takes time and trust.
656424
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
139897
Sorry to say but most likely shes seeing someone else. Sounds to me like shes just calling you up when she has nothing better to do. I don't mean to be so blunt but I don't know how to sugar coat that one. She probably wants you to stick around because shes unsure of the guy shes seeing and wants you on the back burner in case things don't go well with him she has you to fall back on. Sounds to me like your a pretty good guy. At least loyal. You should just ask her about it. If she can't give you a straight answer then the hell with her. Just move on. Good luck and I hope I'm totally wrong and you get your girl.
230726
Sounds to me like you need a break, at least for awhile. You need to re-assess where you're headed in this relationship, and whether or not , that's where you WANT it to go. Take a while off, and get away from him.....see if you really want to continue....or not!
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lol - its true, you could be getting on her nerves :)\nit could mean a few things, eg.\nit means that she needs time by herself to work out how she thinks/feels about things in her life including you. It also means that she doesnt feel like she can say something to you that you wont like and she is building up the courage and finding her way to say it best. It also means that you and her are becoming too big in her life and that she cant balance her relationship with you with everything else she has to do in her life and that may be her fault or yours.\ncould be a whole load of reasons.\n\nall you really need to know is it is time to show some respect and independance and give her her space, if you care and love her then back off and find something to keep you occupied while she is finding her space.\nIf she is messing you around then maybe move on, I have asked for a bit of space before - it didnt mean i was breaking up with my gf or messing her around, I really needed it and she respected that and not having her calling me every five minutes concerned about if i love her and such was very cool of her, give her her space :)