I fluctuate btw 100-105lbs and I am 25 and have two babies\nA 4 year old and a 18mth old. I want to look attractive to my bf but he has no weight preference...big or small\nSO I know I have 5-10 lbs of fat to lose but I dont want to look gross, I still want to look healthy-muscular.....and small
122298
A woman of average build of your height should weigh 115-120 pounds.
399012
Are you fishing for compliments?  I'll bet you know darn well that 5'6 and 134 lbs isn't fat.  If you FEEL fat, that's another thing but ask yourself realistically if you're just being hard on yourself or do you really truly believe you have a weight problem.
557579
Male or female?\nFigure 100 lbs at 5 feet tall for a female, and add 5 to 8 pounds per inch over 5 feet.  If you are five feet three inches you should weight between 115 and 124.  To see if you are at a healthy weight visit the body mass calculator at http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/ to determine if you are at a healthy weight.   An optimal body mass is between 19 and 24.
443424
I say, go ahead and lose the weight, but I'd pay more attention to your measurements and overall fitness, as opposed to simply the numbers on the scale. Muscle weighs more than fat, so your  weight on the scale may not change very much, but when you start to lose fat, and gain muscle, you'll notice it in how your clothes fit.\n\nAt the very least, you'll get into a great habit of exercising on a regular basis, and that can only help as you age. A host of problems later on in life, can be avoided by proper diet and being fit.\n\nI've heard it does get harder to lose the weight, and extra fat, after about 50 yo.\n\n(and, by the way, I don't mean to be picky, but "loose" is the opposite of "tight". "Lose" is the opposite of "gain" or "win". In this case, you want to "lose weight".)\n\nHave Fun!
19957
Be honest with him. If he is a little over weight, encourage him to lose some without sounding insulting. For example, rather than saying "Well, you could lose a few pounds." say "if your not happy with your body, try to establish a healthier lifestyle." Be supportive rather than letting him wallow in self pitty. And if he does lose weight nothing is more encouraging than commenting on how much better he looks.
601477
First of all, if you are feeling ashamed because your bf wants you to be skinny, then you need a new botfriend.Seriously.No man should make you feel that way and he should love you for you, not just your body.IF you think you may be pregnant, take a test.then you will know.IF you are, then you NEED to be eating and you HAVE to gain some weight to carry the child safely and for it to be healthy.Then he will just have to deal with it and if he dosent....kick him to the curb.
542765
No, you are not fat and stop reading those fashion magazines, they are messing up your self esteem. You need to just enjoy life and stop competing with other girls to see who can be the thinnest. Your weight is fine and if you start dieting and losing weight, you are going to have problems in the future. Size 4 is tiny and your weight is ideal. Size 0 is not a good look, be happy with how you are. HTH : )
25190
I am a BBW and it's just a personal preference thing. I must first ask you what "a little extra weight" is? 10lbs? 20 lbs, 50 lbs? I myself like the man for the heart he has inside, and the way he treats me. These are the things that really matter most. If someone judges you based on your weight, it only proves how shallow they are. You are special just the way you are!
349037
Don't lose weight because your boyfriend tells you you need to. You should only lose weight if you want to, and think you need to. How tall are you? You sound like you're dangerously thin already if you're of average height, and in that case you should definitely not lose any more weight. If your boyfriend treats you like this then he's not worth being with.
326500
You are not by any means fat and do not let others lead you to thinking that you are!  Embrace yourself and be proud of who you are. \n\nA general rule is 100lbs at 5'0" and an additional 5lbs for additional inch, but this does not keep in mind body frame or the weight of muscle.  Muscle naturally weighs heavier than fat, so you may be perfectly healthy, but your doctor or physical trainer would be the only person to tell you for sure.
89297
For what reason do you want to lose weight? If you don't look fat and if you feel healthy, you probably have no need to lose weight. Remember, muscle is heavier than fat, so from the dimensions you gave, you might just be big-boned or a very muscular person.\n\nAnyway, if you still want to lose weight, consult your doctor regarding a good plan.\n\n97 kg = (approx.) 213.4 lbs.\n176 cm = (approx.) 5'9"
382405
Well im 5'2 and 137 and I would love to lose just a little more weight my husband said if I would lose like 10 pounds I would be perfect.
212966
ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
579044
Hun its never the outside but the inside that counts! Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder! My ex was 260lbs when I met her and we hit it off very well. we stood together for 6yrs and we have a beautiful daughter. after she gave birth she went from 280lbs to 450lbs and I was still with her until she ended up cheating on me. but its all about how you feel about yourself and how your boyfriend and friends feel also. If they call you fat and belittle you then those R not your friends. stay strong and confident always. If you ever need to talk to someone ever the vamp is always here to lend you an ear...good luck..
430050
For one thing, stop comparing yourself to everyone else and second, you sound pretty darn perfect to me. I am 40 years old and 5"4ft and weight 113 pounds, I have weighed this much since I graduated from high school. Some people just grow faster than others and then a lot of catching up will happen. Just think how much healthier you are than they are. All that junk food will eventually catch up with them and they will be the ones saying they wish they looked like you!! Just be happy with yourself now because I bet you are way prettier than they are.
399562
i think you 're the one who needs to decide if it stays or goes.if you're happy with it then dont worry.if you think it's a turn off then do something about it.  Personally my hubby gained a little around his belly and it just gave me more to hang onto to....his personality didn't change....and hes not sloppy fat so we're good...
429711
You need help. 83 lbs is so, so, far from fat, boyfriend or not.  It's so far from fat that I suspect this question may be bogus and only have the intention of irritating the many who wish they were 5'2", 105 lbs.  Either talk to your parents about getting therapy or get a heart and don't antagonize.