How serious would you get involved? would u still have sex? would u ever consider getting married to a partner who was positive?
134047
Excuse me, have sex after hearing that? oh,never.\nfirst of all they lied to you about it from the begining, oh, please don't put yourself in this postion, if you get pregnanat the child would have HIV+, since you might be the carrier.
390088
IT DOES NOT MATTER!!!  Are you happy? Healthy? Comfortable? Who cares what a bunch of horny guys who would jump your bones in a heartbeat think?
571419
It would hurt, immensely.  One of the things that attracted me to my husband was his love for God.  I would try to find out what brought on such a change.  Try reasoning with him.  In the end, if I could not change him, I would try to make our marriage work if he was still willing to be married to me.
208575
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
645754
Well when it comes to love sex is shouldn't be an issue.  It's the emotional and personal affects then the love making will come next.  But if you love someone then the sex will eventually be great regardless.  So I would say yes to your question.  Only because I would know that sex wasn't the reason I married someone it was because of all the other areas that she would make me happy in.
138410
not sure but you mght want to go check it out with a doctor before it gets any worse or turns out to be something very seriouse\n\nhave you had unprotected sex??\n\nmight want to think back on that
486951
Not sure.  I'd feel pretty heartbroken, and probably would be very near to ending the marriage.  It depends on whether or not my husband was sorry.  Haven't had this happen to me, so I don't know.
26720
I honor honesty above all. It's your decision want to be involved with her modern life or not. Whatever decision you take, be responsible. I am not that modern and don't believe in pure sex without love, but I don't judge. I respect people with different life style and realize their lives could be much more interesting than mine. You sounded eager to give a modern life a try. If you are prepared, why not? Wish you all the best!
121323
I love you, and I wanna have sex with you. Can I??, you can asked this quesn, In reply my answer could be seriously for confirmation of course. and my next reply 'yeah baby you got it'
615477
Have you tried sex???!!!
583453
if i have just one partner and were both clean, then it doesnt lead to std. and she's fixed so no kids. ha
14088
I think it's great you two have such a close and trusting relationship. It's definitely not for every couple, but you are obviously not the only ones out there. Make sure both partners are comfortable and listen to one another.... Have at it, be careful of std's and such....Wow such trust you guys have.
492672
To be completely honest and open..I'd be a f*ckin w*ore. I would sell my self to whomever would care to buy me for the night and I would have as much sex as i wanted and then some!
335858
Yes, Definitely!! It's always you that matters. You should be worried, because these are uncertain times, some people don't even know they have until the obvious occurs. \nIt wold hurt me a lot emotionally if a partner was not careful enough and exposed him and me to an STD. And I really wouldn't like to die because of somebody else's carelessness\nThere's nothing to be ashamed of and if your partner really cares for you then he should not have a problem with taking a test. \nBut it's a touchy  theme, and remember that it's not the things you say it's how you say them, so approach  it with care and there should be no problem. Also, to be sure use condoms, or any contraceptive you choose, until you're really sure you're in a monogamous relationship.\n\nGood Luck
379758
If both parties used condoms!
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are you asking if someone has had sex before getting married in general?  or are you asking if someone has had sex before marriage with the person s/he are married to?  or are you asking if someone has lost their virginity to the one person they are married to?  those are all very different questions and have very different answers with different meanings.\n\ni can say- yes, yes and no.  i am very happy i did not marry the guy i lost my virginity to.  i was too young and dumb.  i am glad that i have had some experience before i met my current husband.  do i wish i had waited until marriage to my husband to have sex, not necessarily.  but i do wish i had waited a lot longer.  \n\ni am happy that my husband and i lived together and loved together BEFORE marriage.  we were married a little over a year after we met.  we've been together several years now.  the marriage is AWESOME, our sex life is great (7+ times a week- no lie).  but we were not virgins when we met, but we did have sex out of wedlock and became married.  it all depends on your heart's intent, level of religiousness (interpretation) and commitment level.  it CAN and DOES work (against my strict protestant upbringing)!
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i would marry them. and if i loved them that much then i would participate in the things they do. like church and christmas or such. but i cant just change my mind that there is no god. that is my beleif for my own reasons. i would be lying if i accepted and followed a religion. but i would always support my wife in what ever she beleives.