This never happened and now i'm wondering if he's no longer attractive to me. I've caught him looking at porn on the internet, watching girls with big butts. But I have a fat a** myself. So what is it, do he want something or someone else?
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maybe he needs sex, are you having sex?
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There is a strong chance that he is NOT cheating!!!!\nBUT he is surely not attracted to here sexually.... BUT he might like something in her that he values more than sex.... that could be a reason that he is still around!
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For a minute there I thought I wrote this.Or maybe we've married the same man.lol.Why do they expect us to get all....excuse the saying...hot and horny from boob groping.I really cant answer u but please let me know what people suggest.The only suggestion i have is grab him roughly (u know where) when he least expects it.Let's see his arousement then!!!! lol.
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Ok, let me see if I have this.  This dude has said flat out he doesn't want a relationship with you.  And he is with somebody else.  But he will still bone you?  What don't you get?  The guy wants you as his side salad, girl, nothing more.  Why do you want someone who is going to cheat in a relationship anyway?  You have self esteem issues if you are thinking of changing your appearance for this guy.  Wake up and get a real man and not this loser.  If you do have one more night with him, make sure you bring chunky peanut butter and a dog.  Dim the lights.  Put the peanut butter on his balls and tell him it's whipped cream.  Then let your dog take a bite out of crime, girl.
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He may just like to look. While it's really disrespectful , if it really doesn't matter to you, don't worry about it. Try looking a few guys up and down, give him a taste of his own med ;-)
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He's not interested.  It all was a joke.  He found someone else. He's married.  He used you for sex.  Either one of these answers could apply.  Sorry.  You meant him on the Internet.  That's always a chance.  you took it and now this is the outcome.  Don't mean to sound harsh but, is it really a surprise?
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I thought my ex-boyfriend was Bi because I googled search his e-mail address and found that he was on a site called hornygays.com!! Lmao.. the site is no longer up and he swears he is not Bi. I try to believe what he tells me though. Maybe a jealous pssied ex-girlfriend signed him up for it, who knows. If I were you I wouldn't believe anything until you see it with your own eyes!!!
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As I understand the situation, he can't get on these sites without YOUR laptop? Take your laptop to work with you. \nHow much time has he ever spent on the internet? If it is not much, then I guess it is natural to try dating sites. Poeple who are not on it think that's all it's used for...that and porn. You say he just got a job as a truck driver...In my opinion that means he doesn't have time to go online and flirt with girls anymore. That IS what he was doing. He was flirting with girls. Maybe he needed a confdence booster or something. As a man, I would think that a long-haul truck driver might be led to cheat (for real, cuz flirting online is far from cheating) because he spends so much time away from home. This does not mean he loves you any less, just that he got tired of his hand. \nThe internet thing, I would suggest you let it slide. It is more harmless than flirting with someone at the office. Odds are he will never meet any of those ladies, but as a truck driver, I might worry about the ladies he does meet. I'm not trying to freak you out, and I'm not suggesting you leave him, just pay attention. He calls you every day, that is commendable, especially scince he doesn't have his own cell phone. Now, you gotta pay attention to waht he says on the phone, like where he is, or what the weather is like, These kind of things you can look up to find out if he's lying. If he says he's in Denver, and that it's snowing, all you gotta do is look up the current weather conditions in Denver to see if he's lying. I hope this gives you some peace of mind and I wish you the best.
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I think it's the oppisite of what you may think it is.\n\nYou said that he's grabbing your butt, I doubt that that would mean that he doesn't find you attractive. I think it's obvious that he does. \n\nI think that it's possible that he is interested in having sex with you, but doesn't want to interrupt your sleep by waking you up and then feels embarrassed because he doesn't want you to catch him doing the most personal intimate thing you can do with yourself.\n\nMy boyfriend has done this to. I asked him about it and he said that he does it because he doesn't want to disturb my sleep. He also said that sometimes he does it, because it's the only time he gets to only think of himself, but that it didn't mean he wasn't "into" me, just an opportunity to be selfish, because he usually (always) puts my needs first before his own.\n\nWe all know that men think differently than we do, and they don't always openly communicate their feelings.\n\nYou should talk to him about it, especially if this is something that really bothers you. I'm sure you will find out that there is nothing to be worried about.
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Sounds like he was not held enough or breast-fed enough as an infant. Missing mother love. Well, you can make an issue of it, but I doubt that he will change. He was like that before he met you. You have to decide how bad it bugs you. If it is too much, then guess you have to find another boyfriend who is a bit more considerate. \n\nAll men look at women. They seem to be judging whether or not the woman is attractive, worthy of more of their attention. Hormones, mating urge, I don't know. Men look. We are visual creatures. Women look too. Maybe they are more discreet. \n\nAgain, your decision on how much it bothers you.
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I have been overweight for a while.  I am now 26...and I never thought I would find the right guy.  The guy is high school was the bad boy...but he was abusive and that was all I thought I could get b/c of my size.  Then I moved on, in college I met another guy, we dated and even got married.  I thought for once YEH I found the guy, 3 years after getting married, I am getting divorced.  He wasn't there for me when I needed it most.  One day I met a guy, I wasn't even looking, he looked past by size and fell in love with me.  And you know what, he loves me just the way I am.  \n\nThe point I am making is that when you least expect it the guy that is meant for you will find you and love you for who you are not for what you look like. \n\nIf you ever need to talk feel free to email me at mad_gurl_rocks@yahoo.com.
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Your man's only problem seems to be he loves the skin you are in.  Take comfort and joy in knowing that he feels lucky to have you.  His eyes are on you and your booty, instead of every other one in front of you.  And Im sure he didnt propose to your booty, right?  Obviously, there are other things about him or you would not have said yes to his proposal.
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what do u want him? to look at monsters in perverted shows? or to look only at u. it could be boring, it's normal if he notices beauty, it means that he appreciates ur beauty as well.
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He has got the absolute hots for you! He is most likely fantasizing about you right now! He is probably thinking you are so hot that you would never date him! Guys can get like that. We see a girl who is really hot and we think there is no way we would ever have a chance of getting a date with the really hot women. Ask him out! Tell him you think he is really hot! It will turn him on! Good Luck!
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Why are women so arrogant as to think if they are dating someone, that she is the only woman he should ever want to see again naked?\n\nC'mon...geez...porn is harmless (unless it becomes an addiction)...guys are more visual than women and they like to look at naked women...why does this trouble you? It doesn't mean he wants to do the chick in the pic...\n\nDo you not EVER admire a nice looking man when you are in a relationship? NEVER??? If you don't, then you are a rare bird...because it's only human to admire others...\n\n...however if we (and you) admire others while we are dating, we should feel bad right? Because our partner should be all we ever think about or look at in an appreciatively admiring way....right? (wrong)\n\nWhy does this trouble you so? Why are you jealous? Perhaps you should look at why it bothers you and fix those things within  yourself...\n\nHOWEVER the fact that he lied about discarding it is an issue...what else has he lied about? I think you two have bigger issues than porn to deal with.
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Porn is addictive, and is very hard to break free of.  If you're worried about it now, don't let yourself be fooled by the idea that he'll stop soon.  If he's that into it, it'll take more than you fussing at him to make him stop.  The good news is that it does not necessarily mean that he does not find you attractive.  Guys have a way of separating fact from fiction in this way.  This is not a good thing, but it's probably the allure of the women in the pictures (ie, the fact that they're 'willing and ready to  go) more than the fact that they are thin or have huge, uh, body parts.  He needs an ultimatum.  Them or you.
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You say in your profile that you are sexy....and intelligent.\nSo show some intelligence. He is not your soul mate - you are his sold -mate... bought and sold good and proper. \n\nWhat is this 'love'? A reaction to the way he is mis-treating you? Does it align with how you were treated in the past? \n\nIf this were true 'soul-love' there would be no question. He is clearly lacking in integrity... the girlfriend with kids are not being properly looked after, and neither are you. If he leaves them for you - how could you trust him. \n\nThere are plenty of other men around who would be so much better for you. Don't get so lost on the physical attraction, coz that's all this seems to be. Not love... love is reciprocated. This doesn't appear to be. \n\nOkay, so we're only getting a short bit of one side of this, but read all of the comments here, girl... we've all seen enough - on both sides of the gender divide - to know when you are being done over.\nAnd you are. \nLike a kipper.