I like this guy and all of my friends say they think he likes me back. ive had friends ask him but he ignores them or says "no comprende." if he does like me, should I ask HIM out or should i wait for HIM to ask ME out? plz help. thnx.
131670
start corresponding with him with email. Forward him fun stuff you get. Then organise a gathering of friends and invite him along. That way you get to spend time with him, observe what kind of person he is. Then if the admiration is mutual, he should ask you out. Making the first move may not be good for us gals. Let him love you more than you love him.
579356
Go for it sista...who knows he's probably waiting for you...What would you rather do? Tell him, ask him out to get it off your chest and have an oppertunity? Or Don't tell him, and end up depressed, and desperate? Go for it!! <333
279205
do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
496875
sounds like he does like you.\nyou should tell him that you like him and hopefully he'll tell you if he likes you too.\nor just talk to his friends =] -see what they know
201614
It always freaks me out when guys do that, because I never know if they like me or not. I also don't know if I like HIM or not.\n\nCheck out his body language. Know if he's single/taken/whatever his situation. FLIRT BACK. That is key.\n\nSmile, be adorable and irresistible. If he doesn't make a move, maybe he's shy. And I love a shy guy. They're so cute. So in this case, take a shot. You never know, he most likely DOES like you back, and you could be missing out. Trust me, I know from experience. \n\nIf it doesn't work out, so what? take it easy. There will be others. and if it's awkward after that, just gradually start talking again.
309887
If the guy likes you he will ask you out. if he likes you and still doesnt ask you out then he is a wuss and you deserve better. remember there are 2 BILLION men on earth. if this guy doesnt have the strength to go after you then it wont take you long to find one that will.
644570
if he says no it means he only wants to be friends. you asked him out and if he wants to go out w/ you he will ask you. obviously, you don't want to wait for him to come around cause you seem to really like him... maybe you should show intrest in other guys and he will ask you before they do! good luck.
348607
I say that you should never wait for a guy. Whether it is to call you or  for him to ask you out. Take the chance and learn from it, whether the results turn out the way you do or don't want it. Life is about taking chances and living it to the fullest
445860
believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
532479
U should totally ask him out, then u will no wether he likes u back or not...i got my friends b/f 2 ask his friend if he liked me...boldest thing i ever dun, but he sed he didnt like me back, so be prepared 4 rejection...good luck!
409741
Get over your fear and ask him out or tell him or whatever you do yourself!  He'll like the straightforwardness.  Guys like a bold girl.  If he doesn't like you back, he's not worth any more worry.  Just tell him and take his answer for what it's worth and then move on if he doesn't like you.
307247
OK, sweetie. you gave him your number FIRST? that takes a lot of balls (pardon the language). guys are that way all the time. it took my current boyfriend ages to decide himself and get the guts to ask me out... but i knew from the start he was into me, so i waited patiently.So do you really see him interested? guys flirt all the time, some of them are even close to seducing their moms. so maybe that's not a real sign. maybe you should ask yourself if he's worth the try. like you said, he's a senior... so if you really like the guy, what are you waiting for??? give it a try, YOU ask him out. either way, if he says no, who cares? he's leaving anyway...
233448
If this guy likes you and knows you like him and hasn't already asked you out, then he's shy and might need a gentle push in the right direction. If he likes you but doesn't know you like him, then why not just have your friend make sure he knows that in fact you do like him. Then, wait and see if he's too shy to ask you out or not.\n\nBest of luck!
495138
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
565341
How about have the friend ask him if he likes you?\nThat's better than your friend telling him that you're interested b/c then what if he says no and then you'll feel foolish. \nI'd tell your friend to ask him if he'd be interested in you.
371009
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
466031
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?