my sister-in-law is geting marryed. she ask me where i got marry and i told her do any of you have places she can get marry. i got marry on the beach
132355
The wedding should work with what she has in mind and who she really wants there as guests. If a lot of her guests are old or need handicap access, she should keep that in mind picking a site they would be comfortable at.  If she must have her favorite band playing live, she needs to make sure the site would be able to accomidate them. If she wants a huge guest list, then she has to have a site that can handle that many people. And of course, consider if the date is available, the site affordable, and any decoration ideas.
255702
Yes because you have already explained to her how you feel. Going is just supporting her....You can't choose who she marries. All you can do is be there for her when the going gets rough....My thought is she doesnt have any self esteem so just be there for her. That includes going to her wedding.
583027
Have you even asked her yet?  Did she say yes?  Did you get her husband's permission?  Are you old enough for her?  If all the answers are yes, then will you invite me to your wedding?
63840
As of 2/9/06..(subject to change)..I plan to just go to the courts this August to get married that way we can be sure to have a honeymoon wherever we like. \n1. We are 22 & 24 years old. I am a senior in college and he was a victim of Katrinia so we don't have a lot of money to spend.\n2. Also our families are 12 hours away from each other so which ever state we would choose to wed one of our families presence will be limited.\nSo we have decided to have a reception or party after we are married in each state for our family.\n\nHe actually was the one who wanted a big wedding but it didn't matter to me. I rather prepare for our future then to go in to debt because of one day. Some of my family and friends will be upset once they hear this news but unless they are paying for most of it this is how its gonna be. Besides, I have enough student loans!!
429158
Miss, don't judge all marriages by your sister's.  The reason people get married, and STAY married is that most marriages ARE happy.  Certainly not perfect, but reasonably happy.  Yes, there are horror stories.  Yes, some marriages are hell on earth, but most aren't.  Without knowing your sister, I've got to say that if she is newly married, and tells you to stay single, her marriage isn't going to last, and probably shouldn't last.  I advise you to love your sister, and wish her luck.  Don't bad mouth her husband, because that isn't what she needs.  Let her decide her future for herself.  Heck, they may work things out and grow old together.  Now, I don't suggest you ignore bruises etc, but unless you have real concerns for her physical safety, let them figure things out for themselves.  It's great that you care about her, and natural that you tend to lay blame for problems on him.  Just keep being her big sister, and love her.
269752
your step sister is a selfish b****. if you know what I mean , the hell with her pick someone else to be in the wedding, and she should be grateful that you tried to do that for her some  people wouldn't, tell her  that it is fine that she does not want to be in your wedding, who would want a selfish brat in your wedding any ways, the wedding must go on, to bad for her, tell her to stuff her bras, for now until you  feel like you want to drive her down to get them done, see what she says, i would
28099
You could always make a road trip to Virginia Beach. Take the coastal roads and stay in the clean but inexpensive "mom and pop" motels along the way. You can pick up those hotel/motel advertisement books in a Shoney's or Denny's and check out prices in there. Also use coupons for fast food that come in the Sunday papers. The best trips I've have had have been to pack an ice chest with sandwich fixings, milk for cereal,paper plates,bowl,utensils,etc and stopped at rest areas or overlooks to have picnics. Just enjoy the simpleness of the start of your journey together before the pressures of marriage and family get in the way. Good luck and I wish you and yours a great marriage.
33095
I got married on St. Lucia at an all inclusive resort, "sandals". We had a GREAT time and it was VERY easy to do. We just told all the people who wanted to come, to meet us there. We didn't have to take care of anyone but ourselves. I reccommend it highly. We stayed at the St. Lucian Grande. It was the largest resort on the island. They took care of all the legal work, and it was all legal when we got back to the United States.
396516
Why don't you just go to wherever she is and get married there?  If she's married to you, I would think it would be easier to get her Visa.\n\nThen, when you get her back to whatever Country you're from (You didn't specify...), have a "real" wedding.
128359
My wedding was perfect to me because it was so stress free, we got married in Jamaica on vacation, everybody knew it was not like we eloped or so. but we just got our paper work together send it of and the rest was being taken care of by the hotel (thank you 'sandals' montego bay) the decorations, flowers, dinner, cake, drinks....we got married on the beach, lot of flowers.  it would have been a nightmare for me to plan a big party and try to do right by everybody and spent a whole lot of money on them. because my wedding was about my husband and me...and not a bunch of relatives. when we came back we had a small casual reception/BBQ. that was the perfect wedding for me
88140
Think of what is best for you, and what you want. Do you picture a beach wedding? or a wedding in a park ect. Think it through, talk to you finace, they really aren't as clueless as you think, have his input !! Good luck !!
255423
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.
465155
Mom in Law is experiencing a new life and as everyone else goes thru it, it'll come as being routine in time as well.  Things will settle down and she'll see the light again.  Give her a chance to live a little..... life's too short.  You sound a bit selfish, sorry to say. Most people WANT their inlaws out of their business. What's wrong with the brother fixing up her house? Nothing. Not to be critical but you remember how it is when you feel so alive when you first start dating someone? Well?  It's your mom in law!  She is feeling alive and beautiful.  She loves your children I'm sure and in a couple of months when the newness wears off she'll be back. :))))  Take care!
63392
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nMy wife and I have the secrets to making a marriage last...\n\nTwo times a week, we go to a nice restaurant, a little wine, good food and companionship. She goes Tuesdays. I go Fridays.\n\nWe also sleep in separate beds. Hers is in Florida, mine is in NY.\n\nI take my wife everywhere, but she keeps finding her way back.\n\nI asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?"\n"Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!"\nSo I suggested, "How about the kitchen?"\n\nWe always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.\n\nShe has an electric blender, electric toaster, and electric bread maker. Then she said "There are too many gadgets, and no place to sit down!", so I bought her an electric chair.\n\nMy wife told me the car wasn't running well, there was water in the carburetor. When I asked where the car was, she told me "In the lake."\n\nMy wife is on a new diet. Coconuts and bananas. She hasn't lost weight, but BOY, can she climb a tree now!\n\nShe got a mudpack and looked great for two days. Then the mud fell off...\n\nShe ran after the garbage truck, yelling, "Am I too late for the garbage?" The driver said, "No, jump in!"
575611
Well I went through the same things so I can tell you EXACTLY what she have to expect to happen. He is already in the army and at his duty station, which mean that she is NOT in his orders. They can get married but they are NOT going to move her or the kids (if any) because they weren't married BEFORE he got the orders. So as far as the military is concerned, the marriage mean NOTHING. After he comes back home for good or get orders to be stationed somewhere else then its a process (About 2-3weeks) (maybe shorter or longer) to get in the DoD system) he have to go through to get his wife and the kids (if any) in the system so that they can be included in his orders next time. My husband is in the Marines and he got orders to Japan. We got married after he received his orders so i had to wait until his two year were up (which will be next month) before me and our child were included in his orders. So from next month on out me and our daughter will be able to travel with him where-ever he goes....if I can answer any more questions just let me know, cause I KNOW 1st hand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As far as housing goes once he is stationed at another base or whateva they an get on base housing (if available) if not he can get BHA (Basic Housing Allowance)...which will pay for them to live in civilian housing off-base. So they can get married and YES it can work out even though there is a HIGH divorce rate for the military..it all depends on them if they willing to make it work...(Its hard at times though but they just have to be strong)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
43699
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
220741
im going to get my girlfriends little sister and brother (3 and 7) to goup to her and hand her some roses and tell her where to meet me for lunch at her favorite restraunt then i will take her to this house i just bought (she doesnt know about the house) in the living room will be an arrow pointed to up stairs on the bed room wall will be spray painted will you marry me? \n\nor\n\nyou could send her riddles that will lead to somewhere she loves and put up a sign that say will you marry me.