hey is there something wrong with being 13 and never going on a date or having been kissed? my class seems to think so. :(
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there's nothing wrong with never having been on a date or never having been kissed at the age of 13. i'm 17 now and i still haven't been on a real date or gone out with anyone for more than a month. i didn't get my first boyfriend or my first kiss until last october when i was 16. don't rush into going out with someone just because other people think that you should. your first kiss should be with someone that you really care about so that you'll be able to have pleasant memories of your first kiss for the rest of your life. you don't want to regret kissing the first person that you kiss. don't listen to what other people tell you to do. you still have plenty more years to find someone special that you want to share your first kiss with. good luck!:)
345088
there is nothing wrong with not dating until you are your age. i had never even kissed a guy until a was older than you. your father is right that girls do not need a romantic ride to the movies, you just need a ride in general. everyone gets rejected at some point in life, you just have to take a chance.
497357
your parents are trying to protect you. A lot of parents are the same on that one. Next week I will be 26 & I have never dated in my life. I have always wondered when I weill meet the right girl. I am also a virgin. I say you should wait until you finish school & graduated college & get a good job then when you are in your 20's get a boyfriend. As I remember some years ago when I was like 18 or 19 my uncle asked me if I had a girlfriend, yet & I said no. He said good, you are too young. So take my advice. Don't start dating until you know for suure you'll spend the rest of your life with the guy. I now know why I have never dated in my life. People ask me why, but I hide the real answer & tell them another.
361693
Your friend could be jealous of you. She may not WANT you to have a boyfriend, so she's making herself believe different. I'm in the 6th Grade & my friends would never believe me if I told them I had a boyfriend & that's truly awful. Ask her why she doesn't believe you. I'm sure you're a decent-looking little girl & it's rude for her to say that she doesn't believe you'd ever get a boyfriend. Ignore her if she gets real bad about it.
277157
Well if you want to be noticed then that's a whole nuther subject and you can email me about that. but for the  kissing....I wouldn't rush anything.  And you shouldn't be pessured by anything or anyone. Because if you're not kissing someone YOU like and someone YOU want to then beleive me it doesn't help at all and it's not all that great.  I'm 15 and have way too much experience than I should. But I'm using it now to help.
537192
Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
259713
It's completely different for different people.  I know people who are 22 who haven't kissed anyone.
131594
You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
666632
lol, agree!!  I'm 15, and I dont have a bf yet, and everyone thinks there's something wrong with me!  I dress the way I want, act the way I want, and dont really "fit in" anywhere.  Good luck, dont feel like your alone, cause I know EXACTLY what you're going through.
676046
im 14 and going into 10th grade and never kissed and never had a g/f =(
466028
I dated a 6th grader while I was in 8th grade (regret it now) but I'm sure yours is different, go for it, but beware, ppl will react differently, they're not so accepting
307750
hey im 16 and single...you seem cool and fun...im not sure that im into the whole making out naked part but just making out is cool.
641987
Don't worry u just havent met the perfect girl. Hang out with some girls, and when u meet somebody special u will be happier with someone who truly works than some ppl who just date to look cool even though it will never work.i'm 13 and completly understand your situation. If u like someone just work out the nerve and ask her out. GOOD LUCK!
451695
Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
459210
I agree with Helper.  If you truly are really nice, let EVERYONE see it, not just the crowd you hang out with.  You could also be very intimidating.  If your attitude is like that about girls asking out guys, then you most likely view every situation like that as pathetic.  There is nothing wrong with being old-fashioned, but sometimes you have to go after what you want, don't wait for it to come to you.  Perhaps you just weren't meant to be with tons of people in high school.  Slow down and enjoy life now, don't try to experience everything all at once.
600320
Depends on you. If you like someone date them, dont date them just cuz you feel like dating someone at the moment. A relationship ( even though im not sure if its considered a relationship at the age of 13 ) shouldnt exist because you feel like being in one, it should exist because of the mutual feelings you have for each other. And I personally think that relationships in jr.high are pointless. They are a waste of time, and they don't go anywhere. but thats my opinion. if you feel your ready, and if you have ACTUAL feelings for the boy.. then go for it! =)
162384
You know, age 13 and 7th grade was my absolute worst year, ever.  Congrats on surviving it!  Just breathe, it'll all sort itself out soon enough, you don't need to worry about it or be confused.