Last Friday, I asked for clarity on our "status" and said that I wanted to know whether or not we were being exclusive. She stated that a relationship wasn't at the top of her priorities right now but agreed to be exclusive. Now Friday or b/c it's the final two weeks of college.
120523
Since I've been the one who has had to study (like your girl), I'm probably a good person to answer this one ... SHE IS VERY VERY VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL RIGHT NOW!!!!!  If it is only two weeks, just wait it out!  and dont bother her or distract her from studying!  The best thing to do would be to text message her saying that you understand that college is very important to her and that you will give her time to study and always end your message with "i love you."  Go to her school website calendar and KNOW when her last final is (if she hasnt already told you), and AS SOON AS HER FINALS ARE OVER, TAKE HER OUT TO A FANCY LUNCH/DINNER MEAL or somewhere where she can relax with you or have fun.  As soon as her finals are over, immediately, you want to SPOIL HER, but just for the first few days, then everything's back to normal.  = )\n\n=====\nand text her at least 3 times per week saying "i hope studying is going well.  i love you."  After finals, flowers are a good idea, also.  = )\n\n=====\nsomething that someone mentioned below, and SINCE I'M IN COLLEGE, I SEE THIS ALL THE TIME; IT'S A HUGE ONE!!!  Offer to get fast food and take it to her!!!  but dont interfere with her studying; just drop it off and she'll likely give you a quick hug and maybe talk for 2-3 minutes.  THEN LEAVE!
649375
If you asked him a serious and imprtant question, and he can't even give a response, even if it is a response that says he needs more time to answer than you need to move on, this is tough to say, but he does not rank you very high on his priority list if he has not replied for over a week.  Move on, you'll find a better match for you!
266952
Sounds like she wants you to be decisive, not to take a long time to make a decision. She can always reject your decision, but tell her want she wants, don't go back and forth on this
525462
you just answered your own question:\n\nshe is in a committed relationship with this guy
155778
I don't think anybody else can really help you with this, brotha. It's all based on the decision you make. My advice is if you're digging her, go for her. If you want to be a jerk, go for everybody else. It's not that I'm calling you a jerk, but how do you think she would feel about the whole thing?
546422
From personal experience . . . I always dred when a woman wants to "talk" about a relationship.  The state of the relationship talk is frequently a poor subject to bring up with a male partner.  If you don't want to be in a serious relationship, there is no reason to talk about the current state of affairs.  Enjoy what you have now, and live in the moment.  Chances are, after a while, things will develop into a more meaningfull relationship.
191624
you just kissed her off! You told her you didn't have time to develop a relationship, but when it was convenient for you, you'd let her know. I wouldn't waste time on you either. She's probably out finding someone who has time for her right now, and I don't blame her. You scr*wed yourself on that one.
247221
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
368554
Why do you have to be labeled as his girlfriend? If he treats you like one and you have agreed to be exclusive, what more do you want? If you have doubts about where you stand as far as being his one and only, talk to him about the level of commitment in your relationship, but please don't ask him if you're his girlfriend...that sounds so junior high!
517592
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
160741
"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
606056
i say he loves and respects you and is trying to learn from his mistakes - before he leaped too quickly and it ended badly. I usually tell guys to wait until she is ready but I have to switch this time and say hey wait until he is ready. relationships are hard enough all by themselves without added pressure. sounds like a keeper to me. Be happy
202105
I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
469410
It's possible, she may change her mind.  You need to give her some time to miss you.  In a couple of weeks, maybe you could invite her to lunch, and have a talk.  Sounds like she still cares, but perhaps is confused.
490996
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
669209
Are the 2 questions related?  They don't really make sense in the same sentence.  Maybe girls don't understand you if that's how you talk?  Seems like maybe you should focus on one thing at a time.
29857
I cannot agree or disagree with him.  I was not present during all of those 4 to 5 months that the couple was dating.  He says he never promised her to get into a serious relationship, but did he ever tell her that?  Did he just lead her on for the sex?  Did she ever ask him what his intentions were?  Did she just assume that because they were having sex that the relationship was serious (or would lead to more commitments)?\nAnd what business is this of yours (unless the woman was your sister)?\n... and don't you just hate it when somone answers a question with a bunch of questions?