What do you do when your BFF is in a whole other class and you don;t see her till lunch but when you get there my other friend who is in her class takes her over and acts like they have thier own inside  jokes?\nPs once she wanted to talk to her in private.
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You say that you want to talk to her in private too, before you join them in the table, and ask your friend what's going on, all of a sudden she has a best friend? And you could also send her an e-mail telling her your whole problem with her and if she doesn't understand your whole story, then you know she isn't your most knowing-all-about-you-like best friend, or else she would know your feelings. Her other friend you saw her with lunch is just getting ready to strike, forget about her.
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You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
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You don't have to be friends with her, but it's uncool to talk about someone behind their back, even if you do say it to her face. The coolest thing to do would be to either leave her alone, completely, or be extra cool and befriend her. Maybe you can help her not to be a loser.
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She is just jealous that one of your friends is way closer than the other one. Try to talk to her. It may work.
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I have the same problem she thinks that I ignore her around my other firends and then she does the same thing. When I confront her about it, it always ends up to be a fight or she responds with " Your a slut" and I am not. If i were you i would confront her about it or ignore her untill she sees what good of a friend you are to her.
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talk to her. her friends were being a bunch of b!tches. does she ever talk to you like in the halls or during class? she smiled at you, that's always a good sign. well i hope i helped! good luck!
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i dont think your friend is really your friend! if she  embarrasses you then she dosent want good of you! friends are suppose to make you feel good, not horrible!!!!
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Have you communicated to her that when she says these things they make you feel bad. She may not realize talking about her fun weekend with another friend was hurting you when she hought she was just making conversation. The fact that she says "you weren't important enough" really hurts! It hurts me to hear that someone you consider a friend would say that to you! It sounds like she is being really immature with her emotions, especially for soemone who is old enough to be married. You can serve as a good example by communicating with her in the way you would like to be communicated with, even to the point of being straight forward and saying, I wish you would say something to me when you are angry with me instead of withdrawing. I want this friendship to work. Try to talk to her in a way that isn't accusatory like "You do this" but talk in a "You make me feeel [blank] when you withdraw.. " or incorporate "We" into your conversation like "I feel we need to work on communicating with eachother better, I care about you and I want to work out whatever is bothering you" If she doesn't change and retains her mature attitude, I would find someone else who respects you enough to be upfront with you. When I read this, it sounded llike a "friend" I have right now who posts her thoughts on an online journal instead of telling me upfront in an appropriate time and place. I tried talking to her a while ago but she hasn't changed and I find that she just makes me more upset than happy and I am trying to find a safe and respectable way out.
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this will pass so please don't hurt yourself,the same thing happen to my friend her ex best friend turn everybody against her,tell your mom whats going on make her change your school because its really no point being in there no more,my friend changed and she doing really good know she didn't know nobody and they all like her,if theirs anything else here's my e mail sheilalicious197,hope it helps
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She was gone and you found a new group to socialize with. I am sure everyone at school was like "wuz up with her skippin' school"? right? So maybe you judged her as well but now things are too weird between ya'll because of your new friends. Ya'll need to talk you can work this out if you truely miss her. Call her up and just start chatting. Before you now it things will work themselves out and ya'll will be hangin' out again.
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Please read my exact same situation with my daughter and her little "clique" excluding this one girl who used to be her best friend.  I let her (the left out girl) type some questions on Answers Wednesday night.  I didn't look at the replies, though.  I let the girl stay with me and talk about it.  She's a little heavy and shy, and to top it off the kid's dad has cancer.  So, check on her stuff under my name.  Hope it helps.
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It is hard to deal with pressure from your "friends" believe me i've been there. my once "friend" talked about one of my other friends behind her back because she didnt have a BF so we made one up for her and it backfired in our faces and then they made fun of her even more. the best thing to do is tell your friend you are tired of her comments, and if she doesnt stop then try not talking to her or not getting upset when she says these things. usually people will stop joking if they know it doesnt bother you. The main thing is to NOT make up a BF it will backfire. \nHope i helped!
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Maybe she was having a bad day.... Is she like this often. \nMaybe you should have asked her what was wrong? \n\nAlot of girls whether they realize it or not start ditching their friends for boys and maybe your friend feels threatened.\n\nMaybe shes on the monthly and had a headache....  \n\nBE A GOOD FRIEND AND            ASK HER\n\nIf shes still being rude without an explanation then she may be sending you a signal that your not as graet of friends as you thought.... \n\nJust try to bear with it, if shes your best friend...... but dont let yourself get hurt by this...
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okay that was pretty much me last year. don't worry at all. my one friend hasnt been in my class for 3 years and were as close as ever. we hang out on weekends alot and talk online and stuff. also dont worry bc you'll probably get in other people's classes that you know and youll probbabaly have at least 1 with her come on. and yeah you hear peepole say youll make friends but even i thought i wouldnt make friends seriously i thought i would never make friends btu ive made SOOO many trust me you REALLY will i promise and if you hang out with her on weekends and set up times to play youll be fine. but even if you lose touch with her which i did with a few friends too by now... but iknow that they just werent meant to be my bset friends for this long. people change so don't change yourself just to be friends with them even if you have for a logn time. youll make new friends just try. don't be scared. good luck.enjoy the summer and don't worry.
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I wouldn't take her back as a friend. Excuses or no excuse, if she was a real friend she wouldn't have ditched you last minute and would have suggested an alternative. If she had a problem with the dress why didn't she pull you aside and say, "Hey, think we can shop around more or have it made?" And even if you did offer her those suggestions, she could have said something. Friends should be able to communicate without holding back. It's not your fault she was insecure. About spreading those lies...Girl, Im sure your other friends knew she was lying. Back to her though...she has no right talking about you and saying such things. \n\nThere would be no other option in my opinion. I would clearly never talk to her again. Deep down she knows it was shitty(excuse my language) to do that to her "Best friend" and even then, you have to think maybe you werent her best friend at all. Like I said, friends dont do that to other friends especially best friends.
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Talk to her ask her to be honest with u about ur friendship. Ask her why she sighs when u sit next to her. I remember when I started secondary school that my friends made new friends and I became a bit distant with them. They got with different groups of friends and same with me to. Just talk to her about it.
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Straigh up tell them..."I don't like you."... My best friend did that to a guy who always sat with us at lunch time. She didn't like him at all. She said it loud too so all around us could here.. The guy left her alone after that.