I feel that ppl ahould like me. I mean they should look at me and talk to me when they want some advice. I feel that everybody wants to be liked. I mean even the simplest ppl on earth. Can we just be happy with ourselves?
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Obviously not there is nothing on your profile, not even an abstract pic to look at.
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How do you know your not anyones type so your big that means your heart i surpose because if anyone else looks at you another way shame on them. I would like to ask one thing of you and that is you think positive if someone dont like you for being you than they our not good enough for you and someone else is and their waiting for your loving caring feelings.*
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I like to say you are you. .As a teenage like myself we're going through a time of self discovery and that can be a real bitty. So just give it time. .with each experience you come to know who you are what you stand for and who you want to be. ..I'm here when ever you wanna talk. ..signed: A simple friend
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Sounds like deep seated feelings of inadequacy... this usually passes with time... we all go through a phase in our adolescence when we doubt ourselves, self confidence comes with age and experience for most people. I myself had an epiphany while reading a book by a man named Richard Feynman, entitled "So what do you care what other people think?" and I just 'got over it'. When you stop caring what others think about you it is a very liberating feeling, you should look forward to it. Best of luck.
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I am glad to know someone out there is the same way that I am ...I often wondered that too before...am I obssessed or a stalker??? Maybe its just love!
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Everyone cares about what people think of them, no matter what they tell you!  But the only thing that should matter is finding what makes you happy.  Self happiness is the best thing anyone could ever do for themselves!  People, Magazines, Movies... Society will always say you need to act like this or look like this... but if your happy the way you are, who cares if someone doesn't like it, because around the corner there is going to be someone who thinks its unique and cool.  Yes i am a girl i deal with it everyday its and ongoing struggle for me! I am my happiest when i am alone in my car listening to Jack Johnson.
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That's nice :) And yes I do know that. That is why I usually try to keep things on the positive side of real. \n\nYa know? I tried to talk to a stranger today and make him smile. He always looks so serious.. Never even glances my way when he walks by or anything. (nor does he glance anyone else's way, so I don't think it's just me.) I smiled and told him hi... And he just walked on by.\n\nWhat reaction do you get when you are being friendly?
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I am happy with the person I am, I'm just not happy with where my life is at this point in time. It will be better once I get my feet back under me and can stand on my own again. I have never pretended to be something I'm not. If they don't like me for who and what I am they can move on. I have no room for people like that in my life.
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I'm glad there a lot of them out there for u.  I hope they feel the same about u.  Good luck with it.
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You should be who you want to be not who others want you to be. I am alot like you when im around my friends im crazy and i am so outgoing but when I am in big crowds I am pretty quite unless one of my friends are around me. I believe that you should be the person you want tobe. Have lots of fun. You have to remember you only live once.
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No such thing as too nice.  What you're doing is amazing.  If only more people in the world were like you.  You just keep doing what you need to make yourself and others happy.  Screw what others think.
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even if they don't admit it everyone cares about what other people think. I personally are just like you i am very worried about what every one thinks of me and i try to even sometimes to pretend to be something i am not just to feel like i fit in . i hope you grow confidence and become happy with you and what people think of you GOOD LUCK! P.S if it helps you sound like a great person to me.
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i know. its related to psychology, and its simple. by following one another, people feel a sense of belonging. if you're fashionable, people will like you [thats what they think] and if you're not, the wont.these "principals" make a human want to be like everyone else.
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Your as pretty as you feel sweetheart... and in some says your more beuatiful than anyone else.. always remember that
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You can't live your life trying to please others and worrying what they think about you. Just be who you are, you sound pretty confident and self assured. You go girl!
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Ya wanna hear something goofy? When I was a teenager, I felt just like you! I would wish to god I was a Siamese twin, just so I wouldn't feel so alone. It is hard to explain, I wasn't really lonely cause I had lots of friends and people who loved me, it's more a feeling that all of them and the whole human race belonged to this,(something) what ever it was except me! I could be in a room full of people yet feel all alone. Then one day I started asking myself: WHAT DO I WANT? As I lay in my dark bed   crying myself to sleep, I would ask: WHAT DO I WANT RIGHT NOW? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL AND FILL THE VOID IN ME? Perhaps something that would make me a part of something! Well I don't really know what to tell you except I volunteered for a suicide hot line, I served underprivileged children dinners, I  worked at a mission, helping the homeless, I sat with the elderly etc. and as time passed, the awful feeling of being alone gradually went away! That was quite a few years ago and I haven't felt that way since. I don't know what happened, but what ever it was, it sure worked for me. Maybe it will work for you too! Good Luck!
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i am happy when all people around me are happy.People i love and respect are happy with me.Also it will make me happy when someone say to me that i am good person who helps other to be happy.