How dirty is dirty when it comes to sex? Like what is the number of ppl someone has to sleep with to be considered dirty guy or girl?
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that's a personal thing. if your number embarasses you, then you need to watch yourself.  if you are comfortable with your number and your partner's number, then great.  \nwhat wories me the most is if someone lies about their number. that means they are in denial and not being safe and they are not being safe for their partners.\n\nsafety is the one thing be aware of.  i've been with almost 20 people before my husband and i'm ok with   it, b/c it was my choice and i own that number...and i know that i was safety conscious everytime.\n\ntake care and be safe.
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A whore to me is someone who sleeps around with all these different people, and has no shame about it, and perhaps even flaunts it.  You gotta' stay away from those kinds of people, and even the people they sleep with... chances are, there's some type of disease floating around there.\n\nA whore can be either male or female...  Just because a guy sleeps around and his buddies thinks it's the greatest thing, doesn't make him any better than the female who does it.  They are both whores in my book, and need to find some respect for themselves.
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Your sex life is noone's business but your own.  You have to just be above them and not care.  People are going to judge you even if you do everything "the right way" (whatever that may be it varies on who you talk to).
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thats fine i guess...I met someone over the internet as well and we slept together after seeing eachother twice! I was a bit messede up after that, but things are going ok...we are not together though, but things are slowly moving to the next level...Dnt feel bad about being attractive to someone...as long as you used protection tten i dnt see what the big deal is...I asked a similar question not too long ago. And see...you guys are still together... And dnt take what Khalidnm2003 said to heart...When guys do it it's great...But as soon as a woman enjoys her sexual self we are referred to as $luts! You dnt need people bring you down...Plus you are a grown woman so why the heck not...Power to you sister!!!
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A whore is someone who sleeps w/ a whole bunch of people. So, no, you're not a whore. All you guys did was make out. You're reading  too much into it. What happened was:Both of you were feeling vournerable. And both of yall emotions just took over. It's totally natural. Nobody is at fault here. So don't worry about it honey. I mean, think about it. You guys are still friends right? And he probably hasn't even brought it up again right? He might feel like you feel. But it's no big deal.
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I love the lack of answers!!\n8, and I'm 20. I deffinately consider myself to be a guy that sleeps around alot.\nHOWEVER. This is not something I am proud of. I regret alot of the things I've done, and although I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, I'd much prefer fewer partners for longer periods of time.\nDo you mind answering something? Whats the ideal answer you're looking for?
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Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
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You will always have better sex if you know/like the person more. If you are having sex with a stranger, distracting questions and insecurities arise when you are smack-dab in the middle of the act. You're wondering "what was that look about?" Or "do I look good right now?" These are thoughts that shouldn't be allowed to detract from the physical enjoyment of sex.
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My first question to you is:\n\nWhy would any man compare his woman with an ex? Tacky, tacky, tacky, and HIGHLY disrespectful to you! \n\nMy second question is- do you feel adequately lubricated to enjoy sex? As long a sex isn't uncomfortable, you don't have to worry about how you compare to other women. Also, depending on where you are at in your cycle, you can produce more or less lubrication. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, that can affect it, as can many different medications.\n\nIt sounds like *he* is the one with the problem. ;) \n\nIf you want to know more about this, I suggest picking up Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, it will explain how your hormones fluctuate (in a very easy to understand way, it's not boring at all)- I haven't met a woman who has read this book who wasn't blown away by how much we are NOT taught about our bodies, and how normal we truly are!
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Safe sex is just so important, Why people cant see that i dont Know, good to see some decent ppl on here that think before that jump into bed with a stranger who may be on a 1 person mission to inflict the same suffering as they are going through.\n\nI will get down of my soapbox no promise
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Relationships? No. Sex? Yes. We give so much detail about sex, hell we'll throw in lies if we need to. Trust me every guy you've slept with has talked about you in great detail at least twice each.
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I believe in sex before marriage. I don't believe people should just sleep around though. If you've been with a person for awhile and truly loves them, I think it's ok to have sex.
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Almost always pretty early into it (I'm in my thirties).  I would consider it unusual not to have sex if we slept together, but still ok - actually quite nice.  The girls I remember the best (and in the best way) always waited.  It is really awesome to be with a good girl and to just be able to hold her without going farther.  Just be sure to keep the kissing to a minimum so things don't get out of hand.  Sitting under a blanket together can be romantic, but romantic isn't defined by just one thing - it is a combination of things that make a situation romantic.
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I would think you were nasty if you were turned on, but you're not.  I think all of us have a little attraction to different things that are mysterious and abnormal to us.  For instance, I like to sometimes watch silly shows like Cheaters, Pimp My Ride, or Celebrity Fit Club.  I guess it's a little weird, but perfectly normal.
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Sorry, I guess I don't really get your question.  People of all sexually-conscious ages, of both genders utilize pornography of all types, in and out of relationships - the point is to heighten arousal.  It's not dirty or disgusting as long as no one is doing anything against their will.\n\nPS - I happen to prefer Hentai to any other type of pornography.  And I am an adult female, happily married. =P
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It was ok; I have done a few. Mostly with people I met online, couples. And I was mostly single; meeting other couples. Keeps the emotions out that way. It is a pretty shallow experience, really. Sex one on one or even alone is better, alot of distractions with more than two people and pressure to perform. I think allowing other people into your bedroom is avoiding the real underlying issue within the couple.I had a boyfriend once that was always pressuring me to do that it got to be a real turnoff and we are not together anymore. If you are a sex a holic and can handle it emotionally go for it. It just wasn't my thing.
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aha! the preacher's in town. sir, with due respect it is no one's prerogative to classify sin or non-sin like this. how about sex without consent with your 'legal' partner of the opposite sex (if you strictly follow the 'natural order')? is that all right to do so? and to mention the countries you are talking about, i think people there are as much randy as anywhere else in the world. maybe a little more repressed too. but all that is changing with the societies opening up to the idea of discussion on sex and sexual health of a society. the last thing we want is a pseudo pundit trying to make matters worse for those who feel there is no release.