Hey whats up ppl?Well I have a boyfriend and I have been hearin all this stuff about him........and about how he be flirtin wit other girl or whatever and ofcourse he denys every single thing about it..............BUT last night he went to the skatin ring and  was supposed to go but I couldnt so my friend told me she had to tell me something (about him)I'm guessing its about what he was doin at the rolladium.But now she wont tell me.........Should I stay with him or should I go??I honestly was so sprung over him AT FIRST....but now its like I dont even feel special to be with him anymore...............like u know that feelin u get when ur  around that special someone???yea well...i dont get that feeling anymore!!!And is my friend really a friend if she wont tell something that I deffinently need to know??I dont know so thats why I am asking for you guys advice.............
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If you don't feel special around him anymore it may be time to go. First talk to your friend - you're right if she's your friend she should tell you what she's hiding. She's gone to far to not tell you as she brought it up to start with.\nRemember though a little bit of flirtings not the end of the world, as long as thats all.\nIn short get your friend to tell you, or tell her you can't trust her anymore, then confront your boyfriend about what really has happened. Then make your choice. ............
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Hi\n\n    I know this is not what you may want to hear, first of all you said your boyfriend is locked up. He should be happy that you are even sticking by his side while being locked up because as far as I can see what can he do for you while he is locked up. On the other hand if you really love him and want to stick by him totally understandable that is a choice only you can make. I would I advice you to just talk to him and tell him how he makes you feel when he accuse you of things that are not true. If he understands then great if not I would say this realationship is maybe not for you if trust can not be found. I hope I helped!
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Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
387157
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
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i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....
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I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
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wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
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I am in the same boat right now! So, I know how you feel.  I just am there when she needs to talk.  I do not offer ANY negative input about MY feelings about the guy, just listen to how she feels and try to give her answers that are somewhat neutral.  Good luck!
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go with you'r heart and fealings and talk to you'r friend because maybe he feals a little jealous and don't want you to get hurt and talk to you'r boyfriend about you'r friend. My advice would be go with you'r fealings and be true to you'r self. Hope that helps
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Same exact thing happened to me! i have this neibor and every night we would sneek out to see eachother and i'd be like, ok were just hanging out, nothing big. and then id see those eyes and BANG i kissed him AGAIN. my boyfriend got pissed. hes like, if you love ME then you wont be sneeking out to see him! so this is what i did: i didnt want to hurt my neibors feelings, but i really really wanted to keep my boyfriend, so i just looked at the situation for a long time and tried to get my prioritys straight. thats all you have to do. look at the situation, see how you feel about him, and how your friends feel about him, and how your mom feels about him, and see which feelings are more important to you. if you care more about your friends feelings, then just stop. use your friends like a motivator to not do it. if your feelings are more important, go for it ; )
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You dont have to bother about stuff like that at this stage.And that is not supposed to get you worried atall.Why not spend ur leisure time with other friends other than trying to figure him out.whenever you see him just say hi,if there's anything serious you've done he'll let you know in time but in the meantime don't look down on youself cause of him.Cheers.
625460
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
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It sounds like she really loves the guy.  That's not something that you just get rid of over night.  It's there and it'll be there for a while.  All you can do is help introduce her to new guys, ones that will help keep her mind off of her old boyfriend.
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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he has a girlfriend. It might not be the best thing to do, but I would "spy" on him and find out. If you see a girl, then its obvious! There is no reason for unnecessary hurt!!!
536336
yea thats deep, but she obviously loves this guy, and u have to think about whats best for her, and apparently she thinks this is best, just try and get over her. If it was meant to be between ya'll then it will happen regardless. but i wouldn't tell her because that would make her feel uncomfortbale and maybe get u in a fight with the b/f. there are plenty of other girls that will be just like her. trust me!
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He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.
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well, i guess it's normal, happened to me too. But u should listen to your heart. And I think u already know the answer: he seems a player, so he's not good for u. Besides, u're friend likes him and u don't want to hurt her. If u feel like it u can play hard to get with him for a while because it's soooo nice to have someone et u're feet, isn't it? But don't get involved if u don't feel like it.