I'm a sort of shy person but how would I get my crush to notice me without saying anything.  I would feel like a real idiot if I went up to say hi to him.  What should I do?
134558
You have to come out of your shell somewhat kid. Do it in small ways that are comfortable for you, maybe talk to him when there aren't a whole bunch of people around. I'm sure he'll think you're great!
163608
They easiest way for a shy person to find out is to have a friend ask a friend of his what how he feels.\n\nI know it sounds a bit corny, but friends have been asking for other friends for as long as there have been crushes.
534083
first of all,\n\nif you never talk to this guy, you cannot just start off being really flirtatious around him. It will just scare him off. Tell him hi, ask him whats up. Do anything that is a conversation starter. Be patient. If he likes you, he will come around\n\n\nnever loose hope....i know what it feels like.\n\n\n\ntry all you can. saying hi wont hurt.\n\n*remember not to put yourself in an awkward situation, though. Talk to him when he is around your guy friend. It wont be as akward as it would if you just randomly walked up to him, and he should be friendlier.
629863
That is so cool!\nThe same thing happened with me and my crush\nand now we cant stand one moment apart!!\nThat is totaly flirting, and like \nyhea!! \nIts normal for him to be nicer around you when his guys arent there, cause you know.. They got to be cool and all..... Dont take it personaly.\n\nYou should ask him out, or send little hints, you know, give him signals for him to ask you out.\n\nTry it. \nThe rewards are great.\n\nGood Luck.
18623
Well i know how you feel b/c i am a shy girl, but you have to think if you cant ever talk to her than how will she ever to get to know you. I know popular people can be very intimidating but just work up the courage to talk to her. Once you do you'll feel alot better n then it'll be alot easier to approach people.
58650
Maybe ask him to help you study or something. Maybe the 2 of you could go to the library. Then pass him a note with your feelings on them if you are too shy to actually come right out and say it.
56439
Since you have a crush on him he probably doesn't even know you exist,  make eye contact, simple, always works!
16346
Do you know him? If not, then walk right up and introduce yourself to him. If you know each other, then, when you see him again, why not invite him for lunch. Find out what things you have in common, then use those to get his attention. (example: Like going to the theatre - Stage not movie? Buy a couple of tickets, offer the "spare one" to him. If he doesn't want it, then take some other friend or give them to a charity or whatever you want to do.)Good Luck!
234778
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
51155
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
515470
Well, thats the same problem with me.But I mean exactly the same problem. Don't hang around him too much because he'll know that u like him. So what i would do, just tell him, "Hey, What's up?" and start a conversation with him to make him feel comfortable. Then ask, "Last year, we had good times. We talked a lot but why don't you speak to me anymore?" And then he might answer your question. But one thing i would like to clear to you, is about your best friend. My friend Brenda does the same thing:Wants every guys attention as possible. What you should do, join sports programs,drama club,etc to become popular and eventually, your crush might like you IF you did something good in basketba or any type of sport. Dont be nervous. Try it!
405820
i can relate to this.\nwhat i suggest is that you try to open up a bit. it's hard, and takes time, but if you become more outgoing, he won't be too intimidated if he was too approach you. in situations like this, it's YOUR turn to make the first move. start small talk, ask him how his day has been, smile (rather frequently), and just don't think about what you're gonna say. let it out. a friend of mine suggested this to me, and it worked, i suggest you try this yourself. usually if he's staring at you, he in fact, DOES like you.\nyou go girl, get out there and get that guy ;D
507720
The best way to resolve this question is to just out of nowhere talk to him. Ask him how is he doing. Or just say hi and once he says hi back just take it slow. If he likes you he will want to continue the conversation. But sweeti you are still young and these things will come and go. I went through the same thing when i was in 8th grade. I liked this boy who was a freshman but i was shy to talk to him. After about 2 weeks of being gutless i braved myself up and talked to him. We set together at lunch and talked the whole lunch hour and at the end of that time i realized that all he was, was a crush. I got over him and i moved on. Don't rush into anything sweeti your leaving yourself open for a let down. And it sucks being hurt. Let him notice you. That is the easiest way to do it. Good Luck and i wish you a very bright future. Go for the gold and stay in school.
449422
Just step up and talk to him. He might be the shy one. He probably doesn't want to be the one to make the first move he doesn't want you to think he is just hitting on you.
592245
uhhhhh first of im not bi, or and im not a girl either.\n\nBut dude, maybe its becuase your a little shy?  Go on and test it out, by talking to the cutest girl around the area randomly and introduce yourself.  try to start a conversation from there. annnnd if you cant do it.  It Definitly means your shy.  \n\nAnd there are no particular steps you should follow, becuase if i was gonna sell you my guide to love,  you would need to have my personality to actually make it possible for you.  \n\nAnd plus there would be millions and millions of books out there if we all sold ours you know?\n\nSo bro, he that smile ever heads your way again, just smile back, and maybe 5 minutes later, appoach that person... Oh yeah and there is 2 kinds of smiles.. the one that tells you hi ;D   and.... eww hi..  try to see both of them, becuase they are hugely different.
190132
he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.
482978
Well I think you should show up looking your best and talk to him or try to get him to notice you if he comes. Just make sure you dont over do it; like trying to be too obvious or all up in his face. Some boys dont find that very attractive. And don't get embarrassed if you fall in front of him or something, you might score by falling because he could come help you up and then maybe something can get started.LOL. But just look your best and be the regular you.