Not sexually, but emotionally. Serious answers plz.
125363
Commitment, respect, and honor. Always keep these things in mind and you'll have your husband at your side for ever and he'll be the happiest man on Earth.
396392
You need to find out where you stand with him. If he doesn't feel the same way you do you need to cut ties to avoid getting hurt further. If I were you I would not do this kind of thing again. I do not think it is possible to have an on going sexual relationship with another person without developing feelings of some sort for a woman. We are very emotional and loving beings. We're sensitive. Many men can do this because they are not. Take care of yourself first.
205503
Kiss on the cheek?  No.  Peck on the lips?  Maybe.  Tongue kissing?  Definitely.  You don't kiss a person like that unless you are sexually attracted to them.  It's a small step onto a slippery slope.
420198
Not really. The hymen could be broken for a number of reasons that are not sexual.
271303
Turn him down as nice as you can if you are not interested.  If he becomes really upset you might consider offering him some sexual release to ease the pain as a goodbye gesture.
279021
It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.
603942
The sex is important yes, but I love being with my man. The way he holds me, a random touch of the cheek, a kiss out of the blue. Being held at night without going in for sex. The feeling of being loved is more important than sex.
588287
emotional attraction is different than physical attraction. you probably were just feeling a little akward because it was the first time you could put a face with the words. Maybe you could spend a little time going out as friends, instead of as a couple, until you are more comfortable around him. Then you could reevaluate the situation and proceed from there. Maybe the feelings need a little more time to fully develope.
109356
It is normal! Its like a "what if" type of problem. I think our subconscious asks what would happen if we were together. And if you care about someone you cant turn those feelings off or erase them. Your normal. Take care!!
421983
WOW! This is CRAZY! I am in the exact, I mean exact same situation! I have a guy friend (best friend at that) and he is a little bit attractive, and I know he is in love with me because he tells me so, but I do not have romantic feelings towards him. Sometimes I get the urge to let things go further (physically) but in the long run, I never let it get that far. I believe, if something is mentally stopping you from going further with him, then you should listen to your gut feeling. It might also make things complicated after you initially sleep together. He'll be calling you all the time, crying about his love for you and whatnot, and you will have to tell him (once again) that you don't have feelings for him. Trust me, this is what happened when I slipped up and accidentally kissed my guy friend....but either/or, GOOD LUCK!!!
397336
I understand your question now! We can get our panties in a bunch can't we? LOL I'm sorry...Let me reword the question for you..."Do you think sex with someone you love would be more enjoyable if you knew you weren't as vulnerable while having sex with the person you love??" Is that what you meant to say? Now, I understand what you mean...! Yes...I do feel that way sometimes. If you feel as though you are being taken advantage of...then taking the emotions away...with the person that one loves...it would be easier!
192006
ummm... not normal & not safe. Break it off, dude
181297
Love isnt really the question here.  Often a man can feel self concious because he doesnt know what to say or how to comfort the woman. Once you get to the point where youre both comfortable with it: able to talk about it without feeling awkward, things will probably get back to normal.  If you want to see things from his point of view, think of how you would feel if he had a testicle removed.  Unfortunatly, some superfical men can take a "damaged goods" attitude.
210144
If you very in love and very emotionally connected, then i am 99% confident that the sex is emotional/loving for him.  If you are not very in love and not very emotionally connected, then I am 99% confident that it is purely physical to him.\n\nFor in-between those two, it's really going to depend on your relationship and the guy, and how the girl looks.  Is she very cute (if so, it's love), if she is not cute but very sexy, then it's likely sex.  \n\nFor the most part, though, unless you fit into one of the extremes on up above, it's very likely BOTH!\n\n----------------------\nand i agree with the guy above me, but i want to add to that - guys that are shy tend to be VERY emotionally connected in sex, and guys that are very outgoing tend to be the opposite (not always on the outgoing guys).
558148
hmm i would like to know the same thing.. i'm not into all that "making out".
668683
Speaking form personal experience, it's both physical and emotional.  I had been bi from about the age of 12, so I have been in relationships with men before, after 5 years of no men I can honestly say that I am happier now and was probably straight up lesbian all along.  I was never in fear of what a relationship with a man would mean, nor am I now.  I just happen to find women much more appealing, who wouldn't want a woman's body?  Plus, the emotional connection is much different.  Women connect with women on a different level, as do guys.  Most of my friends are men, but I only date women.
250548
no sex and memory making moments...intimacy is much nicer