if u are with a guy for say 3 months or something and he says to u i want to have ur kids and says how many and he says i want us to get a house together in a couple of years what does that mean?
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HES TRYING TO GET YOU INTO BED, IF HE WANTS ALL THAT HEL MARRY YOU TOMOROW.
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What does it mean? it means you're young. Enjoy it. Don't commit to anyone before you are 30.
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Sounds to me like you're getting a bit sketchy and he doesn't like what he See's. Step back and take a good hard look at yourself and him. You need to ask yourself some serious questions. When you're talking (settling down) there's a lot involved there. Like dealing with each others ups and downs day in and day out. Your careers. Buying a house. Starting a family. Can you see growing old with this person? What are your goals in life? Do you have the same goals in mind? And a whole bunch more than that. If you're already having problems at 22 and 24 you better get ready for the real world. Good luck
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i'm sure that he wants to marry you. that's just your own worry. you may want to talk to him about setting a more firm date, because you guys aren't getting any younger. and try not to worry about the two divorces, it was just bad circumstances. the third time is a charm, so they say.\n\nsurround yourself with great music and good books.
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I'd ask you to marry me and come live with me in my parents garage.\nOk I'm kidding.\nOnly time will tell if this guy meant what he said. Most guys who plan on ditching will say exactly what he told you. Thing is, so will a good man.\nIf I was you. I'd assume he's telling the truth until proved otherwise.\nMe personally, I'd stick around and be the kids father. I couldn't bear having some other man raise my child.\n-----\nHi, I see you've added a few comments since I answered. It looks pretty clear to me that he intends to stick around. Just the fact he asked you to marry him before you were pregnant is good enough for me. I say give it a chance. You asked how common it is for a guy to stick around. I don't know the exact answer to that. I can only guess that most 19 year old guys would probably run for the hills. Your case is different though. You've been together for 4 years. I'm saying you're one of the lucky ones who has a good man. I think you should marry your child's father before it's born. New Years Eve is coming up.\n.
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What are you waiting on? The guy is obviously crazy about you. Yes, you will move next year most likely.....so, make it the best 8 or 9 months of your life, until then. Don't waste time wondering. Let him know you're interested! Good Luck!! By the way, he's waiting on your call....pick up the phone, and call him!
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I say leave. A year is not a lifetime, but I think enough time to figure out what you want. He wants to date around and not commit. It seems like you might want more.\n\nIf you stick around, you'll just be a convienance\nand you'll wind up getting more hurt.
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He probably means: "It seems like I can have what I want without getting married, so why should I ever get married?"
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It (probably) means that it wasn't meant to be. You two have lived it up and have produced two lovely children. I'm sure the both of you love them more than life itself. But perhaps that's where it ends...It seems like you have tried everything. Hell, you even went to counseling. Good job on both of your parts. You two want it to work. Maybe you're going through a phase? Maybe you should spice things up a bit. Join a club together, join together in a new sport, go hiking, camping, maybe you could spend less time with each other. Mabe ALL you need is a BREAK. C'mon now...16 years together. THAT tells you something. It cannot just stop like that. Do not give up. There is a reason why the two of you are together. There is a reason why you met, why you got married, why you decided to create children. Reminisce together about the days when you were younger, the crazy things you guys did for each other, the first time you told each other 'I Love you', etc. Do not give up. If it's an attraction/physical thing, work it out (Literally). Get sexy, make him look at you like you're the hottest thing to have walked this earth. It's not over sweetie. I believe in you guys.
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he is afraid of commitment with children. he should be used to the kids by now if youve been with him for 3 years.
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when a man says that, it usually means that he has stuff on his mind at the moment, and needs space. other times the guy just doesn't want to be in a relationship or something, this usually happens when a tragic event happened
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Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
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he probably wants to give you a baby so that you won't be lonely and that way you won't be nagging him. ive heard guys say that before, but the best thing you can do is pray and ask god for guidance cuz you can't always lean on humans for understanding god will give you the answer good luck hun.
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"I want a baby, and I want it NOW!!" Ha! Ha!  My husband is the opposite, he wants a child now but I would like to wait , I am only 20.  We decided to compromise and wait a year or so,(I wanted to wait 5 years).  I don't know what to tell you to tell him!  Maybe you should ask him what his reasons for waiting are??
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I hear you sister!  I really do.  Although his desire to wait is admirable, he has to understand that waiting for too long brings more health risks to you.  Your drive is so strong, and he needs to understand that.\n\nI've said it before, if you wait until you're ready, you will never be ready.  Sometimes you just have to jump in with both feet, and take a chance.\n\nYou may not yet own your own house, but so long as you're in a stable and loving home, with space enough to accomidate an infant for a time, then you'll be fine!  You don't need a big house with a big back yard until your kids are old enough to enjoy the yard, and until you have enough children you'll be too crowded in a small home.\n\nBeyond that, if he still continues to block your suggestions, then I would have to assume that he's simply not ready for children.  He could be afraid of what it could do to the two of you financially, and how it's going to affect your relationship ('cause it will!)  Perhaps he has just a little more growing up to do.\n\nThe best I can suggest is to talk out a contingency plan.  Set VERY specific goals, such as, in B amount of time we will start looking for a house, in C amount of time we will buy a house, in D amount of time we will start trying to have a baby, and if B and C don't pan out within E amount of time, then we move ahead with plan D anyways.\n\nAll the best!
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it might mean something, but might be just a date... be happy as it means he is not ashamed of you and takes you with him... he wants you get involved into hes lives so he would expect be involved to yours too... but it doesn't mean that he is going get you a proposal the next day... just relax and enjoy your time...
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Either he's commitment-phobic or else he expects you to remember what he said about loving you a zillion lightyears ago. Either way, he needs to take responsibility and let you know where you both stand. It looks to me like he's taking the easy way out by having you around but not giving your relationship a name. I've been in something like this. It's not worth it. Unless he's younger than 17, tell him games are for little boys, not men wanting babies and their mama.\nGood luck!