i have known her from sense we were 2yr old. i see here every day at school and i keep my feelings lock up.. what should i do?
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Oh, definately tell her!  Whether or not she feels the same, this is the type of thing you can regret years later if you don't take the courage to tell her how you feel.\n\nThe best ever relationships start out based on friendship.  I hope this works out great for you two!!!
378513
STOP feeling that way....that is wrong... dont spend so much time with her and if need be get some help...
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Run!!!\n\nJK....\n\nI'd definitely try to avoid her, and if it gets really bad, you need to talk to somebody--parents or teachers.  You shouldn't have to go through that at school.
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Try to remember how you felt at age 12.\n\nShe's still a little girl in a lot of ways, but she's in the nether-world of the teenage years.\n\nDrop expecations and build trust. It's important to try to continue to communicate with her. Encourage her, and tell her you love her. \n\nThis is the start of the transition from child to friend - if that is how you look at it, hopefully you'll see the path to take to build friendship with your daughter.\n\nAlso, she actually really needs a dad (not sure if you're dad or mom) and a strong positive male influence in her life. She needs a healthy, trusting friendship with her father to establish healthy non-destructive relationships with men later in life.
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I think you are obsessing about this girl.  It's not uncommon, we all did that...I know I did, boy after boy after boy when I was young!  The reason you can't sleep is you can't find an outlet for your feelings.  The only way to get rid of your restlessness and obsession is to let your feelings out or to act on them.  You know I bet if you were to talk to an adult about this...to a school counsellor, someone you trust to hold your confidence in this matter, they could help you.  Someone who knows you both could actually even pull you together, at least close enough so that you would TALK to this poor girl who is likely clueless to your feelings towards her.  \n\nWhat do you mean it's "a crush on her personality".  That sounds like you really admire her and have a great deal of respect for her, that she has qualities that you either like in a girl or would want for yourself.  Sometimes we obsess with people because we want to be like them.\n\nYou should try to get involved with her somehow, in conversation, in class, in a sport or event.  If all else fails you could write her a letter and tell her your feelings.\n\nJust say, hey, I have to get this off my chest because I can't stop thinking about you and I am very shy, but I think you are terrific.  I don't want you to panic.  I'm not going to stalk you, but I just had to let you know that you are the epitome of a woman and you just had to let her know....something like that where you are not saying I LOVE YOU!!! or making her feel scared or threatened or self-conscious. \n\nYou know even if you write these letters and never give them to her, you will do yourself a favour.  But you can't go on the way you are obviously...so one way or another the story has to end...or begin...the point is something will change when you make a move forward, maybe for the good, maybe for the bad, but at least you won't be "stuck"...which is the worst thing in the world...I know I've been there and sooner or later you gotta take the risk.\n\nYou sound like a really nice boy.  My daughter is goign through this phase in high school and I think girls like it when guys just be themselves and make a move and do anything...like this boy threw leaves in her hair today and she's telling me about it and yesterday he told her she looked goth with her hair the way she styled it...it's little baby steps that get you there...say nice things to girls...they like that...just be yourself as you would with any of your other friends and you're already friends with her brother...so let her see what a great guy you are when you're with him.  You're already IN there...get over that shyness boy! :~)
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Cherish, you have done all that you can do. The best thing you can now is to begin making new friends. I always tell younger people such as yourself to make as many friends in this life as possible, because you never know what around the corner. Hopefully she will wise up and be the friend to you that she was before. But don't  sit around waiting ok. Don't worry your heart will heal.
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You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
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act like you like her.  don't get on her bad side...  just stick it out because there isn't that much time left in the school year anyway. you can probably handle it for 5 hours a week.
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i understand that ur worried.. you have to talk to her and tell her bout ur fears.. ud be surprised to find out she proably has no idea u feel that way.. i know what ur going through.. im 16 and my Bf is 20 and i often feel like the age difference is a big disadvantage..
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If my kid came home with a report card like that, I'd hang it on the fridge. You're to young to be so stressed. Just get it over with and show her. Middle school is tough, hang in there sweetie.
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You might consider talking with her and sharing your concerns. If you aren't satisfied with the way it went, you could ask for some help by getting someone to mediate. \n\nIf all else fails, you might want to take on the approach that its her duty as a teacher to teach and yours as a student to learn. We can't always get along with everyone, even as adults. And sometimes all we can do is try to get through uncomfortable situations that aren't in our control to change.\n\nI do commend you on taking responsibility for your own actions. Kudos for you :)
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Of your apparent situation it’s clear that you still have strong feelings towards this person.\n\nAll said, emotions can't be killed so easily and will keep nagging you till you do something about it.\n\nIn you situation I have two things to say. \n\nFirstly since you're already out of this relationship then there is no point trying to get back into it. At-least for the time being.\n\nSecondly at your stage in life, you're still in school and would only advise you to make your studies your top priority. You'll really enjoy life better if you learn to focus on the right things at the right time. Now is the time to focus on studies and when the time is right you’ll have your fair chances at relationships too.\n\nThe keyword here is ‘Focus’. If you re-focus your attention to studies then you’ll automatically lose focus of the other things around.\n\nHope this helps you in deciding what’s best for you.
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Do you think she might already know/have a feeling? Either way, think with your Heart...then, just say/tell her how you REALLY have felt. Pretty sure if the two of you are this close, Let Your Heart Speak!!!
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don't let her bother you. what grade are you in? eventually everybody matures, and for those that don't, the rest of the kids will realize what a bitc* she is. Just ignore her completely, fly under her radar, but don't do anything that will make her feel like she's controlling you. \n\nJust take it with a grain of salt. Eventually she'll get her commuppins, and you'll be all the better for it. \n\nThis is probably the answer you don't want to hear because it's not easy to do, but the harder things are the more they're worth doing. Good luck.
433513
Ok, this is a sticky one.  Can you put your 'crush buzz' to the side and see the reality of 'what if it can work' set in? It will be national news, everything will blow up.  Can you honestly see her having feelings for you as well? Do you think moving in closer to her would work out for the both of you's or just you? remember she is married for a reason. Here's the good news, you have found someone that has shown you your 'ideal' partner.  What might have got you to have a crush on her is as a teacher it is their job to pay attention and help students reach there goals.  I know your not going to get that with a lot of girls at high school, hey they are young and still learning themselves, maybe you are more mature minded and that's great you have discovered your ideal partner which is a mature, funny, witty and with a great personality.  But as a teacher, not a good thing to do.  Just look at her and thank her in your mind for showing you an ideal partner =)
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Wow. When I think about that happening to me I almost start crying. This is a terrible tradgedy and I think you should avoid the subject. You'll never know how she'll react. When she comes in the class room try not to be extra nice to her or anything. She'll catch on sooner or later. Just act normal around her. That's what I think would be the best thing for her.
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Hey its only 2 grades....and if you really like her then whats the problem.\n\nIts not like she is in the 2nd grade or anything\nThat would be wrong