Ummm.... with regards to the question above I'm not fninshed yet.I wanted to ask on how to get his attention IF I know, and he knows too, that I was the 1st one he loved most of all?
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if you were his first interest then he would be with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
25913
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
99745
Well, you can never ever ever forget your first love...unless you get konked on the head and get amnesia or some such like that. Heh. ^^; Anyway, it's normal to hold your first love higher than the next. You want the next to be just as perfect and wonderful. It is possible that he isn't the right one either, but you shouldn't ruin the relationship you have with him just because the love you feel is different. Best of luck hun! ^^
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Asking him was the best thing you could do.\nBut dont you think its best to satisfy yourself before him?\nI mean do not wait for him, if he doesn't make a move then simply move on to someone who will.\nIts all about self satisfaction, or you'll be stressed forever!!!!\nGOOD LUCK
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It wouldn't be a good idea to do the same, because that would escalate the issue.\n\nAsk him why, talk to him. Tell him how it makes you feel. Maybe he's just doing it to get your attention. Who knows? He's the only one to give you the correct answer.
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I think if you are honest you are looking for reassurance from him that he loves you and it's worth the effort. I'd call it a day, then ket him make the first move. If he rings you in a week begging for you, which he WILL if you leave him be, then think again!!
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Introduce me to him..(twice)
530449
I'm in 1 too...ask him if he still feels the same way...if he does he will create a time 4 u 2 to b together!!  Tell him how YOU feel
31043
The best thing to do is ask him. It never hurts to be in the know.
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
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by letting every one know his feelings 4 u what  do u think
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PLEASE GIVE MORE DETAILS!!! Sorry, but I really try to answer these questions to the best of my ability but it's damn near impossible when it's so vague.  Anyway, with that said, the only adice I can give you is to get yourself calm and relaxed and simply ask him to discuss his feelings toward you as honestly as possible and let him know that it is very important for you to hear about his true feelings.
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That's a no-brainier.Do what you did to get him the first time and keep it up.If you think he still likes you, don't just think it, ask him,don't waste your valuable time on wondering.A yes or no answer is the only thing you should settle for.Even if it's not the answer you want at least you can move forward with your life and not waste if on maybe yes or maybe no.GOOD LUCK. I HOPE YOU FIND HAPPINESS!!!!!!!!!
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Male ego honey, i see what you are searching 4 you need that attention dont you? oh after a year trust me when i tell you honey "HE IS HURTING", its obvious to me you want him, so go get him if he doesnt come running in the next day or 2... oh he loves you ,he just has to play this role honey & you love him two so please stop playing the emotional games!!!! GO GET YA' MAN!!!! STOP PUSHING HIM AWAY, IT WILL BE EASIER TO JUST ASK FOR EXACTLY WHAT IT IS YOU WANT FROM HIM & NOT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH & GOOD LUCK
625751
You know what, he's probably seeing someone else. Maybe thats why he has not been paying any attention to you. Just sit with him and talk to him, if that don't work, then just tell him that you love him all your heart and give him the best moment he ever had.
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I think you just need to come out and tell him how you feel.  Say something like; You know that you were my first love don't you?  Well, after hanging out with you for the past several years, it seems that I still have the same sort of feelings for you.  How do you feel about that?  \n\nIt is ultimately going to be a risk, but think of the reward!  Isn't it worth it if he feels the same way but was too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection like you?  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
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Think about the stress he's going to be under. He will see a lot of things he wished he wouldn't and do things that might stay with him forever. God forbid, but he might get wounded or worse.\n\nI really think you should ask him if he wants to take the lead in this. Would he like to stay in contact with you? Would he understand your feelings of confusion?\n\nSince you aren't in love yet, it seems like you should see how it goes. He might be over there a year before he comes back, and he might or might not have changed in ways neither of you can predict.\n\nI guess the main thing is to establish how you are going to stay in contact, and above all promise that you will be honest with each other in your communications.\n\nGood luck to both of you.