'this' is something that you dread telling your partner, now the question is not what it is but why? \n\nTHANKS
127167
Let's talk, because everytime she said that I knew something was eating at her. And true it was because she thought I was not in love with her anymore which was not true, but then I figured out by accident she wasn't who she claimed to be. I met her online>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
111990
That's a tough situation.  Just tell her "Look there's something I need to tell you that you aren't going to like, but I think you need to know."  I hope she handles it well and doesn't blame you.  Just be honest, talk to her, and be supportive with whatever she decides to do with the information.
642638
Tell her.  Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?
518071
Jojo, I told you not to talk about this with anyone else!!!\n\nWhat do you mean you're not considering it?! That's not what you told me!!
29837
sounds like you shouldnt have asked him in the first place if you are that parinoid about it.  And the best thing to do is just tell him straight up cause leading him on any further would just be wrong.
586348
most likely he was raised  thinking it is normal to  talk about these things... ...... they say for better or worse... welcome to worse....lol... well you can tactfully tell him, that you are uncomfortable discussing these details, and if that don't work,  when you get your menses , give him a play by play.. that will  hopefully  wake him up...
189567
This is a very delicate quiestion. So please be vary careful in saying it, meanwhile it is only fare if you tell him about it! He deserves to know it...
543716
its not really something you can think about cause then it kinda just ruins it\nbut its not as scary as it sounds i mean yeah of course its not scary. but dont be scared of doing something wrong, take your time and enjoy it yourself\n\ngood luck♥ im sure hell love it
166156
it's just one of those things...don't over think it or you will convince your self that you don't love him when you do. if you really feel uncomfortable saying it then maybe your not, but if sometimes you just feel moved to tell him all sorts of warm mushy things, then you probably are.
83997
wow! if one is asking that question or concerned about that then they dont truly know the one they are loveing. If thats the case close shop and carry on.
32206
From what it sounds like, you are either insecure with your relationship and your position in his life, or you, deep down, want out of the relationship, so you ask questions that will in effect cause him to break things off, so you don't have to.
70349
i once told someone i totally hate that her partner is the best guy ever, go ahead and marry him, while he's actually full of rubbish (alcoholic, jobless, rude to women, liar, sexist, etc etc). i regret it though coz she has a miserable life now, but the advice not only coming from me.. so it wasnt totally my fault =)
246197
Me: (hands shaking, been trying to do this for weeks, been practically giving myself ulcers, so so nervous) Well there is something that I've been meaning to tell you and I'm sorry that it took this long for me to say it.  Maybe I should have said it sooner, but I can't take it back now... Diana is not my friend, she's my girlfriend, we've been together for almost two years now.\n\nMom: yeah, and?\n\nMe: And I'm bisexual\n\nMom: Well duh.  I'm not stupid.  (rolls eyes)  You two are just terrible at hiding it.  Every time she looks at you, you practically swoon and you hold hands under the table when you think no one is watching.  It's just about the most disgustingly cute thing I've ever seen.  \n\nMe: (long pause)  oh.  Well then.  So everything is ok?\n\nMom: Yeah (duh tone of voice).  Do you think we should have chicken ceaser salads for dinner?  Or maybe we should grill fish...
59961
I wouldn't answer that type of question if it's asked by someone I don't know that well!  There are somethings I prefer to keep to myself!!!!  If that's the way you feel, don't answer...let them know you don't share that kind of information!  It IS okay to tell them it's none of their business but, there's no need to be rude about it to them.  : )
566826
lying is bad... it makes your conscience go away after awhile... I'm lying about an affair!! that is like a double no-no I know but it somehow just ...well..happened... ok that's a lie... it happened because I wanted it to as well as the other person. i did at one time feel guilty and bad about it now ( 9 months into it) i don't at all!!! it's ok to lie to a little kid...when they will not understand the truth...no honey your hermit crab is just a sleep.....oops! other than that I do not lie /.........................i have no reason to
36436
this guy i was dating: i was "Dangerously In Love" with him,but all he could think about was my "Humps", so "Hypothically" he said "Wait", i only have "4 Minutes" so baby let me tell you about my "One Wish",i said no because i dont want to hear from no "Scrub", and from someone who thinks hes a "Hustler". so to end this conversation i told him that im going to just "Shake It Off".......
564123
none-this is my secret addiction - Am afraid to tell anyone I am on here!