I am going to meet a girl for the second time on wednesday and If you read my other question "IS THIS LOVE" you will get the story behind this but ineed help on what to say to her your recomendations will be greatally apreciated\nThank you\nCountry Boy
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Be a friend, act as if nothing happened at the dance and be yourself! Ask her about sports, plays, music, current events. And if you want to be spontaneous talk about the weather. That should make her laugh:)
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First of all, thank you for using spell check and forming complete sentences with actual words.  So many of the teenagers who ask questions write in such a way that the adults have no idea what it is they want.\n\nHave you ever spoken to this girl before?  If not, start NOW, before it is two days to the dance.  Find out some things about her.  If she thinks you are only asking her because she is beautiful, she'll think you're a jerk.  If you are genuinely interested in who she is and what she is about, you have a much better chance.  \n\nIf you already know a few things about her, use those in conversation.  Don't walk up to her and say "hey, would you go to the farewell dance with me" because you'll put her on the spot.  If she already has a date, she'll have to turn you down right then and there and make you feel bad.  Start a conversation with her.  Maybe tell her you like her outfit and that your sister's birthday is coming up and you'd like to get the same top for your sister, where'd she get it.  Or ask her for some suggestions for Mother's Day gifts.  Or if she has a dog, ask her about her dog.  People with dogs love to talk about them.  Start off with just a casual chat, like with one of your friends.  That will make it easier for both of you. Then once you're talking, you can ask her if she's going to the dance.  This way, if she already has a date, you will know it beforehand and save yourself the discomfort of asking and being told no.  \n\nGood luck.  I hope she says yes and that you have a great time.
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How about, \nI was just wondering what you are doing later, or if you have a class with her say, do you understand what is going on in...insert subject here.  Or you can try the old, my God you are the most beatiful girl here, could I take you out sometime...good luck, let me know how it goes, The 8 ball has a good feeling about this!!!
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wow, calm it down turbo.\n\nwhat if her voicemail isn't working? what if she had a crazy week and couldn't call you back?\n\nleave a message with the date plans and tell her you can't wait to see her then.\n\ndon't be a spaz and overthink it too much.
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Keep it casual or cute...\n\nCASUAL:\nHey (after school), ya doing anything cool this weekend? (if the answer is no, say something like...) me neither. Wanna go see a movie? (afterwards, she might kiss you or vice versa, usually thats what happens)\n\nCUTE:\nThis is what girls usually do, but guys can do it too I guess... write a note saying 'want to go out this weekend?' and put to check boxes saying yes or no. Write your number on the back or something, locker number or I dunno... whatever!\n\nOr burn her a CD with some nice songs that she hasn't heard of named something like ' I really like you' , 'can you feel the love tonight' etc. and make sure you write down these songs on the back of the cd case. When she reads it, she'll get the message.\n\nWHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT FORGET TO SAY 'ITS A DATE!' AS SOON AS YOU RUSH OFF TO TELL YOUR FRIENDS OR WHATEVER GUYS DO AFTER THEY GET A DATE WITH THE GIRL THEY LIKE
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Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.
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rekindle that spark BE ROMANTIC not just average you want this to work! Go above and beyond i'm talking movie romantic. if she rejects that sorry. But good luck
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The next time you see him, give him a hug and kiss him. He obviously wants that to happen because he asked you back out. I also think that you two should have a talk about what each of you is feeling and what feels appropriate to do/say.
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Well I am a girl, so I have experience with this. Hint that you are going to ask her BEFORE you do it!! Just say something like "hey I have something important to ask you later" This prepares her so she kind of knows whats going to happen. Then talk to her FACE-TO-FACE!! This is really important because it shows her that you care and will not be awkward with her if she says yes. Girls are always afraid of losing a friend or making it "wierd" between them.
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Ok Evan, \nHeres what I would do. Use one of your common interest, and go play golf or do whatever theyou both would enjoy. just spend the day wiht her, see what she likes and dislikes, like flowers movies ect. then when you feel like you have a better understaning of who she is and what she like, take her somewhere special, bring her flowers and tell her how you feel. If you take the time to get to know her she will most likely respond better to you! Not to mention probably be impressed with the time you took to rally understand her. Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!\n\nSincerely\nDelivered_won
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Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
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Next time, assuming that you get another chance like this, kiss her.  What's the worse thing that could happen?  A slap in your face?  What's the best thing that could happen?  A possibility for a new friendship to develop.  If this were a horse race, I would bet my money on the kiss.
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"Jennifer, would you like to eat lunch with me in the quad?"\n\nAsk her about herself - best book, CD, movie she's read/heard/seen in the last month or two, her hobbies, her family, etc. If you find things to talk about, ask her to eat lunch with you again. After two or three lunches, ask her out for pizza and a movie. You don't have to hire a limo and a tux for a first date. Keep is simple.
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hi iam here to answer ur question.\nif u tell her that u will meet\nher some where i think it is a\ngood idea cuz going in the bus just \ndoesnt sound right . and when \nu ask her explain that u dont \ndive and neither is she so that would\nsound more acceptable .\nlike going out with her in a bus\nthat is funny .ok sorry abt that\ni hope my answer helps.
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OK, Andy, first off, the next time she calls you Andy say thanks for the compliment but my name is Ryan.  Then compliment her about whatever it is that caught your eye about her.  Ask her if you can walk her to Science......keep your spirits high and don't be afraid to speak.  You will never know unless you SPEAK MORE THAN ONE WORD AT A TIME!!!
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show her that  you wouldn't take things so seriously if y'all went out again. \nHow? i have no idea, but be discreet about it. \ni don't think it's a bad thing that you like her.\nYour in a tough situation.\n\ngood luck
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sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!