ok, heres the scenario. if im sittin in the movies and i put my arm around her and she lays my head on her shoulder, should i kiss her? if so, should i use toungue? if were sittin ont he couch and she scoots right up next to me and we are cuddling, is this a good time to kiss with toungue?
129531
if you've never kissed her before, i'd leave out the toungue for now. kiss her a few times before going that far, and i don't mean in a row. spread it out a little. then when you think she is comfortable with that, go for a little more but don't take it to fast. most girls don't like that. if she tries to use toungue first then ya go for it. good luck and have fun.
285517
Tell just the truth! You know... "I like you, and if you like me too, I treat you a drink again" or "a coffee" or something like this.\nIf you understand that she likes you, KISS HER and there are two possibilities: she will either slap you or kiss you back!!!\nGOOD LUCK and I wish she kisses you back!
334522
Maybe she just thinks that if yous start making out it'll lead to sex and maybe she just doesnt feel like having sex. Just let her know all you wanna do is kiss "causse it makes you feel more connected to her". Or maybe your just a bad kisser, i'd try the first and if its a no-go then i'd consider the second. Goodluck.
443023
If by date, you mean one night event, hmmm....I've always been a sap for sitting under the stars and cuddling...but it would really depend on the relationship between you and her, and the weather. If it makes her uncomfortable to be with you alone in a secluded place (even if she REALLY likes and trusts you,) don't push it. It's hard to answer you question without knowing how close you are or your age. I think it'd be nice to get away from something like going to the movies to something more interactive between the two of you, like bowling, but JUST you two, no other friends, or just going people watching in a busy place, holding hands, sipping on a malt or pop, etc. Something that involves only both of you, but is interactive. Restaurants ARE nice, but very cliche. BUY FLOWERS, or even better, PICK HER FLOWERS. We love that. Even better than jewelry unless all she's looking for is gold and money and people to acknowledge her wealth.
295569
You should all wear neck braces like Joan Cusack does in the movie, and THEN try to kiss.   Ha ha.  Sorry.
484151
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
76396
Keep it closed mouth.  Just let your lips slide against hers, stay for a few seconds, and then slowly back away.  It's sweet yet will leave a tingly feeling in her stomach.  Good luck!
534910
Just lean in for the kiss and go with the flow.....she might already know how to kiss so just follow her lead!
640593
i don't think you need an excuse. if she is sitting and you are getting up to leave, just bend over and kiss her forehead saying she is a sweet girl. nice kisses like that don't need permission. same for kisses on the hand. the surprise is enjoyable, no matter what they say.
340335
LIKE I said in my previous answer.\n\nIf you are single and a girl is gazing into your eyes as you are about to leave the normal thing to do would be to kiss her. \n\nIf she isn't just taking off that means she wants something.\n\nDo you get it now??
353119
She like you. She's trying to show you that she's interested. Read the signs. She wants you otherwise she wouldn't have taken the risk by lying her head on your shoulders. Next time she does that massage her head and make a move...perhaps a romantic passionate kiss.
26012
I think you should offer her a seat.\nYou're entitled to your fantasies.  Why would it be wrong?  Should you stop?  Nuh.  Go take a minute & enjoy it  ;-)\nIf she has any sense at all, she'll have no problem whatsoever with any guy going HEAD first....\nMen are like donuts... all the better w/ a little glaze on em\n24 hour breakfast buffet, babe\nALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT YOU WIN
165378
Are you sitting in a car or at a show? or are you standing up? Sitting down, slip your arm behind her back and shoulders. Usually the other hand is around her midriff. Some place their hand on her face and chin. If your standing, she will probably put her arms around your neck and then your arms will go behind to her back and shoulders. Caress her softly, pull her close aggressively and  tell your hands to stay away from her butt and boobs for now.
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i think at the very least a date should end with a peck on the cheek. But if the date went very well the a full kiss might be appropiate. Just dont rush anything. I have kissed a girl on the cheek and then she turned around and gave me a full kiss. I asked her why, and she said she like the way i didnt rush anything.
625615
You are so shy!  Just give her a kiss on the cheek the next time you see her - in front of everyone.  If you still feel uncomfortable then do it when you say "goodbye".  Obviously you two DO have feelings for each other, though it may not be clear yet what they are.  That's OK and a kiss can't hurt.
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How does she say it? does it sound like she means it?or do you provoke her into saying it,does she say it with a hug,kiss.does she say it around her friends and or family if so she probably does if not maybe its total B-S.but on the other hand i'm not there and i dont know her or your relationship so no one online can help you with that..
1981
The key is eye contact. You need to find a quiet moment when your sitting close and look into her eyes. If she looks back into yours then slowly move in for the goods. If she stays put then you pretty much got the green light. If for some reason things don't go as planned just say how pretty she looked and you just felt a need to kiss her. Then maybe say something like it was dumb of you to think she'd want to kiss a guy like you. Never underestimate the power of pity!\nGood Luck!