My best friend told me that she loves her professor at college and she becomes almost mad about it so she asked me some advice. I don't know what to tell her because even if the man is nice I think it's not permitted at college for a professor to be with a student and vice versa. Can you help please?
119532
Tell her to find someone more available/accessable.
447443
Hey....how old are you?Dont worry there are a lot of fishes in the ocean...you might not know this guy will date another girls but in the end he'll bump at you and soon he will realize that you are most prettiest gal in the campus....\nWhat does your friend told you about that guy?who knows that guy wants to get close with that friend of your because he wants to know about you...not that really wants to be your friend's partner....do you get me?dont worry...
353671
well on one hand you do have a point but think about it, if her bf is a junior and she's a freshman dont you think that they should go? because if they stay together for a real long time he will graduate and by the time she's a junior he wont be around to go with her to her ball so let her enjoy it now when she's with him she deserves to have fun too. and your friend will probably ask her to go with him if he's going because its his gf and I'm sure he would like to spend more time with her and he probably thinks that this is a romantic way for them to get closer and deeper in the relationship he's not gonna ask someone else to go with him if he has his gf and I'm sure he likes her enough to take her is he's going.
197466
You're in a pickle. In the future, ask someone if you can trust him/her to keep a secret before telling the person a secret. Of course it's wrong to have a BB gun and real guns on campus. SO if the important person was the principle, you did the right thing, and the troublesome guy shouldn't be a friend of yours. Relax, find a better guy to be friends with, now that the trouble maker is out of the way.
188541
I have been to college myself. I never heard of Kissology (the study of kisses) 101. that is pretty funny, but maybe he is right.  Did you know that kissing can be considered a sexual act within itself?  After I read that, I stopped kissing around.  (I am so giggly right now, i have got to go.)
187411
I had several roommates in college, but only one I didn't get along with.  He was the kind of person who expected you to make sacrifices for him, but he would never return the favor.  I didn't have to do much with him, because he moved out a couple of weeks into the semester.\n\nOne thing you might try is to talk to your roommate about the behaviors that drive you up the wall.  You should be respectful when addressing these items because people are more likely to respond positively when they're treated with respect.  Also, you may want to find out if anything you do irritates her, and you and she can negotiate a compromise.  I hope this helps.
186123
Yeah...these things happen a lot between friends...\nOne real friends shouldn't be jealous of one another because their college is better.\nTwo friends shouldn't ditch eachother like that... Three:Friends shouldn't forget eachother!\nAbout going to play pool...it's ok 2 reject it. I know that the last thing we want to happen between friends is fighting...I actually was in a fight with my bestfriend, but she said she didn't want to be my friend anymore but i was really sad....At first she started ignoring me a little bit..then a lot...so i decided to ask her what's wrong...then she told me\nthe reasons..i thought those reasons were not even worth to lose a friend. But it was her opinion so i had to go with the flow..her parents adored me very much and loved me like a daughter and when they found out we weren't friends anymore they were so sad....so we didn't talk to eachother 4 about 2 weeks or so...those were the 2 longest week of my life...then one day she couldn't take it anymore and she felt\n so guilty...she decided to say sorry and asked if i wanted to be friends again...i accepted her apology and it was great 2 be friends again...But unfortunaely she moved to Georgia now and i miss her very much...we still stay in contact, but not much...\nJust talk 2 them and tell them about the times they ditched u and ask them How they would feel if someone did that 2 them....I wish the best for u and ur friends!!
197513
I have been friendly with many of my students, but do not consider them my friends. I think that if students come and visit you when they no longer are your student, and even when they go off to college, they can be considered friends. But I do not think that teachers and students are really friends when one holds the responsibility of a grade in their hands.  Relationships (healthy relationships) that continue after those roles are completed can be quite fulfilling.
557799
I have to agree with your friend. College is hard enough without having to deal with the drama of a relationship. Focus on your studies for now. Relationships come and go, but friends are friends for life. Besides, you may be surprised at what might come out of that freindship.
77449
It was insensitive for her to say that. Going off to college is a huge step and its understandable to have feelings of worry and loss as it is. Adding additional emotions during such a time is hurtful, but forigveable. Talk to her and let her know how hurtful you found the comment. Apologizing and getting feelings across is essential (she'll be around a long time mind you) and it may help her to realize why you took action the way you did.
474547
Yes, it happens all the time.  You are at a mature age. Of course you know that sometimes students have "crushes" on their teachers and if this is your first time, don't worry, it will pass.  Don't take advantage of the situation because  this is only an infatuation.  Guide her . Don't be rude about it but at the same time, don't  mistake it as "love" and don't encourage her to go  beyond what is decent,  Avoid situations in which you are left alone with he student. These are only kids, and they need guidance.   When she grows up, she will be thankful to you for being the "wise" teacher that you were.
234707
Ask yourself if you really love him. if so, think of what's best for him.it sounds like he is being unfair to the person he married.i pity her...he is simply using her to fill his needs while clinging on to you. he's not mature enough to make any lifetime commitment. if you realy care for him, help him become a better person. help him love the person he has married by not getting in the way.\n\ni suggest you tell him the truth. call a spade a spade. lay down the cards. hopefuly that will open his eyes.  and then do what you want like changing your number and disappearing from him.\n\nthis is also what's best for you. the mere fact you prioritized your college shows you're mature enough. you deserve some one who loves you and not merely needs you, and who does not confuse loving you and needing you.\n\nthis is painful but this is what is truthful. good luck.
446220
Crushes fade, perhaps you dont have a lover. Perhaps you are overwhelmed by your feelings for this guy, because he is being friendly. Maybe you are  lonely, i don't know. What i think is that if you tell him, he will tell his other mates and you may get hurt. Take care of yourself, whatever you decide. If you have to go to this college, and the fact that you are hesitant about telling him, may leave you very vulnerable if he is not accepting of the way you feel right now.
518163
I am an actual professor, and unless the student has a history of slacking and then trying to suck up, I don't assume that their intent is bad.  Anything specific you can say would help ("I never thought I would find Victorian literature interesting, but your lecture on Joseph Conrad's work made me so curious that I bought Heart of Darkness to read over vacation.")  That shows that you actually listened to what she said in class.  Most people get far too little thanks for the work that they do, and I'm sure that your professor will appreciate anything you might say.
341698
Whether you go out with her is ultimately your choice, but if you choose to go out with her, wait until after the semester is over, which isn't too long at this point. My reason for say this is that it will make your teacher/student relationship really awkward. Think about this too: if you get good grades and it gets out that you're dating your teacher, everyone will say that you have a grades for sex kind of thing going on. On the other hand, if you two have a big conflict or something, you don't want her having power over your grades if she chose to get some sort of revenge.
352525
Tell them to stop being losers and grow up. Let them know that in high school, it's not uncommon for a senior to date a freshman. And at least you have a girlfriend. Can they say the same?
407040
It's ok to think that...but why do you feel the need to tell the professor that??  If you think she wouldn't find it funny, don't share that thought with her!