I have heard that the women there are prostitutes and only looking to get to the states and I have known and seen this happen to many of the people I know where the women come here and use the men for sex and/or money and then leave.  I have known at least 10 people this has happened to and know someone else that is going and he is afraid to fly never been out of his hometown and spent 1500.00 for a ticket to supposedly only meet this person who is supposedly 14 years his junior
129127
I've been there and yes, there are many many women just looking to get to the USA.   I wouldn't say they are all prostitutes or even that they are all looking for the ticket to the USA.   \n\nThere are people that do fall in love and getting married and coming to the USA is just the natural progression.
238626
Sure there are girls that will marry for money so someone can stay in the country.  I know someone who did this.
447395
IT is true some countries the women are desperate.I went to Myanmar and some very lovely young women were working there butts off for less than 2 US dollars a day. Get one from Myanmar some have never seen  white man in thier lives and it will bring joy to thier families to say there daughter is in America. Go there meet some poor ladies and sweepthem off there feet. I saw many beautiful maids and worker there that would gladly marry you for no money at all.
628209
thats a really good question. i have wondered the exact same thing. i personally believe that these people are probably getting their food for free because of the fact that they choose to stay there for hours without food. i was surprised last week when those ladies walked out of the restaurant. they are probably just people solicited off the streets. who knows?
404211
I never heard of this before, but I would be very cautious and careful with this, as it smells very fishy and bogus.  Being of Russian ethnicity myself, I can tell you all you need to know about them phony Russian mail order bride services that only serve to rip off gullible men and land these Russian "con-artists" a U.S. passport at the gullible man's expense.  This scam you mention sounds like that Nigerian crap that asks for a bank account to transfer money to.  If you have a copy of the original email, you can forward it to the proper authorities, because this is a crime and the FBI will investigate it.
444791
I have been, and I complied. They didn't find anything of course. While I don't like the idea, the people at the airport have all the power. Bucking their power-trip will get you into all kinds of trouble, because they are acting legally, however despicably.
77158
I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
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Agree with the people above.  Sounds an awful lot to me like a married (or seriously involved) man who is stringing you along for sex on the side.  I know it is painful, but you need to cancel this trip, get over him, and move on.  Time for a clean break.
378127
Suuure they were. They didn't say they used overdrawn credit cards because it would really be embarrassing for Visa. Plus Hoffa. Who is working out a movie deal with those people in California. Bad part is the 50 year old bimbo he was with, in the leopard print blouse and tight fitting pants? Left side of the photo? Well ... the photo may sour the deal. Not to mention any other extended family member. Let's face it. Riding around in a purple 1959 Caddy with a broad like that isn't going to fail to get attention.Plus - she's a Fed!
202524
I don't know what article you read, probably propagana for whatever purpose the writer only knows. I'm over 40 years old, and out of all the people I've ever met in my entire lifetime, maybe 1 or 2 had a million dollars in savings. I've probably met almost a million, and the ones that had a million, were driving in their car past me. (if I ever did meet anyone with a million, I didn't know it).
430121
Please do not go giving any of your personal details on here. It is dangerous and there are a lot of nasty people out there waiting for peeps like you. Don't wanna scare yer, just want to make you aware ok?
133339
I did not read any of the links, but I would like to know what your point is, really.  I can't believe you think it is a good thing -- or a trivial thing -- to so warp a child's life.  Making it a monetary fine, of whatever amount, is tantamount to making all little children into prostitutes!  And slave prostitutes, at that, since they wouldn't even get the money themselves!!!\n\nThis is really bizarre, and I'm looking forward to your explanation.  I'm not going to follow all those link, and neither is anyone else, I'm guessing.  Or maybe one or two of them, but not all.
68494
It is sad, but in reality they are being attracted for a reason. Nobody forces the government to give them money and assistance. Illegal aliens do not make US laws and policy. Also, the businesses that hire them are never punished adequately. As far as legal entry, the costs are exorbant and the process takes years. It easy to see why someone would take the easy route.
211631
Totally agree. The real world isn't the real world at all, and Luguna Beach is far from real. On the real world, i never once heard ne one mention one bill, and LB was just about a bunch of rich spoil sluts sleeping around with other people's bfs and then calling it drama.
215290
Ok, the people saying that they rape Iraqi women are just plain wrong.  This DOES NOT HAPPEN.  AT ALL.  Their people get pissed if we so much as talk to or look at their women.  I once saw a woman damn near get beaten down because she approached us.  Given their culture, prostitutes don't exist over there.  I'd heard of some army guys going gay, but never heard of it in the Marines.  We pretty much dedicated an entire room to *pleasuring* oneself.  Go in, lock the door, enjoy yourself, and come back out and let the next guy in line go.  As far as sex with women soldiers, I guess it's possible, but if they get caught, they'd probably get NJP'd with everything the UCMJ could throw at them.
602008
I used to work on the railways and had to check the tickets of the people before they boarded their train.  They had to pass through the booth I was working in.  As you can imaging lots of people may well have had tickets that wern't legit or were out of date ot that they had modified in some way, so not everyone liked to show me their ticket to closely!\nBut the worst people of all were not the young kids, or those scruffily dressed, it was the smartly dressed people, the men wearing a shirt and tie and suit, they were by FAR the worst.  They always thought that they were above me and used to talk down to me, and one man said that I was a nothing and this was the best job I could get.  \nSo when I used to find a "posh" person with an invalid ticket, or a ticked that had been altered in some way, I cant tell you the pleasure that gave me to book them!\nIn fact 70% of all prosecutions were given to people in the legal profession!  These people got a criminal record for fare evasion often for less than £1 (or $2)!
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Most if not all of those extra men are related to them. I know sexual abuse within the family happens, but there is no reason to assume it happens among all illegal aliens.