me and my friend r  cool but i like this guy and she has an idea that i do but she is going out whith him me and him r really cool we talk to each other and he is really nice to me\nbut should i tell my bf that i like him way before she did or just stay quite or tell her i really need some inviced
133572
I think that yu should wait until they break up, if that takes too long tell you friou end how you feel
675880
If she is truly happy with the other guy, you should not tell her.  Find someone else.\n\nHowever, if she is just trying to make you jealous, tell her you like her.  You are wasting valuable time!
453348
The one that you love do not love you..Sadly..But she cant said it to you directly because she dont want you to be hurt. I believe she's a good person because although she has a bf she still ahve time to talk to you and befriend you..I know now why you love her. If you are still willing to be there for her, then stay as her true friend, who knows maybe someday she will see you and realize that you should be the one for her..Am i right?But dont hope too much, it will just make you cry at the end if she could not really have a feelings for you.Just think that its not her fault if she could not have feelings for you, always think that, because loving is not pushing yourself to the person you want to have, but loving is giving your best for the good interest of the one you love, being always there and still loving her although she's not feeling the same way.
381431
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
377879
if u ever want to go out with him people will know that u like him. If u really think he likes u and that u two have shot then tell him. But if your not ready to tell people how u feel then do nothing. its your choice. good luck
542378
When your friend lets you hang around with her and bf it's not right to try to entice him from her.Btetter stick with your own bf as you'll get a bad name if your other friends can't trust you
317176
I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
641729
first off NEVER EVER like the same person ur bf likes... make sure that she is over him. tell her first that you like him and make sure that if you do like him that it wont hurt yalls relationship at all. even though your shy if you really like him, just get him alone and tell him.. it wont hurt anything.. and tell him you dont want to act weird around eachother but u just had to let him know, cuz i mean it could lead to nothing, or it could lead to a great romance
377646
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
170995
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
520969
if you are genuinly interested in this guy then tell him, but dont start anything untill you and your bf have broken it off. cheating is not kewl.  \nJust hang with the bro and be friends, see what comes of it.
301993
I think honesty is the key. If you like him you should talk to your friend first. If you don't tell him that you don't really care for him, but you know someone that does. Lead him on, maybe he'll get interested in your friend!! Set up a blind date for the two, hopefully it will go well!
88982
well since she's ur best friend u can tell her anything right? tell her dat u like this guy then the both of u figure out a solution to this problem together. if she decides to 'bac off' then tell him u like him.
663413
All is fair in love and war, my friend. If you realllllly like this girl, you need to tell her. Let her decide what she wants because there is nothing worse than chasing after someone who does not want to be caught or is happy with her current boyfriend. Chances are she likes you, too. \nWhat's more important? Your friendship with her or with him?
562269
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
172265
If it is complicated for you to tell your bf how you feel then you should keep things the way they are and not risk loosing a friendship..Time will only tell if she has these same feelings for you or not..
206582
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.