That,s because I am really shy so I can not make any speech.
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Well my friend, looks like you and I are on the same boat. Haha...we're screwed. But really though....I think if you just keep up a long term friendship eventually something will happen.
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if you cant talk to them because your shy, why not write to them instead. explain how you feel and how you would like to get to know them better if they would to as well. see what reply you get and good luck.
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you feel that way maybe because you are not completly confident on how good you are a singing. evaluate yourself, if you think you sing pretty good, you dont have to be shy at all, so if everybody tells you that you sing very good, that's all you need to throw that shyness away and forget about it.
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You talk and talk and talk, and somehow manage to say nothing at all.
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You may have damaged your vocal chords.  I'm sure if someone lost their vocal chords it could cause muteness.  People who have have a tracheotomy talk through an electronic box...
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I had been shy but I am not shy now yet, I am quiet like you so being shy is different from being quiet. I think when you have not something to talk and do not talk you are not shy and you can call yourself absolutely normal. but it sometimes occurs to me(us) that I want to start conversation with a stranger (or even a familiar person) but I can not. I think these times I am afraid not to have a good impact on him/her and be rejected. this fear is because of low self esteem  which roots in painful experiences in the past(you may remember when expressed yourself, they laughed at you).\nNow, I hope these tips be helpful for you:\n1-in such situations where you want to start a conservation, remind yourself that the pain of rejection is far less than the pain of regret. \n2-try to be a starter. do not wait for others to make conservation. I think, being a starter requires social skills which you may have not enough of it. but, the only way to acquire skills is experience .you would fail in some of these experiences and it hurt you but remember; "NO PAIN, NO GAIN".\n3-Read some books about "First Impressions". they help you to rise your self esteem.\n4-do not label yourself as shy. when you repeatedly say "I am shy" accordingly you will act like a shy person.\n5-Look at talkative persons. they usually do not care about what they say and what the effect is.I think it is better not to be too much worried about our expressions.
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im sometimes shy,\nand u canget over it!
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I tend to talk slow with a lower voice. I dad once told me people who talk fast have nothing to say.
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Just relax and let it flow.  Give her time to talk also.  Don't try to fill up every empty second with jabber.\n\nIf you can't overcome your nervousness, just look at her and say "When I am with you I get so nervous I can't talk".  I believe that would probably impress her to no end.  You aren't getting anywhere like you are, so try it.  IF it doesn't work, what have you lost?   The best of luck.   Pops
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I KNOW THIS CAN BE EMBARRASSING, MY SON HAD THIS PROBLEM THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE THAT PRODUCE TO MUCH SALIVA. YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR I'M SURE YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF. I DON'T KNOW YOUR PERSONALTY, BUT MY SON WAS VERY SHY. PLEASE TALK TO A DOCTOR...GOOD LUCK
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well, i too am very shy, but i began to be able to talk to guys more when i just relaxed and acted like myself, instead of acting how i thought they would like.
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Although I can't speak for anyone other than myself, not me.
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relax and be urself. u will feel less shy later
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omg I'm quiet and shy too! People think I'm a snob and that I think I'm too good for them. One of the reasons they do that is because I dont smile. I know its hard, people tell shy people to just go up and talk to someone but its not that easy. I would try talking more to your friends (that would help you not to be as quiet and show people that you can talk to other people as well) thats what I am working on now. Good Luck!
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may be is shy person!
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too shy if u ask me. why dont u talk to him about it? he is the only 1 who can answer this question 4 u
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i have almost exactly the same problem. what i'm trying to do is to be more talkative and loud around my friends so that i get comfortable with it, then i hope i'll be more talkative in general, even with people who arent my really good friends.