I'm 23- and i've been working out since 3 years now.. All the guys around me say that i got a body worth dying for.\nThough i don't think it's that much of a big deal having a well built body.. except when i look at myself in the mirror after showering ;)\n\nI give my body an 8.5/10\nmy face.. not so great looking.. a 6/10\nBut anyway- i just wanted to know how much of a difference this would make for getting a date?\nbtw.. I can't dance for nuts.. cuz everything's so stiff.\nGirls help me out here.. is having a good body that important for guys.. or a really attractive face?
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it makes a hell of a diff..alot of women are visually stimulated by a muscular or healthy lookin man...and the better looking physicaly the less attractive ur face has to be..but if you are lookin for a certain type of woman it all depends on where u look..clubs and bars supply the type of woman that will want u for ur looks and all,but other places like libraries and regular parties are full of women that look for a man w/more than a body
114176
Depends... My girlfriend had a six-pack and it looked cool. Muscle shape and definition is not a problem, it usually looks good. Muscle VOLUME would be a problem. I wouldn't date a woman with an arm circumference bigger than mine, for example.
122824
Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!
198029
Actually, every guy that I know (who isn't a womanizer) likes a little bit of softness!  And to tell you the truth, the only women I know who don't have a little lump are competitive athletes... and even then some of them do!  So be proud of your body and keep active and eating healthy!  Besides, I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want to date a man who was dating me for my body!
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Hi! This ones for the guys! There's nothing sexier than a man in a black muscle shirt...and he doesn't need to be bulky...if you know what I mean! Too much muscle is unattractive in my opinion. I love average build...think john Stamos! Got it?
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The media portrays an acceptable girl as perfect.  Models are way too skinny for the most part, and when you see some of the celebrities such as Jessica Simpson with no flaws in her body as it would appear you have to live up to that.\n\nI personally have never felt comfortable with someone who tries to make themselves perfect.  I'm not perfect, and I don't think there's a lot of men who are.  Those who are vain enough to spend that amount of time on themselves are working around a different mental limitation.  But deep down inside I wish I spent yesterday working out so I'd look better today even though I know that would do no good.\n\nSee if you can break the mold and just be healthy and comfortable with yourself.
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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Sure you are pretty and even though you don’t want to hear about the inside pretty the boys don’t only look at the outside they look at the inside too. How could people on this site tell you that you are not pretty, as you do not have a picture of yourself up? And even if you did it might not be a good one and some people do not photograph as well as others but that does not mean they are just as pretty as the other. As the saying goes - God made you the way you are and he don’t make no junk. There are plenty of girls that are not pretty that get lots of boyfriends and don’t you settle for someone beneath your standards. It’s really nothing to worry about, you are what you are and make the most of it.♫
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girls can look just fine if they have a six-pack as long as its not like over toned like you would want a guy to have.. like it can look good cuz my friend/cousin has one and shes prolly 5'5'' or so and like 125 pounds.. so yeah good luck with that.. im sorry but i dont know of any workouts..
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be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
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You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
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I think you should go with what you are interested in.  If you don't wnat a woman who is into the same thing as you then don't do it.\n\nI can't talk for every woman here...but...\n\nI don't get turned off by a very muscular man... I get turned off when all he can talk about is working out and the stuff involved with that. \n\nBut I think that if you find someone you like and they aren't interested in the body building...and they like you...go for it.\n\nIMO
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If you do level 5 gymnastics I don't envision you as being a skin and bones.  You must be in great shape so I don't think you should worry about it.  Plus, you have to eat a lot to have enough energy to do what you do.  You just burn it off while doing your flips and stuff.  I don't think any guy would have a problem with dating a 5'6 , 96lbs gymnast.
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Okay.....I'm not a guy but I was tempted to answer this question. Just wanted to tell ya you're beautiful in your own way. Just because you suffer from a medical condition doesn't make you any less beautiful than you are. You're fine and you shouldn't worry about it. Let a man appreciate you for YOU and not your body. Oh and to answer your question, I've asked this question to my guy friends many times, not that I'm overweight or anything but just out of curiosity. And they said, they would rather prefer meat over bones. I hope I've answered your question.
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My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
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Most guys prefer a girl with some meat on her bones. It really doesn't matter how much you weight, it depends on how you are proportioned. I'm only 5'2 and weigh about 130, so your not much bigger than me. But there was a time when I only weighed 103 pds and i looked horrible. My boyfriend says your not fat until your tummy is bigger than your breasts. :0)
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Be happy with what God gave you. Why modify your body to appeal to a particular guy. That is crazy. Enjoy what you have and be happy with no plastic surgery. I like girls with a booty. My wife has a good one. It is all muscle and stands up all by itself. \n You see so many women who look good in jeans, but when they wear a swim suit, it hangs to the back of their knees. Gross.