why is love making people go crazy and the thought about it it hurts as hell y oh y?
119107
You fall in love because of pheromones, it is initially just lust. It hurts then when you try and make your relationship work after the lust has worn off and one or both of the people involved aren't big enough to stick it out through the bad times to enjoy the good.  There are always good, but people seem to like to focus on the bad!  You just have to be brave and hope that you can find someone who will be willing to be a team player with you so you can enjoy and remember those good times together, cause over time the lust does come back for you and your partner.
84014
Because it likes to mess with your mind
251900
It'll always hurt. You cant love someone without leaving yourself wide open for hurt. Believe me you dont even know the pain of love until two guys love you and you love them both. That really sucks. It hurts though cause you wanna care about someone so much and you want them to care about you and feel as strongly as you feel about them but usually it doesnt happen, one person cares more then the other and it hurts if your the one who cares more. But chin up, one day that person who does love you just as much comes along and you get married and make babies. That feeling of caring just as much as each other doesnt always stay around forever but you get beautiful children out of it and they become the love(s) of your life that you've always wanted and they love you just as much as you love them which is what you want all along.
73019
As you can tell there are people who not only fantasize about the same things you do they often practice these sexual behaviors. It's not my personal choice but i have seen and read a lot on the issue. If you do choose to try these things make sure you have an understanding with the person you are ingaging in this with. Have a code word  that lets the person know when to stop if your hurting to much or just choose to stop in general. There are people who have died from being choked during this because they did not take these percautions. Just be careful. This doesn't make you sadistic or sick. It's just your personal desires, everyone has thier own yours is just more extreme then most.
578175
I don't understand why.  I hate hurting someone's feelings.  It's a horrible feeling, ya know?
632318
Love hurts when you put heart on the line but it also hurts bc u r expectin something back in return... tht persons love ..
676416
The very fundamental thing we find in love is being liked and be very comfortable in a relation. And this act of mutually impressing each other may not be perpetual. This is where the discretion about true love comes. Its not really necessary that the person who gets irked or infuriated makes you feel not loved. Its the amount of our own patience and understanding we offer in return to his or her mood swings. Sounds tough... But believe me... Its the only way to retain and preserve love. Though love is generated from heart and definitely must not be a product of brain... one must not ignore the subtle hints given by brain too. Not to interpret the cautions in a negative way but to protect our loved one from possible errors and fallacies. Love is a strenuous journey if it needs to be navigated though impatience and misunderstanding. But at the end of the day if one believes that we truly love someone.... any sacrifice offered to make them happy is worthy of all those cherished moments we experienced and enjoyed with that person.
605454
the word love is used soo much, that for some it has lost its meaning. that's why i only use it when i really mean it. love is like putting ur arms out and spinning in circles really really fast. its fun but if ur not careful, you'll lose ur balance, fall down, and get hurt. in the end though, its better to have loved than to have not loved at all.
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because if people stopped loving eachother, there is no hope for humanity. \n     humans are created out of love, so it is paradoxical if we do not love in return\n     loving people rather than hating them can make you live longer.\n     Maybe if serial killers and rapists were loved when they were younger, they wouldnt have become such evil people, who knows? Everyone deserves a chance\n     Humans were created in God's image, and God loves everyone, so we should too
453955
love & lust are not the only thing in life and we living in a society should think about our surroundings our relatives & friends also because leaving everybody and living with our love will never bring us any happiness but cripple our lives for ever.
7018
Love is a choice you make.  It's not just those mushy feelings and butterflies in your stomach. It's a conscious decision to love that person in spite of their faults and quirks.  It is unconditional and doesn't change over time.
452069
Love is nothing but the channel to reach God... and I can prove it but it will take a bit of space... when we come in this world we are in love automatically with our mother, after that when we get a bit older then there are some other persons (particularly from opposite sex) who come in our love list and the relationship with them is more intense... after that we start loving our children and so on... this passion and emotion that people call love is implanted in to the human heart for one sole reason to identify his Lord... Who is the zenith of this feeling... Its basically God Who teaches us to love through all these stairs of "small loves" that we cross in our lives, and finally wants us to reach Him... because love demands perfection of lover and needless to say... perfection is the territory of God.\nLove truly is a weapon if it is in the right place... because its only the power of love that can oblige one's heart to follow his Beloved otherwise totalitarianism can bend heads but not hearts the complete dominance can only be reached through hearts and love is the weapon to do it... that's why God chose love as the path to reach Him... because He knew that its love and love alone which could be used as a weapon against evil and finally can make the bearer of it to prevail... \nso it really is the story of love as I see it...
676829
because that's what is in THEIR head, people tend to think about others what they really mean about themselvs. when they say that , they are saying : do I really love him/her. it's their question and their thought about what they feel. byron katie has done some interesting work on this subject, I think her site is www.thework.com    take a peek there it is really enlightening.
71052
Sometimes when people think they 'really love' someone whose actions hurt them (his breaking up with her, his distance and his silence) they are actually desperate to love and be loved, but the person they are focusing on is not "the one".  Instead, the one being hurt doesn't feel like they can survive alone, and they don't trust that they will find the true "one" in time to not die of a broken heart.  It's hard to make the decision to be alone when you feel this way, but it's the only way to open the door to true love, and it extends your misery until the day you decide to take the leap and risk being sad for a while.
287720
I have tried reading what you have said and what I get out of it is you are in a crazy pain and while it is real to you and you know what your saying, the rest of us are having problem making sence of it.Slow yourself down and type words that we can understand--it is not that people don't want to hear you- they need to hear a coherent question.I think it is safe to say that we hear the pain of your words but don't understand the problem because you are all over the place.
54499
yes! love makes you do crazy things! and stupid things! and some smart things! AND some really DUMB ones! but as for your predicament? only you know the answer, and i have found from experiance, that trying to convince people that youre telling the truth is like beating your head against the wall! it feels so good when you quit! its frustrating when no one believes you, i know ! but they will talk, and you wont stop it, or change it! so ignore it! if you can! it will only mess with your head, if you let it!
579042
The Bible nor Christianity advocates hurting anyone. It is the people that hurt others. \nPeople make mistakes and people are sometimes hateful without thinking of others and their feelings but noone should b mad at GOD for what people do. \nWe just need to learn to love as Christ did. He loved the person but not the sin and when someone did sin He did not walk up and condemn them to hell he humbly pointed out their wrong ( usually by asking them a question that caused them to stop and think ).