Every time someone asks me to do something, I say yes, no matter what it is. Why can't I just say no?
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You are naturally a "giver." You wish to please those around you.\nSometimes this stems from lack of self esteem, sometimes from fear, somtimes from anxiety. Most times..all of the above.\nWhat you need to do is make a conscience decision to take care of yourself. You can easily care for your own needs while attending to others. But make it an equal share.\n\nPeople will naturally take advantage of a personality type such as yours, so take it slow and easy, but be cautious, always.\n\nTeach yourself to say "No." Practice it in the mirror if you must, but learn how do say it w/o guilt. That's what you are harboring is guilt.\n\nGuilt is a pointless, detremental emotion which will get you nowhere fast.\n\nLose the guilt, gain the self esteem and strive toward respecting yourself more......if you do, all will fall into place....I promise!!\nPeace!
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Maybe you should just wait and keep practicing. There might be a reason he won't let you. You might just need a little more practice.
340375
what question you can not say yes or no to?\n\n\nAnswer: Are you dead yet
658394
i ask alot, but i still answer alot more than i ask.
634314
You dont - at least its not easy.  Sometimes actions speak louder than words!  Choose your actions wisely.
671606
nope. he always asks me to, but it feels fake. i like to...you know...moan when i can't help it, but words just seem. wrong.
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i dont think that its hard to say no
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There really is no way to say no nicely.  You need to look out for yourself in this area.  If no is what you want then no is what you need to go after.  If he doesn't want to be friends with you after you say no then it is a REALLY good thing you did say no.  Who needs people that are going to use you like that.  If you say no and he stays with you, maybe later, no will turn into yes.  Stay true to yourself and don't give into pressure.  That will just lead you to misery.
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I've been working on this for a little while now....but you got me scratching my head.  \nso I think the correct answer is  "No, I cannot."
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Seems to me they like asserting themselves. You know..." I'm beautiful and I know it ! " Also sounds like they are lazy and take advantage of a good hard worker who is too nice to say no. You need to assert yourself Jake. Next time try..." I have enough work of my own to complete and I can't take on any more sorry. "
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I am reluctant to do this.
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Oh, I hate being told "what I want". Like anyone else thinks they know what I am thinking.. i have been known to fall to my knees and be extremely dramatic, as in "oh, thank you, I've always wanted to meet the person who knew exactly what I wanted without me even having to tell them, when are you moving in?"
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I keep getting that and no matter what I do I can't seem to put it right, so will be interested in any other answers you may get.
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I usually say, "No, but thanks for asking."
137677
why the hell don't you ask them how to do it
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You have to really know what you want...and then go for it!\n\nFlirting is uncertainty. It's just saying "maybe"...
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Um....I am almost afraid to ask but......why?