will he really come back? is he lying? or can u trust him?
121349
depends probally not how many partners are they going to find in another state
538623
That is a hard situation. I guess it really depends on what he did and how bad it hurt you and made you lose trust in him. If he loves you and cares for you then he will have to work to get your trust back. There really is no time limit on these things, the trust will slowly come back if he proves himself to be trustworthy. It might help to talk to him about it.
667093
Now, this is my favorite one: 'Let him go, if he comes back, he is yours, if he does'nt, he never was' \nI believe in this, because it happened to me. \nI am guessing he cheated on you, or something.. and now you have trust issues. \nHappens!!\nDont wait for him to screw up, it wont work. I know, because I waited for my gf to screw up after she cheated and we got back.\nYou will only end up screwing your thought process!!\nWhat you are doing right this time to you are a lot mature and hopefully going slow. Which is good. \nLove him for what he is to you and for what he will be for you tomorrow. Dont resuscitate the past. \nI strongly feel you are going to make it. Just take it one day at a time, discussing your future and stuff is good and sounds ideal, but if you have had trust issues, I would not recommend you make long term plans.\nWhat say??\nCheers!!
492015
Honey, walk away.  He's just not being truthful and that is what you should be worried about.
510111
I think you should take him back. Just to see if he actually has changed, because from the sound of it, it seems to me that he has changed. Also because you have nothing to loose if you do start to date him again. I also think it would just be a good decision to make because it seems like that would make you happy, with you missing him and all.\n\nOne more thing... you shouldn't lie to your man... especially about things that involve your ex. It's wrong, and it also seems somewhat suspicious, ya know???\n\nGood Luck ;)
6450
Hun, I'm so sorry. I think you have to let go. I know you don't want to hear this. But he has to make his own mistakes. Stay strong......keep your dignity. If he comes back.....you will feel that you did the right thing and he will need to prove himself again. Just be strong and don't stop being you.
173821
Well,Believe it or Not ! They Say If You Love Somebody Set'em Free! If They Come Back They Are Yours If Not They Never Were !\n\nWell ! Maybe you will get him back if you stop going after him
586196
what guy you talking about? Dont fully understand the question. \nBut honey, you cant trust any guys!!!!
654850
To be honest If you have to ask then there is definitely doubt somewhere in the back of your mind. You've heard of the saying once a player, Always a player... well Once a liar, always a liar. But some people do change.... I want you to know that if you do continue your relationship that your always going to have doubts... your always going to be thinking he's hiding something or lying about anything. Just take your time with this.... I wish you the best.
299090
He can't be trusted you should move on Good Luck!!
298841
do you have any reason to doubt him? if he's a generally  trustworthy person then yes believe him. and if you are just his friend who cares anyway? its history, you are probably better off thinking about today or maybe tomorrow than you are fretting about something in the past, it can't be changed and its already done. let it go and move on.
126076
possibility that he is. do you have more than just his lies to back up your question? Did he say anything, not say anything, or lie about something big? Ask him what is going on. he might just b honest with you. good luck!
320767
Don't woory just trust him if he lies just don't go out wit him and try to move on
637081
no  way.  no one else wants him either that is his problem.  He is coming back just for that reason.  He doesn't want to be alone.  Should have thought about that before he left you.  Don't do it. He can and will do it again when he thinks things are greener on the other side.  And want to comeback.
554467
In time things will get better, but before then try and let go.  And if he comes back to you let him know that he has given up a real good thing.  Its going to hurt for now, but try and make this into a good experience and know that there is someone else out there for you.
383640
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
430342
That'a a hard one. Is he known for lying in the past? It's good to have trust, but we careful you don't get hurt and mislead.