you see hes broken up with many other gfs for me before.. but this girl has a hold on him and wont let him.. he is like my best frined and i cnt event tlk him..he can even secretly call me b/c she checks his phone.. im trying to deal but its pretty rediculous.. i have no idea whta to do.. b/c hes my best friend, i love him and im in love with him and he cnt get away from this conniving bitch who owns his life
135945
give her laxative and then enjoy your tile with the guy while she suffers.
184623
Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
233645
Who are you kidding?? do you have any idea what a jerk this guy is????????? First off, he's gonna ditch you for your best friend and when he feels like he's done with her, he comes back to you??? Seriously, why would you ever wanna date someone who once dated your best bud unless if she's ok with it, but still I don't think that's right. Besides, he's playing with both of you and you will be played twice if you don't see what he's doing. Please don't tell him you love him because obviously he doesn't love you and he will hurt you. You can't trust a loser like him, and I hope you're smart enough to make the right decision. There are so many nice guys out there, find one that is serious and ONLY interested in you.
265295
just stay friends unless he is willing to break it off with his gf...by the way i like your name alot
177246
As you've described, the guy with the GF blows her off to talk to you, that should give you alarm bells.  It shows you an idea how he treats a lady.  Not so nice.... If he can do that to his present GF, he also can do that to you if he loses interest. Also, he doesn't talk to you at school? I wonder why...? Seems to me he might be hiding something from someone... Just the picture of how he is dealing with his GF and how he deals with you in public is a glimpse of who he really is........ be cautious.\n\nIf I were you, I would be wise to choose the single guy, at least he's single, you like him a lot, and you still hang out and all despite the lack of phone calls. PLUS no GF. :o)\n\n\nI wish you luck...
514557
leave him alone.. omg it pisses me off when girls hit on a guy that already haves a fuckin gf... LEAVE HIM ALONEEE.. when the time comes and he breaks up with his gf.. then wait a little (a month and a half minium) because his gf is prob rli HURT at the moment just dont be a bitch to her and leave her guy alone!
138925
if you guys feel the same way then he should break up with her but if he doesn't you should move on cuz he is just an asshole!! you need to talk to him about how you feel and don't be the other gurl! and you also shouldn't wait cuz if he loves you he won't leave you waiting when he is with someone else that just isn't love.
370484
Let me get this straight...you have been seeing a guy for 2 weeks...but he wants to go out with someone else, who he knows it won't work with, so that when it's over he can go out with you.....He starts seeing the other girl, then, the next day can't keep his hands off of you...... What should you do?....Get some self respect and tell him to sling his hook.....you would  be setting the tone for your whole relationship with him if you accept this situation......walk now ...it will save you a lot of heartache in the end
52477
I think she should move on b/c he has not been having a good time with her (he wanted to break up) so she should find someone else that will actually appreciate her.
284662
I haven't been in EXACTLY the same situation, but I'll give you the benefit of my advice, anyway! \n\nFirst, don't do anything until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. That might mean you have to wait a bit, but it's the right thing to do- and besides, you'll put the guy in a bit of a tight situation if you say anything now! (And his girlfriend won't exactly love you for it...) So, wait til they break up. I know it's tough, but wait! \n\nAnd THEN, go for it! Don't worry about it ruining your friendship, because it sounds like you two really are best friends, and a friendship that strong, isn't going to be hurt by something like this. Tell him how you feel. \n\nThe best relationships are between people who start out as best friends- I know, from personal experience!\n\nGood luck!
241522
THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!
206299
Well The same thing happened 2 me and well I had 2 find out from my best friend that he was cheating on me. Its better to not know why then for when u do because it only causes more heartache. I should know. Plus IF he broke up with you  then he doesnt really love you. He probally cheated on you and likes that girl better. Guys are jerks... Go to your real friends Chicks before Dicks sweety :) \nTake care
417141
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
63368
Tell him it takes two to be in love, and that he shouldn't hurt a girl that he doesn't love by being engaged to her (what the heck was he thinking?) It also not-so-subtley hints at how you feel about him. And if he can't control his feelings for you perhaps you should distant yourself from him for a while and give him some space to get over this.\n\nPS: Do not feel guilty that you might be the reason they break up. He's the reason they don't work out. He's got some issues if he get engaged to someone he does not love. He might be your friend but this really isn't your problem.
361277
If he has two other girlfriends you should. There are a lot of other better men. Get over him and find someone else that only wants you ,not some other girl.
522486
You guys need to grow up, if he is going out with her then don't bother them.  But you can still be friends with her.
266807
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!