No matter how hard I try I can't get a boyfriend...But I manage to be told to get naked at school and to get told I have a nice ass...Some guys even asked me to have sex with them! :( I just don't understand it!
133402
Because you are just a booty call . . . you are not a girlfriend.\n\nBooty calls never become girlfriends . . . \n\n- - - \n\nIf you want a boyfriend . . . stop being so stupid.
271414
Yes, I've been there. It sucks! But you have to be true to yourself. I let the guy know that I wasn't all about being his P.O.A. I wanted a relationship. I am not the type of girl that you can call whenever you want a booty-call. I told him that. I gave him a few chances to change how he was towards me, and he didn't. I told him I was tired of how he treated me, and I left. You have to be true to you, and don't give in to be with someone. Don't give him the chance to use you for sex. Make him want you before he wants sex. You are young. You will find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sex. Make the person wait. If he's into you, he'll wanna be with you for you before you sleep with him. As far as the following, and calling thing. Tell him he needs to get over it, and stop his crap. If he doesn't, and it gets to where you are scared (past the point of just plain tired of it) I would look into a restraining order, or talk with a police officer or counselor at school as far as what you should do, but be careful. Dont let something like that go, either. That could get ugly, and scary.
555747
i'm always amazed that some people can write the nasty stuff they do just because they know how to type! rather than giving violations for writing adult content, they should give violations for being rude and nasty...anyways...we're all afraid at some point we're going to be alone and even when in a relationship when we feel comfortable there is always a risk that it might not work out and we'll be alone again. what is it you're looking for in a relationship, what is it you are looking for in a guy? i think you need to find someone you can be friends with before anything else, that way you'll always have stuff to share. also what is it, you feel that you want that you haven't gotten yet that means you are still alone? feel free to email me if u want to talk more ;-)
314116
The way you're going about it will even fetch you more enemies than if you had to tell the guys an outright NO.  If they eventually find out that you have a lot of them in class, they'll see you as a wayward girl which you're not.  Sit up and know what you want girl and stick to it even if it does not go down well with some. If not, you might end up being every guy's babe. I'm sure you know what that means....a bad reputation.
582528
No one can make you more confident.  You have to do that for yourself.  If you go looking for some guy to boost your self-esteem, you'll attract a guy who will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed, & from what you are saying, that isn't something you are ready for at this time in your life.  Right now, you need to focus on you.  Try to work on school, a job, & make the most of yourself.  If you start setting new, realistic goals for yourself & achieving them, your confidence can't help but go up, & guys will notice this.  Good luck.
644622
have you tried getting someone outside your school?!?! just because you feel lonely and have no girlfriend now doesn't mean that it'll be that way forever. Eventually the one person made for you will come along.
171795
i dont think its a big problem on how to have a boyfriend... maybe ur a GAY that's why??
486423
We guys were not even allowed in the gym when the girls were in there, much less being stuck dancing with them.  Once in high school I saw a class of girls in their gym clothes - they were out on the archery range.  Us guys were not even allowed out of the building while the girls were doing that.  Guess administration thought they were guarding our morals or some such foolishness.  Didn't do much good; our community had one of the highest rates of teenage illegitimate pregnancy in the country...which really teed me off, 'cause I couldn't get a date with the sluttiest girl in a graduating class of six hundred all through my four years of high school.
588281
HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,
186166
hey im 15 too, so i know what your talking about. I like girls that I can talk to, and that i can see something happening between us. If you just want a boyfriend in general and its not really that you like someone, then i say that you just get involved a little more with the group, and make your self noticed. stand out as an individual. once you find a guy in specific, just try to be friends at first, then make him want you. maybe we should talk later and you can give me more details, send me an e-mail and we can get in touch.
243431
Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!
527999
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
414386
Well it all depends I have the same problem and the boys literally told me that they aren't looking for wife material which they claim is what I am. They're looking for the dumb females who is willing to give it up right after they have met. They told me that I'm the only damn good looking girl who takes her education seriously and has things going for herself. So really it's a good thing because they see you as a respectful young lady and not a $2 whoe.
36944
You seem to me to be a confused young lady. You want the guy b/c you feel threatened by other girls that they may makke the first move and take him from you. Young men say alot of things in front of peers to act macho that they wouldn't try alone.He may say to his buddies, "I would really like to see her naked", but in reality he would be scared or embarrassed. Given your age, I would advise you to hold off on offering anyone sex just yet. Especially since it seems like it is a game to you to try to win the boy over from another girl. You don't "HAVE TO" have sex because "EVERYONE" is doing it. Most young adults who say they are really aren't. Please save yourself for someone who truly, deeply cares and respects you b/c once you lose it, it is gone.
144658
This worked for me a few years ago... My ( now x girlfriend ) played hard to get... I ended up asking her out at one point... Anyways, play hard to get, and when the time is right ( if God allows it ), the guy will ask you out... TRUST ME... IT WORKS...
452781
There really isn't a point. I personally had my first boyfriend in the ninth grade and I still wasn't ready! You're just too young at that point. I hated being chained to one person. The girls that switch from one boyfriend to another are just looking for attention. They aren't secure enough in themselves so they find a guy that they think could make them feel better about themselves but it only leaves them emptier.
551119
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!