Just wondering, I have a female who is intrested and I want to know if girls in that age bracket think a man in that age bracket is a reasonable choice for a serious relationship? Is the attraction the same, physcially, or is it based upon something else?
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that is fine. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 36. This August will be our 2 year aniversary. YAY. We love each other very much. He is a wonderful man. So if u think it will work and u both like each go for it. Age is nuthin but a number.
205581
just like its ok for a man to have a relationship with a 10 years younger woman and everybody accept it and society is fine with it, well, the same should stand for a man who likes a 10 years older woman..since you are over 18, we are cool..
309976
Considering your typing style and use of slang, I'm going to guess you arn't actually a 64 year old (wow, that was hard).\n\nHowever, if a 64 year old man was interested in an 18 year old girl, I would tell him this:  Dream on, she isn't going to be attracted to you, unless your wallet is very very fat!
565565
Age difference could be a factor, but not a big one. I would say that if she is great and if I think it is fair enough from both of our sides then it wouldn't matter if we have 10 years difference. It wouldn't matter if she is 15 years older then me or 10 years younger then me. But I wouldn't want any too young girl to be spoiled out her mind with me.
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Of course! But, if it seems weird to you, ask yourself "why?" If you truly respect, admire, and are attracted to this "28 year old man"--then why not go out with him and get to know each other better? You are 22 years old, the 6 year age difference is not a big deal at all once you are in your twenties and beyond. The hard part at this point isn't this age difference, but how compatible are you for each other, do your strengths compliment each others' weaknesses? Ask yourself this here and in any potential relationship: "Do we share the same basic moral grounds? If we "fall out" in an argument, will we land in the same place even if we disagree on this issue?" Age, at this point, is not so much an issue, but of how matured your life experiences have made you both, and how you interact with each other.
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Is he wealthy? What do you think the attraction is? At 20, she is old enough to be making decisions for herself.....you've given her guidance, but now she has to make that decision.\n\nWhat would worry me is WHY she is attracted to older men. Often it is because of a previous molestation by an older man. Is that a possibility? If so, I would suggest some serious counseling by a professional....NOT clergy type....they would just continue the problem.
375993
I find it very attractive!  Some girls might be surprised that you haven't dated, but the right one for you won't think so.  I've only ever been in one serious relationship and I'm 25.  \n\nHang in there.  The right woman is out there and she'll appreciate that you haven't been all over town!
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I will tell you, in my own experience that it is. Not because it's immoral or the guy is a sick person, but the maturity issue. and people do change.\nAnd don't think it's because a guy can't get a girl his own age. i actually had quite a few girlfriends before her and they were all close to my age or older. \nSadly, I am now divorced, kept the children and am good friends with her. Actually, after five years of separation we are considering getting back together. I still care for her and she for me.\n All in all it is wrong if it is for the wrong reasons.
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As long as you don't act like an old fuddy duddy and have similar interests, why not.  I've been known to date older men and we got along fine.  As long as both of you know what is expected of each other then it should work out.
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I'm a male. As far as love involved, it does not count much.\nPsychologically, there are very compatible couples, where in relationships a man has so called "mother complex" and it's not something awful or out of tradition. \nThe same with girls. Some girls prefer old men, even if they have not much money.\n\nEverybody is unique, and the same with relationship.\n\nThe society is pretty flexible and comfortable to see people of different race, age and height to be together, provided they are in love.\n\nSorry my intervention. Just do not be frustrated if you do not get the expected statistic here. After all, Yahoo! Answers participants are not necessarily the full set of people and variety of opinions.\n\nMy opinion is not actually mine. I did some similar research in the past, just it was a little biti more wide than that, and not for personal purposes.
323901
Why would you care what other people think?as long as you are both of legal age it's not a big deal or anything.I am 10 years older than my man.does that matter? NO
108439
everyone is different . sure opposite attract . but many of my friends lik the qualities they hav ,lik a serious guy would manage with a serious girl . if its me , then i would lik somone who thinks lik myself she shouldbe open-minded , not a miser , and not too talkative ,respects people's spaces.
598603
As long as two adults find a common ground, they work. My BF is 20 years older (I'm 27) and I can't imagine my life without him. We are on the same level in so many ways - maturity, goals, opinion, etc. Like any relationship, it comes down to a balance of give & take, acceptance, and respecting each other. I believe people come into our lives for a reason, and we learn and grow from them. Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world and age shouldn't stop anyone from experienceing it.
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I would think off the top of my head that 28 is too old for 20. Since i turned 20, which was only five years ago i experienced the biggest growth area in my life {so far}. When i turn 28 i expect to have undergone many more changes which i consider to be a great deal more then i knew or really could relate to at 20.  Now not to say that you cant be in a relationship that has common ground in an eight year difference,just saying at this point in my life i cant imagine being with someone eight years younger than me. I would think that no matter the maturity of the person the age always comes into play and vice versa. Basically if you are attracted to someone in this age group go for it, have fun, and be in the now, its experiences that really teach you anything any way, not what someone else has to say about theirs.
670786
Sounds pretty normal to me.  Most that I know are into older men though for some reason.  I wouldn't say there's anything particularly wrong with dating an older guy, except that they have other reasons than just love usually for dating younger women.  i.e. bragging rights and such.  ALL men are attracted to young, good looking women, so you'll always get hit on by older guys.  Guys your age are probably still getting over insecurities and such, so that could be part of it.\n\nDon't give up and don't settle, but be careful with the older guys...\n\n*edit* "There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men who are more likely to be more mature and open to commitment than guys your age. I think its smart of you. "  - That is the most naive thing I've ever heard.  Older definitely does not = more mature or open to commitment.....cripes...so much detail and examples could be given here...
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You feel that you love this older woman the question is, is it love or purely obession to something about her. I feel that it could be love. Most younger men are attracted to older women.\n\nIm 32 and I know that when I divorced several years ago I had alot of male friends alot of younger ones. Seemed like the younger ones would find me no matter what. I did date a guy who was 18 at the time and I was 25 it was a beautiful realationship but I knew that he needed to finish college and have a chance at life. He didnt need my life not that my life was bad!! I just was 25 and was divorced with 3 children! But my ex cheated on me all the time and I finally found out and wasnt going to tolerate it!! Anyhow this guy needed to expierence life without me. Shortly after we split up about six months I met another man who I have been married to now for five years!!\n\nAll Im saying is Im sure that she hears what you are saying but is probably not wanting to pursue anything serious cause she wants to give you space and time to live your life. If I can be of any futher help just email. Good Luck and keep us posted.
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I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika