I want to meet this guy and i feel he's the kind of guy i want for my. Should we have sex when we meet? He says he misses me alot and so do I.
130020
No, I think you shouldn't have sex with a man you've never met before. First you should try to get to know him better. And if he is the way you "saw" him via internet, then you can move forward. Good luck!
364492
Don't be so in a rush to have sex with him. Maybe he is a decent guy and he just wants to wait until marriage...or at least when he is in love. If he hits it and doesn't like it, you're going to feel sad and rejected. You're better off trying to be his friend and continuing to live  your life. (1) as his friend you'll get to know him a whole lot better than when you dated; (2) if you happen to start talking to someone else, he'll notice.....if he really likes you, he'll step up to the plate and start acting all jealous. If he doesn't and was just playing around, at least you've got someone else to concetrate on. Best wishes!
188705
i think you wanting more with him then he wants. you both on different pages. i dont feel he is interested in you though he may have given you those type of signals on the weekend you spent together. try talking to him and telling him how you feel, if he doesnt feel the same then move on and dont waste your time with him.
451205
i know this is gonna sound easier said then done.. but tell him that. if from talking you feel he's into you..ask him if he feels like more could come out of this then just a hook-up. if he feels the same way then great! and if not, well then you can move on or just keep it a random hook up. but seriously talk to him about it because you don't wanna have to end up wondering, "what if i said something?" because if you wait too long it might be too late. and the worst that can happen is him say that he doesn't want a relationship - but he's obviously into you if you guys hooked up
97253
I met this guy at some chats last year. We realized that we were really serious about each other.He proposed that he find a really good job in my country (we're one oceans apart), just so that he can be closer to me.He's not here in my country YET but yeh, he got a GREAT job already and he's arriving at the airport THIS SUNDAY!!!!! I'm very optimistic about our relationship face-to-face.. It's definitely going to be better than chats.. at least we can touch now ;) Just take note of this. If he's serious about you, ask if he can go to YOUR place. You'll know how much he's serious then. \nAnd it also depends on how serious YOU are about him. Think about it yeh? Good luck!
501629
I would just let him know how you feel.  Go after what you want dont wait for him.  If you want it go get it.
126132
Girl, if you have known him for 4 years like you say, you SHOULD meet. Whether for sex or not, you should have physical attraction as well as spiritual and intellectual.
615674
Its better to discuss sex and tings sex related instead of jumpin straight in! Just be friends and if its right itll progres from there! :)
284754
I would just leave it be.  You will always have experiences that will tickle your fancy, but since you met this dude online and he does not even remember you, I would just let it pass.  Plenty of real people to meet out there in reality land.
96483
It's been 5mos. and you must have forgotten why you broke up with him in the first place.  I think if you read your question over especially the part about him wanting to hang out and have SEX, you could really determine yourself whether he, after 5mos., really loves and misses you or ain't having that much luck elsewhere.  Sex will make the feelings you still have for him arise but then what after that?
418057
Ask him why hes with you and if he can go witout sex with you for a little bit soemtimes when your together and concentrate on doing things together and spending quality time together and making things better.  If he doesn't think he can go without sex then he might just want you for sex and move on.
627890
God bless you, All you can do is stay normal as you can. Do not  push your limit, make him comfortable when he is with you. All (REAL) mans are looking two things in their life, first good sex partner and  second, somewhere back in their mind they are looking for good homely atmosphere (meaning they want to see how comfortable they are with you), if you offer both of these two things to him. then you must 'BELIEVE ME' he is not going anywhere, he will be with you forever.
346151
you are so young. i believe him when he says you are beautiful. but you are so young. sex isn't everything in a relationship. put yourselves some space.
75560
Is this guy telling the truth about not having sex, or is he just trying to sleep with you?\n\nDo you like this guy or have "feelings" for him?  If no, then I wouldn't sleep with him.\n\nMaybe find a date for him, or an escort to boost his self-esteem.
650647
i think its a little shallow, there should be something more than that or the sex, and if its so important but u like him, then u would find a way to ovecome it
359696
well right now you are just a convienience, you will have sex and not require commitment.  Why would you want a guy like that?  He has made his wants obvious.  I say quit giving yourself away to a guy who is most certainly using you and find somone who deserves you, who wants more than a quick role in the hay.
45979
he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.