I'm 21 and he's 23 we've been together for two years in June. So when is a good time to move in together?
133787
In my opinion, you should wait until you get married. Then it will be special. I don't know if you even plan on marrying him, but that is the best thing to do. My dad has been "shacked-up" a couple times, and it hasn't really worked.
198828
My boyfriend and I got together and less than 2 weeks later we moved in together, and we were talking about marriage after 3 weeks, he is my soul mat e, my whole life, and my futurte husband, we have been together for 2 years and we have had our bad times, really bad times, but it doesnt make me love him, or us any less, so what Im trying to say is, if your ready and he is the one, you will just know, nobody else can tell you when you are ready except for your heart, dont listen to your head so much, i mean listen to it just follow your heaart, you know what is best for you...I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you...xxx
447634
Seems a bit scary that he's already at that point and you're just getting to know one another. Even if he does ask you, be prepared to say that you don't know him well enough yet.\n\nokay -- go ahead. Get married when you hardly know the guy. I'll give it 2 years max.
640326
A good time to be serious in a relationship is when you truly love this person and can picture being with this person for a long time.    \n\nAs to a good time for marriage...I believe two years of dating will give you enough time to learn about this person.  How they are with you, and with other people.  How do the two of you dealt with issues?  What are your plans for the future?  Are you willing to sacrifice to make the relationship work?  After you have truthfully looked at and considered all aspects and still wanting to be with this person...then you're ready for marriage.
530651
You normally have to have been living with your partner for 2 years. If you are not living together or haven't been living together very long, there are other options. Are you planning on getting married, because he could always get a Fiance Visa and then you have to marry within 6 months. That's what I did, because although I had been with my partner for over a couple of years, we had only been living together for 6 months. Good luck : )
529187
If you both really love each other, then I think you should move. Being in love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It just makes every day a little before. So my answer is yes.  :-) and good luck.
90820
yes, move in!  He sounds like he loves you and you need to live with him be fore he pops the question.  what if you hadn't moved in with your ex?  You wouldn't have found out how mean he was until you were already married.  Move in.  when I move in my my man we still fought here and there but we saw each other more and that time is valuable in a relationship.
133505
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
336357
Only you can gauge if you are moving too fast.  If you love eachother and are going to get married it might be good to be close to one another.  I don't know that I would recommend moving into a house with another couple/child as it might make things difficult/complicate things.  \nAs far as the finances go with you and/or him still being in school that is understandable and doesn't mean that he won't be a good husband and support you.
39328
It depends on a lot of things.  Age is a biggie.  People under the age of 25 (statistically, not by fa, every person) tend  to stray at some point.  This is not true for everyone.  Living together is stressful.  When I moved in with my fiance`, it was a fight a day.  You have to get used to living with that person.  It is different than the two of you doing sleep overs and being around each other.  My mam told me this and I thought she was a liar.  But I will be darned, she was RIGHT.  It is a good step to take before you take "the plunge".  It helps you to see if the two of you can live together.  Good luck to you!  Happy valentine's day!  It worked for me and I hope it works for you too!
154066
don't worry about it, if its meant to happen in time it will. Besides you are both still young and alot will change for you both in the near future.
541482
You didn't say how long you have been involved with him. His mom may think you two don't know each other very well, and doesn't want to see either of you get hurt. Be sure you tell mom that you are grateful to her for giving you a place to stay during the rough times, and you feel it is time for you to move out and get your life back on track. Tell her you are sorry that she doesn't agree with you guys moving in together, but that you guys care deeply for one another...maybe she just needs to hear it from you.
85323
I am 19 also and have been married for 2 years. Be sure you are ready for marriage. If your love is true, you will be fine. Follow your heart. Don't try to grow up too fast though... you don't want to live with regrets.
126495
Go. If you are having any doubts now they will only triple the longer this relationship goes on. I was once dating a man who was twelve years older than me, and once a man gets stuck in his ways, he seems to be good for sure. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you know what you want. Your still young enough to have your family unit! Go and and get it! Just because someone treats you good and loves you doesn't mean you should stay with them. People who love you and take care of you and can't start a new family with you are called parents.
379636
A 2-year difference is no big deal....look at it down the road...your 36 and he is 34...not a big deal at all.  If your attracted to him, go for it and see how it works out...guys that are 18 are usually flattered when an older woman (yeah...I know 20 is not old) expresses an interest in them. .
102703
Speaking from experience you should get a place of your own. The fact that it will be more expensive for him is really not your problem. A man and a woman for that matter should be able to pay there own bills, and if he doesn't make a lot of money he should think about changing jobs or  getting a second job. I believe that you should be together for at least 2 years before moving in together and if he is truly the right man for you he will understand and respect you for your Independence.
323308
First of all, do you know for sure that he is moving...that is the first question that needs to be answered. Secondly, a long distance relationship like the one you may be facing can work out. If you truly care for him as you say oyu do, and he waited for you for as long as you say then you both love eachother very much. You will see eachother occasionally, you will always chat on the phone...i've even heard that long distance relationships can make the couple stronger. But in order of the relationship to work there needs to be trust. You child is almost 16? I know someone who is 16 years old and her parents are in a similar situation as yours. THey are moving, and even though all her friends are where she lives now, she knows that inthe end it will be for the best. If you really want to be with him though, you can marry this guy that you love so much and who loves you, and have your child finish school where she is now and have her live with a friend, close relative, or something like that. That way you both will be happy. In the end its your decision. But the last piece of advice i will give is to just stop for a moment, take deep breath, close your eyes, and just listen to your heart.................\n................................................\nWhat's it telling you?\nJust follow your instinct, your heart, talk with your child about what you are worried about, what you would like to do, if you want to further your relationship with this guy. Talk with your child. But remember that what your child thinks IS important, but so is your heart and your feelings. Ask this man to come over to your house so you and your son could all have a talk about how you want to further your relationship and what you all agree with happening. \n\nIn short, follow your heart...most of the time, it knows which path you should take. Just trust the ones you love, and most importantly, trust yourself! Everything will work out in the end, i know it will. but until then, good luck! :)