i mean when you see a woman in a bar or any other public space, what - from a womans point of view - do they want men to say to them?
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Hi! beautifull&#92;sexy. how are you~~
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good point... but thats how some of them act to catch attention...they just over do it compared to women...
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it depends on whether the woman wants that attention or not.If they see someone looking and they crouch down more so their shirt will open up more,then it's probably like that attention.But I mean if it bothers some woman they tent to ask that person to stop looking or wear more conservative clothes.There really isn't much that we can do because it is there and we can't get rid of them.
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Your question sounds like you REALLY want to get into a man's head on how he thinks...  Refreshing!!\n\nAnyway, I can only answer for myself, so here it goes:\n\nFor me, physical beauty is great, but without having the ability to hold a conversation, I don't have time for her.  Think about it this way, if I am on a date and we decide to get intimate, that is fine.  But what happens after that????  If she cannot stimulate me mentally as well, the relationship will not last.  I need someone who can THINK as well as look good.  \n\nHere are some of the things that make ME happy:  If she wants to give me a deep passionate kiss right out in the open (like outside on the street) just because she wants to (by the way, I have done this myself in my past relationships -- I have had NO COMPLAINTS)....That would be nice!  \n\nThings that make me sad or angry would probably be if she disrespected me in any way.  Personally, I try not to do that, but I am not perfect.  There is a difference between doing something accidentally vs. a deliberate act.  If it is proven to be deliberate -- don't expect me to be around for much longer.  I will not stand for it.  \n\nI would like any woman who I have a relationship with to be a lady in public, but be a WOMAN in private.  \n\nI hope this clarifies somewhat your questions, if you want more information, just e-mail me.
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Asking is sometimes nice but to have a man read my body language is excellent.... Woman are so obvious sometimes.. Our body language and conversation and facial expressions can tell you exactlly what we want... You just have to be able to read and listen for the signs...
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Women do our heads in because we men are on a hopeless struggle to please them. How can we give them what they want when they either don't know or have changed their mind? The latter is viewed by them to be their privilege.
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You will only insult a woman if you give some insincere, generic oft-used line to push up her confidence, and in turn, perhaps hurt her feelings, especially if she hears you turn around and say the exact thing to another. The best thing you can do is truly find something about each woman as an individual that you genuinely appreciate, admire, or respect and tell her this in a gentlemanly way. Male or female, if you sincerely want to find something good to say about someone, you will usually find it in each individual!
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Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
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In my opinion, there are 2 reasons men are hesitant to approach a woman.\nA. The women are with a group of close friends. This would mean If the guy gets rejected, there will be a large audience to watch the whole thing.\nB. The woman is beautiful. Men think this woman can have anyone she wants, why would she care for me?
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I agree, They should at least have it in them to admit it.. LOL...but I think men do it, in case some other girl is listening, so he can have her as a back up, in case the one he is interested in, doesn't want him...  :)
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Is what right? That it never occured to you that you were biting another human, or that she never said anything.\nWomen can be like that - and they can be made to feel that any complaints they have is being a drama queen, or that they are 'rocking the boat' and disturbing the peace. \n\nThat is why we need more gentlemen and people who respect that women have rights and needs just like men.\n\nI know you regret it and wish she had said something but sometimes we need to think before we ask certain things of a woman - is this going to be in 'her' best interests, or is it just something that I beleive is 'my right' to have because it turns me on.
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women like to hear how a man feels. whatever you decide to get her make sure you get her a card and tell her how you feel in it....that will stand out the most!
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I'd give the guy extra points if he dared to come up to me in a group. What most guys think is a girls night out isn't true most women do go out cos they want to meet guys. It'll show your bravery and most women appreciate that. Go over and introduce yourself to all then start a conversation with the one you're attracted to...pick up lines I'd prefer something unplayer-like...a basic introduction, 'Hi I'm so and so, have I seen you here before?' That way you are playing it safe, she can't kick your ass for it.
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Personally, for me, it depends on the woman in question....but if she is under 40 and in reasonable shape and can carry herself well anyway, I don't mind it.  It can be attractive on the right lady, and yet it can also be a bit less than classy, depends on the lady doing it, does she do it well, go overboard, etc?\n\nAs far as my attitude towards her, it really doesn't change things any more than any other attempt that women use to look nice, like makeup, wearing a dress/nylons versus pants, showing bare legs (where are the folks whining about short shorts and exposed butt crack, huh?), piercings, and so on...\n\nOnly thing that really turns me away are scars and tattoos, and those only if they are fairly massive (to the point of being disfiguring).\n\nBut then again, I am one of those...*lol*....I try to be a gentleman out in public, meaning if I am close enough to talk to a woman, I keep my eyes on her face as much as possible, duh...it's called self-control and manners, and some guys could use that.\n\nBecause men can be out of control skanks too, you know?  Especially down south with the bare-chest thing....ughhh...
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Sweet talking is just a part of the art of seduction.  Besides appearance and smell, talking has to be the most important tools to attract a female.  Like all creatures we are animals, we avoid that which displeases us, and move towards that which pleases.  If you are out in a bar what do you expect.  However, that's life and this is how most guys accomplish their goal.  How is that any different than a girl's boyfriend sweet talking her in order to get some.  Is it now a double standard if the person is a stranger?
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They are trying to tell you to save them time.  Men cannot keep up a false front indefinitely, and will eventually fall back into their normal pattern of living.  If that pattern is one that the woman can't accept, then you will have wasted whatever amount of time of hers that you have spent together.  If you are you right up front, then she can make the decision right up front as to whether or not she can accept you for who you really are.  It's that simple.
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well if a woman really likes you it is pretty easy to tell because she will either be shy when she is around you and not say much or she will just try to make her look as if she is laid back so you think she a cool person to hang with and then take it to the next point. well first of all when you approach a women you want to be mannerly do walk up to her and say yo whats up you would rahter say excuse mrs. i would like to talk to you and dont make jokes beserious so she can know you are