Me and my boyfriend haven't spent time together in nearly 2 weeks now (going on 3...) We were talking on the phone today...but not really TALKING. He was acting agrivated if I made a smart comment about something. How do I know if our spark has gone off or not? If it's gone, is it worth trying to get it back?
120550
All the speculation in the world isn't likely to help you any. Sit down with him and try to get some honest dialog going, or at the very least evaluate if he's willing to talk openly with you or not. Everyone gets preoccupied at some time or another, but candidly address the issue with him, then judge his reaction as only you can. This will tell you in no uncertain terms whether it's worth trying to get it back or not. You can't be in a relationship by yourself. Trust yourself to see what's true. Good luck.
188705
i think you wanting more with him then he wants. you both on different pages. i dont feel he is interested in you though he may have given you those type of signals on the weekend you spent together. try talking to him and telling him how you feel, if he doesnt feel the same then move on and dont waste your time with him.
125210
If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
621011
Hey I just wanted to say thank you for your response to my question, I think it really helped and it wasn't mean. I also think that you are right, he called me this morning and told me that he was knocked out and didnt get up until 12:30 or so. I guess it is still taking me some time to really relax and trust him but I think your response was the best. As far as your situation, my boyfriend is actually 28 and im 18 so yeah, think about that one lol. Thats 10 years older then me, but he loves me and I love him and its been the best relationship I've ever been in. I think true love prevails over age and just as long as you guys can respect each other and love eachother and probably give her some time to also grow, you guys will be just find. Age is really just a number I just feel like sometimes our decisions or the stage that we are at life can sometimes conflict. Just make sure you two continue to communicate and understand eachothers needs and wants to go about things the right way. G-luck.
519164
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
101843
Yes, unfortunately it's natural for the initial magic to die out.  However that's an ideal time because it's the time when a true bond between 2 people start forming and the relationship gets stronger.  So, yes the initial magic and euphoria ends; however, it is replaced by a magic that is much stronger.  Sometimes things like emails and text messages die out, but don't focus too much on the trifles.  Instead, look for other things.  Does he seem happy or miserable when he sees you?  Also, if you really liked the text messages and emails you can ask him what happened to all of those?  Just don't make too big a deal out of it when you do.  Tell him that you liked it when he did that.  Maybe he's had a very busy schedule and it's harder to do that.  Otherwise, maybe he's still waiting for you to text him and email him back from the last time.  Maybe you don't do that as much as you did if you also did that for him.  Maybe he also misses the text messages and the emails.  I'd suggest that maybe you start doing little nice things for him without expecting anything back in return.  This will add more passion to the relationship and he will probably notice and eventually do something a little creative back for you to show you that he loves you greatly as well.  If you think about it, this makes the relationship exciting again like it was just started all over again because now you have the thrill of not knowing what the other person is thinking and trying to figure him out all over again.  Good luck to you!  :-)
470033
Does it really matter?  At this point, does it really matter if he wants to call you back or not?  Sounds like you two aren't exactly 'meant to be'.  Or.. I dunno'.  I could be wrong.  Maybe you're perfect for one another.  (Btw, that wasn't supposed to be an insult.  Well.. for the most part it wasn't..)  \nTo answer your question though:  Don't hold your breath.
191412
That is totally normal.  If you've been with someone for that long, it's time to start talking about the future. So of course you want to know if he's the "one".  Both of you should take a break, date other people and decide if you guys are right for each other.
371085
Ya, im sorry but it sure sounds like from what you said that he is moving on away from you. Especially the part where you say that he didnt even talk to you yesterday at all. Dont say anything to him just yet, but in your mind start planning what you would do if it ended...like who you think you would like to go out with next..or dont even think about relationships at all for awhile, maybe just take a break. You dont always need to be in a relationship. Take time for yourself (buy yourself one of those mud masks or a new nailpolish youve been wanting, indulge in you!) and your family and think about those things for awhile, ya know. Good luck!
560583
TRY ASKING HIM...BABY YESTERDAY I WANTED TO GO TO YOUR WORK TO SURPRISE YOU AND I DIDN'T FIND YOU THERE? I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT LAST MINUTE THAT YOU WEREN'T GOING TO WORK BUT I FELT CONFUSED BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T AT LEAST CALL ME TO LET ME KNOW. I JUST REALLY MISS YOU BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WEEK I HAVE TO AT LEAST KNOW YOU ARE OK BECAUSE I GET WORRIED THAT YOU WORK TWO JOBS. LET HIM KNOW MAYBE HE WAS A LITTLE TIRED FROM THE TWO JOBS AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE TIME TO REST. BUT TELL HIM COMMUNICATION IS SUPER IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
97947
If he continued to call you after the break up, then it sounds like he wasn't ready to give up either. Or, maybe he enjoyed being in a friendship w/ you, and when you told him your feelings, it freaked him out. Either way, I'd try to get in contact w/ him to see what's going on. It seems odd to me that he would leave you hanging like that, so maybe something happened to him...try calling. If you get in touch w/ him, and he simply doesn't want to talk to anymore, then yes, it gets better. True love never fades, but it does alter and changes over time. Just give it some time. Good luck to you!
126898
it's ok to open up a conversation especially that you are feeling this way. if you don't get the right answers then it could be s start of misunderstanding that can lead to separation .at this point, maybe you're not sure yet about your relationship. communicate to each other in a nice way to resolve this problem.
676932
Guys don't want to talk unless there's nothing else to do. Not always a sign of disintrest. But you were a one nighter. Keep calling. Don't over do it. After a few real dates let him know you like being with him then stop calling for a week or two. If he wants to proceed he'll call you. It might take 2 weekends before he calls. If he calls late at night on a weekend.... He'll be drunk and horny. Booty calls don't make girlfriends. You need to redefine yourself in his mind.
130582
Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
125567
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
432928
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
117964
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.