like i'll ask him wats goin on and he'll tell me that it was his friend or it wasen't me i love him and i trust him but i dont know wat to no nemore he is always callin this gurl but never can call me this sux im confused and dont know wat to do help me plz!!
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you say you love him and trust him, but you also say you don't know what to do.  if you trust him, then there isn't anything you need to do.  if something is bothering you, then discuss it with him, and if whatever is bothering you isn't resolved, then move on.\n\nif he love&#92; you, he shouldn't be doing things that make you wonder.  if you trust him, there wouldn't be any doubt.
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she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
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Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
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ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...
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I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
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Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
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AWW HE STILL LOVES YOU!\nHe wants you to get jealous and for you to run after him because he has to big of an ego to ask you.
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WELLL U SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND BE OPEN AND HONEST IF HES TRUE LUV HELL LISTN AND WONT GET MAD AND YOU SHOULD CALL HIM HE SHOULDNT ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL YOU
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Have a talk with this guy, find out why he says he loves you because this guy sees something with in you that this guy likes about you. Give this guy some reason why you don't feel the same.Tell him you don't feel comfortable  with hime following you. Tell him could be friends get to know more about each other [ likes- dislikes ] Tell him you are not intrested in him at the present time. who knows maybe in the future a relation ship could develope between you two.
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Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
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Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Has he always been like this?? Let him know that you care about what is going on with him and ask him to trust you with his heart. Assure him that you will not use it against him or take it for granted...you just want to be let in. I hope this helps! :)
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You got to make the move: If you love him, don't hesisate to ask about his feelings about you.\n\nSounds like two luvers.
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theres really no way around just go ahead and talk to him let him know you value his friendship, but  and you go from there, but try to do this as soon as possible because you dont want to keep anything from him the longer you wait the more complicated it will be.
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He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
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You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
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Appreciate that he is returning your calls and has let you know that they're HIS issues, not yours.\n\nYou've only been hanging out a month.  Depending on what he has going on, that's really not enough time to develop trust.  It happens over time, and this relationship is in it's beginning stages.  It may not be an exclusive relationship, though it sounds like it's heading that way.\n\nDon't put any more pressure on him.  He knows you're there, he knows you're concerned.  That's enough.  If you continue to call him, then you need to ask yourself "Am I really concerned about him, or am I feeling insecure because I'm not part of what's going on?"  He's having some challenges right now, and I think he's handling this appropriately.  If you're really concerned about him, then keep it about him.  Be available to him if / when he needs you.  \n\nWhat's going on with him has nothing to do with you.  Keep this situation in its proper perspective; otherwise, you will lose him before you've gotten things off the ground.
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look if u know him since last 3 years n he is a gud frnd i guess its wud nt b a gud deal to lose him for a misunderstanding.....which i feel is the probable case. hav faith in u n ur relationship wid him. pick up ur phone n giv him a call rite away. bt dont talk anything abt him nt calling or anything. just speak to him in general abt how he is n all. ur talk with him will let u know if he is interested in being frnds wid u or nt. n if u still hav some confusion next time u cal him up speak to him frankly ntell him watever u want to. \n\nif u feel he is nt interested then just let him go. coz if u will hold on to him it wud  b difficult for u as it will lower down ur self esteem n u'll start wondering things like::"did i told him something wrong?" "y isn't he speakin to me" "is there somethin wrong wid me etc.""  so its always better to drop a relationship wen u cant get anything out of it.\n\nabove all hav trust in urself. beleive n hav faith that u r perfect coz God makes no mistakes. so he wud b an idiot nt being ur frnd.\n\ndo tell me wat u think of wat all i told u.\nchill\njessicalongoverdue@yahoo.com