My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. He used a spermicidal condom and Im on the pill. When we..stopped ^^;; I noticed there was some cum on his lower stomach, meaning some had to leak out of the condom. I was riding him so does this mean I could be at a risk for pregnancy?
123901
I would say with the spermicidal condom, which has a tendancy to foam a little and look like semen, would destroy most of it. Your on the pill and it depends how long you have been on the pill and how well you take it depends on its effectiveness. If you take it like clockwork everyday then you should be okay. Nothing is impossible but I wouldn't worry to much.
665692
Odds are you are still a virgin if he was unable to penetrate your vagina. Your hymen is probably still intact. But, yes you could get pregnant. Before a man ejaculates there is some fluid and if there are sperm there that come into contact with your vagina and swim upstream (so to speak) you could get pregnant.\n\nIt sounds like you need to go see a gynecologist and find out why you're having such trouble. It's probably something simple, but best to get it checked out.
388781
Im not a gynaecologist, but im a doctor and i can answer your questions. It is likely to depend on the qualilty of the condom. It could tear the condom because of the friction, though its not often happen.\nWhat for you wear 2 condoms anyway? Just use 1 will do; if you want double protection; you can discuss with ur partner too if she wants to be in contraceptive pills or just use 'sex patch' called Evra; it is very convenience and easy to use\nAll the best
527769
The chances of her becoming pregnant from precum are very, very, very small.\n\nThe chances of her getting pregnant from intercourse if the morning after pill is taken with 72 hours are very small.  Around 75%  So the chances of being pregnant in your case are almost 0.  The morning after pill is very hard on the body though, I know I took it, so you don't want this to happen again if possible.\n\nHowever you may want to use a spermicide like the sponge, vaginal conceptive film, suppositores.  These are placed in the vagina at least 15 minutes before sexual activity, generally they can be placed in up to 12 hours before hand.  However follow the directions on the packaging as they are all slightly different.  This will help prevent pregnancy from accidental contact and will greatly lower the chances of getting pregnant when used with a condom compared to condom use alone.  However, obviously spermicides do not protect against STDs and can in fact increase the risk of transmittion of certain STDs if they are used often and you or your partener has an allergic reaction.  However this is a very rare occurance and it is probably that neither of you have and STD (if it is probable that you do seek testing)\n\nIf you are using spermiced in a form that is inserted into the vagina during sex I would avoid using condoms with spermicide and buy the plain lubricated ones instead to reduce the risk of allergic reactions.\n\nHope that helps!
349645
I'm no expert on this (as, I'm sure, are the majority of people on here) but, at a guess, I'd say it could be due to retrograde ejaculation.  This is where the semen is redirected into the bladder instead of taking the route out of the urethra.\n\nObviously, this is something only a doctor could confirm, so you know what you've got to do ... book an appointment to see one.  You may well have to be referred to see a genito-urinary specialist.\n\nWhatever you do, don't think that this is an effective contraceptive.  You still need to use something as, although the semen is redirected, some still does come out.
638190
It could be if your man is large and not careful.  If it is your first time be extremely careful.  Use a condom, but make sure to take time so he doesn't cause any damage.  but it is always best to wait for love.
308550
Was this just last month? And did you get periods before you started taking it? And If you were sexually active in that one month have you taken a pregnancy test? One month usually doesn't do the trick for protecting yourself from pregnancy...Good luck.
638680
It is your responsibility to protect yourself, you should be using condoms everytime you have sex unless both you and your partner have been tested and given the all clear (even then unless you trust that your partner isn't cheating)
540570
Condoms *are* birth control.  Used correctly every time, they have a very high success rate--95-98%, one of the highest of any method.  They're reversible (no ill effects to your system if/when you want to get pregnant) and there's no danger of long term side effects (and we can't really say that about the Pill, IUD, depo-provera, etc.)  They can also protect you against STDs.  I think one (perhaps the only) benefit of the AIDS crisis is that condoms are probably more reliable than in the past.  Make sure you check that they haven't expired and don't store them in the heat.  Some lubricants can break down the rubber.  There is always some risk in sexual activity.  (As you can tell, I think there's risk in using some of the other methods of birth control too.)  If you can't take the risk (of a pregnancy/abortion and other consequences), then perhaps you shouldn't have sex.
517320
Have you had unprotected sex?  Yes, you might be pregnant.
552717
dont stress. if you havent had sex then your not preggas. its the injections that might have done it.if unsure ring the doc.
461390
yes you can be preg anytime you have unprotected sex for one thing in your case his cum from earlier could still be on his penis and second pre cum even if you dont think he has that he does and it also has sperm so dont even let him rub it around your privates unless he is wearing a condom.....take a test girl if pos g/l if neg you have a second chance dont screw it up this time
485713
A condom is a form of birth control.  You mean does a girl have to take a birth control pill.  No, a girl does not necessarily have to go on birth control pill, but it does not hurt to do so.  It adds additional protection against pregnancy.  Condoms do often fail or leak or are improperly used, and each can result in an unplanned pregnancy.  Make sure that when he puts the condom on, he has about an inch of it off the end of his penis, and make sure that he squeezes the air out of it as he is putting it on........read the directions on the box and that will explain better what i mean.  Also, sometimes sex can hurt the girl, and sometimes it does not.  Usually, most pain for a virgin girl with a virgin guy is the result of two things....One is that the guy does not really know how to enter, from a lack of experience, and he rubs the walls of the vagina, causing additional friction and irritation.  The other is the fact that virgin girls have a small piece of skin known as a hymen that stretches across most of the vaginal opening, and as she loses her virginity, the hymen begins to stretch and break.  This results in some minor bleeding, and a slight amount of pain as well.  It may hurt, it may not.  most likely, you will feel something, but it should not hurt a great deal.  if it does, tell him to pull out.  I do not know of any links showing the difference between the vagina and the urethra, but it is hard to mistake the two.  Plus, i have never heard of someone's penis going into the urethra.  \nIn the pubic area, there are small flaps of skin (lips) known as the vulva.  They extend from the frontal pubic area almost to the area of the anus.  Going toward the rear, there is a hole (somewhat of a large hole, as well).  This area is where his penis will go.  Once the two of you get undressed, it will be correctly placed with just a little effort and some moving around.  You should have no worries about this.  Your main concern should be about birth control and using it correctly.
504223
i does not matter if he ejaculated there is always some residual semenal fluid that leaks out so you very well could be pregnant it would be safer and less stressful for you if you made him wear a condom
303220
First, NEVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT WEARING A CONDOM ! There are std's that don't have as noticeable affects in women as what it will in men. Considering this girl is already on birth control pills is a sure indication she has been sexually active already.Since she allowed you to have sex with her not wearing a condom ,safe bet others have had the same priveledge. How do you know she for sure she has not got hiv? You didn't think at the time you had sex that you would be worried about a std right now either did you? People lie, especially when it comes to sex . Don't you think if everybody told the truth about std's and hiv/aids that this problem would be well under control,if not completely extent? Next time wear a condom!! Not for her benefit but for your own safety. As to do you have a STD. Only a doctor will be able TO ANSWER THAT 100% , you should have been there 3 weeks ago. Some std's can make you sterile. If you are to embarrassed to go to the Dr. then call your local health department and see if they can't see you. If you are really worried then call the er at your local hospital and tell them your symptoms without giving your name. Hopefully all you have is a kidney infection. Next time you start to have sex make sure you use a condom! No matter what she may tell you. If your gonna do it be responsible. Good luck!!
652850
Most likely they say that because some people experience irritation if they use spermicides too often.  If you and your partner don't have a reaction to the spermicide, then you should be fine.  However, there is some evidence that overuse of spermicide can make you more susceptible to STD infection (including HIV) by irritating the vagina and cervix (see link).  Be sure that both of you have current STD tests.
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Well, it's possible, but not probably. Even if a guy had a lot of stuff the chance of it working its way all the way up a tight condom is unlikely. Now, I guess, if he stayed in you, and if he got smaller, and the condom got looser, etc. etc etc. anything is possible. I'd think, though, that if it's a light colored "stuff" it's probably you...your own stuff so to speak. That's happened to me several times, where looking at my g.f I noticed stuff and started to worry only to realize it was her. She says it happens when she's extra hot and cums a lot.