there is this girl at work i only see her when she comes in at 8 am that is the  time i get off work how do i know if she is intrested in me
133388
im a guy but ill break it to you, she isnt if she hasnt shown any signs
592481
well, i guess you answered your own question...what did you do in the beginning?  you called her and tried to get to know her over the phone.  so why don't you just pick up where you left off and give her a call and see how her day went ( around 9pm) and then tell her good night?  see if you call her too early in the day...she might be busy and if you call too late, she'll be in bed.  that's why i always call around 9pm.  when you're comfortable again ask her out.  \n\nyour other mistake was that you aksed her out on a specific day.  don't do that!!!  tell her, "we should hang out sometime" and if she says yes, then say, "when are you free" or "when is good for you."  see, girls make plans ahead of time, even if it's just to set aside a day to clean and do laundry.  so, always leave the asking out question open ended without commiting to a day or time that she might be busy and then you feel rejected.
52490
Just make sure that there are no work regulations against dating within the company -- but otherwise I'd say go for it. If things go sour, just make sure that they don't rot and decay - because like you said, you do have to see her all the time.\n\nAnd don't send it "secret admirer".  Send it from YOU - that way she'll more than get the hint that you like her.
434284
If your new wait a while to see if she acts that way towards u again... if she does put her in her place especially if she just your co-worker and not your supervisor!!!! don't cry to management yet they may see this as a sign of weakness and let you go!!!
138875
Wait till a comfortable moment and asker her on her thoughts of last night. Your going to hang out with her today so thats a good sign. If she thought other wise chances are she wouldn't do that.
566805
Girls love getting things at work. It shows all the other girls that we have an awesome man! Show up and give it to her and give her a hug and kiss. Send her flowers sometimes out of the blue. It always makes a girl feel good so go for it!
603463
Yo man don't get so worked up. if she says shes busy she is. if you really feel un sure just talk to her or maybe call her. Do not make such a big deal. She is als probaley just nervous.. stay  calm and just relax love is a game but don't go bein a player when she could still dig you.
653418
Well she probably hang with you out side of work cause she dont want people saying crap about her. Sounds like she could possibly like you or she just might be lonely. Why do you want to tell her to F off i mean you said you liked her and that you were good friends. I would just stay friends you both enjoy each others company so.. Well just decide what you wanna do. Good Luck.
450207
If you text her you plan to say something tomorrow. She would know that it must be about your feelings for her. There are always two sides in a coin. She might hide from you if she does not like your persona or she may see you if she would be willing to give you a chance. Why not just surprise her? Anyway, what is 5 minutes of her time? Why not talk to her now? Better yet, just call her on her cellular phone.
633830
Start out by asking her out for coffee, or lunch one day while at work. If she accepts, then go do that. While you're out, ask her for dinner or a movie for later on that weekend. Then, if she accepts, you're on your way to having a relationship with her. Good Luck!!
643368
Tell her the gang at work is stopping for a few after work  and  every body's invited. If she keeps up her flirting then go for it,If she changes her tune once outside you know she's just a playful girl who likes to flirt when it's safe fun.
171885
Just call when you feel like it. Just respect her if she is doing something like spending time with friends or family, studying, relaxing or at work.  You shouldn't be a nuisance but I am sure she will be flattered by your attention.  Maybe if you feel the urge to talk to her when she isnt around you can write her a note then later when you see her if you are worried about calling to much.  Then she can also see that you were thinkng of her but you respected her time.  There are many ways to make her smile and feel your loneliness when she isnt around.
42402
Maybe a little strong, but it seems like you did not scare her away.  Do you see her other than when she is working?  That would probably be the best time to approach her again.\n\nIf you have to approach her at work, try to find a time when the restraunt is not busy.  Also I would recommend something low-key as a get-to-know you rather than a date.  Also try to give her an easy out.  Something like stopping by one afternoon and asking if she would like to get coffee or something like that after work.
492976
find out her intrests and get her that
546440
if she wasnt into u she wouldnt txt 2am in the morning!!! So ask whats up and whats the worse can happen your not going to die and it wont be the end of the world if she says she is just playing with you. She maybe interested(which i think she is) and maybe not. You will only know if you ask!!!!
566511
First you need to make sure that his employer isn't making him work more hours. Don't jump to conclusions just because he is working more and might be looking at other girls. But you should always go with your gut feeling. Think to yourself...is he more distant than usual...and if all else fails talk to him. You will never have a long lasting relationship is there is not any trust or communication. Good luck.
279265
try and go in when its more quiet. then you wont feel so shy, she may get annoyed if she is very busy!