i feel so weird i like this guy that i dont want to like in one moment and the the other momenth i dont like that guy but i want him what the hell do i feel? why is it this way? i saw him only once two mounths ago and lot of, lot of things happened between us but he was too shy to make a move or somethin and its not easy for me to see him so im going to see him again in 4 mounths in another wedding and i dont knw what the hell im feeling is this neatral?
133548
hun like i said b4 ur a teenager not fully developed or grown ur going throught sum tough times n ur getting all this differnet felings. n there confusing u more then u already r. i know how that feels when one moment u like somebody n the next u dont n like a whole day u cant get them off ur mind then there r days u dont even think abt them i know its weird n even scary but its k it will go away just give it sum time. when u feel like u dont like him its usually when ur havving fun n laughing u kind of forget abt him at those times but then when there is nothing to do n ur bored his all u can think abt thats when u start liking him its normal it happens to many teenagers especially me. look the wedding is coming up n im reminding u again its ur last chance to make move n his too so if u both dont do anything ur saying u gone forget abt him well we will c if u do trust me its not gone be easy forgeting him. i feel exactly like u somewhere in my heart i feel like u guys r gone be together n then i feel like nothing is gone happen i guess well c what happens at the wedding. look babe if u feel like he is the right one n u can spend the rest of ur life with him n u said that u fee like u can trust him n be safe with him if u felt all this n u only saw him once prabebly he is the right one who cares if ur not attracted 4 him his 2 shy to make a move y dont u ??? bye hun luv ya
313873
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
289090
I know how you feel.  I am going through that right now.  I just graduated college and I never got a chance to tell the guy I liked for 2 years that I liked him.  Our relationship is confusing.  Sometimes it seemed like he liked me other times it seemed like he hated me.  That's why I didn't pursue the relationship.  Like my friend tells me, "If we are meant to be together, we will be together.  God will see to it."
257532
Been there..felt that..If ur heart is confused u dont like him...if u really liked him u would know it and would be confused....
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
156422
well, i guess it's normal, happened to me too. But u should listen to your heart. And I think u already know the answer: he seems a player, so he's not good for u. Besides, u're friend likes him and u don't want to hurt her. If u feel like it u can play hard to get with him for a while because it's soooo nice to have someone et u're feet, isn't it? But don't get involved if u don't feel like it.
323201
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
62788
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
668519
what you should do is go back to school and learn how to right a complete sentence. "I feel like me and this guy are made for each other." that does not sound right. it should be " i feel like this guy and I are made for each other."\nby the way i never said i loved two guys. it's  just a question to post up.\n your the little s.l.u.t. trying to take another women's man.
649356
Thats how I feel. I want a relationship but the person I want it with seems disinterested , when initially they appeared to be. Guess I'm too slow & old fashioned as I wanted them to make the first move & they didn't. Think they may have moved on to another. I don't know for certain but I am still in the same zone, in love with them. I'll always love them. I promised I would & I meant it. I have not gone back on the promise, have seen no one for a VERY LONG  TIME and will not, even though I may have said I did just to make them jealous because I want them to notice me. I love them. I want them. How much more can I say it, prove it, whatever. I feel bad for you. Don't be like me & feel like fading away & dying because you feel useless. Do something before it's too late.
404534
take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
443770
I know what you mean that happens....i think your not really over him yet even though you think to your self that you are....i use to think like you, but i know inside that i still like him alot and i can't stand it when some other girls is all over him...don't know why you are feeling that way but that how i felt...\n\nif i where you i'll tell him my feelings and maybe you and him can continue your relationship that you left off....if you want to talk more personal then IM or email me ok
283037
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
290163
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.