I did ever thing i could for my ex and her kids after she went of with another bloke which invovled me paying £1000 pound back to her in cash that she lent me and said i never want back i spent £500 in xmas presents for them and now 4 months down the road im a wanker in her eyes eg she ran out of petrol last week i was told did her new bloke help her no he turned up and said i going home to bed you willl have to ring you dad for help someone of you kind people explain WHY she calls me this I would walk miles to resue herand would never leave her in a dangerous situation HELP
129033
She is using you and you deserve better! If she cared about you she wouldn't treat you that way. You need to start caring about yourself and respecting yourself and realize that you deserve a lot better. Walk away and don't look back! Move on with your life and find someone who truly cares about you and isn't using you for what she can get out of you. Good Luck! @--->---
39695
He was using you.  He told you it was your fault to make you feel back and take the blame off of himself.  He's not worth your time.  Especially if he is abusive.
374374
is this just a temporary thing???\nyou have a responsibility - you ex - partner still needs to make ends meet??   More details please x
627148
maybe she tot she havent spend more tym wid you wen she has clas, so its payback time at 4am..admit u lke it..
151948
After I had my daughter, I was living with her father.  He bacame abusive just two weeks after having her.  He slapped me to the ground because his cousin looked at me.  I stayed for 6 months, at first fighting back, until the night he threw me into the wall and kicked me while I could not get up.  I layed in bed that night, wishing God would take my life.  My daughter, then about to be six months old, made a little baby signing noise.  I knew that I had to get out, not for me, but for her.  Two weeks later, I left him.  it was christmas eve, and he was cheating on me.  I packed my things and went home to my mother.
663370
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
614686
I think he is a piece of crap and you daughter has gotten herself into a bad situation.  Unfortunately she is old enough that she can make her own dumb decisions, but things like that make me wish I had a bag of common sense that I could use to beat the crap out of people who do dumb things.
542521
get in there or you will regret it if she did that to me i would have no problem and would come out and ask her if she say she does not fancy you .move on. i did that to my wife and pushed the local coppers son off the post office wall and said out loud 'leave her alone shes mine and after 36 years two kids and three grandchildren it was the best move i have ever made. mind you i was pissed at the time and now this Sunday was a mad day as normal of guitars, screaming kids and the floor covered in toys and me loving every minute and loving even more when they all went home and tomorrow  i will want them all back again. one life live it and take a chance.
519896
It's a good thing they are not coming after you, so be thankful for that. Sounds like he owes somebody some money. Short of changing your telephone number, get as much information as you can from the next person who calls you from that place.  Ask about exactly what it is they want from him and who that company is and how to contact them.  Get their phone number, maiing address, and as much specifics as you can.  Ask them as many questions as you can think of and keep them on the phone for as long as possible. Then tell that person that you are not your ex, you have nothing to do with him, that he is no longer with you, you have no idea where he is, whatever, and request that they stop calling you, and if they call you one more time you will file a complaint with the police. You might also try something like saying "Put me on your 'do not call' list.  That's supposed to be for telemarketers but tell them you don't want what they are selling.
622112
i really hope dad doesnt give him back, you have abandoned your kid to pursue your own selfish interests. dont bother saying you're doing this for your son, deep down you know better.good luck making all that money your son doesnt care about.i hope dad can provide him with love.i just hate people like you.
626322
Just remember, she probably has no idea that you wanted to be a stay at home mum and had that taken away from you. Also, maybe your ex is in a better financial position right now, so he can afford to have his new wife stay at home and not work. Feel happy in the knowledge that you escaped from a marriage that wasn't right for you, and you now have the chance to find someone who'll completely love you. Enjoy your life, and don't compare your situation to the stepmum. Goodluck.
636453
you need a hug.\n\nyou sound like your mom didn't love you enough, or did your daddy not love you engouh.\n\nThis cry for help is very brave.
132212
I have been divorced 7 years and have received about $1000 dollars from my ex-wife. I have raised my son and daughter since they were 12 & 6. My son is now on his own and of course my daughter is still home. I have taken my ex to court 5 times and she still won't pay (it has cost me about $1,500). I have taken the action on my own since she doesn't seem to care. I made up excuses why they couldn't go over but soon relized that she didn't want to go to jail so she didn't do much. It is up to the courts to decide the ultimate outcome. Your children will figure out what is going on as they get older. I found out by speaking positive things about their mother all these years helped me not look like the bad guy. My children now understand what kind of person their mother is on their own. I pray for people like us to prosper in all ways despite having a parent not caring for their own children. GOD BLESS
148376
you need to leave him love. sorry but i was in the same position as you, but i was the ex. he went away and i knew what he was doin cause he admitted to me he had a baby with someone else, and i had dumped him. however, he kept coming round me BEGGING me to return to him. so you need to be careful bout what he is telling you and what he is telling her. you are worth more than that. dont put up with the insecurities you have over him. he will only make them worse. an in my opinion the last time my mum was wrong about something, was wen i hadnt told her the whold truth. your mum obviously dont like him, and she wants the best for you, even if it dont seem like it sometimes she does. trust. go and bond withyour baby. have a nice summer with no man pisin you off. okay. gudluck.
466079
She's in violation of your agreement, take her to court, it sounds like she took horrible advantage of you.
494366
No, you should not.  He will leave you again, even if he does come back because he knows he can.  It will take time, but I'd get him off of your Christmas list, because he has no regard for you.  Take care of your daughter and see to it he meets his legal obligations to your daughter.  I hope you heal and find someone that treats you better.  God Bless.
153254
i don't think you guys are being very nice making fun of her english - she's obviously going through a tough time right now!  If he's run away from you I don't know that theres a lot you can do.  If you are in contact with his family maybe you could ask them for support - see if they know anything and if they can talk to him for you, he hasn't behaved very well and you deserve at least an explanation from him - good luck!