being a housewife i didnt get much oppurtunity to work and so i am always feeling that i will fail,and i go there thinking that i am an nerd and notsmart enough to work thoughi can man an office very well
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I don't mean this rudely.....please don't take it that way...but I don't think your problem is really interviewing...that's a symptom.  Just from this question it's clear that you have some esteem/depression issues...and they are surfacing in other areas of your life.  To give you the short answer.....sit down before your next job interview...and think of all the things you do well....they are there I assure you (everyone has strengths).  Find a way to apply those things to the job you would be doing.  You are selling yourself....to sell anything you have to know and love the product.  This is not meant to be flippant....but I think counseling (if it's attainable) might be good for you.  Do small things to make yourself feel better about yourself.  Lose 5 pounds.  Learn to play the guitar....whatever.  When you do things that make you happy, you became happier with yourself.
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a lot of free time and no work, that sounds like a recipe for trouble :)  excellent follow-up to your other question, i can't help but feel we're all part of a study!\n\ni'm a person who likes to feel that i contribute.  whether it's emotionally if someone needs to vent or ask advice, socially if dishes need to be done following a world series party, or financially if there's a collection for the bride and groom, i like to feel i've done my part. i bust my a** at work while others sometimes do little or even less.  if i want a job done, i find it's easier to do it myself than to try and convince someone else. my boss loves/hates me :)\n\nit's probably true that i'd feel a bit less comfortable letting my wife carry the burden of working while i did not.  while i'd be fine if the situation was reversed. (hmmm...what ARE you getting at with these questions!) i'd feel that i needed to find a way to do my part and contribute financially in some way. \n\ni wonder why that is- with the role reversal...i would be happy to support her, but not quite so cool with having her support me?  am i too responsible?  do i like to feel in control?  hmmm...maybe you can help me figure this out!\n\nps::: 6th sense strikes again... i knew it!  \n\npps::: jedi mind tricks not to be tested on upper level answerers, nae.  back, it will bring him.  back to seek your answer!
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I know the feeling I have the same problem with a 57 year old woman where I work. She is loved by all and is dumber than a cool bucket. She has the whole office coned. She thinks she can do wrong and so does the people I work for,Good luck to you, best thing to do is ignore her. Smile and go on that is what I do.
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I sometimes feel the same way that you feel...and I hate it. I'm so sorry that you feel that way and no I dont think that it should be normal but everybody had bad days so what I try to do is find something to do so I want think about whatever got me down. I love you, so put a smile on your face! :)
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Well I have been sitting at my desk all day and I am ready to fall out right now, so I know how you feel.  When people don't do your job they don't know how to respect it, I get that a lot but these are the good days when I can just sit in the office, next week will be the pits!\n\nEnjoy your job and at the end of the day, ignore the people that will never be able to do what you do and still be productive.
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Not right now but I SOOOO know how you feel. You need to pursue something you're interested in. That's what keeps me from being down, I just make sure I always have something to work towards.
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I look at it as a sign that the universe has something better for me and keep it moving. You can feel down about it but try to find the lesson from it and give thanks for another oppurtunity to find something better
618127
Thank God. Im not the only one. Yes. If I miss it for a day I feel like I lost something or didnt accomplish something for that day
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THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! IM 29 AND RECENTLY MOVED BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS CAUSE I HAD A STRING OF BAD LUCK AND FINANCIALLY COULDNT DO IT ANYMORE,I ALSO HAVE A GOOD PAYING JOB BUT THATS NOT THE POINT YOU NEED A LITTLE BREATHING ROOM TO FIGURE YOURSELF OUT THATS WHAT IM DOING I WONT BE HOME FOREVER BUT UNTIL THEN IM MAKING A NEW BEGINNING FOR MYSELF WITH A CLEAN SLATE
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I struggle with this too.  You keep on keeping on.  You surround yourself with people who are supportive of you.  And you do fun stuff in between to tie you over.  Keep your chin up and remember to let out some emotion through exercise.
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try to focuse on ur home try to spend ur time in making the house cleaner try to make food decoriate ur house think that thier is no preson will care about u that mush expet ur husband try to have a baby thise will give the feeling that ur husband is every thing in ur live and good luck
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I have a very very mild form, it used to be worse.  I did feel like a burden to my husband when it was bad, now it's a lot better and it's to the point where I can force myself to leave the house when I don't really feel like it.  I am not in any kind of treatment anymore, but when I was, my therapist recommended starting very very slowly, thinking of the things that made me nervous at first, and then trying something that would make me only a tiny bit nervous, and working my way up from there.
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As I get older I find that I tend to feel disappointed about all the missed opportunities in my life due to my lack of self confidence in some cases and due to my lack of self motivation in others.\nbitter and blameful no because i'm honest enough with myself to say that my failures are my own and now I have to suck it up and deal with my regrets and try to learn from not be destroyed by them
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I can understand this feeling......but perhaps for one hour you could suck it up and concentrate solely on your meeting and on the other people in the room?  Sit between two other people who can distract you?  If you dont' HAVE to go into the office for regular work hours, then while working from home maybe you could be looking for another job at a relaxed pace.  I hate one of my co-workers, but I tolerate and deal with that person  gracefully knowing that I'm better and more respected by showing that I REFUSE to let them ruffle my feathers.  Never let 'em see you sweat.  Then THEY win.
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I feel like that every day I leave my office and head for home when I work with the one boss. Sometimes it can be anxiety over so many things going on at once, at least that's what I've pin pointed it to in my situation. When the one boss is here he is crazy running around like a chicken with his head cut off, a huge tornado of chaos. It totally drains me after he leaves. Any other day I am fine, I think his chaotic manners suck my energy right out of me. I've tried just bracing myself for him to be chaotic and then when he leaves reorganise everything back to it's original spot,  also I ignore him somewhat, act really absorbed into my work and then he doesn't really bother me.
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I only get grumpy after i remember i have to go to work. =(
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i dnt think by feelin uneasy n angry others will change. u should do ur own work n not expect others to do for u same. coz i think dis world is pretty selfish ppl here do not wanna do work dey just want results. so u should carry on ur work. like d hindi sayin goes 'karam kar phal ki iccha mat kar' dont let other ppl effect u otherwise it will be much difficult for u to survive.. dis same prob was also wid me some time ago but den someone told me dis n now a days im much relaxed\ni also suggest u to do some yoga, pranyam it gives peace of mind\ni hope dis helps\nGood luck