I am a Junier in college, there's this guy who is sooo hot that girls flock all ovah him.  However, I find him stealing glances at me...is it attraction?  Gay?
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is your gaydar working correctly?  i thought a gay person could tell another gay person?  if he's that hot, give him a shot!!!
586505
Love isn't blind.  Of course he is going to think there are other girls that are "hot" (a rather derogatory term, but whatever.)  Just like you look around and think the same of other guys.  It is what you DO (or, more importantly DON'T do) with those thoughts.
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uhh..not at all. Why would u want a guy that flirts with other guys, that's not cool or fashionable. That sends a message out to me that something might be going on in the relationship, or he is gay or wants to be...
523256
If your really that hot then, us guys think your too good for them and want make a move, What I like is when really hot girls gives me hints to know that she is interested in me, try hints like saying "your hot too" or "thanks sexy" when they complement you. If they don't make a move then there either gay or in a relationship already. Us guys don't always know what a girl wants. And a lot a of girls don't make it easy for us. Good luck.
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You'll never know until you go talk to her. Girls love guys with confidence..oh yeah, dont forget to be suave too. (lol)\nBut if it turns out, all this time, it was a "why-is-he-looking-at-me-stare". at least you know..\nSo, stop guessing!!
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Gawking..is beyond looking or staring..  it's openly and obviously "staring" continuing even after the other person becomes aware of it..And yes it is creepy..Are you sure you don't want to dump Mr. Creepy for someone who will at least curb his lust for other women when you're around.
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A short story about this topic:\n\nMy male cousin went to my school and was the "hot" guy.  He would not talk to me because I was a nerd.  He went to the same university as I did.  One day I saw him on campus walking alone and looking so dejected.  He wasn't the "hot" guy anymore.  He was just another student among 20,000 other students.  He could not handle it and dropped out of college to get a menial job in our hometown where he could be the "former hot" guy.  \n\nThe moral of the story:  Intelligence and personality will get you farther in life than good looks alone.
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ok, to be totally honest (since there were a couple total bs answers here), yes, my reaction would change. if i were physically attracted to a guy, him staring at me would be a sign that he was interested in me. from there he could ruin in in plenty of ways (being vain, being lewd, being an ignorant ass, having a girlfriend), but yes i would be flattered. having a guy i wasn't attracted to stare at me would make me feel awkward, because i don't like turning guys down and i would be nervous that he was going to approach me. there has to be some physical attraction for me to be in a romantic relationship with someone.\nthis is all assuming we're not talking literal drool. literal drool would pretty much kill his chances. so control your saliva!
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i don't know, but you're not wrong to be jealous, just don't go psycho on him! guys will always look at what catches their attention, just like women. i know i check guys out all the time but that doesn't mean i don't find my man attractive! it's natural to look, just don't stare. don't make it obvious that you're looking. same with him, if he's staring and drooling all over the place call him on it, if not let him look.
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If he enjoys standing behind you, he's lusting your derier. If he comes around to have non important chats with you often just to be in your company, he's interested in your thoughts. If you catch him gazing inappropriately, he's got a fire in his furnace for ya. His non-verbals will give him away.
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Yes. I like a certain look in men and I don't like the more ordenary looking guys who claim to like me. Also I was jealous of my roommate last year for she got so many comments on how hot she was from men. I didn't think she was that good looking myself.
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pay no attention to my avatar im a guy i just think my avatar is hot\n\nOK here goes\n\nHe will look at you alot, he will always respond when you talk to him, he will never tell u that u said something stupid, he will be eager to be your partner in class(unless hes a shy one which makes it impossible to tell) he will say all kinds of stupid things trying to impress u
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i truthfully know men and i mean really know men. I would suggest shrugging him off a bit! He may think that you are too available to him, he is a man but hes not dumb! If all these girls are paying him so much attention, he i sucking it up! Maybe if he sees that you arnt that interested, which we no is not true, he might see you in a different light. Men love a tease! make it a challenge for him!
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Would you rather be looking at guys with 'that' feeling...I think your b/f is much more comfortable with you looking at girls that way rather than guys...and you deal with it the same as any other couple...look, but bring your lust/desire home.  Just about everyone notices attractive people...whether single or committed, noticing isn't wrong, acting on it without your partners consent is.
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Each guy has a different idea of the type of girl he is attracted too... Some guys like tomboyish girls... Some like eye candy... Some like down-to-earth girls... Every guy is different...
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yikes honey, these guys sound like obsessive stalkers. what they are doing is wrong and it is illegal.  i'd suggest filing a report with the police..  get them arrested for tresspassing if they are on your property without permission.\n\nyour college should have some sort of guidance department that can help you cope with these issues.\n\nas far as why people do this? because they are insane. these people don't cope well with rejection, and instead of moving on in their life, they make it their obsession.. these people need serious mental help.\n\nas far as why or how you always seem to attract these type of guys? i have no idea..
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obviosuly he is interested cause we wont juts walk up to anyone, we have to be attracted. And he said "Is It Bad??" To make you think about it and because its flirticious.