she wants ot go back to an adolscent unit where she doesn't feel judged by others and not having ot worry about her friends finding out or telling other people adn being able to relate and just talk about the same things adn find ways to deal with there problems with each other beacuse thay are all the same and no one judges you ever.
121429
The Pavilion in Champaign or your local hospital.
136830
It is temporary, and has to do with her age.  The closeness will come back when she settles down into her job and life.
147469
Tough one, I knew someone like that and they are stubborn, that is their nature.  Well, you could have close friends that  that person respecs and know that would not do anything to hurt him all sit in a room and tell him the problem, be honest, speak with love, and he may not be open right away, but it will help in the long run, it creates a lasting impression that all your friends thought it was a problem enough to get together and tell him about it.  Change is slow in a human, especially when the behavior started a long time ago.
111638
She's going thru that stage in her life when she start's feeling diffrent about guys. Maybe she doesn't want to tell you because she doesn't feel comfortable talking about that with you maybe she does with her friends. When I was her age my mom wanted to know everything but I wanted some privacy.So try giving her some privacy.
490954
she needs a friend to open up to , someone she feels comfortable with cus she's feeling lost and needs someone to be in her corrnor untill she finds her way back
639898
FIRST OF ALL SHE IS FEELING SHE NEEDS SOMEONE TO MAKE OR KEEP HER HAPPY. IT'S AS IF SHE FEELS THAT BABY WOULD HAVE BROUGHT HER HAPPINESS SO THAT SHE COULD FEEL HAPPINESS. SHE HAS TO FEEL CONFIDENT OF HER SELF FIRST THEN MAYBE SHE WOULDN'T FEEL LIKE SHE DOES. SHE LET PEOPLE BRING HER SELF ESTEEM DOWN TO THE POINT WHERE SHE'S NOT HAPPY WITH HERSELF WITHOUT HAVING SOMEONE TO LOVE HER. TELL HER TO BUILD UP SELF ESTEEM GO OUT TO LIKE SUPPORT GROUPS, AND SEE A PHYSICIATRIST ALSO START TALKING ABOUT HER ISSUES. SHE WILL THEN MEET PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN IN HER PREDICTAMENT, AND SHE WON'T FEEL ALONE. SHE NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT HER PAIN AND HOW'S SHE HURTING, BECAUSE KEEPING IT IN WILL ONLY DEPRIVE HER OF HAPPINESS IN A LONG RUN. THEN HAVING A BOYFRIEND WHO IS GIVING NO SUPPORT IS NOT MAKING IT NO BETTER ONLY TO BREAK HER DOWN MORE THAN SHE'S ALREADY BREAKING DOWN NOW. SHE NEEDS TO GET AWAY FROM ALL THAT AND START A NEW CHANGE. THAT BABY MEANT THE WORLD TO HER TO WHERE SHE FEELS LOST NOW BUT GOD DO THINGS FOR REASONS, AND MAYBE THAT MEANT TO GET HER LIFE STRAIGHT FIRST BEFORE BRINGING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD. SHE ALSO LOST A FRIEND AND THAT HURTS ALSO TO THE POINT WHERE SHE FEEL SHE HAS NOTHING, AND I KNOW HOW THAT FEEL CAUSE I LOST A FATHER,GRANDMA, AND A CHILD OF MY OWN WHEN I WAS 4MTHS. I ALSO FELT I HAD NOTHING, BUT I STARTED SEEING A PHYSICIATRIST AND GROUPS AND NOW I'M BETTER. I THINK ABOUT THEM EVERYDAY BUT ONLY TO KNOW THEY ARE WATCHING OVER ME, JUST AS HER FRIEND AND CHILD IS WATCHING OVER HER. TELL HER ALSO SHE NEEDS GOD IN HER LIFE TO PRAY TO HIM ALSO AND WITH HIM SHE CAN NEVER GO WRONG. SO GOD BLESS HER AND GOOD LUCK!!!
173262
Sounds like she's feeling limited and confined by her lifestyle.  She may need some activities where she is in a role other than wife (and mother - if that applies).  Does she work outside the home?  If not, she might want to do so, or perhaps do some volunteer work.  Or maybe there are some activities/interests/hobbies she's given up or always wanted to try - encourage some of those.  She may even want to take some classes.  \n\nThe only way to find out what's going to be appropriate for her is to talk it out.  Don't feel threatened by her evolving as a person, you can't possess a person and if you try, it will backfire.  So have faith and revel in the experience of watching her become revitalized.
564684
She's probably just really nervous about being grown up. If you are truly her friend then talk to her about how she's feeling. If not, tell her how you feel. Good luck.
210168
u just need time. some ppl get over it faster then others. i get over stuff fast theres no need to keep being up set. if it was ment to be she will come back!
471274
Well..respect her independence. Friendship is not based on expectations alone.
369164
To me it sound like she is just old and thing that she does should be done in her way so you could try already having them done for her. Sometime thing just have to be done for people and you tell a little lie and you tell them they have already have done it. I know you don't want to have to lie to the people we love but their is times we have to. That and people at that age don't want to think that they can't do thing their self. So if you make her think that she is doing alot  by herself. And you could give her thing to do that you know that would be easy for her like at dinner have her get the drinks for everyone thing like that. Yes she old but in her mind she not. so try to find something easy and the hard thing you do.
430979
Only if you fake being happy, follow orders and never do what you want, I don't think we can get on with everyone cause we all have different personalities and that is what makes us special and interesting, i know the feeling i use to be friends with a girl i meet through work but her constant put downs toward others and bossy personality was just to much for me so i stayed away as i knew if i didn't i wouldn't be happy i really think it's normal to find people you don't get along with i mean how fun would that be if we all got along, we would have no one to gossip and bi**h about........lol
358391
a little bit of both it sounds like. its sad that she can't deal with being alone so settles for whatever is around to avoid it, that won't make for a happy life. but it also sounds like she partly does it just because she can, which isn't good either because sooner or later one will get her and its just not a good way to treat people. what comes around goes around, she'll get hers eventually.
485212
Show her around... introduce her to some people... take her mind off of the ex.... what you see in movies. When you move to a new place, you want her to feel like she would if she was in Florida. I know if I moved in with my cousins also in Michigan... I wouldnt want to feel like an alien. I would want to know that I have friends.
161344
You need to get out there and grow , But maybe your friend is afraid of change or just want things to stay the same. Things have to change in order to get ahead, But who says she can't still be your friend? Don't let anyone hold you down because of their own insecurities!
512309
l felt the same way for many years. but l have learned to love myself. l realize l'm not so insecure that l should need friends who are just no good for me.
570210
She was gone and you found a new group to socialize with. I am sure everyone at school was like "wuz up with her skippin' school"? right? So maybe you judged her as well but now things are too weird between ya'll because of your new friends. Ya'll need to talk you can work this out if you truely miss her. Call her up and just start chatting. Before you now it things will work themselves out and ya'll will be hangin' out again.