She loves to: Ride your Black Motorcycle  (talking about Sport Bike and she even drove it over in the rain yesterday when going out to dinner and we ride are motorcycle every day which is so much fun with her), watch funny movies, wearing her motorcycle black leather jacket, pants, and gloves (She loves wereing black leather stuf because she said it makes her feel like she's hot and she is!!!), and Sex (a lot of sex with me). \nShe dosent Drink that much she usually drinks 1 or 2 a month and never smokes.  \n\nSo If someone can help me Please I would like it a lot\n\nP.S I am 24 years old she is 23 \nWe been together for 4 years
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get her some new leather.. grab the bike and a simple lunch along with a blanket.. ride out to a very quiet spot.. enjoy a picnic and then make love out in the open-being sure to satisfy her first
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She is depressed and probably feeling insecure. I believe that she probably likes this guy because he makes her feel younger. However, you are right. The grass is not greener on the other side. Most likely, he will probably date her for "the candy" and once someone more attractive comes along, he'll most likely leave her. I hate to be so brutal. \nHere are some tips to boost her ego and hopefully help her realize that you are such a good guy:\n*pull her closer when talking to someone of the opposite sex, even if it's a relative.\n*surprise her with wine and bubble bath, possibly leading into a massage?\n*do fun activities with her, go out and have fun together.\n*tell her she is beautiful and give her affection in public(in moderation)\n*as crude as this sounds (I apologize if anyone is offended) but give her foreplay! \n\nIf all else fails and she still leaves you, if you truely love this woman, be there for her when she falls down. If she does this again, then she doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't let yourself get stepped on. \n I wish you the best of luck. \n*
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I like that you are concerned but not being an @ss about this..good job! Now..try and get her interested in working out with you. It doesn't have to be what you are doing...take her on walks, bike riding, hiking. Find something physical that she likes and try and get her motivated to do it more often. Exercise doesn't have to be a chore if you find something you really like. I applaud you for choosing to try and ger her involved in something that will better her health. Good luck with finding something that will work!!
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You are so nasty.  Keep trying and she will tell you what she likes.  I hope you can follow directions well.
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that one is hard. i would get her drunk, but not trashed, you want her to have a slight memory of it. then fuck her brains out. do everything that she would before. as long as she can remember bits and pieces she might want to try it again. have fun man!!
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If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.
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I have her problem and its not a problem at all some days its really bad and I have to wear a pad is all to keep from having to change my clothes but its normal since she is a virgin she don't have anything so tell her to wear a pad ever so often and let that area breath a bit as well that will help her dry up a bit sometimes. I wish you luck in your life together.
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duh! she wants your man and thinks she can get him. dont let her think that. act like you dont give a sh$#. if she compliments his shirt tell her you got it. start asking if she like your shirt. if she gets him a drink say oh you almost forgot my drink i would like a coke too. make her work......tell her you want butter and new knife, some jam, if she wants to be at your table so much then let her, but she has to work for it. remind her of her place a barmaide.lol dont let her get to you. have a conversation when she is coming and keep the conversation going until she leaves. that will get to her.
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i WOULD LIKE RESPECT, AND I LIKE FLOWERS, I LIKE PRIVATE COZY PLACES, I LOVE AFFECTION. JUST A QUICK KISS AND SAY I LOVE YOU FOR NO REASON, A LITTLE RUB, SPENDING TIME TOGETHER. SHOW HER SOME FUN. CONCERTS, FAIRS, WALK ON THE BEACH, NOT STARE AT OTHER WOMEN FOR SURE! BE YOURSELF. MAKE HER LAUGH! LOOK AT HER IN THE EYES WHEN SHE IS TALKING TO YOU. GIVE HER YOUR FULL ATTENTION WHEN YA'LL ARE TALKING. LEAVE HER A NOTE, FIX A NICE BUBBLE BATH WITH CANDLES, TAKE HER TO DINNER. CALL HER DURING THE DAY JUST TO SAY I LOVE YOU OR I AM THINKING OF YOU. SHE WILL LIKE ALL THOSE THINGS! GOOD LUCK!
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She sounds lovely! Respect her for being cautious. \nAsk her if she would like to go for a wander around a few coffee shops the weekend, to 'sample a few eateries'! Maybe even try a little duck al orange or a chicken in the basket along the way!! She may be shy, but only spending lots more time with her will allow you see the 'inner person' and her true personality may bloom! \n\nShe may well be more of an animal! Grrrrrr! than you think!\n\n........good luck
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What a sweet question :)\n\nI think the best thing you can do is talk to one of her close friends or familiy members and ask them what she is personally into.  \n\nMy guess is there is a certain piece of jewelry or a certain perfume she wants. If not there is definately something specific out there she wants, and there is at least one person who knows exactly what it is, so my advice again would be to start talking to people close to her.\n\nIn any case, having a friend as sweet as you is a good gift :)\nBest of luck.
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my husband is over there right now. you could send videos of all your buddies saying hey your man loves you! send her pics of you and the guys. where my husband is now, he has some access to more cultural type stuff. you could pick out some stuff as souvenirs to send to her. i really like mt. dew, so my husband sent me one of theirs as a souvenir. you could make a cd of songs that make you think of her, that say what you want to say. and when you write to her, tell her how you are feeling, tell her about your plans for the future. girls like that stuff.\nand thanks for your service and sacrifice!\noh, and the best gift of all in my opinion, put together a charm bracelet for her. include charms that symbolize times you spent together. such as a horse for the time you guys went horse back riding together, just as an example. i would love it if my man would think of something like that!
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I would start with several sets of sexy undies.  At least one outfit should be in her taste, that she would feel comfortable wearing.  You should have 4 or 5 outfits that YOU like.  I don't know your personal taste, but the slave idea sounds interesting.  Costumes are always fun.  Maid, cheerleader, schoolgirl, slut.  You may even want to get a matching outfit that you can wear together.  Of course you're going to bring several of your cutest nighties for when you two cuddle up when you have your girlie sleepover. Go for it, sweetie.  I hope you both have a wonderful weekend.  Let us know how it went.
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I am somewhat in this same situation.  I was a drinker when I met my bf and he has since asked me to quit (or only drink when he is around).  He knows I tend to be more "open" or social when I'm under the influence of alcohol and that scares him, and he has every reason to be (i am a heavy drinker and have been known to black out).  I guess it depends on how much she is drinking and how often.  Do you see yourself EVER being able to accept it.  I'm sure you have tried talking to her about this already, hence the fighting.  Please, next time, express your fellings calmly, genuinely, and with love.  If she is 100% defending her actions without even so much as considering your feeling on this, it may be a lost cause.  (From experience, the more defensive she is, the more difficult the situation, there may be more to what she is doing).  If she loves you, she will at least consider what you have to say. \n\nAlso, you may want to re-evaluate your marriage.  I'm no counsler, but I've known from my own relationships that sometimes the spark burns out.  She may just be seeking the "new" that she misses from when you 2 met.  Is rediscovering those "new" feelings with her an option?
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Talk! Tell her that she looks pretty. A compliment does not cost a thing, but ladies love to hear them, even if it's a soft little wolf whistle (don't make a spectacle out of it). Ask her what she wants to do, and if it's a chick flick, go and try not to fall asleep.  Take her on a picnic to a pretty place that you know of near your home.  \n\nBefore you leave her, (make sure your breath is good for this one) lean close to her ear, and whisper softly, "I can't wait until I see you later."  I don't know about all women but I have heard a LOT of women say they love it when their man whispers sweet things in their ear.  Slip little love notes into her purse when she is not looking or bring her a flower once in awhile. \n\nGood luck, have fun and be creative!
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It is normal.  She probably feels like you're replacing her, or that it's kinky,etc.\nThe next time you're in the mood try to make her be in the mood.  I know that sometimes I claim to not be in the mood, but after some persuasion I can heartily change my mind.\n\nGirls don't get turned on by sight, but by touch.  The next tiem you want some, go after her, but be romantic and tender too.  Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and how much you long for her.  Kiss her neck, and eyes, and smooth her hair.  Compliment her like hell, and be as sugary as possible.\n\nMake her realize, that you wouldn't have to masturbate if she were more open to sex.\n\nAlso, encourage her to take a multivitamin with you.  Alot of women don't have enough zinc -- so they have hard time getting wet.\nThey don't have enough niacin, either, so they don't feel good.\n\nGet her to take evening primrose oil for "her hair", and flax seed oil  to help prevent cholesterol issues for both of you (buy smart balance too, so that this sounds more plausible).  Once she starts taking those magical four (zinc, niacin, evening primrose oil, and flax seed oil) she'll have a hard time keeping her hands off of you.
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You have no way of knowing whether what she is saying is the truth, you'll just have to trust her.Need to realize in life, no matter how close you are to someone, you'll never really know what they're thinking, that's just the way life is. I don't think any of her "excess skin" ,as you put it, is from too much physical recreation. It's probably something genetic, and if it doesn't bother her{like in a painful, medical way} it shouldn't bother you. A couple things women pick up on quick is  jealousy and insecurity, and it's generally not perceived by them as positive traits. It sounds to me like you should have ONE long talk about this with her, and then drop it,'cause if you keep bringing it up, she's going to drop you.