how does the jealous system work?like if you change moods or something.
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Jealousy is a failure to see the truth.  I am jealous of something or someone when either I think they are better than I am or that they have something I do not have.  Neither is true.  If I am jealous of someone who is beautiful, I too must have some component of beauty in me - otherwise I could not see or appreciate the beauty in something or someone else.  If I am jealous of someone who is wealthy, I need to look at my own life to find where I am also wealthy.  Maybe I have a wealth of undeveloped talent, or a wealth of friends, or a wealth of wisdom.  So jealousy, is really an opportunity to find and appreciate that quality that I actually have, but think I do not have.
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you identify first on what is really your feeling towards him.. if you like him then go on..regarding his actuations some guys  would make fool on you if they like you or do things that would make you feel jealous..in that way also they will discover they're feelings for you.
501626
Jealousy is a wasted emotion. It makes neither one of you happy and doesn't prevent the other from doing what they want, or what you don't want them to; so what's the point?
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Not all people get angry and jealous over such things. Those that do have this tendency have probably been this way since childhood. It comes from bad parenting. If a child throws a tantrum and gets their way, they learn to throw tantrums over everything. This carries on into adulthood. If your in love with a fit thrower as it sounds you are, leave them now they will always be this way. However if you feel the need to change them there are professionals and possibly meds. that can help you with your co-dependency. If that doesn't work you will be forced to continue being their dammit doll forever. I personally use mind altering chemicals to drown out their b****ing. I am not a Dr. though so take it for what it is. ON THE OTHER HAND if you get some kind of enjoyment twisting their little mind then you should realize that you don't really care why people get jealous. You just enjoy the show. My friend here who is far less long winded thinks you are just an attention seeker and this was a rhetorical question.
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It does mean they have feelings for their ex, but the question is whether or not those feelings are those of love or revenge.  Breaking up can be horrible, and you can feel a lot of resentment for the person who you broke up with, and making someone jealous is how you get revenge.  However, if making someone jealous can also be a means to making them want you back.
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I've had this happen to me, by my friends or family. It's usually because they're jealous or they feel like life isn't doing anything good for them.
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Well, someones getting bitchy & jealous, so ask her!\nst
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I can talk from experience about jealousy, being insecure. It's both. Men like this who get mad because you're wanting to feel good about yourself, is and can be a problem. It's a form of control. These type of men, will not change. I know, talking 12 years of it here. It starts out with them accusing you of flirting, or being too nice to the next guy, spending too much time with friends or family and that isn't always the case. Men like these are so insecure about themselves, they don't want you looking nice or feeling good about yourself because they don't feel good about themselves. Next thing you know, you're being blamed for their insecurity. I know, it happened to me. You can try to talk to him and tell him how that makes you feel when he's accusing you of trying to impress other men at your job but if he isn't listening to you or tries on work on that jealousy or insecurity, then you may need to re-think on your relationship. Men like these don't want you to feel good about yourself and for whatever reason, they want to control everything in your life. Don't let him do that or you'll end up like me, miserable and unhappy. My husband and I are divorcing now but it doesn't take away all the pain of him being jealous of everything or everyone I knew. He should be complimenting on your new looks or your new hairdo, whatever the case may be and get over his insecurity and jealousy because if he doesn't, it will drive you away. I know. Hope this helps!
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Bipolar Disease runs in my family, so I always get a little concerned when my moods shift suddenly.  In your case, I would definately suggest talking to someone...doctor, friend, family...its always best to let someone know where your mind and heart are at.  Hormones can also play a big part in your emotions, especially if your menstruating or are pregnant.  I dont know where your from, but Im from MA., and its been raining here for weeks on end.  The weather can also have a strong effect on your moods.  Be well sister!
606349
wow. i think she's beyond jealous. first question, i understood it. second question...i wondered...this, being the third question...i'm starting to worry about you.
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There's nothing you can do.  The more effort you exert the more they will resist.  People of EGO feel others are jealous.  So whatever you do will be interpreted as being jealous.  Just allow them to grow out of their ego's.  It will happen one day, provided they live that long.  Life alone can teach them that they are not all they believe themselves to be.  Then again, ego can be a positive, provided it's not over inflated.
64121
i have been there done that!  it doesn't work for long!  But hell, take it for as long as you can.  Just like everyone else said...eventually feelings get in the way!
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Check out the link from Yahoo! Horoscopes, it breaks down how your personalities would match and etc.
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I hope you can understand this but you have a lot of mood swings to fast. You confuse me a lot. I just want you to know that and don't be offended becuz im only helping you
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Serious mood swings happen to women.  Hormones fluctuate, and it effects everything from mood to how our bodies feel.  Yes, it does have to do with the women's mensrual cycle, though don't ever bring that up.  Different hormones do different things to our bodies at different times of the month.  And it gets really frustrating.  We can go from being in a good mood to wanting to cry in just a minute.  Of course, all women are different.  This effects women on different levels.  It's worse for some than others.  \nWhen a girl is going through this, remember that she can't help it.  You need to be extra nice and respectful of her, and don't make fun of her.  For most girls, don't mention PMS or anything.  We don't really want the world knowing what our bodies are doing.  Just be really nice to her, and don't take offence if it backfires.  Hope this helps!
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That's really a personal thing. Everyone is different. I think most do, but not all admit it. How many times in a given time period also depends on when the mood hits them.
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Controlling your feelings takes practice. You start with making a decision to do it. Then, every time you feel a certain way, you remember that you want to stop feeling that way. Then, you replace that feeling with something positive. For instance...you want to stop feeling shy. You find someone who's not shy and see how they are. If they are someone you want to be like, you do like they do. Hopefully, it's a person who is mature for their age and a positive influence for you to follow. Then, you start making the changes that are needed to overcome your shyness. Join a club at school, like chorus. Join an after school club, like 4H. Get involved with volunteer work, where there are lots of people. Fairly soon, you won't feel shy around others because you'll be too busy enjoying their company. You will have conquered your shyness. Now, if your problem is anger, that's something a little more difficult. You'll have to try to understand why you're angry and how it happens. Anger usually happens when you feel out of control of a situation that another person caused. You have to first realize that you can't control another person. You can try, either hitting them or some other extreme thing. But that puts you in their control because they just caused you to do something you didn't need to do. You could have walked away, ignoring them. Anger is a choice, just like any other emotion. You can choose to not________ (fill in the blank with whatever emotion you have). It's a want, not a need. Feelings come and go. The person you "fell" in love with a month ago, you can't stand now. They did something that made you mad. Actually, YOU chose to be mad...no one can make you anything you don't want to be. If someone calls you a dork, that doesn't make you one. It's someone else's feelings, not yours. If you then start feeling like they're right and you are a dork, you just accepted their feelings as yours. You see what I'm saying? By choosing to change, you don't have to feel any way that is less than great. After all, God didn't make junk. You are a wonder of God's creation. <*)))><