Why are you guys such players? How come you are not satisfied with just one woman ?
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but still the girls love us the way we are
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oh girl...hes a player...and hes not into settling down..he LOVES women..just be one of them...
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its not a game, it's a way for us girls to feel you out to see where your head is at, if she didn't like you, she wouldn't be around you in the first place. love is a game to most, and sincere to a few. woman want love and we try so hard to find it, even if it means going through alot of drama to find it. what would make it easier is if you guys just say what you feel instead of playing:THE GAME
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
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well as you said some men play with lonely & hopeless women ,so i think you just answered your question ,you showed him your weakness(that was your lonliness) and he took advantage of it to enjoy you for some times ,and soon after a while he got tired of you simply like this..I know you dont need to be blamed and i dont blame you but this can be a very good lesson for you .\nAnd if you want to know why this guy is doing it with desperate women ..i think its because they are easy to be cheated and weak in heart !
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Where have you been? It's done all the time. Evidently you're on that bandwagon. You love 1 ( ONE) only. It's not a toy to take out & play with when you feel like it. It's to be appreciated & cherished an reciprocated as well.
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sigh, alas tis the truth with many of the females...because i hear that all the time too, the whole 'i want a good man, i ain't settlin for no scrub, he has to respect me, blah blah blah" and right after that they can't let go of some alchoholic that beats them, or some playa that cheats on them constantly but "oh i still love him, if he does it again he's GONE"... when he shoudl've been gone in the first place.\nYou know what's even worse?  LOOK AT THE YAHOO QUESTIONS!  A LOT of women are askin "what should i do, i love him but he's cheating on me what do i do?" \nor "i like him, he's a great guy, but he watches porn and flirts with other women..what should i do?" I mean you see a hell of a lot of questions like that...so that's a good question, what ARE women's defense to that? Cause i'm one of the good guys, and THANKFULLY i've found a sensible woman who actually KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS!  But i've dealt with the gullible and confused girls that dissed me for the a*shole, and then had the nerve to say they're just stronger now after gettin over it, when in essence they shouldn't have been in it in the first place!  \nWhat is up wit dat?
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THANK YOU!!! what really do guys see in a gilr who gives it up on teh first night and has been with every guy on the block.. it makes me soo mad. Or how about the chicks that are married but like away on vacation or deployment(military) and act like total whores... ugh
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Forget about what is being said. People will do anything for easy points. I say, keep doing what you doing and being a playa isn't easy. We players, have reputations to protect from those who want to be like us. Just play it and set it up smoothly. Besides, that's what women are good for. Once they all find out, just play it off like a rumor being spread and move onto the next. DON'T TRIP!!! TRUST ME, HOMIE!!!
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Well there goes the guys again thinking that we ladies can be tricked into doing something we are either not interested in or don't understand or don't want to understand...\nBut in all fairness.. If you really want her to be really interested and not pretend interest. take the time to give her the rules, background on players you think are great or suck and why, their injuries, you have to see it from our view, if all we see is grownmen smacking heads we think "OK guys have fun, catch you later".. But if we are involved with the rules and see an injustice on the field of a player we know just got hurt in a previous game, we're going to root for the underdog ... Is any of this sinking in, or does it sound like too much work to do to have your girl really care about your fun thing you already understand?
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honey, this is an easy one. Guys want to feel wanted. when they know a woman really wants them, it makes them feel good and then it's time to move on. Guys like this will never be faithful and stay true to one woman. I honestly know this being a guy myself. My advice to you, is to find a guy that likes to do what you like to do and not want you to do everything him and his friends want to do. good luck and take care.
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Sounds like you are just choosing the wrong women, not all of us are cheaters!  The right one is out there for you.  Stop looking and you'll find her.
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This is not true of all men.  These guys just can't get anything better than that.  There's nothing wrong with a hot woman accentuating her attributes, but nothing to the extent that you described.
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I had asked my ex this question long ago.  His answer was that guys like this are not ready for one girl.  And most guys are TRAINED to go with as many as they can because life is short.  So they have fun hurting girls that really care about them.  But they don't stick around to access the damage that they have inflicted.  And all this makes them feel like a man.\nMost do not know that they have not only hurt the girl, but have damaged them as well. Most of these girl go through life with complexes and insecurities  that affect them for the rest of their lives.\nBut many women know that this does not make a man a MAN.  It makes them look more and more like children who cannot make a simple decision. Because they have so many obtions (women) in a world filled with all types of sexually transmittable diseases. Who cannot commit because they are too immature.  They must grow up before before they can have a REAL relationship with anyone.  They are taught not to commit.  Not to settle down.  Not to stick with one woman. They are taught to seek out, fine, and use women. \nWell I have asked many men the question why cant you stay with one lady.  YOU WILL BE SURPRISE AT THE ANSWERS!!\nI askes my uncle and uncles friends, my brother and brothers friends, my male cousins and friends,  I have ask people when i work and a friend of mind told me she asked a few of her male friends..........I got many answers but the one i have heard the most WAS.........BECAUSE THE WOMEN LET THEM!!
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maybe u need relationship guidance or he needs more than 1 woman 2 satisfy him coz hes greedy.
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No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.
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Dont get down on yourself.  They are all different.  Its probably you that are the real issue here.  \n\nYou "find em at school, partys, bookstores, bars, landrymats, downtown events, church, the internet, this game is old"\n\nSounds like you are a player-but you dont know it.\n\nIt could also however be the modern American woman (your word choice sounds American)- who prefers a multi partner life.  Who prefers the masculine ways.\n\nTimes are changing my friend.  My buddy had the same frustrations, as did I, and both of us left our motherlands in search of brighter days.\n\n\nPeace.