My boyfriend and I were wondering what is such a sexual turn on about Hot wax and massage oil? How does it help pleasure?
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Well Hot Wax, is if you like feeling a little pain...ok...ALOT!  But to some people it is a turn on to feel the wax as it singes the skin. But ways to use it are to let a lit candle drip the melting wax onto the skin, some people like the pain and then have it peeled off and smothered with kisses on the red spot it leaves behind. Or blowing it.\n\nMassage oil can have sensual and therapeutic benefits. The sensual would be the edible oils that can be massaged in and licked, they come in all kinds of flavours, and what is better than having a hot massage and then being licked in all the right places afterwords!\n\nThe therapeutic benefits is in the massage itself, warming the oil and having it massaged into those muscles, a great feeling after a long, hard day at work, plus it makes your skin feel ever so soft!
111143
It wasn't until a couple of weeks ago that I realised that not all women shave or wax.It was only through a discussion with a few of the guys at work that I found out and to be honest I was really shocked.I just presumed that all women did for comfort and hygiene reasons more than anything else.Men do seem to be more turned on by it though and if I didn't already do it I would start doing so just for that reason - does that make me a sl*ut?
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Really good kissing gets me in the mood.  There is nothing more sexy than a man who knows how to perform oral sex with finese and enjoys it.  A man who takes his time with a woman and learns what she likes is the best thing ever. (Of course, I think the woman should be willing to do the same for him too!)
290144
YUP.....its the best..in and out like nothing! this is your sexual peak..try it..some like some dont!
165445
In my opinion,as a women,being on top is the best,but that way I can control how much and how hard "my spot" get's stimulated,and men that I have been with also preferred me on top. I guess it depends on the individual,but from my experience,we both enjoyed me on top,HOWEVER,there are other position's that are very enjoyable with the man doing most of the work. I dont believe it has to do with how hard one has to work(shouldnt feel like a job),it has to do with what feels good,and it's just, if not more pleasurable to please the other,because if they are getting turned on,that turns you on.
579966
perfectly normal especially during a massage which is relaxing all your muscles and stimulationg blood flow to all parts of your body.. although i'm sure you are aroused as well ;)
658192
Try foreplay! Too many times you guys are in too much of a hurry...the ladies like it slow and easy...give her time....and try the new KY Jelly with the little "tingle"... its a warming massage.
283125
There's certain pleasure in pain. Like for me scratching my back and smacking my booty, and pulling my hair is a turn on. During sex when two become one it become amazing to as what can be turned into pleasure that normally wouldn't be. You have to learn your woman to know what pleases her and what causes pain.  As you embark on your intimate journey w/ your partner you will both learn about each other each other's likes and dislikes. It's a trial and error, but worth it in the end.
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The an us has more nerve clusters and endings than the head of the penis or the clitoris. \n\nDuring anal sex, I can have my prostate gland stimulated by a co ck too.  The prostate gland is what gives you the rush of pleasure during an orgasm, so having a co ck press on it, makes orgasms INTENSE\n\nPlus, it's  nice to let others get pleasure from you, nice to get fuc ked instead of fuc king someone
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All over......I loved to be teased.  My boyfriend deliberately avoids the especially hot spot (my cl*t), until I'm really hot, and begging for him to.  Guys have to mix it up.  We love to be licked. sucked, nibbled and fingered.  The best advice I can give you is to just enjoy it.  You don't need a plan,  or an elaborate amt of thought.  Ask her what she likes, and surprise her with what you know.  The direct answer to you question would be tongue on my cl*t, while fingers on my g-spot.  But I don't want that right away.....I want to build up to that.
258524
So does my bf, i just eat it, I love it. It really turns me on that I turn him on that much.\n\nYou have nothing to worry about, he obviously fancies you very much!
221307
Of course it can get "turned on" again!!! Don't give up!!! Remember this, the most important part of the body to get "turned on" is the BRAIN. When you are with the right person, he will stimulate your mind, which could lead to stimulating other things as well...
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I know that I certainly do prefer it for the same reason men prefer it when I wax during bikini weather...No hair to worry about when doing oral sex...Now we can suck on more than just the shaft and not have to spit out hair...LOL
580874
i know what your talking about and ky does make different massage oil/personal lubes i myself have purchased them for me and my boyfriend. wal-mart sells them by the condoms, but they are kinda pricey, but well worth it.
632713
What gets you excited, what makes you hot? Do other guys turn you on more than he does, or is it just a matter of nobody turns you on? Do you enjoy sex, does it cause you discomfort, do you feel wrong doing it, do you feel healthy otherwise?  Been in a bad mood lately, if so, why? Lots of reasons for low libido, if it's been going on for a while, and you can't figure out a reason why, might be time to stop by the doctor's office...
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I wouldn't mind at all, on the contrary, I love all sorts of unorthodox sexual practices and find plain ol' vanilla sex very boring and tiresome.  Men have very sensitive prostates; unfortunately, many straight men never know what it's like to be stimulated there because they are not allowed to entertain such ideas.  Just look at some of the answers here; it is clear our society is very prudish and narrow-minded when it comes to sex.  If a guy likes getting his prostate stimulated, it's "gay".  Come on people.  That's BS.\n\nYou ask any (good) sex therapist and they'll be happy to tell you that a man who enjoys having his prostate stimulated does not have to have his head examined, and as long as both partners are happy and comfortable, go for it!  That applies to a lot of other things too; I hear from a surprising number of women that anal sex really hurts and is not enjoyable at all.  This is completely contrary to my experience, and I love receiving anal sex, maybe more than vaginal sex.  So, you know, I don't care what pre-existing notions or standards others have.  I know what I like, my parter knows what he likes, whatever we like in the bedroom is our @*$damn business and no-one is going to tell us otherwise.\n\nAnyway, whatever you want to do in the bedroom, if both partners are cool with it, then do it.  Simple as that!  :)
536354
Wow.... If the oil massage is given by a hot bombshell youre really in for something special.