Women want breast enhancements, and then don't want to be stared at.\n \nWomen with big breasts have the same problem?\n\nIf a man looks does it irritate you?
129055
I have naturally large breasts and I don't mind n-e one looking male or female. Look if you think they are nice and if your are nice you might get...
31950
Because men don't have them and 99.9% of humans associate breats with life as breast feeding provides the first food.\n\nI am well endowed enough that if I choose to show clevage, I get treated differently by men while out shopping or enjoying an evening out. Without the clevage showing, less doors get opened, I get smiled at less and I am less often allowed in line before a man. Perhaps all the attention is a ploy to get closer to said subject!
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How do you get rid of what ?\nThe girl or the boobs ?\nI don't know..\nBig boobs never really bugged me...\nWhy do they bug you ?\nJust ignore them if they bother / bug you ..
11181
too many temptations...why do you think girls have breasts implants?
130157
I to am a plus sized woman, And I understand where your coming from.  All the guys wants to be my friend or think of me as one of the guys. Where they get that vibe at I am not sure.   But I think that guys ,like women, are self conscious I think some men really like bigger women but they are afraid of what other ppl men especially would think of them with a larger woman in hand.  And that's there problem and they miss out on wonder full women that way.  Also I think its magazines and the media, culture what ever you wanna say puts this idea of what a woman should be. And there are us few that just don't fit the mold but I would rather be fat and unique than skinny and be just a carbon copy of what other ppl have a idea of.  Lots of times I think women of size have to have a out going personality or maybe a in your face type one and some men are threatened by that. I know there are some men in my life that are by my personality. But they know i don't take any thing from them either. I hope I helped. But just know your not the only one that feels that way.  As a child i was practically tortured by the other kids. And as an adult its not much better but I feel sorry for them because normally if someone is saying bad things thinking bad things about you then they have a problem or are insecure about them self so ultimately they are the ones with the problem. I hope I have helped with my ramballing.
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When I was young it used to bother me a great deal. Everything felt like a threat to me, and his attention to any other female felt like I was being compared and found wanting.\n\nWith age I have found that all people look at other people all the time. And I have learned that men and women are so different that when a man looks at women, it is not the same as when women look at men.\n\nMen react to women in much the same way that in a crowded store, when a child calls out,"Mommy!", all of the women turn to look. It isn't about being attached to them, or even attracted to them. It is a deeply ingrained reaction based on hormones and experience. \n\nWomen have spent a lot of time re-training men to curb this reaction, but I found that if I could become accepting of it (as long as it was simple looking), my man was happier, felt stronger and more loved for who he genuinely was. This translated into him loving me more for not judging him, and he felt happier to accept me as I was. And it just kept getting better! \n\nSo relax. He is a man and that is what you want him to be, isn't it?
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I agree with you! I would much rather look like Jessica Rabbit. I'm not into the whole girl on girl thing but i don't hesitate to comment on another woman's body. As a matter of fact, i am obsessed with boobs. It's not that I think boobs are a turn on, I just think they are amazing and I love to look at all of the different kinds! It's usually one of the first things I notice on a girl. Like I said, I am in no way attracted to women but I do like to look. I totally understand where you are coming from!
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You~re right, looks is the first thing that attracts women to men, so I dont understand why they complain when we do it. Or maybe I do, try this -\n\nThe women who complain about men being shallow are the 90% of the poplulace who are ordinary, and they want to deter men from going after the 10% pretty girls. Effectively they are using harsh language to try and get more attention for themselves when their looks dont deserve that attention. Hahahahaha
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I don't think making mean comments about things which people cannot change is called for and agree that they are loosers.  For me personally I like bigger boobs but that doesn't mean I have anything against people who are not well endowed.  It's just the initial attraction thing, in the end it is personality that will determine if you will really like someone or not.
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i had a theory once, i asked a whole bunch of my friends whether they had been breast fed or not.  and then i asked if they liked big boobs.  surprisingly the guys who weren't breastfed liked big boobs, the majority of the breastfed, preferred smaller boobs.  it wasn't an official experiment but the majority of the answers went in those directions. i like big boobs and i wasn't breast fed.  ask those questions and see what you get.
20550
Why do women have boobs? 'Cause you got something to look at while your talken to them.
283344
Some women are vain and silly and think that bigger is better. Men with small penises can do things that those who are more endowed can not. Myself I would prefer a smaller man to a huge one.
361971
it's a man thing we all check out other women all the time 24 7 dose he do i on the sly. pay no attention to it. if you trust him. but in general men don't compare when they look all they see is boobs smile ass shape of crotch in jeans. and oh yes id like to give her one if i was not completely devoted to the beautiful woman at my side. ps any one that says you should do it dose not under stand human nature. if you notice that you look well trying not to look wont work but if you by nature's design dont look well dont force it. you should be able to talk to him about it and have a laugh
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I am honestly not believing some of these answers. lmao. Yes men are men and no not every does it. and don't believe for a minute that its because he finds you lacking and them not. what the heck ppl!! my honest belief. I think you have people that just simply enjoy people. I watch people all day long, men and women. It dont make me a bad person, nor a lesbian. I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I like how a woman can carry herself, and how she may or may not use her hands to talk. The way she tries to act like she dont realize she is being looked at. A smile. on either a woman or mans face, is a wonderous thing. Just so on how their lips lift slighty at the edges. Its either an amused smile, or a happy smile. Come on.. It does not have to be a bad thing. If you can't beat um join um. I point out women for my husband to look at. To show him, I too can recongnize a looker, but it also lets him know. I am aware of what and who he is looking at, without causing offense. Good luck hon:)
198734
I am a woman, but I have conducted a similar survey myself on the men I know, and just wanted to let you know that they felt that the best figure a woman could have was largish breasts, a nice round bum and long legs. They weren't overly bothered about any tummy, they seemed to like both rounded bellies and flat ones! But definitely, in the same way that no man finds obesity a sexy look, they equally find the sight of loads of bones sticking out a total turn off.
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For modesty, to keep men from being turned on all the time.  A lot of men stare at at a woman's breasts instead of looking at her face when talking to her.  Even if they don't keep staring, that is usually the first thing a man looks at when looking at a woman.  So we are doing the world a great favor by keeping our nipples covered!  Not much work would get done by men if they saw nipples everywhere!
498395
I love my boobs.  They're 34C (not huge but nice and firm and all natural) with perky pink nipples.  They're still tan from my summer days at the nude beach, so it's obvious I don't mind guys seeing them.  Not a big deal at all!