How do you meet people to hook up, without physically forcing communication
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Have some humor in your voice and attitude.\nCommunication isnt a forced thing.  If it is, than move on.\nThat person's not worth your time.\nummmmmmm, how doya 'physically' force communication???
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There are strange, dangerous people everywhere..   it's not any worse online.  If you want to find someone, you have to be willing to step out of your comfort shell and give them a chance.  Certainly a public place for the first meet, talking on the phone for a while before hand is a help to see if there's any chemistry worthy of a meet.\n\nIt takes a lot of courage for a guy to show interest enough to send even an email ..  and you ought to be extremely flattered someone found something they like in you.  Whether or not you're willing to trust is up to you , but most guys are just normal, ordinary and want the same as you - to find some to love and be loved.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, items for sale, \nwant ads, personals, services, job openings, ...\n\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Go outside. Get off the computer and meet someone.
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try myspace, and yahoo singles.  if you don't want to try online stuff go out to parks man, tons of hotties there, also the beach or lakes
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I had the same problem when I first moved here (Texas).  I came from Upstate New York, where guys are way more foreward---  people are more reserved here in that way, it seems.  Put yourself out there---  ask someone out for coffee, ask to meet for lunch, you know, little "safe" dates.  After a few of these, you should know yourself if this is a person you really want to date.  Don't do the bar scene dating---  you meet so many crazy, wild people who don't really want a relationship.  Another idea:  ask close friends or relatives to "set you up".  Or, you may try Yahoo! personals.  It sounds risky, and may be, but I met the most awesome man online 14 months ago and we have an incredible relatioship!
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guys wanna meet girls.  we dont really plan furhter than that usually.  however, a bar hook up almost never lasts.  a club hook up is likewise more physical than anything.  try cafes, starbucks, rallys, places where people are: a. sober b. paying attention and c. able to actually have a conversation.  this way if there is a hook up its about more than how you dance or the drunken flirting you both participated in.
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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Try internet dating sites, some of my friends actually had luck with it.
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Hey!  We really like a site called SLS.  It will allow you to do a search & show you many ppl are in your immediate area, as well as different listings of clubs & events like Meet & Greets in your area.  You can join for free, and it really serves as a great way to find others you may be interested in.  Good luck, and happy swinging :)
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Take casual classes to develop hobbies that you enjoy. This could be dancing, (highly recommended) or stained glass or sailing, biking , just something that you really enjoy. You will meet others who have similar interests and can develop new friends who will have seen you at your best most fun loving self.\n\nMany communities have casual classes offered thru a community college or even less expensive options.  In my community we have a program called Leisure Learning Unlimited that publishes a schedule full of all kinds of classes offered by others in the same community.\n\nThe key, of course is to get to see and know people on a regular basis with out the stress of a "meat-market" environment.  Maybe you could find a group on www.meetup.com, or even thru www.craigslist.com. But do avoid the online dating sites.  They seem to be too tempting for all sorts of deceit and predators.  It is better to get to know people in person, in circumstances they have no incentive to lie to you.\n\nSocial Service and volunteering can be good choices as well.
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if you have messenger you can just look people up in your area, and then if you see that they're single IM them. I have guys doing it to me all the time, only worked for one to get a date though... lol but he's my boyfriend now so I guess it worked for him.
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try plentyoffish.com its free and a good site for meeting people
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there is no secret place to meet someone. it can happen anywhere at any time in any circumstance. You have to put your best foot forward at any given moment and behave like that person of your dreams is around the corner. Take extra time in the things that you do and look around.Start calling in favors with friends and get set up on the infamous blind date as painful as it sounds. Join a gym, play bingo, get out there and hunt like your ancient ancestors did.
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Yahoo groups is the best way that I know how. That's how I met with most of mine anyways. Name of the game is to stay actived with them in those groups so they get to know you.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, services, job \nopenings, local events and classes, and global discussion \nforums, ...\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Usually you can talk about music - but in any case, just chat them up askin' what they like to do, etc.  Somewhere you'll come across common interests, and be able to talk more freely and openly.  Always use eye contact - guys love that... esp. that "dreamy" look.