Please help. We both are very romantic and care about each other.(We are 27-28 yrs old) I havent see him in 6 months and I want to be very special. Any suggestion is welcome.Thanks alot! PLEASE HELP
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Movie soundtracks are great for instrumental music.  I like the ones from "Breakfast at Tiffany's" and "Pride and Prejudice" for good romantic scores.  Here are some other love songs I like: "Everything" by Lifehouse," "The One I Love" by David Gray, "You Belong to My Heart" by Old 97s, "L-L-Love" by Blondfire, "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz, "If God Made You" by Five for Fighting, "Can I Walk With You" by India Arie, "I've Been Waiting" by Matthew Sweet, "Satellite" by Natalie Imbruglia, "Waited All My Life" by Raul Midon, and "You, My Love" by Tyler Hilton.
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Get him a cd that will remind him of you.  You could create a cd with  songs that are special for both of you.  My hubbie and I have one and it is awesome..
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How about writing him a long surprise email...telling him how u felt from the first time u laid eyes on him till this very day...how the 2 of u have grown together and how important he is to u. Attach a song to the email...a song that reflects how u feel....a song that will hit them right in the heart :)
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He probably IS toying with your heart. Try this. Say..."I know you think it's funny, but I don't. If you like me, let me know. I have a lot of feelings for you and I think there's something between us." If that's too cheesy for you, change it up a big. :D...\n\n6 years really isn't TOO big of a deal. If it's true love, it shouldn't be anything but an age. good luck!
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Send him a nice new photo of you and some real or fake red roses along with a very romantic valentine's card (better a big size one) by mail, make sure they will be there on valentine's day.\nOn valentine's day in the morning you can call to say "I love you" and be so romantic telling him about your wonderful feelings you have for him; you can send sms every hour as well so you keep him thinking of you all day and you can call again at night for a valentine's good night.\nI wish you all the luck and hope he's thinking of you as well and you wont be the only one preparing surprises at the moment.\nHappy Valentine's Day!!!
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Hun you've only been with him for 6 months. It's a good thing that he doesn't want to rush things. It took me and my fiance a year and a half before we said the magic words "I LOVE YOU". Now we've been together for almost five years and are about to have two kids. Stick it out. It was worth it for me. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to, my email is flower_child69420@yahoo.com
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congratulations! make him a scrapbook of pics of u and him. include pics of just u if u want. write poems or just write a memory of doing something fun together that meant a lot to u. make it however u want to. leave blank pages so he can put more pics in if he wants.i did this for my bf on our 1 yr and he loved it! go spend time together that day-it doesn't have to be somewhere that's expensive either. go to ur fav park or just spend time at one of ur houses. just make sure he knos u love him-that's the greatest gift of all!
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Make him an appointment for a full body massage, pedicure and \nthen rent a room for the both of you for an evening of romance.\n\nGood Luck
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Changing him is going to be hard.  He may not know how to be romantic and is scared that he will not be successful at it.  Talk with him about it and make suggestions and hopefully he will see how important it is to you and be willing to try.  Good luck.
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It seems that after 6 months you should be comfortable enough with him to not be playing these games.\n\nInstead of wondering how many times you should call him, I would reevaluate the relationship. What are you concerned about? Do you still want to keep him guessing? Are you overly obsessed about him and feel that he is distant? Do you truly think you are on the same page as him, as far as your feelings for one another are concerned?
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It is going to be hard since the two of you are now apart.  Sounds like you are a little unsure about the stability of your relationship.  If you want things to slow down, tell him. Marriage is something that you take slowly to ensure the success of it. You don't want three years from now to end up in divorce... or cheating. take a deep breath and talk to him about the situation.  Maybe you will realize that the two of you are ready, or perhaps the two of you will make the mature decision to take things slowly!  6 months is not very long to be getting engaged!
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Oh boy, you've got a handfull, don't you?\n\nHere's an idea.  Be a good example.  Show him a romantic gesture.  Make it a good one.  Wait several days.  Don't ask his right away; cause it will come off to planned.  Then challenge him to best what you did for him.  Bet you didn't think of that, now did you?\n\nOh whatever you do must be good too.  Go buy some flower pedals, not Rose pedals (Because you'll take away an easy realization for him to discover.), and create a trail fro the living room to your bedroom.  Walk him down the trail.........\n\nYou can fill in the rest of that scene.\n\nRemember the Golden Rule.  He'll catch on.\n\nAlso go to some romantic movies or watch some videos with him.  Then in a womanly way, drop some hints about what you like in the movie.\n\nThere now, all better!  Go get 'em!\n\nOne more thing, if you aren't getting something that you really want from him then perhaps you need to rethink you're actual involvement.  If you suggest that you both take a break for a while and you date some others then one of two things may occur:  1) You'll cause this guy to rethink what he may lose in you.  2) You may find somebody better.\n\nI'm outta here, babe.
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Stop and walk holding hands along the beach. Take pictures,or maybe have one of those specialty pictures of the two of you as memorabilia. Don't forget to ask him what he thinks looks like would be fun along the way.:)
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Romantic is genetic <- i believe this. if he's not, just accept him the way u accepted him 5 years ago. but if he was romantic, then communication is the key but not ask him to be romantic. Instead, ask him what changed.
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How long will you be "far away"...?\nCause that makes a difference in how realistic it is...\nI'm currently away from my guy too...\nBut only for a couple of months.\nIf your thing is permanent, then my honest suggestion\nWould be either move to him, or move on.\n\nAs far as ways to make him think of you,\nThat won't be a problem if y'all are really in love...
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it seems like the longer you wait, the more "intense" the union will be between the two of you. Just hang in there, keep doing what you're doing and the time with pass and before you know it, you will meet. In the meantime, keep connecting to each other with your mind, and your HEART, BODY AND SPIRT will follow...Remember, God runs the show and he will bring the two of you together at exactly HIS right time, and not a second sooner. For some reason, he wants you to solidify your connection now...because it will be even that much GREATER LATER!! Good-luck to you.
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Ok I am here to help you! First of all, I think you and your partner need some time away from each other.. I like the vacation idea but that is a temporary solution in my opinion. I don't know if you guys are living together or just see each other all the time, but my advice will work for both.\n  First of all I think your problem is that you are spending wayyyyy too much time together. Relationships are funny, because even though you love each other so much and you want to spend every waking minute together, the reality is that you can't. You need to think of who you were before you guys found each other. What were you doing before you met him? You need to do things without him girl. You need to find some hobbies to do on days that you don't see him. Go out with your friends, meet them for coffee, take a class, go to the gym...\n  Before you know it, your life will be very busy. The excitement will come back. Your boyfriend will definitely miss you and realize that what he has is a good thing. Don't be afraid to do romantic things for one another...Send him a card, plan a romantic night together by making a special dinner with candles...Just do little things that shows you care. I suggest you buy the Cosmo Kama Sutra book. Try a new position every week! \n  The truth is, things can get boring after two years. But you have to continue to do things to get it to work. Spending alllllllll your time together is a huge no no. You will do enough of that once you are married. Remember, you still have your own identity even though you are in a relationship.\n  Good luck!