IF ME N MY BF HAVE BEEN DATING FOR 3 MONTHS N WE USED TO CUDDLE ALL THE TIME N THE HALLS N HOLD HANDS N WE DONT ANYMORE N WHEN I ASKED WHY HE SAYS "BECUZ HE JUST DOESNT FEEL LIKE IT NEMORE...?" N THEN I ASK WHAT IS WRONG HE SAYS "NOTHING" BUT THEN LIKE SOMETIMES HE WILL SAY "FIGURE IT OUT" WHAT IS WRONG HERE? PLZ HELP ME \nN HE SAYS HE LOVES ME N HE DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WHAT DOES IT MEAN THEN I AM CONFUSED N I LOVE HIM HELP PLZ...(CRYING)\nI ASKED THIS ? YESTURDAY BUT I NEED MORE ADVICE HELP PLZ
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Well if your question is any indication of your true style of communication, no wonder he wants to be done with you.  He's just keeping you around until he finds someone better.  Dump him because he's going get rid of you soon.
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I've been in your shoes and I've been in the opposite side of your shoes. Clearly, like previously stated, this man does not know what he wants. Do you really think it's possible for a man to break up with you and change all those feelings of romance into friendship in just three days?!? He's just lonely and trying to fill the void (platoniclly, sexually, who knows), and he's probably unaware that your heart is at stake. If you want to be "friends" with someone after you've dated them, break up for real, cut contact, go about your life normally again, see other people, wait AT LEAST 3 months (maybe more), then see how you feel. A few years ago I had a gf and we went back and forth with the break-up/friend thing, and looking back it was such a waste of time. We ended up breaking up for good and we don't talk anymore. Now life is good. I have found another great girl and I don't need to be friends with my ex. After two years we've never done the break-up back and forth thing.\n\nGo after the one you love, don't waste your time and energy trying to decide if this confused guy is for you - he's obviously not. Your heart, future, family, etc. is too valuable.
318055
Sit down and talk to him, ask him if he's happy.  Ask him if he still loves you, or if he thinks you guys should maybe break up for a while.  It may be hard to do, but it will get alot out in the air if you guys just have a good talk.  Either way, good luck and everything will work out for the best.
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1st, you hafta be open with him.  if you want to move a little faster, mention it to him.  hes not a mind reader.  2nd, he might actually respect you, like most guys dont, and doesnt wanna ruin a good thing.  be patient and help him along.  3rd, he might be shy of public affection.\n\nthe only way to figure out anything is to talk to him.  relationships fizzle without communication.  \n\n7
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Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.
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sometimes cuddling means he doesn't care about anything but being with you... other times its just a way to get your body as close to his as possible.....
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as friends yeah but he might get jealous.sounds like you are bf and gf but just arent saying it. dating and holding hands, sounds like it to me. he probobly likes you but is afraid of the pressure and akward questions.\ngood luck\ngod bless +
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sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
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It just means he is being driven crazy by the fact that he wants you and you sort of gave him hope by saying that you liked him too.  What's more, you haven't kept your distance but fostered a platonic relationship with him in which you are simply happy to enjoy his affection but he wants more.  So he feels that you are 'fcuking' with his head.\n\nI've been in his shoes before and it is maddening.  Best not to take advantage of his affection for you unless you actually intend for things to go further, because it seems that he will only be happy with a full relationship, not just the occasional hug.
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It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
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hey.. hun...if he hugged n kissed u and says he wants to get back together after the semester,it means exactly that. If he would not have kissed u i would have said he jus wants to go out with other girls-but since he did i would definitly say thats not the case.....and don't worry he isn't using u.....\nhe dose not want to be with you right now because he feels pressure from school and feels he can't give u as much attention as u need and as he would like to give u,so he wants to break it off right now,jus have a little time alone to sort his mind out and get back together-don't worry i think he's a great guy and u should hold on to him-but do call him now n then to show him ur thinkin about him,it will go fine,believe me i've been there!\ntake care\n~Ally
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i think he likes you, if he didnt he wouldnt hold your hand or give you hugs. why dont you just ask him or tell him how you feel. a good relationship needs communication. you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain. good luck.
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It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
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It means it's time go get busy!\n\nHe is just a bit too shy to tell you how he feels. Perhaps you are too.
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He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
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You are still with him because you dont believe in yourself. If he isnt feeling you by now, he never will, leave him and find someone that appreciates you.\nOr better yet talk to him about how you feel, if he cant open up and tell you where his head is at, let him go
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His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.