...that is supposed to ask the other out, most women expect that it is to be the man?
135287
I don't have a problem with asking a man out.  If I like him and want to go to dinner with him I'll ask.  But I get what you're saying.  If you want equality, it's equality in everything not just selected things.
277989
THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
263110
I don't know if it's about rejection.  The traditional roles of males and females has changed so much in society.  With homosexuality, metrosexuality, women's lib, etc., some guys who have been raised to believe in traditional gender rolls might find it difficult to figure out what is acceptable anymore.  That and even the notion of a 'date' has changed.  Now we socialize more in mixed groups.  Now women feel free to ask men out.  Now men can act effeminate (with regard to their appearance) and that might be throwing them off too.  Women work and have power and have money.  Since we are on relatively equal ground, men are trying to figure out how to be attractive to females or how we're supposed to relate to you.  Used to be, women were trying to attract men, now it's really weird.\nIf you're not getting asked out as much as you think you should, I think these are some of the factors.  How do you portray yourself to the modern man?  Do you fall under the category of traditional female?  What do you judge men on?  What are we supposed to be judged on?  Should men be picking their women or women picking their men?
269751
too many girls wait for the guy to ask them out and why this is, I'm not sure. Alot of relationships never happen for this reason.
161391
I think it means that she only has to find a guy she want's to say "yes" to.  Most women have to find a good guy AND get him to ask her.  A beautiful one already has the second part taken care of.
159374
no it don't mean that. the gurl dosen't come out in say i think you are attractive to me. you have to ask some questions in then ask her out or something.
108916
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
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I am a guy and they try too hard to impress the girl is that he wants to date her but the only way that he could try to date he is by trying hard. They want to be with that girl. Instead of asking her out he would just try hard and if that did not work then he would try even harder. I know this from experience. I have been there and done that. Good Luck. Heres a good question. Why do girls try to hard to get the man of her dreams or want to date him?
169428
because women get get tired of waiting for a man to ask them out.
625156
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)
330212
Absolutely!  I think women are more honest about what they want and don't feel the need to make empty promises about "looking for someone to settle down with" like men do.
333526
Yes, and I'm glad a male asked that question.  It's all about the right person for the job, who cares if she's female.
314875
I've asked a guy out twice and struck out both times.\n\nYea, they all SAY they want a girl to ask but push comes to shove a girl asking them causes their balls to get sucked back into their body cavity.
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Sometimes, men actually want women to make the first move.  take me for example: i have never really had a whole lot of relationships, but when i got together with my fiance, i made all of the moves, except the first kiss.  I was quite often uncomfortable making the first moves because i was unsure of how she would react.  On the night of our first kiss, i really liked how sweet and sincere the kiss ended up being.  And i know that i would not have made my move that night, because i was far too nervous.  She could see this, and decided to take initiative.  I personally liked it.  It also shows me that the woman knows what she wants, versus "needs" the guy to make decisions all the time.  By the way, it sounds like if he doesn't really look at you, he might be a little nervous around you, and is unsure of how you'd react if he asked you. Go for it!!  I think that most men don't mind if a woman takes initiative, unless that man is insecure about himself and needs to feel "macho" or something by being the decision maker.
47134
If it is meant to be they will. Why don't you ask one of them out?
730
i don't think this depends on gender...it is a question of whether they (male or female) have common decency!
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alot of woman are afraid of rejection, just like some men, they dont approach a man their interested because of that, the sad thing is, you never know what the other one is thinking, they may have the same feelings for you, and if you dont get to know them, you could be missing out on a good thing. As for as the guys asking where all the good woman are? A woman who respects herself isnt just gonna go up and hang all over a man she's interested in, she'll sit back and wait to be approched or introduced to you.