Is he making a gay play to me?
122084
if he really is a scientist.. then he made fun of you. Homo erectus is an ancestor of modern man Homo sapiens. He called you an ape!!!
511591
I think you have it right: he is probably bisexual, although it is possible that he is actually gay and trying to act as straight as he can.  An awful lot of closeted gay people date women and go to female prostitutes as a way of "proving" that they aren't really gay.\n\nBut gay or bi (or straight with a unusual level of experimentation), I would be most concerned, if I were you, about whether he is acting out any of these fantasies.  Doctor or not, the possibilities of his contracting an STD are greatly increased if he has multiple partners, and that puts you at risk as well.  You have an absolute right to insist on exclusivity, and I think you need to make sure that he is not converting his fantasies to reality.\n\nLoving a bisexual man is not the easiest path.  But monogamy is always a conscious decision regardless of sexual orientation.  Make sure he is choosing to be only with you.  Good luck!!
644660
He's probably cheating on you. Or he maybe gay. Or worse yet, both.
150332
Does he know your gay?If not tell him and let him know how you feel.
510838
It sounds like he's interested in you and probably having the same problem you are having, not sure and afraid.  I think you should just come out an ask him.  If that's not possible for you, well, you could run your hands on his body and see how he reacts.  You could talk about openly gay things and people and see if he is responsive....by the way if you are both dancing in the same place and he's running his hands up/down your back, that seems like he's not shy and that you should have no problem simply asking....
634706
If he hasn't responded to a dish like you, he's gay, dead or just plain stupid.\nOne good thing, there are thousands of men, on here, and elsewhere, who would be over the moon, to correspond or chat with you.\nSo don't waste your time on  him, it seems he hasn't.\nJust move on, and open yourself up to all the other chances you have.\nAfter seeing your pic, I would suggest you buy a baseball bat, to beat off some of those suitors,. who will be sitting on your doorstep waiting for you.\nLife's  too short to worry about losers, just move on and have fun.\nI'd wish you good luck, but I don't think you need it. :)
136819
Sounds pretty gay to mee!
530522
He sounds like a jerk. Give it up. You know he's playing games with you, you just wanted to hear it from someone else. Yes- give it up.
294911
i heard that he's gay, but that's just rumors
79639
It depends on how well you know each other, is he a "player" ie does he have a past for getting his friends to do his dirty work, or is he genuinely shy. To be honest he sounds quite young to be playing that game, either that, or he is just testing the water, via his friends, just continue as you are, spend the occsaional bit of time together, maybe invite him out for a drink just the two of you, or a film, if he REALLY likes you, he should make a play for you, and if your still in doubt... ask him outright. better to regret the things that you have done than those you have not :o)
434810
sounds like he knows what he is doing..  He is a big player if one second your kissing and before you know it you are thinking of losing your virginity to him.
119425
is your gaydar working correctly?  i thought a gay person could tell another gay person?  if he's that hot, give him a shot!!!
61247
NEVER just stick your finger in a guys a hole just at a random moment.  And if you do stick a finger in it, LUBE IT A LOT.  Now if you reach behind and could stic a fist in, then that's another matter entirely.  Even if he liked it does not definitively mean he is gay.  Sexuality is learned, and so is butt hole play.
217774
David Beckham is in love with himself i heard but is that gay?
405443
Hmmmm....well I suppose he could be gay. But trust me if you keep staring at him and stalking him, whether he's gay or not, he's gonna be creeped out by you.\n\nRelax and slow down. What's your hurry? He knows you're there...and if you quit bothering him (pretend like he's not there) that'll probably peek his interest and bring him to you.\n\nTake it nice & slow.
675739
I can speed it up, no but really, maybe hes gay...... go for it.
283917
Maybe you should explain your reason for saying it to him! He probably did freak a bit, you know how men get when the l word is mentioned. Speak to him and if he doesn't understand drop him he's an idiot and not worth your time! He should feel helluva complimented as you were in such throes of passion and orgasmic bliss that you blurted out the unthinkable!