nowadays, it's hard to find a real good friends and to be the best to our friends
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be your self.don't lie, don't be naughty
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Yes, you can just have to find good people and be yourself.\nI'll be your friend.\nEmail me at Ben_fewell@yahoo.com
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You need to make some friends of your own.
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You may want to choose better acquaintances.
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i dont have alot of friends myself... im sick of the ones i do have... people are so selfish now-a-days. they only care about them and what they want... im about to give up on some friends right now,,,,,  because im so sick of it!  im hella good people... i wish i had a friend like me.
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The same thing happens to me, and I don't really understand either.  It might be their conceitedness, but it really depends on the person.  It takes a while to find a good person, so keep at it.  Think of it as a way to filter out the bad friends and colleagues; going for the best instead.  If they don't talk to you, maybe they're having a bad day, or even going through the same thing as you.
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evryone you meet or encounter everyday is a potential friend. if you choose not to develop a friendship with them, they are friends thrown away.
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We all have friends; men friends, women friends, boy friends, girl friends, even children friends. Whether we are a man or a woman we have friends that we chat with and interact with everyday of out lives; yet how many of the people we call friends are true friends and what is a true friend? That is something that I believe is different for everyone, it is a personal observation and need. We as human beings all have different needs and wants; no two of us is alike in every way, therefore we all see things in different ways. Still some basic similarities for true friendships can’t be over looked. \n\nLet’s look at things that I believe to be similar for all people. First, you need someone you can share your deepest thoughts and feelings with, someone whom you trust explicitly, it does not matter where you meet them or how long you have known them; there is something between you that says, “I trust this person and I want to share everything with this person.” I know there are many doubters reading this yet this is true and I will give you an example. A few months ago, I met just such a person we met online. Being a divorced single woman, I had lost much of my faith in human kind in general and that was even truer of men; my ex-husband had squelched all that I believed in and even after almost 3 years I could not really trust men, even though I tried, the trust just was not there. I belong to a divorce support group on the internet and through that group; I met a man who struck me as someone I could trust. I cannot explain just why I thought I could trust him, yet I did. We talked on line for months and as we did it became even clearer to me that I could and would learn to trust him. I was vacillating back and forth whether to move back to my home in Florida, I really wanted to come back home yet I was afraid that I would not find a job and was not real sure what to do. My newfound friend kept telling me it was right that it was something I should do because he knew by what I was saying that I was not happy living in Ohio. When my newfound friend offered to come and help me make the move, still I wasn’t sure. The next thing I know this man had made his plane reservations and I was moving. I had a very hard time believing that he was really coming, yet I trusted him. Still driving to the airport the morning of the move I was still wondering if he would be there, he was there and we met for the first time in person, I knew then he was a true friend. It still wasn’t until we actually started our drive from Ohio to Florida that I realized how much of a true friend he was. He knew when something was bothering me almost before I did and like wise, I could tell when something was bothering him. We talked for the entire trip, which made the trip very enjoyable, and very soul searching. I truly feel I have found at least one true friend. Yet should I stop there, emphatically no. He is a male friend, for women there are things that we don’t like to talk about with our male friends no matter how close they are and the same holds true for men, they have issues that they would prefer not to share with a woman. We need friends of both sexes and I do have some fairly close and true female friends. \n\nThis is only an example of what I have encountered. Through the years, friends have come and gone yet true friends are yours forever. Now let’s look for more signs you have found a true friend. \n\nYou are stranded with a broken down car, it’s 3 in the morning, you know that all of your “friends” are sleeping and have to go to work in a few hours; who do you call? You think about all your “friends” and mentally check off the list the “friends” that you would not call to come to your rescue. Finally, you find that one person you think will be of assistance and you call their number and wait for them to answer. When their ringing phone finally wakes them out of that sound sleep what is their reaction? A “true friend
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I'm like that. I don't have any real friends, just guys i hang around with. I could never count on them. Probably because it's hard to trust ppl these days
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You learn who are your real friends simply through experience.. Time will tell if they are true friends . It is very hard to find a TRUE friend. But if they are true, they will never lie to you or hurt you. They will be there for you through the good times and the bad, not just when things are going good. But there's no way to tell you who are real friends and who aren't.. That's something that you will figure out for yourself over time.
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You need to make sure that the first person you care about is yourself. If the people that you care about do not care about you then you need to look a little more carefully at your selection criteria. If you take time for yourself the real friends will seek you out. Those that do not are not real friends and you don’t have to go through the pain of finding out later. We are too quick to befriend groups and far to accepting of their insults. Be your own best friend first and rest will follow.
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A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.
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there are websites for people who are seeking new friends, not sure if thats what you meant. try doing a search.
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Relationships with friends are very complicated they change all the time as you do.  As you get older the type of people you like tends to develop and you meet people to cover all aspects of your personality.  Change is inevitable x
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better that then a "what if" the rest of your life........and if your friendship is good now and it doesn't work out, you might become better friends. think of the positive not the negative, what you dwell on, you will follow; what you follow, you will  dwell on
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As difficult as this seems it is really quite easy. A best friend, the way i see it, it someone who you enjoy spending time with. More than any other friend. If you hang out with others more than your so called "best friend" than they really arent your best friend anyway.
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they can be either... just think of them as good friends and accept them for thier choices