there is this guy at school that i am likin and he assk me if if i was gay i said no becaue there were people around.He ttouches  on  guys when he talks to them. he plays with my hair sometimes .He strares at me. but he has had girlfriends i think . he is a football player.and he has that deep kinda gay voice tone. is he gay?
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im a gay 16 year old goth and no one can tell that im gay. i have a normal deep voice i usualy go out and vandilize destroy  property and get drunk every weekend my parents allow it. listen to heavy and black metal. do things that can get me seriously injured and because of my dangerous way of life i guess people dont suspect me of being gay. so theres realy no certain way that you can tell.
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Don't assume anything. He could be gay and very friendly. Best way, strike up a conversation and see if he asks you out for coffee later, eventually he'll give obvious hints even if he doesn't realise it. Until you know for sure, make sure no one knows you like him otherwise you'll be embaressed if he is gay and found out.
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Nothing, maybe he just doesn't have your personality. He keeps his thoughts to himself. Many guys are like this, it doesn't mean they are gay or bi. Hell I' am like that mosto f the time unless I drink then you can't shut me up. Don't be afraid of this friend even if he turns out to be gay or bi. Just.... be his friend. And don't worry about his sexuality he will tell you if you need to know.
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From what I've read, it's not unusual at your age to have these kinds of thoughts about people of your own sex. I myself had them about girls in school when I was your age (I'm female).  However, I am straight. You sound like you are straight. But there's nothing wrong with being gay, aside from the fact that gays are unfairly discrimated against.
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if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
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It does sound like he likes you!\n\nHe also sounds like quite a cutie!\nWhat you should do , if you really want to go for it is next time you bump into him just really try to get talking to him, even if it starts off over somthing really stupid like what classes you have, just send him lots of good signals, smile and maintain eye contact, if he returns the signals the conversation should get easier. Try this for a few days and then just ask him if he wants to come out with you (and maybe a friend, just at first) on the weekend, or after school\n\nGoodluck!
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Maybe he is being REALLY nice.LOL! I wouldn't say anything unless he like says something gayish. like want to go out or wut eva. Then definitely say something, but if he just said that one thing, then i wouldn't worry about it. but that is my opinion. If you feel like it is really bugging you, then say some thing. Good Luck
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baby girl, he has his group of friends to deal with @ school. and i'm sure that he also has some else in mind there too. rumors will spread like a wild fire, if someone were to tell that he's talking to you. play this one with caution baby girl. sounds like a player to me.
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Yep, that's what it is. It's also a way to "degrade" the one you're doing it with, like doing them like a sl*t. Ask him whats the matter with your other part that he needs this, and if maybe he's a little gay, maybe you could wear a football uniform while he does it.\n\nI'm just not into that.
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You said the guy is attracted to you. Do you think you are attracted to him? Then approach him and introduce yourself and ask him about his favourate sports. I think you are both attracted to each other. Move ahead..................
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I don't understand that either.  Is he attracted to ever girl he meets? no.  So what makes him think that a gay guy is going to be attracted to every guy he meets?  Tell him to stop flattering himself; he's not that hot! :P
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no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
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Is he gay? If so, be yourself. Ask him if he's interested. If not, there are other fish in the sea.
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Greek Dude,\n  Man,we have a history.You said you were doing a paper on gays and I told you some info.You seem lonely.What's up Sweetie?If you need to talk,I am here for you.Yea,I'm gay.And yea,I might come on to you.But is that as bad as being lonely?HA!HA!No Sweetie,I will behave.Do you need to talk?I will talk to you about anything.I think maybe you are just trying to get girls to talk to you.I would hope you are not that desperate.Let me know if you want to talk..You are very sweet from what I have seen of your answers.I hope you will come say a few words.Dont worry,the fact that you are not gay does not have to be in your first sentence,okay?Hope to hear from you soon.SMILE Sweetie.XOXO\n                                 Your Friend,\n                                        Adam\n                                        XOXO
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Honestly, this sounds mean, but spend less time with straight men.\n\nMy friend Justin spends all his time with straight men, mostly through his frat.  They know he is gay, and they're fine with it.  However because he only hangs out with straight men, he only falls in love with straight men because they are his only availible pool.  Then he bemoans to me that he is in love with yet another straight male.   It is like a self defeating cylce.\n\nGet out and spend more time with the homos would be my advice.  Get involved in a political campaign, volunteer at a gay community center, or find a gay club of some kind.  Go to the gay bars.  Make new gay friends online.  You can still keep all your straight friends (and I am in no way trying to get you to ditch them) but you need to widen that availible pool.  The best way to make good relationships in to make good friends who can introduce you to hot gay guys :-)
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=I wouldn't say that he is a player because that would be saying something negative about your friend. I think he is just out ;;joking and having a good time with his friends. I wouldn't make a move yet as to get rejected and hurt the friendship. He is just a tease at this point. Let him make the first move. Meanwhile enjoy his flirting with you. You never know!
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You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.