i really really really lyk this guy & apparently he lyks me 2 i moved away recently but moved bk n i neva stopped thining bout him hes all i wnt in a bf i wnt 2 b wit him cuz i feel lyk i dnt have 2 pretend 2 b sumfin im not around him i wana tell him how i feel but im scared cuz hes got a new gf plz help i no i shud tell him i jst dnt no when n how plz plz help me
131582
stop all the shortcuts for words. Type properly.
141912
There are two poeple answering this so\n\nNate- Ok so i feel that maybe just maybe he is scared and he feels like he has lost the connection that you guys once had because it sound like you were always hand and hand but now that you are seperated your not as close as you once were. So finally to my point, Talk to him and spark up some of the old conversations that you use to have and bring up something that only you two can laugh about because it makes it personal and he'll know that it was ment for just you and him.\n\n\n\n\n\nTweety- i saw this the other way i liked the girl but she paid no mind to me even thought we used to walk arm and arm down the Lowell High hallwayz but she has a friend who always told her not to go out with me and those are the ones you have to pay attention to the most. You know what girl u go up to him and say what up! cuz he probably scared of you.
244420
You need to find a way to engage with him.  It's possible that he is just paniced.  (I don't know how long it's been since you told him), and if he was your friend for a long time and he slept with you, then I find it unlikely that he is just running away for no reason.  Write him a letter, Call him, walk up to him and say we need to talk. Do somthing, figure out for yourself if you want to be in a relationship with this guy, and if you do, then just lay your feelings out there, and let him find his way.  If he loves you then he will treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve.  (I think that it is much more likely that he is just freaking out).  So give him a little paitence and understanding because you have nothing to lose.  But be prepared for him to say he doesn't want to be with you (this is for your sake).  And whatever happens sweetie, your a woman of real value, and there is sombody out there who will love and cherish you for who you are.  Don't settle for less.  (but give cut him a little slack being told your going to be a father with your friend and not your GF is big news).  Good luck sweetie, and I hope this helps.  By the way, don't pay attention to the a**hole who answered above me, he is just being a prick.
456422
You need to explain to your b/f that you've been hurt before and it's going to take some time.  Be patient with yourself and with him and allow yourself to enjoy being with a good guy for once.  There's the old saying "Once bitten, twice shy," so it's OK to feel badly.  Talk to your b/f and if he's the great guy you described, he will understand.
361249
Either call him directly or snailmail him a letter of detail expressing your concern for the direction your relationship seemed to be taking.\n\nHe may have had other issues to deal with and could not open up about them at that time - therefore presenting distance that you may have misinterpeted towards you.....\ndo not push, if he can share his feelings he will.\n\nExpress to him how much you have missed him and that you are sorry for hurting him also.\n\nIf he does not wish to continue dating at least try and establish some form of friendship - mutually.\n\nBest wishes!
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
133531
I had the same problem as you, I was 3yrs younger then this guy at school & i totally loved him & every1 thought he liked me but he never made a move & then graduated & i never saw him again. Its heart breaking! Eventually with time you realise that u dont see him anymore and that he must not have felt the same because he never made a move. Hopefully you'll meet someone soon who's heart you steal away and you feel that same back. It unfortunately takes time. Try to hang out with friends & avoid lovie-dovie movies! Wish you all the best - i know your pain! :)
276025
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
483483
maybe you are afraid to let him know how you feel. since this is your first bf you probably don't know how to express your true feelings. just hang in there and things will come to you..when it feels right deep inside the words will come out..
439866
i know how you feel cuase i maybe just getting out of that right now...\n\nsee i haven't had a real boyfriend for almost 2 years  and about two weeks ago i asked a guy that is a grade younger out, he said yes becuase i knew he really liked me.. we went out for a week then i said i am just a lil over welmed by the feeling and just need to take a lil break.. after a while he started talking to my friends and practically the whoiole school found out we liked each other and now everyone considers us to be dating...  and we just kinda go with everyone cuase everyone else thinks it is great now im not so overwelmed with the feeling... i think the overwelming i use to feel was that i was afraid of being heartbroken again.\n\ndon't worry you will grow out of the feeling a lil while after you begin dating.. depending on however your emotions work..\n\nnothing to really worry about
597927
im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
26622
yes u have 2 move on i spent all of last year in that same situation and it doesnt workout,find another guy ur interested in.he probably isnt gonna leave his g/f 4 u and if he does then he would do that 2 u too.i pretty much had 2 erase him from my mind,it was hard but i did it and im fine now.(if u find a sweetie then go 4 him instead)
438375
If you are scared of moving to fast just let this new guy know that you just got out of a relationship... you don't wanna move too fast... but you still would to possibly pursue a relationship with him. I would recommend taking the risk and just hookin up with him. I mean what if he is the one... but if you tell him this.. and he is ok with it.. then he might be worth trying to keep.. if he is like.. ahh crap she ain't gunna give it to me... and stops talking to you.. forget him.... \n\nas for the still sleeping with other boyfriend while broken up.. I wouldn't recommend doing it while he has a g-f.. but hey everyone needs good sexual satisfaction so if you need it... might as well get it from somone who you know how to please and hopefully after that long.. knows how to please you...
465358
You should give him the same exact respect you would want him to give you...but I have a feeling you have already gone beyond where that line is with you.\nSit down with him.  Tell him how much he has meant to you, but that you have changed and he doesn't mean that anymore.  Be honest, the worst thing you can do to yourself is lie.\nI would caution you on one thing though-the new relationship is always going to seem exciting-at first.  Then it becomes just another relationship.  Don't keep the current guy hanging on while you find that out.  Since you betrayed his feelings, it is better for him if you move out now and be honest with him.\nI am not judging you harsly, it just sounds that way.  I have been on  BOTH sides of this arguement so I know what you are feeling and I know what he is going to go through.  \nJust be a good person about it, as good as you can anyway.
338749
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
36634
Well u cant continue havin this cuz its obviously makin u uncomfortable so u gotta let them down try givin them hints that he doesnt make u feel comfortable followin u.If he doesnt catch on u gotta tell him straight up to not follow u. he might get hurt but he'll get over it. It might seem mean but its better than actin fake to sum1.
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He is a shy guy and you are is second girlfriend. Give him time to be comftable around you. He is probably nervous that you will not like him. I am shy too, but after a while I'll trust and feel comftable around guys I meet. \n\nBut I don't get the part of his friends following him when he was following you.