is it 2 early to touch her and hug her and eventually kiss her???
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keep it slow.. if you like her you now whens its the right time to kiss her and stuff just keep it slow so.. she knows ur respctful.  you can hold her hand girls love it when there comforted by their guy lol
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Shower her with affection. Verbal and physical.
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Dear Friend,\nNever loose hopes! Definitely one is made for you! Only for you and she will meet you! Keep on searching....But are still equally pure for her to touch a vergin? If yes....Best of luck!
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8 months? How sweet! For so young, so long, and still so innocent. It does me good to read that in our day and age. I'm proud of you.\n\nWell, I'm the lady in my relationships. For all my sweethearts, I didn't really think about doing it. When he said something really kind or sweet or that tugged at my heartstrings, I couldn't hold back. Yes, I usually was the first to kiss. And there is nothing wrong with reversals in society's ideas of what roles the sexes should play. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I think you're probably safe in the game at this time, you'll be fine if you do kiss her. She shouldn't be grossed out or anything.\nI would start out with an elongated peck on the lips. Just like you peck your mother on the cheek at night, but on the lips. All the same, but for a little longer. And that'll be kind of like a hug. You/she will pull away at the appropriate time, out of instinct, so it's not uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do anymore, until you can pull away and see her reaction. \nOr, if you've already pecked and want to move on. Start slow. Think of an open mouthed kiss as such; a fish. You know how fish make that 'blub blub' noise, and their lips just simply open and close? Well, if you do, press yours on hers, and sloooowly blub. Don't make the noise. That's not very attractive. \nALWAYS check with the lady. Do it, then after a little bit, ask her, "Did you enjoy that kiss? Are you ready for that?" But don't grill her. It'll only hurt her if you do. \nIf you're beyond fish, then I suppose it's the tounge now. Again, slowly, to see if she's comfortable with someone else's tounge in her mouth. Just stick it straight out, at first. Don't point it; that's irritating to us. Well, me anyways. Just a soft, subtle push. Then wait for her reaction. If she does it back, then you, as a couple, are ready. If she pulls away, that's ok. Don't feel too bad about it, I don't imagine. 8 months, and it'll be ok, I think. But, please, don't take my word for it. I am not in this relationship. LOL! From then on, anymore with the tounge is all up to you two. Talk about it. Try new things. I just myself tried a new way to kiss my love; and we've been together for three years. \n\nBut, about why can't you do it. Maybe you just haven't stumbled upon that "right moment". Be a sweetheart, don't worry too much over it, and keep your innocence. Nice job, and good luck!
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just ask her to do something with u and don't make it like a date so u both can know each other more then if u feel comfortable then make the move
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Take it at your own natural pace.  If you want to reach out and take her hand, try it - maybe at a restaurant, or in the car, or while you're watching tv.  If she lets you hold her hand, enjoy that.  If she politely pulls away, she's not ready for that level of physical contact just yet, so don't push her.  You might (if you haven't already) start giving her a light, casual hug when you greet her and/or tell her good-bye.\n\nYou might also try talking to her about where she sees this friendship / relationship going.  Ask her how she feels about you - friend, or "more than friend?"
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look into her eyes n smiles. if she responds 2 u then slowly approaches her n kiss her
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Just pay attention to how she reacts to your attention. If it continues to be positive feedback or reactions, then continue to bring on the affection. This must be age appropriate affection however.
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I would say it's just like kissing a boy, but if you are a tradionalist who wants the "guy" to make the first move (like me) I know how confusing it can be.  Just wait 'til the moment's right, when y'all are alone.  You can compliment her or do something to get a little closer (the dumbest thing I ever did was take off my glasses and say, "look, they're broken," and as soon as she looked up, puzzled, I kissed her) and then just let things take their course!  Of course, all that is assuming you know she's be ok with that, because, not to burst your bubble, but it's one thing to be ok with your best friend being attracted to you, and another for her to feel something back.  If everything is go, just don't force anything, and have fun!  ; )
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Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
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Um, you really can't just kiss her cuse it will shocke her and might desturbe her very much so.\ninstead tell her this: WE have been friends for 3 months and yuo are like on of my best friends and are friends ship means a lot to me and I have to tell you something but I want you to promise me we will always be friends no matter what happens and then tell her exactly how you feel ask her out and you ttly won't lose her if you are friends that never ends love does but not friend ship not at all.\nSo even if she says no you can still be friends and when/if you break up make sure to say you still want to be friends she will be happy and so will you.\nI am a girl so take my advise not a guys cuse he will just mess you up big time and I know what girls wanna hear.\nGood luck hone. xoxoxo
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just start it a kiss. maybe get close enough where you can bump into her and rub your hand lightly over her breast to get her horny and wet too. if its going happen then it will
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I wonder why your gf feels that affection should wait until after marriage. Innocent touching like hand holding, shoulder massages and playing footsie are normal parts of a dating relationship.  if she really feels that it is part of her personality, don't expect it to change.  You will either have to compromise with affection she feels is acceptable (and enough of it to satisfy you) or to move on.  Something as basic as affection in a relationship should have a common ground, otherwise, someone will end up angry, disappointed or rejected.
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I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
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Yeah Ive kissed before It feels special when you kiss the right person! just be patient your time will come don't rush it and alllow yourself to go with the flow. :)
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It's best I think when it's out of the blue you go over to her when she's in the middle of doing something turn her around and give her a nice big hug squeeze tight but not to tight for a couple of minutes try even giving her a kiss on the forehead  and tell her you really enjoy having her around and in your life that would make her feel great.
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Ahh...Jan.10...my birthday. "Make Out"...Hmm...bear with me as I'm not too sure if the 'make out' you're referring to has changed since my teen years. (I hope you mean kissing/first base.) Here are some definite guideline steps to help take you to that stage:\n\n1. Intense Eye Contact - gaze lovingly into her eyes.\n2. Hold/Grasp her hand gently.\n3. Carress/Stroke her cheek gently with the other hand.\n4. Finally, gradually move in for the kiss.\n\nDon't rush any of those steps. Take your time. In fact, don't rush into the actual idea of 'making out' if you're in doubt about it. Some guys feel like they're under some microscope when it comes to relationships and feel like there's some time-table schedule to meet, which makes them feel pressured to do certain things. Regardless, you'll naturally know when the time's right. All the mutual signs will be there whenever it happens. Don't just rush it for the sake of rushing things...be cool...calm...collected!!!\n\nHowever,if your 'making out' reference refers to something beyond kissing, I probably won't be able to help you there, since I'm not in favor of premarital sex.