will it give the same pleasure as sex with one's partner in a closed room?
120930
Oh yeah, its the best ever, it actually turns me on.
586983
Basically U can masturbate while your head full with sex fantasy.\nI think after a masturbation U do feel relaxing!By the way do remember to locked your's room door.
141813
In my opinion, it is ok and it is not selfish. This is only my opinion... We have laws governing us and most people and societies have rules, moral laws and religious traditions and beliefs regarding sex. There are also medical and psychological studies regarding effects of m*st*rb*tion, both good and bad. To me, as it is a natural instinct for human to discover sexual attraction and discover sexual pleasure simply by stroking the genitals (usually discovered when pubic hair starts to grow or during the puberty period), it must be ok because we are created this way for reproductive purpose and also for a way to release sexual tension.\n\nFaking is not a good idea. I suggest an open communication during sex, let your partner know what you want done and how you want it done and do the same by asking your partner the same questions. And of course, your partner and you have to agree with each other on what you can do for the other for your mutual sexual pleasure. Don't turn-off your partner voicing your dissatisfaction, instead focus on asking what will make you reach orgasm and pleasure without hinting dissatisfaction.
619067
i dont think so...\ni watched it with my man\nneither of us was turned on\nhe even put it off so we can feel sexier with each other...
437618
If your comfortable with each other then an orgasm is not the "be all and end all" of making love to each other, therefore I would say its nice to achieve for both sexes but not worth losing sleep over.
241329
There are negative side affects yes, but depending on if it is donr properly it can feel really good. But it depends on if you like it or not....\nI found it easier to pleasure myself while my b.f. was trying to do it....It relaxes you more...\nBut afterward I did feel uncomfortable but that goes away with time...
308413
Yes.  I don't want anyone to tell me I cannot enjoy my kinky sexual activities with someone I love in my BEDROOM.  If they do that to me, then they are giving me the same right to do the same thing to THEM!
568048
Short answer: Yes.  Sex can be enjoyed at any age.
17220
Oh yes it can happen for sure.It is the result of a super intense orgasm.\nLOL Georgio you da luv stud hehehe
32609
It is normal to be curious about how it would be with someone else.  But if you love him you know that it would never be as good.  Sex is more than technique...its truly a spiritual thing.
233060
There has not been any credible research on this phenomenon.  However, we have heard health care professionals "warn their patients" of the horrible dangers of the vibrator, but have been unable to find any evidence based research to back up their words of caution. If a woman misuses a vibrator by holding it directly on the clitoris for an extended period of time, she may temporarily lose sensation (like when your leg falls asleep) but the sensation will return.   Some doctors may recommend that their patients should avoid over-using a vibrator, because they don’t feel comfortable with the ins and outs of using bedroom accessories for pleasure.  Even after checking with The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, they have not found evidence that vibrators cause nerve damage.\n\nWhat some women may notice is that the use of a vibrator may become monotonous.  Just like with any other pleasurable act, if you do the same thing over and over again it may not be as effective.  Just like when the missionary position may have been enough for you and your partner at the beginning of your relationship, after some time passed you may have wanted to “spice things up.”  If this is the case, maybe try a different type of vibrator.  If you have been using a bullet consistently and it isn’t having the same effect, try one with different textures, vibrations, or a vibrator that has rotating beads as well.  Maybe pair your vibrator or bullet with a heightener like Ex-T-Cee to add to the sensation you are feeling.  Remember that the human body can get used to a certain sensation or activity, so keep changing things up to maximize your pleasure!
667991
no as long as it does not lead to sex.is like cuddling your 4rend or family.
87757
Hmmm.  Taking a CLASS with a room full of other people would be a definite "experience"  I think I'd be too self-conscious to get the most out of it, but I'd certainly TRY it.  None of us is born a great lover....you have to BECOME a great lover- and the only way to do that, is to learn.
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No!  Sex is something to be shared between lovers. By doing something like that you cheapen it for you both down to just an act.  \n\nSex is meant to bring lovers together - to teach trust and compassion for one and other. \n\nFantasy fulfillment and roll playing are good thing for lovers.  Just don't through it all away and have no place left to explore.
352388
Yes sex is spectacular. but not with every partner every time.  If you aren't feeling ready I would wait.  If you are close with your partner you can have as much fun doing things without penetration.  Anything sexual is exploration.  Every partner will be different and every encounter with the same partner different.  Sex will only be spectacular if you are comfortable with the person you are with and only gets better with time.
291885
Anything you do in the privacy of your bedroom is ok between 2 concenting adults. Don't worry about it being weird because it's fairly mild compared to some of the stuff people get up to in their sex lives. Enjoy your time together and use whatever you can to make things better for you both! Rollplay is a great way of keeping things fresh in the bedroom so you shouldn't be afraid or embarrassed to experiment. And well done to you both!!!
143193
We sure can, in a sense.   Perfect example... having sex and having the guy finish just as you are about to.  If you have had that experience, you know EXACTLY what female blue balls feels like.