how do you really tell if your mate is faking an orgasm?
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Take the time to feel her responses to you and you can tell.  If you are in tune with her body then you should be able to feel whether she is having an orgasm or faking.
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Here's a simple way to "find" it:\n\nWith your lover lying down on her back, legs spread, kneel (or otherwise arrange yourself comfortably) so that you're between her legs, with your hand in front of you, so that (with proper lubrication, or sufficient arousal on her part, so that it's pleasant for her) insert one or two fingers (nails clipped, fingers clean) into her vagina, palm up.\n\nGently curl your fingers toward, you, palm still facing upward, so that the middle of the top joint of each finger (the spot where a fingerprint is taken) presses gently against the wall of her vagina, right under her pubic bone. \n\nSOMEWHERE in that area, more or less in the center (it may be up or down from where you first try pressing) is the g-spot. It often seems to, once found, be a slightly raised mount versus the area around it, but not enough to be able to easily find by touch.\n\nThe best way to be certain you've found it is to do this during sexual play, especially cunnilingus. If your lover's already quite simulated, she should feel, after gentle, repeated pressing on the right spot, an increasing sense of arousal, which can build up into a far greater orgasm than she normally has.\n\nEven women who normally only have one orgasm, and then are "too sensitive", can sometimes have multiple g-spot orgasms. One needs to pause, fingers still inserted if possible, while she catches her breath for a moment, then VERY gently begin repeatedly pressing the area. She may find, to her possible surprise, that it still feels good, not overly sensitive. One should lay "off the" clitoris until she begins to get quite aroused again, though.\n\nHere's a site with much more detail about this and other sexual techniques:
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Mabey he isn't feeling your spots and what will make you cumm.  My man can tell when I'm close to feeling it, so he'll just go after it and conquer it.
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I have found that the best lovers I have been with knew what it takes to make themselves orgasm. It is something every woman should workout BEFORE having sex with anyone else. If she can't make herself come, how can she expect any other person to simpley show up with the magic combination to make it happen?\n\nSo the answer to your question is to just have her try everything she can to get herself off.... postions, techniques, the vast array of toys.... she has to do what she can to find that secret password that does what she needs. Once that's discoverred, then it'll be your job to step in and take it to new hieghts.
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Honesty is always best. If you fake it , you can expect the same kind of performance  over and over again  ( Yawn). If you are honest but gentle, perhaps he will try to do better to please you . Suggesting something you like and gently asking him to do it is a good way to get the point across.
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Women have many kinds of orgasms. Sometimes they are small and sometimes the earth really feels like it moved. As long as she is enjoying what you are doing I wouldn't worry about it. If SHE is worried about it, masterbating is the best way for her to get to know her body and what makes her cum hard. Then she can show you what to do to get the same reaction.
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Faking a orgasm is wrong whether your man likes it when you do it or not. I don't know if infidelity is the right term... but it's dis-honest to lead a man to believe he is satisfying you when he's not. If he likes your faking... he is lazy! If you like faking... you are lazy... and cheating yourself cuz an orgasm induced by your partner is WAY better than doing it alone!\nGet to the point... communication! Girls, we gotta let em know what they can do to satisfy us, if your too shy to say it with your mouth then say it with your body language.. your moans can tell a lot... if you like it, get into it... if it doesnt do anything for ya, quiet down... a man that wants to please will listen to your body and groans of pleasure and might just need a little guidence. You might try writing down what you like in a note and pass it to him if it's easier, like... I love this... but I really would love THIS!\nDon't CHEAT yourselves or your partner!!
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'the answer to achieving orgasms with a partner is this:\n\nIt depends on the sensitivity of your partner towards your erogenous\n\nzones - if you share sexual intimacy with an experienced, inept or\n\ngreedy lover, you are always pretty much left out in the cold.\n\n\n\nOne of the most difficult things, it seems, for women to do during\n\nintimacy is to clue in their partners to what they want.  For some\n\nreason, men seem to have no problem asking for particulars during\n\nintimacy but women seem to be shyer about it.  The first thing I would\n\nsuggest you do is to be verbal with your lover and communicate to them\n\nwhat you enjoy.  The best way to open a conversation about this is to\n\ninquire the same of your lover.  Thay way, you open the door to be\n\nable to communicate what pleases you.  Tell your lover "Do this" or\n\n"Linger there" or "Slow down!" so that he will know what he is doing\n\nthat makes you feel warm and relaxed.  Don't be shy about saying what\n\nis pleasing to you during sexual intimacy (or what is not) - contrary\n\nto popular belief, men can't read minds. Lol\n\n\n\nUnfortunately, many men (especially younger men) seem to operate under\n\nthe assumption that penetration during sexual intercourse is the most\n\nfulfilling thing they can do for a woman when, actually, the act of\n\npenetration is usually the ultimate goal of the male's satisfaction.\n\n\n\nAlso, men may sometimes rush to fulfill their desire for penetration\n\nand not think to be sensuous with a woman.  There is an old saying\n\n"Men give foreplay to get sex and women give sex to get foreplay." \n\nThis is certainly not true across the board but, by far, many women\n\nseem to enjoy the sensuous intimacy that precedes sexual intercourse\n\nwhile men seem to be running for the penetration goal line.  Lol \n\nPlus, foreplay is what enables a woman to relax and be able to achieve\n\norgasm.\n\n\n\nI don't want you to think anything is "wrong" with you, either,\n\nbecause you don't experience orgasms everytime you have sexual\n\nintercourse.  There are other factors to consider regarding this such\n\nas fatigue, emotional stress, etc.  If you happen to be in an\n\nout-of-the-bedroom situation such as stress on the job or having had a\n\ntiff with a friend, these experiences can affect your ability to relax\n\nduring sexual intimacy - even the thought "I should have washed those\n\ndishes first…" removes your mind from the intimate situation. \n\nConsider these factors and others as being the reasons you sometimes\n\ndon't experience orgasms.  Relaxation is a big key to this.  Sometimes\n\na small glass of wine might do the trick, too, to relax you.\n\n\n\nAs far as tips on experiencing more or frequent orgasms, here are some\n\nlinks that may be of interest to you:\n\n\n\nImtimate Fitness - The Kegel Method\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/sex.html\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/orgasms.html\n\n\n\nTantra and Tantric Sex \n\nhttp://www.oztantra.com/whatistantra.html\n\nhttp://www.tantra.com/\n\n\n\nA book is available here for $14.95 titled "Pathways to Pleasure - A\n\nWoman's Guide to Orgasm"\n\nhttp://female-orgasms.com/pleasure_4_women.htm\n\n\n\nWomen's Sex Health - An online pay site with intimate secrects for\n\nwomen regarding orgasm - $9.95 for one month accesss\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/orgasms_learn_more.htm\n\n\n\nGo Ask Alice - regarding women having more orgasms\n\nhttp://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0117.html\n\n\n\nMyths About Female Sexuality\n\nhttp://www.ualberta.ca/HEALTHINFO/Decisions/mythsf.htm
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There are literally HUNDREDS of books about female orgasms and how to get one.\n\nThere is no way I could type long enough to help illuminate you to your own potential.\n\nIt does have to do with the guy(s), however. \n\nIt's probably your relationship with them and their ability to be both patient and SHARING with you.\n\n\nWhen you feel safe and you feel love..........and guys stop treating you like their own hand or a science project.....you'll begin to FEEL the differences......\n\n\nNow you are worried, up-tight, pushing, searching.....\n\n\nThat's not love, surrender, bliss, celebration.......\n\n\nRelax...........really.........breathe.........
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People do make some of the funniest facial expressions and sounds... You know, it some ways it's just another one of those intimacies that you share.  Your partner trusts you enough to see how funny lookin they can get when they're in the throes of passion without telling your friends or making fun of them.  Part of being a couple and having those "secret" things that the outside world doesn't get to see.
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No. \nSex is oftentimes based on confusion and falsehood. \nConfusion because I'm sure most people mistake lust and physical pleasure they experience during sex for being 'in love', and they don't even know what it is they're feeling. \nFalsehood, because a lot of it's straight up fake. Fake moans, fake orgasms, fake love = 50% fake. \n\nDuring communication, regardless of the means, all aspects of it are intentional and genuine; real. \n\nCommunication is better by far. Generally speaking, anyways. If your talking about relationship wise  - which would make sense since this is the 'Relationships' section of yahoo answers - I think it applies the same way.
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trying new things u know getrting freaky with one anothere even if its seems naty try u never know untill u have tried.\nand besides what u wont do to please him another bitch will and ull end up loseing ur mate.
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ITS NOT NECESSARILY THE ORGASM THAT MAKES THAT REACTION COME OUT.
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Some find it easier than others, but beats me why..... some cases it could be the partner isn't stimulating the right bit... other cases it could be the woman is too tensed up wanting it to c*m, in which case try relax.... forget about trying to c*m, enjoy & lose yourself in the sensations of being stimulated, and just let it c*m when it's ready (though trying to hold it back longer just as it feels like it's gonna blow can be a pretty good trick to make it feel bigger when it does).\nOther cases it could just be weak muscles down there, in which case give this a whirl: http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Spa/4502/vagex.html 0:-)
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im your male/female friend cant stimulate you i think you will have to do it yourself...\n*****buzzzz******
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Right. Most females have orgasms that do not involve shooting or spraying any liquid, but some do.  Both situations are normal.  The liquid being ejaculated is chemically similar to proatate fluid in a man.
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when something on this matter came  up in my relationship I went to different magazines and read up on how to have more exciting orgasms and one article caught my eye. It said to have your partner massage the spot between your testes and anus while the action is going on between the sheets. And if that doesn't work then your partner needs to grab a condom, wrap it around her finger, and peirce the exit only hole and massage it like no other.\nhope that helps if you feel like you can get freaky likethat