This is a serious question.  I've done it and I'd just like to feel not alone.  If you've done it before please tell me how.
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No, but I did crush them with the steering wheel of my lawn tractor, when I accidenlty drove it out the back of a 40 ft Truck trailer, it only hurt when I hit the ground with it, the 4ft drop was painless....
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It's called masturbation....although with a new twist from anything I've heard. Do what makes you feel good...I guess...but just make sure you do it in private! Oh and despite what you hear....you won't go blind...
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YES!!! its a long & lonely road but hang in there.\nit's ok to feel weak sometimes, we are only human.\nchange your lifestyle if you have to...\npositive thinking & self- worth is very important.\ni sincerely wish you luck & love!\ndon't worry about things you cannot control. change the things that's dragging you down.\nyou can't fly with broken wings.\nhope the link can help...
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well just drink some tea and chicken noodle soup.\ni felt the same way and i felt good in no time.
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Having gone through such a traumatic event, the side effects aren't easy to handle. You may either go one way or another, to the extreme promiscuous act to having nothing be done to you sexually at all. You are probably trying to fill a void that you feel you have since your experience, and by doing these things you feel satisfied yet completely guilty that you "have done this to yourself again".\n\nIt isn't your fault, and you have nothing to feel guilty about. There are crisis and support lines that you could call in your area..that would be a great help if you need to just vent and talk. They could give you information that you may need, as well as counseling that is provided in your area. Therapy could do a world of wonders and maybe you should consider it. What is there to lose? \n\nTake care of yourself and your life, and remember you are a survivor not a victim. Make sure and put yourself first always, and if you feel something is wrong (which you clearly do) do something about it, there are plenty people who will support you out there and not judge you. So go for it! \n\nGood luck!
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It's a feeling I'm all to familiar with.  I'm an oddball.  I don't like to run with the pack.  The pack I run with today might decide we're lemmings tomorrow.  I've had a great deal of success at being myself, and as much as it pisses off the world, I'm not ****ing changing.  I find that as much as I've heard that Christians are strangers and aliens in this land, just as much I'm finding it's the truth.  I feel alone much of the time, and it's a rare thing for me to find someone who thinks and feels the way I do.  Hope this helps, as I don't really know where you're coming from.  From a psychological point of view, perhaps you simply need to find your center and connect with people who have more similar interests.  Or perhaps you should do what I find myself doing much of the time...hanging out with my dog.
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I fit your description.  However, I now have a serious problem and am in therapy.  I have never cheated on my wife nor do I want to, but the urge to go do someone else is so intense it is disrupting my life.  \nI had a fairly attractive woman very openly hit on me at a restaurant today (a rare occurence) and holy smokes it took all my strength to not play along.\nIf you are feeling this same way you are not alone.  Therapy will likely help you.  If you don't address it, it will eat you up inside.
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I did it twice and it was interesting. The whole time you are in there you think you are going to die because it is so hot. But when you are finished you feel incredible and immediatly want to do it again but then the next time you feel like you are going to die. I recomend getting there 15 minutes early and lying down in the room to try to climatize your self to the heat.
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Is there someone in your family you can talk to about how you're feeling? A close friend? If not, there are hot lines you can call where they have experts available to help you, and help you find solutions to your problems. When people talk about killing themselves, it's usually a cry for help. You need to seek out that help (you've already taken the first step.) There are experts with a lot of experience that can honestly help you deal with whatever pressures, difficulties, or depression is causing you to feel this way. A lot of people have felt exactly the same way you are feeling, and have gotten through it. You're definitely not alone, and happiness is not something that is unattainable, even though it may seem that way now. I wish I could offer you better advice. I certainly know how you feel.
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u can. it's just u made radical change, but hasn'i got used yet. and it's also past effect, u used all ur energy to perform this change and now u feel emotianally exausted and it couses deppression and fear. give urself a short break and then procedd to develop urself and make more positive changes. be in action, don't relax too much and reflect too much on the situation. act, act, act\n\nand the last but not tyhe least, what is done is done and u should never regret.\n\neverything will be ok. believe me. don't afraid and be courageous.
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Do it!  No one's saying it will be easy, but once the secret's out, you'll feel a hundred percent better.\n\nI know there's a huge difference between TV and reality, but you should watch some Drew Carey- the only show that I know of that featured a straight crossdresser (well, I don't know if you're gay or straight, but does it really matter?) in a recurring role, and tackled the issues relating to it, while treating it like a very normal thing.
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Nope, never.  I don't feel guilt very well, and when I do I usually just end up laying a huge guilt trip on someone else accidentally.\n\nThis morning, I kind of blew off this guy that wanted to pray for a girl who's about to get chopped up into donated organs, and then like ten minutes later, I was talking to this lady who's been stressing out about doing this speech for me that she'll be giving on a retreat for kids, only we don't have any kids signed up yet.\n\nShe said "There better be some kids by the weekend, because I'm gonna be mad if I had to do all this work and nobody shows up!"  and I was like "Yeah, me too." without even thinking about it.\n\nOnly, she's giving one talk for the retreat, and I'm supposed to be in charge of the whole thing.  God, you should have seen the look on her face!  She just about fell over appologizing to me "Oh, I'm sorry, here I am just thinking all about myself..."  I bet she still feels guilty.\n\nAnd now... umm, what question was I answering?  Oh, yeah, you're totally cheapening the whole meaning of cutting, you should stop that right away...  Well, cutting isn't good for you anyway, but, lots of people cut, and some of them lie about why they do it so people won't think they're just weird.\n\nReally, when you hurt yourself on purpose you usually feel guilty no matter what.  That's your body saying "You shouldn't be doing this."  That's a bunch of christians quoting that whole "Thy body is a temple of God" don't desecrate it bit.. and that whole "Thou shalt not tattoo thyself no scar thy body for the sake of the dead" verse.\n\nWell, I've made a good and thorough jerk of myself here, so now I'm off to ask a question about where all the trailer parks are, or something.  Then I'll go to bed, and tomorrow I'll figure out how to apply to this college that's almost two thirds women, since they seem so desperate to have me, a guy, go to school there.  Geeze, don't twist my arm or anything, huh?
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hellooooooooo....  everyone doesn't do it.\nit's not natural to do it.\ni am really proud of u for choosing to quit it. u feel guilty cos its messy and wrong...\nits a bad habit.\nif i were close by i'd actually give u a hug!\nthumbs up and keep it up....\ncheers!
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Well this is part of our life. In our life nothing is plain sailing and all these are part of our challenges and it depends on how you take it.  I used to feel the same way as you are but after giving some thought I feel that we should face the challenge. No matter what sort of working environment you are in, you face the same problem.\nYou really heve to take it positively and take things at a step when it comes. You can give it a try and I believe you can do it.\nAll the best to you
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been there done that...and all i can say is that no matter what others say this is really something you have to get over yourself\n\ni went out with the same guy three different times over two and a half years. he cheated on me every single time and still i kept going back. finally after the third time something clicked. i was ready to marry this guy, i had the ring and everything. after the third time, i would hang out with him because i figured i could be just friends but that didnt work.\n\ni still think about him, i still love him, but i am happily married to the greatest guy in the world. the only thing that helped was time, and my own determination.\n\ngood luck
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I am with you.  It's not that I didn't try it and gave it a chance -- I met someone online and my life got turned upside down.  Thank goodness it's over and doing well by myself.
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Well, if they know and are your friends, why don't they show you?!?\n\nLook, I found some links, maybe that will help on the "how to" question:\nhttp://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/print/0,,286854,00.html\nhttp://www.letsmasturbate.com/women/index.shtml\nhttp://www.clitical.com/\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com/\n\nWhere? The most intimate and quiet place you know and feel comfortable around you. It might be your bedroom, your bathroom, garage... you name it! Because it's absolutely necessary to feel at ease when you proceed to masturbate; no stress, no fears, just you and the rising pleasurable feeling...\n\nENJOY!!!