Why not?\nIs it better?\nShould women?\nWhat does your significant other think?\nShould he be the one to choose?
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Yes, because I feel a heightened intimacy during that time of the month. I took a tip from someone else on this site who suggested doing it in the shower, vaginally, with your man behind you, while the water streams down on the 2 of you. It is SOOO HOTTT!!! "Should women?" There is no harm in it. I would suggest trying it if you are curious about it. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again. As far as your question,"Should HE be the one to choose?" Heck no, girl. Nobody else ever chooses what I do with my body!!! EVER!!!
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they need to step back and re evaluate the situation. I applaud her for not wanting to have sex before marriage and hope she sticks to that. but if he doesnt want to marry the he really isn't in love with her. He needs to respect her wishes to marry, that is the only way in which she can truly feel he loves her enough to respect her. If he is that dead set against marriage then he may not be the one for her. yes she also need to think about what he wants and is she is willing to put her hole belief system on the line. is she willing to give up her beliefs and trash everything she wants to be with him? He's not going to why should she
599344
Depends on your point of view i guess,... But try and put yourself in the wife's postion..... Married men are a risk because one day you might run across a wife like me that would shoot you in the head and ask questions later...
145219
Chances are slim, plus why would you want to see him and even think of a future with a married man? Women amaze me that we would even think of doing other women this way. Show some pride in yourself and walk away...K
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both a hard decision to make,I guess I wouldnt know unless it came down to it.All love is good love anyway.
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It should be an equal partnership and things should be done based on being considerate of others. Also, no one is obligated to do anything in a relationship, you should want to do things in a relationship that will make your significant other happy.
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No offense, but if you have to ask, niether relationship is probably a good one. When you truely love somone, there is no doubt in your mind as to what decision to make in this type of situation.
312701
Marry, no.\nBut I'd let her give me head.\n\nIf it's good enough for the mack daddy Bill Clinton, then it's good enough for me.
201243
i think that if it is ur thing than go for it..only you have to live with urself and the choices you make..i personally enjoy it..
360365
What a great question!  Seriously ladies, if you love your man, this question makes a hell of a lot of sense!
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I would think that each man must make this choice for himself.  One cannot choose for an entire nation or religion.  Each must choose their own path.  I cannot speak for you nor you for me.
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I agree for dating, yes, that kind of guy if fun.\n\nBut for marriage, she really wants a guy she can laugh with, TRUST, depend upon, that he'll be a good provider, and keep the lawn nice, AND help with dinner dishes, and most ideal, cook side by side with her in a fun way, plus be best friends with, and have \ns e x with when they please.\n\nOK, maybe this total male doesn't exist, but we can dream can't we?
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It's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes I make decisions, sometimes my boyfriend and soulmate Tony does. But we always help each other when we're in the process. We talk things over and come to a conclusion. Otherwise, we will always think about each other and the consequences and such before making a decision if the other isn't there to discuss the decision with. We love each other so we compromise or come to a conclusion.
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The benefit has to be better sex, there would be complete understanding between you both of what each of you are comfortable with, but remember to respect your partners decision.
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One aspect of a healthy relationship is happiness, and if you are always catering to his wants then you can't be happy. I'm sure that there is someone out there that will respect you choices and willing  to meet you half way when it comes to making sacrifices. My personal opinion is that you can do better, but you are the only one that cane make the final decision of whether or not you should leave.
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That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
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If this plan is within the womans moral beliefs, character and desires, and a man loves her, yes, it should be respected.  (And appreciated as well, in my opinion.)  This sounds like a more grounded and trustworthy person if you ask me.\n\nGoldwing, that is not fair.  My ex-wife was very lame in bed, and didn't like sex very much, genetic predisposition issues (I was forewarned too, so I have no excuses) But I was not selfish, and did love her, and so over-looked this, and tried to stick to her strong-points in this aspect.  Her STRONGEST point in life, however, is trying to trick men out of their money, and her racist views.  I admire a virgin, if it her choice to be such.