Most boys say that they want to go wit me but then they say that i act funny and other things.I try reall har to be nice but it just dont work.Plese help me.
122310
Just say Okey ! sure I would be happy...
400465
let them think what they want - and you should do the same - be your own person and do what ever the hell you want to do. if the guy you do end up going out with is a good-guy he should stick up for you and defend your honour (excuse the clich'es). basicly you need to not care what others think, feel, or do. you are in it for yourself so you are the only person you should be worrying about.
311443
If they make fun of you then they aren't your friends.  You seem to have fun with the girls and later in life, the other boys will envy your ability to get along well with girls...when they are having trouble talking to girls, you will have plenty of girls at your side.  Think of the future..and oh what a future!!!
617722
Only young boys or men who have yet learn to grow up, do this little game that is why you learn not to get too serious until they grow out of it. \n\nIt is a fact that males and females behave differently pending on who is around. when a female is around the guy she likes and other guys are around a greater chance the guy will act like a jerk and when a guy is around a female and other females are around she will act like she is snotty. when males and females mature they improve and many act the same with or without their friends and some don't. \n\nThere is only one way that I know of that you can see how a young person truly is and that is how they behave around their mother.
636104
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.
179502
You don't need to be on Y! Answers. You're too young. You need to pay more attention in Spelling class and stop obsessing about what boys think of you.
184141
no way - nothing wrong with you...boys are dumb and want what they can't have. It's the battle of who cares less. If you act like you don't care, they love that...let THEM do the chasing.
47420
Tell them you don't like it. BUT if they don't listen ignore it because some teenage girls are just silly and if they know someone doesn't like something they think it's funny and they keep saying it. Boys can be just as bad. \n\nYou cannot change people, you can only change yourself and your attitude towards things ( I'm not saying you have a bad attitude by any means) ;)\n\nHang in there, bite the bullet. Maybe what it will take is to ignore them they will EVENTUALLY STOP! It may require patience on your behalf :P\n\nGood luck to you
134558
You have to come out of your shell somewhat kid. Do it in small ways that are comfortable for you, maybe talk to him when there aren't a whole bunch of people around. I'm sure he'll think you're great!
293755
just hang on, hold your horsey, he will come around, boys don't know what they want, just keep trying to get up the courage, don't let your supposed friends get the best of you. they are just envious of you!
97395
There is probably nothing wrong with you. How old are you anyway??? Maybe you need to be a little more open, but just being yourself and trying to be nice and friendly to people, might help...
160182
They might be jealous of you. People like to mess with people and hurt their feelings. When I was in school they always called mr names. You might be a cool person to be around. Be yourself and don't think what others think of you. You're just as good as anyone else.
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Boys are so stupid at that age!  I remember, I was stupid then, too.\n\nIt is possible that some of the boys are teasing about it simply because they want to talk to you and have no idea what to say.  Think up some good comebacks (that don't insult them; just 'cause they don't realize how much they hurt you doesn't mean that they wouldn't feel hurt.)  Who knows, you may find yourself in a fun exchange of banter with one of them; and once you start the conversation, you could nicely ask that some subjects be off-limits.  At that point, the ones with any manhood developing in them will respect that.\n\nGood luck!
302908
just be yourself what u want to be like and some people think acting snobby and taking their as s like big time jerks is really cool and if you are not like that then it is very good.coz then u are not a looser.
235525
Behavior is everything.  Act like you like them, let them know they make you happy by smiling and getting strong eye contact with them.  They will likely pick up on it.
80890
TALK TO SMART GUYS.... this way both benefits from each other, you learn and they get to be seen with you [assuming you are good looking and that is the reason guys are nice to you]\n\nnote: this only works if you are smart.
129065
You are a f****** p****.  Stop being a nice guy . . . because of you being a nice guys those b****** are walking all over you and you will get nothing.  I bet you are even taking them shopping, buying them dinner, and taking them to movies, etc. . . right.  They are using your dumb a**.\n\nYou have been labeled as a friend or a brother . . . by them . . . you will never get a little something - something.  You see once you received that label . . . you will never get that moved into the lovers category.  \n\nYou act like a friend . . . than a lover.  I bet they even talk to you about their sex life.  About the a**holes and jerks they date and give it up to.  Are you understanding where I am getting at . . . you need to get in touch with your inner a*hole . . . start acting like a jerk . . . stop being reliable and buddy/buddy with them.\n\nHere is something I want you to listen too . . . Monday through Friday between 3-7pm Pacific Time.\n\nhttp://tuner1.dc1.sonixtream.com/solon/media/tuner/Tuner?aff=fmtalki&useSame=true&type=IE\n\nThis is a radio talk show that talks about the issues MEN really care about . . . teaches guys how to get more tail for less money . . . and also teaches girls how men think.\n\nYou need to change your life . . . because right now . . . you have no balls.\n\nI am being blunt as you requested . . . maybe this kick in the a** will help you.