Deadbeat dad flaunting money to adult kids & giving large gifts, kids won't help mom find him. He embezzeled $ from friends, left mom with very large debt, still owes a lot of money,  Hides from law in CA. Has warrant for DUI and owes taxes. has hidden assets under someone else's name
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There are lots of support groups online that can help you\n\nwww.zabasearch.com\n\nwww.ussearch.com (the first part is free)..and this can tell you where she lives..(city and state)\n\nwhite pages to find listed people\nwww.theultimates.com\n____________________________________\n\nGet the DA in your county to help....\n________________________________\n\nNever Give Up!\n\nI will pray for you...
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Google "fathersrights"  there is a lot of free advice and links to help dads. See if there is a local chapter in MO where he can get legal advice and suggestions on line.Thousands of dads are fighting to be active in their kids lives, from jail and a lot of ex's goal is to keep them in there by filing OPs and having them arrested under false charges. Tell him to hang on and never give up!
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Unless the laws have changed, the parent who files the children first is entitled to receive the beneifits of that filing. Your boyfriend will have to pay what he owes.\n\nI know you only asked about him claiming his kids on his taxes. Have you considered your future with this man? It does not sound as if he is rolling in dough. You shouldn't be stressed with sorting out his finances.\n\nDo you realize if he dies (God forbid) that his wife and children are the beneficiaries, and you will getting nothing but memories?\n\nYou deserve better.
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I think it would be great if we got some of these deadbeat parents to pay up!! I don't know anyone who is getting rich off child support. My support for my oldest is $200. a month. I haven't seen very much support..In the last 10 years I have received $377. SAD...isn't it. I think if he wasn't able to get a drivers license that would make a difference in the amount of child support I would see!!
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Damn people u all need more education to answer this question The KID FOUND HIS MONEY THAT IS WHY HE COMING BACK TO GIVE THE MONEY BACK TO THE MAN U GUYS SHOULD GO TO SCHOOL LOL ^_^    THE KIDS AINT ENVY LIKE U GUYS AND THE KIDS DON'T LIE TOO BECAUSE I AM THE KID HAHA
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No honey. Get the child's dad to look after him at night and go to College, University, and get some decent cash. That's what my wife did and now Im doing it too.\n\nGood luck.
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I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope this helps. There a number of web sites dedicated to single dads with and without custody . they offer advise,emotional support and services and links to financial help for getting your support problems fixed or dissolved. I understand this so well, my ex has been stealing support from me the last 4 years and both my sons live with me due to his harsh abuse. The court has refused to acknowledge this fact allowing this theft to continue. Like you I have limited resources so fighting the Attorney General is not an option for me but I know that what comes around goes around. Hang in there and Bless you.
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Im sorry to hear about that too.  Im about to lose everything too.  My dad doesn't have much money, or his drivers license, or anyone to watch my lil brothers.  My mom just left for another man, and she pays most of the bills in the house.  So i guess im about to experience what you've been experiencing. But anyways, homegurlz right.  Dr.Phil or Oprah aint going to help you any.  They are way to buissy with their television and stuff.  But never give up hope gurl. So here is the number to Dr. Phil if you want to know, (323.461.PHIL ).  You have to leave your name and your number and a message.  Sorry about your dad too.  I hope he really gets to see his Grandchildren.  If you live around your aunts, uncles, cousins or anybody, ask them to take you and your boys to your dads house.  They might be willing to help out, you never know.
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The family court judge will do the following... if he's any good.\n\nTaking into account that the judges first and foremost objective is the care and well being of the child(ren).  Therefore, what has happened in the past does not play into what is to happen going forward.  The past doesn't pay for nor should it take away from the child that needs support.  So...\n\nThe judge should ignore the tax problem and the guy shouldn't bring it up as a debt he has to pay.\nThe judge will base his decision based on the Non-Costodial parents wages and/or potential wages.  Thus based on the number of kids there will be a set max percentage that can be asseted.  If the custodial parents ability to fully support the child financially, then the judge will most like award the maximum amount.\n\nDuring this process, the non-custodial parent has the right lay out the income and expenses they have and ask the Custondial Parent to do the same in an attempt to lower the amount of Child support to a level the JUDGE can deem as fair to the CHILD.\n\nIn my case, the after the judge looked at all the debts I got and the cost of my house note and the amount of money and number of kids (3), he looked at me.. assested the support amount and then said, "But I really don't know how you are going to make that amount and keep your home."\n\nSo.. it's about the kids.  Period.  Not that it's wrong, it's just the way it is.  The fact your friend hasn't paid Taxes in years is not a factor the judge will probaly consider nor does he want to hear about it as he would prefer the man be out of jail and working to support the child.. then in jail and the state support them.\n\nHope this helps!\n\nOh... he better have an attorney and he better tell them everything!
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I keep telling ya'll...white collar crime is very difficult to prove, extremely expensive to investigate, and only rises to mass attention IF some innocent third party just happens to "notice" the fraud and then this innocent person sticks his neck out to warn law enforcement. This person must not be an ex-wife, ex-employee, or have any particular motive they can pin on him. The innocent party must also be a cross between Mother Theresa and Sheriff Taylor to be believed. THEN we have to get past all the sacred laws re: invasion of privacy to even think of looking at someone's computer or their bank account records. God forbid we use common sense and do like Bush said "Follow the money". Yep, THAT would be unconstitutional.
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Contact the GA CSD division.  Their site is down right now, but the link is www.cse.dhr.state.ga.us/\n\nYou can also try these people...\n\nhttp://www.supportkids.com/content/public/stateinfo/statespecific/supportga.asp\n\nYES, you are still owed the money even if the child is now 21.  You need to contact the court.  For owing that much money, the father's name and picture could be on every news program and newspaper in the state, if not more.\n\nThey will help you.  I am not saying they will be able to find him right away, or that he will have the ability to pay, but you certainly need to try.
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ACTIONS speak so much louder than words. Is he genuinely making an attempt? Has he called and talked to the kids? Has he come to see the kids? Has he paid any child support or asked if there is anything he can do for them? Does he make sure they have what they need? I can understand trying to find yourself and make you way through the music world, but not at the expense of abandoning your children for 4-5 years. If he is genuinely sorry and wants to be a part of you and the kids' life I would give him another chance. BUT I would lay down some ground rules, like you always have to have a number to get ahold of him and have some idea of where he is going to be, no skipping town without a forwarding number or address! And what would he have done if one of the kids had gotten very ill or been in a horrible accident and died? Ask him that. He needs to prioritize his life. If he can't do that, I would cut him loose.
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If they were never divorced ( and the father may well have had a divorce did that the mom did not know about)\n\nBut if they are stll married, she can sue for divorce, and ask for part of the money.  ( she should get an attorney)
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Oh man.  A bummer of a situation. First, does your Dad have the money to get it out of impoundment? Just because he's imprisoned doesn't make he has no cash.\n\nThat's a rough one man. I came close to that when I loaned my car to a new roommate years back. I didn't know that he was a sloppy drunk and nearly totaled my car. Good luck to you.
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If he saved his money, he would be fine.  Statistically speaking, the longer he sells the more likely he will be busted and lose his kids.  They him to make up his mind quick, the money or his kids.
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Turn it in to the police and it may ultimately be yours anyway.  Than you won't have to deal with the guilt.  Don't worry about the IRS; found money is not taxable income so the IRS won't get their piece.
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If it were me, she'd be giving me the money back one way or another.  I would let her know exactly how disappointed I was in her, & she would have to EARN my trust back.  If you & her father are still on the same page where parenting is concerned, I wouldn't hesitate to get him involved, either.  At the very least, he should know about this behavior, because who is to say she didn't pull the same stunt on him, & possibly got $3,000 out of the deal?\nI don't believe the statements made that you shouldn't scold her.  She's still your child, & should be held accountable for her actions.  You are still her parent, no matter how old she is, & in a situation like this, she should be disciplined.  If she doesn't want to give you back the money, get the police involved.  Don't let her think she can run over you with threats of leaving & never talking to you again.  Your job is to make her respect you & to be a better person, not to have her like you.  Don't be her friend, be her parent.  If she needs the money for something she isn't comfortable discussing with you, most likely she's doing something she knows is wrong, & of which you'd disapprove.