im lost i just move to arizona from minnesota and i know no one anyone from around here that knows fun places to go.
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If you live near Tempe, go to Mill Ave on the weekends.  There's a bunch of shops and bars and plenty of young people walking around.  I used to go to ariz. state U and that' where everyone hangs out when there new.  You'll easily be able to make some new friends if your just a little outgoing.
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You are doing it all correctly.  It takes time as small towns are quiet, people are content with less, and to my knowledge small towns are not sizzling society parties.  I moved to just such a small town from a large city.  Lower your expectations.  Continue what you ar doing, keep a nice garden others will enjoy and complement upon.  Take a plate full of cookies or some fresh fruit to a neighbor( do not expect much other than thank you).  Smile at everyone, Join a local church. You must be patient as newbies in small towns are suspect(they think why did this person move to this small town?).  You are doing just fine.........
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Utah is very different than Texas.  I am sure you know that now. You have been blessed with a large family and  I am sure there will be someone who will help you get back home.
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It's a funny thing, but you are absolutely correect in this. I was born and raised in New Hampshire and moved to Arizona when I was 22. Growing up in NH we had a lot of tourists go through our town, to the point where I had a T shirt, on the back of which was printed, "I live here, I am not a tourist, and I DONT answer questions". When my ex and I got here to Arizona, we were moving our stuff into an apartment, on a Wednesday I believe, middle of the day, hot as anything, and I had no less than 10 people ask me if I wanted some help moving the stuff inside. I was flabbergasted, I had NEVER heard of such a thing before! I though seriously they were trying to rob me! I refused their help, none too politely- I was in total culture shock (LOL). I finally realized they were sincerely wanting to help and came to the conclusion it's just too durn hot here to be a jerk.\n\nNow I've been here for many, many years and I've noticed even people here are getting more irritated and obnoxious. But I also noticed on a recent NH visit the people THERE seem to be getting ore friendly!\n\nSo now I conclude, it's MY attitude that's changed, not theirs. People tend to respond in whatever way you approach them. If you're angry, they'll respond angrily. If you're charming, that's typically what you get in return.
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I am/was in your situation. Get a job, take some classes, get a hobby. You need to make this place your home also, so get involved in groups around that area and make some friends!
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Same old me...just living in another place
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shoot, no flowers for me...I hope I get atleast 1 when I get home!  I'm in Phoenix, AZ!
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friggen awesome i live in arizona and that would be a godsend.. forward that to me heck thats awesome.
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near Texas, hummm, Arizona State U.
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Maybe the problem isn't Texas or the people here. You say that you have no friends here by choice and you more than likely project that point of view to the folks you come in contact with which is not conducive to having a good time or making friends. Texas is just like every other state in some aspects, we have good people and a few morons. If you are a little more outgoing you will find that most Texans are very friendly and will go out of their way to help you.\n If you are in San Antonio and can't find anything to do someone must have you chained in a closet. San Antonio is a diverse city with a lot of activities.\n I get the feeling that you are not there by choice and have made up your mind before hand to have a miserable time. If that's the case then you are doing yourself a great disservice and missing out on a lot.
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sounds like arizona now
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Michigan sux.  End of story.\n\nLOL no I don't really think that.  There are cool things there, you just wanna get out of the house.  Find a state that is fun (I recommend Nevada; Vegas baby!) and stay there a bit, get to know the people.  Have fun!
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You probably don't want to meet anyone at bars anyway so maybe it's good you live in a dry county. What are your interests? Maybe there is a club you can join? Sporting events? YMCA? Volunteer somewhere? Good luck!
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Agree ! I've been here 26 years now and have made 1 real friend ( and I AM a nice person !) The big city sucks, the cops suck, the traffic sucks, the pizza sucks, actually... I think most of it SUCKS ! Where did you move to ?  Want a visitor ? I need to get out too !!!
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I live in MN too but I have only been there once.  It was too big for me.  There are lots of other things in the state that I would rather do but then I'm not a teenager any more.  You should look at www.exploreminnesota.com there are lots of fun things in the state!
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Tell them that you need to explore and discover what else is out there and reassure them that you'll come to visit as much as possible but if you stayed, you'll feel held back.  Specially if you feel your life could improve financially in another state where theres more opportunity.
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Well this is Doofer and am proud to say that I am from Coldwater,MI Maybe thats why we think alike. I have never heard of your town but there are so many tiny towns. I live in Vegas now and except for the $$$$$$$$$ I hate it. All dry and no green. Will move after retiring.