his name is paul smith he must be about 40 ish as i am 24 thjis year year he as a red /blond hair and he have a  eye conditi0n call an eye stagmess it where the eyes move all the time i knw he used to live in nottinghamshire  in a area call carlton but that was 20 years we think that he as a little boy  but not sure \ni dont thin he know i exsit and i dont thnk my mum ever told him she was pregent  as she was seeing my ssetp dad at the time  as well i have been told i look abit like him i walk like him but now i ma getting older i  need to find out for my self so any can help me or now somone who could  i would be very greateful \ni need to know that he had a girl who wnat to find her dad \nand to tell him that i was here for him \nall my life i have had a big peasdce of my life missing so i need to fill this hole \nplease please please help me i fyou can \ni need to get some reasureane \nthank you very much i hope you never ahve to go thought al this ever it was so not nice to findout
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hi. you should definitely try to find your dad.  it's important. and he may have a feeling that you exist, but he doesn't know..  it might just be a feeling of "missing".  if you have the courage to do it, do it-- you may be happily surprised with the results.. and the best you can do is provide closure for yourself
542374
really wow that is so cool that your trying to find your father !!\nmy father is dead so yeah i hope someone finds him or knows him.\ndora~*
246954
If he's right he'll understand.  I'm a 22 year old christian bloke and you may as well write a big V on my forehead.  Be yourself, don't let anyone change that, and be honest, if he's worth it he'll be fine with that.
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Lasermouse:  Sorry, I'm with you but I HAVE to answer this question.\n\nMy son will be born in August...and he is my son.  I don't care if he's straight or gay.  I don't care if he wants to wear pants or dresses.  I don't care if he wants to be a doctor or a clown.\n\nI love my son.  I want him to be happy.  THAT'S my objective.  Not for him to live the life that I prefer...I want him to life the life that HE prefers, and I'll back him up 100%
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I dont know if i can answer that for you, but have you tried people search?  Thats a start.  Did you ever met any or speak to anyone in his life, family, friends, that tooo might help.  Hope you find him.
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how old are you?carlvision@yahoo.com im related to them sorta
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My mums garden, they love it and they are extremely gay all of the time. Go to Devon, past Okehampton turn left off of the a30, take the next right, drive for exactly 4.2 miles, turn left, nr 12 holly field road, say I sent you. Bring all of your gay mates she will love it. Can you perform YMCA for her as it is her favourite tune. My dad will no doubt join in as he is really gay too. \n\nGood luck mate.
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Hey!the poor guy is only 21 and sky is his limit.Why do you wan'to hook him nowwwww!!!!please give him a breather.Let him enjoy his life as a crickter than as a Romeo.It's no fun!!!!Look this is a wrong site you have choosen to get personal with anybody.
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Sky, over look him talking about your boy the only reason people act like that is because they setting behind that computer. Be proud and i see you are i dont know where you live but the best thing is to find a time like Hoover, T.R Miller, Daphne high school teams here in Alabama but there are others in other states just as good any that made state is a good place if you move him now dont he have to set out one year. Anyways iam not sure on that my freinds boy did a trans -fer and something like that came up. Next time your in here post his name so one day we can look for him in some college.*
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Chances are sweetie that your biological father either died or didn't want anything to do with you.  Fortunatelly for you, you had a father in your life that wanted to be your dad.  Let the past go, I know it's hard not having your parents living, but that is no reason to search for someone who was never in your life growing up.  If you think that this will heal some emotional scars you have from losing your mum and pop your wrong.  Chances are if you do find your biological dad you will be very disappointed.  Let it go, remember, being a parent is not DNA, its taking care of you, teaching you, loving you, and being there for you through thick and thin.  Now that your grown that biological father can never do those things for you, so forget him!!
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It is so good to see someone looking for their mother. I am a mother trying to find her daughter. I love her so much and would do anything to see her and tell her. Look in the court house where the last time you knew of her and see if there are any public records. Look in the phone book, or call the information and ask for her name. Did you know any of her family, a brother maybe? I would love to help. There are sites where you can put your name and age where thousands look for lost loves but I quit looking there because there were sooooooooo many of them. I placed a call out here where maybe someone might have heard of her. Her name was Deborah Janean Huff born oct 29 1974 in Kansas City Kansas and raised in kc missouri. Good luck sweetie.
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The first part of your question, You being 18 and he being 24 is fine your both adults and personal I see nothing wrong with that at all. \nThe fact that he has a past well that is normal most do. Him looking younger does not mean much either. It is great he has a kid but is he resposible and doing what he can to help support his child? If he isn't he should be because not only is it the right thing to do it will also show he is being a responsible adult. \nAcceptence into a family is the rough part here because I do not know you background to offer the best advice. Some people will never accept him because of their beliefs. We live in such a time where many make mistakes, so you would think we can learn to forgive and not judge them for their past but that is not always the case. \nKeep in mind your an adult and can make your own choices. Although I would not tell you that you should disrespect your parents. \nIf I were in your shoes this is what I would do. I would tell my parents that I needed some time with them alone and work it out where everyone can get together. I would say I have this guy I met and I have been getting to know. Everything I have learned about him is great. (this part you give a few examples). He has stolen my heart but he has past. (explain about his child). Now I know that you look down on this type of thing and I know that he is not perfect but I am willing to love him for the man he is not the man he use to be. I want you meet him and accept him as I have. \nThis may or may not work because i do not know your parents but the key thing here is talk calmly and respectfully and listen to what they tell you even if it isnt what you want to hear. \nI wish you luck and I hope this all turns out for you.
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OMG beware of a man with blue eyes and brown hair!!!\nAnd don't drive anywhere today!\nBe very careful!!!
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Humm, The sad thing is soem boys/men arent very talkative like we are. I would suggest just telling him how you are feeling. Also dotn worry too much about it just have fun and enjoy your youth, go out with soem friends etc.
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try the directory,.. her dads name wud have come since they r more than a yr old there..\n\nElse try her neighbours or any family frens or relatives if u know any.. \n\nElse also try all r frens
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if you are an extreme minor as in below 16 yrs old call him a pedophile and tell him to find someone else, I think of it this way kinda of my guideline to life....\n\n" life is too short to worry about the petty things in life; you live too fast, too hard and die too young."  \n\nin other words- blow this guy off, and LIVE your life.  Often do we make our decisions off of tomorrow and not today- don't live life everyday like its your last; but, make sure what you do today wont hurt you tomorrow...\n\nwithout the mistakes you will never learn to succeed in life-- but remember  YOUR MOM WAS IN YOUR SHOES ONCE AND SHE HAS KNOWLEDGE BEYOND YOU SHE IS TRYING TO SHARE...
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yes....i would deffinately search for my birth parents...\ni am not adopted, but my biological father left my mum pregnant with twins (me and my sister) so i didnt even know him or anything about him...i grew up thinking that my stepdad was my real dad until i was about 7 and a half when they told us because we had to go to our real grandfathers funeral! i never realy wondered about my real father, but recently however, me and one of my good friends have been looking onto finding our birth fathers as her dad left when her mum was pregnant too!...i want to find him, but only to get like medical history and just to know a LITTLE bit about where i came from on his side and not just on mums side...so i think that if you DO want to know a bit about your birth mum then go ahead and go for it, because nothing is holding you back except yourself! and your fears of what she is really like, so dont hold back!