How many of you regret the first time you had sex. I mean we all make mistakes and stuff happens, but for how many of you is it really a true regret?
134394
I have no regrets. I was in high school and we were boyfriend/girlfriend for 2 years before having sex. And we stayed together another 2 years afterwards and parted as friends. It was a beautiful thing.
205057
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
41556
Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
93025
My husband cheated on me shortly after we got together...but I did say he's my husband, right?  He swears up and down to never do it again, it's hard to forget, but I have forgiven him and am still, after 2 1/2 years trying to forget.  It's not easy, but I love him too, and don't want to let go.  He respects me for forgiving him, and since I gave him a second chance, he will be faithful to me.
106804
I should have worked harder 1st semester.. heck I should be working harder right now.\n\nI wish I had gotten up the guts to kiss the guy I'm dating.\n\nI don't know... I don't have many regrets because usually they're only regrets for a little while then something good happens and if the bad thing never happened, then the good thing would have never happened! There have been VERY few things in my life that I truly regret
503548
Yes i've cheated on my last boyfriend. Why i did it?\nI was in a long-distance relationship with him, i felt lonely and i needed closeness. I cheated with one of his friends who is now my husband-to-be.\nWe're not proud of it but we learned how to deal with it.\nHow many times? Well, let's just say i cheated until me and my ex finally broke it off. Which was about, i don't know, 3 weeks?!
150881
of course, i remember the exact date cause it's an event that i will never forget until the day i die. i have to prove that i am a virgin before he marry me. i know it was the past, but you will never forget the humiliation and the distrust knowing you never been involve with anyone at all. sad but its' true, i did get over it, but it leave a mark that i carry deep in my heart as of today.. anyway, this bring back bad memory...sorry.
355341
I love the lack of answers!!\n8, and I'm 20. I deffinately consider myself to be a guy that sleeps around alot.\nHOWEVER. This is not something I am proud of. I regret alot of the things I've done, and although I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, I'd much prefer fewer partners for longer periods of time.\nDo you mind answering something? Whats the ideal answer you're looking for?
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The man who I gave my virginity to.  He loved me unconditionally and was my soul mate.  We were together for five years.  He was 16 years older than I was when I was 18.  When I grew up a little I wanted kids, but he his were already grown and he didn't want any more children, so I left.  What a fool I was.  I ended up marrying a total jerk shortly thereafter to whom I was married for 18 years and had three kids.  Oh, I always wished I had stayed with the first man.
413933
It is too soon to tell if they will regret it or not.\n\nJust wait.\n\nSit back and ask again sometime soon.
313592
i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.
56246
I only ever had sex with one virgin.  Married her 7 years later :)
55338
We're all w*nkers! lol\nHow much sex you're getting is irrelevant. I do it whenever and wherever possible, including before, during and after sex...oh yeah!!!
262131
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
198583
I was 16yrs old, and on vacation with my family in Texas.  I met the girl who was a friend of my cousins there.  we hung out alot and ended up at a friends house late one night and we had sex.  It was great for me, but not so great for her.  I had no experience and I was done before she got started!  It was not a one night stand though.  We had sex several more times.  It was special to me, and I will never forget her.
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Although there are some things I wish I did not do in life, there's nothing I can do to change the fact that I did them.  Dwelling on my past is a complete waste of time.  The one thing I do take with me though, is learning from my mistakes.  Mistakes help make us who we are. If you take the time to learn from your mistakes so as to not make them again, you really don't have anything to regret.
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I think that if you have to ask, then no, it wasn't a good idea.  I'm glad that he asked, and I'm glad that you consented.  I'm also glad that you regret it.\nWhat's done is done.  More than likely you will continue the activity, but I want you to consider something....\nJust because the deed is done, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it.  If you really regret it, and feel that you truly were not ready yet, there is absolutely no shame in declining to engage further.  If you feel it appropriate, get together w/ your bf & tell him, "Look, it was really great, but now i regret it, and I just don't think I was ready.  So I'd really like to wait...before I do it again."\nAny good guy will respect that.  If the dude has a fit, drop him.  It's a good test of character.\nAs for you, you can run that game all you want, but I'm willing to bet you'll still be weak enough to give in if the situation comes about  ;-)  Just a fact of life, babe.\nSOooo... yes, it's too late to go back; no, it's not too late to wait; and yes, if you choose to wait, you should avoid situations where you can get caught up in the lust.\nDon't worry.  It happens to the best of us  :-)