she flirts with me in class and she let me tutor her one time outside of class but she never calls me when she says she will, I am the one always calling her.  How should I ask her out and should i play the same hard to get game or maybe tell her that i like her without actually saying those words?
135613
when in doubt, pull it out
674288
hi, to let her that you like her iswait she by herself or if her friends is always around pull her to the said say something like this call her over to you don't look nerves or anything laugh and say somethinng that just happen to get the conversation started then say her name first \n example: ashley you a real good friend to your friends a sweet person and that's what i like about you that what got my attention about you.i been noticing you for a while and wonder if you want to give me a chance for you to get to know me better outside of school. you don't have to answer now take your but please really think about it u won't be disappointed.\n  now that should win her over if it doesn't dont worry about her because that mean she don't want a gentlemen shae want loser someone that's gonna take advantage of her. Please no notes that's so juvenile
655707
Why don't you want her to know you like her?  \n\nLifes too short, give her your number.  It's stupid to waste time playing silly games.\n\nWho cares what your class thinks...they are a bunch of dumb kids.  If you don't do it will you regret it?  \n\nI say go for it and ignore your classmates. They'll grow up in a few years...
504276
First make eye-contact, throw a few friendly smiles.  This is to establish a non-threatening demeanor.  Don't overdo it-be subtle and give it few weeks. At this point she might even say something to you first so have a few conversational points in mind in case she does-(the teacher's funny quirks, how small the chairs are-nothing too personal yet-establish your common denominators).  \nIf she doesn't then you will have to "just happen" to be in her general area one day when everyone else is kind of on the move and drop an incidental line about the teacher's  toupee.  Notice her reactions in either of these situations-Is she making eye-contact and smiling?  Is she looking at the door?  If you choose number one, move in with the "Would it be cool if I gave you my number?"  The advantages with this approach rather than asking for her number are several.  Most importantly, if she's really interested in you she will call you.  It also seems a lot less aggressive.  It could also save some immediate embarrassment if she's not interested because she can still take the number if she has no intention to call.  Most important of course-be yourself, show a little confidence have fun with it and no matter what happens, it is a learning experience! Best of Luck-
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Well the good thing about School is you can alway start a converstation about what ever class you are taking. Like "Oh do you have the biology notes from last week?" She won't fall in love from that but at least now you have spoken to her. Then build on that ask her how she likes the classes, if she is good in it ask her if she can help you out and if she is bad in it offer to help her out. Some where in there you should be getting to know her better and taking notice if she is responding to you at all as more than a classmate.
50757
well flirt with her and let her know you r interested and get to know her first, then with time you will build up a relationship with her, dnt suspect he is er b.f, jus ask her\nXxX
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Play hard to get, or maybe be seen with someone else........you never know she may take notice then because she has realised that you are not chasing her (which no doubt she has noticed). \n\nShe might be playing hard to get as well.  It can't hurt to try this and you never know you might end up with someone who likes you and vice versa.
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it could be that she is a tease, but normal girls when they do that really means she likes you and want you to approach her.\ni'm speaking for myself because i have done that many times.\nfor me it works\none more thing****\nsome girls give off mixed signals, why i don't know
514403
Try talking to her ;)\nBe confident and up front and give it a shot!\nDon't mess around and play games, just go for it.
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take it slow buddy don't rush it cause' you want her to be your girlfriend right away, my best answer towards your question is that you need to re-evaluate yourself. is there a way she'll like me? i mean, she is interested in me?(you'll know through how she is around you.. you can just feel it... trust yourself) and if you have body odor (not to say you do.. it's just an example) you should know better to clear that up you know.. you have to think about those things. if she likes you as much as you like her.. there will be a sign that will strike you. not literally! haha.. but i mean like.. who knows. you will randomly bump into her again and again and it's a good vibe you'll get out of her. if she talks to you and really carries a conversation it shows she's interested about you and you all in all. if her talks are short and to the point.. she may not be all that into you. and here's something important. like, do NOT i repeat DO NOT take her kindness as her liking you. I have experienced that all the time. I am a really genial person and if I'm helping a guy out with his homework or whatever, he automatically believes I'm into him. Goodness, no! If a girl likes a boy, she'll do whatever means to get to him. It's that natural thing that happens. Overall, you will find out someday if she likes you back. hang in there!
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i am a girl so im gunna say what girls wanna hear and see when they are flirting. girls love to be complemented so give her a nice complement about her jewellery or hair... sheel love that. also i'd suggest to just give her a nice smile. ask her some questions about her... but dont get too nosey. some people say that teasing is a way of flirting (i do not suggest this). if you believe you like her too ask her out... just go for it! sheel obviously say yes! stay in touch like msn or texting.... and if you do go out with this girl i'd suggest these four places for a date... picnic at the park or at the beach, a theme park or fair, go see a band you both like, or have brunch in a nice cafe'... hope i could help good luck!
327328
ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
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Do you think she would be surprised to know you like her?  If you know her well enough to strike up a conversation with her, start one.  Then swing it around to asking her out.  If you don't know her well enough to just talk to her, get started getting to know her.  Ask her out later.
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ok im not a guy but i hope this helps. because she is a player if you start to seem that you are loosing interest she may be a bit like "meh theres others out there" so i think you have to be a bit careful. r u going out with her? if so tell her how you feel towards her flirting with other guys, if shes really into you, she'll understand and respect that. she sounds like shes just a bit afraid of commitment, make sure that u dont smother her or anything and send her running but dont become too distant too. and be different to all the other guys she sees, make sure that u dont become just another face in the crowd. \n\nsori if i doesnt help ya, but GOODLUCK!!
75088
Well, if shes like totally flirting with you then shes probably into you but if she has a bf then you might just be like a little fling that she has to get though class but you never know she might totally be into you!! Just act like your intersted and go from there! Good luck!
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if she flirts with everyone else and not you that could mean that she likes you, it doesnt sound like shes too shy though if shes flirting with everyone else...\n\ngirls behaving shy and nervous around you is a very good sign that she likes you.  you should try walking out of class with her sometime to her locker, just get talking to her more and see if she pursues the conversations further by walking with you after class or something.  \n\ngood luck!
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okay well 1st off ask her for her number. and talk 2 her on the phone other then at school and then after about 3 days of talking on the phone and gettin 2 know her better ask her if she ever wants 2 hang out outta school and if she says no shes not into u if she says yes thats great take her bowling or skatein or mini golfin something fun so yall can talk and hang out instead of something like a movie where yall really cant have a confo and she how it goes and if the moods right and u feel the times right ask her out! i hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!