I work alot and never seem to find the time or at this point even know where to go to meet someone.  I am not a club or bar kinda guy and I would like to start going out again but am lost where to start?  Do the yahoo personals and Match.com type of sites really work or is it mostly B.S..  I am not a bad looking guy and not completely socially retarded yet but I do have a hard time meeting women.  I really just want someone to go to the movies or eat or the park.  Just simple stuff for now.  I am 34 if that makes any difference on suggestions.  Thanks,
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try a personal ad or join a webside. good luck. wanna chat?
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Why don't you try the personals on yahoo.com or gp to match. com or just go to your local hang out palce and meet people. But yahoo.com personals is a good one I don't find ppl there but i like to get the ugliest ppl and send them to my friend and tell her it is her future husband and when she opens it he is nasty. I know thats mean but its fun
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I don´t really think it is bad, but maybe you shouldn´t only focus on bars to hook up  with sby , single girls are everywhere and you never know when you can meet one. bars are not only filled with singles and it has some cons such as one night stands, girls/guys who are drunk enough like not to even remember your face nxt day...join clubs get a dog and take him out on walks, go to parties even if they´re the familiar kind maybe a cousin or a friend of your friends have invited someone who can be for you.. btw internet can be good too but has some cons like everything on this world, personally I was lucky and I met my best half online and now we are happily married!
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Hmmm - are you sure trawling the weirdos and misfits who use Yahoo Answers for someone to meet up with a lone female (and one, I presume that you actually like) is a terribly good idea???\n\nAdded: Ah... fair enough....so long as you're going along - safety in numbers and all... we're going to see them in Sheffield - enjoy the show!
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Dating sites are great ways to meet people.  I met my husband on seniorfriendfinders.com, and there is match.com, Dr. Phil is on there now helping, also friendfinders.com - some give you free trials.  I'm so glad i did it, I met the man I love more than anything.
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Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
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maybe u should try one of those sites specifically for match and dating purposes... like match.com or something
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I am male, 55, and I think it's a great idea. There are a lot of singles on here, both male and female. Most of them are wonderful people too. Some send you e-mails telling you they appreciate the advice, and are almost like family. Great place to make new friends, and possibly more. Who knows?
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do NOT try to meet ppl in chatrooms.  there are a bunch of freaks and porn bots in there.\ntry dating sites such as yahoo personals, match,com, e-harmony.\nbe very careful. there are some ppl who post pics when they were much younger or they lie about their profile.\notherwise they all seem like so cool place to find a partner.\n\ngood luck!!!
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Ask your friends if they know of someone who is single. You need to be out in order to meet someone,but it doesn't mean the bar scene. Music in the park? (if you have them where you live) Social events.Good luck.
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depending on what city you live in, you dont have to meet females in the club/bar, etc. you can meet people in the mall, at the library starbucks, anywhere.  work on your people skills, you'll be o'k.
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I have met a couple of really nice guys on Singlesnet. Also, you can email a featured member for free, so if you find a featured member that you are interested in you don't need to join. I haven't paid to join, but have contact with the men I want to contact.
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OK Yahoo! is not a way to meet women, its a way to help solve problems. If you want to meet someone, stop looking. You will find her. She might just be right in front of you and you wont even know it! Don't look for love, let it look for you. That is what I did and 4 months later, I found the love of my life and we have been together for over a year and we are engaged. Just be yourself, and let her find you. I promise, things will work out in the end.
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That's funny, there are so many nice, friendly well balance women out there without children  wondering the same thing about a males.  The problem is, where do you find eachother....at the nice, friendly, well balanced singles without children club? That's cute. Good luck hun.
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The first thing you need to do is feel good about yourself. Get out do some mild to moderate exercising, get your hair and nails done, etc. Pamper yourself. Men like a clean, confident, healthy looking woman. \n\nNext find a place to meet a guy...I don't suggest bars. Oddly enough my wife and I met online. (There are some real freaks online so this can be discouraging.) Get a puppy and take it to the park. Dogs are good conversation starters and you would rather meet a guy thats doing outdoors stuff than one that sits around the house all day. \n\nWhatever you do don't act desperate. Just do your thing. If you see a guy that does something for you give him the confident "hey baby" look. See if he goes for it. \n\nGood luck!!
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i know yahoo has a personals site there is also matchmaker.com and i think perfectmatch.com ...... as far as the friendfinder i kinda think that is more of a sex related site but i could be wrong. :) i never really used any of those sites those are just a few ive heard of
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i cano often be found at church.  im only 22, but hey, age is just a number.  seriously though, we are a bit harder to find than an average guy.  usually (i know in my case) we are a bit shy.  we don't often hit on girls, we think it rude.  ergo, nice guys finish last.  some of us do respect women, personally i had no choice growing up, having 4 sisters, no brothers until i was 11, and a step dad that i really didnt get along with, it wasnt hard to learn.\n\n\n\nmaybe try lowes, or star nursery.  stay away from wal mart though.  unless you want a good deal on something.  \n\n\ni got you beat on how long its been since a date, too.  i know its not a contest and i probably get the loser award, but im working on 22 1/2 yrs.  also known as "never"