IF they are in a hot tob or any situation and are drunk and there is sexual contact and all parties agree and later the woman or both women claim harrasment, or rape, or indiecent bla bla, is the man able to make the same claim?
121440
Yeah but more an likely that guy is screwed because that is the crap you get..  And the way the system works... Heck look at the teacher in flordia?
438582
i mean rape is considered wen the woman says "no".....if u didnt say no then he continued his way.....but i think that YES u can call it rape bcuz u were underage and he was the adoult in that situation.
106752
Sexual harrassment in the making.\n\n\nTell the dude thats hitting on you to bug off and warn him of your intentions. If he fails to heed your warning then you need to advise your supervisor, manager, head honcho of the situation or Human Resources. If the management or HR fails to correct the situation and the harrassment continues, then they can be held liable and litigation can result.
299923
yu should here both stories frist but if she was drunk then how does she know what he was doing but if he loves you then i don't think he would do that but why would you friend say that he did that to her  but i would talk to both at the same time.
286093
These friends can be charged with verbally threatening to do bodily harm to another person......this is still a felony charge.........Report it to the police...take all threats seriously....
339516
I wouldn't think it would be sexual assault, but it would be assault.  I suspect that some of the people claiming this in forums are lying, perhaps to make themselves look better.  If it was done to me, I would file assault charges.
442870
Please ignore some of the tosh people have written as supposed advice here!! Threats to kill are only taken as that in the eye of the law if the person making the threat has the ability to carry that threat through at the time of making said threat. This is the word of the law. It is not the choice of the police. They do not make the laws and can be as frustrated as you, me or anyone else with such laws. \n\nFurthermore, harrassment is something far better dealt with via civil law through a solicitor and a county court. Please look into this. You will be far better served in this instance if you take this route. Criminal law is not really any good until serious offences have occured in this area. Also, there is no such thing as a verbal assault in the eyes of the law. Although you could argue that someone suffers physically because of the verbal onslaught they had received, but this would be an exceptional case. \n\nSee a sol re civil law. It really is your best bet.
405626
he tells you he is not into her just to have sex with you, that way he will be having sex with 2 girls. yea that would be cheating. he will tell you anything pretty much. he will probably even tell you tomorrow that he broke up with his girlfriend just to sleep with you. but that won't be true. and no it is not sexual harrasment. it is only harrasment if he touches you inappropriately without your consent.
563183
Not without their permission  (that means permission of both (or all) parties in the call).\n\nThe exception could be granted by a court order.
251422
no.  that means that any girl can say that any guy raped her.\n\ni agree that the exam can be almost as traumatizing as the actual rape, \n\nbut sending an innocent guy to jail, just because some bitches are , well bitches,  is alot worse.\n\nthere needs to be solid proof, and unfortuntely, an exam is the only way.\n\neven a witness is unreliable,  if both friends hate one guy, they can get him thrown in jail.
197947
if the person who was forced to bend over did not consent, and felt threatened, then it was definitely assault.\n\neven if it didn't fit the definition of sexual assault, it certainly fits the definition of simple assault.
540188
Let me be honest.  The laws no longer make the victim responsible for testimony, in most states, so she is really quite powerless to change the report.  The DA now has the case and they will be determining the outcome, not the victim.  \n\nYes, people can change, but abusive partners usually don't UNLESS they are agressively prosecuted and receive "punishment" for their crime.  \n\nI won' t go into the long history of how this all came about, but I will tell you it came about because 65% of male/female relationships involve violence.  I, myself, was one of those statistics, over 25 years ago.  I had to leave, or someone was going to die.  He just recently did the same thing to his new wife.  BUT HE HAS NEVER EVER BEEN TO JAIL FOR THE CRIME.  EVER.  \n\nI personally prepared testimony for a Senate hearing committee to have the laws changed where the perp MUST be arrested and agressively prosecuted.  \n\n25 years later I see the damage done to my children b/c the man simply would not keep his hands to himself.  He blames everyone else, especially me and his new wife, but he has never had to face consequences.\n\nI beg you, I implore you, get the help that is offered to you.  Keep your hands to yourself.  If alcohol or drugs figures any way into this scenario, get help for that as well.  \n\nI really would like to see people change, truly, but my sympathy lies primarily with the woman and the children.  They are the vulnerable.\n\nI wish you the best, I truly do.\n\nGood luck.\n\nPeace.
183253
is is right if he sexualy harassed her.. if not.. then it's wrong
502797
Technically speaking, if she makes an allegation then the firm is legally obliged to support her while the claim is being investigated. If the discrimination is of a racist nature, then she is also well within her rights to pursue criminal action and can involve the police. However, these things are enormously difficult to 'prove', especially if the abuse is endemic within the firm. If she had, for example, a tape recording (use a mobile) which could be used as evidence, then she should in the first instance approach a trade union representative (if she's in the right industry) and see what level of support she might receive. Failing that, or if it doesn't apply, the Citizens Advice Bureau would be able to help her. One thing she MUST do is make a noise, no matter what the consequences are - this kind of behaviour has to be rooted out of our society at all costs.
606158
Is it possible for a woman to 'rape' a guy?
190308
Wrong section to ask this Q.  But, yes, she can, and yes, it is still rape.  "Getting wet" is about as voluntary as getting and erection; sometimes you want to but can't, sometimes you don't want to but can't help it.  But if a girl says no and the man continues to force her to have sex (regardless of whether she is wet/drunk/a stripper/passed out/etc.) then it is still rape.
179309
Good point.  \n\nA friend's mum, when confronted with the statement it was a womans fault this happened, replys, 'It took the very Devil himself to tempt Eve.  It only took a woman to tempt the man.'\n\nclever response, I think (whether you are a Christian or not).  It usually shuts them (typically a man) up.