me and my boy friend has been living together for three years,and he ask me if his sister could come and live with us and i said yes.then two month ago she gave him a new girlfriend.even when im there he bring her to the house to have sex with ever single day.and i love him so much what should i do.
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FIRST: KICK HIS SISTER OUT!!\nSECOND: KICK HIS STUFF OUT!!\nTHIRD: BRING HOME A HOTTIE AND GIT IT ON WITH HIM!!\n\nand why do you love a loser who cheats on you. Instead go out, party, have fun and better yet keep his stuff and sell it on ebay and make extra money so you can go buy yourself designer apparell and maybe go on a vacation and meet hot new guys!! =P
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You had 26 answers already at the time of my replying, and i didnt read them but i can imagine what most of them will say. You are young, your boyfriend doesnt treat you right and doesnt treat his body with respect - so why do you think he will be good for you when he's not good to himself?\n\nOf course you have got involved with someone else. Its natural. You want a proper life with someone who cares. Its not a mess sweetheat, he's no good for you so just leave! Really, just pack up your stuff and leave. It may be hard but it will be best in the long run.\n\nGet support from family and friends, and just do it! A&#92; year from now you will be SO much happier!\n\nIf a friend was in your situation what would you tell them? You'd said he doesnt deserve you, wouldnt you? Come on, ring your mum or a friend and say you want help leaving..... they will be delighed to help believe me!\n\nMy daughter left a relationship like this last year. He was a drinker and had started to push her around too. Now she is with a lovely bloke.\n\nI hope you get the strength to do this, and make a good life for yourself.
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the guy i am dating now i have been best friends with for 6 years. when we first met we started to flirt nothing serious, then he told me that he wanted to persue this other girl very seriously. so we became really good friends. after four years we were finally both single, he was getting ready to move across the country and he told me how he felt. we've been dating for 2 years now. it is with out a doubt the best relationship i have ever been in. i'm glad we waited, because if not we might not be together right now. if he loves you and you love him. you will end up together. i hope this helps your situation.
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Omg, I have this guy too and he has this slutty girlfriend and I think he can really do better then that. I ask him to come over nad hangout and he saud my g/f would like that!  I was like Matt come on your my best friend your gonna diss me for you girl, but i'm still friends with him and i love him but if he wants her, theres other fish in the sea!
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well on one hand you do have a point but think about it, if her bf is a junior and she's a freshman dont you think that they should go? because if they stay together for a real long time he will graduate and by the time she's a junior he wont be around to go with her to her ball so let her enjoy it now when she's with him she deserves to have fun too. and your friend will probably ask her to go with him if he's going because its his gf and I'm sure he would like to spend more time with her and he probably thinks that this is a romantic way for them to get closer and deeper in the relationship he's not gonna ask someone else to go with him if he has his gf and I'm sure he likes her enough to take her is he's going.
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It sounds like he has another girl. If he is your EX-Boyfriend, I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are lots of other guys out there, who would treat you right. If you really can't live without him, then when you see him, ask him in all honesty what is going on. Tell him to be up front & honest with you, you deserve it. Long distance realtionships are very hard. But all in all I would dump him, & take a break from guys. The right one will come along, just give it time.
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Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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Okay, wait for him to dump her. Don't be a homewrecker. It's bad karma. If he really likes you he'll leave her for you without u having to do anything. \n\n                                          Good Luck!
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Yes it is a bad idea especially if he likes you. He needs to make a decision to break-up with his current girlfriend and get with you, or to work it out with his girl and leave you alone. And think about how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this too you, not with you. \nAnd not to sound rude but if he likes you soooo much, why is he with her instead of you? Just know that if he liked you so much he would be with YOU and you would not have to ask this question.
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well hun, before you ask us the questions you need to ask yourself some, Do you love him? Is he kind? Does he love you? Is he a good provider? and most importantly: DOES HE LOVE YOU? i personally think that you sound like you love this man, but i think you should give it time, see if he may be back fooling around with his ex. and another question, are you and his ex close? (you say she lives with you right?) well always remember this: GUYS COME AND GO, BUT FRIENDS WILL BE THERE FOREVER. good luck I hope you make the right choice, keep us posted plz!
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dude, don't be stressin too much.\n\nmy boyfriend and i started as best friends, yes having sex and all that stuff [not so often]. we were best friends for 2 years and today is infact our third month anniversary =]\n\ni think, you should just be happy. and make sure that you guys have fun.\n\ndon't have doubts, as doubts may ruin a relationship. instead, enjoy.
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Well if u give her a chance that she could be good, then u and her will have a good life again. All u need is let her friends come to the house and have fun with her friends and then next time u bring ur friends in the house and see if she is having fun with ur friend. If u want that u and ur step sister be together u should talk about what u like and what u don't like or just have a girly talk. Maybe u could have a double date with to cute guys and after that u can talk about the date that u had with the guys.
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You are young with great stamina :) be proud that you have so much energy.  However, if you wanna have sex 20 times a day thats normal(as long as you dont forget to eat).  Furthermore, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other women.  You don't have to betray him just because your attracted to other women.  You should talk to him about and see if he'd mind a threesome with another woman.  Most of my straight friends wouldn't pass up that chance for anything.  so relax you're probably not gonna hurt your boyfriend, but make his day.
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i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
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You are jealous of their relationship and you have no reason to she is his sister, you are his girlfriend. He loves his sister and hopefully he loves you(I can't really say for sure, I don't know you all) but if you force a division between them in any way he will resent you for it.
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leave him alone and get your own man. he has a girlfriend. dont break them up. u wouldnt want anybody to do that to u.
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You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?