would you rather have a women be:\n   strong independent straightforward knows what she wants\n   and goes and gets it\n\n                      OR\n   \n    a lady who is laidback goes with the flow indecisive \n    plays hard to get\n\n\n   thanks for your input!!!!! just want to know what guys think about women...
126599
My choice would always be the first one. Such a kind of lady would be an ideal partner,better companion,and above all,a reliable team mate with whom one can explore life's adventures,challenges and all the fun. \nMoreover, life would be rewarding ,easy going and trouble free if the "lady behind the man" is strong ,independent and supportive
410658
I like all women but I'm looking a for a woman who can fun loving and smart.  I usually look for a woman who seem to have the same interests as me.  I would look for a man at activities you enjoy and hopefully meet one.
262521
i would prefer a sound mind to a strong body.because it s the mind that controls the body and not the other way round.so i would have a sound mind that would ensure that i have a fit body
580982
'MENS'.........all like diiff. things.  as for me ,i like a woman 2 be not just beautiful and slim  but also honest,clear hearted and genuine
144196
Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
625236
I think you should go with what you are interested in.  If you don't wnat a woman who is into the same thing as you then don't do it.\n\nI can't talk for every woman here...but...\n\nI don't get turned off by a very muscular man... I get turned off when all he can talk about is working out and the stuff involved with that. \n\nBut I think that if you find someone you like and they aren't interested in the body building...and they like you...go for it.\n\nIMO
85711
Real women respect honesty. I would just say it. The worse that could happen is that you stay friends. Be brave. Some of us ladies still appreciate a man who goes after what they want.
71966
No, I wouldn't go on the show Elimidate.  It is implied that you date whoever the winner is.  I wouldn't compete against other men for a woman because you can't be yourself around her.  She is also not necessarily the woman I would want to be with anyway.  I also wouldn't like a bunch of women competing over me.  Maybe some people would think of that as a fantasy.  If you think about it though, they are acting immature to try to be picked as the one you want.  However, why would I want to pick a woman who is immature?  Isn't that going to have a negative effect on the relationship?  If it's just to sleep with her and not have a serious relationship with her, then why do it at all?  I could just as easily find someone that shallow who just wants to sleep with me at a bar.  I know this is a long answer, but I don't look for immaturity as one of the good qualities in a woman.  So, no I wouldn't go on elimidate.
595677
why let it be so easy? guys always ask that ? but if every woman gave it up so easy what type of women would we be. i bet some guys would  have alot of names to call a women that makes it easy. WORK FOR A WOMAN SHE WILL APPRECIATE IT MORE!
516722
I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
82137
What most women are really saying is they want a man that is sensitive to her needs.  A woman LOVES  man that can read her especially when she is not an open book.  If she isn't giving back, then keep her waiting.  She doesn't deserve your attention if she isnt willing to meet you half way.
175285
Yes. Women need to feel desired. You can't just flirt and get right to the point that you want to @#$# her!! Have some game!! If you 'win' her over don't you think you will eventually get it anyway? Timing is everything. If you flirt with a self respecting woman (not a whore who will drop it like it's hot for a french fry)then yes, she will NEED not want, but NEED you to show her that you desire all of her including her mind, her conversation, as well as her body.
313511
My first choice would be a old fashion boring dude with a beutiful heart and my second choice would be a weirdo that knows how to treat a woman right. the reason for my first choice is because i only look within the guys personality and if he got a huge heart he will respect me and love me for who i am. and i would go with the weirdo as second choice because evryone is differnt meaning evryone do their weird things for once in a while but hey if this guy do evryhting weird it aint that bad as he dont beat on me or something.
203725
It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
153991
I am not interested in either of those. I care about a woman for who she is. I am not in love with her because of her waist line or lack of. Being skinny or not skinny, this is not important to guys who care about women.
64052
Hun I'm a very old fashioned girl, but in no way am I easily manipulated either. I am not into feminism because I think that's kind of lesbianish (not that I have anything against them), I do believe in equal rights though. Old fashioned does not mean we have to deal with all the things women had to deal with in the past. Sharing housework, well, I don't care for that, I'm a perfectionist and a clean freak, so when it comes to that, I need to do things my way or no way *lol*. I do believe in speaking my mind, but that doesn't mean I am going to stop being old fashioned. Do you really want someone old fashioned, or do you want someone you can manipulate?
530673
Romance.....Just a honest man and one that listens is nice.\n☺