its normal to have arguments with your girlfriend... last night we had a fight ofcourse it was small... so i drove the car so fast.. then stop and start to argue again... she beat me up so hard that i end up with lots of wounds in my face and arms she even broke the door and the wind shield of my car... but i never touch her... not even a pitch, which ended our relationship.. i even that i had to lie to my family that i was beaten but by some kind of gang... we talk this morning she told first to end the relationship... but as we talk to some more we decided to good back together we talk the whole day on phone... despite my injuries i still love her with all my heart... i know wounds will heal...i just can't live without her.... i this right?
124934
people fight and us women are so emotional...we get over it though...physical abuse isn't by any means right...see what drives her to get so pissed and help her thruogh it..it also helps to walk away on a self time out when things get heated...love without fights are in fantasy worlds only..everone has altercations it's how we deal with them and how we choose to forgive...good luck dear...she may need counceling for her anger issues it only helps...no diss intended...anger managment can be a good thing even when you think nothings wrong...higher learning is your result and thats always a good thing.
571982
~~Talk to her about it, and tell her how it made you feel.  Communication is important in building a solid relationship. Sometimes out of anger people do things to make the other person angry as well.  That isn't an excuse for it to happen, that is just a fact that it happens.  Tell her how it made you feel, be honest with her, in a non-accusing manner, assuring her that you love her and want to make things right.~~
311265
She either wasn't ready to get involve in a serious relationship or she is seeing someone else. in either case she was looking for an excuse to do that.\nI'm sure you done every necessary thing for her but there are always people around your GF will have something to talk about and poisoning her mind.\nunfortunately it doesn't end there, after breaking up, you will be accused  about stuff you never did and you never said, and most of it about stuff you never meant it that way, so they start lying and making accusations in order to have a proof and good excuses for their act among their family and friends, and that's where all nicest things you have done for her, all wonderful moments you had with her, all pain you took for just being with her, fades away just like that. all of a sudden you become this cruel and nasty person in eyes of others,who hurt her all these times and now you better be away from her, because you are noting but pain for her.\nI have one thing to tell you: Don't blame yourself, she is an idiot. we all fall in love, we learn then we should move on.
225649
You probably are. I don't think she intentionally hurt you, however, instead of doing the wrong thing to hurt you more, she ended the relationship. She actually did you a favor. Not to say that it won't hurt, but at least she thought enough of you and your relationship to end it before she hurt you more through infidelity or etc..
108837
Either you like to argue or you have some issues between you that affect how you communicate to each other in a positive way.  If you really love her then talk to her about the effect the arguing is having on you and your relationship with her.  Long term relationships are not easy and I say that from experience...but they also can be the blessing of your lifetime too.
20429
Had the same situation happen to me.  I broke up a fight and was charged with battery.\n\nEverything was dropped once sanity was restored though.  As long as you didn't bash anybody too severely and backed off as soon as things were stopped you should be good.
110104
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You need to, sooner or later, bring up the problem to this other person, but if there's the risk for physical damage bring someone capable of dealing it out... who's on your side. A bodyguard of sorts, ne?\n\nIf physical damage isn't apparent, the best thing to do is face the music. I'm sorry I couldn't answer the way you probably would've like me to answer, but I've been in a slightly similar situation. Sure, the other party/person/whatever will probably be angry, but there's nothing you can do about that.\n\nI'll sum up:\n*Doesn't take out anger on you: Talk to them. Explain your problem as objectively as you can, with clear benevolent (good) intent.\n*Takes out anger on you: Bring a bodyguard.
38777
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
579573
So are you brave. Do you have a mouth. Communication is the key to any relationship. If you want to know , be brave and go ask and get it straightened out. Tell the person they are hurting you. Then at least you will feel better that you did something about it instead of sitting back feeling bad. You can't stop people from doing things. They have their own will and have to live with what they think, say and do. So do you. It is not what you say but how you say it. Remember that. Also remember , it takes two people to fight. It is easy to Love those who love you back but it is harder and take more strength to Love those and forgive those who persecute you.\nRev. TomCat
378668
I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.
497091
hi my first arguement was with my first true love and it hurt me so much in the end i walked out and went back to mine to coll down bout 3 hours later my phone rang and we talked about what we argueded bout why we argued and then we made are feelings clear. the next moring he came to me and spoiled me rotton so everytime i hav an argument i always use them three rules it helps it. in your situation it will work it self out every one has bad patchs
238198
You did nothing wrong, from reading what You wrote.  Just go outside and ask Her why She is acting that way and remind Her that She tried to save Her back side by throwing You into the Fire.  She may just be mad because You decided to stop doing drugs, therefore in Her eyes, You think You are better than Her.  If She is not Violent, give it a try, but keep the door open so that You can go back inside if it doesn't turn out well.  Many People change their tune after being confronted face to face.  I would say ignore Her, but if You feel safe, try this first.  Good Luck and GOD Bless
335529
Rather normal marriage I would say.  Did you ever understand that it takes two to fight.  Have you ever thought about just listening to her and keeping your mouth shut.  I don't mean leaving either I mean stay right there and listen and be quiet and when you do talk do not speak in anger.  Is your pride so big you can't let someone have their time of anger.  We all get angry at times.  She should do the same for you hut I am writing to you not her.  I live with a woman that really gets angry and stays that way sometimes days.  I could really have some knock down drag out fights in this house.  I don't and won't.  I keep my mouth shut nd keep some distance between us but don't leave the house.  Yes it angers me but I also know she is angry and out of anger many things are said that at the time are ment and later are regrettedd..Most of the time she gets over it in a couple of hours but once in a while it does last two to three days.  Now she has learned from me that it works and now when I get angry and i do she keeps quiet most of the time but still has to put in a coment here and there that is like knife bladws.  She is getting better as time goes by though.  One thing for sure is that I never get really angry at just her.  Most of the time it is due to someone olse interfeering in her life.  \n     Just try to keep your cool and try to listen to what she has to say.  An all day fight is dangerous to both of you.
653013
I think you hurt her. The thing about this situation, is you messed with a girl who cared for you and now that you showed her your bad temper, it made her realize that she doesnt need that in her life. Men dont understand that half the reason why women leave them is because they have said something that offends their girlfriends. Girls have mixed emotions that get hurt easily. It seems like you hurt her feelings. Just keep calling, she may or may not answer. But next time you need to listen to her side of the situation first, unstead of jumping to conclusions and yelling at her before you even know why she didnt call back. Good Luck
547523
I have been on this situation on her end. It is hard... She is hurting probably just as much as you are. Nobody invests their time into a relationship with the intention of it ending. The reason why she is running hot and cold with you is because she still loves you. When you two are together she remembers the good times and feels comfortable / safe with you. Whe she has been away for a while the things you did to hurt her creep back up and she gets upset. It is easier for her to say bad / mean things to you over the phone because she doesn't have to see the look on your face. It is sort of anonymous. Give her her space. There is still a chance you can save this relationship. But there is also a chance you could not. In my situation my ex and I just started talking again after 2 years of silence between us. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do... Waking p every day and choosing not to call him (he fu*cked up bad). I don't know what happened between you two but trust me at this point in your relationship it really could go both ways. \n\nI am sorry you have to go though this and some of those things you might not have wanted to hear but that is just what I have experienced. I hope it helped. Good luck!
96436
Most women seem to take break ups harder than men thats true. I guess that she is trying to understand the break up probably. Maybe you should just try and explain to her one more time what brought this on and that you just dont wont to be with her anymore. That you do love her but you dont see yourself spending the rest of your life with her. If that doesnt work just dont call her or answer her calls when she calls. Good Luck!
187360
Depends on the situation...where you fighting?  I've accidentally called my ex-bf by my dog's name during a fight.  If it was in bed...i've known people who have done that, and i think the reason for that is because they're just not in the right frame of mind during that time.  Whatever the reason, obviously she wasn't thinking straight.  I don't think it means she wants her ex back.  I don't think she apologized because she was embarrassed/upset and didn't want to make a big deal about it.  If i were you, i'd let it go this time.