We are constantly fighting and arguing and things get a little physical at times but when we are not fighting it seems like nothing could go wrong and hes all ive ever wanted in a guy and a friend. people tell me to just leave him alone but i cant.
120759
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
226970
Sounds like a communication problem.  If you want this relationship to survive and grow you two need to sit down and come up with a plan to deal with these issue and any others you have.  Some times people who argue and complain a lot just need to have a set way to communicate those things in a helpful manner instead of the current method which is destructive.
135318
Well first of all...I have been teh victim of the same thing. So your not a bad friend for doing so. You just agree and see what your friend see's in him. But i wouldnt take the relationship anywhere other than friendship. Imean do you relaly want to loose a good friendship and hurt someones feelings over a relationship that may or may not work. Yea risky. If it were meant to be...he'll always be there.
68654
u told him in a nice way that u dont want him, then let it go. u cant baby him through this. just assure him that you want to remain friends THATS ALL
182271
Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
571524
First of all, you don't owe him a thing.  Secondly, do you really want to be friends with him?  Sounds to me like any friendship you might have would only make it harder for you to break things off, and your heart will just get trampled.  You know the score.  You know he's not going to settle down.  As hard as it might be, the best thing to do is ignore his calls for now until you're stronger, because most likely he will not take no for an answer, and will manipulate you and use guilt to continue to get his way.  Don't forget he has other girls to fall back on.  Best to let him go now with your pride, dignity, and heart still in tact.
196558
move as far away from him as possible i'm sure your friends will be there for you if not then find new friends do whats best for you and your child feel better get well and NEVER let a guy treat you like that NEVER let any one abuse you physically or emotionally be strong us women need to stick together and let all jerks in this world know that we will not let them hurt us anymore.
123958
If he is telling you what to do, That is controlling. If he cared about you, he would maybe give his opinion but leave the options open for you to decide. You want someone you can decide to gether things with. Not someone telling you how to think or feel or who your friends are. And who you can and cannot be friends with. If he is that way get rid of him, it only gets worse.
341801
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
331623
well first of all u need to be honest with him. tell him that ur friendship means a lot and u do not wish to ruin it or put him in a compromiseing situation but u have to let him know how u feel and ask how he feels, assure him that u'll respect his decission and if things work out in ur favour work to make it last and if it don't move on be happy for him and try to find ur own happiness.\nhope u get what ur heart desires
307233
try being friends with him/her for a while and if you guys still fight just break if off and dont start off trying to bestfriends right away
202703
Fighting isn't going to solve the problem, you either trust him or you don't. If he is true to you then you know where he stands.
615595
We can be.\n\nHe needs to grow up and move on.\n\nDont worry what he does, do what makes you happy.
483693
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
99864
i think you should talk to him. both of you need to find out what is the problem that has both of you too constantly arguing. Maybe you can both see about having like a couples therapy thing.  sometimes its best for someone from the outside to see whats going on. I think if both of you love each other so much you should do what you can to make it work if after all that your still arguing more than you not arguing well than maybe you two should go your seperate ways. it wont mean you two dont love each other just that you to aren't meant for each other. but i would do what i can before saying its over definitely. good luck and best wishes.
395230
There's no point in having him around if he's not going to be a "friend" to you. Right now he's been using you, and I think it's a really good thing to distance yourself. You should make yourself unavailable to him, and he will get a taste of his own medicine. Sometimes people dont realize the power of their actions until it's done to them. But at the same time you have to ask yourself if having a friend like that is worth fighting for. Why even call him a friend?
153372
If you two are really that good of friends, then nothing can ruin that friendship. Be honest with him & let love take its course. If he's not cool with it; let him know that you still value your friendship & would like to remain friends. Flirt with him & have fun. Friends of the opposite sex are always fun to have around. The key is to take it slow.