Eeryone tells me i'm preety but i really cant find at least one guy that likes me, whats wrong with me
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Your spelling could certainly use some work...
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First off...there isn't anything wrong with you. It's the boys that ur talking to. Their either too stupid to realize how awesome you are or their really really shy. Just act comfortable, flirt and get to know them...I'm sure they'll like you. You'll know if the boy likes you if he always makes an effort to talk to you or stops everything he's doing just to talk to you or if he always hugs you and only you. If ur really popular then I guess ur not shy...u just need to be able to talk more around boys...but don't talk to too many boys...they'll start to think that ur a big flirt and just wanna...ya know...so just do those things and I'm sure you'll find an awesome guy.
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Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
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Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
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Chances are though that a lot of it is just in your head. I bet they're are boys out there that find you cute, if not maybe you haven't me the right people yet. sounds like maybe your suffering from depression. We all get that sometimes. \n\nIts common to sometimes feel left out of the world and alone. If you feel these feelings to often maybe you should talk to someone.
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Sometimes being "fine, slim and tall" is not enough.  You have to have a nice personality, and a good sense of humor.  Or at the very least find someone that likes your personality, sense of humor, etc.  It's that whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing.\n\nSomething else to consider is, maybe you are not the problem, chances are there's nothing wrong with you... maybe the guys in your town just don't have good taste when it comes to women. \n\nBe patient and open-minded... finding someone special is always worth the wait.\n\nGood luck!
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Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment.  Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
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why is it so hard to find a bf... i feel the same way
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Just be your sweet self and you will find a guy who will like you for you. Don't ever try to be what he wants you to be... be who you are. If he cannot like you for you, then you don't need him. That's great that you have lost the weight, now you just need to find your self esteem. Join clubs, go out with your friends, volunteer - just get out there and meet new people and don't worry about finding The One. It always happens when you don't look.
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you need to find one thing good about yourself, one thing that you apprecaite and like.  I recently gained some weight and felt disgusted about myself.  I used to attract guys because of the confidence i had.  After gaining all the weight i no longer had that confidence and found it hard to pick up guys.  So i askked someone what was one good thing about me.  They told me my eyes so i would always look at my eyes and then i would slowly bring in other thiungs about myself.  Noone is going to want to date someone with no self asteem even if you are attractive.  Confidence is the key.
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There is really nothing wrong with you. Like you said, you are nice, smart and have a good sense of humor. Shyness is okay; guys do go for shy girls. Maybe you are just trying too hard. Take a break to rejuvenate your life. When people see the change in you, they will come to you like bees attracted to honey.
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no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
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It's possible that they may like you. Why don't you talk to them. Say something like "hi". Let it go from there. Good luck.
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hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
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sounds like you never had a boyfriend. You just got played. Wake up.
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I think most people (not just gays, though we certainly do have less of a chance of actually finding someone) have this problem. It'll be okay though! Just keep up good spirits and you'll find someone sooner or later.\n\nAnd I'm always free to chat through YIM at SpookySickness or at bluesylvia@hotmail.com
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!