ok.i told my crush that i liked him yesterday,but his answer was that we were friends.now,today he's just acting wierd.he would kicking me under the table a lot(i'm not sure by accident or noy),a thing he hardly does.he would keep arguing with me a lot on schoolwork questions(most of them were silly arguments),which most of the time i win.& he came & sat next to me even though there were a couple of empty seets all around the table.apart frm that,he stayed outside after school until his mom picks him up(he usually stays inside)-i always leave school quickly-is it cos he wanted to see me?.he's very shy & quiet & acts wierd sometimes.doesn't like to be social & all that.i can't seem to understand his actions.(& i'm not going to see him anymore after exams cos he's leaving the country)what is his actions telling?is he trying to tell me something?is he regretting his answer?is he trying to get my attention,now that he knows that i like him?PLEASE HELP!THANKS A LOT!
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i thin kthat he does like you and is trying to get your attention.. maybe he was scared thats why he sed that he didnt like you.. or got nervous or somethingl..i think u shod confont him agen.. n tell him how u feel for him and tell him in a place where hes relaxed.. maybe thru msn.. or on the fone or even face to face where thers not that many ppl around.. its hard..! bt iull get thru it good luck and if it doesnt work.. it was never ment to be anyway
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Mel, \nI went over both of your questions and am wondering if you left out some important details that we may be able to work off of?  It is rather odd for someone who is a best friend to up and leave you alone and to try to avoid you for no reason.  Could he have become enamorate of you and is trying to avoid you as he doesn't want to ruin the friendship and doesn't know how to address this situation with you?  Just a thought as it is the only reason for this from a male best friend.
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It sounds like he DOES like you if he keeps looking at you and it wasn't just like 2 or 3 times, especially if when you catch him, he smiles and turns away!! O yea that definitely means he likes you but he's just too shy to do or say anything. Maybe you should write him a note or ask him to a dance or out for coffee or something. See what he says
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Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.'  Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
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ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
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i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
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he does like you 110%......well, i'm a guy, usually it's pretty hard to talk about stuff like that after he might not know you like him, he wants to do so much stuff with you to be sure that you like him because he's waiting for you to make the move first....you could tell him that you have to talk to him, he will, unless he's an idiot...believe me he's more worried about you not liking him, ect.  if that made sense to you (it did to me obviously), Good luck!
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The best way to resolve this question is to just out of nowhere talk to him. Ask him how is he doing. Or just say hi and once he says hi back just take it slow. If he likes you he will want to continue the conversation. But sweeti you are still young and these things will come and go. I went through the same thing when i was in 8th grade. I liked this boy who was a freshman but i was shy to talk to him. After about 2 weeks of being gutless i braved myself up and talked to him. We set together at lunch and talked the whole lunch hour and at the end of that time i realized that all he was, was a crush. I got over him and i moved on. Don't rush into anything sweeti your leaving yourself open for a let down. And it sucks being hurt. Let him notice you. That is the easiest way to do it. Good Luck and i wish you a very bright future. Go for the gold and stay in school.
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I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
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endless possibilities here. maybe he likes u, maybe he doesnt. maybe he's shy, maybe he's a jerk. maybe he doesnt like your hair or the color of your skin, or maybe he does. but if it really bothers u that much, ask the teacher to move u somewhere else in the room. preferably behind Cory so its not so easy for him to stare.
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he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
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I had the same problem with one of my guy friends. He asked me out and I said no and then he wouldnt leave me alone. I just asked out my crush and he said yes so my guy friend left me alone....Hope that I helped
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Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but if he has a (what I assume you are saying) crush on someone else, he probably doesn't like you. He might just be being nice because he sees you as a great friend and nothing more. Don't give up hope though - try to win him back. Flirt, smile a lot...hopefully things will improve from there. GL
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I dont think he likes you. If he did want to get to know you he wouldve said something. i think you should just leave him alone. maybe someday he will talk to you but for now it sure seems like he thinks you are something else. i dont think you should try and comunicate with him anymore....sorry
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It doesn't really sound like he likes you, but maybe he's just nervous or shy to tell anyone, including you! He will come around sooner or later!!! GoOd LuCk!!!
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Hello:\n\nI would suggest being upfront with him. If he recently admitted that he liked you, I'm sure he still feels the same way. Suggest that you two get together outside of school (like going to a movie, or doing homework together). If he's shy, he's probably thinking the same thing you are - about the other person no longer being interested.\n\nIf you make a small gesture, I'm sure he'll take the hint and he'll act more into you instead of being reserved with his feelings.\n\nI hope this helps and good luck.