okay.I was dating thid guy for almost 2 month,then he breaks up with me over the phone..but he said that he sees a future with me..then after breaking up,we had Sex on the 24th of february of this year..now he calls me and he wanted to see me a couple days ago,but I wasn't home.he supposedly has a new girlfriend.does this mean he wants to be back with me or is he jus tryin to see if I'll take the bait again?
129644
Sorry to say this but it sounds like he is using you.  He doesn't deserve you!
564660
Get your money back, then drop him. It honestly just doesn't seem like he's trying to spend time with you at all or even try and figure out his "true intentions". To be honest with you, I think he already knows his true intentions, he just doesn't want to tell you. If he really didn't know, he'd be talking to you still even if he was trying to figure it all out. As for that afternoon that he didn't show up, it doesn't take much to call or e-mail, he could have at the least done one of those things. Heck, I call my girlfriend if I'm going to be a few minutes late for getting to her place to see her. I consider it a requirement.
116810
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
595451
Ex boyfriends come back more frequently than they stay away!  They break things off with us for odd reasons, then miss us when we've moved on.  The question is, what do YOU want?  Does he bring anything new to the relationship?  Why are you letting him dictate the terms?  I'd date other guys with a view to allowing the best guy to attract your focus.  This one may compete for you if he wishes, but you should not accept his crumbs when he's in the mood to toss them to you.
483595
why would you want to break up with if you want to get back with him later. is this really fair on the guy??
626199
He might, or maybe he just appreciates a good looking woman.  I know plenty of women that I think are sexy, but I have no interest in.  You may be reading a little too much into it.  Possibly on purpose.  Something tells me a part of you wants to get back with him, so you're looking for any little thing as a sign that you two should reunite.
162331
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
525743
I'm in a similar situation...the way my ex tells me that he misses me is by saying he thinks about me alot, and mentions specific things he remembers or wants to do next time we have a chance. I think guys in general might have a hard time coming out and saying it, especially if he does think you are over him. I think you'd be able to tell if he didn't though...like if he started ignoring you, not returning your calls, etc. \nSome hints that he misses you would be the phone calls, calling you or returning your calls, texting you frequently, talking about things pertaining to your relationship, making plans to hang out, things like that.\n\nHope things turn out alright!
87087
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
327535
maybe he just got tired of waiting on you, so now he thinks that you may be playing games since you all have been hanging out for 5 months and now all of a sudden you want to be serious with him.  Find out if maybe he just found another girl and if he hasn't then just let him know how you feel about him
492542
he is being very cool, it sounds to me he likes the thrill of the chase, if i was you i would take a step back for now, which i know is difficult and try to think 'what will be will be' And you are probably still fragile after the end of your previous relationship so some 'you' time might be a good idea then you may be able to think a little clearer.  Hope you get it all sorted out
199120
Why do you care . . . you already broken up . . . and he is looking for someone new.\n\nIf the guys made a wager on who can date this one girl . . . then this is a gag date . . . nothing serious.  Odds are they don't give a damn about her . . . so blow it off . . . and who cares.  It is not like you are dating him still.
125210
If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
385875
Well there might be still some chances to make up if you both still care for each other .It depends on the way you broke up.I think you can realize that from the way he talks to you or from the way he looks at you when you're around.If hes trying to avoid being around you and talking to you ,it could be a sign of being over you.
357302
It means he wants to move on & he's hoping you'll leave him first saving him the trouble of dumping you and feeling guilty about it.\n\nDoes that give you your answer? Why are you still sticking around? If he doesn't want you, leave first chance you get and find someone who does.
660911
he wanted to break up with you sooner, but he didn't want to hurt your feelings.  and when you found out, he was just being immature and wanted to turn the tables on you instead of confronting you and telling you that he wants to see other people.  forget about him...sign up on the same site and start talking to guys...or go out and do it, what ever your forte is.
573951
He is taking advantage of his freedom and figuring things out.  Stop stressing about him and enjoy the other things you have in your life.  Not that that's easy though... There is always the chance that he might come back... but why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you?  So that he can do it again later on down the road?  I think you should work on moving on... don't wait around for a guy that is probably sleeping around right now.