i like to think of him.when i feel sad or even happy,i like to msg him and tell him.when i feel scared,i will find him.when i hear anything,the person first i want to tell and come in mind is him.when he no reply me,i will feel sad.when he reply me,i will feel full of energy.i have this wierd feeling towards him,but not to other guy.is that mean that i like him?if really i like him,then what should i do?i feel strange,i dun noe what to do.
125567
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
157386
can i talk to u..i really want to tell u something but im afraid of what ur reaction will be..i like u more than a friend and would like to try a relationship..if he doesn't he's not worth it if he does good for u and good luck
223810
I had the same problem a few years ago. I would try to drop subtle hints, like touching his shoulder when you talk to him. Don't be overly flirty cause he may shut you down and you might feel silly, but see if he responds to the subtle hints and if so then take it to the next level. I would recommend not ruining the friendship if you truly cherish it. But you don't want to regret never telling him how you feel, so feel him out. Drop hints, compliment him a lot, tell him he looks really hot today in a particular outfit. Whatever you would say to a guy who you liked that wasn't necessarily your friend. Good Luck!
137494
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
42829
Yes I definitely think that u r falling for this guy.If we like the company of someone then it is the first sign of attraction.But if we recall those moments again and again and our heart fills with strange kind of happinaess then its nothing else but love.Now you evaluate yourself whether this happens to you or not.You just forget about the fact that you know this guy for a long time.Imagin as if its has just started and then you see how do you feel for him.If his presence still brings a smile to your face and his absence makes feel sad or lonely then its only love dear.
299182
you should go talk to him directly and tell him how you feel. maybe he interpreted your note differently than you intended.
142763
I'm sorry this makes you sad.  Take some time to be by yourself and get used to all the different feelings you are having.  You may not be gay, you might be bi, or maybe you are just curious about everything and not sure which way you'll end up.  Slow down and give it all time and relax around the guy you like.  Running away from him is going to leave him feeling like something is wrong with him when it's only that you are feeling shy around him instead.  Maybe you could let him know that.
649356
Thats how I feel. I want a relationship but the person I want it with seems disinterested , when initially they appeared to be. Guess I'm too slow & old fashioned as I wanted them to make the first move & they didn't. Think they may have moved on to another. I don't know for certain but I am still in the same zone, in love with them. I'll always love them. I promised I would & I meant it. I have not gone back on the promise, have seen no one for a VERY LONG  TIME and will not, even though I may have said I did just to make them jealous because I want them to notice me. I love them. I want them. How much more can I say it, prove it, whatever. I feel bad for you. Don't be like me & feel like fading away & dying because you feel useless. Do something before it's too late.
133940
well itz ok to feel like that, i do that all the time and weird myself out sometimes. Itz going to be over soon. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't try to impress the boy. Don't act different when you are around him. You probably aren't in love, because if you were you would feel comforatble with him. You should get to know him better so you can be more comfortable around him. I'm sure everyone goes through this, it'll pass. DON'T WORRY. Don't avoid him, maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. But don't say, you think you love him. Just say you like him, and you'll know the rest. but know when to stop talking about your feelings,ok.
299599
give it more time, that is probably because you still like him, try to get hi out of your mind by going out with your friends or doing something, yea it won't be easy, trust me, when yu see him tell him what you feel so you can get it off your chest, talk to himthen after that see what happens.
162372
Your not crazy by a long shot. You seem that you may be scared of a commitment and that is why you seem to like guys who you will never know or have to make a decision to be with. Try finding out why you feel this way? Maybe a guy has done you wrong and it makes you leery of meeting someone who you might fall in love with>>>>>>>>
284914
He likes you, you should say something! It would help you a lot!!!!! He obviously fells for you, so don't be afraid to say how you feel. I'm in your situation, and I know how you feel, but you'll never know until you ask!
560793
I'm a guy and I feel the same thing (with a girl). I can't tell you to tell him because I don't have the guts to do that myself. Maybe you should just wait for a while, although if there's no sign from him of liking you and especially if he seems into someone else, maybe you should let the matter drop. But if you truly feel love and can't let him go, then you should probably tell him how you feel. Perhaps he feels the same way about you too. I'm telling you, there are many other guys in your situation, too, so girls aren't the only ones. Maybe he doesn't know what do to either, although there's always the possibility that he really doesn't like, but not because you're not an extraordinary girl, but because he likes someone else or he just doesn't know you enough. I hope I didn't bore you with my answer too much.
370991
Definitely. You already know that you are able to talk to him and that's a big hurdle to have crossed in itself. I know that you would like to meet him. Please don't be afraid that you'll disappoint him because I know you won't. Did you know that he has fears too. Please don't let your fears hold you back from meeting new people. It's normal to be self-conscious about meeting someone new, but think about him, instead, and try to make him feel comfortable about meeting you. That's really what it's all about anyway. Being comfortable around someone is what will bring you together. If you were just beautiful and not comfortable to be with, your beauty isn't going to hold his interest very long. Having good self-esteem is very attractive to other people, since so many of our problems revolve around low self-esteem. Think positive thoughts about yourself and you will radiate. Reach out and shake his hand when you do meet him and make him feel  as though you've known each other a long time, remember he is the one that you've been talking to via emails. Say to yourself over and over what a wonderful person you are and what a good friend you are. Tell yourself that people love to be with you because you're such a caring individual. How could he not like you? Good luck. Let us know how it turns out.
677286
You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
273675
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.