Hey I just met a girl and one of my friends got the computer when iI wasnt around and acted like a perv to this girl i just met and I really like her. I tried to tell her it wasnt me but she dont believe me now she thinks i am a perv when i didnt do it .... What do i do ?
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Be honest with her and explain to her what happened.  And if your friend is such a great friend, maybe he wouldn't mind doing most of the explaining for you.  If you really like this girl then try your best and hopefully she can see the truth and not what seemed to be...
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Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
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Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
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You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
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She is totally wacked and needs serious professional help, more than you can give her.  If I were you, I'd run like the wind and don't look back!  I've lost my virginity too, but what's that got to do with anything?  Forget about that BS.  The new chick, let's hope you've improved your selection, but she's bound to be an improvement.  Get a grip man.  This is an obvious...get out while the going's good before she decides to cut her name on your leg or worse, pulls a Bobick on your balls when she thinks you somehow crossed her.
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She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
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Send her anonymous roses and letters. Let her know you know things about her but dont let her know who you are.\nTell you, you looked really beautiful in the red dress you were wearing yesterday.\nIt will have her wondering.\nWell, as long as you are not playing games its ok, otherwise abstain, it sometimes gets on my nerves when i have secret admirers
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As far as I can see, she is really confused! She hasn't come to a conclusion yet if she wants for a friend or something more. Instead of waiting her when she will decide, MAKE YOUR MOVE! What I mean by that? MAKE HER JEALOUS! Invite her going out with a girl you like and ask her to help you!!! Imagine her face! Ha! Get your revenge now and SHE WILL BE YOURS!!! By ignoring her, you make her to decide faster because she will fear that may lose you!!!
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From everything you said it sounds like you resisted her fairly well. What I don't understand is why you wanted to hang out with her in the first place. Did you want something to happen between the two of you? And if she is a so-called friend she wouldn't have been making the moves on you knowing you have a girlfriend. I would not tell your girlfriend about any of this, unless you are intending on breaking up with her. If in the future someone mentions it to her and she asks you, then you need to be honest with her about everything.
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i dont really understand what ur saying girl, but why was she stealing in the first place, ask her that before u decide to stay friends with her! or else shell just get u into trouble!
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I know that can be hard.  I always was oblivious to girls when they flirted with me.  Now, looking back, I can see that I was the biggest idiot that ever walked the earth! Just ask her about something having to do with bisexuality, see how she reacts.
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I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
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hey there, i went through this too....  me being a girl can put myself in her shoes and imagine the situation!!\nso, i think you must go & talk to her &ask her if shes interested in you!!\n    if shes not, DONT go behind her she will hate you more\nyou could also talk to her friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..........
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You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
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i think you should make a pass at her just to see her reaction. shes playing head games with you, fight back. you have every right to like whatever sex you like, thats not her choice...dont take that from her.
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You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
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OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.