This guy and I have always been friends and we dated about 2 yrs ago. He is talking to another girl but last weekend we messed around and now he won't talk to me.
125627
leave him, he loose something not you
464016
He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.
116810
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
623004
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
526369
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
329707
you need to make sure she nows its fully over and he needs to do it cause it wouldnt be good coming from you.  cause the other night i rang a guy i was seeing and a chick answered and told me he didnt want to talk to me and she was his new girlfriend i rang a few times to try and talk to him to find out whats going on and  she wouldnt let me talk to him. i rang him the next day and he had no idea what was going on. \n\nshe may not understand that its over
44075
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
398024
He had his fun with you and then went back to his girlfriend.  He knows you like him.  He is just not interested.  Stop sleeping over and you will forget about him when you start dating someone else, preferably his best friend.
276198
The girl could have just been a friend.. Im a girl and have more guy friends then girl friends.  But who knows.   Have you talked to him since then?  Has he mentioned anything? Or have you brought it up?  Try atleast talking to him to find out what's going on.  After you find out wat's up, then decide!  o and if he keeps bringing her up in convos id be well aware... that's not realyl a good sign.
300192
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
213490
don't count on getting back together, or being very good friends for that matter. my ex gf said the same thing about maybe getting back together, now shes dating one of my friends and we barley ever talk
92630
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
110018
first off, if y'all did it, thats why he doesn't want to spend time with you.  Second off, if y'all didn't do it, maybe he thought man, this chick is really annoying & I don't want to talk to her anymore I spent all day with her & thats all the time I need to get to know that I don't want to date her.  Or, he's probably just a jerk.
238250
Well, the fact that the guy hasn't responded can be either good or bad. It could mean he's trying to figure it all out and decide when he should make his move or it could mean he's ignoring your friend. Your friend should give it time and if the guy seems to be doing nothing, well, then he isn't worth the time and effort and quite frankly doesn't deserve any girl.
77644
Maybe he realized that he crossed the limitations...he has cross the off-limits zone..Judging from the way you reacted it seems that you kinda missed this guy,right??? If you still wants to be his friend call him and tell him directly that you're just Friend so that he won't cross again. If he will not talk to you, then fine the least you can do is to let him know that you want him to be your friend.
155154
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
87326
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.