what should i do if my relationship /w/ a boy is on and off
131758
Well I guess that next time u have relationship with a boy just go slow with him and see what is he like to do in his life. If u show him that u care for him then he will stay with u for good.
57108
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
266974
You should not stay in a relationship you are unhappy in.  You're not having sex anymore and you sound unhappy.  It's time to move on. He does not have a right to say that he doesn't want you to leave because he doesn't want another guy in your son's life. He needs to grow up. If that is the only reason why he would stick around he's not worth it. I would not say that it's ok to bring tons of guys into your sons life randomly. I would say after you've been dating someone for a while you could introduce your son then... when you know the person will stick around. Your son's father has no control over that just as you have no control over any future females being in his life.\n\nMove on. This isn't good for you, your sons father or your son.
326643
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
27905
grow up first\n\nif you like some one else go out with that person and tell your boy friend\nstop playing games and hurting your boyfriend
238298
this sounds like a difficult situation. I think you two need to sit down, and really discuss what each others goals are.... and get a feeling for how important the relationship between you two is. Having a child makes things more difficult, for he is probably both of you twos priority, though I commend you at asking for that shows you care about this relationship working. relationships take time well spent, and work.. and if both people are never around to communicate, and spend time together, it will probably make things difficult certainly.
240059
do it without him and you may become a single mother.  talk a little more and you can decide if he's even the right one.  he has to be perfect for your baby.
186250
girl guaranteed he be out cattin just let him go and believe me from first hand experience it is very hard when you love them but in the long run it is better to cut the losses now.  You can do better without him anyway\nI know cuz I was with  one like that for 3 years and we have a daughter together and the boy was cheating lying drinking, druggin, etc... finally (don't wait like I did) I got tired of tricking myself and letting him control me into thinking nothing was going on and left.  Go with your instincts--that is your inner self talking saying kick him to the curb
172949
pick and choose your battles. life is too short to bicker over ridiculous sh*t. when he is being an a** kill him with kindness or act like you can't be bothered with his silly commentary. problem is you all are around each other 24/7 and you'll drive each other nuts no matter how compatible. if you can be be apart for several hours out of the day or go stay at your mom's over nite it'll make you all miss each other and realize the good things about each other. but seriously you need to get some wheels and get your independence back! that'll make a huge difference!good luck!
168030
Take it easy.  Give it time.  Since you used the term "boy" I am assuming that you are not an adult.  Trust me, the feelings you have now will no longer exist when you become an adult.  When you get older, this boy won't matter to you at all.  Therefore, you have only two options here. Either way you have to first realize that this REALLY isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. \n\nhere are your options...\n1. Realize that your situation is nonsense and forget about it altogether.\n \n2.  Realize that none of this is going to matter at all one day so you have nothing to lose.  Just tell him how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same about you, oh well.  Doesn't matter.  Move on.  \n\nIn a few months or years you'll have a new crush and you can make this decision all over again at that point in time, with the same two options.  Also, if you go ahead and tell him how you feel, there's always the chance he feels the same and you two can do whatever it is you plan to do with each other.  (yay!)
162564
You need to walk away for good. He is putting you on a horrible emotional roller coaster and is playing with your emotions. For your own health and sanity, walk away for good. Tell him you are not going to take this constant on-off situation and feel it is better that you go your separate ways.
419430
Stop text messaging.  Ask him if he'd like to be more involved in more parenting.  If not, time is your best friend and leave it to "what-ever-happens-is-for-a-reason"
299780
well if u don't want to leave anyone then continue with this relation as long it lasts.\n\nhave fun!!
575810
Sorry hon, time to get yourself another boy, and forget him.\nIf you lose a pet, as sad as that can be, you get another pet.\nWith a new boyfriend, you will soon have the old one, out of your mind.
33806
You need to decide if your in this relationship for the long haul.  If you are then his kid is a major part of his life and should be in yours.  While I know you can't be on call all the time you can help him make arrangements for getting around.  He is also going to have to adjust his life for a few months and realize that there may be times when he simply can't be some where.  However, he should always be there for his kid and if your committed to this relationship so should you.
142013
if he leaves becasue of your sons... then why not have you along?\nwell, hire a detective to follow him 24/7... and you will get your answer... if he is cheating or simply falling out.
67964
Move on baby , hook up the lovy at school andlet the guy in the  joint enjoy  the  joint .Time is always  short being young means freedom  to  choose , a boy friend is just  a boy friend not a husband you still  have  your  options all open to experince  other people .\n\nThe boy playing watch dog should be  informed that  he is stepping your  rights and he already knows  that so he will not  stay longer , just confirm to him  that you are moving on  that will be enough for him.