i need help, im almost to the point where im gonna hurt him
133030
Duct tape my friend, duct tape!
265411
Your 'creature' is controlling you! This is NOT a good relationship, nor is it healthy for either one of you. Draw the line now! Speak to whomever you want. If he gets mad, tell him, "Goodbye." Short, swift, and mean what you say. Don't wishy wash on this, or you will be in for some serious problems from now on. It will escalate to beating, abuse, you name it. You are in a bad relationship that is not going to get better.
593348
Just try to get on with him as best as possible. At least it wont be long till he goes home, then you will get peace.
440361
I would talk to him. You are not just being selfish and while it all starts out innocent and may stay that way it is obviously affecting your relationship. Why does he put himself in potentially dangerous situations that could eventually ruin what you two have??? Ask him. Tell him how you feel.\nGood luck!!!
196558
move as far away from him as possible i'm sure your friends will be there for you if not then find new friends do whats best for you and your child feel better get well and NEVER let a guy treat you like that NEVER let any one abuse you physically or emotionally be strong us women need to stick together and let all jerks in this world know that we will not let them hurt us anymore.
528893
u can always try to help him, but he has to help himself as well.. hopefully he will listen to u.. thier is only so much u can do.. good luck to u on this.. I know its not gonna be an easy task to accomplish...
533908
Honey.....blood is thicker than water.  Grow UP.  He is a waste of space for doing this but I'm afraid you are even worse.  The longer you play this game the worse you are going to feel when it all comes crashing down and it will, there is absolutely no way around that.  Get control over yourself and just stop it!
555176
just confront him it is probably the easiest and hardest thing at the same time good luck
239259
I think you should talk to him and see wats really going. Is better to find the true right now then later on. Cuz yu are going to get more hurt.
414356
easy ,leave him and dont go back till he gets help get a restraing order if you have too,\nor you could just wait till he kills you, either way...........
402350
Tell him to F**K OFF!
239138
i do.. just try to control ur temper and eat your pride.. if you really love him, you will do this. it really hurts but you have to be strong and take all the consequences of your acts.
132136
im sorry i dont know how to help
308332
You need to leave, NOW!  He is going to blow at one point and if he doesn't kill you, or someone else, he is going to hurt you bad!  If he has ever hit you, he will again...and harder!  He is already verbally abusing you, mental abuse, and is probably making you feel worse and worse about yourself.  You need to get out before he totally ruins you.  You CANNOT change him.  He has to make that choice himself and seek the help.  You have done all you can do and he has refused counseling.  Tell him that if you are ever to come back, he will need to go to anger management and/or counseling.  You can only blame your childhood for so long until you have to take responsibility...it is time he takes responsibility for his own actions.  Good luck, and please get out before it is too late.  Three women in America are killed each day by their partners, don't be one of them!
7489
As mean as this may sound, you need to tell him that you don't like him like that. I may hurt but believe if or not it will do you more good than bad.
354246
exactly what the other guy said. just tell him that you are there and willing to help if he wants you to, and ask him about the bruises.  i dont know how well you might be at this,but , try to be stern with him without turning against him. i think if you blow it off he will to. if he wont open up to you after you have asked him a few times, end the conversation by reasurring him that your there if he needs you.
50397
Why dont you just tell him how your feeling? if that doesnt work then you have to do what you gotta do cause u cant just end it at the spur of the moment u have to be patient cause maybe it is true this time... i know that you'll regret it cause right now you dont even know what to do cause u dont wanna lose him but if worst comes to worst then u have to end it before you get hurt much worse... anywayz gluck and dont worry if it dont work out theres still more fishes in the sea ;]