1st of all we live in the same famliy house her father is my father younger brother but normal we dont take to each other but all of sodding i develop this emtional feels to her. so i have to ways one anty that will help me take to her father and whan she that ihave about 88% the father and the second should i go to her and tell her what i feel about her but when i want to and tell her the percentage is less
129507
LOL, what? I didn't get much out of your question, very incoherent, but if she is your cousin, dude, don't go there...
271880
I think it depends on who is closest to their family.  If you are, would your parents be offended if you met hers first or visa versa?  \nOtherwise, my personal opinion is that she should introduce you to her family first.  May be old fasioned thinking - but "getting permission" so to speak from her dad would be the first thing to do.
309560
seems to be you belong to an arabic country in the middle east..\n\nanyway i dont advise you to ask the father before the girl... if she is your gf for long enough time -days even- ask her and if she replied to you you have to talk to my father then call him..\n\nabout age.. if you can take care about your self and have your own accomodations.. then go ahead regardless how old you are..
312818
Hey! Don't worry, everything will be OK with her.  I don't know how is her pain right now.  In my experience I lost my father on January 31 of this year.  It was so painful and it still is.  See my boyfriend felt and still feel the same way you are right now, and the love he has for me haven't stop him.  He sometimes doesn't know what to do.  But is the little things that count.  Just be there for her, in everything.  See, in love there is nothing impossible.  And trust me on this one, she will feel the same way about you if something like that would happened to you.\n\nEverything that you do she will appreciate.  Don't be afraid of what she is gonna think or do, cause you look like a wonderful men.  Men like you are hard to fine.  Keep it up and just be yourself.
186598
sometimes it seeems worse then it is, have yout tried talking to your father about it, maybe there is a school counsellor that can offer advice if you dont have extended family to go to. if you live with your mum then you probably dont have to see much of your dads girlfriend.
608642
tell her how you feel. maybe the two of you can work it out.
582381
I really do sympathise with you but you gotta let her go - if you don't she will end up resenting you.   If you let her go, the older she gets, she will realise that Daddy ain't all he's cracked up to be.  Good Luck xx
495611
Is your hesitation about her or him?  Which is better for her, Dad calling on holidays or Dad not calling at all?  Forget about the lack of child support and your feelings toward him for a moment and do what is best for the child.  Maybe she could call him once a week.
82527
Forget about her father. Save up money and if you are in love, get married. Treat her well, and maybe in time, her father will accept you.
387521
Wow. Sounds like you have a heck of a deal on your hands. I think the first action you should take is let her know that you like her, by showing her that you care about her, through what has happened to her. (IF you really know to be true that you like her THAT much, if you dont think you could handle whats going on her life, dont try to step in) Let her know that your willing to be by her side and help her through 100%. If you honestly like her so much that you feel you could love her, then it shouldnt matter that she might be pregnant and have an STD, If you love someone you will be there for that person no matter what problem arises. You could help her get treatment for the STD, and if she is pregnant, you could step in as a father figure and show her how much you really care for her life. Dont back away from your feelings because she was abused. This is the time when she needs someone to be there the most! After you stand by her side and she knows you care, she will then maybe understand without you telling her that you like her, and she will be more interested in you because you cared so much to help.
54528
swallow your pride, whats done is done, think of all the extra income, also talk to her about the way you feel or felt and both set some quidlines as to household chores shopping etc. good luck to yoiu both, god bless.
161079
It's so hard when a child is involved,you are always going to be second best to her baby(it's the same with single dads,I know from experience),but if you truly love this lady and you want to make it work,then tell her how you feel,share your thoughts on children and suggest that you and her son should spend some lads time together,this way you score brownie points and give him a little male input as well.Don't ever change who you are for someone else and if she insists that her son is the ONLY  man in her life,let her go.\nGood luck
37424
No, you don't love both of them.  You may like both of them but you don't truely love both of them.  The fact that he is your sons father shouldn't play a role in this decision because your not currently together.  So do what is really in your heart and what is best for your life.
289945
she's ur mom... love her.. have an open communication.. talk to ur dad too.. and find for urself who tells the truth..
665505
you need to bond with her why not offer to call a truce and invite her to got get pedicures & manicures - talk to her.  ask her to come to you if she has a problem with something you did instead of running to your father - tell her you like you have to always be defensive around her because you feel like anything you say she will turn against you and cause a fight with your father.
97161
Hard.  You have to realize this is her son but she has to realize that she can't stop him from growing up and meeting and liking girls.  She might take you more seriously if you talk to her though. Otherwise, just talk to him. Just don't hide it.  Because you'll feel more of a burden if you hide from her while you try to get or maintain a relationship with him.
608476
I think that you should let her get him or tell her what you feel and let the best one win Remember men come and go but family is forever!!!