I went out of state to meet this guy that I met in the internet and he was alot of fun to be with, however he has not called me for over 3days now. I dont know if I should call him or just wait for him to call me. The last time we spoke I iniatied the call
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Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
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Contemporary male wisdom is to "keep her wanting more". Hopefully, he is just trying to get you more interested in him by keeping his distance. Is it working?\n\nIf it is much longer than a week, I would probably try to contact him. If you get no response, you should probably move on.
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i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
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don't call him anymore.. but if you reallyyyyy wanna talk to him (which you prob should just to clear things up) you could try sending a text or IM and seeing if he responds..
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I would say let him look for you.. I don't know the terms that you guys are in right now.. But if you guys are only friends and haven't been giving each other hopes then I don't see anything wrong if you call him first.. But you still don't want to look desperate, let some time pass.. Call him next day or if he gets there in the morning then call him at night..
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I wouldn't worry about it, nor would I call again. You made the effort and hopefully in your message you explained how crazy the move was and told him who you were down to the very last detail. If he's interested he'll give you a call back. He could be very busy or debating on whether or not he should call you. I wouldn't call him back again for the simple fact that he might think you are stalking him so just give it some time, and if he never calls, then move on. Its not worth getting worried or upset about.
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Have u tried to call him? maybe something happened to prevent him from contacting you. Has he done this b4?  maybe he wants to break it off and doesn't have enough balls to tell ya.  So u can call him first or keep waiting for him to call ya.
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He is not as into you as you are into him.  In fact, if you didn't call, I wonder if he would ever call you.  He may not be interested, but doesn't want to hurt you when  you call him.  As for not answering questions, that is a bad sign.  He may be seeing someone else.\n\nI'm sorry... but that's how I see it.  As for what to do.... don't call him anymore.  If he wants a relationship with you, he will call you.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
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Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
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Nobody's ever too busy to return a lousy text message. I say dump him and get on with your life. I know it will hurt initially to know that he was only after some action but you'll be better at screening guys the next time it happens. Don't send him another text nor call/email him. When he does try to contact you, be unavailable. Do not play his game, your time is too precious to waste it on such a loser.
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im going to say hes not that interested.  when you first meet someone you really like you are giddy and flirt a lot and you are always thinking about them..  if this was the case i think he would probably be calling.  but it is still possible that he just dosnt want to involve you in all the drama in his life.  if you are really willing to deal with it talk to him about it.  if he cant open up you should move on
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Call, definitely call. \n\nThere is little regret to come if your were to dial those digits, but if you don't do it, there will always be a "what if" for you to wonder about. \n\nIf you don't know what to say, just act like it hasn't been a while since you last spoke. Just sort of pick up where you last left things on a positive note.\n\nLife is too short to play games. If you want to talk to someone, the normal thing to do is to make the call - not sit around waiting for them for fear of looking desperate. He could be sitting on the other side of the phone waiting for you to call, because he doesn't want to look desperate if he were to pick up the phone. Just end the games and make the call. Hopefully it will be well received, if not, it wasn't meant to be. At least you will know.
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I would call her again, this time, not leaving a message. Then call again the next day at a different time, and if you don't get her, than leave a message... After that, if she doesn't call you back.. I dunno, man.. maybe she's not interested.  I dunno though. When she told you to call her back, I'm thinking she meant that genuinely. I'm the sort of girl who wouldn't say that unless i meant it. I'm also the sort of girl who only gives my number to guys I'm interested in. But I'm also the sort of girl who would wait until the guy called me. So she may just be hoping you catch her when she's in
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wait..well u should've waited a bit also b4 getting involved but it's ok wait for a while now and if he doesn't call u do and dump him >:]
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It sounds like you really care for each other go ahead and call him, and see what the fiture holds, if you never do then you will live in regret and doubt and asking what if... so go ahead and call, you will be relieved..
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Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
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Hold Up!\n You met this guy online how long have u been talking to him for? \n\nIf you ever choose to meet anyone off line all I could advise would be to not travel alone, take a friend and meet in a public place like a shopping centre.\n Your friend doesnt even have to be with u but they can watch u from a distance. U have to be very weary. And only meet him when u feel comfortable. \nIf u dont wanna meet up keep dropping excuses he will get the hint1 Becareful :)