I thought I loved some one but now I am not shure i even know what love is. Bad bad relation.
120669
love is real but everyone doesnt take love as serious as they should they all think its pretend until they break up with then you realize its real.when your there alone crying.what do you think of my answer im only 14.
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all above have told you what you already know  and I agree with most.\n\nto that I add\n\n\n\nIt does not seem like you have any clue what love is.\n \nyou seem to be in lust.\n\nLove is respect honor when you are really in love all others are not seen like that any longer.\n\nSeems you still have not found true love.\n\nI pray you will know it and be loved too.
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You never forget. And you don't fall out of love. The trick is to keep your mind open to further possibilities. I imagine the hard part is that when you meet others, your first reaction is, "It's not her." No....its not her. But she just might have qualities that you need........but that you just don't even realize that yet. Let your heart open back up.......let your mind open up. Don't close it the minute you meet someone wonderful. Don't compare......enjoy instead. It will happen........you can hold me to that. :)
536382
it will take you some time to get over this person but you will trust me.  they are obviously emotionally imature.  on some level they likely do love you, just don't really understand what real love is and throw the word around without understanding the reprecussions of what it may do to the person the say it to.  could be a serial commitmentphobe or just an immature person who has no clue what they are doing.   be thankful to be out of it before it has been months or years.
579151
Well its kind of messed up being with someone while you like someone else.......if your confused about it then you should take time to think about what you really want and then take action...dont just be with someone cause they like you .......follow your heart.....do whats right for you not carin what anyone else thinks!!!
257532
Been there..felt that..If ur heart is confused u dont like him...if u really liked him u would know it and would be confused....
358557
This is what I think of love, when you have a crush on somebody it is so much fun , when you have a bf/gf you really like every moment youre not with them is wasted, but when your with them you have that wonderful not able to describe feeling. When you are in love and the person doesnt love you back, love is a heart breaker and you are sitting up in your room crying all day. If you dont know whats going on you feel love towards her/him and you sometimes cry cause you dont know how (s)he feels about you, and othertimes you are so happy and are so in love with her/him. It can also and usually does feel so confusing. When you are happy and love her/him so much you cant get get enough of them it is too wonderful to describe but you cant get them off your mind and (s)he is the only one you think about and want to think about, you write poems about her/him you write songs about her/him you sing about her/him, you love her/him so much you dont know what to do. I think love is good but you do get heartbroken sometimes and it is sometimes worth the risk, I am inlove now and dont know what to think. Hope this helps!
105016
no...........u must learn to love urself before u can love anyone or anything else. it u dont love urself how can u love another? u cant.
507195
i can undeerstand, i was wit a guy i KNEW wasnt rite for me for 4 years....i was crazy abt him and d mere thought of losing him made me sick...after 4 years he dumped me coz he had another girl he liked more..i hurt so bad....but i survived, but i know it wud have been much better for my self respect if i had listened to my head and dumped him earlier,....hurt u will b, but better tht u take d initiative now then later, tht will hurt more..
70429
I'm sorry that happened to you but maybe she finally realized what she felt for you and that it wasn't enough to take it into the future.  You also don't know if she found somebody else and this could be a possibility.  Please try to move on and consider this a blessing in disguise.  It's better that you found out sooner than later.
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People with this amount of difference between them just should not be together in my opinion if you truly feel resentful, lonley, and unloved isnt it time to call it a day and find someone more suited to you. sorry if this seems a little harsh. good luk honey
158143
You know, sometimes you just have to understand the difference between a good friend and someone you feel romantic and passionate about.  The worst thing you could do to him and yourself is to be with him when you have no feelings for him.  There's nothing more painful than being with someone who does not love you in return.  It is bad for you too because in the end, you're more likely to feel boxed in a relationship.  Your values will be different than his and you won't be able to connect on a emotional/intimate level.  This will eventually cause problems in the future.\n\nI wish you the best...
570013
Nobody can tell you what you feel.\nWait 1 or 2 monthes.i know this is too long for you .Wait tilll you find out who loves you more. but at least Stay with the one who loves you more.You will be happy .
66275
wow thats a bad discription. it might be called love
339602
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
488215
It is not like you hate love. It is just the fact that you are so realistic in whom you are and what you are all about, you may have not found anyone that you find that shares your taste in anything. But one day, just when you feel like you will never find someone-there she goes. Right in front of you. And you will start to feel something you have never felt before. Really. You do not hate love and there is nothing wrong with you. You just do not fall in love that easily.
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Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up