well his name is Justin and hes popular but so am. i really don't know what to do. what do i say to him to get me noticed. what do i wear? what should i do with my hair? i am so lost!!!!!!!!!
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say something sexy like hi boy.tink top or short sleve shirt wit short mini skirt and  curl ur hair trust me it will work
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You don't have to change yourself to get a guy to notice you. Find out if he's interested in anything you are. Then work up a conversation from there. This last school year my friends and I  were anything but popular. Then just days after school ended I was at my friends house (yes the ones that are unpopular)  when we invited a really popular guy to go to the park with us. We had tons of fun and stayed out till after cerfew. It was easy to talk to him when I just took the time to.
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OMG- You're ME! I am the same way. I good with people, but I'm not good WITH people, if that makes sense. I know I'm sweet, nice, generous and lots of other positive things. I tend to put myself down before others get a chance to, but my self esteem is improving. I have a BF who adores me and I'm making a serious effort keep our flame going. I'd say you should go into a clothibg store and just try on several different outfits just to see how cute you can be in differnt clothes. Do your hair a different way and try to be social with people. I know it's easier said than done because I'm like a brick wall around people I dont know. It take a LOT for me to get comfy with new people, and my "open" is still not considered open to others. My BF said I need to let loose and communicate more and just be relaxed. Maybe you overthink things, like me- always wondering what everyone else thinks... just let go and stop worrying. A BF will come sooner o later, dont settle for just anyone, make sure he's worthy of you. Good luck! By the way, I am a 21 y.o. plus sized girl & I think I look great. Just dress to flatter your body type and have confidence.
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Think about it first, girl. Do you really know him? I don't mean just.. his name, favorite color, occupation, etc. I mean really.. know him. If you don't, get to know him more. Ask him more questions. He shouldn't blame you, since you barely know him. I'm pretty sure he'd like to know you more too, since it's really hard to trust people over the internet these days. Take a while before you actually get to meet this guy. Actually know him.
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put his name on yahoo answers.\nuse question such as that:\n\nDo you guyz know a guy called"......"??\nif that is your name, or you know him, tell him to email me at:\nblahblahblah@yahoo.com\n\nif you think that using his real name will annoy him, then use his nickname if you know it, but don't use a nickname he don't like to be called with!!!
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You are popular too. You are cool and unique. Don't let what\nothers are doing bother you. People will do anything for\nattention. which is quite dumb to do. Because being yourself\nis how you get attention. Your friends are going the wrong\nway of doing things. We are all different. No two people are\nthe same. So don't compare yourself to them. God made you\nand He loves you. You are special even if you don't fit in.\nWe were not born to fit in this world. Weare to here for one\nreason---to worship the Lord. Get your mind off your friends\nand get your mind on your lesson.
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wear good clothes ,look hot,cute,and sexy ,act , get the person u like and sit next to him/her and start talking to him in time u wont even know it he will surely fall 4 u\nGood Luck!!!!!!
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Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
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Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
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I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
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Here's the BEST advice you'll ever get. The most POPULAR people, both male and female, are NOT always the BEST ones PERIOD, or the best for YOU. Sometimes they ARE, but don't count on it. Don't wish for things too hard, you might GET them.\n\nOther than that, just be yourself, try to stay well-groomed, literate, well informed,  be nice, smile and let things happen as they WILL. If HE's interested and has ANY brains at all,  he will let you know. If he's SMART, he will soon recognize that you ARE being yourself instead of just being 'popular', that you are literate, and that you take care of yourself, stay informed, and seem to be  nice and pleasant.\nGet it?
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You called me? Yep, that's my name. Help Me Please. Since your "friends" asked him against your wishes, I would not ask them to not mention his name. They probably won't listen to you this time either. Why didn't they just ask him who he liked instead of putting you on the spot? Keep yourself busy and hope he stops popping into your head. Sounds like you like him a lot. He might like you a little too but just wasn't willing to admit it. If he didn't he would just ignore you, not stare at you.
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u just said u barely know him so what's ur problem...? \n...get to know him first before u say whether there is a problem? truth is ur just over-excited :)
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tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
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You have to come out of your shell somewhat kid. Do it in small ways that are comfortable for you, maybe talk to him when there aren't a whole bunch of people around. I'm sure he'll think you're great!
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Give him a chance..get to know him and see how it goes..dont listen to everyone else..they are the losers.
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OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.