I hate moving so much. I'm moving to Maple Grove,MN. I cry everytime someone mentions moving away. We might move next week. I don't wanna move away from my crush or my friends. I hate moving away to make new friends and go to a new school and have a new teacher. Last time I "did" cry at school. i may be a cry baby....... it's just that i have crying problems. itz only becuz of my dad!
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i know EXACTLY what your talking about. for every year i was in middle school and jr high (like 4 years) i lived in a different town and once 2 towns in like 1 school year. my dad got married and kept seperating and getting back together with my step mom and every time he did we moved. it was so hard, but the one thing i gained from it was i learned that now i cand handle any change like that that comes my way because i have already gotten through it. i just moved again to go to college this year, and it was easier because i have learned how to put myself out there and meet new people. plus i have all these experiences with different people and places that other people my age dont have. if it makes you feel any better i shed my share of tears too, and im not a cryer. it is normal to feel that way. good luck. email me if you need anything.
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the problem is you are in georgia.  I would leave georgia all together.  was there last month. it sucks.
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I hated to leave New Orleans and the house I grew up in, I mean it was like watching the world as I've known it for 20 years now FALL APART AT THE SEEMS! Spent the better part of the first five months living on the floor of a one bedroom apt. with my parents in Houston. They didn't have jobs and I didn't have a college, UNO was flooded. It didn't really hit us till about a week later when we realized we were gunna have to start over. For a Middle Class family who worked for everything we ever had to just lose it in the blink of an eye was hard. We had insurance, but like so many WORKING CLASS New Orleanians, it wasn't nearly enough. My mom worked for a private school as a teacher, and they with held her check for months after the storm. Living on foodstamps for us is sort of embarrasing but a necessity. I couldn't live in New Orleans and I don't want to live in Houston. I really don't feel like I have a home, but you just have to look forward and not behind and that helps with the tears a little. It's hard when there's no one to help, when everyone you know was effected by the storm. I'm at LSU living one day at a time and working... It's sort of home. Something new. A new start, I guess it could be worse, a lot worse.
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yikes.  what did she say that was so awful?\nmaybe it's okay to move and take some time.  she's family; you can always reconnect later.\nhaving an open conversation about what's going on, though, is far better than her just moving quickly and no one talkign about it.  try to stay friends!
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Yes!My parents got divorced and I had to move with my mum and my sister with my dad.When my father married again,my step mother wouldn't let me talk to my sister or see her and my dad knew all this but he didn't move a finger.I cried a lot,I was crying home at school,everywhere.After a while my father got divorced again and I could see my sister.I've learned that everybody makes mistakes and I learned to forgive him even if that was very hard for me.Now,I decided to forget that and I'm happy cause I've let go of my past.
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nobody likes that stupid cat, and i dont like what u wrote to me, because first of all, no where in my question did i saay i wantted to be on my own. i want to move with my sister because i moved from one city to another and the classes here arent the same , and im not getting credit for anything ive done this year. but my mom wont let me live with my sister. so next time u should fucking think about why i asked that question, instead of talking shit about the dumb ass friends i have, and want to be a grown up, ive got to much shit already, i dont need bills. u give bad advice, dont answer no more questions. especially mine.
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I had to leave my hometown because I never could have started my business and been successful there.  The market for what I wanted to do simply did not exist there.  I moved to Southern California from Ohio.  When I first moved out here, I phoned almost daily and visited several times a year.  I missed my Papa immensely and felt a huge hole in my heart without his presence in my daily life.  But, he always encouraged me, gave advice when asked and never made me regret moving so far from home.
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Not really.  I often find it hard to stop once I get going, and I find myself crying even more because I am so sad.  It is a strange cycle, and I just look forward to the times when I have no reason to cry anyway!
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I dropped out this year. My senior year of highschool. And yeah, i am already starting to regret it. It's really hard finding a job, or even getting someone to even look at your applications. But we all learn from our mistakes. and what ever does not kill us will make us stronger. So i feel that there's a reason i dropped out. And things will get better i'm sure. I just have to work more at setting and achieving goals. but i can still do whatever i want, and be what ever i want. as long as i choose to do so. Education is key, as i'm beginning to find out. So i hope you don't make the same mistakes i did. Take care and God bless. JJJ
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I think the saddest part of the story is your only really sorry that you cried in front of every one at school and probably don't even care about his feelings even now. Let's see, you said he's quiet, no one likes him, only has one friend, is dumb,and is from another country.But that doesn't mean you don't like him? Who are you kidding.I think the teacher did "HIM" a favor by not forcing him to sit next to a shallow,stuck up little crybaby.Take your medicine and apologize and try being nice next time.
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Is there any family that you can live with in Co until you finish school? This is really rough on you. I would talk to your parents and see if there is someway you could stay to finish school there. Moving before your senior year is really hard on a young person. ( I say young cause I'm 51) Tell them how you feel, maybe something can be worked out so at least you can graduate from the school you have been going to. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
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That's sweet!  Where did you move to and where from?  Are you there for good???  If so you should try to get out and make friends!  Easy for me to say...I know!
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I am sorry,  my grandmother has lost her will to live after my father died three years ago, I do not believe you will ever get over it, I think you may be able to one day accept your child died,  but you will always grieve and feel your loss, I am not sure the goal is too get over it, I was devastated when my father died and I know this cannot compare honestly if my children died, I would probably semi lose my mind at least temporarily. and I know I would become a humanitarian worker on the international scene for human rights watch or red cross, in the thick of things. and I would have a very nomadic lifestyle, however I still  feel the hole that was ripped open in my soul the day my father died, I do not believe it will ever go away, church made me feel worse. the funeral was horrible .I told the priest he was full of it ,and so was his religion ,which offered no comfort .and I informed him  that my father detested religion,I can relate to not wanting to hear the empty god comments. what surprisingly helped me , was a support group for grief victims ,people who had the same or similar experiences .I would have never  joined a group like this, but it was a service offered ,because I donated his organs.and amazingly just the pamphlets generated from the group touched me and helped ease my grief, I know it sounds like it will do no good, but It is truly worth a try, for you to get in touch with other parents who lost their children, I know I saw a persons 360 page on yahoo ,the mans child died and the support from the online community was amazing .I am not sure this will help you as much as a real group ,but not feeling alone in your anger is crucial to feeling better, it is most difficult to hold on to yourself or soul ,if you believe in that, when you are filled with misery ,it is so much harder to love yourself,life, or anything than it is to hate .and making that human connection with others that can truly understand you rather than dismissively wish you well or try to say something they think you want to hear, is the first step in regaining the feeling of control and a new perspective , I also encourage you to visit my 360 page and dont read it ,cause I am bad and while I try to remain positive, I do tend to gravitate to the darkside at times, but go to my friends list  find Skyes avatar click on it and visit skyes page, this beautiful woman is a well of positivity, and spiritual well being .and just reading her blogs make me feel better and I am sure they can touch your heart as well
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I'll pray for you. I know how you feel about the schoolwork, though I can't say how it feels to loose a parent, but my friends have. I know it would be tough to lose someone close to you.
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A friend of mine is Native American and it was crazy when he decided to relocate to New York of all places. There was a lot of turmoil between him and his family because of course they were against it. He asked me what i thought of his decision and i told him to follow his heart. I told him that if relocating and getting out in the world on his own would make him happy then by all means do it. I told him that his family might not approve of it at first but they will always be his family. They will come around sooner or later. He relocated and got a job working as a journalist for Teen Vogue, his family ultimately realized that he was following his dream and everything worked out for the best. This is my advice to you too, follow your heart. If you want to relocate and become independent then don't let anyone hold you back. They will come around in the end when they see what you have accomplished.
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Moving is a stressful time.Your subconscious could just be looking for a way to handle that stress.It's very common. I do it too, when I'm cramming for tests, midterms and finals.Once the stress evens out, you'll find your appetite will return to normal.
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If there are true friends, they will understand your feelings. Moving from one extreme to another has made you see what your preferences are as far as where you choose to live. You are happy. They shouldnt hold that against you. Just explain how going back made you feel, the good about seeing them and the bad about the city.