Ali hear out his mouth now is CHEATING ON ME yada yada ya.  I cant take it ne more.  How can I show him that I am not cheating on him.  WHat can I say?
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If he does not trust you, maybe it's because he's been cheating on you. However, if he really loves you he has to trust you, there's no love without trust. Try asking him why dos he think so, and make him notice that it really hurts you he thinks you are cheating on him..., or just dump him, I think he doesn't deserve you\nGood Luck!
232313
talk to him--again lol tell him tho wht really happened even if it was somethin he doesn't wanna know--so he knows the whole truth and if he don't like it move on....
664647
dump his azz....he IS cheating
46802
Ah, dumb move on your part, I'd say.\n\nHe's going to find out. \n\nYou can be honest and tell him, or somebody else will.\n\nYou have a real problem here.\n\nlol lol lol  Give tompj64us best answer, PLEASE!!
265019
he cheated on you and now he's accusing you of cheating on him because you won't sleep with him?!! no offense to you, but somethings really wrong with him. you have to talk to him.
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it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
514298
Are you for real???\nLet me tell you! If you feel your being lied to! then Dump his azz! there are losts of men out there! And some pretty damn good ones too! Sounds to me like The guy in question is not only disrespectfull, decetfull, but is probably inexperianced with women also! Remember!\nOnce a cheat! Always a cheat! Dump him!
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Tell him that you cannot be in a relationship with someone whose whole heart is not available and who doesn't respect you enough to be honest and straightfoward with you. \n\nHe lied to you from the start and why would you want to subject yourself to that sort of dispectful deception? That's just asking for trouble. I know it'll be difficult to call it off, but believe me... there are tons of guys out there that will respect you enough to a) not lie to you and b) BE SINGLE :)
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My boyfriend does a similar thing - but I am pleased he is honest with me. It's when they pretend they're not doing it - and become secretive that there is a problem. If he was to cheat - he would not make it so bloody obvious that was his intentions. Start doing it back to him - have a laugh. Me and my boyfriend used to work together and we both had top five's of the opposite sex in the office. It's made us close, maybe he feels like you're his friend - which means he feels comfortable saying 'Ooh, 9/10 she's hot!' You're obviously his 11/10 - so I wouldn't worry honey.
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Trust is always a good thing in a relationship and it sounds like she doesn't have it. You guys need to try a calm talk instead of yelling back and forth. Tell her how she's making you feel by always accusing you of cheating. Tell her that you are not cheating. Once she starts yelling (or vice versa) conversation ends. You need to learn how to communicate w/out the yelling. If you guys can't do that and she still can't seem to trust you then it's time to move on and find someone who will.
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Be mature about it dear. Simply tell him that you are giving it up(the relationship). By letting him know will alleviate the game playing. He won't say that you lead him on....
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tell him exactly what you wrote here! I think it's very clear. \n\nThere is no really nice way to end a reationship but if you tell them the truth, it makes it easier for everyone. Question is, do you really want to end it?
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Yep, it means he doesn't want you to think he's playing games with you and your heart, that he's serious about you. Or, he may have said this to throw you off and he really is cheating. Maybe I have some serious trust issues, but I wouldn't put it past any man (or woman) to say some stuff like that to trick you while they're doing wrong behind your back..... But until you have proof, I wouldn't worry about it.
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This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
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Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
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Well I dont quite know what to think either?\n\nJudging by the question, you seem to have troubles with the boyfriend? I am probably wrong here because you question is a little hard to understand. However, I shall answer it like this anyway.\n\n\nFirstly, you should NEVER jumped to conclusions that he's cheating \nbecause you dont get to talk to him, etc.\n\nHowever, I would get a little suspisious of something in your position. I think you need to re-consider his intentions? What exactly does he want in your relasionship?\n\nAt the end of the day, your question isnt really detailed enough to come up with some useful answers (if any lol). I mean, how long have the two of you been dating?\n\nIf you havent been dating long enough.... then dont take this guy seriously. I wouldnt take a girl seriously if she acts the way your guy does. Oh well.... what do I know?\n\nGoing by your question, he doesnt take you seriously and the best way to solve this issue is by talking to him. I hope it all goes well for you, but be prepared to leave him if he contiues the same ways. I would certainly prepare myself for this, etc.\n\nGood luck!!
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Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.