My husband and I have been married for three years now and I would like to try new things.  What are your suggestions?
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Try adding a popsicle.
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im sure that your first thought would be to do something grand and over the top, but i would suggest that you do something simple. a little quiet time with just you two will be a good start. if you want to have a welcome home party for him, i would suggest that you have it the week after he gets home, to allow him time to adjust. and as for you... be prepared for some changes, and dont expect things just to fall back into the place where you were when he left. accept the fact that your husband is a changed man. because he is. just be patient with him, and take things slow. caution your friends and loved one not to make him talk about his experiences. he will tell you when he is ready. and above all, just make sure that you are there for him. out of everything that you want to plan for him, do for him, and do to him, im sure that all he really wants is a hug from the woman he loves.
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Romance is sweet,wonderful,and exciting!\nOn our anniversary,I always get a babysitter to take the kids overnight. I make a very romantic dinner including candlelight and our china place settings from our wedding. I have it down to a science! I have the bubbles ready for the tub,the massage oil ready by the bed,and also pick up a few little things that we can enjoy together! Top that off with some whipped cream and a cherry and you're all set to go!\n\nThe other thing we do that is soooo romantic and special just for the 2 of us is to rent a room,we have our own special one!  It's a honeymoon suite,complete with a whirlpool and a fireplace. Use your imagination here,but the possibilities are endless!  And you don't have to clean a thing in the morning!\nYou 2 have fun and enjoy your anniversary!  ZOYA.\n\nThank you for your note!  You are welcome. ZOYA.
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Happy Anniversary! My husband and I just had our 1st, we went to a bed & breakfast and it was absolutly wonderful. I think what made it so great was that we didn't have our days packed with stuff to do, we were treated like we were the most important people it the world and every thing was slow paced so we could enjoyed every moment of each others company. Maybe you can find one in your area and don't forget to ask for the rose petals: )
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Try making a list of things that you enjoy doing and get him to do the same, then compare your lists to try to find a hobby that you both have in common then pursue it. You will both have fun learning new things about each other and you may find new exciting times together. Good luck and have fun.
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Congratulations!!  Glad to see people saving their marriages these days!\n\nHow about a second honeymoon?  Doesn't have to be expensive.  But maybe a cabin in the mountains or head south towards the beach.  Somewhere romantic where it's just you and her.\n\nGood luck!
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don't be afraid to try new things, like sex posotions, toys etc. Maybe get sme hot new lingerie, or introduce some porn into it.....All good ideas!!
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YES, it is possible! I have been married for three years now and I am totally in love and, at the same time, completely infatuated.
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These ideas are some from gifts my husband has given me, or I have heard of from other women, or things that I want :)  So maybe they will help you imagine what would work for you!  :)  This is kinda fun!! lol\nA ticket for a weekend for two at a romantic Bed and Breakfast\nA check for her to use for her - only her - for personal things and clothes.\nI would love very very nice pajamas with a matching robe (but if she is a mother with young kids she probably would want something more practical)\njewelry - the best, of course, or the best that you can afford.\na jewelry cabinet - they are the big ones that are like mini dressers - the run from 99. to over 400.  It holds alot of jewelry!\nA special piece of furniture - an antique rocker, antique hope chest - I would personally love it if he bought something from an antique store but she might prefer new things.\nwhatever her hobby might be - give her somethign that is really cool in her realm of hobbies - like very nice easel for painting, or new oil paints and expensive sable brushes, or waterpaints, or a gift certificate for her favorite hobby store.....  this would work for me but not all women and you would know if it would work for your wife!  \nplane tickets to a warm beautiful place for a vacation for the two of you for sometime in January!  wow -THAT would be cool!\nI know that I buy myself stuff through out the year but when Christmas comes - I want something I wouldn't normally buy myself, something seen as extravagant, something that makes me feel like I am really special to the person that bought it for me.  \nA special gift from an antique store just melts my heart.  That means that it is more than likely one of a kind and really specially chosen for me.   But if she doesn't have those same feelings then she might think it's junk and that you were cheap! yikes!\nAnother thing is if she has shown any interest - you could call your local university and see if the adult ed classes are having dancing lessons and you could sign you and her up for a few weeks of dancing classes.  The classes all over the U.S. are filling up with people who have never danced before who want to learn.  My husband and I went last summer and while we probably flunked the classes, we laughed the whole time we were in the class and had a great time!  It was a lot of fun!\nYou can also ask a female relative or one of your wife's best friends what she might be wanting and what they think.  Not knowing your wife makes it hard for me to answer, but on the other hand I am telling you things that might be new and different, too.  :)\nVery best of luck to you and your wife is really lucky to have a thoughtful (and early!) husband!!
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probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
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Try getting some adult movies,mags, clothes. Surprise him one day when he isnt expecting it with some skimpy lingerie. Just keep it spiced up or changing the routine. I \nalways love my wife to surprise me with things like that.
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Do something that you've always wanted to do but didn't or couldn't. Spend the entire day with him sharing your wishes with him and making a few of them come true.  It can be anything at all. Doesn't have to be expensive either. \n\nI would go to the sea aquarium and then have a nice dinner on a patio somewhere with drinks. Afterwards, a nice walk on the beach and then goto a movie or rent a dvd for home. Don't forget a stop at the bakery along the way for some cheesecake and coffee!.
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Here's a suggestion: For the honeymoon, go out and buy something sexy, something he'd never think you'd wear( get the shoes, stockings, etc)> Go to the bathroom at the hotel your staying at for the honeymoon and tell him to sit and wait! Get into the outfit, do your makeup and hair, then call out to him to maybe light a few candles and turn on some music(I suggest a cd with a pre-practiced song) and then come out dancing for him, tease him...Men love that stuuf, talk about spicy!!\n\nWorked for me!!
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Start light :)\n\nSmile at her. Tell her you are going for a nice evening walk and ask her if she wants to come with you. In that order. Repeat often~  \n\nAlso, if you have a small yard or a park nearby Bocci Ball is a fun way to get yourselves standing, bending and walking back and forth in the open air. It's a good low impact activity (like a quiet sexy elegant italian version of bowling) that could inspire more physical fun in your day to day life. If you have kids they can join in. It's so fun. If she won't play sober add a glass of wine to the invite. She'll like that. And one glass of wine a day has health benefits. And can spark romance. Ohh La La. ;) Go for it!\n\nIf you have a yard plant a vegetable garden with her. It's nice light physical work and spiritually healing. You'll be eating more veggies which means more energy, less sleeping.\n\nWalk to restaurants instead of ordering in. If you live in too rural an area to do that, drive to the restaurant but park a few blocks away and walk over.\n\nPose these things as small little daily romantic adventures that you have planned for you and her. These are things you are doing for her, and you as a couple so you can both continue to find joy in being alive and well together for a long time.\n\nMore motivation techniques:\nHold hands, kiss her in the kitchen, hug her in the den. Just small acts of physical affection will make you both feel more energized. Plus the chance that her husband may sweetly flirt with her will make a woman want to do more things to make herself more attractive.
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Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
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Gosh, I don't know if it ever gets boring or not.  I'll have to wait to find out.  I've only been married for 33 years, and each time it is different, with the same woman no less.  Sure, we don't do it twice nightly anymore, but I still am in the tries nightly stage.  Marriage is not something that you back out of if things get difficult.  You have to work on it all of the time.  I find that going out on dates and seducing my partner the same way I did before we got married, is a hell of a lot of fun.
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get some toys. me and my hubby just got a nice sized dildo, we have never done anything like that before but it was definitely something i do not regret buying!