How can you tell the love of your life that you like him???????????? just wondering I already have a boyfriend I just wana be a good and tell my friens you guys say keep it between us.
133527
First you must finish with your boyfriend and as gentle as possible as it's not his fault, then when you are free this other guy might take the hint, If not, then make it clear that you like him. If he dosent make a move then you are wasting your time. You sound young so it may not be the love of your life.
275098
If he likes you in a boyfriend kind of way let him know that you appreciate the fact that he is so nice to you but you just want to be friends so he doesn't get his hopes up.  We shouldn't hurt nice guys feelings b/c they ARE nice and deserve to be treated nice (and honest).
136359
Yeah... it could be love and it might not be. But my advice to you (trust me), since you're still a teenager, just be his friend. Don't talk about love with him. Forget he has a girlfriend and just talk to him like you are talking to one of your girlfriends. No teenage guy is ready for a big commitment so even if you are currently his girlfriend, it won't last... but if you are just friends, you have a much better chance of still keeping in touch 10 years from now and him winning your trust than his current girlfriend. And this might get him to finally realize you have always been there for him. I hope you get my point ( and I hope you take my advice)
409153
have a trusted friend,say hey you two would make a great couple,and see how he reacts?thats the only thing i can think of right now
325491
Don't be afraid to tell him.You might have a new boyfriend:)
590344
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
344255
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
292207
i think it would be better if u confess to the other guy that u are in a relationship. it is quite possible to fall for other people while u are in a relationship. its natural so dont worry ok? just take your time to know this guy.. it might just be a crush since u say that u love ur boyfriend. may be after sometime u will realize this new guy is just not ur kind. tell him the truth about u being into a relaionship. dont lie. it could harm ur relationship with ur boyfriend in future. and about telling your boyfriend..i think u should just tell him u have made a new friend nothing else.. tht is it.... dont worry. hope it was of some help.
605548
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
103223
Don't commit yourself to something that isn't there. . . yet.\n\nI understand the chemistry, but things are as you said "unsaid."  Keep him as a friend, and if time and distance allows you to pursue a relationship go for it. But in the meanwhile don't close yourself off to someone who may be closer and ready to take that step.
15442
"How do I let a good friend know..."\n\nIf he's interested romantically, he's not a good friend but a suitor, and however you tell him or don't tell him, when he's finally convinced there's no hope, the relationship you have now will change.\n\nBy the way, if you don't like him, then you don't like him.  Don't let others tell you who you should like.  It's not them under him in that bed till death do you apart.
523995
FOR GODS sake if hes your boyfriend tell him everytime you get the chance. no right or wrong time. Carpe Diem Sieze the Day
607842
Well, I think, if you guys are really good friends... tell him. Let him know how you feel about him. maybe he don't even know you like him like that, so he hasn't noticed you... tell him... what's the worst that could happen... you get him?
598780
this is my story I also fell in love with my best friend after years of friend ship! One day my cousin that at that moment was going out w/his brother told me to tell him that i needed his advice that i was in love with one of my best friends and didn't know how to tell him. he told me to tell him the next week after a long conversation on phone before he hang up i said the 3 words! He called back and ask what did you say i told him nothing have to go! the following week he came and nervously told me the same now we are engage and getting married next July. What I'm trying to tell you is to have fun that day tell him you need his advice on some thing at the end of the day face it! If he says no well you tried and you will leave him thinking he may give you a call later on! I don't think he will forget that day if you make it fun and exiting believe me a guy want someone that gets along and that is fun to be with someone to talk to and shares things in common and after a wonder full day he wont forget you. FOR SOME REASON YOU TWO ARE STILL FRIENDS!!!!
246585
I have been with my boyfriend for a while too & sometimes  I feel like what does he love about me.  I think everyone feels that way sometimes because no one is perfect.  I would just continue complimenting him & flirting with him.  Tell him great things about himself all the time like how good he smells & how strong he is.  Maybe he has never been in love before & he wants to know how you know this time is different.  Make him a list of all the things you value & appreciate about him!
247521
Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!
95571
You have to let it out, tell your friends you like him, I'm sure they have ideas to let him notice you, that way, your positive he likes you.\n\nP.S from what I've read from books, I suggest you be yourself.