What do you think of when a girl is with her b/f and she takes one or two glances at you while he's not looking or even stares at you for a bit.Do they do it to get there man jealous?Do they do it to let you know they're interested?do they do it because they feel insecure & just wondering if you're checking them out(maybe they feel attractive that way).Girls...any of you do that.I know us guys have checked out other gals while w/honey.Nowadays when I'm on a date I try extra hard not to do that no matter how fine the other girl(s)look-not even if my date isn't paying attention.It just seems disrespectful.It may just be looking at the menu and not touchin-but...How do you feel about it?do you catch your b/f or g/f sneakin peeks?
138943
Good for you for not peeking. And no, I don't do it. I have looked at guy while with my bf, but not in that way. My eyes just happen to wander where someone happens to be and that person is sometimes a guy, and sometimes that guy looks at me when I glance and gets a weird look on his face and makes me uncomfortable, and at that point you don't want to look away, because you're kind of afraid you might hurt his feelings, (I don't know why this is) and so you might smile to be friendly, whether or not he's good looking, so that's one thing. Or am I just weird? I really don't like making people feel bad, I always have to acknowledge them. I'm guessing girls who really do do it on purpose, have many different reasons. To make their bf jealous, to see if you're looking, to check you out, etc.  Also if you're looking at the girl to begin with, she may just look back because she can feel your gaze and it creeps her out. I've done that too, when I've felt someone looking at me. It freaks me out when people stare at me. God I'm neurotic.
194332
Is she perceived as a goody two shoes or does she fit in with any crowd? I ask because most guys don't like that goody two shoes action. It is perceived as being prudish. If she is as attractive as you say then maybe the guys are intimidated by her looks thinking that someone this cute has many guys fighting for her attention. Good luck to you and her in your endeavor!
559359
You'll never know until you go talk to her. Girls love guys with confidence..oh yeah, dont forget to be suave too. (lol)\nBut if it turns out, all this time, it was a "why-is-he-looking-at-me-stare". at least you know..\nSo, stop guessing!!
253248
sounds like hes attracted to you. and he doesnt want his g/f to see him giving you any attention at all. maybe to save her feelings or to avoid any questions on her part or whatever. thing is...if he acts this way now, if in the future he and yourself get together and he is attracted to another girl, is he going to do the same thing? know what i mean? fact is he is hiding someting from his girl. not cool. theres a saying that goes....if he will do it for you he will do it too you. be careful.
79654
you can never tell if a girl is single or not if you dont know what type of people they are because there are some who are with someone but still go around hooking up with other guys so you can never know. If you know that person isnt that type than if you make eye contact or catch her eye and she turns around as in to stop herself from looking at you that most likely means they are with someone or that they are interested in someone else, so i would suggest not go after those. if its not like that and she was interested in you than she may go after you if she felt you were interested in her.
64562
He may just like to look. While it's really disrespectful , if it really doesn't matter to you, don't worry about it. Try looking a few guys up and down, give him a taste of his own med ;-)
586505
Love isn't blind.  Of course he is going to think there are other girls that are "hot" (a rather derogatory term, but whatever.)  Just like you look around and think the same of other guys.  It is what you DO (or, more importantly DON'T do) with those thoughts.
499975
Yes, it is perfectly normal.  He should not be roving his eye when he's with you...that's just disrespectful.  Of course we all know men love to look....they just don't have to do it when they're with their woman....rude!!
35770
don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
568510
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
199428
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
28450
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
154925
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...
48507
I don't see how you can really expect your bf/gf to not look at other people, isn't that just human nature. Besides, does it really mean anything?
176974
The guy I'm seeing told me that he wouldn't mind if guys took a glance at me while I'm with him but if they stared at me, there would be a problem. He also said that he'd be PISSED if a guy asked me for my number while I was physically with him.\n\nI guess as long as the guy isn't physically with his girlfriend, it won't be so bad. How is a guy supposed to know if a girl is single by just looking at her when she's by herself and/or not with her boyfriend?
81667
No to both of your questions.  I look at hot guys, so why should I care who he looks at?  After all, he's coming home with me.
321277
Ok, first your boyfriend looks at other females, it's normal a guy can't help but to look as long as it is looking instead of touching...If you love him, you wouldn't let him go......If he wanted to date someone else, he wouldn't be with you....Just ask him what does those other girls have that you don't.....What will it take for him to be proud of what he has.......Maybe he looks and thinks that you have them beat!!!  Who knows what runs in guys head!!  I caught my man nodding at another girl, talking to another girl, and looking at a girls butt......But he is still with me!!!  Just don't let it get to you......It will all work it course!!!