I had dream about me and my friend sucking his you know what and I want to tell him about my feelings and my dreams. My friend thinks that he might have a chance to like me back, but i'm nervous and worried on how he'll react.
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First off, he'll never know if you don't ever tell him, second i think that you should tell him, there is no relationship without fear, it's normal to be scared of rejection, telling about the dream, i think that you should wait on telling the dream till after the fact, then it'll be something to laugh about when your a couple. Well i hope that helped. Good Luck!!
484422
Well if you like him as a friend then just tell him that you feel more comfortable being friends and that if he accepts that tell him that you'll ALWAYS like him like that again maybe but you just wanna be friends for now..\n\n\ngood luck
220701
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
551063
because secretly you might be afraid he does not like you the same way as you like him and this makes you nervous when you try to get the courage to tell him your feelings . when you have  a change to talk to him and tell him, just take a deep breath and say something like you know theres something i want to tell you and then take another deep breath ....lol and  say i really really like you alot . and you can go from there.
216129
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
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IT'S NORMAL TO DREAM ABOUT PEOPLE. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THAT. \n\nYOU MAY JUST LIKE HIM BECAUSE YOUR FREIND DOES. IF SHE DIDN'T LIKE HIM YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T EITHER. \n\nLET THEM FIGURE OUT IF THEY'RE RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER ON THEIR OWN. DON'T MEDDLE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. \n\nIN THE MEANTIME FIND YOUR OWN MAN. IT'LL TAKE YOUR MIND OFF YOUR FREINDS MAN. \n\nTHEN WHEN THEY BREAK UP, SEE IF YOU'RE STILL IN TO HIM OR NOT. CHANCES ARE YOU'LL HAVE MOVED ON TOO.
430151
You need to explain to your friend that it is your understanding he might be interested in you.  Although you're flattered, and you love him very much as a friend, you simply don't feel that way about him.  Tell him you wanted to say something because you greatly value his friendship, and didn't want to do anything to mislead him.  Once things blow over with this situation, you should then be able to pursue a relationship with his buddy.  Your friend might be upset for awhile, but if you truly care about him you don't want to eventually hurt him more deeply.
412087
I would ask her if she is seriuos about him but let her know that she can not keep playing with your heart. Let her know that is exactly what she is doing and that you can make her happy and just to give you a chance. she already admitted that she has feelings for you so i just think that she is getting nervous about being with you and possibly ruining your excellent friendship. I would talk to her and let her know what it is doing to you. good luck!
536571
I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him. \n\nFishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.\n\nIf a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.\n\nGoodluck!
649505
thats kinda sad for u and him. if hes supposed to be ur friend he probably cares about ur feelings
88559
You just want to be friend and he wants more.\nWhat are your feelings. Reall feelings.\nWhen you see someone you want you will know it.\nGood to have friends.\nBut you have to feel something more than friendship.\nKiss him on the cheek. \nYou just have to say You like him as a friend. And that you do not feel that way about him.\nIt will be hard. on both parts but it is your feelings that is on the line.
224948
so what if he sees you naked and he tells his buddies what he saw? live normally and tell him to dream on there is no way nobody will ever find out if what he says about you is true unless your trainor backs him up!\n\nkeep that chin up lass!
102954
FOR STARTERS, YOU NEVER TOLD US IF YOU LIKE HIM BACK OR NOT!\n\n-----\nI say that if you two are REALLY good friends then you should find a time (wait for a time) when you are both alone and both feeling very comfortable (not cuddling, but sitting on a curb outside or just chillin in the car, talking) and then tell him what you just told us (it seems very innocent to me),  .... tell him that you really like being his friend and for everything in the world you dont want to lose that friendship.  Then say "keeping in mind that i dont want to lose the frienship for anything,  lately we've been spending a lot of time together and we seem to be getting closer and you seem to be ready to come over to my place at any moment and you seem to always want to be around me, and i was just wondering .... what do you think about the idea of us being more than just friends?"  He might say "what do you think?"  Then smile and say "i asked you first."  smile.  ---but before he answers, tell him that no matter what he says, you'll still like him just as much.
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Sit down and talk to him, just tell him how you feel. Do it privately, so you don't embarrass him or you.  If he really is interested he'll tell you.  If he's not then hopefully, if he really truly is a friend he will let you down gently and be flattered.  Good Luck!
338467
Don't worry.  He will tell you.\n\nMaybe he is a little shy and if you are too much direct will not help.\n\nBe patient, enjoy his friendship and let the things happen.
156803
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
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itz normal but u r just xtra horny\n\nmayb u should establish  friendly relatinship with him first, or otherwise just dont tell him\n\ndrwams r dreams a friend would understnd that