and you couldn't find your phone.so you went to his college apartment to see if he was there. and you leave him a note saying that you were there but when he got back he was pissed off b/c he thought that you went in the apartment with his roomies but i didn't go in. he said you know better i have 3 roomates please don't do that again. make sure i'm here when you come. does that mean he cares about me?
134003
well, yeah he cares about your relationship
226868
Since he said 'ur mine', that would indicate to me that he likes you.  However, I wouldnt feel comfortable with his comment.  You should not be a possession to anyone.
125144
Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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HES NOT MAD AT U BUT U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE MAY HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE WHERE CALLING U MAY NOT BE THE FIRST THING ON HIS MIND NOT SAYING THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO U ITS JUST THAT HE MIGHT EVEN BE BUSY AND IF YOUR GETTING MAD BECAUSE HE DIDNT CALL IT MAY BE BECAUASE YOUR STARTING TO CATCH FEELINGS EVEN THOUGH HES FAR AWAY. also if u had other things to do and were busy then u wouldt pay that much attention to it and also if its that much long distance i dont think his phone bill is to happy things change and so do people so dont get upset try to remain calm and open minded his situation may have changed
353186
Ouch!!  Sounds to me like he's just a selfish guy who doesn't care who he hurts on his way to getting what he wants.  You should feel good though that at least your friend didnt go out with him, valueing your friendship first.  You don't need friends like him anyways.  Good luck!
499411
My guess is that he didn't want anything to happen to you. I am sure he knows you can take care of yourself, but he wanted to protect you. He could of asked you if you wanted him to take care if it for you or if you wanted to. If you wanted to then he could have stood by and just looked over you to ensure you would be alright. I'm sure he didn't mean anything by doing that for you, he was probably just looking out for you. Maybe you two should talk about this so if something happens in the future, then he will ask first.     dm
58080
He was lonely ... wated sex for free ... needed a place to stay for free \nso he told you that he is looking for love....\nand when he got all those things he did not have to act like a guy who needs love anymore\nBut not all guys are the same ....
151588
He decision is based on emotion, and he is probably still hurting from what happended. He must of forgiven you as he is considering to move in with you, but because he has forgave you, it does not mean he has forgotten! You need to rebuild the trust, and i do not think you can force him. Talk to him and see where he is coming from, he probably needs reassurance and comfort. Remember actions speak louder than words and he might be thinking when in doubt, leave it out. Do not give up if he is worth fighting for...
35152
i would stop calling and see if he misses you and calls you! if he does that means he really cares for you. and he probuble did not awnser your calls cause he was truely bussy
297530
mhmhmhm.. No, it doesnt mean he is talking to any other girls. He might have forgotten.. and got something else to do. it doesnt mean he doesnt like you anymore.. However, if he does this constantly and you dont feel right about it, just talk to him. \n:) \nBye
560583
TRY ASKING HIM...BABY YESTERDAY I WANTED TO GO TO YOUR WORK TO SURPRISE YOU AND I DIDN'T FIND YOU THERE? I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT LAST MINUTE THAT YOU WEREN'T GOING TO WORK BUT I FELT CONFUSED BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T AT LEAST CALL ME TO LET ME KNOW. I JUST REALLY MISS YOU BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WEEK I HAVE TO AT LEAST KNOW YOU ARE OK BECAUSE I GET WORRIED THAT YOU WORK TWO JOBS. LET HIM KNOW MAYBE HE WAS A LITTLE TIRED FROM THE TWO JOBS AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE TIME TO REST. BUT TELL HIM COMMUNICATION IS SUPER IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
101379
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
597860
Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
407954
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
528986
Its means he's trying to let you down nicely.  He has a girlfriend and generally 3 is 1 too many!  So no, hang out with someone else and go to someone elses house.
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I think even though you didnt think he was noticing you he was. He noticed the extra attention you were giving him whether you meant to or not. And now that you are not doing it he wants to know why but will not come out and ask.\nIt may mean he is interested...or it may mean that he just wants the attention. I mean attention in all forms feels good right?
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Dear Jim,\n  Your last letter makes me worry that we might have a small "failure to communicate", and I need for us to be perfectly clear.... It sounded like maybe you're starting to think of me as more than just a friend, and while that flatters me, I have to tell you that I just don't see us in that way. I've enjoyed our correspondance, and I'd hate to lose touch with you again, but I'd hate it even more if I was somehow leading you on... I'm not trying to blow you off, I just don't want us on different pages about where we stand.... If I misunderstood your meaning, wow, I guess I need to get over myself a little, huh?\nAnyway, now that that's out of the way, you just wouldn't believe the week I had.....(and from there, go on with the same kind of friendly letter you've been writing)\n\nDon't just drop him for liking you, that's not kind or even neccessary, just be friendly but firm about what your place in his life is....if he reacts badly, THEN consider dropping him.