well now im starting to have feelings for him and well the reason we did it was because his girlfriend wanted him to have sex with another woman because he's only been with one\nand he just moved her from some where else and i've only known him for 4 weeks she's older than us
134490
That is the worst idea I have ever heard.  Why would she want him to have sex with other people? Sounds like she has some issues and that is not a healthy lifestyle for you to be getting into. Since you are asking, I would say deep down you probably have your own reservations about it and know the answer already.
322299
Because you still have feelings even though you don't want to admit it. Also, jumping into another relationship right away will not be good for you or the other person. Take time to sort your feelings out, and when you are ready, you will not feel like that.
512369
It's natural to feel jealous, but as I read the description of your situation-I see you only became jealous when you saw the pic of her kissing someone else. I wouldn't jump to any conclusion that you still feel strongly for her because if that was the case it wouldn't just now be happening. \n\nThe fact that your young-and you are not as experienced; let me just tell you that all through out your life you are always going to feel some sort of feeling whenever you see and ex getting close to someone else. My advice take some time and really think-are you just feeling like this because of the picture or have you always wanted to be back with her.
639771
You sound very confused about why he changed so suddenly.  Perhaps there were other things going on in his life, things you either knew or did not know about.  Either way, you probably should not try to get into another serious relationship until you are able to get past this in your mind.  Till that time you aren't doing yourself or any guy you hook up with any favors.\n\nGood luck!
16711
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
384165
I think that you should both wait till you can both sort your feelings out. It looks like there is something on his mind that he doesn't wanna hurt you wdith or he has a girlfriend and he doesnt want her to know that his feelings are diverted to somewhere else!!
463452
ok let me put it this way, how would you feel if you were his girlfriend and he was holding hands, kissing and laying on another girl??? Exactly - its not very nice. And what you are doing isnt very nice. And he is weak because he cant decide between you two and allows himself to cheat when he is involved with someone else instead of being a man and breaking up. This guy would be a loser long term and you are better off without him.
443770
I know what you mean that happens....i think your not really over him yet even though you think to your self that you are....i use to think like you, but i know inside that i still like him alot and i can't stand it when some other girls is all over him...don't know why you are feeling that way but that how i felt...\n\nif i where you i'll tell him my feelings and maybe you and him can continue your relationship that you left off....if you want to talk more personal then IM or email me ok
253092
I think no matter what, he's still going to have feelings for her. After all, they were in a relationship  together. The best thing to do is to just ask him if he still has feelings for her. As long as he isn't cheating or publicly displaying his affection for her, you're all good
56949
It's not the dream part that should bother you but the fact that he does want to sleep with her in real life.  I give him credit for admitting that to you.  If he is serious about it then you might want to reconsider his devotion and feelings towards you.  It's one thing to fantasize about others but another to be willing to act upon it if given the chance.
246314
Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
286424
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
558886
Trust me, I know EXACTLY what you're going through, I was in Love with my best friend and after we dated, it wasn'tthe same for a while, he actually dated my female best friend and somehow, I managed to stomach it through their entire year and a half realtionship still being best friends with my first love. It could just be that you "gave him your body" so to speak, if you were a virgin before it, you may be tricking yourself into believe he;s the one for you because of that, sex can really mess with your head. Tough it out and see what happens with his girlfriend, try to stay close friends without letting your emotions hurt your friendship.
217530
Because he wants to be with his girlfriend more. Move on because you deserve all the love someone can give you.
247667
I think the attraction you are feeling is somewhere along the lines of "What could have happened? What did I miss out on?" That's natural. Everyone feels that way.\n\nBut think about this. If you care for him, then let him go. He has a child with his gf that he has been with for 6 years. What could have been? Who knows, but live in the present!\n\nFor one thing, it's wrong for him to keep a secret like this from his current gf. Think of her feelings! That her bf is keeping in contact with his ex behind her back. The father of her child is still talking with his ex, who still has feelings for him. It's just not a good situation. Put yourself in her shoes.\n\nYou will find someone else, someone available! Someone who wants to share their life with you, fight with you, compromise with you, be honest with you, trust you, communicate their thoughts and feelings with you. They are out there, and it isn't this guy!\n\nHe's already showing some signs of untrustworthiness! If he is willing to talk to an ex behind the mother of his child's back, whom he has been with for 6 years, then he's not very trustworthy, is he? He would keep secrets of that nature from you as well!\n\nGet over him. We all have those feelings of "What if I can get what I lost out on?" or "What could have been?" But you need to leave that in the past and live in the present.
105385
yea, that is usually what happens in a sex relationship, it is easier to be yourslef around the other person because all youre doin is having sex so out of nowhere the 2 usually see something that they like in the other and may even become jealous when they see or hear of you being with someone else. Youre probably feeling something for him too.
253248
sounds like hes attracted to you. and he doesnt want his g/f to see him giving you any attention at all. maybe to save her feelings or to avoid any questions on her part or whatever. thing is...if he acts this way now, if in the future he and yourself get together and he is attracted to another girl, is he going to do the same thing? know what i mean? fact is he is hiding someting from his girl. not cool. theres a saying that goes....if he will do it for you he will do it too you. be careful.