He had left for a party last night since 11PM! I need some advice please......
130208
the question is what do u want to do...\ni think his behaviour is not sensitive..\nmaybe u should start thinking of a life without him
513975
Usually on the 21st it's a good idea to go to a bar.  Find one with some good music and good food, and bring some of your good friends along with you.  Make sure at least one of them is going to be a sober driver for everyone else.\n\nHave fun!\n~Kyle
497451
just explain to him that u had a little too much to drink, and in ur point of view they were being quite rude to your husband!! apologize for overreacting and try to let it go.  \n\nat this point it doesn't really matter who's "fault" it is, because u both acted as u did at that time, under the influence of alcohol and a party atmosphere.  sometimes people get upset when someone kinda "ruins" the mood... =T.  try to loosen up a bit.. u could've complained to ur hubby (oh i can't believe those people, so rude!!) u didnt' have to cause a scene... u know? but u were defending him, so it's not like u intended to do anything wrong.  it's over and done, try to let it go, and promise to try to stay "Positive" and deal with things together instead of giving strangers a piece of ur mind for no important reason. good l uck
218618
Given the circumstances, I'd say he was just wanted a quick peice.  If you've been friends that long then I'm sure hes pretty comfortable and confident around you so he saw you as a perfect candidate. He must've been a bit drunk or thought for some reason you would be cool with it(did you invite him to stay the night?) Guys can have a hard time reading signals unfortunatly. But chances are hes pretty embarassed about it now and regrets what hes done. I've seen the most honest guys cheat, just some guys cant control themselves in certain situations. I know I've felt the pressure before, sex is a big deal to alot of guys.
210530
do a zone 3 party or a laser party...\nor just a party were u have it at his house as a suprise and jump out at him and pass him
401493
Go ahead & invite him. Try telling him he can bring a friend. Remember he might be nervous  to go too, so that should make things easier if he knows he can bring someone. If he doesnt show up, its not the end of the world. There will be more times you can be around him. Definitely dont take it personal, he might just be busy.
30320
Have you considered dumping him? That'll fix him for sure.... Unless you are fond of passing out drunks who treat you poorly. Just a thought.
291868
You know what - you didn't do anything wrong.  This all happened before you even met her.  Sounds like there was a lot of drink at that party.  Odds are she already knows or eveyone else didn't remember it the next morning.\n\nI say, not a dark secret, but no need to bring it up.  If you are ever approached you can be honest then if you wish or you can act like you were too drunk to remember anything yourself and let them think they have something on you.\n\nThose kinds of nights are magical and they don't come round very often...
429524
Talk to him about it..\nthis tuff he had going on in his head could be anyhting but he obviously didnt want to tell you about it maybe if you asked he may...\nHe hasnt left it cos he obvioulsy thinks alot of you if he didnt he wouldnt of bothered believe me.\nIf i were you i'd contact him tell him its not a problem u just wondered if he was ok.. \nIf you know where he went and why he went away it may have somethign to do with that...\nIt could be family an ex anyhting\nDont jump to conclusions chick communicate with the bloke they find it hard to do so make it easier...
635757
hang in there he is probably busy, if you talked that long he does not want to over do it! just be patient, he may be trying to get out of another situation!, if you must call him, tell him you was worried something happened to him. don't seem to aggressive!
178829
try explaining to him your problem.he should behave like a responsible father first.he can't just fool around with you and your kid.\nif his friends come home to stay , just don't allow them.\nmake a big fuss about it everyday.also don't permit him to stay out make sure he returns home.\nwatch whatever he's up to.find out what exactly he's doing with his friends.explain to him he is a father of a 3yr old kid and tell him first to behave like a dad.
373772
I would suggest a night out somewhere all together, not something at work. It's hard to celebrate in a professional environment, so maybe invite everyone out for a dinner together (I took my work pals to Olive Garden and we all had fun) or some place where you can all get together and enjoy each other that one last time.
629695
Tell him to bring home a bottle of your favorite beverage.\nWhen he gets home, complain about the heat and take off  your top.\nPour yourself a drink, not him.\nTell him you don't know what is wrong, but he needs to do SOMETHING. Keep talking as your remove your pants.\nNow take a big gulp, sit spread eagle on the table and pull his head into wonderland.\nIf this does not work, call me ASAP
252269
Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!
530883
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
164167
Just tell everyone before the sleepover your\npet mouse got loose , and you can't find him
468258
If I was You!!!! I couldnt deal w/ it. But I guess you already made a decision and U will let him stay until he finds a place to go. But the point here is, how long  it is gonna take for him to find the place? if you R paying for rent and bills is he helping U out??? if he is not I think it will take longer for him to go. Plus if you guys are in good conditions now (as friends) why ruin it??? tell him to move to one of his friend's house because if U guys R not 2gether anymore and U are looking @ him @ your house everyday, doing the same things as a couple but w/out "rights" that is not helping U @ all. I can tell just by your writing that U still care for him a lot, but if it is over, IT IS OVER,  as he is moving out of your life he has to move out of your house. For his b-day you can buy him something (if you havent done it yet) but something simple for U not to feel bad about, but no cake, no party, no special dinner 'cause you dont have to. \n\nGood luck and dont think about him anymore, just think about U and how it will affect you to have him in your house longer, he will soon start dating and U will find that horrible. \n\nHE HAS TO GO NOW!!!!