I'm trying to figure out how to tell my friend that I like him as more than friends. Im not sure how to do it, when, or even what to say exactly. How do I approach him?
120198
What ever you do odnt wait, if you do someone braver will come and he will be gone, go for it your freinds nothing to lose ied think. you can always be freinds but if you dont ask you will always wounder what if you did. just get it over with just tell him plain. dont beat around the bush sometimes guys neet it spelled out so just be blunt and say it ! good luck!
336643
that's good you told him, you had to let your feelings out, now ,if he only likes you as a friend let him know it's still OK with you if you'll are still friends.also, if he doesn't show that he likes you back don't feel bad sometimes it is better to have a friendship relationship instead of no relationship at all.but also give him time maybe he likes you too, but has not had a chance to tell you yet.
655029
i have the same problem...i really like this kid but i don't know how to talk to him....i've tried hanging out with some of his friends who are also my friends and he comes up to his friends and starts talking to them and i'll just keep on talking to them...it's worked for me a few times...who knows...it might work for you too!!! tell me about the results!
423829
He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
493491
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
157386
can i talk to u..i really want to tell u something but im afraid of what ur reaction will be..i like u more than a friend and would like to try a relationship..if he doesn't he's not worth it if he does good for u and good luck
210145
Sit down and talk to him, just tell him how you feel. Do it privately, so you don't embarrass him or you.  If he really is interested he'll tell you.  If he's not then hopefully, if he really truly is a friend he will let you down gently and be flattered.  Good Luck!
33679
just continue offering a pure friendship. just be a true person to him by showing who you are without telling what you feel towards him. wait for the right time. it will come without saying any words. just wait and try to have fun with your other friends. then you will learn what exactly you feel for him. but if that special feeling remain, then you can take the risk. \n\ntelling him will be a big gamble to you, you may just simply loose him, or if he have a "feeling" for you, you will not find his sincerity for you will always think that he just "love" you for not offending you or hurting your feelings.\n\nthat's the hardest part of being a girl-you have to wait for the person you like to "approach" you but sad to say those people approaching you are just "ordinary people" for you. \n\nbut then you felt that bursting feeling can't be hold for awhile then - - tell him without putting down yourself.\n\nmake it simple on telling him, like, :i don't understand myself, "friend" but this thing is new to me - why i always  think of you, and sometimes i want to have more time from you... then smile and wait to his reaction.\n\nkeep your cool.
483654
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
71096
well if he knows it is from you, why not talk to him and tell him how you feel.  Honesty is the best.  What happens if he thinks it is from your friend and he ends up likeing your friend instead of you
584979
How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.
358066
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
83388
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
558890
I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
419076
just start sending him hints.if you are friends just talk to him more in more of an interesting way....show him you are interested as more then friends but do not be forceful at all
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.