HIS MY FIRST BF ONLYN N I LOVE HIM W/OUT ANY DOUBTH... AND ONE DAY I MEET MY FREND ON A CAFE N TOLD ME SHE HAS A NEW BF... SHE LET ME READ HER MESSAGE FROM HER NEW BF... I WAS SHOCK TO SEE THE IDD OG MY BF SEND SWEET MESSAGES.... SADDENLY SOMEONE BUZZ HER N INVITE HER ON CAM... THAT MOMENT I REALY FREAK OUT COZ WE REALY HAVE THE SAME BF I SAW HIS FACE N I KNEW HE WAS SHOCK TOO.... SAD THING ABOUT THAT HE TOLD US BOTH HE WILL COME OVER N MARRY US.... HELP ON THIS ON THIS ONE PLZZZZZZZZZZ
122594
Just forget about him and tell your friend to do so too. Never let a guy come in between a friendship.
193898
I think that this desicion is not up to its totally up to your friend. Thats her bf, not yours. She have to see him every day. She might see something into him that you and others dont see. Other ppl sometimes dont get this. let her make this chhoice.
90126
girl this has just happened to me and you shouldn't feel guilty. i felt guilty but i really should have. Why don't you try talking to them or telling your friend thats here if he really likes you he will wait until you're sure. and the long distance relationship i was in i cheated on him and i felt so guilty i told him about it and we broke up. Maybe you should ask him to take a brake and set up a date you will become bf/gf on that specific date. That will show you if you know what you have or not. Maybe this will help and maybe it won't but this is what i would do if i relieved this.
509119
Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
179946
She could have been friend with your bf for years . . . while you are new to the picture.\n\nSounds like you are one of those jealous types . . . and she doesn't know how you would react if another person talks with your man.\n\nYou are already getting on his case . . . when he said nothing is happening . . . and to prove it . . . she want you to come join them on events their group of friends  always do.  \n\nIf you want to learn more of what your bf is about . . . go . . . and become friends with them . . . I bet you they have stories you never even heard before.  If you are too self-centered . . . then dump you boyfriend and get another sucker . . .
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
634277
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
90719
I don't think you did anything wrong...unless you spoke to her in a harsh way...if you didn't then it's her over- reacting! If you both are that close...where you were thinking of proposing to her then I believe she should have gotton rid of those old pictures,unless she still has feelings for this past guy. Other than that I see no reason why she should behave like that. I'm sure you both will work through this...good luck.
457194
Explain to ur BF that he doesn't need to worry about ur friend. If u had a thing for ur friend u would have left ur BF for him. Explain that is not necessary for ur BF to be jealous.That you picked him to be your boyfriend and not your friend. Explain to ur friend that the only thing you can offer him right now is friendship and that is all that you can be right now. Make him understand the boundaries between the two of you.
392371
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
48992
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
224302
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!
467000
I like it.  Your pictures are amazing.  To the poster that said he didn't want to see pictures of your bf, um, why not?  She has a life.  Thanks for sharing.  I LOVE MySpace!
84415
I find him:-) I really loved him. He is very very very handsome. I had write an address( ı think it could be my friends address.Yes somebody said me hello.But it wasn`t my friend and it wan`t a girl it was a really handsome boy.I broke up my ex-lover `cause I always think about my net lover.I love him very much and ı become happy when he logs on the MSN.
412032
Ouch this is quite mind-boggling.  Ok, on one hand give her credit for being honest that she had feelings for a male friend but then this would lead to you feeling your on shaky grounds and of course distrust would stem up. Now the problem with trust is that we all know, without trust there is no relationship.  You say it took months to rebuild your trust in her.  And then once again she drops a bomb on you by saying 'off-handedly' she got a text from 'brad'. I'm wondering if your girlfriend is considerate about your feelings? It sounds a tad selfish to me.  If I had feelings for someone else I wouldn't go telling my partner I would actually just sit there and tell myself to get over it, that what it really is, is just lust and temptation. Because the more I think about the 'other' guy the more trouble I would cause for myself and my partner.  It's like a test.  To see how strong you are to resist temptation.  Well this kind of test was for your girlfriend and she didn't have to go blahblahblah on you about having feelings for 'brad' without dealing with it first.  The minute it came out of her mouth it caused a reaction to you and how you felt.  Now she was texting him over a 'girlfriend'?! and she called him to see what he was 'up to?!'.  My bad but why should she be so concerned about his girlfriend? If there was feelings still there for 'Brad' she would be comparing herself to this 'girlfriend' and also she seeking attention to 'brad' to boost her esteem and attention?  Maybe you have given her too much love? Maybe she is taking you for granted because she knows you will always love her? If you cannot fully trust her, it is really up to you what you want to do.  It is your choice how you would want to feel.  Nothing will change unless you make the effort of changing it. And remember you must of felt something because it caused you to check her cell phone history, what does that tell you?  Good luck, I hope you find the answer to your problem.
121452
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
647376
This happened many years ago and it took me a loooonnnng time to get over it. I was 19 and it involved a guy who was my first love, first sexual encounter, and best friend ect. You name it we were it.  Well we had been dating for a little over a year and on my birthday two of my really good friends took me out to dinner and a movie.  I remember it was raining really hard outside when we were going to the movies so we were all under one umbrella running into the theatre.  When we got inside I went into the restroom to dry off and I noticed a girl in the restroom who looked familiar who was pregnant.  I didn't think to much of her but kinda kept staring at her.  Anyways, I went out of the restroom to meet my friends and they were staring at me with this really worried expression.  I ask them what was wrong and at first they didn't tell me but then my friend pointed across the lobby at this couple.  There was my boyfriend with this VERY pregnant girl (the one from the restroom) and they were holding hands and kissing. I was stunned.  I went up to him and just stared. I didn't make a scene and he had the NERVE to act like he didn't know me.  I walked away and cried through the whole movie.  Worst of all we were seeing "My best friends wedding" so it was a complete disaster.  We never spoke after that and that was it.