Maybe the good guys won't want you, since you were so disrespectful and unappreciative all those years.
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Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
183758
guess you'll just have to hope fkor the best. you really can't stop people from hating you or for loving you for that matter. It's their choice.
203428
your father wasn't there for you as you grew up so you choose men that are not available, get counseling to help you choose the right guys
565795
well if shes not respecting you move on its always better to be respected than be liked
308929
You sound like a great guy to me! We can appreciate a good man but the problem is we may not have good men around us, so unless you live anywhere around any of us we will still go around saying that we can't find a good man.
97412
A lack of self-respect.
342645
Yeah because a couple of years back someone took advantage of me and forced me to believe it, i keep giving it up but keep coming back to it, i feel like i've been brainwashed. I don't like it but i'm stuck with it so meh-
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im kinda like that too.  i gave everyone second chances..... until lately, because i realized some people just won't change.  DON'T be a PUSHOVER!!  let these people know you are strong and confident, and can put your foot down.   i believe in forgiveness, but not forgetfulness.  what i mean is, you can forgive them, but remember what happened so it doesn't happen again..  don't let them take advantage of you  because you have feelings too and deserve to be treated with respect!!!
168738
maybe they have been hurt in the past and have a hard time with trusting anyone.
171433
It would be the Honorable thing to do, but I don't think your going to see any of them act with any Honor anytime soon.
70789
Maybe the morals you were taught growing up does affect your tolerance on this behavior. It's hard to love someone you know is hurting themselves and the people around them.
522752
Some people never get the respect they deserve.  Unfortunately, it's not until they do something wrong, that people will start to like them.
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if i would think the guy was the one i wouldn't find the need to kiss some other guy and play with him. if i saw him 5 years later i wouldn't have the nerve to say anything because i would of realize what i lost, then it would make me feel crappy which sucks.
629818
he's not respecting you at all you may want to get rid of him...
507475
They aren't interested in more than a friendship with you and don't want to lead you on.
87594
They probably don't want you to leave them.
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I'm sure that if you think about it for a moment, you could list several people who don't like you.