When I treat my GF nice, she steps all over me and treats me like crap. But when i do that to her, The more she's in-love with me...what gives?
120060
You have to be nice but don't let yourself be the doormat.\nShe wants you to be strong and true to yourself,\nso when you seem weak she punishes you (even though she may not realize this is what she thinks or what she does.).\n\nYour job is to be true to your strong male self,\nand you can be nice while doing that, it's just a bit of a balance...
463274
ja :) , that's funny you must be very handsome or something :P ; I'm also sort of jelous sometimes but I wouldn't beat someone because of that .\n\nI don't know, I think you should tell her what do you feel about it, just tell her that you really love her but the situation doesn't make you comfortable;  she will either understand you ...or beat you :), but at the end you'll feel more confident for doing it, you are nobody's possesion, it may feel good sometimes that she cares so much about you, but keep in mind that it also can hurt you at the end , believe me you don't want to end up being dependant ; is a good thing you realized it now, anyway....good luck :)
182191
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
212150
I would talk to her about this first, maybe she does not realize she does that and it depends on what your doing, also.  If you love her, be open and honest with her on how this makes you feel and then if she continues doing this, I would find someone that makes me happy.  Good Luck
322017
Sounds like your the classic nice guy. She doesnt want to be with you cause your too nice and you smother her. where is your back bone.
414016
I definately think she is using you.  I am so sorry that you are in love with someone who does not seem to reciprocate the sentiment.  You deserve to be treated much better than this.  I would give her a week to get out of my house and tell her it is time to find a new home and a new sugar daddy.
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Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do.  What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..\n\nI feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago.  Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such.  The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well\n\nGoodluck
378011
nah, shes probably a snob and thinks shes better than you. some people are like that. i've had people take an instant dislike to me for no reason.  how does everyone else treat you? if they like you loads and genuinely take interest in you then she may be jealous.
284984
You kinda sound abusive.  I'm guessing you're not married, and if you are... she must have very low self esteem to be with someone like you.  Just a thought.  Have a nice day!  :)
114399
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
413505
i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.
636000
I don't think she loves you, and I praise her maturity in not saying it when she doesn't mean it. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings and see that maybe you are just infatuated with her.
624632
If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
489949
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
572393
Don't let her put you under so much pressure, she knows how you think about marriage. Does she really love you??? If she would, she wouldn't do anything like this to you.\nI'm in a relationship for about four years, very happy! The first thing he made clear to me, when we got together, that he will never get married. And he was very determent.I didn't have a problem with that, married or not married, the aim is that we love each other. But 1 1/2 years ago he suddenly asked me to marry him!!!!! Course i said YES.\n\nI really wish you all the best with your gf and i hope that she really really loves you and tries to understand your point.
571224
Maybe she sees to much of herself in you. Maybe she doesn't want you to turn out like her. That is why she is so hard on you. She probably doesn't even realize it.
568510
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)