I and my girlfriend are fourteen, and we think we are in love. We think we have a future together. Is that possible at such a young age.
122325
wait until school is over and see if your still together..You should still go to college and things like that..And after you're done you can get married(assuming your a boy) IT might be possible to be in love.. girls in India have to get married at ten years old...some older and some younger, but regardless they're still at a young age..But remember to just continue to live your life you never know what could happen in the long run...
23619
I wouldn't do it either...I'm 14 too and I'm definitely waiting to get married first.  Also, I think it just depends on who you are if it will hurt or not, that's what I heard.
434327
We DO know what you're feeling because we've all been 13 before......but-\nI think it can feel like love.. Why not? You're right, whose to say if it is or isn't?\nI think adults get too caught up in the whole '13 is too young to even be thinking about love' idea that we seem to forget that it really can happen, despite the age....
254189
I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!
335436
i'm so happy for u! i fell in love w/ my bf at age 14 and we've been together for a year/7 months. take it slow, don't rush love. give it at least 6 months before ur sure. talk to her about ur feelings if u want but don't let anyone tell u ur to young!
211329
I think this.  Love is a beautiful thing and we are fortunate to find true love.  Unconditional love that lasts through all the trials of life.  It doesn't matter the years between the two as long as you two function well together and truely love each other.  Good luck, congratulations, and peace to you both.
283599
I think that you can be in love at 16. I think it's just a feeling inside and you just know that your in love and a lot of times there is nothing that you can do about it.
538385
It's all about SCHOOLS. I don't know how your's is but where I live 5th-8th grade is middle school and 9th-12th is high school. Having a high school - middle school relationship is difficult. Also, maturity wise 12 year old boys are a lot less into thinking about serious realtionships than 14 year old girls are-she'd be likely to end up getting hurt. I'd be more worried about THAT than the age differance. I'm 17, turning 18 in March and my boyfriend is 16 turning 17 in June and we're extremely happy together but I've already graduated high school (graduated early at 16) and he's a mature individual....so it's less about age, more about maturity. Maybe they could try being good friends for now and see where that goes?
221114
i remember 14, and you think you've felt it, but trust me it's not exactly "real love". more like infatuation, but it's just as important and something you have to go through to realize what love actually is later on in life when you REALLY find someone to have "real love" with. and you will change SO much from 14 to when you are grown up. you can't really have real love until then, but enjoy being 14- it goes by fast!
11760
YES YOU CAN!\nBUT THE FALLING IN LOVE I'M THINKING ABOUT( NO!) YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF FALLING IN LOVE OR TO ACT ON SUCH AN  EMOTION.
285512
Depends on one's age.  And it merely sounds as tho you're both at a tender age of not knowing what you want in your lives just yet.  Some take longer than others.  And some need many experiences and lessons along the way.  Do whatever you feel comfortable with.  Please dont make any life committmants until you're totally ready yourself.  :)
384741
Honestly, I am touched by your story. It is the power of love!\nI am fourteen now and I am also experiencing love now. I really love and care for her and believe that I would do everything for her. However, she told me that she didn't have that special feeling towards me. Maybe she has not realised how much I care for her. What I hope now is for her to wake up someday and receive me in her heart.\n\nSo, yes, follow your heart, if you really love her and she also feels the same, then you deserve that.
236228
I think it depends on the maturity of the relationship, and the maturity of each individual, but it sure sounds like you have what it takes!!!  I sort of envy you, but I know I will find my "prince charming" someday.  Also, I know two couples, both have been together since 8th grade, and are still together.  (One couple graduated in 2005, the other in 1999).  So I definitely think it is possible.  I wish you two all the best!
25704
First off, kudos to you! Not letting the age difference get in the way of love! *applauds*\n\nUmm, I wouldn't know the answer, per-se. But I suppose people around that age just look at the world today and see it as something of a sham, a fake, a phony world (Catcher in the Rye reference...). Being a young adult myself, I look around me and think my peers are absolutely moronic. I think he would just rather be better off wallowing in the world he once had than being forced into a world of plastic and faux-happiness.
504196
I believe it is possible. I was in a relationship for four years, which began in high school and went on through my first year of college. It didn't work out, but I do think love in high school is possible.
243557
wait two more years. theres nothing wrong with your age diffirence. just dont do something illegal. im 29 and my girlfriend is 18. we love each other. whats important is love not age. age is just a useless number we count so that we can tell ourselves we become wiser. what a file of siht. what we are and who we has nothing to do with age, and everything to do with ourself and wagr we think of ourselves. \n\nthe long and short of it is: if you love her and she loves you go for it. just be careful not to end up in jail.
485359
well 1st, i am in the same situation now.\ni am 16 but he just turned 19.\nhe tried to propose to me also....at 16 yrs old, yea we do love you. but as women we cant be sure if we will still love you forever and ever, we haven't had time to find ourselves yet. or even really experience life. so when she says no its not a blow on you. we do it to protect you frm gettin hurt in the long run.