well, i am a fat girl & the anothr reason is that my parents will not accept him as he is not exactly rich
130124
say something about it but don't use the LOVE word.
285257
u should grow up, probably ur father hasn't realised that his little princess is now 20. wat about sitting him down and let him know that, unless he doesn't want u to do it because of some religious reason then u just have to accept that, u live in his house!\n\ngood luck
191049
i have the same problem except the religion thing. Well if u really like him that shouldnt matter, just telll him how u feel and that yalls religion shouldnt matter, then if ur parents get in the picture talk to them and tell them how u feel about him, and if that doesnt work, ur parents dont ALWAYS have to know who ur goin out w/!!!LOL
487090
I'm sorry to hear that u feel that way. You're rite your mom isn't right saying that to you, I have no idea why she would. I don't know what to say to help you..but everything happens for a reason and one day you'll be better than everyone, because that's how it seems to go - the ones who don't fit in when they're young end up to be very succesful or even the prettiest one in adulthood. Sometimes being a teen can be difficult, just enjoy what you enjoy doing and don't care what people think of you and good things will happen to you, I know it. :)
598503
show them that he is a good person and how well he treats you, thats really all you can do, maybe if they see those sides to him they will lessen up on the issue alittle bit and not judge him by the color of his skin, but by his character and as an individual, if not then remember that you will always love your parents and will want them to accept whatever life choices you make, but they wont always like what you choose and it is afterall your life and you and you alone have to account for your own happiness....*good luck*
614324
I think your mother is wrong to make you decide this based solely on racial differences. If this guy treats you good and is a respectable then your mother should put her bigotry aside.
563856
trust me. they are rejecting him for more then that. and IF this was the only reason..if you're underage you have to leave him b/c the bible says "honor your mother and father so your days will be long upon this earth".
35081
i think you just need to keep saying so. Some people are just naturally lean. Or maybe you dont have as much of an appetite as others. \nI guess it doesn't matter whether you are skinny or fat they will always find a way to judge you. You just need to tell them where to shove it. Certainly your family should love you for what you are as a person. You are beautiful.
587217
that is wrong.  they need to realize that you are their daughter. no matter what you did do and what you did to him, you are the one they should love and choose over any one else. i would personally let my dad know how i feel and then leave him to think about it and if your parents really care about you they will get their head out of their ass and realize what they are doing.
657011
You seem like you too are young. You need to tell his parents to get him into some type of help program quick. Even if he's upset with you for it, this may save his life.
394181
Sorry to hear that.  Maybe you should ask your family if you can please have the house for a little while so you can take care of your needs.  Im sure your father will understand.  Get you some boy!
82005
How old are you? If you're old enough to make decisions about your life, then this one has to be your decision, too.\n\nParents have a habit of not thinking anyone is good enough for their little girl, and there's a good chance you'll never meet anyone that meets up to their expectations - or if you do, he won't be right for you and you are the one that has to put up with him, right?\n\nAs long as a guy is good to you and not abusive or doing anything illegal, then your parents - as difficult as it may be - will just simply have to accept whoever you decide to love because it is your life, not theirs.
289142
In a situation like this you personally need to talk to your father and tell him that you don't appreciate him taking advantage of you. Tell him that you forgive him for disowning you as a child and that you love him even though he missed out on the finer points in your life. Give him the money because you cant put a price on love. If you don't then you may regret it for the rest of your life. I cant guarantee that this would make you feel better because i don't know. This is coming from a 16 year old and the way I see is either you could take the advise and run with it or leave it to rot for eternity.
33190
he is a loser and not a man. he is a boy\n find a real man that doesn't live at his daddy's house
304287
a year and a half? Your parents can't be that upset, you both are mature young adults (I hope) and you shouldn't hide the fact that you care about someone.\n\nGood Luck
37847
Awwwww don't worry babygurl.U sound like me,lol.Jus b urself and if a guy can't like u for who u are, then he doesn't deserve ur time, love, or beauty.
364120
He knows that he is overweight and does not like it. I was overweight at one time. My mom would bring it up ( now i know its because she does care about me). I would get upset, cry and yell because i knew what she was saying was true. Sit down with your dad and try to tell him that you love him very much and that you are worried about his health. tell him that you want him to be around for his grandchildren. maybe you could say "hey dad i want to go for a walk, want to join me?" he prob wont take it so personally and he can get some exercise. Good luck Hun.