i've met one guy in internet. about 2 months ago.some days past and i sent him my picture. and he said that he like me very much. but i have a boyfriend and i told him about it . but he answered that it doesnt explain anything. now he said that he is in love with me. but every day i try to expalin him that all that i can give him its just friendship and nothing more. i know i hurt him with this words but i dont know what else to do. but  i dont want to loose him as a friend. i like him. what i have to do? should i believe him that he really loves me?is it possible to love someone who you met in internet and never saw in real life?
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It is possible to fall in love with someone you meet on the Internet, but it is very improbable that it could be true. \n\nLove takes a lot of things and for every one internet-love that succeeds, there may be a million that have failed, thousands that were just hoax and hundreds that may be frauds. If I were you, i would be verrrrrry careful
159363
Maybe he is for real...not everyone is a liar and a cheat or has a hidden agenda.Just dont rush into anything.\n\nI met my a guy almost 7 years ago in an internet chatroom.\n\nWe are still best pals and.....happily married :)
51065
You probably think that you love him.  But the problem with chatting with someone you never met, is you have no idea if that is the "real" them.  Most times it is not.  Everyone shares the best things about themselves, so you aren't going to know all the weird, quirky, or even disturbing things.  Not to mention the stuff they tell you could be completely made up.\nI believe it is possible to love what you believe is the person, but you could be loving a made-up person.
445792
No don't trust anyone on the internet cause you don't know them and it could be dangerous! Especially since he just looked at your picture and said he likes you and he don't know you!
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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Honey if the Dude is truly in love the only person he would be looking at is You.And is he ashamed of you?Girl it sounds like this dude is playing with Ur feelens. Or are u just a spare tire to him and when he needs u he calls.Take it from a guy who has been playing around all his life.I hate to say this leave him and I am sure he will come chasing u and when he does u set the rules .OK Try it it works
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sorry 2 hear tht... yeah i saw ur other questions about ths guy b4. actually i also experienced ths kinda situation b4. at first, i was really good friend with ths grl & passed 2 funfull yrs until i found out tht i love her. and i had hint tht she loved me too. but other things came up i couldn't give her a chance 2 express herself. but whn i expressed myself, she rejected saying tht she never felt like ths towards me, which's a lie. also all on a sudden she hooked up with some1 else to take myself off her mind & replace me with him. the most shocking part is, being heartbroken i still tried to be her friend but slowly she made a distance between us & destroyed our beautiful friendship.\n\nmy point is, affection towards a friend happens all the time. but there r some issues involved regarding friendship, other ppl around u etc. as a friend, u were suppose 2 knw tht he already has a gf. but u didn't, which is not usual. so mayb he doesn't hav any gf & story of having a gf is the most reasonable way to dump u with hurting u less. and don't bother if he doesn't like u or not. if he didn't like u, u wouldn't be yur friend. but it can be true tht he's not feeling attracted 2 u as he told u. tht doesn't mean tht u r not attractive or he doesn't like u. there can be a lot of different reasons involved regarding friendship or something else.\n\nfrom my opinion, look into yur heart. if u think tht u really want him & u knw tht he has actually feelings for u thn stick 2gether & mayb someday things'll work out. but the downside is u donno if thts gonna happen. so there's a chance to get heartbroken again frm the same person for the same reason. on the other hand, continue being friend & move on, find another guy who understands u & doesn't hurt u like ths. but whtever happens, yur friendship wth ths guy will not gonna be same frm now on.\n\nhope ths works. feeling sorry 4 u!
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dunno love. you obviously care a lot about him....\nleave him alone for a while, perhaps he'll decide that just being friends is good for him... there again maybe he'll decide you're a cow and he hates you. you cannot control what goes on inside his head or try to second guess/pre-empt it.\nthat's the trouble with men though aint it? they seem to think that just being friends means they've moved down in your estimations somehow, when in fact it just means you wanna know them forever, without all the messy stuff that gets in the way of that.\nmaybe he's low in confidence and looking for love.... thought he'd found it with you... perhaps if he gains some self esteem and meets someone else he'll appreciate how important and precious a good friendship can be.\nunfortunately, i don't think there's anything you can do to make him feel any better about it all though, he'll have to get there by himself.
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Man, that's sad.  Guys just love to play games and many times what you thought you saw in his eyes wasn't what you now think or thought was love, it was lust.  This guy obviously is immature and a liar.\n  Chalk it up to experience and get on with your life.  don't put up a wall preventing future guys from loving you or your believing them.  My mother told me once that if you tried to analyze everything a person  sas to you, you'll end up going nuts.  So just figure that when he said he loved you and was nice to you and you trusted him, just figure it was true at "that moment"., and stuff happens , time goes on, things change and we will never have all the answers as to the why's .  It happened, you had a great time and now its time to move on to more life experiences.  don't be sad......................Take a bath, do your hair, be yourself, smile and move on...and up........good luck
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I've been in your situation.  I met this guy over the net, we exchanged pics, #'s and the such.  I called him first and we started talking.  I was a little scared to meet him, but once I did, we dated for over two years.  Funny how that happened....\n\n-daydreaming of the old days-\n\nAnyway you can't really start to like that person until you get to know a lot more about them.  Call them, talk first, then decide how you feel...or maybe you'd want to meet them...but now-a-days...it's a shot in the dark...people will lie about who they are...my case was one of the good ones...\n\nBest of luck to ya' buddy!\n\n:)
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Does he wish to go out with you?  If yes, that is one less thing you have to consider.\n\nAge is DEFINATELY just a number, though if you are not of legal age in your country and he is, please stop all contact with him or stay only friends because he could get in trouble for being with a minor.  \n\nAnother thing is... Please use caution with being online.  I honestly cannot stess enough the stories I have heard of people who have pretended to be someone they are not, people who try to take advantage of others in illegal or hurtful ways, and all of this stuff. If you take your relationship into offline life make sure that you do the following:  tell your friends about this person (including his name, where he is from and all of that) make sure that if you do meet you do so in a public place with other people around and take a friend with you, if you are in a position to do a background check on him do so, and the rest of the necessary things to keep you safe.  I am NOT saying all people online are predators, some are very nice people and I met my future husband in a Yahoo! Chatroom but I also used very reasonable precautions when going forward with meeting with him and such.\n\nIf you both like eachother and are both of legal age, go for it; a wonderful, trusting relationship is a rare find and sometimes you have to take it where you can get it.  Just try not to pay attention to what people say about finding someone off the internet.  Though, if you feel there is something wrong in your relationship at anytime, look into it... don't dismiss anything.
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I think friendships and relationships have as much chance of surving if started online as any other!  They will only last though, if both parties are actually honest, and true to themselves!  If you are being a different person online to who you really are, then expect to be found out.  It's legitimate if kept online, it's just different when you meet in person.
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Feelings are going to be hurt no matter what.  You know him better than any of us.  You have to be honest, He will respect you more for that even though he will be hurt. Tell him you have enjoyed your relationship but feel you must move on and would love to remain friends if he would like to.  Tell him what you feel about him.  Start off with the positives you find in him, but get to the point.  If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be at this time.  Tell him you really like him and you really didn't want to hurt his feelings and you are saddened to.  You don't want to hurt him further by being in this relationship that you have no more boyfriend/girlfriend feelings for him, just true friendship feelings.  Good luck to you.
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maybe..until u meet him!!  love is @ FIRST SIGHT well at least!!!!!! NOT meeting online sweetie. Best Of Luck!!!!!
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I find him:-) I really loved him. He is very very very handsome. I had write an address( ı think it could be my friends address.Yes somebody said me hello.But it wasn`t my friend and it wan`t a girl it was a really handsome boy.I broke up my ex-lover `cause I always think about my net lover.I love him very much and ı become happy when he logs on the MSN.
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That's NOT love. It's obsession.\n\nIf the guy really loves you, he wouldn't do it just to keep you. He would rather let you go and see you happy.\n\nMaybe you shouldn't see him for a while because he is really hurt. If you want to be friends, let him know that.
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Wow, that's a difficult one.  Have you ever met the online person in person?  The danger with falling in love with someone online is that they may not be who you think they are.  It could be also, that the person you don't know intimately will always seem better because you don't know all their little annoying peculiarities.  On the other hand, you have this on and off again long term relationship.  The fact that it isn't a stable relationship tells me that there are issues that come up, you break up, issues get worked out (or not, maybe you guys just get lonely), you're back together, the sun is shining until...and back into that again.  Look into your own heart.  What is it that is so alluring in the online person?  It is real?  Is it sustainable?  Does he snore in their sleep?  Is he a morning person?  Does he take cream in his coffee?  Sugar?  What is his mother's middle name?  (lol, now I'm wracking my brain on that question).  You get my drift.  You may want to talk this out with a neutral person like a counsellor to help you with this.  Maybe the answer right now is no answer, leave it as is and the next time long time bf leaves, see about the online one.  Just a thought.