My 16 year old sister is bisexual and i have to share a room with her.I have nothing against bisexuals but i feel like everytime i go to get dressed she watches me and i dont like that at all. I have told her before dont look at my at all when I am getting dressed. Sometimes i even get dressed in the bathroom and she comes right in and says you need to get out when i am half dressed.I dont know what else to do and she is making me feel uncomfortable.What should i do to get it through her head that i dont want her looking at my body period.????
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Is there a lock..because if you feel uncomfortable you shouldnt have to..You should get a lock if there isnt any because im not against bisexual's either but my sister does the same thing  and i get mad i usually have to slam the door in her face to get her to stay out!
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So? If she doesn't have a problem, why do you? Many straight men dress this way in private, your cousin's bf is just a little more bold than most. If he can handle the stares, and comments, why not? If she can take the assualts that will come her way from being with him, then good for her.
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A sisteen year old is thinking about the opposite sex all the time because her "hermones" are kicking in big time at that age!  It's going to be that way for awhile, but as she developes and becomes more mature she will settle down.  For most studies are difficult because they are so distracted by the changes going on in their bodies.  The teens are a very confusing time, so be there for her, answer her questions, and "instill good moral values" in her, and a creeer will follow one day.  Don't put a lot of pressure on her as growing up and pier pressue is enough stress to deal with.  Plus the more you push can often make the person pull away and you aleniate yourself so much that they won't listen to "anything" you say.  Instead they will rebel and that can mean "trouble",... for both of you.\n\nDon't you remember being sixteen?  We do tend to forget sometimes!\n\nGive her time and LOTS OF LOVE! \n\nPersonally I pray for guidance, because I know the Lord will answer my prayers.  He always does.
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if she turns you on go for it anyway no one will know but you and her.if you aren't interested just be nice and tell her its not your thing. i am a crossdresser and ive been hit on by guys before, but i always let them know upfront so there are no surprises. most of them are good natured about it. However a "girl" has to be careful in a situation like that things can get out of hand.
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I don't think it makes you bi at all. You don't want to do anything sexual with her you just want to be the best friends ever. If you start feeling like you want to do sexual things with her and other girls then maybe you would be considered bi but you don't. You are just a girl who loves her best friend.
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Fool, I'm in late high school too, and after reading your current inquiry, some of your other questions, and some of your responses, I can say one thing with certainty...\n\nYou're being pretty homosexual lately...\n\nNow, excuses aside, you HAVE TO MAN UP!!!\n\nWhen she rejects your soul into oblivion, don't sit there and "feel like [you] don't want to live anymore." You f***in' sit back and play it like you got ALL the answers...\n\nShe doesn't want to be with you, so what? Fool, you gotta let her know there is plenty other p**** out there for you, and Hell yeah you funna go and get it. \n\nGirls don't want someone who can be calm, compassionate and emotional, they can already do that themselves. They need someone who's going to be strong and just show them how to live. That's tight if you're not stoked that she doesn't want to be with you right now, and she never will want to if you let her think she's in control. You need to go out and be the mother-f***in' boss of the hood, and let her know, what time it is...
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umm well ok.\n\nfirst off if she wants a 3-some, you'd better talk to her about it. if you feel uncomfy in the idea thata  friend or even your sister are in the same bed together then she should understand, and if you dont like the idea then id simply tell her how weird it makes you feel and such.\n\nif she really wants to, then i would try to find someone you'd feel comfy with. like your sister would probably make you feel pretty creeped out and such. so mabie a good friend of hers or yours? \n\nand its alright if you all do 'that' together. just be comfy with it, who its with, and use protection so you dont get teh second gal prednat or your girfriend. ^__- and make sure there 'of legal age' or they can press charges if they get pregnant.\n\nother than that i see no real problem with it. most men would probably be running with joy over the idea that there gal wants a 3-some ^___________-
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I actually know what you mean.  At one of my gf's parties i was having fun just talking to this guy and my gf saw that and gave me this look like what the hell are you doing.  She is my first gf too and I haven't really been with anyone else, so I can understand what you must be feeling or fearing might happen.  My gf made it real clear that she was a little disturbed by what she was seeing and after that I realized how much it bothered her and now I am more aware of what I can and can't do.  With us it is kind of a little game though. She has done the same thing to me.  She will look at other girls and make comments just to see my reaction.  It is kinda funny that she is worried about me however, because she happens to be bi while I find myself more straight up gay.  I should really be more afraid of her time alone with a guy she finds attractive.  Perhaps what your gf is going through is similar.  Maybe she knows it bothers you or maybe she is just not sure how much it bothers you. I would definetely talk to her.  Communication is always the best way to treat little problems like these.  Be honest yet compassionate and not too firm with her.  It just seems that the trust between the two of you needs to be strengthened.  Number one thing.  Be brutally honest!  It tends to work out more than not.
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The most important thing you can do right now is not be too obvious -- it your boss starts to get complaints, you very well could be fired.  It's really one thing to walk in on a guy dressing or undressing, but quite another to make a point of watching guys in the nude.  It's really a matter of privacy.  Respect another man's privacy.\n\nHaving said that, ALL men in locker room situations have at one time or another, taken more than their share of looks at other men.  We are men and curious as to how we stack up to other guys: penis-wise, physique-wise, hairiness, etc.  But most men don't make go there specifically for a show; it's just a few quick glances here and there and that's it.\n\nIt sounds to me that you are most probably having self-image problems over your own body -- talk to a counselor about this. Or even ask more direct questions on that topic here, in the men's health forum.  If you know you are not gay, then you are not.  However, if you continue to have this interest in men, consider the possibility that you are, at some level, bisexual.  There may be a interaction effect here going on (poor body image + latent bisxuality).  Whatever the case, voyeuristic tendencies have now come into play -- these other guys are not aware that you are specifically hanging around to see them drop their towels.\n\nLots of guys are bisexuals, by the way.  It seems you are really focused on viewing full frontal views of males -- and that in of itself (at least for me) points towards bisexuality over pure heterosexuality.  My suspicion is that you already have sexual fantasies about men but aren't giving us the full picture here of your sexuality -- how it is expressed or how you internally envision it or feel it.\n\nIf you have developed this habit of clandestinely looking at other males disrobe in the locker room, my guess is that you are, at the very least, a bisexual male.  You might have subconsciously selected your work too partly so you could enjoy looking at nude men.  One relatively safe way for bisexual guys to express their sexuality (under wraps) is to view male pornography or to watch guys disrobe, if given the chance.  And you very much have the opportunity to see men take off their clothes, every workday.
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Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
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If she identifies as a girl, and you identify as a guy, then wanting to do her doesn't make you gay!   Some of these responses are crazy.\nDo whatever makes you feel good and makes her feel good--they're just body parts; maybe she feels like it's a really big clit and not a penis.  \nRegarding keeping secrets--that's up to the two of you.  It's hard to keep lies hidden.  It takesa lot of energy and can hurt you both.  Then if somebody finds out, there's the hurt of being lied to plus all the energy you wasted.  If you think you'd be physically hurt/beat up or something from telling your family, that's different, but in general I believe in being open.  It's her body, though, so realyl she should make the decision about how open to be.
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The best way is to have your parents as well as your sister even you to sit down and express your feelings to one another. This way you will find out how your parents feel and your parents would find out why she was acting that way. In other words you will each learn more from each other rather than hiding it inside. She could explain why she turned gay, and how she feels about being gay. She should ask your dad if he accepts her for who she is. Thats the most important part. I hope everything goes well. and try it, i hope it works.
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I’m a guy and I think that you are wrong and that your MIL has a right to be mad. She could’ve handled it with a little more decorum, but she still has the right to be upset with you.\n\n If it was just you and her in the house, your MIL might have had an issue with it still, but she may not have said anything to you about it. But because her husband and son were there, she felt like she needed to get this under control. I am sure you know very well that most men are stimulated by what we see. Whether or not you think the FIL and BIL don’t “have” to look, doesn’t mean that they CAN’T look. Again, for many guys, that look can stimulate (especially in the younger brother), which is something you DO NOT want to do to them, because 1) you are a married woman, and 2) you are married to their son/brother.\n\nNow, just for kicks, imagine that you have a sister, older or younger, who is just as attractive and appealing as you.  She comes to stay with you and your husband for a year. She wears things around the house that are exactly like what you described yourself wearing at you MIL’s house. Now, how comfortable would you be if you had to start working nightshift or had to be away for an extended period of time, say four weeks, and they were left there alone? If you say very comfortable because they wouldn’t do anything, consider this. Even if they don’t do anything together, your husband may still take a sideways glance if it’s constantly available for him to see, especially if you are not around to catch him. So with that in mind, would you say something to her about her pink and see-through nighties? Do you think that your husband, in order to protect himself from lusting after his SIL, would ask her to cover up, in HIS own house? \n\nThis comes down to respect for not only your MIL, but also to your FIL, your BIL, and their home. You and your MIL might have been the best of friends, but you can’t blame her for making sure there are no nearly-nude chicks in her hen-house (excuse the pun). And oh yeah, it doesn’t matter that your husband bought you nighty. Your husband bought it most likely for you to wear for or around him, and that’s the way it should stay.
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Dont listen to the people trying to say your not Gay or Bisexual, because you might be, only you can know. Yes @ 13 you are going through puburty(sp?) and will experiment. But only you know if you are or are not. If she wants to kiss you to, I say go for it. But as with any friend a relationship can possibly mess it up. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with you, you are normal. Dont ever let someone try to make you bad or that you are wrong for feeling the way you do. Be careful with who you tell because some people are not open and bad things can happen, because people are so close minded.\n\np.s- I am 22 years old and have gone through the same thing you are. So I know from personal experience and I am a Bisexual adult, I always knew ever since I was little. It took me some time to accept myself for who I am.
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It's tough on your friend, being gay.  He feels outcast, different, and under a microscope.  He doesn't want anyone to know most likely because he feels that he will be picked on, made fun of, or worse.  He's probably not comfortable with his orientation, either.  He may not have the acceptance at home from his family.  If you're his 'only' friend, then you have a big responsibility.  It would be good to get him into a group of others that don't care about sexual orientation or whatever else.  It's all part of growing up and being more accepting of those around you - you seem to have it mastered.  As far as your bf is concerned.  You need to be truthful with him and not raise any doubts in his mind.  If you care enough about him, then be honest.  Keep the conversation confidential, and be honest with your friend, too.  If you're honest with him as well, he'll trust you more.  Good luck, and God bless.  Be safe and study hard...  :-)
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My dear Sarah, how can she get pregnant with a pillow?  Don't worry, it's just a phase, she will get over it.  She is just experiencing feeling for the first time and they are over whelming her.  Let her be or educate her properly about sex.  This is nothing to worry about.  Every person whether male or female, goes through puberty.  It's no big deal.  I bet you did it too, just didn't have a nosy older sister spying on you.  (I don't mean to be rude, but it's hard not to be sarcastic.  Sorry)
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honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.