I have a 10 mth old son and I want to find a good guy that will do me right not looking for someone that is a moocher and neither am I a gold digger I don't go to bars so that option is out where else is there to look?
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First of all, let me say that evilrob that answered your question is a JERK-OFF!\nThere are places to meet decent men...Garage sales are one...hard to believe, but true!\nThe grocery store...\nThe laundry mat...he has to wash his own clothes...\nAlso, have you heard of a group called Parents Without Partners?\nGood luck, be patient.
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good luck trying to find that special someone , i hope you find them . happy hunting!
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I have used"plentyoffish.com" I might of spelled that wrong, well anyway its a good site..free  guys n girls.  I met someone off that site a month ago, and things couldnt be better!  He is everything I have ever looked for.  But always use caution..i am sure not everyone will have that experince that I had
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try to find a man thats not taken...
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okay...try swappernet.com.  you can look for men, women, couples, single females...whatever you want there.  i think that you can sign up for a free month or something. otherwise, i would suggest bars in your town.  but, i know that's kinda hard.
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Church, start praying that God will bring a decent man into your life... If you are religious try a relegious online dating service, that way you don't have to go through the shinadigans of other sites... Good luck in finding him......
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Don't waste your time chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased.\n\nFind you someone who is willing to talk to you and doesn't use his mom for a call screener.
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Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
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Why don't you go instead to a supermarket at dinner time when a lot of nice men are out there buying their meals? Its a good way to meet guys that are not fake.\n\nI would forget of dating sites if I were you.\nLots of dangerous men and people out there.\nThey will tell you the world, the best that is not them and then once you are all into "mmm i found a good guy" you will only find the truth. \nHe lied, he cheated, he does not even look like the pictures online.\n\nI dont say all people online dating are bad, but a vast majority can be and it's difficult to tell unless you have known a person for a long time and you re met online by coincidence.\n\nSearch online there is an article about how online dating is now having huge problems with the divorce rates now showing up for those who were matched by online dating organizations or associations whateer you call them.\n\nALL OF THOSE ONLINE DATING SITES ARE NOT THERE TO GIVE YOU SUPERMAN FOR A HUSBAND! OR SUPERWOMAN FOR WIFE! They are out there to make money and they dont care what happens personally to you.\n\nThere is not one site that is infallible to sexual predators, perverted or dishonest people (there's tons ande no offense but if you have good health and two feet and a heart and eyes and all working right GO FOR THE REAL THING! OUTSIDE THE INTERNET!\n\ngO to a park (lots of dad's or mom's and many may be also looking for a good person to date and even marry).\n\nPersonally I would not spend a dime on online dating. And beware!! People from other countries may want your money and promise you chivalry and never ending love until they get your money and then fly out elsewhere and not even meet you. That happend to someboyd I knew. Russian ladies online can lie real good.\nBeware of distance if you decide to go online to find yr mate.\nIt doesnt work specially if you meet online, to be in different continents or countries and even States. \n\nIt is very rare that a person finds a good mate if they have not met each other and know each other for quite a while, reasoned about things together, experienced things together. \n\nJust writing online can harm serious people lookig for love. Because most people online can get away with murder and lies.\n\nDo you work? anybody there that may be better for you? school? \n\nWhy don't you volunteer into a positive cause and organization ? most likely good people will be there to meet you and will be REAL.
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Goodluck hope you find the person your looking for
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When the time is right you'll find the perfect person for you and your son. In the mean time just take time and enjoy your son. He'll only be little for a while and when you least expect it love will find you. Good luck with everything
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It depends on what You expect out of the relationship and what you intend to put into it. There are lots of places you can look, some cost you money without real results and some are free. The hardest part for you is trying to find out who is genuine and who is in it for what he can get.\nIt is a tough one, however if you want to vet them you can use my email address and I will forward them to you.
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That's funny, there are so many nice, friendly well balance women out there without children  wondering the same thing about a males.  The problem is, where do you find eachother....at the nice, friendly, well balanced singles without children club? That's cute. Good luck hun.
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There is no reason why you can't.  In fact in your case it may be the easiest method to find someone similar to you if that is what your looking for.  Just realize it will be a long process to weed out all the jerks because a lot people use those sites just for quick sex.  Becareful and be smart and hopefully you'll find the right one for you.
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If I am right. You are 34 yoa.  With a 9 year old son. My guess is, that your husband was one of those who thought the grass was greener on the other side. But don't let it get you down. My guess it was not your fault. Just a nother dumb male. You are better off with out him. Your son will do the most suffering. But you can handle that too! First look and find or let him find you a nice gentleman that is looking for a relationship. Make sure he and your son hit it off as well as you and him. Then let nature run its course. When one door closes another opens. It won't be long and you will be the happiest woman in the world. Take care and good luck.
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You can find a very suitable partner by not looking.\n\nYou'll never find it if you're lookin' for it.\n\nLove will come when you least expect it.
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I think you are at a point in life, because of your situation, where you can truly weed out the men from the boys.  If you are looking to find a guy who could possibly be the one to spend the rest of your life with, then I think it's safe to say you don't want some guy who just wants to have sex with you, right?  Well it's obvious the pool got a lot smaller.  Well I just want to tell you that there are such guys who don't just want sex and honestly just want to be with with someone sweet (and I'm sure you are).  \nI can tell you this because I was in a relationship a couple of years ago with a really nice girl who also had her own little girl.  I was 21 at the time and she was completely gorgeous, but I truly did not want to have sex with her, at least not for a very long time....I truly just wanted to be with her.  I honestly felt that she was really sweet and her daughter was wonderful, and even though I was young (still am :), I was totally willing to be a part of her daughters life if it meant I could be with her...even possible getting married and taking a father role, if it led to that. \n\nAll I'm really trying to say is that "Yes", there are guys out there that will love you and your son with no strings attached.  Just be patient.....and more importantly, for your son, be picky ;)