i know shes is going to ask another guy out but i really like her. what should i do?  and how should i do it?
131431
Ask her out before she asks him out of course. Just say it.
588283
Yes,if she's not seeing the other guy then go for it. If she says no at least you tried.
282381
Sounds like you two have a lot in common...basically wanting someone, but yet not to get hurt again. See if you can take her out and tell her that you really do like her and have like her for the past couple of months, but like her are looking for someone special and are afraid of being hurt. You respect her decision of not dating just to be dating, b/c once again you are looking for someone special to make your life complete. Pray to God for the strength to approach the situation with honor and dignity. Don't ever be afraid of no, b/c you never know until you ask. Keep your head up and your confidence high, you sound like a terrific sweet gentleman and I wish you and her both luck! God Bless!
539252
You never know until you ask.  The secret may be that she likes you.  Then again, it may be that she likes somebody else.  You better ask her out and find out.
339826
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
327328
ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
339030
she wants you mate, pluck up the courage and ask her out, after all if you like her what have you got to lose she can only say no and if she does then you know where you stand, however i think if you are brave enough to make the 1st move you wont be disappointed, good luck, let me know how you get on.
339743
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
672629
I would let her know how you feel about her, then leave it alone. She might choose you over the other guy, but you don't want her to feel pressured and you don't want to steal her away. (Well, ok, you probably do, but it could cause problems in the long run, and you don't want that.) If she feels the same way about you, but doesn't know how you feel, you could both lose out on a good relationship. However, if her current boyfriend is it, and she just didn't want to do the long-distance thing, then you need to respect their relationship.\n\nJust approach it by saying that you don't want to pressure her because you respect her relationship with her boyfriend, but want to let her know that you like her as more than a friend.  You don't want to date a woman that would cheat on her current boyfriend to be with you, because that's a sign she'll do it TO you, and you don't want a broken heart out of the deal.\n\nJust my 2¢.
637807
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
264035
email her back and tell her that you can accept that even though you dont think she should be seeing this other guy because you are more handsome and sexier,she will like that then finish the email with a line that goes like this i guess now i am free to date again,catch up with you and ill write soon to see how all is going,you will have her in a rage of jelousy it wont be long untill she writes to youand says things didnt work out
318992
If you like her ask her out, if she likes you then you two should hit it off. And if you dont ask her out then you might sit and wonder, what would have happened if you did.
383953
Go out with the guy that is going to ask you. Now, deal with this other guy you like more. Just hang out with him and talk to him. If you find that he likes you and you like him then let this other guy understand that you have feelings for someone else. If you were to continue dating him then you would just be on a guilt trip and that is no fun.
666379
well, spend more time together. then maybe at the end of the date, ask her if she still wants to see you, because she likes another guy a little bit. i mean, she probably likes you better because she has been on dates with you, but just ask her. you will get a truthful answer, and just see how it goes. friend, or girlfriend. good luck
504168
If she's with someone else now, don't do it.\n\nIf you're both available, just ask her what she thinks about it. Say something like, "We've been friends forever and we get along so well. Do you think we could ever date? Or would that just wreck things?"
56151
It sounds like you missed your chance.  If she is with someone else, just leave her alone.  If you still like her and she's no longer dating another guy, then talk to her.
108916
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!