what do they benefit by indulging in chat room sex sessions when the whole world can see them indulging?isnot it embarassing for them who do it?or is it normal nowadays?i am confused,pls tell me......i want to know .....
136437
normal...its just fun...
272071
In my opinion, so long as it's okay with the other person he's "cybering" with, it's fine. No harm, no foul.\n\nIn this day and age, consentual dirty talk via IM or e-mail is a harmless, anonymous way for sex-craved people to get a psychological fix, even if it's just fantasy.\n\nThis concept has been around for a while. Take sex-talk phone services ("900" numbers), or erotic penpals. For both of these, women (or men) will have erotic conversations with you for a fee. Heck, he's probably getting his "action" for free, but in a medium where it's infinitely easier to hook up desparate women with desparate men.\n\nAnd both benefit from not needing to actually see each other.
642023
I don't do chat rooms, but after a while of q-ing and a-ing you do start to see some increasingly familiar names pop up, and I suppose a certain amount of back-slapping takes place.  One particular member and myself seem to have hit it off rather well, however.
205389
obsession and addiction. People who use chat rooms alot feel like this is the only conection to the world they need. They will sit at the computer for hours at a time without eating, sleeping, bathing or working. When they aren't at the computer they are thinking about the computer or talking about a friend they talk to on the computer.\nThese people get so wrapped up into the world of chat rooms that they will sink into a deep depression if there computer is taken away.
594179
Wow, great question but it sounds like Adult Content to me and I don't want any of those weasel Puritans flagging me again... Wish I could help, but Yahoo is going full bore with this censorship thing. And here I thought it was just the poor Chi-Coms that got censored by them...  Contact me and I'd be more than happy to discuss it away from prying Puritan eyes...
12227
chatrooms are a perfect place to safely cheat on your spouse.  think about it, you can get naughty and never get dirty.  I myself dont like to chat, cuz Id rather get down to busness.  Chat rooms are just a tease to me.  Id rather sit down in a bar, and chat with the bartenders and people around me.  wayyy better than a chat room.  plus you are wayy more likely to go home with a real person.  but really tho, the chat room is a place to go to escape, be someone your not.  I would love to james bond 007, and in a chat room, I can be.
83947
Lack of essence needs to be covered by something. This crass way is the way of the simple minded. \nI understand that discussion between sex partners needs to be open enough, for mutual joy, but there is a long way from open to gross.
22956
I am a woman, but my mother gave me the BEST advice I ever heard.  She said, "If you want your marriage to FAIL, then go in the chat rooms!"  My husband and I vowed to never chat online with someone of the opposite sex.  Actually, we do NOT take our problems to the opposite sex at all.  That is how most affairs begin.  I am old fashioned, I suppose, but I think that married people need married couples for friends.  Anything else could be a little dangerous.  I know others will say it all boils down to trust, but even the most trusting person can be seduced.
645570
its a really werid thing, its like you chat on the internet and its supposed to make you "horny" I haven't tried it but i would like to see if it works. spenardtimmy@yahoo.com
97838
You will always have better sex if you know/like the person more. If you are having sex with a stranger, distracting questions and insecurities arise when you are smack-dab in the middle of the act. You're wondering "what was that look about?" Or "do I look good right now?" These are thoughts that shouldn't be allowed to detract from the physical enjoyment of sex.
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Chatty in what sense? \n\nThis isn't really a forum for conversation which would require numerous feedback sessions between you and those that answer. You ask, we answer, you pick best answer and state your claim as to why.\n\nChatty I would imagine would be left to the live forms such as chat rooms.\n\nI'm not sure why you were violated but was just presenting my argument based on what I think the Yahoo gods are using as reasons.
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The question to ask is whether your or his sex lives are unfulfilling.  Does he return to this online porn/webcams because he feels the sex with you just isn't that phenomenal?  If he enjoys your sex but just likes doing these other things, I don't see the problem, unless it affects YOU- i.e. you feel your sex life suffering because of his pornographic predilections.\n\nSome people do, indeed, become addicted to pornography, and it becomes a problem when it interferes with their lives or they can only be sexually aroused when using these materials.  Otherwise, it's just something he likes to do.  Still, it seems to be upsetting you, so the thing to do- the best thing, always- is to talk to him about it.  Don't set down an ultimatum or forbid him from doing it, just try to find out why he does it, express your feelings about it to him, and go from there.
30557
online chat invitations are DANGEROUS.  \nany creep could say they're young and cute, etc.\n\nhopefully no one will respond to this
466413
Because he's a predator and he's trying to have cybersex or worse with you.  Find another chat room.  Don't feed this guys sick fantasies.
145012
life is not all about sex. we think about how fun they may be or  how they could make us laugh. it kinda sucks that you guys only want sex. what has happened to ppl to day?
203933
Boy do I hear you!  I used to use the chat rooms alot back in the beginning of my computer useage, but it became such a hassle to sort thru who was for real and who were 'posers' just out to cause issues with you that I had to stop.  I have not had any chatting for a long time now.  Good luck, and best regards.
605480
Tricked?  HAHAHA, nice one.  Sorry, no one is ever tricked into porn.  They may be forced into it, or choose to do it while drunk (like girls gone wild), but no one is actually tricked into it.