So I found the perfect girl and i didn't have any guts to ask her out so i text messaged her pretending to be my friend and i asked her "(insert my name here) wants to go out with you" at first she said "i dont know..." so we just kept on talking (me still pretending to be my friend) but later i ask her "So, what is your answer?" she says "why doesn't he(me) ask for himself?" i said "he(me)is to shy" she says "well my answer is no" so a few minutes later my friend caught me pretending to be him and text messages her saying "hey the guy who text messaged you isn't me its (insert my name)" so i told her "no, its someone else pretending to be my friend" (who I pretended to be...)but ever since that day she doesn't text message me anymore and ignores all my IMs but she does give me the "I kinda like you" look every once in a while....(I think?)what should i do?? should i ask her out my self??or should i wait a lil more?
132064
Well my first advise is to quit playing games. No girl wants a guy that wont be honest from the beginning. Now you have to work to earn her trust back. When maybe in the first place maybe she would have said yes if you werent playing these dumb games with her
506177
She wants you to make the first move in asking her out. She may not be shy at all. She may just want to feel important in the fact that it's you who initiated things with her. I say go for it! The signs are all there! &#92;m/
162089
since you were honest about your question.....make some passes at her and see if she responds\n\nif you get that, what the f*ck is your problem look,you don't have a snowballs chance in hell of getting the coochie.\n\nif you get an awkward response at first that means she could be interested i would only try twice after the first response\n\nwhen the question is closed i would really like to know what happens\n\nthanks
478139
maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
488057
Exactly what you just did. Find a nice way to say it. Like maybe I am interested in someone else. And do not elaborate on it.You walk with your dignity as well as her keeping hers. Good luck. Post script. Question for you. What are you looking for on here? Be honest not only with yourself but to your friends online.
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1)she kept sending you sms and leave a miss called on your mobile. she will say hi.. what'ya doin'? where's your girlfriend? or... she might say... "i don't believe a guy like you doesnt have any girlfriend.."\n\n2) Never turn you down whenever you ask her out.. eventhough you only brings her to a stall or a cheap restaurant. \n\n3)always try her best to look good in front of you. she would be saying something like "do i look ok? am i overdressed?" or "i shouldnt wear this outfit, i might embarassed you"\n\n4)she always reply your sms or call not later than 3 minutes. \n\nthat is what i think.. so best of luck
240655
Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
569947
what a biatch, sounds like one of those teasers. She might tease you forever. But you still have a  chance buddy, make her jealous. Invite her to join you and another female friend. Ask her to help you out.
310218
Is this grl popular & nice or popular and a B*T*H. if shes nice try asking her out. if shes a B*T*H forget about her! You deserve better!!
276569
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
521832
Just chill and wait for her to come to you. You've put yourself out there now it's her to return the favor. :) But don't ignore her. :P
386152
Texting--- not so good, because we cant tell if you are serious. You need to do it cold turkey and ask her out in person. Pull her aside, even if it's obvious... it's OK if she says no, because at least your feelings are out even though it may hurt. Get her opinion and find out what she likes from her friends for first date suggestions.
473736
She is playing with you.She sounds like a real nasty if you ask me.You sound sweet there are plenty of nice girls around.Dont take her calls if she tries to call or if you see her ignore her she will soon get the message that your not playing her silly little games.:)
327328
ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
540217
Good to cut it short --- but poor form on announcing to her friend that you liked her instead\n\nChances are the girl you were supposed to be on the date with found you pretty boring too!!
333780
Your screen name suits you perfectly.  If you just want to get laid, go for it.  I have seen this situation plenty of time to know that she doesn't love you.  She likes having you there to cry on.  She needs some love and affection, and you happen to be there.  If it wasn't you it would just be someone else.  What do you think would happen if your friend found out you guys hooked up, and then he decided to get back with her?  What would she do?  She would probably dump you in a second and get back with your friend.  If you think this would happen, then realize that she is only  using you.  Therefore, if she is using you for comfort, it is fair to use her for sex, but don't get your heart all involved.  Just do it and have fun.  She isn't really a girl you want to date seriously if this is how she normally acts.  Keep her around until you find a good one.
218363
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.