im not sure if he really means that he loves me.\nHow do i know?
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Unless you can feel what he feels you'll never truly know.  If you love him as much as you say then you should trust him to tell the truth when he says he loves you.  \n\nAsk him to describe what he feels for you.
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It may mean that he's insecure about you loving him, he may think that he's not ready for you to love him.\nOr, it may mean that he's just going to use you and he doesn't want you to get attached to him.\n\nI would talk to him about it, hopefully he'll understand, and communication is a great thing.
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reading the details he is sad but he is honest about his intention. \n\nhe is involve with someone that he feels needs him more cause she been hurt by other, the same way he had been hurt. i guess he means love relationship.\n\nanalyzing the situation, he is letting you go and wishing you the best with whom you are with right now.\n\nyou guys must be friends before that is why he can't abandon the thoughts that he still care and willing to be there for you just in case you need him. but telling you ahead of time it will be different relationship cause he is involve with another. \n\nhe sounds so lost but sincere and hurting cause you are far from him. but i guess he is telling you how he feels so you will not wait for him anymore.\n\ni hope you move on and heal your broken heart with people who loves you most..good luck..
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Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
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You could start by saying, you know was thinking about how to accurately evaluate my feelings for you and I think I could love you.....If you were to evaluate your feelings how would you say you feel about me?....\n\nDon't be surprised to hear I don't know....Means he's probably scared to say he loves you.....If that occurs, don't be disappointed continue to try to convince him that he loves you.\n\nGood luck
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Maybe he really loves you, and is afraid that he will upset you, so he takes his time coming up with the right words to explain how he is feeling. (I do that when I am in love) Maybe he even gets a little embarassed of his emotions sometimes, most of us are raised not to show what we are feeling.
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That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
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Well I think that if he really loves you than he wouldn't care about what people say or do, and would only focus on only being with you...so if he loves you as he says then  why is he with another one? \nand doing anything for each other does not come from one side it comes from both sides of the relationship.(which is you and him)
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Lexie( cute name)\n\nLexie u said that u  really LOVE him, but he LIKES u\n\nand that u he's an amazing, trustworthy all around  great guy( I can understand why u love if he's all that) but since u and he have been friends forever then u can say it in a friendly way 1st to see how he reacts. If he says it back in return, then theres ur opening.\n\nAsk him how he really feels about u after all these yrs ask him if he loves u in a friendly friendship way or in a girlfriend way? \n\nAnd base it on that.
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Well he doesn't love u "yet" or he would have said it back for sure. It doesn't mean he won't fall in love with u, some people just take longer to feel that than others. Give it time and my advice is not to say it again until he says it first, then u will know his words are real and not just forced to spare your feelings. So instead of telling him u love him with words, show it through actions. When the time is right and he is really feeling it he will say it. In a way its good he didn't say it back, because he obviously wouldn't have meant it at the time, so now when he does say it u will know it's true. But for now just let your heart express your words, and not your mouth. I wish the best for u. :-)
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It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
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yes~! tell him how you feel... if he loves you, he will understand and be honest with you...
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it means that you love him or you really, really like him.  i think that you should see him more often.
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if he treats you like no man before him has, when he loves spending time with you as much as you love spending time with him. When he has told you all his deepest secrets ( you know the ones that shock you) when you meet his family and or closest friends. When he can look you straight in the eye and can say I love you and you can truly feel it. ( passion in his eyes)
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If he hasn't told you I love you by now I would be wondering if this relationship is really boyfreind and girlfriend. He may not be looking for love right now. Since this has become an issue for you I would say this is going to be a dealbreaker. He will surprise you I am sure with his answer.
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Well it sounds like she's falling in love with you!I don't think she'd say those things if there wasn't any meaning behind it!Maybe you should consider asking her this question because she's the only one who knows how she feels because you won't know any more than you do now by asking strangers on the internet!It does sound like she loves you though!
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im sure he loves you it takes a lot of guts to propose he wouldnt do it if he didnt love you. i dont think there really was some deep meaning behind it i just think it was a joke somthing he just said and didnt put too much thought into after all he is a guy cut him a little slack.