im 16 and goin out with this girl.. i need suggestions on where to take her...she wants to be "different" so movies dosent cut it for her..any ideas? thanks
130209
you should take her on a date in downtown where theres lights, other people stores and places to eat.
352548
first to  BJ baths ( lovely place have been there many times).\n\n then to pu55y gallours for a nice bit to eat.\n\nthen take her up the kyber pass if you know what i am sayin govna.\n\nshe wont know what hit her matey. go for it ( GOODLUCK ).
77995
Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
151280
Well it depends on your age,  you seem young around my age,  so you could take her somewhere fun rather than the norm,  Maybe take her to an arcade, or somewhere with a nice scenery, so you two could talk.  You could even go to comedy club,  you will have something to talk about after.  To spice it up you could go salsa dancing or just dancing in general
46259
try giving her some more room, let her go out with just the girls one night this weekend, see if it hurts you too bad. also, listen to what she has to say. next time you go out, let her choose where you go. (don't try everything all at once, letting go of the control will take steps.) also, remember she has the final say on her body... idk if this has anything to do with your question, but just so you know...\n\ngood luck
524382
ASK OUT !!!\n\nTAKE HER TO THE MOVIES !!!\n\nTHAT'S A START !!!
586109
Ok Rob..girls like to be told how pretty and smart they are. I would tell her this, a lot. Let her know that you would like to take her to the movies on a date. See what she says. Be a real gentleman.
177285
Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
448218
Well, maybe you can Google some fun things that are inexpensive and will keep you occupy. Are there any muesems that you can go to? plays? minor league games? a less expensive amuesment park? clubbing/dancing? How about taking her on a tour of where you exactly live at, like some sights or something.\nThis is, of course, where you live at.  If you live near Sarasota, show her the sights of that. Or Tallahassee. Or Miami.  Where ever you live at, being that it is Florida, take her around and show her some sights and sounds of Florida. If you live in the southern part of the state-near the Keys-take her there and so her the sight where she can actually see the Island of Cuba. Have a females night out. How about a spa you can take her to? Check out different places to see the ones near you that are reasonably priced. \nI hope you like the suggestions that I just gave you.
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find out what she likes. Then take her out with a couple of friends. Tell your friends what your intentions are, that you don't want this to be like a date. Now make sure the friends you are with won't tell her. But make it so they tend to leave you both alone.
375684
I think the best thing to do   is plan a day or two to just hang out and go to the movies or the mall. Go out to lunch talk gurl talk
421697
Tell her you won't accept her putting you on lay-a-way until she finds a better deal. You're both 16, you both need to live a little, but she can't go around 'saving' people for later; you're not a toy. Move on, date other people and if it's meant to be, you'll find each other again later on. Good luck!
256812
talk about tryin new things to gather. you just dont want to spring something on her shes not ready for. For starters try watching dirty movies, role play or even try out each others fantasy.
98988
Movies are a totally lame date.  You sit in a dark room in silence and pay no attention to each other.  Take her to something fun that you were going to do anyway.  That way 1) you have fun no matter what 2)she gets to see what you like to do for fun and 3) you don't have to deal with the awkwardness around whether or ot you're buying her ticket.
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The first thing you need to do is establish a code with your friend to see if she wants to extend the date. Don't make her feel stuck with guy if she doesn't like him! If she does like him and the weather permits, visit an outdoor mall, a local concert in your community or the beach. We have tons of piers out here in CA that offer fun and pleasure. If the weather is cold in your area, go to a comedy club, bar or coffee shop. Have fun!
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At your age a movie is the best thing you can really do.  Either that or if you both share a common interest (an arcade, a tv show, cooking) you can do that together.  But a movie is a good first date for younger people because it gives you a chance to be with eachother, but you have something to distract you from all the strange silences.  If there is an icecream place close by, maybe you guys can walk there and get some ice cream after that.\n\nBut because this is your first date in general, I really sugguest seeing a movie either in a theatre or at one of your houses because neither of you are going to know what to do or say, but you just want to be together.  If you have something to do and pay attention to it takes a lot of pressure off of the both of you.\n\nAnother little side note.  If you both love sports or running, set up some days that you can take a little run for 20 mins or so.  Not only is it healthy for you, but exercise causes your body to release certian chemicals that make you feel better, and it has been proven that people who are first starting a relationship have a better chance of surviving if they work out together.  Maybe you two can go swimming or something if you both like it.  The studies that have done this also say that if your first date is athletic, there is a huge chance of getting a second, and it lasts longer.
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Hi Mr. Beaner,\n\nWhy don't you ask her out to a movie? Or if your parents permit friends to come over you can ask her and a couple of other friends to come over and watch a movie and eat pizza.\n\nJust make sure there are equal girls to boys. If your parents ask why you want to have a small get together, tell them you are trying to strengthen some friendships outside the school environment. Just make sure you do not invite too many kids because parents have to pay for this stuff. And as your parent's have probably told you "money does not grow on trees" \n\nIf your mom objects to cost- ask her if she can purchase a couple of frozen pizzas.\n\nIf your mom objects to inconvenience- ask her if you can just drop you and lady love off to the movies then\n\nIf your mom objects to seeing a girl at your age- tell her she is just a friend who is in your band class