If you're caught in the middle of choosing between the one you love but doesn't love you and the one that loves you but you don't love, which would you choose?
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neither - i would find someone that i loved and who loved me.\neasy really.
577861
If you have to chose one,be with someone who loves YOU more...you chances of being hurt are less and you will be taken care of much better then by someone who does not love you as much...
181791
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
367842
Others are right, say you can't choose one in favour of the  other. At worst, you will probably loose steve, then you can settle in with the her.
220059
in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
572419
Go with where your heart takes you.  Beauty is one thing but if you actually ENJOY the other person.....what would make you happier?  Sounds like someone who can help me forget about my problems and all is the one I would want to spend my time with.  I think I'd be happier.
223990
go with the one you can afford.  Remember this. To drive in love can be pleasant but the drivers seat can sometimes result in disaster when you don't know enough. Good luck and much wisdom.
34178
Pick the guy with the most money... LOL..JK.\n\nReally, if you have doubts then you need to give yourself some time and FREE TIME, away from both guys.  You need some thinking time to yourself.  If you’re still in doubt, then maybe you really don’t LOVE either of them like you should, in that case, its time to move on.\n\nBest of luck to you.
125767
u gotta choose 1 or the other who r u most happy with, who makes u smile its yr heart u have to decide
429171
hmm... that is a tough one...  both choices seem interesting but the really long life someway reminds me of vampires lol \nI think I would pick love+ a short life, but it's really weird to pick that choice too because i'll be 25 next year! O__O\n.... maybe long life than? lol
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At this point - I think you should be much more interested in figuring out which one them wouldn't love you as much if your physical appearance were to change.  It could very well be the one that you're so hot over.  And if it is, she isn't worth having!!!
101779
I'll choose the one i love. I'll make him fell in love with me. If it doesn't work, at least i've try the best and grateful i've given to love someone. Besides its just in my imagination. In my real life, i have someone to love and love me too.
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if you love someone why would you want to look elsewhere?  If she didn't do anything wrong and you are thinking of that then you really don't love her like you think you love her.  If she did something wrong then it depends on what she did.
88079
I love them in different ways, so it is a hard comparison to make...if I had to choose between one or the other I would choose my bestfriend, lover, companion, life mate...MY HUSABAND
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If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
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You can't be with one. If you try that, you'll still have feelings for the other one, right? That wouldn't be good.
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go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.