this guy im crushing on is older. we hardly talk.unless it's about school work . i have no guts to let him know i like him.and i dont think he likes me back.
124018
try giving him subtle casual compliments. Nothing too obvious but something you notice the he takes the time and care to do that few really express and after you do that talking to him becomes much easier. promise.
196842
I believe he likes the fact that you have a crush on him an doesnt want your feelings to change. He sounds kinda unsure about hisself. I would have to say I bet he feels the same way about you just didnt know how to reply when you told him how you felt. GOOD LUCK LOVE!
85576
It's ok to have a crush on someone older than you, I was a sophomore when I met my bf (who was in 8th grade) and it always feels like we're the same age.  But you should be careful, some boys can be real jerks, especially high school boys. so just don't let your guard down :)
261388
omg of course he likes you! If he didnt y would he even be im'ing u so much. Hes probably found out that u guys hav so much in common with each other. Y not try to plan on hanging out with him or something. If u dont get too atleast when u start school again try to talking to him more and stuf not just on the pc. But if u like this try to keep chatting wit him so he'll get to know u more. And believe me your lucky cuz most gurls cant even talk to there crushes!
636824
he probally liked you too but now that he knows ur age is probally scared/embarressed cuz your younger than he is. if you havent already just email him once n tell him that you do like him and hope that your age isnt going to really get in the way but if it is then you hope you can still be friends
595486
so..your in the 6th grade? if so it explains the name...anyway i dont really get the question,but i see one problem you told him that you like him that takes guts but it was problem no. 1.see that will freak out guys, and thats problably the reason that he said he just wants to be friends. try to really get to know him first. hang out w/ him but not in a stalky way... then when YOU think HE likes you make your move... i mean you are talking about asking him out right???plus the short thing does not matter...and if he still does not like you dont worry there are many other guys out there...good luck!
317176
I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
148723
i know it hurts to get rejected but take a shot at it he may be going thru the same thing. he may like you and be afraid to say something. I am a guy and i have been afraid to talk to a couple of girls and i finally got up the courage to say something to one of them now that they have a boy friend and i  found out that at the time that i like them they like me but its to late i missed my chance don't miss yours
458260
yes!  he likes you, you already know this so stop acting like a five year old and go talk to him tomorrow at church.  it is ridiculous to send your best friend to go talk to him... i remember doing stuff like that when i was around your age, but i look back on it now -- i am 27--- like it was very immature and ridiculous.  don't make excuses for yourself that you are a wimp or too shy, just stand up for your own, and go talk to the kid, i promise that he will want to hang with you, it is pretty obvious.
69152
if he sits across from you then u must still be in school which means at this age boys are still unsure of them selves when it comes to woman. still shy. so it is up to you to let him know u like him. i would say he does like u though especially if he talks only to u and no one else. be brave and make the first move tell him how u feel. believe it doesn't change as u get older usually the woman is making the first move so u might as well get the practice now.
529605
He likes you but does'nt want anyone to know... i'd say he'd keep his feeling inside him (he wont ask you out)\n\nim not tryin to be mean or anything its just that i do the same thing to someone in my class.. sorry if i offended u
500474
I guess it depends why you don't think he likes you.  Has he said so or does he treat you in a way that indicates so?  If he's nice to you and just hasn't said he likes you, he may just not know what to do....just like you.  Do you two chat much?  Chat more, but only a little more at a time so you're not being pushy.  You'll start to notice if there's a chemistry.  If you don't feel that, or if you don't notice things like he looks at you more, makes more of an effort to chat with you......well he may not feel the same about you as you do about him.  When you feel the time is right, you can give him a compliment of some sort and see how he responds.  If it comes out that you like him and he likes you well then that's fab!!  If it turns out he doesn't like you that way, it is absolutely not the end of the world.  You will survive it, and in no time at all it will seem like a spec of dust instead of a mountain in your life.  Be you!!  You know who you are and you are wonderful!!  Good luck!!
381934
Perhaps he doesn't like you the way you like him and he's avoiding you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Lay low from him, if he comes around then maybe he was just planning on how to ask you out, or how to tell you that he likes you, maybe he's shy. I hope he likes you!
558339
He probably feels the same way towards you.\n\nJust try and zoom in on what he and you both like...For example, movies, computers, chat rooms, music, board games, certain books, or something you're both working on in class that you both find interesting...Don't try and tell him you like him in the first conversation...Get to know him really well to see if you actually have feelings for him...If he says he doesn't like you, then you don't have to worry about it anymore and it'll be his loss if that happens, but a lot of people are shy, including guys...It's way easier to talk over the internet, Yahoo Messenger, AOL Messenger, MSN Messenger...Once you get to know him pretty well, y'all can exchange screen names...If you don't already have one, I suggest getting Yahoo Messenger...It's way easier to work with than the others and most people, if they have any mess., they'll have Yahoo, but just to be safe, you should probably get AOL Messenger too.  It's way easier to express your feelings or talk to another person online when you don't have to talk to them face-to-face.  You should try this.  I bet it'll help!  Most importantly, be yourself...Being yourself makes for a stronger relationship where you'll be able to share things, ideas, thoughts, etc. with one another easier.
99209
Be honest with him...if you really doubt about your crush feelings toward you,you should have the courage to ask him or else your feelings about him is useless!!! Theres nothing wrong in telling him that...its much better if you ask him straight than to leave that feeling to disappear into thin air.\n\nYou can do it!
50520
Maybe it's because he doesn't know you at all. You shouldn't ever go out and say "hey I like you" or tell anyone for that matter! Somehow, you need to get to know him and develop a friendship with him. Then, take it a bit further. \n\nTelling him or letting him know only scares guys away, and you can not let him know that ever!
285362
just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...