hey ppl especially gals have u ever faced sexual moved by your bosses.. what did u do in that situation.. did u fall for it.. or resisted it..
120873
no never faced it but did make a move. it was 3 years back when i woeked with my dad for a while.. it was with his secretary.. i was successful though..we never got chance to have sex but i did touch her at those sensitive spots.. even saw her naked once..we planned sex one day but rain spoilr our day she could not make it to my house becasue of heavy rains.. after that i went out ot town for studies and before i came back for my vacations she quit the job as she had got maried
294953
Doesn't sound like a good plan to me. I like my thoughts to stay to myself. I often think to myself (especially around my boss) I would really like to tell you off or something in that sense. But I pretend to be a good girl and don't say anything to offend others.
519781
yeah quit right in the middle of a really buissy night...just tell your boss to take the job and shove it your walking out...if hes that much of a jerk leave him in a pinch.  hope you find something better...i had one of those bosses once... i quit told the other boss and the other one said yeah i know hes real hard to work with sorry about that... so people understand.  some people you just cant work with.  good luck.
606495
Get one of those voice activated recorders and when he confronts you, make sure it's on.  Then take the recording to your boss - if she/he doesn't do anything about it, you may be out of luck.  Worse comes to worse see an attorney- this could sexual  harassment and that's illegal!
584278
My boss married a girl that was a full head taller than he was.. \n\nIf it wasnt for his "commanding personallity", it may have been funny :)  But, we respected him and she was a cutie, and we never gave it a thought about it, because they were happy together...\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
527400
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
218420
Did you make up that question? If you're serious, don't say anything to him. He'll wonder why you're there, in the first place. And he may already know about it but is embarrassed. It's never a good idea to embarrass your boss. Keep your lip zipped. Maybe it isn't even her.
358495
Then it is time for you to get another job. I was in that same position at my last job. I got tired of seeing people who kissed a s s get promoted over me - did not have the skills, education or know-how, they just were favored.\nPlus, talking to management at any company and getting them to listen is like calling, 'Bueller, Bueller, Bueller..." you get my drift.
446944
Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
455412
Touching your back/shoulders and stroking your neck? Making perverse comments? Sweetie, this is called sexual harrassment. As for why they act this way, basically, they're idiots. Don't write them off as just "goofy." There is no excuse for their behavior. One guy went on a date with you and then told everyone? Is he still in high school? They think it's fun to embarrass you. They way immature men like this think, it wouldn't surprise me if they have some sort of bet going as to who can get you to give up your choice to wait until marriage first. The first thing you need to do is not date any of them. That's just a good policy wherever you may work in your life. If it ends badly, you still have to see that person every day and it can cause a lot of problems. Second, when they say inappropriate things to you or touch you or make you feel uncomfortable in any way, you need to tell them they're behaving inappropriately and ask them to please stop. If they don't, or they just think that's part of the game, you need to go to your supervisor and ask him/her to intervene. Just know that if the boss does intervene, this may make for a hostile work environment because then you'll be the girl who "can't take a joke." Sad, but it happens. Conversely, the boss may think you're overreacting and not do anything. At this point, you'll have to make a decision: file a complaint with the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) and let them handle it, again possibly making for a hostile work environment; quit and find another job with mature, professional coworkers; do both. Unfortunately, there is no easy solution to this. If it were just one or two guys behaving this way, it might be easier because they'd be the minority. But if all the guys you work with do it, they'll be more apt to stick together and form a united front against you, saying that you're exaggerating or even making stuff up to get them into trouble. If there are any other women who work there, talk to them and see if they're having similar experiences. If so, it will corroborate your claims and give you more credence. I'm sorry to sound so cynical and/or pessimistic, but this is an all too common situation for many women in the workplace. We've all read and heard about things like this. There's even a movie based on a true story about the first lawsuit against a company for condoning sexual harassment called "North Country" with Charlize Theron. It's a disturbing, sad movie, but it shows what some women have had to go through just to earn a living. Finally, don't let yourself be intimidated. Stick to your values, know that you don't deserve to be treated this way and you don't have to put up with it. No one has the right to put their hands on you without your permission. Be strong and stick up for yourself, and someday, if you have children, you can pass that strength on to your daughter or teach your son to have the proper respect for women. I wish you the best of luck.
444060
Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
623653
You should tell your boss how you feel, and tell him/her what the lady does. If it really upsets and interfeers with your job, let your boss know. the worst he can do is not do anything.
248900
I would keep out of it, and keep away from them. It's not your business to manage her. \n\nIs there a boss above your boss? If it becomes an issue in work performance, go to that person or go to HR.
130377
be honest with your boss. if you only want to be friends just tell him in a nice way that you find it difficult to date any one that you really like as a friend and you cherish your friend ship, so you don't want to let sex or any thing else come in between your relationship because a Friend is hard to find and easy to loose
127421
Absolutely there are laws to protect you, but what you have stated is somewhat vague, you should try asking a more specific questions, where did the icident take place home, work? what kind of harassment? sexual, physical,or verbal was it your boss or a coworker.
232507
Just tell him you can't have sex on days you go to work.\n\n\nIf he really loves you back, he'll understand.\n\nTell him how you feel about him almost pressuring you into this.\n\nIt's better to talk about it.
105225
He may have done that on purpose, knowing how you are. I think the best to do is just turn the other cheek.\n\nIf he continues to do that, then you may want to talk to his boss about it.