Hiya\nI'm gonna go to a coffee shop with my frnd this sunday\nI'm gonna ask her to be my girlfrnd and I then plan to kiss her\nHow to create the perfect atmosphere\nPlz help
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Well maybe you could go for a walk to a nice place after coffee it will be romantic and you can maybe seat down somewhere where it is not too busy. You will feel less nervous  if they arent a lot of people surounding you and your darling for the first kiss.\nBut anyway don't think too hard about it, if you really like her you will know when the right moment is because you will feel an urge too kiss her.\nPersonally I like when guys kiss me when I'm less expecting it. For instance if she is is looking at something and then turn round to talk to you and  you kiss her.\nGoodluck anyway! I m sure that girl is very lucky that a nice guy like you wants to kiss her
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don't use one of those cheesy pick up lines, Just ask her if she'd like to go out for coffee sometime,start out casual
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k, I'm a chic, so listen up ... no bad-breath causing foods, onion, garlic, sausage, that sort of thing, and nothing too salty. You'll both have dry mouth shortly after eating and won't be in the mood for smooching ;)\n\nA nice, simple but interesting salad would do fine. Try having a sort of "buffet" where she can make her own. Impress her with some designer salad dressings (that you can buy at any supermarket, just look on the top shelf). Boiled shrimp would be nice as a topper, or even some oysters, yum. Cheeses, fresh mushrooms, cucumbers, bacon, and so on. Just make it fun ... and for dessert ... \n\nGet a bunch of strawberries ... or splurge and do the blueberry, raspberry, strawberry thing, even throw in some mangoes and kiwis ... top that with a little vanilla sauce a.k.a. vanilla cook-and-serve jello pudding. Keep it warm on the stove or in a fondue pot until you're ready to use it.  A little dollop of whip cream would look awesome too.  You could even melt a little chocolate too, in case that's her thing. And you know how good chocolate makes you feel ...\n\nA nice bottle of wine, or her favorite drink. Don't forget the glass of ice water too. Freeze a raspberry in the ice cubes and you'll get laid for sure :) (just a little tip there) ... \n\nMake her feel at home, don't have too many lights on ... girls are a little self-conscious when we eat even if we don't admit it ... and play some good dinner music. Al Greene, Luther Vandross, whatever you like, just don't have it so loud that you can't talk. \n\nI guess it's not so much about the food, but the way you present the whole package that counts! Good luck.\n\nps, absolutely NO spaghetti !!! yikes !!! dragon breath for days!
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hand on knee...close to hi p*nis...kiss his neck, then his lips, straddle him like your gonna give him a lap dance...give him a little grind and say " ya thirsty? I'm thirsty" get up to get something to drink....and see what happens when he comes back.
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Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
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Absolutely shake her hand. Don't hug. Call her "Mrs. XXXXX", not by her first name. The first meeting should be formal and cordial and *warm*, and certainly not overly friendly (hugging) or standoffish (not talking to her). Make sure you compliment her hair or clothing or something. Remember that your bf picked you because you remind him of her in some way, and she knows that.
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Start inviting her in a romanting restaurant.Talk with her.......... after sometimes kiss her.Them tell 2 her that u want something more cize i LIKE YOU,i want you to be mine..............\nWhat i tell you its a great technique
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take her in my arms and kiss her.\n\ntoo bad you are not a lesbian - fun too.  LOL
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Go on a picnic at sunset at the end.... kiss her (on the check)  \nP.S. I know, I'm a girl!!!!
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1.) Watch what she is talking about and wait until you find something that you have in common. Example \n(Girl: Yeah I was out and was drinking (so so drink) and then my friend and I went to the mall bla bla bla)\n\nIf you noticed that you like the same drink she does then when she is done talking (which may take a while he he jk) just tell her you heard what she was talking about and let her know you like same drink or whatever you guys have in common. Once you do that then start talking about other things. But the best way is to wait...listen...then talk about your common interest. Works best if it is something stupid she did like slip or fall or something then you can say "Its ok don't feel bad I slipped on the way in here" then you both have something "In commen" and she feels better about her self as well ;o)
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hey, hot stuff thanks for the number, now how about getting together and really getting to know each other, how about some coffee and snack, name when and where, waiting to hear from you !  swak (sealed with a kiss)
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Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
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just be yourself..   Have some fun... \nIt is not what ?? you ask.. it is your actions and the things you do... Always remember, actions speak louder than words.    \n\nSurprise HER!  Take her on a picnic or something you normally would not do....  have spice..in your life.
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First of all, slow down, just a bit.  You say You just talked with Her today for the first time.  Wait a day, and call again, get to know each other a little.  Find out what She likes to do, and then in one of the next three to four conversations, just say, well do You think it would be a good time to get together, something small, like coffee, or a coke.  Where it is quite and You can get to know each other better.  Then there will not be so much pressure, and it won't appear like You are trying to rush things.  Then when You do go out, You will feel more comfortable with each other.  Go about it the right way so that You end up where You want Your relationship to be, instead of going too fast, and wind up messing it up, and staying at home thinking about how You wished You had gone about it.  And by the way, they just had a show on last night about dating, they said don't give out too much information, like no thanks I don't use cream, I am lactose intolerant, and NEVER talk about ex-girlfriends.  Hope this helps. \nGood Luck, hope it works out the way You wanted it to,\nand God Bless.
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I think its really cute...love indeed is sweeter the second time around. Perhaps you can start talking to each other like ordinary acquaintances and then just ask him/her if she/he wants to go for some cup of coffee or tea. You can gauge by then your next moves...maybe a movie or dinner. Have fun and i hope everything goes well with you. Cheers!
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To talk:) To get to know u better, who u re, Ur attitudes..Ur nature.. If u take her for a concert..ud be there as two strangers having fun, like at disco.. Not good so much. Movie..u cannot talk there..u just sit by her side and think whole the time what does she think, what u should do..etc.. The best is to take her to eat sth, not fast food and not some too snobbish restaurant. Take her to eat somewhere, where u will be able to talk, laugh.. And during the dinner u will know if u want to spend more time with her and she as well. And if everything goes well u will talk about what to do next.. And maybe u will just walk her in all honesty home - it s very nice..and maybe u will go to karaoke bar to sing:D U never know what d first date will be:) Good luck
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lol i'm very happy for you.. just to start it off... but i have this blog on my myspace that says like "for guys to read and what not" so i think i'll just post it here.... i know it probably will just be a waste of space. but maybe it'll benefit just a tiny bit? i would say propose or what not but i dont think that it's appropriate just yet... wait a few more months or something till you're sure. I know i've thought i was in love a few times myself and everytime it's ended badly for me.... but anyway here ya go! hope it helps!!!\n\nthings guyz should know.... \nCurrent mood:  hopeful \nCategory: Romance and Relationships \n\n\n19 ways to win a girls heart\n\n1. Hugs from behind.\n2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.\n3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.\n4. Cuddle with her.\n5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.\n6. Write little notes.\n7. Compliment her and have it come from the heart.\n8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.\n9. Be super sweet to her.\n10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams or just to hear her voice.\n11. Comfort her when she cries.\n12. Wipe away her tears.\n13. Love her with all your heart.\n14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).\n15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).\n16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her\n17. Take her for a long walk at night!\n18. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep\n19. Bring her flowers just because its some day of the week. \n\n26 Ways To Make A Girl Smile....\n\n1. Tell her she is beautiful. not hot!\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n\n6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n7. If you're talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her....let her know she's yours and they arent.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.(except if she spent alot of time curling it)\n\n11. hold her and dont let her go.....\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesnt like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely where it to bed) and don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while.\n\n18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22.Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER\n\n\n25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just when ever, take it and tell her u love it.\n\n\n26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute.\n\n\nEvery Girls Dream---boys read this!! Its so true!!\n\n1. Getting kissed in the pouring rain\n2. Have that one hott kiss where your pressed against the wall\n3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world\n4. Have a guy that holds on as long as possible when giving hugs\n5. A guy that whispers he loves you in your ear\n6. Have that moment where you just ga