Married White Boy from america goes to china.  He uses this opportunity away from his wife to take advantage to satisfy his fantasies.  He is aware that with money he can have any girl, so he pulls out his "head" each night, and on it goes.  He returns back to the states, greets his wife as nothing happened but just business.  While he was gone, his wife slept with the gardener like in desperate housewife, so this is the typical white american lifestyle, everyone sleeps around with other people regardless of marriage and children, people don't care enough and they don't pay for it, so it continues without consequences.
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Is this a question or a answer and what would you do.
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White guys have date more asians than you might think.\nSteve Westly is running for governer of US married to an asian ... www.SteveWestly.org
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Actually I Knew a couple personally who divorced and had a little boy. After I think it was 1 year or a bit more the man moved back. For whatever reason they lived together (but they didn't remarry) They were quite content as things were. He was still paying his child support and had no problems with that. Nor did she. Too them they said it was like a bank account that he was responsible for and it was just for their daughter. So while he still payed the child support it was all going into this savings account that just had his wife and daughters name on it. Sometimes they used the money for birthdays or doctor's bills. But he said it was helping him focus on the fact that those child support payments were going directly to that account and in essence that account would be used for her colleage education.  So they just lived with that arrangement. But it was their choice and they made it work. (It's been 7 years and they are still doing the same thing).
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I think you missed out a word...  holding oneself out to BE the.......\n\nIt would be my understanding that they are saying "You do not have to be married to someone to be classed as co-habiting"\n\nIn th family code it then gors on to say that you need not be of the opposite sex either - which to my mind is basically further suggesting that the bit you are unsure of is simply saying "you don't need to be married to be classed as cohabiting"\n\nHorrible wording I grant you.
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IT is true some countries the women are desperate.I went to Myanmar and some very lovely young women were working there butts off for less than 2 US dollars a day. Get one from Myanmar some have never seen  white man in thier lives and it will bring joy to thier families to say there daughter is in America. Go there meet some poor ladies and sweepthem off there feet. I saw many beautiful maids and worker there that would gladly marry you for no money at all.
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You seem to be talking about two different things.  The original Swinger's started in the 1960's and usually involved a group of couples who were neighbors/work connected/belonged to a regular group such as a county club.  The idea was that happily married couples could enjoy each others spouses openly.  the original name was "Wife Swapping"  What you seem interested in is a type of polygamy.  I've often thought I would enjoy having a co-wife who could share the household work and my husband.  The sex part could be worked out to suit the individual.  I don't agree with these jerks that want to add a new younger wife every time he sees one he wants. Even Mohammad said a man cannot do justice to more than two wives.  \nI had some flower children friends (years ago) that jumped over a broom and declared themselves married every time they got the urge.  They didn't usually last too long and resulted in a lot of STD's and babies with weird first names.  \nFor it to work, you need to know the people you're jumping in bed with.  That is if you are planning a relationship that exists out side the bedroom also.  Be Very Careful!
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I think your chinese stereotype is a little outdated.   Most americans have figured out by now that most chinese don't know martial arts, and although many asians are smart, they dont all study the same things.    My stereotypical version of a chinese man would be,  short,  small penis (double short LOL),  eats lots of rice, uses chopsticks,  big goofy smile all the time,  chinese man is treated better than the woman (in china),  they despise the west,  they will always be chinese no matter how many generations their family have lived in the usa.  They are NOT american, they are chinese.   They think americans begin having sex at 5 and all american women are easy whores.  \n\nConfucius say:  man in church who farts, sit in own pew.\nConfucius also say:  baseball all wrong.  Man with 3 balls can't walk\n\nP.S.  when you say chinese think americans have a lot of money, that right because its true.   Even tho things in China are improving the average Chinese man still only earns a little over $100 per month.   Chinese still hold many negative stereotypes of black people.   Chinese think most americans are fatso's.   Chinese think America meddles in other countries afairs too much,   chinese actually believe americans live like what they see in movies (and i mean that in the negative sense),  chinese think the american streets are extremely unsafe and crime is rampant everywhere,  all the bad sterotypes such everyones a druggie or a boozer,  a homo, or pervert.
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You will find there are, but the assumption is that it's something less nice, that the man is only doing it to get immediate immigration rights and not because you are offering them a long term relationship. Even in the 1800's there were mail-order brides on the East Coast of the USA to go West.
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No one really knows why they were called french fries in the first place, since they were invented in America.  It is very obvious we had them longer than the french, just walk down a city street in america and try to find a girl to pick up, then do the same thing in france!  I will bet you anything the french girl will get picked up first, mainly because her legs won't make noise from rubbing together when she walks.  And as far as hypocrites go, look who leads our country!  He has a campaign against drugs, yet did cocaine, and he is pondering starting a draft, when he himself went awol during the Nam.  now that i have said that, i realize how sad we are, i think i'm goign to move!  how hard is it to get a visa in France?
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As with much in life, the first matter to explore is who has the desire for global power? This then comes back to the human wants and desires which are then collectively expressed by what can broadly be described by the term " culture". Most cultures (political and religious) are inherently competitive. \nSo how will the US loose its power? By repeating the example of the Roman empire - by becomming fat, lazy and the decay of moral standards. \nWhat can be said about a society where the most visible icons are vacuouse "celebrities" who parade their promiscous sex and drug lifestyles and the masses actually admire them!! It wasnt always so. America became great while it still had moral and ethical belief as its guiding light. \n\nSo the question then can be asked - which cultures exhibit the desire to challenge the prevailing world order?\n China is definitely one of my picks. In recent yrs China has made it very plain that it no longer wishes to be inward-looking but wants to become the dominant power on the planet. As it happens, western liberal politics is actually enabling that to happen as we speak by rampant increasing trade, investment and exporting jobs (ie wealth) from the west to China. Can China supplant the US?  My pick is absolutely and given China's history and cultural outlook on the rest of the world, it would not be a benign power that upheld freedom but a highly controlling one ( such as in Orwell's book "1984"). Consider also the horrors of the "Cultural Revolution". (read book "Wild Swans" by Jung Chang)\nSeeing the growing weakness and decay of the US, China is currently spending up large on military capability that goes way beyond any reasonable defense needs. This already concerns the US and in 5-10yrs could match or even surpass.  \n\nGiven Ive chosen to focus on cultural competition, the other megatrend in  my view is that of Islamization (or Islamo-facism as some have described it). The muslim world view is very disturbing to a western liberal such as myself (read the koran yourself - see link in sources)and the recent aggressive action against western values and societies (from 9/11, to French riots, to Sydney riots etc) is just the tip of the iceberg. With western national identities and cultures being ever more diluted in favour of "multicultural societies" (which include massive Muslim enclaves - in Sydney the Police fear to enter such neighbourhoods), the collective will of these multi-cultural societies to stand against competion from other cultures has been substantially weakened and continues to erode from the inside. You need look no further than the impotence of the French to deal with the riots decisively. \nMuslim nations have chosen non-conventional warfare as they dont have the military capability or the expertise to wage open warefare. But terrorism from without, coupled with substantial populations of Muslims inside western countries (over 2 million in US; over 6 million in France; some 350,000 in/around Sydney)are a threat that the west is still largely  blind to. \nBut is it possible for Islamic nations to become a superpower?  Maybe - all its takes is for the US to become weaker and for a revised definition of what a superpower is. Indonesia (the most populous Muslim country with some 120 mill people has a substantial standing army or close to 200,000) could in theory overrun Australia / New Zealand to start with. While at present Australia has superiority in air and sea capability, the gap is not that great. New Zealand has no air force and tiny navy.   \nAmerica did take up the challenge post 9/11 and the limits of military power have been starkly exposed. \nIs America still the undesputed superpower? No. American economic power is also slipping fast. All hail the WTO and unbridled pursuit of short term, short sighted profit that ignores national interests !
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A typical macho man married a typical good-looking lady. After the wedding, he laid down the following rules: \n\n"I'll be home when I want, if I want and at what time I want... and I don't expect any hassle from you. I expect a great dinner to be on the table, unless I tell you otherwise. I'll go hunting, fishing, boozin', and card-playing when I want with my old buddies and don't you give me a hard time about it. Those are my rules. Any comments?" \n\nHis new bride said, "No, that's fine with me. Just understand that I have rules too. There will be sex here at seven o'clock every night - whether you're here or not..."
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Some marry for convenience (e,g, "some" asians are obedient -- other are that way until they become American citizen and then leave the men).\n\nSome actually marry for love (or grow to love).  People always find a way to communicate.
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I think Asian gals try and look all nice and innocent...but they are far from it....white women...they are more open...they are don't have any sly motives.\n\nIn England the only guys that marry Chinese gals are elderly....here in America it seems all American guys like Asian gals...and then later find out how manipulative and controlling they can be.
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Its an epidemic,and I think its directly related to the lack of moral guidance in the homes.In most homes both parents are working so kids come home to an empty house,many teens come from broken homes where either or both parents are non-existent.There needs to be an emphasis on raising teens with self-esteem and training in morality,if Kids new they were loved and got enough of it in the home in the first place,they wouldnt feel this much need to find it elsewhere.You can see this desperation evident in cases where young boys go after older women seeking to fulfill the emptiness for a mothers love,and vice versa for young girls,looking for Daddy in an older man.Its seriously sad,and something needs to be done about it.
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I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOUR STORY. \nWHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?? WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY "WE OVERSEA VIETNAMESE DO NOT THINK WIFE HAVE TO CONTROL HUSBAND."???
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I have had this convo many times with people of those backgrounds that believe in it. From what I know they actually have a higher sucess rate than the "normal' marriages... I was shocked because my first thought would be that it doesnt work but then I thought about it and it made sense. \n\nReligions that believe in that sort of thing are quite diffrent from americans in there perspetives on morals and etc... so I think their way of living makes them have better odds.. Now if Americans started doing it I think it would fail greatly.
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Your question is miss leading...Real Guys known as Men don't put out video's after a break up. In this case with K-fed, His pre-nup was per year and since he did nothing but get two different women pregnant and let Brit pay his child support for two years while he lived off her money, he thinks he needs to do more sponging off of Brit so the threat of this sex tape coming public is actually known as "Blackmail" It's all about money and nothing about being a man! Now! you put the ego factor in and you get a low self esteem piece of sh*t and even with all that money, he will be looked at as a low class,RICH piece of sh*t. Free advise for all......Don't make a sex tape until you really know the person and as for the stars....They act like this is the first time someone has done this before. What are they thinking when they make this tape at the request of their partner in their short lived relationship/marriage, knowing the marriage most likely isn't going to last anyway?