It seems that is the U.S. that if a woman is a lesbian then she is seen in a better light than a gay man.  Your opinion?  Plus how does this apply in other countries?\n\nPlease serious answers only.
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yes i think you are correct. alot of people see 2 girls together and they say "oh that's beautiful" but 2 guys together are "disgusting" or "not men" for some reason? I think as long as the girls are girlly and not doms, then everybody is ok with it. I think also it has to do with the fact that two guys phisically penetrate each other during sex and 2 girls is just alot  of lickin and rubbing, so the fact that they penetrate each other makes people uneasy i think.
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Depends on the perspective you are looking from.\n\nFor a male gay, a man would be better.\n\nFo a hetero male a woman would be better and for a hetero female vice-versa.\n\nfor a lez, a woman would be better.\n\nThere are some things that women are better at then men, while the men are better at some.\n\nIt'd be about an even contest, except that ....ah forget it let me go and enjoy myself with my woman!..2 pts....he he he he he he\n\nst
560906
I agree wholeheartedly.\n\nWomen have the advantage of using their sexuality to their advantage to achieve their own goals, and since most people are still under that chivalrous ideal that women are harmless, benevolent creatures that many guys just never see it coming when they get screwed in the end.\n\nWomen have always been the better "players" than the men, and get away with it far more often.
668683
Speaking form personal experience, it's both physical and emotional.  I had been bi from about the age of 12, so I have been in relationships with men before, after 5 years of no men I can honestly say that I am happier now and was probably straight up lesbian all along.  I was never in fear of what a relationship with a man would mean, nor am I now.  I just happen to find women much more appealing, who wouldn't want a woman's body?  Plus, the emotional connection is much different.  Women connect with women on a different level, as do guys.  Most of my friends are men, but I only date women.
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Yes, it is a simple question and yes, it's still badly worded.  Many guys don't like lesbians although many women do like gay men. Figure that one out. I adore gay men and straight men too. I see most of them as small children in large bodies; although a straight gentleman can't often help me with colour combinations for the living room.
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LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
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I understand where you are coming from.  That is totally rude of them .  It gives all Lesbians a bad rap because of the holier then thou ones.  I can only say that maybe somewhere in their past life they were dealt a bad rap themselves by men, but not all men. You seem to be fine gentlemen and I as a lesbian applaud you.  I have many guys as friends we have enormous fun.  I love people, no matter what their sexual orientation may be.  Life is to short to be so mean and nasty,  Next time honey, that a lesbian is mean or nasty don't take it personal, its her way of showing her ignorance and lack of self-esteem.\n\n                                   Your al-right
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It's all a matter of personal preference.  I don't beleive that there's a difference between lesbian and non-lesbian masterbatory amounts.  It varies from person to person.  Also the influence of religion and family might sway the tendency to masterbate.  It's a perfectly natural thing to do for every mammal.
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If you are referring to gay porn with all men, then no, it isn't likely to be women.  Women are much more likely to find women together a turn on visually than men together - even if they would never want to actually have sex with another woman (sorry guys!).  The amount of (male) gay porn is due to the demand from gay men (funnily enough!).
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i actually did research on this for a speech on gender differences, and one source said that in a study, women were more frequently sexually aroused by images of women than men were by images of men. this was not a "how hot was that?" survey, this measured their chemical reactions when viewing the images.\ni also think it has something to do with social acceptability. women are often encouraged by media and other influences (i.e. men) to perform bisexual acts, whereas it is much more taboo for men to do so. look at how gays, lesbians and bisexuals are portrayed in the media: with lesbians, it's often split between unattractive women and gorgeous ones, and bisexual women are usually very attractive. gay men are typically the comic relief, and i can't remember the last media reference i heard to a bisexual man. when these stereotypes are drilled into us daily, they often become a part of our subconscious, sometimes even altering our beliefs.
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Being a lesbian doesn't have a national age restriction. The reason for this is that being a lesbian has never been much of an issue here..(UK). In the eyes of the law that is. If you were a homosexual man, then life was going to be much harder. Women never suffered the same persecution because Queen Victoria never believed that two women could have that kind of relationship together and rubbished the claims as ludicrous! (happy days! hehe!!) So, believing that it was impossible in the first place, there were no laws passed as to how it should be regulated and as such women could not be punished for it!....\nHowever, all that being said, if one is embarking on sexual escapades with another person, generally i would say the age of 16 rule should apply. This is purely for the fact that i think you should be both physically and emotionally ready before you consider sharing your body with someone else no matter what your orientation..
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No. not at all. I sometimes see some women in the street  who are attractive and I'm thinking "oh she's cute, if I was a guy I would definitely try talk to her," and I'm not gay. To me, in order for a person to be categorize as being "Gay" he/she would have to be sleeping with the same sex. so again chica, you're straight.
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Yes, it is a double standard. But an understandable one, IMO. When seeing two guys together, you think of the sexual implications, and they generally aren't very pleasant. With women it is different. Women are by far the fairer sex, and the view of what they'd do together is much less "intense" so to speak. Just to clarify, I have no problem at all with someone being gay, bi, or lesbian. I can't afford to. ;P
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I haven't heard of anyone saying they think it's disgusting for women to watch male gay porn. I know straight men are very vocal in being anti anything gay male. I doubt there is a double standard because the majority of women who aren't turned on by m/m porn are doing so just cos it doesn't do it for them. You're in a minorty and you ought to celebrate that difference.
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this is what gets me woundering about gay/ lesbians...if a guy is gay he says he dont like woman....but he dresses and tries to look like a woman....then there are lesbians says i cant stand men but the get the short hair cuts and dress like a man work out like a man and try to be like a man...so if someone dont like the oposite sex why do they try so hard to be just like them.... i do agree with you its just nasty.....my comment on the subject,,,
525211
I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
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I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.