He sees his great-grandmother that died almost 1 year ago, he did not have to much of a contact with her.  He also see other people that I don't even know.  He says that sometimes he sees a man standing on the play ground swing at school and that when his friend come over with my son, the man leaves.  Can you tell me what this means?
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First, note whether your child can "sense" the presence or location of living animals or people he hasn't directly seen, changes in the environment such as earthquakes/volcanoes (use http://earthquake.usgs.gov/eqcenter/recenteqsww/index.php?old=world.html to verify his calls as they occur), or be able to "read" an object that he's never seen before that has strong emotional meaning to someone...can he tell where it came from, etc.? If so, he's probably psychic. The hardest thing on this is that you MUST remain objective... do not lead him in finding his answers to these tests, and if he fails, accept it.\n\nIf not, check with a child psychologist (don't bring up psychic ability questions) to determine if these are hallucinations...the psych may recommend some anti-hallucinogenic medicines such as Abilify.\n\nIf the medication (after dosage and type of medication trials) does not make the "ghosts" go away, then your child is still probably psychic (although limited). \n\nScientifically, a psychic is much more sensitive to the electromagnetic fields in our environment than the average person, and is so able to "sense" electromagnetic signatures such as "ghosts," pre-earthquake shifts in the earth's field, and/or key images from certain objects of emotional value, etc.\n\nHallucinations are sensory and/or cortical images that have nothing to do with what's really out there. If he's hallucinating, the medication can turn that off and allow him to deal with the real world (material and energy both).\n\nAs a psychic, there are some basic rules to follow:\n\n1. Don't go around telling people. The blind think the sighted are crazy.\n2. Seek training. Reiki training when he's older is an excellent resource. So are certain Bhuddist gurus (shop wisely and carefully on that one). Be extremely careful about who works with him. There are lots of charlatans and con artists out there.\n3. The primary value of psychic ability is heightened awareness, healing skills, and "instinctual" good judgement calls. It's not some sort of "magic" that can make miracles happen. However, he may want to select a service career such as medicine or teaching.\n\nGood luck!
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If they have been married to each other for their lives then this is going to be extremely hard on the grandfather.  You try to spend as much time with him as you can.  Usually it the male that passes away before the wife.  Many men that have been in 1 life long relationship may just sit down and will themselves to die because of the great loss and wanting to be with their wives.  Has this passing been seen as an end to an illness or was it unexpected.  If it was the end of a sickness then he has to some degree prepared himself for the end, but if it is unexpected then try to get him into some support groups in your area, not knowing where you live.  If you are church goers then get support through your church.  Another idea is to get a hold of Health and social Services locally, explain your situation and ask if they know of or have a group that he might get involved in.  You might check around in your local newspaper and see if their are any groups that people can get involved in to get the support that he is going to need.  There might be some better suggest (answers) that someone or some many make.  There is support groups in your area for just this type of support. There is always a lot of good answers when you have a forum like this one.  You have my deepest sympathies for the lose in your family of your Grandmother...  Keep a smile on your face when around your grandfather, this will help.  Good Luck..
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Your biological father may have many issues that your mother was trying to protect you from.  This man who just passed and raised you like his own sounds very much like a loving father. Although you may have resentments against your mom at present, please take it easy on her as she has just lost her life partner.  When the time is right you may want to discuss the issue of your biological father with your mom and she may be able to shed some light on him for you.  She may not speak fondly of this individual and as such you will have to keep an open mind when discussing him with her.  Best of luck and sorry to hear of the loss of the man who raised you.
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really wow that is so cool that your trying to find your father !!\nmy father is dead so yeah i hope someone finds him or knows him.\ndora~*
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I saw my first spirit when I was 14. It was the summer of 1987.(showing my age)My cousin's best friend was killed in a bicycle accident. About 2 months after his death, he made his appearance at my cousin's house outside his bedroom. Since then I seen the spirit of my grandfather (who died a year before my birth) on the 25th anniversary of his death. I believe in psychic abilities...somehow I can receive people's thoughts, but, unable to do it at my own whim. I am able to "know" information about someone that just pops into my head. Again it is random. Try this short activity, when the phone rings *minus caller id* predict who will be on the receiving end. Think of someone that you haven't been in contact in a long time, see if you bump into them or hear from them.
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Well think about it -- what is going on at this point? Hamlet's father has died and his mother is marrying his uncle "hard upon" the heels of his father's death. Now Horatio tells Hamlet that he saw his father's ghost. What does Hamlet do? What state of mind is he in right now? What relationship does he have with Horatio? What questions does he ask Horatio? Please re-read the scene. It's all there in black and white.
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I'm with jbpammy004,  what is your question....I hope you find the answer....However i think i understand what you are saying.  Sounds kind of sad....Hope you have had a chance to see your friend again....Good luck....Don't be sad.
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Reality hit "home".  Also, one of the stages of grief, is anger.\nAllow him to rant, without delving into politics. \nWar seems like such an abstract thing, until you find yourself having made the ultimate sacrifice of your child.\nHis feelings may change in time, and, they may not.  It's something he has to come to terms with, on his own.  And in his own time.\nJust be supportive of him in this time of need.  He may thank you someday for being a caring, "bleeding -heart liberal".  His Republican friends may be spewing the usual "gave his life for his country" type of thing...which, as a father, he may not want to be hearing right now.
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I am not sure if this is right , but to me it means that each person has a special gift and no one person is your equal. So in a since no matter how close you are to your friends you will always be better or worse when you compare each other.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPED!!!
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I think you should also ask someone you respect, like a pastor, older freind, or counsolor. I personaly think it is good he gets to visit his dad. When he becomes older, 8+, you should ask weather he wants to see his dad. It's not right to force a child to see a parent they don't want to see.
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ACTIONS speak so much louder than words. Is he genuinely making an attempt? Has he called and talked to the kids? Has he come to see the kids? Has he paid any child support or asked if there is anything he can do for them? Does he make sure they have what they need? I can understand trying to find yourself and make you way through the music world, but not at the expense of abandoning your children for 4-5 years. If he is genuinely sorry and wants to be a part of you and the kids' life I would give him another chance. BUT I would lay down some ground rules, like you always have to have a number to get ahold of him and have some idea of where he is going to be, no skipping town without a forwarding number or address! And what would he have done if one of the kids had gotten very ill or been in a horrible accident and died? Ask him that. He needs to prioritize his life. If he can't do that, I would cut him loose.
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No.  That's just how life goes.  I never knew either of my grandfathers.  Fortunately, I knew both my grandmothers.  They made great impressions on my life.  I thank God for them both. And, God bless you for reminding me.  They are both gone now.
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It is a natural as birth, I my father died two years ago. He had a maintainable decease Ulcerative colitis. But at 72 he was tired of living. He felt he had done what he was put here to do and there was no talking him out of it. They put him on painkillers and sent him home. He died six months later. It's tempting to say "lost", but this isn't the case in reality. Those who pass over are ever present in our lives. At times you will even hear them speak when you are having troubles. Right now your mother in law is in a safe place and at peace. There is no time, no pain, there is no fear or suffering. Better by far than the place where we live today. If you look ahead I know it sounds far fetched, but you will see her again soon. Time isn't what you think it is.. So waste non of it. 20 years from now this will make even more sense.
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I totally understand what you are asking.  My grandfather spent nearly 10 years caring and loving my grandmother who had Alzheimers.  She passed away, and he got remarried less than 1 year later.  I think you need to look at her from her side.  She obviously loved your father dearly, but when you care for someone that long and there really isn't a whole lot going on between them because the other is sick, it's almost as if the relationship was over a long time before they actually passed away.  It sounds bad, and I don't mean it to, but give your mom the benefit of the doubt.  I'm sure she isn't trying to disrespect anyone.  Good luck.
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No one here could tell me, but I'd like to know if my father who passed away 4 months ago knows that we're okay? And of course if he's okay too, but I really believe he is in a better place now. I really miss him.
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That is so awful.  They say you always lose people in 3's.  Anyway, it is important for me to tell you this...Before we all came to this place we had a plan already written.  In that plan we have 5 ways we can chose to leave this earth to go to the other side.  You sister was needed by God at that time.  She left to help God.  You great-grandson was never meant to come to earth yet, so God took him back until it was the right time.  Our world just wasn't ready for the great being he will now be in another life.  Your daughter had to go to the other side because it was in your life plan to take care of your granddaughter.  I know this all sounds really freaky but believe me... you are doing a great job holding it together.  You shouldn't be worried about helping other people especially on Yahoo!Answers, because your family is going through thier own grieving process and they need you.  You are their rock.  This is your plan.
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Bake him cupcakes...be nicer than usual but not to where its abnormal. Greiving people need a sense of familiarity. I know because I lost my mother three months before hurricane hit and destroyed my home, city, and school. The changes and lack of familiarity to where I was and the friends I wouldn't see for months made coping with my mother's death unbearable. Coping is easier when you continue with life as it was and seeing familliar friends, and that's what you are to him. Be there for him, encourage group activities with your best friend, he and some of his friends to distract him. When you lose someone that close to you, they are on your mind constantly for quite some time, so you and and your friends should be coming up with fun ways to distract him. As a grieving son, he will be so thankful that he had friends to help him get through the hard times.