If someone's husband dies and they loved them very much, but a few years later they married someone else and loved them too, what happens when they go to Heaven?\nWill they have their first and second husband with them, or will the first husband have got jealous and not want to bother with her, or will he have first "Dibs" on her cos they were married first?\nNot trying to cause a riot, I'm genuinely curious cos a woman I know has had two husbands die but she's religious, so I'm just wondering what she thinks will happen but I can't ask her cos I don't want to upset her!!
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I'd like to believe that when people pass over to the other side that they are watching us and that when our time comes to pass over to their side we are re-united with our loved ones no matter who we are married to or love before we pass over. The same can be said for pets we once held so dear too!
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Wifey, Yes God does love you even though you don't believe he does. He did not take your boyfriend or Father away from you. God has a plan for everyone and we all have our time to go and nothing will stop it. God knows exactly when we will die even before we are born. He has plans for you also and one day you will know why. I am sorry for your loss and right now you are grieving and your thinking process is not where it should be. I have lost a love one and I know what your going through. You go through so many things that at times you will think your crazy and believe me your not, just the normal process of grieving. May God hold you close to him just as he did me when I was going through it.
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My friend, I agree with you, yet I also see a more pressing matter at hand. What about those persecutors and all the non-believers? If they die, they will not rejoice with all of us in heaven with the Lord God. I will pray for both the believers and the non-believers. There isn't much I can do from my present state but pray and preach the Word, since i'm not in a position to do anything but that. Email me if you have questions or are a fellow believer in Christ at questinchrist@yahoo.com. God bless
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1)is it sin to have sex,to have kids?\n-- no it is not a sin to have sex to have kids according to my religion that is the only time I am to be having sex.\n2)who loves u more?\n--I would have to say my mom my dad is dead\n3)do u believe in god?\n--yes\n4)who starts the conflict,between the couples?\n-- mainly me (Iam the wife) But most of our fights are started by my mother in law\n5)should kids be given punishments,like slapping,etc..if they do any mischief?\n--I feel the only time to touch a child in a punishment way is if their life is in danger. Like running in to the street. etc.
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Well I must say thats why i stay away from people who I dated in the past who are not of the same religion as myself. I never wanted to have to decide like this myself. Because I could never give up my religion. This life is just a role play so to speak for the next life of eternity. How could I possibly give up my salvation for one person? First we must love God, then we love next our loved ones.  This life is short, the next life is for eternity. Theres a big difference there. But, what would have been nice is if you would have said what each of your religions are. Maybe they arent so different. The only way into heaven is to believe that Jesus died for your sins and receive him as your saviour. As long as both of you believe in that, it doesnt matter what your religions are.  John 3:16  You will both go to heaven. \n\nHere are a few things that might help to know if you are going to heaven/or to help you to gain salvation.\n\nYes. The Bible is not a book of fables. Unlike other spiritual books, it does not demand blind faith. Multiple categories of evidence support the historical accuracy of the Bible as well as its claim to divine authorship.\n\n    * Ancient history supports the Bible's accuracy as a historical record.\n    * The Gospels provide multiple reliable accounts of Jesus' life.\n    * Archaeology backs up the Biblical account.\n    * Textual scholarship confirms that the books of the Bible have not changed since they were first written. \n\nThe most important decision you will ever make in your life is what you decide about how you get to heaven! If you die before you have the right answer to how to be saved, it will be too late. Hebrews 9: 27 says, "And as it is appointed for me(n) to die once, but after this the judgment" You may have heard that there is a "purgatory" where people can cleanse or purge their sins, but this is not taught anywhere in the Bible. You can look from cover to cover and you will not find this taught at all!\n\nSo if once we die there is not a second chance, it makes it all that much more important that we know how to get to heaven now. Do you want to take a chance and end up in eternity separated from God forever? Far too many people listen only to their church to find the answer for the question about how to get to heaven. But what if your church is wrong? When you stand before God, (and we will all stand before Him one day) will you say I "assumed" that my church had the right answer? Do you think this will satisfy God? He, no doubt, will reply, "Didn’t I give you a brain and a soul to use to search for the truth?!" Then if you are not truly right with God when that moment comes, He will say, "Depart from Me, you cursed, into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels." (Matthew 25: 41)\n\nOne of the most popular beliefs about how to get to heaven is by being good. The Bible says that there is no one that is good enough to go to heaven. "As it is written: ‘There is none righteous, no, not one…" (Romans 3: 10) "…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3: 23) "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast." (Ephesians 2: 8, 9)\n\nI am so glad the Bible says: "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 6:23). If you want to spend eternity with God you must be born again! How do you become born again? Only Jesus’ answer can be trusted on such an important subject. "Jesus answered and said to him, ‘Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.’" "Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’" "And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up; that whoever believes in Him
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It doesn't sound like a marriage made in heaven.  If your intuition is telling you something is wrong, then I would have to agree with you on that.  With skimpy facts here, I'd say that there is a rocky road ahead for that couple.
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I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.
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I think you should, but when you feel you are emotionally ready. A very good friend of mine was in a motorcycle accident with his wife in which his wife died.  That was two years ago last Nov.  He wants to move on with his life while his kids don't want him to remarry because they're not ready.  Not everybody will be ready at the same time.  So far, my friend is still a widower and single.  I can see him getting married again and hope he does.  I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you recover from it.\n\nGod designed marriage as a companionship and when you don't have that anymore, you will miss it and want to have it again.  It's only natural in that sense.  Pray for wisdom and God will give it.
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My wife used to be Mormon (and still retains many of their beliefs), so I hope I'm qualified to answer.  I'd like to help, anyways.\n\nIt's not as simple as "when men die they become Gods," but you do have the jist of it.  It's kind of like transcendence, or the concept of Nirvana if you will.  They believe that through many, many steps involving probably millions of years after death, a man can become as God and, yes, can have his own planet by birthing the children with the wife he was sealed to in the temple (which is a totally different subject.)\n\nThe theology behind this is very involved and most of the "scripture" comes from their books.  From the Bible, they follow the track of verses about us becoming like Jesus -- including that verse about "when He shall appear, we shall be like Him; for we shall see Him as He is" (I John 3:2).  Don't fall into the trap of believing they cannot defend their beliefs; they have answers for just about any question that are good enough to confuse.  Satan is no fool.  After all, we are admonished to be "as wise as serpents" (Matthew 10:16).  The only way through the myriad of doctrines rampant throughout the world today is by the Holy Spirit's direction.  I would encourage reading what Jesus said about the Holy Spirit's job in the book of John about leading us into "all truth."\n\nMy wife was raised Mormon and, in later years, learned about the polygamy issues and the blacks not let into the priesthood until 1971 issue.  This has shaken her confidence.  \n\nHope I helped some and that I was not offensive.  I wouldn't want to offend my wife or you, but I do want to relay my observations.  Feel free to e-mail me if questions arise.
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this is such a hard question. i am getting married next month and i can't even begin to describe the feeling i have for him. he makes me happy in all the funniest ways. i couldn't imagine my life without him. especilly it being happy. lord. he is the reason for my happiness. who would i be without him? some say thta you are two people, just one heart. i think different. marriage combines the two of you..eternal...forever! 2 become 1\nsometimes i think that i want to die first so i won't have to deal with the pain. but then that would be selfish and i don't ever wan him to suffer that ype of pain.then on the otherhand i want us to die together neither of us would feel pain afterwards and we would still be together...buried next to each other. you know. \nsome would say that that is still being selfish but no body ever wants to feel that pain..knowing that the person you vowed to give the rest of your if to, is no longer going to be there, but ix feet under you...who could live happily after that?
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I am a Christian and my hubby and I got married in a courthouse. I wasn't pregnant or anything, we just decided it was time to get married. It had no effect on my relationship with God, and in fact parts of the Bible were said at our ceremony. It was blessed by God and I truly believe that.
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Your late husband will ALWAYS know what is going on with you and his boys.  He still loves you, and wants you all to be happy.  If (and when) you meet another man, know that he understands.  He is gone, but you still have a life to continue with.  I can not say I know how you feel.  If I lost my husband, I would have a VERY hard time going on without him.  You have 2 sons to live for and help thru this awful time.  God love you all.
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I have been married twice. I divorced my first husband, not because he was unfaithful. In a nutshell, he was unwilling to work on our marriage. After many years of trying, I finally gave up. \n\nMy second marriage is very happy. We've been married for 20 years. My husband is the dearest person alive! He is my lover, friend, caregiver/nurse, companion, confidant, teacher, and more. \n\nWhen we married he had 4 grown children and a 14 year old. I had 2 sons, ages 7 and 12. He is a great father to them! My ex was a negative influence in their lives. He loved them, but was not a father to them. My husband was retired when we married so he was the parent that was home with them when they came home from school. He attended all their extracurricular activities, took care of them when they were sick, took them to the doctor, disciplined them. In short, he was their dad. My eldest son credits him with being the reason he chose to marry a woman with 4 children and become a step-dad. Both my sons believe their lives were better because I divorced their dad. They loved him (he passed away 2 years ago) but know the kind of person he was. They know how much my husband loves them and has always been there for them.\n\nMarriage is a commitment between a man and a woman to share everything the future brings, the good and the bad. It is a promise to be together until one partner dies, no matter what. Does it always work? I'm living proof that it doesn't. I'm also living proof of what two people can create if they are committed to making their marriage work. Certainly, we have had our problems, differences of opinion, arguments, etc. But we have never lost sight of our love for one another. We work on our marriage every day. Our love continues to grow. We honor and cherish one another.\n\nI generally don't give such long answers, but the more I told you about my marriage the more I had to tell. \n\nGod Bless!\n\nP.S. Below are some links to scripture from BibleGateway.com.
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My sister, all fall short of the golry of God, you, me and everyone else! King David new the Commandments yet still he let his fleshly desires send his friend to be killed so David could have his friends wife! And David was called by God "A man after God's own heart.". Jesus miracle on the cross has covered you from these things, and you are right to grieve and be sorry because God loves the penitent(or humble) person! You've done wrong yet so did all the Apostles at one time or another so take heart my sister, for God hasn't abandoned you! I will pray for you and hope that you will do the same for me, and God bless you and have faith!
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I am sorry to hear about your mom. I pray your grief is short, and joy memories are many.\n\nThe word says in Hebrews, that there is a cloud of witnesses cheering us on in our spiritual walk.\nI don't believe that the ones in heaven can see us in our mundane lives but that since our spirit is eternal now, they can see the things that we do spiritually. So when we get saved, pray for someone lost, struggle with spiritual matters, yes they can be a part of that. \n\ncheering us on!
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obviously the first wife wasn't suitable. because if she was y'all wouldn't had got a divorce... so the first wife is right.. but the second wife could be jealous or envious of the history you have with the first wife... that happens...just tell them to cut it out.. and act like adults... and go on with your life with your present wife... okay.
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If you are trying to get at "Why are there disasters?" or "Why do bad things happen to good people?", then here is my response.\n\nGod loves each one of us (even those of us who don't accept His sacrifice, Jesus) and because this love is just so huge, He is fair.  He doesn't force anyone to love Him.  He lets us choose.  So, why did the sweet lady get her purse stolen?  Because that robber has the same choice that we all make: do we follow what God has told us in His instructions to us (the Bible), have we listened to Jesus and allowed Him to pay for our sins, and have we daily allowed the Holy Spirit to rule our lives?  \n\nSo because we all (even dedicated, born-again Christians) make mistakes, and fall away from God and His word, WE are choosing to live for Him or against Him.  God did make everything perfect- He said that it was after every day- even the sixth day when He made man.  \n\nTo put this all in perspective, though, this life is just a moment in time compared to eternity with Christ.  When we have a bummer week in this life, it seems to last for so long, but 10 years later, we only remember a bit of it.  Same is true when we will be praising God or be banished from His presence for eternity.  Then that will be perfect.  For always.  No more tears.  I have already been praying for you.