I fill my self lonely ! I always thinking about love from young girl !
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NORMAL BUT GO AN HAVE SEX WITH YOUR WIFE WHEN YOU START THINKING
524871
I think you are obsessing about this girl.  It's not uncommon, we all did that...I know I did, boy after boy after boy when I was young!  The reason you can't sleep is you can't find an outlet for your feelings.  The only way to get rid of your restlessness and obsession is to let your feelings out or to act on them.  You know I bet if you were to talk to an adult about this...to a school counsellor, someone you trust to hold your confidence in this matter, they could help you.  Someone who knows you both could actually even pull you together, at least close enough so that you would TALK to this poor girl who is likely clueless to your feelings towards her.  \n\nWhat do you mean it's "a crush on her personality".  That sounds like you really admire her and have a great deal of respect for her, that she has qualities that you either like in a girl or would want for yourself.  Sometimes we obsess with people because we want to be like them.\n\nYou should try to get involved with her somehow, in conversation, in class, in a sport or event.  If all else fails you could write her a letter and tell her your feelings.\n\nJust say, hey, I have to get this off my chest because I can't stop thinking about you and I am very shy, but I think you are terrific.  I don't want you to panic.  I'm not going to stalk you, but I just had to let you know that you are the epitome of a woman and you just had to let her know....something like that where you are not saying I LOVE YOU!!! or making her feel scared or threatened or self-conscious. \n\nYou know even if you write these letters and never give them to her, you will do yourself a favour.  But you can't go on the way you are obviously...so one way or another the story has to end...or begin...the point is something will change when you make a move forward, maybe for the good, maybe for the bad, but at least you won't be "stuck"...which is the worst thing in the world...I know I've been there and sooner or later you gotta take the risk.\n\nYou sound like a really nice boy.  My daughter is goign through this phase in high school and I think girls like it when guys just be themselves and make a move and do anything...like this boy threw leaves in her hair today and she's telling me about it and yesterday he told her she looked goth with her hair the way she styled it...it's little baby steps that get you there...say nice things to girls...they like that...just be yourself as you would with any of your other friends and you're already friends with her brother...so let her see what a great guy you are when you're with him.  You're already IN there...get over that shyness boy! :~)
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hey take a chill pill.... its absolutely normal to fantasize bout another girl.... dont feel bad about it. be aware of your sexuality and preferences. live the way u wanna live.... n dream wat u want.... u live only once... so live life to the fullest.
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You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings!  We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room!  Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed!  Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood.  You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges?  We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into!  Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about.  You do well to listen to people with experience and age.  Don't fight them and their advice!  They really know what's good for you and people your age.  If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard.  Good luck and have fun!
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I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
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I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
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i know u r thinking about ur girl !\ndont worry, this is quite natural ! i guess u r really into the girl ! talk to her .... n try to be her bst frnd ! dont feel lonely man ! this world is all yours ...... be kewl n be a sport ..... thats a quality girls lyk\ngood luck
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YOU don't. You start with you. Like yourself, in fact love yourself. No one will see any value in you if you can't see it in yourself. Since you are young and have your whole life ahead of you I will tell you a secret. You will have many loves, and they all will be special. To focus on a single individual at this time in your life will let much of life slip by. You want to get as much out of life as you can, every day. So go out there and make all the friends you can; soon enough love will come around.
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You sound like you may still be quite young.  If you are, take your time.  Try to relax and enjoy the friends you have.\n\nI think love is hard to find because you are looking for it.  If you don't look so hard, chances are that love will find you.
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well u are probably @ d age n need someone so go n find or seek a lover she is waitin 4 u
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I always enjoy myself because i m such a loving person!LOL
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Yes. What a way to make you feel lonely. Maybe suggest that she also invite one of her man's cute single friends for you to hook up with!
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yo son i got the same excact problem. Thats why im on this stupid website asking questions i already know the answer to. ill be looking in and seein what others say. But i think you should go for it cause I think thats what ive got to do with this girl that i can't stop thinking about every day.
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Its definitely psychological, so don't loose heart. Consult a psychologist and get professional help. Meanwhile try to abstain from girls for sometime.
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im 23 and i have a son in 1st grade. im in college, work, and me and my son live on our own. i get lonely. i have almost no friends because im so picky about who i share my personal info and feelings with and who my son is around and the people that i associate with. but when ever i think about being in a relationship i look at the entire picture and i see myself alone with another child and debt or something like my husband cheating or just negative stuff, i call that my birth control since im not doing anything.\n\nim stopping there before i fill up the entire page and i would like to say i would really enjoy being yahoo buddies and chatting about all types of things, because i know those lonely feelings.
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I feel the same way sometimes and have an interest in know who you are but it is prudent not to rush love, it will come, and when it finds you you'd remain happy.\nNever be desperate for love, you'll sell yourself short.
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Hey girl! You are NOT alone. I am a certified shopaholic like you.  It's therapy for me when I feel lonely or bad about something. Even window shopping gets my spirits up.