He has no car, so he cant come get them dont pay child suport, and wants us to pay for him to see his kids
131614
When you married your wife you took on the responsibility of her kids, everything that goes with her kids.....  I understand with gas being the price it is, but visitation is a completly different thing than child support.  I say you should just love and support your wife, I am sure she hates going over there as much as you...but her kids would resent her in the end if she didn't bring them to see their dad if she had the means to do it.
354417
his idea is nothing short of abuse.  \n\nIf you are in the US, get to the courhouse and file for temporary support and visitation schedules.  \n\nWith a guy like this, you also ned to get an attorney asap.
576543
Forget the CSA; they are just overpaid clerks and are all useless.  This man doesnt want anything to do with his kids, or he would raise hell to get to see them.  Forget him and move on- the CSA can make him pay you, but they will knock it off any benefit you get . They cut my benefit by £50 a week when I had three kids under six- when I asked them why, they said my ex had told them he was paying me £50 every week, when he never ever paid me a penny.  I sold furniture, washing machine, even my bed, to put food on the table, and it was 18 months before they believed me.  The CSA in any case cannot intercede to get him to see his kids- have you tried Social Services- they may spout a load of mumbo-jumbo at you, but they are slightly more human than CSA. Very good luck
586170
It is very sad that has happened but unfortunatly that may be his best option. Does he still pay his child support? He needs to continue paying it even if he is not seeing his son because if they do end up back in court it will look better on him. I know that if you do not have a child back from visitation on time the police can be called, I wonder if it works the other way to. ( like she's not having the boy there for his visitation time if he can call the police on her) He may also try to contact his local DSS office and explain the situation to them and see if they can help or they may know who to contact to help him. Good luck to your friend!
286373
If she moves without your consent, it's considered kidnapping. He's your child, too, and you have every right to see him when you want. Especially since you have joint custody. Talk to a lawyer about that because since you have a court order to pay and see him, she can't just up and leave. Best of luck to you!! :)
305095
You have a child with this moron? File for child support and turn this guy in. He needs help, and you don't need him.
615043
You need to file a petition with the court.  If they ordered that he has visitation rights and she is breaking that order they can haul her back.  They also can suspend her child support payments until those visitation rights are restored.  Just don't do anything without going through the court.
286895
You may not be able to, but the court can.  Is he under court order to pay child support?  Ask an attorney to follow up.\n\nI wish you Peace.
201700
a fat chunk from ur paycheck is what you will be paying.they should contact u withiin a month of processing her petition.  agree with the former response of u made now u gotta pay for them, i have never received a dime of child support, never asked.....but he never sees or talks to his kid either!! what would u prefer?
422683
Seek out a church and speak witht eh priest or preacher.\n\nAsk that the church help you and babies get to another town or county.\n\nIF these other law inforcements aren't helping you, you should contact Dateline NBC. 20/20 ABC  any big news show  and have the whole damned city and county  responsible for your not getting the help rightly due you and children.
224137
You probably need to be speaking to your lawyer about this. He can guide you in your options and how best you can help your child. You child shouldn't be used as a meal ticket by your ex. That's just wrong.
46714
He may need a lawyer to file the request for visitation. That would have been taken care of in divorce court. He has rights and the court needs to know the situation to guarantee his rights are ordered and enforcable. If the mother is unfit and the father cares about his children, it would be morally wrong for him not to remedy the situation.
107344
if he cant get an attorney then you should go get one for him,
130655
Sure the hell is .do you have a court order? let his P.O know if he is not living up to it get help from family services ,he should be getting"hits"which should sent his ass to jail or prison which is where he belongs if he wouldn't take care of his kids.
182038
One other thing you might want to consider is this.  What if he cannot afford to pay more?  Then he'll quit paying, go to jail and you won't get a dime.\n\nI agree that he is fully responsible for those kids so I am not taking sides here.  But I have seen so many people go to jail because they could not afford to pay the amount ordered by the court.\n\nBy the way, I do legal representation/work here in Texas.\nBe careful you don't make it worse on yourself!
226440
take him to a judge show its free!
557174
Jesus shmeesus, take him to court for the back support.  Get the courts to put him in jail if he doesn't pay.  He wants to play games over some five year-old tax check?  You have all the power.  It's time you started acting like it.  You can put this guy through a wall if you want to.  Go get him.