he hurt me so much feelings wise he went off and hung out with 3 other girls on the weekend and NEVER told me about it should i still have feelings for him and should i tell him me
129966
my dear the hurt and pain belong to u and not him and therefore you need to make a decision based on what u feel is best for you. ask yourself if he is worth all the pain you undergo? does he meet your emotional needs or is it just baseless love? choose what it is that works best for you  \nif he did that without telling you what about those things he does behind your back which u don't end up knowing \nthey may be more hurtful than this.\n\nTrust me gal a bad guy is like a disease Keep off early enough to avoid contamination
24226
your asking him to read your mind , guys are'nt good at that. We think more anaylitcal, 1+1=2 that type of thing.  he did'nt even know he hurt your feelings, if he did find out he hurt your feelings i'm sure he would be very sorry, unless he's a jerk or not your friend. give him the benifit of the doubt
229753
maybe because you've been with other guys and he knows about it and he feels like how could you forget about him and be with other guys so soon he's probably as hurt as you guys tend to show their feelings differently than we do give it time and don't be with any other guys if you are still interested in him
2355
If he didn't even tell you he was moving he's not worth your time.  being hurt is hard, but you need to move on.  Good luck.
234866
He is trying to control the situation. He wants you to feel jealous of the other girls.  It isn't important who messed up; what is important is realizing that you did.  Learn from the mistakes you made and move on. Instead of living in the memories go out and create new ones with someone else. Life is about increase. There is no increase in living in the past.
252482
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
353186
Ouch!!  Sounds to me like he's just a selfish guy who doesn't care who he hurts on his way to getting what he wants.  You should feel good though that at least your friend didnt go out with him, valueing your friendship first.  You don't need friends like him anyways.  Good luck!
251144
Yes it was because he's reasons for going out w/u weren't because he liked you.  He's an ungreatful skum bag who should feel bad cause he prob. missed out on a great person.  You deff. gave him the right answer.  He shouldn't have done it in the first place.
592797
I don't blame him for feeling insecure (3x break-up.  that'll screw anyone's head up-boy or girl), but I think you missed your chance to tell him the truth.  At this point he's hanging on to what has passed and like you, doesn't want to feel alone.\n\nSit down with him and tell him that after 3 break-ups, it's time to move on before any of us lose a sense of what we want.\n\nIt's going to hurt, but that's a part of the proccess.
648086
You can approach him and tell him, but be prepared for pain and heart break if he never felt the same about you and did move on.  Or...maybe he did feel the same way and it would work out.  Won't find out unless you take the risk and talk to him and tell him the truth, honestly.
411092
You telling him about the kiss made him jealous, which he responded by allowing a girl to give him head.  Guys like to feel that they are the best.  By you showing attention to another man, he felt less important to you and responded the only way he knew how.  If he is the kind of guy that will try to hurt your feelings every time you hurt his then you should not date, and definitely shouldn't be friends.  I would start dating him casually and let the trust build from there.  The only sad thing is, is that if this does not work out then you are probably going to lose a friend.
188705
i think you wanting more with him then he wants. you both on different pages. i dont feel he is interested in you though he may have given you those type of signals on the weekend you spent together. try talking to him and telling him how you feel, if he doesnt feel the same then move on and dont waste your time with him.
134183
Don't tell him, because you told the girlfriend you wouldn't.  Honor that commitment.  Once she has broken up with him, you can tell him you knew, but since he was never hanging around with you, you didn't have the chance to tell him.  Don't be jealous though when your friends hang out with women, this is just how life works.  You are going to have to get used of it.  You will do the same thing too.
155154
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
343289
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
293109
In a situation like this one good move to make is to sit down without and distractions and talk things through. He will probably accuse you of not trusting him but reassure him that you do it is just uncomfortable for you to know about these other girls. If he loves you or even remotely respects you then he will understand. If he does not understand then he is not worth your pain and suffering. Your life is what you need to focus on and not how your actions will make others feel. Make yourself happy first! If this is upsetting you then talk to him and confront the issue before it gets to far and to in to it. Just go slow and politely and it will work if it is meant to be. Just have an open mind but a firm grip on your feelings.
464016
He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.