There is this other guy now too, we hang out somtimes and i like him, he doesnt like me like that? He also has a bf? What should I do?
129848
You lead a pretty Effed Up life....might be time to think about taking lots of pills and going to sleep.
238798
Have fun with him if you can. If he doesnt like you, move on.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
177750
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
248523
Find out why no one likes you.  And what does it matter.  If you two like each other, than it is no one elses business who u r dating.
61291
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
286424
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
150540
I've been in that position...many times.You can't dwell on your situation too long because when a guy comes a long who really likes you ,you may miss him.You don't want to miss him do you??????Even if nobody likes you for a while its just a phase.please believe me.I have a wonderful bf who when I met him I was liking another guy.
453637
stay away from him and drop your current b/f. Try to find someone who you really enjoy being with besides your friends b/f.
99501
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
566862
He is a shy guy and you are is second girlfriend. Give him time to be comftable around you. He is probably nervous that you will not like him. I am shy too, but after a while I'll trust and feel comftable around guys I meet. \n\nBut I don't get the part of his friends following him when he was following you.
165739
u shouldn't have woven ur tangled mess in the first place. If he's ur guy friend now...then he probably still likes u. That's why he's saying that ur obsessed with him. u can look at it 2 ways.\n\n1) u can tell him to f*ck off, that u never want to see  him again because he's a total playah who can't get over himself...or\n\n2) U can totally go out with him...AGAIN!!! Then u can just get hurt again when he finds a girl who he thinks is prettier. \n\nU sound very confident in ur self and should DEFINETELY think of finding a new "guy friend" THe other dude just sounds like he's messing around with u. That ain't cool in my book.
274143
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
399440
Looks like he's playing both you & the other girl!  No! You shouldn't wait for him to make the choice, you should leave him alone!  If he really likes you & wants to be with you like he said then you'll see what he's really about once you cut him off!
44823
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.
133527
First you must finish with your boyfriend and as gentle as possible as it's not his fault, then when you are free this other guy might take the hint, If not, then make it clear that you like him. If he dosent make a move then you are wasting your time. You sound young so it may not be the love of your life.
383953
Go out with the guy that is going to ask you. Now, deal with this other guy you like more. Just hang out with him and talk to him. If you find that he likes you and you like him then let this other guy understand that you have feelings for someone else. If you were to continue dating him then you would just be on a guilt trip and that is no fun.