Ok a bo i really like is comeing to my house for 3 week and i really like him i have liked him for 5 years and i think i am starting to love him and don't know what i should do. \n\nAlso he  told me he was staing because of me and i mighht not be there should i be there or go to a friends house?\n\nI really like him and will do any thing for him.\n\nI really wanna be there but he knows my brother and i really don't wanna get hurt or hurt him.\n\nWhat should i do
120879
I think that if you think you really like him, then you should spend time together to see if the feelings are real and not just infatuation. Don't do anything stupid like have sex with him. A boy that really likes you for you will not pressure you into ever having sex. Make sure you never give away your self respect, and you will never have regrets .
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
389586
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
136799
I could write on book on this, but I'll try to keep it short.  First, try to follow his request and let him make the first move.  If he doesn't make a move in a week then I'd say there's something wrong with the relationship.  My first guess is that moving in together has caused some problems. By moving in together, he may have learned some things about you that he doesn't like.  It could be that you're messy or your just getting way too much into his business he now misses the privacy he once enjoyed.  You should ask him if there's anything that you do that gets on his nerves and watch his reaction.  If he needs his privacy back, then let him hang out with the boys once a week and don't set a curfew because that will just piss him off even more.  If he wants to stay out late then just tell him to sleep on the sofa.  Good luck...
210947
what's the question here.  You guy wants to be your friend and your lover.  Sounds like he truly cares for you, and he is having you meet his family.  He just might not be ready to fully commit himself to the relationship since he just got out of one.  Just be patient.
359864
Okay, here's the thing, i may not be a professional relationship advisor or something but for you to try to stop liking someone is just inane. Feelings aren't there for you to just ignore. Admit that you still like the guy even though he has someone else already. And it's not like they are married or anything, right? Oh... please... do not mistaken my last sentence for something like trying to destroy their relationship. DON"T! All i am saying is that, it is normal for you to still like the guy. I mean, if he's really that charming or likeable like what you think, sure. However, ask yourself, do you know what kind of guy he really is? You see, people tend to like other people because they like the idea of actually having someone to adore because so far all you've seen him is be charming. You must consider other factors and possibilities. At this point, try looking for things about him (directly -since you mentioned you are coworkers [you can be a friend to him and not flirt] or indirectly - from other people who knows him well more than you do) Curiosity doesn't always kills a cat, you know. Asking is better for you to find out if he is worth your attention or not. Instead of actually falling for this guy (you did mention that it is just a crush, right?) but after a day or two, that's the only time you'd find out she has more than one current girlfriend.
173781
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
401876
u're right, at ur age u should be able to go straight to him and ask him if he feels the same way...u have to do that, there's nothing to loose especially if u say u have very strong feelings for him.\npull urself together and tell him how much u like and appreciate him and if he feels the same ask for his phone number.\nas for ur friend if her brother likes u , well then too bad for her...she'll just have to accept it.\nmuch courage to u !
47254
always go to those who like u...if u goto the guy who U THINK likes u.....might just use u and go on to the next one......either case asking dosent harm....i would go for the person that i am sure about....
543963
I wouldn't allow him to stay in your home. Tell him you would love to have him over  for dinner but that you're not going to be opening your home to any houseguests. Be the bigger person - don't do the finger pointing thing. You know you're right, he knows you're right. Move on from this point. If he is civil during dinner then next time he comes into town invite him to stay in your home.
27176
Alright, I believe that's 2 questions. Pretty smart way to conserve on points. Well as for the 1st, I'd say that's it's probably time to find a new boyfriend. As for the other, Maybe mom would be happier if she did'nt see you waiting around the house for a week wondering what up with the boyfriend.
642712
You should move on if you know/feel that he's not gonna come back to you. But you shouldn't hold a grudge against him for choosing his father over you (no offence). Maybe at that time, when he said he wasn't going to move in with his father, he meant it because he knew that his brother could take care of their father. But when his bro left, he might have been battling whether or not he should go back to his dad. But I guess that for him to do that, he and his dad must really have a strong connection. :)
520529
Wow, OK.  Well, if you don't want to see him - fine.  Tell him you have something on that weekend he is in town.  But by the sound of it, you both have feelings for each other that you both need to resolve.  I would suggest you see him, and tell him you have to talk.  Tell him how you feel, and that you have a suspicion he feels the same way.  What have you got to loose?  If you do both feel the same way, take it from there.  The best relationships / marriages start off as friendships.  My b/f is my best friend, and yes, he could hurt me if he wanted, he has all the amo he needs.  But that is life!  You have to take chances.  He is the most wonderful person I know, and I trust he feels the same about me.  Remember, when you are old and grey, to have a friend is more important than having a lover!
281898
You should not go for anyone your bother has been with. You should be happy your brother found a girl who is likeable and is happy.  \n\nDo not tell her you like her. Family is more important than any girl.
133505
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
604972
my dear your heart only have one place and you say who in it thats only.\nand about your friend you can tell him that you have agood boy friend and you happy with him and you will happy more if your friend be your brother.\nbut donnt leave the boy you love him if he realy good and love you
282488
Don't do anything that you will regret later.  Something does not seem right here.  If the guy you are living with is so great, you would not be thinking of another guy.