I am a graduate student who is trying to determine how most people define sexual satisfaction. It is completely confidential -- there is no way to trace who said what. It will take you under 2 minutes to complete. Serious submissions only, please.\nThank you!!\n\nhttp://www.surveymonkey.com/s.asp?u=524332005308
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To be honest with you....at the end of the experience if both people feel great and comfortable with each other still...then want to go on and enjoy each other even more...I say that's when you both are satisfied...
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Sounds about right.  They seem to be more interested in sex and what others do in the privacy of their own bedroom than the rest of us.  I often wonder where that obsession with sex comes from.  Then I think I probably don't want to know!
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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I wasn't aware that they were. But if you're receiving answers regarding sexual matters "boring", maybe sex in general is "boring" to you, or maybe your current sexual situation is boring to you. Sexual answers are meant to inform, not to excite......once informed, then you can go on to the sexual encounter with the tools you need to protect, provide satisfaction to your partner, yourself, whatever - that's the exciting part. (-:
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Sounds like you have already made up your mind on this one.  How about educating yourself on the subject first.  JPII was a brilliant man and many times there are very good reasons behind things we do not understand.  Try reading Christopher West's "Theology of the Body" which is a work that discussed JPII's Wednesday audiences where he spoke of the beauty of human sexuality.  (BTW, why would WOMEN need access to condoms, they do not have a penis!)
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Excellent question. And to all the doubting ladies in the answers above, this husband gets his wife surprise flowers. Splits the chores at least 50-50 (ha - she doesn't do any yardwork, but I do about a fourth of the laundry, more than half the cooking, and at least half the cleaning). I tell her how beautiful and sexy she is (and she *is*!) Spend time talking to her (when our 3 kids aren't in the way!) and basically everything everyone says I should be doing. We've talked about our sexual desires and it's quite clear that my sexual satisfaction is last on her list of priorities. What she considers good sex is merely adequate "duty" sex to me. I won't complain too much, but it seems like I'm "owed" more than 10 minutes of sex once a week... Not contemplating an affair, but can totally understand where this guy's question is coming from.
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*what do you call a four-hundred pound woman with a yeast infection?????            a whopper with cheese\n\n*what did one gay sperm say to the other?  \nhow we gonna find anything with all this shit around here?
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I think some guys laugh after satisfying sex...not to offend you or to embarrass you. My guy does when he is completely satisfied. Then I know things went great! No doubts.
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Darling, I could go into just how yummy being tied up is, but I actually recommend speaking with the person you know. I would suspect that if you are asking in sincere curiosity and are not being judgmental (which it doesn't sound like you are), you'll get a much better explanation from your conversation. I will say that those who are in heaven with this have multitudes or reasons, so keep that in mind.
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Randy - just maybe they can't cope (promptly) with the amount of abuse being reported to them, across all categories.\n\nThere've been a few questions from trolls, I've sought to answer today, that have been removed by the time I got to the Submit button.\n\nWe could all make a concerted effort simply not to answer such provocative questions (although I suspect that wouldn't be sustained)\n\nAlso, I think it's good etiquette (I've seen others do it) to post a response which says simply Reported - that way others will know not to do likewise.  Of course, in doing so you do lose the anonymity - But I reckon if we can talk about our sexual preferences on this forum, we can be honest enough to admit when we're defending them.   \n \nIn this way, perhaps Yahoo! Answers will find the reports of Abuse a little easier to handle.  \n\nAnyone else got any ideas on how we can help Y!Answers with this?
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In my opinion, it is ok and it is not selfish. This is only my opinion... We have laws governing us and most people and societies have rules, moral laws and religious traditions and beliefs regarding sex. There are also medical and psychological studies regarding effects of m*st*rb*tion, both good and bad. To me, as it is a natural instinct for human to discover sexual attraction and discover sexual pleasure simply by stroking the genitals (usually discovered when pubic hair starts to grow or during the puberty period), it must be ok because we are created this way for reproductive purpose and also for a way to release sexual tension.\n\nFaking is not a good idea. I suggest an open communication during sex, let your partner know what you want done and how you want it done and do the same by asking your partner the same questions. And of course, your partner and you have to agree with each other on what you can do for the other for your mutual sexual pleasure. Don't turn-off your partner voicing your dissatisfaction, instead focus on asking what will make you reach orgasm and pleasure without hinting dissatisfaction.
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Communicate is the best aphrodisiac, I had this problem too. wasn't very interested in sex. I just had lot's on my mind and issues. but once we were able to communicate honestly (so I thought), things got really great.   best sex ever.
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Yes, it bothers me too!  My guess is because society thinks of sex as sensual, which it typically is, they've reversed the definition to say that sensuality is sexual, which it CAN be but doesn't HAVE to be.  \n\nGood question.  :)
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I too am worried about the questions asked and answers given on this board.  The questions asked about sexual subjects concern me, but fortunately they are not too prevalent.  Hopefully there is someone at Yahoo who is monitoring these threads and deleting the crudely sexual questions.\nOf most concern to me is the inability of people who have spoken some form of English for their entire lives to properly phrase a question or answer.\nEven when I was growing up (back in the 1960s-'70s, when dinosaurs still walked the earth ;)), educators told us that form is not important, but content is all that matters.  I disagree; without knowing how to communicate, how do you expect to make your point (or two)?  Many costly mistakes have been made in the world because people did not understand what others were saying, or misinterpreted what was being said.\nThe proper use of the English language seems to be dissolving into a morass of code words and irrationality.
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I'm glad to have been able to find an online article that answered\n\nyour question. I have reposted the link below, with a brief excerpt\n\nthat summarizes the survey.\n\n\n\n"When it comes to women's breasts, that's the surprising verdict from\n\nthe majority of American men responding to a new national survey.\n\n\n\nThe survey, sponsored by Adam & Eve, found that 47 percent of men -\n\nnearly half of those polled - think that women look sexier before they\n\nget artificial breast implants. Only 21 percent of the males surveyed\n\nthink women look sexier after getting implants…\n\n\n\nThe random-digit telephone survey conducted by Harris Interactive of\n\n1,000 adults ages 18 to 65 was sponsored by Adam & Eve to study\n\nAmerican attitudes toward sexuality."
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youre right when you say it's a neverending question with never a concrete answer to be had... all youre going to get are a bunch of other peoples opinions. Personally my own opinion is that if you get married, it becomes your duty to figure out what kind of sexual routine is satisfactory for the both of you. It's completely not fair and cruel for people to withhold sex, but at the same time, it's not fair for people to demand sex. That's why you need to communicate before hand. what you would be satisfied with. Some couples are fine with it being once or twice a week, and some prefer more. It all depends on the couple. For your other question, why do women want it less? I think it's because they have less of a sex drive-less testosterone and lets admit it, less chance of orgasm through sex alone so it's less of a motivation for them to have sex everyday. For women sex is generally a way to express love but for men, sex is just an activity. Most women can sense when their man just wants to f*ck them and I'm sure they don't mind this most of the time but generally they prefer sex to be about love and affection and closeness. I guess that's hard for men to understand, and it's hard for women to understand that men just see it as an activity sometimes separate from love. That's why the sexes need to communicate and sympathize with each other.
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Well, I am afraid and embarrassed to say that I have to go with Sarah Barret! I am not fully aware of what an orgasm is. I feel so dumb! I know it's a climax a woman has while she is having sex, but what causes it and how do you know you are having one? I would like it if you could take time out and email me so I might have a damn clue what all this means. Thanks...