I met this guy at work and we started going to movies and dinner,eventually we hugged then just a couple of days ago he gave me a kiss. Not a deep one just a friendly kiss on the lips.We haven't even held hands. He calls me and we have a great friendship at work and outside. So what I would like to know is if we are together as BF and GF or just friends?
124592
he,s afraid of moving to fast for you!tell him the truth about your feelings!I,m from the old school, bf or gf don,t mean a thing til the wedding is planned, so take your time,relax,slow down!
440269
Girlfriend that is a sign of affection to you, he wants to be more than friends now he wants you for himself, girl go on and get that kiss and make it a good one! LOL
334989
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
59658
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
673456
Did u say platonic and physical intimacy in the same line ???\nWell just keep one thign in mind " Guys will be guys " . So remember to be on guard always.
190364
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
483654
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
217133
he said yes! no matter what he thinks of his girlfriend, he said yes. you do however, need to tell him you only want to go as friends, if you didn't already. and if he likes you, you need to respect his gf and not go ANY further than friends. And if he does just want to go as friends, what a cool guy. Have fun! And good job for asking a guy!
623004
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
252951
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
210947
what's the question here.  You guy wants to be your friend and your lover.  Sounds like he truly cares for you, and he is having you meet his family.  He just might not be ready to fully commit himself to the relationship since he just got out of one.  Just be patient.
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It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
650922
Maybe you should stay friends. Boyfriends come and go. Friendship is (or can be) forever. He sounds like a wonderful friend.
28043
Depending on my realationship with this man depends on how I want him to act. \n\nFirst, you did say cuddling in the movies, so I can only assume that both of us would have to be into each other so I think I would like for a man to be slightly aggressive, to let me know he is just as interested as I am. \n\nI would love a man that asks if everything is cool in regards to the hungry, thirsty, etc. But as far as him asking if Im just ok?, it would depend on if there was really something bothering me. I wouldn't want a guy to just ask it and keep asking when theres nothing wrong with me. Its really cool when he can tell if I am upset or if I'm just in a quiet mood. \n\nI definitely like  the man that can just sit back and kick it. It means that you two are comfortable enough to just hang with each other without all the groping and grunting all the time. It's nice to know you can just relax around someone that you are also romantically interested in. If he can't just relax some days out of the time you are dating and always has to have his hands on you, I dont like that. I mean, a hand on the knee or arm around the shoulder is cool, but I dont want to make out every second of every time we are together. I hope that answers your question lol.
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I'm having the same problem myself. The way I decided to solve my problem, was to be great friends, but casual daters. If you value your relationship (as friends and lovers) talk about it...over chinese food or pizza or something. Really talk about if you think the relationship will last more than a month and what would really change once you 'officially' started dating. would there really be a difference in how you act around each other other than physically (i.e. hand-holding, kissing, etc.)?
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I'm sure since u have been going out that long he wants to kiss you by now.  You both are attracted to eachother, if you werent u wouldnt be bf gf so just make the move yourself....he must be really shy
295415
Single is good for awhile. My guy friend reminded me of the concept of "dating". You are going back out into the social scene and just meeting new people. Forming a friendship is the most healthy way to building a romantic relationship. Your giving yourself and your friend, time to really honestly, get to know each other inside and out. Jumping in is never healthy. If your jumping in for the wrong reasons (lonliness, a "need" for a mate), then you will soon find your relationship ending in a firey crash and burn. Practice patience with your new friend. It's ok to be attracted to him/her but keep a level head and don't let your emotions rule your decisions. I am experiencing this very phenomena about building a friendship first. Together, we are keeping level heads, (even though he is just so dang hot), and it is much more fulfilling and healthy, than any relationship I've had before. The communication is great, we understand and accept where we stand with each other, and we're keeping the door open for the possibility of a wonderful, romantic, relationship to develop. I admit, it's not easy. I am still learning the whole patience thing myself. But this is so good, and healthy. I wish you luck, and hope that you will not jump in to something out of desparation. Be positive, be patient, and ask God to help. God Bless you friend.