I don’t want to hurt her feelings – she’s very sensitive. I've tried being subtle but it doesn't do any good. The ole boy is just needs a rest for a while.
129354
it seems your all questions is silly like this one!!!
475649
Just explain that sometimes you would like to do it a bit gentler. Do it her way sometimes and your way other times.
117673
dont worry about and give her sometime to cool down and then try and talk to her again maybe a couple of weeks.The smartest thing you could do whatever she says or does just be nice to her and that will kill her.  But just dont get into mind games because bottom line at that age she will be a heck of alot better than you.
662496
No, she's just being nice.  You probably could care less if it bothers her, or you wouldn't do it.
102571
thats a hard situation, I doubt anyhting you can ever think of saying in the nicest way will ever make her not get mad. I guess you just need to understand that you tried your best trying to tell her in the nicest way possible and if she gets offended thats a shame, but you need to move out and start your life. Id prolly be like i have a surprise tonight for you, Im going to make you dinner, then after shes all fattened up tell her how much you love her and is going to miss her, good luck
279576
I guess mothers (over their sons) are really nosy...and in terms of the opposite...protective behavior aside...maybe she's looking into how to make herself feel young again? Not too sure...but either way...my gut tells me you should confront the issue and find out what she's really getting out of it...
216713
You continuing to sit with her shows that you are mature. As long as you do not make her feel bad it is okay.  You do not like have to like everyone but treat all people with respect.  No one likes every person that they meet.
617164
no its not wrong to worry you should tell her you trust her and promise things to not do what you don't want her to do but its sweet that you care some guys out here dont really care well im trying to say is talk to her and or tell somebody to watch if you dont trust her well if I were i would trust her alittle and if i was her i would see other boys but dont care about them because i have sombody special already
57172
You arent being paraniod. Tell her that babies arent just cute to hold and rock to sleep. Tell her that she wont have ANY time for herself, and if the boy caves in and leaves (which he prob. will) she will be alone in raiseing the baby. Tell her she should wait until she is both physically possible and finacually stable with a nice man to have a baby. Tell her all about STDs. Tell her it is a woderful thing to have a baby....when she is ready to have one.
651242
I have the same problem. Simply tell her that you aren't trying to be mean and you're sorry she's offended by it. If that doesn't work then just speak to her less often so she'll have less opportunities to say you're being mean.
310550
She's still your mom, right? If she's being too affectionate with someone in front of you and making you feel uncomfortable, tell her. I'd tell you the same if she were dating men. Talk to her about what you need and how you feel. Just don't try to change her because she's a grown woman who can think for herself.
117491
Let her go. Have a talk with her and if she does'nt give just say: I'm hurt by what your doing to me but if you really feel that way and really don't care, that's fine with me! Bye!
351959
i'd wait till you have your baby give it a couple of months then get her by her throat and have a nice quiet word in her ear along the lines of you slapper leave my bloke alone he aint interested go near him again and i will re arrange your face. Failing that ignoring her ( which i know is gonna be sooo hard) and showing the world how happy you and your b/f are will in the end wind her up and she should eventually back off.
252079
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
30238
I am a mother of three chikdren and my husband just brought home a dog in dec...I can relate...best advice i have for you since i am in her shoes...what is really bothering her...tune into what she is constantly harping at the dog for...and if that don't work...do as mine did use a rolled up newspaper on her to get her attention...it don't feel nice...but i would seriously think about that if she is pregnant...give her room and just keep the dog free and clear of her tim the baby comes if possible :o)
522553
I wouldnt worry about it if I where you althought it might make you furious let her think what she wants it's that type of gossip that might fill her less than fulfilling days so in fact your doing the old lady a favour by giving her something to do, Just as long as you and your hubby are straight in understanding the situation then every thing is cool cause at the end of the day he is your real family,under your roof in your bed is what matters the most of what is though of you.
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you swallow first big boy....and see if she will next time.\n\n\nyou want her to do something that may make her feel uncomfortable. DO NOT try to push her into doing something that you yourself wont do.