i shouldn't have been reading his emails i know but he has cheated on b4 do u think its quite innocent or something more.. he has been acting strangly recently
125710
Honestly, cheaters are cheaters.  Even if these things did not mean anything, which they likely didn't sicne they are in cyber world, he would probably mess with  them if he had the chance.  If they live nearby, it is probably just a matter of time before he gets with them.> Sounds to me like he likes flirting with danger, and unfortunately, most times people get swept away by the games they play.
448585
Maybe he didn't expect his ex to attempt to hack into his account?? Just a thought! Whether he goes on porn sites is no longer any of your business, and I doubt he still loves you with no contact... I don't wish to be cruel, but it's time you tried to move on.
148835
Tough one. He could be leaving it open testing your trust. He could want you to find those emails because he wants you to find them to get a divorce. He could just be an idiot. Or the emails don't mean a damn thing to him so he is not worried if you find them because he isn't doing anything wrong. Lots of possibilities. It's your computer too, he left his sign on, you stumbled upon it. However, since you are married and don't trust him, you may have a problem just because of that.
622953
Just be honest with him in a calm manner.  Let him know that you have a feeling that he might be in love with someone else - bring up the archives and the secret email address and just ask him to be honest about why he has these things now.
103900
maybe ur reading to much into it maybe he just hasn't had a chance to call or maybe he is playing u if u see him confront him and find out.
51067
He is contacting you because you are allowing it.  Don't answer his emails.  Don't communicate back, he will get the point eventually.
51328
The most probable reason is he spelled your email address wrong.
608570
You went through his personal stuff thinking you would find something and YOU DID! First off, going through his stuff is wrong and you are in the wrong for doing so; however, since you know whats up why do you want someone in you life like that? He's not going to be able to trust you and vice versa...it doenst get better from here even if you two agree to be with other, cause even though we forgive we never forget.\nYou two are just friends, right?  So then you two are allowed to see other people, right?  Technically, he is doing nothing wrong.  If you want more with him then that shouldhave been stated.  The rules needed to out laid down and I'm thinking they weren't, or were maybe unclear.  All in all, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with other people?  \nI know exactly what youre going through and honey, it wont get easier cause youll keep finding shit out.  Since you had access to his e-mail, youll try to get access to other things, like his phone, voicemail, any other personal stuff...its not cool to go through his shit cause ultimately you know youre gonna find something.  That voice inside, that feeling in your gut...it doesnt lie
303135
if he asks u 2 open his emails, it means he's not hiding anything.\njust ask him casually wat that pic is doing in his inbox \nim sure there's no big deal!\n\nits just that there r so many flirty bitches who like 2 mess up somebody else's relationships
37544
Those are bogus emails, don't you think I would already have that in my bank account if it were real???\nJust delete them...\nIt does no good to write back, it's not a good email address and no one answers...\nBelieve me...
383750
You can't...not from emails. Unless he says it straight out.  Don't read more into emails than there really is.......I've been there.\nGet face to face.....then you'll find out
148833
Confront her... If he knows you have access to his mail, then he's not trying to hide it, so she is the one who is after him, face her with what you've seen, this may wake her up !!
217927
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
236449
No. He's basically hiding things from you. You feel like he should be able to tell you anything. But because he's keeping things from you, its like he doing something behind your back, like cheating. You may be feeling a little insecure but its only because he's making you feel that way.
607796
Oh my God! He sent an email to a female?!!!! THAT SCOUNDREL!!!
67371
Maybe he gave them to you so you COULD snoop to know he's not messing around. \n\nMaybe he did it to throw you off and he has a whole other screen name he uses for the things he doesn't want you to find. \n\nMaybe he did it in hopes you would give him your passwords. \n\nEither way, you trust him or you don't. If you deep down honestly truely did, you wouldn't snoop. You'd forget every password you have of his and go on about your own business. If you have even a little doubt in your head, maybe you should rethink the relationship. He obviously trusts you enough to give you that kind of personal info probably hoping you'd never have to stoop so low you'd spy on him.
223147
Hi, My X use to do the same exact things! I know exactly what it feels like, unfortunately the last few lies I found out were from my children. He was hangin around with a white trash piece of shit that was his sisters friend. He swore up and down they were just friends, come to find out he had been seeing her off and on for about 12 years! I was married to this asshole for 17 of them! Please please... Listen to your heart, especially with his track record.. make sure for yourself and I hope its not true, but that there isn't another woman! I don't know how I didn't find out sooner. I guess the kids were younger..not sure.. But the things you were saying is just how it was with us.. and he didn't even care when we didn't talk I think he actually enjoyed it because there was less to cover up if I wasn't asking him questions! But please keep your eyes and ears open, and I hope you find nothing but just in case hun.. take it from someone who has been there. Take care good luck and if anything changes please keep me informed or if u need another woman to talk to email or im me anytime! Good luck & be strong! Kim