I'm not so into the dating thing right now,but i do want to tell her that I like her a lot.My friends told her that i like her so shes acting weird around me.i sill want to tell her face-to-face  though.Shes very poular, so if i tell her she might tell somebody else.Note that i am very, very shy around her so I REALLY need your help.PLEASE HELP
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There is no better way than to just be blunt. If she acts weird after that, don't go around her for a while. But there's no point in sitting there and worrying all the time when you can just spit it out, and tell her. Honesty. The foundation to any good relationship.
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Guy,Tell her what you just told all of us in your question...\nOr,Find out something that interests her.And start up a conversation on whatever that may be.She will respond positivly towards you for showing an interest in something that she enjoys.\nJust come out and tell her that you really like her.Always works for me...
159136
Ask her!!  I know this sounds scary but it's the only way to be sure.  Just walk up to her and tell her you hear there's a rumour that you like her and then admit that it's true but tell her you've also heard she's seeing someone and if that's true it's cool you'll leave it alone, be confident in your approach and this may surprise her.  Remind yourself before you speak to her that you're a wonderful person and have nothing to be nervous of as she's a lucky girl that it's her you've fallen for.  the worst that can happen is she'll tell you she's not interested tell yourself it's her loss walk away and forget her, there really are plenty more fish in the sea!!!
369334
Just have a simple conversation with her. While talking make your eyes as compatonate as posible. After you're done, smile at her and just walk away. You're telling her that you like her but also telling her that you're not afraid to make a move.
209153
Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
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i think you should defiantly tell her how you feel, she probably feels the same way. you will never know if you dont make a move. now there are two factors you should consider. first, are you sure you really like her. by telling her if you both arent very mature and understand human nature then it will change your relationship. make sure you arent just lonely. best way to tell is wait until you are in a relationship with someone else and see if you still feel the same about her. the second factor is timing. timing is everything. if you are gonna tell her how you feel you have a better chance after she is out the other relationship. good luck
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Well, just tell her. Hey, you may never know that she likes you also. Good luck girl!
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paul i am sorry to say this but this doesn't really sound like much of a problem. I think you should stop worrying about whether she likes you and do something about it. Take control of your life. By now if she hasn't given you any signals, then don't bother, it ain't going to happen anytime soon. You got to come out straight and face her. Its now or never. Be a man!
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I really dpn't get the point why it would break friendship if one would admit their feelings towards the other.. I mean, you two started out as friends and if you are relaly good friends, even if she don't like you, she won't ignore you just because you admitted your feelings for her.. Actually shouldn't it have to be the other way around? As you have said, you two are pretty close friends.. I don't see any problem in taking you relationship a bit further.. Besides, holding hands is a pretty good sign that the girl likes you too.. ~.^\n\nAnyways.. I do think it's the right time for you to tell tyour feelings for her.. Accept whatever she will answer to you ^-^ If you are really into her as you have said, then you definitely should tell her how you feel.. Don't get discouraged if she said she doesn't feel the same way for you (though I think she also likes you). Take courage and tell her!\n\nGood luck then! ^-^
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Well, if you're gonna tell them, there's no way not to be obvious.  Just tell 'em, no point in being embarrassed...so what, you like them.  If you tell them you'll most likely know how they feel too. If they don't like you, then you can focus on moving on.  But if they like you too, then bingo, things could work out.\nNo matter what you do, stop thinking about embarrassment...think about the person.  \nTry to get them in person in a comfortable place (like after school, at the mall, outside, coffee shop)  or give 'em a cute note asking to hang out sometime (give it to them, not their buddy who could read it first...that way you don't have to put ur name on it either which could save any possible embarrassment if he turns out to be a jerk.  Good luck!
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Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.
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I say wait to tell her unless you know that she feels the same way about you. Don't ruin the friendship by telling her your feelings and her not feel the same way about you. \n\nWould you want someone telling your g/f that they liked her?\nThink about it that way.
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i have to agree with the first answer. however, if you dont feel like you can do that, maybe you could just say it in a joking way and see how she reacts. or if you are hanging out and watching a movie just put your arm around her or hold her hand and see how she reacts. this will give you an idea of how she feels. if you are as good of friends as it sounds, it should be ok to just talk about it with her. be upfront. girls like that.
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well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
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WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
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i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
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i think if she sure to aways place herself where you can see her, and im sure she probably smiles alot and probably laughs.. so just be casual... say theres a movie you wanna see, and ask if she liked to go with you, maybe get some dinner before you go? If she is maintaining eye contact and you told her friend you like her, you know the first thing her friend did was go tell her... she likes you back. go for it