I have just recently fell in mad love with this girl, but she just got asked out yesterday, i want 2 know how i can win her back, i know she likes me, but i dont think she wants to break up yet, how do i respond to this?
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What do you mean win her BACK? Were u with her first??
625911
Well, first of all it depends on what u did to make her leave...or if you pushed her away.......it is possible that there is no help.....it really depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up....\n\nbut if u really love this girl...and deep down inside she really loves u, then there is still a chance.....\n\ntake into consideration what she likes and enjoys.....what are her needs and wants......u have to begin there becuase there is where u make a difference....\n\nonce u have identified that.....come up wit som creative ways to capture her heart.....women enjoy romance and that is the entrance into our hearts......come up with ways to romance her back into you life.....\n\ni can tell u what to do, but i can offer you ways to stimulate ure thinking so that you can come up with ways to get her back...afterall, if u have taken the time out to get to know her...u will know how to win her back.....\n\nagain, providing that u didnt push her away considering the circumstances....\n\nhope that helps\n\nSincere
615758
mitr says.... don't leave everything on fate... you have to go out and say her boldly... if you don't say it now, it might be too late for you to say something... she at present doesn't have a bf and also she has been cheated.. it will nto be easy for her to rely on a guy so soon.... but since she knows you from  a long time back, she is definitely going to consider you...\ndon't make her feel that you are coming to her just because of sympathy to what has happened to her... tell her that you had and always will love only a single girl in your life and that is her...\nmake her feel special... give her importance... give her priority.... \ndo something that will make her feel strongly for you... do something so that she actually remembers you 24X7.... it should be a real good one buddy, no matter how crazy it is... \nmitr says... lovers comeout witj some crazy ideas to make their beloved happy... use your imagination and get her.... ... no gains without pain.. you have to tell her about your feelings for her and that too fast.........\ngood lock....
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This is tough. Everyone is in a difficult situation when a guy likes a girl in a relationship, no matter the status of the relationship. I'd say be a friend to her. Hang out with her in moderation so as to not arouse suspicion from the current boyfriend. Give her moral support if she needs it during a possibly impending breakup, but do NOT encourage her to break up with him for you, in any way/shape/form. This could cause gossip, this could cause her to see you as a housebreaker, this could cause boyfriend of the day to kick your ass. And right after she breaks up with him, if this happens, it is not the right time to ask her out. You don't want to be the rebound. And you don't want her when she's just getting over that. It's not the right start to a healthy relationship. Be that good friend for a week, two, as long as you can wait after the breakup, and if you're sure she likes you, ask her out... or maybe sparks will fly before then... anyways... good luck in this hella conundrum
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Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.
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I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
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Well this depends how he says hey is it a hey kind of quite and looks away, or a hey like he forces himself to say it. If it is a quite hello then he obviously wants you back as much as you and is NOT going to step up and say it! Most guys just will not go first. So take the plunge and just tell him Since the day we broke up you have been on my mind! I want to try to make this work again!!! And he will either say He has really missed you or be ignorant and say something stupid like "well I don't know" but don;t worry he will come around if he was truly in love with you! Guys actually have stronger emotions they we give them credit for but half the time they just don't say it b/c they may feel stupid or don't know if you feel the same way. So usually the girls have a make the leap! GOOD LUCK I hope I have helped!
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You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
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You say that you want to know how to get her back, and you know that she is making a mistake....well my friend I think that you need to give it time.  She needs to be able to come to the conclusion on her own that she made a mistake, and that this other guy is not the one for her it simply is not something you can coerce her into.  If you try, you will do nothing more than to drive a larger wedge into your already shattered relationship.  Give her space and time to miss you, and if she doesn't then you have your answer but she can't miss you if you continue to cling to her.\n\nAlso, I think something that you might need to consider as well is would you ever be able to move past her betrayal of you trust?  After all she did start another relationship before ending the one with you first.  \n\nOne other thing to consider is that perhaps your lives are just taking two different paths at the moment.  Maybe she felt that she wanted someone more inline with her own personal goals and aspirations.
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I agree with that saying... try it. It happened to me... I was the one that was left. It really hurt me, but she was  going through a lot and when she came back she told me she couldnt live without me. Give things some time and see what happens. Give her some space and give yourself space. You know, you dont have to date anyone just because you arent with her... you can be alone. I would be alone right now and just see what happens!
420472
Aww just ask her are we going out? Then you can ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. That happened to me too but we had kissed already he asked me so...are you my girlfriend 'n I said well we kissed but i don't know you tell me 'n he said well do you wanna be my girlfriend 'n i said yes we've been together for 2 years lol but that's cute just ask her poor girl is probably waiting for you to ask her soon.
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have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
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Please listen to me carefully.... Talk to her about it because from experience it hurts when one thinks that you are interested and you blow them off with your disinterest. Just tell her how you feel.
560235
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
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Hello there!!=) \n\nWell, i think that you just might have come on too strong and she is shocked from what had happened..So i think that you should give her some time to think about how she feels about you. And she'll come around and let you know how she feels. Just give her few days and for now be cool dont push it...hope this is helpful! gud luck n take cares! =) oh and if she dont give you an answer after a few days then just go up to her and ask her watsup? but try to be cool kay! laterz
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due im a girl and she totally loves you, ask her out before she gets away.call her or email hher right now!!!
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You have it bad for her.  If she liked you, she would have went out with her when you asked her!  Seems like you need to get her out of your system!  It she wanted to go out with her and you asked her, she would no doubt let you know that she was willing to go out with you now!  It seems like you need to get real and forget her!