my best friend has a 9 inch and said he is scared to have sex with his girl friend he met few months ago, please girls help him with some hints...
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Well, my friend, is that all he has?  Nine inches?  \n\nPersonally, for me less than 15 inches is useless.\n\nI hope we are talking about the same thing.  I'm talking about serving platters.\n\nWhat does a 9 inch platter have to do with having sex with his girlfriend?\n\nI'm confused.
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You know that there is an unwritten rule between friends, if your friend likes someone and they like YOU, you need to stay away. Great friends are hard to come by but guys are a dime a dozen!! Besides you mentioned that he was short so obviously it's a problem with you and why would you risk a friendship for someone your not really attracted to anyway?
230525
Ha! I think I just came across your bf's post about his girlfriends butt getting too big. He mentioned how his girlfriend was getting on him for gaining wait and she had "no room" in those jeans to talk.
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I think the best thing to do would be to sit down and talk with her about puberty and sex if you haven't already.  Tell her that she should never let anyone pressure her into having sex and that a guy who tries to push her to do something she isn't ready to do is not the guy for her.  Tell her that there is a lot of responsibility that comes along with having sex, like the possibility of STDs or pregnancy.  If you think it's appropriate, talk about contraception.  It isn't unusual for girls to not have entered puberty by her age--she's perfectly normal in that respect.  But if she's hearing about sex from her friends, then she's old enough to get reliable information from her parents instead of relying on what other kids tell her.  I doubt that most kids that age realize that any girl who has started her periods and has sex can get pregnant, and that anyone who has sex could get an STD.
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Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
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Trust me, i ahve had that expierience.  I have a boy cousin that does that to me and my friend.  I think if they are really young, they just don't know better.  They had to get to know a girls body, so they know what to touch and what not to.  He will probably stop because he will learn not to.
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Not *all* guys hate big girls.  I have heard one theory that if the guy happens to be below, he might be "snuffed out" but even that is extreme.  I think this subject is interesting since guys think that their "size of the pole" is all that matters.  The other theory I've heard is that guys want the girl they can put their arms around and hold safely.  I really don't know what else to say without sounding rude.
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u have put your self in a tight situation.you can not have any type of relation (sexual) with this female. remain a godfather and friend.u are talking about long time friendships and relationships.think about how badly this will affect u,girlf, gfbestf,and most important your god child!!!!!!! you need to stop putting so much taught into her. what if your girl where to find out about these foot rubs etc... Start going out  and doing some romantic things with your girl or most important communicate. Find out how she feels about the relationship but no matter what you guys may come to U CAN'T DATE THE FRIEND!!!!!    If you feel your girl is perfect my best bet would be to stay with her (the grass is never greener on the other side).
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Mann... that's rough.\n\nI used to be pretty skinny too.\n\nMy suggestion? \n\nIf a guy does that again.. kick him in the nuts.\n\nIf it's a girl, well, kick her in the groin anyway.\nIt won't hurt as much but still...\n\nTake care, cupcake.\n\nAll the best...
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you guys are young!\ni was in a situation very similar to hers. \ni thought i would die if the guy i loved didn't take me in his arms and "consummate" our relationship (as you say) \nand well he caved to my wishes and it hurts now. every so often i regret not being a virgin. and we are in a long distance relationship too. and even though its working its tough.\n\ni would say wait. tell her whats in your heart. and it sounds like you have her feelings in mind in deciding not to have sex with her and if u explain that to her I'm sure she would appreciatte that you considered her emotions.
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Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
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ladies....for far too long...we wait on men to tell u our self worth..as my friend here...my girl..please dnt degrade yourself...dont get me wrong I have no problem with the tiny or tight clothes..no one could dress skimpier than I....its how u carry yourself that separates you from the rest..now first of all...if your friend does that...she doesnt have your back..females need to start looking out for each other rather than back biting/stabbing. You have to make sure that whatever you do in this life..you do it for you..let the choice of clothes be cause you love the way u look and you love celebrating yourself...dont wait on a man to tell you what you are worth....always be able to live with your decisions...because they were made by you for you...in your best interest.....because let me tell you..no one will care for your heart...better than you..and only you...so...if your friend wants to go that way...keep her ...at a safe distance...because god knows when next she will try that shit..and keep the guy just as far...always remember though..its not the outside party that must carry the majority of the blame...especially if you knew one before the other...If the one closest to you is the one doing the betrayal..make sure that they are the ones who suffer the consequences ..because the outside party is not obligated to you in any way...they are not obliged to care what destruction they cause..as opposed to the one who is your supposed friend or better/other half...
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try a bigger one...girl
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Be his friend....I mean whats so bad about that..if he tries to have sex with you then he wants more..but friends are ok...as long as it stays friends...if u want space then maybe thats for the best but let him know.
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Why do you care so much,in fact why do almost all men care so much about this.When is the last time a girl was concerned about the size of her vagina seriously.You should be more concerned about what you do with it.Ya know, if you are a good lover or not.Women pretty much all think if a guy is concerned with this ,then they must be a wee bit insecure within themselves.
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Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
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My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.