What is consider cheating? is cheating wrong? why do people cheat?
122671
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
585435
Um, to the technicality dude above, if you are in a relationship, whether married or dating, then it IS cheating.
270622
Once a cheat, always a cheat.\n\nWhat makes you so different?
28211
I believe people can change. Once a cheat always a cheat is very judgmental. Anyway, to spend your life with someone, you need to trust him. If you don't think he can be trusted, don't let him back just because he begged. Only you yourself can decide, please also take your baby into consideration. Wish you the best.
276897
sorry but cheating cheating as long as you have a threesome and both participate
125138
Cheat is usaully associated in a bad way. I feel that we cheat becasue we want life to be easier. When your young, when you are renting an appartment, you will most likely have bills to pay. Like electricity, water, heat, and the most important, your rent. I think some people cheat because they get a thrill of it. To see if they can get away with it or not. It could also be a race to get bigger and better.
318423
i dont think it is cheating if that was the only motive.. you know, i love to meet new people and chat but if it was upseting my partner then i would stop
309659
Cheating is cheating, celebrity or not, and whether you're in love or not.\nSo that's a no.\n\nBut bubbles' answer was pretty good :)
64463
Cheating means that you deceive someone you love (hopefully love anyway). If you do it openly they have the option to kick your butt, join in or leave you alone with your new find.\n\nNot telling them is just a cowardly way of lying. Postponing the truth and hoping it won't be found out.
474165
Cheating is one of the most destructive things that can happen to a person or a relationship.  It's an act of cowardice and happens when a person doesn't love himself enough to expect more of himself.  They rightfully feel that they are a sh*tty person, and so, instead of feeling ashamed of that and working towards improving themselves, they wallow in it and revel in their "badness".  They figure that if they're bad anyway, then there's no reason they shouldn't be completely shameless and callous and go the whole nine yards.  The trouble is that the worse they behave, the deeper they dig the hole they've made for themselves and the more difficult it becomes to turn around and face what they see in the mirror.\n\nCheaters are bad people.  They are low-quality people, not because they don't possess other fine qualities, but quite simply because they have defined themselves as such.  Their failing is in their choice to care about their own selfish WANTS more than about the NEEDS of others.  I don't know about anyone else, but my opinion that is THE definition of a bad person.  At least it's someone I wouldn't want to be associated with.\n\nAnd people who enable cheaters are just as bad in my book.  It might sound strange coming from someone who agrees with swinging, but one of the criteria we have when we had looked for "playmates" was their relationship.  We absolutely refuse to play with anyone who is cheating on their partner, or with people whose relationship is obviously on the rocks.  That, to us, is just unethical.  We work hard at our marriage and have no respect for those who try to cut corners and get out of the work.  \n\nIMO, there is NO justification for cheating.  None, nada, zip, zilch.  There's just NO excuse for lying to your spouse.  I don't buy the "I was protecting her feelings" excuse either.  Your spouse is an adult in an adult relationship; he or she deserves to be given the dignity of a choice as to whether he/she thinks you are worth staying with.  If you're afraid that you're not worth staying with (and that's why you didn't offer him/her the choice), then thurr's yer trouble.
641872
Hey if my girl lets some guy lick her pu$$y, then it's cheating.  Also that $hit can lead to something else.  If i walked into a situation like that, i would bash someone's head in.
555263
Isn't this called cheating?
343295
it is not as easy to cheat, in fact with all the new standards i would say that it is harder. Plus the consequences are worse, (expulsion) \n\nBTW: I think you meant are not is
150601
no, if u think cheating in school is wrong- grow up and wisen up. everyone benefits.
207075
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
123624
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
608407
WELL SOME ONE CHEATING  OR FILIRTING