i asked this Q?? i while ago and NO ONE answered! so.. \nmy friends broke up a while ago cuz of lies and cheating and stuff.. but it was really just a big misunderstaning.. shud they go back out now.. they LOVE eachother--they told me.. so what do u think.. i think they are MEANT for eachother bu ti need your input.. they have so much in common..except he likes UNC and she likes DUKE.. but thats all. they even play the same instrument (trumpet!)!
123449
Why do you need help from a bunch of strangers who don't even know these people.\n\nYou know them, if you think they should be together, then do something to make that happen.  Go to each of them separately and give them the lowdown of what happened.  Then tell them that you expect them to go out and arrange for it to happen.  Then you back off and let nature take it's course.   Simple?  Now, do it.
48992
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
591803
You are best off to remove your self from this triangle before everyone gets hurt. Stay friends with your friend and tell her guy that you will not have anything to do with him even if him and you friend split up as it will harm your frienship. And tell her how he is she deserves to know the truth about him so she can move on to someone who will respect her and love her for herself. You will find the right guy someday don't give up hope you will know when he is the one.
485560
You don't want your friend to fornicate with your ex, that's understandable, but you're no longer with him so they're gonna do whatever they want. It bothers you because either you're jealous, concerned because you don't want him messing with her heart (if he's the reason you guys broke up), annoyed that she's going for him even though she's well within her rights, or you still got feelings for him. Or maybe you're into your friend? Whatever, get over it, he's not your problem anymore, right?
436916
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
417141
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
18684
in my opinion he has found someone else. people do not break up for no reason. if it was money they did not have to break up he just needs to work through it. people break up for a lot of different reasone. they either found someone else or they just simply do not feel the same as they did about that person. if you friend is only 22 she is just starting her life. this is the best thing that could have happened to her. because there is someone out there that will treat her the way she is supose to be treated and have a secure feeling about it not will he leave later. tell her she is free now go live it up and have fun and do not settle for a looser that does not no
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I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
439385
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
516379
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
130829
They don't want to ruin the good relationship they already have. If you break up, then who's to say that you won't be friends anymore. It's all about trust and how well they know each other!
215962
This is typical after a breakup if the two people remain friends.  The problem is that even though you aren't together, you still have feelings for each other and everyone around you will still often treat you like a couple so it is very easy to fall into old patterns.  It doesn't mean anything has changed or that you two should be together, it just means your not able to move on because you two are still so connected by life in general.
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your point would be?  look you like him, don't play foolish games or he will just leave you b. its your friends lose. if he is a good guy, then go get him and don't worry about what your friend has to say.  they broke up for a reason. not your fault.  if the 2 of you are happy then you 2 should be together.
557799
I have to agree with your friend. College is hard enough without having to deal with the drama of a relationship. Focus on your studies for now. Relationships come and go, but friends are friends for life. Besides, you may be surprised at what might come out of that freindship.
612997
Okay first of all since the break up nothing has changed so I'm assuming that you all are still intimate with one another and you're still arguing like lovers do.  The only thing that's bothering you right now is that you don't have that "TITLE" anymore as lovers which means that he can do what he wants and so can you.  So basically this dude is getting his cake and eating it too served on a silver platter with a platinum fork.  Do not allow him to question your where abouts every time especially if he's doing it in a "boyfriend" way.  I mean at this point he's looking at the situation and saying to himself " Why get back together when breaking up with her is just the same plus I get to mess around and not be faulted for it" Does it makes sense to you now!!! Lay down some rules and set boundaries within your relationship as friends and I guarantee you he'll miss that feeling as being your boyfriend and coming running back, it never fells.
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well on one hand you do have a point but think about it, if her bf is a junior and she's a freshman dont you think that they should go? because if they stay together for a real long time he will graduate and by the time she's a junior he wont be around to go with her to her ball so let her enjoy it now when she's with him she deserves to have fun too. and your friend will probably ask her to go with him if he's going because its his gf and I'm sure he would like to spend more time with her and he probably thinks that this is a romantic way for them to get closer and deeper in the relationship he's not gonna ask someone else to go with him if he has his gf and I'm sure he likes her enough to take her is he's going.
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9 times out of 10 they will be right.  For your sake I hope they are not.  If they arent there for you then they really arent friends.  You dont need them.  Unless you are dogging on them because of him.  They deserve your love and attention too.  They are just looking out for you.  They can typically see things you cant when you are in the relationship.