I want my friend to be happy, but she already has a boyfriend.\nI like him too but they're together so I back off.\nPlease help me.
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Tell her and him how you feel
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definately tell your boyfriend how you feel. tell him that you would like to hang out with the friend and the kids and be included in the activities. Tell him your concerns. \n\nHe might just say that maybe he does have feelings for him, but it's not like anything would happen because the other guy is straight. of course this still hurts alot, if not worse.\n\nMaybe you could find a friend of your own. If your attention is all the sudden on someone else other than your boyfriend, it might get his attention, plus you will be happier because you won't be thinking about it the whole time. Your friend wouldn't have to be another guy, it could be a girlfriend. I definately suggest not to make it more than just friends though, because that would most likely be out of spite and just hurt you and your boyfriend way more. \n\ntell your boyfriend how you feel, see what he does. just play it cool. make some new friends. best of luck hun!!
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What should you do? Have fun! Enjoy it. It's part of life. That's what liking somebody is and it's always the beginning of relationships. It changes over time the more you're together.\n\nJust don't drive your friends crazy with that being ALL you talk about. Make a concious effort to realize that there you go again.
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I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
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Keep doing what your doing and put your feelings aside unless you want to risk losing your friend.  This is her time and her relationship or at least possible relationship.  If things between them don't work out then you should ask your friend if she thinks you and this guy might work out.
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Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
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A lot of us have been in a situation similar to this..dont interfere in your friends relationship..they are happy you just have to accept it..you need a boyfriend of your own and then you will be ok.
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Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
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I would try to balance the two. Just remember, boyfriends come and go, friends are forever. No one should ask you to choose though. I always try to be fair on both sides. Nothing worse then when a friend ignores their friends to be totally with their boyfriend.
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hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
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Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
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If you love him your friend should understand that. If she is a good friend she will find her own man and let you be happy. Say yes to the man, you might ever find another good man like that. Oh, congrats!!
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YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
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I would wait and find out if she really does care for you, before doing anything.\nif she loves and cares about you she will wait for you to decide about these feelings that you are having. since you did say she had a boyfriend, please make sure that she is not just using you to make him jealous. WAIT on this and sort your feelings out.  and if they aree your true true friends, they'll accept this choice you have made. if not then they weren't truely ur friends...Goodluck
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I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
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well, i honestly am going through the same sitch right now..i think it more of being jealous that your friend doesn't have time for you anymore & is more likely to be with the guy she is dating..
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You sure you want him for him or just to stick-it to your  "friend"??  I wouldn't call what she's doing the act of a friend!  You certainly don't need any more "friends" like her!\n\nForget Josh - you're too good for this fickle slob!  And what he's doing isn't "sweet".\n\nAdjust your standards and go find a "real" bf - they're out there, believe me!