Im 21 and only had one boyfriend who is also my only lover, should i experiance more?
130418
How do you feel? I have had a bf for 6 years and loved the relationship but I'm glad I get to experience new things now...no not sleeping with 10 at the same time one after another hahaha kidding!!! i like being single after this long cuz i met him when i was 16 and never got to experience anything else. but like other people say that one experience is enough sometimes..you have to know yourself what you want.
91565
It depends in part on your age.  If you are young, and considering "taking the plunge" for the 1st time, keep in mind you will remember this your entire life. You will only have 1 "first time", so make sure you choose your partner very carefully. You want a happy memory, not a regretful one. If you are an experienced adult, there's nothing wrong with spending time with Mr Right Now while you wait for Mr Right to make himself known.  That way, you don't keep trying to make every relationship "the one".  You can spend time with a number of men & find out what you want and (even more important) what you DON'T want in your "Mr Right".   Good Luck
460579
You will grow out of this. Just wait it out, you are more shy around your lover because your to worried about doing something wrong, around your friends its the opposite.
640479
if you haven't carried out your desires you may be curious. I'm straight, however not everyone is. you and only you can make the decision on what you want to do with your life! have you felt this way all your life? or did you break up with someone and had a bad experience? i cant tell you what to do read 1st cor 3:15,16 that's what the good book says. i don't judge others so i hope this can help you somewhat. your asking for signs if you don't know your most likely not. your only 20yrs old and not many relationships. start dating more with men. not just one i mean dating. maybe then you will know? thanks
555912
You thought you were falling for a 27 year old so it sounds like you have an age limit in mind.  He might deceive you on the number of sex partners and so forth just because he has had more experience in life.  If you want to be with someone who will die long before you do, then go for it, if not, then you should move on.
307260
no u might just be more picky then her and waiting for the right guy. there is no reason to just accept who ever because u feel like u are lacking a boyfriend. wait for the right guy he will come along.
631794
Its normal.  Chances are you probably haven't spotted a guy worthy of your time.  I was 17 when I had my first real kiss and didn't give it up till I was 21.  You've got some time.  Hang on and hold out for the right one.  One worthy of the wonderful experience that you can offer.
493369
Honey... don't worry about relationships. Your too young to be monogamous... have fun with your friends. Good luck!
157646
The fact that your attentions are on someone else makes me question the relationship with the first guy. But decide who you like better and make a definate choice. It may end up being the wrong choice, but you will learn from it and hopefully be more wise the next time.
655644
You deserve more. Find someone that makes you feel happy, not confused and sad. Is this only a one -time thing.....?
91642
i feel one on one is best just too much going on out there to trust many partners. find  a person with same drive and fall in love
498685
Young and Vibrant, only last so long. Do your thing, that keeps you alive. There's nothing wrong with going out dancing with family and friends. When two people get together, it shouldn't be where you dictate to one another. The age difference maybe, one of your issues. He has been there done that, 23 it's your stage to go through. LOVE does not trainee you, it sustains you,  when no one else will.  All we can do is truly LIVE for ourselves. Share Great Times with the ones who really LOVE You being You!
158601
When I first started dating, girls didn't stick to just one guy. They went out with lots of different ones. "Going steady" with just one boyfriend was for when you really fell in love and wanted to spend all your free time with the boy you were crazy about. As long as you don't feel like that about either of them, you should spend time with both if you want to. You have lots of time to decide who you want to be with and you probably haven't even met him yet!
612195
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
409548
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
46738
Well, I was taught by my one and only boyfriend that a good kiss is shared with the one you really love...He told me that because he said I was a good kisser, and I've NEVER kissed anyone (and yes I'm almost 18) and sooooo I didn't believe him. And then he said that, and it made perfect sense. Soooo! if you actually love the "experienced" guy, then it'll be all good ;)
192639
not having a boyfriend doesn't mean that you are a bad person missy..however, there is a possibility that you are still repeating the same mistakes that you made in your past relationships that is why they never last..or, it could be that those men that you were with were just not the right guy for you..just live your life and let things be..don't look for him, let him find you...