What would you do if you fell in love with this guy and another girl liked him . He told me he loved me but he's a man whore and shes a whore lol. Should i move on or wait for him and ask him who he wants to be with . This is really hard for me cause i really fell in love with him and now shes telling all her friends how shes gonna get with him and she has pictures of him on her myspace slideshow ! my man ! lol. This is the hardest part. He's not around alot. He's in juvi and only gets out 2 weekends a month but i spent a whole weekend with him and i have never felt that way before. He told me he loved me and bought me candy and lunch =)
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Other than the fact that he probably has several diseases and no future, what else do you like about this loser?\n\nI think your last remark shows how easily this person can play with your feelings.\n\nDo yourself a favor, little one.   You might like the way you "feel" about him, but you don't want to end up on a milkbox.\n\nIf you're just making this up -- well, you got me, and I hope that's all that's going on.  Otherwise, do something for yourself -- go to the zoo.   Help someone who needs help, like a nice, old neighbor (who has a clean mind), like a trustworthy grandmother, who needs an errand done once in a while.\n\nWalk to the park, and look at real people, and how they treat each other.   How they talk to each other.   Life is for learning.\n\nThink about yourself.   And how life has choices that end up messing you for a long time, and spares you from heartache, suffering and years of pain.
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Are you sure this new guys isn't really after you for your body??  It certainly can't be for your brains...or at least your spelling and writing ability.  I just love needy, weak chicks who can't live a second without a man in their lives.  If man #2 didn't show up, you'd still be happy with man #1.  You said nothing that he had done wrong.  You should break up with #1 and stay away from #2 for a least a month so you really know what you want.
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Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
196531
OKAY WELL WHO CAME FIRST YOU OR THE GIRLFRIEND? IF SHE CAME FIRST THEN YOU SHOULD JUST BACK OFF. HE ISNT WORTH YOUR TIME. IF HE CHEATED ON HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HE WILL HONESTLY NOT DO THE SAME THING TO YOU. I KNOW ITS HARD BUT THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE THAT YOU DESERVE AND THEY ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THE GUY YOU ARE SEEING RIGHT NOW. IT WILL BE HARD TO GET OVER HIM BUT WITH FRIENDS AROUND TO HELP YOU THINGS MIGHT GO FASTER THAN YOU THINK. GOOD LUCK AND JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM
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Do you really want a 'man' that shows attention to 'other' girls? What if you were his g/f now and he was treating another the way you say he treats you ? Your suffering from that famous disease:'I want what belongs to another syndrome'! Back off, sweetie, he aint yours ! Peaceout !!!
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Bad place to go ESPECIALLY so soon after he broke up with her. One - she's your best friends ex. There is a reason he broke up with her and you probably don't want to subject yourself to the same just for a little sex.\n\nAlso think about if you did start dating her - do you really think your friend is going to want her hanging out with the both of you or with you guys as a couple? \n\nI understand he's not so broken up about it, but they are still an ex-couple -\n\nMy vote is don't do it.\n\nMiss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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you should find time.. and catch him in a good mood... you should talk to him.. talk about the things you agree on... and what you do that take up his time... tell him your true feelings about him.... talk about the things you agreed on... ask him.. what he found in her and didn't find in you... if he really loves her more than you... dont spend time crying over him.. there are a lot of guys there waiting for their juliet to come... you have to enjoy life now... and have fun! i guess he already moved on.. and so do you.... so go ahead! keep your head up high and smile... dont waste those tears ever again! :)
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I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
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you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
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Frankly, this guy seems like a bit of a jerk. I mean, how could he ask YOU for love advice concerning another girl when he knows how you feel towards him ?? !! ??\nPlease forget about him and find someone your own age.
323612
Let go of Chris. He is totally pulling your chain. If he didn't really like the other girl, he wouldn't be with her. Just concentrate on Dan. He is there for you and not leading you on.
465830
Dont give him no time because look its your time that is getting wasted....go up to him and ask him what is he going to do...stick with you or go to that other gurl.....i mean its not fare to you that you have to wait for him to decide what gurl he wants.....Look if he really likes you like he says he does then there is no reason to even have to think about who he wants......he has to think that, that other gurl stoped calling him not him to her...why is he even going to think about giving her another chance when he now has a good ass gurl? Think about it gurl. Dont go wasting your time....Remember life is short.
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If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
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I agree with a lot of these people, it would be dumb to go back with him, cause i mean of course he says he still love you, your his safety girl, he will go out with you until he finds another girl to like, and as soon as she dumps him, the cycle will start all over again.  But then again you never know he might not, but chances of that is VERY small, so if you ask me then i say don't, unless you really want to!
168609
tell him how you feel. his relationship with the other girl must not be strong enough because he wouldn't be telling you he loved you if he really loved her. you guys have a history, and there's a good chance that he will come back to you.
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You should get over with it. A guy who is not honest to his love, is not the perfect one you are looking for. So keep your friendship. If he wants to get close to you like the other girl(not the girlfriend, he is in love with), you can get a clear conversation & then you can decide what to do ... for now be a friend. Cause things are not always good when they are fast. Give it time, then decide.
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girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.