Shes hiding her phone, some strange girl is texting at 12:30 am telling her, "BTW I'm not hitting on you." Today- a text message asking if she wants to go to the beach. We're supposed to get married in June. I think it's disrespectful. Should I bother to be suspicious?
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Hiding her phone from you??? Obviously, there are some  things she doesnt want you  to discover. Dont be Naive. \n\nAnd  those text messages??? Not from a girl, dude. Just a girl's name. I assure you. But I hope im wronged tho.\n\nTry to sneak and get number, then call it. That will solve  the mystery. But oh,,, use a different number calling the mystery texter not known to ur girfriend.  Good luck
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This sounds like the classic case of him meeting someone and he doesn't want to tell you because just in case it doesn't work he has you hanging on the side. If he confirms it to you. It becomes real. Seeing you made him miss you threw him off. thats why the text. He seems to have the " out of sight out of mind" thing down. My advice stop calling, text, etc. He knows your patterns. You are being to conveint for him.This will have him approaching you instead. Right now you are to predictable to him. Mess with the pattern.Throw him off balance. He calls " look im busy right now can I call you back" then don't he will call you back.. I SWEAR!! tell him sorry I got busy. Don't get into it with him on the phone.. NEVER. keep being busy but say we need to talk, but I can't on the phone I gotta go now if he turns the topic, don't get mad.I know its stupid to play these games but this is the reality of it. THEN!! you decide if you want to put up with it. Confront him when YOU are ready. Then you choose to stay or go. Tell him not playing these games.\nKnow your worth. Don't be a door mat. good luck.
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OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
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To the girls abouve me... i dont think anna88san is talking about a 3-way relationship. Nasty.
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I don't think you did anything wrong...unless you spoke to her in a harsh way...if you didn't then it's her over- reacting! If you both are that close...where you were thinking of proposing to her then I believe she should have gotton rid of those old pictures,unless she still has feelings for this past guy. Other than that I see no reason why she should behave like that. I'm sure you both will work through this...good luck.
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I think she has an integrity issue and I think you should leave her alone.  It also occurs to me that if anything came of you and her, wouldn't everyone know?  I think she's toying with you and seeking a little more gossip to spread.\n\nSorry sweetie.  There are really good girls out there and you deserve so much better than this.
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I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
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Texting another girl does not sound like cheating. The text he is sending would determine if he is cheating.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
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Ya that seems fishy....call her up and ask :)
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Personally I would leave that one alone. Who knows what kind of person she is to be sending pictures like that over the internet to people she doesnt know. who knows how many she is talking to and sending those pics to as well as you. This might not be a girl you would want to get to know. If you have morals and values and self respect you would walk away and leave her to those kind of guys who have no respect for woman in general.
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If u had phoned to say that, would u expect her to say something about the call?\nIt is usually 'mutually understood' that the message(which ever tech. u use) is sent and received. No mention of it has to be made.\nDon't take it personal. \nHowever feel free to bring it up if u really want to know how she feels.
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stop stalking this person.  if they changed their cell phone and did not tell you, then they did not want you to have their new contact information.  get a clue - this is a not-so-subtle message saying "leave me alone".
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Whoa... this woman is a weirdo. She invites you for Thankgiving and then she's in bed with another guy when you get there? Whoa. Hey, it's not because you're nice. It's because she's F.ing warped. Just be glad now you're informed so you can get far away.
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Marriage is pretty serious or at least it should be.  A proposal by text message is pretty lame and pathetic.  I think it is a sign that he does not take marriage or you seriously enough.  You should not have to wonder about it.  Sorry you've had a bad experience twice, but hang it there, someone will come along that will treat you right.
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ok you just said he has other girls numbers on his cell phone and questions if he is cheating. lol\n\nno they are just having bible studies.
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What does the husband think? If there is an understanding between the two of them, then I think its fine. Whatever her real agenda is going on a trip alone without her husband, if she does have something hidden behind her sleeves, then its she is taking an advantage of her husband's trust. And if thats the case, I feel pity for her and the husband as well.
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I think it is cold myself. It is saying right off the bat I don't trust you so I want to protect myself.\n\nThat should be a big wake up call for her.\n\nI would not pay for any of the wedding if she signs it.