do you think its ok for you partner to look at porn at work before and after work? when is it ok?\nalone or with the other?
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I prefer my porn with a partner...nothing wrong with that if both enjoy.  Have you given him the idea that you don't like it?  If so, he may think he has to watch it alone.  All in all, a personal thing really.
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i have the same addiction, feel like Kirk Franklin sometimes, and I have a wife. I'm good looking and I just can't keep away from porn. My wife is satisfied with me sexually and physically, if she knew about my addiction she would probably start to feel insecure. I feel the need to "look", no one that knows me will ever guess it, and I am a very outstanding individual in my circle of my city. I want to get professionall help, but I know that it will hit the airwaves. I can feel your pain, if you feel as if it has become a burden to you.
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Yes it happens to the best of us, if you dont like it you need to lay a clear picture to him about how much it hurts you, over and over if need be, be strict as you feel you need to be, and he will see how much it bothers you, we went threw this also, i know how much i let it mess with my head, i hope you two can work threw this *HUGS* PS if he watches it offten he might need professional help, people can get addicted to porn easier then one might think, seen it on Oprah :P
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Well' I look at it this way. If he is watching porn and getting off instead of getting off with you then most likely he is addicted to it. He needs help. It is not right for a man to fantasize about other women and getting off by it when he has a loving partner at home. Get him some help. If he refuses help you will wind up in divorce. I can hear it in your writing. P.S. He is giving himself to the porn not you. I know this must really hurt your feelings. Try getting him some help before it is to late.
474021
porn is legal. what goes on between consenting adults is no one elses business.\n\nkby\n\n.
17130
Very often looking at porn is an escape from reality. Assuming that your available its being selfish - basically saying Id rather do it myself.  \n\nNot all guys do it - it has something to do with you, because its affecting you - and you should be offended!
167881
Just because he watches porn doesn't mean you can't trust him. Would you feel the same if he was watching horror movies, or cartoons?
500900
Excuse me if I sound a little impolite but I think you have a control issue here! YOU thought it was time to share fantasies; YOU told him you should watch porn together; YOU have a higher sex drive; what can YOU do?\n\nFor goodness sake, give the guy a break.  Not everyone enjoys fantasies and porn and some people are a little uneasy with that level of intimacy.  Listen to him and his needs.  He doesn't want that right now.  Stop pushing or you will lose him.
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You by your question know what is right. I am here to back you up in your decision. You are in control of your own body.He is not. You have made the right decision already in your heart. How dare someone tell a girl like you to go and rent porno movies. If your boyfriend is in that frame of mind tell him to take the matter into his own HANDS, as the milk is not free unless you buy the cow.
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Yes, as a matter of fact, we do. Sometimes me and another female partner will watch porn together to get fresh ideas.
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I do know where you are coming from,and i am not sure how long you have been with you`re fiancee.But having a sence of humour when you are dealing with men is some times best !I say 2 things ,one at least he is`nt doing anything with a another human behide you`re back and 2 it would be so more shocking if it was a channel for the opposite sex !\nIf it was me i would get him back in a wee matter ,but not going to far just see how he likes it ,take a real look at the next fit guy that walks pass both of you .When some hunk comes on telly just say "hes  alright" It just seem strange to us woman because we are not in to porn in any way ,but if you accept it ,and be cool he will love you more !If you want ,ask him why he likes it so much and may do things in your`re relation ship that you haven`t yet explored !But to be honest in life if you are`nt meant to do something it makes it more daring and naughty ,once you accept it and may even say can i watch one with you ,it will be come boring to him and he will stop ,as it is`nt naughty behide you`re back stuff ,and if he does big deal ,as you can please him for real !!!
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Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.
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we jsut pretend to hide it so when you find we can be all " omg what are you doing looking through that stuff! my friend sent it to me" in reality we just dont care. want your man to stop looking at porn? then supply him with enough pics and videos of you wearing, doing, saying all kinds of kinky stuff. chances are we will still look at porn though.
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Yes, it is too much to ask.  I don't see what having kids, him being on call, how often you have sex, or who you live with having anything to do with it.  You state these things but you don't say how they are relevant to your wish.  You haven't stated any reasons why he should not watch porn.  Now if you're saying that he watches it in front of your kids, masturbates to it as your in-laws walk through, leaves it on when he goes out on a call where just anyone could see it, and doesn't have sex with you more often *because* of porn, then you might have a complaint.  However, you say none of those things.
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I'm no authority, yet in my experience viewing porn as a couple is indeed harmful.\n\nFirst off, it creates an unattainable fantasy in each person's mind what normal, healthy sex entails.\n\nSecondly, porn is very addictive.  The more you indulge in it, the more hardcore stuff you need to view in order to "get off".  This can turn into a vicious cycle and lead to many problems ranging from relational problems to serious financial problems.\n\nHow do I know this? I've fought with this demon for years!
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yeah yahoo images has some issues, not just on this, you type in girl and beside pictures of little girls you get pictures of naked women having sex, they really should have some way of separating the porn from the other pictures.  As for your question, I don't know, I suppose everyone has a right to do what they want, but dear lord that is something that could be offensive to even to a open minded porn liking person.  I don't know if it was wrong, but dear lord I think it is something that you shouldn't have to see that's for sure.  I hope you can cleanse your brain.
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Porn is not bad. Porn is good. You are the only guy that I ever heard of who thinks porn is bad. I'm glad I'm not married to you. You are a stick in the mud. You should be supporting her and enjoying it with her. EEERRRrrrrrrrrr!!! OMG!!!!\n\nxo