I'm 13 and I fool around with older guys.. the oldest probably 18. Guys my age are too immature and can't handle me. Am i too young to be sexually active if i protect myself and make sure i don't get hurt .... or pregnant?
138640
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.
25096
I would not consider you a ***** but i would advise you to be very careful and use every protection that you can. I would ask you if you are RESPONSIBLE enough to take on a child for the next 18-20 years of your life? Sex may feel good to you, and it is enjoyable, but it does have a purpose. It is the cement that bonds a man to a woman, and it brings forth new life. I dont believe that at 14 you are really ready for a commetment of that nature. Sit down and really think about it.
64437
No, it's not okay. You guys are way way way too young. I cant imagine what I would have done if I would of been pregnant at that age. I am now 21 and pregnant. Its hard enough now, but think of your financial assets. Can you afford a baby? Are you emotionally stable for a baby? Are you gonna be there to support the girl while she's pregnant? (b/c we need A LOT of support during pregnancy). Think this over, you have a lot going for you evidently, and if I were you, I wouldnt want to mess it up at 18. You got your whole life ahead of you, go have FUN and enjoy being a NON PARENT for a while at least, and enjoy your youth. It dont last too long. Good luck. And stay pregnant free!!
666500
ur only 13? ill tell u like i told the other girl who was 15, all women go through that while in jrhigh and highschool, let him go this is the time for u to have fun with friends go to school, hang with as many cute guys as u want just dont sleep with them, until ur ready to have sex if u did already ok just dont sleep with alot of guys thatll make u a slut, u need to find who u are right now trust me, ull be sayin the same thing about ur next 7 boyfriends in the future then when u get outa highschool ull think about it and realize u wasted ur time u coulda been enjoyin life but instead u were tied down to someone who was playing u.
548535
You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings!  We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room!  Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed!  Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood.  You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges?  We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into!  Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about.  You do well to listen to people with experience and age.  Don't fight them and their advice!  They really know what's good for you and people your age.  If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard.  Good luck and have fun!
312065
Don't worry about it. Kids your age have lots of confusion about sex. And don't have sex yet. Wait. You are too young. Just because other kids are doing it doesn't make it right. You could ruin your life if you do something stupid like that. \n\nI hope you can have an open discussion with your father or another relative about sex in general.
213126
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
560974
Depends how old you are...\n\nMost boys are too immature... Wait until you are the legal age for sex, then find some older men who will take you more seriously... ;)
641991
Maybe you want to feel looked after or even to be dominated?  Age shouldn't matter really (even tho it can cause certain problems ie lack of understanding). Don't let it worry you, just go with it, it may only be a phase anyway. You are still finding yourself.
547661
If you're not ok with saying the word sex, then you're definitely not old enough.  Beyond that, it completely depends on the individuals.  You have to be able to responsibly use birth control, and to deal with potential consequences like pregnacy and STDs.  You should also keep in mind that having had sex makes it a lot harder to break up with someone.
455671
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
37615
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
603686
Wow, if someone actually waited til their thirties now a days, I'd respect them imensely. I honestly don't know if it'd be better or worse. "Down there" would still be a treat because you'd be thirty and still tight. And I don't think it really matters how old you are, your first time is always a thrill. :-)
411588
look, its not evil, but the truth is if you started something, on his side it would be purely sexual. simply put, your agaes arent that far apart, but al lot happens between 17 and 22, a lot more than between 80 and 86. thats just the way of the world.  it might be fun for a while, no denying that, but it wont work out, and youll end up hurt. hes not moving because he knows that, and good for him.  or because you live somewhere that 17 is underage,a and hes waiting for next year. i know this can drive you nuts, and his attention is flattering, but move on, find some one a little closer to your age.  it stinks.  sorry.
309509
Yes..but some questions that kids may have..they may not be able to go to there parents..like i came across a few questions that said...I'm 12 years old..but Iam not ready to have sex..but everyone else is doing...what kind of advice is another kid going to give to a another kid..about something everybody else is doing..or kids that don't know any better..so you have to think about it like that ..Even though some of the kids questions..may be very childish, but you  also have try to think of the kids that are really benefiting from the adults that are giving there insight on there situation..because you may have been through it as a child or no someone who had the same problem..so with your question i think i can go both ways.. because you can choose if your 50yrs old ..and take a kids advice..or your 50yrs old and giving a kid advice..yahoo made the choice on you..
6599
sex comes with a responsibility, in case the worse happens. You need to be ready and fully matured for that. You don't have to burden society. To check this, I guess an age limit was set, and any activity below that age was made illigal.
597686
what does this have to do with me?\n\nyour title sucks!\n\n\nif your adventurous enough to be with a girl i guess you might be maturenough to be with a guy, however if your questioning it and second guessing at all.\nyou prob shouldn't have sex.\n\nnow heres an idea... this i what i would suggest to someone older but i have to just accept the fact that young ppl have goin crazy and f**king all the itme....\n\nget a guy or two and a girl and let him/them watch you with the other chich, and they are allowed to service themselves but they can't touch you unless you touch them first.....\nthat way they get pleasure and so do you and you ccan decide in the moment if your ready for it.\n\ni dunno thats what I would do anyway...and really what guy wouldn't want to watch two chicks goin at it?\nplus theres the off chance he could get tag teamed....