I like a guy, and he's leaving in a couple of months for another country. I have a tiny suspicion (that doesn't look right! how do you spell that?) that he might like me, but I don't know. Should I just let it lie and let him go, or tell him?
124171
U should talk to him, if u don't u may spend the next 20 yrs asking yourself why didn't I? or was he the one?\n\ntalk to him before he leaves
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
169891
Just be honest and tell him the truth. I am sure that he will understand why that you are not ready to date yet. If the guy leaves you then you dont need him. Good Luck.
238382
if he is in your country then have one of his friends that you can trust not to tell him you are coming home, and have him take you boyfriend out some where, like a restaurant, just to "HANG OUT WITH HIM" and then you "RUN IN TO THEM" at the place. but if you are leaving him to go back to your country then that sucks.
270078
you wait or you confront him in a calm manner tell him that i don't want to be confused and you don;t want to receive wrong messages from his gestures,.ask him do you or do you not be honest with your answer it's a one time shot if you lose you will lose a person you really desire. it's up to you, tell him that!
97310
Haha, why do you want to tell him?\nDon't worry about guys right now.\n\nBut if you wanna tell him, just say you like him and find out what he says.  Nothing's better than being honest.
349677
Only one way to find out: go up to him and say "There's this rumor going around that you like me.  Is it true?"  If your feeling especially bold, say "Well, I like you so I hope it is."  If you say that last part, most likely he will admit his true feelings.
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When a guy comes up looking for you  and when you find them start studdering and asking about things that you have done , yeah i would have to say they like you  there are 2 ways you could take that  you could confront him and see what happens or you could leave it alone and see if he says somthing to you but if you wait too long the opportunity could pass you by  he may decide hes intrested in someone elce if you dont show some intrest
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Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
18551
Don't wait to tell him. He may think you only like him as a friend and he doesn't want to cross the line. What if he ends up with someone else and you are still alone?
156803
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
415413
I think that you should just ask him how he feels.  I wouldn't go where I am really not wanted.
310833
you only live once, tell him. and if he doesn't like you, then it's gotta be his loss. besides you will probably grow out of liking him in a few months anyway. so just enjoy life for now and date around. key word "date" nothing more. life is too short to have regrets.
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He has already told you he wasn't asking you out for his personal reasons.The reason will probably still be there .He may be going to see someone he is long distance relationship with .Let it go because he may be just seeing if you'll be waiting for him to ask . Even if he does ask , he didn't for a REASON at first and sounds like head games.
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IT'S WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE. I'M LONG PAST MY TEENAGE YEARS BUT I STILL THINK THAT'S REALLY SWEET. WHEN YOU GET BACK TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HIM. IM SURE HE ALREADY KNOWS. HAVE A GREAT VACATION!!!!
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Hi.  My  advice is, strongly, that if he can't let you know now at the beginning that  he  fancies you, then WALK AWAY NOW before you waste any more energy on him!  It's your job to do your stuff, such as discreetly letting him know that you like him.  If he can't even rise to the occasion to let you know that he likes you back then you are in for utter misery if you keep liking him! Let go, and be ready to meet a guy who has the guts to go after you.  Such a guy will also be able to communicate his feelings while in  relationship.
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just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?