Can you finger a girl if she's having her period? Is there ever a time of month that's not a good time? My girlfriend told me that it wasn't a good time. Is this because she didn't want to, or something else?
126782
You can, but every girl is different. Some don't feel comfortable with being sexual during their periods.
604483
Maybe she just honestly doesnt like the feel of your fingers in her. Relax and please her any other way she will allow you to.
61892
...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)
435751
haha don't worry there. the first year or two your periods are going to be a little off. it's stil adjusting. don't worrry. some girls even skip a month sometimes. don't worry though. if you feel as though you need to see a doctor..see one. but i really do'nt think you should worry. it happens.
194948
It's just a coincidence. Sex won't make your period come earlier because there are hormones, etc involved.
214133
Wait...I never understood this concept.  I guess if I'm busy enough, I won't think about it.  Wait, I go to bed thinking about it and wake up thinking about it.  Is there a psychological difference between not having that and self....satisfaction during a month's time?  I doubt it.  Isn't getting it one of the best stress relievers?  Plus, if Posh wants some....is Becks going to deny her?  I WOULDN'T!!!!!
640621
You wont hurt her, unless she is cramping.  It can get messy, put a towel underneath her, do it in the shower, or wear a condom.  I actually like sex better when i'm on my period, i'm much hornier then.
123319
Yes, because I feel a heightened intimacy during that time of the month. I took a tip from someone else on this site who suggested doing it in the shower, vaginally, with your man behind you, while the water streams down on the 2 of you. It is SOOO HOTTT!!! "Should women?" There is no harm in it. I would suggest trying it if you are curious about it. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again. As far as your question,"Should HE be the one to choose?" Heck no, girl. Nobody else ever chooses what I do with my body!!! EVER!!!
278621
Girls like to be touched...massages are always good, rubbing us or touching us is good.  Kissing a girl's neck, and then her breast (if she lets you) is great!  Rubbing her breast (again if she lets you) is good too.  Using your tongue to tickle her belly button is fun.  Taking off her clothes (you know, if she lets you) and playing in her "playground" is great.  Using your tongue to play in her "playground" is better.  \nJust a few ideas.\n\nEmail me if you want more graphic one!\nvnilla99@hotmail.com
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If she doesn't like it, she does't like it.  However, if she's never tried it then she doesn't know what she's missing.  I like it, not all the time, have to be in the right mood for it.  The first time I tried it I honestly was wasted drunk, my b/f had been trying to get me to do it and when he saw the opportunity he took it.  He's lucky I enjoyed it though, or else it could've been rape.  I am not suggesting get her drunk, you've got to talk her into it.  When you go down on her, just as she's about to cum, push a finger into her ass so she cums with your finger there.  She may want you to do it again.
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First of all you have to be the biggest jerk to say that about yr gf! Do u understand what we women go thru every month the bloating, fatigue, cramps, breast tenderness? What r we going to celebrate rainbows and puppies during that excruciating time? Hell no bc rainbows only come after cold dreary rain and puppies turn into dogs and can bite ppl so u need to practice compassion bc if i were yr gf i would smack u for that bs u just posted! Stick a tampon in yr anus honey and keep it there!
326365
It has nothing to do with your period. I assume you are still young. At your age your period will not be completely regular yet. For a lot of woman their period will never be completely regular. Don't worry about it.
126047
Yes, it is safe to mast-rb-te while on your period. It is normal to feel sexually aroused during your period. Orgasms relieve menstral cramps.
663017
Yes ...it should hold off your next period. It is not uncommon for females to use this to abstain from having a monthly.My gyn said that there is no harm in this practice ...but that once in a while you should allow yourself to have a cycle.
307295
my first time was completely painless.  why?  cause the guy was tiny, i'm talking pinky finger.  so it wasn't a problem for me.  good luck!
267800
i just play with my clit... i dont like fingerin myself, i like a guy doin it. I have no toys... yet and i do it every once in a while. I dont do it dat often... once or twice a month maybe ?
561346
No problem.  If I am willing to let her swallow, why should I not respect her enough to kiss her afterwards.  In fact, when I was younger... if I c*me too soon, I would go down and finish her off orally to make sure she wasn't left out.  And like one of the posters above, I've been with girls that wanted to watch two guys have sex.  Seems only fair... which leads to MY question (which I will post next)... If guys are so hot on watching two girls get it on, why do they get so uptight at even the thought of seeing another guy nude in the room... let alone having interaction with him?