one of my friends hates to be seen with me. when im tring to talk to her she has to "leave" she gives me attitude and murdious looks. we've gotten in two fights so far this year cuz i told her how i felt. when we get into fights she tells lies about me.
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Obviously she's not a friend if she treats you this way. try hanging out with someone else who is NOT ashamed of being seen with you. And if she keeps giving you attitude, stop talking to her. I'm sure you're not the only person she does this to. A TRUE friend does not treat a friend like dirt. And if she's saying lies about you then she's jealous about something. I can already tell that you are a TRUE friend, because you are willing to save this friendship with this nasty person by finding out what you can do. We need more people like you. So in answering your question, when you walk by her just smile. BIG!!
316995
Don't pick a side.  Fights are little glitches in friendships and in time they work themselves out.  Real friends will not ask or make you to choose sides.  And as for the friends that are mad at you.  It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for something you are not.  They will get over it too.
676523
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature . \n\nafter speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
621185
My friend was jealous of my relationship with this guy I was hanging out with (she is married, I am not). She listened to someone else and their opinions and freaked out on me at the bar, in front of everyone and called me a sl*t and other names. We were supposed to go on a trip together in a week with a group of friends. I canceled my hotel reservations. Then the friend whose birthday it was heard about it and she asked me to still come, saying she would uninvite the other friend (they were closer than we were). Told her she did not have to do that, but the trip was pretty awkward. Our friendship was never the same after that, even though she apologized, and now we aren't friends anymore.
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Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
460297
Hi, The best thing to do is find another friend.  She is NO friend if she does this.  Start socializing with others and try not to be around her.  She is toxic to you and exactly what is happening to you is the result.  She will lower your self esteem and ruin your self confidence.  Remind yourself that what she is saying and doing is not the truth and she is not a friend.  Surround yourself with positive, content, and happy people.
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Show her thru your actions and words what a valuable friend she is to you. Find other people who recognise these qualities in her and both of you hang out with them. Affirm her kind actions and words and in time she'll come to believe that what you say is true. I know... i've been in her place and a very special friend turned my lofe around  by doing this for me. Be patient...it may take a while for negative stuff to be replaced by good but if you gently keep at it, it will happen.
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THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.
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She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
100662
Are you one? A liar. All friends have problems but friendship is based on trust and forgiveness if she doesnt trust you and is into name calling/ talking behind your back then who needs a friend like that. Tell her she not being a good friend and discuss whatever it is that made her call you that. If that doesnt work, ignore her and find a new best friend.
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If you think your friend is good to you, see for yourself. Your friends are telling you to watch out right? So I think you shouold. I have been in this situation myself, and what I do is I stay friends with the person, and if I start to notice that they are bad, I trust my other friends on that. It's all about instinct!
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I, too have drifted away from friends I know since childhood. The best thing to do is have a peer mediation. Sounds totally, dorky, right?  Talk to her privately, so no one get embarrassed and tell her your honest feelings. i know it may be hard at first, but trust me, once you get going, it'll be easier. Set up some rules, like no interruptions, and let her talk. Tell her she's been hurting you, and that she's too bossy! don't raise your voice or tell her you hate her though. =P LET HER TALK TOO! Maybe she's been going through something. when my friends and I did this, I let them talk also. WE all ended on the floor bawling, but it was GOOD. I felt...RELIEVED. My friends and I are A LOT happier, and now, we know to talk BEFORE we blow up. Let her say what she needs too, but IF SHE starts getting aggressive, or rude-WALK AWAY. You don't deserve that. Maybe your friendship can be salvaged, most likely no, but at least you won't end the friendship on bad terms. Tell her that this is what's best for both of you, and you know longer desire her he company. Be the better person and walk away if things get ugly.\nGod bless, hun!
483476
Yeah take her with - you loose out on nothing. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. If you really dont want to take her thiknk of a good excuse = otherwise you'll just be creating an enemy.
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Its funny because I've just gone through this.  Remember, you must make yourself happy and no one else.  Maybe she's jealous of all the attention you're getting, who knows.  If she's your friend, she wouldn't be jeolous and will eventually come around.  If she doesn't, she was never your friend to begin with.  Enjoy your life, have fun and don't ever worry about what the next person, friend or foe, has to say.  BE HAPPY!!!!!
453976
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.
13411
there may be reasons why they talk about her, maybe she did something wrong, talk about it. just stay by her side. its nice that she still has YOU as her friend who would not turn against her. RIGHT?
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first try to get a quiet place where you and your friend can talk about every thing both of you have to realize that in every relationship people fight and argue also you have to be willing to whatever your friend is going to say whether good or bad also don't take it in a negative way and if she still doesn't want to talk just let it go maybe she was never your real friend anyway sorry hope all works out for you