i am thinking about calling him can some one tell me what to do about this boim i am so confused
130342
LOL, well just tell him you really like that date and ask if he enjoyed it or not. If he did, he might ask you out again. Or you can just say, i wonder if we have a next time.
140568
well, when you called him did he answer the phone? if not, well I'd say to not call him again...atleast not yet....wait to see if he calls you. because something may have come up and he hasn't been able to call you back or anything. but if you see that a week or 2 has gone by and he hasn't called, call him and if he still doesn't answer you, then I say "kick him to the curb"... since you two were only getting to know each other and not dating or being boyfriend/girlfriend, then there's nothing binding you two. so I'd say go out and don't worry too much about him not calling you.. but like I said..give him a week or two and then call him.  hope i helped out in some way..\n\ngood luck!
66544
This guy sounds like he's really confused and a bit immature.  I think you really need to answer that phone and tell him how much you were hurt by what he did to you.  Talk it over . . . you might be surprised to find that he's been just as torn up about this as you have been!
596039
Give him your number this time and talk on the phone.  See if your personalities click.
626952
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
474352
Do NOT call him. You have already done too much. Distract yourself and let him come to you.
371040
I think you should phone him. Find out if he wants to do something. He can only say no, or if he is to shy to call you then he will be happy you called. \n\nOr you could give your number to me and I will call you. The choice is yours.
85845
don't contact him at all!!!!\nthis is the best advise you will ever get!!!
130582
Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
359224
Move on try to be strong and if it's to be it will be. so quit calling him and let him call you and show the effort give him a chance to chase you.
31708
Change your phone number!  It sounds like another person likes one of you and is trying to break you guys up!  Change the # and be careful who you give it to!
388845
You should definitely wait for him to call you back. You've been doing all of the calling thus far and if you continue he'll think you're desperate.
86472
Maybe you should phone him?
492560
have nothing more to do with him .. when he calls just dont  talk to him .. the more you communcate with him the more he will see it as you may want to get back together
651458
Don't call him! and it is a good think that you changed your phone number.\nAfter 5 years together he just takes off with no explanation?! I know it's very difficult for you and it's going to take sometime for you to get over it, but he is a jerk! If I were you, i won't talk to him even if he comes by and drops on his knees!!
299182
you should go talk to him directly and tell him how you feel. maybe he interpreted your note differently than you intended.
179611
maybe u should just answer the phone and see who it is...and if its freakin u out..tell someone who can help ya