Do you think your life would have been different if you were born to someone else?
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I watched a lot of films: some parents are rich, some are bad (drink all day), and some own warm hearts...\n  I used to dream I have perfect parents. Now I know it's just a dream...\n   I love my parents. They give me this life, give me my body.  In Orient, when children grow up, they must to support maintain their parents.\n Think about your mom, your dad, and understand them.
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think about how you would feel if someone you love would go to another love and may forget about you and your kids
335828
You can't have everything.  If you don't have children, you are free to do other things.  And there were many things I wanted to do but couldn't because I had decided to have a baby.\n\nDo I wish I didn't have him, absolutely not. He is a big part of my life and so many things that I could have done, would have been long forgotten by now.  For me, it was the right decision, but it would not be for everyone.
541672
No, I've had some pretty bad experiences, but life is a learning experience. If I went back in time and changed one of my mistakes, who's to say I wouldn't make an even more devastating one in the future? I'll stick with the mistakes I've already made; at least I know I can survive, and work through those.
315145
Absolutely not! Your only human afterall. Sometimes bonds with another person are so strong we feel as though we have known them all our lives when this happens it hard to picture our lives without them. I have been down this road a time or to. *smile* dear your normal.
18599
are you closer with one of them? do you have similar beliefs, temperaments, etc? Its hard to say which person you should choose, not knowing much about either one.
230285
It wouldn't matter because they should respect you and care for the person you are now, not for what you did in the past.
67573
Personally I would stay who I am cuz we ALL got issues...I have complications figuring out how to deal with my own let alone someone elses.
12822
i would pick a new born....i could live my life again
237549
THAT YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THE SAME BIRTH DAY. WHO CARES???NEXT QUESTION????
208285
I am the youngest of four, although 2 have since passed away. I was in a unique position because my parents were away from each other for many years. My oldest sister was 16 when I was born, my brother nearly 10, and my other sister almost 6. As a result, I didn't get to play with them as such, but they did become surrogate parents especially as my parents got older and less energetic. I was pretty well raised by them. My parents provided financial and physical support, but my siblings were the ones I went to with my problems. I don't think I grew up spoiled, I had to compete with nieces and nephews from an early age. As the youngest, the tables are turned now and my elderly parents need me. I still have the stamina I might not have had if I were older.
65575
no, think that would be about right.\n\nAslo try not compare you to other people, it is not worth the fustraion.
343163
If I had known you were going to be like you are I would have aborted you\n\nHow do you think it made me feel?
196844
Yes! I have an adopted daughter and I have twin girls. I love all the same but there is a difference in the closeness I think because I gave birth to the twins
239286
The first time they laid my newborn son in my arms. EVERY priority in my world changed! If I was not an adult then, I had better become one real quick, because I had to meet every need he had in this world. I did, he grew up, and now has kids of his own.
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My brother and I both grew up knowing from the start that we were adopted.  Yes we are biological brother and sister.  I don't feel that it affected me at all rather than the void of not knowing where I came from.  I think that I keep people at more of a distance now that I have been reunited with my birthfamily (due to alot of deceit and unanswered questions).
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I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.