There is this friend spaghetti monster I have, she is older than me- she's 2.34958743 times older than the earth. She used to live on Planet-(no translation, in another galaxy). She has long beautiful angel hair, and is about 5 foot 6. I like the color of her sauce (its out of this world!) Oh, and her spaceship really turns me on. If you saw her, you would be jealous.\n\n She has known me since I was 9, and she always had a crush on me. We were only friends for about 10 years. She asked me if I loved her, and I said, "Of course". We got married, and still are. Then we had kids, and they are pretty cool looking. I can't tell you any more details though, because you might call the CIA or something. \n\nBased on the information above, do you think I would be able to love you?
123823
If you love a spaghetti monster than you can love .. so yeah I think you could love me. :)but you wouldn't want to play Mrs spaghetti dirty.
470801
Is he wealthy? What do you think the attraction is? At 20, she is old enough to be making decisions for herself.....you've given her guidance, but now she has to make that decision.\n\nWhat would worry me is WHY she is attracted to older men. Often it is because of a previous molestation by an older man. Is that a possibility? If so, I would suggest some serious counseling by a professional....NOT clergy type....they would just continue the problem.
279320
WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
227688
My partner died of (breast) cancer at the age of 34 - ten years ago. I still have a deep love for her...her memory and the time we spent together. I started dating after about three years and eventually married after five years. I occasionally talk about her to my wife who knows that I loved her  agreat deal. It was a very powerful time in my life going through the whole process, both painfull and very special - magical at times and a deeply spiritual expereince. I would never want to forget it as a monumental time. However, life moves forwards in every way. It was funny that my partners mother was in Aushwitz and I went to see her about a month after the funeral. She asked me if I had found a new girlfreind yet! I told her that not enought time had passed. She told me to get on with life. She, if anyone, should know such things. It took me some time to integrate what had happened then I did move on. And now I have a great wife and i am in the next chapter of the story. Turn the page when you are ready and remember that the previous chapter will always be there...dont' wait longer than you need to and let it unfold naturally. Good luck.
122973
ok, for starters, let me tell you that I think it is awesome to be 30 and unmarried.  I believe that people are so friggin in a hurry to get married at such a young age that they (me included) dont know what the H3ll they are doing!  You have gained maturtiy with age, and seem to have a great relationship started here.  Sounds like FUN!!  I particularly want to ask...What are you waiting for to tell her?  Don't let society be your influence.  It influences WAY too much.  If your feelings for her are those of love, then, by all means, tell her.  If they aren't, or you aren't sure yet, dont say it yet, but DO express to her how much you enjoy her company, and that you have strong feelings for her.  Something to boost her confidence in you, and make her feel a little more secure in the relationship.  I LOVE reading these little stories of new love, I ENJOYED that feeling SO much, and guess it is a way to live it again  ;)  Have fun, and take care of you and yours!!  Good luck friend!
530496
this lady seemed completely fascinated by your looks - it does seem like a wonderful combination.  \nOther than that - people are just people and there is no guarantee that you will like a particular race of persons more than another.  The only think that I can ever believe will work is to be yourself no matter who you meet and try to get to know a person before going to far with the physical part of the relationship.  But sounds like you know that because you are waiting and taking the time to think about what the lady said.\nI don't think it matters if she was serious or not, only what you believe.  \nHope you enjoyed your meal!  But it just proves once again what I have always told my children - there is no such thing as a free lunch.  God Bless!
25025
I agree totally with ft402003, and I might add that I was just platonic friends with my husband for TEN LONG YEARS before we knew we loved each other.  TEN YEARS!!!!  That is a long time, buddy.  My sister told me once that friends make the best spouses, and I thought YUCK!  But, she was totally right.  When you talk to your "friend", you might tell her to not be afraid to go a step further, and to not be repulsed by it.  Let her know that you are just as afraid as her.  But, whatever you do, don't let her get away.  It is better to tell her how you feel than to keep suffering.  And if she doesn't go for it, then it is HER loss.  Not yours.  HERS.
317936
Hey, I know the feeling. I know this guy name Kipp and this chick named Cassi who is one of my BFFz and she is always caught up in a love triangle and doesn't know what to do. I say meet this guy and be yourself. Think positive and hold life with a tight grip and loosen up occasionally. I would go up to the movies and be normal and just sit next to him and talk and crack jokes and stuff, but play it cool, don't look like a loser and trip over your own two feet like I did on a date. Good Luck, and I hope it goes well! Oh, and stay away from guys named Zach! By the way, My cat's name is Sherry Ann!! How ironic?!?!
506617
i think you were attracted to her because she grows different comapred from her childhood.\nif you love her, don't make the temptation lead in your mind. face the reality. god is watching us and he knows what we are doing. if you can't hold it, live it to the god because he find way to put you in right situation. just pray.\n\nin addition : i think you are a good guy. god give you a trial to confirm that good guy still exist in this world.\nif i'm right, hope my becoming bf is like you.
191550
how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
123203
I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
509954
Oh yeah! A beautiful redhead, a few years older than me, way out of my league. But I couldn't help making a fool of myself! I probably would have robbed a bank for her if she'd asked me to! Ah, the classic teenage crush on an older person. Very painful, very deep learning experiance!
353876
Females are a different kind of creature all on their own. It's like if we say no, it means yes! Females believe in "romance". I think your friend is wanting more personal attention from you, without having to really ask for it. She wants it to be your own idea. So maybe she thought if she told you she needed "time", you might get scared you may be losing her, and make a quick step forward! I know it sounds silly, but like I said, we sometimes are strange! But in a good way!!! So, I think if you truly do love this lady, go out on the edge, and really show her-she's needing it!!!
530056
Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
551471
wOW!  Are you British?  It is of no consequence, or course, but the more I read the more you sounded like someone from the U.K. \nAnyway, in some ways it is sweet that you have admired this lady for so long.  The romantic female side of me thinks it has great potential to be a wonderful love story.  That's the problem.  Love stories are just that..stories.  In reality you sound like a stalker.  It is just not that serious for this girl.  She probably sees you as an old school chum she would not mind spending an evening with sometime.  \n\nIt seems to me that you need to move on with your life and get out more.  Consider it just a date.  I thought only women thought things through this deeply when it came to relationships.  Hearing a man confess to such flights of whimsy (the gift, the love note confession, et' all) is a little creepy to be honest.  Sensitive is nice, obsessive is just creepy.  You sound obsessive, or at least quite immature and inexperienced.  Almost a stereotype of, well, an engineering student.  \n\nDon't confess undying love.  Don't buy a gift.  Don't write the love note.  Don't sweat the haircut.  Just pick her up.  Take her to dinner, enjoy the moment, escort her home and tell her you'd like to see her again.  \n\nYou've waited 10 years, so you have time.  Get to know her.  Hopefully she lives up to the fantasy you've created all these years. \n\nGood luck.
571425
"hi sweetie,\n\nI know we'ver never met each other but I just want to let you know that we're complete losers. You're probably don't look like what you initially described, and I'm really 50 lbs heavier than what I have posted on MySpace. But I still love you, and we'll have awkward sex once we meet each other. Just don't kill me first."
525115
I agree 100% with everything you said about her, and I've even fantasized about her.     However, just to raise a little contention, her complexion is kind of messed up, ruining what otherwise would be a great package!   Then again, it wouldn't stop me from making "LOVE 40" times a week with her, if she would only "LET" me.    You neglected to mention the beautiful, little "SET" on her, not to mention the great little "RACK(et)"  she has.     But alas, I think I'd have to "COURT" her first before she'd even consider me getting into her sweet little "SERVICE BOX", or for that matter, gently "STROKE" my aching, swollen yellowish/greenish\n "SPAULDING BALLS".      Ain't that the kick?