I like this person, but not to sure she like me back....\nand I want us to get to know each other better, without thinking that I just want to get laid, I really want to get to know each other........
121951
Let me ask you something first..do you just want to get laid?\n\nIf that's on your mind, you won't go anywhere buddy. You have to learn to hold back somethings to gain more. Talk to her as if you don't like her at all. Tease her, make jokes, do all that and don't give her ANY signs of you liking her!\nJust open up your heart more and you will get to know her better! \n\nGood luck
485853
Maybe she is just afraid of what your reaction would be. Maybe instead of hinting you should just come out and say what you feel. It sounds like maybe you are both hinting to one another but neither one is stepping up to the plate. Even if she doesn't see you as botfriend material right now she might later if she knows the opportunity is there.
211406
Sounds like she is interested in you but wanted to see how much your future plans mesh with hers.  Why don't you just ask her out, if you are interested.  Sounds like that is what she is hoping for.
132704
Ok, from how you explain it...it sounds like she likes you, so just talk like you always do and maybe one day when you are gone, ask her the same question when you get back...you know, maybe she wants to ease into a relationship
342854
Extremely weird, she wants to look into a relationship, but all the goodies go to your friend.  Sorry, need to next her.  You're friend can have her, no wait he has....
333780
Your screen name suits you perfectly.  If you just want to get laid, go for it.  I have seen this situation plenty of time to know that she doesn't love you.  She likes having you there to cry on.  She needs some love and affection, and you happen to be there.  If it wasn't you it would just be someone else.  What do you think would happen if your friend found out you guys hooked up, and then he decided to get back with her?  What would she do?  She would probably dump you in a second and get back with your friend.  If you think this would happen, then realize that she is only  using you.  Therefore, if she is using you for comfort, it is fair to use her for sex, but don't get your heart all involved.  Just do it and have fun.  She isn't really a girl you want to date seriously if this is how she normally acts.  Keep her around until you find a good one.
99081
i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
521272
You have it bad for her.  If she liked you, she would have went out with her when you asked her!  Seems like you need to get her out of your system!  It she wanted to go out with her and you asked her, she would no doubt let you know that she was willing to go out with you now!  It seems like you need to get real and forget her!
421324
Not trusting women too much a? If you would let yourself to get to know one of them, maybe you would even like her....and try something more longer with her.\nHad some traumas maybe? Something made you like that for sure.
315790
Ask questions about her. When you do that it shows that you are interested about her and you just dont want to get down her pants. Also, try to find out what you have in common. And if she is cool, talk about sex and what you both like and dislike.
105823
Ha ha ha. It's funny U know. Even i suffer the same. I like one girl. I dont know whether she likes me. But few movements says that she likes me (I guess).\n\nALL THE BEST to you
486060
Yeah she is interested in finding more about you and seeing whether or not you reciprocate with the same behaviors....... keep doing what your doing be interested in her too but subtlety is key
296166
Sometimes, you just can't. It all depends what you're into and what lengths you're willing to go to but my personal (and instinctive) advice would be to move on and find someone who's \n\n1. obviously interested and \n2. not into playing silly retrograde games.\n\nThere's a chance, however, that she may just be unsure or genuinely fickle so, if you really like her, you could just sit tight and keep flirting. You've already asked her out so she knows you like her. Now it's up to her to make a move.
93509
i have been in pretty much this situation... very attracted to girl who i had become friends with... and possessing a strong desire to do something about it.  i didn't get the sense that she was interested in me in the same way though, so i kept it cool.  found out later that she is actually crazy for me!!!!
119296
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
507553
yes but time is of the essence! when you ask her out show her a soft side( I wanted to tell you how I felt  but I was afraid it might lead to you rejecting me) she will eat that  up !
426377
she may just want to have you as a "buddy" you might just be who she wants a booty call from. hell nobody really knows but her. so ask her.