There's this boy, and he use to like me alot and i use to like him alot, but one day he jus decides he doesn't like me n e more. He likes my cousin who is this major s.l.u.t. And they r about to go out. But he wont tell me what made him change his mind bout likin me. I'm so confused what should I do? should I try to straighten things out or...?
138634
Just move on and find someone better.\n\nIf he is going to act immature then you do not need his any ways.
255500
Forget about it.  It is clear to me that you have already made up your mind.  You are just looking for someone else to give you the stamp of approval.   Remember, it is not about HIM liking YOU.
537828
If you really like this boy I believe you do what you want to do. Peer pressure is such a bad influence on teens. Most of the time it is for all the wrong reasons. Try talking to your friends. Are they doing it out of jealousy? Or do they have a point on why they dont like him? If you talk to them about this maybe they will realize your feelings. If this guy is great. I think I would be finding different friends then. Friends are suppose to be happy for us if they are truly friends. But if they are truly good friends who are trying to tell you something about this guy that you are just to blind to see, then listen. But above all, do whats best after you think about all the pros and cons. Hope things work out.
274069
Um... I had the same problem. Don't hurt your friend. He may be cute, but there are plenty of cute boys. I know from experience that your friendship is better. If they break up wait a little while, and then hang out with him. Maybe you'll quit liking him. If not, stay away, about 50 YARDS AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM HIM!!!! LISTEN TO MY ADVICE. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT.
420763
stop fliting with the guy you don't like and start with the one you do like. give him signs saying "i like you" but you don't have to tell him. he should know
169659
Aye, honey I'm having the same issues as you (but in this case, I don't think he likes me.) Usually (from what my girl friends have told me), guys are very upfront with their feelings and they're obvious about it. He may pay more attention to you, be touchier with you, laugh more around you and look happy/act happy when you're around. Surprisingly, this boy might even tease you to an extreme point if he has feelings for you (it happened to me once) which is very 5th grade, but it still happens. You could, however, just go up and ask him if you want a direct answer :) because no matter what people tell you, there's usually no way to know unless he tells someone or you ask him yourself.
242592
Well, this is tricky becuase she is your cousin... I would assume she knew you liked the guy...do you think you could forgive her? I'd say try, as long as its not something thats going to bother you every time you see her or something you may keep throwing in her face. I'd say if you can get past it and move on, try. \n\nBut remember: Always forgive, but never forget.\n\nIf she ever does it again, kick her to the curb. No one needs people like that in their lives, cousin or no cousin.\n\nNow does this guy know you like him? I'm guessing so if you say you guys were thinking about going out... you should rethink some stuff becuase if he knew and went and slept with your cousin, thats pretty low.\n\nGood luck! :)
630255
Of course he likes you, which is why he is going to such extremes to get the other guy out of the picture. IF you still like him, ask him out, and see for yourself. Good luck!! I miss high school issues sometimes. lol
533614
You seem to have an agenda already even b4 you give yourself a chance with this guy. 'What if'\nquestions are something to consider...such as...what if you really like him after going out with him; what if after going out with you and he doesn't like you? Are you afraid of rejection? There is no harm in going out even for a meal with him and then telling him that you would rather stay friends and nothing more than that. At least he will understand. Making assumptions will not help as you both don't even know each other. Sounds like he just has a 'crush' on you in which case, it is easy to justify that. Nothing will work if you totally ignore him...that even hurts more I guess! But do at least give him the benifit of the doubt! Good luck!
563130
Jeez! I am sick of these teenage "does he like me" "what do I do" questions.\n\nIt is a TEMPORARY little relationship and will be meaningless when you look back on it later in life (stupid even). Get over yourself and your insecurities. All you little teenagers are afraid of each other and care WAY TOO MUCH about WHAT OTHER PEOPLE think about you. When you are a real grown-up, you care less and have REAL relationships.\n\nThank you
212304
It's obvious you like him and he absolutely likes you too, the problem is you are both afraid to come clean. Let me tell you a story, my cousin really liked this in high school but she was really shy and he thought she would embarrass him so they never spoke, until college, she saw him at the library and they finally spoke to each other, reminiscing on the past they both brought up some things about high school, she told him that she had a crush on him and to her surprise he was madly in love with her, he told her how he'd admire when she'd walk by and she told him that she would stare him down when she saw him. Unfortunately they never got to be together because he was happily engaged to girlfriend and she was already involved. So the moral of the story is, if you see something that you want, go for it, it may work to your advantage. Good luck
606640
do you still talk you should call him and ask him if he  would comsider going back with you but don't get your friends involved because he might start liking them i know you might think that it won't happen to you but trust me it can happen to anyone well good luck with that and be brave
292662
Believe it or not I think this happened to me . . . but the guy didnt like me but Im pretty sure that this guy likes you! Go Girl! Just keep doing what your doing! If he likes you he will pop the question or get one of him friends too! ( P.S. Try hanging out with him again )
228916
i know how you feel cause i'm going through this too but you have to handle it right , just leave the first move for the boy , if he really likes you he'd talk to you and declare his feelings ..anyway it's just my opinion and you have the last word ...anytime you need me i'd be so happy to offer my help ----> Nancy
264338
Maybe he didn't think you liked him. I would say he is in to you, and you should go talk to him. He might just want you to make the next move. Guys don't usually do that, just to play games with girls. If we go out on a limb like that, we really like you.
38332
If he don't like you anymore and you are being yourself you don't need him. I feel if you have to change and be someone else for him to start back liking you he is not the one gurl move on and find someone else. there is someone way better.
216292
OKay do what u want and if u like him u should deff go out with him and ur friends shouldnt get mad either way u go and if they do then thats their problem and they should be happy for u if u do go out wiht him and if u dont they need to understand ur reasoning that u just dont like him and if they get mad their just being dumb and they will eventually get over it and if they dont then u dont want them as a friend cause Friends dont get mad over guys that u like or dont!! well whatever u do Good luck and i hope for the best=)