Not to hurt anyone's feelings, but when did we start calling overweight individuals "thick"?  Is this another politically correct thing we're doing these days?  \n\nDo you think by making this a 'kinder and gentler' world that we disillusion people by telling them they're thick instead of overweight?\n\nIf we make everything "okay," what motivation do people have to better themselves?
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I would associate "thick" with being "thick headed" or dimwitted.  \n\nI don't think that "thick" should be a term for one that is overweight.  "Overweight" and "obese" seem to be perfectly agreeable terms (or labels, if you must) and since they are used in the medical community they are indeed appropriate.  Being overweight and obese, especially in the US, is really turning it into an epidemic.  \n\nCalling overweight people "fat" has a very negative connoation.  If you addressed someone as fat they would probably not acknowledge that they have an actual medical problem, they would just think you were being mean.  Using words associated with medical terminology (obese, overweight) would hopefully open their eyes...\n\nThere is no point in sugar-coating a very dangerous problem which often leads to heart disease, kidney failure, diabetes, etc.
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Personally, i think if you are overweight because of eating habits or it is your own fault, you should pay more for healthcare, or if you are in a country with free healthcare, such as Canada, (Canada has free but crappy healthcare) you will need to pay more taxes, until you become thinner. Fat people are a problem, only if it their own fault. Genetic fatness shouldn't be minded. But then they also fight for "fat peoples rights" ever heard of those? All those minority groups are pissing me off. Fat people should definetely be penilized. Also, off topic, but you know who gets the best job nowadays? Technically a fat black old lesbian disabled transsexual would. They get more rights than anyone!
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I don't know why people are so weight obsessed. If you get to know someone really well it won't matter any more. \n\nFor the record, I'm a size 0 blond and the guys aren't all over me. Instead idiots decide to say how anorexic I am (which I'm not). That makes me mad.\n\nPeople just care too much about appearances, and it hurts. No matter if you're skinny or overweight, people are still going to be slightly judge mental of you because of that. All in all, people can be idiots. :)
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Not everyone is looking for a quick fix. I'm fat and looking to change my life now.  I need motivation and hearing from others is a good way to start.  These ppl do have the wrong idea thinking they can lose weight quickly but you shouldn't put them down. Instead you should give them advice since you exercise regularly and understand what it is to have a balanced diet.  Don't pity us but don't put us down either.
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Do you ever watch "Celebrity Fit Club"?  I like that better. You get to see all the overweight celebrities try to lose weight while they stir up drama for themselves.  I just don't know why they'd want to go on national television in front of a gazillion people when most of them can afford personal trainers and chefs like Oprah.
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... why are people seriously giving you tips on losing weight? even if it is through healthy means, you don't need tips on losing weight.\n\nand the fact that you were anorexic isn't even the main reason that i say that.. i say that because you are a perfect weight for your height and DO NOT need to lose weight!
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Maybe it is because the people who are calling or thinking you are fat, are so insecure, that they would rather point out your faults, than allow anyone to see their faults. \n\nI am not fat, but I am not scrawny, I just dont believe in being a toothpick, and for this I was commented on my whole life by my sister, and now she is fatter than me. I should have seen that she was the one that had the complex, and that it was never me. I feel for my sister now, as she has no more comments on this topic. Although she still tries to think of herself as thin (she was on the verge of anorexia) but she knows she is not. So now she goes for other areas where she can break me down. \n\nI take it, and forget the comments, I know it is her that has a problem, and not me. Forget what people say about you, rather feel for them. As they are more than likely insecure. If you are happy with your weight and size, then you have no problem to worry about.
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I understand what you are saying too.  I mean who is it who decides that "skinny" is beautiful.  Some of those stars look absolutely pathetic.  I mean, don't they ever see what they look like, with their stick arms and legs?  It is a very sad reflection on our society when we place that much value on how people look and not on how people treat one another instead.\n\nBelow is a site with info on a country where girls are actually force-fed to get fat so they will be seen as more desirable.  Not that I agree with that, but it just shows that not all the world agrees with "skinny".
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OMG those people are self-conscious beasts and they get on shows like Montel or Maury Povich and b.tch b.tch b.tch all about... well... you pretty much described it to a T. These people are insecure and self-conscious and they crave attention -- they know they'll never get any good attention, they don't want to change their daily habits to lose any weight, they just want to soak up negative attention by being the biggest fat-fanny-a.ss they can possibly be in public. And they usually hook up with these loser-type guys because they feel that is the only kind that will ever want them -- only to find more stuff to b.tch about.\n\nTheir only problem is themselves, and the fact that they're to thick-skulled to stop soliciting BK every day of the week.\n\nI think it's people like this who have caused us to see so much in the news about obesity and how Americans "in general" need to lose weight -- cause all we ever see on most of those shows is large people with bad attitudes.
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Honey, be yourself. I am also over weight and I consider myself a Diva among Divas and I carry myself that way. I let my personality speak for my self. People who are turned off because of your weight have low self esteem. Your weight has not direct bearing on who you are as a person and what kind of friend you will be. You are still the same inside big or skinny.
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That's fine.  I'm 26 years old.  I'm 5'5' and I'm only 100 lbs.  I've been the same since the age of 17.  People say I'm too skinny and say I should gain wieight, but I'm healthy.  THEY ARE JEALOUS.  I have a normal appetite.  I don't like soda, fries or junk food and I love walking and biking and other sports.  99% of the time, if someone tells you crap like that, THEY ARE JEALOUS.  When my mom comments, I know it's out of concern.  If you have an eating dissorder, tell someone you are comforable talking to and get help.  But if you are healthy, you should not care about what other people say.  If they call you skin and bones, don't be offended.  Just be glad you're not fat.  Don't be offensive or rude.  Fat people have a lot harder of a time than we do... but it's true we all get crap for something... being skinny, being fat, being black, being american, being different than the person talking shit.  Don't be offended or offensive.  You'll be fine.
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Well i'm going to focus on media and the obsession with being skinny....In alot of magazines, on television, and EVERYWHERE else you see underweight people and it's considered "beautiful"??! (only in america lol) But anyways, Teens and adults see this and want to be like this "perfect" image that they see....They go on CRaZy diets, starve themselves and have low self-esteem because of the media in America! What happened?? If you look at any old art work and you see "Healthy", beautiful, women but things have changed for the worse! I will NEVER conform!
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why do people assume that calling somebody 'gay' is a bad thing?\n\nit's the same as calling somebody 'straight'. i never saw anybody get offended by that...\n\nmore importantly: why would YOU pressure somebody to come out of the closet? In this ignorant world coming out of the closet is a hard thing to do, unfortunately. I have a number of gay friends who had to go through the hard period right before coming out, and had to live with the condemnment of people after they came out.\n\ni'm not easily offended by questions, but this one is just way out of line.
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I've actually had a similar situation.  I used to weigh about 30 lbs. more than I do now.  And everyone who knew me then tells me I am so skinny now...too skinny.  I'm 5'5" & 135 lbs!  I'm perfectly healthy.  I guess some people just look better "thicker"  I also got a lot more attention from the opposite sex when I was heavier.  As long as you're healthy & happy, don't worry about what other people think!\n\np.s. your "friend" is a jerk for saying that!
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No, it's not funny what-so-ever. Who are they to judge who's heavy and not? Saying hurtful rude comments about someone's appearance, personal opinions, or lifestyles are the things that increase anorexia, bulemia, and suicidal attempts. Reading this you may think i'm being hypocritical, and I probably am because I have made fun of all different kinds of people. However, I am not proud of it, I regret it, and I believe that is another serious problem within our communities. Why is it that fat women are hideous and disgusting, but heavy men are perfectly acceptable? Look at these comedians...I don't even consider it a real job. Going to school to learn better ways to tease and make fun of other's.....that's sure something to write home about. The thing is heavy women need to realize that you need to try your absolute hardest to ignore it, and live the life you are in for who you are. Each person in this world gets made fun of whether they know it or not, nobody is perfect. But you are the only one who has control over who you chose to listen to and ignore. I think it takes a lot of determination to lose all of that weight, and personally I think you should lose weight for the longer lasting life, not the appearance. Obviously you're going to feel self concious, but it's your choice whether you want to pretend it doesn't bother you or take action and try and lose the weight. I support so many people in doing that, talk to a doctor for help, join a support group....but don't let other's comments bring you down.
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Thanks ZipLock... \n\nI think there's a ton of misconceptions about dieting and health... I urge everyone who is concerned about their health and fitness is to educate themselves.\n\nThat means reading.  I subscribe to about 7 different health magazines and people consistently throw me scientific articles on nutrition.\n\nI've learned a lot about health and fitness over the years and hopefully I can help a few people get over their weight /fitness issues.\n\nThanks again, Ziplock, I've read some of your stuff and found it on line with my beliefs too.
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If you feel the need to make fun of another human being, then I feel it means you are unhappy with yourself.  One cannot possibly get any feeling of accomplishment when they demean another and make them feel worthless or less than.  People who criticize the overweight have unresolved issues of their own and belong in therapy.  It matters not how or why a person is overweight (that is their own personal battle), what really matters is being kind and compassionate to others and you will more often then not; get the same in return.