Everytime I'm really down about something, or if things a lot of things get to me at once, I search for a sexual predator I guess you should say. I Don't have sex with strangers, The people I have sex with are ex's, friends, or people I would be talking to that could potential turn into a relationship. What do you think is going on Serious replies only. I would like to add that I just turned 20 and this has been going on for about 3 yrs I believe .
127177
Because having sex releases endorphins which give you a temporary high. Endorphins are natural chemicals that the body produces. Some people turn to alcohol or chocolate when they are down to get the same effect. Its like an addiction. Try taking some exercise when you feel down to create the same feelings and will make you feel better about yourself as well.
355157
I've been there, and I've found that waiting for at least date 3 to have sex seems to work a lot better than hooking up on date 1!! I've never had a serious relationship develop out of a one-night stand. I'm not saying this will be the case with you, but maybe it's time to move on and save yourself the confusion. Clean slate and all.
110670
Unfortunately, your situation is normal.  I know that sucks.  I've been there too.  But as I got older, I had PLENTY of relationships (some I shouldn't have been so willing to rush into.)  Endure and have fun.  This soon shall pass for you.
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I think you need new friends Genler . Sounds to me,  by all your questions, that your friends are sick individuals, do you live near a mental hospital or something? You need to get away from that place & your so called friends before you turn out to be a sick, inbreeding, mental,  pedophile, unless you already have. Your friend "A" has many issues probably dating back to childhood, this uncle "V" probably molested her as a child regardless she needs counseling & a straight jacket . Are you asking this to make sure other people feel the same way you do to prove to yourself you are sane? I think that is what it is. You need reassurance that you are not a mental water head like your friends.Here is alittle advice that I always practice to keep myself out of trouble or bad situations. When you hear a story or a situation, or a offer whatever your first instinct is go with it. You 1st instinct is always the best. You don't want to re think a situation, go with a different thought & then kick yourself in the A$$ later for not following your heart good luck
646345
Don't go after anyone. Let them come to you. There's no reason why you shouldn't go on out with other people now since you weren't in a serious relationship.At least go out and have fun.
412531
It sounds like you are pretty young.  I don't think at this stage you should be in a serious relationship with anyone.  I would give myself a chance to explore a few relationships, because only through this will you know what it is that you really want for yourself.  Good luck.
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My mate has just been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years - cos he said he needs time to himself. Imagine how she feels - you were only with this guy 8 weeks.\n\nJust think people need to put their problems into perspective a little bit. I know you must be feeling cr*p right now -but its not like you dedicated half your life to this guy. And if he wants you to change your opinion on something as big as sex then really he's not the one for you anyway.\n\nps - most men are weird. \n\npps - i was very prudish when it come to sex - but my mind has been opened ...... opened in the very best possible way
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Unfortunately society is killing them off.\n\nHow many times have you turned around and said or thought "creep", how many times has someone who is extremely interested in someone been labelled "stalker".\n\nSadly this is the way it will continue. There are a few of us out here who are kind of like that, but we are labelled as being "emotionaly crippled" or whatever other metaphors you wish to use.\n\nKeep looking, there are plenty of us misfits left but we are a dieing breed in todays world ;O)
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Have you ever tried to remember the name of a movie, & you thought as hard as you could about it, but couldn't remember, only to have it come to you later when you weren't thinking about it at all?  I know, odd question, but I'm illustrating a point.  I think a serious relationship is often the same way.  For some odd reason, when you are concentrating so hard on trying to find someone, it won't happen.  Then, when you change the focus of your life to something else, like work or school, often times someone just falls in your lap.  Careful that they aren't too heavy, though, as that could lead to bruising.  Seriously, though, you sound like a great girl who may just need a little more time to get over your past relationship, & get your focus in the present instead of the past.  Try to do some things with work or school that may get your mind off your ex & men in general for a little while.  Then, don't be surprised if someone walks right up to you & asks you out on a date.  God has a way of providing for our needs, even if they conflict with our desires & we don't even know it.  When you're ready, the right man will come to you.  Best of luck.
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the fact that he said that when you guys start dating, he wants a sexual relationship shows you that he wants just sex.  Obviously, when he got on the internet, he was looking for someone to have sex with.  If you two guys do have a relationship, just have sex and nothing else and then when you leave in the morning after that night of sex, see if he says...why are you leaving?  If he says that, he may want more, but if not, he just wants sex.\n\nIf he puts up a fight for you to stay at his house, then he does want a real relationship and a lot of sex.  If he doesnt, then he just wants sex...eventually when something happens,you will know what he is thinking really.
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What do you mean what should you do?  Is there a real question here or are you wanting people to 'judge you' for this behavior?  My Answer - talk to a counselor or a Priest to find out why you are seeking sex as a replacement for love, because you are not old enough to experience love.  PLEASE go get some help!
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Yep! One of my freiends is nearly 23, and she is veyr much stilla virgin-she hasnt even kissed a man passionately, or even had a relationship with someone! In 6th from i thought it was rather odd-but irespected her obviousley as its her choice. She isnt a Christian-nor is she religious, so these beliefs havent persuaded her not to have a phsyical relationship-she has just been unlukcy i guess, or doesnt feel the need for a relationship.\n\nShe is very independant and quite agressive towards men, so its quite hard for them to get to know her-which explains alot! I think she gives out this impressionthat they arnt good enough for her-which in part is to try to protect herself i guess. herfather left when she was quite young-so perhaps this has affected her choice in men, or having non existent relationships!\n\nI think its possible not to have had a relationship at any age-and acceptable. At the end of the day some people are happiest left alone-and independanct individuals in that sense. I guess its their own person choice-they also have to be ready for a relationship so perhaps this is why they are single. I think they are missing out though! :)\n\nxx
534201
Why not lay off the sexual stuff altogether?  Concentrate on becoming better friends.  Do activities together.  \n\nIf you're not ready to go forward, maybe you should go backwards.
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it happens for the same reason why you put this on your profile.....\n\ni am 16 years old\ni am a c cup\ni weigh 120 lbs\nand im still a virgin\n\nThat is the problem....You are a freak hiding behind your conservative beliefs.  If you open up the same way you did when you wrote that profile...you will be able to handle the looks and whistles.
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OK 17, I think that you are just a bit obsessed about this and it comes through loud and clear.  Sounds like you have a comfortable life, car, good family life so why is it so important to have a serious relationship right now?  If everyone else had warts on their ass would you have to have them too?  I don't mean to sound uncaring but I have had some experiences with relationships and they aren't all that they are cracked up to be.  They take an awful lot of work, commitment and energy.  Take if from someone who would like to be 17 again take your time, embrace your friends, male and female, and enjoy yourself.  Nothing says that you can't share your thoughts and feelings with those who are good friends.  The more you try the the more desperate you become and the more desperate you become the more that comes through to scare off any potential girl friend.....understand?  The old saying goes "If you love someone let them go, if they come back they are yours, if they don't they never were.....I think that's how that goes and it makes sense.....enjoy life now cause it only gets more complicated as you get older.\nGood luck 17, now go out and get some friends to go to the movies and enjoy!!!
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here's teh deal the way I see it;\n\nmarriages are failing faster than ever before, I believe that the reason is people are not taking the time to get to know eachother like they used to.  \n\nIt takes a very long time to get to really know a person good enough to decide if you can live with them for the rest of your life.  Most people (99.5%) go straight to bed after the 1st to 3rd date; when this happens you find out if you are SEXUALLY compatable with a person and it becomes the most important part of the relationship.  \n\nProblem is, even though we all wish we could, a relationship involves much more than sex and you can't spend the next 40 years of your life f****ing.\n\nFor this reason, I am starting to beleive that it is a very good idea to wait for a LONG time before becoming sexually involved in a serious relationship.  Get to know th eperson on a spiritual and emotional level.  \n\nWhat do they do when they first get out of bed in the morning, have you ever seen her without makeup, have you ever seen him around kids, what is his church like, how does her mom cook.  THese are all questions you need to know as they will help you to better choose a partner next time.
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Hmm... I'd say you're either desperate or a pedophile/rapist. Hope it's the first one.