is love is necessary\nbut why?people fall in love
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True Love ....\n\nIt's as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. It is everything it's hyped about to be. It's worth taking every risk, it's worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don't risk all then you risk even more. Love is kind of an elixir that lures us out of reality and into the realm of fantasy. It's like a drug creating an altered state of consciousness.\n\nLove is the moment when an unfavorable act becomes favorable, when you make excuses for some one else's mistakes, when you learn to tolerate, when you learn acceptance, when sacrificing becomes the beauty of life. \n\nIt's the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe its unspeakable.\n\nIt's the time when seeing some one, being seen by some one and thinking about some one feels good, when you learn to find happiness in the smallest of moments.\n\nThat's love--when you learn to put down your ego and love some one more than that.\n\nLove is forgetting your self and remembering some one else. \n\nLove is choosing your partner exactly as he is, and supporting him in his choices. It's honoring your partner's truth and wanting best for him.\n\nIt's not controlling or possessing but rather respecting and trusting.\n\nIt does not mean owning some one, getting some one, rather it means being happy in your loved one's happiness.\n\nLove means living without judgments. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking him for granted. \n\nLove means being able to forgive and learning to give more then you get. It means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions.\n\nIt means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the hurts and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. \n\nFalling in love is like being enveloped in a magical cloud. The air feels fresher, the flowers smell sweeter, food tastes more delectable, and the stars shine more brightly at night. You feel light and lofty as though you are floating through life, and your problems and challenges suddenly seem insignificant and easily surmountable. Your body feels alive, your skin tingles and you awaken in the morning with a smile on your face. You are suspended in a state of supreme delight.\n\nLove is a feeling and an action that arises from the most primal place within us. Making a relationship however, is a process that is learned. A relationship is the vessel that carries the precious cargo of love through time.\n\nRelationships are like a precious antique lamp; it takes a little polish and some effort to restore it to its valuable condition. A relationships love and luster will only improve with age if you continually give it the care that keeps it beautiful. But once you uncover its essential beauty it will bring you joy for years to come
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loving a person is accepting them for who they are, being in love with them is a type of worship that is hard to maintain...just my opion but i like to beleive that was the easiest way to explain it...
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Hey.  This is in regards to How do two people stay madly in love with one another for, like 20 years or more?  My answer is that if you have no expectations in a relationship and make sure that yourself is numner one and happy.  Then the relationship will work.  If you expect things to happen you will get disapointed.  If you don't, you get nice surprises every now and then.  If you make sure you are happy, only then can you give yourself to your partner.  There also has to be a mutual understanding and maturity to be in love.  It can't be based off of a physical relationship, it must be based on truth.  If there is no honesty the relationship will fail.  There must be something there that makes you want to be with that person.  If thats not there, then it's not love.  Its not going to last.  Everyone can't fall in love with whomever they want, it's a two-way street.  It's a commitment that both have to make.  If both people aren't on the same page it won't work.  That's about all I have.  Mainly, it has to be basd on some honesty, whether that be in a verbal form or physical form.  And to keep things fresh and exciting and "mad" there must be some spontaneity.  But the only way to have spontaneity is to not have expectations. Thank you.
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Being in love most times is temporary, when you love someone genuinely it has more potential to last. "In love" is intense - but tends to fade over time, genuine love grows over time.
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That is right! If you say you love someone, you gotta trust him. But before you fall in love with this person you gotta get to know him. If you are willing to accept him for  who he is, then it is LOVE!!!\n\nI have done that and I am now happily married to this man!
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Most people think that love is an emotion. \nI believe love is a thing you do rather than a thing you feel. To love is to care, to care is to do.
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My friends and I were just talking about this last night...We have came to the conclusion that Love is a very strong word.  So many people today believe that they are in love, but love is to give unconditionally... love is putting someone elses needs before your own.  I have thought I was in love 2 times, I am now divorced with three kids and I can honestly say I have never loved anyone the way I love my children... If you can honestly say to your self that I would die for them  I mean being truthful to yourself and saying I would die for you... that's love... and I have never felt that way before.... and you don't have to be in love to be with someone...if you enjoy the company why say it's over... just enjoy your life  you only have one.
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Affection does not equal love.  Some people were not given a lot of hugs and kisses by their parents growing up.  They can be totally in love and devoted to someone and feel almost no need for that stuff.  They will experience stress and resentment when they feel that excessive affection is expected.\n\nThe buddah said that everyone has 83 problems.  If this is one of your big ones, you're in great shape.
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What won't we humans do for love?  Think about this, love can be transitory sometimes and when we find love we want to hold onto it with both hands and never let go...because what if it went away?  \n\nI'm sure most of us have known "love" in one form or another and I think I'm correct in assuming that a lot of us have had that love taken away.  Whether a relationship ends, we loose a friend, family member or even a pet.  Sometimes love  just goes away.  So when we find it we don't want to loose it and because these feelings are so strong within us it can bring out the best and worst in our behavior.\n\nSo love in any shape or form is a glorious thing but without it in our lives it's truly a great tragedy.
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I think many things make the world go around, but think that LOVE is definitely the biggest factor, at least for me it is.  I do think however, that LOVE is too often pushed aside for Sex, Money, and Greed (not sure about Gravity, lol). It seems that love isn't nearly as important as it should be, and it's too easily shoved aside nowadays for other seemingly more important things.
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To me, love is a figment of the imagination and not real at all...People are just hopeful that they will find someone to fill the void in their lives, nothing more.  When they do meet someone, they think that it is love.
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I believe that  people fall in love from the inside out....meaning that when you like the person you are with then you will like the way they look.  \nIf you go for the looks then you could get tired of them and think the person you are with isn't so great.
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You fall in love because of pheromones, it is initially just lust. It hurts then when you try and make your relationship work after the lust has worn off and one or both of the people involved aren't big enough to stick it out through the bad times to enjoy the good.  There are always good, but people seem to like to focus on the bad!  You just have to be brave and hope that you can find someone who will be willing to be a team player with you so you can enjoy and remember those good times together, cause over time the lust does come back for you and your partner.
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Love gives us in a moment what we can hardly attain by effort after years of toil.\n\nLove may not make the world go round, but I must admit that it makes the ride worthwhile.
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People need someone to fill the empty space in their hearts. You need a husband and kids to fill it up. Someone to share you thoughts and feelings. Someone who could make your life very meaningful.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.\nTrue love is big but it'll come.. just be patient coz the reward is ... magic.
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I think that when you feel love for a person, you want that person to be happy no matter what. Meaning, if that person isn't happy with the relationship, you will give up the one thing that means everything to you, THEM. Just so they can be happy - even if it's with someone else.\n\nLove is not selfish, love is not material or demanding. It's just there. No one can control it and no one knows when or where it will strike.