ok well we walk together everyday to the buses and we always hug all day long but his ex is mad at me and he doesnt like her ne more cuz he is on my side cuz she is spreading lies about me but neways we were walking talking about how i dont need to be friends with her cuz she is calling me really not good names and i am sooooo tired of it and he was like well if i would have never met her or gone wit her i would have asked you out and been wit u and so i want to ask him if we would maybe be able to now since he dont like her nemore or doesnt act like it cuz he always gives me hugs and her high fives that maybe we could go out but i dont know really if i should or what to say soooooooo help please. \nevery one is telling me his ex is jealous but of what??? she doesnt know he said he would go wit me help i want to stay friends and keep getting hugs but want to get to like kiss too soooo help pls...
127209
what is more important to u ,i think being friends is a good thing let everything else flow dont force it
476871
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
417141
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
133401
Sorry to say, but it sounds like he's not going to warm up to you anytime soon if he's still hung up over his ex.\n\nLet him know that you're here for him - as a friend. Keep things down low, make him laugh, be a good friend. After he has had time to heal, maybe you can ease into flirting and he'll see you in a different light. \n\nAt that point, I really think you should tell him how you feel. Maybe write him a note before summer and slip it into his locker or binder, then ask to talk to him later. If he's not trying to pursue you, chances are he doesn't like you like that. But I could be wrong...that's why you have to find out directly. Don't listen to your friend. You have to listen to yourself, not what other people think. This is your life, not hers.\n\n***warning: There is a downfall...your friendship could become potentially awkward if he doesn't feel the same way about you or only sees you as a friend. So it's up to you to make the decision on that part, just know the consequences.\n\nIf you don't want akwardness, don't tell him. Yet it seems like you like him a lot and you've been waiting forever, so waiting longer might not change anything (it'll just make you more miserable)
620829
that sucks!!  Ask him....find out if there were still feelings between them when she left town....if so, I'm sorry...
597076
I'm in the same boat honey. I'm trying to get over this guy who only wants to be my friend now.  And yes I want that, but every time I hang out with him I want to hug and kiss him like I used to, which wasn't too long ago. What my friends tell me, and what I'm now telling you, you need to break away from him for awhile. Try not to call him, as hard as that is, and just give your heart and head a break from him. And maybe in a couple weeks or months, or however long it takes you, you'll be able to hang out with him with no feelings other than friendship aimed at him. Also another good way of getting over him, is trying to date other people, even though they won't be him and you'll be comparing them all to him, it'll be a stepping stone, and eventually you'll meet that guy and not even think about your ex. Hope this makes sense and helps. Good luck.
257773
Sounds like a set up darlin!Even im getting paranoid thinking about it....i would say...ask him if he was going out with his ex tonight...yes/no. If answer is no..and it happens again(a similar senario,with his ex) tell him to f off.\n\nIn a nut shell....TRUST your instinct..you will know my dear.
40403
If you really hate him..you should talk to the girl that has been calling and tell her not to date him! but if i were you..i would still talk to him..he is your ex after all and you and him need to move on!
548334
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
124392
If he wont leave her, and claims to like you still, he either just wants to be friends with you, he has the delusional thoery he can date both you and her, and/or he wants you to be his cheating partner. Go on to someone else, but don't be closed to letting your new relationship progress.
79630
Don't put up with this.  It is bad enough that he would lie to you about anything, but lying to you about talking to his ex is about as wrong as it gets.  There is no reason to be talking to her when he has you.  You should be the one he loves, his best friend, his one and only.  You deserve better and if he can't let go of his ex dump him.  I would think being in love with you should be all he needs.  If he has to talk to her all the time then maybe he should go live with her because he sure doesn't deserve to be with you.
503493
Don't worry yourself another minute about the "rumor" or "him"!  If he doesn't believe you there is nothing you can say that is going to change his mind.\n\nObviously he doesn't want to be "friends" with you.  It's requires a certain amount of "maturity" to remain on friendly terms with an "ex".  He apparently, isn't able to handle it.\n\nMove on, don't look back and best of luck.
273278
Ignore him he sounds like a very jealous person.  As far as the girls go...you said your friends.  There is no reason you can't tell her how you feel when no one is around and if she rejects you he would never know.  However, if she feels the same way...good for you...don't worry about making him mad. (Just when you tell the girl how you feel...tell her that you have something to ask her and you don't want it to ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way and then let her know how you feel.)  Good Luck.
112788
hey tries to avoid her!! her does stuff like out of the ordinary! like not hug her ant the end of the day and stuff like that!! u could 2 figure it out 4 sure have one of her bf's closet friends ask him straight up!! and then have him tell ur friend!! good lucke =)\n\nxoxoxoxox\nEden
324413
First untangle the mess you've got your life into, how you do that is up to you but if you keep going on like this you'll soon get ulsers, Second, make it clear that the rules he applys to you and to his ex are the same all the way around. By that I mean if he can see and talk to his ex without you then you're allowed to as well. Third and most important, If his ex is so caring of his emotions and he values her opinion that much then why are they apart. Let him know that you understand he has to maintain a relationship with his ex for his daughters sake but you are his woman now and his job is to stick up for you when you can't do it for yourself. (Meaning he needs to tell his ex that if she cant say anything nice about you to him then he needs to tell her to keep her opinion's to herself or had better start defending you to her. He's a big boy and should be able to handel his emotions on his own, if not then he dosent need to be dating.)
127999
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
247443
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!