everytime i go swimming guys ask me out or they try to do stuff to me. how can i keep this from happening?
123561
wear a swimsuit dated back to the 1950's
668169
Don't let them get to you!  Be yourself and do whatever you want.  You should not let other's opinions keep you from doing the things you really want to do.  I know it's hard but with time it won't be a problem.  There are people out there who like you for who you are!
568488
if these guys are being mean to u, don't force ur self on them because they were once ur friends, these types of friends are called backbitters, and u need to stay away from them, and realise that u need to go out and find new friends that will appreciate u fr who u r!!
637938
i wouldnt ask a guy out ust for fear of beaing rejected, i hate rejection, so if i were in ur situation id play hard to get or get another guy and make him jealous,then he will prolly ask u out.
109573
Next time tell the guy if he can do the same things you can do then you can date. By the way just because you can do gymmnastics and dance doesn't mean your good in bed. You have to be a swimmer too hehe just kidding.\nLook when you meet someone are you interviewed? DO you tell them everything all at once? Stop doing that!
428190
just act like you dont care. maybe start talking to other guys when hes around. if he asks you out again say sure maybe sometime and leave it at that. after a week or so if he asks you out again, say yes.
70152
Some guy feel the need to act like that in front of other people. Ask him if he could try to include you more next time your around other people. If there's another date request a private one, were he won't have anyone else to act up for.
486836
I think its because they think they already have you. They dont feel that they have to work to get you excited.  But if it bothers you that much i think you should talk to your man and let him know that you dont just wanna jump in to F**k-ing.  Let him know you exactly what you would like him to do.
175399
just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
403572
Just play it cool. You don't want to chase him and scare him off.
621318
Sweetie, be patient.  Do not approach him anymore.  Something like this happened to me before but after he told me no I left him alone.  He likes the attention you are giving him.  Just sit back and watch, because if you stop trying to talk to him, he will want you.  Watch this will work and even if it doesn't there is more fish in the sea and you better start fishing.  This boy is gonna miss a good thing if he keeps acting like this
319410
Simple:  the guys are intimidated by you.  Point blank.  I had the same problem in high school...you will find better opportunities when you get out of high school and into college!!  Just keep doing you and achieving all you can achieve...they will come to you in the end!!!  I know because it happened to me!!!
393247
yikes honey, these guys sound like obsessive stalkers. what they are doing is wrong and it is illegal.  i'd suggest filing a report with the police..  get them arrested for tresspassing if they are on your property without permission.\n\nyour college should have some sort of guidance department that can help you cope with these issues.\n\nas far as why people do this? because they are insane. these people don't cope well with rejection, and instead of moving on in their life, they make it their obsession.. these people need serious mental help.\n\nas far as why or how you always seem to attract these type of guys? i have no idea..
106191
just keep being yourself, you dont need to do anything special for someone just to make them go crazy.. if they really like you, you're already making them go crazy!
228568
Just be yourself, stay happy, and dont let it show that you are too worried, just a bit and the person that asked you out should be able to see and understand, most people have ways to make others more comforatable, so talk, be honest, and i hope it all works out for you!  :)
259194
Sounds like you are young and you think everyone is out there to get you.  It is not true, you are just paying more attention to the negatives than the positives.  To solve your problem, ask those why they always respond in a negative way.  They may not notice that they are doing it until you bring it to their attention.  Keep your head up, not everyone is ot there to make your life a living hell.
481815
Sounds like he does like you. He has a big crush if he is trying to make up lies about your wieght so he can make the guy dislike you! Maybe you should talk to him like'' how are you?'' See what he does.Maybe he will ask you out and the rest is up to you.