i feel lonely alot now in days i used to not feel lonely but I do now....what di i do to make myself not lonely
119806
Get out and make friend. Maybe you are depressed and need to see a doctor. What has changed in your life to make you feel this way?
621783
My suggestion to you is tht take part in activities,being lonely & just thinking abt it will not help u in anyway so make frnds or if u have c tht u meet them daily for somtime go for gym or look out for job or activity tht keeps u busy all the day.Try to b active go for morning walks or play interesting game or u have sister sit down with her & discuss this she also may b in a state to help u to deal with it. U r not deep in relation with people tht is not a justified reason for u to b depress . try to understand tht there is time & situation for every thing to happen u will get things but b bold to face everything
23654
If someone is not your best friend anymore that means that either you or he/she or both have changed (assuming there is not a discussion that has made your relationship to grow apart).So if now you have different interests, or have that sharing time with other friends is more amusing, then try to feed those friendships. If you really feel like you still want this friend to be a very close friend, talk it out and see why youa re becoming distant from one the other. Sometimes friends dont keep in touch for a while, but usually they come back when they realize they feel comfortable around.
147788
It is normal to feel down about yourself at this age and during your life. Everyone needs someone that they can be with and vent to on occasion but besides that you need a friend.  Not just someone to talk to but a genuine friend that will laugh with you, cry with you, and be there for you when you need them to be. Not some person that is jsut there because of something you have and or could give them. First you must find what is making you feel so depressed. Once you have found that think about why you feel this way and telling yourself "I don't know" isn't the answer.  I mean who can you be honest with but yourself first, huh? I did a journal when I felt really down and that nothing was going right and then I tried this.  It helped me so much that I started letting go the bad feelings and bad thoughts and started living without a care about those thoughts again.  If you still are depressed then you may want to find out why and instead of being unhappy start thinking of what got you to this point. Everyone has to hit rock bottom before they can start climbing outta the hole. You aren't there yet but I don't want you there. I want you to be able to be happy and content with everything you do.\n\nGood luck my dear!
587490
I know how you feel, been there and done that. And still am feeling that way. I need friends pretty bad myself and I am a very depression person right now. But it is not worth killing your self over it, I promise you!!!  There are people out there that do love you and care about you. Some people are just really dumb when it comes to being involved with someone and the other person don't realize what they have. You really do need a friend to talk with when you are really down in the dumps. I'm here to listen if you need someone to talk to--who knows--we might be able to help out each other!!!
178963
You are your own's best support. Even I was having that feeling earlier but then I find out what are my likes and I concentrate on that things. Whatever make me feel good I start doing that. Try to be positive towards life and enjoy whatever you Have. Something is not in your hand to change but you can create a way to be calm/happy in that bad time. Its all up to you to live happy or down. All the best
306731
I think there are a lot of people out there who have experienced what you're going through right now. You're not alone in feeling friendless! People tend to gather in cliques for no apparent reason and it can be difficult to break in. I applaud your efforts for trying! It may be helpful to join a club or an organization that congregates for a certain reason: e.g., volunteer organization, running club, sports groups, etc. This may help because then you will have a conversation starter about the common interest you have.\n\nIt also sounds like this has affected your self-esteem (and understandably so). As difficult as it may be, remember that you are a beloved child of God! He has created you in his image and you are the apple of his eye. He loves hanging out with you and listening to all you have to say. Living in this truth will allow you to be more confident in yourself.\n\nTake care.
101237
relax and be urself. u will feel less shy later
509758
you need to sped more time with some of ur friends .. just hang out with them or talk to them\nand please dont listen to those love songs... they will make u feel down\ndo some activity... sports always help
393087
The truth is that sometimes we all need a little bit more than "people who care about you."\n\nI would say based on the information you give here that either you are in need of some good friendships or a romantic relationship, or you are in the early stages of depression, which fits well with your loneliness among people who care about you.\n\nIf your condition gets worse to the point where you can't or don't want to go out of the house or do the activities you normally enjoy, then it is depression, but you should go to your doctor now before it gets to that point.\n\nGod bless you.
158317
i know EXACTLY what ur going through,im going through it right now.i just feel like im not needed,like it would be better if i were gone,u even hate urself cause u feel ur not good enough.i have felt like this a lot for a while and i still do,i cant help it.i cry for no reason at all,i get mad over the littlest things,and i just feel like even when i try to do something right it gets fucked up or just makes things worse.maybe we can talk sometime.cause i am going through the same exact thing.cause i dont even know what to do myself,maybe it takes just one person to talk to about anything.cause i need it and it seems like u do too.
349502
Why do you feel sad?  We reap what we sow.  You were alone today because you haven't gone out of your way to make it any different (make friends).  Do you aknowledge anybody elses birthday?  I'm just asking these questions because I had the same thing happen to me years ago and I realized it had everything to do with my decisions.  \n\nHappy Birthday--we are here!
622083
I often feel left out with my friends, I think it's only happened lately. Or rather, I'm only beginning to feel this way. It feels quite hurtful sometimes - like you're not as important as everyone else. \n\nWhat I did was to ... (don't laugh) ... start smiling, A LOT. I'm serious. Happy people like other happy people. So, even if at first your smiles might be a little weird or even fake, you get used to it. And soon, you could be smiling without even realizing it!\n\nIt's quite fun actually. You could also try to be less sensitive to what other people say - sometimes, they don't actually mean to be hurtful. Just join in their conversations and laugh along. Oh, and perhaps yo could stop ignoring other people? I know it's not fun, but just try to grit your teeth and do it. \n\nGood luck!
474399
Well yes for once i do feel like you. And the week that passed i was in the eye of the storm, loosing my cat and watching my puppy die. Since i have no friends either in the country i live the last 3 years, i lost my 2 precious "babies" that kept me some company, altho im only 26 and not bad looking.\n\nIn previous summer i had a horrible incident of panic attack , i could not breathe. I went to Hospital but nothing was organically wrong with me, it was psychologicly caused from anxiety and feeling awful all the time.\n\nSince then, and becouse i hate having panic attacks i try to relax and never let anyone spoil my personal moments.\n\nIn this i want to to point out how much important it is to focus on your life in case you have been focusing on making other ppl's lifes better and neglecting your own. (just in case)\n\nAlso, friends are easily made if you make an effort. I grew up travelling around and i know how hard it is, im not good at it either. But i have learned in practise, if you are happy to make friends, you will at the end! It is natural.\n\nJust dont expect too much from ppl, and always be easy on yourself...especially if u feel bad...take your time, cry or be lazy, dont ponder and dont ask "about the future"\n\nEnjoy your ,even lonely, moments. You are definitaley, NOT ALONE in this.
204705
Hello. I am sorry you are feeling so low. We all go through rough patches from time to time. Generally we pull ourselves through it, but if you are struggling, maybe you should visit your doctor. You are not alone in this. There are thousands and thousands of people in the world feeling just as you do right now. Try to talk to a friend or family member about how you feel and ask for their support. I am sure you will get through this hard time.
558798
First off, it sounds like you have had a lot to deal with over the last few years..a lot that has made you feel down, and concerned.\n\nFirst you must take care of you. You can do this in little ways. Pampering yourself with a massage or a pedi/mani might help (sounds little..and of course expensive..but this is something you could do at home and make yourself feel better about you. In other words pamer yourself and remember that you alone are in control of your own destiny. You are only 29. You have TONS of time to find that "someone that loves you" (I have numerous friends who didn't reach that goal until they were in their late to mid 30s and 40s....so you have time!). \n\nLastly, do things that make you happy. You mentioned you wanted to be the fun person you were before your baggage. What did that mean? Where did you go to feel happy, were there hobbies or things you did that made you feel special, or in a great mood if so...go back to doing those. Find the "real" you again.\n\nOnce you feel stronger and more in control of your own happiness, the rest will work itself out. People will see the spark in you and want to be around you, go out with you etc.
492507
It's normal. Although it may not seem like it, everyone, especially teenagers, in this world is standing alone, feeling isolated at one point or another. Keeping that in mind, you really aren't alone.\nThe world is big, not everyone can keep track of everyone else. Someone else right now might be feeling like this because you were completely oblivious to them. Talking to someone would help, especially a close friend or a family member.