i feel like my boyfriend for one and a half years doesnt love me as much as i love him
126256
you should not have to know if someone loves you the same, you should trust that you both love eachother. trust comes naturally.
460786
Sorry to tell you but he really is taking you for granted  is the Nice's thing   I can say...Let me tell you.  He don't love you   and he never will because if he do love you at least a Little  he won't  never hurt you feelings  Love is different and what I read is not even close  to be love...Trust me  You are better of alone than been with some one that  don't love you...Hey take a trip  if you can afford  to the place always you dream to go.. And you will one day will look back and think... How can I ever love that person  you will regret  all the time and energy you did wasted with that person...  Good luck  I hope I help out  a little...
588589
You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.
271202
What you are feeling is natural, because you love him.  But think about it, he is putting the drug as his lover instead of you.  This is a big issue, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it because you guys have been dating for five years.  Should you be put second "NO", and do not put yourself in the situation.  I know that it's easier said then done. Think about what you want!  Good Luck!
25913
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
67892
You may love him, but obviously he doesn't love you the same way or he wouldn't hurt you and make you cry.  It sounds to me like you are in an abusive relationship.  It may not be physical abuse but at the very least it is emotional abuse and that is just as bad.  Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who treats you this way?  By staying with him you are simply telling him that what he is doing to you is ok.  Do yourself a favor and see this relationship for the fraud it is.  It takes two people to love each other to make a relationship and what your recieving isn't love.  You need to do the hard thing and let this relationship go and find someone who will truely love you and not abuse you.
94235
yes that is how i feel with my boyfriend
31583
Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Has he always been like this?? Let him know that you care about what is going on with him and ask him to trust you with his heart. Assure him that you will not use it against him or take it for granted...you just want to be let in. I hope this helps! :)
270450
Ive been in love like that and all you can do is keep telling him how you feel. For me, I feel like i cant breathe when hes not around. But its a good feeling not a bad one. Let him know he is the only man for you. That you can never ever feel like this for anyone else. Let him know that your heart beats for him, that you wake up everyday thinking of ways to make him happy, that you love him unconditionally. That you are his forever. If all else fails, tattoo his name on your butt! LOL
310130
I have been in exactly the same sitation. I have a boyfriend of 3 years. He's the best and would do anything for me. What I feel for my boy friend is ever-lasting love. But.....I also fell in love with my collegue from work. I worked with him for 4 years, known him longer than my boyfriend. He felt the same way. \nI was faced with the dilema; should I leave my boyfriend for my co-worker. \n\nAfter much consideration, I decided to stay with my boyfriend.\n\nThere is a difference between being "in love" and love that will last for ever. The feeling of being "in love" will only last for a short time.   \n\nwhat you need to ask yourself is: Who will be there for my when I have problems, when I get old, when times are hard. It is only that person who really loves you. And that person will most probably be your boyfriend
431883
If he doesn't love u then this means u haven't been around him alot like bf and gf.So this is not love and u will survive it.Do things and keep yourself occupied.
509186
You need to quest yourself for following :\n1. Is your (both of yours) feeling same like earlier (or may be more intimacy)\n2. Is the reason making you separate (which U've not mentioned) is really resolved.\n3. Does he really feels and cares about you and if to live without you will be painfull for life?\n4.  Has he back with immidiate requirement of physical togatherness or the feeling has brought him back.\n5, And the last but most important, take some time of your own and ask to your heart without involving your brain. You will be getting the best answer!!\n\nAll the best. kindly let all of us know  (who has answered your question) about your decession and also in future about your happiness on these decession.
270878
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
122156
Sweetie, you're only 16.. way too young to be thinking about being so serious about a relationship. From what you said I can feel a strong sense of immaturity espeecially from you. I respect your feelings and all but I do have to tell you that you can't simply change the world because you love him. Life is more complicated than you think my dear. Accept the fact that it is not you who can make that change easier. It is only HIM who can make it easier or harder because that's his life.\n\nWhy not reverse the situation? Why not try to understand the transition that he is going through and allow him to grow-up by himself. If you are really meant for each other, you will have all the chances. When you're both old enough and more mature to handle things, you can still end up being together.\n\nFor now, I say let things be and allow both you and him to grow-up.
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Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about
246585
I have been with my boyfriend for a while too & sometimes  I feel like what does he love about me.  I think everyone feels that way sometimes because no one is perfect.  I would just continue complimenting him & flirting with him.  Tell him great things about himself all the time like how good he smells & how strong he is.  Maybe he has never been in love before & he wants to know how you know this time is different.  Make him a list of all the things you value & appreciate about him!
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You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.