ok you guys is it wrong for me to love a big woman i mean i live all the way in texas and she does to but whne we go out people look at me like im weird for going out with her. I love her she is so awsome in bed. She isnt that great lookin but looks dont matter to me just heart.
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It's wrong for people to stare... how rude!\n\nYou go right on ahead and love that big girl!\n\n(Texas does have a bit of a weight problem but I have a big problem with people who don't accept others)
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im in the same position right now. my partner is at least 100lbs overweight and im disgusted with him on many levels. not just the physical part, but his whole attitude. plus sex is unpleasant because i have back problems. i exercise, watch what i eat and am very conscious about my health. he his completely opposite. unfortunately, i cant go anywhere because im completing college and am financially dependant on him with my two children. its tough to be in this situation, i dont even sleep in the same bed with him because theres no room. we should hook them up together.
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Best Answer!\n\nI am a guy who enjoy Big Gals.\nFor the most part most heavy set ladies have pretty faces, but I enjoy big girls nice pretty round fannies! Especially when they are in small panties - not thongs, but small panties
195620
i think it is o.k  do you have pictures of it , ? don't let people that are to fat or , worry about your rep, if no one got hurt , and you are both adults, , i love woman that put out,your not wearing your juicey parts out! and that stuff has no calories , and how happy was he? emai me! aND DON'T LISTEN TO THE PIGS WHO THINK THEY ARE "GODDESS " WHO MIGHT THINK ABOUT DOING SOME "PUSH AWAYS"  THAT'S WHEN YOU PUSH AWAY FROM THE TABLE!
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Being a BBW I never realized how much I actually do that. I think part of it comes from being overweight and being made fun of by thinner women. I also think it comes from fear and jealousy. I don’t want my man going to someone else, especially a thin person. It’s a feeling of not being good enough. It’s a fear of loosing to someone who doesn’t make you feel good. And yes in my case there is jealousy that you can be thin and I can’t. Well not as easily as it seems for you. I for one apologize on behalf of BBW's that have made remarks or made you feel bad for who you are. I agree that it's not acceptable.
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Looks aren't everything. She likes or loves you for the person you are. Be thankful for that. My boyfriend thinks the same way. I tell him all the time its because he's an amazing man and I love him.
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For sure.  I am a 'big lady' and have found a very caring partner.  We have been together for 3 years and he loves my curves.  I think it's better to find someone when you are a bigger lady because you know you are with someone who is not shallow.  You are definitely loved for who you are.  When I met my partner it was totally unexpected.  There are plenty of men out there who prefer women with some meat on them.  Just be patience and he will find you.
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Well I never met a man who minded a woman looking at him as if he were a piece of meat. As a matter of fact, men enjoy it, and it boosts our all-important confidence and ego...then again, women enjoy being viewed as sexy too. Nothing wrong with it. Listen, as long as the woman is not standing in front of my TV while I'm trying to watch the matches, she can do whatever she wants!
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hey come on... that's just an infatuation or maybe you're putting your ilussion into reality. what if time will come that you'll meet her and you'll be surprised with her being over weight and some kind of an elephant-look body-shape, will you still fall in love with that lady. i bet you will run away and thanking of yourself for not introducing yourself to her. check it out boy...
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Good people look inside the person and see the real person.  I love someone who is a bit overweight and I find him unbelievably sexy.
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My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
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I used to be a big girl, and let me tell you, I look back at photos of myself and think I was so much more photogenic, was stunning, so sexy with all the curves.  At the time I had low self-esteem, but I wish now I could go back to that girl and tell her what she really is: Perfect.\n\nAnyway, if I were a man, I would want a big woman.  If I were gay I would want a big woman.  I love big women, all my friends are big women, I've TRIED being big again (the weight just didn't gain in the same spots as it was before).\n\nI think that when I felt used backthen was when I didn't care enough about myself, was insecure, and so I gave myself away faster than I would make a man work, earn, prove that he deserved me.  If I could do it over again, I'd be big and I would know how worthwhile I was.  Good luck to you, sweetheart.  I went out with one boy back then who broke up with me when I lost weight!  He wasn't having anything to do with a little woman, and he was as small as boys come!
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hey, do nothing about your weight okay.  I have been married for almost 14 years.  When was young, I wanted to go out with the skinny girl. which i have, but they dump me for no reason.  Well, when i found my wife I have now. She wasn't skinny, but she was not ugly either. she was a little overweight, but I still love her no matter what. I know their is some guys that just want a skinny  gals. If they just want a skinny gal, they got a problem. The overweight couple have a better marriage than the skinny couple do. Just don't go by the looks, go by the good heart. I myself was very skinny, before i got married,and was bad underweight, but now since i got married, i have gain, and got bigger, but not too fat at all. I am always doing something very active. so remember the overweight is nothing to be shame off. if he don't like you cause  you are overweight, then he is no good.
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Okay, I do see both sides of the story here.  In my opinion, sexual attractiveness IS important in the marriage and I think it's only right that each spouse make themselves attractive to each other.  Thank God this is a non issue in our marriage as my husband and I are both very active physically but your wife is also right.  You should love her unconditionally no matter what.  Though this doesn't mean that if she gains 100 lbs you would still find her attractive.\n\nNow think about this scenario.  What if she got into a terrible accident and her face and body got  disfigured as a result.  Would you still love her then?
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The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
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Lonely one, your question really touched me. I, too, know what it's like to be an overweight woman and what it's like to be ignored by every man. I'm not trying to be depressing but it's the truth, as I'm sure you know. But I think there is someone out there who will love you for who you are. Realistically, there's only a small slice of the population that would consider going out with a very overweight person, but keep being the nice person that you are and it will happen. Feel free to e-mail me at rmaynard@su.edu We may have a lot in common.
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I agree.  It's all about the emotions you have for your man because even if he's not big if you love him you're going to be happy with him.  I can just kiss my man and and lay in his arms and just be totally satisfied.