im just a lil insecure lol i mean ever since a myspace incident i had with him ive been havin doubts he intentionally hurt me , long story lol but anyways my questions is how do i kno if he is for real this time and is serious , and how can i get him to crave me ?
130248
Tell him that your pregnant and see what his reaction is.
168760
if you met him on myspace then just ask him if he would like to do something sometime. if he says yes then you are golden but if he says no then you will probably have the same relationship with myspace. so pretty much you just have an online relationship that you can find pretty much anywhere on the internet or you could have a relationship with a guy you like in real life. give up the online relationship if you have to and just ask him out. you have the saftey blanket of being online so you wont get too nervous in person to tell him.
628190
Honey,\nI was in the same spot as you once before. I didn't like it. I didn't brake up with him. He wasn't cheating on me either. My online boyfriend broke his leg and was in the hospital for a few weeks. When I found out I was so freakin sad. I felt bad because I sent him e-mails and told him to stop cheating on me and I totally jumped to conclusions. I have never ever done that after what happened those few weeks. I hope you find out that he is not cheating and that he e-mails you and I hope that you and him  have a good lasting realationship.\nGood luck- babe
304752
What a jerk!!! You really need to stop trying.  Maybe once you stop trying he will wonder and come back...but I guarantee it will only be temporary.  If he were really a friend he would not do that to you.  I am SO sick and tired of players...that's what he is...a player and you don't need him.  I'm sure you have lots of other IM and Myspace friends to chat with...give it a couple weeks and you'll feel better about it...but I know it's hard!!!!  Hang in there and be strong. :)
99825
If it was me, I wouldn't bother with him if he broke up with me before, but on the other hand, he may have matured enough to be serious.  If you like him, just tell him! If he can't appreciate the honesty, then you don't need him! <3
489715
probably not your best bet. if you do that, he'll think you are manipulative, and conniving, and you probably aren't you just want him! totally understanding. you should just tell him how you feel ok! =)
109381
It sounds like you might be insecure...maybe because you have been hurt before.  Don't put extra stress on yourself worrying about things you can't control though.  If its meant to be it will work out!
244064
This information is coming from the ultimate relationship specialist who happens to be Gay.  Don't let him go, but don't date him yet.  Wait a while until he becomes more mature.  If he finds someone else, then that's that.  But if after a long while he still tries to hook up with you, then you know he must care about you, so then give him a try at being serious.
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Honey, you should stay away from this person.  He has already been in and out of jail.  He is a repeat offender and that should mean something to you.  You have your own problems, getting with him will only give you MORE problems.  There are plenty of guys out there who do not have troubled pasts or futures for that matter, get one of those.  The fact that "he always ends up saying my life is too messed up to be with anyone right now", is a brush off and you know it.  He's not interested.  Stop chasing him only because you can't have him and stay away from the bad boys.  I know they seem dangerous and exciting and they are but; BAD BOYS = BAD RELATIONSHIP = BAD LIFE.  Set the bar higher and have some respect for yourself.
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nope i bet you know more about tyler and the internet guy.  you will be safer that way.  he can tell you he is going to meet you and because you dont know anything about him (like how he looks and dont go by that pic he sent to you) i am raper man shows up and now you are in some wooded area with no clothes on and not breathing (graphic enough for you, good) so stick with tyler at least you know his face doesnt change...
168264
myspace is great w/ stuff like this! do u no this person? if u do talk to them and tell them that they need to leave u alone!  also talk to ur bf some more... make sure he knows that u love him as much as u do and make sure he knows about this "threat".  if u dont know this guy then dont worry about it because how is he going to tell ur bf anyways??  my myspace account is www.myspace.com/jessicacharity so if u wanna check it out that would be cool.... lol just ignore him.. i wouldnt worry so much as long as ur bf knows that u love him and never cheated.\n\nJessi *muah* good luck tho
30572
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
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I don't think you are paranoid, I think you are a fool for even talking to him anymore.  You must have low self esteem to let someone treat you like that.   If you're smart tell him to take a hike,..a long one!  Find someone deserving of you not some jerk that treats you like a fool.\nMove on, and good luck in finding someone honest and nice too.\nGod Bless!
17198
awwhh hell no girl..first of all nebody u meet online could be dangerous..u cant trust them he could be a sex offender..dont do it just have fun online..ask 4 his if u really really wanna talk but otha then that 4get it.
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They may be just people he met befor you on the service and he just wants to keep in touch. Its the hardest thing in the world to imagine and to confront when your not sure, you dont want to make yourself look insecure, but obviously your feeling that somthings up and once you feel that you always be judging your own intuition.Id create a fake person on the site and try to see if he falls for the bait> if he mentions you everythings probably fine if not you better run
238230
Tell him how it makes you feel.  I would be insanely jealous and po'ed.  Don't accuse him of anything because it will get him on the defensive and tell you you're being ridiculous.  Say it along the lines of..."Whenever I see you get those messages from your ex's or talk to me about them, it really makes me feel..."  Talk only about how if affects you.\n\nIf he has any concern for you, he would stop.  If he doesn't, then if you really like him, ignore it afterwords even if it kills you inside.  It's the only way.\n\nOn the other hand, if you think this guy's being an bunghole, drop him like the selfish, arrogant retard he is.
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Honey, DUMP that loser.  \n\nYou don't deserve that crap.  He thinks you'll just take it, but that's abuse.  If you're that bad, what is he doing with you?  \n\nHe just feels so insecure that he is putting you down.  This is NOT your problem.  Get rid of that dork!