Has any one used the Instead menstrurl cup?  If so how do you like then. Do you think a virgin can use them (Im 20y/o, yes there are virgins that age)?
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I use a mooncup www.mooncup.co.uk\n\nI really like it:\nYou don't have to carry anything extra with you\nMy periods are a bit lighter \nI can swim and do yoga with it (which I couldn't when using towels, at least not on the heaviest days)\nIt doesn't dry your vagina out unlike tampons\nIt works out to be much cheaper\nIt's much better for the environment\n\nIt takes a little while before you get used to inserting and removing it, but you will get used to it if you persist. I wasn't a virgin when I started using one, but the brand I use comes in 2 different sizes, and I have the larger one, you would probably need the smaller. If you have used tampons previously and are fairly familiar with and comfortable with that part of your body, you'll be OK.
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The tampon packaging says there's a hole in the hymen that allows the tampon to go through.\n\nDon't worry about using tampons before you have sex.  Many women do it safely.\n\nThe previous answerer got it right, though.  You're a virgin until you have sex, whatever the state of your hymen is.
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I have not personally used this product,however, years ago(at least 25) there was a similar product that was briefly on the market and was later taken off. It was a similar looking flexible cup shaped device that worked in the same way as this one, acting as a little receptacle to hold the blood until you remove it. I did use that product and remember liking it. One problem with it was that if you didn't take it out "properly" the contents spill ed all over which was unpleasant. This one pictured appears to be able to be emptied while still in, which would solve that problem. The other thing to think about is the increased chances of tss and uti's that may be likely with this type of product. Then theres the possible reaction to the material, rubber. If I were still menstruating I do not think I would try it simply because I don't like the idea of an internal method. I do think tho that people that like tampons and loathe the "pad" might want to try it.
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Just the fact you are asking the question here sound like it is a serious problem.  And as people have mentioned above, natural is much better but I’m sure you already know that.  The longer you take it the more mental block you will have. The problem is that many times it is a vicious cycle, where the more it doesn’t work the more you worry.  I had that problem at a young age and got a new partner which helped.  Not saying you need that but it helped me stop thinking about it, kind of a clean slate.  You can get that in your current relationship though.  Also try having your partner with you while you masturbate and do it together.  Sometimes that will just lead to sex, or maybe don’t let it right away so you aren’t thinking about it the first few times. And always go down on her.  Another way is to stop using a condom if you are (make sure shes clean and on birth control) it eases the time needed between hard on and sex.  Exercise, less caffeine, and proper eating and sleep helped me a great deal.  All of those lead to a better body image and increased circulation and self-esteem.  Doctors agree on all of that. Lastly, once it starts working you will never look back and be fine.  Good luck!
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Why do you want to use tampons?\nWhat does your mother not believe? \nWhy is it so important to you to use tampons?\n\nLolabunny trust me when I say although you think you do, you really don't want to use tampons, as well as expensive, inconvenient and harmful to the environment tampons are also bad for your vaginal health and unhygienic. \n\nYou have over twenty different menstrual options to choose from, using tampons does not make you mature, as a lot of young women your age seem to think, what would make you mature would be to research tampons and how your body works, you would then realise how harmful tampons are and that there are far better menstrual options available to you. \n\nTampons prevent your vagina from cleaning itself, give bacteria the perfect environment to multiply upon, leave fibres within your vagina, dry out mucosa resulting in vaginal splitting, put chemicals into your vagina that affect vaginal pH, put chemicals into your body that can build up affecting general health, chemicals as well as harsh fibres can irritate or cause allergies, expand adding to bloating, expand adding to menstrual cramping. This is why tampons are considered one of the most harmful options available, they are linked to vaginal infections and more serious illnesses such as toxic shock syndrome. \n\nYour mother is wrong for saying they affect virginity, but she is right for not buying you tampons, although she should maybe have been the one telling you about tampon risks. Those risks are also increased if you are in your pre-teens or teens because you do not have the same antibodies that adults do to deal with infections and TSS, your vulva and vagina are also more prone to irritation from the fibres and chemicals used within commercial tampons. \n\nYou cannot change your mother's mind, for the time being it is far healthier for you to stick with sanitary pads or free-flow methods, when you are older and still feel that you want to use internal options then you should look at safer options such as menstrual cups. Your mother is probably the one buying your menstrual products for you, and she is probably also the one putting the roof over your head, respect her wishes until you are mature enough to choose for yourself what menstrual options to use and until you are able to pay for them yourself – it really isn't a big deal if you cannot use tampons.\n\n\nTampon issues;\n\nhttp://www.tssis.com \nhttp://www.spotsite.org \nhttp://www.tamponalert.org.uk \nhttp://www.seac.org/tampons \nhttp://www.wen.org.uk/sanpro \nhttp://www.frontiernet.net/%7Eruthb/Tampons.html \nhttp://www.life.ca/nl/46/maxi.html \n\nAlternatives;\n\nhttp://www.divacup.com\nhttp://www.keeper.com\nhttp://www.mooncup.co.uk\nhttp://www.softcup.com\nhttp://www.lunapads.com
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I love the diva cup!  The fluid is thicker than you think and doesn't really "slosh around" like that.  It's actually much better for you than using paper products that soak up your natual moisure also.  \nIt's comfortable- I don't notice it's there, only has to be changed twice per 24 hours, and I've found that it's much better for swimming, running, etc.  \nI would recommend it to everyone!
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Not that much girls, I had a GF that loved to have sex while menstruating. The first time, she pulled me over to the bed, and when I saw my  thing all red, I panicked, but she told me to grow up, she  kissed me  silly and there we went. After that, I never looked back, a woman in period turns me on. She programed me that way, and I thank her. You girls are beautifull, even when  in period.
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Really? Sorry about your mom. Any of the thin ones are the best. But tampons are all together better. Some people wont wear them, but its always worth a try. Anything that you buy has instuctions on how to use them. so read that.
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You can use them right off with your first period, but you have to make sure you're using the proper absorbency.  You don't want one that is too absorbent for the amount of flow you have.  Also, wear a pantiliner because sometimes a tampon will leak if you're really flowing.  Wear a pad if you think you might have a lot of leakage.
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WOW....i just went to the website and never heard of this. I also have never seen it at any stores. I think many women don't use it because they haven't heard of it yet. I went throught the entire website and find "Instead" to be very interesting. I put in a order and will try it. Thx so much for this info because I am so tired of pads and tampoons. I hope this becomes a life saver.
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I am a 34F and anyone would agree that is too large.  I wish I was a 34D.  They are heavy and give me neck pain.  I have to replace my bras frequently because the cup stretches and it is almost impossible to find bras in my size.  As for male attention, I wouldn't know as I try to cover them up with lots of layers of clothing even though it makes me look twice my dress size.  That doesn't always work though... one time in Egypt a local guy grabbed my breasts even though I was covered from chin to toe in heavy clothes and everyone else was walking around half naked... but I punched him so hopefully he won't try that with any other women.
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Some women use Instead, an alternative to tampons and pads.  It is a cup that is placed around the cervix that catches period blood.  You can buy it at Wal-Mart or Target.  Some women say that their partner can't feel it, but you may want to discuss it with him beforehand just in case.
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A lot are not virgins.  But I recommend staying one!  I am 25 been there done that.  All you will get is used and a bad rep.
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If you're talking about tampons, it's ok to use them if you're a virgin.  Just follow the directions in the box.  It might be a little tricky at first.  Just relax and it'll be easy enough after a few times :) Good luck!
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I've heard of that, but never used it. I think tampons would be easier to deal with. Except you have to change tampons more often....
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I've had one for 5 months now.  I'm 26, have one child and no plans to have any more.  I was looking for an alternative to birth control pills.  Initially I was looking into the Essure insert but it was too permanent, I wanted the ability to change my mind if I wanted another kiddo.\n\nGetting the IUD inserted was uncomfortable.  The next few days were torture.  I was afraid I'd rip something if I farted.  My periods were pretty normal but the last two have been bothersome (light but neverending).  Overall I'm pleased with this method.
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Buy a couple.  Different ones have different effects!  G-spot is one of my favorites.\n\nThe hard plastic ones aren't great, but they aren't bad for starting out to see if it is something you like and it's a lot less intimidating than the full-blown model!