my bf only ever comments on how 'hot' i am or how 'beautiful' i am.  he never says anything about what he likes about me apart from material things.  maybe if he didn't always have his tongue down my throat he'd notice other things about me.....
130429
looks can be fun at first... if he's still like that after a while i say ditch him an get one who appreciates you
331890
Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!
597509
Don't take it personally.  It is NOT against you or have anything to to with YOU.  It is just a natural reaction.\n\n Don't you look at other women too?  I mean, aren't you interested in what they are wearing, how their hair style is, etc.?\n\nIt is natural to look at beauty and (like it or not) women are beautiful.  So don't be so hard on him, if he is a open type of guy ask him what he finds attractive about the person.  Maybe you'll learn more about him.  I am sure he loves you and is thinking he is happy to be with you.
317465
My husband weighs 250 and hes hot.  He has a shaved head too does that count?  Anyway I think he is hot but what is most important is his personality and the way he treats me.  That is seriously what attracted me to him, not to be sappy or anything.  So that would be a yes.
440420
The message is not a negative one!  The guy was actually complimenting her!  When a guy says you have a fat Pu$$y, it's a very good thing!  Guys tell me that all the time!  It means that her private part, her outter lips (labia) is a bigger size than usual.  that's why he said that!  He's not calling her fat or anything!  It's a very good thing!  I like it when guys think it's fat!  The average size of a Pu$$y is just average, but when you have a nice fat juicy one...you should feel special! :-)  She should take that as a compliment, not an insult!
598980
Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
432102
He sounds bipolar. I don't understand but if a guy said to me not to tempt him and then he tells me I'm pretty I'd be freaked out.
292611
Looks aren't everything. She likes or loves you for the person you are. Be thankful for that. My boyfriend thinks the same way. I tell him all the time its because he's an amazing man and I love him.
630105
I like when guys notice things most people don't. Little details. It shows they're paying attention.\n\nMy ex bf told me he liked the way I spoke.. the way I accentuated all the syllables in my words. I mean, he had to have been paying good attention to notice that!\n\nThose mean much more than, he your ass looks good in those jeans. lol
268060
i think your bf is an idiot, that or his father never taught him that it is whats inside that counts and not whats on the outside. beauty is only skin deep. my father taught all of us boys that it was the inner beauty of a woman that meant the most. even if you have put on weight on the out side your still the same person on the inside. there are alot of men in this world that loves women that have some size to them and are not skinny.
82921
When I'm having sex, my mind becomes a lot less verbal because I'm so into it. I feel like I become more animal. So I wouldn't worry about him not being into it, he's probably really into it. But if you like dirty talk, you should tell him. I don't think that would scare him, it would probably turn him on and he would try it.
398488
if guys are insecure about certain things, they sometimes joke about or "jokingly" criticize themselves, kinds fishing for compliments....typically if they bother u about it alot, theyre insecure...it sounds like this guy has been hated alot....so he's just checkin to make sure ur not tired of him yet, and he doesnt think that u'll like him very long....
266896
Dear heart,\n\nIt is more normal than most men would be able to admit.\n\nYour bf is an honest and fairly courageous guy to confide in you about this.  This is unusual and might be a good reason for you to invest more time in him.\n\nWomen check out other women constantly and this is not regarded as "abnormal".\n\nMen are also human, usually more human than they are able to admit.  \n\nAnd times are different now.  The older generation of men could not possibly own up to what your bf is saying.  He is actually with the times pretty well.\n\nAnd even if he is sexually attracted to certain other males, it does not mean he is not a good partner for you.  \n\nTruth be told, a LOT of males are sexually attracted to certain other males at times.  Most do not admit this to themselves, and it festers and screws up their relationships.\n\nSo I think you do have a bf who is honest with you about important things.  And that is a good thing.\n\nHope this helps.
564073
he knows that he must obviously have a real great thing for you or he wouldnt WANT it as often as you say and if he said he has never acted this way before than you shoulds beleive me i mean him he and you appearantly have a natural attraction when it comes down to it , I (i meant he ) must really love you to want to share something so special with you . and 3 or 4 times aday just makes it that more interessting for the next time yall are experiencing that special bond between the 2 of you and i bet that you enjoy the hell out of turning him on / teasing him otherwise you wouldnt do it so often and appearantly he does too enjoy being teased and turned on dont you think?  he appearantly makes you happy  thats about all i have to say about this love you honey
359949
Mine used to be like that to until I started calling him the B word and he realized I really do sound like a woman..I told him that was my job, and I don't even do it...Record him or something so he can see how he sounds, or is he really that insecure? Good luck...
91693
My guy says stuff like that too, and it's always in the heat of the moment. I believe that it not only turns him on but he truly loves you and it reassures him that you are "his". I think it's pretty cool, and I like it.
632260
The answer depends on the type of guy he is or the type of guys his friends are. Some guys like to act all macho and say crude things while others have more respect and dont say anything but may still think that she is hot.