If u r 22 years old and u met the most amazing person in the world and they were everything u had been looking for, but the only problem is they're 13 years old...what would u do?
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I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
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i was 24 and the guy was 37. it was in my bedroom of my apartment and i loved him...still do. it was one of the best experiences of my life and i'm glad i waited. i'm 30 now and he's still the best i've ever had.
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I met my boyfriend the same way.. but we were both the same age and i trusted him. We met up and have been together for 6 monthes now! But it's probably not safe to meet him unless you friends first of all, and i would talk to him on the phone first. Don't trust people until you at least talk to them on the phone and know them first. If your parents and frinds don't know this could very dangerous. If you really really really like him I recommend waiting longer If he really likes you he will wait until your older and try to get closer. He should meet you don't go to meet him.
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Well I have had a crush on someone since I was in 1st grade and we ended up getting together in 7th grade and broke up.  Well come to find out that he is still in love with me and me in love with him.  We just couldn't stay away from each other so either fate or the two of you will bring yall together.  I am now 16 and me and him are stronger than ever and are still going strong and I plan to be with him for w while, just let him know how you feel!!!!
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Make it some important to you as it is important to her. My 13 year old was just recently in love and he was sooo happy. Also tell your sister to take things slooooooooooooooooow.
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i was 14, in my second year of high school.. i was at a friends house who actually lived near his aunties and he happened to be there! well anyway we had been on and off since our first year n we had just started goin out again.. we met up out the front of his aunties and he pulled me close and woahhh it was simply amazing.. everything around me went hazy i was so glad to be in that moment with the most perfect guy.. was an unforgetable moment\nwere still together to this day 5 years n going strong!
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Find someone your own age.  I think yours/his is bordering on criminal behavior
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Sorry to hear about your loss Victorio. \n\nYou have to give yourself time to heal. You can't expect anyone else to compare to your ex. 13 years is a long time. The friendship and comfort level that you build up over that time is enormous. Any new person you meet is going to seem so distant, you're not going to feel that same bond. Give yourself time. Maybe don't date for a while, or if you do, just don't have any expectations. Just talk, get to know the person. Maybe you'll like each other & keep dating. Maybe you won't. Just go into it with an open mind.\n\nIt's very hard to let someone go. Especially someone who was in your life for so long.\n\nIt will get better. If she was the right one for you, it wouldn't have ended. That means the right person is still out there. So give her a chance to find you. Don't close your heart to someone new.\n\nTake care.\nGood luck.
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im 16 but still wanted to answer sure i would wats wrong with goin to talk to someone who looks good? u never know what might happen that might become the best person u have ever met in ur life
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There will be many boys in your future.  13 years old is to young to date.  Most relationships don't last in the teenage years.  Do you want to become a statistic?
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Age differences like this can work out, but there will be MANY difficulties and you both will have to be willing to face them together, if you two are both truly in it together, then you can conquer anything.\n\n(P.s. he's single now right? as long he's not married then go for it, you only have one life to lead. Don't do/not do anything that you will regret)\nGood Luck and Take Care
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If all you know is his first name I would think you will have a hard time finding him.  If he is only 13 or 14 get over it, you have plenty of time to find the right fella.
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If they are truly in love then age shouldnt matter .After all , he is just a guy and she is just a girl ,and they are both just looking for that special someone . Just make sure the girl knows to take it slow and theyll be fine.
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sounds like a great guy. if you feel like you definatly want more then that give it a shot. i have been in your situation to the  point my parents even call him their surragate son and i'll tell you what he confessed how much he loved me after it was too late. now after marrying others and kids we will never be able to go back to that first innocent love we once had for each other.
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Meet someone else.  You will find someone great who will sweep you off your feet, and the old guy will be out of your mind forever.  Believe me, been there done that!
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keep in contact with them. I've been friends with my best friend for 12 years. (we're 21 now).. the secret is finding time to spend with each other.
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I meet my boyfriend on the internet and we have been together for 13  months, he is 37 years old and i am 17, just wait and mrs right will ome along soon, trust me i waited and found my man, its worth it.