i have this ex- boyfriend/frined that i want to stop being friends with him but then he makes it really hard because then he starts being even more rude or he is like extra nice what do i do.do i talk crap about him back or just let it be
135560
Stop all contact unless you just love the drama , then call jerry springer. He is an X for a reason and he isn't a friend.
486820
Well, firstly, you need to write down why exactly he's an EX.  I'm sure there's a reason for it.  Then you need to figure out if those reasons are still there.  You broke up with him for a reason, don't get back together with him if those reasons haven't been removed.\n\nSecondly, we always have a soft spot for some of our exes.  They're comfortable.  You know them well, and sometimes, you need the attention that they can give you.  Doesn't mean that you'll make a good couple, just that you'll make good friends.\n\nIf you're interested, spend some time being his friend and see if anything develops.
111240
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
514846
Tell her to stop then because it is hurting your feelings.  If she don't want to stop, then you should stop hanging out with her.  Friends should respect each other.  Stick to your decision, no matter what the consequence maybe.  Don't worry about her gossiping about you, the most important thing is you stick to who you are as a person.  Eventually your action will speak louder than her words, if she retaliate like that.
290666
With a guy like him, you just have to tell him you are no longer interested in being with him, and just end it.  Don't continue to talk to him at all or anything.  If you don't like him as a boyfriend, don't even be friends with him at this point because he'll always be hanging on and you'll just get irritated with having to deal with him.  Then he'll never leave you alone.  It seems mean, but I've had to do the same.  You will find someone better and more emotionally stable, I hope!
216230
Don't date him if that's what you're thinking.  if it's too high maintenance even to be friends with him then don't be friends with him at all.  I had a similar problem.  Just forget him completely if he's too aggravating to even think about.
364015
It's okay to be polite to him, since it takes more effort to hold on to anger, but you don't have to be his friend.  It doesn't seem like he wants to be yours.\n\nIt sounds like he thinks this other guy is "cool", and he wants to be "cool" too, even if it means being mean to someone who hasn't done anything to hurt him.  If you still like him as a person, you could tell him you don't hate him, but what he did was really hurtful, and until he can see that he can't treat you like that and still expect you to be friends, you aren't friends.  Not enemies, but not friends either.
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Don't worry yourself another minute about the "rumor" or "him"!  If he doesn't believe you there is nothing you can say that is going to change his mind.\n\nObviously he doesn't want to be "friends" with you.  It's requires a certain amount of "maturity" to remain on friendly terms with an "ex".  He apparently, isn't able to handle it.\n\nMove on, don't look back and best of luck.
203840
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
475608
Come right out and tell him.....you know, you talk too much and it gets on my nerves....\n\nI have a friend like that two......it is annoying!!
35222
DEAR \ngo and say sorry to them. Even if u r not wrong what bad a sorry will do instead u will get ur frenz back\nBEST OF LUCK
639436
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
439727
Yeah...next time you're alone with the jerk, tell him you're not going to be treated that way again in front of his friends/gf's etc.  If he can't respect you while others are around, he doesn't need to talk to you at all.  Godloveya.
513164
Even if you still have feelings for him sometimes it's best to just let go.  Me and my gf mutually broke up back in May...and decided to be friends...well that was fine until she started dating someone else almost right away (after we were together for 2.5 years) so I got pissed and stopped talking to her.  It was hard cause I still cared for her at the time but not TALKING or SEEING her since then has really helped me to get over the whole thing and move on.\n\nin summary......Stop talking to him, but don't become enemies...be civil about it.
70087
Wow. You sound really angry. I guess that if you are serious about ending this relationship, breaking up with a friend is a lot like breaking up with somone you are having a romantic relationship with.\n\nYou could tell her that you are done with feeling humiliated and done with her mean comments. That you consider a friend to, at least, be someone who respects you. And that you consider your friendship to be over.\n\nYou may want to do this in person so it is formal and final and done in an adult way.\n\nIf you feel it's appropriate, you could tell her that when she is ready to treat you with respect that she could contact you, but otherwise, it's over.\n\nGood luck. You DO deserve to be treated with respect and not humiliated. I support you in standing up for yourself.
648625
well think bout y u dont wanna be friends with her anymore. if ur sure u gotta good reason y not tell her that then? or just tell her straightforward that u 2 just cant be friends anymore and get it over it.
379043
You should be grateful he's nice enough to apologize, and you should be glad that he's still willing to be friends with you. Concentrate on the good things in life.