see im not sure what to be cause right now im all jiggled up cause im in 12 grade and ill be in colledge next year so what should i do i mean i know to follow my heart but thers so many chioces and i dont which ones to choose maybe yall can give me some ansewers
128437
What was your best subject in High School?  What was your favorite subject?  Are they the same?  You just found your major.
627343
i'd say go for something new.  it sounds like you might already have your mind made up about trying the co-ed route.  you can still stay friends or catch games of your old team and start a whole new thing w/the new co-ed team.  go for it girl!  you can do anything!
569279
It's easy to feel lost at the thought of moving on.  And leaving middle school for high school is a big deal.  It's normal for you to be feeling all of the things you are...sad about leaving behind that part of your life and a little fear/worry about the future.  Please know it's completely normal.  Look at the books, see if they are interesting to you...if they are, read them over the summer. It will give you something to do to take your mind off of things.  Life is all about change and moving and growing.  Take time to relax and think not only about the good days you had in middle school but think about all the great things that are going to happen in high school and college.  Good luck.
198711
If your about to get a scholarship then I would recommend that you stay, But I would recommend to you even more to follow your dreams. Dont let your dreams get shatttered by not doing what your heart told you to. Listen to your heart by going where you feel most attracted to. If you dont really feel attracted to cheer  then look for something else until you find what is most appealing to you. If you follow your dreams and your heart you might end up later on in your life with a bad paying job but inside you'll most likely be happy that you followed your dreams and that you're doing what you always wanted to do.
475691
Go out with the one you like best.  The rest doesn't matter.  Popularity, as I have said before, is overrated.  Follow your heart and it will lead you on the right path.
641264
when i graduated from elementary school i was very proud.  i loved school and studied alot.  then summer came...i cried.  i was happy for the accomplishments i've done, but sad to know that came to an end an what was left was uncertainty.  it's a big transition to go from elementary to the high school level.  you go from being the oldest in your building to the youngest.  that in itself is scary.  then you have to decide what cirriculum you want, college prep, business, etc.  such big decisions for a young person.  add that all together with puberty and it's a crisis.  when i started jr high, i was upset and sick in the stomach for about a week or so.  then i realized, everyone was just as upset as i was and we all felt the same so why not just talk it out.  most people don't want to tell you how scared they are.  it's difficult wondering if you will be accepted or if you will be the nerd.  regardless of whether you are the class president or the class nerd, the best years of your life will be in high school.  after that, you have to get up in the morning and go to work so you can pay your car, house and everything else.  soon you will realize how great it was to be in school with no worries, which when you were in school seemed like a life or death situation.  all the people that ignored you or were just plain nasty will say hi to you like you were their best friends.  but high school will be great.  join everything you can, all the sports, clubs , activities, etc.  it looks great in the senior year book next to your name.  good luck
65241
please dont reject this advice. Talk to your parents and mabye a favorite teacher. I can understand if you maybe don't get along with your parents. I didn't get along with mine when I was first getting interested in boys. I did have a favorite teacher that I probably could have talked with about things. \n\nI felt so much like a misfit in school. I worked in the office and one of the other students in there started talking to me about books I was reading. We went out for a little while \n\nI have learned that I am my own best company. Have a good spirit and find things to do where you are enjoying yourself. Other people are attracted to fun people. Join a club, talk to lots of people and smile. \n\nLearn what you think are your values and what you want to have in a boyfriend. It's much easier to find something if you know what it will be like when you see it. \n\nI hope this helped.
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i feel like your heart won't stare you wrong but it's a question only you can find the answer to... love is different for everyone... as for high school, well, it could be one of two things... maybe to him you're fresh meat or maybe one day your soul-mate you be the judge... good luck..
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I personally think you should settle for what you have all ready. Trying to get more popular might, and will probably end in disaster. \nMost popular girl in school? It won't matter a few years from now. Settle for what you have. Popularity isn't about pretty clothes, money and friends, it's about confidence. And reading your question, you don't seem to have too much confidence in yourself about this situation. Just listen to me now, stay who you are, like who you are. DON'T try to be the most popular girl in school.
58342
Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
269120
Go with your heart it never lies. Good luck!
398168
Talk to your counselor. Grow up... and I don't mean that in a mean way, with maturity comes more appreciation for education. In the mean time hang in there do your best, balance your life get involved in extra curricular activities, do community service. Find your passion... maybe it is in the arts.
648240
you know - heres a funny, but allways good way to find out what you really want: Make up your mind to go through with this, you will follow your heart in what matters.\n\nThink thoroughly through the pros and cons on both the guys. Spend a little time on this and make your dreams. Then, write each boys name on two pieces of paper, scramble and pick one - the one you will go for. This will be faith chosing for you. Very fatalistic indeed.\n\nSo: when you read the name (whatever it was) you notice: what is you feeling; is it excitement or is it "oh,well(disappointed?)". Now you'll know what your gut told you: the excitement-feeling will be your heart-choise.\n\nGood luck!
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Stop, think, maybe take a little time to consider if you are really ready to go to the next level.  This is not something one should rush - the time, the mood, the question must always be right for you.\n\nDon't feel that you are doing this for the sake of the gratification of others.\n\nGood luck hon - I know you will make the right decision.
142083
well you should follow your heartÜ anyway if youre really meant for each other then fate will bring you together in the end no matter what. No one can tell you whats right for you other than your own heartÜ
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realistically ask yourself why you have that "voice" are you not being challanged enough, or is it too hard, amybe you just want time to your self, maybe you feel that colledge is a road leading you to nowhere.  Asess how important this career move(thats normally where it leads) is, thalk to your school coucilor, parents and carefully accepts advise from friends, I say carefully becuase they may be in the same boat and have a less mature way of looking at the road ahead, if making a few class changes, getting yourself involved in classes that spark your interest and devoting some one on one time to yourself would keep you from giving up all together, then its an option to look into.  Education isnt alwats easy, but if you are passionate about what your learning, you'll get more out of it!
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Try and spend more time getting to know yourself. What makes you happy. Be comfortable with yourself, school is one big popularity contest, don't buy into it. Spend more time making yourself happy than worrying about guys. It's not who you love, but who loves you.