what do i do hes still going out with the other girl but he told me that he still likes me and he wont break up with her what should i do go on to someone else stay with him please help me...
124392
If he wont leave her, and claims to like you still, he either just wants to be friends with you, he has the delusional thoery he can date both you and her, and/or he wants you to be his cheating partner. Go on to someone else, but don't be closed to letting your new relationship progress.
173956
Well, I'm sorry, but it really doesn't sound like this boy has his loyalty values placed in the right spot in his mind. He toyed with this girl, let her toy with him in return, and kept secrets from you. That is definitely betrayel, and you have every right to be bothered and upset. Could you give him a second chance? Of course. Especially because he seems to be respecting your wishes now and not talking to her anymore. If he didn't care about what you wanted, he probably could have broken up with you and gone on seeing this girl. The decision really is up to you, though. If you feel like you can forgive him for this and give him another shot and staying with you (assuming that he has learned his lesson), then by all means go for it. But if you are still really bothered by this and think that it could definitely happen again, and he still has strong feelings for this girl, then maybe you should consider moving on. It would be very hard because you love him...but if he is not going to be loyal to you, your relationship would never last. And love is not very useful in a non-existent relationship.\n\nThink it over carefully. Talk with your boyfriend about what you are feeling, and see what he has to say about it. If he cares for you, there is bound to be something that he can do to make you feel better. Base your judgements off of a sound conclusion that you are certain of, and remember to do what you believe is right, and what will be best for both you and him. Sometimes decisions like this are all a matter of the heart, especially when dealing with forgiveness. I wish you luck!
604567
hope both of them find some one better and leave you!!!!!!!\n\nits not fair of you to keep 2 girls hanging on till you find out which one likes you the most!
560661
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
449470
Let him go, obviously, he wanted your friend and he realized that you were still the girl for him.  What makes you think, that he wont do this again.  He finds another girl that he is attracted to and says   f-you...i want her now.\n\nGirl, go find a good  man becuz he doesnt even deserve you.
120403
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
383953
Go out with the guy that is going to ask you. Now, deal with this other guy you like more. Just hang out with him and talk to him. If you find that he likes you and you like him then let this other guy understand that you have feelings for someone else. If you were to continue dating him then you would just be on a guilt trip and that is no fun.
343289
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
36937
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
553977
he is trying to tell u that he likes this other girl instead of u in a non hateful way. that's all there is 2 it. ur rite he should have told u some thing, but he should be the one to make the move, but if he's too lazy 2, then u have to ask him "whats going on with us?" or something like that, \n\ngood luck!\n\n~heather~
129460
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
136495
I know what you are feeling.  He is only dating that other girl for a rebound.  He follows you everywhere because he he wants to make it a quinky-dink and make sure you aren't around your other ex.  I think you should just tell the ex off and run after your true love.
250842
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
138925
if you guys feel the same way then he should break up with her but if he doesn't you should move on cuz he is just an asshole!! you need to talk to him about how you feel and don't be the other gurl! and you also shouldn't wait cuz if he loves you he won't leave you waiting when he is with someone else that just isn't love.
174153
He's waisting your time and so are you!  If he is living with another girl, and he left you for her, you're never going to be able to forgive him for it.  So if I were you, just tell him that you're not in the mood to be playing games.  Dont call him, dont answer his calls, and dont try to meet up with him anywhere.  Hes playing a game with you and if you let him win, then what else to you have to look forward to?  You need to be strong and stand up for yourself?  do you like to be pushed and toyed around?  Didn't think so!  Honey, there are plenty of wonderful men out there, this one is not the last and only one for you!  Just give it time, and good things will come to you!  And the best part is, it will come to you when you least expect it! take care Sweetie!
337276
I dont understand, is he still in the relationship with the other girl?\nAnyways, if he is..i dont think it would be fair to ruin things between them.\nIf he feels something, let him make the move- talking to u about it.\nDont write the letter, stop flirting wiv him n do move on.\nSometimes i guy flirting wiv u could just mean, a guy flirting wiv u.\nSorry, luv but i wish u all the best.
464016
He sounds like a duetschbag to me. Just move on. You don't want to get involved with someone that's going to see multiple women. Notice how he ducked out of things when you asked how he felt and obviously tried to move the relationship a little further. He's a snake. Find someone else. As for the girl, There's nothing you can really do about it. Just move on, find different people to be around.