We started hanging out and it was going great.  She says she wants to wait until she gets back becuase she is afriad of liking me more if we get into a relationship before hand.  She is being sencire and I just really don't know what to do!
138386
To wait is to create hold, is she holding her life for you? Because if she's not , you need to experience life as well, if its meant to be you both will meet in the middle and if its not you can enjoy the memories you had that lead you into your next venture.
343567
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
359097
well, then u should wait till you knwo shes single. it might also help if u knew if she liked you. she kinda sounds like a playa. give it some time. but dont ask her out while shes dating someoen else, bad things happen
490996
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
390473
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
489699
well, you can't blame the girl if she really is busy. some girls though say this to let you down without hurting your feelings. so why dont you try again some other time and see what she says. or ask her to pick a date/time when she's free so you can hang out.\n\ngood luck!
642114
One of the hardest parts of growing up and dating is learning how to deal with things when you like someone more than that someone likes you.\n\nUnfortunately, you aren't going to be able to change her mind. You have to decide if you are okay with just being friends - or if it is time to move on and spend time with other people.\n\nIn time, it will hurt less but it does suck right now. It's okay though - you are going to be alright.
484687
It means shes not ready to go further in your relationship just yet. Give her some time , the fact that you spend so much time together must say something about how she feels about you! Good Luck!
540028
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
480925
Know what you mean here.  I was in the same boat a little over a year ago.  I'd been friends with this girl for a while and I developed a crush on her.  I was too afraid to ask her out too.  Eventually, a mutual friend told her how I felt and she felt the same way.  Things worked out pretty well.  We've been dating for 51/2 months or so.  My advice is go for it.  If she is a true friend then she should respect your feelings even if she doesn't feel the same way.  Ask her she wants to take things to the next level. You have to be carefully.  If she says no, then you can't go treating her any differently even if you are hurt by it a little.  She shouldn't change because you show interest in her so neither should you.
322148
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.
616384
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
394324
She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
339743
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
403647
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
132704
Ok, from how you explain it...it sounds like she likes you, so just talk like you always do and maybe one day when you are gone, ask her the same question when you get back...you know, maybe she wants to ease into a relationship
140730
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!