The reason for asking is that I am trying to cope with recently losing my husband. I have read a lot of books, been to see John Edward, but I just want to hear real life experiences from real people.
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In Oct. 1985 i had a near death experince..it happend at the result of a motorcycle accident.it is a very long story for me to write but im in the process of writting a book,in short.\n\nafter the accident i got up and thanked god that nothing happend to me,but when i looked down i saw my own bloody body is lying down on the road,at first i was extremely scared.coz i didnt know who am i?and who is the body is lying there.after following my body to the hospital and hearing that they pronounced me dead.i thought of my mother and in an instace i was at home and could read my mothers thoughts.i was there when they got the phone call from police letting them know i was dead.and right after i travelled through the tunnel.at the end of tunnel i saw my dead grandmother standing.i also saw my cousin who had been drawned years earlier, a lot of dead family members but before they can embrace me suddenly my dead dog jumped on me.boy i was happy to see him.a lot more happend when i was there.i cant write about it coz it will take hours to explain,finaly i was told it is not time for me and i had to return.i resist it.and i said there is no way i will go back this is home and i want to stay.they told me that they will show me a hallograh,it was a about my purpose to fulfill,and they told me i dont remember anything after they show.next thing i woke up with incredible pain all over my body with a white sheet over my face.i removed the sheet.first thing i saw was a nurse screaming halelua.it is a miracle.my experince is incredibly close to betty eddie's experince the author of embraced by the light,at first i didnt realized what happend to me and after years of reading i slowly grasp the reality.after that my state of conciouness has been alterd.i know stuff without knowing why.i hear people and dont know why.people around me consult me before opening up a bussiness they think my opinion will help them.if i feel bad about something they dont do it.i dont realy know whether im right or not.but this is what they feel and believe.about your husband,i promise you he is healthier and happier than ever,every day he is watching you.sending numerous siganls to tell you he is ok and he is with you.but you have to educate yourself and practise to talk to him.it is easy.it just needs your determination and commitment,i talk to my mother who died in 1996 all the time,she has warned me about a lot of dangers.you are destined to wake up.continue searching,a lot of good thing will happen to you by 2009,i promise you,YOU WILL WAKE UP,just listen to your intuitions,listen to your higher self,you will know the truth,it will come your way.\nmay love and peace be upon you\nrobert\n*ps for years i havent talked about it.but it is not a secret anymore.thousand and thousands of people have NDE,humanity is ready to hear about it.we are destined to wake up.by dec. 21, 2012 the one that are suppose to wake up, they will,we are destined to become 4th dimension enteties,just pay attention to your surrondings,try to see it.time for the change of conciousness has arrived.
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Several years ago I had an unusual experience concerning an uncle, a distant relative who lived over a thousand miles away. \n\nWhile driving my car I suddenly felt the unmistakable presence of this relative that I hardly even knew. He was more like someone I had heard about than someone I knew. It was very strange; it felt as though I was momentarily lifted right out of my physical body. I seemed to be suspended somehow beyond space and time, bathed in a love so intense It felt like I could have just disappear into it at any moment if It would have let me. It only lasted for a few seconds, but it seemed to last forever at the same time. I realize how crazy this must sound. The experience was so strong that at first I was afraid I was loosing my grip on reality. I finally managed to chalk it up to an over active imagination.\n\nThree days later I got a call from my aunt telling me that this uncle we are talking about had gone into a coma and died the day I had the experience. It felt like ice water had been poured down my back when she told me this. I had lost any real ideas of God or faith and had become somewhat of an atheist. Needless to say this experience caused me to rethink some of the conclusions I had come to. \n\nI feel blessed to now understand that even in our darkest confusion something loves us so much that it went out of its way to assist me and bring me back to a state of absolute certainty about Gods love for us.\nDuring the experience it seemed like there was a vast amount of information that I was somehow allowed access to. One thing that I came away from this experience understanding beyond any shadow of a doubt was that any Idea that God is unhappy with us or would judge or allow us to be punished for any reason is simply impossible. \n\nI can’t explain the love I felt with words. They simply don’t make words big enough or complete enough to do this. The only way I can begin to convey this love to you is to say that there was simply nothing else there. Nothing but love. No hint of judgment, no displeasure of any sort. It is as though God sees us as being as perfect as we were the day we were created. It is only in our confused idea of ourselves that we seem to have changed.\n\n I hope this is of some help to you. Good luck. Love and blessings. \n\nYour brother don
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No one here could tell me, but I'd like to know if my father who passed away 4 months ago knows that we're okay? And of course if he's okay too, but I really believe he is in a better place now. I really miss him.
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http://www.trueghoststories.co.uk/\nit only tells stories that other people have experienced. No fakes.\nEnjoy!
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When my father died I was most touched by those individuals who told me they were sorry for my loss - and then told me a little story about how my father had touched their lives or told me about why they thought he was such a good man. I don't know if there is anything more comforting than to hear these anecdotal comments. They are so positive and fulfilling to hear. They also are thought that you can “take away” with you after the conversation is over. Even today, and it’s been almost 30 years, those are the conversations I remember and that were most meaningful to me at this time of great loss.\n\nIf you are unable to talk with the grieving person, sending your thoughts in a note would be just as appreciated.
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ah yes! Of course hasn't everybody.  I thought about calling lost love to see how he was...he was a great friend in college.  he showed up at me wedding with a very pregnant woman and highly jealous woman, so I don't talk to him anymore. Which is probably for the best but yeah. I think about him from time to time and wonder what it would have been like....
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my aunt...her husband died along time ago....she went to see a palm reader...just to see what she would say....she didn't tell the palm reader anything about her life.....the palm reader told her all kinds of true stuff, but what hit the most was right before she was fixen to leave she asked the palm reader if their was anything her husband wanted her to know..the palm reader said yes...he said...let her go.  Why it hit her so hard...is because at that point in her life she was faced with a decision, her daughter wanted to go to work in Alaska and she was really worried about letting her go! See how freaky that is!
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I have always wanted to talk to someone about this. My father passed away when I was six and amongst everything that he left myself and my brother there were the complete leather bound set of Dennis Wheatly books. I am now 23 and tbh I have never even sat and tried to read one! I suppose you would recommend a read then? Do you know if these books are worth keeping? I was going to donate them to charity but perhaps I should try an read them! XxXxX
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  There is nothing wrong with being sad about the loss of a baby.  You wouldn't be normal if you didn't grieve.\n\nI knew a couple many years ago that wanted a baby real badly.  The wife miscarried several times.  I still remember visiting them in the hospital -- I couldn't say anything, so I just sat on her bed for 20 minutes, held her hand, and then left.\n\nIt took a few months but she slowly returned to her "regular self".   I saw the couple every weekend, and what helped her recovery was:  (1)  Family support (she lived with 2 other relatives in a large home) ; (2) She got busy again, it was a family business.  I think this kept her mind off herself, and onto a regular routine.  (3) We prayed a lot.   \n\nI don't know what you think of prayer -- I know there's the connotation of it being a "last resort" or, wondering if Anyone is actually listening.\n\nBut a huge turning point in my life came when I read this: "For I know the plans I have for you.  Plans not to hurt you, but to give you a hope and a future."\n\nI was amazed the Creator actually had these thoughts for me.\n\n"How precious are Your thoughts towards me, O God.  If I could number them -- they are more than the sand."\n\nWow -- the Creator's thoughts for me are precious.   And they are so many, they are infinite.\n\nYou're having a difficult time, sis.  If you're able, just go out with your husband to a natural place.  Just gaze at how beautiful it is, and don't lose hope.   I know it's hard to read that, when everything seems hopeless.  \n\nI remember when I almost lost my wife -- I lost my temper with her and (GULP!) her parents were staying with us.  They wanted to take her away.  I just thought my world was coming to an end, and that I was falling in a bottomless pit.\n\nI was reading the Psalms, and a verse just leaped out at me.  It held promises.  "I don't feel like anything will change," I prayed.  "But I trust You."\n\nThat was 14 years ago, and I still have my princess.  (She hasn't changed the locks on the front door!)\n\nTry and eat nutritious food.   Fruits, vegetables.  Pure water, and take deep breaths.   Do simple exercises, and take walks.   If you can, listen to a song that uplifts you, and sing those songs.   (Do you have the soundtrack for "O brother, where are thou?"   Excellent bluegrass).\n\nI will remember you in prayer, sis.   And, by the way, the couple I mentioned earlier -- they now have 3 children!
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Many people suffer through tragedies in life.You are still here because God has a plan for you and that plan is not complete. I assume that is who you are referring to be including "he". Focus on God and His plan before focusing on your own plan. Read "Purpose Driven Life". The book is fairly short and has the potential to open your eyes and mind to possibilities not yet seen.
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This was close enough ton a miracle for me.\n\nSeveral years ago I had an unusual experience concerning an uncle, a distant relative who lived over a thousand miles away. \n\nWhile driving my car I suddenly felt the unmistakable presence of this relative that I hardly even knew. He was more like someone I had heard about than someone I knew. It was very strange; it felt as though I was momentarily lifted right out of my physical body. I seemed to be suspended somehow beyond space and time, bathed in a love so intense It felt like I could have just disappear into it at any moment if It would have let me. It only lasted for a few seconds, but it seemed to last forever at the same time. I realize how crazy this must sound. The experience was so strong that at first I was afraid I was loosing my grip on reality. I finally managed to chalk it up to an over active imagination.\n\nThree days later I got a call from my aunt telling me that this uncle we are talking about had gone into a coma and died the day I had the experience. It felt like ice water had been poured down my back when she told me this. I had lost any real ideas of God or faith and had become somewhat of an atheist. Needless to say this experience caused me to rethink some of the conclusions I had come to. \n\nI feel blessed to now understand that even in our darkest confusion something loves us so much that it went out of its way to assist me and bring me back to a state of absolute certainty about Gods love for us.\nDuring the experience it seemed like there was a vast amount of information that I was somehow allowed access to. One thing that I came away from this experience understanding beyond any shadow of a doubt was that any Idea that God is unhappy with us or would judge or allow us to be punished for any reason is simply impossible. \n\nI can’t explain the love I felt with words. They simply don’t make words big enough or complete enough to do this. The only way I can begin to convey this love to you is to say that there was simply nothing else there. Nothing but love. No hint of judgment, no displeasure of any sort. It is as though God sees us as being as perfect as we were the day we were created. It is only in our confused idea of ourselves that we seem to have changed.\n\n I hope this is of some help to you. Good luck. Love and blessings. \n\nYour brother don
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Have you ever read the book "embraced by the light"? soooooooo nice.\n\nhttp://embracedbythelight.com/index.htm
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I am always looking for a "johnny blaze" question.  They are always unique and thought provoking.  I highly recommend that you read "Memnoch The Devil", by Anne Rice.  While I would never suggest that such an important question as this be answered by a popular novel, this book does explore your inquiry.  Like Anne Rice, I had a young child die.  During the intitial phases of my devastation, I read this book.  To me, Ms. Rice completely explained the whole God-Devil relationship and even how God can let someone's kid die...after he saw his own child's death.  Keep up the questions...they are awesome.
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I’m really sorry for your loss.\n\nYour experience is very normal, and I’ve heard as much from other people, especially if they had a good steady relationship with the parent who died. My grandfather died recently (he was in his 90's), and my mother is going through the same thing, even though she was prepared for it.\n\nEven deep friendships have the same sort of “resonance.” One author wrote about his best friend dying in an unexpected accident and said that every time he saw a white SUV of the same model as his friend’s sitting in a parking lot or passing him on the road, he had to fight the urge to pull over or turn around and look for him. His head knew that his friend was gone and not coming back, but his heart kept hoping anyway. \n\nThere are so many cues around us that we associate with someone we care about, and even when they are not there, we are still cued to respond.\n\nI know it’s distressful, but unless you are doing some dangerous things because of the feelings or find yourself unable to function on a daily basis, I would just say you’re very normal. \n\nLook at it as a clear indication of how much you loved your father and what a good relationship you two had together: Even though he has died, his presence still seems very real to you. \n\nHe is in a sense “always with you.” \n\nThat’s actually something special -- it's an experience that some people never have with their parents or anyone else. In a way, although you are suffering his loss, you are still very blessed.
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I lost my oldest son just over 5 years ago.  He was murdered.  I am still not over it & never will be.  The best thing I can tell you is turn to your religion.  That has helped me.  I think God gives us answers on how to go on without our loved ones in everyday things.  Like, this might sound wierd to most, but sometimes I hear (in the back of my mind) my son talking to me or answering a question that I've only asked myself.  I take it as he's giving me advise.  I think I'm living life as my son would have wanted me to live it.  I'm making decisions that if he were here & I'd asked him for his advice, they are ones that he's tell me.  I don't know hon, life goes on & so must we.  Sorry to hear about your loss.  A son, aunt, mother or father, its never easy & nobody has all the answers.  Just take it day by day.  You'll have good ones & bad one.  I've learned to deal with it cause all the tears & sorrow or angry feelings isn't going to bring my son back, just make me a bitter person.  He wouldn't have wanted that.  He was a good young man, 23 at the time & had his whole life with a wonderful career in his sites.  He was brutally murdered.  We just had the trial back in September '05.  It still hurts but like I said... he would want me to do just what I'm doing... trying to be the best person I can be.  Good luck to you sweetie!
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My dad died 2 years ago and I did not cry out loud.On the inside i was in hysterics,on the outside calm.I am still that way.Perhaps that is why I ache inside> I still think of him many times a day. So I can not give you advice on how to deal ; only tell you that you are not alone.
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I think  she's phenomenal. My cousin waited 3 years to get a phone reading. She wanted to know about her sister, who had died from ALS. She called and made the appointment about a month after her sister's death, and it took 3 years but  she said it was worth it. Sylvia is also very spiritual which, I think, makes a difference in her perception.