problems and talks about how much money he may be getting and the other has buggy eyes with zits that need treatment (bad) and the last but least just wants sex with no strings attached, am I too picky? I am not ugly I gotta go out man
135984
You need to focus on what you want...not what's wrong with them. When you meet someone you like, their "defects" are no big deal...don't settle. Keep looking for what you want.
78725
If both you and the first guy are not allowed to date, than I wouldn't worry about it!  You and he second guy would not be "dating", you would be going as friends and that would not jeopardize anyones feelings.  If the first guy were to get upset, than apparently he is already to obsessive and that could eventually cause problems.  Be honest with both gentlemen and yourself and go and have a wonderful time!  \n\nTry looking at thrift stores/salvation army.  They may be used, but they are cheap and usually pretty nice.  Most people only wear them once or twice, so don't let anyone tell you you need to spend alot on one in a big name department store!  Have fun!!!
614783
No i dont think that you ask for much. If it is what you offer to the other individual i cant see why you should settle for anything else. Although saying that you might want to open up and a bit and give some people the chance to show you what they are really like. Sme times people need some time to show their real self
389949
How about a makeover for the friend? Or suggest a less-shallow guy?  Either would be a nice thing to do.
445233
Sounds to me like you're getting a bit sketchy and he doesn't like what he See's. Step back and take a good hard look at yourself and him. You need to ask yourself some serious questions. When you're talking (settling down) there's a lot involved there. Like dealing with each others ups and downs day in and day out. Your careers. Buying a house. Starting a family. Can you see growing old with this person? What are your goals in life? Do you have the same goals in mind? And a whole bunch more than that. If you're already having problems at 22 and 24 you better get ready for the real world. Good luck
316514
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
274353
You have attracted him.\nHe likes your confidence.\nHowever, it seems he'd like your confidence in a toned-eown body.\nDo you want that too?\nHow much do you want that?\nHis 'hints' should come across as a blaring loud speaker.\nOtherwise, the road may go a few blocks but its still a dead end.\nOne advantage is he won't charge you ...money, that is.
235964
Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
369169
SOUNDS SICK TO ME.\nFIND A MAN
655572
Why not looks with money or money with looks....\nOK.\nIf I have to choose, I will choose the one I love, \nbut if he is with money or not, if he is a good looking people or not, this doesn't matter at all.\nThere's nothing more important than love.\nBut imagine your self in bed with a ugly man, uuuuh this is terrible despite his money
257942
thats hilarious... look at it this way... would you rather be with someoen who is spoiled and acts like a roughneck, or someone who is violent? Look at it this way... its not just what you like about a person.. its the crap that you are able to put up with... if you can put up with him and no problem than go wtih it... if not and you think you will find someone else wiht less annoying qualities then go for it....
563933
I don't think you are missing anything. You seem like you know what you want. That person is out ther, some where. he might not be all those things at the same time, and then again he might be those and more. It is ok to have standards about what you expect from a male.  That is great that you are not just taking anybody that comes along. Keep your head-up.
641259
i suppose you want an honest answer...\nlook, everybody goes for the look in the short run, cuz no matter if you are a girl or a boy you'd like to get out with a good-looking person.\nbut if that person proves to have a bad personality you feel much more disappointed than if he/she wasn't so good-looking.\nwell, people look for both of them. but if they cannot find the hole package, most of them would go for the personality, cuz beauty spoils....
608997
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
658022
Sounds like they both have baggage. Its time to find a new circle of acquaintances. Two guys are not a large enough sample to decide on anything long term. These guys are not in love with you, they are in love with your sex. The first always has a special place but there are very few first and only true loves.
590645
Maybe I pick the guy with tattoos, because i love tattoos, and maybe is a bad guy ;)... but he has something bad: first he's the life of party and i don't like the guys who wants all the attention, and second, he's friend of his Xs and maybe that's not good, he can back with them or cheating on me... so, I'll pick the blond LOL...
247699
The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Sounds like the other guy is just interested in a secret friends with benefits type of thing.