Do you think he is using me? Why would he want more time?
120217
sounds like he cant make up his mind what he wants. sometimes you have to bury the hatchet and ask the hard questions, and if he hides it will not be the first time
129644
Sorry to say this but it sounds like he is using you.  He doesn't deserve you!
360977
Sounds like he wants a friend with benefits.  He's probably messing around on you.
327114
You need to suddenly not have time for him. Either he is going to see what you are going through and fix it, or you are going to learn it is time for you to move on.
368174
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
202820
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
472731
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
475199
It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
430700
To be honest with you, it sounds like he is just trying to get money out of you, but not truly wanting to commit to you or be to with you. \nHang on to your hard-earned money... & tell him that you feel it's best to save the money for your trip to see him... then see if he wants to continue being in the relationship.\nBy doing it that way, then you'll know for sure if he was truly wanting you... or just wanting your money... don't let him take advantage of you.
248344
ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...
235358
It sounds like he may be trying to push you away in the hopes that *you* break up with *him.*  He may be too chicken to do it himself.  The problem is, is that it's affecting your self-esteem.  You don't deserve to be treated that way- being used is no fun, so don't allow it!  Think about where you see yourself in 5 years.... still in the same place???.... .don't waste any time.  Believe me, there are guys who will treat you right.  We teach people how to treat us- don't allow it anymore!!
462817
I think that he is probably under a lot of stress and pressure right now and that you should back off....give him the space he needs and if it is meant to be, he will be contacting you when things settle down.....good luck
105587
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
593309
You are being used sweetie!  He is not ready for a serious relationship, and he is making sure he has you to fall back on all the time.  He is immature and selfish!  He is a cheater and cheaters very rarely stop cheating.  Get out of this  lost relationship.  He doesn't love you, he loves himself!  Toss the trash in the garbage where it belongs.  Don't waste another minute of your life with him.  There are many guys out there who will treat you with love and respect.  Your self-esteem should be rock bottom by now and this jerk is going to keep knocking you down and hurting you inside.  Get on with your life and I know there is someone out there who will love you for the beautiful, loving person you are.  Good luck!
409742
It sounds like he wants to spend time with you, so he is using the cooking and ironing to get a little closer. \n\nIf he is what you are looking for, then go for it!
664765
I would have broken up with him by now. If he can't be bothered making an effort to be with you, he's just using you. Why should you be the only one willing to work on this relationship. It takes two. Get rid of him and wait for someone who will treat you right.
292687
IF HE CALLS TOO SOON THAT MEANS HE IS TOO EAGER , MAYBE HE WANTS TO PLAY HARD TO GET. IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU THEN HE WILL CALL DONT WORRY . JUST BE PATIENT