not the arousal part but does it feel tight,does it hurt the first time? srry just curious cuz im never gonna feel it and my guy doesnt like tlkin about it....ya kno he gets embarrased lol i dunno why but w/e
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it does not hurt at all, it feels good. and my question was anout a n a l . lol can we meet.... lol
534897
It may hurt the first time but after that it shouldn't.  It is possible that you have a strong hymen that needs to be releasd by a surgical procedure.  Or you might be anticipating pain and not able to relax and lubricate well.  Try a longer foreplay and a lubricant like KY or something similar.  Take it slow so there is no tensing.  Good luck.
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It doesn't necessarily needs to hurt a lot, if you are with a experienced guy that can increase your level of arousal to the point where you can take it in...\n\nHowever, if your first experience is with a guy that doesn't know what he is doing he can really hurt you. It's good that you want to know about it before doing it, and every case is different because you Get aroused on different ways and the person you are with, needs to know how to calibrate you...
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air gets in, it has to go out somewhere too you know;)\nand it shouldn't be embarrasing, 'cus that's just the way it is:D\n\nwhen that happens to my gf we both laugh and continue our pleasuring:) nothin' to it!
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That's actually a pretty common fantasy/kink/fetish.  I see it in the Goth community a lot.  A guy might be freaked out by it, sure, but as long as you are comfortable with it yourself (meaning, when you ask, you don't feel like a freak for asking, you are just calmand relaxed, or maybe even turned on), then he will get over it---or he might get turned on himself.\n\nThe delivery is very important in this case..
416816
You can relax or tense up the muscles down there, if you're tense it might be tighter, if you're very relaxed, then it could feel looser.  Try experimenting with this during your next encounter.
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Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
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It was with my current BF in the beginning of our relationship..... I cant get to Graphic on here but I had never had " anal " sex before ...and it was the best thing I had ever felt and was totally amazing!!!\n\nBefore I was totally against the whole " Anal " thing because I thought it would hurt, and no way would it happen. However after a little coaxing and trust in him, I went for it. If the guy does it right and is gentle in the beginning....it's awesome!!!
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You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.
622376
Yep. His penis becomes extremely sensitive (ticklish) after he reaches his climax. Give it a quick kiss and let it recover. It'll let you know when it's ready for round two...    ;)
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You're not alone sister! We're all different sizes, so some of us are just not made for large penises, and some of us are. It's not good or bad, it just is what it is.\nAlso, it might have to do with trust and control. A large penis can be painful if your body is not totally relaxed, and it can be hard to relax if you don't fully trust the guy you're with. If you don't feel like you have any control over what is happening, your vagina will tense up as a way of trying to defend itself. \nWhatever you do, trust yourself and what your body is telling you. There is nothing wrong with preferring smaller penises. Like I said before, we're all different sizes. Bigger is not necessarily better! :)
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HA HA HA HA , this is a really good question it stuck my attention so that why i'm replying to you :* . but before i start i wanna thank ya for asking a men question as you might be caring about your bf's issues.... lol .\n\nok now jacking off in the shower, ya it does feel good and the reason is because the woodie is stimulated by the heat of the water and maybe from the stream of the water. also it does make the woodie hard. but the only problem is that you don't get the chance to see the juice :)) since guys like to see how far they shoot their juice :P . but jacking off in bed, has no burnning effect and don't listen to it because its all BS.\n\nif ya need to chit chat just drop me a line at my yahoo messengar  its funride2005 \n\nhope that helps.\n\nLove Ali(29 male)
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Yes sex will hurt the first time no matter what size he is but the trick is to take it slow and make sure you are good and wet. But the pain is not like any other type of pain it begins to feel good after a while. Make sure he is a gentle person and respects the fact that you are a virgin and it will be much more enjoyable.
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My first time, my partner had to push really hard to penetrate my hymen. The first time is usually very awkward, physically uncomfortable, and sometimes painful. Lube will work to make the strokes more comfortable, but that initial penetration will still take an extra amount of effort on his part, and some muscle relaxation on your part. It'll go in eventually, just try again.
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It happens sometimes but you aren't naked that long.  You just grab a towel until it subsides.  Most of the time I was sort of semi hard and it wasn't that big of a problem.  Its a big fear, but just keep the towel handy and it won't b a problem.
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If you really feel you are ready then here is my experience. It can hurt the first time. Your boyfriend needs to know that he will have to go really really slow and wait while you stretch. Some women feel pleasure the first time, some do not. I didn't, but that was just because of the guy I was with. It will be tight to enter. The timing varies depending on the guy. Whether or not you have an orgasm depends on you. Do you masturbate? Have you ever had an orgasm that way? If yes and you can relax this first time you may really enjoy it. My best friend hurt the first time but 15min later she made love again and really enjoyed it and has no regrets to this day 13yrs later.
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!