Im a guy with 2 kids in PA
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make sure you've done everything you could do to save your marriage.  Your kids need you and the hardest part of this divorce, if you go though with it, are going to be the effects it has on your kids.  It's understandable that things simply just didn't work out with you and your wife but just remember you two are not the only ones going through a divorce, you're children are going through it as well.  Make sure that you're there for them as much as possible and be the best dad that you can be for them through all of this.  Good luck with everything
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You have me CONFUSED here... you mean to tell me you are more interested in finding someone i.e. a date? (correct me if I am wrong) Than getting your CHILDREN back??? Finding a man should be the LAST thing on your mind I would think, if he has taken your kids, I would fight to my death for my kids?????\n\nYea... you know I really wonder what's going on here... I mean if your kids are 6 & 8 and you were only with him for 3 years... the Math doesn't add up.  Is he even the father of these kids?  And there must have been some problem if the courts took them away.  Maybe you should spend some time working on you before looking for a man or even considering getting your children.  It sort of sounds like they might be better off with their Father if that's the case or where ever the judge decided to send them.  My BEST suggestion is to work on YOU and the rest will come don't go looking for another MAN just yet.  GOOD LUCK!
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File a police report and get a lawyer.  Take your butt down to the police station, they probably take a statement and then send you to social services.  Social services should be able to advise you further on that situation.  If the health and well-being of your kids is at stake, then go take care of things.  If you let this scare you and don't take steps to solve this now, the State can step in later down the road and just take the kids.
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Me, and 36 family and friends
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im in clearwater florida...
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Is there any chance of moving?  That's awful you all have to sleep in the same room.  I feel bad for you.  The kids needs their own rooms and so do you and your wife.  The only thing I can think of to help is either waking them up earlier so they go to sleep at night earlier or reading to them until they fall asleep. Good luck.
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sounds like your son is heading a guy life so be prepared
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Run and never look back.I have three kids with this guy and he does nothing for my kids and he's in the same town, what do you think a guy would do living in another country? unless you are financially stable enough and your prepared to raise this baby by yourself then don't do it.
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im married my husband is out of town so im getting a babysitter and going to my boyfriends..
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I have 3 kids by my ex and he went off to Australia with his new wife. He stopped paying and I am fighting him in court (at great cost to myself) but now he wants to see his kids for 4 weeks this Christmas. I KNOW your feelings totally. But you have to carry the burden because children are better off if they have a relationship with their dads. Just dont compete. When they get older they will realise what went on. But equally dont put up with their lippyness. Dont let it go on. Make your ex look after them sometimes so you have some time to yourself. And get on with your own life. Your boys need a possitive male rolemodel in their life (your dad, or a brother or a new husband) Get on, get your life back into shape and make some time for yourself. You need it and so do your boys.
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cool talk to me if you want.......\n\n\nsparkle19890@yahoo.com     how many kids do you have? what ages?
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were from utica about 4 hours away. married 4 kids. female as well. also 32.  anna
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Where in the world do you live?  I have never heard of a man being able to kick a wife and 3 children out of their home.  Have you talked to a lawyer, are any of your children also his biological children, if not you could have problems, bless the little children who have to go through emotional pain caused by care less adults.\n\nBlubla
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My daughter and yours could be friends.  Thats if they could get away from the phone and the guys.
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call the police and have them do a welfare check on grandma and the kids. Tell them the situation and have them report back to you. good luck to you.
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I'm in Australia, so there isn't much I can help you with in regards to the laws of your country, assuming you live somewhere else. But congratulations for being a great man and father and seeing your kids as people you love not just a responsibility. Whatever happens, your children will grow up knowing they are in an environment of love and support and that will be a huge benefit and source of comfort for them. I'm separated, with five kids and their father has moved on with his life and that life doesn't involve them. Its had a ravaging effect on them emotionally. There should be more men like you. I know things are really hard and I can see how you would be feeling down and frustrated. Just remember a close family will survive anything. Good Luck. You have lucky children.
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I really admire you, you are one of the few men that really care about what their family wants.  I can suggest you to plan something like go out to eat early in the day and then go to the movies and watch a funny movie for the kids or watch it at home and play some fun games at home.  I wish you the best.  Happy Early Father's Day.  Keep being so sweet and dedicated to your family.  God Bless.