Ladies, Have you ever been out with your guy and another female comes up to him and starts talking to him without speaking to you?\nWould you say someting to her or would you curse her out?
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im know for my jealious streak , that wouldnt turn out pretty if it where me in your shoes .\ni guess i give this vibe to other females , because its never happened to me . but i know me ! girl id tell that little hoochie a thing or two !\nif she wanted to take it higher , then by all means id knock her out .. whats mine is mine , and thats just how i see it .
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Wow, a good question, with only my esteem and somewhat shame to uphold.\n\nHere goes.\n\nI loved "that guy" once.  And though I would have given him anything under the sun, including honesty, manogomy and love....in my deep caring for him I also had to give him space.  I had to honor his present situation(as hard as that was) and told him I didn't intend on being "the other woman" only to one realize I WAS.  I respected what ever he wanted and only wanted him to be happy.\n\nI then stopped talking to him, and put on my Captain Avoido outfit and a woderful thing happened.  He figured his life out, honestly with out any obstacles and called me about a year later and asked for a date.   Go figure.  It was ONLY then that he could hold me with esteem that he once carried for his previous love.\n\nThere should be no pressure............if she really cares.
60104
Gotta be honest, I think your being played.  How do you think she would react if you asked to spend two weeks with another woman???  She's already made up her mind and is just stringing you along.
340959
Whoa... this woman is a weirdo. She invites you for Thankgiving and then she's in bed with another guy when you get there? Whoa. Hey, it's not because you're nice. It's because she's F.ing warped. Just be glad now you're informed so you can get far away.
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...it sounds like another grrrl has made a very big impression with you?....hmmmmmm,...me thinks you may want to have a long conversation with "her",...just to explore each others true feelings for one another...if the two of you truely care for each other?, then you can decide if you want to take "it" to the next level...\n\n...whatever you decide, be honest with yourself, and her...best of luck,...*kiss*
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Damn, he should at least say hi.  What a dick.  As far as conversation goes you can keep it to a minimum, which is what I'm sure he wants.  I know it always pisses me off if some girl, regardless who she is, keeps giving me an IM when I'm trying to talk to someone else.  If you got something to talk about, then cool.  If things slow down then back off.\n\nHe should still say hi, unless you all just got off the phone or whatever.
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well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
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Maybe youre up her butt. Try not to be up her butt. If someone is always trying to bug me with stuff I certainly would avoid conversation too. Maybe youre creepy in your approach. I dunno, why dont you ask her?\n\nEdit: ass is a swear? lol
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Normal for her to have male friends.\nNot normal to keep them "secret".\nIs she keeping their identities or just the phone #s a secret?\nHas she introduced you to them? If you've all hung out then it's probably fine and she just thinks you're weird to ask for the numbers.
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Lets put it this way, do you think she doesn't know about it already?  If you want misery, tell her, let her know what you think.  I am all for communication, but it is a very sensitive area to women.  I wouldn't even think about bringing it up.  Besides, you should be loving the woman for who she is and not what she looks like...that is really shallow.
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I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
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Check this out:\n\nThis girl that I really liked, that I had been do'n...back in my freshman year of college came over to me and my best friends dorm room one night to meet me.  I was way late getting back from something and basically the same thing happened, except he didnt nail her.  They were just messing around.  I didn't catch them in the act.  He told me later that night even though I never suspected a thing.\n\nI know it sounds way shady, but I was never really all that pizzed, because it was better to find out she was a skeezer from him than the entire fraternity!  More importantly, he came clean.\n\nWhere you fugged up is still hanging with her after your buddy got all pizzed.  You should have kicked her to the curb that night and explained to your buddy that it was a good thing that you found out for him that she was a skeezer.  \n\nDid he love this chick?  Did you know he loved her?  If he talked to you about love and was all about this girl, then you really messed up.  YOu also messed up by not kicking the girl to the curb the night of the incident.  If you were a real good friend and valued him, you would have done that...dont you think?
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Janinie, \n\nMy opinion is that you should just say every since you started hanging out with those chicks you turned int a jerk. So i just want to be friends and not best friends cause i don't want to get dumped on the side of the road again. So we can still hang out if you want but that is your choice. Thank you. That is what I would say. And you can Email me back if you want.\n\nKennetha\n\n\nP.S. My email adress is kennethacutie@yahoo.com
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If you wanted things to be good with this woman, you should have never insulted her! What were you thinking? You messed up, buddy.  Chalk this one up to experience and don't go calling women names next time.
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You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
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I wouldn't wait until they commit the "offense". That's kinda rude and bitchy. Say the guy digs in his ear with his little finger. What do you say, "Oh, God, I hate when peole do that! I'm outta here." You have to get to know someone first before critizing them for their small personality quirks.
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a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!