Tell me, do you think that it makes me look weak if I cry or just look hurt when I see my ex~boyfriend and his new girlfriend...and if he still calls me does he still care about me?
128941
I know it hurts terribly, and I sincerely sympathize.  However, I'd personally do everything I could to avoid seeing him.  Crying could possibly give the appearance that your life is so devoid that you are just pining over something that you have no control over, and yes, you could appear weak.\n\nWhy is your boyfriend calling you?  It sounds like a bad idea.  I'd make a clean break and get on with your life.  I know that he may seem like the only one on earth for you, but if it's over, it's over.  Believe it or not, one day, you will find someone who really is perfect for you, and then you'll be thankful that you didn't have to put-up with second-best!  \n\nShow him your backbone and move on.  And don't accept calls from him.
174684
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
99825
If it was me, I wouldn't bother with him if he broke up with me before, but on the other hand, he may have matured enough to be serious.  If you like him, just tell him! If he can't appreciate the honesty, then you don't need him! <3
621282
If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
202632
It is not un common for a guy to flirt with an ex girlfriend of his. If he has treated you badly and is still being a real gerk that my answer to your question would be to move on and find someone new although it might hurt and you will probably still think about him occasionally, it will all work out for the best. If you want to talk more you can email me at adorablegrl1986@yahoo.com                                                       Sincerely                                                                adorablegrl1986
317582
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
444246
Hum... hard question... he might be sincere, but i REALLy don't like the fact that he broke up with you and then called to say how sorry we was.... sounds like one of those guys who slaps you in the face then begs your pardon.... why did he broke up with you? how did he do it? only you know what to do, but i'd think twice if i were you... good luck!
177264
I definitely understand your problem girl...I know it hurts, but are you willing to undergo in a relationship where the guy isn't happy?! You gonna prefer to see him happy in others hand while seeing him totally sad. IT REALLY HURTS...but look at the bright side!You're hot...there are a lot of guys out there...I'm not sounding to offend you...wake up! God Bless...
154312
I think u should expect for her to feel a little jealousy about it.  Just make sure u talk to her and let her know you absolutely have no feelings for your ex whatsoever!  Relationships are about trust, so let her know she can trust you!
610749
I am glad that u say he is your EX. Why then do u care what he thinks about u? Still, you need 2 get him out of your life altogether. When u do get another boyfriend your ex will think that he was right about u that u are a s---. He may even cause conflict with u & your guy. You are being subjected 2 mental abuse that will lower your self-esteem & u need 2 totally reject this guy from your life.
266703
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that you are definitely doing better now. Face it. The former boyfriend was using you for one thing only. And you know what that was. If..and that's a BIG  IF, the older guy is using you also, at least, he is making you feel good. He seems to know how to treat you, and, believe me, it's nice to have someone who knows how to treat you!
640197
I think it is important to figure out why it is bothering you so much.  Sometimes it is hard to think about someone's past when we are worried about whether or not we can trust the person, or when we are worried about their feelings now, or when we feel a little insecure.  Maybe it is some of those things or none of them, but whatever it is, don't let the past take away from your happiness with him now.  He isn't with those girls anymore, right?  He's with you.  So enjoy it!
337234
wow.. im not the emotional sort, but i heard you crying while you wrote this! i feel for you, we all been there, you gotta CHANGE your out look and overview! it's over, he's cheated it wont get better, it cant, it will be tough, but you will get by it, find out your old girlfriends get back in touch with them, and start again.  company will help you through, and help you meet other people, dont give up look forward to the change ok?....ok?
667287
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
47099
Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.
422936
Well, I get bored reading your case, but I'm also having a very bad emotional day, I just want to get out from my apartment and find a girl that really loves me, because my girlfriend doen't appreciate me. \nWell, try to have a nice day, I just want to tell somebody what I was feeling at this moments. See you
238230
Tell him how it makes you feel.  I would be insanely jealous and po'ed.  Don't accuse him of anything because it will get him on the defensive and tell you you're being ridiculous.  Say it along the lines of..."Whenever I see you get those messages from your ex's or talk to me about them, it really makes me feel..."  Talk only about how if affects you.\n\nIf he has any concern for you, he would stop.  If he doesn't, then if you really like him, ignore it afterwords even if it kills you inside.  It's the only way.\n\nOn the other hand, if you think this guy's being an bunghole, drop him like the selfish, arrogant retard he is.