I got one babe, but she is now not my bae, cuz she has given birth 2 a baby, she did something that makes me irated but i didn't see her since then and i dont know wat to do to get her fall in love wti me again cuz i still love her and she was living wit me b4 she ran away from me, so wat wuold i do 2 make her fall in love wit me again, plz?
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1> are you the baby's daddy??\n2> did she cheat on you??\n3> how old is she??\nthese are questions you need to ask your self and the answers will help you solve problem and if the answer is:\n\n1> no\n2> yes\n3> too young and in high skewl\n then no shes not some one you want to chase around\n\ngood luck!
513643
Whatever it is, just get a life for yourself and lead a better future! Everyone had been through this stage and see how far we've got! Don't be too upset, it's definitely part & parcel of a growing up stage. Once it's over, you'll get to be tougher and learn to be stronger. Well, all I can say is she's tired of being with you for a total of 4yrs and she's seeking for another lover who can or maybe excite her in different ways. Don't think so much and trust me, you'll SURE get over her. And you'd probably know how great & amazing it is when you finally get her off your mind. Your heart doesn't hurt anymore and you slowly forget the images of her! Ok, what I can suggest to you is do alot of excercises, read books that makes you doze off and try to occupy your time fully, that helps to waste off your energy and makes you tired so you can sleep soundly without having to miss her in the night! Lastly, it all depends on you, if you want to forget her, you must make sure you can do it. It's always mind over body, don't forget that!!! If you've a weak mind, then I can't help much! Ultimately, you shd know what you want!
676730
If she really meant what she said about her promise then you should have no problem at getting her back. But if she doesn't want to get with you now just move on and forget her because that promise that you two made to each other probably didn't mean crap to her.
160345
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
493206
By doing this makes you a stronger man...you did good by leaving her alone...it is hard when you have been in love, then it's all over, it hurts immensely and life seems pointless at that stage, give yourself some healing time...it's natural to feel the way you feel...by ignoring her and not staying in contact is a good way to go...as much as it hurts you are proving to yourself that you can move on, despite the hurt and heartache...good man...at least your not hassling her with calls and constantly on her case...never call yourself a coward, you are no where near to being a coward...your doing the right thing...you are saving your feelings from being hurt further and you are also respecting your ex by letting her get on with her life...there should be more out there like you...stay with it and focus on other things to ease your pain, it's hard not to see or hear about her new fella but there's no other way to tackle this...lets know how you get on in a months time...the pain won't be as intense as it is now...bless you....x
53247
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".
136338
Keep up the good fight don't give in . The fact that you are asking is good, just think what if you give in catch something or get them preggers . Then you have to face the love of your life with the disgrace you hurt her.  Next time you get the urge imagine her screwing another man and how you would feel maybe that will give you a stronger incentive.
219301
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
135203
first off, internet love is never a sure thing.  always be careful who you meet, cause the chances of them being who they really say they are are usually slim to none, and thats just asking to get hurt.\n\nnow, she got pregnant by someone else?  that should tell yo right there that she doesnt care about you as much as you care about her.  my advice is to get out of the relationship.  but, if you think its really love, talk to her.  one thing to remember: how would you feel raisising someone else's kid?  is she worth it to you?
287048
Give your self a break and relax a little. Whether or not you can see it yet, you already has started a small bond with this child by your own statements of "I pray to GOD that she is healthy, but am so scared that I will not love her" & "am afraid they might remove her when she is born". This is a good start by you even caring an inch about her. And it will only get better and stronger. You natural instint of protection for this little baby will take you over with out you even trying. Take some time out and start to look at the positive things this will bring you. You will have a little person that will need you very much and will love you unconditionally, you must do the same, remember this is not the little babies fault nor yours, and it could turn out to be the best thing that has even happened to you...
67622
Wow...I am so sorry about this. How horrible for you. You must know in your heart that she simply has been lied to or misled about you, right? (deep down?) Listen to your heart...you probably know she would love you if she knew you, and she may already love you even without knowing you. I think the only thing you can do is pray sincerely. (I'm serious) Ask God to somehow make a way for you to get to know her...and maybe write her a letter, explaining how much you love her. You will probably need to be on the giving end at this point, and maybe for a long, long time until she is able to see and respond to your love. Don't give up. Love always wins. Be patient, and love her in as many ways as you can...my heart is so touched by your story. I wish there was something more I could say or do to help you...Good luck.
584816
Hope you didn't give her any $$$. Cheer up, you'll forget about her eventually. She doesn't even deserve someone like you.
540501
if you dont love her romantically anymore, thats fine, you are not obligated to love her because of your past.  But she seems important to you obviously, so you can do everything in your power to get the kind of love she deserves.  \n\nFirst help her come to terms that you two dont have what you used to have.  I think shes not the only one having a hard time being strong.
592431
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
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may i ask, why she couldn't love you back? is there another guy in the picture? but from your story there seems no one..or she doesn't feel like the way you do? i think love can be developed, that is if she is willing to open her heart and that you'd be willing to wait...there'll ba a good chance..\n\nunconditional love is a sacrifice you have to bear and no one can stop you from that...it is something that we do voluntarily...if you cannot live away with her since it makes you even unhappier then it's all up to you...but until when can you put up with this...until she breaks your heart by choosing someone over you despite the things you have done for her? it can happen..\n\nif not now, you will eventually tire out later...yes, you might not love someone as much as you love her but, we, as humans are destined to be with someone to fill that space inside our heart...we long for someone that will make us whole, it's a primal instinct...\n\nas hard as it may seem why don't you give her and yourself a space...not see her for some time maybe she will then realize what you really meant to her...most of the time, we only value things or people when they're already gone...if she doesn't come looking for you then there is no hope to answer your love for her...anyway, you know it's not the end of the world...you will survive it...\n\nwhat is more painful is the wasted time and emotions spent...
47454
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
644327
Tell her you'll be patient and want to work things through with her. Show her how much you love her and the baby but be firm in awhile and say you need her to pay attention to you not worry about him.... If she can't get over him than you better move on cause all you'll be is second best.