My brothers get mad when I see my guy friends.:(
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that is a really good question.  Often times, family members know our weaknesses better than other people and they don't want us to be vulnerable to others who could take advantage of our weaknesses.  It's a double edged sword.  On one hand, you appreciate that it's their way of showing love and care but on the other hand, you want to be able to make your own decisions.  The truth is, however, that most of us don't make wise decisions all the time and we get burned because we don't have our guard up.  A family member doesn't need to have their guard up when they're not directly, emotionally involved.  They just get to be pragmatic.
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Try going out as a group again. You'll both feel more comfortable perhaps and if he "warms up" to you maybe you two will kick the others out and just be together.
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Maybe your brother is going through something totally unrelated to you. Or perhaps he resents your patronising tone when you talk to him.\n\nTry being a little more humble and less arrogant about your abilities and it might make you less enemies and better friends.
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Sounds very insecure and ignorant to me. Believe me when I tell ya, they come hand in hand. Your brother has a lot to learn about himself, and life.
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BROTHERS CANNOT BE REAL FRIENDS
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This is a little tough, but to avoid confrontation between the brothers don't date either one of them. Just be friends with them and find someone else to date.
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About your other question regarding your brother...\n\nI wish you would've left it on.\nI have a brother who I feel the same way about and we are best friends.  Don't let these goofs' jealous responses cause you to remove your questions.  You have a great brother who you are proud of and wanted to tell the world.\nPost it again....all the negative remarks are from those that are jealous and "not" intelligent.\n\nSmooches!!
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hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
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no offense but he may of just said that to eiather get in your pants or just make u stick around till he didnt need you anymore its like and ego thing with some guys they just dont want you to break up with them first i'm sorry this happened to you chica but the best thing to do is sulk for a few day forgive and forget cause telling by how much you say u care shows that your a sweet girl ice cream sweat pants and a good movie is your best friend right now dont let this keep you down go out there and hook another you and i both know you can and if u want revenge tell your brother what happened he may get mad at you but will kick the shit out of him but if your not a vengeful person just skratch that good luck
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Dating brothers was a big mistake.  I'm not real sure you can fix this.  Your best bet is if the two brothers talk and can be ok with it.  If they can be ok then eventually everyone else will follow suit.
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Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
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No, its very normal.Everyone of us is having comfort zone.The range of which is directly propotional to the extent of intimacy. For example you may not mind your brother standing closer to you but would definitely feel uncomfortable if it had been your bro's friend.\n\nDon't worry cheer up!! Try to avoid these negative thoughts,you are perfectly alright deer.
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yeah thats true..if you make fun of how small it is, etc...they'll make sure that they push it back in before your in they're sight!! but just do that if they don't listen when you when you explain to them how disturbing it is for you!!! it is a lil weird you must admit! and how old are your brothers!?
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hope it will help..it does appear simple to do but maybe hard to accomplished..but check this out !!= )\n"they knows your brothers..but they don't know you..."\nwhat not to hang out with your brothers for a while..and see how it goes..if you still have the same kind of answers\n..then..try to avoid all of them ..while walking ,eating..etc..with your brothers..and you see his friends..or who else..(who use to ignored you...)approaching and get there to talk..etc.. in front of them you really show them ( ex; get in front of your brothers and say..see you later guys..quietly and on smother motion kinda..and do not look the others...and go!)to show them you're leaving before they get to say anything.....now after you had did this few time..(give the time that they noticed what  you are doing...)someone should realize that and acknowledge your presence and include you as the sister!!as a respected person...that they can also talk too...( but make sure your brothers..still cool with that..because some brothers are really protective..and wont like they friends..or..getting friendly with their sister).so keep it cool with both side...:still cool with your brothers and only keep it cool with the others once they acknowledge you!! okay..hope it helps!!
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Yah your right about the hate thing....he wouldn't have done it otherwise. You need to have a sit down with your brother.\nSounds like there are some unresolved issues there.\nYour brother could be hiding something, if they seem alright now maybe its just a front....\nSo talk to him about it.....see whats up??\nGood Luck to you....
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Wow - you are pretty judgemental about these people --- are you that judgemental of your brother (who is the real whore for having all of these one-night-stands)!    \n\nNow - to get to your question - acknowledge them - wish them a pleasant day and that's really all that is required of any decent human being.
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obvioulsy i am not a boy, but i have 4 brothers and i have heard a lot! some are did it hurt, did it hurt wen u fell from heaven. and another one. are you tired? because u have been running thru my mind all day haha there yuo go thats wat its like in a house full of brothers!!