i read this on a blog i dont know if its true but this is what it said that everyone is a bi because everyone has had at least one sexual fantasy about someone their same sex .........what do you think..........im not saying that everyone is a bi dont take it that way i just want to know what you think its just a ???????
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I used to think that all women were bi. I never approached a woman about the subject and had her deny it.  Now I realise that it's not just woman. It takes a much longer time for a man to admit that he has ever had those thoughts but we do. Fortunately society has frowned on guys doing guys so it's not accepted, hence the lack of admitting to it. Unfortunately, the media is forcing us to accept gay / bi as fine. We'll be seeing A LOT more gay sex in the near future. It's already starting to happen.  I have spent some time with bi guys asking why they would just as soon do a guy as a girl.  The most common answer is convenience. Having sex with a woman requires meeting her, wining and dining her, spending time with her, developing a trust and so on. With a guy, one can go to the local hook up spot and be getting blown in a matter of minutes. In my town there is a spot at a park my son pointed out where guys pull in and sit in their car, wait a few minutes, someone else comes along, they chat and then drive off. Looks pretty easy and explains the rampant STD problem. This is in a park where I play Frisbee golf and have made it a point to watch these activities and have been amazed.
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Bi? Come on if you're a guy and and you like to suck d1ck or take d1ck in th a$$ you're gay so stop fooling yourself... you're not fooling anyone. Please do yourself a favor and come out of the closet life to short to be wasting your time with women.
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You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
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Straight men (or at least the overwhelming stereotype of them) see any non-straight man as "gay" because he has an attraction to other men, and the fact that humans like having only two catergories for everything and no gray area (makes thinking easier). A bisexual woman, however, is a straight man's sexual fantasy, but they still don't understand what it means. A bisexual woman, in reality, is a woman who is attracted to both men and women. A "bi girl" in the (stereotypical) straight man's mind is a woman who will have sex that involves another woman, but will focus on the man as the sex object. The straight man likes to think that he can have 2 women at the same time who will focus on his sexual pleasure but still do things to each other that sexually stimulate the man. It is the most ridiculous double-standard I've ever seen...well, one of them, anyway.
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according to sigmund freud, everyone is born bisexual. a person may (or may not) have masculine or feminine tenancies, but these are activated (or not)  by how xe experiences the world during crucial childhood development. \n\nthis is, of course just a theory; nobody really knows why we are all attracted to what or whom we are attracted. most of human society supports the "concept" of heterosexuality, so its not surprising that some people don't realize that they are attracted to the same sex right away- or that this attraction often comes as a shock to them and their family/acquaintances. \n\nthe term lesbian has been applied to homosexual women with reference to the girls' school of saffos on the greek island of lesbos. \nin other words... this is girls club hon ;) no boys allowed.
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Honestly, I think some people simply don't explore that option because they're happy with their sexuality, even if the same sex may seem enticing. I look at other women and of course I am capable of acknowledging an attractive one. I've even contemplated a three-some between my boyfriend and one of my friends. It is an interesting topic, but I personally think that despite what others may tell themselves, I'm pretty sure most people have thought about exploring this option of flirtation between the same sex.
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There are a LOT of happy monogamous bisexuals, believe me.  I generally notice that most of them are the so-called 'established' bisexuals- ones who have known their sexual orientation for a long time and come to terms with it.  It seems that most people grappling with bicurious/bisexual feelings start to think that they should have the 'best of both worlds', not realizing that bisexuality does not equal polyamory.\n\nI agree with you that it's a tired old excuse to say that people who want relationships with both men and women simultaneously do it because they are bi.  I hate that excuse, and the negative stereotypes it furthers.  I still feel that monogamy is the best expression of love between two individuals, and I, a bisexual female, will almost without a doubt be monogamous in my future.\n\nHowever, even though they aren't for me (or most people), polyamorous relationships can be and are, indeed, loving.  That was the only thing that irked me about your post- for some, it's not 'passing it off as love'- there is true, deep genuine devotion betwen two, three, or however many other indivuals are involved in the relationship.  Loyalty has little to do with it, since polyamory isn't cheating (it always must be okayed with everyone involved).  A lot of people do cheat and call it polyamory, but that's not right.\n\nAll in all, just know that you aren't alone.  Long live bisexual monogamists!
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umm, lets see...well from experience, i just treat guys and girls the same. i dont think of them as a "male" or "female," just as someone who makes me happy & who i make happy. i really dont differentiate, which is probably why i'm bi. but i mean do what feels natural/right/whatever. it's a relationship just like any other. =] good luck!
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H-I-B Brilliant man! These simple questions for simpletons, may be too much for them to absorb all at once. It's real hard to decide if it was once, or maybe twice. That is what BI-LESBIANS say about not being a Lesbian. I was BI curious, or maybe SEMI-BI-LESBIAN. So how many HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS concluded that you are a HOMOSEXUAL? My example of NEO_CONSERVATIVE dialog, HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!! The crying "RIGHT" can't stand up for themselves, and now have to "CRY" to the left for support. BOOO-FUUUUKIN_HOO. My man here is completely right about the semis-ism, so stand up and take your knocks, it's your turn in the barrel. Vote out the TYRANTS in NOVEMBER, free America!
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I don't think that it's a matter of 'becoming' bi.\nI think what's happening is that more and more women are being honest about their sexuality. \n\nBut it's pretty clear by the tone of your question and where you posted it that you just want to be flame-bait.
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... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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People fear what they don't know, some people just cannot accept the fact that not everyone is like them nor should they have to be. We are all individuals with certain qualities that make us unique and who we are. Bisexuality is actually something that we all have in us however not everyone would accept that fact not would they act upon it. I beleive that being attracted to our own sex if normal . Some people can accept that and not experiment and some do experiment and find it gratifying. To each his own and no one should ever condem anyone for their preferences. I would say that you should do what you need to do\nif you are happy with it however you don't need to make it public.\nWhy not let that be something you explore discreeetly, not everyone needs to know.  So just remember this bisexuality thing is normal and do what you need to do.
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Hi there. I agree... these people answering can show more respect towards u as an individual! Man ppl... it's just a question... ANSWER IT!!! Anways, I read ur question and personally, u maybe have a tendency to lean towards bisexuality... however, since you didnt mention ur age or anything, it might be hormones. I do believe no matter your sexuality, people need to show 'respect' & 'dignity' (as these p-r-i-c-k-s didnt), you need that! It doesnt really matter on ur sexuality, I personally do not think being bi or gay is morally right, but it is a choice ppl make. I hope this helps u and i hope u find out more soon!!!
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You're right!!! If you could "choose" to be gay then you would be bi because you'd would like women and men,  only stupid people think that it's a choice...
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Doesshe have to be bi? I'm bi-sexual, but I'm taken... Anyway she sounds like she meant a lot. Just keep looking for em', she out there.\nsexkitten01
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I wouldn't say I'm proud to be gay(bi in my case), I'd say I'm proud of who I am.  Sexuality is only a part of that, not the whole.\n\nAlso, who told you it was a choice?  I was born bisexual, and I will always be bisexual.  It's the way I am.
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I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.