HE SAYS IS ON THE VERGE OF DIVORCE!OR DO THEY ALL SAY THAT?
121121
Its never okay to deal with a married man EVER. It doesn't matter if him and his wife are having troubles or not. How would you feel if you were married and then some other girl was messing with your man, you would be pissed. So you gotta think about how you are affecting other peoples lives by going with a married man. My best advice to you, quit seeing a married man, the chances are that he just tells you he is divorcing his wife to have you whenever he wants you.
153197
now days, there are more divorced people or not.  SO dont worry about SOME of the opinions you've gotten. If it wasnt you're fault, dont worry about it!  Things happen, like to me, and I sure as hell wasnt staying when that dumb a** was cheating with everything that walked.  So somewhere else, to some other preacher!
200371
Everyone is saying the same thing and its true.  He is playing you like a deck of cards.  Dont worry about his feelings any more.  You have to take care of YOU!  The relationship is really, already over.  Now you just have to make it official.  Tell him good bye and good luck.  He isnt worth your time or tears.  No man is.
657902
No, it's not normal.  Haven't enough people answered questions about this relationship for you to get out of it yet?
384641
He probably just came to terms that you two will never be.  You are married, he is married...why continue and put other people's feelings at risk?
241664
Well, if ya got doubts about it, chances are he is.. I hate to say it.. works that way wit married couples too, trust me, I know! If ya ask him he'll deny it (most of 'em do) so don't go there, I guess. I don't wanna diss the guy and burst somebody's bubble here.. (Sorry I sound so negative.. I just came out of kinda this type of sitch is all!) wish I was of more help.. I'm voting for run around on him, be honest first.
541353
Alot of people think divorce is the easy way out. You don't have to try anymore and you don't have to admit your own faults. Trying to salvage a marriage has got to be one of the hardest things in the world to do. It is filled with raw emotion that just runs away sometimes.  If people can keep their anger in check and concentrate on whats important in the marriage they have a chance. Other than that, I can't think of a way to save a marriage.
159533
Basically a judge decides these things but it can be a contested divorce which means nothing goes until all parties agree. I'd suggest negotiating more...
96114
If I were you, why struggle with who you're going to believe and just get away from the drama.  What was his reaction?  \n\nIf he's not divorced, he's still married and you don't want to be strung along thinking that it may happen.  If he still wants you, he'll get it done quick and then the two of you can carry on, but until that's done, don't be the one waiting for it to happen.  \n\nGood Luck!
249485
Sorry, the relationship is done.\n\nSilent is not the best way to finish a relation, but it works.
667659
You hit the nail on the head with "mid-life crisis". He needs validation that his manhood and virility are still intact. This is however, a breach of his professional ethics. His marriage may not be unhappy ... just stale. It happens in the very best of marriages.
594138
(A friend huh? )  Why is it that when ever someone on this site wants a "quickie divorce",or wants to break up with someone,the first thing they say is: "It's not me-it's for a friend?"\n\n(1) First of all,why waste your time trying to get answers to your friends problems? Is he/she not capable of taking care of this him/herself?\n( 2) Do you think people on this site are able to determine why this marriage should end,without details?\n(3) Stop Lying!-Your the one who wants the " Quicky divorce" (wink,wink!). You probably got married just as quick,and as a matter of fact,you probably do "everything" quick (wink,wink). (Anyway) stop trying to do everything so "Quickly". Pay the cost to end the marriage,or prove to the Lawyers,that YOUR WIFE is capable of footing the bill!. \n\n(PS) Just to let you know,there is no such thing as "breaking away clean",from a divorce. Everyone will pay,suffer,or whatever in the long run. Don't forget about Alimony,and paying any bills she has accumulated over the years. Good thing there's no kids involved. (Good luck)
599155
He needs to make a decision.\n\nSounds like a loser to me.
582075
Well, you must call him...he is busy worrying about his business, you are worrying about the relastionship so you must be the one to try to hold it together.  Best wishes
128718
He wants to make sure that everyone knows that you are WAY off the market.  He has made a very small commitment, but if your not planning on marrying him I would cut and run.  He sounds somewhat controlling, but it could just be that ya'll are young and tenatious.
552788
that is the start of a booty call and if he works out of town that might be were his family live like his wife and kids ! \n\nwatch out this does not sound right ! ♠
261110
Oh sweety, told you told you told you?? You can't believe all this. You should have told him from the second he said he was leaving "ok, i'll be here for you once you get everything sorted out." He might leave his wife, but my gut like urs is saying he's a lier and he's not planning on leaving his wife. When the week is up, his time is up too.