He's a professional model ... we have talked ... its not that he doesnt know I exist... but right now , hes the only thing on my mind, I'm the practical girl who doesnt drool over movie stars/pop stars ... but this guy hit me like nothing else ever did .... its so damn confusing ... What should I do???
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If he really is a very good-looking guy, chances are that he has lots of beautiful girls chasing after him all the time... especially in his line of work.\n\nI would let myself be known to him, that you like him and would like to see where things could go. Put the ball in his court. But I wouldn't wait around for him cos its likely that he will be easily distracted by other girls. He's probably spoilt for choice, so I wouldn't pin my hopes on this one. Sorry babe.
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He has got the absolute hots for you! He is most likely fantasizing about you right now! He is probably thinking you are so hot that you would never date him! Guys can get like that. We see a girl who is really hot and we think there is no way we would ever have a chance of getting a date with the really hot women. Ask him out! Tell him you think he is really hot! It will turn him on! Good Luck!
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Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want.  Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
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I had a friend of mine that we played that game for years. Nothing ever came out of it because we were too good of friends and I did not want to lose her friendship.  There were times she would flirt and even one time where she told me if she likes a guy they are paying at the movies and she had me pay the next day.You need to talk through it with him, it sounds like he is really unsure of himself and just as confused as you are.  I think he is waiting for the green light from you that says where you stand.
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Are you CRAZY???? This guy just said all the right things, just what you wanted to hear. You Made out with him so quick don't you think he is working you so he can go further? If you don't listen to me I guaranty that when he gets what he wants he is soooo out of there and you well be left alone...
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Hey, I know the feeling. I know this guy name Kipp and this chick named Cassi who is one of my BFFz and she is always caught up in a love triangle and doesn't know what to do. I say meet this guy and be yourself. Think positive and hold life with a tight grip and loosen up occasionally. I would go up to the movies and be normal and just sit next to him and talk and crack jokes and stuff, but play it cool, don't look like a loser and trip over your own two feet like I did on a date. Good Luck, and I hope it goes well! Oh, and stay away from guys named Zach! By the way, My cat's name is Sherry Ann!! How ironic?!?!
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I wouldn't be too freaked out.  Like you suggested, you may just really admire him and that's why he's on your mind.  I would encourage you to try and hang out with him casually and see what he's about.  You may discover he's a great friend...or more!
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I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
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Love involves respect.  If he has no respect for you, and is ashamed to be seen in public with you, he does not love you.  Or is the problem not that he is ashamed, but that it is not practical for him:  is he an actor or otherwise in the public eye, and he is considering his reputation and income?  That's not love, either.  Worse yet, is he married or engaged, and has not told you?  I think you would be well rid of this guy.
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Okay Bella, I've noticed that you have posted several different questions about this guy.  It's going to be difficult, but you need to move on!  This guy obviously doesn't realize what a great woman you are, and probably doesn't love himself to want that in his life.  And you need to realize that you deserve more.  I know your heart is very attached to him right now and it's hard to imagine him not being in your life.  One day you will ask yourself, "Was I stressing over that loser?  What was wrong with me?"\n\nThe right one for you will come along eventually, but this guy is not it.  He'll voice those same promises, but when he does, there will be no question in your heart that he's sincere.
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Not really a question, is it? I think you're kind of crushing on him.\n\n"Oooh, he's so special!"\n\nWell, I'm sure you know best. \n\nNext time you post here, try asking a question.
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I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
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I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
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he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
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Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
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Oooo... that's very mysterious! I think a guy would like having a secret admirer. I say go for it!
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i would  suggest getting toget to know him better. This sounds like just a crush to me you are kind of young .