She can't leave this guy alone and it almost got me in trouble with the cops and she said that he took advantage of her and now they are best buddies again and she now wants to be my friend again now after 6 months and after all the times she put me down.What do I do?Please help me!
124329
Talk and see if you are capable of forgiving.Make sure she won't get you in trouble again...And most of all listen to what your heart wants.Do you really want to be friends again?You might forgive her, but you will never forget what she did to you.
567785
of course u have to keep talking to her...she is ur best friend !!!! she has the right to be mad,she was refused by a guy...be patient.plz to handle  it u have to be with her n good and bad...she is talking like this now bcs she is mad...be patient she will come to apologize !!! friendship means we have to support each other in ur bad and good times
111918
Hmmm... Really sounds strange huh? Well, I'm a Man but I think I can answer your question... Maybe you're right about what you suspect for the reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but you really have to talk to her because there can be many reasons for this situation, maybe you can ask her if someone was backstabbing you and telling things about you against your friend... Right? Losing a friend like yours is very depressing because both of you have been to lot of ups and downs... For now, try to take time for her to think it over, same to you as well, think of the things that possibly you've done that hurted her feelings too... Because if she was your friend for 12 years already, jealousy is not a big factor and she should be proud of you as her bestfriend... Maybe jealousy to other friends of yours is a reason... Try to talk to her ok? But at the right time... Goodluck to your friendship and I'm sure you will get her back...
445151
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
504989
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
230453
There is nothing you can do.  You have to just be there to pick up the peices when she realizes what he is doing to her.  I say this because I have been in this situation many times, and she will eventually realize that he is just using her.  She needs you to be supportive of her decisions, and not to critical or she won't come to you when she needs to talk to someone. \nTrust me when I say she will truly realize that you only want the best for her, but you need to let her make her own mistakes.\nGood Luck!
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you need to get together w/ her & tell her how you feel \nabout what she did.  Let her know that it was nOT right for her to do that & you thought better of her.  Remind her that true friends do NOT do this & that she hurt your feelings & made your life a bit of a mess by doing what \nshe did.  She should know that what she did was wrong & that she should NEVER tell anothers secrets unless they were out to hurt or harm someone.  Hope she never does this again & good luck .
454598
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
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your friend is jealous, she envies you. there is probably alot going on in her life that you dont know about, and she looks at you, a successful woman with people who encourage you around you, and she wants what you have.\n\nit is no excuse, she shouldnt be like this towards you. \n\ni suggest trying to communicate with her. write her a letter, with something like, "weve been friends for so long, and id do almost anything for you, and i dont want to loose our friendship but the way im being treated is terrible, i dont understand why your being like this. i want to help you but i dont know how. i value our friendship and you mean so much to me, please call me so we can talk. im sorry if you feel cheated out of a business idea, but the truth is that it was my boyfriends idea, not mine... so unless he stole it off you, its not possible that we got it off you. maybe you had the same idea or something. ... etc ...etc...etc"\n\njust tell her how you feel. a letter is better coz she HAS to read it. she can yell and scream all she wants, but she will read it, and u will have said what u needed to say. then its up to her.\n\nif that doesnt work, u will have to drop the friendship. you cant keep on taking abuse. no matter how good friends u used to be. if she says sorry, forgive her, no questions asked. be a good friend and move on and rebuild the friendship, but if she wont get over it, you will have to move on.
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If you have her number call her.\n\nIf you can't, just go to school tomorrow and talk to the guy and tell him that you wanna be his friend and take back the part about deciding not to be his friend. Ask him to forgive you and if you can be his friend again.\ndon't cry 'bout it.\n\n\nAll the best,\nStacie fan
675214
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
141991
Yes. It's time to wake up. She obviously is still hung up on this guy. Why else did you go to the club he was playing at? I'm ashamed to say "been there, done that", although I did not drag some poor guy along to watch! Leave her to yearn for the guy who treated her so badly and find a lady who is free to be with a nice guy like you.
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Well with your friend.  I had the same situation.  She is your friend she just needed a ride.  Don't let it bother you to bad.  She might come around she might not.  I wouldn't give the guy anything just let him stick around and charm you but dont buy him anything!!!
125139
well you see i know where your coming from on this one. i went thruogh the same thing. i told my friend and she denied it and she was pissed at me for awhile but then she caught him in the act, and she realized that she should have trusted her friend and now we are cool again.
184623
Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
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I think that as she is your friend you should make up, you were both drunk and she is your mate.\n\nI reckon that the two should meet up and talk about this tell her that she is your mate an nothing will ever come between the two of you, but you also have other friends as well, and while you accept the fact that she doesn't like the guy you were chatting with. You are not going to stop talking to him, and as she is a friend she shouldn't expect you to.\n\nMake up with her as good friends are hard to find, and maybe the two of you should consider going into your local and apologising
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ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!