Honestly. What makes sex good with a woman? For example looks, sounds, ect....? Please give detail. How is it different from a one nighter to a commited relationship with somebody?
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You know what?  The answers aren't a simple as looks, or sounds...for example...I love a woman's body, the female form..but it doesn't automatically make me want to have sex with her.  That person might even be totally into themselves and stuck up...which is a no go for me.\n\nWhen I'm actually having sex, I'm looking for softness.  I'm looking for that woman to allow me into her mind.....that sounds corny as hell though...but it's true.  It's a turn on, that she is allowing you to please her and vice versa.  \n\nThen as a guy, you pay attention to the sounds....not just the regular moans....but the real, deep, almost primal moans to let you know you are really working her over the way she wants.  I personally like to see involuntary movement of the limbs.  If she is making faces she wouldn't want to know she made, curling up her toes, or moving in ways or positions she has no idea she is even in, or even why she is in them.....then I know I doing what I'm supposed to.\n\nPlus a good attitude is necessary.  A woman who actually speaks and lets you know what she wants, what works...either vocally or with her eyes, or moans, whatever....will be better during sex.  It takes out the guy's guesswork at everything.  It shows she is conscious that you are actually trying to do a good job......and you want to make it happen together.  Communication, as with everything else in life, is the most crucial part of sex.\n\nSoooo....I guess it's the combination.  It's looks, although looks can and have fooled me.  I actually had the best sex I've ever had with someone that wasn't the supermodel type.  She definitely wasn't ugly.  She was real thick and she had the features I liked.  I guess it depends on the guy.  \n\nYou could say it's the sounds....but I've had girls who made yeti sounds....or they sounded like I was hitting them in the stomach with a lead pipe (no pun intended)....or they were screaming in my ear, like it was sexy.\n\nIf guys have that nice combo of looks, the right sounds, and a good attitude to match.....and the right amount of freakiness....goes a long way.\n\nOh.....and the difference between a one nighter and a committed relationship comes down to those two people.  The one nighter is exhilerating, exciting......might even hit the spot for a while.  Relationship sex depends on how you feel that night....or how your day went.....just more factors involved.\n\nWhat do I know?  I'm just a guy @ work with too much time on my hands.
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Good communication = Good sex\nEvery woman is a little bit different. If you want to have a mutually wonderful time with sex, then try telling her to be your teacher, and you follow her instructions. This way you learn what makes her happy in bed, and you both have a good time. Play this back and forth, and remember that you need to try variables like speed, firmness, and always feed back information. Don't be shy, and don't let your feelings get in the way of satisfying each other. Don't get into a rut by doing the same thing the same way all the time, but remember what it is that sends her over the edge, and use it with discretion. I am sure that you will both discover more, and more things that feel good, and better than either one of you ever thought of. Just be open, and give each other the respect that you both deserve. Nothing like higher learning.
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It's all according to how,where and who your making love to. If you truly love the person you're with it makes it much more enjoyable. Experience also helps in my opinion. I think the most inexperienced one enjoys it most. WOW, someone that knows what he or she is doing can make you literally climb the wall.
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It's been my experience that guys tend to be more activity oriented, they want to be constantly doing something.  In lovemaking, it's all about the orgasm.  Women tend to be more relationship oriented, I've spent wonderful nights with women where there was no sex, just talking and cuddling and being together, I've rarely had that with a man, and then only when they were also bi.  It's an old saying:  "Men give love to get sex, women give sex to get love."  There are exceptions, obviously, but it's what I've seen in the majority of cases.
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Honey as long as it takes.\nSometimes you can do it all night.\nThere are no time limits on \nhaveing sex. Enjoy
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Honestly, I can tell you I go looking for it and I never can find it because I do want a relationship and commitment.  I personally Choose not to just sleep with the next hottie walking down the street, I want dinner and possibly breakfast... A phone call and a second encounter. I am not saying that it has to be set in stone, but if the man would put forth a little more effort in the follow up game, I would be a little more eager to explore more men.  The feeling you get when a 1 nighter is over is awful, Even if he would just call for coffee and say hey, I ad a really great time with you, but I am not where you are.... or some bullshit line I would rather get that than being ignored completely.  As far as cheating is concerned... HELL NO... I am a strong believer in do unto others as you would have them do unto you.... last time i checked i didn't want my man sleeping with anyone else... If I want variety, which I often do I have toys... and my man enjoys changing it up a bit for me!!!
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It's what goes on prior to sex in order to get your mind into it. If you're just in for a quickie, it's no big deal....but for a night of meaningful lovemaking, the foreplay starts hours before.....Maybe a phone call during the day of "I can't wait to be with you tonight".....a quiet, romantic dinner, with soft talk and lots of eye contact....and then once the time arrives, lots of gentle touches, soft kisses, etc. No rushing, no worries....
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Are there guys that need to get in the mood?  If my woman is in the mood I will be in the mood.  If my woman is not in the mood I will try to get her in the mood.\nA woman trying to get a man in the mood just sounds wrong.
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Well it depends on what she's into, but I used to date a guy who would use two fingers and push them in pretty far and then move his fingers at the first joint slowly. All while massaging my clit with his thumb. He was amazing and very talented. Never had it any better than that. Good luck and just remember being really good is not always just about the physical part...Good sex is being able to connect mentally as well.
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Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
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* What are three physical qualities you enjoy in a woman?\n - Eyes, smile, a**\n\n* What are three mental/emotional qualities you enjoy in a woman?\n - modest, intelligent, wild\n\n* If you could make love to a woman from any era in history what era would it be?\n - 50's 60's - because the women back then knew how to treat men with respect.\n\n* What is the sexiest language/culture?\n - Anything but english\n\n* If given the chance to show your love for the woman of your dreams/future/current soul mate what would you do?\n - Be true to her for the end of time\n\n* What do you believe is the sexiest lifestyle? (Example: Bank Robbers, rich and famous, etc. etc.?)\n - There is no sexy lifestyle . . . I lived as an entertainer, I have money, I am well known in my circles, I've been a playboy - dating dozens of girls.\n\n* One bad expirience you've had in a relationship?\n - To some it up in two words . . . "Cheating Golddiggers"
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Does each of you take a turn sleeping? anyway i don't think it's possible to have good sex for 8-10 hours straight
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neither  \nthere are reasons it would be neither\ngreat lovers are doing something other than sleeping..\n\nthe guy who has a different lady every night  may learn what pleases him but is not staying around to find out what pleases the woman he is with\n\nthe guy with one woman   may or may not know how to please his lady. A lot of married women seem to have had years of trouble with their partners  poor bedroom performance. the two of them may both have started together as virgins and never learned anything better than the missionary position.
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The sex is important yes, but I love being with my man. The way he holds me, a random touch of the cheek, a kiss out of the blue. Being held at night without going in for sex. The feeling of being loved is more important than sex.
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The fact of sex doesn't mean a thing one way or the other.  If I enjoyed being with her, and if I think I would enjoy being with her again, I'll call.   But if we were just taking care of a biologicial urge, and there was no real connection between us, I would not want to go out with her again.\n\nIn other words, if we really liked each other and ended up in bed together, then that's just great.  But if we didn't have anything in common except the sex, why bother?\n\nJust one man's opinion. Good luck!!
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if you have done something which was having sex with different guys in just one-night-stand...so you must be a flirt... if you have never done such things...so you are not flirt...better to be a good and ideal woman...
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sex and pyhco women is great, highly reccomend it\nBUT\nNEVER make them your GF\nNEVER tell them where you live\nNEVER give them your phone number\nNEVER give them your work number\n\nthey are a great booty call nothing more\nthe reason they are great is that due to there extremely low self esteem they will do anything to make you happy, anything sexually\n\nhowever  use great CAUTION when dumping them\nas they ARE vindictave and spiteful\nhave fun otherwise