I'm someone  who is good in bed and when it comes to handling matters of the opposite sex! But I always hear about different things, how women like it, this guy compared to that guy. I never get any complaints of coarse but I am of average size, with a great technique and of coarse very curious. I'm always looking to improve myself. Knowledge is power after all, so tell me does size matter?
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More important than size, is stamina and angle.  There are people who are well endowed and considered to be poor lovers because they rely solely on their size.  The ability to control yourself, and get the right spot is tyically what matters most.
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I can't say what type women want but as to your other questions, penis lengths average around 5.5-6.5in when erect.  keep in mind that most vaginas are only 4-5in in length so if you're significantly bigger, you're starting to push up into the uterus.  porn has distorted mens' expectations of what a "normal" size is, and when you see these tiny girls being rammed by monstrously large members, keep in mind that (a) they are accustomed to the size because they experience it on a regular basis due to their career and (b) many of them don't really look like they're enjoying the experience.\n\nthere is much more to being a skillful lover than the size of your penis.  size is what most guys default to as a measure of confidence/ability.  if that's what a girl wants, how do you know that you'll ever be big enough for her?
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Bigger isn't always better. Not to be graphic, but if it's too big, it can hurt. From my own experience, average size is the best, not too big, not too small. It also has something to do with the woman's body. Some couples just fit together better than others. And YES, "how he works it" is the most important thing.
55761
Yes, size matters! We have to be able to feel it, and in some cases, SEE it! It has to be AT LEAST average size, over average is even better!
672493
Have you heard the saying,"a bad workman always blames his tools!". Same thing here. Size don't matter, its what you do with it that counts and that is speaking from experience. I was with a guy who was 9 1/2 inches and it was also very thick but he didn't av a clue how to satisfy a woman. He thought because he was big he didnt have to bother with foreplay or finding out how to turn someone on. Useless! Take the time to perfect your skills and see what turns her on then the only moans you will hear will be pleasurable ones!
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A FULL erection is usually pretty close to the same size every time. Of course their are various stages as the penis becomes fully erect so it could be less in length if he is not fully erect. For various reasons (time since last sexual release, etc.) guys may not get fully erect every time they are with their partners. If he can still perform okay, doesn't seem to be anything to worry about to me...put away that ruler!
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Not *all* guys hate big girls.  I have heard one theory that if the guy happens to be below, he might be "snuffed out" but even that is extreme.  I think this subject is interesting since guys think that their "size of the pole" is all that matters.  The other theory I've heard is that guys want the girl they can put their arms around and hold safely.  I really don't know what else to say without sounding rude.
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it's not the size dude...it's the performance that counts!!!\nif you know how to please your woman the right way...you are gonna be much better than the most endowed dude.
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I can only speak for myself and for me size doesn't matter because I have many different spots that would cause an orgasm some deep and some shallow. I learned that by having a partner that took time to find all of them. I think allot of girls get men that just want to ram them and "break their backs" all of the time. Those women might think that they only have one or two spots and only a man with a large d*** can get to them.
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I think when a guy really listens to a girl.  This really pleases her also trying to understand her when she is being a girl.  Meaning things we do that guys don't understand, try a little harder to.  As far as in the bedroom.  Variety, is always a plus, wanting to fulfill her as much or more then you want to please yourself.  This should actually please you anyway, because you feel good that you can do this so well!!!
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i have found that men who aren't circumszed (dated 3 of them) are usually bigger than men who are not..but didn't know how to work it... i've been with a guy who had a smaller one than i was used to but knew how to work with it.... sooo size REALLY doesn't matter if you know what you are doing.... and the best sex overall is make-up sex;)
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You're not alone sister! We're all different sizes, so some of us are just not made for large penises, and some of us are. It's not good or bad, it just is what it is.\nAlso, it might have to do with trust and control. A large penis can be painful if your body is not totally relaxed, and it can be hard to relax if you don't fully trust the guy you're with. If you don't feel like you have any control over what is happening, your vagina will tense up as a way of trying to defend itself. \nWhatever you do, trust yourself and what your body is telling you. There is nothing wrong with preferring smaller penises. Like I said before, we're all different sizes. Bigger is not necessarily better! :)
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Some women are vain and silly and think that bigger is better. Men with small penises can do things that those who are more endowed can not. Myself I would prefer a smaller man to a huge one.
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Sex is sex, it takes more work to make it bad for a guy than it does to make it good.  Who the hell cares how big or small she is.
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The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really! \n\nPlease find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.
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Look when it all boils down to it, it's the size of your tongue my friend that truly matters lol, I’m above average naturally, some female say I’m really big but I don’t let it blow my head up to much, what I’m tryin to say is this, having a big one isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, having females teary eyed, screaming and scratching your back all up is so over rated…what I’m I saying it’s a freaking blessing lol, man just be happy wit what you got and make it work, don’t cheat ^_^
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The right size matters, meaning the lenght mustn't be toooo long, because other wise it hurts terrible, and it should be thick, but not too much if you know what i mean. But size doesn't matter if you know how to use it. \nThere could be a guy with a hude dick but just doing more damage then pleasing.\n\nJust ask her which way you please her best without hurting her.\nTry standing ;-)