she is 18 and i am 28 both in the same class i am also female
120933
That is rough. I have been there myself. If she continues to push herself on you even after you have told her no then she doesn't respect you or your feelings. She is being self centered. You make it very clear to her how it makes you feel.Tell her that if she keeps it up you will no longer be friends and you will be forced into pressing charges against her with the police for harassment.Your best bet after that is to avoid her best you can.Keep busy with other things.
190981
There isn`t one simple answer for this. Me being 67 in June and having raised a granddaughter from 12 to 16 six yrs. ago, I can offer my opinions.\nYou awake in the morning nice and warm in your bed on a school day and the temp outside is 10 above zero but you have to get out to go to school. Do you want to trade where your at with where your going? Do you want to trade the known for the unknown?\nTodays children as well as adults live in a society that`s out of control All the basic elements required to raise a child to become a respondsible adult have been outlawed. Seems like morality is now history. In general, going out into real life is a mighty scarey thing. With no training in what to expect or how to deal with the unexpected your going to be scared. It`s a cutthroat arena. I feel sorry for todays youth. Parents must share alot of the blame for the lack of leadership and education to prepare a child to be ready to jump into the ring.\nSeems I`m being negative about things but I`m not. It`s just the way we have made it.\nJust talk to her and assure her that she will be just fine if she wants to be and also assure her that you will be there to help with the questions and possible solutions and offer her your advice from your own journey through life. Tell her you LOVE her.
426372
Me and my girlfriend met in afterschool detention and have been together almost a year now
347452
Please try and not be so shy, she will be more relaxed and enjoy helping you. People love to help and share their knowledge.
564701
I guess it depends what the class is about. If it's some whacko new age type thing that's one thing, but if it's a legit "Dr. Phil" type thing, it shouldn't be a problem.  Everyone has some issues, even if they think they've got it together. Maybe she knows her issues but you don't.
585008
I've been where you are and i'm telling you...be strong!  Stand up to her without getting down to her level...don't get mad or upset...smile in her face and tell her you are comfortable enough with yourself that you don't need to find fault in others to find what's good in you!  This is hard at your age, I know!  The more you fight with her, and the more you react to her the more she will dish it out to you.  Be strong, be yourself and don't worry about what people think of you because you can't, YOU CAN'T make everyone happy!
142915
Oh yes you have as good a chance as anyone.Your getting to the more mature age and woman like that.Don't give up she will come along when you least expect her to.Stay positive OK? Good Luck!!!
183529
Not totally good. She either hasn't seen it yet or she is not interested. If you still have the same class together, ask her. What's the worse she could say.....You'll never know until you do.
384357
man...i don't know,im in the same school,same level and almost same class < l\n                    < l
6205
there is a generation gap between the 2 of you.  she was 23 and you were 52 when you got married.  her interests, goals, values etc are probably different than yours.
204815
You did not say how old you both are, so I can only assume you are both old enough to get married. If true love is what you have then God bless the both of you.
123918
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
181215
You are HOT and she is pretty.\n\nAssume the 2 of you are a couple by the look of the picture :)
401663
Hey its only 2 grades....and if you really like her then whats the problem.\n\nIts not like she is in the 2nd grade or anything\nThat would be wrong
54501
Don't blame her, she feels responsible for you... unfortunately she will always look at you as a kid. I'm 26 and i still look at my 22 year old sister as a kid, cause she IS!!
382547
I don't mean to sound judgmental or anything but you shouldn't be even thinking about it.  She's WAY TOO YOUNG for you.\n\nBesides, just because she looks like your wife who already passed away (which I gathered the reason why you want to date the 18yo) does not mean that she is "your wife" and will never be.\n\nNo two person can ever be alike, so don't get any ideas.\n\nSorry if I sound harsh, but that's my opinion in this whole situation and I would rather be honest and upfront.
532560
u should really talk to her and ur family. maybe dey will have some luck with her