she is fat and ugly!he saya he loves har ,but i don't think so if he doesn't fuck her for 1 entire year!and he is sleeping with me almost every day!what do you think?\ni really love him,but i want him to be only mine!i want him to divorce his wife!
126115
Sorry to say but even though he sleeps with you ,HE is married to her. and 9 times out of 10 they will never leave their wife. they like having the best of both worlds. he might be screwing you but she has his last name . And why would you want him? if hes screwing around on her what makes you think he wouldnt screw around on you?
256699
If she stays with him, she is not only hurting herself but him as well. He may be a great person but eventually she will come to resent him because he is not "the one". She is also keeping him from finding someone that really loves him and someone he has a spark with. I hope that she finds what she is looking for. I have also been one that picks the ones that don't want to commit. I wish her luck and hope whatever she decides to do it is the right choice for her!
474489
Maybe he is proposing a date with her.  I cannot imagine he is ready to jump in and get married without having a relationship first.  Besides, if she is only separated, that means she is still married, and he would be smart to stay out of her life until she is legally divorced.
240116
I agree, the hell with the wife. It is obvious you dont care about loosing her but what if you keep your best friend and he sleeps with someone you really dont want to loose. Not worth the risk to me. Get rid of both of them!!
266789
well i think you need to put this to an end now because he is a married man i realize that their marriage is probably on the rocks but if he truly cares for you he will divorce his wife first and if you have respect for yourself you will not let this happen it will just end up in heartace and a mess for everyone in the long run.hun you dont want to get involved in there relationship well you already are and he lyed to you and said he wasnt married what a dog and what about that little girl she seems very confused if she is calling you mommie it isnt fair to the little girl and the wife even though she might be a bitch but he obviously isnt any better he is a lyer so just be careful and do the right thing
56949
It's not the dream part that should bother you but the fact that he does want to sleep with her in real life.  I give him credit for admitting that to you.  If he is serious about it then you might want to reconsider his devotion and feelings towards you.  It's one thing to fantasize about others but another to be willing to act upon it if given the chance.
672530
He is a married man, and has no business being friends with other women, if the friend ship doesnt include his wife, she has every right to be upset about it, as she shouldnt have to share her husband with anyone else under any circumstance.  He sounds like a disrespectful jerk to put her through this kind of thing as its not normal in a marriage.... So listen to your "other" friends and back off, you are over steppin your bounds!
666851
I think she should leave.  He treated her the way he did, so that she would depend on him.  Without her he is nothing. As long as she is with him he will continue to treat her with great disrespect.\nHe has no fear in his heart of loosing her. He has put her down so much thae she is brain washed.
306716
you are creating your own misery, you don't even know if she is a possibility and you have already bagan thinking about families and marriage and religion. why would you do that to yourself? imagine her with her boyfriend banging her right now, that should quell your interest. imagine her giving him oral sex, you still want to kiss her? dude , stop the fantasy. you have the real makings of a stalker.
160716
Girl are you blind? He is not in love with you and he has never been. If i were you, i would have already packed my bags and gone. Dont you have a little respect for yourself? Besides, there is some nice young man out there who will worship the ground you walk so fucken move out of that rat hole. You have been used for 4 years but you can still start anew. Married men that want girldriends are all stupid. They are forgeting that they made a commitment and must stick to it. If i had my way, i would want all such men to be locked up in prison. You aint a prostitute to offer sex at anytime he wants. Keep your degnity as a woman. Do it for all the women. i know and believe you can.
382822
oh. the same sh*** again and again. A woman likes a man and says his wife or gf isn't good enough.. doesn't deserve him and can't make him happy as much as she would have! You disgust me! why are you talking to him on the phone in the first place?? and how come there s nothing sexual while you are hoping to get him as soon as you can?\neither his wife is a good person while you are the bad one here, or he s just telling these stories to get your sympathy..use his misery as an excuse to sleep with you, and in that case both of you are sh** and the wife, again, is the only good person in this story.
185707
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
407363
Well, he left you five weeks ago and he is married now. Its none of your business what his wife thinks, or whether or not they are going to be happy together. Sorry, just being honest.\n-NmD!
432726
YUH! I couldn't agree with you more. She brought it upon herself. How naive can you get? She wanted kids while she was young SO bad that she married a TOTAL poser who can't open his eyes enough to even see her, 2 kids with another woman who he LEFT to be with her because she was more popular than her! He probably was seeing one of the recent most popular women, he's a sick, poser, playing freak and she's just stupid. Two kids with that guy. Oh boy.... can't wait to see how those kids turn out... and HA!!!! He's trying to get full custody for them!!! Do you HONESTLY think he'll get any custody of them?? he has no money and sold close to no CDs. She is suffering this, she made her bed, now she can lay in it. Ha ha, I'm ranting on, but COME ON! It's so true! You're awesome. You took the works right out of my mouth. ;-)
154006
You are too crude!   you make me laugh...\n\n50lbs on an anorexic really can't be 'fat' as you call it...\nbut yeah, dump her..........
519372
I would say she has  a serious problem.  She is very immature -- number one. She definitely needs help of the professional kind.  I know her family cares about her, but this kind of person only is concerned about her own self and how she can meet her own needs - no matter how odd they might be - and at the expence of her own families welfare. She needs a strong husband to stand up and say enough is enough.   And to tell her if she refuses to get the help she needs, then  he can no longer support her - emotionally or financially.  What kind of example is she setting for her children. Her husband should also think of that.  His kids are more important than the pathological relationship he has with his wife.
70019
Why is she putting up with this behavior! Of corse its cheating. And what's this about him hooking up with other women when he gets back.This guy sounds like a selfish pig !And He's doing this while she's back here taking care of his three kids.Honey tell her to get out as soon as possible. He obviously has no respect for Her or their kids , not to mention their life together.Does your friend have self esteem issues ?If she does get her the help she needs. She and her kids deserve so much more DUMP THE LOOSER! Help her get her life back on track Not just for her sake but for her kids .Hope this helps.Tell Her to keep her head up!