i really like this girl, and i want to make out with her or something like that but im not sure if she likes me back.  should i wait till im sure?  should i try? but wat if i fail and she denies me?  HELP ME DAMNIT
124767
seize the day \nyou'll never know unless you try so what if you get shot down better that than wondering for the rest of your life what it was and could have been... what do you have to lose... if you are not accepted tell her you are sorry and try to salvage the friendship.
496068
If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
96428
tis is what you say.."hie,i really like you and i`ve been wondering if you`d like to go out with mie."if she doesn` like it then you tell her that you love her andyou`d really like it if she gave you a chance.if she doesn` like it then maybe she`s  taken or she `s juss not what you`re looking for.
240887
!~ Just tell her how you feel, she may reject you or she may give it some thought but its better than waiting around for her.... if you dont do it your going to spend the rest of your life wondering "what if" ~! *all the best* and remember life is good and so are you !!! (^_^)
172544
If you want to. Don't feel obliged if you're not comfortable with it, but if it's something you want to try, gently ease your tongue into her mouth next time you kiss and see how she responds. If she is not comfortable with it it's best to wait a while before you try again but if she is and you also enjoy it, then there you go, you reached the next level of intimacy.
27613
well if u guys really like eachother u should at least try it,It wont hurt u.If she agrees with u than its ok.      DONT WORRY
533846
the best you can do for now is just Waite it out.If she likes you she'll come around now that she knows how you feel.If you like all the same things maybe at lest you can be friends.
30556
have you ever told her that you liked her?than yeah i think that you should. start by asking her if she does.if so,then ask if she would be comfortable to go out with you some time.if she doesnt like you as more than a friend than say''lets hang out together,just you and me as friends if you are not to busy.''
324840
take it slow buddy don't rush it cause' you want her to be your girlfriend right away, my best answer towards your question is that you need to re-evaluate yourself. is there a way she'll like me? i mean, she is interested in me?(you'll know through how she is around you.. you can just feel it... trust yourself) and if you have body odor (not to say you do.. it's just an example) you should know better to clear that up you know.. you have to think about those things. if she likes you as much as you like her.. there will be a sign that will strike you. not literally! haha.. but i mean like.. who knows. you will randomly bump into her again and again and it's a good vibe you'll get out of her. if she talks to you and really carries a conversation it shows she's interested about you and you all in all. if her talks are short and to the point.. she may not be all that into you. and here's something important. like, do NOT i repeat DO NOT take her kindness as her liking you. I have experienced that all the time. I am a really genial person and if I'm helping a guy out with his homework or whatever, he automatically believes I'm into him. Goodness, no! If a girl likes a boy, she'll do whatever means to get to him. It's that natural thing that happens. Overall, you will find out someday if she likes you back. hang in there!
571241
well...um...i dont know. just think real hard and ask yourself "do i like him or not?"\n\nhopefully u come up with an answer.\n\n\nbut i am thinking u r just confused because u were flattered that he kissed u. u just got caught up in the moment.
178041
Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
334522
Maybe she just thinks that if yous start making out it'll lead to sex and maybe she just doesnt feel like having sex. Just let her know all you wanna do is kiss "causse it makes you feel more connected to her". Or maybe your just a bad kisser, i'd try the first and if its a no-go then i'd consider the second. Goodluck.
418825
If you really like this girl, just be cool. Don't act like your desperate. Try not be too interested in her right now; if she likes you (and that's important too), then she will respond eventually. In the mean time, try looking at another girl. Who knows...You might end up with two at the same time. That's when you come back here and ask another question about that. Got it?
417026
aw yes i do think she likes you. she might be flirtiing with other guys in front of you, because she may not think YOU like HER. i think you should ask her out. if she pulls you aside or when your alone, (or you pull HER aside) and just smile and say something like, "your very nice and beautiful, and i was wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend?" or something like that. be sure to smile and look into her eyes. girls love that. if she rejects you (which she probably wont) just do a subtle smile, and be understanding, and stay her friend.\n\n\ngood luck! :]
264438
tell her shes a lovely girl and you really like spending time with her. this is not to full on but if she likes you back she would probably say it back x good luck hope it works out x
539252
You never know until you ask.  The secret may be that she likes you.  Then again, it may be that she likes somebody else.  You better ask her out and find out.
179230
Find one that likes you. And don't be too concerned with looks. You'll know instinctively if she likes you, then you have to make the bold step of asking her if she would like to do something together, something both of you are interested in.