i logged onto a chat room and this man started chattin to me.b4 i didnt kno he was a police.so then asked if we cud play a game.i had 2 pretend 2 be 13 and he will pretend 2 b my father in the chatroom.so i would tell him whateva somebody said to me in the Conv and we will hav a laf.\n\nwell i thought it was a joke so i got chattin dis other man he was 29.This man asked me some of question like how old are u? r u a virgin and if i wanna meet him 2 have fun with him.i told him i was 13 and a  virgin. really played innocent. whateva he asked me, i did in turn ask my "chatroom dad" what to say to the pevert.so basically he was tellin me what to do.\n the pervert asked of my number and wanted us to meet so i gave him  a number and place to meet .this info was suggested be my "chatroom DAD" \nThen i realised that my chatroom dad must be a police or somone who has logged on into the chat room 2 trap pervert.\ndo u fink i was wrong? by putting tht paedo introuble? im scared he ll track me!!!
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Not at all. These people need to be stopped before they hurt a child. If you are worried go back to the chat room and ask what they do to keep you safe. I don't think you can be traced by the paedo though because of data protection. If you are still worried, contact the police and explain the situation and say that you are worried about it. They will do everything they can to keep you safe.
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Want some candy little girl? Be afraid, be very afraid in the chatroom. You never know who you are talking to. I would not let my children enter one.
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Hey almost got kicked off for asking questions like that...it's called chatting.  Some people are so f---in stupid!  They wanna kick people off for no reason.  Be careful!  And I hope you have a good holiday!
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Firstly, he is WAY too old for you. he is ten years older than you!\n\nSecondly, no you shouldn't talk to him again. He has a one-track-mind and he isn't worth it.\n\nAnd thirdly, in answer to the title, some men don't realize that just because we don't have c*cks doesn't mean we're not human. It's the whole '4 Fs' thing again - they can't eat you or fight you (and if they fear you they'll get laugfhed at by their friends) so the only other option for them is to try and f*** you. I think it's a guy thing.
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yup sorry to tell ya but sounds like he's a pervert.\n\ngo see some one esle but i would have him turned in cause he does not need to be doing this to any one ever again right \n\ndont let him do this to some one else!!!
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YEEEEEEEEEAHHHH !!!! ... make those yahoo and secret police fcukers do some work..\n\n\ngood idea ..\n\n\nDr BAd\ndarn  ... there goes another 10 ...  i'll be back down to level 3 soon ..  ;-)) \n\n...but at least .. i'll still have a life..\n\n\nps ... Oh come on girls ..  you know what she meant ..  I hope you are not to 'touchy' ... but even more ..i hope you are not 'stupid' ... and don't know that ''men'' means everyone ... like mankind ... jeeeeez ... get a grip \n\nanother violation   ;-)
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i dont think you should be chatting with this guy. you probably barely know him. a lot of girls already got raped and killed.
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Hi young lady.  You're bound to get a ton of responses to your question, both from parents and from other teens who consider you either very lucky, or very unlucky.  I suspect that something happened this evening that upset you and probably prompted your to ask the question - perhaps they turned down a request or simply said something at a moment when you really weren't feeling happy with the state of your life.  Regardless, being a successful father myself (my son is now married and working on his master's degree to be a teacher), I can tell you something you probably don't like to think about; that is that raising a child . . . I'm sorry . . . a young man or woman, in today's world is a VERY scary and challenging thing to do.  Particularly in the case of young women, if you follow the newspapers or TV news at all, you'd see that the prevalence of sex crimes in our country is at an all-time high.  The Internet itself is being used as a tool by predators who want nothing more than to take advantage of gullible or naive young people who are too ready to trust, and not ready enough to protect themselves.  Your parents sound like they love you very much . . . enough to want to protect you from the very nasty and ugly side of humanity, for as long as they are able.  When you believe they are simply being mean or too strict, they are actually struggling with the choices they must make as you grow older, regarding how much freedom you should be allowed to have, as opposed to how much risk and danger could be waiting for them to allow you too much freedom, or perhaps more than you are fully equipped to handle.  Parents have a terribly difficult job, and very often they have to be the "bad guys" as far as their children are concerned, in order to ensure that their children remain safe and secure until they are old enough, and hopefully well enough prepared, to step out into this very brutal world on your own.  I don't want to put you to sleep here with a long message (I might have already done so:-), but I believe you will find in the long run, that in order to earn more trust and more freedom from your parents, you're going to have to demonstrate to them how responsible and how trustworthy you can be.  And if you attempt to mislead them, or you abuse a trust that they give to you, you shouldn't be surprised or angry at them if they back off and require you to earn their trust all over again.  As a retired military person, I can tell you most assuredly - freedom is everyone's right, but it is a right that we all have to earn, not once, but every day of our lives, but doing what is right (not just what is the easiest), and by setting a high standard of honesty and integrity for ourselves that no one can put a hole in.  I suspect that when you have become the kind of upstanding person your parents want you to be, you will discover that they will endow you with increasing levels of trust, and freedom, so long as you continue to prove that what they are doing is the right thing, not just for you, but for your entire family.  I apologize for writing so much, but I saw in your note some feelings of disappointment and frustration with your folks.  Try not to only consider their actions from your point of view.  To really understand what is happening in yours and their lives, broaden your point of view and try to consider what they're feelings are, and what they're reasons are for the decisions that they make on your behalf.  Don't be in too big a hurry to be out on your own - it's a far scarier and more dangerous world than you can possibly imagine, and your time in it will come all too soon.  Good luck with your question, and with sifting through all of the many wide-ranging opinions you're likely to see.  Use your brain, and not your emotions to determine who's advice is the most honest and the most intelligent, and don't just choose those answers that suppor
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In my opinion, so long as it's okay with the other person he's "cybering" with, it's fine. No harm, no foul.\n\nIn this day and age, consentual dirty talk via IM or e-mail is a harmless, anonymous way for sex-craved people to get a psychological fix, even if it's just fantasy.\n\nThis concept has been around for a while. Take sex-talk phone services ("900" numbers), or erotic penpals. For both of these, women (or men) will have erotic conversations with you for a fee. Heck, he's probably getting his "action" for free, but in a medium where it's infinitely easier to hook up desparate women with desparate men.\n\nAnd both benefit from not needing to actually see each other.
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Maybe you shouldn't be on the Internet chatting with others OR give any personal info of yourself... You NEVER know who is on the other end, you know... Many ppl lie about their age, name and other info. There are tons of pervs on the net, rather, why don't you take up a hobby with your friends or with yourself! And forget this internet chatting, also because ur only 12...
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Take courage and confront him.  Ask him to explain exactly what he meant by those comments, or tell him that you will be forced to report him for sexual harrassment.  Under no circumstances do you report him without first asking him to explain (as it MIGHT be possible the comments were misunderstood... he might just be a poor joker)!
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well if you really ask me why he did it, I think it is because he has had a really troublesome child hood or something like that, maybe he did not have his sex education right.\n\nmany people nowadays have a lot of access to pornographic websites, videos and the like , so they do not have the right " form" of sex education.\n\nnow the guy you were talking to, maybe he was very heated up at that moment, or he was a pervert ( If he used that language, no doubt he was. UGH!!!)\n\nwell I think the best reasons are\n1. The lack of parental surveillance over the person when he is in his teens ( the right time to receive sex education)\n\n2. The bad effect of pornographic material\n\n3. The friendship (or) company he keeps\n\nif u have any more doubts, fee free 2 email me or send me a message\n\nzimbo_kingkong@yahoo.com
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Because he's a predator and he's trying to have cybersex or worse with you.  Find another chat room.  Don't feed this guys sick fantasies.
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I have read the variety of answers to your question, and in my opinion, that it's better to be safe than sorry. If he is doing it for kicks, well then let's get him banned. If he is truly a sexual predator, than let's find a way to get him reported. I have read some of the answers where people say that he wouldn't do it, and then talk about it. I disagree. I've been studying sexual predator's actions for quite some time. You can reach me at brew40fw@msn.com, and let me know what I can do to help. It bothers me a great deal that he's talking like this, and even if all he is doing is talking, he's still mentally disturbed and needs to be dealt with accordingly. Bottom line, what could it possibly hurt to get this guy dealt with?  To get rid of him, it may take a few minutes of your time, and since none of us know if it's real or not, isn't it worth the effort, just in case he's for real? If there's even the slightest chance that he's a danger to children, why debate it. Let's figure out how to stop him if possible. If it were your child he was talking about, looking at, or molesting would you want others to just do nothing? Take a look at the statistics of online predators, and stalkers who use the internet to find children to use and abuse.
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I am a 35 year old father of three girls....\n\nPlease, for your sake, be carefull with what you throw out there.\n\nLot of creeps on this site.
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" Technically " NO- heck no- First off it's not like you hacked in - its an open site, second all you did was view a web page - now if you start to change your routines to coincide with his or you start going thourhg his garbage or something then you might have a problem. Besides, most talk is not " in passing" if he said it, it's because he wants people to visit  the site- -but do not confuse his wanting people to view the site with his wanting you in any deeper sort of way
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The answer: Yahoo! no longer allows access to the chat rooms for people under 18 years old. When I went to the chat site, it said that I couldn't because I was under 18.\nI think I read that they are doing it to cut down on child predators. Really a good thing, actually.