There is this really cool guy named Jordan that I like. Well, anyway I'm not sure if he notices me. How do I get him to notice me?
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Sounds you have paid much attention to this Jordan, I trust that you will get along well with him. You asked how do you get him to notice you. Knowing that there are many possibilities, yet you need to understand what manner of mathods can present the 'Natural you'.\n\nBeing attractive means being your best self, you is the best thing that you can offer when getting someone's attention. Now these days people have a rather different view of attraction; wearing shorts or exposing some part of your body became common. In my personal opinion, these statics cannot form attraction. But a rather low and seducsive act.\n\nHow you apporch him, I can never know. I suggest that you can be a best friend to him. You may already spent time just to observe him, and that is good. If you allow yourself to be involve with him, that is even better. Spend time just listen to him (if he is talkative); try to understand him better each week; learn about his dreams, his fear and desires; be patient to your progress. And most important of all, be alert of his needs and try to be support. One more thing, try to focus on the good side of him.\n\nTo me, attraction is all about something that is really good, which is from deep inside one soul. It raidiates from one's true personality so that people can see it; hear it; feel it and even taste it.\n\nAll that I have mentioned, can lead to a closer relationship with someone if you do it sincerely. I hope that my answer can help you a bit. Even if it turn out not so well, at least you can learn something about yourself.\n\nGood Luck
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the best thing I can suggest for you is to see if he has an email address and email him. don't show him that you are too shy. just express your feelings for him. If you like this guy go for it.
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Step up... Don't take his insencerity when he ignores you. Try talking to him, or better yet joke around with him when you feel as though invisible. Maybe he'll realize that you are interested in a relationship, and try communicating more. If he still acts the same, then don't bother wasting your time. I'm sure you're charming too, why should you be stuck in confusion, never knowing if he likes you or not?
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OMG!!! this is a common problem, just do it and get it over with before you make yourself look stupid, trust me\nhere i copy and pasted a response to someone else its the same thing\n\nahh a very common problem...... don't worry about it, find an excuse to talk to him, tell him he has cool shoes, hair, or you like his shirt or something like that. It will always work. Then ask him where he got it and he will say something. Then you have the opportunity to talk about where he got it from and eventually conversation will become natural. See its just so easy. You also seem to have approaching problems. If you want to approach him you could try to take a friend along but no more than one. Also you could try hanging out near him, but not too close, and look at him and look away... look at him again and look away again... every now and then and see if he looks at you. If he does he is interested in you. If he still ignores you, you could try accidently bumping into him or something. Find excuses they make it alot easier. If you can build up enough confidence walk up to him and just start talking about watever.
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Well since he play basketball then that makes it okay for you as a popular girl to go out with him.  What you can do is this, the next time you are together with him, reach out and grab his hand and pull him close to you and give him a big kiss.  That should get your message across to him
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he could be just a nice guy who appreciates your friendship, or yeah, he could like you. So make a small move. \n\nBring up a movie you really want to see, hint around it. Or, sometime on a break or if you are hanging out, start up a fun game of tag, or challenge him to a quick one on one at basketball.\n\nIf he likes you, he will jump at the chances to hang out with you. Just be you, and dont act all wierd just because you like him. Let him know the real you, if he wants a chance, he WILL jump for it, at all oppertunities:)
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Well I think you should show up looking your best and talk to him or try to get him to notice you if he comes. Just make sure you dont over do it; like trying to be too obvious or all up in his face. Some boys dont find that very attractive. And don't get embarrassed if you fall in front of him or something, you might score by falling because he could come help you up and then maybe something can get started.LOL. But just look your best and be the regular you.
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you might like him? it's evident that you do. :) and the fact that he's paying loads of attention to you, i think he likes you too, and i bet he can see you like him as well. you can confirm this theory if he "coincidentally" bumps into you several times during the day. just shower him with attention and sweetness and he'll ask you out on a date eventually. good luck. :)
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yeah i think you should take the chance. try to make it in some way as to not scrwe up the friendship if it doesnt work out. actually before telling him i think you should try to get him to like you too, make compliments, but make them sound casual so that he wont be sure if you like him or not, then he'll wonder if he likes you or not too. it sounds complicated but it works all the time.
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baby girl, all you have to do is say "hi, how's going" what you want to do is to be noticed. if he shows any sign that he's also interested in you, he'll continue with the conversation.
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I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
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Well, You like him, right? so make the move. He is too shy to ask you to go out or some' maybe. Just send something like, Hey!! if not you'll never know. Give a try, and you'll find out. He will be flatter
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peanut? it's actually kind of cute. i see your confusion, though. it's hard to tell if he just sees you as a friend or something more. if he's not giving you anything else to go on, you might just have to ask him about it. good luck!
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If he is smiling at you that sounds like an invitation for conversation. You should accept his smile as an approachable opportunity to introduce yourself.
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You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!
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he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.