i am 16 yrs and go wit a 20 yr old and we r having sex. do u think that we should b having sex and goin wit eachother?
126389
I see...that 20 year old likes little girls he can brainwash and groom to believe everything he tells them..\nAlthough you are at the age of consent, think about that...Why doesn't he have a girlfriend his own age?\nBecause he is a loser that preys on little girls,when older mature women find him despicable...
311349
DONT HAVE SEX!! Otherwise, have fun and don't fret. Boyfriends that young should be only small kisses and holding hands.
552608
I could understand a freshman wanting to go out with a senior, but I do not think it's appropriate.  The difference in age may be only 3 years, but that's a big difference at that age.  And I think the senior should think twice about going out with a freshman, especially if sexual activity is anticipated.  It's like an adult taking advantage of a kid.  Ever hear of statutory rape?
425286
I doubt it'll last long if you already have your doubts.  I'm not ragging on you for having sex at 15 (as long as it's safe and you really honestly think you're ready for the consequences if something happens), but not many ppl know what they want at 15.  Best wishes and please be careful.
336919
I think that its o.k and you should wait cuz you are too young. I am not telling you what to do , but be wise and smart. If you choose to have sex, be safe and think about it first. Dont do it cuz others are doing it or eer pressure. I am in the 8th grade going to the 9th grade and trust me I understand. Everyday I see girls at my school that just dont care and regret doing it. I am a virgen and I make wise choices. Also think about your consequences.
346151
you are so young. i believe him when he says you are beautiful. but you are so young. sex isn't everything in a relationship. put yourselves some space.
295984
Give them a chance and if it doesnt work out then oh well im only 15 and a sophmore in high school and i am dating a 17 yr old senior and i swear we are giong to get married.  Everything is perfect between us so give them a chance who knows you might be suprized.  And no it is not wrong to do sexual stuff with them as long as they are accepting it
555879
You are only like 11 or 12 years old you are like so young live your life and have fun don't  let ''havin' a guy in your life '' wait a while . please don't do what i did so please wait to do any of that stupid stuff... have fun and if you  do make a decision to have sex please use protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
383917
um no your way to young for him right now wait til your 18. if anything happens to you now with him then hes responsible for it. And then think would you parents be ok with it to if you went out with him. I don't think they would be pleased to hear that.
455671
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
172433
Yes you should. Wait a few years and be very careful. Help him mature as well by doing non-sexual adult things.
182470
There are no rules that say you can not be an item.  If you like each other then go with your feelings. Some relationships last and some will not.  It dosent matter if your the same age or not.  Take things slow and see.  Good Luck!
193774
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
386538
Friend - I see no problems other than the age thing which you did not go into.  If you are under 16 and he is over, stay friends until things change.  Other than that, go for it...the worse that can happen is that the two of you will decide you are better friends than a couple.  GBY
117918
age doesn't matter. if ur responsible enough then u can have sex.
310770
If you feel comfortable with it and so does he then go for it. Just make sure that if you only want sex you both know that so there will be no complications later on.
312975
its illegal. and it raise questions whether or not she is taking advantage because according to the law(in most western countries-i don't know which one is yours)it would be a form of rape because your not old enough to make the decision (this is assuming your sleeping together). \n\n5 years difference isn't much really but it seems a great deal bigger at your age, if it was 30 and 35 no-one would think anything of it.\n\npersonally i think you should wait a couple of years so its not a kid with an adult. but its up to you if your responsible and obviously if your parents are fine with your relationship.\n\nif your going to see her make sure its a partnership and your comfortable with the what takes place in the relationship. there is nothing wrong with you not being ready for some of the things she is (i though i should say that just in case).\n\ni can understand your interest, it makes you look cool to your friends but its quite odd that a 20 year old is interested in a 15 year old child(no offence) and its bordering on paedophilia.\n\n\ni think the perfect age for a boys girlfriend is supposed to be something like half his age plus seven, so in theory your perfect girlfriend should be 14.5 years old.