He already tryed to fight my boyfriend that im trying to move on with but it just happen he dont want to be with me but he dont want me to be with no one else either see so that y it is so hard for me!!
123072
It sounds like he's not sure if he wants to be with you, and doesn't want you to be with anyone else. I would try talking to him and say, hey, you didn't want be with me so your part in my life is over. If you're so concerned about me and who I'm dating, then maybe you shouldn't have left. It is none of his business who you are dating anymore. If you can't get him to leave you alone, tell him that if he doesn't leave you and your new man alone, that you're going to call the cops and get a restraining order. Sorry you're going through this!
147331
find another boyfriend who doesnt put you under such pressure!
378523
your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
339092
My boyfriend stuck up for me at a concert. This guy kept shoving and pushing me and other people for no apparent reason. And he was a lot older than us and should've been more mature about it. My boyfriend almost got in a fight with him after he told him to stop, but the guy wasn't listening. I stood in between them just because I didn't want them to throw any punches or anything.\n\nHe never got in a fight with some other guy trying to hit on me. He's a little more mature than that and knows how to handle things better. He trusts me to do the right thing.
132237
Aside from being a really complicated question, you shouldn't ever get involved with your boyfriend's friend. That will just be bad.  I mean, if they are enemies, that's really still not a good thing.  If your boyfriend isn't treating you the way you want to be treated, talk to him about it.  And also be honest about the other guy calling you.  If your boyfriend doesn't approve, tell the other guy that you want to respect your boyfriend because you LOVE him and that it's really something the two of you shouldn't get into.
38441
Forget him. The problem is that the more you can't have him - the more you want him ... That is why I suggest you tell him "I cannot be with you - you have to learn something. I will wait for you. Maybe one day you will grow smarter." And who knows - one day he could understand that he act like pig in this situation.
149516
the exact same thing happened to me the only thing i could tell u is to let him go and move on believe me there will be a lot of guys who will be better than him
182694
The only reason he would show up where he knows you're gonna be and then ignore you is to play with your head. I say you are better off with out him and stay strong. I know it hurts now, but it will get better. Remember, if he hurt you and made you cry on purpose then he isn't the one worth your tears. Find a new hobby like a self defense class or maybe take up karate. Something that you can excel at and feel better about yourself. Something that will make you strong in body and in spirit. Go out with friends or better yet, have a sleep over. You're never too old for a good pillow fight. I have been where you are. You will get past him, I promise.
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It takes TWO TO FIGHT.\n\nYou gotta figure out what you want.\n\nHe's not going to keep coming back to you if it's all confrontation.\n\nThat gets old no matter HOW tough a guy is.\n\nHe will go looking for someone he doesn't have to fight with.\n\ngood luck....
49849
gal if a guy does not want u back again move on,take it as if it was u ,if u are not intrested in going out with someone u. U ARE NOT.dont force things u will make it worse and he will hate u.move on
498705
Hello:\n\nFirst off, I know exactly how you are feeling. My ex-boyfriend and I spent more time fighting than we did simply being happy with each other. It just got to be so frusterating. Ultimately I just decided that something wasn't working because we were arguing about the same few things. \n\nWe decided to sit down and have a serious talk about it. One of our main problems was that he was an incredibly jealous person, and I usually am not. He would get upset if he saw me talking to one of my guy friends. I have never ever been unfaithful to anyone and just could never do that to someone, and yet he always assumed that I was messing around behind his back. \n\nAnd then he would get frusterated that I was such a trusting person, and that I would never confront him for talking to another girl. So he started pushing the limits a little bit in order to make me jealous, and boy did it work. It just seemed that we were spending so much time hurting each other. And we agreed that the relationship wasn't working out. \n\nNow we are both in relationships, and we remain friends. And both of our relationships are much more successful than we ever were together. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It was through that experience that I realized it isn't enough to simply love someone, there is more to making a relationship work. \n\nI would suggest having a serious talk with your girlfriend. Figure out which things you are fighting about most often, and I'm sure you will find a common thread. Then you need to decide if it's worth it to make an effort to fix the relationship, or if it's time to move on. \n\nI wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps!
562150
do unto others what u will want them to do to u, leave the guy alone, when he wanted u u didnt want him now he has a girlfriend and u want him to break his girlfriend's heart?\nforget him and look for someone else.
276105
He still has feelings for you and it hurts him to see you with someone else, he is jealous and trying to run this guy off because he wants to be with you.
263897
He sounds like he isn't someone that you want to love, find someone else, his lost. good luck
596599
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
124062
guy sounds like he just wants to move on.  she will get over him eventually, eveyone gets over a boyfriend/girlfriend eventually.
582806
I was the some as you and it took me years to completely trust someone again and even then I still gave this guy a hard time. One day it dawned on me that he wanted to be with me and had suffered thru all that I had given him and was still there. He is now my partner of 3 years. He understood how I had been hurt and was prepared to work thru it with me. If the guy really wants to be with you and the feeling is mutual, he will stick with you. Tell him how you feel and why you feel like that. If he is worth his salt, he'll stick with you. You also need to realise that if you don't learn to trust again, you'll always be alone.