One day i'm the happiest man in Earth; next day i dont have anything...\n\nOMG i dont want to believe im a loser... :(\n\nWhat can do for not been a loser anymore?
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JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF....I'll tell you something ??? Really...really I don't feel that you are a loser...I feel that you are such a nice person...just believe that your life is worthy and tell yourself all the time that you are not a loser and that life will get better someday...life is just not black or white or even grey all the time...\nBelieving in yourself and your potentials is the key words to not being a loser anymore...BELIEVEEEEEEEE and don't just focus on the dark side of life..try the other side and give yourself hope...life will be better.... :)
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Go anyways. So what if your not that good. Its a learning experience and it builds character. In order to survive in this world anymore your self-esteem has to be so high that nothing phases you. Who cares what other people think.
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Yeah!  I am very proud of you.  Do you realize how lucky you are?\n\n1.  You were dumped by someone who was not worthy of your love, and you did not have to waste any more time with someone who is not worthy of you.  How great to find out at your young age.  Now you don't have to waste any more of your precious time and life.\n\n2.  You realized that you make mistakes, and that makes you HUMAN and perfectly normal.   It would be not-normal to make mistakes and be mistreated, and think everything is fine.\n\n3.  You have a right to be restless because you are not taking good care of yourself.....you have given (temporarily) your self-worth and self-esteen to others....but now it is time to take it back.\n\nSo please - may we start again...Hello There\n\n1.  Smile, yes and smile everytime you pass a mirror, a big smile.\n2.  Now think, and make a list: - a list of all the bad things that are bugging you, and include those who have hurt you in the past.  Now realize that this is in the past.\n3.  Now make a list of the attributes and good qualities that you admire in others....and list the attributes and good qualities that match some of those you admire in others.\n4.  Realize that you need to walk more, yup, get out in the fresh air, and park in the farthest parking space (if you have a car) from any entrance hence you will walk more.  Try going up and down stairs 3-5 minutes each day....this will give you momentum.\n\n5.  When you are finished with the "what's bugging me" list, tear it up and throw it away.  It served a purpose, and that's to make you address who and what bugged you in the past.\n6.  Giver yourself time to heal...and the five stanges of grief for every loss - even the loss of a job, moving and of course the loss of what we think is love are:  denial, anger, bargaining - if only I did this -- then that would not have happened, depresssion and then acceptance.   Anyone who tells you to get over it....is in denial and let them stay there....These 5 stages of grief are what we all go through even though many times we don't recognize it..or is that more denial.\n7.  Check your nutrition - eat a good breakfast everyday...the o's with non-fat milk , add more fruit and vegetables,protein - low-fat and yogurt and fiber or fiber tablets - once a day....and don't forget to keep smiling.\n8.  Call your family and friends - just to keep in touch to ask about how they're doing, and to ....keep the focus off your problems.\n9.  Talk to any guidance counselors and ask for their advice.\n10. Hey - even University students have problems, hence a guidance department!!!!   Realize that we all have problems and that will keep you focused on your accomplishments instead of your problems....this starts changing mountains into mole hills theory.\n11.  You cannot solve all of your problems.  But addressing your concerns by making a list of what's bugging you will last for a lifetime...That's when you take back control of your life.\n\nYou have a right to be happy.  NOW GET THIS...\n\nYOU HAVE A RIGHT TO A ROCKIN RELATIONSHIP, so I'm so glad you got out of a relationship that was not Rockin 4 U....do you realize that I heard nothing...about even if you were happy...I just heart that you were involved.  And now you realize, that you require more!\n\nWHEN YOU TAKE BACK CONTROL, YOU WILL ALLOW THE UNIVERSE TO SEND YOU PEOPLE WHO ARE SMILING JUST LIKE YOU...AND want you for who you are.
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take it with simple easy steps.  first look in a mirror.  thank about how great you really are.  you are somebody.  you are special.  there is nobody else in the whole world exactly like you.  there is something that you and only you can do to make the world better.\n\nthen go out, shop, go to school, whatever, any place where you pass people.  And SMILE.  See what happens.  Most of the time, someone will smile back.  that is the power you have to make a difrference.  anyone can do that.  you can do that.
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I will give you a good motivation cyber tablet for nothing forget over the counter rubbish.......\n\nIt's called being POSITIVE with what you do no matter how trivial from cooking, cleaning, taking out rubbish, gardening, walking,whatever you do for a Job, just say to yourself No Negativity for this person...IT WORKS just takes a little time to adjust, ITS AMAZING HOW QUICKLY YOU BECOME MOTIVATED,\nOK i hear you say this guy is a nutter, BUT I have turned my life around from being like yourself un motivated feeling down and tired all the time...\n\nNow I walk with purpose, talk with confidence,and love the feeling I am getting from being Motivated like this....Not to mention how others around you lift cos you won't accept negativity..\nI always try to no matter what find the positives from any situation and not being bombastic either by the way about it , so lording it over those who want nothing better than to find the negatives..\n\nIt has improved my relationship no end and believe it or not my health as my diet has changed also thus losing weight.\n\nSo all I can say it comes down to ATTITUDE my friend change that then all good will follow CHEERS hope this was of some help,,,
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Stop trying so hard. Let things happen naturally. Get out and have fun, but don't think about it so much. Its always when you least expect it, that you find that special person, or good friend.  Any time wasted worrying, is one more wasted day.
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When you feel yourself get cynical and resentful I suggest a trip over to 'Polls and Surveys' for some light entertainment. Get away from this for a while to lighten up. Take care!
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YOU ARE NOT USELESS!!!\n\nLife can often get us down & there seems no light at the end of the tunnel. I know how difficult & hopeless this can be.\n\nConfide in someone that you REALLY trust or speak to a counsellor, where you can explore your feelings without anyone judging you.\n\nTry and stick to your goal of achieving something small every day, however small, make sure that goal is achievable. It will do wonders for you self-esteem.\n\nI know it's cliched, but try and find some new activity, whether it's theatre, learning a new skill, whatever really, something to keep you occupied & where you can meet new people.\n\nIt isn't easy, but you will come through this. Email me if you need someone to talk to. x
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Turn ur thoughts into the territory of your best achievements in life and start smiling in their flux.If this can't help out,but I doubt,turn ur thoughts entirely to ur Creator and admire Him and the works of His Hands.
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went through the same thing...I tried using that to my advantage...make that your main motivation....you have not failed unless you have decided not to get back up and try again...try and think of it as..."failure is not an option" and will never be...\n  you will over come your obsticals trust me...you can and will be someone
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Consider what you really want. Most of us want to be happy and we like it when others notice us. There are a couple of things you and he can do that are very simple. First, as for exercise, begin something that you can do most any time and any place without any special equipment. In other words, start walking. Walk to a store. Walk down the street or around the neighborhood. The point is to walk a little every day from now on. Somehow this gives us confidence in ourselves because we know we are doing something that we have control over to keep ourselves healthy.\n\nSecond, the real way to have others like us is to act and be nice. Stay happy. It is as simple as a smile. Be a happy person, and people will like to have you around.\n\nSo focus on what both of you do together, and his strengths.  When you are doing good things, there is no time for chewing.
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You're not a bad guy. You're a great guy if you have been given this great challenge to overcome. Get help, do your best, don't give up on yourself. You're not a bad guy. No matter how bad you feel, you're not a bad guy.
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Find a friend, if that doesn't work there is always BEN&JERRYS Chunky Monkey, it always makes everything better.\n\nBut honestly, I have felt all of those things, and that is not a good place to be.  I hope that you can realize that you are special and of infinate worth.  It breaks my heart that you feel that way. Feel free to email and we can talk, you don't have to feel so alone and that can be a start.
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ive read your profile and previous questions and for whatever reasons i believe you are deeply unhappy within your self-depression if you like-actively find solitude,get comfortable and try to focus on one thought only-as your mind clears search for the root of your problem,try to identify the real source-elect a way to change it to your benefit-take action,no matter how small .you will then have begun to fight back and feel better about yourself and this in turn with each action you alone make to affect the path of your destiny-as is your right-will give you back the control you feel you may be losing-and hopefully have you feeling like smiling again-its worth a try,good luck.x -remember "a journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step !"x
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Life has a very unique way of teaching us things..It keeps repeating itself until we learn what its teaching us..then and only then can we move on..in the mean time ,, don't knock your self on the head too hard. take it in strives..treat yourself once in a while..go ahead you deserve it! get that new i-pod your eyeing or that new cd by yolanda adams..you have to feel like you are working for something..you can even ( and i mean this in a nice way..)stop trhingking about you . put others first..can you think about anyone you can help today? there are so many things we could do.. there is no one single answer. but its a start. above all Love yourself and give thanks for the day you have had everyday!!Even when its bad...(quote"ive always complained about these holes in my shoes til i met a man with no legs").
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You look at yourself in the mirror in the morning and smile and tell yourself you like yourself and today is going to be a great day.  Say it even if you don't mean it at the time.\n\nWe can't control what we feel, but what we feel is actually driven by our thoughts and we can control our thoughts if we try.  Write yourself little pick-me-up notes - I'm a great person.  I look GOOD!  And read them throughout the day.  Actually, what does anyone who "has it all" have that you don't?  Self-confidence.  And only you can give yourself that.\n\nBefore you go to bed at night, tell yourself you are happy and life is good.  And tomorrow you are going to awaken to new possibilities in life.  And know that you are worthwhile and that you have many gifts and talents to give to the world and that you will find your happiness if you only look for it.
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Yes,I consider myself very lucky. You know what? Those words were spoken by one great man in my country before... It made me feel different,so cheers and I hope you make the best of your life. Good luck!   ♥