i recently transfered to another school due to 4210(alch drug on campus) and go to another school met thsi girl shes really cool and i dono i want a relationship with her at the moment likes another guy but how can i make it so if that doesnt turn she will like me? i tlaked to her for awhile yestrdayy but yaa thanks
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buy her sumthin' nice and b prince charming....smile more.even my yahoo id says xxsmileformehxx.SMILE!!!
521415
first try to be frank with her and then be her friend. slowly slowly improve your relationship and then when you feel that yes this is the time just ask her to be yours. and no  your not betraying her if you are opting for friendship first as by being her friend you will get to know more about her. and then when you both become good friends at that time also ask her brother whether he too is ready for your boths relationship. dnt take any wrong step in haste. all the best. lets hope for the best. good luck and do inform me when you both will be together. bah bye.
324378
Apparently you have very strong feelings for this person. I know the feeling. I went to high school with this guy and i left but i always kept bucking in to him, and i knew he like me back but we never said anyting, and even now i still have a feeling to find him to talk to him. Go search for that person. Cause most people only get this feeling once.
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It could be that she just doesn't know how to react to you. She may be afraid that if she's nice to you, you might take it as an invitation. Let her know that you wont try to "convert" her. \n Or it's also possible she likes you and is afraid to show how she really feels. You should just say "Look, what's your trip?" If she trys to give you attitude just tell her "I just want to talk and find out why you seem so afraid to communicate with me. I'm not hitting on you. I just want to know what's up with you lately."\nIt could also be peer pressure. She may like you but doesn't want to be thought of as your "girlfriend" by the rest of the school. If that's the case she just needs to grow up. She's not worth the effort until she does.\nGood luck babe. Talk to her if she'll talk. If not leave her be and move on.
543309
Haha... don't worry. I had a similar problem, my cousin too and it all worked out in our favor, we both got the guy. Friends have connection, as u guys obviously do and if he doesn't like her, just HANG in there. He'll appreciate it more, and chances are he's eyeing u already. Girls like that don't stick. U do. Just be a prescence in his life. \n\nAnd then u'll be more.\n\nHappy dating!
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She's probably likes her boyfriend but has a crush on you at the same time.   She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend because she thinks you're cute and wants you to like her back. She would probably go out with you if she didn't have a boyfriend.    But since she doesn't dislike her boyfriend she has no reason to break up with him and she likes him enough and or doesn't like you enough to change the way things are.   Also things are stable the way they are and if she breaks up with him there is a chance that she might not get you. She just wants to have someone.\nShe probably does realize that you like her and she likes the attention.   Don't let her push you around or damage your pride but it doesn't hurt to be nice.\nIt's hard to tell without seeing the situation and what you are going through but this could be somewhat similar?   Hope this helps.  \nEither way don't stop being nice...Nice guys get all the girls in college.   Nice guys also get meaningful relationships instead of flings because they are keepers.
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Try and get to know the girl you like and give her a chance to get to know you for herself. Not every one listens only to what other people say, if she has a mind of her own ( which is what you want) she will judge you for her self. Also sometimes if we hear bad things about someone and we then get to know them and they are the complete opposite of what we expected ( because of what we heard about them) then it can make us like the person more because we are so pleased they haven't turned out to be awful. \nThe nasty girl will probably come across to the girl you like as a bit of a gossip- we pick up on these things- just a little niggle that tells us something isn't right.\ngood luck- and if the bitchy girl does gossip to her then you should ask her why she is doing it. ( don't let her realise you like this other girl- hey perhaps bitchy girl fancies you and worked  out to get hot for you and is now mad cos you don't notice her!) hmmmmm???
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I don't think anybody else can really help you with this, brotha. It's all based on the decision you make. My advice is if you're digging her, go for her. If you want to be a jerk, go for everybody else. It's not that I'm calling you a jerk, but how do you think she would feel about the whole thing?
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I agree with her friends. If u act as if your not into her anymore she may start to like you because now u don't show any interest. Act as if you have another girl you like and whenever your around her, just say " oh hi, how ya doing"  if u have a cell phone act like your calling another girl or when she around act like you have somewhere to go like to meet someone. Then she'll see that you may have someone esle and that would make her want you more.\n\nIf you kmow someone who would act like she's your lady friend she may really start to get jealous
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Well my man...you could not have handled this any worse. She talks to you and asks if you would like to study together. You assume from that it must mean she wants to be your girl. Girls do not want to be responsible for directly hurting guys. So by not calling back she was telling you she wasn't interested . But in your hot  pursuit you did not get that.\n\nBy calling all the time you made it clear to her you were desperate. No girl wants or needs a desperate boy and not much will chase them off sooner. And man you were desperate.\n\nFrom the beginning you blew it. You had her number. You were going to study together. \nMan what more could you ask for huh? Well you wanted her as a girl friend in the worse way so you really pushed yourself on her.\nThis not only turns a girl off she runs from it. You have to get her interested before you can be her boyfriend. And you must know how to do that.\n\nSo what should you have done. Took the number. Called only when it was time to study. While studying, while you were together, you get to know each other. You begin to develop some social value with her and when and if, only if, the time is right you could make your move.\n\nHave you ever heard of this phrase? The worse you want it the worse you will get it.  Guess what....you are living proof that this phrase is correct.\n\nBack off.....find another girl to study with and this time do it right.
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ok i think she does like you. but first you should just try talking to her. if you guys have the same lunch period ask her to sit with you and if you still like her ask her to hang out. i hope it works for you.
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If she is letting you hang around her that much, there is hope.  Be patient, and try asking her out after the semester is over.
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yea, go ahead ask her out, she might act like she doesn't know you, but i can garrantee that she probably does like you,, ASK HER OUT!!  thats what happend to me. i acted like i didn't cared, but i did.  i got a girlfriend in a similar situation, what school do you got to?
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Maybe wait for her after school, just not to be seen by other people - that will be just.. more nice... And do not be so straight. Talk to her, be nice, look inteligent;) And remember about niuances.... We, girls, are not like you - you need to be told everything clearly and easily, cause you have problems with getting;)
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The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
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I am a junior in High school, There are three girls that I really like, but whichever one, becomes my girlfriend(if any), then I will still like the other ones, but I won't do anything about those feelings.  It is OK to like another guy, just stay faithful to the one your with.  Be content with the guy you have, and if things don't work out, then try the other one.  but, just try to devote yourself to the one your with, and he should do the same, give it your all, and enjoy it.  then no matter what you are happy.  Best of luck!\n\nSavage
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Talk to your friend and tell him that you really like this girl for other than friendship but you don't want to hurt your friendship with him.  And if he says ok, I would talk to the girl and let her know that you are interesting into getting to know her on a different level other than friendship. Being open and honest, is the only way to be in this situation.  Good luck