ok i have been wif this boy for now a half a year ok i love him wif all my heart....but he has one boy thats his friend and the rest is girls...I feel like he flirts wif then right in front of me....i dotn no what should i do i mean i will never break up wif him never in my life....what else should i do??
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It is natural to be upset but its OK to have friends of the opposite sex only watch for any changes in your boyfriend. If he is young this is the way it is with men. They love being around girls. Try to be friends together and not let it get to you. Make him see you as the interesting one by never letting him know it bothers you and never make any bad remarks about his friends as it will only push him away because he will do what he wants and you cannot and should not try to change him.
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Wow, this is going to be a biased answer because this is one of the sweetest stories I've ever heard.\nIt sounds like this younger guy looks up to you, and so your friendship and spending time with him probably means a lot to him. Playing along with the crush has probably gotten you into a difficult situation. You have to really think about whether or not you have feeliings for him fast so you don't hurt him. Just analyze your feelings, is the way you feel for him the same as how you've felt for girls in the past?\nIf you realize you really do love him, take it slow and easy. You don't want to hurt him. Always keep in mind that he's younger than you and is gonna look up to you a lot and watch what you do.\nIf you don't really love him you have to let him know slowly and gently. Stop playing along, it'll end up being a game, a teasing thing, he could really get hurt. Continue the friendship if you can maintain it healthily, let him know you're his friend but don't play with his emotions.\nYou're not crazy. You're just confused. Spend a lot of time really reaching deep and find out how you really feel and go from there.\nGood luck, I hope this helps!\nPlease keep me updated on how this comes out.
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Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
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Well if nick is only interested in girls with big boobs, maybe it's not worth your time to go after him.  My best advice is to just tell him how you are feeling.  Ask him if there is any chance of you two hooking up and just go from there.  I don't mean to sound like a mother here, but is Kayla really a bioch?  Or are you just saying that b/c she has something you want?  Anyway, just talk to him and if there is a future there, great, if not, find someone else who isn't only interested in big boobs.
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
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call him and tell him how u feel. if "kk" was in your shoes (if shes a good enough friend) then she would let you have him. when two friends like the same guy, whoever gets to him first gets him. so good luck.
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That's just a line you do not cross.  You should never, ever mess with your friends bf.  What comes around, goes around.  If you backstab your friends, who won't you backstab.  It's called respect.  Go ahead, get with him.  He seems like such a classy guy. You know, he cheats on your best friend with you.  I see why you are so attracted to him.  NOT!!! My sister's bf felt on my butt and I went straight and told my sister.  If you love someone, you wouldn't ever cross that line. I think he's the scum of the earth. Get with him, so he can do the same to you.  Who would want a man who has a gf?  Get your own.  Do you have low self esteem?  It really seems like it.  I am sorry but two things I teach my kids are morals and values.
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You can't help what your heart want's and does not want.  It's not always right, but most of the time you should get it a little credit.  Maybe you don't want to admit that you are growing out of this guy.  As for the long distance thing, that is sorta an out of sight out of mind thing.  But if you think you don't feel strongly about this boy maybe he is just not worth it.
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well itz ok to feel like that, i do that all the time and weird myself out sometimes. Itz going to be over soon. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't try to impress the boy. Don't act different when you are around him. You probably aren't in love, because if you were you would feel comforatble with him. You should get to know him better so you can be more comfortable around him. I'm sure everyone goes through this, it'll pass. DON'T WORRY. Don't avoid him, maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. But don't say, you think you love him. Just say you like him, and you'll know the rest. but know when to stop talking about your feelings,ok.
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Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
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Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
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Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
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are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
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He might be feeling insecure because you're going to your guys for a good time instead of him.  Make sure you spend enough time with your boyfriend to make him feel more special than just one of your friends.  But I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with hanging out with the other guys once in a while as long as you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be doing. They are your friends, and you have a right to spend time with them.  Maybe next time you hang out with the guys, you should ask your boyfriend to come along.
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The best thing to do is to listen to your heart.If your heart wants this new guy whom you've been thinking about more than your boy friend,then please dont stop.go ahead with your heart.I suggest you to date this new guy.Good Luck!
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I would definitely say this guy likes you. but do you want someone in your life that could do what he has done? he is with your EX best friend she is an x and so is he. You sound like a young woman who enjoys life and is attractive. My suggestion to you is remain friends with this guy but nothing more. expand your circle of friends, open your horizons. You may just find a guy that will tickle you and only you, If you continue with this boy don't be surprised if you end up in tears or being used.
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps