I have been hanging out with this girl for about two or three weeks straight and i really do like her but do not know it she feels the same about me. How do i figure that out? How also can i take the relationship to the next step. "like sex and other" Thanks in advance
127363
Well, there is nothing better than just pure simple honesty. Just ask her what she thinks of you. Second about the sex part, don't rush into it. If you really like this girl, you will go on her terms and wait until she is ready for it. Just have fun and enjoy her company. If its meant to be it will happen.
675254
Are you sure she feels that way?\n\n   Tell her how you feel, how much the friendship means to you. \n\n   Maybe I'm missing something, this seems too easy. No offense, but don't females just love to talk, especially about feelings?
286612
Well you should support her as much as you can and talk to her about this,ask her if she wants to feel like this and if she says yes then she might have large feelings for this girl if not then she is just going through a stage wanting things like that or maybe she really thinks this girl is cool!
92457
i have to agree with the first answer. however, if you dont feel like you can do that, maybe you could just say it in a joking way and see how she reacts. or if you are hanging out and watching a movie just put your arm around her or hold her hand and see how she reacts. this will give you an idea of how she feels. if you are as good of friends as it sounds, it should be ok to just talk about it with her. be upfront. girls like that.
155778
I don't think anybody else can really help you with this, brotha. It's all based on the decision you make. My advice is if you're digging her, go for her. If you want to be a jerk, go for everybody else. It's not that I'm calling you a jerk, but how do you think she would feel about the whole thing?
172993
well you just need to be yourself, if she really likes you she will take you for who you are and not what you can/cant do. before my current partner of 3 years i was having it all the time but since i have been with this guy it doesn't really get mentioned, because we take each other for who we are.
16711
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
521263
First of all, your question hardly makes sense. You need to work a little in that direction. Secondly, from what I have understood in your question, you like (or love) this girl neh (neha?) and you are not sure if she loves you. But you have heard from your friends that she was asking about you with them. So, you don't know whether she loves you or not.\n      If that is the premise of the question, then here goes..... Firstly, find out if she really asked your friends about you. Many a times, if you have confided in friends, they could play a dirty trick on you to get your hopes up. Secondly, find out what she was asking about you. If what she was asking is sort of negative, then she most certainly doesn't love you. She just wants to know if you are a creep. Thirdly, if she was asking normal things, then that could mean that she is interested in knowing you better, Talk to her yourself. take her out, spend more time with her and see if both of you can hit it off. If you both feel comfortable after a certain amount of time (atleast 2-3 months), and if you still have the same feelings for her (or even more), and if you think that she feels the same too, then propose to her. Don't base your assumptions just on the fact that she is asking around about you. Rather deal with the person herself and get to know her better
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Ok... I've got two answers for you... so here goes...\n\nThe simple answer:  Probably.\n\nThe more complicated, and more important answer....\n\nYou are insecure. You know this... I know you know this, because you are an obviously intelligent person, but you simply haven't gotten to that point where you are really comfortable "going for it." I know this, because I was the same way for most of my life.\n\nGuess what? So is she. So is everyone. Everyone is insecure about things... over time those insecurities change to different things, but everyone has them. Yeah, most likely she likes you... but here's the best part, even if she doesn't, it doesn't really matter. Let's say you go talk to her, and ask her out... there's only really three things that can happen:\n\n1) She says yes, all is well and good with the world, you go off and have a wonderful time, and who knows...\n\n2) She says no. It doesn't matter what the reason is, just be nice and courteous, and let her know that you were interested, and to have a good life or whatever. Remember this: being nice now truly will be good for you later. After all, she might be taken, but that doesn't mean her hot friend is.\n\n3) She doesn't give you a clear answer. This can go a lot of ways, but usually if a girl doesn't make it fairly apparent that the answer is no, that means that the answer would be yes, except there is just something else going on that is keeping her from saying it. That can be anything from purely an insecurity issue, to having just gotten out of a relationship, and not feeling ready to date, etc... but the important thing is this: She didn't say no.\n\nIf #3 happens, let her know you are interested, tell her something nice, and let it go. In a week or two, take another shot and see what happens. If you end up doing this a couple times and she simply isn't going to say yes, then assume there is something you can'd do anything about, and move on.\n\nAnyway, good luck... and ask her out.
33456
if you asked her how she felt before and she hasnt made an effort to tell you differently, her feelings might be the same. She might also be shy and hoping you will ask again..its hard to say. Has she been acting differently around you lately? Do you ever hang out with her alone, and if so what kind of convos do you have? If they are personal and important than thats a good thing.\nPrepare yourself, she may not have feelings for you. If you decide to ask her again she might get creeped out, so just watch her behavior and see how she acts.
194710
You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
126287
Well my answer is simply this and that is if she thinks that you are just friends hanging out then that is all it is to her but if you let her know how you feel then that changes.Then she will either think about it and let you know if she feels the same or not but you have to let her know. True love might be passing you both by.
323201
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
229840
Sounds like she is sending you some clear signals. Yes give her a chance. Tell her your feelings. Be cautious but honest. Seeing someone- often feel or looks like a boyfriend because he may only be the best thing that is comfortably available.
375279
the best relationships always start out as friendships...tell her uve started to have certain feelings towards her and u want to know if she feels the same way  best of luck luv ya mwa
458228
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
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"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.