For example: Usher's music video of him "accidently" getting a stranger he feels nothing for pregnant and then wants the person he "loves" to understand the situation. I'm sorry but that dosen't make sense to me..?
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Men are weak and so are women.  Both cheat the same, actually statistics reflect that women cheat more; women are smarter at not getting caught, we've learned from men in all the prior decades.  \n\n[Married] humans can fall weak for someone else and realize at the end that we made a huge mistake because we realize that the person we are with is a "better" person.  \n\nThe grass may seem greener, but it hardly ever is.  When humankind realizes that, cheating may not be such a big problem.\n\nMen are smart about this, knowing to differentiate between "love" and "lust". That's why they run home and tell their wife they LOVE them.
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Morally it is wrong...but emotionally it's hard.  As much as you know right from wrong, it's hard when your heart feels something for this person.
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perhaps so, perhaps not. i dunno. what i do know is that i hate the guy. don't take what he said in the song literally. he said it because black women are quick to say that as soon as a black man gets rich he gets with a white girl. although this is not necessarily true, some black women do say this and say it often. this line is a play on that concept. if any black girls answer, please do not front like you haven't had a conversation with one of your girls pertaining to this, i know i've been in and heard many. and no, i do not have a white girlfriend.
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I'm not an expert at this, but my initial feeling was that you must be feeling guilt about something.  I don't know who the girl may be representative of -- just someone that you care about, I guess. The strangers may represent people in general, and that you're worried about their opinion of you -- especially since you've done something you're feeling guilty over.  Your feelings of helplessness may be represented by the unresponding driver and passenger, and maybe your impression of the world in general...that it's a cold, unfeeling place.
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Wow, you are a cool guy not to be completely turned off by this. I am impressed.\n\nI don't know what this girl is feeling about you but I do have a guess about what she is feeling about her ex...\nHis baby is growing inside of her. She wants him to accept her more than anything right now. She might be fooling herself about the relationship but for your own sanity...let it go. \n\nListen to me...LET IT GO
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Ok, my boyfriend now, would consider me his baby-mama. I have a child from a previous relationship that considers my current boyfriend her daddy. So that's what it means. Some guys could have been in a realationship with a girl who already had a baby, but they consider the baby theirs, even though it's not. Or sometimes they could be referring to their future baby-mamas!!!!!!
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I think it is a wonderful portrayal of life before birth. That he was called a babe, not a fetus.  That the word declares a feeling and an action and emotion in the unborn. Wish we did today. Be blessed in the Lord!
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First off, this songs meaning doesn't lie in death, its just using death to define life. For instance, if he is saying that he will follow her into death, hes definitely saying that he is hers for life; that he wants to grow old with her.\n\nIt is a fact that many older people after being married for 50 and 60 years grow extremely close. When one dies, the other often dies soon thereafter. And that is mainly the concept this song is trying to convey.\n\n"I will follow you into the dark." = I will always be there for you when you are uncertain, even into the greatest uncertainty of all...death.\n\nThe song is about infinite love. And in the video, he is just literally follows into the dark. How the floor disappears could also mirror how life seems to disappear, and how we will all eventually follow  into the dark.
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I've never heard the song before, but I think, like many songs, the guy misses his girlfriend- he wants her to tell him she loves him- either that, or, if it is a girl singing this, then everything I just said should be flipped around. Sorry If that wasn't very helpful.
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It seems to be about her relationship w/ her father.  She's saying that b/c of her fame, she has lost touch with him, and now it's too late to go back to the way it used to be, father and daughter.  It seems to imply that he died, but I kinda doubt that.  It's kind of like a song about loss, good to play after a break-up or a death.  All I know is that that video makes me want to burst into tears.  It's the saddest song I've heard so far...
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Hey I am glad that u feel this way about your First Love!!. \nNo really I am !!\nIts very good that you still remember your first love...you actually should be proud of your self! Which again makes u worthy to be loved by another amazing man. But your'e in a dilema that if its ok to feel first love is incomparable? May be bcos ur feeling a little bit guilty as the man u r with now, is treating u exclusively well .\nAnd also this is 'THE 'question of your life! and you expect somebody to answer in a paragraph.....? well let me give a try.\n\nYou see if we put this question to different sorts of people the answers would be in their terms ,not your's.For example a scientist may explain its just a chemical and hormonal reactions, a  poet may say it's an inspirations for his lyrics and so on. \nBut what The first love means to you and How much it means to you\n- You decide it.\n If you start to compare its gonna lose its value. \n\nIf I ask you to close your eyes and imagine the picture of " A MOTHER " -without fail u r goin to imagine ur own mom( Not victoria Beckham with her 2 toddlers!)\n Now why is that? Is that bcos ur mom is the hottest mom in the universe ...? No, its bcos she means the word 'mother' to u. \nShe is the live example of the meaning of that word.She gave u this life and u become the new meaning for her life. Now u cannot accept anyone else in this life to replace your mom, no matter how much love they offer and neither she could accept anyone to be a replacement for you. Well if this is the case than how it could be different with Love. As a child u were a posession of ur mother. Now as an adult u want to possess and offer your love to some one else..\nAnd than u meet that some one and they become special to u.\nNow, 'he' bring the meaning of the word 'Love' to u. So when u hear the word love, now u relate it to that 'Meat head' aka the darling  ..lol..\nLike the same way u relate the word 'mother' in ur head. \nAnd so the first love becomes the 'First love' and get nailed and carved in our heart, and u just cant get it out. \nIt's what made you who you are now. It s became a part of you now. U cant seperate it from your body and mind. Only, you can decide whether you want some one that YOU loved ? or some one that LOVES YOU ? (provided there is still options).\nBut to my understanding if its so clear for you , than u wouldn't be here for an answer right. I think u felt morally compelled and u want to know what every body thinks...\nListen forget all of us, alright!\n U know what is right. I know u'll be confused like mad, but be confused ,only than u know where u stand and u start to see clearly.Well some people  telling you to forget it all and move on ...which I believe is a mistake!\nIt s like loosing ur core value..its like forgetting a part of u.\n I am not telling u to get obsessed  and dwell on his thoughts forever. I am telling u to deal with it. Get used to it. Like the way u get used to be with ur flat nose & big lips..etc ..lol....\n But we have to grow from that. \nu try not to forget him>>bcos the more u avoid his thoughts the more u gonna think about him and it goes on and on. \nIts nothing like he is the most perfect man for u..but the love which u had for him makes u to feel that way just the same way like ur mom.\nwhen u start to accept the fact that love is a VERB.. and the feeling of being in love is a fruit of that verb ..\nthan u have matured in love. And you would be able to open up to some special person again and accept and reciprocate love. \nBut this time it will not be completely emotional based but  u start to incorporate wisdom now\n ITS NO MORE FALLIN LOVE BUT STAND IN LOVE!.\nSo when u reach this stage of life u know how to love and how to be in love. And than after a couple of years from now , u turn back and can recap about it all with an exclusive pride and smile in ur  face while r
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"I am crazy about this guy, but do not know why I don't feel a bond with him"  Only a woman could come up with something like this.  If you don't feel anything for him then your not crazy about him.
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probably he wanted to tell you that he didnt mean to hurt you by asking about ur plans about the pregnancy and he left it in ur hand to think and find the best way for the pregnancy and the kid ,so he still feels the same for you and he will send you a message and will talk to you tomorrow....\nIN fact I think he means he still loves you ,no matter that you're pregnant .
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yes!dear because no one wants to be made a fool of! and thats selfish of them both. i mean sometimes people are not ment to be but lets be adults about it. and he is bogus treating you while you are pregnant! my dude did that and it hurts like hell.my daughter is 7 and it still hurts.but just remember that everything in the dark shall come to light but its up to you to crack the blind.
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This is a great question.  I will await all the answers.  I have the same question( except the marriage part-but we've dated for almost 6 yrs now, and have a planned 7 month old baby).  It hurts me, also. For me, it's also a trust thing. You feel like you don't want to leave the house ever. It makes me feel very trapped and stressed.  I don't mind him looking at it once in a while, but I'd rather he looked at it when I was around and included me in stuff like,  " Oh hey.. look at THIS! teehee" or whatever.  Good luck. I've talked to my boyfriend about this, and he just doesn't get it. I'm glad there are others out there that feel the same way. My boyfriend has slowed down considerably, and hides his tracks much better, now, but it doesn't stop the fact that I don't trust him while I'm gone.
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I don't realize how and why you thought about gay stuff on that circumstance! It just is a love song (as many others) and concerning a sentimental (straight) film. \nEvidently, either you are a great homophobic person or it just is the great fear to admit your (latent) homosexuality. \nI know married men who cried during some scenes of the film "Ghost", are they gay or sissy too??\nWhat a twisted mind there are around!
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Yes, he meant it.  Especially if he wasnt looking at you the whole time during the song and turned to you especially for that part.  Its easier to say when its part of a song but that doesnt mean it has any less meaning or feeling behind it.