I used to go out with someone but we broke up. I still love her and she still loves me but won't admit it. She is going out with other people but we are still friends. What should I do?
130832
u just need to be honest.  tell her u really like her but that u don't want her to do anything that she dosn't want to do.  go ahead and datec other people and that might make her rylise that se dosn' want to share u
12882
OK, let me get this straight...he went was your boyfriend and then went out with your friend too? Oh! Honey, you need to let go- he is just playing you. i mean- you just don't go out with your x's friends, that's dirty. Besides, you need to be thinking if she is even truly your friend. After all, she did go out with your x and you still love him. Just move on- you can do so much better!!!
429912
Friends after the fact won't work dude.  If you want a relationship with her or still love her, tell her you want her back.  If that's a no go - you need a clean break - That involves your mate as well.   Explain you still have feelings for her and you can't be around her without feeling awkward.  Then find some new friends.
492972
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
641594
I'm sorry, but I really think you should move on with your life.  Even if she does love you, she is just playing mind games with you.  I'm sure the past year she has been with other guys.  She just wants to know you are there if she can't find anyone else.  Just move on, show her that if she wants  you then she needs to do something about it and you won't wait around.  Please take my advice or you will have a lonely life.  And if you find another girl and start dating her and this other chick comes back.  DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!!!  That would just tell her that you would drop anything for her.  Loving someone that much is bad for you.  Please take my advice!
532255
Sounds like she liked another guy also and her friend betrayed her.  When you are dating and just starting dating, you have to talk to each other about what you feel about dating.  \n\nIf you only want to date only one person at a time, you have to let her know that.  There are many people who are dating and just dating with nothing serious in it, especially when you are just getting to know each other.  You should let her talk.  \n\nCommunication is the number one thing in any relationship.  At least she is being honest that she likes someone else.  If you don't want to talk to her because she likes someone else, tell her that.  Don't ignore her.  Tell her how you honestly feel.  I am like you.  I don't go for someone who likes someone else, but you have to tell her.  You might be good friends even if you don't make good boyfriend - girlfriend relationship.
558799
Her desire to continue being your friend may be her way of keeping her options open.  Be honest with her.  Tell her you're still in love with her and you aren't able to be JUST a friend to her because it hurts too much!  Break it off, forever, and begin dating immedialy.  You know the story....If you love something set it free, if it comes back... you did alright...
89172
TELL HER STRAIGHT OUT.  SHE HAD U AND YOUR OTHER FRIENDS FIRST SO SHE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR COURAGE TO TELL HER THAT EVEN WITH HER NEW BOYFRIEND. SOMETIMES FRIENDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN BOYFRIENDS AND IF SHE DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT SHE ISNT THE KIND OF FRIEND U SHOULD WANT IF SHE KEEPS DITCHING U.
250413
I think your partner is trying to hold on to her old relationship with her friend just, as in your assumption. I also feel that relationship is about compromise and if your girlfriend really loves you she will respect how you feel and cut things off. Even if it is just a "friendship".  I think she needs to cut things off for you relationship to work. She has already betrayed your trust and wants you to standby her while she continues a friendship and your wondering if they are just friends. My advice is that you should tell her that it really hurts you that she wants to remain friends with her ex lover and that it is hurting your relationship . Also if she isn't willing to compromise then maybe you should leave her. It's not fair to you to hang around and wonder if she is going to hurt you again. You need to know she wants to work things out. Go with your instinct and gut feelings and everything will work out.\n\nBest of luck
532532
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
213614
Let me tell you something.  After you break up, it hurts.  Give yourself time and move on.  Someone is out there that is better than that girl.  You may not be able to say that now, but you will.\n\nI met my ex-gf after I met a girl I was very happy with.  I ask how she was doing and she just said ok.  I said I was happy and I met a girl who really likes me and I like being with.  After that, she asked if I wanted to get together and do something.  I just said I was going out with my new girl and maybe some other time.
159194
well i was once in that situation . and it was hard i guess what I'm saying is....do what u think is best and if u feel that your going to think about your ex all  night if u go out with that other girl it wont be fun. and i hope u know that time heals everything. maybe going out with the new girl would be fun and maybe your heart wont be so broken. well good luck
655984
Leave that friend just as it is a friend. Your charting uncharted territory. Plus it will hurt your exes feelings and cause confusion between her and her friend. Move onward if that's what you want but move opposite directions other than her close friends. It's not a little world anymore. You have options,
344851
Be honest with the girl that you are dating (before you end it)! She will have so much more respect for you if you tell her straight up whats going on. She may be upset at first, but in the end, she may not be as heartbroken, as she would be if you just break up with her, and date her friend without her knowing. Besides, if your girl and her friend remain friends, then you will still have contact with her, so end it right! She'll understand.
147277
Sooo...\nThe problem: You dumped your bf and acted like an idiot and then went out again with your ex...\nYour question: 'What should I do?'\n\nWell, heck! What's the problem there? You just went with the guy you wanted to go with. If you want just apologize and explain everything to your err--boyfriend that you want to go out with your ex again. But mind you, that's kinda mean. =/
193252
What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.
414643
You broke up with Her.  Now that She has Someone else You find You still have feelings for Her.  If You want to be a stand up guy You should back off.  If they break up, on their own, and You still feel the same way then talk to Her.  Don't do anything that You wouldn't want done to You, just a good rule to live by.