i mean we have the same religion, both muslim, what would other people think of us, i mean i dont care i like him and we are going out and he does not care too, but how will other people think or feel, well how would u react
127648
Honey I'm African American and all my friends know that I am an "Equal Opportunity Employer". You never know what shade of skin your Prince Charming will arrive in. And don't care about what people think as long as he loves you and you love him. \n\nFurthermore, if you get married, your kids will look very exotic :)
586153
You both should respect each others religions. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. You should also explain to him how important your religion is to you and how you don't like him saying those things about your beliefs, he probably won't like you saying those things either. Even if he doesn't like your religion he should respect your beliefs.\nI also think you two should also discuss in what religion you'll raise your children.
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One should only worry when the other is out of there species.\n\nBut seriously, if you hide your feelings for him because he has different heritage/culture you are not really any better than the people that make fun of him.  It is so sweet to be liked back by someone that you also like.  There will always be an idiot making dumb comment or staring like a fool, but if you look into his eyes you two  will only see each other. Be strong girl.
119800
Not at all. I would think him a very nice, polite, friendly, gentlemanly person. I wouldn't feel weird at all. I would appreciate the gesture. Even if it's his way of showing interest that's sweet and flattering too.
314758
Why does there have to be so much bickering? I do not think that God will question the manner in which you worshiped his name! Where you Muslim, Christan? And if your God does, I do not want to know your God.  You praise him in your way, I shall praise him in mine. Let that be the end of it.
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It does not make sense for a Muslim to marry a Christian or for a christian to marry a Muslim unless they weren't really serious about their  religion.  I am Catholic and I feel very strongly about my ideals.  There is no way I would marry a Muslim because as it says in one of the gospels, we would be "unevenly yoked" and arguing about religion all the time.  I mean, what would we teach our kids?  Both religions?  And which one would I tell him is the truth?  Mine or his father's.  It is better to find someone who feels the same way you do on matters that are close to your heart so you can work as a team.
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I think he would see me for who I am, faults, sins, and all. I know he would have compassion for my pains. I know He would have understanding for my rage. I know He would have forgiveness for my sins. I know he would have laughter for my sense of humor. When he looks at me, He would see that I'm no one special, except to Him. He would see that I have no beauty, except to Him. He would see that I'm not courageous, except to Him. He would see that I have faith, belief, and love, and I know that He loves me.
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YOU ARE A FAKE\n\nDon't anyone here believe for one minute that he is a muslim or ever was.\n\nI have read your other questions and you are not even a person who thinks he is a muslim, you are a fake, only doing this to discredit Islam and muslims.\n\nAnd to the person on this board who said that they heard or thought that most muslims are gay, that is propaganda and lies, and this question by this FRAUD is just here to perpetuate that falsehood.
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I think it would be better in this case if you asked who invited you, as  the other answerers pointed out, this may really change from one place to the next (although it shouldn´t really)\nA few things, if you are a Christian, you are not bound to wear a veil (or headcover), this is only for Muslim women. HOWEVER, if you are going to a Mosque, then by all means wear something to cover your head and your chest fully, and of course do not dress provocative (short dress, etc)... if the celebration is not held in a Mosque then it really depends on the family. Some Muslims nowadays are really open about their religion, so in this case it would be ridiculous if you show up all in black from head to toe with a burqa!!\nBut also, the opposite would be true, so you are better off asking. The wife or whomever invited you would not feel your question as being a bad thing, on the contrary, they would appreciate it as a sign of respect.\n\nRegarding the gift, you can give them anything you would normally give to another couple who´s getting married! \n\nHave fun... and don´t drink too much (just joking lol)
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I'm not Muslim, but nice story. The world would be a beautiful place if all Muslims would follow Him. Then again, the world would be a better place if all Christians would follow Jesus.\n\nPersonally, I would abolish all priests, give a Koran to each Muslim, Bible to Christians, and so on for all religions. It will be a diverse, beautiful world.
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What difference does it make?  Does it impact his relationship to you?  No...so you are just being nosey.  Many people view their religion as a personal experience and have no desire to share it with others.  Respect his privacy.
19552
WOW! IT'S ALL ABOUT INDIVIDUAL CHOICES. BUT HE SHOULD HAVE DISCUSED THIS ISLAM ISSUE WITH HIS PARTNER IN LIFE, HIS WIFE.  HIS DECISION  MIGHT  EFFECT HER  EMOTIONALY.I DON'T WHANT TO INPOSE MY IDEA ON HOW PERSONALY I FEEL ABOUT THIS,IT WOULD BE A SELF CENTERD OPINION OF MINE, AND THATS WRONG.EVERYBODY HAVE THERE OWN CHOICES TO CHOSE WHAT THEY LIKE.
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it doesn't matter what other people  think. Do what you're heart tells you. Tell him you like him and don't be afraid.
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If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
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if you both are sure about marriage then i guess her parents opinion would not have mattered. have two of you ever seriosly discussed the problems which may arise because of differences in the way of faith and living etc? what will be the religion of children? what is your own family's reaction ? are both of you ready to deal with the reaction of your relatives in family gatherings or festivals ? have you two ever honestly discussed all the issues resulting because of this marriage which have come in your mind or avoided because other person might find it offensive ? or you just say yes to everything just to be considered true secularist.\n            does she want you to convert so that her parents say yes ?  i doubt that she will really do it for you. otherwise her parents would have been happy to say yes and had been satisfied that at least their daughter was still christian.\n   the point is be sure youself  before taking any decesion +ve or -ve. if you to are satisfied with each other's answers you know what to do . best of luck
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I wouldn't be upset myself, but I'm also in the same shoes as you (except we haven't been together as long and I've told him if he didn't like it, he could start walking). Sometimes it is just easier to get along with the opposite sex, I mean if it wasn't, wouldn't we all go homosexual?
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i have the same problem except the religion thing. Well if u really like him that shouldnt matter, just telll him how u feel and that yalls religion shouldnt matter, then if ur parents get in the picture talk to them and tell them how u feel about him, and if that doesnt work, ur parents dont ALWAYS have to know who ur goin out w/!!!LOL