I think we all know what the difference is between true love and a crush. \nWhat I'd like to hear is how you guys would be able to tell if you were actually in love with someone or just had a crush on him/her.
123064
love you feel funny inside its hard to talk to that person a crush is you dont know them and you think thier good looking
144805
I have had "true love" and never realized it until recently...After 12 Years! You won't understand until its time to understand, for now live for the moment, do what feels right, and .... just have fun! Really the words to live by, JUST BE HAPPY! at he end of the day, only TIME can tell, the old saying, if you love him let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be! Its soooo true!
249931
Well after working with many individuals like yourself I think I have the best answer for you. Yes you can have "crushes" for two "guys." Everything depends on which guy is greater. You say yourself that they are both great.. however what qualities and what personalities make them great. Start by writing out a Venn Diagram and fill in the circle for similarities and then differences. The harder one to fill in will be the one that is less greater than the first. After you do that..write another post and I'll be happy to respond.. God bless and good luck!
273386
it is very simple to know when u r in a true love , u miss him when he is not around , u always listen to him talking when he is around, always looking into his eyes and feel impressed by the way he talked when u r together. u pick up the phone to call him whenever u need someone to talk to or to solve a problem for u. some times u call to just hear his voice and feel ur heart beating fast when u r together and feel realy sad when he mention other girls when he is with u........ this all represents true love in my opinion
179053
every time you fall in love you think it's "the true love"... after a while you discover if it or not,,, but the true love is when you feel that all what you want,, all what you have ever dream of,, when you feel you can't live without him/her,,, when you see your past,, present,, future in someone's eye,, when you feel his love and care,,, when you hear the word "LOVE" and he is the first to come to your mind,,, when you feel that he is under your skin,, inside your heart,, between your eyes,,, when you feel that you he is all what you want in your life!,,,
266816
My crush. He's sweet, nice, kind, funny, smart...anything I could ask for! Unfortunately...he really doesn't exactly know that I exist...Anyway, nice question!
99334
I would love to know how a person feels about me, but you need to be prepared for the response. But love is a risk and a risk worth taking if it works out and if not at least you can move on and find that special someone for you...Good Luck!!
24068
how long have you known him?  what do you feel?  I mean really feel in your heart, physically, mentally?  are you sure it isnt just lust, infatuation, physical attraction or just puppy love. I believe if your in love with someone you will know without question.  I think the fact that your wondering if you are in love with him that maybe your not in love but one of the other things listed above.  Just my 2 cents
64947
I think that the feeling of love is transfered in some transcidental way. Something like the induction in electricity. If you really feel love, a love is somethat infered in the one you love. So you don't need take action to show your love (if your intent is just love and nothing more :). Just be yourself :)
510054
If you don't feel anything romantic or sexual, then what is it? My current crush is entirely physical. I'm not the love type, and I don't really think he is, either.
183382
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
57917
First love, first TRUE love, I might say I have not live both, but I will never forget my first, he was the most especial guy of all...\nmy heart just stopped when I looked for the first time my reflect on his eyes....\nI would never forget his smile, his hands, his laughs....\nand although I will find my TRUE love, he will always have a place in my heart.\nMiss you T...
85936
How do you feel when you are away from this person?  What are the qualities you like about him?  Are they the inside ones or the physical ones?  When you have truly found love you will always want to be with that person.  They will be everything you ever dreamed, and of course they will still have flaws, but you will be able to overlook them.  If you are still thinking about the first guy what is it about him that keeps you thinking about him?  Does the new guy have those qualities?  Just some questions for you to ask yourself.  I hope that helps!
649463
I've had a problem with the same question. I've come to find out that if you really love someone and you seperate or your away for a while and you can't stop thinking of them and it begins to hurt, your in love. But, if the same thing happens and the only thing you really miss is being shacked up with them then it's lust. Love is very complicated and very painful. No words can ever express real love it's something that you feel deep down. Love can be different things to different people it really depends on you. Sit down alone and think about it.
358557
This is what I think of love, when you have a crush on somebody it is so much fun , when you have a bf/gf you really like every moment youre not with them is wasted, but when your with them you have that wonderful not able to describe feeling. When you are in love and the person doesnt love you back, love is a heart breaker and you are sitting up in your room crying all day. If you dont know whats going on you feel love towards her/him and you sometimes cry cause you dont know how (s)he feels about you, and othertimes you are so happy and are so in love with her/him. It can also and usually does feel so confusing. When you are happy and love her/him so much you cant get get enough of them it is too wonderful to describe but you cant get them off your mind and (s)he is the only one you think about and want to think about, you write poems about her/him you write songs about her/him you sing about her/him, you love her/him so much you dont know what to do. I think love is good but you do get heartbroken sometimes and it is sometimes worth the risk, I am inlove now and dont know what to think. Hope this helps!
366914
It's definitely, definitely a crush. Love really doesn't come until a lot later than liking somebody and them liking you.\n\nI've heard that yes, sometimes people who like somebody cry when their around them. It's normal, but do try to identify any ways he might be hurting you (IF they exist - it's also likely there's no real reason behind the tears).\n\nGood luck with relationships!
268770
When you have an infatuation , you think you're in love . \nWhen you're in love , you don't know that you are , till it's too late .