Why is life so hard? Why is there always something that occurs in lifetime that make you feel depress or sad?
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Where are you and where are you coming from, and where do you want to go. When things are ruff or (difficult) you may be in a position that is not right for you. If it is a job, perhaps you are in conflict with the assignment or people that you must work with. A shrug of the shoulder and the phrase "that's' life" does not make it any easier to accept. You may have had to settle for less than what you wanted for many reasons. A good friend, husband or wife can make life easy. I am a believer in the after-life. You keep coming back until you get it right. It gets easier as time goes on even if it takes a thousand years. Earth is Hell and Heaven is a long ways off.
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Hello. I am sorry you are feeling so low. We all go through rough patches from time to time. Generally we pull ourselves through it, but if you are struggling, maybe you should visit your doctor. You are not alone in this. There are thousands and thousands of people in the world feeling just as you do right now. Try to talk to a friend or family member about how you feel and ask for their support. I am sure you will get through this hard time.
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it could be the base of depression...talk to someone about how your feeling before you start to feel worse, or it could just be that your exhausted from over doing things and just need a good sleep to give your body time to repair
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Bad situation. Maybe things just feel distant because of the rough time he's going through. Hang in a bit longer,after the rough times are over,and take it from there. Good luck with everything.
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I know what your going through, sometimes my life just completely sucks and i just wonder why? does the world or god have something against me or something. But when my life starts to be crap.But the world isn't against, it just seems that way when your life isn't going the way you want it. When i feel this way, I do this: Take a long hot bubble bath, then sit down and watch your favourite movie with a mug of hot chocolate, and just relax and forget about it all. That's what I do, try it. It may work.
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It's all in how you view it. Things happen and we ask or wonder why. Sometimes we spend too much time in our self pity. \n\nOne thing I do is evaluate my life and I realize that if the things happened to me didn't happen, I wouldn't be where I am right now. \n\nWe grow through our experiences if we allow it and we can use them as stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks\n\nChin up! Smile and remember someone else out there is worse off than you are.
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Some would say that even one time a day is dangerous.  But, since I am currently dealing with a bout of depression myself, perhaps I can help here.  Lately, I find myself thinking more, and more about what it would be like if I was not around anymore.  I used to pretty much welcome death.  I would say I am not afraid to die because I have already lived a full life.  That was until a few weeks ago.  My best friend from college died from natural causes.  It really hit me hard.  He was the first person I had known that was my same age that died.  It made me take stock of my own life.  It made me see that I HAD NOT lived a full life yet.  True, I still am depressed, but it took the death of my best friend to show me how precious life really is.  I am not even sure if You are thinking about suicide, or you were asking for somebody else.  If you are thinking this way, let me tell beg of you, don't give in to your feelings and try to end your life.  You may not realize it now, but there really is so much to live for.  It is good that you are at least taking about the subject with other people.  It is more worrysome if you keep your emotions bottled up inside.  If you feel comfortable, try to takl things out with your friends.  If you don't want to talk to them, you can always email me. jam961@yahoo.com  I am willing to listin to you if you need to vent.  Always remember, you are not alone in depression.  It affects more people than you realize.  I wish you the best of luck, I hope you can find peace without thinking of killing yourself anymore.  When things get rough, remember you have friends here at yahoo answers.
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Sometimes when people complain about the day or the weather I just say 'You're alive aren't you?'. I know that life gets hard but for me just knowing that God loved me enough to allow me to be alive. Maybe begin to appreciate the 'little things'. Like being able to walk, talk, breathe, sing, see, run, eat, laugh, have a roof over your head if its a shack or a mansion. Sometimes you have to force yourself to look for things to appreciate about life. And the simplest is 'at least you're not dead'. I know its cliche but everything happends for a reason. Don't mistake though, you may think 'what she talking about, what has she been through'. Believe me I have been through things and I have just come to the understanding that we need to appreciate what we do have, we need to think positive that everything does really happen for a reason. It is hard to see peopel suffering. I just pray for them and if I can help I try to.
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life is beautiful.  Sometimes things that happen in life arent fair, but there is even beauty in sorrow.  you should be lucky to be alive, because besides the unfairness you might be experiencing now, there will be amazing moments in your life that you will make you regret saying that you wish you werent alive.  I am not sure what you are going thru, and please forgive me for not understanding you completely here, but there is no stuggle in this life that should make you not want to live on, especially if it has to do with mistakes of other.  Embrace life and live it up.
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Feelings can almost always be trusted to be true. People who have lived with hardship in their lives are wiser for the most part, because no one wants to go there again. Those who had comfortable,practically protected lives have no clue, and when their day comes, as it surely will, they will have no clue how to handle what is thrown their way. Those of us who have suffered hardships no how to appreciate life in a very special way.
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Honey, life isn't supposed to be easy.  Hard times can help a person learn and grow and mature.  It helps you appreciate the times when life is good =)
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Life isn't what we make it. Our attitude is what we make it. If you think life is what happens to you, yeah it can get pretty bad. Things can go wrong. Bodies can be damaged, relationships can fail, and plans can be altered in a second. Those are things we can't control, and yes it is hard. \nBut, you are in charge of your ability to get back up after you are knocked down. Nobody can make you stay down, even if it seems like everyone is trying to keep you down. \nMy life has felt that way. I had a brain injury that also broke the bones on one side of my body. I had to come out of a coma, learn how to think (like a baby kind of) learn to walk and talk, write, etc. I had therapy every day for months and months. I lost every friendship I had, and every girl I thought loved me. I lost my self-esteem, and even the will to live sometimes. \nIt's hard to be happy, but it is possible. Nobody can make you give up. Nobody can! Nobody got me to stay down. I graduated with my bachelor's degree, became a personal trainer (after losing the ability to control my body), and then a massage therapist. I'm still single and lonely, but that's just a matter of time. Some lucky woman is about to find a man that can't be kept down. \nLife is hard. I'm glad it is. If it were easy, I wouldn't be as strong as I am. I would have stayed in the wheelchair and let the state support me, popping pills to keep the demons away and drinking my meals. \nI wanted to live. Life is hard, but I am harder. You can't break me. I am going to live, and I'm going to be bappy. \nI want you to know, whoever you are, that I'm sending all my good karma to you. Life is going to get better for you. \nGet ready to make some great things happen. You ready?
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The actual feeling is from nerves.  Your brain can put your body through some hell when in stress, panic, anxiety, heartache.  Like when you mourn the passing of a loved one and you cry so hard your whole body shakes, or goes into spasms.  You mourn that person with your whole heart and soul.
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Sounds like you are having a tough time dealing with stuff.Try to keep busy. Enjoy  life with your family.My mum died a year agoand I still feel very sad but you just have to get on with life.I am undergoing grief counselling  so maybe you could dothe same. Your doctor might be able to put you in touch with someone that can help you resolve  issues dealing with death and also learning to overcome your fears about death. Take care.
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You maybe are just having a 'death' phase.\nSome people have that when something is really going wrong with their life, or they are sad or tired, or even stressed out. Just wait for a month or so, and hopefully it will get better.\nIf not, i would suggest you go to a phychologist. That would help a lot. \nMaybe its just some type of fear of death. Could be anyhing.
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As phlisophers indulge this age-old question, 'What is the reasons to life?' Our society has evolved where our current culture tells us what life is about... and it is money, family, and something for humanity.   When you find nothing of these in your life, we become clueless and clueless creates frustration, and frustration creates hate...  So I only try to make the most of my life, think life is short and you would be willing to take more risks and push harder, and be nice to people around you and then you get recognition perhaps. Life may feel better this way.
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sweetie, life will indeed have these types of time periods. The very very MOST important thing you can possibly do right now is try and believe with all your heart that this tough time will pass and that it will get better. It may even take a little bit of time but chances are your life can end up being even better than it was before this hard time started. In the meantime, write out your feelings in a journal and/or talk with a close friend or relative you trust not to judge you. The choice is ultimatly up to you. You can either try your hardest to believe that life will turn around for the better and aim for that goal of better times or give into all the negative energy around you. Please don't give in to it and give up. It will pass.......just believe in the better things and in yourself.