im a little 'chubby' and have been rejected a lot in the past. most women tell me im the nicest most romantic guy ,but im just too ugly. please help me!
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well if they tell u somethin like that u shouldent want to be there friend just go up to them but dont u suppose to be single
123060
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
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You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
438077
doesn't sound like you have a very high opinion of yourself so that's going to be your first problem in finding true love.\nbeyond that, i don't think very many handsome guys are looking for ugly guys but i am sure there are some...keeping hoping
212387
of course you will! You just have to give it some time and stop dating all the wrong guys. Your probably nice and cute so don't give up yet!
388495
Not 'beautifully perfect', I've noticed that you just have to be skinny.  I've seen butt ugly women and men will date them, but if you're fat, men won't give you a second glance.
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They don't dig you; trust me.  You need to stop being such a wuss first.  There is nothing more unattractive than someone without self-confidence.
61664
Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
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boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
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My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
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You failed to mention anything about your personality. Looks are great but if YOU suck as a person then who cares about your looks. Also, don't be so egocentric. Have you considered that maybe the guys around you aren't a good match for you and that your friends might be compromising alot to tolerate the boys you all interact with.
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Hey, don't try so hard to find a guy.  And no matter what weight you are, you are beautiful.  Believe that, no matter what!  You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful.  I mean, I think Queen Latifah is gorgeous and Nicole Richie is...well, never mind.  Just be your fun, sparkling self.  Hang out with friends and family.  People who make you feel good.  Eventually, a man will see that you don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself and will love both your outer and inner package.  And those are the ones worth having.  But those guys take time to find.  And all girls have a hard time finding that.  Even the skinny ones.
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right there.. your attitude is going to screw you over.. be confident my friend... by being confident you are being more attractive.. just be your self because in the long run, even though it should be the first thing its not because of the world we live in, personality is going to be your greatest friend... if she doesnt like you for that then she isnt worth is.. but thats not what you want to hear and im sorry for that... you just want advice to get her so thats what i'll give you...be consistently around her.. she'll notice you... start talking to her and have group hang outs and make sure she is invited.. go bowling or the movies.. something where everyone is comfortable.. this way you get to talk to her more and get to know her and vise versa with you... then after you feel everything is good... ask her out... if you think you arent attractive enough then she wont.. also its more than just looks.... maybe she isnt as shallow as you might think\n\ngood luck\nnice guys dont always finish last... i wont let it happen
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why on earth u think like that?????????\n\n\n\nyou will be absolutely brilliant if u trust urself ,,, be confident..  you will be assume if u convince urself that ur not ugly,, and that everyone likes u....\n\n*belive me.... when u ask any girl in the world by saying:\nwho would u choose to be with : a successful guy, but he is ugly,, or a hot guy but he is absolutely dumb and not successful...???,, I think most girls would prefer the successful guy.... \n\n\n(((((always think that the inner beauty is more important than the outer beauty))))  that is the most important thing TRUST ME!!!!\n\nlook,,, no one on this earth is PERFECT... give urself a chance.... and i promise u that you will be perfect...\n\nI mean who the hell are u talking with....they are humans just like u ( they have 2 eyes, one nose, two legs..etc) what is so special bout them!!!\n\nyou are number 1.......lol ;p\n\ngood luck anyways ;p
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nice guy=very sexy.if i was 10yrs younger your search would be over lol keep lookin huni you,ll find her xx
154355
I am 15 and a romantic would definitely attract me more. Most important than putting yourself into the "romantic" or "cool guy" groups just be yourself and be comfortable be you that is what is the most attractive. :)
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You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.