THIS GIRL I WAS DATING TELLS HER FRIENDS THAT SHE HAS NO INTEREST IN ME, BUT YESTERDAY I WAS OUT ON A DATE WITH THIS NEW GIRL AND MY EX WAS THERE AND SAW US. WELL SHE THREW A FIT IN THE RESTAURANT AND WAS SAYING HOW SHE LOVES ME AND STUFF LIKE THAT. WHAT DO I THINK ABOUT THAT? IS SHE JUST PLAYNG GAMES OR WHAT?
124701
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
212563
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
188819
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
260789
She could have been in a relationship or just getting over one without lying.  If she was even close to him any she might need a breather before making an attempt to another one.  However, from what you're saying, she's definitely interested in you.  I would hang in there and keep on trying if you're really interested in her.
210864
Woah she's lucky to have had a boyfriend like you. Dedicated and things like that. Well she's one of those girls who listen to their elderlies without questioning authority. She's probably very sad about having to dump you. Get the picture? She's trying to forget about you, but it's a very painful process. I've done this once. Of course she has feelings for you. She's just saying it.
656424
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
455462
I think it may be that she is (or was) lonely and her actions were due to that fact. She may have realised she needed attention, moreso than wanting you and was afraid or embarassed to admit that to you and so simply rebuffed your "moves" later. I think she cares about your feelings & enjoys your company but did not want to hurt you because she realises she doesnt beleive a relationship cld work between the 2 of you.\n\nI doubt she likes to make you suffer, though it may seem that way, shes just trying to spare your feelings and does not, most likely realise that she is hurting you in another way all the same.
209678
Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.
61823
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
159921
I've had a few platonic female friends.  I've given some hugs and some backrubs.  I've never kissed them.  Your girlfriend crossed the line.  Why would she tell you that "his little thingy got hard"?!?  Definitely past the line.\n\nIt sounds like she is playing games and is at the least trying to make you feel jealous.  At the worst, she is shopping for another boyfriend and just wants to keep you on the line.\n\nIt's hard to convey all the intricacies of a relationship on these little questions.  But from the little you've revealed, I would dump her and cut off all contact.  Until she grows up, she is not worthy to date seriously.
529801
That guy is TOTALLY a rebound and after seeing what else is out there, she probably wants you back. Only small caution I'd say is that she could be using you as a "back up" because she wants to have you as an option just in case. \n\nMost likely, she just wants you back though and realizes that you are what she wants.
1445
Unfortunately, what this means is not that the girl is interested (right now) but that she is being a little bit selfish.  If you are young, this is natural.  She enjoys having someone to hang out with and go on vacations with but that doesn't necessarily reflect on her feelings for you.  If she was interested than she would not be WILLING to hold your hand, but rather would be looking forward to any type of contact with you.  Her memories are more of what she has done or where she has gone, rather than of you.  However, in the future she could develop feelings for you.  If you want to know how she feels about you, try spending time with her with limited entertainment.  Just invite her over to listen to music and talk.  If she is interested in you, this will appeal to her and if not, she will decline until you present a more tempting offer like going on an awesome vacation.  Good luck.
301724
She's looking for attention even if it's negative attention.  If she's your EX and YOU want to keep it that way--for whatever reason, then continue ignoring her and eventually she'll get the clue.  I think she's trying to either get you mad by talking to your friends, or get your attention just to keep you hooked.  Either way, it's not very mature, but there again, you and her are still in school--the both of you have alot of growing up to do, before you become mature.
296660
u sound totally nice to me, even tho you're not my type much. maybe she prefers other kinds of guys, (like i do, i like bad boys/lost souls, who're mysterious but can be reachable)  Or maybe she just wants to be friends, because that's what she thinks of you as. just wait a while, ask her why she broke up w/ u, or as her if she wants to go out w/ u again. good luck
549353
Congratulations! You are the rebound guy. Dude she's definitely using you as the rebound guy. She wanted to date around and he didn't that's why he's not calling her back. If he was to say to her "okay let's have a open relationship", she would lie to you about it and act like she's acting now, like everything is fine. You have the proof that she is willing to be unfaithful to you, now what are you going to do with it????
199120
Why do you care . . . you already broken up . . . and he is looking for someone new.\n\nIf the guys made a wager on who can date this one girl . . . then this is a gag date . . . nothing serious.  Odds are they don't give a damn about her . . . so blow it off . . . and who cares.  It is not like you are dating him still.
189490
then this girl doesn't care for the guy she is with, if she is flirting with alot of people. Also my opinion, she is wanting to see if any one will try to take her from her current boyfriend.