ok these 2 girls at my school like my boyfriend and they think i am a lyer they wrote a note threatening to kill me and i took it very serious i turned it in too the principle now they are gonna get in trouble.one of my friends offered to fight them for me even though i can fight..should i let her? what do i do they are really mad at me now?
138527
Turning the note over to the principal was the right thing to do.  Do not encourage your friend to fight for you.  It'll just get her into trouble.  You should not fight either.  If these girls threaten you again, report them to the principal again.
450313
Firstly tell your parents, make sure they are aware of the situation. Don't fall for any of this "You mustn't tell the teacher" nonsense. The guy sleeps happy at night, so why shouldn't you? And don't apologise to anyone for sticking up for your rights, they are your rights, people fought for them, and this bully shouldn't be allowed to take them away.\nNext time he threatens you tell him there will be trouble if he tries anything, but, and this is the important part, don't tell him or even hint what actions you will take, let him guess. His imagination will do the job for you. Just smile. \nNext, get some witnesses to back you up.\nIf they guy touches you then lay a complaint with the Police, and if they ask why you didn't speak to the school say they refused to protect you.\nAlso learn a few basic self defense moves, like kicking him "where it hurts most". If he tries anything, do that, and when he's on the ground crying his eyes out ... like I said, don't apologise.\nSince the Principal won't do anything, write to the school committee asking them what their policy is on bullying (it will be they don't allow it, but you have to ask the question) because you are being bullied and the Principal won't address your concerns. \nIf the bully is threatening others, which is probably the case, make sure you state this as well in your letter. \nThird, next time it happens, go down to the school office and tell them you are going home because they are unable to provide a safe environment for you at school, and tell them to ring you when it is. If they try and stop you ask them why they don't stop the bully. Tell them to call the cops and walk out. \nAlso, can do you know of any "dirt" on the guy. For example, does he bring cigarettes to school or is an illegal immigrant? \nShop him. \nAnd lastly, always look confident when he sees you, not frightened. Look like you are a person with power, because you have something he doesn't have - the law is on your side.
278648
I've never been so proud of one of my friends as I was the day one of my girl-friends decided not to fight a girl who was after her. The girl came up and picked a fight, to which my friend did not want, and thus decided not to get involved. The girl punched her in the face three times, spliting open her eye brow, but my friend just took it and didn't lift a finger. The girl gave up, walked away, and my friend went to the police station. My friend had a restraining order put on the girl and she was on probation for quite some time. The girl never bothered her again.\nI suggest you walk away. There's nothing good about violence, so it's better to just not get involved.
399686
this will pass so please don't hurt yourself,the same thing happen to my friend her ex best friend turn everybody against her,tell your mom whats going on make her change your school because its really no point being in there no more,my friend changed and she doing really good know she didn't know nobody and they all like her,if theirs anything else here's my e mail sheilalicious197,hope it helps
277007
You were just trying to be a good person, so hats off to you.  But these sound like difficult people.  All in all, if they wanted their papers, they should have gone to class.  who cares how busy they are? It's their responsibility.  And you shouldn't worry about them being mad at you, you were just doing what they asked you to.  They are lazy and hypocritical, so who cares what they think
232697
u better bitchslap ure friend. shoot. omg. i hate girls that bring drama. even if she hates the guy she should be there for u. she aint a true friend.
608986
I think that your friends should stop fighting, this guy is not worth it. Let them know how important thier friendship is to you and that you dont want to lose any of them because of a stupid boy. If you dont want to be caught in the middle of this fight for ever I suggest that you tell your friends to lose the guy and continue with their friendship. After all little fights like these strengthen friendships. Good Luck
381287
If they are not coming anymore, then let it be. They are sulking. What you did ie telling them and insisting that they call is a very brave thing to do. Keep it up and do not allow them to bully you.
502463
I THINK YOU SHOULD BE MATURE ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHO TO BE FRIENDS WITH AND DO NOT HANG AROUND WITH PPL WHO R NOT EVEN CLOSE TO YOUR AGE N DO NOT LET THEM MAKE FUN OF YOU LIKE THEY DID WICH WAS EMBERESSING AND U AGREED TO IT.\npL: NEXT TIME U SHUD KICK THEIR @$$Z
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dont go anywhere near her! I realise thats a hard thing to do at school, but usually people sit and hang around in certain places everyday, so go the opposite direction. If she does it again fight back! I am so against violence but if she is gonna beat up your friends for being your friend and talking to her and your parents wont help, then fight back.
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I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
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You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
38777
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
256801
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
54645
You should report this person and make sure they're expelled...make a stand and show that you're not afraid...but try not to get into a fight if you can help it
497949
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
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Tell her to leave you alone . The only reason people do that \nis because they are jealous of you . Ask her what's up with her .\nIf all else fails tell the school counsler to call both of you\nto her office to see what the problem is . This way if she\ndoes start anything with you there is a record ofthe problem .