so here it goes: last year i had a crush on "boy a", who was best friends with the guy (boy b)who liked my best friend. do both bay a and b are the "enemy" (we bother/tease them) theres also boy c, who im friendly with _ sorta. we hav fun conversations and my friends and i play pranks on him. but now that im in 6th grade...i think i might kinda like boy c. \nso 1: do i like boy a or boy c?\nand 2: if i like boy c what do i do?\n\nyes kinda complex, but thats my life xD
132762
boy c , you have fun and are friends
173781
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
124505
Be mad at the boy.  He lied to you straight out while on the other hand you told your friend it was ok for her to like him and she probably didn't expect him to ask her.  You should also be mad at yourself.  If you like someone you got to grab on and not wait till later or they will inevitably move on.
320844
OK, this is for if you are sure he likes you: go out with some friends somewhere and start flirting with another guy. If you feel like you could actually pursue this guy and have something with him, then you don't really like your friend. But, if you are only thinking of your friend when you are with the other guy, then you really do like him. I'd say if this has been going on so long, you DO like him, but are afraid of ruining what you already have. I say go for it, cuz it's better than looking back later when it's too late and wondering what you could have had. Hope this helps!
574078
i got in a fight with another girl (at school, no1 was watching) that liked my crush. My crush came over and asked us why we were fighting. I said its about some guy and she practicly yelled "that guy is u and u like me beta rite?" well he was a little taken aback and said he'd think about it well after school he said he liked me better because i don't yell and i'm pretty and kind and all this other kind comments and now we've been going out for 2 years and like each other very much.\n\nremember to be yourself, i no i no thats what every1 says but if you pretend to be some1 else then he might think your acting weird and when he finds out what your really like he will ask you why you lied and bla bla bla. I wish you luck. :)
158698
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
540676
Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.
235558
it depends how much u like him if you love him sometimes you have to do what is right for you but if you dont love him you probably should think about the saying friends before boy friends (or in this case your almost boy friend) but believe me if he starts going out with your friend it is ok i know how it feels the guy i liked all year asked my best friend out but what hurts even worse is that she knew i liked him but still said yes. anyways this is about u well good luck remember do the right thing.
595307
Be postive about it. You can say "So I have a crush on a boy... haven't you before?" Just shrug it off by saying things that says you like him, but don't care if people know.  And just ignore them.  That always works!
80162
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
181812
Since she asked if he liked anybody at your school, the odds would be against you that he liked you unless you and Elizabeth are the only girls at the school and he isn't gay. You would then have a 50-50 shot at being the one he likes, although he never said that he did actually like anyone at your school. No matter what, it would be better if you just let it be and wait and see if he likes you. You can be friendly and flirt, but I definitely would not just come out and ask him. It would put both of you in an uncomfortable spot.
157646
The fact that your attentions are on someone else makes me question the relationship with the first guy. But decide who you like better and make a definate choice. It may end up being the wrong choice, but you will learn from it and hopefully be more wise the next time.
181504
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
636435
talk to your friend about it. personally, i feel that she shouldnt be mad at you since you like this boy and he likes you back. theres nothing she could do to have him like her when he likes you. dont do anything till you've talked.
481154
Oh that tough. Um.. try letting things just fall where they want. If that doesn't work try just keeping the friends you have and start thinking about an other girl because I really don't think this girl you like is going to go anywhere(sorry if that's harsh). Now I mayb wrong but it souds like you might like the girl you've known since you where five. Best of Luck!! :)
249931
Well after working with many individuals like yourself I think I have the best answer for you. Yes you can have "crushes" for two "guys." Everything depends on which guy is greater. You say yourself that they are both great.. however what qualities and what personalities make them great. Start by writing out a Venn Diagram and fill in the circle for similarities and then differences. The harder one to fill in will be the one that is less greater than the first. After you do that..write another post and I'll be happy to respond.. God bless and good luck!