if im ready to break up with my girlfriends and her sister's ready to go out with me when i ask her out,  is it a problem?
124191
If you have any doubts it is.  I wouldn't do it.  It's at your own risk; what happens when her sister finds out that her sister is dating her exboyfriend?  Hopefully she doesn't choose you over her?  :)
259076
I dont think that you should try to split them up or anything. It sounds corny but if u are meant to be together then you wont need to do anything. Their relationship will end naturally and u and this girl will be free to date without worrying about bad karma. If she really likes u that much, she will end the present relationship herself anyway (but dont push her into doin so!)
522163
Chill...\n\nJust ask her how she feels about you and her sister going out.  See what she has to say...
457438
She's not being too nice to you and taking you for granted.  I say break up with her!  She doesn't deserve you at all!!!!!  She's stuck on herself and there are plenty other girls who, I'm sure would love to date you...go for it!
271185
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
339826
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
31185
you could be opening a can of worms your not ready for i am the father of a young teen girl and i say she isnt ready to date how ever i will allow her to have male friends over to watch a movie or for a b-b-q on occasion but her friends are a little afraid of me as i am a very large man[see my profile] so they at least act like they respect me because they think i will really hurt them even though i wont although a lot of dads will do crazy things because of their daughters so in short becareful and dont P** O** the wrong dad
273490
It doesn't matter.  Tell you sister, "Damn, I can believe she's actually going out with him (your friend).  I didn't think it would bother me, but I guess I do like her more than I thought.  Think you can help me out with her sis?"\n\nEven if your sister tells everyone, at least she'll know you like her.  On the other hand, your sister might actually help you.  Girls like to hook up their friends, it's like their version of frequent flyer miles, when they get older they cash in the points for favors.\n\nAnyway, if you don't go this route, wait until you friend has his date with her, if it goes well, you're screwed, but if it doesn't then next time you talk to her tell her, "Hey, I heard the date didn't go so well.  I don't wanna sound rude, but I'm actually kind of happy about it."  She'll ask why and then you say, "Well, because I think my sister might have a brother who really likes you."\n\nAfter she laughs and you two make out, give her her bra back and ask her out on a date.  Now make sure your sister makes new friends that are hot and you'll never run out of dates!
111457
Bro's before Hoe's....\n\nThere's a good chance it wont matter. Sorry but I know when I was younger and my brother and I lived together there was no way we would let a girl do that... I do have to be honest and say that we had let her think she had broken us apart. When in fact it was just so we both could score and toss her on. Dont mess with family. Family will always, always, always win sooner or later.
554156
No, he shouldn't brake up with you over this, but you do need to repair any damage that might have been caused between you and your sister. Sit her down, apologize to her, and ask her if she could give you guys a little more alone time together. I'm assuming she's younger, but she might just be reasonable about this. \nRemember friends will come and go, but she will be your sister forever.
262323
Sounds like you need to break up with your girlfriend first before you do anything else. If you didn't break up with her, it wouldn't be fair to your current girlfriend, the girl you love, and yourself. Once you do that, you can explain to the girlfriend that you like her and want to be with her. Good luck!
399394
Heres how it sounds dumb but it works, If you already know her and you have somewhat of a neutral relationship just straight up ask her out say "Go out with me" she'll probaly say "what?' or "are you serious" or try to wriggle out of it, if that starts say "its the right thing to do" Dont be afraid, just do it! the worst she can say is no and if she does no biggie you guys can still be cool just dont put so much pressure on the situation.
583468
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
474058
it depends on what your motives are. if you are looking for a serious relationship, then beware.. if she cheats on her current bf to be with you, then she will eventually cheat on you when she's ready as well.\n\nif you're just looking for some silly casual fun, then whether it's right or wrong will really depend on your personal values.  \n\nbut the bottom line, if you interfear with her current relationship, all three of you will end up hurt and angry at each other.. and all three will come out losers..
415708
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
209234
one day when your around your family and she is leaving kiss her good bye on the mouth and go from there if she is who you want to be with dont let your familys opionion affect your decision if they love you they will support you and if they dont dont worry about it
93019
Mine doesn't!  But I'm not arguing with you.  I had to have 8 serious relationships to meet this girl.  Going on 2.5 years.\n\nThere's lots of reasons, but it's still not okay.  Trust issues suck.  You're absolutely right that you're investing time, energy and love into her and you should deserve some trust.\n\nAnyone you date should be someone you respect and someone who respects you.  You should not make each other feel worse about yourselves.\n\nSit down, have a talk.  Make some decisions if you need to.\n\ngood luck!