In a friendship or relationship what have you done that made you feel like a crap?  What has he/she done to you?
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i don't know what anybody did but she just started making up crap about me and i felt so crushed cuz she was my closest frient and she was making up things about me right in front of my face i deny but she goes on ifelt so horrible i didn't know what to do but i decided to talk to her a bit and then ignore the whole situations and now things are better but i still cant stand going to the friend that she made up crap about me in front of my face ;(
431300
First of all.....my sympathies for the loss of your babies.\n\nI have been in this situation...friend-wise....and can only tell you of this experience. This person told everyone I was her "best friend" but would only call me or come to see me if she had nothing else to do. She didn't have time to talk when I called her if something that sounded more fun came up. Basically, she used me until I became fed up with it. I finally told her I couldn't be her "fair weather" friend anymore, it wasn't worth the effort since I had nothing glamorous to offer her.\n\nThe short of it is...no matter how you handle it, this type of person won't get it. They're never at fault, never wrong and consider themselves to be the best thing walking upright! Avoid her and always be busy when she decides to call or come around. You're worth more than what she has to offer!!
383271
I had a friend like that! First she was very jealous of me and then when i told her to go to hell (because she was criticising me always) she tried to do bad things against me but i didnt care  because she was not my friend anymore.
223359
I sometimes feel the same way that you feel...and I hate it. I'm so sorry that you feel that way and no I dont think that it should be normal but everybody had bad days so what I try to do is find something to do so I want think about whatever got me down. I love you, so put a smile on your face! :)
171691
This person whom you are treating as a friend is giving you a hard time. Devote your time to other people around you.
304002
awww,,, did someone hurt your feelings.
296208
It doesn't make you a terrible person, but how can you call yourself a friend if your ashamed to be with them, I am personally one of those odd people that get made fun of and it only degrades me more when someone I thought was my friend is ashamed to be with me. I don't mean this to be some smartas.s answer but its how I felt
604423
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
621185
My friend was jealous of my relationship with this guy I was hanging out with (she is married, I am not). She listened to someone else and their opinions and freaked out on me at the bar, in front of everyone and called me a sl*t and other names. We were supposed to go on a trip together in a week with a group of friends. I canceled my hotel reservations. Then the friend whose birthday it was heard about it and she asked me to still come, saying she would uninvite the other friend (they were closer than we were). Told her she did not have to do that, but the trip was pretty awkward. Our friendship was never the same after that, even though she apologized, and now we aren't friends anymore.
348892
You did nothing wrong.  When you have a chance, talk to her alone, face to face.  It's her fault in the first place for playing baby games.  Tell her you can't apologize for something that wasn't your fault.  That you hope you & she can be friends.  Let her know what she did wasn't cool & you felt awkward when confronted.  You actually stuck up for her!
414101
have you eaten anything?  medications?\ntry to crap and see what happens
39695
He was using you.  He told you it was your fault to make you feel back and take the blame off of himself.  He's not worth your time.  Especially if he is abusive.
30439
Well... what's done is done. I usually don't encourage anyone to get mixed up in people's relationships, but perhaps what you did is for the best. You may have saved the guy from a worse heartbreak than he had just experienced. \nAnd for your part, she does sound parasitic... a friendship should go two-ways, it's unhealthy to let just one person absorb all the benefits for herself while the other suffers. Not to worry, hopefully what you did will help her realize her selfish attitude. Plus, not all girls are like her, there are others who will brighten your day instead of always asking something from you. Good for you, for speaking your mind and trying to do what's right :)
336125
You need to sencerly apologize mabey with I am so very so just take the blame for it.. I never ment to make it feel like I was better than you and give her a card and chocolate or roses if possible
344159
Tell her that you feel both of you said harsh things to each other, that you are hurting and imagine that she is too.  Apologize for hurting her and see what she says.
60339
6 years ago - what you're friend said to you was very insensitive.  It sounds as if she finally realized what she's done wrong, but if she acted as if nothing's happened and can't seem to recall the hurtful things she's said to you years before, mayB U need to remind her that what she said to you (when you were in a state a mourning) was very hurtful and let her know that her remark had placed a damper on your friendship.  Honestly, we're all human and we all do make mistakes with the things we say or do.  I'd say give your friend another chance, but be clear on the reasons why you haven't kept in touch with her all those years and be honest with how you really felt.\n\nAt least this is my opinion.  I've also learned from past mistakes and I've lost some valuable friendships, because I've never expressed to them how I really felt about certain issues.
586228
I HAD a friend that was straight up annoying. She irritated the hell out of me...I even told her that I had no idea why we were friends because we had nothing in common. We fell off for other reasons, but we were friends for like 10 years.\nShe annoyed me most of that time.