Its always said you have to love yourself first before you can love someone else!
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Thats a lie. Some of the purest loves in the world came from people who hate themselves.
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i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
79532
start loving yourself
220371
you should think yourself lucky some people cant find just one love let alone 2..how greedy..someone gonna get hurt
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When you commit yourself your person, you are saying you love them just the way they are.  You should support and encourage your partner in any attempt they make at personal growth, but the worst statement anyone has ever made is "I can change him/her" or "Oh he's/she's never had someone that loved them like me, they'll change" \nIf you don't love them as they are then move on.
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this is actually a song..however, it is really sad to belong to someone else if you feel that you have found the right one..i think it happens in every relationship..there will always be a time when the relationship will be put to a test..it just up to the persons involved to choose who they really wanna be with..
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You are on the right track, but people don't normally think they have to conquer someone else. Love is more of a partnership than a conquest.
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It'll always hurt. You cant love someone without leaving yourself wide open for hurt. Believe me you dont even know the pain of love until two guys love you and you love them both. That really sucks. It hurts though cause you wanna care about someone so much and you want them to care about you and feel as strongly as you feel about them but usually it doesnt happen, one person cares more then the other and it hurts if your the one who cares more. But chin up, one day that person who does love you just as much comes along and you get married and make babies. That feeling of caring just as much as each other doesnt always stay around forever but you get beautiful children out of it and they become the love(s) of your life that you've always wanted and they love you just as much as you love them which is what you want all along.
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When you begin to love yourself, and accept others for who they are, you will begin to learn what love is, and love will come for you like a silent breeze.\n\nThe more anxious you are in finding someone, the less likely you will be to make a wise decision, based on your urgency.  Don't compromise who you will love, compromise with your loved one instead.\n\nGood Luck and Prosper...;*!*;...
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No we as humans do not love to be rejected, we as humans have the need to be loved as much as we love others, it is just like the one person said free will comes into the mix, that other person is also right in that you have a good heart, don't ever change, being of kind heart will reward you in the end, try making new friends, some friends are for different reasons and seasons, some are long term, some are short term, I'm 50, I have had many friends like that, I learned to still love them, just not to brake my heart over their lack of caring, it is just the way they are
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with life, and love...you take one step at a time. Be yourself, and if the other person doesnt like you, that means you're not meant to be.
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Love for another person has nothing to do with how you feel about yourself.  Anyone who really, truly loves another person is willing to sacrifice anything for the safety and happiness of that person.  Love for the other person is so deep that the thought of his/her unhappiness is unbearable, as is the thought of continuing to live after that person has died.  This kind of love is selfless, so no matter how much you do or don't love yourself, the other person's needs always come first.
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They feel they need someone else's advice to weigh their love life. It shows your really not ready for a serious relationship if your depending on complete strangers to fix your love life. You have to go with how you feel, it's YOUR relationship, and it needs to be YOUR UNBIASED decisions. But hey...more points for me!
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Impossible. You have to love yourself and it will come.
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first the world and after myself! if you don't give love how will others give love back? love is not selfish,love doesn't demand. you'll never lose a part of yourself if you learn how to love. love is everything. and at the end you will learn to love yourself by learning to love others! :)
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i think it means that your partner wanted you to change to something else and that since you can't change to that something (probably your attitude, your looks, the way you dress or anything...) that your partner wants, you are still you and will remain so. which is what you should be, yourself. you are in this world to be you, not to be what other people want you to be. and if by chance you meet that someone who really wants you because of what you are, then that's beautiful.
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If he truly would of cared about you, then he would of understood, that is a brave and completely honest thing to say to him and for that I applaud you. Just focus on you and learn to love yourself and then find someone who is worthy of you and your love. that person will be in your life when you are truly ready, take your time. til then explore life within yourself. good luck