Haven't had sex in awhile because I am newly single after a 10yr relationship. I need some ideas because I'm very picky about random sex.
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Stick to being picky because it is better to respect yourself than to have sex and then regret it.  For now just take things into your own hands and have fun.
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i've had sex with several of my EX girlfriends much later after we had broken up.  i think once you've had sex with someone its easy to feel comfortable enough to go back and sex again. even if it's just a one nightstand with an ex. most of the time the ex is the one asking for it not me.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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Try some new things. She is probably just bored. It is easy to get into a rut of doing the same things when you have been with someone for a long time. Having lived through this situation, it is vital that you talk openly about this, and maybe seek some professional advice before it is too late. Especially if your sex life is a proxy for some other issue. If some other part of your relationship is not doing well it can show-up here. Also keep in mind that other things like stress, medical conditions, and oral birth-control pills can have a deliterious affect on one's desire.
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well I would suggest a stuffed animal or jewelry but you said a threesome well then maybe a sex toy perhaps? And you also could search a dating site for someone like that near you.
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How about a card? or some cologne?\n\nI dunno, something tech and some wild sex.
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Take a bubble bath together, then take turns reading a book aloud to each other. It is fun, and since there is no pressure, the spontaneous sex can be fantastic! (If it happens) Oh, a good bottle of wine never hurts, either!
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I can't tell you some fun ones but i can tell you where to get some good ideas. Just go to yahoo and type in free sex positions. It'll give you websites and the free version of Kama sutra.
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hmmm hard to say what the "usual" selectin would be....here are some thoughts\n\nGet her a dildo in the shape of your erection\n\nMy partner's fave is the jack rabbit... twisting, vibrating dildo with a special clitoral vibrator attached to the front.\n\nget a "mr squiggly"  essentially it turns YOU into a jackrabbit... you become the dildo part, but you strap on a vibrating clit stimulator... it does wild things to both of you. \n\na gift certificate to get whatever she wants?\n\nhow about a game you can both play that will increase your knowledge of each other sexually?
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take it slow\ncommunicate about what feels good and what doesn't\nuse condoms
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You should respond like this:\n\nLook great, smell great and smile when he opens the door.\nBring beer or wine (oops or coke if you are younger than that) and hope he was smart enough to have snacks.\nRelax.....sing, play guitars and have fun.  \nThere is no need to read A THING into anything...that is the problem these days.  \nIf it happens it does...if it doesn't that is even better.  \n\nThe best thing about a new relationship (which yours sounds like) is the mystery and nervousness and the smells and the surprise.  Just enjoy!
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OK, first may I ask why you gave up sex. So bars aren't your thing, mine either. Me & alcohol don't have a very good relationship either. Have you thought about a co-worker, or going to a very laid-back & upscale lounge sometime afterwork. you may be able to meet someone there. And about telling her about what you have been up to the past 10 years, don't right at first. You seem nice, but she may think you are a freek if you tell her that just after meeting her. Just stay cool & be confident when you meet her. Good luck sweety!!
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HAHAA yeah role playing AFTER sex is always a good time.\n\n"OK woman, role play that you're a chef and make me a sandwhich"
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chocolates, seafood and all sorts of things can be recomended to you, but what i recomend the most is your partner himself! I would suggest you do more kissing and more fooling around! light touches everywhere , try not to use your hands , only your mouth and tongue. tell him to do the same to you, let him know your body more! let him explore it again like when u got married, maybe you dont feel that sex drive cause things might have gotten a  little repetitive! do something new! go out of the house if you have kids or teens or whatever and go to another place and make love ther, or use sweet things like cream or chocolate, try to get some scented candles for your room and rose petals, or in the bathtub! \nANY PLACE IS GOOD FOR LOVING WHEN YOU LOVE!!!!!\ndont be afraid to explore new things! kiss his nick and then blow over it ... its nice lol \nand senses tend to react more to light touch! let him kiss you everywhere and do the same give eachother a  massage before making love and dont rush to have sex... its a  gradual thing! \nhope that helps\n\nAlinne
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Sex...need I say more?\n\nHmmm, you've given me some ideas now...sex on the beach!!
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Seriously, take a break from sex, for now. Get a book on massage, or something, and work on being intimate without the sex. But don't back him into a corner because he's trying to be honest with you, without hurting your feelings. (Like all men, he's obviously very bad at it.) Don't take it personally, either. I used to take it very personally because my ex didn't want sex, but when I look back, I realize we had a great sex life, and he probably was just tired!
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Someone in the relationship has to at least try and keep it interesting.  You want excitement?  Get excited.  Get out of the rutine.  Surprise him.  The bedroom isn't the only place for sex.  How about a quickie in places where the possibilities of getting caught are 7 in 10?  \nCome on use your imagination and read Cosmopolitan there's a lot of really good stuff in that magazine.  Trust me.\nGood luck!