More than once, I've been interested in meeting a woman that I'v met at some function. After leaving is the first I realize this. Also I realize I haven't asked for her telephone number.  I have had two recent experiences. One we met in a resort (several times at dinner) and another in a Yoga day class. The latter seems to be someone I know, but don't remember where or why!  Now all I have is first names. One lives nearby in the same town.  Since were all single this is a real lost opportunity. Can you think of any way to find the second woman who told me she lives near me, but where I do not know.  I really would like to get over this stupidness, but am not making progress.
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I don't think you should be nervous at all to ask for a girls phone number. You should love yourself enough to be able to do it and also to be able to be rejected(because that is probally why your nervous). If that is why you get nervous get over that QUICK! For the sake of your own happiness. No need to fret over some chick-and take that from some chick!! You are the one and only most important person in your life and you always and forever have to put your happiness first before you will ever make any chick happy anyways. And if being rejected isnt the reason then why else would you be scared is what you have to ask yourself.
102786
The best advice I can give you is to try and make friends with your co-workers or neighbors.  When I moved to the city I live in now, I became great friends with my neighbors and we hang out all the time.  Also I met people through work. And have made great friends that way too.  Another idea might be to join a class with some kind of interest to you and make friends that way whether its a cooking class, an aerobics class, or an art class.  These places are great for women getting together and hanging out.  Its easy to make conversation at places like this.  Once you've started a conversation and after a few times going to a class or talking to people at work its much easier to start planning things outside of these areas to go and have a drink at a bar or catch a movie or go shopping together.  Women aren't that weird about meeting new people and accepting new friends.  It has worked for me and now I have plenty to do in my free time.  I go get my nails done with a woman from work and another friend from work and I go to have drinks now and again, and my old neighbor I mentioned, we get together and our kids hang out.  When I took classes at college I met all kinds of nice girls to hang out with and we would go to the mall or grab coffee and hang out.  There are lots of women out there just like you looking for the same thing.  I hope I helped you!
390585
Don't waste your money on that, most of the time the information they give you in inaccurate, you can certainly meet someone in your town, besides I am sure you don't want to meet an unknown person that instead of good is going to bring you troubles..☺
328185
Last time I saw her was when she left my house last night...she was with me for the whole weekend...It was great.....and guess what??? Your name never came up so I don't know why you are looking for her...But I will tell her tonight when she comes back over for the night.....
545185
ask her about items, start asking her where the shampoo is and random stuff. That is how I met my husband...He came through my line at the register 3-4 times a day, he didn't say much but ask me how I was doing, where some things were and then would leave..but back into the store instead of out the door..he repeated this for about 2 weeks. Then one day he went to some other girls line and I realized that I was a bit jealous. I hunted him down and found him in the stationary isle gave him my number and haven't been able to get rid of him for 4 years! Good luck, just be sure to stay on the "normal" side..very fine line you could be considered a stalker.
4965
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.
266802
there are TONS of stories of people meeting on the net, its been going on for longer than many realise. a friend of mine just celebrated her 5th wedding anniversary with the man she met on the internet. they also have two kids, she is a teacher, he is a chiropractor. dont sound like crazy people to me lol. i also know another woman who has been married the same amount of time and her husband moved from overseas to be with her, they have a daughter turning 4 next month. \n\nto me, its not really that different than how many relationships do or dont work out in 'real life'. if i count how many bfs i have had since i was 15, its over 30! so that means i have had 30 failed relationships so far and only one of them was met on the internet (but it still lasted 4 years and we had a daughter). out of the couples i know so far that met on the net and got married, not one of them is divorced. NOT ONE. yeah there is still time i suppose but other couples i know that met in person first have been married and divorced already, over half of them if i sit and count. so whats that say about the odds?
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Did she give you the phone # ?  If so,then I guess she wants you to call. And that could lead up to asking her out. If you got it another way, will probably be the only reason you're seeking help on how to attract her.
651960
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
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What's up with this person?  Love interest?  Friend?  Just got the address from another person?  Do you want me to email him/her and find out for you?  Are you capable of asking this person their gender?  What do you want from us?  Shouldn't you be able to do this alone?
86068
Give up on the girl who doesn't notice you.  If she hasn't noticed how cool you are by now, then she is not worthy.  There are lots, and I mean LOTS of women around that are hot, down to earth, smart and funny (like me!).  Besides, it sounds like you don't really know her, so what if she is a totat brat or really prude or has no sense of humor or is stuck up or whatever.  You may have seen her from afar, but do you REALLY know who this girl is?  Do you really want to take a GIANT leap and give up what you have for something that may not be as good as what you have now?  The grass isn't always greener on the other side, pal.\n\nAs far as the long distance thing goes, I would give a try for a while and if something does not happen soon with getting closer together, then ditch the situation.  Like I said, there are lots of women out there.
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I'm in agreement with Floweringsun. You know his last name, as well as where he lives right? Look up his number, and even if you have to call 20 people with the same last name, you WILL eventually find him and get to talk to him. If you don't try, then you will find yourself holding a bag of "what if's". Even if just as a friend, it is worth the slight trouble. I have done the same to find a friend that lived in a different state all together! It IS worth it. As for words, just tell him that you are not one to take a backseat and not know how to find someone you want to find. Be the private investigator, and do your research. lol  Good luck!!
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Well, I don't know where you could meet her...but know this...what might have worked when you were younger...you know, the whole don't seem too eager thing, don't call her right away, etc...does not work on older women.  If you don't seem interested, we know how to move on, very quickly, simply because our lives are full and our time is extremely valuable and limited.  Always compliment a lady, make it sound sincere, we can see right through the BS.  I'm not sure what else to tell you, except make her feel flattered and let her know you are genuinely interested in her.  I am going to be the first to tell you, I get extremely suspicious when approached by a younger man...I always point out that I am not the dog s*!t joke...you know...how are older women and dog s*!t alike...the older they are, the easier they are to pick up!  Good Luck!\n\nThought about where you might meet her...Try a shopping mall, you might find someone working there, library, book store, grocery store, any type of community meetings or discussion groups, including any functions that may be happening at schools, even church.
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You should not meet just yet.  You  need t spend atleast a week talking on the phone.  You need to make sure that the other person is who they say they are and, apart from physically meeting them, this is the best way.  It's easier to make up answers and stories through email.  This will also help her feel more comfortable as well.   Please get to know each other on the phone first.
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hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
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well, some people feel that they may be living in a small town, where in that case, everybody knows you. You could also not want to join all those clubs that everybody suggests to meet new people. You may feel inadequate where you reside and even though you would love to move, can't find a job where you want to live yet. at the same time, you can always network on the internet as well. there are so many people I've met over the internet that would love for me to visit them, and yes I would be careful, but I've known them for years. I have a friend in California who's dying for me to visit her, which would be cool becuase I wouldn't get lost in L.A.. I have a friend in D.C. who's got my back as well. I'm not dating them, but they are friends that I would never meet where I'm living at. Most folks just want to meet like-minded people and the internet has tons of them. you don't have to be shy, but yes I've met alot of shy people on the internet. I don't mind it, it's connecting everybody and nobody's shy over the internet, there are some bafoons, but hey, you can meet those in a club or where ever you go. I haven't met a quality chick out here, but I met a couple over the internet who live on the other side of my state, and that was cool, I didn't date them becuase they live too far, but it's  nice to know I have friends out there. if people are lying, after a while you can tell, unless you have intentions of dating them. I say make frieds with them, with any luck, you'll meet their friends.
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i'm not trying to be rude just want to let you know that there are people on this site from all over the world. The chance that they know one girl from North Carolina is somewhere between slim to none. If you are looking for her and know her name and state try an online phone book search like whitepages.com or even one of those people search features.