He started not calling when I told him my mom is strict. How can I reverse this?
122117
ask him why he stopped talking to u so much an dont beat around the bush. i had the same problem and now we talk like every other day
296179
ARE YOU AN ADULT... JUST BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR MOTHER, TELL HER ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE HER TO MEET HIM THAT HE IS A GOOD GUY.  HIDE HIM AND IT'S GOING TO MAKE IT LOOK AS IF YOU ARE ASHAMED OF HIM
267189
Relax, parents often jump to conclusions and assume the worst.  It is just a part of being a parent.  What you have to realize is that the reason she thinks this is because what you did do caused her to lose her trust in you.  I think it is important that you take some time to talk to your mom and discuss why you did what you did and what you really did do so that you two can bridge this communication gap that has led to her losing trust in you.  Then you need to figure out how you can rebuild her trust in you because once it is lost it has to be re-earned.
300681
I would simply tell his mother, "I have put this realationship behind me and I am not willing to invest any emotion at all into what once was. I suggest you do the same. Thank you for calling but I am busy getting on with my life."
136864
He is in the wrong in this situation. It is not your fault that your mom got in the middle of something an could not control her words. If he is mad at you for something as small as this then he is not worth it. Even if you do love him, he does not have the right to make you feel bad like this. just make sure that his cuz understands that it was not you. You also have to remember that you are a strong, beautiful woman and the he should be honored to even be friends with you! :)
397940
You need to talk to your mom. Tell her how disappointed you are. She is setting a very bad example for you.
425816
Be harsh!!!!!!   he has treated you very badlydelete his messages without reading them....stand up for yourself you weak little mouse.
454001
JUst tell him whats in youe heart and if he understands and loves you, he will understand. Nobody should pressure you into doing stuff you dont feel comfortable doing. Good luck and i hope your mom will be alright.
276224
Yes, it does sound weird.  I hate to tell you that because it sounds as if you very much respect and view him as your dad and that's such and important and can be one wonderful (and respectable...both ways) relationship in life.  Rather than sit and wonder though deal with it head on.  Don't be accusing or even implying but IN PERSON(so you can see his face and watch his eyes/expressions) just casually ask him ..."hey!...what's up with the texts ya sent me? I'm not so good at understanding what someone means with those always....they're "just words"....so why don't you tell me now and I can give you a better answer."  Say it casually, smiling and lightly.  No pressure on him and no accusing.  You certainly don't want to accuse and it not have been his intent for something wrong...even though it certainly does sound that way.  It's very hard in this situation I must admit with what he wrote to think it was just innocent but at the same time I know with texts and also ims they're "just words"...no inflections, no seeing their face, etc and things can be very miscontrued and misunderstood.  Don't text him back but ask in person and the sooner you get to the bottom of it the better it will be for you....no matter what the outcome.  If it's good then great and if not then the quicker you'll be able to stop fretting and start dealing with it.  If the latter happens to be the case don't run to your mother or friends or say anything to anyone.  Just mho here but I would seek a therapist and get an unbiased opinion on just how to handle it so you don't look back and have the "whatifs" or beat yourself up for thinking you should've done it this way or that way, blahblahblah.....  Find a good, reputable professional to help you cope and one who will also tell you the best way to deal with it.  That's way too much of a load for you to try and figure out on your own!!!  Good luck with everything.  I'm sorry you're having to go through all that.:(
609953
Give him some space,  if there is some family problems going on, maybe he is just stressed out, and he lashed out at you.  Dont take it to heart, but give him the space that he needs, but dont wait for him either.  Go on with your life, and when he realizes what a jerk he was to you, he will call you.
466207
he probably thinks you shouted and screamed at her, and maybe he would never do this to his parents as he may see it as disrespectful. \n\njust try to keep explaining that she didnt mind and you didnt say it in a horrible way. xXx
380934
just be polite to him and keep yourself busy elsewhere out of his way .if , after a few weeks you still feel like that thn either talk to your mother or a counsellor at your school .it could be your sixth sense telling you to be wary
604981
he needs to get his act together.if he is gunna have anything to do with your mom he needs to get a good job,get a house,get a car,and just clean up!you should tell him and your mom that he needs to get all together.if he was dating my mom i wouldn't leave anything out.id tell him to get cleaned up and he shoudnt have anything to do with my mother if he cant!
386253
He's gonna wanna do what he wants to do anyway. There is nothing you can do but give him advice, but only if he ask for it. Cuz if you sound like you're nagging, you're gonna sound like his mom. But it's good that you are a good friend to put him in his place. So my advice would be: If he comes to you telling you what "his plans" are, just be like, "Can I say something?" And tell him how you feel about the situation. And see how he takes it.
194233
Oh, man. That is very hard... My dad is that way with me, and I honestly don't thing he'll ever open up to me. He's too gruff and quiet. Did you ever think that your mom may not have 'tried' to have you, but an accident? I would HATE to think that for you, but there are other possibilities. She could have a problem with the way you act?, or maybe she just isn't the kind to be open with her feeling. Take it slow. Tell her you love her twice a day. Give her a hug once a day, possibly more. And if she acts hesitant, don;t push it on her, but do try constantly to improve your relationship. Remember these words, and may they take you far.
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Moms always like to have their rules followed. When you break them, they feel that you're not listening to her and you don't care.\nStaying up till 11:30 is not that bad! So what you should do is have a serious talk with her.  Tell her how important it is for her to trust you, and that you really want to obey her. Make it up to her by spending some time together as mother and daughter.  She will soon regain trust on you if you stay on track the next time your boyfriend calls you!\nGood luck!
637108
Perhaps you could ask her indirectly. Carefully crafted words are the key here to achieving your desired goal.....having a boyfriend. Okay, step 1) find a time when you and your mother are relaxing, no phones, dinner is finished, house is clean. 2) Begin the conversation like this: "You know Mom, I am now ___ years old, and I was wondering if you would allow me to go to the movies with _____________. I know you have not had an opportunity to meet ________, but I can invite him by the house on _________. He is a really nice guy. Now, if you do not have a boyfriend, and no prospects, then I would suggest that you address your mother in this manner: Mom, I have really matured over the last year and I would like to respectfully request permission from you to go on a date occassionally with a carefully selected boy that I will bring home first for you to meet.  Don't be shy about it. Be assertive, without being pushy. Tell her what your heart desires, and do it in a kind, courteous, confident and mature manner. The way you approach this request to have a boyfriend is important. You have to let your mother know that you are ready for this big step in your young teenage life. \nNow, be honest in your evaluation of yourself here okay? Think! Really think here! And answer my question truthfully! Question: Have you been on your best behavior over the last year? Have you done everything that has been asked of you by your mother? Have you gotten into any serious trouble lately? Did you make good grades and behave appropriately in school? These questions are important, because if you have been cutting up and acting like a trifling little hoochie mama, it is highly likely that your mother will say no. But if you have been a perfect angel, and behaved appropriately over the last year, then I dont see any reason that your mother will not agree to your terms. Also, let her know that any boy you meet, you will bring them home to meet her, and your curfew is 9p.m. weeknights and 10:30 on weekends. Or, if your curfew is later than this, use your current curfew. Well, I hope this helps. Best wishes to you. And have fun.