and you have a hard time believing that she actually used to be male, but she showed you pictures of herself as a male.\n\nYou have seen her in a bathing suit and she makes you pitch a tent pole just about every time when you see that she has a very curvy, voluptuous body, would you still want to date her? Have sex with her? Get married to her?\n\nShe is very feminine, has the looks of a top model, and appreciates the fact that you are a man. There is absolutely nothing about her to suggest that she EVER was a male, and you can keep it a secret, would you still be involved with her on a boyfriend/fiancee/husband basis?
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If you like her, and you are attracted to her, then sure.  There's nothing wrong with that.\n\nSo she "used" to be a male.  So what?  Now she looks like a woman, acts like a woman, identifies as a woman.  You know the old saying, "If it quacks like a duck...?"\n\nIf you are both happy, then nothing else matters.
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No she looks good from a girl perspective and she roasted on that on female comedian on Mariah Carey defense.And I know you ain't talking BITCH when you looking like a rejected prositute on the corner.Who you go out with Michel Jackson.Even Pee Wee Hurman rejecting your transexual ass.\n\nSo look in the mirror before you talk next time,BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm a guy, and when I usually see a beautiful woman, my first instinct is to assume she's taken. (This is the exact same thing supermodels and actresses go through.) Tone your fire down just a bit, and guys won't be intimidated of you. I know! I've been a guy all my life! :-)
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josh...why are you asking?what if you didnt find out? you would still be stupid and ignorant to the fact shes  ahoe. have chldren...? give it a month or 2 and i bet she gets fat anyway. someone got her pregant left her on her ass and now she wnats you to act as daddy. fuck that. you must be a nice guy but dont let her take advantage!\nnext time you see that guy say thanks if it wasnt for catching them you could of married and had kids with a hore just to find out 20 years later when she then takes your house and car and wont let you see your kids.
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I'm glad you're a kind man and reassure her about her appearance. \n\nIn the end though, what she does with her body is very much her decision. \n\nIf you are concerned that she may be doing this because of her friends, I seem to recall a few actresses who have had their implants taken out: if she admires any of them, you could share this information with her.
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One of the big things that makes a relationship last is trust. There isn't anything wrong with getting a sex change, but by not telling someone who she is dating that she is an MTF, this gal's actions suggest that she believes there is something wrong with it, or that she's not happy with who she is, or that she's scared to tell the truth. \n\nI can see why she wouldn't want to tell her partner, it's not an easy life to lead, changing one's sex is a huge deal, but y'know... with great power comes great responsibility, to walk like a warrior you have to stand true. \n\nIf she wants to make it last, she's got to be brave and give her sweetheart the trust that she would want from her. (Do unto others, blah blah blah...)\n\nBut another consideration is that relationships are like casseroles: only the two people who made it know what's truly in it. \nMaybe the girlfriend already knows, maybe the two of them have had conversations you know nothing about, and perhaps, even if it doesn't seem like a good idea to you, this MTF has valid, private personal reasons for holding back until she feels like it's a good time to tell her lover. \n\nSo... "good behaviour" is an interesting way of putting it, if it's a fling: people don't tell each other ALL KINDS OF THINGS (marriage, children, debt, etc.) when they are just fooling around. If it's serious: eventually, the information will be divulged, which will either make or break the relationship. \n\nWhatever transpires, I hope those two get to make their decisions for each other without the interferance of judgemental busybodies...
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Um, well if she were more manly, then you wouldn't be attracted to her would you?  She would be all smelly and hairy and stinky and gross.  Wooo I bet you would love snuggling up to a stinkbomb :)
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Looks like ya got a lot of stupid answers. Well,let me be serious.\n   My girlfriend was being honest with me when she told me of her attraction to other female bodies and she has had sex with other women.Let me say this.It is the honesty that turned me on even more than her admitting she is bisexual.So what;she is bi. Since that admission when we go out in public, she'll say,"hey what do you think" when she notices an attractive woman.It seems we both have the same taste.\n   Understand, we have been together for four years and it wasn't until our third year that she told me because she wanted our relationship to be honest and well, she didn't know how I would take it.\n When she wants to have sex with another woman,well, that's okay with me.  I don't, can't and should not have any say in that matter.That's her.\nI'll be honest with you too. It is a turn on for me.\nI'm sorry this was so long.
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She could be. Or maybe shes giving you compliments on how you look. And maybe she thinks that your attractive for guys.
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I'd take it as a compliment.  It's only creepy if she goes after you.  I'm sure she didn't consciously pick this woman because of her similarity to you.  The fact that she is interested in someone like you should just show you how much she thinks of you.  My best friend married someone who's personality is just like mine and they've been together for 13 years. The only difference between your situation and mine is that my friend's husband is different from me in one way, and that's gender.Don't look too much into it...just be happy for her and hope things work out!
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Hm, not sure. I mean, yes, she has been seen kissing girls and the like, but that doesn't necessarilly mean she's bisexual. She's the kind of person who has a heightened sexuality and she's also motivated by all the attention and her job that is based on beauty (I'm not talking about signing), so she might not be bisexual. She might just be open minded... or... too diverse to care whether she actually likes it or not.
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#1, how was your tone?  did it sound like a programmed response, did you look at her before you said it?\n\ntell her you think she is *BEAUTIFUL*\n\nnot Hot, not Sexy, but Beautiful, and mean it.\n\nshe could just be having a girl day, we're allowed to have those every so often, it's probably not you.
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I'd be very surprised, and I would wish he had told me earlier.  The with-holding of information when I am completely forthright with him would trouble me.\n\nOnce I got over that it would not bother me in the slightest.  He is the man I love regardless of what body he wears or wore.  He knows I would love him just as much if he were in a woman's body, though I also have to tell him I'm *awfully* pleased with the body he inhabits!\n\n.
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If you can talk her into to just trimming it, I promise she will realize that not having all that hair is so much better than having it!!! After she trims it, she might even want to shave it. Good luck with that man!
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She isn't gay.  She like men but mostly thug men.  She use to date Allen Iverson before he got married.
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Yes I would! I trust her completely and if she wanted to go topless it would be fine with me! If you were to ask her if she would I know she would say yes if we were at a topless beach.\nGood question
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You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.