i like this guy but when ever i chat with him he goes IDLE WHY??????HELP!!!
131765
He does not like you and plus he is afraid of giving you a direct answer.\nFind someone else, because hanging after a guy will make you seem worthless. Show him what you are worth by sending him only one message like "Tell me why you are not talking to me or i will never  want to have to talk with you again. I am more worth than how you  treat me!!!".\nShould he not answer. Do not think about it twice, dump him and go on with your life!!! YOU ARE MORE WORTH than depending on what others might choose for you. \nWho is he that he should determine whether you are good enough to talk to or not. Such people are disgusting!
514450
id say it prob is, or he's really shy.  if uve made urself REALLY obvious, then PFF.  i mean, u need a guy with guts!  if this guy is waiting too long to ask u out, pFF again.  yeah he's flirty, but he cant do serious things.  if hes a really busy person like you said, that might be a downside.  us girls need attention, and a great guy is someone who will put aside his work for a bit for his girl.
438138
He may be one of those type of guys that likes to move slow or he could be a player.I have dated both of those types that sound like this guy.It could also be that you are perhaps more into him then he is into you.Watch out for that.You don't want to get to involved with someone who may not be as serious about the relationship as you.I would suggest backing off a little bit and not taking your relationship to serious until he seems more involved with you.
505344
you don't have to make a big move... just start talking to him more and see if he maybe wants to hang out some time... if you never take the next step you will never know what could happen
520656
Maybe he is really busy with something...wait a bit more...it has only been 6 days since you last talked...and you don't talk everyday...so maybe he is just a little busy....
582805
If he isint talking either, he is shy too, so maybe hes waiting for you to bust a move. So, be fearless, give him a call and ask to go out to see new Superman movie or something. He will say yes... Then talk about the movie afterwards. Hope this helps.
359391
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
623435
Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want.  Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
333512
well if you like him alot. then you will respect his thoughts. so i think that you should talk to him, but dont get mad at him if he doesnt want to move that fast. goodluck!\n♥ ashley
170894
To be perfectly honest, I think he may just be a nice guy.  He may like to talk to you and sometimes he has to come up with stuff to talk about. However guys are unperdictable just like the weather, he may like you just dosen't know how to say it or show you so you will get it.  Talk to him, flirt with him make it a little obvious so we can answer his question on here as to weather you like him, and find out more about him.    Do you like him?  If not then why do care? Good luck with this situation.
467710
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
594178
depends...some guys r just annoying and they'll never grow out of that...or he could be just trying to be funny...and trying to impress u in a funny way..idk....i also dk wat he might do....maybe u should find out if he has a girlfriend..if not...he probably does like u.....good luck! and hope he doesnt do nething too crazy! lol
423317
Maybe he liked you but for some reason is trying to back away. Maybe he thinks you don't like him? Try sending clues, like when he talks to you smile at him and keep the conversation going. Don't be shy, you have nothing to lose because he liked you at the begginning anyways. Just remember to not overdo it. Another good thing to do is for YOU to say hi to him once in a while, if he likes you he'll greatly appreciate that! Hope everything goes well!!
24894
Well it seems that your doing everything right so far.\n\nBut you must remember that guys are shy when it becomes to girls that they like. \n\nI really think he likes you (which is why he is quiet) so if you up to it, just ask him and i know he will feel more confident and start talking more about his feelings.\n\nAt least that works for me.
546464
Dont try so hard... If he wants to talk to you then let him make the first move... maybe he doesnt want to get involved right now...Maybe he is busy doing other things like homework.. You never know but you need to give him his space..Missy
607970
Actually, you like his personality. If you like how he waits and where you stand in control issues.. isn't that part of one's personality. Just wondering. Since he is really shy, you're probably the one whose going to break him of his silence. Make him talk. If it doesn't work find other ways of communication. (Phone, letters, etc) Good Luck!!
274169
He probably is just trying to strike conversation. What his goals are aren't very clear. It seems to me that he's not really interested in you, but in st else, if you know what I mean.\n\nBut it really depends on the person. If he starts asking questions about your personality and hobbies and such it would be much clearer what his interests are.