but i still wanta be friends wit my friend dat like him too what should i do? but she like more people than the one i like man i dont know wat to do? Give me some advice please!
126060
What does this have to do with soccer?
202434
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
655778
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
282557
There may be chance that he likes your friend more. That is no reason to give up on the friendship you and he have. Don't let little things like this burn bridges around you.
456042
Why not continue to stay in the "friends" mode for a while?  Let it run its natural course, your relationship, that is. ;.D  Continue to grow in your own life, and enjoy the communications between the two of you.  Don't try to force things to happen, and if it is meant to be, you will know when the time is right.  Time allows you to really get to know someone, and their quirks!
386903
Unfortunately, you can not make people like each other or continue to be friends. You can only be responsible for you. However, my suggestions would be [a] for you to invite both friends for an "exhale party" so that the "guy" issue could be addressed and discussed and so that you could address your concerns about their on-going friendship. Guys will come and go but good friendship is difficult to find, especially as you get older; or [b] you could suggest to each of them to let the other person know about their feelings about the guy in question. If they are at least good friends, they may be able to find an answer that will be right for the both of them. Either way they may surprise you.  In the future you may not want to put yourself in this position, because sometimes in affairs of the heart, the fact that you knew, could easily backfire on you and both friends may decide to stop speaking to you. The outcome of the situation is dependent on the level of maturity of all parties involved. I hope this advice helps you and Good Luck.
642114
One of the hardest parts of growing up and dating is learning how to deal with things when you like someone more than that someone likes you.\n\nUnfortunately, you aren't going to be able to change her mind. You have to decide if you are okay with just being friends - or if it is time to move on and spend time with other people.\n\nIn time, it will hurt less but it does suck right now. It's okay though - you are going to be alright.
240525
Its not a bad thing it just means your normal, and no your not a bad friend. She sounds like a lousy person anyways for leading him on. Just give it time and things will come out then you will have your chance. Just hang in there.
186345
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
301452
Okay well first you don't want to look like your breaking in-between them so take a step back and think about things. Don't use things against him that he has done wrong because that looks bad on you. Just sit her down and kind of ease into the question what if. This will give her the idea that you do kinda like her. Then step back and see what happens.If you want to go further just tell her that you lke her, write her a note, tell her that you want to be frineds, but if her and him do not work out that you will be there for her, that you like her in that way, but dont want to interfear with her current relationship.
558799
Her desire to continue being your friend may be her way of keeping her options open.  Be honest with her.  Tell her you're still in love with her and you aren't able to be JUST a friend to her because it hurts too much!  Break it off, forever, and begin dating immedialy.  You know the story....If you love something set it free, if it comes back... you did alright...
285808
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
466616
ha i had that situation today my friend listen to me ur a cool guy right so this is wat u do if she likes u and ur not sure if u like her watever u do dont tell her that u dont kno if u like her and second do u like anyone else cause if u dont and shes decent go for it but hey if ur friends kno her ask them wat they think. ne way u seem pretty cool heres my email adress twitchandsnap@yahoo.com if u need more advice
450694
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
324447
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
251015
First of all, how old are you guys? If he is really your friend he wouldn't limit you to friends like that. (not being funny,but...) are you sure being your friend is all he wants?
202744
Leave it at that and just be friends, maybe in the future it will turn to more but don't force it or you could lose his as a friend.