Would you rather have a one night stand or a relationship with a guy?
124215
YES,for once..Because all i thought he would be mind and until i still ask my self why did i do that?Do i look bitch?!\nif were to choose one night stand or relationship witn a guy..I would absolutely choose the best. The relationship with a guy..because it s more intersting to have a relationship than without.
399340
You should definitely go with the guy that you'd have the most fun with. Going with the guy you like may not be the best idea unless you're sure he's into you too, otherwise the whole night you'll catch yourself stuck impressing him and feeling hurt when he doesn't goggle over you. Dances should be fun so take advantage of that and go with a guy that you are great friends with and comfortable being with! Good luck with your decision!
551871
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
277819
i think that's the best kind of guy as long as you don't plan on setting her up.  i think that shows you have balls and your not looking for a one night stand and shows that your at least half way mature. well good luck i'd respect you if that was me you were talking about. any guy that does that deserves props. well good luck with the lucky girl.
126848
I would go for the second choice, because in the long haul of things this guy probably wouldn't cheat on you or lye to you. The first choice would because all he has is his looks to worry about. He wouldn't be worried about you.
443703
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
641930
i say both cuz i would love to ride a mans face and jus to sit back and enjoy wat a man is doing to me..so i would say both
147086
if you have done something which was having sex with different guys in just one-night-stand...so you must be a flirt... if you have never done such things...so you are not flirt...better to be a good and ideal woman...
211401
I would get to know him better before messing with him. But messing do mean sex? I would definetly hold off. Unlsess you don't want something serious then heck go for it.
457127
go with both dude... it is not realistic to think that you'll be with 1 person your whole life, might as well get a head start
220017
join the club honey. i'm with a guy that wants us to be friends one week and then friends with benefits the next wekk....well, it really does suck to only be wanted for sex, but at the same time....he aint going anywhere else for it is he. if you're comfiortable in that type of relationship...then go for it
478091
IT WOULD TAKE AT LEAST SIX MONTHS FOR ME.  I LIKE TO MAKE SURE THAT THE PERSON I SLEEP WITH IS GOING TO BE WORTH IT.  \n\nI TAKE PHYSICAL INTIMACY VERY SERIOUSLY, AND I AM VERY CAUTIOUS ABOUT THE KIND OF MEN I GET INVOLVED WITH.
415484
i've only been out looking once.. \nstumbled upon it twice..and well, here's the thing..as a woman, i'm kind of looking for a guy who is sexual..and is going to give me what i want that night.. \nmindless, mindnumbing, meaningless sex.. but still a good time.. \n\nseriously, the last one night stand (not intentionally) i had was great.. we ended up back at my place around 2..and we uhmm ya know for a while.. and then had to take a break about 4.. we laughed, joked and had a good time before ya know.. uhmming some more..and then another break.. basically the morning ended with a lot of fun..and a lot more of uhmm..\n\nit's like i don't want to feel trashy after a one night stand, but i still want great sex.. \n\ni go into my regular bar..we get a lot of drifters in and out..i went one night with the intention of hooking up with someone..edned up leaving with someone else, and then hooking up with a completely different person.. odd i iknow..but serioiusly, i was determined to have sex that night.. and for some reason it seems guys decide to have a conscience now.. "i don't want to use you as a one night stand.. but can i get your phone number and we can hang out tomorrow?" wtf??\n\nthe next time.. i was just hanging out with people..and it just happend..and it was mindblowing good time.. \n\nso if you're going into a bar with the intention of a one night stand.. i would recommend going to somewhere you don't want to necessarily return to as the regulars will know the story..or go to wher eyo know you're going to get what you are looking for..
166279
You have to decide for yourself, can you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life and are you sure that you arent jumping into the first thing that seems like a relationship without getting to know the person. sex shouldnt be an issue until you have become best friends with him. take it slowly that way you won't get hurt
302063
Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
659998
I dont! I would rather have a man's man complete with beer belly and the lot. There is nothing less sexy than a man who looks like he took longer to get ready than you (the tall, dark handsome ones are probably not what they are cracked up to be anyway)
124753
First off..let's not act like guys are the only ones out for a piece of @$$!! "MC Rob Base" Said is best.."It takes two" Now, to answer your question...it depends on the mood I'm in. If I want a committment..then I'm cool with waiting. If I'm just trying to have a fling..then sometime in the first few weeks is cool. As for a first night kinda girl..well I've NEVER met one. I'm not the kind of guy women fawn over and want to go home with. I'm a committment guy..plain and simple even if that committment is a month.