i really like this guy who isn't in any of my classes anymore and i first just want to get to know him more, but i have no way to do it! i dont want to just go up to him all randomly because that would be really stupid and awkward.
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i have had that same problem but i am a boy and it worked for me i told a friend and he told the girl i liked and she liked me too.i just say tell a friend
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If you were still working in the school, it might be best to approach him slowly, as a rapid approach does carry some added risk of rejection.  However, under the circumstances, a subtle approach simply isn't an option.  Do it or don't do it.\n\nDoes he know you by name?  If you were to call him, how difficult would it be for him to know who you are?\n\nHere's an idea, if you want to be just a little on the sneaky side.  Call him up on the weekend, and ask if he has a few minutes to meet with you.  A coffee shop or pancake house might be a good place to arrange a meeting.\n\nIf he asks for a reason, tell him you may have lost something in his classroom, perhaps a piece of jewelry, and you're wondering if he may have found it.\n\nAt this point, he has two choices.  He can assure you that he hasn't seen it, or he can agree that it would be a good idea for the two of you to get together to discuss the matter.
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well u should try to stop him in the hall and try to say hi\nalso when u see him try to flirt a little \njust make sure its not too much\nalso see if there is another activity that he does that u can go into \njust make sure u like that certain activity \neven though u don't see him anymore in that class \nsee if u can get his number so u can call him sometime\nand u guys can chat \nwhoa that was alot \nhope u get him to notice u and i hope that was good advice
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You don't have to change yourself to get a guy to notice you. Find out if he's interested in anything you are. Then work up a conversation from there. This last school year my friends and I  were anything but popular. Then just days after school ended I was at my friends house (yes the ones that are unpopular)  when we invited a really popular guy to go to the park with us. We had tons of fun and stayed out till after cerfew. It was easy to talk to him when I just took the time to.
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I think you should just ask him to dance!  You don't have to let him know that you like him, just ask to dance.  Then maybe you can chat while dancing so he can find out more about you, and you can find out more about him.  \nYou may find out he isn't who you thought he was or maybe you will find out he really likes you too.\nMake sure you come across casual, and not desperate.
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I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
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if you're afraid of rejection, you're not ready.  Be casual.  Offer coffe or lunch or something, or invite him along to this or that place under the pretense that you're bored and/or lonely (but not pathetic).  You buy.  Get to be friends.  Maybe he'll look at you a little differently once he gets to know you a bit  :-)
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you don't have to make a big move... just start talking to him more and see if he maybe wants to hang out some time... if you never take the next step you will never know what could happen
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well after saying hello to him\nmaybe try to start a conversation with him im assuming u know something about what he likes and if u don't maybe talk to people that know him,to make starting the conversation easier \nand if u r really game maybe even ask him out, \nGood luck hope it goes well for you
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at this point, you have got to be strong gurl! its kinda hard getting a guy thats shy too, just like you... so, do anything that you think will get his attention... by just approaching him, you will get his attention.. tell him you want to be friends with him.. and when you guys do become friends, tell him you wanna get to know him more.. and you wanna hang out... if he does agree... go somewhere quiet... tell him that its hard for you to say this at this point, but tell him that you really like him a lot.. and then ask him what are his feelings and tell him to be honest... and if he tells you his true feelings, and tells you that he does also likes you, then you've done it gurl!! good for you! but if he doesnt like you, dont worry! you have so much more years ahead of you.. im sure you'll find a guy thats so much hotter and cuter than that guy... and he might even like you back too :)
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i can relate to this.\nwhat i suggest is that you try to open up a bit. it's hard, and takes time, but if you become more outgoing, he won't be too intimidated if he was too approach you. in situations like this, it's YOUR turn to make the first move. start small talk, ask him how his day has been, smile (rather frequently), and just don't think about what you're gonna say. let it out. a friend of mine suggested this to me, and it worked, i suggest you try this yourself. usually if he's staring at you, he in fact, DOES like you.\nyou go girl, get out there and get that guy ;D
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Wow, what's amazing is that I'm going through the same thing right now, except in a different setting. See how he is towards you outside of school. Flirt with him, sit on his lap, hold his hand, any kind of gesture will make him wonder, "Hey, does she like me as well?" or "Maybe I should ask her out." What ever you do gets you one step closer. But as far as I can tell, I would go for it. Why don't you give him your number so he can call ya sometime. If you want to continue finding out if he likes ya, go out on a couple more dates. Hope I Helped!
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That depends.  Are you comfortable making conversation with people you don't know?  Do you ever see him outside of class?  Speaking from a guy's perspective, it's refreshing (at least for me) for a girl to approach me.  That allows things to naturally progress.  If he likes you, he'll probably show you or tell you somehow, but if you never approach him, you're limiting yourself.  Chances are, if you walk up to him and introduce yourself, he'll more than likely get the hint that you like him.  But, there's only one way to find out if that's true!
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Do you know him? If not, then walk right up and introduce yourself to him. If you know each other, then, when you see him again, why not invite him for lunch. Find out what things you have in common, then use those to get his attention. (example: Like going to the theatre - Stage not movie? Buy a couple of tickets, offer the "spare one" to him. If he doesn't want it, then take some other friend or give them to a charity or whatever you want to do.)Good Luck!
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If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
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are you friends? if not, thats probably the easiest way to start out.\n\nfirst of all, whenever you see him say something as simple as hi. after doing this for a bit, your hellos can start to be accompanied by hugs. then once you two start hanging out, poke him in the stomach every once in a while, if he pokes back, thats a good sign =P\njus try talking to him and hanging out with him more, try and see what he is interested and have a good time befriending him. \n\nspending more time togethr will aloow him to find out who you truly are. if he starts showing signs of interest, then you are gettin somewhere =P\n\nalso, when you think the time is right, never be afraid to make the first move.\n\nremember that and good luck!\n\n =)
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yea there's this guy who i like AL0T but he doesn't seem lik he wants to hang out/see me wit me outside of school even though we hug and sometimes talk a lil bit. he didn't even ask me fo my number! so idk ... just try not to stay at tha same level. everyday, talk more. then when you have tha courage ta ask him if he wants to go and hang out then do it. i know i'm still waiting for that day.