im being accused of theft, yet he has no evidence and is going balls- out to prove i did it(which i didnt)...he has basically ruined my relationship with many people and i dont know what to do?
135404
Looks like you have a problem.  If he is not going to the police and press charges it might be best to just leave it alone.  If this person is in your office, do not add more fuel to the fire by denying what is a lie.  A lie can not have legs unless you give them legs.  You have I suppose stated you did not steel anything, and that is the end of the issue.  There can be no proof, cause you have nothing that he can prove you have done.\n\nI would distant myself from him.  Make sure you protect yourself, so as he does not try to set you up in one way or another.  \n\nIf there is a superior you can go to have him put a stop to his actions at least at work.\n\nThose that know and love you will take you at face value.  Do not disappoint them. Stay true to yourself and get on with your life.  Those of your relationships that would believe a lie, then let them go.  as they say, "friends like that you don't need."  Make new ones.\n\nBy the way, I am taking you at face value and believe you.  Now walk in the truth and put the lie behind you.
95683
I would probably try to get a hold of something personal of his...and tell him he can have it back when you get your $300!\n Going to court will teach him a lesson...but it may leave you out of pocket!\n Could you get another family member to talk to him about it?
597622
You do not owe him ANY explanation, period...what happened to you is tragic, but it happend before you met him, period. Did he tell you everyone he slept with...and did you really care. Well, except for sympathizing with you, which he certainly should...being molested is not a nice picture, as you well know, he has nothing to stick his nose into here. He is, in my opinion, crossing over a line that cannot be turned back on..in fact, I would seriously consider divorce, and I rarely tell that to anyone here...In fact, I am the first to say work it out...but he is accusing you of something that is a horror story to you. He is an immature, childish boy, not a man. Dump his butt and take all you can get from him. See a lawyer now. It is not going to get better with time. You deserve much better than this.
133423
Sounds like someone got a hold of him and told him something nasty about you.  You might to want to set the record straight.
63244
Talk to a lawyer and do not discuss the case with anyone else without your lawyer's advice and, preferably, his presence...whatever you say could be "discoverable" meaning it could be used against you by the prosecution if this mess goes to trial... and do provide your lawyer with any and all evidence you have of the boy's anger toward you and any evidence you have that he's been dishonest or in trouble in the past...if this goes to trial, discrediting him could be very important to your defense.\nGood luck!
491158
My recommendation is contact your local police department and inform them of what is going on, they could put you in contact with the proper law enforcemetn authorities that handle "Cyber-Crimes".  Try to think, who you angered to the point that they want to harm you.  why do they want to harm you?  Can this person find you?
240921
Well I wouldn't accuse him of anything....but I would watch very closely for any future "disappearances" or "unusual" behavior and then maybe confront and/or leave him.  Good luck! :)
623066
Go to the police station and file a report. That will put him on their records. Although he probably needs to have done something to you or someone you know in order for them to accept it. But threats count as "doing something" so you can say he verbally threatened you or someone you know and you are afraid that his actions will go farther and you want to just make the report so the cops will know if anything does happen. Talk to them and they'll help you go about it the right way.
53050
You can't sue him what is it with people wanting money for noting now days. Try calling the police with a disturbing the peace charge.
649523
The other posters above are correct in that you should contact the police and give them every piece of evidence that you have. Also contact a civil attorney though, and get the ball rolling on a civil suit to collect the money owed to you.
241166
Confront him about it. The truth will set you free:)
216170
Contact him again telling him you will allow him 2 more weeks -then you will report him to E-Bay - Also if I sent money already I would  report him to the police -chances are he's done this before and you are not he only victim- I was friends with a guy until he started stalking me because he wanted to date me and I only wanted to be friends so I went down to the police station and filed re-straining order- turns out he had a warrant for his arrest for fraud on E-bay - he would post a pic of a high price stereo or other item and when he got the money he would send the customer a box of books or a broken appliance- The officer gave me a copy of his report it was 5 pages long of all the scams he did- Just be careful - I heard the safest way to order from E-bay is to order from those who use Pay-pal cause I heard they will refund your money\nGood Luck
470438
Definitely think about a restraining order.  That's probably a good idea, and by the way, you might consider keeping your cool..Just a thought.  It will look good if you guys have to go to court for any reason.  Otherwise, they might throw that in your face.  Be careful.  If he starts causing problems, call the cops immediately.  Where I live, that doesn't really help, but at least you would have given it a shot.
65615
Wow, sounds horrifying for you.  Sorry.  First, start gathering evidence, everything you have and can get, to substanciate your accusations.  Also, I believe the Public Defender is protected against hold harmless laws, so maybe you can file a complaint through the District Attorney's office? Start researching this through the state website where you live.  There is much information on each State's site.  Begin researching now before your statute of limitations runs out.\nGood luck to you on this difficult battle my friend.
137755
Watch the tape with him, and point out why it cannot be you.\nIf he doesn't have a tape he is a psycho. Or he's just bluffing to try to get you to "tell the truth". And that's just sick.\nIf he doesn't trust you over something someone else said, he is not worth your time, and will never trust you, because there is nothing you can say or do to prove your innocence. My ex boyfriend played little mind games with me all the time, and didn't trust me. People with trust issues like that have one of two things wrong with them 1. he was cheated on before and can't trust anyone anymore 2. He himself is not trustworthy. Take your pick. He's probably got more issues than a news stand. I'd dump him. I know it sounds tough, because you have some history, and you probably love him if you're going through the trouble of trying to make things right, but seriously, if he doesn't believe anything you say, do you think you can be happy with him?
565804
well the nieghbor can only ACCUSE your husband....the police in conjunction with the DA charge someone...but only if there's proof....and it doesn't really sound like there's any proof....if you have items missing from your home, hopefully it's something noticeable like a computer or a refrigerator, something that is readily noticed as missing will go a long way in proving innocence for the husband.....
622175
You can contact any Civil Lawyer adn they can help. If someone stole his identity it wuold not reflect in his background investigation, mainly just he credit. If he has in fact commited these crimes than you need to get a crimminal attorney and try to have them expunged.