i really like this guy but i think he may just wanna get in my pants. What do I do? Should I let him get in my pants or tell him that I am not interested in going out?
126544
How about going out with him alone and not putting out?\nYou DO have a choice in the matter you know.
140609
You: Hey, are you going to the dance? Him: Yes. You: Oh, are you going by yourself? If it's yes, ask if he'd like to go with you, if it's no, ask if he's going with friends or does he have a date. If he has a date, you can just casually say, "Oh,she's nice. Hope to see you both there!" If it's just with friends, you can still ask if he wants to go with you. If he says he's not going at all, ask if he'd like to go with you.\n Keep it casual, light and friendly. If he turns you down completely, there's no reason to be embarrassed. You were just making conversation. Good luck!
77551
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
630602
I think jeans and a t-shirt are sexy. Maybe he JUST SEES YOU AS A FRIEND. Don't try to hard that's not cool. Make him chase you, just don't show as much interest, maybe then he will be like dang, i kinda really like her now that she's not sweating me anymore. Good Luck.
349448
WOW fall in love.. thats a dumb Idea... don't think he loves you .. he might like you... and might wanan get in your pants... but.. yes i am sure he likes you .. just ask him out...
675602
I dont want to grab him.\n\nMaybe you should think more mature and ask him out?\n\nAnd respect your body.
267361
Well, You like him, right? so make the move. He is too shy to ask you to go out or some' maybe. Just send something like, Hey!! if not you'll never know. Give a try, and you'll find out. He will be flatter
579356
Go for it sista...who knows he's probably waiting for you...What would you rather do? Tell him, ask him out to get it off your chest and have an oppertunity? Or Don't tell him, and end up depressed, and desperate? Go for it!! <333
361501
sounds like he's up to something, tell him how you feel and even suggest going along with him when he goes out its only fair since he has to be with you when you go out with guys....
260650
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
256821
In every relationship, there is a person who likes to dominate, and a person who likes to be taken care of.  There is nothing wrong with either type, it takes both to make a relationship work.  In this case, it sounds like you both want to wear the pants.  It's going to take some compromise on both your parts.  The man is traditionally the one who provides, and he enjoys doing this for you, so why not sit back and relax a little and let him take over?  It takes a lot of trust to let this happen, which will only bring you closer together.  I'm an independent woman so I used to have the same issue that you had...it took me a while to appreciate a man who opens doors, pays the check at the restaurant, and takes care of me...now I wouldn't settle for anything else.  Good luck to both of you.
368824
sounds to me like he really wants to go out with you - his problem is that he's not v experienced at all this and probably feeling a bit insecure.  \n\nhe's doing what he can to try and find out what's going on in your head and to see where he stands.  \n\nif you like him and the above is true i'd give him the benefit of the doubt and go out with him - have fun and take things at your own pace but reassure him and make sure you're ultra honest.\n\njust my opionion - if it makes sense might be right!!!!\n\nhave fun xxx
183231
tell him the door locks from the inside and if he leaves it will be locked.  Why does he think the world revolves around him? let him know you can hook up as fast as he can and the next guy will not play his games. Letting anyone try and boss you around or get you to be afraid they will leave is wrong.  You probably have more going for You than he does.  Do not put yourself down or worry about his leaving but if he does do not let him back.
5440
You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
120536
tell him that you like him, and ask if he'd want to go out to a movie or something as more than just friends. If he says no..don't sweat it. There are plenty of men out their. I'm sure you're a cute girl, you can have anything you want if you work hard enough for it. Good luck! If he turns you down then you're too good for him anyways
608997
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
579399
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!