This guy acts like he likes me, but I -finally- got the courage to ask him out, he said he doesn't really wants a girlfriend. I respected that, and that was about last september. My friend asked him if he was ready for a g/f yet and he said no. That was probably, yesterday. I'm trying to get over him, but I can't. I really like him, but I don't know what to do. Help! Please?!
124990
Be a friend, & ask him to introduce you to his guy friends that like to date girls.
539595
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
300192
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
148838
well if this happens a lot than maybe he isn't even worth your time. try and talk to him though the next time. maybe you should ask him if he want to date. if he doesn't than hes just looking for a friend. just be his friend. you don't have to go after every guy that you have fun with one time or another. just be friends and in time you two will get to know each other better and then maybe you will be able to date him. get to know each other better before you think that you two are good together. be friends for a while first and get to know him. i really hope everything works out for you!
189611
If he already has someone, don't try to hit on him or anything. And you said that you don't think he likes you. If I were you, I'd just try to get over it.
515510
Good Lord woman!  Before I finished reading this, I already knew you shouldn't get into this relationship in that capacity, just be friends and let it be, perhaps later in the future w/o pushing things, maybe things will change, maybe.  If he was interested, he would've let you know already.  Obviously, in his subtle way, he is not interested, get a clue!  You say he still dates other girls, well, that should be enough to tell you he's still not ready or willing to commit to a relationship.  By all means, don't force a relationship!  Relationships should be easy, mutual and wonderfully exciting.
238172
I think you said it best yourself. "HE LIKES ME AND TWO OTHER GIRLS BUT HES NOT READY TO DATE YET" but let me make it more specific.  "HES NOT READY TO DATE YET". I think you have all you need to know. Start the moving on process.
519507
Considering that he has already asked you out in the past (even if it was a few years back), half of the work is already done. It sounds like he already has feelings for you. I think that what you should do is start talking to him again.. don't just jump right into the relationship, start off talking to him, talk to some friends of his to see if he is single, and if that is not possible.. be like "Your girlfriend's lucky.." and test the waters. Most likely he will then at that point say "I'm single" or "Yea, she is" This would probably be a good indicator. You may not use the exact phrase, but whatever you choose to that extent should take care of that problem. My advice is, gee, just to get the friendship built back up, and get it to where you feel comfortable with him and want to get into a relationship. Just keep in mind, that no matter what happens, it will happen in its own time, no need to hurry things along.. Good luck!
474780
It should be pretty obvious when a guy likes you... Since guys are the ones who usually do the "chasing" or courting... Some signs are him calling you a lot either to talk or to hang out, playing around with you, dropping subtle hints, and then eventually asking to take you out on a date. So unless the guy just doesn't want a girlfriend, it shouldn't be that confusing, unless he's playing games... In which case your best bet would be to forget about him.
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Don't mess with things if he has a girlfriend. If he's starting to get feelings for you, then he'll break up with her and start persuing a relationship with you. If you find it hard not to flirt with him, then focus on your other friends and give yourself some space from him. If you like him, you shouldn't want to interfere with his happiness. Don't try to talk about it with him, just see how things unfold.
668739
Sounds like he likes you. So go for it. Maybe he had feelings for you which is why he had broke up with his girlfriend. He wants you and now he wants to see how you feel about him. Let him know by flirting back, hang out more, talk more and see how things work out.
664746
Giggles,giggles, giggles!!!!\nWhat's up?\nAre you still trying to figure out what to do about dude?\nLook let's just look at it this way, okay If he dissed you once because of a female (that was there before you, might I add)\nWhat's to stop him from trying to do it again?\nNow you know I do not lie to you right?\nLet me tell you the low-down on guys, If you let a guy get away with something once they will do it again, just because they can and they know you will put up with it.\nNow If you KNOW FOR A FACT that you & him will not get into some serious type relationship and it's cool that HE knows that you are not avaiable to him  and the same goes for you as well then I would say go for the "THE HOMIE" thing, just do not get confused on the terms of what "HOMIE" means.\nAre we talking about "Homie-Lover-Friend"\nIf so It will get very complaicated before the summer ends, and you know what I am talking about right?\nPlease Giggles just remember he do have a girlfriend, and like I told you before do not be surpised if there may be more than one girlfriend okay?\nAnd always think like this:     "How would I feel if MY boyfriend was seeing a chick on the side"\nLet me know how it turns out okay?
456941
I had this same problem not too long ago. He made me feel like I was already his gf but I wasn't. He asked me out a couple times but I always thought of it as a joke, because he told me he liked these other girl(s). So my advise to you is, don't fall for it just yet. He might of liked you last year and maybe likes you this year too. But just to make sure ask him in person if he was just kidding or if he really meant it. Hope my advise helps you.
341380
I think he just says he likes you so he can bang you! When you ask him out he says no because he doesn't want to be tied down to one person.  He wants free range to whatever hot chick will have him.   If you wanna have fun play some games with him, if your looking for a relationship dont bother find someone else who cares about you and your feelings!
379922
I think you should go out with him and get to know him before you decide to pursue a relationship. You should let him know that you are not ready to jump into a relationship, after all you have been through stress. I hope he doesn't think that you are gullible and try to use you, but you cant just judge someone and not give them a chance. Proceed with caution.
213064
Yes, just start doing other things and realize that even though you have feelings for him, he obviously doesn't have them for you. He actually had to lie about having a girlfriend just so you would leave him alone.\nSo realize that you deserve someone who loves you back and cares about you back and that he is not the one. I know you think he is and that once he gets to know you, he will realize it, but sweetheart, that really isn't the case. You can't make someone care about you. As much as we like to think we can, we can't.\nSo hang out with friends, meet knew people and before you  know it, you will forget all about him. It won't happen overnight, but it will happen. It takes time.