im not trying to sound morbid, but whats the point of working so hard for vanity that your going to lose anyway? especially when everyone claims that beauty is on the inside anyway. is everyone just lying? im not fat so i dont have grudges againt toned people, i just dont see the modivation. enlighten me.
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i agree in the words of happy bunny book of life: \n\n "Exercise daily, die anyway"
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Sure you are pretty and even though you don’t want to hear about the inside pretty the boys don’t only look at the outside they look at the inside too. How could people on this site tell you that you are not pretty, as you do not have a picture of yourself up? And even if you did it might not be a good one and some people do not photograph as well as others but that does not mean they are just as pretty as the other. As the saying goes - God made you the way you are and he don’t make no junk. There are plenty of girls that are not pretty that get lots of boyfriends and don’t you settle for someone beneath your standards. It’s really nothing to worry about, you are what you are and make the most of it.♫
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The only logic behind it is people will always happily tell you that you look great because they are making sure you dont look better than them. Its a fickle old world and will never change but at least you can get yourself wiser to the fact.\nMe? I always tell the truth no matter how much it offends people because i actually get more fun out of that. (instead of pissing up their backs) and because i'm evil :)
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I felt a little guilty reading this. You are right. We say that we just want a good man, but we look at the abs too. I am short and have a lot of boobs and junk in the trunk, but no junk anywhere else, so thank you for giving me and other women like me respect. I am not fat (fab abs.. gotta brag a little work hard at them) but educated, but I do see your point. (@blonde coley) For all the trash that you just talked, honey you better be a perfect dime peice. To talk that much trash, you need to make at least 100,000 a year, have a PhD. and be the most desireable thing that ever walked the earth. My guess is that you probally are not. I wonder how many heads that you turn at the beach..What makes me sick is when an inadequate person tries to find fault in others. You have to be lacking to be so angry. Before you say that I must be heavy, no baby, I have DD with a 25" waist and booty, but I am confident enough in myself to not have to put someone down to feel better about myself. I have a feeling that you are the skinny, pale guy at the beach that have his shorts pulled up really high in the front, with the swim flippers on.(or the girl that looks like the skinny pale guy)
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yes, I think everyone feels that way at one time or another. It's really hard because the media pushes everyone to be perfect looking (skinny, extra beautiful, perfect hair and skin). I feel that way sometimes, but I just have to accept how God made me. Besides, if everyone looked the same, it'd be boring. That doesn't mean that if you are fat(not saying you are) that you shouldn't do something about it. Just do your best to exercise and eat right, and just like yourself the way you are.
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Why? Because some people  are here only for the purpose of starting drama. Some people have been programmed that they are right all the time, 24/7. Some people will stop at nothing to prove that they are somehow better that you, and often do not consider the consequences of their actions. Every day I am forced to watch as people degrade themselves and others trying to give themselves the satisfaction of a false superiority.
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It is possible that you are not satisfied with wht you are doing.. YOu are not satisfied with your life style. Obviously, you do not have a high esteem.. Are you attempting to compare yourself with others who you think are perfect or near so?
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I used to be teased also when I was younger and struggled with my weight and its really hard especially when it comes from your own family! Now being older I realise noone else is going to do it for me...I have to deal with it and I'll show them but in a healthy way. People like to critisize without giving you any advice even family members sometimes, maybe they have insecurities they are covering by putting the focus on your insecurities and really your family should be the role models and foundation for your well being growing up in the first place! If you are worried and want to lose weight so you can lead a healthy and happy life then do it for yourself. Do you have a good doctor you can talk to and they will be very matter a fact with you and let you know from a medical point of you if you need to lose weight or not. I really enjoy pumping the music up and putting an aerobics dvd on or getting my mp3 and going for a walk. It lifts my mood while Im gettting fit and know Im doing it because I deserve it!
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HONEY, \nLET US STOP BEING MYOPIC ABOUT WEIGHT. WHO SAID THAT ONLY SKINNY GIRLS ARE BEATIFUL OR ATTRACTIVE. BEAUTY IS A PACKAGE WHOSE CONTENTS CAN BE APPRECIATED OR DISLIKED BY THE MASSES. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEREFORE BECOMES WHAT IS MY INNER PACKAGING MADE OF? AM I A PRODUCT OF HIGH QUALITY WHICH LACKS PACKAGING OR AM I A PACKAGING OF HIGH QUALITY WITHOUT A BRAND NAME OF SKINNY ATTACHED TO IT.
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You know what, sweetie?  This world is so focused on the outward appearance that it is a darn shame.  We are who we are and God made us this way.  Unfortunately people feed on Hollywood and glamor.  There are those out here that don't judge on looks...it's what's inside that really matters.  We are all children of God....if you are happy, then who cares!  AND.......\n\nThe response before mine....that life.....was made by someone who has no regard for feelings and has no business even responding.  RUDE.....you should be turned in and not allowed to be in this space with answers like that!\n\nYou, my 270lb. friend, take care and God bless.  The weather is so nice, take walks at lunch...that might help!
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... why are people seriously giving you tips on losing weight? even if it is through healthy means, you don't need tips on losing weight.\n\nand the fact that you were anorexic isn't even the main reason that i say that.. i say that because you are a perfect weight for your height and DO NOT need to lose weight!
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Dude-- I'll be honest. I don't know what you're trying to get at. Either you're trying to prove a point but in a wrong way, or you're just plain being mean. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is all a matter of opinion. I don't want to give you advice because I am sure that other answerers will... I just hope you learn something positive from this question...
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you just lose your self confidence, i think you;re not really bad inside , because you think you are ugly ,you try to hurt people  i think you experienced that when you're not good looking people dont care about ur inner side ..so you want to act like this to take advantage on people ...am i right?
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well, a lot of people post pointless questions on here just to build up points and such. you've just got to sift through the 'look at me' questions, like this one, and find the serious ones and try to give an honest attempt to helping.
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I work in a salon w/all girls so I hear it all from: I lost my workout shoes, its that time of the month- so I need chocolate and junk, or - what sounds better that fruit cup or that cupcake(encouragement from another co-worker).  I don't have time to  eat good food in this profession so snacking on junk is what happens when you got 1 minute to stuff your face. Bathing suit season is still a couple months away. In one breath -my boyfriend bet me $50 if i get my body like Jessica Simpson in 6 weeks in another breath when the diet fails- guys like thicker girls anyway.
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...food..everyone misses the most important aspect..exercise...if people would exercise more they would not have to worry so darn much about food...Are you really serious about doing this? We are talking about hard work. Putting down your little debbies, getting off your butt and not only going on a diet but EXERCISING!!! Even if you lose the weight it will come right back if you do not have the desire and motivation to not only look cute but to be healthy. it is going to take alot of inner strength I can assure you of that. \n\n1.) eat 4-5 small meals a day\n\n2.) drink lots of water\n\n3.)exercise every day\n\n4.) do not eat 4-6 hours before you sleep.
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yes, sadly.  looks are so important in our world that people only see the outer layer of our beings.  why should it matter if you are a little overweight? a little older? not too pretty?  these are the hidden prejudices.  and don't let anyone tell you they aren't there. \nolder employees are a valuable resource:\nolder women re-entering the work force aren't looking for husbands and trying to start families, so they would be more liable to stay in your employ longer.  \nolder employees aren't apt to be phoning in 'sick' [read hung-over /stoned from too much partying].\nmany men, and women, miss out on wonderful relationships because they are looking for that 'perfect' person.  and employers are the same. sad but true .\nif i were in h.r. i would be different from the norm and hire that gal that is a little frumpy or that fella with the 'not so perfect'  teeth as long as they fulfilled other qualifications.  i would suspect they would be far more loyal employees than the 'pretty ones' if only because i gave them a chance.  pretty people don't have to try as hard as they quite often can get by on their looks.\nhaving said all that there are exceptions to every rule!  my theory may not always prove to be right, but i'm thinking it is most of the time!