theres this guy and i like him ALOT and everytime im around him i get this weird feeling, when me him and my best friend chill 2gether, she seems to be all over him, i dont know how to flirt w/ him and let him kno i like him, and i dont know what to say to him or anything..sorry if this is lame
136719
Always be yourself thats why he should like you. The chances are he might be turned on by your friend but he probably has more respect for you. Let your bff know how you feel about him and after that start flirting, start to get into what he likes and talk about it with him.
524721
He knows you like him,. You know how he feels right now. Soo just be friends with him for now! Good luck
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
235713
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
279205
do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
190594
To me it sounds like he is falling for you as well. He probably makes fun of the other guys you like because he is jealous. If you really like him as much as you say, then he probably feels the same for you since he treats you so well. You should just tell him how you feel. And if his feelings are not the same then just remain friends. But honestly it sounds like he digs you!!
215350
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
377749
so do you consider this guy a friend ?? You really need to sit down and talk to him. Do you have feeling for him ? Sometimes guys like to play mind games to see how you feel about them. If he is your friend then you should be comfortable asking him. If you like him make the first move. Be flirty. Hug him, kiss his cheek. If he shys away after you talk to him let him know that nothing will change if those arent his feeling but unless you do this you will never know. Or you could be sneaky and date someone else to find out how he feels but this could lead to hard feelings. Would you rather have him in your life as a friend or a boyfriend ?? Remeber friends are harder to find then boyfriends. Good luck
343476
I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school.  We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend.  They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him.  Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him.  But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."\n\nWell, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out.  Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc.  So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.\n\nSee, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you.  I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you.  Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you.  Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him.  If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two.  But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so.  But in the right way.  Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.
45449
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
430009
He obviously likes you, but he's more into your best friend - yes, even though she doesn't like him.  Guys love a challenge!  He's all intrigued now because he wants to find out WHY she doesn't like him, if he's playing hard to get, and to prove to himself that he can get her in the long run.  He flirts with you because you're fun and he feels comfortable with you, plus he's also trying to make her jealous.  Don't be concerned with his feelings for her right now, continue to be friends with him, but also be a little mysterious and not quite as flirtateous back.  At the least you will have a good friendship with him, and who knows, when he finally realizes that your friend isn't going to suddenly love him to bits, he'll see you in an entirely different light.  Good luck!
430816
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
72752
if you like the guy, then hang out, do stuff together, help each other with really tough homework, call each other friends, tease each other... if "something more" is meant to be, then it will happen.\n\nit's not your decision whether she likes him or he likes her.\n\nwho "goes out" with who should be the combinations which "click" the best, when two people being themselves just "get" each other and enjoy being around each other.\n\nso if you and he (BOTH of you) click better together than he and she do... then just start hanging out and having fun with him.\n\nit sounds like you think you've got life figured out for all three of you - it doesn't work like that.  if you like him, do something about it - but it should be between you and him.  she might flirt with him also - he gets to make his own choice.\n\njust be honest and interesting and a good person, and flirting never hurt.  if he doesn't dig you, it's his loss, go find a better guy.
345972
If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
515470
Well, thats the same problem with me.But I mean exactly the same problem. Don't hang around him too much because he'll know that u like him. So what i would do, just tell him, "Hey, What's up?" and start a conversation with him to make him feel comfortable. Then ask, "Last year, we had good times. We talked a lot but why don't you speak to me anymore?" And then he might answer your question. But one thing i would like to clear to you, is about your best friend. My friend Brenda does the same thing:Wants every guys attention as possible. What you should do, join sports programs,drama club,etc to become popular and eventually, your crush might like you IF you did something good in basketba or any type of sport. Dont be nervous. Try it!
86732
Make a move.  Put yourself in a situation where the two of you are alone by yourselves.  Then just pull out all of your typical female tricks, touching of the arm, giggling like a fool and maybe leaning in a little too close to his face.  If he likes you he'll take this opportunity and lay one on ya.  This way your not making a fool of yourself by talking to him and finding out he doesn't feel the same way you do.  Talk is over-rated.  Oh and if he's spending this much time with you my bet is that he's hot for you too.  Guys don't have friends that are girls, they just hang around long enough to get in their pants.  GO FOR IT!!!
215775
OK here goes..LoL im in the EXACT same situation, only ive like my guy since 6th grade, EVERYONE constantly asks if we are dating, and tells us we might as well since we hang out all the time. i really wasnt sure if he liked me either, then one night at a party we were dancing really close and he told me how much he liked me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. it was really cute. Now we are datin and i couldnt be any happier!\n\nMy advice is GO FOR IT. tell him how you feel, because there is a really good chance he feels the same way. and just imagine how great your relationship will be if you make such great friends!\n\nand although its unlikely, if he doesnt feel the same about you then he will not want to throw away youre friendship over something like this. but judging by the fact that he asked you out already im almost 100% sure he feels the same way about you, and slapping you on the thigh is a definite sign, because my guy did that all the time. he is definitely flirting with you, its almost his way of saying he likes you. \n\nGOOD LUCK!!