me and my bf have been together for 2 years have a baby and we both love each other. but my question is he doesnt seem as affecinate as i want him to i dont just mean when it comes to sex hes good in that department with affection. i mean when we are just sitting watching a movie hes not like into cuddeling and stuff its just sex. can someone plz help. i hope that made some scence to someone
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he still loves you but the baby is over whellming the both of you for first time parents. i would suggest you to just take a night of leave him with his grandparents and have a night to yourselfs to just relax and chit- chat.
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It's okay. We can't be all lovey dovey every single time we are with our boyfriend. It's only natural... especially if you've been with him for a long time. EVENTUALLY it's gonna happen.\n\nJust yesterday, I met my boyfriend for lunch and we were hardly talking. LOL. I guess we were just too tired.\n\nEH.. it happens. Nothing to worry about.
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If you love him don't leave him but you do need to find out why you are having these feelings.  I think alot of people go through stressful times and become uninterested in sex.  It is also possible you may be having some hormonal issues.  If the problem doesn't get fixed soon though he may start to have a wandering eye.  I hope everything works out for you.\n\nGood luck and God Bless!  :)
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whats wrong with that..you just show your love with ur bf..ok.. explain to her ur side..and that scene is normal..i think shes old enough to understand that...
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well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
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I think it's the oppisite of what you may think it is.\n\nYou said that he's grabbing your butt, I doubt that that would mean that he doesn't find you attractive. I think it's obvious that he does. \n\nI think that it's possible that he is interested in having sex with you, but doesn't want to interrupt your sleep by waking you up and then feels embarrassed because he doesn't want you to catch him doing the most personal intimate thing you can do with yourself.\n\nMy boyfriend has done this to. I asked him about it and he said that he does it because he doesn't want to disturb my sleep. He also said that sometimes he does it, because it's the only time he gets to only think of himself, but that it didn't mean he wasn't "into" me, just an opportunity to be selfish, because he usually (always) puts my needs first before his own.\n\nWe all know that men think differently than we do, and they don't always openly communicate their feelings.\n\nYou should talk to him about it, especially if this is something that really bothers you. I'm sure you will find out that there is nothing to be worried about.
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I understand he might have fears about the baby, but other than that, I'm confused.  My husband actually requests more sex when he's stressed out.  It relaxes him.  I think he's being selfish personally.
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Sounds like a no. You have been having sex with him, probably living with him - he has no need to get married; you are giving him all that he wants and he is totally comfortable. Talk to him again, and get married before the baby comes!
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First make sure he feels the same way. Let things stay the way they are if the relationship is going good let it ride. If you've been intimate, then maybe you should make him a nice romantic dinner and express your feelings then. Other wise you might scare him off, don't want to do that. Go with your instances.
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i think it depends on age and what you want from a relationship.has this person got no interest in sex or is that just sex with you.by you asking this question you have doubts about being with this person, if nothings going  to change and you want it to, maybe you should think about splitting with this person and remaining good friends with them.\nas for me, coz im not the norm and if i really loved them,i would stay with them.
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mine cuddles with me and only when he too is tired. he is horny 99% of the time but kinda knows when i want it and not. i would wonder what was up if he stopped doing it one day. i tell him when im not in the mood and he respects that..  :)
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well your relationship sounds exactly like mine.  the thing with me is my gf trys to spice it up every way she can but i am most happy with it being simple and because we love each other. I dont know if this will help but Good lUck to you
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I wouldn't just have sex with him. Do something that would solely please him like a fantasy that he has. Do you kiss him for no reason? Like if you two are chilling just lean over and kiss him on any given spot just because it's there. Just do little things to show him that you are really feeling him, he's your baby and whatnot. Believe it or not but guys want to be spoiled by their girls every now and then.
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sex, for me, is a very sacred thing.it's only done when u both love each other.actually, there were many times that i & my boyfriend were together.i'm a female & as myself, when i'm with my boyfriend, i just feel like being with him.i don't care where we go or what we do.i don't even care if we don't have money to spend when we're together.what matters to me most is the time we're together, coz this soon will become memories bet.us, & it's healthy.even if he's been my boyfriend for about 3 yrs.,i don't invite him to make love.i just wait for him to say it 1st.when he does, then we do it..maybe u talk to ur gf about this issue.tell her that making love is with someone u love is normal.but make her understand that it's not always like that.it's not even the most basis of love.i mean it's a matter of showing love in other ways like showing u care for the person u love.tell her that the what makes a relationship bet.two people stronger are the memories u are together, & i don't mean having sex all the time.it's more than that.i know u know what i mean.sex is only for physical aspect, but the showing of the person that u care for him a lot is something most valuable & priceless.it's something not all can offer, especially when it's true.
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Eyes are the most beautiful thing in one's body..you can depict the entire character of the person by looking into their eyes..Its good to know that your bf admires your eyes but that shouldn't prevent him from sleeping with you..If he feels attracted to your eyes, he should be attracted to you more..and should be more intimate...I don't see that in your relationship...Next time, find  a bf who likes you for who you are and not just for  your eyes..Just my 2 cents...
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Maybe you should of been honest with him from the start about your children.  Why would you even hide the fact you have children, they are the greatest things on earth?!  You need help figuring out what is more important your children or your man.  \n\nYou actually seem like you may love your BF more than you children.
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Yes it can work. A relationship is so much more than sex. It's companionship, understanding, communications and much much more. However those three are areas you might work on.\n\nFirst companionship. You need to find activities outside the bedroom to enjoy. They might help you realize what you have in him and what you don't you really aren't missing.\n\nUnderstanding. Well you need to understand it's going to be work and you won't always get what you want. This means you have to compromise a bit. If you love him and he loves you. Then you both need to try and be the bottom for each other, be satisfied with what you have or open up the relationship (which I really think is a big mistake).\n\nLast communications. It is fine to ask others for help and advice. It may help you see and decide what your situation is, what it means to you, what he means to you. However in the end you need to talk to him about your feelings and need as does he.\n\nThe fact you are out here asking for help means to me you care a great deal about him and this relationship. My personal thought and advice, get a lot of lube and try the other side. Let him know you're willing to try this if he is and stay together. It's worth it.