there is a roomer going around that i am engaged and it is so totaly not true. how do i find out where it started?
120005
rumour deary, rumour.\n\nYour solution:  if you hear anyone say "she is engaged", \n1)ask them kindly who told them.\n("oh, I just heard it" is not an acceptable answer.  Insist they tell you.)\n2) Then, ask the same question to the person they heard from.\n3) continue until you find the original source.
86613
Just because that's on there doesn't mean it's the truth. I have seen people put lots of thing that they aren't.  Talk to her and get to know her.  That's the only way you will know for sure.
478877
I would have to say that you were snooping so if you bring it up, she will know that.  You should really wait to get hard cold proof if you are going to accuse her.  Good Luck!
588342
Approach one of your roommates behind your back and ask why she acts like that.  Then, if you do not get a satisfying answer, approach her.  Ask then, call a meeting and talk about your concerns...I guess this does sound a little corny eh.
177611
i think u should be honest..tell him exactly wat u've told us..if u want even mail him this question..show him how much u care for him..that u want others help in order not to hurt him..don't accuse him just ask him if he's happy where he's staying..no one reacts well wen being accused or screamed at..try to remember that..hope he opens his eyes to wats happening..take care
661753
I'm sure that if things were reversed and  you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been.  You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer.  Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you.  I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation.  After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not.  Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this.  Don't become a statistic.
269402
first do you really have any true evidence that she is... if not she will not appreciate an accusation... maybe she is going through something else?? maybe you should try just approaching her in a very caring manner and ask her if something is bothering her and being there for her.... sounds like something is up but you don't know what and don't create scenarios in your mind..... because you don't know
231503
Well, I know my roomate is on this site, then she met a guy through this website and later started to chat and next thing I know they're talking on the phone.She was totally telling/opening up to the guy she was talking to.
235612
Short of asking him (and getting a straight answer) - or asking someone that peaks over his shoulder - you have no way of knowing. If you did have a way it would violate his privacy and yahoo privacy policy. The same as how you have no way of knowing if he's REALLY not there or if he's logged in invisible - as they report the same. \n\nSorry!
618829
Sounds like your manager is a nosy gossip.\n\nShe should be checking things out herself instead of contacting others.  How does she know the info she receives from others will be correct?\n\nUnless there is something specific in the lease that states there can be no roommates or all tenants have to be on the lease, there really isn't much she can do.  She may not agree with what is going on, but unless the lease spells it out, she is just being a nose gossip.
78957
Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
241166
Confront him about it. The truth will set you free:)
314785
are you serious?? the best way is probably to contact the hotel she was working at...if you are lucky, she's still working there... but i doubt it...
251669
Normally, my advice would be to stay out of it BUT, this time, I would recommend that you say something...especially since it is your sister and she was in public not even being discreet!  Please do not confront her in front of someone though...do it  when you are alone together.  \n\nTell her that you saw her with a guy that was not _____ (her husband) and that you saw them holding hands and kissing.  Tell her that, since you stumbled upon them be accident, so can other people who know her.  \n\nDo not tell her that you saw her on someone's page...it will look like you are deliberately spying on her.  Do not include that information.\n\nYou would be not overstepping your bounds to ask her why she got married if she is going to hurt her husband and tell her truthfully that you don't want to see him hurt.  Good luck!
125752
Do you have a friend that could stay there on the day that she is moving out?  If so, ask them.  Instruct them what is yours, and if your roommate starts taking things that are not her, instruct this friend to call the police and have her arrested.\n\nGood luck
624015
This is a tough situation and there is no really good solution.\n\nRemember that what someone can "legally" do is not really a practical limit on what they may actually do. Worse still, you can have all sorts of legal rights but if the only way to exercise them is to go to court then the solution may be worse than the problem.\n\nThe only thing is really to get the stuff out right now. If the apartment is in the other person's name then she's not going to get any immediate help from the legal system.\n\nEDIT: From another question that you posted I'm now unsure if this is a room mate situation or a landlord-tenant case. Please clarify. It affects the answer.
64390
this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.