but he think that we are goin out. and when he called me yesturday i was sleeping, but when i woke up i called him back and we talked for a little bit, and than i asked him why he called me, and he said because his friend kalab wanted to talk to me and i was like ok, but he told him that i was his girlfriend and i was like ok, whatever. and than i was like what are you doing and he was like i am about to go to sleep. and i was like ok. and than he said that he is going to call me today, and i said that i was going to be busy with some stuff in the house. and than he was like ok. but i am goin to call him today and he better pic up. and i am goin to tell him that i dont like him. so what should i do about it?
137005
just tell them that your flattered but your just not into them...........sorry
436668
Quit calling him... him going out of town will maybe give him a chance to clear his head and realize that you are what he wants. If not, then you don't want someone who doesn't want you. He obviously cares or he wouldn't have introduced you as his girlfriend! exspecially to his friends. I would say back off and he will come around. Hope things work out the way you want!
616202
If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
342106
Since he has admitted to you that he has slept over at his ex-girlfriend's house, and since he has not changed his yahoo profile (not even after you have reminded him)... I think you should wait till he changes the profile, and wait to see if he mentions not sleeping over at his ex-girlfriend's house anymore, before agreeing to be his new girlfriend.\n\n Also... if you feel it is best to wait till you meet him, before agreeing to be his girlfriend, then you should definitly continue to insist that it is the only way you will do it.\n\nYou and your wishes/needs are important... so, if he does not agree to do it the way you need him to do it, then it would mean that he is going to do what he wants to do, and that you do not matter to him enough, that he would fiulfill your important needs.\n\nIn successful, caring/loving relationships... the needs/wishes of a partner DO matter (ARE important)... because each partner is VERY important to the other partner.\n\nWhat it all comes down to is>>> if he really wants you to be his girlfriend... he obviously needs to first be your boy-"friend"...friends certainly do care about one another's needs/wishes.\n\nI think you are already dealing with the situation in a wise way... don't let him push you into making the decision of being his girlfriend, till YOU are ready to do it.\n\nIf you give in to him about it before you are ready, then he may expect you to give him his way about other things that are against your wishes... just remember>>> YOU MATTER.
479753
hands with flowers and ask me.. but I am seeing someone already and the besy way he asked me out, was when he had those post note and jot down"will u go out with me sometime"
628967
YOU ALL ARE WRONG...LOL....when boi/man tells you he wants you by his side, he basically saying he wants you as his girlfriend/bestfriend to be there for him. When we say we want you by our side we are almost saying we want you to be there for us, experience things with us N do things with us, N all by our side. In no bad way is he saying what you think or that he nolnger wants you trust me. If you do not feel comfortable with my answer or the other ones, feel comfortable to ask him and im quite sure he will tell you.  Then once yall talk this will help with your comminucation with getting things off your mind to each other a little. Hopefully this helped you enough.
57586
I think you will be okay for tonight, just take it easy, and call him in the morning.\nThen ask him all the questions you want, and be specific...
21224
Generally speaking, "moving in together" is a huge step.  And it hardly ever works when a total stranger picks up and moves in to your home "just to move in". If you are questioning what you should do, I think you are getting strange vibes from this guy.  He could be blowing hot air and just saying that he wants to come and see you. But it seems unusual that he's discussing moving in with you so early in your acquaintance.  If I were you I would let him know exactly how you feel. And if it comes down to it, I'd stop talking to him.
76713
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
579399
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!
155154
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
407954
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
458903
hey.. hun...if he hugged n kissed u and says he wants to get back together after the semester,it means exactly that. If he would not have kissed u i would have said he jus wants to go out with other girls-but since he did i would definitly say thats not the case.....and don't worry he isn't using u.....\nhe dose not want to be with you right now because he feels pressure from school and feels he can't give u as much attention as u need and as he would like to give u,so he wants to break it off right now,jus have a little time alone to sort his mind out and get back together-don't worry i think he's a great guy and u should hold on to him-but do call him now n then to show him ur thinkin about him,it will go fine,believe me i've been there!\ntake care\n~Ally
201046
yes i do believe he is telling you something he got to sleep on the idea of you liking him. maybe he likes that idea too or that he is trying to tell you its okay...no hard feelings
526369
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
147728
sounds like the first logical thing you've done so far. good job, it will be hard, but just keep thinking about his responses when you want to call him
210987
I think he was just jealous that you said you were with Josh.  Once he heard you were with another guy, he felt like he had to have a comeback.  That's most likely why he said he has a new girlfriend.  You should sit him down and talk to him about how you really feel.  He's probably confused, so you should tell him that Josh is JUST A FRIEND.  Tell him you really like him & still want to go out with him, and ask if he really does have a girlfriend or not.  Good luck with this!