but i am not to sure it will work out because he is demanding and wants ever thing his way when i come home from school i have to call him when i go to the store i have to call him every where i go i have to call to say that i am going out. what to do
127529
well look try not to let him tell you what to do cause I mean I know he want you to tell him as a concereation but DAMN..he over passing his limit.
582075
Well, you must call him...he is busy worrying about his business, you are worrying about the relastionship so you must be the one to try to hold it together.  Best wishes
4709
Sounds like he has some issues to resolve before he can give you the attention you deserve.  I'd give him a framed picture of you - the two of you if you have one - and write your phone number on the back with a note that says, "Call me when you're ready to give US a try," then sign it all cutesie.  After that, I'd say talk to him on the phone, hang out if you want, but remind yourself (daily, if you have to!) that he is really not ready for you, and don't get hung up on him.  And don't buy him Christmas presents - a card will suffice until he's ready to be yours.  Oh, and one more thing:  don't ignore other guys while you're waiting for him to come around!  You may miss an awesome opportunity.
269763
Your doing the right thing by going home. If he gets mad, too bad! if he really loves you, he would want what was best for you....Until he gets his shyt together and move you into a place you can call home, I wouldn't worry about it!
573378
Sounds like he's trying to push you away. Maybe he's trying to manipulate you in to kicking him out. Since he can't bring himself to do it on his own. Sorry ,but I can't see ANY reason to stay in a unsatisfying(emotional and physical) relationship.Then again maybe he has a a physical problem but the locked up laptop kinda blows that one away. Try consuling, if he's just interested in messing with your head drop him. It's not worth being unhappy year after year...
45494
He said he wants more of a chase.. Do that. make him chase you.. You are actually doing too much! Back off a bit..when you didn't call for two days that worried/challenged him.... thats exactly what he wants! Don't smother him and when you do talk to him, tell him you want him and no other..you don't want him to really believe that you have given up. But you do need to give him a challege. Be confident in yourself and act like the kind of girl any man would die to be with. When he tries to make a date to be with you, tell him you need to check your schedule first...don't be so easy to get!!
437132
Sounds like you need to have a talk with him.
614559
Geez ... do you press him to commit to call you ..."so will you call me later? Why can't you commit to just calling me? It would mean so much if you did? I'm sure the president calls Laura, can't you give me that much?" \n\nAny of that sound familiar? If not, listen more carefully to yourself next time. You should be comfortable with yourself, happy with the girl you see in the mirror and truly grateful when he does call you. Give him encouragement. Tell him how much you love to hear his voice when he does call. Demonstrate to him that he has a place of loving refuge with you. Give him that, and he will give you so much more.
656831
he wants you to do what you want to do but be teased first (maybe some dirty language-do you want it baby?) or something of that nature.  anything you wanna do will work unless he has his mind set on something and then he should tell you
377815
Just be careful...you're still very young!  Living with someone and dating them are two different things.  Its very diffcult, even when you have a good relationship.  Why don't you just stay there for the summer and see how things go...and if that works out then move in with him.  I wouldn't just throw my bag over my shoulder and go down there without a plan (i.e. a job lined up, a school that's accepted you).  Your mom is right in being concerned b/c it seems to me like you don't have a real plan other than moving in with your boyfriend.  If you want your mom to accept this plan you need to show her that you actually have a PLAN.  Just moving in is not a plan.  Apply to some schools down there, and apply for some jobs, and maybe she'll be more apt to support your move.
651129
Who knows what id going through his moind. One thing is for sure though. Hassling him will only push him further away if he is needing space. I know it's hard , but try not to call again. let him call you. Maybe he has just been busy. But if not, then when he wants to call you he will. If he doesn't call, then he isn't that keen and maybe wasn't worth the trouble in the first place.
361501
sounds like he's up to something, tell him how you feel and even suggest going along with him when he goes out its only fair since he has to be with you when you go out with guys....
460927
You need to speak with him face to face about this - so he can see your body language as well as hear your words - so much can be easily misconstrued in a phone call - reassure him all is ok but that you really need your own space too.
578254
Just let him know about how u feel about him moving away...if he decides to stay, great; but if not, don't "force" him to stay 'cause you might come off as being selfish\n\nGood Luck :)
1339
Girl,\nI am in a similar situation. You have to decide if he is "using" you as a safety net of sorts or just settling until something better comes along. Also, because I do not know the entire situation, you have to ask your self if he could also be using you for monetary gains, etc.  No matter the situation, if you are not 100% happy, you should walk. You are more important and your happiness is too.
439235
this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
306293
I am a single mother of two kids, ages 13 and 14, and i go to college full time.  I just ended a relationship with my boyfriend because he said i didnt havent time for him. He was always bitching so i fired him.  Anyway, i can see where you are coming from.  I talk to someone who lives far away, and i seem to feel like i have known this person forever.  He is really great!  Although, i do seem to have feelings for him, but i really dont think that will work out because of the distance between us.  If he lived closer, and to be honest, with everything that is going on with me now, im not ready for another relationship. Maybe when i get out of school, but for now, just me and my kids and my school work.  Of course, the kids come before everthing.  Anyway, not sure how to give u a straight up answer.  It could go either way.  Good luck with school. I think its great that your doing all that.  Im not working right now and going crazy with it all but i will graduate in December of this year and it will be all worth it!  What ever u do, dont let a relationship come before your son and your schoolwork.  You are working hard at a brighter future for u and your son.  You can do it!  You dont need a man to take care of you or your son. Does the guy live close by?  Anyway, I think it is possible to love someone you never met, but is it wise?  It seems kind of scary, but i wouldnt get my hopes up.  You have to be aware of the possible dangers, even if you talk to him all the time, doesnt mean that you truly know him.  Watch yourself, for u and your son.  We have some real sickos out here.  Anyway, good luck with school and dont give up.  I cant tell u how many times i wanted to give up.  Just watch yourself.  Bye for now!