Now my partner(of 3 months) is having the same problems and coming to me for them.
135246
Most likely it's yeast infection for both of you, but you may want your gyno to check it out just in case since you have a new partner. Could be something else like an STD, but probably yeast. Good luck.
18888
It is possible.\nIt does sound like you have some problems communicating.\nPerhaps it is time to just get on with your life.
501733
In your last post you said you felt like you were losing it!...\nAnd talked about lots of things that were happening in your life.\n\nThe last post sounded very "hyper" to be nice.. you seem to be getting very wound up over all this stuff that's happening.\n\nEven with B/P you know not to let people get you all upset like that......\n\nYou need to calm down..take some deep breaths and try to let this stuff go out of your mind..\n\nI have a boyfriend who is B/P and he gets all wound up too and can't settle down..Do you have anyone to talk to by phone??\n\nIf you have "Crisis Centres" were you are ...call one and talk to them.\n\nIf not, don't sit and dwell on all of this stuff, get busy doing something that takes your mind off it for a while.\n\nCall your Dr as soon as you can get a hold of him/her.\n\nplease take care..  and post another message if you have to.\ntake care
162101
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
17424
I think you should pay more attention to what is going on. Don't assume the worse though but don't let things move without you noticing.\nI'll tell you have a serious with your partener and put things on prespective.\n\nWish you the best of luck
381971
sounds like he has got a hyper tension dude..... may be it's coz of the relationship too. better speak to him and let him know and get him prepared to meet a counsellor and then arrange it.
552172
Hi. Look this is a no win situation for you. I know as I've been there.The best thing to do is ask your man to join you no matter what the situation is. Your kids have to get use to the idea that your have a life and you are entitled to be able to get on with it just as they do. They don't ask your permission as to who they date and don't expect you to be in a mood because of it. My partner and i nearly ended up apart when we tried to please everyone. You have to think of you and your boyfriend as he will be there for you when you need him and they wont as they have there own life to get on with AS you have. Good Luck and Merry Christmas and a happy new year
153254
i don't think you guys are being very nice making fun of her english - she's obviously going through a tough time right now!  If he's run away from you I don't know that theres a lot you can do.  If you are in contact with his family maybe you could ask them for support - see if they know anything and if they can talk to him for you, he hasn't behaved very well and you deserve at least an explanation from him - good luck!
132906
wow- you're angry.  Sounds like you picked a wrong partner.  But I bet you're no picnic to live with either, especially if ANY of this hostility comes through.  Hopefully you just had a bad day and needed to vent, if not- call a lawyer before there's children involved!
157792
YOU KNOW I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME ALOT. ITS JUST JEALOUSY. THEY ARENT HAPPY WITH THEIR LIVES AND THE RELATIONSHIP THEY ARE IN. THEY SEE THAT YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT THEY WANT SO THEY MAKE UP THINGS ABOUT YOU SO THAT YOU FEEL INSECURE ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. MAYBE YOU AND YOUR HUBBY SHOULD CONFRONT THEM TOGETHER AND SEE WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY THEN. USUALLY THEY ARE DUMB FOUNDED AND CANT SAY ANYTHING. BUT DONT WORRY ABOUT THEM. AS LONG AS YOU KNOW THAT THEY ARE RUMORS AND NOT TRUE YOU SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.
9954
He'll either have a breaking point where he realizes that he just cant take it anymore and that relationships shouldnt be that way, or he'll just deal with her behavior and keep taking it. Either way he's going to need you to be there for him!
398025
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
92623
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
365431
You two put so much into this relationship it sounds like especially if you been together for three years. Figure out what is bothering him it must be something. Sounds like he is pushing you away for reasons unknown. Sit down with him and try not to fight express your feeling and try to get him to do the same. IT WORKS MOST OF THE TIME. Hope everything works out.
613882
hey, \nOnce a man has made up his mind it's over. Also, it sounds like he is getting what he wants and more from this other girlfriend of his. Besides he left you before you went to the hospital! Doesn't that say something! You deserve someone so much better. She may not even love him. but when something happens like; she doesn't give him everything he wants. He will leave and come crawling back. There really isn't anything you can do. I have had this same experience. Not as bad, but I know how you are feeling. AS soon as you come to accept it, it gets better.
512481
First, you need to be 200% sure that this is going on! Once you are certain, don't beat around the bush - it makes the entire situation that much harder to deal with. Confront your partner, but you need to have hard evidence. Pictures, whatever you can get. If you have no concrete evidence, he can deny it and turn the situation around on you.\n\nGood luck.
48162
I am sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to me a long with physical and mental abuse. \n\nI sought counseling and I am well again. Not everyone is bad and not eveyrone will treat you like crap. \n\nHave you explained the situation to your partner?\nthat helps as well , believe me.