well hes never met me onlyy by picture. he only talks to me and he also writes to me.what should i say?
131932
get to know him \nu bitch i love u laura
394349
have you talked to him? Sounds like he likes you just say hi. whats the worst that could happen?
376168
Ask him point blank what his problem is?\n\nRemember that you have a mental image of some one that you only talk to on the phone when you meet them it changes in to the reality of what they really look like. \n\nIt sounds like to me that you did not match what he imagined.
471020
This is probably his first time ever going out with someone he really liked. Maybe he doesn't know what to do. This kind of thing happens all the time. Give him a little time and if he doesn't come around then try to spark conversation with him
136097
He obviously likes you...thats for sure....just tell him what happened of course. Tell him you are having a problem with your account but that you did contact him and you'd like to get together....no biggy. :-) He looks sad but he'll get over it when he realizes what happened...its not like you rejected him...computers fault!
423829
He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
435919
I dont think he likes you. If he did want to get to know you he wouldve said something. i think you should just leave him alone. maybe someday he will talk to you but for now it sure seems like he thinks you are something else. i dont think you should try and comunicate with him anymore....sorry
144054
And how long have you been talkin? Look truth is you might never have nother chance like this so go for it and meet him but then again that is a little crazy, there has to be a catch.
271901
it's just been two meetings. I'd suggest you take it slow, but meet him more often if possible & see how it goes.
262001
Act normal... talking on the net or on the phone, no matter how long you've been doing that, doesn't give you always an accurate image of a person, trust me. Get to know him first.
500462
Don't go back because he probably already has another image of you in mind and thought you one of those easily available girls. He never bothered to exchange numbers. But if you must, just go there with your friends and act as if you don't remember anything. Only if he approaches you or shows signs of recognition, you can just go and say 'Hello'. Ask him that you believe that you have met him before and does he remember you? Ask very casually as if he was a business client you are meeting. His response will make it clear, which turn you will want to take.
217221
Tell him in person.  It will mean more that way.  And try until you get a chance to say what you need to say.  Good luck sweetie.
186491
just talking? not seeing each other? if you really like him, then you should ask him if he likes you in the same way... but if he really misses you, isn't he suppose to be right there beside you? and it's been a couple of months too, shouldn't he have opened up to you like a long time ago? but, it's still up to you... if you really like him and still want to continue the relationship between you guys, then ok.. but if you really have a strong feeling that he's just playin you and fooling you around, i suggest you end the things between you right now!.. cos he might be planning some stuff that are really unexpected.. especially if you haven't seen him at all! ;)
294910
Just write him and explain that while you think he is a very nice person and that you've enjoyed your interactions; you've realized that a relationship isn't going to work out because of the distance factor (which is totally valid by the way) and that you've decided you need to end the communication.  His reaction is NOT your issue to deal with.  If you are polite and honest you've behaved honorably.
634706
If he hasn't responded to a dish like you, he's gay, dead or just plain stupid.\nOne good thing, there are thousands of men, on here, and elsewhere, who would be over the moon, to correspond or chat with you.\nSo don't waste your time on  him, it seems he hasn't.\nJust move on, and open yourself up to all the other chances you have.\nAfter seeing your pic, I would suggest you buy a baseball bat, to beat off some of those suitors,. who will be sitting on your doorstep waiting for you.\nLife's  too short to worry about losers, just move on and have fun.\nI'd wish you good luck, but I don't think you need it. :)
76140
have you got anything in common? Just talk some rubbish, doesn't matter what as long as it starts a conversation! but if you don't say anything you'll regret it, at least if you speak to him you stand a chance!
328267
he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.