I've talked to this girl for the past two months in my class at college, so I guess you could say we're friends.. she seems pretty friendly but I really have no clue if she likes me or not and don't have a clue how to interpret certain things. I was going to ask her # friday since we just got out for spring break for 10 days but I didn't get the chance so last night I emailed her through the school's website and was just like what's up/how ya doin.. etc.. \nWas that totally bad or could it be good? \n\nI also included some videos in the email for her amusement but that might have ended up being a bit dorky eh?
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uhh well if u like her an e-mailed her that u liked her and she says she doesn't like you the same way and she only wants to b friends then u use jackiecuckoo's master plan! Master Plan: accept her friendship and keep close to her and then when ur older ask her out again she'll probably say yes unless she gets a boyfriend damnit well maybe she'll say she wnats to date you don't b afraid u got a 50/50 chance rite? hmm damn thats not a good chance... maybe u should get to know her more...
310218
Is this grl popular & nice or popular and a B*T*H. if shes nice try asking her out. if shes a B*T*H forget about her! You deserve better!!
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She's flirting with you, is interested in you.  If you're in class together, go talk with her normally.  Don't worry about asking her out yet, but find out what kind of person she is (do you have a friend in common?) and if she's still OK, then ask her out.\n\nDon't play around too much.  Find out whether she's a possible match, and if so, tell her and ask her out.  If not, tell her and move on.
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You should just talk to her in general. Maybe asking her about her classes/courses or something about her family would break the ice. You might find out that she really likes you too and is shy herself.
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It's possible that she may sincerely like you.  It's possible that she may be hesitant or unsure.  And it's also possible that she may only be flirting and not looking for a committed relationship, which sounds the most likely from your description.  Her saying no to your invitation to go out but her actions and announcing she will be spending time with you this week-end can be confusing, I imagine.  Take your time to discover whether this is attention without intention, just a game to her, or more.  \nBut in the end, the real question is, do you like her?  And what do you want?  If your hope is a relationship and that isn't what she wants, it will not work.  If you both want the same thing and make that clear to each other, then it can.  Speak to her to learn more.\nBut just a little side note: It may be in good fun, but otherwise, her calling you her property doesn't seem very respectful.
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ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
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Go for it!  What could it hurt?  If she is not interested, then you will know.  But, if nothing else, maybe you have found a new friend.  Good Luck.
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Ok... I've got two answers for you... so here goes...\n\nThe simple answer:  Probably.\n\nThe more complicated, and more important answer....\n\nYou are insecure. You know this... I know you know this, because you are an obviously intelligent person, but you simply haven't gotten to that point where you are really comfortable "going for it." I know this, because I was the same way for most of my life.\n\nGuess what? So is she. So is everyone. Everyone is insecure about things... over time those insecurities change to different things, but everyone has them. Yeah, most likely she likes you... but here's the best part, even if she doesn't, it doesn't really matter. Let's say you go talk to her, and ask her out... there's only really three things that can happen:\n\n1) She says yes, all is well and good with the world, you go off and have a wonderful time, and who knows...\n\n2) She says no. It doesn't matter what the reason is, just be nice and courteous, and let her know that you were interested, and to have a good life or whatever. Remember this: being nice now truly will be good for you later. After all, she might be taken, but that doesn't mean her hot friend is.\n\n3) She doesn't give you a clear answer. This can go a lot of ways, but usually if a girl doesn't make it fairly apparent that the answer is no, that means that the answer would be yes, except there is just something else going on that is keeping her from saying it. That can be anything from purely an insecurity issue, to having just gotten out of a relationship, and not feeling ready to date, etc... but the important thing is this: She didn't say no.\n\nIf #3 happens, let her know you are interested, tell her something nice, and let it go. In a week or two, take another shot and see what happens. If you end up doing this a couple times and she simply isn't going to say yes, then assume there is something you can'd do anything about, and move on.\n\nAnyway, good luck... and ask her out.
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I agree with xovenusxo.\n\nThe girl is trying to let you know she likes you. She's probably been brought up to believe it's wrong and 'cheap' for a girl to approach a guy.\n\nIf you don't want a relationship with her continue to keep your distance. (This depends on how old you both are..I'm assuming you're both young teenagers.)
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Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
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Ask her questions about the class. This is a simple excuse for you to start talking. But don't be to forward it might seem creepy. Just go slow with it and increase your conversations day by day.
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It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
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Hang out as friends! Take it as it comes. She has been candid & upfront so dont pressurise her into a relationship. If you cant settle for friendship send a mail cancelling your end!
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i really dont know how to help you because guys are different from girls...if it was a girl then i could help since i am one...anyways, honestly, if he hasnt sent a reply in over a month, i dont think he ever will : ) but i could definitely be wrong! mayeb he never got the email or something? just go with your instinct!
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The fact that she gave you her email is a sign that she is friendly towards you.  Chill out and just make contact on the basis of friendship, thats what most girls respond to.  Good relationships are formed on friendship first - don't try run before you can walk. Good luck.
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It's too bad she's not treating you very well lately, and might not be honest. I don't know if you should write her off totally yet, but definitely try to make new friends in your high school. You wouldn't want to rely too much on someone who isn't reliable.
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Okay, do-says and don't-says...\n\nDo-says:\n\n"Hi, I'm _______, a friend of ________."\n\n"I'd like to get to know you, if that's all right with you."\n\n"If you don't want to, I understand, but from what _______ told me, you sound like a pretty cool girl." (or something like that)\n\n"So, you got a name?" (if she hasn't told you)\n\n"So, is there a time that would be good to get together?"\n\n"Well, I look forward to getting to know you! Do you like _____? How about meeting me there?"\n\n"Yeah, and don't worry, if we hate each other, you can just boot me out the door okay?" (say it in a joking way, of course)\n\nDon't says:\n\nDon't say anything about any past relationships that you've had. That's private stuff that will come later, if the relationship between you guys works out, and it will probably make her feel uncomfortable if that's one of the first things that you start talking about.\n\nDon't start immediately blabbing on about you and your life. Leave some room for her too! If you're talking about your favorite sport, keep it short (don't go into the entire game record of your favorite team), and then ask her if she has a favorite sport. Keep her talking, and that will give her the impression that you really do want to get to know her.\n\nDon't lean too heavily on the fact that your friend referred you. In fact, keep from talking about that as much as possible, or it'll sound like you're just doing this because your friend said so, and that would be VERY offensive to her.\n\nBut other than that, be yourself, and have fun! Let her get to know you for who you really are, be friendly and open, and be mindful of everything she says, even if the conversation doesn't last very long. Make it a conversation to remember, but don't try to hard to make it that way, or it will turn out disasterously. Once you get it going, I think you'll be surprised at how natural the words will start coming to you. Especially if she is a nice girl! So just think it over, maybe jot down a few ideas for what to say on a piece of paper, and call her up. Good luck!