I have been told that he has re-married a few times and has children with 2 other women. I have not been able to locate him. I want to re-marry what do I do at this point?
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Just hire a lawyer he will get it done legally for you.........
73756
is that even him? when i read his question (if it really is him), i couldn't help but wonder why on earth would he be surfing the net asking questions when his wife just gave birth? why would he ask random people when he could just "buy" all the professionals out there.
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Well, he left you five weeks ago and he is married now. Its none of your business what his wife thinks, or whether or not they are going to be happy together. Sorry, just being honest.\n-NmD!
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Well, I wasn't able to find anything specific on who he married or when, but it looks like I'm not the only one who's in the dark:\n\n"We do not know whether he married or had children, nor even with any certainty when and where he was born and died. Nor do we know what he looked like."\n\nHere's the website that's from: http://technology.guardian.co.uk/online/science/story/0,12450,834755,00.html .  Sorry!
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I believe that he's married.\n\n[edit]\nAgh, it's the other guy who's married.\nHe probably is dating someone but keeping a low profile. He used to date some model named Joanna Krupa.\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joanna_Krupa#Personal_life
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If he is already separated from his wife, this is one thing.  However, if he is still married and has not yet filed for separation, this is a bad situation to be in.  I would get out of the situation and put some distance between yourself and him.\n\nHe needs to decide whether or not he wants to be married.  It's even worse if there are children involved.  These situations are difficult and, in a way, he could be using you to convince himself to get out.  In the worst case, he's just stringing you along so he can have his family and a mistress on the side.  He might consider this "the best of both worlds".\n\nConsider also that this married man is cheating on his wife with you.  So, what will happen if you marry him?\n\nIf, after this man has separated from his wife and has gotten things figured out, and you have not found someone else, then, and only then might it be worth rekindling the relationship.
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How much do you care for him? Are you happy with him and your lifestyle? Would you really miss him if you came back to the USA and he did not?\nPeople lie about their age for different reasons, low self esteem, afraid you would not even give him a chance etc. The kids from a previous marriage though, you need to find out what kind of relationship he plans to have with them. Why has he not seen, talked to them in a year? Ask for clarification on all the things that are bothering you. Communication is the key
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he's acting like that because you are going to be divorced soon and I bet he is married.... just from the way he is reacting, so move on dear - and give yourself time to heal completely before trying to get into another relationship. (you have to resolve all the issues that lead to your failed marriage - if you don't you'll drag that old baggage into another relationship.) If there was anything there you two would of met in person.... you talked for a long time without meeting and that should of told you something about him. (I've only met one man online who wasn't married and he was honest with me about his personal life and that's the man I'm married to! We talked for about 2 months and then we met in person - he helped me with coming to Canada to meet him.... and we "clicked" - and got married 3 months later! We have been married for 4 yrs. as of Sept.28th).... While I was single and chatting with men online for years --- they all turned out to be married or living with someone(with whom they had kids with).
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You are wasting your time with this man. Even if he does leave his wife and kid 4 you, how do you know that he won't leave you for someone else later? I think you deserve better. There is someone better for you out there waiting 4 you. GO OUT AND FIND HIM.
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Hey buddy you better think twice the same girl wants to marry me. Seems a little sacm going on. Here is a part of a msg that was sent to me also have some nice pic of this young lady. Contact me if you have any questions. Anyone does any interdating they better check that person out good before going on and thinking something is there.Hey my email address vince3987@yahoo.com contact me if you think I am full of it.\n\nMy dear Vinny, I often think about you and about our relations.\nIt\nseems to me that every day we become closer. We know more about\neach\nother and I like all that you wrote me. So, I will go home now to\nthink about this all. I hope I did not confused you with my\ndream.\nWhat do you think about this all?\n\nYes, maybe we can have post address of each other here is my and I wait\nyours.\n433210 Russia,\nCity: Karsun\nStreet: Lenina\nHouse: 29\nShahurina Irina\n\nHug you, Irina
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luckily its only been 2 months....   but this sure is a glimpse into any future with this guy....I noticed  a couple in a restaurant   that were married.... the whole time they were there the guy was  talking on the cell phone.. with a break of only a few minutes in between calls .... I never even saw him speak to his wife!...  I felt so bad for her.... you might want to think about   if you really want to continue on .. personally  I would   get out NOW! lol..... good luck!
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I am a doctor and while having wild trouble with my wife, I decided to never be with here again.  I have 2 kids. A few months later, 4 to be exact, I started living with one of my patients, who is 40, and had a wild drive for me since 2 years ago. While being my patient nothing happened, but we started talking after I left my wife, never to return I thought. I lived with this woman for over a year, and that was the happiest time of my life. Nevertheless, my kids were having very serious trouble, and even though I did not wish to see my wife again, I decided to return to my kids and get them out of trouble. I will never stop loving my patient, she was the sweetest girl I've never known, but I cannot live happily with her while my kids are going down hill. I may be damned, but I need my kids to be OK for me to be happy, and they demand my presence. I could never feel happy while being with the woman I love while my kids are going through trouble. You being a virgin is not an issue to me, it should not be an issue to you, it should not be an issue for anybody loving you. What worries me is to find you left aside because this guy is married. I am not saying it is right or wrong, I am saying I doubt he will feel absolutely and sincerely happy with you while thinking about his kids. Been there, done that, don't go there, yo don't want to go there. You'll be happy for a while, and then you will know hell. Excuse my honesty, but I do not wish any human being to go through my experience. Hence I have the need to speak about it. And only anonimously. Take my word: you don't want this.\nPD: I am aged 46.
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well first, is there any way you can tell if he's been active on this account or not? maybe he had it on there and forgot about it? just mention to him that you found it and was wondering about it...this might bring questions as to why you were there also, he might think that you were looking on match.com, or don't trust him. neither are what you would want him to think if it's not true. \nso simply ask him about it, if he isn't straight up with you about it, then odds are that he's always keeping another door open. men do this for many reasons, like fear of being hurt, finding something better, or that's just thier lifestyle. i wouldn't put up with it if he says he wants to marry me, because marriage is permanent. if he's talking about something permanent then he needs to be sure about it before he mentions it.
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I would try to contact him.  I mean, he could be married or in a relationship, but he may be single and wondering where you are.  Give it a shot and contact him.
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sorry but i haven`t i hope you guys find him. have you talked to his friends? i am truly sorry and hope you find him. HONESTLY. but your family and his safe return will be i  my prayers.
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You hit the nail on the head with "mid-life crisis". He needs validation that his manhood and virility are still intact. This is however, a breach of his professional ethics. His marriage may not be unhappy ... just stale. It happens in the very best of marriages.
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Here's our story...tell me what you think.\n\nWe originally met in 9th Grade, he was the new boy in school.  We became fast friends and soon became more than that.  We were inseperable, many crazy adventures and all that fun young love stuff.  We broke up just before the school year ended because of our friends...you know the only people you listen to when you are 15 years old.\n\nWe stayed friends over the years, going for coffe every month or so to catch up.  I had the travel bug so after high school I moved around a bit, when I was gone he met someone else and married her.  On one of my stops home I found out he had married this girl (who I knew & knew she was not a good person), I told him my concerns & in my heart I knew that if he said me wanted he back I'd go.  He didn't so I was off on my journeys again.\n\nWell when I was 31 I moved back to my home town.  As luck would have it we met up one night, he was still married to the girl but he had been living in his basement for the last 6 years and had little or nothing to do with his wife.  He was miserable. \n\nWe spent that night catching up, when it was time to go home he grabbed my hand and said he let me go once & he was never going to do that again.  He moved out the next day and we are now married and have a beautiful 3 year old little boy.  \n\nSo no, I don't worry about him leaving me for someone else.  I think it all depends on the situation, and the rest of the story.  People look for love outside of their relationships because there is usually something wrong within their current relationship.  Others are just really shallow and want a "trophy wife"...those relationships never work out.