My parents are elderly & they are having difficulty getting my father's pension.
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Many office supply stores, copy centers and on-line sights offer generic powers of attorney.  Be careful though as these don't always comply With the laws of every state.  While the cost may be a bit higher, the best way is to consult an attorney who practices family law and get him or her to draw one up for you.  After that it should be a simple matter of getting the need signatures and notarization.  My mother is a bit elderly, but in good shape and we've just finished taking care of that.  Glad to see you're thinking ahead.  More of us With elderly parents should.
646833
You could talk to the patient's family and without being a tattletale or a rat, ask how their parent is doing.   Suggest that their loved one may be a little upset lately.   Their voice will override your complaint.  Try not to get caught doing this, you could stir up trouble and then nothing would get accomplished.  After all aren't you there for the welfare and care of the elderly?
231875
Go to court, get an order for him to appear for a competency hearing. If he does not appear, then get the police on his family for kidnapping and accessory to obstruct justice.\n\nOnce he appears for a competency hearing, the court will decide on a trustee or conservatuer, if needed. He may at that time indicate his desire for you to control his pension.
375573
Well I believe you can...My mother was in the same situation as you...In the divorce papers it stated my father is to pay my mother for life...but he stopped....anyway she spoke to a lawyer and they told her if it was court ordered he has to...all she has to do is take the papers to the DA and it will all be taken care of... he will be surprised shortly...but I'm not to positive about retirement or SS, but I do know she is entitled to them...So if it was court ordered your should be able to get it...
336172
No pension till 20... unless he's given an early retirement.  You have to have been the spouse for 10 years or more to get anything.  You can go for child support in court though.
447983
Call 0800 99 1234 where the person at the other end will complete an application form with you, or you can do as I did and get it sent to you for completion. One of the simpler official forms, and after completing it on behalf of my mother, she got about £20 a week and a very nice arrears cheque. I urge you to do it. Unless your parents are wealthy, they will receive something. Good luck.
611762
Oh darling...I know you are confused.  It sounds like your mom is doing all she can to survive.  You need to understand that your dad is not  "lending" you guy's money!  You are his beautiful children and deserve the most precious things that this life offers!  Try talking to your mom...she may have resources to go to the court and petition for more child support.  Right now you should be proud to work on your grade point average at school and have a social life with your friends.  I can tell your mom wants the best for you, but understand that sometimes when a grownup is going through alot of heartache it's hard for them to see what you're going through.  Hugs!!!
371022
My mother is 46 and she has about $3000 in savings and no investments or retirement. So I'm pretty sure you're doing better than she is (and, sadly, she's about average for where we live)
79252
You know i have that same problem.  Don't know my DAd and my Mom passed 7 years ago.  Maybe someone in your family can help you out.  I wish you the best of luck.  Or maybe call the Maury Show.
595447
1) They love you.\n2) They want to be there for you.  \n3)  You are never to old to live with your parents many people do that for many reasons other than financial.\n4) Getting assistance from parents in this world isn't always there for most people.  Take advantage of it until you get on your own two feet and stable sincerely.\n5) I have three children and I love them with all my heart and I would hate to see them in any bad situation what so ever.  I will give them anything I can possibly give within my god given abilities.  \nFor love and only love that is reason enough to accept it and to offer help.  If you do decide to move back in then tell them that you want to help them with chores and other things around the house.  Or just ask if they can be there to support you in any decision you make financially and emotionally.  They will understand They wont be hurt if you are honest and truthful with them.
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I wish I could say yes there is a program that helps fathers.  My fiancee' is in the same situation only we just found out that the eldest child may not be his.  He can sympathize with your plight because he owes twice the amount your realitive does.  He has paid over 50% of his income for over 5 years and is steadily in debt.  Sorry I can't offer any advice but at least now you guys can know someone else is going through the same thing Good luck.
179550
You should get in touch with the VA.  My uncle had the same problem as was able to collect $100K for back benefits.  Talk about a life changing event!
69008
Children of any age resent any "outside" interference from sources such as yourself in their lives.  They always consider that maybe, the parents will return to each other and they will be "one happy family" once again.  And, if by chance, your "man" was widowed, the kids think of you as the "Wicked Witch of the West" trying to replace their mom.  After 2 years, I would think you'd have a better hold on everything, but it appears maybe you and the "man" hasn't really sat down and discussed these matters for the future. But you state, its "your feelings toward the children" that you fear, not their feelings toward you?  Evidently, you can't accept the children and only want kids between you and your man.  Now that's a major problem and if I were you, and can afford it, I'd seek professional help on this matter.  And if you can't afford it, maybe the welfare people in your state might assist in financial matters?  I'd find out ASAP and get this problem either corrected in my own mind, or split with this guy knowing you will never accept his children as yours.
272005
It's really sweet that you're so concerned but, unfortunately, there's not much you can do.  They are the parents and they have to work out their own issues.  If it continues to be a problem, maybe you can express your concerns to a grandparent.  Maybe a grandparent could talk to your parents and let them know you're worried.  Just do your best to comfort your mom when she's sad!\nGood luck!
149814
They are obviously having financial troubles. You can talk to a lawyer to find out what can be done. They owe that last paycheck to you.
84088
Some elder;y people use it to transfer ownership to relatives. It is not a very secure deed.
80606
I'm not sure how welfare agencies work in India.  However, the hospital should have some sort of case coordinator or social worker that can help your father and/or your family apply for disability and emergency welfare assistance for housing and food.  How about insurance obtained through your father's workplace?  Any type of long or short-term disability insurance?  Sometimes the company will provide some sort of short-term payment to help temporarily.\n\nGood luck.