If so how is the best and most effective way to ask a guy out?
137537
Don't get tricked into asking him out.  If he likes you he'll ask you out.  You're good enough to be asked out.  "Just because you like to lead, doesn't mean he wants to dance." If he likes you he will make the effort.  If he doesn't like you, you'll just make an ass of yourself.
137314
lol. since u guys have been friends for a long time. i dont know if he will ask u out. he may be too shy, or think that u see him as a brother. so if u really like him, u gota let him know or leave him clues. but seeing as how dumb us mens are. u might wanna go with "hey u busy tomorrow, wanna go on a date or something".
441533
Just go up to him and engage in a conversation, get to him know him and if you like him ask tell him you like him, let him ask you out.
247870
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
235161
I'm assuming your real question is "how do I ask him out such that he says yes?"\n\nHere's the trick:\nCall him up some evening (not a weekend) and mention that you're going out somewhere to dinner and were wondering if he'd like to join you for food and hanging out.\n\nThis will make it casual and not a "date," but if he says yes, it'll still give you a chance to get together and flirt with him.  You can do this as many times as you need to in order to feel comfortable enough to directly ask him out.
348809
I have. When I see a good looking man that I desire, I have no problem starting a conversation and dropping him little hints here and there during the conversation that let him know I am interested in pursuing seeing him.\nIt usually works like a charm.
423278
When I was dating, the guys usually asked at the end of the first date.  If he didn't, I would ask.  I would say something like, "I had a nice time and I was wondering if we could get together again".  I always got a good response of yes, but there were a few no's.\nThese days a guy doesn't mind if a girl asks him out.\n\nHere's a tip:\nIf the guy says he'll call you and acts fidgety, take it with a grain of salt because he won't.\nTry to ask him first as I said above to ease your mind.
540496
lol learn how to type but if your question is how to ask a guy out its simple\n\n1. start a simple conversation and gradually work your way into it\n2. you can write him a note if shes shy then give it to a freind to give to him\n3. Who cares if a buddy asks for you some people are just shy im not in that category but still alot of people are and he needs to get over himself!
399936
Just ask the dude out!
301774
Ask him if he likes you first. Then if he says yes then just get to know him and then once you feel like you know him well then ask him out.
13103
u should give him an answer and try to start a conversation.If he asks you out dont  jump up and down and scream just give him a calm answer like sure or okay.and make sure u dont play hard to get because if hes a real man we wont come back.
264028
there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. from what you say you already suspect that due to his shyness he wont make the first move...so what have you got to lose by telling him how you feel and asking him out. you never know, he may just say yes. but you will only find out if you take the first step. good luck.
180948
yes, you have to ask him out. because he is going to go out with someone else if don't do it.
59794
One of the oldest questions in the world.... It really depends on age and maturity the guy... I guess you could ask or make the first move and ask him out..IF you are grown up enough to date..
188117
guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
21203
Yes, you should definitely ask him. i know that i would much rather prefer that girls would ask me out then me asking them out.
294827
be straight forward with it. go up to him and say "will you go out with me" if he likes you (which it sounds like he does) he'll say yes and everything'll be just as if he asked you out.