I was dating a guy, but I found out someone else that I really liked liked me too. So being the stupid girl I am, I broke up with the guy that liked me ALOT, and now that "someone else" doesn't want to date me. I mean what's up with that??? He only wants what he can't have?
131973
Something about male testosterone and competition to see who the better man is.  He snatched you away, laughed about it I'm sure and then tossed you to the curb.\n\nIt's all a game for them.. They want to see how many girls they can have hanging on the sidelines just waiting for them like their own little personal fan club.  \n\nI hope that they guy who really liked you will be forgiving.  Good luck.
143412
Why would you want to date someone that already has shown a tendency to cheat?\n\nWhat if her boyfriend is some who can beat the **** out of you (and maybe even her)?\n\nMore trouble than it's worth...\n\nThat's just dumb.
65942
Odds are that he was seeing someone else and that person found out about you and him and he had to make a choice.  He probably had a lot of fun with you but he probably didn't fall in love with you like you did with him.  It could be that he used you, it also could be that he got hooked on you and didn't know how to let go of you till he was forced to.
588582
MY BEST FRIEND HAD BROKE UP WITH THIS GUY AND AS YOU,HE LIKED ME AND I LIKED HIM.WE STARTED DATING AND MY BEST FRIEND HATED ME FOR IT ONLY BECAUSE I DID NOT GO TO HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT MY FEELINGS TOWARD THE GUY.I RECOMMEND TALKING TO HER AND LETTING HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IT BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM,THEN ITS YOUR DECISON RATHER YOU WANT TO DATE HIM OR NOT.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK..
74313
I have been through a similar experience. Just over a year ago the guy who I had planned on marrying & I decided to part ways. Even though it was mutual I had a really hard time moving on. I started dating again right away, but soon realized that in the process of dating my ex I had lost track of who I really was, therefore all the guys I dated after him; I was dating for the wrong reasons. I don't know if that makes sense, but I decided that I had to "date myself" first before I was ready to hit the dating scene again. \n\nAbout 4 or 5 months ago I came across this book: Single "The art of being satisfied, fulfilled, and independent". by Judy Ford  It really opened my eyes as to how I was living my life. It's okay to grieve & find yourself before hitting the dating scene again. I've taken a sabatical from dating & have never been happier. I have more guy friends than I have ever had before & they are teaching me what I really want in a guy.\n\nMaybe you're not ready for the whole dating thing yet, but that shouldn't stop you from getting to know this great guy. It sounds like you two are building a friendship, & friendship is so important when trying to rediscover yourself. Just be totally honest with yourself & do some soul searching ... you'll be surprised by all you don't know about yourself.
291463
I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
152427
The fact that he waited for you to break up with your former boyfriend has no bearing on who you should date now.  It is your decision, plain and simple.  I hope this helps.
105593
ur gonna b ok girl! he's just another guy, and he broke up with u because u did the same thing he did! i am sry, but that is just, NOT ok he's an idiot 4 doing that, and i bet ur a great person, u and him just don't work together...
72918
That depends on how much you're prepared to give up for someone who likes you. Why is your crush not your boyfriend, there must be some reason? 'Like' seems pretty weak to me.
466188
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
99825
If it was me, I wouldn't bother with him if he broke up with me before, but on the other hand, he may have matured enough to be serious.  If you like him, just tell him! If he can't appreciate the honesty, then you don't need him! <3
533250
I spend i year w/ a guy and we mustve broke up and got back together at least 10 times. i was young and stupid. there was no future and i was blind to that. i just liked the guy and funny thing was about 2 wks before we 1st started dating i hated him, couldnt stand him. funny thing how that all works out. now i dont see him a whole lot, we're just diff ppl. but hes a good guy, makes poor choices in girls tho. guess i just gave him too much and didnt take away enough.
313639
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
376384
Find someone else that wants to date you because he doesnt.
550031
who gives a shit if he dosnt like you anymore, get over it, you cant get him back, so get off your sad sorry for yourself ass and do something w/ your life...find someone else, there are plenty more guys out there, stop worrying about this one, its not worth it.
10397
that's absurd! it doesn't necessarily follow that just because the girl likes the guy, the guy doesn't like you anymore. that's just her way of getting you away from the guy. so that she can get the guy all for herself. for all you know, the guy may even like you more than that other girl. so cheer up! be confident! act as if the girl doesn't exist! she'll just ruin your life. hehe. :)
157646
The fact that your attentions are on someone else makes me question the relationship with the first guy. But decide who you like better and make a definate choice. It may end up being the wrong choice, but you will learn from it and hopefully be more wise the next time.