is it wrong for u to have a bf but like someone else?!?! and if so wat should i do?
124468
It's not wrong at all. To quote the great Woody Allen, The heart wants what it wants. \n\nWHAT TO DO NOW:\n\n1. Start meeting the new guy for coffee n whatnot. Take it all the way if he wants to do you.\n\n2. If he comes back for more and he was better in the sack than the old b/f go for it and dump the b/f.\n\n3. If he doesnt come back or he came up a little short, shall we say? Then tell him it was a mistake, a one time thing and you now realize the old b/f is the man for you  (until the next guy)\n\n4. Keep looking for Mister Right. From what I understand, he's always tall and trim and has money and a full head of hair. You'll find him eventually.
666632
lol, agree!!  I'm 15, and I dont have a bf yet, and everyone thinks there's something wrong with me!  I dress the way I want, act the way I want, and dont really "fit in" anywhere.  Good luck, dont feel like your alone, cause I know EXACTLY what you're going through.
27820
Sounds to me like your not quite ready to settle down.  I say drop the boyfriend for now and date around a bit and then maybe you will be able to know more about what your looking for.  Everyone has flaws but usually you can't see them till you've known them a while.
212966
ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
583859
no there is nothing wrong with that. All you have to do is be yourself because if he doesn't like you for who you are he isn't who you think he is..\ngood luck!
295359
its such a bad thing to move on and get into another relationship=said who? dont listen to that idea, if you please all, you please none. follow your heart and mind, it has always the right answer then believe what you have decided and choose to be happy :)
300217
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
113014
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just growing up.  From the ages of 17 to 25 people grow and experience a lot of stuff.  It is a time for them to really begin to figure out who they are and where their lives will eventually lead.  Unfortunately sometimes that means we grow apart and away from relationships we previously thought would be with us forever.  I think you will probably need to let your boyfriend down and be single for awhile so you can continue to grow and figure out who you are and what you want in life.
310138
ask urself one question.. how would u feel if he did that to u? do u love him and want to be with him ?(current boyfriend) if u dont... end that relationhip before u try to start up another one...its not fair to anyone involved
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
559087
I think that you like what you like and there is nothing wrong with that.  I like tall skinny white boys and my friends don't get it either, but it doesn't matter.  My boyfriend is wonderful and that is what counts.  Just do what makes you happy with a whoever you like and the Heck with them.
206573
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
538825
fffff.... I've stayed friends for years and years with guys without becoming bf-gf. you shouldn't fool around wtih him, though, if that is what you are saying by "more." but if you are just saying you are kind of in love with him, then that can go on for years. there is some level of "attraction" between friends as well as lovers/bf's.
365479
the fact that you are looking at another suggests that you are not really with your man anymore and the best thing to do for both of you is end it.\n\nwhat happens with the other guy is irrelevant with regards to your situation with bf.\n\nif you should finish with bf and then get with other guy then cool but you must not think about this until you have sorted it out with bf.
59423
just cuz ure friends got a BF doesnt mean u hafta. wait for the right person
172698
labels, to me, dont matter. my bf has a totally different background than me but i got enough courage from my best friend, that i told him that i liked him! (omg) the next day, he asked my to be his gf.\n\nu hav a good chance if u r friendly with him even b4 u liked him.  if things work out but his friends dont approve, dont giv up, hold onto him, dont break up! believe me, things will turn out alright. the same thing happened to me. and now im so in love i already drowned in it.
140196
Go for someone really cherish u more. I had these experience with me too. Yes, is very natural for u to do a compare. But once a friend did told me, is not fair to do a compare like that, caused they are both different person. I finally understand and moved on. Now I am happy then before. Is not easy. But you must try. Take care.