could you ever really be in love again or would this taint your feelings with hate, can you love again.
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if someone took their love away i'm sure it would be very painful. but you must realize that its their loss and not yours. and yes, you can love again. you just have to keep your heart open to new possibilities. who knows you may ultimately come across the woman you have been looking for.
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I suppose it is possible, however I think it it just infatuation.\n\nYou say you ADORE, it is suppose to be Love.
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I say it is truly better to have loved (and lost it painfully) than to have never loved at all. It was not meant to be and you needed to learn something from that experience. Everything happens for a reason, god does not give you more than you can handle.
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Yes it's perfectly possible. I think that no one ever truly gets over someone that they've loved they've just learned to ignor it or suppress it or replace the vast majority of it with something else.
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Well, as a wife and mother of 5 children and married for 23 yrs...I can honestly say love is unconditional and is sometimes a rollercoaster...if you are not already married, you still have a choice...but do know this friend..."what once was, can be again"...sometimes you have to return to your first love..the things you did...what you said...how you treated each other...now, if those "things" you refer to are harrassing, violence, and such...a sit down talk in a "neutral" spot is the answer there. Be honest if this must be done...be specific..& don't leave it "open ended"...like "we'll see"...I need space for now...needs to be clean cut...best of everything!
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Hi.  I might be wrong, but I think most of the love/hate stuff is only in your head, you know.  I mean, it's not like you two have had an actual relationship in all those years, right?  So, I'm not saying you haven't really felt love and hate, only the person you've felt them for no longer exists.  You both grew apart a long time ago - if you were to meet again, you probably wouldn't even know each other anymore, you'd have to get to know her all over again to sort out your feelings.  And you might realize then that she's probably been that way (that would only be new to you) for a while and you couldn't possibly feel love or hate or both for her.\nOkay, I'm rambling.\nWhat to do?  Now that's a good question.  Honestly, I don't know.  I don't know how you get over your history.  But is this something that bothers you all the time?  Or are you just wondering how she's felt since then?
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What do you mean "love again"?  I don't see that after SEVERAL marriages and over 100 partners, there was any love at all, EVER.\n\nIs it possible for someone like that to find love?  Actually, yes.
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it depends on how long would you want to keep it inside you... if you move on little by little then it will mend and before you knew it, you're ready to fall in love again. Pain is a part of being in love, for it teaches you to become stronger and wiser the next time. Just take it positively ;-)
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Sure it can happen, the problem is you end up splitting your love so that no one is getting all of your heart.  Basicly you end up short changing everyone involved including your self because niether is true love since that requires that you give all of your heart to someone.
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It's not easy to trust someone again after your heart is broken by another...but you have to take the chance, because it could be that this one wount do the same, and cherish you instead.
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Love doesn't have a switch, although it would be great if it did. We were born with the ability to love and boy do we ever.\nLife is just one longggggg lesson and for everything a purpose.\nWhen we love someone, we give of ourselves freely, leaving ourselves open to joy, passion, fear and even heartache.\nWhoever said love makes us stronger is probably right.\nIf having your heart broken didn't hurt, then you would probably never even be able to feel love.\nI would rather have my heart broken then to never have a chance at love.\nTime is your only friend when it comes to heartache, and as far as wanting them back, well, I'd have to say, ask yourself why they broke your heart in the first place and is it worth it to put yourself in that position again?\nGood luck to you!!!
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2nd chances are a scary thing...I've found...through experience...they usually don't work out.  But everybody is different and people do change...so if you feel really strongly about them...why not.
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You just know it , you feel it in your heart, and when  you just can't get that person off your mind then your in love \n May God bless you
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Once. but i think is nice to fall in love as many time as you can in you life time. is very enjoyable
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Yes, I did.  It worked for a while. But, in my opinion it is too hard to forgive and when there are problems, you immediately think it was better withou them.\nI am all for staying together and reuniting. But start from the beginning to see if you love her or him or are IN LOVE.
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no\ntrue love preserves one's self worth
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yes, it is possible if you allow that to yourself...\n\nyou better love yourself more than anyone else