not all people that go in there are getting an aboution!! i am afraid to go there on my own!!! i alway have to get someone to go with me!! i do not understand it!
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Most of the people that go there are bible bound people who have no clue about anything except for what "God" tells them is right. I have been there for BC pills and they are out there shaking their books and yelling. I don't think they will ever get a clue that most women go there for pills or rape council. I go there with my fiance so your not alone in that area! :O)
114645
Yes, it can get on your nerves sometimes. People have a tendency to make the experiences they are having, so much bigger than anyone else's. We all have the same feelings we just react differently according to our personalities. Let's face it, some are not as strong as others. Just bear with them, give them support if you can. If your problems are overwhelming you at the time, back away quietly and tend to your own needs at the time.  So sorry you feel this way. Hope it gets better.
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I've noticed the same thing in my area. We're new out here, and I'm about to have our first baby, so I thought I'd try to meet people "like me". I think what happens is that a lot of these mom's join for the social aspect, but are also struggling to "work at home" with these businesses and end up bringing it with them.\n\nIn my first week of knowing these ladies I got invited to Discovery Toys, 3 Mary Kays, Tupperware, and some sort of Erotic Toy party. Only once did someone actually ask me to "hang out". Otherwise it's all parties. Needless to say, I don't keep in touch anymore. Plus, the group wanted to charge annual dues!!\n\nI've had better successes at my church meeting just normal people who want nothing for me, and don't see me as a referral for a party.\n\nIt's frustrating, but I do believe it's possible to meet young mom's/women who want to do more than sales parties.
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I think you did the right thing to help - I would try and help as much as poss. I hope someone would help me if I needed them (not that I would be in such a state) but there are all sorts of other reasons you might need help from strangers - maybe you feel ill or something.  I don't think people help too much because they are scared of getting involved or implicated in something they are not part of.
256686
One of my friends is in this business and she never stops telling me that I should join. I think just because she insists constantly, there must be something wrong with it!!!
311527
I think a lot of people are feeling anxious about the end of the year. People will be leaving and summer plans are being made. I also have noticed that a lot of teens have been getting in really bad fights. Its sad because the summer is coming and its a time to celebrate. All of these friendships that are being ended are putting a damper on things! You teens need to look around an realize that these people are going to be around for a while and you need to deal with issues in a realistic way. Fighting is not the answer!
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If that doesn't happen so why don't you just go and ask them by yourself =D\n\nthey might be shy, you know.
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That is a hard time for you. Been there, 3 times\n1/ list things you like doing, or are interested in\n2/ look up clubs and groups that do these things, \n3/ if you have at least 1 friend that you can persuade to go to any/all of them, go.\nif not, go yourself, you don't have to stay if uncomfortable, remember, some of the people there possibly went for the same reason you did.\nGive it time, Parents Without Partners are good places for your age group. There are others, look up the net\ngood luck.
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this is exactly how my school is. it's horrible!!!! if i had the choice i would not use them, but of coarse if you have to go you have to go. our changing rooms are pretty much the same too. we have to get changed in front of everyone and there are no toilets or cubicles.
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Going by yourself to events shouldn't embarass you. It actually would show maturity. I say go, you'll probably pay attention more than if one of your friends would have gone along with.
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why do we still have to put up with this shit! if i need apiss why do i have to be watched by a fu// ing stranger every time! if that,s normal im glad then that im not.
369778
Lots of people pass the buck this way.  Try making the \nperson feel a little more at ease. If they don't feel like it's a test, \nand can relax a little, you might get the answer you are looking for. Some people are just afraid to be in charge,or make a decision.\nHope this is what you were looking for.  Good Luck
174030
Maybe your attitude towards them is what's convincing them that you are not old enough, or responsible enough, to be allowed to go alone to St. Louis. Just a thought, based on your language...if you improve your attitude, they might improve theirs.
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dont worry about it that much.some people exaggerate this kind of things.you are not the only one who scares.there are so many people like u.bealive me.there is nothing to be scared.be yourself.
634504
Come on! Not all of the girls do that. I would never go to the toilet and do the NR 1 with a friend just standing there. And neither of my friends would do that.\nBut I know that other girls do that since they want a private conversation.
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perhaps you have a guilty conscience.  I don't think everyone, everywhere looks at you strangley.  People have much better things to do with their time.  You have anxiety.  You need professional help if you think that.
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I know some that will...but most of my friends(black)just won't go there.I never bother to ask why...next time I will.I guess it's just differeent strokes 4 different folks.