I have been friends with this so called friend since high school and there is a lot of history in our "friendship." I can't stand being her friend anymore. She's a complusive liar and she only thinks of herself. She has no respect for others. If you want to know everything, check out my blog entry. It will explain everything.
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Just tell the truth. Tell them that you are maturing and feel that it is time that you all go your seperate ways. Tell them that things are not as they use to be and use the old ever faithful line..'it's not you, it's me'. It works everytime!
48662
Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.
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I want to say that your friend is wrong for going about it the WRONG way. She should have been honest and maybe it wouldn't feel so bad when it's happened. You have every right to feel betrayed because she was not completely honest with you. Nevertheless we all are humans and as the person before me stated, people act on their instincts. She had a crush on him, or maybe she thought she did or whatever it may be, the realization is that they're having that special thing while you're hurt from it. What I would do is move on. I'd give her my well-wishing and if I could handle being friends with her, I'd maintain contact with her. Don't fall for the "third-wheel" plots, I hate those, make sure to avoid them because you may find yourself becoming extremely angry at your friend and her not knowing it. That's all I can see myself doing in this situation is just moving on. Good luck with this.
61770
Why do you call her a "Friend"? I think you need to redefine that term or loose her as a "friend"..you have another friend you say who she annoys too..so you two have each other..leave her presence and dont pay any more effort to someone who will drain you..stand tall..people only treat you how you let them..
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I had a friend like your friend Kayla, who only was a sometimes-friend.  In the end, she got mad at me for no real reason in high school and tried to have me expelled.  Girls like Kayla care more about a boy who will be out of her life in six months than an old friend.  She probably has some serious self-esteem issues, which aren't likely to go away anytime soon.  It's your choice if you want to put up with this or not.  I'm sure that there are much nicer, more secure girls in your school that you can hang out with.
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what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
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okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
111918
Hmmm... Really sounds strange huh? Well, I'm a Man but I think I can answer your question... Maybe you're right about what you suspect for the reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but you really have to talk to her because there can be many reasons for this situation, maybe you can ask her if someone was backstabbing you and telling things about you against your friend... Right? Losing a friend like yours is very depressing because both of you have been to lot of ups and downs... For now, try to take time for her to think it over, same to you as well, think of the things that possibly you've done that hurted her feelings too... Because if she was your friend for 12 years already, jealousy is not a big factor and she should be proud of you as her bestfriend... Maybe jealousy to other friends of yours is a reason... Try to talk to her ok? But at the right time... Goodluck to your friendship and I'm sure you will get her back...
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I had a friend who was like your friend, i used to givbe him money for his education, he was a poor guy, now he is earning more than me and i hardly hear from him. just leave her, these typo peoples are useless. they dont know what is friendship.
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My friend was jealous of my relationship with this guy I was hanging out with (she is married, I am not). She listened to someone else and their opinions and freaked out on me at the bar, in front of everyone and called me a sl*t and other names. We were supposed to go on a trip together in a week with a group of friends. I canceled my hotel reservations. Then the friend whose birthday it was heard about it and she asked me to still come, saying she would uninvite the other friend (they were closer than we were). Told her she did not have to do that, but the trip was pretty awkward. Our friendship was never the same after that, even though she apologized, and now we aren't friends anymore.
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Someone who won't look you in the eye is not someone you want to be close with, unless the person is just shy.  NOT THE CASE HERE.  The way I see it (and I have a few years under my belt) is this: if she doesn't want to be your friend, that is okay.  You will learn that you don't always have to be friends with everyone, and that people do sometimes change.  We wouldn't be human if we didn't change.  Its part of growing and maturing (or not maturing).  Either way, you don't necessarily have to make an enemy of her.  I have people that I was close with in high school that I don't even recognize anymore...you know, the people that you swear will always be BFF.  It seems an insurmountable issue now, but in a few years, will it really be that big a deal?  You will always have your friends, and then the people you just know.  There will be people you will see on a daily basis who are super fun to know, and there will be the sourpusses.  The only person who's decisions and friendships you will ever be able to control are your own.  the sooner you understand this, the easier it will be to deal with the not-so-nice people in your life.
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I, too have drifted away from friends I know since childhood. The best thing to do is have a peer mediation. Sounds totally, dorky, right?  Talk to her privately, so no one get embarrassed and tell her your honest feelings. i know it may be hard at first, but trust me, once you get going, it'll be easier. Set up some rules, like no interruptions, and let her talk. Tell her she's been hurting you, and that she's too bossy! don't raise your voice or tell her you hate her though. =P LET HER TALK TOO! Maybe she's been going through something. when my friends and I did this, I let them talk also. WE all ended on the floor bawling, but it was GOOD. I felt...RELIEVED. My friends and I are A LOT happier, and now, we know to talk BEFORE we blow up. Let her say what she needs too, but IF SHE starts getting aggressive, or rude-WALK AWAY. You don't deserve that. Maybe your friendship can be salvaged, most likely no, but at least you won't end the friendship on bad terms. Tell her that this is what's best for both of you, and you know longer desire her he company. Be the better person and walk away if things get ugly.\nGod bless, hun!
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Sounds like she's first trying to make you jealous. I would break the friendship off she obviously doesn't have any respect towards you when rubbing things in your face. If she's your friend as she calls herself she should be willing to hang out with you. Have you told her how she's making you feel and why you feel the need to end the friendship if not do so and see if she changes if not then I would let her go. No sense, in being unhappy nor going through life with someone who calls her self something then doesn't act the part (figuratively speaking)Good Luck!
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YOU can't stop her. this is HER issue, not yours. you can't fix something you didn't break.\n\nignore her, tell your other friends to ignore her...eventually she will get bored w/not getting the attention she wants and she will stop.\nhonestly, if she is the type of person to make herself feel better about herself by making others feel horrible...do you REALLY want her as a friend anyway?
329943
Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.
217122
My daughter went through this not very long ago.  It hurt her very much.  Why are girls so evil at this age.  The girl continued to call and my daughter has finally realized that she just enjoys drama.  She finally told her so- called best friend not to call and she no longer wants to have her friendship.  Since, this girl has gossiped and tried to have others ignore my daughter.  Didn't work since they have all realize that she is a phony..
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It's really not your choice - it's hers, good decision or bad.  \nYou advised her with your opinion, she knows where you stand.  Now it's time to stay out of her business - if it bothers you that much, perhaps you need to find a new friend.