p.s. think!!! do u really want to hurt your daughter when shes really in love?
126502
well i have a daughter and when the time comes and she finds love if I didn't like him it wouldn't be because of his race it would have to be that he treated her like crap. Race should never be a reason not to like someone.
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i know how u feel me and my girl kissed when she left my house one time and my sister-in-law saw it....dont feel so bad if u love ur girl then just try to get a long w/ her mom even if she dont like u. if she loves her daughter then she will love her and her mate just the same. give it time it will get better. it did for me
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I would not stand in the way of a father talking to his daughter & vice versa, regardless of the infrequency of it & the relationship between myself & that man. He will let her down more times than she deserves & cause her to cry more tears than he is worth, but he is her father. She will grow-up & one day realise what a waste-of-space this man is & will make her own decision as to whether to have a relationship with him or not. It is her choice & hers only to make. If I stand in between them, I risk her resenting me for that. I just have to be there when he breaks her heart, to help her see that it is not her fault. It is his. That is what I would do. Good-luck :)
230695
i understand what you are saying perfectly. after you have been hurt enough times, you don't want to go down that road again....when you are 18 and the first time in love, they really don't get it....at least not yet..........but, remember, if we do not love to keep pain out,,,then we also do not let love in.....it's a risk, but it's worth taking.. good luck
288470
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
33149
if you love someone why would you want to look elsewhere?  If she didn't do anything wrong and you are thinking of that then you really don't love her like you think you love her.  If she did something wrong then it depends on what she did.
11478
this is a tough question .but i am going wih love .\nfor no real reason . other then i think that love is the stronger bond and what happens if you do something stupid and she stops respecting you ?????
128970
that al depends..maybe no matter what u say ur gonna hurt her that all depends but ull never no unless u tell her the truth...good luck
628078
If your parents really cared (no doubt they do) then they would maybe flame at first, but as they realize that it's for their daughter who is in love, they will remember their own relationship and how they probably did such things as well.  If they hadn't, as most young soulmates DO, sooner or later, then you wouldn't be here.  So remind them gently that it isn't to get back at them for something, but that is where you feel you belong.  (Okay, don't make it sound all corny and lame as i do now... ) But don't lie.  Show what you need to.
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YES YOU CAN!\nBUT THE FALLING IN LOVE I'M THINKING ABOUT( NO!) YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF FALLING IN LOVE OR TO ACT ON SUCH AN  EMOTION.
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well...\nif you love her with all your might, then ask her to marry you, but remember this though, she have a kid/kids, so u must love them as your own kid/kids..   but if u cant love her children, then dont do it, ur going to hurt her kids for good, i dont know what ur plan is, but, first im going to try and lover her child/children, then ask her to marry me
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When you fall in love with someone. you fall in love with everything in his life. You cannot ask them to give up there children. \nMy last girlfriends daughter hated me. I accepted that and yet still loved her. I cared for her child even tho the child seamed like a brat at times. \nChildren deserve all the love we can give them. No matter what there problems are.
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Got a 15 year old daugther going through this right now.  Been her dad and mom for 8 years now.  I don't know what to expect really in the future.  I know right now it's floating between hate and hurt.  I wished I knew how to help, but all I can do is be there for her and let her know dad loves her.
71204
That is a huge sacrifice,  I think as long as you see your daughter and continue to build a healthy relationship with her it is OK for the moment.
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I really do sympathise with you but you gotta let her go - if you don't she will end up resenting you.   If you let her go, the older she gets, she will realise that Daddy ain't all he's cracked up to be.  Good Luck xx
30247
Hey bro, I feel bad for you. It sounds like you have tried working with her about this. It sounds like you have been patient.You are going to need to make some tough chocies.You are going to need to find out what's really the problem ( her not feeling sexy?,is she having an affair?,not in love with you anymore?,have you done something since your daughter was born to make her act this way?,ect..)You sound like you love her and your daughter and don't want to leave. It sounds like she's not willing to kiss, be romantic,or try to see a doctor about this.To me if she just wants to be friends and isn't willing to change then maybe it's time for you to re-think things out about what you what you want in a wife and if this siutation is really good for you and your daughter. If you continue to be unhappy, this will start to effect you much more, which will at some point effect your daughter, which is something you don't want, she's done nothing. I think it's cool that you are trying to keep your family, but you also need to have your needs met. I would keep trying to work with her on this if you feel it's worth it. If there's no change and if she's not willing to see a counseler then mabye it might be time for a change. Love and passion is something that can be worked out if both parties are willing to work things out. Just don't go deep and and get emotional and do something that's dumb. Everyone has bad stories with quick fixes. This is your family. Think things out before you act on them. Good luck. I hope very thing works out for you.
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Kids can be cruel, they could be jealous of your daughter and are trying to hurt her by using you.\n\nDon't concern yourself with what little brats say, they know no better.\n\nDo what makes you feel better.  Remember there is only one "you" be the best you possible.\n\nDave