It is like a poll. I want to know if girls strive to be a certain weight to please guys. I want to know if guys prefer skinny, curvy, slighty over weight or heavy.
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it depends on your height, if we're talking on a health basis.\n\nif you're asking me if i strive to loose weight to attract guys; nah, i don't do that. \n\ni want my weight to be proportional to my height, because i want to have a healthy body.
582485
I dont' think white guys like anyone with a big butt. They want their version of perfection, blonde, big boobs, small waist, medium butt, perfect legs. Men of color, any color, usually are much more appreciative of all woman, all sizes and shapes. That is my opinion.
516722
I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
547090
You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
84338
I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
125664
i like a bit curvey.  My ex was too skinny i did not like it.  I dont understand anorexics(DONT KNOW HOW TO SPELL) They would look much nicer naturally.
22721
if youre really really fat lose weight, men dont mind women being a little overweight but very few except weirdo chubby chasers desire obese women sorry  but its true.
673557
From a total porn perspective, it's obviously her body, and specifics vary for each individual.  I like lots of curves and a general "nice body."  Personally, however, I like my girls big, not just overweight, per se, but tall and luscious and able to control me.  I'm far too inexperienced to have a favorite activity or trick, but one of the best things about dating a girl is that you don't have that pressure about sex like you ALWAYS have from guys.  It's cool just to make out for an hour because there's no penis calling the hasty, unappreciated shots.  Making out and cuddling are always my favorite activites.
192040
Stop worrying about it. Girls are a lot less visually oriented than men. If you have a great personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc...who cares if you have a little extra weight?
318464
Personally, I'm not shallow. Sure, a nice body isa  great addition, but I could never like a mean hot girl. I want personality. I want opinions, I want a sense of humor, I want a general kindness and a defensive attitude for everything she cares for. I'd like a girl who was strong, resilent and able to get back on her feet if life throws her.
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Hey, don't try so hard to find a guy.  And no matter what weight you are, you are beautiful.  Believe that, no matter what!  You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful.  I mean, I think Queen Latifah is gorgeous and Nicole Richie is...well, never mind.  Just be your fun, sparkling self.  Hang out with friends and family.  People who make you feel good.  Eventually, a man will see that you don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself and will love both your outer and inner package.  And those are the ones worth having.  But those guys take time to find.  And all girls have a hard time finding that.  Even the skinny ones.
163353
curvy women are sensational. all it is confidence really. be proud of the skin yer in and most men will be attracted to that.
317453
The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
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Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
357153
I think it's great that your turned on by bigger people.  To much emphasis is put on being skinny. I grew up thinking that if I weighted 125 pounds that I was chubby.  It's not weird.  It's okay to be turned on by it except when the fetish starts controlling you and makes a significant impact on you and others.  But I don't think this happens very much.
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Some curves are a good thing!  Though I will admit that as you get farther from an average build, I find 'too thin' a bit easier on the eyes than the opposite...\n\nI also want to say that I find the raw height/weight numbers to be fairly meaningless, because they really don't tell you enough about how a person wears it.  A well-proportioned girl can look very nice as long as she doesn't try to dress like someone with a different body type.\n\nAnd, as I almost always say in these type of questions:  Looks are only most important when gazing from a distance!  To actually hang out with a girl, a fun, happy personality goes a LONG way to compensate for a 'less-than-perfect' appearance.
471823
It shouldnt be down to the size, it should be what you feel about that person, You and many other males in this world bang on about big women, stating that they are easy lays and that they are up for anything that goes, but how many women do you hear making remarks about a blokes size, whether it be in their pants or just general body size, not many, so why not the male gender take a leaf out of the ladies book and stop being so cruel to women with uncalled for remarks and start being a bit more respectful,