this week im getting in a fight i need a good strategy to kick this kids ass he was making fun of me cuz i was adopted i need a way to make him cry what should i do? and no cheap shots i wont it to be fair so he doesnt say i cheated
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JUST IGNORE HIM! TELL HIM HE WAS ADOPTED ALSO, OR JUST LEAVE IT ALONE HE SOUNDS LIKE A STUPID KID. BE THE SMART KID AND WALK AWAY, BECAUSE IF YOU FIGHT HIM YOU MIGHT GET IN TROUBLE AND IT'LL BE WORST FOR YOU. JUST WALK AWAY! SO WHAT IF HE SAY'S YOUR SCARED.
491448
stop yelling at your siblings!\nAnd good luck at the talent show! ;o)
399957
Stay quiet and stay out of the way.  Witty comebacks and smart-assed remarks don't work because the bully is rarely smart enough to understand.  You can't win with a stupid person because they are too stupid to understand they've lost.  Just stay under the radar until you are out of school.  Then, when you're their boss, you will have the last laugh.
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Apparently talking and being nice and putting up with him, doesnt work. Maybe you should get the police to ask him to leave. Or you could throw his stuff out, not sure if you could get a restraining order- if you can go for it! It's quite evident that he's brining you nothing but hurt. Make a stand now for you and your kids.\nThe sooner he is out, the better you will be able to get on with your life. Once that's done, for GOD's SAKE, DONT LOOK BACK!
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save your breath, interfering battle axe. just accept sis's new cling on. if you are employed, you can contribute to loser boy's maintenance. tell sis to get some overtime, since jo jo the dog boy probably can drink her under the table! or, if you can pick your drunken @ss off the floor, you can try REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. start hitting on hero boy, and tell sis to back off, he's yours. comment on his nice wallet and harley. make sis jealous by telling her that he wants you.  if all else fails, drug sis's drink. when she becomes unconscience, ask hero for help, because by that time, loser boy will be rifling through sis's purse and pockets! you can always take loser boy aside, and give him a twenty and tell him to leave town!
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Yo!  I'm Jennah. I'm 13 just like you and I'm a middle class rebel Punk/Prep*but then again I REBEL AGAINST Preps*(in the way of cliques in my 8th Grade Class.\n1.)Kids have been known to die in the vile sense that your telling so I suggest if anything buff up and just threaten him.  Usually bullies are so bug that they scare people for no reason and the bigger they are the harder they fall in every aspect.  So Get him riled up but not toooooo riled up!\n2.)You probably would want to try this first before you try #1\n3.)NO NO NO AND NO!!!!  WORST POSSIBLE THING FOR YOUR REPUTATION!  MY BEST FRIEND IN 6TH GRADE WAS A KNARK AND HIS REPUTATION FELL APART!  HE WENT FROM HIS MIDDLE CLASS TO LOSER IN SECONDS THE NEXT TIME HE ENTERED A CLASSROOM!  HE WAS PICKED ON AND GIVEN THE NAME TATTLER COCK!!! DON'T TELL A TEACHER!!!!!!!  THIS GUY WILL DRIVE YOU INSANE WITH THE KNARKING INSULTS!!!!!!\n4.)Probably the best choice hold off until the end of the school day come home and talk to me about it.  Evilcreampuff_13@hotmail.com
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Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.\n\nGood luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
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Really difficult.......it sounds to me that he is fighting you all because it's easier than trying to get along for him right now.  I would sit him down and without getting angry just explain that there are going to be rules in your household from that moment on.  One of them being that no bad language is used.  I wouldn't give him random jobs to do but set a weekly agenda so he knows exactly what is expected of him.  Also have job lists for the other children.  Get them all to agree that they will complete there tasks, then he won't feel picked on the moment you ask him to do something.  You will just have to accept that his time spent in his other home is going to be his 'fun' time because his girlfriend etc is there.  Don't allow him to use this as a stick to beat you with.  The facts are he lives with YOU in YOUR house and must obey the house rules.  \n\nThe sitting in his room alone sounds a little worrying.  I think he wants people to come in to try and coax him out - it may be for attention or it may be that he just likes sitting on his own doing his own thing.  If there is someone in the house that he gets on the best with then send them into him occassionally to just chill with him for 5-10 minutes, stick your head around the door and just ask if he's OK.  \n\nHe is proably unhappy about his situation - every kid would prefer to be living with his real mom and dad.  He will get used to it but the more you fight with him the more you lose!  Set the rules and stick by them - not just for him but for everyone.  Good Luck.
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dont cry over spilt milk ..just learn from your mistakes ..next time get a room
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The only reason he would show up where he knows you're gonna be and then ignore you is to play with your head. I say you are better off with out him and stay strong. I know it hurts now, but it will get better. Remember, if he hurt you and made you cry on purpose then he isn't the one worth your tears. Find a new hobby like a self defense class or maybe take up karate. Something that you can excel at and feel better about yourself. Something that will make you strong in body and in spirit. Go out with friends or better yet, have a sleep over. You're never too old for a good pillow fight. I have been where you are. You will get past him, I promise.
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this is not the appropriate advice but....\nscream back! you will feel better, if you both scream and make ass*s out of yourselves I think making up is more fun, that and at some point if you are screaming back at him, he will realize that he too is screaming and then see that it's not accomplishing anything.
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go to counseling with or with out him all men are not like this he sounds very selfish and I know you are angry and want to strike out but believe me the verbal assault doesn't help at all. when it's to that point it is time to move on if counseling doesn't work. this is a terrible atmosphere to bring up your kids in and will affect them for life
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Take a pillow, put it over your face and scream as loud as you can (this helps me a lot) or write out your feelings in a journal or a letter to the person that is making you so angry or upset, then burn it. If you need someone to talk to feel free to email me. I went through a lot of things when I was a teen and may be able to help. I wish you the best and I will pray for you.
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girl don't bother about what they say.just go to his house and apologize about what happened and he may forgive you.and another note whatever that girl say just tell her that she's hating and that you wish that you had him and stop drinking that haterrade
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Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.
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get rid of him. then get some respect for yourself. How? learn. read. go to school. get a better job. read to your kids. the more respect YOU have for yourself, the more others will respect you.
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It will be okay. It isn't healthy to fight in front of children. Since they are acting childish than sit them down and tell them how you feel...K