Im a PA at work most of our clients are man and i never met most of them.but they usually call to ask me out or to tell me that they love me the moment they here my voice,the others that came to the office the gossip about how beautiful and sexy i am so most they want to meet me,some tell me they love me,how can i handle the situation coz i do understand that clients are clients,and i have to make them happy.
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I got to say that you shouldn't let this break you down. Maybe you are beautiful or sexy. Now for some guy to say that they "love" you without even knowing you or some guy to just come up to you and ask you out is kind of weird.\n\nYou don't have to make them happy, but just you know, give them a little gesture of some sort. It's OK if you have to be a little on the offensive at times.\n\nIf you really want to make one happy. Find maybe the 1 client that is actually not so straight forward. Someone who actually want to get to know you. Where you were born, your family, relations etc.\n\nThat is the kind of person you are looking for.\n\nEveryone is attracted by looks. Of course, looks comes first, but some people don't care who you are, but they just want to get in bed with you. That is a whole norther story though.
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Don't carry yourself like a "young pretty girl" be a young pretty self confident woman, if someone makes an inappropriate comment in front of everyone I would give him a look that would send daggers through his heart to let him know I'm not playing games with him and if he gets you alone and make a comment I would tell him I don't appreciate him treating me like anything other than a fellow employee. do your job and do it well and they cannot fire you because you don't smile and act like a hoochie.but always remember there's no amount of money to buy your dignity. tell your boss in a respectable manner that you like your job and you want to learn and grow and work for him but if he and the other men there are making you feel uncomfortable with the comments. you have to decide if you are going to ignore the comments or deal with them. i work in a hospital as a LPN and  a male RN talked down to me because he felt I was beneath him so I invited my husband who is 6 feet tall 240 pounds of muscle to have lunch with me and i never had any more trouble
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You sound quite happy to me and they may be a little jealous because they cant find inner happiness like you do. Dont be miserable like them and dont worry you will find your ideal guy. Let them go and find help they sure need it not you ok
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I won't mind be passed over for work, thats life... But they should at least have the decency to call instead of making you wait, and worry, depending on close the person is to you.\n\nSo its definitely not ok, especially if its someone who is important to you or you'd like to be! Just ask them how would they feel...
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Unfortunatly that happens quite frequently.At first men do everything in their power to attract you and to make sure you notice them. They treat you like a queen etc. Then as soon as they know that you are theirs and ain't goin' nowhere, they stop trying. What to do in this situation, is to show him, that you are still desirable to others and if you wished you could have any man you want, and you won't hesitate to trade you b/f! Perhaps that will scare him into showing you more attention, and make him work to keep you!
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Same with guys.A guy I worked with flirted like hell with me,then I asked him if you would like to go out with me sometime and he didn't even answer me,after that he wouldn't say one word to me or even look at me.But I am very glad he didn't say yes because I might be with that p*ssy,instead of with my boyfriend that I love.So things work out for a reason.
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You were 100% correct.\nYou are a professional and should act as such.\nIf I was your employer and I heard you call someone "Daddy" I would question you and remind you that many times you are the first impression of the business and is that how we would want to be represented.\nNow if you are developing a professional relationship with the customer and they requested to to call them by a nickname and you were comfortable with it without losing yours or the companies image as professional then go ahead.
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yea there should be guys interested in you because you are a beautiful woman and i bet that you have alot of good qualities iam interested.
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Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
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Both men and women can be threatened by someone else in the workplace.  I think they are just insecure.  Do the best you can and it will work out for you in the end.
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Sounds like your doing a great job already, you must really love the guy.\n\nAll I can say is never forget to show him how much you love him with loads of love and affection and he'll never forget
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If it is way too personal it might be sexual harrassment, if you are young please go to a school counselor about it.  If you are at work, an adult, Ask yourself, is this a pattern?  Do others experience this?  Again, you can discuss it with your personel department.  If all this is too risky, there is a way to avoid questions like this, without lying... for example, you could say "Why do you ask?"  or "Actually, I have a man in my life" (a pet, perhaps?), or maybe, "I'm sorry, but I make it a practice of never discussing my personal life at work.
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The thing is, whatever your sexuality, your sex life has no place in your professional life. The topic just shouldn't come up all that often. If someone asks and doesn't like your answer, though, that's their problem. But there's no reason to slam people with your sexuality at work.
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I find it best to be very positive every minute of the day.  Sucking-up to the person who does the promoting also , sadly helps.  Don't gossip or listen to gossip.  Talk about events, places, things, but NEVER people. If you deal w/customers or clients, constantly go over & beyond the call of duty... it will get back to your supervisor.  Good Luck
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First move. Get that comment, i am aloser out of the about column. Assess whats good in u. u arent an addict,an alcoholic or an insensitive creature. People love u. u r liked bysomeone. they have expectation from u which means u have capbilities. Keep ur chin up., and move on with life.
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First sweetie you must love yourself and when a man/boy see how you carry yourself with confidence and arrogance they usually come looking for you. Do you know that there are so many boys/men that love thick, Heavy set women.
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I am going through the same problem , he likes talk to me , many times i turn accidently to find ou that he was looking at me , when i good by him and turn my back and look back again i find that he's still looking at me , he gives me sweets and gums whenever he pass with my office ( we are work mates ) , his eyes say alot but , then we reach our problem , how can i be sure that he really loves me or not ? i'm not wrighting to you to offer a solution for your problem because if i had one i would have dealt with mine but i felt that you may feel a little better when you know that there is another girl who shares you your confusion and wishes you good luck with your silent guy , please wish me luck also with mine .