he's a gentle man n he loves me but his married wat should i do
121007
No! From your grammar, I can tell that you're no more than 8. That is far too young to lose your virginity.
477126
He does not love you,nothing indeed.Find a a man, who will love you indeed.
218418
hi Jennifer, i think this man loves u but he has a problem with u so whenever u get closer to him he feels like doing something to u. just find the right time and talk things over. but please do it in a respectful manner. and also about the divorce do not think about that yet cos you have children with this man so if u go ahead with it, it will affect your children. but if things gets out of hand u better live before he harms u.
465883
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
606069
Be miserable, like I am. It wouldn't be so bad if the man I married loved and respected me. I guess that doesn't help you, but these things happen. Do what you need to do to make things right, if you can.
245785
Here's a little trick. Picture yourself married to him, doing the things married couples do, meeting his friends and family, facing problems together, etc.. Do you like what you see? If not, give yourself some more time to know him better and do the mind excercise again. If you don't like it still, stop waisting your time and find another guy you can be comfortable with.
220562
Give him a second chance since you are married to him.  Marriage is actually a life long forgiving and acceptance cycle.  Remember, none of us are perfect and all of us can falter in one way or another.  Try to find other good qualities in him which you may miss if you keep reminding yourself of this one incident. God bless!
624263
Hazeline, no you should still love him. What you need to do is get some kind of hobby or something that keeps your mind off of the treatment he is giving you. Show him what it is like to do someone that way. I'm not saying be mean but ignore him some and allow him to see how it feels. If it doesn't seem to bother him then I would have a talk with him and tell him my feelings in a way that is not judging or nagging way. Say this is the way I feel. Always use I not this is the way you make me feel. How long you been married? Try your best to make the marriage work unless he is abusive toward you otherwise you will one day regret if you don't give it a shot..
27936
well, i he loves you then make him work for you. you are obviously a good wife cause you still stay by his side, but that only means you deserve the best. tell him how you feel. if all gets worse then you should think about talking to God. He cares for you and your child. if you ever need more advice feel free to email me. i hope all turns out well.
320965
my dear don't be hesitated if u know that he really like u so there is no one in his life like u despite he is married because alot of people wasting the chances of getting love mariage by bad cultural traditions so i think he is one of those so if u r leaving him u r doing crime because u r commitment is very great very high i mean LOVE . best wishes for both of u
170770
ask him to do it.. its no big deal.. support him.. if he loves u n u love him, it will be done..
6718
You've got two of your most important reasons right in your question...you need to move on & he is married. Honestly, this is exactly where I would start the conversation. Plus, one of the things you might not have considered is that you deserve more, as in someone who loves you & no one else. When you make the break, make it clean & permenant - don't let him try to tell you that he will think about leaving his wife or any of that other prattle. It will take time but your heart will heal...\n\nGood luck!
35969
I know from experience, messing with a married man is just heart break waiting for a place to happen. I am guilty of dating a married man on more than one occassion, and both times I was the one left alone and crying! Though it may not seem fair, it is true.... \nIf you truly feel that he loves you, tell him that you can not handle the stress any longer, and he needs to choose either you or her. Give him no more than 2 weeks to make his decision as you want to make sure it's one he won't regret. Then while waiting, sit and pray that everything will work out in your favor! During this wait also realise that you are not the first one to go through this, nor will you be the last! \nAlso realise that while you may not want to hear everything we say in this forum, that we are all speaking from our own life experiences, and that we do not want anyone to face the pain that we have suffered....\nI wish you luck, and pray that you pain is as little as possible!
316225
I would still care too but you do just have to move on he is just playin u while he is in another womans bed and that aint right you just got to give him that divorce and move on he is the one commiting adultry not u sweetie.. i knwo it will be hard but u have to do whats best for u all he is doing is hurting u but not letting u go.. its hurting ur soul and heart. I know how a hard it will be for u but it will be for the best
210278
If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
203592
youre married. right, email him why not? you missed your ten years then rebond again but talk to him. make sure he respect you as a fren and only a fren. youre married remember that. and be happy for him if he has a soulmate already
357656
Right now and ask him to marry you. Casual relations are no relation avoid from.