Okay, I'm size 10, but altheltic, and dress well. I'm 15 years old, but people have never considered me heavy (to my face) but I have always considered myself fat. Would you date a girl my size? is it a turn off? Girls, what do you think? would you look at think "oh she's fat, I'm glad I don't look like her" or what?
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According to fashion experts, "fat" means you wear anything larger than size 2.\nAccording to me, "fat" starts around size 16 or 18.  Then again, being a 28-year-old guy, female clothing sizes are a bit confusing for me.\nBut to answer your, question, you are not fat at all at size 10, and I would gladly date you if I were about ten years younger.
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Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
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I used to be a big girl, and let me tell you, I look back at photos of myself and think I was so much more photogenic, was stunning, so sexy with all the curves.  At the time I had low self-esteem, but I wish now I could go back to that girl and tell her what she really is: Perfect.\n\nAnyway, if I were a man, I would want a big woman.  If I were gay I would want a big woman.  I love big women, all my friends are big women, I've TRIED being big again (the weight just didn't gain in the same spots as it was before).\n\nI think that when I felt used backthen was when I didn't care enough about myself, was insecure, and so I gave myself away faster than I would make a man work, earn, prove that he deserved me.  If I could do it over again, I'd be big and I would know how worthwhile I was.  Good luck to you, sweetheart.  I went out with one boy back then who broke up with me when I lost weight!  He wasn't having anything to do with a little woman, and he was as small as boys come!
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Oh my God!  No, they were being f**ktards who should probably enjoy a good evening of electro-shock to get them back on track as people.\n\nIf you're a 5'7" female, you should weigh anywhere between 127 and 159 pounds.  That would be considered ideal, so the other user (and if you can contact her through her question, please do so) was thin, and you're actually a bit underweight.\n\nI don't care what anyone else says, you're NOT supposed to be able to see the outline of your skeleton, and women are SUPPOSED to be hippy.\n\nGuys really need to spend a bit more time perusing their Boticelli and learning to appreciate the beauty the female form was supposed to possess.\n\nYou're fine, girl.  Anyone who tells you you're fat either doesn't know what they're talking about, or they're just being malicious.  In either case, you shouldn't bother listening to them.  =)
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I'm sorry and I don't mean to be mean but your first qualification is that she's drop dead gorgeous yet you say that your 400 lbs which means that you obviously aren't that concerned about your own appearance. \nI would never want someone to judge me only on my appearance whether I was gorgeous or overweight.  That may be the reason you've been waiting for 42 years, time to change your priorities.
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How old are you? A size 1 is small. Are you crazy? It depends on your body what is fat. Some girls wear a 8 and look thin and others wear and 8 and look fat. Same goes for all sizes. My friend and I wear the same size 3 but she looks alot thinner than me cause I have curves and she is up and down.
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I love to go out with a bigger girl, simple fact is that they are more( no pun) open to building a lasting relationship. You take your average skinny girl, it's all about her, and you are just there to hold her stuff and buy her stuff. Larger girls still need there stuff held too - but they are more open to your opinion. Now begs the question - how big is too big? If the girl has an ounce of self-esteem then it's not a question of size of the body, but more of heart. How much love, kindness, and compassion does she have!
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Lonely one, your question really touched me. I, too, know what it's like to be an overweight woman and what it's like to be ignored by every man. I'm not trying to be depressing but it's the truth, as I'm sure you know. But I think there is someone out there who will love you for who you are. Realistically, there's only a small slice of the population that would consider going out with a very overweight person, but keep being the nice person that you are and it will happen. Feel free to e-mail me at rmaynard@su.edu We may have a lot in common.
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wow!  you are a great weight and definitely NOT fat!!!  he may have just been nervous about the date itself, not your weight.  he may feel more uncomfortable that you are older than him.  you may want to evaluate this yourself.  is he too immature for you?  does he have different values/ideals, goals, etc. that may get in the way?  if you know that you really care for him and want to keep dating, talk to him about this, and let him know you care about his feelings and ask him to let you know if he really was uncomfortable, or if he was just nervous.  Hope it goes well!  take care!
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I cannot speak for others but size is not a preference to me. I know girls who exceed their BMI but yet are beautiful and very sexy (Yes, you CAN be beautiful and large.)\n\nIf you're hot, you're hot.
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Well, you're the first I've seen that says something like that. I do like a great body, you know, curves, everything in the right place, but you know, its not like im some heartless person. I do like a girl's personality, its just if she's 400lbs then I'd have to pass.
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Uh, there's nothing wrong with obese, I could definitely see my-self falling in love with an obese woman. (f.v.i., I'm not obese, I'm almost underweight, and I'm a vegetarian, that info might help in trying to find an answer, most overweight people wouldn't mind having an overweight spouse, so I guess that info is needed?).  Hope this helps!
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I think your fit. I don't know how much you will weigh when your 15.
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It works both ways. When I was young & thin I had plenty of big women accusing me of being a slut & everything else bad when I did not even date! At one time I was dating someone & they quit seeing me to go out with some big girl just because she would sleep around & I wouldn't!   \nAnd what size you are has nothing to do with how loving you are toward your partner. Jerks come in all sizes, big & small.  And face it: Some peopel are not going to like you no matter how you look.\n\nThe majority of people that have weight problems do not have have them BECAUSE of medical problems---they have medical problems because of weight problems. I am not near as thin as I would like to be & I never will be but this does not mean that I sit on my butt all day making the problem worse. At least I try!   \n\nIt seems like you need to try to work on that & your self-esteem!
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Because they are immature boys with no self confidence.  There was another question similar to this one.  Here is what I wrote on that one:  \n\nIn my opinion, as a woman, I have always assumed that men wouldn't want to date a BBW or plus-size woman. (I'm 43 yrs old). About a year ago I met a really great guy who expressed interest in me - extreme interest. I came right out and asked him why he was paying so much attention to me (we had only met and emailed) and he was very honest and he said that women with big hips and thighs turned him on. I nearly fainted. We have been seeing each other over the past year and the attraction has grown. We have talked many, many times and I told him that I thought most men don't want plus-size women. He told me that I would be surprised the number of men that like larger women. Via the internet, he has shown me how much. The number of men who are attracted and adore plus-size women, is absolutely amazing. Believe me when I tell you....it gives us plus-sizers hope. \n\nThe relationship that I've had with this guy in the past year, has been better than any I've ever had. Previously, I never had a guy who wanted to see me in sexy lingerie. I never had a guy who wanted me to dress up in a short skirt and garters. I never had a guy who constantly tells me how beautiful I am. It is incredible and is absolutely wonderful. I can't get enough of it!! Talk about an ego booster and talk about boosting my self esteem! He has made me feel so much better about myself and my body. \n\nMen need to realize that plus-size women are no different than average size, or thinner women. We want a relationship, we want sex, we want exactly what other women want....there is more to us than the exterior. Don't assume we are just stupid fat women. We are regular people, and have feelings too.\n\nMen who like plus-size women need to stop worrying that their friends will laugh at them for liking plus-size women. A woman is a woman... tall, thin, short, average, plus-size... doesn't matter. Be a man and be with who you want to be. \n\nHoney - you need to be more self-confident and be happy with yourself and your body.  No one can do that for you....  A man will notice a self-confident woman.  Your self confidence will improve after he shows you a little attention.  That's what has happened with me.  But generally, you must be happy with yourself first.  \n\nJust be yourself.  Don't try so hard to be what you think guys want.  Just be you....
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hey, I'm a a size 8UK. anyway, what does shoe size has anything to do with this question? the last time i checked, a lesbian's "size" wasn't checked via the shoe size anyway. or have i miss something again?!?!?\n\ngirl! you gotta keep your itchy fingers in your pants man! or else your GF would have your head for dinner!\nand to answer your question, my answer would be no cuz otherwise MY GF would have MY head for dinner! lol\n\ngood luck in your quest kiddo
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Yes, I would date a larger person.  If I have things in common with the person, and I enjoy being with the person, then I wouldn't feel uncomfortable.