im fairly young and everyone is startin to get into datin... girl i liked and i asked her to a dance, i broke up with her friend who she is fightin with a week before i asked her. she said she would think about it and the day of she said no because my friend asked her and she said yes to him. my friend didnt know i liked her but i knew he liked her the day after i asked her. i really like her even though i dont want to and i have to idea what to do.
131271
Well who do you like better her or her friend? That's how you truly know!
431818
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
394250
It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
558368
If you never went out with the guy then you shouldn't really care.  If this guy likes her and she likes him whats the big deal?  You did like him, but she can't help the fact that he likes her and not you.  It's not as if you went out with him or she stole him from you.  Wish her well in the relationship and continue being her friend and her sister.
85147
your avatar is cute! Now, if he is a butthead break up wit him. your friend shouldn'y of made u go out wit him if you didn't like him! Anyway, if S.M. did ask you out and if you like him, go for it! Good Luck! :)
588582
MY BEST FRIEND HAD BROKE UP WITH THIS GUY AND AS YOU,HE LIKED ME AND I LIKED HIM.WE STARTED DATING AND MY BEST FRIEND HATED ME FOR IT ONLY BECAUSE I DID NOT GO TO HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT MY FEELINGS TOWARD THE GUY.I RECOMMEND TALKING TO HER AND LETTING HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IT BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM,THEN ITS YOUR DECISON RATHER YOU WANT TO DATE HIM OR NOT.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK..
540999
ask her. do not tell her that you like him when you ask though. kinda get a feeling for what she feels for him. If she likes him, than you might want to cool off a little bit. in HS my friend and i liked the same guy. he asked me out and i accepted. That really did hurt my friend. I decide not to go out with him because she met more to me.
365878
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
612817
well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
351555
Well i did it when my best friend liked our guy best friend and i asked him out to the dance and she got really pissed cause she found out i liked him. We didn't talk for about 2 months and now we're sorta friends. But technically i'm really happy i went to the dance with him cause now i'm really close with him and i love him to death! So yeah definitely go for it. Living isn't living without taking risks.
309095
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.
126692
I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
642114
One of the hardest parts of growing up and dating is learning how to deal with things when you like someone more than that someone likes you.\n\nUnfortunately, you aren't going to be able to change her mind. You have to decide if you are okay with just being friends - or if it is time to move on and spend time with other people.\n\nIn time, it will hurt less but it does suck right now. It's okay though - you are going to be alright.
482209
OK here is what happened . The girl you like was embarrassed . It's not that she doesn't like you . When she told you she just wanted to be friends go from there . Be friendly . Be sensitive . Girls love guys that are sensitive . When you see her alone with out her friend . Tell her your sorry that her friend embarrassed her like that . That you and her are friends and you know that . You never know she might come around to your way of thinking . You always start a relationship off by being friends first .
312466
I think if you like the girl, why not take her.  Eventually, if things work out, she will be meeting your friends anyway. If she likes you i don't think meeting your friends would scare her off. You only live once go for it!!!
406429
Well for starters every girl loves attention so even if you ask her out and she says no, she wont mind knowing you care :)\n\nI think the whole 'I still like my other boyfriend' is just a front so she doesnt have to feel akward around you and can be herself.\n\nWhen your out with her next, go for the hand, if she likes you, you will see major sparks if not then she will just let go of yours and say something funny or nice to let go of your hand. \n\nBut I think the best and longer lasting relationships are the ones that started out as friends, So good luck mate :)
242963
I think you would be very smart to ask your friend first what he thinks about it. But be ware that he might still have feelings for her, even though he broke up with her. But still ask amd make sure that it is cool with him. And if its not, dont push the issue leave it alone. And if he is down with wit, go for it. Good Luck!!!!!