well?...why is it that men suck so hard?....should i become a lesbian....?
129445
Because you are a wench?
440397
you are coming from a bad place right now....I suggest you sit back, get rid of the negative energy you have filled your life with and .... clean up your head. You are blaming all women for one woman's actions...not very fair. You are bitter towards all women because of some past experiences with a few women...perhaps it is what you are doing that gets you what you get. My advice to you would be to STOP making bad choices in women and use some sense, start picking women that are compatable with your life and your head. Stop picking women based solely on what they look like, and start picking women who are kind, nice, ...and yes, these qualities do come in the same package as looks. I cannot imagine your finding any kind of happiness acting as "trade" to gay men.....it may get you off, but where does that lead to anything that is lasting as far as happiness goes? Trust me, all those women you are trying to punish will not give a rat's butt about what you are doing...you hurt no one but yourself when you seal yourself off as you are suggesting. AND, you will not be doing any gay guy a favor either. Your life is your own, your mistakes are your own...stop blaming all women for your mistakes and that is the first road back to sanity. Good luck
104154
Im telling you I hate it when this happens!  SOME guys are just soooooo persistent!  I use to bartend and I had one guy who came in every single day just to see if I had kicked my hubby out yet!  He would call the bar and he's send me presents, and tip very very well.  Im really bad at hurting peoples feelings.  I HATE being mean!  cannot help it!  Finally I just had to tell him- ok- here we go- tell him u r lesbian!  lol  Ok maybe not!  lol  I would just tell him- sorry- Im not interested.  Then just kinda avoid him at all costs!!!!  I really do feel for u!  Good luck friend!
204983
your boyfriend sucks...you are never supposed to stand a beautiful woman like yourself up to go hang out with your "boys"...you tell him for me that there are a lot of men out here that would love to be with you , and we wouldn't stand you up...
282312
Get used to it...all women are somewhat crazed, especially when it comes to men. I wish I could tell you that it will get better when you get older but it wont, it's just one of those things you have to learn to deal with.
152027
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
633502
I understand where you are coming from.  That is totally rude of them .  It gives all Lesbians a bad rap because of the holier then thou ones.  I can only say that maybe somewhere in their past life they were dealt a bad rap themselves by men, but not all men. You seem to be fine gentlemen and I as a lesbian applaud you.  I have many guys as friends we have enormous fun.  I love people, no matter what their sexual orientation may be.  Life is to short to be so mean and nasty,  Next time honey, that a lesbian is mean or nasty don't take it personal, its her way of showing her ignorance and lack of self-esteem.\n\n                                   Your al-right
571517
Why are you complaining? I'm in the same situation with regards to men but I don't complain. I love the attention. To me you seem to be bragging a little bit ah? Drawing more attention to you from the girls eh? You naughty boy!
526939
You are completly normal tons of women get turned on by girls making out but they're not neccessarily lesbian. \n\nWomen's bodies just happen to be quite nice. However fantasy is different from reality, just because you like the idea of it doesn't mean you will like it in practice. So proceed with caution.
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I agree! If your friends are making fun of you then they aren't true friends! I have had sexual identity issues myself in the past. It took me years to become comfortable with the fact that I like women as well as men and also become open about it. I try to surround myself with positive influences; people who will love me for me. People who will accept and support me no matter what! If they don't like my lifestyle they can f*** off. Why would I want to put myself in a situation that is harmful to my emotional health? Neither should you! Talk to your friends and tell them how their words make you feel! If they still make fun of you then you should find new friends ASAP. Try going to your local university and see if they have any trans-sexual support groups. Also try searching on-line for websites that support alternative lifestyles. I know what it's like and I know how important it is to surround yourself with good friends! You might also want to becareful who you choose to come out to. I don't necessarily blast out to the world about my sexual identity (although i just did ;=) ) but if I think someone is going to become my friend they should also know the truth. \n\nYou might want to try these sites to start:\n\nhttp://thelovelinks.com/8_Alternative_dating_sites.shtml\n\nhttp://www.mygaypartner.com/\n\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/tgusarights/
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A lesbian is a gay woman. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being lesbian. It sounds like you may well be lesbian. Everyone does NOT hate gay people. It's just popular to bash on them just now. Look for support - the straight/gay alliance in High Schools would be a good thing, and you should look on the net for lesbian/gay resources. Gay people have been on this planet forever. You're fine - try cybering with a lesbian once... it's more honest.
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Hi hun, Just felt like i had to say i am so sorry for what someone said in one of your answers,people come in here as a safe place and some stranger talks to you (many teens) like you are nothing.I'm here to tell you that was a great and curious  question for new people to deal with in our community(lesbian,gay,bi,trans).It really isn't something that is taught but you will come into your own as you spend time around other lesbians maybe in some social events and just feel your way through what fits you best,some are femmes or more known as lipstick lesbians,some are just tomboys and some are soft butch and some are hard core butch,dress and act much like a man.so you see there are many personalities in our world as well as being in a straight world..I wish you the best and just hall er if you need to ok  Bye Deb
548535
You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings!  We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room!  Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed!  Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood.  You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges?  We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into!  Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about.  You do well to listen to people with experience and age.  Don't fight them and their advice!  They really know what's good for you and people your age.  If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard.  Good luck and have fun!
546069
I think you have just run into a few bad apples.  Guys are guys, gay str8 or bi, basically decent underneath but we all have our faults.\n\nI will say this, some bi guys tend to over compensate, constantly reminding you they could be with a girl (as if you were lucky to be with them), but pettiness ain't exclusive to bi guys, they just got a different weapon to use.
538920
Well, you could be a lesbian. For some it takes time to figure out their orientation. It sounds like you aren't willing to admit your feelings to yourself and accept your sexuality. Oh, and what your father is doing is abuse. Get as far away from him as you can. You don't need that negativity in your life. It sounds like no matter what you tell him he's going to degrade you though. Just get away from him for your own sake.
297241
Bi? Come on if you're a guy and and you like to suck d1ck or take d1ck in th a$$ you're gay so stop fooling yourself... you're not fooling anyone. Please do yourself a favor and come out of the closet life to short to be wasting your time with women.
236565
Woman on woman action is totally natural.  It sounds like things are getting stale in your relationship, so it's either do it or end it, so you might as well do it.  I think you might like the power trip of telling another woman to suck your man.  I have a (female) friend that told me she really dug it.