maYbe giRls aRe tOo laDy.... anD genTlemenS awaiiS maKe thE fiRst moVe mayBe..?
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How old are you anyway?
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Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
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same reason as guys act strange around gals they like.
225882
Women are getting more dominant they feel they are above us men. Little do they know.....
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i agree, it seems that a women is more relaxed while asking a man out than if it was reversed. this allows them to seem more confident.
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chicks should always make the first move.
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Approach from the rear.  A lot of girls really, really like that.
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They may get us faster, but easy come easy go. They also loose us faster. I am finding that the more class a women has the more I want her. Although I am a bit older now and flirtatious behavior can go along way.
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It entirely depends on the girl, I know Im younger than who you wanted to answer but all my friends and roommates are in that age range. Some girls like a guy who is more confident and will make a move sooner, others like a guy to wait. The big key is body language, read into things, I know that feels dumb, but you learn a lot from watching, and having the confidence to make a move when it "feels" right.
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You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
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well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.
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Girls immediately are able to sense a guy who has a kind heart even if there is a lot of noise and confusion. It was obvious that you didn't want to hurt either of them. You are a kind soul.
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i would'nt neva makec a first move all i would is flirt
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It's best to think they're just being friendly rather than think that everyone is flirting with you.  That way you will always act natural and be yourself and guys will love that, I think.
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I'm a guy. If a girl just came up to me and asked if I wanted to go out, I would be ecstatic. \n\nJust say "Hey, I think you're attractive and I'd like to take you to dinner and a movie"\n\nHe'll like it. I swear.
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sweetheart, it is not that they don't want the good guy first ...sometimes you just can't tell the difference. unfortunately for women, there usually are no flashing lights and ringing bells to let us know that the guy is one of the as..... out there.
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sometimes they do. I'm a girl, and way into sports. i don't mind takling about a soccer game with guys, or even going to a basket ball game.  I love it.  But some girls only act like they like sports to get your attention, and make some guy think that they are into the same kind of things. I'll admit, i've acted interested in Golf to get a guy interested....