i know that the easiest way is by taking some medicines that the doctor gives you. the other two ways =  surgery. do u know the implications of taking those medicines the doctor gives you? \ni don't want this baby now, please don't bring God, the morality of it and the psychological effects into discussion. and yeah, abortion is legal where i live and i am not from america...thx a lot for your answers!
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If this is your first and you are early in the pregnancy, you can just take a pill and have something like a miscarriage.  It will not affect you being able to get pregnant later.  But I wouldn't suggest doing it a lot because too many abortions will hinder you from geting pregnant later.  The sugery is the same but they usually do that with people that are further along.  It is very very uncomfortable and you should schedule a day to get it done and then a day after to rest and take antiboitics.
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This does not make sense!\nNo one has a right to demand no pregnancy on a job!\nLife is precious.  To feel life in your tummy is such a miracle.  Never would I ever have an abortion...the aftermath shows it is also a mighty trauma for the mother...years later a lot of emotional problems.\nLawfully, it sounds like this is a legal case.  GET professional help how...I would suggest for your friend.
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Yes you can, I'd recommend you go to a midwife when this happens, because even though doctors can say yes, a lot of them would say no, just to avoid complications and/or to avoid the birth being so long. To doctors, the faster things go, the better. A midwife will never rush you, and they have fantastic ways of encouraging you, and ways of helping you out without having to go to drugs as a solution, with a midwife, everything is natural/homeopathic, and nothing will harm you or your baby (drugs wise). Good luck!
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The best way is to make birth control readily available and teach everyone how to use it. It's too late once they're already pregnant.\n\nEdit: You may think that everyone knows about birth control, but they don't. More than half of all abortions are performed on women who were actively using birth control during the month of conception, but clearly using it incorrectly. How about the other half? They didn't have access to it. If everyone had access to birth control and knew how to use it, there wouldn't be abortions, at least not at the rates we have now.
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why would anyone want an abortion you know you are actually killing a human being ok a human being its just like shooting someone i don't know how anybody can live with themselves if they kill someone i know someone who had an abortion many years ago and she said she has always regretted it just don't get an abortion there's a little thing called adoption just think about it there is some people out there who really really want a baby and are not able to conceive and yet someone would just kill theirs and give up one of Gods most precious miracles! i cant believe it just think about adoption who ever this answer is intended for!!\noh and also a womans right to choose nd its my life actually its not your live it is your babys life they have their own mind their own DNA its their choice and personally my choice would be not to die so just think adoption
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The UK is once again debating over its abortion laws. It is allowed in this country currently up 24 weeks providing 2 doctors give their consent that to not abort would be of detrrement to the womans physical or mental health, that it would harm the child or their family. \nseems about right to me.
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You do not need Guy advice, you need life advice!\n\nYou are Catholic so you can't have an abortion, but you can sex your boyfriend?\n\nRaise the kid as best you can with your parents and families help.\n\nDump that guy for good.  and probably don't ever see him again, he is abusive and dangerous. \n\nQuit haveing sex, and getting preggers when you can't support yourself.\n\nGet a education and&#92;or a decent job.\n\nHave some respect for yourself when looking for a boyfriend.  He should care for you and treat you with respect.  In the loving relationship above all else actions speak louder than words.
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I think perhaps God should make decisions like those. Medical Science is great and all but God has power over all things. Choose your child. From the mother's stand point what better way to die, than by giving another life. Greater love has no man than this, that he lay down his life for a friend. (I think baby relatives count too.) From the father's stand point what better way to show God you totally trust him? A friend of mine was told about six months ago that she should abort her child because he would never breathe on his own, his skull would not be formed,his facial features would be distorted, and the child's brain would be in essence.... dead.Pam and Mike were basically told to kill their unborn child because a medical test "proved" it would be for the best. Rather than putting their faith in medicine they put their faith in God and  today a miracle happened. Pam gave birth to a basically healthly child. He is breathing just fine all by himself, despite some minor physical abnormalities he is a beautiful healthy child. Praise God for this precious life! If Mike would have put his faith in science, or Pam had chosen instead to have her baby aborted because something might be wrong.... well the world would have missed out on this brand new perfect life. The real question is not who can I save? But, in whom can I put my faith? You have no control over life or death, which means YOU can NOT Choose who lives. ie. If the father decides "choose" to abort the child who is to say that during the procedure the mother would not also die? It has happened. an abortion requires a serious, though minimally invasive, surgical procedure.It's called a Dilitation and Curretage more commonly refered to as a D&C.(not only for decicive abortions, a D&C is commonly done on women who have had a spontaneous abortion or miscarriage to prevent uterine infections)I personally have seen (working on a surgical floor) women who have nearly died from complications of this "minimally invasive" procedure.If you put your faith in God he will direct your path.
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I wouldn't have an abortion, pay for one or agree with one.\n\nBut I think everyone have the right to make the decision. Then you deal with God later, if you believe in it.
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Abortion is choice.. When you have sex and do not use birth control you know at that moment that your taking a chance on becoming pregnant, not with a cow or a chicken but with a baby. so, you know baby, so it is not a surprise.. It is a question of right or wrong. Your choice. I can see if you are raped that is different story. yet there are many childless people willing to adopt..How about a baby that will have a defect. Like Down syndrome? Can the baby be properly cared for?  The issues go on and on.. So it comes back to having sex, unprotected.. Your choice
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if your abortions were done in a hospital, you had quality care, so i wouldnt worry.just try to concieve and if you dont then go see a doctor
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The world right now in May of 2006 is climbing toward 7,000,000,000 -- yes, billion -- people.  For health reasons, you have had a hysterectomy.  And now your husband wants another baby.  What do YOU want?  Do you have any children in the first place?  Have you or he had children together, or do you have children from previous relationships?  How much strain would this pregnancy put on your body and your relationship?  All of these questions and more, I'm sure, need to be considered.\n\nIn vitro may be an option, but it's expensive and very iffy, with maybe a 10% chance of impregnation at any one time.  At several thousand dollars per cycle and no promises, IVF is often an emotional rollercoaster, as people get their hopes up and then nothing.  Are you willing to go through, potentially, months and years of disappointment, dwindling finances and no child at the end?\n\nUsing a surrogate is a possibility, but surrogacy is fraught with emotional time-bombs.  Some surrogates want to keep the baby.  Mothers who cannot have children physically may be resentful and jealous of the other woman's ability to become and stay pregnant.  I don't know what the protocol is after a child is born from a surrogate, but it seems an extraordinary thing for a woman to give birth to a child and then just walk away, but I suppose that's how it's done.  \n\nUltimately if you don't have a uterus, you cannot have a baby naturally that I'm aware of.  You would have to use a surrogate, or you would have to adopt.  I'd suggest you do some research and reading first, talk this over with your husband, and talk it over with yourself, and think about what you really want.  \n\nIt sends up a big red flag to me that after a hysterectomy where your uterus is removed, your husband suddenly wants a baby -- and obviously you cannot do this.  Is it really a baby he wants, or something else emotionally?  Having a baby complicates relationships and never solves any problem.  Babies even when wanted bring stress to a relationship.  Perhaps some marriage counseling and/or some very honest talks are very much in order.  I wish you the best.\n\nGood luck.  Cheers, K
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It is entirely possible.You can go to your doctor for an emergency contraceptive within the first five days,but it is unpleasant.There are side effects,like feeling nauseous and crampy.However, it sure as heck beats the pain of childbirth and the subsequent stress of raising a child you aren't prepared to raise.It is NOT the same as abortion, because the emergency contraceptive pills prevent the egg and sperm cell from forming a zygote,which is a fetilized egg and the beginning of the fetus.I would also suggest getting on birth control a.s.a.p.,and make him use a condom if you intend to continue to have sex.And get tested for std's.
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You can take the abortion pill up to 8 wks. Just contact a women's clinic and ask about it. It is costly though, the clinic I spoke with told me $400, which includes an exam, an antibiotic to take after words, and new birth control. \nAlso (and Im not saying this will work), I didn't have to have an abortion because I had a miscarriage from taking Hydroxy Cut.
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Try a book or a video that has chapters/topics such as:\n\n1. Fetus capabilities at each level of the pregnancy (reminder that it is a life)\n2. A spiritual relationship with God can help to cope with the stress of an unplanned pregnancy.\n3. Governmental/Non-Profit organizations to offer advice.\n\n\n\n\nBasicly it is a product to inform women who are considering abortion that assures them there is help out there.\n\n\n\nHope this helps.
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Oh that is a tough situation and I dont think you can make one decision that will fit everyone. I think it would depend on how far into the pregnancy you are, which would still be a tough decision to make. I don't have kids or particularly want them, but if I were pregnant and I was in the situation I personally would want to be kept alive long enough for my child to survive. Most sane normal women would want that. That is a personal decision however and the goverment should keep its nose out.
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You can give up your rights without a problem...just some legal paperwork.  However, be aware that you will still be responsible for child support until the baby turns 18.  It is the law.\n\nP.S.  If you weren't ready, you should have kept your pants on.  It takes two to commit the deed.  Only sure fire way of preventing pregnancy is abstinence.  You might want to take that into consideration the next time you are thinking with the wrong head.