There's this guy at my school and he is a complete jerk! He drew a picture of my that was really mean. He always says f*ck you and all these other curse words to me and other people. What can i do? I don't want to tell him to stop because that makes him madder. I can't ignore him... HELP!
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Walk away.\n\nHe does this because he gets a reaction. If he no longer gets the level of reaction from you that he wants, he will leave.
634034
B*tch slap that fool.\n\nThen tell him what a jerk he is.
280854
You're a normal person having a messed-up response in a messed-up situation.\n\nI'd sit, relax, breathe. \n\nNow, think of who you've offended. Call them and apologize for the attitude, tell them what's going on, tell them  you're stressed out, ask for their help.\n\nTalk with your sister. If she won't listen, talk with your parents about how to get through to her.\n\nDon't ever talk to that senior again. He's a jerk. Most high schools have policies against sexual harassment. You should report him.
641320
it depends. r they bullying u physically?  r they threatening 2 hurt u?  Or r they just verbally bullying and calling u names?  I've been verbally bullied b4.  I've been called a toothpaste eater, ugly, stupid, and stuff like that.  Then one guy threatened 2 shoot me.  I would say tell your parents or complain 2 the school.  Ignoring them may help or hurt depending on the situation.  Hang out w/ your friends as much as u can cuz bullies r less likely 2 hurt u w/ a bunch of people around. I know what u r going thru tho:)
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Take courage and confront him.  Ask him to explain exactly what he meant by those comments, or tell him that you will be forced to report him for sexual harrassment.  Under no circumstances do you report him without first asking him to explain (as it MIGHT be possible the comments were misunderstood... he might just be a poor joker)!
50625
Just ignore him, don't be childish.  You could very well end up embarrassing yourself.
268690
try to carry a web cam or get a friend of yours to get pics the next time these schmucks hit you. THEN you make copies of everything and go to the school. if the school doesn't do anything you sue them and have the jerk offs charged with assault and battery.\n\nVin
295794
being a bully is one thing. Harassment is another. If he has crossed that line then you have a duty to report his inappropriate behavior to management.  If he's just giving you a hard time try your best to ignore the pinhead. Then.....Fire his butt as soon as you get the chance
55121
Are you having a popularity contest?  Kinda confused about "sn" and how it was blocked.  What good will it do to tell a guy that you hate him if he is already a mean guy to start with? Popularity will not last forever.  Unless of course there's that rare chance that the whole class will all go to the same school in college.\n\nThere was a guy like that in my school.  This girl did the most inspiring thing.  I don't know whether your principal or director tolerates meaness, but this girl in my highschool made out a petition and had a whole lot of girls put their signatures that this guy was a real piece of s**t (they didn't use that word, but it was implied).  The director called in the guy, explained to him that a petition had been brought to him and after thinking about (speaking of the director), he expelled the guy from school.  This may seem a bit harsh, but this director did not tolerate this kind of behavior in any way.\n\nI hope this helps you.
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Unfortunately, having to interact with persons that you do not like is good training for the "real world".  We all have to work, at some time, with someone that we do not want to work with.  The best way to deal with such a person is to treat them with kindness.  If he's looking at you in a threatening way, then smile, and say "How's it going, Man!" and then go on about your business.  If he insults you, then say something like "Hmmm.  I see where you're coming from!" then go on about your business.  In other words, don't feed the fire, and by being "cooperative" you will confuse him when he does not get the reaction that he expected.  On the other hand, if he is threatening you with physical harm, then do not walk away but look him dead in the eye and tell him to "lay off".  Hold your ground, and your eye contact.  Most bullies will run when confronted with determined opposition.  And do alert your teacher or principal if you feel that you are in real danger.
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look rage this is what you do, you get your self a make over and some new gear, go back to school monday morn and ignore him act as if he not even there let him approach you and when he does brush him off like he was never there. give him a taste of his own medicine.
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just talk to him about everything and get it off your chest, but also explain to him that none of you guys want him in a relationship,, i just know that hating someone without fixing it will just bother you until you do something about it....
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Hi\n\n   If he is your friend like you stated please do not ignore him because that is not what suppose it friends do. I would simply say just talk to him have a serious one on one chat and let him know you do not view him in a way which can lead to anything but pure friendship. Hopeful he will be mature enough to understand that friendship is all you desire out of this relationship. \n  \nNow on the other hand if he ends up being a DICK about it you can just simply cut him off and then ignore him. I hope I helped
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I know what it's like. Always being picked at, Laughed at, and even shoved out. But I learn from them. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. anywayz, my advice to you is first you need to tell someone about it. whether it be your teacher or your parents. if the bullying doesn't stop, take matters into your own hands. i'm not saying to fight the guy (although that is an option for a much, much later use) but to sorta use your head to out smart him. If he still continues, take a stand and MAKE the school move him to another class and to keep him away from you or else you sue.\nI'm pretty sure that you'll won't have to go that far but just try and find out what's his problem and try and help him. Hey who knows maybe you'll actually become friends.\n       Good luck ;)
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Be nice. Take the high road. Read the stupid poem. Tell him its very nice and sweet.\n\nLet him know that your current honey wouldnt appreciate it though (if he wanted to say, take things further).\n\nIf you dont have a current honey, TELL HIM YOU DO. At another school or something.\n\nNo need to be mean. The guy in the cape is trying his best.\n\nAll parties involved would be better served if you just take the high road.
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One, forget about what everybody else thinks. It doesn't count and isn't gonna solve your problems. The psychology of revenge is common in America... anytime somebody does something to piss another off for a long period of time, then the victim wants to put it to an end. The one thing you do not want to do is erupt like a volcano... it'll only give him the satisfaction of your anger. If your going to get revenge on him because everyone else hates him and he pisses you off, it's gonna make you look bad and you'll probably end up in the dean's.\nOkay he bumps into you... walk around... or take detours. He shoves your stuff on the floor... Carry it in your backpack... its the 21st century for god sakes. Complains about wearing the same t-shirt? C'mon that sounds b**tchy. Wear something that's not common... The solution is to ignore him and not react. If you react, then he's happy because he knows it bothers you and he'll do it again. So think twice before taking revenge on a class mate.
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TOTALLY IGNORE HIM!  That will absolutely do it.  He will be pissed at first and bombard you with messages, but DON'T CAVE IN and do NOT respond to him no matter what.  This works, trust me.