Why do Men get turned on By porn when they have the real thing at home>>>>>
120639
Men respond to visual stimuli and are not as reliant on their feelings.\nSome women respond to visual stimuli also, but they are more talkative and communicate what they are feeling more openly.
664024
same reason men masturbate
181012
They're pretend. You would have seen their "lower private parts" inside each other if it was real. Pornos have real sex.
1668
I dont really have the expertise to answer this question, but from listening to many many wonderful chastity speeches, I know that the way that it will affect your relationship the most is the same way it will if you watch porn. Men who take part in these things are proned to a dissatisfication that develops in their relationship because there are these women or photographs of women who will pleasure you whenever you want, no strings attached. It may create restlessness in you where even though you promise to be loyal to her, your old habits will die hard.
4690
Dude it's the basic Human MALE nature,\nYou can delay it, avoid it for some time but CAN NOT leave watching porn.
91475
I would keep watching even if he knew it...depends on what he's doing...is he just changing, showering, or is he actually touching himself.  I like to watch men having sex with women, pornos are fine but I would love to watch it in person...
663836
I'd get pissed at my guy definitely for watching porn. Luckily my guy doesn't watch it. But I totally agree with you. Of course some men are like why is it a big deal. They just have a hard time seeing it from our point of view because they just thinks its the manly thing to do. MEN!
32980
Highlights are kinda like glossy lips. Women only do it because men like it. Men only like it because most of them beat off to porn on the internet, and that's how porn stars do themselves up.
552011
Porn appeals to men because they are very visual. Women are not so visual. Men also seem to be able to completely separate the physical act of sex from any kind of emotion. Most women arent able to do this. They do make porn for women that has more of a story line, and more developed relationships in the story. I dont know - I suppose that there are women who DO like porn, but I tend to think they are the exception to the rule. Who knows WHY men and women like different things - its probably a combination of different brains and different upbringings, socializations, expectations, etc . . .
282111
Maybe youre not gay but I disagree with you when you said most guys get aroused when they see other guys naked. It disgusts me to see a guy naked sometimes.
95206
Porn isn't one of those things that everybody is ok with. It could be that he's embarrassed of his interest in them - that might be why he lied about them. I'd say that you did great. Let him know that you're open to watching one with him sometime...that let him know that you don't think less of him for watching them, right?
657756
Whats wrong with a little bit of porn? You shouldn't be threatened by it at all! Its a natural thing all guys- and to be honest with you a lot of girls- do. Why not be supportive of it instead. Be more 'hey baby' instead of 'eww porno's'. He's going to masturbate, and look at porn. Its a guy thing, let him do it- maybe even get involved. You know, 'lend' a hand?!
538702
For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
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porno, well men usually want to watch pornos when they don't have a hot babe to be with.  \n\nif a guy does have a hot babe sometimes he is looking to "enhance" the relationship (like adding adult toys into the bedroom).  \n\nmy final thought is he is addicted to internet porn and replaced the hot babe waiting for him with the myriad of internet babes having sex with other guys, girls, themselves, etc., etc., etc.
205068
Because he is more interested in porn! SOunds like he has an addiction...which is not your fault. He needs help for his addiction. You need to drag him kicking and screaming into counseling if you want to help him. GOODLUCK
218596
Yeah my husband does too.  I didn't think about it till it happened.  Now we do it every once in a while so we keep it not boring.  Plus, it's intense sex.  You guys take turns, she can go on and you guys take breaks and watch.  It's live porno and it's you wife which makes you want her more.  I think it's normal.  Enjoy it and have fun!
184805
I like to watch porn with my husband to get us started when we have had a tiring day. You can get some ideas from porn but you should run them by your lover before you do anything you see on the screen, lol.