i LIKE 2 GUYS...1 OF THEM IS MY BOYFRIEND...I LOVE HIM 2 DEATH BUT HE DOESN'T LOVE ME BACK...THE OTHER IS A FRIEND OF MINE...WHO LOVES ME BUT I DON'T LOVE HIM...I JUST REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM...MY BOYFRIEND FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS WHOLE UGLY SITUATION AND NOW HE WANTS ME 2 CHOOSE. HOW DO I CHOOSE BETWEEN A LOVE AND A BEST FRIEND WITHOUT HURTING 1 OR THE OTHER...IT SEEMS LIKE THERE IS NO WAY OUT WITHOUT TURNING THEM BOTH DOWN BUT IT HURTS ME 2 THINK ABOUT IT...THIS FUCKING SUCKS ASS CRACK!!!
130310
you know the answer, turn them both down. one doesnt love you, you don't love the other, find someone who loves you and that you love
181504
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
206573
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
48264
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
96352
Threesome... just kidding Who do you love more? Is he worth losing your friend over and vice versa? Have you ever heard the phrase you can't make all the people happy all the time? 1.think of how you would want to be treated and 2.figure out how you're happiest.
169488
Well,I like 2 men that I had been talking to,but I still won't go there. You'll have so much trouble if you try to have them both,and No way could you be in love girl!!! This is called "Crushing"!!!
324543
There a guy just like that in my life, I used to confine in him cause he was a good riend and he told me once that he like me and I should be with him even if it was a secret relationship, I told him I can't do that cause no matter how my bf hurt me I still love him and I am not going to leave him. I made my decision based on the vibes I was getting from the other guy. You need to ask your boyfriend's brother about his whereabouts on particular days. Use you woman's intuition, most of the time it is right and on clue. You need answers and you need them answered. But tell that guy exactly what is on your mind. Don't completely trust him. Take everything at face value and question other things completely.
252189
Well, you should really think about who you like the MOST. Either way, whatever decision you make will hurt someone's feelings..it's a really hard situation you're in. Sit down and think about who you really like and decide. Good luck!
65432
if you and this 3rd guy love each other (mutual feelings), then you should go for it! concerning these other people, no guy in his right mind would be happy with someone who wasn't into the relationship - and i doubt you would either! trust your feelings and go with the guy you truly love.\n;)
212195
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
543844
The grass sure is always greener on the other side, isn't it?  You left boyfriend number 2 because you were thinking back to boyfriend number 1 and wanting to to back with him.  Now you are with him and you are thinking back to number 2 and wanting to be with him.  Do we see a pattern?  Don't judge him (number 2) by how he treated you when you broke up with him for another guy!  Even the best guy would be slightly peeved and act out a little.  Instead of constantly thinking about what guy you want to be with, think of who you want to be.  Maybe this misery is your heart's way of telling you that neither one is right for you.  If you really don't feel that's the case, then realize that you decided to be with number one for a number of reasons and remind yourself of those reasons.  Don't keep going back and forth, that gets really old for everyone involved really fast.  \n\nBasically, my advice is to get away from both of them.  It will be hard not to think of the good things and miss them both, but you can do it.  Make a list of the bad things about each one!  That should deter you!  \n\nGood luck!
232822
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
270766
You should get over with it. A guy who is not honest to his love, is not the perfect one you are looking for. So keep your friendship. If he wants to get close to you like the other girl(not the girlfriend, he is in love with), you can get a clear conversation & then you can decide what to do ... for now be a friend. Cause things are not always good when they are fast. Give it time, then decide.
454777
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
383953
Go out with the guy that is going to ask you. Now, deal with this other guy you like more. Just hang out with him and talk to him. If you find that he likes you and you like him then let this other guy understand that you have feelings for someone else. If you were to continue dating him then you would just be on a guilt trip and that is no fun.
54178
You shouldn`t do that to the boyfriend because most likely he`ll be all hurt and that will be bad blood between the friends.\n\nBut that`s only if you don`t truly love his bestfriend.  If you do, then maybe you should go for who you love, given that you know for a fact that he loves you too.
407892
About the guy that you liked since the 2nd grade. You feel that you think you don't like him, is because you might feel uncertain about your feelings for him because of the other guy you said was cute. Talk to both of them and get to know them before you choose one. So that way more than likely you won't get hurt. Take it from a pro, girl!! I've been there before!!