The reason I ask is I support myself, and when we do have time for each other, he has something else to do. To me that seems like he is not interested. As Goodspeed said I should be happy that he works so much, but so do I , and I can find time. Please reply anyone.
119324
if u are in love then u are not wasting time.
649375
If you asked him a serious and imprtant question, and he can't even give a response, even if it is a response that says he needs more time to answer than you need to move on, this is tough to say, but he does not rank you very high on his priority list if he has not replied for over a week.  Move on, you'll find a better match for you!
573608
i'm with someone right now that has a job but only does it because he has to, you know? he really doesnt like working, and around the house, he's really not the most motivated person on the planet.\nbut, he's the best man i've ever met. he's sweet, sensitive, funny, outgoing, playful, he pays attention, he is my dream man. so even if for some reason he quit working perminantly, yeah i'd still stay with him.
302841
If you recently met this guy you have to be a liitle patient and not just enter a relationship with him. Do you personally know why he travels so frequently? You ahve to be careful when its comes to this type of situation. All I can say is to be a little patient and do not rush into anything.
433833
What is the rush?  If he is hesitant to talk about it or “side-stepping” the idea at the moment, why push it?   If he was really read to commit right now, he would approach you on it.  You know how men are, when they really want something they manage to get to work on it all by themselves
196037
wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
352966
You have been supportive of his ventures, please listen to me i have done this for my man for 12 years and i resent it very much. I feel i have nothing for my self, we almost split up not long ago and realized i had nothing for my self not even a job. Now i have decided to rebuild a life for me as well, he is supportive of it now but i don't thing he likes it very much. Go back to school do what you have to do. He will come to terms with it.
282294
You may be drifting apart or his work is tiring him out and he de stresses at the Gym. You could go to the Gym with him? If he is not interested in this idea then ask him what else you two can do together, if he has no suggestions then you suggest something,  he may be phoning nightly as he could think you are no longer interested, you could also try the direct approach and ask him what his feelings are. if he still says he loves you then tell him that you feel neglected and what to spend more time with him
56456
If you're his friend then I don't see a problem with showing interest in what he does.\n\nBut if it's more then friendly interest you have some soulsearching to do.
303277
Well there could be something bothering him that you may not be aware of.  It might not be able for him to share it with you just yet.  Just don't jump to any conclusions.  He will tell you when the time is right.
279806
Pay attention to him when he's around.You say he's traveling because of work,so he's working to help support you right?Well when he's home,put friends on hold and some things you want to do,put on hold until he goes out of town again.That will give you plenty of ME time when he's gone. Make him feel like you want him around,ask about his plans for that day.Maybe he wants to spend time with you,maybe alone,you never know until you ask,but he most likely wants time with you since he's not around much. I'm sure he missed you. he might want to visit some of his friends or relatives while he's home too,just ask what his plans might be for the day. If he visits his friends then you can maybe visit yours or do something on your own. You can work things out with a traveling partner,it just takes some adjustment.You have spent alot of time alone and have got into suiting yourself alot.It does take time to readjust to someone else being around. Just try to communicate as much as possible.Even your eating habits might have changed since he's been gone so you have to figure,what time is lunch and will we be eating together?Just be available as much as you can so you both can decide on your days activities together.
176802
It means it's time go get busy!\n\nHe is just a bit too shy to tell you how he feels. Perhaps you are too.
22155
Is it an option for him to get a different job? If so, does he want to, or does he like what he's doing?\n\nIf he's happy with his job, it's not fair to ask him to change it. Instead, find ways to make the most of your time together. Meanwhile, find something to keep yourself busy while he's at work. Get a job yourself, get a hobby, or be a volunteer somewhere.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
200524
maybe he is atually really busy.. give him some time....
343384
It seems ok to me....sometimes, if you have plans, then trying to maneuver around them can be very difficult, as you are finding out.  Don't woryy about it; and don't think that you were"put on the back burner," either.  The trip was occupying his attention, and he tried to get some time for YOU.  That's a good thing.  The fact that it didn't actually work is immaterial.
36854
First, be glad he's honest and not pulling a line.  Second, don't be hurt just because you don't like the answer to a question you posed.  Third, realize these things have to work on their own time; you can't mandate a schedule.  Fourth, at some point this indecision can just be a delaying tactic, but don't jump to that conclusion now.  If the relationship is badly stalled for months and you're not happy about it, then you have a real problem.  But you need to let some time pass before you declare it badly stalled.
241517
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)