My boyfriend said i love you everytime i had the phone,but when we broke up he never spoke to me again.I guess love isant as long i thought it was.
134914
cause their stupid, according to what my guy friend would say.:O) and he even admits guys are stupid coming from a guy.:O)
613628
i hate to say it but it doesn't sound like true love. maybe what you once had is slipping away... try to get it back again or whatever and if it doesn't work, well break up w/ him. because no girl likes to be called names by their boyfriend, even if they ae playing it still hurts.
258959
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
389610
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
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that happened to me once i liked a guy(lets call him x) and i secretly told a friend of mine that i thought x was cute. four months down the line i get a text from x asking how i was and asked me to go out on a date. we met for that date had a really gud time and he told me that he liked me the first time he saw me. we kept intouch for another 2 weeks and after that i have never heard from him again.i felt really bad coz i never knew what  turned him off. at times i wonder how it would have been if he kept in touch. i am glad it happened like that because i would never have met my bf whom i love very much and he makes me happy.
637754
tat is wat happens to me all the time my boyfriend tells me when to call then I do but he never answers so i think u should call her make her feel better becuase i can never get ahold of my boyfriend and i makes me feel bad because he thinks i dont care but i love him so much so pick up the phone and call  and suprise her  she will be happy with that.\n\nbest of wishes:\ntina
262970
Communication is the foundation of a good relationship.  If you have a hard time talking on the phone without conflict, reserve all the hard discussion for face to face conversations.  Try " I love you and I miss you"  it always works for me.
497314
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
87105
It's a tough one.  Anybody can say that they love someone over a phone or in an email but you can't really know unless you're with the person.  When you two do get together, see how he is around you and you'll know.  It's a lot harder to lie about your feelings in person than over the phone/email/etc.
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If he really loves you then he would still be talking to you and wanting to see you. If all he wanted was sex then he probably is avoiding you and not answering you phone calls. If that is the case then you are better off without him and need to move on. Life is too short to get caught up on the little things and there are wonderful great guys out there who would probably love to be in a relationship with you. Just learn from this experience and move on with or without him. :-) hope that helps.
377660
Am sorry to say so,but it seems he's not very much in love with you (even if he says that he is) if he loves you,he would create time for you ...no words such as "busy"when it comes to a loved one...consider breaking up with him,and see how does he react...if he freaked and changed his way with you,give him another chance ,if not...then you find yourself someone as sweet as you are...you deserve much more than phone chatting.BTW if caring didn't come from deep inside of him,you wouldn't be able to MAKE him care.
609494
First you have to ask yourself... Is it really possible that someone I was with for over a year lost my number? I would think after being in a relationship with someone for that long they would know your number and if they truly wanted to be with you they would make the effort to find your number if they had in fact lost it. I think you should move on. It's sounds kind of strange to me and in those two months I doubt he was crying himself to sleep at night missing you. Find someone better!
148463
This happened to me. My bf was a suicidal psycho and he blackmailed me into staying with him. I finally went to college 3000 miles away and told him on the phone it's over and didn't hear from him for 6 years. We now email occassionally and he's sorry for what a jerk he was, it's something we laugh over now. But back then, it was the most depressing thing in my life. I hope you get out of the bad relationship. You'll be happy you did.
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well if he cheated on you i wouldnt even respond back! i hate cheaters so much because to me if someone really loves you they wouldnt cheat! but i just wouldnt talk back i would ignore his calls, text messages anything like that! he disrespected you thats not right
472020
I don't think he knew. He sounds like a real jerk. I know it is MUCH easier said than done, but you need to just let that boy go. If you have been with someone that long whether they are a jerk or not it's going to be tough to let them go. Cry about it, but don't beg him to come back. As long as you are with him he will continue to treat you like dirt and you can continue to be un happy. If you let him go you may be un happy for a while, but imagine if you were with him forever you'd be unhappy for that long. No girl deserves to be lied to and cheated on\n\nYeah, some guys may have played with you like that wit ht the text message if they knew it was you, but breaking up with you after sounds a little fishy to me. Plus, he's cheated on you and treated you like sh*t before.  What makes you thin he isn't like that now. Good Luck!
597927
im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
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I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.