I met a boy while vacationing.  We hung out 2 different times.  Now I'm back home.  How do I continue getting to know him, and see if the vibes I felt from him were actually something, and not just him being nice?  (By the way, I do have a way to contact the boy...)
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will long distance relationships work?
591693
I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!
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So you had one phone call and a lot of fun!!!\nI think you should try talking to him more often.\nBuild on things that you like in him, common interests and stuff like that.\nLong distence relationships are particularly tedious, but if you make it, then there is nothing like it.\nTell him that you find him interesting and fun. Ask him what he feels about you. \nFollow the 'One Step' process.\nTake one step closer to knowing him on every interaction.\nAsk him about himself, his past, his future, his aspirations, what he expects out of you, and stuff.\nIn a couple of months, if you are still going steady, then plan to meet up for date. This way, there would not be any nasty surprises either.\nTake Care, and all the best!!
262001
Act normal... talking on the net or on the phone, no matter how long you've been doing that, doesn't give you always an accurate image of a person, trust me. Get to know him first.
530514
i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
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I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
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I know I still don't know what exactly happened, his "brother" David hasn't got back to me!  I didn't know him really really well but we have been talking for about 3 weeks now!  What a sweet guy!  Very caring about his friends!  No matter how busy he was he always found time to say good morning!  Or he would just write to say hi!  What a shame we lost such a nice guy!
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Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
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Just talk to him and ask what his interests are or whatnot. Try to see if your interested in those same things or if he's really nice. I dunno.
142171
I've been in your situation.  I met this guy over the net, we exchanged pics, #'s and the such.  I called him first and we started talking.  I was a little scared to meet him, but once I did, we dated for over two years.  Funny how that happened....\n\n-daydreaming of the old days-\n\nAnyway you can't really start to like that person until you get to know a lot more about them.  Call them, talk first, then decide how you feel...or maybe you'd want to meet them...but now-a-days...it's a shot in the dark...people will lie about who they are...my case was one of the good ones...\n\nBest of luck to ya' buddy!\n\n:)
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Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
39089
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
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Well first of all I would almost bet that you will get some smart comment from someone cause of the fact that you met online, but I can relate to you in that way.  I met my current boyfriend online as well.  I live in NY for the time being because of acting and he's from MN, where I'm originally from.  We have made it a point to see each other as often as possible to make sure that we don't grow apart.  We talk on the phone quite a bit and everytime I feel like I might question the whole relationship, hearing him at the end of the day lets me know that it will all work out.  I think that it is definitely possible to make a long distance relationship work as long as you both want it, because when one person isn't fully in it then that's when things seem to go wrong.  I'll be back in MN soon and I'll still be about 4 hrs away from him but that's a lot close than 23-24 hrs.  I can handle that short distance and so can he. I know if you both want it and are really in love then it will work out how it is suppose to.
284754
I would just leave it be.  You will always have experiences that will tickle your fancy, but since you met this dude online and he does not even remember you, I would just let it pass.  Plenty of real people to meet out there in reality land.
620829
that sucks!!  Ask him....find out if there were still feelings between them when she left town....if so, I'm sorry...
470495
Instead of telling him you miss him try meet him and make it look like an accident so that you can have a chance to know him more. And when you do meet him, talk with him so next time he won't be so much a stranger! It's not easy to begin with, but will be easier and such things need some time to find their way