If so then what true love is about? during your life you met some girls and you liked one of them.. but you didnt meet the girls of the whole world.. then you call it best one.. i mean even when you are in love with some girl it is possible to be embressed with another one later.. so is love a dicision or an illusion?
120609
I believe we decide to love other people. What we think of as love or the way we feel when we're in love is really just a lot of chemicals playing tricks on us. To really love someone and to commit to them it has to be a conscious decision or we'll give in to an illusion and it won't last.
131309
OF COURSE THERE IS!\n\nI know, the mllions of question asking "what is love", people acting all googley, ect.\n\nIt all means something.\n\nSure, it might not happen for a while, and sure, maybe not for a long time, but it's DEFINATELY there for EVERYONE! :)\n\nJust hang on for a while longer, it will happen to you, and you'll know! :)
48556
The sure thing is that true love exists! \nbut the reason that makes us doubt about it and ask such a question is that not everyone is lucky enough to find it and some of us are not smart enough to keep it.\nJust never give up, and dont waste your time looking for it.\nYou can never find true love, he will always find you and you'll never know where and when!
583264
I  feel that having love and loving is very  important in life and everyone should experience love but that doesn't necessarily mean the love has to come from someone of the opposite sex. Some people are satisfied with just having their family and friends to love and get love from but others may feel its mandatory for them to have someone from the opposite sex. Everyone is different therefore, what makes one person happy may not come close to pleasing someone else.Either way is fine as long as you are loved and you show love!
467504
Yes. But admiring someone is not the exact same thing as having a crush on someone, or being in love, nor does it necessarily entail that you must like the person. I admire so and so for their upright morals and courage, but doesn't mean I want to date so and  so. At the same time, I admire my bf, and I love him. But 'admiration' and 'like' are not exclusive to each other, you catch? \n\nTrust me...if you like *like* a girl, you'll know.
91214
If you are looking for a man to love and who will love you too, no need for you to find one true love. I can say that LOVE is like magic that will come into your life naturally. Thus, it is very important to wait and be patient.
216228
yes if you have not gotten another love. however, it can be dangerous really if the woman has moved ahead to another love that is current. old firewood catches fire faster and if the first love reciprocates the gesture, hearts may be broken eventually and both of you in future may really be thinking the other is cheating - kind of if she's cheated to be back with me, is she not doing so to me now?
217282
Love at first sight is a great idea, but impossible, love is based on much more than physical attraction alone.\n\nAnd I know my friends, but I don't think you ever really know a person...we are constantly growing and changing, thats what keeps us interesting.
265867
Your feeling are normal every relationship has different qualities,and bring out different feelings, as for the first girl you have memories but NEVER compare them with another girl no 2 are alike.  Love is Living On Various Emotions. Just go day to day and don't rush or have regrets. Good luck...
289922
Love is an attachment to something/someone. It's the desire to be with someone. I believe that there isn't One True Love or a Soulmate. Anybody can be with anyone. It just depends how much your personalities match and what you are willing to put up with. If you find someone with the same habits/hobbies/outlook on life, then chances are you will both enjoy each others company and continue a relationship, where love forms. It is possible to love someone without them loving you back. It's your desicion. But true love is when that person loves you the same amount that you love them. :)\n\n\nREPLY:\nI didn't say there wasn't True Love. I said there wasn't "One True Love". Anyone can be with anyone. And I have found True Love.
101635
There are many forms of love and they are all very powerfull.  What you need to be is patient but also realistic. How long are you going to wait sans a life for this girl? Go find you a girl that likes you as much as you like that girl and realize you need someone that loves you just as much as you love them.
668351
Yes.  I believe in true love!!!  It doesn't happen overnight.  It really is something you have to wait for.  Trust your heart...you'll know it when you find it.
234346
If they are in love and they think they are made for eachother then why not!  It's more fun to experience the world with someone you love anyway =)
635601
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
123878
Yes love does exist. What a question.
63814
I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.
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Yes.  Mine for one.\nThe 'infatuation' stage of love lasts no more than a year.  After that, marriage is a full-time job for both partners.  It can, and is, done a lot of the time.  You just do not hear about the successes, just as you rarely hear 'good news' on the network news reports.