i have been dreaming of him eversince.... and now i saw him, what should i do?
138362
get to know him. b/c right now ur in love w/ the way he looks and who you think he might be. once you get to know him he'll be more human to you and you can decide if he is worth pursuing or not. i mean he could just be a hudge jerk for all you know right now.
353545
tell him about your dream and that it worries you...
616819
I believe in fate...... no matter where u r or where u go...... u will meet the right one.......... u will have a feeling just like something sparky n fluttering inside of u whenever u r with him in mind, spirit, soul, heart and body which u cant explain. But be careful take it slow let yr feelings develop too, he might just hv a crush on u at the spur of a moment.
114125
Just because this guy is the guy you dreamt about your whole life, just because he is everything you ever wanted in a man, does not make him a great man.  You could become a couple with this guy, and you know what, he can flip on you so fast, and become the man you never wanted.  Be careful of what you get yourself into, some guys even tho they don't have you, they truly believe they do.  And remember the grass might be greener on the other side, but it doesn't mean that grass is real!!!!!!!!!!!!!
70897
Sweetie, your dream is reflecting your fears about what you saw when you were a child. You trust your fiance, I'm sure but there is a fear buried deep beneath the surface that you might end up with the wrong guy like she did. It's just nerves and fear. It's a fear stemming from trauma and with you being engaged, and it being such a big step, it triggers the traumatic memories below the surface and thus you dream your subconcious fears. It doesn't mean anything really other than your mind is working out it's fear through your dreams and they are just traumatic associations that you don't recognize in your waking moments. It'll be okay, Honey. Just remember what I told you.
292169
well it was probably just a dream & didnt mean anything.but i would be worried too if i was in ur situation. if he actually said "i love u ____" then maybe u should talk to him about it.
97958
I would say that you dreamt about becoming closer and leave it at that. Hopefully, this will make him feel warmer towards you.\n\nHowever, psychologists such as Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung interpret dreams as a conversation between your conscious and unconscious mind. It shows that you are thinking about taking things further with him at least subconciously. However, it seems that your conscious mind is reluctant to do so. My advice would be to make sure that you are ready to take things further before you do so. You should think about this before saying anything about it to him.
48164
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
604725
You've obviously had serious emotions about him. You are involved with someone new, so there are those same feelings you had in one relationship that you will have in almost every relationship. It is up to you to concentrate on the present one and get rid of the old. Think of all the happiness in the new one and forget the old. It is almost like having flashbacks to what you want to forget. Let the NOW be the only thing you think  of before you fall asleep.\nGood Luck
256848
You need to pray about that. When you pray you should also ask GOD for the understanding of that dream. Also take heed to that. If you don't know what heed mean look it up in the dictionary. (I am not trying to be funny either)
527493
well if u in love with him andhe in love with u follow ur dream don't let anyone come in ur path because u should never let anyone do that so u can tell her i am in love with him and i sorry if u wn=ant him but he is my perfect match so find someone else u tell her that ur own way nicely she get smart walk off go to him and hug him then have u two talk about how u feel about each other really
369108
I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
600129
talk to him. he just has a strong sexual attraction to you.
364243
Lifes too short to let someone stand in the way of your dreams.  If we could only turn back the clock, how many of us say if only!  Dont live to regret not following your dreams, you'll only blame him in the long run.  If this man really loves you he wont stand in your way, you only get one shot of life so go for it girl, wish i had.
384447
Enjoy it!  He probably was dreaming of you and started acting on the dream.... take it as a compliment.  He's staking claim to what's his.\n\nSleeping all cuddled up is a huge plus for some of us - I love falling asleep safe in my guy's arms - makes me feel so protected and cherished.  Mind you, in summer, we are a lot less touchey-feeley, as it's too stinkin' hot.
477279
sure go ahead and go. something is preoccupying his mind. tell him you just decided to surprise him. good luck i hope all is ok.
338168
well, it depends on what she is doing in your dream and her relationship with you in real life... like is she a bystander watching or is she like helping you out in the dream?? It could mean that she will always be there for you, or maybe you miss her and she's not in all aspects of your life as you wish she could be. Like I said, it depends all on how your relationship is with her.