there is this guy who i like,he's my friend, and he asks me to hang out and tells me he wants to teach me how to play soccer, and he mumbles when ever i talk to him, yet he says if he liked a girl, he would come right out and say it. is he lieing?\n\n\nps.we are in high school.
130199
I think he might like u...wait and see for more signs from him.
469121
sounds like he does like you. usually if someone is asking that and they are not your friend yet then that means they are interested...\n\nor they are finding out for someone else but that rarely happens with guys
339884
I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
638422
Make the first move if you are interested,he sounds a shy guy.This could go on and on.He probably thinks you are out of his league.go for it girl!
181812
Since she asked if he liked anybody at your school, the odds would be against you that he liked you unless you and Elizabeth are the only girls at the school and he isn't gay. You would then have a 50-50 shot at being the one he likes, although he never said that he did actually like anyone at your school. No matter what, it would be better if you just let it be and wait and see if he likes you. You can be friendly and flirt, but I definitely would not just come out and ask him. It would put both of you in an uncomfortable spot.
518595
He may be just playing around with your friends.  Why don't you pull a reverse on him, next time you are around some of his close friends say hi to them and bop them a couple good whacks on the shoulder and see what he has to say.
497069
Your friends are probably right. They would know if he was acting the same with other girls. \n\n1. Find out if he acts this way with other girls. His laughing with other girls doesn't mean he is interested, probably just outgoing. \n\n2. Get your girl friends to help by doing a little detective work and see if he is for real. When he looks ok, get one of your friends to find out for you if he likes you. I hope you are talking about your girl friends, as they will be able to tell if he is lying or not or if he puts any moves on them. \n\n3. If he passes the above tests with your girl friends helping out, then proceed to plan B. You know what to do, and how to do it, so good luck and go for it. \n\nDarryl S.
382708
Sounds like either he has a crush on you...or he has a crush on your friends and doesn't want to lead you on.  Maybe he's nervous around you because of his crush, but can be himself around your friends because his crush doesn't lie with them.
460856
This guy doesnt sound like hes being considerate of you in ANY way at all. He is using you. A guy who cares for a girl shows consideration. A guy can say anything to a girl but what do his actions tell you? Those speak louder than words. He is making everything about him and nothing about you. Is that what you really want?
26573
you got to be careful. He might just be shy and don't want to tell everybody that he likes you yet. Or he is playing with your heart. Or he might like your friend and want to ask her out also.
557122
You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
200942
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
270649
It's one of the hardest things to do. Do you know if he likes guys or not? If he does, you might be ok... but if he doesn't, he might freak and tell the world. Have a girl start a "rumor" that you like him and deny it vehemently while the girl finds out what he thinks. Good luck!
79639
It depends on how well you know each other, is he a "player" ie does he have a past for getting his friends to do his dirty work, or is he genuinely shy. To be honest he sounds quite young to be playing that game, either that, or he is just testing the water, via his friends, just continue as you are, spend the occsaional bit of time together, maybe invite him out for a drink just the two of you, or a film, if he REALLY likes you, he should make a play for you, and if your still in doubt... ask him outright. better to regret the things that you have done than those you have not :o)
469980
Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.'  Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
449347
sometimes if a guy likes you he will either teel you or if he does not have the guts to do so then he will just give out sighns like, looking at you. talking about you with friends. or might even try to talk to you. it all depends if you are friends. then yeah he'll talk. if not try to make him your friend. It is working with me cause the guy i like is going out with someone and he is saying things like i'm cool and stuff. so just start out with friends then find out if he does like you. or if you have a dance coming soon then you can say that there is a rumer that he had a crush on you and  he will find out sooner or later about the rumor and if he likes you then he will go out with you.
234131
well you got to talk to him and let him know how you fell about him lieing to you that he is going to play ball with his friend and but that you see him playing with girls not our friends...