Rape in Islam: Blaming the Victim --- "three out of four women in prison . . . are rape victims." http://www.frontpagemag.com/Articles/ReadArticle.asp?ID=5676\n\nMuslim Rape Wave in Sweden [BEWARE!!!! THIS PICTURE OF ISLAMIC HORROR IS GRUESOME] http://www.frontpagemag.com/Articles/ReadArticle.asp?ID=20552
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Why dont we all get together and report this guy for abuse. These questions are not a search for knowledge they are statements posing as questions that are only written to disturb and hurt others.
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xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx\n\n         I'm so sorry.\n\n     You are saying this happened to you?\n\n      Don't sell men short.\n\n        We have mothers, sisters, wives, daughters, and female friends that we care about.\n\n        I  would be saddened by the news of anyone being raped.
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I'm not at all shocked. In fact, I've seen it happening in my area for many years. Illegal hispanic men 'dating' and impregnating girls from the age of ten on up. Not to mention that I've heard many of them say that any unescorted female going about her business was 'asking for it'.  But things are changing a little around here. Every pregnant girl under the age of sixteen is referred to the DA as a rape victim and perpetrators are getting an average of five years in prison. I'm glad something is being done to stop this.\n\nSome of the ones going to prison did not impregnate the girl. Many of the idiots freely admit to having sex with underage girls because they think nothing will be done.\n\nCrazybird's answer reminded me of something my ex-husband told me. He is from a small village in Mexico. He said that when a man wanted to find a wife (if he couldn't find one at home) he and his friends would go to a neighboring village and take a woman. They would bring her back and force the 'marriage' on her. Her family would not object because they considered it to be too late to do anything about it.
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I've even seen feminists walk side by side with women in Burka to gain more rights ???\n\nThis world is in chaos... Those who fight for freedom and liberties sleep with those who wish to take them away from others by their Theocratic ideologies.
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Yes, it is true.\nMy Arab friend tells me the stories and I read about them all the time.\nI think some of them just don't respect these women because they're not Muslim, plus they think she's just a housemaid, and that they mistake that even though Saud Arabia abolished slavery many years ago, they still think it's okay to rape a housemaid.\nIn Islam, a man is allowed up to 4 wives, and any women on the right hand he possesses. This means slaves. However, a housemaid is PAID a salary to do housework in the house, not a slave, not a sex worker, she's not a woman on the right hand.\nSome of these men are sick, cruel, barbaric and they make Islam look so bad with their disgusting, illiterate thinking.
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no.  that means that any girl can say that any guy raped her.\n\ni agree that the exam can be almost as traumatizing as the actual rape, \n\nbut sending an innocent guy to jail, just because some bitches are , well bitches,  is alot worse.\n\nthere needs to be solid proof, and unfortuntely, an exam is the only way.\n\neven a witness is unreliable,  if both friends hate one guy, they can get him thrown in jail.
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Our society likes to believe we practice what we preach but we don't.  If you have served your sentence then you have paid your debt and your past should be forgiven.  However, what you did and your chances of re-offending are fair considerations to potential employers.  I am an active advocate for survivors of sexual assault and child rape/sexual assault.  Pedophiles and rapists are very low on my list of who to help next, but, with sex offenders mandatory registration, I can't help but think we are creating more problems.  Sex offenders need to support themselves but I don't want them around vulnerable populations.  So it is a very difficult situation to solve.
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I think its tabboo to speak of.  Keep in mind that only 2 muslim countries condone the mutiliation of female genitals during childhood.
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First of all, you can make people AWARE. Awareness is your best weapon. I was raped at 4 years of age. I also was made aware of what to do if something like that should happen to me. I screamed, yelled, kicked, bit, etc. Because I did so, the teenager who raped me was caught and prosecuted. Because my parents were aware of what to do in such cases, they got me help right away. Children AND parents need to be taught how to prevent it, and what to do if it happens. I suggest that you also lobby for more strict legislation to deal with sex offenders. Perhaps form a community group at your childrens' school.
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I see the difference, asker. If you are not from the Middle East and would be interested in learning more of womens' lives in Saudi Arabia, you should read the book I cited in the source. It was so difficult to put down, and very enlightening. I'm glad I read it.\n\nThe Qu'ran regarding women who break the Islamic law against sex crimes:\n\nSura IV, 15\nIf any of your women are guilty of lewdness, take the evidence of four witnesses from against you, against them; and if they testify, confine them to houses until death do claim them.\n\nTHIS DOESN'T MEAN THE "GUILTY PARTY TESTIFIES - IT IS THE TESTIMONY OF THE FOUR WITNESSES - It means she will be put into a completely darkened room with nothing at all and nobody will ever speak to her again. Food and water will sometimes be pushed under/through the door. Death could take many years.\n\nThe Qu'ran regarding men who break the Islamic law against sex crimes:\n\nSura IV, 16\nIf two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and amend, leave them alone.\n\nCRIMES OF HUDUD (crimes denounced by God):\nthey include theft, drinking of alcohol, defamation of Islam, dornication, and adultry:\nguilty of theft - pay a fine, improsnment, amputation of right hand\nguilty of drinking or doing drugs - receive 80 lashes\nguilty of defamation of Islam - usually flogging\nguilty of fornication - flogging (usual number is 40 lashes)\nguilty of adultry - if the guilty party is married - death by stoning, beheading, or shooting\n\nCRIMES OF QUISAS (crimes against a victim or his family):\nThe family of the victim has the right to retaliate and decide the sentence. Generally "an eye for an eye" type of thing, but sometimes a monetary fine.
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Rape is not the fault of the victim or anything she/he is wearing. A skimpy clothing choice is perhaps not wise, but the rapist is at fault. The full weight of the crime belongs on his shoulders, no one else's.
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is there not one islamic person who has a spark of a brain cell, and can see through this myth of a religion?...of course the law is not fair to women and children,, i would love to see isalmic women rebel and start castrating their men in their sleep..it would serve them right..
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ya i think its overated.i mean they r surely gona get fuked n probably alredy are.many woman would''ve had sex atleast 5 times before they r 20.i accept rape isnt a good thing n i also accept punishment shuld b given.but it shuldnt b so much.
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It is really hard to say.  Nobody ASKS to be raped-we need to understand that first.  But my opinion is that she really needs someone to care about her.  She has obviously never been able to bond with anyone and is doing whatever she can to get herself noticed.  Unfortunately, the ones noticing her are doing bad things to her.  It is a vicious cycle.  She needs therapy...FAST.
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i'm all for that, BUT what happens when a girl wants to get back at a guy, and says he raped her?.. or if a girl's really leading a guy on and only once they're naked and steamy does she reject him? (ok that's still rape and VERY wrong, but i'm trying to say that there are grey areas.) there are a lot of cases where girls wrongly accuse.. some girls get forced into it by parents who can't believe their sweet lil girl would bonk someone.\n\nI believe there should be a really bad punishment, but it cant be used unless there is solid proof of rape. I say the same should go for murder and child abuse.
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From what I hear. People get raped in prison for being either too overly aggressive or too timid. THere is a fine line one draws when entering prison and that is to be yourself. Don't mind other peoples business and no one will mind yours. If you act out all tough like you're a gangster, people will put you in your place. If you are timid and easily bullied or frightened, they'll treat you like a bit*ch. I think the best way to act is simply mind yourself. stand up when you need to but for the most part, lay low.
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I think she is disgusting and I think she should have been imprisoned for the rest of her life.  I think it is terrible that she is out in society.  I haven't heard of another similar crime to those that she committed with her husband.