help me i dont know wether to have sex with my BF or waiti rly like him...i also want to use sum toys if u have ideas on where to get this plz help me or i can use u to show him how to use them ;) hes not sure...yet so help me!!
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depends on where you live, as to weather you have a place around you that sells toys. let the moment happen. don't force it. let it happen. and make sure it is a great and real experience for the two of you. because once you do you can never take it back.
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O.K, what does he like... take him out and tell him something like AWWWW that looks like so much fun or something and if he agrees, buy him that thing later on...I am not sure that it will work though, sorry..STICK TO YOUR GUT AND BUY HIM WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT.
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ok here is what u can do for him ... try to strip right after he is inside the room ... and make him crazy ... take as much time as u can to do this ... and do not let him touch u ... this will make him crazier ... wear a hell of lingeries, red reflecting bra ... and a matching panty ... try to make the undies as much smaller as it can get ... and when u r only in ur lingeries ... ask him to do the foto shoot ... and while takign photos make him strip too ... and then when he's about to finish the shoot ... jump on him ... and start kissing and u know the rest of it ... enjoy ... and oh yeah give him sumthign he likes very much ... u can even ask him or buy with him ... but do not give him the gift b4 he is inside the room and make him wait to open it ... u can do everythign b4 he can open his gift ... so its better if u buy sumthing without knowing him ... hav a nice bday of ur bf and a nice night ....
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Hey dude? how old r u? Ru old enough for sexual life.....as a normal life sexual life is also important but everything has its own go....be patient....dont hurry and spoil ur relationship...sex is an art and both shud enjoy it...and not merely an act as animals do...we are highly evolved species and shud always love to make love the best way...hope I am not boring....give time for the relationship to get thick and discuss abt ur feelongs to her...and most of all try to understand ur partner...my kind advice....DONT HURRY THINGS as it might turn otherway round...go ahead...stay for a while....and the time will be ripe for the fruit....
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OK!! First things first!! God loves you - even though you had sex with your boyfriend. Secondly - it was wrong of your parents to tell you you would go to hell if you did - wrong!! That is just their way of trying to prevent you from having sex with you bf!! You should try reading some of the great promises God gives us in the bible - that will encourage you. Dont always just listen to your parents - check it out with the lord - prayer always works for me!!
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The most direct way would be to just ask him what he likes.  Most guys like sexy lingerie, high heels, and material things like that, but the thing that gets most of them is an enthusiastic partner.  If you genuinely want to please him and have more fun in bed, be willing to try new positions, locations, toys, etc.  A private little surprise striptease would turn him on, too.  Don't be afraid to be a little bit aggressive and initiate sex more often.
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You have to be on the same caring vibe your boyfriend is at. Most guys don't care if you hurt, unless they are in love with you. I recommend you try a vibrator first and get comfortable with what you want to feel. Then tell him that's the way you want it.
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I will tell you this much, make sure you know for sure you are ready.  If it's your first time, there is a LOT to think about in terms of consequences.  For example, are you ready to handle a kid?  Does your bf have STDs you don't know about?  Would you spend the rest of your life with this guy?  Have you talked about having sex with him?  Is he ready for the consequences?  What would happen if you DID get pregnant?  BC and condoms are somewhat trustworthy, however, I'd hate to be in that like 2% of cases where they don't work without knowing what would happen to my relationship.\n\nAnd yes, relationships CAN survive without sex.  My husband and I were virgins the day we were married, and it was so worth it.  To know that he was the only guy and I was his only girl makes it 10X more special.  There are other things you can do without actually having sex, and really, if you are close enough as a couple you don't have to have sex to have a "next level"
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if YOU want to have sex, then by all means do it!  but if it is HIM that is pressuring you, you need to tell him that you are not ready yet.  if he loves you, he will wait.  'til then, there are plenty of other things that you can do to keep each other satisfied.
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sex should bring mutual pleasure to both individuals.  My last boyfriend wouldn't climax until he had made sure I had come first.\n\nso my advice on how to present this to him:\n\ntell him you want to try new things to increase pleasure for the both of you.\nyou can try this game where for one week, you guys can do everything EXCEPT have sex. \n\nso, either he tries to make an effort w/ foreplay, special condoms for the extra sensitive guy, etc etc...\n\nor dump him.  there are better guys out there.
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you need to start trying toys and different things... go to the store and buy some fun things... open your mind... have fun
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Good grief your boyfriend hasn't a clue. He should be incredibly grateful for your oral talents and your passion for sex. I can't believe I'm reading this! Do you need a stand in, hehehe.
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You are only like 11 or 12 years old you are like so young live your life and have fun don't  let ''havin' a guy in your life '' wait a while . please don't do what i did so please wait to do any of that stupid stuff... have fun and if you  do make a decision to have sex please use protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I wouldn't just have sex with him. Do something that would solely please him like a fantasy that he has. Do you kiss him for no reason? Like if you two are chilling just lean over and kiss him on any given spot just because it's there. Just do little things to show him that you are really feeling him, he's your baby and whatnot. Believe it or not but guys want to be spoiled by their girls every now and then.
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I say DONT HAVE SEX  with him and is you two back together or what. And don't rush yourself (never let a boy rush u into what u don't want to do) And u will be having peddity sex if u do cuz u is only doin it because u scared he might leave u. But first find out what he wants and tell him tha truth on how u feel about having sex. Don't let anyone tell u that if u don't have sex with them then they will break up with you. Remember your body is not a playground and its not for everybody.
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If you feel you are able to handle all the possibilities and consequences that go along with it.  Hey, you could just end up with a good boyfriend.  On the other hand, he could be using you.  Oh yeah, he acts all "I really like you", or whatever, but if things go further and you "do the deed" (if ya know what I mean!), then things might change, then you will just feel used.  Remember, if all goes the way it's going, be safe have him wear protection!!!  I believe you are young, and even though babies are cute and lovable, believe me, whats in their diaper every 20 minutes isn't.  And believe me, we ALL know that STDs are a far cry from cute and lovable.  So do the SAFE thing and insist on a condom, no matter what he says about it.  No sex is better than unprotected sex.\nForeplay is the stuff you do to get eachother turned on.  The touching and rubbing, all that, is a type of foreplay.  All the stuff you do to get eachother all ready to go for sex is foreplay, pretty much.\nDo what you want, sis, but keep in mind what I have said.  People usually don't know what other peoples intentions are until its too late, so play it safe.
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I'm so happy for you two!  Great job on waiting.  \n\nI know you two have waited for the sex but I'm not sure if you guys have done the all the things that lead up to that point.  There is a lot of fun to be had with foreplay.  Also, keep in mind that he will have an O within minutes of you guys starting your festivities.  Hopefully, he can go the distance and be able to get it back a few more times.  If not, there is no rush!  Having good sex takes patience and willingness to learn and experiment.  Don't forget to talk to each other about what you like and it wouldn't hurt to read some sex tips books together.  (Not a suggestion on how to pass the night but just in general.)\n\nI don't know if you guys are in a hotel or what but I would make sure that some chilly water and a snack with substance is on hand for later.  Also, a friend told me that she wished she had a pretty robe to wear when she came out of the restroom in her lingerie.  Since it was the first time for him to see her in that kind of dress she felt a little awkward crossing the room in such attire.  \n\nIt sounds to me like you already have it covered.  You guys waited so it will be unusually special, the strawberries are tasty and cider is very good (both flavors).  Just the fact that you are planning and being thoughtful covers your side of being romantic.  Make sure that he doesn't rush because the more anxious and rushed you are the less pleasurable it will be for you.  Have fun!