ok everyone the boy ah he stopped me in the hall asked me out i said no he asked me in 6th hour and 7th hour im getting the princial involved but what if that doesnt work the guys perverted he touches me!! aww harasment i hate it!!!
120571
Try n be calm and tell him to stop without giving him the pleasure of knowing he is upsetting u. If it continues pick your time and place and say something that would really embarrass him... something in the lines of 'You cant even get a h**d on so wat are u playing at boy'? or even better say 'you probably wud be better off giving yourself a w*nk dont you think'. Be assertive!  Gud luck
554559
i hate beeing in that situation lol all you can do is hang out with him talk and be your self!! if he likes you in time hell ask you out you could also try asking him out boys love girls who make the first move and its worked for loas of my friends b4 goo luck :) x
306239
This boy is doing exactly what you seem to want..he is noticing you but in a very clumsy way. He doesn't know how to go about getting a reaction from you so he is trying every angle, sometimes sweet, sometimes sneaky, but always for the same reason. I would say he is behaving in a typical adolescent boyish way.\nWhy don't you ask him for a date, that should put him out of his agony :-)
537311
It isnt an approach.  And this spam advertising above is annoying as hell.\n\nSeems like you two are around 17-19?\n\nHe REALLY likes you and wants to touch you to be closer but he doesnt know you well enough.  He doesnt have alot of experience in these things so he does the best he can.\n\nHe is flirting and is probably a shy but affectionate person.\n\nRemember, try to see it from a GUY point of view so you won't trash him by acting pissy and sassy.  He will remember it and you will have been the one to turn another nice guy into a jerk.\n\nAsk yourself this, when was the last time YoU approached a unknown guy alone and by yourself and asked him out?  Never huh.
547518
1st of all don't worry about the first answer...he hates everything. Why not just ask him out to a gay place for a fun time and tell him that you are not coming onto him...The truth usually works.
210281
Wow, you are making this like 10,000 times more complicated then it needs to be.\n\nIf you like the boy (and it seems like he would have to be completely blind to not know this already) just suck it up and ask him out.  Clearly and consisely say that you find him physically and emotionally attractive and you would like to go out with him and see how it goes.  It helps to have a plan, like "I want us to go to a particular movie on Friday" or a particular resturant or rent a particular movie.  \n\nAnd after that it is let go and let God as they say.  Maybe he'll jump at the chance, maybe he'll never speak to you again.  Live and learn.  But it beats sitting around Yahoo Answers overanalyzing weather or not he waved to you in the hall.  That is just a big melodramatic waste of everyones time.\n\nCut down on the drama little dude and just ask the guy out.
157977
I would ask him to wait one moment and then I would immediately seek my supervisor and ask him to repeat what he said. He probably wouldn't, but I don't think he would bother you again make an effort to come through your line.  I would do that each time he did come through.  If he did a second time, I would stop, grab the closest thing to write on, ask him to sign it and put his phone number on it and report it to the police.  It is sexual harrassment and he maybe stalking you, a pedophile, or a wanted sexual criminal.  By being intimidated by him, you allow him to be in control of the situation.  If you firmly approach him, then he is most likely to stand back.
670822
Stay away. This guy is a predator and could even be a child molester. Steer clear and don't EVER go to his apartment alone.
280854
You're a normal person having a messed-up response in a messed-up situation.\n\nI'd sit, relax, breathe. \n\nNow, think of who you've offended. Call them and apologize for the attitude, tell them what's going on, tell them  you're stressed out, ask for their help.\n\nTalk with your sister. If she won't listen, talk with your parents about how to get through to her.\n\nDon't ever talk to that senior again. He's a jerk. Most high schools have policies against sexual harassment. You should report him.
244986
Erections are cheap - any frat boy has tons of them. Honor and dignity are very precious. Keep both of yours and tell him to keep a cold shower. Better yet, block his email addy. You don't need scum. You sound like a standup and righteous lady. Don't lower your standards.
193795
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
636128
Is NOTHING wrong with you. We have almost all of us had this happen at least once, if not many times. Why men and boys do this is that we let them. Go over there and knock on the door and ask him what gives? And no matter what he says - move on, but at least you will have had the chance to let him know what he did was not cool with you. Learn from this and don't do it again. Also, dating or sleeping with a guy in your neighborhood is never a good idea - if it goes bad you are living adjacent to the 'enemy', the 'ex' the 'bastard-jerk that broke your heart' and you may have to watch other girls come and go from his place. Never smart.\n\nAs far as keeping a guy interested after sex - the only way to do that is to have him be so interested in you that he will be willing to date you for at least 90 days exclusively and to not have sex without protection (both of you). If he does that - then after you give it up - he will still be interested nearly 100% of the time. Doesn't matter what age guy - 14 or 54 - they are all the same this way. If you give it up before you have a relationship and intimacy and other things to keep him around - he will be gone after the thrill of the hunt is over. He will be moving on to the next conquest. Boys and men are usually not gonna date anyone seriously that they sleep with right away - they may not admit it but they see you as the slut that gave it up pretty easily to try to win their affections - not as the girl they want to introduce to their Moms.\n\nLearn this now so you can move on yourself. Any guy that is really into you would have wanted to wait. Also, they would have called the very next day or that following evening.\n\nIf he is playing games - which he probably is - he will already have made moves on other girls by now.\n\nAlso, like the other post said - how many other guys will he think you do this with? And more importantly for you - how many other girls has he done this to that you have now technically slept with - and all they guys they have been with and so on and so forth. Be more careful with your heart and body from now on.
252927
Confront the guy straight away. I think you have a stalker. Maybe not. But some guys can be too obsessive at times. The question is do you like the guy also? If not, tell it to him right away so he will stop bothering you. But if he does not stop, (even though it's old school) tell your parents or any adults you can trust. Good luck on that.
554133
Ok, Houston we have a problem.   Clearly he is flirting, but the question is, does it bother you or make you feel so uncomfortable that it crosses your line so to speak.  Ultimately that's the issue.  Harassment.  Do you feel harassed or in any way "creeped" out?  if so, you know what you need to do.  Politely at first, ask that he cease this behaviour.  If however it does not cease you may need to take further steps.\n\nAt the end of the day, you must decide for yourself if this is acceptable to you.  He enters your personal space at his leisure and you need to ask if that's ok, from there, well........
178318
Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
310065
It sounds to me like your like your male friend isn't telling you the whole story.  Courts don't just issue restraining orders for the fun of it.  I suspect he was doing a lot more than just asking this girl out.
72704
boys are hard to interpret.  i had guys pick on me from kindergarten to highschool--i thought they hated me, turns out they thought i was hot!! your best bet--ask him to a movie, library study date, or something.  or if you're shy you can just smile, relax, be yourself and see what happens.