see my friend is not funny...but she tries to be,i laght but its not funny.how can i tell her she is ttly not funny?\n          thanks
126573
just be honest with her and say it friendly!
362348
Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
294599
Honestly, just ignore them. Tell yourself.. "Who cares", smile, and walk away. If you get upset by what they say, its their gain cos thats what they want. The key is not to take what they say seriously, even tho' it may be a major OUCH phrase they use. Just think of it as (the lamest and unfunniest) joke ever, and move on. :)
48829
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.
229096
how snobby do we think?  you're the one who told us she's snobby.\n\nflirting is harmless most times, but if it bothers you just ask your friend not to do it.
94292
Try talking with her and tell her why she isnt a very good friend, be frank with her and that will help, she may later become a good friend. Remember, it isnt easy to get "GOOD" friends.
430501
I, too have drifted away from friends I know since childhood. The best thing to do is have a peer mediation. Sounds totally, dorky, right?  Talk to her privately, so no one get embarrassed and tell her your honest feelings. i know it may be hard at first, but trust me, once you get going, it'll be easier. Set up some rules, like no interruptions, and let her talk. Tell her she's been hurting you, and that she's too bossy! don't raise your voice or tell her you hate her though. =P LET HER TALK TOO! Maybe she's been going through something. when my friends and I did this, I let them talk also. WE all ended on the floor bawling, but it was GOOD. I felt...RELIEVED. My friends and I are A LOT happier, and now, we know to talk BEFORE we blow up. Let her say what she needs too, but IF SHE starts getting aggressive, or rude-WALK AWAY. You don't deserve that. Maybe your friendship can be salvaged, most likely no, but at least you won't end the friendship on bad terms. Tell her that this is what's best for both of you, and you know longer desire her he company. Be the better person and walk away if things get ugly.\nGod bless, hun!
60876
TEASING YOU in what way  a funny way  or nasty way.\nif  it is funny tease him back it is all in fun..\nif it is nasty ignore him it will all blow over.\nbest friends r hard to find keep him..
454501
Tell her you don't mind being friends with her, but you have absolutely no intentions of being involved sexually with the opposite sex.  Let her know you don't swing that way and her actions are starting to make you feel uncomfortable.  I also like what you said about she's trying to turn you into something your not.  Say that to her too!  Good luck.
540520
well, if u have the strength, ignore her, or confront her, like seriously. dont except the little giggle of an answer from her. Tell her how you are feeling. See how she responds, and if she doesnt seem to care then she's not worth it..(no offense)
1804
I'd say talk to your friend at a time when your emotions aren't stirred up, and let her know that some of her behavior is bothering you.  She might not realize that you are so upset about it.
84158
You must tell her how deeply sorry you are and how you treasure and value her friendship more than anything in this world. Then, as a tension breaker, buy a roll of duct tape, wrap it up beautifully and put a note inside of the box saying," If I ever open my big mouth again, feel free to use this". This should make her laugh! Good luck. We all have misspoken from time to time.
170289
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
96553
You don't tell a joke to someone grieving!!\n\nShe won't appreciate a joke.  She'll be offened by the lack of empathy.
18097
Sure she does! She tells you these things bc she feels safe with you. Now if that's all she does is tell you all the bad stuff about her life and takes no interest in yours, then you are a crutch to her. It is up to you if you want to hear about her other friends taking a crap on her or whatnot. If you want to be the crutch, I suggest selective hearing. It can be a downer to hear about her crap friends, and keep suggesting that she gets rid of them and the negativity they bring. Hang in there, it may be a phase and she'll realise what a friend you are and drop the losers and hang out with you... someone who cares...
80594
look it is not you . so you need to get  your  friend  to talk to you and ask her why is she doing this OK but just be there 4 her or your friend that is what she need and want OK just be there she need you and try no to be mad ta her or she will not talk to you (i know one of my Friend did the same.) hey if you want some more 411 Emil me at (preppygurl0687@yahoo.com) OK go luck i know what is going on i was there to OK
382287
Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.