what can i do on saturday?My husband works from 12pm-9pm and its supposed to rain and also he will have the car so i cant do nuttin out of the house what can i do in the house all day?i really dont wanna go nuts please help!!!
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Curl up with a bowl of popcorn and your favourite beverage and watch a movie that you love, that you have not watched in a long time.
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You should let your family know that you are simply under the weather but you want them to go and to enjoy themselves.  You are simply not meant to make this trip today but you will rest up and another time, when you are well, you will make the trip with them.\nIf they insist that they won't go because you are not well - then don't fight them - let them stay home if they choose to do that instead of going.
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Hello Nikki, most men wouldn't be mad at all for doing what you are trying to do. It could be though that between the new baby in the house and possibly some extra stress at work your husband is just learning how to deal with these changes and sex just isn't on the top of his list at the moment. What you could do is the next time he has a day off, make him a nice dinner, stay very positive and just talk to him. See if you can get him to open up about what may be troubling him. It sounds like the two of you have a great marriage and maybe he is just having some minor issues. If the two of you can talk though I'm sure everything will be ok.\nGood luck
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Is it wet and cold where you are too?  I have the Monday blah's!  This type of weather inspires me to lay around and do nothing but waste time on Yahoo Answers.
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sounds like my husband. if he doesnt do the stuff right away just dont nag him about it you wont get a reponse.what you do is you do your stuff.like just do your laundry and when hes tired of no clothes to wear maybe he'll start doing laundry.also maybe make a list of things you both can do.then talk to him without sound naggy and tell him you need his help around the house because you cant do everything and itd be nice if he spent some time with you either.if this guy is seriously lazy and just wont do a damn thing with you then you might wanna leave him.because he might feel that you should do everything and wait on him which is not true.
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I can understand your problem.  Is it possible for you to move closer to a city and get your own vehicle?  That way you could have the best of both worlds where you live 10 minutes from the city and yet don't lose the country life your husband loves.  I find living out in the country to be the best thing because I don't have to deal with the city except when I want to.  At the very least make your husband get you your own vehicle so you can do stuff.
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Interesting....it's raining outside.....and we are inside.  Well, there are plenty of things to do. But my goal is to make you smile.  First, I'm going to tell you how great you look.  Who needs sunshine outside when I have you inside with me? :)  Relax...sit back and relax while I make dinner.  Oh, here, these roses are for you. Now let me get back to making dinner. Don't you dare get up, sit down, I'll set the table.  Now, lets sit down and eat....talk, enjoy each others company.  Oh, the kids are here? Okay, were pulling up a board game after dinner.  We'll have fun playing. How's that for someone who doesn't like the rain?
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My husband and I have been in this situation for 6 years.  We have 2 sons, 6 & 2.  My advice is don't take each other for granted.  Even though I am at work all day does not mean I don't need time for myself.  Likewise, he should still be able to go out or pursue his own hobbies.  You need to watch each other for cues that the other is stressed out.  I try to do as much as I can to "help" on the weekends and in the evenings.  On the weekends, I run erands with the boys (post office, grocery store, etc) giving my hubby a little time to himself.  I also do most of the cooking on the weekends since he does it all week.  I try to get laundry and bills caught up (bill paying is my job).  He loves professional football, so during football season I make sure I occupy the boys so he can watch it at home or go out if he chooses.  It ain't easy! Communicate, Communicate, Communicate!!!!!
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It is Monday afternoon for me and I am even MORE BORED.  However, I have tomorrow off work and my parents are returning from a month in America so I will see them for a couple of hours tomorrow.  If I were you I would go out and do something you don't usually do with your wife (and I don't mean anything rude).  Could you go and see a film she wouldn't enjoy?  Go shopping or see friends?  Do something around the house?  I'm sure, if you put your mind to it, there are lots of things you can find to occupy your time.  Get the house ready for her return - cook something nice, have a bath ready for her when she returns.  Have a bottle of wine chilling...
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What about a compromise? You admit that outside child care has had upsides for your daughter though she tends to be more exposed to illness which is expected. You also seem to enjoy the fact that you have the ability to be out of the house, working at a job you hopefully enjoy and I'm sure this aspect has left you with a feeling of a more direct contribution to the home in terms of finance. However you do say that now your husband makes more money than when you were a stay-at-home mom before so that wouldn't be an issue.\n\nSo, all things considered and while the money wouldn't be an issue, I think the real question comes down to your mixed emotions about full time mommy and in doing so giving up what's become a sort of escape in having a job outside the home. This is where maybe a compromise might be an alternative. Day care (4) days or so a week and a part time on those days (minus 1). The minus one day could be the day you spend in your home doing the things you both need and enjoy doing to make your home comfortable and clean for you and your family.
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If he works to support you, and you are not working outside the home then you really have no right to complain.  I mean, you do get to stay at home, so why should he work 8 hours a day and have to come home to help you.  I don't think you are being fair.
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Just a silly way to answer.\n\nIf it is Saturday, it is Saturday, but if it rains, then it is a rainy day.
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If he is going with his brother and buddies then he should ride with one of them. You need the car if he is going to be gone for that long of a time....what if somehting happens like you have an emergency and have to go somewehre you can't walk. Plus I don't think you want to be stuck in the house all weekend while he is out. Don't let him take the car...he will be hunting so it's not like he will need to be driving around. He can ride with his brother.
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Why do you have to take leave when your husband comes into town?  Don't you have the right to have a job as well?  Why can't you just see your husband in the evenings when he is on leave?  If you really want to spend more time with him, take a part time job maybe 2 or 3 days a week so that when he is on leave, you only have to work these days and the rest of the time you can spend with him.\n\nOtherwise, probably the best option for you is to do "temporary work".  I'm not sure what country you're in, but most countries have employment agencies that you can work for on a casual basis.  They will send you to company to work for a day, or month, or a year depending on what the company's employee needs are.  I've done heaps of this type of work.  It's fun because you get to work for different companies so your job doesn't get boring.  You can tell the agency when you are available for work, so if you want 3 months off, you just let them know and then come back at the end of the time off and go straight back to work.  The pay is usually pretty good, you get paid by the hour but you don't get sick pay or holiday pay because it's on a casual basis.  The only downside is that sometimes there can be no work at particular times of the year (eg. summer if you're working in an office because most businesses take holidays then)\n\nLook in your local telephone book under "employment agencies" and phone them and ask them if they do "temp work".  This type of work is available in most industries (ie. office, hospitality, tourism, retail, cleaning, etc.), so you can pick what you want to do.  Good luck.
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That's just what we're like.\n\nDeal with it\n\nor leave him.\n\nSounds like you like him, so don't be so harsh, just becasue you aren't available all the time to go out doesn't mean he should have to stay home because you are. Especially if you don't live with him, what is the point of making him stay home??\n\nDon't be too controlling or you may find he might get sick of it and leave you?\n\nWho knows... Something for you to consider...
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Can you write me an excuse to miss work today!?  I really don't wanna go........Also, can you make my neighbor stop throwing his sticks and trash in my yard because he's too lazy to put them out front for the city to pick up!? I need someone with some authority to make that happen....N-kay! \n\n(Hey, I always wondered if God ever just "banged in" because of stress days.....Thx!~)
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I live on the East Coast, New England states but Its not to bad \nhere yet. Its @ 8:20 PM and raining and windy  but I have seen\nworse but I am inland and not right on the coast line. \nI am more scared of being # 31 in answers more that the rain\noutside at the moment. Want to hear some deju vu ? I just answered  a later question about what time we like to come on\nanswers and I answered and I was # 31 and I disappeared again.\nHa ha LOL.   Talk about nightmares, your question is in my \nprofile Q and A but I am not on your screen. I hope yahoo fixes that problem , sooner the better.    Hey, if I don't catch up with you\nagain later on answers , then have a wonderful night.