All this talk about murder and everything is getting me kind of scared...I've seen peoples that you cant go on it unless you are their friend..and I can't figure out how to do it!! Anyone know how??
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you can only make your profile private if you are 14 or 15 years old. if you are, it is that way automatically. tom set this up now to protect the youngins. IF you make yourself 14 or 15 just to make ur site private and someone reports you, there are people who do that, just like they do with underage kids, anyway, if someone reports you on false age, myspace deals with it somehow, i think you will get your profile deleted, like the under ageRs. mygen put this up on their site, so it is true, they were warning others about setting their age as 14 or 15.\n\nps:  dont worry about murder and all that.  if you dont give much information out, OR add people you dont kno to ur friend list, you dont have to worry.
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YES!! thank you...my best friend has panic/anxiety attacks..I dont know how to help her...she is afraid all the time...i want to be able to help  her, I want to know how to deal with her...I have taken her to the hospital countless numbers of times..just because she thinks something is truely wrong with her...she has been having feelings that death would be better than dealing with this problem....I need a support group and she does too!!!
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A bit risky don't you think. People can pretend to be your friend. For all I know you could someone looking for their next victim. There are a lot of people who would take advantage of you if you let them. You should not invite strangers into your home or your computer, Ever!
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Yes,  its disturbing to me, but not for the same reasons. I feel sadness for everyone involved. The murderer, the murdered, and the families and friends of all of them. This is a tragedy for everyone involved. I am also concerned about you. If you have thoughts like this, and are aware that they are dangerous, please get help, now, before you do something impulsive that will destroy many lives. I don't want you to be part of another tragedy. Do you know where to get help? If you want more information please feel free to e-mail me, and I can give you resources if you are in the US. Don't wait. You are miserable now, living in fear of what you might do. Don't  let it get any worse. I'll be thinking of you. Take care.
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you can't.You know the truth and thats all that matters.If someone ask tell them the truth, at least you cant make a friend.
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I'm scared of it too. People who burst out into random song and dance cannot be trusted.
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I know you SHOULD NOT behead them. (someone threatened that to  my friend once. i knew it was a joke, though) You should go up to whoever started the rumor and ask them to kindly stop it. Go to a counselor or psych (whichever applies) and discuss it with them. If it is happening at school or work, they usually have rules about rumors with strict punishment for repeat offenders. Are you sure whoever it was that "started it" meant harm? I was once accused of starting a rumor when I meant no harm at all in the first place by my statement. It was the worst decision that I ever made. I lost one of my best friends and still feel bad about it.
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I am almost 39, a wife and mother. \nI play with snakes and spiders and I dance in thunder storms. But my greatest fear will come. (I can't outlive them all.) I am afraid of living longer than the people I love. I do pray that I never have to live through the death of one of my children! Next I hope to outlive my hubby! I know this is a selfish fear, but I can't seem to help it. And besides, fear is selfish... isn't it? \nThanks for causing me to think about this.
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I know this must be really hard for you. I understand what you are going through, and know that i can't help you fully through words, but i will try, for your friends' sake. Now cutting is a dangerous thing, if you rupture a blood vessel you're pretty much dead. You say that they are really good friends and they cut, and one is sucidal. Now, you also want to help them but you are afriad of ruining your personal life. Now let me ask you a question. Do you love your friends? If so you would do w/e it takes to keep them safe, even if it means sacraficing yourself? It's like...would you jump in front of a bullet for them? If so, tell someone you really trust. It doesn't necesarially have to be a parent, and after you tell them and want to help them, go to them and talk to them from your heart how much you care about them. And ask them please not to tell anyone about what you did. If they are good friends like you are then they won't. Please take my advice because i don't want to see anymore death...
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Wow, you sound a lot like me.\n\nI have problems trusting people too.  But sometimes... I can't stay quiet and I start trusting people.  But then I get afraid and I runaway from them.\n\nYou need to find a friend you could trust and try your best to not runaway from (if you are anything like me).  \n\nEmail me if you want and I could try to help.  It seems we have a lot in common.
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Yes, all of us have had bad days, but few of us have experienced grieving over a murdered child. My sympathies and thoughts are with you!\n\nWe all feel alone sometime, and we all try to deal with that in our own ways. Sometimes by endlessly seeking distractions, sometimes by facing our own fears, doubts, anxieties...\n\nBut life requires that of us. Growth is almost always uncomfortable and sometimes very painful, but it's pain for something, if we're honest, if we're true to ourselves and if we genuinely care about the meaning and effect of our lives.\n\nI would much rather experience the pain of facing myself... and accomplishing something of substance in my life... then run away from myself... and at the end of it all, look back and think... "What was it all for? What real difference did I make?"\n\nGood luck to you.
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then you can go out and murder who you like and not worry .. how cool is that ?\ni dont think it is that simply though ... at least i hope not
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That's probably not a good idea...I knew someone personally who was killed that way. Just be careful and bring someone with you, or at least a phone. Good luck.
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Alright, little idiot.  I do not think you should do that.  In fact, if anyone who knows you knows you posted this question and you DO decide to do that, it could be construed as an attempt to MURDER your friend.  And I use the term FRIEND loosely in this instance because you don't sound like any parts of a friend if this holds even the slightest bit of appeal for you.
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I suggest doing what you want without the opinions or influences of other people getting in your way. "basically make up your own mind and be yourself". However in most cases sucides are more cowardly then courageous and i would not do it. But thats just my opinion. (somewhat of a brain twister huh?)
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I can be ur frend... cuz i think i got the same thing... actually i have frends but their isn't "one" frend to whom i can say what really is in my heart... meaning i dont got any best frend... cuz i cant trust ppl... ppl wud alwayz be so cruel... so i started living in my own lil world where i want nobody to bother me... nobody to make my life worst... since we both (u and i) are so sad... we can understand exactly wat we think and feel.... so i think we should be frendz... wat do u think.... if u wanna be mah frend ... here's mah id.... pakiprincess95@yahoo.com.... email me.... (do tell ur intro) ....if ya want sincere frendship... trust me i dont forget my frendz... and i try my best to not to leave my frendz ever in my life!
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people are evil. period.\nso best thing to do is to be more careful\nwith things online.