Okay u guyz, I need some help.There is this guy named Chase Torba. I really like him. My 8th grade promo is coming up and we both have nobody to go with. I want to go with him but we're so different. I'm a skater, he's a prep/jock. He dates preps, I date skaters. I hang out with him in the morning because my friend ashley knows him. All of his friends know I like him. He's the only one that doesn't know, and his friends make it so obvious just to embarrass me. He just doesn't get the memo. What do I do?
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If you love him enough, you should ask him out. Who cares what his friends think. The decision is up to you though.
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Princess all i can say is, take some time, call him up and spend time together.. Go movies, or just hang out... because really ... if you known him since you where 3!! and he known you.. then i say theres a connection between you two. Now maybe he is busy all the time and doesnt have time, but doesnt mean you give up!!! I say go for it.. hes probably thinking of asking to hang out with you too.\nTHIS IS NORMAL.. and its from the inside that is telling ya this girl\npure care and love i got to say....\nYou to have some fun hanging out.\nDont be afraid to talk to the guy.. it will  be a big releaf once you begin to talk to him.. your tension will be gone. :) ;)\n\nYou 2 have\nSincers;\nShawn Miller\nToronto Ontario
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Let Caleb know you are a freshmen and very interested in him.  Maybe just by telling him you are a freshmen may get the message to him that you like him.  Forget about his friend, maybe he was jealous or something.
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WOAH!! the boob thing was kinda funny! i hope you said something or at least gave him a look. lol. but anywayz! he seems like yea he likes you. though the pepsi thing might not mean anything. i dont get the buck thing. you didnt really explain yourself. he seems to be sorta shy so hes only doing little things to show he likes you. ask him! i say GO WITH IT! lol! *good luck!*
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well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
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So...screw your friends. No, not literally. It's just a figure of speech. What I mean is, okay, you like this guy. Great! But what's holding you back? Talk to your friends. Ask them what they have against him? What have they heard? And if they're serious, then take their advice and just move on. They may be right, and they might even help to prevent you from any unnecessary heart break. \n\nBut on the other hand, if they have no valid argument, just tell them that if they're really your friends, then they'll lay off and respect your judgment, and you may go out with him in peace.\n\nThat's all I have to say. Take it or leave it. It is of no greater consequence.
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I noticed a lot of "everybody" in your question. Do what YOU want to- regardless of what everyone thinks. You can't live your life worrying about being popular or not if you make a decision.  If you really like him-go for it.  If it's just a game and you'll hurt someone else's feelings when people turn their backs on you-then forget it, he doesn't deserve that.  If people think you're weird for being with someone that makes you happy, then they're not friends at all!
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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I think this is a good strategy...distance yourself from him for a while and when he asks you for advice just tell him "I don't know what to tell you." Start dressing a little more feminine if you usually are more of one of the guys around him. It sounds like you are in high school, and those relationships really don't last very long, so odds are he and his g/f will break up. When you hear that, give him a week or two to get over it, then start being around him more again, this time re-establishing your relationship as more than friends, like flirting obviously. See if he flirts back. Ask him if he wants to go to the movies one weekend...just the two of you. If he still doesn't seem to get the picture, say "Hey, could you ever see us dating?" in a casual way. If he blows the question off I'd assume he's not interested, but you didn't embarrass yourself to the point where you can't be friends anymore. If he is interested he might say "yeah" and then jackpot!
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My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
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okay, there is this guy who likes me, but he makes fun of me calls me bad things, and tells his friends he likes me. I think he doesn't know how to tell you but, HE  HAS A CRUSH!!!
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I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
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You called me? Yep, that's my name. Help Me Please. Since your "friends" asked him against your wishes, I would not ask them to not mention his name. They probably won't listen to you this time either. Why didn't they just ask him who he liked instead of putting you on the spot? Keep yourself busy and hope he stops popping into your head. Sounds like you like him a lot. He might like you a little too but just wasn't willing to admit it. If he didn't he would just ignore you, not stare at you.
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Awwww, this is soooo cute (sorry, got carried away there).\n\nYeah, have to agree with another answerer. Get him alone, it doesn't work if his friends are there, then he has to act all tuff and cool. Get him alone, and tell him in a quiet way that you really, really like him, a lot. Ask him how he feels about you. Things have a tendency to work out fine after that.\n\nThe best of luck to you :-)
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I think he must be hanging out with my ex-boyfriend because he did the same thing. Only problem ... I let him get away with it for longer than I'm willing to admit. Girl, I'm sure you are so sweet, smart and better than him. Just move on. I know I should take my own advice at times.. lol. This guy is doing one of two things or two of two things. He's either 1. Terribly immature and doesn't want to appear "whipped" in front of his buddies - AKA "Bro's before Ho's theory...or 2. Cheating and trying to keep you at the same time. AKA- having his cake and eating it, too. Either way, pls dump him,go out this weekend and forget about his immature, childish, sick, evil ass. Boys like him deserve to wake up with nothing but themselves,cheap beer and their dumb buddies drooling on them.
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Hey, I know the feeling. I know this guy name Kipp and this chick named Cassi who is one of my BFFz and she is always caught up in a love triangle and doesn't know what to do. I say meet this guy and be yourself. Think positive and hold life with a tight grip and loosen up occasionally. I would go up to the movies and be normal and just sit next to him and talk and crack jokes and stuff, but play it cool, don't look like a loser and trip over your own two feet like I did on a date. Good Luck, and I hope it goes well! Oh, and stay away from guys named Zach! By the way, My cat's name is Sherry Ann!! How ironic?!?!
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ok well i am in 10th grade so hopefully i have some good advice.  the guy thinks he is a big shot because he is in high school. he also prob thinks hes cute or something and knows you think hes cute since you smiled and glared at him. he prob noticed it then when he was with his friends he wanted to act like a big shot because a girl smiled and glared at him. so he wanted to seem popular around his buds. and you are right he was just trying to get a reaction out of you. guys are just like that, as you get older you'll learn that all they want is a girls attention and when they do get her attention they feel like they are all that so they will obiously brag about it. think if some hott guy glared at you and smiled at you, wouldnt you go and tell your best friends? thats exactly what he did. hope it all works out for you, good luck in school!