Over a period of a year and a half my sister had me play with her, but no intercoarse. When I started to get erections she stopped the games. What effects would this behavior have on my sexuality?
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you really should discuss this in private with a therapist
286362
Its hereditary.\nBut don't worry as long as you get an erection and as long as you are able to ejaculate in her!!
424883
Sounds like you've done everything I would have suggested. I guess just keep talking and try to figure some things to make things interesting. Maybe try creating a different type of relationship for awhile. Try not having sex for a year or so and engage in activities that may remind both of you of sex but are in no way related. Go talk to a sex therapist. Sorry, that's the best I got
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now a-days it's normal. My younger sis and I started @ a younger age than most she was 7 years old and I was 8 also and were 17 and 18 now. It's compleatly normal, we've even went to a doctor to make sure. If you think something is wrong with you go see a gynacoligist, they'll tell you. and answer any of your questions.
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Well it sounds like each sister looked up to the other and maybe should not have when it came to this. You have your head on right which is what is most important but your concern for your sister who is way to young to be doing this - and did you say two guys were doing this with her?? \n\nObviously she does not respect herself or her body. She is way too young to even understand the body sexually, what it means and does, how it feels, precautions to takethat sleeping around causes people to talk crap about you and think poorly of you, that waiting for someone you love to share that with is the most important thing.\n\nYou know you are careful so you are not a hypocrite. You are also not 13. Where are your parents? Someone has to start keeping an eye on her and not letting her have boys in the house. She needs some rules and restrictions.. it sounds like she just runs around and does whatever she wants - where are the parents here? As her sister though, you can start to create some rules she should follow - and keep your eye on her. Don't let boys in the house. Not only does she not respect herself but not even the house she lives in. She is way out of her league and can get all types of diseases too - not just a baby. You have to tell her this - that STDs and HIV can be transmitted even when a condom is used, that pregnancy can occur even with a condom.\n\nMaybe she wants attention and takes anything - even negative attention rather than none. I feel bad for her though and your family that no one watched over you all enough to teach you right and wrong. It sounds like you got it so how did you learn that but no one else did?\n\nShe has to respect herself or no one EVER will. Men respect women that are picky about who they share themselves with - not ones who sleep around and treat their body like it is worth nothing. Make her understand how precious this is and how sexy not having sex and waiting can be - how much better it is when you love someone - talk to her very openly. She is not having it because of the way it feels - she has no clue.. she is doing it to feel attractive, get attention and feel better about herself. Try to help her boost her self esteem and spend time with her - hold her hand nad show her the way.\n\nMost important, teach her about how to be safe - about condoms, birth control pill.. everything - go  to a Planned Parenthood (they have a website) in your area and have a counselor there talk to her. She should know having a kid that young is not going to be good - it can end her life essentially - any other dreams she has... anything - watch her, talk to her, show her the way.
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When I was13,  I was at school and Tina S. was sitting across from me she has beautiful blue eyes and nice lips and had nice rounded breasts.  She also had nice thighs (legs it was a day i early June and I just got rock hard.  The teacher asked me to go down to the office to get something and I couldn't move . Some girls noticed the rocket in my shorts and started to laugh I was too embarrassed let alone tying to walk with a hard on was impossible back then.  So I had to politely decline and sat there until it disappeared.   What happened after school, that's another story.  Needless to say I did alot of slow dancing at the year end school dance because I'd always get asked for a slow dance.  That was hard to control (no pun intended).
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more foreplay, the longer you have an erection without sex, the more your buddy gets used to the feeling of being stiff.  During sex, don't just thrust til you spew, get a good rythm going, then ease it off, pay attention to her needs, then go back to thrusting, etc
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A couple of yeas ago,I was sending a lot of time with a woman that was drinking a lot and going through a tough time.One day I was at at her apartment.I was on the couch and  she was laying there with me in her robe.Then see got up and started to kiss me and took her robe off and took my hand to her breast. After a bit she got down on her knees on the floor in front of me and started to take my pants down.she had a bit of a problem,so she asked me to take them off.She gave me a blow job and after that I went down on her.
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Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
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You are ashamed of something.Your mother may have made you think it was bad to have sex.Our subconscious mind is very powerful and this could be answered quite quickly by a good Psychiatrist.This is not a serious matter but if it continues to bother you it could be.These things tend to become normal after many years of acceptance.I would take the time to sort it out now so it is dealt with and you can loose the possible guilt.Unresolved issues become problems.Best of luck to you!
332446
Well, sex is primarily mental and not physical. While it is easy to blame it on the drugs, it could just be that you are not interested in your partner.  However, if you truly believe it is because of the drugs you are taking, speak with your doctor. There are many kinds of hormone treatments you can take and perhaps a different one will not have the same effect.
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It's a tough question, but I'll try answering it.\n\nBeing a non-gay male friend can be, at one point, a good experience since she confides in you the way a sister can trust her brother to keep secrets or even ask for advice on something (at least some siblings). There's probably this inner voice in your head (think of the Family Guy and his good conscience stuck in traffic) that tells you that to take the next step is to ruin that friendship, more so if she's a childhood friend. But it's torture, right, to be there and to hold her without any sense of intimacy but as a supportive friend. You don't need to be needy as well, but be the man who she can lean onto.\n\nTalk about being stuck between a rock and a hard place.\n\nI guess the best way to get her heart is to be subtle yet straight about your approach. If she has problems, well you can help but in a way she has to figure it out for herself then take her out to have fun. It may seem like you're not helping, but the real truth is that you're helping her by distracting her by taking other's problems with her own. It's not like you're being an uncaring friend, but show her that you feel her pain because she is feeling it and one of these days you would take part of that pain away from her.\n\nAnd for a gift, give her something that really means something to you. Girls would like those and not your DVD collection of action movies or the like, but something even more personal.\n\nHope it works!
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Stress, fatigue and illness can all cause the sexual symptoms you describe, whether for masturbation or for males in a sexual relationship.  (Read: it's normal, it happens to most guys at some time in their lives, and it goes away if you relax and get some rest.)  \n\nIt may also mean that you've had enough sexual release for a while; sometimes just going a couple of days without satisfying yourself will take care of things.  Male sexual satisfaction is cyclical to some extent; it may well be that you have had all the satisfaction you need for the short term and letting yourself build up a little more tension may be all the initiative you need.\n\nAnd finally, it might actually be seasonal; there is a LOT of evidence now that the changing of the seasons -- particularly when the hours of daylight begin to shorten very quickly, as has happened in the northern hemisphere recently -- can bring about a wide range of emotional and physical responses that act a good deal like depression.  (Look up "seasonal affective disorder" on the Internet -- assuming you're north of the Equator, that is; if you're an Aussie lad, sorry, mate, no idea. :-)\n\nAt the same time, you can take some satisfaction (mental, if not physical) in the awareness that you've crossed a key emotional threshhold in your maturity: you've started to form an attachment to your girlfriend that is stronger than your attachment to pictures of naked women.  This can be a good thing, as it helps you associate sexual arousal with the person with whom you have the relationship, rather than with an arbitrary and impersonal body part (as nice as it can be to look at those impersonal body parts).  It will be a very important part of any really long-term relationship you forge for yourself later in life.  \n\nSo, don't worry about it.  It most likely means you're maturing, and may also mean that you're stressed out -- possibly even from this situation.  Try the simple things first -- take a breather from masturbation for a couple of days, try to get enough sleep, eat a balanced diet that's not all sugar and caffeine, and spend as much time in the sunlight as possible during the daytime hours.  \n\nAnd... tell your girlfriend that you don't get excited by other women any more.  Because of your age I of course can't advise you to take any sexual steps with her, assuming she's your own age as well, but it's bound to cause a deepening of your emotional relationship.
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I dated a girl that could'nt flex, so what we tried is that I sat on my sofa and she sat ontop of me, her back facing me.(try to picture it)So, I gently started to spread her legs wide grabbing/ pulling her by the thighs towards me and either she rides me and /or I pump. then to add more heat since her back of her neck is facing me I lick her shoulders, her upper back and on to her neck and ears. by this time the female is hot and gets more flexible because of it. Our body works in such ways. Enjoy!
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Depression and devastation can cause hindrance sexually and easily causes one to be less sexual. You may want to talk to someone professional, like a therapist, because I think it could be mentally linked.
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Just start having sex, if she interferes again, ask is she wants to join in. IF she says no, she'll leave you alone, if she says yes, then just go with it and have a 3some and lots of fun.  You wouldn't be the first person to have sex with their sister.
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I have dated and lived with a paraplegic. It has nothing to do with the disability. It has to do with the attitude. If you can't let it go, you will always be a victim or you will always expect failure and not be disappointed. \n He couldn't get past his own disability and our relationship just became more and more distant. He left about 2 and a half years ago. We couldn't have children, but we had each other. For the time I spent with him, I wouldn't trade it for all the world. I really loved him. Sex was never an issue, we were just very careful. As you know things happen. He had spasms a lot and he took medication that caused him to lose his drive from time to time. But once the Baclophen was introduced it made his spasms settle down. At least he wasn't going days on end that way. It was a trade off we adjusted to. No, so you have to adjust how you do things, you just do it and get on with it.  So I would have to say that NO those things are not a turn off to some women.