if you only date girls with nice bodies, do you take good care of yourself and work out? if you say you want a nice guy who is respectful, do you treat others really well? ect. and explain please :-)
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
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let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
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Work 'em Baby !   LOL.\n\nBe content with who you are.  As long as you're eating well and exercising and in good health, what else really matters ?\n\nAny man who loves you for your legs isn't worth loving in the first place.\n\nIt's the total package girlfriend, the total package.  A woman who's happy with herself is a WHOLE lot more fun to be around and be with than one who's not.  Beauty comes from inside and eminates out.\n\nLike Shakespeare wrote, "We cannot bow ourselves to the weak list of a country's fashions, WE are the makers of manners !"
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The media portrays an acceptable girl as perfect.  Models are way too skinny for the most part, and when you see some of the celebrities such as Jessica Simpson with no flaws in her body as it would appear you have to live up to that.\n\nI personally have never felt comfortable with someone who tries to make themselves perfect.  I'm not perfect, and I don't think there's a lot of men who are.  Those who are vain enough to spend that amount of time on themselves are working around a different mental limitation.  But deep down inside I wish I spent yesterday working out so I'd look better today even though I know that would do no good.\n\nSee if you can break the mold and just be healthy and comfortable with yourself.
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some of us girls like guys who are "bad boys", some like them rich and pretty, and so on and so on.I know I like guys who are kind and affectionate, but also will have a tough side(just not to me). So I am in the group of girls that like a mix of everything. Just find out about the girl and the past guys she has dated.Don't try to be like those guys, because odds are they broke up for a reason. Just find out why they aren't "together" anymore. If it was because he was to pushy and bossy, be sweet and let her make some of the decisions.
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I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
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Let me tell you what I did when I was rejected by a female for basically being fat. I asked her out on a date of sort. She laughed and pretty much called me fat in front of a few people. I stood there kinda heartbroke. But then looked back at her and said ' I might be fat, But your ugly and I can diet". Needless to say, I saved my pride. \nThe moral of the story is that no one is perfect. And don't worry about what others think. Or put yourself down like I did.
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I just wanted to say thanks for spelling ho correctly.  Some guys may look at it that way but in all honesty sometimes a girl just wants to get laid too.  If this is a guy that you see yourself wanting to be in a relationship with I wouldn't recommend it, it may just give him the wrong idea about your previous lifestyle.. but like I said, sometimes a girl just wants to get laid, and if that's all you're trying to do.. go for it girl!
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Just once, would i like to find someone who loves me, is there for me, is willing to make some sacrifices for me, will actually call me, will remember anniversarys, birthdays, and special days, who will comfort me when i'm down instead of having no idea what to do, to find unconditional love, to really be able to lose some serious weight, stick to diets, and there is so much more but i don't want to spam up your page.\n\nthat was a good release for me. i thank you for asking the question.
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Sorry but he must be physically appealing to me, nice eyes, clean white teeth are nice and to be fit, not over weight.\nNot all girls are like that though.\nNone of that is important to me though if it isn't teamed up with a genuine character, you know , not superficial and fake.  Most girls like a guy who is not afraid to talk about what he believes in and thinks and how he feels.  Nothing is more annoying than some one who can't communicate clearly with thoughtfulness and RESPECT.\n\nIt is good if they can dance and earn a good living ...very good. Ride horses, fix cars, build houses and cook the occasionally a la carte meal.  Ha ha ha ha. etc etc  I could go on but it would fill the whole page up.
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Nope, you will date guys.  They look at you as one of the homies now, and that's cool, because some of the other girls probably wish they were in your shoes. Maybe one of your guy friends can set you up on a few dates, maybe even double date, and you can hook one of them up with a friend of yours.  If so, look your best, but make sure you feel comfortable! And have fun!!!
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Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
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Do you  have a personality? I'm not trying to be an ass but my girl friend just went out with some guy who is super super nice but she said he just had no personality. No spunk. He wasn't funny, he wasn't sarcastic, he wasn't artsy, he wasn't into music, he wasn't really passionate about anything. But he was nice. What the ladies love is a funny guy, or a guy who really loves something. Animals, art, music, nature, sports...whatever. And of course it's always important to be clean and presentable. A nice guy will never win if he's got bad hygiene or smells bad. Smell good! Be talkative. Be a little more than nice. Be passionate. Don't be creepy and nothing but complimentary, that's like you're a girl's gay best friend. Just be presentable.
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From a total porn perspective, it's obviously her body, and specifics vary for each individual.  I like lots of curves and a general "nice body."  Personally, however, I like my girls big, not just overweight, per se, but tall and luscious and able to control me.  I'm far too inexperienced to have a favorite activity or trick, but one of the best things about dating a girl is that you don't have that pressure about sex like you ALWAYS have from guys.  It's cool just to make out for an hour because there's no penis calling the hasty, unappreciated shots.  Making out and cuddling are always my favorite activites.
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im pretty and my friends are pretty. i wont discriminate against ugly people i've even dated ugly people in the past b/c of their personality. but if a girlfriend of mine is ugly i'll tell her that she's not that attractive and should play up other moves to win over guys. no point in lying to her b/c she know that she ugly no matter how much i deny it.
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Hmmmmmm, here I go being Shallow Hal again, but I can't help being truthful. There first has to be some sort of attraction in the physical sense, and for most of us that means different attributes. After the initial attraction, I listen to them speak and watch how they treat other people. I look for people who are intelligent, but not arrogant or bossy. I like confident women, but not mean spirited or waspish ones. People who show respect for others without being wishy washy or kissing ass also get high grades from me. Most of all I look for people who are confident enough with themselves that they realize they don't have to try and change or "improve" others around them. That, to me is a manifestation of great inner insecurity and a lack of sensitivity and respect for others.