She said that she likes me and that I treat her better but she still hasn't broke up with him what do you think about this?
123845
you should tell her that her bf is not right for her if is treating her like sh@$. She needs to see that he is not right for her and that she need to get away from that relationship she is in now and move on to something that is better for her
309803
Many people, including myself, believe that men and women are never "just friends" for a very long period of time.  So you probably have a chance with her, provided things don't work out with her current relationship.  Just right now, she is loyal to and only has eyes for him.\n\nThat said, I was the girl in a similar situation... I had been with my boyfriend for 6 months and a guy from work asked me out.  I told him I was already in a serious relationship.  It's not that he was unattractive (looks or personality), it was the situation.\n\nBut, as time went on, he did and said a bunch of stupid stuff which made me not want to consider him as a possible boyfriend EVER.  Example?\n\nHe didn't have a car or a license, but he was my neighbor (as well as coworker) so I'd sometimes give him a ride home.  Once he said, "Men should drive, women should cook."  So, not a dealbreaker for the friendship, but still not the kind of thing that brings a man and a woman closer together.  Similar stuff for about 2 years...\n\nWhen he found out I broke up with my boyfriend, he asked me out AGAIN, and now it wasn't the situation that made me say no, it was his personality.\n\nSo my advice to you is, be on your best behavior.  Don't do anything incredibly stupid (so maybe smoking around her isn't the best idea, as your best personality won't shine through).  Stick by her as a friend and try again if she breaks up with her current man.\n\nIf you just don't have the patience to wait it out, you WILL find another girl that suits you.  She may seem like THE ONE, but she's really just one of many.
276910
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
538319
Hmm....seems like she has mixed emotions but I'm not too sure. It is possible for her to like you and her boyfriend at the same time and she may be confused about her feelings. She probably likes you more than a friend but is too afraid to tell you in fear of rejection or ruining the friendship. Therefore, she has a boyfriend so that way she won't act on her feelings towards you. Little does she know that she's already making it obvious. Dude, if she hugs you all the time and says that she loves you then I'd say she definitely likes you more than a friend. This is what I think of your situation but I could be wrong. I mean you said that she was never like this before so why the change? Obviously, she has developed feelings for you. So to sum it up, yes she likes/loves you but she is afraid of ruining the friendship. So my best advice for you is to wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend and then express your feelings to her. Believe me I know what it's like since I've been in a similar situation before.Good luck and best wishes.........
431818
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
607116
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one.  She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out.  You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
243416
maybe shes creeped out about him...ask her why she doesnt like him and say its hurting me that u dont wanna hang with him whats up why dont u like him?
147390
Myself personaly would not have said it if it were not the case.  I am shy and would be glad he said he thinks about me.  It sounds like she may be a little shy also.  Try talking more to her about what you've been thinking.
188150
hmmm... this is tough.. when my guy told me this.. i believed him because he treats me right..\ni know you've been a good b/f to her! because only someone who is really in love would ask for other ppl's help because they want to know what's best for their girl... i think you should take her somewhere nice.. then tell her :)\nbut take it slow, so she knows that you truly care\nhope this helps
100402
No. You need to let your girl handle it. Tell her you support her and that she is more than welcome to ask your help if she feels she needs it. My question to you though is what is your girl telling her ex? Is she making it known that she is seeing someone else and is happy in that relationship? Let your girl know that you have no problem stepping in to take care of the situation if her ex won't listen to her.
358455
I would tell her look your just having problems in your relationship maybe we should just take is slow. Tell her you respect her as a person and while you are fond of advances you believe that you should just wait.  Remain good friends with her, and tell her you will still be there for her, but believe that you should hold off on a intimate or committed relationship until she has time to work it out w/ her current b/f that if she does want to be with you she needs to break up w/ her current b/f but make sure this is what she wants, but that even after she decides your going to be there for her.
111472
I used to have this same problem with guys I used to date but, I found the love of my life and I can't stop talking. I feel comfortable around him. I know that he will not judge or think less of me for what I have to say. Maybe she does not feel comfortable around you. Maybe she is afraid that you will judge her.
284277
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
458286
well she obviously likes you and not him if shes with you and calling him a jackass.. she should stay with you unless shes a total player and you wouldnt want to be with her anyways if she is like that..
38929
If she can't break up with him I believe that only means she has developed feelings for him, or else it would have been a lot easier for her. Otherwise, she might be feeling sorry for him assuming he might get upset and hurt, which also means she's with him for the wrong reasons. If your friend has no feelings for him, and is not attached to him emotionally, then she should leave him and be fair to him,  and most importantly to herself.
102095
You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
377221
As I understand it, she wants to continue seeing him, but he's moving a little too fast for her.  If that's the truth, I think that's what she ought to tell him.\n\nIt's not like she has to choose between moving as fast as he wants, and breaking up with him.\n\nOn the other hand, if he's pressuring her into sex, or a commitment that she isn't ready for, and he won't take no for an answer, she needs to be less concerned about hurting his feelings, and just ditch him.