hmm i am not talking abt the partner but the things like invitations,arrangements....blah blah blah
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Fist thing you will want to do is set the date and figure out how many people you are looking at so you will know how big of a church, reception hall, invitations, etc. that you will need.  You will also need to figure out your budget so you will know what you can spend and where you will need to do things yourself to save money or whatever.  There are things that you will need to reserve as soon as possible like a DJ or band, reception hall etc.  Below is a good list with time frame.\nhttp://www.festive.com/wedchex.html\nHope that helps!  Good Luck!
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Just write "gifts are optional" on the invitation, or don't mention it at all.  But don't make a big deal out of it either way.
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This isn't a wedding question...
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i am none ov the above, i show my emotions, talk to my partner.
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Sure! you would probably have alot of fun sharing that experience together. You should also feel good about your relationship that he trusts your reactions and feels close enough to you to extend the invite. Try something new. You might be surprised.
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Affairs are exactly what they sound like, they are affairs.  Very rarely do they turn out to be anyhting other than flings.  If both parties are signing up for the very same thing, and they both know what they expect from eachother, then no harm done.
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i can give you some examples of what i've sent to my hubby, first of all i sent him off with an xbox 360....games, ipod, he insisted on ramen noodles (have no clue), sports illustrated, twin sheet set, comforter, pictures in frames, made him a yearly calendar with our pictures on each month, bath supplies, dvd's, coffee, plastic bowls/utensils, hopefully you don't have to replace his wedding ring like i do....he lost it the 1st week there taking off his gloves....new DC boots, shirts, socks, foot powder....i think that's about it. i also had the kids in my sons class make him cards or write letters to him and his soldiers, they really get a kick out of reading 'em. i wish your hubby well, good luck to ya, stay strong and don't forget to smile ( even if its fake, lol )
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It's for weddings and such...not funerals.
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You can if you want to.  A lot of brides do.  I'm getting married in a few weeks and we decided not to exchange gifts just because we don't have the extra money, plus we decided to buy a dog after the wedding.
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i like talking about sex. of course there are times that just aren't appropriate and if you catch me in those times i'm gonna dis you bad. it's all about timing and getting her to open up. and guys don't ever start a pm with a sexual line unless you are married to the female cause you are gonna get iggied or played for a fool at best.
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i wasn't nervous either...some ppl just aren't. no big deal. i HATE that ppl think we are suppose to "act" a certian way. \npersonally i think some ppl that act that way just do it because they think they have to for some reason.\ni was cool as a cucumber...even when my dad was half an hour late because of a tire blowing out LOL...never sweat the small stuff...i had my guests there, my groom there...no body was going anywhere..we just waited. HA!\n\nBUT...i didn't see anything about a photographer...or the grooms gift.\n\nya know...i think some ppl don't bother w/ a grooms gift, but thought i'd mention it. my hubby and i didn't mess w/a gift we just sent a card to each other before so we could read something sweet from one another. \n\nand ya got the old fashion stuff...something old, something new, something barrowed, something blue?
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Lifetime partner? That's kinda flaky. . . come back and ask again when you can ask what the responsibilities of married couples are.
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Well you need to sit him down and w/ his planner and find a time when he can schedule you in for dinner or movies or whatever. When ever I'm in a long term relationship I like to have one day out of the week where me and my partner can get together and spend time w/ each other. And its very hard to do that sometimes because of our busy schedules but explain to him that for a relationship to last you all need that alone time together to laugh and talk. That if you all don't do this now a couple of months from now who knows where the relationship will be.
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i'm still relatively newlywed (almost 2 years) and so far nothing has been difficult. but I think we both still make the other's needs a priority so that may be the part we actually have to remember to do later... or the part that will not come as naturally once we get lazy, bored, or have kids.
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You don't have to get her a whole 'nother gift necessarily. Maybe take her to dinner and get her some flowers. I wouldn't expect another gift from my partner. Hope you guys have a really EXCELLENT anniversary with lots of hugs and kisses.
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Being supportive of each other's interests definitely brings a lot to the relationship.  I would expect my partner to attend certain "important events" (and vice versa) but not really demand their presence on every occassion (especially on minor ones).\n\nYour partner also has to have a grasp of their personal life as well, lest both of you end up becoming totally dependent on each other's way of life that you close out on other happenings outside of your relationship.\n\nHave a healthy balance between supporting each other and growing independently within your relationship.
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wel i think u can arrange to meet each other once in a while to keep it real