am deeply down in love with two different girls and i dont know who to chose now,the same equal of love,i treated both of them way,cares for them and both of them loved me.pls advice me what to do.
134264
Drop them both and find yourself a new girlfriend. \n\nONLY ONE GIRL though
355783
Well when in the situation of having a girl choose between two guys, you would have better luck if you made yourself hard to get, if she calls, be busy most of the time, don't make time for her. If things don't work with her new guy then you might have a shot if you don't just come ouw with 'i love you', make her work for it
220059
in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
301382
don't date the first girl if you have very little interest in her, you'd be leading her on. if you are sincerely interested, go ahead. however, with the other girl, you could like her forever, and she may not like you, so think about what you really want.
158698
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
173781
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
504511
Sounds like you are getting some of your own medicine there buddy.  Why was it ok for you to be with both of them while you made up your mind, but not ok for her to be with both of you while she makes up her mind?  You say I alot in that paragraph as though you have given up something you wanted, and the decision is soley yours if you spend your life with Jen.  It's not.  It's up to Jen too and since you started this, you kind of have to wait for her to figure it out the way you did.\nI'm sorry you are hurting, but this is what you wanted, time to decide if she was the one.  Now give her the same courtesy.
181791
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
610088
This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
157646
The fact that your attentions are on someone else makes me question the relationship with the first guy. But decide who you like better and make a definate choice. It may end up being the wrong choice, but you will learn from it and hopefully be more wise the next time.
134953
Dude I just went through this same exact thing.  Your only missing her cause she was there for you and now theres no one.  I took her back after she tried the new guy, and two weeks later, she dumps me for other guy she just broke up with.  I wasnt hurt cause I knew it could happen so I didnt let myself get too involved.  But my advice, just move on, find someone new to love, there more fun, and you dont have to worry about her going back for the other guy.  She already left you once, dont let her walk all over you.  Hope this helps.
212195
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
271185
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
441777
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
112303
Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
508264
welllll i dk  really i mean ur in one big predicament.umm i mena its really up to u i mean go with the one who u feel like you would be more happy with and u like more
154273
Well, you have to choose ONE. Consider everything before you do so. Who do you get along better with? Who do you know better? Which one of them could you see yourself with more? Try answeringthose questions, and hopefully it will lead to one guy.