ok i realy love my boyfriend and he said that he loves me anyway one of his friends tould me that when thay whent to the movies he meat this girl there and when he walked back in the movies  this girl was ziping up he skert . he deniesit but y would his friend lie on him plezzz help me i do no what i should do plezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz  help
137646
OK, maybe his friend lied (I doubt it). But you have to get a hold of yourself.  From your typing style, and misspellings, I assume you are VERY young.  This boy may be your 1st love, but believe me, he will NOT be your last. Does he deny being with the girl at all, or just denies anything happened?  Get to the bottom of this.  If he is innocent, apologize for not trusting him.  If he is guilty, break up with him.  You don't need to play these games.  You deserve better.
238666
Follow your heart...If you don't want to do that, then ask yourself...has your friend ever lied to you, or your bf?\n\nIf it were me, though, I'd believe my friend.
433820
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
532416
i think you should just ask your friends about it first i mean ait`s not your boyfriend`s fault. tell them how you feel, and ask them what would they do if it`s happening to them. i mean they won`t get it until they`re in someone else`s shoes. if they`re your friend then they would respect you and your boyfriend and lay off him. good luck ! =]
155284
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
69214
he is lying...screw him...such a liar...main thing is guys do not get into the true love...if you want to have fun...then go ahead and have fun..but if you going for his true love...then screw him...he is liar
644998
i think you should talk to your girl friend about this and tell her you love her and you dont want any thing to happed to this relationship good luck
114032
First ask yourself a few questions. Does he flirt a lot with these girls? Does he dump you a lot to go out with these girls? Does he talk about them all the time? If you answered a honest no to these questions you might just need to turn off the jealously and realize your boyfriend loves you. If you answered yes then confront your boyfriend because you have a right to know if anything is going on.
229860
This is a very Critical Situation as He may be telling you the story to make you jealous if it was like that its Okay.. But breaking you hurt then staying away for 20 days & then after that for 1 month & telling he is broken with other Girl...\n\nWhat I understood is that He Loves you but he is un able to impress you perhaps is monetary tight so his confiedence level is lower... so by telling you the story he wants you to confess 1st. Any way.\n\nYou do 2 things:\n1). 1st of all check if he actually had a relation or he lied as above. if he had a Relation Leave him, He is Good for Nothing..\n\n2). If he has done it as I assumed above, be little daring him tell him about your Choice of guy. Give him his own Picture but do not name it. Tell him that you also like his habits & his styles.\n\nMake him sure that you love him but its He who should say I Love You 1st, you just shower your love so continuously to him so that he should not lose his interest in you...\n\nBless you
202973
If your boyfriend trusted you, he would not care at all.  And if he doesn't trust you, you need to ask yourself why you are still in the relationship with him.  If you loose trust in a relationship, you loose it all.  I say go and see your friend before he leaves!!!
450219
No i dont think that your being cheated on. Your friend was just joking around.If he starts to get to close to your girlfriend then be watchful.But it sounded like a joke.
146605
you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
140957
That's not cheating.  That's your guy's friend being a tool.\n\nCheating would have been if he had made his move and you had responded by kissing him.  By turning aside, you revealed to yourself (and to the guy) that you did not want anything of that nature with him.  \n\nAnd your B/F should be mad at his friend (who made a rather ballsy move towards you) than at his girlfriend, who's made others aware that there's no shot because she's got someone.
538967
If he did love you he wouldn't have been "messing with some other girls"! You're right in that you can't or shouldn't allow your friends tell you what to do. However, if they are true and good friends, you should at least heed what they say. They have your best interest at heart and may be able to look objectively at the situation whereas you may be blinded by your feelings of love. Bottom line is.....if he was messing around, that's the type of person he is and it would likely happen again (just maybe he's get smarter about it and you wouldn't catch him)! Thank your lucky stars you found out now. It may hurt but it's probably best in the long run. You're prince charming is probably still out there somewhere. Keep looking. Good Luck.
92084
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
268691
dont feel guilty.\nits none of their monkey business\nface this one of a kind challenge in your life\nlet the people know how much you love your boyfriend\ndefend your relationship.
445287
Leave things alone and let it work itself out. You haven't done anything so if you start trying to fix it then it's only going to make you look even more guilty. He'll learn in time that you never did any of the things she said and he'll have to be the one to find a way to make it up to you. Let him see that your a stronger person then what she is making you out to be. and he will respect you more for it. I would just let him know that your not guilty but your not going to start trying to prove it to him either, and that he'll have to work it out himself. If you start having to prove things to someone you will be having to prove things to them from now on. If his going to believe you then let nature take its course. As for her why are you even friends with her. Dump her and if you do date her ex so what, that's why his her ex.