I am 23 and I just know what I like and I go for it.    But does it come off desperate?
125936
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
613641
Dont' try so hard, guys can see how desperate some girls are. The best way is to have a large group of friends and have some of your friends pair you with someone that would be good for you. It'll take a little bit of time but if you want something, go and get it, don't expect everything to be handed down to you. Good luck
480283
it is actually a very good idea, especially if most of your business is out of the city you are based in. it does not make you look desperate, in fact it is quite the opposite. it appears more professional, and you are more likely to get business with it.   good luck.
123872
so age doesn't matter go for it!!
225980
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
316224
Make your own decision concerning this matter. You shouldn't let others dictate to you what kinda guy to go for. If you're 70 like you say, then you oughta know by now what you want in a man. It's up to you and no one else. Thanks.
395475
Yes and just go with it!! Love is a great thing. Best if luck!!
318951
Hey if you guys have chemistry, then trust me it will work, i wont say age is just a number, but the age difference doesnt really matter!
45163
You shouldn't be desperate if you don't want to stay single for long.  Being desperate connotes that you want something real bad and there's a saying that if you want something bad enough, you scare it away.  There's some truth to that because the message you're sending to the universe is that by wanting it so much, you still don't have it.\n\nIf you want to create that situation for yourself wherein you will be happy and fulfilled in a relationship, you've got to get into that mindset first EVEN IF you don't currently have a partner.  Then when you're not even looking, that's when it will manifest.  All creation starts with a thought and when the thought is right, the universe will manifest that thought for you.  So don't be desperate. Be complete. Then you will Have.
449125
OK 17, I think that you are just a bit obsessed about this and it comes through loud and clear.  Sounds like you have a comfortable life, car, good family life so why is it so important to have a serious relationship right now?  If everyone else had warts on their ass would you have to have them too?  I don't mean to sound uncaring but I have had some experiences with relationships and they aren't all that they are cracked up to be.  They take an awful lot of work, commitment and energy.  Take if from someone who would like to be 17 again take your time, embrace your friends, male and female, and enjoy yourself.  Nothing says that you can't share your thoughts and feelings with those who are good friends.  The more you try the the more desperate you become and the more desperate you become the more that comes through to scare off any potential girl friend.....understand?  The old saying goes "If you love someone let them go, if they come back they are yours, if they don't they never were.....I think that's how that goes and it makes sense.....enjoy life now cause it only gets more complicated as you get older.\nGood luck 17, now go out and get some friends to go to the movies and enjoy!!!
374536
first off you dont seem like you are of legal age. second, if you are over 18 it is alright to pursue him but be careful about setting up meetings. Go to public places and you could also invite people you know to come with you
622172
There is nothing like being late,23 is still tender age.Go for it,don't just strain yourself.I am 39 and am lifting weights.
210505
Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
156753
asking is a little awkward. i would say just go for it.
404181
Who knows what this guy is after, some 27 year olds are for real and some are just out to get some..... i am 26 and know both types of guys. I say give him a chance and then go with your gut. You never know, he could turn out to be the ONE!
614783
No i dont think that you ask for much. If it is what you offer to the other individual i cant see why you should settle for anything else. Although saying that you might want to open up and a bit and give some people the chance to show you what they are really like. Sme times people need some time to show their real self
404674
At your age GO For IT.  If it doesn't work out you have plenty of time to recover.