i like this lad who is my friend as well. should i tell him i like him? how do i know whether he will like me back and if he doesn't it will be really awkard cos i see him everyday. We get on really well and my friend thinks that he likes me more than just a friend, he dosent drink so he dosent have dutch courage like the rest of us and Im too shy to make a move myself. but my friend who also one of his best friends told me that he knows i like him but he hasn't done anything about it. does this mean he doesnt like me. However I only ever saw him out once with the lads and I was with SOMEONE ELSE, I think I made a mistake cause my friend told me he kept staring at me the whole night.
128841
Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!
75717
thats good for u...i would go ahead and ask him if you think he like u bac....do it!!!! dont let ur friend stop u...if he doesnt flirt bac then hes not interested in her......
364169
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
445860
believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
98600
it seems like theres something about you that he likes. i should know-i did the same thing but ended up being rejected when i told this girl what i felt for her.
606640
do you still talk you should call him and ask him if he  would comsider going back with you but don't get your friends involved because he might start liking them i know you might think that it won't happen to you but trust me it can happen to anyone well good luck with that and be brave
345972
If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
111160
tell him you like him. what can it hurt? it definitely sounds like he likes you. so you should tell him and see what happens.
464780
My advise is to stay with him. You felt good around him right? You had fun and had nice conversations, right? Take time and think to yourself, "do I like this guy more than a friend or not?" If not, be honest and tell him, don't avoid him. Stop being such an immature little girl, we ain't seven-years old anymore. Men don't have cooties.
523906
Well, I would tell him that ur dateing his friend. And if he takes it bad and gets all mean he didnt really like u htat much/ But if hes ok with it and still likes you he really means it. If you can I would try it out with him sometime because you never know some people ture out to be sole mates! Its happaned to me before I didnt really like a guy but he liked me and i dated his friend and when we broke up i tried it with him and it turned out to be great! I didnt know his other side yet and i wanted to see it. Were still dating today. 4 years! You can try if you would like to get to know him better or tell him u jsut want to be friends. My answer prolly wont help but... Good Luck!
221322
I think he likes you... but peer pressure from his buds is getting him down.\n\nArrange to be alone with him... you can both be honest when there is only the two of you there.
136719
Always be yourself thats why he should like you. The chances are he might be turned on by your friend but he probably has more respect for you. Let your bff know how you feel about him and after that start flirting, start to get into what he likes and talk about it with him.
423829
He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
156803
I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
233448
If this guy likes you and knows you like him and hasn't already asked you out, then he's shy and might need a gentle push in the right direction. If he likes you but doesn't know you like him, then why not just have your friend make sure he knows that in fact you do like him. Then, wait and see if he's too shy to ask you out or not.\n\nBest of luck!
415806
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.