Okay heres the thing me and one of my best friends like the same guy. What should we do?
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4GET THE GUY!!! if u really cared about ur friend u would drop it. ur friendship is more important ne wayz. (unless u were just using him/her)
230231
it is so possible girl. but if he is like that and u dont like him just tell him that u guys have to remain best friends and nothing more
64222
I've heard about this type of case before, if you like him and he seems to like you too, you guys should give it a try. You wont loose anything, just make sure you guys talk about it and say to each other that if it doesn't work you'll still be as best friends as before :-)
170995
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
285808
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
14589
girl, you are so right. if you like him and he is good to you and good for you, go for it. chance are, your "friends" are just jealous 'cause this guy is crazy over you. you true friends will want to see you happy. the rest will just fuss cause he doesn't fit in to their click. you are being more mature than your friends and it's nice to see everybody doesn't base everything on looks alone! good for you! good luck!
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Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
63519
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
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If your best friend knows that you like him, she's not being a good friend is she? When she's not there, flirt with this guy but not too much to the point where it annoys him. Next time you like a guy, don't tell her.
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If you really like him..than explain the situation to your bestfriend..she might be upset..but its better than lieing to her and than finding out..
47860
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
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it depends how much u like him if you love him sometimes you have to do what is right for you but if you dont love him you probably should think about the saying friends before boy friends (or in this case your almost boy friend) but believe me if he starts going out with your friend it is ok i know how it feels the guy i liked all year asked my best friend out but what hurts even worse is that she knew i liked him but still said yes. anyways this is about u well good luck remember do the right thing.
46374
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
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yea just tell him straight up how u feel, and tell him what ur best friend thinks about him too
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i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
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He knows you like him,. You know how he feels right now. Soo just be friends with him for now! Good luck
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OK, this is for if you are sure he likes you: go out with some friends somewhere and start flirting with another guy. If you feel like you could actually pursue this guy and have something with him, then you don't really like your friend. But, if you are only thinking of your friend when you are with the other guy, then you really do like him. I'd say if this has been going on so long, you DO like him, but are afraid of ruining what you already have. I say go for it, cuz it's better than looking back later when it's too late and wondering what you could have had. Hope this helps!