well yea i do like this guy and we r like gr8 friends but i dont knoe if he likes me or if i should tell him i like him. i dont want to b embarrassed when he says no or ur joking right? i dont want that to happen so what should i do to knoe if he likes me or if i should tell him..... plz tell me!!!
120536
tell him that you like him, and ask if he'd want to go out to a movie or something as more than just friends. If he says no..don't sweat it. There are plenty of men out their. I'm sure you're a cute girl, you can have anything you want if you work hard enough for it. Good luck! If he turns you down then you're too good for him anyways
46183
He obviosly likes you. I mean if you can really trust the people who are telling you that he likes you than you  should beleave them. I'm a guy and what he said to you doesn't suprise me. If he really likes you he is not going to openly tell you. Im in this situation myself. I know that if the girl I like ever asked me if I like her I would say no even if I really did like her. The reason why is because I don't know if she likes me back. He is probably wondering the same thing about you. I think you should flirt a little or maybe hint to him that you like him. He might be afraid of rejection. If he knows that you like him he would have nothing to worry about.\n\nP.S. When a Guy makes fun of you and acts like a jerk around you he likes you. If thats the case than you should ask him out. Remember never send a messenger, they never work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
234922
Just continue being friends with him and show that you care. He has to be able to figure out that you like him if you keep this up. Otherwise, this guy might be really clueless.
170995
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
229641
well what i would do is i wouldn't tell him sraight up that i like him but get to know him hangout with him be good friends tease around with him don't get all stiff in front of him be your self that is the key to opening up to spmebody!!! goodluck and be yourself!!1
642434
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
182201
Tell him you like him but don't go up to him and just say Hey I like you... that might catch him off gaurd and he might say something he'd regret, just walk up and ask him who he likes, and tell him you know someone who does and she wants you to ask him out for her and when he asks who say me. Than see his reaction if it's kinda mean it means you caght him off gaurd and he'll probably try to fix it later and you should let him.
284914
He likes you, you should say something! It would help you a lot!!!!! He obviously fells for you, so don't be afraid to say how you feel. I'm in your situation, and I know how you feel, but you'll never know until you ask!
251512
If you don't tell him you're not going to know if he likes you or not, so tell him.  If he don't feel the same way about you, at least you'll know and you wont have to agonize about it any more.
425025
He likes you alot but if you like him than go up to him and ask him out b/c my guy friends tell me guys like it when you do the first move trust me good luck
182845
OK SWEETY,\nIT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT LIKE THIS GUY.LOL. BUT YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. THE BEST THING I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU IF HE IS YOUR FRIEND TELL HIM STRAIGHT FORWARD BUT KINDLY YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I SEE AS YOU THAT. DONT LET HIM FIND OUT FOR HIMSELF CUZ HE MIGHT THINK YOUR PLAYING HARD TO GET AND THEN U MIGHT JUST END UP HURTING HIM FORM NOT TELLING HIM. GOD BLESS ADN I WILL PRAY IT WORKS OUT.
415806
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
535268
Of course this guy likes you.  He's gotta be awfully shy to not move forward with you even when you say you like him.  I assume his comment was an attempt at humor.  Why don't you take the lead and tell him you want to date.  He'll be overjoyed I guarantee it.
320844
OK, this is for if you are sure he likes you: go out with some friends somewhere and start flirting with another guy. If you feel like you could actually pursue this guy and have something with him, then you don't really like your friend. But, if you are only thinking of your friend when you are with the other guy, then you really do like him. I'd say if this has been going on so long, you DO like him, but are afraid of ruining what you already have. I say go for it, cuz it's better than looking back later when it's too late and wondering what you could have had. Hope this helps!
536571
I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him. \n\nFishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.\n\nIf a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.\n\nGoodluck!
130753
just stay friend with him. if he ain't interested, there ain't much u can do about it anyway. just enjoy his complany. if he likes u even the least bit, it'll come out sometime during ur friendship. trust me. guys never hold back about these things!
172031
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.