what can i do to tell her that she really makes me sick, but whithout hurting her feelings?
127732
I would first assure her about how much you love and care about her. Just come out and tell her that it bothers you that she argues a lot and you would like when y'all are together to try to get along. If she gets mad, and if it's really getting to you, you have to give spending time together some space. She will get the picture.
201255
tell her you dont want to be involved. if she still insists on pulling you into it, then tell her that you are going to be honest and tell her exactly how u feel on the issue that is at hand
676523
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature . \n\nafter speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
259504
ummmm...relax yaar..i understand how u feel.. well some people will irritate u..but neva listen to it,u know how you are!!for few days she will continue the same,but if she finds no response from your side then she will leave you soon!do u wanna b smart??so just ignore it..if you behave as how she is,then there will not be any difference between u and her..so adjust it for few days she will leave you soon..dont worry be cool...
660560
Tell her "thats sucks for you"
676250
If your trully serious about getting to know her, the best thing is too ask her if she would concider meeting at a resturant and haveing a coke or what ever just to talk. If she's completely grossed out that you'd even suggest talking to her, perhaps you should just ask her "Can you please tell me what it is about me you find so offensive?" But be perpared to hear the answer, it may not be what your willing to swallow. If it's constructive, maybe you should take her words to heart and improve yourself..BUT NOT FOR HER>....just for the sake of improving yourself so that you can build on your own inner confidence. Afterall, she isn't the only hen in the court yard right?? Good luck.
19032
Tell her no. Is there something else very special she could do besides that? Then you don't have to hurt her feelings and she doesn't have to hurt other peoples ears
48829
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.
177456
make sure you do it person to person and kindly tell her that you have something to tell her and she's gonna be really upset with you.and tell her people make mistakes then apoligize see how it go from there.
339299
Tell her how this act has changed your opinion of her in a negative way and how disappointed you are. Then leave it alone. Treat her accordingly and don't lend her your car or give her any other responsibilities and tell her why every time. \nShe's irresponsible and can't be trusted to tell the truth.
571295
give her time and tell her your sorry. that the best you can do until she finds it in her heart to talk to you.
1838
Figure out what insecurity is within you that makes you worry so much about somebody else. And if it's just a distaste for this person, be honest about it and she'll go away. A little hurt feelings is a lot more efficient than suffering through something because you're uncomfortable. And she'll get over it.
513112
You need to sit her down and discuss it with her. If she's worth every ounce of energy you have left, that's something SHE should know..tell her. Ask her why she gets in those ...is moods a good word?.......You have to communicate how you feel and what your thinking to her,....then she will let out what she's keeping in, then you guys can get back down to business. But you HAVE to talk to her about it. Women will not tell you what's wrong, you have to wheedle it out of them....it's not that they are being mean, that's just their nature. Trust me talk with her about it, be patient and LISTEN, and she will tell you everything.
56830
just be your self, if she makes a nasty reply, then she's the one at fault, there is someone out there that will love you just as you are, dont get stuck on one person\ngood luck
287476
hmmm, delicate situation! tell her you love her (just lie!), but you can no longer bear to be with her because she makes you nauseated. if she does not understand, then she is a screwed up bitch. \nscarface is good, but to ensure she really hits the curb, tell her she is getting fat.
431869
i feel you man--but if shes making you happy than make her happy aswell. it might be nasty but do it for once in a while. this is what i did, make a deal with her, for every 5 times she gives you head, you eat her out
454283
I see your problem. You don`t want to make her mad by telling her she shouldn`t be so obsessed, but you can`t take it anymore. For right now, all I can tell you is to nod and pretend your listening.