my ULTRA conservative parents still think i am virgin
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The only beings that exist are me and a platypus named "Wadlo."  Everyone else is just a dream that I've been having.  (except Martin Sheen... he was Wadlo's brain child.)  It's always made me feel kinda sad for everyone else since they don't really exist and I haven't had the heart or strength to tell anyone until now.  Thanks for the opportunity to get that off my chest.
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i prefer a virgin (i'm a guy)
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If your parents discovered you are gay, yet you are dating a girl, then it doesn't sound like you are gay but experimenting with your sexuality.\nYou are very young, and I think your parents should be guiding you with advice on practising safe sex, rather than stop you from dating whom you wish to.\nIf you were dating a girl, and dating again, you can't be gay....if you are, then you are still to discover that. You are testing the waters and your parents are only stopping you from discovering that for yourself.\nYou could be in love with this girl, but maybe its not the love you think when unsure of your sexuality.\nJust take things slowly, and keep things quiet until you are sure of yourself. Family should be supportive no matter what your choice is, or sexuality.\nI wish you luck, and be careful when testing the waters, condoms and safe sex, for you and your future partners.
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HHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH.. you are the most desperate , unlogical women in the planet that you are trying to link an event at th age of 6 to the fact that you are old and single.. i got to ask this back, are you still a virgin? have you had a bf? have you ever been kissed? \n\nyou failed to expose those facts to shape us in some kind of thinking.. then again, of course you have no kids!! you haven't been married!!! do you even know how to have kids?? this is the funniest question i ever answered! "Was i normal?" you were never normal at the first place
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Hi young lady.  You're bound to get a ton of responses to your question, both from parents and from other teens who consider you either very lucky, or very unlucky.  I suspect that something happened this evening that upset you and probably prompted your to ask the question - perhaps they turned down a request or simply said something at a moment when you really weren't feeling happy with the state of your life.  Regardless, being a successful father myself (my son is now married and working on his master's degree to be a teacher), I can tell you something you probably don't like to think about; that is that raising a child . . . I'm sorry . . . a young man or woman, in today's world is a VERY scary and challenging thing to do.  Particularly in the case of young women, if you follow the newspapers or TV news at all, you'd see that the prevalence of sex crimes in our country is at an all-time high.  The Internet itself is being used as a tool by predators who want nothing more than to take advantage of gullible or naive young people who are too ready to trust, and not ready enough to protect themselves.  Your parents sound like they love you very much . . . enough to want to protect you from the very nasty and ugly side of humanity, for as long as they are able.  When you believe they are simply being mean or too strict, they are actually struggling with the choices they must make as you grow older, regarding how much freedom you should be allowed to have, as opposed to how much risk and danger could be waiting for them to allow you too much freedom, or perhaps more than you are fully equipped to handle.  Parents have a terribly difficult job, and very often they have to be the "bad guys" as far as their children are concerned, in order to ensure that their children remain safe and secure until they are old enough, and hopefully well enough prepared, to step out into this very brutal world on your own.  I don't want to put you to sleep here with a long message (I might have already done so:-), but I believe you will find in the long run, that in order to earn more trust and more freedom from your parents, you're going to have to demonstrate to them how responsible and how trustworthy you can be.  And if you attempt to mislead them, or you abuse a trust that they give to you, you shouldn't be surprised or angry at them if they back off and require you to earn their trust all over again.  As a retired military person, I can tell you most assuredly - freedom is everyone's right, but it is a right that we all have to earn, not once, but every day of our lives, but doing what is right (not just what is the easiest), and by setting a high standard of honesty and integrity for ourselves that no one can put a hole in.  I suspect that when you have become the kind of upstanding person your parents want you to be, you will discover that they will endow you with increasing levels of trust, and freedom, so long as you continue to prove that what they are doing is the right thing, not just for you, but for your entire family.  I apologize for writing so much, but I saw in your note some feelings of disappointment and frustration with your folks.  Try not to only consider their actions from your point of view.  To really understand what is happening in yours and their lives, broaden your point of view and try to consider what they're feelings are, and what they're reasons are for the decisions that they make on your behalf.  Don't be in too big a hurry to be out on your own - it's a far scarier and more dangerous world than you can possibly imagine, and your time in it will come all too soon.  Good luck with your question, and with sifting through all of the many wide-ranging opinions you're likely to see.  Use your brain, and not your emotions to determine who's advice is the most honest and the most intelligent, and don't just choose those answers that suppor
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whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
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I have seen this alot, even with my nephew who just came out of the closet.  Parents dont want their kids to say or act like they are gay.  They are trying to protect you because they think you dont know what you are doing.\nConsider this, talk to your mom and tell her more about your feelings and how you feel about your girlfriend.  Explain that you know about the choices youre making and that you have considered the choices carefully( you have right).  Explain that you need her support and respect her opinion but you also want to be happy in your life and that your gf makes you happy. \nMake no mistake, living an alternative lifestyle is difficult but it is not permanent, if you change you mind it is easy to move on in another direction later.
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Though you did not explain this in your question, I suspect your parents insist on group dating and I understand why. Please try to understand this from their perspective. They walk a very thin tightrope between trying to protect you from the vagaries of this time of moral turpitude in which we live today, while at the same time learning to trust you to make wise decisions, while having the fun that life offers.\nI question your boyfriend's frustration. I think his feelings illustrate clearly why your parents insist on group dating only. You must examine your own feelings. I assume you are a wonderful young lady, with tremendous potential, and your parents are simply trying to help you and others focus on your potential and not  your libido.\nYou are fortunate! If he really cares about you, he will understand that the situation works best for all involved, including him.
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First, drop all the astrology mumbojumbo, or else he'll think you're crazy, virgin or not.\n\nTalk to him like you would anyone else.  Virgins aren't aliens who don't like other things.\n\nWhen and if you two decide to get to the naked party, then let him set the pace.  The good thing about him being a virgin is that probably anything you do will be heaven for him.  So you have don't have to worry about whether he's comparing you to anyone.  Have fun.  Let him know what you like/don't like.  I'm sure he will be worried he's not doing stuff right.\n\nCommunication - for virgins, and non virgin alike.
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there is nothing wrong with you still being a virgin, may god bless you.  sex is an act of true love that should be shared with someone that you are committed to for life. U can tell when that someone comes along when there is no pressure concerning sex during your relationship.  your correct there is no concrete proof that sex is safe and no you are not missing out on anything.
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Wow...this is tough...If you really want to know, then yes, but if you're positive that you're both virgins and your families don't have it...why bother...?
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Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
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man u r 1 geniuss guy i totally agree with u i live in america and i am good looking and i am in high school\nand i am still virgin why coz i am a muslim\nthere was a serway in america about virgin and nonvirgin by time magazzine and out of all american people only 1/2 percents were virgin this serway was about othere religions not islam
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I was just having this conversation with God yesterday with the same question?  I didn't know it was for you.\nThere is only one reasonyou are feeling this way.  Everything, believe it or not, was created for a purpose-- even you. \n          " For I know the plans I have for you, " declares the Lord, plans to prosper you, not harm you.  To give you a hope and future."  Jeremiah 29:11\n Sex was for made for the coming together of a man and a woman but not outside of the marriage guidelines.  Sex is a beautiful thing and even more beautiful when it is with someone who loves you despite your bad breath, messy hair.  It is even more beautiful when that person is someone God has especially chosen for you and has strengths that you do not have and sees that a relationship with God is first priority and being everything that God has created him for as being part of that (loving husband, good provider, great father).  This person does exist.  Now that i know the truth of the matter in those people who might seem like they are happy are not happy they just have not been told by someone how special they are and that they are loved and accepted no matter their flaws.  So they go with what everyone else or so they think, does.  Sweetie,  you are special and there is no reason for you to sell yourself cheap.  You have been bought for a high price already and no one can pay as much as He can for your life.  I wasn't a virgin when I got married,  but everyday I wish that i could have waited.  God didn't set up laws to punish us, but to protect us( needless hurt, pain,  wasted time, disease and baby mama/daddy drama).  There is no such thing as separating love and sex unless you have a heard heart or no heart at all.  Don't try to fit into the world's standards-follow God's and he'll send you your true mate.     \nJesus loves you.( now smile)
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Youre not ready for sex! lol jk. Honesty is the best policy. Telling youre parents the truth could open them up and be more understanding. There are no negative things about birth control. It just shows your parents that you are capable of making the right decisions for yourself and doing what you believe is best for you.
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oh my god when you were nine??????\nI'm 17 and still a virgin
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Ease up a bit.  They're 18, maybe 19 years old.  Were you not born into a religion?