i really want to get married fast i cant wait till i get home for more personel reasons if anyone can give a little advice that would be great.
123742
A proxy marriage is possible but not advisable.  Only four US states allow them - California, Colorado, Texas and Montana.  Montana may be able to marry people with neither of them present.  It may also be possible to arrange a proxy marriage in Mexico even if neither party is a resident.  You should contact Legal Assistance of your local JAG office for more details.
321471
Ask yourself why is it he is so in a rush to get married is he an illegal immigrant, does he want you for your money, what because that is kinda strange to me to.\n\nLook marriage is a committment for life a vow that should be cherished between two people until the day each die you need to sit and make sure this is the right man for you because if he loved you their would be no reason for him to just run off and want to get married he is in some kind of trouble.\n\nI am quite sure you want a nice big wedding and your family their if you run off what is your family going to say and how are you going to feel so take a minute and think about it and question him if you need to
72861
Why are you so worried about getting married so soon ????? your not even divorced yet....take this time to enjoy yourself ,try new things, meet new people, if you find someone great, but this is the time for you to think about what you want in life, what have you always wanted to do but didn't.....this is your second chance ..... enjoy
17217
Okay. You never have enough time for anything that dayand feel so stressed and rushed. I recently got married and was 20 minutes late for my hair appointment which made me 20 minutes late for my own wedding. So first advice, plan plenty of time between your hair/makeup/dressing and the time you need to be at the chapel. plan for any snafus and traffic. make sure everyone has directions to the chapel(another thing that made me late). Bring a "fix-it" kit with you. Include white chalk which can cover up any stains like makeup,pack a  sewing kit, tissues,deodorant,perfume, and I would pack some mints. Maybe some extra batteries if your family will be taking pics. And most importantly remember to eat something that day. I know its supposed to be bad luck to see your fiance before the wedding but my whole family and my now-husband went out to a huge lunch before the wedding and it really calmed my nerves to see him before all the hustling began with my hair and makeup appointments. Have fun! Its the best day of your life and no matter what goes wrong \n(and something will go wrong) when you look back it will be perfect. I promise.
63840
As of 2/9/06..(subject to change)..I plan to just go to the courts this August to get married that way we can be sure to have a honeymoon wherever we like. \n1. We are 22 & 24 years old. I am a senior in college and he was a victim of Katrinia so we don't have a lot of money to spend.\n2. Also our families are 12 hours away from each other so which ever state we would choose to wed one of our families presence will be limited.\nSo we have decided to have a reception or party after we are married in each state for our family.\n\nHe actually was the one who wanted a big wedding but it didn't matter to me. I rather prepare for our future then to go in to debt because of one day. Some of my family and friends will be upset once they hear this news but unless they are paying for most of it this is how its gonna be. Besides, I have enough student loans!!
475560
You are to be admired but I woudnt. Your Wedding day is to be a happy meaniful time and should just be devoted to yourselves notice I put it both together you and your future partner .There will be ample times you can do charity work and because you have ab obvious decent character Im sure you will. For those reasons have a truly beautiful wedding and give it all you have got .luck
251646
Honey, I got married when I was 18!! I graduated in May and got married in October, so it's not wrong!! Everyone is probably just jealous because you have a man and they don't!! Don't pay them any attention!! It's not their business if you're engaged or not!! Congrats...good luck and I hope you have a wonderful wedding!!
198319
Yes you will marry because your are desperate enough to ask about it to total strangers. Yes you will because getting married is the most important thought in your mind right now. If you live in a place where marriage is arranged by family, that might very well happen to you. Try to avoid it by being as atonomous as possible.\n\nInitials? well lets see. TRP. \nYou're almost 25 now. Well look at that my birthsay in July 20! Don't rush. Finding someone stable is not easy. Men are usually slower to commit.
210077
Depends on your actions; As well as both of you're varying ages. I myself have never been married & am still looking for a bride. I will turn 36 in 5 days.\n\nIts WISE to a point to keep looking but never do anything that you will later regret having done. Such as causing a child to be born between the 2 of you. That is just 1 thing...\n\nYou are only unlucky if you SAY & KEEP THINKING YOU ARE such. If you keep telling yourself, be you male or female, you WILL find someone that will be perfect for you & later to marry if its God's Will...
331716
Karina, is this you? Sorry, but this sounds too much like my son who is 19, and his fiance who is 25. Took me off guard! I think that you shouldn't jump into marriage right away. At 19, my son is SO not ready to get married right now. He's just not mature enough yet to deal with everything that comes with being married. Being engaged is one thing, being married is another. I say, go for a long engagement. Take time to really get to know each other.  Put more effort into thinking more of the marriage instead of just the "big wedding" every girl dreams of. You both are young and are still growing and maturing in so many ways. What both of you want from life right now may be different for both of you in a few years. Especially him. If you're really serious about this, my advice would be to wait a few more years.
218917
Sure.  I thik you may be a bit young to get married, but if that is what you want, go for it.
615167
i've been engaged for almost a year now we are holding off for those same reasons dont let people rush u into is...im also 21 and i kinda wanna wait and have fun being engaged then settle down...;good luck
665975
i AM SO GLAD WE WAITED UNTIL MARRIAGE. We had no problems at all, it was all very wonderful. I wish everyone could have the joy on their wedding night we experienced. It was like the excitement of Christmas morning. I suggest the couple have good premarital counselling like we did. I also would add to the guys, BE SURE YOU ALWAYS MEET HER NEEDS FIRST.
328574
Well just be sure you guys can communicate thoroughly about not only that but but everything else before you decide to get married.  It's more important than anything when making that huge leap
162525
hey i think that is so sweet it is like you guys are reminding each other why you wanted to marry.i say noone has the right to call you weird if you are happy. keep up the good work you guys give others hope for happy marriages.
309811
Don't listen to all these people.\nIt is probably a case of cold feet jitters-I went trough that right before my wedding too!\nJust talk to your intended and see how they feel, and just go with your gut. Remember, you can call it off at the altar if you like, but if you cancel now, it's definitely off.
446373
With Christmas coming up.. make mention of a ring some how. Even by making small talk in bed before sleep, bring it up somehow. He deserves to know how you feel and what you want! And if he doesn't want that yet or what not.. understand! Don't be in a hurry.. live life, have fun, and if things are meant to me between you two, a ring and a kid or more will happen!! It just takes time. Trust me, live life and have fun while you can, before you know it you'll be changing stinky diapers!. Enjoy your freedom of going out when ever you can, and not have to worry about finding a baby sitter or telling your friends you have to stay home with the kid. Plus.. a wedding and a kid shortly after is EXPENSIVE. Save up your money. Because once you have a kid.. you have responsibilities for the rest of your life.. enjoy life while you have the chance girl!!!