he always bothers me. i try to be polite, but hes ugly and agressive i think he wanted to hit me one day because i told him to leave me alone.
126324
Try to ignore him.  Don't give him any attention, especially when he's trying hard to annoy you, act like you're unbothered.  Eventually he'll get tired of trying and leave you alone.  If he gets physical with you, take action.  Be serious and look him in the eye and tell him not to touch you again.  If it continues, report him to the police (or your parents/principle, depending on how old you are).
164911
It's a reflection of his own insecurity.  You must seem like an easy target, he's an emotional bully who is just insecure in who he is.
494718
may be he wanted u to get out from his life so he decited to be mean with u to make u go away from him \nif he is a mean person with him then why u still a friend to him?!
199551
Just be forward with him.  Tell him how you feel.  The sooner the better, because if he gets the "impression" that you are intereted in him, then he'll keep nudging at you or doing "those things" that he may think that you think are cute, but what you really think are annoying.   So, just let him know up front, cut in dry.  "I dont like you that way..."
101491
Ignore him. He's feeding off your frustration. Just look the other way and pretend he's invisible. Good luck.
119060
He seems like a mean man. he will go to hell for that.
281680
my ex-husband beat me for 3 years, it took 3 years for me to get away from him (he killed somone) and another 4 years to get him out of my life. once they hit you, they will always hit you. we where together a year before we got married, and he seemed to be a nice person, after we got married he started yelling at me and bring me down mentally, then the hitting started, by that time i was telling myself... he loves me, i need to stop making him mad, i asked for it... but all the time he never cared about. it was a control issue on his part. my exhusband was also 6 years older then too. he made me lose a baby...was mentally locked up for 3 months,locked me in a closet and set it on fire, hit me in the bas with a shovel and stompped on my face, also shot me in the arm etc, just to name a few things.. it got to the point that i knew he was going to kill me or i was going to kill him, and i had no were to go. i have to tell you that it only gets worse, and you need to leave him with your children. i also want to warn you that because you have children, he will think that he can harsse you this way also, if you do let him see the kids, please watch them for misgiven...any little sign, and cut him out of there life too. i am not saying that he will hurt them, but most of the time they do, when they can not get to you. my advice...get help, there are a lot more porgrams and places out there now then when this was happening to me.
550592
are they trying to get on your nerves or is it just their dispositions that cause you to get annoyed with them...if they are purposely annoying you, don´t freak at them, maybe try to just ignore them, or try talking with them.  If they aren´t trying to annoy you and they just are then you should probably seek professional help:)
367661
tell him your not trying to be mean, but you really don't want to have anything to do with him. That you don't feel comfortable around him.
119479
i work in a prison so i know scum but you could ask him to try and leave work there tell him it bothers you [remember communication @love can over come anything]
441197
Call him an irritating brat---- but a brother nonetheless!!!!!!!! Maybe if he knows you respect him and love him as a brother he will quit being so much of a brat !!
571585
You should just ignor him don't drop what your doing and isolate yourself.  Ignor him.  If you can't concentrate just leave without saying a word.  If you listen it will bother you and make you want to yell back.  If you yell back he will be even more upset and that may lead to and awful fight.  Just tune him out.  I know my dad was a mean old man and blamed everything on me even though I was his little princess.  I tune him out and go about my business.
108854
You should never beat on him.  But, honestly, tell him if it is making you uncomfortable, or if you are interested. :)
225743
it sounds like he also annoys the hell out of you! haha.... i've been there...he's in hardcore lust...if your not feeling him, tell him now, waiting makes it worse... but if you do like him and want to keep him, but want him to tone it down a bit...just sit him down and be real with him... thats really the best way to handle it...
615792
If he's got an issue, give him a tissue.  Maybe you are trying too hard to make him happy or maybe he will never be happy with anything you do.  If he goes off on you, get a bat and swing for the fences!  hope it helps. If this doesn't work, drop him like a bad habit because you are probably worth better treatment.  And go and get you a real man, one that appreciates YOU!\nYou don't deserve to be treated that way, do you?  I hope not. Keep your chin up and if you swing for the fences, keep your elbow up too.  Good luck!
413468
He does the same thing to me!  Just ignore him.  He is just seeking attention.  He obviously has issues.
175399
just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.