But when the student gives in, he gets offended or upset?
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Because they are randy old pervs lol
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You might consider talking with her and sharing your concerns. If you aren't satisfied with the way it went, you could ask for some help by getting someone to mediate. \n\nIf all else fails, you might want to take on the approach that its her duty as a teacher to teach and yours as a student to learn. We can't always get along with everyone, even as adults. And sometimes all we can do is try to get through uncomfortable situations that aren't in our control to change.\n\nI do commend you on taking responsibility for your own actions. Kudos for you :)
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1- Yes, B can be upset. it was rude and disrespectful of A\n2- A is being a jerk, especially if by fire you mean FIRE, a potentially life threatening situation that B went to help with.\nLesson: B should not be willing to do anything for A in future.
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If she is not able to understand why u r trying to calm her she will pay the price for it in the outside world and that will knock her back to her senses. Smirk or ignore her when she does this. AND MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL REPORT 2 UR TEACHER.
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The student has a chance to get one-on-one attention, and problems for the student can be solved more efficiently.  If the student is shy, he or she has a good chance to speak up and express.  I've seen many students build confidence to a certain extent through tutoring.  And most of the tutors are not professional teachers/professors so some students might find that an advantage as nobody is superior in the scene.
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Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.\n\nGood luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
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When a human is on the losing end then he/she cries foul. If the fighting is not in defense then it is wrong!!
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I would be offended.I admit I find it funny,and sometimes I cringe.We shouldn't support it.If it was my race I would feel like everyone was laughing at me.It would feel the same as being bullied.
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You were in the pub, as you said. Doesn't matter what you were saying, somebody's bound to get offended by it sooner or later. He went over there just for that reason. To butt into the conversation and start something with you. It had nothing to do with the subject of the conversation. Trust me.
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As with all professions, there are people who really like what they do AND are good at teaching. There are others who like what they do BUT are not any good at explaining anything, or simply lack the knowledge (believe me, I work at a school for teachers and some are abysmally ignorant!! and still get to go out and teach). And there are others who don´t like teaching but have to do it (because of the pay, or academic requirements). Those are the worst, I think. \nBut luckily you'll have a good mix of different kinds of teachers. Next time that you feel like attacking a teacher, please stop and think that maybe he/she's just tired and disheartened, and needs some good attitude from the students. I know that a good response works for me!
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You don't say what the teacher was saying that you took to be "bad", but, that's not really the point here, anyway. The point is - why did you get kicked out of class? A teacher doesn't kick a student out of class for HAVING an opinion, even a dissenting one. A student is removed from class because of the WAY they expressed that opinion. I would venture a guess that the teacher's comments angered you (maybe rightfully so), and you spoke out in a manner considered to be inappropriate and/or disrespectful - and you were told to leave the classroom.\n\nIf, after hearing the teacher's comments, you raised your hand, and gave your opposing opinion in a clear, concise, non-yelling, intelligent manner, it's highly unlikely that you would have been told to leave. If, however, you interrupted the teacher, yelled or otherwise raised your voice, and ranted & raved, it is understandable that the teacher felt that your outburst was disruptive to the class, and this is why you were told to leave.\n\nYes, there is a right to free speech - but that doesn't mean that we can yell "FIRE!" in a crowded theater just for the hell of it. In exercising our right to free speech, we still need to be aware of our surroundings. You may have had some very valid points and arguments against the teacher's comments, but they were lost because of the manner in which you attempted to present them.\n\nIf you feel that the teacher's comments were predjudicial, bigoted, or sexist, then you have every right to file a complaint with your school's administration and/or the school board. However, unless the teacher was directing these comments specifically to you, as an individual, then it is unlikely they will find that the teacher is guilty of bonafide discrimination. He'll probably be given a light warning to tone it down in the future, keep his opinions to himself,  and stick to the curriculum.\n\nSo far as you are concerned, use this incident as an opportunity to hone your debating skills. They will serve you well in the future.\nEveryone HAS a voice, but, it's those who know how to USE that voice effectively that will go far in their lives.
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Too Sensitive, How to Toughen Up?\nEnjoy your sensitivity, not everybody is sensitive. It can, however, be hurtful in a less sensitive world.\n\nThere is a way to tolerate this world: Not to take anything personally. \n\nWhat people throw out and at others is mainly an expression of their own problems. You may want to tell yourself, "This is this person's problem, I am not taking on his/her mood, nastiness etc., nor do I react to it the same way."\n\nYou may want to try to smile, forgive and turn away, and release those from your life who are too insensitive, if you can.\n\nSome people however, need some drastic feed back, after polite and gentle approaches have failed.\n\nExample 1: A male student would always make some nasty remarks to a female student, when standing in line at the cafeteria, which embarrassed her. She was not used to such language. She planned an answer. One day, she finally said very loud to him, "This can only come from a boy with a low IQ as yours is." He obviously felt embarrassed to hear this from a girl in front of all the other students waiting in line. Amazingly, this was the remedy for him, he never bothered her again.\n\nExample 2: Another boy would enter late in the lecture hall at the university. When he detected where a certain girl was sitting, he would walk up to her and in passing squeeze her cheek. She was too shy to protest aloud and interrupt the lecture, but she planned a response. One day she came in later then he used to be, and walked up to him and whole heartedly squeezed his cheek. He left the girl alone after this.\n\nIf you are too sensitive to noise, Hypericum Perforatum works wonders. That's how you may like to take it: Place 2-4 pills (on milk sugar base only) in 1 ounce of purified water. Take a drop under your tongue very often, until the sensitivity gats less. Then take it less and less often, but at least 5 times a day to keep up the effect in the daily wear and tear. Non-addictive, nontoxic. Make fresh every day, make less if less is needed.\n\nI feel that it is most important in life, not to take things personally. And to "love your neighbor as yourself"(Bible) that is, we should not harbor resentment, but should let go and be free. Be you!\n\nEnjoy your sensitivity, you may want to use it to tune into the finer worlds and experiences, may be through meditation. You may be able to learn to sense ahead, find lost items or help others long distance. That's what sensitive people can become good at. It is all energy, and energy travels fast and everywhere we send it! \nMay you enjoy your sensitivity!\n\nCordially, India.Magica
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when you fight its usually over a pride thing or respect so when a fight happens both sides are going at it to win but when you both get in trouble you both think its the other ones fault so you are trying to get back at them for getting you in trouble or at lest that's how it gos at my school
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You should report this person and make sure they're expelled...make a stand and show that you're not afraid...but try not to get into a fight if you can help it
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I would genuinely apologize for saying something that offended him and assure him that it won't happen again ---- and then let the ball be in his court. Also, you might mention that his actions in that situation won't be tolerated either. Just watch out for this guy -- he seems kind of like a loose cannon. And definitely one of those people that can "dish it, but not take it" --- just apologize and see what happens. Good Luck!
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It isn't mine but a former friend of mine (which makes this all the more funnier) is a bit on the heavy side and she was attending her first day of class and she thought the teacher was calling her to the front of the class (she was checking out some guy and not paying attention, he was actually just calling role) and she went to stand up to go to him and when she did the desk went with her (around her waist) and she couldn't get it off for a while. The whole class was so confused and they did their best to try and help her but she kept fidgeting.
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Hi Sajana!\n\nAggression is a possible result of discomfort.\n\nYou have to ask yourself, when being criticised, whether the other person DOES have a point, or not. A lot of time we get angry when being accused, because deep inside we know that the other person is right, but we don't want to admit it, since it makes us feel inferior to the accusing side. \n\nThe best way to go at it is to face the problem. If we get accused of something, while it might make us angry, we should tell the other party that we'll check out his/her accusations in order to verify whether we were really responsible for it. That way, we get a time frame, a breather, to sort things out. If the problem is really our doing, then we should look for a way to solve said problem, in order to come clean and re-gain the respect not just of others towards us, but our own respect towards who we are.\n\nIf the problem wasn't a result of our doing, try and explain to the other side your point of view. \n\nRemember, the fact that someone thinks you did something, doesn't mean he or she believes it. They might've gotten the idea from certain facts, but if you know you're not responsible, than just say so and explain, if you can, why not and you'll feel better with yourself.\n\nOh, and never suppress your anger, since it'll do only bad things to you in the long run. Try channeling the energy from your anger to things that are more productive, for example, if you feel angry at a certain moment, either take it out in a form of Martial Arts training, or channel the energy in order to pursue your hobby. Never swallow the anger. That's a big no-no.\n\nGood luck! :-)