he just told me no more skipping school to hang out wit my friends is he bing like my mom and dad or jsut looking out for me.
130164
I think your friend is just looking out for you.  How are you going to feel when they are heading off to college while your still behind in highschool, because you skipped so much.
5319
Your lifestyle may not be acceptable in his generation. Goth isn't a kind of person, it's an identity tool, and we need them (especially in our teen years) to help us seperate ourselves from our parents. I wouldn't bother trying to make him understand anything. He'll either get it or he won't. Fighting him on it will probably make things worse for you. Just act naturally, like yourself, and if you continue to be a good person and look however you want to look, he'll wise up and treat you like a person again.
102931
Oh sweetheart I think You answered your question without even knowing it!  First let me say I think you are such a wonderful person for coming to your fathers aid when someone else was picking on him!  Alot of kids do not do that and just go with the flow.  It would be a very proud moment for your dad and mom if they could read your letter!  You are an amzing person!  I do think u maybe over reacted a teeny bit.  Sometimes friends blurt things out before they think what they r saying.  I dont think he meant to be rude just making conversation with you.  But its very sweet and loving of you to stand up for your dad like that!  Yes they do only do things because they want the best for u.  I have a 15 year old son and he and I are very close.  Sometimes I make rules that he hates cuz his friends get to do it why can't he?  and my answer is always " well johns mom just doesnt love him as much as your mommy loves you"  and its true.  we make rules cuz we love you and want the very best for you and Im soooo glad u realize that.  Stay close with your family and I think u should forgive your friend THIS time!  lol
461158
its obvious somebody wants your attention;)\n\ni think he does...once he walks you to class, its all over. yep he likes you! congrats...?
201855
Maybe stop helping so much, just be supportive, and let him know you are available if he wants help or just to talk to. Maybe he is intimidated by the fact that you are so successful in school, while he struggles. Give him some space.He may not feel comfortable accepting help from you.\nAnyway, good luck!
14758
from some one that has been there and done exactly what your doing unless your going to meet this guy you met on the internet I wouldn't freak out your parents if he ever says he want's to meet then tell your parents about him and that you've been talking to him for so long and that you like him and want to meet him but want them there incase something happens just leave out the part that he's chinese till you meet with him if he is who he says he is and your parents see that your happy with him they will grin there teeth and grunt but they'll be happy you found someone my father is the most racist person I know but he's still happy for me when I'm happy.
488190
Honey, at the risk of sounding mean, you have to get a life! You both do! If you tell him that you need some space, he will think he did something wrong.You should probably back off slowly and encourage him to hang out with his friends or do other things, while you do your own thing . Good luck!
4009
He may really be 'just friends' with Jen.  However, if his relationship with Jen is coming between him and your mother, there is a problem with your parents' relationship.  Maybe he has grown apart from your mother.  Maybe he's just a jerk.  It's hard to tell.  It will work itself out over time.  I hope you don't get hurt in the process.
505743
no he probabl is trying to make you jealous or isnt good at multi-tasking xD\neither way you were nice so dont fret over it and have a happy thanksgiving!!\n♥
588454
I'd say you were a lucky girl.  You've got a guy that is nice, shares your interests, makes you feel happy, and your parents approve.  I'd invite him to the party.  I hope your fourth of July party is full of fun and your relationship continues to grow.  Peace.
621835
Sit down and talk to him. Ask him what you can do to show him you're responsible and build up some trust. See what he says. Maybe it's something you're doing/wearing/how he percieved your friends that is causing him to feel this way. Maybe it's not. Maybe it is really your mom's behavior. Whatever he tells you, if he feels you need to make changes to (re)gain his trust, follow his advice. Do you babysit/do odd jobs/have a more conventional job for extra money? If so, bring that up. If not, think about maybe doing that this summer to prove you do have a sense of responsibilty. Do you have younger siblings? If so, how do you treat them? I'm just throwing stuff on the table. I have no idea of who you are or how you behave. I'm just someone who's probably about your dad's age trying to get you thinking from an adult's point of view about reasons that I might not trust my almost 15 year old. Good luck...and I hope you can use something that I wrote!
462863
Talk to your Mom about this, she will know what to do, but do it now you wont be in any trouble and have done nothing wrong, but this guy sounds kind of creepy and you need to make sure you are safe
587989
Uh I would say if you're meeting the parents that it is more than just friendship.  Talk to him about it.
616954
okay its easy, parents are parents, and no matter what, no matter how it is, parents are always right.. you see, i met this guy.. and he's...not all there, kinda crazy, kinda.. just you know, not there.. and we ended up dating, i thought he was just perfect, blue and black hair... just. you know a babe? im into.. kinda crazy guys,  he was telling me within a month of our relationship that he didnt want to live, and he cut himself and all this..and i ended up getting really down, he told me not to tell anyone, but i told my mother because i thought it was the best,  and she was like nuh oh no way.. and like totally freaked out on me for being with him if he was like that.. i dont even think he believes in god..well he ended up finding it out from someone, and was really upset, i asked him why.. and he said i knew why.. and i told him i did what i thought was best, and that i cared for him.. he ended up calling me all these...few choice words, telling me..few choice things.. and we ended up breaking up...now im with this really nice guy... and everything is working out, just perfectly..and guess what? my mother loves him..but what im saying... is maybe you can talk your parents into it.... maybe like invite him over for dinner and you guys can eat as a family. and it would give your parents an idea to get to know him more, and see what a great guy he really is. or in my case, maybe theres someone better for you..  best of luck.
290655
Horsepuckey! His route up the career ladder is paralleling your academic path.  He isn't stalking you.  Why can't you talk to a teacher or parent? Get real!
84930
I really believe you need to talk to your Dad and Mom together.If not them then your mom and step mom. Or a counselor.Tell them how you feel. Also I don't think he really knows he's doing that to you. You are his child also. I'll say a prayer for you, and good luck!!!
74881
Take him aside,and tell him."I don't want to brake up w/ you,but since you're moving........."Talk to you at school,love ya like a sis.