I must be one of the dumbest guys alive when it comes to seeing if a girl is interested. I am a very popular guy on campus.  I was voted as the most popular fraternity guy in my house and in the top three around campus and i also am a genuine guy.  I go out of my way to help out the sororities and promote people.  I also go out of my way to be nice at parties and the bar to girls by buying them drinks just for the heck of it.  But i still cant read if any of them are interested or just like the nice guy being there.
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Does she pay attention to you and stand close to you. Ask her out - thats the fastest way. If you mean generally, learn to be aware of how women respond to your presence.
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Well! ... if a girl approached me, I'd probably be less interested in her. Why ? well, that's the last "Man's Job" that we need women to do. Besides, it represents a "masculine" side of the woman, a side which we don't like to see in them (at least me). \nI approach girls everywhere! However, Clubs are NOT the place to look for a relationship, I mean, you know why guys are there, and they're not there to dance!\nI think you should stop approaching men, but try to grap thier attention, a quick look, clothes, perfumes...etc. I can't promise that all of them well approach, some guys with enough confidence will though.
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In school at that age.. I did'nt have many girl friends.. sometimes I think girls find it easier to have guy friends.. because a male friend at that age is less likely to be judgemental. I wouldnt worry at all.
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the thing is to not go for the loud outgoing people, they usually like to think they're great and enjoying bragging about it. the best type of people hang back and if you don't look you won't find them. the nice guys are just out there waiting to be found, get talking to everyone you can find and you will soon discover one!
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Your shy aroung guys....Totally normal! I did'nt start making guys notice me until college, then the men are a little more mature
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yea hun i understand your pain.. im a cheerleader to0 but im also number 8 in my class and am very successfull in other sports.  Im not a bitch to you unless your a bitch to me and if your nice to me i'll be nice to you.  Im also not a slut, i dont date from guy to guy, and am a virgin. I dont think it's fair when people say stuff like that but just dust it of, tell them to grow up, and stop carring what others think about you b/c once your out of highschool, you'll probably never see 99% of thoes people again.
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No, I think you are being realistic.  I think intelligent men probably hang out at bars and stuff too, but they probably aren't as brash and stand out like the others.  They are probably more low-keyed.  One way of possibly meeting some is thru your friends and family.  Hopefully, they would be a good judge of character for you.
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Yeah don't waste your precious time with dumb women who "think" their hot and try to front.  It's a numbers game...the more women you can get in front of and talk to chances are your numbers will play out an dyou find the girl "YOU" want-
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What I admire about girls is that they're able to get guys. I can't ever get guys... it sucks... but girls can, and don't even have to think about it. v.v' *sigh* \nAloha,\nDavid
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Nice guys will get laid when the females realizes how much the other guys are bad people. They will then want to hang out with the Nice Guy. It is only a matter of time till they get laid.\n\nComplex formulas could probably predict it, but I'm not in possession of such formulas, or else I'd be selling it.
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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even if you aren't sure if you want to join, you could always go through formal recruitmetn at your school (aka rush). its a great way to get to know people in the sororities and see what they are about. it isn;t mandantory that you join a sorority if you rush, so you could just go and check it out, and if you get into something you really want to be a part of go for it! bottom line, learn about rush and stuff through your school website and there are tons of good sites online (greekchat.com -check it out) this will give you a better idea about joining. about being shy- rush tends to push the shy-ness out of you, tons of little convos with a million people.... its a good experience in talking to people if nothing else. anyway do your homework and good luck!!
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I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
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Who cares about popularity? Most of these people you will not talk to anymore after graduation. Hang with the poeple who care about you, forget about the ones who dont. Do you really want to be friends with girls who don't give a crap about you?
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
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Hey i'm 26, and dont have a g/f, but then no one advances towards me, and if they did as long as I find them attractive, I would make a move.  He does have an AA, so he did something.  He is just alittle lazy, but he can find a job with an AA degree.
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I have heard of it happening in sororities but not frats.  I am doubtful that it happens much because most people are so homophobic that they would consider it gay for a guys to tickle guys - even if there is not nudity or sexual content.  Now if a sorority was invited to tickle- initiate the new frat boys, that would be a frat I would love to join!