I like to do things that most people would call "Mens Work", or "Men stuff". I like to help my husband when he works on vehicles. I love to look at old cars, and can talk about them for hours. I like to use shovles, lawn mowers, and work in the garden. I like to go deer hunting, and fishing. Sometimes I am more comfortable talking to men than women. I have nothing to say when other women are talking about their cloths and shoping etc... That stuff don't interest me. I AM NOT GAY!!!, but am I weird?
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I am a girl and I LOVE fishing, cars and alot of the things you do and there are many other girls like us. I still like shopping and stuff but I'm also like you I like doing so called "mens work". It's perfectly normal.
668683
Speaking form personal experience, it's both physical and emotional.  I had been bi from about the age of 12, so I have been in relationships with men before, after 5 years of no men I can honestly say that I am happier now and was probably straight up lesbian all along.  I was never in fear of what a relationship with a man would mean, nor am I now.  I just happen to find women much more appealing, who wouldn't want a woman's body?  Plus, the emotional connection is much different.  Women connect with women on a different level, as do guys.  Most of my friends are men, but I only date women.
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Dont get down on yourself.  They are all different.  Its probably you that are the real issue here.  \n\nYou "find em at school, partys, bookstores, bars, landrymats, downtown events, church, the internet, this game is old"\n\nSounds like you are a player-but you dont know it.\n\nIt could also however be the modern American woman (your word choice sounds American)- who prefers a multi partner life.  Who prefers the masculine ways.\n\nTimes are changing my friend.  My buddy had the same frustrations, as did I, and both of us left our motherlands in search of brighter days.\n\n\nPeace.
190497
well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
272313
No its not strange..Many men go..Especially the ones that really like to take care of themselfs..Pretty boys also..You'll be surprised on how many men get pedicures and manicures..And NO its not GAY..Don't listen to all those men they just don't know what taking care of themselfs really mean..My husband won't go but I know many that do
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I don't know...I am not freaked out about this sort of thing. and if someone thinks I am using them myself then they are idiots.\n\nand I am not freaked out when you discuss your periods because I know what it is and I don't find it disturbing.\n\nand if you think I am gay for saying something like this then remember this, say what you want, it doesn't mean it is true (only put this last part in because some idiots I go to school with think I am gay even though I am not simply because I listen to women's problems)
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I've never said this statement, but I understand it from a woman's point of view. It has absolutely nothing to do with gay men and what they do or don't do in the bedroom. This statement is said in frustration when it seems like there is a shortage of quality, available men. The only relevance it really has to gay men is that they are not "on the market" for single, hetero women.
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Yes dear - of course you can - I've been telling women on this site about this very same issue - but they seem reluctant to believe that probably many of their 'straight' husbands are doing the same thing when they are out!  So, the sooner these women realize that this is nothing to do with homosexuality the better!\n\nGood luck
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Personally I think it is because those kinds of men who make that career choice as opposed to other ones (directly relating to a college degree), have an inner insecurity towards a woman that might know about auto parts and related material.  My mother has the same problem when taking her car to the dealer for repairs.  Even when I attend with her they give us the runaround. Only when her male friend accompanies her does the car get fixed without the extra costs.  \n\nUncultured and chauvinistic men (but not all) tend to find work in the areas of automotive repair - a mostly male dominated industry. I work in the animation field, one that is mostly dominated (and for years only dominated) by men.  To this day, I still get looks when I have a solution to a project or a creative idea.  So, from my point of view, you are entering their domain, and they are threatened by you.  Perhaps they feel an "upper hand" when they can charge you extra for things, or try to make you feel stupid when answering your questions.  \n\nIf more women would take the time to get to know their own automotive repair issues, solutions and alternatives we could beat these guys to the punch when we go to the automotive store or repair shop.  I hate to use the cliche phrase "education is power" but in this case it really is.
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I see nothing wrong with that. It's great to have friends or buddies at work. I hang out with my co workers outside of work often. We have different parties and we go out to eat (just us girls) and have some drinks. Go with it. Have fun and good luck.....SAM
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Well, most crossdressers are not gay, so it's not surprising he likes women.  And I can see a crossdresser feeling attraction for somebody who understands some of the stress/issues that come with crossdressing.  It's kinda like something they share.  Also, he may feel less intimidated and less likely to get ridiculed if the object of his attention is somebody who has the same hobby he has. Be happy for him. I am :)
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Women are beautiful delicate creatures.  Men are sinewy and tough.  Women smell nice and fresh.  Men smell musky and musty.  Women are sexy with big boobs, big butts and long hair... built for comfort.  Men are built to lift heavy things like lumber and hay bales.  Built for utility.  Wow maybe I should switch teams.
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Yes, it is a simple question and yes, it's still badly worded.  Many guys don't like lesbians although many women do like gay men. Figure that one out. I adore gay men and straight men too. I see most of them as small children in large bodies; although a straight gentleman can't often help me with colour combinations for the living room.
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There is nothing wrong with you- in fact, it is quite natural. Assuming you are speaking of some form of S&M. Most men in todays modern era are taught to supress these types of feelings, labelling them as too feminine - less of a man. I disagree as do many psychologists and those that study human behavior. Throughtout history, these feeling and desires have been accepted. There were even marriage manuals written to help men explore this part of themselves for emotional and spiritual growth(it is even explored in the Kama Sutra). Human exist on a level of power play in all aspects of life, there is no reason it would be excuded in this situation. you are fine, and incredibly normal. I'm more proud that you are being true to yourself and acknowledging this as opposed to denial and suppression. Be aware of the differance between power play and abuse, there is sometimes a thin line- but- I do incourage you to explore this more as I feel all men should (and women).
494321
Well to be quite honest, you could be bi. I personally do not see anything wrong with that, and quite frankly many women are bi. I am not sure of the psychology behind, it but it is definitely more accepted than men w/other men. I would not freak out if I were you, take things as they come and you will know in time. After all it may just be that the idea is attractive to you, but if the opportunity to be with a woman arose you may find yourself not wanting to pursue it.
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I dont usualy tell peole my business nor do I flautn my sexuality. I leave it where it belongs in the bedroom. NOt to say that I wouldt admit it if I was comfortable with the person asking. I dont agree with being extra OUt and practically wearing a rainbow flag or a raiblw pin. SOme people get a little over zealous or proud.
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The great thing about GLBT relationships is you don't fall into any social or historical requirements about these things...let the better capable person (or person who likes doing it more) do it. Oila! Problem solved. \n\nI tend to cook, do dishes, and general household cleaning because I tend to like doing it more...or at least am more bugged when it's not done well. My partner does laundry, vehicle maintainence, and bill paying because he's obsessive about these things and I'm not (which is funny since I was educated in accounting.) It all works out.