every time i call my boyfriend my ex-boyfriend gets on tha phone and starts talkin to me and listen to are conversation do u think he still likes me??
126672
umm.. wow.... that like cloning your boyfriend and dating him. It just shows that your not over the other one.
560857
Yes, Its that the ex is still in love with you, So unconsciously he's going out with you again. My ex has done that twice. (I am the mother of his son) It is kind of freaky. Just look at it like this. " You Know You Still Got It."
46203
wow drama, bf 6 months only on the phone, new guy, and ex.  got it rough.  forget the ex, u broke up and if the relationship wasnt worth it then it definetly wont be worth it now.  block his calls and avoid him he will eventually get the picture.  been with bf six months do u think u could see yourself with him in the next year or so.  If your ex loved u so much he wouldnt be your ex.
542733
you called 7 times!  Holy crap I am surprised that he is talking to you at all.  Back off, that is too much.  Odds are if he did not want to talk to you when you first called, he sure as hell did not want to talk to you on the 7th time!  I dropped a girl for calling me too much.  She was cool and all I just could not handle the clingy-ness
487380
when they contact their ex's, i feel that it underminds our relationship...  i would trust him and hope that he doesn't prove you wrong...
104423
My advice is don't pick up the phone when it's him calling.  He wants you back because he's lonely and he hasn't found anyone else yet.  It's hard to be lonely, I'm sure you felt like you wanted to get back with him when you first broke up, but if you are really over him and don't want to endure more weeks of fighting, just don't pick up the phone, so you can let go and so can he.
549285
you are flipping nuts!  why delete his number!  Thats so final, you only talked about your ex.  He'll get over it.\n\nSay to him, did he use the ex thing as a reason to break up with you?  If he says no, then say well I think you've totally over-reacted let me prove to you that i'm over my ex.  And he'll say how, and you'll say by being with you.  Lets face it thats the only proof you can use.  Time.
615803
Ask yourself this baby girl, why are you even talking/messing around with  your ex?  You two obviously broke up for some reason.  Let it go.  As far as your ex, he's just trying to get some from you.  You're worth being treated better than that.  As far as your current boyfriend, i'm sure he would'nt say you were'nt cheating if he were there while you and your ex were fooling around.  And I don't think your current boyfriend has a clear definition as to what cheating is\nLeave the ex alone hun.  This situation has bad written all over it and i'd hate for anything unpleasant to go down.  Good Luck.
334989
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
672206
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
485792
erm no! keeping your ex's number on your phone will make your current girlfriend very suspicious
586787
Apparently your girlfriend is getting some satisfaction in the fact that her ex is still after her. She may tell you that she cares for you, but if she did she'd take steps to put a stop to the calls/harassment. Maybe you should tell her you're going to step back a while, until she settles the issue with her ex and then the two of you can move forward in peace. Her action/reaction to that may tell you if the future holds anything for the two of you.
375575
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
512794
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.
618420
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
232449
Well he is infatuated with you, in one way or a next, he may become very jealous if u get a new boyfriend, and may become a stalker of sorts, the best thing to do is get a new boyfriend thats a big guy and tell hiim to deal with your ex (intimadate him a little)