I told him not to talk about it he stopped what if it comes up again should I break up with him or just tell him I don't like it
132503
he just want some, that's all. if he never talk about it you'd think he was gay.
545823
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
170622
i know it's tempting to hurt him like that, but you will regret it in the future. just tell him you're leaving him and don't go into details.
83486
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
532727
Remember, people are ALWAYS communicating with you, even if it is non-verbal.  Right now he's saying that the pain of confrontation and admitting his bad behavior is more painful than trying to repair your relationship.  You have offered to try to repair it through your attempts to contact him.  Now it's time to let it go.  Big talker, right?  I didn't say it was going to be easy, or pain-free, it just has to be done for your own sake.  And believe me, you don't want to feel like you don't give a damn, that would be denying your feelings, your trust in your relationship, and your broken heart.  I'm going to tell you to do something that is going to sound dorky, but I really want you to try it (what do you have to lose?)  Write him a letter.  Say everything you want to say about how you feel, how hurt you are, how angry you are, call him names.  End the letter by saying goodbye and saying how much you will miss the relationship you had.  You will never send this letter.  After you've written it, read it once, then rip it up and throw it away.  I promise you this will help.  You will still hurt, but please do this and you will feel better.  You need closure, and since he's not giving it to you, give it to yourself.  Let me know how it goes.
665541
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
311628
Don't let him know because I have the same problem and when I told him what I heard wasn't pretty ... He said that I broke his heart and he doesn't want i happening all over again. make him jealous of you and let him hear about you see you most of the time. If you go after him he will always be running away from you.
473346
Tell him to get of the past and that you don't like it when he talks about past relationships. Because no one likes it when the person they are dating talks about past relationships. If he continues doing stuff that annoys you leave the relationship. As for sex if you don't want to have sex don't if he really wants to be with you he will wait and if not he will leave but it's no real loss there are plenty of guys out there.
382928
I've been in the postion before and not telling him made things weird between me and him it would better if you talked to him just tell him how you feel about him but dont come on to strong
56296
yes you should be mad for not telling you, think about it. if he didnt tell you that thing being so small and simple and something that he didnt even initiate then image what hes NOT telling you! keep asking and be persistant
593786
Here's the main problem:  You're telling him this and telling him that.\n\nHe's not listening.  Actions speak louder than words.  You need to talk to him not tell him.  Say "listen, I feel as though when you say this (be specific), it's disrespectful to me.  I'd appreciate you not doing it".  If he does it again, Simply leave.  He'll either get his act together very quickly or you just discovered his true colors and all you were there for was to support him, not be a partner.
203127
He should of been up front with you from the get go, and since \nhe didn't, then maybe you should break up with him.
263399
if u didnt want him to do it then u need to tell somebody
655427
No you don't have to tell him. What you did during your break is your business and your business alone. \n\nHowever, know there is the possibility that he will ask. And by not answering or lying you will reveal more about your relationship than you might care to admit. \n\nAlso know that he may find out one day. People talk and you'd be surprised how small the world really is. He'll not only learn the truth but also learn that you kept it from him. \n\nI, personally. am always skeptical of relationships that have breaks, but that's just me. A lack of trust is hardly going to do wonders for your relationship now that you're back together, especially since you've already decided to part at least once.\n\nBut as I've said, you don't *have* to tell him.
76287
Well it might just be a faze and it sounds to me that if you really say that you like him the way the you say that you do then no. I don't think that it is that serious that you have to break up with him. Try to work it out.
353858
Take it from guy. He will end up hurting you probably. If guy says something like that need to just let it go.
392717
It would be better to tell him.  He probably has a bit of an idea that you did, but may not know for sure.  Or maybe someone told him and he won't admit to you he knows.\n\nHe will definitely not be happy when you tell him.  But if he forgives you, then he will talk to you again.  But it might be some time, so you have to back off while he sorts it out in his own mind.\n\nBest is to tell him in person.  Say you want to tell him something, and tell him how you feel about telling him and keeping it from him.  Tell him what you said here, that you are scared of his reaction, which is why it has taken you this long to tell him.  And say that you don't expect any reaction from him, you just want to tell him, to set things right, so that he knows what went on.\n\nIt is up to him how he reacts, so don't expect any type of reaction from him. If he talks to you at that time, then listen to what he says and answer his questions.\nHe might not even talk, and just walk away.