this girl i have dated 3 times already wants to go out wiht me, but she keep sbreaking up woht me. should i go out with her?
127778
I  would NOT go out with her again.  I would however give her my foot up her butt!  Why put yourself thru the heartache and drama when you know she makes a habit of dumping u at the drop of a pin?  Dont do that to yourself.  YOU DESERVE to find a girl who is going to love you and respect your feelings and this girl is completely selfish, immature, and uncaring.  The only person she cares about is herself!  Get rid of her for good!  Find a girl who will love u and not desert you every week!  Good luck to u!  DONT PUT YOURSELF THRU THEHEARTACHE OF THIS GIRL ANYMORE!
49151
Well, as the, old saying goes, " We learn from our mistakes." If you didn't want to go out with her in the first place, you shouldn't have. But now you have complete knowledge of what your better judgement saw, 'her immaturity.' She treated you like a 'FOOL', and has gone on with her life for 7 months and now justs wants to pop back in and play you like a 'idiot' until someone else comes along. Tell her, Hell no, and why you never want to date her again.!!
336051
This all depends, do you really like her?  If so go ahead and ask her out.  She's probably either really shy or she's asked someone out before and got hurt by their reply so she's scared to do it again.  Talk to her and let her know what you think, but do it gently.
411931
It is a good possibility that she is hinting at you. Maybe you should suggest that even though you agreed to remain friends you should try dating anyway.\n\nSometimes once an idea is in your head it plants the seed. Perhaps that seed is there for her and she just needs your help to germinate it.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
645463
Forget her. She's just playing you, and if she does it now with you, she will do it with another when she'll be your girlfriend.\n\nMove on, and find someone you will always be able to count on.
170436
Am I missing something?  If she is a nice girl and the two of you hit it off, go out with her.  If you don't have anything in common, don't string her along but don't be mean. Either way, be tactful and a gentleman.
217605
Cut your losses and find another.\n\nIf she thinks that your a flake from the get go.  You will probably never get a first or second date.
666379
well, spend more time together. then maybe at the end of the date, ask her if she still wants to see you, because she likes another guy a little bit. i mean, she probably likes you better because she has been on dates with you, but just ask her. you will get a truthful answer, and just see how it goes. friend, or girlfriend. good luck
322339
well if you keep thinking like that then you'll be single for the rest of your life! Just go for it! its pretty hard to mess stuff up like that unless you treat her like s.h.i.t then you might have a problem. ok, out of all the girls that like you, pick out the one that you want to go out with the most or the one you would feel comfortable dating. Then if you don't like it just tell her that it just wasn't working out and you still want to be friends but not boyfriend/girlfriend. She won't be mad at all.
215549
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
76586
If this is a first date... no, it will not lead to other dates.  Only your wit and humor will lead to 2nd dates.  What you have planned is a way for her to get free stuff.  Have her meet you for lunch, show up a few minutes late and let her order her own.  Why spend your hard earned dough especially if she earns her own.  All that says is "I am willing to pay you for your time"!!!  Lay on the cocky/funny... bust on her 1970s shoes/bag, if she can't take a joke... forget her.
662903
It's possible that she may sincerely like you.  It's possible that she may be hesitant or unsure.  And it's also possible that she may only be flirting and not looking for a committed relationship, which sounds the most likely from your description.  Her saying no to your invitation to go out but her actions and announcing she will be spending time with you this week-end can be confusing, I imagine.  Take your time to discover whether this is attention without intention, just a game to her, or more.  \nBut in the end, the real question is, do you like her?  And what do you want?  If your hope is a relationship and that isn't what she wants, it will not work.  If you both want the same thing and make that clear to each other, then it can.  Speak to her to learn more.\nBut just a little side note: It may be in good fun, but otherwise, her calling you her property doesn't seem very respectful.
447763
dude i would hold off a little longer. there is some truth to what she is saying. the festive season can be pretty full on. with family stuff and buying presents. if you come on to striong and like you said pester her, she will not go out with you. she is definitely keen to go out with you though, otherwise she woulnt have given you her number. keep talking to her at work, say hello etc. but wait a little longer before you ask her out.
217326
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
327328
ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
192121
If she is willing to got to dinner with you again after that, then she might be willing to take it further. She might have started to like you again, but who knows? Either way, take it slowly. Don't try to force her hand like you did last time.
91681
Yeah why not.  You have nothing to lose.  If she likes you she'll let you know right then and there if she'll go out with you.