Ok here is the scenario:  A man and his woman are in a serious relationship, he has a female friend that is his best friend.  One day he cheats with the friend.  When his woman finds out he tells her it is a mistake.  She says ok but he cannot continue to be friends with the other female.  He thinks this is not fair, because he swears it was a mistake and will never happen again.  Is the woman wrong for asking him to end the friendship?
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The wife/girlfriend is NOT wrong to ask him to end the friendship.\n\nHe chose to cheat, and the consequence of cheating is that he loses your trust and has to WORK to regain it.\n\nI would maybe allow him to keep up the friendship on ONE condition: that YOU hang out with him and the female friend EVERY time they get together (and that you get to read his email, listen to his conversations with that chick... essentially he should have no privacy with her until and unless he earns your trust back).\n\nMen have self control, and he made the choice and took the risk. Especially if he didn't use a condom, he also potentially exposed you to disease (herpes is common, among others).\n\nI would also both get tested for STDs (even if he swears that he wore a condom- he needs the "humiliation" of going to the doctor for tests). \n\nHe needs to atleast back off on the friendship with this other woman, and take this like a man. Ofcourse, he could always go behind your back again and remain friends with her or cheat, but hopefully he has a conscience.
670994
If you are good friends, why would you jepordize that. If you think it won't change things between you then your kidding yourself. If you cross that line, you can't ever go back. You must decide if things go bad after it happens, are you willing to do that and lose a friend just to find out what it would be like?
155284
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
4534
It's one that her man cheats on her, even if she doesn't let him. It's not rude slang it is very acceptable.
531086
No of course she should not have asked! You are friends but that doesnt mean you should help each other tobe dishonest! If she really was your friend she would have understood why you said no and respect that. Dont ever change your morals just to help out and always stick with what you believe in. Tell her how you feel,and if she wants to feel that way the it is her problem you cant change that. Good luck to you!
321940
Not at all wrong to have friends but cheating is wrong if that is what is happening.\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
38929
If she can't break up with him I believe that only means she has developed feelings for him, or else it would have been a lot easier for her. Otherwise, she might be feeling sorry for him assuming he might get upset and hurt, which also means she's with him for the wrong reasons. If your friend has no feelings for him, and is not attached to him emotionally, then she should leave him and be fair to him,  and most importantly to herself.
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A woman cheating is not worse than a man.When a man cheats on a woman it hurts just as much and I don't know if you can ever really trust again. But I do know don't let it show to much because the constant harassment can chase her back to the arms of another man. " If I am going to be accused why not do it" type of thing.
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Women can play games just like men do.  You always hear the women complain and tell stories of their husbands and boyfriends sneaky affairs but men don't have this happen as often to them.  But sounds to me like she was just playing a game and in her eyes winning.  No it is not wrong for you to not want to converse with her and you should not feel that you have to.  Simply say, After what happened between us I have been left with questions in my mind and have chosen that the best thing for me to do is not talk to you, so if you would please don't talk to me anymore it makes me feel uncomfortable as I just don't trust you.  Harsh, but can be done.
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You are so right if he cannot tell her he is with you than something is very wrong here. A man should be proud of the woman he is with you and him sure have a problem but look this does not mean leave him just get him to be honest with her if he is not honest with her what lies has he said to you sorry i did not mean nothing bad from that its just nobody deseves this i wish you both the best this can be simple just sit and talk and than call her and put this issue aside and you two be happy. Good Luck.
475671
no she is just angry she is probably saying if you hadn't thrown her the part it would never have happened but she should choose her friends wisely , it is pretty obvious that the husband was into it or else he would have been with his wife and not them,just to show that he is a cheating bastard. judge how long he has been doing it
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If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
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***breaking the law w/ someone else's permission does NOT make it right.  you should've known it was a set up if indeed it did happen the way u say.  it's your word against hers and it doesn't sound like she's exactly on your side right now.
78843
Most of the time your best friend knows what's best for you.  If they are a true friend they are only looking out for your best intrests.  I would get rid of the guy.
655247
I don't see anything wrong with that.  Does your current girlfriend have a problem with it?  If she does,  surely she knew prior to becoming your girlfriend that you mainly had female friends.  I am a female who has very little female friends.  I don't get along with women very well.  I get along better with males.  I make sure that anyone I get involved with understands that my friends were in my life long before my boyfriends.
465772
I don't know if the question's in the wrong category, but I don't see anything wrong with it.  She HAD a boyfriend, and now you have one.  If she wanted him, she would have stayed with him or he with her.
166925
Okay, well you can look at it both ways. I'd understand why you were mad at your friend for dating her and not even asking you if it was alright with you. Then again, you broke off the engagement with her. Apparently she wasn't what you wanted. She does have a right to remake her life. It just so happened she fell for your friend and your friend for her. I don't think they did it to spite you or hurt you. Things happen. But you shouldn't be mad, you'll find the person for you sooner or later.