is it normal for guys to clench or strech their toes at orgasm?...is it concontrollble?..girls what do you thnk?..guys?
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Yes, this is very normal!  I can't say it's controllable or not, but I know some guys orgasm with no reaction at all!  I don't see how, but I guess it depends on the person.
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Women and men? I can see how it might help some women I've known achieve orgasm more easily. One in particular had a hard time getting there because she couldn't relax enough; she couldn't breathe (Either that or I wasn't up to par...) We tried breathing exercises, which didn't really work. I wonder if staring at something, particularily something smooth and soothingly blue, might serve as a sort of meditative object, a way to focus attention and thus relax. To turn off the mind, so to speak. The mind can get in the way when you're trying to let yourself go orgasmically.\n\nAs for men, I don't know. Can men experience different levels of intensity in orgasm? I think I'll ask this question....
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Nipple play is a tough one. I know men who detest having their nips tugged, while others go crazy with pleasure. I am one of the lucky men whose nipples are a total turn on, - I can literally reach orgasm by just having my nips worked on - but alas, it's a rare man who has the "know how". Based on my "research", I find older men, with some experience under their belt are usually the ones who get it...but practice makes perfect, and I encourage all men to practice practice practice....:)
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For me, I don't get an orgasm from self pleasure.  I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I almost always have an orgasm.  The deeper the better, for me at least.  That's why I like top.  I've also heard of putting your hands on her lower abdomen and pushing all the way up her body.  Hmm, sounds good off I go! LOL J/K
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If he wants you on top that awesome, you get the most amazing orgasm. Just remember not to jerk so hard back a forth that tends to turn off guys, just move like you are riding a horse, back and forth softly but alittle aggressive.  It will drive him wild...   Hope I helped
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...When I was with my boyfriend I'd play with my clit while we were in action. It took me 4 years to cum with him. Get totally immersed in what your doing. Body, mind, soul, with an environment to match your deepest fantacies. Maybe do a little yoga to get your mind off of every day life. Watch a porn before you go at it. Have a little chocolate or, better yet all three! If you're having sex just to get an orgasm, it won't come. A little trick I've learned... when he's on top of you, move your hips up and in towards him so he's totally inside you. Keep moving your hips wherever feels best, play with your clit while your at it, stare at his body and into his eyes and keep telling yourself how sexy he is and how much you want him. Use a vibrator while your at it. If all else fails, get a book to better educate yourself or even call a sex therapist. Life is too short to have limited O's.
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I think it's a hygiene issue more then anything. I know for girls there can be discharge (sorry to gross you out guys if you didn't know that already) and as well, it's a comfort thing. I know that when I wear jeans with nothing else, it tends to hurt down there and get irritated.. Don't know for guys though if that happens? I have heard about zipper accidents without underwear though!! Ouch!!
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I have seen a few male ejaculations in my life.  Don't worry -- it doesn't always 'shoot out', and it doesn't mean anything is wrong if it doesn't.  Think of the male organs as a pumping mechanism, where a better orgasm will produce more high flying results.  Otherwise, it does kind of dribble out, as you describe.
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Do girls enjoy it? Well, this one does. I just adore it in all sorts of ways. Massage is lovely, but licking and sucking, oooh yes please. Really gets me going. I have had boy friends who really loved feet and legs. It turned them on in a way they couldn't get any other way. I had a small collection of shoes just for the purpose. And stockings were important too. One lovely guy really enjoyed making love to my feet, shoes, ankles, etc. If you know what I mean. Got him all the way. Made my feet and stockings all warm and wet, which was a thrill for me anyway. Kinky? Maybe but so what. We both loved it and I looked forward to our meetings knowing what was coming. I have a boy friend now who is into stockings. Loves to rip at them as we make love. He even sometimes likes to watch me rip my own to shreds while he satisfies himself. It turns me on so much that I have to do the same as he does. We must look weird, but it does no harm and produces the most wonderful orgasms. So yes feet and the rest. We love it. Something out there somewhere for everyone. Thank goodness. Have fun. Joan.
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Yes, you have experienced having an orgasm sweetie!  Isn't it a beautiful thing?! : )  Next time, just try to enjoy yourself and don't concentrate on just having an orgasm because sometimes it happens and sometimes it won't, but don't be dissappointed, because it will happen again as long as your boyfriend is handling his business!
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that's caused by sexual deprivation for too long after sexual fulfillment. He couldnt possible have it all the time, since it is about a 1-2 day experience after not having been sexually fulfilled for a while, and it doesnt come back untill a while after you have orgasmed again.  Tell him to suck it up and let it pass and it wont come back until after he has another orgasm and then doesnt have one for a while.  If he cant handle the pain, tell him to masturbate.  And tell him to stop complaining, because even tho it seriosly hurts, noone wants to hear about it.
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nope, masturbation and kegel exercises and breaks in between sessions make it tighter. When i say breaks, means not being loose or daily sex...give it time to recover and heal (from those mind blowin times)
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i get the feeling that you guys are more or less just diving right in. you need to spend a bit of time stretching yourself to properly and comfortably take him. the first time is likely going to sting a little, as there is some tissue damage when he takes your cherry, but the pain fades quickly (or so i am told) tell your fiance that you need to get warmed up first, use fingers, toys, whatever is comfortable to gradually stretch out. also, make sure you're turned on, since the natural lubricants released by your body are the best. have him try some oral play if you can, since the saliva will also help keep you lubricated. if you stil feel you need more lubrication, ensure it is a water based lube. if none of my advice works, talk to a doctor, it may be that (s)he can give better advice.
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There's absolutley nothing wrong with you.  Maybe you just need a little more excitment.  The same thing happened to me and I added some toys to our love-making. It really helped.  Its so easy for guys so when they get comfortable they stop trying as much .  Ask for a little extra attention to help you get there.  Also, prolong the foreplay, this should help to bring you closer.  Lastly, change positions a lot, this makes different area get "friction" so that everything is getting stimulated.  Good luck!
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Yeah that really happens dude.  Not all girls squirt, you have to know how to stimulate their clit.  My girl does it sometimes when she is really fealing freaky.  Yeah i know, that is so cool.
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Yep. His penis becomes extremely sensitive (ticklish) after he reaches his climax. Give it a quick kiss and let it recover. It'll let you know when it's ready for round two...    ;)
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I don't think its because you had a baby two yrs ago, but I don't know I'm not a doctor. maybe you should ask your doctor. but before doing that lets ask you this. when your having sex do you get on top most women that do have orgasms by riding him? or when hes on top most men do it the 'norm" in and out what most guys don't do is side to side moving there hips to the right to the left they just go back in forth in and out. tell him to move his hips side to side to right then to the left when a man does it like that it gives most women the best orgasms. and if that don't work try playing with yourself and buy some k-y jelly you can buy that at targets, Wall-marts its usually were they sell KO-TeX to let papers,powders etc...if still nothing ask your doctor it could be Hermon's