...when you dated someone for 7yrs. and you want to get married and they say they love you but when you ask them they say someday? Do you think its bull or they really mean someday they will?
137543
& years is a long time and I think that it is time you started to apply some pressure.Ask him if he minds if you start seeing other people as you feel that your relationship has gone as far as it can,from what he thinks about marriage.I bet the reaction will be what the hell you talking about,but just tell him that you think you have been together long enough and that if he doesn't think mariage is in his plans then you had better start finding someone who has them plans.\nA chance it could back fire,but if it does then was the 7 years worth it?
448236
when someone asks whether or not you are single, it probably means that they are interested in dating you..  \n\nbut their follow up comment doesn't sound very nice.. i hate when people make assumptions simply based on someone being single and/or based on their looks.
376403
If it's meant to be it will be, but you can't make it happen.  Sometimes timing keeps us from making a bad choice based on emotions in that moment.  There is a saying that goes..."if you love something let it go..if it comes back to you, it is yours...if it does not then it never was"
210278
If he loves you and you love him then you will get married when the time is right.  However, you have to be patient, if his marriage ended badly (emotionally that is) then he might not be ready to commit just yet.  You should not take that as a sign that he does not love you or doesn't want to be with you.  Just go slow and keep talking to eachother and it will work out the way it was intended to.
314264
I dated my ex wife for 7 years before we got married...after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids she say's to me..\nI do not love you anymore,,,I need time to grow...\n\nNow bare in mind this was on my 30th B-day....oh yea she also said ....HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
667623
no sure how long you two have been dating, but beware.  Guys who usually rush into marriage thinking should send up warning flags.  I was in a relationship that moved like that one, and he was very emotionally abusive, and would most likely have been physically abusive if we had gotten married.
180930
You could actually tell that a guy is ready to commit to you for a lifetime whenever that guy has already plans for the both of you in the future. It is not all about the diamond ring that a guy gives you on your engagement day, it is not also just about what you both have in the present but what you will be having in the future. You could tell that a guy is ready to commit to you for a lifetime if guy plans already on what you both will have...it is not only "I" that he would be taking into consideration but it would become "WE". In all things "WE" counts.
18304
When you realize that the relationship isn't meeting your needs and conclude that it isn't going to any time soon...\n\nMany relationships are "dead" or go nowhere, there is no definitive "line in the sand" that is crossed. The line is really internal, a realization that continuing is pointless.
83997
wow! if one is asking that question or concerned about that then they dont truly know the one they are loveing. If thats the case close shop and carry on.
229967
Does he call you little sweet words like; baby, honey, etc.? How often do ya'll see each other? Do you know if he's seeing anybody else besides you? If the answers to these questions are 1)yes 2)alot 3)no, then I will say that you guys are in a relationship.
534202
If he means it, he'll likely say it again. Just be patient...\n\nOn the other hand, if he was just a date and you two weren't serious to begin with...if it were me, I'd be a little scared..
664459
You just have to believe what your heart tells you to.My fiance' tells me he loves me every 5 minutes when we are together or on the phone.I believe him with my heart and so I would have to say if you think deep down that he really loves you then he probably does.
166875
love is trully a strange thing....\ni'd say if its good let it be....\nAs for marriage, u'll know when the time is right.\ni m sure that they will meet face to face soon
275998
Actually I'd say to save yourself until you know for a 100% fact that you love your partner and he loves you too.  It is a sacred part of a person that is not to be disrespected rather cherrished.
329832
I agree with just about everyone.  If he hasn't said it, either he doesn't feel it or he is afraid of committing to you.  Either way, if you want a committed relationship you should talk to him about it.  Saying that you love someone doesn't mean that you have to get married!  A year is plenty of time to know how you feel.  If it was something like a matter of weeks or months I'd say cool it and wait, but it has been too long.  He needs to tell you how he feels.
313867
CAN I ASKED YOU A QUESTION \n\nWHAT DO THIS MEAN WHEN YOU BE WITH SOME ONE FOR 2 YEARS AND YOU HAD TOOK ALL OF HIS WORDS ON THE INSIDE AND SAYIN HE LOVE YOU AND HE WANT TO MARRIED YOU   AND NOW 2YEARS YESTERDAY WE WENT TO THE MOVIES FOR THE FIRST TIME TOGETHER AND WE HAD SET IN THE BACK NOBODY COULD'NT SEE US I PUT MY HANDS AROUND HIM AND HE WANT LET ME HE SAID HE'S NOT READY FOR ME TO DOD THAT AROUND PLUBLIC   TEARS JUST FALLING FROM MY EYES RIGHT NOW. BUT ANYWAY HE SAID HE'S CONFORTBLE AROUND GAY PEOPLE BUT NOT AROUND STRAIGHT PEOPLE AND ITS WAS DARK MANNNNNNNN I MEAN IT BEEN FUCKING 2 YEARS AND I DID'NT HEARD THIS SHITED BEFORE HE WANT TO MARRIED ME PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO HE'S ON HERE TELL PEOPLE AND THEY SAYING HE NEED TO BE WITH GIRL AND THEY WERE SAYING MAYBLE IT'S NOT MENT TO BE
569151
No it is not... \nBut is a good target to say you will love someone forever, at least you can try...