does it matter to any guys if a girl isnt the prettiest or the smartest or the skinniest because im not any of those and no one likes me so i want a variety of opinons does it really matter?
123505
not to me..it would be nice..but da girl has to know how to treat the guy.
23555
i am 25 years old and here is my opinion...i don't think it would matter at all!! when i look for guys, i look for personality, confidence and respect. the fact that he has a hearing problem or some other type of physical "imperfection" does not turn me off. and i don't see it as anything to worry about at all. some girls may think so but, there are always those people. but they are narrow minded to pass you off for a reason like that.they are missing out on knowing a great person. it really is who you are inside and how comfortable you are with that. if you are comfortable with yourself, then others will be too.i like a guy who can be who he is because that is who he is. don't worry!
19651
This is a tough one to answer. In my case yes looks do matter to an extent. There needs to be some physical attraction in the beginning not that its the most important just a percentage. Body type really depends on the guy. I have dated several women with all different kinds of body types. A good personality is a must, its a real downer when your partner is always in the dumps or is angry all the time. I myself enjoy a good conversation so intelligence is a must (not a rocket scientist just bright). Tallents are always a plus, its nice to have a tallented girlfriend but not a necessity. All in all what I'm looking for in a woman is one that loves me as much as I love her. Someone that will be there when I need someone to talk to or be comforted. Basicly a best friend, I think that if your partner is your best friend your practically invincible.
120245
I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.
458850
Well........no not really b/c it only matters on what you think about youreself and how you show yourself to the world. I am not saying its easy not to be selfcounscious, and to care about what people think of you b/c every is. Don't care about people who you don't know b/c they probably dont care about you, like I am worried about every little thing about how I look, or what my hair looks like and well people you don't know don't care. So its doesn't really matter what people think of you as long as you have self repspect and know that we are all speacial and unique in our own way.
258356
Maybe what you find as unattractive in a girl is actually attractive to most guys.  Plus you have to realize that you have to be beautiful on the inside not just on the outside for a relationship to last.
245132
i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.
538239
well, the attitide is important, they should not be super shy or super hateful\n\nbut, I think i know what ur friend said. Looks are  most important usually. Most guys like nice boobs and a nice a**.\nSorry, that is the truth lol\n\nbut personality is very imporant, and opinions on that vary from guy to guy
18373
My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
297286
i do not date by looks.what good is a curvy girl if she is not a good person? what good is a skinny girl if she is not a good person? it all depend on what kind of person you are dealing with. i would like the one with the bast overall personality. it is not all about looks.
264231
It makes no difference to me if she is tall, short, or somewhere in between. If I like her and she likes me that's all that matters!!
586063
You may see it this way, however if a guy or girl are in a relationship based on superficiality, the relationship wont last. Common sense does prevail eventually.
23579
it dosent matter,  both can be great and awful, the size is just a topic for girl talk but it really matters very little when it comes down getting a good feeling.
20674
Your biggest problem is your self image. You need to learn that you have plenty of great qualities and boost your self esteem instead of reducing yourself to your own negative perception of your appearance. The guys you really want to know could care less that you are a little overweight. It's what's inside that counts. Smile ;0)
314307
Now does he say "Wow she's pretty!" or does he say "DAMN!!! lokk at that girls butt" If he says the former, well than maybe you should lighten up a lil' bit.  He compliments you too, and obviously thinks your something special.  If he didn't he wouldn't want to be exclusive with YOU.  If he's fun to be with and he's nice to you than your insecurity is not justified.  Take the time to enjoy yourself and focus on the good things, instead of the tiny bad stuff.  If you find it still bothers you open the lines of communication and let him know
91623
Well, from your description of yourself, you dont sound very fun. And some guys may chose girls that in your opinion, are ugly because they are beautiful inside. They arent shallow, self absorbed or hung up on their looks. \n\nYou ever hear that looks arent everything? The lack of time you feel she may spend not caring about her looks, she may spend actually getting to know these boys. She may honestly care more about them and less about herself.....\n\nBeing shallow and self centered is the downfall of most "pretty girls." Being pretty doesnt make you better than anyone, nor does it make you worse. It just makes your pretty, and if your beauty is all you have to offer to someone, well it just isnt enough. \n\nKudos to the boys at your school for picking someone of substance over arm candy.
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Not all men have the same opinions about that.All people are different and therefore some of them will like skinny and some fat ... Being skinny or fat is not the most important thing in a relationship.Love is blind , it doesn't see the size!