my bff is a model and a lot of guys go after her and people who dont know she is always tell her she should be. and its so annoting because everyone always tells her shes gorgeous and it makes me feel really bad about myself. im not ugly but im not gorgeous and i cant be a model im too short and i dont exactly have the body for it and i've always wanted to be one ever since i was 6 and she just randomly decided to be one and it was so easy for her. it's so unfair
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Well looks are only part of it.  I know that one thing I find sexy about models is their confidence level.  I've met some women that wouldn't be considered very attractive physically by society standards that really shine because of confidence.  Of course there are guys that are so superficial that all they care about are looks but those guys are typically losers.
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Some girls especially when they are young don't care about other features but your looks. It sucks that you guys are friends and she doesn't like you, maybe she just wants to be friends. I think that it might be in the clique she hangs out with. If her friends don't think you're a really fantastic person, then she won't either.
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What cracks me up is that we are all lumped together.  Not all men or women or fake.  And not all of us are stuckup.  I admit some are.  Usally the really pretty ones or real handsome men will be that way, but they are the ones I feel sorry for, I dont envy them at all.  I look deeper to your heart and that is where I find the beauty.  So please dont lump us all together.
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It's all jealousy. When people tell you you are ugly usually it's their way of making themselves feel better by bringing some one else down. It shows you that they have a low self-esteem. \nSometimes it could be a joke. Don't take it too seriously. \nIf you get an insult - whichever way it is intended to and how- just remember that you are beautiful. (Should I?)\n"Nooooo matter whatttt theyyyy say....\nWordssss wont bring meeeiiii down...." \nJust remember!
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i guess shes probably jealous of u coz u look so hottt!!!hott!!! ...yea lol nice pic :)
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You know what that is ashamed cause you have women out here who's trying to be super models who have the looks but just don't have the sizes, and they go out and damn near kill their self by having a eating disorder (not eating, making their self throw up, etc....) but here it is they can make the ugliest person look fabulous but they can't slim a person down. this world is fucked up and I'm sorry to say it but it is. i know women who want to be models so mad that they go to the extreme but they never make it. i just disapprove on that because their making ppls out to be something that their not.
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You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
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Maybe they are jealous of you. U R probably super cute, and to make themselves feel like they have control over you, they make you feel unworthy. Just move on, it's High School, and everyone fits in somewhere.
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Thank you!  I agree.  It's because society is full of shallow little people who only care about themselves, and how they are perceived. They are so desperate for a compliment to boost their confidence that they'd even take them from strange wierdos in the internet.
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At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.
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i cant really tell i just see ur face, plus they like models that are like 6'1 110 lbs. and thats not that attractive to most people so i suggest dont be a model
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hm...well,i don't.but maybe guys these days like to show off their girls so that he will look cool among his friends, sorta like a trophy or something.in this case,beauty does not lie in the eye of the beholder,but in the eye of the beauty magazines!my second ex is the Barbie type,when we're on a date, it's like, she's spending time with her mirror than with me most of the time.and i don't enjoy myself coz the way guys look at her makes me feel uncomfortable.it only lasted for 2 weeks...2 weeks of hypocracy.i'd rather look for someone genuine and normal.
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just think about how many really ugly people are out there,and how they would be happy to look like u.im sure u do look good and well done to u,that u managed to loose w8.fight ur selfcoonciousness,because it does affect life bad,if u dont feel good in ur own skin.my exboyfriend was very insecure and i know how much it ruins his life.be strong.
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If you like yourself, being chubby isn't a problem. If someone wants to put you down for it, they are just jealous that they can't have the same figure as you.  My opinion, if someone is a size "0" or "1" shouldn't be on this planet!  They are way too small.
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not everyone is, you probably just feel that way. I was skinny all my life till about 2 years ago, and it doesn't bother me. If it bothers other people i don't care, they are not involved in my life and know nothing about me. You shouldn't worry about what other people say.
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have u ever thought that people are just jealous? cauz alot of them may be. ur not a man and u know that and ur bf obviously doesnt think so otherwise he wouldnt b dating u. just concentrate on the people that count and not random people who dont know beauty when they see it.
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Low self-esteem.  Many girls are heavily influenced by what they see in the media.  What girls see is misleading.  It really is too bad.  Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way.  We all can't look like supermodels so let's not try to strive for it unrealistically.