When I've split up with my ex he didn't agree and for reveng he's put some of my nude photos on to a websites and now all my friends have seen it. But lately he rang me and apologised and he wishes to make it up to me....
137864
What did you do to make him do that? Usually we keep photos like that and show personal friends but he advertised them. How could he possibly make up for this besides castrating himself? The scars he left on your soul by doing that are going to be lifelong and no one will forget what they saw, theres no way to take it back. You need a reality check.
48421
I've sent pictures of myself to a few men I was involved with in a long distance relationship. As far as I know, nobody else has ever seen them. But it is always unnerving to think that your boobs could be floating around on the internet somewhere. At least I have a c*ck shot from my current so at least I could get revenge if my pictures leaked.
599709
I had the same thing happen,and in my oppinion,if he was sexually camming with another woma,he is a cheat!\n\nHow anyone could think differently,is beyound reasoning.\n\nIm getting out of my relationship because of this..I just dont trust himmnow.
127850
Well, you clearly are not a good friend are you? We can all see that because you hurt your boyFRIEND, so can you honestly blame him? \n\nAdditionally, why do you want to be friends with your ex? Just because you used to date doesn't mean that when you break up, you will be friends. It doesn't always work that way, and given that you have hurt him, you can hardly expect to continue to be on good terms.\n\nI strongly suggest that you stop any efforts to befriend him, move on and try to be kinder to your next significant other.
455606
No...those are YOUR memories and nobody has the right to tell you to delete/remove/forget them...besides how will you feel when this relationship ends, and you gave in and discarded memories of previous relationships?\n\nAnyone over the age of about 12 nowadays, knows the person they are with is likely to have been in other relationships...perhaps several, perhaps serious, perhaps intimate...\n\nThe idea of requesting someone to throw way or delete pictures is a sign of jealousy and insecurity...now if you had pics of you and an ex in frames around your home or your desk at work, then yeah...he'd have a valid reason to be upset...\n\nTalk to him about why he's upset...it's not just because there's a pic of you smooching on someone who is no longer in your life (at least in that capacity)...what's the REAL reason he's bugged?
86151
it all depends on you. when my bf broke up with me (on our anniversary of all days), i separated the stuff he gave me from the rest of my things. i even placed our pictures together on a separate album. all I'm saying is: DON'T BE BITTER. if he broke up with you, that doesn't mean you should be angry or get even with him. life is too short to waste your energy on such negative feelings. besides (am not giving you hope okay), if ever he comes back to you, at least the memories are intact. if he doesn't, well, just say thank you for the good (even the bad) memories.
138415
He might have been looking to spice things up for both of you, however, he should have discussed it with you first. Its cheating once that profile and picture were posted, and I suggest you put your foot down and stop it before he ends up bringing home something you can't cure with medication....GL;)
561896
sounds like hes trying to gain sympathy. leave it and resume yr life. hes a user by the sounds of it. they say everything you want to hear. it makes it hard to let go of these guys.
629524
I think that he told you about him cheating on you, so if you forgive him, he thinks it would be ok to do it again. I think you need to get rid of him and move on. You are way better than to have a guy cheating on you. You need to get a good boyfriend. He probably just called you because he broke up with the other girl. You need to just leave now while you can. You don't want to get back into this relationship, just so he can cheat on you again. Ever heard once an cheater, always a cheater, well that is mostly always true, honey.  If you have the feeling that something will go terrible wrong, you are probably right. Your first instinct is usually the right one. If he likes to date your friends, and has done this before, he will keep doing that. Just walk away from it all.\nGood Luck to you, girl. I know you will find a better guy that does not cheat. That is what you deserve,
610915
I don't think your wrong but i don't know all the facts. But my ex used to call me at my work but it wasn't anything at all. He only did that because I wouldn't answer my cell phone when he called. so maybe that's what happened.
330990
he just wants to do something with you, and you know what it is!... so its up to you... dont trust your exbf's friends... ever...
477555
You can't get him to talk to you, he has to decide that...however that's not stopping you from apologizing...either go to him and apologize in person (whether he speaks ot you or not) or do it via email...then let it go...\n\nYou screwed up, but it also doesn't sound like that relationship was a good one and you're trying to convince yourself it was better than it was because you don't like being single...\n\nApologize if that's what you feel you need to do...and then put the situation behind you and move on...if he ever wants to communicate with you, he'll let you know...but face it, if someone had done to you what you did to him, wouldn't you probably hold a grudge for a while? Most people would...
150309
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
181314
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
439385
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
459437
If you have decided to stay and forgive him then you need to put it in the past and carry on. It sounds like he is trying to regain your trust by doing the right thing. You say you forgave him, so give him a chance to prove himself to you. If you can't get past it, then it will never work. You can't keep bringing up the past forever. You need to decide if you will ever really be able to move forward. If not, then let him go.
484098
The same thing happened to me. He's just trying to get you jealous because he knows u will. Girls do tht and obviously he knows tht.  I broke up with him and he wanted me back and asked me out again. Since then we've been going out. Don't worry it's a guy thing and i was wondering too why he was doing tht and he told my friend it was just because he was jealous