could that meen hes bored with u ? or hes not attraccted to u but your good looking? or possibly all the problems youve gone through turns him off.?or you were just a booty call and a tropghey for 3 yrs? u live apart now and he worries about you,, is it most likley hes worried of me finding someone else and dummping him to the curb  4 good?
137474
The question is are you still dating him if the answer i s yes then I would say you are hanging onto something that is not right for you. Get out NOW and dump him he is not right for you. how old ru? He does not see the real you by see oyu thru the heart. Looking into someone wonderful. I see people thru the herat and love them no matter what. If I loved some one I would let the other ladies know that I have someone. I would even answer the phone to let her know where I am. I do not drink so she would not have to worry about me. I am true and faithful to the one I say I am commited to.
182437
could be, there is the fact that you are a tangible "what if?" that is constantly in front of him. there is also the fact that as a guy, we think about sex pretty often and when we are with a girl we have been with and are no longer available to, it sometimes comes strongly to mind. \n\nit could also be that his gf is not happy with him talkign to you.
415597
He knows that NOT returning calls can drive a girl crazy and make her more interested in him.\n\nHe might just be keeping you as a 'backup', 'booty call' girl.  If that's fine with you, then go ahead.  If you want more from the relationship, you'll have to evaluate whether he's really into you, as a person, or just for the sex.
149651
He probably felt rejected.  You need to talk to him.  Guys can usually sense when you are withdrawing, and they assume the problem is them.  Explain why you were insecure.
257888
he could just be forgetful or its a dominating thing , they like it when a chick sweats their balls. try letting him call you and then you'll see his true intentions.
40000
Perhaps he likes you, but something prevent his feelings to be revealed. Actually, I've faced sth similer to what happen to you. I decided to leave and to start my life away of him. And I'm sure if he interested in me, he'll try at least to call and say hello!!!
362623
There are a couple of reasons for this A. He is shy or timid with girls or B. He has someone else and is using you for the back up babe....So stop calling him for a while and if he REALLY is into you then you should be hearing your phone ring, if not well....HIS LOSS AND SOMEONE ELSE'S GAIN!!!!
538940
Appreciate that he is returning your calls and has let you know that they're HIS issues, not yours.\n\nYou've only been hanging out a month.  Depending on what he has going on, that's really not enough time to develop trust.  It happens over time, and this relationship is in it's beginning stages.  It may not be an exclusive relationship, though it sounds like it's heading that way.\n\nDon't put any more pressure on him.  He knows you're there, he knows you're concerned.  That's enough.  If you continue to call him, then you need to ask yourself "Am I really concerned about him, or am I feeling insecure because I'm not part of what's going on?"  He's having some challenges right now, and I think he's handling this appropriately.  If you're really concerned about him, then keep it about him.  Be available to him if / when he needs you.  \n\nWhat's going on with him has nothing to do with you.  Keep this situation in its proper perspective; otherwise, you will lose him before you've gotten things off the ground.
284033
You should just respect his decision instead of thinking that this is just a challenge for you.  Some people really do just want to be left alone!  It may be he that he came out of a bad relationship & is trying to get over it, or he may not be at all interested in you & is just trying to be polite.  If you harass him about it, he'll just get annoyed.  Leave it alone.
22487
He might have some issues.  I would move on from here.  He was great for the time you spent together, but that seems to be it.  If you are interested in him, go out a few times before shacking up again.  Not a good move, if you are interested in a relationship.
135614
he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
357751
He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
509979
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
139909
No he is not using you maybe he would like to work things out but that's up to you. If this gets on your nerves ask him to stop.
338713
move on honey.  he's found someone else or he's not sure how to tell you he's not interested anymore.  i dated dirtbags like that for a long time. they're all thet same
299221
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
35152
i would stop calling and see if he misses you and calls you! if he does that means he really cares for you. and he probuble did not awnser your calls cause he was truely bussy