hi what happein ok this dang boy geting on my last nevears i hate it  any way he says he want to go out wit me and  his friend say it to and his friend just call me saying that and then this gurl who use to like him but he would not go out wit her say it a joke and that she ask him and that what he says so what should i do i guess we go out but i dont kno if so or not
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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Since things have only gone two weeks so far, now is a good time to confront HIM, not her. Since he has already told you that he only asked her out to find out if she liked him or not, then you have the right to confront him and pull him onto the carpet for his behavior. Simply telling him that if he doesn't tell her you will wouldn't be a good idea, as that is exactly what he may be hoping you'll do. It would save him the guilt of being the one to hurt your friend's feelings. Instead, let him know that you'll confront him in front of her, and remind him of exactly what he has said when he had told you the truth about why he had asked her out. That should be enough to serve him notice, and since she is supposed to be his friend as well, maybe he'll realize how much he values that friendship and come clean. If not, at least your girl friend will have a better understanding of your true intentions.\n    Holly, in response to your "personal" note, I'm afraid this situation really is an all-too-familiar senario. Best advice I can give both of you is the same. If you fear that you may be the one that was asked out just out of curiosity, the way her friend was, ask him directly. Not in an accusing frame of conversation, but instead give him an out. Ask him if he really likes you as more than a friend, or if he feels that you would be better off as friends, because you also value that friendship and wouldn't want to lose that. Friends can weather all kinds of obsticles that couples are harder pressed to survive AS a couple. \n  Good luck to both of you!
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Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!
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Um... I had the same problem. Don't hurt your friend. He may be cute, but there are plenty of cute boys. I know from experience that your friendship is better. If they break up wait a little while, and then hang out with him. Maybe you'll quit liking him. If not, stay away, about 50 YARDS AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM HIM!!!! LISTEN TO MY ADVICE. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT.
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I would tell her that she has to ask him out herself. I wouldn't do it because you're not helping yourself any. If she doesn't like you I think she's losing out because you sound nice. Try to find someone else someone that cares about you.
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i think its pretty cool when girls have there friends do this sort of stuff  for them. i know i don't mid it. i think the best thing to do would not to just say that your friend likes him. juts kinda be like so what do you think of this person. he will probably be like why do You ask. just be like idk just asking. he already knows by now that your friend like him so he will either ignore what your telling him because he doesn't like her or he will go talk to your Friend and stuff.          \n\nthat's how its happen to me before and if the whole thing turns out like i just wrote it down your friend is in good shape
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you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
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Well hey listen up let me help! Since you gave me some good advice this is what you should do let the guy talk to you and then like go to the common place to hang out right. ok then what you should do since you really like him is to pop a question about relationships or something. You know next if that bails you should move on to plan "b" like talk about something funny get him going then just say that you like him in a humorous way. Just to let him see you are thinking about something so that encourages him to want more!!!! Well probaly does not help at all but try it and see your results because this is  what happened to me and ive been going out with my Boyfriend for three months.
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okay, there is this guy who likes me, but he makes fun of me calls me bad things, and tells his friends he likes me. I think he doesn't know how to tell you but, HE  HAS A CRUSH!!!
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Why doesn't his friend like you?\nI think you should talk to boy's friend, he might be worried that you are going to "steal" his friend away. Reassure him that you won't.
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He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
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hes retarded....if he were worth the time he would confront the situation and ask you out...not play stupid power games with other boys...its not about you that he does that in front of the other guy\n...its about him...and being better than the other guy, he cares nothing for you
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OKay do what u want and if u like him u should deff go out with him and ur friends shouldnt get mad either way u go and if they do then thats their problem and they should be happy for u if u do go out wiht him and if u dont they need to understand ur reasoning that u just dont like him and if they get mad their just being dumb and they will eventually get over it and if they dont then u dont want them as a friend cause Friends dont get mad over guys that u like or dont!! well whatever u do Good luck and i hope for the best=)
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maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
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if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
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If he's a player, save yourself the heartache, and don't go out with him. The way you said it makes it seem like you don't really like the guy, but you're considering it, purely because he asked. Girl, if you aren't interested, and your heart is saying "he's a player, and he's gone out with my friends" what makes you think your situation will be any different???? Look for someone who will respect you and love you regardless, and won't compromise you! Good luck and hope this helps!
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hang arond him and let his friends know that you are close to him and they will start talking then eventually telling him but not to close i did this and thi girl didn't qwant to go out with me caseu i was to much as a frind