4 years ago. i had in love with a girl she was in my class. \nwhenever she came in front of me i started feeling lonely,shy  and depressed. she didnt know ab my feelings. after the 1 year i proposed to her but she refused to accept it. she said i love any oneelse. again after six months again i proposed to her she replied the same...\nto whome she was in love he had cheated with her. even today i have faith that  one day she will become my.............\n\nwht shall i do !!!
131916
Be her friend. Sounds like she needs one. Stop asking her for her hand in marriage. I am not trying to sound mean. But it sounds like she has had a few bad experiences with men. Just be there for her and be a good freind. Let her know that you are there for her. Don't push her into anything that will just push her further away from you.
166741
Give some more time to relationship as it develops with time. Love comes in the last, before this stage many stages come and go away. We all do mistakes in our daily life. So don't feel ashamed. I think you love him. \n\nFinally your heart will decide whether you love her or not? Don't be in hurry. \n\nWish you good luck!!!!
160919
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
515579
The time has arrived.... u feel like this because there is a right person on the other side... U don't need months or years to fall in love it just happens in seconds but not over the phone or Internet try to meet her in person if u still feel the butterflies in Ur stomach when u meet her, i think the love chemistry is working...\nBut remember this think twice before taking a decision, after deciding stick on to it at any cost.......... Good Luck
70429
I'm sorry that happened to you but maybe she finally realized what she felt for you and that it wasn't enough to take it into the future.  You also don't know if she found somebody else and this could be a possibility.  Please try to move on and consider this a blessing in disguise.  It's better that you found out sooner than later.
21808
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
233405
I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
460794
you did the right thing. dont feel bad honestly. if you kept dating her then youw ould have made things a whole lot worse because later on, she might have fallen in love with you. leave things the way it is. tell her to call you once she is okay enough to accept things with how they are and you just want to be friends. that you will always be there for her even though you arent with her.
373632
it's ok kid, it happens to almost everybody at your age really. Just think about this though, in the future, that dude will get a broken heart as well, by some other girl, and he gonna regret about it heh? For now your heart has shattered into a million pieces, I'm sure a million guys would be happy to put it back together for ya, not just that one dude :). Cheer up, there're a few billions of human beings on this planet, you'll meet someone else who is more capable of appreciate and value your love, obviously this dude isn't worth your love, screw him heh? hehe. :)
258376
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
276138
Love is truly complicated sometimes . I have truly loved the same man for the last 15 years , and only recently i found out , that it's never going to happen for us. It's a very beautiful thing to really love someone. Sometimes it makes you really look at yourself. Sometimes you even start to see , hey man i need to change myself . I need to really better myself! Not, that that is why it didn't work , but- they just helped you to see you could be better .           If you are smart you will thank that girl , for allowing you to feel the beauty that is love . Hopefully what you learned from that relationship , will help you in your next one. Men , don't have all of the troubles finding someone to replace their X's that we girls do anyways. You are born hunters , you will love again. I hope that you find someone who will love you , as strongly as you loved her , but it's only good if you will love her back the same way ! So , don't let your heart be too wounded to ever really feel again. It's really hard to be alone though , sometimes. Go out with your friends . Go do the things that you enjoy doing alone , you may just meet someone like that , and bam you will have at-least found someone with similar interests. Above all else be safe , and have fun! Be open to trying new things , and be honest! Good luck
546362
Life seems terrible like that sometimes. I think you should face your fears & confront her. Tell he what you feel now & ask her if she feels the same or if there ever will be a chance of that happening. 1 of 2 things will happen if you do that.. yo might get lucky where she accepts your proposal or you may not be lucky where she will reject you. either way you will have a guaranteed answer without a loose end to haunt you for the rest of your life.\n\nIf you dont confront her, you wont know if there was ever a chance or if she simply didn't want to be with you. In this case you will forever be haunted by the questions beginning with 'what if..'.\nFurther more you would have created that pain all on your own from self-pity & disappointment in self pride as a man.\n\n\n...I've said my say now its time for you to do what you think is best for YOU.\n\nAnd finally.. if you do decide not to confront her & you find yourself losing her in time & space. Your only option will be to force yourself to forget her otherwise the pain will eat at you forever. How do you forget? Change your lifestyle & meet new people & create opportunities for yourself to fall in love with someone new.
598298
It's so hard I know..I have been in love w/someone for about 4 years..my best friend...want her so bad...but it's not happening...so you choose your pain..be friends and love from afar...or just get away from the whole situation & move in different circles.
351786
4 YEARS!!! Damn!!! You waited that long. Just tell her how you feel inside. Whatever you do don't say something that not only will cause you to get turned down but can also break up your 4 year friendship.
363014
yup..\n\nguys are like that..\n\nthere's this girl i really like, we dated 2 years ago but then i stopped for some reason i dont understand.\nshe's had 2 bofyfriends since then.\nand it really tore my heart everytime i saw her with her ex. \nwe were from the same high school.\n\nnow she's single again & i told her already what i feel for her.\nwe're dating again..\nwe're in college now. different universitys though..\ni don't want to lose her again.. ever..
424308
wow. lovely story. I had a crush that I felt the same way about back in HS. He was exactly the opposite of everyone I was dating, but he had a girlfriend, so I never got to be with him. \n\nMaybe he still ponders what might have been. Maybe she should ask him why. Maybe a conversation about this feeling needs to take place, no matter if it eases their minds or stir up feelings. Maybe she needs to asess her feelings for her bf, happy or not. Maybe down the road when he is still staring into her eyes, and her eyes just dont twinkle the same way anymore, since she left her bf (or got left?) maybe then it would be wise for her to talk to him. She could find comfort in knowing that he will always find that special place in her heart, that noone has ever touched before, and he may still be available by then. you never know........\nGood Luck Girlie!!\n;o)
335436
i'm so happy for u! i fell in love w/ my bf at age 14 and we've been together for a year/7 months. take it slow, don't rush love. give it at least 6 months before ur sure. talk to her about ur feelings if u want but don't let anyone tell u ur to young!