i wanna know how long is it supposed to take for a guy to get it up. it took nearly 4 hours for my hubbies viagra to work last night. is it normal.
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ya know not all roadside stands selling erectile dysfunction drugs are on the up and up
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It could be extremely dangerous to overdose on Viagra.  The most important thing to be aware of is unsafe drops in blood pressure, which is especially worrisome if you take any other kinds of nitrates.  The warning's on the bottle, but if you experience "priaprism," (sustained erection for more than four hours), you should seek immediate care.
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Its fine... you have a thing for helping people. It's a good thing. I just would wait atleast about an hour or so next few times after making love to your husband.
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Well, a very highly aroused, young, inexperienced male might last a minute at most.  And Sting (the famous singer) has bragged about being able to go on all night- literally- without a climax.  There's huge variance.\n\nOptimally, a good amount of time is about fifteen to twenty minutes of actual thrusting; with the overall lovemaking experience going from forty five minutes to an hour, if not longer.\n\nIf you can't, there's nothing wrong- you can get better with time.  Just practice controlling yourself (try thinking of non-sexy things when you get close- like grandma on the toilet, lol- and masturbate beforehand so you aren't so close and on the edge going into things.  And let your partner know what's going on- when you get close, stop, take a breather on yourself, and focus on her/him, then go back to spending some time on you or together, and so on, give and take, until you are both breathlessly ready for climax.  It's a thing that both of you can deal with.\n\nIf you still climax too soon, just remember that sex isn't over!  Your partner deserves to climax, too.  Keep a spare dildo in the drawer next to the bed, or even a strap-on (quite a few men wear strap-on dildos over their flaccid penises) to keep things going once you go soft, or just rely on your hands, mouth, and fingers to get help him/her out!\n\nRemember not to stress overmuch, and good luck!
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I wanna meet him.  YUM.  But thanks for the good info about MOFM, 2nd ed.  I will check that out immediately.  I have had 4 orgasm nights, but usually it took about 2 or 3 hours.  When you said he is a 4 hit wonder, over what time period of intimacy does this apply??? :)  I won't say "have fun," because clearly you are!  Cheers!
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Hun, i know what you are going through, I have been there done that and get this, i am not even married....my fiancee and i have been living together for almost a year now, engaged for almost 2 and yes, the sex drive has gone from 100 to 0...for him, not for me, it's still strong as ever. when i asked he always told me he was tired or just wanted to cuddle or something like that, so yeah, i know how you feel. i am sad to report however that he was hiding something from me....his addiction to porn....he'd rather look at pics and vids than be with me...pretty low huh? well anyways, we are still together and trying to work through the issues and yes things are looking up....so just hang in there and hopefully things will start to get better!
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http://www.drugstoreamerica.org ..\n\nInteresting question. My wife and I use Viagra ALL the time. It really has helped spicen up our sex lives :))  She swears by it! Her clitorus really swells up and the orgasm she has is OUT OF THIS WORLD! We got the idea from an episode of Sex in the City when Samantha and Her Boyfriend try viagra and She loved it.. They really knew what they were talking about! I get our Viagra prescriptions drugstoreamerica.ORG.  A drug store online, 24x7. No Waiting for Doctors, you will enjoy Complete privacy, and you can order anytime, in your Own time, with No PRIOR prescription needed! You can order Safely and Securely through a secure drug store transaction server, and pay using a wide range of credit cards.\n\nThe order process could not be any simpler, just select the medicines you need, fill in the medical questionnaire, and submit your order. U.S Licensed Physicians will review your order and issue your prescription. Next, a U.S. Licensed pharmacy will dispense, and FedEx your order discreetly using Next day delivery. \nHave FUN! ;))
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Cialis is the new wonder drug that can last up to 36 hours..No, not the erection just the medication..So when the time is right he'll be ready and can perform several times during that 36 hours..Viagra is the first one to hit the market and must be taken at least an hour before and doesn't always stick around for a second showing..Levitra is pretty much the same as Viagra..All of these drugs come with great risks if you have or have had heart problems or are a diabetic..Men also run the risk of having an erection that lasts longer than 3-4 hours and must be taken to the emergency room  for medication injections to remedy the situation...Everyone is different and the drugs work differently for each person..See a Urologist who can prescribe the best drug for him..
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yes i have done this before. it doesnt take that long if you use alittle lotion(lube)and are turned on enough. i came pretty fast since i was in a hurry anyway. i was in the bathroom with my girlfriends best friend. she wanted me also. that was some time ago.
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Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
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I'm so happy for you two!  Great job on waiting.  \n\nI know you two have waited for the sex but I'm not sure if you guys have done the all the things that lead up to that point.  There is a lot of fun to be had with foreplay.  Also, keep in mind that he will have an O within minutes of you guys starting your festivities.  Hopefully, he can go the distance and be able to get it back a few more times.  If not, there is no rush!  Having good sex takes patience and willingness to learn and experiment.  Don't forget to talk to each other about what you like and it wouldn't hurt to read some sex tips books together.  (Not a suggestion on how to pass the night but just in general.)\n\nI don't know if you guys are in a hotel or what but I would make sure that some chilly water and a snack with substance is on hand for later.  Also, a friend told me that she wished she had a pretty robe to wear when she came out of the restroom in her lingerie.  Since it was the first time for him to see her in that kind of dress she felt a little awkward crossing the room in such attire.  \n\nIt sounds to me like you already have it covered.  You guys waited so it will be unusually special, the strawberries are tasty and cider is very good (both flavors).  Just the fact that you are planning and being thoughtful covers your side of being romantic.  Make sure that he doesn't rush because the more anxious and rushed you are the less pleasurable it will be for you.  Have fun!
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It could be someone else, but not likely because that wouldn't make him half erect or come to quickly.  High stress jobs and health problems usually cause ED and usually viagra fix's the stress parts.  I'm sure someone will suggest that maybe he's gay, but there again, doesn't explain the weak erections.   You are in a tough spot and i'm sorry for ya.  Try to talk to him, as hard as it is going to be to do, and yes his feelings will get hurt most likely, and explain to him your problem.  That he needs to put out a little effort to make sure you get your pleasure too and that you love him, they are other ways for him to please u and his still get his.  If this doesn't work out, best advice is for you to move on and get another boyfriend, cause even though u love him, u are going to be very miserible and will end up falling out of love and cheating.
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The more intercourse you have the better you get at things. If there comes a time where you are about to orgasm, pull it out and place your thumb over the head. It sometimes works. Have you tried foreplay first? Give that a go as well. Sometimes that makes you orgasm sooner than expected as well but if all fails there is always viagra.  It could come down to yourself being too eager as well. Take things slow and in time you will get better at it. All the best and hope you find the right solution to your problem.
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Don't believe these guys who say women want it less.  I have a high sex drive and I wanted sex a LOT more than my husband did.  To me, two days without sex was two days too long!
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I too have NO sex life due to a sick hubby right now and wish i was in your shoes on some days.  I guess - how much do you love hubby?  Enough to sacrifice your physical needs?  Could he ever recover and be the man you need?  If no to both, then leave hubby and get you some, girl!!!
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1 second with my husband is enough to gag a maggot.....I can't imagine 8 hours at once!
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i know someone that is in the exact same situation as you and it sucks for her too. since getting pregnant is his big worry -tell him you are getting on birth control -if there is no sex after getting on birth control -there is obviuosly something else wrong-my friend's husband had to start using viagra after getting off drugs -because drugs messed up his sex drive and it took her forever to get that he had a problem with a erection for months-becuase it was embarrsing to him -all you can do is ask and if that still does not work you should find someone who wants to give it up to you