my wife to  be likes to  have sex with  woman...promises its just sex and nothing else...
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I'm not the married man, but I am his wife who's bi....I know with total certainty that there's no woman who will take me from my hubby. I like girls, but not to the point of destroying my husband and marriage. If it came down to it, I'd walk away from women all together for him. In my case, it would just be sex, nothing more. And yes, I can say that with 100% certainty!!! Hope this helps, from a woman's perspective.....Good Luck!
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You are a good man, knowing that you'd like to return the favor and to make her feel good...that is just awesome.  Now as far as what you can do for her...\n1) give her a massage (back, feet etc)\n2) have her lie down on the couch with her head on your lap (face up), while she is laying there gently rub her temples and scalp.\nDon't feel guilty about her showing you pleasure, if she didn't want to do it she wouldn't.  Don't worry your time will come to please her sexually...and when it does you guys will have all sorts of fun together.
9367
just make sure you listen to what she has to say 100% of the time... relationships are not all about sex... I have sex with my wife three times a week and she always has an orgasm... my motto is "ladies first" she has to cum first before I do... so even if we don't have sex very often, we make it very special...\n\nalso... there are forces from up above that count women's tears... so be careful
127212
NORMAL BUT GO AN HAVE SEX WITH YOUR WIFE WHEN YOU START THINKING
517790
talk to your wife about spicing up your love life.\nyou never know, she might be just as lonely as you are, but before that maybe you should try to find out and understand why she's so against sex.\ngood luck!!
513886
I would keep doing it.  You obviously have no respect for your wife, so why let her get in the way of your sleezy relationship?
528370
She obviously feels a little awkward about being "touchy-feely" with you.  Maybe she thinks you will view it as a sexual overture, when she really does not want to have sex.  Maybe she thinks it is too forward for a woman to be touchy feely. Whatever the reason, why dopn't you try to TELL her what you would like in this situation.
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hmmm thats hard to say, maybe shes like a lot of women and doesnt really have a strong sex drive, or flat out just doesnt enjoy it.  I on the other hand could have sex on a daily basis.. well depending on wether or not there was compatability... good luck
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let her read this, as a man i want a woman to love and to make love to.  to hold, to kiss, to talk to when im down, to talk to on the phone just to hear her voice and to tell her i love her and with that i would never lay a hand on her and trust me there are more men like me out there
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After reading your question and additional details, I wondered whether your wife is a person who may, at some time in her life, have heard negative comments that caused her to develop insecure feelings about relationships with men.  For example what if she heard her mother say (in a moment of despair) that men want women only for sex.  And that if you give men sex, they'll be nice to you, but if you don't then they won't have an ounce of interest in you.  I think that as a result, she may, later in life, in her search for a good husband, have tested those words.  You may have had sex before marriage, but you also may very well be the only person she ever met who, at times, showed her love and affection without sex being involved. This probably happened without planning on your part.  You just loved her so much, that you found that being with her was great even if you didn't have sex on some of those occasions. As a result, your actions may have (in her mind) disproved the negatives she heard, and that may have caused her to look on you as someone with the qualities of an ideal husband.  After a couple of years of marriage, it's possible that your relationship has become one where (not by plan, but by habit) you show her the most loving and affectionate attention right around the time when you usually have sex--such as at bedtime.  Hey, this can happen very easily.  But, such an innocent turn of events, could be what triggered your wife's old insecurities, and caused her to want to re-test those negatives she heard many years ago.  If so, this should pass soon as you continue to show your love for her.
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never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
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It looks to me that your wife is playing with you.The way she acts towards you doesn't show that she loves you..ore respects you for that matter!I'd talk to her,tell her what you think and feel..that you need to her to change her ways,because this isn't working out for you.If she refuses,ask yourself if this is how you want to go on....clearly this is making you very unhappy,you shouldn't accept this!
636455
If you know how to work it with your wife right it will work just fine. Spice it up for her and buy her some toys and things. Sometimes people cheat because the bedroom life becomes boring and routine.
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i've been reading your other posts, and you seem to be really hung up on your wife's sexuality.  You DO realize she's more than whats between her legs right?!  she's a WHOLE PERSON and her sexual exploits of the past are past.\n\nthe first thing you need to do to control these insecurities is the realize that it is YOU that has the problem, not her, so don't you dare take it out on her.  \n\nfrom the number of posts i've seen from you on this topic, i think you need more help than we mere yahoo answerers can offer.  get help, on your own...don't drag her into this.
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depend on your wife does she want to do it.
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I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;
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Men, read Heathers response and beware. There are women out there that are like this. They may use sex as a lure but many really can live without it. Find a mate that has similar needs and if sex is important to you like it is to most men make sure she also really enjoys it. After marraige many men and women show their true self and for many men that means much less sex that leads to all sorts of problems including cheating. Women if you are not doing you part to sexually please your man you are playing with fire. Men if you are not doing yuour part to please your woman same goes to you.