I'm in college and just last year i went from a dorm to apt on campus with three of my teammates. I'm the only one with a boyfriend in the house so i'm spending alot of time with him. They say the reason they found somebody else to room with is because they thought i didn't want to room with them when i had been asking them for over a month if we were rooming together next year. I think it is a little bit jealously in here. so now i'm left trying to find somewhere to live because they never asked me if i was thinking about not rooming with them
122401
I would sit them down and ask them why they went behind my back, i would not ignor it cause you have a right to know why they did it...
194973
I think if at all possible you might have to get moved to a different dorm room. It sounds like you are living with a child personality. Unless his friendship means a lot to you, and unless you are willing to exhibit more patience and explain that you are on a budget and can't share food anymore and then stick to your guns, it sounds like it's time to move.
189996
Sounds like time to go solo.  Don't get in too deep with this other guy, and try not to make your boyfriend feel like crap, but you should probably get your own place.  \nYou'll have to tell your man, and it won't be fun or easy.  Just stick to trying to figure your own self out as an excuse.  It's not him, it's not anybody else, it's just you.  You're however-many-years-young, and you're having a mental transition.  You do love him, and you still want to see him, but you need to live alone - in your own place with your own surroundings.  It's a very different situation than just booting him out for an evening of alone-girl time.\nIf you can get that through his head, it should be smooth sailing from there.
542802
Well they cant make her stay but if she leaves she could be required to pay her share of the rent for the rest of the lease. You cant make her roommates take on someone they dont want.
368101
I think that was really rude of them to mess around right next to you.That must be so uncomfortable.Don't fight with them about it,it's not that serious.Just tell them that if you are going to hang out again to keep that kind of stuff private!!
196722
Sounds like you have a friend who is jealous of your other friends. She might be one of those kind that they can have more than one friend but there Friends can only hang with them and no one else while their around.Tell her to cut it out or you wont hang out with her.
289563
address the people/company you are renting from. i am sure they could work something suitable out for you with your being able to move. they are reasonable people or should be. things happen beyond our control sometimes and i know they know that too. next time you get room mates have them added onto the lease with your leaser. that way you are not totally responsible for everything.
596576
This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
59773
I'm sorry, but this isn't your choice.  It is their house and their rules.  You can ask them but you need to respect their decision.  If you don't like their answer then you and your boyfriend need to get a place of your own.
372518
No, you are just busy & don't like your roommates. Don't worry about what people think about you. It's none of their business how you live your life.
299061
I have been in this situation before.  1. you really need to stay out of it.  2.  make a list of all of reasons bad roomy should leave.  3.  the roommate that gets kicked out deserves the better half on the items so it will all go smoothly.\nThe reason you should stay out of it is your probably going to come off as being pushy and will more than likely cause disagreement between you and your bf.
636613
Damn, stop being so scared. Who cares what your roomates think? Just come out. If they are stupid enough to think you are always checking them out then screw them. Get a different roommate. Im sure there are campus counsellors or professors you can talk to if they do start bothering you because that's not allowed and it will stop if enough action is taken. But I dont think you should worry about that. You have to be who you are. Why hide? You will feel so much better.\nCome out of that closet!
603931
Like it or not, your friend was the one who ditched you--her boyfriend didn't "take her away" from you.\n\nMy best friend (and roommate) did this to me over a year ago.  I confronted her about it, and she stopped...but there was tension between her boyfriend and me for the remainder of her relationship with him.\n\nI still have trust issues with her and am waiting for the day she finds someone new and drops me all over again.
417117
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
433919
Why not ask a favour from a friend of yours, and arrange a "double" date.  Then tell your g/friend that you thought it would be nice to go to ...... (wherever), and that you thought you would bring .........(your friend) along, so why not bring her roommate.  If you are lucky, maybe your friend and the room mate will hit it off.  If not, talk to your g/f.  Make plans well in advance with her, so that you get your arrangements with her before the room mate does, and say something like  "I thought we could go to ........ (wherever), it will be really nice to do something alone together".  That way, you are hinting that you want to spend time alone with her, without telling her that her room mate is a pest.  Good luck!
99762
I think that you both should go away to college instead.  See how it is to live independently before you decide to move in together. Living in a dorm is a great way to be independent but still have some guidance. And it can be a lot of fun too! There are a lot of scholarships for foster kids too, I think. I wish you the best!
145711
There is nothing wrong with that. I have one close friend that lives in my area. Other friends from school have since moved out of the area. I prefer keeping to myself a lot and I dont think anything is wrong with that. My ex was a loner too. We spent all of free time together and it didnt bother us. I think we had strong connect and just preferred just to be with one another. If you guys enjoy each others company and have no need for others I personally think that is normal. Most ppl think you need a bunch of friends and have to hang out every night of the week but that just isnt so. Be the way you are and dont try to change your b/f.