Is it ok for a 16 year old virgin to date a 22 year old virgin? They are both afraid of that serious moment. It is not like the 22 year old is gonna pressure her into sex because he hasn't ever done it either. In that aspect they are practically the same age.
138889
i think about 10 years difference can be unseen easily , the spouses can understand each other very easy , of course some exemptions being.
33125
Honey, as long as this guy is nice to you, understands about the difficulties such age differences mean, and is basically a good guy then date him, have fun, but don't let him press you to do things you don't want to. I married a man older then myself and have been very happy. It takes longer for men to mature then women so really he is basically your age right about now. So the real question is do you want to date some one who is the same age as you? lol
552608
I could understand a freshman wanting to go out with a senior, but I do not think it's appropriate.  The difference in age may be only 3 years, but that's a big difference at that age.  And I think the senior should think twice about going out with a freshman, especially if sexual activity is anticipated.  It's like an adult taking advantage of a kid.  Ever hear of statutory rape?
208928
It's sweet 4 a man 2 b a virgin.I remember wen I was 20 and popped a 17 year old lad's cherry.it felt GRRREEATTTT!!!!!!!!!Knowing that he would remember me 4 the rest of his life.
302294
All the girls I ever have dated were older than me. Nothing wrong with that, as long as he is old enough to day anybody. Now if you are like older than 18, and he is like 16, then don't be doing the nasty with him till he is 18 too!!!!
559399
Ever since schools started teaching safe sex rather than abstinence, it has pretty much opened the door to condone sexually activity in the most unprepared age group......teenagers. In your age group, guys hormones are starting to rage, and let's face it, they want to have sex. It is getting to the point where even girls are buying into this idea, and they are willing to sacrifice their purity, which is the most precious thing you have, just to have a boyfriend. My advice is to stay the way you are and don't compromise yourself. I am a 22 yr old male. I have been married now for a year. Trust me, the right guy will come along at the right time. Someone will come along and honestly think you are the most beautiful girl in the world. Just be patient.
660505
Yes\n\n\n\nby the way it is illegal for an 18 year old to "be with" a 15 year old in a relationship....you really should find someone your own age.
387448
I am 25 and my fiancée is 21, personally I think that anyone who says they wouldn't go out with anyone younger than them is being a little narrow minded, surely the person matters more than how old they are?  \n\nAs for dating (if I was single) as long as I connected with that person and found them attractive (and as long as it was legal!) I wouldn't have an age limit at all!
510451
It depends on the laws of your state.  Generally speaking, when both people are under 18 and just dating there are no laws being broken.  Some states have laws regarding youth under the age of 14.  But as long as the two aren't having sex, there's nothing to worry about.  In some states it is illegal for two people under 18 to have sex.  And of course it's not legal for anyone 18 and older to have sex with a minor.
519602
my man and I have a 13 year age difference too however when we got together I was 23 and he was 36  now its five years later and we are still together...the difference is a 15 year old girl is not the person she is going to be yet...in 5 years she will resent you for keeping her from all of the experiences she would have had had she not been tied down in a grown up relationship...
37615
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
649913
First off being a virgin is perfectly admirable and I give props to any one that has the ability and will to abstain.  If it was me though I'd go out with someone that had a lil experience maybe 5-10 partners.  That way I already knows she knows what she likes and hopefully she's not too  uptight so we both can play and have a lil fun teaching each other what we've learned.  However, if I were to date a virgin it would be to contain myself but, I'd still try to respect her wishes.
154218
15 is a reasonable age to be dating. I started at around that age. I would not let her date anyone more than three years older than her and would prefer any boys 18 years of age to be Seniors in high school. When she is 18 she can do what she wants but until then she is my daughter and I will do what I need to in order to keep her safe!! Of course meeting the "date" is a must and there will be rules such as what time to be home, and letting her know she can call me for ANY reason if she needs to no matter what the time or where she is!!
310477
Older men who search for younger females is not normal. Generally, there are age barriers which define the lifestyle of that person. IE: a 30 year old searches for marriage and stability while a 17-18 year old is finishing high school/ beginning college and needs to build a career. For the 30 year old, those 2 lifestyles clash considering that one has already entered into adulthood while the other is just learning about it still. Would a 17 year old be ready for a life with a child? but would a 30 year old be ready? yes! so therefore the 17 year old should not be involved with the older individual.
16147
i was 18, we were together 4 years. hun, your body is not ready to have sex yet. and you know what, you can only lose your virginity once. it never comes back, you never have a second chance. if you have sex with this guy, i GUARANTEE you he will break up with you shortly afterwards. then, when you are older you meet the one, you get serious. you cannot lie and say you are a virgin, cause once you have sex he'll be able to tell. a man will respect you so much more if you hold out (in the long run). it's hard to tell whose the one to lose your virginity too the only way to make sure is to make them wait, and wait and wait. it will be worth it. i started dating my fiance at your age and made him wait 4 years. he has even told me if i would have given it up easy he wouldn't have respected me and we wouldn't still be together. people may pick on you but that's normal in school. i guarentee you these people picking on you are gonna end up with a std or pregnant before you get out of high school! another thing to look at... you start at 14.  even if  you have sex with people after 6 months to a year cause you feel so strong about them. now that doesn't work out because guys at this age are all about the sex and having it with as many girls as possible. that is 1 to 2 people a year you have sex with. no big deal to you now but imagine when your 25, 30! hun just do your self a favor, put your head in those books, become a strong independant woman and worry about the sex later. the emotional part of sex lasts longer. it takes minutes to lose your virginity and it may be something you regret the rest of your life.\nI am 21! i'm not old, just seen all my friends make the wrong decision and had to listen to them bitch about it all the time.
657362
What matters is what you feel...Age is not a factor as long as you both feel the same way and sure of each other feelings...Believe me I am dating someone older than me!!!
526396
First and most importantly, you are hot. \n\nSecondly, I wouldn't personally date someone 20 years younger than me but then again that person would be 8.   OK seriously, I wouldn't let a meaningless thing like age get in the way of being with someone who made me happy.  Many people are saying that it might not last.  What relationship can you guarantee WILL last?  \n\nANY relationship can end.\n\nSo take a chance.  If you care for him, be with him.  You can't love unless you are willing to risk hurt.  That's just life.  \n\nSo if I were 41 (assuming I don't commit suicide when I turn 30 from the shock and horror of reaching that advanced age) yes, I would definitely take a chance on someone who was 21 if I cared for them.