wHAT BIG CHANGE HE MADE IN YOUR LIFE???
135823
No big change . . . I fired him because he didn't show up to cut my lawn because of the immigration walk out.\n\nHe could have informed . . . but he didn't . . . he didn't even show up the day after or the day after that . . . \n\nIf that is how he treats his customer . . . then I will find someone else to cut my grass.
126329
Go to him and find out. Men CAN change, no matter how rare or how many people say its impossible. He is... was... your husband, and deserves chance to show you that he still loves you, and to try to fix his life. We all deserve a second chance.
619417
i would have changed the whole day. hubby is in the navy and was about to ship out so we went to the JP and got married. that ws 3 years ago and i still love him just as much as i did that day.
230949
Mine was ONE particular event. I came home from work, and she had moved out, and moved in with another guy! All in the same day!!
185670
I met my hubby at a Christian youth group reunion!  There were hundreds of people there, and I had never met him. \n\nHe had everything I've ever dreamed of in a guy, a heart for God, musical abilities (he's a composer and song writer, and keyboard player)\n We've known each other for over 27 years, and have been married happily for 20.  :-)
473289
My faith.  (I know it isn't the religion category.  lol)  But it really is the most important thing in my life.  What has it done for me?  Made life worth living and not giving up.
41258
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
190095
Sit him down and talk to him. Tell him exactly what you said in your question. Ask him what he thinks and tell him that you think he needs to change. if he truly cares about you and your future kids, he'll make an attempt to hange and become a better and more responsible person. If he's not willing to try, then find yourself someone who'll love you and will be able to take care of you. A man who won't change for the better isn't worth it.
579659
Just be yourself.  Changing things will only get your hurt in the long run.  If he can not love you and like you the way you are then he is not worth your time.
457375
I honestly dreamt about it on 3 occasions. One time he said "well done"....I must admit I hid my face in shame wondering how he could take someone with so many flaws. Waking up that morning left alot of questions in my mind.\n\nAlong with other things, that dream helped change my life
91340
Well, there is some good news in this right....currently he is just your Boy Friend and not your Husband.  I say this is good news as making the change that you need to make at this point in time won't be as difficult.  Clearly, he is a selfish person who does not put the needs and wishes of others in front of his own, and from everything that you have said, I really can't imagine this changing anytime soon.  Do yourself a favor, and show him the way out of your life before your relationship progresses any further, because if you two are having this much trouble at this stage in the relationship, do you honestly see it going any further?
576480
Don't worry about it. Big changes in life are always scary, but I'm sure you'll find that everything will go much better than you think it will.\nJust be yourself and don't worry about it now.
648756
how about a change in not only his diet but also a change in his lifestyle. and waiting 30 minutes before doing any sort of physical exercise.
196738
Nothing! In my experience, the only thing that changed was a piece of paper, and my name. If you are already living together, you know how the other person lives, eats, breathes, so you won't happen upon any surprises! I think what you are doing is the best way to go, I did this myself. You really do not know a person until you live with them. Good luck to you!
424269
Take this test, and you will see if your under satins control. Change the entire life's concept. In reality and sincerely change your heart from your now state of mind, Start to believe in Jesus Christ ask forgiveness of all your wrong doings. Start tell those you deal with how Jesus will change their lives. Than see if all hell in your life changes for the worst. This is a fax that will rear it's tear able head and you will know if he has your control. Then if you want switch back to satin to watch how all the thing change for the good. Be fare warned.
124393
Hey sweetie, Well, to answer ur question, I believe some people can change and I also believe dat if u give this person a chance and he prove that he made a mistake then he have learned his lesson, but if he still doing it after u gave him that second chance Leave him!!!
666713
The reality of living on his own has hit him big time. don't give in, he will return to his former self given time. Good luck