If he was using cocaine how much does that affect his erection? What if he was also drinking and smoking pot? Do men get nervous? Or is it mostly to due with being unattracted?
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OK, you are either really young or really naive or both.  YES, cocaine, pot and drinking can cause this problem, they desensitize the experience for some people, or at least keep them from focusing on the sex and not the drug.  Yes they get nervous, and it probably isn't being unattracted.  Could be anything from stress, to performance anxiety, to the damn condom being to tight.  Nevertheless, drugs are definitely a problem.....
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affects different people differently. usually it make you want to do more. if done before sex usually you can't get it up and when you do you won't come, well for guys , don't know about chicks.  for example a "Friend" of  mine once wouldn't quit jacking off until he came, took him 2 hours, really no lie. another example another "Friend" of mines ex would smoke when he went down on her, but he couldn't get it up because he was so worried that she would smoke up all the crack. But if you take a hit right before or as you come. Holy shit *BANG BAM KAPOW*. very intense\nbut all i can say is this, never never never never ever pick up a pipe. It will take your soul.
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when me and my guy got 2gether im a woman by the way we loved each other instanly but whenever we got intimate he couldnt reach full erection yet if we were messing about thered be no trouble but that carried on 4 a while until we told each other how we both felt wed never shared our feelings with 1another, but soon after that its like he never had erection problems, strange hey he told me after that he was unsure about his size and didnt think he was man enough 4 me, (hed kill me if he knew i was telling people this) but then when i convinced him and showed him hes more than enough 4 me he got over it 1year later and weve got a brilliant sex life but now weve got more of lifes other problems, ha\nhope this helps\ntake care\nx x x x
438253
yes. ive seen/read medical and crime stories where the erection lasted a while after they died. the heart stops pumping when they die, but i think but the blood is already in the penis at the time so it takes time for it to drain out
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O.K. Check this out!\n\nThe act of Eating normally triggers the bowels to move. (Take a dump)\n\nCocaine is a stimulant and causes the body to feel nervous and YES the result is having to take a dump.\n\nBut the urge for Cocaine users to do this is usually wihtin the first 15 minutes the first line or blast of Cocaine has been snorted.\n\nI hate to turn your friend out but if you really wan't to know for sure if your friend is getting high "LOOK AT THE PUPILS OF THE EYE" Cocaine like other drugs causes the pupils (The black spot in your eye) to dialate.(Get Big)\n\nBut Cocaine will not cause the pupils to dialate immediately. It takes some people 20min to 45min on the drug before this effect happens depending on the dosage taken and their body size. "But it will happen - Pupils will dialate!
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Viagra is not a recreational drug.  It is intended for use in men with erectile dysfunction and chemically helps only those with some sort of issue.  Taking a drug when you have no symptoms does not make ay sense.  \n\nIf, however, you are suffering from erectile dysfunction, get checked out.  Common reasons are different in different age groups.  As a result, different treatment plans can be prescribed for different situations.  \n\nViagra is not the answer to every case of erectile dysfunction, especially if you are young.  It's effects on normal subjects without erectile dysfunction is purely psychogenic.
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Dont worry its normal, i heard on tv a doctor talking and he said men get up to 5 erections a night, and they are soposed to, if they dont somethings wrong, yoru ok
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A FULL erection is usually pretty close to the same size every time. Of course their are various stages as the penis becomes fully erect so it could be less in length if he is not fully erect. For various reasons (time since last sexual release, etc.) guys may not get fully erect every time they are with their partners. If he can still perform okay, doesn't seem to be anything to worry about to me...put away that ruler!
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Yes.  It's possible and it's happened... more times than you'd suspect.\n\nWhy?  Because a person can forcibly insert foreign objects into a males' anal orifice.  A person can also stimulate a man to the point of erection and sometimes ejaculation even if the man is unwilling and frightened.  Unfortunately for men, sexual arousal is sometimes involuntary even when he fights against it.  A person could also drug a man or make him exceedingly drunk to the point that he couldn't possibly give informed consent or be even adequately aware of what's going on.
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There are many all natural products out there, that if they don't work, will definitely not harm your boyfriend's system. \n\nBeyond that, there are many excersises one can do for the penis that will over time increase the bloodflow and allow for a stronger and harder erection.\n\nGood Luck!
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There are no drugs and using anything that numbs him will also numb his partner making sex dull for both. The key is to learn control. He has to learn when his orgasm is approaching and slow down or stop.\n\nA series of these maneuvers will eventually give him longer erections without ejaculation. He also has to learn to concentrate on what he is doing, not just the sensation.\n\nThere is also the squeeze method which is a physical way of slowing him down. When he feel orgasm approaching he withdraws and his partner squeeze the penis just below the head with an even pressure stopping ejaculation. Hold this position until his excitement level is back to normal then proceed.\n\nGood luck and have fun trying these methods, don't make it clinical.
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Please don't think it is you.  There are many reasons why men can't get it up.  It happened to me once and the reason was my b-friend was doing drugs.  I thought it was me but it wasn't.  Medications can also cause this to happen.
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How old is he? If he is older he may be suffering from erectile dysfunction and medicine like Viagra, Cialas and Levitra would probably help. That's not too likely if he is under 40 or 50 though. He may have been more aroused (able to stay hard) at the beginning of your relationship...that sometimes happens. I doubt it is nervousness or you would have had the problem from the beginning. You may be able to use your hand and/or mouth in foreplay to help him regain and maintain his erection. Does he have an alcohol or drug problem or is he a heavy smoker? Those things could be contributing factors...none are good for your sex life! Almost all of us men have had that problem at least temporarily at sometimes in our lives. It shouldn't be permanent though! There are usually solutions but first you have to find exacty what is causing the problem and that may take some professional help. Good luck!
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No, it is more likely medical than psychological (although it could be either). The first thing he needs to do is go to his doctor, explain the situation, and have a full physical. Men have problems with erections for a number of reasons physically, including diabetes, circulation issues, weight issues, and several other health issues not faced by women. If he is medically OK then you have to address psychological reasons. . . anything from guilt to lack of desire to a bunch of other issues. \n\nMedically there are treatments that are relatively simple.\nPsychological, not as simple. \n\nGood luck.
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Wow..looky looky another pothead loser that feels held down by the man. I guess you never thought about the fact that alot of violent crimes are linked with drugs.......but you never would have thought about that because you probably have 1/2 a brain cell left. So go ahead and keep smoking your marijuana no one really cares about you anyways. You and Pete have fun........queers
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My brother did pot to the age 46, he said he smoke about three to four times a week .He started getting head akes, two weeks later he DIED........Doctors said , his intake of this DRUG was the reasen he past  , SO VISIT THE MORG!!!!!! POT HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You could be losing an erection for a number of reasons.  Number one is psychological---if you don't really like the partner you're with, or if you're afraid and all you're thinking about is how well you're going to perform in his/her eyes, this can effect your sexual function.  The brain has a direct effect on the penis.  Number two, it could be your age--if you're over the age of 40, you're more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction, which is actually quite more common than most men would like to admit.  A drug like Cialis or Viagra may be appropriate for you.  There are many more reasons, but I'm willing to bet it's number one or two...and in either case, you should speak to your doctor, who is trained to deal with situations like yours.