I went out (3 times) with this guy, he doesn't call me everyday, only every now and then. But he keeps on telling me to call him whenever I want and that we'll go out. Which is true, whenever I call him he goes out, never says NO or hesitates, I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING?? is he shy? afraid of a relationshp.?? He says/shows indirectly that he likes me..but still NO KISS????? I'm really impatient and don't know what to do?? Shall I wait and see a little more or find sb. else??
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I've dated and been married to several Virgo's.  They are a funny sort.  My husband hates the telephone.  Does not like to talk on it at all.  They are somewhat a hesitant type of individuals when it comes to girls, that I have noticed.  Give him time and he will open up a bit more. \n\nOh, don't wait for him to kiss you.....YOU kiss him.
338992
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
190895
If he is always like that there is a reason. He is to shy to let anyone know how he feels That sucks. One way would be to call him when his homies are not around. Tell him you like him and want more. I know it puts yourself out on a limb but you do not want to play with your feeling either.   See what happens next ime he and you are together with or without the hommies you should get some kind of reaction that will allow you to move on or get it on with this man.  Good Luck
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It would be great if that "honeymoon" period would last forever :) I know I have been disappointed before when the calls and invitations slow down.\n\nIt is normal. He was probably getting to know you at first. Now, y'all are running out of new and interesting topics. If things are still good when you do talk to or see each other, then you shouldn't worry about it too much. If he keeps on calling and/or seeing you on a daily basis, it will probably eventually get boring for both of you. ... Unless your daily lives are full of extreme and exciting activities. \n\nMy advice to you if there are future relationships with other guys... Try not to make yourself quite as available. I use to think that it was silly to pretend that you are busy when you aren't really, but it does  help it take longer to get to the point where you are now. ... Hanging out with a guy 2 or 3 times a week and talking to him maybe 4 days a week should be plenty at first. Even though I know it is tempting to try for all you can get! \n\nAs far as how to talk to him about it, you will have to play that one by ear. You may start by hinting to him how much you enjoyed those daily talks. You could tell him it would be sweet to occasionally get a quick call to just say "hi." If he doesn't take the hint, try briefly calling him once a day or every other day, just to let him know that you're thinking of him. If this doesn't work out, then you may have to just come right out and ask if he likes how things are going or if he thinks the two of you need to back off a bit.
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hmmm... it could be an indication that he likes you, why dont u call him anyway and ask him out for a drink or lunch and see what happens. It doesnt necessarliy have to be a date, just keep it casual and go somewhere with a chilled atmosphere (not dinner, dinner is 2 heavy) and see what sort of a vibe you get. Good luck.x
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Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
460325
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
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He could be trying to say no in a nice way.  (Sorry!!!)  I had the same thing happen to me.  I asked a guy out and he said we would...sometime.  Next thing I know, he's "kinda got a girlfriend".\nGuys are jerks when they try to be nice.
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Ask him again, say something like "hey so what do you think, would you like to go out".  It could not hurt.  Curious as to why he never did, or does not bring it up, but you should DEF. ask him again, call him out on it.
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First of all you should actually talk to him. That was not a very productive conversation. So you should give him a call when you are by yourself, in your room, and see what he has to say. Always rely on yourself though, not what other people say. If Zack said "Kinda" then you probably have a good chance. So like I said, call him when you are both alone, with no one else around or nearby and talk about whatever it is that you want to talk about. Remember it's always good not to talk about yourself all the time. Ask him questions, figure him out. Ask him have he likes to do on his spare time, what he likes/dislikes etc. (e.g. ask him about his day and what he plans to do the next day). It might be a good idea to invite him out for a movie or something if you really like this guy. Personally, If a girl that I like askes me to hang out or whatever I'd really like that, because guys have all the pressure to take the initiative and ask the girl out etc.; that really sucks; is not cool cause some guys are really shy. Very important: Be urself, dont try to be someone that ur not. However, it's ok to lie here and there but keep it minimal. Good luck girl!!!!
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Is he shy? If not then it is best to assume he is not the assertive type. (he may be the type of guy that waits for the girl to come on to him). If thats the case, I don't advise any further energy here.\nIf he is shy, then it may be he doesnt know how to behave around you.
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There's probably not going to be a specific moment when a guy says "I really like you and I would like to go out with you" You gotta feel him out. Does he call you more than you call him. Does he ask about you when you're not around. Ask your girlfriends to find out some info. Alot of times guys don't make a move because they don't know your interested.
73198
same here! I dont know what to do either. Keep waiting & we will know. I think if he loves you, he will call you so be patient but anyway try to call him sometimes, maybe he's really busy.
252951
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
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He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
234656
Ask him out. Give him a call. It's ok for girls to approach guys. Sometimes guys just don't know that you're interested. Who knows, maybe he's nervous too and just doesn't know how to approach you about going out
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Have u tried to call him? maybe something happened to prevent him from contacting you. Has he done this b4?  maybe he wants to break it off and doesn't have enough balls to tell ya.  So u can call him first or keep waiting for him to call ya.