Next month my girlfriend and i are going to have our 2nd yr anniversary. I think shes losing interest becasue she doesnt even seem to miss me as much as she used to. But im missing her more than ever. What can i do to be able to have her like she used to be in the begginning of our relationship when she couldnt stop thinking about me? I NEED HELP. what is something romantic i can give her next month for our anniversary?
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It isn't really about giving her something romantic per say, but about expressing what is in your heart to her.  One of the best things you can do to show you care and you concern for her 'drifting' is write a letter.  Express yourself in this letter and let her know exactly what you feel.  \n\nHighlight some of the great areas in your relationship from the beginning until now and tell her how your love for her has continued to grow over time.  \n\nAnother thing you can do is a few weeks before your anniversay, tell her that you want to treat her to a special day because it means a lot to you.  Let HER plan the events for the day.  Or, ask her for some ideas of the things she'd like to do that day and then plan the day based on what she tells  you.\n\nOne hot thing to do is go back to a restaurant or place that was in the beginning of your relationship when it was just getting started. \n\nAnd, then your typical stuff: roses, jewelry, etc.\n\nHope your anniversary is the best!
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Wow,first off,if you have been dating for over 2 years..you're doing a fine job to me. Secondly,don't worry about "keeping him interested" because in all honesty,you will focus more on keeping him around,and forget about why you love him,and why he loves you..and end up hurting the relationship. Just relax,and realize he has stayed with you the past two years of HIS life,when he had the chance to break up with you. Enjoy his love,and just continue to love him back. I wish you the best of luck,and hope nothing but the best for the both of you!
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Ok I am here to help you! First of all, I think you and your partner need some time away from each other.. I like the vacation idea but that is a temporary solution in my opinion. I don't know if you guys are living together or just see each other all the time, but my advice will work for both.\n  First of all I think your problem is that you are spending wayyyyy too much time together. Relationships are funny, because even though you love each other so much and you want to spend every waking minute together, the reality is that you can't. You need to think of who you were before you guys found each other. What were you doing before you met him? You need to do things without him girl. You need to find some hobbies to do on days that you don't see him. Go out with your friends, meet them for coffee, take a class, go to the gym...\n  Before you know it, your life will be very busy. The excitement will come back. Your boyfriend will definitely miss you and realize that what he has is a good thing. Don't be afraid to do romantic things for one another...Send him a card, plan a romantic night together by making a special dinner with candles...Just do little things that shows you care. I suggest you buy the Cosmo Kama Sutra book. Try a new position every week! \n  The truth is, things can get boring after two years. But you have to continue to do things to get it to work. Spending alllllllll your time together is a huge no no. You will do enough of that once you are married. Remember, you still have your own identity even though you are in a relationship.\n  Good luck!
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You should be applauded for your deep sensitivity in caring about the X. AT least write her a letter stating how you feel and letting her know of your current situation - or an E-mail. Just remember it is natural to feel as you do, but it does not have to change things with your current lover/fiance. Remember time cures all . This will fade naturally . Trust yourself and your good intentions with your fiance.It is only one of a billion memories you will have in your life- not a big deal. Go on and live your life happily and lovingly so. Best to you.
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Sit quietly for a while.  Think about her.  Feel how it is to be with her.  Imagine her standing directly behind you.\nTell her what is in your heart.\nThen quickly write done what you said.  You might forget in the excitement.
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Hiya! You should set up a little love trail for her in her room with little notes saying eg. look under pillow and leave her something special and romantic at end of love trail! Don't make it too long that she gets fed up searching tho. Light a few scented candles just before she gets back to have a romantic fragrance blossom the room! I would love it if my fiancee did that. Good luck!
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My favorite times with my loved one is when we actually have time to sit and reflect about what the other one means to us. Going out to eat is traditionally what is done on an anniversary, but I prefer one on one time where there is nobody else around. No strangers talking loudly, no waiters to interrupt, no time wasted in line or in the car.  \n\nIn my opinion, Anniversaries are about each other, and to do that, you've gotta block out the rest of the world.  Here's my recipe for a fabulous anniversary. FIRST, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, GET SOME PAPER, PENS, AND AN ENVELOPE. I'll tell you why in a little bit.\n\nNext, plan the environment - Stay home (or rent a hotel if you want to get away from the day-to-day). Turn off the lights, turn on the music, light the candles.  Put your favorite (but easy to prepare) foods around you - cheeses, pizza, strawberries, chocolate, wine, etc.\n\nNow here comes the important part - sit directly in front of each other on the floor. Knee to knee, and eye to eye. Be sure to hold hands and feed each other. Talk about 'the time when we...' or 'that one time when we...'. Before you know it, hours will have passed. Don't be afraid to sip a little more wine than what you normally do. You'll soon find yourself maybe getting a little frisky. \n\nBut before you go any further, grab that piece of paper and pen, and write down a few lines about what that other person means to you. How they make you feel, and why you love them. Why you appreciate them. The more specific you get the better. For example, I love my man more everytime I catch him acting like a little kid when he thinks no one is around. Now don't let the other person read it. Seal it in the envelope, and save it for your next anniversary. It's so fun, and gives you something really fantastic to look forward to. \n\nNow would be a good time to finish off the night with a long kiss...and maybe more.\n\nYou've just created a wonderful memory of the two of you together, sincerely enjoying each other.\n\nMuch better than some boring evening at an overpriced restaurant where nobody talked to each other, don't you think?
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Perhaps you are taking away the "thrill of the chase" for her.  Try not to show your interest in her for a while - call once a week, visit her once every couple of weeks, keep everything friendly, don't profess your love for her.  After a while, she'll start to miss the person who was always right there - YOU!
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You don't have to get her a whole 'nother gift necessarily. Maybe take her to dinner and get her some flowers. I wouldn't expect another gift from my partner. Hope you guys have a really EXCELLENT anniversary with lots of hugs and kisses.
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the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
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Well, call me crazy but you should probably just tell her, and give her some flowers or something special only to her, something that relates to something she has told you or something you have dont together, something that shows you have thought about her. You might want to spend less time on here too ;-)
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This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
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Oh that's so sweet! You don't want to overdue it, keep it simple. Tradition dictates that flowers are a must, but instead of roses try to find out what her favorite flowers are. That show how much you really care, you know something special about her. Find out her favorite desert, and make a moonlight or sunset picnic in a secluded spot.  That way you can talk without being interrupted. Make a mix cd to listen to, with all her favorite song, silly ones along with romantic ones. And most girls are goo-goo over stuff animals, but I think that would be overdoing it a bit. Those are just my suggestions.
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you know her better than anyone. go get her, but your powerless if she has stopped loving you. :-(. what a sad situation for you, i hope it is all a mid life crisis and hope she comes to her senses and realises how much you miss her! good luck! if you know where she is write her a letter
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Ok, then let's change it a little bit. Do something entirely different with her. Do something that is not your normal mode. Treat her with a nice romantic dinner somewhere, it dosen't have to be expensive or elaborate, just a nice different place with good food maybe a nice glass of wine and a single rose would be nice too. Find a place that you could dance with her a couple of slow, romantic songs sure could not hurt a thing.  There is so very much that you can do and to go without spending a vast amount, parks, attractions, museums, gallaries, etc. I would be bored too if all we did was make supper, watch tv and sometimes go shopping, none of that is spontaneous nor romantic.
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Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.
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Give her space.  Get interested in something or someone else for a while.  Absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder. Some space may do you good too.  Dedicate yourself to something healthy.  Learn to make yourself happy.  You both can learn from this experience.  Perhaps you'll both decide to enjoy each others company, or not.  I think we need to remember this is just life, learn to make the best of it & we can't expect other people to do what we think they should.  Good luck and keep smiling.