My friends sister is in luv wit me and I have a gf.My gf is in Arizona again be cuz we had probs.We r havin probs and Im thinkin Im gonna break up wit her and she left yesterday and Im thinkin about wat I should do.Wel my friends sister is a bi and my ex gf is a bi.My frinds sister is gonna go strait cuz shes in luv wit me and I think shes kinda hot.Her brother dosnt kno yet and shes gonna tell him.I wanna kno am I makin the right choice.My ex is a porn star and left me wit 2000 dollars and the keys 2 tha limo and her house.I like my friends sister Tiffany and Im kinda still in luv wit my ex.My ex and I took pics 2 gether and Tiffany and I never touched each other yet.Im thinkin shes a good lookin gurl but I dont kno wat 2 do.Can u help me or wat???
131415
Well how good of a friend is he?  If you don't want to mess up with your friendship with him, be a man and let him know that you like his sister and if it is alright with him if you started seeing her.  Tell him to think about it and let you know what he thinks about it.  Sometimes they will say that it is alright and other times they will say no, but you won't know unless you ask him.
653444
Don't get her anything. Maybe I am reading too much into this but why do you refer to her as your ex-girlfriend instead of just your friend. Why are you stressing over a gift to give to a girl who is just your friend? Think about it, if she was a female cousin or one of your guy friends would you be stressing over what to get to them? Most likely not, you would just go to a store see something you think they might like and buy it, hell you probably wouldn't even waste time wrapping it.\n\nThe fact that you are spending so much time trying to find the 'right' gift is that you still have feelings for her. Maybe you don't want to get back together with her maybe you just like her, but it's as more than a friend. \n\nMy advise, don't get her anything, or at least don't get her anything big, just think what gift would I get for my sister or cousin. Because you seem unsure about your feelings for this girl.
156729
First of all I want to tell you that I am very sorry that you broke up with your fiance. It must be a very difficult time for you. I believe that relationship on the way to marriage should be running pretty smoothly. There should be no real problems whatsoever. For what ever reason it is that you broke up, you probably should stay broken up. I don't mean to sound harsh, but its true. Also, do you really want to get back together with someone who has posted personal ads on the internet right away? I know people will say that he is hurt and whatnot. But if your boyfriend is gay or bi, do you really want to be in the middle of all that heartache? I think that there is a strong possibility your ex boyfriend may want to do a little experimenting. I think you need to think about moving on, how hard that may be. But you deserve a happy relationship without secrets, lies and deceits. If your ex is really gay, do you want to subject yourself to STD's? I am not saying anything against gays (I have two uncles that are brothers who are gay), but I am talking of cheating... I would rather have my ex break up with me than live a life filled of lies with me. Its not fair to both of you.\n  I would not take him back but that is my opinion. If you were really sure about this guy you would not be writing on here. It sounds like you have your doubts as well. Trust your instincts and what your heart is telling you. That is the best advice that was ever given to me.\nGood luck.
536336
yea thats deep, but she obviously loves this guy, and u have to think about whats best for her, and apparently she thinks this is best, just try and get over her. If it was meant to be between ya'll then it will happen regardless. but i wouldn't tell her because that would make her feel uncomfortbale and maybe get u in a fight with the b/f. there are plenty of other girls that will be just like her. trust me!
109432
MY SISTER IS IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT. HE AND HER EX BOYFRIEND WAS TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS BEFORE THEY HAD THEIR FIRST CHILD(MY NEPHEW). THEY BROKE IT OFF AFTER HE WAS ABOUT 8 MONTHS(04). THEN SHE JUST HAD MY 3 MONTH OLD NIECE IN DECEMBER( WITH ANOTHER BOYFRIEND) AND THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF. SHE STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR MY NEPHEW'S FATHER THOUGH. MAYBE YOU REALLY WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND HIM WITH YOU BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO HURT YOUR DAUGHTERS FATHER FEELINGS OR MAYBE ITS LUST.
188431
Well, I think you two should talk to each other.  Don't make it obvious.  Say like I think someone likes your ex or something..\n\nthen see her answer.\n\nBut i wouldn't.  You possibly could.  I watched a movie just recently (Chinese, odd movie though...) called My Family.  There's this one scene where two brothers like the same girl.  Both would let go of her.  But then, their family help.  They talked about that a family is a family.  They can't fight just because of the girl.  Just because of her, do you want to loose your brother relationship?"  then they like i think they... um... just both agree to stop and let the girl choice.  So, why not just ask the him does he like you or your friend if you're willing to find your love.    Really, to me, i wouldn't but if he says yes, you both should go up and tell her that you two really likes each other and wants to be around each other.\n\nTo, the word ex-boyfriends seems like extra boyfriend.  thus, maybe your friend is not too close with him.  \n\nGOodluck, friends and love together are hard to decide..\n\n<>dia gemz\nsheri
447869
dump your g/f it is better to be truthful with her now before you get involved with the other girl.  If you loved ur g/f u would know it.  PS I am in the same situation kinda but i am the girl and the guy has a g/f so i dont know what will happen for me goodluck!
74515
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
614918
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
206582
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
137895
Maybe its your girldfirend that just wants your money.  But I would hate to think my best friend would stab me in the back and date a guy i cared about.  Does this tell you anything about the girl you are thinking of asking out? If that is the way she treats her best friend is she really gonna be that good to you?  Either way if you current girlfriend is that bad to you - you need to let her go and tell her why.  If things happen between you and the other girl after that -  then all is fair.  Good luck to you
158413
How sad!  But the decision is yours.  EVERYONE deserves a second chance, it's the third chance you have to watch out for.  And perhaps you can take this opportunity, while you can't really see each other, to talk a lot about who you both really are and where you see yourselves going.  Then go, if you want - your life is your decision, and people make mistakes.  I cheated once, and learned my lesson - I understood why I did it, and asked for forgiveness.  I have never done it again.  I know your family is worried, but you have to be honest with yourself - can you forget it and continue to love your fiancee?  If you can, then you have the right to be happy, and to be comfortable and safe.  Screw the rest of 'em.
548042
You are one great guy. Wish I knew some more like you. Let her have some time to get over her ex and then when the time is right to hint to her again you'll know. The only warning I would give is, don't give too much of yourself that you may be hurt- eg giving her money when she may never want you two to be anything more than "good friends" don't let her use you because if she things you still like her but are a soft touch and if she's feeling hurt right now, it might be 2nd nature for her to crave attention even when she may not want the same sort of attention that you have in mind to give her (ie.g/bfriend type) All the best and know that the right one is out there for you even if its not her. You sound like a great support to her when she needed someone most, but don't neglect your own needs  :)
267242
it's not what should you do, it's what can you do. looks like b/f has made some choices. all you need to do is get your mind around the situation. there are more guys out there. another one will come along, it all happened for a reason. the reason may not be obvious right now, but will become obvious someday, you have heard the saying when one door closes another one opens, hey the door closed, be thankful you found out now, before you had your 2.5 kids and caught him banging your friend. you expect your b/f to not like a gurl throwing herself at him , I can hear it now from you EX b/f oh please don't give me oral sex, yeah that's gonna happen. maybe you need to find some new friends, you won't lose much ditching the ones you have now. they don't respect you , that is obvious. good luck and don't take all that stuff too serious, you have a lot of heartache ahead of you, lol
119281
stop trying to convince yourself, ok you did what you did before but still that is your sister. if you want to give him booty go ahead. cause you probably will anyway. you are still sprung girl you gotta shake it off. he is only a man or boy. spend time with yourself get your mind right .go out meet new people.
238566
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
199515
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.