I have been good friends with this girl for a very long time.  And a little while ago I asked if she wanted go somewhere with me.  She asked if it was as friends or a couple.  I said whatever she wanted.  She replied "i want to go as friends, for now".  I asumed that she wanted to wait a while before we were more than friends.  Am I correct in this assumption?
134523
you should wait till the timing is right for you to ask her out on a real date. It won't take her long to realise what she's been missing out on. Keep asking her out as friends and mabye she will ask you out, you'll never know!
322148
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.
323100
will this turn out bad ..  Perhaps\n\nor good ..   Perhaps\n\ni cant tell...  And I look like a fortune teller?\n\nwas this a good idea or no? ..  Probably not the best approach, but it's done, so there's not much you can do about it now (read: don't' worry about it any more that you've done it, focus on the future)\n\nshould i have just done it on my own .. In my personal opinion, you should have done it on you own.  What is the worst thing that can happen?  She can say "no".  Which is the same worst case scenario that could happen by having a friend intervene.  It would most likely not be the last time in your life that you would be asking someone out, and you most likely don't want to go through your entire life having friends ask people out for you.  It probably won't go over so well when you're older.  Yes, there's a chance that she could say no, but there will be plenty of "no"s in your life, as well as plenty of "yes"s.  Now is a good time to practice having confidence and getting used to asking someone out that you like.\n\nIn the meantime, there's not much you can do about this except wait.  So, don't get caught up worrying about what "might" happen; you could end up being very surprised!  Just relax, and know that you will be able to handle whatever the outcome is.\n\nAnd having someone else see if she likes you isn't the best plan, either.  How does she act around you?  Does she talk to you, or ignore you?  Pay attention to you, or not?  Find reasons to make conversations with her, and based upon how you feel, then decide if there is a chance that she might be interested in you.  Then you could ask her out.  If she says no, that doesn't mean that she doesn't like you; just that she isn't interested in going out on a date with you.  That will not mean anything negative about you; it is simply a fact that she isn't interested in going out with you.  But, you will never know unless you ask!
543960
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
398937
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
85186
definately the second one you explained (if the descriptions are accurate)...friends are there through thick and thin...it's when you're with someone who wants to actually cares enough about making you a better you that future is built on...go with that one!!
450155
Hey, I'm sorry about this incident, but everything happens for a reason, and maybe this is it: reappreciating everything that you are and all that you have, giving you a different perspective of life.  I don't think its too much of you to ask your friend to be with you. But all that depends on what level and to what extent. For example she may not be comfortable with intimacy, since you are supposed to be 'friends' for now, cause I think she may think that you'd be using the accident as an excuse to have your way or gain sympathy and all that. You need to state clearly your terms for needing her, and let her know what you need her for. And if you need her for keeps and all that, then maybe you could ask her that too, but not too soon after this accident.  Take your time and see if she'd still keep coming and things may kick off from there. Glad to know you're alive and well... dudes in my town haven't been so lucky with accidents this year...
558799
Her desire to continue being your friend may be her way of keeping her options open.  Be honest with her.  Tell her you're still in love with her and you aren't able to be JUST a friend to her because it hurts too much!  Break it off, forever, and begin dating immedialy.  You know the story....If you love something set it free, if it comes back... you did alright...
596731
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
80002
The same thing I told another friend.\n\n\nif he's nice to you\nif he treats you right\nif both of your like to hang out togeather.\n\nif your answer is yes, then i think you should go for it.
282459
Make it mutual, if you and u have been friends for a long time she'll probably want to be friends back, just go back up to her and say you know if you want to be friends again it's okay with me if you don't wan to be friends whatever that's cool. If she truely is your friend she'll want to be friends again.
368313
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
403647
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
478139
maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
651960
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
68722
well, you should be friends with someone because you like them, not just because you wanna be with them...\n\nsurely, you like this girl as a person? if not, then there's no reason to be friends with them OR go out with them?
515096
Your not going to mess things up, find security. You said that you started out as friends.Just don't change at all. Don't you see that she is happy with you?