thi  happened a  long  time  ago, to  me ,  my    sister and  two younger brothers. would  like  to   know   if   they   would do  any   thing  to   our oldest  brother.
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It depends on where you live, i think. Where I live there is no limit on time. You can report someone, even decades later.
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Choose your moment then sit them down and tell them what happened. don't give them intimate details but let them know how unwelcome this mans advances were. They will probably be shocked and upset and you need to have someone outside of the family to give you support after the event. Don't suffer in silence, it won't get any easier or go away. Wishing you the best of luck
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It sounds like your brother may not want to be found or he has been kidnapped,and the people holding him are allowing him to write to you.\n\nAs far as finding him,I would pray! and then pray some more!\nDont ever give up!God Bless you and your mom! God bless your brother too!
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Being that I have a sister that does the EXACT same thing I can honestly answer "yes" you/me have been used.  All the things you've explained are very familiar sounding.  The problem lies in them being spoiled rotten and getting everything given and done for them.  Do what I did and put your foot down, enough is enough eventually he'll realize what is going on and the shoe will be on the other foot.  It got to the point where my sister was monopolizing all of my time and resources that my own family was going without, and that wasn't happening anymore.  It's called tough love and unfortunately it has to be done.  Good luck and I'll be thinking of you because I know how painful it's going to be.  But to answer your question...yes of course your brother loves you.
94237
I think your brother would want you to do something that makes you happy, that's what I would want my sister to do. Just think of him kindly and enjoy your day.
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im so sorry about your brother. i wish i could answer your questions but i cant :-(. all i can say is just pray night and day i hope you all pull through this and im sure you will.
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no, i do not think you should.. how would you feel if some real damage happened to  your brother... and there very easily could be.. you do not know what could happen and neither does he...people jumping on your stomach can do great damage.. he wants to prove he is tough .. for why... i would not go along with it and have it on my consious anyway...but you are the one that has to live with it if damage is done... so i hope the best for you all..
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To the best of my memory, I believe it was when Daddy gave my older brother, me, and my younger sister a whipping for lying to him.  They  had left us at a picture show and told us to do what our older brother told us to and not to leave the theater until they got there.  Well, when the movie was over, my brother told us to walk to where they were supposed to be, which was a good five miles away.  Well, we took off with him, got there and they were not there, we turned around and walked back(all of this was taking place at night).  My brother told us to lie and tell them we were in the bathroom all that time, which was stupid, but that's what we did. We never did lie to him again after that.  My brother was in the fourth grade, I was in the second, and my sister was in the first.
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=what a loving sister you are.  Every family and probate Court have free legal counsel.  I would call and find out about this and go and talk to thee lawyer.  He/she could be thee answer to your problem.  Best of luck to you and your siblings..
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Something about this does'nt ring true. It was a hens night, right so no men were there.In the company.These girls would not just leave you.You were the bride to be,everyone of them would be out to look after you They did'nt all just up and leave.On the possibility(which I doubt)that this occured I'd be not sitting at a computer revealing all. i'd have told the law some time ago More especially if one of them was my brother If he's already done time for rape do you know what get for this?
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Both my brother and I had ours removed while we were kids.  His ruptured and was quite serious.  But my other 8 siblings still have theirs.
117331
Tell your parents, tell the principal, kick their ass..Do you have any brothers.
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I know it hurts real bad...I know this from experience. I caught my brother with my g/f after he lost his job, and place to live so I moved him in with us..BAD MISTAKE!!! I left her at that moment when I caught them without turning and looking back...I just said we are through got my stuff and left...My brother ran after me and I told him to "go F*** off you made my bed now lay in it all you want" Two weeks later I went back to my house with a Sheriff and handed them both a piece of paper saying that the court has ordered them to vacate the premises. that following weekend I had a yard sale and sold all my brothers stuff and hers and they couldn't do anything because they had no reciepts so I said everything was mine. 7 years later they are happily living in a homeless shelter with 2 kids and I haven't spoken to either of them since the day they tried to get me for selling their *oopps* MY STUFF..lol...Just don't threaten or say anything you will regret as a person...You don't have to go to their level....You will be in my prayers and turn to friends they will help out alot...
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i use to be in that position. but we didnt keep it a secret, my brother didnt really mind, but one day he got wasted n fought my bf. then they stopped talkin to each other, but we stil went out, for a yr, then in da middle, they started to talk to each other. i say tell your brother, he might understand, and he might respect you guys for telling him straight.
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So I don't understand what your asking exactly, but...I'm sure your brother wouldn't be too happy about his friends messin with his sister.
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obvioulsy i am not a boy, but i have 4 brothers and i have heard a lot! some are did it hurt, did it hurt wen u fell from heaven. and another one. are you tired? because u have been running thru my mind all day haha there yuo go thats wat its like in a house full of brothers!!
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Just let it be. If you have a good relationship with him, maybe he will come to you about it.  My big brother confronted me and actually outed me in a public location.  Needless to say, I have less respect for him for handling it that way.