I have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and he loves me too he says.. well he is 15 and im gonna be 14 and he is gonna propose to me in a month or two he told his mom and my friends and his.. what should i say my parents said they will alow me to get married.. Should i say yes or no.. what do u think.. i love him with all my heart and when we are with each other he is the only thing that matters to me nuttin else matters......
131698
Well, I'm glad you too love other. But both of you are far too young to get married. You see, even adults make mistakes in marriage when they rush into these things. So, I would suggest that you keep your friendly relationship until both of you are adults. By then, you will be more mature and can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other in love. So, hang on together and wait another 4 years (at least). Good luck.
596169
Who knows?  Maybe you guys really aren't ready to get engaged.  There's alot of pressure on couples when they get engaged.  People EXPECT that you're getting married pretty soon and they want to know a date and they want to know what you're planning for the wedding.  It sounds like your man shouldn't have promised something that he wasn't sure about.  It's unfair to say that "by this date we will get engaged" because things happen.  It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't want to get engaged, it just means what he said, you guys aren't ready.  Maybe there's financial reasons behind that.  But a really good solution to this problem (because I know you are disappointed) is if your boyfriend still wants to get engaged and married in the future....he should buy you a promise ring.  My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we're not ready to get engaged or married yet either.  But a promise ring lets you and your friends and family know that you guys are planning to get married one day, just not right now.  I wear my promise ring on my left ring finger like an engagement ring and I'm very happy with it.  I think you would be too.  Sit tight dear, you'll get married one day.
666959
love has no bounds... if your guy loves you so much so that he can go against this world.... go with your guy.... its very difficult to find a pure love.... if you think you have found one, do anything to save that love.... people are not always so lucky.....\nif you dont have any blood relation then i don't see why you both can't get married.....\nbut before telling your parents... talk to your guy... as to whether he will be there standing with you or not.....
189586
Talk to him about it. Say something like you know I want to marry you but I'm getting worried that it may never happen because...\nHe may not even realize that it's that important to you and that's way he's putting it off. Or he may be doing it on purpose. But if he cares about you and wants to be with you i bet after he knows how important it is to you he will get on the ball. Either way talking about is the only way you will know for sure.
576684
hi..dts gud havin a boy friend..i do have one..c,just handle the situation carefully...tell your parents first,and make them understand the depth in love u have for ur guy..it always takes some time for ur parents to agree...bt,still u wait and wait...jus dont run away with him...bcoz that most of the couples do these days whn their parents are not allowin...tell dm that you really cant live with out him....and the main part is,you must have satisfied all your parents expectations..........let them know love these days is not a big thing to worry about...it vil take time,wait to hold the hands of ur guy forever,gud luck..........
466539
Your relationship seems rock solid. Don't let anyone including your parents get in the way. Your parents care about you and want the best for you. They haven't taken your relationship seriously yet. Make your parents respect your relationship by investing more time in your relationship with your fiance and less with your parents. Show them you are perfectly fine on your own. Oh, by the way, marriage is cool too. Don't be afraid.
257597
call me old fashioned but the man shud do it...\nif u really want to, we cant help, proposals are personal they should convey ur love in a way that represents ur relationship. \na tip? make sure he will say yes, dont just spring it on him
73879
If they are as close to you as you say they are then you would never lose them over marrying this girl. If so they are crappy parents at giving unconditional love and support as they should be. How old are you by the way? If you are young that could be a reason. Parents are usually almost always right about these kinds of things. You are a grown @$$ man though and they need to back off and let you live and learn. Fallow you gut feelings, not your heart. Your heart will ALWAYS get you into trouble!
148840
Well, it you are at an appropriate age (15 and up in my opinion), and you are really interested in this guy... not physically please (remember...true love waits)... I encourage courtship... there's a book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris, and it's wonderful (it's about courting)... that way you and your parents can be involved and there won't be any secrets and the respect can still remain. Believe me if you are open and honest with your parents and help them understand that you want a healthy friendship with this young man, there shouldn't be a problem.  Best of luck...es
456152
I'm 20 and my fiance is 21.. weird... same ages.. we've been together for 3 years and engaged 1.. we will have been engaged for 2 and together 4 when we get married next September. I don't think age is an issue.. you have to do whats right for you when you're ready, you can't put a time frame on love  :) if you and your boyfriend want to be engaged 20 years and have a 10 year honeymoon, by all means.. do it ... do whatever makes you happy.. life is too short to worry about what other people think =)  good luck
627074
Okay it all depends, do you love her, are yall gonna get married, if she supports u more than ur parents then go for it. Besides, ur gona have to leave the house at some point in ur life to have ur own life and be a man. And yea u took a risk, cuz u never know wat the future holds and u guys could breakup, but point is u left the house as ur own man with a life, and ur parents should cut the cord and accept ur decisions. Its time to make ur own decisions and they should do no more than say okay. Its understandable why they said what they said. My fiance and i been living together for awhile, we have a son and every decision we make is for the best for him, and we are HAPPY. So if our family dont approve, then they are losing out, we never told them to divorce or leave anyone they were with or else. But u should try to contact them a couple of more times, try to talk to them if theyll listen, but it sounds like they just wont let go, but both parties should consider each other and why they feel the way they do. IF you and ur girl are happy then great. this has nothing to do with ur girlfriend, its between u and them, and this can make ur relationship with ur gf and parents stronger if yall make a final decision of the end result. i.e. mom and dad are gonna do this, my gf and i are gonna do that, the end. Just remember they all love you.
496682
Sure.  Why not?  If you truly love each other, I just married my husband in August and he is 14 1/2 yrs older than me.  Some times these things just work out that way.  I think it is a great idea to wait a few years to make sure things work out.  He and I were together for 3 yrs first, and yeah a job would be in order, those weddings are very expensive. And, sure, if you want to wait until your wedding night, then that is your choice.  Don't let him, or anyone else tell you that you have to.... if he truly loves you he will respect your decision.
335829
Stay in the relationship and get married if you are in love.  Why should your parents decide?  Do they live your life?  Will it be them who lay awake at night and miss the person who has been there for the last 6 years?  Will it be them who will someday look into the eyes of another and wonder if they would be happier if they had been stronger and followed their heart?  Were you not both given life by the same Creator?
577775
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
295984
Give them a chance and if it doesnt work out then oh well im only 15 and a sophmore in high school and i am dating a 17 yr old senior and i swear we are giong to get married.  Everything is perfect between us so give them a chance who knows you might be suprized.  And no it is not wrong to do sexual stuff with them as long as they are accepting it
471324
It doesn't have anything to do with your parents.  Yea, it would be nice if they were still around for the wedding.  But your girlfriend is that one that you are marrying.  If you guilt trip her into marrying you earlier than she wanted, she will regret it and so will you.  This is between you and her.  You two make the decision and set the date.  If she is afraid to approach her parents offer to go there with her, or invite them for dinner and announce it there.  Don't rush her because your parents said so, you are grown, you can make your own decisions.  Good luck.
408708
Your parents are correct in some of their thoughts, being a parent I understand what they are saying to you.  Now being a young parent, I remember what it was like when I was your age and your thoughts and feelings as well.  So I will give you advice based on what my past, similar to yours, has taught me and what I have learned.  You feel that you are truly in love with him and I believe that feeling is valid.  However, the love you feel and the person you choose to be with when you are 15 is much different than the person you will choose or feel to be with when you are 21 and yet again 27.  So understand as much as you love him, he is not sounding as though he would be the best person for you.  He has relationship issues, and not sure but obviously has done something that is not in the best interest or he wouldn't be under house arrest.  There is a huge age difference between 15 and 18.  3 years is not a big difference when you are older, but it is when you are younger.  You at 15 should be happy, living life to the fullest, not worrying so much about things of this nature.  Relationships all have their ups and downs and people who really are committed yes work through them, but relationships also shouldn't be a fight to be together, meaning they shouldn't always be work.  Now maybe you feel yours isn't but if it isn't now, it seems to be going in that direction.  Try, just try, taking your parents advice and back off for a bit.  Yes it will hurt and take some time, so don't think you should be happy immediately, but after some time, for everyone it is different, weeks, months, you may find you are happier with someone closer to your own age and without all of the relationship difficulties you are experiencing now.  Parents don't try to do or say things to hurt their child, they try to give you advice based on their wisdom, which comes from their experiences.  I wish you the best of luck as I don't think you will take this advice as to the extent of your love for this boy, however you may look back upon it and think, hmmm....  Gook luck to you whatever you decide to do.