I can understand two attracitve girls wanting to be together because women are beautiful.  Bur if you want to be with a girl, then be with a girl, not a girl that looks like, dresses like and acts like a man.  This makes no sense to me, why not just be with a man.  I know a lady that is "gay" and lives with another lady that has had a breast reduction, take hormones to grow facial hair, dresses like a guy and changed her name to "Dean".  If she wanted to be with a lady then why is she with someone that looks like a guy????
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i have often wondered that myself.  I have tlked to many gays & bi's and have not got an answer from them either.  it is like why does a gool looking girl like and ugly guy and vice versa
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i don't think its the same way as girls view gays?\nif I were to see two gays making out, there is nooo way would i want to join in.\nrather, i think guys wants lesbians because they are the unattainable. and as much as you want to join in their making out session, there is noooo way you'd be able to do so, simply because they are too into each other to be interested in boys. and thats what intrigues you guys, simple because you won't be able to get them.
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I dont think its odd..........but what about a very male looking butch??? thats what my partner is and I so agree about the male energy and female body!!! too many lesbians overlook just how incredible a butch can be..........I find the biggest problem (for me personally) with FTM is that the body changes so drastically when they are on male hormornes.......its not as female anymore.......give me breasts, hips, legs........etc......LOVE'EM!!!!
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No, it doesn't make any "SENSE". Between the lack of punctuation, the Internet lazy slang words and the spelling errors, it is nearly impossible to understand, but I think I have deciphered what you asked. \n\nGuy(1) likes your female friend\n\nYou like Guy(1)\n\nYour female friend likes Guy (1) & Guy(2)\n\nGuy(2) is your male friend\n\nGuy (2) likes your female friend and doesn't want her to like Guy (1) and is putting you in the middle.\n\nYou don't want your female friend to like Guy(1) because you like him.\n\nGuy (1) apparently likes you also.\n\nMy advice would be to stay out of your female friend's business and tell your male friend (Guy (2) ) that you don't want to be involved. Then you may want to reconsider being friends with your female friend because she is greedy and selfish, wanting to string both Guy (1) and Guy (2) along and keep you from being able to like either one of them. I would also reconsider why you want  Guy (1) since he seems to want to play both you and your friend. You should want someone that can make a commitment to just you. You should also want a friend that isn't selfish. Friendship, just like any other relationship, is give and take. That does not mean one gives and the other takes all of the time. If your female friend was truly your friend, she would not go after a guy that you liked. \n\nA.H.
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... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.
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I asked a similar question a couple months ago, because my wife is somewhat butch and constantly gets approached by men.  It does seem to happen a lot!  I think it's a combination of challenge, the woman being naturally attractive, men wanting a woman they can relate to as a friend, and men just having more interesting and varied tastes than they're told to have by the media.\n\nHere's my question and its answers:\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlHNZxGSruq3IcPhOzlBSrzsy6IX?qid=20061011084416AAZGDNJ
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I worked with a lesbian who has an identical twin. The twin has NO interest in women. The lesbian has NEVER been with a man. She swears that its a choice, not genetics. Makes sense to me.
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I have a theory that western society is presenting the ideal female as essentially a feminine looking boy with large breasts and fat lips. The top models have figures that look like a skinny 14 year old boy who has had breast and lip implants. It's sexist in a sense -- or maybe I should say bisexist? Younger men seem to be becoming more comfortable with the "effeminate boy" sex object than with real women.
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why do some straight women like men who are considered, "a man's man" while yet other straight women like men with more effeminate traits? \n\nSuppose there are just as many stereotypes of heterosexuals as there are homosexuals.
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Yeah, I don't think that's a bad thing!  I'm les, but I know some girls find feminine guys cute (and if you're gay, some gay guys find feminine guys cute, so you're good to go either way :).  I enjoy hanging out with guys who are feminine more than the really beefy, "macho" guys.  Feminine and masculine are all kind of relative terms, anyway.  I mean, what do they really mean?  I wish more guys didn't mind being called feminine, because sometimes I see a little boy or a guy and I just want to say, "Oh, he's pretty!"  Because they are!  Like my little brother has these long, gorgeous eyelashes.  Congrats for being comfy with who you are and what you look like!  Do you mind being called "pretty"?
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It's called "gender reassignment". Any girl who does that used to be a dude. That's right, a dude.
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I wouldn't want a woman either that looks like a guy, so I can agree with you on that. Other than that you should go for what's on the inside not outside. But I have a limit, if they look like a man then they aren't for me lol.
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Because you women want to know whether or not he is available.  If he says yes, then you women put him in your POSSIBILE category.  If he says no, then you put hime in the NO category or ask yourselves what does this other girl have to offer this guy that I don't have.  Women have low selfrespect and low self esteem in their lives, leading to asking this question.  If they had high self esteem, than these women would not ask this question because they would not care one way or the other.  Bottom line--Women are jealous of other women and usually want what the other woman wants.  Women may deny this statement, but when they sit down and think about it, this statement is totally correct.
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In the past, two "spinster" or unmarried women would often keep house together. Cousins and sisters also could do the same. Also, the thought of lesbian women has the affect of "turning men on" rather than revolting them as gay men do. Funny, isn't it?
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I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal.  I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed.  I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman.  I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally.  To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not.  And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive.  For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi.  I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.)  Hope this helped!
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I think it is partly the fact that the wome feel safe with them.  Thay know that the gay guy is not mentally undressing her as they talk.  Aslo there is a bit a a common ground they share (at least the straight girls and gay guys).  They can talk about the other guys they like.