hi i broke up with this girl couple weeks ago and after we broke up we did not talk at all. she broke up with me cuz she said she needs to improve on her grade cuz she got a C in class and she cried for that.  but she kept looking at me cuz my friends said she does and but she doesnt talk to me. why is that?  should i call her or just leave her alone?  but why is she keep looking at me but not talk to me?
128958
Sounds like she wants to be with you but she needs to work on her school first. Let her get her grades up but tell her you want to continue to be friends. It will all work out. She doesn't talk to you because she knows that if she does then she will end up with you again and she really does need some space for awhile to work on school.
269127
Don't just let her go.  That is not the right solution.  It is also not right to ground her for life.  I would try to talk to her and ask her what's going on in her life.  Try to be a good listener.  Maybe she's acting out and trying to get all sorts of attention from guys because she feels ignored.  Maybe plan a day where you can just do things together (and let her choose what you do).
298118
All you can do is give her a hug and tell her that you are there for here.I have been in that situation where I have something wrong with me and my ex used to ask me what was wrong, I never told him, he would just get up and go into the other room. Dont do that. I know from experience even if she doesnt want to talk, she might still like you to be with her and hold her so she knows that she is not alone
652456
The last time I answered an "urgent" question, the questioner never came back to pick a Best Answer.\n\nBut, anyway, here goes...\n\nIf you're going to play that silly game of "I'm busy over here with my friends" then be prepared to suffer the consequences. Basically, you snubbed her a number of times and she ended doing a "f*ck you too, buddy" on you. Then you wonder why...\n\nWakey, wakey. If you're ever going to have a chance with this girl then you need to stop playing games and communicate with her normally, treat her with respect and just let it lie for now.\n\nIf this is how you typically behave then we now know why she dumped you.
457220
Keeping in mind that she just broke up with her boyfriend, I would take it slow, but not too slow (girls hate that).  \n\nYou said you have a school thing you are going to with her.  Yes, get her number and I would call her more that just for that.  Call her to talk about stuff like you talk about in school.  Call her on the weekends to see how things are going.  I would give her about a week or so, and then I would see if the phone calls are making any progress (i.e. she keeps showing interest and seems excited that you called). \n\nThen, I would ask her out to a nice casual dinner and a movie (maybe a movie at your house or hers, so you aren't so separated all night with the hustle of getting a seat at the movie and the crowd.  That way you still can talk during the movie if you are at your house.\n\nHope to be helpful!!  Good Luck!
263000
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
390473
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
461321
she misses you and still has feelings for you. the fact that she continues to try and contact you even though you have been ignoring her attempts says she cares a lot more than you may know. all signs are pionting to the fact that she is probably sick of transition boy and wants to rekindle some sort of relationship with you. good luck.
610266
Dude, it's only been 6 months.  Either you got too close or she did and you both of you are retarded for letting that happen.  Leave her alone and move on.  Quit calling, delete her Myspace info from yours (MySpace is stupid anyways and will be shut down this December), and let her be.  She'll forget about you faster than you can her, but you'll be back to normal in a week or 2.
276261
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
87326
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
560918
The reason I broke up with you is because I DON'T like what you do.  The other girls and I have been talking in the bathroom on first break and we've decided that you absolutely suck in the sack.  We all faked it to get you to go on and finish.  \n\nRent some instructional videos... that is all I can tell ya, buddy.
149904
First off when you assume you make an ass of u and me.  Rule 1.  If she dumped you because of SAT's then why did she get back with her ex. That's obviously not the reason she broke things off.  Perhaps, I find this usually works, if you find someone else to spend time with, it makes the other party jealous and it'll help you to get over the girl in question.
379166
Because she likes you, but she was with her boyfriend, and she didn't want him to notice her noticing you.  \n\nFind out why she won't break up with her boyfriend if she really likes you. Don't let her string you along by flirting online but then ignoring you when you see her.\n\n\nFind someone who would be proud to be with you!\n\ngood luck!
335403
talk to her. her friends were being a bunch of b!tches. does she ever talk to you like in the halls or during class? she smiled at you, that's always a good sign. well i hope i helped! good luck!
169016
well first of all I would not rush into anything, girls need at least a little time to get over a break up.  I would also consider talking to Kaleb and letting know how that you are interested in Kaylee, it would be better for him to find out from you, then from someone else.  And be Kaylees friend and be there for her, you will know from there what to do.
403679
First of all she is waiting for you to contact her, as she turned you down, she is probably wondering if you are still talking/friends with her. \nShe dosen't wanna change the relationship because the way it is feels safe, and she dosen't wanna change/risk that. By her saying that she dosen't deserve you shows she is maybe a bit insecure and has been hurt in the past, she feels she wouldn't live up to your expectations, Saying your easy means she would be worried that you wouldn't stay faith ful, or you would be off with the next bit of skirt that looked your way, is it that she has seen you cheat or heard how you talk even when your with someone?\nTrust her when she says she wouldn't lie, chill out, txt her saying your sorry if you put her in a difficult situation but it's was because how lovely you think she is, then go back to normal, go out like normal, don't put it off or you''ll both feel weird, just from now on make sure you don't chat up girls in front of her or talk about cheating etc, then you never know, maybe next time she'll be asking you, if it's meant to be you'll get together in time.