i want this guy but he has a gf and i dont want to ruin their relationship should i go out with some one else or wait or give up or what you tell me i reall ylove him what do i do
135828
If you want someone find a guy of your own. Any guy that can be stolen is not worth having because he will do it to you, too. Don't ever intentionally hurt another individual and good luck finding someone who will treat you with respect. That only happens if you respect others.
81733
Your friends are right.  You need to break this cycle and stop living your life waiting for something that may never happen.  You deserve a man who will choose you first over all other girls and not one that can't make up his mind and picks you only when it is convenient.  This guy is just playing you and keeping you around for when his other relationship has problems.
162642
Oooo, you are in a tough spot.  I think you should not pursue anything and wait for him.  He might just be really comfortable with his sexuality.  Wait and see if they break up. He might like you too but not be sure about what to do next.\n\nI wouldn't want to make a move on one of my girl friends and insult them or scare them away, you know?\nGood luck, just be smart.
26995
Do what your heart says to do, dont waste time on someone you obviously dont care much about, dont make it a routine with someone, when you could have the real relationship you want! Go for it man!
101542
He has someone.  Why waste your time.  You are setting your own standard.  If you know he has someone, and he knows you know he has someone, but you continue to try to be with him you are allowing him to use you as a toy.  You would allow him to have his cake and eat it too.  Why would he leave his current girl if you will let him have "access" to you?  \n\nWhy do you want someone who will inevitable "do u like he's doing his current girl"?  \n\nYou are worth much more than that and believe me, if you don't realize that right now, later on, you will!!  \n\nGood Luck!!
583054
don't wait around for the gurl...it might not work out in the end and u'll have all that wasted time thrown away, and u'd miss ur chance w/ the new chick..so don't ever wait around...move on....if she liked ya that much, u both would already be together again...and a relationship doesn't exactly work out the second time...so go for the new girl...and have fun!!! oh and since it didn't work out the first time, what makes u honestly think it's goin to work out the second time or the third???
322741
Think about it.  If he leaves his girlfriend for you, what's to stop him from leaving you for someone else who likes him and tells him.  So you're screwed either way - find someone who's single!
204502
Well he is taken already so yeah you can't go up to him and ask him how he feels for you. But still talk to him and keep an eye on him. Who knows him might break up with his gf to be with you if he really likes you.
378874
Honestly....If it was me I wouldn't waste my time. If he's really interested in you then you getting with another guy might make him see what he's been missing. But in all seriousness though. If he shows no sighns of leaving the other girl then you HAVE to move on. Finding a new guy might make you think twice about your first choice. Lifes too short to stay stuck on one guy. Especially in your teen years...if your a teen.
200213
Yes, stop you mate.  You need to decide who you want to be in a relationship with.  If it is the other girl, you have to be a man and properly end your current relationship, before you go on to the next.
261113
Don't even bother, nothing good can come of that. Even if you do manage to get him it's a horrible way to begin a relationship, knowing that you helped ruin his relationship with another girl. Just move on and be patient, but sometimes you just have to accept that fact that life is unfair.
217133
he said yes! no matter what he thinks of his girlfriend, he said yes. you do however, need to tell him you only want to go as friends, if you didn't already. and if he likes you, you need to respect his gf and not go ANY further than friends. And if he does just want to go as friends, what a cool guy. Have fun! And good job for asking a guy!
152854
If you chose to go out with him that is your choice. However know that you might get hurt. Go into it knowing what your expectations are and let him know and do not expect more out of him then you think you can handle.\nI think it would be much easier to be with someone you can trust though that is just my opinion
522216
well if hes already gotta gf then dont go for him \ncuz that just means ur his last resort\nif ur really into him.......it just might b ok\nbut bcuz i have this strong of feelings for him \nthen i think u should grab up the courage to tell him u like him\nif he dont like u back\njust think to urself\nfine, its his loss\nhe missed out on somethin really great\nlook for other guys then just him\n\nBTW: i hoped this advice helps
26622
yes u have 2 move on i spent all of last year in that same situation and it doesnt workout,find another guy ur interested in.he probably isnt gonna leave his g/f 4 u and if he does then he would do that 2 u too.i pretty much had 2 erase him from my mind,it was hard but i did it and im fine now.(if u find a sweetie then go 4 him instead)
164097
there was probably a good reason why she is now an ex, go for the new girl. you don't know if the new girl will be a better choice unless you try, besides, she already has a man so why should you wait? did she wait for you?
480782
just stay friend for now with both of them. i know what I'm taken about these are words of wisdom I'm telling you. really people get hurt don't mess around with this ok?! \ntell yourself that u are going to wait.\noh and if that guy says he can't waite than ask him if your worth waiting for. look him in the eyes when u ask though. guys will respect a girl that wants time for this kind of thing. and respect is important in something like this.\n\nnow remember "am i worth waiting for" ask them both why don't yu than u can see both their eyes and look for the truth not what you want to see. \n\ngood luck hope u do the right thing.\ni'l pray for you.