we been together for almost 4 yrs.
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for some girls, a wonderful boquet of white roses and a dinner from a nice restaurant will be very much overwhelming.. but if i were your gf, id rather choose just to be with you for the whole day and just make me feel that you really love me will overwhelm me.. because material things are not important.. as the time goes by, it may be destroyed even how much we take care of it.. but the memories will never fade nor be destroyed.. its not really important wether you buy your gf a thing worth one million dollars or what.. what important is, you remember her birthday and you are eager to give her something special.. love, trust, respect for another for years or so of your relationship can be one of your gifts to her that will surely sweep her feet of the ground.. =)
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Since you say "we will not be together" I assume you 2 are splitting up.  When that happens the parents will find out.
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How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
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in my opinion, around 8-10 months.. or hopefully when you dont see him/her everywhere you go :) more if you're still reminiscing your times together
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Hey , this sounds great to me.  You have a life long friend there.  Keep up the good work.  Go ahead and play with your toys and each other.  Enjoy being kids.
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I was 22, my girlfriend just turned 16\nwe had a 4.5years together\n\nage makes NO DIFFERENCE in love\n\nyou do as you please, just keep her happy
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tell him yore problem.. talk to him.... and then.. if he still doesn't .. then well.... i think its better if you went yore way.. but since you've been with him for 4 yrs.. its hard.. but try it....good luck (^_^) !
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It may just be a really close friendship, but I started dating my husband when we were 16 and we have never looked back. If it was meant to be, then it will be, dont try and rush it or anything, just be there for her and see what happens
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This is a very difficult situation you are in. While 4 years may or may not seem like a lot. At his age, and at yours, four years can be critical. People change a lot in four years (emotionally) at his and your age. He still has to go through highschool, you will soon be entering your young adult years. While now you two may seem to have a lot in common or can see the world through the same eyes, you can just as easily find that you are worlds a part in as little as a year. I would recommend you talk to an adult that you trust and has your best interests at heart. There guidance can help you decide what to do since they know you better than we do. I wish you well.
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how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more
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Girl, if you have known him for 4 years like you say, you SHOULD meet. Whether for sex or not, you should have physical attraction as well as spiritual and intellectual.
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10 years is a lot, so bring out all the crazy pictures and make a slide show or something. \n\nget a picture of you two made. that shows that after all these years you are still very much in love. \n\nyou and other half could write something to each other and read it out loud --- if you want to. \n\nand of course --- dress nice..
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Don't wait forever. Move on... If you were together for a couple of years it might take you while to get over it.
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Yes- its been 20 years! Besides, its hard work! We are all trained in and used to each other- besides, he's my best friend. How cool is it to be able to joke with someone, share your secrets and make great love?
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Been together 4 months you should be able to talk..\n\nBefore you tell him be for sure.\n\nNot kinda because them or words in which you and him will teasure.\n\nWish you and him the best.
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That depends on how serious you two are.  If it is the "real thing," gather up photos and memorabilia of your times together and do a collage.  Sounds sappy, but it truly cool.
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No it doesn't mean they were not "right" for each other.  People change over time, it is natural in all of us to become different as we grow and life changes.  So things just didn't work out after the growing up and life changes.  That doesn't mean in the beginning they weren't perfect together or madly in love with each other.  Deep down they can both remember the good times and will always have a love for each other.  Good luck to you and Take Care of yourself.