I mean, I barely met this one guy a couple weeks ago, and I really like him, and I've heard him say he thinks i'm cute, but he's shy!  What do I do?  I am not the kind of girl who would make a first move.....
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Well, you can always wait around until some other chik comes and takes him, then you can wonder: "what if I did make the first move" for the rest of your life, or you can shoot! I would deff. say go for it. Good luck!\n\nGarrett
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believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
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If a man is truly interested, he'll go for you no matter what. He might be shy about it at first but eventually he will go for it. I am more old fashion when it comes to dating so I think you should sit back and be confident in yourself and if he is the one for you, it will happen all on its own. Don't try to push for anything...just let things happen. I think you should make sure you are being confident in yourself...walk tall...and know that any guy would be lucky to have you...if he likes you great...if not...next please! Just move on if need be! :-)
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Me personally, it wouldnt matter how he went about asking me out.  It shows he is interested no matter how he has done it.  I would think to myself if he sent me a text message or left a voice mail that he was a shyer type guy, but if I liked him, then I would certainly reply.    I think the main thing is that his interest in me is obvious no matter how he did it, and if you are interested, then contact him...hes made the first move regardless of how hes done it.\n\nJust do what you feel comfortable in doing and see what happens.  Dont worry so much about protocol, just be happy that he is interested....Maybe hes shy.....shy is not wimpy.
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He would pro ably be flattered, and in fact he pro ably feels the same way about you, you just probably seem a little distanced from him because it sounds like you aren't making the effort to be with him alone, as a guy let me tell you we can be really stupid and blind...Let him know but not straight up tell him he looks cute blah blah make it seem like your interested than call his ass!
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Compliment him a little to get his attention and later on when you see a chance to walk with him by yourself do so and then let him know you think he is cute. The rest should fall into place, if he is not intereted then take it hard just take it as well my time wont be wasted anymore and move on.
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Yeah I think he likes you but maybe he's just shy.  Why don't you try talking to him, see what his reaction is.  You could just start off with casual conversation and take it from there.
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Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want.  Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
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It sounds like he likes you but he's too shy to tell you. Talk to him maybe you will come to learn that he is a really nice guy.
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You need to start coming out of your shell. You think you are shy, but I guarantee you that most everyone else is too. Just be your happy outgoing self and the right guy will notice you. BUT, don't forget, he is probably to shy to approach you too. So you may have to be the one to break the ice. Good luck. GaryT
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does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
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Try to spend more time with him. if he does like you and knows that you are available, he'll make the first step.
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shy? i guess\n:o) dont think too much.. havent known him for long? probably you will find out more later!\ngood luck
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Personally, I would rather let the guy make the first move. But, sometimes guys need help in doing this especially if he is a super shy one. One thing that you can do is give hints to him that you like him.\n\nIf he truly likes you, he probably have sent you some birthday gifts, valentine cards, or something.\nRespond to his tiny move by telling him that you appreciates his gestures.\n\nmake it the LAST effort for you to actually make the first move.\npersonally, i would not think a girl is desperate when she makes the first move (actually, i think it's pretty cool).\nBUT, I am just one guy. I CANNOT SAY THAT YOUR GUY WOULD THINK THE SAME LIKE I DO.
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since your shy it may be easier to go out in a group date or outing.  some of your friends and some of his.  go bowling or something interactive (not the movies, you cant talk- or see for that matter)  and take it slowly.  ask him about simple things then move on from there.  if he likes you as much as he shows you, once you start to show interest he'll come around to you.
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i think that the guy likes you but just like you does not know if you like him or not!!! I really think that you should wait a while and see his reactioin by flirting with him more. THen if you truly believe he likes you go for it!!! IF you r not sure then let him make the move! Just keep on flirting your charm will work!
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sorry but that is the answer, you have to fight that shyness and be bold.  it doesn't have to come out as forceful.  Maybe your hints were too subtle.  Just casually mention, 'i really like you,' and just go on with the conversation. it doesn't have to focus on that issue. just be calm.