See, no big deal right? But he's also my ex..what do I do?
131232
Good the first basics of love is friendship sounds like you both need to talk and pacth up things. Sometimes people make mistakes nows the time for you and him to fix them and be happy.
229660
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
248162
You need to stick to your guns.  It sounds like you were right on track dumping distancing yourself from the ex.  He is now showing his true colors, ie. he's an a-hole.  You shouldn't feel bad for it ending this way.  It is his decision to make it this way.  You tried to remain civil by telling him you only want to be friends.  You should just make sure you make it very clear that you want to have nothing to do with him and to leave you alone.  If he doesn't, enlist the help of the local police to help you.  Maybe even a restraining order.\n\nIn the meantime, you only live once so if you enjoy the new guy a lot, then keep doing it.\n\ngood luck
607920
Intentionally or not, he's playing you both and he's already made his decision. The only way you are not going to lose him is to remain friends and leave it at that. You guys divorced for a reason and he remarried for a reason. \n\nIt's you that needs to make that decision, not him.
484028
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
192055
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
273588
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Remember that. It sounds like you have a good relationship with this other guy, I think you need to let your ex go and forget about anything that might take you back to him. You are not being fair to either guy by running to the other when you have problems. Instead, get on yahoo answers to help solve your problems...lol! just kidding. But seriously, you need to move on with this new guy. You might feel things for your ex and that is natural because you have a past together...but it's just that, a past. Time to look to the future and move on. Good luck!
245566
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
105145
I would let it go if I were you. If he really cared about you he would have called you. If he hasn't called you because of your ex, then he isn't going to take this relationship any further whether you call him or not. Sorry, don't set yourself up to get hurt anymore.
618220
you should just tell him that you need some time to think about the way things are going. take a break from the relationship. maybe after you leave him for a lil bit,  you'll start missing him, and that may get your ex out for good. and if you say there's no chance with you and your ex, then it's better for you to look for a way to just forget about him, that's only gonna hold you back.
99262
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
331554
If he is your Ex, tell him it is over and quit playing games...If you are done with the Ex leave him alone and reassure your new BF that it is over and he has nothing to worry about with him...\n\nDon't play games...someone could get really hurt and it may be you!!  Be careful when dealing with someones heart!!!
11312
Well thats tough...his friend is your EX right?  Therefore, it may be akward but it shouldn't be that bad.  But that really depends on how you guys broke up.  If it was bad and you guys aren't friends try to catch your guy at a time when he isn't with your ex.  In the hallway, a free period, after school, walking home/to transportaion.  Try and become friends with him.  Strike up a convo with him.  Learn his interests and show intrest in them.  Make him laugh and smile.  He'll appreciate you for it.  Don't try to hard though.  Once you guys are friends move foward from there.
455694
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
320183
I would say that you should talk to your ex about it and see what he has to say. Maybe he can talk to his his brother. If not then you should consider embarrassing the brother at least in-front of his Friends. But first you should talk to your ex.
317582
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
363760
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.