they say ure appove but they be like not at this time they tell lies like in the begining there like ure appove no matter what then the try to brush u off easy with a liitle note sorry u havent met our standards get back with use in a couple of weeks they talk trash what sounds goog isnt
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Well, keep in mind there are different types of credit card solicitations.  \n\nPre-selected - Means they got your phone # and address basically out of the phone book.  They have no knowledge of your credit, age, income, employment status, etc. (junk mail)\n\nPre-qualified- They may know a little bit about you such as your name, address, and birth day.  They have never pulled your credit however, they got your name possibly from a previous relationship you may have had like a bank account and sent the solicitation.  With your permission they will pull your credit.\n\n*pre-approved- Typically these people already know somehow that you have good credit and they will just, with your permission, pull your credit again to make sure nothing has changed and they will offer you credit based on your current HOUSEHOLD income (hope you live with your parents Ex. 150,000 + your own income) and your credit history.  \n\nBy the way. When you okay someone to look at your credit you will lose approx. 3 points off your credit score.  If you have had more than 3 inquires into credit your credit score goes down by 5pts each time.  This may be why you are not qualifying for credit lately.  I think avg credit score appeared on Yahoo a couple days ago at 674?
446409
You are either lying, or you are one F**ked up individual.
592553
Yeah, just carry on enjoy it while you can, then at least when you do tell them it will show that they are truluy the dumb one
381287
If they are not coming anymore, then let it be. They are sulking. What you did ie telling them and insisting that they call is a very brave thing to do. Keep it up and do not allow them to bully you.
624992
Maybe they don't respond after a while because it's too hard understanding what it is you're saying.
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They like to talk and they want every one to think that they are so good at being clean, they think that we are listening and that they have their act together. Most of these people are full of shit, and like to rattle on and on. I know it can really get old, fast.
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Assert yourself ..call them on it..when they decide to start talking ..tell them.. so why couldnt you say that while they were there..I would say i know yall do the same to me when i leave but you all need to grow up...ppl like that are so phoney that they will like you just because you said something..funny thing is i always rub ppl the wrong way when i start a new job..but once i establish they better keep it light around me,, they respect that.  try it.
2573
They usually act nice towards you because they don't want you to kow that they are cheating.  They also ask you if you've been cheating because subconciously, they are preoccupied with the thought of cheating.<---Just my personal opinion.
26212
what thet really means is they like they just don't want to show that they like you. thats all that is!!!
378160
Sometimes, when you need to be... but you should express how you feel, some people cant handle the truth... its always a soft spot, just let em have it easy...
515440
Dont say anything, just give them a long look that says it all. A dead pan face that conveys " You are an idiot"
647742
Because they THINK they are better than you, when in all honesty, they are not.
509669
Well let's see:\n\nYou are mean to her\n\nAnd\n\nShe lies to you and cheats on you\n\nSounds like you two are a match made in heaven\nor\nYou need to get away from each other because you obviously bring out the worst in one another
628270
Because they think you can do better, and they're just fustrated with you.  Well with my experiences it's usually fustrating because they come and complain about their men/women, but then always go back to them at the end of the day.
61744
There are many ways, but u have to show that u care what they say sometimes i hate people who dont pay attention to what i say.
124223
Don't believe what they say. They are jealous and try to make themselves feel better by tearing you down. Be above it. They are small.
632239
tell them the semi truth.  tell them you have to talk it over with someone etc.  that way you get some time to think about everything