Is it me? Should I give him room and time? What should I dooooooooooooooooo?!
131516
No, you are not the reason he is not opening up. But, yes, do give him space and time. When he is ready he will talk to you (or not). From my experience, men like to work things out by themselves, and if he works it out successfully he might tell you or more customary just act like it. You will know its all better just by his mannerisms.\n\nBut for now space and time, ok honey. It's all good, just be patient, y'll see. Hope I helped a lil.
653384
I really think he is THAT busy. He has a lot on his plate right now, and although you would like to have MORE  right now, there is jusy not a lot more to give, at least at the time being. Hang in there.....it could be worth it in the long run!
469029
I THINK YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN AND HAVE "SERIOUS TALK" WITH HIM. YOU SHOULD EXPLAIN EVERYTHING THAT U WRITTEN ABOVE AND MAYBE HE WOULD UNDERSTAND INSTEAD OF YOU JUST SAYING YOUR TIRED OF IT THAT SHOULD WORK.
539061
so if you love him, give him the time and the space he asked for
504298
Sounds to me like hes had enough of your fussing.  How often do you do this.  Maybe he sees you as a nag, and hes just had enough. I think the taking the key of the key ring is a sure indicator that hes not happy and asking you to pick up your stuff is another sure indicator that he has had enough.  Sure, he may need his space, but it sounds to me like its more than that.  The fussing bit makes me a bit suspicious and I reckon hes just had enough of the fussing.  Maybe he still loves you, I dont know,  maybe hes just sick of the "fussing".  Maybe the simplest thing would be to talk to him....ask him what the reasons are he want you to pick up your stuff.  If its because you nag at him all the time and you want to keep him, then youve got to find a way to stop nagging and assure him you will stop doing it.  It may not be that reason at all...but he is the only one who knows the reason, so it is him you need to be asking.\n\nGood luck
158658
Nope.. but.. he likes you much.. he needs a space.. give'm space.. he still like you much..
213227
Man needs space. Man must eat. Man stupid.\n\nGetting him to see a psicologist is a great move. He needs it.\nIn the meantime, talking to him about it will help. It always does help to talk about it. I tip my hat for you, you are there for him in his hour of darkness. You need to be strong and patient as well, this might take a while. Good Luck to you both.
354437
Just be honest with him and tell him that you need his room for the new child, and that you will be happy to help him look for a new place to live. Tell him that you will give him his last month free so he can use that money to help offset the cost of paying rent and probably a security deposit to move to a new place. Perhaps help him try and get into low income housing for senior citizens where he will have security and people closer to his age. If he gets too upset with your suggestion that he needs to move...drop it and tell him he can stay. Then, just work around things til he does pass away. But, don't stress him out too much or you will feel really guilty if anything does happen to him then.
249298
I would just sit him down and ask him what EXACTLY he expects from you.  You don't want to argue, it will just make things worse and plus that's never a good option.  I guarantee you if he has other issues, this is where they will come out and hopefully be able to be resolved and this lunch dilemma will magically dissolve.
598681
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
93853
yes go ! show him you trust him! now if there was anything to worry about he would not ask you to go... he would go alone !so go , be friendly,smile and hold you head up high...  after all he is yours now !
303756
My advice is, not to push the issue. He has said he needs time, and I know that's frustrating, but you have to give him time....or move on!
250729
I'd sit him down...If I could catch him!...and tell him what is on your mind. Tell him that you really like him and the whole point is that you want to spend time with him. Not smother him, but continue to get to know him and have fun. Be honest and tell him that you were pissed off and now hurt. It's always best to be clear..that way he can't come back later and say "but sweetie..you never told me!" And if you can't get him to sit down and talk about it, leave him a message or email....and then go out and continue to work, see your friends nad have fun. Let him catch up to you. I hate to say it, but a little hard to get can be playe both ways. Good luck and I hope it works out for you!
643281
Go for it!\n\nOr even better, sell his stuff to pay the rent!
226014
Be honest with him and you will thank yourself later on. Maybe some time apart is just what you need, and later you will either decide that you are good for each other, or the time apart will show you that you just weren't meant for each other. Whatever you do, you will always do best if you remain honest with everyone involved.
109121
Talk it out, dude. That's the only way to get things right. But hey, be careful in doing so. It might be too much to ask but believe me, you'll need ounces of patience and tons of prudent speech as this maybe a sensitive ish. He probably needs to shower more often so he wouldn't have to do that again. Good luck! =)
405421
It sounds like both yours and his priorities are noncommittal. Seeing each other when convenient should be enough for now. If this was love you would not have to ask this question.