Some days he will act so good and tell me he loves me and seem sincere; other days he tells me that he wishes I was dead and he'd spit on my grave. And please don't tell me to take him to counseling, I already have.  He can act any way he has to for him to get out of any situation; and look any way he wants, he's very intelligent.  Sometimes I think the devil is inside him.
124415
if he does it routinely and often he could have bipolar and could be holding on to something deeper than you think when he is your friend try and get close to him and be his friend and explain what kind of hardship he is causing you and how you feel about it try and steer him into a hobbie or do more things with him.
400709
it appears that he is deeply hurt, but that he loves you and is willing to put aside the hurt for whats special about you. you are lucky!
501484
It just takes time, and it sounds like he is willing to give you that.  You prove yourself by your actions not by anything you could say, and that will all come in time.
486171
Of course he's suffering inside, but that just comes with having a cancer sun. we worry, hate rejection and are very sensitive. but we always have a way of coping with it. usualy you can judge how bad it really is by looking at how bad his reactions are (which will usualy be goverend by his moon sign). but if you truly want to not see this guy, then i would make it a clean break before he can sink those clingy cancer claws into you again. even the littles bit of concern thrown his way can show you may be having second thoughts, we can be very easily led on.
521282
He keeps being persistant because you give in to easily. He keeps screwing up because he knows you will take him back eventually. Pull your head out of your behind and stand up for yourself! Tell him to F$&# off for good! You can do much better than him and you know it!
163949
My Heavenly father gets a good laugh out of me every day. like any Parent he gets pleasure from our learning experiences. like watching a Toddler try to walk, or pronouncing a word wrong , yes he is very loving and light hearted and not at all religious , I know Him Personally.
273372
Guess what L****e, I've noticed that too. * really 'dumps' himself on you whenever he feels he needs help. No offence, but I really dont like him as a person anymore. I did like him in the pre-M****e days, but now... YUCK. Plus, hes an EMO which is really starting to bug me. And his hair!! HELLOOO you are plantinum blonde!! Never gonna get it to go black!! Don't worry though, because  when he remembers that you where there when he was dumped the first time, he'll come crawling back. Either that, or I'll make him remember i.e. hurting him. xx
415133
I love my other half to bits, and he me, but he does have some DISGUSTING habits but I would not change a single thing about him because he is who he is and I fell in love with him like that. His habits are foul, men in general are though, but he is very sweet and loving and I love the fact that he can just be himself around me and I know there are some things I do that drive him insane but he has never asked me to stop doing them or to change things about myself for him. People are not perfect and that is why God gave us tolerance.
189354
sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind in the right measure.  Let him know asap that you consider him a great guy/friend but that you think he deserves someone who can return his devotion.
44786
you're not in love with him your co-dependant upon him.yes it's fatal. if you give someone that kind of control over your life. change psyches. This person obviously isn't doing anything for your self esteem issues.
120217
sounds like he cant make up his mind what he wants. sometimes you have to bury the hatchet and ask the hard questions, and if he hides it will not be the first time
41810
sure sounds like a drinking problem's probably the 'real' problem. He sounds inhibited, and the drinking at least for a time lowers his fears, nervousness, insecurity, inhibition, guilt or whatever levels ... addictive behavior...do you honestly believe that your honest feelings are at fault? Sounds difficult, complicated...and, perhaps, getting worse. Whether he's having 'commitment phobias' or just expecting you to do as he says, or whatever he's perhaps not discussing, he sounds 'out of control', but he wants to 'be in charge'...something in him might be feeling ashamed, low self-esteem/image, and, he's demanding that you follow his routine, with implied not much room for spontaneity, let alone you feeling love(-d), safe (at peace, unperturbed) and valued -- but, how can he value you, if he's troubled about who he is -- or, why else drink/escape, and then try to use sex with such timing, like drunk clockwork. It sounds like your feelings are good, clear, trying to communicate...your feelings are innocent, your true companions/guides...BEST WISHES...in finding (out) your way(-s)
637877
Well he could be psychotic, or he could not like you very much and is playing a game or he could be a skitzo or he could've gone through some major trauma and have head problems either physically or now he just has skitzo tendancies or he could be this- DID YOU KNOW THAT MEN HAVE HORMONE CHANGES EVERY HOUR? THAT MUCH LIKE OUR MENTRAL CYCLE THAT HAPPENS ONCE A MONTH WHERE OUR CHEMICAL BALANCES CHANGE THEIRS CHANGES 24 TIMES IN A DAY-it still doesn't give a guy a reason to be a jerk!
651896
I think you need to move on, last month!  This guy is abusive to you!  It doesn't matter how much you love him or how much he says he loves you, he is abusing you and it will only get worse.  He is knocking you down, making you feel less worthy than you are and it will result in you thinking that no other guy will ever love you!  This guy is a jerk!  You are an adult human being, not a baby who needs to ask someone's permission to do anything.  Don't try to kill yourself over him, lose him!  He is not worth it.  Love is not supposed to cause you to want to kill yourself, it is supposed to be releasing, happy, joyful...something to look forward to every day of your life!  Not to dread what comes next.  Do not sacrifice your dreams, friends, family, hopes and everything else, sacrifice him!  He WILL NOT CHANGE!  Don't think that he will change for you or because he loves you or because you will help/make him change.  Only he can change and only if he wants to.  It will get worse and you may end up in the hospital or a morgue.  Would you want your children having him dampen all their hopes and dreams?  He has wasted enough of your life, let him ruin his own and you begin your life anew.  Good luck, PLEASE!
30572
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
92455
I have asked him for help and he answered me. No ifs ands or buts about it. Definite answers that couldn't be coincidences. What's more, he has a sense of humor. Try it.
483437
I think that usually means he likes & feels he can trust you. Just be a good friend or girlfriend. listen, be suportive & understanding. If he tells you something that might not be good for him or his family, (like killing) then get him some help. Other wise I say its a good thing.