i have this one friend, she makes me feel good about my self and she is there for me always and she doesnt even know it. She is considered my little sister, i mean my friends say im her mothers 3rd daughter. She like a little mini me, shes the only one i can trust, shes my only true friend, have you ever had one of those friends. there 6 years of an age difference.
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at least you HAVE a true friend, some people dont ever expireance true friendship.
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I never wanted a brother or sister, I felt special because my parents just had me to love. As an adult I somethimes find parties/gatherings difficult, feeling as though I don't know how to behave in groups of people.  \n\nFriends of mine have an only child, an outgoing, bubbly ten-year old. She has daily interaction with other children in her street, sees her grandparents often, and has friends over to stay. Her parents involve her in everything they do, and spend a lot of time with her.\n\nI would say that an only child will learn many positives (happy in own company, used to talking to adults etc.) but you must make sure that they see a lot of their friends, and also spend time with children of different ages, so that they learn how to play as they would in a bigger family.
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My best friends mom is just as much my mom (and her dad) so I share with her and her parents... or we celebrate our own "Mothers Day" or "Fathers Day" with each other and celebrate ourselves as I am a mother of two, and she a mother of 3!  More enjoyable day when you have a moment for yourself as a parent on YOUR day!@  : )
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I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
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Going through this right now with one of my best friends and the dumbest part is we are in our 30's (way too old for this crap) anyway, I have decided to let it be for now, but I assure you while I won't be a complete jerk to her I have no desire to be as close as we were, because obviously she doesn't value our friendship the way that I do or this would not have happened.
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You must be very careful if you choose to keep this type of friendship. I had a friend like this and because of her need for attention she did things like always try to cause confusion even between my sister and I.  She even lied about having cancer one time for attention! She is a middle age woman I finally decided that for my piece of mind she was not a asset to me but a liability and I ended the friendship.
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Cutiangel,\n\nAfter reading your question, it is clear that neither you nor these girls are truly friends with each other.  Cut your losses now, I understand that even though these girls are not your “true friends” it will be difficult to end the “friendships.”  However, by finding people with good hearts, that have things in common with you, you will also find true friendships that can last a lifetime.\n\nI would also like to share with you a few quotes about friendship that I feel are inspiring:\n\n"True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils.  Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island…. to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing."\n\n“There’s a miracle of friendship that dwells within the heart, and you don’t know how it happens, or where it gets its start, but the happiness it brings you always gives a special lift.  And you realize that friendship is God’s most perfect gift.”\n\n"A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities."\n\nGood luck and Warmest Wishes,\nDeeDee_NY
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Its all part of growing up! There is nardly any chance of you losing her just because she wants to be friends with other people. Besides, you have the added bonus of being her friend for so much longer. I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you know she'll be there for you, and she knows you'll be there for her, its a natural thing to happen. Just keep cool!
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If nothing else, you've just got to remember these two things: 1) She will always be your sister and your best friend. Nothing and no one will change that. On the other hand 2) She now has a family. Just as you might one day have one, it is important that you accept that your sister has new obligations now to her husband and child.  If you still want to be a great friend to her, be sure to remind her of how much you are there for her and of how much she will always mean to you. Don't count yourself as being second class; you are in a class all your own and it is a blessing of a class to be in!
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PLEASE READ THIS MESSAGE:\nMiss.T,I dont think its such a great idea 2 be friends with your daughter because after awhile,they will look at you only as their friend and not as their parent.Im 18 years old & I thank my mother every chance I get because I graduated from high school when I was 16 without her trying to be my friend,although she most definently is'nt my enemy.Yeah my mother was a good friend of mine,but she knew when and where the limits were...she knew she had 2 be a mother 85% of the time with me;and a friend 15% of the time.Put it this way...if you need your bills to be paid and you cant call on your friend(your daughter),then you shouldnt try 2 hard to please her as a friend as much as a mother.If your daughter has a good head on her shoulder,then she will appreciate how good you are trying to be with her;whether you want to be her friend or not.She will thank u in the future if you be more of a mother to her than a friend;because trust me...Im sure she has enough people trying to be her friend....Love Always;misslady2205
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I adore and love my friends for who they are.  Maybe its because we are older.  I consider my relationships with my friends to be as important as any other relationship and I know that I must work at them just the same.  Honesty is vital in a true friendship as is unconditional love and acceptance.  If you find a friend you can feel that way about, that is a REAL friend.
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I went back and looked at the questions and answers.  You were very careful not to reveal anything about her, except for the problem.  I think that she is taking her stress out on you.  She doesn't realize what a good friend you are being to her.  She does need help, and much more help than you can give her.  Can she go to her parents?  I want to say thank you to you, you are showing what a true friend is.
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Don't blame her, she feels responsible for you... unfortunately she will always look at you as a kid. I'm 26 and i still look at my 22 year old sister as a kid, cause she IS!!
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Yes even though their is a huge age difference between us. (she's 18 & I'm 36) We get along great! I LOVE MY LITTLE SISTER!!
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I would say that my mother is probably my best friend. Some one I can be myself totally with who is always interested in what I have to say, or think. We talk to eachother virtually every day. I think she probably has the most influence over me! My brother and I are also close. We don't see eachother that much, but we try to meet up once a month for lunch. We usually open up to eachother and talk about personal things. I am very lucky!
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What do you want to do? How about the person that told you whatever what said? Was the info. true or not? Do you believe in your friend?\nOne thing I do know from experience is that a true friend will never two face you. My sister, mom, brother, dad true friends have said things about me but in real concern. Sometimes it pisses me off but they have the right to love me. And if someone came to me and repeat their private conversation to make it gossip I would dump their butt, because i do trust "MY" judgment for a friend. So where do you stand with these friends.
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You are hurt, and feel betrayed by a person that said she was your friend. To you, when she said she was your friend, it meant for the rest of your life, through thick and thin. Her interests have changed, along with her address. She now lives an hour away. Unfortunately, people, and circumstances change. Life goes on, and my advice is, find other young mothers like yourself, near where you live, and develop friendships with them. You will always care about your friend, but you must find new ones. Good luck. I wish the best for you.