Okay, how can a girl tell whether or not a guy likes her? If the guy is nice to everybody (and I mean holding doors open for every girl and socialising with them all) does it mean anything if he tickles me? Or am I just being daft?\n\nAlso, how much attention do guys pay to the girls they like? Are they as obsessive over us as we are over them?
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This mean to be gentlemen and kindness with them... If I had someone on my side... I will do anything.. even it seems false.. the girls are more stronger than us... guys have the body and the girls that mind... A girls is the most beatiful thing that is created in the world.... Life is like this...
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Esha, I'm talking to you from the perspectives of a guy. I want to consider you a luck gurl for having a guy who wants to displays his affection for you in public. It's only a guy that has no skeleton in his cupboard that does this to a gurl. He really wants to show you that he's the same person to you whether in private or public. Also, he's just trying to pull your legs with those flirting stuff. He wants to know how jealous you could be, but I can bet you he doesn't mean any harm. The next time he does that, you either pretend you don't notice that or if you can, say something as if you're encouraging him in his flirting game. In the contrary, this will shock him and you'll be better for it - trust me. I wish you a happy and fulfilling relationship with your guy. Cheers!
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Some clues that guys often miss are extra touching. When a girl likes a guy she goes out of her way to touch him, like on the arm or hair, etc. Also, if she feels comfertable for you to meet her parents, that is definetly a good sign. And if you notice that she is dressing up whenever she knows she is going to see you, or wears a special perfume, that would be attempts to impress you. Just keep your eyes open and don't be afraid to make the first move.
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I'm a girl, and If i was interested in a guy, which i am right now, I'll look at him with a somewhat "I like you look." and i'll keep on looking, i won't just glance and look away like i would do with someone else, but i wouldn't look at him for too long. I would also smile at him and say hi and try to start a conversation with him. But if this girl just started being nicer, she just might have changer her attitude towards people, or just you, she may like you! Just look for those signs I mentioned earlier, and GOOD LUCK!
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Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
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say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
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It depends on the guy. Some are really pushy and you can totally tell. Some get weird. Some try to be smooth. And yeah, some revert back to the school yard, push you down and call you a dirty girl with cooties when they like you. But here are a few signs other than the obvious flirts: if you catch them staring at you, if they make up reasons to be near you, and if they start conversations with you, they pretty much like you. But remember, guys don't typically like to hang out with girls they don't like. Every guy who is your friend, pretty much wants to get with you.
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some guys do like it when approched by a girl. It shows them that you are independant and are a strong person.  Also, if they flirt with you and you notice them staring at you all the time, they might like you.  Again also, i have found that you should just go with what you are feeling and do whatever you think.
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Does he make eye contact with you when you interact?\n\nDo you catch him looking at you when your not interacting (remember people, especially guys, like to look at people and objects they find attractive)?\n\nDoes he caress things like his hands or stuff he picks up while interacting with you? \n\nDo you feel like hes attentive when he listens to you?\n\nDoes he position his body towards you when you talk?\n\nHow often does he smile?\n\nDoes he appear comfortable when you touch him and/or does he use oppurtunities to touch you?\n\nDoes he lean forward when he interacts with you (personally I conciously hold back on this so as not to show intrest to early when dating or approaching someone so maybe he knows this)?\n\nDoes he remain calm, and even welcome you, when you violate his privacy bubble (24 inch radius minimum around a person)? \n\nHeres a fun one that doesn't always work but: occasionaly do something very simple like look at your watch, if he does likewise it could be a good sign.  People subconciously mimic (sometimes) others their intrested in.\n(you can also mimic his body language to make him feel more comfortable with you, just don't make it to obvious)\n\nCongrads you've just completed into to body language\n\nBest of luck....
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ok if they talk to their friends about you that's a DEFINITE yes to whether they like you or not. flirts with you? this doesn't always mean that they like you. i flirt a lot and i don't always have a crush on the person i'm flirting with. invites you to spend time with them= obvious yes. unless they try to get in your pants or something. asks you out= well they MUST like you at least a bit if they want to be your gf/bf. rumors should never be counted on for accuracy so i'd say ignore those.
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i think he likes you...when i like a girl i start telling corny jokes, then i see how much she laughs, and i just hug her without warning, its like a surprise attack hug
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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He obviosly likes you. I mean if you can really trust the people who are telling you that he likes you than you  should beleave them. I'm a guy and what he said to you doesn't suprise me. If he really likes you he is not going to openly tell you. Im in this situation myself. I know that if the girl I like ever asked me if I like her I would say no even if I really did like her. The reason why is because I don't know if she likes me back. He is probably wondering the same thing about you. I think you should flirt a little or maybe hint to him that you like him. He might be afraid of rejection. If he knows that you like him he would have nothing to worry about.\n\nP.S. When a Guy makes fun of you and acts like a jerk around you he likes you. If thats the case than you should ask him out. Remember never send a messenger, they never work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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if he finds reasons to be in the same room as you or to talk to anyone around you. if he makes eye contact that feels like more than just regular "hey, i am talking to you so i need to look at you." it feels like he is flirting. if he touches you or compliments you. if he invites you to do something with him and/or his friends. if i were you, just ask him in a flirty way like "are you checking me out? am i irresistable to you? (smile smile, wink wink)" and if you are intersted in him, add in something lame like "because i cant stop checking you out. you are just so yummy. do you get that a lot, or am i crazy?" evaluate his response. you'll know. good luck. be brave.
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this might help sorry if it don't\nHe might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!) \nHe might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you. \nThen again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date) \nIf he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event \nIf his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you). \nIf he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you) \nIf he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively" \nIf he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally. \nIf he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you \nTesting Your Suspicions: \nIf you think a guy likes you (trust your gut instinct, girls) but you can't be totally sure, try this: Give him your best smile. If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, tah dah! He likes you. If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, he likes you even more. If his smile is the polite kind, or if he frowns or looks away, that's a bad sign that maybe he isn't interested in you after all.
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Girls show guys they are interested in all sorts of weird ways.  The most typical are: touching(when unnecessary), Laughing (way to much), and finding any excuse to be around them.  I personally just tell the guy I'm interested and go from there.
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A lot of guys wont make the first move. So this may be something you'll be waiting for for quite a while. Usually a guy joking around is a good way to tell, joking around as in picking on ya, etc.