i no it sounds horrible, and that is everyone else's opinion, not mine, but i from my resources, she talks about me behind my back. idk about wat but i dont think its nethin too bad. she also lied to me cause i asked her about somethin and then if that was all, and then later i found out that wasnt all. i luv her an everythin but i dont no wat to do...and i do no she talks about me behind my back for fact idk does any body have any advice?
126851
tlk to her about it and tell her how u feel about it etc u should have no secrets tell her that and tel her u love her maybe she doesnt think u love her :) good luck and have fun cya
276737
I have a friend like that too.. one time we made up a sport called "skibombing" and told her that we had done it and she said "oh yeah! i love that sport! blah blah blah.." and i know that its hard  to be around a person like that because you dont know whether or not they are telling the truth or not.. but if the things that she is saying are affecting your family you NEED to talk to her about it in private, and if that doesnt work then talk to her with a friend, maybe. if she cant even tell you the truth about simple things then maybe you shouldnt be friends anymore.
528851
sounds a bit unfair\nyou should tell her how you feel.  tell her you feel left out and that you really like it.
95310
i sincerely hope you speak better than you type, because that was cryptic at best.\n\nto put it bluntly, you sound like an over-sensitive wuss who's far too obsessed with someone 1/2 your age. if i were in her place, i wouldn't call you back either.
327287
I think she was trying to tell you something...You should have said something like,"well, you have a boyfriend, aren't you happy with him?" Ask her some time what she meant. Maybe she will dump her bf if she really likes you and maybe she thinks you will dump your gf to be with her. You'll never know unless you ask her.
129966
my dear the hurt and pain belong to u and not him and therefore you need to make a decision based on what u feel is best for you. ask yourself if he is worth all the pain you undergo? does he meet your emotional needs or is it just baseless love? choose what it is that works best for you  \nif he did that without telling you what about those things he does behind your back which u don't end up knowing \nthey may be more hurtful than this.\n\nTrust me gal a bad guy is like a disease Keep off early enough to avoid contamination
566467
Ask yourself if you can trust her. If you can't, regardless of if she is truly being honest or not, then how can you have a healthy relationship? It sounds like there have been issues with trust with her in the past, and games to make each other jealous. Is that the kind of relationship you want to have?
552722
put your self in other people shoes. Even she keeps saying whatever she wants, she cannot destroys the person you are interiorly. Let her say whatever she wants it's a free country, don't worry about rumors, maybe she went through the same thing she's doing to you. Keep doing the good things, and people will appreciate you.
543479
if she wants you to know,she will tell you.you know we all have skeltons in out closets.maybe she likes to forget about the bad times.well if she brings it up and ask you what you think,then you should tell her,but be nice about it.just dont go digging into her past and telling everyone you meet,thats between you and her,and not anyones elses business.
536499
for 1 if the person talks about others then they will talk about you.No I wouldn't join them I would actually say something like this.I'm sorry ,but i really don't want to here things about her or him.I know that person and if u have something you need to say then tell her because I don't like it when somone is talking about someone I know behind there back.Wheathere you know the person or not it's not nice to talk behind someones back.
203634
A friend does not talk like this about another friend.  Maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself to determine who the real "brat" is.\n\nHow do you think your friend would feel if she heard that you are talking behind her back and making fun of her?  How would you feel if it was being done to you?  Never, ever treat someone any differently than you yourself would like to be treated.\n\nMaybe you need to tell your friend what a "brat" you are and suggest that she deserves a better friend than what you are capable of being.
100662
Are you one? A liar. All friends have problems but friendship is based on trust and forgiveness if she doesnt trust you and is into name calling/ talking behind your back then who needs a friend like that. Tell her she not being a good friend and discuss whatever it is that made her call you that. If that doesnt work, ignore her and find a new best friend.
457327
she was probably scared off because you told her you loved her and youre not even her boyfriend. you shouldnt say such a strong thing to someone you're not even in a relationship with. your best bet is to apologize to her for saying that and that you know she doesnt feel the same way and see what her response is. who knows, she could tell you youre wrong.
202784
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
546513
sometimes you just have to tell people straight\n\nboth you and you boyfriend should tell her to back off !!!
604831
Yeah, tell her the truth. The truth will set you free, as they say. Tell her exactly what you said here, that you love her so much that you don't want to involve her. If you can't bring yourself to tell her what it is that happened, just tell her she will be at risk if you did. Wow, I feel for you, best of luck, I hope your problems will be solved soon.
147390
Myself personaly would not have said it if it were not the case.  I am shy and would be glad he said he thinks about me.  It sounds like she may be a little shy also.  Try talking more to her about what you've been thinking.