I like this guy at my place of worship. He's funny, sweet, stunning, intelligent and a whole lot of other stuff. Okay, well, we have several mutual friends in the congregation (well, they're more close to him because they've known him longer than me). They're all acting very strange- teasing me light-heartedly about him when he's not around and giggling and sharing knowing looks when he is. Is something going on? Is it possible that he's talking about me when I'm not around (in a good! way) and they know something that I don't but promised not to tell? Should I investigate what's going on or is this just a bunch of people who need to grow up? And how would you suggest I go about investigating it? Thanks.
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It's quite possible that he likes you. And it's also quite possible that they just need to grow up. The only thing you can do is ask. You can go to one of his friends and glide the conversation to bring it up, or you can just ask him one on one.
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Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
93374
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
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Okay.  first of all, i get the impression you are quite young.  what is happening here is the original boy you knew who spoke with you online and in church is now very unsure of the type of girl you are.  all three of these boys who clamour for your attention sound like troublemakers.  i would say get away from them as soon as possible and try to talk things over with the original young man before it's too late.
120346
Tell this guy that he needs to grow up before you will go out with him.  Ask him if his father pokes his mother's boobs at church.  He obvioulsy likes you, but is going about it in all the wrong ways.  You are probably better off going after the preacher's son.
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I guess I know what happen. And it is rather simple to solve\n\nPeople are afraid of romurs and conscious about gossip that is spreading around them. What I can see, is that he likes you still... in some way. It just that this destructive gossip spread from your 'friends', made him feel extremely uncomfortable to be with you. And he just being protective, either to you or to himself.\n\nEither you silent that gossip or those people stop talking about it, he may resume that friendship with you as long as this issue is not in the spot light. Sometime, people you know would spoil everything that is good, and you need to develop something to counter the presures or urges from them.\n\nYou may openly discuss it with him and work out a some statics together, that may help.\n\nGood Luck
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Guys ask questions like that just to get a reaction out of you... they are attention-seekers and love it when they get under your skin (whether its in a good way or not!)\n\nI wouldn't take this guy too seriously. I had a friend like that. He never changed. It got really annoying.
634884
It sounds to me that he has some serious immaturity issues.  My advice is to ignore him completely.  Don't glance in his direction and if you hear rumors about yourself, just say, "it's really sad that he has to pump himself up by spreading nasty rumors."
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A good God fearing man likes honesty.  I bet he communicates with you more then anyone else. That is because he likes you to. \n\nFrom what I can tell, you have found the potential love of your life.  Jump on it!
632888
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
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I think he totally likes you. why would he be starring at you.  You guys should talk about it he probably thinks you have changed too and does not know how to interact.
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My impression of this guy is he's young, somewhat infatuated with you, shy and unsure of how to break the ice with you.\n\nHe puts himself in close proximity to you because he wants to be around you and know that you notice him. He laughs when you say or do something funny because he wants to make you feel important to him and show his approval of you.\n\nMy overall opinion is this young man is very taken with you for reasons you have yet to find out and if you want to know if and why this is true then I think you will have to open the door a bit and give him some opportunity to be less shy such as beginning a one on one conversation with him.\n\nHope this helps!
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Absolutely not!  You should feel lucky to have him.  If you want the relationship to grow then you always have that.  I too am a christian (getting baptized this Sunday!) but I believe what you have is far from wrong.  It seems that your feelings for him are deeper than sexual and that is something Christ cherished, LOVE.
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Something I learned and I am an assistant youth minister. In God anything is possible. If you really like that guy then you might want to make the first move and ask him out before it is to late. All you can do is ask and theres nothing wrong with you. I am a very christian guy but you have to learn to take a chance. Its ok to take chances.
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no its not wierd. i have a friend like that. theres no harm in some meaningless flirting. as long as your not leading him on. make sure he knows that you dont like him like that and if you do like him like that then just keep doing what your doing.
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You dont have to bother about stuff like that at this stage.And that is not supposed to get you worried atall.Why not spend ur leisure time with other friends other than trying to figure him out.whenever you see him just say hi,if there's anything serious you've done he'll let you know in time but in the meantime don't look down on youself cause of him.Cheers.
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Yes. We like being told someone likes us. But be carefull, we also like chasing the pray, not being handed to us. If you are in a realtionship then say it openly otherwise you have to ponder the situation. It might make him loose interest or it might help him make "the move".