i know its normal for guys to look at females... but if its often that he looks... isnt that bad? or is it ok cuz hes "just looking"
120003
Men are very visual creatures. If they see something they like, they look. Hell, women, look, too! There is no shame in that. The most important point of the matter is that even if he is looking at other women, he's going home with you!
561002
In most cases, just looking. We mean no disrespect to the lady we're with, it's just that the female body is BEAUTIFUL, and we enjoy looking at it. Don't get upset, in fact, point them out to him. It will ease your tension, and might make him think a little. Good Luck!
231536
I can only speak for myself on this one, as all dogs, ah, I mean, men are different.\n\nWomen are beautiful, and most of the time, a look is just a recognition of that fact. It doesn't mean you wish to sleep with her. You haven't even given it that much thought. It's just a look. \n\nNow if your guy STARES at her and won't let the look go, well, not cool. \n\nAnd not...\n\nSMART.\n\nDoghouse behavior.\n\nJust a momentary admiration. You might not like this, but it really is no different to a man than seeing a great car, you simply notice.
303502
no! of course not. Guys look to & get a glance to sexier girls even if their girlfriend is at their side with them!
186517
Do you not do the same? I know I do. I have an amazing boyfriend, but I look at other guys but I always go home to him. Looking is harmless. It's when they start to touch that things get complicated.
35770
don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
109592
hmmm I dunno, Maybe he likes women with meat. There's nothing wrong with that.Amen!!! Um I don't think he's really really looking @ her. Be secure in you, he's with you and not with her that's all that matters!!! K? Take care!!
296827
I don't think its all wrong for you to give your all when your in love, but that has to be both of you doing that.  I wonder why you are having these feelings of him looking at other girls, and stuff because if you were truly happy there wouldn't be thought like this!  I will tell you that its normal for a guy to look at other girls.  Its in a guys nature to do that, but cheating isn't.  Looking is one thing cheating is another.  I would just watch how much of yourself your putting forth and how much of himself he is putting forth.  I would hate to see you get hurt because you put to much of yourself into him!
244475
he has every right to be mad!!!!!!! hes just LOOKING and ur give him the 3rd degree hes a man hes gonna look...who does he come to YOU... guys are gnna look its nature just like we chicks look at men..your taken not dead
375783
maybe he's not looking because he feels exactly the way you do. stop the staring contest and talk to him. guys do like personality
219746
Don't you mean "offended"? ;)\nWe get offended because we don't want our guys looking at other women, period. He should be feeling horny just by looking at the woman he's with.
113262
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
308327
It's nothing? guyz wants to look at girls, thats kinda part of the nature...\npeace
508868
Sure I've done it and for the same reasons as men checking out a woman's breasts. I don't do it all the time... usually only if I find the guy physically attractive.
342021
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he has a girlfriend. It might not be the best thing to do, but I would "spy" on him and find out. If you see a girl, then its obvious! There is no reason for unnecessary hurt!!!
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It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
538274
i suppose its okay, i mean he obviously doesnt feel like he has anything to hide so he probably hasnt done anything wrong...\nhmm, just think of it this way -- how else is he gunna compare you to the competion and believe me theres a reason hes going out with you and not one of those other girls, and at the end of the day hes always gunna be ur man.