I have never been with a male, nor am I usually attracted to them. But I have an immense curiousity of what it would be like. Does this make me bi?
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It makes you normal. Curiosity is one of mankinds greatest traits. Curiosity leads to knowledge. All great inventions, theories, and achievements got their start by someone wondering how something happens, why it happens, or if there is a better way. The only people that will tell you there is something wrong with it have already quit being curious based on limited knowledge or a lack of desire to further themselves. Go for it.
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Hello.  I am bi-curious.  I have never been with a woman but I have wanted to try it out for awhile now.  I am not with anyone at the moment, really, and I could always use a friend to chat with.  Hope to chat with you real soon ;)
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You might be gay or bi, but it's hard to tell based on what you have said here. I don't think it means you're gay just because it's easier for you to get off when you're watching guys. It depends on more than just that. You need to grow up a little more before you can decide, I think.  Give yourself time to figure it all out, and don't worry about labeling yourself right now.
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If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
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It all depends on your definition of normal...\n\nHowever, yes, you are just liek anyone else on this planet. The goddess and God love you regardless of your love preference.  I am also bisexual. No one would guess it by looking at me... I fit in a crowd just as well as I am sure you do.\n\nGod loves you for who you are. No worries!
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yes you are an asexual person but not in all meanings of the word, you have sex organs so you are not completely asexual. It's not common at all most people are sexual in some way or form whether it be hetero homo or bi. kind of cool though, you have to be a very confident person not having to worry about how other see you.
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It's cool that you're open minded, but you really have to find what you're compfortable with and not just do things for the hell of it. Being Bi or gay is not just something you just choose to do. It is a part of who you are. As far as what girls like, that is really something that varies from person to person. You would need to find out from your partner.
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hey there girl i just want you to know that i am bisexual myself and i have been in an actual relationship with a woman and now i am currently with the man of my dreams and i hope to marry him some day soon, but i also still want a loving woman in my life and he is okay with that. there is nothing wrong with being curious and to tell you it feels very good especially if u like being eaten out, and if u can look at a woman and say she looks good.. and another things is taste yourself sometime and if u like it then i would difenately try it, but make sure your first time is with someone who knows what they are doing and takes there time with you because it is your first time. well that is my thoughts on it.
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No!!\nI think you're bisexual and that's why you're asking this stupid question.
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All it means is that you have a rich fantasy life.  Could there be a chance that you're bisexual and didn't know it?  I suppose, but it's unlikely -- I don't speak from experience, but I would be willing to bet that true lesbians and bisexuals would have experienced some level of attraction to the same sex at some point before they got married.  That you're only experiencing it now is just natural curiosity.  I seriously doubt your husband would hate you for having this fantasy, though he may not understand it completely.  It really depends on him; guys are funny that way.  Even guys who are the most vocal in their disgust over gay men will usually allow lesbians in their world, if only in the vain hope that they might join in at some point.  I'd mention to him casually that you had a funny dream where you were making out with a woman, and see how he reacts; I'm willing to bet good money he'll raise an eyebrow and say, "Reeealllly???  Um... what happened next?"
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I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal.  I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed.  I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman.  I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally.  To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not.  And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive.  For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi.  I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.)  Hope this helped!
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You're straight. You like guys and you'd only be bisexual if you were attracted to girls in all aspects.
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You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
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Hey, I respect your question. But there is no right or wrong answere here. I myself am Bi, ever since I was 13 I had thoughts of both sexes. The truth is, you might have switched.  However, seeing as you were atrracted to girls to start with chances are you might be homosexual.  But until you have found the prime area, Just go with bi. ;)\nPlus. I agree that it is not a choice, it kind of just happens, you know?  It pisses me off that they can just assume that from some bullshit study (pardon the language).\nAnyway, seeing as I do not know you, I can not give you a definitive answer.  But... I know that I swing back and forth from which ones I like more, i.e. for like a month or two i will be more attracted to guys, vis versa. Understand?\n\nGood luck to you. Don't worry too much, I had the same problem for a while but i came to realise I was bi when I came out a few years ago. I am turning eighteen in two days,\nand since I was thirteen i had gone back and forth asking myself.  If you have not yet come out, don't be afraid, not as bad as you think, nothing changed in my life.  I respect your courage here. I hope I could have been of some help.\n\n    Der Terror|risti
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I'm bisexual so I know exactly how you feel...\n\nIf you tell a straight girl you're bi, from then on they think you're hitting on them everytime you touch them.\n\nIf you tell a straight guy you're bi all they will talk to you about is threesomes.\n\nI've had gay/lesbians not want associate with me anymore because I wasn't queer enough.\n\nThen you have your idiots who think all bis are sluts.\n\nI know who I am and I know what I am.  When you fall in love with someone you fall in love with their heart, not what they're packing.  \n\nI'm not bi because it's "cool", I'm not bi because I'm desperate for a date, I'm bi because I don't want to discriminate love.\n\n**Mr. Successful is the perfect example as to why bisexuals are so misunderstood.  Close minded, ignorant people that have no idea what is actually going on.  They have no respect for others feelings; the perfect example of a poor human being.**
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hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
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At 16 years old your hormones are in overdrive. I don't think you are gay or bi since men don't seem to turn you on like women. You are just curious of sex in general. Do you have any gay friends or aquaintences? If so that could be adding to your curiousity simply in wondering why they do what they do. If you feel like you would like to have sex with another boy than by all means you should give it a try (use a condom of course). There's nothing wrong with experimenting to figure out what you like and don't like. Just remember to be true to yourself. Don't try anything because of peer presure. I think you just need to experience life. You're young and curious and that's perfectly ok. Just be safe in whatever ventures you explore. Good luck.