I'm a senoir in high school and i want to wear diapers. I've been like this since I was about 5. I have tried many ways when I was younger to be able to wear diapers. When I was lttle my mother and father got divorced, could that be a part of my problem? I just want to wear diapers for one last time so I can get over this. What can I tell my mom? What should I do????????
129316
wear a maxi pad....same thing!
291948
It's called rebellion.  I had 3 teenage girls at the same time.  A teen feels they are old enough to make their own decisions and don't need their parents telling them what to do.  You don't realize that your parents were once teens also and they know and understand what is going on with you because they went through it to.  truth is, you are not old enough to know better.  You think you are, but you are not.  Parents only want what is best for their children no matter what age.  As hard as it may be, try listening to your parents.  Sit down and talk.  Ask them why they are being so forbidden on certain liberties that you want.  You will be surprised how understanding parents can really be.  Don't give up...it gets better, believe me.
489904
I wonder how old is this child? if it were me and moms not doing so well I would try talking to the child and explain moms situation. The child may feel like shes losing her mom and doesn't understand how to cope. When I was a tennager I threatened my mom and she has someone come over from the juvenile court to "TALK" to me.... That scared the S!@# out of me and I didn't behave that way anymore.  as far as KY law you could always have someone you know that the child doesn't and have them lie to her and scare her.. At 13 My son thought he could get away with anything and I had a friend (who's in the military) come over in uniform with some phoney brouchers about military school... All BS I made them on my computer.... well it worked my son hasn't acted nasty in a long time that was over a year ago...Right or wrong you need to find a way that works for you because in the end your the adult and they can't forget that...
591895
I did just last week.  The elastic band in my last pair of underwear finally broke.  My mom's to poor to buy me new ones and the thrift store doesn't wash theirs before they sell them anyway.  Next month when I turn 36, I told mom I'm gonna get some money for us some how.  I'll try and find her a second job if that's what it takes,  cause I'm tired of crying my eyes out.
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I have the same problem. I reasearched about an article, and it says it's normal. www.teenshealth.com\nIt'lls sooner or later grow out eventually...but did you know your not bisemitrical? Let it grow for a while, and if you worry, talk to your mother...that's why shes there!\n\n-Advice Chick
55492
i have worn a size 12 since i was 12. more than 10 years later and i still wear the same size. i am peerfectly happy with my size and i always have been. more than likely you will slim down after you lose all your baby fat.if youre happy falt out tell your mother that you are happy with your size and wish she wouldnt try to make you feel bad about it. remember if you dont love yourself nobody else will either.\n\nPS theres no such thing as normal!!!
325715
It seems as if you have two choices...either be on the up and up with your girl and take the chance that she will leave you, or wear the diapers behind her back and if she finds out, take the chance that she will leave you. Hmmm. I think your best bet would be telling her now and being honest rather than taking the chance that she will find out and be angry for several reasons. I'd be willing to bet her response the first time was due in large part to the fact that it was such an odd thing to hear. Talk to her!! Be honest, and ask her to understand that this is not something that you can undo easily. You may lose her, but at least you will have been upfront, and your honesty won't be an issue.
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if you don't shop for underwear and you don't like asking your mom, where do you get underwear from?  maybe boxers can be an alternative or something.  ask your mom, i'm sure she won't tell everyone.  and come on people, he's talking about his saggy underwear, not a saggy butt.  gosh.  :)
503787
Well First of all for him to come to you and talk to you about this was really hard for him. And i feel that if he is willing to talk to you about this that he really want to wear diapers. Their is nothing wrong with it and he could be doing a LOT!! worse things. Like drinking drugs and even worse. If i was you I would let him do it and not tell anyone about it. Let it be yours and his secret. To start with i would get him 1 bag of diapers and let him wear at home only. And yes you can get diapers in his size. Start with one bag because once he trys it he may not want to do it after all. And dont put the diapers on him let him do it his self. And after he gets his first diaper on make him let you see him in his diaper. but only that one time so he will know that you are ok with it. If you do let him try this dont make fun of him or let on like it bothers you . Because it can cause more problems that you can deal with or he can deal with so keep it to your self and let him try them. After about 3 or 4 bags of diaper i think he will get tired of it and wont do it anymore.......Good luck and i hope it works out for you.............
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Well... your life is about to be changed big time!!!!  I was in your situation years ago... sick to my stomach about how i was going to tell my parents.  when i did the first question out of my Dad's mouth was what are you going to do? how are you going to support a baby?\n\nI think that is probably the biggest question from parents... how are you going to raise a child when you aren't even an adult? what happens when you don't have a boyfriend to help you??? what then? what happens in a few years? what are your plans?\n\nThinking back on those days I wish I had spent some time figuring everything out before I'd spilled the beans. Here is what I wished I had done...\n1.  gone to DSHS or family services or whatever it is called in your area for medical help, information on child care support, and assistance. then i would have known what support is available to me from the state.\n2.  i would have enrolled in school immediately and tried to get through some sort of certificate program. If I couldn't get into one because i didn't have a GED then I would have started on my plan to get the GED done immediately.\n3.  a plan for the future..... I know I want to be a ______(fill in the blank) and this is how I'm going to make that happen. If you want to be a dental hygenist, you know the technical college you can go to.  you've been there and talked to the counselors and they are helping you get going.  \n\nMy thoughts today are now that if I had shown I had a plan to take care of myself and my baby my pregnancy wouldn't have been such a hard hit on them... they would have thought and felt like I was atleast being responsible... even if it wasn't maybe so responsible to be pregnant as a teenager.  \n\nso, my suggestion is work hard on pulling your and your babies future together before he/she arrives. know that this future has to be independant of any boyfriend. jump into school right now! get a jump start because when your little one comes it is going to be much more difficult and expensive to be in school!!!! unless you want to live on minimum wage the rest of your life you need to go to school!\n\nnext...... go to a pro-life counselor and talk!!!! i'd love to chat more with you and even give you some ideas on your boyfriend. if you want to chat email me through here. good luck!
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When you say she is a "know it all", you have a normal teenager.\n\nDrugs, grades, and concern about the friends she is hanging out with are very reasonable concerns. You should be asking questions about those things and trying to steer her in the right direction. When it comes to dressing, I think she is just expressing herself during the last time in her life when clothes really doesn't matter. Young people in every era dressed inappropriately and eventually became successful and contributing members of society. \n\nIf she was dressing in a sexually suggestive manner, I would talk about how women, right or wrong, who dress that way are targeted and are vulnerable. It doesn't seem to be the case here. Pick your battles. \n\nFocus on the stuff that matters: her education, her future, and her dreams. Talk to her about her interests and really listen. You should work on the communication skills and build up her trust. Invite her friends over and see if you can meet their parents. As parent you have the right to know who she runs with. You may find that those kids who look like losers, but may be just bored kids. \n\nShe will never say it, but she will appreciate guidence and parental expections and limitations. She may be acting out because her mother has no limits. \n\nPositive reinforcement works better than negative reinforcement. The more you know about your daughter the more you can guide her and find a mentor for her. She may be writing poetry or interested topics you weren't aware of.  \n\nAll she may need is someone to take interest in her and let her know all that life has to offer. She may not seem to be responding because she may feel you do not know her enough to be lecturing her. Don't get discouraged. Don't give up on her, you will eventually get through.
522887
Buy a lock. Hang up a sign that says "SOMEBODY IS IN THE BATHROOM RIGHT NOW. PLEASE DO NOT OPEN THE DOOR".\n\nSit down with your Mom and ask her if she can please not walk around nude. Tell her that you don't feel right when she does that.\n\nWork with your family-you still got a few more years with them before you can be on your own. Negotiate and be mature and show the immature members of the family how to act their age.\n\nJust relax, girl. These times won't last forever, 'promise.
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I used to work with kids that had to wear diapers and was older they were mentally ill so they couldnt help it, but we had got a prescription from the doctor for diapers and the pharmacy has diapers other than the ones on the shelves. and they dont bother sensitive skin either. I would ask a pharmacy if you have to have a prescription for them or if you can just get them over the counter. I hope that helps for you.
498121
Is this your first period- or your first BAD period.  Either way you should talk to your Mom- or caregiver.  It's nothing to be concerned about- you'll have many years of monthly visits from that friend.  \nMaybe you could add more to your question about your concern?
610824
Now is the time in your life when going to the mall with your friends is just naturally the thing to do.  She is sheltering you like a 10 year old and I wouldn't put up with it.  You can't get these years back after they're gone.  Before you know it, you'll be 18 and on your own with responsibility of having to work everyday to pay bills, unless you go to college.  I'm sure your mom means well, but when I was 14, I had the most fun of my entire life doing things with my friends.  I wish I could have those days back.  Go out and make some good memories that you can remember when you get old.  Sitting in the house and being a good girl gets boring....Go for it!...)(
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Vee....This is the Mom you said you wished your mom was like.  I can't be your "angel" but I can be a friend.  Please don't feel alone.\nShow your mom your question and my answer we had the other day about your "personal" problem.  I'm sure if she reads it, and reads what you said back to me, she'll slow down enough to realize she needs to give you the attention you need.  I'm sure she loves you more than life itself, and is trying to provide financial support for her family.  Unfortunately, now that we are in the 2000's it's hard to survive financially unless you burn the candle at both ends.  Just the basic living expenses are very expensive, and looks like there's no end in sight.  And raising a teenage girl and the clothes and things THEY want can almost require a second job! LOL!  Maybe you should say "Thank You" to Mom for providing a good life for you, and make an "appointment" with her to discuss these things.  I think she'll make time for you...I really do.  If you ever want to just talk or blow off steam, please feel free to email me (ljpeterson1956@yahoo.com), and so your mom doesn't think I'm some "pervert" make sure she always sees and knows about our emails if you do write me.  I assure you and her, I'm a 49 year old working full-time mom myself. I've been working in County government for 30 years, and have a 21 year old daughter with health issues. I've had to give extra attention to her because when her Dad and I divorced, he stopped having anything to do with her.  She and I are very close, and I wish that on any young girl trying to cope with this big old scary world.  When I read your letter in ANSWERS I just HAD to respond.  I have a special place in my heart for your situation.  Good luck....and have you made a doctor appointment yet??  ;-)
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Talk to your mom about the issues that she has with boxers. Maybe she thinks you will do the pants around the ankles thing and she doesn't want her sont o look like a thug, i don't mind it, thats this generations fashion statements, just like the 80's mullet i guess. You are at the age where you want a bit of independane, this could be your way of showing it, your mom should be happy its choosing boxers over breifs rather than choosing to, steal, do drugs etc.