say if u dateing a boy and he is a very good person and he is very easy going but one day he pop up and say are u ready to give up your virginty and u dont want to really so no or yes which one should i say
134287
Definitely say no. If he is a good guy (coming from a guy) he will respect u. If he gets angry or breaks up just remember its his problem not yours. Don't every feel guilty if u don't feel u want to have sex with someone; it's u'r body it's u'r choice. Remember always use protection.
328775
Just be firm but kind and get it over with. It appears he already knows or has a pretty good idea it's coming. The whole point of dating is to find the person you have the most simpatico with. Just don't use the line, "We can still be friends."
583941
Only you can answer that question. If you feel like youre ready then you might be, just make sure he is to and both of you continue to be on the same page so to speak on the subject. Good luck!
31006
girl\nidon't know all the details about this guy but i'll till u somthing \nif u like some one u shouldn't let him go away \nso don't let him go away ,BE BRAVE,do the imposipel to put him into u r live,((DON'T BE SHY FROM SOME ONE U LIKE)) go for it
467022
sounds like you are both quite young & placing too much importance on these words WAY TOO SOON\nalso you should be saying these things without expecting him to repeat the words back to  you\nif you ahve only just started dating then take your time & if things are meant to be then ""love "" will develop between you
480866
Coming from a mans point of view, if he's really into you and respects you it won't matter. also he may be glad you are inexperienced as you wouldn't know if he was any good or not!
379922
I think you should go out with him and get to know him before you decide to pursue a relationship. You should let him know that you are not ready to jump into a relationship, after all you have been through stress. I hope he doesn't think that you are gullible and try to use you, but you cant just judge someone and not give them a chance. Proceed with caution.
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Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
169891
Just be honest and tell him the truth. I am sure that he will understand why that you are not ready to date yet. If the guy leaves you then you dont need him. Good Luck.
163369
NO NO NO, if you're not ready then don't do it.  You will regret it and you can't get it back.  If he is a "very good person" he will understand and wait for you.
649913
First off being a virgin is perfectly admirable and I give props to any one that has the ability and will to abstain.  If it was me though I'd go out with someone that had a lil experience maybe 5-10 partners.  That way I already knows she knows what she likes and hopefully she's not too  uptight so we both can play and have a lil fun teaching each other what we've learned.  However, if I were to date a virgin it would be to contain myself but, I'd still try to respect her wishes.
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in my experience most guys will jump at the chance to have a "no-strings attached" relationship. I would just tell him that you are not looking for anything permanent you are just looking for a little fun right now that lasts til its over. this way you both know up front not to get your feelings involved. that its just sex.
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That question is unfortunately one that is tricky. Everyone deserves a chance to prove themselves worthy. BUT, he has admitted to cheating in the past, and sometimes, once a cheater always a cheater. He doesn't sound like he knows what he wants, by saying you never know what will happen in the future, and maybe you should hold off on dating until he is sure. You have to find the answer in yourself and go from their. You are your own best judge of what you want. and no one on here is going to be able to solve your question. \n\nIf you want to take a chance and date him, then you should, but I would be leary, I really don't think he is ready. I talk to my guy friends all the time, and they understand me,,,,but that doesn't mean we should date ya know?????\n\nDon't settle just because he understands you. I understand where you are coming from but that doesn't mean we should date. See where I'm coming from. PLUS YOUR A GIRL AND I ONLY DATE GUYS lolololol!!!!!\n\nI wish you luck, and maybe you should take time,,,,don't open yourself up to him so much, and let him play into that. He knows what you want with him, and hasn't made an attempt to change your situation, by being a couple, just go slow,,,hang out and talk,,,,and be friends,,,don't let your heart do your thinking, it can confuse things much more if you do that...\n\n\nGOOD LUCK\nDAPHNE
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
42761
Tell them that you promised yourself you wouldn't date till a certain time.  Then tell them that it is important for you to keep your promises and not to have friends trying to "help" you break them.
359696
well right now you are just a convienience, you will have sex and not require commitment.  Why would you want a guy like that?  He has made his wants obvious.  I say quit giving yourself away to a guy who is most certainly using you and find somone who deserves you, who wants more than a quick role in the hay.
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yes\n\ntell him exactly what you just told us...\n\n...okay, maybe minus the first boyfriend thing...\n\n...but what you said makes complete sense...you said it really well, and any guy that cares about you will understand...\n\nsoo..just omit the first boyfriend part and tell him what you wrote above :):)\n\nGood luck. It does get easier :)