I've been really really close with this one friend.. And now that we've gone thru some tough times, she's acting like she's moving on.. I don't know what to do..\nI miss her.
130062
Definetly talk to her and ask her straight out what is going on Good Luck
579259
It's time to recognize when a friendship has ended...\n\nIf she has some problem with you, but refuses to discuss it, or to even talk to you, you need to forget about her... \n\nAnd don't worry about it too much.. friends growing apart like that is part of life... it's always a bit puzzling when it happens for the first time, but trust me, it won't be the last either...\n\nChances are, a couple of years from now, you'll look back and wonder what made you friends in the first place...and by that time, you'll have plenty of other friends..\n\nLife is too short to go through it worrying about why one particular person doesn't want to be friends with you (anymore).
381931
She's just feeling uncomfortable,same as you. It will take awhile for you two to get back to the friendship you had-so take it slow and just let her know that you value her friendship,and will always be there for her.
630471
oh dear.. this has happend to me too. The best thing to do is try your hardest (though challeging) to move ahead with your life. Time to look for new friends! Be confident, and calm. In a month or so, call up your old friend again, maybe by then she will have missed you, and ask to be friends again. If not, well, there are plenty more fish in the pond. It is the cold, hard truth!
339561
talk to deja and tell her what is going on and how  feel maybe she can try and change for the better but she migtht feel bad because it goes if you are a true friend you will aceppt you for who they are but it always isent true just talk to her let her know what is going on maybe there is something bothering her that you can maybe help with
23654
If someone is not your best friend anymore that means that either you or he/she or both have changed (assuming there is not a discussion that has made your relationship to grow apart).So if now you have different interests, or have that sharing time with other friends is more amusing, then try to feed those friendships. If you really feel like you still want this friend to be a very close friend, talk it out and see why youa re becoming distant from one the other. Sometimes friends dont keep in touch for a while, but usually they come back when they realize they feel comfortable around.
382287
Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.
570210
She was gone and you found a new group to socialize with. I am sure everyone at school was like "wuz up with her skippin' school"? right? So maybe you judged her as well but now things are too weird between ya'll because of your new friends. Ya'll need to talk you can work this out if you truely miss her. Call her up and just start chatting. Before you now it things will work themselves out and ya'll will be hangin' out again.
656970
If the line was really crossed and your friend never  owns up to her part in things, do you really need her around?  \n\nFind some real friends who will be there for the good and the bad times.
146527
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
206281
Make sure you tell her you deserve an explanation for her distance. This is important. You have the right to know why she no longer wishes to be a part of your life. Just pull her to the side nicely or if you can catch her alone even better and just be like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been distant lately, is there anything wrong...did I do something to upset you?" Then if she doesn't wanna talk or explain herself, tell her "I deserve an explanation and I'll only try this once if your gonna give me the cold shoulder. I care about you enough to address the situation, but if you don't wanna be my friend anymore, at least have the decency to inform me like a woman". After this. just do what's in your heart. Go your separate ways and look into other options in friends. Someone is out there in the same boat as you and you'll find a new BFF soon. Good Luck!
561476
I know she may not be able to respond but deep down I really think part of her understands. It may feel weird, but I think you should talk to her like she can understand. Just talk to her, tell her about your fun times together. Tell her your going to miss her. If you don't you will feel terrible later for it. You need to just put in your last words now before it's to late.
567675
i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
324344
well it might be that she think`s you are not going to have time for her no more or she really was not your true friend in the first place. true friend`s dont just walk out like that
106467
okay...first of all let her be...its hard at first but you will get through it...if you ignore her maybe she will realize what she lost...and if she doesn't then that's her lost ..it hurts but dont bring yourself down ...if you tried to mend things and she didn't then you know she was really not a good Friend....;)
525493
It's hard to say but from what you said I heard signals going off too. Keep being her friend and slowly find out what you can. If its a bad situation maybe you can be a helpful influence on her to get out of a bad situation. I really dont think she was hinting at you to get lost.
72613
A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.