When you are hidding sex from your parents where do you do it?
136681
if you are not mature enough to talk about having sex with your parents and/or others then you shouldnt be doing it. If you have to hide it then its obviously wrong, so dont do it. If it were right to do then you wouldnt have to hide it.
283465
turn off all of the lights so that it is pitch dark in your house. Open the drapes. If it is lighter outside (full moon, street lights, etc) no one will be able to see in. Then take off all of your clothes and masturbate while looking outside. of course, you may want to go outside and look in just to make sure you can't see in. \nor... go buy a cucumber. ;-)
597688
Time will heal all of this.  Maybe even have a talk with your dad, and apologize to him for this.  Eventually they'll start to trust you again, if you don't mess up again.  Just remember, the stuff you do to your parents, may happen to you with your own kids.  Also, parents aren't dumb.  History repeats itself...they know all the tricks, because they've either heard of it, or have done it themselves.  Not alot of teens realize that when they are caught in a lie, it actually hurts the parent's feelings too.  The best advice that I can tell you is that you should never act in any way that would either hurt your parent's feelings or embarrass them.  That way your trust will be built up, and they won't worry about you as much.  If your dad would tell you to be in at 10:00, then be in for 9:30.  It'll go a long way with him.  Your dad was only concerned about your welfare. cause there are too many pervs out.  You messed that up and now you're paying the price.  If something would have happened to you, it would have really hurt your dad.....think of it like that.  It's obvious to me that he loves you.  And since you're so young....how about some advice about sex?   Love can wait 5 years, lust can't wait 5 minutes.  If you have to "prove" your love by having sex, then the guy isn't worth it, and remember you don't have to prove anything.  Another thing...if you're still a virgin, girls at school may tease you about being a virgin.  That's ok.  Tell them this...."I can be like you anytime I want, but you can never again be like me".  I wish you the best of luck..and please be careful.  Have a good day....
648852
From my experience, coming home late or breaking curfew was a major way of testing my parents trust. Considering your ages, I am surpised that your parents are so restrictive. Ask yourself, what is this 'bad' that they think you're doing? Did your parents come from deeply religious families? Were your parents also restricted by their parents? What about her parents? It may not be fair, or make a whole lot of sense these days, but that could explain some of their methods. Do you or your girlfriend have troubled pasts, maybe trouble with the law? Did you ever have a truancy problem with school? Don't think that I am blaming their behavior on you, I just want you to think of all  possibile reasons. It almost sounds like you two live a bit far away from eachother, and that might explain why you're only allowed to see eachother twice a week, and talk on the phone for only half an hour a day. Have I nailed it yet? No? Okay, parents may not seem to make any sense some of the time, but they are your parents. Like it or not they have say into your relationships. The more you show respect for them and their wishes, usually the more trust they'll have for you. So if you're considering sneaking around after dark or anything like that, don't try it. Chances are you'll get caught, and just imagine how often you'd get to see her then? Probably not at all. I know this is a hard time for you both, you're almost legal adults, but until you turn the magic age of 18, you just have to bite down and endure this. You will get through this, just be patient with her and your parents. I am going to assume that talking with your parents wont make much of a difference, but there is nothing wrong with trying. Ask them what it is that they fear so much, and do your best to put that fear to rest. Assure them that you intend to follow their wishes, and do so when you're out with her. If they see that you're true to your word, the less likely they are to shorten the leash. I get the feeling that their fear is your sexual activity. It is my personal opinion that you two are at the ages when your sexuality is your business, however a parent will feel like your business is always their business. You can be 50 years old, and they'll still consider you their baby. Being that your sexuality is your business, I hope you wont mind if I give you a piece of advice: protect you and your girlfriend and use a condom every time. Anyway, you will get through this, I promise. Good luck.
200424
It would depend on your relationship with your parents.\n\nDon't tell them if you don't want to, if your reasoning for telling them is because they expect it regardless of your wishes. If you feel compelled because you have an open relationship and share things like that then maybe you should tell them.
667561
fooling your father around\n\ni think it would be better to let him do it if he's drunk
39372
There are so many different positions, and i really don't feel comfortable telling them, but you should get the Kama Sutra book and check out some stuff.  My boyfriend have Kama Sutra and we just open the book to any random page, and do whatever is on that page.
575898
No - no one can tell these things based on how someone walks. No, your parents won't necessarily find out. You need to find a trusted person to talk with about sex - what you don't know CAN and WILL hurt you. If you don't have a trusted adult in your life to talk this through with then find a trusted health professional, guidance counselor, even a teacher should know what the best local resources are for you to get more information. Sex is a wonderful thing - AFTER you inform and prepare yourself and decide that you are ready.
570219
Well, it may sound fruity, but the book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens" is a good one. Your parents have 2 concerns in this matter. Your safety and the boys interests. Since you cannot know what the boys are thinking, don't bother telling mom and dad you won't do anything with them. Since you can't change your parents opinion of those boys (or boys in general), don't try. Leave the "mom i need some freedom" in the trash where it belongs. Show your parents you are responsible. Follow their rules. But at the same time, open an honest, rational dialogue about why you want boys over. See if they are willing to compromise. Like letting a boy over if you sit in the living room in full view at all times and not when your parents aren't home. It may be a slow process, but this will work. First try to understand your parents objections. Then work rationally and without emotion on those objections........I'll give you an example.\n\nMy dad didn't allow boys over when I was young. I couldn't go to dances, call them on the phone, or even talk about dating. His objections? Premarital sex, drugs, alcohol, and staying out late. Ok, first, staying out late. No problem, curfew.........and I followed it. Second, drugs and alcohol, it's one thing to say you won't do them, and another to not. Since dad wasn't around to see me not take drugs, I pointed out my other responsible acts (Spanish club, Mentoring, 3.6 GPA). Third, premarital sex, ok, again, can't be there all the time. So I let him know what I knew. I let him know I wasn't interested in that sort of thing. And then I let him know what the warning signs were if a boy was pressuring me..........and that I wouldn't allow it. Sure enough, I was dating in no time. I was trusted. And by Senior year, I had a 3 am curfew, a dad who asked how my day went without judging, AND a sense of self-worth.
669973
I know many kids who get pregnant and they have unprotected sex because their parents are too scared to talk about that touchy subject with their child.\n\nMost schools teach about the science of sexual intercourse. How its done, how STDs and HIV are transmitted, and they teach about the cycles of pregnancy.\n\nIt is the parents' "job" to teach their young ones about teenage pregnancy and about the emotional effects of sex. If your kids do not know about what sex is, then how will they know if what they are doing is right or wrong? Schools will not teach our kids about the emotions that come with sex. \n\n"What happens if my partner leaves me after sex and after I get pregnant?"\n\n"What happens if I get pregnant, what are my options? What if my parents will kill me?"\n\n"Does sex hurt? What are the reprecussions of having unprotected sex?"\n\n"If my partner wants to have sex, does that mean I should just do it?"\n\nThese are questions that only a parent can answer. Schools do not have the authority or the "legal rights" to answer them since they can only teach students the science of it.
435474
They will not tell your parents. You can tell them not to call your house or if they do to use a fake name so that your parents do not find out. You can go alone. Since you are under 18, I believe that it will be free for you or extremely cheap. \n\nIf you are a virgin, you might get to skip the physical exam. If you are not, you'll get a vaginal exam done and a PAP smear and possibly a pregnancy test. If you ask, they can do STI testing as well. Good luck.
76940
This is a stupid question.  Don't hide anything from your girlfriend or boyfriend, because if you hide something and you get married to them, and then they find out about it, they'll be upset and may divorce you.  So just get it out in the open and talk about it.  \n\nFor example, there was a question a while back about a woman who married her husband and then he told her he is into bestiality.  Probably something you should tell your partner before getting married.
417451
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
450743
call the police and report you for indecent exposure lol
565394
i ignored my parents and had sex
542153
its not something you just do around the house...bedroom might be a better place to start.  first thing i would suggest is go to the book store like barnes and nobles or boarders and pick up the book "what your mother never told you about sex"...or you can order it.  it will clear up some confusion you seem to have about things. if you don't like that book dont buy it and it, try searching for another one.  you can look around the on-line booksellers and see what is out there.  \nhttp://www.amazon.com/What-Your-Mother-Never-About/dp/0399148426 (this was a good one a friend had recommend for teenagers)
209745
A.  I doubt this ever happend.\nB.  My guess is catching your parents turns you on.\nC.  I suggest you get some help.