my boy friend wants me to sleep with him but i dont know if i should(we are both 16)
132034
daaaah just get in bed n sleep like how u can share a bed with someone else
3655
Thats not Cool. It would be legaly considered rape.Just because he's your boyfriend dosent give him the right to take advantage of you. You could explain to him that he got the wrong signal from you.Maybe you should have explained your stance on sex before you slept with him in the same bed...but dont think that its your fault.He shouldnt have done that with out your permission.
271435
if your sleeping with another guy then your not really in love with your boyfriend, if you really wanted and loved your boyfriend then you wouldn't do anything to mess your relationship up, so I think you should break up with your boyfriend and find one that you couldn't stand to cheat on.
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At that time in life a persons affections can change with the weather.  You are more likely to have a longer and more important relationship with your friend then some guy who doesn't stay in one place for long and seems to be getting in trouble with the law.   \n\nI personally think you both should probably stay away from this boy, but now she is involved with him.  What do you think will happen?  Is he going to get into  more trouble or is he going to move back into your house or a remote relative maybe?  You don't need to get involved here and if I was you I'd be a bit protective of my friend and try to help her keep some distance too.\n\nPeace!\n\nPS - It could be anything.  I could just be that you have similar interests, it could be that he would love to date a 16yr old, it could be that he is just being friendly and you are reading more into it than there is or maybe he senses your interest and is teasing you or causing trouble.  If you talk to him about it, then you are the one who puts it out there and your friend won't appreciate that.  He can be a charming person to be around without being interested in you or a good catch.
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Don't quite agree to the answer above. What's more important is how you feel. You don't need to worry about what you brother MAY think. After all, it's your life..\nAlthough, I admit that depending on the age you're in, it could be a little touchy. As you didn't mention how old any of you is, I tend to say, give it a try to find out what he feels.\nIf you're e.g. 13 and he's 18, well, then enjoy having the crush and dreaming of what could be. But don't pursue... Some dreams better remain what they are: dreams..
642926
I, being a good little girl, do not sleep with my boyfriend. I think that the best part is have someone there whenever you need them. Having someone to talk to or to to comfort you. I love to feel loved.
386538
Friend - I see no problems other than the age thing which you did not go into.  If you are under 16 and he is over, stay friends until things change.  Other than that, go for it...the worse that can happen is that the two of you will decide you are better friends than a couple.  GBY
251699
The worst thing yo could do is sleep with a guy that you want to keep as a friend. Once you sleep with us its no turning back to friendship.
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
350025
I think he wants the best of both worlds, a really good friend and a shag when he feels like it. Think how you feel about him, do you love him as a partner or just a friend. Once you have made your mind up tell him how you feel. If you only love him as a friend tell him and stop sleeping with him as you will never meet someone and so would he not.
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you didn't give your age but sounds like you are pretty young.\nsounds like he may care for you but you may be smothering him a bit.  Although it may be hard, give him some space, if you can't trust him, you don't need him anyway.
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He probably does like you, but not the way you want him to.\nIf you weren't in a committed relationship there isn't much you can do.\nI am a firm believer in NOT sleeping with someone until he/she is committed to only you.\nOf course, if you're okay with just having casual sex, then there is nothing wrong with it...but if you think you have feelings for the person, and they haven't told you they want to be in a real relationship with just you, then you can't fault them if you sleep with them anyway.\n\nIf you're looking for more than a casual fling, then keep dating hun...you'll find the right guy. Just hold off on sleeping with them until you're sure its for real!\n\ngood luck!
70656
Its mean you don't love him you just want to have sex with him and nothing else. ok you better leave him and choose an other healthy person as a boy friend for you who can satisfy you sexuly and you have a orgasm.
132176
You leave your boy friend right now and never return...\n\nHe got you and still talks about 16 year old and his own daughters girl friends..this guy is out of his mind and disgusting. \n\nIf you continue with him you will not only put your own future on stake but also, yours if any born daughters teenage life..Think seriously you are young you deserve much better than this leave him now before its too late.
37360
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
67964
Move on baby , hook up the lovy at school andlet the guy in the  joint enjoy  the  joint .Time is always  short being young means freedom  to  choose , a boy friend is just  a boy friend not a husband you still  have  your  options all open to experince  other people .\n\nThe boy playing watch dog should be  informed that  he is stepping your  rights and he already knows  that so he will not  stay longer , just confirm to him  that you are moving on  that will be enough for him.
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Stop having sex with your boy friend.  \n\nNo matter what others are telling you, you are too young.\n\nThe very fact that you are asking this question demonstrates that you are too young.   \n\nHave a very frank talk with your boy friend and explain why this cannot continue.  If your boy friend doesn’t like you saying no, then be assured he neither loves you nor even respects you and isn’t the right one.  \n\nMy wife and I have been together for 51 years, since we met at 14 and have been married for 46 years.  Believe me when I say don’t do it.