I want to make lasting impressions. All the guys I've dated say I'm beautiful but once the relationship is over they don't call me and find new girlfriends easily. How do I make a guy never forget me?
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You may be doing it without even realizing it.  If you just be who you are, then you'll make the lasting impressions with the right people for you.  There's one, and only one, person out there who is truly made for you, and I wouldn't worry a second about the rest of 'em.
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This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
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Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
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First go introduce yourself. that would be a good start. make yourself noticable at least. you should start a frienship or something before just going out with some guy because he is cute. The relationship will never last if you just go out with each other because he or she is cute. Get to know each other. do you have any classes together? or lunch? even a simple Hi how are you today or say good morning you can't wait for him all the time he may not even notice you. Just don't throw yourself at him.
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Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
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I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
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Just be you. I dont think that us ladies give guys enough credit as far as being able to see through fake or phonyness. But while being yourself, notice things that are important to him or that interest him. You can only learn what these things are by talking and interacting with them. Good Luck
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just be yourself. Not all of us are impressed by showy guys, big egos and bling bling
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The fact that you HAVE a boyfriend should mean something!  He chose you to go out with!  He LIKES you and he sure as heck WONT lose interest so soon!  If you're ready to do 'things' with him then you seem pretty secure and comfortable with him, right? \n\nTo build up your confidence you could try to improve your physical appearance until you feel satisfied with the way you look.  \n\nIf you ARE happy with how you look like and STILL feel scared, maybe you aren't ready to go there with him...?
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I got to say that you shouldn't let this break you down. Maybe you are beautiful or sexy. Now for some guy to say that they "love" you without even knowing you or some guy to just come up to you and ask you out is kind of weird.\n\nYou don't have to make them happy, but just you know, give them a little gesture of some sort. It's OK if you have to be a little on the offensive at times.\n\nIf you really want to make one happy. Find maybe the 1 client that is actually not so straight forward. Someone who actually want to get to know you. Where you were born, your family, relations etc.\n\nThat is the kind of person you are looking for.\n\nEveryone is attracted by looks. Of course, looks comes first, but some people don't care who you are, but they just want to get in bed with you. That is a whole norther story though.
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well i think a good way to get a guy to notice you is to just be yourself. if he is the right guy for you then he will definitely notice you.
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Stand up for yourself, and don't be passive. If you make your good qualities stand out (maybe you are a good dancer, or singer, or maybe you make a great spaghetti dinner...) then he will definitely notice you. \n\nIf he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, then move on. You don't want to be the nagging, clingy girl who just wouldn't let go. \n\nGood luck to you, and remember that the MOST attractive thing to a man is a woman who is confidant in herself!
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Hey Angel,\n\nYou have gotten some good advice regarding your self esteem.\nIf you don't like what you look like change.  Exercise, eat less.\nProbably more importantly .... eat right. \n\nYou've heard about women who seem to crave abuse?  They become battered wives ...after a relationship ends they find another jerk just as bad or worse than the first. \n\nWhy would you be even remotely attracted to a guy who called you a fat ugly whore?  It sounds like you're grooming yourself to be a battered wife. \n\nThis piece of work shouldn't be a consideration.  A girl has to have her standards.   If you ever let him get close to you he's going find out as soon as he can if the "whore" thing is true and most likely spared more rumors no matter what. \n\nI have a very good feeling about you ... I think you're going start doing all the right things and turn into a dreamboat. \n\nGodspeed!
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Listen hun, \nwhy would you waste your tears on someone who calls you ugly? You are NOT ugly....your beautiful! and dont you forget it! Find someone who will love you for you. And LOVE YOURSELF! Have confidence in yourself and the "right" guy will find you! Chin up babe. No more tears for a guy like that.
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.i don't really know why you would just notice ,the reason why you went with someone , but if he told you that he only went with you because he like your looks then its not relevant being with him again .looks don't last for ever remember that next time you look for a guy .yes make sure hes cute but most important is do you really like him for him .and  the same for him to you. and the only way to know when a guy loves you for you is let him see you with no makeup, hair all nappy and your PJ's .if he sticks around for the next day then baby hes yours .......................good luck
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Hello Adri ----\n\nYeah, you seem 2 be in your teens or early twenties.\n\nListen, .....don't pay attention to all the ladies here telling you that men are trash and are no good.....they say that because that's the kind of guy that they've dated before and went through the same stuff as you are going through right now. \n\nEveryone in their life receives a "Broken Heart"......and it's like graduating. Someone showed you that life is not all roses, my dear. ....however , do not think that ALL Boys or Men are slime....because we are not the same. \n\nThis "guy" that dumped you for no apparent reason did not truly appreciate you as a person......maybe he looked at you for what you had and not for the person that you are. \n\nPlease do not be bitter......but look at this as a learning experience, not as a disappointment. If you were the best girlfriend that you could be.....that's all that can be expected of you....is to try your best, young one. \n\nMen and Women can be so negative towards each other because we let emotions and feeling get in the way. However, we fail to look at ourselves and realize how lucky and unique we are as individuals. \n\nBe the beautiful person that you've always been....and never, ever let anyone break your spirit, ok ?? \n\nPeace and Harmony 2 U    :-D \n\nSincero.
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Never put beauty above everything else...\n\nEveryone wants to look nice, beautiful, sexy, muscular (for men)!!\n\nI have beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous friends who are just so tired of shaking off men's advances. At least these girls arent shallow.\n\nthe shallow beauties are just beautiful shells, empty/filthy inside...you'll never enjoy a meaningful life with girls like these.\n\nI'll go for brains, if beauty comes in a package ...well that's a bonus.