i had my girlfrend sleep over and we were cuddling in my bed, its somtimes nice to cuddle with a girl...you dont have to worry about it leading anywere. but she suddenly grabbed me and kissed me on the lips...and i kindof enjoyed it. she said it was a goodnight kiss...im not really attracted to girls but i enjoyed the kiss am i bi now?
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It really depends. You could just be curious, or excited to try something new. But it also could mean that you are bisexual. Why don't you talk to your friend about it? If she is bisexual or lesbian, she will be able to help you through it.
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HELL NO! Most guys think it is awesome if a girl is bisexual. He is just wondering if he might get included in one of  these "crazy summers". Don't worry about it. If you want to do it again, I'm sure he will  be game. He's lucky to have you.
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If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
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im bi but ill answer... girls know wat girls want, like touchn n stuff.... it makes it easier... touch how u would want to be touched
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NO it doesnt make you gay , but in all honesty I would try it ! WHats the worst that can happen ? And in all honesty do you want to wonder what you are missing out on ? I personally used to feel the same way . I have kissed girls and fooled around a little bit with them and I know I am not gay , I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love sometimes its just fine to be with a girl !
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Ok, you are bisexual. Feelings like that totally start at that age. Trust me thats when my feelings started and its not weird at all. You are really starting to grow up and realize that you have sexual feelings and all that. I used to feel sexual towards my girlfriends in high school when I was your age. Many of them turned out to feel the same way about me. I had quite a few girlfriends in high school. Just a warning to you though: Don't make it too public that you are Bi I wouldn't really tell anyone unless you seriously trust them. I don't want to freak you out and maybe its because I live in the south but you can and probably will be threatened because of all the homophobes out there. The schools I went to were in the Bible Belt and I really didn't give a F*** who knew I was bi or les or whatever so I made out with girls all the time - but I did get threatened all the time. I really didn't care but you might not want to risk it. No one reall yhad the balls to do anything to me I guess that they were too scared lol... Have fun enjoy your life and don't let ANYONE tell you how to feel or who to love!
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It sounds like you're bi curious.  It could just be a phase.  If/when you try it, you might decide that was enough...or you might like it and want more--which could mean you're bi.\n\nRight now, I'd say you're just curious. (Like many other people!)
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I dont think so....I made out with a chick when I was drunk and people walked in on us and then people teased us at school because we never talked that much, it was just kinda random...but I don't think I'm bi...
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Me and my fella, well he has to lie on the bed whilt i do whatever i want with him!  Hes not allowed to touch or kiss me at all!  The he does the same for me!  When you come to have sex and you can put your hands on each other it feels so good!  Believe me!  Try it!\n\nGood luck hun xx
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Personally at this point in my life I'm contimplaiting my sexual preference. Like I know I like 2 fuck guys but girls are just great! So I think if it's you then do it. I must admit that before I realized I like girls I was pretty much against gays, bi's and les's but now my prospective has changed!
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well im bi and to tell you the truth it feels better when a girl touches me then when i guy does. i love when my gf touches me but when my ex bf would touch me i wouldnt feel anything. i dont know why this is but it is.
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Doesshe have to be bi? I'm bi-sexual, but I'm taken... Anyway she sounds like she meant a lot. Just keep looking for em', she out there.\nsexkitten01
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Some girls are lesbians not all girls are lesbians.\nBeing affectionate to others of your gender doesnt make you homosexual.\nIn some cultures hugging and kissing is very normal boys with boys, girls with girls.\nThere are different ways of kissing and fondling and I think the difference is very obvious.\nA warm hug and a big kiss in the cheek is a natural, normal and nice way to let the other person you are fond of them.\nI am argentinian and in my country we all greet with a kiss, and I think it is wonderful!
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bi\n\n\n\ni have found a girl attractive & visualized myself having sex with her but it seems like u have REAL feelings for her especially since ur thinking about her day & night.\n\n\nand if u stop having feelings for men, then ur gay.
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No, it's not a bad thing sweetie.  I'm the same way.  If I see a cute girl, and she's in the locker room getting dressed or undressed I think about sex, but I'm not gay, and I like to be with men too.  You shouldn't be confused.  I stopped being confused a long time ago.  It's a visual thing, you're not gay, it's just a visual turn on..just like me.
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No your just bi courious.\nGo have sex with a woman and see how you like it. You may like both and thats perfectly fine.
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first of all if you are sexually aroused by both male and females then you are bi, but if you are only sexually arroused by somebody of the same sex you are then you are gay.\n\nI would suggest going to a gay bar and going onto a date with sombody, not for sex, but to see if you feel more comfortable in a gay relationship first.