I think i might be pregnant and i'm not sure how i should tell my boyfriend.  He already has a little girl who is 5, we have talked about kids but i'm only 19 and not sure that he want's to have another kid right now.  What should i do??
127467
Well first do you think he will be highly upset and uncontrollable if he found out? If so, you might tell him in a public place, like a parking lot of a walmart or restaurant. Etc.. Another approach is ask him how he would feel about the two of you having children. And then ask how about if it was soon. He will start to catch on. Also let him know that this is possible and that you are'nt sure yet.
75414
Please don't do it tonight!!  If you are hear asking, then the two of you are not ready for that step in your relationship yet.  I know my first time I made my boyfriend wait 9 months (I figured if he could wait that long, he MAY be willing to wait that long for a child if anything happened).  Though that was 15 years ago, I am now a single mom and everyday is a challenge.  I couldn't not imagine being 15 and a single mom.  Please take your time, talk with him, make sure you are really ready!  Sometimes you are more ready to say "NO" then you are to handle the consequences.  Good Luck and if things do happen, please use protection (don't rely on him to use it, you both should!)!!!
635498
To bad for you....you going to have some mayor problems if you are pregnant...but if you are don't go getting no abortion...you opened your legs now you gotta take the consequence. First you let go of guy #1...tell him its over....and guy #2 who you think you pregnant from..you don't gotta lie to him about anything...if you are pregnant..he needs to take care of you and your baby...He's not Innocent either..he had part of it... to bad for his girlfriend.. Not saying yah gotta get married and all that but at least let him be part of it...
658268
You should find a Planned Parenthood (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/) or Pregnancy Help Center of some sort.  They will let you take a free pregnancy test and will not tell your parents if you are underage.  If it comes back positive, then they will help you decide whats next.  I recommend going to a Pregnancy Help Center because they are usually run by Christian volunteers and can help you to tell family and the father if you have not already.
494089
If you haven't been having irregular periods and if you are a healthy lady, I don't see a problem. Maybe it is the guy. Don't be worried. Check in with a doctor. I have seen some patients come in and are put on birth control for a couple months to help them have babies. Therefore, the doctor may diagnosis your symptoms. However, I hope there is a real psychic out here who would be able to help you.  But they would really have to say more about you to know that they are real. Hang in there. Even at 35 babies are still healthy and possible. Take care and try not to stress over it to much your time will come when god chooses the right child for you. I hope my comment help in some way.
326732
I think you should stop worrying so much because stress can make it stay away for a long time. If you keep looking for it, it might not come so just relax. Make sure u use birth control with your boyfriend just to make sure that you won't become pregnant. Good luck:)
624138
I am married and pregnant with another man's baby.  I was separated from my husband for 5 months before I got pregnant with my boyfriends baby.  My ex (soon to be ex-husband) still wants me sometimes too.  He said that if he got the chance to have his family back, he would in a heartbeat, even if he had to help raise another man's baby.  BUT......I don't feel right about that.  I should have never married my hubby because I didn't love him enough, and we were pressured because we already had one little girl together a year before we got married, so we went a head and did it.  Now, I have two little girls, already, and one more little girl on the way.  Yeah, i messed up, maybe if i would've given it a little more time after the separation, me and the ex could've worked things out, but I wanted to move on with my life with this other man.  But, anyways, the point is,,,,,,,, i am currently in this situation, and I choose to not go back to my ex husband because I have ruined everything that we could have had together.  I am still in love with my new baby's daddy, but he couldn't handle the situation, either, so we broke up.  So, make the decision that's right for you.  You are the only one that knows your whole situation. Good luck!     Praying a lot helps too!
228722
Tell Him you only had sex with the only men you love, tell him you are pregnant and you will  keep the baby, he will probably not merry you and that's okay because you don't love him anyway, but when you tell him make sure there are people around you don't want to get hurt.\n\nPS I was going for immacul......conception but i don't think is gonna fly
157196
Well being open and honest is the best, if you really want to have a child  then talk to him about it, just let him know that this is what you want, and ask him his oppion on it, it is better to be open about these things,
12630
Take the pregnancy test first! If it's positive for pregancy, then talk to him in private about what kind of decision you both need to make together.
616211
Ooh...what a mess! Ok, first, should have waited a little longer to cohabitate. Now that makes it hard on you, your boyfriend and your son. All things in due time, my dear. Next, I do have some good news here...you'll probably always love your son's father in some small way because he shared with you an experience no one else has, which is creating your child together. This will change with more time, though I can't say if your feelings for your boyfriend will change. I loved my ex dearly but he wasn't in love with me. He accidentally got me pregnant and we both decided it was for the best for me to have an abortion. We're still great friends ever since we broke up, but that will always tie us together, even though no one else knows what truly bonded us. It took me time but I didn't move on until I was really ready and it sounds like you did. You're also really young and you already have a child so a lot of this could stem from those early 20's feelings of newfound independence and sowing wild oats. Only you can decide. Take some time for yourself and figure out what it is you really want. Once you clear your head, you might realize you do love this man, or you might soundly be able to declare to yourself that you don't. Remember that love takes time to build and establish, and you haven't been with this new guy for too terribly long. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you.
349205
Some guys just lose it when they hear you're pregnant.If he was willing to do the deed,he should at least lend his ear to listen to what you have to say.You should take a pregnancy test,just to confirm it.If positive,you will need to decide what goes on from there.It's not all on you.Everyone knows it takes 2 to tango and so on.So try your best to MAKE him listen.You will need his support and advice.I'm guessing you 2 are the only ones that know.If I'm right then you will defintitely need each other.Regardless of the outcome,you should maintain a friendship level of some kind.Best friends are supposed to stick together no matter what!!Best of luck to both of you..
16861
dont worry , you may well be pregnant....and ofcourse you can get pregnant.just keep trying...
290795
Wait.  When the time is right you will know.  Or you'll get pregnant on accident and you'll make it the right time.  It's OK, your only 30.  It's not like you guys don't have plenty of time.  Enjoy life and each other.  Good Luck.
285529
I know it's scary, but if you are pregnant, the baby isn't just going to go away because you didnt take a pregnancy test, right? you either are or arent, and it would be best for you if you just bite the bullet and find out.  As far as this guy goes, if you've been seeing him for a year, and he still hasn't ended his marriage, chances are that he's not going to leave her, and he's just stringing you along. As much as it would hurt, and easier said than done, it might be best to end the relationship. Maybe you should go to a therapist about it.  It won't hurt, and you can get some different views on the situation and some advice on how to solve it.  good luck.
221918
well the first thing you do is tell your bf.\nyou both need to talk about how you feel about the baby.\n\nYou are going to be facing alot of choices and decisions.  Take time to sort through them all. This is a huge step in life no matter how you handle it.\n\nat this point your best mate has nothing to do with the decisions you have to make. Deal with that issue later.\n\nBest of luck!!!
563287
you are stuck in a really seriose situation, what ever you do make sure you dont do abortion, because then you would just kill your own baby!!!!my advise is to tell your boyfriend the trueth, he is not going to like it but the sooner you tell him the easier it will be, if you wait you are going deeper into the forest and chooping down more wood. that means that you are making more problems for yourself.