There is this guy I work with (it's a community service project, not my real job) who I think I'm falling for. We've only talked a few times, but our conversations flow and we seem to have good chemistry. I don't know much about his social life (he goes to a different school) so i don't know if he has a girlfriend or likes someone. I want some advice on what I should do (ask him out, etc.) the boyfriends I've had in the past have asked me out, so I'm unsure how to approach him to ask him out.
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man are very hard to read you really never can tell if they are taking or not. whether or not there married you can never tell either. just beat around the bush when you ask him if he has a girlfriend. like" you must make your girlfriend a very happy woman. that's a good start. and if he does not have one ask him if he would like to go bike riding or something fun. gl
302277
Hey......Ok, listen, my advice would be "talk to him," tell him that you really like him, and you were wondering if he would like to hang out once in a while....If he says "sorry I have a girlfriend" or something like that...Don't feel bad, at least you'll know that you tried!\n\nTrust me there isn't anything worse than not doing anything and after going in your head over and over "I wonder what would of happened if I had talked to him"...and things like that! Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there, sometimes you might get hurt but it's the only way you'll know! If he says no or something, just don't feel rejected, it's not gonna be your loss, but his....ok? Life is about taking risks, if nobody took any risks then life would be boring....and trust me it's the only way to learn! That happens to me all the time, I always end up wondering what would of happened, don't make my mistakes, and go for it! Good Luck!
377749
so do you consider this guy a friend ?? You really need to sit down and talk to him. Do you have feeling for him ? Sometimes guys like to play mind games to see how you feel about them. If he is your friend then you should be comfortable asking him. If you like him make the first move. Be flirty. Hug him, kiss his cheek. If he shys away after you talk to him let him know that nothing will change if those arent his feeling but unless you do this you will never know. Or you could be sneaky and date someone else to find out how he feels but this could lead to hard feelings. Would you rather have him in your life as a friend or a boyfriend ?? Remeber friends are harder to find then boyfriends. Good luck
383230
Well l guess it's all up to you. If he really liked you , you would think he would of asked you out by now. Do you think that perhaps he thinks you just want to be friends with him. You have your work cut out for you then.I guess you will have to give him the nod and let him know you are keen on him. Depending on how long he has been single he may need some more time. Only you will know by the response you get whether he is keen on you or not. Good Luck  just speak to him.
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Wherever you two see eachother the most would be a good time to ask him. Make sure you aren't surrounded by all of his friends, but include some of yours for support. If you like movies, bring up the last movie you saw, play off of his response...then suggest going to see one and exchange numbers, this way you can set things up privately. Now, if you meant asking a guy to be your boyfriend, you might want to boost up his ego and confidence when the two of you are alone. Let him know that you could really see yourself being with someone like him. If he's smart, he will bite the bait and end up asking you out. Now he knows for sure you will say yes...he probably wasn't too sure. Men don't get it sometimes!\nIf that doesn't work...Ask him if he has a girlfriend, and does he want one...If he says No to the first part and Yes to the second, then tell him that You want to be his. \n\nThis should seal the deal!
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Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
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Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
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In this case you are lucky because you had a chance to see for yourself what kind of man he is.  Based on what you witnessed I personally would not ask him out, instead I would get close to him, be his friend and then hopefully he will get the message that you like him.  Sometimes guys do not like girls that make the first move.  So, it is in your hands, you decide.  I do agree with the first person that answered you should ask very discreetly why their union did not last.
368273
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after work, if he says yes than he is probably interested.  But that way if he says no then you didn't come out with your feelings so he won't act any differently.
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hes flirting with you he could actually like you.but do you feel the same way.???just go along with it and see if he actually asks you out.he could actually like u i say go for it
259326
Have someone mention to him that they are wondering about his GF. Thats how you find out. If he is single let him know you are interested, if he has a girlfriend then oh well maybe hes got a cute friend.
462956
you could always make the first move and ask him out instead of waiting until he figures out that you like him. good luck ! =D
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I dont think love is involved in this case. I believe there is a mutual attraction between the two of you. Before you decide to get involved or go any further with this guy, I suggest you confirm if he has a girlfriend or not. You dont want to get yourself involved if he does. That is trouble you dont need.
317691
Since both you and this guy are rather shy you will have to get over your shyness in order to talk to him directly. You don't have to ask him out, but start to really talk to him and get to know him. Build up a "talking" relationship where he feels comfortable talking to you and you feel comfortable talking to him. When you're at that level you can see how you feel about him then and assuming you're still attracted to him you can move on to possibly dating.\n\nIn general, you should wait for him to ask you out, but there's no problem with you being bold and taking the initiative.\n\nTake things one step at a time, but take the steps!
669703
Maybe he likes you. I would caution you, though. My experience is that it isn't good to go out with someone that you work with. How are you going to feel after a nasty split with this guy when you have to see his face every day?
500197
Hell yes ask him out!  How are you going to know if you dont try?
273675
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.