i dont know why this happens, am successful in life but not socialy in comfort...
127105
there is a simple reason for it, you are anxious about something, even though you are successful in life there is something on your mind, and you need to eliminate it if you want to stop this habit.
446366
I know how you feel, many people do.  I get anxious about being around people I am unfamiliar with.  As for starting new things, I've just found that it gets better with practice.  The more new things you can get yourself to do (start small) the easier these things will become.  When you do acomplish something, give yourself praise for summing up courage.  \n\nThis does sound like social anxiety disorder.  My psychology professor said that a great first step in conquering S.A.D. is by simply smiling or saying hello to people as you pass them (like at a park, or in your neighborhood).
671785
It sounds like you're doing fine.  You're just a more excitable person.\n\nEnjoy it.  Put a towel or folded sheet under you and stop worrying so much.\n\nIt sounds perfectly normal.
128552
I don't know what it is exactly but it seems like you may have  some anxiety issues surrounding social interaction and maybe some negative self talk. The best way to deal with both things is to surround yourself with positive people whom you feel comfortable with and just relax and enjoy life. Think about your strengths and less about your weakneses. Life isn't an IQ test.
306731
I think there are a lot of people out there who have experienced what you're going through right now. You're not alone in feeling friendless! People tend to gather in cliques for no apparent reason and it can be difficult to break in. I applaud your efforts for trying! It may be helpful to join a club or an organization that congregates for a certain reason: e.g., volunteer organization, running club, sports groups, etc. This may help because then you will have a conversation starter about the common interest you have.\n\nIt also sounds like this has affected your self-esteem (and understandably so). As difficult as it may be, remember that you are a beloved child of God! He has created you in his image and you are the apple of his eye. He loves hanging out with you and listening to all you have to say. Living in this truth will allow you to be more confident in yourself.\n\nTake care.
647706
It sounds like you are maybe a teen or young adult, I am not sure. But I am 15, and I have that same exact feeling, its kind of wierd how well you explained it. But I just try my hardest to live in the moment, I think that is the only thing that you can do. By doing that I found something I love to do that makes me happy, tennis. And I realized that by thiking that way I stopped sociallizing, so I try to do one thing social a day(normally doesn't happen) But when it does I am happier. Just dont think of the future and think about what you want to do or be right now, and then try it. Each day you will make more progress to being happy again.
615282
Could be that you just haven't made a habit out of it. Back in college I had a spot in the library where I felt the most comfortable studying. I noticed that in any other place, I would study for a less amount of time because of other distractions.\n\nTry to find your own spot where you feel comfortable and you know interuptions won't happen. Give yourself a goal as to how much you're going to get done and commit yourself to reaching that goal.
239986
sometimes. people really annoy me sometimes but i put on a happy face. i hate my job and i dont want to go back to school. i want to win the lottery and never work again and live somewhere far far away so i dont have to see people i know for a long time. im bothered by a lot but i cant say anything. so technically....yes, yes i am living a lie. reall, who isnt??
200589
I used to be the exact same way and now I am a "social butterfly". Definitely follow your heart. Life has it's own natural path. Be patient, be you, but most of all be happy. :^)
79936
It sounds like you need some kind of activity or even a change of lifestyle to fill the void.Have you considered\nvolunteer work of some kind? You meet new people and get the feeling of satisfaction from helping others.You don't\nfeel empty when you're being stimulated like that.
627684
That sounds normal to me.  I am not moving but I think that you would want to see your friends and the comfortable familiarities of your life because you will be going to a new place. Good luck.
273006
I'm thinking you are probably dreaming.  In reality I bet you live in your parents basement and ride a bicycle to your job at the nearest fast food joint, you don't have any friends and haven't been on a date in years.\n\nPeople who brag are usually overcompensating.
570986
This happens when people are neglected. Find something you like to do and make friends who are positive. Sometimes, even having friends through the internet gives you something to look forward to, and it can help boost your confidence and self-esteem and not make you feel like you want to run away. And of course, make a personality of your own, so that your family can notice you and appreciate your inner beauty! :)
8465
It could be that (1) somehow you choose to be by yourself, (2) that you might be too selfish and only think about yourself instead of giving yourself to others (I have learned that when you are too selfish you tend to make others feel uncomfortable), or (3) that you are doing things that may make you not want to be part of the team by "going against the grain", or (4) you may not be being as friendly to them as possible.
67543
I get that too all the time.  Its called social anxiety disorder.  I have to take meds for mine.  Mostly xanax.  I totally know what you are going through and it can be very embarrassing.  If you need to talk more, my email is ivegtaluckystar1@yahoo.com.
230966
There are moments in everyone’s life when we feel loneliness.  This could be the result of several different aspects of our lives; some of them hard to identify and other so simple to understand.  You must look into your life, without holding back, what it’s that is troubling you.  Is it your marriage, your job, school, children, accomplishments in life, friends, family, well you get the point.  Start with the simplest ones and go on.   Meantime, try to distract yourself by doing something new in your life…something that you always wanted to do, but keep postponing; break the routine! \n\nBest of luck,
6136
There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. It'd be a problem though if none of the things you've already mentioned were prevalent in your life (e.g. family, friends, social activities, and so on). Good for you!