What can I do? I know that if we do get to be together it may not last because no one can know about us but he seems to want to go ahead.
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Before anyone can really help with this question, you need to explain WHY this relationship is considered "forbidden."  If this involves an older person and a minor, then the older adult is wrong for pursuing the relationship, and it should end immediately.  \n\nThere are many other types of "forbidden love."  I was in-love with a guy when I was in college who was white (I am black), and it was horrible to want to be with him, but neither of us wanted to act on our feelings.  We're both married now, but I still think of him and wonder, "What if."  I don't know if we would have made it for the long haul, but we would've faced an uphill battle mostly from family.  I was too young, and not ready for that kind of fight.  \n\nIf this is something that can never, EVER be public then the relationship is probably really wrong, and you should probably move on (and quickly).
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Its a relationship but not the kind that it seems that u want from this person. Maybe u should try dating people but keep talking to him.. if and when he decides to come around thats great but if not, your life has gone on and you are not stuck on hold.
126909
To move on you need to find someone new, then it will be too hard for him too see you with someone else and he'll hopefully stay out your way!
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Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck
156109
Let him know just how you truly feel but be ready for the consequences like him saying he wants to be "just friends" Maybe he doesn't think he knows you well enough to jump into it right now but stick by his side if you do care thats what good frineds are for, still letting him know how you feel just by being there for him.
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I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
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If after two years he states this to you, he obviously knows what he wants.  I know it hurts, but you can go on.  You may be lonely and want this man or a relationship, but think about this.  Try to involve yourself in other activities such as volunteering to give yourself that sense of pride that no one, not even a man can take away from you.  Move on.. one day at a time.  perleo@yahoo.com
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Many of your words are in short hand,and i don't really get it.Anyway be very stern if you're not ready.Tell him you need to think bout it.
303500
Bull crap he is leading you on. He wants to keep you hanging just in case he can't find someone else, don't be his doormat..............
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If he is still talking to you than he is considering the possibility. Don't push it, but drop a reminder in a week. Just be careful not to loose a friend over this. I have dated friends and have lost some and not lost others, but there is no formula to it.
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While we like to believe the our friends have the best intentions when telling us something that someone else said about us or our relationship, they don't always get it right.  It sounds like this is the case.  He said, "not at the moment" - he didn't rule it out forever, just not right now.  You have to ask yourself if this person is worth waiting for, if the relationship is worth working for.  Something I have discovered is that when people break up there is usually a reason, and unless that reason is resolved completely, it is only a matter of time, if they get back together, that they break up again.\n\nBottom line here - if you believe him, does it really matter what anyone else says or thinks?
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I would say the best thing to do is to be straight forward and honest, though that's the harder choice. I would contact them or even wait till they come around wanting something and tell them how you feel. " Hey I thought we were pretty close but over time it seems like you come around only when you need something. I don't mind helping you to some extent but when we get together lets do things we can enjoy and is fun." Their response will tell you what kind of friends they are..... Do to them what they are doing to you and see how long they stick around or if they have this talk with you. A friend who wants a relationship with you will work to keep it together and healthy.
380861
Seems like u like him a lot...better have a talk with him first about what u think, then if it's hopeless, end it.
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you might just have to give him time if he doesnt want to be in a relationship just yet. but if he is still dragging his feet a month from now you need to take some kind of action
340605
If you get along and are compassionate toward one another in times of trouble, if you help each other in times of need, if your eyes and minds do not stray to others, and if you are at least 17 then you may end up together. Only you and he know how you really feel toward each other, but if you are under the age of 17 then I doubt it will last know matter what, but you never know. Wait and see.♀
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if he seems not to want to take it further, why would you want to get to know him? Find someone else worth getting to know :)
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speak to him about it. At least hear his side of the story before you do anything else.  Once you have gotten the answer ask the question again and we will see if we can be of any assitance