Well, my girl has gained about 30-35pounds. I have been told quiet a number of times that you can never tell a girl she's heavy, chubby, fat, gained wait or anything related. I love her with all my heart. there are just a couple of things we can't do anymore when we are in bed cause she not as flexible as before. How do I go about solving this one? I say let join a gym or something she'll say I am saying she's fat because I'm fit.
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im 30 pounds heavier for my body built, my bf still loves me like you love your gf, but he's a bit harsh and mean when he tells me those things, so good thing ya aint putting her down, i agree with the others, join the gym together and eat healthy, if you buy her a nice excercising outfit, she might be inspired to join the gym. that's what my bf did! he bought me one whole outfit from nike, and now i go to the gym 4 days a week.
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we like normal girls.. lol\nwe dont want someone thin, we dont want someone fat..\n( well, most..)\nalthough, to be honest, i would rather have a larger girl, then a much skinnier one..\nbut i just want a normal built, girl :)
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I think it's great that your turned on by bigger people.  To much emphasis is put on being skinny. I grew up thinking that if I weighted 125 pounds that I was chubby.  It's not weird.  It's okay to be turned on by it except when the fetish starts controlling you and makes a significant impact on you and others.  But I don't think this happens very much.
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I WOULD!!! I MEAN IT'S NOT ABOUT WHATS ON THE OUTSIDE IT'S WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE THAT COUNTS! RIGHT! I SAY DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT SO MUCH BECAUSE IF A WOMEN CAN'T/WON'T EXCEPT YOU FOR WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE THEN SHE'S PROBABLY NOT WORTH FOOLING WITH!!! I THINK PEOPLE ARE REALLY GETTING TO JUDGMENTAL NOW DAYS!!! SO, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT! JUST BE YOURSELF!! I KNOW HOW YOU ARE FEELING!! I'M 25 YEAR OLD AN HAVE NEVER WEIGHED MORE THAN 120POUNDS AN AFTER HAVING MY SON WENT TO 150! I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING TO LOOSE IT EVER SINCE!\n\nWISHING YOU THE BEST!!\nAN IF YOU JUST NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME!!
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You are too crude!   you make me laugh...\n\n50lbs on an anorexic really can't be 'fat' as you call it...\nbut yeah, dump her..........
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Well my girlfriend who is truly my soul mate is chubby, but is really beautiful and has a great personality. I wouldn't say that I'm dating her because she's chubby, but I'm dating her because I lover her eyes, her smile, and both her inner and outer beauty.\n\nTo me she could have been skinny --- fat and I would still date her because of who she is.
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My gf is kinda like this. She's more into sex than I am. I'm usually up for it once a day, given I'm not really tired or depressed. Her sexual appetite worries me only in that I worry about what kind of trouble it may get her into when I'm not around, but I try to satisfy her needs whenever we're together. And no, I'm not tired of her--I love her more than she loves me, and she admits this herself. Don't be ashamed of yourself, though. I'm glad that she's really into me, and that she's open and honest.
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hmmm, delicate situation! tell her you love her (just lie!), but you can no longer bear to be with her because she makes you nauseated. if she does not understand, then she is a screwed up bitch. \nscarface is good, but to ensure she really hits the curb, tell her she is getting fat.
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When she is having sex she feels secure and eats more. Shen she is not having sex she feels insecure and blames her weight, therefore not eating as much/exercising/etc. This is true of 90% of women in the south. They're skinny until they get married and then they put on 200 lbs....
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Are things or situations putting a lot of stress on your wife? Have you and your wife had any kids yet? Have you gained weight yourself? What things have happened in your lives such as eating habits and changes in lifestyle that might have encouraged this weight gain? \nFor one don't divorce her. Two, hopefully you married her on a higher level beyond her looks even though that also was an attraction you had towards her. Also for her to ask you she is already aware of the fact that she has gained this weight and would probably would like to hear such things like, "We can do it together, take it one step at a time,etc..." Do things with her like eating healthy, and exercising, so she knows she has your support in it. Also, try different sexual positions, be more exotic and make love to her because she wants it not just because you want it. Sex can also be a very exciting and fun way to lose weight. If all this doesn't work and you still don't find her sexually attractive then this is beyond her weight and I would advice you get help.
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FitGuy ... ever hear the story of the jar full of jellybeans?  Yea, you know the one ... take a full jar of jellybeans and take one out for every time you have sex prior to marriage.  Then after the wedding you put back a bean for every time you have sex ... and the jar will never be full!\n\nWell that's just garbage and don't fall for it!!\n\nBut let me give it to you straight from a woman.  A woman's sexual desire is more tied to how she feels about herself than how she feels about you ... no matter how good you look!\n\nI've been married for 17 years and we are having the BEST and most frequent sex of our lives!  Only because I finally started being more selfish and less selfless!  As one of your responders said, woman have a habit of taking on the world's problems and making them her own.  It's hard to feel sexy when your stressed about the kids, the bills, the job, his feelings, does he still find me attractive, etc!!!\n\nMost of us get caught in this trap, even I did for many years.  It wasn't until I hit the gym, lost 65 pounds began bodybuilding and seeing myself as Hot and Sexy that I was able to get rid of that baggage.  If a woman feels fit and sexy on the inside, she will have the need to express that on the outside and her sexual appetite will totally increase ... it's just natural ... trust me!!\n\nMy husband actually likes the fact that I have this selfish side as he is the one who benefits from the overly active sex drive it created.\n\nOK, why am I telling you this?  Well, it's obvious from your photo that you are in great shape ... could she be a little self concious about that ... is she in as good of shape?  The reason I ask is because it doesn't matter how many times you tell her she is beautiful if she doesn't feel it for herself!  She just won't believe you.\n\nAlso, does she share your fitness lifestyle?  Working out together can be very uplifting and sexy ... couples who work out together stay together!  \n\nIf you feel this is not her problem, and she has a great self image, then perhaps a little variety could jump start things.  Try initiating sex in an uncharacteristic place ... be spontaneous ... use a toy ... tell her she is the best sex you've ever had ... find out her fantacies!  Spice it up ... you're her main squeeze so you should know what turns her on the most.\n\nMost of all, do not think a woman's sexual appetite is tied to marriage.  Sex and marriage are two totally different things and each takes work to make them last.  A woman's sexual appetite is tied to how she feels about herself.  No matter what is going on around her.  If she feels sexy, she will want sex!!!  \n\nTrust me, we women love sex ... we want to be told we are the sexiest, and best lovers there are out there ... and a man who can tell us this and make us believe it will have all the sex he can ever dream of!\n\nBest of luck!
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no, if anything it tones you up! ;)\nsince you're still young, ur body is still growing and developing.\nenjoy your new curves, their much sexier than skin&bones, and they're far more feminine. don't be concerned w/what ur friends think. be happy with yourself, i'm positive your fiancee is. by the way, Congradulations!!!
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Ha! I think I just came across your bf's post about his girlfriends butt getting too big. He mentioned how his girlfriend was getting on him for gaining wait and she had "no room" in those jeans to talk.
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Besides getting pregnant, I didn't know girls put on weight when they became sexually active, is this something new??
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I think that sounds fine. My wife is 5'4 and 120lbs...so I think "shorter" girls are cute. And 130 is not fat, not even close. I bet you are a very attractive lady.
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Yeah, That's a good weight because of your height my girl is 5'7 and weigh 160 I don't know where it's all at I think it's behind her because I never seen a small stomach so beautiful so you a little skinny for your age!!!!!
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I am a tall, curvy, voluptous woman who would be considered by\nothers as "plus-size". I work out 3x weekly on weight resistance\nmachines, walk a great deal, and stay active in my lifestyle. My\nclothing size averages between 18-20 womens, at last check my\ncholes. count was 170, and my blood pressure is excellent. Tho\nI am a large woman, I am healthy and in great shape. I dare say\nthat there are more parts of my body that are toned and firm to\nthe touch than those women who bodies are smaller and lighter\nin pounds but not in as good shape as I am. \nIt's your mental attitude, and your image of yourself that counts.\nNo matter what size-stay healthy! Get regular exercise! Take care\nof your appearance, and do things to enhance your beauty-take\ncare of your hair, nails, skin. Wear makeup, jewelry, anything that\nmakes you feel pretty!\nPS. My boyfriend adores my body, and is extremely demonstrative\nin showing his appreciation of it's womanly gifts. Some men just\nwant a woman with a big bust and backside, with a definite waistline to contrast it all with! Keep your curves girl!