My husband has two brothers...they both make passes at me...one of them has even went as far as asking me to sleep with him...should I tell my husband?
138022
I would tell him. but make sure you tell him without exaggeration. Also be sure you don't act flirty or too helpful to or overly smily around the brothers,  they should know you are not that kind of person. They should also have respect for your Husband as well as for you and not make passes at you or ask such things of you, but obviously none of that matters to them.
524008
I'll advise you stick to hope that things will improve with time. Your friend's brother is probably still angry about something that may have happened in your relationship with your fiancee or with himself. You may need to summon courage to ask to discuss your differences. Meanwhile stick to hope and the positive - the fact that your fiancee still sticks up for you. She and mom are still on your side, aren't they? That's enough to sustain hope. Best wishes for a happy resolution.
405015
if you are a girl and this is your brother it would be in your best interest not to say anything to this kid. it is just going to make your brother look like a sissy. he has to stick up for himself. he might be really embarressed if you stick up for him. if you are a guy then do what most big brothers would do... kick his you know what
537211
Sounds like there are two people that you can no longer trust at all. Your ex wife and your slutty brother. All the people for them to have sex with and the come up with each other. \n\nWhat to do? Go on Springer and get them some beads. That's a hot skank mess. Leave her alone and be careful around your brother with future women.
84463
I would only say something if you really feel the need to stand up for your brother, I would do it with them both standing right there so that way there is no he said she said crap going on between them talking about you. I would only do that under extreme cercumstances though. It matters how close you are over all to your brother, I mean if you can talk to him about anything i would definitally say something to him in private, something like dude is it just me or do you seem unhappy here lately, not really blameing her but if it is because of her he will come out and say so, if he asks you what you think i would go ahead and tell him but in the long and short of it if she makes him eat dog food on the floor every night for dinner and he still loves her, support him in his pick for a future wife. You might not like how she treats him over all but it looks like he does, maybe you havent gotten to know her well enough yet, Or maybe he hasnt, who knows. But i would definitally deal with this in a tender way, maybe your mom or dad can say something to him, or you can go to them and voice your concerns, they could probably get away with saying something to him easier then you could. I dont know ive never really been in that situation but i can see it going bad easily if its not delt with care :) I hope that helps
406739
obvioulsy i am not a boy, but i have 4 brothers and i have heard a lot! some are did it hurt, did it hurt wen u fell from heaven. and another one. are you tired? because u have been running thru my mind all day haha there yuo go thats wat its like in a house full of brothers!!
570749
tell me and we'll both know.  i'm 31 and my younger bro is 28 and we still don't see eye to eye on most things.  different personalities unfortunately.  if your bro is nasty and swearing than it sounds like you just need to walk away from him until he can speak to you nicely.  be strong when he bugs you for money, he's just using you as he knows you're an easy target.
169840
i am all for the "find a better guy and make him jealous" thing, but it puts you in a pickle with him being your brothers friend, and if you do anything to upset this guy your brother might get ticked off at you.(because that is how men are) i suggest talking to your brother and finding out what the deal is whether or not this dude is in to you or if he is slow-playin. then i would tell him (brother) that this dude really upset you because of the way he treated you. and if your lucky your brother just might have one of those "rules for dating my sister" talks with the dude.
340806
Sounds like they both have mental problems.  Stay away from both of them before you are asked to share the bed they both probably share.
173781
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
202071
Your brother is going to find out anyway, its inevitable. If he's really your bro's best friends, you're brother WILL find out. You'll just have to figure that out on your own.
556268
I think you should be honest with your brother first, out of respect for him. If he doesn't give you his blessing, you will be disrespecting him to continue. Whether or not you care about disrespecting him affects whether or not you should continue.
606252
Get better friends, I don't mean that in a harsh way but if this friend  knows your brother is straight but keeps acting this way towards him it just seems to me that He is Not being a very good Friend at all Gay or Straight
234635
Just the thought of money changes people. You should have a conversation with your husband and be truthful about how you feel. Make him accountable so that when you are around they feel uncomfortable about doing that in front of you. As far as cheating be patient time will tell just watch what he does not just what he says and make sure they are both in line. As far as his brother either he stops its or you may have to say something about it in front of both of them. Give him a chance to fix it first
427615
I have a saying it's"God forbid the Mister,that comes inbetween me and MY sister" Yea..you should be slapped and so should they if they r betraying each other. I would never ever get involved with my sisters man whether i wanted him or not. It is not right.Walk away from the situation now.
491586
smt similar happened to me, my husband has a twin brother as well...in fact when we met i prefered the brother (physically) but my husband was faster in conquering me, hihi.....years later I started to feel attracted to the brother, he was flirting with me....but I got over it and never flirted back and stayed with my husband....I´ve been with my husband over 15 years now and even don´t like the brother as a friend anymore.....\n\nFirst ask yourself if you really want to marry your fiancee...and if you realise that you don´t ,I would go with the brother if he is interested in you...all this time that your´re were with your fiancee you didn´t have any family meetings with the brother included, so I don´t think it is impossible to be with the brother if he turns out to be the right man for you...GOOD LUCK
610044
I'm a big brother myself, and having this experiance with my sis I know what you mean. Chances are, your brother is either very proud of you, or believes you deserve the very best...instead of harping on him about the guys your talking to, think about why he's on your case  - you may think this guy is a 10, but your brother may be seeing something very different. When all is said and done, you are family to one another, and that's everything.