Even when I'm being nice to them sometimes they yell at me.
135376
Because sometime you are not being so nice as you think you are. don't be defensive and ask what you did that is upsetting  this woman and repeat it back to her so that you understand what she is saying and that you were listening to what she was saying to you. might help. give it a try.
440351
I unfortunately have to answer phones and deal with the public coming into my office and I've noticed that in general people are much more aggressive and abusive than they were say five years ago.  It does ruin my day when someone is abusive to me - just for answering the phone to them! - and I can tell you I certainly do not go out of my way to help these people - I will however if you are civil while you speak to me.  Usually as well people can abusive towards me and when they speak to for example a solicitor (I'm just the secretary!!!) they aren't abusive to them - that annoys me - there is no need for it and it really is so disrespectful.
330416
your idea is totally genius! I always say... kill them with kindness! It will annoy her that you are being really nice to her, and when she realizes that you aren't upset when she's rude to you, she'll get bored and start to ignore you. Most likely she'll entirely move on to someone else (to annoy) good luck! This method has worked for me MANY MAnY times!
454586
It sounds like you are bi-polar like myself.  In this world there are Garfields and Odies...we are Odies, we work to help and please people but once they do not return the kindness we become Garfields with a vengence.  I truly understand how you feel but your family and friends are right, you are fine.  We are known as "people pleasers" and it is hard to accept that people do not return the kindness. The temper and hard to forgive are normal if not extreme.  I bet you believe the same as me "What goes around,,,comes around" ie "What you put out will come back to you" or in modern terms PAY IT FORWARD....but you really are fine and a good person.
533677
You know what? I wouldn't give them the satisfaction. It's much more satisfying to rise above petty antics than to involve yourself in them.\n\nIt makes them look cheap, not you.\n\nBut if you want to really annoy them, just blank them. Always look over their shoulders. They don't exist.
625723
On the contrary you are a very nice sensitive person. Fearing confrontation is not a bad thing, but be sure not to clam up when people are being nice to you.
639272
Who knows? I try to be nice and friendly to everybody,but some people are just plain nasty.
233347
It's a power struggle with people like that...they really want to drag you down to their level. I just never let them.....it pisses them off, you can tell. Gotta love it!
321231
im nearly always angry grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, people dont use their indicators, when old people think they can jump in front of me in a queue, im busy too grandma, whats the rush?your going to die soon anyway, the frigging person who beeps there horn outside my house each night to get next doors attention, get out you fat f**k and ring the doorbell, when you leave something upstairs/downstairs and you already came up/down and remember you need it, people asking if im angry, when i get uneplained creaks in my neck, someone flicking me, needing to do a wee when i wake up on a cold cold lonely night
167048
You seem like a very nice person. At some point, you have to quit letting them treat you like dirt. It could be because somehow you value or long for their friendship. Make them see things from your point of view for once. Some people are just mean, and they do not consider the feelings of others.But, some of these excuses (although they seem lame to you) could be for real. If the same person is doing this over and over ( 3 is my magic number), drop them like a hot potato. Not everyone is like that.
530737
maybe his voice is loud. or maybe he's mad at you for something you did. some people talk loud cause they cant hear themselves well. so he's not really yelling at you, he's talking, but loudly. LOL
35186
i am the loudest of the group i think i keep the liveness and keep things going i make them laugh
338389
I totally agree....it gets on my nerves to...they act good in front of ya and as u turn ya back they start bitchin...posing as frens...who needs enemies wen u hav frens like these...they have a lack in life..n nothing to do..
43779
only when i am pissed(drunk) they keep folowing me around dancing & singing  (anoying that)
161805
Rude people that think they can talk to and treat others with indignity.
580323
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
70548
i like i am a nice, fun bunny but i can also be a mean dog if something happens that pisses me off but that dont happen often