I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. He is PERFECT! I have been in a couple relationships so i pretty much can tell when i am being used. He is so different. He asked me to marry him and i said YES! But i don't want us to rush and destroy what we have. What do you think?
130817
NO, no, and No!  Six months is not long enough to know someone well enough to get married.  I've been dating my b/f for 3 years and we are still not married because we have only lived together for 6 months and we still have to get used to each others quirks.
81699
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
270285
Yeah why not? I mean if you're not ready than you're not ready. He'll just have to except that sooner or later. And hell if it's going fine than it must be good. It all depends on you. And when you're ready than hey go for it. But till than let him wait. It's sounds a bit mean I know, but what's meaner: him cheating on you? or you making him wait? But hey it's all up to you.
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not realy. you should complete each other. You can be things that she can't and reverse. What you are discreibing is perfection, and nobody is perfect. In a relationship, after the happy months from the beginning, all it matters is compatibiliti
509119
Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
170715
THINGS LIKE THAT TAKE TIME DON'T RUSH HIM AND DON'T RUSH YOURSELF INTO A RELATIONSHIP MY BF AND I DATED AND SLEPT TOGETHER FOR OVER A YEAR BEFORE WE MADE IT OFFICIAL AND THERE WERE TIMES WHEN I THOUGHT WHY ISN'T HE TRYING TO MAKE ME HIS GIRL BUT THEN A WEEK LATER I WASN'T REALLY READY FOR IT AND OUR SCHEDULES CLASHED TOO, THATS WHY WE LET NATURE RUN IT'S COURSE. I DATED OTHER MEN WHILE I WAS DATING HIM THAT DOESN'T MEAN I SLEPT WITH THEM BUT PUT IT LIKE THIS HE WAS MY MAIN BUT I STILL DIDN'T PUT ALL MY EGGS IN ONE BASKET. I'M NOT SAYING WAIT FOR HIM BUT IF HE'S INTERESTED IT'S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME. STILL SEE HIM BUT DO YOUR OWN THING TO UNTIL IT BECOMES OFFICIAL. THEN IF FOR WHATEVER REASON IT DOESN'T WORK OUT YOU HAVE A BACK UP PLAN AND WHO KNOWS YOU MIGHT MEET SOMEONE EVEN BETTER. PEOPLE ALWAYS RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE THEY THINK THERE SO IN LOVE WHEN THINGS ARE RUSHED THEY NEVER WORK OUT PATIENTS IS A VIRTUE, MY GUY AND I TOOK IT EASY. NOW WE LIVE TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN WITH ONE ANOTHER FOR 4 YRS. \nTAKE YOUR TIME..\n\nGOOD LUCK !
182490
hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX
368554
Why do you have to be labeled as his girlfriend? If he treats you like one and you have agreed to be exclusive, what more do you want? If you have doubts about where you stand as far as being his one and only, talk to him about the level of commitment in your relationship, but please don't ask him if you're his girlfriend...that sounds so junior high!
55257
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
317192
That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
347125
You should feel special and irreplaceable, but it will take some time, are you sure you want to stay with him, ask your self is me and my b/f headed down that marriage path? if the answer is no, than why are you with him? your wasting your time, if the answer is yes, get some counseling together, and work things out, fight for your relationship (not the girls he was txt'ing) but work hard, and it will blossom, it will take some time, are you willing to put in that time?
578792
well i could say that he is using you or i could say he is not.. but when it comes down to it you know him best i'm not sure how long you've been with him but you need to write down the pro's or cons of your relationship.. is he worth you getting hurt... i mean one way or another your gonna feel pain whether your with him or your not the question is do you like yourself better with or without him?
358485
Hi Ann! It doesn't sound like he's ready for the commitment that you want and deserve. You seem like you appreciate straight-forward answers and you seem to have the courage to ask him. It's better to know than to wonder, regret later and carry anger, when you could of had that time for yourself or with Mr. Right. Good luck....and you deserve better!
354585
He obviously understands your feelings, and you understand his, now is there room for both of you to compromise.  Maybe set a date for a few years from now or just get engaged and not set a date yet.  I don't think it would be fair to either of you if only one of you made concessions.  It wounds like you are the one doing it now.  Talk to him about a compromise.
215426
If you have to ask, then no.  Why haven't y'all married before now?  Do you love him?  Do you want to marry him?  Be honest with yourself and you'll know the right answer for you....
98865
If you want a commitment, be it a monogamous relationship, marriage, or whatever it is you mean (you didn't specify), and you have let your partner know and he has rebuffed you, I'd say move on.  If you don't want the same thing, it's time to find someone who does.
393592
My boyfriend is amazing too. He would do anything for me and I would do the same for him. We are a team and we have been together for almost 3 1/2 years. We are planning on getting married when we graduate from college. My boyfriend doesn't mind talking about weddings, he wants me to have whatever I want. He looks better than any man I know. He is tall and milk chocolate, like Morris Chestnut or Tyson (the model), but better! The way he loves me confirms that God sent him into my life.