You know how guys get blue balls? well can girl get something like that? because it hasnt been hurting, but its just felt different lately. and im still a virgin and all so i know i dont have no problems.
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Girls just get horny..and go in a stage often called "heat"...when u r in heat you may get wet or something like that, but you should feel any pain..if you start to feel pain go to a ob-gyn..if u have your period u may be getting ready to come on...talk to your ob-gyn..
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yes that's normal.  and kudos for keeping your virginity this long.  once you give it away you can never get it back.  if the person you give it to truly loves you, and hopefully she will, size won't matter anyway.
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Ok lets give a lession in size. There are women I REPEAT that can not handle a well endowed guy. It does hurt them if they never had a well endowed guy before. I can only imgine how much pain it must be for a virgin to take on a well endowed guy. I know from experance and I will explain this. I myself have had the women I have been with say they where glad they where not virgins because the pain would have been way too much. Women that have had children before are usally more able to handle a well endowed guy. For the women that I have been with they say they felt like they where being ripped apart after I had sex with them. But this goes away over time as the women adjusts to your size. I say this from experance.\n\nOk I am going to give you some tips to make this transition easier.\n\nI have had this problem once before with women who was used to a normal size guy. but was not used to my size. She will normaly experance pain the first few times till she gets used to your size. This is normal to experance pain at first. But you have to be very slow, extremly gental and extremly patient. This is the important part. Let her direct you, let her say when to go in alittle more, litte bit at a time and stop. I mean ALITTLE BIT! Don't go in without her direction. LISTEN that is the key. This will give her time to get used to it. Don't be suprised if in the process her eyes get as big as half dallors. If you see she is having pain stop. Let her direct you more when to go in further. Also once you are full in don't start going at it immedilty give her time to adjust to your size. This is a slow process of adjustment to your size. This is also a good time to be further intmate with her while she is getting used to your size. Do things like kissing, hugging and talk to each other. Remember it's not a mataton. This will also make her feel more confortable while giving her more time to adjust. Let her be your guilde. She will tell ya when ya can start. Ya can't rush things. It's about taking it SLOW and EASY at first. If it takes a 15, or 30 mins thats ok. Let her take her time.\n\nI not saying this just say it too to  brag, But I'm say it I am saying it from EXPERANCE I know I have been there. And just because a women is build to deliver a baby doesn't be mean she is build to handle any size. Like I said before Women that have giving viginal birth are more able to handle it. Like I said I know from my own experances with women. Because the last thing you want too is cause the woman ya love pain. Sex sould be a enjoyble expernace for both of you.
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If your gf is a virgin still, you will have to penetrate a small seal of thin skin. This is what causes the bleeding and some very short but powerful pain. The amount of blood is minor and you may miss it, it will be on the sheets, or whatever, afterwards. However, as a male with such sensitivity on the top of your, uh, staff, you will feel the blockage, as well as when you rupture it. If you really do care for her, you will be as gentle as possible to her, if not, leave her alone for someone who really does care.
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It's different for every girl. Some girls have already torn their hymen by the time they have sex, usually as part of a normal, active lifestyle. Other girls have stretchy, or "elastic" hymens, which stretch instead of tearing. Some girls   are born entirely without hymens, while some girls have really thick ones. The point of this is that each girl is unique, which makes it a little hard to answer your question. \n\nIn most cases, there is some discomfort with initial penetration, and if you have a hymen, there will probably be pain, and a little bleeding (After all, you're not used to having a penis in there!), but it's usually mild to moderate and fades quickly. In order to make things as wonderful as humanly possible, it is SUPER-DUPER, AMAZINGLY important that you take things slow the first few times. Make sure you're fully aroused, and please, for the love of all things sexual, use some water-based lube (petroleum-based lube can dissolve latex condoms). If you experience discomfort or pain, slow down, and wait a bit before proceeding.\n\nAlso, please be aware that for most girls, the first few times are kind of dissapointing when it comes to the actual sex...it takes a while to find your rhythem and discover what you like. So, go forth, be safe, and, above all, HAVE FUN!\n\nIf you have more questions, or if you just feel like poking around, I might recommend www.scarleteen.com, these guys helped me out a lot in my teen years (and beyond). They provide honest, clear information about sex, sexuality, your body, and a bunch of weird stuff that us girls think about.
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that is very odd. girls are the ones who act like that after having sex with a guy. he may have been a virgin and is still not comfortable around you or he might be feeling guilty about something he is hiding from you, for example: he might be hiding the fact that he has an STI
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yeah...i say talk to a doctor and see if there is anyway to "heal" it...and in the mean time, stop having rough sex, or any sex at all, you might be ruining your chances for kids at any time in the future
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Depends on where it hurts.  It could be a lack of lubrication.  Or he could be hitting your cervix with his penis (since your organs are changing de to pregnancy your cervix may be easier for him to reach).  Mention it to your doctor at your next appointment.
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If it is your first time, then it was perfectly normal. After first sex, bleading cause of the tear of hymen, that protect your virginia. But if it isn't ur first time, then may be that time you are not relaxed. If not, then I advice please contact to the doctor. No, you are not pregnant if you took any precaution, like condom, pills etc.
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That is so sad to hear, but i dont think that it will hurt because it seem like this one night stand boy done already popped your cherry (not to sound nasty or nothing but the last boy done open you up) it  always hurt at first when they stick it in but then after a while the pain is going to go away
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19 and I've only been with one man.  I think I feel less shy about sex now that I'm no longer a virgin.  I got pregnant a few months after I lost my virginity so my life has changed in that way.
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MY 1ST TIME WAS PAINFUL @ FIRST, BUT THEN ENJOYABLE AFTER THE PAIN SUBSIDED...HE WAS ONLY ABOUT 5 INCHES & DID NOT POP MY CHERRY, SO TECHNICALLY I WAS STILL A VIRGIN....UNTIL I CAUGHT HOLD OF MY NEXT SEXUAL PARTNER...WHICH WAS AN 8 INCHER....LOL...I WAS CRYING & HIS COUSIN KEPT WALKING IN ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON...NOW 2 THINK ABOUT IT, DA CHYCK MIGHT'VE BEEN GAY...OR THEY MIGHT'VE HAD A LIL INCEST GOIN ON THERE,LOL...........
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for me, it is the other way around.  whenever i don't release my sperm for a few days, my balls becomes heavier.  it might just be my imagination but that how it feels.
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This is perfectly normal and fine for a guy to have happen. You can get excited about something that creates a hard on. You just don't ejaculate which is fine and normal to have happen with a man.
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happens to me too.. it might be to rough.. if so tell him to take it slow... it could cause irritation. uhhh... you dont have to say hes good in bed... he might not be.. being to rough is not always good sex if it hurts its not right. there most likely isent anything wrong with you... im with the same guy it feels great its not rough and i love every second of it... i love the feeling if it gets rough but i know when it gets too rough and it needs to slow down.. make sure communication is very clear between the two of you.... most girls bleed... and the first time you have sex you dont always pop your cherry. you finally poped your cherry and if you dont have sex for long periods of time your vagina goes back to place making you tight all over again.
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
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OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...