How come they always want to have a young girl when theyre already old? Just think of it..ur old and  u want a young partner..how much much with ths young girl..do u thnk she wld prefer going out wth old men..well..lets just say the guy is 40-50 and the grl s 19-25
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Older guys have mid-life crisis and want to feel young again.  They remember how it felt when they were first dating and with young women.  So they think that if they have a young woman again, they will be young again.  \n\nYoung women like older men because they like that the guy is established, usually has money, is more mature, doesn't just rush things usually.
12811
If your looking for a younger guy... let's say 19 Im the one. Ive always wanted a girl a couple years older than me. I mean I've had an older girl but she was only one year older than me.
431884
depends on your age. older women have had their fun they are ready to settle down and make a family and build alife around it. if your older your just out of luck. I see you put people in their 20's getting married in their 20's are fools i agree whole heartedly with that. but flings arent always good. k. if your just looking to get laid then you need to stop going for the upstanding beautiful girls. your going to have to go with a little lower and the girls who have the same outlook on life as you. there out there. and if your a good catch girls are going to want to keep you. HELLO you knew that. well good luck with it.
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Sure! Why not? As long as you get along and enjoy each others company, there should be no reason to let age get in the way. However, the only thing that I might be concerned with would be for the difference in maturity levels. There is a big difference in the majority level of a 27 yr old female as opposed to a 19 yr old male. As most men are concerned, they take a lot longer to mature emotionally and mentally than woman. However, for all I know, you could be a very mature male. Every situation is different, and as long as you are attracted to each other and are having fun, there is no reason why it can't work!
560234
I am 20.Never dated anyone younger. I like them older. Just until I get into my late 30's early 40's. Then I'll start to like them young.
375811
Hope your not complaing young lady ...lol...sounds like ya have a good man there . Men like to take care of thier woman..maybe in return just love him as much as ya can and try to make his time with you relaxing and enjoyable ..sounds like you guys are doing good and that is always a good thing to hear...congrats ;)
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You make the rules, not them.  They are trying to force the situation, but if you just play it cool, you can continue to date anyone you please for as long as you like.  Trust me, if a 30 year old guy is getting it from a 20 year old chick, he's not dumping her just because.  They will both stick around, where you will have plenty of time to figure out what you may want in the long run.  Until then, tell them to relax and enjoy the gifts that life has to offer.  However, you may wish to keep the other guy to yourself.  That's your business, not a love triangle.  You are free not to choose.
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I'd rather date someone older. I'd prefer someone more mature and stable(financially and emotionally). I would hope an older man would be less likely to play games and would definitely have more experience as a lover and be better in bed. I'd want someone to take care of me, not a younger boy to babysit.
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I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
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I am 32, husband is 31.\n\nI don't think the age difference is that drastic, having dated a 38 yr old at 19. \n\nI think a lot of older guys like younger women.  Why??? (boy am I going to catch flack for this, ready....?)\n\nBECAUSE THEY'RE NICE.  Women your age (37) have been married & divorced, probably a couple of times by now.  They are overall jaded and in survival mode.  They have kids, probably (which is not that big of a deal but has a lot to do with their priorities in finding another partner, which is as it should be.)  I am not saying all women are like this, but I bet more than a few are, and I bet you dated them too, right?\n\nAt 22, most women are still open to being hurt, and just don't have as much baggage.  I married first at that age & had my daughter- was divorced a couple of years later and was a little bitter & wary.  2 wacko heartbreaking guys later, and I just decided to let go & see.  Enter fabulous now husband.  It's all OK. \n\nI think if you love her, she loves you, and you treat each other with respect and want the same things...\n\nGO FOR IT HONEY!  \n\nAge isn't much when it comes to love.
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Sounds pretty normal to me.  Most that I know are into older men though for some reason.  I wouldn't say there's anything particularly wrong with dating an older guy, except that they have other reasons than just love usually for dating younger women.  i.e. bragging rights and such.  ALL men are attracted to young, good looking women, so you'll always get hit on by older guys.  Guys your age are probably still getting over insecurities and such, so that could be part of it.\n\nDon't give up and don't settle, but be careful with the older guys...\n\n*edit* "There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men who are more likely to be more mature and open to commitment than guys your age. I think its smart of you. "  - That is the most naive thing I've ever heard.  Older definitely does not = more mature or open to commitment.....cripes...so much detail and examples could be given here...
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It's the other way around. the younger girls like the older guys because   they usually have more going for them ...money, cars social power.   guys would love to date girls their age but they wont give them the time of day.
570776
dude, when I was 26 I dated a 36 and 37 year old within a 6 month timeframe, and it was the best time I ever had.  unlike 25 year old girls, they were so much more comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and what they want.  they didn't play games at all and they were so much fun to hang out with!\n\nin terms of how to get them?  I didn't do anything special, I would say try not to be too eager.  you may want to approach them, but do it in an easy going style.  women in their mid to late thirties are entering their sexual prime like we were when we were 18 (im 34 now and married).\n\na women in her 30's is more interested in confidence, maturity, being layed back yet fun and having interests, and just being a nice guy . . . .. as opposed to a girl in her 20's who is more interested in looks, cockiness and whether the guy ismarriage material or not . . . good luck!
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Don't feel bad. some guys do. Some guys think older women are more machure and or/ know more about different things. Also, Many grow up faster then them around them and seem out of place. nothing wrong with liking an older women.
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you guys are really young. he probably just wants to have fun. No boy that young ever knows what he wants. they still don't know when they're 20!
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That's a funny one.   It has always been okay for an older guy to date a younger girl,  but when the girl dates the younger guy, she is laughed at and jokes made.\nI wouldn't let it bother you.  I would proudly say, "And he's a year younger than me, hope I can still get a young one when I'm 80".  \nAge shouldn't matter, to answer your question.  All that matters is that you are right for each other for however long it lasts.  If you get along, then to heck with what your friends say or how loud they laugh.  if they are really your friends, they'll accept it and have compassion and understanding and not mock you or put you down.  To joke when you gals are alone, well jokes, alone, that's okay.  But to gossip or hurt your feelings, their not friends and never really were.\nGo with your heart and forget what others will say.  The true challenge is finding out in the long run if those friends you thought were friends really were to begin with.\nControl your own life, don't let others control you.\nMany a marriage has lasted eternally with a large age difference and that also includes dating relationships.  My girlfriend is married to a guy that is nearly 15 years younger than her.  They are and have been for over 17 years, a perfect coupld.\nGo for it.................
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OK it is NOT NORMAL for a old guy that age to feel attracted to a girl 14 or even 18.  This is a serious issue. A girl who is 14 can not understand this...trust me i was 14 too. I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 14. I thought I "loved him" Now that i am older (25) I realize how sick htis is and how he had issues. Guys who like girls your age are guys that like to manipulate and try to confuse and control them. For her to be in a room with him alone is so messed up . She needs to stop talking to him cuz this will lead to more dangerous issues. She may look 27 or whatever but she is not and that is no reason for a guy that age to " want" her. You NEED to tell your friends mom right a way if oyu love her cuz if something would EVER happen to her then it owuld be on your hands. I know she might be mad at oyu for a little but trust me she will thank you later...plus it also will interefere with her future relationships. if you love your firedn help her NOw before she might be on America's most missing...