There was this gorgeous woman in one of my past classes who i liked alot. Interestingly, she was in one of my clubs. I came out of a club meeting and walked out with a tall model friend who i also liked (who i had in a past class). She wanted a ride home which I was more than happy to provide. Me and my tall "friend" bumped into the gorgeous woman where I noticed they exchanged words. They then stretched their arms out over their heads in front of me revealing their hot bods. I just stared in awe. The gorgeous woman then asked to be given a ride home as well.  I declined (stupid of me) and drove my tall "friend" instead. Whats the stretching out about? I have another story, I can briefly state. At my workplace (back then), I was sitting next to a hot woman who stretched back in her chair revealing her amazing body. I simply took in this image and connected the dots. Why are woman stretching their fit bodies in front of me? What does this nonverbal gesture mean? (in these circumstances)
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is this some kind of re-curring wet dream??????? ha ha\n\nokay here we go........women do that so men notice them, and clearly it works a treat! we get quite excited when a man notices are bodies and think we are hot!!! i still do it when my BF is around and it's still driving him crazy!! a womans body is hypnotic to a man we know how to use it and obviously we know how to get a mans attention. why they keep doing it to u, i don't know??? are u complaining???
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THAT IS A HUGE HUGE HUGE SIGNAL my friend!  YES she is wanting to ride u like a carnival pony!!!  No doubt about it!  If she is flirtacious- smiles at u alot- makes eye contact- throw little hints about her sexual likes- and so on she wants you bad!  A woman NEVER lets her boob accidentally touch some guy!  She snuck up behind ya and wanted u to know how much she wants YOU!  If you r attracted to her GO FOR IT!  Have a great time!!!!
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it could mean many things, why not choose an explanation for it that makes you still feel good about her and about yourself, and leave it out there for a while.  Maybe she will get interested, maybe she won't, but carry yourself with a balance of confidence and compassion and know that you had the courage to ask in the first place.  Regardless, your interest in her is flattering.  \n\nI suggest that you leave her alone for a while, and if she comes to you at all then that is a sign that she wants you to pursue her.  Listen to yourself, do you feel welcome in her presence?  What does her body language tell you?  Does she avoid you?  Does she smile at you?\n\nOne way or another, you will know the answer eventually, so have some patience, and be open...good luck!
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Us beautiful, older women have a motto.  First time for love, second time for lust & money.  Just kidding.  When you say you just share love, what exactly is your meaning of love?  Sex? Or are you too smushy?\n\nYou didn't explain the taking advantage part.  Of what?  Your money?  Your heart? You sound kind of smothery and clingy to me. Do you move too fast? That scares women away and makes you look too emotionally needy. There are beautiful women of all ages.  You need to look for the beauty within too.  Not just outside appearances.  Believe it or not, you can find both if you are patient. You do not have to settle for an ugly, dumpy woman to be assured of love.  You haven't found the right, beautiful woman because you are trying too hard.  You will meet her, just be patient.\n\n\nA friend once told me, when you scoop up sand really fast, it just flies into other people's eyes, huh?  When you scoop up a handful of sand and close your fingers too tighly, what happens?  It slips right through your fingers.  If you hold your hand out, with open palm and fingers together, what happens?  The sand will stay.  Then , I said something really smartazz like, then somebody runs by and knocks your sand out of your hand.  Then my friend said, well, you probably shouldn't have picked it up in the first place because it wasn't meant to be in your hand anyway.  Never pick up a handful of sand unless you know what the pollution level is.  We laughed because we felt really Confusciousy.  LOL.  There is total truth to it though.\n\nIf you really like someone a lot, hold on loosely, but don't let go.  If you cling too tightly, you will lose control.  That is a line from .38 Special.  Good luck.  And whatever you do, don't use that last line of your question on the women you meet.  You sound like your trying to sell yourself as some kind of gigolo and that is a total turn off, at least for me.  And the I think I am attractive sounds kind of funny because you know for sure if you are or you aren't to women.  You could be attactive to your Grandmother, but not to other women your age.  Know what I mean?  LOL!\n\np.s. Hannah sounds exactly right about you and Rashi.  I had a Libra husband who was as handsome as could be and turned out to be abusive.  Now I have a Taurus man who is rough looking and loves me totally and completely.  Your sign is no indication of how you really act.  It doesn't reflect how you were raised, how you will treat kids, etc. That is influenced by genetics and environment these days.  Don't put too much trust in the Zodiac.  Woman looking at you in the age ranges you speak of don't care about your sign. There are too many environmental issues to deal with this day and age to depend on the stars.  Women these days have evolved from the 60's and look for other traits, not one's zodiac sign.  You know how lame, "What's your sign ?" sounds to women these days?  LOL!  "What's your penis size and yearly salary is what you should worry about with the sexual lionesses from 35 and up.  LOL!
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Whoa... this woman is a weirdo. She invites you for Thankgiving and then she's in bed with another guy when you get there? Whoa. Hey, it's not because you're nice. It's because she's F.ing warped. Just be glad now you're informed so you can get far away.
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the only thing one can say at this point is that she was enjoying his company. she felt at ease and had a good time - remember, this is common behavior at a party. you both went seperate ways on the party, so what's the deal that she was talking to a stranger?\n\nyou confronted her once and she said it's forgotten - so should you.\nwhat do you expect her to do?\n\ndon't bring up that issue again. it will do you no good.
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There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
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Touching your back/shoulders and stroking your neck? Making perverse comments? Sweetie, this is called sexual harrassment. As for why they act this way, basically, they're idiots. Don't write them off as just "goofy." There is no excuse for their behavior. One guy went on a date with you and then told everyone? Is he still in high school? They think it's fun to embarrass you. They way immature men like this think, it wouldn't surprise me if they have some sort of bet going as to who can get you to give up your choice to wait until marriage first. The first thing you need to do is not date any of them. That's just a good policy wherever you may work in your life. If it ends badly, you still have to see that person every day and it can cause a lot of problems. Second, when they say inappropriate things to you or touch you or make you feel uncomfortable in any way, you need to tell them they're behaving inappropriately and ask them to please stop. If they don't, or they just think that's part of the game, you need to go to your supervisor and ask him/her to intervene. Just know that if the boss does intervene, this may make for a hostile work environment because then you'll be the girl who "can't take a joke." Sad, but it happens. Conversely, the boss may think you're overreacting and not do anything. At this point, you'll have to make a decision: file a complaint with the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) and let them handle it, again possibly making for a hostile work environment; quit and find another job with mature, professional coworkers; do both. Unfortunately, there is no easy solution to this. If it were just one or two guys behaving this way, it might be easier because they'd be the minority. But if all the guys you work with do it, they'll be more apt to stick together and form a united front against you, saying that you're exaggerating or even making stuff up to get them into trouble. If there are any other women who work there, talk to them and see if they're having similar experiences. If so, it will corroborate your claims and give you more credence. I'm sorry to sound so cynical and/or pessimistic, but this is an all too common situation for many women in the workplace. We've all read and heard about things like this. There's even a movie based on a true story about the first lawsuit against a company for condoning sexual harassment called "North Country" with Charlize Theron. It's a disturbing, sad movie, but it shows what some women have had to go through just to earn a living. Finally, don't let yourself be intimidated. Stick to your values, know that you don't deserve to be treated this way and you don't have to put up with it. No one has the right to put their hands on you without your permission. Be strong and stick up for yourself, and someday, if you have children, you can pass that strength on to your daughter or teach your son to have the proper respect for women. I wish you the best of luck.
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You were not wrong - that's your personal space & if you didn't feel like letting her do that for you, then it's your business. If she was flirting that was a pretty blatant way to tell you what she was interested in. Also, if she was truly interested in you she would have attempted to continue a conversation with you. But no, you don't have to let someone do something that personal for you if you do not wish to.
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Invite a girl with bigger breasts and tell her its motivation for you to pick up heavier stuff.\n\nShe's a cold piece and you are getting played.  I say this only because as someone's booty call, I'm not coming over to help you move unless I am STILL hitting that.  Movers don't come for free.
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as a woman, i usually try to make conversation with guys that i am interested for future relationship, whatever it might be.\n\nso if the gurl that you are talking with is touchy with you; you know the touch in the arm or if you are in a club and she leans in really close to talk (lips ALMOST touching your ear) that means you have a shot with her. \n\nnow if she is just being polite and not interested in you. then the conversation that you are trying to have most likely going to be just one way, and that way is you. so if she is looking around the room instead of you. then move on. there are lots of women out there that will be interested in you.\n\nso dont waste your time on a woman, move on to another. good luck out there. hope i helped. =P
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ok, this is tricky! It sounds like either she's bi, doesn't understand what healthy friendships entail, or she's just a fantastic friend who had her heart broken. \n   Try flipping the switch on her. For example, next time you're out and a pretty girl walks by, say something about the pretty girl like 'wow, that girl has a fantastic figure.' see how she reacts. don't say anything about a man when saying good things about women.\n\nKeep us posted, and good luck!
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You may not think she is the ideal thing for modeling but unless you are doing the hiring its not for you to say. It is known for models to be tall but at the same time height is not the key to modeling. You were blessed to have the opportunity just as the rest of the models were. I think you should be supportive of what she wants and let her find out for herself if she fits in the modeling industry. It's never good to belittle people and sweep them under you. you may look nice to one person and not so hot to the next which is the same in her case, Just because you dont think she's a good modeling candidate dosen't mean the next person will feel the same. Never be judgemental of others for it is not your job to do so. Just think about it how would you feel if someone said you weren't good enough for something you thought you might be good at?
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I dated a girl that could'nt flex, so what we tried is that I sat on my sofa and she sat ontop of me, her back facing me.(try to picture it)So, I gently started to spread her legs wide grabbing/ pulling her by the thighs towards me and either she rides me and /or I pump. then to add more heat since her back of her neck is facing me I lick her shoulders, her upper back and on to her neck and ears. by this time the female is hot and gets more flexible because of it. Our body works in such ways. Enjoy!
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When I was single, yes, I would stare, but try not to get caught.  However, I would welcome any chance to talk to or be around the guy.  If she is hot and cold, perhaps that is just how she is. Regarding your haircut, I would take the looking old comment as a compliment, but that could be a totally platonic thing to say.  Any other details you can add?
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Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
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WELL IT'S OK TO SEE A REALLY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN AND SAY SHE'S REALLY  PRETTY,,,,BUT WHEN YOU SEE A  VERY PRETTY WOMEN AND YOU SAY TO YOURSELF WOW SHE'S HOT THAT'S TO ME SOUNDS LIKE YOU MAY BE REALLY ATTRACTED TO WOMEN. I'M REALLY GOOD WITH PICKING UP ON STUFF LIKE THAT BECAUSE I AM A BI SEXUAL WOMEN.