Do vaginal tightening creams work? The ones that supposably make the woman feel like a virgin again to the man minus the pain for her. It also acts as a lubricant? Ive seen them in sex shops. So I looked online I saw one that seems legit for 6o, but Ive seen others in sex shops for as little as 10 dollars.
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Fiction. Don't trust those things.
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I just got back from Africa where too many people with no money and many with illness and some with HIV are having too many babies. Condoms are widely promoted and easily attainable, and seem to be the answer. But most still don't use them and I can sympathize. For me the lack of feeling with erases the intimacy and I am lucky if I can maintain an erection. It's like I am moving back and forth with a strap-on and all out of sync because I have no nerves to guide me. But the pull-out method is far too risky because small drops of semen can sometimes seep out before ejac. especially when a guy is really trying fend off orgasm. My advice is this:  Only have sex with one, safe partner. Get on birth control or limit yourself. I enjoy going down on my girl much more than having sex with a condom. Sometimes I'm lazy, but I can just put my tongue there and make her do most of the work. There are a lot of things that don't involve intercourse that are very under-rated. And when you know he is the one and you are ready for children, it will be that much better. If you continue to use condoms look for the thinnest ones. Some aren't that bad and if a guy prematurely ejaculates, they might help him last longer. I wouldn't suggest the non-latex Durex Advanti unless you feel guilty enjoying sex at all. It will be kind of like having a dead leg.
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I like the dildo that has a built in clit sucker!! The one I have is called the g-spot Tango Vibrator. I ordered it online from sextoysex.com it was around 50.00. You could probly find one at your local adult novelty shop. It might not be the same kind, im shure they make different brands.
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check out that link, and that stuff really works, my bf has been doing that for years and claims it helps...so try it. \nI hear it is also good for maintaining your sexual health for later in life-ie not impotency problems.
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There is a lube on Adam and Eve thats called Anal Ease. It numbs the area a little bit plus gives it a lube job as well. Go to the web site and look for it under lubes. Good luck.
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Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
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Actually gay men use this too. More pleasurable for the guy as you are still uncovered. Probably less sensation for the woman/man(bottom) And have heard it compared to F***ing a ziplock bag. But you can use oil based lubes as opposed to stictly water or silicone based with latex condoms.
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Many complain that putting them on can interrupt foreplay and lovemaking, although some people have integrated wearing a condom as part of the entire process for sexual activity\n\nBecause of an obvious barrier of the skins, sensory stimulation is sacrificed, especially with older style thicker condoms, causing some people to dismiss condoms as limiting their pleasure (though this effect can be largely overcome by properly applying lubricants internally and externally). However, a woman can partially solve this problem by training her vaginal muscles, specifically the pubococcygeus
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I am circumcised too, I don't seem to have too much trouble with the "leaking" but all the bouncing around in boxers makes me even more sore than briefs. I was cut 50 years ago and my activities leave me sore all the time and have resulted in loss of sensitivity in sex. The only thing my glans can feel is dry cloth and my wife's vagina is not made of dry cloth. I want to kill that doctor, but the bastard is all ready dead.
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When you have sex baby, it doesn't supposed hurt okay.  You should go to the store and buy some lube.  Put some on him and around your opening so it won't hurt.  Talk to him, tell him it's uncomfortable, and he will understand about the lube.  Your hymen may be shedding a little, don't have sex for a couple of days until this shedding stops because if you skin gets broken down there, you might get an infection, and believe me, you don't want that to happen.
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nuvaring was great except that it turned me into a raving lunatic!  i was so excited about the convenience but it got my hormones all out of whack and made me irrationally emotional and especially turned me into scary angry woman.  however, i've known women who use it and love it so i think you'd have to try it to find out if it works for you.  i've also had at least one friend who said it fell out at times, but that wasn't the case with me.
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Well I have the same prob, but not having sex anymore (lol). When I was having sex the vaginal sponge helped. It made sex way more comfortable. It still might be a good idea for her to get checked out. Good luck ~Rosanne~
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
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Okay well, two things.  First is, yes, technically from the first period you can use them.  I used them from about age 14.  However.  There are certain things that make it easier.  I was into gymnastics and horseback riding which will naturally stretch the hymen (the opening to the vagina in a virgin) and so it wasn't difficult.  For virgins who do not perform any sort of exercise (and that can also be sexual petting which involves insertion of finger into vagina) that opens the hymen a little.  If not, you may find it difficult.  There are tampons for teens that are slimmer and smaller that you can buy.  The best thing to do is, WHEN YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH TRYING, buy a teen starter pack, read the instructions and attempt a few times.  Eventually you'll see how it works.  If you are worried about it or you belong to some religion that forbids such things, well, leave it till it is acceptable.  If you are on a swim team or other sports where a pad just won't work, it will be necessary.  It's not that bad, they are very comfortable when you know how to use them.  Please just don't leave them in for longer than 4 hours, you could get toxic shock syndrome.
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You buy lubricants that don't irritate you.\nIt is completely normal, many women suffer from this.
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I had one 3 years ago it didnt hurt during but after it was pretty tender for a few days best thing i ever did i dont have to ever worry about getting another girl pregnant and it was only 75 dollars in spokane  first time having sex well it felt like glass came out but ya know it hasnt hurt since plus the hardons are still as stronmg or better orgasms are great and i can hold out longer ....
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Your OB/Gyn should talk to you about this. \n\n"Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally."\n\nSo, you have nothing to fear.  Your hymen will not effect your ability to have children.