i'm 16 years old..don't mind asking this question??....and give some advice\ni have a crush on a boy...which is 16 years old \nalso...same age....erM...he kinda shorT...not too handsome....not too ugly...\n  i have a crush with this boy since i was form 2....everytime i saw \nhim in sch...i will so scareD and so nervous...whenever he talk to other gurlZ....i \nwill started to get jealous......can't control myselF....crazy huh...should i tell him tat i like him...if i tell him... later got rejected...it's so humiliating...\n\npls....gip me some advice...
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well, write a  letter telling him  ur feelings.ask it personally.try befriendin' him. get to know him better.well, u got jealous becoz he was talkin' with other girls coz u were scared of losin' him.if u tell him how u feel, wait for him to think.tell him personally. just  muster up ur guts n  spill out ur feelings to him once n all,if not that way write a cute n romantic letter or even a poem will do the trick. don't come to conclusions. ask ur best buddies if they have acquaintances with him. if the feeling isn't that strong enough, forget about the guy u'll move over it.if in case rejected, don't feel low, he didn't know that he missed out a gud person.it isn't the end of the world.u'll find many guys around who might b interested in talkin' with u.so gud luck !
337441
You should talk to him about your crush on him -- some of the best relationships I know started out as crushes --- I have two school friends who have been with their girls since the first month of high school (I am 35). The worst he can say is no.
485341
okay, there is this guy who likes me, but he makes fun of me calls me bad things, and tells his friends he likes me. I think he doesn't know how to tell you but, HE  HAS A CRUSH!!!
527185
O sweets! The "one" is so complicated. I think when all girls have a crush at that age, they think/wish/hope he is the "one". But seriously... He probably isnt. Who he is now, wont even be close to who he becomes later. I dont know anyone who is the same person at 25 that they were at 15. 10 years makes a huge difference, and the cold hard truth is that relationships started when so young, USUALLY dont last. Over 85% of marriages between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. Thats the majority of people getting married. You can never really know someone till you've lived with them for a few years. There is an old saying, Love is blind, and marriage is a real eye opener. I wouldnt worry too much about finding the "one" right now. I believe destiny and fate have everything worked out already for you and when its right, things will fall into place for you and him to finally come together. Good luck
269194
If you get butterflies around this boy, have trouble thinking of things to say around him, think about him all the time, or have a compulsive urge to look and seem prettier and/or funnier in his presence, chances are you have a crush.\n\nTrust me, as you get older, it'll be much easier to understand your feelings for boys.
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I know this is a crap answer but it might be best to stay away from him.  He might have lots of questions about him self that he has not yet answered.  If that is so then you are just setting your self up for a big hurt.  Telling somebody who has a major crush to leave it alone is a fools errand.  But I am a fool and If you are correct in what you are saying, this might be best as the one you let get away.  And not to be crude, but spank bank material at best.\nB
401876
u're right, at ur age u should be able to go straight to him and ask him if he feels the same way...u have to do that, there's nothing to loose especially if u say u have very strong feelings for him.\npull urself together and tell him how much u like and appreciate him and if he feels the same ask for his phone number.\nas for ur friend if her brother likes u , well then too bad for her...she'll just have to accept it.\nmuch courage to u !
283037
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
602118
He's not ready to date yet. He likes you but he's still not ready. How old is he? If he's below 16 he's propably not all too ready. Give him some time.
503845
OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
154115
i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)
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crush.. i believe nothing ever comes of it its just great thought you have of person whom you want to be with.. child hood love " teen " young and its the first love you have ever known.. everything is new and you learn a lot from each other like sex, and things you like and dis like in relationships... love.. hm mm well maybe by the time your 19 25 ish around that age you should have met someone that you truly loved even the bad things about them... you always have to take the good with the bad and when you truly love someone than the bad is OK to handle.. like my current boyfriend dips... "yuck" but i truly love him and so it do sent even bother me now... your fights are about real things when you truly love someone cuz the Little shit is obsolete...
240533
Maybe the guy is just shy to speak-up his mind..i can really relate to your story coz my first love, crush whatever one can call it was at 13..it's just really hard for a boy to come infront and express his feelings (this is what i feel..) else you can take the first step..but remember 13 is a very tender age with studies always being the priority and its upto you to tackle a relationship and your studies together..God Bless!!
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hmm...well if you haven't know the dude for long there's your answer...get to know become his friend first it usually works better if you know about the person to see what you have in commom...uh if you have known him for a while he knows you and might consider you as a friend...so just be yourself and show how fun you can be! make friends with his friends but don't start off all weird either with random questions about your crush...i just found out this cool guy likes me and i've liked him 4 about 2 weeks b4 i found out so it just takes some time....just remember to be nice and friendly if he needs help go for it! It gets you talking! GOOD LUCK!
595307
Be postive about it. You can say "So I have a crush on a boy... haven't you before?" Just shrug it off by saying things that says you like him, but don't care if people know.  And just ignore them.  That always works!
17313
Hey there! Okay, I would just talk to him, and when he goes over to play basketball with ur bro just ask to go with them. Another thing is, how close in age r u to him. but anyway i think you should just try this. OR talk about him alot if front of your bro and he will eventually talk about how u have a crush and maybe he will then realize that and who knows...he might be in the same situation as you.
281034
You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!