Would you sleep with a man you love without marriage? If not, would you let him do everything withough taking your cherry?
134860
Urgh that is against Islam! Why would I let a man, sleep with me who wont marry me???
237800
yes that's very true, but him without me also means no sex for him... which would u rather have???
239811
You might have been together, but certainly not on the same page. More like two people on the same bus. Maybe he stayed around waiting until you got over your funk, and you never did. Put yourself in his place(so to speak). What if you were with a man who had a thing for sexing blow up dolls. And you said time and time again you didn't like it, but he kept doing it anyhow even bringing them to bed while you were in there too. How long would you feel you were vested in the union? Even if you stayed months or years hoping he would change? Eventually when you realize it never was, would you be so crushed that you would pine away for days? Or would you feel relief and be ready to find a guy you can sit with in the bed that didn't need any doll but you?
212567
Don't give into the pressure... Keep it as long as you can.. Loving someone don't necessary mean having sex with them. If he's not willing to respect you for your decision, then he's not worth loosing your virginity to. If I can do it all over again, I would love to be a Virgin till the right one comes alone. don't get me wrong sex is GREAT, but doing it with someone you care about and cares about you, will words can't describe it.......
312701
Marry, no.\nBut I'd let her give me head.\n\nIf it's good enough for the mack daddy Bill Clinton, then it's good enough for me.
515769
some relationships don't need sex. but... i wouldn't be happy about it.
124215
YES,for once..Because all i thought he would be mind and until i still ask my self why did i do that?Do i look bitch?!\nif were to choose one night stand or relationship witn a guy..I would absolutely choose the best. The relationship with a guy..because it s more intersting to have a relationship than without.
121339
Personally I wouldn't. I mean a relationship needs intimacy, and sex is the pinnacle.\n\nI know if my girlfriend didn't have sex with me... well she would be an ex girlfriend pretty quickly.
204742
do you want to fall asleep with him every night?\ndo you want to wake up with him every morning?\nif you answered yes you probably want to be with him forever.\nmorning breath,snoring and all.
289316
Yes and yes! I love to wake up on the weekend mornings and have sex! My hubby is much more of a night owl but he always rises to the occasion. LOL   \nHave fun!
182742
Personally, I don't do it.  =&#92;  \n\nI mean... maybe if he asked or something, I might consider it.  \n\nAnd who needs toys if you have a real man?  ;]   Haha... I apparently need them now.  Lol.
358060
Sure I did.I never wanted to get married,just wanted to do my thing.One night I was doing my thing and brought this nice guy home...he never left,ever.We have been together 17 years,married 13.
77690
Yes I would in a heart beat.  I am a woman and I have needs. It isn't like I don't already know what I taste like from kissing my man after he does it.  So yes I would.
275687
I believe in sex before marriage. I don't believe people should just sleep around though. If you've been with a person for awhile and truly loves them, I think it's ok to have sex.
208575
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
49201
Yes, Yes, Yes!\n\nI waited until 20 years, 11 months.\nI know my husband wouldve never married me if he had gotten sex before the ceremony. Men are just like that.\n\nhopefully a husband will be gentle, considerate and loving during that onetime event. Mine lasted all night and finally at 8AM i was deflowered gently, lovingly \n\nA lover will be thinking of himself, take 5 minutes and leave you unsatisfied, wondering how to get it without being married and how fast he can dump you, so that he can go on to another.
571657
I find myself worrying how financially capable he is to take care of stuff.  I dont want him to give me money or anything, I got my own, but I want to know his worth so I know if the "WE" thing will work.  I dont expect him to pay for everything, Im gainfully employed so I will carry my own weight.  I want him to be responsible, take care of his kids (if he has any) and his family - that shows me he has responsibility to the things he holds dear.  I want him to be content with my love for him, and love me back - maybe not the way I love him coz I can get crazy!  But I want to know and feel that that love is there.  I like spontaneous and explosive sex, and to have him "addicted" to me would be a bonus!  When all this is in place, I could just lie in his arms and feel so safe, secure and complete...