Just recently find my girl with another guy.
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when im in an upset mood there 3 main things i do....i drive really fast (like 70 in a 35) i go shooting with my friends (nothing like a .50cal desart eagle) or i i write a book that im working on
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Imagine how you would feel if some guy was going after your girlfriend.  Then find someone new.\n\nOr be a weirdo and wait around until they break up.
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This is not your fault. They probably had it planned! You and your friend should go on and find different guys!
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my best answer would be to go with your heart if you really love this girl and she really loves you then you two will be able to toughen it out and wait till you guys can be together. just forget bout the other guys. if she loves you more you will know she does. try and forget about them. tell her how u feel don't hold it in. if you and her are really that close than she will understand and will tell you what shes thinkin. i hope everything works out for you!!!!!!!!!!\nGod Bless
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Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
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Sounds like you need to explore and learn more about yourself to satisfy your curiosity.  I believe two females can please each other quite well...just as well as a man.  If you like her more than being with a man, then fine.  Who's to say what your preferences are supposed to be?  Like the rest of us, you are just human.  It's for you to decide.  You don't need to label yourself as gay or anything.  You are just you.  Cheating is a matter of personal beliefs, but some might see it that way.  My feeling is that if you are truly wanting to try, then find an equally curious friend and just enjoy each others company and see where it goes.  You can just take one day at a time.  Relax & enjoy!\n\nBecause you are unsure of your feelings about all this right now.  I'd just keep it to yourself until you have a better sense of how your really feel.  Even after your additional details, I don't recommend bringing him into the mix right now.  Like you mentioned, too many things can go wrong.  No need to stir the pot right now.  Better to keep this a private matter for now.  If things progress, there will be plenty of time to tell him your thoughts and feelings if need be.
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Oooooh ... I think u r in a baaad situation/ well, if I WERE IN YOUR place, i would break up with ur girlfriend and go for that friend u have. u never know, SHE (ur gf) might be trying to keep u away from (HER) and seeing another guy at the same time. PLEEEASE pick me for a best answer. I thought for  along time on this.
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OK. as a guy, who has done that, i was tempted to do that time and time again. but my girl keeps me in check(m not pu**y whipped). she is more than i can handle. which is good. she is not forgiving, but she knows how to punish me. i mean, she loves me, and she knows that i love her. it has been three years now, and i havent even looked at another girl (matter of speaking). she trusts me, and boy, that is all i need.
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Dude just come out and tell her how you feel! You sound like a really sweet guy, and she's sounds like she's trying to find out where she belongs, maybe she needs someone (cough)you(cough) to step in and show her she can trust guys and that she belongs with you. Good Luck ~LOVE\nListen to Fall Out Boy that always makes me feel better, a song from their new album leaked out on absolutepunk.net, you just register to listen, i'm listening to it rite now it helps me think too. I don't know why i'm telling you all this i don't even know you. Good Luck with ur girl.
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It's not proper to be in such situation and its not easy for her too, she was in love at first then you came, you got closer and now you are both in love but at the same time she is with her boyfriend, may she likes something in you and another in her boyfriend, but soon one of you will win, so to be honest with yourself and to avoid doubting that she might do it with another person if she left her boyfreind for you, give her enough time to decide but you have to be away from her she must choose only one person in order not to be hurt or to hurt her boyfriend if he discovered that she is cheating on him
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are you guys even together? I mean if your not then GO FOR THE OTHER GIRL! because this one is obviously playing games or not interested. If she is talking to other guys and you are together and you think its more than just polite conversation get rid of her its not worth the trouble
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no i saw him with another chick the other day
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If you are with another guy, he feels that the other guy can take his place as your boyfriend. If you are with another girl, he doesn't feel as if he can be replaced. Because of this, he considers you being with another guy cheating but not if it is another girl.
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i think about my girlfriend
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It sounds like you missed your chance.  If she is with someone else, just leave her alone.  If you still like her and she's no longer dating another guy, then talk to her.
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take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
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What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.