my husbands sister was made sole executor and is not allowing us to 'see'bank statement records 'yet'. she is also listed on checking account along with her mother, we feel she is hiding something, how do we go about getting a copy of last statement from their mothers bank? thank you very much
131146
It may be very difficult, if not impossible, for you to see those records if she doesn't want you to see them.  If it is that important, consult a lawyer.
118549
I think you can get a copy of the will from the courthouse if it is in probate. If it is just a handwritten will and hasn't been notarized or legally written up, then maybe an attorney might help you. You can contest the will.
498932
I hate to say this, but you are probably up "sheep's creek without a paddle"!\nI am presently going through the same ordeal. My mom passed away and left a will, so we thought! Sometime in her last days my brother managed to coerce her into doing a new will that left him as power of attorney, executor of the will, and recipient of all her bank accounts! I knew for a fact that my mother was not capable "mentally" of doing this due to her condition! I protested to no avail and the court refused to budge unless I hired an attorney. The attorney wanted a $25,000 retainer fee that would "begin" the objection and more than likely result in a law suit against my brother that would have cost far more! It just wasn't worth the effort. However, with all said, the man above sees all and punishes those who go against his word! So in my heart I know his day is coming and we can all celebrate when the moment arises!!!!
242491
The only way I could see them not letting you use it is if it wasn't paid in full.  Contact the cemetery, ask them what it was really about.  And you have the right to copies of anything you signed.  I have never heard of that excuse before.  I doesn't matter where he lived.  Get a copy of what you signed and if you feel they were wrong get a lawyer.  That was pretty low and thoughtless of them to tell someone something like that the day of the funeral.  I am really sorry you had to go thru something like that after losing your father.  My condolences.
529160
I have not seen the documents you recieved,and therefore, I can't tell exactly what's going on here.  You did not give sufficient detail.  \n\nWas this a summons from a bankruptcy court?  If so, its possible that the bankruptcy court is notifying  you, as a co-debtor (NOT co bankrupt debtor) that there is property to which you may have an equitable interest, that is subject to the bankruptcy estate.  \n\nIf this is a house that your sister was in joint tenancy on, the laws protecting the house from the bankruptcy estate will vary depending on your state.  You must IMMEDIATELY consult with a qualified bankruptcy attorney.  DO NOT consult with a bankruptcy software program, or with a site advertised here.  Also, do not consult with your sister's bankruptcy attorney.  He/she does not represent your interests, he/she represents your sister's interests.\n\nFor a referral to a bankruptcy attorney in  your state, contact your local or state bar association.
326640
Who took out the loan and what documentation exists?\n\nIf your mother took the loan it has to be pad out of her estate before any funds are distributed. If there are four beneficeries each looses part of their benifit to the debt repayment.\n\nGet more details of the loan, copies of documentation from the lender, etc.\n\n Find out why your aunt has waited 3 years to claim the money (anyway, it should be the organisation that gave the money that claims it from you - your aunt seems to have no claim if I read your question right.)
351447
How did you manage to "forget" that you had a HELOC?\n\nIn your Affidavit of Title, you would have had to swear that there were no other outstanding mortgages or liens, etc that were not being paid off with the sale.  You had a duty to inform them of any known items that did not show up in the title search.  \n\nOccasionally documents are filed in the wrong county, etc so they don't show up on the search.  That in no way absolves you from the responsibility of paying.\n\nPay off that HELOC right now and close the account, and make sure the discharge is filed.  It is your only hope of not getting sued for fraud.
609670
THIS IS SOOO IRRITATING.....I had a checking and "share" acct (with a $25 balance) at Credit Union, and ATM transaction overdrew the acct by $1.45. Silly me, had already opened up another acct at different bank so I figured I would let those accts sit a couple of weeks and close them out. WRONG, when I finally opened up a statement  I was in shock that the share acct was still there but the checking now had a balance of -$386.00! Now I thought that when you try to get more money then is available, the ATM transaction should decline, WRONG AGAIN, (oh did I mention I worked at a bank for 4 yrs :(). Got as far as you did at the branch and left more irritated then before, two days later the Sheriff shows up to serve me with Court Papers. I go to the bank because I can't afford to miss work at this point and ask the girl at the counter "after transferring the $25 from the share account, what do I need to pay?" She has me write a check for $350 + dollars, and says the accts are closed. End of story....nah...I get a call 2 days later from the branch manager saying that if I don't make the 50 mile trip by the end of business day to pay the additional $43 in fees, the teller left out, I would be in contempt of court............\n\nOpen a new account quick and hope the bank burns down. Keep your chin up :)
322779
You can not, \n\nPeople can do thier own will, so only they may know about it, or close family.\n\nPeople use an attorney, so only they and their attorney will know about it.\n\nIf the will is executed ( they should normally go though probate court)  if they did, then the court will have a copy but will also insure that everyone who is suppose to get money does.\n\nIn the end, the only way to find out, is to ask family.
34522
you need to find out in what court the will is being probated - which would likely be either in the county where your grandmother died or the county where the exectuor lives. depending on whether the executor is cooperative or not, you could find out information about will and life insurance beneficiaries from this person.
616650
when the deceased estate goes thru probate an executer & rightful heir will be established.  you can take those papers showing you are the right heir/executer to the bank with the death certificate and close the account.
450915
Arrrange it so that only you can make transactions on your account. Close your old accounts and create new ones. Change your signature (this actualy can be done, but there is a procedure for it- contact your bank for more information). If you are unable to decide on a course of action or are unsure as to whether you're doing enough, sit down with a representative from your bank and talk it over with him/her. Does your sister know information such as your Social Security number? If she does, then you'll have a hard time trying to keep her from your money. Again, talk to someone from your bank or even a lawyer about this. But one thing is clear- do NOT let your sister ruin your financial life.
61512
It all depends on if your mother had a will or not? If she did, is your brother the executor to the estate? was the money left in trust to you? Was your brother given power of attorny?\n You would be better off to ask an attorny, then to ask questions on yahoo reguarding these matters, and you ask the question like we all have crystal balls...I SEE A MAN... HE IS TRYING TO STEAL FROM YOUR MOTHERS ESTATE.. I mean come on, How are we supposed to know. Like I said "Seek the advice of an attorny"
290287
You'll probably need an attorney because they have more resources and will know more about what is realistic. Be prepared to pay for the investigation. They will also need to know dates, bank names, anything you can tell them.\n\nYou can start yourself if you want to try by checking the local probate courts that would have been used - that would be where she was when she died, most probably. The probate will be public record.
314107
Dear Friend,\n\nWills get probated in court.  That's the only time a will and last testament will be available as a public document.  Find out which court and judge is handling the probate, and ask how you can be heard.  (You may need a lawyer.)\n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois
215243
There is so much more to this story. But if you are divorced she has no legal right to add you to the account and you are not responsible. In fact if you had nothing to do with it, it is a felony. Talk to her bank and ask them how you were added without your signature. Get anything you can in writing such as what was spent on the account and write down who you talked to and when. Sounds harsh but you don't really want to have this effect your credit do you? It will and be a huge hassle later if you are not proactive.
272407
Take the will to the courthouse in the county where the deceased person resided.  There should be a court office set up for helping people in your situation.  In my state its called the Probate Court. They will probate the will and give out documents that will allow the executor (person designated by the deceased person to wrap up his affairs) to go to banks etc. and do whatever the deceased person could have done if still alive.  Its usually just a matter of filing forms.  I would avoid the expense of a lawyer unless the estate is complex or you anticipate litigation amongst family members.