Why is it when you look them in the eye they tend to say "what?" or they feel aggression..\nIs it a rude thing? A power struggle?
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I think the act of looking someone in the eye may be more in reference to assertiveness. \nI look people in the eye to show respect. There definitely are people who are taken aback by this as you mentioned. I think those people are insecure. And that's okay.\nIt is definitely NOT rude to look someone in the eye. \n\nDo you see me looking at you?
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the fact that they taunt u reflect their jealousy sweetie....so instead of just gettin worried ,be happy that ur frnds are not that happy wid u over the matter...!!;-)...n finally just ignore them....i bet they ll stop sooner or later....n dependin upon ur  added stern looks....definitely SOONER!!!!
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Why go out of your way to "make Carol mad"?  That type of energy vented is a weakness in the person 'attacking' the other.  Want to make a point or make a statement?  Then do so in the vein of wisdom, strength, compassion but let that statement stand alone.  No need to 'go after' another with the goal of making her mad...especially in this avenue where you can't face that person in reality . . . ill comments made in this venue are cowardly.
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Not all the time, but most people don't. In anger, the truth comes out on how you really feel about a person. If you think before you speak, then you try to put into words that are not so honest and try to think about the other persons feelings. Personally, I would rather just come out and say things, that way they are in the open, and there is no second guessing.
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WOW...threw me for a loop there!\n\nUm...ask em why they said that...then punch em in the face...or really really want to...then go and get over it...
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They are projecting - pure and simple.  They have probably suffered rejection or worse from women that makes them all  enemies in their minds, especially the attractive ones.  A good way to judge a person's character is by how they treat strangers.  If they are rude or mean to strangers they generally are people with low self esteem.
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lol yes i have met a few people that have a 'lazy eye', this often pops into my mind, i tend to just look straight at them, whatever you do, do not look over your shoulder to where the lazy eye is looking as they may be quite offended
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It means do you want to contest what they say?....or even physically fight about it?!!!!
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I think you need to look at it from another angle, like maybe he is just trying to push your buttons, to harden you a bit.\nBut stand firm, "LET" him pick on you and be serious like ok this will not bother me, look him straight in the eye so he can see he's not bothering you, in other words don't let it get to you, he most likely does not mean anything by it, heck I have bosses like that, hell say what you want I just don't care but when you answer him look he in eye and speak loudly and firm\nThat might help, Don't lit it get to you be strong
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How they are raised or if they are feeling to bad about themselves they take their anger and make other people feel that way.\nBut, I always ignore that stuff...I dont care about those people, hopefully they'll grow up!!
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I think they  don't because they want something to fight against. It makes them feel like they are doing something with their lives that in reality they are not doing. They can't take the time to walk in another mans shoes to see that he is not so different.\nHere is a story.\nI work for a major Cable company and when the cable goes out you would think we just stole their first born. Really...\nNot to long ago in one of our cities the cable went off and we could not get if fixed. It not like we did not try. For three days nothing. People were forced to talk to their families.\nWe had one woman call in after it was on to say she wished we had been off longer. She said that she played with her family. Board games and walks in the park.\nAll because she had nothing to do.\nRight now my partner thinks that me being on here is a waste of time but she will play games for hours. I like to think that in some way I help people by giving a right answer.\nI can be happy knowing that I can. I have noticed that I turn off the TV more and do other things. I also think that getting along more has something to do with not only how someone was raised but how well educated they are. ( I know what I am saying, I am from the south) In school we are forced in to classes with all kinds of people and when they see that one person is not that different then they can think, maybe I am wrong about that group.\nI hope that answers your question
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Don't worry about what they think.  That's immature.  Besides, why are they looking?  You have nothing to be embarrased about.
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You did right,\nthe reason these people treat others like a**holes is because they don't get a taste of their own medicine, they think others are too scared. good on you, it proves that.....REVENGE IS A DISH, BEST SERVED COLD!!
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they have eyes to see, but they do not see. they are catering to the unfortunate common condition of man-kind.\nhatred and "kill 'em all" attitude".  they even go so far as to degrade their own race by frequent use of the word "NIGGER" in referring to themselves or other dark skinned peoples.  And THAT word is TRULY degrading as it especially refers to SUB-HUMAN species...it's sad, and needs\nto be dealt with.
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are they trying to get on your nerves or is it just their dispositions that cause you to get annoyed with them...if they are purposely annoying you, don´t freak at them, maybe try to just ignore them, or try talking with them.  If they aren´t trying to annoy you and they just are then you should probably seek professional help:)
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They just aren't openminded.\nBlindfolded, still...
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hey samantha, they are rascits to others because they dont really care wat they say or wateve they might feel desprisions or something and had someone do that to them even though it is wrong but they wont care. thanks for the 2 points!!!!