it seems he just wants to make out with me and other things i dont want to mention! and hes goes to my church and when im there he just pokes my boobs and my butt in church!!!\nplus i like the preachers son more but i just think the preachers son just wants to be my friend!!!\noh, this is my life!!!
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Tell this guy that he needs to grow up before you will go out with him.  Ask him if his father pokes his mother's boobs at church.  He obvioulsy likes you, but is going about it in all the wrong ways.  You are probably better off going after the preacher's son.
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i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
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You should definitely dodge the Christian you have gotten close to. He's already laying a guilt trip on you, what's next?\n\nFollow your desires as you see them and date the non-Christian if he seems like a decent guy.\n\n((((( r u randy? )))))\n.
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No he isn't holier.  But I know what you mean.  I think that you need to see how close you are to him.  Is he your friend? Does he even talk to you?  With these type of men they seek realy spiritual women that will be a help in their ministry. Try to talk to him. Start trying to be friends first.  Then see how it turns out.  I agree with the person that wrote that you might just be infatuated with the role and not the person.  It is realy easy to get that way.  Just start by being friends that way you can see if it's the man or the role that your in love with.
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I'm sure he likes you "in that way" but he's probably just as freaked out and confused about it as you.  Sooner or later one of you will hurt the other, either by asking the other to "cross the line" or by dating someone else.  I think you could avoid that by trying to be VERY mature and sit down alone and talk about how the 2 of you feel about each other which is probably in the middle between "just friends" and wanting to jump into bed with each other.  You freindship will not be the same after this talk but it might be a better alternative than waiting until this timebomb is set off by hormones rather than diffused by the 2 of you taking an honest look at how much you really care about each other, your special friendship, and I'm sure that niether of you wants to hurt the other emotionally.
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I hate to tell you this Peanut, but he wants to get into your pants.\n\nBTW, did you know that there is another Peanut right here on Answers? I am appalled!
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if he was a christian he would respect you for your decision. I think you are doing the right thing.  Think about this...Dont worry about why he's doing it.  Its the Devil talking. God would love for you to be around Christians, and of course the Devil would not.  Don't put God after your boyfriend. God first, ALWAYS! God Bless You!
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trust me. they are rejecting him for more then that. and IF this was the only reason..if you're underage you have to leave him b/c the bible says "honor your mother and father so your days will be long upon this earth".
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It does not seem like he's fully matured yet but then again boys will be boys...he plays childish games.I believe he likes the attention.When you laugh at a childs mishaps they begin to think it's funny and try to do it often to make you laugh!Also,I think he's trying to get in your girls pants...and if he could have it his way he would have you both.He's just waiting for the right time...sort of testing the waters on you both.Manipulate him the way he is playing you girls.Talk it over with your girl.If she likes him then you might as well just let them have eachother.He's not worth getting jealous or fighting over...\nbtw,thanks for the advice on the hills
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lol thank you heather for all of your concern!! hahaha that is me your talkin about!! but i look at it this way, God doesn't want us to be together and that was a way to get us apart...and plus there are other guys out there and that his parents will adore me! lol!! but ohh well his mom was a boitch any way..
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trust me if he wanted you he could probely get with you sound easy. peple now aday greet that way would you date everybody if a symbol i am so glad to see you are frindly way  like if you went to church that is a brother and sister like a christin hug. maybe you are so ugly he feels sorry for you and he just hugs you to hold your head up you got a friend dont date everybody that hug you
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Well he's your little brother and sounds like he's looking up to you and wanting to spend time with you.  There's nothing wrong with it at all.  When you want to go out and do your own thing explain it to him so he doesn't get hurt and hopefully he will understand.
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He doesnt sound like much of a friend, if he's judging you on your "gayness"\n\nThats a load of BS!\n\nBe who you are, and enjoy it.
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man, i feel bad for you. you're playing on the wrong team. God is so real. it seems like everyday he's proving himself (to me anyway). i mean there are times i look back and it could have only been God that got me through. God gives me peace, protection, and he is a great provider. My first year in college I didn't have a job or a dime to my name, but God made a way for me. He made is so that I was never hungry, and that I never wanted for anything. to you God might be an "invisible friend" but for me he is my best friend. the bible is a guide that tells us how to live. and if people live right they dont have to fear God. he gave his only son for us, do you really think that he wants to destroy us? to cripple us with fear? No, thats not him, he is loving. I'm sorry if you feel that God has failed you, or that he's not real, because you're missing out.
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Your relationship with God is personal just like his is. Your actions might win him over just give it time and keep the communication between you open and honest.
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Why would he do that? If you feel it is right, do it. If not, pray about it. That is one of those situations where you do not know what is right or wrong.
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I'm confused, is this guy a member of the church or is he simply a crazed homeless guy living in his van?\n\nLook, I dont know, im really bad at this "subtle revenge" thing.\nYoure trying to avoid his "conversion"? Tell him youre gay. Christians hate gays.\n\n:UPDATE:\nBut whats his prime objective in watching you and your friends? Is he trying to turn your friends into members? What does he want from you? Figure out what it is he wants, once you have the right question than you can get the right answer.\n\nALSO\nIs he clean cut? or very ragged and shabby looking? Do you get the impression that hes been using drugs?\n\nO, in that case youre dealing with a sociopath. Well, if he has threatened you than a restraining order will be easy to get. It might be best if you beat him at his own game, I wouldnt damage his car or fuck with his property as it might just escalate into something you could regret later. You gotta beat him at his own game, recruit some friends to confront this asshole.