i went out with this guy for 2 years and 2 months one time , and then we just kept going out off and on , and he just keeps breakin my heart and he wants to get back together and says it will last , but should i believe it and go for him cuz i do love him , or should i say uim sick of your shit>?
129523
Drop him like a bad habit (which he is). Move on.  Move on.  Move on!
611103
think about why u broke up with him in the first place, getting over a broken heart is painful, but if u get back into the relationship how long will u be happy? If u really love him and want it to work then go for it, but go back because u don't want to deal with the pain of a break up. Good Luck :)
315712
I think that just proving to him that he's the best guy for you and that you truly love him and want to be with him is good enough. Explain to him why you broke it off, meaning the truth, then tell him that you are happy to have him back because you love him. And leave it at that. You don't want to sound too giddy.
258959
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
142177
if you fought so much, ask yourself, do you truly love him? is he right for you? if the answer is yes, you should probably follow your heart and try to win him back, but if the answer is no, the just forget him, and move on, since each experiences in life only make you a stronger person
459506
He was right for breaking up with you because he wasn't IN love with you.  You can definitely love someone and have fallen out of love with them.  This has happened to me, so I know.  The love can be gained back, but it has to be by their choice.  They have to want it to work.  I fell back in love, but I really wanted it to work.  Hope this helps.  Don't push them, just let them be.  You know the saying, if you love someone, set them free....if they come back to you, it's meant to be....if not, they were never yours in the first place.  Good luck!!
445234
IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM YOU'LL STICK BY YOUR MAN !!!\n\nBE PATIENT !!!\n\nIF IT WAS MEANT TO BE HE'LL BE BACK !!!
444914
Your going to have to let the part go if your wanting this relationship. People make mistakes and don't always make the right decisions. If he is back with you and that is what you want then don't worry about and get on with your life.>
300402
Well I would normaly tell you that  if you love him, try and work it out, but you should under no surrcumstances, know matter how much you love someone, let someone treat you like shi*, you are worth so much more than that..... but if you love him let him go, and if it was ment to be him will come back    good luck and god bless
48264
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
428937
You wrote a pretty long question, but no where in the entire paragraph did you say that there has been any change in the thigns that caused you to break up.  That's the key here.\n\nObviously, you care about him.  He must have had some good qualities, because you would not have been with him for two years if he didn't.  So, you gave it your best shot.  Unfortunately, *it didn't work.*  That's sad, and it has to hurt.  Two years, all that effort, and it just didn't work out.  Ouch.\n\nBut the one thing you got, or should have gotten, is the lesson that you don't work as a couple.  Whatever happened between you shows that you can't be together as a couple.  So, yes, you have to move on.\n\nI know this is not the news you were hoping for, but I think it is important to hear the truth.  Good luck!!
293502
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
493687
Don't put up with it.  If he really liked you, he wouldn't want you to feel like you do right now, and he wouldn't be dumping you.  I realize you like this guy, and this isn't the advice you wanted, but it's true.  If you let him act like this, and then you two get back together, he'll just break your heart.
112079
in my opinion i would move on. i know its easier said than done but if your not in love with him anymore dont waste your time anymore. itll probably hurt at first but your heart will heal it sounds like yall are only together because its 3 years into it. get out and mingle you'll be alright! i've been there and staying isn't worth it. give yourself a chance to find someone thats nice to you. good luck!
58485
first and foremost, i think its important for you to re-evaluate the reasons why you called it off. you wanna make sure that you don't make the wrong decision and get back with him. if your reasons seem like its worth the break-up, stick to it! of course its gonna be hard to move on, especially when you start thinkin back to all the good times. but you really have to re-evaluate your decision because if you find that life will be better without him, take the chance and move on to a life without stress.
581776
You should leave him while your a head....its a lot easier to get over a short term relationship (especially if you guys have already broken up twice) then it is to get over a relationship you have been in for years......to me it sounds like he is with you until his ex wants him and when she's done with him he comes running back to you......you deserve better than that and if you keep taking him back he's going to keep thinking he can get away with it.....you shouldn't want to be with someone who isn't sure of his feelings for his ex......you don't want a guy who has baggage and that's what his ex is.....shes going to keep popping into the picture until you tell him to go away for good.......you don't need a jerk like that, plus remember....its only been 6 months.....that's not long enough to keep braking up and getting back together.......some people go through that, but that's over years....not months.
650919
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind