4 days ago she decided it would be best if we didn't talk for a while.last night she calls needing jumper cables.whats the deal? i have conceded the fact of talking to her, and i am ok with that.
129983
Because she is using you. Tell her to buy her own damn cables.
126489
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
327154
Yes, I'm sorry but that is a form of cheating. I have people on here that I have talked to for a long time      (3 yrs +) and have never said nothing like that nor have they said anything to me like that either. I am on my comp a lot of hours a day but I don't that kind of stuff. She would probably go crazy if someone took the comp away from her.
229030
been there but it ended really fast(and never truly started), more of a mutual thing...anyways, talk to her about it, maybe give her some space for a little bit, not too long but  alwasys be close by when she does finally get over it, but it could be an excuse for something else. be careful witchever way you chose to go with this
647135
I saw a woman talking to herself. But wait there is more to the story-and I'll tell you why its strange. My boyfriend and I were driving down a highway when we came up behind a slow moving car. He commented on how the car looked like his mom's so when we passed it- sure enough it was her. I waved but she didn't see me because she was deep in a yelling match...WITH NO ONE ELSE IN THE CAR! She has been known to talk to herself in the past but man was she going to town hollering and shaking her head this time. She was so into it she never even saw me. My boyfriend laughed it off but I was all freaked out. He said she's been crazy his whole life. I would have liked to hear the convo going on in that car! Yikes lol
225581
try to find out what are her future positive projects .leaving you isn't one i hope..\nonce you know what are her future intentions then you could have an idea on what to do.leaving you isn't a reason to accuse her of mental disturbance.
103465
i would be crushed, but i would give her the benefit of the doubt and wait and see, maybe she has big plans that you dont know about. just relax and give it time, if the day ends and you dont hear from her, then express the next day that it upset you and wait to see if she has a good reason.
36493
May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.
488930
Did she start her period that day?Are you over reacting?are you just looking for a way out?If your not happy,talk to her about it and the two of you come up with ideals on how to fix it.If not,leave.
666783
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
407281
She is trying to numb some pain... ask her when she has been sober for a day, what is hurting her to the point of why she is so distructive, get deep with her because she probably feels guilty for having sex so soon and giving into the peer pressure.  Hope you all will be okay
387638
It's not over until it's over.  She clearly just needs her space, and you've given it to her.  Kudos to you!  It would probably not be out of line to give her an occasional call to see how she is.  She will hopefully come around when she sees how nice and supportive you are.
558449
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
149004
I've been there mate, sorry to say it, but she's taking you for a ride. She's using you when she find's it convenient. Sever this "relationship" before it breaks you in two. If she's willing to treat you like that, she's not worth it. She obviously doesn't have a high regard for your feelings, because if she did, she would have got with you totally, or not at all. Sorry to say it mate, but break this one up now, please. I know how painful it will eventually be if you don't.
498132
I think she is still upset about the breakup so she needs time to think about everything that has happened. Deep down even though she is being distant with you she really wants to open up to you but she is so hurt, but dont give up on her give her the time she needs even though it may be a little tough. When she is ready to talk she will trust me!
69030
what's 7 hr. drive if this turns out to b something really special??? why get your buddy in the middle? give it a few days and then call her...send a cute card..just to say"HELLO"..if its meant to be then where ther's a will, there's a way..best of luck to ya!!!
272382
No, I don't think you made a mistake! However, her response sounds to me like SHE has issues - it doesn't mean yes, or no - in other words, she is undecided. I can't tell from that, whether or not you should pursue this...that has to be your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide (at least she was honest with you!)