i trie to tell her but she ignores me because she thinks that i like him and want hin 4 myself. but that is not true\nplease i need some good advice\ni do not want her to get hurt
136684
tellher you are not trying to hurt he r but you now something that can harm her relationship with her boyfriend
272495
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
208795
well, now you know the truth. She does not love you. She may like you but she likes your friend more. Do not make it more painful for both of you by telling her how you feel. You got the message, so stop thinking about her.\n\nShe may find it hard to say to you that she does not like you that way and it would be hard for you to ask her if she likes you and hear her say no.\n\nI suggest you don't say a thing and look for other girls. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
580835
LEAVE THE HO! You deserve better. When she said she likes you she might have been lying to protect your feelings. She obviously doesn't treat you right if she's pulling that crap. You'll get someone better I promise.
208163
emmmmm isn't it obvious !!!\nshe like  you and says you are hot !! dahhh she want you to do (&#92;&#92;&#92;) with her !! and yah she wana keep her boyfriend coz she probably love him !!!\nwhat you should do ?? just ignore her she's no good for you or anybody ... don't accept to be a tool in her hands !!
646782
well.. if she is your friend then you should feel comfortable with just telling her, and if she decides to get an attitude, bring up the fact that he likes you.. not her.
183828
She digs you for more than just friends. I did this same thing only 4 months ago. She has a "crush" on you, otherwise she wouldn't waste her time. See, pouring out even the simplest thing like telling you she has a crush makes her vulnerable. You will have to spill the beans on how you feel first and bring it out in her to feel comfortable being a bit more candid.
566045
2 solutions for you:\n\nIF YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND:  You will not date him because you value your friendship too much to jeapordize is.\n\nIF YOU ARE NOT THAT GOOD OF FRIENDS: Explain to her how much you really like him and it is your choice, you don't have to lose out on something just because she is holing you back.
337958
She has to be as unselfish as you are, maybe she has to do the sacrifice!!! You were not right to make this lie because it will only make things harder now. If you both like him, then there's only one way to settle the whole issue, which is to wait for him to make the choice and then at least none of you would be the cause of pain to the other. You will not like her any longer if she continues like that and eventually wins his heart, you will not even bear to e around any of them.
457327
she was probably scared off because you told her you loved her and youre not even her boyfriend. you shouldnt say such a strong thing to someone you're not even in a relationship with. your best bet is to apologize to her for saying that and that you know she doesnt feel the same way and see what her response is. who knows, she could tell you youre wrong.
277086
if you truly like her like you say you do then my best advice is to tell her. i mean look at it this way if she is interested then let her noe tha u r interested this way you both can be together instead of playing around until she gets another man. and yea believe me i have had a guy do tha to me i was interested but he didn't tell me he was interested in me to until i got a man. don't do this to yourself and don't do this to her. if you are defintely and i mean defintely interested then show her or tell her don't play games. and if you are worried about rejections remember wuts the worst tha can happen? don't worry about her stop talking to you remember tha if she showed any interest then she most like you. and don't wait get out there and tell her you are feelin her before its to late.
423525
If you've told her that he doesn't like her, and she ignores you, then she's going to get hurt anyway and there's nothing you can do but watch it happen, then tell her "I told you so" when it is over.
29514
well at least she can talk to then; buck that shyness and just wait for the right time to tell her that you Are attrackted to her and you were curious if she felt the same; tell her no hard feelings(get it into the open)if she says no then thats on you to ask her not to come talk to u about her deals with guys
668230
never fear,your answer is here.The answer you need is simple,It will not make you look bad,It will not hurt her and she will never have to know that you could ever be so sorry that you would stoop that low as to try to lie to her or try to get her to see ot think something that is actually false.All you have to do is know her.Know what she likes,where she hangs out at and what she likes to eat,wear,music she likes,etc.....Find little ways by using what you know about her to show her that you care.become a true friend to her and talk to her about things she likes,show interest in things that she likes but never let her know that you knw that she was interested in this.eventually she will realize and see that you can be a pretty nice person and you will eventually do something that really catches her heart.You just have to let her see for herself,Hey I would really like to be with him...
85777
Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
381391
yea but i don't feelings for that guy so, i pretend nothing had happened.but you should give it a try.if you tell her, you'll have at least 50% of the chance.if you don't, it will be a 0% chance.
431764
Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren