...but whenever his girlfriend comes around, he acts like im not even there.
128536
Uh, are you looking for a soap opera script? He has a girlfriend so who cares if he likes you. Pay attention to who is available. Trust me, in the long run, you win if you chose those who are available.
596382
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry
608728
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
518501
Yup I'd say he is just playing games...the girl should just ignore him ....and not even talk to him...he is a loser..
468579
he sounds confused or is searching for attention.  don't waste your time.  he knows you will always be around if he needs you but you can't rely on him to be consistent - drop him for a guy who craves your attention.
625751
You know what, he's probably seeing someone else. Maybe thats why he has not been paying any attention to you. Just sit with him and talk to him, if that don't work, then just tell him that you love him all your heart and give him the best moment he ever had.
629025
Either he isn't "really" interested in you or he is ignoring you because he might feel "embarassed" around you.  You need to sit him down and talk to him about it.  If he doesn't listen to you or doesn't want to talk then he isn't worth the pain.  Let him go and find a person who will want to be with you and talk to you in public.  Good luck!
335242
sounds like u didn't make your move fast enough.  Ive noticed that when im looking for girls they never take me seriously, but the second i finally find a girlfriend or start seeing someone that all the girls i was JUST CHASING all become jealous (like you), to me it sounds like you're a bit of an attention whore, and you're just jealous of the attention she is getting that you aren't.  If you really cared about the guy, which is possible, wait patiently, even let him know that you wish you would have expressed your feelings earlier, and that you really regret not doing so.  Maybe him and his girlfriend will have a fight, and knowing he can come to you, he might dump her.  But if you follow through with this, don't get bored with him just cause you "got" him finally.  I NOTICE THIS LOTS TOO!  Remember what it was like for him to not pay attention to you and how bad it made you feel.  What ever u do, don't break up a relationship just because you are jealous of the attention you aren't recieving from a guy who wants a girl who will give him her attention back.
54433
Ummmmmmm, maybe he's afraid that the girl doesn't likehim anymore?  Lol.
566862
He is a shy guy and you are is second girlfriend. Give him time to be comftable around you. He is probably nervous that you will not like him. I am shy too, but after a while I'll trust and feel comftable around guys I meet. \n\nBut I don't get the part of his friends following him when he was following you.
361192
Wow, If I were you I would sit him down and express how I felt about that situation and tell him that it can't happen again. Don't be to aggressive with him though, you don't want to push him away.  Explain to him that when he does stuff like that then it makes you feel like he isn't proud that your his girlfriend. Just let him know how you feel, otherwise he might not know he's doing something wrong. Remember communication is the key to everything.
388714
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
436809
He probably don't know you like him.  HE just likes you and since he was there with his girlfriend, it made him uncomfortable and guilty, so he left
249864
Maybe he has a girlfriend?
218728
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
314798
You are probably very hot looking.\nThis is his way of inflating his ego by saying she is MINE.\nBoth men and women do this . I had a woman who always went crazy in public with me ,especially if another woman was paying attention to me.Just be happy he is proud to be with you.If he steps over the line and demands you not talk to your friends or any males at all RUN RUN RUN.\nThis is someone with insecurity issues and they can make your life HELL.
59163
For goodness sakes! Is he ashamed of being with you or does he not want people to think you are an item? He sounds like a guy I used to like in high school and in the first year of college. We only went to church together. And when we went out, it was after dark. He didn't want it to get back to his dad that we were seen together. \nYou might want to ask him why. But if his behavior does not improve, just leave him and his issues alone.