my friend best friend always having a bad mouthing and say something that not good to be say.
126994
you just take care of ur love only. Don't bother about the best fren. Just ignore him.
329943
Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.
58971
Don't be too afraid about that.  If he/she is your best friend, you won't be able to say almost anything to offend him/her.
67772
I have a friend who's husband talks incessantly. People have asked him to stop, but he can't seem to. He doesn't seem to have a clue. He really gets on my nerves.
13411
there may be reasons why they talk about her, maybe she did something wrong, talk about it. just stay by her side. its nice that she still has YOU as her friend who would not turn against her. RIGHT?
186848
If you are a true friend you will tell the person that their breath stinks. Otherwise they will continue on and everyone else except them will notice this, which is the more embarassing senario. It is difficult because we as people have gotten to the point we don't want to offend anyone.
603879
okay, I'm not the best person to ask but, i personally think you should do something that would let your friend(s) see what he is doing is bad. Or you could catch him doing something wrong, and if those are your real friends, tell them and they should believe you.
71938
Ther is obviously something going on in her life that is making her act this way. Talk to her. Friendships are the most important things you can have in life and good ones are very hard to come by.\n\nI have had a best friend for 27 yrs and it hasn't all been pretty but each time we found our way back to each other and I am so happy to have her in my life.
446704
Well you and your friend put your foot into your mouths,shame on you ha ha ha ha,but it is fix able......Offer her a gift,take it over to her house and say your sorry,suck it up! \n\nA nice gift to offer her,given she tried to explain her problem,would be a gift of rock salt deoderant,it's amazing for just this type of problem,you can buy them at any health food store,and they are only a couple dollars. She will think you actually took the time to think about her,and the problem she tried explaining to you when you made fun of her.
168793
Talk to him about it, and try to agree that both of you should be more specific when you talk to each other, or make sure you repeat how you understood what the other said right away so that it can be cleared up before it causes a problem.\n\nMy friend and I do the same thing all the time, and sometimes we frustrate each other, but we are both aware that it happens and don't let it get in the way of our friendship.
86754
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
108085
Just talk to her, tell her what bothers you and if she keeps on doing it or gets mad, well that would mean she is not a good friend
659819
Just tell her you can't be friends with someone like that, but you would be happy to help her turn her life around. If she is truly your best friend, she will change
446773
I usually do that with my best friends, and if I don't, they'd think I got mad with them. Also I'd think there's something wrong if they don't say that to me. we say that frankly, and we feel happy to hear that. however, it is not acceptable to be told to some one who doesn't have strong relationship with you.
546894
you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
162101
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
296974
she is jealous of your friendship with him especially the fact that you have been since kindergarten \na lot of people are like that\nshe is afraid of losing you \nprobably the only one person she hangs out with \nis you so ask her to try a different approach when all of you guys are together\ncause the one she has now is just causing friction \nask her to try being nice and talk about something that interests her and him\nboth\nif she is a real friend she will at least try to approach him with a different attitude