why do people lie it make problem but some times it fix them
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You answered your own question.  Wouldn't it be great if nobody told lies?  We would be able to count on what was said.  We'd get used to hearning the truth, even if it wasn't always pleasant.
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What happens is just human nature. It is normal human interaction to speak up against things they see as wrong. When things are going well people have no reason to bring things up. However, when things are not going well, I would hope people will bring it up and speak about it. It is the only way change can come about. Basically in a nut shell, when things are going well there isn't really reason to talk about them, when things are not going well then it becomes a serious topic of conversation. However, as we have so many differant opinions of what is well and what isn't, we have a lot of debates going on all the time, and they are all about how bad something is. One persons interpretation is not anothers. I also would like to see more positive talk about things going well, it just isn't likely to happen.
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Some people actually think that they are helping.  There are the types of people you can tell to stay out of your life, and those that just wont no matter what you say.  Its part of life.  When dealing with others you have to do just that, deal with it.
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everyone probably has lied at some point in his life, but in general a lot of people dont lie.  most do, but not all.  i dont lie (im telling the truth!:) seriously!) lying really makes relationships difficult (with friends, parents, siblings, boyfriends/girlfriends, everyone
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i guess it's because most people don't dig your way of\nthinking. and if i were you, i'd just ignore them.\nso what if they call you a liar? you know in your heart\nthat you're not. and this is the net, come on! this may be\nthe real world but you have a choice not to make it your\nworld. don't indulge too much. and they're right, CHILL!
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you know, there is a theory says, that sometimes when we don't trust someone(lover,friend,family)and we think they doing something behind our back,or even when we don't believe them, its because we do the  things that we are afraid that our lover is doing them,we will automatically think they are lieing and doing something wrong, because we already  lied about  things or cheated ..of course i cant generalize this, but i been in relations that proved that theory
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Everyone lies sometimes but some people lie a lot. I don't usually lie to people but I will omit telling someone something if I think it is none of their business. I think lying is learned behavior which starts in childhood and the more a child does it then it becomes part of their character when they are adult, especially if there is no incentive to be honest. It would take a lot of work for an adult who lies to become honest. It is easier to tell when a child is lying but not so easy to tell when an adult is lying unless you know them well. Since lying is subjective, I think some adults think they are telling the truth when in fact they are lying.
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Ultimately, even if you think that people helps you solve your problems, it is you who ends up cleaning the mess...\n\nthe first step is wanting to solve it, and you have done it!!\n\nGo ahead and you'll make it all right!!\n\n\nDav.
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This problem come from a basic belief that there is no absolute truth.  If they don't believe there is anything that is absolutely right or wrong, then they feel they can make it up as they go along.
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Because sometimes we just cant handle the truth
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when people lie to your face.
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some people have nothing exciting to say about them selves,or project a scene simply to get in ladies pants.others say littel and simply leave thingsto an imagination.\ni have no reason to lie and simply state what it is to an extent.\n depends on the person,frankly i wouldnt go through all the bs of covering one lie with anotehr and another like my ex did.\ni simply dont bother.take it or leave it
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lying is bad... it makes your conscience go away after awhile... I'm lying about an affair!! that is like a double no-no I know but it somehow just ...well..happened... ok that's a lie... it happened because I wanted it to as well as the other person. i did at one time feel guilty and bad about it now ( 9 months into it) i don't at all!!! it's ok to lie to a little kid...when they will not understand the truth...no honey your hermit crab is just a sleep.....oops! other than that I do not lie /.........................i have no reason to
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Because they usually believe what they do for personal reasons and  have a different moral or value stance than you. They don't just believe what is spoon fed to them.
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They hate when someone else recognizes that they are lying or they don't want to admit something to themselves. It doesn't seem so bad until they hear it from another person.\n\nI'd personally rather hear the truth even if it makes me mad. At least I respect you for saying it.
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Great topic!\n\nI am amazed that there are so many adults who do not consider some of the things they say or do not say, as a lie. For instance: sometimes people make up stories and tell it for fun. It may be a hunting story, fishing story, etc. This is done as a fantasy. The important thing to remember is that if you tell the story...you and the others must identify it is not really true....or it is a lie. Another example of a lie people do not always admit as lying is...when someone states something they think is true and then discover later that it is not true. The person really should then rectify the situation and admit they said something and found out it was not the truth. When a purposeful untruth is told, it is an outright lie. It is meant to deceive. This leads to disappointing others, others never really belive you and they eventually stop trusting you.  Then the time may come and you may be telling the truth...but too late...others don't believe you even when you do tell the truth. Some people actually believe that the only way a lie is told is in that manner. Not true! You can lie with your actions. You may cause a person to believe something not true by acting a certain way. (Example; child breaks a vase and throws it out and pretends not to know anything about it.) A lie can be done by being silent. You may cause someone to believe something by saying nothing. (Example: a mother asks the children who broke a window, and all the children know, but no-one tellls anything).The cycle of lying usually continues when one lies. The next thing one knows is they lie to cover another lie and so on. Most intelligent people, know when someone is lying to them. It doesn't change anything...except the credibility of the one who lies. Another form of lying is not telling a complete truth. Any form of not telling a complete truth or an admission of a complete truth in words or actions is a lie. \nI honestly do not intentionally lie. However, about two weeks ago we had company and this person asked me something and I did not want to go into it so I lied. When the company left. my husband said to me ..."why did you lie?" I reallly had to stop and think about it. I am a woman of value. I work hard to practice what I believe in. I am an honest person. I try hard to use tact and not lie. I usually would reply to someone who asked a personal question that I did not feel like answering with something like...why do you ask? I usually try to find an answer that will not offend the other person, but will also allow me to keep my personal life personal without lying. Sometimes, I like everyone find myself in a place I don't like to be. I feel dirty or shamed when I do that. Long story short...I felt guilty and called the person up and explained it. No one is perfect. There is not a sole alive who has not told a lie at one time or another. I can honestly say I do not lie on a daily basis, but sometimes I do find myself bordering the ethical line. I want people to trust me, I strive to be honest and keep integrity....but it is a daily struggle to be in tune with complete and open honesty!
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Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!