How would you describe the best way to perform *oral *sex on a woman. Is it all about caressing the clitoris or should there be penetration as well. I will not take offence to your answers. Try to give me the best answer. I've asked my girlfriend but she is too shy to discuss the matter in detail. Thanks for being honest!
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LOL at the fingers and tongues answer... if you can get your tongue down there you've got it made! :D\n\nSeriously, though, it's harder for a woman to orgasm just from penetration.. so a dildo or fingers or (sigh) cucumbers generally don't work as well.  \n\nClitoral stimulation is the way to go... if you don't know where that is, touch your finger to the top edge of your vaginal opening, then pull it towards your belly button... there's a small bump towards the top of your vagina that feels really really good to touch.\n\nStimulation can be done in lots of ways... repeated touching (often touching the sides feels better than just rubbing the round part), nearly anything that vibrates (back massagers, electric toothbrushes, etc) and if you have one of those cool shower heads with the adjustable spray intensity, that has a long hose, that will rock your world.\n\nSo have fun, take your time, and remember that it's a normal and healthy activity... and one that will make you a better lover!
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Dude...are you serious?? The clit is at the top of the vagina. You will see a small fleshy hood covering it. Just gently pull back the hood, and lick away.
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It's different. Try it. It's intense. It's the same orgasm, but it's not the same. I'm talking about using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation. The vibration goes so fast that it causes a different sensation, a very, very pleasurable sensation, and you can slow it down or speed it up, press it down harder or more gently so it just tickles, start and stop and tease. Get one! Get one that you can use underwater in the bathtub, that's great too! The "other" orgasm, the g-spot orgasm, is different, you can get that from penetration with a vibrator (they even have g-spot specific vibrators that are bent for easy access) or from having vaginal sex. I can't tell you about that one, though cause  I've never had one.
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Keep in mind that every woman is different. Deep penetration is the best and to achieve this here's a couple of options:\n1-You be on top, put her feet on your shoulders and bend towards her\n2-If all else fails, have her be on top, because she'll be able to move just right for her and you'll enjoy it, to. But don't make her be on top all the time, it makes her think you're lazy.\n3-Missionary is good, but the guy HAS to know what he is doing, it doesn't always hit the right spot on a girl.
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Girls are made fun of about it throughout their life, and that is something they have always been pressured to do also. Not only is it really gross to think of the action but it is humiliating to some. It really makes them vulnerable feeling and if a woman is not comfortable she is less likely to do something. Giving her oral really well several times to orgasm, then mentioning your don't want to give without receiving might entice her and visual sources might get her more familiar with the idea of how it is done. Good luck, it took me several years to get mine to try it and another couple to get her good at it.
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Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!
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A recent survey (which I can't find as a reference!!) suggested that:\n - most women thoroughly enjoyed receiving oral stimulation (cunnilingus);\n - only 25% of women enjoyed providing oral stimulation (fellatio).
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There's certain pleasure in pain. Like for me scratching my back and smacking my booty, and pulling my hair is a turn on. During sex when two become one it become amazing to as what can be turned into pleasure that normally wouldn't be. You have to learn your woman to know what pleases her and what causes pain.  As you embark on your intimate journey w/ your partner you will both learn about each other each other's likes and dislikes. It's a trial and error, but worth it in the end.
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A slightly different opinion. I find it best to get between her legs, otherwise if you have your legs near her head you are saying it's about me to don't forget. I found best results after going over the surrounding area is to lickly suck on the labia. Then move up to the clitoris and WHILE lightly sucking on it, gently flick your tounge at it's bottom between the labia and over the top. It's best to do this at the end though because they usually go over the edge pretty quick. Don't forget, it's all about technique and it takes time to get it right. She will also have her own preferences, if she has no experience then try different things and ask her what works. If she has experience she'll tell you exactly what she likes.
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
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Penetration is awesome, but only after lots of foreplay.  Having a few big O's before penetration makes it feel better and makes orgasm during more probable.  Women are different though.  This is just my opinion.
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I've heard that it's supposed to increase pleasure for the woman and can sometimes be pleasurable for the man too.  I haven't done it, but i can imagine that it's quite painful considering that there are more nerve endings in the clitoris than in the tip of your finger.
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You're not alone. I took a human sexuality course and only less than 1.5% of women are able to obtain an orgasm from penile-vaginal intercourse alone. The reason for this is that only the outer 3rd of the vagina can be stimulated, so during intercourse you're not getting much out of it. The larger part of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, as in your situation, this can be attributed to the number of nerve endings in the clitoris which are about the same as those nerve endings in the head of a penis. Some positions do offer clitoral stimulation during intercourse, you might want to consider being on top a little more that offers both sensations and can lead to orgasm, take it slowly and be patient. Good Luck.
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Hey man,\n\nSex is really not that simple.  Theoretically, yes.  But in practice not at all. \n\nIn order for the woman to feel an orgasm, she must be turned on.  This is best done by foreplay.  For me, foreplay includes a nice dinner that I cook and a nice bottle of wine to follow.  This sets the mood really really well.  \n\nKissing before sex is also a MUST.  Don't be afraid to do explore her mouth.  Suck out her bottom lip gently.  Bite on it gently.  French her.  Do whatever, but you have to kiss and get each other turned on.  \n\nTouching and exploring her body, both naked and clothed, is also a must.  I can't tell you anything specific really.  Just explore her curves and face and legs and wherever else you want to go with your hands.  A good lover's hands never stop moving.  \n\nNaked massages also get my woman REALLY turned on. \n\nAlso, mutual masturbation is very hot before sex.  It is an amazing sensation to pleasure your partner with your hands while they do the same.  \n\nOral is optional, but in my opinion is really nice.  \n\n\n\nI guess the biggest thing is that your partner needs to feel like you think she is sexy and that you really care about her in order for sex to be "good" for her.  Also, sex is not like Porn, where you walk up to her, bend her over, and f uck the shi t out of her.  You have to show her that you care about her.  And if you don't you shouldn't be f ucking anyway!
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i just play with my clit... i dont like fingerin myself, i like a guy doin it. I have no toys... yet and i do it every once in a while. I dont do it dat often... once or twice a month maybe ?
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This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!