does any poor guy have any chance that he can get a princess ,he has never dreamed of.do girls only look for beauty and money and not the heart ? do girls only love a man whose handsom and one whose not so beautiful\n ?
129022
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no not every girl is preoccupied with money or beauty. Sometimes a person's personal traits will outweigh what they might lack in the looks department but I also feel that there has to be some degree of physical attraction between two people for it to go beyond just a platonic relationship. Perhaps one's  mind will appeal enough to overide that but that really depends on the situation and the individual. What is ugly to one might be beautiful to another. But may I ask what is the preoccupation with finding someone who won't base you on your looks when it is apparent that that is what your standards are based on?
34622
Well average guy ,you must have some good qualities.Looks are not that important .Someone who you can trust,someone who makes you laugh,someone you can depend on,someone you can have fun with.....Obviously you two must have that.Your girl must have enough brains to look deeper than outside appearance.Hope things continue to be great for you two.Psst she does things for you because she likes to make you happy .Are you also doing things to make her happy.Keep making each other happy.And yes you are lucky.
221242
I'm sorry to say, it's probably not the last time your hopes will be crushed. I know, it sometimes seems "some guys have all the luck". But, rarely is it luck when the guy gets the girl. I can honestly say, YES you do have MULITIPLE chances to have a girlfriend and secret crushes with your name on them. Disappointment is real, and happens often to us all. If one doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. Shrug it off and look forward to what's around the next corner. It COULD be the one.  A positive tude Dude.. that's what the girls notice!!
227040
I am a girl of 22 years old and have had a lot of experience with guys. I am not shy and will ask a guy face to face what he looks for in a gal... from what i have been told guys look for "normal" girls. most hate it when a girl cakes her face in makeup and trys too hard to look "nice" what guys want is for a girl to have personallity rather than looks. thats the honest truth. They dont want a really ugly girl when theyre young coz they dont wana lose in front of their mate.... so be yourself and be confident and whatever you don DONT change the way you look or act to impress anybody be proud of you and be confident with yourself and youll have the guys flooding at you...promise. xx
670407
the man who makes her feel special and like shes a princess....one who loves her for her and doesnt try to change her.... the perfect man will be of some race but it will not matter which one because he is sweet, caring and knows how to please her- they will laugh at eachothers dumb jokes and pick eachother up when they  "fall"---
307812
Yes, cause every man is not the same.YOu just got to keep looking, and never give up. Just don't put your heart in it. Be careful about who you trust. A man will only do what a woman allow to do.
160039
It's hard to explain in my personal preference.  You could have a supermodel and an "average" woman, and I may choose the latter.  Looks aren't everything, but they are somewhat involved, I'm not going to lie.  Other than that, I look for a fun personality, capability to have a good conversation (serious or otherwise), attitude, and a sense of humility.  But some other guys are just in it for the looks...sad, as it may be less fulfilling.
583113
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
475160
Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
442999
If it is true love, looks don't matter. A girl would love a guy unconditionally if he shows true love in reply. A guy needs to have a good personality. The physical appearance is not what all matters.
369734
One of my best friends believes that all pretty women are haughty, because whenever he asked a hot girl out, he was either turned down, or  dumped when he was out of money. Because  he was betrayed so many times, he often took offence, and even resorted to bad language. Ever since, he has had a bad attitude towards pretty women. He even refused to have a blind date with a sexy girl whom I recommended very highly. He thinks that all of the sexy girls are only interested in  money, and they only want to go out with a handsome guy or a rich man. For that reason, he has a negative attitude, and he doesn't want to go out with sexy girls any more. In addition, he regards all  pretty women with great suspicion. I have had a lot of arguments with him about that, but I think most of the sexy women are both pretty and smart. No one should  be judged purely by their appearance. I have seen many  women who are both kind and pretty. Not all pretty women are bad.
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I, even as a young woman, look for a man who has a goal. As long as he has dreams its good enough for me. Without dreams if you think about it you have nothing to look forward to, or to strive for. The goal doesn't have to be a plan to get rich. Those are pluses but are not neccessary. For instance the guy I'm with now has had some trouble finding a job because of where we live but we have such a strong bond that I don't let that ruin what we have. \n\nWhen we say we want security we mean we want a man we can trust and depend on. Like with my boyfriend I work a whole lot so I only really get to spend quality time with him until Sunday so our relationship really thrives on trust.\n\nI don't think this woman is using the man all the way but to some extent she is. If the love is strong enough she should be understanding enough to stand by him while he is trying to make his dreams happen. As long he is making an attempt then she shouldn't be so upset.\n\nI don't run off when times get harder. In all actuality it brings us closer together because it shows how close we really are and the fact that neither one of us is in it for the money.
324113
the girls that you've talked to obviously aren't the type for you. don't lump girls all into one category---just like guys shouldn't be lumped into one category. they're are b*tches and there b*stards out there. i knew one or two personally. i'm into the romantic stuff---i love: it when he holds his hand out for me to get down from his truck, like him getting down from a carriage---or when he picks me up in his arms to help me down from the bed of his truck (kinda short); roses; love letters; showing up on my doorstep for no reason; going one of the houses, and watching a movie; writing letters [to my boyfriend]. um...what are twinkies and honeybuns? (sorry). i don't want a guy on steriods, or money. i have plenty of money, and i don't want to have a d*mn thing to do with steroids. as to the good looks, well, i just happened to end up with a bf who has them. my bf (c.h.) and i have been in a long distance relationship for almost one year, and i cherish the time that we spend together. i don't like going to the mall (it gives me a headache); i don't like much shopping---headache too after about 2-3 hrs; and i would rather hang out with the unpopular than the popular people---too much of a reputation to keep up in the popular group. c.h. and i write letters to each other, talk on the phone, and im each other. when we get together, we usually go to his ranch, and watch a movie or do something else. you just have to find your princess. you just obviously haven't found her yet. i know it's been dissappointing, but i reccommend you get rid of the negative attitude. girls don't find that attractive. i know i wouldn't. but yes, i am into the romantic stuff---and my boyfriend does that.
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Sorry to say but you are shallow and might be incapable of true love, at least not at this time and certainly not with this girl.  If you truly loved her, she would be the most beautiful woman in the world to you.  So you obviously do not. Don't marry her as you would be taking away her chance at true happiness with someone who will treat her like the goddess that she is.  You give us real men a bad name!
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I am with everyone else in that you got scammed by lovely number 1...........I do wonder though if you are handing yourself out to women in need for a reason...assuming ofcourse that this is the type of woman you seem to fall for..or pull in....the dame in distress type....If you do..unforturnately..as with men too..these kind of women sometimes drag onto men who can suck them outta of the current drama or problem...and then..once they are up and running..that same sweet kind prince becomes unappealing or boring to them...Why dont you do this for a change...dont look for women...just let it happen..and when it does find you.. try a run with someone who doesnt just need to be the princess in need ..but who wants to take care of the PRInce in the relationship just as much,,,pssttt...thats you!!!!\nAnd women in other countries with dying needs...are probably very far from death..and use the internet to prey on great men like yourself..stay clear of them..and look for love in safer...areas.\nAND DONT banish yourself from love or from a life of children..etc..etc..were these women really grande enough to jolt that kind of response from you???? the best revenge in all of this would be to move on...in a real and happy relationship...and have a good life...despite the shit heads out there...for every 10 dogs my dear..you CAn find one stunning diamond...\nI wish you the best of luck....and the best of real love..and intimacy.............
655572
Why not looks with money or money with looks....\nOK.\nIf I have to choose, I will choose the one I love, \nbut if he is with money or not, if he is a good looking people or not, this doesn't matter at all.\nThere's nothing more important than love.\nBut imagine your self in bed with a ugly man, uuuuh this is terrible despite his money
271054
i'm a rather big girl maself.I've noticed that guys dont usuually fall in love with me or want me at first sight but they get crazy over me after they know me. Most big girls have wonderful personalities i wish guys would look past size and get to know us first.\nOf course there are guys who get love the idea of having a big girl to use and abuse.The most important thing is 'Plus Ladies' are unique and wonderful people!!!