my homegirl has a cousin and i have a crush on him but he be actin to damn stupid he is sexy and tall skinny and i was wondering do you have any ideas where i can get him to like me.
124369
1st,, do not understand what a "homegirl is"\nis this some one in a small towm.?.\n\n2nd,, Be yourself\n\n3rd, stay away from "damn stupid" people\n\n4th, try to better yourself, not the stupid person...>
405114
Yes. girls play the jealousy game that is quite a possibly. But ............. she has been involved with another guy ........ 5 monthes or so!??? the jealously game doesn't go on that long trust me!!!!!  It is possible for girls to like more than one person though.... so she could like her boyfriend but still have feelings for you... But if you guys are too shy to have a relationship is it worth going after anyways??? My suggestion.... well she could very possibly like you and even if you wanted things to work...  you would have to wait until her and her current boyfriend broke up.....  Then you'll have to rethink things and try to have such a shy relationship. maybe things will get better from there. But don't steal a girl from your best friend.. you will lose a friendship! but also! he did steal her from you first!!! but ........... it all depends on how serious their relationship is... plus you don't want to stoop down that low and if she likes you .. she will come back to you! don't sweat it! your cousin's little cousin could be a small hint.. but then again kids blabber random stuff all the time for no reason... Alright good luck!
404956
with him you should:\nstop talking to him he isn't worth your time!\ni know its gonna be really hard trust me I know\nbut I mean he obviously doesnt like you\nand besides if you do get back with him are you going to trust him?\nbecuase a realtioship has to be based on trust. Just find your self a new guy one who will appreaciate you.\n\nyour cousin:\njust dont talk to her either. Talk to her when you need to \nand other wise just go on with your life. You dont need her\nor anybody like her around your life. \n\nwell good luck =]
351234
whatever it is, it's a stupid game so just start liking someone else who doesn't play with your feelings.  I think it's sort of cruel to do that if you have told him you are attracted to him.  He has no class.
25640
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
494689
Eh,I'm a HIM fan but I'm a girl and I'm straight so blah,\nbut seriously get out a bit!!\nI'm sure there's some goth guys who like HIM where you live,\nI know loads but only because I went out loads,\nyou really shouldn't be asking random people on the interent about it..\nxxx
566996
Yes, its close. Problem is not in closeness. You get a crush on any guy anywhere, if it is gonna create any problems for you then your home cant remain un affected. I would say, do not base your relation based on distances of your houses. If he is really worth it go for it... And when you said 'if anything were to happen' it indicated that you are not very mature in your thinking process. I say be careful. You cant afford to ruin anything be being careless. Its your responsibility to decide and think in the welfare of you and your family. Neighbour means they have and interaction with you and your family too. Bottoml line is its more likely to get exposed sooner. Take care
321524
you can't make a person like you.. but since you've known him since 3rd grade you prob know him really well.. so try to show him how you two have some of the same interests.. and do things for him that you know he likes..
5740
Have you thought about "writing off" some of these "guy friends"?  If they are "just" friends, why does it matter who they date?\n\nI get the impression that these "guy friends" are more than just "friends" to you -- that they are prospective "boy friends".\n\nConsider it self selection.  If these guys are more interested in your cousin than you, then you might take the attitude that these guys weren't the guys for you in the first place.  (When I was young, I used to get frustrated that certain girls only liked me as a friend.  When I got older and wiser, I realized that these girls and women did me a favor ... they saved me from a relationship with someone whom I would not have been happy with long term).\n\nThis realization can become a real form of empowerment for yourself which, may in turn, make you more attractive to some of these guys in the first place.\n\nTwisted logic, I know.  But I met the woman who became my wife when I finally said to heck with women who weren't interested in me.\n\nFinally, why are you and your "guy friends" hanging out in situations where they get to meet your cousin anyhow?  If there are guys you like, find ways to hang out with them that don't allow your cousin to get near them.  Or if you are hanging around with your cousin, stop hanging around with her. Put some distance between you and her.
511023
How about be yourself. No one likes a faker.  Just don't flirt with his mates.  Make sure he feels you only have eyes for him - even if you don't.  One little tip you may already know and if you do I apologize in advance - if you are sitting next to him with your legs crossed - make sure they are  crossed towards him and not away as this implies disinterest.  Some women know this and some don't but if you cross your legs towards a mate of his you could piss him off.
333851
Flirt. \nThat will always work. Do it in subtle ways, NOT to the point you look trashy.\nIf you like him, then the really best thing to do is just tell him. Once he KNOWS you like him, it'll defiantly make him see you in a different/good light.
281034
You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!
596899
When I was growing up in the South, a girl just didn't even go to a guys house if his parents weren't home and certainly would never go into the guys bedroom. I realize things are different now however, one thing hasn't changed: This guy will think better of you if you don't do anything or allow anything to happen that could lead to sex. If you tell him you don't want to go into his bedroom even to "see" something, he may protest, but inside he will like you more. If you are attracted to him and want to date him pulling away a bit is a good way to accomplish this. People usually badly want what they can't easily have - it's a fact of life! Maybe bring a board game (is that cheesy?) or come with some CD's to listen to together. If he has a computer, come prepared with some things to look at together online. Maybe bring a DVD you like. Maybe plan to hang out in the house just for a little while, and then go to get something to eat or go to another friends house together, or go to a movie or the mall. Good luck and have fun!
199070
Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
590344
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
662273
I'm gonna guess you're around 14 or 15.  At that age girls are trying to figure out who they are, if they can't figure it out or are frustrated with what they see they will immitate someone they like.  My cousin did the EXACT same thing with me (this was about 8 years ago, but I still remember how aggravating it was)  The only advice I can give you is to wait it out.  She'll eventual find herself, and quit trying to act like you.  If she doesn't start to change then just tell her she's annoying you.  If that still doesn't help just tell her to bug off and you don't want to hang out with someone that can't figure out their own identity..  Good luck.
379100
You're both adults, so act accordingly! and if you do not intend to act on your "crush", then keep it to yourself!!!