how can i ever get a girlfriend when i'm so shy to talk to a girl?
132993
build up your conferdence, and play it out . just practice how you want to start a conversation. she may be shy too.
71562
Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
431034
first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
385662
okay, you need  to stop worrying about whether this girl is a potential girlfriend when you talk to her. Rather, whenever you are going to talk to her, try to think of having a potential firned, rather than a potential girlfriend. This should help with the nerves issue. As for things to say, people love to talk about themselves, so ask her about her interests and hobbies, and pay attention to what she says, so that you can enquire about that thing in a later conversation (this proves to her that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say). For example, if you ask her about her hobbies and she tells you she likes movies, then the next time you see her then you could say, "hey, have you seen (insert movie title)?" and if she has by some small miracle seen that movie, you've now got at least five minutes of conversation right there. Good Luck, try to be confident and remind yourself that you rock!!! :)
65193
start things off as friends... but flirt a little. just act cool, and if you need to, act shy so they'll talk to you. or be outgoing and happy! just be yourself... then ask one of them out. if that doesn't work, DON'T immediately ask the next girl you're interested in! if none of that works, just show them your avitar (it's cute lol)
233989
i like all girls. You can be shy, but that shouldn't stop you from showing your interest to a guy. You don't really need to talk...just flash a smile. most of the time thats all you need to do.
419911
i think shy guys r cute, but at the same time a girl wont ask a guy, so u have to have the balls to go up to her and atleast say hi, cuz a cute smile here and there will have her playing with her hair and thats a sign that she likes u, just be normal dont act like someone else and just talk about anything and then ull start to have a conversation and things will lead to another and good luck from there
147777
Tell here straight away that you are shy, but you've seen here around. That you don't want to try any lame lines on her but you would like to get to know her. Just be sincere don't worry about being rejected, you haven't gotten to that point yet and if she is the type of person that wont give another the time to get to know her then is she even worth the trouble?
400959
I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
76214
Okay, this is not easy. But the good things in life never are. Here it goes. Walk thru the fear. Start small. With girls you are more comfortable with...say Hi...and see what happens. When that is easier. Say Hi to someone you want to ask out. \nSomething else you can do is get hands on involved at church. There you might meet someone with the same values, and you will also be doing community service. Wouldn't you like someone who enjoyed the same things? A couple at my church met at a soup kitchen feeding the homeless. They are so good together.\nFear of rejection is so common. The only way to get thru it is to walk thru it. Keep breathing and do it.\nYou never know, the right person may just start a conversation with you and it will be totally great from there.
520168
wow. you sound like me\nexcept im a 15 year old girl and ive NEVER had a boyfriend\ni am shy too and i dont really have a place to meet any guys.\nyou dont have to be strong to get a girl.\nlots of girls, and i am speaking from personal experience, think the skinny shy boys are the cutest ones. go for it, just find a girl you think is pretty and just try to be friends with her. if it helps, approach her with a friend with you, so its less pressure\nim sure theres got to be girls at your school who would love for you to ask them out. the worst they can say is no. then you just find someone else\n\nGOOD LUCK!\np.s. the guys that are saying be a jerk are totally wrong. theres no better way to turn a girl OFF than to do that
435578
dude calm down. do you even know anything about this girl other than her looks? \nwhat does she like? movies, food, music, hobbies....similarities, differences.\nstrike up a good conversation. no, first get the guts to talk to her. say hi. complement her on something. \nshyness may be flattering, but i think its better when a guy gets the courage to talk to a girl. just make sure you not so full of yourself when you talk. make her the topic of the conversation. put yourself in it once in awhile. NEVER MAKE IT ALL ABOUT YOU. you are the one who came up to her. it's up to her if she's yours or not. just prepare yourself for any bad news that may come your way and enjoy the good stuff.
256949
From the sound of it you already know, what is the first thing you say to your friends?   HELLO  that would be a good start, and if the girl you are talking to is not just a stuck-up you know what, the conversation will flow, if you are at a movie for example why not talk about the best thing that was in the movie, there are a lot of ways you could talk to females if you are not just shy or scared of girls, If there is a certain girl that you really like try to find out what type of things she like and try to be in the places that she be in, that might help some in your quest.
372014
Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
38502
The only thing wrong is that you are very shy and have not found a way to work around the problem. My advice would be to use your hobbies and interests to help you find someone that has things in common with you. Join groups or teams or go places that have to do with your hobbies and interests. The people that you will find in the groups or on the teams will have the same thing in common with you and it will give you something to talk about. Once you have broken the ice it will be easier to continue the conversation. I strongly believe that you don't "Find" love, that it will find you, but it never hurts to put yourself in a place where it will have a chance to find you. By joining groups or going to places that you have an interest in, you are automatically placing yourself with people that have the same interests as yourself and giving you something to open a conversation with that you will feel confident talking about, which will help with your shyness. Good Luck!! =-)
71366
stop being shy dude\ni was and i neva got a girl\nbut if i were u give it a shot
339423
be yourself, be friendly, know that things won't always be this way.  You will find someone who will accept you for who and what you are.  Try to have a girl as a friend and then maybe she will become a girlfriend.