I had a boyfriend but I used to cling on with gals.
131044
Being a lesbian is about being sexually attracted to women, not just hanging around them.
655247
I don't see anything wrong with that.  Does your current girlfriend have a problem with it?  If she does,  surely she knew prior to becoming your girlfriend that you mainly had female friends.  I am a female who has very little female friends.  I don't get along with women very well.  I get along better with males.  I make sure that anyone I get involved with understands that my friends were in my life long before my boyfriends.
20822
I used to be like that and all of my friends tried to help me but it was something that I had to learn on my own.  I went through a hard break-up and then I didn't even think about guys for around 6 months.  Now I have a new man and I'm happy but I realize that I could make it on my own and be happy w/out a man.  My situation may be different that your friend's though.
221238
I should hope you are very secure in your relationship, and if so then his hangin with them is not the issue.  If you have some concern for him hooking back up with her (which would be stupid) then you should let him go.  He was smart enough to leave her, can't imagine that he would find anything she does attractive.  You are the better woman and if he does not know how you feel (since you said you don't want to stop him?) then how can things change? The ball is in your court.  Good Luck!!
604505
Oh my goodness! I was JUST like you with the Touchy Feely. I wasn't that at all when I started to date my boyfriend because I've never been used to that emotional display. I was so used to hangin' out w/the boyz that it just rubbed off on me. I'm used to it now because it's just his way of showing me how he feels. But don't let him get too "Fresh"
405238
you are too immature to have a steady girlfriend. You should break up with yours and then just date different ones til you know what you want.
596576
This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
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When I first started dating, girls didn't stick to just one guy. They went out with lots of different ones. "Going steady" with just one boyfriend was for when you really fell in love and wanted to spend all your free time with the boy you were crazy about. As long as you don't feel like that about either of them, you should spend time with both if you want to. You have lots of time to decide who you want to be with and you probably haven't even met him yet!
248629
Search yourself and ask why they left, is it you? If so change the behavior and look for different kinds of girls instead of the same old stuff.
324708
Dang! from the stuff you wrote it sounds like you were a good boyfriend and even better a good friend... She's just an ingrate, you just have to move on and I promise you, you'll find someone who would consider herself to be lucky to be with you. Good luck wish you well and don't change you did nothing wrong.
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At a bar. We would go to the same club regularly and he was friends with a friend of a friend. We would hang out the bar almsot every weekend for about 6 months. It wasn't planned though. We just liked the same scene. He was dating other girls at the time, but had his eye on me and I was interested in something strictly casual, but never tried with him because he was cool and I thought we'd be 'just friends'. \n\nWell, one night he called me because he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to come over and eat mushrooms. I had nothing else to do and thought he was cool, so I let him come over and we had a good time. Nothing happened that night, but about a week later I got extrodinarly wasted and we hooked up. It started out as a casual thing scratch that as a very casual thing and I had little intentions of it being serious, but we ended up falling in love and I settled down a little bit. \n\nThis was after he moved in because his 'rents kicked him out of their place and he was staying in his car. We were already sleeping together, so I said he could stay at my place for a few days and that few days turned to months and that casual time with a guy who was actually worthy of my friendship unlike my other casual boys turned into a serious relationship. We've been together for almost two years and plan on getting married in 2008. \n\nWhat makes us stay together? Well, our geniune love for eachother and partially our own narcissisms. We love ourselves and I'm his female counterpart and he's the male version of myself. Our similar interests and goals and problem solving techniques help as well as compatible senses of humour.\n\nThe story I tell my parents and family? We met through friends of friends at church.
188328
when your between boyfriends.
151724
Of course you miss him and your thinking about stuff you did together.  It perfectly natural.  Without knowing the nature of the break up and how long ago it was, this is difficult to answer.  If you broke up because of a "clingy" issue - take a step back and give him some space to breath.  \nIf it is for some other reason - e-mail him and just say "I just wanted to tell you I miss you."  Relationship are work - they will take effort on both sides.  If you think you can date someone without ever disagreeing on something your fooling yourself and will be breaking up with a lot of people throughout your life.  You can never go wrong with telling someone how you really feel - especially when you are telling someone something nice like you love them and care for them.\nJust as a disclaimer: If this guy put an aggressive finger on you in any way, STAY AWAY!!!  You deserve better.
615774
i have tyhe same problem but my bf dimped me cos hge thorght i was gonna dump him then he asked me out agin and i still love him but her got a gf that is 5 yeasrs older then him...
221033
Being friends w/ someone you really cared about is very hard for guys , I dunno about females. Im talking loved, im not talking a one night stand fling... If these guys are people that were really special at one time , you just have to understand where they are coming from and they need to respect you as well w/ your choices.. Now if they were flings.. lol then you have a real problem
168311
I have many dude friends, I also have a boyfriend. If I didnt hang out with my guy friends then I probly wouldnt have a BF. But i also have had past bf when I didnt have guy friends, but having them does help.
91604
I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.