I have small love handles yet i hate the i carnt where skinny jeans, but my partner loves them what should i do any tips?
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If your partner loves them, then why get rid of them?  It's up to you, though.  If you want to wear 'skinny' jeans, then you'll have to get rid of the handles then.... the old fashioned way.  Eat a healthy diet, workout and get plenty of cardio.  Cardio burns the fat.  Drink lots of water while dieting to remove the body of toxins while burning fat.\n\nOh, and BTW, you can't target one area of the body for fat loss.  When you lose fat, you lose it all over.
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Live outside of the ass huggin jeans for a day or 2 and you'll be fine..Let it breath hun :) And a pair of cotton undies instead of the string from the tbacks will help too
49444
don't be embarassed?? why are you emarrassed??? You should be PROUD of your big package!Do people stare at you like you're a freak of nature or something? If they do the only thing i can suggest is dark denim in relaxed fit.
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First of all, if you are feeling ashamed because your bf wants you to be skinny, then you need a new botfriend.Seriously.No man should make you feel that way and he should love you for you, not just your body.IF you think you may be pregnant, take a test.then you will know.IF you are, then you NEED to be eating and you HAVE to gain some weight to carry the child safely and for it to be healthy.Then he will just have to deal with it and if he dosent....kick him to the curb.
168948
I don't like skinny lanky men too much, I tend to date taller bigger guys.  Just personal preference is all.\n\nAnd no they don't intimidate me, hahaha!
615087
Some of the best sex I ever had was with a woman shaped just like you.    OOoooooo oooooowee  eeeee it hurts just to think about it.   But I also like curves lots as well.   Point is, you have your own natural shape - "do not try to be anything but what you are, and be that perfectly".   It's not what you've got, it's how you carry it.
89787
have you tried mens jeans?  i know the butt is smaller in them...
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if you really feel like you need to lose weight for his FRIENDS, go ahead. dressing differently will make you cooler, but you will not be yourself anymore. but do whatever floats your boat. if you want my opinion, dont change anything. you sound like a really sweet girl and if he is stupid enough not to see you for you, then the best thing might be to move on and just forget about him. i know its cliche, and you didnt want to hear it, but you might have to. ask him what is wrong and if he is a true friend, he will tell you. and if he really does love you, then he will come back to you, unless he is a complete moron who only goes for the sluts. try ignoring him for a while, and see how he reacts to you. \n\n\ngood luck!!
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Im a 34DD, naturally, would you like a D?   LOL They are a huge pain in the A s s, and overrated, however, my hubby likes "the girls"
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why don't you try to compromise with her? there are tighter "relaxed fit" pants out there, not every brand makes their relaxed fit as baggy as the next. just go to mall, try a couple different stores and see what you think. but i totally agree about not wanting to wear tight pants, that is just unattractive...i love a guy that has that relaxed fit look
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Listen, from a girl who was in the smae position, skinny is bad! trust me on this! Your friends have probably starved themselves for there seriuosly unnatural figure.\nyou say you try even more than they do. mmmmm..... hoe do you know that they dont try at home behind your back?\n\ntell me would you prefer this daily diet:\n\nbreakfast: cereal.\n\nlunch: a nice butty, nice amount of butter. Packet of crisps.\n\nsnack:  Biscuits\n\ntea: nice lasangne.\n\n                           or.\nBreakfast: Yougart drink\n\nLunch:  drie slad\n\nsnacK: cardboard cereal bar.\n\ntea:  salad>?\n\n\nmmmmm.......\n\nDont copy your friends. You are different. You are perfect! And one thing that is for certain, your probably not even over weight, you just have a more natural figure than your other EAT HEALTHY BORES of m8s.\n\nok i cant help but state the fact that you may want to be careful of what you eat, but dont change the way you are, thats what make you you and thats the best thing there could be. yeah?\n\nGO FOR IT! follow what your stomach says and not you eyes. TRust me, youll be just fine
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Before you can address the issue with your boyfriend, you need to address your issues with your body image.  Instead of picking yourself apart, build yourself up.  If you feel you're "chubby", try losing weight if that will make you feel better about your body image.  If you feel you're "plain looking", try a little makeup or a new hair color to see what works for you.  \n\nIt's a cliche, but true beauty really does come from within.  If you don't love yourself, how can anyone love you?  Guys get bored with girls who trash themselves.  It's like saying to them everyday, "Why are you with an ugly girl with me when you could be with someone prettier?".  Basically, you're second-guessing his high opinion of you.  It's may be a matter of time before he starts to agree with your poor body image and moves elsewhere.  \n\nJust because you value meaningful things like art over binge drinking and freak dancing doesn't make you less of a person, or unattractive.  Intellectual pursuits are much sexier to the right kind of guy.\n\nAs for the jealousy thing, you either trust your boyfriend or you don't.  If you think he's actually going to make a move on these other girls, maybe you should reconsider dating him.  If he is geuinely uninterested in these other girls and your insecurities are driving this persistant jealousy, try and find your own sex appeal and work on building yourself up!\n\nDon't waste another minute hating yourself.  Life is too short, and one day you'll realize you had nothing to hate about yourself to begin with.
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They don't seem to have actually asked you to wear figure hugging clothes. Try wearing loose-fitting jeans and see what happens.
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Lets see try crunches as well as six inches you lay flat on your back lift yer feet six inches off the floor and hold it until u cant then let them drop and repeat also try touching yer toes and holding your arms straight out to your side and twisting this will work the muscles of yer sides and also try alternating touching your calf on each side from same start position as the twist kinda like a side crunche works good for those love handles .
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For sure.  I am a 'big lady' and have found a very caring partner.  We have been together for 3 years and he loves my curves.  I think it's better to find someone when you are a bigger lady because you know you are with someone who is not shallow.  You are definitely loved for who you are.  When I met my partner it was totally unexpected.  There are plenty of men out there who prefer women with some meat on them.  Just be patience and he will find you.
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My only suggestion is running or walking. General exercise should slim you down. But a lot of men are known to like more curvy women.
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I think your weight is perfect. \n\nYour husband is not fighting fair.  Explain to him that's not acceptable.  Illustrate this by yelling "small penis!" if he does not listen and does it again.\n\nEdited to add that I am glad my husband (and 1st husband) love my curves- of course there are men out there that do!