My boyfriend's ex girlfriend is insane. She calls at all random times and tries to go to his work, friend's houses, you name it. How can I get rid of her? He's already told her to go away but he doesn't want to get the cops involved.
130149
This has nothing to do with you even though you are the new girlfriend but this was part of his life before you this is something he has to take of, he can use you as a defense ans say look i have a new woman now, i've moved on but this is something that you should stay out of it will only make things worse if you get involed. if you dont beleive me you will see by expeirance, and then you'll be like man that Mrs. Rucker lady on answers was right.
185707
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
532385
Don't bother. It's not your problem. You need to get rid of your boyfriend. If he is going to take a crack heads side over yours it's not worth it. Get them out of your life and let them deal. Cut your losses and move on. If you're bipolar you have your own issues to worry about rather than crackheads and crappy boyfriends. Call CPS, they will investigate and take her kids away (hopefully). Then tell them to f*** off and move the f*** on.
100402
No. You need to let your girl handle it. Tell her you support her and that she is more than welcome to ask your help if she feels she needs it. My question to you though is what is your girl telling her ex? Is she making it known that she is seeing someone else and is happy in that relationship? Let your girl know that you have no problem stepping in to take care of the situation if her ex won't listen to her.
386813
Ex-husband or boyfriend? If he has no legal claim over the house call the cops. If he does then leaving with your kids sounds like the only reasonable option.
516379
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
118338
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
72374
I had the same problem with my ex.  You should block her number and emails.  If she cant get to you that way though she will probably have to come to you. Getting a restraining order is you best bet to get rid of her. If you have that on file then if she comes near you she will be in trouble and if she gets hurt it will not come down on you.  If you get the restraining  order nothing will happen to her unless she violates the order. Please get the restraining order that is how I stoped it.
468197
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
429866
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
37324
As long as you still have the marks, make a police report! This man (for lack of a better word) is trying to control you, and sounds like he has succeeded up to this point! Don't be afraid of him, because you can be protected!! You don't have to put up with abuse from anyone! If he's into crack and has another woman, you should just hold your head high, and walk away from a bad situation. It'll only get worse if you let it! When you make your police report, you can also request a restraining order. In my town, you'd be directed to contact Victims Assistance, and they will have the restraining order for you as quickly as tomorrow! Don't let him get away with anything! He needs to be locked up! Good luck to you! :)
124816
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
229660
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
513123
Ouch, maybe you need to change your phone number! Definitely stop answering her calls and avoid ANY contact. Don't give her a chance to curse you out. If she does anything crazy then maybe you need to threaten to get the cops involved.
573323
From experience.. she should call the cops, go to court and get a restraining(protective) order and in many cases relocate and do not for any reason call or contact this person. Guys like this mess with the victims head and make them feel guilty for things that they shouldn't.Guys that abuse make the victim scared, depressed, and feel terrible about themselves.It is hard to get away and the person needs much ,much support. It is very complicated but she needs to do the above then talk to a councilor at a domestic violence org.
144503
MAKE him stay away from her or leave his A.s.s! don't waist your time on this bullshit! he should respect you enough and not want to be around her!
634331
Tell her to go to hell. Tell her it's yours now and if she makes any more noise you will dump it so no one can find it or have it. She can't do a thing to you. Can she go to the police? I don't think so.