BTW .. i am handsome( as i was told) very well dressed .. smart funny and charming  .. and i am not shy i go up to a girl and talk to her and all ... and hav confidence .. But yet nothing its beet a year now with no girlfriend ..??? why is that ...
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women unconcisly look for happiness in an man.I went four years found one was happy and then lots of women started hitting on me because i was happy.Have that shine of happiness in your eyes.
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So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
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Hi emma you seem a nice girl and should not be in this situation \nanyway i am an a guy of 26 and have only one girlfriend ever\nIt is depressing when every one has somebody and you don't,\nI have tried to ask a girl out who i really like working in the shop they just say no and laugh so it does not work, but you want to ask a boy out just do, if they laugh they laugh but it is there lose. \ngood luck
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Hmmm...Well I think you're cute. Probably one good looking hottie, as a matter of fact. Here's my email address if you wanna talk. supra_324_nova@yahoo.com Oh, I am about the same age as you.\nThanks for your advice before.
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Welcome to the club...same here...i am intelligent/smart/beautiful\n\n(people say so)sweet personailty and guys look at me but no one asks me.:(\n\ni am going to die single...which is ok..i dont mind..lol\ni am independent/alot friends/who needs a boyfriend anyways.right?
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a lot of people out there are single. just always think positive and remember that there is one special girl out there who is probably looking for someone like you!! keep looking and good luck!! ♥
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You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.
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Hmm.. i'm good looking, smart and well mannered as well. Trust have always been a problem for me, since my gf broke up with me for another guy (LD) and then my next gf slept with one of my best friend. \n\ni'm now focusing on my career and promised my self not to force myself in to a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.. \n\nI sometimes feels lonely but then again, it's more sexual than emotional.. i don't think anything is missing since i try to write what is my goals and match it with my current situations. \n\nTry to identify, where are you now and where do you want to be. sometimes putting something in writting is good since it helps you see clear of things you didn' know exist. I hope this helps, but if it doesnt Dog's do help...
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We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
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umm people tell me im good looking...?\nand im 14.....\nim not sure what you want to get out of this besides a gf, how will this help?\njust wondering :)
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THERE ARE SEVERAL POSSIBILITIES.  READ ON:\n\nfor starters, to find out your looks, there are many many "hot or not" websites, BUT www.bangme.net is a site that works REALLY WELL.  Go there and create a profile and then click on "online now," and vote for a bunch of girls, then wait a few hours and then check your score.  Until your number of votes gets over 100, it wont really be accurate.\n\nI AM 5'8" 150lbs JUST LIKE YOU, and I used to be VERY SINGLE and girls didnt really like me or talk to me AT ALL.  WHAT CHANGED???  I started working at a job where the majority of coworkers were college-aged girls (I'm in college) and SO THEY HAD TO TALK TO ME, and this allowed me to see what aspects of my social skills didnt work and what does work.  Within a year, I became A VERY social person, and now at school, I can pretty much walk up to any girl and just start up an conversation and they talk to me.  (that doesnt mean they're head over heals about me, but even for hot guys, not every girl likes them - it's really a matter of talking to 50 girls, and a certain percentage of them will like you)  HONESTLY, THE MORE EXPERIENCE YOU GET, THE LESS SHY AND MORE "INTERESTING' YOU WILL BE TO THE GIRLS - \n\nTHE KEY TO SUCCESS - SMILE A LOT, BE FUN AND FUNNY, JOKE A LOT, AND BE CONFIDENT AND OUTGOING - for most girls, before they decide to date you, your personality is what brings them in - you need to be an awesome friend first, then hangout with them - try to talk with and hangout with as many girls as you can  ... after you do that, then being able to ask a girl out will be second nature.  ABOVE ALL, YOU MUST SMILE AND BE FUN AND FUNNY!!!\nAnd going to the gym and lifting weights and getting a decent sun tan doesnt hurt, and SINCE GIRLS ARE INTO FASHION, YOU DONT HAVE TO BE THE COOLEST DRESSER IN THE ROOM, BUT YOU DO NEED TO DRESS COOL AND MAINTAIN YOUR HYGIENE.  make sure you keep your finger nails clipped, hair cut neat, clothes washed, wear a LITTLE cologne, and carry ice breakers breathe mints in your car, and pop one into your mouth every time you get out of your car.\n\n------------------------------\nalso, i traded my glasses in for acuvue contact lenses.  after i had been wearing them for one week, i forgot i was even wearing contacts - they're great and a HUGE HUGE HUGE confidence booster!!!!\nalso, if you slouch at all, STAND UP STRAIGHT!!!! (believe it or not, standing up straight makes a HUGE difference in how people perceive your confidence level)
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Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
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Hey i'm 26, and dont have a g/f, but then no one advances towards me, and if they did as long as I find them attractive, I would make a move.  He does have an AA, so he did something.  He is just alittle lazy, but he can find a job with an AA degree.
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hey.don't worry sweetheart.b u'r self n get confidence u r not goin 2 b alone always...n do u know something nobody can b u right.u r who u r..u r u'r self.noone knows u from inside n when one does he'll come 4 u.....n u'r also not bad..just b with a little patience.u must b happy 4 the way u r..cos if anybody try 2 b u they can't...sweety.u really don't have 2 worry at all.ok.u r a lovely girl.
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Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!