since the last abortion 2yrs ago i have been trying for a baby to no avail,tell me any drug or advice that will help me
137960
if your abortions were done in a hospital, you had quality care, so i wouldnt worry.just try to concieve and if you dont then go see a doctor
585079
I will tell you the same thing I told the last girl.  I am sorry you find yourself in this position.  I wish I could get pregnant so easily.  Please give your baby a chance.  There are many people out there that would love and care for your baby if you cannot.  I would personally love to help out someone like you.
150620
call your doctor to see if he/she can prescribe you something for the pain, if not than i think you should call or go to the emergency room if the pain get's to bad also there is some spray at the drug store you can ask the pharmacist about and it works wonders!instant relief, i used it after i had my babies.
535913
Maybe you could find a surrogate to have the baby, using your eggs and his sperm.  Good Luck!
61120
declare bankruptsy, if you need it for medical try soliciting your story to churches and support groups.\n\ndont risk yourself. some people even sell kidney
232843
I can REALLY symphatize with your situation. I am currently going through a divorce and so I do understand your dilema. You have to think long term. The worse that can happen is in court it comes out that you cheated. In which case you can argue that the child was concieved during the separation period and had no bearings on the marriage itself. Plus unless you start showing immedately you should be fine. No court in the world can order you to take a pregnacy test even if you look a little big. You also have to think what it could mean moraaly and spiritually. You and God know your heart and spirit. If it will detract and take away from your spirit you cannot do it. Give this child a chance. You have made mistakes, but this child could be a test from somone or something higher to see if you are morally ready to make a positive change in your life. I hope and pray that you get the support you need. At the end of the day when all is said and done, would you want this on your conscience. Make this a fresh start for you and the sake of that lil one. Good Luck
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Get to your OB Dr and tell them about these problems.  You sound like your hormones are out of balance.  They can give you something that will help in as little as 2 days.  Depression during pregnancy is all too common and yet goes untreated because we just don't know there is help available.  \n\nLet your Dr take care of this and have a happy pregnancy and future.
563287
you are stuck in a really seriose situation, what ever you do make sure you dont do abortion, because then you would just kill your own baby!!!!my advise is to tell your boyfriend the trueth, he is not going to like it but the sooner you tell him the easier it will be, if you wait you are going deeper into the forest and chooping down more wood. that means that you are making more problems for yourself.
672506
No one can make you have an abortion. You have to decide if you're truly ready to be a mother and then be willing to accept the responsibilities that will come with that role. If your parents however are not willing to support you and force you to choose between living at home and having and abortion or keeping the baby and not living under their roof then that's another set of problems you will have to deal with. There are shelters and women's groups that will help and support you but you have to consider also the affect that would have on your relationship with your parents.\nIf you need more support and suggestions then feel free to contact me whenever you like.\n\nBest Wishes
331488
Please get your life on track first! Go back to school get a job and prove you can take care of yourself and stay out of trouble.  !6 and in jail and more or less divorcing your mom poooooor kid I hope you find your place in life no mom should ever do this to a kid no matter what a kid does! You cant chose when you want to be a mom it a full time job from the minute they are born if not before because they do have to take care of the baby while they are carry them! But what I was saying you can't decide from day to day if you will be a mom today or not! I hope and pray you get your life together and grow up some more before you jump into this with your girl Friend! And gooooood luck in the courts and in your life May God be watching over you and protecting you!
34171
I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING THAT REALLY HELPED FOR THAT CRAP BUT I HAVEN'T FOUND ANTYTHING. IF YOU FIND SOMETHING E-MAIL ME
196987
Don't worry about what answerman had to say.  I think you feeling so adamant about "pro-choice" is admirable and I respect that.   Have you checked with any close by "abortion clinics" if there are any?  If not, search the interent for "pro-choice" abortions.  I'm sure there is someone out theree that can help you.  Good luck to you and God Bless!  By the way, I'm definitely Pro-choice" cause I've been there and done that!  Hope you find what you need.
119413
I had an abortion when I was 28 and it was the worst decision I've ever made.  I didn't regret it until it was over and then I had severe depression and problems in my future relationships because I couldn't forgive myself.   I'd encourage your friend to talk to her parents.   Believe it or not, there are other options out there.   Tell her to have faith - and good luck.
391189
This will affect your love life. You do not get wet because you are still not over the abortion. Although you feel fine, like sex etc., mentally you are not healed. The best way to "cure" this problem is to sit down with a professional and discuss your feelings concerning the abortion when it occured as well as how you feel about it now. Eventually you will be able to have a regular sex life but for the time being don't be so concerned with sex, instead focus on your mental wellbeing.
234960
You are breaking my heart.  I don't know whether to believe you or not.  If you are being honest, then you have some real issue to deal with.  The main issue is your pregnancy.  The minute you became pregnant, it stopped being about you.  Go to an adult, figure out what you are going to do, and do it.  You no longer have the luxury of being young and stupid.
192030
How far along are you?\n\nGive your baby up for adoption, please.  Go to an adoption agency and start the process now and the person who gets the baby will pay your medical costs.  \n\nPlease dont try to give yourself a misscarriage, you can fail and make the baby very ill, and yourself maybe too.  \n\nAfter you have this baby go on the depo-provera shots and make sure your partner is using condoms also.
63010
i think that you have just gotten used to him. why put yourself through all of this pain. i know how you feel. i dated a guy for about 5 years and i finally had to end it and it took me a very long time (years) to get almost over him, i still have dreams about him. but you are in an abusive realtionship (emotioanlly) you need to get out before it gets any worse. and i beleive that it has to be torture for him too. it might not be love it just might be that you are in your comfort zone. get out while you're still young. i don't condone abortion but i think that you not having the baby was a very wise decision for you two, i just wanted to let you know that. good luck and be strong... for yourself