just curious, why do all women, when out in public, always  say, to the other women in the group, anybody else gotta go? and then there is a parade to the john! why? us guys would be looked at as gay and q---r if we said , hey john! i gotta go pee! ya wanna go with me?
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Mostly so we can laugh with each other about what idiots the guys we're with are.  That's also the reason there's always a couch in the ladies room.
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I really like your poem. It says alot about how women & young ladies are treated these days. Ladies, we are not like Burger King when it comes to men..it is either their way or no way. Be honest..How many men out there can say its' not my way honey its yours??? Most look outside of the box but they need to step back and try to figure out what the inside is all about.
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I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
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I feel comfortable on my own in public places and have no problem with going alone, although going with someone else can be fun too. I do however sometimes get tired of the looks I get from people when sitting alone in a restaurant or the cinema. I wonder if people who feel this strong need to always go with someone to such places think that everyone else is like that. They seem to think I have no friends since I didn't drag anyone along with me.
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b/c of my job (well used to be job) i was called to search females all the time. these women called me lesbo left and right. it hurt that my sexuality was being questioned (especially when i first started doing the job and was so young)  b/c this drunk broad could not control herself and ended up in trouble. but what made it all TOO MUCH TO HANDLE at times was how the males (my fellow "work associates") would just stand there and watch. drooling. one actually popped off how well i searched one girl b/c i pulled off a knife from b/t her boobs. so, i get what you are saying...totally!
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I push religion in peoples  faces because I got in trouble for pushing my breasts in their faces. \n\nTo the people above me who said something about posting this question in the religion and spirituality section of yahoo answers. Where in the hell else would you post this? \n\nI think most people try to push their religion on others because if they are wrong they don't want to be the only one. Really let's face it. People aren't noramally inclined to share things that are really that good.
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Yes. The first year I went to the local Pride Parade with friends one of the GLBTIQAF (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered, Intersexed, Queer & Questioning, Allies of, and Friends of) groups for youth came over to my friends and I and asked us if we wanted to march. We agreed and got to march in the parade. Several of my straight friends have marched in it in other years either with this organization or with another organization. In fact, many of the organizations that march in the parade mostly have straight people marching (because their gay counterparts are often along the parade route watching and enjoying the parade). I've known straight people who may only know perhaps one or two gay people and will go and march at Pride while their gay friends watch and cheer them on.\n\nSo it's not unusual...in fact it's quite common. Usually it is actually more difficult to find gay people here who want to march in the parade. It's usually incredibly hot here and the parade route is sort of long (it starts on Classen and 32nd goes up to 41st, then turns around and goes back towards 39th then across 39th over to Penn and ends at the first corner after Penn usually. Altogether I think you march about 2.5/3 miles) and most gay people actually enjoy just watching the parade and getting some of the freebies some of the floats and marchers have with them and cheering others who have dared to march. \n\nWith a group I organize we are considering marching in the Pride parade this year. There are only two of us who are gay and one who is bisexual, the remaining 5 are all straight but supportive of GLBTIQ people (they're the A&F in that long list of letters).
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because you have probably never asked. Most of us would love the attention, just walk up to the girl of your choice and say: "Would you like to go out with me to _______"
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uh, why do either of you need your own friends of the opposite sex? Any friends me and Hubby have, are both our friends, (usually other cpls) but we never have over friends of the opposite sex that we are both not friends with. He is 'friends' with everyone @ his work, (male and female) but never hangs with them other than at lunch, or the 1-2 times a yr their is a work party, or Christmas party, both of which I go to with him. One chick tried to get some alone time with him, but he told her no. (this was a few yrs back) I know what she was trying to do and it made me mad as heck, but he thinks she meant nothing by it. Wrong! Guys are very naive sometimes. Sounds to me like she's trying to wedge herself in there. I wouldn't suggest you getting a 'friend' too, I would suggest counciling to figure out why either of you feels the need for seperate friends. I can totally relate though, cause men always assume if you talk about another guy, (like oh so and so did this) or whatever, even when it's nothing, just you mentioning another guy's name, even in telling a story, makes them think you want the guy. But yet they can't see that when a woman hangs on to their every word (like she appears to be) or tries to spend time with a married man, that she is up to no good. A good councelor may be able to help him see that. Make sure you go to one that believes in manogomy though, because I know there are some strange councelors out there that swing and all that though, (saw one on Montel) so be careful where you go. I would definitely put an end to it, though.now.
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I have NEVER understood this one myself Tom. It is rather puzzling. ESPECIALLY the lesbians who swear they HATE men. Then why they bed masculine , manly butch type women?! I think its because at heart, this butch is still a woman. WHether she wears mens clothes, shortens her name to a more gender neutral one or even wears a strap FULL TIME. This WOMAN still has the sensitivity of a woman, the mentality indicative of femininity and still goes through the "womanly" (monthly) things that all Feminine women do.\n\nthey accept them for who they are in their outward apperance because of who they are on the inside! we should all be so lucky as to adapt this way of thinking, huh?\n\nRemember, when we are in our comfort zones, where ever and with WHOM ever that may be, we are our most vulnerable selves. Regardless of the many masks we must wear outside, day 2 day!
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i go a lot by myself.i don't too often have anyone to go with me.i don't really care what people think....why,yopu wanna go to the movie with me?
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To me it sounds like your friend is jealous.  I don't see anything wrong with running in the proper attire, I'm pretty sure that the guys would not be offended.  Guys don't hate it, overweight chicks with low self-esteem might though.
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Why is it ewwwww. You people need to try things before you say ewwwwwwww. I'm married. Even before I was married I have been with women. It spices things up. Its far from ewww..
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Women are amazing creatures who jump through amazing hoops for the most ridiculous of men. I've done it myself. I'm not sure why. Maybe it's fear of being alone.
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Hello Karen, some men are going to do what ever it takes and you happened across one of these guys. I go out with my hubby in micro minis on our date nights. I am with him and don't care what anyone else may see or say. I don't pay attention. In your case you were asking for help and I'm sorry that you ran across someone who did that to you. Just laugh it off and hope he enjoyed his little peek at you. Life is too short to worry about a pervert peeking at you.
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the con census among the ladies here seems to be one of division. some want the guys to act like cave men (so they can secretly complain about it right?) and the other half want us to show our emotions (so they can secretly complain about it right?)\nmaybe all of us fellas should take you gals on the same emotional rollercoaster you take us on and, give you equal doses of both....randomly, so as to upset and confuse you so you'd know what it's like to live with you. HAH!!!
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I have no idea what the answer to this is, but have noticed the same myself.  Had a lesbian aquaintance who was always making fun of gay men, and a lesbian woman that I worked with hated gay men.  Did not understand it.