How do I win my ex back from this tramp?
128741
You need to know some things before you try to get him back.\n\n1. why did he leave?  Did he leave because you don't put out and this tramp does?  If that is the case, I agree with the rest, don't bother.  If he left because of a fight/misunderstanding then i think you might want to try.  People have fights and then will do almost anything to win, so things might have been said, that neither of you meant.\n\n2. Why is he with her.  Is she like you, apart from the trampyness?  Is she the opposite of you?  Depending on your sex life with him, he may just be on a bootycall.  Doesn't make it right.  But if she is just like you, he might want you back.\n\n3. Why do you want him back?  how old are you? how long have you been dating?  What have you done together (meaning go to college, school, other?)  Maybe he was just serving his purpose for those times but wont work with these times.  We are all human and we have all done that.\n\nSo if you want him back, how bad?\nif you need him back you got to tell him and sex him up.  (If that is the only way, i say leave him)\n\nIf you love him, but still lead a life of your own, then tell him you need him and tell him you are sorry for what happened.\n\nfinally, if you are stil pissed at him and don't care if he comes back or not (but would like him back) then just say hey we need to talk and make sure he knows everything about how you feel and ask him why he did it.
266807
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
85888
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
302283
You need to think about why the relationship ended in the first place. Somebody was obviously unhappy. If you truly believe things have changed then all you can do is let her know that, tell her the door is open and let her make her own decision. If you try to do too much to influence her you will turn into a bunny boiler. Just concentrate on being happy by yourself and making your life as full and enjoyable as you can. Someone will see you for who you arw and fall in love with you, either your ex or someone completely new! Just enjoy it cos we're only here once.
248660
I know this is going to be hard to hear.....LET HER GO!!!\n\nDon't try to plot any ill will against her that will only hold you back...if she has moved on with someone else then you need to take time and heal and move on...\n\nDon't hold a grudge, when you hold a grudge it is like drinking poison and waiting for her to die...you are just going to be killing yourself and driving yourself crazy..\n\nI am sorry that this has happened to, I hope it all works out for the best!
367119
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
286868
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
41258
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
173821
Well,Believe it or Not ! They Say If You Love Somebody Set'em Free! If They Come Back They Are Yours If Not They Never Were !\n\nWell ! Maybe you will get him back if you stop going after him
213861
Get back at him by sleeping with me.\n\nbut first dump his lieing cheating ass.  Fuckin lieing snake...
189966
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
617583
Ditch them both...\n\nWhy would you want him back after this?
255068
Have your mind made up. This is the hardest part. Make sure this is what you want. If you think there is still something left inside of you for this person, chances are you will go back and will repeat these steps over again. \nMake a written list of all the reasons why things will be better if the relationship is over. Think of what will happen if you stay with this person, and how many years of your life you could end up spending on an unhealthy relationship. Keep this list close to you at all times. \nThink ahead. Have a day when you decide it's over and you are going to move on. Don't just jump up and leave on an impulse. If you can, talk to that person and say, "When rent is up this month, I am going to find another place" or "I'm moving in with my parents" or "You need to leave at the end of this month." This gives the person time to make arrangements. And, it's much easier to go back on an impulse then it is to go back on a calmly and clearly stated intention. \nKeep the peace. Don't allow the person to suck you into the same old arguments, guilt trips, or drama. State your intention and walk away. Case closed. There's nothing left to do but follow through. \nOnce on your own, treat yourself. If you don't, you may get bored and call this person. Make some new friends and constantly have something up your sleeve. Do things that you were not able to do because of this person. This will let you know that you have still got it and make you feel good inside. \nCut off all communication. Even if you intend to stay friends, it's a good idea to avoid contact with this person for at least a month after you break up. Otherwise, it's extremely easy for them to slip right back into their old role in your life and start the cycle all over again. \nTry not to think about or bring up old memories. If friends start talking about this person, tell them you don't want to talk about it, whether good or bad. Get rid of gifts, photographs, and any other relics of the relationship--or at least put them way out of sight. \nPrepare for the possibility that your ex may say things to your friends, family or co-workers and make you look bad. He or she may not have been ready to let go like you did. Be the mature one and laugh about it. Eventually it will stop. \nRemember that this was just not the "one." Oh well, things couldn't work out. This is life. Make sure you still have what it takes to be good to the next person you are with. Remember the traits of the person you left and compare them to the person to are interested in. This will help it from happening again.
48936
There is always a chance, at the moment give that person some space, and you need space to to think about what went wrong and see how you can get past this hurdle, then try to win the person back, cont push it though because thne you will be rejected. but you will know if there is a chance..... and if there isnt.... try and move on dont just by stuck on that person\nHope everything works out for the best\n\nXoXo\nme
275054
well talk to her about it. don't ask straight forward because she'll likely lie to you. just ask her casual questions like "hows it been going" and try to figure it out from there. but it really should come down to if you want her back.
212781
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
358824
win him back?  Did you have him at one time?