well i think that, they dont know what they want and want to be cool but that aint cool, thats hurts and they just want to be a player.well somebody please help me because my boyfriend thinks im cheating and im not .HELP ME PLEASE, I NEED A ANSWER!!!
123624
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
593980
It's perfectly OK to play ball with the guys. And no they won't all consider you the "friend type" rather than the "girlfriend type". The ones you play ball with might consider you "one of the guys" for a while, but eventually they will notice the girly girl side of you. (I played football with guys in high school)
85777
Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
350444
The player didnt want to feel he had been played. He is the one the controls the relationship but he finally met a woman that played him and he cant handle it. Now he is saying anything to hurt her so he can feel in control someway. If he is still sleeping with her it couldnt be that bad.
163920
Take him for his word - that he doesn't.  If he is playing games and really does, then that is his problem.  Do you really want a game player?  Also, you can ask him if it would cause any "weirdness" between you and he if you started dating his friend (if that is what you really want - don't do it to make him jealous or anything) and judge his reaction.  4 years is a long time to get over some one...and once it's gone, sometimes you can't get it back.
654309
That sounds like a pretty good answer to me. My suggestion to you is not to let him think that you don't know what head games he is playing with you, that will just make his head even bigger than what it already is. You are smart and let it be known!!
548902
yes. talk to your friends. they should be able to help you. or ask your boyfriend himself what he wants.
50407
Girl, don't tell him you love him.\nHow do you fall in love with a player? \nBaby wake up, HE IS A PLAYER!!!!!!\nHe is telling all the other girls in his life the SAME THING.
304752
What a jerk!!! You really need to stop trying.  Maybe once you stop trying he will wonder and come back...but I guarantee it will only be temporary.  If he were really a friend he would not do that to you.  I am SO sick and tired of players...that's what he is...a player and you don't need him.  I'm sure you have lots of other IM and Myspace friends to chat with...give it a couple weeks and you'll feel better about it...but I know it's hard!!!!  Hang in there and be strong. :)
303701
Maybe you should learn and tell your friends something important: The purpose of basketball is to make baskets and not dribble!\n\nI've never heard of that need to play basketball, it's just silly. If your guys dribble to much then they just suck at playing basketball and you should play elsewhere pal.
602244
Your being a player, and you know this. You should attempt to grow up, and leave the girls alone until you do. People who act like you are, make all men and guys look bad.
102503
Just keep in mind once a player always a player. You gotta tell him how you feel. Just don't set yaself up for a huge disappointment. Trus me I know I set myself up like that before. But after it all I realized the whole time I was one of his MANY females.
591397
Girl, do your thing!  I do it to!  you have to get lovin where you can get it!!! \n\n"Don't hate the player just cause you ain't one hate the game!"
383317
dude as my dad tells me...dun hate the player, hate the game...never commit..its dumb, chicks always tend to dump you in the middle of relationships.
367344
=I wouldn't say that he is a player because that would be saying something negative about your friend. I think he is just out ;;joking and having a good time with his friends. I wouldn't make a move yet as to get rejected and hurt the friendship. He is just a tease at this point. Let him make the first move. Meanwhile enjoy his flirting with you. You never know!
387157
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
256964
The guy doesn't respect you as a player, probably because you're female and that would make him a male chauvinist pig. Another reason might be that he thinks he's the only good player on this team and will hog the ball to shoe how "great" he is. In either case, you should speak to the coach about him. He will probably be a smuck even after the coach speaks to him, so good luck. If it continues and the coach doesn't remedy this you may have to approach the local district sports board.