hello,\n   well, I was walking to class from school when I noticed this blond with permed hair smiling at me as she was walking towards me. We passed each other on that day in february 2000. then on october 11, 2020, I was walking to the campus parking lot when the same blond girl smiles at me and gives a yes nod. I didnt pay attention after the initial glance, but I looked back at her and she turned her head looking back at me waiting for me. I went to my car to get something and when I looked back she wasnt there anymore. I walked all over the campus, but didnt see her.  Do you think she's interested in me? I know its been 4 years already, but I want a relationship with this girl.
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I cant say anything,only this:\nIt happened when a man cant be enough brave! What do u wait for????? U know, some girls,women cant or dont wanna do the 1. step. And i think, its urs, i mean men's way to tell it if they want something from a girl. So let u go shopping, buy a nice card with flows, and a big ,very tasty choch,and go home very fast. When u arrived, go into ur room, and creat a little, not long poem only for her! If u cant , plz search in the net. After u have to write 1-2 sentences abt her beauty, and abt what u like in her. After sign it, and do them into a sweet ,little box, and take a little photo abt u in it,too, dedicated for "the nicest blonde girl in the world", and plz dont forget to write ur phone number or email address in it!. Take this box into ur car, and go for a ride, around the campus,untill u will find her.Or take this box into ur pocket and bring it always with u untill u will see her again!!!! And if she is near u, dont waste any time,go  and tell her some sweet word and give the box to her. After u can go, and i hope she will use ur address or number soon! Best luck! Maybe if u will try it, i'd be very happy if u will send me a mess, how was it....
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Good for you.  Now, go a few days without doing anything like that and see how long before she comes looking for you.\nYou have to give her a chance to do something nice for you too.
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she might think that you are not exactly her type, it doesn't mean that you are ugly. Maybe she saw you and thought I could never can that guy. Another possibility is that she saw you and while she was looking at you you were looking at her so that might have casued her to turn around because she was shy. If you like her make conversation with her, walk up to her. If she is shallow it isn't worth it.
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hmm, I just met someone at my practicum a few weeks ago and the same thing happened. we were polite, but maybe a little over the top and i think there was something extra going on. we shook hands, looked eachother directly in the eyes and chatted for a few minutes and when i had to go back to a different building, we were like "it was nice to meet you, (then he said my name)" and he wished me luck in my practicum blah blah blah. who knows though. if i'm not some kind of psycho i think we were pretty attracted to eachother\n\nso if you feel that way, i think you probably are right. so see how things go.. i'd chat her up a bit and eventually ask her out for tea or something.
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like i said girl is interested!!!! go for it before its too late!
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You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!
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I agree with xovenusxo.\n\nThe girl is trying to let you know she likes you. She's probably been brought up to believe it's wrong and 'cheap' for a girl to approach a guy.\n\nIf you don't want a relationship with her continue to keep your distance. (This depends on how old you both are..I'm assuming you're both young teenagers.)
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ok, can i just start off by saying "awwwwww!!" well, obviously it sounds like you have quite a thing for this girl. according to what you have written, it seems as though she kind of likes you also. her talking about you with her friends is usually a good sign, especially when you add it to the "she looks at me, i look at her, and she looks away" thing. the only thing that i would be slightly hesitant about is the age difference. although, all of my friends(minus 2) are in or have been in relationships with younger guys (about 1 yr younger), so there is a definite possibility that it could work out. i'm no "love" expert myself, i am just hoping that you get some encouragement to pursue this. i hope that everything works out. you deserve it :)
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if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
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Give up on the girl who doesn't notice you.  If she hasn't noticed how cool you are by now, then she is not worthy.  There are lots, and I mean LOTS of women around that are hot, down to earth, smart and funny (like me!).  Besides, it sounds like you don't really know her, so what if she is a totat brat or really prude or has no sense of humor or is stuck up or whatever.  You may have seen her from afar, but do you REALLY know who this girl is?  Do you really want to take a GIANT leap and give up what you have for something that may not be as good as what you have now?  The grass isn't always greener on the other side, pal.\n\nAs far as the long distance thing goes, I would give a try for a while and if something does not happen soon with getting closer together, then ditch the situation.  Like I said, there are lots of women out there.
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Go for what you feel...Don't be stuck with what if, and when you are at college, I bet you will still think of her.  That tends to ruin how you view other girls.  I think you will gain the knowledge of what she feels, and that is powerful knowledge.  Good luck, and never give up!
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Use your friend. Go out with him somewhere when you know she will be there. Or ask him about her, what are her hobbies, where does she like to hang out? Try and see her outside of school, then you can "run into" her and start up a convo. This will make you closer and maybe soon enough the two of you will be more than greeting each other in the halls!\n\nAnd by the way, if she punches you in the hall, it looks like she is flirting with you. So maybe she likes you too! Go for it!
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I know how you feel.  I am going through that right now.  I just graduated college and I never got a chance to tell the guy I liked for 2 years that I liked him.  Our relationship is confusing.  Sometimes it seemed like he liked me other times it seemed like he hated me.  That's why I didn't pursue the relationship.  Like my friend tells me, "If we are meant to be together, we will be together.  God will see to it."
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Wow. A question that actuially fits my situation. Ok, im going to tell you what happened then im going to tell you what you should do. I really liked this girl. I've known her for four years and liked her for two of them. She liked me, then she didn't, she liked me then  she didn't, etc. She basicially led me on some times. I tried to ask her out and she said somthing like "I like you too, just not like you like me, bla bla bla no". It sucked. I was crushed. I tried to forget about her twice and it just ended up me looking like an ass and getting farther away from my goal. I would do anything for this girl, if she was sad id do whatever i could to cheer her up. if she was mad id listen and talk to her about it. if she was feeling down i told her exactly how i felt about her. Then she went out with this guy. Of course I was pissed off. I got in so many verbal fights with him because, by that time, the whole school knew I liked her by the way word gets around. I really don't know why nothing happened, everything was there, she thought I was hot I thought she was beautiful, We got along really well, liked the same music, everything fit. I'd give anything for a second chance at that first time I asked her out. Nothing will happen. I now know that. as much as i dont want to accept that, its true. and i need to.\n\nBut anyways, my story doesn't help you, but it gives you a realization of what can happen.\n\nYou have two options.\n1. Tell him you don't like him like that and expect him to be sad.\n2. If theres any attraction on your part, you can go out with him, if it works out great if it doesn't, oh well. because i bet hed do anything for that one chance.\n\nthe choice is up to you though. of course im going to lean towards the second option but the right choice is probably the first one. good luck.
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Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
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We met in middle school i was in 7th she was in 8th you relation ship is lasting this long because we are commitied to each other we aren't in an opean relationship. The fist time we started seeing each orher she asked me out on a date then after awhile she askd me to be her gf. And i haven't moved into her house yet because we are buy one right now. So yeah that is about it.
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Sounds like she is interested in you but wanted to see how much your future plans mesh with hers.  Why don't you just ask her out, if you are interested.  Sounds like that is what she is hoping for.