YOur friend likes the same person as you do and she told you and you didn't tell her/ denied that you like that guy. YOu also don't want to ruin the friendship. She might get upset because another kiss-up friend is rubbing it in her face that she and that person used to like eachother in grade school.
135058
first tell your friend.\nsecond it depends on how long you have liked the guya nd how long she has liked the guy.\nthird if you've liked him longer tha her andyou think she might ask him out or he will ask her out......ask him out FIRST!!!!!!! lol.\n\ni know from experience. my friend ive known since 1st grade  likes the same guy as me and all of her friends that im not friends with know and they all are pressuring him to ask him out. and im a lot more shy about it and none of my friends do that for me. and ive liked him for like 4 months since january. and she's only liked him for about 1 month!!!!!!! so yeah\n\nso just be careful with what she says and does and be careful with who you tell that you like him. because some people in this world can't keep their mouths shut. \n\nGOOD LUCK!!!
15413
You need to sit your friend down and tell her how much you care about your friendship with her. Then after that tell her that you like him alot and you like to talk on the phone with him personaly. And if she cant understand that then you two need to start haging out with other friends. Tell her how you feel about it. Good Luck.
369492
I don’t know why your friend keeps thinking that you like the guy she likes, but you need not be upset.\n\nIt is better to leave her alone for a short while to avoid further misunderstanding. The truth will be out and from what you are saying it won’t take long.\n\nAnd here is one more suggestion. About this someone else that you mentioned you like. If you got yourself closer to him, your friend should notice it and then believe in you.\n\nGood luck!
146786
No boy is worth messing up a friendship especially if she is your best friend.  Trust me, BEEN THERE- DONE THAT!. I dove in on one of my friend's bf's once and she hated me for 2 years in high school.  Then she finally forgave me.  We hated each other during two proms and a Senior Trip.  It was not worth it.  Instead...why don't you wait and see what happens with them...chances are it won't last long.  School romances rarely do anyway.  Then after they go their separate ways, like probably in a week or two....then try your luck.  Trust me...don't move in on your friends crush.
412847
That's completely dumb on her part.  Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it.  You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that.  Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses.  Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man.  It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues.  That's small stuff, believe me.
80581
We all have these feelings about friends of the same sex as we go through life and whether we act on them or not is different to each individual.If she is willing for you to touch her and talk about these things then it is fine,the only thing is that she is probably keeping it from her boyfriend and that is betrayal.
17548
Well if the guy even likes you just a little then you should be proud cuz then that leaves you with some room to maybe get him to like you even more. as far as ur friends go well i dont kno wat to tell you ive been in the same situation before and decided not to trust anyone but to find out myself. good luck
241668
Sorry, there's no way to do it without hurting their feelings.  Plus, you don't like them enough to continue the friendship, so why are you worried about their feelings?  I mean, I know that sounds harsh, but it's true, isn't it?  This person must have done or said something you don't like or that you found offensive.  Bottom line:  If that person has hurt your feelings in the past, why spare theirs?  Good luck.
641543
i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
80373
me and my best friend liked the same guy once...but when we figured it out, one of us backed off. Actually, my friend liked the same guy I did and he liked her, so I was the one who stepped back. She didnt act on it anyway because she knew it would hurt me. Its doing things like that that makes a friendship last.\nso yes, that has happened to me.
398729
If your best friend knows that you like him, she's not being a good friend is she? When she's not there, flirt with this guy but not too much to the point where it annoys him. Next time you like a guy, don't tell her.
430151
You need to explain to your friend that it is your understanding he might be interested in you.  Although you're flattered, and you love him very much as a friend, you simply don't feel that way about him.  Tell him you wanted to say something because you greatly value his friendship, and didn't want to do anything to mislead him.  Once things blow over with this situation, you should then be able to pursue a relationship with his buddy.  Your friend might be upset for awhile, but if you truly care about him you don't want to eventually hurt him more deeply.
21033
what's worth more to you, your friend, or that boy? but, could you be able to be happy or at least neutral if you know your friend is going out with the guy you like? but, if you tell her that you like him, and then if she thinks your flirting with him, how mad will she get?\nif it was me, it'd just leave him for my friend because to me, my friends come before a possible boyfriend. if i can't be happy seeing them together, i'd just find some way to avoid them when they're together. but, the one thing i wouldn't do is to admit i like him, that'll probably make it harder on her and then i'd feel guilty.\nbut the choice is really up to you, whatever comes first in your heart and can you bear it to see them together? and telling your friend, decide if it's better to tell her or not to depending on how she'll react to it
630721
That sucks! Believe it or not though, another guy will come around, probably someone you hadn't even noticed because you've been too infatuated with this guy. Are you sure he likes her though? It would suck for her too though if she really likes him and you and he started dating. I think you're supposed to be happy for her or she's supposed to be happy with him, but it hurts.
588582
MY BEST FRIEND HAD BROKE UP WITH THIS GUY AND AS YOU,HE LIKED ME AND I LIKED HIM.WE STARTED DATING AND MY BEST FRIEND HATED ME FOR IT ONLY BECAUSE I DID NOT GO TO HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT MY FEELINGS TOWARD THE GUY.I RECOMMEND TALKING TO HER AND LETTING HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IT BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM,THEN ITS YOUR DECISON RATHER YOU WANT TO DATE HIM OR NOT.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK..
96363
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
541245
I don't understand if you're worried about the girl you like or your friend turning into one of the guys you don't get along with. in any case, they should be smart enough to decide for themselves if these guys are worth it or not... but if they're such bad influence you could warn them about it and just hope for the best!