Him and i was talking for abt 2 years, and he cheated, now he wants us to have a friendship, and hang out and stuff, what should i do?
124254
Be friendly but not close.  Kinda like, I am just here but have more important things to do.
245254
Go up and talk to him and talk about the fun you had with him and friends at the pub.  Then suggest you all do it again sometime soon.  See what he SAYS to this.  That's about all you can do.
514390
Stop playing games and communicate!\n\nListen, I could be wrong but I doubt this guy or your friend happen to be mind readers.  Give them both the benefit of some honest, open and respectful conversation.\n\nSeriously, if you don't trust that someone can reciprocate honesty and respect then what's the point of continuing to build any type of a relationship with them?
101262
as you said this fight was stupid so yes definetly be friends again, you known him since first grade dont loose a relationship over that, youve been friends for way to long its time to move on and start having fun with him. besides what if something happened you wouldnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to be friends....
72711
You are messing around for 2 years and he doesn't want to mess up the friendship???  LORD give me a burst of patience!!! Honey, why should he change anything?? He is getting what he wants NOW!  If you are smart, you will stop the 'messing around' and tell him he has to make up his mind what he wants.  If he wants a friendship, fine.. but no benefits...  you deserve a whole lot better than that..  If he wants the benefits, that's fine, too.. but the relationship changes.. you are boyfriend/girlfriend.. or else. YOU have to lay down the law.. DON'T let him get by with this crap.. stand up for yourself.. have self respect!  DON'T let him use you this way.  Good luck.
311163
You just got played! No one made him do anything he didn't want to do. He cheated on you. Period. Can you live with that? Your answer to that question should tell you what to do.
72266
You need to not be "best friends" with him. Time to move on.
224968
Wow! All that happened in a week? It sounds like he's just as confused as you are. Most people don't hang out with somebody they just dumped. How can you be cheating on somebody that you don't have a relationship with? I think you need to wait a week or two to see how it goes. It sounds like the first few steps toward a friendship. It doesn't go easy when both parties are insecure. Just remember as the girl you are the prize he has to win over not the other way around.
588441
wake up,he cheated on you so why have him back.chances are you will never fully trust him ever again.time to move on girl
117014
Be honest with him. If your friendship is ended just by asking, then it really wasn't worth having in the first place.
45875
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
170267
He is not for you, dump him. Don't even bother to cheat is just a waste of time,just find someone who would not talk about you and would like to talk with you.
260391
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
99262
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
133506
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
409844
cut all ties from him.  your feelings need to heal.  you need to move on and find someone on the same level as you.  friendship after a relationship is awful.
331807
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake