I Have been talking to this girl for a little over a year now, She only lives 30 minutes from me, Should we meet up?\n\nI am 26 and she is 16
132736
No shes to young for you
286132
yes, ask for her number! but do it saying something of the nature of "it was very very nice to meet you too, youre a cool girl, maybe we can talk later or even go out or something? can i have your number?" dont make it seem as tho u only want to date her
210631
you have to know her.\n\nI am older. Wish you well
239896
I think you need to do a little maturing.  \n\nLife happens.  If a tournament has been canceled, then there is probably a good reason for him to have talked to her for 20 minutes.  Hell, I have been on the phone with the pizza place for 20 minutes trying to get an order straightened out...it doesn't mean that I'm looking to hook up with the moron on the phone.  \n\nOn the other hand...if you guys are serious about your own relationship, I don't think that it is out of hand for you to let him know that you would feel more comfortable if he found a MALE tennis partner.  Personally, I think that's is a wee bit strange, regardless of the age.
598691
no but i live near Illinois's it is about 1hour a way in Indiana. u mite be new to this so her is good advice give it time u will met people to talk to. and if not and u are a pro Ho cars wot i jest sad. have fun on the net
95310
i sincerely hope you speak better than you type, because that was cryptic at best.\n\nto put it bluntly, you sound like an over-sensitive wuss who's far too obsessed with someone 1/2 your age. if i were in her place, i wouldn't call you back either.
336868
Keep the lines of communication open.  Be purposeful but be certain not to judge.  Yes - God yes! - it's her age... 13-14 are the worst for girls.
9760
doesnt matter...just so long as its somewhere you and her can bond and get close to one another..she is almost to that age where she will be hard to talk to..it will be good for you and her to have that relationship established
595253
She would probably be very happy if you let her have her life the way she wants it.  Forcing a situation may strain your relationship with her.  If you are set on this, find an event you two could attend together where there would be a mix of people including men her age.  That way it doesn't look like you are forcing anything but rather giving her an opportunity to meet people.
150976
it seems real hard for u since u guys are so far away but i think that it depends wat she said the last time u guys talked or the way she acted.. i believed that having a far away relationship could work but most of the time it doesnt ...... sorry to say but its the truth wait maybe shell try and sends u a letter i dont know .. but i think u should move on....and if its ment to be u guys will be together...
669576
Report to her parents.\n\nHow can you don't know your friend's address?  What kind of a friend are you anyways?  If only an online friends...so what there are others you will meet.
132988
Well I am 17,  can kinda see where you are coming from.  I think that maybe she sould wait just a little longer.  Cause it could end up being a relationship based on sex.  And sometimes those relationships don't last. Just tell her how you feel.
526538
You should not meet just yet.  You  need t spend atleast a week talking on the phone.  You need to make sure that the other person is who they say they are and, apart from physically meeting them, this is the best way.  It's easier to make up answers and stories through email.  This will also help her feel more comfortable as well.   Please get to know each other on the phone first.
272995
Very sad.  You seem to have made some progress with her, though.  How old is she?  What does she like to do?  You could start by taking her out to dinner.  Then you could chat and get to know her again.  Build on that, and then maybe there are some afternoon or evening events you could do with her, or with her and her friend(s) if necessary.  Movies or something.  Keep it light.  This is going to take a while, but as she gets older, maybe 18 or 20, she might be mature enough to start seeing things from your perspective and want to take the initiative more to be with you.
387849
Stay friends for now\n\nYes, the age difference is within reason
180659
i'm sorry for telling you this but...  if she wanna keep in touch with you, she would have contacted you long time ago.\nshe disappeared and doesn't talk to you any more because she is no longer interested in you.\ni think it's meaningless to try to locate her.
157328
I'm a girl in the same age range(about to be 12) and it seems we have alot in common.i LOVE to shop and i go to the movies alot .i am one of the funny ones myself( at least that's what my Friends say ..), and i always hang out with my friends.check my profile for more.