one asked me at a time that i was getting bummed and worried so i just said yes and i asked someone today who i found out liked me so he said yes...no im thinking i should go with guy #2 as a couple and dump guy #1 who wants to go as friends what should i do and how should i tell him?
134723
of guy #1 wantd to go as friends in the first place, then as a friend, he would understand his situation and not have a problem with you going with guy#2 and you should tell him soon so he will have enough time to get anothr date.
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
93657
guy #2 obviously doesnt like you so move on. and keep guy#1 as your friend!! friends are important, maybe more important than a relationship!
408514
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
62968
On guy number 2, never settle.  It's not fair to you or him.  On guy number one, just go talk with him, see if you can lead the horse to water...  If not, it's not meant to be.
196009
well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
356031
From a guys point of view, be honest with him.  Let him know why it didn't work.  Don't bs him.  If you tell him its because you don't want to be with anyone right now or something like that and he sees you out with another guy it's gonna hurt him worse than if you were just up front with him from the get go.
477910
Don't tell him anything!  Most likely what you're feelinig for him right now is just a result of being lonely. If you really liked him you would have been extatic when he asked you out two years ago.  Don't ruin a good thing.  Just work on trying to like someone else, because most likely it won't work out and things will never be the same.\nI've made the mistake of trying to date a guy friend twice, and both times it turned out horribly and we aren't nearly as close now.  Don't make the same mistake!
464780
My advise is to stay with him. You felt good around him right? You had fun and had nice conversations, right? Take time and think to yourself, "do I like this guy more than a friend or not?" If not, be honest and tell him, don't avoid him. Stop being such an immature little girl, we ain't seven-years old anymore. Men don't have cooties.
250638
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose
560073
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
463607
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
47254
always go to those who like u...if u goto the guy who U THINK likes u.....might just use u and go on to the next one......either case asking dosent harm....i would go for the person that i am sure about....
261717
Say you are sorry for your mistake on dating him before. Cry for a drama. Explain that this is the best for both of you. Find something that you don't like. Never raise your voice. They will appreciarte you if you say it gently. If you really like the second, it's okay. I understand the matter of hearts problem.
99501
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
19650
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
37559
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.