I am extremely attracted to this one guy friend I have and he is attracted to me too and wants to "hook up" but I have a bf who loves me more than I think anyone else could ever love me back. This guy i'm attracted to I know doesnt "love" me so why is his sexiness and the melting way he looks at me getting in the way of my relationship when I have more than I could ask for from my bf. I don't know what to do. My bf is still incredibly sexy so I don't know what my problem is.
136041
Take a long look at the relationship that you have worked to develop with your boyfriend. If everything is good there, then forget about the other guy and spend more time having sex with your boyfriend. He won't know what hit him, and you can "work out" some of the urges you are having. Try something new in bed (or in chair, or on dining room table) to spice it up a bit. The new guy is just that , someone new. And the fact that he wants to "hook up" with someone who is already in a relationship tells you all you need to know about his character.
135574
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
527269
I have asked myself the same thing!! So i asked my guy why is this, i said is it because you have a beautiful confident woman at home and what you need is someone not so pretty who looks at you and says wow! I cant beleive I am lucky enough to have this hot guy, you know..like they need to feel worshiped so to say..and he also stated that he knew they wanted him and it was easy to get
399410
Um....so you are asking us this...you are attracted to this guy, who either has a girlfriend and just flirts with you, or is not honest with you.  I'm thinking that he is either considering cheating on his mysterious girlfriend with you and just hasn't the courage yet, or  he just wants to fool around a little without commitments...And he knows that he has you hooked..So if you really want to pursue this...be patient..ignore him and don't be so available....see what happens.
191540
I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
151121
It would be wrong for you two to hook up since you are both in relationships with other people.  Maybe you could just be friends with him as long as you don't have any lingering feelings for him.  If you do, then you should just leave it alone before someone gets hurt (whether it be emotionally or physically).
144767
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
620995
It's called lust.  Probably one of the things that attracts you is that you feel you can't "get him".  Remember you can't always get what you want.  Try to think of the reason why you feel obsessed with him.  He's probably not all that.  It happens to everyone at least once.  Focus your attention on someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
241695
If you really loved your boyfriend in Florida, you wouldn't even be considering the possibility of having sex with someone else.  This guy is not really your friend.  He just wants to get into your pants.  If you're having all these doubts you need to reconsider how you really feel about your bf.  It's not fair to him if he really loves you.
45449
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
436953
Or the question might  be whats your problem? Yeah i know you didn't expect that. it seems your stuck all on you and think no one would dare turn you away> Maybe he see's through your hot body and see;s that your all about you!  Maybe he simply want's some one who is not so willing to give it up! It's hard to respect some one who is willing to bed me at first sight>
150540
I've been in that position...many times.You can't dwell on your situation too long because when a guy comes a long who really likes you ,you may miss him.You don't want to miss him do you??????Even if nobody likes you for a while its just a phase.please believe me.I have a wonderful bf who when I met him I was liking another guy.
483087
You said the guy is attracted to you. Do you think you are attracted to him? Then approach him and introduce yourself and ask him about his favourate sports. I think you are both attracted to each other. Move ahead..................
360866
honey, if your having a hard time keeping your man's attention then you need to find a new man that is more interested in YOU.  but  while your still out with your man and you notice him paying more attention to the 'scenery' than you... you should look around yourself and as soon as you see someone else that looks good, keep your eyes on him even if your man starts to talk to you.. show him what it feels like not to have all of your undivided attention! ;)
238264
Well who do you like more.. which one are you more compatible with and which do you see as a boyfriend?  They are not clones of each other, there has to be one you have more in common with or like more.  Break it down, girl.
454777
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
412508
Who do you have more feelings for? then think about who you rather hang out with more. and if it's not your bf then you have to let go. You shouldn't have feelings for someone else while you have a bf anyway.. so if you do then it's best to call it quits with him.