I'm in a relationship with a mexican girl and her mom got really mad at me how do i gain her trust back and respect because she very traditional in the mexican ways
127810
say "lo siento" and then report her to INS regardless of whether she's illegal... that way she'll be busy dealing with them and you can do your thing with her daughter.
91099
Show the mother that you can be trusted with her little girl.Show her you respect her and that you could never hurt her.Then show the mother that you respect her as well.
593936
You have to gain her trust. You have to show her you changed, not tell her. You have to consider her feelings. If she tells you top leave her alone, do it. Give her some time, and then get back to her.\n\nGoosd luck.
523352
just , be always very femenine, and polaite, they have alot of good maners. here american culture is more relaxed when it comes to those things. but they are not. for example ,never ever!! burp. use good maners on the table. things like that mexican people notice.
455185
Moms have their own ways.  You have to make your own happiness in life.  You do not mention your age.  Cross cultural dating is difficult lots of times and no due to race.  If you have a nice boyfriend of color then try to get her to meet him and show her he respects you and wants to be kind to you and to her
234853
WELL I THINK WHAT YOU DID FOR HER AND HER DAUGHTER WAS MORE THEN MANLY. MOST MEN WOULD SAY OH WELL AINT MY PROBLEM AND WOULD HAVE STAYED. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD STILL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT WOMAN IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU CARE FOR HER VERY MUCH. YOU DONT HAVE TO LIVE THERE AND SHE CAN STILL DEVOTE TIME TO HER CHILD. HAVE EITHER ONE OF YOU TRIED TO MAKE THE DAUGHTER APART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP SO SHE WONT FEEL LEFT OUT. WE AS MOTHERS HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO SHARE OUR LOVE AND ATTENTION. TALK TO HER AND YOU TALK TO THE DAUGHTER TRY TO BE A FAMILY NOT JUST MOM'S BOYFRIEND. IN THE MEAN TIME- TAKE KARATE, GO TO THE GYM, BECOME A BIG BROTHER,DO SOMETHING YOU WILL BE PROUD OF AND STOP MESSING WITH SKANKY WOMEN JUST IN CASE YOU AND MOM GET BACK TOGETHER
307984
Tell her to get a hold of herself and respect you and what you want or need. You don't have to let her stay there. You are doing it because you are a good hearted person. If she can't respect you then, tell her that she will have to find somewhere else to stay.
665505
you need to bond with her why not offer to call a truce and invite her to got get pedicures & manicures - talk to her.  ask her to come to you if she has a problem with something you did instead of running to your father - tell her you like you have to always be defensive around her because you feel like anything you say she will turn against you and cause a fight with your father.
291635
Girl they mexicans? F*** them, you not married to them. And you don't need them i guess so tell them what you think and let your husband know why you did it. Keep in mind don't cuss 'em out just let them know in a round-a-bout way that you not playin'. Need some help email me at hot_gurl102@yahoo.com
299285
Keep in mind that this child is only 5 years old, and she probably lied, because she was afraid she would get in trouble...  Don't let that get in the way..\n\nIf you feel that it is going to be a problem for you, to deal with a step chile, then get out of the relationship....  find someone who doesn't have children...
186212
1. Clean up your act - stop being a criminal\n2. Learn to speak and write proper English (I realise this may be difficult since you live in US)\n3. Stop trying to have sex with her, it's not the most important thing in the world\n4. Show her and her mother some respect \n5. Show them both that you can reform and become a sensible, responsible, well-behaved member of society\n6. Learn what makes a successful relationship - clue: it's not sex\nThose should keep you going for a while
555780
trusting people takes time. especially when you once had it and then lost it. i think that you should be VERY patient with her. don't turn her insecurities into an argument. try to understand where she is coming from. i think that if you don't lie continuously, she'll eventually trust you. believe me...
588692
Mexican people are very family oriented. They embrace anyone into the family. Its only when one of their relatives is hurt or abused by the husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend that the Mexican family will turn its back on that person..the American family...well there are alot of good people that are americans...
213548
Don't do anything. For whatever reasonit is she just doesn't like you and if she really doesn't have a valid reason, such as you doing something to her or her son, she just won't.  Any little thing you do OR don't do she will take it as something negative and will always have something to complain about.  Always be courteous to her and love her son dearly.  Never change trying to make her happy because you will make yourself unhappy.  Hey if her son loves you is because he likes YOU, not what his mother might want you to be.  Try to live away from her as comfortably as your boyfriend will budge to and when you guys visit just be yourself.  One of two things will happen , she'll eventually warm up to you or hate you even more. Either way don't lose your sense of self.
166110
Forget it.  You'll get over her.  You won't respect yourself, and she'll never respect you either if you let her walk on you like that.  You don't just casually leave someone.  How would you ever trust her again?   You'd spend your life worried that if you don't jump through her hoops, she'll bail again, and she probably will, too!   \n\nJust tell her, "I'm sorry.  I wish you all the best, but that ship has sailed."  You don't need to humiliate her or rub her nose in it.  Take the high road, which will make her realize all the more that you are a decent guy and she shouldn't have done that.  You can't fix this one, but maybe she'll grow up a little for the next guy.
175297
speak to the asian kid in his language and ask him to pretend to laugh at the mexican kid together with you. just keep talking in that language and lookin at the mexican kid as if he was the weirdest creature on earth and then walk away. and do that everytime you see him. \nthat would definitly annoy the mexican kid because he doesn't know what you two are talking about and it seems like you two are talking about him.\n\nchildish but i'm sure it'd work!
562161
There comes a time where you just have to tell the family to piss off. This is probably one of those times. Drama loving families will do whatever they can to start crap, and if they don't like someone you date they'll most likely let you and her know it. You just can't play their game. You might give them a chance to be nice to your new girlfriend. If they aren't at least polite to her, tell them you won't be spending time with them anymore until they can grow up. When it comes down to it, it's important that YOU are happy. Not your family. I know everybody wants their family to be happy. But seriously, you can only please one person, and that's yourself. If it'd make you happy to be with this woman, then by all means do it. Don't allow your family to screw up your good times with her. Good luck. :)