there was a flower in a garden. it was beautiful. i used to stare at it everyday. it thought i gave it a friendly look. the truth is i was in love with that flower. however, the flower didn't feel it. i was about to tell it how i feel about it. i went to the garden and guess what happened. the flower was gone. it was in the hand of my best mate. i wish i could hold that flower in my hand. i wish i could keep it in my vase. i wish...i could forget my love for it. is it possible?
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you won't forget that flower, and you will find the flower that is FOR YOU, just don't be a weed in your best mate's garden in the meantime.
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I believe you have answer the question yourself already. If you feel that by forgetting him and move on is the best solution, you can do it. No doubt you may feel hurt in the initial stage but time is the best medicine to heal this type of wound. \nI believe there are better guys out there for you to choose. There is no point in giving up a forest for a tree
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I knew I was really in love when the following happened:\nI cared what his honest opinion was, and I could talk about absolutely anything and everything.  When something bad happened, I wanted HIM to comfort me; when something funny happened, HE was the first person I wanted to share it with.  When I thought of the future, HE was in all the scenes.  It goes beyond butterflies and beating hearts, but sounds like you are on the right track.  Good luck!
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I am so sorry for your loss.  I would like to say that I think your mom would be proud of you and would love knowing that you love her and you miss her.  Instead of spending today being sad at her loss..spend the day rejoicing for the woman that she was and for the memories that will live on in your heart forever.  ((((((((hugs)))))))))
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What won't we humans do for love?  Think about this, love can be transitory sometimes and when we find love we want to hold onto it with both hands and never let go...because what if it went away?  \n\nI'm sure most of us have known "love" in one form or another and I think I'm correct in assuming that a lot of us have had that love taken away.  Whether a relationship ends, we loose a friend, family member or even a pet.  Sometimes love  just goes away.  So when we find it we don't want to loose it and because these feelings are so strong within us it can bring out the best and worst in our behavior.\n\nSo love in any shape or form is a glorious thing but without it in our lives it's truly a great tragedy.
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well i think you should just get over your fear and ask her out. so that way you let her know you like her feel me. and if she says she can't be yours then you just have to get over her. i mean giving her flowers don't mean you really like someone it can mean anything. so one day call her and tell her how you really feel about her. YOU CAN DO IT.
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Today is my bestfriend's birthday. She turns 19 today, May 16th. I wish I could send her a gift, but I moved to France, and she lives far away in South East Asia, and it's been 10 months we didn't see each other. So, I simply sent her a greetings card, and said Happy Birthday, and I told her how much I miss her and she means a lot to me.\n\nBy the way, Happy Birthday to you !! Joyeux Anniversaire !!
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I love the poem.. made me kinda teary-eyed.\nThen when I read that you had not met the woman that you wrote it about till recently.. it made me sadder yet.\n\nShe will be sad reading it, knowing she just met you.\n\nMaybe she will be happy knowing you love her enough now to write it.\nWell written poem... very kid of you to write it for your mom.\n\nI am wondering if you remember staring at her... if you just met her.\n\nNice poem though.
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i was in love with my bestest friend in the whole world.  in fact, i think i'll always love him to a certain degree.  i took a chance and told him how i felt, because hiding my true feelings felt like i was constantly living a lie.  unfortunately, like your friend, he didn't want to risk losing me since he knew he couldn't give me the kind of commitment i needed.  \n\nit's been over 3 years since my revelation (we've been best friends for over 5), and i've learned to move on.  in the years that followed, i slowly was able to tell him exactly how i felt and why, and also get the answers to questions he left unanswered for so long.  i know he loves me, that we'll always be constants in each other lives, and will most likely grow old together... but maybe just not as husband and wife.  and you know, what?  it's actually all right!\n\nlooking back, i don't think i would've done anything differently... even if we didn't end up together.  i told him what i needed to tell him, and never imposed a relationship on him.  suffering in silence, how i did before i revealed myself, and how i did even after that, was much much too painful... especially because he shared the most intimate details of his life with me.\n\njust do what you think you have to do.  if he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, then maybe he's not good enough for you.  i've always thought that my guy never really appreciated what was right in front of him, and maybe he's really not worth giving my heart to in the first place.  the right one will come along eventually.  hopefully, your friend is really the right one for you!\n\nif he's the right one, then he'll take the leap with you, and if he's not, at least you gave it your best shot.
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A small intimate wedding in the springtime is what I would choose. Since I am not you that is your decision's. I choose small and intimate because I would rather have my closest friends and family there than alot of people that I really don't talk to. As to the flowers that is definitely a personal preference.
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I remember when I was 13 or 14, I was waiting for the bus, and I started to think of God and his Greatness, I seen a lone flower in a field of Mesquite, I plucked it, and cried all the way to school.  I cried, and thanked God for loving me, and making all the beautiful things he made.  I do not understand what happened to me that day, why was I crying, why was I thanking God.  I did not know him, then, he was nothing but a fairy tale, but throughout my life I have remembered that moment, and it always reminds me of His Love.\n\nI can not say what yours meant, but I would treasure it if I were you.
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Try bringing just one flower, instead of a bunch of them (save them for when you do something wrong LOL).  It shows you went out of your way without coming off as cheesy.  Also, don't bring a rose, too cliche, try a different flower. A florist will be able to help you decide which one would be best.\n\nGood luck!
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I wanted to go and put flowers on my best friends burial site who is a fallen soldier. He truly is my hero and no better way to celebrate my freedom than to honor one who fought for it.  I miss Him so much!
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my heart goes out to you miss.a mothers' love is a blessing.did your mum have or do you have siblings. sometimes when we grieve we feel other family members are less sensitive or caring than they should be. this too makes the grief harder to bear.the memories of your mum will lessen and gently fade away, but never forgotten, the cherished moments will be an everlasting treasure.forever. soon you will be in a new stage a new beginning of love and happiness.sieze the moment miss, and devote your time and enery to this new unlimited life.your mum would wish this for your well-being.totally and absolutely. here is a wee poem it used to hang in my mothers'house,our house.it's called  Today, Yesterday has vanished,we only know today,Tomorrow is a vision,forever on the way.The thrill of daily action,the hopes and glories too.Are crowded in the moments that TODAY will hold for you.  good luck.
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Well, call me crazy but you should probably just tell her, and give her some flowers or something special only to her, something that relates to something she has told you or something you have dont together, something that shows you have thought about her. You might want to spend less time on here too ;-)
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My dear friend, \nI learned what the color and relationship meaning of roses meant a long time ago. I would surely think you could look these up today, easily via the internet or to call a local flouriest.\nI recommend that you buy two of each of the flowers that you learn about, put them all together, and present to your loving parents. Include a card that explains the meaning of each pair of colors on a card and just let them absorb. After a weekend of privacy, they will surely be every so glad to see you and discuss all that happened. Hmmm, want to fill us in? God Bless you, such a sweet and thoughtful heart.
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I love getting flowers! When my fiance shows up at home with flowers just to make me feel special, he's almost guarenteed to get some... :) I really like roses, but they're not required. Lillies, or tulips are pretty too. Although you might want to ask the florist which kind last the longest and go from there. Daisies last a long time and are pretty, and those funky colored carnations show that you're fun and energetic. Another suggestion-pick a color scheme and run with it. A bouquet with 10 different colors can be tacky. (but first be sure she's not allergic!!! that could work out badly for ya)