I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and we've been sleeping together for half of it.  Sex is incredible, but I've never had an orgasm.
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Most women will not be able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Generally a woman will require clitoral stimulation before they can orgasm. Try oral and have him focus on your clit, or go and buy yourself a vibrator.
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I am the same way.  I've been married for 4 years now and I can count the times I've came.  It's not my husband, he's pretty big and really good in bed.  He figured out how to make  me come with really hard work.  I told him about it instead of faking and he really went out of his way to try to please me.    \n\nLike you, he is also my second, my first was just sex and I didn't like it.  It took me 6 months to figure out that I wasn't' pleased to tell my husband.  \n\nOUR SOLUTION:\nWe got toys and when we make love, we make sure we have enough time to warm me up with or@l and finally make love.  Tell you husband about it.  Trust me he's gonna want to make you the happiest woman alive and he will do what ever it takes to please you.  Communication, communication.
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I have the exact same problem, i cannot orgasm during sex. i thought it was something my husband was doing wrong becasue he's the only guy i've ever been with. but one day when my gynecologist was examining me i just asked her opinion and she said that my something is very far back making hard to reach orgasm by penetration. im not sure what part she said exactly. im sorry to tell you but there's no hope for us. But still do other things that excite you. Just because you cant orgasm doesnt mean it cant be fun. Dont fake it, go to the doctor and find out whats going on with your body and if you have the same propblem i have tell your husband. Mine understood, even though he was hurt.
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since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
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Trust me, this is so normal and I actually feel like this all the time.  I love giving my BF oral sex. Just the thought of tasting him right now makes me quiver.  I also think that it has a lot to do with me making him feel as good as I do.  To know that he's 6 years older than me and I've given him the best oral sex in his life makes me overwhelmed.  I actually thought that I was the only one who felt like this, Thanks girl you made me feel a lot better
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I was a non orgasmic woman for many years.....When I married my husband, he want out one day and bought some toys for me, cause I would never do it on my own.....WOW, it made a world of difference, it changed my life....Talk to your boyfriend about the toys, they are an enhancement and that the toys would never take his place, but are more of a tool to help you....
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i totally agree with you. people think that you have to have sex if you are in a relationship, but it's not true. i was with a guy for almost three years and we never had sex. im proud of myself for that because i proved to myself and other people that you can be in a relationship and stay together without having sex. Good Luck!
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What you are going through is not weird and it's definitely normal! i had the same problem...I had sex hundreds of times but I could never have an orgasm. I always thought something was wrong so I just faked it all the time. My boyfriend now and I have amazing sex and by experimenting I have found the only position that I can have an orgasm! I hope this isn't too graphic but here is what we do...\n\nHave him lay on his back and you climb on top. While he is inside of you move your legs to the inside of his and make sure they are straight. Slide yourself up and down this way and I can almost guarantee you will have an orgasm! This position rubs me the right way everytime! It's the best feeling in the world when you have your first orgasm during sex! Good luck and I hope this works!
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I DIDNT HAVE AN ORGASM WITH ANYONE BEFORE MY HUSBAND MAYBE HE IS TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.
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Anatomically speaking (boring but true)...an orgasm is your cervix dipping downward (and it's a good thing to have if you're trying to conceive) - so you'll feel it alright. And then there's that wonderful sense of release, I guess you can say intense euphoria. If you don't already know this, most women do not have orgasms during sex anyway. You may want to get there on your own then show him how it's done!
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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well, i have a MUCH higher sex drive than my ex fiancee, so often times i used to just let her go to sleep after she didnt want to have sex.  Then i'd pull her nightie open so i could see her breasts, rear, and p*ssy and rake one out right there.  Usually, though, she'd wake up at odd hours of the night soaking wet down there and wake me up riding me.
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Does each of you take a turn sleeping? anyway i don't think it's possible to have good sex for 8-10 hours straight
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wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
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Yes, you have experienced having an orgasm sweetie!  Isn't it a beautiful thing?! : )  Next time, just try to enjoy yourself and don't concentrate on just having an orgasm because sometimes it happens and sometimes it won't, but don't be dissappointed, because it will happen again as long as your boyfriend is handling his business!
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My boyfriend and i have gone more than a week without sex and we have tight scehuales as well but we usually talk on the phone maybe you could do that on your breaks but if you too really wanted to have sex then you would find the time say in the morning but when you go a while without it its absolutley amazing when you have it well atleast in my opinion
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I have never faked an orgasm, but I have been sorely tempted to. Guys seem to think that a girl has to have an orgasm every time, which is unrealistic, and quite frankly, practically impossible. They think if a girl doesn't have an orgasm it means they are bad in bed. Which is not true. Many women fake having an orgasm to make their guy feel better about themselves and to get them off their back about whether or not they had one, and if not, why not. The problem is, it hurts the relationship in the long run. Because not only are you lying to them, but then they'll never know if they ARE doing something wrong and they'll think they don't need to change anything about what they do because you ALWAYS get an orgasm. The sex won't get better and trust will be broken. It's always better to tell the truth, especially about things of this nature.