I am a 38-40H bra size and it is impossible to find a bra that fits.  I was a DD to DDD cup all through my teenage years until after I got married and topped out at 230 pounds.  No matter how big the cups are, I can't seem to get them around my whole right breast without part of it spilling out of the cup.  My left breast is significantly bigger than my left, which is embarassing enough.  I have tried Lane Bryant's website, which goes up to H sizes and that is it!  I have heard the biggest cup size out there is K and those are scarce unless you go on eBay or something.  Any recommendations for x-large bra sizes?  I am wanting a breast reduction but don't feel comfortable doing that until I can lose enough weight first.  Help!
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I know the feeling.  It is really hard to find bras that fit bigger cups.  I have that problem too.  Catherines.com has some bras that go up to J, but you have to look because not all of them do.  Other than that, I would say to go to botiques, many of them will have the larger sizes.  Of course, you are going to be paying a lot more, but they feel so great when they are the right size! lol\nI found this website for you too, I have never used it, but they seem to have some bras in the size that you are looking for.\nGood luck, and let me know if you find some place great!\n:)\n\nA few more sites for ya!
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I am a 34 C/D, so certainly not as large as your wife, but still a busty girl.\n\nThis is what almost all of the women in my family do, (we are all pretty busty) and my aunts have stayed remarkably perky into their 50’s\n\nFIRST – wear a properly fitting, well sized, supportive bra.  This should be something that holds the girl up, and keeps them supported.  Your everyday bras should be under wire, full coverage, and comfy.  If your bras lack any of those characteristics – they are the wrong size / wrong bra for you.  If your under wires poke you, you are wearing the wrong size.  Go and have a bra fitting done for you.  If you go to a Leggs Hanes Bali store the sales girls (and guys) are trained to fit your bra properly.  I like Bali bras – but sometimes they are a bit lack luster in the fashion department, so I also wear a lot of VS Second Skin Satin bras – they fit me well, provide sufficient support for me (though more would be fine) and come in a huge variety of colors.  I HATE Playtex bras.  They are ugly, and they SMELL.  Avoid them at all costs.\n\nNever wear a soft cup bra for regular daily wear.  There is simply not enough support to risk it.  Besides, with a properly fit under wire bra, a good supportive under wire is at least as comfy as any soft cup.\n\nSpecial occasions are special occasions, and require special bras – avoid going braless however – unless that is the occasion.\n\nSecond – When doing ANY type of exercise – including things like gardening – or anything else that may cause extra bouncing, wear a good, strong sports bra, something that is capable of holding the girls in and controlling all of the bounce.  One of my aunts has been known to wear two sports bras on occasion.  An even better solution is to not do any sort of bounce inducing exercise and confine your work-out to the pool.  The water prevents you from doing any damage to your breasts (or joints) and provides excellent all over toning and cardio work out all in one.\n\nThird – and this is the real secret – and it is the critical step.  Wear a bra to bed.  Sleep in a bra every night.  This does not need to be a firm support under wire contraption, and it does not need to be uncomfortable at all.  In fact – it should be comfortable.  No one does a lot of bouncing when they sleep, so all this bra is doing is keeping the girls in place – it does not need to be firm support.  These bras are a bit harder to find, but they are worth the effort, and worth what you have to pay.  Try to find “leisure” bras, or “sleeping” bras.  If you google them you will find something.  They are a MUST if you want to remain perky for as long as possible – and well worth any trouble you may have to go through to find them.
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I would love to design/create/manufacture bras and lingerie for CURVY women. Not BIG women. By curvy I mean average height/weight but with a large chest and hips. I know its politically correct to call big girls "curvy" but for those of us who actually are finding intimate apparel is a friggin nightmare. And no this is not some kind of veiled personal ad its just the business I would get into.
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Join the club.. I have a D and a B. Buying bras is hell.I was told it has to do with which hand you write with and use most often. Like I'm right handed and my right one is much smaller then my left one. The way it was explained to me, majority of the size it fat. To because I use my right hand the most it burns more fat and the breast is smaller on that side. How accurate that is I don't know but that's how it was explained to my and in my case it makes sense.Hope it helps you.
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Hi I don't have personal experience of the brava system, but I do remember seeing a piece about in on the TV, and also reading a separate article in the paper. Basically they showed that the so-called 'scientific proof' brava claim is not valid. They showed that although it could lead to some enlargement this was due to the suction and not due to any change in tissue in the breast; therefore it was not genuinely enlarging the breasts at all, and certainly not by the cup sizes it claims to. I think that the main fact of breast enlargement is that at present its only possible with surgery (although they are developing non surgical procedures which are less intrusive), products such as brava feed on female insecurities by promising to deliver the undeliverable. If you are sure you want larger breasts my advice would be to opt for a breast augmentation, but its an expensive and potentially dangerous procedure (as Im sure you know!), I know its all cliches to say, but there are really good bras on the market which give fantastic results, and personally I think smaller boobs can look really really great, although I doubt that really matters to you. Hope this might of helped. x
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Use a really, really supportive bra.  I also believe that there is breast reduction surgery if you want to get drastic.
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34D, most of the time they are a hindrance (like when I want to play sports!). But in the bedroom they are definitely an enhancement! I wish someone would invent detachable boobs so I could have my cake and eat it too :)
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I am 20, 5'4" 110lbs and I'm just barely an A cup. I have also been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he loves them. I get hit on often, even though I have a small chest. When I was in high school I was much more self conscious and had lower self esteem. My boyfriend has helped me learn to love my body, and I think that's what you need to do. Be happy you have a small chest! You don't have to worry about them getting in the way with sports or getting nasty floppy when you get old! Trust me... learn to love your body, and find people who love you for who you are. Not only because you have fake boobs. A lot of people will have more respect for you for being real and having small boobs, than being fake and having big boobs.
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Your best bet is getting a bra that fits you. Go to a more expensive store and ask them to measure you. They will find the right bra for you. Even if you don't buy it there due to affordability, they will help you with the proper size. Also, did you know that the proper way to put on a bra is bending forward and a bra should only last around six months.
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No no no. First off, you are like the perfect size already !!!! Secondly, obviously your boyfriend likes what you have !!!! But the real reason to not do it is that fake boobs usually feel and look bad. Don't get me wrong, I like big boobs also, but I really do prefer smaller ones on a gorgeous, well proportioned body - but it does put some pressure on you to keep your body in shape - sorry about that. But 34b on a frame like yours is hot hot hot. As far as implants go, I much prefer the real thing over implants any day. The fake ones can look pretty good when you have cloths on, but often look terribly fake when your cloths are off. And they almost always feel terrible. I don't really care how small a girls breasts are, but I do care if they don't feel natural. For me, you judge a ladies breasts with your hands and mouth anyway :) But to be honest, I do know several women that have had boob jobs and they all say they love them because they have helped improve their self-confidence. A couple of them have complained that their husbands will no longer touch their boobs though because they don't like the way they feel. Of the ladies that I have been with that had the fake boobs, I really didn't like the way they looked or felt. My advice would be : become comfortable with what you have, knowing that your breast size doesn't define you and that a lot of guys love what you have!!!! But, stay in prime shape with a nice butt and legs to go with those gorgeous breasts of yours !!!!! I am mikeallen555555@yahoo.com if you want to chat
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Omg! I am the exact same! 44C babeh! Don't you hate it! Its so frustrating! Especially at palces like Sears and Wal-Mart!! Its like.. Oh thats a nice bra, or oh I like that! Then.. nope, sorry, it only goes up to a 38! Makes me so mad!!\n\nI've gone to plus size stores and I think 44C is very common cuz it's the least likely one to find on the rack.. but I have found some... theres two things you can do.. well you know how most bras have three different hook options.. grab a 46C and see if it fits okay on the tightest hooks. I usually wear mine on the last 3 hooks so I never really thought of this b4, I just may go try it :D. And 2. You could grab a 42C and buy the extenders that most places that sells bras have now. But I'll warn you, I tried this once and I decided no to it just becuase I figure it might be a pain in the butt to deal with all the time. If you don't know what I mean by bra extenders click on this.. http://www.underworks.com/maternity/71.html\n\nAlso one thing you should try is grab a 44D and see if it fits. I'll tell ya right now at plus size stores it won't fit, but I've tried D's on at places like LaSenza and I fit into them fine. Just depends on the store cuz everyone makes sizes different.\n\nBest of luck hun! :)
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to answer you question INTELLIGENTLY,about 50% of women are wearing the wrong size bra,usually too small. Your wife may want to be PROPERLY fitted at a department store and not the "popular" lingerie store. I have been wearing the wrong size bra for YEARS! I thought I was a 36 C only to find out through a fitting that I am--not!
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Unfortunately as a D cup I know your pain (no pun intended), I have been unable to find a comfrtable "all attire" bra that is affordable...I have found Everlast sport bras to be quite comforable but I can only wear them with certain shirts.
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I couldn't tell you the cause of this but it is suspiciously hormonal sounding...I wouldn't knock it though...sounds like you may have exactly what most women yearn for.  \n\nAs for bras...Victoria's Secret has awesome bras and you can get them any size you need.  They always have sales online and a good bra is worth ten times it's weight in gold.
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Your breasts are determined by your genes, look at your female relations. Being overweight generally doesn't help because your body isn't accentuated, instead of focusing on what you feel you don't have look at what you do and an accentuate that, it may been a new hairstyle, makeup or whatever. Then go and find a good bra shop and be fitted properly, a good bra can work wonders. Take care and be kind to yourself.
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wait your turn sweetie, it will come to you all of a sudden, and then you wont want it anymore. i have the largest breast of all my friends and most people i know and have since i was 12. when someone referes to me they say, sarah with big boobs, sarah?  yeah i hate it, and trust me, with that comes your period and that is no fun!!!!!! i hate it and wish often that i was a guy.  but your time will come so just wait it out.
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Hi there!\n\nWell, I have been looking into breast implants as well, and I would have to say, probably a cup size or so. I have heard and studied that surgeons will not go any larger than 2 cup sizes.  I plan on getting a size larger than what I am.  Mostly though, I really would think that it would depend on the frame of your wife!  I hope this helps you out, and good luck!