I like this girl who is one of my friends sister..when i first met her i thought she liked me but she was havin ex drama and she broke down ...i tried to talk to her but all that came from it was her thinking that im a no it all and now she is not attracted to me at all..\nthis goes agianst everthing i claim to be but i just feel that she is this super sweet woman who is as imature as i am and I want to see her so badly ..\nwe just hung out and she made a point to her sis ( my friend) that I could go with them to a  hocky game but she didnt want to sit next to me...whatever right..but then as the night went on she seem to worm up to me and I loved it ..ofcourse there was alchohol involved but who cares. we ended up hangin out all night and we all past out together..the next day it seem like we were right back to her haiting me...Now i dont know if ill ever see her cuz me and her sis may not hang no more\nwhat do you think should happen.i hope her sis dont like me..that would explain it
134338
I think she might like you, you should ask her.
199998
ben for the love of god!! do not act interested in her, trust me. ex-girls do this thing where they wait for your attention and then as soon as they get it they freaking bounce. the best thing(and the hardest)for you to do, is jsut be her friend like you two never even dated. totally hit on other chicks in front of her and when she's all like "whats with that" be like "nothing i thought you didnt care" thats right turn that shit around on her ass. fuck yeah!!
91237
It sounds to me like she likes you.  And believe me, some of the biggest crushes I've ever had have been on guys who could be considered less than cute.  So don't judge her by the guys she's gone for in the past -- just ask her if she likes you, or tell her that you like her, and see what happens!
467328
the best thing to do is be upfront with her about your feelings. she may just see you as a friend. and she may like you. but you'll never know if you don't ask her. tell her that you like her and ask her if she feels the same way? but i hope that you will not stop being her friend if she doesn't like you back. it's a horrible feeling as a girl to lose a great guy friend just because the romantic feelings are only one way.
417499
Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
50588
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
242790
You have to know how she feels about you first. If she likes you the way you like her...go for it. But don't get up in it. Or get too attached. Maybe she justs wants someone to hang out w/.
353162
Does she know you like her? If not, be straight up with her about it. If she does know you like her and she doesn't seem interested, start hanging around another girl and let her see that. It might make her jealous and start liking you again. (Girls are going to hate me for this.) Well, good luck.
153853
it is obvious that she liked you!  So when she found out that you were taken it made her nervous.  She must have thought that you guys had a attraction toward each other especially if you talked for 4 to 5 hours a night.  So when she found out that you didn't feel the same way toward her it made her embarrassed.  She will get over it i think.  Just give her some time.  When you do talk to her, just act as if nothing is wrong or different hopefully this will give her the message that she shouldn't be embarrassed because you thought nothing of it.  I would not ask her why she stoped talking to you though because this will only discourage her to not talk to you since it will make her more embarrassed.
179356
If you like this girl for more than her looks, then you might know some of the things she is interested in?  If not, take the leap! I am a 20 year old female, I don't know everthing about relationships but one thing I do know is that if you don't take that first step, you may never know what could have been.  If things don't work out and she isn't interested in you like you would hope, then things weren't meant to be.  When I was a sophomore in high school I dated a freshman guy who approached ME.  I knew then as much as I know now that he had a pair of you know what and I credit him for approaching me (I understand it isn't easy!!) And break the habit of talking through the friend to get to the girl, the sooner the better because you're wasting your time!! I hope I was some help : )
206663
I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
131415
Well how good of a friend is he?  If you don't want to mess up with your friendship with him, be a man and let him know that you like his sister and if it is alright with him if you started seeing her.  Tell him to think about it and let you know what he thinks about it.  Sometimes they will say that it is alright and other times they will say no, but you won't know unless you ask him.
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paul i am sorry to say this but this doesn't really sound like much of a problem. I think you should stop worrying about whether she likes you and do something about it. Take control of your life. By now if she hasn't given you any signals, then don't bother, it ain't going to happen anytime soon. You got to come out straight and face her. Its now or never. Be a man!
601386
if you like her go for it. even if you know her ex. she is fair game now. and if she likes you enough to sleep with you, you dont really have anything to loose. but then again if her ex is your best friend or brother or something, you might have to pass it up. talk to your friend and see if he is cool with is first. then see where it goes from there.
301749
Check this out:\n\nThis girl that I really liked, that I had been do'n...back in my freshman year of college came over to me and my best friends dorm room one night to meet me.  I was way late getting back from something and basically the same thing happened, except he didnt nail her.  They were just messing around.  I didn't catch them in the act.  He told me later that night even though I never suspected a thing.\n\nI know it sounds way shady, but I was never really all that pizzed, because it was better to find out she was a skeezer from him than the entire fraternity!  More importantly, he came clean.\n\nWhere you fugged up is still hanging with her after your buddy got all pizzed.  You should have kicked her to the curb that night and explained to your buddy that it was a good thing that you found out for him that she was a skeezer.  \n\nDid he love this chick?  Did you know he loved her?  If he talked to you about love and was all about this girl, then you really messed up.  YOu also messed up by not kicking the girl to the curb the night of the incident.  If you were a real good friend and valued him, you would have done that...dont you think?
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I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
103235
well be cool about it the worst thing that could happen is that her sister not like it to much but take a stand and tell her that u like her then make sure that the sisters arent fighting and that it doesnt cauze problems \nbut for the most part it wont really be a problem!! \n  good luck!!