I did my two friends.\n\nWe said no secrets allowed. Nobody will be left out...\nBut yesterday I found out that they played together without me, they didn't even called so I could come...\n\nThen I learned that instead a trio it turned into a duo...\nI blocked them in my friend list and never remove them there.\n\nSo I need your help... What should I do?
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IF you really wanted to know ?\n\nI lost a friend a long time ago.\n\nA female friend of mine.\n\nWE were classmates.\n\nDuring the school vaction. She went on holiday with a parents in malaysia.During the bus trip there, she took a nap and never woke up. The doctors found she had died in her sleep. SHe died!!! SHe had a hole in her heart.I lost a friend that day, i never forgotton her.\n\nI am sharing with you this because i want yuou to treasure your friends. DO try to understand them. There is a reason behind all of it.Do not try to feel angry but try to find a sloution behind it. k. INvite them to your house to hang out and do something that all 3 of you like then you can start it again.\n\nDont lose your friends.\n\nTake Care.
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it doesnt sound like #3 is a very good friend i would not want a friend like that #3 sounds like a back stabber and two faced people like that do nothing but cause trouble stop hanging with #3 and save your self before things get worse
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first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
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Why cant you let the other 2 know? Be honest in letting them know that you r goin out with someone else! Why the heck do they STILL THINK that you r still stuck onto them? May b u were not clear enough in telling them about the break up or u jst wanted to play around!!! Get out of all this by straightaway telling the other two know the truth or u r in deep sh!t!!!!
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Sorry to hear you're losing some cool friends. By the way have you found out why you're losing them? They should give you a reason for leaving you and if there's nothing you can do about it forget them and look for new friends. This new girl can't take your friends away without their consent. Have you tried being in their company without success? Try and make this new girl your friend as well and see how things works out. Good luck.....
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The last time I answered an "urgent" question, the questioner never came back to pick a Best Answer.\n\nBut, anyway, here goes...\n\nIf you're going to play that silly game of "I'm busy over here with my friends" then be prepared to suffer the consequences. Basically, you snubbed her a number of times and she ended doing a "f*ck you too, buddy" on you. Then you wonder why...\n\nWakey, wakey. If you're ever going to have a chance with this girl then you need to stop playing games and communicate with her normally, treat her with respect and just let it lie for now.\n\nIf this is how you typically behave then we now know why she dumped you.
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and "C" is your friend? \n\nSounds like you need to choose your friends more carefully.
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I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
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Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
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There should be a way for you to block the other user.  I did it today.  When you put your mouse over each individual name does a box pop up? If so, on the bottom of the box does it say "you appear online to this member"? or something else if something else use the drop down box to change it to the setting you like.  OR  Try right clicking on the persons name and go to "stealth settings"  and click on Permanently offline.  If you need more direction let me know
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What a jerk!!! You really need to stop trying.  Maybe once you stop trying he will wonder and come back...but I guarantee it will only be temporary.  If he were really a friend he would not do that to you.  I am SO sick and tired of players...that's what he is...a player and you don't need him.  I'm sure you have lots of other IM and Myspace friends to chat with...give it a couple weeks and you'll feel better about it...but I know it's hard!!!!  Hang in there and be strong. :)
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I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
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you need to get together w/ her & tell her how you feel \nabout what she did.  Let her know that it was nOT right for her to do that & you thought better of her.  Remind her that true friends do NOT do this & that she hurt your feelings & made your life a bit of a mess by doing what \nshe did.  She should know that what she did was wrong & that she should NEVER tell anothers secrets unless they were out to hurt or harm someone.  Hope she never does this again & good luck .
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i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
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There is no way.\n\nI wish there was a way to delete myself from other people's lists!\n\nI no longer care to be contacted by a few "Friends" that saved me.
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well get all of your other friends together, talk about it, see how they feel, if they're all for not talking to her again then you ALL go and say something to her.  If your friends still wanna talk to her, just ask why in the hell they still wanna be friends with such an annoying person.  Or just tell your friends "hey, im not talking to her anymore, but she will try and turn you guys against me, so don't let that happen"
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Janinie, \n\nMy opinion is that you should just say every since you started hanging out with those chicks you turned int a jerk. So i just want to be friends and not best friends cause i don't want to get dumped on the side of the road again. So we can still hang out if you want but that is your choice. Thank you. That is what I would say. And you can Email me back if you want.\n\nKennetha\n\n\nP.S. My email adress is kennethacutie@yahoo.com