i want to superise my hubby just because, but to dont know how to do it any ideas
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I think you need to define what kind of "surprise" (in bed...a gift?)
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How many times are you posting this question?\n\nAnswer: It does not matter. Neither your hubby nor you will feel the difference! (Apart form the excrutiating pain that he will have after the op.)\n\nIt seems that he is having a midlife crisis. Give him lots of love and support!
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i agree...has to do it for himself...but a great way to start any new relationship is doing things together - so start with the family therapy, build trust and confidence. and share things together.\nthere are so many little jobs that need to be done at my humble abode...i think i am gonna stop spending so much time on the comp and start working out and redecorating the old home again...kinda boring doing that alone tho..maybe that's why those darn kitchen tiles are still on
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Gosh, this is a loaded question!  It all depends on so much!  Do you have kids, howz your sex life...how creative do you want to be?!  The romantic dinner is a GREAT idea to start with!  There are some very romantic sexual games you can play after to spice things up. ("An Enchanted Evening" as an example)  To really save money you could make him a wonderful "coupon book" that he may use all year (Until your 7th anniversary)  Including back rubs, hugs, kisses, sexual favors, picinic lunch, his favorite home cooked meal....
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I don't think its all about you being a strong person. With love comes sacrifices and apparently your husband is not sacrificing for you if all he wants to do is work. He has to be willing to work on things from his standpoint also.
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pray for him . It works remember we cant do any thing by our selves only GOD can do it . and try planning family time and invite him, like putting the kids in sports
185633
Just as you just did with us! Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with him. Tell him that he does fit into your life and tell him how. Just like you told us!
127138
Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
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Lucky you to have a GREAT-GRANDSON! Okay, you're not going to make any kind of impact on him with money or a gift, because he doesn't really know you. But SHOULD he know you??? Yes! How many great-grandparents does anyone get? Try this: Get some pictures of him - all kinds. Make a photocopy of them and cut him out. Next, go through magazines and find neat pictures of people and animated characters doing crazy fun stuff. Glue his head (body and head, whatever) into place. Do a photo montage - heavy paper and stick glue's all you need.It would be nice if you had pictures of you and your hubby at any age photocopied so he could be interacting with you in those. Too much trouble? Well, it's rewarding, and you could do it for every g-g-child or just him, for every occasion. He probably already has way too many toys.
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congratulations! make him a scrapbook of pics of u and him. include pics of just u if u want. write poems or just write a memory of doing something fun together that meant a lot to u. make it however u want to. leave blank pages so he can put more pics in if he wants.i did this for my bf on our 1 yr and he loved it! go spend time together that day-it doesn't have to be somewhere that's expensive either. go to ur fav park or just spend time at one of ur houses. just make sure he knos u love him-that's the greatest gift of all!
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make use of "emotional detachment" excersises. Imagine you're putting him into a hot air baloon and see him floating away away away...imagine you take him for a boat ride on the sea and then you dump him in the deepest side of the ocean and he sinks away away away...write his name on paper and burn it, imagine you put him in a box and post him to a country far away...every time you think of him or see him do one of these excersises - your brain will soon\nget the message that he "does not exist in your world" and \nthen start focussing on fun activities, do anything you enjoy loads, focus on yourself and what you need. Good luck!
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Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
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.\n\n\n\nLet Hubby do the wash.\nLet Hubby do the dishes.\nLet Hubby do the cleaning.\nLet Hubby do the honey-do list.\n\nAnd you go shopping :-)\n\n(bring him a banana split when you return...\nand your "good to go" for another day :-)\n\nOH..........and when you return, \nwhile he is eating that banana split...\nBE PREPARED for him to tell you \nthe "correct" way he found to \nDo the Washing\nDo the Dishes\nDo the Cleaning\n(and act really Really interested...\nlike he has all these great new ideas :-)\n\nAnd also let him tell you once again \nwhy he NEVER got around to doing the things \non the Honey-Do List \n:-)
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it really depeneds on what type of person he is.  an almost sure way of doing it is something sexual because men a very sexual but it needs to be something special.  if he has a specific fantasy that you could fufil or a outfit you could wear...most men love black.  or if he is a more sensitive person you can always make him a bath or get him flowers, i know that might sound like something only a woman would enjoy however allot of men would respond to that.  also you can always cook for him or order in a catered meal if you dont cook.  the always say "a way to a mans heart is through his stomach."  but really you know him better than anyone else and whatever you decide to do will be perfect i am sure.  finally consider that sometimes men will give subtle hints as to what they want so try to pick up on those.
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Buy some videos on techniques, like giving a better bj.  Preview it and see what you think, but the idea is actually to watch it with him to practice.  He will love the idea that you want to try and the visual stimulation more than your technique improvement I bet!  There are some good videos out there on numerous exciting topics for couples.
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If you are a spirtual person try reading THe power of a Praying wife. Working on yourself is the best way to work on a relationship. Your husband is responding to you non verbal ques. Its will be hard to "fix" your relationship if you don't figure out what it is you want/need
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I know you hear people talking about "working" on a marriage or relationships, but its not like putting a wing on a house.  From what you say it sounds like you want him to be more sensitive as you perceive yourself to be.  Men and women are different, why do you want to feminize him?