So everyone says to be honest about your feelings, tell the guy what you want, don't play games.....and in a perfect world with perfect people I think that sounds great.  The reality is, most guys I've met love it when they have to chase a girl. Not a lot, I'm not saying guys like it when a girl totally leads them on or never calls them back (that's just rude), but they want a girl who doesn't make it too easy. Am I right?
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100% Correct. We generally won't admit it because we're lazy but we do enjoy the chase. Be it subconsciously we like to feel like we conquered something or someone. Girls should read this because this is more beneficial to you then men. If you make it too easy we won't be around to long. No reason to be, but like anything else in the world your willing to stick with something you've already invested some time and some effort into.
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Honestly not really. You should be able to sense and know a persons feelings and love for you through their actions and the way they treat you. Although i get where your coming from, and im a girl myself so I know that's a word we love to hear from our guys... but i'd rather a guy to show me he loves me with his actions rather than him say it and not mean it at all.
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Guys like the chase.  If there is always something you won't give him he will always be interested in you.  As soon as you give in to him his fun is over.
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Sounds great tbh. Did you know that sometimes being too perfect will put guys off. They might just assume you are already taken or simply 'out of their league'. This happens to a friend of mine who is beautiful, smart etc.\n\nBy the way I'm 18
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Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
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Maybe you ARE to good for them; I know, it doesn't make you feel any better... I've had guys say that too. I remember in my one of my Psych classes that guys fall for a girl right away and then there feelings tend to decline, whereas a it takes a girl a while to fall for guy but it usually steadily increases. Maybe that has something to do with it. I also think if guys want a sexual relationship and don't get what they want, they try to find someone else so they can.
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Guys like it when their girl shows some independance - plays hard to get almost - human nature, you always want what you think you can't have.  Make him miss you - let him see you in action - then you'll be telling him to back off
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If things, even people, are too easy to get, then they don't seem as interesting. Throw some challenge in there and people by nature usually get competetive. When they win, they appreciate what they have much more. I personally think it is silly, but it works obviously. Girls don't do it just to blow a guy off. Sometimes that can happen, but a lot of times it's to get him even more interested in her.
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To put it plainly guy's don't want Girls as friends they want girlfriends, he wouldn't bother with you if he didn't feel someit. So chance it definitely darlin', its better to have tried and failed than to never have tried.
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I think it si a sign of insecurity for someone to lead another on.They are feeding their own ego.I agree with you and think a person should back off if they have no interest in the person they are flirting with-especially when they know that the person has feelings.There ARE people with more cahrachter than this.I hope that you find one,and I believe you will-Otherwise,are you sure the person in question does not really like you back,and.how do you know?
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You're more interested in the chase, than the catch. Usually a guy problem, but I guess girls can have it too.
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well, my craneal concusioned friend, i believe it may be true according to ur cultural background for once, but also it just might say that the guys who are telling u they dot like being chase my opinion is that they are having some self confidence issues.  The whole " UGA UGA me man strong, u woman stay in cave" deal still lingers in many men these days, they got problems coping with the fact that we are equals, even if they deny it, they just can`t help it, so understanding is in order,  maybe toning down the stalking... er i mean chasing just a bit.\nP.S.  just for the record, i really enjoy it when a woman is trying to hook up with me in a very funny but strong way.
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not really, i think all men like the chase but want to know that they have a chance at catching you. he needs to know your interested but if he has to chase to hard he will just say F it. the game can get to be a pain in the a$$ so make the game fun
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No it doesn't work.  Unless he is chasing you, don't play hard to get.  Nothing in the world is more flattering to me than when a girl dresses sexy, attracts the other men around her, and then only pays attention to me.
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Most guys really appreciate a girl being up front.  It can be nerve wracking as a guy always having to make the first move.  He will probably respect you even more for being so up front with him, and since he clearly returns the sentiment, once you've broached the subject with him then things should begin to develop!  Best of luck.
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Some guys are just into the thrill of the chase.  Once they've caught you, they aren't as interested.\n\nSome girls are the same and are only thrilled when somebody's pursuing them.  \n\nI don't think the problem is that the carrot isn't attractive enough.  \n\nIf you want a more serious relationship, you need a guy who's not only hot but also a good friend.  So look beyond the guys who are chasing you and find a guy who you really like being around. Somebody with the same sense of humor, same interests.  You'll have a better basis for a relationship that will last.
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I think it depends on how you portray your confidence.  A lot of times guys think they are just being confident, but to everyone else it seems like they're being cocky.  There's a fine line.