IT IS CRAZY, she is wanting to kill me cause of her man
124305
You are gonna have to record any and everything that you possibly can. If she calls your phone your gonna have to ask the poliec to tap yor phon eso that can catch that crazy b*tch. Good Luck MaMa!! Oh and if worst comes to worst, make sure taht if you do beat her a** sensless that you do it on your property b/c she shouldn't be there in the first place. Tell them that you are looking at it as self-defense on your own property!!!!!
22419
It sounds like she's dependent on him, or he may have threatened to take the kids from her...it could be any number of things.  But cowards like him control women with fear, so whatever is keeping her there, I bet there's a threat behind it. Look in your phone book (yellow pages) for a domestic violence hotline in the area for her to call and just be there as much as possible for her.  Also, make sure he doesn't know you're helping her. He could try and get information from you if/when she finally breaks free of this jerk. You're a good friend. Best of luck,\nK.
102509
Go to the police and tell them what is happening, get a restraining order and have the police escort you to the house to get your stuff, do it now before it's to late, I see so many woman stay and get killed, I'll pray for you, be brave and go tell someone, they'll help you...God bless
438903
i hope she never comes back!! ppl like you make me sick, guy's who use violence on women sohuld be locked up, it's a sign of weakness. i hope you rot in hell, i don't care if you report me ,i said what i wanted too.
554073
The ONLY right thing for you to do is to report it to the police.  She's in a vile situation with a monster, and if she's too afraid of reporting it, then be the best boyfriend that you can be and report it for her.  You can do it anonymously if you want to.
442977
I think she is doing it just because she knows that it will get to you. She knows that you want him, and she can play with him like a puppet. I think she has insecurites within herself, that she thinks she has to come down and hurt other people so they dont see when she hurts. If i was you i would act like it didnt bother you and she will stop. and no you are not being unreasonable, that is low, but take her power away from her and she will just be left there standing confused. Dont sink to her level rise above and being a shining star
500093
I  think  you  already know what you  have to do.     In  the  first place  how  do you know -besides  what she has told you -  that  her husband was abusive?      One  way or other, it is  absolutely clear to anybody with half a brain  the woman is using you ...   and  using  her  own  children as a   weapon  against you  if you  try to  stand up for yourself.    Well,   the ONLY  thing  possible  for you to do..  unless you want  to   stand there meekly  and let her destroy what should be the peace and  tranquility  of your and your husband's  lives -  is  take a  stand  and Tell  this selfish, self-centered, self-serving piece of  garbage  whom you so unfortunately  have as a daughter,  that  you have already done all -  and in fact  more -  than you have  the means to do..   She is;pulling one of the oldest  games in the book  with those who feel obliged to fall over backwards for her  because of blood relationship   .....emotional blackmail.... and you have  allowed yourselves to  fall for it hook, line, and sinker.    Enough  already.    You  can't   "save the world"  and   those are  HER children,  so you  cannot  be held  responsible for  them  either.      You  have  already allowed this outrageous situation  to go on  waaaaay  too long,  and the  very behaviour that you have  described,  defines her   exactly for what  she  really is....  a  mean,  selfish, ungrateful,  freeloading opportunist  who needs  to be made to  hit the road  before  she  succeeds in  ruining   your  and your husband's  lives,  and  your health.
522421
It is going to get harder on you, rather than her. The shots are nothing compare on what your feelings will be. When she starts getting her shots, her hair will start growing and her voice will changed. You must really love her to go through this with her and not leave her alone. But your feelings is what I am concern with. You will experience, the lost of a wife, you will get angry because she is doing this to you, you will be in a sort of merry go round, for a long time. She will be too, but not as much because she is doing what she wants to do. One thing I will tell you, you are not responsible for what she is doing, it is not your fault, it is nothing that you did. Try to get some help for you in the meantime, because with all the changes in her you will be feeling less than a man. Remember, my friend, you are a good man, and the same man you have always been, keep your head up.  But I must tell you also, you are a very strong man and I do salute you for that. God be with you both.Sincerely, Boricua
608279
Start out by reporting her for disturbing the peace. Do it every time she starts screaming at you. If they won't come out and do anything about it, this is what you do. Go to the Police Dept during regular business hours and file a complaint regarding lack of response on your problem. Tell them that you feel threatened by this woman. Keep a journal of every time you call and everything she does. Write down dates and times for everything. After you have several calls down and several incidents recorded, go to your city or county courthouse and ask the clerk of court about filing for a protection order. A protection order says that she can no longer attempt to communicate with you in any way. She can still yell at your husband or guests, but not you. Once you are at that level, go to your apartment managers again with copies of all this information. Still can't get rid of her? Take your info to an attorney for civil matters. You may have a nice case for a lawsuit. You may also want to have your husband file for a protection order as well. Hopefully you get a good repsonse from the police and she starts getting tickets for disturbing the peace. Do you know her name? You can check with the county courthouse and get her criminal record if she has one. Check with them and see what they will charge you for the information. In my area it's ten dollars for anybody's info. Build up and save your evidence and you should see her going bye bye, before long. If I can be of any further assistance, let me know.
485982
wow she's totally crazy! i think what your doing with the video and the restraining order is right,--you should also carry a video camera with you and videotape anything she personally does to you, also record any phone calls you and your bf receive--- trust me this girl is just waiting for you to slip and either verbally or physically attack her, then your in trouble--so stay calm and do everything strategically--get the evidence and let the law deal with the crazy bitch. you dont need to get you hands dirty with her.
665783
speak to ur husband then get police involed......get her away from u she jealous and obbsessed
658368
She sounds crazy; if you keep her around, she is going to continue to try to controll you.  Drop her.
234391
The threats are disturbing.  Consult the police and be very very careful.  People like that carry out their threats.
574056
Although my boyfriend is grown, I had to watch him battle with his mother when he decided to get from under her and make life a better for himself. She did everything she could to undermind him. She belittled him, spread rumors, stole from him, brought drama to our home to break us up... You name it, she did it. Eventually he had to cut her completely from his life. It's been eight months since he last seen or spoken to her. What finally did was she lied and called the police on him, trying to get him arrested. I honestly think that something is wrong with her mentally.
362124
I would call the police... she could end up hurting you , lots of weirdos in this world!
328802
i wish to do..but my girlfriend will kill me
448455
Go find another place to live.  It's obvious this person is bothering you.  If you're worried about being raped, it's a no-brainer -- LEAVE!!