and this guys has never  seen me i've never seen him and he wants to go out with me how can i tell if hes lieing? is he too old for me? he lives in ft.worth i live in garland. do long distances relationships work out?what if he wants more but always say it but has never asked me out or should i go for it?im confuse i dont want to make the wrong choice.what if i told him that i was going out with another guy and he got mad but i was only doing it to see if he really likes me but he did get mad should i have done that move?but if i only been talking to this guy and never seen him and we've been talking for almost 2 full months if we were to be together will our relationship work?what if hes mad that i told him that i was with another guy just to see where we were at in our relationship and hes still a little mad do you think he truly likes me?i really need some help on this one but i trut yall will give me tha help i need.he wants to be more than friends but im not sure if what do i do??
125957
online dating is dangerous. i suggest you don't do it at all.
204965
Well,you answered your own question. Maybe he already has a date,seeing somebody,or just isn't interested in you. In,your question you said MY GUY,then are you fighting and this is why he doesn't want to go out with you. Because he couldn't be your guy,if you have never gone out before,oh well I'm confused now. Have a wonderful weekend all.
77551
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
54784
by the tone of your question, he is taking too long for you, so with the age difference he probably won't try to approach you.  If you are sure you want him..... then just tell him....you only live once!
172239
I'm 42, going on 43. I can honestly tell you, it could take \nany thing from 4 months to 1 year. It's possible the guy is shy or feels too busy, depending on time and location you see him. Try to get to him by expressing yourself to him, and or by expressing your self to someone close to him (perhaps his mother?).
285830
well i would go see him first and see how things are between you 2 face to face! maybe he just wants to see you and talk as friends,but if thats not the case you'll be able to see if he still is interested in you!
383230
Well l guess it's all up to you. If he really liked you , you would think he would of asked you out by now. Do you think that perhaps he thinks you just want to be friends with him. You have your work cut out for you then.I guess you will have to give him the nod and let him know you are keen on him. Depending on how long he has been single he may need some more time. Only you will know by the response you get whether he is keen on you or not. Good Luck  just speak to him.
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Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
589226
If its been that long, of course he would go out with you since he knows you very well. Its best to ask him out now before it is to late. He might then find a girl and then you would then be ashamed of yourself for not asking when you had the chance to. He might take it in a friendly way but if you show or let him know that you want a little more than friends, then he'll know. So ask him out and tell him how you feel about him. It wont hurt him but make him happier.
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My rule of thumb, is never to date anyone that works with you, unless they are in a different dept., or you don't see them during your everday.  Because if it doesn't workout it can backfire.  I think the time frame for being in the friend category is anything past 3 flirting sessions.  Then I would wonder does this guys have b.alls enough to ask me out?  I guess not, then I would move on and just be friendly with you.  I hope it works out for you, step it up a notch.  Don't worry if she says no, there are many other girls.
445430
Sounds like you guys have a great friendship going on.  Just keep up the good friendship and if you want to take it to the next level and you don't know if he does or not, then you are going to have to find out.  When you think the time is right, talk with him and ask him if he could ever see you two together?  Make sure after you ask that you get a serious answer.  After that you will know if the time is right for a relationship and if he is ready or not.  He may like you but not be ready, so it's your call when and if you want to pursue it further.
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Does he wish to go out with you?  If yes, that is one less thing you have to consider.\n\nAge is DEFINATELY just a number, though if you are not of legal age in your country and he is, please stop all contact with him or stay only friends because he could get in trouble for being with a minor.  \n\nAnother thing is... Please use caution with being online.  I honestly cannot stess enough the stories I have heard of people who have pretended to be someone they are not, people who try to take advantage of others in illegal or hurtful ways, and all of this stuff. If you take your relationship into offline life make sure that you do the following:  tell your friends about this person (including his name, where he is from and all of that) make sure that if you do meet you do so in a public place with other people around and take a friend with you, if you are in a position to do a background check on him do so, and the rest of the necessary things to keep you safe.  I am NOT saying all people online are predators, some are very nice people and I met my future husband in a Yahoo! Chatroom but I also used very reasonable precautions when going forward with meeting with him and such.\n\nIf you both like eachother and are both of legal age, go for it; a wonderful, trusting relationship is a rare find and sometimes you have to take it where you can get it.  Just try not to pay attention to what people say about finding someone off the internet.  Though, if you feel there is something wrong in your relationship at anytime, look into it... don't dismiss anything.
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Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck
444724
who hasn't been there? i think u should be straight up with this guy if u really are good friends...and then make him be straight up with you. If he wants to be with u, he needs to show it undoubtably. And if he's wishy-washy, move on. You'll never end up happy if u let him string u along.
598883
hi emily!! if you like him then go for it..but the only main thing that you should know your limitations..i hope u know what i mean..me i like to date older guys too but my experienced is not that great..most of them they will try to use you..some of them they just really likes you for who you are..youre still young and there's a lot of guy out there and its your decision whether u want to take a chance..get to know him first and ull see..and ask him straight like what his intensions for you!!!then ull go from there!\n\ntake care
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
366364
Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!