I want  one guy to ask me out and to be his girl friend  but he don't. How could I make him to do that or  what should I do?
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Try to gain his friendship first, then tell him how you feel.  If he feels the same way you would not have to wait too long.\n\nYou cannot make someone want to be with.
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You can't make some one like you.  It's just something that happens.  But you could try doing some of the things he likes to do.  Show him that you two have some things in common.  Send subtle signals without coming on too strongly and not acting like a crazy stalker.  That's definately a turnoff and alittle freaky.  Other than that, he's either going to fall for you or he's not.  There isn't much else you can do.  Go out with other guys and do the things you like.  Don't NOT date because it's not HIM who's doing the asking.  Sometimes all guys need is to see that you aren't available then they realize how much their missing.
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Well,you answered your own question. Maybe he already has a date,seeing somebody,or just isn't interested in you. In,your question you said MY GUY,then are you fighting and this is why he doesn't want to go out with you. Because he couldn't be your guy,if you have never gone out before,oh well I'm confused now. Have a wonderful weekend all.
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Well, I'm no guy, but I know this, he'll look at you ALOT. Maybe, you should ask him. That;s what I did, and he said yeah. It's simple. But, try to be suddle. Dont just come up to him and say DO YOU LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE ME? Just ask like, hey um, wanna go out? But dont take my advice if you dont want to.
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i'd say talk to him a little more maybe get to konw him then ask him out because guys say that often to their guy friends but sometimes it doesn't mean that they want to hook up or be with that girl
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do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
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As a guy I would say "Leave it alone and don't ask." If you go up to him and ask him why he turned you down he is going to feel pressured and on the defensive. It is not going to change the fact that he said "No", so what good will it do besides to satisfy your curiosity? If you put him in that position I can guarantee that he will recent you and you won't have a chance with him. He will see you as being pushy, aggressive, stalker like and annoying and will stay away from you. If I were you, I would be friendly, smile, say "hi", and let him know that his saying "No" didn't affect you in any way. Guys can't stand indifference, so if he does like you, it may make him decide to ask you out on his own. Some guys just don't like for the girl to be the chaser. I'm not saying that is right, but it's the way some guys think. I don't have a problem with it myself. I like when a girl knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after the guy.\nk.m.
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As a guy I know myself: Guys like girls who are creative. You can start by being a friend and showing intrest in him. You can subtley hint to him indicating your attraction to him. Give him a girly look that cant be mistaken. You have let him know somehow but be creative and be smart. Avoid silly games involving your friends; you alone have to win him over by yourself and without the involvement of his friends or yours. Please do not try too hard or be too aggressive; he'll run awayfrom you. Best Wishes
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You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
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To put it plainly guy's don't want Girls as friends they want girlfriends, he wouldn't bother with you if he didn't feel someit. So chance it definitely darlin', its better to have tried and failed than to never have tried.
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I had this problem, just pretend your only interested in his friendship and act like you're a very confident person.  Guys love a girl who is confident it makes you seem more attractive.
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Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com
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I find most of the time if a fella is interested he will make it known and is perfectly capable of asking you out.  He might not have any strong interest in dating yet if he is about your age.  You could put yourself out on a limb and ask him and there is nothing wrong with a girl asking, if you won't take it personally if he's not interested.  I would just slow down, enjoy your girlfriends, do group stuff, wait until your old enough to take the risk and not be broken when you learn not just the highs of relationships but how devastating they often are too.
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make little comments to make it known to him you want him to ask, becouse alot of times i really wanna ask but i can't becouse i get the feeling it is to soon\n\nthen the next day i talk to her best friend and she the girl is mad becouse i didnt ask her out\n\n\nmake it clear without telling him direct\n\nlittle jokes work well
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Oh...I know how you feel.\nThis is what you do:\n1.Send a note to him and tell him not to get the wrong idea.\n2.Send a note to him and tell him to be friends first.\n3.When he agrees, ask him out, but you must have an excuse for asking him out, or else I dont think he will agree.\n4.Ask him to go out to teach you school work or just hanging out.\n5.On your first date ask other people along, so you both wont get nervous.\n6.Dont bring 2 other friends that are dating because that would be a double date!\n7.After being good friends, you will then ask him for his address, email, and etc. etc.\n8.Contact him and ask him to hang out sometime with you- alone- I mean after a few weeks of hanging out with a few of his and your other friends.\n9.If you act natural and get him to know your background more and you know his background more, he may be able to accept you!\n10.You will be together forever- I mean not forever lar...LOL.\nOk. Thats my reply on your question.\nTry it out!\nIt happened to me once but I didnt use this method.\nI hope you will succeed.\nRegards,\nnyla
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Talk to him, as a chick you hold all the cards in dating and relationships. Ask him out, chances are you'll catch him off guard but he'll probably go out on a date with you.(guys tend to fall for friends more often than they'd admit). If your not comfortable with that spend time with his ala'date but as friends first.