Is it true that men offer love for sex??? Are they only after carnal pleasures from the onset of the relationship.Don't they understand that the very essence of the relationship lies in bonding on a higher level???? I am curious to find this out!!!!!!!!!!
123829
Men are very sexual beings and often offer, or pretend to offer, love for sex.  Women often do the opposite and offer sex for love.  Of course emotional intimacy is the most important part of the relationship and the part that lasts, but men's make up does not really allow for that.  They are physical and visual creatures and women are emotional creatures.  How in the world do we ever pair up???  With maturity, men do come around...that is why women mostly marry guys who are older, they mature at a later age and women need to find ones who meet their own maturity level.
392440
I think that people should be in love before they have sex. It is a way to express how you feel about the other person.  Sex without love is just empty. I was in a loveless marriage for years, even though the physical aspect was good, it was not fulfilling emotionally.
48154
Great stuff.... where do I sign up?  Of course a man can "love" more than one: say he loves (in different context) his mother, grandmother, sister, cousin, daughter...  In relationships, same thing.... question is... are they worthy of being loved, in the first place.... Poligamy is the natural order of things.... monogamy the unnatural order of things.... hence typically disastrous.....
470984
Sex is the biggest NEED for a man.  Most men I know would have little trouble choosing between sex and a steak dinner.\nHaving said that sex is important, most men, whether they admit it or not, seek emotional connection THROUGH sex.  Most women seek emotional connection BEFORE sex.\nNow just having generalized, I don't think about it ALL the time.  And I can testify that it is possible for a guy to stay faithful.
84130
Damn girl , you ask some tough questions.\nWeather it counts or not , here is my view on this one.\nYou don't like sex? hmmmmmmm.\nHave you tried making love instead?\nThe art of making love consists of two people in love , coming together in a sexual act.\nNot liking sex can only suggest that you do not have any feelings for the other person participating within the "sex".\nFor most men , a relationship revolves around sex , if he don't get it , you don't get him.\nThat may sound harsh , but unfortunately , it's the truth.\nIf you are with a man that you truly love , i'm sure the results will be different.\nNow , I can't be serious all the time , so i'm going to end this answer with a joke. (please don't take offence at it , it's just a joke.)\n"those who think sex is a pain in the arse , are usually getting it in the wrong hole."
599861
guys are very sexual and if you don't care about there needs then they will stray . also in a relationship there are many key  factors you must take into consideration trust, love, communication, comprimise, and sex, sex is about 50% if not more of what makes or breaks a relationship and the other part is the rest of what it takes to keep a relationship solid.
171656
i don't think it is shallow for a man to think of sex all the time...really i would think he wasn't normal if he didn't think of sex most of the time...i know woman that think of sex all the time..and honestly i wouldn't mind if my guy thought of sex all the time as long as i was the one he was thinking about having sex with.
393356
As a general rule...men have a more animalistic approach to sex.  It doesn't men can't be passionate, be in love, etc, etc...it just means that a lot of guys view sex as simply getting off.  If you put a bunch of straight guys in a situation where no women are involved for an extended period of time, (like a navy submarine) there is a very good chance that some sex is gonna be happening.  Not all of em...but guys who are comfortable in their straigthood might be ok with a quickie from another guy....some other guys might realize their deep-seeded homosexual desires that have been repressed.  All depends on the person.  \n\nBottom line is...guys just wanna get off...if there isn't any women around...and the situation is right...a good percentage of straight guys might have a homosexual experience and not be necessarily gay.
237238
People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
149443
I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
138640
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.
471744
You are entitled to withhold sex whenever you want.  I think, however that Love is not demonstrated just in sex.  Does he do other things that make you feel like he loves you, does he care about your well-being?  about your interest? does he treat you with respect and affection?  If he loves you he would not want to hurt you and confuse you.  If it was me, I would stop having sex, and would start simply dating.  I just want to say that you want a guy who is certain that he wants you and wants to work on the entire relationship not just sex.
543666
I think depending on the age of the guy, that has something to do with how they "love" and "stop loving" on a regular basis.  Most guys I know between the ages of 16-25 only want sex.  They'll do anything, and say anything just to get something.  Once they get what they want, they make up a lame excuse and prey on another girl. It's life and it sucks.
603942
The sex is important yes, but I love being with my man. The way he holds me, a random touch of the cheek, a kiss out of the blue. Being held at night without going in for sex. The feeling of being loved is more important than sex.
176621
I am 71... and I have loved one person througout my married life for 48 years... (now through death, am single again) and I can tell you that over those 48 years, sex had started out as the "seed" of the loving relationship, but it developed into the "fruit" of the relationship... and the blending of our two personalities and souls into a working relationship became more important than just the sex.  The first 7 years of a relationship are sexually based... Called the "Limerick Stage of Love" (spelling may be wrong...) then that starts to evolve into a deeper more lasting relationship, and this is what builds over the years into a solid foundation that carries you both through the bad, difficult and trying times together.  You each have to decide what is important to you and based upon your decisions, you will then know what is best for you both... and can work things out for each partner's growth and benefit. Hope this helps... Blessings!  \nPS... With the waning of this strong bond of sexual love in those first 7 years... people usually make the mistake that they are "falling out of love" and it is time for a divorce.  They do not follow thru and endure... and have faith that something more wonderful will develop... most loving relationships today are totally sexually based... and as the loss of interest in sex wanes... so goes the relationship... Not the best bases for a 50 year lasting relationship... don't you think???
302634
Wanting, and needing to cheat? Shows that there are, in some cases a different set of circumstances that trigger such desires to be accomplish, as much for man as for woman's? Honesty and dedication are the basic needs that in such scenario are obviously missing. I don't really know what, and why there are such impulses so indescribably real, though I believed overall cheating is a sign of immaturity as well of insecurity from the two, as well than the third sided triangle? been involved in the act of cheating. Though I know that depend of the circumstances and especial cases of each individuals involved the results are most all the time, disastrous. As well than a very bad and sad experiences, if there are Children's involved.---Thou lol..., I will subjects to all to avoid it-----, especially went this become a sex-basic act of betrayal.
5335
i told ya. sex is how ppl show how much affection they have for there partner. it's not a necessity. as long as you have your way of showing how much you love your partner that's all there is to it! :) it's SO not about sex only. it's a way of showing affection.