I am slightly overweight and my husband thinks I'm fine, what does everyone else think? I definetly have curves but I'm not huge....
125664
i like a bit curvey.  My ex was too skinny i did not like it.  I dont understand anorexics(DONT KNOW HOW TO SPELL) They would look much nicer naturally.
399562
i think you 're the one who needs to decide if it stays or goes.if you're happy with it then dont worry.if you think it's a turn off then do something about it.  Personally my hubby gained a little around his belly and it just gave me more to hang onto to....his personality didn't change....and hes not sloppy fat so we're good...
76942
Whether you are skinny or fat no one should make fun of your size. By your measurements, you are not fat. Don't worry about your size, as long as you're confident with yourself you shouldn't worry about what others say. If you have a problem with what you're boyfriend is saying, talk to him. If he has an issue with your weight then he doesn't deserve a great girl like you!
485253
Not at all!! You are fine...definitely not overweight.  I'm 5'5 and about 118lbs...you are normal, if not a little underweight!
173244
You are not at all over-weight. Get ur BMI(Body to Mass Index) checked. If its 24 or less, I think you are just doin fine. You really dont want to be called skinny, do you?
342283
My opinion is:  no.  I really don't like skinny models.  Also, I don't like really obese people.  Neither are healthy and could sustain life if it were not for a really invasive pop culture.  IMHO.  \n\nYou may use my opinion.  And may I add I have a really healthy appearance and I'm able-bodied.
226220
I don't think that's too skinny. When we got married, my husband, who is 6'5", weighed 140 pounds!! Now, HE looked like a toothpick with an adam's apple!! When he turned sideways, he didn't cast a shadow!!\n\nIn the 36 years since then, he's put on some weight, and now weighs 160-165. I think he looks a little better now.\n\nYour weight sounds fine for your height and age. If you want to look better, maybe you should work out and put on just a little bit more muscle instead of going for weight gain.
128595
I felt a little guilty reading this. You are right. We say that we just want a good man, but we look at the abs too. I am short and have a lot of boobs and junk in the trunk, but no junk anywhere else, so thank you for giving me and other women like me respect. I am not fat (fab abs.. gotta brag a little work hard at them) but educated, but I do see your point. (@blonde coley) For all the trash that you just talked, honey you better be a perfect dime peice. To talk that much trash, you need to make at least 100,000 a year, have a PhD. and be the most desireable thing that ever walked the earth. My guess is that you probally are not. I wonder how many heads that you turn at the beach..What makes me sick is when an inadequate person tries to find fault in others. You have to be lacking to be so angry. Before you say that I must be heavy, no baby, I have DD with a 25" waist and booty, but I am confident enough in myself to not have to put someone down to feel better about myself. I have a feeling that you are the skinny, pale guy at the beach that have his shorts pulled up really high in the front, with the swim flippers on.(or the girl that looks like the skinny pale guy)
565153
Yes, your friends are right!  Only women think that being super thin is cool.  Why do think guys look at girls who look curvy, if you know what I mean!  Everything should be real.  They like it if its natural.    After all why do think our bodies are made different than men?  Of course it has to be curvy.
355138
I am also flat chested. I am 23 and married. I was worried about it my whole life. I always thought what do the guys think. I wore padded bras to make it look like I was a little bigger. I didn't tell my husband until 1 month before we were married. I felt like I had to tell him before we were married and then he would find out. It's all good. He loves me just the way I am.
544174
You should not be upset about your size unless it is slowing you down in different activities that you particapate in. If your weight slows you down and affects your daily actions and routines then you should be upset. As long as you feel good about yourself and you know that your health is not in danger than continue to be the beautiful person that you say you are. Dont worry about what other people have to say about, because then you will never be able to except yourself for the way you are. People are always going to have something to say no matter if you weigh 300 pounds or 135pounds, thats why if your comfortable and your health is not at risk then keep on living!!!!!!!!!!!
200953
Lots of men like women with some padding.  Compromise...don't gain and only lose enough to be in the healthy range...not to have an anorexic appearance.  Be happy that he isn't that type of man to leave you because you aren't the slender thing he married...men have been known to do that.  Count your blessings!
623131
well, he just means that you're not skinny.... nothing wrong with that because he obviously likes it. Don't worry about it unless he starts making an issue about your weight. Good luck.
132312
Looks like your letting how you feel confuse you to how things really are. Seems like your husband tries hard to let you know he appreciates you, at least from what it sounds like.\n\nIt sounds to me like you are insecure about your weight, and that you veiw yourself as unattractive. You are trying to solve the problem without, when the problem is within. No ammount of encouragement from your husband will help you unless you make up your mind to be encouraged. It sounds to me like he loves you dearly, finds you very attractive, and wants you very much in his life. Don't let your feelings lie to you and tell you otherwise. It seems to me like you are interperating things from him that he doesn't really feel, because that is really how you feel. It's not him that thinks you are fat and ugly, but you are afraid he does. Again, from what you've told me, I'm fairly sure he thinks just the opposite!\n\nNow, if part of the problem is, as you said above, that he isn't more interested in sex, don't nessisarily look to yourself as the cause. He may be busy at work, which leaves him tired and stressed at night. He may have some difficulties in that area, perhaps something clinical. You should both sit down and talk about this, together, and be patient with him, not nagging, whiney, or demanding, but letting him know how you feel, and listening to his side patiently.\n\nIf you are contributing to this part of the problem at all, it is probably from your insecurity, not your looks. If you feel ugly, and act like you feel ugly, you will make yourself seem less attractive. Don't keep thinking of yourself as unnattractive! Remember that your husband loves you, he wouldn't likely have married you if he didn't think you are attractive! Be confident, quit looking at what you think are your flaws, and concentrate on what makes you attractive. Think of yourself as attractive, and you will BE more attractive simply by how you act from it.\n\nI hope and pray everything works out well, and God bless!
631038
http://health.yahoo.com/ency/healthwise/aa122915/aa126305\n\nIt sounds like you are probably a very healthy weight for your size. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
543416
Be thankful that you are able to keep the weight off...i try and I am still fat...i wish i had as thin of legs as you...you have no right to complain...
331890
Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!