If the guy your dating right now got a hand job from someone you hate a month before you started going out, would you confront him about it?
125629
Do you want him to confront you about every relationship you had in the past?  The past is the past and you weren't together so it is best to just let it go.
104154
Im telling you I hate it when this happens!  SOME guys are just soooooo persistent!  I use to bartend and I had one guy who came in every single day just to see if I had kicked my hubby out yet!  He would call the bar and he's send me presents, and tip very very well.  Im really bad at hurting peoples feelings.  I HATE being mean!  cannot help it!  Finally I just had to tell him- ok- here we go- tell him u r lesbian!  lol  Ok maybe not!  lol  I would just tell him- sorry- Im not interested.  Then just kinda avoid him at all costs!!!!  I really do feel for u!  Good luck friend!
456343
No, I don't think it's the guy's job at all. If you want to be with him, you should ask him out :)
338612
It would depend on the circumstances.  If he kissed another girl when we first started dating, that's one thing.  If he was banging his secretary last week, that's a totally different ball park.
440971
I am old fashion...He pays for the date, always.  I refuse to accept his role in the relationship.  I think the problem with most men is that we as working, independent women feel the need to display our equality.  I don't.  I am equal but you will open my door.  I am equal, but you will pay for the date.  I am equal but if you see me carrying heavy bags or see something in my house that needs repair, you will offer your services.  And in return, I cook my butt off, never say no and make each intimate moment an adventure.  Also, leave that tired clown alone, he's not a real man and will never make you happy.
591245
Wow, that is not alright. If a guy wants to take you on a date he should finance the whole date. I am not saying that you should not continue to date him, but you may want to be wary of him. If he is this thrifty so early in the relationship, just imagine how he'd be down the road. Personally, I probably would not continue to see him romantically. Mr.Cheapy McCheapskate can just be your friend if he wants to do things that way.
254668
I think that you should be mad at him because now he is going out with a nother girl and sounds like he used you for money. Are you single and how old are you and what state do you live in?
65848
I would definitely not go out with him, because a)  he's afraid to be commmited.  Really, why be with someone who will dump you in 3 weeks or less? b)He thinks he is better than you- why should someone like him go out with someone like you? *please, I'm not trying to offend you* c)he's not even sure if he really likes you.  Come on, why else would he keep it a secret? d) he's afraid of what his friends/coworkers/parents might think.  If he's afraid of what they might think, chances are he's easily persuaded by others and doesn't even trust himself(or his decisions), which will make it hard for you to trust him. e) he's using you! who says he doesn't have another girlfriend and that's the real reason he doesn't want anyone to know?  Don't let yourself be used!
342650
Leave this guy now.  He wouldn't be wandering off for a week at a time and giving you a lame story.  Regardless of how bad his luck has been, he'd consider your feelings if he cared about you.  This guy is a jerk!
633270
My BOSS!  The jerk who got mad at me this morning because I went to the restroom and wasn't there to pick up his phone call, the jerk who yelled at me for not sending him the e-mail he requested (and then I found the e-mail on his inbox unread half hour later) and finally...the guy that just asked me if we got a fax from his doctor when I had given it to him (in hands) less than 20 minutes ago.\nIf I could...I would hack into his eharmony.com account and change his profile from "charming gentleman" to "old pervert"!
239867
what do you care what's going on?  You already screwed the guy, why worry about any of the rest of the typical dating rituals now?
487624
no if he doesnt know how to behave on a date in public then get rid of him now or you will always have this problem
124613
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
46330
Dont hide it...If your boss finds out screw him..if you get fired then find another job cuz that one wasn't worth having in the first place. Nobody can tell you who to and not to date.
568741
Im a guy and I hate dudes that do this kind of stuff,makes it hard for those of us that dont cheat.[we're not all dogs] So check it out CONFRONT HIM.
647272
What did you expect?  Bruised ego or not, what you did was not kind.  How would you think or react to a guy who told you to "get a breast job and better attitude and he would ask you out" ?\n\nYou asked for a conditional relationship.  He either does not like the conditions or is looking for an unconditional relationship.
534324
I suppose it would depend where the date was.  As long as he was dressed appropriately to the venue I really wouldn't mind.  If it was somewhere special and he hadn't made an effort (particularly if it was a first date) then yes I would feel upset.  All the additional information is really besides the point.  I mean great that you have done well for yourself but that has nothing to do with what you wear to meet me.  \n\nAlso it would depend if he did it to test/trick me because he doesn't trust people to like him for him and not his wealth.  Though I can understand that I would no longer be interested in him.  You are either honest from the start or don't bother.\n\nThe taking a bus part has no impact at all.  I really wouldn't care which mode of transport he takes to meet me as long as he is punctual or at least calls if he is running late.\n\nI like laid back people so that element would not be a problem either.  The alternative being someone who is uptight I will always go for a laid back guy.\n\nHope that answers your question, for me at least.  Can't answer for all the ladies out there but then that would make life far to easy for all the men! ;-)