i have this REALLY good friend, and i dont know wat she will think if i ask her out. the thing is that i dont wanna jeperdise our great friendship. ive liked her for a long time now and i just dont know wat to do.
136229
Go ahead and ask her out. Anyways, she is your friend. You have nothing to lose!
259041
she probably doesnt want to lose u, thats why shes tryin to get closer to u as a friend. but i wouldnt know better than ur friends nor hers. so if u really like her, ask her out again, its worth a shot. things could only get better. otherwise just settle for being friends.
172031
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
276569
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
14289
That;s a hard blow!The only thing that you can do,is not tell your friend that  you like him.Or if she already knows, i am sure that she won't date him for  your sake.You got to remember, there are billions of guys out there.If they do date, just hang with other friends, and tell her that you just want time with her, the same as before, because you don't feel like being the 3rd wheel.It won't be long till another guy catches your attention, and than you can double date.Its not like you were intimate with this guy, so it will be fine,it will just take time to mend your heart after being rejected.Good luck!
481536
If you guys are great friends don't mess it up.  If she wants to go on the next level then you'll know.  But belive me some times haveing a great frindship is a whole lot better than beling involved.
22715
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
257667
if you really think that she's sending you signals and you really like her, then i guess theres no harm in asking her out. a safer way may be to have one of her friends explain whats going on, because she may just be acting that way to show that she really does want to continue being friends and that she likes you, even if it isnt on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. so try and find out what shes really thinking. good luck! =]
559370
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating.  She may be happy that you have spoken up!  When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed.  I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?\n\nGood luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
629976
Well, its tough.  Maybe u can ask a mutual friend to ask her if she likes you.  If your friend does say that she likes you..then you can feel a lot more confident in asking her out and not being rejected..if you don't know anyone..just ask her out! Better to know now, then later..so you can move on or you can go out with her.
232461
Dude, hang in there. Women have a habit of changing their minds about once a week. So stay as charming and bright as possible with her, just joke around with her and be her friend, and dont pressure her or ask her if she likes you. Trust me, just cause she told your friend this does not mean too much, go with the flow.
460335
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
652264
well i try and be with her most of the time and "pretend" to be her best friend u no... go out of my way to do things for her buy her gifts and stuff, take her out and talk to her alot! then i sart dropping hints like hypothetic questions for ex: "what would i do if i should ask u out?" and see what she has to say!
387229
Forget about your friend getting info.  If, as you say, she is nice to you, she is likely to go out with you at least once, or turn you down in a NICE way.  Go ahead and ask her out.
342854
Extremely weird, she wants to look into a relationship, but all the goodies go to your friend.  Sorry, need to next her.  You're friend can have her, no wait he has....
390421
If she turns you down, the worst thing to do is push her. Be friends, be nice, but don't bloat her head with compliments, be real.\n\nIf the two of you are friends, maybe that friendship will bloom into something beautiful (like a relationship or a great friendship). If not, sorry, dissapointment happens. \n\nPlease, please, please do not constantly tell her how great she is. If you do you are belittling yourself...if she is not intrested in dating, be her friend.
228570
If she's really as great a friend as you say she is, she's not going to laugh.\n\nAsk to have a few words with her and take her aside.  Tell her straight up that you've been having feelings for her, but that you don't have to act on it if she's not comfortable.  \n\nDon't pressure her for an answer.  Give her time to think.  A couple days to a week is sufficient, and if she still hasn't responded to you, bring it up again gently by saying something like, "hey, about before, I'm sorry for telling you so suddenly, I didn't mean to shock you." and just leave it at that.  Don't tell her that you've changed her mind, and if she asks if you have, tell her no.  That will remind her that you have feelings and if she's done thinking, she'll give you her answer, but if she's not, she'll keep thinking.\n\nThat's about all the advice I can give you here.  Good luck, man!