What should I do, he keeps reporting all of my questions.  He sent me 4 e-mails saying that he loves me and wants to "be with you(me)"  What should I do?
124130
report him, and ignore him.\n\nHe's probably really happy that you;re acknowlidging him by asking this question though.
492015
Honey, walk away.  He's just not being truthful and that is what you should be worried about.
257753
Is it a must you have to answer them? You received them from the chain e-mails, didn't you? Throw them away and find time for something else better. They are just senseless, and don't believe that you shall get a bad luck for not answer them.
229672
Yeah...it sounds familiar ...I have an ex who tried the same...basically you have to set boundaries as it's not appropriate for him to visit you given his feelings and the fact that you're committed to another man. Tell him to use the phone or mail to communicate but don't expect him to go away -it's been 18 years since my ex has been doing this but as he's basically harmless I haven't really cared. The important thing is -is your ex harmless? Or is he someone who may act on his obsession? Finally I want to say -be sure you're not sending mixed signals...I've seen too many women not be clear about their wishes only to whine or press charges later when it's their fault for not being direct in the first place! Be honest with him and tell him to scram! There's my advice...I hope you take it! Edit~ I got your mail....If you hate him as you say AND HE HAS 'HURT YOU SO BAD' then why are you putting up with him then? Get a restraining order! Call the police and file a complaint and ask them to tell him to stay away! I thought maybe you still liked him on some level but since that's not the case you need to be pro active! Don't sit here on yahoo talking about it-do something about it -and I mean right now-today! Make sure you don't regret not doing anything!!!!!!!!! Everyday you let this go on-you encourage him more, and give him hope and he will become more relentless! You have been warned!
22211
from what you say you only danced with him a few times and he got your name and number and you did not give it to him. and now he comes to your house you did not say wether or not you gave him your address or if he found that to. and now he wants to marry you. Well let me tell you he is a physco. i bet you realised that already. i went to pay my electric bill i called on the phone and started talking to the man that was on the other end. we ended up starting to talk outside of his company. he lived in another state. one day he got on a plane came to my home and said he wanted to get married. i did not no what to say because i thought stalker. within two days a call came in and it was from his daughter that did not no where he went to and did not no who i was. the story finally ends when i found out he has been wanted for 10 years and in 3 different states and i worked closely with them to capture him. now he is in prison. what i am saying to you is you do not no him. why all of a sudden do you think he would become that attatched to you. you need not to worry about his feelings because you need to worry about yourself. you do not no what he really has in store for you. and i would make it clear that he is not to cantact you again and that is it. you do not need to explain anything to him. this is not your problem it is his. if he does call you again then take the steps that you told him you would. be firm and good luck
356267
Why are you letting this guy make you crazy?  Why is he the one making all of the decisions?  You're smart, if a girlfriend of yours just told you what you've told us, what would you say to her???  Maybe it's time to move on...
166814
Looking at this and your other questions I would say dump him and find someone who appreciates you. I'm sure you'll find many takers
641977
HE will not change with you. Cut the strings, you have wasted enough precious time that you will never get back. He is feeding you a line about being afraid...get going and get on with your life. Good grief, I cannot believe you hung around this long!
238084
Sounds like a game, call him back if you like playing them.  Don't call him back if you don't like playing games.  Sounds like he needs to grow up some.
542833
You teach people how to treat you. If you're ok with being asked out by email and never spoken to, then he's your man. If you think he's playing games or messed up, stop responding to him. I don't know why you'd even care to figure him out- I'd just ignore him.
666626
if he is constantly accusing u and u know ur not doing anything to cause the accusations then maybe it's him cheating or he could be insecure from a past relationship or maybe controlling. it could be that he misses u too but the obvious is that he dosen't trust u. without trust your relationship is not whole it's always going to be a emptiness or the thought of "something going on when the other isn't looking". if he has to be breathing down your back and keeping a close eye on u at all times he is going to be the one pushing u away with all the constant pressure. u been together 6 moths the sepearation 3 weeks it sounds like to me that he is not so sure of wanting to marry u if he thinks ur cheating. ask him why would u want to marry someone u feel can't be faithful. everytime u separate to go anywhere the accusations will start, no good will come from it and it could lead to him putting his hands on u. your relationship needs trust or u will continue to have problems...hope this helps.
341730
he's acting like that because you are going to be divorced soon and I bet he is married.... just from the way he is reacting, so move on dear - and give yourself time to heal completely before trying to get into another relationship. (you have to resolve all the issues that lead to your failed marriage - if you don't you'll drag that old baggage into another relationship.) If there was anything there you two would of met in person.... you talked for a long time without meeting and that should of told you something about him. (I've only met one man online who wasn't married and he was honest with me about his personal life and that's the man I'm married to! We talked for about 2 months and then we met in person - he helped me with coming to Canada to meet him.... and we "clicked" - and got married 3 months later! We have been married for 4 yrs. as of Sept.28th).... While I was single and chatting with men online for years --- they all turned out to be married or living with someone(with whom they had kids with).
180769
AWW HE STILL LOVES YOU!\nHe wants you to get jealous and for you to run after him because he has to big of an ego to ask you.
339378
it's good you know that these thhings are now too much to take. DOn't tolerate each thng that he does. If you think you're being violated at this, yu shouldn't give much time for him. You'd rather have a breakup if he can't get better after explanations. After all, he is proving how immature he is with all that he does...
246226
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
481886
You don't mention what the arguments are about.  It sounds like he's trying to control you.  You're getting all tied into knots trying to figure out how to please him.  What is he doing to please you?  He gets things all wrong on purpose dear.  He is making you unsure of yourself, and he's with holding his affection from you.  I don't think I'm wrong about this.  Dump this jerk while you still have some self esteem left.
531614
What do you care....you said ignore you forever right? Stick to your guns and stop the madness. Sheesh! and if he messages you or calls don't answer. It is also important to do your part if this is what you really want. Or do you just want him to change and this is more of a ploy than something you really want?