the boy in my flat seems interested,but the fact that we have to see each other everyday,(and be cool infront of his friends puts him off the mood).\nwhat must i do?
121952
Try to be as elusive as possible so you don't ruin the mystery for him.  Don't do everying routine in plain sight of him that it seems you're brother and sister already or an old married couple.\n\nThere's really nothing wrong with dating your flatmate but if it doesn't work out, it could get really really complicated!
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
63872
he's just insecure by the circumstances around him. according to me the most appropriate way to solve this problem to go on a weekend holiday or u people shud go on a holiday and spend time wid him. make him feel that u r always there for him. i m sure he'll start feeling better after this
314794
ignor him for few day..let him realise what u r..generally people dont understand the things which are generally easily available.so turn ur attentation tuward something else and let him realise ur attention has diverted...he will then try to turn ur attention tuwards him..he wil realise...if it happens let me know n i wil suggest what to do next...mail me at
167367
Well, I don't know how long you have actually known him because you didn't say, but I would say to just keep your guard up.  It sounds like he may be pretty fickle, where you seem to know what you want.\n\nI would enjoy hanging out with him but try really hard to not allow it to get too serious with him.  \n\nEspecially if he said something "about not caring for you about three years ago".  I would be very careful and keep my eyes open for someone else.\n\nGood Luck
338992
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
596265
I think he wants to be 'cool' around his friends. My advice is to dump him if he can't show his true feelings around you.
141683
Let him know how you feel and tell him if now is not a good time to go visit to tell you the truth because you don't have much money but on the other hand you are going there to see him .... so ... if now is not a good time go another time and spend the whole day with him...  but if he wants to see you then go and see him when he gets outa work or after he goes with his friends....  \nQUESTION::: WHY CAN'T YOU STAY AT HIS HOUSE>?
2261
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
207268
Wow maybe you should try  give him some comments back when he tells you something nice! believe me we man like a lady in the streets but a freak in in the sheets so dont try to compete with the slutish. ask him wats he doing on the weekend or somting  then said something like you want to go see ice age2 or something see if he invites you. if that dont work then you should try to talk to him and let him know how you feel if that dont work\n leave him alone for while see wat he does if then let it go!
552048
Be yourself, if he doesnt like that then he's not worth it and you can do better with a hot preppy boy.... I suggest sticking to the hot preppy boys.
623013
He seems to like you, but you better not play hard to get or any mindgames - sounds like he has other options.  If you want him, you'd better jump.
642759
maybe you are getting the things done your way. remeber two people being together is respect. Are you respecting him on the things he do. I mean maybe after school a group of friend is going to play basketball and you just want to do somethings else? I mean in a group event. of course your boyfriend wants to stay and hang out, but if you are like, "I want to leave, it is boring" which it is, but he still want to stay. you can't blame him. if you don't want to play go home first, have him walk you home or something than have him come back.
417721
Try going out as a group again. You'll both feel more comfortable perhaps and if he "warms up" to you maybe you two will kick the others out and just be together.
362769
Maybe you should talk to him and express how you feel about the way he treating you, other than that maybe he wants space and have a GUY time with his friend
296903
If he'll be living close by, I'd suggest setting up a time once a week or something for you guys to spend time together, and don't let ANYTHING get in the way of it. Phone calls work too, but nothing beats actual physically being together.
396783
So, u have things in common, Why not try to let him see the "softer" side of you, say,, off the track.  Try to run into him in a social setting. so he can see what your all about