i've been having an affair with someone who appeared to be single; however, upon closer examination, surfs the internet and solicits sex
122172
Hmmm... if they actually have sex (physical) with strangers met on the internet, I would say get tested for every sexually transmitted disease and get the heck outta Dodge cowboy!
641870
i think it sounds like she has someone else hitting up on her and she wants to be with you but finds something interesting about the other one.
465360
To me, "hooking up" with someone is basically fooling around or sleeping with someone that you are not really serious with....
105041
Confront him.  You removed your profile, challenge him to make the same committment and remove his.  There are lots of ither fun sites on the Internet that are not dating related.
244633
perverts are experts at the internet when it comes to finding people.  Be careful.
150749
sure!  people make the internet out like all you're going to find is pedophiles and serial rapists, but let's be honest - the internet reaches everyone in the world, including you, including your potential soulmate!  it's no more dangerous than posting ads in the newspaper, and that's been going on for hundreds of years - because it works!
369002
i think you should stay with her; it is an online thing after all; think of it this way: would you appreciate it if she talked about your mutual affairs in public? but you are exposing the intimate details of your relationship here, right? so the anonymity of the internet is a shield for certain things, that would otherwise be unacceptable.
526430
If I found naked photographs of my fiancee on an adult dating site, I would ask myself why I am visiting an adult dating site if I am going to be married.
259417
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
159363
Maybe he is for real...not everyone is a liar and a cheat or has a hidden agenda.Just dont rush into anything.\n\nI met my a guy almost 7 years ago in an internet chatroom.\n\nWe are still best pals and.....happily married :)
246923
It may be that she is obsessed for some reason - what sort of contact have you had with her?\n\nIf she has created an impression that her attention is/was wanted then she may have become single-minded on that. She may be physically attracted to you or you may be the only person that has been pleasant to her.\n\nI am not saying that you have brought this on yourself but you do need to take precautions to prevent her continuing her behaviour. If necessary go to the police and don't wait until something 'bad' happens.\n\nIf you are being stalked online then take precautions and use whatever facilities are available on your mail, web-page, etc.
554871
Sure internet relationships have earned a BAD name because of all the losers out here (all that they do is lie about themselves). But I do believe that the internet is just another place where you meet people, like you can meet someone over the weekend at a club or a pub. You do need to be careful, and take steps to screen people, to check whether they are lieing or not. The easiest way is to identify where the person lives, and if its in the same city (I assume this is your case, otherwise meeting up is not possible) you can ask around about landmarks like the restaurant or pub that you visit. It may help to BOND your relationship or it may show that the person on the other side is a fraud and taking you for a ride.\n\nAbout your case, I'm not very sure about what has gone wrong. Its possible that he's had a bad experience before or that he's just pulling your legs and possibly stays in Cyberia ! :P lol\nI would advise you to stop pressing on him and let him relax; if he's interested in you he'll come back when he's ready to meet you. Sorry that I can't be of anymore help !
413700
Someone on the Internet can tell you anything and a lot they do tell you is just what you want to hear. Enjoy it has something to kill time but dont take it as a relationship you will only get hurt. There are plenty of married men out there that use girls like you as a toy yet still have loving and normal relationships with their wife's and children. Get away from the key board go out and meet someone in the flesh its much safer and real
637482
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
532319
yup sorry to tell ya but sounds like he's a pervert.\n\ngo see some one esle but i would have him turned in cause he does not need to be doing this to any one ever again right \n\ndont let him do this to some one else!!!
627218
Anything that has to do with sexual stimulation with another person that is not your significant other is cheating. Also, don't do unto others what you wouldnt want done to you. If your bf had cybersex , you wouldn't like it. \n\nRules of Thumb to consider: \n- Are you doing something you wouldn't want your partner to know about?\n- Are you keeping your cyber lover a secret?\n- Are you engaging in an activity you would hesitate to do in front of your real-life beloved? \nGenerally speaking, if any of these apply, the action could either be considered cheating or at the very least, damaging to your relationship. If you don't want your partner to know about your online attractions, then you should rethink your actions. \nIn effect, your real-life mate is the deciding factor. Ask yourself, “What perspective does my partner have about cyber sex?” If he or she feels betrayed, then there's the answer. \n\nSeveral red flags to consider:\n- Is there an emotional attachment to your cyber "friend?" \n- Do you look forward to "speaking" with this person?\n- Is your online relationship taking time away from your beloved? \nIf any of these apply, you may want to analyze your true intentions. Ask yourself, “Is this cyber communication a replacement for what I feel I am missing from my real partner?” Many cyber sex participants have admitted to participating in this activity because their sex life has fallen short of their expectations. If your cyber relationship is taking time away from your beloved, it’s time to decide, who is your priority.
244008
I met my significant other online.  Met him through reputable personals site.  My advice...be careful.