ok so you have a car...and its a stormy night.  Ur friend is outside and his car broke down...he once saved your life so you could repay him by giving him a ride...or u could give a ride to the love of your life who you see waiting at a bus stop...or give a ride to an old lady who needs a ride to the hospital.  3 options...what do u do?
137371
my car has 4 seats but if it was only 1 it would be love of my life cuz ur love should be ur best friend too and one daqy u will be old together...if that makes sense
546608
It depends, whose name is the car in, and is "he" a friend, boyfriend. There are many factors in play here.  Call the local police and get some advise.
545804
Unconditional Support from someone willing to \nlay their life down for you.\nThat forever kind of friendship.
267284
I'd have to say, the old lady. Less damage to the car. If you crash into the pole instead, she is going to sue for scaring her half to death, and the court will take her side, because she has so little life left. So... 10 points.
634501
I would tell him that when he needed us we were right there for him, just the same as if he needed us now. It shouldn't be any different when the tables turn. Friends help friends out especially in their time of need, and if he feels that way after you talked to him just tell him that he burned his bridges and if he needs you again you will ignore his call for help. Because that's not fair to you guys.
260411
I'd say put her and those raggedy kids in the car and tell them your going on a vacation and leave them in the woods somewhere then go home and move out of state just in case they find their way back home, and as smilesfromred said get you a new shiny one car or wife doesn't matter...lol.
416057
Call her and offer her a ride to church . :o)
113744
Well with your friend.  I had the same situation.  She is your friend she just needed a ride.  Don't let it bother you to bad.  She might come around she might not.  I wouldn't give the guy anything just let him stick around and charm you but dont buy him anything!!!
165613
Have faith, God will never let you or your friend down. Put your trust among him and pray. I will pray for you just don't lose your faith. For all you know your friend will come out of that coma. God has the power to give the bind their sight and the death to rise. TRUST IN GOD!!!
625851
Oh boy! What about all those people who walks around the street or just even sit there begging.  He is far lucky than those people... damn lucky.   That mother of his will surely be gone soon and he will be sorry.  Just take care of yourself, who cares if he is this or that way of life.  Everybody has their way of living, you can either accept or reject him.  You have that choice.  I just don't give a damn if the driver next to me in the traffic is picking his/her noise.  Or you can just simply spend more time with great-grandma and help her out, maybe he'll feel guilty that you wouldn't even talk to him instead you will be with her.
498303
:) you are in a desperate situation.
240820
Personally I would want someone to tell me. I mean really you could be saving someones life by telling them that. If they get an attitude just apologize and figure you probably won't see them again so who cares but I would definitely say something if I were in your shoes.
673104
I know this is boring but....SAVE IT!  Life is a rollercoaster, you never know when you will need that money. Or save half of it, if you just cant help yourself. Get some friends together and have a night out on the town, or a small party in your new place.
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:I would suggest that you send him a gentle reminder in the the mail.\n \nAlso, I don't know if men handle things this way, but, if it was one of my girlfriends, then I would let them know that I miss her friendship... and that I'm sorry that "there is this issue" between us now. And that I would HOPE that she wouldn't let that get in the way of her responsibility to pay me back the money that I lent her in good faith, to help her when she needed it most, and maybe that one day we would be able to move past "everything"...\n\nI will say a prayer for you though. \nGod bless you.
562841
I would take my best friend to where they needed to go.  Tell the guy I like to wait on me, and give the old lady my umbrella I keep in my car.
556140
Scary I was talking on my cell phone and driving there were no cars coming and I was talking to a friend of mine on his cell phone we were going to have coffee..He was working he is a cop and as I was making the turn and i just over stirred my car and crashed it only had it 5 days...My friend got the call from 911 that I had crashed..He was so scared to find me with a bloody nose and that was all..My nose was broke due to the air bag,,,He said that he could not life with him self when he heard the whole crash and then to get no signal and then to get the call..He was so upset needless to say we did have the coffee the next day at the hospital..He brought me my favorite white mocha..mmm \n\nAnd reading your post to me about my son and his buddies..YOU know I never thought of death, just them making babies,,,,LOL\nYou really made me see that next time even though there trip was fine and no problems you made me see the what ifs....OMG did you ~(:}
290576
Some times what we see as innocent can blossom into other things in a friendship and destroy relationships and lives on both sides of the coin.Consider the intent of your friendship and if need be pull back for a while so the sand storm can settle, and you both have a chance to see the road again. Happy driving to you both!