I'm not really an experienced kisser and have always just went with the flow. I think I really just need to start with the basics of kissing...for instance, knowing what to do  with my tongue and things of that sort. I really want to show him that I care by kissing him passionately, I just need to know how to to that.
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Dude, if the guy complains about how you kiss, be Careful. The next thing you know he'll be complaining about other stuff, like how far he wants to go.  Then bad things happen.
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DONT use tongue for your first kiss. thats just way too much! just lips. then maybe the 3rd kiss do tongue, not first! you'll feel when she wants you to kiss her, but dont come on too storng no matter hwat you do. just give your relationship time, and it will be fine. good luck
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Start with the lips then kiss for 1 - 2 minutes, then slowly slide your tongue touching his tongue and slowly rotate your tongue to play with his ;)
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hmmm... what i think is the first kiss is most of the time just simple... and short ( i may be wrong) but try to flow with the guy. if he tries kissing you again, be a little more playful, like play with his tongue and all but most of all be subtle
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Really good kissing gets me in the mood.  There is nothing more sexy than a man who knows how to perform oral sex with finese and enjoys it.  A man who takes his time with a woman and learns what she likes is the best thing ever. (Of course, I think the woman should be willing to do the same for him too!)
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If you want to be a good kisser, keep eye contact, be firm with your kisses, go slowly, and, for goodness' sakes, don't use much tongue, if any at all.  Overuse or improper use of the tongue in kissing is one of the quickest turn-offs there is.
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too many questions at one time but hear goes.  the first kiss shouldnt be tongue.  since this is your first kiss let him initiate sence you have no clue just make sure he doesnt try to chke you with his tongue it could run the mood.  and lastly swallow, swallow swallow that way you wont have a mouth full of tongue and saliva at the same time.  enjoy!
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i like biting.... it's funny.... HAHA \nidk it's hard to explain how ... i don't think there is a "correct" way just experiment and try new methods \nThe best type of kiss is one that uses different variations... \nsuch as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...    \n\n     \nAnd don't just leave kisses to the lips. \nKiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. \nThis can be very seductive and romantic. \n\n\nGreat Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.    \n\n  If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.\n\nMoist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.\n   \n\n  And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.\n\n     \n\n      Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.\n   \n\n  \nClose Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.    \n\n\n  Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.\n      \n\n  \n\n\nClosed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.\n   \n\n\n \n\n\n\nFrench Kissing\n\nThis is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.   \n\n\n     Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.\n\nTongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.\n   \n\n\n  Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.\n     \n  Suck Kissing\n\nThis can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.    \n\n\n     Nip Kissing\n\nThis type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may sho
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Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
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It shouldn't matter. If you're cute, most guys would be flattered to be your first kiss.\n\nTo keep things level though, why not try to find a guy who has never been kissed before either to be your first kiss. I think that way you'll both have something unique to remember about it, and maybe it'll mean more to both of you.
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while u are kissing your boyfriend stick your tongue in his mouth and massage his tongue very slowly,if you want u can suck his tongue slowly while its in your mouth. That should work!!
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Well  with u  only  being  13 ya i would  say  just  start with a  kiss  but  to tell u the  truth  a  kiss  leads  to  more than  just a  kiss  i know me and  my  boyfriend  were dating  for  like  2 months and  then  he  came down and  the next time e came down we  took the  chance with our  first kiss  it wasnt the  best  but  then we  worked on it  almost  all nigh tafter  that  and  it  got  better and then he  started to  lead us to  more like  grinding  stuff  like that and  so ya  it  does  lead to more thant just  kissing but  if  u want  ur  first  kiss  at  ur  age  than  go for it  a  girl can  make the  fist  move  its not  just a  guy thing  some girls  take the  first  move  i didnt  but thats me  but  if u  do  then  dont  go to  fast when u go in for the  first  kiss  b/c he  might  just  push u away  and  if  he does it  means he isnt  ready  for it but if he dont  push u away then it  means  he is  ready  for it and  then  go for it  there is  nothing wrong  with wanting ur  first kiss  from the  boy that  ur  with and if u really like and  stuff  then  stay with him as long as u can  keep  him but  liek i said  go for  it  if he  push u away than  back off  dont  try to  go for it until u  know he is  ready but  good  luck  and  hope my  advice  helps  u
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first it starts with a long kiss of the lips, then you should open your mouth first and kind of lick/suck or play with his lips with your mouth. Then, he will either put his tongue into your mouth or yours into his. From there on its whatever feels good.
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Keep your lips soft.   Beginners often thing they are supposed to pucker up.  Don't.  Soft is sexy,\n\nAlso, don't go immediately into French kissing.  Give it some time,  I know you feel a need to kiss this guy right away, but some things are better eased into.  Get your basic kissing right, and it is amazing how you will progress when you are supposed to. :-)
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8 months? How sweet! For so young, so long, and still so innocent. It does me good to read that in our day and age. I'm proud of you.\n\nWell, I'm the lady in my relationships. For all my sweethearts, I didn't really think about doing it. When he said something really kind or sweet or that tugged at my heartstrings, I couldn't hold back. Yes, I usually was the first to kiss. And there is nothing wrong with reversals in society's ideas of what roles the sexes should play. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I think you're probably safe in the game at this time, you'll be fine if you do kiss her. She shouldn't be grossed out or anything.\nI would start out with an elongated peck on the lips. Just like you peck your mother on the cheek at night, but on the lips. All the same, but for a little longer. And that'll be kind of like a hug. You/she will pull away at the appropriate time, out of instinct, so it's not uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do anymore, until you can pull away and see her reaction. \nOr, if you've already pecked and want to move on. Start slow. Think of an open mouthed kiss as such; a fish. You know how fish make that 'blub blub' noise, and their lips just simply open and close? Well, if you do, press yours on hers, and sloooowly blub. Don't make the noise. That's not very attractive. \nALWAYS check with the lady. Do it, then after a little bit, ask her, "Did you enjoy that kiss? Are you ready for that?" But don't grill her. It'll only hurt her if you do. \nIf you're beyond fish, then I suppose it's the tounge now. Again, slowly, to see if she's comfortable with someone else's tounge in her mouth. Just stick it straight out, at first. Don't point it; that's irritating to us. Well, me anyways. Just a soft, subtle push. Then wait for her reaction. If she does it back, then you, as a couple, are ready. If she pulls away, that's ok. Don't feel too bad about it, I don't imagine. 8 months, and it'll be ok, I think. But, please, don't take my word for it. I am not in this relationship. LOL! From then on, anymore with the tounge is all up to you two. Talk about it. Try new things. I just myself tried a new way to kiss my love; and we've been together for three years. \n\nBut, about why can't you do it. Maybe you just haven't stumbled upon that "right moment". Be a sweetheart, don't worry too much over it, and keep your innocence. Nice job, and good luck!
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Well, i'm somewhat young and inexperienced, but first and second base are no stranger. From my personal experience, i would say that you to need to be alone for your first kiss. i know i was. secondly, don't get all over the guy. not to put you off, but slobery wet kisses from a girl are really weird. also, if he starts to pull away, let him go. if not, keep going as long as you feel comfortable. quick kisses are okay, but try to avoid them. after a few, and when you feel ready, try longer ones. Note: during a long kiss, picking one foot up really helps.\nalso, dont put your hands behind your back while you kiss. i mean, you dont seem like the type but still, its dumb. do whatever else comes naturally and go with the flow.
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hmm.. how do you describe this? There's lots of ways to kiss, no one way. There's closed-lipped, with just a little bit of pucker. You can put your lips over either his top or bottom lip and exert a slight suction (lol!). These can either be moist or dry. Then there's open mouthed, tongue in full play, wet, slurpy sort of kisses. And or course, lots of variations and combinations of the above. Be imaginative! Kiss upside down! (like in the spiderman movie.. but easier to execute than having a webslinger bf. If he's sitting down, just go behind him and tilt his head back, and smooch! Or you can be the one seated)\n\nIf it's your first kiss and you're nervous, just close your eyes, and exert as much passion as you can without knocking the guy over :-) and dont worry too much about the kiss. It comes with practice - anyone can attest to that.