I've been single for over a year now and guys don't approach me. I heard that this one guy likes me but he never talks to me. Do I have to make the first move?
124720
You can make the first move if you want to or fear you may lose the chance.  But hold out if you want.  Just because you haven't been with someone for a year shouldn't make you a desperate person.\nEnjoy your time off :)
539699
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
555320
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
5038
For starts, simply smilie back at him. Give him signs that you are interested as well. Make yourself available for him to talk with you. Work up the courage just to say hi. You will be fine trust me.
211511
at this point, you have got to be strong gurl! its kinda hard getting a guy thats shy too, just like you... so, do anything that you think will get his attention... by just approaching him, you will get his attention.. tell him you want to be friends with him.. and when you guys do become friends, tell him you wanna get to know him more.. and you wanna hang out... if he does agree... go somewhere quiet... tell him that its hard for you to say this at this point, but tell him that you really like him a lot.. and then ask him what are his feelings and tell him to be honest... and if he tells you his true feelings, and tells you that he does also likes you, then you've done it gurl!! good for you! but if he doesnt like you, dont worry! you have so much more years ahead of you.. im sure you'll find a guy thats so much hotter and cuter than that guy... and he might even like you back too :)
232422
Four years of friendship without dating is a long time. Shyness is definitely a social handicap. To break the ice of shyness could take a tremendous, some say a super human effort. Yet it needs to be done. Just prepare yourself for any pain that might follow after making a bold move. You and him just don't want to get hurt. Unfortunately there is a lot of emotional pain ln life. As soon as you realize this simple truth, you will be stronger and hopefully able to handle any kind of emotional hardship. It's called growing up.
314017
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
405820
i can relate to this.\nwhat i suggest is that you try to open up a bit. it's hard, and takes time, but if you become more outgoing, he won't be too intimidated if he was too approach you. in situations like this, it's YOUR turn to make the first move. start small talk, ask him how his day has been, smile (rather frequently), and just don't think about what you're gonna say. let it out. a friend of mine suggested this to me, and it worked, i suggest you try this yourself. usually if he's staring at you, he in fact, DOES like you.\nyou go girl, get out there and get that guy ;D
449422
Just step up and talk to him. He might be the shy one. He probably doesn't want to be the one to make the first move he doesn't want you to think he is just hitting on you.
518627
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
481796
Try to build confidence.  I know it sounds cliche, but it's the truth.  The guys might be interested in you, but you don't give him the chance to ask you out.  Perhaps a good confidence-booster would be to ask a guy out.  Ask a friend to give you support, or even to ask the guy out for you (as a last resort).\n\nI'm sure some guys like you, but you need to give them a chance!  It might be easier to do it over the phone.  You don't need to flirt, you just need to ask them out.  Don't worry about a pickup line.  Since you don't seem very comfortable with dating, try a movie for the first date so you don't have to speak with him for two hours.\n\nTrust yourself, otherwise no one will!
391765
He does but he's afraid.\nMaybe you should try asking him out on a date.\nYou have spent enough time waiting for him to make the first move, so try it yourself.
197217
First of all dont always brag about yourself, Let guys do that for you. Dont be to avaliable either. Kinda play hard to get. now a days guys like it when girls make the first move. A lot of guys may like you but are to scared to talk to you if your really hot.
264414
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
476186
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
481298
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
290859
Did you ever think of just going over to him to say Hi - and see what happens? Maybe he is shy and one of you needs to break the ice.  It would sound like he might be interested in you and if you are interested in him, then you should approach him soon, or maybe some other lucky girl is going to grab him up.\n\nGood Luck!