i had a group of 7 friends(2 boys including me and 5 girls) but due to a couple being formed in our group we all have split.. What should i do? i want all the friends to be together but nobody responds to my words.. i can't spend a day being alone.. But from about a month i have to be alone in the college.. Help me come out this loneliness of mine.. no one else in the college can be good friends of mine as the previous group was..
128757
I might be wrong, but I believe that the problem is that you are trying to behave the way everyone wants you to. What I am about to say is such a cliche, but nevertheless true: just be yourself. If those people don't hang out with you anymore, than they haven't been very good frineds to begin with. You are better off without them. \nAnd the fact that you are lonely is not necessarily related to the fact that you are alone. You can also be lonely in the mids of a crowd. Hope I gave you some food for thought........
308251
Who here spent their 1st year of college alone?\nAns : it's me\n\nWith no real friends?\nAns : yes,with no real friends.\n\nDid it get better?\nAns : not at all...
639549
That is why it is called the wonder years. Move on. Tend to your studies and just stay friends. You will save yourself a lot of grief.
348546
well I'm not going to lie friends r supposed to be there 4 each other not make u feel bad. i wouldn't say leave them but tell them how u feel n if they don't change then move on to the pple who will accept u 4 who u r.
72511
I would suggest that you get involved in a school activity so that you can make new friends and get to feeling more confident in yourself. Find a positive group of people to be around so you won't be lonely and you'll be busy with the activities too.  I was shy and bashful at one time.  The drama club at school really helped me.  I see why that person is an ex-friend. Even if something happened and the friendship ended, that's no reason to make fun of you.   Hang in there and don't become like your ex-friend - making fun of people. You be the better person.
158008
find some new friends that you get along very well.if you have older friend ( not old but people that you know for longer time) keep hanging out with them.it happened to me too and I found better friends and one day the other girls called and said they were sorry and they said that they envied me for having better and more friends,and they said they missed me.i stick with the better girls of course:)
413261
I am so sorry. Going through High school with out your friends is hard. I would start by joining clubs - Year book, Cheer, Art...what ever your school has to offer. You will meet new kids that way. Sometimes friends just go away and it has nothing to do with you. I have a feeling you out grew them and they moved on, you can to. I know this doesn't make you feel better, but once you start being busy your depression will go away and you will start feeling better and make new friends.
256000
Hang out all together. If you get too busy though, you have to tell your friends you need a break. If they're really your friends they'll understand. Also, you can hang out with some of your friends on weekend and another group the next weekend.
448946
Your ex-friend sounds like a real B-word (lol) Be yourself and if people dont like you then forget them. Dont change yourself to fit in with other people EVER. You will make friends eventually, dont worry about it. dont be needy. Good Luck!!
418254
Dude i totally understand how u would be feeling becoz even i am going through this. i am gud in studies.. but i guess its the gossips that i don't like. anyway i would say try being nice and be urself.. try participating in the other activities.. Jst smile.. Because everything can be cured except loneliness and friends is something u make naturally but try to know more people.
531929
I would say try to focus on another goal....like exercise or school...just to take your mind off the loneliness.  I recently had my heartbroken...and it was HORRIBLE, I had school to keep me busy and tried to workout, but in the back of my mind I couldn't stop thinking about how much its sucked to be alone.\n\nSo look at yourself in the mirror and just think...GOD I AM GORGEOUS...and put a cute outfit that you have no business wearing..(like something usually reserved for a special occasion.)  Wear crazy earrings and your favorite perfume.  Keep your 23 suitors on hold, thats what guys do, they play the odds...your a woman, you take the pickens and don't settle.\n\nAll these jerks answering your quesiton are terds looking for points most likely....I genuinely hope that you feel better, just because I know how you feel.\n\nGood luck girl, just be confident and strut around like a supermodel...it will make you feel better.
510643
Sounds to me you may need to get some newer friends and start doing things with them. Maybe when the other two see that you have moved on, they will start treating you a little better. Even if they dont notice right now, they will when you start having fun without them.
575146
You don't need a lot of friends.  In fact the more friends you have the moe you have to help move.  Concentrat on establinshing one or 2 reall good friends who accept you the way you are.
33408
Hi! You should not be angry at your friends just because they didn't pick you to be in your group. It is a little silly that your angry at your friends because of something really simple. You and your friends have a real friendship don't let things like this get it the way! Hope this helps!
472031
Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.
586621
I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
175029
From what I read there was too much drama going on so that means......MOVE ON and make new friends!  You sound pretty young, so here's some advice...unfortunately in life, you will meet people who claim to be your friends when in actuality they aren't. So you just experienced that part of life early, so now you can just learn from it. Focus on school and important things. You will find better friends soon!