He's telling me that he may not sign passports and letter so I can take the kids to Disneyland....
119279
depending on what country u r from  but what u need to do is check on line and see but i hope that u can take them
272018
even if you had his email he probably wouldn't fly out to see you...sorry. Your best bet is to go to a convention or something.
579683
Nope.  He can't.  But the longer you stay here, the more opportunity he'll have to try.  Don't tell him anything.  Don't say you're leaving.  Don't say goodbye.  Just get on a plane and go as soon as humanly possible.  \n\nIf you're near a border, cross into Canada or Mexico and get a plane out from there.\n\nGood luck.\n\nEdit:  Some of the answers below are just plain wrong.  The fact that your baby is born in the US does NOT automatically entitle you to stay in the country.  That is an old myth.  And kidnapping?  If your baby is born outside of the US, the father can't even petition for visitation in the states, let alone be granted custody, let alone charge you with kidnapping.\n\nI really don't know why people bother to answer when they don't know the law.
440121
Be honest and tell him that you don't want to go with him.
86281
This is normal, passports can take a long time. If you're going out of the country soon you can use his birth certificate and photo ID. An ID card from DMV would be better but you can use school id's. check with the country you're going to. if he's younger than 14 he shouldnt need a passport. Please don't take my word for it, do lots of your own research. You may be in a different situation, and I don't want to get you into trouble.
650931
Well, he can't send you a passport; you can only get a passport from the country in which you are a citizen.\n\nAside from that little faux pas, I would go for it.
110719
Is he really that scared?  If you don't make a big deal about it, chances are he won't either.  Kids usually take a que from their parents, and then act on it.
420330
You may want to protect yourself and your kids with a restraining order before he is let out. Especially if you are going to lay a heavy trip like this on him. He is expecting to have a warm welcome when he gets out and he hasn't exactly been spending time in a very friendly place. Who knows what kind of company he's been keeping. \nYou have the privilege of choice, but you need to move in a smart safe way for you and children--first thing get a lawyer! Don't make the same mistake as me, going to court representing myself and getting eaten alive by a 'shark' lady lawyer from h.e.l.l.\n\nGood luck and enlist help of family and friends in your decision!
602348
Great answer from teresawol.  it sounds like he is intimidated by you.  Actually you can tell him to f off, you just have to do it in a very tactful way and when he responds, do what he does....act like you don't know what he is talking about.  There are laws that protect you from being dismissed w/o cause. I do realize that this is a right to work state.
469513
I would suggest that you go into the house and get any papers that you might need.  You are not entering illegally as you have a key and your uncle doesn't want his son to deal with it.  You will have to let the solicitor know.  I've been in a similar position and in the end i decided i loved my grandad more than my aunt  so i was going to do what he wanted and not worry about upsetting my aunt and going against her and my mothers wishes. I am happy that I did.
409270
I am sorry to say but i agree with him. You got yourself in a family relationship. Our kids come 1st and we always travel with them. Try to comprmise and bring a sitter so you guys can go off and do stuff on your own
580416
Think like a soldier. When you have an impassable problem what do you do? You still get past it. That is what you must do. Have you told him of your fears? I tell ya what, if your kids are all okay with it, then you better hold on to him, that's rare! Go for it!
218270
I think you are stuck.  Your rights as a mother are no stronger than his rights as a father.  You both have rights as parents, and that means that neither of you can pick up the child and move out of state without the permission of the other.  Would you like it if he decided to move to California with your son but not you?
125223
Well one thing is certain - you are going to have to get the hell out of there for your sake and the sake of your kids.  This guy sounds like he has the maturity of a seven year old, he is pure selfishness.  Sure he wants to go with other girls, but I bet he'll sit around drinking beer, playing with himself and watching TV.  You're better off without him.  You obviously have a lot of love to give, and you want love in return - you're NOT going to get where you are - so you have to face up to that and move on.
379001
"Hell no, we wont go!"
544446
I don't know what's wrong with him, but with a pending I-130 the bet is that she'll immediately apply for change of status after she clears immigration on her visitor visa.  It's pretty much standard operating procedure to deny a visa in a case like this.
573742
My advice, don't put his name on the birth certificate.\n\nIt's not worth the trouble, leave the city and get away from him, so that he doesn't know your location (hence not being able to kidnap your baby).