There's this girl at school who is overweigt. People are mean to her all the time. We go to a catholic school, and wear uniform skirts. She rolls hers all the time and its kind of yucky. So, one time we were going to leave and i saw her skirt was REALLY high like at her cheeks! So i yelled "EWWW!!!" and pointed. I then turned around as she turned around. Everyone started being mean 2 her bout it and sayin eww! Now, i feel SUPER bad!! Also, im afriad i might get in trouble which i defiently dont want now!! What do i do?? She doesn't knnow it was me...i think. I cant apologize 2 her face, that would be obvious. The principal has been on my butt lately so i dont want no trouble. HELP!!
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just deny it. fat people are there to be mean to. next time she walks by ask her if it counts as whale watching
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You might consider talking with her and sharing your concerns. If you aren't satisfied with the way it went, you could ask for some help by getting someone to mediate. \n\nIf all else fails, you might want to take on the approach that its her duty as a teacher to teach and yours as a student to learn. We can't always get along with everyone, even as adults. And sometimes all we can do is try to get through uncomfortable situations that aren't in our control to change.\n\nI do commend you on taking responsibility for your own actions. Kudos for you :)
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say,"I saw your GPA,and I was just wondering--why did you make me feel stupid for so many years when you have a lower GPA than me?"  she will be stopped in her tracks.that's how my friend was last year before she moved.she'd make fun of me cause I didn't make a perfect "A" but still a "B",and she'd lead me on to thinking that she mad an "A" when she was really making a "D".finally,I found out her lie and confronted her.I found out that she was actually jealous of me,so she thought she had to make a better grade than me.this girl may be jealous of you,too.
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dont go anywhere near her! I realise thats a hard thing to do at school, but usually people sit and hang around in certain places everyday, so go the opposite direction. If she does it again fight back! I am so against violence but if she is gonna beat up your friends for being your friend and talking to her and your parents wont help, then fight back.
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How long has your friend been jealous of you?  You're entitled to be hurt and annoyed, but if a straight forward request of your friend to please stop doesn't work, then perhaps this friends should seek other company.  Do not respond in a like manner - how do two wrongs make a right?  Do not expect your teachers to get involved unless you're in actual physical jeapardy from this "bully".  Sounds to me more like jealousy, not bullying.  I'd feel sorry for this "friend".  And probably distance myself from him as well.
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sweetheart the best way to deal with this is either move to another table or stand your ground since no teachers care you can start putting it back on the ones that do this to you, by throwing it back at them. another thing is there a guides counselor you can go and talk to about this? that may work because more or less this is bullin and most schools dont tolerate this act. i hope i helped you some hugs sweetie, best of luck sunshinelady_40940
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She should tell you that she was offended.  She shouldn't pout, except momentarily, to be cute.  Also, she should only spank you if you would like it.  ;o)
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You need to tell your parents and your teacher. Hopefully the principal will get involved as well. There is no need for you to put up with this one moment more. Don't be shy to do something about it.
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That sucks. Some people are just mean and have nothing better to do than report others for silly things. I think it makes them feel superior. Sorry they took out their frustrated lives on you.
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Run!!!\n\nJK....\n\nI'd definitely try to avoid her, and if it gets really bad, you need to talk to somebody--parents or teachers.  You shouldn't have to go through that at school.
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You need to understand that the more you defy authority, the closer eye the teacher will have on you.  If you stop drawing attention to yourself and behave yourself in your class, it could get better, but once you are on someone's bad side, it's tough to change.  You're making it out like he's just got a dislike for you, but you need to understand that teachers have 5-7 classes a day with 20-30 kids in them.  They cannot allow kids to just be smart a**** or it will just distract the entire class & they lose precious time with those who want to learn.  Try paying attention, answering questions, stop talking to your girlfriend... you can hang with her at lunch or afterwards.  This is soooo important, adults just can't explain how important it is to do your best now for your own future.  Good luck sweety :)
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Well, definitely don't say anything to them in front of the heavy girl, that will just embarass her more.  I think I'd call both of them individually at home (or go see them) and say something like, "What you all are doing is really mean to _______ and it probably hurts her feelings.  It's going to stop and if you can't stop it, then you need to find another team to play for."  I'd definitely speak to them individually so they don't start acting stupid in that "group mentality" sort of thing.
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What are you, the stink police?\n\nI absolutely don't get you or the other school brats who have written in like it's okay to criticize "in a helpful way" your friends.  Do any of you like to be hurt?   I can just see a school full of teenagers running around sobbing because you're all so helpful pointing out each other's flaws in the name of "friendship".   When did this version of friendship start?\n\nWith friends, you're there for them no matter what.   You don't judge or criticize or tell them what to do with their hair or their boyfriends or their body odor.   Would you want someone telling you that you are selfish or immature or a gutless coward because you leave notes for people who offend you?\n\nI don't think you're trying to be her friend.   Your question is all about you, and you sound like a major drama queen, worried about how being a snitch will fall back on you.   Face it, you aren't trying to help her.   You're trying to find a way to be nasty without getting caught.   You even said the teachers won't do anything about it, so why bother embarrassing or humiliating this girl?\n\nMaybe she can't take showers at home because she has a stepfather who likes to watch.   Maybe she can't wash her own clothes because her mom's a drunk and doesn't want to take the girl to the laundrymat.   You don't know WHAT her situation is, so why not focus on yourself (like you aren't already) and see what needs improvement there?    That should keep you busy for awhile.\n\nGood luck.
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I'm only 13 but i go to school with a couple of people who i hate as much as they hate me. they make-fun of people(teachers) and blame it all on me. the so called "nurses" that work with you are probably just jealous of the people they make fun of and you. I advise you to just smile and ignore them. if they make a rude and or inappropriate comment about anyone just walk away. but if this comment is about you say " at least i don't get my fun making-fun of the people who i am jealous about." and by the way i can tell that you are a very smart person by not joining them and keeping your personality alive.
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I've dealt with a lot of mean teachers and I know they can't get fired for that. My Freshman science teacher was mean to only Freshman. Now, whenever she sees me, she's always extremely nice. Some teachers are just mean because they don't like their jobs. Nonetheless, if your teacher wasn't teaching properly or was beating the kids, that would be a good ticket out of there. But just "being mean" could be a  matter of perspective and I don't think there's anything you can do.
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if this really bothers u, transfer her to the other school.  u cant really blame the principal for bullies but if she didnt do anything about it then u can report her to the department fo education.  but u can always try to talking to her again.
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Immediately, get your story straight, and report this to your teachers.  Also, get a hall pass to visit your counselor, so you can report it there.\n\nDon't try to take this matter into your own hands.  Let the professionals handle it.  Don't tell them how to do it.  Simply report the matter, and let them do what they are legally allowed and obligated to do.\n\nAdministrators, Counselors, and Teachers have a variety of tactics/ strategies they are allowed to use to work with this type problem.  Understand, however, they must work with the interst of all students in mind, even the bully.  Please, as I said earlier, let the professionals do their job.  You keep your mind on your schooling.