I had an unprotected homosexual incounter and I'm scared out of my mind.
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if your play buddy was infected and there was blood contact between your willy and his butt, then it has a very high risk! even if you only have a very small bruise on your prick...
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I was going to answer this but the first respondent took the words right out of my mouth. If he has the audacity to hit you, please have him arrested immediately. If you have family, let them know you are living in fear and need help. Best wishes.
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If you can talk to this guy, then say that it made you feel uncomfortable and not to do that again.\n\nIf it's a stranger and you were in a place where nobody knew you, then just shrug it off.  I was unexpectedly hugged by a mentally challenged person, and although I was shaken by the spontaneity of it, I also realized that it was just something random and nobody will remember what I look like or anything like that, so I just went on with life.
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You're a normal person having a messed-up response in a messed-up situation.\n\nI'd sit, relax, breathe. \n\nNow, think of who you've offended. Call them and apologize for the attitude, tell them what's going on, tell them  you're stressed out, ask for their help.\n\nTalk with your sister. If she won't listen, talk with your parents about how to get through to her.\n\nDon't ever talk to that senior again. He's a jerk. Most high schools have policies against sexual harassment. You should report him.
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Sexual predators are very dangerous, you should not take this lightly.  I would warn them to stop, completely.  If they do not, take legal action.  It sounds somewhat severe, but you can't risk this person being a threat to you, or perhaps even members of your family or friends.\n\nGood Luck
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Homophobic has alway gotten me ... Fear of man? And when you tell a gay what it translates too, they get po'd.
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I know!You will get trough it!Be strong,my friend!I was scared of him,too.But,you have to fight! Good luck!
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yes, worry about it - better safe than sorry. keep your eyes open, if you live with a room mate/boyfriend/family, tell them what happened. if i were you i would be keeping a baseball bat handy at home. if you have some mace, start carrying that in your purse.\n\nif someone follows you like that again, DO NOT GO HOME. keep driving, try to shake him off. try to read his license plate as you're driving and memorize it. if you can't lose him, drive to the nearest police department or police barracks. if he follows you into the parking lot, go inside and have a chat with the police.
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Go to the police and fast.  Also, get a restraining order to keep this creep away from you.  Call now!!!
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You are gay and you hate gay people?\n\nDamn, you have serious issues. You should see a psychiatrist.
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Oh honey, was it your first time? Remain calm and breathe. You had sex with a boy you love. That isn't so bad. Maby you weren't ready, but it'll be all right. I wasn't ready my first time either. I cried to and felt like a, well you know what. The fact that it was unprotected sex complicates things, go to Planned Parenthood and take The Morning After Pill, it prevents you from getting pregnant, also talk to the doctor there about getting tested for stds. Do not worry about your parents finding out, Planned Parenthood can not disclose your info to your parents. Also do not worry about money, Planned Parenthood will help you for free. It's going to be ok sweetie, if you need anything, even just someone to talk to email me.
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I'm sorry this makes you sad.  Take some time to be by yourself and get used to all the different feelings you are having.  You may not be gay, you might be bi, or maybe you are just curious about everything and not sure which way you'll end up.  Slow down and give it all time and relax around the guy you like.  Running away from him is going to leave him feeling like something is wrong with him when it's only that you are feeling shy around him instead.  Maybe you could let him know that.
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My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER
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Have you tried confronted this?  Take someone with you that you trust.  Whether a clown or anything else, the more you understand it the less you will fear it.  Good luck.  I hope for the best for you.
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Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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Oh, Sweetie, I wish I could help you more than just listening and typing. Unfortunately I'm probably far far away from you. My advice would be to try and contact your nearest college which should have a gay/lesbian group or at least a help centre, unless of course, that university is Christian based. Also you could check with your county's dept of human services and ask them if there are any support groups in your area. You don't have to if you don't want to but I would suggest that you get someone to talk to and stay away from the bars. It's going to be lonely for a little bit until you find a group. Just be careful.
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what scares you is who you don't know who you are. accept yourself & that the unknown if full of fear. sounds like you're letting it paralyze you. don't. \nsexuality cannot ruin your life unless you let it. be resposible. get aware. find the information that will allow you to make the right, nurturing, healing choices for you.