she has been telling everyone things i didn't say and i am about to go off please help me
121938
Just give her the cold shoulder for a while or don't talk to her because if she is doing this to you she is not really your friend she is just a backstabber.But I would just give her the cold shoulder for a lil bit and see what happens.
32945
There is absolutely nothing else you can say to her.  She is the only one who can change her behavior.  What YOU have to decide is whether or not your going to continue to stand by her. It's a hard decision, I know I am also dealing with something similar.  Only you know your limits and what your willing to continue to put up with.
108460
Laugh her off. Your future depends on your sanity, not hers. Liars always get what they deserve. Ignore her and do your job.
588746
Breathe dude. Don't let her have that kind of power over you. You can't control others, and sometimes people just ain't right, don't let her harm you more by making you so angry. Just let it go, and keep your peace. You'll get paid, or you won't. Not in your control, just don't help her, or count it as a gift and move on!
226583
This really sounds serious ....... please tell either your parents or a school counselor or someone .......... she needs help and it does sound like maybe there is something that is triggering this behavior.
613925
If she's threatening you, I think you should go to the police as firstly she has no right to do this and can't be allowed to get away with it, and secondly you have the right to live without being threatened or harassed.  Get a lawyer onto her.  Try your citizen's advice office too.  She sounds one unhappy woman.
573398
my suggestion would be to get away from your ex and the people she is telling this stuff to. you don't have to answer her calls, she's an ex for a reason. also, she's only going to keep saying this stuff as long as you're there to pay attention to it. i mean, what good is it going to do her if she's spreading all this gossip and you aren't around to confront her? once it loses affect on you it will start to lose affect on others. and then people are going to get sick of hearing her talk about you. \n\nalso, it sounds as though you are depressed. i suggest taking a little "me" time right now. get back to the things that make you different from other people. things that were you before you ever dated her. like maybe you used to play the guitar a lot. then you should go back to that. \n\nsurround yourself with great music and good books.
286144
Yes i know this girl, she is a wast. Did you finally realize that she is out to get what she can from you. You need to tell people how she beats you and steels from you? You need to just get up and move out and leave her there, she is not worth your time!
224066
Just leave it alone, they'll most likely find out what she's doing eventually, but it's not up to you to point it out if you're not saving anyone from a dangerous situation or anything -- you're just looking for vengeance when you need to move on.  Believe me, you'll be better off if you just let this go...you'll get over it faster.
514288
If she is making you mad try to gradually stop being friends...talk less and less 2 her....find new friends. If you stop being her friend all of a sudden she will talk about you.
517793
punish her if she is going 2 back talk u or something like that.you will not stand for that and u are in controol.
145558
Stop you are waisting your time and you sound like a caring person,END IT AND STAY AWAY!!!!! Good Luck!
200667
Sounds to me that she will do herself in with a lack of credibility.  Your only recourse is to make sure YOU remain credible - and keep people like this out of your life as much as possible.  She's got it in for you since you have the ability to see her bad side - and she's probably afraid you will expose her to others.  Some day something will happen where it will be proven to the higher ups that she is a liar and manipulator.  Don't spend too much time worrying about it though.  It takes away from your own life and gives too much to hers.
238832
Simply don't ask for her advice or help anymore. If she tries to pry into your personal life of wanting to dish out advice, tell her you have confided in someone who listens, from an objective point of view.
567243
in the future i would keep all info like this to myself.  I know it would be hard and ,you need to get things like that off your chest,but people cant resist a good gossip .  think to yourself have you NEVER told someone something you have promised someone else you who keep quite. or have  you caught yourself saying " don't say any thing but........ " i wouldn't be too angry at your friend as I'm sure we've all been guilty at one time or another.  I just hope you can nip this one in the bud before rumours start flying . good luck with your friend and hopefully your new job !!!!!
488208
You DO have legal recourse, regardless of anything you may have done to pizz her off.  She might just blow away if you were to confront her and answer her questions and take her hostile comments so she she could get it out of her system.  Then again, she could cut the brake cables on your car.  Obviously she is obsessed with knowing fine details about who you are, and is in a poor state of mental health.  Such people can be very dangerous.  Get in touch with local law enforcement now and ask them what can be done.  Your coworkers are witnesses.  The police are there to protect you, not to judge you.
399482
just tell her jokingly...thats classified information ,if i told ya id have to kill ya..you dont have to say the last part obviously but thats a nice way to subtley say i dont wanna talk about it..