I have been acting NICE and DEPENDANT on my crush recently.\nI keep bothering him for no real reasons like asking him to open a can for me.\nhe doesnt look keen anymore,\nWHAT SHOULD I DO?
120187
probably he is used to these stuff that you ask him to do for you. make him miss you ;) by keeping away from him for the meantime..
515729
I am going to go with leave the crush at home.  That would be plan A.  Tell Him that You haven't seen Her in a while and would like some girl time. \n\nPlan B, invite the guy Friends.\n\nHowever You did say crush, not boyfriend.  Might be a good test, but then again You may not like the grade it brings.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
629863
That is so cool!\nThe same thing happened with me and my crush\nand now we cant stand one moment apart!!\nThat is totaly flirting, and like \nyhea!! \nIts normal for him to be nicer around you when his guys arent there, cause you know.. They got to be cool and all..... Dont take it personaly.\n\nYou should ask him out, or send little hints, you know, give him signals for him to ask you out.\n\nTry it. \nThe rewards are great.\n\nGood Luck.
434174
Think about your friendship.  Are you willing to jeopardize it over a crush?  He isn't.  Also take that in to consideration.  If you are willing tell him that if you are, then he should be too.  Be confident, tell him (in PERSON) that you guys won't break up.  (and on the slight chance that you do, tell him you would be cool just being friends again.)
266120
Poems are cool, but sometimes guys don't get that.  Just talk to him.  He'll remember that for sure, unless he's a jerk, in which case you probably won't have that crush anymore.
77551
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
546976
well, if you have known him from 1 grade then my advice is why not go to him and ask, why he is ignoring you, ask him if he don't want to be friend anymore and do show some attitude. \nif he says i doesn't care forgetting him will be my advice. \nBut if he say something like "why are you behaving like that" then i say you need to understand that he is not even attracted to you.\n\nBut if he becomes nervious then those are the signs of love.
541202
You dont have to bother about stuff like that at this stage.And that is not supposed to get you worried atall.Why not spend ur leisure time with other friends other than trying to figure him out.whenever you see him just say hi,if there's anything serious you've done he'll let you know in time but in the meantime don't look down on youself cause of him.Cheers.
531405
This is a very very common problem that I personally have seen and even dealt with. Conveniently from the other side of your problem (I am a male.) So hopefully I will have a fresh view for you. \nGuys generally are put under the impression that it is their job to "Ask a girl out" if you will. If I was the guy that you had a crush on, then I would prefer that you would tell me, or make it painfully obvious, but do not press the subject anymore. If I like you back then odds are I will start showing it in my actions. If you see him starting to act less comfortable around you or anything, then there is a chance that it is because he is shy and uncomfortable around girls (usually only happens in younger guys, high school or below) or if he is an older man and starts to act like this, he is probably trying to avoid any confrontation in fear that it would make situations between the two of you worse. I am not sure if this helps you, but I hope it does.
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
337648
It sounds to me like she does! Ask her! Easier said than done huh? I have that same problem. Anyways, I know what I act that way around a guy I'm trying to get him to come talk to me, so if you like her go for it! Good luck!
314343
maybe he knew you had a crush on him..and still thinks you are still into him. yes. he is trying to get your attention.
18393
Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.
392093
I don't know why he dropped the friendship, but you are acting kind of needy--almost stalking like.  take a hint, for whatever reason, he does not want to associate with you.....let it go.
238047
You could try telling him you appreciate him as a friend and then move on to talk about someone you're interested in ...  I had to do this recently, and it did work, in a subtle sort of way... ;^)
577897
I had the same problem with one of my guy friends. He asked me out and I said no and then he wouldnt leave me alone. I just asked out my crush and he said yes so my guy friend left me alone....Hope that I helped