since my last broke my heart i really havnt had the heart to hit the feild again i did try but when i got some where i messed up and brought up my ex and it was over like that
120482
Well just try your best to go out more...hang out with your guy friends...Don't worry about finding a g-f so bad if you try too hard to look for a girlfriend you might rush into things...they will turn out all bad and then you will be back at square one...When its your time the right girl will come to you...If you got somewhere and then mentioned your ex...maybe you still have feelings for her...do you? How long has it been...do you NEED a girlfriend right now? I think you should focus on yourself and have fun. Are you still young? Do you like to party?  Go out and have fun,..\n--I'd like to hear from you.
31019
It's not easy to trust someone again after your heart is broken by another...but you have to take the chance, because it could be that this one wount do the same, and cherish you instead.
187805
Time heals a broken heart i know at times it dont feel that way but i have been there the pain words cannot decribe. Sometimes we look for answers on why and how life for all has its ups and downs. But theres a purpose now you cannot see it a year from now you may not see it but its there, i have a story of my life that will really make you think but this is not about me its you. Iam just telling you everthing has a reason one day you will look back on this and say he was right because i know iam right and your blind with hurt. Look i told to people all the time in here about this and that some listen and some dont iam no expert who is we give advice on what we have lived and thats the best we can do. Anyway iam gone with one finally thing to say go forward somethings out there for you and ever young man and female.
652528
By focusing on your education, you'll help yourself get over your broken heart.  You just need to let your brain take over for now, and give your heart a rest for a little while.
135189
It takes time to get over a love relationship.  Some people say that it takes half the time you were involved to get over it.  The best thing is to just talk it out with friends, or maybe a professional counselor.  It's a process, getting over a broken heart, not an event.  It's not something that you just wake up the next day and say, "I'm over it".  I found getting involved with new friends, or interests took my mind away from my sadness.  \nI'm sorry to hear that you are hurting, I hope that you can find some support and distraction soon.  It won't always be like this.  Some day in the future you will look back at this and realize that it wasn't a good relationship for you.
52218
The heart is a funny thing. It is only mended through time. There is no other way to make heal it, unfortunately. The one thing you CAN do however, is keep remembering WHY you are no longer together and reinforce those ideas. Now that you have a single life, you need to get out and do the things that you haven't been able to do for a while. Whatever you used to find pleasure in, but just couldn't find the time. Bowling, pool, hiking, camping, etc.. those are good distracters to help you along with the tenderness.. That's how I got over my relationship turmoil, and I hope this truly helps you in your journeys..
494295
Sorry but it really wouldn't work move on that happen to me before and guess what it didn't work I got over it.
573817
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
621069
i myself just came out about it to my family and the only way i personally have stopped myself from doing it again is remeber that things WILL get better and that you do have people who love that will help you through the rough times. The most important thing to remeber is that there are better ways to deal with your problems
63816
I can handle pain better than before...\nWell before she left me I was not able to do that...
225976
u r sick y did u do all things if u  hav to sing it in front of the whole world if u really love her u would want her to be back and ask us to help u get her back but u r telling abt the favours u hav done for her u r a cheap guy get a life dude a heart needs love not cds and teddy bears and if u had been a good listner u didnt do a great favour to her bcz even she must hav listened to u try to find out the reason she dumped u maybe she has some prob try to understand her dont boast abt wht all u have done for her because tht will never help u get a life
442639
well y did u brake up...if it is over u both now then talk to him about how u feel and try to be nice about it to \ngood luck
321296
Oh my goodness im not sure what u should do....do what your heart says hope this was a lesson was to you and dont try it again for your own good good luck with your decision
356035
He aint worth your while sweetie. Play it cool, but dont give him a chance to do that to you again. Theres no need to feel bitter about it, so move on with your life. Dont let it runi your chances of meeting another person. If you're heartbroken keep yourself busy with other acivities. Good Luck!
570428
I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
62211
First off ... don't give up hope.  Is there something you can do?  No, not really.  Try to talk to her, but also realize that people are sometimes not meant to be.  Don't waste your precious time worrying about the past.  There are a lot of women out there .... maybe by losing her, you can now go out and find "the One" ... Good Luck .... it sucks to get hurt, but that is all a part of the game called "love".  More than anything .... LEARN from your mistakes ..... Enjoy life and don't get down about it.  Love comes from all sides .... and usually when you least expect it :)
80425
well i have done both so i cant really say but if you have to then handle up learn from your mistakes and try not to let it happen again