esp the married ones \nif i am married should it worry me\ni somehow dont feel like its threatening or am i missing the point somewhere Ladies(Wives) please help
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Men are visually stimulated.  The sight of a nude woman actually produces cascades of endorphines and dopamine in men, unlike women who are more touch and hearing stimulated.  If your married, and your hubby is watching a lot of porn, maybe it's time to step on the scale and think about laying off the Hagendaas for a while.
587038
Agree with you 100%.\n\nI think if ppl sat down and really ask themselves what about a gay union troubled them, they would realize that for some reason they feel threatened. That is the part I don't get at all. \n\nHow does a union between two gay ppl threaten anybody else's marriage. Either they have a good marriage or not. That's not based on what other ppl are doing.
535397
Most of my friends are married and if not then dating so I will not give you a % because the problems is that they a not bored like you and I but I am sitting here answering your question a they are having fun see the picture I am drawing here. The question is why are you not dating that sucks not to have someone in your life. Why am I telling you this and I am doing the same is because I broke up with my girl about a month ago and I was to be married like my friends are but I ma trying to clear out all of my feeling of her before I move on and I will say I am thinking of someone and did talk with her to let her know what is going on with me and so she will not think I am not interested with her. So you need to get off your but and find a girlfriend is is so much more healthier
206387
She could be like a lot of women...meaning that eventhough she's in a sh*tty marriage, she's still gonna be faithful to him because the bond of marriage does mean something to her. If you try and push the issue with her you're only gonna make her uncomfortable and she'll push you away. I say just bide your time cause eventually she'll realize she's with a d*ckhead and leave his *ss. We all smarten up at some point :D.
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I don't want to be critical, but I want to be honest in my answer.\n\nI had this same fear after my 2nd marriage ended.  Thank goodness I had a dear friend who saw what I was experiencing and helped me rebuild my self-esteem and helped me "find myself".  I realized that I was not happy with myself and that I needed to be before I got involved again.  This was not a quick process.  And it was a lonely one.  But I thank God every day that I went through it.  When I quit looking and found out that I actually liked myself, I found a great guy.  He and I are no longer together, but I found that I am a complete person without a man.  This has given me a whole new perspective on life and relationships.  Since then, I have met and dated a much higher quality of men.  The man I'm seeing now is a wonderful and thoughtful man who is a good father and is concerned about the people around him.  This is want I wanted and what found me.\n\nI hope my experience can help!
198818
OH! COME ON,DON'T BE SILLY DON'T YOU KNOW THAT LADIES CAN FEEL THE PLUSE BEAT OF EVERY MATURED MALE, AND BELIEVE ME HOOKS THEM LIKE A FISH AND EAT THEM THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE VERY SLOWLY. AND IF IT SMELLS OR GETS ROTTEN KICKS THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT ANY MERCY. NOW TELL ME, HAVE YOU FOUND ANY NEED FOR THEM TO TALK MARRIEGE. SO WAIT AND BECOME MATURED. FROM NOW PRACTICE HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF WHEN ONE FINE MORNING YOU BE SURELY KICKED OUT OF YOUR OWN HOUSE OK. NO, OK WAIT AND SEE.
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Nope another lady here..  Haven't heard of that.. One.\n\nTo me it sounds just immature girlie's..  Thinking they are cleaver. \nDo what you want to do .. \nDon't worry about the games other people play. \n\nEnjoy life.. and don't stress about the opposite sex.\nSometimes its all very forign to them too.
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Cheating on them emotionally? By being here? I am going  to take a three-prong approach  to address these statements:\n\nFirst, married person is not connected with their mate via umbillical cord - everyone has their own individual bubble that surrounds them and they have complete freedom to explore the world around them, as long as there is mutual understanding of an established committment. \n\nSecond, it all goes back to the intent of an action before we can tell with certainty whether that action extends beyond the intended and consequently casts a shadow on the committment part. . If you are married, it doesn't mean you lose your individual interest and curiousity to explore the world around you, which includes interacting with many other like minded individuals along the way. \n\nThird, as far as message and answers on Yahoo Answers,  if you intend to stay in a committed relationship (that's the premise here), does that mean you are banned from having any feelings for others? Do you not  have friends you care about but on a totally different level? Who is to say we are to stop being ourselves when we marry? Marriage is supposed to add value to our lives and help us grow as individuals. Jealousy and questioning stem from bursting self-centered egos and unless those are restrained, regardless of the committment, any such relationship where these are present is doomed to fail. So why not let everyone use their God-given individual freedom to explore the gift of curiousity without questionining? \n\nLastly, Yahoo Answers can not/should not  be used as an excuse for breaking up relationships which have been doomed to fail anyway long time ago. It was just a catalyst in the process.
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Your marriage happens  to be in trouble, are you worry about your health or your future?  Seriously, if you worry too much your health would be affected, don't worry about the future, worry about NOW. Tell more details about your marriage problems so everyone could give you answers.
442990
I wouldn't worry about it.  Sounds normal to me.\n\nCoach
231437
You know what?  A lot of us women have this fantasy that goes something like this - \n\nIf we confront the people in our lives and ask them HOW they could do that to YOU and WHY did they do it - do you believe that they will answer you honestly?\n\nDo you expect an honest answer, and that they will be very sorry?  Do you feel that this is the only way you'll feel validated for the pain and suffering you've endured?\n\nSadly, it is all a fantasy.  They will NEVER admit WHY or HOW COME they did anything at all.  They will LIE and LIE to you.\n\nBut, seriously, DO NOT believe the lie that they put into your head.  It is NOT your fault and it is NOT anything YOU did to MAKE them do what they did.\n\nThey are poor sorry excuses of human beings, and they do not deserve any happiness.  \n\nYou are a very deserving young lady who got caught in a bad situation.  But, thank God you found out early, and that it ended sooner than later.  You want a marriage on a foundation of honesty and not such blatent disrespect and lies.\n\nIt will hurt for awhile, but, you'll realize that YOU will be alright.  It's not okay what they did, but you are stronger than their lies.  You will be alright.  \n\nDo not waste another minute about them.  Spend EVERY minute taking care of yourself - grieve, mourn, cry, scream!  But, then, take time to be kind to yourself and heal.  Pray.  Restore balance to your spirit so that you feel in harmony again.\n\nEnjoy life and be grateful that they didn't ruin your life anymore than they tried to!\n\nFind professional help and may God bless!  Good luck!
299789
I am one of them but I have been working on it for a while now.  Girl you are probably a great person I would not worry much.  Take care.
302045
I personally don't feel uncomfortable at all when the man I'm with notices or even discusses other women, hell I'll even join in.  I'm secure enough to realize that at the end of the day, he's going home with me!  I'm also smart enough (now) not to choose a man that isn't trustworthy.\n\nBut I can see where you're coming from.  If you find this offensive and disrespectful, YOU MUST communicate your boundaries.  Tell him how you feel.  If he doesn't respect your boundaries, find someone else who will.
154689
Yeah yeah everyone says married and very few of them were married when they first did it. Go with your heart and brain dear. Its different for every couple. The best time is when you are both comfortable with yourselves and each other on an adult level.
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I would say dont bother to worry .... maybe your wife has some feelings and the name is an outcome of it .. just love her as you were doing earlier and dont worry ..\n\nRegards\nSameer\nhttp://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
33541
I think it revolves around the fact you are still in the "Wife" frame of mind. Well the children, Still married and the rest of the phrases you say. \n\nThree times? you are more commited to your role as "Wife" then your role as yourself or mother. Might watch that. Been known to be dangerous.
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Everyone gets off on different things - but if you have issues with it, maybe you should try to figure out if you can handle it. There is no point getting married unless you are 100% sure, otherwise it is a recipe for disaster