When you are hanging out with friends and you want to make out or hook up with someone there how do you let them know and how do you know if they are even interested at all???
130590
well first of all, see if he looks at you with that look.  you know wat im talkin about?  if he keeps glancing at you, then he likes you, or if he gets nervous, he likes you.  Then, just go for it!!  take a deep breath and ask him straight out.  as for the making out thing, it probably wont happen right after you ask him out, probably not even that night.  it may take a while.
609852
I would say it's just like kissing a boy, but if you are a tradionalist who wants the "guy" to make the first move (like me) I know how confusing it can be.  Just wait 'til the moment's right, when y'all are alone.  You can compliment her or do something to get a little closer (the dumbest thing I ever did was take off my glasses and say, "look, they're broken," and as soon as she looked up, puzzled, I kissed her) and then just let things take their course!  Of course, all that is assuming you know she's be ok with that, because, not to burst your bubble, but it's one thing to be ok with your best friend being attracted to you, and another for her to feel something back.  If everything is go, just don't force anything, and have fun!  ; )
306786
This is a difficult one. The problem here is if you do make a move and she's not interested then things could be a little uncomfortable between you. Friendships are so precious. Having said that, there are signs to look for. Things like her fiddling with her hair when she's talking to you, looking into your eyes then at your mouth and then back to your eyes (this is supposed to mean she's imagining what it would be like to kiss you!), angling her body towards you, being physically open - arms not folded, touching you lightly on the arm. They're all quite subtle but I think you can usually tell if someone's interested. Good luck!
451205
i know this is gonna sound easier said then done.. but tell him that. if from talking you feel he's into you..ask him if he feels like more could come out of this then just a hook-up. if he feels the same way then great! and if not, well then you can move on or just keep it a random hook up. but seriously talk to him about it because you don't wanna have to end up wondering, "what if i said something?" because if you wait too long it might be too late. and the worst that can happen is him say that he doesn't want a relationship - but he's obviously into you if you guys hooked up
393494
I say go for it. As ur long as ur not fooling urself that it's more then it is, I understand how it can be comforting to have someone to hang out with in a more than friendly way. as long as the guy is sensitive to ur situation and cares about u as a friend as well as a 'sensual' buddy, u can make the most of the situation!
147715
also, try asking yourself, if you were so shallow as to decide not to be their friend simply because of their sexuality, would they want to be friends with you anyway?
314243
lAsk someone you trust.  Do not just blirt it out though.  Women have to know that the question is coming so they can prepaire for the response.  Start talking to one of your frinds about sex, and make sure that the person is not going to spread your conversation around like a bad rash.   Let the conversation lead itself for a while, then start asking her questions.  Questions about her sex life, maybe ask about a fantasy she has had, and then say something like, "ya, I was thinking about haveing a three-some, that would be fun."  Then wait for a response, but do not let an awkward silence ensue, if there is not an immediate response, say something like, "I just don't know if I could find anyone that would be willing to be with me and my boyfriend."  Then let your frined respond, if she does not respond, this does not nessesarily mean no, just say something like, "it's just something to think about," and change the subject so you both do not get all wierd about it.
105638
dont try to check out from your friends.......\n     ...just be open and frank......try to speak of different topics when he is around......and check out the genuine ness of his interest....\n                for some time try and avoid him.....if he does really like you he will try dead hard to get in touch with you .....thats the best time to speak out your feelings to him......\n                else best of luck........
480703
her if she wants to go somewhere after school somewhere near the school like a food joint or something sounds like you just wanna be her friend with benefits? \n\n   tell me how things work out!! =]
162864
play hard to get, but in a flirtatious way. like say something to make them smile, and keep them guessing your motives. it works because they stay up at night talking to their girlfriends,and playing with the thought of a possible hook up.
57880
You have to let him know you like him one way or the other. When I'm with a girl that I like I always look for a way to break the "touch barrier" I'm talking about mainly flirting and and also the first time you touch someone is the hardest after that it all rolls down hill from there. It sounds weird to talk about it like this but I'm only  talking about stuff like play punching. Also there is a proximity bubble we all have around are selves. I forgot what actually equates this space but we naturally know what it is. If you like some one and want to move further you need to break this barrier. If they are uncomfortable they will back up. if not they will embrace it. They could just sit there though. That is usually when you find out for sure if they are down or not. So that's just my two cents. Hope all goes well.
164410
Easy! \n\nDoes he call you?\nDoes he want you around?\nDoes he make plans with you?\n\nYes, he wants to date.\n\nDoes he tell you to call him?\nDoes he want you around only when he can hang?\nDoes he tell you about his plans but does not include you in them?\n\nSorry, just friends.\n\nTake it from someone that has: been there, done that.  Move on! You need someone that is genuinely interested in your time and will make time for you no matter what.
163608
They easiest way for a shy person to find out is to have a friend ask a friend of his what how he feels.\n\nI know it sounds a bit corny, but friends have been asking for other friends for as long as there have been crushes.
533080
Anyone who really appreciated you and was looking for a long term serious possibility with you might consider telling his friends things like: how much fun you were, where he took you to dinner and/or movie, things that made him enjoy your company more than expected etc.  If he gave his buddies details of your intimacy the first night, he will probably trade you off soon, or his buddies will think you are fair game for them also since they already know what you might do for them also...RUN RUN RUN
202653
hooking up can mean meeting for sex...but down here in the huge town of amarillo(being sarcastic) it can also mean hook up to meet for a drink or a date, but it probably has an alterior meaning if a guys says, "yeah, then we can hook up for a date."  but if he says "yeah, they we can hook up and get a drink," he probably doesn't mean anything by it, just trying to sound cool...if someone told me, hey, "Bill and Jessica hooked up,"  that to me would mean they had sex.  Oh and thanks for the help on the gym question...liked your answer.  Take the headphones out once in a while!  ;-p
151121
It would be wrong for you two to hook up since you are both in relationships with other people.  Maybe you could just be friends with him as long as you don't have any lingering feelings for him.  If you do, then you should just leave it alone before someone gets hurt (whether it be emotionally or physically).
189623
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.