I have dilegently changed my approach and put my best foot forward.  I am finding a better class of guys but they too are just looking for free sex. After making improvements I am still not getting a boyfriend who loves me... Is there still something wrong w/me or it the guys?
133279
it might be the way ur presenting urself to guys...
148509
It sounds like your on the rebound, so maybe it's best to stay single for awhile! Figure out what you want and hopefully this will help you attract a good man!
415484
i've only been out looking once.. \nstumbled upon it twice..and well, here's the thing..as a woman, i'm kind of looking for a guy who is sexual..and is going to give me what i want that night.. \nmindless, mindnumbing, meaningless sex.. but still a good time.. \n\nseriously, the last one night stand (not intentionally) i had was great.. we ended up back at my place around 2..and we uhmm ya know for a while.. and then had to take a break about 4.. we laughed, joked and had a good time before ya know.. uhmming some more..and then another break.. basically the morning ended with a lot of fun..and a lot more of uhmm..\n\nit's like i don't want to feel trashy after a one night stand, but i still want great sex.. \n\ni go into my regular bar..we get a lot of drifters in and out..i went one night with the intention of hooking up with someone..edned up leaving with someone else, and then hooking up with a completely different person.. odd i iknow..but serioiusly, i was determined to have sex that night.. and for some reason it seems guys decide to have a conscience now.. "i don't want to use you as a one night stand.. but can i get your phone number and we can hang out tomorrow?" wtf??\n\nthe next time.. i was just hanging out with people..and it just happend..and it was mindblowing good time.. \n\nso if you're going into a bar with the intention of a one night stand.. i would recommend going to somewhere you don't want to necessarily return to as the regulars will know the story..or go to wher eyo know you're going to get what you are looking for..
430556
Sounds like your standards are too low if you let the last few guys use you. You need some interesting, exciting hobbies to get rid of the stench of desperation.  Plus, you'll meet interesting, exciting men while you're at it.
18514
Perhaps, it is not what you are ready for right now. If you have been with someone for a while and things are heating up, maybe this person is not the right one for you. If it is just that you are single and you're not finding anyone, just give it time. I broke up with a guy a few years ago and months went by with out me meeting any quality people. One day I said to myself that I wasn't going to look anymore and focus all of that attention somewhere else. two days later, I met my fiance.
468357
You're on the right path. Hold on to your virginity and be honest about this. Most of them are jerks, but this will weed them out and you'll eventually be likely to come across a decent man.
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Great god that You are here!\nI wonder whether u are serious enough to post this question!\nYou ppl will never and can never change!\n\nAs for as me...Understanding is the main thing!\n\nAnd should be careful enough with the guys they come over.They select their boy friends, without any care, who they are and how they are...and lose everything and later blame every boy and man for what they lost!
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Unfortunately, we cannot make someone feel the same way about us or want a long-term relationship.\nSounds like the men you have been involved with just are not ready for that kind of commitment. I would strongly take a look at the kind of men you are attracting and perhaps go out of your way ,and give a chance to, someone who isn't necessarily your type. Even if it means going slightly out fo your comfort zone i.e. perhaps the nice guy at the bookstore or checkout counter that you might have let slip by at first glance. By doing this you'll have opened up more doors to find someone who is on the same wavelength as you, and who shares the same relationship values.
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I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
123060
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
601993
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
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you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
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Actually there are many guys who are looking for commitment.\n\nIf you keep on having this issue it is because you keep on going after the guys who aren't looking for anything more than a good time.\n\nWant commitment?  You'll find it.  first I think you need to change the types of guys you think you're attracted to as they aren't the ones it seems that are looking for committing.\n\nSee we "nice guys", the boring ones are looking but you women seem to keep on going for the ones that are exciting.  There are "Dads" and "Cads".  The "Dads" are the guys who'll be there.  We aren't flashy and we don't always know what to say.  In fact we most often have no clue.\n\nThe "Cads" are the fun guys.  The guys who can sweep you off your feet in a bar, use you and then you pine away waiting for them to call back.\n\nYour choice on what you're really looking for in a guy.
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its all about the attitude.\ngurl, the best thing to do is if you think things are not working for you because you cant find a nice guy then maybe it means you need to change somethings about yourself.\nI dont mean to offend you but you might want to think of what you think is the reason why guys you preffer dont come knocking at your door.\nHow about a makeover?\nhope this helps..
566286
I am totally on the same page!  I'm so tired of jerks.  Met a guy the other day, hot, seemed real nice.  He got my number, seemed real attentive.  Then he disappeared.  A girl was dancing like a stripper and he was all up in that!  Jerk.  \nI think the nice ones are too shy or already taken.
36342
Yea!!I am glad to see your moving on a little bit.  For the record I am not frustrated with you, nor the all knowing one...I think you are cute! I can tell by your questions you are overly causious.  I just feel pulled to encorage you to move it up with this gentleman.  Time goes by too fast and I hope you give him that look or tell him that it is time to take you out...I would take you out sight unseen and I have no Idea who you are.  So just do it girl!
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I have met a couple of really nice guys on Singlesnet. Also, you can email a featured member for free, so if you find a featured member that you are interested in you don't need to join. I haven't paid to join, but have contact with the men I want to contact.