I Find Myself Hating life somedays. .and hating people around me. .then the next minute i think differntly. .i know im mad. .friends and doctors agree. . .but what keeps you sane and living life to your full?
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sometimes same situation happen to me,but i usually divert my attention by decoratin my house room or talking to my best friend
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Sounds like unresolved anger, usually a response to situations we lived through and had no control over. Could be early childhood trauma, could be some gross injustice, could be that no one heard you when you needed to be heard, could be multiple combinations of the above - whatever it is, it won't go away until you begin searching for the reasons and understanding that you deserve to be happy with yourself and others. I have so been there, got better, but still have to examine from time to time. You are not alone, medication or no medication, find someone to talk to. God Bless you.
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I learnt that no matter what u do in life or what u do for others u will always have haters.you will always have fake and foony friends. I also learnt that your family is the most perciuos gift you will have in life. And when my sister dead when i was the age of 9, that things happen for a reason.
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You can't dwell on the things you don't have or what your friends have that will drive you crazy. I know plenty of rich people that are unhappy, you need to find the things about your life you love and make you happy. If you don't have those thing you should work to find them. I'm one of the grouchiest people in the world but one look and my little girl, or her picture and I feel truly happy. You can as well.
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I am truly sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time with yourself and your own personal perception of who you really are.  Your own life, as well as life in general, is all in how you choose to look at it.  You can soon convince yourself, as well as everyone else around you, that things are truly awful, if you only choose to look for the negative in everything.  There is plenty of good in people, and the world, if people would only take the time and make the effort to find it.  \n\nUnfortunately in our culture, it seems that the negative always does overshadow the good,  However, this is only due to  the media ideology that shock sells.  And it also seems that people do tend to remember the negative far more than than bad, only because it tends to be so "shocking", and literally burns itself into our memories.  Although, in the long run, good never truly prevails over bad, and there would be no good without bad.  It's all part of the eternal circle of life.  \n\nYes, people can be cruel, especially children, and cause you low self-esteem issues from the time you are a child.  Also parents who have unrealistic expectations of their children, and/or those who wish them to exceed highly in life, where they themselves failed.  This can put a great deal of pressure on a child, both mentally and physically, and unfortunately carry over to their adulthood, and even their own children.  The media again has also created false images of what the so-called "perfect" self-image is, especially for females, making a great deal of perfectly normal women suddenly feel inferior, or somehow less than normal.  This is a very dangerous trend that we as a society have created for ourselves and our children.  People should honestly feel better about themselves as a whole, and realize that everyone has something to offer and contribute to this society.\n\nLife is a gift, and should be treated as such.  Way too many people take this miracle for granted, and don't truly appreciate what they have, while they have it.  You only get one shot at this life, so please don't screw it up.  As long as you are alive and willing, there is always hope.  You simply have to change your mind, and change your life.  It's only your own mindset that is holding you back and making you feel unwanted, especially by yourself.  The eating is unfortunately only a comfort coping mechanism for depression.  People eat because the food supposedly makes them feel better and also is always there for them, and never says no to them.  When you eat in excess, you are simply feeding a sickness, not yourself.  Please understand this.\n\nI would strongly recommend that you, at a very minimum, start practicing portion control, eat smaller meals throughout the day instead of three big ones, and also at least start walking.  Money should not be an object to your health.  If you are on a budget, then get exercise tapes (low impact to start - maybe Tai Bo), and maybe even have a friend join you for inspiration.  \n\nYou can also make healthier choices in what you eat, if you can't seem to cut back on eating itself.  Just also remember that any activity and/or exercise, is better than sitting idle and doing nothing.  Start feeling better inside, then the outside will soon follow quickly behind!\n\nIf all else fails, and you still cannot seem to get the motivation to help yourself, then please find someone else that you can meet with, to talk to, who can help you.  There are lots of free services for people to obtain counseling for various issues.  Do NOT be ashamed to talk about your problems.  The only real shame is to know that you did absolutely nothing, when you had every chance available to actually do so.\n\nI wish you the best of luck in your endeavors and hope that I have been able to help you, if even in the slightest.
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I know what your going through, sometimes my life just completely sucks and i just wonder why? does the world or god have something against me or something. But when my life starts to be crap.But the world isn't against, it just seems that way when your life isn't going the way you want it. When i feel this way, I do this: Take a long hot bubble bath, then sit down and watch your favourite movie with a mug of hot chocolate, and just relax and forget about it all. That's what I do, try it. It may work.
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Life is too short to hold a grudge against a person.  I lost one of my best friends to a car accident a few days ago.  A friend can be there one day and gone the next without you even thinking it's possible.  Think about it.  Tell her why you are mad and make up.\n\nGood luck hun.
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I have a very bad temper. I find this very annoying, because every time some one insults me, i embarrass myself. Eg. When I was away at a camp with my friends, we were sitting in the cafeteria eating lunch with around 230 others near us, when I got \nreally angry at one of my friends. I stood up, fists clenched and \nsaid "I am going to kill you" she returned "Id like to see you try" To my later annoyance, I then raised my voice and repeated " I am going to kill you", Until one of my other friends next to me calmed me down. This is a very personal subject and to show your gratitude, could you please vote for me, as I have trouble talking about my temper with others.
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I usually deal with things pretty well, but once in a great while I'll need to call a friend or catch one of my buddies online & say, "I'M P*SSED OFF!!!" then rant for half an hour or so.\nIf you need to talk, I'm around, so you can use me, I guess\nBUT if you're one of those who ALWAYS has something to complain about, and life just SUCKS, then you should look into changing your outlook, because I don't have patience for whiners (I live with one, and I'm just this side of knocking out the rest of his teeth for b*tching about everything & doing nothing to change his circumstances).
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Sometimes it's not the person you are upset with but a situation, what drives you to be angry at the moment you get angry?  What fuels the anger? Think about it, because if you want it to change you are going to have to figure out what "it" is that needs changed, and if you already know what "it" is you have to decide how important it is to change, if it's something you can get through, and if it's worth holding on to.
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You're not alone at all. There's lots of people who feel exactly the same way you do. I've destroyed my life countless times and been in the hospital a few times as well. I've been on loads of different meds as well and am now hopefully on the right ones.
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Why would that make you hate your life? How old are you, 12?
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Depends on the reason you hate people and the world and how often you feel this way, as well as how strongly.  If it is an all the time feeling, then you need to get to the heart of why you really feel that way, and work on what you can do to change it.  Seeing a therapist might help you to get there, but you must make the journey.  I would not suggest talking to a minister about those feelings - I tried that, and was only made to feel worse because of my "sinful" feelings.\n\nIf it is an occasional thing, then it is a normal thing - everyone feels that way from time to time.  Sometimes the emotion is quite intense - in those cases, the best thing I've found to do is to do something to get my mind off whatever is bothering me (FPS games help).
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Everyone just wants to be happy.  Set your mood every morning when you wake up.  Every day, you can choose to wake up and say 'this will be the best day of my life', or it can be the same old, same old.  We make life what we want it to be.  \n\nI believe that we control our own mood and how we react to things.  If things don't go your way, you can sit and brood for an hour or two, or you can move on and be glad that it's over.  \n\nIf I get angry, it's usually only for a short period of time.  Life is too short to always be mad at something or someone.  You just have to teach yourself not to worry or care too much about things that are out of your control.  It takes time, so be patient.
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Are you serious? It looks like you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Nobody hates their life so much without realizing they need help. What happened to you in your childhood?\nYou need help. Professional! Immediately!
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YES!!!\nyou will be happy... life always gives us up and downs but remember to always look at the bright side.. after all things happen for a reason.. the roots of life are bitter but the fruit is sweet.. so relax, enjoy yourself and if you hold resentment.. i know its hard but try writeing it all out on a piece of paper and when your done.. simply rip it into tiny pieces and throw it away and move on.. appologize if you have too... and start over.. life is wonderful.. just like im sure that your a wonderful individual also!!!\nxoxo
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I had a real similar event last summer, on the Fourth of July.\nbut it was due to a brain tumor,  the rest sounds real familiar matter of fact, deja vu.\nI'm a 42-year-old male two daughters.\nand a girlfriend, that I'm amazed she stayed with me :)\nI also lost a lot of memory.  Most of it as a comeback.  I still have seizures everyday.  \nI can empathize with you about the anger thing.  I still have family members that are not speaking to me :)\nthe doctor told me that it's real normal, for the anger and it seems to me.  It's a different kind of anger than just plain angry.\nand I was lucky to have a loving girlfriend that has stayed with me,\n\nstory is way too long to put into this context.\nI understand everything you've gone through.\nand if you need someone to talk to.\nit would be good for me to talk also.\nAllanMayta@yahoo.com\n\nAllan Mayta