u still like ur ex, u're not sure if u still like your ex but ur ex wants to get back together BUT u live so far away from each other... would you get back together, long distance style?
133119
No.   If u dont know- and its long distance- which almost never works- dont even try it.
420984
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
476737
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
646470
if you liked him then why did you dumped him?? are you guys playing a game here?? anyways honey just tell me do you just like him or you love him?? theres a difference you know...if you are missing him just cuz you are used to each other or you miss him cuz he loved you the way you wanted...if its the first reason then just forget it & move on but if its the second one then i suggest you to get back again...but ask yourself if you can trust each other now for the third time...please be lear & careful about your choices...
66744
I think that you should just tell him how you feel... because you will always play the "what-if" game.  You are jealous that his girlfriend is getting something that you once had and will always lust over.  He was probably your soulmate and you gave it all away when you broke off your communication.  Should have just gone with the long distance thing.  You should talk to him... maybe he feels the same way.  By the way, what is the new distance between u two?
372369
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
576808
girl if you love or at least care about him there are plenty ways you can see him or her again, i was with this guy for a month and a half, and he unexpectanly moved back home because of this family and we made sure we saw each other at least once a month if not more. i just all depends on how each of u feel and if its meant to be it just is\nDONT GIVE  UP HOPE
319508
it depends. i guess u should take things as they are at the moment, not to drown in ur fantasy and dreams. perhaps, if u two will get on good, u could start it all again. going on a holiday is a serious challenge to all the couple, especially if u're going with ur ex
463047
First answer these questions. \n\nWhy didn't the relationship work? If you get back together, will things change for the better? If it didn't work back then, what gives you the guarantee that it will work this time? Resolve conflicts first and learn from past mistakes.\n\nIt is clear that you still have feelings for your ex. But are these feelings enough to make the relationship work?\n\nIf you can't answer with a resounding YES, then getting back with your ex is not a good idea.
212026
If you truly love him, you wouldn't mind the distance. The catch is, does he truly love you back? If you think he does, then it is well worth it.
213490
don't count on getting back together, or being very good friends for that matter. my ex gf said the same thing about maybe getting back together, now shes dating one of my friends and we barley ever talk
478434
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
669774
OK I  just went through a situation where my boyfriend left me because his ex ccame back into his life..I feel so miserable without him and i feel sick to my stomach...You need to be careful about what youdo..It could really hurt your boyfriends feelings..There must of been a reason why you broke up with your ex..so why are you wanting to go back out with him? AND if your not sure you dont love your boyfriend then dont lead him on..you just reallly need to think
268482
Sounds like you really miss your ex....
625788
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you can't be 100% into your current bf.  You need to figure out if you want to go back with your ex and try to make the relationship work - or if you want to start fresh with your new bf.  \nKeep in mind that the problems you had with your ex are still going to be there.  Whatever the reason was why you broke up with him will still be there - you will basically be going back into your old relationship and be faced with a lot of the same problems and issue.  If you think you can work things out and it will work this time then you should give it a shot.  However, if you know you can't work things out, then you should give your current relationship a try and stay with your new bf.
476742
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
444325
He wouldn't take you anywhere if he still doesn't have feelings for you.  In fact, he would probably be thinking of other things to do after being away that long instead of planning a surprise for you when he gets back.  So, don't think too hard about it.  The worse thing that can happen is that you find out on Dec. 19 if your ex still has feelings for you.  And, if he doesn't think of it as a start to moving on with your life.