i met this guy on the bus and i started to talk to him but as we was talking he just started lying about dumb stuff and i cought him  alot of tmes lying\n he calls my house telling lies\n what should i do?\n cut him off or just tell him that he needs to stop lying?
135027
Men lie for the same reason that women do.  People need to stop targeting an entire gender because some butthole mistreated them.  OH and I'm sure you've never told a lie?
494442
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
217753
Confront him! Try to get him in front of as many people as possible and ask him why he's lying about you. Say you know he must be a very insecure person that's why he always puts other people down to make himself feel better about himself. Then just walk away. He'll look a right idiot. Good luck!
152906
Be true to yourself. And be honest with this guy. It isn't fair to either of you to live a lie, so try to be honest and kind to him. Good Luck to you.
360573
Maybe you can talk to him and try and get him to tell you what he did without telling him what you did.For example: tell him you did something and it's really bothering you...He'll most likely say what...Tell him I rather not say..Say I don't know have you ever done something wrong and wish you didn't.If he says no keep the questions going..Like you never done anything you regreted or you never done anything your ashamed of.If he tells you then tell him your feelings on the matter. And make him promise he'll never do it again...Tell him he can go to jail.He'll most likely want to hear what your problem is and make up something say you lied to a friend and you want to be an honest friend one who is trust worthy.Technically it's true because your not coming out and telling him the truth about what you found out
8122
totally ignore him. pay him no attention. he'll eventually get tired of everything he is doing right now.this ex bf of yours might be an egoistic one that's why he is telling other people lies about you but if you know yourself that you're not the person he is talking about, i mean you know that what he says is not true you should not get affected. good luck.
176580
I have been friends with this guy for a while, since like kindergarten..and as he's gotten older..he just lies more and more. Once in highschool, he was out for a week and when he came back, he told everyone (including me) that he was in IRAQ patrolling the borders for America! (Because he was signing up to be in the army..or in the army, who knows for sure). I mean come on, you're not patrolling borders for like 3 days and then you come back w/out a scratch and go back to your schoolwork. Pshh!
268010
If he's suppose to be yours and with you and coming out of another girl's apartment and acts like that then yeah ask him what he was doing there. You have a right to know. Just by asking him what he was doing there is not accusing him of anything. Just remember though most guys are jerks. I learned that the hard way a couple of years ago. If you need to talk feel free to email me.
71602
Just ignore him that is very immature of him to do. You will learn not to let rumors get to you this world is full of them. No one has anything better to do than sit around and talk about somebody else. I wouldnt waste my time worrying about it though because its just added stress over some really immature jerk. He isnt worth worrying about. Believe me this kind of stuff happens all the time.
183321
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
567136
well one you should have told him everything from the start. two if he doesn't believe you then you can't do anything about it because no matter what you do or say you can't make him believe you. so all you can do it move on and forget about him.
75311
Well, for starters, I would let your boyfriend know that this is happening. I hate to imagine what he would think if he found out that this other guy is contacting you all the time to try to woo you and that you never let him know. That would certainly make him suspicious about why you weren't telling him. Of course you also need to speak with this guy that is bothering you and let him know that you have no interest in a relationship and that you appreciate him as a friend but that you will have to end the friendship if he keeps pushing the issue. He needs to know that this makes you uncomfortable and is inappropriate. If he still continues to contact you, stop accepting his calls. If he still bothers you, I would contact local police to see what actions you should take.
288753
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
251599
Just ask him about it, usually if there is nothing to hide he'll just answer you... but he may not want to answer because he thinks your accusing him of something... if that's the case just drop it until you have proof something is happening... Its probably nothing to worry about :)
49128
well,girl...you tell them that he is a lier!!!or,just let some time and it will not be a top subject as might be now.trust me,dont let him to feel as a winner here!!!he didn't get you,so this is his sick way to get over it,maybe.whatever his reason is,if someone whants to destroy you...you destroy him first! but if you wanna stay good girl anyway...then wait some time..he will have another victim by then.by the way..there is no country who can see in your bed...
69214
he is lying...screw him...such a liar...main thing is guys do not get into the true love...if you want to have fun...then go ahead and have fun..but if you going for his true love...then screw him...he is liar
135404
Looks like you have a problem.  If he is not going to the police and press charges it might be best to just leave it alone.  If this person is in your office, do not add more fuel to the fire by denying what is a lie.  A lie can not have legs unless you give them legs.  You have I suppose stated you did not steel anything, and that is the end of the issue.  There can be no proof, cause you have nothing that he can prove you have done.\n\nI would distant myself from him.  Make sure you protect yourself, so as he does not try to set you up in one way or another.  \n\nIf there is a superior you can go to have him put a stop to his actions at least at work.\n\nThose that know and love you will take you at face value.  Do not disappoint them. Stay true to yourself and get on with your life.  Those of your relationships that would believe a lie, then let them go.  as they say, "friends like that you don't need."  Make new ones.\n\nBy the way, I am taking you at face value and believe you.  Now walk in the truth and put the lie behind you.