1. the perfect guy you could find, but u never see him. and he has relationship issues.\n2. the badboy(that has a sweet heart) who makes u smile every time u see him.\n3. the funny guy who u think has a awesome personality, but has a gf.\n4. the guy who u could possibly interested in, and who is a great guy, but u had a relationship with his brother.
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Stay the hell away from #1!!!\nWhat makes #2 a badboy? \nWhy would you pick #3 is he's already spoken for? - He should be out of the equation.\n#4 seems like the best bet, but can you go to the family picnic without it being akward?
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Let me get this straight.\n\nCurrent BF - Nice guy, cares for you, treats you right.\n\nEx BF - Bad guy, doesn't care for you, treats you badly.\n\nYou're attracted to the bad boy image. You need to realize that YOU deserve the best, and it sounds like your current BF is a good start.
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depends on the guy and what type of relationship he is looking for a pretty little trophy to show off or someone he could possible settle down with someday.. personality, caring .. remember looks eventually fade
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Someone who will love for who I am. Someone who doesn't care what i look like or how I dress. Someone who likes me for me and not someone else. Someone who will always be there for me no matter what. That is my perfect mate.=)
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I like a good guy that looks bad. I dont want a bad boy thats going to treat me like dirt, always getting lock up , slanging, or any of that nonsense. I just like the se*Y lil thug style.
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First thing first.. We don't want to be referred to as "chicks". We want a honest, caring, affectionate, and fun guy. One that isnt lazy and likes to work. One that has goals for his future, is great with kids. Theres a start for ya.. Hope this helped.
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Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
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no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
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to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.
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1- manners\n2- personality\n3- looks
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1 = You need a PICTURE\n2 = You SMOKE - which may be fine for someone, but not me\n3 = You sound too good - any woman would question that\n4 = You are not active enough - you should log on every 2 days or MORE\n\nBut I really liked it otherwise; I think you would be a really great guy.
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
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1.humorous\n2.a nice smile\n3.doesnt force me to do anything\n4.strong arms\n5.short hair is sexy but if its a little longer than his ears it can be hot \n6.nice eyes unique ones i love \n7.nice butt (i am being honest)\n8.his lips \n9.ther kiss \n10. the way they touch me\n11. the way he shows me his love
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don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
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one who enjoys my company,one who cares about the little things around me,one who knows everything about me,one who is happy when i laugh, one who is supports when i am sad, one who is naughty when we are alone, one who does not think it as a short term relationship but a life long journey, one who's little things makes me moved by heart, one who makes me feel great, one who's actions are always admired, one whom i don't get bored at all, one who's mature enough to understand my heart, one who loves to spend time with me, one who enjoys or shares my ambition, AND THE ONE WHO LOVES ME>>>
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)