Don't I seem like a decent enough person?  I work hard.  But it seems she hates me?
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Some bosses you can never please. I had one that I could have stood on my head while I worked and it was never good enough.\n\nSometime I think when they don't like you perhaps you remind them of a teacher or aunt that hurt their feelings when they were a kid. Or you just may intimidate them by your knowledge and they think you are out to get their job.\n\nNote to Bosses....please be kind to your help because they are what gives your business success, and treating them like garbage is only going to promote high turn over.\n\nAs Bozo the Clown once said.."It's nice to be important but important to be nice." Be nice to your subordinates and they will be nice and work hard for you.
409239
Try not to let it get to you, but it might be a good time to update your resume and look around.  Working for someone like that isn't going to get any better.  She may be technically within her rights, but it's not good manners, to say the least.
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You have to be nice but don't let yourself be the doormat.\nShe wants you to be strong and true to yourself,\nso when you seem weak she punishes you (even though she may not realize this is what she thinks or what she does.).\n\nYour job is to be true to your strong male self,\nand you can be nice while doing that, it's just a bit of a balance...
358775
You are in a difficult situation and your reaction is totally understandable. If you have tried talking to her and feel this hasn't improved, there is not much you can do. Usually people react like that (especially people higher up then you) when they feel threatened. This would highly seem the case as she seems to get along better with people who are not as academically qualified as you are.\n\nThe way I see it, you have three options:\n1) you continue on and talk to her again to try an understand why she is like that\n2) talk to her supervisor about your concerns and see if they can do anything to help\n3) look for another job either in another department or in a completely different company.\n\nHope it all works out for you in the end you should work to live not live for work!
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These feelings that you are having toward her are going to keep building and building; if you don't go ahead and discuss them with her, you might lose your cool one day and really go off on her and say things that maybe you did not mean to and cannot be taken back.  It sounds to me that she is indeed taking you for granted and will continue to do so until you tell her how you feel.  Some people do not realize that they do this to others until it is brought to their attention.  Then again, on the other hand, some people are just like that and down right rude.  If I were you, I would tell her exactly how I felt about everything, but try to do it in a nice way.  From the sound of the narrative you wrote with your question, it seems as you are a good person and would handle this way.  Hopefully, once you confront her, she will see the "error" of her ways and change her attitude.  If she doesn't, at least then you will know that you tried and you will not fell bad when you tell her no the next time she wants something from you.  Good luck.
521002
Well hate is such a strong word.  Occasionally you just need to be slapped around so you can remember you place.  The problem is I don't think you have any women around that can remind you of what your place is.  Sad state of affairs!\n\nSee Ladies this is what happens when we don't give the weird/unattractive ones a chance, they turn into bitter, mean, women hating machines, that take all of the time & energy they would be putting into their 'chick' and vent it out their bitterness on us instead.\n\nI'm sorry dear, I'm sorry you were rejected, but don't you think it's time just to let it go?  Move past that.  Stop being angry & one day if your a very good boy, maybe just maybe you'll meet a nice girl that will date you.\n\nIf your not ready to let go then I encourage you to continue venting!  It will help with the process!!!   You always give me a good laugh.
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she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
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you should tell them you don't appreciate them disrespecting you and especially in front of people if you keep letting them do it there not going to stop. until you let them know how you feel .your just being too nice and that's OK but you have feelings too . tell them to treat you like they want to be treated ,they shouldn't threaten your job either that's not very professional .she could lose her job also  and start taking your lunch i would just do my job and go home you dont need friends like them .
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Your situation is just like mine ..thats why i always think that those who are descent or qite get the most criticizm ..today was a really bad day and it bothered me really badly when i heard hat girl talking crap loudly about me ..i just carry on and go to talk to those who are good or nice because theres got to be somebody who's nice even so if they are two faced noobody is perfect jake...always try to have a good time and dont care about such situations coz you will be finding yourself loosing alot of time thinking about those who buggs you off ...just be you and dont get too much offended by people and those who dont like it ..Screw Them !!!\n\n\n\nhope i helped
135376
Because sometime you are not being so nice as you think you are. don't be defensive and ask what you did that is upsetting  this woman and repeat it back to her so that you understand what she is saying and that you were listening to what she was saying to you. might help. give it a try.
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Having been in that situation before, it's understandable how you feel! But if you want to make her work without feeling you are letting her down, consider this: You aren't going to always be around. You'll move away, or perhaps you'll move on with life, meet new people. So will she. YOU will probably be more successful. And she won't have the experience to get along on her own. If you still care for her, despite all mooching, dump her (gently) on her bum and let her know she's got to learn to get around on her own two legs. No more help.\n\nOffer advice. Get her started with a step or two towards finding a job. But beyond that, refuse all help. Let her know that the job industry isn't always about who you know, but how much work you do.
571224
Maybe she sees to much of herself in you. Maybe she doesn't want you to turn out like her. That is why she is so hard on you. She probably doesn't even realize it.
196761
Hey she has to understand that some people have their own oppion. But you should still have made sure that when you said it you need to be really nice about it. Some girls are more sensitive then others. i think you should chill a little and then just go up to her and say you didn't mean anyoffence. you didn't actually mean to hurt her. and that it does look ok. Even if you don't like it. It does involve some lying but at least someone does not hate you. I bet if you try that she will not be mad at you anymore. But whatever you do just try to realax!
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Why do you stay with a woman that belittles you by calling you incompetent and lazy?\n\nDo you not think that you deserve better?
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Take a moment, make some soul searching and ask youself: Why do they hate you? What are the things they dislike about you? If you know the answers of these questions, i guess they'll find you worth their friendship. Avoid doing things other dont like about you or offending to them. Emphasize what good in you so that they'll realize your a good pal after all. :-D
32858
Chances are, She has self esteem issues. She is jealous of you. She is not happy in her own life. Don't let it bother you. Stay true to yourself, you can't fix her probs.
200667
Sounds to me that she will do herself in with a lack of credibility.  Your only recourse is to make sure YOU remain credible - and keep people like this out of your life as much as possible.  She's got it in for you since you have the ability to see her bad side - and she's probably afraid you will expose her to others.  Some day something will happen where it will be proven to the higher ups that she is a liar and manipulator.  Don't spend too much time worrying about it though.  It takes away from your own life and gives too much to hers.