do you take care..or are you mean/nice/  my man is being a jerk to me and he keeps saying stuff that sounds to me like he totally wants me gone..as in break up style gone..am i being too sensitive?
120630
I would give her all the attention  she needs to see  she gets back to her healthier self. Love is not running away from trouble but to help when somebody dear to you needs it.
229644
f*ck him up. He is asking for an ass wh!ppin. I don't believe in violence except when it comes to standing up for my lady. If you can't do it. get somebody who can.
109121
Talk it out, dude. That's the only way to get things right. But hey, be careful in doing so. It might be too much to ask but believe me, you'll need ounces of patience and tons of prudent speech as this maybe a sensitive ish. He probably needs to shower more often so he wouldn't have to do that again. Good luck! =)
124551
It is`easy to say get rid of him, but then I would be a hypocrite. I`have so many reasons not to trust my man. I wish i would have went with my instincts from the beginning. If you can't trust him and you can let him go, buy all means do so. But if you are like me, you won't. Now i let it be known my distrust of him. He gets mad at me for it, but oh well. I figure he deserves it, and if he gets so aggravated maybe he will leave me. it would be easier to let him go that way. My advice is get out now if you can. there must be a reason you don't trust him, and chances are it will get worse.
92623
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
283810
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
144123
He doesn't tell you he care because you treat him like shit. Try treating him like a human being and he will tell you he cares.Come to think about it;you are being a little abusive,don't you think.Treat him like you want to be treated.
102738
My question is . . . why do you care . . . you dump him for a reason.  Why do you care is she goes through the trash and take him home.\n\nI would be upset . . . I would just feel sorry for her . . . because she doesn't know what a jerk he is.
481886
You don't mention what the arguments are about.  It sounds like he's trying to control you.  You're getting all tied into knots trying to figure out how to please him.  What is he doing to please you?  He gets things all wrong on purpose dear.  He is making you unsure of yourself, and he's with holding his affection from you.  I don't think I'm wrong about this.  Dump this jerk while you still have some self esteem left.
495947
Interesting.  I just broke up with my stubborn boyfriend who also is very mean when he drinks.  Although he is one stubborn guy, he acknowleged that he was a person he didn't want to be when he drinks.  He made a big effort to cut back, at least around me, and it did help.  I think it says a lot about your relationship if he isn't willing to at least TRY to cut back.  It's not like you are asking him to stop having a good time, if he's mean, that is just not okay and it shouldn't be accepted.  I'd suggest talking to a couples counselor.
320472
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
302411
If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
51679
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
640742
I would say he has a control issue....meaning he wishes to control you. I would be careful in your relationship with him cause sounds to me he is on the first step.......witch is getting you away from the people you care about and the ones who care about you.....be careful and good luck
301172
Obviously this guy has issues with commitment. I think he is using you until something better and more appealing comes along. Its like you are his last resort when there isn't someone else. I would move out, stop returning his calls and distance yourself from him. There is nothing but heartache ahead if you allow yourself to become too emotionally involved. Keep him away and keep your heart to yourself if you have to be around him.
44259
If it turns him off, then you don't need him.  Someone who cares about you isn't going to let that get in the way of how they really feel about you.  If he came to you with the same problem, would you feel any different twords him?
330029
Breaks are ok like this, logical and smart.  He's being very mature.  You not going to like how I say this, and I honesty don't know a better wait, so i'm sorry in advance.  But this is your warning from him if I'm reading what you wrote right, your behavor isn't acceptible to him and he's not going to put up with it.  If you can't control it, you might want to move on, save yourself the divorce later.  Hope you don't, sounds like you lucked up and got yourself a good guy.  Alot of girls would love to be in your shoe's.  Don't blow it.