ive asked some people but things haven't worked out. one overdosed on drugs and idk what the hell im supposed to do. puke. i hate prom really.
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Don't go... You have great music taste. Share your musical taste with others and check out new bands while everyone is having a miserable time at the prom!
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If his cousin is in love with you, has the cousin tried to talk to you and tell you about it? \n\nDon't feel stupid, because YOU ARE NOT!! As a learning tool, just remember to never give up chances to make someone else happy. Always do what makes you happy and what will benefit you. \n\nGet over this guy and when the right time comes along, the you will meet up with the right guy. \n\nI am sorry you didn't get to go to your prom. You should have went anyway by yourself. You may have had a better time going alone than with a date. Lots of girls are doing the solo thing now.
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Well There isn't always a party.You have to be prepared for anything that comes at ya. Always be on time it counts for your grade.Make sure you ask for help when ya need it. Always call home cause if ya don't you'll feel home sick
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Yes, I do - friends took me out drinking. Ended up drinking way too much - 21 shots of random stuff. Got home, alternated between passing out and vomiting for 3 days. I really do not recommend this as a way of celebrating your 21st birthday. I think I was pretty lucky I was vomiting or I could have easily died of alcohol poisoning.
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dude, been there, done that. if you're on here talkin bout it, you aren't gonna do it. i tried, and failed, twice. once with asprin and paracetamol, the other time with ecstacy and ketamine. both times i was found and had my stomach pumped before it worked. i always wonder why i tried it, wether it was work, family, friends, drugs or some other factor that made me want to kill myself. sometimes i wish they had just let me die, other times i am glad they didnt.only you can make the choice kid, are things really as bad as they seem? are u doing drugs? do you need this girl to live? or is it just teenage angst against the world, like everybody goes through? think about it.
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you just really need totalk to someone. i lost a frien to suicide unfortunately i was in the room when it happened. i know how hard it is. i also had to attend 23 funerals in 10 months jst a few years ago between friends and family i wasn't surei wold make it either i really felt like my world was caving in on me. the thing that got me throgh it was my husband he always talked me through things, to this day he still makes sure i don't forget thememories of those friends and family members. one other thing i did was write letters to the people i was closest to especially my mom when i was feeling as you are now. i've read them at later times some i just keep in a box. good luck and please talk to someone!
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been there, done that.  have you walked around the house in your dress yet?  give it a go.  Look in the mirror as much as you want, gain some confidence, practice walking in your high heels.  I know this sounds funny, but it will help you feel a bit more comfortable by tomorrow.  As far as the prom goes, just about everyone that is not a cheerleader or ballplayer (or people of that status) are going to be nervous, so just know that you are not alone. All eyes may be on you...and who knows, you just might attract the attention of someone you want....
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UHHHH gut wrenching!!! Imagine if you do get in...it will be worse...but it is worth to try it out and get over it!@Get in the party and experience the worst!!!
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you do realize this isn't a question right...i am just jokin! hon, i can so relate. been going thru a crappy time lately too and as a young mom, wife, and college student there is a lack of people to talk to... i hear ya and i know how it feels when u just need a hug or a girl friend. (i sincerly mean a girl who is a friend, who might relate or something...or at least let you gripe and then hang out and take your mind off it!) Had to clear that up since I am a married woman (to a man who works 60 hours a week) :( - but hey i hear ya!! hang in there, i know the points on the license is terrible cause insurance is already high enough...ugh. You better learn your lesson tho woman: no more speeding, regardless! hehe besides with the price of gas, who can afford tickets!! :-) you can add me to your messenger if u wanna :) always happy to chat. hope everything gets better soon!!
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You've got time, don't worry about it.  You'll be the one knocking them dead at prom or class reunions!
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be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow her daily schedule. she CANT say no to that...
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OK what is up with this heart attack stuff..My husband and now your mom. \nShe will be in my prayers. Keep us posted about her updates. Take your laptop and keep in touch.\nI had a very hard time and still am dealing with it all. I come here to escape it all..I took my lap top in one day in his room and the Doctor asked me  have you heard of that Yahoo Q&A and I said yes and I showed him this one and he said there is this one babe from and he stopped and said no way...And I said yes..Funny small world................So you wanted new.........\n\nI  have  official made the commitment to take my road trip. I just emailed my family and told them that I was going and if they were not going to support me on this one OWell things happen..\nIt just hit me I need to do this regardless of life and what is going on. LOL for me
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Ask him. one last time, if he will go with you. If he says no; tell him that you are going to go with one of your male friends, and do just that! Then ask yourself whether or not he is the one for you (If he can not see how important the Prom is to you and put his own feelings aside to make you happy you may want to consider kicking him to the curb!
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If you don't ask her anytime soon, someone else is going to and she'll say yes. What's worse than being rejected? She waiting for you to ask her but thought you wouldn't and ended up with another date. Go up to her and ask her if anyone has asked her to the prom then ask her if she'll go with you. Worry too much about being rejected and you won't get the girl.
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You may feel that way today, but what about tomorrow, or next week.  It would be tragic if you took your life and spectacular thing were supposed to happen that you missed.  And what about your family and friend.  That would be a horrible heartbreak to give them.  Don't do it.  This too shall pass.
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I remember my prom.\nIt was fun.\n\nBut I spent about $500 on a dress and other things, and I had an even more fun time at a party a year later when I was in college - and everything was FREE!\n\nUnless, it's your wedding, there's no need for any hype for any kind of party.  It's just a huge, expensive party, and after the after-prom-party, it's OVA!
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Call the police ASAP, my good friend spent every penny he had on the drug, he spent about $250 a week and lost his job and most all of his contacts.  I finally called the cops on him and he thanks me to this day for saving his life.  If I would of waited any longer, I don't know if he would of been around.  Know that you can call the police from a pay phone and not give them your name.  Please do your mother a favor and get her into treatment before it's too late.  This is a very serious thing, and I know you love her, please do the right thing and get her help.