this is very important. i ould die for him, bnut if it means nothing or if he doesn't show it back, should i just move on????
129668
Well, you should not show too much affection towards them if your not quite sure how they feel. They might just be sayin it to say it. Talk to him about it. Ask him how come he doesn't show his love that much. But say it in a curious way. Do not make him feel that you are disrespecting him. It may cause many problems between your relationship.
107129
YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, BECAUSE HE PROBABLY FEELS THE SAME WAY. ESPECIALLY SINCE HE GIVES YOU SO MUCH ATTENTION. IF YOU DON'T THE SUSPENSE WILL KILL YOU.
564106
Carry on the way you are for now and don't be tempted to chase him.  Still go out as friends and have fun, you never know what the future may hold.  They may not stay together forever so hang in there for a while and see what happens. (Not advising you to steal him though!).   If they decide to get serious then you'll have to accept it. Unfortunately we all go through heartbreak at some time in our lives but love will come your way sooner or later.  Be patient and good luck!
265592
Don't hang around waiting for him, get on with your life. If he was committed and loved you totally, he would not need to "think about it".
328797
It sounds like you really care for each other go ahead and call him, and see what the fiture holds, if you never do then you will live in regret and doubt and asking what if... so go ahead and call, you will be relieved..
284194
looking at your long, long story, it really seems to bother you. so why don't you just ask and find out? if he accepts, great! if not, then at least you got piece of mind. in summary, you can only win if you ask. therefore: go for it!!
303717
If he is still talking to you than he is considering the possibility. Don't push it, but drop a reminder in a week. Just be careful not to loose a friend over this. I have dated friends and have lost some and not lost others, but there is no formula to it.
256197
I say take a chance and look him up. There's no point in always wondering what if. If you find him and he's not interested then you can move on because at least you'll know one way or the other. Of course if he wants to be involved then maybe you'll get a happily ever after! Good Luck!
102545
Stay far far away. I know its hard but you will be happy you did. Hes just playing you.
572154
guess,you should stop reaching out to him,and see if he cares he would turn around or  pass him,i do understand its very tough when you care,but why should you put yourself under his  feet to be trampled with your feelings.... i am going thru the same just getting stronger
143753
no, i dont think you should. it would do nothing good since you boviously can't get him. jsut try to forget baout him and get someone else.
50397
Why dont you just tell him how your feeling? if that doesnt work then you have to do what you gotta do cause u cant just end it at the spur of the moment u have to be patient cause maybe it is true this time... i know that you'll regret it cause right now you dont even know what to do cause u dont wanna lose him but if worst comes to worst then u have to end it before you get hurt much worse... anywayz gluck and dont worry if it dont work out theres still more fishes in the sea ;]
550031
who gives a shit if he dosnt like you anymore, get over it, you cant get him back, so get off your sad sorry for yourself ass and do something w/ your life...find someone else, there are plenty more guys out there, stop worrying about this one, its not worth it.
173300
Don't do it! you are just heading for more heartbreak and will end up making yourself feel stupid and desperate.Is it really worth it? Let him go and find another fish in the sea.xxx
233140
Hey you missed a chance. I will suggest not to run behind him. Life is too big. If he is not interested, forget it. And allow him to concentrate on somebody. ;)
284250
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
187767
move on move on. You deserve better then that. Your holding on to a dream that one day he'll love you. Break it off and if he comes back to you then he does love you, if not then he never did and you will know your answer. but dont call him. let him make the first move back to you.