I find it very disturbing that a man can date more then one woman but if a woman does the same she's a whore.  Besides what if she's dating like two or three maybe four guys with no strings attached and none of them know about each other.  Why is that so bad, are men and women always gonna be criticized so differently?
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I personally don't look at a woman as a whore if she has multiple dating partners.  Also what you do is your business once you don't put yourself out there to be called a hoe you should not worry.  \n\nI was dating 3 guys and I was not sleeping with them all at one time.  We are in a new era of dating.  If an adult looks at you as a whore then they have nothing better to do.  Until you commit to one man you can enjoy the dating scene.  If you were committed maybe then I would call you a whore.
153281
Because no matter what, one woman will never be enough for most guys. They are pigs. They fantasize about doing more than one girl at once because they can't have just one. They are sluts.
40874
for some men its a fantasy to be fullfilled, in other yes its a matter of maturity.. women now a day as men tend to loose the morals and maturity instilled in older generations. then again it could just plane fact that some ppl enjoy being with other ppl... as long as there is love why shoudl it matter.
234419
If the guy loves the woman he is with, I don't think he'll think of other women when they make love. This also applies to the woman as well.
521778
Your hurt is very understandable.You can't allways know what the other person is doing in a relationship and this is where trust comes in.We all want to trust someone and not have to think about what may happen if they do go astray.Not all men are this way.Some of us would love to meet someone that feels the same way and would respect a bond between 2 people.Maybe you are attracting this type of person.Look at where you have met these men and see if there is any connection as to the locations.I'm not suggesting that you hang out in the wrong places but maybe the men you meet are there for the purpose of finding women.Just a thought.
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Most guys do because they feel that taking someone's virginity makes them a man. Others value that a woman can wait for her true love, he may have made mistakes and wrong choices or has had his virginity taken by another woman, but if he's in love and wants to wait to have sex with you, then that's something special. Other men think that a woman that is a virgin is pure, they don't want anyone that has been with men before because it makes them feel dirty. Even though they've been with other women and have done everything possible with regard to sex, they want their woman to be untouched. I don't understand their thinking in this case because if a man wants me to be untouched, I want him to be untouched as well, it goes both ways. But I can respect someone that has dated and has been through things in life just as well as he should respect me or any other woman that has. I'm not saying that men should date promiscous slutty women just because they have been promiscous and slutty and now want to cahnge their ways and settle down. I'm saying respect goes both ways, having something that's of the utmost importance such as a virginity should be on both parts, unless the second example I've stated happens. It's so confusing, but I know people like this, men and women (more men than women) who need to get off their high horses and realize that no one is pure or completely innocent. Good luck with your situation.
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
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It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
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Any real poligomous relationship is rare and should only suit certin people with no duty about it...\n\nExample a guy and two bisexual women who all love each other...\n\nOr a Woman and two bisexual guys... \n\nFunny in all the poligamous systems its always one guy and lots of girls...\n\nAnd if one of the girls finds a new lover the guy is most upset despite having many girls... ie hypocrite but thats religion for you\n\nSwinging parties make more sense.
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Yes it is. When your done, your done.  The problem is, is that most men are used to behaving that way and it's fine, but when a woman does it to them, doesn't feel so great. Take a lesson. And yes it is contrary to the idea, and most men can't give a woman multiples anyway.  And if you know a guy who can, CAN I HAVE HIS NUMBER?
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I have been in just about the same situation as this.  I hate to say it but, once a cheater always a cheater.  If she went out with other guy and even if she said she never had sex or what ever she will keep going out with him because she is thinking that he is the light at the end of the tunnel.  Or if they are just friends.  Sorry but there not.  Guys can not be friends with women, we always want more.  You know what I mean\nWomen are crazy.  \nEveryone says no one can understand women, that's because women don't even understand themselves.
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Being a man, I'll take a shot at this.  I think women are emotionally superior to men.  Because of that, men can lean on women for the support that they cannot provide for themselves in a crisis.  I think your theory is generally correct.  I know some that have done rather well in life without a wife.  However, there are significant women in their life on whom they fall back when the going gets really tough.\n\nAnother factor is that a single woman has "sisters".  Women provide mutual support to one another.  You don't see that among single men.  Do you think that "Sex in the City" could ever have been done with four heterosexual men?\n\nFlip side:  a good man makes a woman a better person, as well.  Women alone can become cynical, rigid, and callous sometimes.\n\nWe all need each other.  But, when the chips are down, a single woman can handle it better than a single man.
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It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
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Because they have no consideration for women. Women are displays of sex and domestic workers. Some men are highly selfish and don/t consider the feelings of the other person. I don't think that  you can completely trust a man, because hey, he is a man, but you can get to a point where you can accept him for who he is as long as he doesn't jeopardize your relationship. Think though, the guy who cheated on me is now being cheated on  with a woman that he is absolutely in love with. Karma is a bitch with highheels and a miniskirt....:)
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Actually, you can. And not only two.  Who says that love is whole and can not be given to more than one person? It is just a cultural bias. There have been many cultures where men have multiple wives and women have multiple husbands though the former is more prevalent.
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It's not men or women it's people.  People cheat...always have always will.  Same as lying, stealing etc.  You just need to find someone who doesn't.  That's the hard part. If someone cheats on you, most likely you were not meant to be together in the first place.
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It depends on what you mean by boyfriends. \n\nYou can date more than one person at a time (and I'm not talking about having a sexual relationship with any of them) if they all know where they stand and that they are not the only one. Too many kids these days think that they have to be mutually exclusive almost immediately. What happened to playing the field? \n\nWhen I met my husband I was being asked out by several nice guys. I was getting to know them and we were enjoying doing things and each other's company. They all knew I went out with other people and they all knew where they stood. And they were willing to date on those terms. It is very healthy. The purpose of dating is to meet and learn about all types of people. You learn what you want when you date different people. It has nothing to do with a fear of commitment. When you meet the right one then you become exclusive. And when I'm referring to dating I'm talking about something most people would find alien-dating without sex. Most people jump into that without knowing a great deal about who they are being intimate with. Big mistake. \n\nFor your question-it depends on her motivation. And as long as she is honest with them and they know where they stand.