I have a lesbian friend that is almost like a sister to me and she has gay friends also which are cool. She started talking about a gay male couple she knows that are having problems in the bed, I told her being a gay guy is cool, but don't tell me anything about guys doing each other because it is just sick to hear it. Then brought him over to my place and wanted all off us to watch a movie together to ease his mind. It turned out to be a gay porno, as soon as I saw that I said "See Ya". If you are a male would you want to watch a gay porno with a queer next to you with wondering eyes??? If this makes me homophobic than fine I'll be it!!
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no you are not homophobic. If you dont like gay porn,you just dont like it,I would of said "see ya" too. Different strokes for different folk.
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What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
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I LOVE THE L WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!! \nwell pardon me *clears throat* but its the only form of lesbian entertainment that is available where i come from....lol\nrealistic? hell no, i'm almost certain, noone's chart is as huge as shane's! and i dont think mere mortals can look good with pants riding up her boobs, but bette makes it look sexy.\ni dont think anyone's 1st time can be as hilarious as dana and alice's 1st time as a couple! \nbut i guess this is the thing that makes the L word interesting and appealing to us gay people. it is actually quite informative, i wonder have anyone else noticed it, the caravagio,flagelations,nietzsh are all real..... didnt know prior to this. so i guess it is good. we get eye candies and also hard facts and travel tips too....lol\nso ,viva le L word!\n\nthough my personal wish list would be to get jenny shimizu on the cast..... she'l really make "shane" look like a pussy..... or offence to all you shane fans out there....
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I am not even going to waste my time and reply to most of what you are saying because you said yourself you CAN'T GET IT. But I just wanted to point out that you are wrong about animals and homosexuality, there is large numbers of research that shows homosexual activity in animals, all types of animals. So who says it isn't natural?\nHere are just a couple of links to studies done on it. One artical is even from the national geographic.\nSo maybe you should REALLY know what you're talking about before you get on a homophobic rant.\n\nEDIT\nOk since you really want to know. Then no I don't see it as an illness, and to me it is prefectly natural. As another poster said, I can still look at a man and see him as good looking, but when it comes to sex I am just not interested and i actually get grossed out at the thought some times. \nCan you think of a man that you know that you would NEVER want to think of sexually and if you did it would totally gross you out? Like a family member or maybe some nasty dude that lived down the street or the plummer with the hairy crack? Thats how I feel when I think of most guys sexually, I don't want any sweaty stinky .....thing coming anywhere near me.\nNow women on the other hand...true some of us can be sweaty and stinky and nasty but over all women are just beautiful, everything about a woman is beautiful, inside and out.
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Mind your own business. A hidden camera in her bedroom is a cheap shot. If you want to see two Lesbians getting it on, rent some porn..........
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They don't really like girls. Both of the actresses that play gay are the show are straight in real life. Sorry to disappoint. Watch the L Word. Some of the actresses are actually lesbians.
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I haven't heard of anyone saying they think it's disgusting for women to watch male gay porn. I know straight men are very vocal in being anti anything gay male. I doubt there is a double standard because the majority of women who aren't turned on by m/m porn are doing so just cos it doesn't do it for them. You're in a minorty and you ought to celebrate that difference.
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Have you ever been with a female before?  I don't think you're a lesbian because you have admitted that you want to marry your boyfriend and have children with him.  I think you're just curious about being with a woman.  If it's only for the sexual aspect of it, why not let your boyfriend watch?  That should please all parties involved.  :O)
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ewww you masturbate in front of each other um yeah.....thats strange.  i'm straight but that doesn't mean its okay for me to masturbate with my guy friends.
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It creeps me out! gay guys dont bother me but, I also dont hang out with them. lesbians scare the hell out of me, its gross and stay away.
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Why tell them?  It isn't any of their business, is it? Your sexual preference has nothing to do with them.  I'm not trying to be rude, I just don't see what business it could possibly be of theirs.
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I've been intimate friends with a gay male for 20 years and we have yet to even dream of that circumstance.  I would be willing to bet money the answer would be a resounding "no".  And why should they?  They'd probably be better off without bringing the sex question into such a dire situation.  Why does everything between a woman and a man have to be about sex anyway?  No self-respecting person, man or woman, would compromise their own essential self for a moment of physical gratification.  The question should be "Would they learn more about what it's like to be a man or a woman, thus bettering the human race as a whole, by learning to appreciate the differences and the similarities?"  Convoluted, but you get the point.  Stop making everything that involves the sexes about sex!  We could enjoy the island much better that way.
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I've never said this statement, but I understand it from a woman's point of view. It has absolutely nothing to do with gay men and what they do or don't do in the bedroom. This statement is said in frustration when it seems like there is a shortage of quality, available men. The only relevance it really has to gay men is that they are not "on the market" for single, hetero women.
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... you're kidding, right? I get turned on whenever I even THINK about hot gay guys... yes, yes, I'm a girl, but I'm a voyeur first and foremost. *smiles* \nSex weighs on the mind of EVERYONE, not just guys. Guys are purportedly turned on "more easily" because they don't hide it. We gals are just a little more discreet...
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I say to each their own.I don't think that they're nasty and there's nothing wrong with being gay.People at a young age are discovering their sexuality and some are straight while others are gay.I have had gay friends before and I treated them equally as I did with my straight friends.As long as they don't go into detail about their sex life,that's fine.Some people prefer their own sex instead of the opposite.
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If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
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this is what gets me woundering about gay/ lesbians...if a guy is gay he says he dont like woman....but he dresses and tries to look like a woman....then there are lesbians says i cant stand men but the get the short hair cuts and dress like a man work out like a man and try to be like a man...so if someone dont like the oposite sex why do they try so hard to be just like them.... i do agree with you its just nasty.....my comment on the subject,,,