I really like this boy and I have flirted with him alot but then one of my friends comes and flirts with him which is my job and now he notices her rather than me. I'm not going down without a fight but the thing is that I am old school and I want him to ask me out. What do I do?
122086
Relax and forget about it, he obviously likes alot of girls. He's not worth a frienship and she's just showing you this.  Lesson learned.
137314
lol. since u guys have been friends for a long time. i dont know if he will ask u out. he may be too shy, or think that u see him as a brother. so if u really like him, u gota let him know or leave him clues. but seeing as how dumb us mens are. u might wanna go with "hey u busy tomorrow, wanna go on a date or something".
257309
You did not mention your age or his.  It just might be that he is not to sure how to take the flirting.  \nInstead of asking him if he likes someone else when that person comes around ask him why he likes to watch her and what is it about her he is interested in.\nThen ask him in a suttle way what he likes about you.  \nTell him what you like about him as well.
345972
If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
53813
yeah, im a guy so this might help. Flirt a little, and maybe try to be the boy(s) u like friend. Then gradually overtime maybe the boy will ask you out, unless hes gay, or has a girlfriend.\n\nOh yeah, if anyone needs some more advice mail me or chat with me.its cody_22407
279205
do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
83144
Let me tell you this from my experience. If a boy picks on you, its a very good thing. I'm just wondering how long has it been? How long have you guys been friends? Do you like him? Some guys wont do anything more than pick on a girl unless the girl shows signs of interest also. I know that if i pick on a girl and she doesn't flirt back, i will lose interest already. So if you like him then just play along and flirt, but if you dont, most likely he likes you but he just doesn't feel ready or comfortable to show you. Thats what i strongly believe.
429196
Explain to him that you are flattered by the attention he is showing you and you are pleased that he likes you so much because you feel the same way, but you know he has a girlfriend, and until that changes and he's "single" again, the flirting has to stop.  He'll respect the fact that you don't want to break up a relationship or get him into trouble with his girlfriend, and you aren't putting any pressure on him - you're merely being honest.  Always take the high road.  If he is being honest with you, and he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he will move on from his current relationship.  If he doesn't, you'll know that his flirting was just that and nothing more.  Good luck!
172031
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
89748
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
101254
You should have more respect for yourself than to flirt with a guy who only wants to be friends.  You should ask him why, and respect his answer.  While you chase someone who doesn't want to be your boyfriend, someone that does or will is missing the opportunity.
44002
maybe he likes you but his friends maybe don't find you attractive because before a boy ask a girl out he always consult on of his closes homeboys to see if she is acceptable of it could be that he doesn't want anyone to interfer with yall relationship maybe he has crazy ex-girlfriend who still want him and will fight anyone to get him back or maybe because he trying to juggle more than one girl at the same time i think you should ask him why he doesn't want anyone to know - goodluck
432169
Flirt back.  It doesn't mean you have to go out with him.  Besides, once she moves on to her next boyfriend you might want to date him. So don't be one way or the other, just be nice and friendly, flirt a little but don't be too encouraging. It is fun to flirt without having to worry about it going anywhere.
554828
hes retarded....if he were worth the time he would confront the situation and ask you out...not play stupid power games with other boys...its not about you that he does that in front of the other guy\n...its about him...and being better than the other guy, he cares nothing for you
383230
Well l guess it's all up to you. If he really liked you , you would think he would of asked you out by now. Do you think that perhaps he thinks you just want to be friends with him. You have your work cut out for you then.I guess you will have to give him the nod and let him know you are keen on him. Depending on how long he has been single he may need some more time. Only you will know by the response you get whether he is keen on you or not. Good Luck  just speak to him.
78790
Either he is a baby junior son of a btch or he has a crush on you. I will go out on a limb and say you are probably an adolescent and that is just what some guys do when they like a girl. He is probably too scared to ask you out and this playful way of flirting is a way for him to get your attention and is easy to turn around if you don't like him back. I say that you give him the green light if you like him back or just play along the next time he "teases" you because now you know why. Best Wishes
271889
If you take your friendship with this boy to the next level, then there is always the chance that the friendship will end if you break up.  Because it isn't just "the next level" it is an entirely different kind of thing.\n\nMaybe that's why he won't ask you out.  And maybe he has problems he doesn't want you to know about.  Maybe he doesn't want to upset you.\n\nAs his best friend for life, you really should wait for him to ask you out, now that he knows you are interested in going out with him.