A 50+ yr old woman hired three men to come to NH from TX & Mexico to pick up my 13 yr old grandaughter for her 15 yr old son.  She was missing for 7 weeks and finally found in Neuvre Laredo Mexico.  Authorities know about this but they refuse to do anything.  We have all kinds of information.  What can I do to see that this woman gets charged so she won't do this to some other family when her son decides he wants a little playmate.  It seems to me "It's all in who you know"  and we don't know anyone of importance.  Thank you for your help.
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Alert the local and national news media. Or refer to the bat as suggested which is the first thing I would have done. Don't even get me started on crimes against kids.....a bullet is much cheaper then a trip to court....
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You need more details.. ages, area taken from, etc.. Check out some of the missing and exploited children sites. They can help you get notices posted.. Good luck..
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be careful with the little ones on this site dirty male 27 has just set up camp there known as conspiracy alert just thought the heads up on where he is at the moment might help try explaining in brief about this person and what he may be trying to do maybe i don't know kids these days are so strong minded though it's hard to pull them away once they dig there heels in
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As sad as it sounds, yes the uncle will more than likely be charged with child abuse or endangerment. My friend was done like that. Her kids beat her up and if she tried to protect herself they called the law or social services. She has battery charges against her and the kids were taken. She only disciplined them not abused them. The way the laws are today any kid can hollar child abuse and get by with it and the parents pay no matter what goes on. How's that for the gov't getting involved. Things should go back to when parents took kids out to the woodshed and a lot of things would be better. I know cause i was raised that way.
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I knew someone that went through this. The cops are useless, unless he physically hurts her or the kids -they won't do crap. Since he's been there more than 6mo he can claim residency even if he wasn't paying anything. But since he's paying the bills she'd Have to get the eviction order for the cops to do anything. Plus he could fight the order on the grounds he's paying the bills there. She's lucky it isn't a common wealth or they'd be married and she'd need a divorce. Honest! \nGuys like this are preditory parasites! They find a single mom & a nice person, then they terrorize and threaten this parent so that she won't fight back. Normally, they chase off any friends so the person is isolated. The system don't work for these people, they have lives and don't want to leave their home. Worse, for those with kids, they don't have anyplace to go with their children.\nAnd don't say shelters - more desperate parents fleeing abuse lose their kids in those shelters. They're told that the kids will be placed in safe homes, til the parent can get settled...trouble is try and get the child back afterwards. It's almost impossible! And they brainwash young children into saying they were hurt or abused by the parent. I got that bit of information from an ex-social worker who got disgusted with the lies and stuff she saw.\nMoney given as donations to organizations and persons to find and aquire young male and female children for waiting adoptive parents. \nVices that rule the world - Sex  Money  Knowledge\nthree powers that can control anyone anywhere - everyone has their price.\nThe mom I knew only escaped due to friends finding out what was going on and coming  to her and her children's rescue. Moving her and her family out of his reach and keeping tabs on him for 2yrs so he couldn't follow - including false leads as to where she was living.\nThey supplied the money, they supplied the moving truck and they stood guard when he came to try and stop her or take the kids...(none of them were his so it would have been kidnapping) but they kept him powerless so she could escape.\n\nThis mom doesn't seem to have that option. Sure, she could take what money she gets, take her kids and flee. But what about where to go? She's not able to drive so how can she afford to pay to get away and get a place to stay. She most likely doesn't want to tramatize the children or depending upon the age of the kids - she may be afraid of being able to keep an eye on all of them. Depends on her visual ability. Being handicapped (visually - in her case) she's limited on options even more. \nI'll bet she's tried saving up money but then he's found out about it and drained it all. That's what happened to my friend. He was always making sure that she was dependent on him, afraid of what he'd do...the threats to her kids...and they say that terrorists are non-americans....ask some of these women that have lived with the all american terrorist male butthead!\n\nI hope someone will come to her rescue like we did for the mom I know. She's got her life back and has never looked back. Thankfully, her children don't really remember much about that time either...not clearly. I hope some of her friends can figure it out and save her before it's too late.
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First of all i would call the police and make a report. I would also try finding your counties website they all have one.
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You could always put a search in on the net.  Enter the guys full name in the search bar and see what comes up.  Also, the county of this persons origin, or for certain where the trial would have been held would have the records, which should be a matter of public record.  And...why would you want to find him?  Sounds like he didn't want to have anything to do with you, and make a clean break.  think about it first gf.
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She is a flat out child abuser.No 7 year old I know would choose to be paraded all over the country pleading his mothers case.He should be in school and playing with his friends like any normal 7 year old.He is being used as a pawn.He should be taken away from her and given a normal life since he is "an American citizen" as we are told over and over.Her butt should be deported to the southern most part of Mexico.
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Well, the police aren't going to show up and serve the warrant because he's not there to serve the warrant on, right?  \n\nThey might very well come looking for him there, though, because evidently he has used his address with his lawyer (though the police almost certainly don't have access to that information).  \n\nWhether they might come or not, why not head this thing off at the pass?  You've said you're okay with them showing up if the kids aren't home and you'll give them your ex's current whereabouts, so why not just cough it up right now and hopefully keep them from even showing up at your door?\n\nSome ways to do that which would likely be the most effective:\n\nWrite a letter to the court he's being prosecuted in and give them his current address.  \n\nWrite another letter to the prosecutor's office (just a photocopy of the court's will do), and tell them the same thing.\n\nWrite a letter (again, photocopies are probably fine for all of these) to the police department or sheriff's office that would likely serve the warrant, if there was one issued.\n\nYou might even want to consider returning the paperwork to the attorney's office with a note that if he fails to show up, you'll gladly give his correct address to anyone who asks for it.  \n\nAll this letter-writing should also take into account your risk for doing so.  If you think he'd take violent exception to your actions, you might not want to do it in a way that he'd know it was you.  If you'd like, enable the Yahoo!Answers user-to-user email, and I can send you a suggestion for how to do that.\n\nYou might also check with the court to find out what his next appearance date is - that is probably public information, no matter what state you're in.  Explain why you want to know, and ask if they will tell you (if you call after that date) if he showed up or not.  If he showed up, then this is all moot.  If he didn't, then you might want to consider writing those letters.\n\nBest of luck!
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Having been charged and convicted are two different things. If I knew for sure that someone had been convicted I would delve in to the matter a lot more. At one time, I would have said mind your own business, but in view of all the horrible things that have happened to children, I would have to bring it to social services. Please do not proceed unless you really have something solid and well founded. This little girl has obviously been traumatized a lot being taken away from her parents. Depending on the charge, some people can change. Did you read about this person in the newspaper or did someone gossip about this situation? Which ever way you go, let your conscience be your guide.
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i would call the montel show/or write a detailed letter to the show. She might be able to help you, if she can, she might have the answers that you need to put the person in prison. good luck, my heart is with you. my children never met their grandmother on his side, because she was murdered by their grandfather, i do know who did it, but i can sympathize with the heatache.
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I can understand what you are going through. The first call I made was the day my granddaughter was born. My daughter was using drugs and leaving the baby with whoever would take her for days at a time. Everytime I called to report her, I was told that they would have to catch her in the act. Even though she had been caught in the act on more than one occasion, the baby was not taken from her until she was ten months old. That was almost six months ago and now I'm fighting the foster care agency and child welfare. There are times that I wished I had never made those calls because now my grand baby is worse off than she was with her mother. She's been moved ten times in five months and has developed a fear of men. \n\nNot being a blood relative, there is little you can do legally but you can be supportive of your boyfriend.  He will need an attorney to get through this tough time. Perhaps you can suggest to the daughter that the two of you would be willing to keep the children until she is in a better position. I found out the hard way that attacking my daughter for her abusive behavior made matters worse. I finally accepted her the way she was and she slowly started to see that what she was doing was harmful. We are now working together to get the baby placed in my home and our relationship has blossomed.\n\nThere are many resources online that may help you. Try a search on kinship care and grandparent's rights in your area. I wish you all the best.
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Of course he's responsible, collecting it is another matter altogether.  First she has to establish paternity, get an order from the court for payment then take it to the DA's office to try to collect.  They should have someone in social services to help her.  Or a self help person at the court.  \n\nAgain, trying to collect if he leaves the country is another matter..
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This sounds like a terrible story, but is there a question in it somewhere?\n\nEDIT: Okay, let's try to figure out what the question is.  Are you trying to figure out how you can get your daughter back from your ex-husband?  If that's it, you really ought to talk to a lawyer...maybe you can find a decent one through the Bar Association that will do some pro bono work.  If you just aren't interested in working with lawyers, and you really want to involve this group in something as personal as this, you're going to have to post more details...and more *relevant* details (stick to the facts, ma'am).\n\nIf you want better answers, ask better questions and include more of the important details.  Things people might want to know are these:\n\nAre there any court orders right now?\n\nWhat state do you live in?\n\nWhy did your ex take your child, or at least why do you think he did or what did he tell you?\n\nHave there been any allegations of improper parenting on either side?  Any mental health issues on either side?  Drug use?  \n\nIf I'm guessing correctly at what you want to know, I just don't think you're going to be able to get the answers you need in this forum.
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I called 411 they told me the number is from highland Maryland but it must be a cell phone because she said she had no listing sorry good luck I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT I TRIED THE NUMBER AND IT IS DISCONNECTED  I WOULD CALL THE MARYLAND POLICE AND SEE IF THEY CAN GET THE RECORDS OR TRY USING THE AREA CODE AND PREFIX CHANGE ONE OR TWO OF THE LAST FOUR NUMBERS AT LEAST THEN YOU MAY BE ABLE TO FIND OUT THE CELL CARRIER IF HE  IS RIPPING YOUR  UNCLE OFF HE PROBABLY LEFT THEM WITH A BIG BILL AND YOU BE ABLE TO CALL THE CUSTOMER SERVICE NUMBER OF THE CARRIER AND GET SOME INFO. IF NOT THEN YOU ARE STILL ONE STEP CLOSER KNOWING THE CARRIER
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The police can find her if you know her first and last name and know what she looks like. You need to press charges on her for doing that randomly, unless there is somethin going on that we don't know about.
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Have you contacted the police? They can trace things from the computer. If you think she might be in danger, and if she is under age and has been taken across a state line, you should get them involved. The longer you wait, the colder the trail and the more danger she could be in. Good luck.