Kissing tips, anyone?\nI've never let my best friend kiss me on the lips yet. (He's also my boyfriend, but hey, he was my best friend first!) I was waiting for the "right moment". I think the moment has arrived (at least, I can't control myself any longer... =SIGH=). He's not home right now, but I think I'll be able to get him on his own this Tuesday... Any tips? I'll be much obliged! (Thanks in advance!)
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Fresh breath.  Not too damp lips.  \nDon't shove your tongue straight down his throat ;)\nAfter the initial kiss, move on, kiss his neck, lick his inner ear (guys love it, let's hope he's cleaned his ears out) then run your tongue gently over his eyelashes.  Have fun!!!
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What should you do? Well, here's the thing. He crossed a line that he may not have thought was there. There is the possablitity that since he kissed you, he thought that was what you wanted. You did not indicate whether you liked this attention or not... but either way, talking to your friend about what happened is the best way to go. I do not mean walking up to him in public... make sure you are in a private (although not so intimate) setting. If you are not gay let him know. Depending on how you feel about gay people will determine how you will ultimately feel if he comes out to you. I would think friendship trumps all else... but he did kiss you and if it made you uncomfortable, well, he needs to know that. He may be alone and that act was one of two things. A way of showing you affection and desire or a way to let you know he feels different from everyone else.\nTalk to him, don't just let this fade as if it didn't happen. His actions indicate that he needs you as a friend more than ever. So, time to put your friendship to the test and hear him out.\n\nGood luck
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Yes I think you should talk to him. If he does try to kiss you then see how you feel at the time and if it feels wrong just stop him then and let him know you really like him but right now your not ready.  You should also get rid of that bad friend. They are no good for you. Good luck
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exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
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Same exact thing happened to me! i have this neibor and every night we would sneek out to see eachother and i'd be like, ok were just hanging out, nothing big. and then id see those eyes and BANG i kissed him AGAIN. my boyfriend got pissed. hes like, if you love ME then you wont be sneeking out to see him! so this is what i did: i didnt want to hurt my neibors feelings, but i really really wanted to keep my boyfriend, so i just looked at the situation for a long time and tried to get my prioritys straight. thats all you have to do. look at the situation, see how you feel about him, and how your friends feel about him, and how your mom feels about him, and see which feelings are more important to you. if you care more about your friends feelings, then just stop. use your friends like a motivator to not do it. if your feelings are more important, go for it ; )
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it lasted two seconds (i realize this now because i can compare it to other kisses i've enjoyed) but i literally lost ALL sense of time and space. she was (and still is) my dream date; after we pulled away the first words i said were, "that did not just happen." because it was TRULY UNBELIEVABLE. It happened when, where, and with who I wanted. SPECTACTULAR! We're still dating, and that even was a while ago.\n\nYou'll never forget it, especially if the conditions are JUST RIGHT!\n\nwhee! now i'm feeling all romantic!\nhappy valentine's!
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bcuz guys r like that-for them it's all about"men points" and who kissed her the longest-at least for alot of guys....sounds to me like your boyfriend is better then that though.....to giv eu my honest opinian i think it's fine u gyus haven't kissed yet-i don't usually like to either tilla couple months in and every couple is different-do what feels right-if u don't want to kiss yet-don't-if he trys to push u into it tell him the truth.... and maby-just maby if u aren't comfortable with it in the next 3-6 months maby he isn't really the one for u-the perfect guy u would be comfortable to do just about anything with...but like i said everyone is different-don't be pressured by his friends n don't let him be either....when u guys feel in lvoe enough to kiss-kiss-and not before then.....jut remember too a kiss is no big thing just an expression of love for e/other so ya know....don't make him feel like u don't want to kiss him-jus that u aren't ready.\nwell i hope it all works out for u and i hope i helped!\ntake care\n~Ally
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I'm in the beginning of a relationship with a celebrity that I'm sure you all know. She said she has taken a chance on dating someone not famous so I have to be absolutely quite about it until we see where it goes. I'm starting to calm about it but I'm still super excited to just tell someone. I can't mention it to my friends, family, nobody-you are the first to know! We both like each other very much. It's been 5 months. I spend about 3 days a week with her-I wish it was more, but I don't think I can take the anonymity forever. If we get serious and go longer than a year I think it will be time to let the cat out of the bag by then. I'm always excited about this happening. It will be so crazy for my friends and family to find out on TV. You will know to. Keep an eye out because you will remember that I answered this question!
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I have been to college myself. I never heard of Kissology (the study of kisses) 101. that is pretty funny, but maybe he is right.  Did you know that kissing can be considered a sexual act within itself?  After I read that, I stopped kissing around.  (I am so giggly right now, i have got to go.)
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Kiss her cheek or lips. It will show that you are not trying to jump in her pants, and she'll respect you for that. If I were in that situation and my guy kissed me on my lips or cheek, I would think that was sooo sweet. My first kiss from my husband was on my right cheek when we were 15. I still think it's sweet. (I'm 20)  :)
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if you havent had your first kiss yet, make sure it is with someone you like and then you will treasure it forever.\nmine wasnt great but it was jus awkward more than anythin and i was forced into it. wait until your ready and the times right.
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My first love...gosh..this question brings back memories. His name is Derek. I was 15 years old when I met him. I had never kissed or even held hands with anybody before. I remember the first time we kissed. We were at a mutual friend's house and we walked outside together. I knew what was going to happen and I was so nervous. I started rambling on and on avoiding eye contact. Then I pointed up to a star that was shining really bright and I go "Hey, Look at---" and before I could finish my sentence he turned my face to his and kissed me. It was so sweet, so innocent. I will never forget that first kiss for the rest of my life. Derek and I were together for a year, but of course we are young and we came to a point that we were ready to experience being with other people. I still talk to him from time to time, just to see how he is doing. Even though we aren't together anymore, he will always hold a special place in my heart.
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This is kissing: Kissing is a pleaseure you experience with someone you really, and I mean really, like! If he likes you and he kisses you back then you are in girl~!!!!\nHere is ~Kissing 101~ from the lips piont of view!!\n\n\nTalking about simple... where else to start than... The Lips! The most basic element of any kiss, in fact vital and inseparable from the act itself. There is no kissing without lips (ask your local chickens), so don't neglect them! On a physical level, take care of your lips. Chapped lips (while a great Custom E-kiss) are no fun at all to kiss. The same goes for rough, scabbed, or otherwise poor condition lips. Most of these conditions can be avoided through the use of a simple lip balm... find one that suits your preferences. Depending on what you like, you can get different flavors, varying degrees of healing and therapy, SPF (sunscreen) protection... the choices are endless.\n\n  Use your chosen balm regularly, not just when you are expecting some kissing... it's just a good idea to take care of yourself. Also, try to avoid applying balm directly before kissing... slimy lips can be a turn off. Just make sure it's all absorbed before getting down to business... and your lips will be soft, supple, and oh-so-kissable.\n\n  Once your lips are kissable, and you are in fact kissing... you still can't neglect them! The lips are the most basic and important element of kissing, and should be used to the best of their ability. Concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips, how your lips match up, and how you're moving them. This oft-overlooked element can add some real zing to your kissing. Just try to remember that the tongue is not the be-all and end-all of kissing... DON'T NEGLECT YOUR LIPS! \n\n  Lots of great kisses are, in fact, all lips. Ever since the French pulled a Microsoft on the kissing market, tongues have gotten all the attention. Many terrible kissing experiences are a direct result of this over-reliance (and unskilled use of) the tongue. Certainly the tongue is important to kissing... after all, what beats a really good deep french kiss? But tongue use is something best eased into... and can easily be overdone. Even really good tongue kisses can benefit from some variety... usually of the lip-centered kind. Take a break from tongue lashing to nibble, caress, lick, and gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good they feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better. Your lips the building blocks of great kissing... use them wisely (and often!)\n\n\nKissing Exercise: Spend part or all of a kissing session concentrating on just your lips... no tongues allowed. Slowly slide your lips together, enjoying the subtle feeling of each other's skin. Lick, nibble, kiss each other's mouths... go slow, and really enjoy the sensations. This exercise should make you more aware of your lips, and will add a new layer to your kissing experience.\n\n\nBut ou can use the tongue when ever you want!!!\n\n\nHere are the bases:\n\n1st base->going out\n2nd base->Heavy make out\n3rd base->Getting layed\nHome-> Married and ending up with a child.
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Tuesday January 24, 2006 \n\nand I had a crazy weekend.  I told Kina about Brian.  I really regret even beginning anything with him it was just because of curiosity and not only was it a waste of time, (because I love Kina too much to end things) but it didnt satisfy any curiosity that I had.  I liked Brian because he was funny and he wanted me.  But then I broke it down and figured out why ?  Because he knows i am taken.  He is only 23, he has massive amounts of women that he knows well and chills with them.  He just liked the challange.  But I never did anything like that with him.  Althought I did want to, the fact remains, Kina does me o-so-well.  Maybe sometimes he will conk out or his buddy might get a lil tired, he does make a valid effort to make sure my hearing goes down when we are done (lol) and he is the only one who knows what to say and how to say it..\naaanyway so I am at work, thinking about food.  my salvation.  Grub.  Well i am probably going home today.  I havent been home since Friday the 20th damn right?  I miss my pup.  Xeeny Weeny.  I miss her so fuckin much.  You know what i dont really miss?  MYSPACE!  at work I miss it but i have psycho steve monitering my every myspace move.  That shit head.  And he swears up and down to Lauren that Kay told him she was with Ryan that night.  He denies it.  But i believe my sister over anybody.  and Kay knows that, so what is he hiding?  I dont know, so much shit.  I really want to have my own place.  I want to feel freedom.  But i dont want a lot of bills.  Kina said when i talk about moving in with him I make it seem so farefetched.  And its true, when I think about it, I feel like even thought I want it so bad, it is almost impossible to happen.  What Kina wont hear me say is that I dont have a lot of faith in him to do the right thing so I feel our chances of making it together are slim to none.  I hope that I am wrong.  But im not getting any younger.  What am I really trying to say?  I dont fucking know man.  i really dont.
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I would recommend oral sex.  Have him do you, then you do him.  If this is not appropriate for you or going over board, then maybe you should not be kissing him.  But go one way or the other. Do or don't do.  STOP TEASING HIM!
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I have my own....The ocean is truly a beautiful creation...... but we appear to be in a forum which has created a tsunami of hatred....here goes mine.....My first kiss.....It happened in a closet on a real dreamy day....he asked me for a kiss because it was his birthday....As he kissed me his lips were as moist as the dew....but I wonder was it his first time too?.....Touche and to all a good day
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AWWWWWW!\nthat is so sweet.\nDon't rush that first kiss between you guys.\nLet it happen naturally.\n\nAWWWWW\nthat's so cute!\n\nAnd don't worry about what style of kiss it is Fresh, Spanish, German, Eskimo just as long as you both are ready.\nI like that fact that you have already made up your mind that you not gonna go any farther! GOOD GOING GIRL! Plan ahead or end up in bed.\n\nGOOD LUCK!