I was wondering if it was possible for a woman to have an orgasm without penetration & even without o.r.a.l ...like during foreplay? It seems possible to me, if the guy is good at touching her in the right places & saying the right thing things...any women experience an orgasm through foreplay only?
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Girls area  little different than men. i think the guy has to defiantely take some time to please her in every way, so that its not just him ... its both .... i agree with you but sadly many men do not take this in account or dont try hard enough to please the lady...
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Orgasms with sex didn't happen for me until I got a little older, more comfortable with my own body, in tune with my own sexuality, and finding what worked for me and going after it, and practice of course.\n\nRead this, good advice:\n\nhttp://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html\n\nAlso, just my opinion, but stop faking it.  You don't do you or your partner any favors by faking it.
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Women don't have one and so can't, but men have what's known as the prostate gland. When pressure is applied to it deep inside, this is easily anough to provoke an orgasm. However, the man on top needs to have a fairly long and preferably thin penis.\n\nHowever, even without a long penis or, in the case of women, without a prostate at all, the simple sensation of having your anal ring stretched can be pleasurable, though not usually to the point of orgasm. But then, you don't orgasm from kissing, either, but you'd still do that.
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This is true. I have given my GF an orgasm by fingering her their. We have not had anal sex though.
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First, get her very, very turned on. Whether orally or otherwise, the more she is excited and the higher her peak of excitement before intercourse, the greater likelihood she will have an orgasm. So don't skimp on foreplay. Being in a hurry here will get you nowhere in the end.\n\nAssuming you've done the above and you both want to assure that she has an excellent orgasm, teach her this little trick (I just hope you're old enough and mature enough to be learning all this). Regardless of the position you use, tell her that you want to touch herself, masturbate, while you are in her. Most women don't get stimulated where they need to be from most forms of male intercourse. The clitoris has to be given friction in some way for orgasm. If she manipulates herself and you do what you can, she will likely have the best orgasm she's every known.\n\nUnfortunately many men don't like to think that they can't make a woman orgasm just by themselves. Sometimes they can, but the way I describe above is almost guaranteed. Some women are too modest or are not used to self-manipulation, and they need to be assured that you want them to do this and will not think less of them for it.\n\nEnjoy. Please practice safe sex.
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Girls are made fun of about it throughout their life, and that is something they have always been pressured to do also. Not only is it really gross to think of the action but it is humiliating to some. It really makes them vulnerable feeling and if a woman is not comfortable she is less likely to do something. Giving her oral really well several times to orgasm, then mentioning your don't want to give without receiving might entice her and visual sources might get her more familiar with the idea of how it is done. Good luck, it took me several years to get mine to try it and another couple to get her good at it.
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Your question isn't very clear because you don't say some important factors.\nIs there excitement?\nIs there erection?\nIs the act lasting long until the end?\nIf you referred to the ejaculation only, it's called “aspermia” and is the absence of any ejaculate (semen) and is much rarer.\nIn fact, you know that The male orgasm is not just about ejaculation. It is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. \n•  Pre adolescent boys can often experience an orgasm without ejaculation.\n•  Some men do not have an ejaculation until several seconds after orgasm.\n•  Other men who are incapable of ejaculation are still capable of orgasm.\n•  Adult males may experience several ejaculations and go on to have further orgasms without ejaculation.\nIt seems that the way men experience ejaculation and orgasm differs from person to person.\n\nAnyway, about possible causes (symptom) of "Lack of orgasm", I can write in general:\nImpotence - see erectile dysfunction \nFailure to maintain an erection \nSexual headache \nFailure to ejaculate.\nOKAY?
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Women do not experience orgasm as reliably as men, and reports of difficulty reaching orgasm are common. Usually, men can have an orgasm, although rarely, men may have what's called an inhibited orgasm. Even a man whose prostate has been removed can still have an orgasm.\n\nMany women require direct clitoral stimulation before orgasms; some women have never had an orgasm. From what we know about the differences in sexual response between men and women, it seems that the female orgasm is more dependent upon certain conditions such as her constitution, her partner, the quality of the couple's lovemaking, and her mood, stress, and energy levels.\n\nDespite these many factors affecting a woman's ability to orgasm, a single word may help to describe the source of orgasmic problems experienced by many women: arousal. Women are often insufficiently sexually aroused to reach orgasm.\n\nArousal tends to take longer, is more vulnerable to interruption, and is more difficult to restore in women than in men. A broader range of stimuli arouse men, whereas women's arousal tends to be much more contextual.\n\nLet's look at two examples. First, women who suffer from low testosterone complain of difficulties with sexual arousal and also, often, of loss of orgasmic capacity. Frequently, a treatment regimen of replacement testosterone restores not only arousal, but also the capacity for satisfying orgasms.\n\nIf arousal is not restored, orgasmic capacity will not return, either. A second example comes from a recent case report in which three women who were taking SSRI antidepressants and suffering from anorgasmia (inability to have an orgasm) were given Cialis, a PDE5 inhibitor, before engaging in sex.\n\nMedications in the PDE5 class (Viagra is another) work specifically on the body's arousal mechanisms. All three women responded to the Cialis and regained their capacity for orgasm.\n\nLow hormone levels (in the first example) and a side effect of a drug used to treat depression (in the second) may interfere with a woman's ability to become sexually aroused.\n\nOther factors, such as boredom, partner conflicts, stress from jobs or children, or psychological inhibition can also impair sexual arousal. It's important for a woman first to establish what factors are blocking her arousal, and then to work with an appropriate health professional to address her specific problem.\nhttp://health.yahoo.com/experts/sexderogatis/636/no-orgasm-it-may-mean-poor-arousal;_ylt=AlfLF.8apkwsliWbi2aVt5XVvLcF\n\nHere is a forum about it.....
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I've noticed that my husband also orgasms quicker when we don't have sex frequently. I suppose a part of it is the underlying excitement in your mind. I find sex to be better and more exciting when it's not a daily thing, perhaps that's why.
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Yes it's true. I think it's something like a third of women, or about 33% consistently poled claim they never have had an orgasm.  \nI think it is so sort of taboo to be sort of sexually ignorant about ones own body these days that many women lie now and say they have or they do.  \nI think many women don't know how to master-bate because they either were never very sexual when they were young or thought it was bad to do so they grew up not knowing how to touch themselves.  \nThey also I think don't allow themselves to feel comfortable with their body, again they feel like they are doing something 'wrong'.   \n These same women who don't masterbate or can't, I'm sure, are the same who can't reach orgasm during sex.\n You have to know your own body in order to do that in most cases.
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I've done a bit of reading on this subject because I was with a girl who had the exact opposite problem.  The thing is this:  normally, it's the other way around.  Most women have difficulty having orgasms through intercourse alone without clitoral stimulation.  All the previous answers are good ones.  Vibrators can help because they don't get tired and fumbly like fingers do.  Another thing you can do is to try some lube so that the area isn't getting painful stimulation when you try it.  Finally, I will agree with a previous answer and say that the most important thing you can do is explore yourself and see what feels the best to you and what seems to work the best.  If clitoral stimulation isn't working, try vaginal stimulation, especially around the outermost parts, as they have the most nerve endings.  For most people, if you can orgasm at all you can orgasm during masturbation.  Just remember to relax and not concentrate TOO hard on "i have to get there, i have to get there".  Just lay back and relax and enjoy the sensations and it should happen eventually.
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I hear this statement all the time. I think what happens is that when women are young, they don't understand their own bodies themselves, so they don't know what to ask for or how to direct their partners to help them reach climax. Therefore, it's not uncommon that a girl never reach orgasm with her first boyfriend or so. As she gains a little more confidence in her sexuality and a little more knowledge about how to direct her boyfriend/lover to help her, her chances are reaching climax with him improve.\n\nOf course, the best way to ensure that you're able to tell your boyfriend how to get you off is to learn how to get yourself off without him! If female masturbation were as commonly accepted as male masturbation is, this wouldn't be a problem!!
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All women are different.  Some women orgasm in a few minutes and there are some who have never had an orgasm.  About the guy finishing first ... that depends on what you do.  some guys like to get the girl off before they finish off.  Others get the guy off first and then work on the girl.  But do whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with, relax, and have a good time!
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Have you tried master- bating to orgasm a couple of hours prior to your activities?  By the way, good for you for looking after your womans needs!
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Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!
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Being a guy, I don't have a lot of experience in this area....\n\nBut I do recall reading once that a woman can experience difficulty enjoying vaginal intercourse if she has exclusively been masturbating.  But then I think vaginal intercourse gets more enjoyable for a woman over time or at least to some degree.  Again, I am not sure of this since I really have long term experience with one woman.\nI have no idea how long a period of time could possibly cause this.
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The intensity of a woman's orgasm has more to do with her head ie state of mind then with any physical manipulation.  If she is able to relax and is "open" to the idea (of using a vibrator) most likely she'll have the orgasm.