Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and over the past few months i have not seen him very much and he is always upset about something.  And there is this other guy that has feelings for me and i dont know what to do since the other guy is a sweetheart. do i like him because he gives me something that i am not used to???...i mean i care about my boyfriend alot but i dont know if i should stay with someone like that...help me out please....
130965
talk to your bf. Let him know whats going on. If he gets crazy with you dump him! Remember the grass is always greener. Dont leave someone who you love for someone who you may like a little. Its not worth it.
300217
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
674239
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
193809
this won't be your last boyfriend, so don't settle for someone that doesn't make you happy.  he sounds selfish to me.  be nice, but make it clear that it's just not working for you.  maybe stay as just friends?
606157
you already know the answer to this question.  you left your boyfriend because you didn't or don't love him and you think you love this guy.  well, we always seem to want what we can't have.  you should have broken up with your boyfriend because it's not fair to him for you to be with him and have feelings for someone else.  you can't have something with someone who has a girlfriend, unless you plan on trying to break them up.  i think you should take this break from your boyfriend as time to reflect on what it is you actually want.  do you want him back or someone else?  decide what you want before you do something you might regret later.
317582
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
164158
well i think that the one u are with has priority, not only that but if you leave him for someone else 4 what ever reason, it may not say much about ur layalty to people and its something that may bite you in the butt later on. if this person u talk about is back in ur life that means he is not sure of what he wants, what garanties u he wont leave u for someone else. be firm in ur descision and dont betray no one in order to aquire what u need, it doesnt say much about u. over all the things you save save ur heart its special dont brake ur promise to ur current boyfriend. if you waited i think he could wait too n if he waits, n ur relationship with ur current boyfriend doesnt work out n you brake it up justifiably than go for it. but dont brake up out of inpulse u might make the mistake of ur life. remember its never good to live off of memories they will always hurt you weather good or bad. k take care
183382
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
9246
You should sit down with your boyfriend and make clear that you don't want to break up, if he really loves you he'll understand your position and will try to fight for that relationship.. But if he still wants out, beleive me girl, he doesn't love you the way you think.. Just think about it.. when someone is in love with another person, that someone will do anything to keep it together and will fight for his/her love...
113165
i think you should tell your bf the whole story..choose the friend..coz if you don't like your bf as much as you're supposed to then i'm not suRe he's happy at all either..\n\n^_^
650775
You sound pretty mixed up, which is not a good sign for your current relationship, but you should know that all couples quarrel over silly things.  Only you can decide if your current relationship is heading anywhere - and the only way to find out if the other guy still holds strong feelings for you is to ask him - but make sure you are clear in you head first about whether you are really interested in him as its sounds like you may have hurt his feelings once already!
176350
Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth
42721
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
454777
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
213969
Stop being with the guy you don't like as much, it is bad for everyone, I am sure he feels it too. Just let him down gently, and then start up with the guy you really like. But Don't do anything until your current relationship is over, start this new one the right way.
450635
If you really like Sam and Sam likes you then go for it girl... Even if you break up with your boyfriend, he would still stick around... So never mind him... Enjoy yourself...