I want to ask this girl to prom which is in two weeks. I waited so long that hardly anyone has a date. I actually like this girl but i just found out about the fact that she doesnt have anyone to go with. Im nervous that shes going to have a date by monday so I dont know if i should call her and ask her or wait till monday. Suggestions?
136277
Don't be nervous.  Find a way to ask her on the weekend.  See that's the problem, you waited too long. You have her number, so call her.  But asking her to the prom should be special.  Buy her roses.  Give her a speech of how special she is to you because she obviously is.  Don't wait!  Be aggressive, but don't make like you're trying to have a serious relationship because the prom is about learning about the person you're with.
421039
Hi,\nI think you should call her... because you like her, and maybe she is waiting for your call too... but when you call her and she doesn't seem surprise, then i think you shouldn't call her after that...
449233
You're getting together with her to study, which is fine, because that isn't really a date.  On the other hand, if you ask her to go to a school dance with you, or maybe a movie, oh no, she can't go out with you, because she's seeing somebody.\n\nIf you wait until she isn't seeing anybody, chances are, someone else is waiting for that too, and they'll beat you to the punch.\n\nYou've already got your foot in the door.  You just need to open it a little wider.  Maybe there's something you can do together, besides studying, that she would consider innocent enough.  I can't say what that would be.  That just depends on your interests.\n\nHere's an idea.  Approach her in the hallway, hand her a rose, and ask, "Would you mind holding this for me?"  As soon as she takes it, just walk away.\n\nAny of this stuff can work, but there is no guarantee.  It is possible that she just isn't interested in you, and never will be, but I think some of these ideas can work, if anything will.
551365
if she was hesitating.. it wouldnt have been immediate. go ahead, call her. even if it doesnt work out.. its not the end of the world
190911
YES WHY NOT? IF SHES JUS MY FRIEND I JUS WENT TO THE PROM WITH THEN ITS COO.....IF THE OTHER GIRL ASKED ME THEN I WOULD GO BECAUSE IF U ARE JUST FRIENDS WITH BOTH THEN HAVE TO RESPECT THE FACT THAT ITS NOTHING MORE.
317203
I think if you want to ask her out, you should first become more confident in your self. Girls can sense insecurity, and it's a total turn off. Then you need to just ask, like "I was going to go to go see... on friday, wanna come?"\nthen at least you can play it off like you just wanted to chill, but if it works in your favor GREAT!!!!
266902
Sounds like she needs space.  Don't let that stop you from asking her to prom though.  If she says no or says she is unsure tell her you are going to ask someone else.  Then do it.  If she can't commit to even one date, she isn't that into you.
295503
You are young and beautiful and this guy isn't worth anymore of your time.  Go to your prom with your friends and have a blast.  Don't let this guy ruin your good time.  He wants to keep you around if nothing else works out, but he wants to see what else is out there.  Not cool.  If he's gonna let you go, he should just do it.  But you're a wonderful girl who probably already has guys just waiting for you to drop that loser so that maybe you'll start looking at them!  Trust me, you'll find so much better out there.  Do yourself a favor and dump him.  You deserve better!
202028
No matter what ask him in person. Its the hardest thing to do but it means the most. If its weird then just like tell him you wanted to know if he wanted to go to prom with you so that you two could get to know each other better. So basically just ask him in person.
117075
Sounds like a great idea!! It would definitely be hard to turn you down.  Just a suggestion though... is it possible to do reconnaissance before you pop the prom question?  Can you find out if she has a date already?  It would be such a bummer if she has a date already.  Still, even if she does and you're interested in this girl, go for it even if you know that you'll be turned down. Think of it as an investment!
528191
Your situation is one of the most interesting ones I have read so far. Sorry to tell you this, but it looks like it's mostly kinda your fault for not talking to her, I mean if you had talked to her just a little more than nothing during the 3 weeks, she might even be your girlfriend. Damnit dude, you missed a good chance right there.\nWell, nbot much you can do now, but for future refrence, when you ask out a girl to a homecoming-TALK TO HER!!!\n(you're a guy, like me you're supposed to talk to them)
188566
well smill look at hem find out from his friends or something is he has any plants for prom... talk to hem do the eye thing play with your hair... let hem now you have no date and that u injoy time with hem...\n\ngood luck and hope everything workes out...
593150
dont wait, she'll probably be taken, just go for it and ask her out, she may give you the credit of not just asking a friend to then ask that friend to go then ask that friend, oy, yea just ask her out
66534
If you've already said yes to the first guy, you should be a classy lady and go with him to the prom.  If you explain the situation to the second guy, he should understand if he's a good guy.
49404
go ahead and ask her out.  she might have already had plans for v-day and that's why she said no.  if she says no a 2nd time, don't ask her again.
110400
How about, \nI was just wondering what you are doing later, or if you have a class with her say, do you understand what is going on in...insert subject here.  Or you can try the old, my God you are the most beatiful girl here, could I take you out sometime...good luck, let me know how it goes, The 8 ball has a good feeling about this!!!
68390
i think you should wait a while because you say she JUST got dumped. It doesn't seem right if she got dumped one second and is dating another guy the next (unless she dos that all the time). As for the figuring out part i think you should ask her directly but play it cool and try to do it when she is alone because you might embarass yourself if it is in front of a lot of other people.