well the people i have track with all hate me and i dont know what i did to make them hate me!! im so confused
137280
You can't make anyone like you and you should never change or act like something you're not just to make a "friend".  Chances are, they aren't the kind of friends you really want or need.\nI'd venture to say the track team is jealous of you.  Don't cave in!  Be true to yourself; the issue is theirs, not yours.
49709
no he doesnt hate you he is trying to make you feel how he felt when you were with rayn and he still has feelings for you but doesnt want to show them so all you can do is try to become friends with him again and let him know that your intersted with out being pushy or hurting your friend
636930
Looks like you are holding grudge against people in your past. \n\nWhy, my friend, are you hurting yourself when these "people" may not even remember any of those incidents. You are causing pain to no one else but yourself.\nJust forget. You had no control over those incidents.
203578
Relax, a lot of us have been in the same situation.  I was never one to have many friends and because I was one of the smallest in my class a lot of people often tried to pick on me.  I learned that the best thing to do is simply not care about what other people think or say.  I learned to accept who I was and the fact that a lot of people are just mean or idiots.  In the end I had a few good friends and people left me alone because they found out they didn't matter to me and the things they said and did didn't bother me.  If they know what they do affects you then they keep doing it just because they get a reaction out of you.
490431
because ur a f'n wierdo.. ask sue why ben didnt accept her.. i never liked u-- leave me alone
587551
Maybe you should come out of your shell. Learn to talk to people before they talk to you. People are so judgmental and that's what makes the world horrible. Don't let them get to you, if you  are comfortable with the way you are, that's just fine, you'll fine the right people in time. Don't change for anyone, be happy with the way you are, if they misunderstand you in a bad way, blow them off that's there lost...=)
77682
All of the above has happened to me more than once; at restaurants I have complained to the managers and if they are just as bad as their staff, I inform them that I will be telling everyone that I know how bad they're place is and those people will tell they're friend and so on. I have left stores that ignore me, my hard earned money is better spent elsewhere. And if I feel like I am being followed I stop, turn and confront the person doing the following!
272194
Ignorance is bliss! Sometimes when you ignore them they just won't go away anyway. Perfect example....\n\nI was tall and skinny and not allowed to wear makeup. I had this boy that really liked me, his ex girlfriend (very popular) put me through hell and I didn't even like him! She always used to confront me when her friends were around, but never alone. \n\nOne day I was in gym, and seen her go into the locker room, so I followed, when she came out of the stall she saw me, but never said a word, I just stared her down, and she exited without washing her hands. After class when her friends were with her she started again. \n\nI decided one day I had had enough of her threats to beat me up ect...after school I just walked up to her and asked her if she had a problem with me(her friends were not around), then lets fight right now! She was dumbfounded. And she just turned and walked away. No friends...no GUTS!\n\nIt's called standing up for yourself. \n\nTake pride in who you are, and remember when certain people single you out...they are jealous and spiteful! And when they see it bothers you, the more they'll do it!\n\nA little note:  I saw this girl years later in a store, I knew it was her, and she turned out to be Fat and ugly! I had already gotten into modeling by then...I asked her, hey do you remember me? And she didn't, but I reminded her and then I smiled at the look on her face! \n\nPlus, if she only knew....her EX boyfriend at the time has contacted me by internet...he saw the beauty the whole time!\n\nFate deals it's own satisfaction!
364240
It sounds like you have a problem. Why are you so angry? I understand not likeing someone but  getting angry at them when they are trying to get along with you doesn't make sense. Normally people are able to be civil even when they dislike someone. That anger isn't normal and it's coming from somewhere.I think you need professional help to resolve this consuming anger issue.
145439
Oh hell yeah!\n\nI was being hated by my friends because I was not popular. My father was a teacher in that school as well, so they all went to see my dad and told him thing I did. They exaggerated those facts so my dad actually scolded the hell out of me. I could never forget those girls who pretended to be my friends but they went to harm me behind my back!! Sorry if I gotten abit personal.
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I read no evidence where they had a cause for hating you, and people seldom waste a lot of time and energy on people they don't like.  Perhaps they are getting a response from you that tickles them, so they make juvenile efforts for more amusement.  When they make remarks about your friends, tell them you don't want to listen and say, "I don't listen when anyone talks about you."  Strive to treat them as friends, even when they don't act like it, and the situation may reverse itself.  If not, and you get no response from the teacher, enlist the aid of your parents in talking with her or him, and then, if necessary, it is a chain of command thind: Principal, Board of Education, etc.  Recent laws should aid you in getting attention to your problem.  Good luck, and remember, the best way to get rid of an enemy, is to make a friend of them.
193804
envy & jealousy r d main cause of backstabbing w/in frends..\n\ninstead of doing nasty stuffs 2 them, try 2b nice & treat them exactly d opposite of how they expect u 2 treat them coz im sure they'll expect that u'll bitch abt them 2..\n\nwhen they realize that ur not getting affected abt their bitching, they'll feel guilty & apologize..\n\nwhen they do apologize, 4give them but make sure u delete them fr ur frendslist... frends like that shld never b trusted agen
102175
Well sweety it sounds like your trying to please everyone but yourself.  You need to concentrate on you and what  you want for yourself.  And forget everyone esle if they cant bring up your spirits, and dont need that, and its a waste of time and too much stress on your body.  Try not to worry about everyone else try just looking in the mirror and saying hey Im cool, Im special and if people dont see that then they arent worth your tears, or heart aches.  You cant get back the time you lose when you worry or trying to make everyone else happy , do it for yourself and see if that makes a difference.
247863
Dont change any thing about your self, Fake people are the worst. Are you in School? If so things get dif. when you get out of it. Just try and keep the friends you got, and get involved in activites (not in school ones).
378011
nah, shes probably a snob and thinks shes better than you. some people are like that. i've had people take an instant dislike to me for no reason.  how does everyone else treat you? if they like you loads and genuinely take interest in you then she may be jealous.
171811
why are yo trying to please them, maybe thats why they feel like your leeching on them, screw them they are not friends believe me
157740
hun if people don't like you it cause they are jealous of you for one reason or another, lots of people don't like me n recently i found out it was cause i had the good life n they were to busy dwellin on the past to move on and make there own life good. don't let them get you down, what ever it is you are doin keep doin it its your life not theres let them be jealous after all people bein jealous of your life can sometimes be a good thing.\n\ntake care and keep smiling, if you smile the whole world will smile with you, a smile is like the flu people cant help but to catch it.