One day I call him after we broke up and he was vex that we broke up because I needed alittle space and they started talking and now they are together they meet one day and she didn't even told me. He did
138693
Ouch!  Man that's gotta be the worse thing ever.  Screw your sister.  Ditch her!
497314
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
501961
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
119235
Because he is confused.   He doesn't know whether his old relationship is over, and he still has strong feelings for his ex-.\n\nDon't push hime, but let him know that you are there when, and if he needs you.
78515
Just tell him how you feel.  If things work out, great!  If they do not then stop talking to him every day.  You are clearly not over him and having contact every day is not helping you get over him.
104741
he should be still mad at u after 7 months. i mean 'get over it aready!' it should be safe to call him without him hangin the phone up on u but jus to b on the safe side u should ask ur friend to call him first. same thing happened 2 me (only i dumped my ex 4 his best friend) and my ex and i r still talkin up to dis day
103493
Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? If you broke up with him, he has to understand that there were problems and it wasn't working out. But if he broke up with you, That is all on him. he is the one who broke up with you and is jealous. He also has to realize that there are other girls out there and to him, your the only one out there(lol). Just know that you have the power and tell your boy friend that your x is trying to screw things up and to not believe him!
44075
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
542733
you called 7 times!  Holy crap I am surprised that he is talking to you at all.  Back off, that is too much.  Odds are if he did not want to talk to you when you first called, he sure as hell did not want to talk to you on the 7th time!  I dropped a girl for calling me too much.  She was cool and all I just could not handle the clingy-ness
436916
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
399742
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
274628
If he is telling other women that your two are broke up, then he is trying to do something with them.  You have your own answer right there.  He is a cheater and he is willing to cheat with one of your friends.  Get someone who respects you and your feelings and leave the trash to the bitchesss.  good luck, you deserve better than that!!!
237164
I hear ya hunny. The same thing happened to me nearly 4 years ago. When we broke up I took him off my aim list and didn't talk to him for about a year because it was just too hard. He also started seeing someone about a month after we broke up and he is still with her. It does get easier but it is a very very slow process. You just gotta build up talking in general before you can start talking as best friends again. It was just last year that we could start talking like buds again. If he was your first love you may never get over him but eventually you will have to put that behind you if you want your friendship back.\n\nJust try and give it some time, Best Wishes!
98701
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
121452
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
521306
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
64528
Ok!!! I think I get it. You broke up with your ex ok, you started to see this other guy but something is not right. Ok! Its not totally your fault but kinda is in away. but if you look at it this way.  He fell for you right after you broke up with your ex. When your still need to recover and think about what had happen between you and your ex. Figure things out!! RIGHT!  You really didn't need to be with him or any one. You really needed was a friend to talk to BUT (this is were its his fault)  he took that oppunity to get with you and now his all booty hurt becuase you pulled away.  He knew he was on the rebound.  If he cared enough for you he would of just left it as friends until you are ready for a relationship. So he can get the full true feeling of been in love with you.  Honestly his hurting himself because you did what was right about not let him go on knowning that there is a change for you two. But you should of been honest with him for the start.  You need to sit and talk to him and if he don't gave you that then its his lost cause.  Really if he really care for you, he would be htere as a true friend and wait a while to the time was right.  Then maybe there can be a change and things will feel right and nothing missing.  Your mind and heart is with someone else not with him.  If he can't expect that then its not your lost.  You just need to look at it if its one less person to know.  Your not a bad person for breaking it off with him. You told him what was up.  sometimes its better that way.. He'll end up talking to you matter what.  Jsut give him the space and time to cool off and then really see him for him not what was.  Maybe he was just doing it for something else who knows. Best of luck to you.