ive tutored this girl from my history class twice so far and just asked if she wanted to get some dinner and go to a bar with me this weekend and she said "yea that'd be cool"....does this mean i'm in?  would she have said yes if she didnt like me?
132749
Sounds like your in for the first part! Yeah she is willing to be Friends.. now the slippery slope... dont be the Tutor when at the bar. Remember to show that you can have fun too. Take control, order the drinks, Grab her hand and take her on the dance floor. Be the man. \n\nYou dont want her to think... he's like a brother to me.... \n\nquestion really is ... is she in?
157457
ok, so we're there...u'r goin 2 dinner w/her...she wouldn't agree to come with u if she doesn't like u. now, LIKE doesn't mean, like u like u, she cld like to go out & hve dinner, she cld like to go out & just hang out 2gder or she cld like to go out coz she likes u as well. well, of course we r hoping its the last reason, aight?\n\nnormally, us girls, when we like a guy, we chase them..like we send mobile msg for no apparent reason, give missed calls or call...jst to tell u "hey, i remmber u...dyou remmber me?"\n\ngirls like to be noticed...when the girl of ur dreams does this...she could like u..now, we used the term could, coz there are a lot of reasons y girls like to be noticed....but at the end...if u keep being a gentleman & treat her right, she will surely like u..better yet, love u...\n\nenjoy ur date!
183529
Not totally good. She either hasn't seen it yet or she is not interested. If you still have the same class together, ask her. What's the worse she could say.....You'll never know until you do.
550064
you already told her you like her, so now it's her turn to make a move. stay casual with her and act cool.patience is a virtue! good luck buddy!
204317
Just make sure that shez not a mean girl so that she doesn't turn you down, but depending on the type of girl she is, try to find someplace she'll like and tell her if she wants to go with you. If she likes the place so much, most likely she'll say yes. DOn't try to impress her so much, but be talkative, and nice. Don't move too fast either, unless shez that type of girl. But shez prolly not, rite??
181953
Well if she's giving all the signs like hanging about round you and talkin to you and lookn at u chances are she likes you so what have you got to lose? Ask her out and if she says no then it's her loss and just move on. Gosh I wish the guy I like would ask me out. Instead he chooses to act oblivious...grrr!
176047
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
517904
Well, if you really like this girl, you should try asking her out again.  If the same thing happens, then I would definitely take a hint and not bother again.  I feel if they are interested in you, then they would make an effort to go on that date that you plan.  Sure things come up but if it happens repeatedly, I would take it as a sign.
27721
she might really like you this time.the first time you asked her out she proably just got dumped or she had a rough time with family or something she doesnt want to talk about.you gave her time,and is now proably very interested in you.
95734
well, when i wanna guy to ask me out, i would probably like them to say 'i like you alot. would you like to see a movie with me this saturday?' works for me everytime!haha
607575
This could mean either she likes you or she doesn't.  She might be trying to make you jealous and want you to come and talk to her but she could also be trying to send you clues to back off.  Wish I could help you more. SORRY! GOOD LUCK!
669831
hmm, I just met someone at my practicum a few weeks ago and the same thing happened. we were polite, but maybe a little over the top and i think there was something extra going on. we shook hands, looked eachother directly in the eyes and chatted for a few minutes and when i had to go back to a different building, we were like "it was nice to meet you, (then he said my name)" and he wished me luck in my practicum blah blah blah. who knows though. if i'm not some kind of psycho i think we were pretty attracted to eachother\n\nso if you feel that way, i think you probably are right. so see how things go.. i'd chat her up a bit and eventually ask her out for tea or something.
117075
Sounds like a great idea!! It would definitely be hard to turn you down.  Just a suggestion though... is it possible to do reconnaissance before you pop the prom question?  Can you find out if she has a date already?  It would be such a bummer if she has a date already.  Still, even if she does and you're interested in this girl, go for it even if you know that you'll be turned down. Think of it as an investment!
546736
Definetly bring a friend along for her friend. Otherwise this is just some friends hanging out together. And if you like this girl the last thing you want to do is end up being her friend. This isn't very common unless the girl is very young or immature. This tatic is used to take the pressure off any kind of romantic involvement during the date. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, just that she doesn't want the pressure of having to do anything with you. Make your intentions clear that this is a date and you have feelings for her that go beyond friendship by bringing a friend along. But be respectful of the fact that she seems nervous and maybe isn't quite ready for any sort of physical relationship.
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Ok... I've got two answers for you... so here goes...\n\nThe simple answer:  Probably.\n\nThe more complicated, and more important answer....\n\nYou are insecure. You know this... I know you know this, because you are an obviously intelligent person, but you simply haven't gotten to that point where you are really comfortable "going for it." I know this, because I was the same way for most of my life.\n\nGuess what? So is she. So is everyone. Everyone is insecure about things... over time those insecurities change to different things, but everyone has them. Yeah, most likely she likes you... but here's the best part, even if she doesn't, it doesn't really matter. Let's say you go talk to her, and ask her out... there's only really three things that can happen:\n\n1) She says yes, all is well and good with the world, you go off and have a wonderful time, and who knows...\n\n2) She says no. It doesn't matter what the reason is, just be nice and courteous, and let her know that you were interested, and to have a good life or whatever. Remember this: being nice now truly will be good for you later. After all, she might be taken, but that doesn't mean her hot friend is.\n\n3) She doesn't give you a clear answer. This can go a lot of ways, but usually if a girl doesn't make it fairly apparent that the answer is no, that means that the answer would be yes, except there is just something else going on that is keeping her from saying it. That can be anything from purely an insecurity issue, to having just gotten out of a relationship, and not feeling ready to date, etc... but the important thing is this: She didn't say no.\n\nIf #3 happens, let her know you are interested, tell her something nice, and let it go. In a week or two, take another shot and see what happens. If you end up doing this a couple times and she simply isn't going to say yes, then assume there is something you can'd do anything about, and move on.\n\nAnyway, good luck... and ask her out.
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Well most guys try the 'would you like to go for coffee'? And I think that's nice because it's such a nice way to sit down and have a relaxing chat with someone, bars and restaurants aren't the same, try the coffee thing and I guarantee if she likes you she will say yes! Good luck!
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Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.