Why is it that most women don't enjoy going down on guys yet most  gay/bi men LOVE going down on other guys?
137412
I think a lot of women are intimidated by the penis.  They don't really know what to do with it and who is going to teach them?  It can be awkward asking a guy to tell you how to give him oral.  I also think there are women and men who are just naturally good at it and natural enjoy doing it.  I find people usually fall into those two categories.  It is unfortunate for women because they don't know what they are missing out not giving their man oral.  I think every woman wouldn't mind performing oral so much if they just knew how to do it.
649641
Sure women enjoy sex just as much as guys ( as long as its done right!) And for some girls it does hurt the first time for others it doesn't hurt.
198412
This is completely normal ...both straight men and women enjoy this.. It is important to be open and honest about your likes & dislikes with your partner in order to have a great sex life.
566665
I think that it is a matter of prefernce. Obviously, stimulation of the male sexual organ is always pleasureable. Whether it is better to recieve such stimulation from a man or from a woman is simply a matter of (a) the individuals sexual orientation and (b) who it is that is perfoming the task of stimulation. NOT ALL "BLOWJOBS" ARE CREATED EQUAL!!!!!
220570
A homosexual man is a man who finds other men sexually attractive, and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nA bisexual man is a man who finds both men and women sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with either sex. \n\nA homosexual female (lesbian) is a lady who finds other ladies sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nWhat your boyfriend asked you to do, is to put your finger in his rear, you are a girl, so there was nothing remotely homosexual about this request. \n\nThe similar assumption to make would be that when (if) you ask him to perform cunnilingus (kissing and licking your vagina)  on you, because you find this sexually stimulation and pleasant, that you are a lesbian; as this is what a lesbian would do to you during love making.   Of course you are not a lesbian because of this, because you have asked your BF to do it because you find HIM sexually attractive. \n\nHe probably does not want to talk about it because he knows that you are thinking these things.  If you love him and care about him, you will reassure him that you have no questions about his sexuality because of this, and that you are willing to do it as you care about him and his needs.  Your relationship will become much closer as you are trusting each other and communicating your needs and wants which is always a good thing.
274154
The truth is there are a lot of women who are at the very least curious.  There are a large percentage of women who would like to try a threesome with another woman. Does not mean they are gay. Just means they are curious and or want to have some fun and try new things. \nFrom what i understand of the info you gave. She was a woman who was a little more than curious.  If she was that adamant about denying it she was either in some serious denial or ashamed of the fact.  People do some strange things when they are ashamed or feel they are different and don't want to admit it.  Denial could also be it but from what i read, unlikely.
428988
I think it is to balance masculine and feminine energies, which is hard in a same sex relationship...\n\n\nYou guys are kidding me that you do not see this correlation, being so politically correct you have to put on rose colored glasses....I am straight but go out to gay clubs and parties just because they are more interesting, and there are always straight people there doing the same thing. Nearly every couple has a top and bottom or aggressor and submissive role player....
641223
It's all a matter of personal preference.  I don't beleive that there's a difference between lesbian and non-lesbian masterbatory amounts.  It varies from person to person.  Also the influence of religion and family might sway the tendency to masterbate.  It's a perfectly natural thing to do for every mammal.
411635
All I have to say is that in today's world, most males think it is mandatory for the females to go down on them even if there's no returning the favour... This is a major misconception, and I usually steer clear of those types of abusive males.\n\nIn my life, I believe in doing only what you want and what makes you feel good. If someone wants to go down on you, then great; all the best! If you feel like going down on someone then great too! But I don't believe in giving in to pressure, either direct on inderect, simply in order to "fit in" or "be accepted" or by fear of being ignored or whatever. \n\nIf I want to go down on a man, I will and he'll know it.... But if he tries to convince me and starts to to hint at forcing me or that it's like "my duty" that f*ck him; he's a selfish pr!ck who doesn't even deserve I give him an oral treat! \n\nBut again, in today's world, I see alot of younger women who give in to this type of male abusive b*llsh!t, and it's very very sad that they do give in, because it's just another way of the males to exert control over females... \n\nWell that doesn't work with me!
196219
Well...it is true that there are some hunky gay guys...BUT, there are also some seriously hideous ones. LOL. I, however, tend to find straight guys hotter. For goodness sake, with a straight guy, you always know what's on his mind when he's with you...your boobs, how he can get you into bed...oh, and your boobs. And guess what? That makes you feel sexy (come on, girls, admit it...), so in my opinion, if someone is capable of making ME feel sexy...how sexy is he??? YUMMY! Right? SO Sexy...Just saying...
635754
I'm a lesbian, and most of my partners have been women. Right now in my life, the idea of being with a man is mostly repulsive to me, and I imagine it's pretty similar to how you yourself feel.\n\nI have had male lovers, and sometimes I have enjoyed them, but over the years, I have found more and more that I don't think I could ever enjoy them again. At this moment, I have a partner, and I get repulsed by the idea of sex with ANYone else, male or female.
399715
why do some straight women like men who are considered, "a man's man" while yet other straight women like men with more effeminate traits? \n\nSuppose there are just as many stereotypes of heterosexuals as there are homosexuals.
628740
I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.
572825
Yes, it is a simple question and yes, it's still badly worded.  Many guys don't like lesbians although many women do like gay men. Figure that one out. I adore gay men and straight men too. I see most of them as small children in large bodies; although a straight gentleman can't often help me with colour combinations for the living room.
432266
I think part of it may be to keep others from questioning their sexuality--in other words, it's their own insecurity about how others perceive them. To me it seems that heterosexual men are very concerned that they not be seen as gay, even by accident. Because two women together is often more accepted by heterosexual society (a popular heterosexual male fantasy), I think you won't hear women say this as often. Also, I think women are generally more gay tolerant. Perhaps that's another reason they don't feel the need to separate themselves verbally by the "I'm not" tag.
312121
Im bi-sexual myself. Listen, there's nothing more sexier than to have 2 or 3 girls licking each other and kissing up on each other. I even have my guy friend to joins us or even just watch.
246439
They're not all like that. There are some great guys out there, just hard to find 'em. As for the ones that are, I'm still yet to find out why hurting us women seems to come so naturally to them. You've probably just experienced the ones that think and feel with their dicks.