this is for casuel realtionships like what body language am i supposed to look out for?
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sometimes cuddling means he doesn't care about anything but being with you... other times its just a way to get your body as close to his as possible.....
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Does he make eye contact with you when you interact?\n\nDo you catch him looking at you when your not interacting (remember people, especially guys, like to look at people and objects they find attractive)?\n\nDoes he caress things like his hands or stuff he picks up while interacting with you? \n\nDo you feel like hes attentive when he listens to you?\n\nDoes he position his body towards you when you talk?\n\nHow often does he smile?\n\nDoes he appear comfortable when you touch him and/or does he use oppurtunities to touch you?\n\nDoes he lean forward when he interacts with you (personally I conciously hold back on this so as not to show intrest to early when dating or approaching someone so maybe he knows this)?\n\nDoes he remain calm, and even welcome you, when you violate his privacy bubble (24 inch radius minimum around a person)? \n\nHeres a fun one that doesn't always work but: occasionaly do something very simple like look at your watch, if he does likewise it could be a good sign.  People subconciously mimic (sometimes) others their intrested in.\n(you can also mimic his body language to make him feel more comfortable with you, just don't make it to obvious)\n\nCongrads you've just completed into to body language\n\nBest of luck....
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body language my dear, 1) use your eyes.. when you see him across a room or something look straight at him then hold for 3 secs then look down or away. 2) smile a lot (so he knows that you're approachable) 3)touch him lightly on the arm or back (of course only when you have something to say...) let actions speak louder than words but never tell him! good luck!!
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its an invitation to approach. she's making the first move, step up and make your move. the fact that you can read body language puts you ahead of the game, but its nothing if you cant follow up and act on it.\n\ngo up to her and start a conversation. ask her how she's going or something relevant to the situation. invite her to get some ice-cream or something, then invite her to some event youe going to later in the week, get her phone number and compliment her on being outgoing/adventurous or whatever seems appropiate for accepting the invitation. be fun, have a sense of humor, eye contact and occassional compliment, and youre in
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This is very tough. Many people have different personalities and also have different ways of expressing emotions and showing emotion. If a person loves you, more often than not they will let you know this. Magazines and experts stress that simple hand gestures and body language are the easiest ways to tell if someone is into you. Love is a very strong emotion and it is one that can lead to hurt. The best way to know if he loves you or not is to ask, I think....same for you, tell him that you love him. There is no better way of him knowing it, dropping subtle hints may scare him away or confuse him. It also depends on his past relationships and yours as well, you have to take into consideration that he may have been hurt before. He might not be ready for a commitment either. Are you, do you know if your feelings are brought on because you are tired of looking for love or don't want to be hurt anymore? Be sincere in your actions and what you say, ask the same of him. This can be the serious aspect of your relationship as it is for many people, but let him know that even if he doesn't love you, (if you TRULY know you love him) that you care for him deeply and you just thought he should know. Any steps he decides to take after that, you'll just have to wait and see the outcome. No matter the outcome you are a beautiful person for being able to want to express your feelings and love another person. Continue to be straightforward, sincere and honest in your relationship and I think you'll do well.
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Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)
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Actually my advice would be the opposite of "Loofa's". Instead of worrying about what a guy thinks of you, you should start to think about what you want in a possible life's' partner. This is called "courting" and is much better than dating. You no longer are focused on yourself but on the others, freeing you to be you. Instead of looking at how you should talk, you look at how they talk. Are they intellectual, humorous, Stoic, or arrogant. Instead of looking at your choice of attire, what's he wearing? Is he a sharp dresser, a scrounge, a bit over the top? etc.... It's all in the perspective. When you take your eyes off yourself  you see men for what they really are instead of what you hope they are. Good Luck!
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A man shld be able to relate with u mentally,emotionally before going physical,shld be a good sympathetic listener,above all a good human being--try watching him how he treats other people around.I guess if u like a guy u wont mind little imperfections arising,no body is perfect.Honest communication is the key to a long term relationship-
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touch is very important and can send the right message. Don't make it too personal, but touch his arm casually. Brush hands with him. If you know he is looking at you, smile, even if you aren't looking at him. It's like you are acknowledging his flirtation. Guys like girls who are bold. Work on your eye shy, because if you catch his eye just once, that may be all it takes.
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Your smile - a lot of times when you first make eye contact she will scope out your face & if you've got a really great smile that will go a long way towards hooking your interest. Get your teeth whitened & keep them that way. Use chapstick so your lips will appear smooth & soft. Practice smiling in a mirror so you get it exactly right - you want it to go all the way to your eyes. Smile at her as if she's the only woman on the face of the planet . . . \nGood luck!
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First - Look at there eyes you should be able to tell if they act shifty\nSecond - Look at them with a strait face and ask them if they are lying \nFinally - Ask the guy who asked the one guy to ask you out if he had said that or if he hadn't\n\nP.S. you my want to do the final thing in private so that there is no one to laugh at you
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Simply be yourself!  Talk to him when you see him and ask if you aren't sure.  People respect confidence, honesty, and straight forwardness.  Few people enjoy games, so while talking to him ask him what he feels about you.  Best wishes and good luck!
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Study his actions when he is around you. Study the way he looks at you. That is the biggest clue. Gaze into his eyes and they will tell you what you want to know.
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FIND A WAY TO START A CONVERSATION WITH HER, AND WATCH HER BODY LANGUAGE. HER BODY LANGUAGE WILL LET YOU KNOW IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU OR NOT.
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guys look for the height, the eyes, and the body figure. smile cute, flutter ur eyelashes( but dont ovrdo it )keep ur back strait, kno when to talk rite, were the rite clothing, dont smell bad (evn if he does, but does that mattar? no, ur trying to talk to him, not him to u) dont shake or look nervous. oh yeh, dont panic. look confident, but if u look too confi, then thats gonna blow the guy away. keep a good pose (thats diffy for evry gal) and importantly, kno what to say!!!!! thats what stumps a lot of gals.
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Don't ask, "What should I consider myself to you?"  because that will just get turned around.  She'll ask you what you consider yourself toward her, and of course that's not what you are looking for.\n\nGo ahead and ask her what SHE considers herself toward you.  Your girlfriend?  Your lover?  Your soul mate?  Just a "very good friend?" (Sigh.)  "I'm not sure?" (Double sigh.)\n\nBottom line: If you are getting mixed signals and you need to get clarification, don't ask a question in a way that allows her to continue to give the mixed answers.  Good luck!!
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Look at her straight in her eyes, not for too long, she may feel uncomfortable. Do it everytime you can for short periods of time. If you see she returns it, talk to her and ,ake her notice you are really interested on what she's saying. Always be sure she's feeling comfortable\nGood Luck!