Do that mean he is getting sex from another person. He told me he love me, care about me. How do I know if he is been faithful to me.
131356
you just have to trust and look for the signs... if he is getting some from another source, he will not be able to look you in the eyes. STAY STRONG! if he really loves you he will not ask for sex until you are married.
203667
I don't.  A committed relationship means just that.  Seems like this guy isn't committed, and he lied to you about it.  Wow, what a catch...
601046
oh please, this is a man talking more crap...does it mean you'll be together forever, no of course not, it doesn't mean that he doesn't have good intentions at the time he's saying it but you can't possibly be this naive?? can you? there is no way to ensure that you won't be hurt in any relationship, you just have to have confidence that you can handle it, if you don't your insecurities will definitely drive the relationship right into a deep ditch. its likely that is where you are headed if you are obsessing to this extent over something he said....what was the situation when he said it  (you weren't by any chance having sex were you?) i think you need to focus on finding some inner strength in yourself and a life of your own, a relationship should be a pleasant addition to the life you are building...not the entire thing, you will always lose if thats what you are doing. never invest more than you have to lose. if you get your life together and are able to support yourself and develop some confidence in yourself then you will know that you'll be ok whether he actually stays around or not.
470422
Either he wants to continue having sex with you or he wants to be in a relationship but either way  his timing was a little off. See if he treats you like a girlfriend (phone calls during the day/night, coming over to see you,dinners etc) good luck
65865
He is pressuring you. If he loves you, he will wait. Also, if he says that you need to, then you need to leave him. In addition, you may need to "take the wind out of his sails." If he calls you a wimp, baby, or other degrading things (i can't mention) then you can possibly say "maybe I am a [insert word here], but I am not going to have sex.\n\nI know it sounds corny, but remember - No means No!
18271
"now seems like he only pays good attention to me in bed" - That would be your problem. I have no insight into the mind of your boyfriend. However, I would say (coming from another man) that he is after just one thing. Then again, perhaps I am wrong. It is hard to be sure about such a concept when it is through a written medium and we've never met the person. Good luck anyhow.
324780
He sounds like a good guy from what you say in your question. If he is so caring and meets you all the time, surely he hasn't got time to cheat! Saying that, you can never know what a man will be like further into the relationship.
612427
If you just started dating him 2 months ago, sex shouldnt be the first thing on your mind. if he tells you he loves you, look into his eyes and see if he means it.
252746
no. it means exactly what he said. he was thinking of you. he may be on his way to loving you, but yeah just dont worry about it. sounds like you've got him wrapped around your finger, dear.
52568
Something is telling you not to trust this man. Why are you hesitating? Trust your gut feeling. There is nothing wrong with telling him no. You will find someone who you trust. Besides sex should be without love.
45979
he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.
26474
A) He just likes you\nB) He's heard some really juicy stories about you\nC) He wants to have another man's woman\nD) All of the above
156421
He has been with you for two years, so this must mean something. He says he loves you and I am sure he does. Is he a generous and  thoughtful guy as this is an indication why he gives money to that girl. She is probably in a difficult situation and has no one else to turn to. Is he replying to a text rather than sending them which is a bit different. Give him a chance. Dont throw away the time you have been together. Play it by ear for now.
187211
This is from a guy.  Don't have sex with him and then see if he is interested in you.  Wouldn't that answer your question?
665177
I'm confused.. When you say you were speaking to other men.. is that all then? I don't see anything wrong w/that. You say tho 'he stayed w/me' and I don't know why he wouldn't (if it was just conversation.) You say he had a secret relationship.. was it sexual? You two both sound kind of jealous/possessive.. I mean I am basing this on the assumption there was nothing sexual involved in any of this. (If there was, that's a different story..) Let me see here.. He treats you like crap.. I take it that's the real issue on hand here.. I think men are kind of like babies (I'm married to one.. lucky me..) or they want their cake/ to eat it too.. they want us to cook and clean (and spread 'em) but on the other hand they want their 'freedom' to screw around on us at the same time. (We can't do anything along the same line tho..) that sux, right? He stayed because he's been with you and while the other gal's 'something new/exciting & different' you're the one he's 'used to living with' I am thinking. (Hell, this is depressing me!!) Hey, I DO think you've got value/self worth, dont' get me wrong! I'm just kinda bitter about men is all.. It sounds like my marriage of l4 years (boring.. I'm bored..) My ole man's an asshole (cuts me down) and then developed (or so he claims) e.d. so he tries to do the oral thing (doing me 'one big goddamned favor') on me for sex (but it's wearing thin or gettin' old I mean.. fast..) I want to dump him too.. (I think you want to dump THIS guy..) do it!! that's my 'valuable' advice for ya
611055
When a man leaves, he isn't thinking to himself  'I've left her but I hope she doesn't sleep with another man ever again'. He knows that this will happen eventually.  If he does come back, this is the risk he took when he left in the first place, and, frankly, it isn't any of his business.  \nHe has probably been sleeping with other women in the last two months as well, so he can't get on his high horse about it, now can he?  If he wanted you to remain 'faithful', he shouldn't have left you.\nGood luck.
452387
It sounds like the truth...suprisingly. If you and him were having sex, I would say it was game. But he actually seems like a young man who wants to do right by a wholesome girl who is having issues with not-so-wholesome girls tempting him. Sounds like a keeper =)