u see i have loved this chik for the longest time and at first i thought it was just lust but i mean i cant stop thinking about her so i how do i tell her that i love her even though she thinks of me as a friend
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some girls like songs, especially if you can write it. but you can just steal one if you must
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You use indistinctly "like" and "love"\n\nYou say you have liked her for a period of time so I think you like her and you are in love with her and you think you could love her.\n\nThe flirting and "stuff like that" kinder ruined it... but don't worry, you can still repair this!  You'll see... when your mum bakes yerr favourite cake and you smell it and you see it and you even drivel... the only thing you want is to take at least a nibble... but once you eat that first nibble maybe you'll want to finish up the slice... at the end you don't find it as attractive as the begining... at that moment you are satisfied and you don't need more... but surely, since it is your favouirte... you'll want another slice some hours later or the next day... but what if your mum hides the cake?  You will be very keen to have another nibble again.  It is a weird example, I know, but could help... 'Hide' the cake (=you) but in a smart way... don't run away and let her look for the pie... just don't show yourself as so-much-interested but keep yourself around her... so that she can realise how much she misses you... In addition don't let the other guy to outwit you.  If you go on your intent and she does not go on you and rather goes on the other guy... then let her go... after all there are many other women out there...  Though I understand the way you feel!!!
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Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
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Just tell her straight out that you want to be closer to her, and that you want your relationship to evolve into something deeper. Women appreciate honesty in a man...at least I know I do! Don't make her guess over your feelings. Who knows, she might want to be closer to you, but is scared to make the first move. Best of luck to you!
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Telling her is a good start. Hearing it is 1/2 the battle. Constant little reminders r always good. Flowers, candy, a phone call in the middle of the day just 2 say "hey, i was thinking of u and wanted u 2 know i love u.", or at the end of the day ask just 2 ask,"how was ur day?" and really want 2 know. Maybe u could try doing something with her u can't stand, but u know she loves. Perhaps she knows u love her, she is just scared of real love? Make it comfortable 4 her, try not to push her, just be the best friend, the best lover, the best listener, the best u ca b 2 her. How could she possibly Dennie  true love from someone so full of it 4 her.\nGood luck!
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Look, you are very good friends with her. You have to talk with her and be honest. If she feels the same way about you then great. If not just tell her that you just wanted your friend to know about this awesome girl and if she ever changes her mind, you will be there.
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Start by asking her if she truly has feelings for you, and if she does, let her know that you feel the same way. Then you two can be free to express how you feel for one another.
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you may love her but the question is does she love you? Well try to verify this, maybe she wants a friendship with you and nothing else and she act like this for your protection she don`t want you to feel bad
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Tell her that you love her as a friend and if there is anything you can do to help. Trust me i thought about sucide and that helped me when my friend said that to me and made me feel loved. Tell her you don't wanna do this just think of all the people you will meat later on in your life and there r so many thing to look forward to. I hope this helped you and i wanna wish you the best of luck
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talk to her about it and tell her how you feel if she is a real friend she will understand
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Tough situation.\n\nYou might want to give her time to think about it. \n\nOr do something that will really blow her mind, something that will show her you really care about her. And what's most important is that you really need to get her attention and tell her exactly how you feel. No matter what she says. \n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd take care! =]
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You could just have a major crush on her. You could also have affectionate feelings tward her.  Why don't  you ask her out if you feel love for her.
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well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
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I went through the same story but just write letters 2 her and give it in her hand and tell her how much u like her and that she is the perfect one for u .
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tlk to her about it and tell her how u feel about it etc u should have no secrets tell her that and tel her u love her maybe she doesnt think u love her :) good luck and have fun cya
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She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
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Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !