i havent lost mine yet (thank God),but most of the ppl who lose their virginity are teens(im 15).is it cuz they jus cant resist the urge 2 wait?
131264
Sexual urges are VERY strong in teenagers, they don't have the willpower or desire to wait.\nI was 16 and in love- we were together for 3 years, I don't regret it, but I think its sad when girls give it up the first chance they get and the guy ends up hurting them.
592000
many young people feel urges to have sex early because its all over the place.  You should wait for a bit longer until you are ready.  I went too early and I am now regretting it because I know now that I started way too early.  There are other ways to satisfy yourself without using a boy.  If you get pressured into it, just wait until much later.  You and future boyfriends (when you actually find men and not little boys) will definitely appreciate it later in life.
184288
Your parents need to realize that losing your virginity is a part of life, they can't dwell on it forever. My parents don't trust me and I'm 16 and still a virgin. My mom is phyco... but anyways, just keep ya self outta trouble and do everything your parents ask you to and they'll ease up.
566383
lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
366556
Too much fuss about virginity. Non-virgins make fun of people who haven't. Virgins think they are so righteous for not losing it. Blah blah blah. It's not that big of a deal. When it happens it happens. You're the same person afterwards as you were 47 seconds before.
216272
Did it ever occur to you that there is nothing wrong?  There are some guys who want to be virgins until married.  Why should that be an issue?  A guy has the right to say no and to wait until marriage.  Some guys don't believe in a double standard...they want a virgin so they will also remain virginal.
570560
The perfect age to lose your virginity is right after you say "I Do" to the one you love. Not before; its like wine; don't sever it before its time.
99992
listen , its normal to feel this way at our age, i am 20 , i am a virgin but i know i wanna wait for the right person, sex just for the heck of it is not satisfying abd sometimes bad, very bad, u might feel sorry u did it just out of lust, so fall in love and then have sex, it will b great i am sure, dont have any experience but i know it is only great with the right person. I am sure u wont want to spoil ur FIRST time, its always special,wait for the rt person.
419919
I am 36-I was 16 when I lost my virginity-I have slept with 5 men and about 15 women. I give no opinion on how many people are too many. I believe sexual expression is a good thing as long as you are safe.
575349
wow\nwell im 16.... i know there are constantly urges\nbut for guys it a different story\ncause we dont have to worry - most of the time about the consequences.\ntrust me 14 is too young a age\nwait until at least 17 or 18 hour be an evan better age\ni konw its hard..... this girl i really like talks to me about that kind of stuff - but we say we're kidding.....its too young a age\ngo to any parent and as them "when was your first time"\nsome will rarley say 15 or 16 but most of them say early 20's late teens\n\ntrust me\nWAIT!!
659146
I am not going to say it is right or wrong, I lost mine when I was 15 my lil sis 18 it all depends on the person and if they feel ready. Don't do it because you think the guy will like you better, or you don't want to be the only one not doing it. Because trust me you're not, alot of people aren't. But I see it this way if you feel ready, you are about this person,love, then okay, but if you are not ready then he or she will wait on you and if they don't then they never loved you anyway. Just be care-full there is so much out there right now that you never know. For me though I see it this way you never know what is out there until you test the waters, but i will tell you something, my husband was number 3 and I wish he was number 1. Sex though is as enjoyable as the person makes it. I love sex, not for the feeling but for the creativity. When you love someone enough to spend the rest of your life with, then it can never get boring unless you let it.
338738
Virginity IS important and its something that has to be thought about before given away. It might not be that important to the girl who's losing it but, think about the people around her and society.\nDespite the rise in teen sex, its still not OK in society for a teenager to be sexual and to have sex. With guys its a little different because guys see it as a status thing. With girls, you either come off looking like a slut or you're seen as easy or "used". \nWhen giving it up, its got to be something you want to do and its got to be something you've thought about. If you're unsure, dont do it. Its not something you can get back.
171490
I'm sure there are some people who want to stay virgins. I wish I could. But girl just because your friends are pregnant doesn't mean you have to be. Be smart and wait or else you really regret it when you are my age. Plus sex will alwayz be there and it will be more romantic and passionate if you wait til your wedding nite.
230264
Losing your virginity is obviously not something that you can take back - once you do it, that's it.  If you are experiencing increased libido, which is perfectly normal, then try masterbating.  I'm not saying that to be funny - everyone does it.  Call me crazy, but I think that you should know your own body before you decide to give it to someone else.  Ultimately, only you can truly decide if and when to become sexually active.  Personally, I think that if you have doubts, then you are probably not ready.  Also, as you mentioned there can be serious consequences.  If you do decide to become sexually active, then PLEASE protect yourself.
65260
the only way to loose your virginity is to have sexual intercourse with a man.\neven if your hymen is torn from using a tampon, masterbating or anything else, you're still a virgin untill u have intercourse.
142456
i think you're still a turn on. i think more women nowadays should stay virgins until marriage. i've kissed guys of course, just on the lips or cheek though, but ive never dated or made out with a guy or girl. and im planning on keeping my virginity until im married or have met the one i know im going to marry. go virgins! :P
91858
I'm a 20 year old female and still have not lost my virginity.  Saving sex for marriage.  And honestly, I'm a little afraid of it.