this year i liked someone and one of my friends (she's not a BFF but we do hang out all the time) liked him.. it took a while to tell her.. but i did.. and now she likes someone else .. n i like the other guy also.. not because she did.. because i liked him 2 years ago.. but i was yound and didn't know any better.. n i think i really .. i could say that i love him a lot .. ew always hang out at lunch .. 2 groups of people so i can't really talk to him but i always talk on the internet and she told him that she likes him .. ALSO she was friends .. good friends with him 2 years ago.. ( the second guy)..n now i really think he likes me(from a couple of clues) .. so wat do i do about my friends .. how do i tell him .. how do i no if he likes me or not?
133035
friends over guys! let your friend know how you feel first and if she tells you its okay and you feel its okay then try to find a way to let this guy know!
94003
If your friendship is really strong enough then it'll last through anything. If you like him, tell him and see where that takes you. Letting someone know that you like them doesn't mean you have to get into a relationship...\nIf you both like each other and agree to a relationship, then good for you guys :)\nif you find that you don't really want a relationship, then...that's that. Communicate with him.\nBest of luck
519178
i think its pretty cool when girls have there friends do this sort of stuff  for them. i know i don't mid it. i think the best thing to do would not to just say that your friend likes him. juts kinda be like so what do you think of this person. he will probably be like why do You ask. just be like idk just asking. he already knows by now that your friend like him so he will either ignore what your telling him because he doesn't like her or he will go talk to your Friend and stuff.          \n\nthat's how its happen to me before and if the whole thing turns out like i just wrote it down your friend is in good shape
230664
yeah i think you should take the chance. try to make it in some way as to not scrwe up the friendship if it doesnt work out. actually before telling him i think you should try to get him to like you too, make compliments, but make them sound casual so that he wont be sure if you like him or not, then he'll wonder if he likes you or not too. it sounds complicated but it works all the time.
216129
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
466557
Whatever u do, don't tell everyone who likes who. This will just make everything pretty confusing... \n\nIf he doesnt like u, he doesnt like u. But u can try to be friends and maybe he'll change his mind later on once he knows you better.
240666
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...
634277
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
157646
The fact that your attentions are on someone else makes me question the relationship with the first guy. But decide who you like better and make a definate choice. It may end up being the wrong choice, but you will learn from it and hopefully be more wise the next time.
301993
I think honesty is the key. If you like him you should talk to your friend first. If you don't tell him that you don't really care for him, but you know someone that does. Lead him on, maybe he'll get interested in your friend!! Set up a blind date for the two, hopefully it will go well!
599421
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.\n\nBest of luck.
66945
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
407892
About the guy that you liked since the 2nd grade. You feel that you think you don't like him, is because you might feel uncertain about your feelings for him because of the other guy you said was cute. Talk to both of them and get to know them before you choose one. So that way more than likely you won't get hurt. Take it from a pro, girl!! I've been there before!!
135058
first tell your friend.\nsecond it depends on how long you have liked the guya nd how long she has liked the guy.\nthird if you've liked him longer tha her andyou think she might ask him out or he will ask her out......ask him out FIRST!!!!!!! lol.\n\ni know from experience. my friend ive known since 1st grade  likes the same guy as me and all of her friends that im not friends with know and they all are pressuring him to ask him out. and im a lot more shy about it and none of my friends do that for me. and ive liked him for like 4 months since january. and she's only liked him for about 1 month!!!!!!! so yeah\n\nso just be careful with what she says and does and be careful with who you tell that you like him. because some people in this world can't keep their mouths shut. \n\nGOOD LUCK!!!
80162
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
52458
Tell your friend that you like him and hopefully she will be nice and not push you out of the conversation. Does he know that you like him? If not, you won't know if he likes you if you don't tell him. If he only likes you for a friend it just means that someone better will come along later. Good luck :o)
590235
I know it's hard to get over him especially if you see him everyday. But the easiest I know, is to stick in your mind that he likes to flirt with girls and tell them that he like them but not from his heart. Get it? Or better still, think that your bff likes him. So being a good friend, you'll get out of their way. I'm not telling you that you're going to evade the guy forever. There's nothing wrong in talking to him but only a few lines then say your busy and going some place else. \n\nI hope it works!