i promised my best friend the one i love a long time ago i wouldnt drink and this last saturday i did and shes mad so mad she didnt want to pick up her phone and i wanna tell her im sorry i promised her and she takes promises big what should i do im so lost and i also like her more than a best friend im just lost someone help me!! lost_guy
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Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
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Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
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Dear Chery:\n\nI am sad that we have not spoken in such a long time.  I miss your company and your wit. \n\nI was hurt when you lied to me, and I may have over-reacted.  Whatever hard feeling we have, I wish we could put behind us because I value yur friendhsip too much to lose it.\n\nPleae let me know if you can overlook our differences and get back to being the friends we once were.\n\nIf you cannot forgive me, then at least stop sending me e-mails, because it just makes me hurt more.  \n\nAnd if that doesn't work, write to her and tell her she sucks. And the only reason you wanted to make up is that you wanted to put her in your will, but too late now.
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wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
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Just be sincere and honest. You are a good friend and a valuable ally, he knows that. He may be hurt or annoyed but he will read your apology, understand that you care, and accept your gesture of friendship. You don't need to beg.\nYou need to remember that he values you and trusts you. You may have irritated him but he is already over that. He has thought of you and laughed several times since the "event". He does appreciate you, even loves you for your loyalty and sincerity. You are rare in this world and he knows it.\n\nJust be yourself, be honest, don't beg. If you screwed up just tell him. It will be fine! If you get emotional let it flow. You have great passion and he loves that in you. Again, he values you very, very much and he wants this to be resolved as much as you!
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I believe at this stage, she's not concious about what she asked u.. u need to do something, or say something that will really wake her up, and make her realise that her life, is her own decision.. \nall u can do as a best friend is give suggestion...\n\nu might wanna say something really really serious that will make her realise.. something personal i believe...
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If this is your best female friend, its hard to believe that you havent been 'out' already. Thats what best friends do..... Surely by now you have a relationship that is based on mutual trust and understanding. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Keep it low key and make sure that she understands that you are cool with whatever response comes your way. If you cant handle the answer then its best you move on anyhow. Best friends trust each other with their emotions - this one should be no different. You'd kick yourself if later on you discovered she was thinking the same as you but neither of you had the hutzpah to speak up. Carpe Diem - seize the day!
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naughty naughty, if it was all her and not you, then you need to say something to your girlfriend, b4 her girlfriend says something to her! you know, girls usually will stick together, if the best friend spills the info out and make it sound like it was all you and not her! most likely you will be out the door first! so when your women comes home, sit down with her, start a nice convo about how her 2 weeks were and stuff and then gradually tell her about her "best friend" tell her the truth, don't lie, im sure she will be upset with you, but more upset with her best friend, in the end hopefully she will forgive you and im sure she'll never be able to trust her best friend again around you or any guy she dates in the future!
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Sorry to hear you're losing some cool friends. By the way have you found out why you're losing them? They should give you a reason for leaving you and if there's nothing you can do about it forget them and look for new friends. This new girl can't take your friends away without their consent. Have you tried being in their company without success? Try and make this new girl your friend as well and see how things works out. Good luck.....
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Try to talk to her. My best friend is having a problem like this right now, and the best thing to do is try and talk it out. If she won't talk to you, get a new friend.
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Well, that person obviously doesn't think that your their best friend. A best friend should be there for you always. And you should be able to talk to them about nearly anything and everything. \n\nIt sounds to me like your friend is just that...a friend, but you shouldn't be wasting your energy on someone who isn't going to respect you. Still, I would search out a new best friend. \n\nOr you could tell that person how you feel. Have a good long talk over coffee. It'll bring you two closer.
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If she was indeed your best friend, be straight forward and ask her why the sudden change in attitude?  If she says she is extending her network of friends, then let her be.  Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder so when there has been enough time that has passed, she will (hopefully) realize you're not there and actually MISS you enough to CALL YOU!  Hope you all patch things up... make sure there wasn't a lack of communication or miscommunication.
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I totally understand what you are going through .. it is not easy to lose someone you love .. especially that he is the one who gave up on your relationship .. \n\nSweetie, I want to tell you that you need time, your feelings are hitting bottom low right now and you need time to recover and heal yourself .. his rejection must have hurt you bad and your heart is bleeding right now but even though you don't believe it YOU ARE STRONG .. your quest for help proves that you are stronger than you think.\n\nMy advise to you, take your time to refresh yourself, do things and activities that you like, it is also helpful if you have a best friend (preferrably a SHE) to spend time with and just have fun,\n\nI will be praying for you
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i assume you werent interested. \n\ni think you are still friends...\njust make sure that you dont bring it up...if she brings it up, just tell her that you were really drunk and cant remember what happened. \n\nforget about it...totally...and dont talk to anyone else about it.
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hey chill yaar....don't b upset....realx\nthe first thing u gotta do is "talk to her"...if she doesn't answers ur call...go to house and meet her its better to make things clear....u shud have done that long back....but hey its never  tooo late...u sau that sh din not called u back it cud be that she must have waited for her call but since u did not call...even she didn't alled u.....when in friendship u shouldn't let pride and ego interfere...neither u shud wait 4 ur friend to come to  an apologise or ta clear misundertanding....theres nothing wrong if u r the first one to do so if its going to do good to ur relationship....so just don't think bout anything go and talk to her.....ask her wat went wrong...clear he doubts if any....ask her to listen to u just once....and relax theres dfinately something good in "everything"\n\ngod bless\nkeep smiling\nle gran\n...sne...
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I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
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Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens