My friend loves her and i know that he loves her. He trusted me it seems and so he made me tell her that he loves her and i did that she simply refused. i told him to leave her off it appeared to me as he did. she was in love with me and she told me after all this happend and i did accept her. now i told all that happened to my friend he is so angry that i cant tell? what should i do ??
129862
if u love her and she does the same\nmake u take off with her
86754
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
16247
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
417141
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
124816
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
94922
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
321188
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
194799
Friends are gold boyfriends are silver! If it was her flirting with him then be upset. On experience men are the unreliable ones! Speak to your friend make her understand how you feel she'll be aware in future that it upsets you and if you have a strong enough relationship with your boyfriend then speak to him and tell him how it made you feel because maybe just maybe it was a bit of fun and innocent, but if you don't discuss it you will never know and you will get more and more paranoid! Good luck!
353038
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
306117
No its not love. He is not mature enough to be in love with anyone but his-self. But you wont be able to convince her of it. It sounds like she has a very low self esteem and is willing to be treated this way for love. Nothing you can say is going to change her mind just be a good friend and be their for her if she finally wises up and realizes he's using her and he ain't worth the price she pays for his toys.
134450
baby gurl i don't know where 2 begin but i do know u need 2 convince her 2 leave him cauze if she don't it will get worse. i can understand how both of yall feel, i went wit dis boy who wazz real abusive towards me and all my gurls kept tryin 2 tell me 2 break up wit him but i kept denying tha way he wazz treatin me and it got even worse if it wasn't for my best friend i could be dead right now so i'm telling u don't give up on her keep talkin 2 her and giving her reasons why she should leave him i can understand how she feels but she can do betta den dat cauze no matter how much she loves him she can do betta all dat ain't worth it she should be giving her luv 2 someone who luvs her back and treats her right so please keep tryin and tell her she can do betta and she deserves betta and if u know dis boy PLEASE tell him dat kokoa butta said " Don't u know a womans worth?"
418019
It was nice that you and your exboyfriend remained friends. The other girl sounds like she was very unsecuried. But you did wrong by lieing and you should of let nature take its place, Did you ever hear that sayen if you love something set  it free if it comes back to you it was meant to be if it doesn't it never was meant to be. You need to tell your friend that you lied. Just tell him you two need to talk with no yelling or anything. And tell him the truth. This might make the love you two have alot stronger or it might be a few hard feelings. But it will be out in the open and you will beable to look at him without guilt.
412847
That's completely dumb on her part.  Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it.  You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that.  Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses.  Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man.  It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues.  That's small stuff, believe me.
158664
What makes you so sure the friend miss understood? if you said exactly what you said in your question I don't see how she Miss understood! The first thing I would do is confront her and ask her why she did what she did. Whether she mis understood or not. Seems he likes to cause trouble. If he won't talk to you write him a letter explaining exactly what happened,(Don't ask him to forgive you because you did nothing wrong!)Ask him how the two of you can resolve the issue,you miss the friendship you once shared. Leave it at that,see if he comes around if not try your best to move on without his friendship. After 2 yrs of friendship and he really considered you a real friend he'd try to work it out.  Good Luck!!!
377646
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
455253
i think you should talk to your friend. tell her that you like her a lot but you dont like the filrting that is going on. tell her that you dont want to lose her as a friend but if this "flirting" continues then you wil leave her. and my advice is that leave your boyfriend alone with her. if he is eally in love with you, he wont proceed, but if he fools with her, then think that you have nothing to lose. you never had him.
43627
She chose to believe what she wanted to hear from him.There's a saying that love is blind and in this case it happens to be true.  When she finally accepts the truth, she will be heartbroken and want to have you as a friend again.  Then it will be up to you.