OK I'm not sick but I sometimes do the laundry lately I've noticed that my wife's underwear is always very stained on somedays and not others. \n\nI don't want to accuse her of cheating and I don't want to ask her about it if its too personal. But what is it? Is she doing something or is it normal?\n\nPlz help
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Hi ... well I wont say a thing for the fact that you are looking so closely .. thats your own business, but if you suspect possible cheating .. I cant tell yo many people do the underwear sniff test ... as bad as that sounds.\n\nWomens Vaginas discharge during the day .. I know its not pretty .. some days its not much some days it more.. also is a hormonal thing .. and if your in the process of ovultaing ... a 2 - 3 day period the consitency is different .. sometimes clear, sometimes yellowish ..\nIt could be from a yeast infection .. also .. \nwho knows...\nI believe in honesty .. I would ask ...\nIt would be hard to tell if it was from sex .. as sweat always seems to have that distinct sex smell anyway ..\n\nUnless you suspect funky business I would say its quite normal and most women find it embarssing and hide it from the partners ... but in ur case ur doing the laundry \nhope that helps...
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Sorry I am a woman, but you need to confront you wife with this.  It's disrespectful to you and to your marriage.  Sit her down and tell her you know what her butt is up to.
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Maybe you are having a reaction to the bedlinen or what it was washed in. i.e. washing machine soap.\nYou can be tested and you really should see a doctor if it continues.
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Oh for cyring out loud, it's a pair of underwear.  Just put them on.. lol  Just don't let her take any photos.  Ya gotta try something new every now and then.  If you try it and it makes you feel positively foolish, let her know this and that you don't want to do it again.  If she doesn't respect that, then you've got bigger problems than a pair of Victoria's Secret's finest skivvies.
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First and foremost, have you both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases?  Especially concerning her previous behavior.  That is not exactly monogamous sex.  How does she know you want her to act more adventurous if you do not tell her.  Was lack of communication part of the reason for your separation?  I suggest marriage counseling as well.
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Honey...I'm a mom.  Hate to ask this, but does it smell bad?  Have you been having sex with a boy?  If so, could be PH imbalance because of his semen.  Was this white liquid during waht was SUPPOSED to be your period?  These are all questions you should ask a gynecologist (female organs doctor) or (free clinic if you want to be private and not discuss with parents).  From a mom's point of view...I always encouraged my daughter (now 21) to duscuss with me these things.  We were honest and open with each other, and if there was something I didn't WANT to hear, I tried not to REACT badly, but help her get answers, then we'd sit down and discuss what caused this to happen afterwards.  I wanted her to trust me.  Show this to your mom and see if she would be open with you...then see the gynecologist.  Could be a simple yeast infection which are easily treated, but need a doctor to diagnose it and prescribe medication or over the counter medicine.  Never put off questions about your female health.  Good luck!  P.S.  clumps?  sounds familiar from when I was young, but the gynecologist is the best way to go.  Never be afraid of going to the doctor.  Be more afraid of ignorance, and not knowing exactly what's wrong.  If you find out all is okay, won't you feel MUCH better??  Go for it Dear....
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It's still possible, just messy. I agree with everyone else, just use old bath towels that you won't mind if they get stained.
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Hmm...I'm not sure, but I think it has something to do with wiping backwards.\nA gross question, but still interesting.
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sweet and nice wife! does the name make you feel good about yourself? you are a dirty little cheat and so not hot.you are disgusting.
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One thing that seems to be lacking, by what you have said, is communication.  I really think that you need to sit down and talk about her spending habits and how much of your income is being used by her.  I would also ask about her 'interfering' with your clothing.  It may be that she just wants you to look your best.  Believe it or not, women often have a much better sense of style and are able to see what makes a man look his best.  I don't know if this is the situation, but sometimes a woman spends so much money shopping to punish their husband.  If you have cheated on her in the past, it may be one possible answer.  If you have done something in your past to really hurt her, that is another reason she may punish you or if you spend too much time at work or with friends or activities...that is another possible reason.  If discussing it in a sincere and not hostile, judgmental or malicious way doesn't work, you may need to seek counseling.  I hope this helps a bit and good luck!
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Oh please....its not a guy thing....woman are just as careless and messy.....have you met my wife.\nI love her but being tidy and putting things away is not one of her best qualities...that's why she has me to clean up after her:)
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Is there any discharge present?  If not, I would just go buy RePHresh in the vaginal lubricant isle. It restores the natural balance to your "area".  Make sure you only wear 100% cotton underwear.\n\nIf there is discharge present, you may have a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis.
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My husband has never, and will never wear underwear he's always naked, once in a while he'll throw on a pair of boxers to use as shorts to go outside. but he never wears them under his clothes. He loves it. And I certainly  dont mind.
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I think if she is that upset over a stupid pair of pants, she's paying more in daily meds for her mental condition! The thing is, clothes get torn, worn, stained, stretched, and faded! Don't let her tell YOU what to do. Tell her that this is not your fault and she should find a way to get over her petty clothes. I have a feeling that this person you speak of maybe a money-poor person and clings to possesions as a way to make own networth greater.
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Everything you're describing sounds perfectly normal - discharge often forms a yellow stain when it's dry. It shouldn't itch, burn or smell, and should be clear, slightly milky or off white at different times in your cycle before it dries on your underwear. It shouldn't be lumpy or really thin, though it does change in consistency throughout the month. As long as you're not experiencing any of these things, you are perfectly normal and the production of discharge, which cleans the vagina, means that you have a very healthy body. Believe me, if you had a yeast infection you would be experiencing some kind of discomfort by now...if the doctor says it's fine, it is.\n\nAs for the other part of your question, be proud that you can relax and enjoy sex so much - most men find a woman who gets very wet when she's sexually excited a real turn on, as this happening is a sign to the opposite sex of her femininity.
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Always wear clean underwear in public, especially when working under your vehicle.\n\nFrom the Northwest Florida Daily News comes this story of a Crestview couple who drove their car to Walmart, only to have their car break down in the parking lot. The man told his wife to carry on with the shopping while he fixed the car in the lot. The wife returned later to see a small group of people near the car. On closer inspection, she \nsaw a pair of male legs protruding from under the chassis. Although the man was in shorts, his lack of underpants turned private parts into glaringly public ones. Unable to stand the embarrassment, she dutifully stepped forward, quickly put her hand UP his shorts, and tucked everything back into place. On regaining her feet, she looked across the hood and found herself staring at her husband who was standing idly by. The mechanic, however, had to have \nthree stitches in his forehead
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Yeah, that happens to me.  I usually just wipe as much as I can get, then wear a panti liner.  Not a big deal. It doesn't mean it's leaking or anything like that.