she is my pride and joy and i really wanna make it special
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All the answers so far are very nice, make sure you let her know she is your pride and joy.  Most women want to hear it, along with you showing her.  The one thing I would want for my birthday from my husband, is his undivided attention.  Also, he has written me beautiful love letters, some very open where you see his soul, telling me why he loves me, some very sexy.  \n\nThe one thing not to do, would be giving her something very sentimental if you are not sure you will be together forever.  She will put more meaning on it than you do, and she will have to either look at it after your thru, or get rid of it- either way it ends up being painful.\n\nLast of all, the massage idea is great, especially if you are the one giving it!  Your affection and physical touch, will mean so much.  Make sure it lasts for at least a half hour, putting real effort and thought into it.  Look up how to give a massage, so it shows in the act of giving it.  \n\nBless you, and with the thought you are already putting into it, you will be sure to have a lasting impression.
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I already answered this one but I want the points. She may always have a special place in your heart.
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just go up 2 her and maybe ask her about the hw or compliment her and smile. it wont weird her out itll make her feel special.
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just  let her kno and make her feel happy when she is wiht u
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Well just tell her how you feel from deep inside your heart. It may be hard at first but have faith in yourself and you can do it. Your feelings are never wrong!
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buy her expensive jewellery, then shed some tears for her...her heart will just melt
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That would so cool! Probally the best day of my life!
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give her big hug to indicate that u will always protect her and kiss her on forehand to indicate that u always want to see her happy i thing no bigger gift then protection and happiness
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give her all she wants and more......
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man believe me you can get as many sudgestions as people in here can give but you might want to think of something original to really make her happy and to impress her   good luck  and congradulations if she says yes
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just try to tell her in little ways, and you could ask her things like you know how special you are to me right? and your the best! and what would I do without you? or I cannot imagine life without you in it. not all at once but, slide them in during times spent and conversations..she will get the hint.
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make a list of all the things that you find so wonderful about her - maybe the way she smiles or the way she chops a tomato...and then write this list out in a nice handwriting (or use a nice computer font) and put it on a good quality paper...wrap it in a ribbon and give it to her with her favorite flowers/chocolate/wine...on any normal morning. She will believe you : )
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I love you so much that I think I will burst out in a sparkling display of orgastic splender!!
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Take her someplace special and do something special that she will always remember.
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be strong, just realize that she is experiencing amazing things right now, you will also experience them, and you will appreciate her understading at that point
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That'll make her swoon! But while you're doing all this,be sure to tell her how beautiful she looks,how much you love her,and how important she is to you.
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Find out what her favourite charity is and make a donation - most charities will give you a certificate for this, sponsor a child in a developing country in the name of her and her new husband, plant a tree in her honour, make up a 'memory box' of your time as friends with photos and keepsakes in it, get hold of a digital camera and make a dvd of you and her other closest friends telling her how much she means to you, maybe including some funny stories about her and some  memories of fun times you shared and times you were there for each other, add some of her favourite music to it as well