I work in a restraunt and fully know the consaquences of a relationship and the drama and gossip that goes with it in a restraunt. There is a female that likes me and I am attracted to her to but I have enough to deal with right now with out the drama.
121147
If you really like this girl then you should let her know. I think you should try the relationship, the trick is to just keep your relationship and your job seperate, while at work your relationship is not open for discussion, maintain a professional attitude in the work place, and don't allow your relationship to come into play. Also make sure she has the same attitude, and when work hours are over everything should work out just how you want it to. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z, they both just keep their mouth shut, that way no matter what rumors are going around at work no one will ever really know what is trully going on.
595965
If you want to go there regardless of if she is there or not, then sure.  You just can't have it anywhere in your mind that the two of you might get together as a result of you moving there.  The bottom line is make sure it is for the right reasons.  Get that job, find your dream place...don't go and wait around for her.
349024
I have a hot girlfriend that doesn't mind that I'm married.\n\nI have a wife that doesn't mind that I have a girlfriend.\n\nMy girlfriend has agreed to find herself a girlfriend for us to share.
362684
Very tough situation, I have a few question before I can answer clearly your question. Has the company that you two are involved in currently in operation and generating revenue? Have you completely explain your feelings for her?  Most men do not speak clearly to women when explaining things like this? Ages of you and her? Education of both? I know this sounds very trivial, but this information will help give you good advise to move forward.\nFYI- Been there, done that.
332087
i like her to show me she aint afraid to eat and i know you are not afraid to eat lol eat girl eat
184024
You should trust your girlfriend and her judgement. Talk to her, find out the reason why she choose this job (it could be that good of a job). or you can just visit her job and get to know the workers.
235479
im probably quite laid back,to a point.In fact very laid back.In a relationship my bloke can do near enough whatever he wants, have female friends etc,as long as he shows me love and respect.But If i see myself getting jealous i back up before i lose my temper and tell them exactly how i feel.Honesty is key in a relationship.
322036
I can honestly say that I have done several things and am always trying to come up with more to keep things exciting and interesting. Cooked dinner when she is tired from a hard day at work even if I had a hard too. Came home during lunch one time while she was at work and left rose petals on the bed and little love notes from the door leading to the bed. Just grabbed a hold of her and kissed her passionately when she did not expect it. Read poetry to her while a warm fire was going. I have called her at work to just say hi and to let her know I'm thinking of her. I have sent her romantic e-cards just because. No special occasion needed. As I am currently deployed to Iraq, I also take time to write letters. Email is convenient, but a hand written letter is so much more personal. I have also copied down songs to her to help me relay how I feel about her when words escape me. I order flowers online and have them delivered to her at work. Give her words of encouragement, support and appreciation for all that she does. I compliment her on her looks when I get a picture from her or she tells me of a new outfit she got as I picture her in my mind in her outfit. I ask her how she has been doing, how she is feeling, for her thoughts and concerns. There are so many things one can do. Just takes a heartfelt thought, some imagination and love.
152075
REALIZE WHAT YOUR RISKING HERE, WORK RELATIONSHIPS CAN AND WILL BE REALLY HARD TO KEEP.(PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, IM ACTUALLY GOING TROUGH IT RIGHT NOW, AND OH MAN, THE DRAMA!!). THE HUNGRY DON'T GET FED, THE MORE YOU WANT IT THE MORE SHE'S GONNA PLAY IT OFF. SO STOP ACTING LIKE IF YOU NEED HER!!!!! THAT'S RIGHT STOP BEING NEEDDY!!!!! AND STOP FEELING NEEDY, WOMEN CAN SENSE THIS, ASK THEM!!!. ONCE, YOU REALIZE THAT YOU DON'T NEED HER FOR THIS WEEKEND AND THAT YOU CAN DO WITHOUT HER, THAN YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT..... DONT ASK BEING NEEDY, ASK WITH CONFIDENCE, PLAY IT OFF... IT SHOULD BE SOMETHING LIKE THIS...... " SO JANNETT WERE ARE YOU GONNA TAKE ME THIS WEEEKNEND..."OR MORE DIRECT "HEY, I PLAN TO GO TO.... MAYBE YOU CAN COME ALONG...."  THE POINT IS THIS, YOU SHOULD BE IN CONTROL OF THIS... BUT FIRST GET CONTROL OF YOURSELF... GOOD LUCK... BTW, BEEN THERE DONE THAT...
83530
No. No. No.  Eventually it will affect your work, the relationship with other co-workers.  And in the end, if you get fired, you can only think...  If you start dating, sex cannot be far behind.\n\nBased on your question, it can be said you do like your boss and you do have feelings for them, even though you say you have none - but it's in the air.  There's also sexual tension coming from your boss.\n\nAnd the answer is still NO!
455056
l think it might have something to do with your job, for instance, do you do ANYTHING that puts your life in jepardy? You should talk to her about it. It'll make her feel more secure to know you care.
64797
If she was my girlfriend, why would she have lots of (potential?)suitors at work to begin with? When you say girlfriend, I assume you mean an exclusive relationship. If it was an exclusive relationship then why worry if she knows how to conduct herself. Some women need a lot of attention from lots of men, so I would have to decide if she is one of those, and act accordingly.
625933
im a p.i. and ill say this, if you got a bad feeling about her, yes. never ignore your instincts. IT COULD SAVE YOUR ASS ONE DAY AND YOUR INVESTMENTS. I SUGGEST DOING AN INVESTIGATION ON HER TO SEE IF SHE REALLY IS SHADY QUIETLY.  never let her have any control over anything at all in the company. ever unless they are married. ID EXPOSE THE BLOW JOB REPORT AND KEEP FIRM ABOUT THE WHOLE THING.
52558
I am a Domestic Goddess, and love my job!\nI get along with all of my "co-workers" wonderfully, and I get to sleep with my boss (wink, wink).\nThe pay stinks, but the satisfaction is immeasurable.  =)
8485
If she likes you it is just fine
504738
Let me give you some good advice - it's not a good idea to date someone with whom you work.\n\nIt gets complicated, everyone knows your business, and if it doesn't work out you have to see the person every day.
456631
This could be a real can of worms. First of all, it is bad form to date anyone you work with. Many companies forbid it. Secondly, how old are you? 20 is very young and if you are more than 5 years older than that, forget it. Finally, if it doesn't work out, you will have a very uncomfortable situation at work with both the girl and her mother there. I would say that it's not worth it. Date someone outside of work.