Who is the talker in your marriage, meaning who is most likely to come forward and talk about problems instead of pretending the problem has went away.
136729
Me, bugs the heck out of my hubby, I want to talk through every thing, him, he'd much rather go off and be alone till it pass's or just pretent it didn't happen, I sure am the talker...
419590
well you best talk to your spouse and let the in laws hang because they are on the outside and the important one at this point is the one your with. but explain what happen and that you meant no harm.
50605
You have answered your own question.  All the things you mentioned - you will need to bring back.  Opening the communication is the 1st step to recovery.\n\nOr you could sigh up for Wife Swap.
213557
Talk to her about the problem
314579
my wife told me she wasnt happy once.  and then started talking to some other guy.  when i threatened to leave she stopped talking to him.  instead of waiting on him to leave, why dont you pack up and go?
659171
I have done this before. Sometimes you can say something out of pain and anger and not choose your words wisely before speaking and you can speak pain into them and into your marriage and as soon as you say it you can see that pain on their face. Sad part is you cannot take words back once you say them . Just apologize and try to never do that again and next time think before you speak!
18359
Talk to the person, find out why things are going the way they are. Could be as simple as wanting to wait until marriage or could be very nervous about it.
70037
Go to their homes and/or invite them when he's not there.  You really need to discuss the issue with him if it's that important (yeah i know, easier said than done).  Maybe marriage counseling, if this marriage is worth it.  If not...
584887
being silent about issues only worsens them. to have a good relationship you have to be able to discuss issues and problems.  Its good to talk about it and get it out in the open. He may think you don't care if you don't talk about it.
460594
communication problems or clashing of ideas
402171
I have had this problem before... I think that you are on the right track with confronting him about the problem... Since he is willing to work on it, maybe you should give him a little friendly reminder about that willingness when he starts to talk a little too much.
491416
you need to ask your WIFE\n\ncommunication is the key to a succesful marriage or relationship
614160
The root to your problem lack of conversation,....If there anything not right goin on , the best way to solve it is to talk openly to each other. Say your husband is up set over something that happen between his in-laws & him sometime ago, n he's not happy being with them....but for me at least he's willing to join you guy for a week. For me that's fair....Talk to your husband n make him feel good for his sacrifice....Then your job is to tell your family that your hubby has something to do........Time will heel things.....But never ever compare anybody with the past or with another person....Things can go very bad.
170540
I wish I could tell you how to get him to listen.  He sounds like my late husband.  We were married for 40 years and he never really listened to me.  Once we were at a marriage counselor and I talked for about 5 minutes about how my husband didn't listen to me.  Then the counselor looked at my husband and said "what do you have to say about that"  and my husband responded "I wasn't listening"\nso going to a marriage counselor doesn't always work either.\n\nIn the end I began to think that my husband was frustrated by other people in his life and took it out on me.  He couldn't ignore his boss.  He couldn't tell his co-workers that they didn't know what they were talking about so he came home and did it to me.\n\nThe really bad part is that I came to believe that I was stupid and incompetent.  I put too much value in the way that he treated me. \n\nI took course on how to communicate.  I was told that I shouldn't say you did whatever but I should say I feel whatever.  He turned this against me and told me I was self-centered and I believed him.\n\nSo I can't tell you how to make him listen or how to communicate with him, but I can tell you that you must guard against feeling that something is wrong with you.
66678
It depend on the respect  accorded to marital obligations by the spouse. It also depends on respect shared in the marital home.\nTwo big issues that causes problems in a marital home are finances and sexual obligations. One spouse with holds sex to get what she wants. One spouse with holds finances to get what he wants.\nFor a happy home that need not be tensed there should be trust and respect for marital obligations. A lot of spouses do not know the meaning of marriage. Unfortunately a lot use marriage as a tool for what they want.Essence of marriage is happiness under the foundation of true love. Most marriages are loveless\nI wish any one wishing to marry should first read this book HOW NOT TO MARRY A JERK
419580
If he is doing these things I would say he has acted on them, thinking about it, or is going to...I am sorry.  This could end your marriage, it needs to be thoroughly discussed.
91441
Well I would first say that you have to communicate without all the loud talking of each other and most of all you have to be understanding because you know everyone is different in their own way, so you have to understand them and except them for them just as they would love you for you. An you both have to sacrifice sometimes to keep each other happy. In the end you'll both be getting what you want. Being honest is very important as well. You don't want to here something from another person about your spouse, so tell them first so they wont never be surprised and get upset.