my best friend doesnt even like the other friend and pretends to like her its getting on my nerves and the friend is always so peppy not even a cheerleader! always smiling and sings out of tune and she thinks she is the best singer!
121661
you should be cool about it, dont trip you wil get in more peoples nerves if you tell your friend she cant talk to her no more and well your friend will probably wont listen to you and stop beying your friend, just 4 that and if you can tell me y you hate her so much, at ritz4feet@yahoo.com ill be waiting and i can tell you more too.
85616
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
400138
of course!i would never agree to be anyone's friend if they dont like her!<:0)
301462
Well what I would do is first of all, tell my friend the truth.  Tell her that I only said it because I was jealous of the time she was spending with the other person.  If you don't really dislike the other person, go to them personally and apologize and try to make amends.  Let them know you were jealous of the attention they were getting and maybe you guys can work it out.
285275
Sounds like she's first trying to make you jealous. I would break the friendship off she obviously doesn't have any respect towards you when rubbing things in your face. If she's your friend as she calls herself she should be willing to hang out with you. Have you told her how she's making you feel and why you feel the need to end the friendship if not do so and see if she changes if not then I would let her go. No sense, in being unhappy nor going through life with someone who calls her self something then doesn't act the part (figuratively speaking)Good Luck!
71964
People can be so mean, why can't they just worry about themselves. I think when people make fun of your friend it is because they are jealous of her confidence.
209438
Your friend is very insecure- if she can make you look bad she feels superior.\n\nYou need to find another best friend because if she were truly your friend she would not do the things she does to you.\n\nWith friends like her you certainly do not need any enemies
604847
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
82709
Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
299945
Find a better friend this person sounds like an A*s*s*h*o*l*e
308646
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
676523
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature . \n\nafter speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
658458
im having problems like that except vise-versa (srry can't spell 2day). take it from me, its not all that ez, it mite take them a wile 2 forgive u, but if they're true friends, they will come to their senses and realize that you appreciate both of them the same (unless you don't, and if you don't i can't help you there).
194753
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
184784
My best friend is a Blond and she can really act like it sometimes too. Sometimes its funny to see the stupid things she does,but mostly she just wants attention. I of course give it to her, but no else does. No one else really understands her. People always ask me how i put up with her and i have no idea. I guess the best answer for you is yes. I do have a friend that acts slow sometimes! But its all good.
184503
Tell your boyfriend about her behavior, and then explain to your friend her behavior is unacceptable. Seeing as she's probably not going to relent for some time, I'm afriad you'll either have to ditch your boyfriend or your bestfriend. I'd suggest your boyfriend because your BFF is always there while boys come and go.\nBut if your BFF does this all the time with every boyfriend, she's majorly jealous and it's best to ditch her right now.\nJ'adore and good luck!\nConnie\nP.S. She also may be jealous of your boyfriend status, or she make like you boyfriend. Sit down and talk with her about it.
287928
I'm sorry you're going through this but it's quite common in high school.   People are very insecure in high school and the more insecure they are, the more they behave the way your friend (and the others) are behaving so you must first understand that.   Secondly, the best advice that anyone can offer you is to ignore all of it as much as you can, with everyone except your family.  Don't talk about ANY of it with ANYONE at school, no matter how much you think you can trust them.  People are going to talk because doing so makes them feel like they are more in the "circle" than you.  So you have to rise above it.  It's the only way.  You've already talked to her so she is CLEAR on how you feel but she is allowing her insecurities to take over rather than your friendship.  Ignore it, ignore it, ignore it.  When you ignore things and people, they lose interest and get bored and move on to something else.  If anyone tries to talk to you about it and asks questions, simply say "I have no idea what the issues are".  Don't say "her" issues say THE issues.  This way, you're not directing anything towards her and she'll start to feel stupid.  Trust me.  Ignore it and repeat what I said above "I have no idea what the issues are" over and over again.  It will pass.  Thirdly, try your best not to obsess over it.  This has nothing to do with you.  NOTHING.  People have their insecurities.  They always have and they always will.  That never changes, no matter how old you are.  Everyone has insecurities; Presidents, world leaders, Bosses, Celebrities, Singers, parents, friends, family, religious leaders, everyone.  You have your own as well so stop obsessing and understand that you can't change her behavior.  You can only let her get bored with her own behavior-and that is by ignoring it.  Think about other things every time you want to think about it.  You can't change her but you CAN change you and your reactions to it.   Good luck and STAY STRONG.