im goin to prom and a couple of my friends rented a stretch hummer and we each have to pay 125....well one of my friends needed help and so i said ok you can pay 75 and ill pay the rest and now she accidentally spilled the word and now a friend that couldnt pay that much, and i told her she couldnt go is pissed off at me for helpin a friend out and not her. so what the hell do i do?
136470
U help ur friend but don't tell the other one that is mad at u and so everyone is happy. When u help pay for ur friend that is not pissed off at u pretend that she got the money to pay from her parents or something so ur other PO'd friend will not get madder. Good luck! Email me if u need more help.
434582
I would definately check into that.  Thats extortion in my book.  Also, see if u can get her a calling card or the number to one, for those calls out I guess.
474911
Set up some sort of payment arrangement with your friend. But first find out how much you can do without. Make sure you stick with what you are going to pay him and don't give him a song and dance about being broke. Keep a ledger of what you paid and how much. Also get him to sign or initial it even if he says it's not necessary. Once you are done, don't borrow anymore. I'm assuming you want to keep this friend.
675084
Sorry to tell you this-nothing. Two over the limit fees can be charged. She was overdrawed in the beginning.\nSorry.
554863
Check to see if your state has a "lemon law", many states do. You should sue him in small claims court for breach of contract.  Look at your I owe you and your bill of sale, if he blatantly lied to you which it sounds like he did then you can sue him for damages.  Most states small claims courts allow you to sue for up to $3000 dollars.  Gather your receipts and total all bills up and sue him for that much, include the i owe you amount.  Place all receipts and place them in a 9x11 envelope and mark as evidence.  File at the court house, in NY it costs under $20 to sue, you represent yourself so make sure you do your homework and are confident and honest.  The slimy salesman will most likely sue you in small claims as well, that's okay because you can tell your side.  Avoid emotional outburst, facts only such as his statements, promises and receipts, explain his coercion into an IOU, which is unethical BTW.  Small claims has no attorneys is just you and him, can be appealed by loser once but usually ends the same and then goes to city court which usually ends the same too.  I went through this over a rental deposit before law school and was victorious through all three processes. Just stay calm, do your homework and draw out an easy to understand time line, and go on the offense rather than defense.
399447
This is a difficult question for anyone but you to answer, since you know this customer/friend, and will have to deal with her expectations.  If you need the money, charge her the usual rate.  If you need the money, but want to make a good impression, give her a 10% discount.  If you are independently wealthy, then donate your time and do it for free.  I hope this helps.
547522
Um, not for nothing but... Instead of sitting on the computer playing in Yahoo Answers you should have been doing your assignment.  I doubt if this were given to you today; you've probably known about it for weeks.  Now it is the last day and you are up a creek, and why?  Because you let it slide so you could play instead.  Now it is time for you to pay the piper.\n\nNo, I can not help you on this.  Sorry.
347352
This unfortunately is just life. Do not loan anyone money or housing or food or anything else that you can't afford to lose, because you will be disappointed this way. Next time you get into a deal like this, have the other party sign an agreement (at least you will have it in writing). That won't get you paid, but it will make it easier to pursue should you choose. You will find that it is best to avoid these situations entirely. \nNow, that said, you could send him a bill (do this on your computer - make it neat, and then print him a copy). Mail it to him and be specific what the charges are for (dates of the stay, etc). Give him a phone number to call to discuss it. Mail by registered mail requiring an acceptance signature. If he does not respond by phone, send another letter the next month (same rules). He may just get tired of it and pay up. If he doesn't pay up, you will have a little documentation to rest charges on. I don't know how much we are talking about here, but it may be better to just chalk it up to experience, and be smarter next time. I have had to do that a few times as lessons learned. Good luck with your problem - hey, at least you don't still have the moocher living with you.
653424
You do not have to pay his fines because you were not in a rational state of mind when you offered. If your boyfriend is really your friend and cares about you he should not press you on it. He should take up his responsibilities and pay off the fines HE accrued on his own. HE is an adult. You could compromise and in a sober state of mind offer to pay a [small] part of the fines to help him out.
138824
OK, I have problems with this on several levels. For starters, who is stupid enough to sell a car to an underage kid who has no license or insurance? There may be liability on their part should the victim decide to press charges against them as well. As far as your "friend"...first, find a different friend because this one sounds like a thug and is bad news. Secondly, although it may depend on the state where you live, at 17 1/2 she could very likely be charged as an adult, especially considering the fact that she is a repeat offender due to the DUI (and I'll bet money she has a record for other things as well). There are other chargeable offenses here as well...no license, no insurance, unregistered car, and a minimum of assault and battery if the attempted murder charge doesn't stick, though it should- if your account of what happened is true. I would say I wish her luck, but frankly I don't. If what you say is accurate she should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.
152365
You poor thing this must be really hurtng.  If I were you the next time a problem presents itself I would not offer to help no matter how hard it is don't bail her out and make a point of saying "Oh I'm sorry but I really cant help you out at the moment I'm a little strapped myself this month" and see how she reacts to you.  If she gracefully tells you not to worry that it isn't your problem and she dosen't treat you any differently after your refusal then you'll know it isn't the money she's after but if she becomes cold and distant when you don't hand out to her then I'd seriously consider getting out of there while you still have both some pride and a bank balance.  Good Luck.
289197
You should have sayed you LOANED her money. When you GIVE you don't get anything back! Sorry.\n\n2 weeks is probably a little late. You could try going to court and make her fix the tranny if you have that in writing, but a sale is a sale, sorry!
243415
in my prespective..you did the right thing.your friend lied about bringing a friend and also violated the time agreement..its bad enough on her part that even after this episode she has not called up to apologise..and leaving the movie without prior information was totally invalid.
344075
Just have her car towed, which is your legal right to do so, and if that doesn't teach her keeping doing it.  I'm sure you will also make a new friend (the tow company)
219029
she might not know that its making you mad and because you just say yes to her she thinks its alright to ask all the time just tell her that you don't want to hurt her or even not be friends with her no more that you just can't afford to drive her everywhere and the fact that gas is really expensive... Just tell her what your feeling and i'm sure she will listen if not then just ignore every single time she ask for a ride and make up a lie that you can't for some odd reason......
422201
People can ask anything.  Whether you have to oblige them or not is another story.\nConsider whether or not it was a mistake.  Pay what you genuinely owe.  Do not take advantage of an honest mistake.  Do not let them use a mistake to take advantage of you.  Supposing that they made a mistake and that you do not legally owe because of the signed lease, it would be appropriate to go ahead and pay the difference.  That is courteousy and respect.  You expect them to be courteous and respectful.  Give them what what you owe and expect them to do like-wise.
306321
You pose 2 separate questions.\n1 - Did you really underpay?  We cant answer that on this board because we do not know the facts.\n2 - Assuming you did underpay, they can force you to pay it but will probably write it off or discount it for that small sum.