I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH FOR ABOUT 3MONTHS I LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME BUT SOMETIMES I THINK HE GETS TIRED OF ME. THE OTHER DAY I SAW A BOY WHO LOOKED JUST LIKE HIM KISSIN ON A GIRL. I ASKED HIM WAS IT HIM AND HE SAID IT WAS HIS SISTERS BOYFRIEND. (LIAR) BUT HE STILL SAYS HE LOVES ME. HE EVENS GO 3 OR MORE DAYS WITHOUT CALLING ME.
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The evidence seems to point to guilty, however, I would say don't jump to a conclusion. My advice is for you to sit him down for a heart to heart talk. Tell him of your suspicions and of the things that you do not like. You are not in this relationship to get your feelings hurt or to be lonely. He needs to know this. It would be good for you to tell him exactly what you expect and if he cannot agree to this then perhaps it is time to move on. My heart goes out to you, Good luck.
405438
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years..and it was the same with us! He was doing the same thing, which is why when we finally got together, people thought he was using me but he wasn't! It's just that guys don't want the world knowing their business. It's easier for them to keep stuff in unlike us girls who have to talk to their best friend about it or other peeps, ya know? I think he likes you. Keep persuing it. Don't give up, you can lose an great opportunity! Good luck!!! =D
570465
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
473789
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
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Most guys do that, but i think you should at least try to talk to hime about it. Maybe if you let him know how you feel he might try to change. If he doesn't care well then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
177610
I was in teh same boat kinda of I started dating a girl who was almost 10 yrs younger. There were times that I just wanted to stay home and be by myself. It had nothing to do with her. She and I lived in different states and saw each other about every month. I moved down here for her things went awry we broke up. I distanced myself from everything and did not want to be bothered I waited a year before I ever dated again. regardless of skin color it should not matter if he loves you truly. I doubt he is using you just for sex. Talk to him or his friends was he hurt in a past rleationship? I hope this can help you out
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hey man, are you dating my girlfriend?  I cant believe there is anyone I can relate so well with - \n\nI guess all I can say is to just trust her until something really messed up is proven to you- give her the benefit of the doubt man!  Does she tell you she loves you? I know they can lie about that too, but at least they are saying it.  If she turns out to be a liar, dont do what I did once in my past- dont even attempt to make her feel guilty, because chances are she wont anyways.
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I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
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Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
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Sometimes you meet girls that just tell you personal things for no reason (evident to me anyway) and this might just be a case of that. But if it's something that really bothers you, Your boyfriend should be willing to settle your mind by casually mentioning you exist to the girl in question.
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well i have a boyfriend i met off the internet and so far it has gone great! he is at training for the army and from that he is getting money and using some to come visit me on his Christmas break. I am so excited. You gotta find the right person though, someone you can make sure won't cheat on you.  I can tell my bf isn't cheating on me, I can just tell because we talk allllll the time on the phone and he's just really into me like i am into him.  and this guy knows my personality so well that i think even if he didnt like my looks in person, he'd like me for my personality, now i dont know that 4 sure but if it ends up he stops talking to me after we meet and all, i'm not going to take it all that bad because i know he's not the right guy then obviously and i can go on and find someone else. i mean, this guy lives far away anyways. but yeah anyways i think its a good thing if you can take distant relationships and you can trust as well as be trusted.  trust and faith is very important
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my boyfriend\nthe question is why do you not call regularly\nbecause his not calling hurts me\nwhy? because he is my boyfriend and is suppose to call
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OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
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talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
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I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.
496039
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
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Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.