my boyfriend loves me a lot,but somehow i feel that he is not so open about himself.am i wrong if im curios to know everything about him?
126108
Wrong!!! He's wrong for not giving you the information that you need.  You should demand that he divulge information about himself.  What is he trying to hide.  You need to be very direct and firm in your approach.  Good Luck!!!
616390
complete openness should already been present before a relationship should have started. Too often we rush into things for many reasons not taking enough time to get to know one another. then we get together and wonder why it doesnt work out. love isnt compromise its about love and acceptence. trust and honesty. he pushes you away means he has none of what it takes to be a good understanding loving caring mate. sorry but I say respect yourself and you can do and deserve better.
477132
You both need to be more open. Closed mouths don't get heard dear...Also communications is an important key in any relationship...It ok for you to ask, as well as it is for him. Do what really makes you happy....Good luck
365325
Joycelyn, don't be surprised if he has enough information about you already. Why should you underrate yourself in love? Try and give him a chance, at least to see the direction which is towing in starting a relationship with you. If at any time he's not doing it right according to your standard then you back out. But the greatest mistake you'll make is NOT to give him a chance at all. Good luck and have a fulfilling relationship. Cheers!
456122
If you feel that he is... in your gut... then he probably is. I have learned through experience to trust myself, and I constantly tell girls all the time to TRUST THEMSELVES as well. You know yourself better than anyone.... Can you be with a guy you cant trust.. If the answer is yes, Then maybe you should get some councelling of your own. You cant be a doormat, you cant have love with out trust. Good luck
38275
yes ofcourse, but you have to go out there and find her. \nmy boyfriend is like the total oppisite when it comes to our personality. im loud and outgoing, not afraid to walk up to a stranger and say hi; my boyfriend is quite and a little shy and sometimes feels uncomfortable when we go to a place and im just being myself drawing attention. he can be rly shy at first but will loosen up as he gets to kno a person, which thats what got us together. and when it comes down to it we love each other, we have been together for a year.\nthats what you gotta do, when you find a girl first get to kno her so you become comfortable with her, nd if something bad should happen, move on, dont let it slow you down.\n<3
426712
well i wouldn't take it to the next level until you know that he loves you for sure sit him down and talk to him about it tell him you want his honest opion if he looks away while talking to you about it then he might be lying to you
111472
I used to have this same problem with guys I used to date but, I found the love of my life and I can't stop talking. I feel comfortable around him. I know that he will not judge or think less of me for what I have to say. Maybe she does not feel comfortable around you. Maybe she is afraid that you will judge her.
131773
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
202766
It sounds as if you are a bit confused, Look at yourself, what this individual likes in you, what about you attracts him.when you find out then you can be the person he loves don't be pushy, give him space make suggestions, never dictate. Ask for his input in things you both do together. Be a lady not a woman, The times you both spend together should not necessary be quantity but quality, find out what turns him on be caring and loving but don't be too frivolous. Give him things to always think positive of you, Be honest in all you do and say
573815
don't over react - Some people need to hear nice things and some people do not mind telling them so they feel good about themselves. have you ever told a guy that they were cute or handsome? has anyone told you that your cute or pretty? I bet yes on all of the above. We all do this but never pay attention that we do. we only notice when someone else says it to another. I think you should think that your boyfriend is soooooo polite and be proud he isn't a jerk. If you love him and feel he loves you then maybe a show of trust is needed. Would it not feel better than getting in his face all mad and giving him the third degree all because your have assumed the worse?
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I don't think that being outgoing would be a problem if you are aware and no when enough is enough. You already said that you do, so don't worry about it. What about your man? Is he like you or is he more of a conservative? If he is you might have some issues there in the long run, but be yourself. You are only here for a short time and people have a good time around you then so be it.
66291
It's hard to say without knowing more about the two of you.  Money could be an issue, or he could be afraid of not meeting your expectation.  It be as simple as he just doesn't really feel as deep for you as you feel for him.
377660
Am sorry to say so,but it seems he's not very much in love with you (even if he says that he is) if he loves you,he would create time for you ...no words such as "busy"when it comes to a loved one...consider breaking up with him,and see how does he react...if he freaked and changed his way with you,give him another chance ,if not...then you find yourself someone as sweet as you are...you deserve much more than phone chatting.BTW if caring didn't come from deep inside of him,you wouldn't be able to MAKE him care.
135380
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
78320
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
239939
You are to shy to talk to him about it and ask him why he did what he did; but you are not to shy to ask the question here?  Come on dear, go ask your boyfriend, as someone said in the other answer if you are to shy to talk to him about it, then maybe you aren't ready for that...