i live here with my parents and 2 olda bros i reeli miss my family and frends\nso shud i just get ova it and get used 2 it or shud i still have my emotinal days?
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You will have emotional days, its totally normal. But you have to be happy that you are still with your parents. You could have been all by yourself or with people you have to get used to. Eventually you will make new friends. Just find the goodthings and enjoy.
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okay my parent s are divoreced but i know its for the best its better that to hear them fight and argue. I sometimes feel like im missing a part of me like on fathers day and i cant rememer the good times cause i was only little when they divorce. but i know very little about him but its better to leave it burid that to go digging for me anyway.
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Hi itstight38@s...,\nI'm sure your grandfathers friend knows how you feel and all is forgiven. My answer to your question is on the day my 12 year old son was killed he asked me if he could stay home from school and I told him no. There are times I wish I could take it back but in my heart I know that when God calls you home there is nothing we can do but except it. I know where my son is and I know he's in a better place than I am and I hope God will let me see my son again when it's my time to go home. Thanks: Blueladybug
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Sweetie I'm sorry to hear about yoru loss.  I would like to encoruage you to get some place by yourself for a few miniutes (maybe even the abthroom) and just ask God to strengthen you right now an dto help you to be strong in dealing with your family.  U cannot  stop people from experiencing what they are going through, u just have to be able to let them know you are there for them and be helpful as possible.  And when you go back to the main area where your family is I encourage you to just whisper a prayer to the Lord that he comfort your family esp. those that are taking it the hardest.  As I have typed this I am praying fo r you and the Bible says where 2 or 3 oare gathered in his name he ( God) will be in the midst. And when God is in the midst ANYTHING can change.  God Bless, u, and my condolences to you and your family.
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Used to,they are gone now.I lived near them by choice.As they got older,they  started needing my help.It was only fair to help my parents as they aged and hope that someone will help me if I live to be old.Not all parents are good to their children,but mine were good to me and I paid them back as they aged and was with both of them when they died. I have no regrets.Just didn't want to live next door to them,sometimes one of them would get into my personal business.Had to move 20 miles away.Close,but not too close.I would tell you that living close ,especially how dangerous things are getting in this world.As they age, they will need your help in more ways than one.Live as close as you can,but try to keep your life to yourself.My parents always cared for my well being,sometimes too much.Had to have that little bit of distance so I could live my life my way.
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For a lot of reasons, you can just feel unsatisfied with where you are in life.  That's not only restricted to middle age.  If it's been going on for 6 months, you should try and do something about it.  You don't want to be unhappy and you don't want your unhappiness to affect your family life.  Take a good look at things: do you feel like there's something in particular that's missing?  Would you feel more fulfilled if you tried something new and exciting?  I wish you the best of luck.
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well just sit him down and say uncle i thank you for all of your help. but i think i should go back home i miss my family and friends. good luck
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hey hoteve i wish the same thing my family is crazy . sometimes i feel like they dont even know i am here . i also feel like my two older sister get the most of my mom and dad's attention . but i a little bit learned that my parents cant help it they r  just being parents .wishing they would go to hell is not a very good thing . they do do some things for us though . if u ever need to talk just im me it should be listed
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I know how you feel I had a family member that lived next door. well a few years ago they moved away to a new state. short after they moved they called and gave me there number and address. now we call and wright to one another all the time. I still fell lonly at time but I know that I could wright or call them any time and they will be always there. you should ask them for there address and phone that way you wont fell so alone
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Wait a while.  When he's gone (out of the house)you'll end up with a lot more freedom as your parents relax.  Plus there'll be more allowance money for you!\nDon't hate on your older brother.  Be responsible and always come home on time.  Have responsible friends, then your parents will feel more comfortable and maybe extend your curfew.  Remeber, you won't be a kid forever, don't screw up your relationship with your parents by trying to act older than you are.
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Don't be afraid of your feelings - they aren't wrong. The difference can be how you react to them. You shouldn't have to pretend to be more upset than you. When I lost my dad, my siblings were all upset and a mess, but I felt like I knew it was coming although it was quick and sudden, and I loved my dad a whole lot. Hang in there, you'll feel better in time!
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to "new": yes, you are cool. but would you please go back to your home and ask your grandfather why your forefathers left home, came to this country and stayed in this country? did they miss HOME? let's suppose you are not american indian and your grandfather still exists.
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I feel very sorry that your family is living this way.  I am putting some links here that should be able to give you a place to start.
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I completely understand how you feel.  I hate being anywhere but home, it is an uncomfortable, anxious nagging want to escape pressure that you have to control and act like you don't feel.\n\nTell your husband, and his family you have other plans.  I say tell his family so he does not try to explain in a way they will not understand.  Maybe going every other time will make it easier for you to deal with.  Tell them you just need sometime to work on things at home...like your peace of mind, yeah, don't tell them that part. :))
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What you are feeling is perfectly normal for a person of your age. There would be something a little wrong if you didn't feel that way. The time will come soon enough. finish school, or you will have a lifetime of regrets over leaving now. You have no idea how lucky you are. I wish I had that kind of set up when I was your age. some of us run out of the house years too early for reasons of our own.\n\nI think you need a wild vacation, but a safe one. You will come back with a new perspective. Treat yourself to something different.
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That's a tough situation and I'm so sorry for your loss. You should definitely talk openly about this with other family members and friends. You should also consider seeing your doctor for depression. Since you can't bring your mom back, try to focus on how to celebrate her. Put together a memorial with her pictures, hobbies and guest speakers. Did she have any dreams? Live out some of her fantasies for her. Feel her passion and feel her spirit inside you. The mourning period needs some closure so you can move on with your life. Try talking with more people like teachers, counselors, and even strangers. Cry a lot. Also...go ahead and talk to your mom. Ask her for advice and let your heart guide you. But don't ever give up!
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I feel for you.  I have 7 sisters and 1 brother.  I don't know how old you are, but when we were teenagers, I just kind of went along my own merry way.  Being considerate is a big thing, I was, they weren't, so I had to work around things sometimes.  I woke up earlier so I could hit the shower before they woke up.  I played sports and did other things I enjoyed, without any of them.  If they wanted to participate, they were welcome to, but I didn't *try* to get them involved in my life.  Now that we're older, we all have different things we enjoy, but also can get together and enjoy each other's company in a way that a lot of siblings can't.  Hope this helps, and good luck.