I haven't liked anyone in three months, ether all of them are taken in, or I don't like them. I also think that they stay away for some reason. The last boy I liked showed a lot of signs after he broke up with my best friend, then he was with another girl, then left her, then went back to my best friend to get away from me. Is there somethig wrong with me?
127646
There is nothing wrong with you. When you meet the right person, you'll know. Until then, enjoy the single life.
638555
RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
453396
Honey let it go because there is nothing worse to me than a guy in and out of friends that's a well known sign that he is probably no good okay! And i personally would not want any man that i actually knew had been with one of my true friends.
482794
I think it si a sign of insecurity for someone to lead another on.They are feeding their own ego.I agree with you and think a person should back off if they have no interest in the person they are flirting with-especially when they know that the person has feelings.There ARE people with more cahrachter than this.I hope that you find one,and I believe you will-Otherwise,are you sure the person in question does not really like you back,and.how do you know?
44002
maybe he likes you but his friends maybe don't find you attractive because before a boy ask a girl out he always consult on of his closes homeboys to see if she is acceptable of it could be that he doesn't want anyone to interfer with yall relationship maybe he has crazy ex-girlfriend who still want him and will fight anyone to get him back or maybe because he trying to juggle more than one girl at the same time i think you should ask him why he doesn't want anyone to know - goodluck
343952
Same exact thing happened to me! i have this neibor and every night we would sneek out to see eachother and i'd be like, ok were just hanging out, nothing big. and then id see those eyes and BANG i kissed him AGAIN. my boyfriend got pissed. hes like, if you love ME then you wont be sneeking out to see him! so this is what i did: i didnt want to hurt my neibors feelings, but i really really wanted to keep my boyfriend, so i just looked at the situation for a long time and tried to get my prioritys straight. thats all you have to do. look at the situation, see how you feel about him, and how your friends feel about him, and how your mom feels about him, and see which feelings are more important to you. if you care more about your friends feelings, then just stop. use your friends like a motivator to not do it. if your feelings are more important, go for it ; )
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I think it important to assess how you behave in a new relationship. Are you perhaps a bit too full-on? Are you maybe even trying a bit too hard? I have a friend who is in a similar situation to you. She is a great person with a great personality but she has never managed to have a relationship that lasts more than a couple of months. Guys break it off because like your situation they like her but just feel that she's not compatible with them for a relationship. She's got loads of friends, but no boyfriend. this is because she's so outgoing and full-on. She tries hard to impress and guys just feel like they can't relax and get into a proper relationship. Shes a great laugh and really fun to be around but could they talk to her about problems? Could they share a secret with her? Could they just snuggle up with her and not have to have an exciting conversation? No. Just relax in a relationship. Don't be afraid to be a bit vulnerable and girly. let the guy take the lead a bit. Let him try to impress you. good luck.
87983
that happened to me before too.\ni really like one of my close guyfriends(and he found out. one of my friends told him). but he was dating this other girl, who's one of my closest girl friends. it really sucked. but then after i stopped liking him. we still continued being good friends.
153488
WHO DO YOU LIKE MORE, YOUR BOYFRIEND OR THIS NEW GUY?? MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE NEW OR SOMEONE ELSE. IT HAPPENS! AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. TRUST YOUR HEART, BELIEVE IN YOUR MIND. SIXTH GRADER LIKING A NINTH GRADER!!!! NOT SO SHOCKING!! IF YOU LIKE HIM JUST BECAUSE HE IS OLDER, THEN THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST REASON. DO YOU WHAT YOU FEEL??
258050
is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change
173781
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
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Some guys get into this mode that they "forget" their friends for a while when they meet a girl they really like. He may grow out of it. However I think you should talk to him and tell him you still want to be friends, and if possible talk to her alone and see if she really "hates" you, or is possibly jealous of your history with her boyfriend. If she isn't, have her suggest to your friend that they and you and your boyfriend go out together some time.
132088
You really should stop liking him.  Why would you show interest in someone who has no interest in you?  Sure some guys that act like punks  do it because they do like you but I think if he is doing these things while you guys are together and alone, that's not a good sign.
507494
Hey ok well since ur only 13 (im 13 too! :)) the relationship with the boyfriend who just moved 2 paris probably wasnt that serious so keep in touch or whatever but dont feel bad about moving on! If u honestly think that this other guy likes u then spend more time with him and then most definitely things will start 2 take shape and u guys will either realize that u do like each other or u dont. but in the end everything will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
289882
It sounds like they both need to grow up.  They are putting you in the middle of something that is between them.  Neither of them should be punishing you because you like the other.  That just isn't right.  You have the right to like whomever you please.  You all just need to sit down and talk about how you can all get along, or how each of them can have seperate time with you.  What they are doing is totally unfair to you.
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Maybe they just like you; enjoy your company. Maybe even be having second thoughts about the relationship? I wouldn't count on that one, but I wouldn't find it unusual that they simply like you and want to maintain some contact. If you are truly concerned, ask them.