I prefer that he goes alone. I am not jealous, and I know I look good, so it doesn't bother me, yet, he wants me to come along.
128211
I have had a lot of fun with girls at the strip clubs....It gets you really in the mood and can't wait to ravage them when you get home....and strippers like to to dances for girls with the boyfriends watching....overall it is a great experience and I recommend it as long as you can stand your man looking at other women!
270162
It all depends on his personality. If he was a nice guy, I'd go out with him. If he was a putz, then no, I'd kick him to the curb. But I do know that I would feel safe if I did go out with him.
603028
IT'S OK IF HE PUTS YOU BEFORE SCHOOL BECAUSE HOW DOES HE PLAN ON TAKING CARE OF YOU IF HE DOESN'T HAVE AN EDUCATION OR A JOB??? BUT IT'S NOT OK TO PUT YOU LAST BEFORE HIS FRIENDS!! IF HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO JUGLE THAT OR DOESN'T EVEN TRY TO THEN YOU SHOULD JUST WALK OUT BECAUSE THE MAN THAT TRULY LOVES SHOWS OFF HIS WOMAN AND IS PROUD TO HAVE HER WITH HIM!!!! DON'T MATTER IF HE'S WITH THE BUDDIES!! IF HE DOESN'T THEN WALK OUT BECAUSE TRUST ME THERE WILL BE A MAN OUT THERE THAT WILL DEFINATELY PUT YOU AT THE THRONE!!
119800
Not at all. I would think him a very nice, polite, friendly, gentlemanly person. I wouldn't feel weird at all. I would appreciate the gesture. Even if it's his way of showing interest that's sweet and flattering too.
191540
I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
157635
I would leave him alone; he's obviously not interested. Or if he is, he should meet me halfway. It's humiliating to keep putting yourself out there if someone doesn't respond. We have some pride, you know.
324511
I wouldn't be upset myself, but I'm also in the same shoes as you (except we haven't been together as long and I've told him if he didn't like it, he could start walking). Sometimes it is just easier to get along with the opposite sex, I mean if it wasn't, wouldn't we all go homosexual?
259571
I don't LET my man out. He's not an animal. He comes and goes as he pleases. I'm not worried cause he's not really that good looking and can't really carry a conversation with a gal, so I trust him totally.
126544
How about going out with him alone and not putting out?\nYou DO have a choice in the matter you know.
43584
If he tells you when you are alone take it as fact and be happy with it. He may feel shy to talk openly about it with his friends are around. Respect that.
349611
He is everywhere. He created your body, so He is not embarassed or shocked by it.
400084
good for her. she does not need your approval, and he is not going out with you and your friends so what does it matter to you.
619957
it is not right to be noticed. if he did not noticed you by himself that means he is not interested in you. he might have a girl Friend or something. you just love the one who loves you not the one you made him love you. if you tried to be noticed he would think you are so cheap and he might abuse you and then drop you like a hot potato. sorry for being harsh but I don't want you to run behind nothing.
511318
Absolutely.  Especially if someone he knows will be going also.  He won't just show up by himself since he's shy so make sure he knows one of his friends will be there.  Showing him extra attention by giving him the invitation personally is very good.  You have to make the first moves when you're dealing with a shy guy
241691
he can Pis* it away. your best bet is to mind your own business and not alienate yourself.
485233
If I have to choose between "hooking up" and being alone.....I'll take being alone. I'm with you.....that's NOT who I am! I think more of ME than that!!
156312
If he is your friend then you should be sticking up for him. Your other friends should be more appreciative of your other friends. Is he not cool enough to hang out with you in public. He must have a different background if the others make fun of him. You should at least give him a choice of whether or not he wants to come. Invite him and tell him who is on the guest list. He may not want to go either if he gets a hard time. Don't push him to come but he should at least be invited. If he does come then make sure that he feels welcome and tell your other friends not to pick on him. If they are your friends then they should respect your wishes if not then are they really your friends. On the other hand if he says that he will come then that is a measurement of what he is willing to go through because of your friendship. I think that the choice is right in front of your nose but you need a push to do the right thing.