There is this guy and he says he is too old for me an di think not because i have gone ou twiht his friend who was 4 yrs older than me and he is 5 yrs older than me.He always talk to me and flirts with me.Then one night on yahoo he says i wouldn't go out with you then hesay well then again maybe i .....then stopped.He said i would find out when the time was right .What is going to happen, is he gonna ask me out or what?or is somethin else gonna happen i fu wanna know r  ages contact me@!!!!
138294
The guy is playing you and wants you to hang around so that you will give him whay he wants, when he wants it,and you must still be a teen for him to be hoodwinking you like this.So give up on him as he's not worth the hassle.
50943
well guys at that age are a bit more self conscious, so you should definitly let him know he has a chance. You dont neccessarily have to come out and spill your guts... just a little flirting until your sure hes got the hint. If that doesnt work, just tell him how you feel. The worst that could happen is he says no and you move on.
593555
Why does age matter? If you like him and he likes you go for it. They say all's fair in love and war. I say you better get your man before somone else does. Anyway. Just be careful about if you two are still going out when your 18. Because that's against the law. You got three more years though. Hope I helped.
592277
i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
612195
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
426647
I've been in his shoes. The best thing to do is to let him down gently and don't let him think that there's any chance. That sounds difficult, I'm sure it is. \nTry this: "I really just like you as a friend and I don't see us as anything more. I'm sorry." \nIf he asks if there's ever a chance, tell him probably not. \nHe's in a really vulnerable position right now, but he'll appreciate being let down right away rather than dealing with someone who's afraid to hurt anyone's feelings. \nDon't feel guilty...that's just the way it is.\nChances are he'll be hurt and your friendship won't be the same ever again...but that's why they call it taking a risk.\nDon't use the "you're younger" excuse, in my opinion, I would just use the "it's not you, it's me" thing. And he won't like that, he'll probably eventually not want to talk to you for awhile, but that's the way it goes. \nI'm just being honest.\nP.S.- The "jeopardizing the friendship" thing is generally looked at by guys as weak and a cover to the real reason you won't date him....my advice is to not use it.
216006
Does he wish to go out with you?  If yes, that is one less thing you have to consider.\n\nAge is DEFINATELY just a number, though if you are not of legal age in your country and he is, please stop all contact with him or stay only friends because he could get in trouble for being with a minor.  \n\nAnother thing is... Please use caution with being online.  I honestly cannot stess enough the stories I have heard of people who have pretended to be someone they are not, people who try to take advantage of others in illegal or hurtful ways, and all of this stuff. If you take your relationship into offline life make sure that you do the following:  tell your friends about this person (including his name, where he is from and all of that) make sure that if you do meet you do so in a public place with other people around and take a friend with you, if you are in a position to do a background check on him do so, and the rest of the necessary things to keep you safe.  I am NOT saying all people online are predators, some are very nice people and I met my future husband in a Yahoo! Chatroom but I also used very reasonable precautions when going forward with meeting with him and such.\n\nIf you both like eachother and are both of legal age, go for it; a wonderful, trusting relationship is a rare find and sometimes you have to take it where you can get it.  Just try not to pay attention to what people say about finding someone off the internet.  Though, if you feel there is something wrong in your relationship at anytime, look into it... don't dismiss anything.
378605
Nobody gets along all of the time and you can't base your decision on that. I know exactly what you mean.\n\nWould you believe I'm 70 years old and I almost didn't have the nerve to ask a gentleman, who is a neighbor of mine, that I've know for almost 4 years over for Thanksgiving. I knew that he was going to be by himself and eating a TV dinner. A friend of mine told me to go for it and she knows both of us. I did and he said yes. \n\nI know it does hurt when you ask a fellow out and he says no, but you're going to probably hear that a few times. If he seems like he likes you and isn't dating someone else, go for it and he just might surprise you. If he does say no, ask him why and ask him if both of you can still be friends.
451939
Ask him out and see what he says. I'd be wondering if he likes you though. Sorry, but if he knows that you like him and you're obviously of age, then why hasn't he asked you out?
428906
how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more
232646
I think he likes you. Maybe, he will get past flirting with you and get the courage up to ask you out. I sure hope he does...good luck!
616586
Here is what I've learned. I'm 26 and I've dated guys all the way up to the age of 38 and I've learned that ALL men play games young and old...Most of the older guys I've dated are just better at the games because they have been doing it longer which is why you are so taken with this guy.\nThen there are the older guys whose games are so obvious that it makes you wonder why they aren't better at the games.\nAnyways, it's not about the age, but about the man himself. So maybe you found you a good one, or maybe he is just better at the game than the guys our age. Either way, only time will tell.\n\nGood luck to you.
97908
I find most of the time if a fella is interested he will make it known and is perfectly capable of asking you out.  He might not have any strong interest in dating yet if he is about your age.  You could put yourself out on a limb and ask him and there is nothing wrong with a girl asking, if you won't take it personally if he's not interested.  I would just slow down, enjoy your girlfriends, do group stuff, wait until your old enough to take the risk and not be broken when you learn not just the highs of relationships but how devastating they often are too.
648516
Just depends on what kinda guy he is. If he is out to chase u let him. If he is a guy like me that is shy it doesn't matter who asks who. It will all work out in the end. i have dated alot and am 28.
232410
It sounds to me like he was kind of hinting for a date.  After the washing my hair line he was probably too intimidated to ask you out directly so he was feeling you out to see what kind of reaction he would get.  As far as your age difference goes, I can't say what is or is not appropriate.  I have know some 19 year old men who were more honest, level headed, and mature than some 30 year old men I know.  People grow and mature at different rates and what matters isn't that your ages be compatible, but that your maturity levels be compatible.
149340
The problem is this is the "2000's" so if you ask him out, you will have to pay... if you dont mind paying, then ask him out and tell him this.... "Dwain, I really like alot, and have liked you for the past year, I was thinking if you like me as more then a friend? ...if yes.. then... would like to be a couple?" ..... if that fails, give me his number, and I put you both on 3 way and I will tell him you want him, and get an on the spot answer.
664564
That's a hard situation cuz if you ask him out and he says no it'll be different. Have a friend ask him what it would be like if you guys were going out. He probably has already heard something like that just cuz. If he says it'll be great or something like that, go ahead and ask him. If he says "It wouldn't" like a man-biatch don't so you can keep ur friendship.  Good luck. :)