it's not easy being one of the beautiful people!
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Honey , Men want you and women want to be you! It's because you have beautiful eyes and know how to apply make up!
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Or when, don't you mean? How do you know what you look like to others? \n\nIn the eyes of the person who will matter most to you, you are already lovely, and you will only improve with maturity, like a good wine... \n\nYou know what? If you have children with them, you will always be the one they look at first, even if you have horrible scars all over you! \n\nLook, I have two stunningly beautiful friends - one is very happily married with no less than three children, and her husband spent four years in college getting up the courage to ask her out between b/fs. She had a lot of trouble with guys from when she was 15 to 23, when she finally met her husband-to-be. So did I! - they were all pompous brats who cried on my shoulder that if only they had enough money she would date them again. They were obsessed with the way she looked, and dropped out of the 'race' as soon as a 'better man' - richer, more confident, older, came along - they were also pests whom she couldn't relax with. One of them was her uncle, how horrible is that?! Their own cowardice & shallow ideas defeated them. Her husband was the only guy brave & humble enough to put up with this & hope that she would be free when his job brought him back to the city. We were friends, all three of us, because she was so funny & terrific company, when she was relaxed, before her crowd of silly fans closed in and she just went silent for the rest of the night.  \n\nMy other friend is also really beautiful and is single - and guess what - her parents told her she would never marry because she was so plain. She's happy with her life & career & has her own house, but also has a lot of weird guys hitting on her & getting really moody because she doesn't want to go steady with them. She says that she reckons she can't rely on any date to mean what he says. \n\nIt would be nice to have the choice - to think that anyone you see will be brave enough to ask you out; especially when they ask out loud enough to hear what they are asking you! \n\nIt's really hard to have to say no thanks, and must be harder to have to keep saying it to guys who seem really eager to date you. Worse to have to back off and break up with someone, after seeing them for a few dates, when they rely on you to tell everyone that you are happy to be seen with them. Especially if most of their hurt is pride, and they don't even hear how insulting that is.  \n\nBoth my friends know they were popular, felt they were too popular, hated all the attention, were embarrassed by the over-exposure and the way everyone hassled them. They tried to be nice to everyone, hated having to be firm with too many eager people, never enjoyed the fame of it. \n\nThey never knew they were beautiful. They thought they were OK-looking, and wished every total stranger would stop watching everything little gesture they made, so damn closely. They felt like a spy, a fugitive. In the eyes of the people who only saw their skin or eyes or lips or figure, they were gorgeous. The person being stared at felt always that they had done something Wrong, to be so watched. \n\nGrowing up, it was for them like the word went around that they had won the lottery. It wasn't any fun for them, and it was a frantic, feverish competition for the guys who wanted to be seen with them. They are really genuine friends, and have been for about ten years, and can see through any falseness as an added quality - I so value their opinions! They have a brilliant sense of humour and are not bitter about life, and are really decent people. \n\nGod, I do feel for you, it would be nice to feel special to someone other than your parents or their friends! If you like someone who is beautiful, they are probably shy for a reason, afraid of attracting attention, and might like to be asked out, believe it or not. \n\nHonestly, now, I would hate to have been beautiful in my teens. I know that now if I have a huge spot on my nose, I
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Everyone has their own view of what is beautiful.  That phase means that someone can see things as beautiful in a way that no one else can.  It's not just something on the outside.
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You just have to like yourself for who you are then for how you look,, you hear it all the time but its true, am pretty sure you are a beautiful person!
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This world is a beautiful and wonderful place and we are all guilty of forgetting or ignoring this at times. Sometimes we are so spoiled that we don't take in the beauty that is around us. We always hear the bad news more than the good news. The news is always full of acts of war and racism, while every day there are thousands of people displaying acts of kindness and hard work and determination.One day it will all be gone... and it will be too late to do anything about it.
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No sweetie it's not fair, but as we know few things in life are!.....luv ya, my sweet friend!.........:)
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I think you are beautiful would be nice :)
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some people live in a fanatasy world...to them life should be easy...
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No matter how beautiful you are on the outside if you don't have some beauty on the inside (or can at least fake it) then people aren't going to want to hang around you very much. I see it over and over again... some pretty girl with a "better then you" attitude who has a few people who dote on her, but they aren't real friends.\n\nThus it's far better to be plain on theoutside... because the outside is just a wrapper for what really matters. Besides, I haven't seen one plain jane who couldn't be made to look absolutly beautiful with just  a little effort.
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You have a very good point.  I agree.  \n\nAll women want to be told that their beautiful.  Maybe these people are not hearing it from the people around them so they are reaching out for compliments.    Everyone is beautiful in their own ways.  People just be yourself.
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The "pretty" people are not generally teased for their looks. The"ugly" people just have one more thing to get teased about. That isnt always true though... sometimes "pretty" people sometimes have very hard lives... look at cwelebrities. I prefer not to look at people as "pretty" or "ugly". If everyone did that, the people you call "ugly" would have much better lives.
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Use your beauty to help make the world better.
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Some people just are mean.  You cannot control that.  First step to beauty is how you feel about yourself.  You will project that.  You know you are not ugly so why care what some have said; especially, those who have an avatar up instead of a picture.
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They probably wish they were pretty girls.
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every person on earth is beautiful.. there is no such thing as ugliness in the world!!
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dont judje peaple on there skin color be couse everyone is beutifull and everyone has lovely skin
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For the most part I agree with you but I think that being ugly or feeling ugly can not be easily catorgrized by simply saying that an ugly person can cope with life better. It depends on your defintion of coping and in what area. Some people who feel ugly are walking around broken and damamged and it affects other area's of their life. It affects their confidence, their ability to do things, and pursue certain avenues of life and if that means that they are coping with being ugly then it is not very healthy. I think that society squezzes beauty in to such a small box that many people suffer needlessly and become victims of society and the media at a very young age. But since you speak of reality, in reality anyone who sees themselves as ugly has deeper issues in life other than their apperance. And any man or woman who wants to be with a person based more so on beauty that character has issues as well. But personally when I was young I thought that I was dreadfully ugly I would walk past a mirror in a mall and cry. It was horrible and my expectations of how I should be treated was low because an ugly person should just be happy that someone wants to be with them. But I can not not compare this experience to what it is like to beautiful and have everyone think that same to me that sounds like a nightmare to.