was she seeing sum1 else?was she scared 2 tell me?she avoided me for a month n then i moved away .....ne ideas
120865
Good question.  This isn't enough information to work on, however, if she did dump you it was probably because she just wasn't in love with you anymore.  Love sometimes just disappears after a while.  Especially, when you don't see the other person that often.  I would recommend for you to focus on the good times and just take this as step in life.  Focusing on the breakup will make you more bitter and angry and everything negative.  Focus on the good times and look for someone better.  -Love Amber
171896
She is still in the past,and she is playing mind games with you,hence you asking this question here now.\nShake it off as if you didnt hear her.
286970
I think unfortunately for you that this bird has flown.\n\nWhat do you think she'd rather you have done, broken it's next and taken it home for tea?\n\nI suspect she might have changed her mind about staying because she was unnerved by the incident. Chat to her about it and see if you can find out what she thought about it.\n\nThose bloody geese of yours come here for their holidays, I'll make a mental note to keep well away from them if I'm dating!
77769
Tell her to kiss you patuty and find someone new.  Why put yourself through that again?  If she was running hot and cold before what makes you think she is any different now?
157081
She doesn't know how to just say no. she didn't know how to tell you she really didn't want to go out so she led you on....b*t*h!!! She should grow up and just be real.
160695
Sounds to me like she was not a real friend in the first place. Otherwise I don't see how she can just leave you out in the cold like that...  I'd just find new and BETTER friends to spend time with and forget about her.
107215
She's playing games with ya. You may be her back up plan or her reserve...don't take that kind of crap. I've been there it's not a good place to be in and she'll just keep stringing you along. \n\nMove on start dating other people, and try and forget her
106954
RUN!!\nMaybe she's scared and  thinking along the same lines\nMaybe she got drunk and passed out with her friends\nMaybe she got drunk and just forgot to call,, there's a million reasons why but they do not all mean she's doing something wrong.\nWhen she gets home just be nice like and talk about what you did. DOn't jump in her sh1t as soon as she walks in or you are never going to move in together, perhaps she was just testing you to see if you do in fact go off on her or trust her????\nEither way it does not sound like you know her well enough to move in anyway.\nDon't know but good luck!!
126489
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
463029
I think there is a chance that she hates you for leaving the country. I think she enjoyed the fact that you were around her, lending a hand when she needed it and when you left, she missed that helping hand and your company. That could be her reason for saying that she hates you.\n\nYou should call her to see how she is doing and talk about stuff. Dont talk to her about what you heard from your friends...dont even bring it up. If she doesnt want to talk to you, then what I said in my previous paragraph is wrong and what the others said in their answers is correct. (the "she is just an inconsiderate B*tch stuff)
505588
Um.. Yes, this is weird, but maybe you should try and act nonchalant about it. Maybe she is trying to give you a hint that you are too clingy. Back off a bit bro. Don't be so over aggressive, like "OH MY CRAP WHERE DID YOU GO!!" Every 5 min.
42159
the only was is to get her to listen to you and it seems that she is not ready for it. you might forgive her but may be she did not forgive herself. \nyou have to do anything you can to find her address and phone # she might not even check her emails....
25666
The date didn`t seem bad at all...and i don`t think the freeway thing scared her off so bad that she doesn`t wanna meet u anymore. She just came out of a relationship maybe she wants to wait a little be4 she gets serious again. U said u told her everything...did u also tell her that u are understanding if she doesn`t want to rush into a new relationship? About the b day...how about u send her a nice b day card with a coupon for a nice dinner?Or...u go over there give her some flowers and the card with the dinner coupon in there..?If she says yes to dinner u guys have some time to talk  and u can let her know that u never wanted to put pressure on her. U know her since 3 yrs..and u still didn`t give up i think thats awesome and i wish u the best of luck !
374351
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
452667
she probably heard something wierd about you and its wierding or freaking her out. invent some urgent thing and get her together with you and hash out this problem. b/c its obvious u like her
263390
How rude. She is probably psychic and here your are doubting her? She was just trying to save you from old limp dick.
40532
She feels a little uncomfortable now, she thought you felt like she did (just hangin' buddies). She's trying to keep the friendship but not make you feel she's interested in a relationship. It's probably hard now for both of you to act like nothing ever happened. \n Someone must have really hurt her bad before for her to be afraid of a serious relationship. And it may be something she doesn't want to talk about yet, to anyone. Just call her and say, "Hey, Buddy, What cha' doing. Wanta hang out LIKE OLD TIMES??" (And just let the past be past about what you told her. Don't mention it.)  \n If you can't do this, just tell her you have to serious of feelings for her to just be friends and you think 'hanging out' would be too uncomfortable for both of you. If she does have serious feelings for you, she'll tell you. If not just let her go her way. \nGood Luck.