i am an aisan guy ans she is ausi and works in the nearby store..when ever i try to talk to her i run out of words..its not  like i am a nerd or somthing but i can find a way
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say  hey how are u doing? i might sound kind of stupid but i was just wondering by any chance would you like to go out some time?
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When she is talking to you, listen to every word she says and look for things you can ask her next  question on. Example: if you asked "how was your day?" and she says, "spent time with family, went out to eat, watched some tv, read a book" you can pickup on so many hints on here and ask questions like, do you like spending time with your family? are you close to em? where did you go eat? did you like it? you go there often? what type of food you like? what tv programs you watch? which one si your fav? what book did you read? what is it about?.. so on and so forth..you get the idea..  if you ask about something she is really interested in she will give you more details, but on other qs she will give a short answer, this gives you idea on if you want to ask a follow up question or not. Keep looking for topics she loves to talk coz what matters is whether she is having fun talking to you and only way she would is if you 2 talking about things SHE likes.. sad but true.. but it works for guys. Good luck!
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Start talking to people! I am a shy person too, but I dont know if you are this way, but once I get to know people I might be the craziest person you ever met. Just go up to someone that you know, and start talking. Soon enough you two will become good friends, and then you will get comfortable enough to make more, she may even introduce you to her friends, too.
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I am in the same boat right now! So, I know how you feel.  I just am there when she needs to talk.  I do not offer ANY negative input about MY feelings about the guy, just listen to how she feels and try to give her answers that are somewhat neutral.  Good luck!
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I think it all depends on how close you guys are. just try talkin to her.
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Give her a note that her co-workers can't see. Just ask her if she would like to get coffee some time.  Put your phone # AND your email. She may be too nervous to call you, and that's slightly awkward anyway. But, she is MUCH more likely to answer you through the email.  By doing that, you don't put her on the spot. You let her decide in HER own time, and it also gives her a chance to initiate conversation on HER terms. \n\nEven better, use a COMMON INTEREST as an excuse to leave her the email. And I would make a couple of more trips to the bank to initiate more conversation. That way you'll no that she is interested and not just friendly.\n\nHey, that's how I asked out a librarian assistant and a couple of waitresses. IT WORKS!!! And they responded to the email, but not to the phone #.
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Dont just go up to her and the first thing you say is "wanna go out?", its too random. Start a conversation and then start working up to it from there.
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MAYBE BECAUSE IN YOUR PERSON YALL ARE SCARED TO SAY THE WRONG THINGS.. .LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE LIKE THAT .. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE IT ONE STEP AT A TIME .. IF YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW HER THAT BAD .. IT TAKES TIME .. AND YOU WILL FIND THE PATIENCE
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go talk to her. make small talk
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talk to her personally..
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Talk to her and get to know her. Make sure you don't speak "Gibberish" in fornt of her
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I think you are very scared of being rejected. Don't be. It happens all the time to all of us. Now, if you go back to that store, try to chat a little bit with that woman. Say something like: "Oh by the way, you've got lovely eyes." She'll problably say thanks. Then you can ask her: "Would you like to have a cup of coffe with me sometime?" If she says no, don't feel offended or rejected. It may be because she has a boyfriend already. Let me know what happen, will you? I'd like to help more if things doesn't work out. Good luck any way.
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well, you can always give her compliments! Find out what she likes to do, what are her hobbies! Try to find a connection that you two can talk about even deeper! You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you start talking!! \n\nGood luck to you!!
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smile and just say hello at first. If the one you want to talk to works with you, find something about work you can ask her opinion about or that you might need help with.
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At THE VERY LEAST please go over and say hello.  Talk to her first as if you were looking for your best friend, not a girlfriend and maybe it will help you to be less nervous.  Ask what her favorite drink is and then buy it for her.  You can also ask if she's by herself or with her friends.  Just try some questions you would ask anyone that you were trying to get to know. Just try not to wait until the end of the night to go over because by then she may be talking to someone else.  GOOD LUCK!
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That's a tough call.  She could have just been making polite conversation.  I have done the exact same thing.  But then on the other hand, it could have been an opening line for you to make "the next move."  Sorry I can't help you any better.
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Sometimes I have trouble like you...what I do is I go up to the guy I say Hello to them.Then ask what have you been up to.Ask a couple of questions to get to know him.Then start a conversation with him...but nothin really dumb.Sorry to say.