i have a sort of story that i entertain myself with much of the time.  i wrote it about 3 years ago but i keep adding to it and writing more.  all of this probably sounds normal but its ALL I DO ANYMORE.  i cant seem to stop doing it.  not that i want to most of the time, but i read about addiction and i am concerned this may be what i have.  my life has been a train wreck for a year or so now and its the only hobby thats survived all my troubles.  what i am asking is this:  is what i am doing bad?  should i stop?
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Honestly hon, I don't think you writing all the time is a bad thing - from the age of 7 until I had my first child at 19, that's basically all I did, but it wasn't because I was misserable. I wrote in my spare time - after school, sometimes before school. If what you have is an addiction, I wonder what professional writters have LOL - If you're that concerned about it, I would try to set a limit as to how much you allow yourself to write each day. Don't stop doing something you love!!!
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If I understand you correctly, you are doing what alcoholic's call Insanity. Doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results. \nI think you sound as if you may have some form of depression, which makes it difficult to step out and change things, which of course makes you more depressed. It's a vicious cycle. One thing that I believe is important to remember, don't try changing everything at once. Trying to change everything at once will overwhelm you, and you will find yourself back with the one step forward, two steps back situation.\nPrioritize which goals are most important. Start with the first one. If you wish to change things, perhaps a therapist who deals with this type of behavior can help. In my opinion, too many Dr's. want to hand out medication, and at this point, I think you are capable of making your life work for you without medication, and that is definately a good thing. You sound as if you see this cycle yourself, and that you are an intelligent person, but someone who just needs encouragement and support.As far as writing goes, sometimes the fear of being unsuccessful can paralyze you, (creatively speaking) and this is a cliche, but the only way to fail is not to try. Start with a short time period and jot down some notes. Keep post it's or notebooks around, so if you get an idea, you can write it down before you get sidetracked, or use a mini recorder to keep your ideas on tape until you can actually sit down and write.\n To summarize, first prioritize what you want to change, take a look at the ways you did it that were unsuccessful, and then do some research on a way to succeed. Also, if you can find a therapist to help you with this, GREAT! Also, remember that you are an intelligent person, (you figured it out this far on your own) and don't overwhelm yourself trying to change everything at once. If possible, don't use medications for a situation like this. It seems quite often medications seem to be a band-aid, not a cure. Create a creative environment and look for things that will encourage you, and spend time with friends who will be supportive as well. I hope this helps, and I wish you all the best
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The fact that my affluence has fallen into a virtual abyss has put me in a quandary, to say the least.\n\nThe affluence I have enjoyed in the community has diminished since my arrest.\n\nI cannot figure out this problem, which has put me in a quandary.\n\nI am so depressed, I feel as though I have fallen into an abyss.
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Too much of anything is bad. Same with porn. Once in a while it is fine, but being addicted is NOT. Talk to your friend, and say that u dont like it and that u cannot be a true friend if he insists on this.
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I think maybe you answered your own question. Obviously, a major setback in your life right now is finding an interesting topic to write on.
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dont stress over it or you will stop the great thing u r doing for yourself try to make a game out of it good luck and keep it up
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Keep a journal. I know it sounds cheesy, but you'll start to really figure out why you want it. Why you need the break from reality. It's become a hobby, right? Finding a new one to replace the drinking helps, too. Golf, cooking, movies, coaching kids, anything. Something that you can find more rewarding. You know?
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I think I'd worry less about leaving in three years than why you are fixating on something that 1) is totally in your control -- if you love it so much, no problem; just find a new dojo and 2) is so far away that the worrying is pointless and is taking away some of the joy you have for this art.  Will you quit the anxiety crap and focus on what's good?
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I read that there is a medication in the works to work on the addictive part of the brain. Right now there isn't a cure.  You can stop doing the addictive activity but it's not a cure, just restraint.  Lot's of times it turns into changing the addiction to something else. I quit drinking and now I eat too much candy even though I wasn't much of a candy person before. I also buy more scratch tickets.
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I think alot of people have different ways of expressing themselves.They should not knock it until they try it. I got one and can't stop. Now I am up to 6...
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It is what you make of it.  You can't run away from it because everywhere you go, there you are.  You're the only one that can help yourself- nobody will do it for you.  I'm an addict dealing with the same situation you are, unfortunately I'm not ready or willing to stop yet. If you are, I'm both proud of you and jealous.  You asked "how do I completely hop this" but only you know how your body and mind works.  Surround yourself with people who are a positive influence on you and eliminate the people from your life that have been negatively influencing you in the past.  \nThen again, looks who's talking (yea, my actions speak louder than my words).\nGood luck.  Let me know what you've decided as time goes on that could potentially help me as well.
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Are you working your program? If your not doing any work, you will surely drink again. I got to a point in my recovery where i stopped doing the work. I relapsed (surprise, surprise) This time around, when I feel myself getting bored, I do something to help someone who is still suffering. It helps me remember where I've been, and where I don't want to be anymore. It also keeps me out of my pity pot. "Pour me, pour me, pour me another drink" This program is for people who WANT it. I had to take every drink I took to get here. You'll know when your truly ready. Have you had enough pain yet?\n"It Works If You Work It"
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this is not normal as far as i know. you need to build a budget that takes into account your lifestyle. it also has to take into account things like clothing and car maintenance down the road. if you have a compulsion to spend you may think about setting a limit on it such as under 2.00 so that you can do it more often but its just like any addiction cold turkey is best but its also the hardest. seek therapy if this is a constant thing and if you feel forced to do it.
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There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. It'd be a problem though if none of the things you've already mentioned were prevalent in your life (e.g. family, friends, social activities, and so on). Good for you!
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stay away from that stuff. It is degrading and addicting. If you can't stop -- you need professional help. It will destroy any relationships you have or hope to have.
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Keep on writing!  I really like your first piece.  Not at all lame.  The repetition is important in the piece.  Don't change it.  It is complete.  If this is how you write now, can you imagine how well written your work will be a year from now?
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Is it a physical or mental problem? There can be a lot of explanations for both... is it just writer's block?  ;)