is it by ignoring her or not paying proper attention to her, or by making her feel special and showing her that i love her or 50-50 of both? or just being normal with her????\ni mean when would the girl get a good feeling or would get attracted to me? how should a normal boy behave? just be himself or do something different?????
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ALWAYS be yourself.  Girls like to laugh so bring out your funny side too.  But never try to be someone you're not.  It never works.  If she doesn't accept you for who you are, then move on.
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Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
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By making a complete fool of yourself in a cute & adorably clumsy way. Girls love that, and if they don't, then they have no sense of humor and aren't down to earth.... of course if she is plain gorgeous, well, she may not be that down to earth. Good luck!
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READ ME  I know my advice isn't always the kindest, but it's truthful, \nIf she is ignoring you, don't react to it.  The best response is not to react.  That will get her attention.  Otherwise, if you are having to work so hard to get a girl to notice you, it's not worth it.  Move on.
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mitr says.... don't leave everything on fate... you have to go out and say her boldly... if you don't say it now, it might be too late for you to say something... she at present doesn't have a bf and also she has been cheated.. it will nto be easy for her to rely on a guy so soon.... but since she knows you from  a long time back, she is definitely going to consider you...\ndon't make her feel that you are coming to her just because of sympathy to what has happened to her... tell her that you had and always will love only a single girl in your life and that is her...\nmake her feel special... give her importance... give her priority.... \ndo something that will make her feel strongly for you... do something so that she actually remembers you 24X7.... it should be a real good one buddy, no matter how crazy it is... \nmitr says... lovers comeout witj some crazy ideas to make their beloved happy... use your imagination and get her.... ... no gains without pain.. you have to tell her about your feelings for her and that too fast.........\ngood lock....
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Your approach should depend on the personality of the girl. Just remember that if she only likes men who appear inattentive, she has some sort of pshychological hangup. So if you happen to make her your own, you will have to live with that hangup your whole life. In this situation, however, I don't know the case exactly. Need more specifics.
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Hey, i have the same problem. In most girls they trully dont care about looks, but you have those shallow girls too. I'm a guy that feels the same way. well the chance i think, would depend on what you are like, along with your personality. And if this girl is a popular, cheelaeder type, i would say she is going to be shallow , because girls like that don't want to be embarresed in front of their friends, but if she's not liek that try to talk to her learn about her. and if she is shallow just stay away from her.
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Not even. I think the mistake is guys mistake being 'bad' as the same thing as being aggresive. If you know what you want, and you make it clear you want her but won't compromise yourself to have her, she'll respect that. And if she respects you, she's more likely to develp feelings for you.
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First part first: Because she's creamy and DOESN'T want you just then. And your buddy's nowhere to be found. ;) \n\nSecond part: Kiss her below the waist. Drive 'em WILD! But make sure you get her permission first! Tryin' that in public or with a woman you don't know that well WILL bring about a roundhouse faster than you can say, "Cunning linguist!" ;)\n\nLast part: If you're in love with someone, you'll know. Believe me, you'll know. If your brain or heart can't tell, Wee Willy Winky will tellya! But that might not be love, so be sure to consult with the rest of "The Boys" in making that determination. Good luck! (Please make sure she's not the same girl from the first part of your question. Unless you like cream.)
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Yeah dude, dont sweat it. take a deep breath. and listen to this. one, what were you acting like when she saw you and met you, because THAT is the guy she likes. DONT CHANGE!! Second, there are little things that girls like, physicall touch (HUG HER, but make sure its apropriate, dont be..umm...feeling.) Also your eyes, women LOVE eyes, and they ALLWAYS notice WHERE they go, so dude.....DONT GO THERE.....you know what im talkin about.....lastly, small gifts, and words of encoragment. chocolate as a small gift is awsome, i allways come up witht the exuse "i dont like chocolate, want myn." soo that about covers it, just be yourself, and try to understand what they LIKE at the same time.
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you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
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If you aren't comfortable with it then turn your response into something humorous.  Say something like, "Yeah, I love me too".  I can't say there is any particular "proper" response, because some people do fall in love very quickly, while others don't.  If humor doesn't work, simply let her know that you don't know her well enough to feel that way towards her.  Unfortunately, there will be negative responses, but it's better than getting stuck in a situation you really don't want to be in.  Most of the time we want a guy to care as much about us as we do about him, and a lot of women don't realize that a guy is showing us he cares when he's honest and doesn't say "I love you" just because he feels like he should.
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great question and the trouble is you're trying to understand it from a guy's standpoint so you have no chance.  it's definitely down to what the girls here have been saying that they just feel uncomfortable with it and there is also a sense of predictability in treating a woman too nice. I'm single but cool with it as I know the key to all of this is being who you really are and not trying so hard to impress.  concentrate more on what makes you happy in life and the right girl will be attracted to that. don't try and make others happy as you'll lose sight of yourself
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You're a dork.  Nothing you do can make a girl want you more.  Just be yourself is all you can do.  If that doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.
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My mom used to say that if you like someone enough, they will like you too.  Don't know if that really works. BUT if you have personality, are intelligent and talk to him in a way that turns him on (it doesn't have to be sexy talk but something that is interesting and amusing....to get him thinking, rather than just a superficial comunication) then he may think "hey, this girl is interesting...I am FEELING something..... Also, if you make another person feel special by saying TRUE things about him, things that show that you understand how he is, this is something that is really appreciated.  It may sound old fashioned, but in this computer age, with cell phones and all, if a person knows how to talk and express true feelings and make others feel good, that is so so important.  Write down his qualities and think about what true compliments you can tell him.  If he doesn't catch on, then move to another person.  He isn't sharp enough, and so isn't worth it.  Or else he'll need time to mature to realize what people are worth it and which aren't.  Good luck
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Play hard to get, or maybe be seen with someone else........you never know she may take notice then because she has realised that you are not chasing her (which no doubt she has noticed). \n\nShe might be playing hard to get as well.  It can't hurt to try this and you never know you might end up with someone who likes you and vice versa.
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If the girl isn't interested then leave her alone otherwise then that would be relationship that is setup to be failure. don't worry about the othe girls they will eventually like another guy. Hey that's the way love goes.