He lies to me all the time about phone calls he receives or messages he gets. Changes girls names into guys ones..........
130703
sweetie,\n\nthis could be one of two things...a)hes a player (PUA) and is doing it to attract you...catstring theory, or B) hes a bit of an idiot and hes not appreciating you. i'd suggest you have a look at the this website for more info:\n\nwww.fastseduction.com
665438
if it's really true and he has been seeing someone else, then just let him go.  if he's doing it to get your attention, then he's really immature so again, let him go.  just keep ignoring his calls and he'll go away.
634884
It sounds to me that he has some serious immaturity issues.  My advice is to ignore him completely.  Don't glance in his direction and if you hear rumors about yourself, just say, "it's really sad that he has to pump himself up by spreading nasty rumors."
288753
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
305354
Are you kidding. I would soooo ask him about it, in person to. Not over the internet or the phone, and look at his face when you are asking him. If he takes a long time to asnwer you, he's lying. But you gotta ask him so u know whats going on.
246226
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
583294
Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.
317327
Okie dokie, first of all from a guys perspective, STOP THE LYING, look tell him the truth, that he really hurt you but you can't help but having feelings for him, If he thinks he hurt your feelings and he really cares about you he'll be sorry. The truth shall set you free:)
66544
This guy sounds like he's really confused and a bit immature.  I think you really need to answer that phone and tell him how much you were hurt by what he did to you.  Talk it over . . . you might be surprised to find that he's been just as torn up about this as you have been!
582176
I think that it says less about you and more about HIM that he's telling everyone your business and "using" you.  It says about him that he is a USER, and has poor character and that he shouldnt be trusted by anyone.  Thats what I would hear if he were telling me all of your business.  I think that your only issue if I can call it that is choosing a little more wiser.   Other than that, the rest is a statement (not a good one) about him.
669832
Next time he phones explain to him that you are just friends and it makes you uncomfortable when he ask you those questions and to please stop or don't call you anymore.  Good luck hun. Be nice but be straight with him.
150309
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
608478
A liar makes a horrible boyfriend. You might want to consider trading up. But if you want some information, I'm putting in a Website that might help. Hope this helps.
211620
That is WRONG!!! put him in his place QUICK because if you don't he will assume you are okay with it and continue to do it!! \n\nA MAN WILL DO WHAT YOU LET HIM DO!!!\nremember that\n\nIf you let him lie to you and do nothing about he will continue to lie to you!!\n\nCall him out on it let him know straight up that you will not stand for him lying to you!! and if he wants to lie tell him to get back with his ex and lie to her because you are much more of a woman to sit here and let yourself be lied to by someone you are supposed to trust!!!\n\nThere are too many men in this world who will do right by you!!!! you deserve a whole lot better than lies\n\n........TRUST.......
413468
He does the same thing to me!  Just ignore him.  He is just seeking attention.  He obviously has issues.
429866
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
25109
Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy