well i like this guy that i was dating and we are no longer together and i live with his parents and i cant move out until next year and i talk to him about once a week and i try not to call him but its hard and then when i do he just makes me more upset and im always disapointed and sad but he will not take me back cuz i kissed some other guy and i need help on getting back with him or any other advice that you can give me
136314
Ok..this question needs bullet points! LOL\n1. Move out immediately..no wonder you still want this guy..you're staying with HIS FAMILY!\n2. Don't beg for anyone who doesn't want you...it's not flattering, it's just desperate.\n3. If you kissed another, you didn't want him.\n4. I'll say it again-MOVE OUT. You may be surprised, that after you move out, you'll feel differently. Change in environment could do you good. And..stop chatting once a week. \nI wish you the best! :)
133311
The reason you can't get over him is because u can't let go.\n\nY do u want him back sweetie? I know it hurts that he's with someone else and if u don't let go and move on ur only hurting yourself.. He's not thinking  or worrying about you, so why waste time that could be spent getting yourself together  or dating other guys? U get the strength by \n\n1. Keeping busy\n\n2. get rid of anything that reminds u of him\n\n3. Stop worrying about what his doing or who he's with\n\n4.Get out there a date\n\n5.Know that he's not the ONLY guy and if he was worth it he never would have done this to you\n\nI hope you realize that in life people do breakup and it will hurt, but what don't kill ya makes you stronger.\n\nGo out meet other guys and enjoy it until you met the next guy who will not leave you for another\n\nHe's not worth your tears, next time u cry about a guy cry because your so happy with him
294453
get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
480172
Girl, please.  Trust me don't even waste your time.  Don't call him.  I repeat DO NOT CALL HIM.   You will appear desperate.  Actually you are too young to even be stressing about the situation.  You have your whole life to live.  Men come and go.  Trust me he will want you back.  You're headed for college and there are plenty of guys there.  \n\nGood luck
376677
To start don't come on too strong until you get to know each other better. After a while if you still feel like you have to play games he's not the one for you. My boyfriends calls me to tell me he misses me if I haven't been in touch for a few days and we never worry about who's turn it is.  If we are thinking about each other we let the other person know and it very comfortable...but once i dated a guy who said i called him too much because i called him twice in one day.  Thank god we split up and i met me current boyfriend!
71691
Well you would have to ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. Did you only break up with him because he moved away, and then he came back and you got back together? Or was it something that you didn’t like and couldn’t resolve? Is he the type of guy that you want to be with and is he worth the trouble. If he is, then good. Here’s what you do to resolve this issue. You tell him that you want him to do something about this other guy harassing you. Men are really easy to figure out. We're problem solvers. You just telling him about this other guy may not move him into action until you tell him it's a problem. With guys you have to be specific with what you want from us. We see a problem, we try to fix it. If we don't see a problem, we probably won't act on the situation unless we're told to do so. If you tell your boyfriend that this is a problem and you want him to do something about it, I guarantee you he will. Especially if he really cares for you.
268978
Keeping contact with him is what you're doing wrong, he is just making sure you don't date anyone else until he finds a replacement. At the end you will end up hurt because when he find someone else he will tell you that you guys were only friends.
221237
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
453040
Well, you got angry because he didn't email you back after you dumped him? I think you're confused about your feelings for this guy. But if he wants you back, sure, I'd say give it another shot. But seeing as you've already dumped him, maybe you have to do something special so he'd want you back. The question is, why do you want him back? Why do you want to give him another chance? And why did you dump him again? Don't try to get him back when you're not sure about you feelings for him. You've already hurt him once. Think about it. You really don't want to hurt him again.
213969
Stop being with the guy you don't like as much, it is bad for everyone, I am sure he feels it too. Just let him down gently, and then start up with the guy you really like. But Don't do anything until your current relationship is over, start this new one the right way.
662298
When you say "date" do you mean that you've only dated occasionally and that you are not seriously involved? Or "date" as in, you've been dating for sometime, are serious and involved? If it's the first...then you will survive and move on with your life. If it's the second...you will go through a variety of emotions and eventually you will recover, hopefully with your dignity intact.  Do not chase after him. Let him go and do whatever it is he is doing (running,hiding, laying low).  There must be a reason why this has happened. If he owes you $$ for rent, utilities, bills, credit cards, etc., then talk with a lawyer about ways you can get back monies owed you. Let someone else contact him in legal issues, stay out of it.  The best of luck to you, hope you have a strong network of friends and family to aid you through the process of moving on.
514998
I answered a similar question two days ago. Remember I told you that it was a mistake to stop talking to him because of your bf, but I thought u said u could never date him? U were not truly honest were u? Just beg and implore him to forgive you, if he likes u he might. Good luck, I mean that.
510074
I'm sorry to hear you're in such pain.  Unfortunately, hurting comes with the territory; it will lessen over time.\n\nYou can do things to help yourself, though it might be hard:\n\n1.  You broke up for a reason, don't forget that.\n\n2.  He is now involved with someone else, and you may be crushed that he moved on so quickly.  Don't be; give yourself time...his moving on is no reflection on you.\n\n3.  Be honest with yourself about your real motivation for keeping in contact with him.  You've tried to talk to him...he does not want to talk to you.  Accept it and stop torturing yourself, your attempts to speak with you aren't getting you anywhere.\n\n4.  You may think it's wrong for him to respond the way he is, but look at it from his perspective:  You broke up; he's involved with someone else and you keep calling him.  You can let go, and it's annoying to him.  What reason would he have to talk to you other than to tell you to leave him alone?  What if the situation were reversed?\n\nNo, it isn't easy.  Having been there, I promise you you'll get over him in time.  You'll look back on this and wonder what all the hoopla was all about. In the meantime, stop calling him; it's not healthy and you're only hurting yourself.  It's not going to bring him back to you.\n\nTake care...
573951
He is taking advantage of his freedom and figuring things out.  Stop stressing about him and enjoy the other things you have in your life.  Not that that's easy though... There is always the chance that he might come back... but why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you?  So that he can do it again later on down the road?  I think you should work on moving on... don't wait around for a guy that is probably sleeping around right now.
646470
if you liked him then why did you dumped him?? are you guys playing a game here?? anyways honey just tell me do you just like him or you love him?? theres a difference you know...if you are missing him just cuz you are used to each other or you miss him cuz he loved you the way you wanted...if its the first reason then just forget it & move on but if its the second one then i suggest you to get back again...but ask yourself if you can trust each other now for the third time...please be lear & careful about your choices...
75365
i definately think you guys should take some time apart try and start over again like you didnt even know each other dont think that just because you guys are not together means that you are going to loose you closeness from what it sounds like you will loose it the longer you are together i say take a break still see each other and get to know each other but dont live right on top of each other trust me it will not help the situation at all.
153063
You have plenty of kisses left. People break up with other people all of the time, it is a sore fact of life. You have to get over it. It sounds to me like HE broke up with YOU. I wouldn't waste my time worrying about him or trying to get him back.  I know it is difficult and it is painful, but it is a part of life and I can guarantee you that there is someone better for you that is waiting for someone like you to come a long and chances are good they got their hearts broken as well.  You just have to quit stewing in your brew, realize that it is not the end of the end of the world and move on. It's difficult, but you have to do it. There are plenty more fish in the sea.  \n\nPeople have lost a lot worse than their first kiss to a lover before a break up so you should feel quite fortunate. \n\nMove a long now. It is not the end of the world. Go find the prince charming that is out there waiting for you.