She told me that he asked her if she want to go with him. so now yesterday i thalked to him and he told me that he hung up on her so I geuss they having problems
122944
told him what and i am confused he dumped you and she told you your avatar is a guy are you gay is he bi is she a guy too i have a headache
282529
ive been in this sutiuation and let the guys mother deal with him i would not go back out with him cause he threatened to kill himself i thought to myself i dont want to go through hell the rest of my life and that it wasnt my fault we broke up cause he was to ignorant to look for the clues that the relatioship was over before i broke up with him i tried to make it work but it was to haard. he never ended up killing himself
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First you need to start by flat out telling him that she is not intrested in a relationship or even a friendship for that matter.  If he makes any threats you need to contact the local police.  Also let him know that if he contacts her again she will consider it stalking.  As far as is he a stalker already, its not really fair to call him that if you havent already asked him to stop trying to make contact.  If after you do so, then yes he has issues
184623
Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
320278
This is what she is trying to say:\n\n\nmy boy friend started to act strange, when he started the new job i look at hes phone bill , there is a lot of calls in it?\n\nspecially from 1 number i asked him about that and he just tells me that he lets his friend used the phone, but he doesn't want me to call him at work, because of his boss, but he can let other people used his phone, he works in construction i don't see what would be the problem when his boss is not there all the time, when i say.. tell you friend he can used your phone 1 time a day but not 10 times a day he gets mad really mad with me, we have a lot of problem because of that, i leave for 3 weeks then when i come back, he tells me that he talked to his friend about the phone, and now when he comes home star talks about his friend problems and he wants to do the same with me, he wants me to move out and be more like a friend, like his friend with the wife, what should i do... please some one make a comment, and sorry about my English i really love him but i don't know what to do.... maybe he don't love me the same way i love him \n\n\nWell I think you should just leave him and not give him no se becasue he don't want you there with him and he don't want you to find out he is cheating on you! So just leave don't call him don't go see him! It wasn't his friend useing the phone it was probly him and if the calls are comeing into his cell then some one is calling him not his friend calling some one! You may love him but it doesn't sound like he has the same feelings.  I fhe got mad because you asked him then there is deffenly something more going on thta he don't want you to know! Get out and see what happens!
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hang in there he is probably busy, if you talked that long he does not want to over do it! just be patient, he may be trying to get out of another situation!, if you must call him, tell him you was worried something happened to him. don't seem to aggressive!
490223
I would just explain to him that there is no where for the relationship to go. You don't want him anymore and that he has to let you go because it is not fair on either of you if he doesn't!
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Tell him to prove it to you by any means necessary!  Tell him to give you her number so that you can call her and ask her yourself.  Tell him that it's his JOB to make you feel secure about the situation since he's the one who fucked up in the first place.  If he's really trying - then you should be ok.  If you have any doubt in your mind - you're probably right.
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This is what she is affraid of. You are her best friend and she can't even talk to you because you haven't talked to her in almost a week. You just proved her point for her.My husband is my best friend. And back when he was just my best friend he told me that he thought we should try going out. We aready were going everywere together anyway. I turned him down also for the same reason I was afraid I would lose my best friend. Do you know what changed my mind. He looked at me and said o.k. can't blame me for trying. Now come out side and help me do the tune up on my car. By doing that by letting me see that he wasn't going to start acting wierd towards me. By just continuing to be himself around me. I realized that their wasn't anything to be scared of because my best friend would be there in this relationship with me.
9954
He'll either have a breaking point where he realizes that he just cant take it anymore and that relationships shouldnt be that way, or he'll just deal with her behavior and keep taking it. Either way he's going to need you to be there for him!
194628
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
446160
Well, it could mean one of two things.  One she likes him herself and doesn't want to you so she can pursue something with him later.  Or two, she knows him in one way or another and knows it won't work.  Either way, she is not being a very good friend towards you right now  and if you want to talk to him then you should just do it.  You don't need her approval to talk to somebody else.
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Let it go.  Let him go.  Your setting yourself up to be hurt.  Don't get in the middle of that situation because it sounds like it's far from over.  He sounds like he has to deal with his issues with her.  He may get back with her or he may not but it doesn't matter he can't give you what you want from him right now.  It's better to continue being friends if you can.\n\nHopefully you can because friendship is so important.
476701
it means u should move on, since he already did.   sorry I have to break the news but blame your chick sh!t friend whom couldnt have the balls to tell u himself.
127999
If she's already his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. All girls are like that, you know, I know, so we have to take things our girl way.\nYou have a talk with his ex since he can't do much. Sit her down and make sure she listens to you. Just let her know what it feels like if she's in your situation. I'm sure she'll want the same help as you right now.\nMake her understand but do it in a polite way no matter how much you want to get rid of her. If you don't do it that way, she might not listen and will tend to make it worst. \nDon't push it too. Just go with the flow and take your time. I'm sure somehow, someway, she'll understand.\nGood luck!!
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Well, since you already told him how sorry you are and everything... it is up to HIM to decide what to do next. You have to give him space so he can figure this out. If you keep trying to talk to him to fix it, it'll just push him away even more. Just give him time.\n\nIf it doesn't work out, it will be alright.\nGod has a plan for you. He will give you the one in His time.\n\nAll you can really do is learn from this experience and use it to build the future.\n\n\n\nWell.. if you think he may have been using you, don't you think you're better off WITHOUT him?
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First of all, you don't owe him a thing.  Secondly, do you really want to be friends with him?  Sounds to me like any friendship you might have would only make it harder for you to break things off, and your heart will just get trampled.  You know the score.  You know he's not going to settle down.  As hard as it might be, the best thing to do is ignore his calls for now until you're stronger, because most likely he will not take no for an answer, and will manipulate you and use guilt to continue to get his way.  Don't forget he has other girls to fall back on.  Best to let him go now with your pride, dignity, and heart still in tact.