just a quick question do ladies 35+ find a younger man attractive and if so how do i approach them??
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yes i do....just flirt with us like you would someone yyour own age.................how old r u any way
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I am older also.  I like younger women.  I am vain.  I am not attracted to many women my age.  I look great for my age so probably 10 years younger.  In many cases the girl has chased after me. Make sure that he is taking you out and exposing you to culture.  You should be going to plays and concerts and nice restaurants with him.  He should be introducing you to his friends (parents later).  See the book Pygmilian which my fair lady is based.  Your older guy should be expanding your horizons.  If you are just going to cheap restaurants or not really doing anything then you are simply giving it up for the price of a happy meal.
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Let me just say, that i was and am till now interested in mature women i'm 33 and i would like to have older.\nwhen i was 17 i met a lady of 35+, we mingle for awhile, i should have had more intamacy with her, so if the oportunity comes up for one of you guys take it, you will regret it later if you don't take the lady. Belive me...\nBesides the lady i went out with, is married till these date. ;) don't worry about age differences enjoy the moment, who cares what they say aslong as you keep it betwen you two(secret).
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I am 20.Never dated anyone younger. I like them older. Just until I get into my late 30's early 40's. Then I'll start to like them young.
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I am 22 and honestly I love older men, in my opinion they are like fine wine, getting better with age. And yes I do know how to please my man
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If your looking for a younger guy... let's say 19 Im the one. Ive always wanted a girl a couple years older than me. I mean I've had an older girl but she was only one year older than me.
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I think it depends on yours and her age.\n\nPersonally (and I am 44) I would like a man to treat me like he treasures me.  Treat me like a lady.  Tell me I am beautiful and smart.  Help me do everyday things - dont just wait to be waited on.\nBe honest and love God.
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Thank you "Lady Wyn"...very good answer...I am 42 and my girlfirend just turned 21 and It has nothing at all to do with her age on why we are going out....its all about liking the same stuff....we love the same music, the same books, the same tv shows, the same places to eat....we both love to play pool and love the beach...and in general just enjoy each others company. I have dated women from 18-50 and had a great time with all of them and I don't keep looking for one certian age group....its whoever appeals to me and who I also appeal to...so stop being so shallow!
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I am 23 and just broke up with someone who was 52 why do you want someone younger? i think its fine as long as both people are okay with it you can email me if you want allison_buchanan2003@yahoo.com
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I think every man would choose a younger girl if they could, lol.  Why do you think all the women in the porno mags and that, models, actresses, etc.; are all within the 18-30 range; have all those 'barely legal' chicks in the mags? (I've never looked at a porno, lol; you can buy them at petrol stations here; or they have adds on TV or billboards for the mags, etc., Kind of hard to miss what it says when it's in like ten million font, lol.)  \nAs for your last comment; because they are closer age wise.  My veiw on age is that it's just a number, nothing more; but not everyone agrees with this.  My husband and I, we have 15 years different between us; we were friends first, then dated; then were together; it wasn't just because of age; we just clicked, could talk for ever, even the first night we met, talked for about seven hours;our record was 18 hours in one 24 hour period, lol (It was a weekend, we had a free day, both of us); we have an extremely strong bond, never fight, are always doing those little things for each other that matter so much; but even with the fact that we both feel that we were made for each other; some people still are shocked when they hear the age difference.  If you want them just for sex, and act on it, then that's a problem.  That's a problem for any age group.  But if it's someone you've truelly fallen for, and she has for you; then it shouldn't be anyone else's problem; it's yours, and her decision.  \nHowever, based on your second comment, sex is pretty high up on that list of yours.  If sex is what you want; I recommend you look closer to your age group, for a girl who more knows life; and is less likely to be coerced into things.  As I mentioned, I think it's normal for any guy to find a younger woman attractive.  What's not normal is using them.  Find someone you're intelectually, mentally, attracted to, someone you just find that click with; then go for it, regardless of the age.  Having any kind of relationship with someone you only find physically attractive is highly likely to end up bad for both you and the girl.  Find the personality, mental, etc, traits you're after; the things that would really denote that special someone to you; the physical is easy to find; it's the rest, the stuff that really matters; that's the hardest parts to find.  You may find you find a younger girl.  But don't rule out any age group.  You rule out a good portion of prospective partners then.
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Your not necessarily placed in the "dead" category, just the "old enough to be my father" category. Most younger girls find it creepy to be with a man who is the same age (or close to) their father. So, it's not necessairly that your've lost your sex appeal. There are plenty of older men I find attractive, but would never date (this is assuming I wasn't married, which I am), because...it would creep me out. (I'm 21 by the way)\nAround 35-40, most women are trying to find a younger guy to feel young again themselves. Women are now starting to have mid-life crisis's and are looking for younger ones, just like men look for younger.
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I'm in my 30's and to be honest I wouldn't consider dating a man under 30, and not many of my friends would either.... I don't think I would have much in common with someone 10 years my junior.
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No, don't wear skimpy clothes.  I believe modesty is the best way to go. You can still be sexy and be modest.  So the young guys are not giving you much attention?  I am only 28, but maybe the older guys see a maturity level in you that isn't common for someone your age.    Why they think they have a chance, I don't know.  Maybe the younger guys that you say ignore you just aren't ready for someone like you.  Maybe some guys just want a fling and a little fun and are looking for someone who exudes that personality.  Feel free to PM me if you want to chat.
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Yes we do! younger men dont have hang ups and younger men have more stamina ; ) younger men are teachable and moldable and younger men appreciate a real woman.
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No rush!  I have a daughter who is 18, slim and attractive, and has not dated yet.  Her schooling is more important to her.\n\nThe best dating will happen in your 30s, if you are not married by then.\n\nKissing just leads to other stuff.\n\nWhat do you say to him?  Ask him for help on something as an icebreaker.  You will be able to tell if he likes you after you guys interact a little while.
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It sounds like he might be interested. If he's single and he's really a nice guy - just see what happens -- and let it flow naturally. Don't try to force anything. \n\nDon't listen to others who are hung up on the age difference. Age is a state of mind. But do beware that getting into a serious relationship with someone who's older is a little different than someone closer to your age. If you get serious and end up together -- there will come a point where you worry about him being so much older.....just think - when you're 41 - he'll be 60....when you're 51 - he'll be 70.....\n\nGood luck:)
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IT WAS FOR ME.  MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WHEN I WAS 18 AND HE WAS 43.  YUMMY!!!    AND I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS 24 AND HE WAS 44.  I SAY GO FOR IT.\n\nMY ATTRACTION WAS IN THE FACT THAT AN OLDER MAN KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTED OUT OF LIFE, WAS WORKING TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL, AND I DIDN'T HAVE TO FINISH "RAISING" HIM.  I FOUND THEM TO BE MUCH MORE SELF-CONFIDENT, SETTLED, AND MATURE THAN THE YOUNGER MAN.  AND THE SEX WASN'T BAD EITHER---THEY WERE MUCH MORE INCLINED IN MAKING SURE THAT I WAS SATISFIED.....THEY WEREN'T SELFISH LIKE YOUNG FELLAS WERE.