Did the person you loved and was going to marry soon cheat on you?
128298
Yes, more than once. But everthing happens for a reason. If I would have married either of those jerks, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now. I have the most loving, caring husband and there's no doubt in my mind that he will never cheat on me. I feel very secure with him.
158786
If I was with somebody for a while, and we suddenly got really passionate or something, and decided we couldn't wait any more, I would probably do it, and not tell anyone. Then later I would have a big wedding and tell everyone there that we had already been married for a while.
91461
Depends on what kind of relationship you had. If I were the male and I intend to marry you, I would definitely forgive you. Afterall I am aware that it took the two of us to get you into that situation.\n\nIf we're just playing around, I will run away as fast as I can and never show up..
222840
well it depends on why your telling him is it\n\na) you love him yourself and want to have him\n\nB) you love her and want her\n\nc) you don't understand why he is marrying her\n\nd) you know she has cheated and not faith ful to him\n\n\nif its a.b.c don't say a word\nif its D only say something if you have the evidence to back it up\nremeber noone knows what really goes on behind closed doors and just beacuse you may think that she is not right for him does not nesscarly make that true.
176340
I did.\n\nMy marriage was in danger of falling over.\n\nIf a person is truly committed, they will do this. At the very least, go for yourself and clarify things in your mind.
646685
ok this should be interesting to follow im getting married in two weeks...lol.  I would have to say no i never because i can't remember it...Mine was last night...haha!
338895
insecurities.   were you cheating?
382509
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
331740
got married ! thought the guy was nice . i didnt listen to his ex who told me he was a homo . thought she was just being nasty . found out on my own he had probably been with more men than i have .\nneedless to say he is now my ex.
93025
My husband cheated on me shortly after we got together...but I did say he's my husband, right?  He swears up and down to never do it again, it's hard to forget, but I have forgiven him and am still, after 2 1/2 years trying to forget.  It's not easy, but I love him too, and don't want to let go.  He respects me for forgiving him, and since I gave him a second chance, he will be faithful to me.
46137
Wow, I'm so sorry about that.  I think you should consider your feelings for him carefully.  If it were me, I think I would call off the wedding if you were planning on getting married soon.  You definitely should confront him on this but before you do, I would try to find out if he's done something like this before and if he has indeed cheated.  You can try going through his email and his cellphone/pda/dayplanner, etc. to look for numbers that don't look familiar.  It's a shame that you have to go snooping through his personal things but if he's cheating, he could be gambling with his and your life because of STDs etc.  Best wishes to you.  Your mind and heart will help you do the right thing.
587730
Please, please, please tell her or at least your best friend.  My husband cheated on me for years and a lot of people knew about it.It made the situation worse.  I feel like they were laughing at how stupid I was for not knowing.  I also felt betrayed by them.  They are NOT my friends; they and my husband made me feel like such a loser.  My husband and I are working on our marriage and he and I lost a lot of good friends over his cheating.  My life will never be the same.  I will never trust my husband again and a lot of joy at the 'little things' is now gone.
587933
I would think you would have had that discussion way before he or she became your spouse. So my answer is yes.
35319
I am a female whose husband had an emotional affair.\nOne tiny white lie will lead to a road of destruction.\nI am currently trying to forgive him, but its not working so well. Any and all cheating is unforgettable. The true trust will be gone forever.
22066
I doubt it! Some people will cheat no matter what you do, other will if given a reason. Dont give your partner a reason!
280364
well if you weren't in love with him. then why did you go out with him? why did you sleep with him? when you sleep with a guy before marriage they tend to leave.. i know this all too well. and if he cheated on you . then maybe he doesn't deserve you. you were in love with another guy while you were dating another guy that you didn't love .. did you go out with him because he was a charity case or to make the other guy jealous ? in the beginning?
190635
Yup!  Dated for 18 months and got married this January!  We chatted online for two months before we met in person and it was happily ever after since then!