bad boy or good guy?why do a lot of girls get attracted to bad guys more than good guys?is the saying "nice guys finish last" true?
131562
bad boy!\ncoz when he's good, he's good...\nbut when he's bad, he's better..;-)
497130
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
611773
The "good ones" as usually too nice to us. \n\nIts the thrill of the chase that most like - playing hard to get.  \n\nTry being a bit meaner towards a girl and they'll love ya.  That's what I've noticed about my friends.  They like that guys that are mean to them. Don't know why though.
642355
They may like the trill of a bad boy but in the long run its not worth the rush I guess it depends on the girl. I don't mind in my opinion the guy who comes along can be anyone just how we attract is another question
640292
Good guys???  They exist?  I thought they were categorized with unicorns, dragons, elves, and other mythical creatures.  \n\nNot to mention every time I find a guy who says, "I'm a good guy."  Or makes me think he is genuinely nice, I end up getting cheated on, hit, or ditched when something with a smaller waist and bigger cup size comes along.
216677
because most girls are attracted to a guy with a hot body and a good personality
526224
Honestly we are attracted to bad boys. I think that they make us feel a sense of security, however false. Although most women who are with a "bad boy" say that their guy is "different" with them, they are probably lying. Believe me it is easy to keep up appearances if you really love someone. Also if they keep up with the charade long enough they will convince themselves that what their man is doing is okay, and its not.
574769
There are a lot of "good guys" around. It's just that half the time women aren't looking for a "good guy" and we're forced to turn into something we really don't want to be in order to have a girl around, or we're married and, being the nice guys we are, we're not about to cheat on or leave the women we made a vow to on that wedding day for any reason. I'm lucky. I haven't had to change, despite the fact that it is extremely hard for me to get a girlfriend when I am single. My advice to you: don't go looking for a good guy, you won't find him; let him find you. And don't rush into a relationship head-first (though you know that one I'm sure, I just want to state it anyways). Get to know them really well before you decide to take a chance and get into a relationship with them. As you know pretty well by now, not all of us guys are exactly what we show ourselves to be. Hope that helps you out some.
196764
It may seem like it, but eventually life experience will teach you that nice guys don't finish last, most young girls just have to through the illusion of the not so nice guys to realize how they really want to be treated. If you are truly a nice guy, don't let the disappointments of other peoples actions make you change...they'll need you before you need them and they'll be the losers when you are the successful one... by then, they won't matter to you. Check out the "gorgeous" girls 10 years from now!
533891
nice guys dont finish last, but guys with low self-esteem do.. if you dont like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to like you.  challenge yourself and you will learn to like yourself more.  the opposite sex will notice you when you like yourself...
245893
Well actually I have found that most twomen will sooner cheat on a jerk than a nice guy because often women cheat to get back at someone, or in order to feel that they aren't being held in tight reign so as I have seen it, nice guys actually are cheated on less because there isn't any reason to cheat on them.
339434
A lot of woman say this all the time, yet they end up with wrong kind of men all the time.  I don't think it's a coincidence.  \n\nBasically here's the deal, and I'm basing this on what I have learned from my 25 years on earth.  The nice decent guy is not noticed.  Yeah, nice guys finish last a lot of times.  It sucks but it's the truth and the truth hurts. \n\nAlot of woman see the nice guy out of the corner of their eye, he's going about his business, working his 9 to 5, trying to be a productive member of society, but he tends to blend in so he doesn't get noticed, so again and again women like you fall for the a-holes.  It's a vicious cycle.  Good luck, though.
40459
I like a good guy that looks bad. I dont want a bad boy thats going to treat me like dirt, always getting lock up , slanging, or any of that nonsense. I just like the se*Y lil thug style.
548729
Nice guys always finish last. It seem woman like to be treated like dirt. hence the old saying treat a woman like dirt shell treat you like gold!
322626
i liked your question. most girls want such a boyfriend that she can show em off in front of her friends u see some sort of sexy hunk.but those boys are always bad so thats the reason girls prefer bad guys over good guys...by the way i dont prefer bad over good
193742
sweetheart, it is not that they don't want the good guy first ...sometimes you just can't tell the difference. unfortunately for women, there usually are no flashing lights and ringing bells to let us know that the guy is one of the as..... out there.
241870
Ever heard the words..."nice guys finish last"...well its true, treat her like shit, ignore her and see how long it takes for her to come back. Girls like a little competition and some challenge in a relationship...trust me I have been there. If all else fails, kick her to the curb and find another girl that is worth your adoration. Good luck.