everytime i say i like something she likes it she has told me befor she hates it she is a geek and is very annoying  what do i do to get her to understand i know she copys me and i want her to stop?
119929
just take it slow and easy with her\nif she is a good friend she may be copying you because she knows you look great with what you do and ware.\nso I guess she is actually giving you compliments..\nso because fo this take it easy on her and just talk to her..if it gets a little rough..do it another time..but she is giving you compliments so be kind to her..\ngood luck
330416
your idea is totally genius! I always say... kill them with kindness! It will annoy her that you are being really nice to her, and when she realizes that you aren't upset when she's rude to you, she'll get bored and start to ignore you. Most likely she'll entirely move on to someone else (to annoy) good luck! This method has worked for me MANY MAnY times!
499147
she is being a territorial bitch... like a dog protecting its bone. It's a totally female thing. You are posing a threat to what she thinks is hers. Good luck with that...\n\nStart spiking her coffee with xanax....\n\nlol... good luck!
534058
walk away...that always seems to get them to come back...lol! Just be careful...she sounds like she's playing games
511715
Say this:\n"If you hate me so much, is Hatorade your favorite?  Also when you say you are so ballistic with me then why do you even take the time to write me an email?  Would you stop being a two year old toddler?  Seems like you have nothing better to do so stop hating and back off, because girl you ain't seen nothing yet!"\n\n               You go girl, I know you can do it!  Fire at her and she really ain't seen nothing yet so throw her way off course and let's see how that loser reacts!
552722
put your self in other people shoes. Even she keeps saying whatever she wants, she cannot destroys the person you are interiorly. Let her say whatever she wants it's a free country, don't worry about rumors, maybe she went through the same thing she's doing to you. Keep doing the good things, and people will appreciate you.
316649
You are not going to get her to stop unless you embaress her. Or you need to talk to her about what she is doing and how it makes your feel. Telling her to shut up is not the way to go.\n\nAlso you need to ask yourself why do you want her to stop. Are you jealous of the attention? If it is not hurting you why should you be worried. People that lie like that will get theirs in the end. She'll bury herself in her own hole without any help from you.
199934
She sounds as if she doesn't treat you the way that you would like to be treated. I wouldn't like it, but I am not you.\n\nYou sound like you need someone to hash all of this over with to make sure you know what you are thinking. On observation, you have not been close acting for a while. If you can't tell her, write it a couple of times to get confidence. Then drink a beer or a coffee one day and tell it to her straight. \n\nThen do what you have to do to be happy. No use wasting the rest of your life pretending. Time to be free to be true to yourself.
111990
That's a tough situation.  Just tell her "Look there's something I need to tell you that you aren't going to like, but I think you need to know."  I hope she handles it well and doesn't blame you.  Just be honest, talk to her, and be supportive with whatever she decides to do with the information.
114806
Ignore her. She will self-destruct sooner or later.  The more that she sees that you are bothered or vexed, the more she will continue to do it.  She's trying to get your attention and if she finally realizes that it's not working, she will stop.
424273
It's very controlling behavior and not fair to you. You don't need to put up with it. The fact that you beg her to stop puts her in a position of power. It's important you stand up for yourself, and ask what is really bothering her, because it's not about a ham sandwich. She sounds very insecure. She wants you to fit in this little mold that she's made for you, and when you don't, she gets angry. If she simply doesn't like any little thing you do that's out of her control, you might need to rethink your relationship. I especially hate that she doesn't like you getting better grades than her. That's not healthy for you. Do you really want to be with someone that would rather have you fail so she feels better about herself? I see too many marriages like this. It's like they were allowed to get away with it as kids, and act like spoiled, selfish brats as adults because no one stands up to them. You've already played nice. Told her how it makes you feel, and she's not getting the message, or doesn't care enough to try. You need to tell her to knock it the hell off, or you're gone. And make good on it. Your future happiness relies on it.\n\nBy the by, there's a difference between love and codependance. You are *not* responsible for, nor have to feel guilty over her emotional well being. She apologizes only to make you come back. It's a vicious cycle. Best of luck. It's not easy.
220437
Ive had the same problem. The way I would handle it would be to tell her as it is. Just say "listen, im not tryin to be mean just please let me have my space, stop copiing my style and get your own please" And walk away.
218293
Some say that the highest form of flattery is imitation.  If it bothers you that much, do something different such as compliment her on her "unique style" or whatever she has copied from you.  If it is a sister, live w/ it.  If it is a girl that hears about it from a friend or copies what she overhears from you, your friends will know who the real deal is.  Good luck!
91981
Tell her if she does it again then your done with her. She shouldn't need validation from anyone but you, just be sure that you are giving her the attention she needs.
298257
my friend is HOT and she hates it when i FOCK HER but i cant help it.She is going to MAKE ME DO MY HOMEWORK if i keep doing it.she likes to READ to me.and i like when she TURNS ON DA TV.and my momma doesn't like it when we LISTEN TO THE RADIO FULL BLAST !she is always saying I'M A LESBO ever time we do that thing.One day, we were doing that thing and my mom was WATCHING MY DOG AND CAT FIGHT.
187434
sounds like she wants attention good or bad and to be the center of every thing dont listen to her romers and try to talk to her parents explain you dont know why they hate you but you are willing to listen theln explain what is going on i think this girl needs professional help good luck flaimj
62780
Continue what you are doing! don't make any stupid moves like octopus hands! She may find this insulting and there goes your respect. Play it cool and continue opening her door and pulling out her chair. When she leans over and opens your car door, she may be the choosen one!