for him but i dont want to go back in arelationship what should i do.
137841
depends. do you really want to continue with whatever broke you up? usually when things are over it's best to leave it like that.
83653
Whenever you think of him remind yourself the reason for leaving him. Also, enjoy the feeling of not fighting with him. \n\nIf you decide to go backk with him  you should find a better way of resolving conflicts.  There are many ways to resolve problems without fighting.\nOne way is to brainstorm solutions and both agree on athe best solution that both you can gain something
340918
Get over him.  If he is just making excuses not to be with you then he doesn't want to be with you at all.
398191
i think u should consider it again....think about it carefully...ur fate will depend on ur decision...give him the last chance... if he do it again, dont hesitate to leave him...im sure there's someone better than him..good luck!
104496
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
40929
Just tell him that your relationship is not going anywhere an tell him that you and him should move on to other things and go your seperate ways.
492754
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
667235
Umm no. You can't just sit around waiting for him. You'll waste so much time, and when he comes back things won't be the same anyways. You both will have changed. Spare your heart the pain and move on.
85431
He has to want to get back with you.  His reasons for not wanting to be with you may not be in your control.  The best thing you can do is to make your life something wonderful and hope that he realizes what he has lost and wants to be a part of it.
49849
gal if a guy does not want u back again move on,take it as if it was u ,if u are not intrested in going out with someone u. U ARE NOT.dont force things u will make it worse and he will hate u.move on
368174
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
545985
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
310054
Stay with him.  Give him  some time, if in 6 months, you still feel this way, then leave him.
285116
trust me ive been there get away from him. that kind of life is not the way to go. please listen to me i know from experiance
658355
let him go if that's what he needs. provide him with lots of emotional support since it will be pretty hard for him leaving the country and all the people he knows. keep in touch and if it was meant to be u'll be together again when he gets back
439614
I've been there done that and i wouldn't make it easy for him if i did take him back. You need to make sure that your the one that he wants and he's threw messing around on you and if he feels the need to cheat on you again he needs to be man enough to tell you that he wants to see someone else. Tell him he has to earn your trust back.
214733
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place