I had told my friend that I liked him and she asked me to ask him out for me, and I said yes. When she was about to ask him out I was going to tell her not to ask him out. I got to her too late. He said no. Ever since then he has been totally weird around me. He was a friend so it kind of ruined our friendship. Will it always be this awkward?
131171
well. it shouldn't be this weird all the time. First of all he should have expected that you like him, he can't help it if he cute. Well you should tell him this. It shouldn't be awkward for you because you was the one to ask him so you should be awkward around him
172031
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
478139
maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
447067
I had a friend of mine that we played that game for years. Nothing ever came out of it because we were too good of friends and I did not want to lose her friendship.  There were times she would flirt and even one time where she told me if she likes a guy they are paying at the movies and she had me pay the next day.You need to talk through it with him, it sounds like he is really unsure of himself and just as confused as you are.  I think he is waiting for the green light from you that says where you stand.
96515
Been there.  Uhh, well the girl i like eventually just found out, she didn't act that weird though.  You could try asking him to something simple, like the movies.  Think about how important your friendship is and how important it is that you want to be with him.  Try asking some of your girl friends.  I don't want to say anything to "out there" because i don't want my advice to hurt anybody.  If you really want a longer answer, just email me. thump713
99081
i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
358066
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
536068
You are not the shyest person, cause everybody think so when it comes to making the first attempt. I think it was a mistake for your friend to go to him instead of you. You should have went up to him. It shows that you are weak and cannot approach him. But don't worry you are probably a teenager, and we all felt the same your age. Make sure YOU go to him next time. Don't tell him you love him up front, but instead ask him out. If he says no, don't be too pushy and look for other fishes.
80373
me and my best friend liked the same guy once...but when we figured it out, one of us backed off. Actually, my friend liked the same guy I did and he liked her, so I was the one who stepped back. She didnt act on it anyway because she knew it would hurt me. Its doing things like that that makes a friendship last.\nso yes, that has happened to me.
292662
Believe it or not I think this happened to me . . . but the guy didnt like me but Im pretty sure that this guy likes you! Go Girl! Just keep doing what your doing! If he likes you he will pop the question or get one of him friends too! ( P.S. Try hanging out with him again )
119788
i wouldnt do that, its better if you and your friend not do anything, let him make the first move. but if you really wanna know, dont ask him, ask his friends, but be discreet, dont make it obvious that your friend likes him and be careful to not make it seem like you like him.
200658
If a guy hangs out around you, he probably likes you.  In almost every case, a guy wants to be more than friends... hes probably just to scared to say it to you because he thinks if he tells you how he feels that he will lose you as a friend too if you say no.  Did you ever just try asking him if he likes you?
120759
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
137314
lol. since u guys have been friends for a long time. i dont know if he will ask u out. he may be too shy, or think that u see him as a brother. so if u really like him, u gota let him know or leave him clues. but seeing as how dumb us mens are. u might wanna go with "hey u busy tomorrow, wanna go on a date or something".
457519
Why not.  You know what you want...go for it.  It's always better to start out as friends.  You already know him and he's comfortable with you.  Just do exactly what you've written.  Strike up the conversation and see where it goes, tell him that you would like to date him and see what happens.  Don't be afraid...if it isn't happening, you still have a friend in him.  Good Luck
312214
no its not wierd. i have a friend like that. theres no harm in some meaningless flirting. as long as your not leading him on. make sure he knows that you dont like him like that and if you do like him like that then just keep doing what your doing.
371009
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!