a guy proposed 2 me recently n i agreed 2 him.\nbut the problem is we r net frienzs.i have never met him in personal n neither he.we both have just seen each others pics thats all.\nso what i like 2 know is r net relations ok or not??
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People can type what you wana hear babe. He could turn out to be a right weirdo. Its easy to get carried away when someone is filling your head with lovey dovey sh*t but, hey, get real: you dont even wana sh*g this guy, let alone marry him!!!!!!!
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His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
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Mel, \nI went over both of your questions and am wondering if you left out some important details that we may be able to work off of?  It is rather odd for someone who is a best friend to up and leave you alone and to try to avoid you for no reason.  Could he have become enamorate of you and is trying to avoid you as he doesn't want to ruin the friendship and doesn't know how to address this situation with you?  Just a thought as it is the only reason for this from a male best friend.
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Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
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If u don't no him, end it now. u don't no wat this guy is like. he might seem like a really nice guy on the internet, but it is easy 2 lie on the internet, but u might end up wishing u had never started it.
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i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
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For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
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You went through his personal stuff thinking you would find something and YOU DID! First off, going through his stuff is wrong and you are in the wrong for doing so; however, since you know whats up why do you want someone in you life like that? He's not going to be able to trust you and vice versa...it doenst get better from here even if you two agree to be with other, cause even though we forgive we never forget.\nYou two are just friends, right?  So then you two are allowed to see other people, right?  Technically, he is doing nothing wrong.  If you want more with him then that shouldhave been stated.  The rules needed to out laid down and I'm thinking they weren't, or were maybe unclear.  All in all, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with other people?  \nI know exactly what youre going through and honey, it wont get easier cause youll keep finding shit out.  Since you had access to his e-mail, youll try to get access to other things, like his phone, voicemail, any other personal stuff...its not cool to go through his shit cause ultimately you know youre gonna find something.  That voice inside, that feeling in your gut...it doesnt lie
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who hasn't been there? i think u should be straight up with this guy if u really are good friends...and then make him be straight up with you. If he wants to be with u, he needs to show it undoubtably. And if he's wishy-washy, move on. You'll never end up happy if u let him string u along.
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I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
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Single is good for awhile. My guy friend reminded me of the concept of "dating". You are going back out into the social scene and just meeting new people. Forming a friendship is the most healthy way to building a romantic relationship. Your giving yourself and your friend, time to really honestly, get to know each other inside and out. Jumping in is never healthy. If your jumping in for the wrong reasons (lonliness, a "need" for a mate), then you will soon find your relationship ending in a firey crash and burn. Practice patience with your new friend. It's ok to be attracted to him/her but keep a level head and don't let your emotions rule your decisions. I am experiencing this very phenomena about building a friendship first. Together, we are keeping level heads, (even though he is just so dang hot), and it is much more fulfilling and healthy, than any relationship I've had before. The communication is great, we understand and accept where we stand with each other, and we're keeping the door open for the possibility of a wonderful, romantic, relationship to develop. I admit, it's not easy. I am still learning the whole patience thing myself. But this is so good, and healthy. I wish you luck, and hope that you will not jump in to something out of desparation. Be positive, be patient, and ask God to help. God Bless you friend.
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it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
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I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
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Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
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Please don't read too much into his casual email or in-between his lines. Key words in his emails are "babe" , "wet kisses", "hugs" so this is definitely not a good-bye, or dump-you email to set you back in your heals. I am a guy so I can translate his guy lingo easily.. all he is saying is that he is not in a position to give you an opinion on your life or anything, either he does not have the knowledge or that you two are not a "couple" to decide on things together. So all he said is that ..."please decide as you wish, on anything that needs to be decided on. I am not yet in a position to advise you on your life" He must be at work or in a rush when we wrote that email coz he just did not pick his words carefully. Relationships have become a commodity these days and people forget the value of emotions and feelings. If you like this guy and if you think he is a keeper, let go of what he said, its a harmless guy lingo and don't read between the lines. Most likely he said this and forgot all about it already. so next time you meet he will be giving you all the wet kisses and hugs. Please don't fret on this or lose a guy over it.
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The only dating I have done as an adult has been from on here.  I usually kind of know the person, have talked on the phone and online for quite awhile before we meet.  I have usually dreamed about the meeting for some time.  I tend to live a bit in a fantasy world.  I think about will we have as much fun together laughing, will he see me and think that I am not what he expected, etc.  I don't worry about how I will see the other person because I have already formed an emotionally satisfying bond from talking for awhile.
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No means no...pure and simple. My wife and I have a great love life and we have never shied from trying new things, at least once. However, having said that..our cardinal rule is.."NO means NO." Communication and trust are two very important aspects of any relationship (friends or beyond). This guy is no friend to you and I bet he is not the one asking for the 3some either. If his gf was so interested, she should be doing the asking/ getting to know you stuff..not him. Drop the loser like a hot rock and walk away..after telling him you have reported him for sexual harassment. Someday, you might actually wonder what it would be like..but if it isn't your desire to find out..then no way could you enjoy any such experience. WALK AWAY!