I got it today and paid it already with my tax return money.  How should I tell her without her getting too mad?
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I'm a mom and you just told me.. see how simple that was...\n\nOk when my son got a speeding ticket.. well Ya.. so like First have the ticket paid.. next ?\n\nMom, i made a really big mistake and i am so so sorry.. I know i am in the wrong.. and it was my fault.. i was in a rush to get?????????? and well i got a ticket.. But Wait... I have already paid for it and took the responisbility for it..  \n\nNow if you are on her insurance like my son.. here is what you can do.. Go to the driving class and take it.. it will then come off your record..and her insurance will not go up..\n\nwell good luck.. O bring gift to mom.. we love gifts it will ease the blow..  Walmart earings $2.99 are cheep and it will make us happy.. or get picked flowers.. or take her out to dinner.. or clean the entire house. or get a DVD and have a movie night.. But make sure you are in good turms with her..\n\nDid you know Honny attracts bees but crap attracts maggotts.  Get it.. sweet talk.. love moma Giggles.
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if you told your boss then it should be OK. considering that you describe this woman as just a colleague that has no huge stake in your life, i don't think that you should feel obliged to tell her.\nIt's not like you had stuff planned together or something.\nif i know women as much as i think i do, there are two possible reasons for this.(1) she is just a really a bad joker trying to pull your leg, or (2) she is green with envy cause she was stuck there while you went off to the states, and sh wants you to pay....(really no need to understand this aspect of females).\nWait a minute, have you considered that she thinks of you as more than a passing acquaintance, and more like friends?
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I would tell her. The sooner the better. She probably won't get mad at you unless it's been a while but even then she'll eventually appreciate that you came to her and let her know what was going on.
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I think we'll need a lot more information than that. If they have underpaid you and it is their fault then they must cough it up. If it is due to an error that you put on the form then they will not pay up. \n\nUnfortunately, the tax credit system is appalling and nearly everyone I know has been búggered by it. We filled our form in merticulously and the mistakes they made beggared belief.
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don't use the money, they most likely will notice that they made a mistake. I would call them and tell them that they are overpaying you. or go back to the office with the money and tell them what is going on. if they say they overpaid then you will have to give them the money back but if they say the money is yours, then you can keep it. if they ask for it back and you don't give it back, they can and will sue you, I am sure you don't want that
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I think you just pay her and she pays the taxes like an independant contractor does.  I think.
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Never, never, never..........loan money.....especially in large amounts ....to anyone not unless you really really know them.   \n\nI would keep on confronting her....or make up some type of repayment plan to where she can pay it all back.   If she can't do that, then have her do some work that you need done (for the next several months) till you feel it's completely paid off.....if she can't do it any other way.   I've learned..........I'm out over 10,000.00 dollars!  and I will never again.....listen to anyone's tale again.  If they need help, .....I will do it my way or no way!
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Agree to pay what you charged and tell her to keep telling him you did it with out her permission and wish them the best of luck. If you are charged, deny it and pay what you owe. Now that is not so hard...is it?
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You can do one of 2 things A. you can write it off as a lesson learned.OR,(B)You could tell her that you're glad she likes it so much she has saved you the cost of buying her a birthday or christmas present,whichever comes first,that ought to get it back.
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Try using last years Federal Income Tax return.  If you claimed her as a dependent, you had to have put the number on your 1040.
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ah ya I would tell...it's not fair! she and other people like her are the reason taxes are always going up.\ni would tell but keep anonymous
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SECOND ANSWER (per your additional info added later):\nThe set amount IS 20% or WAS 20%? Meaning, does it adjust with any increase in pay he gets or if the 20% was (example) $100 at the time, does it stay at $100? Was the 20% pre tax (gross) or after tax (net)?\n\nIf it is a before tax %, no money is owed.\n\nIf it is a % after tax and remains a % after tax, she is entitled to a % of the return because that is money that should not have gone to the IRS and should have been used in calculating the amount owed her.\n\n\nFIRST ANSWER\nYES. Since it appears to be a percentage rather than a set amount, he could "hide" money by overpaying his taxes and then get it back at the end of the year, a nice return on his investment. the IRS may not have a written mandate on file to withhold any amounts, but she is clearly within her rights to pursue the amount that should have gone to her but was sent to the IRS as tax payment.\n\nUsing any of the answers telling you "no". Let's say he makes 100 a week and sends it all to the IRS and lives off of your income. At the end of the year there is a huge refund but he never paid a penny to her, she is owed money and she can go after it.
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A) be sure they knew it was a loan. They might not be aware of it.\n\nB) Talk it over with your friend, in a "Hey, money is getting kind of tight for me right now, how are things for you guys? Would it be possible for you to say, start floating me 50 bucks a paycheck or something? It would really help me out."\n\nC) Remember, there is no way to not sound like a jerk. Because that depends entirely on what kind of people they are. Also, a good rule of thumb when loaning out money, is to never actually expect to see it again. Try, yeah. But don't be surprised when it never appears again.
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No - you don't need to.  If you got it via mail, you can give them a call, if you were given it personally, you probably already acknowledged it!\n\nMiss Vicki
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Call the IRS, they will send this information to you. I got mine rather quickly. I was surprised...
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Well, sounds to me like you may never get your money here. I would just be upfront...tell her that your parents have decided they would like to buy it and since she has been unable to pay you the agreed upon amount you are going to sell it to them. She has renigged on her agreement and that gives you the right to sell it to someone else. If her and her uncle are upset...they will get over it.
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My thought is that you have accounted for 70%, and they recommend that you save/invest at least 10% of each check.\n\nLeaving 20%.  In theory fair is 10% each, but if you're not going to "use" all of your 10%, put some extra in savings and let her use what you don't put in savings.\n\nBut make sure that both of you have to agree to take the money out of savings, or it may move without your say so anyway.