Ok so i know that for play can lead to sex, but while people make love to each other they use for play. So doesn't that mean that four-play and sex or making love are the same thing?
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NO, four play leads upto sex. Sex is what you do with another nude person, who you really love. In a nut shell,\nit's what makes a girl pregnant. Remember, I said in a nutshell. The more accurate scientific or bilogical, or medical explanation of how girls get preganant isn't the nutshell version.
252846
Sex is so much more than the act itself.  You don't feel anything because you are just having sex to have sex...maybe because that is what you think you are supposed to do.  Sex becomes amazing when you are with someone you love who loves you back totally and wants to know what your desires and turn ons are and then together you can make sex good...great...fulfilling!!! This usually occurs in a marriage relationship where each person WANTS the other person to be completely satisfied.
333482
It is a lot smaller part than you might think.  You should never hang love on just one thing, what happens if that one thing has a problem, do you throw the love out?  Sex is just one small thing that determines love or not.  And sex is the one thing that actually gets better once you are in love.
11915
Aren't women enough too? Apparently not. \n\nToys can be used to add variety to a sexual relationship. Everyone has their own fetish or fantasy. Those toys can help satisfy those imaginations.
35088
I am answering you now.\nWhy do all people combine love and sex and sex and love today.\nLove is something independent of such physical needs or desires.\nIt is your mentality which makes you think like this, otherwise they both have no relation and that is all.
188541
I have been to college myself. I never heard of Kissology (the study of kisses) 101. that is pretty funny, but maybe he is right.  Did you know that kissing can be considered a sexual act within itself?  After I read that, I stopped kissing around.  (I am so giggly right now, i have got to go.)
267323
not always.  Love and sex are nice combinations but that's not all there is to love.  Or sex.
107332
Sex is awesome - you can hate the person and that can make it even better.\n\nPost relationship sex is very common - it leads to issues when one party decides to move on...beware!
430018
Three is nothing wrong with a little kinky foreplay.  I do what my husband asks, and he likewise, to keep our marriage exciting.  I think you should tell your wife, ask her to play along with you - what have you got to lose?  If she loves you, she wants you to be happy in bed.  Thats the key to keeping yourself from asking the question  "SHould I cheat on my wife?"
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I agree with that (with you that is).  Sex is the deepest kind of love that a man and a woman can experience together, and if you do it before marriage with one guy and you break up, who's to say you wont do it again with another guy.  That would take the love that sex with your life long partner is supposed to hold and ruin it.
309990
Sex is an natural embedded characteristic or need in all humans. I have not personally done it but yes I have had that feeling or urge, and I have taken a few psych. courses. It is almost up there with hunger, thirst, and air, sex is only a pleasure for most unfortunately, but was made originally for reproductive resources. Sex is uncontrollable for all but it's all about how you act upon it.
52061
Chances aren't good.  Sex never creates love.  If a person learns to love someone, they do it themselves.  Sex never truly helps or harms.\n\nDon't put all your eggs in one basket.
578843
No, I don't think it is the same thing. Though very unlikely that you would only have an oral encounter and not sex. I think there must be penetration in order to be counted as actual sex referring to intercourse. Now there are sexual acts that includes oral and such but it would not be correct to say you had "sex' with them. Virgins would not loose their virginity by fellatio or cunnilingus.\n\nThe key is the penetration being present or not to define actual sex.
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Sex has nothing to do with love, it is designed for procreation.  Many feel that a healthy sex life improves a relationship, the only detriment you would have is if you fill your need for sex by looking outside of a relationship (if you're in one) without your partners consent.  Either way be safe, and remember there is such a thing as masturbation.
165886
it means that there is more than just sex in a relationship. If you think sex is what a relationship is, then your too young or immature for one
310487
Naughty and wild.  WHY?  Because that gets the adrenaline going and isnt sex supposed to be wild?  I mean, if you want to fully enjoy it right??  R u wild?  If not be WILD?
199777
Love doesn't always involve sex.  Some people don't need sex to be in a healthy relationship.  It just adds a lot of fun and spice into your relationship.  You don't NEED it, but it's still nice.