...and regret it after?\nI kissed my best friend bf and i fee awful
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walked into a police station nude holding a dozen doughnuts and said these are for u for helping the public..then i was arrested..drank jack daniels ..wont drink it again
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Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
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yes it can and yes i have. my friend and i we really close and i thought i liked him and that he liked me. one day i went to kiss him and he pulled back and said no that he doens't have feelings for me. i went home that night and thought bout it and i didnt really like him like that either. it was that him and i had gotten really close and thought that i might have liked him more.
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After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
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dont be embarrased but i think u should tell him about your feelings first and see how he responds and if he wants to take your friendship to something more then two thumbs up but if u just start to shock and kiss him and he doesnt want to be with u in that way and your only friends then u will be even more embarassed and maybe hurt and theres a possibility that the friendship might become ackward so i would suggest that u guys talk first and figure out what your going to do. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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never.. move on... Going after a bestfriends boyfriend/ ex boyfriend is the worst thing i person could do. Forget him
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This happened many years ago and it took me a loooonnnng time to get over it. I was 19 and it involved a guy who was my first love, first sexual encounter, and best friend ect. You name it we were it.  Well we had been dating for a little over a year and on my birthday two of my really good friends took me out to dinner and a movie.  I remember it was raining really hard outside when we were going to the movies so we were all under one umbrella running into the theatre.  When we got inside I went into the restroom to dry off and I noticed a girl in the restroom who looked familiar who was pregnant.  I didn't think to much of her but kinda kept staring at her.  Anyways, I went out of the restroom to meet my friends and they were staring at me with this really worried expression.  I ask them what was wrong and at first they didn't tell me but then my friend pointed across the lobby at this couple.  There was my boyfriend with this VERY pregnant girl (the one from the restroom) and they were holding hands and kissing. I was stunned.  I went up to him and just stared. I didn't make a scene and he had the NERVE to act like he didn't know me.  I walked away and cried through the whole movie.  Worst of all we were seeing "My best friends wedding" so it was a complete disaster.  We never spoke after that and that was it.
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Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
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Yes, when I was in high school, there was a girl who liked me.  She would call me "hot" all the time.  I found out she wanted to get with me, but I was too nervous and timid about what other people thought.  Plus, I didn't think I deserved her (low self esteem all throughout high school).  So, yes, I regret not getting with her.  I was unsure about my sexuality then and still am now. I often wonder what might have happened if I would have voyeured w/ her, sat under the stars w/ her, held her close.  But, we never did any of those things except in my mind.  But, she is married now and lives in another state.  Now, I, am in love with another friend of mine but don't plan on telling her b/c of fear of losing her/rejection.\n\nWhy do you ask? Have you rejected someone recently? Sometimes, the brain does know better than the heart.  My brain is always on though and never knows when to turn off! I just want my heart to open up every once in a while.
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girl this has just happened to me and you shouldn't feel guilty. i felt guilty but i really should have. Why don't you try talking to them or telling your friend thats here if he really likes you he will wait until you're sure. and the long distance relationship i was in i cheated on him and i felt so guilty i told him about it and we broke up. Maybe you should ask him to take a brake and set up a date you will become bf/gf on that specific date. That will show you if you know what you have or not. Maybe this will help and maybe it won't but this is what i would do if i relieved this.
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No, don't do it.   You need to wait.  Think how bad you will feel if you end up regretting it?!
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I think that if you have to ask, then no, it wasn't a good idea.  I'm glad that he asked, and I'm glad that you consented.  I'm also glad that you regret it.\nWhat's done is done.  More than likely you will continue the activity, but I want you to consider something....\nJust because the deed is done, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it.  If you really regret it, and feel that you truly were not ready yet, there is absolutely no shame in declining to engage further.  If you feel it appropriate, get together w/ your bf & tell him, "Look, it was really great, but now i regret it, and I just don't think I was ready.  So I'd really like to wait...before I do it again."\nAny good guy will respect that.  If the dude has a fit, drop him.  It's a good test of character.\nAs for you, you can run that game all you want, but I'm willing to bet you'll still be weak enough to give in if the situation comes about  ;-)  Just a fact of life, babe.\nSOooo... yes, it's too late to go back; no, it's not too late to wait; and yes, if you choose to wait, you should avoid situations where you can get caught up in the lust.\nDon't worry.  It happens to the best of us  :-)
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I don't really understand why you would dump someone that had done something like that to you... i don't get it...\n\nit's as if.. you expect him to forgive you... and if you were in the situation.. you would dump him.. no second chance whatsoever... that is ridiculous...\n\nmaybe your boyfriend should do what you said you would do... maybe he should dump you, no second chance whatsoever...\n\nand yes... it was a terrible thing to do.. you're sort of a representation of today's corrupt society.. ignorance.. and phoniness... this is ridiculous... it's as if, you forgot about your plans with your boyfriend that day... it's like... forgetting an anniversary.. even worse... \nbut i guess i could understand... i mean, when someone is with a friend... lol, sh*t, we can get all hyphe and crazy out here... lol.. no doubt about that...\n\nbut listen mijita.. yea, you did a bad thing.. and if your boyfriend forgives you....  then you're lucky to have a guy like him...\n\nabout the "I won't do it again...." being a guy... i really wouldn't believe that, i would just let it all behind..\nhuman nature is savage.. you can't change it, only restrain it...\n\nthat's my opinion... take care
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it lasted two seconds (i realize this now because i can compare it to other kisses i've enjoyed) but i literally lost ALL sense of time and space. she was (and still is) my dream date; after we pulled away the first words i said were, "that did not just happen." because it was TRULY UNBELIEVABLE. It happened when, where, and with who I wanted. SPECTACTULAR! We're still dating, and that even was a while ago.\n\nYou'll never forget it, especially if the conditions are JUST RIGHT!\n\nwhee! now i'm feeling all romantic!\nhappy valentine's!
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had a conversation w/ his best friend where his best friend told me he luved me (i liked his best friend for 4 years) and that he (being the best friend) wanted to make out w/ me.\n\nmy bf still doesn't no
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Yes I was afraid and said no after our 2nd date and have  regretted it ever since as I missed out on a very good opportunity. You never get a second chance.\n\nTherefore if it is not right move on til it feels right.\n\nGood Luck
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I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...