They are always fighting. they are both only juniors in high school.she tries to control everything he does. His attitude has changed since going out with her.He is normally smiley, fun,a very goofy guy.He is now very depressed and pouty all the time.She does not like him hanging out with his friends. He now refers to her as his wife. I say he is too young to have a wife.
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As a parent, I will give you great advice as I have been there.  Stay out of it!  If you interfere, you will push them closer together because your son will want to prove that he is right in his choice and you are wrong.  If you stay out of it (as I did), he will come to realize that she isn't right for him.  He might be starting to realize it now since he is depressed and pouty...he just hasn't reached the point of ending it yet.  He might be like my son...the way he ended it was to deliberately defy her "rules".  This pushed her into ending it.  He didn't want to break it off and hurt her feelings so he did everything he knew she hated!  \n\nI know it is hard to keep your mouth shut when you know your son isn't matched with the right person but it is the right thing to do...at least until and if he asks for your advice.
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well on one hand you do have a point but think about it, if her bf is a junior and she's a freshman dont you think that they should go? because if they stay together for a real long time he will graduate and by the time she's a junior he wont be around to go with her to her ball so let her enjoy it now when she's with him she deserves to have fun too. and your friend will probably ask her to go with him if he's going because its his gf and I'm sure he would like to spend more time with her and he probably thinks that this is a romantic way for them to get closer and deeper in the relationship he's not gonna ask someone else to go with him if he has his gf and I'm sure he likes her enough to take her is he's going.
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The best if you ask me is - Kick the S... out of him, Stuff him man, who does he think he is. These guys are normally only bullies, but sissys when it comes to the punch.\n\nIn any case it sounds to me that he is in love with his "long time school friend". He just wants to look good - Sissy
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Guess what L****e, I've noticed that too. * really 'dumps' himself on you whenever he feels he needs help. No offence, but I really dont like him as a person anymore. I did like him in the pre-M****e days, but now... YUCK. Plus, hes an EMO which is really starting to bug me. And his hair!! HELLOOO you are plantinum blonde!! Never gonna get it to go black!! Don't worry though, because  when he remembers that you where there when he was dumped the first time, he'll come crawling back. Either that, or I'll make him remember i.e. hurting him. xx
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Yeah, I can tell you why: it's her house, it's her rules. He's old enough to move out--and he should, before the two of you even think about living together. Maybe it's his mum's subtle way of cutitng the apron stings--figuring that if she sets these stringent rules, he'll get fed up and move out and start acting like the grownup that he should be. Does he pay her rent? Does he contribute to the bills? Does he help around the house? There's gotta be a really good reason why she treats him in this manner.
579995
It's just ignorrance. Forgive him. He may not have the capacity to understand how inappropriate he is. With free speech comes the ugly side. Tell her that people like him may not be mature enough to get it. Thanks for being so supportive of her feelings.
589010
Have you lost your mind?! Do you know any part of the story? Whetther it be true or via media? He used to like puching his women, to show off his ego, well story goes that She knocked him out for beating up on her too much and that's why they are no longer together. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Even the most beautiful, have their quirks.
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Honestly what do you expect?  I mean it is your BEST FRIEND'S EX.  Even if she says she's cool about, deep down inside she might not be.  Why don't you ASK her why she keeps bashing your man.  She could be jealous, or she could be telling the truth about how he really acts.  I have two friends who are MARRIED to my ex's, and I'm completely fine with it.  I never knock their hubbies or anything. Of course both of their hubbies are good guys, and I dumped them.
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not to sound mean,  but the guy sounds like a loser. He just had sex with her, he prob loves her, my best advice, stay away. There are probably so many other guys that r intrested in u.
197195
You are jealous of their relationship and you have no reason to she is his sister, you are his girlfriend. He loves his sister and hopefully he loves you(I can't really say for sure, I don't know you all) but if you force a division between them in any way he will resent you for it.
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If you are still in High school, talk to the school administration, they may be able to set up limits as well as getting him to realize that she wants nothing to do with him.  If you are older and fear for her safety.  Look into a restraining order.
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He doesn't really love her if he likes someone else. He has to be respectful of her parents if he really cares. Her parents are doing the right thing and protecting her from major harm. What's wrong with being a concerned parent? When you are a parent, you will understand. I think it will all work out when he goes away to school. The relationship will fizzle and just as well. Except for a few exceptions, young relationships will not last. Stop worrying.
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I was 17 and it was our first date. He was 17 too. We went to Makoto in Dothan. We were fine until his girlfriend showed up. I had no idea he had a gf. She punched me in my face so I stood up and knocked the s*** out of her. Then he stood up and told me he was sorry but I told him to take me home NOW. And then Isaid don't ever tlk to me again or ask me out again. He took me home and never spoke to me again.
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He is married.  There is a good chance he won't leave his wife for you so if you get involved with him you are setting yourself up not only for heartache but also for his wife to come after you with a shotgun.  What if you got pregnant?  He wouldn't be free to marry you!  I'd steer very clear of that one, hon.  Resist temptation.  Buy a Battery Operated Boyfriend if you must or work off your frustration on another guy friend.\n\nEven if he did leave her for you, you'd always wonder if he was screwing around on you with another girl - cause he did with you!!!!\n\nYou are nothing but a conquest to him.  Young and naive.  Don't fall for it as so many have!  \n\nIt is also against school policy I am sure. He could get fired and you could get expelled.
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As much as you seem to love this man I think you deserve a hell of alot better!  This man does not respect you as a wife or as a person.  He takes your feelings and stomps all over them.  He is being totally immature and sounds like a totally controlling man.  YOU deserve a man who is going to love you,respect your feelings, and wont run out like a spoiled child when u have a disagreement!  Temper Tantrums r for 3 year olds not grown men.  And the fact that he didnt even want to save the marriage and go to counseling says volumes about the kind of man he really is.  LET HIM GO!  Find a real man!  Life is way too short to be spending it in a loveless marriage.  I met my hubby in 10th grade in highschool and we have now been married 22 years!  My husband would never dream of treating me like this!  Cuz he knows Id kick his butt!  smile!  Get rid of him, let him run, let him take the cowards way out.  YOU told him u would file for divorce if he left again- and he left.  THAT alone says he doesnt care about the marriage.  I feel so badly for you, I know this has to be hurting you terribly and wish I could wave a magic wand and make it all better for u but unfortunately I cant.  But I do believe in you.  You r a strong woman.  YOU can do this and you will find a man who will truly love you I PROMISE!  Lose this guy and get yourself a real man!  Good luck to u
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Sounds like he still has some growing up to do before he can commit to a relationship with anyone.  Just make it clear to him that if he is going to get mad and jealous then he needs to either make a commitment or walk away because your not going to keep going through this same old dance with him all the time.
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Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!