i ask for opinions about mixed wreslting is it ok if i quit and dont fight her or i most fight to end , she is goodbuilt girl i fraid to loss or submit to her or its ok
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Hell man I don't know where your from, BUT I know a few women who work construction and they could most likely whip your butt good. You better be careful. That can be a bit embarrassing to get beat up by a girl even in wrestling. UNLESS of course your doing it for a sexual type thing. And then if she isn't into it you could get beat severely.
166691
I think you shouldn't lower yourself far enough to worry about what someone who is so obviously ignorant thinks.  Does it really matter to you what she thinks of you?  Does it change who you really are?  I would try to see that the things she says come from her own issues and that they have nothing to do with who i am.  Think about it...if she does this and you have no reaction to it how much fun will it be for her to continue doing it? If her goal is to hurt or bother you and you respond to that you are simply feeding hre monsters and giving her what she wants, also you could be proving that what she says about you is true by allowing her to provoke negative behavior from you.  She is disturbed, stay away from her, but don't waste your energy on her or let her rob you of peace of mind she isn't worth it.
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ja :) , that's funny you must be very handsome or something :P ; I'm also sort of jelous sometimes but I wouldn't beat someone because of that .\n\nI don't know, I think you should tell her what do you feel about it, just tell her that you really love her but the situation doesn't make you comfortable;  she will either understand you ...or beat you :), but at the end you'll feel more confident for doing it, you are nobody's possesion, it may feel good sometimes that she cares so much about you, but keep in mind that it also can hurt you at the end , believe me you don't want to end up being dependant ; is a good thing you realized it now, anyway....good luck :)
83196
I would let it be. Let her do whatever she wants. And if something bad happens DON"T blame yourself.\n\n\nGood Luck :)
629839
I am a counselor, and your counselor's suggestion sounds "sound". Submitting might be a challenge..just as taking charge will also be a challenge for her. By taking on one another's roles you both get the opportunity to see where the other is coming from.\nI don't think this is a question of right or wrong, but rather a question of whether or not you really want to submit.
558449
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
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A girl(woman) should be who she wants to be. Wether she smokes or drinks. If you love her, you'll love ALL of her. But, yes there is a but, she should stay with just one b/f. Love does conquer all, at least it should
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Hey chicky,  I know how you feel.. me & my bf fight constantly too.  Sometimes I wonder if its normal or not.  I get really sick of it too sometimes .. occassionally to the point where I dont care if the relationship ends.  But we are still together.  Are you living together?  My bf & me only moved in together 6 months ago.. we used to fight before that but not as bad as when we moved in with each other.  I think maybe you guys need to do stuff apart every now & then just so you can have your own space.  Think about it .. if you had a sister who you saw every day forever you would get sick of her too & fight with her.  Its the same with your man.  Try not to fight over the little things that dont mean much,  think about what it is that you are fighting about & ask yourself.. is it even worth breaking up over this?  If you answer No then get over it.. be the one to end the fight first.  Even if he keeps going dont let yourself get worked up, its hard trust me but it will only make it worse if you are both going at it.  Tell him you dont want to fight & that your going for a walk or something & wait for him to cool down then you will talk to him about the issue.  Remember that anyone can fight, but its the people who's relationships that last through the fights that are the strongest.
600076
There is good and bad in all people.  I think as long as she isn't hurting anyone, you should consider her to be good.
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Yes, don't fight. It takes 2 to argue. You can't manipulate how someone is going to act or control any outcomes. You can only control yourself and act with integrity and love. Just be genuine with one another. Don't be afraid to be the 1st to apologize.  It is NOT fair, but that is love. That is love.  Yes, things sound strong, just TESTED between the two of you. Here are some good vibes and blessings from me to you that things go well!\n\nI know how you feel... I had a big blow out with my sweetie this morning. He apologized and so did I.  At least you two expressed hurt that comes from CARING, not hurt from NOT CARING.\n\nPeace.
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dude i am a jeolous guy, just to let you know before i answer.  \ni would be fucking pissed that she is doing that you have every right to be jeolous, i would beat his ass, but talk to them BOTH first then beat his ass, works for me!
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Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
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tell her your ready but i want to do the basics first and after your down and your ready tell her i think its time to try if your not good its OK that always happens don't worry about cant find it or is it OK for you just do it girls like guys for beaning them tell her straight out that you want it but need to learn
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OK. as a guy, who has done that, i was tempted to do that time and time again. but my girl keeps me in check(m not pu**y whipped). she is more than i can handle. which is good. she is not forgiving, but she knows how to punish me. i mean, she loves me, and she knows that i love her. it has been three years now, and i havent even looked at another girl (matter of speaking). she trusts me, and boy, that is all i need.
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nothing wrong in letting her know as long as you dont try to break up her current relationship and dont hang around waiting for them to split up. However if they do finish, then make sure you're THE man and not mr rebound.
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I think you are great don't change. Just learn. Do what is best for you b/c no one else will. She obviously has made her choice actions speak louder than words. You've shown her that you care and that's all you can do. You've done your best it was good enough you just didn't find that person who will appreciate it. Keep your head up potna cause you'll get that chance over all over again. But don't you overlook it for someone like this again.
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In my opinion no i dont think its wrong. If u feel its right and you lvoe being the way you are why should it be wrong? Go with what you love and stick with it no matter what others say.