I  masturbate regularly but i do not get aroused to the maximum and also the amount of ejaculate is very less.I would like to know about different methods of arousal and methods by which i can ejaculate the maximum load.
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Gee, I guess the previous posters think everything's a joke. One method is to stroke yourself up to the point of climax, but then stopping. Wait awhile, do it again, etc. These 'mini sessions' may cause you to shoot more when you finally let it rip.
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hey buster- \nSo- you're trying to get more distance from your ejaculations?\n\nstand in front of a mirror and 'fluff' your c_ck a bit - getting some blood in there.\n\nWhen you contract the muscle between your _ss and your balls your c_ck should bob up a bit- or a lot if you are aroused- think of these as push ups.\n\nOnce you get the hang of it you can do this with your pants on.  Then try to flex and hold for a few seconds- flex and hold.\n\nAs you develop the muscle you may actually drape a towel over a semi-h_rd - on and and LIFT- LIFT.\n\nYou can also do these whilst er_ct- lay on your back and flex - try to get more lift- each time and HOLD- lift and hold\n\nHave fun !\n\nTomFnlnd@aim.com
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Did you practise holding back when you masturbated growing up. Basically every time I masturbated growing up I'm practising holding back and recognizing the feeling of getting close then backing off. Its just slowing down or slightly changing your rhythm. Its a practise thing. Also pulling out (if slowing down doesn't help) and tapping your glans (tip) against your wife's vagina will stop you from climaxing if you are getting close. (the part facing away from your belly button) Other ways to help prevent climax. Wear a condom. Masturbate relatively often or have sex more often. I have a much harder time holding back if I haven't ejaculated in a while. Experiment with your body in this regard. They also have creams that supposedly delay climax. I've never tried them so I don't know how effective they are. The solution is in here. Good luck.
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Well.well, maybe time to come out of closet, I ejaculate like I'm peeing but it's not, just like you guys we can cum just as much if not more than you do....\nI have never thought it strange cos all my life (sexual) it has happened , funny tho cos partners have asked if I had wet myself LOL, I call it being a healthy robust woman who has great orgasms...so there is a bit of  trivial info ..LOL
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I agree with someone above. Masturbating is all in your head. Before you begin think of sexy arousing thoughts. Once you're horney and ready to begin get some warming sensation lubricant and apply it to both your vagina and fingers. First begin with one finger and softly and slowly rub the clit. After a minute get slightly faster and harder. It will be ready for more once you've excercised with slow motions. Get deeper while rubbing your nipples or anus. Nipple lubrication is important. You'll get wet, use that liquid for more lubricant and rub yourself even more. Soon you'll be having some excellent masturbation. \n\n*Other tip, use a vibrator for a fantastic sensation*
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Don't worry.  I'm almost 30 and I still masturbate 1-3 times everyday.  When I was your age it might've been worse.  I was still able to make two children after all that sperm from my teenage years went down the shower drain and into the toilet wrapped in tissues.\n\nAlso, the consistency and volume of your sperm will often change.  When I was your age, I often shot blanks when I masturbated, because I wasn't allowing the pressure to build up.\n\nIf you are with a woman, and you make out for a while before having sex, so you are arroused longer, you will probably find that your semen is thicker with greater volume.\n\nTry this:  Rest for a day.  Then, when you masturbate, try to keep yourself arroused for as long as possible before ejaculating.  Don't let yourself finish in less than 20 minutes.  You'll probably find that your volume and thickness of the fluid is OK.
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let the ejaculation build up as far as you can, hold the tip of your penis just below the head and let the pressure build and time your ejaculation with letting your grip on your penis loosen and that should give you some distance.  Have fun, and be careful not to blind the dog.
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Only you can feel if it's as hard as it's going to get. Masturbate almost to the point of orgasm and then measure it. That will be the hardest it's going to get.
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The guy above me is an idiot.\n\nIf you need more tips on masturbation, check out www.jackinworld.com.\n\nOr just talk to your guy friends, they might know something you don't.
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You're not strong, and you're weak, too? How is that possible? \nYour solution, watery ejaculate means that you masturbate too much. You're going to rub it away. Viscosity descreased because you jerk too much, and you don't drink enough water. Get zinc and vitamin E. An herb that helps is arginine, but really quit choking the chicken so much.
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FEMALE EJACULATION\nI did alot of research last year on this subject.\n\nyou are hitting the G Spot! it is a fluid that accumilates in this sac like tissue that is located near or connected to the clit as you keep touch the G-Spot, If you put your finger in a upward position (like as if you were telling someone to come here) you should feel it, it would feel a little tough or ridgety, becareful every women body differs from the next, some women may feel discomfort if it is touch by the finger and some won't. Once it fills up it squirts out and that can happen during intercourse or when it is time to *** or shall I say the Correct Term Ejacalate. the smell differ, and and it is mainly clear. some women could shot it from across the room.\n\nIt is an Awesome thing. \n\nSome Women Mistaken it for urinating in the Bed during sex but they are not!There is nothing to be ashamed of it is a GIFT!\n\nExperience
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i have the same problem and i posted here about it.  they said that it comes with age and some are real shooters and some are not.  but i would definitely like to go back how it used to be.\n\nduring sex, im quite sure that sometimes i ejaculated with a much faster velocity since i can feel it.  few months ago, i was out of town and i have to do it alone, i was so aroused that it shot like it used to.  so i guess, other than age, level of arousal also plays a part.
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ive read that only like 10% of women actually can ejaculate and it is due to really intense orgasms...maybe she just cant do it, but be glad that she orgasms regularly...your doing your job and im sure she's happy with what you're doing...
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read this article\nhttp://www.edpills.net/article_premature_ejaculation.php\n\nIn fact, there's NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological. To cure premature ejaculation requires a combination of products that simultaneously attack and eliminate each cause. Only Last-Longer has a combination of products strong enough to eliminate ALL aspects of both the physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.\nQuite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn't, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.\n\nDon't tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability, the "point of no return." Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it's not difficult to make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.\n\nSexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.\n\nTo learn ejaculatory control:\n\n* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.\n* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.\n* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.\n* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.\n* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this s
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Masturbation is a very healthy way to release.  I would not suggest doing it daily...perhaps once or twice a week.  This is simply because it becomes harder to respond to a partner (you always know EXACTLY where to touch, pressure, rhythum, etc.  Just make sure you wash with soap and water BEFORE AND AFTER.
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Jerk off before intercourse.\n\nLearn how to delay orgasm during your own masturbation. It takes some practice but you can 'retrain' your body. Most guys have originally trained themselves to get off as quickly as possible so they don't get caught or because they have no privacy or whatever. This can be reversed.
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I heard this from a doctor on a sex show a long time ago. You basically masturbate until right before you are going to ejaculate, and you immediately stop. Keep doing that. It will increase your endurance and you will be able to last longer in bed. Yes, it definitely works.