but they will not hang out with them?
133366
Maybe it makes them feel rebellious and like they are expressing themselves.  Choosing a style isn't the same as choosing friends.  I'm not saying its right to avoid a group of people for something like skin color, nationality, etc.  But...teenagers are just learning to be who they are and understand where they fit in...sometimes they have a hard time accepting people they don't readily identify with.
467726
They probably just don't like you
495499
they weren't really your friends to begin with. friends don't "forget" about each other.
191573
You give them the space they need. If it is meant to be they will come back and if not hopefully you can remain friends.
171811
why are yo trying to please them, maybe thats why they feel like your leeching on them, screw them they are not friends believe me
190062
because they can't act the way they aren't... just a guess
172415
It's the heat of the moment and they won't get the same effect as at a hockey game or church.  They would risk getting expelled from those other places.
319140
They are not listening.
293220
Ignore them. If they see that they don't affect you, they will leave you alone.
14015
You need to work on finding some friends because you're right to realize that these are not friends.
626232
Kinda...do you collect or play. If you play with them you may have problems. You need to make real friends.
88871
It is really difficult to understand exactly what you are asking.  Do you mean the cousins won't talk to each other?  And how do you fit in?  Sounds like something you should just stay out of.
91073
Probably relieved, the "can still be friends" bit is just a way for must to ease thier own guilt, they just want OUT!!!
651390
They don't sound like very good friends.  Your free to do what you want with our without them.  But also,  If you start doing stuff exclusively without them all the time they could think that you don't want to be friends anymore and be angry.  I lost a friend once because I wanted to spend time with my family and didn't stop by her house when I was in town.  But I figure we must not have been that good of friends if she would ditch me over something like that.
271812
Why stop them? Whey not leave them alone? Maybe they think you should be stopped. Wouldn't you like them to leave you alone?\n\nThings work better when you leave people alone and mind your own business. That applies not only to Muslims but also Christians, Republicans and the Politically Correct.\n\nAnd another thing. NO principles are ideal for all people.
298880
Hi,maybe they are not really loyal friends,just aquaintances.
131966
is this group is a good one? I mean, are they good friend of u (truly friends)? If that so, why don't u ask them why they don't want u close to those person. if they have strong reason for that (ex. those person are junkies, etc), then just follow it. \n\nbut if they don't have good reason, ask urself, do u really want to be a part of a group who don't want to socialize with person outside the group just because ur group don't like that person? \n\nbe true to urself, do u feel comfortable with it?