I dont get enuff attention at home..i beg for it..hes 26 im 29...youde think hed like sex..there is physically nothing all that bad about me..i do think im attractive , at leaste attractive enuff to get more action then im getting from him...I cant stop cheating..It all started when i got online.So now what..should i get rid of my internet..i like it..i like the attention..I need it...what should i do?.
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I need it too.....write me!!!!!!
615157
As long as it is what you want and it is not being forced on you or causing you to have self esteem issues, go for it. Maybe because you are so independent in your life you like to be able to take a break and let someone else take control in the bedroom. Some people have a hard time handing over the control.
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I like to go online as a woman from time to time and can't believe all the whacked out guys who come on to me like I am a piece of meat for their pleasure.  It's really disgusting.  I am thinking of lowering my age down to 14 and trying that for a while.  I'd like to get two guys to come and meet me at the same place at the same time and see what happens, or to give them my address and tell them my mommy and daddy are not home and to please come to my house and play nasty with me... only my house would turn out to be the local police department. Moral: you never know to whom you are talking in a chat room or on instant messenger. Pedophiles get what they deserve.
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look, its not evil, but the truth is if you started something, on his side it would be purely sexual. simply put, your agaes arent that far apart, but al lot happens between 17 and 22, a lot more than between 80 and 86. thats just the way of the world.  it might be fun for a while, no denying that, but it wont work out, and youll end up hurt. hes not moving because he knows that, and good for him.  or because you live somewhere that 17 is underage,a and hes waiting for next year. i know this can drive you nuts, and his attention is flattering, but move on, find some one a little closer to your age.  it stinks.  sorry.
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It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
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If you are comfortable in how you look.... That is all that matters.  Pardon me for saying this, but this guy sounds like a jerk.  How come you are staying with him if you feel that he does not find you attractive?  Perhaps you should move on to somebody that will love you for "you" and not need to turn to porn for sexual gratification.  \nHave you ever just confronted him and ask if he finds you appealing in a sexual way?  I still think it is time for you to start looking for a better relationship.\n\nI can't believe you offered to let him take pictures of you, and he declined..... Most guys would jump at the chance to take some hot pics.  \n\nIf he is making you feel stupid or ugly, you really don't need that in your life!  A good partner in a relationship should make you feel happy, and he should not be afraid to show you exactly how much you mean to him.... At least that is my opinion...  If you want to "vent" more about this situation, you can always email me.. I am a good listener.\n\nI wish you luck!  I hope things improve for you!  don't let this guy get you down!
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I understand how you are feeling. Not that it has happened to me but I can imagine how it would make you feel. I am married and if my wife were conversing with another man over the internet, I would be concerned. But if she went to all the trouble to wipe out the conversation logs. I would be doubly concerned. Yea, he may give you some reason as a matter of security, but he should have no problem in letting you see those logs before he deletes them. \n\nSome time ago, I was talking to another woman over the internet but as a rule, I would never say nothing negative about my wife. Of course you should not anyway. But we all get mad. And if we start talking to another woman or man about how we are unhappy about our spouses, we are opening the door for an internet affair. Another thing is I would try to get my wife to read the logs because I would let her know I talked to an online woman and I wanted her to be secure. \n\nTalk to your husband about it. Tell him you need to feel more secure about this. People are leaving spouses all the time and flying across the country for people they never seen. And tell him it would protect him too because you love him so much
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I know what you mean when you said you are addicted to this site... me, i cant stop answering peoples questions either. Anyway, you can contact me if you need to talk about your problems with your boyfriend. Have a nice day.
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Porn is addictive, and is very hard to break free of.  If you're worried about it now, don't let yourself be fooled by the idea that he'll stop soon.  If he's that into it, it'll take more than you fussing at him to make him stop.  The good news is that it does not necessarily mean that he does not find you attractive.  Guys have a way of separating fact from fiction in this way.  This is not a good thing, but it's probably the allure of the women in the pictures (ie, the fact that they're 'willing and ready to  go) more than the fact that they are thin or have huge, uh, body parts.  He needs an ultimatum.  Them or you.
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all men get horny in the morning, it doesn't mean they have to have sex...it's a few minutes feeling that they can ignore.... come on, he can save it for the evening to be with you ! please don't settle for that, this thing is addictive and it's already showing :"almost every day"... and the stress part is pathetic, aren't you under stress too ?! does that make you watch porn every day??? This is how you should talk to him and be firm, try to find a compromise at least, or believe me, you're heading right into a marriage disaster ! Good Luck
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Rubbish, all these people forcing thier morals on you.  If you feel a need to sleep with him, and you want too, do it.  Yes, he may be married, but, he is not going to stop looking just because you turn him down.  If you seduced him, then you are at fault, if harmless flirtation turned into something else, that is nature.  You know that this is just a physical thing and nothing will come out of it, but a little fun, if your ok with that,and can deal with it at work, then have fun.  Guess what people, the wife knows, she just prefers not to admit it, get real.  This woman is not a home wrecker of any kind, and you should not be bashing her.
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First off are you married just for the convenience or do you love your husband? Have you met the man you think you are in love with from the computer? I have met alot of men from the internet and most of them are nothing like they say. Speaking from experience no one who is married is ever going tio leave their significant other because that is a security blanket. Fix what is wrong in your marriage before you find yourself completely alone this is advice that I had to take because I was in the same boat. Mine was not fixable so I just divorced him and now date men who I meet outside the internet and know they are single.
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You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings!  We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room!  Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed!  Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood.  You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges?  We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into!  Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about.  You do well to listen to people with experience and age.  Don't fight them and their advice!  They really know what's good for you and people your age.  If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard.  Good luck and have fun!
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Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
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I believe its a hormonal thing and you still need to feel sexy and attractive to other men.Its quite normal as we get older to still feel like we can or want to get some one elses attention other than our spouses.As long as you dont TOUCH...you`re ok!...Good luck and have fun!
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cheating was wrong. and you were right to make him earn your trust back. But i would not get to bent out of shape about porn. It IS just looking with no personal contact. Besides 90% of men in America look at porn, the Internet is just a new way to get it instead of buying magazines in a store. But if you are really uncomfortable as you sound i would seek couples counseling to see what is going on. It will help more than you know.
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It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.