one of my closest friend told me that she feels tickling while making love...she gets uneasy with this weird tickling while her bf kisses or touches her intimately.....wat do ya think this supposed to be..a disease?if so, den wat can be da solution?
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Tickling doesn't prove she loves him!\n\nit means she is either shy or nervous.
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No, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are confused about your feelings for her.  She is your best friend and it natural to feel drawn to her, but that doesn't mean you are attracted to her sexually.  You enjoy her company, as you should.  Don't act on your feelings for her until you are sure about yourself and how you feel.  In the meantime enjoy life and keep her as a friend.  She may not have the same kind of feelings you are having.
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Dr. Drew on LOve Line says that it is probably normal muscle spasms..........i have experienced this once or twice myself and , yes, it is weird! try massaging them a little when it happens.
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I agree with Dr. Phil-lys!! And not only because she is hot!\n\nMy female best friend is there as a sexual release when I dont have a girlfriend or current affair. But it is also nice just to spend the night together without sex, but cuddling. Yes, I admit it. I like to cuddle without sex. I am a wuss.
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it is not becouse of kissing or any other activity, as per your description it seems to be an autoimmune disorder called alopecia areata (if it is creating patch)
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She obviously feels a little awkward about being "touchy-feely" with you.  Maybe she thinks you will view it as a sexual overture, when she really does not want to have sex.  Maybe she thinks it is too forward for a woman to be touchy feely. Whatever the reason, why dopn't you try to TELL her what you would like in this situation.
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Don't panick or feel terrible over this. I don't know about your problem, but I have heard of this before. From what I understand, it's not dangerous, but you might want a doctor to take a look at it. Really, this is the only way that your mind will be put at ease. I wish you the best.
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go slow and be very gently with her...i have the same problem..me and my guy...he takes his time and loves on me when he inserts to help take my mind off the pain...don't be too anxious...slow is the key...
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I would advise your control tolerance being trained...daily set aside time to discipline your reaction to "things that tickle" over a period of time with moderation... "a little tickle is cute" ( : it is not a bad thing to be sensitive as long as you can control it not to be annoying to you or offensive to others.
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i dunno how to make feet ticklish? and being tickled is hard to explain the feeling...i guess it feels like, well i dunno, but i do know that it gives your nerves a feeling so strong it will always make you lauph, no madder what! but ur lucky u cant feel it, my sister gives my serprise tickle attacks and it can be torture because you can not control it!
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear this.  Anything I might say is a guess.  It does sound like an infection of some sort.  Maybe it's viral though, which antibiotics won't help.  Some of your symptoms sound like an ear infection.  The low sex drive could be just because you dont' feel good, plus the antidepressants could be causing that too.  The sweaty palms, definitely sounds like you sugar levels, which you said they were fine, but it is only sometimes sweaty, so it could by hypoglycemia.  The tiredness could be from the antidepressant too.  There is something missing here.\nDid he just take a standard test for sugar?  Maybe a test for hypoglycemia.  Hope things get better for you...
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I hope you're still reading answers.  This is more common than you probably think.  Dr. Phil did an entire episode on this and has an entire section on his website.  After reading many psychology and relationship books and going to 4 years of therapy plus couples counseling with some very renound doctors in Los Angeles, I realized how many people have issues with intimacy.  Sex is intimacy.  Many men result to porn because there is a disassociation with having to get really intimate.  They can just get to the point.  In most societies, men aren't taught how to become intimate (vulnerable).  It's viewed as a weakness.  Only in relationships through a strong women's leadership does a man learn a lot of those behaviors.  I don't think your problem is physical as much as it is emotional and mental.  The categories we fall into as far as priorites are the following: for men it's Physical, Mental, Emotional, Spiritual.  For women it's Emotional, Mental, Physical, Spiritual.  you can see that we are clearly programmed different.  The key is trying to find a good balance.  Trying to get in touch with each other's vulnerabilities.  I totally disagree with the comment of look at it with him.  That only distances you more.  Not an option.  You have to gently lead him and teach him (without him realizing he's being taught) how to get into the mental and emotional part of intimacy (sex).  You can do this several ways:  when you're NOT in bed, ask him "what was the worst thing an old girlfriend did to you?"  this gives you insight into his fears or insecurities and then acknowledge that that couldn't have been easy for him.  Second: what do you like most about sex?  Really important to pick up clues here.  He will either describe very physical things OR things like "I like to see you naked, I like to touch, I like this, that".  This says that he is in touch with the mental-good!  And learn to play on those likes.  Also, do not feel ashamed to say "listen, I have to say that it bothers me when you look at porn because I feel inadaquate as a women, I feel like I'm not good enough, I feel threatened that I can't measure up and I'd really like you to stop".  The Harville Hendrix book (NY Times best seller and on Oprah all the time) is a fabulous book.  changed my life, Oprah's and many others!!!
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It is related to anxiousness.  You have to have at least a small bit of fear.  A small child can't tickle anyone.\nYou must be better able to protect your right side.
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How to win a tickle fight...Fine someone more ticklish than you are. If I ever find a woman more ticklish than me, I'll let you know. LOL
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Perhaps he has an infection and you should take him to see his doctor?  I'm  surprised that he likes to whack it so much since he's only 8.  Good for him, I guess.  Since he rubs it so much it's probably just sore and you should try to keep him from doing that.  If it's the kind of "itch" that I think you're talking about then maybe a little sex talk might be in order..... mainly just to let him know it's normal, and it's okay.... in private.
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Not normal to me and I've been with my husband for almost 20 years. To each their own though. I have a friend that only has sex when she wants to have a baby and thinks that this is the only time they need to have any intimate contact. Funny world sometimes.
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I have a friend at work that is a no-touch gal--& I'm super feely!  She told me during a conversation about massages that she hates to be touched.  I have spread the word amongst others and she says it has gotten easier for her--no-one tries to hug/touch her as much.\nMy advise, tell a friend how you feel and ask if  they could casually pass it on.\nGood luck and no hug!