Apparently, an abusive and unfaithful man is "interesting".
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Of course the saying goes to each cat their own rat. Not everyone loves the bad boys and most nice guys eventually do win in one form or another. The most interesting thing ive heard as to why this occurs is that its some kind of evolutionary kick in type of thing. When looking for someone to mate with, pass on you genes, stop the biological clocks ticking, whatever you want to call it, women (conciously or not) look for a dominant, assertive, more evolutionarily "fit" man. These type of guys are typically the ones you describe, though they arent all abusive and unfaithful as much as they are assertive and aggressive. If you believe women decide what role a man is going to play very shortly after they meet them, then it stands to reason that a more assertive approach = more response from women, as a boring or too nice approach takes a little longer to cultivate.
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I don't know of any culture in which that kind of behavior is accepted. The guy is either BS'ing you or he is a pervert.
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awwwww.... lookie here... erudite trying to change his name as to not be recognized....\n\nall the while it just not appear to him that his little FABRICATED stories are SO EASY to recognize
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He's pretty hot, and ugly in the same time. It's a weird thing. It's a Chris thing.
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This person has issues.  So... what happened?  Do tell.
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The boy has issues. I imagine right now he is borderline psycho or gonna stalk you if you find someone else.
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You should report it because if you dont he will do it again to someone else...its good that you were able to move on with your life but it might not be so easy for his next victim.
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Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
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He's ok..i like him..but then agn i wouldnt call him the nicest person i know...i dont recall any incident in which he has behaved badly though.
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F*cking weirdo.......
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yup sorry to tell ya but sounds like he's a pervert.\n\ngo see some one esle but i would have him turned in cause he does not need to be doing this to any one ever again right \n\ndont let him do this to some one else!!!
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Studies have shown that men who are abusive rarely change.  As much as you may love him, and as much as he may love you, it's not worth risking your life to be with him.
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oh yeah, he's definitely a stalker.\n\nhe's a scary guy.
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Some people, in spite of their good qualities, have character flaws that make them 'control' freaks say...When he is not in control, he 'punishes' his wife...his own ego is so small, that he has to put her down,...for fear that she will get some attention, and that he will lose control of her...He must have some good qualities,..that are admirable...but many people are just plain spoiled rotten and when they don't get their way, they act like this....it is sickening...and I would ignore his actions if at all possible...like a spoiled rotten brat...don't let him think he has got to you...but the name calling...he makes an *** out of himself anyway...no need to say anything
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It has nothing to do with the woman.  The man has power issues--he wants control in an unhealthy way.
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Sounds like he's dealing with a dominatrix, naughty boy
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no I thought I knew him dated 6 years but now he turned abusive and I never thought he would do that.by the way thanks for your rude answer to my question.a person never deserves to be abused even if I was bitter which I wasn't I just wanted him to show he cared.but after being abused by someone I thought loved me and would never hurt me yes I am bitter now.