I have a problem with masturbating. I can't stop. Sometimes I do it twice a day. So I want to know any tips on how to stop.
120556
Fill your time with something that is less self-centered and selfish.  Select a topic and become an expert at it and read all you can.  Do something for others.
199736
How do you masturbate?
516715
Hmmm . . . sounds like it could be a diet problem too.  Maybe you aren't eating enough.  But if masturbation affects your voice, maybe you should see a doctor.  It doesn't sound very healthy to have that problem.  Good night!
167769
Well, you could try meditating. What's wrong with masterbating? It's yours, why shouldn't you be allowed to play with it?
633258
Any time you have lust that is accumulated to such a degree I'd say it is natural to masturbate.  If you really have it bad, not only 4 days out of a week but a couple of times a day.  You probably became so frustrated (blue balls) that you could not expect to continue the long courtship, which is probably culturally necessitated.  You tried, but obvisously couldn't hang.  Is it possible to speak to her and suggest that at least once a month you meet at a motel and exchange physical liaison away from parents, since you plan to marry or is that totally out of the question?  Don't blame you for masturbating pal, but if she is unavailable, I'd try to satisfy craving away from parents.
574458
Masturbation is a very healthy way to release.  I would not suggest doing it daily...perhaps once or twice a week.  This is simply because it becomes harder to respond to a partner (you always know EXACTLY where to touch, pressure, rhythum, etc.  Just make sure you wash with soap and water BEFORE AND AFTER.
577832
How can masturbating excessively so often bad for you? And what is impotence EXACTLY?\n \nMasturbation is neither good nor bad, depending on how often you can afford to do so without affecting the functions of other organs. In one recently published study, ninety-five percent of men and eighty-seven percent of women have practiced masturbation occasionally. The study further indicated those men usually experience an orgasm when they masturbate and learn how to masturbate before engaging in any sexual intercourse. Another important finding showed males who masturbate frequently during adolescence continue this sexual behavior into their adulthood with the frequency increasing. Is this addictive behavior of masturbation harmful to your body? To answer this question, one has to understand how ejaculating works. An orgasm or ejaculation discharges the bioelectric energy (bio-energy) stored by the parasympathetic nervous subsystem via the sympathetic nervous action. It is supposed to discharge the bio-energy stored in the sexual organs. This is why an orgasm is associated with a burst and subsequent release of tension. When the sexual organs are insufficiently charged, the sympathetic system will draw the energy from other organs, deactivating the associated organs and slowing down the response of the Central Nervous System (CNS) which is the commander of the endocrine and nervous function. So, frequent masturbation and consequent ejaculation will result in depleting other organs of bio-energy since the sexual organs can’t support the release of bio-energy being drawn from over-masturbation. The association of masturbation with guilt and anxiety is partly due to the ignorance of the fact masturbation is not harmful. These negative sentiments are partly due to centuries of religious teachings that masturbating is sinful. In addition, many of us have received negative messages about masturbation from our parents or have even been punished when caught masturbating as children. The cumulative effect of these influences is usually confusion and guilt, which is often difficult to sort out. However, the only time masturbation can be ‘bad’ or harmful is when it becomes compulsive. Compulsive masturbation, like all other compulsive behaviors, is a sign of an emotional problem and needs to be addressed by a mental health specialist. Sex, of course, is extremely pleasurable and all things pleasurable are addictive. Over-masturbation can cause serious problems that aren’t limited to the bedroom. Frequent masturbation should be addressed. So, contrary to ancient and popular beliefs, masturbation does not lead to unbridled lust, make you blind or deaf, give you the flu, drive you crazy, grow hair on your hand, make you stutter, or kill you. Rather, masturbation is a natural and harmless expression of sexuality in both men and women and a perfectly good way to experience sexual pleasure. In fact, some experts argue that masturbation improves sexual health by increasing an individual's understanding of his or her own body and of what is erotically pleasing, building self-confidence and fostering self-acceptance. This knowledge can then be carried forth to make for a more satisfying sexual relationship with one's partner, both through each partner's comfort with mutual masturbation and because of the ability to tell each other what is most pleasing. It is a good idea for a couple to discuss their attitudes about masturbation and to calm any insecurities a partner may have if the other should sometimes favor masturbation over sexual intercourse. In some relationships, masturbation may be mutually acceptable. Done alone or in the presence of a partner, the act can be pleasing and add to mutual intimacy if it is not experienced as a rejection. Like most behaviors, without proper communication, the act of masturbation can be a sign of anger, alienation, or displeasure with the way the relationship is progressing.Overcoming society&#
267721
Yes that certainly is a problem and unfortunately there is no solution. That is something you are just going to live with but masturbation has nothing to do with it. Good luck!
555314
I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
268840
Im a girl and I dont see whats wrong with this question.\nIm 19, and caucasian.\nI masturbate between once a day and once every two days.
619547
You could masturbate the entire day and it wouldn't hurt.  You'd be tired, but it wouldn't cause any problems beside that.  Do it as many times as you feel comfortable with.  There's no shame in it.
281186
For many years, children caught pleasuring themselves were punished and told that they would either be headed for Hell or that they would go blind if they continued to masturbate. Of course, these statements had their roots in the puritanical Christian society which dominated the United States and many other countries and still does to some extent. In fact, in earlier translations of the King James Bible, the passages which now refer to homosexuality were allegedly translated to mean masturbation. At that time in history, pleasing one's self was seen to be the bigger sin.\n\nIn recent years, however, masturbation has become more accepted for both males and females. College courses on human sexuality now provide sections on masturbation, and many parenting manuals deal with the best ways to affirm your child's self-pleasuring habits rather than degrading them. Furthermore, there seem to be many sex therapists whose belief is that, to have better sexual experiences with a partner, an individual needs to learn the art of masturbation first. The premise behind this is quite logical: self-pleasure is the best way to learn what you like and don't like in your sexual acts.\n\nWhile many people believe that masturbating comes naturally, others might be hesitant or unsure of what to do in order to pleasure themselves.\n\nThe bottom line is that masturbation doesn't involve secret or complex techniques. Just do what makes you feel good whether that might be simple clitoral manipulation with a hand or finger or the use of sex toys. Most importantly, although many people might still paint a shameful picture around masturbation, the act itself is normal and natural from a biological standpoint. The morality of the issue, on the other hand, is something which each individual needs to deal with on a personal level. \nOther issues associated with masturbation such as the use of  pornography can be addictive and destructive to normal relationships with others. As far as weather masturbation is beneficial or helpful, it can be. It can be a great release for tension. I think it also helps to regulate hormones in your blood that would otherwise make you very restless and uncomfortable in certain situations. A good way to determine if your masturbating too much, is if it interferes with your normal routine in life. If you find your not getting your homework done on time because your too tired, or taking too much time for pleasuring yourself, you may have a problem. If your hurting yourself masturbating and find your making yourself uncomfortable and sore, your doing it too much.\nIn determining weather it's right or wrong is mainly up to you. Some religious beliefs are that it is wrong. If your a member of a religious group that believes it's wrong and you have feelings of guilt associated with the deed, seek advise from a qualified and admired minister in your church, mosk, synagogue, or temple. Last of all remember no one will treat you better than you. So treat yourself right.
230287
I'm 30-something yrs. old....and I still mastubate from time to time.  It's not possible to ruin your sex life by mastubating all those.  You say no man can please you, I don't think that's possible.  You just haven't found the right man to hit that certain spot yet.
493314
Keep trying, I hear you have to do it twice daily for at least 6 months!
664198
Run!  Seek professional help.  I, also, am addicted to this damn thing, which amounts to not much more than mental masturbation.\n\nTry this.  Close your eyes.  Tell yourself you're on a site with a bunch of teenagers, 99% of whom are trying desperately to insult either Christians, immigrants, or George Bush.  There's nothing going on here.\n\nNow go.  Be free.  Sign out.  Live your life.  You have learned much, grasshopper.
219321
Can u *** when u masturbade? Cuz if u can it just sounds like u are either nervous or the girl wasn't doin it for u. You gotta think about what happened when u were 18 that started this.
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There is no definite answer to that question. You have to decide what it should be. What are you comfortable with? Some men masturbate as little as 0 times per week and others may do it more than 20 times in a week. Just don't waste too much time masturbating! There is more to life than sexual gratification. \nHow much masturbation is too much?\nWe must first ask: "What should I be doing instead of masturbating?"\nand "What can I be doing instead of masturbating?" \n\nMasturbation is only an a serious problem if it is: \n\n(A) getting in the way of your quality of life or your other daily activities such as work, school, hobbies, or friendships and \n(B) it is so frequent that it is bothersome (as mentioned above) and you have already tried your best to cut down but can't. \n\nEven for those that masturbate a lot, they are usually able to quit long enough to carry out everything else they need to get done in their lives. Just because you masturbate every day, or more than once a day, does not necessarily mean that you are an addict. If your masturbation time is just time that would normally be wasted for things like watching TV, sitting around doing nothing, watching cars go by, or trying to fall asleep, then you probably have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, if you are isolating yourself from everyone or failing to meet your daily responsibilities, then you may want to try to cut down. \n\nIt should be said that it is normal for everyone to seek some sort of sexual relationship in their adult years. Another sign of masturbating too much is no desire to have sexual contact with a partner. Many people out there have difficulty finding a partner, but after teenage years, it is a healthy goal. \n\nYoung men are concerned about how much they masturbate more than any other sexuality issue (besides penis size). How much is too much? -- It's a very difficult question to answer because a person could masturbate to orgasm multiple times per day but spend less than thirty minutes doing it. However, they could masturbate for three hours in a row and only have one orgasm. Clearly, three hours per day is too much, but thirty minutes per day is not always a problem. Usually, people measure their masturbation by the number of orgasms they have in a day, week, or month. We want to make the point that the overall amount of time spent masturbating should be the greater factor in deciding if you masturbate too much. \n\nSome people ask how they can quit masturbation entirely. This is somewhat extreme and also rather unlikely for the average person. It is true that even married people masturbate, but most still have a fulfilling sexual relationship with their partner. However, there is the case of the "hopeless addict" who has tried absolutely everything to cut down and cannot get on with his/her life. This page is not aimed at such an individual. In these cases, we recommend organizations such as Sexaholics Anonymous to assist. \n\nIt is true that teenagers might masturbate more than adults for a variety of reasons:\n(A) Teenagers may not yet be able to produce a satisfying orgasm due to lack of experience and lack of knowledge about sensations on his/her own body. The body may continue to demand that the need be met. Experimentation on the body can require time. \n(B) There is the "novelty" of the new sensation. This could last a few years. \n(C) Hormone levels are higher to produce bodily development. \n(D) Visual stimulation through fashion, media, and trends are typically aimed at "turning on" younger people. \n(E) Sexual curiosity \n(F) Being in very close visual proximity to large numbers of other teens in school. \n\nIt is also true that young children often begin masturbation before puberty. In fact, most of us even do it as toddlers. It is a normal stage of development. A child should be taught not to touch themselves in a sexual way in public. Privacy should be enc