I'm 24 and it seems like girls that I know close to my age, always misjudge me or think that I am nothing but a kid (it annoys me)
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It is a doubble standard and not fair.\n\nThey expect you to think of them as whole people and enguage them as such, but they feel completly comfortable viewing, and treating you as nothing more than a sex obsessed horn dog.\n\nIt's not fair, but that is way it is.\n\nLearn to be confident - look down on them, and make them look upto you.
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These girls sound young and immature, they are just very insecure.  \n\nYou sound smart, so stay above it, and don't get involved.  Hang with girls that make you feel good about yourself.\n\nPeace....
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Sometimes it's forced on by parents. All of my friends are 16-17 and, depending on how they're parents treat them, they act either younger or older. For example, I have a friend whose mother died when she was little and this girl knows how to take care of herself since she's been taking care of her dad for a few years. Another friend, though, is a little spoiled brat because she asks for everything and gets it plus more. Or it could be the bad media that shows the blondes in the tight skirts that little kids are exposed to and that's how they think they should act. Well, probably a little bit of both factors and more.
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I'm 31 years old and i start at 30 and in December i going to have my test for to be a red belt.All the students in my class are half age than my, and i don't see any difference between them and me.I feel like anyone of them,the age is in the brain some people think i teenager too when they see me working out,and doing my kicking and forms.Depend of you....
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Why do younger people underestimate the older generation?
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To answer Mary Beth's response, you can't always tell they are 15.  The same thing happened to me, ironically when I was about 23.  The girl originally told me she was 18 and she looked very much like an adult.  Then, after a short dating spell, she told me she was really 17.  A couple days later, she admitted she was 15.  There was no way for me to know, because at the time she was not living with her parents.  She was staying in a trailer, which I later found out she was house sitting for some people that were on a month-long vacation.  \nMy advice to the questioner... let her go... a girl that young will only lead to trouble.
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its weird but if u are a teeneager likle me then its okbut if u are someguy then probably not cause older  girls expect more
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Answer from an old fart. You're 13, Im 55. Even though I'm much older, like you, I want others to see me as I see myself. They see me as my occupation, my age, my looks; none of those is me.\nThe few people who really know me see beyond that. It took many years until they could.\nPeople who *really* know you will be able to see you as you really are, but it takes patience.\nNo 13 year old has patience. Forgive my geezer point of view, but stick it out. It will get better, unless you're a jerk. Then it is not a good thing if people see you as you really are.\n\nDick
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i'm sorry to say, i am also not in your age group. but what your doing is great, as for those relationships, you truly are better off, i dont know what kinda girls your dating, but girls down where i live would KILL to meet guys like you. so just keep your head up high, and dont be asamed for who you are. once again i'm sorry i'm not in your age group
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If you are comparing yourself to society standards...then you will obviously think something's wrong with you...However if you feel comfortable to go and date a girl then it must be too your comfort level...First get some self confidence and then BAM!!! - you'll be noticed without realising it. There are plenty of women out there...PLENTY and you can find them in all ages, just take time to focus on one that you may be interested and take it nice and easy.\nAnd you know what - the ladies you meet would actually chase you down if you act cool and be yourself...especially if they know that you never been with a girl...AND they will want to teach you everything...BE HONEST
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It may be the language you use. The tone in which you write. I understand VERY well what it is to be completely misjudged. Sometimes it is something you can change, sometimes it is not. Outside of yahoo answers, it could be anything.\nFacial features and body movements perceived cause people to judge that way. As an example, people still tend to believe I never listen and am a rebellious teenager and they rarly listen to what I have to say in person regardless of what knowledge or education I really have. Truth is, I am 25 and look only 16 (something I cant change) my eyes are set on my face in a way the people precieve I am never paying attention, though in truth, I am a great listener and pay attention greatly to detail.\nIf this is part of the problem, I hate to be harsh, but you need to get used to it. There is nothing you can do to change it. When people get to know you, they will learn what you are really like. All I can say is I am sorry you still have to deal with these sorts of things. But, It is human nature.
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your 34? you should know this by now.even though we are always learnig new things in our lives but you sound like a 15yr old that has no clue.
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No not at all...Your just a late bloomer....I know I was that way when I was a bit younger....Dont wory about it...Someday your time will come...Everyones time comes eventualy
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Life isn't fair and some people see more of life at a younger age than others. All you can do is understand that most people your age haven't had the life experiences you have had. And would you really wish it on them? If your life has been hard, sometimes you may feel impatient or condescending towards people you see as naive and inexperienced. Just watch that you  don't come across as too brittle or bitter. Although you feel old, at 13 you have a lot of life in front of you. The fact that your aunt says you act 30 is a warning that you may be acting a little too hardened. Lighten up and enjoy being young. Don't feel that you are already so grown up that you can't enjoy some of the rites of passage of a young teenage girl.
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Unfortunately, those girls grow up to be women who are simply bitter with themselves.\n\nI've had numerous accounts where women gossip about me, say I am conceited, etc. WITHOUT knowing one thing about me. \n\nI've even had some incidences where women confess that they thought I thought I was on my high-horse to later realize I'm very nice and down-to-earth.\n\nI've now learned to accept all kinds of gossip. I now embrace it and figure that I must have something special about me for people to stare, wonder & talk, without knowing one thing about me. Plus, depending on their own lives, it really amounts to them not having anything going on with themselves.\n\nBe flattered. Some people go unnoticed in life, you should be glad you're noticed and then some.
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My son! take this advice from an old wise man! Females are unpredictable! Period! And young females, such as your young friend are not only unpredictable, but because of their immaturity have impossible functioning minds! Their mood swings and b/f swings are impossible to predict! they are trapped by fashion trends that older females would not be seen dead in!!! So play it cool! Don't even look her way! there is know more frustrating thing that hurts a female more than to be ignored! Just be yourself! but don't show an interest in her! It wont work and you'll just be playing into her hands! Woman like that! Don't do it! It she talks! You talk! but be a slight bit distant! Got it? So don't you worry and Have a good day!
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don't worry...it is normal....everyone is different, some don't got theres intill they are about 18.