so that question i asked before was in the past and to this girl who was kindof a dork she asked me out to my face and wel u guys are going to hate me for this but i told her to f*uck of and she ran away crying because it was infront of all my frineds who were yes laughing and wel i told her the truth because i really dont like her but i kinda feel a lil bad about how i  said it what should i tell her beisdes soorry without making her think i like her?
128566
HEy, you were way too mean, try to apologise to her or make it up to her.
612817
well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
412297
hey if she dont like you....she dont like you.....\n\ni say....kill her with kindness!
333169
that's tough to say, if u didn't tell ur friend that u liked this girl and then asked her out, then how do you think ur friend will react? u may lose ur freindship over this girl so ask yourself...is she worth it? if yes then by all means ask her out\nlet me say though there are a lot of girls out there and she won't be the only one you'll like but your friend is unlike any other and he may stick around for a long
490215
Well- you have honestly already messed things up for you and her to have any kind of serious relationship.  You have shown her how selfish you are by not listening to her when she was trying to vent to you about an ex.  The next thing you messed up with is not telling her that you liked her.  Do you really think she was happy about hearing that you really didn't like anyone?  You had the perfect oppurtunity to get on her "good" side and say "yeah- I really like you!"  So far you have shown her that you don't care about her feelings and that you lie.  Do ya think she might realize you are using her as a sex object instead of a person with feelings???  Good luck!
440995
Believe it or not, girls prefer honesty over having the feeling of be led to believe that you might feel the same for her that she does for you.\nGently tell her that you like her as a friend, but that you simply don't have romantic feelings for her.\nI think she will appreciate your honesty, especially if you do it sincerely and friendly and not come across as a jerk.
275758
think positive think what happens if she says yes. i just asked a girl out today with the same question you hade ( see my asked questions the 1 at the top) just start with petty talk and work up. if she says no just think "hey this one didnt like me mabe the next one will"
290324
Bloody hell!!!!!!!!!!!!\n\nNOT WITH YOUR SISTER!!\nYou will regreted for the rest of your life, i can't believe she asked you something like that.\n\nStay at your Friends.  She's your sister thats wrong.
76161
Lies are always the worst course of action, ALWAYS.  So, what do you do?  You have to accept it.  You lied to her and there's no way to erase it.  Apologize to her.  Tell her you know that it was wrong to lie to her and that you're very sorry.  Try to explain to her why you lied.  Don't make it about how you were afraid of her reaction -- make it about how you were too cowardly to stand up and be honest.  She'll appreciate that more, but if she doesn't want to hear it don't force it on her.  Tell her that you understand why she needed to break off the relationship, but that you still love her and you will do everything you possibly can to rebuild the trust in your relationship, even if it is just to have the possibility of having a best friend in her because she is worth it.  Then DO it.  Let her vent to you about if she needs to... if she snaps and says something cruel and hard to take like, "It's too bad you're such a liar..."  Even though it makes you feel indignant and unfairly judged, don't react to it.  You broke her heart and to her heart, you are a liar...   Apologize if she does that, and tell her you never meant to hurt her, you were just afraid you weren't up to her standards... \n\nEtc, etc, etc...   Oh, and don't do any of this if you're not genuine (i.e. a liar).  She doesn't deserve any more heartbreak...
292519
Sweetheart in this case it is pointless to fight fire with fire. That is exactly what this chick wants! And of course guys will tell you to do that-- they are the fathers of war. but instead of being "ugly" right back at her, try ignoring her. If she persists ask her why she is so sad. Offer to be good to her. If that is met with "ugly" then tell her you are sorry that some people respond to her hatred, but that you cannot. You simply don't have time to sink to her level. If she sees that your life is too good to be brought down she will take her evil elsewhere. Or she may even learn a thing or two from you. Keep your chin up kiddo. Don't take it personally. Someone is being or has been very wicked to this girl, but it was not you. Please don't jump on the band wagon.
281070
You should tell her how you feel. Don't let her think things. You could give her the wrong impression.
482209
OK here is what happened . The girl you like was embarrassed . It's not that she doesn't like you . When she told you she just wanted to be friends go from there . Be friendly . Be sensitive . Girls love guys that are sensitive . When you see her alone with out her friend . Tell her your sorry that her friend embarrassed her like that . That you and her are friends and you know that . You never know she might come around to your way of thinking . You always start a relationship off by being friends first .
470447
she either was unsure bout whether u reali liked her in the first place - which seems kinda weird as U were the one who asked HER out - maybe she wasnt sure if u were joking or not....do u kno that she actually asked out someone else before she answered u? if ur up to it talk to her again explainin ur side of the sitch n ask her why she asked someone out before answering u....if she takes it bad or acts like she has been she's obviously not worth it
331926
Dude,girls like it when your straight forward with them. Just ask her...the worst that could happen is that she says she doesn't like you. Believe you me its better to know than to wonder. Just go up and ask...I promise you, you won't die.
19457
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
544696
just say.\n"hey, the costume i loaned you had some dirt and holes in it, i was kinda upset, can you tell me how they got there?"\nyou don't havbe to be shy, you asked her somthing, and she didn't listen.\nyou go grl!
185164
that is a girl who has absolutely NO clue what she wants.  If you feel really bad about it, talk to her.  Tell her that you can tell that she gets mad, but that you dont like her.