I have a boyfriend named Michael. He's sweet, funny, and respectful. But than their is a really good like brother guy friend of mine that wants to date me. What should I do. HELP!
134327
Well, I think you should stay with the boyfriend. The brother-like guy will have to take a hike (not to be rude or anything). IF you say he is a guy friend, then he is his a guy friend. NOW if you have feelings for the guy friend, you need to do some serious thinking. But, if you just feel bad because he wants you and you don't him, you got to get used to letting people down.
71892
I have a friend who has the same problem. There's not much we can do. She'll have to choose on her own to give nice guys a try. My friend Kim finally decided to pick the nice guy after years of abusive relationships (her father died and her brother took over. he was a pretty big a$$hole, so he was the kind of guy she would go for) Anyway, she saw the light side of life after a while and dated this great guy named Josh. He was pretty cook. Now she's looking for that sort of guy on purpose. Your friend apparently likes being treated like crap, so don't give her a shoulder to cry on when they hurt her. Just tell her that it's been her choice all along. Maybe she'll come around. BUT be sure to be her friend about everything else though. You don't want to lose her. Anyway, don't let it bother you so much. It'll start to affect your relationships if you do.
3952
If you're thinking about other guys when you have a boyfriend, then you're obviously not that "into" him. When you're with a guy you really like, you'll know it.\nSo my advice would be to first figure out what you want in a boyfriend. If you only want to be with someone who you are absolutely crazy about, then keep looking and get to know this other guy. If you're just looking for someone to hang out with and whatever else, then maybe your boyfriend isn't so bad if you like being with him.\nGood luck.
437392
`Is the guy single?  Is he dating your friend?  If he is, would you want your best friend to stab you in the back?  If he is single then perhaps it may he may be fair game?  In any case, I would choose friendship over love.  Plenty of people out there in this world to date.
496490
There's nothing inately wrong about dating him. There is if you know you can't be good to him or treat him the way you know your best friend would want you to.\n\nAnd don't take her feelings for granted. Sit her down, tell her you value her friendship, but you also like her brother, and how would she feel if you started dating him?
382380
Well gansta u should have never done it!! Dont litsen 2 ur Red Head friend on stuff like this!! She did not mean 4 it 2 go this far!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I think you should ask him if you guys should just be ""Friends"" and if he still goes to far tell him about your boyfriend tell him he asked u out and that you  and him have SO much in comon!! He will understand cuz he really cares 4 u!!\n****(Aarons Party)****  sry just had 2 put that!!
564504
You are absolutely not crazy. You can start dating at your own discretion, after all, you're going to be the one chossing the guy, definitely not your sister. Tell your sister to worry about her own problems. Sometimes us women want that time to be independent, and then we find our soulmate.
387157
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
162706
i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.
630150
Yeah, he's a brother, if you want him to back off basically you'd have to stop dating her... otherwise he's just doing what brothers are supposed to do; protect his sister from other guys ;-)  doesn't matter if you're a good or bad influence, it's his brotherly duty to make it difficult for you...
454974
The best thing to do is to listen to your heart.If your heart wants this new guy whom you've been thinking about more than your boy friend,then please dont stop.go ahead with your heart.I suggest you to date this new guy.Good Luck!
433354
First of all, your friend has the freedom to date anybody he wants without anybody's permission.  Dont get involved in his relationship.  Unless he talks to you about it and asks your advise.  You dont want to loose a good friendship over something like this.  This is what my bestfriend tells all his boyfriends, "You may not like my friends and I'm not trading my friends for you, they were my friends before I knew you and they will be with me should something happen to our relationship."  For now just go with the flow.  And be happy for him, cause that's all that matters is that he's happy!  Keep being the good friend you are.  Think positive!  Should he freak out if he doesn't already know then worry about it then.  Good luck! :o)
329446
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
650922
Maybe you should stay friends. Boyfriends come and go. Friendship is (or can be) forever. He sounds like a wonderful friend.
499205
The fact that you are even on here asking for advice indicates that the "bottem" of you heart may not be all that deep. If you loved him that much, you would have no problem telling your friend this & that you do not want to date her bf's brother. You need to take a long hard look at yourself & your relationship with Steven. You may not like what you see, but you need to be honest with yourself & him.
278271
Tell him the truth: that you love him and would like to date him.  Ask your brother for more details about the guy.\n\nIf he turns out that he is a nice person, then don't hesitate to ask him out.
12311
Oh wow! This is a difficult situation to be in. First, try to be in the shoes of your boyfriend and see how it feels like. Second, try to weigh your feelings towards the two men and although the response you get might seem hurtful for somebody  involved with you, it will make you happier in the end. If you're close to your brother, then it would be nice to talk to him about it, he knows his friend that much anyway... Good Luck and I hope that you feel happy in love! :-)