i met a guy on the net and only spoke the turth out(no lies i mean) i told him that i am overweight and sent him my photos.he said it was ok and we arranged to meet today.now i don't know what i am going to do.i've never had a date before and i don't even know what to say.i am so nervuous about it.and i am not sure whether i should do it or not.have you got any ideas?
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i think you should wait, for few more chats, few more phone calls before you meet with him!
468952
Aww im so jealous, i havent been on a date in a long time :)\n\nYou can talk about your careers and goals in life. You can talk about your hobbies and what you enjoy doing on the weekends. Favorite foods, if they like pets, if they have brothers or sisters, movies you've recently seen, vacations you have gone on or places you would love to visit. Think of things that are really important to you and ask them how they feel about these things. Most importantly, have fun and smile a lot and look into his eyes. And order a big meal! Guys hate when we order skimpy meals. Try to joke around too, to make him laugh. I hope you have a great time! :)
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Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
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Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
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He should meet this person in a public place, because your right, it could be someone who is out to get gays. He should definately talk to this man on the phone before meeting, it may give him a better feeling about this guy.\nExplain to your friend that you are very concerned for his safety and ask him if you can join him on his date, there is nothing wrong with bringing a friend along on a date with someone you have never met before and for both of your sakes, meet in a public place. Be sure to bring a cell phone along with the police on your speed dial.
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Just do it gurl...... I have a motto "Life is to short to sweat the small stuff" and live life to the fullist...... If you were not a beautiful person he would not even be with you on these dates, JUST DO IT...........LOL
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hey... go for him... i never have because iam to shy but that doesn't mean you shouldn't... you answered one of my questions before about my friend. I tried to email you cause you wanted to see a pic of me but it wont let me... thanks for your advice!
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I don't know that there's much you can DO except be disappointed and tell him that you are. What did he say he had to do instead(if anything?) Does he make a habit of this or was this your first date? Did he seem to like being with you during the 2 hours or did he seem to be in a hurry to be elsewhere? These are questions you have to ask yourself or him. Personally, if somebody makes a promise to me it's a BIG black mark against them if they don't keep it without  a good excuse!
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I met the guy I'm dating on the internet. He lived 12 hours away and wanted to come and meet me after about 5 months. I was in college and my professors and friends told me to have him come to the school to meet me. That way there were plenty of other people there and they could give me their opinions of what they thought of him. Never meet anyone alone where there are no other people or anyone you know. It's been over three years since that day and we are still together.
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Be Careful you don't want to seem desperate, And your not really supposed to be asking guys out anyway. Although it is a bold move and I think that if more women could say what was on there mind there would be a lot more couples together today. And vice versa of course. But my advice to you is to speak your mind be confident. And don't be afraid of rejection. take it slow, be patient but most of all don't settle and Be yourself
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well, find out if you and the new person have anything in common.  the guy I am currently wishing will develop into something more, met at a bingo game...we started out talking about how lousy the bingo numbers were...now, we talk about all sorts of stuff.  try looking at places to meet people that meet your interests.  if you like Karate...try several karate studios...if you like dogs...try dog parks...if you are religious...try church...or other place of worship.
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I think it is the perfect opportunity to get to know someone's character, personality, spirit and intellect, because you haven't met and you're being influenced by what you're learning about this person and not by the way they look.  (If you don't swap pics yet). I'd say, "Go for it" and "Good luck"!
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What´s does this has anything to do with the "singles & Dating" section, anyway???\n(unless you´re planning to go out on that very day, but you didn´t mention it!)
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Lonely one, your question really touched me. I, too, know what it's like to be an overweight woman and what it's like to be ignored by every man. I'm not trying to be depressing but it's the truth, as I'm sure you know. But I think there is someone out there who will love you for who you are. Realistically, there's only a small slice of the population that would consider going out with a very overweight person, but keep being the nice person that you are and it will happen. Feel free to e-mail me at rmaynard@su.edu We may have a lot in common.
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You really need to meet them before you make a decision. I've met a couple of people from online that ended up being completely different than the way they presented themselves. I've also met a few that we just didn't click in person. \n\nRegardless of when or how you decide to meet them, please play it safe and meet in a public place! There are a lot of psychos out there so better safe than sorry!\n\nGood luck to you!
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I have been overweight for a while.  I am now 26...and I never thought I would find the right guy.  The guy is high school was the bad boy...but he was abusive and that was all I thought I could get b/c of my size.  Then I moved on, in college I met another guy, we dated and even got married.  I thought for once YEH I found the guy, 3 years after getting married, I am getting divorced.  He wasn't there for me when I needed it most.  One day I met a guy, I wasn't even looking, he looked past by size and fell in love with me.  And you know what, he loves me just the way I am.  \n\nThe point I am making is that when you least expect it the guy that is meant for you will find you and love you for who you are not for what you look like. \n\nIf you ever need to talk feel free to email me at mad_gurl_rocks@yahoo.com.
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What did you expect?  Bruised ego or not, what you did was not kind.  How would you think or react to a guy who told you to "get a breast job and better attitude and he would ask you out" ?\n\nYou asked for a conditional relationship.  He either does not like the conditions or is looking for an unconditional relationship.