god its getting in my fucking nerves but im not sure what to do\ncause if i do people will call me a ferk\nbut its not true \ni love the idea of teret cards\nand i use to have a group of gypsies living down my road at my old house\nand i hung out with them when i got out of the house
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Do what you want.  Was that freak, or jerk?\nWho cares what people think?  You can play with tarot cards if you choose, and you can do whatever else you want, as long as it's legal, right?  And somebody's going to come along here and give you a definition and history on gypsies.  It's inevitable.  Do some homework and make your choice.  You're only labelling (sp) yourself, anyway.
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Hello there! I know how you feel as I have a fiancee with same problem. However, he is on therapy for something much worse so he also treated social anxiety....for a bit.....but i read a lot about it to be able to understand him and help him....all I can say now he is back to his university :), he is so much better!!! Definitly if you can, go to therapy it really helps, and you have to keep yourself in contact with social events so you don't get rasty too much :) as fear tends to grow in our minds for the things we are afraid of, and we are afraid of the things we don't know. So force yourself into it, and you will see after some time you will have more confidence, and you will see that it's not so scary as it seemed. In my "research" to help my fiancee I found this site that could be of a great help to you as well. It's a forum where you can chat with people with same problems as yours, just to know you are not alone...maybe you find out much more about your fear through them and their posts. www.socialanxietysupport.com\nGood luck!
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I think you're engaging in the same sort of stereotyping that you don't like people to do to you. My Pakistani landlord is wonderful and always tells me that we are all living together as one big family. I regard him the same way. \n\nNo matter where you go there will be people who will dislike you or mistrust you because you are different. Ignore these people and find warm-hearted individuals who will embrace you for just being you.
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You're scaring some here. Your not afraid. They were hoping they can get to you with their remarks (have you see the post someone wrote-chicken hoping to intimidate -and the answers are mostly in your favor). \n Your a strong women don't let them push you down.\n And yes we have many problems-that some do not want to face. The truth hurts in this case. \n I want to take care of those here first and than reach out if I can. We can not (not will not) do both. Choices must be made. Even if feelings get hurt.\n Close that door is right.\n\nPlease speak out and whenever you feel like it-you have many supporters. And I like your Courage (so many do). Wish our government would take a lesson from you and quit worrying whats proper and who will call them names.\n\nAnd some are using that you hate-I do not get that from you. Just that your tired of stepping around issues. And sometimes like a child no one listens unless you get a bit stronger and sometimes you must yell-children don't always listen until you do . See you Soon I hope on post -I'm not here a lot but you got my attention a few times.
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it sounds like you had a bad expierence in another life time. when you go to bed tonight, keep saying that you want that part of your past lives not to bother you anymore. you might have to do it a few nights. but it will help
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Well your name is Emochick...\n\nI think you are young...\n\nLikes- funerals, cemeteries, doing what others tell you not to do, Cutting yourself, Black, Anima, having people think your insane, reading, trying to fit in, care what people think even though you say you dont...\n\nDislikes- You probably hate everything about yourself.\n\n??
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first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
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I know how you feel. In school, I was commonly made fun of for it. What you may want to try doing is pause for a moment and think about what you are saying, even if it's something simple, like, "Where can I find the ladies room?" or something. If you do, however, end up stuttering, have a sense of humor about it, instead of getting frustrated. That, or do what Porky Pig does and think of a different word in place of the one you cant quite make out.
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Dear Friend i'm not sure if my words would help u but i'm gona tell u my opinion, it's fact that u r so young and don't get upset from people who r close to u when they say that, and I don't see where is the problem that make u feel that way is because they not talking to u any more and they were before, that mean they aren't real friend and don't think that someone is better than other everyone have good and let say little bad behavoir, don't let they efect on you and think that maybe there are some people who treat them like they do to u, life it's so big and u still in the begining , you will see alot of thing that u cann't imagine it, I lived it and now i'm 25 and I know for sure there are alot thing I will see in future the good and bad. try to be with those who accept who u are ,those who try to learn u the right thing to do without making fun of u, and try not to give ur secrets to ur friend special this age, coz u all growning and ideas r change,u said u have bf u love that's ok. but becarefull always put a step back so u don't get shock in future, u love him and have compelet faith on him,ok but u have to think that maybe that will change in future and maybe not, what i'm trying to say prepare ur self if anything get wrong it's not the end of world.
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Ahhh your young, or else you look that way. Your allowed to be a little bitter. However, you do have a very intense fantasy life! You know the old saying of a women scorned? Your getting pretty close to validating it! However, if we all get thrown in jail for our bizarre thoughts then the streets would be empty. Stephen King would be on death row, and I would be right behind him. Tanya, your O.K. I'm O.K. just don't dwell to much on it. You look to pretty to start getting worry lines in your face!
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i feel the exact same way. kinda' sucks, huh,so dont really know what to tell u buddy. srry.\n                                   im new , so not much of a  help, althuogh therre are some unplesant jerks on this site, (not me of course)some of them are nice, ive already made some friends!\nonce again srry. im not much of a help, but keep trying!
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i get like that too sometimes! its what u feel inside is affecting ur outside world! u have to start feeling good about urself! go out with your friends make them talk to you! trust me sometimes they cant see how u feel so show them!
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Maybe you are just having more stress in your life than normal which is causing you to deal differently with people and situations. Statements that you normally would ignore or write off as being beneath you are dragging you in because you are edgy. Figure out what is bothering you and try to fix it. Take some time to yourself and destress.
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if you seriously are hearing people call your name and no one is their i think you need to talk to someone I'm not saying your crazy or anything but maybe your just really stressed out in your life and your having a hard time coping with some things I'm sure your fine but to be safe you should seek some help  Maybe if you talk with someone it will help ease your mind and or get on some medication that will.\n\n trust in GOD and LOVE yourself and you will be OK !!
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That's how I feel too, I hope we'll get used to it....\n\nGo out and try to find Americans that You get along with, People that share your Interests and Opinions. You will see that NOT ALL AMERICANS ARE EVIL!!!!\nJust give it some time, try to be open towards other People and take your time to get to know them better before You judge them, and also allow them to get to know You better.\nPeople You did not like before maybe turn out to be very cool People, just give them a chance.\n\nThere is so many different Cultures, Religions and Believes mixed together in this country I am sure You will find someone You like to hang out with.\nJust be open.
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see  its not only  u tat feels this is 1 thing  anoter thing is tat don think tat u r alone studying others r enjoing outside or sleeping at nyt time think if ur doing hard wok then according to it u will get reasult another thing is tat u can study along wit ur frnd or listen music very low volume especially those music which u hate most lik very old songs or englihs song tat will take time to undestand . don concentrate on lyrics ok best of luck 4 exams. my email add.is monty_robert2002@yahoo.com
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You weren't socially acceptable because you went against the crowd. Though you were really doing the right thing, they are buttheads and have excluded you from the clique. Be to the point about it and ask them why they are being hypocrits... if they are rude find a new circle...