I've been with this guy for eight months, and he used to be one of the biggest players I've ever known and since he's been with me he said he's changed. That I've changed him a lot, that I mean a lot to him, but sometimes I worry that when he goes out with his player friends he might be like that behind my back, he says he doesn't but my friends say once a player always a player and that kind of worries me. Not to be conceited or anything but a lot of girls like him and I'm scared that one of these days he might cheat on me.
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Unless he changes other things, including his hang outs rutine, friends, etc. he probably isn't going to change or if he tries he probably will end up going back to it.  Kinda like if you quit smoking and you hang out in bars and with smokers all day how long before you start again.
225173
were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
573651
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
43153
If a guy has way too many girlfriends then trust me it is not a good sign. It means he likes the attention he gets from girls and he likes to be flirty. Trust me my boyfriend was the exact same way and I became so jealous of the fact that these girls would constantly call him and they would flirt. Although it was harmless flirting it still sucked from my part and if he is a ladies man there is no way you can be sure that he's not going to break your heart or cheat on you! TRUST ME
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Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
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does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
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Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
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=I wouldn't say that he is a player because that would be saying something negative about your friend. I think he is just out ;;joking and having a good time with his friends. I wouldn't make a move yet as to get rejected and hurt the friendship. He is just a tease at this point. Let him make the first move. Meanwhile enjoy his flirting with you. You never know!
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Have you ever wondered who those Players Play with?  Since most people learn how to behave with one another based on action and then reaction, guys have learned that being a player is more rewarding than being kind and sincere.  The kind and sincere ones are the guys that never seem to have dates and are the ones that you complain about other guys to.  Those guys are wants referred to as Wussies.\n\nPlayers, have found that you can have much more fun being cocky and funny and not get too serious with one girl.  Why, because the women in their lives have rewarded them for this behavior.  \n\nNow don't get me wrong, I don't condone this type of behavior.  but you asked and this is why guys act like that.\n\nTo get guys to stop behaving this way, don't deal with the players.  Pay attention to the guys that are your best friends that may be a little shy.  If your looking for the right guy, check out the way he treats his mother.  If he treats her well, chances are he is going to treat the other women in his life well also.
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It sounds like he doesn't have much confidence in himself, he knows he is doing wrong with the alcohol, doesn't think he is good enough so expects that you will go out and find someone who is.  Plus it sounds like he is trying to push you away before you have a chance to do it to him, its human nature to protect yourself even at the cost of others.  Or on the other hand he very likely could be cheating on you.
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If he's a player, save yourself the heartache, and don't go out with him. The way you said it makes it seem like you don't really like the guy, but you're considering it, purely because he asked. Girl, if you aren't interested, and your heart is saying "he's a player, and he's gone out with my friends" what makes you think your situation will be any different???? Look for someone who will respect you and love you regardless, and won't compromise you! Good luck and hope this helps!
50407
Girl, don't tell him you love him.\nHow do you fall in love with a player? \nBaby wake up, HE IS A PLAYER!!!!!!\nHe is telling all the other girls in his life the SAME THING.
519073
Well I hope you don't let him fool you a third time.  My first love did this to me. Guys can be very tricky. He befriended me for a year before I decided to have sex with him. He was my best Friend.  After we had sex he dumped me.  Guys like the game especially as teenagers, so becareful.  I grieved the relationship for quite some time.  I got together with my girlfriends who let me cry. I concentrated on my work and having fun.  With time my heart healed and so will yours. Just be patient with yourself and don't keep in touch  with him. He is not a real friend.
350444
The player didnt want to feel he had been played. He is the one the controls the relationship but he finally met a woman that played him and he cant handle it. Now he is saying anything to hurt her so he can feel in control someway. If he is still sleeping with her it couldnt be that bad.
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yes but if you truly think that he is going to go away, you are mistakeing, friends will never go away, regardless of how long oyu have been together. Start setting up his friend so that way he will get attached to another girl and slowly start to hang out with her and get away from your activities. Also you can always double.......... but guys love their friends and will always have them around, just be careful because if a guy senses that you are tired of his friends he might start to tire of you.....just a thought!!
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Why are girls always so optimistic over being able to change a guy? I'm not against taking chances in love or anything, but usually it just doesn't work. There is a reason why someone behaves the way they do.\n\nIf you feel that he's mean to the others for a valid reason (e.g. if the other people are annoying him etc), then it might still be reasonable for you two to get together. However, if he's just mean for the sake of being mean, then I would advise against it. Most likely he'll end up treating you like the others in the future, because to him, that's the norm.
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oh girl...hes a player...and hes not into settling down..he LOVES women..just be one of them...