I can't stop thinking about this guy. I am too chicken to ask for his number...he might think it weird too. What should I do?
132448
if you left your job on good terms with him, just send him an email to the workplace asking him how are things going? ask to meet him for lunch for some career advice and if he accepts, when you meet him, start neutral and play it by ear. you could dress a notch less casual than business when you meet, make sure you look good and smile a lot and do the eye contact thing, and see if he responds positively to that... You could also apply the subtle body language tactics by leaning into his personal space a bit, speaking with your hands a bit such that you sometimes touch him accidentally on his hand or forearm as you speak which subtly sends a signal without being really too obvious... let him ask you out! If that doesn't work, ask for a second meeting for more advice. If you meet regularly enough, he will like your company and you will have natural rapport to move to the next step...
496205
I think you need to get over this dude and fast\nForget his number ( its a figur of speach cause if you trully loved him samthings you just cant forget ).....Stay away from the friends that will ask you about him....Just go cold Tercky if you know what i mean.......Its hard to do and even harded to maintain nut keep telling yourself its for the best\n\nThe fact that you not showing intrest in him anymore will creat a feeling of curiosity on his part.....If the dosnt chace you he wasnt worth it if he does you in\nRemember the man thats worth your tears wont man you cry
224373
Obviously if your thinking about him you still have feelings for him.  Call him up and see what he is up to.  Don't regret not calling him or telling him how you feel.
518692
Well sweet heart don't get discouraged, just because he didn't call you today doesn't mean that he isn't interested. You never know he may have just been very busy. Don't rush into feelings over someone that you just met. I'm not saying not to follow your heart but i am saying that sometimes our minds can get a bit ahead of our hearts and we may not be listening very closely to our hearts. So just sit back and relax and just let things go as they will. Remember don't look too obsessive, Guys don't like that! If things work out then great and if not your life wont come to an end, i promise. Lots of Luck. Wish you the best. Keep  your head up!
650919
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
304533
MOVE ON if he really liked you he would of found a way too stay in touch. Better yet, still do what you do and wait to see if he will come around.That way you do not look crazy or desperate.
193795
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
374644
It may be a good idea to remember why you got a devorce to start with.After that if you are still thinking about him just go along for the ride and see what happens.If you rush it things could go bad again.
286003
I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!
204341
I think it could be that you have this guy in your head now because he is ignoring you.  You know the saying, you want what you can't have?  Well, when he wanted you you weren't interested...and now you "think" you may be.  \nBut...if you're really thinking about this fling guy a lot then I doubt you're truly in love with your steady.  Deep down it's probably not meant to be.  You know, real love and all that comes with it...when you're in deep, no one else can touch that.  Anyway, do the pro's and con's thing about the guy you're with and if it's more con's than pro's give him up...and talk to this younger guy if you can, about how you feel if you really think your feelings are deeper than just wanting what you can't have.  I have to say also that he sounds a tad bit immature...ignoring you after you've had a fling.  But that's just my opinion....good luck.
380603
Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
454974
The best thing to do is to listen to your heart.If your heart wants this new guy whom you've been thinking about more than your boy friend,then please dont stop.go ahead with your heart.I suggest you to date this new guy.Good Luck!
61460
possible but you should aproach him on it.It's kind of childish for you to be pining for him and not say anything.Life is about risks ask him or you'll never know for sure.
500462
Don't go back because he probably already has another image of you in mind and thought you one of those easily available girls. He never bothered to exchange numbers. But if you must, just go there with your friends and act as if you don't remember anything. Only if he approaches you or shows signs of recognition, you can just go and say 'Hello'. Ask him that you believe that you have met him before and does he remember you? Ask very casually as if he was a business client you are meeting. His response will make it clear, which turn you will want to take.
663146
You'll only appear needy if you keep emailing or calling him from here on out. You emailed your phone number, leaving no doubt you are interested in him. Leave it up to him now and resist the urge to contact him again until he chooses to contact you!  Men like a little bit of a challenge.
62788
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
464006
Hmmm, it sounds to me like he's just winding you up. Unless he's truly genuine about his delusions, in which case you're probably correct......this is a great opportunity to set him up.\n\nTry saying it about a guy and see what he does......\n\nOr if you can find a fairly attractive girl (that he doesn't know) to play along and join in on his ego trip.....get her to wink and eye him up, say your interested and then when the time is right, she walks over and gives YOU her phone number and quick cheeky kiss!