My boyfriend is knew to this we have been together for 8 months and he never had a seriouse girl before. How do I let him know how I want to be treated since i am his first serious one?
123174
Just tell him. Just say baby hold me please and then, give him the baby eyes. And please click the check your spelling. I am not trying to be rude.
69158
If after a year of wandering blindly through purgatory and your not sure of the status of this relationship then the answer is NO. Your not his girlfriend and he certainly isn't your boyfriend. \n\nMen say what they mean, but in your case it's what he hasn't said.  Has he asked you to be his girlfriend or in a committed relationship? How does he introduced you to his friends and family? Does he even take you around them?\n\nWhy are you waiting for him to make his intentions clear? Ask him. Are you afraid he won't want to hang out with you anymore? Don't you want to be more than just a fuck buddy.? Isn't that why your asking this question? I think you know the answer to your own question and I think that you are so desperate to have the attention of a man that you are willing to settle for this form of dating purgatory and don't want to admit to yourself that your not his girlfriend and that he doesn't want that type of relationship with YOU, because if he did he would have made it clear to you.\n\nDump this loser and move on. You deserve to be with someone who will truly love you and who will tell you every day and every one he knows that he loves you. \n\nGet out of purgatory and find an angel that will fly you to heaven.
283814
You should tell him how you feel about him and if he is tired of the way she is treating him then he will get out of that relationship. Don't pursue him any further unless he breaks up with her because he might hurt you in the end and stay with her.
431792
You don't have to suggest anything to him. Isn't this season supposed to be about giving rather than recieving? I know, the dude has nothing to give for you....but if you don't have anything to suggest to him, then you have everything you could possibly want. Right? So basically, you can just tell him that you already have what you want, and that is your boyfriend. Of course, only say that if that is the truth. Don't lie to your boyfriend.
143268
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
208601
do not say your sorry - you must first show it - get your stuff together - for give ness must be shown - not just talked aboutif you are serious and he is a good person , you may start talking - he is listening even if he's mad, and then you show every day you DO care and love him - he will mellow in time - how much time is unimportant- just keep doing the show thing - even stupid men can be retrained to see their partner cares from the heart
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Giggles,giggles, giggles!!!!\nWhat's up?\nAre you still trying to figure out what to do about dude?\nLook let's just look at it this way, okay If he dissed you once because of a female (that was there before you, might I add)\nWhat's to stop him from trying to do it again?\nNow you know I do not lie to you right?\nLet me tell you the low-down on guys, If you let a guy get away with something once they will do it again, just because they can and they know you will put up with it.\nNow If you KNOW FOR A FACT that you & him will not get into some serious type relationship and it's cool that HE knows that you are not avaiable to him  and the same goes for you as well then I would say go for the "THE HOMIE" thing, just do not get confused on the terms of what "HOMIE" means.\nAre we talking about "Homie-Lover-Friend"\nIf so It will get very complaicated before the summer ends, and you know what I am talking about right?\nPlease Giggles just remember he do have a girlfriend, and like I told you before do not be surpised if there may be more than one girlfriend okay?\nAnd always think like this:     "How would I feel if MY boyfriend was seeing a chick on the side"\nLet me know how it turns out okay?
83760
Awww babes the first cut is the deepest, The best thing i can tell you is to just enjoy what you have with him, your right he has alot of FLINGS, what is a fling? something to mearly play with while you waste time, those girls mean mearly nothing to him, you on the other hand are probably precious to him, he can probably go to you with his everything, his heart soal and mind, and you with him. Dont underestamate what you mean to him just because hes playing around with flings, in the long run you still mean more to him then a fling, from the sounds of it, hes not ready for a serious relationship, and let that be ok, your more to him then just something to use and throw away like yesterdays trash... and thats all hes ready for, thats all he knows how to handle right now, just let things be and know where you are in his heart. I know you can see so much more, but he doesnt know how to be more then what he already is to you yet, just lay back girl he cares alot about you, he will let you know when hes ready to have a serious relationship, im sure you will be the first one that comes to mind when he thinks man i want to make something real with someone, there you will be waiting with arms wide open :)
485438
Seriously, why not just tell her the truth?  Just say something like 'lucky for you I don't have a girlfriend.... yet.  Maybe you can help me out *wink*'  Im the type of girl that likes to flirt but if I know a guy has a girlfriend I won't even think about dating him.  If I know he's single maybe I'll get lucky...
475699
easy.  just tell him how you feel.  Guys like honest girls who know what they want and are not afraid of telling people what they want.  I bet it will work.
149575
You do not mention how old the both or you are, or how intimate your relationship is.  ( living together, etc).  However, it sounds like he is most certainly not mature enough to have a serious relationship, for if he was, he would know he is not "the first", and so would you.  Accepting that people came before the two of you, and not being intimidated or insecure about it, is a healthy sign of maturity towards a relationship.  You both should be able to converse about each other's past romances and in many cases should be able to remain friendly with those same people.  \nFrankly, should I be in your position I would carefully and honestly review your current relationship to see if it allows both of you to grow as people and as a couple.  If it does not, then it would be time to move on.  This really applies to both of you.  For your current boyfriend to be so insecure, given no baggage in his history, then there is something that you both as a couple are lacking in the relationship.\nThis is not about whose wrong or right, but rather about whether or not the two of you are really ready to be in a one-on-one serious relationship.  \nOne area that needs your attention... Do not threaten to break up, or leave.  After awhile, these words become empty and only serve to increase insecurity.  If you want to leave, just do it.  You owe no explantion to anyone unless you feel it necessary.
313981
i would be honest with him, but remember, when you started dating he had to have sex, and it would be you. so don't make yourself hurt, but don't leave him out in cold either.
438111
You have to tell him just what you told us.... you really never dated and want to experience it. Tell him that as wonderful as he is, you know that if he is Mr. Right, he will let you go on some dates (tell him not sleeping with) and if it is meant to be, he has nothing to worry about. \n\nHonesty really is best and saying it this way shouldn't hurt if he cares that you are sure.
127499
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
622901
I understand where ur coming from during ya'll first relationship he treated u like s**t and u feel like u should treat him the same way.Gurl give him another chance.Sit down and talk to him let him no how u fill.And let him no wat ur going 2 try 2 do 2make everything right.\n\nSincerely,Ya Gurl Smilee
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Slip..., I sure love your avatar!! lol...\n\n Just tell him, you want him too! But you want to take it kind of slow this time. So things don't end up like before!\n\nPlus, it'll serve him right for dumping you the first time!\n\nGood Luck and Best Wishes, Girl.
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Check this out?\nGuys are not ready for a solid commitment as fast  as we are and to just keep it real they will do us the way we let them do us.\nIf you let him continue to put restrictions on you as far as seeing other guys all the while he is seeing other females then he will just keep doing it.\nYou Need to just let him go seriously unless You want to keep putting up with this guy stuff.\nI will say this and leave it:\nIf you want to keep having sex with him but see other people do just that and let him know it, example;\nWhen he comes over and you have done the do, just let him know "Hey you have to go home now because I have a prior engagement to go out with a friend"\nIf he actually have a problem with it, just tell him, You have made it clear that you want an one on one relationship with him but he do not, so it's time for you to move on to find someone who wants to be serious and one on one.\nIf he is serious about you but afraid of commitment then this will help him to make up his mind.