If he has a girl but rather be on the computer than be with her is this an addiction or an apparant sign I shouldn' tbe with him
132591
10 times a night, get him on a drip, he must be running out of fluids.
663181
Yes you are.  He has a girlfriend, and he's keeping you on the sidelines just in case it doesn't work out.  Leave him be.  You deserve someone that can be with you and treats you with love and respect.
97361
He's addicted to the computer. Or maybe he's a little bored. What do you normally do? Suggest some more interesting activities. Or go somewhere else. Or invite other couples over. =D G'luck!
453015
Either one is a possibility, but if he's willing to go around behind his present girlfriend's back, then it's 99% certain that he will do the same to you.  Stay Away from this guy.  He's trouble.
139231
try to talk to him and tell him it bothers you that he is spending too much time on the computer and that you miss him and it is cutting into your quality time together..if he cared for you as much as he says he might get the hint...if this doesn't do the trick..unplug the computer and tell him no more chat until he learns to appriciate you and your time together again
66460
You are in for it. If he spends lots of time with the baby and its not alone. (at his ex's place without you) THen he's probably doing something with her and you. SO if your not into that, you have a lot of thinking to do. Its better to love and lost and never loved at all. (men in black)
43964
You should be upset and if hypothetically speaking was your husband I would take you instead of a stupid website. The next time you se him on the computer ask him to choose between you or the picture of the naked girls on his computer. If he really loves you and want to be with you for the rest of your lives then he will choose you. But if he is in denial or starts arguing or chooses the website then you need counsuling or even need to threaten to break up with him.
181936
I think a lot of people feel safe and anonymous on websites like those to explore thoughts or curiousities without feeling like they are "really" doing anything wrong...since it is a computer screen...but the mental side of it...can destroy a relationship..yes you should forgive..but NOT forget..you know what he is truly like ..his thoughts...when you have your back turned..so be smart...but don't become obsessed over what he "might" be thinking or doing....then YOU could be the one to destroy the relationship and actually Create what you Fear most
385187
Yes.  Addiction isnt pleasant.  Nor is rejection.  The computer has provoked both!
625460
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
210862
He's probably getting suspicious of you thinking you're wanting to get involved romantically with her.   You might want to only hang out with her around other people.
413700
Someone on the Internet can tell you anything and a lot they do tell you is just what you want to hear. Enjoy it has something to kill time but dont take it as a relationship you will only get hurt. There are plenty of married men out there that use girls like you as a toy yet still have loving and normal relationships with their wife's and children. Get away from the key board go out and meet someone in the flesh its much safer and real
149144
Ask yourself why is he insecure? Are you spending more time on 360 than with him? If he were spending his down time on360 instead of talking to you would you feel the same way? Is he spending a lot of time out of the home? He could be cheating and feeling guilty so he is trying to make you feel guilty. Think about those things and you may come up with the answer to your question.
45038
Seems like you don't trust him already, or you wouldn't be checking out his web history. You either have reason not to trust him, or you are unable to trust other poeple because of your own problems.\n\nThat said, there is no way those sites could just appear in his history without someone visiting them using his computer. Make absolutely sure nobody else used it before accusing him. Maybe you should both go to couples' counseling if you are having major trust issues.
644837
Oh he wants to be with her she serves a purpose. most of his wants and needs are serviced . He just thinks he's so cool he can get away with it. Either the girl dosn't know and thinks he loves her, or she is accepting of this behavior because she has low self esteam and thinks she has to accept this.  He is a player god knows how he lies to her and lies to the next to pleasure his sick self.  He does because he can. Maybe after he gets played when he really cares about someone he will learn a lesson, Just don't be another knotch in his belt he can brag about or ruin your rep in the process.  Stay away and just watch the action, and u will see I'm right.  You will bless the day you didn't get caught up in it.
186483
If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
87809
First of all get red of him. You have no use for someone that is going to go against your privacy. Did you ever think that he is using you in someway. I would tell that sone of a cow where he can go and I would go to the police and I would talk to his boss. Things like this should not happen to people like you. YOu are a norman person and you deserve better than this. I thought that I had problems but girl y ou have bigger ones than I do. And by the way this is ilegal for him to do. You should think about it very hard. Also it sounds like this guy has not respect for you or your child. He is just going to make your life worse. Let someone do that to me and I find out that it is my boyfriend. They would not hear the end of it. Most of all he is putting you all at danger. Please do not use your computer for anything improtant. If you do he will know what it is then. Until you get this all worked out I would say you need to stay clear of all computers. Cause if he is hacking into yours then it is hard to tell whos elses he is hacking into!!!!!Please get away from him, you may not know this but you could be putting yourself indanger.