i have recently joined a company there i met a guy who is my manager i started having a crush on that guy and now im totaly in love wid him he is aware of it he sometimes acts in such a way that i feel even he likes me,but sometimes i feel he has no feelings towards me im not able to understand him im confused he stares at me,sometimes ignores me im confused pls giv me a suggestion as what to do
137965
you like your job?\nhe probaly like his and will ( if he is smart ) ster WAYY clear of women like you\nyou are his worst nightmare\na walking breathing sexual harrasment when the relationship goes sour and then they fire you type of person
138362
get to know him. b/c right now ur in love w/ the way he looks and who you think he might be. once you get to know him he'll be more human to you and you can decide if he is worth pursuing or not. i mean he could just be a hudge jerk for all you know right now.
550967
I would call that infatuation. I rather say that you are in 'like' with the guy. Love is too strong a feeling for what you described there. You probably just like him and have no problem being around him.
669703
Maybe he likes you. I would caution you, though. My experience is that it isn't good to go out with someone that you work with. How are you going to feel after a nasty split with this guy when you have to see his face every day?
108761
if your feelings are true and you admire him greatly then go out together. if your not sure if hes avaliable, ask him. if he is ask him out. if he doesnt like you the same way then thats just life. move on
304133
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
285631
Guys can be so awful sometimes. he seems really pathetic. any way i dont think u can continue liking him after wat he said... can you?? i know it must hurt a lot coz u were in love wid this guy for so long.u must have probably thought that he was great guy thats y u were in love wid him. but now he has opened ur eyes n proved to u that he is really a creep and not someone u can give ur heart to.
659652
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
586054
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
632578
Interesting story. \n\nYou like that guy demonstrates he like you..but you come to know about his story...!!\n\nI think you should not be much emotional in this case. Try to avoid him for some time. Don't look at him also. Just watch changes in his behavior. Let him come forward first...!! \n\nHe would exploit your emotions if you show your liking for him...!!\n\nTime will learn you how to come out of such situations..
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
89748
this is a risky situation. If you really like him it might be better for you to leave your job and look for another so that there is no complications with the others if and when they find out. If he is interested in you, I believe you would know. If you are not sure then come out and ask him.
144326
I am going through the same problem , he likes talk to me , many times i turn accidently to find ou that he was looking at me , when i good by him and turn my back and look back again i find that he's still looking at me , he gives me sweets and gums whenever he pass with my office ( we are work mates ) , his eyes say alot but , then we reach our problem , how can i be sure that he really loves me or not ? i'm not wrighting to you to offer a solution for your problem because if i had one i would have dealt with mine but i felt that you may feel a little better when you know that there is another girl who shares you your confusion and wishes you good luck with your silent guy , please wish me luck also with mine .
72165
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
483741
That could be his way of flirting with you, joking around and messing around with you. Mess around with him, have fun with him, work your magic. He'll soon relise that you like him. When the time comes drop hints on how you really feel about him. Good luck. ROCK ON!!
590595
you identify first on what is really your feeling towards him.. if you like him then go on..regarding his actuations some guys  would make fool on you if they like you or do things that would make you feel jealous..in that way also they will discover they're feelings for you.