me and my boyfriend are going through things and i think we've reach out dead end
129169
tell him that your done, tactfully, but sternfully
49671
i think all you can do is tell him how you feel about it all, explain that "we" need to work on things not just "me" if after explaining,(if he lets you finish explaining), he still seems to putting the blame on you then don't bother trying anymore. life is too short to live with drama that never ends. maybe it will take you leaving for him to change or maybe he won't change at all.
298173
well, I'm hoping that your relationship does work out. I'm in the same situation, but my bf is a year older that yours. We are talking about moving in together after I graduate next year, and the talking has already started. I believe that if both of you are willing to work on it, then there is no reason that your relationship will fail. Good luck.
614475
If you are both now struggling which mean you have developed some form of romantic feelings between each other. then it would be wise to just break up now, unless you are ready to commit adultery.\n\nIts painful, but just try stoping seeing each other for a while. You both need to maintain your dignity.
607528
sweetie u need some councling, sorry u had to go through something like that
70556
Well, first of all he is the one who put you out.  Why should he care how you got there?  Sounds like you are on your own now.  I am so sorry you are going through someting like this.  Stay safe and keep in touch, okay?
453353
Maybe things are rough right now with her boyfriend.  Continue on as you are.
340939
Both of you sound somewhat immature - why not suggest not getting back together for a while and seeing how you both feel six months or a year down the line.
59640
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
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I know how waiting can be.It is so annoying being in limbo. What is he trying to figure out? Why is he considering it and does not have a clear cut answer? Maybe you should ask him why he is debating coming back and then maybe that would help you decide if you want to wait or not. I know you love him but it is not fair of him to string you along and for you to have to put your life on hold while he is deciding. He should not have told you he is considering it until he was 100% certain he was coming back. I hope everything works out for you.
429878
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
432782
Stop playing around, obviously the signals are getting mixed.  Stop driving yourself crazy and simply ask what's up!!!  It's better to know so you can move forward with the relationship or move on.
18393
Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.
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seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
287533
I am in this same situation right now and yes I do we are soul mates and we know the road ahead is gonna be a rough 1 but together WE will get though it.  I have got much negative feed back from the ones that know we are together but as w both say If this is what we want then who cares what others feel so on that note feel free to e-mail we can talk if you want the positive support is always nice to have and get
414548
I am having same Problems with my long distance boyfriend.  Will be interested to see the answer's here.
673198
I think that you should try to get some marriage counseling before you jump to any conclusions sometimes relationships just have rough spots you could just be stuck in one.