does the name of a guy you're having sex matters, because of what i've been told its not the same to be saying "oh yeah brian" to be saying "deeper paul" or "keep it up bob", anyways, what do you think?
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if she says all those names in one session . . . she must be a party animal . . . lol
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NO!!! ...But -how rude if that was said to you,noone should be making someone feeling they are not good enough in anything ,specially that envolves emotions,sex is not a sport-and if someone thinks they (are such an expert?!)and thay should say something to their partner about it-shouldnt be so direct,but may be make suggestions or give ideas,or ..anything else,but say -you are bad in bed!Thats all wrong and surely wouldnt make you feel better,but quite the opposite-and i'm guessing every time you are having sex you are very aware that youre being judged-like is some sort of competition..If you are in LOVE there is no right or wrong way,you just have to communicate more and understand what works for each other best =)\n...Am i wrong?!
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It's not really a tradition that I know of, and I have many Chinese friends, but there are many reasons he might not have wanted to tell you. Maybe you wouldn't have been able to pronounce it. Maybe he has the "Long Duck Dong" factor going on and it'll sound odd to an English speaker. Maybe his name honors an ancestor and you just don't rank the whole story yet. Just use the name he gave you to use. That's the same respect anyone should be given.
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I think men use the term nutting in reference to their scrotums.  My husband sometimes says he got a nut and I respond with you are a nut.  It means the same thing but makes it sound so cheap and impersonal.
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I too am worried about the questions asked and answers given on this board.  The questions asked about sexual subjects concern me, but fortunately they are not too prevalent.  Hopefully there is someone at Yahoo who is monitoring these threads and deleting the crudely sexual questions.\nOf most concern to me is the inability of people who have spoken some form of English for their entire lives to properly phrase a question or answer.\nEven when I was growing up (back in the 1960s-'70s, when dinosaurs still walked the earth ;)), educators told us that form is not important, but content is all that matters.  I disagree; without knowing how to communicate, how do you expect to make your point (or two)?  Many costly mistakes have been made in the world because people did not understand what others were saying, or misinterpreted what was being said.\nThe proper use of the English language seems to be dissolving into a morass of code words and irrationality.
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lol I dont think it matters. They are commonly used phrases in society and I dont take them literally. When I say such things, it is not premeditated, they just come out.so there is no real meaning behind them. Im not actually talking to a god or damning something to that non existent place at all.
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It's a name if iam not mistaken,maybe he think's thats your name\nor it's his name:-)
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hey lizzie, my advice is YEA. cause im the same damn way. i call this girl EVERY night. and i call her names like big-head, or slow, or nerd ,dork, just stuff that wouldnt really insult her. so yea my guess is he does.
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I'm not going to say yes or no due to the fact that it shouldn't matter....You said you like yourself for who you are....That is a sexier attribute than reducing yourself to a category...The funny guy or the serious guy....
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Wow that's different.....I've heard of people doing dirty chatting while they are having sex but not having conversations about other people..  Usually the talk is, if there is any at all , is about how good it is making us feel..................
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alot of people are offended about it because they think it is something that belongs in the bedroom and in the dark... i personnally don't mind talking about it , infact we had a nice group conversation last night about sex. although i don't mind talking about it, i wouldn't go out and tell every stranger i met things i would or wouldn't do either-- i have to be friends with the person i am talking to.
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If you met him on the internet, it does NOT mean he is just after sex, I met my husband on the internet.  As for trusting, whatever happened to giving people the benefit of the doubt.  That's what's wrong with this world today, everyone thinks everyone else is out to get them.
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No, he's not telling the truth. Even if he had to change your name to something higher up alphabetically, he would at least choose a girl's name.\n\nI can't imagine changing my girlfriend's name to a guy's name... just thinking about it feels weird... "Oh Andrew..." Disgusting!\n\nMost likely he's hiding your existence from another girl.
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Why do you people keep doing this to me? Huh? Why is it that you always embarrass me? NO! IT DOESN'T! And you know why? (I'm quite sure you do else YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION!) It's because I HAVEN'T HAD MUCH EXPERIENCE!!! Okay??? The only guy I've been with is Trent Reznor AND for your information, we do it EVERY NIGHT after I've tucked in for bed! There! I've said it!\n\nDAMN YOU ALL!!
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It can't hurt to refer to them as mr. or mrs. Almost no one gets offended by being addressed more formally (truly offended, not the fake my-mother-is-mrs.-jones offended), but many do get offended by being addressed in a way inconsistant with their opinion of respect.\n\nI typically go by either what they say (as in, if the superior himself refers to himself as "Jim" then that's probably what he wants to go by) or what others call him (and your peers - not people higher up than you - call him by his first name, I'd go ahead and do it).\n\nIn emails, I usually try to keep work emails pretty formal and devoid of personal comments.  If I don't KNOW I should use first names, I almost always address them "Mr" or "Ms" (which is the most acceptable abbreviation for women, since it includes married, respectably unmarried, divorced, or widowed).  Of course, when it's a coworker I'm friends with and we goof around in the office, I use a first name.
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I am afraid the result may be a little shocking (?), but if you don't really understand that, here it goes:\n\nIn "fah q" just replace the "ah q" with " uc k" and I guess you will get it! That is an open (though quite rude and blunt!!!) invitation for you to be a permanent sexual partner of the person who asked you that.
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Yes- ask him what do you think OTHERS would think if they heard this. You need to try harder to keep this a professional setting - for BOTH of us. I don't want anyone to get any funny ideas about us, thanks. (hun...) LOL\n\nNo- everything but the hun should be said to this man. Especially if he apologized but then never changed his actions!