i'm the kind of person who wears her heart on her sleeve and has gotten hurt tooooo many times to even believe anything is possible right now, at this age... but could it?
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Yes it is possible and I speak from experience and knowledge!  I met my hubby in 10th grade in highschool.  I was just about to turn 15 but not quite so I was 14 really.  EVERYONE said it wasnt real love, everyone said it would never last, my mother wanted to throw minute rice at the wedding cuz she said thats how long the marriage would last!  NOONE thought it would ever ever last!  We have been together 22 years now and happily married!  It only gets better with each passing year!  he is my best friend as well as my husband!  YES YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE AT 15!  Just remember to get your education at the same time!  Take things slow and never ever let a guy pressure u into doing something u do not want to do!  Always be true to yourself!  Good luck sweetheart!
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Time heals a broken heart i know at times it dont feel that way but i have been there the pain words cannot decribe. Sometimes we look for answers on why and how life for all has its ups and downs. But theres a purpose now you cannot see it a year from now you may not see it but its there, i have a story of my life that will really make you think but this is not about me its you. Iam just telling you everthing has a reason one day you will look back on this and say he was right because i know iam right and your blind with hurt. Look i told to people all the time in here about this and that some listen and some dont iam no expert who is we give advice on what we have lived and thats the best we can do. Anyway iam gone with one finally thing to say go forward somethings out there for you and ever young man and female.
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yes i have...there has been times that all you want is someone to be with..and you kinda know you cant have that right now...it sucks to thinks about the fact that you may not have someone for a while..and you wonder what you can do to change that..i dont think a person can survive without love..and compassion...it is what makes the world go round...you need that shoulder to lean on when things go wrong or get bad..and when you have someone it takes a whole lot more time to heal than if you had that shoulder..so yep..i know what you are talking about..when you get skin hungry all i can say if feed that appetite baby!!
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Yes please! The sooner the better I say! So many times I ask myself how much hurt could be avoided if men/women were honest and up front with their intent?
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You have said it in the first line of your question here, that this problem seems to be based on your past. You seemed to have been wounded by something that has already happened before. Its best you sit and think. Go back to that part of your past and mentally think as to what you could have done to make things better. I know doing so will be painful but it is something that you must do in order to ease the pain. Continuous suspicions, mistrust issues are not to be looped over such a long period of time, especially when you have beautiful people around you who I am positive are caring and concerned more than you know. There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of and most of all there's nothing more frightening than fear itself. Another question here from my side is why is it that you are afraid to love? I am asking this because we all know that what you give is definitely what you get back in return. If you provide love and affection, it is guaranteed that it will come back to you too. If you have any further questions or need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. Remember, there are so many wonderful people around and you should give them a chance before you can think of anything else. Before that, please try and do what I've mentioned earlier about looking back and thinking for a moment. Until then, take care. :)
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As a cardiac nurse of some thirty years, I am amazed at what men will put up with hoping it isn't their heart.  Dear man, you need to get to a doctor and do it now.
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I also believe that if you ask for a miracle it will happen. \nI broke my back when i was 18 im now 38  twenty years ago. \nIn 2 years time.. i will be 40.. this is a big mile stone for me. \n\nI was told at 18 that by the time i was 40 i will be in a wheel chair. \nI was also told i wouldnt walk again. \nif it was .. Mind over matter. or a miracle.  or both. \nI know something higher than me helped me..  \nGot me back on my feet.. step by step.. year by year.\nI pray still today.. that i will make my 40th birthday.. walking.\nHappy.. and Alive with every moment that is around me. \n\nBlessings. ALD
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Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
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Don't expect to never get hurt. Just asking this question indicates that you're a sensitive person, and there will be things along the line that will hurt you. Just be sure that you take a little time to think about things rather than a gut reaction, which will only aggravate situations.
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Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!
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2nd chances are a scary thing...I've found...through experience...they usually don't work out.  But everybody is different and people do change...so if you feel really strongly about them...why not.
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of course it's possible...as long as you feel the spark i think theres nothing wrong about it and i think youre old enough to know whats right and whats wrong for you. so go for it!
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I have, it is probably very common.  When that happens there is no going back.  Better to figure that out early on.  Trust that gut feeling.
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I know very well what you mean ! i think that the worst is to know that you found your second half , your soulmate but because of the circumstances you have to separate . it happened to me 6 years ago , and even thou its not that painfull as it was at the start i still spend a lot of thoughts on him and on the time we shared . will i get ever over it ? i dont know , i just know that yes , time heals a lot of pain , i dont feel pain anymore but i still think !!!! you will learn not to compare with time and besides its a bad thing to do . of course i know that its not easy at all not to but even this time will teach . ok , in the bottom of ur heart ................but i am sure that you will manage . think that there are a lot of people on this universe which felt the same!!! i wish u luck and all the best !!!!
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maybe.. luv can happen to anyone at any time at any place
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Ironic yes, Priceless no.\n\nI hope she is ok, and the fact you still feel the way you do shows yours is a strong conviction (even if you are wrong)\nWelcome back.
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I think she was trying to tell you that she her heart hurts!