i am a 20 yr old women and i have a extremlly low sex drive you wouldnt expect that from a 20 yr old is there any thing i can do ?
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it might just be a hormonial in balance
605032
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
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Age is only a small factor in a mans sex drive.  At 43 depending upon his job and if there are other factors in life stressing him out he may only have time for sex a couple of nights a week.  On the other hand if life is good and everything is going great he may feel like having sex every day.  At 43 though unless he is in really great shape his body is starting slow down a bit and while he enjoys sex just as much it probably takes more time to get him excited and he probably doesn't recover as fast after.\n\nNow after all that I have to say that your decision to marry him shouldn't be about sex unless there is a major difference in your sex drives.  I think there needs to be some compatibility in sex drives but it shouldn't be even in your top 5 of things to consider when deciding to marry someone.
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hey, dont you think you are too young to have sex??\n\natleast i feel so...sorry!!!
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I believe I have as much sex drive as any man I know.  Traditionally that has been looked down upon in society.  I would say the difference may be that men can have sex without any emotional attachment.  Women can do that for a short time but eventually our emotions get the best of us and we want more.\n\nAs a woman I certainly have the advantage of multiple orgasms and my lover needs to refuel.  \n\nMen reach their sexual peak in their 20's, women get more and more sexual with age.  Hence the growing number of women seeking younger male companionship.  Where as a man with a younger woman has a trophy and she had a big expense account.   He's using Viagra to keep up with her and doesn't realize the viciousness of his cycle. \n\npeace
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Was he like this when you first got married? Has his sex drive dropped or stayed the same? Some men don't have a very active libido. It's usually hormonal.\n\nIf it isn't satisfying to you, try to suggest seeing a medical doctor.\n\nA person's sex drive is an individual thing. But for the record, your husband's does seem rather low for a newlywed guy. I had a friend who's husband was the same. He got help--against his wishes--but it worked.\n\nYou can't compare yourself with other couples, really, but  the average is about 3 times a week. We do it more often because my husband is a horn dog. As he ages, it is lessening though. We've been married for 20 years.
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Could age play a factor? Sure, but that's most likely not the direct problem though the problem is more than likely related to age with respect to either stress or chemical imbalance. \n\nThe most common problem for lack of sex drive is Libido which is directly associated with both Testosterone and Oestrogen (not Estrogen) levels, though Oestrogen level is a rare occurrence in men. A male can have complete ability to perform sexually without erectile dysfunction but not have the sexual drive to act on it. There are numerous medical remedies for the chemical issue but stress related problems would require different approach and treatment.\n\n\nRead 'Testosterone Levels" at this link:\n\nhttp://www.thefooddoctor.com/books/book3_men.php\n\n\nRead what other men say about loss of sexual drive:\n\nhttp://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_60/77_love_answers.html\n\n\nPersonal Thought: I'm almost 53 and my testosterone levels are actually marginally high (7.3g) so in my opinion its not his age so much that's a problem but more likely due to either stress or chemical problems.\n\nFootnote:\nAssuming your relationship is otherwise good then the one other possibility could be discounted and that is when a man's having an affair and getting his needs fulfilled elsewhere.
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dont have it so often.  then it will be more specail.  try foreplay but then no sex.  then carry all that sexual tension for a week and have a blast one night.  try new positions or techniques.
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I think you should go see a sex theripest and they can help you with your sex drive and lustful feelings. I also think you should speak to your husband befre you get married about this he needs to know that you want to please him but don't want him upset if he can't please you. Do not fake orgasms it is just insulting to them if they ever find out.
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Try to find things other than sex to work on...put your mind off sex. While you're obviously still going to have a high sex drive, it will help if you don't constantly think about it.
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well its normal for a woman to get horny and how old r u? and there is nothing wrong with masterbation so u can go pick up a vibrator or just use ur hands
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don't mess with mother nature! it's perfectly natural to have a sex drive and it is BY NO MEANS natural to impede this drive because of some silly social construct. \nyour problem is exactly the same as all those Victorian women had, only that they had it worse since they were being told that they weren't supposed to have a sex drive at all. until Freud came along, that is. and he wouldn't have had a clientele if it hadn't been for women with problems like yours. \nso, let's face it: either give in to your drive or go mad within this next year. \nif you already know your husband-to-be - why not have a word with him about your problem? \nif you've made this promise to someone who is not yourself - rethink the promise. the only person you are responsible to about your sexuality is YOU! \nThis is the 21st century, for f***'s sake!
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Have you been diagnosed with post partum depression?  You have to determine why your drive has decreased.. tired? fear your child may pop in?  Just not into it?  If you're going to attempt changes without the assistance of speaking to your doctor, maybe you need to spice your sex life up.  Initiate.  Be assertive.  Try new things.  Time away with your partner/spouse.  Good Luck!
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19 with two little kids and a boyfriend of 5 years, yep my sex drive would be gone too. Being tired or over burdened or even giving out a ton of love and affection to children all day can make it feel like theres nothing left at the end of the day. \nThat combined with the fact that youre still young could kill a sex drive.
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You are probably near menopause, and this is normal.  You are a little past your prime (30's something), and your hormones are doing a number on your libido.  Don't worry.  Talk to your spouse about it for support.  Maybe you're feeling unattractive.  Feeling attractive can make you feel incredibly sensual.  Go get a massage at a spa.  Get a make over.  Some new bras and panties.  Something they'll remind you that you are still a force to be reckoned with.  Remember Demi Moore is in her 40's and has Ashton Cutcher doing his thing with her.  You can remain a sexual person all the way up into your ninety's.  It's all in your mind.  I recommend just standing alone naked in a mirror, and see your self being pleasing and pleased with the one you love.  You first have to know what's going on with you sexually.  You can also talk to your doctor, but I wouldn't recommend meds, because of all the stinky side affects.  I hope you continue your journey as a sexy, beautiful woman.
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It sounds as if you might be heading into menapause. If not being interested in sex bothers you, see your physician. There are a number of treatments available which can help you with this.
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I'm 52.. libido is variable but it helps to find a lovely concubine! It depends on who you are with who can help to light your fire. Perhaps the other answers do play a part.. not smoking or drinking too much.. In addition if you have too much weght lose it and to dress and behave younger may help.. If you have a good feeling about yourself it can help alot.