I can't borrow money because I haven't paid my freinds and family back yet.
122801
Do you have a job? You never said if you even have one. If not, get one. If you have a job, get a second job. A lot of people have to do that now days. Also what are you spending your money on? Take a look at how you are spending your money and if you are buying over the amount you make, cut out buying things you do not absolutely have to have. Do not go to one of those payday loan places. They charge really high interests and you usually end up worse off. Some places charge like 100% to 300%. If you borrowed $100, and they charged only the 100% you would owe them $200 when you try to pay it off. Those are rip off places. They are on the news reports all the time about how they charge you extreme amounts. They are like loan sharks.
392046
i really hope for your own good that those arent your real details...\n\nim sure your family will understand your broke and cant afford gifts.... same as me this year.
136054
first off call the cops. they may be lying to you. second contact the legal aid dept of your area. they can help you out if you don't have the money.
471095
you have to pay them back some how try to talk to them about a payment plan.   You benefited from the first one you got to use the money so you need to pay them back.  Sorry for the bad news but as they say if it seems to good to be true it is.
284892
You gently remind them. If they make an excuse to not pay you then and there, get them to commit to a date (I'll have it all for you next Friday) or a payment plan (I'll pay you $10 every Monday). \n\nIf your 'friend' still evadess his/her responsibility, just banish this person from your life. $100 or so is CHEAP to get a person like this out of your life forever and ever.\n\nNext time you loan a friend money, get something for collateral. That way, if there is some reason your friend can't pay you back, you can sell the item and get your money that way. So no matter what happens, the two of you can still be friends. If your friend both intends to repay you and values your friendship, your friend will readily see the wisom of this plan.\n\nWhen you loan money to a friend without getting collateral, you often lose both your money and your friend.
467466
Your best bet is to call your lender and work out a deal. When someone defaults everyone loses - the borrower, the lender and the taxpayers. It's in everyone's interest for your to start paying before they start garnishing your wages.\n\nYour lender has dealt with this kind of situation before and will have a process in place to help you.
48706
I need a loan you can help me
531407
Sometimes peoples willingness to help might surprise you, specially around the christmas season, but you gotta realize also that people are very untrusting nowadays, I would say to raffle rather cheap items and state that the proceeds will go to this family in need. Try to contact the media, or your local radio stations, they migth be willing to help. Hope i was of some help, Really wish you the best, i hope you do get to help out this family
365149
I would be honest with her and tell her that she has not yet paid you back to 200.00 and therefore you are not able to give her any more money....she is treating more of a gift than a loan unfortunately.
198773
From the information you've given, I strongly recommend documenting everything that happens or is discussed between you and your employer.  It sounds as if this person is in financial trouble and you may have a problem with getting the money you're owed.  \nIf your employer is 4 weeks behind the normal, scheduled pay dates you should first attempt to solve the problem by telling the employer you need your money immediately. I also recommend looking for an alternate method of providing income for your family.  \nIf the employer will not terminate employment, and you have not signed a casual labor contract, you need to speak with a labor relations officer.  This can be done at your local employment insurance office.  It sounds as if you work for a small organization and unfortunately your employer is not interested in taking care of his employees.  \n\nGood luck and remember to follow the proper channels so that you have moral superiority and the law on your side.
472333
You should call up the your local water company and tell them you think you may have an outstanding payment because you have never received a bill and have therefore been unable to pay. They can look it up for you by your name and location, and unless you're in base housing you generally have to pay for your utilities. You can also ask them to wave the late fees since you have never received a bill and I always offer to mail a payment right away if they'll give me an address rather than waiting for them to finally mail something to you to return it in. Just get a balance and write a check.
478456
try stop the bank transfer NOW then call police they can trace this kinda thing  and you  should be covered for a refund from your bank depending on the bank you are in they cover loses
369064
Life is long, you'll have time to eventually pay them back. Don't worry about it now. Wait until you land a new job, then you could take them out to dinner or whatever. Be patient.
84469
You should contact whoever has your loan and work it out. Maybe they'll let you pay it in installments so you can catch up.  Don't ignore it or it may go into collection and your car might get repossesed.
65124
Man, that blows - the same thing happened to me... you'll be in debt up your arse.  I really wish I could help as I was in the exact same situation and you are right you feel like your are being steamrolled by a system designed by a bunch of narrow-minded nitwits.  Like these people never hear of a DISFUNCTIONAL FAMILY and like maybe we need even more help than someone else but they treat you like somehow you have claim over your parents' money.  So they act like your resources are ones that you can't use and use that to deny you help.  I feel for you, man.\nThe only thing I can suggest is going over and getting to know those financial aid counselors - go over there and make appointments and bug them and let them know your situation and that you are going to go and you really need them to get creative and help you out.
463718
No they dont, i have exactly what you refer to, i just keep getting bills saying your minimum payment is not due yet.
254218
MY DEAR MAN HOW COME YOU HAVE MANAGED TO BECOME A DEBT-ER TO THE TUNE OF 5000$. IT IS REALLY A PITY TO HEAR THIS, UP TO THE AGE OF 53 YOU HAD MANAGED TO GET ONLY 5000 $ VERY POOR.\nNOW PEOPLE THREATENING YOU, MEANS THAT YOU HAVE TAKEN A HAND LOAN FROM WHOM SO EVER GIVING YOU, NATURALLY THE HARD EARNED MONEY MADE BY OTHERS ARE WASTED LIKE ANYTHING BY SOLES OF YOUR TYPE AND HOW DARE YOU ARE TO ACCUSE OTHERS IN TURN. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT LAW APPLIES IN YOUR PLACE TO COME OUT OF THAT.\nIN MY OPINION  YOU HAVE TO SURRENDER TO THE LAW AND TAKE PROTECTION. SECONDLY SELL ALL YOUR BELONGING AND REPAY AT-LEAST THE PRINCIPLE AMOUNT TO THAT PEOPLE FROM WHOM YOU HAVE TAKEN THIS MONEY.HEVE SOME UNDER STASNDING WITH THEM TO REPAY THIS AMOUNT OTHERWISE YOU HAVE TO MEET THE COSEQUENCES. NO ONE WILL COME FOR YOUR RESCUE EXCEPT ALLAH IN WHOM YOU BELIEVE. WISH YOU GOOD LUCK