my best friend is 11 and a half stone and has a big chest and has blonde curly hair,, do guys like that or think she needs to slim down??
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161 pounds (73 kilo) isn't that much, depending on her age, height, and body style.  I don't like super skinny toothpick women.  I like buxom women with hips and breasts and curves.  It's hard to find a that package in a girl that only weighs 110 lbs.
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I am also flat chested. I am 23 and married. I was worried about it my whole life. I always thought what do the guys think. I wore padded bras to make it look like I was a little bigger. I didn't tell my husband until 1 month before we were married. I felt like I had to tell him before we were married and then he would find out. It's all good. He loves me just the way I am.
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I felt a little guilty reading this. You are right. We say that we just want a good man, but we look at the abs too. I am short and have a lot of boobs and junk in the trunk, but no junk anywhere else, so thank you for giving me and other women like me respect. I am not fat (fab abs.. gotta brag a little work hard at them) but educated, but I do see your point. (@blonde coley) For all the trash that you just talked, honey you better be a perfect dime peice. To talk that much trash, you need to make at least 100,000 a year, have a PhD. and be the most desireable thing that ever walked the earth. My guess is that you probally are not. I wonder how many heads that you turn at the beach..What makes me sick is when an inadequate person tries to find fault in others. You have to be lacking to be so angry. Before you say that I must be heavy, no baby, I have DD with a 25" waist and booty, but I am confident enough in myself to not have to put someone down to feel better about myself. I have a feeling that you are the skinny, pale guy at the beach that have his shorts pulled up really high in the front, with the swim flippers on.(or the girl that looks like the skinny pale guy)
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Hi there,\nIt sounds like your best friend is important to you...you know...there are alot of hot brunette's out there...if she was not a nice girl to your best friend then she will not be a nice girl to you...you like your best friend most likely because you share the same interests and points of view in life or at least like to debate them...you can use your best friend...even though that doesn't sound nice...as a stepping stone for you...if he doesn't like her then probably you wouldn't either...anyway...this advice is my best shot at your problem...hope it helps..good luck.
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No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
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I think there are guys who prefer a certain body type, but one body type I think guys would not prefer is someone who is sickly thin.  There's nothing sexy about that.  If a girl has curves, that's sexy.  If a girl is too big for her body (overweight) it's not sexy.  But some men don't mind it.  But best of all, if a guy really likes you, he may not care at all what your body looks like.
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MAYBE THEY WANT BREATS! LOL WELL ANYWAY YOUR JUST STARTING TO  DEVELOP. WHO CARES IF YOUR FLAT CHESTED WHO CARES WHAT THEY SAY.THEY DONT KNO ANYTHING UNLESS THEY HAVE SOME THEMSELVES.ANYWAY ITS BETTER TO BE FLAT THEN HAVING BREAST BIGGER THAN YOUR HEAD!
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Yes. This is a hard question to ask. Now you made me even more confused lol. Let me tell you a story. I have this beautiful Asian Girl friend. She is very cute but she is short and a bit chubby that even make her look shorter. She is trying her best to get fit. I still love her but I feel that the rumor that men usually lose interest to the face and start thinking about the body is true :(
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i think you should let him do it and you decide to do hair and makeup he wants to dress like a lady then do it lady ALL the way just dont let him wear your favorite outfit incase he is bigger than you.
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Yep I know someone who thinks she is so BUFF! But he is 18 and has raging hormones :D (He watches it when he baby sits)
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Lots of men like women with some padding.  Compromise...don't gain and only lose enough to be in the healthy range...not to have an anorexic appearance.  Be happy that he isn't that type of man to leave you because you aren't the slender thing he married...men have been known to do that.  Count your blessings!
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Personally, I care nada about the hair on his head ... bald is fine, so is long, and anywhere in between, tho I am partial to long hair, that would never ever be a deciding factor .. it's all about personality and sense of humour to me.\n\nAlthough .. the presence of chest hair is a selling point for me ;)
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He most certainly is. He needs to grow up and get a life.  I think he has a fetish with curvy chicks but is ashamed to admit it, and that is why he tries to put up the front that he does.
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i am 5 one and a half, 25, and 128 lbs. i have always been the skinny one in the group. if you have a little more cushion in your hips, behind, and breasts, believe me you will appreciate this in about 6 years when your "skinny" friends are flat as a bored with no a $ $ !\n\nreal women have curves. boo yah!
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An intelligent girl, who is also pretty is very hard to come by these days, I don't blame the girls, I just blame the whole, it's ok to be stupid I am beautiful trend. It is very depressing, I am 17, and many girls in my school have no idea of what they even want out of life, all they know is, they don't need to know, because everything has, and always will be handed to them in life. So you are a very rare breed of girl these days, and if you looked in the right places, I am sure you could find a slew of guys. Breast size, only someone immature or, in our case, given we are only in highschool, someone way to mature for you would think breast size is an issue. So if you take anything away from this, let it be that you deserve a guy of the same value as you, make sure you don't settle for someone who isn't intelligent, smart, and IN YOUR EYES attractive, because you deserve that and more.......Ohh and heres my aim if you would like to talk. PSO Addicted
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It is very normal, and most women think chest hair is sexy. Leave it, and do not worry.\n\nChow!!
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Just because a guy is shorter than you isn't a good reason not to be with him. You said your still in school, but you didn't mention how old you and this guy are. If you two are in middle school (5th - 8th grade) then you guys are just starting puberty and he's not necessarily going to be short and skinny forever, and there's a good chance he's going to get a lot taller and put on more weight and muscle. If you guys are in the beginning of high school (9th - 10th) that would put you roughly in the middle of puberty, he might grow a little taller and he still might put on a bit of muscle. If you guys are near the end of high school (11th - 12th) than you guys are nearing the end of puberty, in which case he's not going to get much taller (maybe a 1-4 inches if he has a late growth spurt) and he might stay skinny, but maybe he'll get into lifting weights and build up some muscle.\n\nYou mentioned that you're "tall and chubby"... did you ever think that maybe he's under the same pressure not to be with you because of the way YOU look? The fact that he likes you and asked you out means that he's more interested in hanging out with you and getting to know you, than being concerned about how you look. There's a good chance that his friends and other guys around him are going to give him crap (if they haven't already started) about liking you. \n\nChubby is a middle ground between "Average" Weight and "Fat", and most guys your age don't acknowledge this weight class. To them your either "Average" or "Fat", their is no middle ground. Right now this guy is interested in you, which means he thinks your nice and your "Average" weight, but the guys around him maybe saying, "Dude, she fat. How can you like her?" If you snub him because of his height, he's going to bail, and he's not going to like you as much as he did.\n\nIf you really want to be with this guy, then looks shouldn't matter. You have a chance to be in a happy relationship with someone that is interested in being with you. The fact that you said yes when he asked you out shows you like him, if his looks were such a problem you should have said no. \n\nHe's able to accept the fact that you don't look perfect, and is willing to be with you. Why can't you do the same?