i miss my boyfriend and now i haven't seen him in like 9 days and when he can come and see me he won't he's home now but doesn't care apparently as much as i do he came back last night from being in ohio and he didn't come to see me and now he didn't come to school because he's too tired should i take this as a sign of maybe i should break up with him?
129051
Talk to him first. If it still appears that he is too busy for you, you've gotten your answer.\n\nIf he can talk to you, express what you are feeling and take it from there.
664897
He sounds immature.  Ask yourself if you  are better off with him or without him.  Sounds to me like without would be the way to go.\n\nI just ended a 7 year relationship - so don't feel alone in this.  I feel sad at times but am getting my life back together without his head games and am feeling at peace\n\nGood luck
134283
i think thats a normal thing when you find yourself sad...especially after a break up.  Breaking up when you dont want to, is like suffering a loss, and with that loss comes the sadness of the "what might have beens"...its like you are mourning the loss of a life that could have been, but now is gone all together...and thats normal.  Being tired can be simply a way of your body trying to cope with the emotional heart ache your mind is going through...remember, just because you are asleep, that doesnt mean your brain stops functioning...and its going all night long trying to process this loss and these emotions...with time you will be fine(yeah i know everyone says that, but it REALLY is the truth).  So good luck, maybe try getting a little more sleep...at least you are out there doing somthing instead of staying home and being completly miserable...give yourself a lot of credit for that...cause i didnt go anywhere for like a month after i broke up with my ex...and i slept all the time...so i feel you.....
148545
I think he might have left them there on purpose...why?Because he likes you and maybe feels insucure about himself,this is a way of knowing he'll see you again.Call him to say he left them at your place and ask if you can come over to bring them?
103605
If you think there is a possiblity that he could be still doing this if i were you i would tell him that you dont think things are working any more and you think you two need a break. If hes not knocking on your door telling you how much he misses you in about two weeks then you know hes getting it somewhere else. If he does come knocking on your door. well then you know where he stands
305329
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
50356
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
570465
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
181183
Girl, the same thing happened to me but my guy was much farther away. It hurt so bad not being able to see him that I dumped him. I felt alot better afterward. You should do the same. He's obviously causing you alot of pain. Do what you think is rigyht, but keep my advice in mind. Good luck!
278210
Sounds like he just wanted an excuse to leave. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its the vibe I get from your description. Try to move on and find someone who will love you and be honest with you. Best of Luck.
576808
girl if you love or at least care about him there are plenty ways you can see him or her again, i was with this guy for a month and a half, and he unexpectanly moved back home because of this family and we made sure we saw each other at least once a month if not more. i just all depends on how each of u feel and if its meant to be it just is\nDONT GIVE  UP HOPE
618420
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
47099
Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.
44075
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
372369
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
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He is taking advantage of his freedom and figuring things out.  Stop stressing about him and enjoy the other things you have in your life.  Not that that's easy though... There is always the chance that he might come back... but why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you?  So that he can do it again later on down the road?  I think you should work on moving on... don't wait around for a guy that is probably sleeping around right now.
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hey i think dat is not a big problem. u can understand that he may be tired or busy. so just give him some time and hope and have faith in ur love!\n\nhope all gets wel soon!take care and be patient and dont loose ur love! cheers and god bless!