Hi, \n\nJust out of curiosity...\n\nI love to treat a gal, like a lady...\n\nSeems so rare these days, the words you hear...\n\nWomen are gifts guys, treat them as such, any opinions?\n\nCheers!!
123902
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
626591
Sorry to hear that you wound up hooking up with a real creep,not all guys are like that . Myself I like to shower the special lady in my life with attention , affection and praise. I  don't believe that any woman deserves to be treated badly by a man. Take your time and really get to know the next guy who sparks your interest you never know he could be the one and if he is he'll know that you're worth waiting for.
222431
Don't haggle with it dear...we want what women want-sometimes not in the same order...that is all.The majority of us do/will settle down when the timing seems fit.For the meantime we cannot deny what nature has designed us to do...we must indulge in it or be at constant war with our inner being.If women could just understand that and feel what we feel for just one day...the majority of them would not post all the "Why are all men/Why do all men" questions anymore!We know that we can't live without women...but when will you women admit that?\nNothing personal miss..just food for thought,thank you & have a goodnight.
416546
I always thought of myself as being a tomboy growing up and am even more now...... and I personally think that guys would prefere their woman with some back bone and not afraid to get alittle mud/or oil on her hands, rather than a prissy girl, who cares to much about how she looks.  Besides when you dress up really good for a guy now and then you sparkle like a dimond!  Be who you are, they will love you for you.
303461
I would be, I'm open minded, caring and generous.  Not trying to be a creep though.  Maybe what they are saying is that you need to meet someone genuine, not the "typical" guy who thinks of himself superior to women, and that a women's place is in the kitchen, stuff like that.  But rather a man that would treat you with the respect and understanding that your friends think you desrve.  Good luck on finding that special someone.
536561
guys!!!\n\nJust give a girl a gift card to the mall and she's happy!!\n\nwell, maybe that's just me :)
170701
Cant speak for all girls but I love to be treated well. What makes me happy is the simple silly things. Holding hands, talking, snuggling, sharing things, simple jestures.. doesnt have to cost money... just show that they care.\n Yes there are many American girls that can and are loyal.
311200
Gals need real love, it includes romentic night outs, lovemaking games, lilbit respect. Money, shopping etc wot u guys r thinking these are not that much important. \nBeing a gal I need lots & lots of love fm my man. I want to be his best friend for that I need him to be honest with me. She need to talk and to listen, sometime she need a solder to cry and some time a hand to hold. She ask for lil care and give you lots in return. Guys she is not only for sex, if u find out how to give her all that things she want you must be start living in Haven. Try it...all d best
335739
They have no respect for their own body or for anyone Else's.  Guys seem to think their "thing" is a machine gun that has to go to war and that girls are the target.  They should reconsider and realize that they have a bullet that is just as important as the target and usually no one wins the game.  \nAlso, they are not being responsible and seeing their bodies are a gift worth giving too, and that the present doesn't need to be unwrapped so often.  People do not like passing gifts!!!!  One day someone they know will find out that someone they know untied the same ribbon and feel pretty yucky.
636772
Girls are suckers for guys who take the time to show that they care about them. Flowers would be nice. Maybe a teddy bear. Respect is also important. Girls like to be listened to and we like to see that the guy we go out with listens and tries to understand us. Well, take care.
235382
I know what you mean. I have many female friends who will agree with that too, and of course some who won't. \n\nMy Dad always tought me that if you treat women badly they are much more kean. At first I thought this was rubbish and was always the nice guy.... just got used, abused and spat out. So, these days I don't give any quarter, love is a vicious game at times and a girl loves a bastard.\n\nBut the trick is that I don't want to settle down right now. But when I do I will explore my more sensitive and caring side with one woman who will want to do the same with me, but until then we (men and women) will continue to keep treating wach other like sh*t.\n\nSo take a leaf if you like, and just stop caring too much... be the bastard; you meet more women and thus have more chance of finding the right one. Lets face it, it's what women expect!
355118
Oh yeah. That guy absolutely is head over heels for the girl normally. Too bad he's in the friend zone. I pity those guys more than any other man on the planet since they are so incredibly close to what they want and they will never get it. Its kind of like a homeless person that owns an unbreakable box with $1000 in it. The person wants that money more than anything, but they have no way to get to it. The plight of the "male friend" is truly one of the saddest in the history of humankind.\n\nWhich is why I don't make female friends anymore.
237538
By them a nice music Cd or a good book, what their sexual orientation is, should be irrelevant to what you could give them as a gift. They are normal people after all, why should they be given something "lesbian" as if they were something strange? If they are your friends you should know that.
85698
nope, its cool.\nthats a good way to pick up women.\nmost women LOVE that stuff.
186789
great question and the trouble is you're trying to understand it from a guy's standpoint so you have no chance.  it's definitely down to what the girls here have been saying that they just feel uncomfortable with it and there is also a sense of predictability in treating a woman too nice. I'm single but cool with it as I know the key to all of this is being who you really are and not trying so hard to impress.  concentrate more on what makes you happy in life and the right girl will be attracted to that. don't try and make others happy as you'll lose sight of yourself
67425
I think that although it is tradition for the man to shower the woman with gifts, modern day suggests that since there is more of a balance between sexes in everything we do, gifts should be exchanged. They don't necessarily have to be expensive jewelry, but something your significant other would appreciate.
611727
It does seem to be a forgotten practice,but I blame the whole women's lib thing that has made it somehow wrong for a lady to enjoy being treated like a lady...sad indeed.\nRomance,courtship,and chivalry are all missed,even by those of us we never really had a chance to enjoy such things.