crave sex 24/7????i want it sooooo bad but im not married and i promised myself and my mom id wait till mariage.all my friends who have had it say"its awsome.""the best feeling ever." when he sticks it in you..." is there any way to ahve it but not really have it???like faking it???
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There's always  BOB (battery operated boyfriend)
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i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
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Honestly, I can tell you I go looking for it and I never can find it because I do want a relationship and commitment.  I personally Choose not to just sleep with the next hottie walking down the street, I want dinner and possibly breakfast... A phone call and a second encounter. I am not saying that it has to be set in stone, but if the man would put forth a little more effort in the follow up game, I would be a little more eager to explore more men.  The feeling you get when a 1 nighter is over is awful, Even if he would just call for coffee and say hey, I ad a really great time with you, but I am not where you are.... or some bullshit line I would rather get that than being ignored completely.  As far as cheating is concerned... HELL NO... I am a strong believer in do unto others as you would have them do unto you.... last time i checked i didn't want my man sleeping with anyone else... If I want variety, which I often do I have toys... and my man enjoys changing it up a bit for me!!!
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I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...
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all men get horny in the morning, it doesn't mean they have to have sex...it's a few minutes feeling that they can ignore.... come on, he can save it for the evening to be with you ! please don't settle for that, this thing is addictive and it's already showing :"almost every day"... and the stress part is pathetic, aren't you under stress too ?! does that make you watch porn every day??? This is how you should talk to him and be firm, try to find a compromise at least, or believe me, you're heading right into a marriage disaster ! Good Luck
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Any time you have lust that is accumulated to such a degree I'd say it is natural to masturbate.  If you really have it bad, not only 4 days out of a week but a couple of times a day.  You probably became so frustrated (blue balls) that you could not expect to continue the long courtship, which is probably culturally necessitated.  You tried, but obvisously couldn't hang.  Is it possible to speak to her and suggest that at least once a month you meet at a motel and exchange physical liaison away from parents, since you plan to marry or is that totally out of the question?  Don't blame you for masturbating pal, but if she is unavailable, I'd try to satisfy craving away from parents.
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You're conscience is already telling you that it is wrong to engage in premarital sex.  If you are a Christian, that is God's way of giving you a strong warning.  It may be that your emotions are strong, but obviously, you have already been pushing the envelope a bit and getting a little deeper involved in the touching, etc. and you are getting close to the point of no return.  You may need to try to back off from what you are now doing with your b/f and make sure you will not be put into the 'moment'.  Your will may be strong, but it is not going to help you if you keep putting yourself in such a strong temptation situation!  What will happen, is you will eventually get so far along that you will say, 'what the hell!' and just go all the way.  I know, I thought I had a strong will.  I opened up a whole trove of problems with that one what the hell.  It will probably destroy your self will.  I got involved in drugs and other stuff as a result.  I opened the door a crack and the devil kicked the door right down.  You will do what you want to do...it will be your choice.  You do not put a gun to your head with 5 loaded barrels and say, I am lucky, and fire.  It is a dangerous game you're playing and one day you will get burned.  I hope you can hold to your values and truly be able to back off now, before it goes too far.  Blessings.
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I use to think i was sick and asked my Dr. if i was normal to have such a strong drive that it drove me crazy and i seemed  to want more all the time. He said, it is a natural and normal feeling and some people have stronger drive than others. I started experimenting to try and learn how to control it better so not to drive me so batty. Don't be so concerned this is natural and your blessed to have orgasm's and a good strong healthy drive and desire for love. It's called life. Some people wish they could do what your able to accomplish. Masturbating is healthy and normal. The fact that you can help yourself while he's away keeps you out of trouble and satisfied. Learn to teach yourself and him how to turn you on more. Foreplay is a very wonderful way to teach and learn from each other. It will turn you both on to do this to one another and share idea's and curiosity's and fulfill each others fantasies and make some up as you go. I have personal experience and can tell you honestly that this really works as long as you are both willing and able to open up and share with each other. Good luck hope i helped
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i see what you're saying, and i feel the same way a lot of times, i too am a Christian virgin. i will say that lust is wrong, as all these guys have.\n\nhowever, Christ calls us to a relationship with Him, and to walk with Him daily. really, if we just live in His grace, thats all we need to do. if masturbating comes naturally when you're walking with Him and it seems like it's not tearing you from Him, go ahead. as paul says, "everything is permissible for me, but not everything is beneficial... i will not be mastered by anything" (1 corinthians 6:12). pray about it, and make sure sexual desire isn't mastering you. paul also says in galatians 5 that it is for freedom that Christ set us free, and under the grace and will of God we don't have to live in fear of the law, because following the law doesn't make us Christians or perfect or whole or fulfilled - Christ does. so listen to Christ and the way He expresses Himself in all kind of different forms, and don't be tied to legalism and whether or not there's a black and white solution for everything. normally there's a lot of gray areas, and thats why Christ doesn't want us to follow the law, He wants us to walk with Him and be free in Him.\n\nit also says in galatians 5 that one of the ways the Spirit of Christ expresses Himself in our lives is by developing self control within us. and what i've discovered is that a good way to develop self control is by disciplining yourself (with His help) to stop masturbating if it is controlling you and if it does makes you more free when you're not doing it. its also freeing, when the urge comes on, just to say "satan, i don't have to listen to you. Christ has set me free, now, so i don't have to listen to you anymore and i don't have to look to this kind of pleasure to fulfill me. get away, in the name of Jesus."\n\nthen just search your heart for His words, and don't be afraid to pray about it, a lot.\n\nlove in Christ, may He give you guidance to know what to do, and the grace to accept His love and forgiveness when you don't listen to Him, because nobody does perfectly.\n\n:)\n\n\nwww.myspace.com/shoobadablam
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hmmmmm  ......... ur fear is of loosing ur man and not of being horny ....... \n\ntalk to him n ask him if he wants sex ...... some guys wud luv to fu*k a pregnant girl while others wud simply feel guilty ........ \n\nin any case intercourse is outta the question n i m thinkin oral is the way to go .... \n\nur man is different from the rest n thats y u chose him so ask him n not others .....
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I think in most guys it is just a want. i cant say why guys want it so much for sure cause ia mnot a guy but i would say it has to do with the point that men think sex is everything a realtionship is not always made stronger by sex so if you feel that having sex will not stronger your relationship or that you really don tlove the person then dont do it. this is a way to find out if they are in the realtionship for you or your goodies. if he tries to play the "if you love you will have sex with me" then they most likly dont love you so dont do it.\nhope this helps
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YES, a lot of guys are like this, and if you wanted more than a quick fling you should have made that clear before, not after.\n\nI think you're too young for this, even though you feel like you want it. Stick to boys your own age if possible, although that's still no guarantee of not getting hurt.\n\nWhen you're older, if you want casual sex, that's your choice, as long as you're careful, but for now this isn't a good idea. \n\nI know it's not easy when you're permanently horny, but remember to respect yourself or nobody else will.\n\n(PS, I don't want to sound rude, but are you sure this really happened, and you didn't just fantasise about it? Because if you did, then that's cool, best way to go about it.)
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The reason they want you so much is that you are a rare person. Wonder what percentage of the population has had ONLY one sex partner? VERY SMALL PERCENTAGE, I BET! I admire you for not having multi partners. You found what you wanted, and you stayed with him. Way to go! But the guys just want you because you're practically a virgin, at least to them.Hope that answers your question.
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Yes, you have some pain; it's just like trying to break into something that has been closed, and yes it is pleasureable, but if you are not married, please wait.  You will be very grateful.  It will only be disappointing when you began to have sex, and it's not with your husband.  You will start having sex with any tom, charly, and harry that comes along.  If possible, stay a virgin until marriage.  It is only diseases and death when you take a chance.  You never know where someone's mouth has been.  Try to meet someone that has the same mind-set as you do.  Be ye equally yoked.  You will not regret it.  Your body is precious, don't let others abuse it.  It may be the popular thing to do, but it's not the safes thing to do.  Do not let your peers pressure you, and if the do, cut them aloose because they are not your friend!  Save your body for that special someone.
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I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
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many young people feel urges to have sex early because its all over the place.  You should wait for a bit longer until you are ready.  I went too early and I am now regretting it because I know now that I started way too early.  There are other ways to satisfy yourself without using a boy.  If you get pressured into it, just wait until much later.  You and future boyfriends (when you actually find men and not little boys) will definitely appreciate it later in life.
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I used to practically beg my ex-husband for it... then, after I asked for a divorce, he told me that he was watching movies every night after I went to bed.  (I had no clue & felt so dumb!)  He said that it was because when he was with me it didn't last long (it didn't, maybe 15-20 seconds).  When he, um, took matters into his own hands, he could prolong matters and it felt better.  Then he asked for my help.  It opened the door of communication, I helped with "exercises", but we still divorced.  I was emotionally over him and just drained.  I felt like he lied to me for too many years and he was being selfish.  Don't wait.  Get help now, before it's too late....  What a waste!  We both enjoyed sex - it could have been so much better.