Ok-Theres this guy. he`s like my best friend-he makes laugh 24/7 - but 1 problem- I love him! wat do i do. if i tell him it could wreck our friendship! Help- plz & thnx
138130
write aqnote, put it in his locker ect. if he syas gross say i had to do it cuz it was a dare and it isnt true1
232814
Let it go....and leave him alone. If it continues into something more serious, it could be detrimental to your friendship. Not to mention, it could cause legal issues for him if word gets out...
124069
Be 100% honest. Why waste time if it could mean a good relationship. And if you are worried about him not being your friend...well, if he does decide to be mad...he wasnt a true friend. Just go for it.
398729
If your best friend knows that you like him, she's not being a good friend is she? When she's not there, flirt with this guy but not too much to the point where it annoys him. Next time you like a guy, don't tell her.
234801
You are a guy, and he is a guy, right?  Makin sure I understand the question.  True friends are the BOMB, but if you are a guy and not gay, then just tell him like it is - you like women, you love him as a friend, but ya just don't go that way ... if he's a true friend, he'll understand and won't hold it against you.  You've been brave and strong enough to be his friend - even though he's gay and you're not ... if I'm getting this right - you've gotta be true to yourself just as he is true to himself.  Just put it out on the table the way it is ... the truth is always the best policy.  You might tell him if you were gay, he would be the first one you'd come to, but you're not.  He'll appreciate your honesty I think, and you will be closer friends for it.  And if I'm wrong and you're a female with a gay best friend - they are good friends, and I've found, real, honest, down-to-earth people, so....same advice.
417321
If he's a really good friend, you should be able to tell him anything. You should tell him what your friends said, and ask him how he feels about it. Let him know, though, that you consider him as a good friend and that you don't want that to change if he does like you more than a friend. If he cares about you, he will understand and not pressure you to feel differently. Who knows, maybe he'll laugh at what your friends said! Just don't be afraid to talk to a good friend you trust about anything. Good luck!
260673
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
64222
I've heard about this type of case before, if you like him and he seems to like you too, you guys should give it a try. You wont loose anything, just make sure you guys talk about it and say to each other that if it doesn't work you'll still be as best friends as before :-)
202700
OK don't stop being his freind because that will make him like you more, ok. talk to him face to face. say you need to stop doing this. or i will tell your GRIL friend. i had to do that one time. it worked for me\n\n\n*giggles*
46402
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
292867
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
317768
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
128766
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.
301209
Well if the guy is your friend (real friend) ...either if he loves you that way or not ( bf/gf) ....he will still respect you and talk to you ... he might ned time or feel unconftable for the frist 2 weeks but he will get over it if hes not interested...\n\nThe best thing tell him alone ...so no one else can laugh or say stupid stuff ( your friends can be your friends but sometimes they lack brain cells in situations likes theses)\nTell the guy you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way as you its fine, that you dont want the fact that your feelings might hurt the friendship you all have ...that you will survive if hes not interested...that you will not try to make him unconftable...or stalk him ...but if the feeling and similar...it would make you happy...
224323
you should definately tell him . it happened to me too. its great if he's your friend because you already know a lot about eachother and your comfortable with eachother already so definately go for it! dont worry about it.
178212
dont be embarrased but i think u should tell him about your feelings first and see how he responds and if he wants to take your friendship to something more then two thumbs up but if u just start to shock and kiss him and he doesnt want to be with u in that way and your only friends then u will be even more embarassed and maybe hurt and theres a possibility that the friendship might become ackward so i would suggest that u guys talk first and figure out what your going to do. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
219041
Tell him camly. Don't rush through it. But first tell him how you want to be friends no matter what. Then try and be relaxed and just tell him straight forward. It's risky b/c you might lose your friend but that's a chance you've got to take.Good luck