I love men in all ways. But i have a problem finding out wether i'm straight or bisexual. Because i love having sex with women, i can be friends with them too, but i just can't have any other emotions besdides that for them. So what do you think? Does it matter if it's only about sex or not?
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why worry about putting a title on what you are. Straight, gay or bisexual. It doesnt matter. As long as you are happy with who you are. \n\nBTW...Im trisexual. Ill try anyting sexual ;)
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Okay...\n\n(1)  The "girlish" or feminine side in every male psyche is probably unrelated to his sexual identity as a gay, straight, or bi man.  Certainly the sets of traits that get characterized as "feminine" (whatever that means) are present in different degrees in every man, just as the sets of traits that get characterized as "masculine" are present in different degrees in every woman.  Maybe the whole girlish and boyish thing is a ruse, anyway, to keep us all acting as our authority figures instruct.  \n\n(2)  That said, to the extent your question is about being "100% straight," you may be confusing sexual fluidity (that the categories aren't as fixed and intractable as we are conditioned to believe) with actually taking on a bisexual identity.  Certainly a lot more people are bi than are comfortable admitting it.\n\n(3)  Being bi, however, is not universal.  The fluidity of sexuality is fairly universal.  But actually being a bisexual man is a particular sexual identity, not a secret reality beneath the surface of straight or gay identity.  Bi men are their own thing, their own culture, their own life-way.  Sexual fluidity is a different phenonenon--living culturally as a straight man, and primarily relating sexually to women, but with a capacity for some homoerotic desire or experience--this happens all the time, and would happen much more were the social consequences of being branded gay so negative in a homophobic society.\n\nSome of us, though, really are bi.  That means we are not hiding ourselves inside someone else's identity.  We live openly as bi men all the time, even when sexually monogamous to one partner (whether male or female).
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You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
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Yeah, pretty much;  If you like Michael than women, and you are a male, then playing with other guys does indeed make you at least bisexual, and maybe even gay.  Im a gal, and no way have I ever been attracted to other women in a sexual way.Yup, admit it, and be careful.  HIV is THE disease among gay men, so look into safe sex to stay well.\nGood luck
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I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal.  I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed.  I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman.  I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally.  To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not.  And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive.  For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi.  I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.)  Hope this helped!
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why do some straight women like men who are considered, "a man's man" while yet other straight women like men with more effeminate traits? \n\nSuppose there are just as many stereotypes of heterosexuals as there are homosexuals.
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well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
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Yes and thank you for your email. I've never wished I was gay although the girls would often acuse me of being gay. I've never desired or even thought I was gay. I've always Loved being out with lady friends but sometimes they expect sex and I'm just not interested in them that way. But some times I do find someone I'm in Love with not in a sexual way but I'd like to be by her side.I think about sex if that would keep her by my side.But by the time I'm ready for that, she's already found herself another man.
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umm, lets see...well from experience, i just treat guys and girls the same. i dont think of them as a "male" or "female," just as someone who makes me happy & who i make happy. i really dont differentiate, which is probably why i'm bi. but i mean do what feels natural/right/whatever. it's a relationship just like any other. =] good luck!
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I think that would make you bisexual or at least bicurious. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I just think if you are straight you would not have those thoughts.
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Some people limit bisexuality to sexual practices, arousal, and attraction only. However like homosexuality and heterosexuality it also includes things such as affection, love, and companionship. True some men use it at as a mere turning point but others are able to be comfortable with both men and women and may not be attracted to both equally and even have a preference. Some men feel that they don't have to choose because people want them to and thus they don't. For example a man can have relationships with mainly men during most his adult life but find a woman who he falls passionately in love with and ultimately spends the rest of life with. He could still be defined as bisexual despite him having a preference.
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Well, as a bisexual, I can tell you that it all depends on her and her idea of commitment. I love chicks, but I would never leave a man for a woman if he was someone I truly loved. But something I'd like to know is why did she just tell you this? I believe it's the type of thing you shoud tell someone from the very beginning, especially if it's someone you're serious with. I would just talk to her openly about it and ask her if she's willing to give herself and her heart only to you.
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i am straight with some lesbian tendencies... i strictly date men, but i do find some women attractive. but i would never have sex with a woman,
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Honestly, I think some people simply don't explore that option because they're happy with their sexuality, even if the same sex may seem enticing. I look at other women and of course I am capable of acknowledging an attractive one. I've even contemplated a three-some between my boyfriend and one of my friends. It is an interesting topic, but I personally think that despite what others may tell themselves, I'm pretty sure most people have thought about exploring this option of flirtation between the same sex.
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Well to be quite honest, you could be bi. I personally do not see anything wrong with that, and quite frankly many women are bi. I am not sure of the psychology behind, it but it is definitely more accepted than men w/other men. I would not freak out if I were you, take things as they come and you will know in time. After all it may just be that the idea is attractive to you, but if the opportunity to be with a woman arose you may find yourself not wanting to pursue it.
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Speaking form personal experience, it's both physical and emotional.  I had been bi from about the age of 12, so I have been in relationships with men before, after 5 years of no men I can honestly say that I am happier now and was probably straight up lesbian all along.  I was never in fear of what a relationship with a man would mean, nor am I now.  I just happen to find women much more appealing, who wouldn't want a woman's body?  Plus, the emotional connection is much different.  Women connect with women on a different level, as do guys.  Most of my friends are men, but I only date women.
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If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.