I love this guy and I'm totally crazy for him. I would even die for him. Except he loves another girl. And it's breaking my heart. My friend asks him what he thinks of me and he thinks i'm OKAY. What should i do?!
119151
Leave him be. You can't make somebody love you, especially if they love somebody else. No matter how hard it is or how much it hurts, let him go. Nobody ever wants to hear that, but trying to force it or taking desperate measures (NOT saying you would do that) always leads to a bad ending. If anything, just be a good and sincere friend. I truly feel for you. Your heart will need plenty of time to heal and I wish you the best.
146605
you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
240565
um..\nthats kinda messed up,\nif u see that hes still with her, then oviously he doesnt really care what you think.\n\nthink of it this way.. would you want some girl saying that and wondering how she can get ur guy to like her instead of you? and want to break  guys up? i dont think youd like that.\nstop being selfish and get another guy that DOESNT have a girl.\n\ngosh.. i dont like girls like you.
190594
To me it sounds like he is falling for you as well. He probably makes fun of the other guys you like because he is jealous. If you really like him as much as you say, then he probably feels the same for you since he treats you so well. You should just tell him how you feel. And if his feelings are not the same then just remain friends. But honestly it sounds like he digs you!!
286424
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
116844
call him and tell him how u feel. if "kk" was in your shoes (if shes a good enough friend) then she would let you have him. when two friends like the same guy, whoever gets to him first gets him. so good luck.
543584
Have you just asked him.  Ask him how he feels for you than ask how he feels about her.  Then ask if he had to choose who would it be.  if he says he don't know than maybe you should get some space but don't disappear.  If you can't handle his feeling for her than you should give ur self some time. Don't be with a man who loves someone else.  but if he tells you his feeling for you are stronger than his feeling for her than you stay and fight for him.  He seems honest considering he let you both know about each other, so I think he'll be honest about his feelings for the both of you.  You Know, even when people love each other they do grow apart and even though they have nine years he may not be the same man and may actually be the one for you now.
208326
Well its normal it happens many time maybe to everyone....\nits coz when u 2 r together u know tht now this person is urs n u dont worry of loosin him n try to tell him his faults or start findin sumthins which r not agreeable to u. n u then start thinkin do i seriously love this guy??? Thts da only thing tht is happenin with u n when u see him with other female friends u feel jealous its obvious coz its ur guy u love him a lot u will feel paranoid n possesive abt him... but dont worry just think y do u love this guy think abt his positive aspects tht made u think y do u love him n u`ll forget all his silly faults.... if u really love him u`ll try not to think tht u dont love him becoz i think u shud not break over this relationship just becoz u think he has sum silly faults.... \nCommon u love this guy u cant break up just bcoz of mere misunderstandin.....
270766
You should get over with it. A guy who is not honest to his love, is not the perfect one you are looking for. So keep your friendship. If he wants to get close to you like the other girl(not the girlfriend, he is in love with), you can get a clear conversation & then you can decide what to do ... for now be a friend. Cause things are not always good when they are fast. Give it time, then decide.
356267
Why are you letting this guy make you crazy?  Why is he the one making all of the decisions?  You're smart, if a girlfriend of yours just told you what you've told us, what would you say to her???  Maybe it's time to move on...
46667
Do you really want a 'man' that shows attention to 'other' girls? What if you were his g/f now and he was treating another the way you say he treats you ? Your suffering from that famous disease:'I want what belongs to another syndrome'! Back off, sweetie, he aint yours ! Peaceout !!!
161698
You have to follow your heart.  Maybe slow down rather than break up.  You might not feel the same if you were to see another woman hanging on him.  He could be smothering you which is scaring you away.  But if you truly know that you won't ever love him, then let him go.  He deserves to be loved just like you do.
172637
Have a talk with this guy, find out why he says he loves you because this guy sees something with in you that this guy likes about you. Give this guy some reason why you don't feel the same.Tell him you don't feel comfortable  with hime following you. Tell him could be friends get to know more about each other [ likes- dislikes ] Tell him you are not intrested in him at the present time. who knows maybe in the future a relation ship could develope between you two.
232822
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
9765
Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
272201
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
184161
Let him know your interested if you haven't, so he knows his options.  Don't try to be better then this girl. You are who you are, if he likes you for you, then great. If he likes the other girl, thats something you can't help.  But if he doesn't like you, he's not the right guy, move on cuz theres so many guys out there. he's not the only one.