my frnds bf left her bcos he got bored of her but she is a very interesting person with very good sense of humour. has he got bored of her or found someone more interesting. we r very confused because he really loved her a lot, please guys answer this question we gals cant understand whts on ur mind.
135259
And we guys can't understand you girls...but anyways, there could be a number of reasons as to why he broke up with her, and him saying that he's bored of her, he sounds like a bastard to me. I don't think that's a very good reason, and it's probably not the reason he did, but then again i don't know the guy. He might have been interested in her at the beginning, just looking for a good time, but now he's found another girl who's  different, which he finds interesting, but will get bored with. Using "I got bored" is a cheap way out, and I'm sure he uses it on all kind of girls after he's had his "fun." Obviously he doesn't love her enough to stick with her, and to talk and say, "We could make more our relationsship more interesting." I say stay away from the guy, get over it, and move on.
160136
If you are skeptical after two years he is not the one! Don't waste your time on someone you are not 100% sure of, or ask yorself has he done anything to you to make you think he does not care?? If yes, then there you go, if no, why are you skeptical??
278829
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
335242
sounds like u didn't make your move fast enough.  Ive noticed that when im looking for girls they never take me seriously, but the second i finally find a girlfriend or start seeing someone that all the girls i was JUST CHASING all become jealous (like you), to me it sounds like you're a bit of an attention whore, and you're just jealous of the attention she is getting that you aren't.  If you really cared about the guy, which is possible, wait patiently, even let him know that you wish you would have expressed your feelings earlier, and that you really regret not doing so.  Maybe him and his girlfriend will have a fight, and knowing he can come to you, he might dump her.  But if you follow through with this, don't get bored with him just cause you "got" him finally.  I NOTICE THIS LOTS TOO!  Remember what it was like for him to not pay attention to you and how bad it made you feel.  What ever u do, don't break up a relationship just because you are jealous of the attention you aren't recieving from a guy who wants a girl who will give him her attention back.
113798
My boyfriend is still friends with the one long-term girlfriend he had before we got together. He still talks to the girls he had flings with throughout his early 20s. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't bother me occasionally. The important thing is that it's only occasionally. I trust him and I know he would never betray that trust.\n\nIf he still has feelings for them I'd be wary of getting too attached to this guy. He isn't bad, it just seems like he isn't sure of what he wants. Maybe those feelings will fade, maybe they won't. The important thing to remember is that he is entitled to those feelings and you can't force him to not have them.
587848
hey sorry to hear that,id like to say becareful,sounds like you still young,well im 22 years old girl,if i really love a guy and do care about him,i would never say that bullshit to my bf,i think she just fool around you,or she got somebody else,the most imporant thing is u havent found out the truth now
530056
Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
586819
He's your ex- for a reason, right? And Mr. Boring is boring. Okay, I got it. Now, explain to me why there are only two men in the world??? You have an ex- and you're seeing a boring man (who *I* would have (---and did---) \ndump(ed) after the first interaction. You need someone who's good for you and not just someone who's "just there". And I wouldn't bare ANYTHING for anyone just to be with someone, if I caught your meaning (which I'm not sure whether I did or not).
15199
Hes not into her like he was. She used to be fun. He might move on...
248937
I think you're best letting this one go. He obviously isn't in for the "long haul" and if he gets bored with you that easy, then he's just not the one for you.  Yes, the "love rush" wears off in ANY relationship, but if there isn't a friendship and caring left that makes him want to stay, then let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you are better off honey. Find someone who will always love you.
460421
It is what you make of it......if you get boring she is gonna get bored with you. If you one of those people who gets stuck in a rut and likes routine,,,,,,,,,shes gonna get bored, If you never want to do new things etc........its gonna get awfully boring. I don't feel there is ever an excuse for being in a stale mate.
24717
Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
625460
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
201514
I am sure she values your friendship.  I had one guy hang around for about 10 years as a friend, he heard about all my boyfriend stories, etc. Then one day, it happened, we got together and it was great until he used some bad judgement several times and it ended after an on again, off again 6 months. Since then, 5 years have passed, he still hopes we'll get back together, but it is harder to get along with him since that 6 months. He's angry and expects more. I liked it better when we were just friends, but his hope kept him around.  \n\nHis problem is that he had always set his expectations for a female partner too high.  He only wanted a hottie and was very judgementmental about a regular girl. If only he found a regular girl with a good heart, he would have been married by now and had the 2.2 kids.  She might be too hot for you, but having a hot friend isnt so bad.
225173
were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
87983
that happened to me before too.\ni really like one of my close guyfriends(and he found out. one of my friends told him). but he was dating this other girl, who's one of my closest girl friends. it really sucked. but then after i stopped liking him. we still continued being good friends.
521142
The truth. When was the last time you knew a guy that had a best freind for a girl and that girl wasn't hott. I mean come on the average guy isn't going to waste his time getting to know a girl and spending time with her if he isn't find her at least somewhat attractive. Now does that mean he would ever act on it. Well thats a dfferent question.