yea she liked him, but he asked me out over the phone one night when i was over at her house. she seemed mad at first, then she got over it now she wants him so shes been butting into our convesations, and she follows us around everywhere we go, we barely get anytime with each other cas shes always talking to him, i need some good revenge i daes to get ride ogf her and have some fun at the same time
137146
"remind" her of something embarrassing in front of your guy, or even start making out with him in front of her or mid-conversation. that'll shut her up!
502505
Well sounds like shes really gonna go all out to try to win this guy back. I dont think you can stop her if she wants it that bad.
313985
Sounds to me like she wants 'to have her cake and eat it'. One rule for you and another for her.\nThe point is you appear to be accepting this situation which suggests she has the upper hand in this relationship. She can do whatever she wants and you have to like it or lump it.\n\nGet this straight, there is NO SUCH THING as just good friends between two heterosexual people of the opposite sex. People like to pretend there is but experience tells us otherwise. This is why in the back of your mind you're not comfortable with her lunching with this other guy.\nYou see, one of these straight friends always likes the other but doesnt want to tell her/him because they're afraid of rejection and of losing this person forever.\nGet your revenge in first, if she insists on doing it her way start making plans for life without her. You will never be happy in such an insecure relationship, the whole thing sounds phoney anyway.
625635
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
432763
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
23967
Ouch. It might have been how you said it. If you were gushing to her about how cute he is, then maybe she got defensive. Maybe since he's a new boyfriend she is  just protective because she doesn't want to lose him. Maybe by your "beating heart" she got scared. Give her some time to cool off, and then let her know that you have no intention of taking her guy, you just wanted to let her know that you think he is a great match for her and wanted to let her know that he is a good looking guy, and you meant no hostility in it. It might take her a bit, but she'll come around.
473609
maybe u just looked at her at the wrong time - she had just glanced at you. it's a little weird that she was scratching the guy's back - so it does look like she was trying to make u jealous. if she doesn't "like" him it's nothing to worry about. she's just taking her flirting to another level...if she's never done something like that b4
196362
yes he deffinately likes you, i remimber when a good friend of mine asked out my girlfriend for me (with ount me knowing it) and she got mad at me for it and said she didnt want to ruin our friendship. then later that day my friend asked her out (now i know it was just to make me mad)and when she said yes i hurt for ever. then when she broke up with him (he didnt treat her right) she started hitting on me but i iggnored it thinking she still didnt want to go out and finally i got the courage to ask her out and we have been dating for about a year now--thats pritty good for a high schooler
472058
i think that you should confront her but not be so mad about it. than you can ask the guy to a movie or something. get a little revenge back on her.
521272
You have it bad for her.  If she liked you, she would have went out with her when you asked her!  Seems like you need to get her out of your system!  It she wanted to go out with her and you asked her, she would no doubt let you know that she was willing to go out with you now!  It seems like you need to get real and forget her!
309972
Why is it her fault that he used to like her?\n\nIt would be one thing if she was still trying to be with him. But you didn't say that. All you said was that he used to  like her. Is there no one that you used to like but don't anymore?\nGo have a good time and do not let things he did in his past hold you back.\n\nIf you really do trust him you will not have a problem.
174685
I would tell her that she has to ask him out herself. I wouldn't do it because you're not helping yourself any. If she doesn't like you I think she's losing out because you sound nice. Try to find someone else someone that cares about you.
642363
From what you said it seem to me what went on with buddies of mine when we were young and stupid. I have had buddies that could not stand their girls. And when the sex got boring it was time to bail. If they heard rumor from the girl's posse that she was thinking of dumping him, or that she had dumped him and he was not told yet. they would do a 360 turn and be the most charming you ever seen. To get her liking them again or take them back. Then they DUMPED HER. So, the official story is that SHE did not dump me, I dumped her. I think that is what he did. She came back, he had the power. And he used it. He was never really into her so much as to be the one to turn on and off the tap. She lost. She better just move on.
74131
No, You're too good for her actually. She probably flirted with both of you at the same time, but waited for her preferred option. She just lost you!
309745
sounds like his a real jerk, she will get fed up. next time u see him out. call her let her see it for herself. than she will change her mind, i pray she gets out soon , this is not the man for her, he cheats alies an now is hitting her, do u no her family, call them . good luck to you an her, please be careful .
113995
yes ,this happen to me ,my GF ,BF kept hitting on me so we set him up.  O ne night he calledTo prove it was a bootty call he was to walk down the street in boxers /carrying a briefcase wearing knee socks and dress shoes.if he wanted to get with me ."he did" my GF and I watched him walk down the street from her balcony  across the street. .He lost her/we had a laugh and we still have a strong friendship.\nGL
74704
It sounds like she really loves the guy.  That's not something that you just get rid of over night.  It's there and it'll be there for a while.  All you can do is help introduce her to new guys, ones that will help keep her mind off of her old boyfriend.