I am really into this guy who seems like my total opposite.  Is it possible he is the ying to my yang?  Did this ever happen to you?  If so, did you or didn't you act on your attraction?  What were the results?  If you didn't act on your attraction, did you regret it?
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Ever here the expression "opposites attract?"  I married my total opposite almost 9 years ago, and we're still going strong.  I think that when you get together with your opposite you sort of even each other out.  It's almost like we compliment each other.  We each bring something different into the relationship and that keeps things interesting.
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This happened to me one time.  A co worker seemed really interested in me and he started asking me personal questions.  I got the hint and told him I was already involved, then he said "Hold on baby girl, you got me all wrong...."  I felt like a fool to have thought he was making advances toward me, but I still believe that was his true intention no matter what his explanation was.  I think he was trying to save himself the embarrassment so he tried to make ME look like the fool (in which he did).  I just shrugged off the whole situation.  We still talked a little, but not much.  And eventually communication just completely taperred off.  I still don't appreciate how he tried to make me look stupid, but I knew what he was doing.
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thats bad. i think its wrong. i mean you souldnt just not like someone because they look bad. (just as an example.) or the opposite, completly fall for a big jerk because he looks hott. i just HATE it when people do something like that. both as just examples. i've seen it happen a few times though.
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Ditch numerology.  Adding "ology" to a word doesn't make it science.  What do you FEEL?  Is conversation between you seamless?  Does he seem interested, open, and honest?  You're both adults, interact like adults!
117349
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
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hmm, I just met someone at my practicum a few weeks ago and the same thing happened. we were polite, but maybe a little over the top and i think there was something extra going on. we shook hands, looked eachother directly in the eyes and chatted for a few minutes and when i had to go back to a different building, we were like "it was nice to meet you, (then he said my name)" and he wished me luck in my practicum blah blah blah. who knows though. if i'm not some kind of psycho i think we were pretty attracted to eachother\n\nso if you feel that way, i think you probably are right. so see how things go.. i'd chat her up a bit and eventually ask her out for tea or something.
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After dating several bad boys I realized I was tired and wanted to date a nice guy.  So I tried to find my very best guy friend that was so much fun yet very very nice and when I found him he is now married.  Lesson learned.  I think all women should think twice before pushing the nice guy away for the cool guy.
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When I first met my husband I thought he was a total dork and wanted nothing to do with him (in that way).  We became great friends and somewhere down the road he became very attractive to me.  So I guess the answer to your question is yes.  I was not physically attracted to him at first, then when I really got to know him his outter beauty was magnified by his inner beauty.
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Well how long have you known him before you started to date him? He must be a real nice guy for you to fall for him so quickly. I fell in love with my girlfriend when I first met her it wasn't a crush either the feelings I had were something I never felt before. But to answer your question yes I do feel that its possible.
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U and me, we unlucky- well that is if you don't like him- cuz i am pretty sure this guy that rides the bus i do was checking me out just yesterday plus he asked my younger brother if i was single and I don't like him at least not his looks. So anyway if ur the type to give any guy a chance go ahead if not do the following: do you have a perfect guy- kinda like an imaginary prince you made up except your hoping to met him some day?- if so i know this dude probably doesn't match up perfectly but does he have anything in common with your perfect man? Such as looks,attitude,goals,personality? Next ask around surely he has dated/gone out before and some one can tell you alittle about what he is like. 1 if you can not find anything in common to your perfect man NO. if he has bad being with grlz history NO 2. if he has a few things in common and good history TRY IT 3 if he is alot in common with ur perfect guy YES and good history YES YES if you don't have a type of perfect man go with your gut if he seems nice then go for him if you have a twisting in your gut mabey stay away.
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im a women but your question intrested me . of course not unless there were tell tell signs in your underware . god he was a jerk ! just his parinoid nature eh??
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Love it blind, YES, definatly, when I fell in love, I fell in love with a screen! (internet friend), and he's not as good looking as I expected my partener will be, but my feelings for him are CRAZY and overwhelming, he's irresistable...!\nBut I dunno what happens to men when they fall in love, cause I am a girl, but all I can tell you is that they become like KIDS!
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me and my best friend liked the same guy once...but when we figured it out, one of us backed off. Actually, my friend liked the same guy I did and he liked her, so I was the one who stepped back. She didnt act on it anyway because she knew it would hurt me. Its doing things like that that makes a friendship last.\nso yes, that has happened to me.
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I just can't say the name.  Major crossed signals.  He liked me, I didn't like him.  I liked him but was too indecisive.  This went on for about 8 yrs.  Then suddenly I discovered I loved him.  Like I was finally seeing him for the first time.  It was like a bolt of lightning & I realized we were perfect together.  I finally got up the nerve to tell him I had come around, and before I got the chance to say anything, he told me that he had started dating my good friend.  \n\nI was shocked, but I figured it wouldn't last; I knew in my heart eventually he'd come crawling back to me.  I mean, come on, how could he not?  :)\n\nBut love was cruel... instead of him coming 2 his senses & sweeping me off my feet like in some Hollywood finale, I somehow ended up in their WEDDING.  You have no idea how much that sucked.  I drank myself silly that night out of a broken heart.  *sniff*
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my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
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I would do it right now! I have done it before and found out he started up an account for a dating website. I got on there and changed his preferences to males rather than females!\n\nIf you are curious, go for it but brace your self for what you might find....
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I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!