...everyone has a soul mate or there's one person for everyone?\n...in love at first sight?\n...in santa? the easter bunny?\n...in intelligent-creation or evolution?\n...in extra-terrestrials?
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1)Yes\n2)Yes\n3)Yes\n4)No\n5)No
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If I am attracted to, or in love with a person, whether it be for looks, or personality or both. I am only attracted to that individual person and it makes absolutely no difference to me whether they are male or female. Call it greedy if ya like, I call it evolution!!
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Yes, I do beleive in love at first sight cuz it also applies to friendly love, all of my best friends that I've been close to for years, the first time I saw them, I knew I loved them, I knew we'd be close, and I was right, same thing with my husband, I was 15 and I literally saw him across a crowded room and I saw what my desire for a partner looked like in the flesh, he told me he was confused about the strong feelings he had for me the first time he saw me too. It is not just lust, it's recognizing your soulmates.
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Love in my mind is good energy. Wether it is between two people or for many it is a part of what makes humankind what it is. \n\nOn the other hand I also tend to think that movies and television have given us a romantic fantasy world of what love should be.  This causes people to meet and think they have this perfect loving relationship very quickly. Then reality sets in and noone is that perfect so things end messy. I wonder what relationships would be if we were not given the impression that they can be perfect.
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I agree. Every single emotion; every single scenario imaginable; both sides of the extreme and what lies in between will occur in this universe. In my opinion, anything is possible in this universe…ANYTHING! And I don’t think this universe has meaning without human ‘observation / awareness’ (consult ‘the observer effect’ in quantum physics + my question about the sound of tree falling in the forest).
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Being in love with two or more people at the same time and all parties agree to the relationship. Usually two women, one guy.
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I believe everyone has a sole mate
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A spiritual connection,.. or fantacy dreamed up by constantly comparing bodies. (If I could build the dream girl)\n\nWhen I see when I think I could love. I realize fantacy fails when reality sets in. I only love parts of her, and wouldn't have the connection. A person of fantacy would make up reasons to compramize this connection.\n\nNow I just say,.. she's probably just my spiritual type. Is she for me? Only if we have common ground. For lust comes and goes, and it's not a big enough common ground to keep you together. People who live in lust will say the romance ends in the morning. People of love, would love them just for their soul.\n\nI think spiritual types are like this. Energies on the same level, make good friends. Energies on opposite levels charge each other. Maybe it's just a residual effect.\n\nThe difference between men and women was created in order to consolidate lifes needs into roles toward each other. It takes love between the sexes to look beyond these differences, and into the soul. So spiritual energies can be the same. Unless they already figured it all out how to work out their problems.
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It's diff. for everybody. Some have a lasting relationship with someone they felt that they're soulmates, some don't lasts. In my opinion, it's your soulmate if u don't even have 2 say anything and u both agree on something just by looking in their eyes.  You have that heavenly feeling everytime u talk, see, and be with that person.  When u meet the right one, you'll know, somehow it's built in inside our being that God put in us to find the special one.  It'll be hard 2 explain fully especially if you haven't experienced it, but just the state of euphoria that comes after you get 2 know the person. As if u can't breathe on your own anymore without him/her, and in your mind you'll do everything to be with him/her, no matter what!
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I believe there is one true person for everyone.  You can spend time with a lot of people and like many qualities in them, but when you find your soul mate, it is like finding your best friend that you have known for years.  You can finish each other's sentences because you know what the other one is thinking.  You both share a common respect and genuinely care for one another.  There is no anxiety about being together; things just seem to fall into place naturally.  People are truly fortunate to find them in their lifetime.
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A "soulmate" isn't necessarily the person you have sex with, or are even attracted to, physically.  It means you bond on a spiritual level.  \n\nIt's ideal if your spouse is also your soulmate...but your soulmate can be a best friend, too!
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Being compatible means you share common interests or likes and dislikes. You won't necessarily find someone who likes or dislikes everything you do, however there will be a common denominator to bind you together. Maybe you both like to water ski, or surf. Maybe you both like to rock climb or are both the outdoorsy type. To be compatible you enjoy each others company and there is chemistry there. It's true even in friendships. Something has to click in order to pursue the relationship.\nBeing compatible can be both physically and spiritually. It's usually a good idea to be with someone who believes the same as you, or is interested in the same issues as you are. Generally speaking though there are those who are so adventurous that they like to live on the wild side and date and or marry those that are complete opposites. But even at that, there is still something that binds you together. You have to be compatible with someone to continue a relationship. I disagree with your idea that we can be compatible with anyone. I have met some people who are very hard to get a long with, and very hard to relate to. So, my answer is no, you can't be compatible with anyone. That's like saying you can fall in love with anyone. And that is not true. However on that same note, yes I agree that you can find good in everyone. That doesn't mean I would want to spend the rest of my life with someone or have a friendship with them. It simply means I am an optimistic person who finds good in everyone! I hope this helps you in your endeavor to find out your question!
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Yes i believe in love at first sight.  My husband and I were lovers at first sight for weeks before we got together and we have been together now for 6 years!
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Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} ) at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
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I think it's possible, though I've only experienced love once, and it wasn't that kind. I've always held onto hopes of finding a love like that, and I've seen some friends who appear to have that type, though in the end, everything seems to end.
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Yes, every single individual living on Mother Earth has a partner in hiding... a soul mate that would practically match hundred percent with one! This has been a saying by people falling in love know and always. But this is also the truth. God made the destiny of mankind like that.\n\nSuppose I am a boy born at number 43.045230345 (on the scale of hundred) amongst the billions of people living on Mother Earth. Then in all eventualities there would be many girls born at number 43. Whether I get to love and marry the girl of my choice is purely dependent upon my destiny which is a controversial subject (one can always take control of ones destiny if we truly desire so)!\n\nNow, how do I find all girls at number 43...? This is where we falter... the numbering system of God being hidden from mankind... it becomes difficult to find the soul mate matching our choice and results in divorces, the divorce rate being abnormally high.\n\nIn the present materialistic trend one weighs the other from his finances, the bank balance, looks and alike. In the domain of God if we really want to search our soul mate... it may be hidden in the ugly frog for God may have cast a spell on it and unable to recognize one we marry the wrong girl! This is the irony of fate of most people the world over.\n\nThose who can hear the sweet small voice coming from their heart... the voice of our soul (atman in Hinduism) such truthful people sometimes are able to recognize their soul mate. And it is then we learn that a Mira Bai has been born. Mira Bai was a faithful follower and lover of Lord Krishna even though Lord Krishna was married and had a wife.\n\nThe love of Mira Bai for Lord Krishna had no parallel for it was much above the physical inhibitions expressed nowadays. For Mira Bai... sex had no role to play in the love she had for Lord Krishna. This is what pure love is all about! More on soulmate here- http://www.godrealized.org/truce_with_my_inner_self.html
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LOVE..\n\nIt is  the most beautiful thing known to humanity. it transcends all boundaries. it is vast, limitless, divine.\n\nit unites. it forms a never ending bond.\n\nit is pristine \n\nit is life giving...\n\nthere is much more to it. some parts of it which i am yet to explore...