The other weekend I was at a party and we were all hammered and I ended up going home ith a guy that has a girlfriend and a kid. I feel sick about it and haven't told a single soul about it. Is that the nastiest thing in the world or what?
126939
did you eat his co(k or fu(k him, if not then he was just giving you a ride home\ndefinately worse things
628946
you shouldn't be disgusted about it... it was not her fault. imagine how horrible she feels that some one close to her, her own friend raped her! i think most of all you need to talk to her about it and try  to talk to her, comfort her and convince her to go and get her stuff checked out... she needs you right now, as a boyfriend and a friend... i think she would feel even worse than she does now if you dumped her over something she couldn't control.
203078
I performed a wedding one saturday evening and then got invited to the reception. At the reception i tried not to drink to much but i lost count of how many jello shots i had.  to make a long story short i past out at some point in my friends car.  When I woke up the next morning i was being poked  and yelled at by the ushers of my church. I had only 1 hour till I was to give a sermon and i was hungover with the smell of alcohol in clothes. \nThey took me in by the backdoor and down stairs to the kitchen. I had a bird bath in the sick while they sprayed my clothes down with room spray.  i even drank down 2 pots of coffee.\nWhen I got to the sancutary the sounds of the organ about killed me. It felt like it was right in my skull pounding away at my brain. I stumbled around a bit and made it to the pulpit. I held on to the it with dear life and looked up to see my congragation glaring at me.  they was not happy with me!\nI did my best to lead the service but every little noise and every little light seemed to just stab at my brain. When I gave my sermon i did  it in a record 5 minutes and then ended the service. \nAfter the service i proped my self up against the doors to the church and shook hands with the people as they left. Noone really talked to me! \nWhen I got home I spent the day in the bathtub with all the lights out! The next sunday I gave a sermon on drunkeness!
464832
That ranks right up there with mine.  I was in a wedding a few years back and nothing to eat + drinking waaaaay too much = not a pretty picture.  First of all remember this is a wedding and I'm in this beautiful red dress and there is a videographer taping everything.  So, after downing a few beers, and 8 or 9 jack and cokes, and then being stingy with not 1, but 2 bottles of champagne I decide to dance and hop around like the friggin easter bunny, after getting tired I suppose,  I head down into the ladies room to get some cold water and I end up laying on the floor (yeah, yuck) with an audience watching as someone is trying to make me drink some coffee and eat some bread.  Now, I must tell you this part so I can tell you the next part, this wedding was a friend and co-worker so keep in mind that ALOT of co-workers were there as well.  After having a few sips of water my boss....yes you heard right, my boss picks me up off the floor of the ladies room and takes me outside, so there I sat like a lawn ornament for a little while, I believe I had my picture taken with anyone who was out there at the time.  So on to how I get home....my boss puts me into the back of his pickup truck and sits with me while his wife drives me home.  As we pull into the driveway and the tailgate comes down....right there in front of everyone who followed me home to make sure I was ok it happened.   I puked on my boss and his brand new suit....not once, no, not twice, no, but three (3) times.   The story does not end there, my boss, his wife and the maintenance guy from where I work were all at my house and to this day I have no idea how I got out of the now ruined red dress and into my pajamas.  Oh I also woke up on the front porch of my house with my head in my nephew's car seat.  The great thing about all of this is....I still have my job.   Hope you enjoyed the story ;)
110602
Well 28 is a little old to be partyin that hard. I hate guys who are lush's like that. I would not be able to handle my bf going out and getting trashed like that and not remembering..who knows what he's doing while he's drunk without you. I think you should talk to him about it and if that doesn't work you should move on. It's time for him to grow up and be a man.
581790
Nah. My dad called me his little girl til he died. I was 30. My son is 27 and still loves video games. I still love to party, just not as often. My girlfriend babys her grown kids that are married. Enjoy each other and enjoy life. It is so short.
507947
I think you need to let his father know that he and his friends our at home drinking. You seem like you are concerned and I would want to know if it was my children. These kids can end up getting really hurt if they are drinking and driving and they can hurt or kill some innocent person. If the father does not make any changes you need to call the police and keep calling into they do something they will get sick of your calls and will do something about it
98696
Some people use it like I used to. It puts the shock of life back into You. Sounds weird but no other way of putting it. Sadness and anger I vented on  fighting and loving the feeling of hurting another. Getting hurt only enraged me more scarring my loved ones away. The night my wife said she was to leave with my infant daughter, I broke down and cried for the first in nearly 15 years. It felt like a baptism. The water and blood that comes from inside you will change You always. It isn't crazy nor a ploy to  get attention . Everybody changes or is humbled at different times in life. That's how we are unique.
398945
it's about power of control to see who the weaker sex is and guess what girl you lost and he's laughing at you for being this way. ( get over him and move on find another boyfriend and have him to kick his ass  and tell him to stay the hell away from you for now on, you got it ) don't let him make you feel any less than you already feel and don't show anymore feelings toward him after this. ! sorry to sound Harsh but guys like that make me sick too !
66441
that's just gross...why would anyone want to do that?  cause they can't find someone for themselves outside of the family reunion?  nasty!
423988
Most kids my age, I'm 17, I wouldn't trust alone for a few hours let alone an entire night.  Kids are quite disgusting and I remember back to when we were 14 was when things stopped being so innocent with most kids.  Some of the nicest, smartest and most responsible kids I know are the ones I have recently found out are quite irresponsible with their dating habits.  I was a bit shocked and hurt to hear some of their escapades from them.  \n       But I am quite proud of the fact that I can be trusted and my parents do trust me.  I know that you could leave me and my boyfriend in the same situation and nothing would go on.  \n\nSo it comes down to trust and responsibility...\nIs he like every other kid?  or is he an exception?  \n\nWhat is their relationship like?  Are they quite physical or no?  Have they been together for a while?  Are they thinking of being together for a while (and 14 is a bit young to be seriously thinking that... so much changes in just a few more years)?  What do her parents think?  They should be involved in this decision as well.  What are the other couple like?  A responsible parent should be concerned about them as well.  \n\nWhy do they want this sleepover?  Will they be alone at this house?  (hopefully not... if so I don't think their motives are pure)  If it is parentless... why can't they have it at your house?  You can promise to leave them be and have the peace of mind of knowing nothing is going on.  If they refuse some supervision I would throw out the idea.  They have to be willing to compromise if this is something they want to do and there are no hidden motives.  Even if it won't be a sex party... will it be a drinking/drugs party?  Kids were drinking before they were having sex.  Will they have access to a liquor cabinet?  Talk to the other parents.  \n\nIf he is as responsible as you believe him to be then he should recognize how much he is asking from you.  If he gets too upset about not going then he isn't that responsible.  \n\nBest Luck!  Put thought into it.  If you are terribly concerned then don't allow him.  Offer an alternative if you're cool like that.  Maybe check for some all-night bowling alleys or laser tag?  That's what we like to do after school dances.
70349
i once told someone i totally hate that her partner is the best guy ever, go ahead and marry him, while he's actually full of rubbish (alcoholic, jobless, rude to women, liar, sexist, etc etc). i regret it though coz she has a miserable life now, but the advice not only coming from me.. so it wasnt totally my fault =)
390344
Wow - you are pretty judgemental about these people --- are you that judgemental of your brother (who is the real whore for having all of these one-night-stands)!    \n\nNow - to get to your question - acknowledge them - wish them a pleasant day and that's really all that is required of any decent human being.
139822
The love you feel is the loss of what could have been in another universe, not this one. He chose drugs and drinking over your family.  Some people would rather be high than live. Believe me he's only with that other woman because she lets him get away with it.  You and your daughters have every right to ask for a man with all his ducks in a row.  \n\nIf it would make you feel better go to him one more time and tell him that you love him and want him to get help, but if he refuses you have to accept that. Ask Jesus to give you strength and to guide your steps.  You'll get through it and your children will be better off.  They've only got one parent making sense now don't let your emotions screw that up.\nGod Bless You.
294049
You will be pissed once you find out, even if you try not to be.  My fiance and I told eachother one night when we were playing cards and hanging out and we had had a few beers.  It was kind of like haha funny well ... we made it a fun situation and we both have an idea, but we don't know exactly, and we haven't talked about it since then.  It still hurts sometimes when I think about it, but you just have to remember it was in the PAST and if he really loves you, he doesn't even think about them anymore.
212998
I dont think anybody at that party thought that ur behaviour was bad. u were just confused abt picking up the child. and people probably must hv forgotten abt it now.if u r still upset u can probably make it up to some other kid  by being kind to him or her or playing with them etc
529403
my husband was away on my birthday (is a new trucker, and had to be in school over 6 hours away :(  I am Very close with the people I work with, and was just all bummed out this year and didn't even tell anyone.  They all got pissed at me for not saying anything, but I was just not in the "oh yay, happy day, it's my birthday!!!" mood, ya know?  I spent it all by my self doing absolutely nothing.  My neice's party was on my birthday, so I did that, but she turned 6 the day before.  I made it loud and clear to my family that this was HER birthday party, I was completly cool with it, she needed her own special time to celebrate.  I know all too well how you feel though.  Do for yourself today...take a luxury bath with oil and salt and bath beads and good music, maybe a drink or two.  Pamper yourself, you diserve it.