I've got to know a girl,That Is so Hot and Cute and She's Almost Perfect. She Told ME that She loves Me, But I'm Not In love With Her ! \nI've Dated Her for three times, and we usually talk  Hours on the Tel , And She got That I'm not In love with her.\nShe is So Upset and She crys a lot ! \nWhat can I do ? I'm 16 and I live in Iran.
134679
well tell her that if u do not love her it is OK still u can be good friend i mean real good friend plus tell her that if u be my  friend maybe i will start loving u also but still we r to young for love so we can be Good friend and with time maybe i start loving u
435059
have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
208163
emmmmm isn't it obvious !!!\nshe like  you and says you are hot !! dahhh she want you to do (&#92;&#92;&#92;) with her !! and yah she wana keep her boyfriend coz she probably love him !!!\nwhat you should do ?? just ignore her she's no good for you or anybody ... don't accept to be a tool in her hands !!
127778
I  would NOT go out with her again.  I would however give her my foot up her butt!  Why put yourself thru the heartache and drama when you know she makes a habit of dumping u at the drop of a pin?  Dont do that to yourself.  YOU DESERVE to find a girl who is going to love you and respect your feelings and this girl is completely selfish, immature, and uncaring.  The only person she cares about is herself!  Get rid of her for good!  Find a girl who will love u and not desert you every week!  Good luck to u!  DONT PUT YOURSELF THRU THEHEARTACHE OF THIS GIRL ANYMORE!
292473
It seems to me that this girl have an attitude problems or she don't know how to express herself. I'm a female myself and I get mad quick but as I gotten older I can control it more. But this gurl want you to kiss her butt, that's why she get mad when she hangs up in you and don't call her back Good FOR HER, because she needs to learn how to COMMUNICATE that's the key if something is bothering her. I think that it is good that y'all are friends. If you really like this gurl than tell her that whatever is bothering her just to talk to you about the situation. relationships are going to work overnight it takes time and trust.
392585
WOW you must be dating the girl that just broke up with me! So I will tell you what got me to be her boyfriend.... for a few days   8 (     She seems like the type of girl you have to fit, you cant fake. If you try to guess what she wants and emulate her perfect man and you arent... she will pick up on that and you will look dumb. But I would suggest break down her personality type. Hopefully you fit these. (ok starting off with that line probably makes u want to skip over my advice. I'm 22, she's 24 and looking for a husband in the near future. I didnt mess up in the courtship, She is moving far away very soon) but anyway...\n\nStrict - She wont like you giving her rules, but I believe her being strict means she likes order! This quality in girls is hard to deal with if you are a guy with low confidence. Dont second guess what you do. Either Do it 100% or don't. You don't want to seem out of "order".\n\nAggressive - What kind of aggressive? Assertive or actually Aggressive? Will she pursue a challenging goal? Or will she stand up to someone who tries to do her wrong? If she Is "Assertive" then that is a great thing, especially for you. A girl who is assertive wont play hard to get so much, because if she wants you she wont make it difficult for herself to have you. If she is aggressive in nature then you have to be aggressive. She is already confident in her own abilities to protect herself so Im sure she would want her man to do the same. And I dont mean physically I mean in general. You dont have to be confrontational about problems but you def cant let her see someone get over on you. You dont have to fight or anything, just make sure you take a stand.\n\nProud - A proud woman is a secure woman.\n\nStrong Woman - Ok so she is proud we get that. Accept the fact that she is in line with her femininity and doesn't see it as a weakness. So if you ever do something for her that would seem sexist. You can score a point or two by saying something like "its not because your a woman, its because I'm a gentleman" or something like that. Let her know that, yes you know she could have done it herself, but you wanted to do it for her.\n\nNow as far as the seduction goes. If you want her to be your girlfriend the attraction will build if you fit her type. Stick to your plans, dont be a flake. And be romantic all the time! Pursue pursue pursue, if you start dating, pursue some more. No girl wants to feel "got". Even if she is your girlfriend she wants to feel like you know that at any moment she could belong to someone else, so you are doing everything to show her how much she means to you! \n\nLastly respect yourself. Dont pursue her like a lap dog, be a man. She should know that at any moment you could be with someone else, but you know 100% that you want her and no one else matters. Dont look pathetic because u dont want to get used. She wants a man by her side. No man walks in front of his woman showing her off as a trophy, and no real man wants to walk in a woman's shadow being her boy toy. She wants her man at her side. If all else fails rent Hitch and watch it twice.\n\nIts a lot but it worked for me. I hope i didnt offend anyone though. Sorry if i did.
84651
this is awesome!!..but hunny its so sad...you need someone to treat you good. and she definatly isnt the one to do it. thats the average girl for ya. im sorry to hear that. you must be devastated.good luck!
87973
Give her sometime to deal with her emotions. You don't want to catch her while she's hurt and then end up being dumped yourself. Be there for her the best you can, be strong fo the both of you, and when she is ready, persue her. You can even confess to her now, but if you do make sure she understands you don't want to be with her unless you really are the one she likes. ...Sadly she is the only one who will know when she is ready. Good luck.
225682
well first off, her ex sounds like a *bleep*, so she need to dump it's butt! now for what you feel for her and she feels for you, if it's genuine, feel free to experiment but I wouldn't jump into sex, I would go on a few dates and maybe kiss, you still feel love and not lust then you might want to start thinking about the future with her...*hug* good luck!
187462
It's so hard to believe you don't love her. This is because you don't love her and still don't want to hurt her feelings. You are a really nice guy and I mean it.\n\nBut since you are sure you don't love her, it's time you tell her this immediately rather than waste her time. Tell her it just wasn't meant to be. You two can be great friends after your breakup too. All the Best pal.
393278
Maybe she is confused and doesn't know what she wants either! Emotions are crazy.  Try to be patient and be a good guy. If she doesn't respond in a week ask her again gently at the right time!
344851
Be honest with the girl that you are dating (before you end it)! She will have so much more respect for you if you tell her straight up whats going on. She may be upset at first, but in the end, she may not be as heartbroken, as she would be if you just break up with her, and date her friend without her knowing. Besides, if your girl and her friend remain friends, then you will still have contact with her, so end it right! She'll understand.
508098
whoa! not trying to bash you but the age difference is probably the reason why you cant have a conversation. plus you need to be carefull talking to minors online and on the phone. Yea you may love her but dont go to jail for it! another thing is the fact that you may be too mature for her as far as the mindset.
499388
Dear :\nShe is not a psyco nor is she a c***k tease!Nor is she playing you!\nFrom my point of view it seems that this girl really loves you and wants you forever in her life!Because of the fact that she never had a relationship before she is scared that if She goes to the next level with you then she might lose you and your friendship!\nIt is so hard for girls to find a best friend in the guy they love and most often when a girl spends most of her time with a boy she considers her friend she grows to love him very strongly!\nShe doesnot advice and like hearing about other girls because she loves you and she doesnot want anyone to take you away from her!\nYou will want to know then why does she not get into a relationship with you, and why she apologises and says there can be no relationship!\nThis girl loves you soo much that she is afraid that you will turn her away or just get fedup of her!Maybe she knows your history with other girls and she is afraid to end up like them!\nSit down with her and confess your love and tell her that you will always be her best friend and lover if she wishes it!\nMake it clear that if ahe does not want you then if another girl comes along you will have no choice as you cannot remain single for ever-but do this gently!\nJust make her known that your outings and fun will not stop if the two of you become lovers!\nYou see, most times when a woman enters a relationship the fun she had before with the guy is gone!Thats what she is afraid of!Just reassure her that lovers doesnot mean the elimination of fun!\nGoodluck and dodnot hurt her for it seems that you will never find a girl that loves you as mush as her!\nLove SANAM
344730
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.\nI think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
56522
Honestly, do you really believe that she is your friend? If I were you, I would tell her how inconsiderate she is for actually dating someone she *KNEW* I had the hots for. I could see if she *didn't* kno, but she *DID*! That's so foul and disrespectful, and truly, I would re-evaluate this friendship with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me! If you allow your "friends" to continue to disregard your feelings, you're going to have a hard life ahead. Friends *DON'T* do things such as that. Guard your heart, hon. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
131098
I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha