okay so i was dating this girl...while we were going out i got frustrated because she was stuck up...i would call her gorgeous and she would say "yeah i know" and i know most of you are gonna say something like "then why were you dating her?" well because in spite of  that i liked everything else about her...then one day she dumped me and said she still had feelings for me...2 weeks later (today) we're talking and we get into an arguement...she says she's over me and that i need to get over her...and i can't help it..i want her back...it sucks because i know it won't happen..what should i do
136786
Leave it alone. She knows what she wants obviously and it's not you. That's not to hurt your feelings, it's just being real with yourself.
287590
She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
633730
Dude, I am sorry. It sounds like she is just like me. I have put my boyfriend through serious heartache because dumb me doesn't know what I want. You really need to move on and when she's ready, she'll quit playing her games and come back to you or find out that you're not the one. She's young and she's still trying to find out who she is, like me, and she's keeping you on the back burner to make sure you're worth holding on to. If you just back off and get on with your life, things will fall into place. But still love her and pray for her, but go out and have fun!!!
118158
hey well one sorry to hear that. two well the best thing i think you can do is go talk to her. find out exactly why she broke up with you. if the chemistry just wasn't there for her you will have to find a way to move on. if it was something else that can be fixed well than talk to her and maybe you can fix it. goodluck and i wish you all the best.
534516
Wait, you might want to give her some time to get over her boyfriend first. It would be better to approach her once all of this mess has cleared up. When it does, simply come up to her and say "hey, I'd really love to catch up with you- did you want to go see a movie this Saturday night?" and take things from there. Be patient with her- it might take her a while to get over her previous relationship, so you just need to give her time and an open ear, so that she can talk to you about what she's going through. Good Luck!! :)
71789
ok i didn't even finish reading your story just bc it reminded me of what happen to me...sorry girl i feel your pain, but what goes around comes around.\nthe guy that dumped me realized the mistake he made 8months earlier and now he wants to try things again...yeah right!\ngirl you can do better even if you have to wait!!! trust me!!!
522412
I don't want to sound mean but maybe you were moving too fast. Also, something might have happened in her family or in her personal life. Try to be extra nice to her even though she broke up with you, because then she might explain why she did what she did or maybe you can just stay friends and if all else fails just smile and wave whenever its possible. Good Luck!
425457
Honey, You no in your heart what she is doing to you. I no it hurts and the whole thing sucks but we all been through it.It's right there in our face and we refuse  to see it.If you keep after her she will tell you point blank that she doesn't love you any more and she has been seeing her ex for awhile now.Don 't let her do that to you,beat her to the punch.Tell her you don't care what she does because you have been seeing someone for over 6 months now and you love her.I no you won't take my advise. You don't no me but I am giving you good advise so please take it. I hope everything works out for you.If the pain gets to hard for you, don't think about tomorrow take it a minute at a time or a hour what ever it takes. Don't let this girl get the best of you.
262490
sounds like she used you.  she could see how you felt about her by how you treated her.  some girls/women are idiots & don't realize a good thing when they have it.  just move on & find someone else.
663370
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
367119
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
478434
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
120865
Good question.  This isn't enough information to work on, however, if she did dump you it was probably because she just wasn't in love with you anymore.  Love sometimes just disappears after a while.  Especially, when you don't see the other person that often.  I would recommend for you to focus on the good times and just take this as step in life.  Focusing on the breakup will make you more bitter and angry and everything negative.  Focus on the good times and look for someone better.  -Love Amber
189989
Everyone must be saying this... But girl, move on! I had the same experience... The guy I chucked a year ago suddenly appeared begging for forgivness... Even though he was fit I still said no, like you I broke up with them twice... Guys never change, I kept on making a mistake... Girl don't you...
290161
You sound like a really good boyfriend.  But if she left you, she's probably not coming back.  Take awhile to get over her and when you're ready find another girl to spoil.  There are probably a lot of girls out there who would appreciate a good boyfriend.
127778
I  would NOT go out with her again.  I would however give her my foot up her butt!  Why put yourself thru the heartache and drama when you know she makes a habit of dumping u at the drop of a pin?  Dont do that to yourself.  YOU DESERVE to find a girl who is going to love you and respect your feelings and this girl is completely selfish, immature, and uncaring.  The only person she cares about is herself!  Get rid of her for good!  Find a girl who will love u and not desert you every week!  Good luck to u!  DONT PUT YOURSELF THRU THEHEARTACHE OF THIS GIRL ANYMORE!
323718
better question is "what are you thinking, hanging out with a PSYCHO EX GIRLFRIEND."\n\nYou've done the hard part by dumping her  - now move on.