Is it not better than to feel all the pain and hurt.
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Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You need psychological help now. It is not a shameful thing to seek help. In fact, it shows that you are smart enough to do something to help yourself. If you committed suicide, your family and friends would miss you terribly! Don't do this to yourself or to them.\n\nPS - I just read your other question about your sexual, physical and emotional abuse. If this is behind your problem, you should not let your abuser win. Don't pay attention to anyone who says suicide is the coward's way out. They probably never had to deal with depression or with your issues. Suicide may look like the best way out, but I believe you are too smart a person to kill yourself. I do think that there is some sense of self-worth in you... something that will keep you going.
63816
I can handle pain better than before...\nWell before she left me I was not able to do that...
196210
It will get better.  Time heals all wounds.  I know you probably don't want to hear that but it's true.
494723
yes it does hurt, you'll feel bloated and when you go to the bathroom, you do not go. sometimes you'll have to push real hard for little or no reward.
201909
I always thought it did hurt...but not as much as childbirth will...
479871
it not only feels like a punch... i always feel like i just got run over. the pain is more than i can handle! so advise... hot chocolate and a chick-flick!!!!!! it always helps
396100
Revenge is empty and it won't make you feel better, it will make you feel worse. Don't do it. You just have to find a way to move on and realize that there are other people in the world that are better :).
609558
Awww, it's gonna be ok.  It takes a swift second... when you think it's gonna hurt think a good thought take a deep breath and hold tight and it'll be over before you know it.  I promise.
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Actually, it's probably more normal then you think it is.  Life doesn't have a manual and there's no "this is how you should live" guide for dummies.  Life is how you want to live it... just as long as you want to live it.  :)  It sounds like you do.   It just sounds, to me, that you have no way to cope with your pain.  And some how it needs to come out, and you only know one way to get it out and that's to feel it come out by cutting yourself.  Actually seeing a cut and feeling the cuts pain and maybe that is how it is released.  \n\nI read a book on a guy who attempted committing suicide and he was such an inspiration, not an inspiration because he lived but an inspiration because he actually felt enough to not want to feel anymore.  He said that his probably was that he had too much pain to cope.  Cope is a strange word too.  the ability to cope.  I suppose cope is a funny way of saying "handle" and yes, sometimes life is too hard to handle.  \n\nIf I was you, I would find an outlet.  yet every day i would take time to really find things I enjoyed about this world.  It might be as small as the smell of a flower or the smile of the toothless man on your way to work, but there has got to be something in this world, which makes you think "this makes it all worth while."  \n\nI believe we are all put on this earth for a reason.  Why or by whom, I don't know.  I don't have those answers and sadly, no one on Yahoo answers has those answers.  Yet, if we have a reason, I wonder what each of our missions must me.  \n\nI am sure you have a beautiful purpose.  :) I hope you find it soon.  You seem like a beautiful person.  \n\ntake care,\nheidi
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You've obviously been hurt so often, you find being happy is not worth the effort. You don't HATE being happy, you just find it very hard to be upbeat when life is not being good to you.
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People feed off other people's pain.  I suppose it's more relatable since everyone has felt that way at some point in their lives.
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I have a neuro/muscular disease and live with chronic pain that I take daily medication for, kidney stones and have suffered from an open femur fracture, but I still think the worst pain is that of a broken heart. It has been proven that people can die of a broken heart [for example when a spouse dies and the other dies with in 6 months a broken heart is considered a contributing factor] I have also had the unpleasantness of suffering one when my mother died. She and I were very close and I still miss her very much 12 years later but my father was worse, he died 5 months [on the same day of the month at the same time of day] after she did and his cardiologist listed a broken heart as a contributing factor.  I have had more pain than I care to talk about but the pain of my mom dying was and is the worse I have ever delt with.
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yes it is. if you done something wrong then you must feel bad and try not to do that thing again but don't be angry on yourself. I 4 one hate the world in which i live and blame it 4 all the wrongdecisions I take....well i blame myself too but don't hate myself.That is bad. At least ourselves must have a good opinion about oneself. Confusing I know...
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It could, and do you really want to risk that after going through the pain and spending that kind of money?   Take a dose of Tylenol and call it good. \n\nOH........................and...............................\n\n"no pain, no gain."
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Practice. Pain is your body telling you that you are still alive.
596254
No. Your nerve endings will not be destroyed so you can't feel the pain. In hell, they constantly regenerate. It is eternal torture.
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Yeah if you did all of that and you still don't feel the burn then maybe you should go and do it double the amount tonight. But then again why do you want to feel pain??? \nJust b/c you are not hurting doesn't necessarily mean that you need more just gradually increase your amount of squats and pushups everynight. But don't go over board with it you don't want to hurt yourself!!!!