I just broke up with mmy bofriend. But i want him back. How can i tell him wthout anybody finding out!!!
122161
Just be true to him and to your self cuz it aint matter what people say if you really do still love him!
451831
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
545462
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
526711
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
623449
Talk to him about how you feel and about your concerns.  Let him know you want him to be honest about his intentions regarding you both becoming a couple again.  Tell him that you would rather have him be honest - that he needs a place to stay when he gets out, or that he really does want you back.
655427
No you don't have to tell him. What you did during your break is your business and your business alone. \n\nHowever, know there is the possibility that he will ask. And by not answering or lying you will reveal more about your relationship than you might care to admit. \n\nAlso know that he may find out one day. People talk and you'd be surprised how small the world really is. He'll not only learn the truth but also learn that you kept it from him. \n\nI, personally. am always skeptical of relationships that have breaks, but that's just me. A lack of trust is hardly going to do wonders for your relationship now that you're back together, especially since you've already decided to part at least once.\n\nBut as I've said, you don't *have* to tell him.
96870
Yes, you should tell your current guy.  Other wise, there will be secrets, and questions, and a chance he will think you didn't tell him because you wanted your ex.  Don't get caught up in all the games and hassle just be open about what is going on.
203315
Sweety, you have tofollow your heart, Im in the same boat, except if my ex would have me back, I would go running to him, I dont have to think about it I know what I want Im just scared to tell him because what if he rejects me!!!  So just take your time right now to think about what you really truly want, why did you break up, is it worth it, will things be different, what is your heart saying?  good luck...xxx
258959
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
623955
If you're happy with the new bf (and not just because he buys you things), then tell the ex, sorry bout your luck.  Tell him you actually shuold thank him, because if he hadn't left you you never would have met this guy.  And you are happy, and hope he can find someone to be as happy with.
76091
It doesn't hurt to be honest and sort of confident and tell him, "We should get back together."  Guys respect that.  But DON'T tell him you've been thinking about him a lot and crying over him -- most people get scared off if they find out someone is into them more than the feelings are reciprocated.  Finally, relax and don't worry so much! When I look back on romances I had as a teenager, I realize that none of them were going to last forever, but they are still fond memories.  My only regret is that I took it all too seriously and stressed myself out too much -- in retrospect I would have just relaxed and been more easy-going about everything.
341356
Tell him that you need some time apart.  Tell him the reasons exactly like you did here.  You can tell him in person, but it might be better over the phone or email.  Dumping someone via email in general is NOT cool, but a) it's only been 5 weeks and b) you're concerned enough about his temper to be worried.\n\nBe kind but firm.  Start out the converstation by telling him you've been thinking about things and that the two of you need to talk.  Tell him you feel uncomfortable with the some ways things have been going.  Tell him you don't appreciate his dictating your time and criticising your apparence.  Inform him you know he's been rude to friends you've had for years, and that that's intolerable.  Finally, just tell him you don't really think the two of you are compatible and that it's probably best to tone it down for a while (that's break-up speak for have a nice life).  If you want, tell him that you're very busy with plans that were made several weeks ago, and that your time is limited.\n\nI know all about this because I've heard the talk - several times.  I've even given it a few.  It is hard, no way around it, especially if you've slept together.  Such is life.  Hopefully he'll learn from the experience, like I did; and eventually find someone fantastic who can teach him and grow with him - like I did.
247948
Just tell the new guy the truth.  That your sorry, but you and your ex expectantly got back together and that you hope he understands.  If he is a really nice guy he will wish you the best and everything will be cool.  These things happen sometimes.
12925
I am not completely sure but if I was you I would tell him how I felt...I had a bestfriend and we were really close and I loved him just as you do yours so I told him one day and we talked about how we felt and we were together for 2 years the only reason we broke up was because he moved so yeah I would deffinetly tell him how you feel, but thats if you are willing to take risks like that who knows??? Yall may end up getting married some day...
169683
1) Stop seeing him.  Do it NOW.\n2)  Start dating someone else.  Or at least look for your rebound guy.\n3)  Did I mention stop seeing your ex?
48580
dump him . . . he probably already dumped you . . . and don't want to tell you . . . .
233770
I'm not sure just tell him you or sorry of want every you did to make him fell that way be you would real like to be friends again and see what he say good luck