I love my b/f soo much that I cry when im not wit him and it really hurts me to see him talking to anotha girl but im NOT jealous but everytime I talk to anotha boy he thinks im trying to play him and im not.He thinks he can do anything and get away wit it but he cant wit me.
130250
Sounds like he's a loser.. I would seriously think about getting rid of him. \n\ntalk to him and tell him that it hurts you to see him talking to other girls.. if he's not willing to talk to you about it and how he feels about you with other boys.. then well he obviously dosn't love you as much as you love him. and why waiste your time and life with someone who doesn't love you, eh?
270878
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
156422
well, i guess it's normal, happened to me too. But u should listen to your heart. And I think u already know the answer: he seems a player, so he's not good for u. Besides, u're friend likes him and u don't want to hurt her. If u feel like it u can play hard to get with him for a while because it's soooo nice to have someone et u're feet, isn't it? But don't get involved if u don't feel like it.
66369
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
651853
Hey girl- My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 9 months. We go to the same college so we are together 9 months out of the year. during the summer, though, I am in another state and he stays there. I really think that the only reason we as girls would think that we have feelings for someone else is that we get the attention from this guy- the attention we usually get from our boyfriend when we are together. Don't let your mind and emotions take over. Stay true to your man- your love, if you believe that it is strong enough, will stand through even the hardest times... God bless!!
67892
You may love him, but obviously he doesn't love you the same way or he wouldn't hurt you and make you cry.  It sounds to me like you are in an abusive relationship.  It may not be physical abuse but at the very least it is emotional abuse and that is just as bad.  Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who treats you this way?  By staying with him you are simply telling him that what he is doing to you is ok.  Do yourself a favor and see this relationship for the fraud it is.  It takes two people to love each other to make a relationship and what your recieving isn't love.  You need to do the hard thing and let this relationship go and find someone who will truely love you and not abuse you.
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You need to explain to your b/f that you've been hurt before and it's going to take some time.  Be patient with yourself and with him and allow yourself to enjoy being with a good guy for once.  There's the old saying "Once bitten, twice shy," so it's OK to feel badly.  Talk to your b/f and if he's the great guy you described, he will understand.
455486
You are hurting Eric for no reason other than you are not grown up yet. Hurting some one on purpose is childish.and mean.\nHe still cares about you. and one day he will not be around to make him jealous . he will be with some one else because he will get hurt too many times by you..
130950
Please what were you doing with him in the first place if you love someone else. that doesn't seem very mature or fair to the other guy. stop playing games with peoples hearts and grow up.stress??? caused by guilt or maybe wanting something that belongs to another!
368720
Sounds like he is going through a phase.  My man jsut went through that and I kow, it hurts.  He'll come out off it soon, and he will some running back to you.  What hurts them the most is when they hear you are going out and having fun without him, try it girl.  Good Luck!
125567
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
240508
i know! my bf does it too. but he always says in a funny voice after i get mad " i love you" it is soooo cute and silly. he is always joking around about something with me. i dont really know why they do that but i think it is just that when he gets comfortable, he likes to play around more. like mine is always tickling me. he knows every spot. there are just a few he isnt allowed to get. yet. i get mad too. its just a guys nature to do that i think. but i can always ask too. he says that its just because they love us that they do it. they dont really mean to hurt us. at least he doesnt. but i think that is really it.
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NO seems like your friends have poisoned his mind against you girls/boys have a tendency to do that mostly when they befriend someone else friends or boyfriend or husband or anything other then parents or siblings they try to poison or try to win over that person by putting down the friend or close person whose already there before them through him they befriended or got to know that person.It seems they have got their way so please try to forget him and move on.Its happened to me and i would make such efforts to put things into place but then i realised something very important.Would you want someone as your friend or closer who would listen to other people and change his or her mind about you?That cant be a true friend,close friend,lover,husband or anything else.ITS NOT YOUR LOSS ITS HIS LOSS HE LET SUCH A GREAT FRIEND LIKE YOU GO LISTENING TO OTHERS TALK.Take care and email me if you want to talk.
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hey sorry to hear that,id like to say becareful,sounds like you still young,well im 22 years old girl,if i really love a guy and do care about him,i would never say that bullshit to my bf,i think she just fool around you,or she got somebody else,the most imporant thing is u havent found out the truth now
274227
well its like this, i understand what you are saying because the guy that im with when we are on bad terms ans not speaking, i cant get him off of my mind, we've even broken up before, and that was so hard and painful, but i do know how to get someone off of your mind, meet someone else, its hard though because that how i met him, my last b/f and i stayed on bad terms, and he stayed mad with me and not speaking to me plus we worked together, so i got tired of this happening alot so i met this one that im with now, and dont have a feeling the first for the last one, but you just have to meet someone else..
567615
Funny thing about thoughts which turn into fantasies. They really make us believe we have feelings but they really are not our true feelings. I think your true feelings are that you know that if he is coming on to you while he has a girlfriend then he would do the same with me when someone else he fancies comes along. That you know how bad you would feel if you were a reason why he broke up with his present girlfriend and that you know that deep inside all he is after is getting in your pants. I know you are smarter then to listen to misguided feelings that spawned out of fantasies created by suggested things he asked you to try. \nBe true to yourself your too smart to be fooled by a player and you know that you deserve better.
493911
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..