She dumped me sayin i wuz only friend material or sumthin but i just wunt her 2 be happy...........
135049
I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
649711
If I were you I would tell her sometime when ur alone w/ her. Good Luck. You never know, she might feel the same way.
465596
Maybe, she just has to get over you.  I'm a woman and it's hard to be freinds with someone that you still have feelings for.  Maybe in a couple of months she'll come around.\n\nGood luck
139350
well, if u dumped her there wuz prolly a reason...think about it...
136032
Sounds like u 2 are friends, so approach it that way.  Feel free to tell her you are there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to - do this in a consoling way, so she sees sincerity.  Then be patient and don't get aggressive.  Time will tell.
48873
you should of asked her why she was being a b**** and you did not like what she had said and if she has been doing this for a long time now then she deserved it i have been there some times you need to get rid of the jerks in your life and find better friends she is not the only one that has bad days you are human and have feeling to
535142
be happy for your friend. if she seriously thought he was a loser she would dump him.
581823
maybe your like her best friend & she didnt want to jeopradize anything
334270
Some friend she is. Trust me I went thru da same shit in middle school. This bitch ain't worth it. I use to be like you. A lil shy. I look back n it just pisses me off how I let ppl like her walk all over me. U gotta be cool and set her straight. Make some new friends n start ignoring her. When she confronts 2 u about it, u can just tell well u've been doin the same thing to me n u just ain't worth it if ur only gonna be my friend so that u can benefit from me then I ain't goona deal wit it no more cuz u know wat... I don't have to..(walk away)
91931
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
487502
She does sound cruel.  I would pray for her to find peace, and relish the memories of friendship you had.  I'm sorry for your loss, the loss of such a good friend must be hard to bear.  \n\nTake care.
624068
i may not no u in person but i know u must be a great [person with feelings! Her friendship  meant aslot to u and thast is what lead  u to crying! She doesn't deserve u the older u'll get the more peopole u'll meat and the better they willl appriciate u .
561747
aawww u sound so sweet but i think u did the right thing, may be she is not ready for a relationship right now.
308045
im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
617513
As hard as it will be for your friend, she needs to accept it and move on.  She needs to take a step back and try to look at it from another's point of view.  What kind of friend just breaks up with a person and doesn't even offer an explanation???  Who needs that for a friend?  Just be there for your friend, it will be hard for her and even though you can't "fix" things and make it all better, having a good friend that listens and cares makes a world of difference.  :)
383646
You need to just let it go & don't let her have that much power over you. You are allowing this person to determine your happiness. Just move on & find another friend.
669917
Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.