he doesnt even talk to her or wait for her by her locker they give each other a litte tap on the shoulder on thts it and when they do see each other they never wait or talk so what should i do!?!?!
138347
you should let her know that you don't like being blown off for this boyfriend. you know that she really likes him, but that she should still be able to have time to spend with her friends. Also, tell her that you think this guy is not putting much into the relationship, and that you don't think that he is the right guy for her. then just let her react to what you said, whether it be good or bad. at least you got your opinion out there.
295273
The only thing you can do is keep reassuring her that you are not interested in him.  Tell her that she shouldn't get mad at you for something you have no control over.  You can't make him not like you and like her...it's his choice.
159909
Honey...sorry to say this but this wonderfull boyfriend of yours does not respect u or the realationship that he has with u..just by reading what u wrote i can tell that this kind of behavior from him breaks your heart...u shouldn't put up with this at all...if he is staring at her in front of u..god only knows what he does behind your back..it doesn't matter what any of us post here to say to u...But if i was u i would move on...get your things when he is not around and get out of this relationship...think about it this way...if i was your sister and i told u what u are telling us...what would u say?...see what i mean?...there are some wonderful guys out there that u havn't even met yet that are dying to meet u
145863
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
518501
Yup I'd say he is just playing games...the girl should just ignore him ....and not even talk to him...he is a loser..
596382
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry
296974
she is jealous of your friendship with him especially the fact that you have been since kindergarten \na lot of people are like that\nshe is afraid of losing you \nprobably the only one person she hangs out with \nis you so ask her to try a different approach when all of you guys are together\ncause the one she has now is just causing friction \nask her to try being nice and talk about something that interests her and him\nboth\nif she is a real friend she will at least try to approach him with a different attitude
465766
You haven't said if she likes him back!  But if she does, you can't really protect her from him, without sounding like a jealous loser.\n\nThe only thing you could maybe do is to go to this girl and tell her that you know you probably sound like a poor loser, but as her friend, you just want her to know that you are worried about the friendship between her and this guy.  Tell her about the rep this guy has, giving her details and proof if possible.  She will either believe you or not.  But remember, if she doesn't listen to you and has a thing with this guy, she will remember when she bangs her head that you warned her, and she will listen better next time.  And if she doesn't bang her head (maybe this guy treats her right) she will still know in her heart that you were just trying to protect her, and think you are sweet because of it.  Good luck!
346192
Stay out of their business.  They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on.  You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
648669
Stacie needs to realize that Sean is not interested AND he has a g/f.  She needs to move on and stop obsessing over him.  She is putting her time and energy into someone that isn't even single or interested in her - she is wasting her time.
602026
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
442965
Be careful.  You're playing with fire here.  Either continue talking to her, and realize that you'll have to confront the issue with both her and your friend, or resolve to stop the extra contact and keep it to a minimum (only when you're all out together).  Otherwise if you keep up the communications, you risk losing both his friendship and hers. And if you really think that their relationship is in trouble, give it time to either resolve or end, and then you'll either be in a better position to see about what future you could have with her, or you'll see that she really does love your friend and there's nothing you can do about it.\n\nIf she is conflicted now, and you try to make a move, then she might feel like you're taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability, and you ruin any chances of anything in the future.  So give it time, be patient, and try to be supportive to them both as a couple.
267528
they aren't real friends to save .. they you shouldn't save them as friends .. skip them and try to friend real best friends
174641
Do something about it.  If he's a stalker, the situation can and likely will escalate.  Encouraging her to get a restraining order would be a good start.\n\nShe may not take the situation very seriously, but believe me she should.  If something is not done, things could get worse (and no I'm not suggesting you should threaten him or beat him up, that's just putting yourself at risk of legal trouble).\n\nBest of luck on this one, it won't be fun.
247443
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
15066
Try talk to the guy and ask the guy at least write her a note or say sorry? because as a man/guy, this surely not a good thing to do to a girl...if the guy refused to do, then maybe it is time for you to talk to the girl how bad this guy is, and just forget about him :(
269127
Don't just let her go.  That is not the right solution.  It is also not right to ground her for life.  I would try to talk to her and ask her what's going on in her life.  Try to be a good listener.  Maybe she's acting out and trying to get all sorts of attention from guys because she feels ignored.  Maybe plan a day where you can just do things together (and let her choose what you do).