We cannot really love anybody with whom we never laugh.\n\nOpinions???
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Laughter is the medicine of the soul.  \nDid someone say that,  or did I just make it up?  :-)\n\nWithout someone to laugh with life would be boring.
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How is it you were able to write that qusetion without it being censored? You definately get points for that.\n\nAs for your question, I agree.  Unfortunately we can't control other people or make them be nice.  The only thing we can do is forgive them.  Forgiving someone doesn't make them any less wrong, and it doesn't mean we have to start liking the person, but it does set us free so that we don't have to walk around pi$$ed off all of the time.  So basically we have a choice.  We could forgive and be happy, or not forgive and let the bastards get us down.
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Nope... I think he/she/it is far too high level to have such things as emotions. Emotions are a quirky human thing. I do feel however that there is one underlying condition that pervades everything in creation and that is unconditional love.
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I agree with blissfuldeedee above...Far from feeling sorry or thinking less of that person, I would admire that person. I admire strong independent persons who don't need to always have a "sidekick" to be able to do something. Is there a rule that you always have to have someone with you to do something??? The world is full of bigots. I know you're not one of them.
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no...........u must learn to love urself before u can love anyone or anything else. it u dont love urself how can u love another? u cant.
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To answer your question....unless humans are in the Lord and know how to Love one another.... there will be No Genuine Love!....(1 John 4:7).....
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hey, I'm all for that.  maybe if kkk, and my clone, redcatt69, didn't have such miserable lives and had someone to hug them, they wouldn't be so angry and pathetic!  hate is a pointless emotion...\n...love is the bomb!
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Ok, to an extent I think it's funny to make fun of ourselves.  It becomes annoying "if" that's all you ever do and it's always VERY negative.  That's a very unbecoming trait.  We all want to date someone who is confident in their own skin.  It is definitely a turn-off if someone is always down on themselves.  Now, that being said, you HAVE to be able to laugh at yourself, but be confident at the same time.
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that's the really cool kind of love your talking about there, i have that with my wife. If you can explain why you love someone its not really love. \nThe kind your talking about  is always there you cant explain it, it don't matter if you argue or fall out, its still always there, its a wicked feeling, and it don't happen that often, if you have it then good for you, you stay in your bubble my friend.
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That is a great question. But here's my thing...why can't two people just enjoy the silence? Isn't it good enough sometimes to just know the person you love/care about is on the other end of the line, spending time with you? Why are people so afraid of silence.... Maybe I'm just weird like that.
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I feel your pain...humanity has a lot to learn about love.  It is not showing its love on this planet right now...but some are.  It begins individually. One light at a time, like stars in the night sky.  Until we learn to love ourselves and not project our negative stuff on others it will go on as is.  Let your light shine...
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...wish to share, am a returner favourer kinda person.\n\n1.26 11:51p est Stupendous Man, silly of me to confuse you with that little guy Calvin, guess I thought he looked a little like you.\nFor me it would depend what those differences were. If we're talking about weaknesses in character, then have to say I have seen that used as a weapon, friend on friend, sibling on sibling, and of course spouse on spouse. \nI had a realization once that I turned into a caution motto, "There is no one in this world who loves you so much as to not say a negative thing about you behind your back." (yes, very familiar with feeling betrayed, but let's leave that) And I guess a similar expression would be, "There isn't likely to be anyone in this world who loves you enough, never to hold your weaknesses against you." Whether that weakness is being too emotional or not emotional enough, or having to much to say or not being able to verbalize worth a poo, ya know the contrast between one personality and it's opposite.\n\nI guess what I am getting to, is that it's possible to love someone and know they have this difference about them, and SOMETHING ELSE gets in between you, and in the course of having it out one spouse retaliates with pointed references to this "difference". IT ISN'T because they were always really bothered by it and just never brought it up before, it's more that they were running out of arguments about the actual issue at hand, and needed some grounds to prove their "right"geousness in the fallout.\nFeeling misunderstood on both sides is where the real problem is. It's not necessarily a communication breakdown, it could be the gradually ending of sympathy, feeling unequal in a relationship, feeling undervalued. Then it's "who cares if you're sensitive about this difference, I want to right no matter the cost, I want to be heard whatever might fly from my lips"\nIt's sad and unnecessary, but it comes from people's focus on theirselves. If more people tried to see it from the opposing perspective this world would be a much more peacful place.
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Everyone is flawed in major ways. We are all driven by feelings, emotions and this just totally messes up with the logic that is everyones dream: Trust and Love. The solution is to not give up hope, because there are still some cool people out there that are honest and genuine. Everyone else is a slave to their own small fears, prejudices and silly mood changing crap. Dont accept it from anyone.
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please do not be so rude on us ..we have a hard time trying to understand women but that is the beauty of all, two different beings in a relationship..we have problems to express love verbally or publicly...with exceptions ..when we love a woman the best moment to express love is intimacy and that does not mean to get in her pants....of course we love that....but we were raised to act on rational thoughts and usually try to leave emotions apart that is why we need women to fulfill the other part in us ...feelings ,emotions..thanks God he created women the way they are....my wife will tell you sometimes I want to have her disappear...but even though in those moments I need her...we(men) are difficult to understand but we think the same about women(mystery of the universe) but when we learn to accept each others differences we start to love being together\n\nmay God bless women\nI am sure there is someone out there waiting to love someone like you
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because human by nature has no contentment... no matter what, we will never be happy for what he have and what others have... there'll always be someone better and not so better than us...
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I don't agree with this statement, I can hate someone without ever having loved them.Actually I do it quite often.
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Na but we still love em!!!! :o)\n\nand if you say you dont love em your gonna end up a very lonely person!\n\n-My Question!-\n\nDo Women ever stop MOANING??