This guy has been talking to me forever. We talked on the phone all the time and we always hung out. I don't know what's going on. He doesn't have a girlfriend b/c everytime I see him he is with a different girl. And I really like him. What should I do?
133983
I think you should probably forget him. Chances are if he's with another girl all the time he's not interested in a relationship and if you do get into one with him he'll probably cheat on you. Try to find someone that's after you for who you are, not what you have to offer.
79926
Is this a question?  He probably likes you but could like other girls as well.  If you like him, try to talk to him.  Then worry about what he does with other girls.
520043
I went through the same thing this past summer. The result: we're still friends, and I want him more than ever. I wish I had gone out with him when I had the chance. \nI was afraid of ruining our friendship because hes never had a girlfriend for very long. You should let him know. there shouldnt be a secret like that between you.
240624
I dont think love is involved in this case. I believe there is a mutual attraction between the two of you. Before you decide to get involved or go any further with this guy, I suggest you confirm if he has a girlfriend or not. You dont want to get yourself involved if he does. That is trouble you dont need.
522434
Wow how old are you?\n\nThis guys a sleaze for taking advantage of you, he spent all the time with you? He just doesn't have to charm anyone else when your already there, thats all.\nThe oldest trick in the book , he wants a long term relationship?\n\nHoney, he's using you, ok, and you fell for it, im sorry.
136359
Yeah... it could be love and it might not be. But my advice to you (trust me), since you're still a teenager, just be his friend. Don't talk about love with him. Forget he has a girlfriend and just talk to him like you are talking to one of your girlfriends. No teenage guy is ready for a big commitment so even if you are currently his girlfriend, it won't last... but if you are just friends, you have a much better chance of still keeping in touch 10 years from now and him winning your trust than his current girlfriend. And this might get him to finally realize you have always been there for him. I hope you get my point ( and I hope you take my advice)
623004
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
2234
Talk to him about everything. If you still like him then make sure he still feels the same way about you. If either of you aren't committed to the relationship then break it off. Long distance relationships aren't easy and there's no reason to drag it on if you're not sure about it. \n\nIf he's been seeing other girls and rarely calls, chances are it's time to move on. On the bright side, it's a lot easier to move on when the person isn't around all the time. \n\nGood luck!
238250
Well, the fact that the guy hasn't responded can be either good or bad. It could mean he's trying to figure it all out and decide when he should make his move or it could mean he's ignoring your friend. Your friend should give it time and if the guy seems to be doing nothing, well, then he isn't worth the time and effort and quite frankly doesn't deserve any girl.
502291
Well, i've been in kind of the same situation. I say try and talk to him about it. If he's always hitting on you and such there has to be something behind it maybe he's with the girl to get you jealous and to want him more. Us girls do sometimes tend to like the guys we can't have so maybe he's playing that role. But first just talk to him about how you feel if he feels the same way then great, if not what do you really have to lose?
533648
To make a long story short, this is some guy that she must have met and given her number to.  So far he is expressing his admiration for her.  It doesnt sound like it has gone any further than that at this point.  You need to find out whats up with this.
317703
does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
477904
I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also.  I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
109623
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
408847
Princess all i can say is, take some time, call him up and spend time together.. Go movies, or just hang out... because really ... if you known him since you where 3!! and he known you.. then i say theres a connection between you two. Now maybe he is busy all the time and doesnt have time, but doesnt mean you give up!!! I say go for it.. hes probably thinking of asking to hang out with you too.\nTHIS IS NORMAL.. and its from the inside that is telling ya this girl\npure care and love i got to say....\nYou to have some fun hanging out.\nDont be afraid to talk to the guy.. it will  be a big releaf once you begin to talk to him.. your tension will be gone. :) ;)\n\nYou 2 have\nSincers;\nShawn Miller\nToronto Ontario