My daughter was just released from the hospital after five days because of rotavirus. We had wonderful nurses - two in particular, but four that provided excellent care and really made us feel better about our stay. I'd like to send some sort of appreciation gift, but don't know what. Should I send individual gifts to just the two main nurses? Or something for the group as a whole? Ideas appreciated!
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the best gift you can give to a nurse is to write a letter of thanks and appreciation to her boss and the administrator of the hospital.  Most likely the letter will be posted for all to see or read at a meeting and put in the nurse's personnel file and she will feel very good about that.  We all like to be thanked for doing our jobs.
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This used to make my day even when wounded it was the highlight!  Thanks for asking.  \n\nThe United States armed forces cannot recieve cards to "any serviceman" this year due to fears of terrorism.  Instead, the Pentagon has set up a secure email system that allows anyone to send a message to "any serviceman." Just pick the branch of the service, type your message and click send.\n\nThe story behind the "to any serviceman" cards:\nSince 1967, when Sgt. Billy Thompson wrote Abigail Van Buren and mentioned that a wonderful Christmas present to our armed forces would be "just a letter from home," American citizens have been sending holiday wishes to servicemen and women stationed overseas every holiday season. Dubbed "Operation Dear Abby," the program has brought holiday joy to hundreds of thousands of U.S. military personnel deployed away from home.\n\nTo access the site, visit http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/\nMilitary Exchange Prepaid Calling Cards\nThe Department of Defense Military Exchanges have been authorized to sell the following prepaid calling cards to individuals and organizations who wish to purchase these cards for our troops serving overseas in Operation Enduring Freedom and Operation Iraqi Freedom.\nhttps://thor.milexch.com/scs/default.aspx\n\n12 Ways to Support Our Troops\nBy Lance Helgeson\nhttp://www.aarp.org/bulletin/yourlife/Articles/a2004-12-07-12support.html\n\nYou can adopt a specific or random service person for a prayer circle.\n\nhttp://www.presidentialprayerteam.net/troopsadopt.php  \n\nYou can write to a service person.\n\nhttp://anyservicemember.navy.mil\nThere are dozen of organizations, which allow you to purchase items and present it to a service person, but there are other options you might consider.  Visit the closest VA Hospital or for something really unique try: \nwww.snipersonline.org (They ask for contributions to buy items that the Government refuses or that is out of stock.\n\n\nGod Bless You and The Southern People.
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Send her a "thinking of you" card and let her know she's in your thoughts and prayers. Let her know if she needs anything, do not hesitate to call you. Just to know someone cares about her will touch her deeply and let her know not all people in the world are bad.
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I have first hand experience in dealing with cancer.  What would be very helpful?  Offer to clean the house, offer to make dinner.  Help the wife so she can focus on her husband.  Also, visit him.  For my mom, I put together a "hospital kit".  I included a washcloth, bar of soap, shampoo, magazines, new pjs' etc... whatever they like.   And once grand-dad is able to, bring your daughter often so he can see her.  That will really cheer him up!
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Thank them for there gift.  For example: Thank you very much for the $20 you sent for my graduation.  It doesn't have to be fancy or long.
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I like the way you think. Personally I give back one person at a time. Sometimes in groups it depends on where I am and what is needed by each individual.  Just people in general, I don't really have to know them, just what they might need. Sometimes a wise conversation, or a friendly gesture. Just Because. Those who know me, know that children are my Purpose( A better way to see the world)!  Remember when Good Deeds are done, someone is doing something GREAT!
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My daughter e-mailed me everynight and sent me letters and there was the occasional phone call.I have been to Iraq and Afghanistan within a 4 year period so she's use to it.She knows it's my job and wars happen.(She's eleven) and that I love my job. She knows I'll be leaving for my 3rd tour and we are spending a lot of time together. Instead of being negative, cherish every moment with him and help him out. He'll appreciate that and not have to worry about you guys back home but staying focused on his mission so he can come back home to you guys/.
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Perhaps a dinner gift vertificate? Or, something from your country and culture which traditionally expresses gratitude for hospitality. You can explain the significance, when you give it to them. As far as the kids go, until you've known them a while, and are familiar with what they each enjoy - tricky! Why not make a gift certificate good for "A getting to know one another day." The parents and grandparents can make plans and you can "babysit." Share stories of your own experiences, at their ages, and ask them how their experiences mirror or differ from yours.
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My brother served in Iraq until July when he was killed there.  But one of the things he always mentioned was the letters, cards, and little tokens of appreciate that total strangers sent to the troops.  A little something like a card can brighten someone's day.  When I was going through boot camp I got cards from people I didnt know but appreciated them just the same. Especially with the holidays coming up.
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What do you all like to do together??? \n\nSay you both like to cook and you have all ways shared recipes...\n\nthen get her a new cook book and write this in a card or on the front cover and give it to her...\n\nForever Friends\nyour my friend and that is true,\nbut the gift was given from me to you.\nwe went thru moments that were good and bad,\neven moments that were happy and sad.\nyou supported me when i was in tears,\nwe stuck together when we were in fear,\n\nits really sad that it had to be this way,\nbut it has reached its very last day.\nmiles away cant keep us apart,\n'cause you'll always be in my heart.\n \nAnd let her know that you will all ways love her and that ya'll can still be best friends even though she is moving.
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How thoughtful and selfless of you!...Actually, tradition has it that the godparents would present a gift to the child; usually something to commemorate and encourage your walk with Christ.  Maybe some holy water or oil that's been blessed-so that they too may receive blessings as they have blessed you, especially during this season of spiritual growth for you.  It should be something in keeping with the occasion.  May the Lord help you to select a gift from your heart and may He bless you on your new path! May you always feel His divine love and mercy.
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I went through chemo for 6 months and I loved the dinners people would bring over because I was so weak I could barely get the energy to get out of bed.  Sometimes people would just drop off dinner at the front door in case I didn't want company.  Another great idea is offering to spend time with your friend by taking them out for normal things like shopping, or even helping around the house (I didn't have enough energy to wash a load of clothes)  They will appreciate that more than any other gift you would buy. Flowers are a nice touch, or a good book.
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Sorry to hear that!  I work in the ICU as an RN...I don't know what ur grandmother had, so it's difficult to say why...but we don't let anyone in under 6 yrs old.  They can be carring bug from school ect....we are protecting the patient.  We also don't want infants to be exposed to what any patients on the unit may have...Little kids really don't have a strong immune system and that goes for critically ill patient on the unit as well.  I encourage everyone over the age of six to visit...they may have to wear a mask over their nose and mouth so you don't spread germs...if we nurses feel ill, we wear a mask to keep the patients safe, also some patients are in isolation and if your grandmother was..it was probably (if the case) not to bring anything back to the baby and vise versa.  Pneumonia is a very dangerous illness, I wear a mask when dealing with these patient, you never know when someone is going to cough in your face and share their germs...Have your family member talk to someone at your church or to a counselor....I hope I helped, at least alittle...
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Did they register somewhere?  If so, pick out something from their registry.  That way you know you are getting them something will want/need.  \n\nI have given things like: flannel sheets, a bottle of champagne and a pair of candles, gift certificates.
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I would suggest calling a florist and having a beautiful centerpiece delivered.......have one with a candle in the center so you can light it and all give thanks!!!  No a thank you note is always a nice touch......I am sure you will make a wonderful impression on the family!!!  Do NOT pick up anything at the grocery store as I am sure she has the entire meal planned!
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It's not supposed to be about bringing the right gift, originally they brought live turkeys for goodness sake! If you can make a desert or something traditionally english take that! If not stick with the wine and tell them about asking what to bring on the internet, it's the thought that counts after all and you'll have a conversation starter!
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A gift in return for a gift can be a slippery slope and might lead to an uncomfortable cycle of "thank-you" gift giving. However, nothing is more appropriate than a well picked and well thought out card to express your thanks for her thoughtfulness. I suggest you go to www.quotationspage.com and pull out a nice quote about giving. This will show that you really took the time to think about her actions.\nAnd when her birthday rolls around, yes - it would be perfectly appropriate to give her a small token as a remembrance of her gift.