They originally we're living with their grandmother, however, she had a heartattack. She's doing better now, but in the mean time, I'm helping her out with the boys. They are very curious about lots of stuff and are starting use sex language such as (dick, boobs...etc) How would you approach regarding this subject?
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I am glad to hear their grandmother is doing better and it's nice that you're helping them all out during her recovery.  I take it that their parents are no longer around?\n\nAnyhow..\n\nI would first explain that certain terms/words and conversations are not appropriate conversation pieces for young ones.\n\nNext..\n\nTry these places...\n\nhttp://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3079195\nhttp://www.talkingwithkids.org/sex.html\n\nThe second link is good because it has other important topics they'll need answers to as well.
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not a word about it! it may turn out really nasty for the 3 of you! just keep it to urself.
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Me: (hands shaking, been trying to do this for weeks, been practically giving myself ulcers, so so nervous) Well there is something that I've been meaning to tell you and I'm sorry that it took this long for me to say it.  Maybe I should have said it sooner, but I can't take it back now... Diana is not my friend, she's my girlfriend, we've been together for almost two years now.\n\nMom: yeah, and?\n\nMe: And I'm bisexual\n\nMom: Well duh.  I'm not stupid.  (rolls eyes)  You two are just terrible at hiding it.  Every time she looks at you, you practically swoon and you hold hands under the table when you think no one is watching.  It's just about the most disgustingly cute thing I've ever seen.  \n\nMe: (long pause)  oh.  Well then.  So everything is ok?\n\nMom: Yeah (duh tone of voice).  Do you think we should have chicken ceaser salads for dinner?  Or maybe we should grill fish...
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My 86 year old grandmother went to one of those thinking it was going to be a sex party. She showed up in red lacy lingerie and when she noticed everybody else was fully clothed she just acted like she was demented and had wandered away from home. Anyway..the point is just be sure when you advertise to make sure people know there isn't going to be any funny stuff going on.
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tell her how you feel. sounds like you don't have to worry about just boys but girls too.
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My mom did. It must have been in 6th grade before the school film. (Imagine that was an old, nasty nun.) My mom had sent away for this box that had two books, panties, a belt, and some pads. She mostly talked about the period. I don't think she mentioned sex. I don't really remember what she said except the last thing, which was that I couldn't tell anyone because their moms had to tell them first. I couldn't believe it! My mom had just told me the most amazing thing ever about girls and I had to keep it to myself! Was she kidding?! So I went out and went over to the first two girls I saw. I told them that my mom had just told me the most unbelievable thing ever but when they asked me what it was, I told them I couldn't tell them; their moms had to, but they weren't going to believe it. Imagine the questions they asked that night.
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Why dont you talk to her parents, they might appreciate the honesty.\n\nThen they can tell her that they dont want her to talking to older men.
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Bust a nut is another saying for sex. Hole is well her "hole" if you catch my meaning. It's funny though. Just don't ever say that to your mother again. (or a guy)
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Your grandfather has Alzheimer’s and it will only get worse, there is no cure for this. My mom has it and I am taking care of her. No you are not overreacting about sharing a room with an eight-year boy. Can’t they fix the basement or attic into a room for one of you or add on a room in the back for you. Grandpa needs to be close to mom as it is very trying to care for a loved one in his condition. Your mom will need all the help she can get and if you are helpful you will stand a better chance of getting a separate room. I think there are laws about boys and girls sharing a room if the youngest is of a certain age and eight sounds plenty old enough but if you go to the authorities about it grandpa will end up in a nursing home and your family will be terribly upset with you and you will regret what you did to grandpa in the future as nursing homes give terrible to no care. If worse comes to worse maybe you can put up a divider wall in the middle of the room. I wish you and your family the best of luck.♫
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Answer her questions in a way she will understand.  \n\nNo need to give her 'graphic' details but if she asks about her father or other relatives its okay to talk about it.  And its okay to let her know that you don't know the answer.\n\nEven at seven is is old enough to comprehend the basics.  You might hold off on telling her that her father is in prison unless you don't mind risking the chance of her repeating this outside of the household.\n\nI worked in a school with children in similar situations and they understood their parents were in prison and had no qualms about discussing it freely.  So be mindful of it.
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say "hah b!tches you have gonorrhea now!" after you throw some red blood on em  THAT will scare them =)
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Sexuality is not a choice, you are what you are. If she wants to be Bi-sexual, she should follow her heart.  Being honest is not a bad thing. Better to find out now before an entire family's future(kids, husband...) could be at stake. If she is just experimenting because she is curious, that is OK to.  Just be SAFE.
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She's having a hard time accepting that her daughter is growing up. Obviously if you will be at a public restaurant, it's not like all of you guys are going to throw her on top of a table, strip her clothes off and pull a chain on her. Her mom is just trippin. At 14, me and my friends hung out at the roller rink together without adult supper vision, but, duh, the people who WORK there were adults. And I was ALWAYS the only girl hangin out with all of the guys. I just got along better with guys than girls at that age. She's making more out of it than is really there. Funny thing is, I grew up to like women. So, for all she knows, her daughter might be gay when she grows up! Boys think about sex a lot, but it's not ALL they think about. She needs to realize this and get a grip. Good luck.
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It's not you!!!!! She is totally okay and so are you! haha I think it's really cute. \nShe sounds very decent.  Gosh, I can't think of the word.  She's not a skank, that's for sure.\nIt's possible that there's been sexual abuse in the past, though.\n\nMy mom and sister are the exact same way.  My mom's been married for YEARS AND YEARS and is still this way with my dad.  She makes him turn off the lights before she gets undressed.  She was sexually molested as a young teenager, so it's partly due to that.  My sister is just extra modest.  OH that's the word I was looking for!\nSome women are just a lot more modest than others.\nDon't worry about it.  She was that way before and probably will be forever.  Don't make her feel bad about it and don't let her think it's because of you that she's this way or she'll feel really bad and the problem still won't be fixed.\nJust accept her for being this way and just think it's cute and realize you have a very modest wife and be glad of that.
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I'm straight, but I love the story of how my best friend came out to me, if you'll listen. I was the first person she ever told. We went for a walk (for no "apparent" reason) and she had me sit down with her on an empty bench in the hotel near where we were living. She started talking, talking in circles, dropping hints and getting really upset. I was so worried about her. I wasn't sure what it was, but I knew it was something sexual. Was she raped? Was she pregnant? If she had been raped, I would break the guy's face, but she wasn't the type to get pregnant. Then it clicked in my head. I asked her if it was ok for me to guess what she was trying to tell me, and she nodded. I asked if she was trying to come out to me, and she didn't move. I asked again, and she nodded. I hugged her so tight! I told her how relieved I was, how I thought something bad had happened. She told me how she had been keeping it hidden for so long, and if she hadn't come out to me, she never would have. We're so close now, I go around calling her my sister. The one problem is that we both like the same type of girl, so if there's a nice bi girl we both like, there may be a discussion... ;P
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K needs to make B jealous by making out with her bo in front of her.  B sounds like she is jealous of K.  and i agree B should be given lice.  she needs the head scratching to keep her busy.
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I'm really pleased that you are considering giving your baby to a gay couple it shows that there are a lot of good people out there who are willing to help us (I'm gay myself)\nAs for an advice I think you should stick to your opinion and even though I don't have any advice to give you (Sorry)\nI just wanted you to know that you are not the only one struggling with her parents (Mine don't know I'm gay)\n I know I haven't much of a help but I really hope you would name me the best answer because if you do I might have the chance to go to Germany to see the soccer world cup (Yey!!!)