I'll make this short. I met a guy online and went on 2 dates back in Feb, he said he'd call but never did. Out of the blue he calls tonight and apologizes saying he just got a new job and was busy w/ that. Anyway we made plans to meet. Is this a mistake?
134777
Yes, you are opening your heart back up for hurt again.  But since you made the date don't back out.  Go get your free meal with him (make sure he pays, it'll be knida like him making up to you)  while at dinner, be firm and ask him what's up?  Does he or did he have someone else?  What are his intentions with you?  Let him know that you want a man in your life that believes their word is their bond.
150120
I would not put up with that,But i guess it depnds on how\nlond you guys have been going out,But still he should have of called you..
56064
Yes you are right, if hes interested in you, he would have called you over the weekend. Look like it, hes is undecided about you. Let nature takes it course. If hes meant for you, hes meant for you. Just be patient, if you r still young. Good Luck to you...
393393
Firstly if I were you, I wouldn't call at 7:00. Have you been keeping contact with him throughout the month, or is this the first you've heard from him? If it is the first you've heard from him, I would most definitely not call until like..... 8:15 - 8:45. Make it seem like you haven't been waiting for him, and that you've got better things to do than abide to his schedule. \n\nAs for what to say to him..................... if y'all are still cool,  I don't think it should matter, talk to him like he was just another friend. But again, if I WERE YOU (lol) I wouldn't say much, and I'd give off a "what-is-it-you-need-from-me" kinda attitude.\n\nYa. I'm rude. \n"You must not know 'bout me, you must not know 'bout me............" lol
564660
Get your money back, then drop him. It honestly just doesn't seem like he's trying to spend time with you at all or even try and figure out his "true intentions". To be honest with you, I think he already knows his true intentions, he just doesn't want to tell you. If he really didn't know, he'd be talking to you still even if he was trying to figure it all out. As for that afternoon that he didn't show up, it doesn't take much to call or e-mail, he could have at the least done one of those things. Heck, I call my girlfriend if I'm going to be a few minutes late for getting to her place to see her. I consider it a requirement.
294868
Have u tried to call him? maybe something happened to prevent him from contacting you. Has he done this b4?  maybe he wants to break it off and doesn't have enough balls to tell ya.  So u can call him first or keep waiting for him to call ya.
676932
Guys don't want to talk unless there's nothing else to do. Not always a sign of disintrest. But you were a one nighter. Keep calling. Don't over do it. After a few real dates let him know you like being with him then stop calling for a week or two. If he wants to proceed he'll call you. It might take 2 weekends before he calls. If he calls late at night on a weekend.... He'll be drunk and horny. Booty calls don't make girlfriends. You need to redefine yourself in his mind.
336927
My advice is you tell your guy that. If he seems  distant then he's not the guy who deserves your attencion. If he says he had no idea. Then say "fine, I have a way for you to make it up to me..." and invite him somewhere. If he says no. Then if he can't make time in his "big" schedule  for you then whats the point in knowing him anyway?
405799
He is extreeeeemely busy... if you are "dating" and he hasnt contacted you... eh... well.. he is a man.... and welcome to the game of "love"
616965
Maybe he is not ready for any kind of relationship just yet maybe he might be testing the waters before he try it. I don't know but maybe the reason why he didn't want to call you is this you are out in a club or bar and he bought you a drink and you exchanged numbers. Well guess what? He was testing you and seeing what kind of girl you are....some guys do that for the sake of there manhood.\n\nIf he hasn't called you by now then he may never call so move on and have a fun life and if he does call then maybe it was meant to be. :)
401257
Well I would say that you did the right thing by not giving your number and also saying no about the Homecoming thing  becuase he is probably no good maybe  why would he ask one girl and another ona date or what ever you want to talk it  . To tell the truth he may be a guy that messes with  one to many girls at one time. SO give yourself a pat on the back becuase you did the right thing or maybe I could be wrong jsut see how he acts alittle while longer and if things seem ok to you then go for it the best of luck  \n\n\nhere is my email if you need more advice  daniellepapillion@yahoo.com
265511
Only if he wants to. If he is actually wanting to date her, she will be very happy to know he is still interested in her to the point he would like to call her now. Personally, if he doesn't call the next day just to say he had a nice time, I write him off and move on since I believe he is trying to play the coy thing and I don't care for games. I think he should go for it, just not gush when he calls her. He could use the call to set up another date for early next week if that's what he wants to do. If not and he just wants a friend, it is irrelevant as to when he calls her since he just wants to shoot the breeze. He should call her when ever he wants. Hope this helps!!
241517
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
455104
I can't speak for that guy, but going from seeing you several times to stopping the calling and bailing on dates is a prime indicator that he has either gotten what he wanted out of the relationship and is done, or he is focusing his attentions towards someone else...\n\nMy recommendation would be to forget about him and move on.  I promise the next time he calls you will be to hook up for one night...\n\nSorry, but that's how most guys are...
78663
First and foremost, it is very important to not get our hopes up too fast; A few good dates do not necessarily constitute that he is the guy that you are indeed looking for.If he really were the kind of guy that you were looking for then he would definitely find the time to call you and talk to you. Do not get hung up on those type of guys because they may seem promising but in reality they are not. I would suggest you move on; regardless of what his reasons may be, fact of the matter is that he is not calling, so I think you deserve someone better, and for starters- someone more honest. Do not waste you time on those guys. Again, you deserve better.\n\nI hope it helped, Good Luck
407954
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.