but then she prefers a picnic in the park on a blanket.  So, where is it a man can win?  What really do women consider romantic?
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Originality! I think it is knowing the things that she likes and playing off of that. Try the candlelight on a blanket at the lake or something..good luck
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Okay, so i'm back ..hehe...i was so intrigued by the thoughfullness and sincerity of your last question I went to see if you had any others.  And you do...and some really sweet ones at that...\nSo heres my two cents:\n\n* CUDDLE!!!!!(issue addressed though...do it do it do it!!!)\nAlso plant sweet kisses on her...its especially sweet when she's sleeping...it implies so much....you think she's sleeping and unaware..but she is!\n\n* Introduce her to new things!  This will score big points and make a lasting impression...every time that event or occasion comes up you will be forever imprinted in her memory and associated with it.  (I was introduced to football!  of all things...and became a huge Steeler fan...cant look at football now w/o associating it w him.  Also shared my first Symphony w/ him, first baseball game, first game of mini golf....GO FOR THE FIRSTS!!!!\n\n*Be a gentlemen.....show her chivalry isnt dead.  Even someting so common as holding her elbow or hip when opening the door...or standing when she gets up from the table, warning her of puddles or cracks in the sidewalk, or standing on the side of her thats facing the street....just says so very much.  Girls like to feel like they are being taken care of...and that is SEXY!!!!!!!!!!\n\n*Make her dinner....may sound unoriginal or common, but if done right can be so very....sigh sweet!  Especially when you take it to her at work.  Presentation is key.  Throw in some fresh strawberrys and grapes for the desert and a box of chocolates......(writing this I can see Ive been spoiled)\n\n*Compliment her....don't over do it though....say it only when its warrented...that way she knows its genuine.\n\nOkay, so my two cents turned into a novel..but the above really has made a huge impression on me...and that says alot.  But good luck to you...sounds like you are already on your way to being pretty damn awesome.
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Oh, this is my main subject with men! I always wanted a guy to be romantic, listen to me and not just sit there and look around, to actually listen to me, and be there for me no matter what. And if a woman seems to be talking and seems to need a hug or a kiss, lean over and give her one, she will love that.Take her to a park with a blanket and picnic lunch and just sit and listen to music and listen to her and feel what she is saying. She will definately see the romance in you if you do this. Be kind, caring, and listen to her at all times, she will like that a lot and don't ever change, keep it that way, romantic, and sweet and she will love you for that. Good luck!
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Someplace very quiet, very private, fireplace, if a woman is there , she would bring enough to eat I think.\n\nMight not even be thinking about food.\n\nA few Guinness would be nice too, if she doesn't mind it.\n\nIts best just let it evolve I think. He does something nice, she does something nice back, it just builds when its best.\n\nLet it take all day. Any cellphones that ring get thrown against a stone wall.
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I think it depends on her... remember, this moment is about her, not you.  I would have preferred a romantic evening, just the two of us, wine & dine, etc... but that is not my wife, who is more sociable.\n\nWhat I did was get one of her best friends to talk about proposals with her- she was great at it, made it sound like she was just making conversation- and then I had the inside info about how she really wanted it done (which was in front of all of her friends).
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Maybe she is a deep person who takes a lot of things into concideration befour she makes any kind of commitment so why not give her a little shove in the right direction try asking her face to face if she would like to go for a meal or the pics or on a nice long walk to a picnic site or what ever her interest maybe that way you have time alone and she may open up to you i think you have to make the first move as she may also like the chase either way you will get to know how she feels about you if she says no to any of the above then i think you have your answer good luck  ps  most women like a man to make the first move it makes her feel more like a woman and she will see that you are a real man
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It may work between you, or not. \nProbably she doesn't really know what she likes then... if she hasn't had anything with guys yet.\nOf course, she is afraid.\nA woman always needs to be emotionally 100% safe to be able to melt up in physical contact.\nHowever, don't be sad... some girls do have sex with a lot of guys and they still don't know what they like or what they want!\nShe is a treasure, take care of her.\nShow her you love her, that you love her truly and you will not run away after sex... and then she will react.\n\nDon't ASK her next time if you may kiss her or not!\nStart playing with her hair, for example... or stare at her lips - and KISS her, humm! :-) Take her by surprise. Or, ask her to close her eyes, simply.\nAnd no comment, after the kiss.\n\nNext time, kiss her again. \nNext time, you can do even more.\nDon't hurry her, cause if you do, she will run away.\nKeep her close to yourself, hug her... make her get used to physical contact. She may feel extremely shy, you will have to be patient.\n\nBut, if you love her truly, this should not be a problem! :-)\nGood luck!
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take her out not just to a restaurant. hows about a candelight dinner for two under the stars, im sure you're wife would like that. coz most women would go for something romantic.
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you should ask her out in person and alone to on the beach or at a picnic is a good place
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you might try the park at night, unless it's well lit and visited regularly by police. \n\nanother kind of romantic place is buy a lake. take blanket, a bottle of wine and some dinner and have a midnight picnic on a moonlit night.\n\ntry a football field or a baseball diamond..take a blanket the concrete dugout benches are hard.\n\nyou'll find the time and the place. you can borrow a truck and put an airmattress in the back.\n\nor if you have a drive in movie theatre, try that. babies have been conceived that way for years.
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The way to a guys heart is thru his stomach they say.  He should be happy...you can try to find a sports themed place or you can eat at a place that has games and stuff too.
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get her some new leather.. grab the bike and a simple lunch along with a blanket.. ride out to a very quiet spot.. enjoy a picnic and then make love out in the open-being sure to satisfy her first
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The first thing you need to do is establish a code with your friend to see if she wants to extend the date. Don't make her feel stuck with guy if she doesn't like him! If she does like him and the weather permits, visit an outdoor mall, a local concert in your community or the beach. We have tons of piers out here in CA that offer fun and pleasure. If the weather is cold in your area, go to a comedy club, bar or coffee shop. Have fun!
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unexpectedly. i mean girls always like surprises. proposals that come out of the blue are the best proposals i think. if you are going to use the tried and tested, planned dinner date with matching scenery and stuff then she might have hinted on it. no use to sigh for that one.
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Picture it... its the perfect day outside you have already packed a picnic and some drinks and put them in the car... your wife is on her way home.... she walks through the door and you kiss her and tell her happy valentines day... Then you pull out a red scarf from behind your back.... tell her to turn around and close her eyes.... Blind fold her and lead her slowly out to the car.... drive to a secluded place in the country with beautiful scenery.... lay out your picnic... and get your wife from the car and lead her to sit beside the cloth.... Pull her closer to you and kiss her as you undo the blindfold.... then proceed with the picnic.... when you get home... Im sure you can take it from here....
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well believe it or not if two people are active then yall would be perfect for each other she likes sports and outdoors and so do u isnt that wut a guy wants is someone to go and do things with that is not only just for guys....its nice to see couples playing outdoors games and running and swimming together its cute...
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well from a female point of view, the beer is not so romantic. If you are at the beach, take her down there with a bottle of champagne, find somewhere nice to sit, make sure there are no crabs on the beach(believe me i know what i'm talking about lol)  or see if they have a nice quiet hot tub..... need i say more??