This boy im in love with, well i don't think he likes me anymore. I've been liking him for about 2 years now after he asked me out. I was so sure he liked me.. he flirted made me laugh etc. but one time our whole group of friends were asking eachother questions, and someone asked him who he likes and he said no one. I was very disappointed. I think maybe he doesn't wanna be a softie in front of his friends, or something but i don't know. Do you think I should talk to him about it? What's the best thing to do at this point?
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Forget it.\n\n*sorry*\nThe reason I suggest this is that he asked you out 2 years ago and clearly didn't follow it up with a relationship, and when asked he didn't say "Oh I like someone, but I'm not telling", he said "No one".\n\nNote that saying that he has his eye on some chick would NOT be taken by his pals as soft in any way.  In fact, on the contrary, his admission that he likes no-one would run him the risk of being called gay, too choosy or too scared/timid.\n\nI noted that you have been quite happy for the 2 years -- in love with him and hoping he liked you -- this is classic Platonic love (unrequited).  It is the only real form of pure love there is.  It is a loveley thing to be cherished and you should be glad that it won't be ruined by having a relationship where the love is allowed to mature away from being in-love to loving or for it all to end without love at all.\n\nYou have been in a small social bubble for way too long now... your posting this question suggests to me that perhaps it is time that you spread your wings and searched further afield.  You sound like you are ready for a rewarding loving relationship.  Don't settle for second best!\n\nI recommend new hobbies, part time work, a night class, or something that will take you into a new social sphere where you will meet new people and guys will soon be asking you out.\n\nPS: You read the situation very well, and your question shows clarity of thought and a desire to clear the air and sort things out.  I am only posting an answer at all becaus of the other answers here! I think you know the real answer -- so don;t, please, be swayed by public opinion!
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i would try to talk to him, and hint to whether or not he likes you. but don't directly ask. maybe have a friend talk to him, or even talk to his friends. try talking to find stuff out about him- so you have a foundation of your relationship. and good luck!
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i would think so caus ethat's happening to me right now and people said the boy that found out i liked them liked me soo yuor man probably likes you hey i give advice but don't take my own so here's my advice to u he likes you go up and ask him why he's been acting diffirent ever since he found out you liked him.kk\nhope everything works out for sweety!!!!!!!(-:
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He might be thinking about it.  Men and boys tend to think about whether they like us or not before they get too hooked into their feelings.  Give him a couple of weeks to think it through and don't let anyone pressure him for his feelings before he has had a chance to think about them.x
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I dont think he likes you. If he did want to get to know you he wouldve said something. i think you should just leave him alone. maybe someday he will talk to you but for now it sure seems like he thinks you are something else. i dont think you should try and comunicate with him anymore....sorry
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Sweetie, be patient.  Do not approach him anymore.  Something like this happened to me before but after he told me no I left him alone.  He likes the attention you are giving him.  Just sit back and watch, because if you stop trying to talk to him, he will want you.  Watch this will work and even if it doesn't there is more fish in the sea and you better start fishing.  This boy is gonna miss a good thing if he keeps acting like this
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Hi!\nIts better to ask him directly if he has any such feelings 4 u. Coz remember, it is easier for a boy to overcome such situations,but when it comes to emotional situations,girls are not that strong as to forget all this in a few days and carry on with a normal routine. U r close enough 2 him 2 put such a question directly to him. M saying this coz if he is interected then its ofcourse good 4 u,but if its otherwise then it would be too late 4 u to make it easier 4 urself 2 overcome what is yet 2 b. You seem to be interested in him,but just think,if without knowing the latter's feelings u continue liking him in that manner and then soon come to know that nothing of this kind had been going on in his mind, then what will be your reaction? Comeon,its your life,and you are its master,so I would suggest that u ask him directly rather than continuing this onesided liking.\ntake care!
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Being a teenager is real awkward. Try not to worry about everyone else's opinion of you. If you like this boy ask him out.
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Aww. Come on, you should definitely talk to him and see how he feels, maybe he likes you too. But still you are young, and even if he doesn't feel the same about you, it's not the end of the world. Telling someone your true feelings can be tough because we are afraid of what the person may say, which is the position I'm in right now, but someday I have to muster up the courage to tell him. You can wait but don't wait too long.
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Be mad at the boy.  He lied to you straight out while on the other hand you told your friend it was ok for her to like him and she probably didn't expect him to ask her.  You should also be mad at yourself.  If you like someone you got to grab on and not wait till later or they will inevitably move on.
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Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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he sure likes you!Something like this happen to me i went to my friend and talked to her and she didn't mind me going out with him so i did and everything was perfect just be careful you don't want to lose a friend just for a boy\n\ngood luck\n~jenna~
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Believe it or not I think this happened to me . . . but the guy didnt like me but Im pretty sure that this guy likes you! Go Girl! Just keep doing what your doing! If he likes you he will pop the question or get one of him friends too! ( P.S. Try hanging out with him again )
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
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You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
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Jeez! I am sick of these teenage "does he like me" "what do I do" questions.\n\nIt is a TEMPORARY little relationship and will be meaningless when you look back on it later in life (stupid even). Get over yourself and your insecurities. All you little teenagers are afraid of each other and care WAY TOO MUCH about WHAT OTHER PEOPLE think about you. When you are a real grown-up, you care less and have REAL relationships.\n\nThank you
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yes... you have nothing to lose. If he dosn't like you... thats his loss. you will find someone who DOES like you. It just takes time. And... if all of your friends have boyfriends or girlfriends then they may or may not have found their person. If you get hurt think about how NICE he was to you. \n\nDoes he like you? Become his friend and then ask "Who do you like" on AIM or something. If he says i donno then its either you or no one.\n\n--Best of luck--