Serious question. By the way, just o show I am not sexist, the same could apply to him, or you both as a couple!
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Well, it depends what the article is all about in the men's mag.  If the heading of the article is something like, " Happily married and still sexy!" or "Married women are hotttt!", maybe you should go ahead with it. It would be great if they let you and your hubby pose too. Obviously your husband wants to show you off so why not put his face next to you so people would know this hottie belongs to him? But I have never heard these kinda headings in such mags before so its probably highly unlikely.\nThe point is, go ahead with it if the article AND the photoshoots decent. When I say decent, I don't mean non-sexy. Looking sexy is a MUST!! Whats the point of being on a mens mag if you don't get to look damn good.But you can still look respectable WHILE looking sexy. Somehow or other, you gotta pull it off. Its possible. I do it all the time. lol.\nGoodluck... and tell us of your decision in the end alright?
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damn guy, that was kinda sweet, until you said babe. the name of a little pig. everyone is sexist in a way. isnt being gay maybe being sexist, prefering a certain sex to the other? ok here comes my boss, gotta look busy!
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Ok - I hate to play it off as a "guy" thing but it seems to be as such. We just don't realize when we're doing it. It's not a sexual thing - we just tend to have a hold of "ping and pong" without realizing it.My wife points out all the time that I am doing it - she says I hold them more than she does. I hereby apologize for the entire male population for our actions - ( but actually we'll still do it unknowingly ) - - - just from an honest guy standpoint
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Dear- people are complicated. You will find the older you get-especially when it comes to be too complicated--there is really no gender difference who is more than the other. If you are talking specifically about in a relationship--maybe you need to find someone who does what he says. Honesty is the first and most important building block in every relationship!
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I'm a woman, but I'll answer anyway. :)\nI think men like nice warm house. Not spotless tidy but warm tidy that shows your character. Don't worry too much of how your house should be to impress him. Just be like how you used to. He gotta find out how you really are anyway. Besides, he's probably too busy thinking about how to behave at your place to notice too much. :)
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its sounds alright but i think it be better if u just went up and talked to him... :) good luck \n\n(ohh hmm im not a dude im a chick..)
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I began writing a quick, "guys will be guys response," but then I saw your additional info.  The important question here is, why are you still with this guy?  It's unacceptable to behave that way in the situation you describe, and it shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship.
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Oh hell no...i wouldnt approve of anything like that ...i may not be a mixed woman but i know people who are and they have feeling too...if he is going to talk about some one he need to be talking about himself.
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I assume you are a female, it bugs me that you are comparing yourself to you mate. As human beings we all have something to offer, unique in our own way, you need to find what is unique and special about yourself.  Your confidence and self esteem seems to be a bit low and though your mate is saying all the right stuff now, if you don't feel it, then those words wouldn't mean a thing in the long run.   \nBe reminded that noone is perfect, instead of trying to find something to make him proud of you, find something that will make you proud of you and ultimately, he will be proud of you as well.
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If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
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I don't think so.\n\nYou seam like the type who is honest and are really confused by your own addmission. \n\nI think you guys will ok and that you will not cheat on him. You come off as being a very nice and and fun to be around sort of gal.
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Don't play games like a lot of silly women out there. Just tell him... be a woman about it.
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I know you hear people talking about "working" on a marriage or relationships, but its not like putting a wing on a house.  From what you say it sounds like you want him to be more sensitive as you perceive yourself to be.  Men and women are different, why do you want to feminize him?
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My boyfriend does a similar thing - but I am pleased he is honest with me. It's when they pretend they're not doing it - and become secretive that there is a problem. If he was to cheat - he would not make it so bloody obvious that was his intentions. Start doing it back to him - have a laugh. Me and my boyfriend used to work together and we both had top five's of the opposite sex in the office. It's made us close, maybe he feels like you're his friend - which means he feels comfortable saying 'Ooh, 9/10 she's hot!' You're obviously his 11/10 - so I wouldn't worry honey.
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Sorry hun, but that sounds like a typical male to me.  He wants to be seen as the stud he probably portrays himself to be.  It was just sex to him and you neither your feelings are attached to it.
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I would feel flattered but not necessarily comfortable about it.  If you want to be flirty about it tell him he can try it and see how far he gets, although if he is the wrong kind of guy it could be trouble.  I guess you should let him know you are open to it but are a little uncomfortable about it.
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Well, I guess there is no law on him dressing in womens clothes after all women wear mens clothes all the time. The important thing is YOU are not here on this earth to be a punching bag. Note:...You sure he dresses in womens clothes? Or are you just wanting to get back at him?