In reference to gay sex. I was wondering is it sussposed to hurt.
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Yes it did. But yet I still went back for more. Use lots of lube (non-oil based), find someone that'll take their time. And find a way to relax. (avoid poppers, no good can come from them) And you might want to clean out down there for the sake of the other guy. Its a nice courtesy.\nAnd of course make sure protection is used, bottom condom for you or regular for your partner -with no spermicide.
119137
does it hurt or does it make things harder? if not, who cares? if so, go to the doc
541401
Being hurt is always a possibility in any relationship. It is a natural fear but not one that should prevent a person from a worthwhile relationship. Life is about love and joy and yes, pain. Fear of pain should not keep us from love and joy.
177632
No it doesn't hurt at all. Go ahead and do it.
398532
I say get some toys, lube up and have fun! No harm in that!\n\nBut I must ask...what does this question have to do with Gay, Lesbian, etc, section of the question/answer board?
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I think a sexual experience of any kind at too young an age will stay with you thru life.  It must be horrible for young boys memories to hold such outrageous thought as those of a man raping you.  I don't think it makes them gay, but I believe it is very confusing to them.
461001
the bigger question is ...\nwho hurts homosexuals ?\n\nwhy does anyone feel that they can be hurtful to others simply because they dont understand them
585141
I'm sorry, but your use of the word thinking is far too liberal (sorry, I can't find a thesaurus to come up with a less tasteless word and I really don't feel like firing up Microsoft word right now.)\n\nAnd if someone is "alright" with gays, as in they believe that gays deserve to be treated equally, then why are they attempting to use the word as an insult? Is that hypocrisy or irony? Or is it just sheer stupidity?\n\n\nAnd I see yet another S.B.S.N. has struck. I'm going to start counting now as I browse your questions.
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I've always believed that how you use the thing you have between your legs is your own matter,as long as you don't harm others against their will.So whoever labels gay people just because of their preferences,I'd advice him to make love more often.It calms you down...
138631
For some women it is not painful, most important is the man who is doing it, if it is done with lots of lubrication, tenderness and patience, not long and it ends up being a wonderful form of love making. Though not for all women it is by all means worth the effort.
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I have been there; \n\nThe reason it is hurting is because you are dry before he inserts his penis; and likely he is too young to know that he should first get you to the point that you are excited and your vagina is secreting for lubrication for the penis.  If you are not wet or not feeling really good before he puts his penis in you; than you need to perform more foreplay.\n\nAnd if it still hurts even when you are lubricated, then it is probably an infection in your cervix.  If it is a "burning sensation" when he puts it in, or even when you stop and it still burns then you have an infection of some sort and should see a doctor.
338959
I honestly don't have nothing against gays. Gay people have never done anything to hurt me and I try my best not to do the same. If that what you choose, that is your business. I can't judge and I can't say. Who am I to judge. If your heart tells you to go for it, I say go for it. Please use protection!!!!!
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yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
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No, it will not hurt you.\n\nLike anything else, moderation is important. :-))
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it does hurt it is very uncomfortable because they are pushed it up pretty hi mine made me very uncomfortable and i had a girl who did it.
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It has absolutely nothing to do with being gay !!! My girl friend and I began experimenting with toys and light bondage over a year ago. It is a very trusting and sensual experience to be restrained while your lover pleases you. Recently, she decided to try using a strap-on on me. I was nervous at first but agreed. We both enjoyed it. The sensation was pleasurable but what we both really got off on was her being in control and as she put it, "you get to feel what it is like to have your lover inside of you". There was also pain associated with the pleasure, and we both got off on that as well which seemed wierd at first - but it was really all about her being in control, and me being submissive (used to always be the other way around). She actually orgasms during the act, sometimes more than once. And of course, stimulating the prostate can be very pleasurable - at least for me it gives me a raging hard-on. She is very oral and enjoys licking my anus as well - I guess cause she knows how good feels when I tongue hers !!!Feel free to holler at me mikeallen555555 on yahoo of course.
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It makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.  I supposed it's possible that there is some sort of stigma against gay men because it is assumed that all gay men have anal sex.  Some straight people have a harder time with that image in their heads, than of women performing oral sex on each other.  \n\nWhatever the case is, it's a crazy thought.