Okay- In jan.my friend **** asked me out. I never dated be4 but I thought if I did- he would do nothing to hurt me cuz we're friends.Then- up to MArch on the last two weeks- he stopped saying stuff and was always to busy. Then this week- I found out he transferred skools- AND HE DIDN"T EVEN TELL ME!! Now his lil bro (who doesn't know me and **** go 2gether) told a teacher who was w/ him that he moved to a new skool and he had other 16 girlfriends. I didn't want to believe it but my friend MArchae-who also doesn't know either- says that he goes out w/ a girl in my skool named Darien cuz he said she was cute.I cried cuz I didn't want to believe it. Then I thought that if he gave me my 1st kiss- he could've at least given me my last.So he's not really some1 to cry over. I just still feel so used. What can i do to 4get him.?
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I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
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Aww! I kind of relate to that. So let's see... it sounds like he's noticing you, and you don't want to date him yet. Read some teen magazines and put on a little makeup on days you have classes with him. Wear cute clothes, wear your hair nice, sounds like you're doing pretty well though.
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It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
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ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
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hey mama I am in the exact same position and my guy friend has mentioned he hates when girls make the first move so I am petrified to tell him, I feel like I have to wait for him to come to me. But he is probably thinking the same as you. Whenever drink, stuff happens and I usually spend every day with him and we do everything together. Work out together, party together, occasionally sleep together the whole 9. Whenever we need anything, we're the first ones each other calls. If you figure this out- lemme know!\nLauramr015@yahoo.com
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If your friend knew he asked you out and still went out with him...Obviously, she isn't a really good friend..So watch out for that in the future..And you don't need him anyways, your young and you should worry about school and getting a good education..He is probly dumb and if he had to go to your friend he is obviously just desprate...
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I don't believe he cares for you, how can he have a crush on you and end up asking your friend out. He thinks he's smart, he want to have a go at both you and your friend. He's finished with your friend, it's now your turn. If you want to find yourself out on your butt, then go ahead. Forget how you feel about him, he does not feel the same. Throw him to the trash where he belongs.
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maybe when he said yes to your friend, it meant he would say yes if YOU yourself asked him.  Guys get all weird when girls use eachother to get boyfriends. If your friend said he said he would go out with you, then you should've gone ahead and asked him.  Give him a break, the whole 'thru the friend' stuff is not dating-worthy.  Next time, go ahead and ask. Im not saying you'll get a definite "yes".\nhave a great day!
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Wait at least another week, then I would call him, but don't ask him why he didn't call you or anything like that because it will just annoy him. Act like you weren't even expecting him to call you, and just casually ask him how his exams went. Keep the conversation short, just enough to remind him that you're still there. If he is really shy and you think this might be holding him back from asking you to hang out, you could try making the suggestion that he should hang out with you and your friends sometime. Don't ask him to hang out alone with you unless you KNOW that he is interested in you. After this phone call, if he doesn't call you back again, DON'T pursue this any further.
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yea there's this guy who i like AL0T but he doesn't seem lik he wants to hang out/see me wit me outside of school even though we hug and sometimes talk a lil bit. he didn't even ask me fo my number! so idk ... just try not to stay at tha same level. everyday, talk more. then when you have tha courage ta ask him if he wants to go and hang out then do it. i know i'm still waiting for that day.
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I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
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Well I would say that you did the right thing by not giving your number and also saying no about the Homecoming thing  becuase he is probably no good maybe  why would he ask one girl and another ona date or what ever you want to talk it  . To tell the truth he may be a guy that messes with  one to many girls at one time. SO give yourself a pat on the back becuase you did the right thing or maybe I could be wrong jsut see how he acts alittle while longer and if things seem ok to you then go for it the best of luck  \n\n\nhere is my email if you need more advice  daniellepapillion@yahoo.com
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I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
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hey.. hun...if he hugged n kissed u and says he wants to get back together after the semester,it means exactly that. If he would not have kissed u i would have said he jus wants to go out with other girls-but since he did i would definitly say thats not the case.....and don't worry he isn't using u.....\nhe dose not want to be with you right now because he feels pressure from school and feels he can't give u as much attention as u need and as he would like to give u,so he wants to break it off right now,jus have a little time alone to sort his mind out and get back together-don't worry i think he's a great guy and u should hold on to him-but do call him now n then to show him ur thinkin about him,it will go fine,believe me i've been there!\ntake care\n~Ally
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Well, that guy definitely has a problem. Tell him to deflate his big head 'cause you never wanted to be his girlfriend anyway. You only wanted to be his friend (am I right about that? I hope I am) for crying out loud. You seem like you were just being friendly. He probably thought too much of himself and got an ego-boost when you started talking to him and everything. Ignore him and show him who's boss. He's a loser.
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Seems like your hasn,t the same feelings for you , or he would have asked you out.Don't lose your friend over a love that never is going to happen.as i bet she didn't even know.
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I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also.  I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)