I like this guy but he doesn't like me or at least I don't think so I have been best friends with him since last year I know him really well but I dont think he likes me!! what do I do?!
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just stay friend with him. if he ain't interested, there ain't much u can do about it anyway. just enjoy his complany. if he likes u even the least bit, it'll come out sometime during ur friendship. trust me. guys never hold back about these things!
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Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
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i dont think going for him after your best friend had him is such a good idea unless shes cool with it.  but i do think he likes you though..try kissin him on the cheek once or twice over a week span and see how he reacts..my e-mail is foxybabe0483@yahoo.com if ya wanna ask some more!!
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I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school.  We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend.  They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him.  Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him.  But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."\n\nWell, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out.  Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc.  So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.\n\nSee, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you.  I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you.  Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you.  Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him.  If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two.  But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so.  But in the right way.  Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.
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If ur best friend knows that u like him but she doesn't like him then just try to dress better, make ur hair prettier then usuall or anything, just hang out with him, but if ur best friend like him, just don't do anything.
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My advise is to stay with him. You felt good around him right? You had fun and had nice conversations, right? Take time and think to yourself, "do I like this guy more than a friend or not?" If not, be honest and tell him, don't avoid him. Stop being such an immature little girl, we ain't seven-years old anymore. Men don't have cooties.
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I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
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I'm a guy, so trust me with this answer. Tell him how you really feel, but DON'T ignore him or act awkward when you're around him. This will only hurt him more. Establish the fact that you're JUST friends, but continue to give him attention and treat him like the best friend he is. Maybe even introduce him to another friend of yours to get his mind off you.
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If he looks at you in your eyes when you talk to him.You should become one of his friends.Then you should ask him.If it pushes him away then he is probally not the guy you are looking for.The only way to find out is to ask him if he likes you.You need to get to know him so that he does not feel like you dont really like him.Make it obvious that you like him.If he does not know,then he will think you dont like him.That is why you should tell him.You need to flirt with him to get him to like you alot more.Dont leave him clueless.He wont know.
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but if he has a (what I assume you are saying) crush on someone else, he probably doesn't like you. He might just be being nice because he sees you as a great friend and nothing more. Don't give up hope though - try to win him back. Flirt, smile a lot...hopefully things will improve from there. GL
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Make him understand that you do not love him. Try to avoid him all the time. He will not be around you to be insulted. You have to break up your relationship with your best friend if you are not ready to take him as your life partner. Because things will never be the same again. But I would like to suggest you to take him as he wants. he will be able to make you happy as he is your best friend.
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Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
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How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.
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if he's your friend then you should be able to talk to him\nask him whats wrong with him let him know how you feel and tell him you dont like the way he's been treating you  lately be honest with him, if he ask you if you like him let him know, and if he feels unconfortable about you guys dating then you should let it go it doesnt have to happen you could still  be friends. as for your friend you should stay away from her she is causing problem and you dont need a friend like that.
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babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
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Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
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NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! He doesn't like you for you. He just feels he needs a girl friend. He couldn't get you best friend so he's going to try to get back at her by going after you. He's a playa and so not worth the trouble. Besides, there is a reason your best friend turned him down.