Well... I have this friend and she is my school best friend and she doesnt understand that i have other friends too. And she always wants to hang out with me and i want to hang out with her too but i also want to hang out with my other friends. What should i tell her?
130885
Why not invite her along with you and some of your other friends.
274987
You know, we are in the same situation. You are still considered bestfriends. You see, it doesn't mean that if you go with other persons or friends you don't like your bestfriend. Think of the times you spent together and all the memories you have shared with each other. of course, your bestfriend will miss you. you know there is really a stage in friendship wherein they're kinda bored with each other. maybe you can talk to your bestriend and eventually you can resolve this problem. hope I've helped you... ^_^
189176
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
123504
As long as you & your best friend know that you are best friends with each other, its all good.\nThis girl is probably just lonely & wants a best friend, or she could just be trying to cause trouble.\nEither way, just ignore what she says & tell your best friend to do the same & eventually this girl will see that what she's doing is pointless & she will go away.
504550
you know what. sometimes its easier for people with similar interests to hang out. my suggestion is that, since your friend is there too, try to join in their conversation. and if you hear a part like, for instance; a certain activity is cool- just say you are interested but there is no one to mentor you or suggest that all three of you go there together! \n\nthe more time spent, the more chances there could be of you two eventually talking.
505977
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
258839
Well to be honest i dont think they have to be a gooooood friend i mean my enemy asked to be my friend on myspace and i accepted her and now shes begging to be my friend on myspace bc she to afraid to beg at skool and well now that we realizd we never hated each other we are best friends and well ya and thats where me and my boyfriend asked me out bc he was to scared to ask me at skool well i hope i helped a lil i mean some times its good to acept people u arent the best of friends with <3 me
278334
You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
271565
Ok let me tackle your question one by one.Always know if a friend comes to you only when she needs something then shes BAD NEWS.just this week i got rid of a friend like that now shes gone into hiding.Both your best friends are playing with you.One of them disses you about the other NOT because she doesnt like that other girl BECOZ she wants to see what you have to say about her to go and tell the other girl or she must have made something up.My advice loose both of them as friends make friends with mature girls who are smart and educated who know what life is and not bitchy since im surrounded by such friends and life is such bliss trust me when u get friends like that ull know what true friendship means
181998
You're friend is treating you this way because (im assuming she) she has her own insecurities about herself. i dont know you, but you are probably an attractive popular girl? someone genuin? This other friend wants you to feel about about yourself. The way to tackle this is to understadn she is hating something about herself and try to bring it out of her, subtly and perhaps bit by bit. then when you're feeling more confident you can talk to her about the way she speaks to you and the names she calls you.
199012
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
171437
exactly\nthis girl used to be my friend well she want really my friend just my friend's friend but we all hung out together but i never liked her and i just tolerated her because of my friend\nshe would try to be cool and say all that..but it just annoyed and she was such a bitch..i even asked her why she spoke like that and she just stared at me and said why are you such a nerd..and that is so stupid..she was new and trying to fit in..but she left my friend \nshe had just used her to make other friends\neven though my firend had beene her first friend when she was new\nso whenever i hear people talk like that it just annoys me and the only reason they speak like that is to try to be cool
296956
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
169708
if she's trying to get you 2 apart, then she isn't a good friend, good friends are supposed to help you when you have trouble with others, not help the fight along! as far as the other friend, i just had a similar situation. she is a grade ahead of me and is getting all these new friends from swimming(i'm not in swimming) we're not as close but its still fun to hang every once in ahwhile! also talk to her about it. tell her how your feeling
41034
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
447583
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times