I met with a man thru an internet friend's introduction ,i gave him that man my ph no and he called me immediately when he got my ph,now we know each other for 3 months or so thru the ph,now he proposed me to marry with him ,i admire him much and he told me he loves me thru his life ,we haven met face to face and now he invited me to go to his country ,he is from Sigapore and i m from China.so could any one suggest me how to handle this matter,many thx .
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I would be extra careful. Meeting people online can be dangerous, cuz you never really know who your talking to. if you do go and meet him, don't go alone, make sure someone knows where your going and give them a number to get in contact with you. 3 months isn't very long. \nJust be extra careful
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I'm the nicest guy I know (and I'm very humble about it), and if you asked me if you should go and meet me after a few years chatting on the net and talking on the phone, I'd still say you were crazy!\n\nBe extremely careful, and dont expect worlds from first meet of a stranger who has no connection with you or anyone you know who is promising you ANYTHING, especially from a different state.
323920
Since you people are close enough why do not discuss with him? Once you talk it out definitely a solution will arise.Let it be in such a way that both of you are happy with it. By the way true love does not fade by distances . So also being together definitely brings mental satisfaction in true love. As for the conditions in India it will definitely not be a problem if you take the decision whole heartedly.
319374
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
380803
actually...we met on an internet dating site....he kept writting me and I kept ignoring his mails....then I had a 10th mail from this guy and I replied back.....we started chatting on msn and talking on the fone....then he came over to see me in my country.....then I went to see him in his...and after 6 months of going back and forth....he asked me to marry him and I did....
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Hi,\nIt is a very common problem as Internet widely used nowadays. the two persons meet and chat from Internet and finally one loves another or love each other.......\ndo you know why? because of distance makes perfect. all the characters they showed are the attractive. and we accustomed to picture him/her as our ideal partner.\nMaybe you can make a communion with him, if he consider for you enough , I think he will help you.if not he is not worthy your love.Do you think so?
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I find him:-) I really loved him. He is very very very handsome. I had write an address( ı think it could be my friends address.Yes somebody said me hello.But it wasn`t my friend and it wan`t a girl it was a really handsome boy.I broke up my ex-lover `cause I always think about my net lover.I love him very much and ı become happy when he logs on the MSN.
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I would meet them in a  heartbeat, why would you hesitate? In teh end it is all up to you what can happen.... Have fun!!!
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1) To the best of my knowledge, there is no such law in India that prohibits one from marrying an American.  In fact, considering that Inida was a British colony, there are quite a few British people living there.  Several of those British people are married with the Indians there.  \n2) That person said he has received the package that you sent him?  Did he take any pictures of him holding some of the things that you sent him?  Reason I ask this is, I have heard of many internet romance scams that sound like what you are describing.  Please check out http://www.anti-scam.org for more details.  This site has a long list of scammers and their names.  Please make sure that his name is not on the list.\n3) How can you bring him over to the America though?  Do you plan on bringing him over with a fiance visa?  If so, you would need to be there too because the US government won't grant him anything if you are not there with him.  And also, granting a visa takes time; judging by the urgency of his case (according to you, he is going to be killed in just a few months), you may want to contact the US embassy in India to get involved.  And also, you will probably need to go to India yourself to meet with the ambassador and the Indian guy yourself to work things out.
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how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
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My cousin had a long time relationship with this girl, he's from Canada and she's from the States. They meet over the Internet and now their married and still in love. I had a long distance relationship and it wasn't that hard to deal with as long as you don't go crazy with a "what if" in the back of your mind and trust your heart that every word spoken is true. Now we live together and I still love him even more then before, and am excited for the years to come. I say if it feels good, and you both can handle the distance between the two of you, give it a try and see as the days go by.
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If you recently met this guy you have to be a liitle patient and not just enter a relationship with him. Do you personally know why he travels so frequently? You ahve to be careful when its comes to this type of situation. All I can say is to be a little patient and do not rush into anything.
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You should harness that connection. Whether you are both one and the same shouldn't prevent you from having a meaningful relationship with this gentleman. \n\nAs far as soul mates go, yes I do believe I've found mine. It's a strange situation. A contact on MSN came up and I had not spoke to him in over a year. We decided to meet for coffee and we immediately had the "Have I met you before" cliche. :)\n\nWe both share practically all our interests, hobbies, humour. It's a joy being around him and he says the same for me. The strange thing is, we have never met before. He moved from Russia to Canada in 2000, and he's lived in my area of town for nearly 2 years. Stranger yet we cannot figure out how I got his email, because I wasn't on his list and I assumed it was PLentyoffish.com where I met him but he had just created the profile the day before...\n\nWhether we are or not doesn't take away from the fact that in a week, he has already said that he never wants to leave and I feel the exact same. We are, one and the same. Even if you aren't soul mates...work on harnessing the energy there. You never know what may become of it. :)
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My best friend did, but even further, the guy is overseas. They met thru a message board and got to know each other over several months, the 'vibe' kept growing and they finally met a year ago last spring. They are together almost 2 years now, we all thought it was nuts at first but they seem to be a really well matched couple. He's considering moving out here sometime in the next year :)
530514
i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
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me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
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First: Sure, it doesn't matter how two of you got introduced each other - through net or social program or at a shopping centre; just couple decades ago freely dating around was same as today's net relation and soon it will become normal exercise in society. So don't worry about how you began. but sure you should consider little longer time to meet him to check his interest keep rising or dimming without having some fun, not in a rush.\n\nSecound: to find out about him - at least try to know and meet his family, friends that he associate with soon you can in a usual manner, before get attached deeply, - well, rest you will know as time pass by. there is no masic pill to be confirmed about any one instantly - so be slow, have control on self,concentrate to figure out he is honest minded or not, and ofcourse, be careful in the beginning. people get hurt / been cheatted - no matter from where they find partner if dive into "Cool" just as swimming pool. Another thing i believe: who ever begin with too charm/ impression - often appears as bitter in later part.\n\nFinally: Just let you know that i found my girl friend through net two and half year ago - we have wonderful relationship that we both proud of, and very happy. this year we are going to marry. personaly i appreciate myself that i never allowed myself to  any cosmetics bundles or showing around * thing * ; feel lucky to get a real lovely girl. you are welcome to look at my yahoo profile " ravinecord " ( although i blur the picture a bit).\n\nSo be confident and in the beginning sure be careful.\n__ best of luck.