the guy that I like is mean 2 one of my friends he calls her fat a** and other stuff but I know he likes me and i sort of like him 2 but im scard to lose a friend and im scard to lose a possible boy friend i dont know waht to do HELP??????????
130804
who care what people say, if you love him don't let that the people don't let you be happy.
227434
Talk to him, darnit.  Just ask him what's up.  Don't tell him you like him at first.  Get to know him.  Then when the time is right, he'll ask or you'll ask.\nAs for your friend....you may loose her as a friend.  And if you do, so what, jealousy is not a friend.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
485341
okay, there is this guy who likes me, but he makes fun of me calls me bad things, and tells his friends he likes me. I think he doesn't know how to tell you but, HE  HAS A CRUSH!!!
66945
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
59682
First off..if you think your friend likes him too, talk to your friend before makeing any contact with this guy.If you guys are really good friends don't ruin a friendship over a guy.\nSecondly..after you talk with your friend and you guys make an agreement of some kind, then try talking to the guy. Sounds to me he likes you.But you will never know until you talk to him. Maybe he is just a little shy :) Good luck and think before you act.
648379
He likes you.  Obviously not your friend (no offence to her)  even if you dont go out with him, hes not going to go out with your friend.  He likes you for a reason.  So, you like him, he likes you.  And I'm sure your friend will find another guy.  I mean, if she gets sad about it, thats her problem .  Not tryingto be mean, but she cant force thi guy to go out with her.  You don't have to force anything, so I say go for it while your still young!!
278319
dont start avoiding him suddenly.he will be damn hurt. i hve dis drastic experience yaar.slow down  and eventually end it up widout him knoing it.try 2 set up sme magic of friendship between dose 2 and he shall eventuallt 4get u.but b sure dat he has a crush on u via sme frnd or u will end up a gr8 frndship in misunderstanding.DAT HURTZ i kno\n\nbut ill pity u r friend
184161
Let him know your interested if you haven't, so he knows his options.  Don't try to be better then this girl. You are who you are, if he likes you for you, then great. If he likes the other girl, thats something you can't help.  But if he doesn't like you, he's not the right guy, move on cuz theres so many guys out there. he's not the only one.
507535
Just deal with it as it comes, they won't all ask you out at the same time unless they are all in the same barbershop quartet though.  The annoying guy will be the easiest, just say you would never date someone who was mean to your friends.  The friend guy you have to be honest with, give him the only as a friend bit.  The two you have crushes on you should let them know that you like them but aren't sure what to do, ask to get to know them better.
394833
Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
214144
Why doesn't his friend like you?\nI think you should talk to boy's friend, he might be worried that you are going to "steal" his friend away. Reassure him that you won't.
320844
OK, this is for if you are sure he likes you: go out with some friends somewhere and start flirting with another guy. If you feel like you could actually pursue this guy and have something with him, then you don't really like your friend. But, if you are only thinking of your friend when you are with the other guy, then you really do like him. I'd say if this has been going on so long, you DO like him, but are afraid of ruining what you already have. I say go for it, cuz it's better than looking back later when it's too late and wondering what you could have had. Hope this helps!
350336
Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
424878
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
546692
Any guy that cusses at you isnt worth your time. On the other hand, if you still like the fellow you cannot make him tell you that he likes you, but you can tell him that you like him. However, in doing so you run a risk of him swearing at you which brings me back to the original point that i first stated. In the end however, balls in your court. good luck. :)
512053
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..