I started to like this girl in my English class a couple of months ago. I think she's interested in me too but I never told her how I felt but now I think it's time for me to make some moves beyond just friendship. I'm just wondering about how to start physical contacts with her in a casual way AT SCHOOL that doesn't seem too obvious. I also don't want her to think that I'm a jerk or anything. I'm not talking about hugging and kissing here, just some small contacts like how to start holding hands or just even to touch her. Which part of her body should I touch? Any help is greatly appreciated! Thanks! Best answer guaranteed!
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When your talking just place your hand on her shoulder .If she ask about it say does it  bother you ? If not ... If yes or if she said no but why are you touching me . There's your chance , I just wanted to have your total attention ,to ask you something (later if a lot of people around ) Or ask then Can I call you after school ? Or would you like to go somewhere this weekend ? Be careful not to touch waist or behind , most girls don't want their hair touch is school (might mess it up ). She'll notice a soft touch on the shoulder , Hold the shoulder until you have the attention ! Do NOT GRAB !
49711
... yeah, good one. How romantic (sarcasm)\nTalk to her nicely with a tender tone. Gently touch her arm or back. Hold eye contact.
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If you have been friends then keep the date on that level.... ask her to a movie and milk shake or something along those lines..... ease into the transition of being friends to the next step... the casual time will give her and you the time to see if it is even possibles to go from the friendship thing to the boy/girl friend thing...... with NO pressure ........ just to see if it will work out........ God bless
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Just a person to hang out with\n\nI'm what...s h i t...14...right....*wow*, and my ex's aren't people who were extremely gorgeous (but my current one is and she's great to talk to...HI KENDRA!!!) , they were people who I felt I connected with...someone who wasn't afraid to talk about a topic, get into a fight about it...make it into a comedic argument and then just be next to each other. \n\nLove isn't just a thing between a man and a woman that just involves sex..or sexual appeal..it should mean something...\n\nLife means nothing without happiness...if you really want to be with him and you think that he will treat you the way you want to..and vise-versa, then just go up to him and go for it...the way I did was kinda dramatic...\nIt was the end of school year...last day...every one was leaving I walked up to her and kissed her...she knew I liked her...but she didn't think I had the balls to even talk to her after she found out...but I proved her wrong...the slapped me, kneed me in the balls and ran out of the building...BUT...I probably deserved that...\n\nHope this helped to some extent...\n\nGood Luck and I hope you make the Right Desision
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i have to agree with the first answer. however, if you dont feel like you can do that, maybe you could just say it in a joking way and see how she reacts. or if you are hanging out and watching a movie just put your arm around her or hold her hand and see how she reacts. this will give you an idea of how she feels. if you are as good of friends as it sounds, it should be ok to just talk about it with her. be upfront. girls like that.
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Eye contact is a must !!!!! Once you have made contact smile like you really mean it and if you are able to star a conversation, a light touch on the arm. Still smile often but non of the silly girly giggles it always sounds so fake. I am 44 years of age not to hard to look at, and a friendly smile always works for me  Good luck
52106
Just start small, say hi in passing, and then eventually maybe you will be comfortable enough to actually start a convesation with her. Just relax and be yourself, its the best advice I can give you.
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yo welcome to my world. Forget bout shyness. heres what to do. say hi to her everyday like really loud and smile at her after. wave at her when u c her in the hallway. Make fun of someone else to make her laugh. then make fun of the teacher. look at her always when u have class. dont make it look like ur staring though. Since shes letting u make the move, get one of ur freinds to say something like u 2 should go out together. then u should say may b we should. then say something u wanna see a movie friday. see if she says yes or no.. Good luck bro. pe@ce
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take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
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i think i answered this question for your friend on her own question but anyway...\nif she really likes him, and she thinks he will accept her, then just casually start to talk to him during class or soemthing. be a friend first, then start to hang out with him more and more, then just brake it to him, and say how much you like him . hope i helped
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Ok, then give her some time to warm up to u, for now, just wave to her in the halls, and say hi. When she feels more comfortable, then go ahead and start talking. \n\nGood luck.
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The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
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You are so shy!  Just give her a kiss on the cheek the next time you see her - in front of everyone.  If you still feel uncomfortable then do it when you say "goodbye".  Obviously you two DO have feelings for each other, though it may not be clear yet what they are.  That's OK and a kiss can't hurt.
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its an invitation to approach. she's making the first move, step up and make your move. the fact that you can read body language puts you ahead of the game, but its nothing if you cant follow up and act on it.\n\ngo up to her and start a conversation. ask her how she's going or something relevant to the situation. invite her to get some ice-cream or something, then invite her to some event youe going to later in the week, get her phone number and compliment her on being outgoing/adventurous or whatever seems appropiate for accepting the invitation. be fun, have a sense of humor, eye contact and occassional compliment, and youre in
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Does she know you exist?  Any eye contact?  How do you react when you do have eye contact.  It doesn't hurt to just say hi and introduce yourself and get to know her a little bit.  Maybe start with a questions about some topic that was discussed in class.  Maybe sit close to her one day and asked if she has a extra pen or pencil you can borrow (even though you have a pen or pencil in your backpack).
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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Yep, it did to me when I was in High School.  I found out the hard way... just say hi for a couple time for two days.  Stage two, introduce yourself and wait for her reaction.  So, from than on be yourself like with other friends.  Good luck!