well this is the thing my ex and i was together for 2 years and he left me 3 months ago. i let a guy kiss me and i told my ex he stood by me but  nine months lata he remember and didn't want nothing to do with me but just be friends so i decided okay he told me he still love me and cared for me  and i love him so much for that i didn't do it on purpose so. . we been talking for a week staright no problems at all just friends then yesterday he act up after an hour talking one the phone together he said he didn't love me nomore and that he lied but i know my ex when he is madd he talk nonsense. so he told me not to call him for a while , now today he ask on me on the internet that if i called and i told him no .well i was talking to my freinds on line then b4 he left he type muahzzzzzzzzz why supposely if he don't give to fu** about me then why he goes and flirt with me and ask me last time to go to his house but i din't go . why did he type to muahhzzzzzzzz then sign out he is imature
129809
First off, you should have never been a S--T! What do you expect the guy to do? Once you cheat on somebody they will never forget and it will always come up in the future. For him to talk to you, he must still feel a little bit of something for you but probably not much until you fix you problem. He probably wants you to come over to get free buns because he probably lost respect for you that he had before you cheated(no matter what the act was)! The only way that you can possibly get over this is if you both sit down and you tell him EVERYTHING! I don't care if you had sex with that person but you have to tell him everything and then you sit back and let him dicide if he wants anything to do with you. Then if he decides that you get another chance, don't think its going to be easy after that. If you get back together, its just the begining of a HARD road! Becase he will never trust/respect you again and he will always be on your case but hey, don't bame him, after all he wasen't the one that cheated on you. So, you eaither go the other way or try to get back with him but it will never be the same EVER! But if you don't care about the hard road ahead, then good luck and good streinght to you because you are going to need it! Good luck and don't screw up again, trust me!
162331
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
661081
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
399742
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
47635
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
519073
Well I hope you don't let him fool you a third time.  My first love did this to me. Guys can be very tricky. He befriended me for a year before I decided to have sex with him. He was my best Friend.  After we had sex he dumped me.  Guys like the game especially as teenagers, so becareful.  I grieved the relationship for quite some time.  I got together with my girlfriends who let me cry. I concentrated on my work and having fun.  With time my heart healed and so will yours. Just be patient with yourself and don't keep in touch  with him. He is not a real friend.
150309
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
384192
If you've just come out of a 6-year relationship he's probably a bit cautious, if he knew your ex (even if they weren't friends) then he's probably even more cautious, men don't like to get hurt! Suggest meeting up somewhere out of town and do something original or something where you can spend some time together doing something that'll make you both remember how much fun you had and he'll be begging for more!?\nOne word of warning, if he was chasing you while you were with your ex and it carries on like this for a while from now then maybe he just wanted the challenge? I doubt it but never rule the possibility out.\nGood luck!
429866
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
368174
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
300192
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
26414
Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
671269
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
603331
No it's not weird, it's him trying to be honest for a change, see most likely he still have some lingering feelings for you and, know that the break-up is still a little fresh, you know how they say, "It's like putting salt in a wound".\nYou to are not ready for a true friendship at this moment, at least not to were you two should be in a place that is not public, He is on his way to the service as well, so he is going through quite some emotion and need to talk to someone he feels is  able to understand him some what, and who could that be if not an ex-girlfriend.\nUnless the two of you are going out for coffee or to a group function maybe the phone is the safest place for you all to talk, because you don't want to get in a situation that will confuse your feelings for one another, like in up in bed and regret it the next day or end up trying to be b/f & g/f again for the wrong reasons.\nI hope this helps some, he is not trying to hurt you but trying to fix it so you to will be able to be real friends one day.
102273
He still cares about you but something went wrong in your guy's relationship that's still hurting him. Just talk to him about why the relationship ended and how you two feel about each other. It just sounds to me like you have some issues on why you two broke up but you've never talked about them and got the closure you both need to move on. I know. My ex is doing the same thing right now.
494947
i give u a thumbs up. i dont usually get along wiht ex lovers as i get dumped for no reason, but there is one that i get along with. his name is brian.we were going out 9 months, i was 16 and he was 19 and we both thought it was love (as u do at 16) we broke up cuz we lived in different town and i couldnt see him every wknd like i used to cuz of work and i was living at home and my mam would not let him come up to me. weve been friends for years now. occasionally we have the odd moment of passion and he swears he still loves me and says that im deadly but also says if he cant have me as a girlfriend he does not want to loose me as a friend either. we live in different town so i dont get to see him as much now, but when i do we have a laugh. he also always stands up for me if someone even looks at me funny.so there u go, this is as long an awnser as i can make it.
330305
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.