I seem to attract cancer men of ages and I'm in love with a cancer...we seem to have the same values on life and i'm wondering would we be good together
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I'm Taurus too.  I got along best with Cancers and Geminis.  It may have been co-incidental.  There are people of any sign that you may also get along with, so do not limit yourself or have preconceived notions that may mess up a good thing.  Enjoy your relationship and do not blame or credit the sign for its outcome.  It's what you conciously invest in it that will make it work.
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don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
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you probably are, for your age. as you get older your definitions of love change. good luck.
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You need to talk to someone(physiologist, counseler, etc) be surprised now much they can help. I'm 25 and been fighting cancer for the last 3 years(secound time on chemo now), but I'm happier with my life more than I had been in years. Why? I realy changed the way I looked at the world and life. I spend my free time with my hobbys rather than bars, time with good friends and family not people that don't realy care for me, looked for love rather than sex and found it, etc, etc. Life isn't easy but you can find peace/enjoyment in this life if you live it right(not talking about not drinking, god, etc all that stuff). What's right is realy what you want in your heart and doing everything you can end up where you want to be. Well just rambling now, but hope you get what I'm saying, but realy go talk to someone atleast once.
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i know how you feel b/c i can never stay with the same person for a long time. the guys talk about what ever and dont care about me or what i think. if your were a nice guy who did care, i probably could get attached
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So, you are a Virgo and he is a Cancer. I can see how you'd be friends for a long time. Earth and Water are very complimentary. But, in a relationship things can be different -- for the water man. Here is what I think you need to be: sensitive. But! You've got to know that your cancer boy can be a "lil bitch' sometimes. No offense, but Cancer men to be super sensitive to the point of being bitchy. If you can just accept that then you should be alright. I mean, honestly, with a Cancer, I dont really think that talking is necessarily the solution. You need to try to feel this one out, and ride the waves you earthling. :) Trust your friendship and you should be alright in the relationship (if you two are both normal level headed peeps)
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Yes i've always been exactly the same.  I've really no interest in guys my own age, and i've always been like this even since when i was at school.  Don't really know why though but it's not a problem at all.  Plus as the saying goes, there's many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle.....  I'm 29 and seeing a guy of 51 who is the sexiest guy i've ever met in my life and is well fit (and looks about 35).  Good Luck!
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If your focus is on the physical, the advantaged, the successful in this life..you will always find someone who is esteemed him/her self higher than others. It is the heirarchy of mankind. A 15 year old girl/guy cannot make adult choices to determine if you are the right person for them. I know when I was 15 I had no idea what was good for me and what love was and commitment. Often times we mistake desire (outward appearance) to be love when it is not. If my husband were to become disabled and unable to desire me or be desired by me..I would indeed love him. That love is there even when desire is not present. We covet what others have because we think it will bring us "happiness" when in fact we are equipped at birth with all that we need, even those that are disabled. I see people all the time that have little or next to nothing, can be burdened with physical ailments, poverty and sickness and still they will find joy and are determined to do it, while others who are privaledged with looks, talent and riches..throw it all away in an empty hotel room with a needle stuck in their arm. Most people are never happy with what they have or who they are. Nothing is ever good enough. We are all given choices in this life and those choices either make us..or we make them. Usually both. If you choose to see only the "rotten", mean, unfair, unjust or out of balance but the truth is...there is much to be thankful for..beauty, thought, sound, food, music, ideas, art, nature...love..real love..all of this can be obtained to some degree by everyone. Look at the Diary of Anne Frank or the story of Job in the Bible. Its all about your eyes and your heart..what do you see and how do you define it? Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
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i am an oncology nurse and i see women like u all the time. Its not an uncommon disease. A lot of the women i treat end up beng friends with each other. We run support groups. try talking to your nurses
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If your just asking me to be me, I would say its Cancer, BUT comparing all of them as they are would make me commit a crime for the horoscopes!\n\nWhy?\n\nEach sign is wonderful and loving as they are created, which is reflected in the persons they represent. But the full loveliness of each can only be experienced at the right and compatible sign.\n\nCompatibility scores depends on the qualities of each sign.  Every sign has its own unique qualities, but needs complementation from the others as no one is created perfect. Each of us therefore needs someone to complete ourselves, which could be found from the other signs that carries those qualities.\n\nIf 2 signs are matched correctly, they they would experience love to the fullest.  But if they are mis-matched, then there may be some misunderstandings or discontentment from either of the partners.\n\nThe key is to understand the qualities of the person, and how they can work out together and complete the needs of each other.\n\nNow you might be wondering why i wrote cancer in the beginning: Cancer is naturally a loving creature, the most loving to be more precise.  It gives all it can to nurture and love the person of their interest.  But only if they are matched to their compatible sign which i have known to be Leo.  Leo needs someone to tame him down, while cancer which is naturally vulnerable needs someone to protect it.  This signifies a good combination and complementation of needs.  On the other hand, matching cancer that is home body and nurturing to a saggitarian which is outgoing and careless may create some chaos in the relationship.  But still, cancer and saggitarius are good business partners.\n\nI hope you got what I am trying to point out, and that you could eventually find you true match who will love you of all that you are!  Good Luck!
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Don't give up my dear! There is more than one fish in the sea and as long as we end up happy and treated with love from the people we are with, I believe that life would be satisfying.\nI also am over 40. I look for a lady by day and hot to trot by night. (some of that hottie stuff can be daytime too)  I realize that we are not 20 anymore and our bodies are older but show off your best assets to show your confidence. Don't go overboard. Be yourself. Take up fun activities to keep an interest. Just hang in there and keep trying because it is nice to have someone around to laugh and talk to, to share fun and intimate things with as you get older.\ngood luck in love and life.
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I have always gone with my heart, im divorced and have been for 5 years now.  I recently met a man on yahoo and I never expected it to become so serious.  He wont let me get out of the car without him openning the door.  He takes off my coat and puts it on, he goes clothes shopping with me and helps me choose what I look good in and enjoys it.  He is a true gentlemen and very old fashioned in which I am too.  Yes, I feeel in Love with him and he cant beleive he found the woman of his dreams he has been looking for all his life and that is me.  Now he is a little confused, he cares for me is very patient with me and ive been sick with a bulgeing protrudeing torn degenerated disc and right wrist drop a nerve condtion in my right hand and arm in which it will take 8 weeks till I get the feeling back to use it.  I am now on disability from work.  He lives 1 1/2 hour from me and we spend every weekend he picks me up and we go to his place.  He says hes falling in love with me and I myself feel it but patience is a virtue I will wait for this man because I know he is the one I want in my fututre.  You have to go with your heart make decisions on your own even though you might be unsure I trust my heart you have to learn to trust yours.  I have been in your situation I understand you completely and would love to be your friend and help you through this I am giving you my screen name on yahoo laura_kerner011261 and you may im me if im on or leave me a message my e-mail is littlee8@comcast.net.  I dont know if your suppose to give this info out but I think by talking to you I may be able to help you get though these obsticles in your life.  I want to be your friend I am a 45 yr old female who has lost both her parents to cancer and am loseing my 48 yr old sister to cancer and have been sick alot in my life, but god is testing me maybe to make me a stronger person, I Love myself for who I am, you have to love yourself before you can love others please get in touch with me I know I can hel youiu through this if youiu want to I am a very honest down to earth person and see a physciatrist for panic disorder since i developed it when my child was born 17 years ago .I myself again want to be your friend again im me on yahoo and you will find out your not alone YOU HAVE A FRIEND and that friend is me and I want to be there for you and help you try and find answers to your questions.  I do have voice chat with a mic its easier for me sice i am paralyzed right now in my right hand from the nerve going up my arm.  Again I ask you please to e-mail me with your screeen name from yahoo and e-mail address you can add me and ill add you to discuss this I WANT TO HELP YOU< YOU HAVE A FRIEND and I want to be there for you, you seem like a very special person and i know i am a strong women I know I can help you get through this.  Thank you for reading this  Laura
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yes it is definitely possible to love more than one person at the same time.  its b'cos all of them could be really decent and good to u, in their own kind of special way.  it means that u r good, that u found the good characteristics in others.  u dont have to feel guilty about it.  just that u have a choice, whereas many are too critical and selective and filter all the people.  they finally dont seem to have a choice in their life.  they like only one guy and end up marrying him.\n\nbut in your case, of course u should GO IN FOR THE MAN WHO IS HEALTHY, b'cos of course there is no point in marrying the one with the terminal illness.  u could be a good friend of his, and give him all the moral support that he deserves.  BE PRACTICAL , MY FRIEND, the healthy man is who can be your life partner and not one who is counting his days, or months.  u better make your choice fast and let them know it too.  being a little bit selfish here will do u a lot of good in the long term, and in the actual sense, it is not being selfish at all.  it is your life and u have every right to look for a long term relationship in marriage.  go ahead and marry the healthy man and be happy for the rest of your life and dont feel guilty about it.  this is my sincere advise my dear friend.  good luck and God bless.  do let us know of your decision fast. bye.
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34, and if I were still single I would.  Appearance is fleeting, and if you're in love they will always be beautiful.  :)
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i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
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you both share some thing in common thats why you have attracted each other but one should remember lust and desire.One cannot help who they fall for because it depends on the frequency you are vibrating on because we attract the people we are on the same frequency with so we can teach each other and hopfully comfort each other.
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Cancer & Aquarius \n\nWhen Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting. Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, Aquarius, an offbeat, unconventional approach. While Cancer often retreats into its shell, Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the extrovert, the organizer and party animal. They love to find themselves amongst friends; social settings are simply their thing! If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together. \n\nBoth Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, and neither likes to conflict. Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which Cancer sometimes finds comfort. Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional Crab could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though Aquarius won't appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it!\n\nThe Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) and Uranus (Rebellion) rules Aquarius. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional and concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which become central themes in many Cancer's lives. Saturn deals with hard work and the discipline required for achievement, while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. This combination makes sense for an Aquarian, as they are futurists unafraid of getting their hands dirtied by labor. Cancer mates can teach social, intellectual Aquarius lovers the value of emotional impulses, and their feminine influence will bring beauty and comfort into the home. While Cancer teaches the valuable lesson of an open heart, Aquarius can come right back with the usefulness of a detached heart. Aquarians are blessed to be able to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to reevaluate goals if they get off-course. Not necessarily cold, Aquarius could still benefit from Cancer's warm, feminine Moon-based influence. \n\nCancer is a Water Sign, and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius sees life as an intellectual exercise, a constant exploration and expansion of the mind. Cancer's more pragmatic. Cancer stops to ask, 'how does this feel?' while Aquarians keep asking 'what else is there?' It may be tough for one to get where the other is coming from, and conflicts can arise if Aquarius gets a little too cool or Cancer too emotionally demanding. They may end up working at cross-purposes: Cancer asks for more and more, Aquarius may pull further and further away. By accepting that their worldviews are dissimilar, Cancer and Aquarius can move on and celebrate their diversity, learn to say 'vive la difference' rather than feeling threatened by it. \n\nCancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Both persevere when working toward goals. If they have a set path, they'll follow it to the end. With this sort of shared perseverance -- and if they both place a high value on their relationship -- this couple will never be dissuaded from that knowledge and will constantly think of one another. If they run into snags, Aquarius will discover that Cancers, though they may seem shy and retire into their shells, can actually be very tenacious and dogmatic, not above using emotional manipulation on their loved ones. Also, Aquarius could be bothered by Cancer's over-emotionality. If they agree to work toward a common goal, these two can get along. \n\nWhat's the best thing about the Cancer-Aquarius love match? When they decide to come together, they are an in