He is a single father trying to rise his daughter. He had prior suspensed license in Wisconsin which  he cleared in 1999. He was driving to a job that he had to have to put food on his table. Now Florida is hitting him again.  Please we need help.  He is helping me with my disabled husband/his father and because we live on the beach (our address) Legal Aid will not help him.  My husband who is only 53 had a severe reaction to Zocor so he is now 100% disaabled and requires extensive assistance. So now can not help him.  What are our options?  I am an RN of 30+ years who has worked 15+ years in long term care as a consultant, case mamager and Director of Nursing.  I have assisted many corporations in correcting and assisting in legal battles for mal-practice cases. ( I know how and where they mask information)  I will be willing to barter my services if you could help my son.
123453
Try floridalegal.org/ProBono/fpbca\n\ngood luck
669311
GOD bless you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My Mother is in one also...2 years to the date.  I know how you feel.....here is what i would do...\n-adress your concerns to the home administrator\n-do it via e-mail, so you have evidence of their responses to you\n-contact the following\nIf You Need Help\n\nAdult Protective Services\n\nAdult Protective Services (APS) is the principal public agency responsible both for investigating reported cases of elder and vulnerable adult abuse and for providing victims with treatment and protective services. \n\nAlthough most APS agencies also handle adult abuse cases (serving clients between 18 and 59 years of age), nearly 70 percent of their caseloads involve elder abuse. \n\nUsually, the APS Unit, Area Agency on Aging, or County Department of Social Services is designated as the agency to receive and investigate allegations of elder abuse and neglect. If the investigators find abuse or neglect, they arrange for services to help protect the victim. \n\nMany other agencies (and nonprofit organizations) are also actively working to protect vulnerable elders. Examples: \n\n\nState agency on aging \n\nLaw enforcement agency (local police, sheriff's office, district attorney, the court system)\n\nMedical examiner/coroner's office \n\nHospitals and medical clinics\n\nState long-term care ombudsman's office\n\nPublic health agency\n\nArea agency on aging\n\nMental health agency\n\nFacility licensing/certification agency\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nLearn More . . .\n\n\nAdult Protective Services\n\nAPS Ethical Principles and Guidelines \n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nLaw Enforcement\n\nLocal police, sheriffs, and prosecuting attorneys may investigate and prosecute abuse, particularly in cases involving sexual abuse or assault. In states whose statutes make elder abuse a crime, there may be a requirement to report suspected abuse to a law enforcement agency.\n\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nLong Term Care (LTC) Ombudsman Services\n\nState LTC ombudsman programs investigate and resolve nursing home complaints, and in some areas, complaints about board and care facilities and professional home care providers. If you are concerned about abuses, check with your State Unit on Aging or Area Agency on Aging to see if the LTC ombudsman program in your area can help.\n\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nInformation and Referral (I & R)\n\nEvery Area Agency on Aging operates an I & R line that can refer people to a wide range of services for people 60 and older. Trained information operators and can be particularly helpful in finding services that can help prevent abuse and neglect.\n\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------\n\nNational and State Information\n\nFamily members who live in different cities or states can call a nationwide toll-free Eldercare Locator number (1-800-677-1116) to find support and resources that can help. On the web at www.eldercare.gov. In addition, some states have established a statewide toll-free number to provide centralized aging services information for residents of their states.\n\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!
402592
to the last guy no she doesn't need writing skills she had a limit and had to fit everything in so she cut back letters. anyway not sure where you live that would be a big help. you can go outside of your county for an attorney. i would never buy anything off of the street. too late for that now though. obviously the antique riffle wasn't for illegal use and the bottles were obviously prescribed. a good attorney outside of the crooked circle should be able to get him off. as far as not being allowed food or a call. that's against his rights and is a possible law suit.
108752
Knowing how and why the child's father took her might be helpful.  Was it with your permission, or did he basically kidnap her from school one day?\n\nI don't get your analogy about John murdering Jane.  In your situation, you are the ONLY person who knows who this child's father it, and you've told the police it's him.  Why would you think they would doubt you, and treat this any differently?  \n\nI don't understand the question about discrimination because you haven't mentioned anything that would qualify in my mind as discriminatory.\n\nHaving said all that, let's talk about what you might be able to do:\n\n1.  Does your state have laws regarding child concealment?  California has several laws on the subject and if there are any similar laws where you are, they might be useful.\n\n2.  Going to family court is an excellent suggestion that I think was made by someone else.  An excellent idea. \n\n3.  Post some more details.  I'd be interested to know if there is any kind of general assistance involved here (what people used to call "welfare").  Is the father alleging some kind of bad parenting on your part?  Are you alleging any on his part?  Do you know where the child actually is?\n\nBut really...unless there is some kind of urgency you didn't talk about here, family law court is probably the best avenue you have at this point.
552073
Same thing in Canada.  If the payor is on public assistance like welfare, it cannot be garnisheed for a support order.  The client only gets enough to meet basic necessities and welfare cannot use public money to pay off the persons debts (which is what a support order is).  It's just not allowed under legislation.  \n\nThe authorities, regarding the work issue, will have their hands tied.  Although you think he can still work, and maybe he can, the legislation, like up here, is probably written to the effect that if a medical doctor says he can't, they can't make him look for work. \n\nFrustrating I know.  All the best of luck!  It ain't easy being a single mom.  I know.
3821
Get your facts and information straight and well- organized- include names and dates whenever possible.\n\nPresent the information to the nearest TV station with an investigative or consumer help program. Even if they don't give it air time, they can still offer advice.\n\nLook in the community services section of your phone book- contact...\n- free legal aid\n- handicapped services\n- elderly services\n- United Way First Call For Help\n- Habitat for Humanity\n- anyone else that looks good\n- low-income housing programs\n\nIf either is a regular in a church, social or fraternal organization, or even a bar, let them know about the problems and see if they can help somehow.\n\nHOWEVER... let's be realistic here and face a couple uncomfortable points. \n- Low income. With that income it is unlikely that anyone will loan them any money.\n- It sounds like they were living 'off the grid' to some extent (wind/solar, apparently no insurance, etc.) This always makes it harder to get help when it becomes necessary.\n- Living in their own home may not be the best option for two disabled older people. For example, I don't think they would be at the front of the list for a donated home.\n- The father's age alone will work against him in getting some forms of help. Few programs will provide lots of money for rebuilding a house that he might not be able to stay in for a very long time.\n\nAsk for the dream, but be realistic and thoughtfully consider the options and any offers for help.\n\nGood luck!
262801
You don't specify his age, but it sounds like he isn't terribly young, having beent o so many counsellors & psychologists ... Have you ever had him tested for brain damage?  There are a number of causes, and the effects are often not obvious.  I suggest that you thoroughly check out this Web site ... There are oodles of articles, & explanations, & lots of encouragement there:\n\nhttp://come-over.to/FASCRC/\nFAS Community Resource Center - Main Index\n\nThese are more specific for older children: http://come-over.to/FASCRC/#behavior\nHow Alcohol Exposure Affects Behavior - Sub Index\n\nFrom what I understand, Alcohol is a major  -- but not the only -- contributor/causer of brain damage.  It is very hard to find a doctor who understands the problem, and recognizes it.  But there are tried & true methods for handling them.  No two individuals are the same.  One may be gifted in an area where another is totally disabled.  Please -- check it out.  Such people need specialized 'programs' to help them deal with life.  You sound like you'd welcome the guidance.\nYou are to be commended for trying to get him help, instead of 'burying your head under the covers'!\n\nPS:   You may also want to check out:\n\nhttp://thedoctorwithin.com/index_fr.php?page=articles/charlie.php\nPediatricians, Brain Fats, Formula, and Raw Milk: the Jig Is Up\n\nhttp://thedoctorwithin.com/index_fr.php?page=articles/autism_mercury.php\nAutism & Mercury -- The San Diego Conference\nhttp://thedoctorwithin.com/index_fr.php?page=articles/autism_vaccines.php\nAutism & Vaccines - by Tim O'Shea\nhttp://thedoctorwithin.com/index_fr.php?page=articles/autismin2003.php\nAutism -- Vaccine Injury or Just Genetics? -- Tim O'Shea
643079
I would suggest getting an attorney or getting in contact with the state AMA or State Board of Medical Quality Assurance. This doctor seems like he needs to be put in place.
272746
He obvioulsy did not do hard time for his accident.  I don't know what state you live in but in Texas, we take that very serious and doing some prison time for his DWI would change his mind.  Unfortunatley, his age has a lot to do with it and he thinks it just won't happen to him again.  If your son escaped probation and/or incarceration time, believe me its coming if his behavior has not changed.  If he is on probation and your are helping him with paying his fines, court costs, etc. stop. Let him deal with this on his own.  Let him be responsible for his mistake. ITs going to take jail/prison time for your son to realize what he is doing.  Then once he sees the punishment then will rehabilitation work for him. Basicly, like was said before, he has to hit rock bottom and hopefully that happens without him killing himself or another innocent person.  Having him visit the trauma unit a local hospital on a weekend is something that you may consider. A Victim Impact Panel offered by MADD or any other advocate agency in your area is also a good idea.  Find someone that is very ill with psorosis of the liver due to alcohol use, and let them explain to your son what excessive alcohol use does to your whole body, not just your liver.  Im an adult probation officer and I see this situation everyday. Both ends of the spectrum.  The young kid who says "not me" and the older individual whos body is breaking down that says, "I should have listened". Hope this helps.
466696
Call CPS (child welfare) anonymously and ask them what would be best.  \n\nYou can ask to be emancipated.  Your brother can apply to be your guardian.   You can report your father to the police or call child welfare and then ask to be placed with your brother. \n\n\nHere's info on emancipation.  I also have links below for guardianship and free legal help.\n\nGood luck.  Remember, don't let the bad influences around you drag you down.  Put yourself first and strive for your best.\n\nQuoting Florida Statutes, Section 743.015 - Disabilities of nonage; removal.\n(1) A circuit court has jurisdiction to remove the disabilities of nonage of a minor age 16 or older residing in this state upon a petition filed by the minor's natural or legal guardian or, if there is none, by a guardian ad litem.\n\n(2) The petition shall contain the following information:\n\n(a) The name, address, residence, and date of birth of the minor.\n\n(b) The name, address, and current location of each of the minor's parents, if known.\n\n(c) The name, date of birth, custody, and location of any children born to the minor.\n\n(d) A statement of the minor's character, habits, education, income, and mental capacity for business, and an explanation of how the needs of the minor with respect to food, shelter, clothing, medical care, and other necessities will be met.\n\n(e) Whether the minor is a party to or the subject of a pending judicial proceeding in this state or any other jurisdiction, or the subject of a judicial order of any description issued in connection with such pending judicial proceeding.\n\n(f) A statement of the reason why the court should remove the disabilities of nonage.\n\n(3) If the petition is filed by the natural or legal guardian, the court must appoint an attorney ad litem for the minor child, and the minor child shall be brought before the court to determine if the interest of the minor will be fully protected by the removal of disabilities of nonage. The attorney ad litem shall represent the child in all related proceedings.\n\n(4) If the petition is filed by the guardian ad litem or next friend, service of process must be perfected on the natural parents.\n\n(5) If both parents are not jointly petitioning the court for the removal of the disabilities of nonage of the minor, service of process must be made upon the nonpetitioning parent. Constructive service of process may be used, provided the petitioning parent makes an actual, diligent search to discover the location of, and provide notice to, the nonpetitioning parent.\n\n(6) The court shall consider the petition and receive such evidence as it deems necessary to rule on the petition. If the court determines that removal of the disabilities of nonage is in the minor's best interest, it shall enter an order to that effect. An order removing the disabilities of nonage shall have the effect of giving the minor the status of an adult for purposes of all criminal and civil laws of the state, and shall authorize the minor thereafter to exercise all of the rights and responsibilities of persons who are 18 years of age or older.\n\n(7) The court shall consider the petition and, if satisfied that the removal of the disabilities is in the minor's best interest, shall remove the disabilities of nonage; and shall authorize the minor to perform all acts that the minor could do if he or she were 18 years of age.\n\n(8) The judgment shall be recorded in the county in which the minor resides, and a certified copy shall be received as evidence of the removal of disabilities of nonage for all matters in all courts.
240745
Please try to work it out first before you do anything drastic. I would try to find inexpensive or free counseling through the state. Look online and search for your state and family counseling, or ask your family doctor if they know who to call. Or, contact the Family Services dept. in your city or town to find free counseling services. Your next best step is to get a good lawyer. There are some out there that do pro bono (for free) work. \n\nGet your ducks in a row. Make sure you are in good standing with every institution, family member, and friend in your life and workplace. Gather any documentation of your financial ability to care for the kids, and any evidence that your wife is less capable. Keep a record of dates and times when incidents occur where your wife does anything reckless or irresponsible. Document all of the school activities and other kid-related stuff you've been involved in. A lawyer will help you do this the right way.\n\nHere are a couple of helpful links:\n\n\nhttp://www.scfn.org/\nhttp://fatherhood.about.com/od/singledadsresources/\n\nIf the 10 year old is yours and not hers, you can leave with him. If he is both of yours, leaving with him is okay in some areas as long as you remain in the state. But I recommend you discuss this with a law professional (officer or lawyer) before doing anything.\n\nI hope you're doing this for the right reasons. Good luck!
25344
I Know What you mean my dad had a stroke 5yrs. ago and since then I've kinda become his personal assistant. There are a few companies that provide personal nursing care but these are usally expensive. There are also some assisted living places that help people when they need it but allow them freedom the wouldn't have in a nursing home. I know both these options are expensive. However, other than these all I really can suggest is for a family member to stay with him. I know I help my dad with a lot of things he used to do everyday I make sure he remembers to take meds and help him go to bed. Its a difficult job, and I'm still going to school, but if you or one of your family members wants to help him sometimes this is better than letting a stranger.
367287
he needs to ask for an amendment. he needs to show that his daughter is now living with him and then they may make the mother pay support.
410065
My heart goes out to you and your family. I've been married to the same wonderful man for thirty-one years. Twice prior to my knowing him he tried to kill himself. Since we have been together he has made 4 more attempts on his life. I don't know where you are from but most places have mental health assocations. They can help you to understand medications, patiants rights. For my husband I am his health care rep. when he can't speak-up for himself I have the legal right to do this . I got him to give me power of attorney so I can deal with his disabilty money and all the red tape that goes along with it. Your Mom's illness if she does have Bi-polar suicide is attempts can be a part of her illness. It is a long hard road and you need to seek help yourself so you can stay healthy enough to be an assistance in getting her the help she needs. There are support groups for families going thru what we both are. When my husband gets what I call imbalanced with his medicine it takes me giving him his meds. because he gets confused about days and times to take them. As we both turn 50 this year it seems like second nature to us to deal with his illness. His last attempt to take his life was last November. He was missing for 2days before he was found in a coma in our truck at a reststop we use to stop at a lot. It was very sad, I still am seeing a counslor myself to deal with learning who I am outside of his illness. Be careful not to become so involed you stop living like I have at times
334018
Wow! That is a tough situation and I have been through it myself with 3 children. I have to tell you that it is extremely hard but I got through it. I recently remarried after being divorced for 7 yrs. Do you have friends or family to depend on? I had very little support. How old is your child? Will he/she need daycare while you work or go to school? There are lots of programs with community colleges for single moms. Contact the Attorney General in your state and immediately get child support. Go to your local DHS and apply for low income housing if needed and any other services you qualify for....even day care for low income while you work or go to school. Go to community colleges and ask what programs they have for single moms with low income...some have daycare on site. Libraries have free classes for office/computer skills. Research different careers you would be happy with. Most of all, take good care of yourself by eating right,sleeping enough and having some me time because you can't be a good parent if you don't take care of yourself.You could also get a single mom room mate and split the bills and child care. Hope this helps you!
61695
This sounds like a terrible story, but is there a question in it somewhere?\n\nEDIT: Okay, let's try to figure out what the question is.  Are you trying to figure out how you can get your daughter back from your ex-husband?  If that's it, you really ought to talk to a lawyer...maybe you can find a decent one through the Bar Association that will do some pro bono work.  If you just aren't interested in working with lawyers, and you really want to involve this group in something as personal as this, you're going to have to post more details...and more *relevant* details (stick to the facts, ma'am).\n\nIf you want better answers, ask better questions and include more of the important details.  Things people might want to know are these:\n\nAre there any court orders right now?\n\nWhat state do you live in?\n\nWhy did your ex take your child, or at least why do you think he did or what did he tell you?\n\nHave there been any allegations of improper parenting on either side?  Any mental health issues on either side?  Drug use?  \n\nIf I'm guessing correctly at what you want to know, I just don't think you're going to be able to get the answers you need in this forum.
123992
You definitely need to contact somebody... Try starting with your local DVACK shelter... DVACK is for domestic violence... Tell them that you are scared for yourself and your child and get a protection from abuse order, he won't beable to come near you or the baby, and you can get your court proceedings started from there. you definitely need to talk to your local SRS office and tell them you want to start the custody to make sure you have residential custody, because if you don't, he has every right to that child just like you do.  He will beable to take her and there is nothing you can do to get that child back until you go through court and ask for visitation. That can take months to do, if he gets the child before you start the proceedings,and no child should go months let alone days without seeing their mother. If you hurry and do that, if he does take the baby, they could then issue an Amber Alert and put his butt in jail! Good luck, but act FAST, seriously!!!!!!!