I have no problems with getting an erection but I have trouble getting to the "money stroke" during regular sexual intercourse. My gf usually has to finish me off with executive hand relief. I'm worried that my penis has become desensitised. What can I do?
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You may be experiencing Retarded Ejaculation--Ejaculatory Overcontrol . If you have been to a doctor and you are phisicaly ok , you may for some reson just holding back when you should reach ejaculation . Stress trust or medication can be factors . Please check the med web sites for more info . Good luck .
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If the doctors say that it's psychological, then my advice to you would be to see a therapist.  A therapist will take you seriously and will help you figure out what it is that's causing you to not get an erection. Since it's not physical, the solution is within yourself. Just be honest with the therapist and they will be able to help you. Good luck!
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Guys get pissed off because it gets sore! If you walk allot, run, cycle climb or most any activity the exposed head gets damn sore! Doctors don't see a problem with this because they work in an office and their idea of exercise is to ride a golf cart for 18 holes. Try a job where you walk for 10 hrs (I have logged 14,000 steps on a pedometer) or bounce in a tractor across a rough field for 16 hours a day for weeks, it gets damn sore!\n\nAnd then to try to make love to my wife. I couldn't feel that I even had penetration. \n\nThe problem with the restoration surgery is that while you can get the glans (head of the penis) covered and protected from friction, and injury, and regain some sensitivity, it never will be a real foreskin. Do I want more skin on my penis with limited nerve function? I have enough of that already. And after being circumcised I have a real problem with letting anyone near my willy with a knife. In fact I rarely believe anything a damn doctor says, except for when they say they can't do anything for me and still charge me for an office call.\n\nWhat I have been trying is a penal sheath that protects and restores the sensitivity of the glans (to some extent). See http://senslip.com/. I have been wearing a sheath under my clothing for two months night and day removing it only to shower and for sex. Now I can be as active as I need to be and not get so sore, and sex is better for me than it was 31 years ago. And the wife likes me allot better too.\n\nHygiene: teach your son about using soap and water; this will open a channel of communication with him. Get yourself and him used to talking about things that are important to him, and believe me his penis will be important to him. With this channel open you will have a chance to talk about things that he might not see as being so important yet; things like safe sex, smoking, drug use etc.\n\nCircumcision doesn't protect from STDs (a claimed lower rate of infection is not protection); safe sex and condoms protect from STDs. Sweden never has had wide spread circumcision (and now has banned circumcision of children) and their incidence of STDs is 50 times less than the US.\n\nMost of the world’s males (85%) are not circumcised including the fabled French and Latin lovers. It is just some spoiled, shallow US females that think that males should be modified to look like plastic dildos (which BTW can't feel anything either)
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Well, you could try the "head pinch" technique when he's about to finish, or get some over-the-counter desensitising cream where you buy condoms, but there is one more bit of information you need to give before anyone can give youu good advice: How long does he last and how long would it take for you to finish?\n\nIt could be *you're* taking too long, in which case you should masturbate more on your own to better tune yourself in to what gets you there, in addition to the increased foreplay you should have in either case.\n\nMy wife & I don't have that problem. I finish her before I start.
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I regret I'm not having that problem.   I would if I was in that situation stimulate more blood to the penile area by taking Damiana, Ginseng, Yohimbee bark and Vitamin E.\n\n/doc
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It's because your blood pressure increases when you have an orgasm, so if you orgasm more than once this could be a cause. I'd go to your doctor and ask for a blood pressure check (you don't have to tell him why if you're embarrassed, just tell him you've been getting headaches.) Hope this helps!
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You have erectile dysfunction. I'm not a doctor, but I don't think its due to masturbationn. Even if you never have masturbated in your life, if you have erectile dysfunction, it would of happened sooner or later anyway. Go talk to your doctor, it could be any number of medical reasons why you can't keep an erection. This shouldn't stand in your way of having a healthly sex life, there is meds you can take like Viagra to help.\nGood Luck! :)
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Hey it happens...men are pretty sexual beings and they are lucky to have the ability to have such immediate responses...sometimes. Try to get him to slow down...spend some more time focusing on you and your body..and giving you pleasure first...then take a minute before letting him do his thing. As a man he is really in tune with the sensation of about to reach climax...get him to realize this and he,,or you can stop it grasping him right behind his testicles and apply some pressure to that area until the sensation subsides. It will take some practice. You need to apply the pressure to the underside of the penis, pushing up and in where the testicles are up against his body. This is an ac-cue pressure point that relieves sexual tension. After trying this a few times in a session your partner should find that he can last longer, and won't loose his erection. Another trick that works, but not as practical is to have him masturbate about 20 min or so before sex then he should have better staying power. Good luck and have fun!!!
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Sounds like maybe a circulatory problem?  It would be a very good idea to see your doctor.\n\nI'm just guessing here and i'm no doctor, but it's worse for certain postitions, am i right?  My circulation is bad and certain body postitions will make my legs numb/painful/swollen horribly.\n\nI wouldn't mess around with it, and besides - sex is supposed to be enjoyable and fun.  Please ask your doctor about it.
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During Sex the vascular system engorges with blood to create the erection.  Unfortunately also the Cranial vascular system also dilates and a migraine type head ache can occur in some people.  The headache syndrome occurs in men who use erectile dysfunction prescriptions also for the same reason. You have heard the old adage of 'taking a cold shower' that was done to accurately lower the blood pressure and the engorged vascular system.  The blood pressure prescription is what most doctors use. You also may be having too frequent sex  or masturbation and stressing your body.   Take it easy, your body isn't a wind up toy............Good luck to you...
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wow u masterbated fo 2 hours didn't ur hand get tired, shoot u probably have some strong arms,lol, i believe that masterbating helps or could help wit sex, try it during sex its great!!!!!!!!
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yes it becomes a problem when any of two thins occur. it interferes with your daily life. or it causes a cndition called pyrines disease which is from streatching of the blood vessels in the penis which eventually causes a cuvature of the penis which may become painful everytime you get an erection. masterbation is not bad, just don't let it interfere with your life.....find yourself a nice girl that will take care of that for you....just use protection
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The mind is our largest sex organ; if you don't engage it while trying to masturbate then it's likely you will have difficulty.\n\nSome women just have difficulty fantasizing. If you have difficulty, try replaying some of the most erotic experiences you've had in your life and gently massage your clitoris; it's not a race, just let physical stimulation come from your mental stimulation a little bit at a time. \n\nMasturbation and fantasy takes practice. Once you've accomplished the basics, it's fun to imagine almost everything, even things you would never try in real life. It's a wonderful journey to explore the sexuality of your mind and body. Just ake your time.
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Mentally?  Maybe a little but it will pass.  Physically?  Depends on if you are nervous, you will hold the muscles tighter it might hurt at first.  so get yourself or he can get you real relaxed and lubricated.  start drinking at least 8-10 glasses of water a day to help with dryness that ids sometimes due to age and hormones.  This will make your vagina more easily lubricated naturally.  Of coarse the BIG last element is will he be rough or go too fast or if he is large or extra large it will hurt so much foreplay is needed. Have some oral sex, first him a little, then you a lot!  It will help to slow things down some to give you time to lubricate naturally.  So things aren’t forced and you don't react and tighten up the pubic and vaginal muscles.  If you do it might hurt, a bit until they loosen up some.I had a problem with this same thing.  This really works.  especially adding the water to your diet as soon as possible. you will feel moist, ready and young again.
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If you get a boner and put a towel over the hard and flex until the towel lifts. If you do this in like some free time for maybe 100 times then it will delay your nutt. If you get strong enough try using a wet towel.
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You need to strengthen the Kegal muscle. It is done by tightening muscles in your lower abd. When you have an erection if you can move your penis up and down with out touching it, or if you can stop the flow of urine then you are doing it right. Not just females need to strengthen that muscle. Then it should get easier to stop and start. If you still have a problem then you might want to see a doctor
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Sex will be a little harsher, and he may have trouble reaching a climax. But if he had to have it done and you love him, you'll get over it. Try not to let him know how much better it used to be, because he can't get it back, and it'll just make him feel awful. You'll get used to it after a while. \n\nOn the other hand, if he was uncomfortable before because of his medical problem, it should be better for both of you now. WARNING: You must avoid making him get erections until the area is completely healed - probably at least a month. Getting aroused will hurt terribly - so hands off for now!