every boy i like my friend starts flirting with and then likes them.now she isnt even telling me she likes him.and she keeps lying to me.please help.
121682
i had a friend like that. its a form of jealousy. they want what they can't have so they try to take what you have. or maybe she had a self-esteem issue.
43385
She did say she doesn't like him... I suppose that if she does, you'll find out now.  Don't stress about it too much.  Remember, this is your friend.  You'll work it out, no matters what.  If worse comes to worse, it may be that you two just agree that neither of you will have the boy because your friendship is more important.
202434
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
465766
You haven't said if she likes him back!  But if she does, you can't really protect her from him, without sounding like a jealous loser.\n\nThe only thing you could maybe do is to go to this girl and tell her that you know you probably sound like a poor loser, but as her friend, you just want her to know that you are worried about the friendship between her and this guy.  Tell her about the rep this guy has, giving her details and proof if possible.  She will either believe you or not.  But remember, if she doesn't listen to you and has a thing with this guy, she will remember when she bangs her head that you warned her, and she will listen better next time.  And if she doesn't bang her head (maybe this guy treats her right) she will still know in her heart that you were just trying to protect her, and think you are sweet because of it.  Good luck!
178312
talk 2 ur friend ....tell her she's invading ur private space n she 's no right 2 do so...being frnd doesn't mean behaving anyway at others cost,,,make that female realize this ......n by the way if that boy asks u take ur time fetch information abt him, he's nice or not...if there r rumours doesn't mean u got 2 say yes ...if the guy is reallly nice than i suppose i don't have 2 tell u .what u should\n:-)                                         life is cool .rock'n
490875
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.
615989
You should probably have a talk with her, your friend.  Tell her that you guys are friends and that she means the world to you.  Be as gentle as you can in telling her that you just don't feel that way towards her right now.  If it's meant to be, then it will.  If you like this girl Summer, then by all means ask her out.  Just don't parade her in front of your friend, that will pour salt on the wound.
274069
Um... I had the same problem. Don't hurt your friend. He may be cute, but there are plenty of cute boys. I know from experience that your friendship is better. If they break up wait a little while, and then hang out with him. Maybe you'll quit liking him. If not, stay away, about 50 YARDS AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM HIM!!!! LISTEN TO MY ADVICE. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT.
82675
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
341166
same prob a while ago to my friend, she made a move on his friend, the friend rejected her but the rumors of her liking her friend almost completely went away.
170152
Well, you can try and talk to her and even ask why she's acting that way toward you. Maybe you two can work it out. But if she continues what she's doin than don't bother pining and move on. True friends wouldn't be like that.
361693
Your friend could be jealous of you. She may not WANT you to have a boyfriend, so she's making herself believe different. I'm in the 6th Grade & my friends would never believe me if I told them I had a boyfriend & that's truly awful. Ask her why she doesn't believe you. I'm sure you're a decent-looking little girl & it's rude for her to say that she doesn't believe you'd ever get a boyfriend. Ignore her if she gets real bad about it.
2991
You already are helping her!  Sounds like you are a good friend.\n\nSo you can keep being her friend...keep listening to her, being there for her, supporting her.  It's SO hard to find the right person...and just tell her that she's a good person, someone is out there for her and hopefully she'll find him soon!  This guy she liked doesn't sound very nice, so I think she's better off without him!
177183
Make her learn her lesson, friends are for life and they wouldn't lie to you so she should've listened to you. If you go back she is going to run to you everytime something goes wrong and when a new guy comes into the scene bye,bye to you. You are just setting yourself up to get hurt and seriously used.
216587
she definitely was flirting with u adn trying to get ur attention so that she could see if the feeling is mutual. if she told u that she liked u out of the blue, then she obviously likes u. i dont tell any guy that i like him and give him a lot of my attention if i didnt like him. if u like her, then make ur move, if not, then tell her.good luck!
408935
he sure likes you!Something like this happen to me i went to my friend and talked to her and she didn't mind me going out with him so i did and everything was perfect just be careful you don't want to lose a friend just for a boy\n\ngood luck\n~jenna~
450694
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥