WERE DO I START , I USED TO DO A BIT OF MODELING AND I LOVED IT,I NO I COULD NEVER BE A SUPER MODEL AS I AM TO SMALL IM ONLY 5.7 , I WAS MORE INTO GLAMMER MODELING, I USED TO WORK AT CAR SHOWS AND I LOVED IT BUT I TOOK A YEAR OUT, I HAVE PUT ON A STONE SINCE I STOPPED DONIG MY SHOWS IM DESPERATE TO LOSE THE WEIGHT AGAIN AND TRY MAKE IT BIGGER, DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ME ???
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Yeah, give up modelling!\n\nI used to be a model myself and discovered all the deep dark secrets of the photographers world.  Unfortunately (for them) I have morals and standards and lines that I refuse to cross.\n\nIt really is a dirty business.\n\nOther than that, don't worry about it!  It's only a stone!
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If you have been discribed as "willowy" by others, it sounds like you have a very different self-image than what others see.  "Willowy" usually means exactly what it implies, tall, slender, long limbs.  I'm not sure how old you are but if you are in your early teens, chances are you haven't gotten used to your newly developed body.  I remember how painful it was for me, especially graduating from a training bra to a real one.  I was so self conscious of how I "stuck out" where I used to be flat.  Don't let yourself be led astray by diet and exercise plans that promise to change the way you look drastically.  If you are self conscious of your bust, there are minimizing bras that support without pushing everything up and out.  If you are like me, I can't find clothes long enough in the sleeves or pant lengths.  Todays styles are body clinging, form fitting, which, if you are self conscious, will make you feel worse.  Find a friend, or someone you trust completely, and go on a clothes trying on spree.  Find a style that you like and suits you.  Go into stores that are  normally not your style, or price range and HAVE FUN WITH IT.  It costs nothing to shop and try on clothes, the decision to buy is up to you.  This will give you a chance to check out new styles you may not have conisdered, and give you ideas for dfferent styles.  Tall Girl (here in Canada) is great for taller women, better proportioned all over.  Who knows, maybe you'll discover a love for sewing and make your own clothes.  I'm not suggesting you don't exercise, exercise is an important part of daily life.  Do it.  But please be gentle on yourself, we are always our own worst critics.  God made you beautiful just the way you are.  Look in the mirror every day and find one thing to complement yourself on.  Record those observations every day, and when you feel especially down, go back and read all those wonderful things about yourself.  You are more wonderful than you may know.  Believe that, OK?!
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Source: ME  Time line: 6 months   Work:  A lot!  \nI was 225 pounds, 60 years old, totally disgusted with myself. Hire a personal trainer, had a long conference with him, had a physical, discussed my previous injuries and problems...he speicalizes in older guys (he was 56 at the time..I told him I wanted a body just like his...great shape) We went about it, every other day, and within 2 months, the differences were dramatic. AT 6 months, I was something else! At one year, I had a competition body and was encouraged to enter "Masters" comps at bodybuilding comps in area. I didn't, but I knew I looked good, my sex life soared, (self image is the biggest driver/discourager of sex drive), and I was/am one very happy guy...older now, but still in VERY good shape..I can bury guys 20-30 years younger. Is that enough of a testimonial? Take if from me, it is just plain old hard work, so be very determined if you want what I have. Good Luck
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Yeah Tyra travel almost around the world to model especiallt in Europe. I just started stop looking at Naomi Cambell as a good model she not the style i want the influence from!! tyra is a good role model to become a model. hey she even have a show to become the next top model!!Tonight an 8!!!- gee i wish i can travel round the world to model!!
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Experience has nothing to do with the modeling and acting industry.  You either have it or you don't.  What you really should be asking is do you have the goods and the skills to be a part of those industries.  Do you?  Well, if you don't do what needs to be done to get them; acting classes, personal trainer, stylist, beautician, plastic surgery...C'mon! all the stars do it!!  Whatever you need, it can be bought. Consider it an investment which is another thing that is required to be in those industries.  For modeling you need a portfolio, hire a photographer to take pics...  It's all about preparation and effective marketing...  If you've been trying to do this for a long time, you'd better hurry up, time is running out for you!\n\nGood luck!
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I would really encourage her to finish her education first.  Modelling is incredibly competitive and if she does not make the big time she will need to have something to fall back on sooner rather than later. There's plenty of time still at her age.\n\nIncidentally, my daughter wanted to do this and following footslogging around all the reputable London agencies she was told on several occasions that she was 'too pretty', apparently they only wanted 'quirky' faces!! So its possible your daughter may also be put off by this attitude.
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The thing about modelling is that the industry determines how much you work.  You can't just say, I'm going to be a model and just go out and get well paying jobs, you know?  You have to be chosen for jobs and it's highly competitive.  Unless you're one of the top IT girls we always see on the runway or win one of those lump sum modelling contracts, you'll probably need a job on the side.\n\nAlso keep in mind that most models' careers are over by the time they're in their mid twenties so you most definitely need a back up plan.
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I would, and plan on it in the near future. I'm 48, but was over 325 pounds at age 42.  I changed how I ate, and concentrated on veggies, protiens, dairy and low-sugar fruits.  I got rid of processed sugars, starches, and those things that kept my metabolic rate low.  I've lost over 170 lbs. in the past 5 years, and since I had already had my children, and my skin was so stretched, it didn't shrink back the way a younger woman's would.  So...I have skin that needs to be removed, and I've lost a lot of the fullness in my breasts.  So yes, I would but because this is something I need, and want, to make ME feel good about myself! :)
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i wish that people would stop and think about everything that they are losing out on just because they think they are fat. i have been fat my whole life. i used to dread meeting new people because i was afraid of what they were thinking of me, now i could care less. there are way way bigger people in this world out there then 150 pounds. if you came up to me in person and said that you think you are fat i would laugh in your face. ill tell you what, you want me to send you a picture of some of my family members? i have an aunt that is close to 400 pound. and a cousin that is 330. and i aint no skinny minny myself. what you have to do is except yourself for what and who you are. if you dont like it then you should cut back on calories or lose it the right way because the ways that you are trying will work and then you will gain all of the weight back. and my mother used to be bulimic--she had dentures by age 24.
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Wow.... as a model, I'll give you some advice before I rate. You have to find a good pose, and a pose that flatters your body type and face. Also, you have to find a better photographer! Some of those pictures were dreadful!\nHmm, for your pictures, I'll have to say 4.5...But (seeing as you answered one of my questions and you said you were a doctor), you don't really have to go into modeling because you already have a job.\nJ'adore,\nConnie
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I'm going on 38 next month but beleive me, i know how you feel, i have been heavy my whole life, i never felt liked, endured cruel jokes and felt i would never have a boyfriend. Girls and women are expected to look like everyone else on TV, its always the thin models that get the main roles in movies and chubby women are shoved to the backburner. We need to realize and believe that looks dont mean ANYTHING AT ALL, if guys are only going to like you because you have a nice body then that tells me what kind of person they really are, a JERK. You have so much to offer in this world, dont let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a special and unique person. Please just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, it takes all shapes and sizes in our world. Please enjoy yourself while you can and put a smile on your face, thats what will trully draw the right ones to you. For me i choose swimming to keep myself as healthy as possible, its easier on your body and burns more calories than any exercise you do out of water ( i was told this by a swim instructer ) and best of all its FUN. I know its hard, i dont mean to go on and on but i just want you to know your not alone. God Bless you.
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OMG- You're ME! I am the same way. I good with people, but I'm not good WITH people, if that makes sense. I know I'm sweet, nice, generous and lots of other positive things. I tend to put myself down before others get a chance to, but my self esteem is improving. I have a BF who adores me and I'm making a serious effort keep our flame going. I'd say you should go into a clothibg store and just try on several different outfits just to see how cute you can be in differnt clothes. Do your hair a different way and try to be social with people. I know it's easier said than done because I'm like a brick wall around people I dont know. It take a LOT for me to get comfy with new people, and my "open" is still not considered open to others. My BF said I need to let loose and communicate more and just be relaxed. Maybe you overthink things, like me- always wondering what everyone else thinks... just let go and stop worrying. A BF will come sooner o later, dont settle for just anyone, make sure he's worthy of you. Good luck! By the way, I am a 21 y.o. plus sized girl & I think I look great. Just dress to flatter your body type and have confidence.
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I used to weigh 280 and thought I was sexy.   I wasn't!!!    I have lost 50 lbs and FEEL SO MUCH SEXIER!!!    Weight Watchers has helped me learn so many healthy habits and opened my eyes to what I was doing wrong.  And the PLUS side... I am healthier and will live longer without all the risks of the diseases caused by being so overweight.   My goal is to be around 150.  I am 5'3.    AND I find myself looking at overweight people now just to gawk and remind myself that I don't want to be that way.   Lose it, you will feel better!!!!! I promise!
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Oh c'mon!   Give me a chance, I have only just seen the question!  \nMy resolutions.  \nI gave up smoking 8 years ago so thats out.\nIm on a diet and have lost 5 stone so I guess I continue with that til I'm a perfect size 10 (as if! Size 16 is more like it lol).\nI think its got to be more exercise.\nBe nice to my kids.\nLove my neighbours.\nEmbrace the world .\nOops I think I went a bit far there... ;)
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Hi! This is Sandra,  Im sorry you are having such a tough time  But I have to tell ya straight up and out STOP IT  can u imagine what u are going to turn into?  Now its only 70lbs think about the future, the way you feel when its time to get dressed for a function or heck just to go to the store  Large people have a hard time dressing not to mention all the health issues that are gonna appear  I believe if when your thinking about food you need to distract yourself  "PRAY" do something  nobody can do it for you  but I do know that there are many people that feel your pain  The only way I can lose weight is to starve my self and I dont recommend it, its very bad for your body  You have to kick that bad "HABIT"  to the curb "YOU" must change your ways or be a fatso  that is the cold hard truth  Get some friends or loved ones to promote you and make a commitment to yourself and your health   k  GOOD LUCK
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We all change and develop over time.....you are not exactly the same person you were 5 years ago.  So don't expect to be.  It seems what you have is a little lack of confidence.....happens to all of us.  Just get back on the horse so to speak.....but do it in small doses......Do some of the things you used to do and build little successes.....get your rythm back.... in the process you will make new friends and you'll forget all about this period....
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I suppose it all depends on whether you want to LOOK small or actually BE small.  You could try looking for a dress that is suited to your body type, and will give the illusion of being smaller.\n\nOr you could start working out, but remember, it's not healthy to lose too much weight in a small amount of time, and since you only have a month or so, I'd say focus on picking a flattering dress.