he said he liked me but this girl wanted to go out with him , so now their going out! I donno if i should just let it go or wait and hold on! Help me out please
132885
i got dat same problem
336243
give him the time to understand the situation, and at the same time, let him know that you're interested and really want him back, without smothering him.  Act now before the other girl can.
511360
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
642159
maybe he wanted to wait longer.. maybe he regrets it because he wanted to hold out longer. don't dump him just yet. find out what he is made of. it might be a conflict of his morals.
214865
I think if he really wanted to go out with you, he would do it.  Even if guys leave the door open, they are still stringing you along.  Sometimes they like to have options.  Jump on that friendship train and then date someone else.  If he really wants ya, he will tell you when you are inevitably with someone else.
397843
It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
316321
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
515510
Good Lord woman!  Before I finished reading this, I already knew you shouldn't get into this relationship in that capacity, just be friends and let it be, perhaps later in the future w/o pushing things, maybe things will change, maybe.  If he was interested, he would've let you know already.  Obviously, in his subtle way, he is not interested, get a clue!  You say he still dates other girls, well, that should be enough to tell you he's still not ready or willing to commit to a relationship.  By all means, don't force a relationship!  Relationships should be easy, mutual and wonderfully exciting.
90794
Just leave him alone. Since he lied to you he probaly thought that both of you wouldn't go far. He shouldn't have lied to youbut I can see his point. Maybe that was his way of seeing if you liked him. I'm not saying it was righ tbut i can se his side. But just forget about him.\n\nOh by the way on my question I never asked either of them out.
281116
was in that situation before.\n(assuming that this is on the same day?)\n\n\nI chose the one I like.\nwhy? because this is a change of a lifetime!\n\nfor the one I asked out?\nwell, he as to wait.\n\nbut if this is for a long period of time.....\n\ngo with the one you like most.\nwell of course you have to try to go out with both of them.\nbut even if you want to date both of them tell them, because if someone actually has real feellings for you he should be prepared to feel hurt.\n\nmy advice: enjoy it girl. but dont hurt other peoples feeling. that brings you nothing but problems(whether guilt or rumors). trust me, I saw some really ugly things in this Area.\n\nASiH
199120
Why do you care . . . you already broken up . . . and he is looking for someone new.\n\nIf the guys made a wager on who can date this one girl . . . then this is a gag date . . . nothing serious.  Odds are they don't give a damn about her . . . so blow it off . . . and who cares.  It is not like you are dating him still.
314017
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
443529
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
537133
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
277072
Look, I told a guy I liked him, we were friends and he didn't really give me an answer...turns out he had just asked another girl out.  It may b awkward right after it happens, but with a little space, anything can mend.  Now we are ok, and I don't regret not telling him.
553977
he is trying to tell u that he likes this other girl instead of u in a non hateful way. that's all there is 2 it. ur rite he should have told u some thing, but he should be the one to make the move, but if he's too lazy 2, then u have to ask him "whats going on with us?" or something like that, \n\ngood luck!\n\n~heather~
171703
Well, think for a minute. If he is going out with this girl, he obviously likes her and wants to go out with her. If you say that he has a horrible girlfriend and should go out with you instead, he might end up hating you. Just be a good, nice person and if he likes you, he will do something.