I DK I JUSS NEED SOM ADVICE CAUSE OF RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
120756
you had me thinking for a minute how would a girl know if i still like her. 1)do i still tease her 2) do I return her phone calls....if the answer is yes then i still like her or have at least not decided that I don't like her. But I agree with the first guy just ask..he would appreciate that and it shows that you're not trying to play some game to figure him out you got too the point and asked what you wanted answered.
52964
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
668731
I think that you have issues. Maybe you should see a therapist?
189848
Be very honest and kind and talk to her about.  Tell her your concerns without placing blame on her, tell her your reasons for your concerns and what you need from her.  For example, you need for her to come directly to you with any problems that she has with you, not to other people.  Good Luck!
398025
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
170651
Get another girlfriend. Something to distract you can help for a little while...a casual dating relationship, maybe. In the long run, though it is simply a matter of letting go. Easy to say, really hard to do. Good luck to you!
532562
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
484152
there is no problem with you honey,, but there is a secret in terms of friendship which you should know, self confidence is very important in any relationship, u should believe in urself first then others will believe in you and lean on you as a friend ,, do not take much attention on what other people think or what they do, ,just do whatever your heart says and be a good leader,its really successful way , u should try \nbest wishes
52418
You probably care for your girlfriend very much and it hurts you when you argue with her. You should really try and prevent this aruging so your realtionship doesn't shatter and either one of you get hurt.
240451
Relationships are a "two way street" HOWEVER, if it is important to you, YOU may need to put forth the effort to pursue the relationship.  Why is the other person responsible for not continuing the relationship? Maybe you need to examine why the other persons aren't responding. Are there health problems? Are they too busy? Is the relationship not really what you thought it was? Have you drifted apart?\n\nAsk your friends why you only seem or hear from them is when you call. Maybe the relationship isn't as important to them as it is to you?????\n\nMaybe you need to find new friends with similar interests. Join a church, book club, community center, gym.....take a class.....do what interests you and you will find others who share your interests.
299219
Try compromising.Relationships change with time. Just go with the flow.
662176
dont know but go find your self a girl friend would help you 2 stop good luck with your problem
149586
i myself are in a relationship for more than a year and things tend to get a little aggrivated lately.  The best adivice i can give you is to just take things as they come and just talk everything over with your man that comes up.  If you argue about things, thats ok. don't think it is your fault at all. if your mad, its obviously him thats doing something to make you mad.  just tell him whats bothering you
161409
He sounds jealous and that is his problem and not yours. This can wreck a relationship. Just tell him you are with him and to cut out making problems where none exist.
126898
it's ok to open up a conversation especially that you are feeling this way. if you don't get the right answers then it could be s start of misunderstanding that can lead to separation .at this point, maybe you're not sure yet about your relationship. communicate to each other in a nice way to resolve this problem.
108837
Either you like to argue or you have some issues between you that affect how you communicate to each other in a positive way.  If you really love her then talk to her about the effect the arguing is having on you and your relationship with her.  Long term relationships are not easy and I say that from experience...but they also can be the blessing of your lifetime too.
315949
i think u should talk and resolve the problem...and if it still doesn't work...then its probably time to move on...