Well, we ride the same bus, live in the same neighborhood, and i really like him alot, but i dont know how to talk to him, im tired of people givin me the same advice... "Go talk to him" I cant!! any other advice cud help but that!!
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It's really hard to be shy, I know.  The best thing you can do is be yourself, always.  The next thing is eye contact and smile.  Eventually you will work up enough nerve to say "Hi".  You'd be surprised, a lot of guys really like shy girls!
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Be honest with him, tell him exactly what you just said here.  If you like him as much as he does you then there's a chance.  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
85848
I would let him know how I feel.Just because he is moving doesn't mean there can't be a relationship. If your to shy to talk to him drop him a line and let him know that way. Who knows maybe he feels the same way about you.
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The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
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Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
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Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
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I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
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Just walk up to him, and start talking.  He's a guy.  It's that \nsimple.
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Well, thats the same problem with me.But I mean exactly the same problem. Don't hang around him too much because he'll know that u like him. So what i would do, just tell him, "Hey, What's up?" and start a conversation with him to make him feel comfortable. Then ask, "Last year, we had good times. We talked a lot but why don't you speak to me anymore?" And then he might answer your question. But one thing i would like to clear to you, is about your best friend. My friend Brenda does the same thing:Wants every guys attention as possible. What you should do, join sports programs,drama club,etc to become popular and eventually, your crush might like you IF you did something good in basketba or any type of sport. Dont be nervous. Try it!
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If you like him, TELL HIM.  Really.  It's that easy.  Ask him to do something-study together, go out somewhere together (even the park, the mall or a local hangout-it doesn't have to cost anything).  Just tell him that you like him and want to hang out.  \n\nI don't think because he's blonde he doesn't get it.  I've been told BY MEN that men "don't get hints, you have to hit them over the head" with what you want.  While that's not true for all men, of course, I think it may apply to quite a few----like this guy you're talking about.\n\nIt doesn't get any easier the older you get, to ask a guy out.  It's still a nerve-wracking thing, but you can do it.  Plus, wouldn't it better to say something and just get it over with, instead of this frustrating waiting thing you're doing??  Hmmmm??  Wouldn't you rather be out with him rather than writing about him??
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Talk to him!!!  Find things you have in common.
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I'm exactly the same way!  You should just smile at him when you see him or say hi.  If I were you I would wait for him to talk to you, cuz that's what they're supposed to do, right?
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he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
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well i guess he may be shy so it looks like you'd have to make the move yourself and don't send a text, call it's better he hears your voice than read words he wudn't know the emotions you're trying to express by just your words, a guy did that to me once(got my # and called me) and we ended up dating for a few months. i guess you could call to say hi and tell him that you got his # from a friend becuse you're interesed in getting to know him also tell him how he knows you and that you think you both should meet face-to-face\n\ngood luck, make that move or else you may regret it, if you're nervous close your eyes hold your breath and try to do it quickly
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Walk up to him the next time in the hallway, gather all the courage, smile at him and say hi. Do this for a while, then talk to him at length one day.Will things pick up from there? it s up to you.
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i can relate to this.\nwhat i suggest is that you try to open up a bit. it's hard, and takes time, but if you become more outgoing, he won't be too intimidated if he was too approach you. in situations like this, it's YOUR turn to make the first move. start small talk, ask him how his day has been, smile (rather frequently), and just don't think about what you're gonna say. let it out. a friend of mine suggested this to me, and it worked, i suggest you try this yourself. usually if he's staring at you, he in fact, DOES like you.\nyou go girl, get out there and get that guy ;D