I've kind of gotta thing for this guy who works at the Movie Gallery in town. I'm in there alot, and we most always chit chat, and flirt, or at least I do (flirt I mean). I don't know if he's even the least bit interested. Should I just go for it, and ask him to the movies?? Help!
137863
use him to get free movies and then wala you have free movies.
456552
Okay, everyone's going to tell you to "be yourself" (which you should do), so I'll kind of try to be more specific.  Eye contact is crucial, but don't try to stare his eyes blind. Look away occasionally, but not at another good-looking man! If you're eating out, try to watch your table manners, but order something substantial! I can't emphasize this enough - guys roll their eyes when the girls only order salad and Pellegrino. If you're going to the movies, don't talk too much during the scenes or crunch your popcorn too loudly (not many people consciously know this, but hearing popcorn munching drown out the dialogue is VERY annoying).   Don't act too quiet, the guy will find you boring. But don't be a hyperactive chatterbox - equally unappealing.  If you've got a funny comment, share it (but not every 10 seconds) but stay away from actual jokes, because some find them corny...and let him talk! But also do more than spit out questions.\n\n\nOf course, if his looks are disappointing, the above doesn't apply so strongly...
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Sounds like he's really flirting with you.  Does he talk to you about other girls?  If so, then you're probably just a "buddy".  If not, then he's probably into you.  Depending on how well you know the guy, meaning his personality, you might already have other clues as to whether or not he likes you.  Does he let you pick out the movie?  Does he listen to what you say, not just sit there with a blank look on his face?  The face lighting up thing is a give-away, but be careful, friends will often tell you what YOU want to hear.  FYI guys are not always primitive, depending on your personality maybe he wants you to make the first move.  Guys sometimes like a "sure thing" too (nothing dirty is implied by that).  Another thing, why would he go to the trouble of faking flirting with you?  Does he get something out of "fake" flirting???  If all else fails, be direct, ask him if he thinks you're girlfriend material.  Depending on how he answers the question, you'll know.
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You should kinda flirt a little and if he flirtz back then up the flirtness. if he does it, it is a good sign. i still like a dude i asked out a lot but i don't ever see him anymore. but when i do i kinda do a little flirt smile or sumthing. just take ur time and dont rush it ^-^.
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Just ask him if he is interested in seeing a particular movie that is coming out this weekend.  If he seems interested in one, mention that you would just love to see it too...but have nobody to go with.\n\nGuys are too shy to ask, let alone answer a question!
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next time he is tlaking to your friend go over there and be like "what are you guys talking about.." and then just casually ask your friend and him if they want to go to the movies. Later your friend will become suddenly "ill" and unable to go to the movies thus leaving you and will on a first date!
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Go with what mya said, bring up movies, and get her to go to one with you.  you sound like you have been friends with her for a while but know find this attraction on a different level with her, good for you!
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Your question isn't perfectly worded, either.  Do you want that picked apart?  If you want to go to a movie with him, then say yes; if you do not, then say no thank you, and if you are busy and would perhaps like to see him another time, tell him that.\nPrincesses don't generally work at Mrs. Field's.  Think about just acting and responding as a nice human.
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if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
562610
Alright, calm down.\nFirst, ask yourself this. "Who asked who to the movies? And who accepted?" Look, I'll make this simple, if he went to the movies with you he probab;y 'likes' you as teenagers put it.
553323
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
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I could be wrong but he digs you.  Just talk to him.  What do you have to lose.  I am 27 and have been successful in dating not because I am rich or incredibly good looking.  I am not afraid to take a chance.  People are inherently shy, polite and respect outgoing people.  Ask him if he wants to go to a movie or for a cup of coffee the worst he can say is no. What have you lost.  The gain however can be incalculable.
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Well, as a girl, if i like a guy friend, I usually try to spend as much time as possible with him; I try to avoid too much eye contact; am a bit nervous n fidgety and self conscious and sometimes I may even try so hard as to not show that I like him...Oh and if u happen to be paying more attention to another girl at some point in time when she's around, check out how she reacts to it. If she constantly tries to avoid watching the two of you talk or whatever or you catch her sneaking a glimpse in your direction every once in a while there's a slight possiblity she might be diggin you.\n\nTo ask her out, just drop a line like ' I heard that movie----- is suppose to be good,maybe we shud go and check it out sometime' Dont be too foward.
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Sweeet heart if he is worth you time then he is worth the effort. You can stop where he works start a little conversation you may compilment him about anything he is wearing, his smile. Or talk to him about anything maybe a movie any little thing.\n A great ice breaker is ask him if you could meet for coffee or something. Now you can take it from here.\n\nHave a great day Don
631640
My rule of thumb, is never to date anyone that works with you, unless they are in a different dept., or you don't see them during your everday.  Because if it doesn't workout it can backfire.  I think the time frame for being in the friend category is anything past 3 flirting sessions.  Then I would wonder does this guys have b.alls enough to ask me out?  I guess not, then I would move on and just be friendly with you.  I hope it works out for you, step it up a notch.  Don't worry if she says no, there are many other girls.
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he could be just a nice guy who appreciates your friendship, or yeah, he could like you. So make a small move. \n\nBring up a movie you really want to see, hint around it. Or, sometime on a break or if you are hanging out, start up a fun game of tag, or challenge him to a quick one on one at basketball.\n\nIf he likes you, he will jump at the chances to hang out with you. Just be you, and dont act all wierd just because you like him. Let him know the real you, if he wants a chance, he WILL jump for it, at all oppertunities:)
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no offense, but unless he's a first rate jerk, he won't be interested.  It's just a crush(although I'm sure you're sure its love) and will wear off as soon as you see the next hot thing.  Don't get involved with teachers, bosses, or co-workers...it ends up messy.