this other girl a lot and I feel like he likes her much more. He doesn't know I love him... What do I do? How can I let him know how I feel? (this is really hard for me)\n\n\nP.S.- not my personal question. its my friends question and she doesnt want to get yahoo so she made me put it here for her. she is desperate, trust me lol. k thnx.
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First of all, you should find out who she is. maybe it's his sister? daughter? Just a Friend? Tell him you love him, and say it in a way, that he believes you. If he doesn't know u love him, maybe he doesn't love you or doesn't know if he does. You are a good friend, but she should get yahoo. You can get it free, if you have a different primary isp and search for yahoo on line. I did that in the past. Being that the question is from your friend, might you be the other girl? Yes, it can be hard, but you need to make the effort to tell him, unless you want to feel miserable or find another guy. Take it from your uncle (so to speak), to keep your feelings to yourself is not good, and to keep feelings bottled up, is mentally unhealthy. SO do it! It's your best option.
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he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
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I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
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I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
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girl u go talk 2 him if u have something 2 say. i mean wat r u afraid of by asking him? is he scary? then tell him wat u feel and say that u know how he feels about u but u cant hide ur feelings anymore. believe me this will do nothing but good 2 u. try it out and let me know what happens with u i really wanna know ok? u can send me an IM. im waiting!
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um..\nthats kinda messed up,\nif u see that hes still with her, then oviously he doesnt really care what you think.\n\nthink of it this way.. would you want some girl saying that and wondering how she can get ur guy to like her instead of you? and want to break  guys up? i dont think youd like that.\nstop being selfish and get another guy that DOESNT have a girl.\n\ngosh.. i dont like girls like you.
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I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
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YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
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Giggles,giggles, giggles!!!!\nWhat's up?\nAre you still trying to figure out what to do about dude?\nLook let's just look at it this way, okay If he dissed you once because of a female (that was there before you, might I add)\nWhat's to stop him from trying to do it again?\nNow you know I do not lie to you right?\nLet me tell you the low-down on guys, If you let a guy get away with something once they will do it again, just because they can and they know you will put up with it.\nNow If you KNOW FOR A FACT that you & him will not get into some serious type relationship and it's cool that HE knows that you are not avaiable to him  and the same goes for you as well then I would say go for the "THE HOMIE" thing, just do not get confused on the terms of what "HOMIE" means.\nAre we talking about "Homie-Lover-Friend"\nIf so It will get very complaicated before the summer ends, and you know what I am talking about right?\nPlease Giggles just remember he do have a girlfriend, and like I told you before do not be surpised if there may be more than one girlfriend okay?\nAnd always think like this:     "How would I feel if MY boyfriend was seeing a chick on the side"\nLet me know how it turns out okay?
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wow. lovely story. I had a crush that I felt the same way about back in HS. He was exactly the opposite of everyone I was dating, but he had a girlfriend, so I never got to be with him. \n\nMaybe he still ponders what might have been. Maybe she should ask him why. Maybe a conversation about this feeling needs to take place, no matter if it eases their minds or stir up feelings. Maybe she needs to asess her feelings for her bf, happy or not. Maybe down the road when he is still staring into her eyes, and her eyes just dont twinkle the same way anymore, since she left her bf (or got left?) maybe then it would be wise for her to talk to him. She could find comfort in knowing that he will always find that special place in her heart, that noone has ever touched before, and he may still be available by then. you never know........\nGood Luck Girlie!!\n;o)
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YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, BECAUSE HE PROBABLY FEELS THE SAME WAY. ESPECIALLY SINCE HE GIVES YOU SO MUCH ATTENTION. IF YOU DON'T THE SUSPENSE WILL KILL YOU.
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luk,i thing she also cares for u,but she is not able to express her feelings to u,,it will take some time for her to express,,and as far as that 3rd person is concerned,if u really feel that he is not a good one for that girl,then go and frankly speak to her as a friend that he is not the right one for u,,MY QUESTION IS THAT ??WHY ARE U LETTING YOUR LOVE GO LIKE THIS,
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Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
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This is just my opinion but I don't think a true friend would be mean to me just to impress another girl. And I think you are focusing too much on the fact that he was with another girl and not so much on the way you were treated.  You deserve respect and I think you need to surround yourself with people who will treat you right and will be true friends. Good luck hun!
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I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
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hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
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just continue offering a pure friendship. just be a true person to him by showing who you are without telling what you feel towards him. wait for the right time. it will come without saying any words. just wait and try to have fun with your other friends. then you will learn what exactly you feel for him. but if that special feeling remain, then you can take the risk. \n\ntelling him will be a big gamble to you, you may just simply loose him, or if he have a "feeling" for you, you will not find his sincerity for you will always think that he just "love" you for not offending you or hurting your feelings.\n\nthat's the hardest part of being a girl-you have to wait for the person you like to "approach" you but sad to say those people approaching you are just "ordinary people" for you. \n\nbut then you felt that bursting feeling can't be hold for awhile then - - tell him without putting down yourself.\n\nmake it simple on telling him, like, :i don't understand myself, "friend" but this thing is new to me - why i always  think of you, and sometimes i want to have more time from you... then smile and wait to his reaction.\n\nkeep your cool.