What do you prefer, foreplay or sex if you had to choose but one?
126741
foreplay because it is more sensual
269414
Wait 2 hours. Making love ( not having sex ) it is not a competition. And if you were a good lover, once is more than  enough.
633983
Why choose? Why not both?
322584
Sex is definately better because of all the touching going on.  Breasts really do it for me and make me c.u.m much harder.  Ain't no boobies around when I jack off.
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Are you interested in the fantasy, sexual aspect, or the reality?
31412
*experiment with a different position.\n\n*do it in a new place (the living room, the kitchen, the garden, under the moon)\n\n*make the foreplay laaaaassssstttt a loooonnnggg time. :D
396094
Communicate is the best aphrodisiac, I had this problem too. wasn't very interested in sex. I just had lot's on my mind and issues. but once we were able to communicate honestly (so I thought), things got really great.   best sex ever.
556963
the safest sex is sex by yourself..you have no worries there.
514197
Made love to. If you have had both why would you choose the other? \n It is so much better if you have a connection with someone. Being "sexed up" is fun, but leaves you feeling empty. Any female who would rather be sexed up has issues.
27119
Sex!\n\nALWAYS a good choice.
671285
My Ideal Date: First I’m picked up (on Time) and taken to a movie or play (something will both enjoy) then taken to a restaurant (fine dinning) some where I can be dressed up. Then I like to go for a little dancing (at a nice club) and then it would be nice to end the date with a very calming atmosphere (something that could lead up to some of the best sex ever)
459312
I like it more wild, but not so dangerous...? I guess it depends, I mean, maybe after a long hard day at work, say you exchange massages and then have some more soft and passionat sex, but the next time your out together and have an awesome time, then some awesome crazy sex too. Plus love after fighting is most always more aggressive. Morning is usually more soft. Umm.. it depends on where you are, if I'm traveling then I might go more wild or if it's a birthday or special occasion. But if it's a more romantic night, it'd be obvisouly more romantic/soft...I guess it just depends on the mood too. You should just go with what feels right w/you and your girl at the time! Have fun and be safe!
280866
The one for the great sex.\nThe love will one day be gone. Learn to love the one that gives  you the pleasure.
200606
well we're guys so sex is always on our minds... but if it was me, i would want to meet the girl, hang out with her abit before something like that.\n\nalso, i'd want to make sure that she wanted it too.
569340
No...quickies can be great if your in the mood for one...and sometimes at the end of a long day foreplay is just not necessary. Get in, have fun, get out...then everyone's happy right?
297376
before is better, when trying to have a child.\n\nAfter is better, mostly for pleasure.
357256
generally speeking\n\nforeplay and foreplay = more foreplay