Do you people think Love without Sex is not Love? or having Sex always means having Love ? Why we " The Humans" cannot delete sex from our lives and consentrate on baseball
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Sex....and baseball????  Hmmmm....\n\nWell, to answer your question, I believe you can have love without sex.  Two people can have a deep attraction to one another and not have sex.  BUT, sex is a natural action for all animals really, so it should not be excluded from building love.  Sex can deepen love to new levels.  But if someone were to say "I can't love you until we have sex" I would say they are only after that and nothing else.\nIt's OK if that is really all you want, but you should tell the other person that so they know exactly who they are getting.\nWas that confusing enough???  lol
60920
I think that people that save sex are to be highly respected.  I myself am waiting until marriage.  Sex, when thrown around too much, becomes stagnant, and it takes more and more to please the person, just like a drug.  Studies have proven that those people that have only had one or two partners in their lives, no matter how active they are together, are much less likely to get bored with each other.  He takes sleeping with someone seriously, and we all should.  We're talking about an act that God made so that two people in love, who are intimate on every other level, ie mind, personality, spiritually, can now consumate and become fully one in each other.  Its so beautiful when done as its supposed to be.  Sex just for sex ends up being shallow.
565923
A relationship without sex is nothing. If is really important for me, l don't know what would l do, but really, a relationship without sex doesn't work
413615
It depends on what you call "love". If love is only to care about the other, with no physical need to have sex or an intimate relationship, may be. However, I think that love is feeling the need to kiss, touch and make love with the loved person. That is something natural, since the result of that love is to have children, and there is no other natural way to have them. In addition to that, you need to respect, take care, etc. the loved one. if you do not feel sexual of physical attraction, you are not feeling love. May be something very deep and/or nice but whatever it is, is incomplete.
504847
I believe indefinitely, for a woman.  I lived at the hospital with my husband for 3 months, 9 yrs. ago.  The thought of sex was not there.  He did die.  When you don't think about sex, there is no problem.  I could go on indefinitely without sex.  And I don't need to masturbate.  Keep busy at all times.  Life is more interesting and fun that way, anyway.
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My opinion is that you don't really know a person to a satisfactory level if you didn't have sex with them. Sexual behavior reveals much more about a person than all words that can be said.\nAn affair is emotion AND sex.\nIf one of them misses, it's not an affair.
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Love is stronger for the only virtue of sex is love. Without love, sex is merely a weapon of destruction.\n Love has a profound affect on sex. The opposite is not true for Love can, and often does, survive and even thrive, without sex.\n The elderly, or when a mate is incapacitated there is still Love without sex. And the Love seems to grow and nurture.\n Sex without Love becomes a sick, empty and selfish exercise.
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youre right when you say it's a neverending question with never a concrete answer to be had... all youre going to get are a bunch of other peoples opinions. Personally my own opinion is that if you get married, it becomes your duty to figure out what kind of sexual routine is satisfactory for the both of you. It's completely not fair and cruel for people to withhold sex, but at the same time, it's not fair for people to demand sex. That's why you need to communicate before hand. what you would be satisfied with. Some couples are fine with it being once or twice a week, and some prefer more. It all depends on the couple. For your other question, why do women want it less? I think it's because they have less of a sex drive-less testosterone and lets admit it, less chance of orgasm through sex alone so it's less of a motivation for them to have sex everyday. For women sex is generally a way to express love but for men, sex is just an activity. Most women can sense when their man just wants to f*ck them and I'm sure they don't mind this most of the time but generally they prefer sex to be about love and affection and closeness. I guess that's hard for men to understand, and it's hard for women to understand that men just see it as an activity sometimes separate from love. That's why the sexes need to communicate and sympathize with each other.
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Sex is also a natural process that all of us animals have to undergo... But being a human and being in a cuvulized society we have to think about sex in a different way...\nIt is alright to get crazy about sex... but dont be addictive... cos you will loose your respect for relationships and other kind of human interactions if Sex is the first thing that come to your mind when you see people... SO be careful...
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Love and Sex are totally different entity.\n\nLove is something which will last forever. Its a feeling. Related to heart. A dedicated, pleasant experience. There will be sometimes in Love relationship you will get lot of pain. But still you will hang on, because you love.\n\nSex is an action. Its a pleasure, and for Fun. Its what you think. Related to mind. A human body is programmed to have SEX. The purpose of a Man & Woman, and the whole human generation depends on this ecstatic, pleasure activity between two people. \n\nWhen you are denied of sex, you will not feel that bad. You can masturbate and sleep well.According to me,  the most sexiest organ in a human body is MIND. But when you are denied of love, you don't get sleep. \n\nSo Love is more powerful, and precious than SEX. You might get a chance to have intercourse with many, but if you didn't gain even a single person to truly love you, any case, then there is no point in Living.
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Because we are still way too Victorian.  Once upon a time (I've told this story before, a long time ago, sex was considered normal....as normal as eating, sleeping, etc...a part of life.  However, it was denigrated by Christians in the past as evil.  Making something forbidden and evil corrupts it.  People abuse it.  Just like eating.  If one has no issues with food, there is no problem.  But food issues causes problems like anorexia, bulimia, obesity, etc.  I like to blame a lot of this on christian because they deny the body thinking only issues of the soul are good.  But we are body and soul.  It is only in acceptance of our body that we become balanced (by the way I know it is not just Christians that do this but they have done so much to destroy peace of mind regarding this.)   Question for uptights:  Who do you think invented sex?  Do you think God did?  And if he/she did, why is it we have that strong urge even when we are alone and without are partner?  Didn't God invent that too?
199777
Love doesn't always involve sex.  Some people don't need sex to be in a healthy relationship.  It just adds a lot of fun and spice into your relationship.  You don't NEED it, but it's still nice.
439366
Love is a much deeper, stronger emotion than just sex. Now sex with the person you love is a different story...thyere's nothing better.
404364
More IMPORTANT?  Love by a landslide!  Sex without love is, well, sex and pretty common and easy to get.  Love, on the other hand, is unique, special and hard to come by or keep.  Love will weather storms, overcome all odds, wrap you up in your own special cocoon.  Sex will satisfy only the most basic need, which is gratify, either oneself or another.  Sex will not weather any storms, will not wrap you up in your own special cocoon and will overcome nothing but where and when.  Love without sex, depends on the relationship.  Since sex is really not used in all love relationships, such as a Mother's love for her child, a child's love for its parents, the love of your life, your soulmate might be a sexual love, but if you only included the sexual aspect, would you say "he was the sexual love of my life"?  NO!  You say "He was the love of my life".  While sex and love can be separated, sex without love is really worth very little, and love with sex is worth more money than you will ever have!  And who can discount the love of ones Mother?  A good Mothers love can overcome a lot of shortcomings in a childs life.  Ok, so now you have my 2 cents worth of whats more important to me.  Good question!
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Love doesn't usually go with sex. BUt most of the time a deeply shared intimacy with those 2 people is ometimes more than enough. Most women ... do need some kid of assurance that they are doing something this intimate with somebody that actually cares about them. Sex shouldn't be something that happens to 2 people just because it happens...usually 2 people have a certain chemistry towards each other,sometimes it's something they both admire in each other.I'm not really an advocate of just have sex if you feel like it...if it's going to happen,it has to be because I would like to share that wonderful experience with that person because I feel that he is someone special but necessarily someone I'm inlove with...I think love would follow but you never know.
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Both women and men want sex. Some more than others. For myself, I love sex obviously but only when it is with someone i am comfortable with and love. IE I want the relationship aspect and the sex will then come. I;m not just out for sex.
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God loves us and wants us to be happy and full of joy.\nSex involves much more than exercising our genitals.\nIt also involves our emotions. Just look around at all the sadness and heart ache that people suffer when a sexual relationship ends. God wants to spare us that pain so he gave us guidelines to follow. If we follow His advice we will have less sadness and more joy in our lifetime.