I DON'T WANT HER 2 GET HURT ANYMORE
134450
baby gurl i don't know where 2 begin but i do know u need 2 convince her 2 leave him cauze if she don't it will get worse. i can understand how both of yall feel, i went wit dis boy who wazz real abusive towards me and all my gurls kept tryin 2 tell me 2 break up wit him but i kept denying tha way he wazz treatin me and it got even worse if it wasn't for my best friend i could be dead right now so i'm telling u don't give up on her keep talkin 2 her and giving her reasons why she should leave him i can understand how she feels but she can do betta den dat cauze no matter how much she loves him she can do betta all dat ain't worth it she should be giving her luv 2 someone who luvs her back and treats her right so please keep tryin and tell her she can do betta and she deserves betta and if u know dis boy PLEASE tell him dat kokoa butta said " Don't u know a womans worth?"
53247
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".
225862
tell her that u don't want to be friends with her anymore. u don't want a friend that jokes around too much and goes to far and threatens to beat u up and ur friend and does beat y'all up. tell her that a TRUE FRIEND doesn't do that and that a TRUE FRIEND is suppossed to respect others' feelings and not beat them up. u can tell ur counselor and or/ someone else that u really trust. GOOD LUCK!
168250
hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
541795
I think at times when people talk about feelings they kind of shy away from it cause of fear of getting hurt. You may have to just be patient with her for now. Good things do come to those who wait.
641658
Just love her and be patient with her. Tell her that you believe in her and that she isn't any of those things, and that you think she is wonderful. Emotional scars take time to heal.
228025
HEY HONEY NEEDLESS TO SAY I HAVE ONE LIKE THAT TOO..BEST ADVICE....LEAVE IT ALONE, YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW SHE IS YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE THE ONE TO GET HURT!!!DROP IT LIKE ITS HOTTTTTT...
37115
prove to her u won't give her anymore problems.\nstop talking bout it, and be about it!
149004
I've been there mate, sorry to say it, but she's taking you for a ride. She's using you when she find's it convenient. Sever this "relationship" before it breaks you in two. If she's willing to treat you like that, she's not worth it. She obviously doesn't have a high regard for your feelings, because if she did, she would have got with you totally, or not at all. Sorry to say it mate, but break this one up now, please. I know how painful it will eventually be if you don't.
171550
That's very scary. That should be your sign to get out of this relationship before this girl seriously hurts you.
387699
go for it im sure she will get over it. Just becareful cuz maybe he is just on the rebound from her and you dont need to get hurt.
317214
you dont want i chick that would leave another guy for you..that mean it could happen to you if u got her...let her go
185649
first of all, pretty stupid move. but whats done is done, right? u should try telling her that u never meant to hurt her and that u were just kidding around.
189551
That's not right if she hits you. Let her know that you love her and you don't understand why she would want to hurt you. If you can't talk to her about it, you definitely need some outside help. Counselor, or maybe even a friends mother; maybe she could intervene. you don't deserve to be hit, no one does.
469442
move on, dont take her calls anymore
140730
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!
411118
Refuse to get caught up in it. If her feelings are hurt, apologize and move on. If she persists for more, walk away. People like that are emotionally draining. Don't let her make you feel guilty for protecting yourself.