Okay guys, and mabe girls..?\nSo, there's this guy at school. He tries to get me to notice him sometimes, it's kind of like he likes me. I like him off an on. I think he does like me. How should I get him? And, what should I do? \nAand, we've never talked. He's really hot too, and looks a little bit out of my league. Not that much though.\nAnd, it's not really "off and on". I liked him at the first of the year, then stuff happend, now I like him again.\n.........How do I strike a conversation without it being totally awkward.
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try arranging to 'run into him" kinda. find out someplace you know he might be and try to show up at the same time. " oh, hey. what are you up to, i know it's been a minute since i said what's up, but, um, what's up ?" just try to be confident, don't be too nervous or you'l fer sure slip on the dufus rag. good luck, man-and remeber this-no one is out of anyone's league. I don't know what you look like, and it doesn't even matter. if YOU believe in you, most everyone else will, too. If YOU do evrything you can to FEEL attractive, most people will think that you are, too.i hope you rope yer cowboy, hun. good luck.
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awww this is so cute!\nActually, the best advice i can give is to spend more time with him and get to be friends or at least aquaintances first. If he does the akward staring thing, chances are he wants to talk to you but might be shy. Its never a piece of cake to tell someone you like them but its a bit easier when youve taken some time to talk to them and get to know them. Subtle flirting, like smiles, glances and giggles can go a long way too. and who knows? after some time, maybe he'll be the one stepping up to you! :)
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If the boy stares at you more than other girsl he is trying to get you to notice him.  Next time you catch his eye go sit down next to him and start up a conversation about school.\n\nIf this works you can move the conversation  to the fun things you like to do and whether you should go out together.
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i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
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I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
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well i was once in a situation like this.. maybe call him and tell him your feelings( thats how i did) or ask him to talk to you after school about something without his friends.. \nthen if he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt... \n\ndon't listen to that first guy or the one that said 'flirt flirt flirt' ,,... im still very close friends with the guy /best friend i went out with.  we went out like... 2 years ago.. and im still best friends with him, talk to him all the time, his friends and my friends sit at the same table for lunch... went trick or treating with him and his friends and mine..and i didn't flirt with him either..  so don't listen to 'dat wangsta soundin' guy ' (aka the first guy dat talkedid like diss) or the big flirt one   \n(sorry you two if i offended you)
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I would just casually flirt with him at school and talk about guy things to him and if you can cook, invite him for dinner one evening. that always works. Then reel him in.
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well u should try to stop him in the hall and try to say hi\nalso when u see him try to flirt a little \njust make sure its not too much\nalso see if there is another activity that he does that u can go into \njust make sure u like that certain activity \neven though u don't see him anymore in that class \nsee if u can get his number so u can call him sometime\nand u guys can chat \nwhoa that was alot \nhope u get him to notice u and i hope that was good advice
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maria and eric sitting on a tree.....\n\njk, it seems to be that he likes you. When a guy stares at you in class there IS some level of attraction going on. He probably doesn't know how to approach you in that way though, let him know that you're available if thats what you want. \nhow do you do that? you first need to get his phone number and work the nerve to call him just to talk and get intimate with your conversation to develope the attraction you both have for each other. Hang out and do things other than school work. Go to the movies or a theme park. Goodluck!
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do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
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For one, how do you know you love him? It sounds to me like you are deeply attracted to him, but it's not love. The reason why I say that is because I am getting the deep impression that you have just looked at this guy and what not. \n\nOkay...so you are really interested in this guy. Start with a simple "hi how are you?" that is usually a good ice breaker. He may be a little shy at first but start trying to add into the conversation by asking various questions such as How is everything going and so on. If you are in school still ask him about what kinds of classes he takes. You know things like that. You will never get to know a person by just staring at them, you have to break the ice by not being so afraid to talk to them.
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You should show him that you like him.You should flirt with him every once and awhile,but dont rush anything.And dont stop talking to him or flirting with him,or he might think you dont like him.
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i think i answered this question for your friend on her own question but anyway...\nif she really likes him, and she thinks he will accept her, then just casually start to talk to him during class or soemthing. be a friend first, then start to hang out with him more and more, then just brake it to him, and say how much you like him . hope i helped
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You can always make the first move by approaching him and just introducing yourself. I know this might sound cheesy, but how else are you going to know if he's interested in you unless one of you makes the first move? Hope this helps and good luck :)
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just tell him that u really like him but make it clear to him that u dotn want it going arounf school what u guys do...and question? if he is ur b.f whats so bad about kissing him in school? and having people findout? thats not badd
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Talk to him girl! The key is FLIRT simple as that! My crush and I flirt ALL the time. Were basicly hooked. Ya see: My boy likes me and he shows that by leaning close, putting an arm around me and compliments me alot. For a girl most of them (including me) would need to be super extra confident and sure to make the first move. So if you want to interact with him heres how I would do it. I play with him ALL the time and like get near him and email and text him sometimes. U gotta take a BIG step and beleive. I know a dork at my school. So he asked to most cutest girl in school out. She slapped him and said get away for me and walked over and kissed to most hottest guy (to her) in school. IT WAS SO FUNNEY!!!!!
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Well, thats the same problem with me.But I mean exactly the same problem. Don't hang around him too much because he'll know that u like him. So what i would do, just tell him, "Hey, What's up?" and start a conversation with him to make him feel comfortable. Then ask, "Last year, we had good times. We talked a lot but why don't you speak to me anymore?" And then he might answer your question. But one thing i would like to clear to you, is about your best friend. My friend Brenda does the same thing:Wants every guys attention as possible. What you should do, join sports programs,drama club,etc to become popular and eventually, your crush might like you IF you did something good in basketba or any type of sport. Dont be nervous. Try it!