I am dating one and people seem to shy away from me when they find out what he does.
122759
Yes i am. I dont care if i am driving down the street and not speeding or doing anything wrong... i still feel like oh my gosh look straight, make sure im not swirving in the least, make sure i am not going even one mile over. i do not know why i am like this but i am. i have been pulled over for a burnt out tailight and i had a panick attack.LOL. im serious though i did. i also got pulled over for speeding and no joke i cried. not to get out of it, i was only 17 and it was the first time i had been pulled over. i think he really felt bad for me so he did let me go but honestly i didnt cry to get out of it im just an emotional person.
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i think that you need ot talk to him about it i don't think it would be a bad thing for you to dateother people and you can tell him that you well wait until he is ready for a relationship.but don't put your self on hold. and maybe once you start dating other people he might come around to the fact that he wants to be with you and not let no one eles have you. so try that and see i know it sounds stupid. but you never know it might work. GOOD LUCK
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You might want to really consider a relationship with this person.  That he dated your mother, previously, and now that you are dating him, makes for situation in which he has to operate with some deception.  I wouldn't worry if he was straightforward with you but given that you suspect he lied to you and you haven't discussed this with him, you're relationship might be in trouble.  If you aren't able to communicate to him freely and he with you, then you will need to reconsider your relationship.  Is he lying to you?  Most likely he is, but you have to ask him yourself. Consider the state of your communications in your relationship and consider his answer to your suspicions.  It will tell.  If he comes clean then its ok.  If not, then you might want to consider other options before getting more involved.  Good luck, cheers!
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Give up on that person. Who cares. They don't like you for some reason but they don't know you or appear to know you or see you and know that you are there. It has happened to me before, I gave up cuz to him i appeared to be invisable. So yea he doesn't know what he is missin out on.
304948
well it sounds like your not as attached as you thought try a trial separation and date others if that doesn't bother you then its time to move on.
62996
I think he is afraid of the reaction other people would have if he told you that. Some people really do talk when they hear about relationships. Summing it all up; can it be fear?
195888
I'd date him at least once... Sometimes people seem boring, but they are only shy, and they losen up with some time. If he did bore me out of my mind though, I  would not go on a 3rd date with him.
165244
Maybe He The Shy Type or Maybe The Reason why He Doesn't Jump At Ya Is Cause He Respects You . There Are Number Of reasons why he not what he use to be but there also Way To Get Him Thought You Could Wear Something Nice And Could Take Him To A Sex Doctor And There He Or She Can Give You "Ideas" But If Anything Just Tell Him Your Lust Is Killing You
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were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
70152
Some guy feel the need to act like that in front of other people. Ask him if he could try to include you more next time your around other people. If there's another date request a private one, were he won't have anyone else to act up for.
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it's a subconscious reaction to being treated poorly. I'm guilty of it too, however men and women do this. I dated a guy that REFUSED to trust me because he'd had an ex cheat on him. Every time I was out later than expected or didn't answer the phone, he'd throw a fit. Women do the exact same thing. When past experiences were out of your control, you do a complete 180 and try to control everything. If you are dating someone who will not trust you no matter what, it can also be a sign that they're not trustworthy. You have to go with gut instinct about things like that. If it doesn't feel right, and you're more upset than not around the person, you may want to get out of the situation. Of course I would suggest having a real conversation about it a few times before throwing her to the curb.
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yeah it's normal to find things about the person your dating ...that are annoying or "get on your nerves"...no big deal.\nif if bothers you that much then just ask the dude..."hey, what bugs ya so much?"
160876
Shy people like to feel comfortable by talking to you about things they know a lot about.  Overhear him, check out what he is reading on....figure out something he is the master of and I guarantee that shell will fall off.  Common personality trait that people don't always understand is shyness and the ease shy people feel with their comfortable subjects.  I always try to talk to them about their job, their dog, something personal - not Cambodia, either...I would not talk to him about that...more about his career, sports, something he really digs...just my advice!  Always works on boys or girls for me!
608714
Yeah im dating one now, hes not gay but he acts a bit feminine at times. We're actually really close and get along seriously well, I get along better with him then any of my other boyfs...hes just an all around nice guy...and an amazing kisser too
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I have no clue. That seems pretty odd though. He shouldn't even bother if he is shy to date.
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ok...god does not dislike someone because he knows they are gonna go out and commit a crime....he in fact gives them the bennifit of the doubt..and sees if they will do the right thing..what i'm saying is..dont judge a book by its cover..if you really dont want him no more...then dont talk to him he will get the hint..if you do like him then dont be afraid to try something new..try dating him if he is nice then continue..if he is not...then chances are someone will be jealouse that you gave him a shot and not them...now you have guys waiting in line for you if he is a jerk
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uuuggghhh dont u hate that... mine does that too.\nif it is an opportunity that affects me greater, i tell him my opinion, and after him not showing interest, i proceed as i think i should, if it affects him more, i give him my opinion but don't get too involved. He thinks I'm his secretary or something, like i can make all the desicions on my own, even dinner (E V E R Y night)\nGOOD LUCK GIRL!