If so and you get it right everytime...please tell me ... WHAT DO YOU DO? by yourself or with your partner...more specifically how do you have one with ur bf??? Cuz I've heard that most women dont have orgasms from intercourse but from self pleasure...so ...is this true?
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For me, I don't get an orgasm from self pleasure.  I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I almost always have an orgasm.  The deeper the better, for me at least.  That's why I like top.  I've also heard of putting your hands on her lower abdomen and pushing all the way up her body.  Hmm, sounds good off I go! LOL J/K
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Be honest with your partner. You're only fooling yourself. Not every woman can have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. There are many other ways to help orgasm. If it's harder for you to reach orgasm, you and your partner should spend more time on you before penetration. And here's a thought, masturbate WITH him. Guarantee you'll have one that way. If not, you'll sure have fun trying.\n Betcha he won't mind either. Come clean now before it gets too deep.
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Try new things... \n\nBut one thing that I have learned over the years is that if you play with yourself you will know what turns you on... That way you can give him little hints on what to do to get you off. \n\nAnother tip is that when you do reach an orgasm think to yourself what is going on??? are you breathing less or more? Are you taking long slow breaths or quick and fast? are you playing with your clitorus??? (some women that is the only way they can orgasm.) If the last is the case you can train yourself to orgasm without as much clitoral stimulation.... When your having sex with your man. get into the doggy style possition and let him play with your clitorus... After a while your body will associate the other stimulation with orgasm also.
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I usualy have no need to fake an orgasm becuz my boyfriend and i are fantastic together. \nI will be honest i have done it once or twice simply for the reason that my boyfriend also likes 2 wait for me as  long as he can and sometimes if im just to tired and i cant get into it i will fake so that he doesnt stop himself from enjoying it (if i dont orgasm he doesnt want to either cuz he thinks its not fair for himself to have without me).  \nIt doesnt happen often and even if i have to fake the orgasm i still enjoy being with my partner & the fact that he enjoyed hmself is more than enuff for me.
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They are amazing...The first time I ever had an orgasm was when my husband and I made love after we had an argument...I laughed I cried but most of all I felt closer to husband. He's the only man who has ever given me an orgasm.
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Have you ever had an orgasm on your own? Meaning, have you ever tried a vibrator or anything else to bring yourself to orgasm? If you have, then I'd suggest talking to your boyfriend and asking him how he'd feel about incorporating "toys" in the bedroom. One thing I'd highly recommend, since it's almost foolproof, is using a vibrator on your clitoris while your boyfriend goes in from behind, doggie style. This way, he can penetrate you fully and you're in position to have access to your clitoris without getting in each other's way.\nMost importantly now....NO, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. I had sex for the first time when I was 16, and to be totally honest, I didn't have my frist real orgasm until I was around 24 (I'm 31 now). It's frustrating, I know, especially because it seems to happen so easily for the guys. Trust me though, when it does happen for you, and it WILL, it'll be well worth the wait. ;) For now, just try and relax and not think about trying to acheive an orgasm...the more pressure you put on yourself, the harder it'll be to have one. When you relax, you might surprise yourself.\nHope this helps you out. Good luck! :)
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NOT MANY WOMEN HAVE VAGINAL ORGASMS.....I WOULD BE SECURE IN SAYING THAT 99 PERCENT OF WOMEN NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TO HAVE AN ORGASM....IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR A LESBIAN................
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I have the same problem...my bf is like that...he thinks it's a serious thing, I think it's because he feels like if I do that then he isn't satisfying me himself, so it's kind of letting himself down. That's all that I can come up with.
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Well, I am afraid and embarrassed to say that I have to go with Sarah Barret! I am not fully aware of what an orgasm is. I feel so dumb! I know it's a climax a woman has while she is having sex, but what causes it and how do you know you are having one? I would like it if you could take time out and email me so I might have a damn clue what all this means. Thanks...
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I can tell you that alot of woman DO NOT have orgasims from intercourse.. some woman can only climax from  forplay or ORAL stimulation! but you also might try a c.o.c.k ring with a marble on it.. it rubs your clit. while you have sex! I think it would help!
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I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
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I have a bf like this and it is very liberating for me to be on the other side. But it is only role playing and I definitely like for him to be controlling too. I have had orgasms doing it and it is about the domination I believe. He loves it. What ever two consenting adults want they should have..Live and let live....
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Babe, I masturbate maybe once a month. When my Bf is on his business trip, my other bf(rabbit vibrator) pays me a visit...he's always welcome!
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RELAX. Don't worry. Out of the ladies I met, more than 50% of them have this problem. My solution is, have longer oral sex, say for example an hours oral sex. Ask ur b/f to suck your entire body especially ask him to spend more time licking ur private parts. ask him to penetrate his tongue deep into ur private part. I bet surely u will get orgsm.. there after have internal sex. again u will get orsm..
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Orgasms with sex didn't happen for me until I got a little older, more comfortable with my own body, in tune with my own sexuality, and finding what worked for me and going after it, and practice of course.\n\nRead this, good advice:\n\nhttp://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html\n\nAlso, just my opinion, but stop faking it.  You don't do you or your partner any favors by faking it.
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everyone is different.Some women never orgasm at all.Some women only orgasm through external stimulation some only through penetration.You just got lucky. Wish it was that easy for me
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Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!