Well, I'm in 5th grade and I don't know what to do. Here's more details from before. Someone asked for more details. I really have no boobs whatsoever and I don't think it's nice to say something like that to me because I can't take it. I'm just a dumb blonde and all of the guys like me. At the carnival, he came up and told me right to my face "You have Boobs" and he and his friend Sam went away laughing at me and I feel so sad. It's like being told you're fat. You don't want to hear it but you still have to accept it. Someone answered and told me that he was trying to make me feel good but he wasn't and he was trying to make fun of me and I don't like it when people make fun of me. It annoys me so bad. Please tell me what I can do. Please! Thanks a lot!
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that freak has no respect for girls whatsoever..just look around u...u have so many answerers to support u. and he has no one except his nuch of cronies wholl eventually stab his bak. I know u hav to accept it. but u know what? accept it and use all those insuklts and mockery to tuffen up urself. I felt the same way too when people used to hit me and take my money away. i felt like killing myself and them...btu then i realised that they r not worth it.vermin like him r here to be ignored.And u arent sum dumb blond. Any more probs feel free to ask me personally, i am always hereto help people out.Keep ur chin up girl  ^_^
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If you didn't want anyone to know, you just told everybody!  Sounds like you are needing attention.  This girl is giving you plenty of it!  Take it as a compliment.  I had several girls like that at my school.  Some would make fun of me, then start doing the same things...others would just stare at me...and do the same things....She looks up to you!  Give her a chance!
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Ok. So I was 13 and i went to a slumber party which wsas  a boy-girl one. And we had fun but at the end of the night we played a game. The person who drew a 6 out of a hat had to dance naked with a boy who choose 7. I choose 6! I removed my bra and underwear infront of 16 girls and 18 boys! suddenly slow music came on and i had 2 dance with my crush naked! Everyone spread a rumer about how big and sexy my boobs were! that was soooo embarrrassong! \n\nAnother one: When we were playing truth or dare and i had to \njump in the pool naked. but when i returned they took my clothes and threw them away! \n\n3rd one: when my bra fell on the ground and the boys used it as sling shots!
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1) I'm straight, so ... boys\n\n2) neither- water is best\n\n3) EEEEWW! I feel sorry for her! You are soooo mean to make fun of her! I'd pick her- she's got to be a nicer person than you!!
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It's not fun, I know how you feel.\nYou just have to learn to not care.\nIt's tough...and I know it's a lot easier to say then do.\nSo what if they find out? If they treat you any differently, then they aren't good friends and don't deserve to have you as a friend.\nAnd if you are worried about people like, making fun of you or something, then just know that the only reason they are making fun of you is to raise thier own self-esteem, and that you are better then that.\nTry and take pride in being irregular, then again, I'm not sure exactly why you're irregular, but ya.\nIf it still bothers you, talk to the teachers about it, and ask them if maybe there is some way you could be called on the normal roll call.\n\n\nI hope that I helped. ^_^
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Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
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I first want to say this...being in middle school tells me you are an early teenager.  Being a teenager is quite challenging in itself and doesn't seem to be easier when your peers "make fun of you."  Let's say this - there is so much time ahead of you for boyfriends that one day you'll wonder why you were even worried about this at all.  I have a son who is probably the same age as you and I'll tell you something, the girls are always makeing googoo eyes at him and he likes them back, the funny thing is this..HE IS TOO SCARED TO CALL THEM!  I SWEAR TO IT!  He has even told me he is scared to call them!  So, it may not be that they don't like you, it could possibly be that they are chicken!\n\nIn addition, so much will change for you in the next 4-5 years you won't believe it!  Your mind and thought processes will change drastically, your body will begin to change, your friends will begin to change, and everyone will be going through this all at the same time!\n\nDon't sit around feeling sorry for yourself because you don't have a boyfriend.  One day you will wish you had time to yourself and that you didn't have to deal with the hassel of having a relationship.  Trust me when I say this....but your time will come.  Just worry about being yourself and doing the things that you love to do without feeling you need someone else like a boy to make you complete.  Look out for #1...and #1 is you!\n\nI know it is easier said than done, but let me tell you, everyone was a teenager once..including us parents.  And we liked the opposite sex and we all wanted boyfriends or girlfriends, the funny thing is, none of us were ever brave enough to say to someone that we liked them!  So just sit back, relax and let things be the way that they are and just be yourself!  And if your friends still make fun of you, just sit back and watch them...they'll be heartbroken before you know it.  Relationships in the teen years are really what I call "practice for the real ones you will have as an adult."  Meaning it won't last now, but in the future you will have gained more knowledge and insight into what real relationships are all about and knowing what you expect from another person.  \n\nIf you feel that strongly about being made fun of, talk to your parents.  They are there for a reason...to help you grow up!  And never underestimate how your parents would or could understand you...again, we were all teenagers once ourselves.\n\nSMILE!  IT MAKES PEOPLE WONDER WHAT YOU ARE SO HAPPY ABOUT!
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You shouldn't let them do this to you. It was just a game and you didn't do that because you wanted to, it was a dare! You should tell your friend that you really love that he shouldn't get mad at you because of a game, and you should also tell the other guy that he shouldn't be mad at you either its not like he's got something you want, because it was just a game. Make sure that you let them see that you are above it all, you did what they dared you to do and you shouldn't get punished for it. The boy you really like will come around, just make sure to be really nice and friendly to him, but don't make it seem like you are feeling bad about what happen. Remember, it was just a game!
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Yeah, I went through that 6th-8th grade. It just feels like everyone hates you. You are an easy target. I had to change schools, my behavior and appearance to find my will to live, and friends. DON'T let others judge your self-worth. Who are they anyway? Everyone is equal.\n\nI heard that people who feel bad about themselves enjoy making other people feel low, so they can feel better about themselves. See how it works?\n\nIgnore them. Only God will love you unconditonally because he understands you inside and out. Draw close to him and ask for friends who will love you for you,
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are you kidding?!?!? lol you have asked this question 5 times so far, all of them are just worded differently. now you have become a slut about it lol too funny. if your begging for someone to come go out with you and telling them that they can do anything to you....you either desperate, fat or ugly......williing to bet that your at least too of those.....kind of feel bad for you right now.
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My heart goes out to you. It must be hard to hear what you have described. \n\nI feel scared for you if your Mom is saying you are fat at a size 0 and you are starting to believe her. This sounds like possible emotional abuse. If she means you no harm, then it sounds like an attitude from someone who has Anorexia . It is a very difficult, yet treatable condition if the person seeks help. No matter what your Mom says or does, I hope you see a school counselor or doctor about this very soon for your own safety. They can help you find out if you have Anorexia, and can help you if some verbal / emotional abuse is going on. \n\nI've met some people who don't have an eating disorder and genuinely cannot gain weight even when they try to. This is natural and nothing to be ashamed of. A professional can help you find some answers. \n\nI wish you the best.
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I would apologize to the girls for thinking of them as objects (boobs, tushes, etc).  Tell them you know that you were insensitive & will try not to be in the future.  Also, why not ask them to let you know in the future if you do say something insensitive again as you want to learn how to improve. That way they'll really know that you mean it.
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Do YOU think you're fat? If you don't, then the coach is probably using the same tired old tactics that cheer and gymnastics coaches all over the world have been using for years. Ignore her and go on being happy. How can you be a good cheerleader without being happy?
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what do you mean "im always wishign i would go back to having a normal chest?" what did ya do to your chest to say that? or was it that you just jambled up your words .. anyways\n\ndont worry about it! your only 13! give yourself a few more years.. wait 'till about 16 .. then you'll really start getting boobs .. trust .. i wasnt very big at 13 and i kinda lost confidence in myself 'cause of it ... but i was just a late bloomer. Now im 15 and im pretty happy with my size .. im not liek super huge or anything but its better than nothing right?I'm still growing too ... you're going to do the same ... and you shouldnt wish you where bigger at 13 'cause my best friend was an early bloomer and she went through heck .. 'cause as you are growing, and losing control over your hormones,  guys are starting to lose control over their hormones too .. and give you unwanted attention like completely staring are your boobs and not your face .. completely talkign to you like your a piece of meat .. not a person ... and sayign very hurtful things .. i felt so bad for her i seriously wanted to beat some of them up!!!! so just relax and dont worry so much about it 'cause they're coming .. so dont stress ^_^ i know its hard not to .. but good things come with time\n\nhope i helped ya out some
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I am 20, 5'4" 110lbs and I'm just barely an A cup. I have also been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he loves them. I get hit on often, even though I have a small chest. When I was in high school I was much more self conscious and had lower self esteem. My boyfriend has helped me learn to love my body, and I think that's what you need to do. Be happy you have a small chest! You don't have to worry about them getting in the way with sports or getting nasty floppy when you get old! Trust me... learn to love your body, and find people who love you for who you are. Not only because you have fake boobs. A lot of people will have more respect for you for being real and having small boobs, than being fake and having big boobs.
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Whether you are skinny or fat no one should make fun of your size. By your measurements, you are not fat. Don't worry about your size, as long as you're confident with yourself you shouldn't worry about what others say. If you have a problem with what you're boyfriend is saying, talk to him. If he has an issue with your weight then he doesn't deserve a great girl like you!
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It's not as big of a deal as you think, I'm sure of it. This is probably what happened: You're a curious 13-year-old girl, who like any girl your age, is curious about your developing body. I'm sure your friend is too and that's why this event occurred in the first place. It seems like harmless, non-sexual touching between two kids. After you had time to think about what happened you felt guilty because of the religious beliefs your mom probably raised you with. You immediately became fearful because you realized how shocked your mom would be if she learned you had touched another girl's breasts. That's why your mind is now racing with thoughts of getting caught and scolded. Fear always puts things out of perspective and I'm sure that's what's happening here. Think of it like this... Does your friend want her mom to find out either? Most likely not. So why would she tell on you? My advice is to relax and not worry yourself so much. You did not sin, you were simply acting like a 13-year-old girl. I did a lot of silly things when I was 13 too. If it still bothers you try talking the situation out with your friend. She could be just as freaked out about the same stuff as you are! Maybe you can both agree to forget the incident(s) and move on. Above all, don't feel guilty.