i was talking to a guy for about 6 months now valentines was just around the corner about a week anyways i seen a big i meen big valentines card so i acked like i never seen it so as the week whent by i layed waitin to see if it was for me, but you see if you are a women you will feel it and i felt it that card was not for me becase on the day i never got it \nam i rong for leting him go?
130969
How old are you? Everyone should fall in love ay least once.But beware,there is alot of cheats,liars,and dogs out there just waiting for that naive girl to play into their laps.
127262
i think u should talk to him about it and tell him how u feel, if it seems like he doesn't care then don't go for it but he apologizes and is caring and looks like hes changed then i wouldn't be able to resist. this is a tough situation to be in and with all the advice you can from here its still your heart you should be listening to.
217169
girl i've been there and done that. I think the best thing is to just let him talk to you. If he already knows how you feel then i would just let it go for now.  If its meant to be then it will be
313627
I think you should tell him how you feel about him once again and if he don't respond to you then maybe you should move on because if he can't get over this the truth is it would be hard to make a relationship work with him anyway there would be trust issues i believe speaking from experience. So tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If he don't respond then maybe you should try to find someone else and stop waiting for this guy.
480119
The idea, in hindsight, appears logical and the answer seems clear.  Anyone would likely say "Just wait" if they could be assured that her love would be waiting for him after that time.  But the real issue here is this:  Would you have still felt the same?  What if you'd waited for her and, in so doing, denied yourself the chance to find love with someone who was ready?  We cannot know the future.  All we can do is live each day the best way we can and enjoy every bit of happiness that we are lucky enough to find.
489951
if it's only been a month, it's probably not that big of a deal\nand he might not care for you like you want him too right now.\nmaybe he'll come around.\nsounds kind of pointless to pursue him, but good luck
17490
could be.. you might just play the uninterested card for awhile\n\n let him make the next move.. \n\npeople get bored and aggrivated with both nagging.. or blaint flaunting \n\nhe will really think about' the chance he has or may have front of him.. if he doesn't hear from you.\n\nbut if you keep letting him know.. he probably will lose interest.. most people want something they have to earn or put some effort into.. aleast that how I am. \n\ngood luck
342650
Leave this guy now.  He wouldn't be wandering off for a week at a time and giving you a lame story.  Regardless of how bad his luck has been, he'd consider your feelings if he cared about you.  This guy is a jerk!
140253
I think you should just walk away hun, I know it hurts but I was in a similair situation and he ended up finding someone to date and left me hanging on, and i held onto him for too long and it hurt even worse, at least this way you can get back to your life and finding that one for you, and come back with some of your heart. I just hate to see you hang on liek this and then if he leaves you for someonelse have you left brokenhearted and left to pick up the pieces.
563556
Maybe it's the fact that I'm a little older.  But I feel that when a man has doubts about his feelings for me, then it's best that I leave him alone with his feelings.  I refuse to let a man keep me dangling and waiting.  Is it worth the wait, possibly?  But I can't wait forever and so I continue moving on with my life.  If he comes around then great, if not then I know it's not meant to be.
408200
That all depends!  I would be too hurt and mad to even consider it right away.  You sound like you know what you want to do.  We have our own opinion so I say follow your heart.  If you do give it another try and it happens again, then by all mean do not do it again.
608610
I deeply reason with you girl but I strongly believe that you have not yet stumbled on the man for you. I think you should still open up your heart and be ready to love again, but this time do more of the study at the initial stage and promise you will find a man who will respect your principles as well as love you. Just open up your heart and real love will come your way.
247725
Well, you definitely laid it all out there. I've gotten a few letters like this, and if there was still feelings, I would have gone back.\n\nI say send it. If he has feelings for you, he'll be back. If not, you can start looking for someone who deserves you.\n\nGood Luck!
289043
If you arent feeling that, then tell him NO, no more goodies for him.   I am a big proponent in NOT trying to change someone, so if someone doesnt have feelings for me, then I go with that instead of trying to hope that they realize that they are missing out on a great person.  Its his loss anyways.  You probably have great goodies which is why he keeps coming back but yours arent for FREE...!
501629
I would just let him know how you feel.  Go after what you want dont wait for him.  If you want it go get it.
150309
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
228346
he was upset at u , he probably could have thought that u were just passing your time with him, not because u were interestedin him , because u had nothing better to do...maybe u should try telling him that u didn't mean it........