i had met a guy\ni treat him like a brother\nthen, he tell me that he likes me\nwhen i tell the truth that he was only a brother to me, he seems to disappear from my side\nwhat should i do???
135981
Give him time and space to get over what you told him.\nI'm sure that one day he will return .. as the brother you've always known him to be.
538526
You shouldn't wait another second to tell him about it. Know is the time and you should tell him exactly how you feel, cause you brother want care and will make sure he dosen't cheat on you are mess over you. S o your brother can look out for you.
387600
Just treat him as a little brother - ???
222189
Is this guy a friend of your brothers as how else would he be able to give you this advice.  I would think your brother would look out for your best interests and not want to see you hurt again, so he may just be right with his advice. But at the end of the day I wouldn't go there. If this guy wants you let him do all the work and prove himself to you. Your friends are probably the ones you turned to each time you have been hurt. The other question is how long will they continue to put up with seeing you being hurt.
525287
Hold on to your virtue sister.  It is ok to have him as a friend.  Better a friend than an enemy.  There was probably no hard feelings when he went his own way.  He probably still likes you but he is just a man who will get it any way he can.
53841
i use to be in that position. but we didnt keep it a secret, my brother didnt really mind, but one day he got wasted n fought my bf. then they stopped talkin to each other, but we stil went out, for a yr, then in da middle, they started to talk to each other. i say tell your brother, he might understand, and he might respect you guys for telling him straight.
49308
Maybe you should try to get to know him better, talk to him. If it is already at the point which you say it is, then it looks like he likes you. But just to be sure, you should talk to this person, for it is best to know the truth before anything else.
134327
Well, I think you should stay with the boyfriend. The brother-like guy will have to take a hike (not to be rude or anything). IF you say he is a guy friend, then he is his a guy friend. NOW if you have feelings for the guy friend, you need to do some serious thinking. But, if you just feel bad because he wants you and you don't him, you got to get used to letting people down.
483460
OMG....you have the EXACT same problem as me!!!!!  I get told all that stuff 2.  Just talk 2 the guy..he might be shy or intimated by u!! That's what i did and now that dude is my boy friend!!!\n                                 GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
169606
I THINK THAT IF YOU TOLD HIM YOU WOULD STAND BY HIM YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR WORD-BE LOYAL & FAITHFUL-AS FAR AS HIS PAST TRACK HISTORY-YOU WERE WITH HIM THEM...STICK WITH HIM NOW-I DONT KNOW THE KIND OF HISTORY HE HAS OR THE ADDITIONS U CANT HANDLE BUT-AGAIN IF U WERE DOWN FOR HIM BEFORE HE GOT LOCKED UP AND IT WAS EASY CUZ HE WAS @ & ALL OF A SUDDEN HE'S GONE FOR HOWEVERLONG DONT LET THAT TIME DISCOURAGE U BECAUSE U FEEL ALONE.
604845
deny it.\nif you can do it straight faced.\nthe brother wants you for himself.
582535
Getting your brother a date may prove difficult as we can't see him. He needs to get out of the house and search for himself.\n\nThat's the only way it's going to happen.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
271301
The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
603684
tell him the exact thing u just said.."i think of u as more of a cousin,sorry but can we still be friends like we were before?" u would not be hurting his feelings,but sometimes guys get wierd about that stuff and dont even want to talk to you anymore,but im sure if you have known scott that long it will be ok!
175911
Well he's your little brother and sounds like he's looking up to you and wanting to spend time with you.  There's nothing wrong with it at all.  When you want to go out and do your own thing explain it to him so he doesn't get hurt and hopefully he will understand.
49551
tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.