Ok, I've gotten really close to this guy, and we've been talking a lot lately. I've known him for a while and have just recently fallen for him. What's the best way to go about letting him know without being too upfront or pushy?
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Dont choose any of the above! I think I may be in the same boat as u, saying anything may drive him away...Plus, dont ever let a guy know u have something for him... Give it time, see what he likes and how he likes it and start getting him interested in u this way, by being what he likes..WITHOUT CHANGING URSELF (I hope u know what i mean)...BE caring but dont overdo it...let him feel how special u are in his life, let him feel he cant be more comfortable with anyone till e goes online and talks to u, then u can suggest a normal going out thing, no date i mean...LEt him do the rest if there will be any!\nGOOD LUCK ;)
601111
Just let him know-- he already has shown interest in you. Honesty has always been the best policy for me. It may embarrass you both but at least he will know how you feel and you will know how he feels about it too!
320129
you sound like a sweet person, and i have been where you are, i just told him i needed some space, that i had alot on my mind, nothing personal, but there are some things you need to work through. that seemed to work! oh yes tell him you really like him , but things are just going to fast. GOD BLESS and good luck:)
179814
just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
188117
guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
57880
You have to let him know you like him one way or the other. When I'm with a girl that I like I always look for a way to break the "touch barrier" I'm talking about mainly flirting and and also the first time you touch someone is the hardest after that it all rolls down hill from there. It sounds weird to talk about it like this but I'm only  talking about stuff like play punching. Also there is a proximity bubble we all have around are selves. I forgot what actually equates this space but we naturally know what it is. If you like some one and want to move further you need to break this barrier. If they are uncomfortable they will back up. if not they will embrace it. They could just sit there though. That is usually when you find out for sure if they are down or not. So that's just my two cents. Hope all goes well.
238047
You could try telling him you appreciate him as a friend and then move on to talk about someone you're interested in ...  I had to do this recently, and it did work, in a subtle sort of way... ;^)
68856
Hey, you like him, he likes you, right?  you jsut have to find a way to get "closer" to him without actually telling him personally.  just show it somehow-give signs-see what other people say, cause i'm no expert.  but if you like each other...I'm sure it'll work out great!
658829
Straight up is always the best way. And be direct, don't beat around the bush.\n\nExamples: Since we've been seeing each other have you been \n                   dating anyone else.
417061
For starters maybe you can say...."hey I know we just met but I really like you"!!\nThink about it....neither one of you would have agreed to have another date if you didn't like each other....\nIt's little things you can do to let him know you are interested without coming off too strong...but make sure you feel natural when doing these things!!  Maybe like brush your hand against his...be sure to make eye contact  this always helps ...remember to be natural...you know be yourself!
537678
You should just tell him.  I know it sounds simple, but it's the easiest and the best way.
385126
Hmmm... Alot of people will say, then just HINT him! Drop obvious hints to tell him you like him.\n\nIn my point of view, you can like ask him, to the activities you are orgranising, get him to help out.. or you can ask him out for coffee. Basically small gestures, saying hey I want to know you more, I am interested. Doing all these actions, also need not mean that you like him as well. As many close friends of mine will do this kind of invites, to ensure the friendship between each other is not broken.\n\nThe best option in my point of view, is to invite him out for shopping, with your friends or alone. Do be sure to get some of his friends, if you are going out with yours. If not it will be very strange for him.\n\nI hope that helps! Do Message me, if you have any other questions. \n\nCheers!
451205
i know this is gonna sound easier said then done.. but tell him that. if from talking you feel he's into you..ask him if he feels like more could come out of this then just a hook-up. if he feels the same way then great! and if not, well then you can move on or just keep it a random hook up. but seriously talk to him about it because you don't wanna have to end up wondering, "what if i said something?" because if you wait too long it might be too late. and the worst that can happen is him say that he doesn't want a relationship - but he's obviously into you if you guys hooked up
349677
Only one way to find out: go up to him and say "There's this rumor going around that you like me.  Is it true?"  If your feeling especially bold, say "Well, I like you so I hope it is."  If you say that last part, most likely he will admit his true feelings.
10135
Well i think that if you really like him, then you should let him know that you do. If you dont want to just go right up to him and say it then just send him something for Valentines Day. I had a big oh crush on this guy, and when the school had those little bears that were holding hands, i bought them and had them sent to him in class. He really like it and we are dating.\n\nI think that that is exactly what Valentines Day is all about. Letting people know that you have feelings for them. Whether it is just a little crush or full out LOVE!
280873
i wouldnt say 'hey.'  What i think you should do, is walk up to him, plant a wet one on him without saying a word, and then whisper in his ear, "i want you."  \n\nThat should make for an interesting evening
128841
Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!