I didn't like him when I first met him but he started flirting with me and I could tell he liked me. But when I ask him to prom he becomes silent and I had to ask him about it again before he told me that he had a date already. Now he's really quiet when we talk but now I really like him. Does this mean he's over me or is he shy? What should I do?
134251
He's probably just shy. Wait till after the prom and then see what happens. \ncontinue being your self though and see if he still flirts with you BEST OF LUCK
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
40000
Perhaps he likes you, but something prevent his feelings to be revealed. Actually, I've faced sth similer to what happen to you. I decided to leave and to start my life away of him. And I'm sure if he interested in me, he'll try at least to call and say hello!!!
115661
Well, He does like you and is scared of you getting mad because he does. So he tries not to let you see how he feels. He doesn't know how to talk to you without letting you find out. Thats why he ask's you to call him then won't talk to you. He is just scared that you don't feel the same way about him. Rather than ask how you feel he would rather love you in sceret. My advice is to ask him out and if he says no then ask him, "why" but I'll bet he'll say yes. He may say he is to busy, if he does then tell him to let you know when he feels like going out. All you will have to wait is two days Tops,then he WILL call you for a date! If he makes you wait, DO NOT CALL HIM, AVOID HIM. If he calls don't bring it up he may call you three times before he ask you! But as sure as I'm setting here he WILL ASK YOU!!
664148
He could be shy.  Are you two friends?  If so, he could have been surprised by you saying you liked him, and now doesn't know how to act around you.  If he likes you, give him time and he may come around.  If he doesn't like you, don't be hurt by it, just move on.  The right guy will come along, trust me.
260185
Maybe he was a little shy & timid.If he had to look around then he is definitely trying to hide his feelings.He may have changed the subject for another reason-he wants you to know that he was interested but pretends to be nonchalant about the question itself...as if it was just an innocent question that anybody would ask.Indeed he's interested,in my opinion...perhaps he wants you to chase or make the next move because like most people he isn't use to rejection.I've been wrong many times b4...but that's just my 2 cents!
193919
It seems to me that he was sending out signals that he wants to be more than friends with you.  When you didn't respond, he felt like you weren't interested in him.  In my opinion, you should talk to him.  Explain why it isn't practical for you to date right now.  If he's a true friend he'll understand.  Who knows, maybe you can leave the door open for a more meaningful relationship in the future.\n\nGood Luck!
532548
Hello:\n\nI would suggest being upfront with him. If he recently admitted that he liked you, I'm sure he still feels the same way. Suggest that you two get together outside of school (like going to a movie, or doing homework together). If he's shy, he's probably thinking the same thing you are - about the other person no longer being interested.\n\nIf you make a small gesture, I'm sure he'll take the hint and he'll act more into you instead of being reserved with his feelings.\n\nI hope this helps and good luck.
410577
It sounds like he likes you but he's too shy to tell you. Talk to him maybe you will come to learn that he is a really nice guy.
169634
Yeah I think he likes you but maybe he's just shy.  Why don't you try talking to him, see what his reaction is.  You could just start off with casual conversation and take it from there.
460325
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
331482
yep , he likes you and that is why he walked away from his friends just to talk to you , if its were different then he would probebly push him self aside from you just to knwo that you like him a lot .\n\nand if you like him then what ever you do , do not push him away , and try not to be shy infront of him . if you get shy and dont talk to him then it woudl be like ignoring and every thing would fall apart.\n\nso , keep on hanging with him and then one day it would be very easy for you to propose him or he would propose you in thew first place ..\n\nbest of luck
602269
if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
412474
Don't think it is a racial thing. If it was, he wouldn't have kissed you to start with. Maybe he got razed by his friends, maybe he changed his mind and doesn't want to go to the prom with you. Could be anything. I am a firm beliver that guys suffer from PMS too. I would just ask him without being accusatory, what is the problem. Dont' try to take blame or apologize for anything you didn't do. But don't come off mad or hostile. Just approach him and calmly ask him why he is not as talkative and seems to be avoid ing you. Coudln't hurt. You might find the answer you are looking for. Good Luck
623435
Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want.  Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
243238
You need to talk to him. Tell him you need to talk to him alone so you guys can go somewhere without being interrupted. It sounds like he really likes you so don't be nervous.
208874
This is what I think (and it's just an opinion)\n\nHe suddenly realizes that he has no date for the prom. You have been emailing each other, so he figures he will ask you out. \n\nThis is what you should do:\n\nFind someone else to go to the prom with. If he really likes you, he will make it known during or after the prom is over. \n\nWhy should you do this:\n\nFor one, you need to teach him that you will not always be there for his last choice. Second, he needs to know that he made a not so good decision for dumping you (and the prom will do just that, when he see's you dancing with someone else.) And three, this will test the both of you and make one or both of you realize that you have feelings for one another.\n\nGood Luck!