my but looks big in everything i wear, i am not a fat person, i have what most men say a stripper body, flat stomach, and a small waist, what should i do.
125731
gurl you should be contended with what God has given you. some people are praying to have a butt like yours, but it is so unfortunate for them. gurl any guy will be lucky to have a gurl with big booty.
544341
average? IT'S WAY OVER YOUR WIEGHT!! hell what are you worrying about? you are just fine. Ignore what people call 'fat' it's just loose skin!
94900
I think you just needed to vent a little! You should be proud of how you look no matter what size you are. As long as you're healthy and happy, that is all that matters. Don't worry about what other people think.
394023
You could probably deal with a little muscle. If you have good excercise and eating habits, you should look normal.
82155
I know I am a woman but I have to agree.  I love dressing sexy.  But every time I let a little leg or a little cleavage show I feel like guys ogle me.  In fact, I went to a party this weekend.  It was a theme party and I dressed really sexy.  There were three guys maybe three feet away from me and I heard them say, "She needs to be the bartender she has such nice tits."  And they proceeded to talk about my boobs.  I said something to them of course but why should I be made to feel this way about my body?  Women are beautiful and it's a shame we can't be more respected for our bodies.  I'm not saying we should be able to go naked everywhere, but I'm with you, I want to be able to wear a short skirt in the summer without some guy trying to see what kind of panties I am wearing.
188800
I love when guys have good looking butts, so the more  see of it the better. BUT please know that they don't look right on everyone.
119453
be careful with being too conscerned about your weight.  What size pants are you wearing should be a more appropriate question.  I am 5'11 and 210 lbs, now doesn't that sound fat to you.  Now add in the 6% bodyfat and all the sudden not so fat anymore.  It doesn't matter how much you weigh unless you are using that as a guideline to track your traing progress.  If you go to that website and type in your appropriate age,weight,height 90% of the time unless you are carrying luggage on your head alonside elephants and wearing clothes made out of foliage, you will be overwieght.  Those indexes were thought out years ago and the mathmatical equation for a male my height would resemble someone like steve Erckle.  If you feel overweight, watch the foods you are eating at home and get more involved in organized sports.
300081
This is your body and I feel it should look beautiful if you can maintain a good curvaceous figure, as you put it. I think you sound gorgeous !!!!! Keep it up. If others have a problem with your fine and graceful body then they seem to be jealous or perhaps, envious.\n\nDo not bother about their views since it is your body and you have it great.\n\nBest of everything for you in your life.\n\nabnash25@yahoo.com
7703
I'm thick and i've never had a problem. My thighs touch and i haven't seen i size six since i bought pants for my son. But that's my hang-up. My fiance loves me and he tells me everyday that i'm beautiful. You have to trust that the man that loves you the most is going to love you no matter what size pants you are. And it sounds so cliche, but anyone that makes you question yourself isn't worth your time.
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Take some really good pictures of yourself and see what your friends say. Because the stripper that I met at a party gave out bus. cards with his picture on it. He looked pretty tempting. You definitely need a six pack. It's a definite plus. Skin has too be smooth. Great smile. Good teeth. Flexibility. Then again this is just my opinion. If your friends are already telling u to do it you probably have more qualities than u realize. Good luck.
244447
First of all make sure you get a good attorney to protect your property rights. If I were you, I would not only dump him to the curb but would do everything you can to leave him alone with nothing but the clothes on his back. He should be ashamed of himself! Secondly, don't worry about your looks. Real men look beyond that and see the beauty beneath and besides that, some of us want a woman who has "curves"!!!
550903
As long as you look dressy and you feel good, go for it. Now jeans may not be your best bet but anything else would prob work great!    \n:-)
223005
It might be tough if that's how you're built.  From your height & weight you do not sound overweight.  Do 50 situps every day drink a lot of water, and try not to focus on your imperfections.  Throw away those catalogs with all the swimsuit models in them and get some feminine clothes that flatter your figure.
339342
It looks like you may be a pear because you are bigger on the bottom and there is not at least 6 inches difference b/t the bust and the waist or the hip and the waist. There is a book called Escape Your Shape if you google that up, lots of websites have free excerpts from the book that give great info. The book will help you to better determine what body type you are.\n\nIn response to the first comment you got don't listen to them curves are beautiful. Not everyone has to be busty with no hips or bottom. You are fine the way you are, just exercise for your shape and you will be gorgeous, hope this helps.
420627
No, you are not fat.\nReally, those are average sizes...maybe even on the small side.\nLove yourself, girl!
111597
I have large breasts to and understand what you mean. Although you should be able to wear whatever you want men are men and will bother you. Some suggestions are wear something loose to try and discourage them or join a women's only gym. The only other thing I can suggest is coming up with a good response to there responses such as " I'm sorry, but your brain is just to small to handle all of me." or " I was interested until you spoke." Once a few see that your not about to listen to there stupid pick up lines only the guys truly interested in you will still try.
359285
Most guys prefer a girl with some meat on her bones. It really doesn't matter how much you weight, it depends on how you are proportioned. I'm only 5'2 and weigh about 130, so your not much bigger than me. But there was a time when I only weighed 103 pds and i looked horrible. My boyfriend says your not fat until your tummy is bigger than your breasts. :0)