i always fell in love with the wrong guy either way they have a gf or they play on me what's wrong i feel so sad.
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Embrace it.  These are life experiences.  Change your attitude toward the selection of men that you have dated to that of being greatful for the opportunity to date them.\n\nThings happen for a reason dear, every man you date and then dissappoint you, helps create the person you are to be for the right man that is still out there, and going thru the life experiences needed to be the right man for you.  Always bear this in mind when some man treats you badly.\n\nDoes this mean, that you should accept men to walk all over you, and treat you badly?  No, identify this behavior early, you should be getting very good at it, with your past experience.  No matter how hot he may be, and how bad you want him, if you notice a behavior that you remember in one of your bad relationships, be warned, and aware.  Eventually you will notice a difference in one man, the one man that is just right for you.
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Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
162575
Well it hurts soo bad because u lose the one u are emotionally ATTACHED to..u feel like u dont wanna be with anyone else..because they made u feel soo great..but think of it this way..there was a reason why u and the one u "loved" didnt make it...its just not meant to be..dating is to meet the right person for u..almsot like experimenting..so good luck! and i hope everythingz k :) keep ur head up!
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I am sorry that you are going through this, but everyone has at one time or other.  I know it feels like the end of the world, but it isn't.  If you were haveing numerous misunderstandings then it wasn't meant to be.  You may go through several more of these before you find the right one.I am a firm believer that there is someone for everyone out there.  Just got to  weed out the bad ones.  Hope this makes you feel some better.  Good Luck to you!
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Sweetie, that's just part of life. I know you'll hate this advice, but it's the best possible, I promise: Try your best not to worry about it. \n\nIt's normal to feel hurt. But realize that someday you'll have a great man and this situation will be NO BIG DEAL. I know that might be hard to imagine now.\n\nI think you should call up your girlfriends and go watch a movie. Do something fun to forget about it and the hurt will fade before you know it.
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I can understand how you feel ....You will always love him but  he did you wrong....because if he really loved you then he would have never cheated on you in the first place...He says that he loves you because he probably realized what he lost.....never the less he cheated on you...and i am pretty sure you trusted him with your whole heart and he broke it by being with another woman.....that is his fault not yours...You  just need to be honest with him and tell him its over, and that if he ever really did love you , that he needs to leave you alone cuz you need time to heal....So in the meantime just be strong and do something that makes you happy and not think about him.....even though i know its hard to do....
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Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
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Hey dont feel bad!! \nYou deserve someone very nice. So wait for the moment. Prepare yourself for meeting someone special so that even he can say that he is with the best girl.
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Dont worry,! hang in there i feel what u feel. there is a thousand guys out there ,, dont go on any dating services, i tried it, i met some one fat. not that i dont like fat people, they r cool, but anyway, keep ur chin up and be tall and strong it takes a lot of time to get over guys i guarantee u. but dont date one of his friends ,, thats the wurst thing ta do, stick it to ur gut. dont let him get to u.u cant stay sad 4 evur. dont lose hope on findin another guy to be with.
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theres nothing wrong with what you feel but its best to get to know the guys first especially because you only met him online. most guys that you meet online acts different when you talk to them online and phone and when you meet them in person. i've had few relationship dat i've met online..and its always like dat. keep in mind that its dangerous and its never easy. becareful who you meet and who u fall with. take everything slow and get to know the guy your falling for. also remember that if its meant to be then its meant to be. be patient. because love is patient. :D
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wow you sound a little down I hope things get better for you and not all guys feel like that some feel like there not a girl they can't get
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You have to give yourself permission to trust another person.  There could be something in your past that makes you a little nervous about getting hurt.  It's the chance we take when we fall in love, but it's a gamble and we aren't promised anything, I mean when in life are we promised anything so why should love be different.\n\nChoose your mate wisely, make sure he's committed and respectful, make your intentions clear and as does he.  Don't jump in too quick and don't be too judgmental.\n\nWith joy sometimes comes sorrow but don't deprive yourself of the wonderful feeling of being in love.  What's the expression 'It's better to have love and lost than not love at all".
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its normal to feel the pain because you have truely loved him. i suggest you go out w/ your friends, get a hobby, keep yourself busy so you dont have time to think about him. \ni hope sonner you'll get over him
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girl this has just happened to me and you shouldn't feel guilty. i felt guilty but i really should have. Why don't you try talking to them or telling your friend thats here if he really likes you he will wait until you're sure. and the long distance relationship i was in i cheated on him and i felt so guilty i told him about it and we broke up. Maybe you should ask him to take a brake and set up a date you will become bf/gf on that specific date. That will show you if you know what you have or not. Maybe this will help and maybe it won't but this is what i would do if i relieved this.
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wow...well i think that u were feeling like u could have either one of the guys, it was ur choice, but now that one is trying to move on u feel like u have to have his attentions back cuz ur losing some of ur control...i don't know, but i think u should really pray about it and try to b honest w/ urself...if u really luv ur bf then don't leave him for someone u like! but really i don't kno everyhthing about this so...i hope it turns out well!
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I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
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you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)