I think he's cheating cos I overheard him saying that this other girl is hot(No I wasn't eaves dropping)What should I do,We haven't been together long and I'm kinda worried
133535
I know how you feel, it would make me feel scared and uncomfortable too. I think men take a different approach to things, we are more sensitive and think about things before we say them. You must also think that maybe he was just saying that she was hott, maybe he just thinks that she is attractive. I know that doesnt make you feel much better but try not to assume if you really like him approach him and talk to him about it. Just say that i heard you thought so and so was cute? As long as you approach him in a non accusing way i think that he should understand. If you can't face him then just find someone new :)
665958
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
596696
hell no you're not being stupid. he is obviously stringing you both along. find yourself someone who isn't going to play around with other girls. Good luck.
176569
I think he is cheating. Those are sighns
285424
It's all about trust.  He told you nothing is going on, so believe him.  It really doesn't sound like he is cheating, or else why would he tell you who he was on the phone with in the first place?  You can be sure he loves you by his actions.  Taking on a baby that isn't his own?  Wanting to name your child??  That sounds like love to me!  He may have loved this girl at one point but he has moved on.  He has learned to love you more than he loved her.  Everything is okay.  Explain to him that you got plain old jealous and reacted wrong.  And then go take him out for ice cream ;)
468486
you're kissing someone else and you're worried about your boyfriend cheating on you?  you gotta be kidding...i would consider kissing other guys cheating as well...try talking things out with him, and watch yourself too.  you waste all this time writing a damn paragraph to us, and you haven't even talked to him....
186483
If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
473789
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
172320
i think if a friend told me that my man was wit another girl i would confront him for sure, find out wat was goin on and if i need to get more information first i would, u no wat us women do best investigate b4 i confront him, and if all is true i would leave him, cuz i no that i would b able to please my man in every which way therefore he would have no reason to cheat apart from greediness and if that is the case he will do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!
629524
I think that he told you about him cheating on you, so if you forgive him, he thinks it would be ok to do it again. I think you need to get rid of him and move on. You are way better than to have a guy cheating on you. You need to get a good boyfriend. He probably just called you because he broke up with the other girl. You need to just leave now while you can. You don't want to get back into this relationship, just so he can cheat on you again. Ever heard once an cheater, always a cheater, well that is mostly always true, honey.  If you have the feeling that something will go terrible wrong, you are probably right. Your first instinct is usually the right one. If he likes to date your friends, and has done this before, he will keep doing that. Just walk away from it all.\nGood Luck to you, girl. I know you will find a better guy that does not cheat. That is what you deserve,
599709
I had the same thing happen,and in my oppinion,if he was sexually camming with another woma,he is a cheat!\n\nHow anyone could think differently,is beyound reasoning.\n\nIm getting out of my relationship because of this..I just dont trust himmnow.
437384
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
441921
It's so obvious.  He's into that other chick and your interest in him made her jealous.  \n\nBy you going out with that other dude, he became jealous...best thing you coulda done.\n\nTexting him to see if he was ok... worst thing you coulda done.  Now he knows he has you wrapped around his finger!
231296
Not neccesarily. How long has he known her? Do you know their exsisting relationship? If he just met her, or has only known her for a year or so - chances are, he is cheating. Or testing you. Either way, keep your eyes open.
254661
In my honest opinion....\n\nThe guy didn't technically cheat.  Try to look at it this way, he went out with the girl a few times, and then he realized how much you meant to him. Sometimes it takes being with the wrong person to realize that you are with the right person. In addition there was not touchy feely stuff so he probably wasn't attracted to her in the first place.  He probably just wanted to reassure himself that you were the right girl for him.  Guys get anxious and cold feet too, they just handle it differently than we do.  Talk to him.  Tell him how you feel about it and explain to him that your trust and love is a privilege, and he should be honored to earn it.
597072
I would confront him and ask him for the truth.  How long have you been together??  Do you trust him??  Do you love him enough to stay with him if it is true??  I think that the chances are if they are just friends, then they probably didnt.  Only they know and you need to trust what he says.....if you really love him.  If you dont trust him, then move on......I would also ask him why she was there in the first place.  Was it to make you jealous???
420646
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.