Like for example, if you are a girl/woman, or boy/man, would you prefer to be in the opposite sex, change jobs and so on...Please give reasons why you stick to the same or if you like a change, why?
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i think there are a few things i would change you know like certain mistakes ive made and things like that but if it wasnt for the mistakes ive made my life wouldnt be how it is now!! and in order to experience life to its fullest you need to experience some mistakes. all or pretty much all of the mistakes ive made are things my mother could have prevented but she chose not to because she knows in order for me to "grow up" and experience life for myself you cant be protected from everything! so i thank her for that and if she would have kept me sheltered i would have no idea what the real world is all about!!!
190497
well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?
106028
I wanted to be many different things as I was growing up, including actress and attorney.  However, at the time of my youth, women were encouraged to only be sales person, secretaries, hairdressers, a wife/mother, or elementary teachers.  I then wanted to be a hairdresser, but at the time, the schools only accepted students who had taken chemistry in high school, and that let me out . . . so I became a secretary and a wife/mother and I am still a secretary and wife/mother.  I am still not there because even though I am an adult, I am still not "grown up".  I still have dreams and hopes and want to be something else . . . this time an owner/manager of my own little company.  Will I succeed?  Only time will tell.  My job as a wife/mother has been very rewarding even though the pay is lousy.  My jobs throughout the year in offices have been very interesting, and I have learned many skills.  I don't want to ever "grow up" so I guess I will never be what I want to be when I grow up.
470793
Female. Female.\n\nYou couldn't pay me enough to be a male! I am happy as I am, thanks :-))
287083
mee too! i like breasts. and I"M A GIRL!!! I'm not lesbian in any way. I admire breasts. I like looking at them. Sometimes I wish my boyfriend and I can switch bodies so I can stick my face in my original body's big boobs. hehehe... and i would love to have a penis even for a day. i have an idea, let's switch bodies! hahahahah
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There is a book, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders, that you might want to consult.  There are people who either hate their gender and that part of them that makes them male or female or strongly believe, feel, or are in some legitimate way convinced that they actually should have been the other gender.  The common process involves several visits with a psychologist over several months to assess whether the person is truthful or aware of what they are asking for.  Then for between 1 and 2 years the person undergoes scrutiny in the role of the other sex.  They will see an endocrinologist who will monitor how they tolerate and adapt to the hormones which facilitate the body's change over this time.  IF things work out, they are permitted to complete the change surgically.  Some opt out of the final steps, being by then comfortable in their approximate role, but for others that simply is not enough.\n\nPlease do not think this is something as casual as crossdressing on a whim.  You are right it is a serious change, but many go through serious efforts to accomplish it because they seriously believe it is true and get the kind of on-going help that confirms or dissuades those who do or do not fit the gender dysphoric role.
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Society dictates it to be. Do you want to do things a man does, like go to war? How will society look on men that take up feminine jobs?\n\nThink and you'll have your answer.
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Yeah,\nIf you like it sure go for it.\nIf you didn't like it change it to something else\nYou are Young and Lovely so get and make your own disicion
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This should help...\n\nQ: Can a transsexual be fully a woman?\nA: Yes, but to a point- hormonally, physically, psychologically, and emotionally (basically all the aspects of being a female that society considers important), but not genetically- a person who got a sex change will still have XY, or male, chromosomes. A test for XX (female) or XY (male) will show that the person is genetically male.\n\nSome people don't believe this, that "you can always tell" a person got a sex change based on the look of their genitals, and this is wrong. Female genitals come in a huge variety of different looks- no female looks exactly any ther female in the genital department. There is a good chance that a gynecologist won't be able to tell, and they specialize in what vaginas look like. For all intents and purposes, internally, you would look like a hysterectomized female- vagina, but no cervix (opening that leads into the womb).\n\nA real transsexual desires to be fully transformed into a woman, and no half steps will be acceptable. They will not be happy AT ALL with having male parts on their crotch- it's embarassing to them and disgusts them that they have male parts attached to them. A transsexual sees a penis as something foreign attached to their body- that it shouldn't be there in the first place. A transsexual also doesn't want to become a woman because of a fetish- there is no erotic component to transformation for them. A transsexual is a woman in a male body, so I refer to them as "she".\n\nNow, a man who has a fetish about being feminized will seek breast implants, may take a few hormones (but nothing like a transsexual, who takes them every day, nonstop), and get some surgeries to make them look more female. I must reinforce the idea here that THEY ARE MEN. They have no desire to have their penis removed, they just have a sexual fetish about being a woman.\n\nSometimes, when a real transsexual is in the middle of their transition and they need money to get more operations, AND they still have male parts, some will swallow their pride and go into the pornogarphy business to make money to finish their transformations. They don't like it, but they will do it to get money to get their sex changes. Some persons that are half woman-half man are really men and just in the business to satisfy another fetish- they are also exhibitionists. \n\nI don't know what the numbers are for the proportion of real transsexuals and shemale exhibitionists, but a transsexual is in it for one thing only- to get money to get a sex change. A fetishist would be in it just to satisfy a fetish. If a person in this situation is constantly talking about getting a sex change, they are more than likely a real transsexual, and as soon as they can afford a sex change, they will be out of the business.
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it's when either a man changes his sex to a woman or when a woman changes to a man
423712
Some people like both sexes and that is okay.  Eventually, you will know what makes  you happy.  You do not have to fall into one stereotype or other.
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I have three friends that have had sex changes.\n\nOne seems to have adjusted well and has a much better life than before.\n\nOne seems to have only added to the complications of his/her life and is still confused and wandering.\n\nThe third is satisfied with his/her life and pretty much doesn't think about what gender he/she is at all any more.
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It is better to be whatever sex you are actually. Both sexes have their strengths and weakenesses which balance each other.
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nope, don't change for anyone. you are who you are and there is someone out there who will love you as you are. comprimise is one thing but change is totally too much. if they don't think they need to change then don't, if it's for the better don't worry they will find out for themselves.
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yeah, why not? You date someone not because of his/her gender but because of his/her personality. But if dating for you means having sex and/or falling in love, the sex change does matter because by then you know, he/she isn't what he/she was. And your next question would be, can you accept that fact? If you do, then there is no difference at all.
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If I were to change one event in my life, I would choose this one instance in time to stand up for myself, despite all the pressure and fear. \n\nI would not be the same person I am today. I would have learned my lesson earlier instead of later. Even if I failed at the choices I made, it would have made all the difference to stand behind my decisions. \n\nI don't think I would look different.  \n\nI don't understand the last question. "only do it to one person"? You mean like avoid a person in my previous life? Well, I wouldn't do that. I'd choose to meet and engage in all the people and relationships I've met and engaged in so far. Of course, if I made the change, there would be people I wouldn't meet. But I wouldn't "only do it to one person ".
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I wish it were a choice, or that a gay person could "recruit" me, or that a TV show or commercial could convert me.  Having had really bad experiences with men, I would like to be a lesbian.  I also have had good experiences with men but I am tired of being the one that cleans or notices that things need to be cleaned and then being the warden by delegating tasks.  It would be nice not to have to ask for a back rub, or maybe someone else make the popcorn and serve me.  Which line do I stand in to make the choice to be gay?