Ways to get infertality after 4 years marriage
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i think you mean your too fertile and u dont want this so ill give you answers for becomin fertile or infertile.to become infertile talk to a doctor.im not a physician so i cant say anything about it.to become fertile check out some websites that may tell u what kind of foods to eat and what kind of vitamins u need.u may be missing some nutrients that is especially important for that...also if your a woman u might have the problem i have.it has to do with ovaries.see you might not be producing enuff female sperm to create anything.there are plenty of medicines you can take for this but if you dont like medicine(like me) you just have to deal with that fact.it is very hard but over a while you will get over it...i think
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well you married young and then did not wait to have a child.  You both basically did not give eachother any time to grow together, to understand eachother wants and needs in life.  We all change physically and mentally as we grow older.  Financial reponsibilties can also harm a healthy relationship.  After the honeymoon is over and reality and responibilty settles in the vows that you both took together becomes very obscure every passing day.  Together with Love, Compromise, Commitment and Sharing Responibilties makes a Marriage work.  Marriage is a hell alot of work, which non of us realize it before we take on it.  It takes two to Tango, are you both willing too?\n\nAfter a child some men feel being neglected, because now they have to share their wivies with their kid(s).  Yes we men are big babies.  Talk it over, make time for eachother.\n\nBefore involving a marriage consuelor, talk it over without being judgemental (not easy), make a list of things that you both have now started to dislike about eachother.  Work towards changing some and make compromises on the others.  Go back to the basics, think about what made you like this person what was it? the touch, the feel, the look, the smell....  Try to be more creative in the bedroom and not judgemental.  If you don't like something he wants, politely tell him why and he should do that same.\n\nI hope you got some good advice on here, and good luck.
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Married couple`s allowance is no longer available unless either you or your partner were born before 1935.  It was phased out a couple of yeas ago, you`re out of luck!
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Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.\nYou would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
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get married and a job
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woahhh\n\nlots of questions thereee!\n\n1) of couse u can get pregnant....any kinda sex can getu pregnant!\n\n2) leave him if he cheats on u once more after giving him a warning\n\n3) ur not fat...dont think that..im 5'3" and im 105\n\n4) try being a vegetarian..keeps u REALLY healthy\n\n5) i think jainism or buddhism or hinduism will b goodfor you\n\n6) democrat for sure.\n\n7) uhmm..i dont think u wanna get married to a guy who cheats on u\n\n8) bcuz its -5 when u ask a question but plus three when u pick a best answer for the question u asked and plus two for whenu answer a question!\n\n9) idk when ull get to the next level cuz im not sure which one ur on..but try gettng to 1000\n\n10) real estate for sure or go to school and become an asistant teacher or sumthing that wont take too long to get a degree on!
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First of all look at your ages, at this point in time you need to concentrate on your career goals and may be think of getting married after about 2 years from now, your partner is right in wanting to wait as long as both of you are commited to each and love each other and know that ull are not goin to leave each other its fine. You are getting frustrated cos u have been going around for 4 yrs and theres nothing new in your relationship u have dicovered each other so much. Patience is the word, just wait for sometime and things will be fine.
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Ricos Love,\nI have been married for five years now.  Prior to that, my wife and I endured a four year separation when we were both accepted to professional schools halfway across the country.  It wasn't easy, let me tell you.  But three or four things helped.  Even though it was a long haul, we knew it was temporary.  There has to be a plan to reunite.  Second, communication was key.  We stayed in contact on the telephone, and took every opportunity to meet.  There was a little college town in Kentucky that was exactly half way between our schools, and we arranged a mini-vacation a couple of weekends per year.  That made it possible for us to be together even though we had little time and couldn't afford plane tickets. Third - committment.   It takes hard work and dedication!  You (and your partner) need to go out of your way to feed and strengthen the relationship. You need to trust each other and be comfortable with each other.  Otherwise, the distance will just breed jealousy.  Finally, luck.  In any relationship, long distance or otherwise, you are taking a chance.  If you want to win the prize... you have to buy the ticket.\n\nGood luck!
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Dude, a year is a decent time to get to know your future wife - (you know that new car smell, that's what it is now) \nthe worst mistake lot of couples make is not cohabiting - that's when you find out for certain if you can exist and live peacefully under one roof.\n\nTake your time do not let anyone rush you into setting the date - have certain priorities and work things out with your woman on serious issues - like housing, investing, having children - marriage is like getting into a business (the love is never eternal) you want to keep your store open for a long time without filing for bankruptcy - plan.\n\nWhen the new car smell dies - decide whether to trade or you gonna maintain it.
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Contact the key wives club, or family assistance programs.  Those are designed to help someone in your situation.  As for does it get easier, it'll stay the same.  Especially if he stays in for 20.  You'll know the ropes and be teaching to the other new wives then.  But it could be worse.  Join, and you'll see how much harder it is on him than you.
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Don't listen to all the negativity that people are posting.  You can make it through this if you are both wanting too..and it sounds like you want to very much and she is cautiously willing.  So that is good.\nYou are both young with a toddler and you're a newly married couple...so with all of these changes in your lives that can be alot to take on and manage. It is good that you are both realizing that there are changes that need to be made to make your family work. So suggest to her that you would be willing to go to counseling even if it is once a month or every other week.  It's not a bad thing to have someone in the middle of the issues to sort things out.  \nJust keep on being open with her and be honest on your wanting to change some things. Also take some time to take her out...just the two of you have an evening out once in a while...be silly have fun...just be together...I bet it's been a while since you have done that. If you combine those things together you are off to a great start.  \nAny relationship needs work and there will ALWAYS (no matter how long you are married for) be rough spots that need to be worked through...it's ongoing. But as long as both people are committed to each other and seeing the family thrive then your really working from a good foundation.\nDon't give up there is ALWAYS hope!!!  Best wishes to you in winning your wife back!!!
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Congratulations for starters.  People are very quick to be negative these days...so most people believe that your marriage will fail.  What is the fun in trying to be positive?  I believe that as long as you and your fiance truly love each other and realize that you are making a life long commitment you will make it through life just fine!  My parents got married when they were 19 and 20(because my mom was prego with my sis), and they will be celebrating their 25th anniversary this May.  No marriage is all kittens and cuddles...you will have ups and downs...and honestly it will probably be a WHOLE lot of downs that first year.  Just make sure you stick it out...ad always remember why it is that you got married!  I hope that you have a wonderful life with your husband!
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family friends son met him online four years back even though when he was studying here lived in same building then turns out we met online one fine day since his professional job as doctor surgeon works abroad we are going strong for 4 years im a virgin waiting for marriage he knows and respects it though things get shaky when we cant chat online or talk over phone all in all it works out and i love him SO much and we have 9 years difference  engaged married and having children soon best of luck hope your online fairy tale turns out like mine did or better then mine best of luck and happy falling in love he sounds great and your a great girl and both seem like a made for each other couple
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23 years here, I understand the issues.  (c:  Familiarity does LOWER the labido!  These young chicks do not know that yet <c;  They also do NOT know the rewards of LOOOOONG time relationships.   \nSKIP THE TOYS.  Unless your husband asks about them.  \nTo help with sex drive I  let my mind wander through out the day and remember the THRILL of "great" sex...  As in plenty of ummmm ,  lets say Fireworks *wink* for me.  I make a great dinner , give him a bit of a back rub or foot massage.  These things make me feel like a "good woman"  .  If your married 30 years then you already know that catering to your man has benefits (c:
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So he'll start out making less. Then in a few years he'll be back to making the same, if not more money than he was before. I think in this case you have to look at the long term picture and the potential benefits. He's going to have greater earning potential after getting his degree and he's also going to be happier because he'll be doing something that he wants to do. We spend 1/2 of our awake life at our job so it should be something that provides fulfillment. Obviously he wasn't content or he wouldn't be pursuing this course of action. Support him in this endeavour and you and your family will all reap the rewards. I do understand that the next few years will require some sacrifice and I'm sorry about your medical problems. Perhaps sitting down together and creating a budget would help. If you see the financial impact on paper, it might not be so daunting. I would also recommend going to see a marriage counsellor to help with this decision. Sometimes an impartial third party can help shed some light. Good luck. I hope it works out!
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REF YAHOO SEARCH IN YOUR RESEARCH ANSWER YOU GET THE ENTIRE HISTORY OF MATCHING AND HOW TO GO ABOUT IT.\nGOOD LUCK
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Marriages do not just happen they are like a motor vehicle they need maintenance. Its very easy to get into a rut or a boring routine. You need to put a sparkle back in your lives if you have kids get a child minder and book a naughty weekend somewhere in a nice hotel and health spa and pamper yourselves. Get a new outfit and dramatically change your hairstyle. I really hope it works out all the very best  Dirky