at the mall last night an obviously gay guy close to my age that ive never seen before passed me and i lost concentration because of his sever hotness, i wanted to get to know so badly. i saw him 3x and just kinda ignored(except that each time we caught each other turning around staring at one another)i probably will never see him agian, sad face.
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NEVER ever NEVER miss a chance to meet someone new, even if just to be friends there was obviously some chemistry being you both saw eachother more than once and were both too uncertain to make the first move, sometimes being a little more aggressive can pay off, just imagine if you would have just said hello and introduced yourself, you could have possibly at worst have a great new friend to hang with.. my personal advice for the future is you only live once and make the best of every experience you have in your life no matter what it is!! Good luck on your next chance at Mr So Hot!
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He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
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exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
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i was walking in the hallway at school with my guy friend who's gay. we were talking about the new hot guy. and then the new hot guy is passing us. me n him make eye contact. i couldnt believe it! he smiled his gorgeous smile at me and then, i smacked into the hallway door that was closed. i was devastated. my friend laughed at me, then helped me up.
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You're gay, he's not and you're practically stalking him. Give it a rest butt boy and let then man be before he loses his patience and takes your high heels away.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH YOU ARE A STALKER ! You soo remind me of all of my younger friands . Get over him. He is NOT cute. And the chances you are going to hook up with him is one out of like ... a zillion...no INFINITY ! Just find a normal dude instead of someone you'll never meet .Be realistic .
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Well I am only speaking for myself, but if I see a man that I find attractive, I catch myself staring, no passing glances here.  I love looking at beautiful men...not glancing!!!
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last year i knew a guy, a senior, who was gay, and everyone knew.  he was treated rude by some, and ignored by others.  i didnt know him too well.  but i do know that the drama kids were his friends.  i could tell that he has had a rude life, the other day i saw him on the bus, he looked just like he always did.  he seems to hate that he is different, which prolly means he has gotten a lot of negative remarks.\n\n16
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he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.
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i reached out and rested my hands on somthing while waiting for someone and this man i didnt know  grabed my hand inspected it and said "what no ring? why arnt you married yet?" like it is somesort of crime to be single. i told him as much but he just shook his head. the person he was there for called to him and went an had a meeting with them. if he isnt married i know why:>
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Maybe he was a little shy & timid.If he had to look around then he is definitely trying to hide his feelings.He may have changed the subject for another reason-he wants you to know that he was interested but pretends to be nonchalant about the question itself...as if it was just an innocent question that anybody would ask.Indeed he's interested,in my opinion...perhaps he wants you to chase or make the next move because like most people he isn't use to rejection.I've been wrong many times b4...but that's just my 2 cents!
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I can understand why you wouldnt like this specific person, great, and its great that you dont hold that against gay people. Feeling wierded out is totally natural, am i right in suggesting that youve never really come across it before? literally, there is hardley a difference between you and me. We are both human beings, only i prefer having relationships with guys. Dont let that be what gets to you. you shouldnt judge people on who they are, based on gender, sexuality, race or class, but instead as who they are as a person. its best to get to know the person before you judge them for being gay. Just remember, that single person who did something to a family member of yours is an individual, dont judge everybody else based on their actions (it wouldnt be fair!)\n\njust get to know them before you judge them :D and its great to know that there is somebody out there who doesnt "HATE" the gay crowd!
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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Unusual, yes, most straight guys I know are freaked out by gay men.  I wish I could find a straight man that is comfortable around gay people.  My best friend (whom I live with) is gay and I would love to find a man that would be comfortable with my best friend .
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I in no way have anything against gay men, but I do say that flamboyant, effeminate men don't sit well with me, and the whole flamboyant trend is really wearing thin. Now everything is 'fabulous', and it's pretty annoying. No offense to anyone, but that's how I feel.
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I think most people (not just gays, though we certainly do have less of a chance of actually finding someone) have this problem. It'll be okay though! Just keep up good spirits and you'll find someone sooner or later.\n\nAnd I'm always free to chat through YIM at SpookySickness or at bluesylvia@hotmail.com
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Same with guys.A guy I worked with flirted like hell with me,then I asked him if you would like to go out with me sometime and he didn't even answer me,after that he wouldn't say one word to me or even look at me.But I am very glad he didn't say yes because I might be with that p*ssy,instead of with my boyfriend that I love.So things work out for a reason.