im friends with this girl.not really good friends,we get on great,we met a few times kissed and stuff,she is now finished with her ex,but says she likes me more than a friend but doesnt want to be with anyone at the moment?does she like me>? what should i do,she was all over me now shes rly off with me....
131129
Just give her time to figure out what she wants and be patient.
186345
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
210604
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
213490
don't count on getting back together, or being very good friends for that matter. my ex gf said the same thing about maybe getting back together, now shes dating one of my friends and we barley ever talk
470457
It sounds like she just needs some time after her past relationship.  I owuld suggest that you remain her friend through this time and be as close to her as possible.  Maybe if she sees how good of a friend that you are, things will slowly change.  Don't push her to be your girl though.  It will only push her farther away.  Good Luck.
276569
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
200144
Unless that girl is really outgoing or not timid at all, I don't think she likes you. It's not that easy to reveal their feeling to their crush. I think she is using you to make someone jealous or made a bet with her friend.(You can ask my friend for one) I say you should hang out with her, but never tell her your feeling toward her unless you know it absolutely for sure
342854
Extremely weird, she wants to look into a relationship, but all the goodies go to your friend.  Sorry, need to next her.  You're friend can have her, no wait he has....
199012
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
148940
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
445151
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
188819
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
492972
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
570489
She gave you her phone number guy.  Call her now or in the morning.  Let her know that you like her alot and want to be her boyfriend.  Your buddy there is not being a good friend.  Take control of yourself.
532255
Sounds like she liked another guy also and her friend betrayed her.  When you are dating and just starting dating, you have to talk to each other about what you feel about dating.  \n\nIf you only want to date only one person at a time, you have to let her know that.  There are many people who are dating and just dating with nothing serious in it, especially when you are just getting to know each other.  You should let her talk.  \n\nCommunication is the number one thing in any relationship.  At least she is being honest that she likes someone else.  If you don't want to talk to her because she likes someone else, tell her that.  Don't ignore her.  Tell her how you honestly feel.  I am like you.  I don't go for someone who likes someone else, but you have to tell her.  You might be good friends even if you don't make good boyfriend - girlfriend relationship.
448344
Think back, had she been acting weird for a while now? In this conversation she sounds like she's not at all interested in any aspect of your life. You should talk it over with her, and if nothing works, it means the friendship has to end
368179
Some guys get into this mode that they "forget" their friends for a while when they meet a girl they really like. He may grow out of it. However I think you should talk to him and tell him you still want to be friends, and if possible talk to her alone and see if she really "hates" you, or is possibly jealous of your history with her boyfriend. If she isn't, have her suggest to your friend that they and you and your boyfriend go out together some time.