please answer honestly, more and more people are doing it nowadays. I've even heard there's places where orgies go on commonly.
125213
Swinging is not for everyone. We have been successfully swinging for several years now, and I can tell you honestly that it requires a special relationship to manage the emotions and discussions involved.\n\nWe have been extremely happy in  the lifestyle but in order to  achieve that happiness you have to be able to completely trust your partner.\n\nYou have to be able to have open discussions about sexual fantasies, dislikes, comfort levels.\n\nYou must be able to set and abide by rules related to swinging.\n\nWith regards to orgies, many on-premise clubs provide a group room, but most have restrictions on who is allowed to enter, in general it is for couples only, and in the group room, the expectation is still that you ask permission before touching anyone.\n\nAdditionally, although many men fantasize about the "orgy" it is also the time when many suffer from performance Anxiety - that is to say, they have erection difficulties, especially if they are easily distracted.\n\nYou mentioned that more and more people are doing it.\n\nEstimates of the size of the swinging population vary widely. Research provided by North American Swing Club Association (NASCA) (McGinley, 1995) found that 15% of couples in the U.S. have at some point incorporated swinging into their marriage. More conservative estimates are offered by studies which are unrelated to NASCA. Hunt (1975) and Weiss (1983) estimate that two to four percent of married couples have engaged in swinging at least on an occasional basis. Bartell (1971) found the figure to be one percent and Cole and Spaniard (1974) found, based on a small college community sample, that 1.7 percent had experienced swinging at least once.\n\nGood luck!
650128
That is a serious question.  I think about the poor 18 year old guys who got caught with their 17 year old girlfriends.  This is a very bull-headed move, right or wrong.
447621
From what I heard....\n\nMales spike sexually at 18 while females spike after 30 (this seems true with my 36 year old friend)\n\nstrange how they dont really meet at the same time, but I guess its a good thing eh? We may have too many people in this world if they were at the same time.
210861
I think it's because it's not popular yet.  People who want attention will do what's hot at the momnet, so if two guys kiss and it's popular then it will be accepted more.  People who follow what other people do, will follow this trend and start having more guys kissing.  Just like right now everyone likes two girls kissing, but soon a trend will lean some where else, and the "media" will say okay now everyone two guys kissing is hot
47283
I'd have to say extremely widespread. Not just in the workplace or politics, either, but also in the school systems here where I live. Also on the local police force. It's a real problem because NO ONE will acknowledge that such a thing exists.
580008
YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.
223605
It's a natural act, performed by virtually all animals on earth.\nSo it's not bad in and of itself.  It's PEOPLE who make it bad by putting peer pressure on folks or glamorizing rough stuff or porn.\nSex was meant to be intimate and enjoyable.\nNot profitable.
469051
I read stories of such happenings at several places.  Today most people make it a taboo subject to discuss so if you get to hear it more from the northern side that doesnt mean there are no sick persons in other places doing this same sick things and robbing children of their innocence.\n\nAnd very soon God will rid the earth of these debased individuals
647857
This isn't the problem. The problem is people falling in lust, like, crush or eros adoration, or even obsession.\n\nI love being in true agape love.
564369
it is actually way more usual than people think. my friend did until he was about that age, then he just grew out of it ;)
562090
Its a man thing, it carries on from childhood. Not every male does it, but most. There's just a manly Ora that you have to have with ur friends,  now is this the smartest thing to do, no, because our friends are not going to sex us up like our woman would, but we dont think that far down the line..hence the kissing of the posterior when the friends leave.
268150
Its not right, some people are perverts, they should all burn in hell for what there doing. or they need to be hung up by there b*lls. really make them think bout what they did, or what there doing.
273280
It is still very prevalent here is the states. But there are many people who are insecure at the sight of another's rituals. Therefore many people feign outrage and force religion indoors. In otherwords, It's there..it's just not in the open as much as it used to be.
200837
I would like to answer the question in a grown up fashion because this is a natural situation.  I would think that if 2 of any people are engaged in sexual conduct, they are likely to indulge in the behavior in a mutually desirable action.  I don't think that they are doing whatever because they like nipples or penises.  I image they are doing it out of desire, for erotication, and pleasure.  They probably touch more than those two body parts mentioned above:  like kissing, massaging, caressing, anticipating, and HEAVY BREATHING!  Leave these folk alone.  Stop wondering. You might just be wrong.
68517
yes it happens. its up to the ppl involved. that sort of lifestyles suits some ppl, and disgusts others.  its up to u to know what u can and cant handle.
499510
A lot of people joined myspace to get themselves "out there" as much as possible, and meet new circles of friends.  \n\nSo far them, that's the whole point, they use myspace like a giant party- exchange phone #s, find out who lives locally and find ppl to hang out with.  Not the safest thing in the world to be sure, but these are ppl who do the exact same thing when they go out!
275956
Most people like to watch and alot have a secret desire to be seen doing it also. Watching someone arouses a person alot more than simple making out.