This guy that i like is really shy so i dont want to make him uncomfortable while "hitting" on him, but he's so sweet. I wish we could be more than friends. Im not exactly sure how im suppose to hint that to him though. Can yall give me some tips on my problem?
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Always try to greet him with an open warm and smile face and even raising hand. \n   Looking straight to his eye ball each time you meet him would also do some expressions.\n   If you are in opportunity to, intrude your self in his discussions. \n   If you meet him outside the domain, try and call his attention and and greet him amicably
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so..your in the 6th grade? if so it explains the name...anyway i dont really get the question,but i see one problem you told him that you like him that takes guts but it was problem no. 1.see that will freak out guys, and thats problably the reason that he said he just wants to be friends. try to really get to know him first. hang out w/ him but not in a stalky way... then when YOU think HE likes you make your move... i mean you are talking about asking him out right???plus the short thing does not matter...and if he still does not like you dont worry there are many other guys out there...good luck!
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rather than get all tongue-tied asking him on a date,why not work on a friendship first? tell him you're bored and ask him if he'd like to go somewhere with you just for something to do.let him know that if he follows you to another part of the state it'd be great going knowing you're not completely friendless to start a new chapter in your lives.it'll be alot less scarry for you both.start there and keep working on staying friends and being casual until you get over the shyness or he does.somewhere along the line somethings gonna happen to show you whether you're wasting your time or not.if it turns out he's gay at least you'll have a friend to lean on in a strange place.
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I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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first, u should'nt be upfront and tell him u like him, i usually like a girl that is playful, but not in a sense where u seem to be to agressive. Play it smoothly, and bump into him once in a while. If all possible try to get him alone with u and talk to him, but not so much as to make u seem desparate for him (meaning make him laugh, show him u have a great personality.)
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Either this guy is unbelievably shy or is gay.  Talking on the phone for months and not making a move?  Hmmmm....\nAnyway, after he says something cute or sweet just give him a little hug and peck on the cheek and say "you are so dear to me" or something like that.  Don't pull away too fast, and if he pulls you back in...well you know you got one!  Good luck!
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Maybe he likes you but is shy to tell you or make a move. Maybe you need to tell him how you feel.  Or just talk about each others feelings.
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Been there.  Uhh, well the girl i like eventually just found out, she didn't act that weird though.  You could try asking him to something simple, like the movies.  Think about how important your friendship is and how important it is that you want to be with him.  Try asking some of your girl friends.  I don't want to say anything to "out there" because i don't want my advice to hurt anybody.  If you really want a longer answer, just email me. thump713
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There is nothing wrong to smile back to a neighbor who appears friendly to you (unless you don't like him or think he looks like a stalker to you). If you think he's shy but you can make a move on first, you can ask him some questions like "How long have you lived here", "Do you have any sibling", "Where are you studying/working"... There is nothing wrong to learn more about a neighbor. Just take him as a friend/neighbor first to know each other more. Don't get too emotionally with him first because it will give you too much pressure to communicate with him and prevent you from really understanding who he is. If you talk with him more and understand him more, you'll know whether he is the one you're really looking for and how compatible both of you are. Try to ask some questions that can reveal his personality (i.e. introvert vs. extrovert, rational vs. feeling, informative vs. intuitive) such as "What would you like to do in your leisure time"? "Which kind of movie/book do you like", "Do you have any favorite kind of sport"? etc.. You can even elaborate your conversation with him by asking more details around the subject or his answer. If he has answered something that you also feel interested in, keep it on and see how much common ground you both have.\n\nYou may also try to ask something that can reveal what he likes/dislikes such as "What kind of food do you like", "Do you have any pet"? If so, what is it and why not the others? Just treat him as a friend first. It may take some time to learn about someone. If he really likes you and want you to be more than a friend, he will ask you out. If you think he is really compatible with you and both of you are ready to date, go on and enjoy the time with him!\n\nGood luck!
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I would just conveniently make yourself be around him and let him get to know you... if it's meant to be then you guys will get together.. if it's not .. well, there are alot of hott guys out there ;) i've learned one thing with relationships.. either the love is there or it's not!! Good Luck with him :D
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Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
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Get closer to him.  Make subtle moves that u feel comfortable with.  U never know unless u try
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so do you consider this guy a friend ?? You really need to sit down and talk to him. Do you have feeling for him ? Sometimes guys like to play mind games to see how you feel about them. If he is your friend then you should be comfortable asking him. If you like him make the first move. Be flirty. Hug him, kiss his cheek. If he shys away after you talk to him let him know that nothing will change if those arent his feeling but unless you do this you will never know. Or you could be sneaky and date someone else to find out how he feels but this could lead to hard feelings. Would you rather have him in your life as a friend or a boyfriend ?? Remeber friends are harder to find then boyfriends. Good luck
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I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
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If he is always like that there is a reason. He is to shy to let anyone know how he feels That sucks. One way would be to call him when his homies are not around. Tell him you like him and want more. I know it puts yourself out on a limb but you do not want to play with your feeling either.   See what happens next ime he and you are together with or without the hommies you should get some kind of reaction that will allow you to move on or get it on with this man.  Good Luck
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Ok..he's a guy right?  He wants you.  Even if he's a nice guy and is holding back cuz he thinks *you* just want to be friends, he still wants you.  If you like him let him know...some guys need to be hit upside the head before they get it...do not be subtle...just say "You know when I told you I liked you before...I meant I would like us to be more than friends".  Then, if he still looks clueless, kiss him.
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Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!