how can i say to someone i am dating in a very nice way that i want to go back and be  just friends with her.... without hurting her?
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that al depends..maybe no matter what u say ur gonna hurt her that all depends but ull never no unless u tell her the truth...good luck
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Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren
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Well you mentioned that you said jokes with each other,right? So how about letting her know of your feeling the same way,the next time you see her.\n\nFor a start just say to her,"hi,do you miss me?"(i.e in the form of joke) It doesn't matter if she says no.Tell her that you do because you have another joke to share with her.Make her feel that you are fun and comfortable to be with.Just let out your feeling to her in a way she enjoys your company and have fun.Another thing is while enjoying each others company with jokes and interesting conversation,what you can do is try to attract her attention by showing how caring you are.Let her see that you are not only good with your jokes but how passionate you can be giving her all the attention and affection that any girl would ever dream of.Who knows with your fun but loving approach,she would be impressed.\n\nWell it is just an idea.Anyway good luck to you.
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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Have a real conversation, be honest with your feelings and direct...  If she tries to get together afterwards to "just talk" don't go for it, it's just going to be more painful on both of you.
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explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
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I have learned straight forward honesty is the best thing in a situation such as this. That way there won't be any misconceptions in what you are telling her. It may shock or even hurt her feelings, but if you don't care to be friends let her know. Good luck.\n\nEagleman
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Treat them as you would a friend of the same gender.  Truthfully, honestly, no flirting and acting like you are interested in them as more than a friend.  In other words, show them the same respect and dignity that you feel you deserve, and don't throw in the sexual stuff.
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just tell her that you would like to be more than friends and see witch way it goes
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assume she's just being nice, but compliment her and let her know she is important to you. even if it is just "nice" now, it may grow into something if you show her respect.
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Are you sure she feels that way?\n\n   Tell her how you feel, how much the friendship means to you. \n\n   Maybe I'm missing something, this seems too easy. No offense, but don't females just love to talk, especially about feelings?
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coming from a girl, just ask her nicely and apologise for not saying it in the best way. it sounds more genuine than trying to find a smooth way to say it.
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look, you;'re being silly at the end.\nbe polite and let her know you are not interested\nyou don't have to hurt her feelings
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Walk her to her door ... (especially if it was a great date and she had a good time)\nsay that you had a great time with and that you wanna go out with her again some time\n\nlook deeply into her eyes\n\nand lightly kiss her on the cheek or if you think itis appropriate like\nif she tells u she had an awesome time and she most definitly wants to do it again, or to call her some time... yattayatta\n\nthen maybe a light kiss on the lips\n\ni dunno thats what i would like!
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... yeah, good one. How romantic (sarcasm)\nTalk to her nicely with a tender tone. Gently touch her arm or back. Hold eye contact.
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thats a tough situation \nbut you cant go back in time and changed what you said then\nbut im sure things will turn out for the best in the long run\nbtu for now i would suggest maybe backing of alittle bit\ncall ehr sometimes maybe causually ask her what shes doing that weekend and hint that yall should hang out\niif shes interested she will probably agree to that and continue makign  plans
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Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.