What happens when you wanted to take things slow but got caught up in the women feelings, and what happened was she wanted to be my girl very soon said never been in love, then she said she love me, was in love with me, and wanted to marry me and said i was the one and that she was waiting for me to see what God showed her, and was doind everything for your boy, then of course we got out of the will of God and started having sex, but then i mean out of know where she hit me with the 360 degree switch, she was like i fell to hard, i never thought i would love someone so fast that she just needed time and that it was going too fast for her but she put all this pressure on herself I was torn at first but healed again but very confused for a while really need some serious feedback by the way haven't really talked to her since i don't call or nothing because of what she told me and when i did call doesn't return them or the messages...
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If you are contrite in asking forgiveness (if you feel you need to), Jesus is merciful and ready to give it. I think the advice others have given of being patient is good. Perhaps flowers or a card, with a message letting her know that when and if she's ready to talk to you, you'll be happy to hear from her might be good. God loves us all, and if we stumble he's always there to help us up. Trust in Him, and pray for His will to be done. If it is meant to be, it will be. Some time will help you sort your feelings for her too. Good luck, hope all the responses help.
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I'm sorry things didn't end well for you, but you mustn't make assumptions on what happened. Not all of us are heartless like that. I know I'm not. I was in love, actually am in love, with this guy who had left for the Army. Well I waited for him and never did I stray my eyes elsewhere. When he came back, I knew he might get deployed for a year or more at any time, but never one did I ever think of just forgetting about him. I would've waited for him as long as necessary. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for us, but it wasn't because of that, there were other issues. My point is, don't despair, just because one relationship went sour. I'm sure someday you'll find that girl who will wait for you as long as necessary because she truly loves you. :)
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I would say she had to be somewhat interested. She wouldn't have called after a month if she wasn't, she would have just let it go. She may just want to be friends, not sure, but, at least you know she was thinkin about you. Long distance relationships are hard, but Wish you luck.
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If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
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Give her time and space to think. Let her know you love her but also let her know you will not wait forever that if she doesn't come back soon you will move on with your life. It doesn't sound like there was very much going on to cause the problem more like she was feeling out of control of her own life. Let her take on more responsibility and respect her choices. Try involving her in decision making and let her feel in control part of the time and she will feel loved and respected. \n~Best of Luck~
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I have known girls to feel rejected when a man doesn't insist on sleeping with them immediately.  I know it is stupid, but she probably thinks less of you because of it.  Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your effort anyway, if you are actually worried about how she would feel about it.  As to whether she had any feelings or not, she was probably too confused to know herself, so she couldn't tell you one way or the other.
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i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
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yeah these sound like she made up her mind of geting a divorce and she want to move on this happen in marriage you just got to get ready for a divorce and make new plan in your life there are other women out there i know it real hard on you right know but when she leave you it going to take you a few month to get over the feeling you just lost the one you love but it well get better over time. i wish you the best of luck.
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Well it sounds like she's falling in love with you!I don't think she'd say those things if there wasn't any meaning behind it!Maybe you should consider asking her this question because she's the only one who knows how she feels because you won't know any more than you do now by asking strangers on the internet!It does sound like she loves you though!
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Maybe she needs time to herself to figure things out. She could be confused and don't know what she wants right now. So she keeps sending you mixed messages try talking to her to see if she needs a little more time to figure things out.
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It's up to you, but Let me tell you a little story."there once was this girl that kept getting played by all the guys she ever been with, so she began to think it was something wrong with her and she didn't go out with guys anymore, for about a year or so, then one day she decided to go out with a guy and they had been talking for about three months, kinda like you, and then the guy asked her if she would like to date on a permanate basis, she played hard to get for about a month after that in fear of getting her heart broken, now this guy though was different from the rest, he, treated her well, told her the truth about EVERYTHIMG, NEVER KEPT A Secret from her, unless it was for a surprise or something like that, but the Guy got tired of waiting for her so one day he asked one of her friends, "Am I wasting my time, becuase I really like your friend but she's not talking to me" The girl knew then that she was about to loose this guy, one who finally was different from her usual guys, so she went out on a limb and went with him, and you know what?.................................................................................................................................Now there happily married and the girl is very happy she chose to give it one more shot"  So dont give up we as women have to hold our heads high and kept it up and never let a man, keep us from reaching our goals or dreams and Never let on idot keep you from missing out on Prince Charming. And if later on the down the line, if this guy you with doesn't work out, wipe the dust off your feet and keep steppin.
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As hard as it might be since you LOVE her and want to be with her. Look you need to cut her off for a while, at least until she comes to a decission of what she wants. Fact is LOVE HURTS,but sounds like your gettin used. Why would you let her use you, I know in hopes she will stay, but have you ever thought she might come to a decission if you didn't let her use you. So next time and until she decides what she TRULY wants don't let her sleep over. Just tell her goodnight and send her on her way, let her think for a while. Besides do you deserve this think of your own feelings for a change. APPARENTLY YOU'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT OR HEARD APPENTIENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER. GOD BLESS and good luck
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I would not be in any realtionship untill I figured out myself.  I had a void for 27years and felt the same way.  I would scream out on occassion "GOD IF YOU'RE REAL HELP ME!!!!" and nothing would happen.  but one day I got on my knees and said "GOD, I love life and people and want to be a big part of it, please help find the way and I will live your way."  I sware to god my life changed.  I dropped a drug and alchol problem and have zero desire to return. (trying to fill that void) I went from my longest relationship of nine months to being happily married about 2yrs later.  I am still married and have 4 beautiful and incredible children.  No exaggeration I love life truely and feel like I lack nothing.  We all have issues to deal with but we all don't to have voids to fill. (Sorry so long)
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You need to ask yourself why did you feel intimadated by this guy in the first place. You may have pushed her away with your insecurity.\n\nShe was also immature because then she would have realised what was happening to you and make an effort to make you feel more secure about your'll relationship. \n\nIf you still love her and want her, well you need to continue to give her space but try to remain friends, just in case she grows up and realises her mistake.\n\nPlease have some faith in people who say and mean that they care about you, so this would not happen again.
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It sounds like after she got to know you a little bit she found you were not the typ of guy she was looking for,no offence you may be a realy great guy,just maybe for someone else.If you want to work it out sit down with her and explain to her how you feel.If she gets upset right away and doesnt want to talk about it,that is a sign that she may not love youlike you love her.
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wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.
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Don't let her suck you in again. I'm only saying this because i am a women and people shouldn't treat people that way. It could mean that she's playing mind games with you and that means that she has an attraction for you but only because she wants to pursue it with you so basically what i am trying to say is that she is a control freak