I have this insecurity i am a model and one time i went to a casting and all the girls have DD what should i do?
130737
Hello???\n\nWell what is it???\n\nYou have big ones???  As you said in your description of yourself with your avi wherein you were soliciting guys to come and see them.\n\nOr????\n\nYou have little ones??\n\nOh!!\n\nI get it!\n\nYou have one big one!!!\nAnd one little one!!!\n\nYikes....that's nasty.\n\nAnd speaking of nasty...whats up with the note you sent to me:\n\nI copied and pasted it so the world can see what a wonderful human being you are because you didn't like my answer to your questions about your penis size.\n\n***************************************\n\nFrom: sysykass \n\nSubject: ***** \n\nMessage: You is a **** and if you wanna fight get yo little isty bitsy ***** *** over yeah if you got somthing else to tell me girl email me at sysykass.com and ***** you do not want none of this hoooooooooooooooooooooe\n\n*********************************************\n\nAnd now the world knows....\n\nyou are a hooooooooooooooooooooooooe with one big breast and one little breast.\n\nWow!!  Crusty!!!!\n\nAnd you want to 'fight' me???\nHow mature is that?\n\nGuess what?\n\nI would win because.................\n\nI have two breasts the same size!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nlololololololololololol!!!
602244
Your being a player, and you know this. You should attempt to grow up, and leave the girls alone until you do. People who act like you are, make all men and guys look bad.
560504
Sounds like you have a self-esteem problem.  You should make a list of your good qualities and go over it every day.
322078
Sounds to me like you need friends who will encourage you and be confidence builders. You're going it alone and your shyness is holding you back and this is where good friends will step in and give you support. Reach out, make friends who will help you feel more secure about yourself. Some of us here list our emails and message links to be of help. Take advantage of this and the experience others may have that can offer you support and advice as friends should.\n\nBest Wishes!!
106387
Been tru some crap myself.... people use you and just treat you like a sweet wrapper.... Dont bother going out with those girls anymore, they sound mean and sorry if its harsh but you need to get to know yourself. Know thyself and you will then know that you are better and worth more than a million of those girls..\nSpend time reading or journal writing or spirituality. Spend quality time with you, focus on a hobby... anything. By the way I am 25 and not some old granny trying to give you wholesome advice.\nI have been in this situ b4 so when I started telling my so called friends that I couldent go out or do that favor (for watever made up reason.. my dog is sick, I have an appointment, my car brokedown, ) I began to realise the reason I felt so bad about myself was because they manipulated me to feel just that in their own twisted way.\nAfter some time of spending time with you or people who only judge you by your standards you will see that you are worth so much more and have lovely qualities and attributes that are highlighted by those who love you. Thos girls bring out the worst in you. Dont give them that chance any more. It will take some time and you will get frustrated by lonliness but come on , dont suffer these fools gladly... Best of Luck xxxx
308445
The only thing I might be able to suggest is to become confident with yourself. How is your own self esteem? Are you able to gain a greater amount of confidence in yourself? Would you date yourself? If not, why not? Work on those things that you think you could change. If you can gain confidence in yourself, your insecurities might diminish, since you can see that you are worth dating. Not to mention, you might become less "needy", and also more trusting! (warning!!! Do NOT become OVER confident in yourself) Good luck!
271551
Experience has nothing to do with the modeling and acting industry.  You either have it or you don't.  What you really should be asking is do you have the goods and the skills to be a part of those industries.  Do you?  Well, if you don't do what needs to be done to get them; acting classes, personal trainer, stylist, beautician, plastic surgery...C'mon! all the stars do it!!  Whatever you need, it can be bought. Consider it an investment which is another thing that is required to be in those industries.  For modeling you need a portfolio, hire a photographer to take pics...  It's all about preparation and effective marketing...  If you've been trying to do this for a long time, you'd better hurry up, time is running out for you!\n\nGood luck!
186770
Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
261655
Hmmmm... I think that you might want to seek professional help with this problem.  See the thing is confidence isn't something that you can teach.  A professional might be able to help you unwrap why you are not confident to begin with, but I am not sure anybody is going to have a magic pill for you.  Well here goes something.  Dude, the key to sexual prosperity, is rejection.  I know that sounds dumb but listen, every time your faced with an attractive woman, you get tense and lock up why? because you're afraid of being rejected and feeling like a loser right?  Well just decide not to feel that way (easier said than done but it doesn't have to be hard).  Try this exercise, go to a bar, and identify 5 women that you are attracted to, and go and introduce yourself, i promise at least 1 will want to at least TALK to you, and then when you feel a bit more confident with talking you can start romancing.  See love, and dating and courtship is a numbers game, and every time you hear a no that is one less you have to hear till you INEVITABLY get a yes.  There are like a billion people in India right? 500,000,000 women, trust me at least 100,000 will want to talk to you or go out on a date with you.  So never take anything a woman says personally, and welcome rejection, as one less hurdle to your inevitable GUARANTEED success, and you may find that you can talk to women after-all.  Good luck bro, and I hope this helps.  I know it sounds crazy but trust me it works.
189442
well i think if you have a cousin in the modeling/acting buisness, you should consider asking her what agencies she recommends around your area. Also, agencies do give you the oppurtunity to be on TV only if they think youre ready. you can request it and ask them if youre ready and they might give you the chance. Agencies generally keep models until theyre around 30, so i would model as soon as you can, and work your way up. It's quite a bit of work, but if you're a good actor, it should be no problem. Practice taking pics of yourself, and act as much as you can maybe in school plays and all that and you should have no problem landing that commercial or Guest Star on shows! i know a lot of famous people that started out as models and are great, famous actors now! So good luck and let me know how it all turns out!
360707
Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
11141
I'm a guy, and when I usually see a beautiful woman, my first instinct is to assume she's taken. (This is the exact same thing supermodels and actresses go through.) Tone your fire down just a bit, and guys won't be intimidated of you. I know! I've been a guy all my life! :-)
667395
Sounds like you got it down. Ditch the insecure tramps. There's a reason they're insecure and flip a sh.it every time you look at someone else - They're lookin' too. She just better be at least half as good as me when I catch my ol' man lookin ;)
181917
you have a very low self-esteem... but the good thing is, you KNOW you have potential, you'll just have to have faith in yourself... why don't you try something that would make you use your talents/potentials... for example, if you can act, then go and do an audition to a play or something... or if you're good at school, try applying for a scholarship program... in that way, when you get to achieve a certain goal of yours, your selfesteem will be increased... love what you are doing, love yourself... take risks... its part of living... sometimes, we have to fall in order for our body and heart to be prepared and be strong...;o)
249144
Tell me then what does "a gay" look like????, Listen mate you should not be so concerned with what others think of you, really. Be happy with who u r and whogivza,about what others see!, You were obviously once confident in your looks to do modeling, and just because you did don't make you 'gay', Accept who you are, know who you are and live your life. And for thosen girls when you go out, they're so far up themselves they're inside out, and they end up the loser in the end on meeting a good looking nice straight guy, Just keep being you, don't change for anyone......cheers!!!!!
516775
I suggest it is you that is rubbish at darts and you're are secretly looking for tips for yourself so you can beat your friend, who is not only better at darts than you, but is also better looking. \nYou should own up to the fact that you can only ever hit the 'low riders' and as a result you feel less of a man and see yourself as a bit of a girl!
634345
Forget what you were, and start living a new life. And read a lot of books on any subject under the sun to keep your mind occupied. As you relax, over a period of time you'll get over the low self esteem bit.\nAll the best!\nst