i got a dream in that i lost my job for silly thing its botherging me very much shall i discuss this with my team leader in work place.
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No..\nThey are going to think you've lost your mind...\n\nDreams are simply a state in your unconscious mind that reveal your inner most thoughts, fears, wishes, and sometimes it's just a carnival of emotions.\n\nAs you hide your feelings from others, your subconscious needs to let those feelings go....  And dreams are one way of safely accomplishing a "mind purge."\n\nYou could also pick up a gun, climb up a clock tower, and go ballistic on the public.\nIt's really all up to you...\n\nBut bring a few doublecheese burgers on your way up the tower.\nAt least you won't starve.
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Yup it did happen to me at work..\n\nWhen i want to go up to my boss to tell him what i had just accomplished..i can see my rival walking out with the news..duh..stealing ones thunder..that way my chance of getting in to my boss's good books is reduced..
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I am actually going through it as we speak (or I should say as I type lol.) I worked for a VERY large (Internationally known) builder in their corporate office. I'll try and make my LONG story short. Not to toot my horn but I was a star employee! Raises, bonuses, the whole sha-bang! Went out for 6 weeks to have my tonsils out; the day of surgery my boss calls and says I'm fired! Not like I could call him and bit&h since I'd just had my tonsils out and the bottom of my tongue cut back that morning. Regional HR called the next day to apologize and said I did indeed have a job to come back to which is what I thought; he (Boss who I'll call Jay) couldn't do that since I was approved from short-term medical leave. Upon my return, NONE of my work had been done, AT ALL! Instead of everyone in my department pulling together (isn't that called TEAMWORK?!?) he road me like a bull! Told me I wasn't doing enough in 40 hours but yet in the 2 years I was there we built 3x the amount that we'd built when I started! I worked every single weekend for 3-1/2 months. I missed one day to take my dog to the vet, worked that weekend and the a*shole wrote me up for working that weekend and said I knew better than to 1.) Go over my 40 hours & 2.) To try and make up my time missed since "I" wasn’t supposed to but yet everyone else in the department was able to make up ANY missed time whenever/however they wished. But again, I'd worked every weekend for 3-1/2 months without him saying I couldn’t. He was rude, he was nasty; he would yell at me and degrade me in front of my colleagues AND my superiors! I even had to quit college (which meant losing a full academic scholarship) just to stay afloat at work. I loved my job and I loved what I did; that’s the ONLY reason I stayed as long as I did. I asked for a transfer to another division but I was told my HR that I had to have Mr. A*shole approve and sign off on it. Sure…. Let me walk in his office and say, “I think you’re an a*shole and I hate working for you; could you please sign this transfer?!?” I met with the VP of my department, VP’s of adjacent departments, the VP of our division, the President of an adjacent division, and finally regional HR. I was basically told I needed to toughen up!? WHAT?! TOUGHEN UP?!? I’d worked on a jobsite managing over a 100 men for the previous 10 years and their all telling me to toughen up?!? Umm… NO! I’m a firm believer in respecting your superiors, however I also believe that respect is earned; it’s reciprocal! If I was the (and I’ll quote him previous to my Medical Leave) “Star” employee, what changed? My work ethic didn’t! If anything I became so wrapped up in my work and (as I mentioned) put college on the back burned, worked 70-80 hours a week, even made myself available to all of our Studio Personnel, Project Mangers, and Superintendents during non-working hours; to the extreme of having the IT guy install all of our work software on my home computer and network me so I could help out everyone out while I was at home at night and on weekends. STILL wasn’t good enough for my boss. I think I’m a pretty tough cookie, working onsite for 10 years building apartments will either make you or break you; and I loved it! But this guy… GOOD LORD! He had me so stressed I pulled all the muscles in my throat from my nasal passage to my voice box and even damaged my voice box, all from stress. I would literally leave during lunch and sit in the back of the parking lot and cry because he was just so mean and nasty to me. That’s when I said enough is enough! Before that I started seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist because he had me believing it was all me! The Doctor said, ENOUGH! I’ve been out on medical leave now since November! Although anything to do with mental distress is hard to prove, it was blatant what he treated me like the red-headed step-child. To be honest, I really didn’t s
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I went through the same thing at my job and I went to my immediate supervisor and explained what I was feeling and asked for something different to learn about the company.  I was a good worker so they started expanding my responsibilities and giving me more challenging options to deal with.  It helped a lot!  Good luck!
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No need to lose any sleep over this. Just call and be honest, and say somthing like this. "You've re-evaluated your position and after careful consideration don't believe the role is right for you. That being the case it wouldn't be in yours or the employers best interests to attend. You will however be pleased to discuss future roles which might be more suitable".\nJob done....Good luck!!
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You need to pray about that. When you pray you should also ask GOD for the understanding of that dream. Also take heed to that. If you don't know what heed mean look it up in the dictionary. (I am not trying to be funny either)
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I dreamt the other night I lost 3 of my front teeth
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You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
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hi, better do one thing go to your office and consult your manager or director and talk with them and solve u r problem
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Also, \nI lost my job...\nAnd she's pregnant...
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I would think that the I T guy would do that or the company would set it up for you.\n\nUr also gonna have to get over feeling embarrassed asking your co workers for help. Thats why they're there to help u when u need it.  If u don't start asking u could get into trouble ifsomething goes wrong and  all u needed to do was just ask
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I would address it up front. Be honest with your interviewer that your old boss was not too happy when you left and you would prefer if they did not contact him for that reason. Maybe you can ask someone else where you worked to speak to the interviewer. Someone of authority who knows your situation.
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Put down that you left that job becuase of personal illness, the matter has been resolved.\n\nI'm sorry for your loss.
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Of course not.  Quit being stupid.\n\nListen to me.  I got hurt on the job years ago.  The boss I worked for, for 15 years didn't care.\n\nThe Insurance company tried to get me to give up.\n\nI lost my house.\n\nWe had to move in with an almost stranger.\n\nI decided to go back to school\n\nI graduated.\n\nthe first month of work, I come out to my car after my shift and a GMC Yukon is parked on MY car!!! yes on my car!!\n\nI transfer to a different Dept.:  A mental patient accuses me of rape.\n\nI'm cleared (Thank God for Cameras)\n\nI'm punched out by a mental patient, (It took six full grown men to hold him down)\n\nI thought about giving up, but i did'nt ........the bible says.  "You shall reap, if you faint not"............that means ..if you served God, you will get good things if you just hang in there.
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No, quitting your job, neither addresses the problem nor allows you to deal with the situation if it occurs again. Obviously something has happened. The hard part is deciding on the action steps to explore the situation and reach an resolution. First, I would suggest the direct approach and reach out to the co-worker. A sample conversation would be" Hey I just wanted to tell you how much I miss our weekly meetings. They really helped me plan and prepare for the week. I am disappointed that we have not been able to meet and communicate as regularly as we once did. I am concerned about the reason for the sudden lack of communication between us. " The important part is to seem sincere and non-confrontational. Your co-worker might be going through issues besides you. You simply want to facilitate communication between you and them and express how beneficial you have found your time together. I would suggest reading Harvard business review that addresses many real life situations like this.
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first of all your boss should have sent you home that day & take a wk. off or so. if you really wanted to continue on working there & that job meant a lot to you than your boss should have set up a meeting just between you & him. to discuss what ever problems you are having. we all have rights & he did not bother to ask you if you were having some sort of problem that day or otherwise that was wrong of him. what kind of boss would do such a thing to his employees? i mean you could have lost a loved one for all he cares but still yet you showed up for work with alcohol on your breath. we all know that you did wrong by showing up at work when you knew that you have been drinking. you knew better you should have called your boss up & say hey look here i tied a big one on due to some personal problems i am in no shape to show up for work today is it ok if i can take a couple of days off. if your going to look for another job just tell them at this interview the truth that you were going throu some family issues & your ex boss did not give you the time a day to explain yourself & leave it at that. lack of confidence we all have that sometime in our lives but you know we all can better ourselves if you really stopped & think about it. you need to focus more on what you really want out of life than jumping from job to job you need to find some quite time alone & follow your heart & i know you are a good person inside & out its you that keeps putting yourself down. dont worry about what others may think of you & maybe theres more to this than what your are saying?  well enough said & good luck with your new job.
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Stand above it! and admit your mistake!! I mean you decided to work for him and you made your opinions yourself, which led to you taking the employment! Remember your "gut" feeling???\n.\nI suggest, just forget it..a lesson learnt...apply for a new job and do not waste your time on a company and people that are not worth it. Believe me, it will come to your advantage in the end!\n\nAnd remember, revenge can backfire, people can lie from their back teeth!\n\nForget them, they are not worth it!\n\ngood luck