i try to lower my standards, its causing problems like not having a relationship for long periods ata time, but i cant, is that wrong
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i think you need to look beyond the outer beauty, and see the wonderful woman she is inside. thats where true love blossoms from. :]
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If you continue to use precious time living up to someone else's expectations, you will not be happy that you were true them instead of being true to yourself.\n\nYou may find yourself having to (gently) take a stand for making a decision to strive for your own goals.  Folk may get upset and tell you that you're making a mistake.\n\nLet 'em.\n\nBe true to yourself now!
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The key here is how you said immorality.  Not a little more open minded than you or less inhibited,  but immoral.  I don't like people that have no morals, they remind  me of goats in heat and about as attractive.  Be very careful, you said yourself its  a warning.Common sense isn't a lot of fun until you maybe realize it could have saved you a lifetime of heartache maybe!  Hope you meet someone with standards that you deserve.!
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It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
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there is no problem with you honey,, but there is a secret in terms of friendship which you should know, self confidence is very important in any relationship, u should believe in urself first then others will believe in you and lean on you as a friend ,, do not take much attention on what other people think or what they do, ,just do whatever your heart says and be a good leader,its really successful way , u should try \nbest wishes
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Well I just wonder what you mean by doing something wrong. Don't, for example, hurt her in any way. \nIf she doesn't love you, let her go. You can't force someone to love you.
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There is nothing wrong with you its just you have a certain taste in men their is nothing wrong with that. You will never be happy if you don't love all of him. If their is no physical attraction it will never work out. Sorry :(
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Abslolutely not!   There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend, there are many women who don't and even PREFER it that way!  Don't worry about your acne, looks aren't what will get you a good guy anyways.  Just wait and eventually it will be your turn, don't give it another thought, enjoy your freedom and don't think negatively, you have alot to offer, just have to wait til God decides its the right time.
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IT IS GREAT THAT YOU THINK LIKE THIS. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. I DON'T SEE WHY U SHOULD SETTLE FOR LESS. I AM PRETTY SURE THAT IF YOU KEEP ON LOOKING YOU WILL FIND THAT GREAT PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOU SHOULD GO AHEAD AND BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY THOUGH. WHY BE WITH HIM IF IT IS NOT LEADING TO ANYTHING. LIKE YOU SAY YOU ARE 27 ALREADY. WHY WASTE TIME LIKE THIS.
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1)There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Some people have to date a lot of people before they find that "someone", and the others are lucky enough to only have to date a few. Would you honestly rather have just a girlfriend right now, or have someone that's perfect for you that you had to wait a little bit longer to have? 2)Confidence is a very attractive quality, and the only way to strengthen your self-esteem is to jump out there, be outgoing, flirt, and don't be scared of rejection! It's going to happen, but the only way to find acceptance is through rejection.Don't worry, you'll find an amazing girl! Hope I helped! Good luck! ^.^
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that's because your nice and the men they date are pigs. i wouldn't change...try to meet different women. those who can appreciate the qualities you have to offer.
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Yes we all have and here is the key. Don't overlook things in the beginning that you know you can't overlook later. No matter how "hot" a person and how badly you want them for yourself, don't compromise to the point where it is unfair for you. If you are a woman you deserve to be treated like a queen. If you are a man, you deserve to be treated like a King. Just don't settle for anything less right from the beginning. Of course in all relationships there are compromises, but don't compromise who you are to please the other person. Make sure you get what you need out of it. You will find someone one day who will love you for who you are and you will find that they will compromise for your sake. God Bless you and you are in my prayers.
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there's nothing wrong with that .you just don't like any of them. take your time, when you find the one you like, it will be diffirent and worth it.
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You should stop beating the crap out of yourself for one...  You have a good friendship.  Good friendships are generally screwed up by dating.  Just roll with it.  Be glad you still have a good friend and go find yourself a boyfriend.  Maybe do a double date or something!  Don't try to fix something that isn't broken.  You can still keep him as a friend and date other folks.  Sounds like a plan to me.  You'll be fine as long as you give yourself a break and stop looking for reasons why you did something wrong.  You did nothing wrong, he did nothing wrong, you're still friends, just roll with it before you mess up a good thing.
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That is pretty shallow; but at least you care enough to wonder whether it's wrong.  Under the circumstances, it may be more right for you to leave him alone; you may end up hurting him more by giving him false hope, and end up turning him bitter about women in general.\n\nOTOH, if you can get over your own vanity, you might find that your intuition about him seeming perfect is more true than you realize.  This could be a real opportunity for growth in your life.
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It is possible that you are not satisfied with wht you are doing.. YOu are not satisfied with your life style. Obviously, you do not have a high esteem.. Are you attempting to compare yourself with others who you think are perfect or near so?
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romance nothing is wrong with you, you sound really sweet, you need a women who will show you the same appreciation you show her. i would love to have a man like you because i would treat you like i treated my ex that treated me like crap when i did everything for him. i made sure he had dinner when he came home from work, i did everything and i only wised he did what you do. don't ever change for nobody because if you are happy with what you do then keep doin it, just find a women who will show you the same appreciation.if you what you call e-mail or instant message me and we can talk.