ok when me n my B/f talk ont he computer...he never wants to start the convo. so i have to ... but i dont no what to talk bout n i am only 14 so dont put down talk bout sex or anything like that..I just need some questions to ask him..help me thing of some plz
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talk about sports or things that you know he likes, sometimes it is hard for a guy to find things to talk about, so whenever he asks you something try not to give one word answers
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sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.
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No,it's not you.I have the same problem with my bf.He thinks that the computer is more important then spending time with you.Tell him politely to shut the computer off for a while.Also explain to him that you hardly get to see him and while you are visiting him to spend time with you.Let him know that it's rude to ingore you like that.Ask him to check his emails and his ebay account another time when you're not there.I really don't think that this behavior is normal.Or tell him that you're not going to be with him if he keeps this up.Ask him if he thinks that you're just there for sex?Maybe you should leave him and look for someone who's closer to you.He should pay attention to you,not to his computer.That stuff can wait.Ask yourself this:Do you want to continue to be with him or to find someone else?I think that what he's doing is rude.Good luck.
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definitely try to communicate!! it will probably help your relationship, but, even if it doesn't, it'll help YOU in the future, trust me.
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He's addicted to the computer. Or maybe he's a little bored. What do you normally do? Suggest some more interesting activities. Or go somewhere else. Or invite other couples over. =D G'luck!
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Talk about movies, TV, anything you have in common. You could find out if he like videogames, cars, etc. and talk about that. It just sounds like he is really shy so you'll have to make the first move.
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sit back to back and just talk it'll be like your talking to yourself. plus if he gets bored he can sleep just playin.
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Some times guys will pull away and run to the computer for help, connection understanding..    whatever it is.. \n\nI think your on the right track..  Start making a time to have cuddles.. i love cuddles too.. and taking the time to talk and listen to there day asking questions about something they are int rested in.. \n\nIts showing your interest in them.. ..  They connect on a sexual aspect.. not all the time but most of the time. \nWomen connect on a emotional level that most men just don't understand. \n\nLaying down together watching tv.. is a GREAT step.. keep it up .. start making it a regular thing..  and you will find the addiction for the computer will slowly fade.. \nCutting it out in one hit. wont help unless your very dominate and he will follow your stance. \n\nOther wise just persuade a few hours per night with you will be nice.  That way you get your love he gets some of the things off his chest and if anything will find that talking to you will give him what he needs rather than talking to children on the computer that know nothing, about what he is going though. \n\nBlessings and Best of luck.
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Really dig in and figure out all of his interests, Let him know you want to know more about him, and your less worried about telling him all about you, if he asks then its ok to tell him about your self but right now try to really focus on what makes him tick as a person, Thats what i would really try to find out, Guys really like it when they find a girl that really is interested in them, so focus on that, Find out where he was raised, what his parents are like, who is closest sibling is and why, is he close to his grandparents? What kind of carrer does he want, not what he has but what he wants, that can tell alot about a person, dont forget to ask why, ask what kind of person his best friend is, what they normally do when they hang out, hopefully he doesnt say hit up the closest tit bar lol ask him what his favorite music is, over all favortie songs, then go home and listen to them, you might find out a little bit more about what kind of person he is and what he could of been threw, ask him what kind of person he was in high school, and see if you can get him to talk about some of his favorite high school memories, normally that conversation is a pretty big hit, every one has them... you can ask him about religion, but keep in mind to stay respectfull, most religious views are strong ones, stay open minded unless he talks about killing something in his backyard lol for the most part stay witty and keep on your toes, most guys like a woman that can show she thinks quick on her feet, and you should be good to go :) Im sure if you bring up these things other things you never would of thought up will pop into your head to ask him, have a GREAT night :) oh and if hes lucky enough to get a good night kiss, tell him its about d@mn time, with a smile, that should throw him over the edge, but dont let it go any further then that :P dont want the guy to think your easy, but you want him to know you really like what you got your hands on ;)
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hello there, i don't know, how old are you? i am only 14 ,i am new to the internet and i don't want to start off talking to a weirdo, you know :) add details to your question and i will check back here ok \n\nRikki, bye :)
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What are the benefits of having this guy as your "boyfriend"?\n\nIt's possible that your guy is shy, or maybe afraid of getting too involved with a girl, because maybe his friends will harass him. Maybe he feels awkward, and just doesn't know what to do or say. Let him know that you'd like to hang out with him a little more at school, and think of conversation starters. Make a list (for your reference only) of all of the things you'd like to know about him, and the things you want him to know about you. Then, don't deluge or assault him with 2000 questions in one day, but every time you get together with him, try to get a conversation- a dialogue- going. \n\nIf he's still not interested, or is distant, cold, etc, I would suggest that you let this one go, and find a boyfriend who's interested in being half of a couple. You can't expect a school-age boyfriend to dote on you every minute of every day, but you should be able to expect some conversation, and some company. Life's too short to devote it all to someone who's not going to meet you somewhere in the middle. Good luck to ya.
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i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)
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Usually the "lets talk" idea is..not a lets talk its a lets see other people kinda thing...Maybe I'm wrong but thats what it sounds like to me...I wouldn't be worried about it too much though....If he wants to be like that then u probably deserve better! Good luck
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If you both are apart that is probably the reason he doesn't want to bring it up.  There is nothing you guys can do if he brings it up, you never see each other.  He wants to wait to see you in order to say what he feels.  He wants to feel your vibe and he doesn't want to argue if does come to that.  Just be patient he will come around.
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Talk about her. Ask her questions about her.\n\nWhat do you do?\nWhere do you go to school?\nHave you ever been to a rock concert?\nWhat are your favorite subjects in school? Least?\nHave you seen any new movies?\nWould you rather go shopping or get a manicure?\nWhat's your favorite car and why?\nWhat's your favorite food?\n\nMost people are not willing to admit that they like talking about themselves. :-D\n\nDon't ask about past relationships and ex-boyfriends. She might go on a rant or rave about them. Relationship topics is a BIG no-no when it comes to first conversations.
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gain some confidence! let him alone, you'll have things to talk about then! find an activity for you to do with out him...
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People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. Ask questions about her. For an example of talking to a girl you didn't know, rather than say to her "what do you do?" ask "what do you like to do?" Its amazing how much more of a response you will get from these types of questions, these apply also to your girlfriend. Then most importantly make sure you "listen", when its time to talk then talk. With your girlfriend you just need to relax dude and It will flow. Try it.