My husband hates my refusal to try new foods and I hate his patience(or lack there of).
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...casually passing the waiting and very full garbage bag when going in that direction anyway.
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Sorry. . .\n\nMy husband won't let me answer those that will not help themselves.
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I have been struggling with this for a while now.  My husband keeps telling me to spend less.  Well he went in the kitchen and fixed him a sandwich and decided I could buy Miracle Whip instead of the store brand.  Then he wanted bacon and I passed that up in the store trying to cut corners.  Can't do that any more.  The price of things just keep escalating, I am ready to give up.
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Your husband needs to grow up and be more considerate. If you are doing the chores, you dictate the indoor temperature. If you get too warm, you'll become fatigued more quickly and perhaps dehydrated. \n\nSounds like you're stuck with an inconsiderate jerk who probably has an online addiction.
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Well, I would suggest getting an air freshener. There isn't much you CAN do about it unless you just give your husband a bottle of Beano or something like that. Hmm. This never happened in my house. Why don't you try to vary the menu a little bit, too?
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you sound just like me. i'm trying to work things out but i know the end result will be me leaving. i just want to be able to say that i gave it my all and totally mean it. sometimes we just outgrow them. have you ever tried to start some sort of hobbie with each other or do a date night? maybe that will get something going for you. i tried that. my husband didnt even care to go through with any of it. he just agreed to it and never did it. i'm writing a book on my horrible marriage. as soon as i get enough crap for my book i'm out. its not worth it to stay.
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idunno but my hubbie will do that too one time i asked him 2 make me some iced tea and he got up went to the kitchen and came back and said there was none and i had just made it  i could go on and on but i dont have your answer just wanted to let you know you are not alone either you deal with it or just leave him you cannot change him
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Just do it....Your husband is one of the maucho guys that wants to be the pursuer and is turned off by the female that is the aggressor in the equation of marital bliss.  \n\nIf I were you----I would do the tease thing---the sexy lingerie flaunt it in his face routine and then give him the turn down treatment when he WANTS what he WANTS!-----  Let him see how it feels to be rejected for advancements.  \n\nYou should really communicate what you want in your marriage relationship----Open up to your spouse and tell him of your sexual frustrations---"IT LIKE HELLO---MCFLY are you home"\n\nPleasuring yourself is healthy don't feel guilty about it....It's a great stress release ----Maybe you should watch an X rated movie when he's not home and just get the feel of yourself.  Sometimes those kinds of movies are necessary to stimulate the brain!
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My husband and I tried this but it didn't work...maybe it will for you guys. \nWhen we decided to have the "competition" we wrote down a list of things we would like the other to do...(IE It can be sexual or maybe some home improvements you have wanted and he hasn't done...dates whatever you want) Put each item into a box or hat of your own. \nNow...each week keep track of your weight and at the end whoever lost the most got to reach in and pick something from their hat/box of which then the "loser" had to do what the "winner" wanted. \n\nOurs didn't work because all hubby wanted was sexual things while I chose to go the house hold chore route(Wanting him to do dishes...laundry and such) He didn't like that and got upset since he only won once for the month that we did it and refused to do my things..\n\nGood luck...hope it works better for you guys than it did us!
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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  When I first stared dating my exhusband, we would go to his family's house and he'd always want me to cook.  I don't know about anyone else but I was raised where you don't just go into people's kitchens and start cooking.  I couldn't do it.  He would get really angry and upset.  His family use to look at me crazy because I didn't want to cook, I told them that it's nothing against them, this is the way that I was raised and I don't feel comfortable.  They still talked about me but I just let it go.  I told him if he wanted me to cook for him everynight, he should get us our own apartment.  I told his family if they think I should cook for him everynight because I'm the woman, he should make me his wife so I can do all that domestic stuff and be his HOUSE WIFE, until then, we're just dating and I'm not his mother so he can cook his own damn food!!!!
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Well, there's more here than simply not listening...\n...but to answer your question - yes you're wrong...\nand you already know you are.\n\nTwo wrongs have never made anything right and playing games in a relationship has never been the way to save it.\n\nYour husband will listen...\nand he will make his own decisions. \n\nTo me, it's obviously you held out him before...so guess what...you're not teaching him anything except...you'll withhold until you get lots of flowers and sugars and then you'll give in...but you haven't taught him to really hear you \n...and you definately aren't motivating him to bend to your will.\n\nI'm curious...why didn't you go by yourself to talk to the parents in a peaceable, adult fashion?\n\nSo here's the "body count" when all is said and done...\nyour son was bloodied, \nyou now have poor relations with the neighbors,\nyou and your husband are angry with each other, \nand you aint gettin any lovin...besides flowers... for three weeks...\n\nso where do you win in all this?\nwhat has your son learned?\ndo you have peace of mind?\n\nbegin with the end in mind.\nmake it a win-win situation for both sides.
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I think this is really sweet what you want to do! I don't have any good recipes but I can tell you to go to Food Network.com and they have all kinds of recipes that I bet will impress him! Just the fact that you are wanting to take the time to do something for him, for Father's day, is a wonderful thing for you, him and your marriage!!! I would say also, don't know how old or young the kids are, but why not get them involved in helping to get ready for dinner, etc? Make it a family time, a family day! That's what it's all about and if you ask me, we all make ourselves so busy nowadays that we don't take the time!!! Good luck! Hope all goes well!
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I just had  baby, so I know what you mean with the weird hormone stuff. What I found works is to find a time to talk to him when you are not PMSing. Find a way for him to nicely let you know that you are making him mad/sad. Make sure that you won't be insulted or hurt by the way that he tells you. ie: don't say shut up/ your a b**** or anything like that. Then take a moment to go to another room, even if it's just the bathroom and breathe. Don't think about it and try to relax, meditate, or whatever works for you. After you have taken a bit of time away, you will probably feel better and be able to see the situation in a whole new perspective. This will also prevent you from further hurting your husband's feelings.
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go to to http://www.lifeglutenfree.com  try some of these foods stay away from all dairy  ,  wheat,  corn,  caffeine,  alcohol, tree nuts and believe it or not salad for now\nafter seven days introduce one food type at a time see what happens wait seven days between each introduction
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They have to admit there is a problem to change. From my experience I think most are not going to do that. My husband just keeps telling me he is not that bad why do I despise him so much? He doesn't see what he has done to me inside.
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Dont! It is not your fault. You husband has always liked Men and because he was such a coward. He was afraid of what people would think of him. Do not beat yourself up about. Im sure you love him. Just pray that he gets delivered from what ever it is he's going through and move on.
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tough love.  do it now while you can still instill some good eating habits.  the hair is his hormones growing crazy.  happens to fat women tool  ask your doctor about it.  but sounds like he likes to eat and it's already causing health problems and you want to be a good parent and deal with the health problems but you're not getting to the source which is his diet.  just bite the bullet now, go see a nutrition and do what he/she tells you to do.