i mean he used to be obbsessed with me
119162
It doesn't sound like you want him so it would be WRONG to go back to him.\n\nAlso it didn't work out the first time, so it probably wont work this time.
394446
just explain to him that your trust for him is minimal, you can only help him out if he promises not to hurt you again, explain to him how you felt back then and maybe you will both be able to move on and have a great relationship. good luck xx
98795
it was 5 years ago hes married hes over you you should get over him too
259045
Are you sure that he isn't like he used to be?!\nMaybe your grandparents are right and maybe you should listen to them! I am not saying that you should just broke up again, but at least try to understand the old people, because no matter what else, at least they have already passed the things that you are just in the beginning of facing them! Be more open-minded and keep your eyes wide opened on what is around you! Don't believe too much to the people, keep your pride and believe me, it will work!
590994
Can't say i blame him you sound as though you need to deal with your jealous streak before you make any attempt at getting back together this is obviously a big problem for you and one you need to face and figure out for yourself so i would give him space and work out why you went overboard at something that was probably totally innocent
273372
Guess what L****e, I've noticed that too. * really 'dumps' himself on you whenever he feels he needs help. No offence, but I really dont like him as a person anymore. I did like him in the pre-M****e days, but now... YUCK. Plus, hes an EMO which is really starting to bug me. And his hair!! HELLOOO you are plantinum blonde!! Never gonna get it to go black!! Don't worry though, because  when he remembers that you where there when he was dumped the first time, he'll come crawling back. Either that, or I'll make him remember i.e. hurting him. xx
550633
Sounds like he is using you now.  Before you cut him out of your life, get your money and ipod back!
281899
yeah I seen him awhile ago he went that way ~~~~~~~~~>
666713
The reality of living on his own has hit him big time. don't give in, he will return to his former self given time. Good luck
299882
no he's single now i found out
270878
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
357996
call him up, let him know u were thinking about him, catch up whats been going on and then ease that part in, it has always worked for me
654343
He has absued you mentally, reduced your self esteem, made you believe that you love him so much that you  have to hurt yourself physically for him to believe that he has succeeded. My opnion is that you are too good for him because you are still hanging on. If you try hard enough, i believe that slowly you would get over him and recover back to your original self. All I could do is wish you the best of luck.
596134
well i did the same thing to my ex and we are friend hes cool with it we r really good friends
100690
Unfortunately you are going to be the ultimate judge of that. Is it different this time? Are his actions following his words? How do you feel about his being back? How does he treat your daughter?\nYou might be setting yourself up for the big fall, which means he will do it again. You must think of what is best for you and your daughter. GOOD LUCK
361801
it happens, ur still young,  ur relationship is changing, thats not always a bad thing
295023
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go