me and him talked on the phone last night and he was telling me that he was a player before but that now he ain't and he even talked about all the gurls he had tried 2 hit on, I mean is that good or bad but i still know that he could be playing tricks!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???
128719
People do change, but the fact that he talked to you about all the girls he has hit on hints that he is still probably a player.  Take it slow and make him get to really know you.
196009
well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
66544
This guy sounds like he's really confused and a bit immature.  I think you really need to answer that phone and tell him how much you were hurt by what he did to you.  Talk it over . . . you might be surprised to find that he's been just as torn up about this as you have been!
561199
If he is really bringing up the good 'ol times with you ALOT, then yes, I think he is trying to hint at perhaps trying again.  Since you are both younger, and you admit it was getting serious but also enjoyed flirting with others, I'm going to take a wild guess here and suggest that he thought the "grass was greener on the other side", as the saying goes.  Obviously, he seems to have come to the realization that it wasn't and he lost a very good thing.  Just proceed with caution, take it slow.  Good luck.  :)
10516
I think he must be hanging out with my ex-boyfriend because he did the same thing. Only problem ... I let him get away with it for longer than I'm willing to admit. Girl, I'm sure you are so sweet, smart and better than him. Just move on. I know I should take my own advice at times.. lol. This guy is doing one of two things or two of two things. He's either 1. Terribly immature and doesn't want to appear "whipped" in front of his buddies - AKA "Bro's before Ho's theory...or 2. Cheating and trying to keep you at the same time. AKA- having his cake and eating it, too. Either way, pls dump him,go out this weekend and forget about his immature, childish, sick, evil ass. Boys like him deserve to wake up with nothing but themselves,cheap beer and their dumb buddies drooling on them.
540733
If he was telling you how much he liked you and then so quickly showed up dating another girl it is very likely that he was telling her the same things he was telling you.  Move on honey, he's not worth it.  How do you move on?  You stay busy by spending time with the people that are worth it.  Hang out with your friends and family and ignore him.  You're too good for him.
140568
well, when you called him did he answer the phone? if not, well I'd say to not call him again...atleast not yet....wait to see if he calls you. because something may have come up and he hasn't been able to call you back or anything. but if you see that a week or 2 has gone by and he hasn't called, call him and if he still doesn't answer you, then I say "kick him to the curb"... since you two were only getting to know each other and not dating or being boyfriend/girlfriend, then there's nothing binding you two. so I'd say go out and don't worry too much about him not calling you.. but like I said..give him a week or two and then call him.  hope i helped out in some way..\n\ngood luck!
120998
I agree with the person who said once every other day - but I think he should be calling you in between calls.  If it's only the girl that is doing the calling - that is a sign that he is probably not as interested as you are.
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
232844
If you have know him for such a long time then he might have already have known it and you just confirmed it. He might have just kept talking to you because it wasn't anything he did expect from you. Even if he's not looking for a GF I would ask him how he feels about you and go from there, who knows maybe he's playing hard to get?
270618
You're just asking to be hurt...Honey...don't you think more of yourself?? This is not the one for you...you are HIS loss. Get  your self back in the game..
130703
sweetie,\n\nthis could be one of two things...a)hes a player (PUA) and is doing it to attract you...catstring theory, or B) hes a bit of an idiot and hes not appreciating you. i'd suggest you have a look at the this website for more info:\n\nwww.fastseduction.com
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
530522
He sounds like a jerk. Give it up. You know he's playing games with you, you just wanted to hear it from someone else. Yes- give it up.
623867
He sounds like he likes to play games.......I myself didnt like mixed signals growing up.  Honestly , you should move on and let him grow up a little
663584
If those weren't red flags to you, I don't know what would have been.  How much more obvious can it be, than for the man to TELL you he's "not nice" and "immature"?  You should have listened.\n\nI'll give him points for honesty, though he sounds like a big jerk.
295116
let him find his own way to work --- no wonder he assumes he's your man ---he got another girl pregnant and he's working on getting you back into his life---what a player ! Stop catering to him --- he don't deserve it ---respect has to be earned--- go for a guy that isn't a player --- the hunt is well worth it!