why do guys love lesbians, i love them too and am jealous if i see them make out and want to join in. what can a guy do?
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i don't think its the same way as girls view gays?\nif I were to see two gays making out, there is nooo way would i want to join in.\nrather, i think guys wants lesbians because they are the unattainable. and as much as you want to join in their making out session, there is noooo way you'd be able to do so, simply because they are too into each other to be interested in boys. and thats what intrigues you guys, simple because you won't be able to get them.
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I don't know for sure, but it's probably exciting because it's "taboo."  I, for one, *love* seeing two guys make out (although I seem to be the only one...).  I don't know why I think it's so hot, but I absolutely love seeing guys together.  Who really knows?  Different people have different and often random fetishes.
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I think either your all being a bit hard on Chancer here or some of you are incredibly stupid.\n\nHe has asked a legitimate question and nobody has made an attempt to give an answer.\n\nWhy do some lesbians dress and attempt to look like a man?\n\nIs that such a difficult question to answer?\nThere is a vague attempt of something by a 'butch dyke' as she calls herself but no explanation.\nIt does happen, SOME lesbians do dress in suits and a tie, cut their hair really short.\n\nWhy would someone who finds women attractive want a partner that looks like a man?\n\nI don't think there was an intention to offend, maybe he could have worded the rest a little better.
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Cause of pride we r happy when a girl likes us but we won't go out with her. But then when she does get a man we are jealous cause we thought you liked us. It is really confusing to grasp.
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
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lol go lesbian ...lol srry cant help you
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As a straight female, I have no shame in admitting I think two men kissing is absolutely sexy.  So sexy.  I love it.  I love gay porn.  Man on man is my bag.  Entirely.\n\nBut I understand that it isn't everyone's.  If homosexual acts gross you out, you shouldn't be forced to watch them and I don't think it makes you a bigot.  There are heterosexual acts that gross me the hell out and it certainly doesn't make me a heterosexual bigot.  I also feel queasy watching lesbians, but I have no prejudices against them.\n\nThat's the difference between just not being comfortable with watching gay sex scenes and being a bigot:  If you vote to restrict homosexual rights and discriminate against them, you're a bigot whether you can stomach watching homosexuals loving on each other or not.  You're not a bigot, just a guy who knows what he does and doesn't like.  No worries.
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A lesbian is a gay woman. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being lesbian. It sounds like you may well be lesbian. Everyone does NOT hate gay people. It's just popular to bash on them just now. Look for support - the straight/gay alliance in High Schools would be a good thing, and you should look on the net for lesbian/gay resources. Gay people have been on this planet forever. You're fine - try cybering with a lesbian once... it's more honest.
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you could be a lesbian if you want to ''do things'' w/ girls but you're actually normal. guys look at guys and girls look at girls. it's all normal! We all just wonder what it would be like to be him/her. but if you might have unexplainable feelings for girls then you might be a lesbian. but there is nothing wrong w/ that. gays, lesbians, and bisexuals are people too. we should not judge other people who just like the opposite sex or both sexes.
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That would be interesting, But I know what you mean about hardly ever seeing gay girls and straight guys. Unless the girls are really butch then they probably have nothing in common with a guy, like how some gay guys are really girly so they have girl friends.
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I started out the same way. I was attracted to guys. Had boyfriends all thru jr high & highschl. But i always found myself looking at girls, admiring nice a.s.ses and what not. It took a few yrs & for me to snap out of denial and now im a lesbian! Havent been with a man in yrs. & i dont really want 2. Sooo...maybe u just need to wait. You are young.
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I am honestly not believing some of these answers. lmao. Yes men are men and no not every does it. and don't believe for a minute that its because he finds you lacking and them not. what the heck ppl!! my honest belief. I think you have people that just simply enjoy people. I watch people all day long, men and women. It dont make me a bad person, nor a lesbian. I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I like how a woman can carry herself, and how she may or may not use her hands to talk. The way she tries to act like she dont realize she is being looked at. A smile. on either a woman or mans face, is a wonderous thing. Just so on how their lips lift slighty at the edges. Its either an amused smile, or a happy smile. Come on.. It does not have to be a bad thing. If you can't beat um join um. I point out women for my husband to look at. To show him, I too can recongnize a looker, but it also lets him know. I am aware of what and who he is looking at, without causing offense. Good luck hon:)
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You seem to be intelligent enough to think this through, despite your grammar.\n\nMy answer is partially sociological and partially philosophical, as you asked. Society says that which is forbidden is worth more. Society also cultures us to think lesbians are more sexually arousing for any number of reasons. Maybe it's because we see two women at the same time, or just because there's a mentality 'If they can pleasure each other, just imagine how they could pleasure me!' Things like that, but the bottom line is, most men agree that lesbianism is sexually arousing.\n\nPhilosophically, this is a hugely psychological Freud-related concept that I have minimal grasp on. There's a lot to do with your sexual identity here, none of which I can explain easily, but I guess the bottom line is that you are at the stage in sexual deveopment where you are interested in breasts and the female genitals moreso than your own penis, if you'll forgive my language. If it is just a phase, don't sweat it and enjoy lesbian porn by all means. Your tastes will change in a while, might be a few days, might be a few months, even years, but until then, there's nothing wrong with your particular tastes.
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I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
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Have I ever seen a lot of lesbians, doing lesbian things.  I am not ashamed to admit that I like what people call 'gay bars'... thats where all the GOOD MUSIC is, I dont want to hear the latest top 40 hip/pop every hour on the hour, thanks.  They are not as violent and competitive, not as many tramps, I like to dance, all night long, and I dont like to be bothered. Frankly, they usually smell better too.  I do wear a spiked belt, it seems to keep strange men's hands off my waist, though I dont really attract that kind of attention much.  \n\nI dont like lesbians, and they are not sexy at all to me, they are kind of anti-sexy.   Once I realize they are lesbian I am no longer interested.  Why torture yourself?  I will watch them walk by like I watch any shape I am fond of, I mean: they can be attractive and everything, but I dont sit around and fanticize about them.  I did have the opportunity to engage in activity with a couple of girls.  It was uncomfortable, I was like: WTF?  I mean, I got over it, but I didnt jump at the chance when it came up the next day.  Thats right, I said NO.     \n\nBut its 'cool' to like lesbians, because they are so hot... so really, its a man thing, if you dont like lesbians, you must be gay, etc... etc... thats bs.  You can thank the adult entertainment industry for that one.  Granted, there is a certain amount of logic behind not wanting to watch some man's :    : in action, but I for one am secure enough in my sexuality to not care, I mean, what girl wants to watch a couple of lesbians with her man?  Oh, y'all are watching it alone?  Sounds like reeeaal fun!\n\nThe main reason I dont like lesbians is that they dont like me.  I wouldnt wast time and effort thinking about or acting on a lesbian, I have no fantasies of making them 'switch teams',  I have lesbian friends, and I have even gone out with a bisexual, I dont persue them.     \n\nLesbians make good friends too, because you dont have to worry about them falling in love with you, or them thinking that you will fall in love with them.  So it takes away a lot of the tension that normally occures between men and women.  I dont have many guy friends... most men irritate me... drooling at lesbians, and stuff...lol
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This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
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i think it's the media's mistake, now atl east everyay u watch a movie or series on gays and lesb. i don't think is what's natural. God created male and female one completes the other. women know how to touch a women is simply bc they touch the places where they want to be touched. however i think if u do it with someone u have  real feelings to it will be much enjoyable, and it wouldn't hurt if u give him tips about what u like and what u don't like