It was the first time that it had hurt that much. Should I be worried?
130171
Do you still have your appendix?
595415
well i didnt bleed on my first time. it did hurt but there was no blood. I think it was because i was ready and my body was relax and he went slow so he wont hurt me as much
502021
Oh honey.  Please dont do this for the very first time just because this kid wants you to.  You have to value your self much more than that.  But, if you are sure and this is what you really want to do, here is the answer to your question. \nThe first time, its not the best.  It hurts.  Not extemely but it is uncomforable.  Once you start doing it more frequently, then it'll start to feel better.  Be sure this is what you want to do.  And make sure you dont do anything you arent ready for.  Make sure you BOTH use protection.
433729
Nah, don't worry. Did this plenty of times! Hope you feel better soon though
478130
Well it didnt hurt me I guess cause the dude didn't know what he was doing.. And I jus had a baby and whatever and sometimes when my bf and I wait like 1-3 weeks b4 we have sex again it really hurts until u know u get back used to the feeling.
425565
I think you should get medical advice as soon as possible,  sudden worsening of any pain should be checked out.  If this was an expected effect of the scan, I'm sure you would have been told at the time.
104738
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
550786
At least you're on the right path. You are aware of the situation in hand. In my opinion, your on the path to healing. I think that you're probably finished with all the pain and ready to move on. No matter how scared you are, you should do what's in your best interest. You'll probably be better off without him. \nKeep in mind that you are number one!\nLove should never hurt.. If you feel like your ready to move on, but are scared, weigh your options. Compare it to how your feeling now... Talk to someone about it...A friend. Someone who will be there for you.\n\nGood luck
307426
Yes usually it hurts the woman. Be careful and gentle and take your time. If it hurts to much take a break and maybe talk about trying another time. I hope you will use protection and be responsible.
306795
first time really hurts but after that u get used and the pain disappears
33989
Okay first breath...It hurts but you will grow so much more then you will ever know once you move pass this...Where were you on Saturday...My heart was so broke...I was told today to hang my head high and walk with pride and no matter what always know that you are better then that and you will hurt for a while and then you will see day light...Its not a matter of loveing to much or not enough its a matter of selfishness on the other persons part...Or just know that life moves and breaking up is part of that move and it hurst yes but time will heal all...Good luck
142778
girl, as long as you allow your self to be hurt, it will hurt. Just tell yourself, this is just one of life's many experiences and you are a wiser person with every experience.  Cheer up.
118956
you may be upset...but at least you know. Don't even ask why it has happened,you know why. you have all your questions answered, hey It probably hurt....a lot but live sweetie,be happy,prosper.
135542
That is so sad to hear, but i dont think that it will hurt because it seem like this one night stand boy done already popped your cherry (not to sound nasty or nothing but the last boy done open you up) it  always hurt at first when they stick it in but then after a while the pain is going to go away
122853
You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.
63099
I don't think there would be any harm in it whatsoever as it is a matter of the heart...if you did it for the wrong reasons the first time or without its true meaning at heart this will be your first time anyways as the first time was just a bath.
264569
I knew someone who did that. She said that the first week was the worst, and she was pretty sore for two or three weeks. After that she was okay.\n\nSo I guess it hurts. Recovery time depends on you. Most surgeries have that affect on people though. Good luck.