with my boyfriend, wat do i do.. i like my bf a lot
132297
talk to both of them about it and spend time with both and see who u think itll work out more with
503918
wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
540964
Show him that you care for him and that you are there for him to help whenever he has a prob. Then you would see how he reacts differently. He will probably even get in touch with you more frequently because he will understand that you care for him. When you will get the feeling that he knows that you care for him, then try to start a conversation with him and try to give him some hints that you like him and want him to be your bf. Hopefully he will respond positively to your needs. Good luck and hope that this helps you.
46374
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
106911
You can think of him, but do you still love him badly? Because you shouldn't as you're already in another relationship. It's not right not being loyal to your present bf. If you really want to find him, and you succeed, just be friends. Thrust me, things will get uglier if you go overboard.
42721
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
651300
all you have to do is wait coz i too have this problem we are even 5 yrs ++...we both wanted to settle down but you should also cosider some things and make sure u are ready for it. maybe ur bf has still other priorities this time and maybe he is just preparing himself for the future..
213864
STAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, GIRL!!!!  You should totally stay with a guy that you know is good.  You don't know this other guy, and just because kissing him felt good, that doesn't mean that it was right.  What if you end up dumping your BF, and going with this guy and finding out that he's not the right guy?  I mean, all this is up to you, but I would definitely stay with your first man.  Just try to forget the new guy.  Spend more time with your current BF.  You might regret dumping him, so forget the new guy.  Stay with the old.
450635
If you really like Sam and Sam likes you then go for it girl... Even if you break up with your boyfriend, he would still stick around... So never mind him... Enjoy yourself...
427110
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x
176350
Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth
454777
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
206573
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
363809
Ok first sit him down and have a good long talk about how you feel and how he feels. Then go an a date. Make it as romantic and as kissy kissy go goo as you POSSIBLY can. And then if it goes well keep giving it a try. If not break up. And if you just get bored break up and find someone whos more you.
255851
i say dump him...i understnd you love him...dont worry i hvae been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and i kinda think he likes my best friend too....but first off do you know for sure that he likes them and if not then i would wait to see what happens or ask him.....communication is the key part in a relationship!!!! Best of luck to you
299280
Because you are currently friends and you do have feelings for him, it is important to value that friendship.  I would mention the importance of your current relationship to him.  BF/GF stuff can get emotional and it is easy to mess things up.  So maybe you should start very slowly, to sort out your feelings and to work into this gradually.  I think the biggest issue is that you continue to respect eachother.  \nIf you keep communication open and honest, you should be able to sort out friend from boyfriend.  Make sure you have similar expectations.  Big things to look out for that break relationships and friendships: cheating, sex: moving too quickly or moving too slowly, independance and growth.  \n\nIt sounds like you are young, so talking about what he thinks it means to be bf/gf will be good too.  Telling him you are haven't done it before gives innocence and an easy way to resolve issues that will come up.  \n\nFake it till you make it....we all do.  Relationships mimmic what we see in life and in the media, so do the things that you admire in others relationships, with your own style..."playing house" in a sense,  until you can identify your own standards and grown identity in relationships....  \n\nsounds great! good luck!
493911
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..