i got a new job which i love so much, but unfortunately, the boss being so nice and gentle requested for a relationship though i know it's wrong, but i cannot resist, i'm so much in love with him that i cannot forget about him. i think of him almost every hour.
126535
There is a risk that he stops being nice when he has this done.\nBut if you love him, enjoy him. But dont destroy his marriage. All you risk is that you have to change this job later.\nLove is a mess. Do not blame yourself. \nJust do not hurt anyone.
172657
I have the same thing happen to me. It is not wrong you just have a good heart.
365720
I feel like that every day I leave my office and head for home when I work with the one boss. Sometimes it can be anxiety over so many things going on at once, at least that's what I've pin pointed it to in my situation. When the one boss is here he is crazy running around like a chicken with his head cut off, a huge tornado of chaos. It totally drains me after he leaves. Any other day I am fine, I think his chaotic manners suck my energy right out of me. I've tried just bracing myself for him to be chaotic and then when he leaves reorganise everything back to it's original spot,  also I ignore him somewhat, act really absorbed into my work and then he doesn't really bother me.
626305
I think he totally likes you. I'm sort of going through the same thing right now...I totally have a crush on this guy at work but I have a boyfriend!! Just try to keep flirting down to a minimum so you don't lead him on but also to protect your relationship. And make sure you remain friends with him, it's always good to have a buddy at work  =)
81816
I am married.  I love him and still lust him, with all my heart.  He turns me on both mentally and physically and he makes me feel like I am special in his life too by doing things for me all the time.  He's kind, gentle, honest and hard working.  He makes me laugh, he loves me unconditionally ... my heart still skips a beat when I think of him :) ... just talking about him here, makes me smile and realize how lucky I am to have my soul mate with me!!
608353
Write a nice letter to your boss, then go in and give it to him/her and sit down and have a chat. Explain how much you've enjoyed working with them but say that, as in life generally, sometimes you have to move on. Keep it friendly and stress what a good boss they have been and how much you have learned. Also offer to help with recruitment for your replacement. It's very hard and I've been in the same position - you feel personally responsible for letting them down - but try not to feel like that. It is only a job after all. Good luck and enjoy your new job!
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Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
505036
In real life I chose a man who loves me more than I love him, and the relationship is working out fine.  He has treated me better than any man I ever loved.
48312
I really like my boss alot! He's a good guy and realizes the hard work we all do....but geeze!.....The man is a "know it all" which is very irriating when you know he has no clue what he is talking about but displays that "know it all attitude". On day we were talking about giving birth....and there he was all up in the conversation like he has given birth before or something and telling us how it should be done! LOL!
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Its very unfair, these things just make you feel lost and frustrated.Your boss is a rat!so is that alien.\n A boss should keepall his employers happy and treatthem equally.He sholud have helpedyou there.You did the right thing ,I wouldnt have been able to tolarate such a man.\nMan,you did good for a person who didnt care about you, you should be PROUD! hold your head up high .\nDont feel sad,it WAS the only way out. Had you stayed you would have regretted it.Tell your boss on the face
429093
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
294953
Doesn't sound like a good plan to me. I like my thoughts to stay to myself. I often think to myself (especially around my boss) I would really like to tell you off or something in that sense. But I pretend to be a good girl and don't say anything to offend others.
72160
I love the one who loves me so i guess i'm lucky. If your going to be in a relationship then at some point you have to love each other or it's not going to work.
415133
I love my other half to bits, and he me, but he does have some DISGUSTING habits but I would not change a single thing about him because he is who he is and I fell in love with him like that. His habits are foul, men in general are though, but he is very sweet and loving and I love the fact that he can just be himself around me and I know there are some things I do that drive him insane but he has never asked me to stop doing them or to change things about myself for him. People are not perfect and that is why God gave us tolerance.
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i kno i'm in love w/ my bf b/c everytime i see him or hear his voice or laugh i get butterflies in my stomach. i always want him w/ me. i tell him i love him and do things that he likes to do.
569237
I used to when  I was in a relationship I was no longer happy in.  I don't fantasize any more.  I love the man I am with now.
348509
wow some deep thought there, well from some past experiences i can say that what you said is true, but at the moment i'm in love and it feels just right, i believe i have found a good woman, we have differences yeah but in the end my love for her is stronger, so maybe what you wrote here is because you are going thru a tough time in a relationship i guess