I don`t live in some huge town so I don`t have any place for "clubbing"as you would call it so please be creative and imaginative in your answers. And I don`t have a boyfriend , if that means something.
136253
You can gather up some of your friends & drive to a larger community & celebrate your birthday there. Make sure you have a designated driver in your group or stay overnight. Whatever you do, have a safe & happy birthday. I wish you all the best.
140386
what is the largest city nearest to you, go there...the night life in larger cities is much better since they're so culturally diverse. If you want your small town to offer more...simply go to the city council, and petition for something cool that singles can do without driving to a big city. Cite the fact that the town needs something to attract singles, and the general public to local businesses.
339212
join some clubs\nbe more active (ASB, etc)\nstudy groups
247414
clubbing! or rent a hotel thats next to the beach or travel...
538025
I like to go out with a bunch of friends for the dancing and the music. \n\nBut yes, a lot of people go there to meet people. I guess its not totally a bad idea, but you never know what kind of person you could be meeting there. Most guys expect girls at clubs to go home with them that night. \n\nI go either with a bunch of girl friends just to dance and drink and have fun or I go with my fiance just to dance and have some fun time away from the house.
375938
It's not really a new stereotype. People have always said that girls that wanna have fun must be dirty and bad. It has nothing to do with clubs, it's just people have issues with girls who don't fit into the oldschool gender role. I don't know if we'll ever get rid of that, but oh well.
200519
rock on, rock on. uhm, try online. look for local clubs and on internet for personals and ask them
292700
how about a adventuer weekend , quad biking , camping , climbing , horse riding , could be alot of fun especially if theres a pub or pubs nearby to enjoy your evening meal and have a few beers . there are web sites that taylor make parties like this for you but cant think of any off the top of my head . hope you have great time anyway whatever you do .
505268
Try local clubs or decent bars.
653758
Yeah! Poodle skirts babe!! I completely understand. Whatever happened to sharing a milkshake after a great carnival? The problem is, some of us are too tall or too old to ride the rides. lol. But I understand. Clubbing, walking on the beach, etc. It's a lost art. I write poetry and I consider myself a decent singer, but I wouldn't be very happy about singing in an open bar. lol. If it was for the one I loved, deffinately. ^_~ Love is an embarrassing sport, play it to the fullest. Best of luck finding the guy that wants to give you a piggy-back outside the sheets.
3004
I recommend doing it someplace with class (not at city hall).  Sounds good to me.  You won't be sorry later.  Throw a party for everyone when you get back.
199718
I doubt that drugs are the answer. You just need to get proactive and get involved in your new community. Start at your local library; see if your town has a newcomer's club. Check out your local community college for adult classes -- meet some new folks over a pottery wheel or ceramics class. Look at Yahoo Groups for groups that are listed in your city, pick a few that match your interests, join and start meeting people. Develop some online friends that you can take anywhere -- consider blogging, chat rooms, etc. If you're into religion, local churches are always involved in activities where you might meet friends. Volunteer! You will be making a difference while meeting others. I know that's a lot to throw at you, but if you think about it, that's how we all make friends. We find people who share our interests, begin with those interests as common ground, then develop a relationship over time. \n\nIf you're really bugged with the boyfriend, you should certainly talk to him about it. Of course, you could also just plan a private camping trip, just the two of you. Try not to be annoyed, though. You will be thankful that he wants to have his own friends when you have a passel of girlfriends and you all want a girls' night out.
426861
Usually just to have fun with friends and maybe meet a few people. I've had one night stands. It was fun but, now I'm engaged so, such things are definitely not going to happen anymore. When I go back to college I'll be married and if I do go to parties it will just be for a good clean time maybe get drink and smoke a little reefer.
667305
Start a young women's club. Get together every other day or so and go for a nice long walk and talk with each other, have fun.
310590
play the small clubs and develop a following.  Once you have a following, you can play bigger places....then maybe you will get noticed.
78946
well, singles bars are a good option for you. They are open till late at night, and you have your choice of males or females, whatever your preference. As an added bonus, any alcohol your victims imbibe during the course of your whirlwind night out - you will also imbibe. And let's not forget that if you choose a few partners, you will also soon have a small group of vampires to do your bidding. Perhaps it would be called a coven, a tribe, group or any other simular such title you choose. \n\nBest of luck and happy hunting!!
269652
Try doing it in new locations.  Maybe somewhere that is sort of public but not.  Sneak off somewhere for a quickie.