ok one question i asked was how can i tell if he likes me? and now my friends (against my will) asked him for me. and he said he liked me as a friend (but still stares at me) so now i  am trying to forget him but friends keep bringing him name up no matter how hard i try his name or face just ppops up in my head. help me please!
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You called me? Yep, that's my name. Help Me Please. Since your "friends" asked him against your wishes, I would not ask them to not mention his name. They probably won't listen to you this time either. Why didn't they just ask him who he liked instead of putting you on the spot? Keep yourself busy and hope he stops popping into your head. Sounds like you like him a lot. He might like you a little too but just wasn't willing to admit it. If he didn't he would just ignore you, not stare at you.
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If you want him to ask you out, I would suggest telling one of your friends to "accidentally" let it slip that you like him and see what happens the next day.  It might be weird with your friends and him if you went out with him, but your friends will get over it if they know how much you really like him.\nGood Luck!
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Quit thinking he does/or doesn't.  Continue to talk to him and wait till he asks you out.  Then you will know.  Keep friends out of things.  The guy may have been embarrassed or felt pressured and you don't really know what your friend said to him to ask him.  Since he talked to you again afterwards, sounds like there is some hope for you.  Slow down.
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Well, the problem seems to be that neither of you are telling the other about your liking for him or her. Instead of assuming that you don't like him, why doesn't he ask you straight away? Then the problem would be solved in minutes.\nHis friends tell you that he likes you. Why don't they tell him that you like him too?\nAs it appears that neither the guy nor his friends aren't going to be of much help, you have to take the initiative to clear this misunderstanding. First talk to him on the phone and tell him that you want to talk about a very important matter in privacy. When you meet him at the appointed place (a sparsely crowded restaurant or a park) at the appointed time, tell him that you have been wanting to tell him something for a long time. And that it was for this purpose that you have invited him here. When he wants to know what it is, tell him about your feelings for him confidently. Next, ask what he thought about you. I think, things would move their own way after that. Best of luck.
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i wouldnt do that, its better if you and your friend not do anything, let him make the first move. but if you really wanna know, dont ask him, ask his friends, but be discreet, dont make it obvious that your friend likes him and be careful to not make it seem like you like him.
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i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
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If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
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I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
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well, number one, DO NOT get a friend to ask, it messes things up...so i would just flirt with him, and be really nice and sweet, you'll sense it if he likes you.
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Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
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well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
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i would try to talk to him, and hint to whether or not he likes you. but don't directly ask. maybe have a friend talk to him, or even talk to his friends. try talking to find stuff out about him- so you have a foundation of your relationship. and good luck!
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Dont ask your friend to ask him. Ask him YOURSELF. Guys might get a little bit more pressured when they see somebody asking him something for somebody else. Once you ask him yourself, he will know that you actually DO like him.\n\nHope I helped. ^_^
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I think he might actually like you. Not 100% certain, but it could be true. I mean, why else would he do all of this stuff if he didn't even remotely like you? Either he likes you, or he's trying to stalk you, and the latter is very uncommon.\n\nAs to why he told you that he didn't like you - a lot of guys will deny stuff like this if they're frontly approached about it. If a girl randomly walked up to me and said "Do you like me?", I highly doubt I'd give a straight-forward "Yes" or "No" since it'd be hard for me to explain it in such little words, so I'd lean more towards "Not in that way" to just ease it off. And, if I did like the girl, I'd think of a way to really show her that when I was ready. \n\nKind of a complex process, and I wouldn't be freaked out by this. Just observe his actions/body language some more. You should be able to tell eventually if he likes you or not.
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i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
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How about have the friend ask him if he likes you?\nThat's better than your friend telling him that you're interested b/c then what if he says no and then you'll feel foolish. \nI'd tell your friend to ask him if he'd be interested in you.
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he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.