Do you feel better when you see your EX's new girlfriend/boyfriend UGLIER than you? just kidding.\n\nbut do you?
135061
I'm not intimidated by my ex's new gf bc he used to beat me and was very verbally abusive to me too. Plus she's still a minor and he's 24. So if he goes to jail for it, it won't be my problem.
659533
I dont see why a stranger would say it at all. Your an adult I assume? Adults don't generally walk around saying 'oh isnt she pretty' except in reference to babies and young children. Truth is, I think maybe its what you want to hear cause your feeling insecure over the breakup.  Life goes on and you'll meet other guys.
317582
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
365925
she is obviously missing the ex and isnt completely over him...there maybe something missing in her new relationship or maybe she started the new relationship too soon and is still on the rebound from the old one...either way she dosent seem satisfied with her new boyfriend
212970
I don't think it's fair to the new guy that you're still in love with your ex boyfriend. Serious or not, he deserves your full attention and care. If you can't provide that, you should let him go so that he can find someone that can give him her undivided attention. You need time to heal and to get over your ex boyfriend and staying with another guy is not the way to do that.
114936
I wouldn't judge you for it, but I don't think I could personally do that to my friend, especially not a few weeks after they broke up.  But thats me and my friend, it depends on how your friend feels about it etc.  Don't beat yourself up over it though, perhaps talk to your friend about it.
606667
Gurl, I feel that.......i married an ugly guy but i love him. Still kinda regret it cuz of other people's reactions sometimes i wish he would get plastic surgery i guess i didnt see how ugly he was before marriage..........but they say love is blind. but let me tell you there are not that many handsome ones out there so good luck and follow your heart
582728
mmmmmm...\n\nWell i thought about this one, when my ex and i broke up, we only dated for a couple of months but we were like best friends. We ended in a stupid way, we just stopped talking well he was ingnoring me and i to him and so forth.\n\nBut if he ever rang me back after so long like in your case, yeah i would catch up with him. I would make sure i looked my best and meet him somewhere, to show how much i have grown and how much i look better. If i were you honey i'd meet him and dress real hot. Don't talk about what went wrong, if he was ignoring you well its his loss. And rub it in his face and show him how much he's missed.\n\nThats what i did once, i met with another of my ex's who said similar things along that line, and he saw me, and after our interlude, he rang me back and asked me out again after 3yrs. what do you think i did??? I just said, sorry i just wana be friends, even though i thought we had something going on, but i realised, he ignored me and played around. I was over it and so i met him just for a coffee, and he was wishin he had never let go of me!!\n\nSO basically, if i were you, i would be friends, sometimes if you and your ex were good friends, its good to keep it that way, cos you both know alot about eachother from the past. But dont forget the reason you broke up, remember why it ended and dont fall for the i still love you crap, cos if they did, honey they would of never left the picture. And even if they left for a bit, it doesent take 1 1/2yrs to realise and come back. \n\nI would talk about all the good things that i have done( rub it in their faces) all the ppl i've met, and so forth. You know the best revenge on ex's is success. You dont have to hate eachtoher, you can be good friends, but it will kill him for ever letting you go and not contacting you all this time.\n\nmake sure you look super hot!!!! But leave it as friends. By the way my ex and i are still good friends. I know in his eyes he wants me, but thats the beauty of break ups, you have control of the situation, and you can think things through and move on, whilst still being good friends or not
324817
Are you ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that your "boyfriend" and the "ex" are split up or are they still TOGETHER and he is lying to the BOTH of you?!?
327283
I personally would tell him that it's not the best idea to lament over the old gf with the new one too much.  It would make me feel as if he was measuring me against her to qualify me.  BUT, you can offer to talk about her with him in context if he just needs to express stuff.
124463
hey,...i m kinda in such a situation too. just joined this new company, and there's this guy who always look at me whenever I pass by. He even looked at me admiringly when there was once we were in lift, and he was with another girl, whom I heard later that the girl is his girlfriend. Mmm....but then, I have bf too. But, I kinda like the attention, and think that he's cool. Never talked to him, but I have fantasy about doing it with him. Am i bad?
589484
well of course its going to bother your new current girlfriend because we first wouldn't enjoy the fact that you still converse with your exgirlfriend.  whether if she gave you a small gift or a bit gift, it still bothers us the fact that you accepted it without thinking it'll hurt us.  think about it, her macho exbf giving her flowers on a random day, how would you like that?  ever thought about being in her position for once?
636911
Understandable that you would want to keep something to "remind" you of your ex and the good times. But if you enjoy the company of your new guy; I would put the picture away for the sake of any argument. How would you feel if he held on to a picture of his beautiful ex?
128337
I agree with loving_father.\nPut yourself in your friends shoes. How would you feel?\nI was in this situation once. My friends knew my GF was seeing someone else and didn't say anything. Needless to say, they are no longer my friends. Do the right thing.
407304
It's natural to both feel al little twinge of jealousy when you find out an ex mate is with someone else, Id' say she's reacting the same way you reacted to her.
507039
BWAAHAHAHAHAHA....Oops sorry, I am just wiping the tear from my eyes from laughing so hard.  You are with a nicer guy than the loser you were with before!  Don't let go of a good thing--this new one adores you.  Now excuse me while I go back to laughing...BBBWWAHAHHHAHAHAA!!!!!
639375
I do the same thing.  Nothing is wrong with getting rid of the possesions that remind you of an ex-lover.  And if his feelings were hurt, TOO BAD!