girl really likes me.....and i really like her too.....but im goin to UTSA and i live in allen........i dun wanna get involved because its gonna be a long-distance relation....but i dun wanna let her go......what do i do???
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Man you're killin yourself thinkin about it...just go for it!Worry about that in summer...you'll be sad either way towards the end.But if you get w/her now you can bring some sweet momories w/you to college...
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Nick, I'm not going to say "ditch" this "perfect" girl but I'm going to give you something to think about.\nWhat happens if you spend all your time on this girl when you never know that there's another more deserving girl looking from behind the scenes.  And, what happens if you waste all this time on her when suddenly you two go out and you find out that she's not so "perfect" at all?  Follow the advice of others, go into the dating game for once.  Probably this "busy" "senorita" will feel jealous and at the end will feel bad that she has been spending too much time on the books and all that most of the "great guys" will be taken?  \nMaybe, just maybe, you could wait.  You two are both young there's still time after high school to pursue love.  Right now, this girl is probably worried about her future and that's why you should wait for her.  You too should be busy with the "important" stuff because hey!  I'm sure all of us people who graduated from high school are probably thinking why didn't we do our homework instead of partying and stuff?
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Man, you think you are lonely now, wait until she gets into it. You won't see her because she is going to be all over every frat guy around! ha ha ha ha. Sucks to be you, try not to think about it.
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you already told her you like her, so now it's her turn to make a move. stay casual with her and act cool.patience is a virtue! good luck buddy!
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So friend, it definately sounds like there is some flirting happening.  you should, in a calm manner address your Gf regarding the issue tell her the ruth that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would like to do something about it, but the best thing would be is that if she felt strong enough towards you she wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would reduce her time together with dude, especially since school is out.  As colleagues, I can understand that they may have gotten to know each other pretty well and may have a strong mental connection. but there are certain places you just don't go...if my fiancee (we're 29 and 32) knew that a boy at school liked me and flirted sometimes, he would be pretty hurt and I would minimize the chance of that happening by not putting myself in a position that would have me being responsive to the flirting gestures of another and dilating pupils (other signs of flirting that are difficult to prevent), I would just not be around that person to avoid that type of interaction.  \n\nHopefully if you talk with her, she will reassess the motions and actions that she is making and that are happening between them and understand that they are not appropriate.\n\nGood luck, you need to ultimately do what is best for yourself in the long run..whatever course that means you should take.\n\n\noh and the quote: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...is in no way from a "show"..it is Saint Augustine (November 13, 354–August 28, 430)...well before they had T.V.
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You should just go for it. It sounds like this girl really does like you, but can't let go of her boyfriend. Show her that there are better guys out there, like you. Flirt away. and have fun.
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heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
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Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren
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If you guys really love each other you can wait. Keep talking to her and when you get enough money, go see her. I know it's hard not being with the person. you love, but if it's meant to be it will happen eventually. In the mean time talk to her, write to her, and you can chat w/ cam
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Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
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While you guys are apart try to speak with her as if shes right there. If you talk to her like, "Oh, I love you baby i wish I could be with you this very minute" all the time, it will make her feels kinda smothered. And say for instance if she may want to take a break, stuff like that could make it harder for her to admit it. So take things really slow try to make it more of a fun experience and not so gloomy. You have to figure that if you gys do make it, that would be amazing. So the best way for that to happen is to stay happy. You guys are going to college which is something in life that you need in order to help fufill dreams. So when college is done you guys can look back at all the happy things. Dont make college a bad an mopey experience. Be excited, and say "hey it may suck that were going to be apart for sometime. but its not as if im going to the war or anything. were still going to talk and see each other. Maybe not as often, but it will help our relation ship". thats my best advice from coming out of a few long distance relationships.
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Might be fun or, at least interesting, to persue online. I have a friend online and I have pretty much the same relationship, as you do with Alice, so I know where you're coming from. \nIs she into girls, besides you? Is she coming to your state for college b/c you're there? You said, "possible that she's coming", which means you may not get to see her? Can you wait a whole 11+ months for her to "possibly" show up? No, I'd definately do the online thing till you can be together. Maybe you girls will find out eventually that you were just meant to be soul mates and best friends, and not lovers. Maybe you were meant to be together. Maybe you two will end up leaving a trail of broken guy's hearts everywhere you go. Being in college, and not being tied down (ie boyfriend) this could be your oppurtunity for a once in a lifetime, amazing experience. \nI'd definately speak to her (yea, like you dont already! lol) and find out her feelings on this matter. Dig deep, and see what she thinks...\nGood luck, and I wish you (and "Alice") all the best!!!\n;o)
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This is tough. Everyone is in a difficult situation when a guy likes a girl in a relationship, no matter the status of the relationship. I'd say be a friend to her. Hang out with her in moderation so as to not arouse suspicion from the current boyfriend. Give her moral support if she needs it during a possibly impending breakup, but do NOT encourage her to break up with him for you, in any way/shape/form. This could cause gossip, this could cause her to see you as a housebreaker, this could cause boyfriend of the day to kick your ass. And right after she breaks up with him, if this happens, it is not the right time to ask her out. You don't want to be the rebound. And you don't want her when she's just getting over that. It's not the right start to a healthy relationship. Be that good friend for a week, two, as long as you can wait after the breakup, and if you're sure she likes you, ask her out... or maybe sparks will fly before then... anyways... good luck in this hella conundrum
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keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
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Well if you really like this girl then why do you have to call it quits? But If you don't like her anymore then don't waste more time and end it ASAP then move on.\nIt's just a matter if what you feel for her is enough for you to hold on to the relationship or is it enough for you to let go. You will still be the one to answer your own question in the long run.
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WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
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Well tell her how you feel and maybe if you're lucky she might feel the same way. If she and this guy aren't close then maybe she likes someone else and doesn't want to get too involved. She may be waiting for the right guy to sweep her off her feet. You should be that guy.