well today i asked my g/f why she was still with me and she said cuz i care bout you and because i dont want too lose you as a friend but she said she dont got feeling for me anymore....what should i do? im thinking about breaking up with her but i dont want to be mean but i want her to feel bad and guilty because of that what should i do?
135708
Move on...there's better fish in the sea.
343796
i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
492754
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
17840
The sooner you tell her how you feel, the better. If you drag this out, it will be more painful for the two of you. Just sit down with her and discuss the situation like adults and explain to her why you feel that you can't be with her anymore. Don't feel like your reasons aren't good enough. And don't let her convince you to stay with her if you don't want to. She might get emotional, but stand by your feelings and be strong about it.
49745
You need to ask yourself why did you feel intimadated by this guy in the first place. You may have pushed her away with your insecurity.\n\nShe was also immature because then she would have realised what was happening to you and make an effort to make you feel more secure about your'll relationship. \n\nIf you still love her and want her, well you need to continue to give her space but try to remain friends, just in case she grows up and realises her mistake.\n\nPlease have some faith in people who say and mean that they care about you, so this would not happen again.
621553
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
327287
I think she was trying to tell you something...You should have said something like,"well, you have a boyfriend, aren't you happy with him?" Ask her some time what she meant. Maybe she will dump her bf if she really likes you and maybe she thinks you will dump your gf to be with her. You'll never know unless you ask her.
509152
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
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You've got to ask yourself what you're expecting from this relationship with your girlfriend.  If its just a fling and she feels the same way then you've answered your question.\n\nIf she feels the relationship is special and you don't then you have to ask yourself:\n\nDo I care about her or am I just interested in my own selfish pleasure?\n\nIf it's the latter, just realize that you will be breaking her heart...
344851
Be honest with the girl that you are dating (before you end it)! She will have so much more respect for you if you tell her straight up whats going on. She may be upset at first, but in the end, she may not be as heartbroken, as she would be if you just break up with her, and date her friend without her knowing. Besides, if your girl and her friend remain friends, then you will still have contact with her, so end it right! She'll understand.
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i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
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I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
105632
I think you should find out why she said no. Maybe she feels like you do for someone else, you never know! I say go ask for her reason and then come back here and we'll find a solution for you :) good luck
437704
I think it would be better to be open and honest with her.  If you get too involved and are still having these feelings, you will no doubt, break her heart.  It might turn out that you make better friends.
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Sad to say, if she doesn't want to go back to you, there is nothing you can do - it just isn't meant to be.\n\nTry to remember the happy times you had together, and when you are ready, go find someone who will want to be with you.\n\nshe is offering friendship, so if it won't hurt your feelings too much, why not try to be her friend.  There are no guarantees, but maybe in the future, if you remain friends, and if you still want to be with her, it might happen - but see how things go.\n\nGood Luck!
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I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
596263
well all you can do is just give her space, and yea. but the main key is to communicate with each other about your feelings and etc.  but if she really wants to break up with you, then all you can do is just accept it and move on. i mean she is not the only one, there are more fish out in the sea waiting for you! most likely its just puppy love, or then again you really might love her. always remember all the good times that you two had together, and move on with your life. i mean there is no sense on getting depressed over something silly as this. believe me, its not worth it! but if you ever need someone to chat with or whatever just e-mail me at sports2rhyme@yahoo.com or teddybear2006_2007@hotmail.com