I'm not a P.I.  but when i found people i usually did it really quick but i made a promise to a beautiful lady that after i found the last person i would'nt do it anymore,but i want to do this for a beautiful and great lady,the 1 that made me promise  but i want to do this for her.Her maiden name is Pamela Sue Worley,the baby was born in Pheonix Arizona,me my name well that's not that important but its outlaw (David)and why i care for the lady alot more than just like"love" this time i'm asking for help to find a person for really the only very special Lady i'v ever had in my life,she's 1 of a kind,if you do find him,i'd apperciate  it if i can talk to him.Like i said his name i think at birth in pheonix was Louis Dean Jr.
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try to find it on the internet.. google or yahoo. i tried it and i got so many results i just don't know it the louis dean you are looking is the one in the internet. just try to find it in google
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I met my first husband on ICQ messenger.  Like I said, 'first' husband.  My second, current, husband I met through a friend that I met online!  This time it is much better.
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why don't you start with this:\n\nhttp://genealogy.about.com/cs/adoption/a/adoption_search.htm\n\nWe just found out my mother in law had a baby in the late 50's.  She was contacted by her son (who lives in Australia) and they've been corresponding ever since.  She was 'forced' to give up her child, and no one knew about him except my MIL and her siblings.  It was a very scary thing for my MIL to 'confess' to her family there was another child before them.  But it's a great weight off her shoulders.  She is happy to know her son had a good life and is not angry with her for giving him up.
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dear sunshine,\nI am a 31 year old married man with two boys, i left my wife almost two years ago, cuz of cheating, i was about to forgive her and take her back, but i found out she is pregnant.\n\ni still have not decided if i even want to take her back and adopt out her baby, she wants me back, i dont know.\n\nbut one thing i will tell you sunshine,\ni know i loved her, truely\nfor she had the capacity to make me the happiest man in the world,\nand yet at the same time;\nshe could hurt me more than i ever knew i could be hurt.\ni believe that this is what true love is, and that it is unconditional- no conditions, such as; i will love you if you do this, or not if you don't.\n\ni will always love my wife, and have already forgiven her.\nbut that does not mean i want to be with her....\n\nyou should ask yourself this,\nif your man got pregnant from someone else, (God forbid, :) ) - would you take him back??\n\nn e way,\ngood luck.
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Well, I am on the opposite end of this one. I wish I didn't know my parents, or at least had different ones. They have been nothing but a source of disappointment for me. When I was little, I used to wish that someone would come and adopt me. I think with Vega, she should be glad she had a male figure who was willing to be her father- and not worry about who the sperm donor was. If her real dad cared, he would have been there for her.
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After I read it, I was sorry I clicked on it! What a clown. I really hope my visit isn't the 2,000,000th! Why are you talking it up for him? Guys do stick together, of course, duh, why did I ask! You sure he's not you? How did you know about this site? If he makes it, I hope she welches on the deal and dumps him.\n                just call me: Polly Purebred
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I dont know how I can top the laster person to post an answer, it was pretty good and she was right on her game. \n But I do want to add a few things that I know for a fact. Firstly that you will never fully forget this guy and that is a good thing. I have been married for nine years now and the woman I was with before I met my wife is still in my thoughts. No I dont want to be with her, but I do want to remember the pain she caused me. It has made me stronger and more gentle all at once. I now see the mistakes I made with her and I make sure that I dont make the same ones with my wife. As far as him hooking up with some ugly gal, get use to that. When guys loose something good even if it was their own reasons for leaving, they have a tendancy of grabing the next closses thing at hand. She just happened to be the unlucky girl, she will soon be dumped and tossed aside. That I can promise. Been there done that. \n As far as you not feeling like you are a good looking ladie. Well I would have to say listen to the crowed on this one. Do you think every one around you would lie. Dont get to proud however as pride does come before distruction. But do be glad that you are who you are and never ever let the sad things in life throw you off your game. Be glad of them and use them to your advantidge. Tuffin up and thank God that you still have plenty of time to meet someone new.
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Not only are there but I am here as proof.  My fiance will be fifty next April and we are marrying next May.  She is not only intelligent etc. but also my best friend and I hers.  We met on line three years ago and although we both swore previous to this that we'd never remarry we now find that we lied to ourselves. Ha!  Really though there are a lot of fella's out there who are looking for the type or woman you have described.  Thing is though you may have to go through some of the ones that give the rest of us a bad name before you find your knight in shining armour.  Best of luck to you and I truly do hope that you find a good guy who will accept you for who you are.
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Look up Piedmont and call and ask for her. I'd find her for you but I'd have to charge you. I'm a PI.
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I put flyers up all over the town wbere I was born with all the info I know about my birth parents!  I found my Birthmother in 4 days! Is cost me about 5.00 to do! OK with gas at the time (1995) 15.00.  \n\nWarning: When I did find my birth mom, she didn't and never has wanted to have anything to do with me!\n\nGood luck
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They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.
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have  you tried going through the adoption disclosure agency and registering with them.    I'm not sure where you live, but i contacted the one in toronto, On, and they found my birth mother but she didn't want to see me and i haven't seen her in 45 years.  My e-mail address is devon_46@hotmail.com if you need more information about the agency and live in or near the toronto area
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I'm sorry that I can't help, but I'm so glad that you're finally going after this. It must be hard for you and it's going to take alot of courage, but in the end, you'll probably be glad you finally met them after all these years! Best of luck to you! I really hope you find them.
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Is there anybody else in the family that could be a match? That's always a good place to look first. You have my prayers too hun. Try to find friends who may be a match too. Keep searching dear, you're right, God has a plan for you, and believe it's a new kidney. Good luck on your search
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ask her about items, start asking her where the shampoo is and random stuff. That is how I met my husband...He came through my line at the register 3-4 times a day, he didn't say much but ask me how I was doing, where some things were and then would leave..but back into the store instead of out the door..he repeated this for about 2 weeks. Then one day he went to some other girls line and I realized that I was a bit jealous. I hunted him down and found him in the stationary isle gave him my number and haven't been able to get rid of him for 4 years! Good luck, just be sure to stay on the "normal" side..very fine line you could be considered a stalker.
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i can only speak from what i know about my friends mom. she gave her first child up for adoption because she was very young and the father moved away, and this was in the 60s where it was still 'bad' to be an unwed mother. she had to go to another town and stay in a young mothers home until the baby boy was born, then she signed the papers. that was almost 40 years ago and she thought about him all the time, every birthday holiday, when her daughter was born and as that daughter grew up, etc etc. she did not try to contact him because she had no way of knowing if his parents had told him he was adopted and did not want to upset anyone. she knew she made the best decision she could at the time and hoped and prayed he was given a happy life with caring people.\n\nabout 2 years ago her daughter decided to put her name into the adoption records place and they would be contacted ONLY if the son/brother had also put in his name. turns out that he did and he slowly grew a relationship with them, tho its still a bit awkward sometimes. he had very loving caring parents and is married with 3 kids of his own. one of his sons looks eerily like my friend's son. its all been very cool. but he had all the same questions and it was hard at first for him to understand why she gave him up all those years ago. once he found out that she kept a baby book in a very special place that had the only photo of him she was allowed along with the details of his birth and journal entries from over the years, he realised that no matter what, she loved him and thats WHY she decided he might have a chance at a better life with someone else. he visits and their relationship is pretty good, he is close to his sister (my friend) and all of the family have now met - parents included. it was the most heart wrenching thing i have ever witnessed. but sometimes you just cant leave a clue or info, depends on the laws. its often not that they dont WANT to leave info or get in touch, its fear, confusion, and a multitude of feelings many people would not understand if they didnt go through it themselves.
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Hi Dakota:\nSo sorry to hear all your pain.....but the good part of this is I hear lots, and lots of love going on here.  Wow.  Glad to hear it...and keep it up.  \n\nDon't worry.  Keep busy with some other passion, other then him, and all will be fine.   I discovered all sorts of interesting passions when I was alone.....I actually started to really find me and my daughter, and we had lots of fun, and when my love came back, well he was really happy to see the 'new' me.  I had matured and become 'more' attractive to him because I had another passion.  and our daughter learned from seeing me function and find myself more steady!  She is now much older, but she is very independent now as a result.\n\nIt is hard, and I know you can do it, because lots of us out there did what you are doing.   So, dive out on the internet and look up some of your passions--be it painting, walking, hiking, drawing, find something fast.  and your honey will appreciate you all that much more.\n\nTrust me on this one,\n\nluv Ava