Are you the type of person who hurts people for no reason, cheats on ur boyfriend/girlfriend when they're actually a pretty decent person, if ur high up in a business do you treat your employees badly even though they're only bein paid 5 quid an hour?  Actually even if they're gettin paid well it's nearly as bad.  Do you hit your girl/boyfriend, or abuse them emotionally?  Are you a bully?  Are you a snob, do you look down on people who you don't even know, for no reason except that maybe they look scruffy or don't have a decent job or live wherever?  Wud u walk past someone dying, or if you could do something to save someone getting hurt would you do it, like if there was a fight would you try to save ur friend who was getting kicked really badly or would you walk on and save yourself?  If ur one of the people that would walk on, it's obvious ur doing the wrong thing, ur a scumbag and you don't deserve anything, why don't you either change or just kill urself?  I actually wanna know.
132681
here's a story about the kind of person i am. there was this guy that abused me...and my friends were very angry about this fact. they arranged to have both of us "out back" of the building when i didn't know, nor he, what it was about. all of a sudden they come at him. i opened the door and told him to get away. THAT'S the type of person i am. i love people. i love my enemies. i pray for them. i will stand for anyone to the point of physical pain. and i have.
143412
Why would you want to date someone that already has shown a tendency to cheat?\n\nWhat if her boyfriend is some who can beat the **** out of you (and maybe even her)?\n\nMore trouble than it's worth...\n\nThat's just dumb.
227498
I REALLY UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT, IT IS VERY SAD TO HEARD ABOUT IT, BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE THEM OTHER HAVE TO PAID THE CONSEQUENCES, THIS PERSON DO NOT THINK ABOUT OTHERS THEY ARE SELFISH, THEY MIGHT BE SOMEONE IN REAL NEED. WHY YOU DON'T TELL THEM THAT IT IS WRONG? THINGS ARE NOT ALWAYS GOOD. AND WHEN THEY REALLY NEED THE HELP, THAT HELP WON'T BE THERE, IF HER BOYFRIEND HAS A GOOD JOB AND HELP TAKE IT. AND HELP THE COUSIN WITH MONEY, TO SELL HOT DOG, SOMETHING LIKE THAT. BUT DO NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE AND PRETEND TO BE A SINGLE MAM. SHE IS SCANNING THE SYSTEM (WIC) BELIEVE! DON' YOU SEE IT?
582736
lower realm people tend to take their frustrations out on the innocent, it relieves their stress and makes them feel powerful. I am a cashier so this happens daily. The important thing for to do is realize that it has nothing to do with you at all. It is their shortcomings and downright patheticness (is that a word? LOL) that causes them to do it. You are way above that. Try to find humor in it and laugh it off. Hard to do, I know. Keep your chin up!
188096
Nope you're not a bad person.  I had a similiar thing happen, my ex calls me all the time too, we cannot be more than just social friends and I honestly don't feel pain or sympathy when he breaks up or fights with his new girlfriend.  I listen and say I'm sorry for him but I don't feel alot of sympathy.   When people hurt you like that by breaking up, you learn and grow and we've grown past our feelings for them and moved on.
484132
Well you will always remain in the situation you are in.....struggling to get by....you know why?  Because you spend way too much energy on conjuring up a lie rather than focusing on the truth.  His boss probably isn't a jerk.  People have businesses to run....they need dependable people....not liars!  Grow up, accept responsibility for your irrisponsible behavior.....People do on occassion oversleep....Bosses understand and accept this from honest, loyal and hard workers.  I'm a boss, and have  had some real great workers share this with me and guess what?  I have much more respect for them because they were HONEST with me.  This way, I know they have integrity!
307792
Yes, my ex boss was mean to me all the time. She used to yell at me and tell me that I needed to grow up. I used to get the blame for stuff that I knew that I had not done. And when I would try to defend myself she would say, "Well maybe you just spaced out from all the medication you are on!" And I am not on any medications.\n\nThere was also a time that money turned up missing that I honestly believe that never existed. My boss mentioned it in front of customers. And then in the end she fired me over it. I did not take it but in the end I had to pay that money back.\n\nMy best friend who still works there says that someone who once worked with the boss says that that they have done that to people before. And that the money was probably never there at all.\n\nOther people say that they probably did it for unemployment. Either way I had money taken out of my paycheck without my permission and I did not take that money in the first place!!! No police were involved in this or anything.\n\nI never did anything about it. I didn't know what I could do or that I even could do anything.
421080
No.  Would you stay in a 'lover' relationship you don't like?  Participate in a club whose values you don't care for?  A job is no different.  You said you lost respect for the company but need the job.  You need the money...not the job.  Either quit and look for another job or discreetly look for another job while still employed with them.
474165
Cheating is one of the most destructive things that can happen to a person or a relationship.  It's an act of cowardice and happens when a person doesn't love himself enough to expect more of himself.  They rightfully feel that they are a sh*tty person, and so, instead of feeling ashamed of that and working towards improving themselves, they wallow in it and revel in their "badness".  They figure that if they're bad anyway, then there's no reason they shouldn't be completely shameless and callous and go the whole nine yards.  The trouble is that the worse they behave, the deeper they dig the hole they've made for themselves and the more difficult it becomes to turn around and face what they see in the mirror.\n\nCheaters are bad people.  They are low-quality people, not because they don't possess other fine qualities, but quite simply because they have defined themselves as such.  Their failing is in their choice to care about their own selfish WANTS more than about the NEEDS of others.  I don't know about anyone else, but my opinion that is THE definition of a bad person.  At least it's someone I wouldn't want to be associated with.\n\nAnd people who enable cheaters are just as bad in my book.  It might sound strange coming from someone who agrees with swinging, but one of the criteria we have when we had looked for "playmates" was their relationship.  We absolutely refuse to play with anyone who is cheating on their partner, or with people whose relationship is obviously on the rocks.  That, to us, is just unethical.  We work hard at our marriage and have no respect for those who try to cut corners and get out of the work.  \n\nIMO, there is NO justification for cheating.  None, nada, zip, zilch.  There's just NO excuse for lying to your spouse.  I don't buy the "I was protecting her feelings" excuse either.  Your spouse is an adult in an adult relationship; he or she deserves to be given the dignity of a choice as to whether he/she thinks you are worth staying with.  If you're afraid that you're not worth staying with (and that's why you didn't offer him/her the choice), then thurr's yer trouble.
422131
ALL people are selfish but to different extents\n\nif somebody let you down it doesn't mean you should completely stop trusting people - just be more careful who you trust next time
157859
never let people walk all over you, dont ever be a victim. i work in a state prison and i hear from these guys all the time , they have no regret for what they did or who they hurt all they care about is their rights, not their victims rights. it doesnt pay to be nice , the nice person always gets screwed.
475564
If you are not comfortable with the actions of this person, then follow your heart and do what it tells you.  I think that it is sad that people feel they have to put up with bad behavior or otherwise risk being alienated from others.  The world does have nice people in it you just have to look for them and you are unlikely to attract them if you are hanging around someone who is negative and argumentative.
655145
your boss is a F. U. C. K. N' douche bag! if a non employee did that SH** then they would have got arrested! WTF! but i don't think you should have tackled him and detain him that's not your job. if he wants to steal then let him.
430440
I have beaten the crap out of people. in my youth. and two people are permanently hurt. one,his left  eye looks to the side. the other. well he is deformed. I would  NOT hurt anyone now. for a million dollars, unless in self defense..I have killed two men in self defense. If I could have avoided it I would have. when you hurt someone. some people will regret it. some wont. depends on the individual.
224682
What matters is what YOU do, not what they do. You cannot get inside someone else's head, and often people who are behaving badly are suffering in some way that we can't see. If you are compassionate, even when it seems unwarranted, you may find that the person in question is so surprised by the kindness that they are decent back, and if they aren't, well YOU have done your best, which is always the right thing to do.
235424
Why is it that the nice guys and gals get crapped on.  I work in a factory where the same kind of thing goes on all the time.  One person won't speak to you because you speak to someone they don't like and so on.  Sounds like you work with a few kindergarten mentality people.  The way I deal with this foolishness is to tell the "children" I speak to whomever I chose to and if you don't like it, too bad.  Being in my mid-40's, my selective hearing is very well developed so I tune out the trash talk and gossip. I also tell myself, I don't have to take these people home with me. Be glad yours is only a part time job, imagine 40 hours a week with such childish ignorant behavior.
411835
You can't be serious, you want to sue someone for trying to help you communicate with the world?  I know it can be frustrating, but sheesh, nobody is perfect.  So, they misunderstood...that is okay, just clarify.  And, I don't think it is such a bad thing that they try to treat you nicely...hell, I wish people went out of their way to treat me w/ kid gloves.  If you have a problem w/ a particular person's attitude, just let them know...like anyone would.  They are just trying to be helpful.  What's is so bad about somebody feeling good about helping you and other people with disablities....geez, is that such a bad thing?  How would you prefer them to feel and how would you prefer to be treated?  With a cold shoulder?  I don't know if you have a case, but with the way the world works, you probably would--thanks for driving up my tuition/medical bills, etc b/c of your frivolous lawsuit.