but i don t like fighting.. he always tease me but this time its serious...i always say sorry but he don t ...lets see will he b effected or not???
134333
You've got to be able to discuss your differences and share your feelings, but that doesn't mean it has to be fighting.\n\nSometimes our communication styles just aren't compatible.
244401
TOTALLY IGNORE HIM!  That will absolutely do it.  He will be pissed at first and bombard you with messages, but DON'T CAVE IN and do NOT respond to him no matter what.  This works, trust me.
148830
Life is too short to spend time fighting.  If you enjoy the fighting, that's different, but if you do not, find another person with which to forms a relationship.\n\nIt almost sounds as if you stick with this guy because you are afraid that he is the best you can "get."  As long as you stick with him, he will be the best you can get.\n\nThe key to any relationship is communication, not arguments.
200186
Do not worry. He will sooner or later get over it. Be patient  and dont get annoyed. Your passive attitude will be noticed with guilt.
34556
When you do get angry address it right away with him and don't walk around stewing over it till you pop....to him it probably looks that way and if you no longer approach your anger that way he will see the difference and realize your just not feeling chatty. Is there something on your mind when your quiet like that? If so just tell him what it is even if you don't think he will care. If nothing else it will put his mind at rest.
417052
how long has it been going on?.....usually if you "dont do anything" it gets old and he'll back off and move on to someone with a reaction...but im afraid if you do punch him, that will give him more of a reason to never back off. If you have to do it, Iunderstand you need to take a stand try and do it infront of administrators so it cant go too far, their job is to bring down violence.....but remeber for someone to abuse someone else by picking on them it is because they feel inadequate and need to feel better about themselves. He must have serious mental problems and insecurity.
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its not you its him.. he has major issues.. he doesnt think to much of himself so he has to feel like better by belittling you..I think you are much better than having to deal with this jerk.. get rid of him before he totally destroys mentally and physically all your self esteem.. this guy needs some major growing up and a good kick s###t kicking.. he is nothing but a worthless bully.. send him to the curb find someone healthy
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having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
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just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
190363
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
367661
tell him your not trying to be mean, but you really don't want to have anything to do with him. That you don't feel comfortable around him.
618468
in time this will change because your family will see what is going on - in the meantime, stay as far from him as you can and do not fight , just walk away. do not waste your energy fighting a moron. my dad's favorite saying - no matter what happens you can react with dignity. no need to let the little jerk get under your skin.
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~well has he been violent to u in the past if he has u should say something to our family or better off leave him~but if this is a one time thing then i think u should see what happens in the next few dayz but it all depends on his overall actions tords u~but if u feel guilty then u should talk and tell everyone (including him) how u feel~\n\ngood luck :)\n\nIsabella
407676
leave while you still can before he tries to sucker you in with i'm sorry ect, if he was mad enough to hit you once more than likely he will do it again...
208449
Don't rush him. This should be a very gradual thing. Probably, what will happen is, you'll start talking for longer and longer each day until he eventually just desides it's time.\n\nGood luck~! :) I hope you get that date.
531614
What do you care....you said ignore you forever right? Stick to your guns and stop the madness. Sheesh! and if he messages you or calls don't answer. It is also important to do your part if this is what you really want. Or do you just want him to change and this is more of a ploy than something you really want?
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Take it from guy. He will end up hurting you probably. If guy says something like that need to just let it go.