Why is it that guys get mad or frustrated if a girl isn't interested in having sex or fooling around at the time? I mean i hat that and when my bf does it, it makes me feel like he's only in it for sex.
126426
It's because most guys, not all guys have a one track mind. The second a girl they're attracted to so much as touches them, they're ready to take it up a notch. In their mind, they're thinking, "I'm attracted to you. Your attracted to me...Why wouldn't you want to fool around or have sex w/ me?" Men are visual and physical creature. They want to whatever feels good. Even if they aren't in the mood, they're thinking, "Fooling around will make me feel better!" And they think the same applies to you. It's they're twisted way of trying to help. At least that the way the GOOD GUYS think. Some guys are just dogs. You should just tell your bf that if your not in the mood, fooling around isn't going to change your mind.
528945
Maybe his sex drive isn't as active as yours is.  Instead of bugging him for sex a lot then wait until he's actually horny and have him go to you.
285650
I think this is very risky business, it can make someone feel so jealous and insecure. If he just keeps asking to have anthoer person in the bedroom it would make me feel that he's not happy with me sexually. I think if this is something that your going to choose both of you better agree its a one time thing, and also it better be with someone that you will never see agian.
154925
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...
518981
You are so right.  I hate to see girls answer questions about problems us guys have with our equipment.  I think most are trying to be funny or trying to get 2 points.  As far as your worrying about sex, just forget about everything and have fun with it because that is what it was made for.  We all have certain times when things don't work like you want them to work, but they usually are far and few so relax my friend, and enjoy!
45386
Guys like it when their girl shows some independance - plays hard to get almost - human nature, you always want what you think you can't have.  Make him miss you - let him see you in action - then you'll be telling him to back off
672172
Maybe you ARE to good for them; I know, it doesn't make you feel any better... I've had guys say that too. I remember in my one of my Psych classes that guys fall for a girl right away and then there feelings tend to decline, whereas a it takes a girl a while to fall for guy but it usually steadily increases. Maybe that has something to do with it. I also think if guys want a sexual relationship and don't get what they want, they try to find someone else so they can.
632713
What gets you excited, what makes you hot? Do other guys turn you on more than he does, or is it just a matter of nobody turns you on? Do you enjoy sex, does it cause you discomfort, do you feel wrong doing it, do you feel healthy otherwise?  Been in a bad mood lately, if so, why? Lots of reasons for low libido, if it's been going on for a while, and you can't figure out a reason why, might be time to stop by the doctor's office...
464987
Yes, normal. Guys have a serious sex drive, like a hunger drive in girls. If he's not cheating, don't worry. But if it bothers you, ask him to at least not have them as his "friends". Tell him to go buy a magazine or something.\nI have had a lot of guy friends, and I have never met ONE who was not into all of that.
171676
I would say that it depends on you and the girl in question.  I am usually a girl that is hard to get, but if you showed no interest in me then that would give me cause to think.  Is something wrong with me?  Why is he not interested?  Then I start to do all the kinds of things to get his attention.  Then when your not interested your just not interested.  No physical attraction to the person.
266455
mine cuddles with me and only when he too is tired. he is horny 99% of the time but kinda knows when i want it and not. i would wonder what was up if he stopped doing it one day. i tell him when im not in the mood and he respects that..  :)
91856
girl say no. wat he's really sayin is "i dont want you as a girlfriend anymore but i want you as a sex buddy so when i get bored you will b there to cheer me up". he's jus usin ya. dont pay him NO attention
231133
Well if he wants to have sex with you, he might get kinda fed up eventually, dont you think? Why do you want to keep him but not have sex with him. Sex is part of love. Is he a potential lover or just your sugar daddy or something?
377764
Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
208909
There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
577460
Why is it bugging you? It should help your ego that not only girls want him, but guys do too. Now that is one sexy man!
599650
hmm 2 questions at once ok. Well 1st off the sex ? it's a big deal when made a big deal. It when wanted brings to ppl together in a special way. There's bonding there. If you dont want to do it then dont. 2nd ? you asked no do not go along with that relationship you dont seem to care about him so why worry about it. Let it go just let him know that you 2 aren't together in any sort of way.