He's OK, we get along very well, but the chemistry isn't fantastic. He's too attatched to me and an introvert with very little girl experience, I have comittment issues, and whatever happens WE HAVE TO GO ON WORKING TOGETHER! So do I give him a chance or ignore it till it cools off alone?
125252
Back him off, keep him at arm's length and force the interaction back to just professional. Otherwise, someone is going to get a broken heart, and it isn't going to be you.
242470
well I don't think that's fair on his behalf, how would you feel if you where in his shoes.. you will have to make up your own mind on this one, do you loose a good friend to look good in front of others, and how do you know it will help? you might ditch this guy and make no new friends, so don't burn your bridges..If I where you I'd go out but not with him all the time and see how thing go from there, and have you told this Ricky guy you like him? because that's all ways a good start. :)
232963
It will be awkward for a while, but he seems worth it. Just go see a movie together or something, it will give you time to spend together without having to say anything, and then a topic after. It will also calm you down a little. Good luck.
467710
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
79481
It sounds like you've spent enough time trying to figure out if something can happen or not.\nSo I'd leave it and be open to something new.  If you're going to do that make sure you either tell him not to touch/hug you any more or you make it clear that you just want to be friends/work colleagues and nothing more.  Don't give out mixed messages and he'll get the point - he may be as confused by your actions, but you don't say what you do when he is 'all over you'.\nIf after this he says he does want to be with you seriously, maybe give ahim acouple of weeks to prove it by acting like an adult, otherwise forget it.  He sounds a bit childish, but his actions may also be affected by your own.\n\nGood luck!!
260391
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
103223
Don't commit yourself to something that isn't there. . . yet.\n\nI understand the chemistry, but things are as you said "unsaid."  Keep him as a friend, and if time and distance allows you to pursue a relationship go for it. But in the meanwhile don't close yourself off to someone who may be closer and ready to take that step.
483654
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
5440
You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
305329
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
280617
Yes, you need to give it time and work things out and in order to do that you need communication. I think you are doing the right thing by taking it slow, remain friends and hopefully things will work out for you!
519507
Considering that he has already asked you out in the past (even if it was a few years back), half of the work is already done. It sounds like he already has feelings for you. I think that what you should do is start talking to him again.. don't just jump right into the relationship, start off talking to him, talk to some friends of his to see if he is single, and if that is not possible.. be like "Your girlfriend's lucky.." and test the waters. Most likely he will then at that point say "I'm single" or "Yea, she is" This would probably be a good indicator. You may not use the exact phrase, but whatever you choose to that extent should take care of that problem. My advice is, gee, just to get the friendship built back up, and get it to where you feel comfortable with him and want to get into a relationship. Just keep in mind, that no matter what happens, it will happen in its own time, no need to hurry things along.. Good luck!
71135
Absolutly. Go see him, rekindle the fire. See how things play out...
162550
I don't think that being outgoing would be a problem if you are aware and no when enough is enough. You already said that you do, so don't worry about it. What about your man? Is he like you or is he more of a conservative? If he is you might have some issues there in the long run, but be yourself. You are only here for a short time and people have a good time around you then so be it.
532524
keep him on the back burner but no I would say don't concentrate too much on him. The worst thing you could do is become really interested in him and then not have it work out.
130429
looks can be fun at first... if he's still like that after a while i say ditch him an get one who appreciates you
629187
Well, I think you should just explain to him that he is a nice guy but you just don't feel the spark. Explain that it's not him, it just is not there. Hopefully he will understand....