I went out (3 times) with this guy, he doesn't call me everyday, only every now and then. But he keeps on telling me to call him whenever I want and that we'll go out. Which is true, whenever I call him he goes out, never says NO or hesitates, I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING?? is he shy? afraid of a relationshp.?? He says/shows indirectly that he likes me..but still NO KISS????? I'm really impatient and don't know what to do?? Shall I wait and see a little more or find sb. else??
132936
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
232791
I can say that making the first move is never a bad descision I actually like it when the girl makes the first move despite tradition. Call him one more time or text him or whatever form of communication you chose. Then if he doesn't call you back don't cal lhim back if he waits a long time to call you back and then all of a sudden wants to go out again say you found someone else. Not alwase subtle but it gets the job done.
207206
I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
126690
If you go out with a guy, he ALWAYS wants to kiss you. The problem is, in general, the guy has no idea how to approach you about it. Doesn't know if you want him to kiss you. Etc. Most guys are afraid of the rejection.\n\nMy suggestion is to get close to him, lean in half way staring into his eyes. He will get the hint. If not, you could always say "kiss me you fool!"
286003
I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!
73198
same here! I dont know what to do either. Keep waiting & we will know. I think if he loves you, he will call you so be patient but anyway try to call him sometimes, maybe he's really busy.
100698
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
316321
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
676932
Guys don't want to talk unless there's nothing else to do. Not always a sign of disintrest. But you were a one nighter. Keep calling. Don't over do it. After a few real dates let him know you like being with him then stop calling for a week or two. If he wants to proceed he'll call you. It might take 2 weekends before he calls. If he calls late at night on a weekend.... He'll be drunk and horny. Booty calls don't make girlfriends. You need to redefine yourself in his mind.
338992
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
467710
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
635757
hang in there he is probably busy, if you talked that long he does not want to over do it! just be patient, he may be trying to get out of another situation!, if you must call him, tell him you was worried something happened to him. don't seem to aggressive!
518692
Well sweet heart don't get discouraged, just because he didn't call you today doesn't mean that he isn't interested. You never know he may have just been very busy. Don't rush into feelings over someone that you just met. I'm not saying not to follow your heart but i am saying that sometimes our minds can get a bit ahead of our hearts and we may not be listening very closely to our hearts. So just sit back and relax and just let things go as they will. Remember don't look too obsessive, Guys don't like that! If things work out then great and if not your life wont come to an end, i promise. Lots of Luck. Wish you the best. Keep  your head up!
97947
If he continued to call you after the break up, then it sounds like he wasn't ready to give up either. Or, maybe he enjoyed being in a friendship w/ you, and when you told him your feelings, it freaked him out. Either way, I'd try to get in contact w/ him to see what's going on. It seems odd to me that he would leave you hanging like that, so maybe something happened to him...try calling. If you get in touch w/ him, and he simply doesn't want to talk to anymore, then yes, it gets better. True love never fades, but it does alter and changes over time. Just give it some time. Good luck to you!
575908
why wld he not wanna go out wid you if he still has feelings for you? Unless he's bound by some other commitments like he's already married? or his job is too stressful to be in a relationship right now? Give both of you some time off to cool off and get back together again later! Hope this helps!! Cheer up soon!
631428
Ok there are two possible answers to this question -\n1.) He likes you but doesn't want to/is scared of commiting to a relationship - In which case run for the hills and carry on with your life (including meeting other men) you cannot wait around for him!\n\n2.) He is doing the dog in the manger thing - ie He doesn't want you but doesnt want anyone else to have you as he likes your attention and the knowledge that if he really was at a loose end he has you to fall back on - In this situation RUN, don't answer the phone and basically tell him to go away, go out and enjoy your life without him hanging over you like a cloud. \n\nHope it works out in the way you want. Good Luck
55373
Relax.  If he doesn't call, he doesn't like you all that much.  And if he's not interested, it will be hard work getting him interested. Is he worth it?  Think about it.