if you loved a man, to the point that you can't see your life w/o him. Remeber you'll do anything for him..  Ride or die...  He's your sole mate your air your heart..  How much shit do you think you can take from him??
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just because you love someone does not mean you should take any shit from him... if there is mutual love, there is mutual respect ... hence no shit... and if there  isn't mutual  respect... its not love
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The fact remains it's a repatitve action.  You should see that he will not change. Although at this point love is blind, but there is only so much you can take before he drags you down as well.  You keep him afloat and he uses you and calls it love.  You are what is called an inhibitator and you can do better.
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I fell in love with a guy last year, but when I asked him out he said he can't, and that I was going to University... I wondered if that last comment was because he'd said that he had a girlfriend who moved away to Italy, and that his experience was affected by that. Anyway, I was heartbroken, and it's been a year, but I still think of him with love. \n\nI've done the whole trying to meet other guys, but none of them make me feel the way I felt about him. There may be plenty of fish in the sea, but most are a bunch of red herrings! \nI think he is a fool for not realising how much he means to me. \n\nI said this to someone else, that it's all very well people saying "move on and get on with your life" but if you love someone it isn't that easy. I think you should avoid her, as she is spoken for - give yourself a break. I had no choice, as I moved away. \nI now remember that guy with love - the way I see it, the love was floating around like a cloud, where I'd breathe it in all the time, whether I meant to or not. I now imagine that cloud of love to be sealed inside a large glass jar. Sometimes the essence still comes out, if something reminds me of him, but I have the lid, so I keep those feelings safe. I still wish we could be together, but I also hope that I might fall in love again.\nWhoring yourself is not going to help at all. Give yourself all the time you need to get over it - I speak from my experience, but yours may be different, but it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. \nJesus still loves you!\n\nI recommend this a lot: See the film "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind".
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To live without him would be nothing more than a mere existence in a world I do not know.  It was at his first words that I was drawn into him.  He captivated me with his soul, comforted me with his heart and protected me with his strength and love. \n\nDoes true love exist?  Yes, it does.  I did not ask for his love as he gave it willingly and selflessly to me.  He did not ask for my love...it was a given.  When at a loss for words the other can complete the sentence and when at a loss for the silence...there were no words needed.  We had completed each other...
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You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
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i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
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It depends on selfishness or the love for your loved one. Personally, i would do anything for my significant other.\n\n<3
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Ive been in love like that and all you can do is keep telling him how you feel. For me, I feel like i cant breathe when hes not around. But its a good feeling not a bad one. Let him know he is the only man for you. That you can never ever feel like this for anyone else. Let him know that your heart beats for him, that you wake up everyday thinking of ways to make him happy, that you love him unconditionally. That you are his forever. If all else fails, tattoo his name on your butt! LOL
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ive been with my partner for 21 years now and i still wonder about the one that got away and what he is upto now and who he is with,i dont think you ever get over certain men.he will always have that place in your heart and thats o.k
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Well I hate to say it but if he truly loved you he would have crossed all barriers to make it work . You would be setting yourself up for all kinds of hurt if you let him sweettalk you into something you know in  your heart is wrong . Why do that to yourself and prolong the agony ? You have already made your feelings known now the ball is in his court ! How does the old saying go "If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you its yours and if it dont it never was" Just DO IT ! It could save you alot of heartache on down the road .
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Most of us been there but what i can tell u is, follow ur heart & do what u think is best 4 u. \nTo give him a chance to prove what he's saying wont kill u but it will show u how responsible to take care of urself.
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I find myself worrying how financially capable he is to take care of stuff.  I dont want him to give me money or anything, I got my own, but I want to know his worth so I know if the "WE" thing will work.  I dont expect him to pay for everything, Im gainfully employed so I will carry my own weight.  I want him to be responsible, take care of his kids (if he has any) and his family - that shows me he has responsibility to the things he holds dear.  I want him to be content with my love for him, and love me back - maybe not the way I love him coz I can get crazy!  But I want to know and feel that that love is there.  I like spontaneous and explosive sex, and to have him "addicted" to me would be a bonus!  When all this is in place, I could just lie in his arms and feel so safe, secure and complete...
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Are you secure with yourself as a person?  Are you honest to yourself (and him) about your feelings for him?  I am not judging you in anyway at all... I can just understand where you are coming from.  If you really love this man, don't try to change him or try to get him to do things that he would not normally do (emotionally).  To love someone unconditionally for who they are is the greatest thing of all and with that comes compromise and not trying to change who that person is on the inside.  I wish you luck with your relationship!!!!
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Let your pain make your decision.  Drop him, fast!  Nobody deserves that kind of life.
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I'm not gonna read it...but should you give it?Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.NO.OK OK,I'll read it...hold on.Ok I'm back...perhaps you should stick to writing poems or something,I'm really quite touched.No NSA you say?Who are you kidding?Please,your real prince will find you.This dude is taken.See what happens in another 90 days.What if his girl gets hold of it?Some guys are just like Bit(c)hes...like to see there partner get jealous...they love the attention.God you fall in love so fast...do you fall out of love that fast?Lets hope you do this time...this may spell trouble.........for some reason I think you're gonna do it anyways.Well,I hope it all works well for you.
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To be drawn into a relationship like this would probably mean to sacrifice so much of your own life.  There would be two people that you had to deal with, the loving beautiful person and the unwell person who would probably drain you more than you can ever realise.  Sadly he is not in control of his illness it will always control him and whatever promises were made on a good day can be snatched away within hours on a bad.  I would walk away before I allowed myself to fall in love, to be drawn in to a point where you were responsible, if anything did ever happen you would carry that burden with you all of your life.
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if you love him and if 100% sure,then go for it, in this life people make mistakes sometimes by choosing a wrong person and forgetting the right person, if you feel his emptiness in your and you cant stop thinking about him then try to get his heart back but be quick before it gets too late!