cause back in high school i got no attention. now i got a good job my own place and a sports cars. i seem to get a lot more attention. is that all girls want?
138729
F THAT they just want your money ! you should go drive around in ur friends bucket and pick up chicks so you know there true
601614
why do u even care what other people think ? It's your car and u like it, thats all that matters, right ? Ladies should like u for who u are not for what kinda car u have or how much money u have, but for your personality for just being yourself. So don't you listen to any of the bitches that tell u broke and S*** , don't try to prove them wrong either ( they arent wort it ) just smile and say "thanks" \nTake it as a complement thats all :)
161569
good for you! .. i think some quiet girls in class like me wants a good relationship and not sex\nif the girl you are with thinks that you want sex, them many you should please them more, with little simple things like noticing anything new like a haircut or an eyebrow trim, give little gifts for every holiday, invite her more to dinners or movies and take her home with a good bye kiss on the cheeck or forehead, etc.. \n\nand this doesn't mean that you are sentitive, it just that you dont like people looking at you the wrong way.\ntry to act more like a GENTLEMAN, and stop flirting with other girls
271229
There is nothing wrong with a girl liking these things. No one ever said that sports was just for guys or cars were just for guys. Sometimes girls can just do things better than guys and guys can do things better than girls at some things. Ignore the girls, tell them they're just jealous cause you get all the guys.
441510
If you ahve a boyfriend, then why are you trying to show off to get other guys' attention?? unless your boyfriends are on the track with you guys, then i wouldn't do it. it'll just appear slutty and make you look like someone who wants to get all the guys in the world. trust me, its happened to me before.....it's sad, unfair, but true.
321109
if the guys have nicknamed you that, it's because the girls like to be around you and they are jealous. don't worry about it. have fun with all the girls you attract by just being yourself.  if the guys want to call you that, so be it.
583761
I feel like I've changed a lot.  My opinions of things have changed through the gaining of knowledge and otherwise. Things like philosophy, language, spelling, math, and other assorted pieces of information have really come in handy.  MY opinion of what girls should look has changed.  I really like high school girls now...18 of course, they must be of legal age.  But personality wise I've learned to cope with all kinds.  Good Stuff
303198
I'm considered popular, I used to be kind of in the middle though. The only thing separating you from them is probably the fact that they talk louder, party harder, have more friends (not true friends, just people they can say "Oh, I know her!!!" so more like acquaintances), and they might do things in a bigger group. Some people may admire them as the more prettier people or the better looking people but most of the time it isn't true, they are just the people who brag about their looks or accentuate them by being extra flirty. If you think about it, the popular people go to football games and movies, just like everybody else does, they just make themselves more noticeable. There is nothing really special about being popular, sure, a lot of people know about you, but they know good and bad things and they talk about you more. If you're in a really big school you can still be well-known without having to be the center of attention. Just remember, the "In-crowd" isn't as good as it looks - most of the time there is more drama and there is no true friendship. For all of my popular friends, you have to keep them constantly entertained or constantly compliment them or they'll drop you like a sack of potatoes because they're bored. I would recommend finding a true group of friends where you can just hang out without having to worry about your hair or clothes or who loves who and stuff. Just do what you want.
544356
First of all, good for you for having a career and not just a job. Second, there seems to be an increase in jobless, unmoving men. They probably expect women to pick up the slack now that more and more of us are getting high-paying jobs. If you want to meet a career man, I recommend going to Starbucks more often. That's probably the best place to meet affluent single guys.
162097
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
122659
Man, I like your personal ad I am very impress. Im kind of like what you describe except I dont have any kids and I already have my degrees ...Im 34 in Chicago. I have the same problem too ,but with females. Females I run into they smoke(weed), drink and party... EVERYDAY, I cant do it EVERYDAY. I have plans and goals not to mention A JOB.I came to the conclusion probably I attract that type of woman because of the people I hang with from time to time.
423669
Who cares about popularity? Most of these people you will not talk to anymore after graduation. Hang with the poeple who care about you, forget about the ones who dont. Do you really want to be friends with girls who don't give a crap about you?
123902
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
510919
nice....sweet...intelligent...and good looking?  sounds good to me..dont worry about wont be long before the guys come flocking......btw you do seem kinda full of yourself though....might want to work on it.....the whole "i have a LOT of friends" thing made you seem a little too into being popular....
153468
I live at the beach and get that a lot because I've got a nice rack, hehe. I like it. I have a boyfriend and this other guy groped me all during third period today... I loved it, I'm an attention whore! It feels good and makes us feel like we're hott or special enough to deserve their attention. It feels nice to be considered good-looking enough to "help" a guy out like that. At least that's my opinion, but what do I know, I'm only in high school...! =]
90497
you are good looking.  but you shouldn't care what random strangers online care what you look like!  if you were a teen at my school you'd easily be with the "popular" girls.
76850
Cool. As a friend of mine once said behind the wheel of his corvette. Some guy told him the only reason young women like you is the car. \n\nHis reply was, it does not exactly chase them away. Success has always attracted women toward men. It shows confidence.\n\nGood Luck, \n\nAlso here's a cool book to help in person and business communication. works well.