Ok so here is the deal this guy is sooo f-ucking confusing it hurts my brain sometimes, he flirts and is making it noticable and sometimes hes quiet about it and sometimes he just hardley says anything to me and its killing me!! IM IN LOVE AND I DON"T KNOW IF HE LOVES ME!!! so can you give me some help? Should i ask him out?
122742
then just do it the worst he can say is no \ncheck out this site http://www.seventeen.com\nthey have much better dateing tips then me!!
212681
Well I think that if you really like him just let him kno how you feel about him and see wha he says. Maybe you could even ask him how he feels about you. You dont have to ask him out or anything but just talk to him and see how he feels about you maybe he is with someone else right now that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with you right now.
615329
look if u know him since last 3 years n he is a gud frnd i guess its wud nt b a gud deal to lose him for a misunderstanding.....which i feel is the probable case. hav faith in u n ur relationship wid him. pick up ur phone n giv him a call rite away. bt dont talk anything abt him nt calling or anything. just speak to him in general abt how he is n all. ur talk with him will let u know if he is interested in being frnds wid u or nt. n if u still hav some confusion next time u cal him up speak to him frankly ntell him watever u want to. \n\nif u feel he is nt interested then just let him go. coz if u will hold on to him it wud  b difficult for u as it will lower down ur self esteem n u'll start wondering things like::"did i told him something wrong?" "y isn't he speakin to me" "is there somethin wrong wid me etc.""  so its always better to drop a relationship wen u cant get anything out of it.\n\nabove all hav trust in urself. beleive n hav faith that u r perfect coz God makes no mistakes. so he wud b an idiot nt being ur frnd.\n\ndo tell me wat u think of wat all i told u.\nchill\njessicalongoverdue@yahoo.com
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i think that the guy likes you but just like you does not know if you like him or not!!! I really think that you should wait a while and see his reactioin by flirting with him more. THen if you truly believe he likes you go for it!!! IF you r not sure then let him make the move! Just keep on flirting your charm will work!
322507
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.
132936
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
115661
Well, He does like you and is scared of you getting mad because he does. So he tries not to let you see how he feels. He doesn't know how to talk to you without letting you find out. Thats why he ask's you to call him then won't talk to you. He is just scared that you don't feel the same way about him. Rather than ask how you feel he would rather love you in sceret. My advice is to ask him out and if he says no then ask him, "why" but I'll bet he'll say yes. He may say he is to busy, if he does then tell him to let you know when he feels like going out. All you will have to wait is two days Tops,then he WILL call you for a date! If he makes you wait, DO NOT CALL HIM, AVOID HIM. If he calls don't bring it up he may call you three times before he ask you! But as sure as I'm setting here he WILL ASK YOU!!
493812
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540312
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
468616
yes.i sounds like he likes u.alot. so y don't u ask him out. trust me. do it.
177138
Ask HIM out on a date... and TALK things out with him. at the moment it seems like he doesn't really want to be with you... I'm sorry sweetie! BUT... I know exactly how you feel. i ask my bf out ALOT these days... sorry... it just seems like he's not really ready to be in a relationship right now. Try and find someone else or talk things out if you can... I'm here for ya... keep me updated sweetie! good luck and much love and support! *ashley* \nP.S. WRITE ME BACK!
91102
He may still love you, yes.  But what exactly is keeping him from being in a relationship with you?  \n\nI would not count on this individual to commit to you.  This guy sounds like he may be confused or unsure.  And he may take a long time making up his mind.  If his indecision is causing you heartache, then you need to do what is going to preserve your sanity.  You need to do what is good for you.  This may mean moving on.  This may mean not waiting around for him.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds harsh.  It sounds like you still have feelings for him.  I don't know your exact circumstances.  However, I do know what it is like to be jerked around by a guy who couldn't decide if I was "the one."  It's not fun, and it's not worth your time.  \n\nIf you are really set on this guy, you may have to wait for a long time for him to come to his senses.  Ask yourself, honestly, is he worth it?\n\nGood luck.
198879
he is a confused person and he want to confuse you, you are a paralegal for God sak, go hit on a lawer who will respect you. \nI never heard of somebody who loves someone but aint  in love with them.\nUr wasting time.
531855
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
309441
It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
438138
He may be one of those type of guys that likes to move slow or he could be a player.I have dated both of those types that sound like this guy.It could also be that you are perhaps more into him then he is into you.Watch out for that.You don't want to get to involved with someone who may not be as serious about the relationship as you.I would suggest backing off a little bit and not taking your relationship to serious until he seems more involved with you.
531043
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!