how do i become one of them without being called  poser?
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Buy them things and give them money... let them have their way with your sister...
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try stripping off all the Armor you wear to protect the delicate flower called your Spirit.Sometimes the pressure of Peer Group recognition throws a individual into living a duel exsistence all for the sake of feeling accepted.First of all, you MUST accept yourself,and know that there is only one of you, Unique, Beautiful, Full of Hope and Love.Because you cannot see yourself,and cannot hear yourself,is making you seek recognition outside your Safety Net...Beware! you are in Dangerous Territory...you are vulnerable and you ned to pull yourself back into familiar territory...You need to know that before others can love you, you have love yourself first. People that exibit this energy are saught after in all segments of our Society, simply because they want to feel as good as this person who 'Glows'with the Power of Self-Respect and Confidence of knowing Who He/She is.So, before you commit to the whims of others,give yourself a break and find yourself.Start writing down your thoughts..Remember your past and write about it...in there you will find the key to open the cage you alone put yourself in...So its up to you to get your self out!!...and you will!! Have Faith in YOU!
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Teach yourself. It'll sound cooler when you're famous.
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You need to become well known in all circles for being a cool guy to hang around with.  Be very public.  Attend lots of gatherings and meet lots of people.
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just chill and be yourself. dont try to be some1 u arent
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Just be yourself and show your self-confidence. A sense of humor is helpful too. This may sound primative but it's like being a peacock and showing off your feathers.  Trust me, it will get you noticed!
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You're not a poser. The person who made that statement is a sad and insecure idiot. You should listen to whatever you want and be proud of yourself for being honest and having self-respect.
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I live in a sub-division with a bunch of stuck up people who keep to them selves if they want to be snobby then that's on them and I'd rather not want to get to know them.
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a poser is someone pretending to be someone they are not, correct? i dont think they hide the fact that they suck terribly so i guess neither cuz they sure as hell arent punk.
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meet some of them at social functions...introduce yourself and be good
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Find a group of people that are dark and "not out going" (normally like today's goths of Emo kids) then you asert your self, as a leader amoung them. Most of them dress and act that way to be accepted by some one. Accept them. Then you do lots of stuff with them, start a buzz about it get members to spread the word make it so not every one can get in at the start. So that it is all the more important to get in. At the begging you have to set ground rules for you and your new "friends" so that there is no power strugle.\n\n\nI have not done this, but this is how you would go about doing it, but do not do this for violence, world domonation sure, but no one needs to get hurt.
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You may be doing it without even realizing it.  If you just be who you are, then you'll make the lasting impressions with the right people for you.  There's one, and only one, person out there who is truly made for you, and I wouldn't worry a second about the rest of 'em.
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just be who u are. Stop trying to change yourself.
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Be really unique and go by the name your parents gave you.\n\nPeople who are tough and cool don't ask other people to suggest a nickname for them.
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Ok however you see yourself that is exactly what everyone else will see. You think that you are a dork then you are a dork it's up to you how you want people to see you. If you need to make some changes don't be afraid of self improvement it is only to better yourself you don't have to change your morals or standard think how you want to be recieved by people then and take a look at your best qualities about yourself and use them listen to or read a lot of self help books because their are people just like you had the same problems and now they are either popular or they are movie stars you name it people change what they feel they don't like about themselves usually they start with negativity stop being hard on yourself and give your own self a chance! Start beleiving in yourself and start with a positive mind don't hang out with people that don't except you and always have something negative to say about you or treat you not so nice the real friends will come eventually
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Create a new account and be a good person.
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Just be yourself. Be honest to yourself and to others. Do not do things that are out of your comfort level in order to make new friends. In other words find people who have the same likes and dislikes as you do. Never compromise yourself. I had to move to a new town when I was a sophomore in highschool. It was very difficult but it would have been easier if I were honest to myself. Be smart!