We flirt constantly even grabbing on each other but should I let her girl stop me from my fun? I sorta feel bad for her, but I don't want nothing serious with my friend I just wanna mess around.
121306
if you really liked her and respected her you would A) want the best for her, wich is not messing around, and B) not come between them if they are happy together.  don't think of just yourself
355860
if you are doing something that hurts a friend, then you should stop. the fact that you care enough to wonder means you probably aren't a bad person. but if you know you're hurting her, you should stop it and stick up for her. If she's a good sport about it and knows it's all in fun, then I'd say you're fine.
135644
you already have ur boyfrind on ur side but i say beat her slutty a** anyways! but be careful about it getting caught is not fun! u mite even want 2 do something where u dont kick her a** but u get some dirt on her then play snitch\n\nmy frind Pibbs who has reached her daily limit says: i say beat her slutty a** to hell!  she deserves a cap in her a**!!!  she needs to get a life and her own bf!!!!
149245
leave it alone, good friends are hard to come by. ignore your temptations and move on.if she happens to make a move politely tell her that you that you would not destroy your friendship for a night of passion
441068
yes she wants you bad, you should hook up with her but before that i think you should suss out their friendship first. you could get stuck in their cat fights when it supposed to be a no strings attached kinda thing. do you really wanna be in the middle of it all?
95864
She is playig with you.  Forget about her and move on to the next one.
21685
It is not wrong to like your friends girlfriend on any level. What would be wrong is for you to pursue her period no matter how much of a tease she is. That would be stabbin your boy in the back. No one wants to lose a friend over a chick. Girls come a dime a dozen, friendship can last a lifetime. Think about it!
341729
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
329438
I think she is really enjoying your flirtations (is that a word?) I would keep it up and just try to spend more time with her. If she continues to respond positively, then she probably wants more. Just enjoy it! Don't stress it, it takes the fun out of it. :)
31200
If he's doing this behind your best friend's back what make you think he won't do the exact same thing to you IF you 2 were to hook up? When you say "stop" are you really saying it like you mean it--Or are you being playful with it?\n\nI think if you really express to her how much it bothers you & withdraw being around her soo much she'll get the picture. Why be around something that you know isn't right? I'm pretty sure after she sees how much this irks your nerves she'll stop being so foolish. Just watch your back.
291871
You are not her friend if you are trying to steal her man! There is no way that you can still be friends with her and take her man.  And you call yourself her best friend......that's wrong on so many levels.  I hope she whoop yo a*s*s
669701
ur friend is a player !! She doesn't deserve him!! But still wait 'til they break up. tHEN ASK HER IF IT'S OK.
333620
Do you still want to date her? If so, go for it. Lay every thing out on the table with both of them. Be honest with your friend though- you dont want to break up a friendship because of a stupid girl. She may not even like either one of you- she will make a choice.\n\nHope you don't think this is a stupid answer.
264261
You sound like a very loving person. It sounds like you have a wonderful friendship with your friend. And I think that the basis of friendship is honesty. \nI think you should consider telling the guy, when he calls, to be honest with his girl. Convince him to tell her how he feels. He sounds like he isn't as honest to his girl"friend" as you are. \nIf he isn't very cooperative at being honest and continues the discrete behavior, ask your friend in a round about way like:\n"Hey, there is something I think you should know but I am pretty sure it will upset you. Do you want me to tell you?"\n\nShe will say yes, and if so proceed slowly no need to get it all out right away, ease her into it with something like:\n"Ok, I'm not sure his intentions or if he has even told you about it... I hope he has but it feels like hes being discrete about it which is why I think you should know..." etc etc\n\nDon't forget to reassure her that you value your friendship and that you truly hoped the sexual playtime would help her relationship but that you don't want to feel that the encounter is part of some hidden agenda.\n\nAsk her how she wants you to handle future encounters with him, her, and them. She may want you in the relationship, she may want him out. The most important thing is being honest upfront to avoid any misunderstandings. \n\nSame thing with him, if you value his company treat him the same way, honestly. \nIf he is being pushy, ask him questions... this slows guys down and makes them thing more about the conversation and its potential for direction rather than the goal(i.e. "getting" the girl) and read his responses. \nDishonest people are easy to read because it feels dishonest.\nAnd don't forget that you can cross reference everything said by either of them with the significant other for even more insight into who's telling what to whom.\n\nIf your lucky everything will workout and they will love you for being a very big help, a very loving friend, and an honest person. \nIf not hopefully you can salvage 1 of the relationships be that theirs, you & hers, or you and his. \nDon't forget to be honest to yourself too, Ask yourself what scenerio you would like the most. Then tell them about it. Honesty has power unlimited when used properly.
245959
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
353883
in no way are you obsessing over this girl NO WAY your just trying to treat her with respect and ther is no sahme in doing that!!! if you like her then you have the right to tell your friends to cut out the bad mouthing. its not obsessive ..its doing the right thing :)
256801
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.