I work hard and fast and am very exact about my work (making costumes for theatre), I have a low tolerance for bad work or people who don't care about their work, and while I don't bitch anyone out, I do politely point out to them how they could make it better.  Sometimes this makes people cry, which makes me feel awful, but I don't really think I've done anything wrong.  I work with a number of people who are basically interns / students, and I am an educator - I feel like constructive criticism is absolutely neccessary and I always preface a criticism with pointing out what's good about a project.  Usually if there's a problem I ask them to tell me what it is to see if they are aware of it, rather than saying "yeah, this part sucked."  Most of my students are very fond of me and do well with how I critique them . . . should I just let the criers cry and call it an educational experience?
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Sounds like you are starting out pointing out the good and then constructively "critiquing" (better word than criticizing) their work.  If that's how you are doing it, the students that are crying really need to grow up before they get into the real world...  Your method is fine in my opinion.
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i think most people want to think they have an opinion on something, so they just make stuff up without even knowing what they're talking about. they want to sound smart, but the SMART thing to do would be to know what you're talking about before you open your mouth.\n\nbut about your problem. would it be bad to ask the people their opinions and just tell them you don't feel like you know enough about it yet to have an opinion? maybe they'll tell you a little about it and you'll learn about it so you WILL have an opinion the next time. just ask them.
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when people critize you ask these question\n\nFirst Are they right?\n\n     If they are right take steps to change yourself if you like\n\nSecond are they wrong?\n\n      If they are wrong ignore them\n\nThird can I get anything good out of their criticism like knowing my negative points?\n\n      If yes, make the best out of it
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In a school I went to for my GED there was, as in nearly any class, detractive students.  It was actually suggested that we tell interrupting students to be quiet, and that the teacher would not have any qualms with that.  Depending on the individual, there are numerous tacks to take.  If this person is a brat they may be acting out, and even assaulting you.  Watch for clever verbal assaults.  One of the best responses I've found is: "It's unfortunate that you feel that way!"  If that doesn't work try: "Everyone in the class knows what you're up to."  You'll be surprised how well that works!
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Better to think about it while you can do something about it.\n\nDon't be a hypocrite, you have criticized others for mundane questions and answers, yet you post things that could be interpreted as abuse. The answers team might be watching you. Spend some time thinking about that.
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Don't let any negative remarks dissuade you from being a teacher.(Scotty the comic? like a comic is a real career!) I'm starting classes this summer for early child education. People keep telling me that teachers don't make that much. Well, there are a lot of careers out there where you don't make that much. I will be making more being a teacher than I am as a medical receptionist. Sure you might have to put up with kids misbehaving. I would rather do that, than put up with rude adults who should know better.\nBut to get back on track and answer your question :) Look up local colleges. Many colleges offer this degree, whether its a community college or state college. Good Luck!
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people who boast about there accomplishments allot or put other people down to make themselves look better are very insecure in there own lives.you should just say to them "oh yea that's great but I am quite pleased with my own work, but keep telling yourself (they have no self esteem) and give them a lift or they might fall apart. Be judged on who you are not what you could be.
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I don't consider myself bitter either.  I try to give honest, helpful information in my answers.  But, you must admit that there are some questions (and questioners) here that are just begging for abuse by those who answer.  Teachers have always told me there's no such thing as a 'stupid question'.  Frankly, I think they'd say otherwise if they saw some of the questions here.  Some people's self-esteem is so low that they feel a need ridicule or criticize someone else.  It gives them a feeling of empowerment.  Besides most people are just plain miserable.  If they can't be happy neither can you.
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Right now I am working in a pre-school laboratory at my college.  I have a mentor teacher who is supposed to teach me the aspects of teaching and monitor my work.  The worst thing she does is give unclear instructions then gets upset when I don't produce the desired results.\n\nShe asked me to have a description of my agenda for the day  posted on the parent board.  Then she got upset that I didn't have it formatted in a certain way.  How am I supposed to know that: "have a description," translates into "I want it done exactly like this"?  Sorry, I guess I don't speak Mentor Teacher.  I need someone else to translate for me.
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I try to let them boss know I appreciate the guidance. If you're training, take notes and let her know you understand her point of veiw. Also, try not to take things personally if you're new. No one likes to be told they're doing something wrong, but try to be objective and not feel demoralized. You're not in grade school and you aren't going to get a sticker by your name if you do something right. You're expected to get things right and you have to motivate yourself.\n\nIf your job really sucks, look for another one. Just remember, there are none out there that don't come with problems. Also, get yourself in school if you aren't already, so you can do more than just scrape by in the future. The stress isn't half as bad if you know you'll be moving on to bigger and better things eventully.
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Obviously, some professors go too far, and grades shouldn't come into play nor should the classroom be a place to spread a professors ideology. As long as it isn't abused, and the professor seems to welcome discussion (assuming it's relevant to the class), I think it's worthwhile to know that professors aren't cookie cutter teachers--they're people with views. Part of college is hearing other views, and learning how to respond critically, either by questioning the views and/or shaping a learned counter response. \n\nI've been in classes where I've disagreed with an instructor, politically, but they presented their views in an articulate way that helped me understand how people with opposing viewpoints can work together. That was cool.\n\nI definitely think professors shouldn't be afraid to share their views, as long as it's relevant to the class and other opinions appear to be valued. I learned a lot about how to shape my viewpoints from professors who disagreed with me. They helped me present a more logical argument to support my viewpoint--that was their goal, and they didn't care if they disagreed with me.
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Yes, you probably have the right to be dissappointed.  Yes, she should have caaled to tell you what was happenng.  Yes, you should do your best to find a new partner for future projects.  No, you should not go around school venting your feelings.
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I really try hard to practice what i preach. Sometimes, I get called out for a mistake. \nI apologize if I've disappointed anybody here.
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Exaggerate on your hard work. Maybe you really don't care that much about community service (i.e.) but make it sound like you do. You probably think you don't want to sound like a wussy nerd, but that's what you have to do. Emphasize your achievements!
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I think you're overly sensitive. You cannot control how other people answer so just take some answers with a grain of salt and let it roll off your shoulder.\n\nAll you do when you whine about it is attract unwanted negative attention to yourself. There are all kinds of people in here. Focus on the positive if you cannot deal with the negative.
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I have found through experience, that if the audience is not involved in what you are teaching them, then they get bored and their attention wanders.  \n\nI always try to get my audience to participate.  Whatever it takes to get your point across.  You want them to carry at least one fact away with them.  You want them to remember.  \n\nI would go for it.
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I know exactly how you feel....\nYou know what's really bad though...Is those times you catch yourself doing that...\nI think in most cases it's not intended to be rude.  People just like to make conversation about anything and get so caught up in something they've been wanting to say they forget about being rude.\nAnd in some cases people might change the subject because they can't handle the one that's being discussed....\nYou're right, sometimes it is funny...\nWith your really good friends, you ever notice that sometimes you can have two or three conversations going at once.....and everyone knows what everyone else is talking about...Never missing a beat.. That's hecka cool.\nIt's only the ones who want all the attention on themselves you've got to watch out for...\nGoodaytoyou...\nAnd maybe you should thing about becoming a play-writer! !