I would love watching my wife wrestle another woman for me. Nothing rough, more on the erotic side. How do you get her and other female friends to do this? what about hiring an escort?
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this is an outstanding idea.  Especilly the part about an escort (or other professional).  Your lady would really love this, it is something all women secretly yearn to do.  Since this is such an incredible dream come true for you lady, why not do it on her birthday, or an anneversary, you will get extra points for being romantic.  \n\nHere is what I suggest.  Get three gallons of some good cooking oil and some big plastic drop clothes.  Hire an escort to wrestle her for the evening.  Tell your lady you re planning a suprise for her birthday (or whatever).  Rent a motel room.  Go there set up the sheets, warm up the oil, and put lots of flowers and candles in there.  Have the escort waiting in some tight sexy clothes, candles lit, music playing.  \n\nTake your lady to the motel, cover her eyes, and take her in the room.  Suprise baby, happy b-day I love you.  She will be incredibly happy, have wrestling with the hooker, and love on you all night in thanks for what you have given her.
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You are too funny, anyway I think you should start a home wresting group down Frankston way. I know many women who would love to join such a club, but have problems finding places which have these activities. Best of luck!
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Ask what thier thought on the subject is, like 'I have a friend who does threesomes, would you ever do that?'  Try a lot of drinks, a hot tub and the right questions.  It worked on me:)
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Be careful when you go there. You do  want to copare your x to your new girl that is a quick way to dumpsville, But if you really perfer it that way you may bring it up while watching a porno or somthing like that. Be ready she may have soething she wants to change about you.
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Have the woman do it.  As every day goes by, the number of women wanting to have a "lesbian" experience increases.  Don't be intimidated or fear being rejected.  If you can pick up one woman, do the same to pick-up the second woman.  Having the first woman do it, however, increases the odds of finding someone drastically.  Remember. . . Women are not as freaky as men, they are more freaky!!  If guys knew what women talked about when they were alone, in regards to sex, it would make them blush.
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Yes I have watched adult movies with my partner. They don't really turn me on Sorry. At least I have not found one yet I have watched a few because he seem to last longer when we have one of those in. I mainly use those as a learning tool. To get new positions or see about how it would work to add another person. We watched a few on the whole 2 guys and 1 girl so I could get comfortable with the idea before we tried it. It helped I at least knew what I was signing up for when I said yes.
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Everyone answering your question is absolutely correct. However, I hear your plea and understand your plight so I have a suggestion for you that I take from experience. Your wife can also be your mistress and this adds excitement and eroticism to your relationship without cheating or leaving your vows of commitment.\nHere's how we did it. My wife would leave the house on a Friday evening shortly before me, dressed as if she were out for a singles night, and we had a planned 'meeting' place where she would go and I would find her there. For this 'meeting' we used different names, ones that each of us picked for the other. Upon arriving at the place of choice she would appear to be single and possibly there would already be someone attempting to make flirtatious conversation with her which only added to the drama of the plan. It was my place to search her out as if she was an available single female and show my prowess in gaining her attentions and affections. I won't go into the night of details as I'm sure you can fill in the blanks yourself but I am sure you can see how this could be very stimulating to your relationship without the need for a total stranger to satisfy your fantasy's.
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LOL, not to laugh at you, but it sucks you can't join in. I would ask your wife, if she must explore her fantasies, could it be with someone not related to you, so you can participate, too. I mean, if you aren't bothered, then don't make a big deal about it. Just simply state that you wished you would have know, so you wouldn't have been shocked/surprised. Ask her what her thoughts and plans are, and from there, you must decide.
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I asked the same question about my wife and got these answers.   \n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agn7HJTOP6UQyQAP1KFvciTsy6IX?qid=1006031910035\n\n\nWe have a son together and I'm looking to spice things up too but don't know how to approch it from a women's view.  \n\nFrom a guy's view I can say that as long as your not trying to do him or have a 3 way with another guy they are sorta open to it more than women seem to be...although the predomonant male fantasy is a 3-some with 2 women.  But in the end men can be a little scared about doing anything to out there....just start with something small and work your way up.
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I would consider doing it in her presence! It portrays an image of not being satisfied by her! Think about it and imagine you being the one next to your wife masturbating while you arent that asleep!
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Yeah my husband does too.  I didn't think about it till it happened.  Now we do it every once in a while so we keep it not boring.  Plus, it's intense sex.  You guys take turns, she can go on and you guys take breaks and watch.  It's live porno and it's you wife which makes you want her more.  I think it's normal.  Enjoy it and have fun!
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See if they fancy a threesome.  You win!!
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Firstly: tell your wife if you are certain now. You don't want to try to figure this out alone. I wonder why if you told your wife about her friend's behavior your wife didn't respond well... Odd. Secondly: Are you SURE that she wants to get with you? Maybe you're misinterpreting her. But if you're definitely sure, then, after telling your wife, just avoid the other woman. \n\nAll of the above is assuming you don't want to cheat on your wife. If you do, then....I guess you don't have any problems then, do you?
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my wife likes to watch porn with me. I consider myself lucky with that. she likes to watch it more when we are having sex.
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Well mostly I agree with jessica13183 (sorry if I transposed the numbers), but what she said :)...\n\nIt's best if you have a particular interest in say feet if you let that be known BEFORE you slip the engagement ring on her finger. That's right if you are going to want to "really love on her feet" or something else that she may consider "out of the ordinary" then I think you should be up front with it. If it's something you really desire, but she cannot tolerate say because she is VERY ticklish and it really makes her miserable, then you may find that you begin to search to fulfill that fantasy with a woman who will enjoy it too. \n\nI speak from experience, I was single for 14 years between my cheating husband #1 and 2nd loyal and wonderful husband now (10 years in November!) and I did not exactly live a "cloistered life" so I know there are some men out there that just are in love with women's feet or have something else quirky that they REALLY want. I still think the number one fantasy of all time for men would be either being able to watch 2 women "together" or to also be able to join the two women and make it a threesome.  \n\nNow when you have big ugly flat feet (like mine) and some guy says he thinks they are really hot, that is a sure fire sign that he is a foot lover. Alas I am TERMINALLY TICKLISH! So the relationship lost a lot of it's appeal to both of us...when I began to TRY to open my mind and let him dive on my dogs. I can laugh just thinking about it, there is something about the hysterical laughter of a woman that takes some of the joy out of a fetish, I guess? It was not long before he found a gal who was not so ticklish...he was a real nice man other than that...and that was not TERRIBLE, but I would laugh so hard I would have an asthma attack! If you know it's something you want, shop around and maybe you could introduce  your lover to a fetish of yours and she will learn to enjoy it, it's good to know before you make lifetime commitments.\n\nDepending on the fetish and the person, I guess...good luck! Oh and I am fairly sure if you are into beating the crap out of someone for your kicks, then you won't find too many women that will really want to hang around for that more than once. Different strokes for different folks...not everybody likes the same things!\nruthie~
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ALL OF THEM, get a book on kama sutra. They sell them at book stores or watch porn together, or buy yourself. So you can learn new moves.
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go with the hot friend.  no risk of creating a clinger and no risk of alienating the wife to be.  a blast all around.