like he flirts with me (and other girls) but i like him alot \nhe asked me if i wanted to see his penis but i siad no. i'm really good friends with him and his girlfriend. what should i do?
122119
You should do absolutely nothing.  Don't be a homewrecker and don't ruin either one of your friendships.  He's just a flirt and possibly a jerk.
317303
dont be with him. if he has sex with other girls(to make it worse your BEST friends) and it doesnt mean anything why do it? thats tottally out of the question. i would say no untile i know 4 sure that hes stop having sexx with ur best friends. in my opinion i think he might like you for ur looks and not because he likes you. he is having lots of sex with lots of girls. what a jerk. i think he just wants to get in your pants. i am not laughing when i write this u know! dead serious. stay away from him. i know its hard, but come on. reread that question u wrote and tell me if you really want to be with a man like THAT.
215083
Talk to him about his g/f.He has to resolve the question about dating her.He is not the onlyone who has to think.You should think too.Do you realy have some feelings about him(like loving him).All my friends are boys and I love those guys only like friends.We all have the same taste but it doesn`t make any sence(well except for our friendship-it`s easyer).Sometimes people horrey too much.
441252
man...this is a toughy....he sux man why in the world would he do that n e way..and in fornt of you..HE HAS THE NERVE!!!!!\n\n\nyeah but i think you SHOULD flirt with a certain someone...rite in front of HIM....if that doesnt work....then see what his problem is ,...
662331
NO, don't do it! it seems you may have honest feelings for him, so do not do the friends w/ benefits. you will just get more deeply involved. what if he starts seeing another girl? honey  he's not the only man in the world, there's thousands outthere. all you need to do is keep your mind occupied and give yourself, your body value, love and respect. you know you deserve so much better than just being someone's sex object.
359081
he likes you... as simple as that...\nguys dont know how to deal with their feelings... do they find the silliest thing to show them... \nif you like him back, then you gotta tell him what the deal is...esp that he has s gf... you guys should speak up about it, and see what he wants from u, this way, u will be more comfortable knowing what his motives are... and if you think that there his actions arenot palpable enough for you to face him, then you gotta see within yourlself, if you like his attention, the way he looks at you, even the way he makes fun of u....if you want these things, then find a way to talk to him about his gf, cos it would be low of u to do something with a guy who is emotionally attached... and if you can do without his attention, then simple brush him off....\nbut, think of something, would you want to be with someone who looks at other women when he is with someone?? would want to be in that woman's shoes? answer that question, and you'll know where you want to go with this...\nhope this will be of help..
540817
If he shows off, than be very careful. He may start to make fun of your feelings when/if he realises them. How much does he like this other girl? Does she like him back? If you two are friends, then you have it very easy to tell him you like him more than a friend. Tell him that ou do not know what it is happening. You are feeling for him something more. Tell him you realised you liked him when he told you about the other girl. If you are not so close friends, than tell him the same thing as above. Tell him what you felt when he talked to you about the other girl.
456941
I had this same problem not too long ago. He made me feel like I was already his gf but I wasn't. He asked me out a couple times but I always thought of it as a joke, because he told me he liked these other girl(s). So my advise to you is, don't fall for it just yet. He might of liked you last year and maybe likes you this year too. But just to make sure ask him in person if he was just kidding or if he really meant it. Hope my advise helps you.
415806
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
343289
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
122086
Relax and forget about it, he obviously likes alot of girls. He's not worth a frienship and she's just showing you this.  Lesson learned.
470196
I would find some else because this person is not loyal to his own girlfriend,and he sounds like what we call "a two timer" which means he likes to see more than one girl, and if you do see him, a big chance he'll do the same behind your back, so don't fool yourself and get hurt later on....so find someone else who is himself not someone who wants to flirt and show off in front of other people to get your attention....thats being childish on his behalf....seek a guy who likes who you are as an person not what you are....the relationship will go a long way.....
356536
if he has been flirty with you chances are itsn not a girlfriend.. come out and ask him if your interested in him.. get the \nball rollin
495586
Well that depends on how you look and how you act towards him...I say trust your gut, if you think he is attracted to your friend, chances are he is and he is being nice to you cause he wants you to hook them up.  You should test him and ask him a hypothetical situation and use yourself and yourfriend as examples and see if he flirts with you and pics you in the scenario.
522283
I think by flirting with you, means that he likes you, but maybe the only reason that he's dating this other chick is maybe because he just wanted a gf. You've probably been in those situations where someone has asked you out and you say yes because you think their cute and there may be someone you like, but your not sure if they like you back. I know I've been there. What I'm saying is that there is probably an unspoken "thing" going on between you two, and he said yes to this chick or asked her out, because neither one of you guys were making the first move. Make sense? And its possible he's trying to make you jealous to make you react and show him you like him. Like he KNOWS you like hi, but he wants you to SHOW him. good luck, and take whats yours! its not like the boys married, right? lol...
287982
How does he know you like him? this is the important part.  Have your friends been telling him or have you been overtly flirting with him.  If it has been your friends you must tell them to keep out of it.  They are scaring him off.  He will need time to think about how he feels about you without pressure from anyone else.x
531245
Honestly, it sounds like your friend was taking advantage of you. And that's probably hard to believe since you two are so close. Men like kissing and fooling around with women and they don't really care who the woman is or about her feelings. Maybe he is lonely and hadn't been with a girl in a long time and you were just there so he decided to fool around with you with out considering your feelings. I'm sorry but he doesn't seem like a good friend. I'd try to find other friends and spend more time with them. It doesn't mean you have to ignore him completely. But he obviously doesn't care about your feelings and you should hang out with  other people who will. \n\nAnother possibility is that he might have been confused and wanted to kiss you to see if he might have had any feelings for you as more than a friend. Then he realized you two can only be friends. \n\nHowever, I think that the first might be more correct. He was not being respectful or considerate. Even if he wanted to try going out with you, he shouldn't have fingered you. He could have asked you out on a date but not go so far. I think he was just being plain selfish and took advantage of you. \n\nI would advise you to forget him and find another guy. But if you still want to try to get closer to him and get into a boy friend-girl friend  relationship, I would advise you to give him some time, but always treat him well, but don't really hint or talk about romance. Just show him you care by your actions. If after a while, it still didn't work, ask him out and say that you would really appreciate it if he could at least give you a chance. Tell him you think that you two would get a long great and that you want a chance because it's worth getting to know a girl who loves him so much. But don't let anything too intimate happen between you two on the first dates. He should respect that. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!