a friend if mine .....she is 14 havent got her period for 6months.....she havent had sex ....but dont know y????pls pray for her and aslo pls tell me y she is not having her period.???she is worried
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there is no need to worry, she is fourteen her body is different than everyone elses, shoot im 25 and never had them once a month, i have mine once every 3-5 months and is been like that ever since i started having them, What she could do is go to her doctor, a gynocologist, or simply go to planned parenthood and have a doc look at her there and simply get something from them to help get them going every month, but more than likely they will prescribed the birth control pill, it helps regulate your system so i would have her talk to her mom about it before she goes to the doctor wouldnt want her parents to freak out about something she isnt doing.
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How old are you? Irregular periods can be caused by many things including bad eathing habits...anxiety, if you weigh very little you maybe missing your perioud often, when you mean last year... when? i think you should see a doctor asap. Health problems are not a joke. something could be wrong. Also when you say you have not had sex... are you saying that there was no penetration but you played around abit? the sperm is known to survive for upto 72 hours (www.teenwire.com or 6days according to that website). My take... see a gyno immediately... this is important. and there are clinics that you can go to that are not costly. ask your friend to go with you. goodluck
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Let's see here. She's stressed and she needs to know how to live her life and make wise decisions right? Also she's living with a man who is a mooch and to whom she is not married?\n\nIt sounds to me like she needs to turn to the living God of Heaven through faith in Jesus Christ and turn her life over to Him. That way she can have sound time tested principles to guide her decision making and receive supernatural assistance through prayer and the leading of God's Holy Spirit.\n\nWhether or not she does that, she ought to kick out the bum, tell her 16 year old that for the family's sake she is going to have to take on some additional responsibilities like baby sitting and go to school and get her certification.
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Ask her to see a gynocologist to see if there is any infections and if not then talk to her about her possible fear of sex if there is any. But do not pressure her. She'll prolly come around eventually just give her time.
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She is most likely underweight, which does cause women to not get their periods. She needs to see a doctor so she can get examined properly and get the information she needs to get healthy again. If she has an eating disorder (anorexia/bulimia) then she would also need counseling with a therapist.
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If you have had your periods AND even a test at the doctor's office has told you that you are not pregnant, but the idea of possibly being so is making you so nuts, chances are you have other issues about having sex at this point in your life.  Take some time and really think about what it is about the whole sex thing that is doing this to you.  Is it the guy? Is it your families values about sex and marriage?  Is is a religious thing?  Is it just that you are personally not ready to deal with it yet?  Intellectually you KNOW you are not pregnant, but you are still having this horrible worry about it, so something else is going on in your mind that is causing your worry.  Good luck getting it all worked out.
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I am nursing major and with what I have studied I would be worried, she may need to see a doctor. It could be stress related, and at that age as well, girls are going through many hormonal changes, or worse it could be intestinal, that could need medical attention quickly. So she really needs to seek medical attention.
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I am sorry to hear about this I wish I could answer your Qs. I was just browsing and came across this.I had to post something back!My daughter was very sick about a week ago. She is fine now. But it was so scary.No one knew what she was sick with... Thats the worst part.She is only 2. She was passing alot of blood in her stool....Well we,as humans, always think of the worst first.I felt like the Dr.s were not doing enoff.But I now know that if you trust your DR. with all your hart then your mother is in the right place!But if not...Find some were you do trust.Ya'll will be in my familys prayers.  when you don't know what to do,Take your hands off the situation-by not worring(as much)-and God will then take care of it.
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Well, go ahead and make her mad, if that's what it takes to get the point across!! She sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do, if she changes her mind about a lifelong belief, just for overhearing a conversation about your belief.  I think that what your friend is going through is finding herself and establishing her own truths through experience. I think we all go through that at some point in life. But, I feel you should talk to her at least to let her know to be her own woman and not just another gulliable follower. Just my opinion.\n-Reggie
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Pray for her. I don't know if you are a Christian, but if you are, you should know that talking to God about it relieves much stress and His Will WILL be done! Whatever happens is for the best. You are in my prayers. ~tracie
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My friend didnt get her period til she was 16 years old. I think its perfectly normal not to have your flow at an early age these days. Since everyone is starting to eat organic foods and such maybe all the hormones arent bugging her system. Tell her to enjoy her flowless days because once she gets it, good bye cute white pants and hello hot pads and midol.
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You can pray for her. Make sure that she knows tha you are there for her. Be a really good friend to her. Maybe you could talk to her on the phone a little. Maybe she could get some help, it could be from you, God, other friends, or even a counselor
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No.  Maybe she's Christian and does not believe in fornication (premarital sex).  Not everyone has sex by the age of twelve!
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Help you with what?  It was your period.  Don't be embarrassed.  Every girl has it sooner or later.
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She is a perfect girl going through stages in life a tough way. Thank God she is being caught and hopefully it will eventually make her come to her senses and change her pitifull lifestyle. We all learn through mistakes and for sure she will learn thru hers too. Many of us have done this and are now responsible citizens & its only when you have been through it that you really get shaped in life. I for one started drinking (heavily) at 18, had a baby when i was 14, had a number of abortions. Was in and out of home as a teenager, cohabited several times as a teenager and did other more worse things and learnt alot from all these mistakes.  Went back to school, and now a chartered marketeer, doing well, raising my son wonderfully and a devout christian. What am saying is your daughter will get through all this, just be there for her no matter what she does. My Mom loved me though I was what others regarded a rotten girl. She loved me and kept telling me I could do it I wasnt all that bad, and I made it. So hang in there and keep encouraging her. She will change. Above all else pray for her, God wont fail you.
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tell her that 14 is way to young and it is a big choice to make tell her of all the negatives that can come pregnancy std's and make sure u watch him a 16 yr old boy i a walking hormone
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Well it could be that shes sore down their or that she worries her parents can hear. Why not just talk to her about it.\n\nIm glad your using protection, even though I fear your still to young to be having sex. But im not your parent so wont act as one, just remember protection is not 100% against pregnancy. You both are still risking becoming parents at such a young age.