A guy tells me he fancies me quite often - but will only really talk to me on nights out - we've kissed a few times - when we're just around our uni halls he almost ignores me - everyone of his friends just say that he's really shy - any suggestions on what to do?
127624
You need to make the moves, because he is too shy.
252951
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
187822
if he likes you than hes trying to get your attention.you need to try to talk to him and ask him why.maybe hes trying to avoid somthing.some problems e has.thats how i had it once and i took it seriously and asked him and it turned out he was just avoiding something that had happended to him and didnt want to tell me.say hi to him and tell him youll always be there for him and be a true friend.that should make him talk.
208063
It sounds like your probably just imagining his interest. Not trying to be mean but that is most often the case.\n\nThat doesn't mean you can't develop a meaningful relationship with him.  \n\nMy advice would be not to put your heart on your sleave but give him a smile and maybe initiate a conversation with him. Preferably in a semi-quiet place while he isn't rushed or distracted (by other people, an event, etc.)\n\nGood luck!\n\nArmus
144076
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
63621
if he did not like you he would not go anywhere with you, also if he is quiet around you being shy its because he does not want to look like a jerkoff, if he were sure of himself and outgoing he would be talking non stop to try to impress you. maybe asking off the wall questions is his actual way of trying to be interesting to you, in effect he's trying to impress but lack of social skill makes it seem a bit offbeat. next time ask him if he has a girl or tell him he is very attractive when he smiles or something try the odd touch on the arm shoulder or even knee dont keep it there just a single rub or pat or squeeze, this might kick start his 'ask her out engine' good luck
469980
Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.'  Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
381934
Perhaps he doesn't like you the way you like him and he's avoiding you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Lay low from him, if he comes around then maybe he was just planning on how to ask you out, or how to tell you that he likes you, maybe he's shy. I hope he likes you!
578380
Is he shy? If not then it is best to assume he is not the assertive type. (he may be the type of guy that waits for the girl to come on to him). If thats the case, I don't advise any further energy here.\nIf he is shy, then it may be he doesnt know how to behave around you.
413792
i would say either he is shy or just not comfortable tellling someone who is not in his circle of friends his feelings for you. you should comfront him about it or just ask one of his friends. maybe just ask him straight up when your friend is nearby and see what he says.
172294
i think he likes you but is very shy.. also he might feel ackward kissing you bcuz others have told you thats what you want.. oh and about your friends askin if it was official.. that might have put him on the spot.. not always a great place to be!
530367
Ok, if he is a more outgoing guy, chances are that he will try to get closer to you over a short period of time. He may start talking to you more and more (ect.). If he is shy, he will likely give you lots of glances, but may be too nervous to talk to you. The best way in either case would be to start talking to them. Hope this helped a bit and good luck.
333156
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
592805
Maybe he likes you but is shy to tell you or make a move. Maybe you need to tell him how you feel.  Or just talk about each others feelings.
607970
Actually, you like his personality. If you like how he waits and where you stand in control issues.. isn't that part of one's personality. Just wondering. Since he is really shy, you're probably the one whose going to break him of his silence. Make him talk. If it doesn't work find other ways of communication. (Phone, letters, etc) Good Luck!!
130703
sweetie,\n\nthis could be one of two things...a)hes a player (PUA) and is doing it to attract you...catstring theory, or B) hes a bit of an idiot and hes not appreciating you. i'd suggest you have a look at the this website for more info:\n\nwww.fastseduction.com
524885
well I think you need to give him some little more time before you jump into any rash decisions. It's possible the guy is the shy type, who actually likes you but each time he's with you he finds it a bit hard to open up to express his feelings, one thing you need to watch out for, is that during your meetings, you need to know how he feels, his looks, his disposition when he's in your company, etc.\n\nThis will help to know if actually he's the shy type of guy or if he's pretending. Once, you have been able to establish this, if he's shy, then you can decide to do the talking or take the initiative by asking what he feels about you, asking him out on a date. But if he's not truthful or pretending, then you tell him off and look elsewhere for solace.