Well, I found a spiral notebook, thought it was for school...and it was open. So I read some of it, and it turned out to be my daughters diary. It said quite a bit about her having sex with a guy from school. I feel horrible for reading it on accident, but don't know if i should say anything, or just leave it be?
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How old is she? Talk to her about sex, the consequences, how to be safe, etc. You don't even have to mention the notebook, just say you felt that you needed to have that talk. Also, if she's not on birth control you might want to start.\n\nWhoa, at 13 you need to take immediate action. She's too young to be having sex and you need to get involved.
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OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
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I hope you had it copywritten b4 you sent it out...especially if it  has some great ideas!\nMore than likely,they will pass up on yours,however,don't feel down-you never know!!!
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No, she is not right, you go out there and tell the police who did it, its a sick minded crime and you shouldn't keep it in secret, cuz if you do he is gonna do it again, and about your boyfriend, you said it was his friend and he didn't do anything, i'm sorry to say but maybe he had something to do with it. what im saying is that you should report that crime and get that piece of shit boyfriend away from you from letting that happen to you and not do anything about it.
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Dear,\nwhatever you have written seem to be so baffling to me and i dont care what you do to me now because once you have hurt me and that is it.I know you dont regret anything and reading this i just feel that you are trying to be a script writer for a soap.It is stupid the way you say things again and again.Ao let us break up and never see again.Walk out of my life and please never look back
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I would say you're just paranoid, but I would ask him about it. Ask him to reach deep inside and ask why he may or may not be placing things like that around the house. On the other hand, it may just be completely innocent, and he was trying to get the notebook and notes out of his head, so he threw it in there. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.\n\n~~Naomi
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The only sort of diary I keep is my blog, but a good friend of mine is constantly writing in a journal. We both find it very relaxing and fun.\n\nMine obviously is open for everyone. Her's can hold her more secret moments.
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Here's the honest scoop...I have a 15 year old daughter and I found a note of her promising a boy her virginity...so as her mom I freaked out. Well, I took her to get on birth control just in case and in the meantime I scared the heck out of her, hoping that if she did have sex she would just tell me so I would know and could offer her protection and help her deal with any problems that may come from it. Truth be told, when I took her to the gynocologist, the doctor asked me to leave the room when they examined her and also explained to me that anything she discussed with her or learned was strictly doctor patient confidentiality. I even tried to scare her after the exam by telling her the doctor told me something and she was in big trouble. I tried scaring her needlessly...I think. Bottom line, no the doctor keeps all of that confidential by a law known as HIPPA now and from the doctor patient confidentiality oaths they take. Even if your mom says the doctor told her something, she's only going on suspicion and trying  to scare the truth out of you. If you do decide to have sex, just make sure that you are protected, please. I had to add that....as a mom :o)
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i like handwriiten notes cuz it shows he was thinking of me and HE wrote it! but if u want it to b humorous remind her of a funny memory, but make sure it's a funny memory to HER too, cuz if it's not then it won't go so well. but a note is always fun to receive =) good luck!\n\nand i don't think notes are JH, there somethin nice to show he was thinkin of her..
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Wow... this is interesting... I guess it's really none of my business, but it sounds like someone is dabbling into infidelity! Because if I remember right, I swear that you bragged about being engaged... interesting.\nAnd I'm not from Little Rock.. I'm from So Cal. My high school was called Littlerock. Since you seem to read my page like a crazy stalker I'm surprised you didn't know that.\nMy advice: Stick to your fiance and don't be such a skank!
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Just think it shouldn't be YOU the only crying about not having the book.   (I know it probably doesn't go to the extenct of "crying", but I'm just saying).  Like my mom once told me, in a friendship, you shouldn't be the one that's negatively affected by something, because that way you're not getting anything out of the relationship.  Just tell her to buy one herself or for you, or give it back, or tell her that to give it back to you but if she needs it some other time, you'll lend it to her.
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I would have to tell him that I have read the letter, Apologise for the fact that I was snooping but I would have to confront him and ask him what she means otherwise you are not going to get it out of your head.\nYou take that chance when you snoop through other peoples things you find things that you don't like and it drives you crazy, I'm not condemning you cos Ive done the same thing but I would have to own up and bring the subject out IN the open.\nGood luck, and remember he might have said something meaningless to her and she has took it in the wrong context.
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He is totally in the wrong here, and it's not too nosy to find out someone has a girlfriend of Myspace, if it's on myspace it's pretty public.  Be mad at him, tell him to go back to his girlfriend and leave you alone!
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My brother's favorite pillow, he's resting in peace now.  I accidentally left it in a hotel room on the bed, one of the maids took it away thinking we had one too many of the hotel's pillows.  When we got back to the room, I cried, yelled, and had a emper tantrum, but there was nothing they could do for me, it was gone.  Maybe it was good for me somehow to be parted from it so I could move on and away from my long period of mourning.
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who marked it private?  And what would be dangerous about the site?  My kid isn't allowed on there anymore.  I'd be interested in finding out how to see some of her friends sites because I hear one girl has some pretty bad stuff on her site (such as announcing shes not a virgin, etc).  I don't think her mother really cares though.  She's 13 and her mom lets her date guys that drive.  My daughter isn't friends with her anymore and says she can't access her myspace thing.
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I read in The New Paper some days back and i saw that a teenager was caught for mass downloading Music and other stuff online. To make this worse...the teenager still used other people internet connections by connecting to them and using them(do not ask me how he did it, I am not too sure)...
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Wow, that is so beautiful.\nNo, it does not sound like a letter, it's definately a poem and it has a story somewhere in there. I wouldn't mind hearing it, i'm interested. I've written a few poems but they're not constructed well like yours is very well done. mine all have stories burried somewhere in them. How i came to writting whatever i wrote or what they're about.\n\nbest of luck, and keep on rolling\n~just a Youngling\n\nps. i chocked on a paperclip because that's how i roll