After mairrage one gets different lessons over child birth from well wishers friends and family members which creates a confusion what to do.
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Birth control is not what God planned.  Once you are married there is no need for them.  God lets ALL thing happen for a reason and to everything He gives a time, place and season.  God will not let you have a baby before He feel it is time.  To all things there is a season.  If it is not your season to have a baby, you will not.
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u'd be hard-pressed, my dear. there are a lot of families who wish the same. especially for certain age groups, it is ... ummm ... not easy !
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You are right.\nPrayers change the course of fate.\nIt is a matter of experience
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It's quite true that there are just some things that we have to learn for ourselves. \n\nIt's also true that other people have different perspectives, goals and desires than we do.  Sometimes it's a matter that we are missing something that they see.\n\nIt can be frustrating when you see your own child make a mistake, but you can't protect them, and it is VERY tricky to convey to them what you have learned or what you see that you think they don't see.\n\nSo here is my advice: (!)\n1.  Give up your need to have them follow your advice.  They have to be able to do differently than what you advise, or you are just trying to control them, not help them.  And like I said above, what you want may not be what they want.  And they aren't there to do right everything you did wrong.\n\n2. Learn active listening - see link below.
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Some bad assumptions here.  There is no such thing as a wrongful birth, at least by what is implied in the sub statement.  Any birth results in a child unable to care for itself.  The duty is of the parents to provide for it. If the state determines the parents are irresponsible, then the state assumes the duty.  Otherwise, the parents may try to get another to assume the duty of raising the child through adoption.  But, regardless of the law, the logical connection between the act of reproduction and a birth leads directing to the duty of seeing the child is cared for. \n\nPlaying philosophical games with child care responsibility leaves some adults confused on what is right and wrong and thus results in unnecessary problems for children and society.
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the parents dont know what their doin thats why
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because some people cant take care of babies. they may be too young, raped, or in a terrible relationship that you cannot understand until you walk in their shoes.
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Well unfortunately the umbilical cord can't be severed.This is especially true for the mothers.Some ungrateful children see thier parents as a servants to accede to thier whims.Luckily most children grow up.Become regular citizens,and a credit to thier parents.Even better honor thier mums' and dads'
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having a baby isn't going to make anything better. sometimes a parent can be a better parent b being away from the situation. kids need love and a sense of security,
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It's very sad when people choose this route and can cause other family members to consider the option even generations down the road.  Most are NOT successful though, and just leave the person to deal with more suffering.  Counseling and medication is a better option.
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Your mom isn't going to change now. She is not going to change unless she wants to. I think you realize this. You need to step back and deal with your own life. She isn't good for you, just because a mother gave birth doesn't mean you have to have a friend in her.
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They do this in part because they are not mature enough to deal with the real world.  I'm not being critical of them. I have too many problems of my own.  These "kids" were not taught a great deal of personal responsibility as children.  That rests squarely on their parents shoulders. Now they are having children and have less chance of teaching their own children responsibility.  It will likely get worse before it gets better.  Some day maybe parents will step up to the plate.
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ugh... alternation of generations
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People started to take on a role of questioning long held beliefs. ie. the church doesn't know all and that there are other ways to look at the world rather than going through a catholic priest.
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Well now I see I'm not the only one that has thought about that very question.  I was telling my husband just the other night that didn't make any sense to me.  We're told how protected our children are  when they're in someone Else's care but it has to make you wonder about that one.
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It is a very upsetting topic even more so for me I just had a baby and to look at all the things that could happen to her while shes so little is a scary feeling but you have to look at it like this....if its gods will she can go at anytime no amount of medicine or making sure shes sleeping on her back or anything else can really change that .....but as a mother your going to go that extra mile and make sure that you do anything in your power to keep her safe anyway. We tend to not worry about anything unless it hits home insted of thinking of it in terms as we are all family and should help one another out..but people want what they want...spend there money how they want(and to be honest they should its theirs) but to show a little Compassion to someone else should be a bigger reward then that new DVD player or those $200.00 doller shoes but your only one person and your not going to change everyones mind so the best you can do it what you can do and teach your kids to do they same a little help is better then none at all......Is it fair...no...but then again life is not always fair to any of us...there rich people now who have money coming out their ass but still we see them commit suscide and kill others...who was there to help that indvisual? People should take care of people no matter who they are!
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Exact same story in my family. I was the little sister that was treated differently. My sister was the first born grandchild and was named after my grandma. She would invite her to special tea parties, trips to Florida,etc. And I would get to stay home without any invitation. My parents never admitted to it until I was older, which was a very good thing. However, my mom told me that she did talk to her about it and felt that she just didn't realize it when she did it.\nWhat Mom did do was talk to her parents. Whenever, gram invited sis to something special....the other Grandma and Grandpa made sure that they invited me to do something special also. \nTalk to her about it. It can do a lot of damage to self esteem. Your baby is too precious to have that happen.