we want to get marry but other people say no please help
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I SAY GO FOR IT,ITS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYONE ELSE,IV BEEN MARRIED TWICE,SECOND TIME ROUND IS MUCH BETTER,FOR MY HUBBY IT WAS HIS FIRST TIME,IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH THEN DO IT...
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you have to kind of like the person who you want to marry.\nI think your family's point of view is as important as yours. and even if you do not love that person, make sure that you do nto hate him.\n\nIf he is nice caring and faithful you will fall in love later on in your life.\n\nAll the Best
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If they cannot agree to a solution, then they could really benefit from advice via a third party -- probably a marriage counselor as opposed to a religious person, since part of the problem lies with religion.\n\nThere are many factors that will determine what is best for the couple, and no one reading this will ever know those factors, so I certainly wouldn't take life-altering advice as to a definite step here!\n\nTruly, professional advice should be sought.
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do you think marriage is a good thing? Is this what you want..? Ask yourself what you wants? Dont settle for what everyone else wants. Do what your heart tells you to do.
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U r goin to live ur life......not others.....so jus ignore the oppositions....If ur love is strong u can overcome any consequence........If the society opposes try to change it...remember the soceity is only made of humans....
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hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX
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You are both very fortunate in your happines.  Dont worry about what the world is doing.  Because it sounds like you BOTH are doing everything right.  Continue to love, respect, communicate and enjoy each other.  It takes 2 to make a marriage and a home.  I simply made a poor choice, and the problems erupted early on.\nSome of us dont get it right the first time.
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This is how I feel about "getting" a man to marry you... I would be insulted if I felt as though a guy was marrying me out of pressure or because he feels obligated. Best thing to do is talk about what you want and go for it with someone that wants the same things.\n\nYou are young, and you have plenty of time. If you are sure that this is a guy you can spend your life with and you believe that he really does want the same things you want - stick around for a while, stop the pressuring, and see where things go. \n\nIf things don't work out, then next time, make sure that you have someone that wants the same out of life as you do, and within the same genera time frame, before you get too involved.
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hey lori \nsound like you pick the wrong man to marry and it sound you are not happy in life well there is some thing you can do to change it # 1 divorce him and find some one who wont bring you down and some one you well be happy with for the rest of your life.life to short not to be happy i wish i could be there for you good luck
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No..No...and No!!\n\nDo not marry anyone under any kind of pressure.\n\nMarriage is about loving someone and wanting to spend the rest of your lives together not being forced down the aisle.\n\nGood luck.
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If you're not sure now then it won't help if you get married.  Call it off now before you make a huge mistake.  You probably don't want to live the rest of your life like that.  I don't know many people who would want to.
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Don't do it.  You are both adamant on the opposite ends of a very fundamental thing.  If you get married, one of you is going to have to give in and will be resentful and bitter because you did.\n\nSomehow, I don't think anyone could say anything to you at this point to keep you from marrying this "perfect" person, making this advice all the more regretful to give you, but if you'll think for a moment with your brain and not your heart, you know I'm right.
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My advice would be to wait a little longer (just a couple of months) before asking to have her hand in marriage.... but that's just me. You may come on a little strong if you ask her now and that may put distance between the 2 of you if she isn't ready for it. Something that you could do is find a way to bring up the topic in conversation and see if you can get her opinion on the subject (just to get an idea if she is on the same page with her emotions before actually popping the question) or see if one of her sisters can ask (or girlfriends) what her opinion may be on the marriage subject. But regardless of what your decision may be I wish you joy and happiness in the future..... and I really hope that the 2 of you do get married.
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marry the one you love. my wife is a sikh and i am a englishman and she had the same problem with her family.  the guy you dont know will treat you like trash so dont do it. stand your ground the world is changing be yourself and do what you want.
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Rather than just coming out and saying "that's not going to happen," my opinion would be to try and try and try again.  What better gift can a future spouse receive than you on your wedding night - with a commitment that you have chosen to become pure - again - for this night only.  It is perfectly OK to start making that commitment now.  Buy yourself a purity/commitment ring and wear it on your ring finger and really try each day to live out that commitment.  Believe me, it will change your life =)  My opinion:  Wait until marriage!!!  Best wishes =)
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hey i think that is so sweet it is like you guys are reminding each other why you wanted to marry.i say noone has the right to call you weird if you are happy. keep up the good work you guys give others hope for happy marriages.
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Hey tleigh...well after what i just read, it seems to me that the 2 of you are happy with the way things are now.  If this is the case then why ruin a good thing.  I believe the only time 2 people should get married is if they are both really committed to the whole marriage thing.  But, if you still have to stop and ask yourself if this is a good thing then most likely its not gonna be. But, like I said earlier,  you 2 seem to be doing just fine the way things are.  You know how the old phrase goes..."Don't fix it , if it ain't broke"  As of right now, it doesnt seem as if anything is broke in this relationship....Good luck with everything, tleigh...