the reasons for the first answer reflects your personality(that is wat u are).the reasons for ur 2 ques reflects the qualities u would like ur partner to have.the city u answered in ur 3 question is the place u would like to spend ur rest of ur life in.do tell me how are u feeling now.bye tc
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Baby I'm sorry I don't get your spelling.\n\ntis kinda conf -use- ing 2 me.
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I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
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If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
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neither. the first is just mutuality and the second is just infatuation. love is the most comfortable place under the sun. you always want to be with that person and never wanna lose them. your tongue doesn't tie anymore because you feel you can say anything at any time. the words i love you just comes naturally and you cant picture your life without that person. its not that feeling you felt when you just started going out any more, its way more that, you're in love with that person, but much more than that at the same time. when you are willing to do anything for that person to be happy, that's love. not when you'll do anything to impress them or keep them satisfied, but make them really happy. when you look at them and realize that someday they'll be old and saggy but also realizing that then you'll love them even more. when that person is truly the most important person in your life and has become the center of your universe.
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you remind me of myself so patient,considerate and understanding for the man, but putting yourself last.hmmm you say you want this to work.i think youre fed up and feel like going but youre afraid theres nothing out there for you.let me clue you in ,go and check out a few clubs with a good girlfriend of yours and see just how many people are looking for love.any man would be lucky to have a committed lady like yourself.maybe its time for an ultimatum?up to you though,mean what you say and say what you mean.GOOD LUCK SISTA
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Pride of course because I am absolutely so much better than you and all of the other people on this website.\nWhy, you should feel honored by my beauty and brilliance.\nYou aren't really worthy of my answer, but since I feel so generous today I suppose, I could tell you.\nBut of course, don't get all air headed just because I answered your question. I know.. I know..I'm more beautiful than you...\nIt's just something you'll have to live with.
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your love life is a very personal thing, I would think that if a guy wants to know such things about you there must be a reason why.  I think he likes you.
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I think they are great quotes.  If we could all live by them what a great place the world would be.  Like the last quote...I think that is what we are all looking for.  The first quote is so true....if you feel something for someone let them know it.  It might not turn out like you hoped, but then again it might.  Love is worth the risk.  Thanks for reminding me that there are still some romantic guys left.  LOL......
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I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
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Your first love will always be with you.....But you moving to bigger and better things is best.  If you are feeling negativity, than it's time to move on.  That hesitation in your relationship is the little voice in your head telling you it's over and to turn it into a positive (find someone who will truly make you happy!)
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I think that whatever the reason for your intereste in this other man, it is telling you one very important thing: you probably arent ready for marriage. as much as you probably do want to get married, maybe this is a way of telling you to give it a bit more time. it doesnt mean that you dont love your partner. perhaps you should just take a bit of time before deciding on marriage, and spend it on analysing your relationship and if this is really what you want. marriage should be for life. so your partner should be the only man in your life, when you decide to marry. perhaps just for now, take time to enjoy eachothers company and maybe you can look forward to a Valentine's Day Proposal in a few months time!\nWhatever you decide, follow your heart. The decision either way has to be right for you, as you are the one living your life.\n\nMaybe discuss with your partner your concerns? &#92;\n\nBest of luck in your relationship
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From what it sounds like, you are either insecure with your relationship and your position in his life, or you, deep down, want out of the relationship, so you ask questions that will in effect cause him to break things off, so you don't have to.
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You can always say I think we should test our waters for a little bit. Or I'm just not feeling it right now..I'm having a lot of stressful things going on and I need some alone time. Why would you want to be in something that you don't like anyways. And if you love something you always go back. You can just be friends with benefits.
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you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
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Time to be a little bit selfish! When you are with someone, especially long-term its all about you both as a couple. Now you have the chance to do something for yourself. Change your look perhaps get a new hair-cut or go on a holiday to somewhere that YOU have always wanted to go. When you are out there and doing stuff that makes you feel happy and fulfilled that comes across in your personality and people (including women, when youre ready of course) will want to be around you
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Do you like where you live? Do you like your job? What do you care when you tried to do what is right and the ex boyfriend can't realize that. So your going to uproot your whole life for a jerk that doesn't appreciate that you had his wellbeing at heart?  Don't let this instance ruin your whole life. On the other hand Chicago is a GREAT city.
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I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!