3 years ago start and last yet. we talk together and we are classmate too.but our relation have no definition, i need her and some meter is so far for me.it maybe im sick, im depress alittle,if i want to compress all compares i must say i cant live Ok wiyhout she. my name is mehdi and write from iran.let me know your idea.i wish to have a convers with more details. thanks for your time emp.
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Yes, tell her how you feel,simply,without a word about not being able to live without her.Ask her how she feels about you. But if she does not feel the same way,remember that she is your first love(is she?),you are apparently a young man,and you have a whole life ahead of you. You may find that there will be someone later on who means just as much or more to you. Life is too wonderful to spend it longing for a lost love. You will never forget her,but you will find you CAN have a good and happy life even if she is not in it. If it is meant to be,you will be together,but if not,let yourself cry,grieve for a lost love,but remind yourself that life really does go on,and something new and wonderful is waiting for you.
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Sounds like u 2 are friends, so approach it that way.  Feel free to tell her you are there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to - do this in a consoling way, so she sees sincerity.  Then be patient and don't get aggressive.  Time will tell.
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Hi you right it's not worth fighting over. Maybe she just feels like she can't talk to you about certain things that are happening in her life right now. I wouldn't worry to much about it. People sometimes find that it is easier to confide in strangers. That way no one will be able to judge her.
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Sunshine... first of all I hope everything is OK with you.  (See how easy that was and I don't even know you)\n\nFor a 'so-called' friend not to write or call or anything, well that is just-so-wrong.   \n\nHow hard is it to type a short text message like... thinking of you hope everything is OK. :)\n\nWOW!  What did that just take 5.8 seconds.\n\nThey are not a friend.\n\nForgive and forget.  Don't go out of your way for this person and don't invest any more of your time with this person.\n\nI feel sorry for them... I foresee a long lonely life for this so-called-friend.\n\nOtro vez.... and I hope everything works out for you and O!\n\nStay healthy
516608
What the card says is perfect.  Maybe below it just write something like, "Any time you need to talk I'll be there." or "Hope things get better for you."  Something simple, short, and sweet.  You seem like a great friend.  God bless you!
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Hey my dear, we've all been there.  I respect you and I'm sure your friend will for your honesty.\n\nSay it something like this, " Hello Mary, I know I acted like an idiot the other day.  I said some crap that I really did'nt mean.  Sometimes I can be an ass.  Can I make it up to you?  \n\nGood luck
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Well first of all I bet she would appreciate it if you used proper english and not that slang. Just write what you feel.. She was an excellent teacher to you, you learned a lot and that she will be missed. I don't know. Go to google to look for some quotes.
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i sincerely hope you speak better than you type, because that was cryptic at best.\n\nto put it bluntly, you sound like an over-sensitive wuss who's far too obsessed with someone 1/2 your age. if i were in her place, i wouldn't call you back either.
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i really feel you, i just experienced the same ordeal.she didnt go to another country, but she was only 2 hours away.i can tell you that alot of times long distant relations dont work, or at least they havent worked for me.
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hi there!i was thinking to tell u something with ur topic:well its obvious something hapend between u and her something that probably didnt liked her to much odherwise why she did meet with u 3weeks and after no  answer no nothing?u must ask ur self what was wrong during this 3weeks time couse, if she didnt like u from the begining why she did  go on and meet with u 3weeks and not just 1time???think well and see if was something from ur side...and if not if u cant see u did something wrong then are many posibilitye:eidher she find out in this time that u arent what she is looking for and she is doing this to u now couse she is feeling shy to tell u in face  or maibe she find someone else who its more comatible with her or difrent reason as parents for examples....maibe someone like her friends say something bad about u and in her opinion her friends are to much importand. \nwell i think i made u more confuze but u must think what u can do to feel ok with all this and dont be afraid do whatever u feel to and need to after all its ur life and u are a man so act like one!!
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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You should have waited until you cooled down before you replied. Maybe you should try to talk to her and see if y'all can work something out, there had to have beena reason why she sent you that message.
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me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
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he s a JerK.. and you are a S|_UT! you are both sick!! did you read the stupid silly question you typed here??\n "im plotting to meet some one and have a real affair with them not some fling im talking maybe fall in love with the other person"\n "now i just have to get out and find that other person"\nYou are SCUM!\nok..excuse.. im going to puke and will be back in a minute\np.s: poor kid
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Hi there,\nRemember the old saying "you can't choose your family but you can choose your friends"\n\nBoth of you have chosen well. "I know that sounds lame" but it's true. Like all good relationships you are going to have your ups and downs.\n\nWhen I read both your emails you could tell this friendship is here to stay.\n\nThe last email sent to you was to lighten things up,  so tomorrow you can put it all behind you. When you see her give her a hug. Please do it, even if its not the sort of thing you do. \nYou will be amazed at how good that will make you both feel, then you can put it all behind you and continue to be friends. \n\nI know I am a stranger here in Australia but trust me on this one.\n\nkinds regards from Down Under
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I think it was a joke.  You said that you two don't talk as much as you used to, I think that he was just making light of the situation.  You shouldn't be discouraged from talking to him again.
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i don't think you guys are being very nice making fun of her english - she's obviously going through a tough time right now!  If he's run away from you I don't know that theres a lot you can do.  If you are in contact with his family maybe you could ask them for support - see if they know anything and if they can talk to him for you, he hasn't behaved very well and you deserve at least an explanation from him - good luck!