how do u tell your best friend which is a guy that u like him ? we tell each other everything , and we know everything about each other .I can tell him anything but I dont know if I should tell him I like him and how should I tell him .I am a girl so dont say I am gay.
120078
just do it when you feel comfortable doing it. but do it, before he gets to liking another girl.
317176
I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
415806
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
571789
ok im a gurl...\nand at 1st depending on how well i know a guy i will find out if we have something in common,( sports, games anything ) then once i know a guy for longer i will talk more about what girl want to know from guy, that you wouldent normally just ask, then i would just talk to a guys as if you were my best friend
346605
in other words..you like him. yall are best friends. your scared if you tell him he wont be friends anymore...\n\nThe only way you'll ever know what he'll say is too tell him...or have a friend tell if you don't feel confident enough. But guys admire you more if you tell them to their face. The best thing that will happen is you will hook up. The worst is you will lose a friend. Your call...
237755
That is a very hard situation. I suppose if she is your best friend she you should tell her that you are gay. If she reacts badly... then she isn't really your friend. It will hurt if she gets upset but it is worse to keep the truth from her, friendships are built on honesty.\n     If she does take it well then ask her if she has ever felt that way. If she claims not to then you can probably leave it alone and not risk messing things up. But if she has then tell her the truth flat out. Or just tell her the whole truth either way.\n     I have a friend who came out to me about a year ago. At first I was upset that she had not told me sooner. But after I saw how much happier she is now with that out in the open I accepted it. \n     Just tell her, she deserves to know.
283883
Well then, it depends on your point of view about how precious the friendship between both of you. If you have your ups and downs and you're sure that he can be trusted and befriended for the rest of your days, then go ahead tell him. Whatever happened with your relationship, a best friend will never go away. If bad things happened, then you can always returned to the first stage. And make sure that you tell him that...\n\nDespite that, I would strongly advice you to at least give him hints first that you liked him. Don't go forward first, and let the man do the job (honestly a man will feel greater if he moved on first). At least gave him hints, one or two that you can and have liked him more than a friend.  \n\nSlipped in some sneaky talks about relationship when you're talking to each other. The word, "What if we're..." can be a good trick to use. I'm sure if you managed to pull this one of, he'll realized your feeling towards him and move ahead to do what his heart says. \n\nA best friend is someone worth having, worth caring and worth fighting. Who knows, he can actually be your 'best friend' for the rest of your life. Good luck!
230664
yeah i think you should take the chance. try to make it in some way as to not scrwe up the friendship if it doesnt work out. actually before telling him i think you should try to get him to like you too, make compliments, but make them sound casual so that he wont be sure if you like him or not, then he'll wonder if he likes you or not too. it sounds complicated but it works all the time.
80162
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
450694
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
191039
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
634232
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
396964
well just be yourself around them and if you have a certain guy in mind then if you like him tell him. or have one of your other friends (maybe one of your girls) ask him if he likes you or would ever concider going out with you.
139294
Well, do you go to school?? You need to work out a relationship with someone close to you in order for them to be your best friend. I have a best friend. I've known him for yrs now.  I can tell him anything.  Usually, you don't label someone you just met as your best friend.
642108
If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
191784
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..