I have no confidence when it comes to women.  How do I get through that, and be confident in myself?
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If you want a woman to like you, you have to like yourself first.  Look in the mirror, and decide what good qualities you have.  Those are the qualities that women will pick up on.\n\nWhat qualities about yourself don't you like?  Can you change them?  Do something to feel more positive about yourself in those areas.\n\nIf you're a nice, kind-hearted, caring guy (which I think most women appreciate in a man), that will come across in your personality.  Let a woman get to know the real you.  Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.\n\nAnd remember, chances are that the woman you're talking to is probably as nervous as you are.  To be confident, you need to love yourself.  Because if you don't love yourself, how can you expect another woman to?\n\nConfidence comes with experience.  Just get out there and start talking to them.  Be yourself, smile, look them in the eye when you talk to them.  Give them compliments, and they'll be all over you.  And then comes the hard part... is this woman worth your time, or you do wanna go on to the next one?
422715
Dont worry about it.  You are what you are.  People will accept you when you accept yourself.  I would be grateful to have a good woman in my life.
269804
The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
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Confidence is everything.  Stand tall and be proud of who you are.  If you are interested in a girl, don't be afraid to go talk to her.  Just remember when you are talking to her to not have an agenda, like getting laid.  Women always know, and it comes across as desperation, major turnoff.  Never be a doormat to a girl you are interested.  Being a doormat is basically doing anything and everything she asks of you.  She'll never see you as more than a friend.  Just try to get to know girls as friends initially but throw more flirting in.  Touch in anyway usually heightens flirting.  Hope that helps.
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You have to think of Yourself First. Forget about how men see you. Start thinking to make youself a better person.\n\nExecise, lose weight...if you are in shape get some interest like a hobby or some good reading...build some "new you" but not because you have to boost confidence with men, do it because you must boost confidence "in Yourself". You look in the mirror and you think.."I like you now.."\nWhen you have reached this point you will see strange things happening to you...Men will be attracted to you as ever before, even if you were ugly..Why? Because your  self-confidence send out a message, like a scent, telling men that you are OK you are the woman they are looking for, and all of this because you spent time building that confidence\nFOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON. DO IT FOR YOU::
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
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You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you've won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
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Do not change except to change how you feel about this silly girl. She doesn't seem to respect you much at all from the sounds of it.Learn how to really like who you are!!! Rejection can make people doubt themselves and who they are.that can be natural at first,but you have to let it go.You must like yourself better than anyone,and enjoy being who you are before you can know what woman will be right for you. The one who accepts you as you really are is the one worth the wait and your time. hang in there,and be good to yourself. Do what you love to do,and enjoy being free while it lasts!!! Best wishes to ya'!
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Confidence attracts me to women. You dont have to be hot, just know that you are hot is the sexiest thing ever. Also, a great personality is very good thing to have. You have to be able to laugh at yourself. Do worry so much and just go out and have fun and be yourself. DO NOT TRY TO BE SOMETHING YOU AREN'T. that is very unattractive
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so what you''re saying is that you need help to get the confidence you need to approach girls?  just be yourself and don't be nervous.
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Please do me the favor, look in the mirror and remember that you are a man. You see women like MEN, cool confident and in charge (of themselves and there enviroment). If you think you are going to get rejected then guess what buddy. Look I am not telling you to imagine your self a pimp but trust me self cofidence goes long way. Don't get too cocky, or corny. Invite her for a cup of coffee make her laugh but dont make a fool of your self. O Yeah when at the coffee shop ask her for her email, WHEN she is writing it tell her put her cell phone there to.
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when you feel good about yourself, it shines through and becomes an attracting feature to women.  be comfortable with yourself first and like everyone else said, be yourself.  dont try to be someone you're not.  it will backfire on you.
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the best way to get confidence in your self is to confront your fears head-on.  even if you fail, at least you tried, and you can take solace in that.\n\nby the way, not all girls can read your mind...  but most can.  hee hee!  :)\n\nif you stop looking at them like "girls" and start seeing them as "people", you will find it much easier to deal with them!  ;)
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perhaps u are so desperate that with every woman you look at there is a sign popping over their heads saying "girlfriend material" or "not girlfriend material". Have you looked at yourself lately? Perhaps when girls look at you, there is no sign over your head saying "not boyfriend material".  \nWhy don't u try to play up your SINCERELY POSITIVE SIDE and not dwell on why u don't have any girlfriend. If you are a nice guy, even if you are not that good looking, perhaps there is still hope for you. Good luck!\n\nP.S. Try not to let your desperation show. You have to start with being friends first.
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Jeff, you need to adjust your outlook. If you approach a woman thinking that they won't have you, then you're right... they won't have you. You have to look confident without being a cocky jerk. (But I doubt that will be your problem.)\n\nCheck into activities that don't cost much money -- classes through the Parks & Rec department, adult ed at the local high schools, group outings for hikes or other things you like to do, etc. If you don't have money even to participate in cheap activities, then it really will be difficult to meet a woman. \n\nFirst rule - to meet an interesting person, you have to BE an interesting person. Join a book club, take square dancing lessons, do volunteer work. Hospitals are always looking for volunteers, and most of them are women. Join a non-profit board. Volunteer for a political candidate. You'll meet much better women than what you'll find in prison.\n\nAnd stop being so desperate. Nothing turns off a woman faster than sensing that a guy is desperate. And even worse, no woman wants to feel like she is choosing a guy that nobody else wants. So drop that outlook right away. You may be scaring them off before they've had a chance to know you.
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Beleive in yourself, find out what you want in a woman and don't settle for anything less.  Once you do that women will come to you.
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Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.