Why is it that the more we guys give you girls a hard time, the more you enjoy it and keep coming back for more?
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I have yet to figure this one out and I am a lady!\n\nI quess it is natural!
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Guys don't loose interest necessarily.  Sometimes it because a "I've got you... now what do I do with you?"  or maybe a "I've got you... now here is the real me instead of the one I impressed you with to get you."\n\nSome guys just loose the desire to impress the woman.  This can come about because the woman stops or never gives the kind of attention the woman wants.  We have to face the fact that it is the mans job to woo the woman and do everything possible to impress the woman while she sits and takes it all in.  The woman isn't generally seen to need or have to return the affection or interest the man is showing.\n\nI suggest finding out from him if he is unsure of what to do next or just feeling slightly neglected.  He could just be pulling away because it is time for him to take care of his needs instead of focusing all his energy into the woman he cares about.  men do come back from this stage to care again.  We men just need to do know we can take care of ourselves as well as you.
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because women like them better than someone who treats them decent. i guess they see it as weakness. i cant make myself be abusive so i dont get the girl. dont bother sticking up for her either, they somehow get offended by that.
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I think when a guy really listens to a girl.  This really pleases her also trying to understand her when she is being a girl.  Meaning things we do that guys don't understand, try a little harder to.  As far as in the bedroom.  Variety, is always a plus, wanting to fulfill her as much or more then you want to please yourself.  This should actually please you anyway, because you feel good that you can do this so well!!!
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Beacuase girls are so dramatic sometimes, but hey I'm the same way. I get along better w/ guys than girls, but I too wish I had more female friends b/c some are so much more fun than guys, if they're trustworthy.
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We guys tend to giggle a lot sometimes shy when we eat in front of you girls YES US GUYS TOO! We like to play a lot with you, joke a lot ect. Call you all the time, get close to your ears, whisper. And most important are eyes are like metal when the girl is like a magnet.
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OK. as a guy, who has done that, i was tempted to do that time and time again. but my girl keeps me in check(m not pu**y whipped). she is more than i can handle. which is good. she is not forgiving, but she knows how to punish me. i mean, she loves me, and she knows that i love her. it has been three years now, and i havent even looked at another girl (matter of speaking). she trusts me, and boy, that is all i need.
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Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
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We can't handle it at all. We fall so quick that all we want to do is be with that person and talk to that person 24/7. The only way i see it is keep doing your own stuff when you were single and let him come to you. Us girls are always chasing the guys asses let them chase us for once
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Well it all depends, sometimes I want it now so I just forget everything and go for it !  Other times I play hard to get, it all depends on the mood im in that day.  Sometimes I want it soft n romantic other days I want it hard n rough...its all about how my mood is that day.
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its nice to hear a guy talk about more then sex but sometimes fun to talk about it to see if she wants to have sex with you and how if she likes you how you will treat her  after you all have sex. also we like to be listened to as well.
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Cause of pride we r happy when a girl likes us but we won't go out with her. But then when she does get a man we are jealous cause we thought you liked us. It is really confusing to grasp.
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Guys definately like to be told the little things that work best.  This is because guys want to offer their girls more sexual gratification than anyone else.  If you tell them how to do this, they will be more confident in doing it.  It is also an easy way to get what you want.  \nIts difficult to know what is the right amount of flirting.  I think that this would be different with every relationship.\nGuys find it very sexy to feel like they are offering some degree of protection to their girlfriend.  Guys are designed to be protectors and providers.  This truth has been evident from the beginning of time.  Historically, men have been the hunters and gatherers.  We want to provide protection and meet the needs of our families.  Knowing that we do a good job at these task improves our opinion of ourselves.  To feel this level of gratification is as sexy as it gets.
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Ok, I definately like to be challenged but compared to someone else???  HELL NO!  The only person I'm comparing myself with is who I was yesterday.  If a girl is playing hard to get because it makes her feel good to see guys doing backflips to get her attention, then she is an a$$whole in my opinion!  If a girl makes it known that she has mutual feelings for ONE guy who likes her yet only allows him to know that slightly so that his ego doesn't get to big, that is a smart girl.
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Well there might be different reasons for different guys.  But I think part of it might be they feel more in control if they are holding you from behind you or it just mightbe the person you are with.
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They may get us faster, but easy come easy go. They also loose us faster. I am finding that the more class a women has the more I want her. Although I am a bit older now and flirtatious behavior can go along way.
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The "good ones" as usually too nice to us. \n\nIts the thrill of the chase that most like - playing hard to get.  \n\nTry being a bit meaner towards a girl and they'll love ya.  That's what I've noticed about my friends.  They like that guys that are mean to them. Don't know why though.