so my boyfriend is mad at me.. i love him so much and i don't know what to do.. okay so he asked me what was wrong and i was like nothing don't worry about it and he kept asking me all day and i was like please stop asking me you making me worry about it.. and hes like no and i was like if you loved me you would stop and hes like.. katie i do love you and thats why i'm going to find out and he hasn't talked to me sence.. and what was wrong is something serious and while hes worried about me now he would be more worried and mad if he found out and no i did not cheat on him.. i love him.. what should i do?
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Katie before this get out of hand which its close you do not what to lose someone you love so please talk to him thats all he wants get it out in the open and let him responed and than you can carry on there is no perfect relationship there is ups and downs make if people love each other you can get over it and move on. Unless he run around on you than i understand but if this is not that he will be with someone else if he not with you i wish you both the best so you both can move on love is hard to find.
271091
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)
216083
there are many people out there wholl do just the thing done to your boyfriend.no reasons,just for fun.explain to your boyfriend.then let him decide if he loves u trusts u he will believe if not he didnt love you.i believe anyone can brianwash anyone but if they know me well,trust me,know what type of person i am they wouldnt believe it so i also know when this happens if the other person was really a true friend or not.so this is the time youll find out if your bf loves you or not.i know it frustrates when something like this happens but we can do nothing just wait and ull know if he loves u or not
81699
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
427845
dont jump the gun just yet.do you have faith in your boyfriend?\ncan you trust him?do you love him?\nif the answer is yes then you should be able to talk to him and if he gets to upset or standoffish he just might be quilty.\ncommunication is the key to a great relationship.trust as well without then you aredoomed
11267
You should tell him how you feel. You should ask him what he does and why he only questions you. If he gets mad at you and doesnt want to talk he might be hiding something.
662072
I can relate-I am also in a long distance relationship, I'm in Hawaii,he's in Maryland...  The best thing for you to do is trust him..  Just because he asks "baby, do you still love me?" doesn't mean he's cheating on you.  One thing I've learned about most* men in relationships, is once they say they love you and they mean it...They feel very vulnerable and generally need reassurance that you feel the same-they are trying to avoid heartache themselves... You two need to talk more and communicate alot more than you already are, tell him your worries and if you seriously think he's cheating on you then you're probably right.  If your gut feeling tells you he's not, then he's probably not.... Go with your instincts.
207234
If your boyfriend says he loves you and not her, then you have nothing to worry about.  However, HE should be the one to tell her to leave him alone.  If that doesn't work, step in and let her know you won't stand for her drama.  Kick ass if necessary.
529278
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
618420
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
391384
you made a mistake and went anyway thats why he's pissed... i would be too... if i told my bf not to go out... and i knew he was in a jacuzzi with two other girls... thats crossing the line.. i think he has every right to be mad... if he wasn't mad then that means he didn't care about you... but he is... he will probably be pissed for a few days but he'll get over it... if you love him you should do some serious making up with him... good luck
373161
First, did he tell you he went? If so and youre still upset, then you might wanna explore WHY this bothers you so much. He came home to you, right? If it's something he enjoys, why not let him go? Either way, have a talk with him and let him know your feelings.\n\nIf he didnt tell you he was going (or went - sometimes this stuff happens on a whim), then I feel you on feeling disrespected since it would appear he was doing something shady.\n\nAt any rate, Id have a talk with him...non-accusatory, respectful, etc...dont get him defensive because youll get nowhere...\n\nGood luck :-)
154477
Well hun, you already have the facts. The thing is that this girl likes your man and has from the beginning. She is trying to start trouble for you 2. She wants him, can't have him, and that makes her upset. She figures that if she can break you 2 up then she just might stand a chance. Your boyfriend not being upset over your question goes to show you that he is telling the truth. Most people who do wrong will get upset if questioned about it. I would stop hanging out with this so called Friend and I bet that you and your bf get along real good without her. If he has never given you reason to doubt then trust him. She has already given you reason to doubt by her words and actions. I have seen a lot of things happen and have been married for 17 years so I can imagine all the drama of a relationship. Good luck and hope that this helps.
644552
If it is bothering you then that means he hurt your feelings. You need to say something to him. It doesn't have to mean or hurtful in return just let him know that what he said to you really hurt your feelings. then find out why he needed to do that. If he can't answer you then maybe you should find a new best guyfriend. Who needs a friend to "cuss" them out and be little them. You are better than that. Any person is. Good luck.
296291
oh you're not in an abusive relationship at all are you? he was you wrapped around his lil finger and you don't even realize it. wanna know where this is gonna go if you don't grow a back bone and leave him? you'll be dead in a ditch somewhere and it'll be his fault. if he loved you back he'd trust you enough to let you do your own s.hit without havin to make you call ever 5 f.uckin mins. you need to stop and pay attention to what your gut is tellin you bout this guy. i wouldn't be surprised if it's tellin you to leave and not look back
215651
He's feeling threatened and vulnerable. If my girlfriend told me that, I'd start wondering how long until the interest in women grows stronger than her interest in me and she leaves me. And this probably made him feel inadequate, like he wasn't good enough to satisfy you himself. It may not sound logical, but our emotions often aren't. The fact that he got upset is likely a sign that he cares deeply for you. If you care about him, make him feel manly and make it clear to him that you need his manliness (unless you don't, in which case there is likely a break-up in your future).
385912
We always find something wrong with whatever situation we're in- your boyfriend sounds like he needs some room/latitude to check out things. Don't suffocate him. He probably loves you very much but right now is feeling constrained by the relationship. Best thing you can do is let him know you love him and allow him some opportunity do what he wants. It maybe doesn't seem fair, but it's a chance for you to do some thinking/living for yourself ,too. It is said ,"Set it free and if it's real, it'll return to you sooner or later". That's what good love is- trusting, enduring, and patient as well as self-sacrificing.