most of my friends are dead skinny.  Im not fat... just not as tiny as they are.  I get soooooooooo annoyed when they say "look im soo fat"  and they get mad when i walk off cause i know they just want a response.  do they really think they are that fat?? or are they just doing that cause they want something out of me?
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It sounds like they want a response from you or maybe they want to make you feel bad about your weight. \nYou should try to talk to them about this and let them know how you feel. If they don't try to change, I'd work on finding some new friends. Friends should never upset you and hurt your feelings on purpose!
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Being a BBW I never realized how much I actually do that. I think part of it comes from being overweight and being made fun of by thinner women. I also think it comes from fear and jealousy. I don’t want my man going to someone else, especially a thin person. It’s a feeling of not being good enough. It’s a fear of loosing to someone who doesn’t make you feel good. And yes in my case there is jealousy that you can be thin and I can’t. Well not as easily as it seems for you. I for one apologize on behalf of BBW's that have made remarks or made you feel bad for who you are. I agree that it's not acceptable.
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They are probably just scared of you losing weight. Your obviously already a very pretty girl and they might just be jealous and worried. I would DEFINITELY cheer my friend on....heck I'd probably work out with her and we'd lost it together!! YOU GO GIRL!! YOUR AWESOME!!
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I alwayz thought that they were too skinny and fake, but I guess since I'm a girl I guess my opinion didn't count cuz ppl would just think I'm jealous. I'd never want to be that skinny, I'm very happy the way I am, and there's nothin plastic about me :) and is it just me, or does it look more like they're stomping than walking....it's just ridiculous...you don't see people walking down the street like that lol.
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i don't think anyone is 100% happy with themselves. I think i'm fat, even though i'm really not. don't worry, i'm sure everyone thinks they have at least 1 imperfection.
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My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
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unfortunately high school girls are like that. i have all the sympathy in th world for you honey...but i am happy as hell that i graduated years ago and never have to go thru it again. \nthe best thing you can do is tell the little bit ches "look i wasn't serious...i was joking...you 2 can continue to act like children and continue to hold grudges or we can all act like the adults we will soon be and move on with our lives" at least then you are the bigger person...\nand if one of the girls is fat and the other weighs 100lbs then the skinny one is anorexic and only hanging out with the fat one to make herself look better...and the fat on is already insecure so go easy on her...
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Having anorexia doesn't really concern yourself with other peoples weight, its denying your real weight. Its not feeling good about yourself for reasons that may be known to you or not. Sometimes people bother me when I watch them eat only because I can't see how people can eat anymore than I did, next to nothing, and be okay with themselves. I have been recovering fro anorexia for 5 years now and remember the feelings well. My weight was the issue with me not any other persons.
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Listen, from a girl who was in the smae position, skinny is bad! trust me on this! Your friends have probably starved themselves for there seriuosly unnatural figure.\nyou say you try even more than they do. mmmmm..... hoe do you know that they dont try at home behind your back?\n\ntell me would you prefer this daily diet:\n\nbreakfast: cereal.\n\nlunch: a nice butty, nice amount of butter. Packet of crisps.\n\nsnack:  Biscuits\n\ntea: nice lasangne.\n\n                           or.\nBreakfast: Yougart drink\n\nLunch:  drie slad\n\nsnacK: cardboard cereal bar.\n\ntea:  salad>?\n\n\nmmmmm.......\n\nDont copy your friends. You are different. You are perfect! And one thing that is for certain, your probably not even over weight, you just have a more natural figure than your other EAT HEALTHY BORES of m8s.\n\nok i cant help but state the fact that you may want to be careful of what you eat, but dont change the way you are, thats what make you you and thats the best thing there could be. yeah?\n\nGO FOR IT! follow what your stomach says and not you eyes. TRust me, youll be just fine
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i think you just need to keep saying so. Some people are just naturally lean. Or maybe you dont have as much of an appetite as others. \nI guess it doesn't matter whether you are skinny or fat they will always find a way to judge you. You just need to tell them where to shove it. Certainly your family should love you for what you are as a person. You are beautiful.
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I don't know why people are so weight obsessed. If you get to know someone really well it won't matter any more. \n\nFor the record, I'm a size 0 blond and the guys aren't all over me. Instead idiots decide to say how anorexic I am (which I'm not). That makes me mad.\n\nPeople just care too much about appearances, and it hurts. No matter if you're skinny or overweight, people are still going to be slightly judge mental of you because of that. All in all, people can be idiots. :)
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Shut your ignorant mouth.  You are well aware that you're not fat, but you just want to hear that don't you?  Shut up you anorexic skank.  I'm so sick of idiots on here going on about how fat they are when they weigh 97 fukking pounds.  SHUT UP.  I bet you have no friends.
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Random Answer:  WHy would you belittle your friend.  You can do nothing about your physical size, or appearance other than be buff or trim, or allow yourself to be obese.  Maybe you two need to have a measure-off and set the issue to rest.  Otherwise, lay off the size jokes, good friends are far more important in life than stupid put downs that do hurt.
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This is funny lol.  Just by seeing the answers to this question...yes fat people are sensitive.  I don't think you are being rude, I think you are being realistic.  They don't wanna exercise, they don't watch what they eat, they don't like to restrain themselves when it comes to food.  And I am sorry Hell's Bell's fat peoples metabolism is slower because they don't exercise so the metabolism slows down !!!  If you would've exercised more and eaten the lil salads before you got that way in the first place you would be alright and your metabolism wouldn't be so fuked up !!!  Now you can do something about it, cardio, eat correctly ( dont believe the only salad crap ...yeah right ), the point is your metabolism can come back to life so to speak if you wanted it to.
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Tha is normal,you are not alone some of my friends and me are dishonest when it comes to heights and weights!Good for you,you hit your lies and now it is justified by your real weight!
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Just be there for her.  Something's bothering her... it isn't just because she thinks she's fat.  but, in the mean time, try to get her to eat something...all the while reminding her that you are her friend and only want to help.
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Be thankful that you are able to keep the weight off...i try and I am still fat...i wish i had as thin of legs as you...you have no right to complain...