i always feel weak with my girlfriend,how can i feel strong with her.
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women can make men weak but they are strong, by you feeling weak lets you know that you are in love with her you are willing to go out the way for her and make her happy, keep a open mind, keep it real with her, and you to will make it
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YES!!! its a long & lonely road but hang in there.\nit's ok to feel weak sometimes, we are only human.\nchange your lifestyle if you have to...\npositive thinking & self- worth is very important.\ni sincerely wish you luck & love!\ndon't worry about things you cannot control. change the things that's dragging you down.\nyou can't fly with broken wings.\nhope the link can help...
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STOP feeling that way....that is wrong... dont spend so much time with her and if need be get some help...
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just talk to her.\n\ncalmly.\n\nand explain yourself.\n\nif you feel you are unable to do it face to face.....\n\nsend her a letter or write her an email.\n\nthat way she will feel less pressurised or being put on the spot.\n\ngood luck
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If when the relationship started you wanted to please her (for what ever reason). But now you are together you don't make the effort to show her how you feel, in a way she understands.  \n\nYou can't take affection on trust, it has to be demonstrated.  It might be you are not demonstrating it anymore.
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just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
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don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
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Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
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Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!
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Only a strong relationship will keep the two of you together. But, it's important to realize that any tremors (positive or negative) in this relationship could jeopardize any academic progress. I sense, by your fear, that you haven't shared many of these feelings with your girlfriend/best friend. Remember, above all else, that her happiness is very important (with or without you). You need to sort out your feelings and decide what it is that you want to share with her. Be sure that you don't lose both your education and your girl in the process. Keep the relationship strong with alot of communication(letters, e-mails,presents,airline tickets,cards,etc.) Let her know that you have confidence in the relationship and in yourself.If she's already your best friend, you've already got alot going for you. Good Luck!
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first of all, you both sound too young to "know" this is the love of your life. but if that's how it feels right now, then you have a responsibility to yourself to fight for it.\nhere's my advice. sit down with her and have a heart to heart. tell her, you love her and want to marry her. tell her you understand she has issues with physical contact, and with her own body, as well as presumably she might with yours, and you will try very hard to not push her beyond her limits. and then ask her if she is willing to meet you half way. this is the critical point.\nbe gentle and make sure she enjoys her walks on the wild side, when she feel bold enough to take them, but be patient when she isn't up to it. you can get over reluctance, and work to resolve issues if she works with you - maybe even professional therapy might help. if she is not willing to try for you, then if you marry her, you will be sorry. that's the one thing you don't want to do to yourself or to her. stick around if you feel you must and maybe she will change her mind. but don't marry her unless she's willing to work with you to solve her issues.
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i think about my girlfriend
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your girlfriend could see how your self esteem is on how you react to her. but then again only you can fix your self esteem.
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you feel better when you are with her than when you are without her.\n\nyou care more about her than you do about yourself.\n\nyou would do anything to make her happy and safe.\n\nimagine your life without her in it. if that makes you feel sick in your stomach. guess shes the one!!!
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See how resistent he is when you put in on strong! Get into an environment outside what he is used to. Then simply give it to him straight. You have felt like this for a while, and pretty much feel the one you are right in front of is the one you should be with. Usually what is meant to be is right there in front of you. Take it or leave it but if he leaves it he will regret it, you will move on. \nYou should do it asap, then write the ending, Good Luck & remeber all is fair in love & war.
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What you need to do is LOVE yourself a bit more! Find someone who would really love you (that's the least you deserve) You know, someone who would always want to be with you etc.etc.etc. And don't feel upset when she says "no" to you because you already know that she doesn't love you, so there's no point. I would suggest (again) that you start thinking more about yourself...ask yourself "How happy am I in this relationship? Is this person that I'm with right now happy with me? Is there a chance that we can have a future together?" and if you answer no to 1 of the questions...then you need to find yourself another girlfriend...someone who will be there for u 100%.
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Dear Sobby, Your question lacks some information. I would need more info to answer honestly and effectively, like why did you break up? How long were you together, and how long have you been apart? But vaguely i can tell you that if you are sure she is not interested in you anymore then you should move on, There are plenty of "fish in the sea" and hurting your self will not accomplish anything but getting yourself hurt. It will not make her feel any different.  As far as concentrating on your studies, it is imparitive that you keep your thoughts on them as much as possible. If you fail at this it could cause a chain reaction in your life that will cause you to fail at other things, and will also make you feel like hurting yourself even more. You seem like an intelligent person, so you should act as you are and move on.  If she doesnt' want you, find someone else, Its not easy, but it gets easier with time.