How to satisfy a girl in bed. How to know whether she reached her peak and how both of us can reach peak in same time.
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
258920
best thing is satisfying each other. trying new positions, or finding new ways to please each other.  then we u arent together just mentioning what happened the other nite and talking about how good they felt inside u, it makes u want more right then.
18930
Here's a simple way to "find" it:\n\nWith your lover lying down on her back, legs spread, kneel (or otherwise arrange yourself comfortably) so that you're between her legs, with your hand in front of you, so that (with proper lubrication, or sufficient arousal on her part, so that it's pleasant for her) insert one or two fingers (nails clipped, fingers clean) into her vagina, palm up.\n\nGently curl your fingers toward, you, palm still facing upward, so that the middle of the top joint of each finger (the spot where a fingerprint is taken) presses gently against the wall of her vagina, right under her pubic bone. \n\nSOMEWHERE in that area, more or less in the center (it may be up or down from where you first try pressing) is the g-spot. It often seems to, once found, be a slightly raised mount versus the area around it, but not enough to be able to easily find by touch.\n\nThe best way to be certain you've found it is to do this during sexual play, especially cunnilingus. If your lover's already quite simulated, she should feel, after gentle, repeated pressing on the right spot, an increasing sense of arousal, which can build up into a far greater orgasm than she normally has.\n\nEven women who normally only have one orgasm, and then are "too sensitive", can sometimes have multiple g-spot orgasms. One needs to pause, fingers still inserted if possible, while she catches her breath for a moment, then VERY gently begin repeatedly pressing the area. She may find, to her possible surprise, that it still feels good, not overly sensitive. One should lay "off the" clitoris until she begins to get quite aroused again, though.\n\nHere's a site with much more detail about this and other sexual techniques:
43028
i think the best way is not to ask her if she is ready for sex but to take her down and kiss her on the lips then you can continue with the other parts i dont think she will refuse you.try it now.
53335
This sounds like a situation your girl needs to work out herself.  And I do mean by herself, she needs to really masterbte (I spelled it wrong so it wouldn't get bleaped out).  Maybe she could drink a little, (just to relax, like 2 beers or a glass of wine) and by herself in a dark room at night just before she will go to sleep, she should really get intouch with what all her stuff is like down there.  Any time a child is restricted from exploring their genitals they tend to disconnect with how good it feels to be touched there.  So your girl needs to re-explore her parts.  Most women are not sexually arroused by the first touch...it's dry, fingers are a little rough, and it takes TIME to find the right softness/ pressure that is neccsary.  Sometimes masterbting is a work out, you have to build up.  Also, at the top center where all the folds kinda come together is the clit.  All the penis like feelings of orgasm that she can get will come from there.  Like a penis head it wants smooth wet, but not to slippery, friction.  Also like the penis it gets hard.  Above the clit running vercically (up and down) there is a blood vessel like tube, also like the part that makes a penis erect, which can fill with blood raising itself and the clit making them "hard".  No orgasm will be accomplished without this happening to some degree.  However, unlike men women dont get "hard" at just the thought of sex.  A women has to feel comfortable, relaxed, free with her body, all body parts of a woman can be building up to getting her "hard".  If your girl can lay alone and think maybe about if her hands were your hands.  Tell her before then how much you love her body and rub her whole body gently and tell her she has soft yummy skin and kiss it, etc.  Then she could be more free with where she touches cause the night before or whatever you touch her all over and were clearly thinking loving thoughts and so she can go back to that and use her own hands to do the next thing that feels good.  I really beleive that she can do it.  But remember you have to change it up what feels good to get hard wont do the trick to get off.  You know you cant just wiggle a litlle and go, you got to work it up and end with a grand finale.  P.S. never forget the nipples!
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Only minutes? Dont think so. A guy should try to learn to make love 1st. there are no time limits. You work to the point where you almost climax, then slow it down so it builds up in yourself and your partner. Timing for the both of you is very important. No girl wants to get worked up and then wham it is all done because the guy came too soon. Where is the satisfaction for her? Guys should smarten up. If they ever want to be with the same lady again, then make sure that LADY is just as satisfied before you drop your load.
325140
Go for it!  Girls can be a lot of fun.  Let her pleasure you first and pretty soon you'll be begging her to let you do things back to her.
293737
Have sex with one of your best looking friends whilst he watches... then after a while let him join in.\n\nIf you do something really hot, like jamming your tongue in her bumhole, you'l earn extra points.\n\nLet him screw you while you are eating her out too.\n\nAnother one is to let her sit on his face whilst you ride him.\n\nAnd finally the both of you suck him off at the same time
109260
Well, when U want some sex from a girl, U don't need to ask 4 it.. U just go 4 it... how do U do that?? first of all... trying to make her know that it's not just about having sex, but also because U care about her and U want to please her.  A good starting could be to do some nice things 4 her not trying to rush the situation or tu push her to do it.\nJust take some actions, and I'm pretty sure that If U can show her that U're not selfish and U care about her own satisfaction she would accept it, even when she wants to wait.
668203
You want to satisfy your wife? Clean the kitchen after dinner. Bring her flowers. Sing to her. Give her a foot massage. \nThis will help you in two ways. You will be pleasing to your wife, and she will want to please you too. You will be together more often, and you will get better at holding your orgasm. It takes practice. You get practice by helping your wife. Try it.
253019
Guys have a climax.  It build up and then peaks during ejaculation (cumming).  Girls just hit a plateau I think.  I think most researchers say that guys experience a more intense orgasm, but we also need a recharging period and females do not.
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Treat ladies very softly and be always patient with them. Don't try to satisfy yourself only, and dedicate that precious time during sex to give pleasure to woman. I dont think there is a girl in this world that likes to get hurt like that..believe me , that hurts very deep! and when a girl feels pain during sex, she wont get concentrated again in what you were doing, and consequently she wont have a good orgasm, so try to be nice to them, they'll appreciate more if you are soft to them rather than rough Mr Cangri!.\n\ngood luck.
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the best way is to have her start off giving you oral sex until you cum  then start on her spend a lot of time kissing, fondling, just making her feel good  you'll be back up in no time and it will take longer for you to cum.  if she's not up to the oral sex, masterbate first   it gets the first one out of the way and you won't be as sensitive
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Let her make all the moves, or ask her if she would like a back rub and just give her that.  And see if she does anything after you stop.  Talk to her.  Tell her no pressure you can wait.  Show her your a man and not a boy also reassure her that there is more than just sex that makes a relationship.
81678
A slightly different opinion. I find it best to get between her legs, otherwise if you have your legs near her head you are saying it's about me to don't forget. I found best results after going over the surrounding area is to lickly suck on the labia. Then move up to the clitoris and WHILE lightly sucking on it, gently flick your tounge at it's bottom between the labia and over the top. It's best to do this at the end though because they usually go over the edge pretty quick. Don't forget, it's all about technique and it takes time to get it right. She will also have her own preferences, if she has no experience then try different things and ask her what works. If she has experience she'll tell you exactly what she likes.
660054
Make it slow, pamper her. Make it all about her, get her to climax before sex and then she'll have a better climax during sex. Oh, and after sex, give her some more attention.
212049
Variety is the spice of life! You may be satisfying her quite well but when you throw in something different every once in a while...... it keeps the flame burning hot and long if you know what I mean.\nNext time you try it, move your tongue slowly at first over her clitoris, just take your time and watch her reaction. \nFrom there you or her will figure out the rest of it.\nGood luck!