marry the one that was helping her get over me!!  Is that a rebound relationship or is she really in love with this guy?
138377
It may be, it may not be. I think it is time to get over her. It sounds like you have not.
169127
Forget it! Since you know they still have a thing for each other there is no future in it for you at this time. It would hurt your relationship with your cousin maybe permanently. Let some time go by and let them either work it out or get past the hurt. If they break up for good and are no longer on the rebound ask your cousin about seeing him. She is family and if she says no respect her wishes. Guys come and go...blood is thicker and more important.
223652
Girl move on he was a lil hoe anyways you better than him don't sweat it sweetie...everything happens for a reason and i believe this happened so that a better guy can move on in...trust me
212563
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
557369
This is not much of a relationship. It's definitely time to move on without one single doubt in my mind. This is a very insecure unhappy individual who can't be satisfied. Move on dear, you deserve better.
560661
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
323520
She probably still loves you but she doesn't want to fully immerse herself back into the relationship bc she wants to feel that she is in control of the situation.  If its been since last year, she's had some time to think and may not be so sure about wanting to be with you.  You did  give her some time to get over you a little bit.  So she's probably just trying to see whether or not she feels you are the man for her still.  One of the most important things for a woman is having that sense of security with her man.  You broke up w/her so she doesn't feel secure anymore.  Keep taking her out and romancing her.  If she doesn't have someone else in her life that she's into and you can make her trust the relationship again she'll come around.  Good luck.
67318
You are ingaged to 2 women?  I would say who would you rather spend the rest of your life with?  The ex would be good since you have kids together but there was a reason your divorced now. You fiance would be the right wat to go if she doesnt love all those guys who say they love her.  Follow your heart.
361592
Well, it sounds to me that your heart is already making choices for you and it's your mind that's confused.  This guy has hurt you in the past by his drug use, huh?  Sounds like a loser.  Has he ever heard of rehab?  He needs some serious help NOW.  If you aren't in love anymore why still together? Did you all ever get married or is he a wimp in that department too?  By doing all his partying he is acting like a child.   NO I do not think you should cheat on him & NO do not pursue this crush until and well after you have ended this current mess you are in, if at all.  Do you want to see where this two months of "goodness" goes-- then go ahead. Forgive and forget it.  If you are really gonna try then you first must forgive. You obviously loved him at some point....  Secondly, if you two are going to break up & you really do care at all for this crush guy then you do not want to bring him into this mess.  Wait till things are in a right place.  Then start fresh.  FRESH for both of you!  Starting a relationship on shaky ground will just end in a earthquake.
115419
Right now, you need her to regain her trust in you. You owe her that, and she deserves all the time she needs. Spend a lot of time with her, be there for her, laugh with her, just show her how special she is to you. Don't just say it, show it. But don't pressure her to get over the hurt. If you do love and care for her like you say, you will be patient. If she decides to move on with someone else, you can only be happy for her and be there if it doesn't work out. I truly think she will notice all these things and will come around when she's ready. Good luck, and no more deceptions.
432516
truthfully, don't play games.  first of all if you like her, be leary if she is still kind of hung on her Ex, you don't want to be the rebound guy.  Secondly, when she introduces you as a friend, there isn't anything wrong with that, because technically you guys are friends even though you "hooked up" twice in a week that doesn't mean you are in a relationship. So, sit her down and look her in her eyes and ask her what it is that she wants.  If she wants to be friends, be exclusive or friends with benefits? Because confusion is not cool.....and whatever you do, do not be upset if she does not give you the answer that you want or expected. :)
120363
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
126820
You yourself said it was a fling..leave it..talking to this guy wont make any difference.. if you need it off your chest..post a question on yahoo answers!! As for closure..he is with another woman now..is that not closure enough.. the thing here is your expecting some form of logic in this situation..relationships..even flings dont work this way..live and let live...spend your precious energy on someting and someone worthwhile..including YOU..\nGood Luck..
545321
Do nothing.  Even if she dumps the bf, you'd be a rebound.  Just keep your distance, be a friend, but don't push anything.  And if she dumps him and suddenly wants you, don't give in.  You'd be rebound man.  Give it time.  If she actually likes you it will work itself out.  Otherwise, I suggest you keep your options open.
96636
Wow, sounds insecure!  Definitely move on.  Aren't you glad she was the one moving out?!?!?!  It made the whole breaking up process a heck of alot easier on your part!
321408
Warn her, if you think that your friendship will bear the load. It will make her skeptical of you though. She maight think that you want to be with this guy ultimately. She is only blinded by his money at this point, and is on the rebound. Best advise to give her is that she should give herself a little time to heal from the feelings of loss from the last relationship.
92538
I have to agree with rkrell, i have been where you are, get her out of that situation. it is nothing but trouble  for you. Those are the doors that need to be closed in life. Especially fomr the past, if they remain open your future will never be as it could and should be. Especially since you two want to get married. You are only short changing yourrelationship by allowing her to getto knwo this guy...bad move