Do you think having a sugardaddy is morally wrong?  In this modern society certain things go beyond the normal limit and others just stay the same like violence in the family.  I don't view this as something bad.  Although answers will vary from person to person based upon beliefs and righteousness of the human body.
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i think it is up to the two people
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That would be a huge break of trust inside a family. The consequenses for the children, the parents - everybody. I do not think I'd go on living with my husbond if he did this to us. My sister - maybe. Maybe. It would depend on her alot - how she handled it.
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Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it at all.  You're not doing anything destructive and your wife obviously doesn't mind.  You don't appear to be hurting anybody, so where's the issue?  It makes you happy right?  You enjoy it?  You aren't doing anything like breaking in to somebody's house and stealing their clothing, so there's really no problem.\n\nMy thoughts are, society doesn't accept certain things because those things freak out some people.  That doesn't mean those things are wrong, it just means that some people are repressed and can't accept that other people live differently.
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There's nothing wrong with waiting to give yourself to your spouse.  I think it's more romantic to save yourself for your spouse than to "test drive" people in a misguided attempt for compatibility.  Nowadays "test driving" can kill you; I'm not willing to put my life in the hands of a condom.  I'd rather just wait.  I know that my body is special and not to be shared with just anyone; not everyone is supposed to share such a private,special, intimate and sacred act with me.  I guess I'm just old fashioned, but I don't care.
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People are sinful regardless of race. So, whether it is a murder suicide or a Husband bring HIV contracted from a prostitute to his wife and orphaning his children it is the consequence of sin that affects not only the perpetrator but his innocent family. So it is no just when times are tough, it can be when things are "best" and the root always seems to go back to selfishness.
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I don't think money should ever get in the way of a relationhip of any sort tho, times might be tight you should rember you always have each other. ( if the relationship was ment to be!)
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They sound like selfish people.I know it hurts you,but you can't let it destroy your life.You are a worthwhile person and a reflection of the almighty.Don't try to have a relationship with them.Believe me they are going to pay for the way they treat you.You will find a good man get married and have a family of your own and you can give them all that love you have stored up.Best wishes
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I think people should have completely open relationships with their partners - I do, there is nothing I would not do around my fiance. I do know some women that will not do certain "personal" things around their husbands and they have been married 15 - 20 years. Personal being like go to the bathroom or something of that nature.
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Some people think it is, some don't.  You can't please everyone.  What's important is that it's the right thing to do for that particular couple.  If they're comfortable with it and if that's what they want.  They're not hurting anyone by doing this, I presume.
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Isn't a Married Man with a mistress... kinda Polygamy?\n\nIt's very prevelent in this culture.
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It depends on how you define 'polyamory'. If you mean multiple partners of both genders, then yes, it is bad for society. Families and social ties become too fluid and the society disintegrates. If you mean polyandry, then yes, it is bad for society. Women in a polyandrous culture become little more than community sex slaves and normal ties that bond society such as inheritance break down. If, by an unlikely turn, that culture is also matriarchal, then it will be very short lived. No matriarchal culture (not to be confused with matrilineal) has ever survived long. Lastly, if you mean polygyny, then no, it is not bad for society. 90% of all humanity has existed in nominally polygynous cultures, and they have thrived for most of that time. Other factors, such as theology, respect for women, and respect for the disadvantaged, will make or break any society, including a polygynous one.
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People have become depersonalized in a modern world.There is a lack of accountability. We no longer live in small communities that we have to have good relations to survive. If 150 years ago you were rude to the people you interact with, you may not get your harvest sold at a decent price, or the neighbors to help till you fields should you fall sick. These days many are estranged from family.Extended family has always served as a system  of support as well as discipline. Aunts,Uncles and grandparents would step in as surrogate parents should they see even a distant relation misbehaving.People are also weary, I think , and in the hurried pace of life, do not see what being kind will DO for them.Unfortunately, thinking of yourself first has been promoted for years now and rudeness is a side effect.IMO, If everyone calmly and non judgementally said ," You may not realize it, but you were just unnecessarily rude" people may reflect and change their own behavior. Then again, you may get the finger!
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I don't know the context of Camerofj's original post, but when you equate "normal" with "essential" and "instinctive" may you be oversimplifying it?  In many primitive human societies (for instance as witnessed by Darwin in South America), getting your own way (be it by cheating, stealing, whatever) is normal.  In morally educated society we are taught right from wrong and we then choose whether to obey those rules or not.\n\nWhilst I agree with your posit that "CHEATING is a choice, as are stealing, murdering and lying, etc. And, poor choices at that." *for us*, I would also admit that in other societies (even micro-societies like ghettos or gangs or even clubs) normal might be defined very differently.
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I have a saying it's"God forbid the Mister,that comes inbetween me and MY sister" Yea..you should be slapped and so should they if they r betraying each other. I would never ever get involved with my sisters man whether i wanted him or not. It is not right.Walk away from the situation now.
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Well, it's unfortunate that you've seen that awful side of black culture, but I assure you that it is not all black men all the time! I personally know a lot of well off male headed families who attend church, play together, do homework together, take trips together, and are involved in their children's educations.  Sadly still, there are many young black's who have grown up or are growing up without the support of a Dad.  Some people will tell you that it's because the black family was broken apart during slavery when a man's wife/woman and children could be taken from him and there was nothing he could do.  Some people might tell you that it's because to this day many black men lack access to education, or higher education resulting in an inability to retain good paying jobs. Some people believe that this pattern is perpetrated throughout one's family tree when generation after generation of children are born out of wedlock. Some black men will tell you that black women have too much attitude and are too hard to get along with.  Personally, I believe strongly in personal responsibility.  It seems to me that if you didn't have a dad growing up that you would certainly not take fatherhood lightly.  Black people can't just fall back on excuses or blame other's for how they choice to live their life.  Although your girlfriends say the don't care that their father's are nowhere to be found, imagine what it's like to be a little girl growing up without the one guy who will love you unconditionally.
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If nobody is harmed and no self-respect is lost, then no, it's not wrong.\n\nBut of course, it's rarely that simple.  When a betrayed spouse or lover discovers the betrayal, then the simple one-night stand becomes much more complicated.  Even where there's no betrayal involved, many people find it difficult to reconcile the one-night stand with their image of themselves as decent and upright persons, because our society has attached so much guilt to sex that it's a wonder we can think about it at all.\n\nThis is turning into a long-winded answer.  What I mean is: Sex is not wrong, therefore one-night stands are not wrong in themselves.  The wrong part is all the other stuff that tends to go along with them.
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I have wondered this myself. I think all the morals in society have gone down the drain. I would never do that to anyone, if I decided I wanted someone else, other than my husband/bf, I would leave them rather than cheat. But if I make the marriage commitment, then that is for life. The moral situation explains the divorce rate also. I guess some people are brought up better than others.