I tried matchcom but didn't work out. Eharmony and perfectmatch are expensive and I am undecided about joining. Why is it so hard to meet a nice guy who is ready for a commitment????!!!!Or can you recomend another way for me to meet nice guys? (I am 34)
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Try this site-it's always free to answer and you can initiate contact free by sending unlimited free smiles. It won't cost you a thing as there are more men than women there and the men are always willing to buy the credits.You don't have to post your picture publicly and can have it hidden in a backstage-viewed only by those you give a pass for as long as you dictate eg 5 minutes, 5 days or whatever. Also no-one can save, copy or print your picture from this site www.lavalife.com
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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go online to any chat room that is near a military base.  There will be plenty of guys looking.  As for penpals, stay away from the ones that are to support the troops, since those are moral builders, not dating hot lines.
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I joined eHarmony back in September and have had a great experience with it.  Yes, it is a lot of money, but for me, I was looking for a serious relationship, not just someone to have a brief fling with.\n\nI met someone through eHarmony. We're not officially together, but we're definitely headed in that direction. He's a really sweet guy and we have SO much in common. He's the person I've been looking for.  He's worth the money I spent to use the site, and so much more!  :)
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E harmony sounds good but that is a personality dating site. Depends on what type of people you want to date too. My brother uses adultfriendfinder.com. it has pictures and i think a chat room and webcam on there. but i think yahoo is pretty good. match.com. well there are some few.
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There is no reason why you can't.  In fact in your case it may be the easiest method to find someone similar to you if that is what your looking for.  Just realize it will be a long process to weed out all the jerks because a lot people use those sites just for quick sex.  Becareful and be smart and hopefully you'll find the right one for you.
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NO. but i'm only 35. i've done the online dating thing, too. it's tiresome. so is the bar scene. the only suggestion i could give you is to find groups of people with same interests. join local clubs related to your favorite hobbies, or find some that are interesting but you have no knowledge about it. someone there will gladly share their knowledge, and maybe something will click. the more you put yourself out there, act naturally, and just be yourself you'll get results. at least you'll be meeting new people and making new friends. one can NEVER have too many friends!
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Church, start praying that God will bring a decent man into your life... If you are religious try a relegious online dating service, that way you don't have to go through the shinadigans of other sites... Good luck in finding him......
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I did match.com..actually dated the first guy i met up with for a few months..recently ended. Basically we emailed, then IMed, talked on the phone and finally met. It was good for a while, just didnt work out. I would say worth a try. Just get as much info before you meet up so you dont waste your time.\n\nIts kind of nice because you can reject and even block guys if needed so it makes it easier to weed out the ones you like. And if they reject you its not as harsh as in person and theres a bunch of other guys so you wont really think twice if one doesnt write back. \n\nworth a try.
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ok , i would honestly say that it isnt easy. the secret to meeting someone is do someting you love. like v-ball, join clubs. you can meet people at work. during play. if you look at the experiences as dating then your going to go through hell. the best way is to relax, treat every person you meet like they are a long lost friend. care about meeting but at the same time dont put to much on the line. if your antisocial then check out lava life. or on line clubs. i dont like the on line thing because you never know who they really are. if you meet them in person you can have common ground and be in full control at all times.
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expand your network, and get out there and meet someone.  guy like you are looking for guys like you.  here are a few links that might help.\n\nhttp://www.connexion.org\nhttp://www.fabuloush.net\nhttp://360.yahoo.com
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YESSSSSSSSS there is one that i know of.  it's called plentyoffish.com and it's website is www.plentyoffish.com.  it's free to make a profile and free to contact other members.  it's a really good dating site b/c it is basically what the pay site would offer but it is free.  the problem is that since it's off the internet everyone is soo cautious that it is easy to chat online but nearly impossible to go out on a date.  i found meeting people through friends or even randomly at local bars is much better than internet dating.\n\nonce again your answer is yes and the site is www.plentyoffish.com  if you join you must be nice to all otherwise dont bother.
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You know what I am 19 and I cant find a nice guy. Maybe your that nice guy. Having a kid should not stop you from finding a girl. I bring my niece and nephew with me and all the guys flock to me LOL. Having a kid is a plus in your life and no one should come before it. There is someone out there for you and I am sure you will find them. If you want to get to know me or want some help shoot me a email. Click my face LOL.
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Try match.com or other dating sites. I know its a bit cliche but it might work - it did for several people I know. \n\nOh it also depends on what your looking for as to what site to choose. If you're looking for a fling use lavalife.com, for a relationship match.com, and eHarmony.com is all about getting married.\n\nGood luck :)
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Dating sites are great ways to meet people.  I met my husband on seniorfriendfinders.com, and there is match.com, Dr. Phil is on there now helping, also friendfinders.com - some give you free trials.  I'm so glad i did it, I met the man I love more than anything.
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well, find out if you and the new person have anything in common.  the guy I am currently wishing will develop into something more, met at a bingo game...we started out talking about how lousy the bingo numbers were...now, we talk about all sorts of stuff.  try looking at places to meet people that meet your interests.  if you like Karate...try several karate studios...if you like dogs...try dog parks...if you are religious...try church...or other place of worship.
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Well not all ladies are the same and you need to clarify that . Can I ask a question? Men, why do you opt for $*X instead of more than that? Does this mean you base your preference by how a girl is hot and not how intelligent she really is?Because we all know how guys yearn for $*X! Anyways you just have to find that special girl but it will take time all you have to do is be patient.\n\nLol I like that question! Maybe you might consider the fact that girls may actually just want to be just friends instead of being in a relationship. I know I told plenty of guys that but I meant it. I didn't want him as my boyfriend but I didn't want to stop talking to him, so I told him we can be just friends. He was a nice guy! Some girls just play hard to get because they know how weak you guys can get. The reason why some might play games with you or send wrong messages is because she wants to be wanted and craving the attention. But those are only SOME girls! lol\n           lovely_smiley_face@yahoo.com