My wife and son live in Thailand, they need me but I can't find a way back to them.  I am depressed, and desperate.  Anyone who can help, I ask you please for anything you can give.
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try get an other job,and avoid repeating the same mistakes that made you loose the fist one!!dont wait for help,save your time..start working..and then you can ask for support..
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Wow!!!  Don't know what else to say.  I lost my 18 yr old in June, 2005.  And my mother 10 days after him in June, 2005.  And I thought I was having it BAD!!!  I guess that old adage that my mother used to say is true.  "There's always someone who has it worse".  I am sooo sorry, that I don't know what to say.  All I can do is to tell you that I am on yahoo messenger, as americanhousewife2005 and my email is americanhousewife2005@yahoo.com...I'm truly there for you to talk to!!!
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Dang, I'm sorry...where do you live?  If you live in AZ then I can help you a lot...a lot, a lot...otherwise I'm not sure. :(
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Me too, sorry....wish I could help.  Ask whoever told you about it, maybe.
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God! Just give out all the info for your poor son. I see why you can't find him. He probably ran from YOU! Maybe you can't find him for a reason. Can we have his Social Securtiy Number and Birth date and his signature too?
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this is to serious to wait around for answers from us. is this a friend or you that your talking about. whoever it may be, they need to know how devastating it is for the people left behind. This is something u can't take back. your family and friends will never be the same. life is too short as it is to end it so soon. you need to stop thinking about the things that are going on right now and try to think ahead. whatever it is thats troubling you will be better in time, one way or another. pray to God to give you the strength to live through this, He will show you a way. Suicide is the worst way to die, because it is something that can be prevented so easily, and you have to wonder where you will be heading in the afterlife after making a decision like that. If this is a friend definately call 911, even if u dont think he is serious, u cant be too careful. i know all this from having lost my friend years ago. something that didn't have to happen if someone would have just seen the warning sighns or just took him serious. Please dont let yourself or your friend make the biggest mistakes of your lives. good luck, i will be praying for you.
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take a laugh at life and realise how lucky u r.do u have a all your faculties about you?have all your limbs?get at least one meal a day?is your house being bombed?do you hae access to the internet?things are never so bad if you look at the bigger picture.you will be fine....wait 20 mins,you might feel better than now.laugh at this joke:why do they bury mother in laws 18ft down......cause deep down they really are nice people!!!chin up,you are loved by somebody out there!!!
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Get in touch with your local Cancer Society..they always have funds to help the genuine needy...I know you are having a rough time at the moment but as you have children try to be a little more cheerful for them...being miserable wont change anything..I know this is much easier said than done...I will remember you and your family in my prayers good luck for the future.
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I know what you are going through, and I completely understand... missing your husband so much that it physically hurts.  It isn't the same seeing them on web-cam, or chatting in the Internet. Sometimes it helps to have a good cry (I always feel better after having a good cry), take a good long look at your kids, spend allot of time with them, watch them sleep for a bit, and hold them close... It will help.  Tomorrow is another day. Like the other posts said, start a journal, put all your feelings down on paper. Go see your parents or friends, get out of the house! Remember, take things one day at a time, and put your trust in god.  He will be there for you, he will shelter you, and he will take away the pain. I know this isn't really helping much but you will pull through this. I will pray for you tonight (and your hubby & kids.) Virtual Hugs (wish I was there to give you one in person) God Bless
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I'm in Australia, so there isn't much I can help you with in regards to the laws of your country, assuming you live somewhere else. But congratulations for being a great man and father and seeing your kids as people you love not just a responsibility. Whatever happens, your children will grow up knowing they are in an environment of love and support and that will be a huge benefit and source of comfort for them. I'm separated, with five kids and their father has moved on with his life and that life doesn't involve them. Its had a ravaging effect on them emotionally. There should be more men like you. I know things are really hard and I can see how you would be feeling down and frustrated. Just remember a close family will survive anything. Good Luck. You have lucky children.
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OH yes I will pray for you. I to am having a rough year I have lost my great grandmother then my uncle and now my grandmother is in mexico right now for cancer treatment and they don't even know which one it is and they have given her less then a year to live and what is really breaking me up about it right now is that I have a new baby girl who is going to be 3 months old soon and she hasn't even met her yet. They are hoping to send her home for christmas which would be very good because then she might have the chance to meet her great granddaughter at least once because when and if we see her at christmas it will probably  be the last time I ever get to see her again.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your circumstances.  I couldnt imagine what you have gone through.  There are a few free searches that investigators have ....otherwise, you would need to pay for the investigation.  Please email me and I can try to help.  If it costs me though, it would cost you.\n\nemma____@yahoo.com\nNorthwest Investigation
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Well i dont know how it works where u are..but in my country which is New Zealand...we can go through the electrol roll to find ppl that we have wondered for years where they are...But u and ur friend keep lookin and dont give up...i know its hard ...but u know in tha end...mayb her mum doenst want to be found...but good luck anyway...hope things turn out good in tha end.:)
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Yes zool, sometimes I feel very sad and loney too.  My marriage of 27 years broke up about 3 yars ago.  Then I met someone, fell in love and got engaged.  He died last September.  Since then I can't seem to "find my place."  You know, where I belong.  I moved to another state but feel like I need to go back where I came from because my children and grandchildren are there.  What is making you feel sad and lonely?  You can email me at watsoq9@yahoo.com if you like.
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No, I cannot help you.\nYou answered my question on where do you live. Just wanted to thank you for your response. Hope that we can keep in touch.
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I wish that I had to worry about things like which exotic, foreign location to vacation in. I'm not sure I can pay for my car this month. I am filled with the deepest sorrow for you and truly hope that this utter tragedy comes to some sort of tenable solution for you.
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Hope someone can help you.