her parents r cool wit it but when she goes 2 da doc and they ask her ?'s bout me and they find out i am 21 can i get charged wit statutory rape?
124751
It all depends on the state you live in...and "no" the doctor does not ask your age, all the doc will want from you is maybe some medical history. If her parents are cool about it then it's all cool. Just make sure you do the right thing or thats when your problems begin. don't be no dad beat dad
132159
You could try asking her parents for their approval, it'll show you are man enough to take the responsibility because you really like their daughter. But you'll need to be super respectful and probably be a good idea to go with some answers cause you know they're going to grill you.  But if they say no, you should take it well.
583682
if her parents are ok with it I guess its not that bad but you can still get arrested so maybe you should wait until she's 18. My friend had to register as a sex offender over something like this. Be careful and do the right thing.
610460
Well... there is the legal route, and then there is the illegal route.\n\nYou could kill her, but there would be some bad reprocussions on you.\n\nOr you could file a Personal Protection Order against her. That way, when she does call and harrass him, she will end up arrested. Use your weapons, She's 18, he is 17. Technically, he is still a minor and her stalking him like that can be considered Criminal Sexual Conduct. Which would be like charges a 30 year old would get for sleeping with a 16 year old. Though the case is not as severe as far as the ages go, the punnishment for the crime doesnt care.
97858
If your parents don't know tell them. I am not sure how old you are but I am guessing still a child. Don't try to take on all the responsibility. Tell your parents or an adult you trust. Get their advice. I would definitely tell her mother though. Good Luck with this.
390606
It might not be about you, it might just be that her parents don't want her dating anyone right now.  A lot of people wait until a girl is 16 before allowing her to date.\n\nTry this--write them a letter, asking formal permission to spend time with her.  Let them know you are willing to address any concerns they might have, and tell them you have the utmost respect for her and would never do anything that would compromise that.  Let them know that if they would prefer, you would be willing to spend time with her at their home when they are present if that would make them more comfortable, or take a chaperone if they went out.  Ask to come by sometime in the evening and meet them.  Let them know you will respect any decision they make, and then DO SO.  If they say no, leave her alone.\n\nThis might seem like excessive effort, but it seems like you really want to hang out with her, so it might be worth it, and it would show you to be a very mature and courageous individual.  It might win them over.  Either way, you will have done everything you could do.
616119
It is a firearm, so you must have parental consent because they are responsible for your actions until you are 18!\n\nJust like you cant buy playboy!
578176
It could be statutory rape, depending upon the state.  Find an adult girlfriend or keep it in your pants until your current girlfriend is of age.
666325
That depends upon the specific state law.  Some states draw a firm line at the age of consent while others allow for a "window" where a 15 & 17 year old might be OK even when the age is 16.  You need to consult with an attorney licensed in your state to get an exact interpretation of the law.  \n\nSince you failed to post your state, it's not possible to research it any further.  On-line research has its limitations as well, as sites that cover this topic may not be up-to-date and recent changes in the law could either protect you or condemn you.\n\nHint:  If you're being brought up on charges, you already know the answer.  If the 15 yr old's parents are threatening charges, they've probably already checked the law.  They MIGHT be blowing smoke, but do you want to risk a lifetime on sex-offender registries and find out the hard way??\n\nBased on the information that you provided outside of this forum, I'd suggest that you back down until the young lady turns 16.  The laws are vague enough in your state that you could find yourself in deep doo-doo if her parents push the issue.  There is NO love that is worthy of a lifetime on sex-offender registries; let alone a stretch in prison as the "girlfriend" of some big, hairy, smelly ogre.
658975
She's 13 and probably naive.  I think her parents are just looking out for her safety and well-being.  I think both sides need to sit down and discuss this, rather and argue.
199949
Becuase 18yo's are weird..and 16yo's arent. It is not rape.
599441
2 years can be a lot , then nothing at all if your 16 and she's 14 that's a problem .You don't say how old , you may be too young in her parents eyes to date .If your 17 and she's 15 then there could be legal problems .Now when your 23 and she's 21 , That's not the case but can you see what I'm trying to explain.If your 14 and she's 12 ,I'd be very upset your wanting to date at 14.I honestly can't see an answer without knowing the ages .Your shy is not a bad thing ( not totally ) Give yourself some time and get to know the family ( if you can ).With so many very young parents , many of us are guarding our teens from the possibility of it happening to ours,It's not to say your not a great guy , just not the right time . Parents should be respected , they support the children and have earned this right .If you were a parent How would you react ? What age should your daughter start dating ? If young and something happened , would you care that happened ? Sometimes teenagers don't look into the view of the parents .We want you to be happy and date and enjoy life But rules are usually for the interest of the child / young adult .
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There's no age limit for someone to purchase condoms.  If your neice went out and bought a pack, please don't punish her; she's acting responsibly to a natural curriousity about sex.  To punish her would discourage her from buying and using them... and statistics point quite painfully to where that leads.  Telling her parents when she's not around may be in order, so that they will not only have time to cool down (assuming that her parents are the type that punish first, ask questions later), but can also approach her after thinking out what they're going to say.  You can't stop the curriousity of hormones; not only do every Jack one of us go through it, every Jack one of us owes our lives to it.\n\nPerhaps she's not even buying them to use them:  I remember, in my immature days in High School, buying them simply to stretch them over doorknobs.  A few times, my friends and I would leave them--unwrapped, of course--lying around in the school's hallway.  It was something to laugh at, and a big part of our glee was because adults made such a fuss over them.  Call it part of the rebelleon of youth.\n\nSexual experimentation is natural!  It's the timing that's lousy due to her age.  But if teenagers were not allowed to buy contraceptives, we'd have quite a few more teenage pregnancies.  Good luck!  I hope cooler heads prevail, and all turns out well.
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its illegal. and it raise questions whether or not she is taking advantage because according to the law(in most western countries-i don't know which one is yours)it would be a form of rape because your not old enough to make the decision (this is assuming your sleeping together). \n\n5 years difference isn't much really but it seems a great deal bigger at your age, if it was 30 and 35 no-one would think anything of it.\n\npersonally i think you should wait a couple of years so its not a kid with an adult. but its up to you if your responsible and obviously if your parents are fine with your relationship.\n\nif your going to see her make sure its a partnership and your comfortable with the what takes place in the relationship. there is nothing wrong with you not being ready for some of the things she is (i though i should say that just in case).\n\ni can understand your interest, it makes you look cool to your friends but its quite odd that a 20 year old is interested in a 15 year old child(no offence) and its bordering on paedophilia.\n\n\ni think the perfect age for a boys girlfriend is supposed to be something like half his age plus seven, so in theory your perfect girlfriend should be 14.5 years old.
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I do understand the need for the "age of consent" laws, but I also think that they go too far at times.  I have heard of cases where an 18 year old male had consensual sex with his 16 year old girlfriend, and was charged with "statutory rape" even though neither the girl or her parents wanted him to be charged.  I have also heard of cases where a 16 year old girl dresses and puts on makeup to look 21, gets a fake ID, goes into a club, lies to a guy and says she is 21, has consensual sex with him, then he is charged with rape even though she admits she lied about her age.  Cases like that definitely should have variances in the law.
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that's tough, at 18 she is considered legal but that doesn't mean she's mature, it all would depend if she has her head straight, 7 yrs isn't that much, my father is 7 yrs older than my mom and they been married 4 over 30 yrs so age isn't a problem.
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Nah, I think it is crazy to think that you (or whomever!) would be punished for being raped by an underage person. It isn't as if you initiated the sex and it was non-consensual so you really couldn't be prosecuted.