the boy in my flat seems interested,but the fact that we have to see each other everyday,(and be cool infront of his friends puts him off the mood).\nwhat must i do?
122359
Not wrong, just risky.  you will prob break up eventually and it will cause probs.  But it will be summer soon right?  Go For it!!  (if you are a young girl, beware of undergrad dudes.  They are bastardly.)
184084
sounds awfully familar to me, if you want to be lazy and throw in the towel be my guest, and if he always wants to hang out with is friends and not you and that bothers you maybe you should try to be a person worth hanging out with.  you had a child together you didn't die in childbirth get a life, get things to intrest you be them hobbies or whatever if you want someone to be interested in you be interesting.
507224
Maybe he's trying to make you jealous.\nIn that case, go out, have fun, and act single. Start thinking of you, what you would like to do--hobbies, clubbing, exc. If he is really trying to make you feel jealous it'll bug him, espeically if you \nare seeing someone else too. From his reaction at least you can find out what he really feels. If he really cares or if he's just playing around.
300396
Unfortunately, guys that age aren't very good at expressing their feelings due to the amount of pressure imposed on them by their mates. If you have a school party or something your going to ask him if he'll go with you? Be confident. Do you have his number or email address? Txt or email him - not as embarrasing! I wouldn't rely on how he acts when he's with his mates, get him when he's alone.
141397
Better yet, why don't you just ask him to do something together alone.  If you are around him as much as you say, you should know what he likes to do.  Ask him if he would like to go with you to do something without everyone else. You know, tell him that you think that he is a cool guy and you would like to have a chance to just talk to him without everyone else being around. He should be able to get the picture.
514860
Humm, The sad thing is soem boys/men arent very talkative like we are. I would suggest just telling him how you are feeling. Also dotn worry too much about it just have fun and enjoy your youth, go out with soem friends etc.
356499
Maybe the chemistry is not right?  Maybe this guy whom you thought you might like is really not for you?\n\nOr maybe he comes on too strong by planning what you two will do for the next month.\n\nFrom what you write, he seems like a nice guy - but if the chemistry is not there for you, then you should tell him that you don't feel the same way towards him as he does towards you so hopefully he will be your friend.\n\nGood Luck!
338992
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
141683
Let him know how you feel and tell him if now is not a good time to go visit to tell you the truth because you don't have much money but on the other hand you are going there to see him .... so ... if now is not a good time go another time and spend the whole day with him...  but if he wants to see you then go and see him when he gets outa work or after he goes with his friends....  \nQUESTION::: WHY CAN'T YOU STAY AT HIS HOUSE>?
323426
That's just what we're like.\n\nDeal with it\n\nor leave him.\n\nSounds like you like him, so don't be so harsh, just becasue you aren't available all the time to go out doesn't mean he should have to stay home because you are. Especially if you don't live with him, what is the point of making him stay home??\n\nDon't be too controlling or you may find he might get sick of it and leave you?\n\nWho knows... Something for you to consider...
405786
Maybe he's just not into going out right now, maybe focusing on school?  Don't worry, just leave him alone, or talk to him and see what's going on with him
219651
I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
2261
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
297588
REMEMBER HE IS WITH YOU.IF HE WAS NOT COOL WHY WOULD YOU WANT HIM?DO NOT BE JEALOUS.YOU TWO ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER .GOOD LUCK.
132088
You really should stop liking him.  Why would you show interest in someone who has no interest in you?  Sure some guys that act like punks  do it because they do like you but I think if he is doing these things while you guys are together and alone, that's not a good sign.
552048
Be yourself, if he doesnt like that then he's not worth it and you can do better with a hot preppy boy.... I suggest sticking to the hot preppy boys.
417721
Try going out as a group again. You'll both feel more comfortable perhaps and if he "warms up" to you maybe you two will kick the others out and just be together.