I have been a loner all my life and prefer it but most people I know settle for anyone they can get even if they are being used just so the can have companionship.
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hmm.. good question.. I'm glad at times that im alone for the sheer fact of all the drama that comes along with being in a relationship but there are times also of loneliness that i dont care for.. but if this is something that doesn't bother you then i don't see nothing wrong with it.
351530
ur not lonely cause u got GOD and he is always there for u...........i know ppl who are way older who dont have any one special in their life when that timecome u will find someone or they might find U!!!!!!!
206013
Im right there with you. You kinda feel that you dont really fall into any minority or group/click... just you on your island. I think we're unique enough to just be... us. Its lonely, isn't it. I often have trouble finding good friends i can count on, but have an abundance of mutual friends that i can hang out with... but it seems like you can never find anyone who can relate to you.
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Single people want to be involved with somone & those in a relationship yearn to be free at times.\n\nWe always want what we don't have...
223756
I have a history of long-term relationships but lately have had trouble finding someone interested in something long term.  Hard to find a good man sometimes.
316869
Don't be to picky you may pass up on a good relationship.*
196470
I hear you-- sometimes it feels like no one understands you or has a personality that matches yours.  You may have ended up with friends that chose you to be friends with them, trying meeting friends in new ways and picking your friends instead of them picking you.
128757
I might be wrong, but I believe that the problem is that you are trying to behave the way everyone wants you to. What I am about to say is such a cliche, but nevertheless true: just be yourself. If those people don't hang out with you anymore, than they haven't been very good frineds to begin with. You are better off without them. \nAnd the fact that you are lonely is not necessarily related to the fact that you are alone. You can also be lonely in the mids of a crowd. Hope I gave you some food for thought........
11867
people might be needy but u would't konw.it depend on ur(individual)atitude.
187801
I don't believe theres one single person but I do believe there are people out there who you connect with better than others, I guess that could be described as soulmates because they know you better than anyone else.
550463
I am not asexual, but have not found that special girl yet, have been single for alittle over 5 years and I don't mind.  I would rather be single and happy than in a relationship and miserable.  So, I am with you on this, I am not looking for my special one anymore.  I shy away from people who want relationships.
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Unfortunately in this life there aren't too many people you can call "real friends". I can think of 2 that have stayed by me no matter what and I consider them "keepers". You know when you have people like that who aren't shallow. They'll be there whenever you need them.
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I AGREE WITH YOU IAM 25 AND A SINGLE MOTHER AND LOOKING FOR A MAN TO BE WITH ME THE REST OF MY LIFE BUT I TOO SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM I BELIEVE THE BEST THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
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I am a few years out of a long marriage and have no desire to jump right back in...at first I was but the longer I am single the more comfortable being single I am becoming....and establishing finances, housing..activities doesn't allow me to consider settling down...its crazy enough doing the dating thing.
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I think some people stay because being in a relationship with the wrong person is better than being alone.
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I am a loner at heart also. I don't mind being in social situations, I just find that people tend to piss me off. I find that i would rather spend my time on the internet, playing with my dogs, cooking, or watching tv. I do like to have dinner parties though. I find that if small groups of one to three people are the best way to have fun. But i would rather sit at home alone then go out to a bar or club.
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that sounds good i have alot of male friends and thats pritty much all i hang out with so i know how u feel i hope you find some good friends. wish i could be one.