He is my one of my managers . . . \nhe seems to treat me differently than my co-workers.  he makes time for me, jokes around with me etc. we spend a lot of time making fun of each other, but we can also be serious together.  i can't tell if he is into me more that just work friends. . . \ni have heard stories of him being quite a player, and i have noticed lots of girls that hang out at work to see and talk to him.  \ni just can't tell if there is something more here or not and it is driving me crazy...
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DO NOT go near someone you work with... it's just asking for trouble and will bite you in the ass sooner rather than later.\n\nDoes he like you tho? Probably.
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Guys will not answer this question as honestly as the girls.  Well some might, but they tend to be too brutal.\n\nHe isn't interested anymore.  He's trying to let you down easy, but only because you're a co-worker and he probably doesn't want a scene at work.  Are you sure he isn't married?\n\nThe sad part is that you didn't see it coming.  Forget this jerk.  The only explanation I can give you that doesn't involve him being a total jerk is that perhaps your company has a policy against fraternization and his boss found out and warned him off.\n\nEither way he doesn't want you, accept it and move on.
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Has he been pursuing you regularly for sex? Does he spend most of his time at home with you or doing activities with you when he isn't at work? Has he started going to the gym more often and doesn't want you joining him? Does he get strange phone calls at odd times? Is he secretive? When you ask questions does he bite your head off in an attempt to thwart your conversation? Is he going out to clubs with the guys routinely?\nHave there been drastic changes in his demeanor and appearance?
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hey,...i m kinda in such a situation too. just joined this new company, and there's this guy who always look at me whenever I pass by. He even looked at me admiringly when there was once we were in lift, and he was with another girl, whom I heard later that the girl is his girlfriend. Mmm....but then, I have bf too. But, I kinda like the attention, and think that he's cool. Never talked to him, but I have fantasy about doing it with him. Am i bad?
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He may be one of those type of guys that likes to move slow or he could be a player.I have dated both of those types that sound like this guy.It could also be that you are perhaps more into him then he is into you.Watch out for that.You don't want to get to involved with someone who may not be as serious about the relationship as you.I would suggest backing off a little bit and not taking your relationship to serious until he seems more involved with you.
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Hey Tox, well when you see this guy again when you're out (I'm sure you will because he's got a new job in a bar plus the town we live in is pretty small) just chat away to him and be abit flirty with him and I know you can get very flirty when you've had a few! Hehe! You can chat to him about the main thing you have in common with him right now- work place! \n\nI know you're not a nasty girl who goes around messing with guys feelings, in fact you're completely the opposite! I don't blame you for running a mile when his exgirlfriend came on the scene (I would've done the same thing) cos she was a bit psycho! So now she's gone and you two are already chatting to each other as mates, when you're at work, which will just make it easier for you to approach him when you see him out. \n\nDon't get all worked up thinking:\n"Oh my God does he like me or am I going to be making a fool out of myself" \nbecause you are very attractive and I'm sure he can see that because frankly if he can't then he needs his eyes testing! Go for it mate! However don't ditch me when you've got a new boyfriend! Hehe!
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Sounds like he likes you a lot if he is willing to move closer to your or work closer to you.  Sounds wonderful, why do you need help?
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It sounds to me like this guy has a great personality. Usually women fall for men that can make them laugh. I know I do. We also fall for men WHO HAVE GIRLFRIENDS. It is definitely a case of wanting what you can't have. He is a challenge because even though I'm sure you think you guys "click" nothing has happened between the two of you. But think of it this way...If he did hook up with you while he was still with his girlfriend, and later on he became your man, wouldn't you wonder if he would do the same thing to you that he did to her? \nTo get over him, just accept it for what it is, you like him because he's a challenge. So get over him, get over it and focus your attention on someone else...who doesn't have a girlfriend.
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If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
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The bottom line here is is that he is treating you like a 'Thing' not a person, I dont see how you cant get over this guy, he sounds like a player.\n\nGive him the flick girl!
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I have alot of experience with this and I have learned one important thing....there are one of these people at every single job/workplace.  If you are not his supervisor, do nothing.  It seems the boss likes him so your best bet is to go to work, do your thing, keep to yourself, then go home.
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Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
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Sounds like to me that he is just being friendly.  Sometimes he's in the mood to play sometimes he's not...don't YOU have changes in moods yourself?  I think you are reading way too much in to his silly flirtations.  Flirting doesn't mean one wants a realtionship, flirting is just being silly, and friendly with someone you hope likes you as a friend.
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Sounds to me like this guy at work was only after one thing ... and was maybe also a little turned on with the "thrill of the hunt" ...\nIt could also be that while you had a BF and were in a relationship he felt comfortable flirting and now he can "have you" he isn't all that interested?\nIt could also be that since you were prepared to "fool around" a little with him whilke your BF was out of town ... he might think that the same thing will happen if he has to spend time away???
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i think you did the right thing- but i feel you may be letting people take advantage of you- should he be mad?  whats that about? why worry about that? he should be reported to the manager, when EVERYONE works together as a team things get done alot faster and they are alot more happier and people would really enjoy and love going to their jobs.  really life is to short, people now days need to love each other just as they would want to be loved and treated.
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Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
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Nowadays, with all the sexual harassment issues at the workplace, people are extremely careful when getting involved like this. Maybe you should ask him to meet you in a place outside the work environment and openly discuss the issue. Some guys, like me are shy and will wait to get a very clear "hint" to make the move.