I realy care about this person and i am leaving in june for the military and i need to know how i can tell her and show her that i realy do care for her and that way she knows that because i have no idea how to sit downe with her and tell her it is every time when i get around her it is like wow she is beautful and i dont know how to say it well allright some one help me
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If you are fair dinkum,do this.First thing to do is buy a single red rose,find a place where you will be comfortable and she will too.She will obviously know that something is going on,so you will have no choice but tell her how you feel.\nShe will ask what is up,and so you say to her that you need to tell her something that is very important.I want you to look into her eyes and hold that look,it must be soft,meaning that the eyes must have happiness in them,not fear.\nStart by saying that you think she is the most beautiful woman in the world,then say that you are going to the military soon.Ask her to just listen and not to say anything until you are finished.Say to her that this is the most difficult thing you have ever had to do.\nSay to her that she means more to you then any girl ever has,and that you feel that you have found the woman that was meant for you.Tell her that you want her to be with you for life,and that you hope that she will wait for you through training,and that you will make her the happiest woman in the world if she allows you into her life this way.Tell her you will give her respect,trust and and a love devoted to her alone. Ask her if this is possible and wait for her to answer.\nGOOD LUCK!
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Tell her you love and respect her, and ask if she will marry you. She should feel very pleased.
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Be the friend that you are and tell her. Just remind her that you care about her and her feelings and would never to anything to break her trust or see her unhappy, you just care for her. It would work for me.
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That's sweet, your by her side and she knows that she can depend on you. It can be complicated sometimes, your not sure if you want to tell her because you don't want to break the relationship you have right now with her, but it's bothering you because you want her to know that you love her. You need to tell her, or else she might find another. I think that she likes you just by what you wrote. You sound like an awsome guy and I really think that you deserve her love.
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• Make her feel that she's the most important person in the world. \n• Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy. \n• Shower her with attention. \n• Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself. \n• SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her. \n• STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem. \n• MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought. \n• MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.
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Just be there for her no matter what she says to you. Hold her and be there for her and when she is feeling better let her talk as much as she needs to about what happened. Never say that you know how she feels because you don't even if this has happened to you before, everyone grieves differently.
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Here's what I'd do:\n\nSit down with her and take her hand in yours.  Make and keep eye contact, even if you have to announce it like, "I have something to say."  Remind her that you really care about her, more and more every day.\n\nTouch her cheek, or tuck her hair behind her ear: the more physical, non-threatening contact you can establish the better.  She'll become more comfortable with you in a physical way, and that will help her comfort level with the emotional aspect of your relationship.\n\nTell her that you don't want to do or say anything to make her feel uncomfortable but you really feel that she deserves to know that she's important to you, you care about her, and that you love her.  Let her know that you don't expect anything in return, you just want her to know how you feel.\n\nShe probably freaks out/hyperventilates because she feels that either she doesn't deserve love or that saying "I love you" comes with expectations.  Tell her that you are just letting her know, and you don't need anything back: you love her for who she is, right now, just the way she is.\n\nThen what you need to do is let her know you'll be there when she's ready to talk about this or anything else, and just walk away.  She'll need time alone to process what you've said.
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Sounds like you can't just come out and say you love her....I would say, just mention that you care for her a lot every now and then, and then let your actions show your feelings. If you love her, do everything you want to do for her, make her gifts, take care of her when she's sick, help her with her schoolwork or work, you know. Let the actions show your love if you can't tell her. Hopefully then you will be able to tell her in time.
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Tell her how you feel abut her make it come from the heart.
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tell her that you will listen to anything she needs to talk about. and that you are there for her no matter what. tell her that she should go to therepy and if she wants you to you will go with her.
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Encourage her to do things for her. Help her to raise her self esteem.  Let her know that she is important and that you care for her. Tell her she looks fine.\nAnd you can talk normally with her, I'd recommend don't say to her how pretty are top models or other women (above all if they are skinny or very skinny). You can let her know that the people very skinny can affect their health. That every one must find one their ideal weight, and it is the weight you feel confortable with and also is healthy for you.
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Well you could try and make sure that she knows that you respect her and like her for who she is. And really there is no shortcut to your dillima. You cant sugar coat it and be around the bush or she might never know how you feel about her. You pretty much have to straight up tell. It wont be easy and she might not want to go to the next level but either way you should just tell her. And who knows she could want the same thing and she just bin to shy to tell you. Anyways good luck!!!
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Tell her in a calm honest way when you're not currently fighting that you're feeling a bit neglected.  Tell her you really want a close relationship with her, but you feel like she's never there, and when she is there she uses the time to tell you all the stuff you should be doing rather than just to hang out.
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That's the problem my brotha.  You need to tell her how u feel.  You sittin here and you seem to know the exact words that you want to say to her....so let me give you some advice....TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!! I know from firsthand experience that when she is gone it will be the worst feeling in the world.  Talk to her when it is just you and her alone.  I promise you nothing bad will come of it.
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Perhaps if you sit down and talk to her quietly and tell her that if you can not always go every week because you are very busy at times  but it does not stop you thinking about her and you are wanting to get your degree so she will be proud of you -- then give her a big hug and say thanks gran for all you have done for me i really love you for it and as soon as i get my degree sorted out and it is done with think of all the extra time we will have together -- then another hug i am sure she will start to understand  then say i know you know what i mean and always remember i love you because your so special - then give her a kiss. then say i feel lonely to at times when it is just me and the books and then i look forward to being here again with my very special gran.
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*Call her just to "check on her"\n*Tell her she's beautiful (not sexy, fine or hot beacuse those sound to physical)\n*Give her random homemade gifts like poetry, handmade card, or flower petals.\n*Tell her she is special\n*Tell her how happy she makes you and that you respect her.(very crucial)
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Be his friend, write to him and send care packages while he is deployed.  Let him know you would be happy to come visit him when he returns from his tour.  Right now, be a good friend.  He doesn't have amnesia.  He remembers what you previously told him.  Perhaps this will be a good "testing" ground to see how you would handle deployments.  Maybe he was hesitant to get "involved" with you because he didn't want to put a "girlfriend" though a tough deployment.  Show him you got the moxie to stick it through (being his friend)....and then when he returns who knows...he may change his mind when he sees you can "handle it"....Remember...be upbeat, encouraging, help keep his spirits UP.  Show him you got the "stuff" to handle it.  Good Luck!