What part of "I have a boyfriend" don't they get?  They basically beg to get dissed!  Do they expect us to just think again and say "ok, here's my number" or what?  I'm really curious.
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Because by current societal conventions, boyfriends are temporary until a marriage contract has been finalized.  Therefore, a boyfriend doesn't mean "no."  Your saying "no" should mean "no."  Your saying "I have a boyfriend" is the equivalent of saying, "I have a boyfriend... for now."
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i'm always amazed that some people can write the nasty stuff they do just because they know how to type! rather than giving violations for writing adult content, they should give violations for being rude and nasty...anyways...we're all afraid at some point we're going to be alone and even when in a relationship when we feel comfortable there is always a risk that it might not work out and we'll be alone again. what is it you're looking for in a relationship, what is it you are looking for in a guy? i think you need to find someone you can be friends with before anything else, that way you'll always have stuff to share. also what is it, you feel that you want that you haven't gotten yet that means you are still alone? feel free to email me if u want to talk more ;-)
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you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(
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theyre idiots!! they dont know the meaning of no! he probably thinks youre playing hard to get. what a loser!
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Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
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YOU ALL ARE WRONG...LOL....when boi/man tells you he wants you by his side, he basically saying he wants you as his girlfriend/bestfriend to be there for him. When we say we want you by our side we are almost saying we want you to be there for us, experience things with us N do things with us, N all by our side. In no bad way is he saying what you think or that he nolnger wants you trust me. If you do not feel comfortable with my answer or the other ones, feel comfortable to ask him and im quite sure he will tell you.  Then once yall talk this will help with your comminucation with getting things off your mind to each other a little. Hopefully this helped you enough.
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That all depends on the girl.  My man calls me every day (we live apart) and we IM sometimes too, and see eachother 1 or 2 times a week.  He tells me how much he loves me and needs me and how wonderful I am, how lucky he is....my friends all say they want to vomit.  But I love him, and I love that he loves me that much.\nMy best friend thinks that if a guy wants to actually consider their relationship serious and use the words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" he is too clingy and she runs.  She is such a commitment-phobe.
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Are you interested in your friends boyfriend? or Has he made a pass at you and you want her to know what a jerk he is? Because if you are wanting to tell her because you are planning on getting with him, I want you to know you have crossed the wrong line here. Girlfriends have a code, and no man, can destroy that between us!!!
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Forget about it after 3days.  Yea, the guy asked for your number but it could have been because he thought it was what he was supposed to do after you two where hanging out that night or because he wanted to look cool to his friends for getting a girls number at some party. What ever his motives are, this guy is a loser and you should totally forget about him!
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First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
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are you kidding?!?!? lol you have asked this question 5 times so far, all of them are just worded differently. now you have become a slut about it lol too funny. if your begging for someone to come go out with you and telling them that they can do anything to you....you either desperate, fat or ugly......williing to bet that your at least too of those.....kind of feel bad for you right now.
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Because you are just a booty call . . . you are not a girlfriend.\n\nBooty calls never become girlfriends . . . \n\n- - - \n\nIf you want a boyfriend . . . stop being so stupid.
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my boyfriend\nthe question is why do you not call regularly\nbecause his not calling hurts me\nwhy? because he is my boyfriend and is suppose to call
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God, you must be really annoying in real life.  Men aren't complicated, don't go look for hidden meanings in everything.  I think he has said what he has said and it means what he said.  Duh!
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Your friend could be jealous of you. She may not WANT you to have a boyfriend, so she's making herself believe different. I'm in the 6th Grade & my friends would never believe me if I told them I had a boyfriend & that's truly awful. Ask her why she doesn't believe you. I'm sure you're a decent-looking little girl & it's rude for her to say that she doesn't believe you'd ever get a boyfriend. Ignore her if she gets real bad about it.
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I don't understand it myself.  I think you're right and that it's them trying to show you, "hey look at me, chicks dig me and want to be in relationships with me!  I'm not on this personals site because I can't get women..."
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The guy I'm seeing told me that he wouldn't mind if guys took a glance at me while I'm with him but if they stared at me, there would be a problem. He also said that he'd be PISSED if a guy asked me for my number while I was physically with him.\n\nI guess as long as the guy isn't physically with his girlfriend, it won't be so bad. How is a guy supposed to know if a girl is single by just looking at her when she's by herself and/or not with her boyfriend?