how come u can feel-it right there but u cant get the full-feeling cause it wont flow thru no matter how long foreplay can b, it wont happen is this NORMAL 4women my intimate partner is great but i cant get my full outcome if u know what i mean. ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS R NEEDED.
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The level of stimulation is close but only on the surface. He needs to reach a little deeper. Teach hm to explore you a little more.
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What you are going through is not weird and it's definitely normal! i had the same problem...I had sex hundreds of times but I could never have an orgasm. I always thought something was wrong so I just faked it all the time. My boyfriend now and I have amazing sex and by experimenting I have found the only position that I can have an orgasm! I hope this isn't too graphic but here is what we do...\n\nHave him lay on his back and you climb on top. While he is inside of you move your legs to the inside of his and make sure they are straight. Slide yourself up and down this way and I can almost guarantee you will have an orgasm! This position rubs me the right way everytime! It's the best feeling in the world when you have your first orgasm during sex! Good luck and I hope this works!
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Anatomically speaking (boring but true)...an orgasm is your cervix dipping downward (and it's a good thing to have if you're trying to conceive) - so you'll feel it alright. And then there's that wonderful sense of release, I guess you can say intense euphoria. If you don't already know this, most women do not have orgasms during sex anyway. You may want to get there on your own then show him how it's done!
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Could be a number of things. Your man may not know how to please you, but that shouldn't be such a problem. more of an issue is probably that you don;t know how to please yourself, so you can;t tell him what to do. Many women NEVER have orgasms from actual intercourse, only through oral sex or masturbation. Many women just don't feel comfortable taking their time - especially if their partners are quick to come and roll over. You may just not be relaxed enough with men yet, unable to really let go and feeeel sex instead of thinking about what to do or how you look doing it. I suggest that you start masturbating and figuring out how to achieve orgasm on your own. If you do have a partner right now and want to come during se with him, buy a vibrator and use it together. It can give him a lot of pleasure too :-) On the whole, don;t worry, you'll figure it out. Experiment and have fun with it, the rest will follow.
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Dont feel bad. I have yet to experience an orgasm with my husband. The only way I can reach that peak is with a vibrator....I feel bad because I have to fake them...and I dont understand it because he can put it down in bed!
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Our vagina's automatically tightens up after a long period of time has passed and not have had intercourse. it is very normal and im sure the "next time" will be a little more comfortable for you. As time go by, it will start to feel "right" again....good luck!
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From what I understand from talking to my fiance, sometimes guys get so into it and so involved and excited that they can't "finish". I don't really understand it either, but believe me, we've been through it too. It's completely understandable since you waited until you were married to go for it(congrats on that by the way).I suggest just telling him to slow down and try to enjoy the moment more. Once he starts relaxing he'll come around..I promise :0)
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the flow is different for everyone and so are the cramps etc. it actually takes approx. a year to get a regular flow but in some cases even longer. i would not worry about it. just let your body do it's thing :)
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A couple of things could be going on:\n\n1) your boyfriend is too rough for you\n2) you aren't sexually excited enough, so the tissue isn't relaxed and wet enough\n3) you have some structural problem with your anatomy\n4) your body really isn't ready for sex, and your vagina is involuntarily tightening up as a defense mechanism\n\nSex should be pleasurable, but a lot of women don't feel pleasure until they get older.  If you are less than about 20 years old and experiencing this, I'd say give it a few years before having sex, or even letting your boyfriend finger you.  If you are over 20, it's probably time to talk to your gynecologist and maybe get an exam.
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Not all women have orgasms easily, I only get one about 3/6 times.  Ususally the best way to have one is by oral, before penetration.
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It feels good to have sex with or without ejaculating. Most guys want to make the experience complete and ejaculate though...that's the REALLY good part where you get that wonderful, relaxing feeling all over your body. Some guys have problems ejaculating inside a woman, especially at first at especially if they are nervous. It usually goes away with time and they are able to ejaculate in her vagina (or hand or mouth) with no problem. Masturbation is a little different feeling that intercourse. More pressure on the penis may be involved for one thing and it may take a little time to get used to the "different" feeling of f---ing. Just be patient and see what happens...don't make an issue of it...that may just make the condition worse! It should take care of itself with a little time.
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Why do you want to have this for a longer time ? Only pain in your hands and body ache will be the result.  what it the wrong if you get it reasonably in short time. Don't wast time, and burn your calories unnecessarily. finish it in the usual time and if you feel do it again after some time, if you can.\n\nYou should show your capacity for  extended longer period only when you have sex with your partner. It will satisfy both of you-.
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If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
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I squirt every time my husband and I have sex. I do it multiple times. He said there has been times to where it almost shot off the edge of the bed. Incredable feeling if you've never experienced it!
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No there's nothing 'wrong' with either of you, a lot of women cannot orgasm during sex with a partner.  Best thing I can suggest is for you to relax, relax, relax.  Worrying about it, being stressed over it, esp. in the middle of making love is one sure-fire way of never reaching that orgasm.  Because to do so, you need to be totally relaxed!  Talk about your feelings on this with your partner, chances are s/he could be feeling as frustrated as you do.  Try new techniques when you are having sex.  For many many women, it's all about foreplay.  To be totally frank, the more your partner gently concentrates on your clit, the closer you'll get to having one or more orgasms.  Relax and enjoy how that feels, let all your thoughts be on what your partner is doing.  It takes practice, both for you in relaxing and for your partner in finding just the right way that will send you over the edge.  Don't be shy, tell your partner what feels good - right in the middle of it - s/he isn't a mind reader after all.  lol.. Guide your partner, if s/he has just touched where it feels good, say so.  If s/he has just moved away and is missing it totally, say so, and guide your partner back.  Having an orgasm in the middle of making love CAN happen, and when it does, that's all you'll ever want to do for the rest of your life.  :)   One thing to remember tho, it can be very frustrating not reaching that orgasm, if you let it be frustrating, and if you continue to worry about not having one.  The key thing is to relax, practice ways that might bring it on, and let it come (so to speak..lol).  One fun way that can help is to show your partner how you bring yourself to orgasm.  Yes that's right, masterbate and let your partner watch and take notes.  aha  ;)  That can lead to all sorts of fun afterward.  heh \n\nMyst
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My first question to you is:\n\nWhy would any man compare his woman with an ex? Tacky, tacky, tacky, and HIGHLY disrespectful to you! \n\nMy second question is- do you feel adequately lubricated to enjoy sex? As long a sex isn't uncomfortable, you don't have to worry about how you compare to other women. Also, depending on where you are at in your cycle, you can produce more or less lubrication. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, that can affect it, as can many different medications.\n\nIt sounds like *he* is the one with the problem. ;) \n\nIf you want to know more about this, I suggest picking up Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, it will explain how your hormones fluctuate (in a very easy to understand way, it's not boring at all)- I haven't met a woman who has read this book who wasn't blown away by how much we are NOT taught about our bodies, and how normal we truly are!
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It sounds like you may have a tilted uterus/cervix.  Same thing happens to me occasionally.  Found out from a nurse practitioner that when you engage in certain positions that have deeper penetration (i.e. "doggy style") that the penis can actually hit against the cervix.  I guess a tilted uterus is very common and most doctors never even tell the patients so as not to worry them.  The nurse suggested not to be so "rough" and try other shallower positions.  (I didn't ask, I was still too embarrassed...) Hoped this helped.