She broke up with him the same day he asked her out and she didn't want to or mean to.
133792
You can't accidentally break up with someone.\n\nIf she really feels like it was an accident, maybe she should try to explain herself to him.
23836
if he is an as*hole then she shouldnt have been dating him that long anyway. but what she should do, is tell him that she needs some space and after that she should begin to act distant and he will get the idea.
492972
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
185746
how is he trying to tell her? by not talking to her, or making other plans all of a sudden.  If he seriously wants out he needs to look her in the eyes and tell her that he is simply not interested.  make it plain and simple so that she will understand. you don't need to give her any explanation.  just leave it at i am not interested in seeing you anymore please leave me alone.
522793
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
280964
Ask him out as your boyfriend and then once she sees that he is yours hopefully she will not like him anymore.
518130
We were friends all through highschool and went to seperate colleges. Right before graduating she broke up with her boyfriend. I finally got up the nerve and asked her, "Are you about done dating these jerks?"
349686
He doesn't like you or he would go out with you after one month.
105107
just dont ask him out
13332
Sounds like its just an easy way out..Maybe to try and not hurt your feelings, when what she/he really wanted to say was "I dont want to be with you anymore"
188045
the relationship was probably moving to fast for the both of you and it more than likely freaked him out.  So, instead of facing the problem...he's avoiding it.  In other words, being a coward.
492389
no, if he is with you then he is with you for a reason and if he wanted to date her he would have not let that relationship go
435059
have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
122922
You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
270049
what she did was totally uncalled for If the date was going OK than she was completely in the wrong. My guess was she wasn't feeling the date so she gave him a really simple out so he didn't have to get embarrassed
87326
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
587313
there was probably something he didnt want to tell her....maybe another girl? but whatever it is theres no trust or communication in their relationship... she shouldnt go back with him..he wont be worth it.