why its happening to me,i really care for her alot,she knew hw much i luv her,i cnt live live without her,she used me lik stupid,i beg sory 4m her,write sory 4m my blood,she vid sum1 else n laugh on me,i cant hurt her as i luv her,bt she vid sum1 else n i cnt tolerate it,vn i c them alone, i start crying on the same instant,i m alone here no1 here to hlp me,my all dude n dedette hlpd me alt but nw said consult to doctor,take medicin,i have 11 months of relationship n broken up in last november,its 6 months nw n i m still crying 4 her she is damn happy on my situation,i keep on trying to make myself happy n strong,but her memories dnt let me liv happy,every moment in day,dreaming in nite,listening to songs-she came in front of me.\ni really luv her,but now wana forget her 4 ever,\n4 her it is one mor name in her list of crush on her but 4 me she is my first luv\nhlp me to forget her\ni b very thankfull to u.\namit
134750
listen bro a girl and bus are same thing one goes and another comes...so dont worry if she has gone u will find better and more lovely than her and u will b more happy with her...if u keep feeling sad about that then i should say u are only punishing urself....b like a man....
25111
your making me cry! i hope you will be able to get through your situation. of course its hard to deal with and dont let others try to tell you to get over it. its good your expressing your feelings outwards. i hope you share what you wrote with others close to you. it might help a little more.
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damn son!! you can write. that's the problem about love from 1 side only. nothing good could come out from it. i guess you'd heard about time will heal all wounds. in your case it will take longer than usual. keep yourself busy. join an activity. trow away any things that reminds you of her. have a good cry. and try not to stay @ the same place as you both once shared. and why do you still consider her as a saint. she's a ho. face it and call her that. you'll feel better.
77596
I was in your same position, man.  I loved her more than anything and then she left me.  Everything seemed to be going great for the year and a half we were together, then she suddenly dumped me.  A couple weeks later, I found out she had  been cheating on me for about a month.  That was the hardest thing I've ever faced.  Three months later, I still think about it and wonder why she would have ruined the wonderful thing we had.  I know in my heart that I could never take her back (as tempted as I would feel), because I would never be able to trust her the way I once did.  Talk to other people, girls especially, and try to keep your mind off of her.  She'll still haunt you in your dreams though, no way to stop that.It gets better with time.
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spend some time apart .. go hang out with your boys .. sounds like you're getting stalker scary .. haha ..\n\nYou control your own emotions.  Chill out and calm down .. you're not going to die without her !
103094
I was in love with this incredible girl, Morgan, and I have never loved anyone in my life this way. THe great thing was, she returned the same amount of love. I wanted to marry her (I still do), but we broke up a few months ago. She said the same thing. She felt pressured. I realized she had never been single in her life after she was 15, and she is now 22. That's a long time. I tried SOOOO hard to do things to please her and make her want to take me back. The thing I finally realized was that I was making it worse. I was making her feel more pressured than ever. I quit trying, and after some time, we started becoming close friends again. I wish we could be together again, but she needs to be free. Freedom is a very tough thing to find. What i didn't realize is that i was the one who wasn't free. I needed to find happiness in myself. Who knows what will happen? Maybe we'll get back together, maybe we won't. I will love her to the grave, but the only chance I'll ever have, is letting HER figure it out. I have, for the first time in my life, come to a point where I don't desire to have a girlfriend. That's an incredible accomplishment for me, since just 6 months ago, I was in a hurry to get married and have a family. That was part of my problem. I wanted to spend so much time with her, cause she made me feel like no one else could. But love, as I found out, is something you do, not feel. It is patient, kind and generous. I can still love her even though we are not together, and I don't have to think about her every minute of the day. I can focus on my band, my job, and more importantly, making myself a better person. I hope that helps!
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I can feel your pain. You no doubt feel lost and puzzled about what you might have done wrong and what you could have done to stay "in love". I think it is remarkable how you could write a message/ask a question that is so mature, free of hate and blame. It is possible that she feels the same way, but possible that she is comfortable with the situation and still in love with you, but neglects you since she is comfortable. You need to sit down and talk and let her know how you feel.\nYou both are still young. Even if the split proves to be permanent, you will eventually get through your grieving. \nAll the best to you both!
545128
darling, its ash. i think i know wat this is about, dont sweat it. its not that bad, the bleeding isnt so bad. u cant do that to urself again. its not ur fault hun, and i kno thats the hardest to hear, but it isnt. so dont blame urself, its not ur doing. she has to bleed to feel better and trying to stop her right now will only make her do it more. she only ever does it once so let her go. she will b ok, she always is. wen i see her, i'll talk to her. she is not ur responsibilty, dont try and fix her, just worry about urself, \n\nits not ur fault, its not ur fault, its not ur fault. \n\nid say it a million times, so dont feel bad, dont cut again. u cant break the promise u made to urself and me. dont. its not ur fault.\n\nshe'll b ok, we all will in time.\n\n\n\nbargain not with the darkness in time it will take us all.
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Your mind some times plays tricks on you. Its called lets mess with her brain, because she happy and your sub con chance think Wow I happy and for what ever reason I don't deserve to be. Dump that feeling and get on with just being happy.
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Honestly, I am touched by your story. It is the power of love!\nI am fourteen now and I am also experiencing love now. I really love and care for her and believe that I would do everything for her. However, she told me that she didn't have that special feeling towards me. Maybe she has not realised how much I care for her. What I hope now is for her to wake up someday and receive me in her heart.\n\nSo, yes, follow your heart, if you really love her and she also feels the same, then you deserve that.
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Dude, I am sorry. It sounds like she is just like me. I have put my boyfriend through serious heartache because dumb me doesn't know what I want. You really need to move on and when she's ready, she'll quit playing her games and come back to you or find out that you're not the one. She's young and she's still trying to find out who she is, like me, and she's keeping you on the back burner to make sure you're worth holding on to. If you just back off and get on with your life, things will fall into place. But still love her and pray for her, but go out and have fun!!!
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I'm sorry that happen and I can tell u really feel this young lady. And I guess the upside is your still friends. But the reason u feel this way is because ur feelings were true and when u have deep feelings for someone it's hard to let go, she may only love u as a friend because of it was more you'd still be her boyfriend. But if u look at it from another point like the fact that she has a boyfriend and she's still telling you that she loves u, waht does that say about her? I'm sure her boyfriend doesn't know his girlfriend is telling her ec she still loves him.\n\nI have been dump( and I know it's not about me) but I know that it hurts, but I also know that it's no good to hurt too long over someone who dumps or end the relationship and they can move on so easily while the other mate is still hurting. She moved on to the next guy( it may not last) so it's time u move on too. U can continute to be a her friend but don't expect her to come back( even  if she does) be strong and just stay friends with her, because she hurt u once she could repeat it then you'll really feel bad. Move on to a girl who will love and care enough for u not to leave you  or hurt you, once u get out there and find the next girl who's waiting to meet u she will keep u so happy  you'll forget about your ex.. So get out there and meet someone else and get rid of anything that reminds u of her so u won't  stay idle on her.\n\nGood Luck
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I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
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Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.
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I say..she loves you dearly but she doesn t know huw much she is gonna miss you when you will break up with her.\n\nPlease trust me.because I used to treat my boyfriend the way your girlfriend is doing now...;\nOne day I told him that I do love him,\nanother I doubt if he loved me...\nand so on\n\nwell I always loved him but when he left me,my heart started to beat faster and faster for him...;and I cried,and I begged and I am dying but it s too late\n\nso please don t do that to your girlfriend...let her be grown up..let this love grow inside of hear heart for you...then a day will come that she is gonna kiss you proudly in the public...just give her this chance for receiving your love and care.\n\ndon t leave her because she will get hurt,just the way I am hurt and still feel a pain in my heart
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u r sick y did u do all things if u  hav to sing it in front of the whole world if u really love her u would want her to be back and ask us to help u get her back but u r telling abt the favours u hav done for her u r a cheap guy get a life dude a heart needs love not cds and teddy bears and if u had been a good listner u didnt do a great favour to her bcz even she must hav listened to u try to find out the reason she dumped u maybe she has some prob try to understand her dont boast abt wht all u have done for her because tht will never help u get a life
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ok i didn't even finish reading your story just bc it reminded me of what happen to me...sorry girl i feel your pain, but what goes around comes around.\nthe guy that dumped me realized the mistake he made 8months earlier and now he wants to try things again...yeah right!\ngirl you can do better even if you have to wait!!! trust me!!!