i don't knw wat 2 say and i c the guy i fancy,help,i just freze,stutter,mumble or drop stuff!s.o.s.!!!!!!!!
125684
Just be normal and ask normal stuff, i.e. 'hi, how are you'? You are more likely to get a nice flowing conversation this way.
265185
say things over and over again and copy it down over and over again. Helps a lot. Also, try rapping it if you like rap or just singing it to your favorite tune.
540406
I also lack confidence. In fact I tend to stutter when I get really nervous in interviews. But I manage to get good jobs. I think you should go for interviews a lot. When you get a hang of it, it will just be like a breeze. Just concentrate on harnessing your skills and nothing will go wrong.
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Might be a tie, but I think I confuse others more--by talking too fast.  I [usually] know what I'm trying to say but am often met with blank looks because my wordsslurredtogether.  ;)
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Dont let it bother you. Over consiousness is what causes stuttering but relax, take it easy, accept it to be a part of you and you will eventually grow out it.
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i have the same problem...it actually harder for me in front of people that i know...oddly enough, strangers i have no trouble with...but that may just be me. but here are my guild lines\n\n1st know what you are going to say...practice your speech to the point that even if you start freaking out you can still say everything you want to say without thinking\n\n2nd when it comes time for you to make the speech...be calm...close off your emotions as much as you can...almost to the point of not thinking...this does help me\n\n3rd when i was starting out i couldn't make direct eye contact with anyone while giving the speech...this msy not be the case with you but it sure helped with me\n\nrecently i was kinda trust into a position where i had to give speeches about 2 time a week...i can honestly say that the more you do it the better you will get at it...and the easier it will become...so if you are going to have to give a speech quiet often it will get easier\n\njust to let you know after giving a speech i was so nearvous that i would almost be crying at the end of a speech...i am not normally the emotional type but then i was...now i can give speeches with relative ease...still not as good as i want to be but better none the less.\n\ni wish you the best of luck on your speech
135127
I stutter!!!\nAnd get perspiration!!!!\nWell, I dont but I do kinda stutter..lol
53980
Mmmmmmmm...NO?\nNO! Does he know how to read? When you listen to him stutter and mispronounce words, there should be no doubt in anyone's mind!
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stop!! dont ask yourself questions... try to keep some noise in the room so you dont try to fill ther empty space by talking to yourself.. that is only if you are sick of the conversations you have with yourself!!!!!!!!!!!! lol. everyone talks to themselves, and it is ok, dont make yourself think it is a problem and then it wont be!!! :)
380543
I KNOW that you have a MN accent.  But I can't talk.  Mine is way worse than yours!
257647
u need 2 be quiet; it u have nothing nice 2 say, then dont say anything at all.....
398803
Oh i know exactly how you feel. I even had the same problem...gathering the courage to call him. You get soooo worked up about what to say and nervous if there is an awkward scilence...but the fact is, you got to do it some time! If it helps...think of a list of things to talk about before you call...like if he plays sports, ask him how it's going...or tell him what's up with you! If you start to feel uncomfortable, just tell him you got to go...it's always a good idea to keep him wanting more!! As time goes on, it will be easier to call eachother and you will act as if it's nothing! So go for it! You got it gurl...
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Usually when a guy begins to stutter like that, it means he kind of likes you and does not want to offend you or be mean to you by saying no.  I'm not sure whether he was being serious or just joking, that is for you to determine when this occured.  He most likely has some feelings towards you.  Try talking to him a little more, don't be shy; the guys are usually the ones who are shyer and don't normally just walk up to other girls and start randomly talking to them.  Try to find out more about his personality, get to know him better as a friend, and you can always keep asking him if he likes you as sort of a joke to...I guess sort of flrit with him.  But communication is key.
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You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!
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Practice reading out loud in front of a mirror 15 min a day. This may help with the stuttering.. A cab driver gave me this tip. Now I only stutter when I am overtired.
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Oh friend!you are an adult ,and the things that you say is very very normal dear!\n\njust dont think of these topics or get a girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Come right out and tell him.....you know, you talk too much and it gets on my nerves....\n\nI have a friend like that two......it is annoying!!