Should I be embarassed about my foot fetish..should I tell someone..my family,gf?..How do I tell them without getting them all freaked out?
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just say to her about the problem and say to her not to get freaked out about it
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If you feel weird about it don't do it.  I think it would be better if you keep your independence and don't rely upon them.  It is great to be close to your bf's family but there also should be some distance so you can be you without having to worry that they may be watching every thing you do.
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rodanny is correct. You my friend have a fetish. Do some research on this topic, you will be surprised how many unassuming men and women walking among us every day have secret fetishes of their own. Don't be embarrassed or self conscience about this. If you think of it as a problem, and it interferes with your daily life, then seek the advice of a therapist. But, if you just like foreskin, then knock yourself out!
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OMG are we supposed to be wearing pants for this stuff?  Why did nobody tell me?\nI am so embarrassed now
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TELL THEM!!!\nit screws up your whole relationship if you don't.
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Well mostly I agree with jessica13183 (sorry if I transposed the numbers), but what she said :)...\n\nIt's best if you have a particular interest in say feet if you let that be known BEFORE you slip the engagement ring on her finger. That's right if you are going to want to "really love on her feet" or something else that she may consider "out of the ordinary" then I think you should be up front with it. If it's something you really desire, but she cannot tolerate say because she is VERY ticklish and it really makes her miserable, then you may find that you begin to search to fulfill that fantasy with a woman who will enjoy it too. \n\nI speak from experience, I was single for 14 years between my cheating husband #1 and 2nd loyal and wonderful husband now (10 years in November!) and I did not exactly live a "cloistered life" so I know there are some men out there that just are in love with women's feet or have something else quirky that they REALLY want. I still think the number one fantasy of all time for men would be either being able to watch 2 women "together" or to also be able to join the two women and make it a threesome.  \n\nNow when you have big ugly flat feet (like mine) and some guy says he thinks they are really hot, that is a sure fire sign that he is a foot lover. Alas I am TERMINALLY TICKLISH! So the relationship lost a lot of it's appeal to both of us...when I began to TRY to open my mind and let him dive on my dogs. I can laugh just thinking about it, there is something about the hysterical laughter of a woman that takes some of the joy out of a fetish, I guess? It was not long before he found a gal who was not so ticklish...he was a real nice man other than that...and that was not TERRIBLE, but I would laugh so hard I would have an asthma attack! If you know it's something you want, shop around and maybe you could introduce  your lover to a fetish of yours and she will learn to enjoy it, it's good to know before you make lifetime commitments.\n\nDepending on the fetish and the person, I guess...good luck! Oh and I am fairly sure if you are into beating the crap out of someone for your kicks, then you won't find too many women that will really want to hang around for that more than once. Different strokes for different folks...not everybody likes the same things!\nruthie~
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I don't suggest that you put that little bit of info in the invitation. Tell them when they get there but also have available alternative foot wear for those who are uncomfortable or not prepared (Smile).  For instance, go to a Dollar General or Target (anywhere that has cheap flip flaps or slides) and buy some to have on hand in various sizes. Something that they can keep but something that is not going to break you.  You can give them a pair of new ones to wear around the house. \n\nIf you have anyone that you have had over in the new area, they can spread the word (they probably already have) that you do not allow shoes in the house.\n\nThis is a hard one.  While telling them beforehand allows them to be prepared, it also leaves time for them to decide no to come.  If you do it at the door, they are already committed, have a kid who is expecting to attend a party and have probably already spent money on a  gift.  Bottom line is they probably won't leave.\n\nGood luck!
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Just like some people like ice cream with nuts and some like it with a carmel ribbon, different foot fetishists like different things about feet.  Some guys like smelly feet with natural toe jam and sweat, some guys like highly clean manicured feet, some aren't picky.\n\nThe foot has a lot of nerve endings and is a sensitive little appendage, which can make foot fetishists useful for other people's enjoyment.\n\nHow can anyone specifically say why anything particularly turns them on?  It just does.  Go with it.  Bodies are good.
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Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
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Yeah it's weird that your aunt would subject you to that kind of torture.  You ask a doctor and they will tell you that you shouldn't put anything in your ear smaller than your elbow.  But as long as you don't expect your girlfriend to clean your ears out with a bobby pin then she shouldn't think it's too weird.  I think your relatives should have kept their fetishes to themselves.
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hey, I'm a a size 8UK. anyway, what does shoe size has anything to do with this question? the last time i checked, a lesbian's "size" wasn't checked via the shoe size anyway. or have i miss something again?!?!?\n\ngirl! you gotta keep your itchy fingers in your pants man! or else your GF would have your head for dinner!\nand to answer your question, my answer would be no cuz otherwise MY GF would have MY head for dinner! lol\n\ngood luck in your quest kiddo
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There are several things I must say.\n1. I have never seen anyone shop barefoot. Never. Ever.\n2. I don't think I ever will see anyone shopping barefoot.\n3. Keep your shoes on!\n4. you are weird, even if you wear your shoes when you shop.\n\n\nP.S.   #4 is a compliment\nP.P.S  At least in my book\nP.P.P.S Post scripts are fun.\nP.P.P.P.S. Aren't they?
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If you really want to keep it secret, don't tell. Don't be afraid of them teasing you unless their intentions are mean. You must be able to laugh at yourself.
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The answer to whether I would rather get my feet tickled with my sock on or off depends on who is doing the tickling. If it is someone I am attracted to or being intimate with I would rather my socks be off because it more erotic, but if it is someone else such as a family member I would rather my socks be on.\nage 22
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Borrow someone's shoes until you can get some new one.\nAsk someone like a family member or a close friend if you can use their sneakers and explain why.\nTHOSE SHOES WILL MESS YOU UP.\n\n\nI FEEL THIS IS THE BEST ANSWER
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Trevor, I don't think theres anything wrong with you unless it becomes an obssession. A lot of folks have a foot fetish and it doesn't make you a serial killer. It is odd but aren't we all a bit odd now and then? At least you admit it. Now I have met some guys that take it too far. One guy was working at a dept. store and he coaxed a little girl away from her mom and had her wearing the panty hose socks and when she tried to run away, he grabbed her by the hair and she screamed and he let her go. He then proceeded to lock himself in the men's room until the police arrived. If you have it that badly, then yes, see a therapist but you're not crazy. If it truly bothers you, it doesn't hurt to talk to someone about it. That one guy I told you about also forced a female employee to let him rub her feet at another job and he got fired for it. It doesn't mean that you're like him though. Talk to a counselor and I think it will go a long way in making you understand your feelings. Good luck. =)
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I think that it might just take a little time. You have told him it was just a fantasy and that you would never hurt him and that is all you can do. He might just be a little jumpy about it. But he is still with you and it will just take time. Hopefully after your reassurances and you not hurting him (which you wouldn't) he will get that it is fantasy and maybe will let you inact some fantasies. Have you discussed his fantasies as well?  It might be that he has some on the same lines as yours. I wouldn't worry too much about this and never think that you are messed up for feeling the way you do. It's a part of you and you hurt no one and are just being true to yourself. No thing to feel guilty about at all. I envy you because I have still not told my girl about my fetish. It took courage to do what you did and that's great. Just hang in there and eventually he wil see that there is nothign to be worried about. Take care and good luck.