i can't get a job with no license, and i can't go do straight time cause im in school. i swear the harder i try the deeper i get any thoughts
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If you talk to the judge and explain your situtation odds are he will let you do community service to pay it off.  The price you get paid per hour for doing it varies between $7 and $15 an hour depending on where you live.  So if community service pays 10bucks and hour and you have a thousand dollars to pay off, you are looking at 100 hours of community service.
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Stop worrying!! You will make yourself ill again!\n\nThis is possibly not the answer you are wanting but whats the worse that can happen??  The worse thing is that you will get held back nad have to repeat a year.  Nobody is going to put you up against a wall and shoot you.  And nobody would blame you either. You cant help being sick.\n\nI failed a year when I was in high school. My own fault aswell. I just kind of went into lazy mode for a while.  The year passed very quickly and it didnt stop me from getting a degree etc.\n\nPlease stop worrying. Good luck
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It is all in your mind. Change your mental state and you will change your concentration and study ability. How is best left to you to decide. Just shake yourself up...go visit someone you know who failed to complete what you are doing, or go see a high school friend with kids and no job. Shake yourself up and get past the block.
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You're just going through a hard time right now. You wouldn't be here with out your parents and God all mighty as your creator. and you are surely loved by all of them ! if you are having suicidal thoughts PLEASE don't do anything like that. your family and friends then suffer for the rest of their life aching for you missing you and wondering WHY. I Know I have lost siblings to suicide. talk to a teacher a minister.your parents your doctor or anyone who can help you. given medication and time you will feel TONS better. Get moving as hard as that may sound get up and get busy go hang with some positive influence friends or family. do anything except sit there and let depression win. You are stronger than that.need a friend to talk to ? email me @ granpamma@yahoo.com Lots of people who don't even know you care. LIFE DOES GET BETTER !!! you are still young and haven't even got to really make your own life what you want it to be. the possibilities are endless and LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT ! if you are doing drugs or alcohol STOP IT ......that causes major depression and Life does suck when you put that kind of crap in your body ! Love to you ! I will pray for ya !Best of Luck !
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i feel tierd.....confuse....lonely....angry....happy.....worry....cuz i have to study hard and i dunno will i pass that awful hard exam or not...addicted to run every day close to 2 hrs and ake my mind get out of order....far from the one i love for thousands mile..dunno what will be our future and.....
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I am so sorry you are having such trouble in your life. My advice is to go live with your sister for now. Stay in school also. You may want to talk to your school counselor or a favorite teacher tomorrow too. Good luck, honey!!!
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This is a serious illness in which I also have.  I take medication and go to cognitive behavioral therapy.  This helps you to "train" and "change" your thoughts from bad ones and get rid of the "what ifs."\n\nI usually suffer when driving and it is scary.  Hang in there, I know that it is a long fight, but maybe it is good to know that you are not alone :)
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This is as old as dirt, but never stops being true.  "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again."\n\nNever give up.\n\nIf you are having problems, perhaps you should re-evaluate your strategy.  You didn't provide enough details as to your situation, but 18 is very young.  If you aren't getting accepted due to high school grades, go to a community college and show them you have changed.  If you have no money, discuss it with a counselor.  Go to the library and ask for the section regarding grants.  There are grants for everything out there.\n\nKeep your head on straight.  Stay focused and determined.  I won't say it will work itself out, you will work it out.
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Your health could be better if you went to the doctor to get proper treatment to lesson your anxieties, which can lead to depression and illness.  The laughing stock and no one respects me is blown out of proportion in your mind.  Things always look more grim when we have hit bottom.  Nothing good or bad ever lasts that you can be sure of.  If your career is going nowhere, then find something else.. keep persevering, don't give up..  Some of the most famous people in history failed more times before they were finally successful.  They were resilient and did not give up.  Sometimes a kick in the teeth does wonders for us.  It makes us wake up to what is working and what not is working.  Change is not often liked but is the one thing we can be sure of.  A dramatic change in your family might have some positive outcomes down the track, but you won't certainly see it now, and in the end and at the end of the day family is all that truely matters.  Broke..!  If your reasonably intelligent you can always make more money, start again.. if you have to wash dishes.. do it, don't think about it until you find something better..  Most of all believe in yourself because nobody else will..  Hope you get on your feet again soon..  Best Wishes..
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First of all keep your head up. You've got to believe in yourself. Get a basic low paying job to start. Find a true friend who can put you up temporarily and work your way up. Your drive and desire will pull you through. God bless you.
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It sucks but sometimes when you are in a position of needing the job, you have to find ways of dealing with it. Just remember that its JUST a job, its not your life, and everyday when you leave the parking lot leave your job there to. Go home and have fun with your kids. Maybe if you were to look at it that way and just have an I DONT GIVE A RATS ASS attitude then it will get easier to deal with and it wont seem like everyone's out to get you. Then maybe you'll get along better too.
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Let me see.  A dare that would be almost impossible for you to do.\n\nGet a job.
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all the time, especially if i am having a bad day.  sometimes i cant even do my work
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I'm sorry you are having such a rough time but definatly do not quit high school, you will forever regret it. Many easy jobs these days require you to at least have a high school diploma, and GEDs are not the same. If you would feel more comfortable being homeschooled where you can regain your health, and figure yourself and your feelings out some more, then go for it! just dont quit now.. you are soo close! best of luck
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no1 but u yourselfcan help u ./ first of all .. say that u dunt need help.. coz if u feel helplesss then only u will b down .. believe in ur self ur abilities and mark ur goals .. achieve thme and work hard .. God bless u amen ... \nbe motivated internally .. or else it will b hard in life for u
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I'm really sorry to hear you are struggling. You seem to have hit a rough patch, but don't give up on yourself. You are making some great progress in your life: \n1) You are holding a job. Okay, so the job sucks, but it won't be forever. Keep an eye out for other opportunities.\n2)  You are working on  your education. Your grades may not be stellar right now, but you can change that, too. \n3) As a student, you have access to the school's resources, like Career Services, who can  help you find a better job, improve your skills, update your resume, and become excellent at interviewing. You can also speak to academic counselors that can guide you to tutoring help (often free) and emotional counseling support. \n4) You are trying, and if you speak to your landlord or creditors to make an arrangement, you may find a sympathetic ear. They probably won't write off your debt, but they may give you an extra week or so to collect the money. \n5) You are recovering. You've made many of the hard steps already. Don't give up. See your counselor and get more support. \n\nThese things show me that you are strong, you just need to trust in your ability to make it through this. And when you do, you will have proof of your resilience. You may need a good cry, but don't give in to saddness. Collect all your skills and go change your circumstance. \n\nBest wishes.
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sometimes i feel that way too...but keep pushing..keep fighting your way up that hill and take the handcart with you ..it holds everything that is your life and makes you who you are..things will get better...just don't give up..if you need someone to talk to you can e-mail me and i will get back to you as soon as i can...i don't know you but i care about you and what happens ...good luck ...be blessed