One night..someone called me and I didnt recognize the number. I was about to eat dinner...I answered it and the person hung up on me. Then they called back and hung up. I get mad when people do this..but I waited until after dinner to call them back. I called and this guy answers, I was mad and said i dont appreciate the hang ups. He told me that his buddie he works with used his phone earlier but I didn't know either of them. Turns out their hometown is where I am currently living. Where they live now, is the opposite side of the country. Also, my phone number is the same as their work, just different area code. The other guy thought he was calling work. Anyway, we just started talking like we knew each other for years. He's cute, I saw a picture, hes 2 years older than me, single and we have so much in common. We have talked every day since that night and we are going to meet each other.-Is this weird or what? How can you like someone you never met?Could this be fate or is it stupid
137074
weird.  but kinda charming.  why not see where it goes... comfort eagle approves.
597860
Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
389754
I'm confused too.  Did your mom take your cell phone?  She must have and then answered the phone when your guy called back at 10.  I bet they had a nice conversation.
370229
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
389845
Some guys want to tap the town ho but they don't want to be seen with someone every other guy may have had, too. Not saying this is what you are, but it's the mentality of some guys if something comes easy. It seems like he is already on his next conquest. He may contact you for a booty call down the road, but you need to decide if that's all you want from him. Move on dear, you are calling the shots with guys, remember. You have what they want.
31325
LOL.....man......I wish I had caller ID a few times too. I had this exact same thing happen to me! You described it well too. I thought I'd split a gut when you said that about the caller ID....ROFL.\n\nWell meaning person, sweet, intelligent....but MAN, just could not understand plain, well-stated english.\n\nOk.....I don't know which way you want to go....\n\n....but I tried and tried...and tried and tried and tried and tried....and did I mention that I tried?...to be polite, respectful, caring.\n\nTo carefully lay barriers (even tho I wanted to hide in a tank), talked with her, communicated in person, on the phone. And it's not like we were strong buds or anything it was just a low-level friendship, but she was treating me like a nuclear-powered soul mate. It was very inappropriate.\n\nI'd speak to her....kindly, clearly, but the message did not sink in. I asked her about what her feelings were, and she squarely, flatly said friendship. I asked her several times...just to be sure, and she emphatically said friendship. \n\nI tried my best to be this woman's friend, but it was never enough. She demanded more and more of my time and attention. It got worse and worse, and I communicated more and more firmly with her. I was starting to look for tickets to the next Shuttle launch so I could get away.\n\nI eventually had to warn her that she was quickly going to lose a friend if she didn't cut it out.....and she didn't....and I had to finally be rude to her. :(\n\nIt's a shame, but I wanted to make sure I did everything I could on my end, to give her every possible chance to keep the friendship. Severing a frendship is a pretty major thing, and I felt bad but things were getting pretty trippy.\n\nDunno what you can glean outta all this, but I wish you luck!     :D
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well, when you called him did he answer the phone? if not, well I'd say to not call him again...atleast not yet....wait to see if he calls you. because something may have come up and he hasn't been able to call you back or anything. but if you see that a week or 2 has gone by and he hasn't called, call him and if he still doesn't answer you, then I say "kick him to the curb"... since you two were only getting to know each other and not dating or being boyfriend/girlfriend, then there's nothing binding you two. so I'd say go out and don't worry too much about him not calling you.. but like I said..give him a week or two and then call him.  hope i helped out in some way..\n\ngood luck!
529492
Forget about it after 3days.  Yea, the guy asked for your number but it could have been because he thought it was what he was supposed to do after you two where hanging out that night or because he wanted to look cool to his friends for getting a girls number at some party. What ever his motives are, this guy is a loser and you should totally forget about him!
515335
How can he call you first if he doesn't have your number?  You have to be the one to call him.  The age is really not very different.  When he said he had his own place was it part of the converstion or was he trying to get you to go to his place (big difference!).  If you are not sure, call him, stay in public places for a while, keep it casual.  Or what you could do is call him to thank him again for helping you.  Then he has the chance to get your number or ask you to hang out.
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There are two big issues here that make his story suspicious.  I can believe that someone would txt message the wrong number once.  But why didn't he block that number and why is he giving his wife the silent treatment.  There is never an excuse for giving someone the silent treatment unless you feel guilty yourself.  And blocking a number is pretty easy to do.  I would be very suspicious.
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Be careful, I've been in this situation and it didn't work out.  \n\nI think guys that do this aren't sure what they want, or they know that they really like you, but kind of want to store you for later, when they want a proper relationship.  Or they just like a bit of fun when they are out, but nothing else.  \n\nWhy do you keep waiting to meet by chance if he's texting you to meet up?  Why don't you meet up with him and see what happens.  Or say I'm busy, but we could arrange to meet up just the two of us on a different day.  You just don't know what will happen, unless you put yourself out there.
617444
Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
100698
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
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Do you think that him having to "change his number" will stop him from contacting your friends (or vice-versa)? Because it won't! Where there is a "demand", there is a ready "supply", and even if you manage to cut off that "source", your friends (if they want it bad enough)- will find a new one. If you don't like what's going on, find new friends, or, give the phone-number to your local police department. You could type it, and not sign your real name or a name at all. My best advice though, would be to find yourself some new like-minded friends to hang out with.\n-\nTera (time4u420@yahoo)
607237
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.