Well this guy in Math class adores me he sits next to me in compurter lab! Then when we are in line he yawns and tries to put his arm around me and my really good friends tell me he likes me but if that is real i want to hear it from him and just the other day he ask me out i said yes the date is in 10 mins and i really like him i am soo nervous and we are double dating so my friend is going to be there with her boyfriend they are going to make sure i do not do anything dumb! Do you think i should go to the date or say i am sick or something? so confused! Do you think i have a chance with him or bail?
128366
Why are you being so insecure? he asked you out so of course he wants to go out with you. If u act iunsecure it could turn out wrong, I understand it takes time for a girl be become confident with herself, but you need to go into this date feeling like he is lucky to be going out with you. Dont be ruude or cocky though, just be yourself and have fun.
462956
you could always make the first move and ask him out instead of waiting until he figures out that you like him. good luck ! =D
415861
If you want him to ask you out, I would suggest telling one of your friends to "accidentally" let it slip that you like him and see what happens the next day.  It might be weird with your friends and him if you went out with him, but your friends will get over it if they know how much you really like him.\nGood Luck!
294187
Guess what? If he is shy and u haven't gone out with each other yet, then he is scared of asking u out as well! Go for it!
346148
WOAH!! the boob thing was kinda funny! i hope you said something or at least gave him a look. lol. but anywayz! he seems like yea he likes you. though the pepsi thing might not mean anything. i dont get the buck thing. you didnt really explain yourself. he seems to be sorta shy so hes only doing little things to show he likes you. ask him! i say GO WITH IT! lol! *good luck!*
397843
It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
425175
I think that he is interested in you, play it cool and let him ask you out. He's probably just as nervous as you so give him a little time.
538606
It's not wrong, if you like a guy, then go for it. I don't know what this guy's problem is, but just forget about him. You didn't scare him away by asking him out. I would never have the courage to ask a guy out. IF he was weirded out, then he's not good enough for you. If probably just wasn't interested, you can still keep an eye out for him, but don't get your hopes up. I would keep my eye out for someone else to ask out too (if I had the courage). I think it's good that you're not waiting for someone else to start your life. Go for it!
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oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
313483
Okay, well I would not ask him out right away, but I would write on a piece of paper the simple words: "I like you". If you do not have the courage to give it to him right away...just wait. If he says "yes", GREAT! If he does not...Well there is someone out there for you. I hope this helps you (oh ya, DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIS FRIEND!!!!! It will make him feel bad, and it will just delay things!)
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A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
519507
Considering that he has already asked you out in the past (even if it was a few years back), half of the work is already done. It sounds like he already has feelings for you. I think that what you should do is start talking to him again.. don't just jump right into the relationship, start off talking to him, talk to some friends of his to see if he is single, and if that is not possible.. be like "Your girlfriend's lucky.." and test the waters. Most likely he will then at that point say "I'm single" or "Yea, she is" This would probably be a good indicator. You may not use the exact phrase, but whatever you choose to that extent should take care of that problem. My advice is, gee, just to get the friendship built back up, and get it to where you feel comfortable with him and want to get into a relationship. Just keep in mind, that no matter what happens, it will happen in its own time, no need to hurry things along.. Good luck!
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Just be yourself, stay happy, and dont let it show that you are too worried, just a bit and the person that asked you out should be able to see and understand, most people have ways to make others more comforatable, so talk, be honest, and i hope it all works out for you!  :)
3590
If you asked me on a date, I would have made arrangements to make it a night that you would want to date me again.I think he was in shock, to be asked and just put some icing on your attempt to get him through that situation,which is very wrong...You need to ask him if he is joking you or not,and be straight forward with him...Whatever you do,don't wait around for the answer,because there are many men that will not turn you down...Unfortunately I would,because I am married to that girl that asked me out...lol
252951
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
548484
yes...i would hang out with him this weekend...if ya wanna...kiss him...DONT ask him if he likes u or her better...u might scare him off...i would talk 2 him bout the myspace thing...then ask him y she is ahead of u...since it sounds like u and him r dating...but just dont b 2 harsh
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Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!