Women talk about wanting a guy to be charming, but what exactly is it that a guy does that is charming?\n\nThanks
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When a guy remembers things you've told him about yourself.  When he's intersted in you and shows it.  When you is polite and well mannered.\n\nWe want all that gentleman stuff when we're out with you, but a freak in the bed - just like you men.
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i'm also tired of idiot ignorant wannabe men.  here i am, a young boy, who always figured i was just a little boy.  but lately i've realized that i lead by example, i can actually skew the curve of what a woman should expect of a real man.  any guy who loves a girl should treat said girl like the dread pirate roberts in relation to the princess bride.  you ask your man "would you do the dishes?"  he should say "as you wish" and then get busy doing the dishes a.s.a.p.  you ask your man "have any interest in sweeping the house"?  he should say "as you wish", and then get busy sweeping right then....not tomorrow.  you say "make me dinner, sweetie".  he should reply "as you wish", and he should get off the couch and make you some good healthy real food........not run to mcdonalds with your credit card.  i wish you luck.
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A lot of woman say this all the time, yet they end up with wrong kind of men all the time.  I don't think it's a coincidence.  \n\nBasically here's the deal, and I'm basing this on what I have learned from my 25 years on earth.  The nice decent guy is not noticed.  Yeah, nice guys finish last a lot of times.  It sucks but it's the truth and the truth hurts. \n\nAlot of woman see the nice guy out of the corner of their eye, he's going about his business, working his 9 to 5, trying to be a productive member of society, but he tends to blend in so he doesn't get noticed, so again and again women like you fall for the a-holes.  It's a vicious cycle.  Good luck, though.
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a guy wants a good personality, humorous, nice. Being atracted to the person is always nice, but that is not always the way it works out.
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why do women always think the guy is angling after something.i will do anything for anyone.no matter how old,or young,or ugly,or beautiful they are.maybe he is just a nice guy.it sounds to me as if you have had trouble with men in the past and are taring them all with the same brush.
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For me, intelligence is key.  At the risk of sounding arrogant, I could never date someone I didn't think was on my level.  Besides that, I have to respect him.  He also should have a good sense of humor.  Of course, it's always nice if he's cute, too ;)
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r girls always b1tches or can they be sweet and not ask questions about guys always being jerks?\n\nYes, I took offense to the question.
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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Well, first just be yourself.  Ask her questions about what it is she likes to do and then try to do it.  We, ladies like for a guy to ask what we like and don't like and stuff like that.  Above of all really listen to what she says and take it all in (the important stuff).  By showing your interest in her that will impress and make her feel good at the same time.
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An hones guy that actually listens to you.  They don't push you to do sex or to kiss or anything and lets you go at your own pace.  I like guys that you feel comfortable with and you know will never lie or cheat on you.  I also want a handsome guy is both handsome inside and out.  A sweet, kind, cute, and caring guy.  THAT is my prince charming.
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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looks are important of course, every girl wants a guy that is attractice, but personality wise someone funny, caring, confident, yet shy can be really cute too. Basically a guy that is fun and brings out the best in you :)
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This is hard...how far are you willing to go.  I only ask, because there are numerous things that you can do. This depends on him and what kind of image he may have of you.  You always want to be yourself...don't try to be something you are not.  Disappointments are not good.  Try to have short conversations with him.  Statements that leave him hanging and wondering...What did she mean by that???  He's gonna come back to find out...if he is intersted.  I once left a post it note on a man's door with my #.  He called 20 mins later.  Subtle things work the best.....Okay, well it helps if you enjoy some of the same things.  Interraction is your best bet.  Some girls don't need to flirt...and honestly you prob don't need to.  If he is a fresh too, he might not get it.  But if he is a playboy...is that what you want?
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Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
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I'm into this guy I thought wasn't very attractive at first but let me tell you sweetie, it's what's INSIDE that counts. You don't need to worry about other people. Just realize you have a winner! If you think he's cute then he's cute. for the record, I think this guy i'm into is GORGEOUS! different than what I'm used to? definitly! but also cute! and you have to take that into consideration. one more thing.: women will talk themselves into thinking a guy is cute BECAUSE he treats them well. I've never seen them do it because he's rich, though. it's always been about him being a  good person. so maybe in time you will really fall for him.
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This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
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v men always want the thing which v do not possess. so its the urge to be ahead & unique , nake us go for a sxy & bold women.