This is kinda a weird question but here goes nothing. I like a guy but we don't really know each other very well yet although i see him a lot. Should I let him know I am interested, or should it be up to him to make the first move, and in that case, will he ever notice me? Please help. I don't know what to do.
119166
Yes. We like being told someone likes us. But be carefull, we also like chasing the pray, not being handed to us. If you are in a realtionship then say it openly otherwise you have to ponder the situation. It might make him loose interest or it might help him make "the move".
111160
tell him you like him. what can it hurt? it definitely sounds like he likes you. so you should tell him and see what happens.
48320
That depends.  Are you comfortable making conversation with people you don't know?  Do you ever see him outside of class?  Speaking from a guy's perspective, it's refreshing (at least for me) for a girl to approach me.  That allows things to naturally progress.  If he likes you, he'll probably show you or tell you somehow, but if you never approach him, you're limiting yourself.  Chances are, if you walk up to him and introduce yourself, he'll more than likely get the hint that you like him.  But, there's only one way to find out if that's true!
344616
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
377749
so do you consider this guy a friend ?? You really need to sit down and talk to him. Do you have feeling for him ? Sometimes guys like to play mind games to see how you feel about them. If he is your friend then you should be comfortable asking him. If you like him make the first move. Be flirty. Hug him, kiss his cheek. If he shys away after you talk to him let him know that nothing will change if those arent his feeling but unless you do this you will never know. Or you could be sneaky and date someone else to find out how he feels but this could lead to hard feelings. Would you rather have him in your life as a friend or a boyfriend ?? Remeber friends are harder to find then boyfriends. Good luck
562216
If you let a guy know you like them and they do nothing then they are either not interested or too shy to do you much good anyway.  He's a guy, if he's interested all it takes is the hint your interested and he should be on it. If you really really like this guy talk to his friends to find out whats going on. If you hound him you might chase him off. So best bet is just ask one of his friends if he's at all interested. If he is then just let him do the rest. \n\nGood luck.
50520
Maybe it's because he doesn't know you at all. You shouldn't ever go out and say "hey I like you" or tell anyone for that matter! Somehow, you need to get to know him and develop a friendship with him. Then, take it a bit further. \n\nTelling him or letting him know only scares guys away, and you can not let him know that ever!
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Maybe it is a good thing, like you said, he's shy, so someone might have had to tell him that you liked him to start a relationship with him if that's what you want.  Just go about things normally, don't worry about it, if he cares he'll come to you and talk about it, otherwise, just keep looking great-so if that guy doesn't work out, at least others you know will be checking you out! GOOD LUCK!!! muck luv! ~carly
377285
Let him know you are still interested in him. If he feels the same way, he'll let you know. In my experience, you have to be blunt with guys. Don't just act flirty and all that, he probably won't get it. Just ask him if there is still a chance for you two.
665138
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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I'm not sure if you want to tell him you like him casually, or want to let him know you like him, but do it in a casual manner...\n\nIf you want to let a guy know you are interested, but not walk up and say the words, then just pay attention to him...make a point of making eye contact, smile, say hello, comment on something he's doing or wearing...give him a compliment...\n\nIf he's at all interested in you, then he'll likely make the next move...
558890
I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
374311
Me personally, it wouldnt matter how he went about asking me out.  It shows he is interested no matter how he has done it.  I would think to myself if he sent me a text message or left a voice mail that he was a shyer type guy, but if I liked him, then I would certainly reply.    I think the main thing is that his interest in me is obvious no matter how he did it, and if you are interested, then contact him...hes made the first move regardless of how hes done it.\n\nJust do what you feel comfortable in doing and see what happens.  Dont worry so much about protocol, just be happy that he is interested....Maybe hes shy.....shy is not wimpy.
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yeah i think you should take the chance. try to make it in some way as to not scrwe up the friendship if it doesnt work out. actually before telling him i think you should try to get him to like you too, make compliments, but make them sound casual so that he wont be sure if you like him or not, then he'll wonder if he likes you or not too. it sounds complicated but it works all the time.
15850
If you KNOW he likes you, then WHY is it so important for you to actually hear it from him?  He sounds shy - I wouldn't suggest pushing him into saying anything until he's comfortable doing so.
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Don't worry.  He will tell you.\n\nMaybe he is a little shy and if you are too much direct will not help.\n\nBe patient, enjoy his friendship and let the things happen.
122987
The question is do you like him? Most guys dont make the first move because there are 'professional flirters' who wants to get guys attention and then decline them. If you do or arent those, its a good chance that he likes you and doesnt know what to do ;p hope it helps