ok my friend is going out with someone and i talk 2 her on aim 4 about 6 hrs every day and he does not like it am i flirting with her?
119273
it all depends on wat u two are talkin about in those six hours.
56392
are you guys even together? I mean if your not then GO FOR THE OTHER GIRL! because this one is obviously playing games or not interested. If she is talking to other guys and you are together and you think its more than just polite conversation get rid of her its not worth the trouble
182845
OK SWEETY,\nIT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT LIKE THIS GUY.LOL. BUT YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. THE BEST THING I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU IF HE IS YOUR FRIEND TELL HIM STRAIGHT FORWARD BUT KINDLY YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I SEE AS YOU THAT. DONT LET HIM FIND OUT FOR HIMSELF CUZ HE MIGHT THINK YOUR PLAYING HARD TO GET AND THEN U MIGHT JUST END UP HURTING HIM FORM NOT TELLING HIM. GOD BLESS ADN I WILL PRAY IT WORKS OUT.
360565
if he keeps asking you to do things that you don't want to do, then forget about him.  and your friend is not much of a friend if she did that.  forget about both of them.
337164
If you feel secure that you are not flirting with him, then don't let those comments bother you.  However, if you would just like to consider their opinion for a while, try to think back at some of the things you did that may have given them the impression you were flirting.  And then you can try to modify those actions.
327901
I think you have every reason to be upset with her. Just the fact that she snuck off and went on a date, she knew she would be hurting you, a friend tries to help another friend, keep them from being hurt.. doesnt sound like a friend to me. If she really cared she would have talked to you about it first.
533469
Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
552452
Don't worry about it...it doesn't make you a bad friend if she said she wasn't interested in him in the first place. She had her chance and if she is calling you a "whore" it's only because she realized she is an idiot. Not your fault...if you really like the guy just stay with him.
514390
Stop playing games and communicate!\n\nListen, I could be wrong but I doubt this guy or your friend happen to be mind readers.  Give them both the benefit of some honest, open and respectful conversation.\n\nSeriously, if you don't trust that someone can reciprocate honesty and respect then what's the point of continuing to build any type of a relationship with them?
353883
in no way are you obsessing over this girl NO WAY your just trying to treat her with respect and ther is no sahme in doing that!!! if you like her then you have the right to tell your friends to cut out the bad mouthing. its not obsessive ..its doing the right thing :)
394833
Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
176374
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
293433
If it is only to spite your friend then that is wrong. Why do you want to hurt your friends feelings? Is it a competition between you two. Do you actually like the guy? Why even spend your time going out with someone you don't even like and possibly ruin your friendship?
257773
Sounds like a set up darlin!Even im getting paranoid thinking about it....i would say...ask him if he was going out with his ex tonight...yes/no. If answer is no..and it happens again(a similar senario,with his ex) tell him to f off.\n\nIn a nut shell....TRUST your instinct..you will know my dear.
85689
She sounds immature.  This is called "playing games."  If you want to stoop to her level- tell her you're hanging out with a girl tonight.
451341
I think it depends on how you look at the situation.  If it was me, I would say something just because every woman knows the unwritten rule, "Do not mess with anyone that a friend of yours likes."  There are no exceptions. I really don't care if he likes her back.  However, if the way you feel is, oh they like each other maybe they should date, then leave it alone.  From the sound of it though, that's not it so I would just let my voice be heard girlfriend!
75717
thats good for u...i would go ahead and ask him if you think he like u bac....do it!!!! dont let ur friend stop u...if he doesnt flirt bac then hes not interested in her......