I tell my mom about guys I talk to on the phone and she tells her boyfriend everything I said and everything I tell her about the guys. I think that's disrespectful.
135075
You need to tell your mom, that you don't appreciate her violating your trust. If she keeps this up, you will be reluctant to tell her anymore of your life.\nI don't think your Mom would like that, that's a bond that shouldn't be broken, especially for some boyfriend, who may not be around that long.\nBoyfriends can come and go, but you will be Mother and Daughter for life. Ask your Mom, what is more important to her, your trust, or her trying to please her boyfriend.\nSurely there has to be some other subject, other that your private life that they can talk about.\nIf she merely tells him of some success you may have in school or on a project, that's fine, that's just a Mom's pride in her daughter.\nYour private life should be out of bounds. Ask her  how she would feel, if you did the same to her, by telling all your friends about her private life.
392843
This really seems horrible for you. How about asking your mom to go to the movies with friends and tell a boy to go also and sneak out to go to his house and then return to your house later, making sure that your parents don't find out about it.
340906
you poor thing. no parent should treat their kid that way. or act that way around their kid. tell your mom that you love her, but your relationship is being strained. you are acting as the enabler. if the roles were reversed, would she seriously let YOU "mooch" off of her?
625330
I use to be funny.  I think that would be completely disrespectful if you did that to your girls mom.  Don't do it!
217811
Yes. You need to communicate better with the son, and your girlfriend. If you tell someone you are going to be somewhere, but something comes up, call and say so. Perhaps the 2 of you weren't on the same page. You thought she'd be ok, and she thought you'd be with her. Nobody's wrong, you just didn't see the situatuion the same way. That's called life. Right now, or as soon as possible, go over to their house. Sit the mom and son down. tell them that you know they are feeling slighted, but they need to know that wasn't at all your intention. You were overwhelmed with responsibility at the time, and you should ALL do a better job expressing expectations. A SIMPLE CALL FROM EITHER ONE OF YOU TO PUT YOURSELVES "ON THE SAME PAGE". Even if you disagree, at least the other person will know where you stand and know that there was no bad intention. the son actually sounds like a pretty good communicator for his age!!! Tell them that you love them and you feel terrible that they were upset.Often, when we take the responsibility, it opens up the other person's eyes to the fact that this was not something that you should turn into a bad situation, and we are all human.\nBy theway, the $ issue. tell her exactly what you told us. tell her you'd love to lavish her like the queen she is to you, and give her lots of attention.
505369
try to talk to her, i mean i had the same experience with my mom and isnt easy to get along but one day i told her that i wanted to tak to her seriously and i gave her my points of views, since then she respects everything i do and i thing and i respect her as well. Just try to talk with her communication is the base for a good relationship.
236129
What's more important to u the friendship of the guy, or being able to feel guilty, since your mom has been though what she has, she should understand, how bad would it be if she found out, would u be in more trouble then not telling her. I don't mean to be mean to u but really that is just selfish, & your mom should respect u for telling her the truth. It's understandable what happened under the circumstanes. It depends on how open minded your mom is. good luck, i would talk to her, i'm sure u feel bad about your friend, also i would tell your princple, that boy will have that on his record. do the right thing.
640701
I would tell my mom that I was disappointed but it's not my place to meddle in her marriage.  I would tell dad to talk to mom about how he feels.  I would also tell him to follow his instincts, after all, he should know her better than anyone else.
255508
IF I CAUGHT MY MOTHER HAVING SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND, I WOULD HAVE NOTHING 2 SAY 2 EITHER ONE...I WOULD DEFINITELY HATE THE GUY & HATE MY MOTHER 4 A WHILE BUT EVENTUALLY I WOULD 4GIVE MY MOTHER...BOYFRIENDS COME AND GO BUT MOTHERS ARE 4EVA NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION...4GIVE BUT NEVER 4GET...
296623
That was inexcusable behavior. Contact like that should never EVER happen unless the women asks you to. You need to apologize to your family for being such an embarrassment.
505712
It's hard to like a parent like that. Sure you love them because they're the person that brought you into this world but your mom sounds self absorbed and miserable. Not much you can do about that and definitely don't take it personally. SHE has the problem.Shes too wrapped up in her own self to take notice of you and the sad thing is that that kind of behavior is HER loss.Keep the phonecalls short put a timer on in your kitchen when you know you're going to talk to her.Feel free to interupt her  and start talking about your own life whether you think she's interested in it or not.You weren't put on the earth only to service her needs. If she sounds lonely make brief suggestions for her to join some groups or other practical solutions to her problems.If she starts up with the same old stuff again the next time that you talk to her interupt her and tell her that she already told you about that and you want to know when she's going to do something about it.It might sound mean but it's really not.Not allowing her to go on and on is being kind to yourself and it forces her to  get the fact that you're not willing to listen to her if shes not willing to try to make the effort to solve her own problems.Good luck...
606462
I don't know you or your mom but has she said this about any of your other boyfriends?  I didn't believe it and lived to regret not taking the advice of people who really did care for me.  Looking back now I see what I couldn't see then.  Controlling someone else is usually very subtle.  Be careful and always know that your mom will be there if needed.  No matter what he may tell you.  Good luck.
436511
There is something very wrong with that picture when I see the mother not putting her foot down. He should have a phone line of his own for which he is responsible , installation, maintaining etc., In no way should he disrespect everybody in the family and get away with it . YOU , my dear lady need that phone to do your homework . HE  should go suck an egg .\nHe is turning into a tyrant and getting spoiled by mom and sis.Lower the boom  .
11318
THAT GUY IS IGNORANT AND IT SOUNDS LIKE UR MOM DID A GREAT JOB RAISING YOU..AND YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB AS WELL..THAT GUY IS POOR HIMSELF..POOR IN BRAINS
427507
Your mom is looking out for you. You should not be allowed to do what ever you want. Do you see the news at all these days.  There are a Lot of things going on, even with people  you trust and you think they would never do some of the terrible things that they do. No one else will care for you and love you as much as your parents. You may not see it now, but when you get older you will appreciate that you had parents who looked out for your best interest. You are at the age were most children don't like much of what the parents say or do. With that said I do not think it is right for you mother to call you stupid. Try to talk to your mom about the name calling. Tell her how it makes you feel.
630241
Hon you need to check that kind of behavior. That is just disrespectful. You shouldn't have to deal with that.
389754
I'm confused too.  Did your mom take your cell phone?  She must have and then answered the phone when your guy called back at 10.  I bet they had a nice conversation.