we have only been together for 2 months but for the last week we've seen each other everyday because my parents were out of town and now that they are back he's acting funny. For example... &#92;we will be with some friends and he is my man around them, but when other friends of mine (ones hes never met) come in the room he slides over to the other end of the couch. THAT HURTS!!!
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At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
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It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
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Its getting routine... Spice it up a little, when you know he is coming home prepare a picnic in your living room or something similar that is romantic.  He could be like that for a lot of reasons, men have periods too it seems.  Spice up the relationship do something that you havent done before, if  you still dont get a response, then maybe you two need to sit and really talk about whats going on.
384676
You guys might be headed down different paths is all. As we mature we sometimes out grow some friends. Try talking to him telling thats not really your thing and if continues to push back away for awhile and let him have the space he needs to dicover where hes headed
616677
Well it could be he is busy or he might be over you. ( Hate to say it.) Talk to him about it and you will feel better.\n                ~Lina~
394751
He might be feeling insecure because you're going to your guys for a good time instead of him.  Make sure you spend enough time with your boyfriend to make him feel more special than just one of your friends.  But I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with hanging out with the other guys once in a while as long as you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be doing. They are your friends, and you have a right to spend time with them.  Maybe next time you hang out with the guys, you should ask your boyfriend to come along.
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You guys live in a different state.  What do you expect to happen?  Do you expect him to be alone?  What has failed here is your understanding when people are far apart.  It's your responsibility to be realistic, not him.  It would help if he did his part, but that's not the issue here.\n\nIt's you and your false expectations about relationships-particularly when you live far from your mate, in a different State.\n\nSorry sweetheart.  \n\nI'm guessing he said that not to hurt your feelings and he has no intention of doing so, but he's a human being and so are you.\n\nCall him and tell him that this is not realistic and to maintain a friendship.
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you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
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Although I have yet to have a true boyfriend I do read tons of magazines and many have had articles about these kind of situations.\nYou should talk to him about it.  This does not mean to just casually throw it in while you are together but to actually sit him down and tell him what you are feeling.\nHe probably says these things because he feels as if you are spending to much time with your friend and not a lot with him.\nSo I suggest setting aside a specific time just for you to spend with him.\nThis does not mean ignoring your friends.  You are allowed to have your own life outside of the relationship just as he is allowed to.
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Same exact thing happened to me! i have this neibor and every night we would sneek out to see eachother and i'd be like, ok were just hanging out, nothing big. and then id see those eyes and BANG i kissed him AGAIN. my boyfriend got pissed. hes like, if you love ME then you wont be sneeking out to see him! so this is what i did: i didnt want to hurt my neibors feelings, but i really really wanted to keep my boyfriend, so i just looked at the situation for a long time and tried to get my prioritys straight. thats all you have to do. look at the situation, see how you feel about him, and how your friends feel about him, and how your mom feels about him, and see which feelings are more important to you. if you care more about your friends feelings, then just stop. use your friends like a motivator to not do it. if your feelings are more important, go for it ; )
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I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
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It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
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It sounds to me that you could be smothering him.  Give him some rope.  Meanwhile, you need some hobbies and girl friends to spend your time with.  That way, you can come back home and be lovey because both would have had other things to add to the relationship and conversations.  Do some things you may be interested in doing.  He should not be your only interest.  Please do not smother him.  Your happiness does not warrant itself based on his being around you all the time.  Thank GOD for the work week so that I can see other people without explaining where I've been all the time.  By you just being one tracked, you are digging yourself deeper in a depressive state of mind by making him your ONLY happiness.\n\nI hope that you can open your eyes to understand this.  I sincerely hope that I was the lightbulb to your saga.  Happiness begins with your self and definitely no one else should be able to control your emotions that they can't feel.
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Maybe you should talk to him and express how you feel about the way he treating you, other than that maybe he wants space and have a GUY time with his friend
360258
From the situation that you just mentioned, I assume that is a normal reaction and not really weird. What you mentioned may be an ''only thing'' for you, but your boyfreind may have got to know through other sources with a bit of twist to it. Did you mention this to your bf before he went, or after he wasnt around, or made any efforts to tell him exactly what happened ? Are these guy freinds, freinds of your bf too ? You mention that there were no parents, and you watched movies, lying on your bed, which I hope was no more than what you mentioned. If you are really true, and if nothing has happened, there is absolutely nothing wrong, and further explaining the whole thing to him and convincing him. His reaction is normal, perhaps you could clear with in the presence of your guy freinds too. Would you be able to do that ?\n\nHe may not communicate with you, but you have to, and let him know that this is it. And after a lot of convincing if he is not able to trust you, then he is never going to trust you all your life. Tell him that. Tell him, if he cannot trust you now, and have some faith in your sincerity to him, then I guess that would never happen. Also if you did patch up, this situation may be brought up in different other situations when he chooses too, mentally hurting you.\n\nThe solution is, to clear the situation, convince, and communicate, and do this at your best. If it doesnt work, quit. Be calm, quiet, and wait. If he really cares, and has some feelings for you, he may come and tell you himself on how he feels. So the only option, inspite of trying hard, is to only wait and see for yourself. \n\ngood luck.
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U should be glad he isnt the partying type. Do you know how many ladies would love that. Is there more to this than you're saying? Or do you think maybe you're being a little insecure. You have to realize he needs his space such as you do. Its not good to be around each other all the time. Make him miss you.If the realationship is strong, him going to a party should in no way pose a threat to your relationship. Give him the benefit of the doubt. You should go out w/ some friends or do something when he goes out to take your mind off it.
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I think you should figure that out first. Do you or do you not? Cuz if you're in the so-so, iffy, maybe and you tell him that you do....well thats putting the both of you in a very awkward and deceiving situation.  And if it's a lot of work to decide...maybe you don't.  But then it could be in a developing stage....I dunno. Wait a bit more.And when he comes back, keep being his friend. Talk some more.  Much luck to you!