thers a guy in my class and he talks to this gurl alot and is always so nice to her and they act like the perfect cuple.\n\nbut he looks at me in a sextual way and he looks at her in a more friendlyer way. what does this mean i dont get it and also he has never said a word to me sine he whent out with my friend and we have started high school. \n\nwhen i was at primary he said all this stuff like i was hot and compliment me but when we started high school he has been acting realy and i mean REALY strange! \n\nplease try and tell me is there somthing in the future 4 me and him or does he like this other gurl. \nif u recon he likes me wat should i do ask him out or wat? \n\nfrom lexys little sister in yr 8. xxx
135438
first of all maybe he likes you and he trying to make you jealous.. if he hasnt said anything to you then maybe he could be shy and likes you.  primary?  and high school are two different years...people change some in a good way some in a bad way.
466962
ok well i am in 10th grade so hopefully i have some good advice.  the guy thinks he is a big shot because he is in high school. he also prob thinks hes cute or something and knows you think hes cute since you smiled and glared at him. he prob noticed it then when he was with his friends he wanted to act like a big shot because a girl smiled and glared at him. so he wanted to seem popular around his buds. and you are right he was just trying to get a reaction out of you. guys are just like that, as you get older you'll learn that all they want is a girls attention and when they do get her attention they feel like they are all that so they will obiously brag about it. think if some hott guy glared at you and smiled at you, wouldnt you go and tell your best friends? thats exactly what he did. hope it all works out for you, good luck in school!
154378
he hecka likes you! it sounds pretty obvious to me.. but then again, guys are really confusing\nfrom the way you describe it... he treats you different than other girls.. and he's actually interested in the conversations with your friends\nPLUS.. he was talking to HIS friends about you, and if he didn't like you, at least as a friend, he wouldn't be talking about you..\nand he SMILES at you. \nok he likes you. i'm done.
42657
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
261388
omg of course he likes you! If he didnt y would he even be im'ing u so much. Hes probably found out that u guys hav so much in common with each other. Y not try to plan on hanging out with him or something. If u dont get too atleast when u start school again try to talking to him more and stuf not just on the pc. But if u like this try to keep chatting wit him so he'll get to know u more. And believe me your lucky cuz most gurls cant even talk to there crushes!
144076
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
447443
Hey....how old are you?Dont worry there are a lot of fishes in the ocean...you might not know this guy will date another girls but in the end he'll bump at you and soon he will realize that you are most prettiest gal in the campus....\nWhat does your friend told you about that guy?who knows that guy wants to get close with that friend of your because he wants to know about you...not that really wants to be your friend's partner....do you get me?dont worry...
182279
if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
221418
You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!
72704
boys are hard to interpret.  i had guys pick on me from kindergarten to highschool--i thought they hated me, turns out they thought i was hot!! your best bet--ask him to a movie, library study date, or something.  or if you're shy you can just smile, relax, be yourself and see what happens.
466663
Give him the sweetest smile you can muster, look him straight in the eye and tell him good morning.  It's a little bit of flirting without putting yourself out there too much.  I think it's a personal decision as to whether or not he only likes girls into goth so you'll just have to wait and see.  I was one of the "church girls" and had thing for a "bad guy" in school.  I tried the flirting bit I just told you about and 2 weeks later got asked to Junior prom by him! I was 10th grade at the time. WOO HOO!
600716
He sounds very confused and juvenile. This actually takes me back to the days of 5th grade....Maybe he thinks that you're attractive but doesn't value you as a person. Maybe he's trying to "tease" you but is coming off as mean. Guys can be stupid when they try to show a girl that they like her. Don't waste your time worrying about him -- he's not worth the brain cells.
107911
her there girly ok yeah this guy is totaly in to you and i think i you like him you should smile back at him becuase i know that thats what my b-f started doing at first and i went along with it and started saying hi in the halls and now we have been going out steady for and 5 months and i am so glad....so if you like this guy at all then go for it i have faith in you girly \none girly to another girly \nlove ya \ngood luck
387244
Just ask him what he is doing this weekend. Don't wait till the school year is over. If he is shy most likely he is not going to ask you out. Make the first move guys like that in this day & age. Go for it!!
565564
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
200942
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
514470
awww this is so cute!\nActually, the best advice i can give is to spend more time with him and get to be friends or at least aquaintances first. If he does the akward staring thing, chances are he wants to talk to you but might be shy. Its never a piece of cake to tell someone you like them but its a bit easier when youve taken some time to talk to them and get to know them. Subtle flirting, like smiles, glances and giggles can go a long way too. and who knows? after some time, maybe he'll be the one stepping up to you! :)