we live far apart and not sure if i want to tell him that i like him. we talk everyday on the phone for a few hours. i not sure what to do
130319
Chances are that if you talk for a few hours everyday, he likes you too, and he may be afraid to say it.  The only way to find out if he loves you is to tell him that you love him.    You always take a chance at being hurt when you tell someone how you feel.  But, if you don't tell someone how you feel, you take a chance at losing them.
317176
I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
340974
Tell him the truth tell him that you like him.  Its better to know if he still likes you than to spend everyday wondering.
332308
well no\njust.. when you meet him, tell him something like you had to be somewhere fast...\n\nbut only if you really like him should you do that\ntrust me..\nif he really likes you then he wont care
63486
I would say yes, if he is committing to you. That is a good sign he has some strong feelings for you. If you so unsure, ask him how he feels. Do you think the distance thing will ever change? Sooner or later it will have to or the emptiness yall feel when apart will tear you apart.
672932
So you had one phone call and a lot of fun!!!\nI think you should try talking to him more often.\nBuild on things that you like in him, common interests and stuff like that.\nLong distence relationships are particularly tedious, but if you make it, then there is nothing like it.\nTell him that you find him interesting and fun. Ask him what he feels about you. \nFollow the 'One Step' process.\nTake one step closer to knowing him on every interaction.\nAsk him about himself, his past, his future, his aspirations, what he expects out of you, and stuff.\nIn a couple of months, if you are still going steady, then plan to meet up for date. This way, there would not be any nasty surprises either.\nTake Care, and all the best!!
557122
You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
273654
Two hours is nothing for him to drive and take you out or spend the day with you.  I would, if I liked someone and they equally liked me!  There is always the telephone in between times when you can't see each other.  Doesn't sound like a problem to me.
496184
If you are willing to have a long distance relationship with the new guy i say go for it.\n\nAlways listen to your heart
142219
I cannot tell you "no" or "yes" without really knowing more of the details of the situation.\n\nBut the very act of you asking this question and wondering whether you should or should not probably means, "nope." Wait a while and give him time.\n\nPlus, if he was charming, he would have you GIVING him your number without him even asking. Or have you asking for HIS. Heh, I wouldn't give in so easy to ya! :)\n\nWait a while till you get to know him. He may be a fantastic guy! Or he might be a rotten egg. And, make sure that you two live within an "okay" distance so you two can easily meet if it does come to that. There is really no sense of him calling and chatting and adoring you if you two cannot physically be together.
626391
Does he feel the same way?  If so, try the long distance relationship (via phone, email, ect).  Let your relationship take one day at a time and see what develops.  Don't rush into anything, let it take its course.  Friendship make the best relationships and I know that from personal experience.
103223
Don't commit yourself to something that isn't there. . . yet.\n\nI understand the chemistry, but things are as you said "unsaid."  Keep him as a friend, and if time and distance allows you to pursue a relationship go for it. But in the meanwhile don't close yourself off to someone who may be closer and ready to take that step.
151670
you should give him a chance. you don't know if there is any chemistry between y'all just by talking on phone 1 time. but when you meet this person you shouldn't go by just looks, get to know this person on the inside. good luck,and GOD BLESS YOU!
108680
I would recommend to tell him real softly. Try not to cause a scene but don't tell him in a note or over the phone because that might cause more problems. Just meet up with him somewhere (not at your house because that could be awkward for both of you.) and just take a deep breath and tell him.
54784
by the tone of your question, he is taking too long for you, so with the age difference he probably won't try to approach you.  If you are sure you want him..... then just tell him....you only live once!
616202
If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
67526
enjoy your daydreams, they never disappoint you. Chances are slim that you two could work this relationship, unless he lives closer than you think.