I heard he was cheating on me and i asked him about it but he never answered me. Then i saw him after school a few days later and his friend asked me did i go with hima nd i said i didnt know then his freind asked him and he said he dindt know then i called him at 5:30 on thursday and he put the phone down and his nephew was like who is that babyblu and he was like yeah then he got back on the phone and was like this me and i was like are you still not talking to me or are we talking again and he didnt say nothing then like 15 seconds later i found out that he hung up on me and i havnt talkied to him sence what should i do?
131019
Well just tell em...don't let him pass away....hol him until you'll know wat you were looking for!
583294
Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.
347557
well staying in the relationship cuz of transportation reasons is really a bad and probably unhappy choice. You definintely need to break it off with him.he's not respecting you and even if he hasn't physically cheated on you he is still cheating by obviously saying stuff to girls he doesn't want you to know. in 2002 when I was with my b/f at the time,I was in his dorm and I was sitting on the bed and he had this chart thing on the comp, it had everyone's phone number and he freaked out at me, cuz I was looking at the screen and it was because there was a girl's phone number on there. I wouldn't have thought anything of it but he was feeling guilty.he eventually told me everything a week or so later.Everything started to make sense. he said ya know how I've been acting strange. well an example was I was talking to him on the phone and he said he was going out and I said oh what are you doing and he said GOING OUT! and I'm like omg wtf? ya know and it hurt,again that was him feeling bad about what he was doing.I mean what wrote seems a lot like what my friend Tom does.he's in a kinda controling relationship.he actually got married a year ago,definitely too young and he does say stuff to me that he shouldn't,so he sneaks around too on the phone and internet.You already saw a pic of a girls butt on his phone.that's cheating enough.You need to be like I'm letting you go.You obviously don't want 2 be here and you don't respect me and you don't care enough so you don't have to sneak around anymore cuz I'm threw with you. and then tell him to leave. ya gotta be tough like that cuz if you're not you might break down and let him back in.block his number and any communincation with him cuz it seems you might just go back to him.I dunno how old you guys are,but most likely he's gonna stay this way,unless he's a teenager and still young.Don't try to change him.just be done with him.Guys won't change unless they want to and you can't make them want to change.so many girls waste their time trying to change guys and it won't work and all it does is hurt you.Ya gotta just try and be happy and I'm sure another guy will come along.Just stay strong and be with family and friends for support.I hope everything works out for you.Just keep your hopes up and everything will be good.Think positively and confidently and you'll be happy.
450139
Texting another girl does not sound like cheating. The text he is sending would determine if he is cheating.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
265784
you called him and didnt leave a message,now that is not good. leave a message. then he really wont have no excuse. if he dont get back to you, forget him. i know its hard when you like someone, but i know you would be saying the same thing to me if i had your prob. leave a message saying how great the other nite was and how you are looking forward to his cal. gud luck. x
598649
Yes, I have been cheated on.  But if you ever met my man you would have never guessed that he would ever have done that.  We are still together, he realized what he did was wrong and promised that he would never do that again or I was gone with no second thought. It really hurt me that he would do somthing like that to me, I didn't even find out until a year after it happened. There were some signs though, he became very jealous when I was with any guy or had them in my cell phone and he didn't know them.  There also pictures of the two of them together, he said at first she was just a friend.  Even when I talked to his friends they were shocked.  There is no way to prevent cheating if a guy is going to do it he will.  He told me the reason why he cheated on me was because he said that he wanted to be with me so bad and thought it was me, he was gone for a week. Right before he left I spent a week with him at his lake house and he was telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.  Well it has been 3 years now since he cheated on me and I love him with all my heart, and he feels the same way. He knows now that even if I hear a rumour that he was with another girl it's over and he is scared of loosing me.  That was why I stayed with him when I told him that it was over and I never wanted to see him again, it took him 10 minutes for him to leave and he left with tears. then 3 hours later his roomate called me nervous becasue he hadn't seen him and it was 2 am in the middle of the week. I ended up calling him and had been sitting out my window crying  thinking what is he going to do because he really felt that his life was over becasue of a dumb mistake, thats when I knew that he  would be faithful.  I knew that he really loved me.  I hope this helped!
70052
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
351909
I would believe her but like if he ever called you. dont bring it up at first let him know you still love him then when the conversation is cool like yall talkin alot stuff. then just ask him question about cheating not towards him but just to see how he reacts. now if he still dont answer your call then he is embrassed to talk to you and know that you know he cheated on you.
375697
He might have just wanted to tell you that there were girls there incase you hear it from someone else. If that happens you'd start to question why didn't he tell you about it and wonder if he's hidding something. He's just trying to play it safe and be honest with you by keeping you updated about all the things that are happening.
562077
He's bullshiting and he's playing you.. I'd raise my question about her present in his place. And what's the point of answering his phone when he has a hand 2. Unless his mouth was bz on something else.. Serious, if you want to continue your relation with him then straight this thing out. If not then he's NOT worth your time honey.
321093
wait..well u should've waited a bit also b4 getting involved but it's ok wait for a while now and if he doesn't call u do and dump him >:]
40337
Well was he cheated on you before? Because If not then your being too paranoid. The real sweet thing is that he actually emitted he use to had a crush with her. Just talk to the two at the same time and set the record straight.
374097
RUN!!!!!! a person like that has some issues that you cant help him with he has to figure it out on his own, with professional help. if he has cheated on you hurt you and stops you from talking on the phone those are some VERY SERIOUS red flags. you cant help him. these are things he learned very young and are deep seeded he needs help that you can offer.
472020
I don't think he knew. He sounds like a real jerk. I know it is MUCH easier said than done, but you need to just let that boy go. If you have been with someone that long whether they are a jerk or not it's going to be tough to let them go. Cry about it, but don't beg him to come back. As long as you are with him he will continue to treat you like dirt and you can continue to be un happy. If you let him go you may be un happy for a while, but imagine if you were with him forever you'd be unhappy for that long. No girl deserves to be lied to and cheated on\n\nYeah, some guys may have played with you like that wit ht the text message if they knew it was you, but breaking up with you after sounds a little fishy to me. Plus, he's cheated on you and treated you like sh*t before.  What makes you thin he isn't like that now. Good Luck!
271091
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)
139324
Yes, it is cheating.  Why does he need to look for other girls when he has you?  What would he do if a girl did respond?  You should get a friend who he doesn't know to respond to him and see what happens.
186483
If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.