OK well I am between the age 11-13 and well I have this friend and she has this boyfriend and they have been together for a very long time, because she cant really keep a secret she tells me everything that they did and sometime it is kinda gross but sometimes I dont know what she means and well that is what bugs me. It is like she expects me to know what she has been doing with her boyfriend. I have a boyfriend myself but we havent been together for a long time somewhere around a month or so. So she tells me ohh we were kissing and then he went into my pants with his hand. that part actually grossed me out I was silent for a while and that is why I am wondering what does she mean by that. I am kinda well behind in a lot of stuff.IM kinda STUPID.
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He was probably playing with her vagina lips with his fingers and maybe even inserting his fingers into her.  Try it to yourself, you'll see it feels good, it isn't gross.
231651
sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.
411333
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
519813
A lot of us have been in a situation similar to this..dont interfere in your friends relationship..they are happy you just have to accept it..you need a boyfriend of your own and then you will be ok.
215268
Yes, it should bother you.  Because she is your friend doesn't mean you should put complete trust in her.  People you feel you can trust are the ones that WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK! Besides, friends are supposed to respect eachother.  Right now she is not and neither is your boyfriend.  Be careful, because it sounds like there maybe something going on or about to happen.  If you want to avoid problems and don't want anything to come between your friendship, then put a stop to it now...\n\nGood Luck!
571651
i gues people just fear the things they don't know or understand. One of my best friends is a girl and we haven't done anything other than a hug.  I guess if you are ever in a relationship then make sure your boyfriend understands the situation. It could also be the people that are around you, cause I really haven't had that problem.
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If they're you're friends, I think you should ask them and not us.  Ask them what's going on and tell them that you're feeling uncomfortable about the way they're acting about your boyfriend.  And keep an open mind.  It might be that they don't like your bf, that they don't like the way you act around him, etc.
17477
It depends. As long as it was before you and they haven't slept with anyone since you then why not leave the past in the past? Maybe they were just too embarrassed to tell you. On the other hand, I could see where that could bring up a lot of turst issues because they did not tell you before hand. Ask him/her why didn't say this before, and REALLY listen to what they have to say. It may just be because they didnt want to lose you or to think badly of him/her.
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Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
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if that's what she wanted to do then that's her although I've never experienced that before, I dont even want my boyfriend to see me having sex or do sexual things with someone else, and most definately dont want him to do it, but like i said she shouldnt feel bad because you gave her permission, but once you two get into an argument dont bring that up because you told her that it was cool, and if she ever want to do it again, you already gave her permission, how could you let another guy touch her anyways, or let her touch another guy? I cant see it, if my boyfriend's gone be with someone else, he's going to sneak and do it
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From what you have wrote I think that she what to be more than friends.  If she didn't want to be more than friends, she wouldn't be telling other people that you are her boyfriend.  If you only want to be friend with her than you need to talk to her and let her know that here actions are making you uncomfortable and that she needs to stop telling people that you are her boyfriend.
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Although I have yet to have a true boyfriend I do read tons of magazines and many have had articles about these kind of situations.\nYou should talk to him about it.  This does not mean to just casually throw it in while you are together but to actually sit him down and tell him what you are feeling.\nHe probably says these things because he feels as if you are spending to much time with your friend and not a lot with him.\nSo I suggest setting aside a specific time just for you to spend with him.\nThis does not mean ignoring your friends.  You are allowed to have your own life outside of the relationship just as he is allowed to.
595413
You had sex with two guys that is really bad you need to go to a clinic and get checked out so that you don't have a disease or something. Well that is bad because you had sex with a friend and then your boyfriend! How old are you and why are you having sex like that?
63996
First of all, you answered your own question, eleven years, you can't throw that away over your boyfriend. I look at this way, tell both of them how you feel. You don't like her dissing him, and you are going to be her friend regardless if he likes her or not. You just tell them both, they both are going to be in your life regardless of who likes it or not. If they care for you, they will arrange a way to deal with it. Your friend sounds like she cares, but sometimes she might need to tone down the dislike for your guy. Just be honest with both.
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Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
37615
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
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r u 11? if so i have advice for u. (im 11) we have a dance at the end of the school year and i had a best friend named michael. everyone had dates already and i decided 2 ask him. after discussing it w/my friend, i went up 2 him at recess and said, "can i talk 2 u for a minute?" we walked and i beat around the bush for awhile (good tactic) and then i said, "im just gonna come right out and say it. will u come 2 the dance w/me?" he replied (after thinking about it), "ok. but this conversation never happened." u can imagine how happy i was!? but basicly, ask 2 talk, beat around the bush, and then say a sentance that describes what u want (e.g., will you go out w/me? can i be ur girlfriend?). hope it works! and about the other girl, just leave her alone. if she gives u trouble, take it 2 the teacher. just dont mention your boyfriend!