this girl in my school clare. I love her but im not shure if she is dating a***hole who the first day of school put someone in the hospital. clare is nice smart and butiful. I am not so cool and smart and nice.
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The question is not too long. It's beautiful, not butiful. And if this girl is dating that a***hole, she's not worth it, try to move on. If you can't, just make an effort and ask her out, don't think about the things you're not but about the qualities you have and she might like. Good luck.
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There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
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nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.
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First and foremost, I must say that I applaud you for standing up for someone who you feel is being wronged. So what if she's " kinda big?" If God wanted everyone to be alike, then he would have made us that way. I also want to tell you that I had some hard times attending high school myself because no matter what you do, people are going to be just people. I was known as the "goody two-shoes" girl, but at least I wasn't bullying anybody, and I was able to get good grades. Grades that have put me where I am today. If you do as some people on here has suggested, and be a "goody-two shoes", then people will hate you for being good, and if you're stuck up and snobbish, then they will hate you for that also. Just be YOURSELF!! As long as when you get up in the morning and can still face yourself in the mirror, then you know that you are doing something right. And, I hate to say it, but this is just a growing process that we all must go through at some point in our lives. It sucks, I know, but in the end, at least you'll feel better for going through it, and being the victor!!
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it took me like 10 minutes to figure out what the hell you were writing there... what the hell has happened to the school system...\n\nyou dumped her before she could dump you... tell me now who needs to grow up
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ok im sorry, but who cares about her inmature attitude anyway -honestly. shes prbly kinda freaked out that u invited her since sometimes people in grades higher than u are mean and yur nice. if u want her to think your kool then act kool and dont cling on to a little kid
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It's "pre-school" for goodness sakes!!  You've said that she is nice and sweet and you even like her ... you should be happy that he's with some one who is like that, to be around your son!!  It could be so much worse!  Your son is not going to be in her class after this, so just get through it for now and move on!  Think about your son, and how happy he is that his dad has some one and that makes the whole situation better for everyone!
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READ THIS CAREFULLY::::\n10th grade\n \n**********\n \nAs I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before. handed them to her. She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why. \n \n**************\n11th grade\n \n**************\n \nThe phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her\n on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the\ncheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, \nand I dont know why. \n***************\nSenior year\n \n**************\n \nThe day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said, "hes not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as 'best friends'. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at\n her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her  but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I Could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body  floated like an angle up on  stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine-but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went  home, she came to me  in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her  head from my shoulder and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want  her to know that I  dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm  just too shy, and I  don't know why.  Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married That girl is getting married now. I watched her say 'I  do' and drive off to  her new life, married to another man. I wanted her  to be mine, but she  didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.\n \n At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: "I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I  want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved  me! 'I wish I did too...' I thought to my self, and\n I cried.\n \nDo yourself a favour, tell her/him you love them. they won't be there forever.\n \n \nTake Care\n\n\n\nSO JUST TELL HER AT LEAST TAKE A CHANCE
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You must be nuts, it took you 15 month to realize that she might be immature.I think you're the one who's immature, or commited phobic. It's true that in some asian culture, the unmarried women lives with her parents until she gets married. Therefor her curfew is out of respect for her parents, since after all ,she is living under their roof and maybe also being supported  financially for her school fees. Let's get real , graduate school is not cheap!!!  I know ,been there and done it. Are you sure you're not the one getting cold feet from this relationship?
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i never im pure of heart and treat all girls the same. anyway thanks about before.\n                     nick fennema
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I am one of them but I have been working on it for a while now.  Girl you are probably a great person I would not worry much.  Take care.
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Its really fun....I'm going through the same thing myself...my girlfriend of 2 yrs called it off 3 days ago and I'm suck in the same predicament. I absolutely can relate to you because I'm afraid that I won't ever find someone that I care and love. Not to mention she was my first girlfriend. To make it worse she tells me that she doesn't really see a future with me even though she tells me she loves me. Anyways I just want to tell you that its ok and hopefully both of us will be ok in the future. I wish you luck and I feel your pain. Oh, and the Dr. Steve answer is not fair... I'm not a teenager and I'm going through this so to say that "its a meaningless relationship" is cruel.
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this girl (alicia)i see every time at the grocery shop where she works.it's so hard to find the courage to tell her i like her without it being weird.\nsometimes i wish i could read minds just to know what she thinks of me because she did smile at me and made a joke but i think blew it when i smiled when i should have laughed.
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1) I'm straight, so ... boys\n\n2) neither- water is best\n\n3) EEEEWW! I feel sorry for her! You are soooo mean to make fun of her! I'd pick her- she's got to be a nicer person than you!!
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It sounds like you really care about her.  However, she's going to do whatever she wants to do no matter what anyone says to her.  All that will happen is she will distance herself even more.  As I'm sure you realize, that's not a healthy thing to do.  Especially being so young and experiencing lots of 'firsts'.\n\nI would think that the best thing to do is just remind her that you're still around.  Even just saying 'Hey' in the hallway between classes can make all the difference in the world.  When the inevitable (that you believe will happen) happens, chances are, she'll remember that you were at least willing to give her the time of day when she was with this guy when everyone else gave up on her.  Empathize with her (I'm sure you've probably had your share of heartbreaks too), let her know that it's not the end of the world.\n\nI know that this is all easier said than done.  True friendships are built on solid ground.  In this instance, patience really is a virtue.  I'm not saying to spend all of your time waiting around for her to call you, by all means, continue living your life and going to school.  But like I said, just remind her that YOU are still willing to be her friend when she's ready.\n\nGood luck and I hope this helps!!!
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You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
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Are you really in College? OMG i am in High School and we do MEANER things to eachother than put GLUE on eachother, Dang girl back hand slap her, was your purse like Louis Vuitton or something...get the HELL over it. Y'all are in middle school. Oh and last time i checked, there are no such things as PRINCIPALS in College, they are called DEANS hun. And does the DEAN really have time to here to childish babies call eachother mean? GET OVER IT!!! Oh and you mis spelled a few words...and you call your self a college student...you make me sick!