shld i marry this girl who saw me for the very first time and said she was in love with me.... If she's really in luv wth me..i ll lose her n if its infatuation or w/e even then im a loser wht shld i do ...sm1 help me..
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Its infatuation, there is nothing like love at first site, it only happens in the movies which is oh so not real, Have you considered whether you are in love with her that you are thinking about marriage, your not a loser if you don't love someone, its stupid wanting to keep someone that is just infatuated with you, please do not make a mistake, consider you feelings.
268845
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
309812
I've fallen in love only once. Yesterday we broke up, I did it only because it was the right thing to do, yes, I got very hurt. Now I wanna fall out of live with him, if that's even possible. The problem is that love makes me always see all his good qualities, never the bad ones. I hope it's true what they say that time heals, 'cause I'm as sad as my avatar looks. As far as advices go, i don't really have any, love is a different experience for each person. Just enjoy it, take chances and live at 100%, you might get hurt, but otherwise, you might feel like you never lived in the first place. Thanks for letting me share, I know it's quite long. Good luck ;)
276295
why not take chances and tell that person how you really feel. dont give up on a fight that easy. then if you see that that person is deeply inlove with his/her partner thwn leave them and make them be happy.
184692
i know how u feel me and my girl kissed when she left my house one time and my sister-in-law saw it....dont feel so bad if u love ur girl then just try to get a long w/ her mom even if she dont like u. if she loves her daughter then she will love her and her mate just the same. give it time it will get better. it did for me
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I can tell through your question that you are hurting.  You need to give her some space...people can fall out of love, and it usually isn't easy for them either.  Something has changed and you can feel it and see it...don't prolong the agony for either of you...it will be hard, but you will survive and someday when you meet and fall in love with the love of your life and you are hers...it will all make sense.  Good Luck : )
160345
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
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this one's good.  be precautious!  hold off on falling in love.  many people will tell you to follow your head on this one.  i would have to agree.  be careful.  as you mentioned, you have a lot to loose.  and you will if you go with your heart.  take this as an infacuation.  and move on when it's old.  you won't have any regrets. \n'J'
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Love or Infatuation \n\nInfatuation...\n...is an instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another.\n\nLove...\n...is friendship that has caught on fire. It takes roots and grows – one day at a time.\n\nInfatuation...\n...is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.\n\nLove...\n...is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you – to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him nearer. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.\n\nInfatuation...\n...says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him."\n\nLove...\n...says, "Be patient, don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."\n\nInfatuation...\n...has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy.\n\nLove...\n...is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.\n\nInfatuation...\n...lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating. Sometimes you even check.\n\nLove...\n...means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened. He feels that trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.\n\nInfatuation...\n...might lead you to do things you'll regret later, but love never will.\n\nLove...\n...is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.\n\n\nIn real love, you love the person so much that you want him to be happy – even if you may not be allowed to share that happiness.
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Just neither marry nor live together with her.  YOu might really be in love with her.  But is right to be the only one who giving everything into the relationship???? NO!!!!! if she is unwilling to give up nothing!!!! \n\nWake up now and realize if she really loves you. Otherwise, you will be living in hell with someone who doesn't love you, even if you were just living together. Love = sacrifices
309677
Maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you feel about her. Back off a little, and give her some space. As the old saying goes..."If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours. If they don't, they never were." Besides, do you really WANT to be involved with someone that is incapable of displaying emotion? Marriage is a life-long commitment that should never be taken lightly. Good luck.....
333072
I think you are just lonely and shouldnt worry so much about it. If you are in love with a woman you will have a good marriage.\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
15416
You never forget. And you don't fall out of love. The trick is to keep your mind open to further possibilities. I imagine the hard part is that when you meet others, your first reaction is, "It's not her." No....its not her. But she just might have qualities that you need........but that you just don't even realize that yet. Let your heart open back up.......let your mind open up. Don't close it the minute you meet someone wonderful. Don't compare......enjoy instead. It will happen........you can hold me to that. :)
485408
Have guts and tell her you love her and if she ask you why you denied it before tell her you were shy so was unable to convey your feeling for her. I tell you she will smile and accept your answer & you although you are native of different place/culture/language/caste & onething more dont forget me to invite for your marriage!
216225
Hey buddy!  There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone... make sense?  Sounds like you love her, but may not be in love with her... or simply stated, may not have the romantic feelings that she has for you... it's a tough spot to be in - sorry!  \n\nThere is no easy way to break someone's heart or "let them down"... but you owe it to yourself and her to be honest... and ASAP!  The longer you "pretend" or carry on like you have stronger feelings than what you do, the harder it will be for her... after all, no one likes to live a lie.  Focus on the qualities you like about her and tell her how ya feel.\n\nDon't be surprised if this rocks your relationship as friends... it may even jeopardize any friendship you hope to have (especially if you wait to tell her ya feel).  Trust is a big thing!!!\n\nBest wishes!
201244
If you saw someone and you already feel like you love them, put on the brakes!  I know if someone just saw me and told me they loved me, I'd be thinking "STALKER ALERT!"  Just chill out and ask her on a date.  If she likes you, she'll say yes. If not, well......back to the dating pool.  Just don't fall in love so quickly :)
192309
the question is, how do you know that you love her more than she does? and if she really do, just give her time. maybe she went through something before you both got married. try talking to her and just put more effort on making her happy. i'm pretty sure she'll realize that you're important to her as much as she is to you!