A friend of mine recently got a phone call telling her that her daughter was posing nude in some pictures at her house and the pictures were found on her computer. The women who said this also has a son that is 17 who was involved with this and there was also another boy that was 18 and an exchange student from another country. The pictures were taken on the exchange students camera which is now in Tibera. The girl was only 14. This lady has called my friend and threatend her with the pictures. She told my friend that she deleted the pictures but of course everything thats deleted on your computer can still be brought up. I told her that she has a right to those pictures, since that is her daughter. , But my question is...what should or can she do leagally, and what will happen. They live in a small town.
136859
I would definately be calling the authorities. That is highly illegal and your friend can prosecute!!! I know for a fact I would and all involved will go down.
415979
What you have described is just plain wrong and you have every right to be concerned.  I thought it was illegal to take photos without permission.  Sorry but I would have to confront the sick arsehole and if he continued I would brick his windows - anything to let him know that he's not wanted in the area x
166410
Theres no way you can stop the pic from reaching them now. Its  too late. All u can do is call a related helpline or the police or something.
125781
Hello,i am Halil from Turkey.\nWell,i am 17 years old and have a brother.He is 9 years old.We have an internet connection at our home.If i was a father i think i would check my children's mails.Because this internet life is not very trusted.There are lots of spy wares and viruses.Also my brother has been found guilty 2 times about this.For people who had found my brother guilty,he had said so bad speech to his friends' family on msn messenger.But he says"I did not do!!"Even his teacher was very angry about him.We could not do anything.\nBut then we found out that my brother can not log in his msn messenger.It was hacked by someone...\nSo this example maybe a bit far away from your question but i just wanted to tell that.\nIn the end,in MY opinion i would check their mails..Maybe i could ask my children about it before i do...\n                 ---goodbye---
644437
Bah I think the kids are to bplame... and tehre parents for letting them put up personal information.\n\nThen again it's a modern trend for suing some one else for something thats your fult...\n\nYou know some one sued a home owner becose he accidently stabed himself on a knife that was laying out the home he BROKE INTO..... WTF....
446602
OK - I will assume that you are really trying to stay out of trouble and give you a serious answer.\n\nFirst, ask to see her id and make sure she is 18.\n\nThen ask about her previous experience, see if she has a portfolio, and any um, head shots, and then ask if she has any video of her previous "work." \n\nDo not ask for a demonstration, or "samples." If she offers one, I would say no, because she may think that she is "sealing the deal." Do not ask her to remove her clothing. If she has nude pictures, that's fine.  \n\nFinally make sure she understands that she will be in an adult movie. Have her sign an agreement to that effect.\n\nPS - I don't agree with, like or condone porn, but you asked for a legal answer.
619234
Having been charged and convicted are two different things. If I knew for sure that someone had been convicted I would delve in to the matter a lot more. At one time, I would have said mind your own business, but in view of all the horrible things that have happened to children, I would have to bring it to social services. Please do not proceed unless you really have something solid and well founded. This little girl has obviously been traumatized a lot being taken away from her parents. Depending on the charge, some people can change. Did you read about this person in the newspaper or did someone gossip about this situation? Which ever way you go, let your conscience be your guide.
65090
Convieniently sneek one of the pictures and leave it where the father can find it.\n\nNo..that would be wrong. \n\nAll you can do is listen. A really good friend is a listening friend. If she actually starts making plans to follow through, then a really good friend is one who protects a friend from themselves. Tell the parents yourself.
268231
Not a cool thing to do, and you should apologize for it, but unless you're leaving out details, are people overreacting a little bit?  If she was wearing clothes, albeit a swimsuit, it isn't as though you broke any laws.  I don't see the blackmail side of it.  Did you demand payment from anyone in return for the photos?  Too many gaps in your story.  Sounds fishy.
407980
Worry.\n\nWhat type of respect is she expecting for herself with a picture like that posted in the first place. She obviously thought about whether or not she wanted it posted and decided to do it. She is advertising herself to perfect strangers for whatever reason she came up with for doing it.\n\nI am sure she had a good explanation for it, did she not?\n\nShe is also showing no respect for you, her husband.\n\nThink about it.
514786
I would say this girl has no respect for parental boundaries.  I would speak to my son and let him know this type of behavior is unacceptable in your house and that if this young lady, and I put that loosely, is going to be over again she better mind her tongue. I would want other parents to tell me if my child was disrespectful in their home. Even at 17.  She isn't going to make it very far in life with this personality.  If it happened again I would directly show my disapproval to the girl, and ask her to leave.
79950
I hope you took the time to warn her about how crazy people are out in the world.  There probably wasn't anything you could have said or done to her to keep her safe at home.  My daughter left when she was 15 and she didn't keep in contact with me except for a couple times a year.  She quit high school in her 2nd year and I couldn't force her to go.  \n\nI sincerely hope your daughter has good friends to help her out there.  If you know her friends that she is with or near, maybe you don't have to worry if they help take care of her.  It's the not knowing that really hurts.\n\nMaybe you could get her a cell phone and keep in contact with her that way.  God Bless you.....)(
53069
I think that it is absolutely disguisting!!! As a matter of fact, I have a personal experience because of myspace involving my mom's friend's daughter, who is now 13. She met some guy off of there, thinking that he was a 15 year old little boy, and was sexually assaulted and raped because of it... That's sad, yes... We just finished court with that and he is now serving 2 life sentences for 2 different rapes and 200+ counts of child pornography, but I agree with some of the other people here... \n\nIt is definitely the parents' responsibility to watch and monitor their child's actions on the computer, but if they choose not to, they need to filter and put parental controls to ensure that their child does not have access to places that are not "age appropriate" for them. If a 13 year old can go to myspace and lie and say that she is 16, then someone is definitely not doing their job...\n\nPlease... please... PLEASE... don't let this happen to your children...
635731
instead of trying to blame the 16 year old, why don't you just talk to your daughter.  obviously, she went behind your back to have it done (otherwise she could have had it done professionally with your permission), and knew that you would disapprove, but she did it anyway.  sounds like you have bigger problems than just a friend who is a "contributor".  Where does your daughter's responsibility begin for her own actions?
296481
Yes, because the girl is still a minor and even with consent of having the picture taken he could face probation. Usually thosecases don't go that far. The female usually denies ever posing for a picture like that, but there are a few cases where the males got charged for possession of pornographic images of a minor, even though the pictures were given as gifts, and/or pranks. The few cases where the males had them but was showing them off, they also got longer probation periods. The cases where the images were gifts they usually had them images confiscated and did community service, paid fines, and had probation. The rare cases that it didn't matter how the images were obtained they got sentences, usually only about three-six months, and then probation.\nIn some cases the girls also got probation and also was order clinical evaluation.
222388
If talking was the solution. we would not have all these pervs... trying to get with kids over the net..Preteen,teens, even so adults  seem to think people on here tell the truth, which we all know is not the case. Better to ck. now then have the detectives tell you about it after there gone...Have you checked her My Space I am sure she has one.Also try www.keykatcher.com ( I Have a teenager)  Hope it helps,moving the computer sounds good also.
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Report this immediately to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) at:\n\nhttps://secure.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/CybertipServlet?LanguageCountry=en_US\n\nand they will act and follow-up on this promptly and you can be anonymous when you report it.