I hav 5 boyfriends.  Yes 5!  I'm beginning to get worried that they will find out! Should I ditch the ugliest and stik wit the cutest?  The 4th one is kinda ugly but smart?  What do I do?
132343
To be honest if you had any feelings for any of them then you wouldn't of put yourself if this situation to start off with. I think you should break up with all of them and find someone out there who you'd never cheat on!
300217
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
186517
Do you not do the same? I know I do. I have an amazing boyfriend, but I look at other guys but I always go home to him. Looking is harmless. It's when they start to touch that things get complicated.
27820
Sounds to me like your not quite ready to settle down.  I say drop the boyfriend for now and date around a bit and then maybe you will be able to know more about what your looking for.  Everyone has flaws but usually you can't see them till you've known them a while.
352427
.i don't really know why you would just notice ,the reason why you went with someone , but if he told you that he only went with you because he like your looks then its not relevant being with him again .looks don't last for ever remember that next time you look for a guy .yes make sure hes cute but most important is do you really like him for him .and  the same for him to you. and the only way to know when a guy loves you for you is let him see you with no makeup, hair all nappy and your PJ's .if he sticks around for the next day then baby hes yours .......................good luck
607700
There are over 3 billion male humans in this world. He is only one. Move on. If he thinks you are ugly, so be it. there are other guys out there.
65432
if you and this 3rd guy love each other (mutual feelings), then you should go for it! concerning these other people, no guy in his right mind would be happy with someone who wasn't into the relationship - and i doubt you would either! trust your feelings and go with the guy you truly love.\n;)
282924
People place too much importance on looks to begin with. I dont care who you are looks will fade in time and its the personality that will carry a relationship through. If you are attracted to him...and he has a great personality as you stated...what are you waiting for..go out with him. It sounds like you may be concerned about what others will think of you being seen with him. If your friends are that shallow, they are not much of a friend to begin with. Go for it girl and I hope you have a great time.
123060
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
420180
wasssup alexis how u doing gurl!\n\nanyway u should dump his usin ugly A.S.S
364929
I guess it depends on how much dignity and self-respect you have.  If it is okay with you that your significant other is not faith-full, then be with him while he is with other girls and don't complain.  Otherwise, move on and find someone worthy of your love and attention.   Why is it that us women invest so much time in worthless men?  I'm just betting that you are a beautiful, intelligent woman that could find a wonderful, caring and fun guy to be with.
112386
Don't be mad at this following comment: but, you should find away to feel more secure about who you are. The less you care about this issue the happier you will be. Try to accept his behavior, and if you can dump him. However, check yourself fist: every one notices attractive people. Some people are just more socially tactful then other. Your boyfriend sounds like he is really bad at tact. But, can you really say that you never find other men attractive? How about movie stars, musicians or models? The problem doesn't begin with looking, it begins when people act on their desires.
596599
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
45420
I think that you are entitled to have any bf of your choice. Have your friends even given him a chance?  Maybe you could ask them to spend a day with you both and then make a decision.  As far as them saying he's ugly just tell them that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If they are true friends they should chill out and realize that they are hurting you and they aren't being fair. Remind them that they don't always make choices that you like either. If everyone in the world liked the same things it would be a rather boring world now wouldn't it?
460977
OMG!! i had that problem. EXACTLY the same way!! but anyway, i told my mom, and she told me i should pick one. i picked the new one, because i liked him and i wanted to try him out. look at me now..im dating him!! =D\n38 days...\nso pick one, and stick with him. g'luck
227414
well if you wanna casually date, date em all what the hell why not?? but if ur looking for just one guy, figure out which one is the best choice for you, then go out with that one. most men are childish that's just something that cannot be helped lol. newayz, its ur choice, you've got 6 guys to pick from have fun!!!
205641
I think the guy you hate is Ugly! JK, You love your boyfriend so much and he loves you so much. So I think that No one can break you guys up. You guys are always there for each other and When I see you guys not together it will feel strange to me because you guys have been dating 4 so long. Go with the heart and not with the head.