we were really good friends until the other day but we got a lil to intense and started goin out but then i realized we were better off friends so i told him that and he took it ok and then he tried to kill his self and i had to tell cause i didnt want him to get hurt and now i think he is goin to hate me for telling but i only wanted to help please tell me what i should do
132108
Hopefully you will seek professional help as well as him.  You can not go around thinking you are responsible for someone living or dieing, unless you physically harm someone. I believe you did the right thing, by telling someone. He may not at this time, but in the future he will see that you did him a favor. God forbid he does harm himself, you can not continue on with life believing that you are responsible.
241058
Yes you should. Also, if your afraid by telling that you will lose his friendship, and just don't want to, then consider talking to you counselor and explaining the situation. They are trained to handle situations like this.
117014
Be honest with him. If your friendship is ended just by asking, then it really wasn't worth having in the first place.
468540
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
639858
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
488190
Honey, at the risk of sounding mean, you have to get a life! You both do! If you tell him that you need some space, he will think he did something wrong.You should probably back off slowly and encourage him to hang out with his friends or do other things, while you do your own thing . Good luck!
374121
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.
286166
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
175136
just simply tell him that u dont think it is right anymore and u just wanna be friends and still talk? but tell him the reason is b/c u dont wanna hurt ur best friend?
94922
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
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Hey,\n   He is a jerk and the reason he does'nt get it as he thinks he is to good to be true,just be strong and aggressive when you tell him that the next time and explore his weakness to make him see why you dont want him to be more then a friend to you.Best of luck
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you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
603803
You should tell everyone what really happened. your real friends and family will believe you. But let the friend off the hook too. i mean, he is your freind, right?
497926
just hang around maybe he doesnt wanna talk about it with you coz he might be scared that if he opens up to u, u will refuse to talk to him and leave him what i mean is he feels that if he opens up to you b4he's ready,u might decide to endyour friendship with him\ndont push him to tell u anything maybe to him its not a problem just keep telling him that u aint going nowhere and that u will stand by him no matter what that way he will know that u really want to help him ok.DONT LEAVE HIM ALONE BE THERE FOR HIM
509777
I had the same problem so I just ended our friendship you shouldn't have to live with someone whos mean and always trys to put you down just to make them feel better about them selves
629086
I think that you should sit him down and tell him the truth. The worst thing you can do is lead him on.You should first start by tell him that you think of him as a good friend and nothing more. You respect him and dont want to loose his friendship.
128766
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.