Dresses okay vs. dresses spiffy.  AND  his genetics: average vs handsome.
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of course. wouldn't you say the same for girls? no guy can honestly say that a girls looks dont matter. clothes have less to do with it, unless theyre really strange.
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He looks pretty hot in the 1st picture. I can't tell much about him from the others. Based solely on the first picture, I give him an 8.
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I think it is more that they tend to fall into the same trends and will share the same lifestyle so other things start to look similar.  I don't think they actually look alike so much as fall into a similar type of look.
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Body size makes little difference in people. Both are considered perfectly normal. Consider the mental aspect instead of the physical aspect when if the situation is about "which type attracts more guys". :-)
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I like a chiseled face with good bone structure. Cut but not bulked up, you know, so I can see all the muscles. I like blond but any other may be ok, depends. Not tooo tall but not short. Maybe 5'7" to 5'10. Probably blue or green eyes but brown is ok.. NO body fat. He also has to be kind and strong.And he should be a funny guy. Good sence of humor.
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Shouldn't be an issue.  However, if you don't find him attractive because he's shorter, that's ok.
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WOW!!! glad to see that you finally got your book published!  lol\n     to answer your question...i think i would put it in this order.  #1 being the most important:  \n(1)-manner  (2)-sex  (3)-money  (4)-looks  (5)-career  (6)-physique  (7)-penis\n\ni do find it difficult to draw a line between sex and penis, and looks and physique.  i understand your explanations, but they just seem to go together to me.  and, yes, i would like to stress personality.  i can't be with a man that i don't find funny.  he's got to be able to make me laugh!  confidence should be on your list, also.  if it was, that would be my number one!\n\nedit-you are very welcome!  good luck on getting everyone to follow directions.  half of the people on here can't even spell...lol.  well, i guess i'm sticking with that order then.  curious to know what your number one is???\n\nedit-take two-the more i think about it, the more i think that i should have switched money and looks.  i've dated some broke guys that were very attractive!  and i'm not that materialistic.  hmm...guess it's too late.  peace.
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depend on why  he is telling you that. but if you feel OK the way you dress, do not worry about it.
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Handsome is in the eye of the beholder, Mate. Also, as long as you like how you look, then others will notice you for more than a shining dome!
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i will choose the intellectually stimulating person. he may not be that handsome like richard gere or tom cruise, but he has the knowledge and wisdom that will make him look more handsome than those people i mentioned.\n\nalso, he may not be sexually desirable guy, since he  is intelligent enough, he can be taught on how to be sexually desirable guy. anyhow, being sexually desirable is not a talent, it is earned thru experiences. and i will teach him more experiences than can make him more desirable in sex, and i am lucky because it will be for me only.
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Though I have to admit Blacks look better in clothes usually than Whites do, I really don't hate being White. And I think we've all gotten to the stage where it doesn't matter to Blacks what Whites think of them - only a small percentage of Blacks measure themselves against whites. What's the point? There are too many differences. I'm of English background, so my skin doesn't tan much. That's restricting, because too much sun these days can lead to skin cancer, so I avoid the sun. Black skin has more oil so Blacks age better. Lucky you guys! Then again, I'm not too concerned about aging. I have never been particularly attracted to Black men - I go for personality more than looks. I've dated guys of many different races. People are people. Anyway, don't evaluate yourself in relation to Whites - it doesn't make sense.
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Umm I don't really understand how someone can "look gay", but if you're referring to the stereotypical kind of gay person as in feminine, well dressed, etc., then I'd say no. I mean, yes, he's well dressed, but he doesn't really act up on his sexuality or anything, and he's not flamboyant or anything, even though he is openly gay.
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Some curves are a good thing!  Though I will admit that as you get farther from an average build, I find 'too thin' a bit easier on the eyes than the opposite...\n\nI also want to say that I find the raw height/weight numbers to be fairly meaningless, because they really don't tell you enough about how a person wears it.  A well-proportioned girl can look very nice as long as she doesn't try to dress like someone with a different body type.\n\nAnd, as I almost always say in these type of questions:  Looks are only most important when gazing from a distance!  To actually hang out with a girl, a fun, happy personality goes a LONG way to compensate for a 'less-than-perfect' appearance.
625352
if he is attractive and cute
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Confidence! My husband isn't considered handsome i found him attractive becuase he wasn't scared to talk to me. He was bold and confident without being arrogent. It's all in how you walk stand and talk.\nAnd being CLEAN no girl wants to date greasy headed guys with BO!
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It depends on the person who calls them beautiful.  Even within the television "beauties" people's opinions differ on who is beautiful and who is not.  When I've let myself get beyond the surface (upon meeting a nice guy), I've noticed that his character overshadows his looks.  I hope that is true for women.
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all but handsome\n\nmostly cute