He complained of some wierd pains before earlier that day but it only happened during sex, thats it.  he is 37; I had a hysterectomy 7 yrs ago. anyone have any info.  He wont go to a doctor.
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He needs to go to the Dr. and have the Dr. check his prostrate.  Make him go.
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I'm 29 I also have 4 kids and have had my tubes tied. This often happens to me. My Dr. said I had a sensitive cervix. She also said it was common not to worry.
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could be a lot of things. std, urinary tract infection, getting hit in the back. you should have this guy get checked out, it could be very serious or maybe not. but why risk it if you can prevent something from getting worse.
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well there could be many factors.\nfirst off, he could have popped your cherry (wether ur a virgin or not because mine wasnt popped till i got with my fiance)\nor he could have just been to rough and tore some tissue in there and the pain above ur hip bone could be from him being to rough or maybe u just havent had sex in a while because i still have that pain from time to time when my husband is too rough. you shouldve told him to stop when u were having the pain. becuase if ur not able to talk to him and let him know how you feel and when somethings hurting then ur not ready to have sex yet (atleast with him that is) now if it was unprotected sex u could have gotten pregnant and ur having implantation bleeding (which is when the sperm implants, but that depends on how much your bleeding) and last factor could be that maybe you started your period today. but to be sure maybe you should ask you doctor.\ngood luck with everything.
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That can be caused by lots of things. She should definitely go to a gyno and have it checked out. One possibility: my husband is pretty big, and we have to be careful about angle or I'll be sore afterwards. If you're bigger than average, maybe y'all need to try some different positions to see if that helps. Also, make sure she's lubed, relaxed, and turned on.
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I've never heard of anything like this before......before we started that aspect of our relationship my (now) husband got blue balls and felt really sick and chills and such.....maybe you hold out so long that that happens to you.  I am so sorry to hear that!
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She may be experiencing a depression. Have these problems started suddenly? or did they escalate over the last 7 years to the point where she is shutting you out?\nI had a hysterectomy almost 2 years ago at the age of 40. I did a lot of research about hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I am convinced that she needs to be on HRT, but the more you push her to do it, the bigger chance that she will push you away further. I found the surgery very liberating. I can now do many of the things that I couldn't before because I'm not hemorrhaging any more and I don't have to be tied to a closet stocked full of feminine supplies 25 days a month. I have found that I am enjoying life more now than I have in a long time. Unfortunately, my husband feels slighted because I'm not home every day and night. I get so sick of him hounding me about not being home, that I have begun to shut him out, too. If my husband had called my gynecologist, I would have been VERY UPSET with him. I suggest that you just CHILL OUT!! Give her time to work through this. Let her know that you support her and care deeply for her, but BACK OFF!! She is in counseling by herself, not couple's counseling. She is probably trying to work through some personal stuff. She won't be able to work on marriage counseling until she is at peace with whatever brought her to the counseling in the first place. Good Luck to you and your wife.
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Honey...I'm a mom.  Hate to ask this, but does it smell bad?  Have you been having sex with a boy?  If so, could be PH imbalance because of his semen.  Was this white liquid during waht was SUPPOSED to be your period?  These are all questions you should ask a gynecologist (female organs doctor) or (free clinic if you want to be private and not discuss with parents).  From a mom's point of view...I always encouraged my daughter (now 21) to duscuss with me these things.  We were honest and open with each other, and if there was something I didn't WANT to hear, I tried not to REACT badly, but help her get answers, then we'd sit down and discuss what caused this to happen afterwards.  I wanted her to trust me.  Show this to your mom and see if she would be open with you...then see the gynecologist.  Could be a simple yeast infection which are easily treated, but need a doctor to diagnose it and prescribe medication or over the counter medicine.  Never put off questions about your female health.  Good luck!  P.S.  clumps?  sounds familiar from when I was young, but the gynecologist is the best way to go.  Never be afraid of going to the doctor.  Be more afraid of ignorance, and not knowing exactly what's wrong.  If you find out all is okay, won't you feel MUCH better??  Go for it Dear....
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I can assure you that this was one of the first things he discussed with his doctor. Have you told him about your worries? Talk to his (or your) doctor about it if he's sensitive but I'm sure you have absolutely nothing to worry about. The only way it could would be if he still had a serious spinal injury, and then he'd still be in the hospital. This video should help allay your worries... and no, it's not a dirty movie boys, it's a documentary article.
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Even if this had only happened once, I would definitely still say to get it checked out. It is completely not normal. Don't let this go. Don't avoid the doctor because you are afraid of what he/she will diagnose you with. You have it either way, whether you know it or not.
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If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
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I had that problem. I went and got it checked out and found out that their was blood vessels outside of my cervix and sex would break the blood vessels easily.  I just had them dried up in surgery and it went away. Go and have a check up. :)
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No way to tell what is going on, pain and cramping is normal to some people during their periods. Best to see your Dr for a check up he/she will know more about it than anyone on here. Don't be scared, get a check up every year anyway just in case there is a problem, if there is one the earlier they know about it the easier it is to fix. Good luck!
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I aggree that she has to visit a doctor. How didn't you do that till now? You don't specify why she has the uterus removed. In anycase let me tell you that you have to show her that you care about her situation, her feeling of disconfort and that nothing ever changed.
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He needs to see his doctor.  This is treatable and it has nothing to do with you so don't get a guilt complex over it.  There are several possible physiological problems that an examination will reveal the true cause.  He might have a thyroid problem which is the cause and be easily treated.  Seeing his doctor is the best answer for the problem.
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Wow bloody semen? It could be something to do with the prostate gland. Tell him to get to a doc...prostate cancer strikes young guys...good luck...just leave him a note on his computer at work ...
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I think its perfectly normal, your body is adjusting to another form of contraception(artificial hormones) so there will be periods of uncomfortable lower pains in the pelvic region.\n\nThat said, it might be worth popping along to your gp to get it checked, it could be all matter of things and any infection should be ruled out.