how can I return to the past times when I was so attracive and wanted as a beautiful young woman?? and how can I make up for all the lost days of my life???
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My wife is now 33, and she's more beautiful now than when she was 23. Your question somehow gets me. Are you wanting to be wanted by a bunch of young dumb skirt-chasers? Did you let yourself go over the last 15 yrs? I'm not feeling that about you, it's just the wording of your question. Kinda hints your a little lost in direction is all. So what, you're 35. If you were attractive at 20, I'm sure you are now. You need to focus on where you are at now, not where you were before and what happened.\nYou don't make up for lost time, because you can't go back in time. You can only learn from experience and try to not make repeat mistakes. Just try to make improvements a day at a time.\nRemember that your state of mind reflects on your appearance. So, if you are depressed, down in the dumps angry, you won't get as much attention or looks as when you are happy and vibrant. Be content with who you are now, and enjoy your life on this planet.......it's short ya know. GBWY
546459
okay, so like want to switch places????!!!!.  Oooh, the memories of those days.  Enjoy it while you can.  \n\n/doc
543976
Honey, you've got lots and lots of growing up to do and your self-confidence leaves much to be desired.... need i go on..
302288
yeah i know how you feel, thats why you gotta go out and make your own place in the world. join a club or group, volunteer, do something where yo feel you should be there and you belong- or be like me and up and move to a new state lol :)
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Think less and act more.\n\nDon't let the goal of preserving the past memories hold you from making new and better ones. There are risks, but that is what life is all about, taking risks. You do not want to live till 80 to start reflecting about what you should have done when you were younger.
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There is no getting back into that life part time.  It will suck you back in before you know it and you will have taken several steps backward and ruined what may be your one legitimate chance.  Second chances are rare in life and thirds are even harder to come by.
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You sound like a very unhappy person to me. By wishing these things you are basically wishing that you aren't the person you are.\n\nEverything that has happened in your life has made you the person you are and you are beautiful.\n\nAnything that has gone wrong has only made you stronger and you need to start looking at your life differently. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and beating yourself up over events that are beyond your control.\n\nTake everything that has happened and turn it into a positive, make those things what drives you to get where you want to be.
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wow!  I say you are one lovely lucky person! Praise the good Lord sweetie. There must be lots of people who'd rather lose their hair than their life!  Anyway, your hair will grow back, it's only hair......... in the meantime, go to a professional wig shop and let them fit you properly so your temporary hair will look as natural and feel as though you have no wig on. After your hair grows back  you may still choose to wear the wig! God has blessed  you and given you many more happy and healthy years to come. Embrace them and don't fret the hair. Also, maybe you can take vitamin B and also Evening Primrose vitamins. These are supposed to help with hairloss.  Good luck to you and remember,,,rejoice in your newly blessed life and don't fret the small stuff sweetie.
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just wait, i just went through that same phase. youll grow out of it.and when you do, youll look older than your age. itll feel great
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first take a deep breath and think about what you want to do and where you want to be  and figure out what is missing in your life and find it good luck
85247
You could try changing your appearance a little. You could skip a day shaving, get some cool sunglasses, walk with a little attitude, change your hairstyle. On the weekend, you can be yourself.  I personally think that being yourself all the time is the best thing. Much success to you.
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Think well, live long, try to start your life again and don't be afraid of starting.  There is always a new way and a new start.  The past is gone, the present is here and the future... you never now.  So live each day as it is the last one of your life.  Live 100% and laugh until you cry. Good luck and God Bless!
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I am going to be 30 this month and I am often mistaken for my sons' sister or their babysitter. Recently, I got the nerve to cut my hair & I ended up with a more mature but sexy 'do. I've never liked short hair but now I love it. I've gotten many comments from people who have known me a long time that I look more mature and not like a young girl. I have also noticed that men my age and not as many teenagers are checking me out now. Try doing something different with your hair or maybe even with your wardrobe. If it doesn't work the way you want, just know that there is going to be a time when you'll wish to look young again but you won't be able to turn back time. We are ALL going to age. I wish you the best!
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Everyone, at one time or another, has to experience this.  The best thing you can do is go through the steps of mourning what you feel you wanted and loved.  Look the steps for mourning up and experience them all.\n\nDo you best to remove all memories, but most of all work on yourself and make and keep yourself the person you want a woman to want to be with for the rest of her life.  Then look for a mate who is doing exactly the same thing.\n\nWhen it's real rough, think about what would be nice to have in your life and make a list of good qualities you see around you, in everyone else, that you want to be a part of a girl in your life.  Focus on that and you will see some truer colors to help you through some thing that only time can help you endure.\n\nMost of all, know this is normal and you are okay.  And you deserve better or you would not be asking this question.
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i wouldn't go back a year..what i have learned through my life thusfar is that whether good or bad, all of these experiences have helped to make me who i am today..and i like who i am today..so nuttin' honey lol
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when you got born again, it was the real you (your spirit) that got saved...not your mind,will,emotions and not your body....so you will tend to gravitate back to the old you unless you renew your mind with the Word of God....get into a good Bible based church (i suggest you stay away from denominational churches) and begin a DAILY Bible study/prayer time. get up early if you have to, it is very, very important.    go to rhema.org , there you will find a link to search for a church in your area.....God Bless.
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Oh goodness, I did that.  My advice, KEEP BUSY and ACTIVE.  Get involved by volunteering, school, playgroups, book clubs, something!  Try to stay in some kind of social group or you will feel lost.  Follow some of your same routines.  Still get up, shower, get dressed, makeup if you do...  \n\nGood luck!