My BF sean we have been goin out for a week is a pothead umm pretty heavey and i hate it i nvr want to do it and i hate that he does but he is like the sweetness and nices guy i have ever met he is like perfect except for pot what should i do i don't want to dump him and we are only freshman in high school but i like him sooo much!!!
121307
Think about the future. Sweet is nice, but it doesn't get the bills paid. If he's a hard worker, makes good money, takes good care of you, is nice, then leave him alone and shut up. If he's basically useless, and just wants to do his own little smoking thing, dump him.
78121
There is a possibility that he wil eventually drag you down with him...weed is illegal.  Unless you want to visit him in jail on the chance that he gets caught, you may want to consider dumping him, or at least letting him know that this is important enough for you to be a dealbreaker. \n\nDoes he smoke all the time, or just occasionally?\n\nGood luck.
301186
it's natural for us girls to like a lot of guys. lol. that's just how we are. but that doesn't mean it will last long. go 2 weeks and see if you still like that guy. if you do, then maybe you should move on from your boyfriend. but believe me, you don't wanna give up a good relationship for something that will last 2 days.
314312
he sounds More of a annyoing little brother then a real boyfriend!! break it up!! tell him you can't stand it anymore!! IF HE CAN'T BE MATURE THEN FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN BE!!! Good Luck!!
184686
ya hes a total jacka** and its completely up to u to decide if u wanna do that or not. you will find a guy way better than him :-D cheer up pretty lady
346457
Wow..looky looky another pothead loser that feels held down by the man. I guess you never thought about the fact that alot of violent crimes are linked with drugs.......but you never would have thought about that because you probably have 1/2 a brain cell left. So go ahead and keep smoking your marijuana no one really cares about you anyways. You and Pete have fun........queers
290666
With a guy like him, you just have to tell him you are no longer interested in being with him, and just end it.  Don't continue to talk to him at all or anything.  If you don't like him as a boyfriend, don't even be friends with him at this point because he'll always be hanging on and you'll just get irritated with having to deal with him.  Then he'll never leave you alone.  It seems mean, but I've had to do the same.  You will find someone better and more emotionally stable, I hope!
110602
Well 28 is a little old to be partyin that hard. I hate guys who are lush's like that. I would not be able to handle my bf going out and getting trashed like that and not remembering..who knows what he's doing while he's drunk without you. I think you should talk to him about it and if that doesn't work you should move on. It's time for him to grow up and be a man.
42721
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
77418
Avoid sweet jerk boy, you may fall in love with him, but he's gonna cause you so much drama eventually, with being mad at him, breakups, makeups, and being a jerk.  Trust me, I'm just like him, and I'm bad news for the girls I date
134327
Well, I think you should stay with the boyfriend. The brother-like guy will have to take a hike (not to be rude or anything). IF you say he is a guy friend, then he is his a guy friend. NOW if you have feelings for the guy friend, you need to do some serious thinking. But, if you just feel bad because he wants you and you don't him, you got to get used to letting people down.
577664
your gettin older, there is going to be so much hotter guys in high school your bond to forget about him, you'll see! just move on right now, trust me.
208090
It sounds to me that you should try talking to gregory, (instead of hitting; that's immature).  Make sure to give him some space and try to sort things out.  If you have been with him a year as boyfriend and girlfriend, then Davion's comment should have not affected gregory that much.  He should already know he likes you. Let someone you trust, and who can give good advice (even if it hurts) know what is going on.  This will give you more insight on what is really happening.  If you do decide to go out with gregory again, see if someone can help you and gregory get through the bumps.  Just remember that whatever happens, it is your decision to stay in the relationship or get out.
14132
negative, if you both were strung out on crack and shit as it were, you both were probably cheating on each other for a bigger rock persay, and if both of you are off that shit, then when you two get back together, you're probably just gonna get back on the rock and ride it home.... so find yourself a nice little pothead to settle down with..... the blonde ones are freakier on pot
370953
Hey there, I can understand this situation.  Been there and done that.  You did a good job at telling him everything you can possibly remember.  Try not to feel guilty just talk to about it and hope he can understand.  Tell him about how you feel that you need some time together that is important in a relationship. Tell him you want to spend more time together and your true feelings that led you to maybe drinking too much.  If he is a nice guy he will understand.  You know if could be a fun thing to hang out with him and his friends.  Getting to know his friends and be liked by them is a serious plus for him to get closer to him. Beleive me!!!  Been there and done that!!!
15896
No matter what guy you like you can like Green Day and they don't have to like it.  You are still allowed to like whatever you want and be boyfriend/girlfriend.  You don't lose your individuality just because you're with someone.\n\nBut it sounds to me like you're trying to find a reason to break up with Alex, who is so far away right now.  Just tell him honestly that a long distance relationship isn't what you need right now.\n\nGo be single for a bit, have fun and the next love of your life will completely fall into your lap when you're least expecting it.
557311
One of the best guys I ever dated was not the best looking, in fact he was kind of ugly!!  But he was the most fun guy ever!!  We are friends still 20 yrs out of high school and he is really, really successful!!  I say make your move, worst that will happen is you flatter him, but don't sit back and let the opportunity pass you by!!\nBy the way I was a junior and he was a senior when we dated!!