I met this girl through a friend and a group of us partied late as hell. We shared a cab and when we got off the taxi I had a chance to go for a kiss. Is it bad that I thought it was too early to go for a kiss since I just met the girl? I want to keep this one. Not just a one time hookup.
137733
Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
334522
Maybe she just thinks that if yous start making out it'll lead to sex and maybe she just doesnt feel like having sex. Just let her know all you wanna do is kiss "causse it makes you feel more connected to her". Or maybe your just a bad kisser, i'd try the first and if its a no-go then i'd consider the second. Goodluck.
623984
The clause "how long after you date a man" is the correct one, however, as several people pointed out, the second part should be in question form: "is he allowed to kiss you?"\n\nHowever, at least according to dating behaviour in my culture (I'm Canadian, Catholic but not especially religious--I've also been with my husband for years), it doesn't make much sense. The question implies that you and the man have one date, and then at some point after that one date (the question is asking how long after) he is allowed to kiss you. Presumably the idea is really: "How long after you start dating a man".\n\nNow, if you are the one doing the allowing (as opposed to, for example, your parents or a chaperone), it would be better to ask "do you allow him to kiss you?"--but again, that may depend on your culture.\n\nSo in the end: How long after you start dating a man, is he allowed to kiss you?\n\nOr else: How long after you start dating a man, do you allow him to kiss you?
242288
Are you more concerned that SHE will think it's too fast and get scared or is it YOU that doesn't want her to think you're that into her just yet? If YOU are the one not ready to give her that impression, I wouldn't invite her to the concert. But, if you don't care then I don't think that a 3rd date is too soon to meet your friends. Besides, it's a concert with thousands of other people around, not a small dinner party where she might feel uncomfortable being the "new girl".
129529
I've met a lot of people on a dating website.  Some guys are just on it to find some girl that they can have sex with.  Some guys are on there to find mr/mrs right.  I have met both types.  I met my current boyfriend off of a dating website, and I can see me being with him for the long haul.  We talked a fair amount online, then we started chatting on MSN, and then we talked ont he phone.  It sounds a little funny but our first date, wasn't that much of a normal date (movie/coffee), I needed a lift to our mall, cause my vehicle was busted and needed to get fixed and he offered me the ride.  We have almost been together ever since and talk every day.  You just have to be careful, and don't let the bad ones ruin it for you.
364220
A few years ago, but never really acted on it. I have kissed other girls, but nothing else. I wish I would have acted on those feelings when I was younger and had the chance. I think a few of my girl-friends would have been into if we would have known what it was at the time. Oh the memories of youth I could have had! What about you? How far have you gone?
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Aww, bummer...but yea, I think it may have been too soon...but another thing is that while yes, age is nothing but a number, this is typically a critical time in both of your lives/ages - youre just getting your feet wet in all the fun (and not so fun) stuff life as an "adult" has to offer, and she's just getting her feet wet in her sexual peak (which can last for several more years if she's lucky!!). While it was more than likely really fun, exciting, etc., you guys are probably on different planes in life, and these things are better explored (have your fun!!) before jumping into something more serious, such as moving in, etc.\n\nSorry it didnt work out :-(
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there is nothing wrong with not dating until you are your age. i had never even kissed a guy until a was older than you. your father is right that girls do not need a romantic ride to the movies, you just need a ride in general. everyone gets rejected at some point in life, you just have to take a chance.
422257
Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
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I don't think you are prude.  You are just fine.  Don't let dictate how you run your life.  When YOU are ready to kiss then you will.  Don't let anyone rush you.  Experiences like that should be savored.  If you do it get to get it over with you won't really enjoy it.
618743
weird that you had a girlfriend but never kissed her?  So now that you are back with her you are wondering if you should kiss her?  You have got to be a kid.  If i were dating someone and they never kissed me I would dump them
90410
yes you were wrong to kiss him. this is why i believe the whole guy and girl friendship thing does not work. and now its too late to go back whether you wanted to ruin the relationship or not its going to happen cause you took things too far to begin with. so just tell him the truth and hopefully things will work out
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I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something. \nBut that is my opinion.\n:)\nEmail me.
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If you recently met this guy you have to be a liitle patient and not just enter a relationship with him. Do you personally know why he travels so frequently? You ahve to be careful when its comes to this type of situation. All I can say is to be a little patient and do not rush into anything.
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hmmm.... I guess it's all in the factors of the scenarios.  When the cops pull you over, do you have drugs or alcohol in the vehicle, or were you just speeding?  If you were just speeding, it's a costly nusciance but if you have other things, then you're in trouble.  And, the opposite sex person, is it someone you are really into, have put in alot of yourself in the relationship, or is it someone you are initially interested in?  hmmm... I think I'd rather be pulled over for a speeding ticket (it's not as embarrasing and doesn't give you that blah rejection feeling)
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You were waiting for her call???  What was stopping you from calling her? DUMMY!\nNow she's invited you for a date and you're thinking of brushing her off???  Idiot!!!\nDon't you get it? She's taken the initiative by calling you, since you were too busy trying to figure her ways.\nNow, go with her, before you blow your second chance!!!
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I say any time after the first day I met you. Even the day after would be okay. As you can see from the array of responses you've received, every girl is different. Go with what you think is best but I would say give it, at most, two days. Anything after that, she's forgotten all about you. I hope this helps! :)