omg god it was the greatest we went to the mall he bought me alot of clothes,jelwery, then we went to the movies and saw some movie we went back to his apartment by the way im 16 and he is 18 going on 19. and we were both scared to make a move he asked me was i scared yea i did admit i was scard but he was gentel and said nothings wrong  we know each other and do you know just right then and there his boys came over,so should i set another date or just wait?
131832
Go for it, make another date, sounds fun
401257
Well I would say that you did the right thing by not giving your number and also saying no about the Homecoming thing  becuase he is probably no good maybe  why would he ask one girl and another ona date or what ever you want to talk it  . To tell the truth he may be a guy that messes with  one to many girls at one time. SO give yourself a pat on the back becuase you did the right thing or maybe I could be wrong jsut see how he acts alittle while longer and if things seem ok to you then go for it the best of luck  \n\n\nhere is my email if you need more advice  daniellepapillion@yahoo.com
420737
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
629512
you shouldn't worry. so your boyfriends are 20 and 23, so what? your 17. It's okay.At least they're only a little older that you. If you like older guys than date older guys. Just not guys that are over the age of 27, not yet. Live life to the fullest. Enjoy it. \n\n   Yours truly, \n            pinkockstylish
453440
No.  You are too young for dating.  Where is your mother?!!! And why aren't you in bed in feety pajamas?  If you were my daughter I'd have this boy Kevin by the neck.  And you on a leash.  Nice girls don't date until much older and if you think this boy is looking for love you are a little kid.  Boys are looking for more always.  Once this little boy gets it, he'll leave you and tell his friends.  Be a nice girl and listen to the radio and worry about this when you are 16.  Give your parents a break too.  And stay off the computer!!!!!!!!!
124613
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
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wow he cooked damn! id buy a diamond ring (fugazi of course i aint dat rich) than cook, shiet i have a hard time making peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches. but seriously what he did for you was nice but you are right being 21 is special so for me as a man if my girl was turning 21 id try to make it special for her in anyway. gifts arent always the best present its what you do, if he just cooked and then took you out to drink then it seems he didnt try hard enough (and i know how you women get turned on when we try hard especially for you believe me i know lmao) which is ashame because it sounds like it was a first date than a birthday celebration. im not saying that he doesnt love you or anything but damn 2 years he couldve done all that in the house i mean whats so hard cooking a romantic dinner with candle lights rose pedals and bubble baths u know the works, secondly he shouldnt have never taken you out for drinks he couldve done it at the house wit some champagne and some isley brothers man its ova damn i should write a book lol but nah on a serious tip u seem like a nice person and i know you will do whats right  but i just which your boyfriend had more respect and appreciation which u deserve. its guys like him that makes it hard for other guys like me in the world.
84190
It depends really on your, resources and how old you are. Like if you can't drive yet, if there is a school trip or something, hang out and sit close. Or if you want like a more datish situation I'd start with just going out with some friends. (Or hint, hint an older sibling, if you have one.) Like a group or double date. You might want to pick somewhere were you're comfortable and can talk first, instead of jumping into the movie scene, where there would be major pressure and little emotional connection. \n  As for how I acted towards them, hmm... can't I just not answer? lol. *blush* At first I would so destroy the conversation, I got massively nervous, but some how I would manage to find something to say. Oh well, he was shy too so we would end up laughing at eachother. But then you get used to eachother, so even though they still give you butterflies to where you lose all ability to think, you aren't as worried about how you act, and are more normal towards them. \n  What I did was started to call him several nights a week to get to know him, and figure eachother out. Yall I know it's so much easier to say than do. But after awhile you get use to it, he'll call you, and you won't be able to go to sleep without talking to eachother first. Eventually, you'll know if you're right for eachother and your going out just kind of happens, you just need to confirm it with eachother. It worked for me, and we've been going out for over a year or two.
474818
I'm sure You didn't scare him away....the one thing I can tell you from experience is Just be yourself...most guys like it when you don't have to fake who are with them!
54345
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex
64705
I think that he wab=nted to ask you out cause he was acting retarded and stuff. good luck
227501
You know we all didnt want to do something Stupid in life. I guess you shouldn`t have told him like I told a kid that I like him he is weird around me. He just doesnt run away cause we go to the same school. Anyways Good luck
515762
I met my boyfriend the same way.. but we were both the same age and i trusted him. We met up and have been together for 6 monthes now! But it's probably not safe to meet him unless you friends first of all, and i would talk to him on the phone first. Don't trust people until you at least talk to them on the phone and know them first. If your parents and frinds don't know this could very dangerous. If you really really really like him I recommend waiting longer If he really likes you he will wait until your older and try to get closer. He should meet you don't go to meet him.
506492
I don't know that there's much you can DO except be disappointed and tell him that you are. What did he say he had to do instead(if anything?) Does he make a habit of this or was this your first date? Did he seem to like being with you during the 2 hours or did he seem to be in a hurry to be elsewhere? These are questions you have to ask yourself or him. Personally, if somebody makes a promise to me it's a BIG black mark against them if they don't keep it without  a good excuse!
140030
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
544431
First of all you should actually talk to him. That was not a very productive conversation. So you should give him a call when you are by yourself, in your room, and see what he has to say. Always rely on yourself though, not what other people say. If Zack said "Kinda" then you probably have a good chance. So like I said, call him when you are both alone, with no one else around or nearby and talk about whatever it is that you want to talk about. Remember it's always good not to talk about yourself all the time. Ask him questions, figure him out. Ask him have he likes to do on his spare time, what he likes/dislikes etc. (e.g. ask him about his day and what he plans to do the next day). It might be a good idea to invite him out for a movie or something if you really like this guy. Personally, If a girl that I like askes me to hang out or whatever I'd really like that, because guys have all the pressure to take the initiative and ask the girl out etc.; that really sucks; is not cool cause some guys are really shy. Very important: Be urself, dont try to be someone that ur not. However, it's ok to lie here and there but keep it minimal. Good luck girl!!!!
72806
Sounds like he likes you....and don't be so anxious to grow up, have sex and all that jazz.  I know you feel as a teenager that your life stinks and you want more freedom...but trust me... you have 5 yrs left to be a teenie bopper b4 you have responsibilities and bills and you get to do that for 50+ years!! Try to enjoy this time and take it SLLLLLOOOOOOOOOWWWWW :)  best of luck hun!