was friends w/ a guy since junior high, we lost touch about 3 years ago and I found his wish list on amazon. So i sent him a small token (CD) and note w/ my phone #. Is 3 yrs way too long to get in touch w/ someone? Or will he think I'm a total psycho?
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Hey .. Dont think like that .3 yrs are not  at all a long time .In fact he will be happy ..U had contacted him ..He will value ur friendship :) .. Keep posting if  u got some reply ;)
61291
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
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It's too late to second guess, you already mailed the letter. I wouldn't have done that, personally. I really think that if he wanted it to go past friendship, he would've let you know before; I'm sorry sweetie, but I'm afraid you're gonna end up feeling hurt and embarrassed that you did this. I would forget about having a relationship with this guy.....
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Talking daily over what sort of period of time? I usually won't consider meeting someone unless I've known them for more than six months. Another important question is: how old are you, and how old are they?\n\nEdit: Hmm, same age, and both male. From this information, it looks like you (physically) are not more vulnerable than they are, which lessens my concern of internet predation.\n\nStill, 3 months is a bit early. I'd certainly wait. You are old enough to make your own decisions, but if you do decide to meet this person, I would recommend having a close friend hang out with you for the first get-together or two, to be safe. \n\nI also recommend that he only come up for a short time--no more than a couple days, because if it turns out that you don't get along as well in person, you aren't stuck with them for too long. And, of course, if it turns out you do get along well, you can just arrange another meeting.
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I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
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If your sitt-n around waiting for him to contact you..take control of the situation now.If you have his e-mail address..send him a note,telling him you had a nice time.Ask him if it was a :thumbs up"time are a "thumbs"down time.It's so much easier and faster than sitting and waiting.I have done this and it work's great.It will either set-u-free...are get thing's roll-n.Try it.
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i was scammed on there last year. you won't find him, theres too many people scamming. if you do, send him my regards. \ni worked on my account since i was 13, i was 18 when i lost everything. i never talked to anyone on there though, i especialy wouldn't e-mail anyone.
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I don't know if this is what you want, but I went to 123greetings.com and helped you to send an ecard to your friend on your behalf.\n\nI guess you're pretty new to the internet and have trouble using it. but don't worry! you'll get used to it soon enough!\nhope i was of some help!\nI chose this ecard cos it was quite cute. the message in it goes like this : \nAMMI,\nyour friendship gives me a reason to smile everyday!\ni'm so lucky to have a friend like you!\n\nand there is a flower smiling at the background!just click on the link below to see the ecard! i've already sent it!
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If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
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Firstly if I were you, I wouldn't call at 7:00. Have you been keeping contact with him throughout the month, or is this the first you've heard from him? If it is the first you've heard from him, I would most definitely not call until like..... 8:15 - 8:45. Make it seem like you haven't been waiting for him, and that you've got better things to do than abide to his schedule. \n\nAs for what to say to him..................... if y'all are still cool,  I don't think it should matter, talk to him like he was just another friend. But again, if I WERE YOU (lol) I wouldn't say much, and I'd give off a "what-is-it-you-need-from-me" kinda attitude.\n\nYa. I'm rude. \n"You must not know 'bout me, you must not know 'bout me............" lol
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I would say let him look for you.. I don't know the terms that you guys are in right now.. But if you guys are only friends and haven't been giving each other hopes then I don't see anything wrong if you call him first.. But you still don't want to look desperate, let some time pass.. Call him next day or if he gets there in the morning then call him at night..
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I've been married for 14 years and have continuously thought of my first true love.  Just about 2 months ago I came across his email address and contacted him through email.  Yea, he's married but is so glad that I contacted him.  I'm still his true love although he's now married as well as myself.  We email and occassionally he calls me.  It was such a relief to finally be able to talk with him.  He lives hours away, but we email each other daily.  So, I'm telling you, contact her.  You'll be glad you did.
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i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
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There are still some good guys left.\nThere is nothing wrong with him holding on to a happy time in his life. He and his wife obviously have trust for eachother and because he holds no grudges against you means that he rather have you as a friend that not at all in his life. Because he took so much time to contact you probably meant he is finally fully over you and wants to complete that with sharing his happy times with you and also make you realise that its ok to be friends.\nSo go for it but don;t expect more than a very good friend.\nGood luck!
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Happens to me too. I often lose touch because a friend just stops sending. Most are going through a period of "mini depression" and then get embarrassed as they don't want to admit that and so they just stop contact cold.  You all out there need to learn that I love you no matter what as long as you are not a thug, gangsta, gang member, molester, or one of those assorted criminals. Hit me up and I'll keep up contact except in my own personal "mini depressions" and then I come right back to you. Friends are there for true friends always and in all ways.
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hey... go for him... i never have because iam to shy but that doesn't mean you shouldn't... you answered one of my questions before about my friend. I tried to email you cause you wanted to see a pic of me but it wont let me... thanks for your advice!
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If he continued to call you after the break up, then it sounds like he wasn't ready to give up either. Or, maybe he enjoyed being in a friendship w/ you, and when you told him your feelings, it freaked him out. Either way, I'd try to get in contact w/ him to see what's going on. It seems odd to me that he would leave you hanging like that, so maybe something happened to him...try calling. If you get in touch w/ him, and he simply doesn't want to talk to anymore, then yes, it gets better. True love never fades, but it does alter and changes over time. Just give it some time. Good luck to you!