Right-o. Well this is a long one so bear with me! Lol!\n\nMy friend had a party, and she invited this guy that I've liked for a while now (because she likes his brother, yeah yeah yeah...). He hardly talked to me when we were there. :/\n\nThen we had a get-together at my school, and he asked my friend, "Hey, is Slippers here?" She said, "She'll probably be here later." "If she doesn't come, tell her I said hi."\n\nWell, since then I've been trying to drop hints like MAD at him. I told him that I said hi and that he was really good in the school production. THEN our little group was going to get together and go out and he couldn't go so I got my friend to tell him that I was looking forward to seeing him and was sorry he couldn't make it (we don't talk, so you'd think he'd catch the hint). She said he grinned both times, and after the group thing he said to tell me he said hi again.\n\nI haven't scared him away yet but I'm afraid if I ask him out I'll scare him away! Help me please. :(
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try actually talking to him. make the effort to get his screen name or email address! if you don't ever talk to him you won't ever know him
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He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
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Well, that guy definitely has a problem. Tell him to deflate his big head 'cause you never wanted to be his girlfriend anyway. You only wanted to be his friend (am I right about that? I hope I am) for crying out loud. You seem like you were just being friendly. He probably thought too much of himself and got an ego-boost when you started talking to him and everything. Ignore him and show him who's boss. He's a loser.
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Hi Tiera,   well it sounds like this guy is a real jerk. Not trying to be mean or anything just going by everything you said.  Now, as far as your friend goes I believe that you should stick to your guns and be there for her.  If you havent done so already,  I think you should tell her all about this guy and just prepare her for what you might think will happen. Don't try to make her break up with him per say,  but just let her know that you are telling her these things because she is your friend and you dont want to see her hurt.  Thats really all you can do at this point.  Sometimes in life in order for someone realize what they get themselves into they have to learn the hard way.  The only thing you can do is just assure her that you will be there for her no matter what.  She will appreciate you more down the road when she realizes she was wrong and you were right.  Stick to you guns hun, and dont abandon your friend because this is when she is gonna need you the most.  Good luck with everything...........
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I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
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first, asking him for the time is hilarious!  You sound pretty cool!  Hopefully next time hes around you, he will ask you again.  Good luck!
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Okay, do-says and don't-says...\n\nDo-says:\n\n"Hi, I'm _______, a friend of ________."\n\n"I'd like to get to know you, if that's all right with you."\n\n"If you don't want to, I understand, but from what _______ told me, you sound like a pretty cool girl." (or something like that)\n\n"So, you got a name?" (if she hasn't told you)\n\n"So, is there a time that would be good to get together?"\n\n"Well, I look forward to getting to know you! Do you like _____? How about meeting me there?"\n\n"Yeah, and don't worry, if we hate each other, you can just boot me out the door okay?" (say it in a joking way, of course)\n\nDon't says:\n\nDon't say anything about any past relationships that you've had. That's private stuff that will come later, if the relationship between you guys works out, and it will probably make her feel uncomfortable if that's one of the first things that you start talking about.\n\nDon't start immediately blabbing on about you and your life. Leave some room for her too! If you're talking about your favorite sport, keep it short (don't go into the entire game record of your favorite team), and then ask her if she has a favorite sport. Keep her talking, and that will give her the impression that you really do want to get to know her.\n\nDon't lean too heavily on the fact that your friend referred you. In fact, keep from talking about that as much as possible, or it'll sound like you're just doing this because your friend said so, and that would be VERY offensive to her.\n\nBut other than that, be yourself, and have fun! Let her get to know you for who you really are, be friendly and open, and be mindful of everything she says, even if the conversation doesn't last very long. Make it a conversation to remember, but don't try to hard to make it that way, or it will turn out disasterously. Once you get it going, I think you'll be surprised at how natural the words will start coming to you. Especially if she is a nice girl! So just think it over, maybe jot down a few ideas for what to say on a piece of paper, and call her up. Good luck!
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Damn, he should at least say hi.  What a dick.  As far as conversation goes you can keep it to a minimum, which is what I'm sure he wants.  I know it always pisses me off if some girl, regardless who she is, keeps giving me an IM when I'm trying to talk to someone else.  If you got something to talk about, then cool.  If things slow down then back off.\n\nHe should still say hi, unless you all just got off the phone or whatever.
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baby girl, he has his group of friends to deal with @ school. and i'm sure that he also has some else in mind there too. rumors will spread like a wild fire, if someone were to tell that he's talking to you. play this one with caution baby girl. sounds like a player to me.
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i think its pretty cool when girls have there friends do this sort of stuff  for them. i know i don't mid it. i think the best thing to do would not to just say that your friend likes him. juts kinda be like so what do you think of this person. he will probably be like why do You ask. just be like idk just asking. he already knows by now that your friend like him so he will either ignore what your telling him because he doesn't like her or he will go talk to your Friend and stuff.          \n\nthat's how its happen to me before and if the whole thing turns out like i just wrote it down your friend is in good shape
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You know what i actually think that you are worried too much ,and you don`t know may be you`re friend got mixed up !\nIt seems horrible now but you got to just think of the dance and just see what happens on the night !\nI think you should go to dance on friday,it`s up to you now what you want to do ,go with friends  and just don`nt go with any boy  go with a group of girls !\nThis guy is going to be there any way ,dress to thrill! I mean the full works ,go to hairdressers.dress ,everything !!!\nFeel a millon dollars ,have a big smile on you`re face ,dance all night say hello to everyone ,have so much fun !!!\nEvery guy in there will notice you ,and this guy you like, just pretend you didn`t hear any thing before,it could be that s its just gossip  been mixed up or may not be true!!Even if it is true try find a nicer boy,who says nice things to people!\nIf he seems interested on friday at the dance ,don`t seem to desperant !!!Just relax babe ,you are only 16 have fun and if this guy doe`nt seem interested ,you know !!!!his loss !!\nHave you ever heard the phrase "if you don`t love yourself ,how doyou expect others to love you "\nGood luck wee darling it will all work out!have a good time !
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how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
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he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
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I had the same problem with one of my guy friends. He asked me out and I said no and then he wouldnt leave me alone. I just asked out my crush and he said yes so my guy friend left me alone....Hope that I helped
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Sometimes it is best to be straight forward in situations like this.  I know that's easier said than done but with this approach it leaves no room for guessing on his part.  You don't have to be rude but you do have to be honest.  That way he will get the picture and leave you alone for good.  Good luck.\n\nP.S.  I had to do this before and the guy actually thanked me for being honest and we're actually friends now.  He has a girlfriend and everything.