i've fallen in love with my best guy friend.Yesterday i finally worked out the courage to tell him how i feel.I asked him if he liked anyone, he said he liked this girl and that tonight she told him she likes him.I asked if he was going to ask her out. He said maybe, he's not the type to jump into things so quickly.I really care about him bacause of his amazing personality and we get along so well.I toold him i was happy for him, but i'm not. I want to tell him how i feel by friday but am nervous..is it the right thing to do? i was thinking that i have one life to live and have nothing to lose...what should i do????????????
119951
You should tell him because he might have the same feelings for you and is just afraid to admit it! You should take the first step and tell him that you LOVE him! You do only have ONE life to live and you can't lose anything like you said! You should call him or meet him right now and tell him! I know that it's hard because I had the same feelings before. I was going through the same situation that you are right now but I decided to go for it! I know now that I should've told him earlier because he secretly had the same feelings for me! So, go for it! :)
87748
Well I have had this problem, I like this girl and I never told her because we were friends and I lost her. I believe that if I was just honest with her and told her that I like her, and would she like to go out on a date and talk about dating then I believe that we would have dated.\nSo take a chance and ask him out just to talk about you too. Then ask him if he would feel like dating as boyfriend and grilfriend, if he says no then tell him you would like to still be friends but you need to know..\n\nDavid mason
313483
Okay, well I would not ask him out right away, but I would write on a piece of paper the simple words: "I like you". If you do not have the courage to give it to him right away...just wait. If he says "yes", GREAT! If he does not...Well there is someone out there for you. I hope this helps you (oh ya, DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIS FRIEND!!!!! It will make him feel bad, and it will just delay things!)
67782
Hey dont feel bad!! \nYou deserve someone very nice. So wait for the moment. Prepare yourself for meeting someone special so that even he can say that he is with the best girl.
126236
Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
179803
Tell him how you feel.  Otherwise you will miss your moment. If he cares for you at all (even as a friend) it shouldn't damage your friendship.  And atleast you would know if he feels the same way, and if he does (i'd say its a good chance) then you guys could patch things up and move on. Good luck to you sweetie.
607423
hmm..hey, theres nothing to worry abt.. i'd say the best thing wld be to..tell him how u really feel abt him.. u wldnt know..he might actually be interested in you too.. anyway,hes only dating that friend of urs.. see..how things turn out to be..;)..good luck..
314920
Honestly, I think you should tell him how you feel. The only reason I say that is because he is the only person that will give the truth about the situation. If you ask your friends they might lead you into the wrong direction. yes, it's nerve-racking but once you find out the happier and less confused you'll be.
472200
hey mama I am in the exact same position and my guy friend has mentioned he hates when girls make the first move so I am petrified to tell him, I feel like I have to wait for him to come to me. But he is probably thinking the same as you. Whenever drink, stuff happens and I usually spend every day with him and we do everything together. Work out together, party together, occasionally sleep together the whole 9. Whenever we need anything, we're the first ones each other calls. If you figure this out- lemme know!\nLauramr015@yahoo.com
422257
Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
32131
Well first of all what are u wantint to tell him??? If you are wanting to be gf/bf/ then i would say hey look i like you and tell him how i feel and at the end say and i want to know if u feel the same. Look now this is to you dont be scared bc if ur scared then it will go wrong so just take a deep breath and just tell him the only this he can say is i dont feel that way, so just try u will never know how he feels unless u try ight girl go and get ur man
213820
Go for it!!!!! You'll never know what will happen until you tell him how you feel.He could be debating the same thing right now if he likes you too.In my opinion, its better to have told him and he said no, then to have not said anything and have never found out the truth. So, I say go for it. I mean, you only live once; and besides, love waits for no one.
616899
Tell him right away...trust me that is the best thing to do....if you continue to hang on it will be very difficult...a Friend you like is not your friend anymore so the best thing to do is just go up to him and tell him...worst case you get rejected but trust me if your friendship is strong enough it will be ok and i don't have to tell you the best case..SO GO FOR IT.
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i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
46572
ask yourself this what would he do if he was in the same situation. would he tell you or would he let you do what you was going to. if you really feel for him let him know cause you dont know if he feels the same about you... if you are as good as friends as you say you are then you should be able to talk to him and not feel bad by doing it. i told my best friend how i felt and we have been married to 6 years now with 3 kids. good luck
54217
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
336643
that's good you told him, you had to let your feelings out, now ,if he only likes you as a friend let him know it's still OK with you if you'll are still friends.also, if he doesn't show that he likes you back don't feel bad sometimes it is better to have a friendship relationship instead of no relationship at all.but also give him time maybe he likes you too, but has not had a chance to tell you yet.