what to say to a friend who is going through a miscarriage?
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["1. “ I'm so sorry for your loss. ... ", '2. “ Remember you are not alone. ... ', '3. “ I\'m thinking of you."', '4. “ ... ', '5. “ ... ', '“Look on the bright side."', '"You must be devastated."', '“At least you know you can get pregnant."']
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Keep it simple and honest. Express your sorrow, affirm their pain, admit that you can't find the words, and reassure them that you'll keep them in your thoughts. “I'm so sorry.” “I can see that this is very hard on you.” "I don't know what to say." “I'm thinking of you often.”
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['“ My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. ... ', '“I heard the news, my friend. ... ', "“I was deeply saddened to hear about your brother's passing. ... ", "“I'm sorry for your loss. ... ", "“I'm so sorry to hear this sad news."]
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["“I'm not sure exactly what to say, but I want you to know I care.”", '“You are in my thoughts/prayers.”', '“Can I bring you a dinner this week? ... ', '“If you want to talk about him/her, please feel free to call (or text) anytime.”', "“If you need me, I'll be there. ... ", '“My favorite memory with (____) is…”']
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To start a conversation, it can help to say things like 'I know this is very difficult, but maybe it would help if we talked about how we feel, and what the future may bring'. Let them know that you feel sad too. Sharing feelings will help you both cope better.
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['What can I do to help?', 'What do you need from me?', 'You are strong. I believe in you.', 'Do you want to meet up?', 'Would you like to talk about it?', 'I understand how you must be feeling. ... ', "I'm so sorry. ... ", 'How are you feeling?']
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['This is a medical illness and it is not your fault.', 'I am here. ... ', 'You and your life are important to me.', "You're not alone.", 'Tell me how I can help.', "I might not know how you feel, but I'm here to support you."]
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Be honest and genuine. Try simply saying, “I can't imagine how hard this is,” or “I'm so sorry that you're going through this.” Don't always ask how they're feeling. Let them know they can share what they'd like, when they're ready.
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["All good things must come to an end, but here's what I want you to know. ... ", "I'm sorry I hurt you. ... ", 'I cherish our time together. ... ', "I hope you've found an amazing BFF. ... ", "I don't regret it. ... ", 'You helped make me the woman I am.']
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Give the person space to explain what they are going through. Let them tell you how they feel. Avoid rejecting the person's experiences and feelings. Try not to lessen how they feel.
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['“Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.”', '“Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”', '“I wish you healing and peace.”', '“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”', '“We are so sorry for your loss.”', '“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.”']
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Loss Of A Coworker Sympathy Card Messages “I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you.” “May (name) rest in peace. ... “Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain.”
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['Thank you for your sympathy and kindness.', 'We deeply appreciate your expression of sympathy.', 'Thank you for your support at this difficult time.', 'Thank you for your prayers and thoughts.', 'We are grateful for friends like you at this time of sorrow.']
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["“I'm here for you.” Show up for your loved one and remain by their side as they go through this process. ... ", '“You are in my thoughts and prayers.” ... ', '“This stinks.” ... ', '“Let me help you with…” ... ', 'Tell a Joke. ... ', '“You are not alone.” ... ', "“Any time you need to talk, I'll listen.” ... ", '“What day works for a visit?”']
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It's normal after a miscarriage to feel tired, sad, or to cry. If it lasts more than a few weeks or if you feel overwhelmed by your loss, talk to your family doctor or a grief counsellor. You may also benefit from a support group where you can meet others who have experienced a similar loss.
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It's common to feel tired, lose your appetite and have difficulty sleeping after a miscarriage. You may also feel a sense of guilt, shock, sadness and anger – sometimes at a partner, or at friends or family members who have had successful pregnancies. Different people grieve in different ways.
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['“Can I bring you a meal?” ... ', '“I know how much you loved this baby. ... ', '“Remember to be kind to yourself. ... ', '“Our entire family grieves with you.” ... ', '“You and _______ are in my heart.” ... ', "“I love you, and I'm so sorry you are going through this pain.”"]