what to say to a friend who lost her husband?
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What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
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If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
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['#1: That stinks! I am so sorry that you have to go through this. ... ', "#2: I'm here for you. ... ", "#3: It's not your fault. ... ", '#4: Things will never be same, but the pain and sadness will eventually lessen. ... ', '#5: God still loves you and your family.']
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["“I'm so sorry that you are going through this. ... ", '“Despite all the troubles in the world, I hope you are doing well.” ... ', '“My heart is breaking for you. ... ', '“You are important to me. ... ', '“I recently heard about your loss. ... ', '"Are you okay?”']
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“You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers” will work if it's true. “I will miss your mother; she touched my life in so many ways” is a good opening for writing about ways that she touched your life.
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I/We am/are truly sorry to hear of the loss of (insert Name of deceased here.). Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you and hasten the journey of his/her soul to Heaven. ... In this tough time in your life, may my/our friendship, sympathy and heartfelt condolences bring you comfort.
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"I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example. Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I'm willing to help in any way."
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Admit you're not sure what to say, but that you support your friend and love them even when they're sad. Tell them that in good times, too. You don't need a reason to show a friend you value her.
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['“I\'m so sorry for your loss. I\'m here for you."', '2. “ Remember you are not alone. ... ', '3. “ I\'m thinking of you."', '4. “ I love you so much and I imagine you feel [awful] right now, but I just had to remind you of how wonderful I think you are."', '5. “']
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Express your concern. For example: “I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you.” Let the bereaved talk about how their loved one died. People who are grieving may need to tell the story over and over again, sometimes in minute detail.
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['Write down your heart. This is almost always my first response to pain, grief, sadness, or any strong emotion or reaction. ... ', 'Find the blessings. ... ', 'Make time to heal. ... ', 'Take action. ... ', 'Share your heart.']
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["This is such a tragedy. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I'm so sorry you're going through this.", "I can't believe Sam is gone. You must be devastated. I just wanted to say that I'm here for you.", "I'm thinking of you. This is so unexpected and so sad."]
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['It can be hard to directly express deep feelings to someone else, but now is the time to do it. Tell your friend you love her and will miss her.', 'Sometimes "goodbye" is too hard to say. A hug and a sincere smile will tell your friend everything she needs to know.']
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['“Can I bring you a meal?” ... ', '“I know how much you loved this baby. ... ', '“Remember to be kind to yourself. ... ', '“Our entire family grieves with you.” ... ', '“You and _______ are in my heart.” ... ', "“I love you, and I'm so sorry you are going through this pain.”"]
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['Let them grieve in their own way. ... ', 'Let them express a wide range of emotions. ... ', 'Give them some slack. ... ', 'Encourage them to have healthy outlets to help relieve the pain they feel. ... ', 'Let them remember and celebrate with others. ... ', 'Let them get help.']
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“Your father meant the world to me. I am filled with pain and grief over his loss.” “I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know how I can help during this difficult time.”
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I am sorry on the sad demise of your grandmother. My deepest condolences on the death of your grandmother. In this sorrowful time, may the love of family and friends comfort you. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult loss.